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- Whoo!
- Oh, my God!

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This is going
to be a fun week, I think.

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It's gonna be a great week.

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Yep.

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It is a new week
here in Melbourne, Australia,

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{\an8}and I am feeling amazing.

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There was a rose ceremony
last night

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so that leaves 15 of us.

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So I'm feeling blessed
to be a part of that 15.

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There's probably going to
be some group dates happening,

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maybe a one-on-one happening.

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So I'm just hoping this week
brings more time with Jenn.

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{\an8}Maybe get another kiss in, man.

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{\an8}I'm-- I'm missing
my girl right now.

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I was really happy
to see Jenn last night.

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After a week of kind of
some B.S. here and there,

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last night was, for
the most part, a good time.

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I hope, as a group,
we can all agree

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that our focus
does not need to be

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beef with each other
or issues with each other.

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The focus should be Jenn.

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Last night at the cocktail
party, things escalated

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and were taken to a level
they didn't need to be taken

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to between Sam M.,
Thomas, and Devin.

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You pulled me aside and said,
"I need to see <i>you</i> right now."

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Shut the [bleep] up, bro.

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I think everybody that was
a part of that conversation--

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Why are you speaking
for everybody?

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I've had conversations
with everybody.

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So, this week, I'm hoping

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that we're able to set
our differences aside

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{\an8}and make the most of the time
that we have with this woman,

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{\an8}because she deserves it.

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Guys, I got a date card.

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Despite what happened
with Thomas

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and all the drama last night,

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I am excited to go
on a date with Jenn

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because I am confident
in-- in our connection.

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It's real, and a lot of people,
I think,

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are just hoping it's real,
but I know it's real.

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I have a good feeling
about Jenn,

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and it's not just words
with her.

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It's-- it's body language.

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It's the way she looks at me.
You know?

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It's the way that she looks
at my lips when I'm talking.

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So I know that there's
a very real possibility

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I'm going on this date.

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"Spencer...

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can our love
take us higher?"

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All right!
Hey, there we go.

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"Love, Jenn."

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All right.

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I'm on top of the freaking
world right now.

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All right, guys,
I guess it's time

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to go get ready for my date.
I'll see you all soon.

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Going into this date today,

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I'm feeling excited,
I'm feeling hopeful.

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Jenn's special, and this could
be the potential first date

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with my future fiancée,
so I can't wait to see her.

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I'm elated that we're staying
in Melbourne for another week.

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This week, we have one
one-on-one date

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and two group dates.

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And, today, I'm so excited

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because I have a one-on-one
date with Spencer.

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Hey! How are you?

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How are you doing?

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{\an8}How are you?

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Since night one,
Spencer's always been one

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to be really attentive
towards me.

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And he has golden retriever
energy, which I'm digging.

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He brings out, like,
a goofy side of me.

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Like, I can be myself with him,
and I love that feeling.

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All right, so I have
a really fun day planned for us.

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Are you ready to find out
what we're doing?

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- Absolutely.
- Okay. Let's go.

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- Okay. Let's go.
- We're doing something

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that I've never done before,

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but it's an exhilarating date
and will definitely be romantic.

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Surprise!

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Serious?!
Is this your first time--

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Have you ever rode in--
- Never been in a helicopter.

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Never been in a helicopter.

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So, today, my hope is that
he continues to put me first.

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- Yeah, ma'am.
- Thank you.

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Yes, of course.

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Because that's what I've been
missing from past relationships.

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And I'm hoping,
by the end of the day,

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I can truly see him as someone

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that I would want
to spend my life with.

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Take it-- grab--
There we go.

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- Thank you.
- Uh-huh.

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And then we got this one
over your right shoulder.

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Oh, perfect.

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Aah! I don't know if I like -
- Oh, don't worry.

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We're here for it.
We're here.

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Taking off in
my first helicopter ride,

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I did get a little bit
of nerves,

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but, you know,
Spencer's right there

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and makes me feel comfortable.

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Wow.

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It's so pretty.

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It's gorgeous.

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Melbourne is a gorgeous city
from up above.

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A guy and a girl
in a helicopter in Melbourne.

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But I have a big surprise.

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We're going out of Melbourne
along the

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Great Ocean Road
to the 12 Apostles.

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It's one of the most beautiful
places in all of Victoria.

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This is so pretty.
- Oh, my gosh.

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I don't know if it gets
any better than this.

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Aah!

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We're in a helicopter,
and I got Jenn with me?

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{\an8}That's the biggest win
a guy can get. I'll take it.

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Watch this.

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Hot.
- Hot, uh-huh.

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- That was really hot.
- I try to do what I can.

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I'm just excited to spend
more time with Jenn.

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And, today, I want to show her
the man I am

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and what I have to offer

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and the man
I'd be in a marriage.

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- This is gorgeous.
- A toast to a beautiful woman,

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a beautiful view,
and a beautiful future.

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- Cheers.
- Cheers, cheers.

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Oh, my God, we're approaching
the 12 Apostles!

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This is crazy.
- This is insane.

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How does that even form?

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This is so surreal.

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We're flying over
the 12 Apostles,

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which is these
beautiful limestone cliffs

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that I've never seen
before in my life.

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Oh, look at that!

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But with all this
beautiful scenery,

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my main focus right now
is this woman to the left of me.

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This is the best day ever.

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I know.
It is.

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Spencer, he put
my seat belt on for me,

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he pours my champagne for me.

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And, you know, Spencer's been
a safe space for me all day,

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and I'm excited to see
what tonight brings,

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because this is a feeling
that I want to stay in.

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Like, this is what I want.

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Do you think Spence
is gonna get a rose?

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I hope he does well,

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and then I hope Jenn makes
the best decision for herself.

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- Yeah.
- I always boil it down

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to the fact that, like,
if Jenn is happy

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with who we are as people
and keep us here

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for this reason, like,
who is anybody else to judge?

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Devin's an instigator, man.

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We've known that.
You know, like, yo,

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let's keep the main thing
the main thing.

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We've said it a million times.

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Devin is a guy that likes
to talk about other people

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as well as himself.
Like [bleep] Devin.

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I don't like him at all, so why
would I want to align myself

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with someone who has nothing
in common with me?

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He's just an ankle-biting
dog, you know?

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And if I see in Jenn
what I really think I see,

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there's no way that she can
really grow

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with a guy like Devin

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and a guy like me
at the same time.

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- Preach.
- I'm always gonna keep

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the main thing
the main thing.

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My main thing is Jenn.

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As long as we can continue
to keep the focus on her

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and not the little ankle-biter,

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you know, that's nipping
at my heels,

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we're gonna be
just fine, man.

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There's no doubt in my mind

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I'm at the end
of all of this with Jenn.

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{\an8}So Devin isn't worth a second
of my breath or my energy.

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He's smooth with his words and,
like, I'm smooth with these.

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Okay.
Okay. How cool is this?

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Like, take it in.
- I know.

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{\an8}Up until this dinner, I've
been so excited for every moment

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{\an8}because every moment's
been fun banter,

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it's been cocktail parties
and helicopter rides.

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So pretty.
Wow.

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But going into this dinner,
I'm nervous for the first time.

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Thank God I'm wearing a black
suit because I'm sweating.

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Thank you.

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Tonight, I'm planning
to share something

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that... it's not easy
for me to share.

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To finding that ferocious love.
- I like that.

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Cheers.
- Cheers.

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It's not easy for me
to be vulnerable.

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So I hope that I can find the
courage in myself to open up.

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I think it's been
such a surreal day,

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but, like, when you take it
all away,

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like, the most surreal part
for me

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has been how amazing
you've been all day.

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You're just, like,
such a gentleman.

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And, for me, it's really about
the little things and, like,

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you know,
opening the door for me

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and helping me with my seatbelt.

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And you've just, like, really
made me feel cared for today.

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And that's not something
I feel a lot

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in a lot of my relationships.

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I think I've had a lot
of really toxic relationships.

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And I want to let you know,

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like, how grateful I am
that you were here today.

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That definitely resonates
with me a lot,

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um, in like,
past relationships that

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I've been in where I--

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I really have lost myself a lot.
- Mm-hmm.

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In what ways?

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Yeah. So I--
I've been engaged before.

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- Okay.
- Uh, we...

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bought a house together.
It was like--

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I, like, saw that as my future,
you know?

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And, one day, it's like two
months before the wedding.

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We picked the venue,
done all the stuff,

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and she came back
from a trip

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and ended up grabbing some stuff
and saying, "I need to--

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I need time to think
about things.

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I'm-- I'm going
to my parents' house,"

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and I'm sitting there,
and I'm trying to--

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"Okay. I'm going to try
to give you your time."

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In the same regard,
I'm like, this is my future.

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This is what I think, uh, is
going to be the rest of my life.

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- Right.
- So I'm--

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I'm a little stressed.
And then, one night,

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I'm sitting there,
my mind's racing.

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I can't fall asleep,
and it's like, 3:00 a.m.

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I started uncovering things

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that, you know,
there was cheating.

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And, to this day, still
don't know the extent of it.

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When I found out that my ex
was cheating on me,

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it was dark for a while.

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I didn't know when
the sun was coming up.

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It was a hard punch to take.

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It was really hard to be
able to get back up after it.

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The worst was sitting in it and
having to acknowledge the fact

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that someone that I had,

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like, this complete trust in,
I was betrayed.

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- Right, right.
- And, um...

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it was rough
for a little while...

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- Yeah, yeah.
- ...like, after that,

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because I was kind of just left
to-- to pick up the pieces.

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Um, sorry that you had
such a-- a traumatic experience

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with your previous relationship.
I can sympathize with you.

242
00:11:19,429 --> 00:11:24,017
Do you feel like, I guess, like,
after your engagement,

243
00:11:24,017 --> 00:11:26,520
like ending,
is there an inherent, like,

244
00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,022
distrust that you have,

245
00:11:29,022 --> 00:11:31,566
or, like, do you feel like
you're at a place in your life

246
00:11:31,566 --> 00:11:34,528
where you're ready
for an engagement again?

247
00:11:34,528 --> 00:11:36,905
Or is that something
that kind of scares you now?

248
00:11:36,905 --> 00:11:39,408
Yeah, no,
that's totally fair.

249
00:11:39,408 --> 00:11:43,829
I-- It took some time
after everything ended for me

250
00:11:43,829 --> 00:11:48,625
to get to a place where
I could see that relationship

251
00:11:48,625 --> 00:11:52,295
for what it actually was.
And now, more than ever,

252
00:11:52,295 --> 00:11:55,173
after being able to learn
everything about myself

253
00:11:55,173 --> 00:11:57,467
that I have over
the past four years,

254
00:11:57,467 --> 00:11:59,094
yes, I'm very ready.

255
00:12:00,804 --> 00:12:03,849
Yeah. Does anything
about it scare you at all?

256
00:12:03,849 --> 00:12:05,809
It doesn't scare me.

257
00:12:05,809 --> 00:12:11,106
Like I said, I--
I jump in 100%,

258
00:12:11,106 --> 00:12:13,191
especially
when it comes to love.

259
00:12:13,191 --> 00:12:18,238
I'm more ready than ever
to be engaged again,

260
00:12:18,238 --> 00:12:20,240
to have my person,
to start my life,

261
00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,159
and start building
something with someone

262
00:12:22,159 --> 00:12:24,077
and have that person
that's in my corner

263
00:12:24,077 --> 00:12:27,164
and I'm in their corner
and it's us against anything

264
00:12:27,164 --> 00:12:31,042
and everything in front of us,
and I'm-- I'm ready.

265
00:12:31,042 --> 00:12:33,336
No, I love that about you.
And I felt that about you today.

266
00:12:33,336 --> 00:12:35,172
I felt like you
were so open today.

267
00:12:35,172 --> 00:12:38,091
And so, I don't know,
you were just great with me,

268
00:12:38,091 --> 00:12:40,677
and I'm excited.

269
00:12:46,183 --> 00:12:49,394
I feel like today has been
a surreal day,

270
00:12:49,394 --> 00:12:52,022
and I think tonight
what it really showed me

271
00:12:52,022 --> 00:12:55,025
was we can be our most authentic
selves with each other,

272
00:12:55,025 --> 00:12:57,694
and to be able
to share things

273
00:12:57,694 --> 00:12:59,988
that we don't normally
share with other people.

274
00:12:59,988 --> 00:13:01,865
And I'm really excited.

275
00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:06,786
So, Spencer,
will you accept this rose?

276
00:13:06,786 --> 00:13:09,247
- Always. Absolutely.
- Okay.

277
00:13:13,376 --> 00:13:15,003
I'm feeling
on top of the world.

278
00:13:15,003 --> 00:13:17,631
I feel the best
I can remember feeling

279
00:13:17,631 --> 00:13:20,342
in a long time.
To have this rose

280
00:13:20,342 --> 00:13:24,262
as a token of Jenn acknowledging
what I've been through

281
00:13:24,262 --> 00:13:26,556
instead of turning away,

282
00:13:26,556 --> 00:13:29,184
it feels like a sign
of acceptance.

283
00:13:29,184 --> 00:13:31,436
- It's gorgeous, no?
- Wait.

284
00:13:31,436 --> 00:13:34,189
After tonight,
I feel more hopeful than ever

285
00:13:34,189 --> 00:13:37,317
that this could result in me

286
00:13:37,317 --> 00:13:38,777
getting down on
a knee again and--

287
00:13:38,777 --> 00:13:40,654
and being engaged.

288
00:13:40,654 --> 00:13:42,572
- We had a really good day.
- Yeah.

289
00:13:42,572 --> 00:13:43,740
What do you think?

290
00:13:46,993 --> 00:13:48,495
Oh, my gosh.

291
00:13:53,291 --> 00:13:55,001
I'm feeling so happy.

292
00:13:55,001 --> 00:13:57,712
Spencer and I have had
similar experiences,

293
00:13:57,712 --> 00:13:59,965
in the fact that we've been
with the wrong people,

294
00:13:59,965 --> 00:14:01,841
and maybe because of that,
you know,

295
00:14:01,841 --> 00:14:04,302
we're able to be
so comfortable with each other.

296
00:14:04,302 --> 00:14:05,971
And that's the type of feeling

297
00:14:05,971 --> 00:14:10,934
that I want
in my forever person.

298
00:14:10,934 --> 00:14:14,521
He just has shown up for me so
much, and it's our first date.

299
00:14:14,521 --> 00:14:18,066
Like, I can't imagine
where else this could go.

300
00:14:24,072 --> 00:14:25,615
Whoo!

301
00:14:25,615 --> 00:14:28,368
Date card, guys.
Date card, date card.

302
00:14:31,454 --> 00:14:33,456
I hope it's me
on this date card

303
00:14:33,456 --> 00:14:36,293
{\an8}because I feel like me
and her, we already connect.

304
00:14:36,293 --> 00:14:38,461
The chemistry's there,
compatibility's there.

305
00:14:38,461 --> 00:14:41,965
So I would love
a one-on-one with her.

306
00:14:41,965 --> 00:14:45,176
Dylan.

307
00:14:45,176 --> 00:14:47,053
Marcus.

308
00:14:47,053 --> 00:14:48,597
Thomas A.

309
00:14:48,597 --> 00:14:50,599
John M.

310
00:14:50,599 --> 00:14:51,766
Grant.

311
00:14:51,766 --> 00:14:53,184
Jonathan.

312
00:14:53,184 --> 00:14:54,728
Sam N.

313
00:14:54,728 --> 00:14:56,313
Thomas N.

314
00:14:56,313 --> 00:14:57,939
Sam M.

315
00:15:01,067 --> 00:15:03,111
Devin.

316
00:15:03,111 --> 00:15:06,698
"I'm looking for a love
Down Under. Love, Jenn."

317
00:15:06,698 --> 00:15:08,408
- Ay.
- Hmm.

318
00:15:08,408 --> 00:15:10,910
Damn. That is a big group
of us right there.

319
00:15:10,910 --> 00:15:13,330
- It's a lot.
- It's a lot of guys.

320
00:15:13,330 --> 00:15:16,333
I'm not real thrilled to
be on the group date with Devin,

321
00:15:16,333 --> 00:15:19,085
but I'm very confident
in my relationship with Jenn.

322
00:15:19,085 --> 00:15:20,920
I don't see any other guy here

323
00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,631
{\an8}getting engaged here
other than me.

324
00:15:22,631 --> 00:15:24,132
Time to get ready
for the group date.

325
00:15:24,132 --> 00:15:26,217
Go, man.
Devin, best of luck,

326
00:15:26,217 --> 00:15:28,928
and look out,
because if it's a competition,

327
00:15:28,928 --> 00:15:31,348
I'm gonna step on your neck.
That's all I know.

328
00:15:43,485 --> 00:15:46,988
I'm feeling very excited
for this group date.

329
00:15:46,988 --> 00:15:49,908
I'm feeling refreshed
going into today.

330
00:15:49,908 --> 00:15:51,618
You know, I had a really
incredible connection

331
00:15:51,618 --> 00:15:53,662
with Spencer last night.
And, you know, all week,

332
00:15:53,662 --> 00:15:55,372
all I've been craving
is some connection,

333
00:15:55,372 --> 00:15:57,165
so it's nice to start
the week off strong.

334
00:15:57,165 --> 00:15:59,626
And I'm excited for that
to continue today.

335
00:15:59,626 --> 00:16:01,127
Sheesh!

336
00:16:01,127 --> 00:16:02,629
So the date card said,

337
00:16:02,629 --> 00:16:05,256
{\an8}"I'm looking for
a love Down Under,"

338
00:16:05,256 --> 00:16:07,676
and I wish Devin
wasn't on this date.

339
00:16:07,676 --> 00:16:10,428
But I think at the end of the
day, it's going to be a test

340
00:16:10,428 --> 00:16:12,555
to see who can keep
the main thing, the main thing.

341
00:16:12,555 --> 00:16:14,891
So my main focus
is my relationship with Jenn.

342
00:16:14,891 --> 00:16:16,935
Let's go.
Baby, let's get it.

343
00:16:16,935 --> 00:16:19,104
Going on this date
with Sam and Thomas,

344
00:16:19,104 --> 00:16:20,689
it sucks being with those guys,

345
00:16:20,689 --> 00:16:22,691
but I don't care
what they think,

346
00:16:22,691 --> 00:16:24,192
because most importantly,

347
00:16:24,192 --> 00:16:25,735
I would love to get
a group date rose.

348
00:16:25,735 --> 00:16:29,280
{\an8}So I'm gonna put
my best foot forward,

349
00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:31,533
{\an8}and I'm gonna make sure
that we have a good time.

350
00:16:31,533 --> 00:16:33,535
{\an8}Whoo!

351
00:16:33,535 --> 00:16:35,120
{\an8}We're at the Forum Theater
in Melbourne.

352
00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:36,579
Jenn is looking phenomenal.

353
00:16:36,579 --> 00:16:37,789
Hello.

354
00:16:37,789 --> 00:16:39,791
- Hello.
- How are you?

355
00:16:39,791 --> 00:16:41,668
But I don't know
what we're going to be doing.

356
00:16:41,668 --> 00:16:43,128
I'm hoping we do Broadway.

357
00:16:43,128 --> 00:16:45,296
The boy can, uh,
have some choir in him,

358
00:16:45,296 --> 00:16:48,550
so I feel like I can definitely
be a possibility. I'm stoked.

359
00:16:48,550 --> 00:16:50,218
Alright, are we excited?
Are you guys excited?

360
00:16:50,218 --> 00:16:52,137
- Yeah.
- Hell yeah.

361
00:16:52,137 --> 00:16:56,182
Today we are at the historic
Forum Theater in Melbourne,

362
00:16:56,182 --> 00:16:58,184
and I'm such a fan
of performance.

363
00:16:58,184 --> 00:17:00,186
Like, I really like
theater and dance

364
00:17:00,186 --> 00:17:01,980
and art and ballet
and all these things.

365
00:17:01,980 --> 00:17:05,358
So I thought today, we'd really
check out a performance

366
00:17:05,358 --> 00:17:07,861
from a local talent group.
What do you guys think?

367
00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:10,530
Yeah.
Oh, yeah, I love that.

368
00:17:10,530 --> 00:17:11,698
Hit it.

369
00:17:13,992 --> 00:17:16,661
Ohh!

370
00:17:16,661 --> 00:17:18,496
Let's go, baby.

371
00:17:18,496 --> 00:17:20,290
All of a sudden,
I see these guys

372
00:17:20,290 --> 00:17:23,710
{\an8}walking out all sexy and stuff.

373
00:17:25,754 --> 00:17:28,965
{\an8}Oh, my--
Oh, no. Here we go again.

374
00:17:28,965 --> 00:17:30,633
Here's something insane.

375
00:17:32,802 --> 00:17:34,554
As soon as I see
these guys onstage,

376
00:17:34,554 --> 00:17:36,765
{\an8}I'm thinking we're gonna
have to strip today.

377
00:17:36,765 --> 00:17:39,809
{\an8}So definitely way
out of my comfort zone.

378
00:17:45,732 --> 00:17:47,442
These sexy guys come out.

379
00:17:47,442 --> 00:17:49,360
Whoo!
They're flexing.

380
00:17:49,360 --> 00:17:50,945
Their pecs are bouncing.

381
00:17:50,945 --> 00:17:54,073
And it's making me feel
extremely nervous.

382
00:17:54,073 --> 00:17:56,576
So, these are my new friends,

383
00:17:56,576 --> 00:18:00,413
the iconic Australian
Thunder from Down Under,

384
00:18:00,413 --> 00:18:02,290
based in Las Vegas,

385
00:18:02,290 --> 00:18:05,376
here today to help me plan
a really special date.

386
00:18:05,376 --> 00:18:06,920
Obviously, being performers

387
00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:08,671
for Australia's Thunder
from Down Under,

388
00:18:08,671 --> 00:18:10,924
we know exactly how
to get bachelorettes excited.

389
00:18:10,924 --> 00:18:13,510
So today, we want you to prove

390
00:18:13,510 --> 00:18:16,638
that you've got what it takes
to be with Jenn.

391
00:18:16,638 --> 00:18:18,598
And tonight you get
your chance to shine

392
00:18:18,598 --> 00:18:20,517
in <i>The Bachelorette's
Love Down Under</i> show.

393
00:18:22,435 --> 00:18:24,854
{\an8}I am mortified when I find out
what we're gonna be doing.

394
00:18:24,854 --> 00:18:27,357
I didn't come here to strip.
I came here for love.

395
00:18:27,357 --> 00:18:30,026
So we're gonna go over
a few of our favorite moves

396
00:18:30,026 --> 00:18:31,444
and try and teach you
a few of them.

397
00:18:31,444 --> 00:18:32,946
So you want to start
with your chest,

398
00:18:32,946 --> 00:18:36,157
come back down and roll it down.

399
00:18:37,700 --> 00:18:39,244
And you can pretend
to hold onto something.

400
00:18:39,244 --> 00:18:42,038
That might help get
a roll going like that.

401
00:18:42,038 --> 00:18:43,790
Yeah.

402
00:18:43,790 --> 00:18:45,875
I actually have seen
male strippers before,

403
00:18:45,875 --> 00:18:47,669
and I've been taking notes.

404
00:18:47,669 --> 00:18:49,462
There's many variations.

405
00:18:49,462 --> 00:18:51,214
You know, you could pretend
you're grabbing someone

406
00:18:51,214 --> 00:18:53,299
and rolling on it like that.

407
00:18:53,299 --> 00:18:56,010
{\an8}Ahh. Yeah. Mm,
Thunder from Down Under, yeah.

408
00:18:57,512 --> 00:18:59,347
Does anyone know
what a dolphin dive is?

409
00:19:03,601 --> 00:19:05,186
Up.

410
00:19:05,186 --> 00:19:07,146
Oh!

411
00:19:07,146 --> 00:19:08,690
There's really not
anything that I won't do.

412
00:19:08,690 --> 00:19:10,358
I don't have any shame.

413
00:19:10,358 --> 00:19:12,277
And I don't really care
about everybody else,

414
00:19:12,277 --> 00:19:13,444
especially Devin.

415
00:19:13,444 --> 00:19:15,446
Oh.
Buckle up.

416
00:19:15,446 --> 00:19:17,282
Oh, no.

417
00:19:17,282 --> 00:19:19,659
Oh, that is way-- That is
way too much body control.

418
00:19:19,659 --> 00:19:21,244
Send it, send it.

419
00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:22,871
I'm definitely nervous.

420
00:19:22,871 --> 00:19:24,706
{\an8}This isn't going to be,
like, my strongest suit.

421
00:19:24,706 --> 00:19:27,041
So I'm going to just
keep going in,

422
00:19:27,041 --> 00:19:29,294
trying to make Jenn laugh
in the best ways possible

423
00:19:29,294 --> 00:19:31,337
and find those little moments
where I can make that connection

424
00:19:31,337 --> 00:19:34,549
because I want her to feel like
she's the main priority for me.

425
00:19:34,549 --> 00:19:36,092
I mean, I think
that she knows that.

426
00:19:36,092 --> 00:19:37,719
I think she can sense it
when we see each other.

427
00:19:37,719 --> 00:19:39,804
I don't know
how to do this one today.

428
00:19:39,804 --> 00:19:42,098
Send it.
- Wait, never mind, never mind.

429
00:19:45,727 --> 00:19:49,439
This hurts. In front
of Jenn, I screwed up my wrist.

430
00:19:49,439 --> 00:19:51,065
{\an8}Maybe not let this be
the first Persian

431
00:19:51,065 --> 00:19:53,818
{\an8}that tries to strip
and dolphin dive.

432
00:19:53,818 --> 00:19:55,612
It was good. It was good.

433
00:19:55,612 --> 00:19:58,907
I feel bad because I didn't
want anyone to get hurt.

434
00:19:58,907 --> 00:20:00,617
I want them to have fun today.

435
00:20:00,617 --> 00:20:02,869
That's what this
is really all about.

436
00:20:02,869 --> 00:20:05,038
But as a woman, you know,

437
00:20:05,038 --> 00:20:07,749
it's important to know
what's down under,

438
00:20:07,749 --> 00:20:11,711
down under their hearts, okay?

439
00:20:14,213 --> 00:20:16,466
Whoo!
- Okay!

440
00:20:16,466 --> 00:20:18,259
Good.
This is awesome.

441
00:20:18,259 --> 00:20:20,303
{\an8}This is putting ourselves
on the line

442
00:20:20,303 --> 00:20:22,972
{\an8}and something fun and exciting.

443
00:20:22,972 --> 00:20:24,766
Whoo!

444
00:20:24,766 --> 00:20:27,518
Okay, Devin.
- Terrible.

445
00:20:27,518 --> 00:20:30,104
The quality of Devin's
relationship with Jenn is

446
00:20:30,104 --> 00:20:32,357
nothing compared to
what I have with her,

447
00:20:32,357 --> 00:20:35,693
{\an8}and I think to be able
to express confidence in an area

448
00:20:35,693 --> 00:20:39,238
like this is going to--
is going to speak volumes.

449
00:20:40,281 --> 00:20:42,241
Oh!

450
00:20:42,241 --> 00:20:44,118
I mean, I think
right now, Sam M. and I

451
00:20:44,118 --> 00:20:47,413
have a very palpable
sexual tension.

452
00:20:47,413 --> 00:20:50,333
Somebody get me a towel.

453
00:20:50,333 --> 00:20:53,169
So now it's time to prepare
for your performances.

454
00:20:53,169 --> 00:20:56,047
But most importantly,
there is going to be one winner,

455
00:20:56,047 --> 00:20:59,217
and they're going to be crowned
Mr. Love Down Under.

456
00:20:59,217 --> 00:21:02,679
But there's a catch.
Out there tonight,

457
00:21:02,679 --> 00:21:06,891
there is going to be a live
audience of screaming fans.

458
00:21:06,891 --> 00:21:10,436
{\an8}So now I'm making myself look
like a fool, not only to Jenn,

459
00:21:10,436 --> 00:21:12,563
but in front of the world.
I'm screwed.

460
00:21:12,563 --> 00:21:15,483
Listen, guys, I'm not looking
for the best striptease.

461
00:21:15,483 --> 00:21:17,193
I'm not looking
for the best abs.

462
00:21:17,193 --> 00:21:18,903
I think what today
is really all about

463
00:21:18,903 --> 00:21:20,655
is showing your personality

464
00:21:20,655 --> 00:21:22,407
and really stepping outside
of your comfort zone.

465
00:21:22,407 --> 00:21:23,992
It's gonna be hard.
It's gonna be a lot.

466
00:21:23,992 --> 00:21:26,786
But I'm so excited
to see you guys kill it.

467
00:21:26,786 --> 00:21:31,124
Let's go backstage, pick out
a costume to match your persona.

468
00:21:31,124 --> 00:21:32,959
And most of all,
let's have a bit of fun.

469
00:21:35,128 --> 00:21:37,922
Hot, hot, so hot.

470
00:21:37,922 --> 00:21:39,924
Where those outfits?

471
00:21:39,924 --> 00:21:42,176
So today we're going
to have a bunch of women

472
00:21:42,176 --> 00:21:43,970
coming and checking us out,

473
00:21:43,970 --> 00:21:46,472
and we're going to be dancing
for a live crowd.

474
00:21:46,472 --> 00:21:48,474
Oh! This is me.
Yep, let's do it.

475
00:21:48,474 --> 00:21:50,268
Does anyone know
how to put overalls on?

476
00:21:50,268 --> 00:21:52,729
{\an8}I'm excited because
working out is my therapy,

477
00:21:52,729 --> 00:21:55,815
{\an8}and I'm often in session.

478
00:21:55,815 --> 00:21:57,608
Okay, gentlemen, don't forget,

479
00:21:57,608 --> 00:21:58,860
protective cups are mandatory.

480
00:21:58,860 --> 00:22:00,403
Here we go.

481
00:22:00,403 --> 00:22:01,821
Wait, can I get
my phone so I can--

482
00:22:01,821 --> 00:22:03,322
See if this looks right.

483
00:22:03,322 --> 00:22:05,366
I genuinely see
something with this girl.

484
00:22:05,366 --> 00:22:08,327
And Jenn's going to look for
commitment to the performance.

485
00:22:08,327 --> 00:22:10,705
I mean, best case scenario
in general is that she loves

486
00:22:10,705 --> 00:22:12,623
that I'm willing to put myself
out there and have fun,

487
00:22:12,623 --> 00:22:14,792
so hopefully she likes it.

488
00:22:14,792 --> 00:22:18,046
Oh, yeah, boy! Oh, yeah!

489
00:22:18,046 --> 00:22:20,048
So it's your thumb?
Yeah.

490
00:22:20,048 --> 00:22:21,549
Damn, bro. I'm sorry.

491
00:22:21,549 --> 00:22:25,595
I strained my right--
my right thumb.

492
00:22:25,595 --> 00:22:28,222
And now I have to dance
in front of a crowd.

493
00:22:28,222 --> 00:22:30,892
{\an8}And it has nothing to do
with my true purpose

494
00:22:30,892 --> 00:22:32,685
{\an8}of what I'm here for.

495
00:22:32,685 --> 00:22:34,854
I'm, like, here for love.
That's purely it.

496
00:22:34,854 --> 00:22:38,274
Bro, if you're
gonna do it, do it.

497
00:22:38,274 --> 00:22:39,692
The last time I talked to her,

498
00:22:39,692 --> 00:22:41,652
she said,
"You make me flustered."

499
00:22:41,652 --> 00:22:45,656
{\an8}So I'm Chef Fluster, and we're
going to be cooking it.

500
00:22:45,656 --> 00:22:47,617
We're going to be getting
a little saucy in there today.

501
00:22:47,617 --> 00:22:49,660
Whoo!
How you feeling, dude?

502
00:22:49,660 --> 00:22:52,330
Like, I'm scared as
Like, I'm so scared.

503
00:22:52,330 --> 00:22:54,123
This is absolutely
my worst nightmare.

504
00:22:54,123 --> 00:22:56,084
I was a fat kid growing up.
I'm going out there.

505
00:22:56,084 --> 00:22:58,503
There's hundreds of people.
I don't have abs.

506
00:22:58,503 --> 00:23:02,381
I don't have big biceps.
Like, I have a hairy chest.

507
00:23:02,381 --> 00:23:05,510
{\an8}I definitely don't have
the body for, uh, for this.

508
00:23:05,510 --> 00:23:07,887
And the fact that there's
going to be a full crowd,

509
00:23:07,887 --> 00:23:09,514
apparently, is definitely
going to be

510
00:23:09,514 --> 00:23:11,557
the most nerve-racking thing
I've ever done.

511
00:23:11,557 --> 00:23:14,268
But, you know, I'm doing
what I need to do for Jenn,

512
00:23:14,268 --> 00:23:17,480
so I'm not going to walk away
from the challenge.

513
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,857
I don't know.
Something like that.

514
00:23:19,857 --> 00:23:20,358
Ah. Ah.

515
00:23:26,364 --> 00:23:28,241
{\an8}Ladies and gentlemen, welcome

516
00:23:28,241 --> 00:23:31,828
to <i>The Bachelorette's
Love Down Under</i> show!

517
00:23:35,206 --> 00:23:38,167
And of course, we can't forget
our esteemed judges

518
00:23:38,167 --> 00:23:41,003
for the evening.
Please, a warm round of applause

519
00:23:41,003 --> 00:23:44,465
for Australia's sister
bachelorettes, Becky and Elly.

520
00:23:45,883 --> 00:23:47,426
{\an8}G'day, America.
My name is Elly,

521
00:23:47,426 --> 00:23:49,178
{\an8}and this is my sister Bec.

522
00:23:49,178 --> 00:23:50,972
{\an8}And we're former
Australian bachelorettes.

523
00:23:50,972 --> 00:23:52,849
And we're here
to help Jenn today.

524
00:23:52,849 --> 00:23:55,768
- I'm so excited.
- Oh, I can't wait.

525
00:23:55,768 --> 00:24:01,524
Let's get ready to thunder!

526
00:24:01,524 --> 00:24:05,153
Please welcome
the gentlemen of the evening!

527
00:24:05,153 --> 00:24:07,155
They're so cute!

528
00:24:08,906 --> 00:24:10,825
The energy's good.

529
00:24:10,825 --> 00:24:12,618
I know there's a few people
that are a little nervous,

530
00:24:12,618 --> 00:24:14,787
{\an8}but I'm pumped.
I can't wait for this.

531
00:24:14,787 --> 00:24:16,622
{\an8}I think this is going
to be a big step

532
00:24:16,622 --> 00:24:18,583
for my relationship with Jenn.

533
00:24:18,583 --> 00:24:21,460
And Devin is definitely
gonna see a very big

534
00:24:21,460 --> 00:24:24,172
Chad-ish moment right here,
and I can't wait for it.

535
00:24:24,172 --> 00:24:25,965
It is time now to show
why you deserve

536
00:24:25,965 --> 00:24:29,385
to be crowned
Mr. Love Down Under.

537
00:24:31,220 --> 00:24:33,973
{\an8}My heart is racing.
I'm super excited.

538
00:24:33,973 --> 00:24:35,975
{\an8}Please welcome
to the stage, Dylan.

539
00:24:35,975 --> 00:24:39,437
He is a C-E-make you-O.

540
00:24:39,437 --> 00:24:41,856
- Oh!
- Oh!

541
00:24:44,317 --> 00:24:45,902
Okay.

542
00:24:51,157 --> 00:24:53,826
{\an8}Oh, my God!

543
00:24:53,826 --> 00:24:55,870
He is the CEO. Yeah.

544
00:24:55,870 --> 00:24:58,247
Jenn, she not ready for this.
She not ready for this.

545
00:24:58,247 --> 00:25:01,042
I have a surprise for her.

546
00:25:01,042 --> 00:25:03,419
- Whoo!
- Okay.

547
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,759
Tonight, I'm excited to see

548
00:25:09,759 --> 00:25:12,136
who's gonna rock the stage
with some confidence.

549
00:25:12,136 --> 00:25:15,139
And I'm looking for someone
who's gonna be comfortable

550
00:25:15,139 --> 00:25:18,309
in their own skin
and is gonna be playful with me.

551
00:25:20,728 --> 00:25:23,022
There's no way
he's doing pink thong.

552
00:25:26,067 --> 00:25:28,110
Oh, my gosh.

553
00:25:29,237 --> 00:25:30,988
Holy

554
00:25:30,988 --> 00:25:32,990
I'm already
Mr. C-E-make her-O,

555
00:25:32,990 --> 00:25:35,785
so let's just add to the title
Mr. Love from Down Under.

556
00:25:35,785 --> 00:25:38,996
Next up is Marcus.
He's an astronaut.

557
00:25:38,996 --> 00:25:42,375
Please welcome Neil Realstrong.

558
00:25:44,877 --> 00:25:47,004
{\an8}My whole life,
I wanted to be an astronaut.

559
00:25:47,004 --> 00:25:49,632
{\an8}And today we're just doing
sexy astronaut.

560
00:25:49,632 --> 00:25:50,925
Dreams come true.

561
00:25:57,431 --> 00:25:58,891
Okay.

562
00:25:58,891 --> 00:26:01,519
Marcus looks like
an absolute pro.

563
00:26:01,519 --> 00:26:03,854
Rocking the astronaut helmet.

564
00:26:03,854 --> 00:26:06,107
I was like, what the hell
is going on here?

565
00:26:14,323 --> 00:26:16,242
You know,
after our one on one date,

566
00:26:16,242 --> 00:26:20,538
I didn't know if Marcus had that
spicy side to him, and he--

567
00:26:20,538 --> 00:26:22,790
He really surprised me today.

568
00:26:22,790 --> 00:26:25,126
{\an8}Let's hear it for Tomas A.,

569
00:26:25,126 --> 00:26:27,336
{\an8}the snake whisperer.

570
00:26:27,336 --> 00:26:29,255
Ooh, he's got some abs.

571
00:26:38,389 --> 00:26:40,224
♪ I believe in miracles ♪

572
00:26:40,224 --> 00:26:41,976
I've never stripped before.

573
00:26:41,976 --> 00:26:44,478
So I'm channeling
my inner Magic Mike.

574
00:26:44,478 --> 00:26:46,188
♪ You sexy thing ♪

575
00:26:46,188 --> 00:26:47,398
Okay.

576
00:26:47,398 --> 00:26:50,693
It feels just totally awesome.

577
00:26:50,693 --> 00:26:53,362
It's massively impressive...

578
00:26:53,362 --> 00:26:55,072
♪ You sexy thing ♪

579
00:26:55,072 --> 00:26:58,326
...to see these guys bare all.

580
00:26:59,618 --> 00:27:00,745
{\an8}To the stage now,

581
00:27:00,745 --> 00:27:04,498
{\an8}Grant, AKA Mr. Eight Rounds.

582
00:27:06,083 --> 00:27:08,461
♪ Where did you
come from, baby? ♪

583
00:27:08,461 --> 00:27:10,212
Oh, my God.

584
00:27:10,212 --> 00:27:11,964
♪ How did you know
I needed you? ♪

585
00:27:11,964 --> 00:27:13,758
Okay.

586
00:27:13,758 --> 00:27:16,427
Jenn is looking for us
to put our guard down.

587
00:27:16,427 --> 00:27:18,721
{\an8}♪ I needed you so badly ♪

588
00:27:18,721 --> 00:27:20,556
And one by one,
everyone goes,

589
00:27:20,556 --> 00:27:23,225
and it's just, like,
confidence. Crushing it.

590
00:27:23,225 --> 00:27:26,103
♪ I believe in miracles ♪

591
00:27:26,103 --> 00:27:27,688
Dudes are leaning into it.

592
00:27:27,688 --> 00:27:31,567
{\an8}♪ Where are you from,
you sexy thing? ♪

593
00:27:31,567 --> 00:27:33,778
{\an8}Okay.
This is a great way to

594
00:27:33,778 --> 00:27:36,322
show her that we're not scared.
We're not scared of love.

595
00:27:36,322 --> 00:27:39,533
{\an8}♪ Since you came along,
you sexy thing ♪

596
00:27:39,533 --> 00:27:41,786
{\an8}- There she is.
- Oh.

597
00:27:49,460 --> 00:27:50,628
{\an8}Okay.

598
00:27:53,297 --> 00:27:55,257
Little hot in here.

599
00:27:55,257 --> 00:27:57,843
♪ Sexy thing, sexy thing ♪

600
00:27:57,843 --> 00:28:01,013
{\an8}Jonathon's performance
is amazing. Super confident.

601
00:28:01,013 --> 00:28:04,308
{\an8}Having lots of fun with it, too.

602
00:28:04,308 --> 00:28:07,269
{\an8}♪ Kiss me, you sexy thing ♪

603
00:28:09,021 --> 00:28:11,524
{\an8}100% in my comfort zone
right now. 100%

604
00:28:11,524 --> 00:28:14,860
{\an8}just confident in myself and
in my relationship with Jenn.

605
00:28:14,860 --> 00:28:17,363
So, yeah, let's get it going.

606
00:28:17,363 --> 00:28:19,281
Please welcome Sam M.,

607
00:28:19,281 --> 00:28:22,576
or, as he likes to be called,
Chef Fluster.

608
00:28:22,576 --> 00:28:25,079
Oh.

609
00:28:25,079 --> 00:28:28,165
{\an8}♪ I just want them bad boys,
bad boys, bad boys ♪

610
00:28:28,165 --> 00:28:31,252
{\an8}♪ I just want
them bad boys, damn ♪

611
00:28:31,252 --> 00:28:34,463
♪ Always want a bad boy,
yeah, make me feel good ♪

612
00:28:34,463 --> 00:28:37,133
I have never competed
in a strip striptease show,

613
00:28:37,133 --> 00:28:39,135
but I'm going to own it.
I'm gonna be me.

614
00:28:39,135 --> 00:28:42,221
I'm gonna be nasty.
And, uh, she's gonna eat it up.

615
00:28:42,221 --> 00:28:44,056
♪ They make me feel good ♪

616
00:28:44,056 --> 00:28:52,064
♪ Ooh, la, la, la ♪

617
00:28:53,232 --> 00:28:55,860
{\an8}No.

618
00:28:55,860 --> 00:28:59,738
♪ Damn, always want a bad boy,
they make me feel good ♪

619
00:28:59,738 --> 00:29:01,115
♪ Ooh, la, la, la ♪

620
00:29:01,115 --> 00:29:03,117
Sam M., everybody.

621
00:29:04,285 --> 00:29:05,744
{\an8}I could feel that.

622
00:29:05,744 --> 00:29:08,330
{\an8}We just have
a lot of sexual tension.

623
00:29:08,330 --> 00:29:10,166
{\an8}- Oh! Okay.
- Ah! Love that.

624
00:29:11,292 --> 00:29:13,461
{\an8}I know, I know.

625
00:29:19,341 --> 00:29:20,634
Yeah.

626
00:29:20,634 --> 00:29:22,094
How'd that feel?

627
00:29:22,094 --> 00:29:23,304
Boy, like I'm
in my element, baby.

628
00:29:23,304 --> 00:29:24,847
I just let it ride.

629
00:29:24,847 --> 00:29:28,017
I know that I stole the show
in her eyes.

630
00:29:28,017 --> 00:29:31,312
{\an8}So mic drop, bitch.

631
00:29:31,312 --> 00:29:33,314
It's now time for Devin,

632
00:29:33,314 --> 00:29:37,026
otherwise known
as the Dirty Detective.

633
00:29:37,026 --> 00:29:38,777
I'm freaking out. I am nervous.

634
00:29:38,777 --> 00:29:41,238
I don't think my body's
like a 10 out of 10.

635
00:29:41,238 --> 00:29:43,199
{\an8}But I'm doing this
because I care about Jenn.

636
00:29:43,199 --> 00:29:45,826
{\an8}And I'm gonna just believe
that Jenn is gonna love me

637
00:29:45,826 --> 00:29:48,329
for who I am, and that's what
I'm gonna hold true.

638
00:29:52,082 --> 00:29:54,251
♪ Drop it, bottles popping,
ain't no stopping ♪

639
00:29:54,251 --> 00:29:55,753
♪ So high up, we floating ♪

640
00:29:55,753 --> 00:30:00,132
Oh!

641
00:30:00,132 --> 00:30:01,258
Oh!
- ♪ We living for the moment ♪

642
00:30:01,258 --> 00:30:02,801
Oh, what?!

643
00:30:02,801 --> 00:30:05,012
- Yeah!
- ♪ We living for the moment ♪

644
00:30:05,012 --> 00:30:07,306
♪ Bottles popping, ain't no
stopping, ain't no stopping ♪

645
00:30:07,306 --> 00:30:09,183
Devin's got
big [bleep] energy.

646
00:30:09,183 --> 00:30:12,645
He's got his butt out,
and his leg is up on Jenn.

647
00:30:12,645 --> 00:30:15,272
He's thrusting in her face.
He brought it.

648
00:30:15,272 --> 00:30:17,274
Oh, my gosh.

649
00:30:17,274 --> 00:30:19,193
Get some water.

650
00:30:19,193 --> 00:30:22,112
Devin's insane,
but gotta admire the confidence

651
00:30:22,112 --> 00:30:23,864
{\an8}'cause he didn't hold back
for one second.

652
00:30:23,864 --> 00:30:25,491
Hell no.

653
00:30:25,491 --> 00:30:27,409
Oh, my God, dude.

654
00:30:29,578 --> 00:30:30,829
He's a clown. I love it.

655
00:30:30,829 --> 00:30:34,124
He's so himself.
He's so himself.

656
00:30:36,961 --> 00:30:38,712
I'm really nervous right now.

657
00:30:38,712 --> 00:30:40,965
This is something very outside
of my comfort zone.

658
00:30:40,965 --> 00:30:43,551
{\an8}But whether I look like a fool
in front of the crowd or not,

659
00:30:43,551 --> 00:30:46,679
{\an8}um, I-I feel-- I feel good.

660
00:30:46,679 --> 00:30:50,099
Next up now, we've got Sam N.,
ladies and gentlemen,

661
00:30:50,099 --> 00:30:51,892
the Love Virgin.

662
00:30:51,892 --> 00:30:53,143
- Alright.
- Sam N.!

663
00:30:53,143 --> 00:30:56,772
Let's go, Sam!

664
00:30:56,772 --> 00:30:58,691
{\an8}Yeah, Sam!

665
00:30:58,691 --> 00:31:00,818
{\an8}Cut the music. Cut the music.

666
00:31:00,818 --> 00:31:02,903
Let's go.
Cut the music.

667
00:31:02,903 --> 00:31:05,030
- What?
- Oh.

668
00:31:09,368 --> 00:31:11,245
- Jenn.
- Oh, hi.

669
00:31:11,245 --> 00:31:13,038
I know you want us
to bare it all,

670
00:31:13,038 --> 00:31:15,165
but I'm here to bare my soul.

671
00:31:15,165 --> 00:31:18,377
From the moment I first saw you,
I knew you were different.

672
00:31:18,377 --> 00:31:22,881
Um, you make me feel confident.
You make me feel secure.

673
00:31:22,881 --> 00:31:26,051
I see myself
getting on one knee for you.

674
00:31:26,051 --> 00:31:29,054
Jenn, I'm already falling
in love with you.

675
00:31:32,099 --> 00:31:33,809
Yo.

676
00:31:39,106 --> 00:31:40,566
Oh.
We were all stunned.

677
00:31:40,566 --> 00:31:42,234
{\an8}We were all shocked.
There was kind of--

678
00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,528
{\an8}You could hear a pin drop.

679
00:31:44,528 --> 00:31:46,113
That's it.
Okay.

680
00:31:46,113 --> 00:31:50,326
A big hand for Sam N., everybody.

681
00:31:50,326 --> 00:31:51,869
Wow.

682
00:31:51,869 --> 00:31:54,955
{\an8}I think that caught
everybody off-guard.

683
00:31:54,955 --> 00:31:56,749
{\an8}Come on, baby. Boom.

684
00:31:59,209 --> 00:32:02,087
{\an8}Sam N.'s
dropping the "L" bomb on Jenn,

685
00:32:02,087 --> 00:32:05,883
{\an8}that's just intense.
I'd say that's premature,

686
00:32:05,883 --> 00:32:07,968
but he also claims
that he's never been in love,

687
00:32:07,968 --> 00:32:09,762
so maybe he doesn't know
what that's like.

688
00:32:09,762 --> 00:32:11,722
Alright, ladies, you feel like
you've made a decision?

689
00:32:11,722 --> 00:32:13,432
Sorry, sorry. Yes.

690
00:32:13,432 --> 00:32:15,225
Feeling like
I just poured my heart out,

691
00:32:15,225 --> 00:32:18,854
{\an8}and I feel like a fool
right now. I feel pathetic.

692
00:32:18,854 --> 00:32:21,774
I just feel like
I'm being judged.

693
00:32:21,774 --> 00:32:26,987
But, Jenn, she is the girl I'm
starting to fall in love with.

694
00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,073
And the title

695
00:32:29,073 --> 00:32:34,161
of Mr. Love Down Under
goes to...

696
00:32:34,161 --> 00:32:35,913
Jonathon!

697
00:32:35,913 --> 00:32:38,916
Come on up!

698
00:32:38,916 --> 00:32:41,418
Let's hear it
for the fellas tonight.

699
00:32:43,253 --> 00:32:45,130
This is just crazy,

700
00:32:45,130 --> 00:32:48,425
{\an8}because I don't find
much credibility

701
00:32:48,425 --> 00:32:52,346
{\an8}in the words
coming from Sam N. tonight.

702
00:32:52,346 --> 00:32:55,933
And it's easy to question
if he really even understands

703
00:32:55,933 --> 00:33:00,396
what that idea of that ferocious
love really looks like.

704
00:33:01,980 --> 00:33:03,816
So that bothered me.

705
00:33:03,816 --> 00:33:06,985
And I think to everybody else,
it was just a bit disrespectful.

706
00:33:06,985 --> 00:33:09,697
So we'll see what happens
later tonight.

707
00:33:15,661 --> 00:33:17,329
♪ Don't wanna hold back ♪

708
00:33:20,082 --> 00:33:23,168
You guys killed it.
I was seriously so impressed.

709
00:33:23,168 --> 00:33:25,295
And, you know, I asked you guys
to bare it all,

710
00:33:25,295 --> 00:33:28,132
and you guys
really bared it all.

711
00:33:28,132 --> 00:33:29,967
But the most important thing
that you guys bared

712
00:33:29,967 --> 00:33:32,845
was your hearts today.
And, you know, I'm excited.

713
00:33:32,845 --> 00:33:36,014
Like, we had such a lighthearted
and fun day today.

714
00:33:36,014 --> 00:33:38,475
But I'm excited to, like,
dive deeper tonight

715
00:33:38,475 --> 00:33:41,228
and to really continue
our connections.

716
00:33:41,228 --> 00:33:42,271
- Cheers to that.
- Cheers.

717
00:33:42,271 --> 00:33:43,814
Cheers to that.

718
00:33:43,814 --> 00:33:46,442
{\an8}Today, all in all,
it was fun as hell.

719
00:33:46,442 --> 00:33:47,985
We all went for it.

720
00:33:47,985 --> 00:33:51,029
But Sam N. really
put himself out there

721
00:33:51,029 --> 00:33:54,658
by professing his love to Jenn.

722
00:33:54,658 --> 00:33:56,869
A lot of us thought
it was a bold move,

723
00:33:56,869 --> 00:33:58,662
but it's his bold move.

724
00:33:58,662 --> 00:33:59,872
It's-- We're not here
to worry about him.

725
00:33:59,872 --> 00:34:01,832
We're here to worry about Jenn.

726
00:34:01,832 --> 00:34:04,793
And tonight,
I hope that I get the rose.

727
00:34:04,793 --> 00:34:06,920
I mean, I already
got one trophy today.

728
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,173
Let's shoot for one more, and
let's see how this night goes.

729
00:34:09,173 --> 00:34:10,632
How you doing?
I'm good.

730
00:34:10,632 --> 00:34:12,593
How are you doing,
Mr. Down Under?

731
00:34:12,593 --> 00:34:14,553
- I'm great.
- You killed it today.

732
00:34:14,553 --> 00:34:16,388
Thank you. I know I'm working
with limited time here.

733
00:34:16,388 --> 00:34:18,474
Time? What are you
talking about? It's just us.

734
00:34:18,474 --> 00:34:19,933
And I don't-- And I don't
want to put you on the spot

735
00:34:19,933 --> 00:34:21,560
when somebody else comes here.
- Who?

736
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:22,895
I don't know. Whoever
comes to try and--

737
00:34:22,895 --> 00:34:24,396
I thought it was
just us tonight.

738
00:34:24,396 --> 00:34:26,190
Whoever comes
and tries to interrupt us,

739
00:34:26,190 --> 00:34:27,566
I just don't want to put you
in that situation.

740
00:34:27,566 --> 00:34:29,234
- Mm-hmm.
- And I just want to get it

741
00:34:29,234 --> 00:34:31,278
out of the way first real quick.

742
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,954
How'd y'all like my ass?

743
00:34:40,954 --> 00:34:42,539
Not even a little bit, brother.

744
00:34:42,539 --> 00:34:44,208
Not a little bit?
Not even a little bit?

745
00:34:44,208 --> 00:34:45,709
You wore the confidence, but--

746
00:34:45,709 --> 00:34:47,544
You left nothing
to imagination, bro.

747
00:34:47,544 --> 00:34:49,546
Hell yeah. Sure.

748
00:34:49,546 --> 00:34:52,299
Today was fun.
But to be honest,

749
00:34:52,299 --> 00:34:55,803
{\an8}I would have rather done
10 million other things

750
00:34:55,803 --> 00:34:58,263
than dance around in a thong.

751
00:34:58,263 --> 00:35:01,141
I have this image of myself
that is, you know, strong

752
00:35:01,141 --> 00:35:03,018
and can take any punch.

753
00:35:03,018 --> 00:35:04,561
You know, it wasn't like that
for me in that moment.

754
00:35:04,561 --> 00:35:06,271
It was not.
I mean, you could have blown

755
00:35:06,271 --> 00:35:08,398
and I would have
fallen over. Like, it was--

756
00:35:08,398 --> 00:35:10,651
It was that deep for me
in that setting.

757
00:35:10,651 --> 00:35:13,987
I'm surprised you recognized me
with all my clothes on.

758
00:35:13,987 --> 00:35:15,739
I hope I can, you know,
elaborate on that feeling

759
00:35:15,739 --> 00:35:17,783
with her a little bit more,
and she, you know,

760
00:35:17,783 --> 00:35:20,786
kind of gets to listen,
to that side of me

761
00:35:20,786 --> 00:35:22,621
because not a lot of people
get to hear that.

762
00:35:22,621 --> 00:35:24,456
So how's your night been?
- It's been great.

763
00:35:24,456 --> 00:35:26,333
How's your night been?
- It's been fantastic.

764
00:35:26,333 --> 00:35:27,709
- Yeah.
- I mean, you look great.

765
00:35:27,709 --> 00:35:29,962
- Thank you.
- The day was absolutely

766
00:35:29,962 --> 00:35:32,673
insane for me,
for more than one reason.

767
00:35:32,673 --> 00:35:34,466
That was something--
- Tell me all the reasons.

768
00:35:34,466 --> 00:35:38,762
Well, I mean,
for me, getting...

769
00:35:38,762 --> 00:35:41,640
into this dancing mode was,
like, a really big deal for me.

770
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,309
And, like, um, growing up,

771
00:35:44,309 --> 00:35:46,895
I was a pretty heavy kid,
like, like,

772
00:35:46,895 --> 00:35:50,649
and I had a lot of insecurities
about my weight and, um,

773
00:35:50,649 --> 00:35:53,569
about, you know,
how I looked and who I was.

774
00:35:53,569 --> 00:35:55,737
And it was like a, almost like
I didn't want to look at myself

775
00:35:55,737 --> 00:35:57,656
in the mirror type situation, right?

776
00:35:57,656 --> 00:36:01,243
And, you know, I worked really
hard to, you know, change that.

777
00:36:01,243 --> 00:36:03,871
And, but I'd be lying to you
if I said it doesn't still,

778
00:36:03,871 --> 00:36:06,540
like, come up, you know, every
now and then in my mind, so.

779
00:36:06,540 --> 00:36:08,125
That makes sense.
It makes sense.

780
00:36:08,125 --> 00:36:11,211
So that was like a,
another thing

781
00:36:11,211 --> 00:36:13,171
that I just wanted
to thank you for

782
00:36:13,171 --> 00:36:15,215
was like giving me
that confidence to, like,

783
00:36:15,215 --> 00:36:17,551
forget about myself
in that moment.

784
00:36:17,551 --> 00:36:19,428
Do you feel better after?

785
00:36:19,428 --> 00:36:21,138
- After doing the dance?
- Yeah.

786
00:36:21,138 --> 00:36:23,265
Oh, yeah. It was like I let it
all out there, you know?

787
00:36:23,265 --> 00:36:26,894
I looked at you in that moment.
I saw the smile.

788
00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:30,272
I was hoping
it was out of a pure joy smile.

789
00:36:30,272 --> 00:36:32,316
It was, it was, it was.

790
00:36:32,316 --> 00:36:35,569
I really don't know
how I could have done it

791
00:36:35,569 --> 00:36:38,113
if it wasn't you. Kiss you?

792
00:36:41,158 --> 00:36:42,951
Devin really
surprised me tonight.

793
00:36:42,951 --> 00:36:46,955
He comes off as this confident,
like, so himself character,

794
00:36:46,955 --> 00:36:48,707
and I've always loved that
about him.

795
00:36:48,707 --> 00:36:51,168
And tonight, he really shined
in telling me something

796
00:36:51,168 --> 00:36:54,254
that he struggles with.
I love seeing that side of him,

797
00:36:54,254 --> 00:36:57,215
because I think we always have
a goofy, playful relationship.

798
00:36:57,215 --> 00:36:59,676
But to be able to peel back
those layers a little bit,

799
00:36:59,676 --> 00:37:03,430
it's just such a special moment.

800
00:37:03,430 --> 00:37:05,599
What would the rose
mean to you tonight?

801
00:37:05,599 --> 00:37:07,976
It would truly mean
a lot. But at the same moment,

802
00:37:07,976 --> 00:37:09,645
I can't get past the judge--

803
00:37:09,645 --> 00:37:11,480
Like there's-- It's an
insecurity, right?

804
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,774
Like this judgment
insecurity where it's like,

805
00:37:13,774 --> 00:37:15,359
even if I get it,
I feel like there is

806
00:37:15,359 --> 00:37:17,778
going to be some sort
of pity judgment, right?

807
00:37:17,778 --> 00:37:21,323
Today, Sam completely
stopped the show

808
00:37:21,323 --> 00:37:24,242
{\an8}to be able to profess his love.

809
00:37:24,242 --> 00:37:26,286
{\an8}Did I feel like it was
a little premature for Sam

810
00:37:26,286 --> 00:37:28,163
{\an8}to come out there
and say that? I definitely did.

811
00:37:28,163 --> 00:37:30,457
Did I take offense to it?
I sure did.

812
00:37:30,457 --> 00:37:33,043
After you. There you go.
Thank you.

813
00:37:33,043 --> 00:37:34,920
There is a time and a place,

814
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,631
and I think everybody can agree
that that was not the time,

815
00:37:37,631 --> 00:37:40,509
nor the place,
and nor the moment, as well.

816
00:37:40,509 --> 00:37:42,010
I want to apologize

817
00:37:42,010 --> 00:37:43,971
for being the corniest guy
in the room.

818
00:37:43,971 --> 00:37:46,056
Like, there's stuff about me
that it's like,

819
00:37:46,056 --> 00:37:48,684
this is like a very new process.

820
00:37:48,684 --> 00:37:51,561
I don't even know how
to hold your hand, to be honest.

821
00:37:51,561 --> 00:37:54,022
Like, there's some things where
it's like, if I hold your hand,

822
00:37:54,022 --> 00:37:55,524
I'm thinking about, like,
holding your hand,

823
00:37:55,524 --> 00:37:57,234
if I'm holding it too tight.

824
00:37:57,234 --> 00:37:59,319
But, um, at the end of the day,
I want you to know that,

825
00:37:59,319 --> 00:38:01,613
like, you're making me feel
a special type of way.

826
00:38:01,613 --> 00:38:04,366
And maybe I could have said it
a little bit better and--

827
00:38:04,366 --> 00:38:06,284
Stop discrediting yourself,
because--

828
00:38:06,284 --> 00:38:08,286
- I appreciate you. Thank you.
- Because I think you should

829
00:38:08,286 --> 00:38:11,206
stick to what you said. And
I love that you're sharing it,

830
00:38:11,206 --> 00:38:12,541
because I think
in a relationship,

831
00:38:12,541 --> 00:38:14,084
you always have
to be honest about

832
00:38:14,084 --> 00:38:15,877
where you're at
and how you're feeling.

833
00:38:15,877 --> 00:38:18,255
So I don't want you
ever-- to ever feel, like,

834
00:38:18,255 --> 00:38:20,298
ashamed of ever
telling me how you feel.

835
00:38:20,298 --> 00:38:21,925
- No, of course.
- Like, I want to hear

836
00:38:21,925 --> 00:38:23,760
those things.
I think that's what makes

837
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,303
a relationship honest.

838
00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:26,888
- Of course.
- Yeah.

839
00:38:26,888 --> 00:38:29,975
Sam N. tells me
that he was falling in love

840
00:38:29,975 --> 00:38:33,812
with me earlier today.
And these are some big,

841
00:38:33,812 --> 00:38:36,898
big statements
to be making so early on.

842
00:38:36,898 --> 00:38:41,403
It does feel very early,
but it also feels kind of good,

843
00:38:41,403 --> 00:38:44,740
'cause at the end of the day,
I am here for love

844
00:38:44,740 --> 00:38:47,242
and to find my person.
And for him to be feeling

845
00:38:47,242 --> 00:38:49,995
all these things already
makes me feel reassured

846
00:38:49,995 --> 00:38:53,498
that this journey
is working for me.

847
00:38:53,498 --> 00:38:55,208
It's tough to think
that with Sam N.,

848
00:38:55,208 --> 00:38:58,462
somebody that's never been
in a relationship,

849
00:38:58,462 --> 00:39:00,964
that's never had a girlfriend,
can truly understand,

850
00:39:00,964 --> 00:39:03,091
you know, what love looks like.

851
00:39:03,091 --> 00:39:08,096
So yeah, obviously my initial
reaction is what was that?

852
00:39:08,096 --> 00:39:11,016
It's not-- Yeah,
it's not a time nor place

853
00:39:11,016 --> 00:39:14,978
for him to tell Jenn
that he's in love.

854
00:39:14,978 --> 00:39:18,648
What the
Because that is ludicrous.

855
00:39:21,068 --> 00:39:23,570
I'll take a vodka soda
with cranberry.

856
00:39:23,570 --> 00:39:25,822
Sam M. and Thomas N.,

857
00:39:25,822 --> 00:39:27,866
I knew they couldn't
let the night go by

858
00:39:27,866 --> 00:39:29,826
{\an8}without snickering
or whispering

859
00:39:29,826 --> 00:39:32,370
{\an8}or doing, you know,
what they do best.

860
00:39:32,370 --> 00:39:35,791
Sam N., you know, it's not bad
for him to feel how he feels

861
00:39:35,791 --> 00:39:38,376
because he's never been there.
And for them to judge

862
00:39:38,376 --> 00:39:40,253
was really, really low
in my opinion.

863
00:39:40,253 --> 00:39:42,047
You know, I look at Sam
like a little brother.

864
00:39:42,047 --> 00:39:44,049
So I do have that protective,
like, mentality

865
00:39:44,049 --> 00:39:46,343
when it comes to him,
and I'll go to bat for his ass.

866
00:39:46,343 --> 00:39:47,886
And it's not an act,
it's who I am.

867
00:39:47,886 --> 00:39:50,305
So hell yeah.
This is going to go down.

868
00:39:53,141 --> 00:39:57,854
b

869
00:39:57,854 --> 00:39:59,940
Close your eyes.
I want to peek.

870
00:39:59,940 --> 00:40:02,526
Open. Dr. Chocolate...

871
00:40:02,526 --> 00:40:05,529
- Ooh! I love that.
- ...has some chocolate.

872
00:40:05,529 --> 00:40:06,738
Okay, I actually
love chocolate.

873
00:40:06,738 --> 00:40:08,573
Yeah?

874
00:40:08,573 --> 00:40:10,700
Hey, fellas.
What's going on, brother?

875
00:40:10,700 --> 00:40:12,702
So...
Uh-oh.

876
00:40:12,702 --> 00:40:15,997
I just wanted to address
the elephant in the room.

877
00:40:15,997 --> 00:40:20,335
Um, some things were said
that I don't want to say

878
00:40:20,335 --> 00:40:23,588
were in the moment, because
I am feeling some type of way.

879
00:40:23,588 --> 00:40:25,507
And just because
I used the word love,

880
00:40:25,507 --> 00:40:28,176
I feel like it devalues
what I was trying to say

881
00:40:28,176 --> 00:40:30,428
from the entire context.

882
00:40:30,428 --> 00:40:32,639
I feel pathetic and, like,

883
00:40:32,639 --> 00:40:34,558
the thing is,
could I have said it better?

884
00:40:34,558 --> 00:40:37,978
Yes. It's starting
to fall in love, right?

885
00:40:37,978 --> 00:40:40,147
Not in love or already in love.

886
00:40:40,147 --> 00:40:42,065
You don't need
to backtrack any way you feel,

887
00:40:42,065 --> 00:40:44,568
and I don't think you need
to explain to anybody here.

888
00:40:44,568 --> 00:40:48,488
You have no reason to feel sorry
for what you do and who you are,

889
00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:50,866
and you deserve
to feel how you feel.

890
00:40:50,866 --> 00:40:54,161
And anybody, anybody

891
00:40:54,161 --> 00:40:57,873
that decides that that's
not right has their own issues.

892
00:40:57,873 --> 00:41:01,626
Okay? When Sam was talking,
Sam M. and Thomas N.,

893
00:41:01,626 --> 00:41:05,005
{\an8}these dudes are laughing
and looking down,

894
00:41:05,005 --> 00:41:08,133
{\an8}looking anywhere
but him in the face.

895
00:41:08,133 --> 00:41:10,552
And they want to talk about
this whole mutual respect thing

896
00:41:10,552 --> 00:41:13,513
or this, "I'm such a stand-up
guy." It blows my mind.

897
00:41:13,513 --> 00:41:15,682
These guys really need
to get a reality check.

898
00:41:15,682 --> 00:41:17,976
I think I'm a little more
soft-spoken than you.

899
00:41:17,976 --> 00:41:19,186
Um, I'm not going to be
the first one

900
00:41:19,186 --> 00:41:21,021
that speaks in the room.

901
00:41:21,021 --> 00:41:23,064
Everything that I kind of do,
I mean what I say.

902
00:41:23,064 --> 00:41:25,150
You throw words around
like mutual respect,

903
00:41:25,150 --> 00:41:27,777
and I clap for you
even though I don't want to.

904
00:41:27,777 --> 00:41:30,363
I smile at you even though
I really don't want to.

905
00:41:30,363 --> 00:41:32,365
So then why do you smile,
and why do you clap?

906
00:41:32,365 --> 00:41:34,492
Because I'm a-- Because
I have, what's that word?

907
00:41:34,492 --> 00:41:36,244
Mutual respect?
- I have no respect for you.

908
00:41:36,244 --> 00:41:38,121
Hold on.
Let me pull out my line.

909
00:41:38,121 --> 00:41:39,998
Best foot forward is what
I'm trying to do. My bad.

910
00:41:39,998 --> 00:41:42,000
You know, I always
keep it real.

911
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,252
I just ask that you keep it
real with me, you know?

912
00:41:44,252 --> 00:41:46,213
Not-- Not with each other.
I get that.

913
00:41:46,213 --> 00:41:48,256
You guys keep it real with
each other, and that's fair.

914
00:41:48,256 --> 00:41:50,175
But you guys whisper too much.
- Mm-hmm.

915
00:41:50,175 --> 00:41:51,968
You guys are chatterers.

916
00:41:51,968 --> 00:41:54,054
You say mutual respect,
but you don't believe that.

917
00:41:54,054 --> 00:41:55,805
When you say the words
come out of your mouth--

918
00:41:55,805 --> 00:41:57,515
No, look, and--
Look, I have tried--

919
00:41:57,515 --> 00:41:59,392
Answer the question. You think
you got respect for us,

920
00:41:59,392 --> 00:42:01,269
yes or no? Okay. A'ight. A'ight.
- I would open the opportunity.

921
00:42:01,269 --> 00:42:03,480
I'm [bleep] talking to a clown
like this. Answer the question.

922
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,941
A clown? Clown.
No, no, no. Hold on.

923
00:42:05,941 --> 00:42:07,901
Uh, I've definitely--
- Yes or no?

924
00:42:07,901 --> 00:42:10,403
I've definitely tried to take
the high approach with you,

925
00:42:10,403 --> 00:42:12,572
definitely, Sam.
Definitely with you.

926
00:42:12,572 --> 00:42:15,242
That's fine. I just, I ain't
got nothing to say to you,

927
00:42:15,242 --> 00:42:16,785
so I'm just leaving it at that.

928
00:42:16,785 --> 00:42:18,578
All the whispers
and the chatter is really--

929
00:42:18,578 --> 00:42:20,121
That is a lot of whispers.
Y'all do whisper a lot.

930
00:42:20,121 --> 00:42:22,582
Bro, let me
finish, dawg.

931
00:42:22,582 --> 00:42:24,376
At the end of the day, man,
long story short,

932
00:42:24,376 --> 00:42:26,127
I don't respect you.
I got nothing to say to you.

933
00:42:26,127 --> 00:42:27,921
We are not going to be friends.

934
00:42:27,921 --> 00:42:29,589
I don't want to be friends
with people like you.

935
00:42:29,589 --> 00:42:31,424
At the end of the day,
I'm-a leave it at that.

936
00:42:31,424 --> 00:42:33,260
Like, you're not gonna
rile me up, get the best of me.

937
00:42:33,260 --> 00:42:35,220
And I would just hope
you just don't talk to me.

938
00:42:35,220 --> 00:42:36,471
I ain't got nothing
to say to you.

939
00:42:36,471 --> 00:42:38,014
Don't expect nothing from me.

940
00:42:38,014 --> 00:42:39,266
Let's just
leave it at that.

941
00:42:39,266 --> 00:42:40,767
Now we've got it out. Alright.

942
00:42:40,767 --> 00:42:41,935
That's wrap.
- That's wraps.

943
00:42:41,935 --> 00:42:43,395
- Cool.
- Mutual respect.

944
00:42:43,395 --> 00:42:45,272
Absolutely--

945
00:42:45,272 --> 00:42:47,232
You have to have the last
word. Like, you are a child.

946
00:42:47,232 --> 00:42:49,651
You are a child.
You have to have the last word.

947
00:42:49,651 --> 00:42:51,403
Hey, hey, no, no, for real,
leave it. Leave it.

948
00:42:51,403 --> 00:42:55,156
Leave it. Leave it, dawg.
It'll get handled.

949
00:42:55,156 --> 00:42:56,950
Like I said, man, the night
that he doesn't get a rose,

950
00:42:56,950 --> 00:42:59,661
it'll all get handled, dawg.

951
00:42:59,661 --> 00:43:02,163
Devin is a bully.
I will continue to preach it.

952
00:43:02,163 --> 00:43:03,498
{\an8}He's a bully.
He's just somebody

953
00:43:03,498 --> 00:43:05,083
{\an8}that's going to talk over you

954
00:43:05,083 --> 00:43:07,460
{\an8}and continue to try
and make you feel bad.

955
00:43:07,460 --> 00:43:08,837
You know,
I've continued to preach

956
00:43:08,837 --> 00:43:10,338
keep the main thing
the main thing.

957
00:43:10,338 --> 00:43:12,549
My main thing is
my relationship with Jenn.

958
00:43:12,549 --> 00:43:15,719
And I'm confident enough
in my relationship to know that,

959
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,429
hey, I'm not going anywhere,

960
00:43:17,429 --> 00:43:19,806
and I'm not going anywhere
anytime soon.

961
00:43:19,806 --> 00:43:23,435
- You were bold up there.
- Yeah. Did you like my name?

962
00:43:23,435 --> 00:43:26,896
Yes, I did.
I don't make you flustered.

963
00:43:26,896 --> 00:43:29,733
No, you just--
You just bother me.

964
00:43:29,733 --> 00:43:32,485
Oh, shut up. Where--
What line-- Where--

965
00:43:32,485 --> 00:43:34,487
What movie
did you get that from?

966
00:43:39,868 --> 00:43:42,704
I wouldn't be doing this
if you didn't bother me.

967
00:43:47,792 --> 00:43:51,713
Sam M. and I have a very
physical connection right now.

968
00:43:51,713 --> 00:43:54,841
There's just something there
and I don't know what it is,

969
00:43:54,841 --> 00:43:56,509
and I want to figure it out.

970
00:43:56,509 --> 00:43:58,762
You haven't asked me
to be your girlfriend yet.

971
00:43:58,762 --> 00:44:02,265
Oh, my goodness, I haven't.
Hold on, hold on.

972
00:44:04,476 --> 00:44:06,770
Hold on. Wait. Should I--
- What are you doing?

973
00:44:06,770 --> 00:44:09,689
- How do you want me to ask--
- What are you doing to me?

974
00:44:09,689 --> 00:44:10,899
Do you want me
to ask you like--

975
00:44:10,899 --> 00:44:13,401
Oh, my God. Sa--

976
00:44:13,401 --> 00:44:16,946
Sam, what are you doing?

977
00:44:16,946 --> 00:44:20,075
Stop this madness.

978
00:44:20,075 --> 00:44:23,244
- Will you, uh--
- Ugh.

979
00:44:23,244 --> 00:44:25,205
- Will you be my girlfriend?
- No, not like this.

980
00:44:25,205 --> 00:44:26,915
- No?
- No, not like this.

981
00:44:26,915 --> 00:44:28,416
Alright. Here. Hold on.
Let me try this again.

982
00:44:28,416 --> 00:44:31,586
Let me try this again.
- What? No.

983
00:44:31,586 --> 00:44:33,254
What are you doing?

984
00:44:33,254 --> 00:44:36,174
You're crazy. You are crazy.

985
00:44:36,174 --> 00:44:41,846
Whenever I see Jenn,
the chemistry is very apparent.

986
00:44:44,349 --> 00:44:47,477
Will you be my girlfriend now?
- Maybe.

987
00:44:47,477 --> 00:44:49,729
You just fall into
that moment right there,

988
00:44:49,729 --> 00:44:52,065
and you forget about
all the outside noise.

989
00:44:52,065 --> 00:44:54,734
You're bad news.
At the end of the day,

990
00:44:54,734 --> 00:44:56,903
if I get a rose,
it's going to be a testament

991
00:44:56,903 --> 00:45:00,031
to moving our relationship
in a forward manner,

992
00:45:00,031 --> 00:45:02,200
and that's really
all I care about.

993
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,494
It's going to suck if I don't
get the rose. I'm tired of,

994
00:45:04,494 --> 00:45:05,995
like, being at the rose ceremony

995
00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:08,248
like, shaking in my boots,
spine tingling,

996
00:45:08,248 --> 00:45:09,874
waiting to see
what's going to happen next.

997
00:45:09,874 --> 00:45:12,544
This is huge.
It says a lot

998
00:45:12,544 --> 00:45:15,213
about the type of man
that she's leaning towards.

999
00:45:15,213 --> 00:45:18,425
Um, today was a huge day about
all of us getting uncomfortable

1000
00:45:18,425 --> 00:45:20,218
and we all got
uncomfortable today.

1001
00:45:20,218 --> 00:45:21,678
Hey!

1002
00:45:23,221 --> 00:45:25,014
Oh, yeah.

1003
00:45:25,014 --> 00:45:27,100
I hate that you guys
can hear me from so far away.

1004
00:45:27,100 --> 00:45:29,894
I'm gonna scooch
in the middle here.

1005
00:45:29,894 --> 00:45:32,605
How has everyone's night
been so far?

1006
00:45:32,605 --> 00:45:34,607
- Fantastic.
- Been chill.
- It's pretty good.

1007
00:45:34,607 --> 00:45:37,068
It's been a long day,
but a really fun day.

1008
00:45:37,068 --> 00:45:40,989
That being said, you know, today
was really all about confidence.

1009
00:45:40,989 --> 00:45:46,244
And I think this rose goes to
someone who I know is confident,

1010
00:45:46,244 --> 00:45:49,289
but showed me a little bit
something different tonight,

1011
00:45:49,289 --> 00:45:50,999
and I appreciate those layers.

1012
00:45:50,999 --> 00:45:52,250
So...

1013
00:45:54,043 --> 00:45:56,504
...Devin,
will you accept this rose?

1014
00:45:56,504 --> 00:45:58,173
Absolutely.

1015
00:46:00,592 --> 00:46:02,927
Mm, thank you so much.
- Of course, of course.

1016
00:46:02,927 --> 00:46:06,097
{\an8}Man, everything
that I wanted to feel

1017
00:46:06,097 --> 00:46:07,515
came to life right there.

1018
00:46:07,515 --> 00:46:09,559
- Hugs?
- Oh, the biggest.

1019
00:46:10,810 --> 00:46:13,104
Obviously, we got
to a deeper level I think today.

1020
00:46:13,104 --> 00:46:15,148
Um, that was a huge step for me.

1021
00:46:15,148 --> 00:46:16,357
I'll see you guys soon.

1022
00:46:16,357 --> 00:46:17,567
- Good to see you.
- Bye!

1023
00:46:17,567 --> 00:46:19,194
I opened up in ways

1024
00:46:19,194 --> 00:46:20,653
that I didn't really think
that I would,

1025
00:46:20,653 --> 00:46:22,489
and the fact that
she saw me for me

1026
00:46:22,489 --> 00:46:25,408
and recognized that right there
off the bat was fireworks.

1027
00:46:25,408 --> 00:46:28,077
You know, that's the only way
I can describe it is fireworks.

1028
00:46:28,077 --> 00:46:29,746
Devin.
- Thank you.

1029
00:46:29,746 --> 00:46:32,081
I think
Thomas N. said it best.

1030
00:46:32,081 --> 00:46:33,917
I think it's a testament
to the kind of man

1031
00:46:33,917 --> 00:46:36,252
that she may want
in the future, so...

1032
00:46:36,252 --> 00:46:38,713
you know, I couldn't be
more blessed to have this rose

1033
00:46:38,713 --> 00:46:41,341
and, uh,
just another step to the moon.

1034
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,221
Honestly, brother, I--
I really commend, like,

1035
00:46:46,221 --> 00:46:48,473
the humility that you just
brought right there, man.

1036
00:46:48,473 --> 00:46:50,225
It's a testament for me
to learn from.

1037
00:46:50,225 --> 00:46:52,018
And I just, like I said,
I appreciate that.

1038
00:46:52,018 --> 00:46:54,479
No problem.
Again, I think you, know,

1039
00:46:54,479 --> 00:46:57,065
what Jenn wants
or could possibly want

1040
00:46:57,065 --> 00:46:59,359
is up to her to behold,
and everything else

1041
00:46:59,359 --> 00:47:00,944
should just dissipate
from you guys.

1042
00:47:00,944 --> 00:47:03,530
Cheers to that, man.
Thank you, brother.

1043
00:47:03,530 --> 00:47:08,243
Jenn gives Devin
the rose, and I'm just laughing.

1044
00:47:08,243 --> 00:47:10,870
That's the only emotion
that can really be

1045
00:47:10,870 --> 00:47:13,164
pulled out of me
in that situation.

1046
00:47:13,164 --> 00:47:17,502
{\an8}At the end of the day, I'm not
sweating a group-date rose.

1047
00:47:17,502 --> 00:47:20,255
Sooner or later,
she will see through Devin

1048
00:47:20,255 --> 00:47:22,006
and she'll send his ass packing.

1049
00:47:33,184 --> 00:47:35,478
7 May. Okay.

1050
00:47:38,481 --> 00:47:40,233
{\an8}I'm in the Air Force.

1051
00:47:40,233 --> 00:47:43,069
{\an8}And this morning, I received
a call from my supervisor

1052
00:47:43,069 --> 00:47:45,905
{\an8}that my fighter pilot
training dates,

1053
00:47:45,905 --> 00:47:47,699
{\an8}I just got word
that they came through.

1054
00:47:47,699 --> 00:47:49,284
{\an8}That's what I've been waiting,
honestly,

1055
00:47:49,284 --> 00:47:50,410
for a year and a half for.

1056
00:47:50,410 --> 00:47:52,370
Okay, so there is a slot.

1057
00:47:52,370 --> 00:47:54,372
He's like,
"It's all lined up.

1058
00:47:54,372 --> 00:47:55,957
You have a day
to think about it.

1059
00:47:55,957 --> 00:47:58,376
So, you gonna come back
or are you gonna stay?

1060
00:47:58,376 --> 00:47:59,794
We need you back by next week."

1061
00:47:59,794 --> 00:48:01,629
It's an either/or?

1062
00:48:01,629 --> 00:48:03,548
The fact that I'm getting
an ultimatum sucks,

1063
00:48:03,548 --> 00:48:04,924
because I feel like
I could have something

1064
00:48:04,924 --> 00:48:06,551
really special with Jenn,

1065
00:48:06,551 --> 00:48:08,553
and I'm still building
that relationship.

1066
00:48:08,553 --> 00:48:10,346
Alright.
Alright. Thank you.

1067
00:48:10,346 --> 00:48:12,557
Puts me in a really
difficult position,

1068
00:48:12,557 --> 00:48:14,684
but I still have
a group date today,

1069
00:48:14,684 --> 00:48:17,312
so hopefully I'll get
enough time with Jenn

1070
00:48:17,312 --> 00:48:19,272
to figure out
what I'm gonna do.

1071
00:48:28,865 --> 00:48:30,617
Are we driving
on the right side

1072
00:48:30,617 --> 00:48:31,951
or the left side?

1073
00:48:31,951 --> 00:48:33,328
- Oh, wow.
- Definitely right.

1074
00:48:33,328 --> 00:48:36,456
Me, Hakeem,
Jeremy and Aaron

1075
00:48:36,456 --> 00:48:38,416
get a group date
with Jenn today.

1076
00:48:38,416 --> 00:48:40,668
I haven't had that much time
with Jenn so far, so, you know,

1077
00:48:40,668 --> 00:48:43,338
{\an8}I cannot wait to see
what today has in store.

1078
00:48:43,338 --> 00:48:45,173
The date card said
our hearts would be racing.

1079
00:48:45,173 --> 00:48:46,799
Let's do it!

1080
00:48:46,799 --> 00:48:49,260
I know Jenn likes go-karts,
so, you know,

1081
00:48:49,260 --> 00:48:50,887
maybe it's a go-kart,
but I was like this--

1082
00:48:50,887 --> 00:48:53,765
this track is way too big
for go-karts.

1083
00:48:53,765 --> 00:48:54,766
I hear an engine.

1084
00:48:54,766 --> 00:48:56,142
- Yeah.
- Me too.

1085
00:49:01,689 --> 00:49:04,108
Whoo!

1086
00:49:04,108 --> 00:49:05,818
You think
Jenn's whipping that?

1087
00:49:05,818 --> 00:49:08,655
I don't know!

1088
00:49:08,655 --> 00:49:11,407
I'm feeling
some adrenaline right now.

1089
00:49:14,661 --> 00:49:16,579
I've always liked fast cars.

1090
00:49:16,579 --> 00:49:19,207
I'm not a gowns girl.
I'm more of a jumpsuit,

1091
00:49:19,207 --> 00:49:21,459
sneakers,
let's get down and dirty.

1092
00:49:21,459 --> 00:49:23,544
So I feel pretty cool right now.

1093
00:49:23,544 --> 00:49:25,797
I'm impressed.

1094
00:49:25,797 --> 00:49:27,840
The boys and I see this car.

1095
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,885
Out of nowhere,
you hear the "skrrt!"

1096
00:49:30,885 --> 00:49:34,722
You see this gorgeous woman
pop out out the front.

1097
00:49:37,100 --> 00:49:40,186
Jenn pops her helmet off.

1098
00:49:40,186 --> 00:49:43,189
Stunning.
She was looking beautiful.

1099
00:49:43,189 --> 00:49:44,232
Looking like a total badass.

1100
00:49:44,232 --> 00:49:45,692
Hey, guys.

1101
00:49:45,692 --> 00:49:47,402
- What's up?
- That was insane!

1102
00:49:47,402 --> 00:49:49,362
That was crazy.
- Yeah, that was a hot lap.

1103
00:49:49,362 --> 00:49:51,447
I'm so excited for racing.

1104
00:49:51,447 --> 00:49:54,534
I like to get the adrenaline
going and I phoned a friend.

1105
00:49:54,534 --> 00:49:56,077
If he can't teach you guys
how to drive,

1106
00:49:56,077 --> 00:49:57,286
nobody can.

1107
00:49:57,286 --> 00:49:58,913
Here's my friend Jesse.

1108
00:49:58,913 --> 00:50:00,665
- What's up?
- Jesse!

1109
00:50:00,665 --> 00:50:02,417
How you going, guys?

1110
00:50:02,417 --> 00:50:04,711
Welcome to Melbourne.
Should be a really good day.

1111
00:50:04,711 --> 00:50:07,255
So, we're gonna be pushing
these cars and your skills

1112
00:50:07,255 --> 00:50:08,923
to the absolute limits.

1113
00:50:08,923 --> 00:50:10,675
Who here has driven stick?

1114
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,178
I think I'm the only one.

1115
00:50:14,178 --> 00:50:15,596
We've got one. Alright.

1116
00:50:15,596 --> 00:50:17,807
And who's driven
right-hand drive?

1117
00:50:20,852 --> 00:50:22,770
One again.

1118
00:50:22,770 --> 00:50:24,480
Alright, well, you might take
the lead here, but don't worry.

1119
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,274
We're gonna be going through
some drills

1120
00:50:26,274 --> 00:50:28,359
to get you familiar
with the cars.

1121
00:50:28,359 --> 00:50:29,986
At the end,
you're gonna be going into

1122
00:50:29,986 --> 00:50:31,571
an all-out race around the track

1123
00:50:31,571 --> 00:50:34,365
to win a special time with Jenn.

1124
00:50:34,365 --> 00:50:36,826
Alright, guys, go suit up and
we'll get your hearts racing.

1125
00:50:36,826 --> 00:50:38,828
- Sounds good.
- Look at the other guys.

1126
00:50:38,828 --> 00:50:40,872
I mean, we're all on the same
playing field besides Aaron.

1127
00:50:40,872 --> 00:50:42,665
Aaron knows how to drive stick.

1128
00:50:42,665 --> 00:50:44,292
Aaron's driven
on the right-hand side.

1129
00:50:44,292 --> 00:50:46,002
{\an8}So that's a little
competition there.

1130
00:50:46,002 --> 00:50:47,962
{\an8}But I'm ready.
Anything for Jenn.

1131
00:50:47,962 --> 00:50:50,256
Whatever happens,
Jenn, this is for you!

1132
00:50:50,256 --> 00:50:52,341
Clutch in. Start it.

1133
00:50:52,341 --> 00:50:54,177
Yep.
More throttle, more throttle.

1134
00:50:54,177 --> 00:50:55,261
What's the throttle mean?

1135
00:50:55,261 --> 00:50:56,846
Gas?
- Yeah. Gas. Gas.

1136
00:50:56,846 --> 00:50:58,765
- Oh.
- Yep.

1137
00:50:58,765 --> 00:51:00,808
Need a little bit more gas.

1138
00:51:00,808 --> 00:51:03,144
Alright.

1139
00:51:03,144 --> 00:51:05,062
Yep. More throttle.

1140
00:51:05,062 --> 00:51:06,773
Oh, oh!

1141
00:51:06,773 --> 00:51:09,317
{\an8}Jesse teaches us
how to put it in gear and clutch

1142
00:51:09,317 --> 00:51:11,027
{\an8}and take us through
a little course.

1143
00:51:11,027 --> 00:51:12,862
- Zigzags.
- Oh!

1144
00:51:12,862 --> 00:51:15,072
And I might have
knocked over a few cones,

1145
00:51:15,072 --> 00:51:17,158
but I'm doing it decently well.

1146
00:51:17,158 --> 00:51:18,993
So, rev it and clutch out.
Rev, rev.

1147
00:51:18,993 --> 00:51:21,996
I think
I'm an above-average driver.

1148
00:51:21,996 --> 00:51:24,874
{\an8}An above-average
automatic driver.

1149
00:51:27,418 --> 00:51:28,628
Oh!

1150
00:51:28,628 --> 00:51:29,837
I'm definitely feeling

1151
00:51:29,837 --> 00:51:31,631
in my element today.

1152
00:51:31,631 --> 00:51:33,549
I'm ready to show these boys
how it's done.

1153
00:51:33,549 --> 00:51:35,510
Okay, Jenn!

1154
00:51:35,510 --> 00:51:39,180
Compared to the other guys,
I'm a really good driver.

1155
00:51:44,477 --> 00:51:47,522
I love to get behind
the wheel of a real race car.

1156
00:51:47,522 --> 00:51:52,151
{\an8}Yeah, I want to fly planes,
I want to drive motorcycles.

1157
00:51:52,151 --> 00:51:55,071
There's a lot on the line
here, for me especially,

1158
00:51:55,071 --> 00:51:57,281
like, after receiving
the Air Force call.

1159
00:51:57,281 --> 00:51:58,825
You know, it's fun and games
at the beginning.

1160
00:51:58,825 --> 00:52:00,868
But the prize at the end
is more time with Jenn.

1161
00:52:00,868 --> 00:52:02,954
And I need
every minute with Jenn

1162
00:52:02,954 --> 00:52:04,872
to figure out
what I'm going to do.

1163
00:52:04,872 --> 00:52:07,500
So I'm trying to beat these
guys. I want to win.

1164
00:52:07,500 --> 00:52:09,126
Hello, Bachelor Nation,

1165
00:52:09,126 --> 00:52:12,421
and welcome to
the Bachelorette Broadsider 400.

1166
00:52:12,421 --> 00:52:14,465
I am Jesse Palmer
and I'm coming to you

1167
00:52:14,465 --> 00:52:18,344
live from Calder Park Raceway,
and I'm joined by Matthew Chung.

1168
00:52:18,344 --> 00:52:19,846
He's a driving expert

1169
00:52:19,846 --> 00:52:22,390
and also self-proclaimed
adrenaline junkie.

1170
00:52:22,390 --> 00:52:24,559
Matthew, what are you
looking for in this race today?

1171
00:52:24,559 --> 00:52:26,269
Mate, I'm super pumped to see

1172
00:52:26,269 --> 00:52:27,395
these guys get out there
and try and do their best

1173
00:52:27,395 --> 00:52:28,813
to impress Jenn.

1174
00:52:28,813 --> 00:52:31,524
Each man will get
one timed lap,

1175
00:52:31,524 --> 00:52:35,236
the man that has the fastest lap
getting extra time with Jenn.

1176
00:52:35,236 --> 00:52:36,737
They've all gone
through training,

1177
00:52:36,737 --> 00:52:38,030
and to be honest,

1178
00:52:38,030 --> 00:52:40,449
they are terrible drivers.

1179
00:52:40,449 --> 00:52:42,577
Alright, first up, it's Hakeem.

1180
00:52:45,621 --> 00:52:49,000
My adrenaline was crazy
driving with Jenn.

1181
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,626
I probably looked like a fool.

1182
00:52:50,626 --> 00:52:52,003
{\an8}'Cause I got happy feet.

1183
00:52:52,003 --> 00:52:53,170
{\an8}My foot on the clutch like this.

1184
00:52:53,170 --> 00:52:54,714
{\an8}Whoo!

1185
00:52:54,714 --> 00:52:56,549
You did it!

1186
00:52:56,549 --> 00:52:59,468
Hakeem's time--
one minute and 31 seconds.

1187
00:52:59,468 --> 00:53:01,679
He did it all in first gear.

1188
00:53:01,679 --> 00:53:03,306
Next up, we've got Austin.

1189
00:53:06,058 --> 00:53:07,476
Yeah, I got you.

1190
00:53:07,476 --> 00:53:08,978
Today is the day
I speed things up.

1191
00:53:08,978 --> 00:53:10,980
{\an8}Not just on the track
here today.

1192
00:53:10,980 --> 00:53:13,190
{\an8}You know, I'm speeding up
me and Jenn's relationship.

1193
00:53:17,278 --> 00:53:21,324
A wise man once said
if you ain't first, you're last.

1194
00:53:21,324 --> 00:53:23,367
And I was driving
like I deserved that rose.

1195
00:53:23,367 --> 00:53:26,495
Austin coming in with a time
of one minute and 20 seconds,

1196
00:53:26,495 --> 00:53:28,706
which puts Austin in the lead.

1197
00:53:32,418 --> 00:53:33,377
Fastest one?

1198
00:53:33,377 --> 00:53:34,879
- Yeah.
- Yeah.

1199
00:53:34,879 --> 00:53:36,464
Jeremy's doing really well.

1200
00:53:36,464 --> 00:53:37,882
He's surprising.
He's going so fast.

1201
00:53:37,882 --> 00:53:39,926
And I actually
really trust Jeremy.

1202
00:53:45,514 --> 00:53:47,433
Oh, he-- he stalled out!

1203
00:53:47,433 --> 00:53:49,310
Why is he stopped?
We don't know what's happening.

1204
00:53:49,310 --> 00:53:51,812
He's on the corner.

1205
00:53:51,812 --> 00:53:52,939
Oh!

1206
00:53:53,898 --> 00:53:55,358
I lose the race on purpose.

1207
00:53:55,358 --> 00:53:57,860
But in this journey,
every moment counts.

1208
00:53:57,860 --> 00:53:59,820
Could this be
a medical emergency?

1209
00:53:59,820 --> 00:54:02,657
We're fine, we're fine.
- Bye, guys.

1210
00:54:02,657 --> 00:54:04,450
Even if it was
for an extra minute,

1211
00:54:04,450 --> 00:54:07,078
it's like the little moments
that count for me.

1212
00:54:07,078 --> 00:54:09,330
{\an8}I didn't win the race...

1213
00:54:09,330 --> 00:54:10,706
{\an8}but I won.

1214
00:54:10,706 --> 00:54:12,625
{\an8}Three minutes
and 31 seconds.

1215
00:54:12,625 --> 00:54:16,003
{\an8}I'm hoping they stopped
for a little bit of a snog.

1216
00:54:16,003 --> 00:54:17,588
Matthew, Aaron is next.

1217
00:54:17,588 --> 00:54:19,382
He is the betting favorite.

1218
00:54:19,382 --> 00:54:21,008
But he's really got to
put his foot to the floor

1219
00:54:21,008 --> 00:54:22,468
if he wants to beat
the top time.

1220
00:54:29,225 --> 00:54:32,520
I love going fast,
and I'm just ready to let loose,

1221
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:37,566
go full throttle and just show
Jenn that I'm the top dog.

1222
00:54:37,566 --> 00:54:39,527
There's one-on-one time
on the line,

1223
00:54:39,527 --> 00:54:42,947
and I need that to figure out
if we have a future together.

1224
00:54:42,947 --> 00:54:45,658
- Whoo!
- Oh, that was so fun.

1225
00:54:45,658 --> 00:54:49,370
Impressive driving. I do have
some times for you all.

1226
00:54:49,370 --> 00:54:51,956
Down the bottom
in fourth position,

1227
00:54:51,956 --> 00:54:55,793
we do have Jeremy--
three minutes, 31 seconds.

1228
00:54:55,793 --> 00:55:00,047
Third place, Hakeem
at one minute, 31 seconds.

1229
00:55:00,047 --> 00:55:01,257
Okay!

1230
00:55:01,257 --> 00:55:04,468
And in second place,
at 1:23,

1231
00:55:04,468 --> 00:55:05,928
we have Aaron.

1232
00:55:07,430 --> 00:55:10,516
And taking home first place at
one minute and 20 seconds

1233
00:55:10,516 --> 00:55:11,767
is Austin.

1234
00:55:11,767 --> 00:55:14,603
Congratulations, mate.
- Whoo!

1235
00:55:14,603 --> 00:55:17,606
Austin ended up winning.
It sucked not winning.

1236
00:55:17,606 --> 00:55:19,400
{\an8}I think my pride
took a little hit,

1237
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,235
especially since I was
the only guy that actually knew

1238
00:55:21,235 --> 00:55:22,695
how to drive the car.

1239
00:55:24,989 --> 00:55:26,407
I wanted that one-on-one time

1240
00:55:26,407 --> 00:55:29,076
that Austin had with Jenn
so bad,

1241
00:55:29,076 --> 00:55:32,621
'cause there's a very big life
decision that I need to make,

1242
00:55:32,621 --> 00:55:34,248
and I need to get clarity
with Jenn

1243
00:55:34,248 --> 00:55:36,250
and see where the
feelings are at.

1244
00:55:36,250 --> 00:55:39,253
So, hopefully I'll get to have
that tonight at the after-party.

1245
00:55:48,179 --> 00:55:50,347
Racing cars has definitely
always been something

1246
00:55:50,347 --> 00:55:52,600
on my bucket list,
so I was so happy about today

1247
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,394
and I feel like I really got
that adrenaline rush.

1248
00:55:55,394 --> 00:55:58,647
However, tonight, you know,
there's only four of you guys

1249
00:55:58,647 --> 00:56:00,316
and I really want to slow down

1250
00:56:00,316 --> 00:56:01,942
and get to know
each other a lot more.

1251
00:56:01,942 --> 00:56:03,319
Yeah.
Cheers to you guys

1252
00:56:03,319 --> 00:56:04,862
just leaning in today.

1253
00:56:04,862 --> 00:56:06,447
So fun.
- Cheers.

1254
00:56:06,447 --> 00:56:07,990
To speeding up.
Yeah.

1255
00:56:09,075 --> 00:56:11,285
To slowing down.

1256
00:56:11,285 --> 00:56:12,536
Tonight, there's an opportunity

1257
00:56:12,536 --> 00:56:14,080
to get to know Jenn better.

1258
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,165
And I need that time with her

1259
00:56:16,165 --> 00:56:19,585
{\an8}because my flight training dates
are ready for me

1260
00:56:19,585 --> 00:56:22,797
{\an8}and I, you know, have this
opportunity in the Air Force.

1261
00:56:22,797 --> 00:56:24,381
{\an8}On the other side, it's like,

1262
00:56:24,381 --> 00:56:26,467
I want to fall in love
more than anything else,

1263
00:56:26,467 --> 00:56:28,552
and I don't know if I'm gonna
find another girl like Jenn.

1264
00:56:28,552 --> 00:56:29,970
How are you doing?

1265
00:56:29,970 --> 00:56:32,098
- I'm doing amazing.
- Good.

1266
00:56:32,098 --> 00:56:34,809
I-I wish I could do both.

1267
00:56:34,809 --> 00:56:36,727
Been wanting time with you,

1268
00:56:36,727 --> 00:56:39,438
and the fact that it's like,
it's finally happening,

1269
00:56:39,438 --> 00:56:41,148
it's really awesome.

1270
00:56:41,148 --> 00:56:43,776
And I thought you looked
super sexy in your jumpsuit.

1271
00:56:43,776 --> 00:56:45,402
- Oh, gosh. Don't even.
- You felt like a badass.

1272
00:56:45,402 --> 00:56:47,071
Come on.
- Don't even get me started.

1273
00:56:47,071 --> 00:56:49,657
I mean, I felt nice to be
out of a dress for once.

1274
00:56:49,657 --> 00:56:51,242
- You doing your thing?
- Yeah.

1275
00:56:51,242 --> 00:56:52,660
Being all sporty.

1276
00:56:52,660 --> 00:56:54,203
Well, you did amazing
at the drift.

1277
00:56:54,203 --> 00:56:56,080
I was really surprised.
- That was so fun. Yeah.

1278
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,082
I love a good
adrenaline rush.

1279
00:56:58,082 --> 00:57:00,292
- Yeah?
- Yeah. What about you?

1280
00:57:00,292 --> 00:57:02,503
I love--
Yeah, I live my life, like,

1281
00:57:02,503 --> 00:57:04,255
on the edge of my seat always.
- You do?

1282
00:57:04,255 --> 00:57:06,257
- I'm definitely a risk taker.
- Okay.

1283
00:57:06,257 --> 00:57:07,883
Um, I have my pilot license,
like to fly planes.

1284
00:57:07,883 --> 00:57:09,635
You do?

1285
00:57:09,635 --> 00:57:11,679
I've been in some
sketchy, like, bad weather

1286
00:57:11,679 --> 00:57:14,473
and, like, kind of that...
That's a little scary.

1287
00:57:14,473 --> 00:57:16,016
I didn't know you had
your pilot license.

1288
00:57:16,016 --> 00:57:17,643
Yeah.
I'll take you up sometime.

1289
00:57:17,643 --> 00:57:19,603
Jenn is definitely
the type of woman

1290
00:57:19,603 --> 00:57:22,189
I could see myself marrying
if everything goes well.

1291
00:57:22,189 --> 00:57:25,067
Just like how she makes you
feel is so comfortable.

1292
00:57:25,067 --> 00:57:27,153
And it felt nice to, like,

1293
00:57:27,153 --> 00:57:29,029
literally just tell her
everything about my life.

1294
00:57:29,029 --> 00:57:31,282
Are you, like,
a family type of guy?

1295
00:57:31,282 --> 00:57:32,658
Like, are you close
with your family?

1296
00:57:32,658 --> 00:57:34,034
I'm very close
with my family,

1297
00:57:34,034 --> 00:57:36,537
like 15 or 16 nieces
and nephews,

1298
00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:39,331
and it's just crazy.
- That's a big family.

1299
00:57:39,331 --> 00:57:42,001
To feel that she knows me
in a much better way

1300
00:57:42,001 --> 00:57:43,919
and just like,

1301
00:57:43,919 --> 00:57:46,463
kind of have that back-and-forth
of like what we want in life.

1302
00:57:46,463 --> 00:57:48,507
For me, it's like
at the end of the day,

1303
00:57:48,507 --> 00:57:50,301
tomorrow's not promised,
so I'm someone that's like,

1304
00:57:50,301 --> 00:57:52,720
I want to live every day
like it's my last.

1305
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:54,555
- Okay. Bold.
- Especially in a relationship.

1306
00:57:54,555 --> 00:57:57,016
And I know, like,
what I have to g--

1307
00:57:57,016 --> 00:57:58,726
like, what I can give
to a relationship.

1308
00:57:58,726 --> 00:58:00,227
This is why I'm here.

1309
00:58:00,227 --> 00:58:02,104
Like, I see the potential
with you, Jenn.

1310
00:58:02,104 --> 00:58:04,940
And I see, like-- like, we can
have something special

1311
00:58:04,940 --> 00:58:06,901
and, like,
really excited about that.

1312
00:58:06,901 --> 00:58:09,737
And I'm like, I just want to...

1313
00:58:12,656 --> 00:58:15,117
I have a large
life decision right now.

1314
00:58:15,117 --> 00:58:18,245
I don't want to give up on
what I'm doing here with Jenn.

1315
00:58:18,245 --> 00:58:20,789
I feel so connected to her.

1316
00:58:20,789 --> 00:58:22,541
It felt really good
and it felt like,

1317
00:58:22,541 --> 00:58:24,210
you know,
we just got closer together

1318
00:58:24,210 --> 00:58:26,462
and we got to know
each other in a deeper way.

1319
00:58:26,462 --> 00:58:28,130
I'm hopeful
for the group-date rose,

1320
00:58:28,130 --> 00:58:30,925
and I like my chances.

1321
00:58:30,925 --> 00:58:32,343
You have a fun day?

1322
00:58:32,343 --> 00:58:34,637
Mm-hmm.
Did you have a fun day?

1323
00:58:34,637 --> 00:58:36,597
No, yeah.
You seem fun too.

1324
00:58:36,597 --> 00:58:38,224
That's why, like,
I like you so much.

1325
00:58:38,224 --> 00:58:39,600
I don't know, it's like

1326
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:41,393
I could feel comfortable
around you.

1327
00:58:41,393 --> 00:58:43,354
- Yeah.
- I feel like I can say
anything around you.

1328
00:58:43,354 --> 00:58:45,064
I love that. Same.

1329
00:58:45,064 --> 00:58:46,649
I think we have, like,
this comfort that I love.

1330
00:58:46,649 --> 00:58:48,859
I feel like it's really fun.
- Aww.

1331
00:58:48,859 --> 00:58:50,402
What have your--
what have-- what have

1332
00:58:50,402 --> 00:58:52,196
your, like, relationships
looked like?

1333
00:58:52,196 --> 00:58:54,698
- Mm.
- Have you had any?

1334
00:58:54,698 --> 00:58:56,617
- Yes. Yes. Yeah.
- Okay. I don't know.

1335
00:58:56,617 --> 00:58:58,494
No, no, I mean a lot of them
have been bad.

1336
00:58:58,494 --> 00:59:00,746
I think a lot
of toxic relationships

1337
00:59:00,746 --> 00:59:03,540
where I felt like
I was putting in too much

1338
00:59:03,540 --> 00:59:05,417
and then they're not
giving anything back.

1339
00:59:05,417 --> 00:59:08,671
So I had to like dim down my
successes for the other person,

1340
00:59:08,671 --> 00:59:10,256
which I didn't like.
- Mm.

1341
00:59:10,256 --> 00:59:12,174
That was kind of messed up.
Like, I had some

1342
00:59:12,174 --> 00:59:13,968
really good moments
that I would want a partner

1343
00:59:13,968 --> 00:59:15,678
to, like, celebrate
and share with me.

1344
00:59:15,678 --> 00:59:17,137
Yeah, you should be, like,
rooting for each other.

1345
00:59:17,137 --> 00:59:18,847
Yeah, exactly.

1346
00:59:18,847 --> 00:59:20,933
Um, so that's kind of
what my relationships

1347
00:59:20,933 --> 00:59:23,310
have looked like, is not good.

1348
00:59:23,310 --> 00:59:26,689
In previous relationships,
I definitely felt like
I was put into a mold

1349
00:59:26,689 --> 00:59:30,234
and I had to act a certain way
and be a certain type of person.

1350
00:59:30,234 --> 00:59:33,612
I couldn't be the outgoing,
bold person that I am

1351
00:59:33,612 --> 00:59:35,322
because somebody
was too insecure

1352
00:59:35,322 --> 00:59:36,782
to accept that part of me.

1353
00:59:36,782 --> 00:59:38,450
Time for a nontoxic
relationship.

1354
00:59:38,450 --> 00:59:39,952
Yeah.

1355
00:59:39,952 --> 00:59:41,912
You look really cute
right now.

1356
00:59:41,912 --> 00:59:43,664
I guess I have a little crush.

1357
00:59:43,664 --> 00:59:45,374
- Do you now?
- Oh, what?

1358
00:59:47,251 --> 00:59:49,586
Why are you laughing?
- I don't know.

1359
00:59:49,586 --> 00:59:51,171
- My face makes you laugh?
- A little bit.

1360
00:59:51,171 --> 00:59:52,589
No.

1361
00:59:52,589 --> 00:59:54,425
Jeremy makes me feel thought of,

1362
00:59:54,425 --> 00:59:57,177
and I've always wanted
a thoughtful partner.

1363
01:00:01,598 --> 01:00:04,018
I feel like he-- he gets me

1364
01:00:04,018 --> 01:00:06,603
without me really having
to say anything sometimes.

1365
01:00:06,603 --> 01:00:08,355
Makes me feel really hopeful

1366
01:00:08,355 --> 01:00:10,899
that I can trust someone
to treat me well.

1367
01:00:10,899 --> 01:00:13,235
I hate knowing that
there was a point in my life

1368
01:00:13,235 --> 01:00:15,612
where I thought
of myself so low

1369
01:00:15,612 --> 01:00:19,366
and I let somebody treat me
in such a bad way.

1370
01:00:19,366 --> 01:00:22,161
Growing up,
there was stuff that happened

1371
01:00:22,161 --> 01:00:23,871
with my mom and dad.
They...

1372
01:00:23,871 --> 01:00:25,831
You know, they had
a very toxic relationship

1373
01:00:25,831 --> 01:00:27,666
and, you know,
an abusive relationship.

1374
01:00:27,666 --> 01:00:29,209
It kind of shaped me
to the man I am today.

1375
01:00:29,209 --> 01:00:32,755
So, like, I want you to feel
safe around me.

1376
01:00:32,755 --> 01:00:34,923
So, that's the most
important thing for me.

1377
01:00:34,923 --> 01:00:37,509
We both grew up
in broken families.

1378
01:00:37,509 --> 01:00:39,636
I didn't know what love was
growing up.

1379
01:00:39,636 --> 01:00:42,097
I didn't see it and I didn't
feel it from a father figure,

1380
01:00:42,097 --> 01:00:46,643
so it made me want to search
for it in the wrong places.

1381
01:00:46,643 --> 01:00:50,022
My past relationship,
I was cheated on, and--

1382
01:00:50,022 --> 01:00:52,024
- That's horrible.
- I know. It's tough.

1383
01:00:52,024 --> 01:00:55,527
And you know,
I've never been in love before.

1384
01:00:55,527 --> 01:00:57,488
You don't think
you've ever been in love?

1385
01:00:57,488 --> 01:01:00,449
Um, I think I thought I knew
what love was, but not really.

1386
01:01:00,449 --> 01:01:03,702
Like, I don't, like, I've never
had anyone really love me.

1387
01:01:03,702 --> 01:01:05,037
Like a true partnership.

1388
01:01:05,037 --> 01:01:09,416
- Really?
- Yeah. Yeah.

1389
01:01:09,416 --> 01:01:11,377
Wow.
Well, you deserve that.

1390
01:01:11,377 --> 01:01:13,379
- Thank you. So do you.
- Yeah. Absolutely.

1391
01:01:13,379 --> 01:01:15,339
I mean, we all do. Mm.

1392
01:01:17,257 --> 01:01:19,259
To be honest,
to hear all these guys

1393
01:01:19,259 --> 01:01:21,762
open up about their past

1394
01:01:21,762 --> 01:01:24,765
makes me realize how much
I want a healthy relationship.

1395
01:01:24,765 --> 01:01:26,350
It's like, in order to do that,

1396
01:01:26,350 --> 01:01:28,310
I do kind of have to rehash
all the stuff

1397
01:01:28,310 --> 01:01:31,897
that I've been through for me
to be able to release it.

1398
01:01:31,897 --> 01:01:34,400
- Hello.
- Hello, hello.

1399
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:36,068
I'm happy I was able
to talk about it

1400
01:01:36,068 --> 01:01:39,738
and relate so much
to all these men.

1401
01:01:39,738 --> 01:01:41,698
That was important for me
to see tonight,

1402
01:01:41,698 --> 01:01:45,119
and it makes me feel
really hopeful for the future.

1403
01:01:48,539 --> 01:01:52,751
Well, I want to let you know
what an amazing day I truly had.

1404
01:01:52,751 --> 01:01:55,170
I feel like we all
really grew so much

1405
01:01:55,170 --> 01:01:57,047
in each of our
relationships today,

1406
01:01:57,047 --> 01:01:58,590
and I'm so grateful for that.

1407
01:01:58,590 --> 01:02:00,175
I really loved getting to know

1408
01:02:00,175 --> 01:02:02,845
each and every one of you guys
a lot more.

1409
01:02:02,845 --> 01:02:05,806
Um, so, Jeremy...

1410
01:02:05,806 --> 01:02:07,349
will you accept this rose?

1411
01:02:07,349 --> 01:02:08,934
Love to.

1412
01:02:12,354 --> 01:02:14,148
{\an8}To hear Jenn
hand the rose to Jeremy

1413
01:02:14,148 --> 01:02:16,817
{\an8}was just kind of like...

1414
01:02:16,817 --> 01:02:19,069
{\an8}You know, like,
just based on today,

1415
01:02:19,069 --> 01:02:23,240
the phone call and kind of like,
where my mind's been at.

1416
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,117
Hugs?
Had I received the rose,

1417
01:02:25,117 --> 01:02:26,660
that would have really confirmed

1418
01:02:26,660 --> 01:02:28,787
we might have something
really special here.

1419
01:02:28,787 --> 01:02:31,999
I didn't get that, like,
stamp of, like, validation

1420
01:02:31,999 --> 01:02:33,667
that I was looking for tonight.

1421
01:02:33,667 --> 01:02:36,462
And now I have
a lot more to think about.

1422
01:02:47,473 --> 01:02:49,308
Let's get after it,
get after it.

1423
01:02:49,308 --> 01:02:51,518
- Come on, y'all.
- Let's go.

1424
01:02:51,518 --> 01:02:53,395
There are 15 guys left,

1425
01:02:53,395 --> 01:02:55,481
three of which
have roses already.

1426
01:02:55,481 --> 01:02:58,358
So that leaves 12 of us
roseless.

1427
01:02:58,358 --> 01:03:00,986
{\an8}Who knows how many people
are going home tonight?

1428
01:03:03,322 --> 01:03:05,949
{\an8}I hope it goes better than
our last rose ceremony.

1429
01:03:05,949 --> 01:03:08,577
{\an8}There was a lot
of drama last week.

1430
01:03:08,577 --> 01:03:10,913
Hopefully everyone
can just focus on Jenn

1431
01:03:10,913 --> 01:03:13,415
and leave the drama behind.

1432
01:03:13,415 --> 01:03:15,709
I think this week
was pretty solid overall.

1433
01:03:15,709 --> 01:03:18,879
I'm sure a lot of us can agree,
it was a very smooth,

1434
01:03:18,879 --> 01:03:21,465
it was an enjoyable week,
so I feel like, you know,

1435
01:03:21,465 --> 01:03:24,384
let's just cap it off
with good vibes, man.

1436
01:03:32,309 --> 01:03:35,229
- Wait, what?
- Ah, something else going on.

1437
01:03:35,229 --> 01:03:37,231
{\an8}Trying to figure out
where I'm at with

1438
01:03:37,231 --> 01:03:41,109
{\an8}my relationship with Jenn,
and, um, I'm feeling conflicted.

1439
01:03:41,109 --> 01:03:42,778
I know my heart right now

1440
01:03:42,778 --> 01:03:45,906
is feeling pulled
in two different directions.

1441
01:03:45,906 --> 01:03:48,116
Last night ended, you know,
me putting it all out there,

1442
01:03:48,116 --> 01:03:50,035
not feeling the validation.

1443
01:03:50,035 --> 01:03:52,246
So, you know, what-- what is
the most important thing for me

1444
01:03:52,246 --> 01:03:54,289
to do at this stage in my life?

1445
01:04:00,170 --> 01:04:02,005
On the group date last night,

1446
01:04:02,005 --> 01:04:06,093
opening up all that pain
from the past was heavy for me.

1447
01:04:08,845 --> 01:04:12,849
But having such vulnerable
conversations with the guys

1448
01:04:12,849 --> 01:04:15,352
made me feel so reassured

1449
01:04:15,352 --> 01:04:20,691
and reaffirms that I have strong
connections here that I trust.

1450
01:04:20,691 --> 01:04:22,484
That's encouraging to me

1451
01:04:22,484 --> 01:04:25,195
and that makes me
believe in this even more.

1452
01:04:27,114 --> 01:04:29,032
- Whoo!
- Hey!

1453
01:04:31,368 --> 01:04:34,705
Thank you.
Oh!

1454
01:04:34,705 --> 01:04:37,165
Um, this week has been amazing.

1455
01:04:37,165 --> 01:04:39,293
I feel like I made some really,

1456
01:04:39,293 --> 01:04:41,587
really strong connections
and grew a lot

1457
01:04:41,587 --> 01:04:43,589
in each of our relationships.

1458
01:04:43,589 --> 01:04:45,299
Tonight, I'm here for you guys

1459
01:04:45,299 --> 01:04:47,175
because you guys are
so amazing for me,

1460
01:04:47,175 --> 01:04:50,429
because I really feel like this
is working for me.

1461
01:04:50,429 --> 01:04:53,682
And yeah, I'm excited
to have a good night.

1462
01:04:53,682 --> 01:04:55,183
- Cheers.
- Cheers to that.

1463
01:04:55,183 --> 01:04:56,393
Cheers.

1464
01:04:56,393 --> 01:04:57,686
I want Jenn to know

1465
01:04:57,686 --> 01:04:59,771
that I appreciate who she is,

1466
01:04:59,771 --> 01:05:03,066
{\an8}but I think I'm definitely being
pulled in a different direction

1467
01:05:03,066 --> 01:05:05,152
{\an8}and I got to listen
to my heart.

1468
01:05:05,152 --> 01:05:08,572
I don't feel like I'm far enough
along yet to, like, turn away

1469
01:05:08,572 --> 01:05:11,116
from everything else
and like, you know,

1470
01:05:11,116 --> 01:05:13,785
give this everything
I have right now.

1471
01:05:13,785 --> 01:05:15,954
- It's good to see you.
- It's good to see you, too.

1472
01:05:15,954 --> 01:05:19,333
Um, I feel like the goal
I set out to do

1473
01:05:19,333 --> 01:05:20,876
of coming here is like,

1474
01:05:20,876 --> 01:05:23,462
I came here to meet someone,
to get engaged,

1475
01:05:23,462 --> 01:05:26,882
and meet my soulmate,
a partner for life.

1476
01:05:26,882 --> 01:05:31,053
And just getting to know you
has been such a treat.

1477
01:05:31,053 --> 01:05:33,764
But, um, I had a dream

1478
01:05:33,764 --> 01:05:37,351
of being a fighter pilot
my entire life,

1479
01:05:37,351 --> 01:05:40,604
and I got a call that
pilot training dates
are happening,

1480
01:05:40,604 --> 01:05:42,356
and they pretty much said,
like, "We're not holding these.

1481
01:05:42,356 --> 01:05:46,902
Either you come back right away
or the dream is over."

1482
01:05:46,902 --> 01:05:50,238
And like, I wish
I was further along

1483
01:05:50,238 --> 01:05:52,240
where I felt like--
- Okay.

1484
01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:55,577
..."As long as I have Jenn
in my life, like, I'm happy,"

1485
01:05:55,577 --> 01:05:57,704
and I'm just
not there yet, so...

1486
01:05:57,704 --> 01:06:00,999
I made the decision that, like,
the dreams and aspirations

1487
01:06:00,999 --> 01:06:03,669
I have,
like, I'm choosing those.

1488
01:06:03,669 --> 01:06:06,004
Listen, I totally
appreciate your honesty

1489
01:06:06,004 --> 01:06:08,590
and I totally understand
following your dreams.

1490
01:06:08,590 --> 01:06:11,551
I wouldn't want to be
a source of resentment, ever.

1491
01:06:11,551 --> 01:06:13,970
Yeah.
- And I think, like,
if this is your dream

1492
01:06:13,970 --> 01:06:16,014
and if you've been working
so hard for this, like,

1493
01:06:16,014 --> 01:06:17,641
I want to cheer you on
and do that.

1494
01:06:17,641 --> 01:06:19,601
And like, I can't
thank you enough

1495
01:06:19,601 --> 01:06:22,813
for the amazing times
that we had had together.

1496
01:06:22,813 --> 01:06:24,606
If I were you, I would do
the same, you know?

1497
01:06:24,606 --> 01:06:26,817
Yeah. Thank you.
That means a lot.

1498
01:06:26,817 --> 01:06:30,404
And I just want to say, like,
I-- I care about you.

1499
01:06:30,404 --> 01:06:34,783
And I know there are so many
good guys downstairs.

1500
01:06:34,783 --> 01:06:38,036
- Thank you.
- And I just want you to make

1501
01:06:38,036 --> 01:06:40,080
the right decision for you.

1502
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:41,998
I'm not gonna name names, but...

1503
01:06:41,998 --> 01:06:44,418
there are people
that aren't ready.

1504
01:06:44,418 --> 01:06:46,336
There's people
that I don't think

1505
01:06:46,336 --> 01:06:48,171
they'll be ready at the end
like you are.

1506
01:06:48,171 --> 01:06:49,673
Aaron drops a bomb on me

1507
01:06:49,673 --> 01:06:51,133
and tells me
that there are people here

1508
01:06:51,133 --> 01:06:52,259
who aren't ready
for an engagement

1509
01:06:52,259 --> 01:06:53,844
at the end of this.

1510
01:06:53,844 --> 01:06:56,763
I'm just confused
what exactly is going on

1511
01:06:56,763 --> 01:06:59,349
and if there's
any proof to this.

1512
01:06:59,349 --> 01:07:01,435
So, they're not ready
or they-- they're here

1513
01:07:01,435 --> 01:07:03,687
for the wrong reasons?

1514
01:07:03,687 --> 01:07:05,689
Both.
Some aren't ready.

1515
01:07:05,689 --> 01:07:07,482
Some might not be here
for the right reasons.

1516
01:07:07,482 --> 01:07:10,235
What are they here for?

1517
01:07:10,235 --> 01:07:11,528
- Well, I--
- So, what are you
actually saying?

1518
01:07:11,528 --> 01:07:12,738
I just know my reasons,

1519
01:07:12,738 --> 01:07:14,990
and I know I don't think...

1520
01:07:16,783 --> 01:07:20,787
Do you feel like someone
is treating this as a game?

1521
01:07:20,787 --> 01:07:22,831
- I'm not trying to scare you...
- I know.

1522
01:07:22,831 --> 01:07:24,249
- I'm just like--
- Okay, but you are.

1523
01:07:24,249 --> 01:07:25,792
But you are.
That's not fair.

1524
01:07:25,792 --> 01:07:27,252
What, am I gonna go
down there and be like,

1525
01:07:27,252 --> 01:07:29,171
"Hey, who's not ready for this?"
No.

1526
01:07:29,171 --> 01:07:30,255
- Like, that's not...
- I think you know.

1527
01:07:30,255 --> 01:07:31,840
That's not fair.

1528
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:33,592
No, I-I don't know,

1529
01:07:33,592 --> 01:07:35,135
because I generally feel like
I have a connection

1530
01:07:35,135 --> 01:07:37,304
with a lot of those guys
down there.

1531
01:07:37,304 --> 01:07:40,766
I do care, but I think
it's on you to figure out.

1532
01:07:40,766 --> 01:07:42,768
Just be careful.
Have doubts about--

1533
01:07:42,768 --> 01:07:44,644
Okay. I hear you.
Thank you.

1534
01:07:47,314 --> 01:07:50,525
I feel like it was
a disingenuous conversation.

1535
01:07:50,525 --> 01:07:53,487
I feel like he knew he wanted
to leave, which is fine.

1536
01:07:53,487 --> 01:07:55,947
But to not tell me
who these people are

1537
01:07:55,947 --> 01:07:57,908
that he thinks, is just...

1538
01:07:57,908 --> 01:07:59,367
That's cruel.

1539
01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:01,411
{\an8}She went with Aaron?

1540
01:08:07,876 --> 01:08:09,419
I'm so confused.

1541
01:08:09,419 --> 01:08:11,213
I trust myself,
and I trust my gut,

1542
01:08:11,213 --> 01:08:13,465
and I trust that
I can read people well.

1543
01:08:13,465 --> 01:08:15,926
But am I a little,
in the back of my head,

1544
01:08:15,926 --> 01:08:18,970
like, okay,
this could be worrisome?

1545
01:08:18,970 --> 01:08:20,722
Yeah.

1546
01:08:20,722 --> 01:08:22,390
Now I have to spend
the rest of the night

1547
01:08:22,390 --> 01:08:25,644
figuring out who this is
or who these people are

1548
01:08:25,644 --> 01:08:27,813
who aren't here
for the right reasons.

1549
01:08:31,191 --> 01:08:33,193
You guys can sit.

1550
01:08:33,193 --> 01:08:34,778
I had to walk Aaron out today

1551
01:08:34,778 --> 01:08:37,072
because he had to leave
for personal reasons.

1552
01:08:37,072 --> 01:08:39,449
And before he left today,
he told me that there are

1553
01:08:39,449 --> 01:08:41,576
some people who are here
for the wrong reasons

1554
01:08:41,576 --> 01:08:44,746
and aren't ready
for an engagement.

1555
01:08:44,746 --> 01:08:48,250
And I just want to tell you guys
that I need you to sit here

1556
01:08:48,250 --> 01:08:51,253
and really think about it,
because this is my life.

1557
01:08:51,253 --> 01:08:53,296
I've made the wrong decisions
in the past,

1558
01:08:53,296 --> 01:08:55,215
and I'm not gonna do that
anymore.

1559
01:08:55,215 --> 01:08:59,469
So if you think that this is not
the place that you should be,

1560
01:08:59,469 --> 01:09:01,263
then you need to get out.

1561
01:09:01,263 --> 01:09:02,597
Got it?

1562
01:09:06,226 --> 01:09:08,895
Marcus, do you want to go chat?
Yeah.

1563
01:09:08,895 --> 01:09:13,525
This was not the bomb
that I wanted tonight.

1564
01:09:13,525 --> 01:09:15,944
Um, but it definitely

1565
01:09:15,944 --> 01:09:18,947
was the source of ignition
that I needed.

1566
01:09:27,247 --> 01:09:29,165
I know that
y'all respect Aaron,

1567
01:09:29,165 --> 01:09:31,167
but, like, did he have
a personal conversation

1568
01:09:31,167 --> 01:09:32,919
with one of you that said,

1569
01:09:32,919 --> 01:09:34,212
"Hey, I'm not here
for the right reasons,

1570
01:09:34,212 --> 01:09:35,839
I'm here for a game show"?

1571
01:09:35,839 --> 01:09:37,424
Did he have that conversation
with anybody?

1572
01:09:37,424 --> 01:09:38,925
And we don't know who
he was talking about.

1573
01:09:38,925 --> 01:09:40,510
Aaron chose to use
his last moments

1574
01:09:40,510 --> 01:09:42,512
to talk [bleep] about
every single person.

1575
01:09:42,512 --> 01:09:44,097
We don't know what, who it was,

1576
01:09:44,097 --> 01:09:45,932
but it was somebody
in this room.

1577
01:09:45,932 --> 01:09:47,559
He didn't say--
- Bro, you're so quick.

1578
01:09:47,559 --> 01:09:49,144
Hey, hold up, hold up,
hold up, hold up.

1579
01:09:49,144 --> 01:09:50,979
That's my boy right there.

1580
01:09:50,979 --> 01:09:52,355
It ain't fair for any single
person in this room

1581
01:09:52,355 --> 01:09:54,107
to dismiss the way
that he feels

1582
01:09:54,107 --> 01:09:55,483
and the way that he handles
his [bleep] right there.

1583
01:09:55,483 --> 01:09:56,776
Just accept it.

1584
01:09:56,776 --> 01:09:57,777
He won't sit there and admit

1585
01:09:57,777 --> 01:09:59,154
that Aaron was wrong.

1586
01:09:59,154 --> 01:10:00,864
He cares so much
about defending him.

1587
01:10:00,864 --> 01:10:02,616
It's infuriating.

1588
01:10:02,616 --> 01:10:05,035
{\an8}Those dudes have no respect
for anyone

1589
01:10:05,035 --> 01:10:06,703
{\an8}other than their [bleep] selves.

1590
01:10:06,703 --> 01:10:08,622
I ain't gonna spend my time...

1591
01:10:08,622 --> 01:10:10,123
I don't spend my time
talking about none of y'all.

1592
01:10:10,123 --> 01:10:12,000
Boy, I keep the main thing
the main thing.

1593
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:13,877
I'mma continue to keep
the main thing the main thing.

1594
01:10:13,877 --> 01:10:15,503
Is this a line, or is this
actually coming from the heart?

1595
01:10:15,503 --> 01:10:16,922
I don't know,
I guess Jenn will be the one

1596
01:10:16,922 --> 01:10:18,757
that decides all that
right there.

1597
01:10:18,757 --> 01:10:20,800
They all want to say
that they're here for Jenn,

1598
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,553
but they have made
their entire journey here

1599
01:10:23,553 --> 01:10:24,763
not about Jenn.

1600
01:10:24,763 --> 01:10:26,598
It's about themselves.

1601
01:10:27,724 --> 01:10:30,435
Were you actually
really scared by my speech?

1602
01:10:30,435 --> 01:10:32,646
Yeah, I mean, it, like,
put the fear of God in me.

1603
01:10:32,646 --> 01:10:34,272
I feel like I've been
behaving myself

1604
01:10:34,272 --> 01:10:37,317
and I'm scared,
but, like, um...

1605
01:10:37,317 --> 01:10:39,986
How are you feeling about,
I guess, like,

1606
01:10:39,986 --> 01:10:41,821
what he let you know
when he was leaving?

1607
01:10:41,821 --> 01:10:43,281
Well, the part with the boys?

1608
01:10:43,281 --> 01:10:44,783
- Yeah, the...
- Part with the boys.

1609
01:10:44,783 --> 01:10:46,534
Well, I think you heard it

1610
01:10:46,534 --> 01:10:48,578
when I said my little speech.
- Yeah. Yeah, okay.

1611
01:10:48,578 --> 01:10:50,664
Yeah, I mean, I feel like I
know I've made some mistakes

1612
01:10:50,664 --> 01:10:52,707
in the past
in picking the wrong people,

1613
01:10:52,707 --> 01:10:55,627
but I've made that mistake
so many times that now I'm like,

1614
01:10:55,627 --> 01:10:58,004
I know what that feels like,
and I know what I'm looking for,

1615
01:10:58,004 --> 01:11:00,382
and I know
when I see a good man now.

1616
01:11:00,382 --> 01:11:04,010
Well, I just-- I just want
you to know that, like...

1617
01:11:04,010 --> 01:11:08,098
you know, I was pretty unsure
about this entire experience.

1618
01:11:08,098 --> 01:11:10,308
- Are you about to leave, too?
- Yeah, no.

1619
01:11:10,308 --> 01:11:11,768
It's-- it's a little scary.

1620
01:11:11,768 --> 01:11:14,479
But no, like,
I do feel like, um...

1621
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:15,897
I'm, like,
right where I need to be.

1622
01:11:15,897 --> 01:11:18,066
Yeah.
- Um, you know, like,

1623
01:11:18,066 --> 01:11:20,026
I catch myself
thinking about you,

1624
01:11:20,026 --> 01:11:23,446
um, when we're not together,
which is super surprising to me.

1625
01:11:23,446 --> 01:11:24,948
- Thank you.
- We got this times--

1626
01:11:24,948 --> 01:11:26,783
No, thank you, seriously.

1627
01:11:29,869 --> 01:11:31,204
It's a lot, yeah.
I know.

1628
01:11:31,204 --> 01:11:33,623
You always make me feel
so much better.

1629
01:11:33,623 --> 01:11:35,750
See, this is why--
this is what I needed.

1630
01:11:35,750 --> 01:11:38,378
This is what I needed.

1631
01:11:38,378 --> 01:11:40,255
Yo. Alright. Here.
Hold on, hold up.

1632
01:11:40,255 --> 01:11:42,924
Long story short, bro.
Alright, I don't respect you.

1633
01:11:42,924 --> 01:11:45,593
I don't like you.
I want nothing to do with you.

1634
01:11:45,593 --> 01:11:49,222
If you want to talk, yo, we will
step outside and we can talk.

1635
01:11:49,222 --> 01:11:51,725
Don't speak on me.
Don't speak on my name.

1636
01:11:51,725 --> 01:11:53,476
Don't [bleep] with me.
- Buried, bury it right there.

1637
01:11:53,476 --> 01:11:56,688
- Thank you, sir.
- No problem. That's good.

1638
01:11:57,856 --> 01:11:59,566
Jenn is a smart girl.

1639
01:11:59,566 --> 01:12:02,485
{\an8}And if Jenn is a person
that we see ourselves with,

1640
01:12:02,485 --> 01:12:04,029
{\an8}there's no possible way

1641
01:12:04,029 --> 01:12:05,947
{\an8}Jenn could love a man like me

1642
01:12:05,947 --> 01:12:07,907
and a man like Devin.

1643
01:12:09,909 --> 01:12:11,536
How are you?

1644
01:12:11,536 --> 01:12:13,830
Long night.
Why?

1645
01:12:13,830 --> 01:12:17,542
'Cause Aaron's my boy.
Weighs a little heavy on me.

1646
01:12:17,542 --> 01:12:20,211
So, it's all good.
- Okay.

1647
01:12:20,211 --> 01:12:22,589
- Yeah.
- Glad <i>you're</i> good.

1648
01:12:22,589 --> 01:12:24,049
I am good.

1649
01:12:25,884 --> 01:12:27,427
I'm proud of you.
I just want you to know that.

1650
01:12:27,427 --> 01:12:28,845
For what?
- What do you mean?

1651
01:12:28,845 --> 01:12:30,305
Doing all this.

1652
01:12:30,305 --> 01:12:32,307
Thank you.
- You look stunning.

1653
01:12:32,307 --> 01:12:34,392
Thank you.

1654
01:12:34,392 --> 01:12:35,977
Um, I don't know.

1655
01:12:35,977 --> 01:12:38,897
You're not rattled by my speech
a little?

1656
01:12:38,897 --> 01:12:41,441
Everything that you said
doesn't apply to me.

1657
01:12:41,441 --> 01:12:42,650
- Okay.
- Everything that you said,

1658
01:12:42,650 --> 01:12:44,486
none of it applies to me.

1659
01:12:46,696 --> 01:12:48,656
I sit here and just...

1660
01:12:50,075 --> 01:12:51,409
I see it.

1661
01:12:51,409 --> 01:12:54,746
I see the way
that I look at you.

1662
01:12:54,746 --> 01:12:56,748
I see the way
that you look at me.

1663
01:12:56,748 --> 01:13:01,127
It's easy to find validation
in moments like that, you know?

1664
01:13:01,127 --> 01:13:03,004
I think I needed
to hear that.

1665
01:13:03,004 --> 01:13:06,925
This week, what I kept
thinking back to was...

1666
01:13:08,218 --> 01:13:10,345
...was you.
I think I really just wanted,

1667
01:13:10,345 --> 01:13:12,680
like, a hug from you,
and I don't even know why.

1668
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:14,349
And I-- and I kept
thinking, like,

1669
01:13:14,349 --> 01:13:15,683
"He's gonna make me
feel better."

1670
01:13:15,683 --> 01:13:18,019
- Gosh.
- Mm!

1671
01:13:20,855 --> 01:13:23,817
That's why I trust
this process right here.

1672
01:13:23,817 --> 01:13:27,028
Sam M. tells me
that he does believe in this,

1673
01:13:27,028 --> 01:13:28,530
and I do believe him.

1674
01:13:28,530 --> 01:13:31,116
I can feel that
he's here for me.

1675
01:13:31,116 --> 01:13:36,287
I don't think that you can fake
passion or sincerity like that.

1676
01:13:36,287 --> 01:13:37,831
Kind of got
your mind off things?

1677
01:13:37,831 --> 01:13:40,542
Yeah, I-I think so.
- Talk to me.

1678
01:13:40,542 --> 01:13:43,378
{\an8}No, I-I think it's just been
overwhelming.

1679
01:13:43,378 --> 01:13:45,713
{\an8}I think it's been
a lot of emotions to process.

1680
01:13:45,713 --> 01:13:47,841
I feel like this position
puts you

1681
01:13:47,841 --> 01:13:50,468
in uncomfortable places
sometimes,

1682
01:13:50,468 --> 01:13:53,805
and I do oftentimes
put on a front.

1683
01:13:53,805 --> 01:13:55,849
I feel like I have to be
like this happy,

1684
01:13:55,849 --> 01:13:58,852
bubbly self all the time,
which a lot of times I am.

1685
01:13:58,852 --> 01:14:01,396
But I don't like showing
any signs of weakness

1686
01:14:01,396 --> 01:14:03,857
or showing like any kind
of vulnerability a lot of times,

1687
01:14:03,857 --> 01:14:06,192
because I feel like
in previous relationships,

1688
01:14:06,192 --> 01:14:08,194
when I did show bad days,

1689
01:14:08,194 --> 01:14:11,239
they'd run away or they
would not show up for me.

1690
01:14:11,239 --> 01:14:13,199
And so I felt like I've...

1691
01:14:13,199 --> 01:14:15,994
I, just like, that side of me,
that vulnerable side of me

1692
01:14:15,994 --> 01:14:19,831
wasn't something that people
liked or something that was,

1693
01:14:19,831 --> 01:14:24,043
um, like, accepted ever, so...
- Yeah. Yeah.

1694
01:14:24,043 --> 01:14:26,212
I got you.

1695
01:14:26,212 --> 01:14:28,173
- Devin. Devin.
- I've got you.

1696
01:14:28,173 --> 01:14:30,091
And I don't mean to harp on
emotions or anything like that,

1697
01:14:30,091 --> 01:14:34,971
but for you to come out and be
so open and be so vulnerable

1698
01:14:34,971 --> 01:14:36,890
in that moment, I felt like
I was meeting you all over

1699
01:14:36,890 --> 01:14:38,433
for the first time.

1700
01:14:38,433 --> 01:14:40,476
But in the way
that I wanted to meet you.

1701
01:14:40,476 --> 01:14:42,437
Devon really makes me
emotional, telling me

1702
01:14:42,437 --> 01:14:45,648
that it's not me being perfect
that draws him in,

1703
01:14:45,648 --> 01:14:49,235
but it's me being
basically my worst self.

1704
01:14:49,235 --> 01:14:50,695
When you're feeling down

1705
01:14:50,695 --> 01:14:52,488
and when the world
is crashing on you

1706
01:14:52,488 --> 01:14:54,532
and things seem like
it's impossible to look up

1707
01:14:54,532 --> 01:14:57,702
and look out,
like, just get behind me.

1708
01:14:57,702 --> 01:14:59,913
I'll take those punches
to the chin

1709
01:14:59,913 --> 01:15:01,372
and we'll keep walking.

1710
01:15:01,372 --> 01:15:04,375
You deserve somebody that will.

1711
01:15:04,375 --> 01:15:08,046
I'll get knocked out, and you
know that I've got your back.

1712
01:15:08,046 --> 01:15:10,506
And if you don't know that,
I can't wait to show you more.

1713
01:15:10,506 --> 01:15:12,175
You know?

1714
01:15:12,175 --> 01:15:14,302
Previous relationships,
I've had people

1715
01:15:14,302 --> 01:15:19,515
who won't comfort me in times
where I'm not my perfect self.

1716
01:15:19,515 --> 01:15:21,601
He sees me for who I am
and he...

1717
01:15:21,601 --> 01:15:24,729
You know, he-- he sees me.

1718
01:15:26,564 --> 01:15:28,942
We need to at least address
the elephant in the room, bro.

1719
01:15:28,942 --> 01:15:30,526
Is that cool?
She's not pissed off
about what's going on.

1720
01:15:30,526 --> 01:15:32,028
She's pissed off
about what Aaron said.

1721
01:15:32,028 --> 01:15:33,488
Yeah, that's
the biggest thing.

1722
01:15:33,488 --> 01:15:35,448
It's not about
what's going on.

1723
01:15:35,448 --> 01:15:37,367
That's the biggest thing.

1724
01:15:37,367 --> 01:15:38,743
that nobody wants to address.
Doesn't matter, bro.

1725
01:15:38,743 --> 01:15:41,246
It-- I literally told him that.
Yes.

1726
01:15:41,246 --> 01:15:42,872
Did we not have a conversation?
You told him,
but you didn't act on it.

1727
01:15:42,872 --> 01:15:44,332
You told him,
but you didn't act on it.

1728
01:15:44,332 --> 01:15:45,500
Is this is what
we're gonna do?

1729
01:15:45,500 --> 01:15:46,501
Why are we bickering?

1730
01:15:46,501 --> 01:15:48,044
{\an8}I need time with Jenn.

1731
01:15:48,044 --> 01:15:49,087
{\an8}I want to tell her
so many things

1732
01:15:49,087 --> 01:15:52,382
{\an8}that she makes me feel.

1733
01:15:52,382 --> 01:15:53,967
I'm done. I'm over it.

1734
01:15:53,967 --> 01:15:56,928
What is the purpose
of all of this [bleep]?

1735
01:15:56,928 --> 01:16:00,306
It's stupid.
Shut the [bleep] up, everyone.

1736
01:16:00,306 --> 01:16:02,475
What is the point right now?
No one even knows.

1737
01:16:02,475 --> 01:16:04,852
So everyone just, shh!
What happened, happened.

1738
01:16:04,852 --> 01:16:06,312
Aaron's gone.

1739
01:16:06,312 --> 01:16:07,772
We can't even talk
to him about it.

1740
01:16:07,772 --> 01:16:11,234
Let's, like, simmer.

1741
01:16:13,945 --> 01:16:15,780
Good evening, fellas.

1742
01:16:15,780 --> 01:16:18,449
Unfortunately, the cocktail
party has come to an end.

1743
01:16:18,449 --> 01:16:20,743
You all know tonight's
a big rose ceremony.

1744
01:16:20,743 --> 01:16:22,662
And I also know
tonight got heated,

1745
01:16:22,662 --> 01:16:25,623
so I just want to give you guys
a second to catch your breath.

1746
01:16:25,623 --> 01:16:29,002
And when you're ready, I'll
see you at the rose ceremony.

1747
01:16:29,002 --> 01:16:31,045
Good luck.
- Thanks, Jesse.

1748
01:16:32,839 --> 01:16:34,632
The night is still young,
right? I understand--

1749
01:16:34,632 --> 01:16:36,342
No, it's not.
It's over.

1750
01:16:36,342 --> 01:16:38,094
- Yeah. What's up?
- The night's over.

1751
01:16:38,094 --> 01:16:39,971
Jesse just said it.
He was standing right there.

1752
01:16:39,971 --> 01:16:41,639
So the night's not young.
So not...

1753
01:16:41,639 --> 01:16:44,267
Let's not try to, like,
dance around things.

1754
01:16:44,267 --> 01:16:46,352
Austin didn't get any time.

1755
01:16:46,352 --> 01:16:48,271
We've had a ton of arguments.
Well, that's not...

1756
01:16:48,271 --> 01:16:50,481
That's not...
Okay, I will say this, right?

1757
01:16:50,481 --> 01:16:52,150
I'm not-- I'm not--
- Hey, argument's over, dude.

1758
01:16:52,150 --> 01:16:53,526
- Look, I--
- That's kind of [bleep] up.

1759
01:16:53,526 --> 01:16:55,320
No, I...
No, I agree, I agree.

1760
01:16:57,613 --> 01:16:59,490
I don't know
who Aaron was talking about.

1761
01:16:59,490 --> 01:17:01,284
{\an8}But, you know,
not having that chance

1762
01:17:01,284 --> 01:17:03,786
{\an8}to talk to Jenn tonight
and give her that validation,

1763
01:17:03,786 --> 01:17:05,288
give her that reassurance

1764
01:17:05,288 --> 01:17:07,165
that I'm here
for the right reasons...

1765
01:17:07,165 --> 01:17:09,125
What if she thinks it's me?

1766
01:17:18,134 --> 01:17:20,595
Walking into
the rose ceremony,

1767
01:17:20,595 --> 01:17:22,013
it feels heavy.

1768
01:17:22,013 --> 01:17:24,932
Cocktail party tonight
was a crap show.

1769
01:17:24,932 --> 01:17:27,435
Aaron went home,
and before he left,

1770
01:17:27,435 --> 01:17:29,520
he decided to tell Jenn

1771
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:32,148
that some people are here
for the wrong reasons.

1772
01:17:32,148 --> 01:17:35,109
{\an8}So, who knows what could happen.

1773
01:17:38,821 --> 01:17:41,574
Hearing what Aaron told me
lit a fire under my ass.

1774
01:17:41,574 --> 01:17:43,493
That made me question

1775
01:17:43,493 --> 01:17:46,245
if some people might not be here
for the right reasons.

1776
01:17:46,245 --> 01:17:51,084
I have strong connections here
that I trust,

1777
01:17:51,084 --> 01:17:53,586
and is there a bit of a doubt

1778
01:17:53,586 --> 01:17:55,129
in the back of my head
sometimes?

1779
01:17:55,129 --> 01:17:58,508
Yes.
But I'm a big girl.

1780
01:17:58,508 --> 01:18:01,052
I can know when someone's here
for the wrong reasons.

1781
01:18:01,052 --> 01:18:04,013
I can discern that for myself.

1782
01:18:04,013 --> 01:18:07,475
I think today made me feel
a little bit more empowered.

1783
01:18:17,693 --> 01:18:20,321
Tonight when Aaron left,

1784
01:18:20,321 --> 01:18:23,991
he dropped some accusations
about you guys.

1785
01:18:23,991 --> 01:18:27,203
And you know,
I know what my intentions are,

1786
01:18:27,203 --> 01:18:29,038
and I know what I'm here for,

1787
01:18:29,038 --> 01:18:31,165
and that's to find my husband
and to get engaged.

1788
01:18:31,165 --> 01:18:33,418
And if you accept
a rose tonight,

1789
01:18:33,418 --> 01:18:36,462
I hope you know
what the weight of that means.

1790
01:18:47,390 --> 01:18:49,058
Marcus.

1791
01:18:53,354 --> 01:18:56,441
Marcus,
will you accept this rose?

1792
01:18:56,441 --> 01:18:58,192
Yes.

1793
01:18:58,192 --> 01:18:59,819
Thank you.
- Of course.

1794
01:19:14,709 --> 01:19:16,377
John M.

1795
01:19:20,715 --> 01:19:22,425
John, will you
accept this rose?

1796
01:19:22,425 --> 01:19:24,093
Every time.

1797
01:19:27,972 --> 01:19:29,640
Jonathon.

1798
01:19:32,226 --> 01:19:33,895
Jonathon, will you
accept this rose?

1799
01:19:33,895 --> 01:19:35,104
Of course.

1800
01:19:40,526 --> 01:19:42,820
Austin.

1801
01:19:42,820 --> 01:19:44,822
I'm a little frustrated
right now.

1802
01:19:44,822 --> 01:19:46,616
I didn't get time with Jenn.

1803
01:19:46,616 --> 01:19:48,701
Austin, will you accept
this rose?

1804
01:19:48,701 --> 01:19:49,785
Absolutely.

1805
01:19:49,785 --> 01:19:50,912
It hurts my heart

1806
01:19:50,912 --> 01:19:52,622
because, like, I care about her

1807
01:19:52,622 --> 01:19:56,584
{\an8}and I wanted to let her know
how special she is.

1808
01:19:56,584 --> 01:19:57,960
Grant.

1809
01:19:57,960 --> 01:19:59,754
I'm so ready for love.

1810
01:19:59,754 --> 01:20:02,757
And I feel like I have a lot
of love to give to Jenn.

1811
01:20:02,757 --> 01:20:04,592
Grant, will you
accept this rose?

1812
01:20:04,592 --> 01:20:05,718
Of course.

1813
01:20:05,718 --> 01:20:07,637
I hope what I did was enough.

1814
01:20:07,637 --> 01:20:09,305
So I'm just gonna stay positive

1815
01:20:09,305 --> 01:20:12,391
and hoping that she sees
what I bring to the table.

1816
01:20:15,728 --> 01:20:17,313
Sam M.

1817
01:20:19,941 --> 01:20:21,984
Sam, will you accept this rose?

1818
01:20:21,984 --> 01:20:24,654
You know I will.

1819
01:20:24,654 --> 01:20:26,197
I'm here
for the right reasons.

1820
01:20:26,197 --> 01:20:28,115
{\an8}I want to find love.

1821
01:20:28,115 --> 01:20:30,952
{\an8}I know what I want,
and I know I want Jenn.

1822
01:20:30,952 --> 01:20:32,912
{\an8}Thomas N.

1823
01:20:32,912 --> 01:20:37,083
She has
every quality I want.

1824
01:20:37,083 --> 01:20:38,960
I want to show the world
that this is my girl.

1825
01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:41,379
This is my wife.
This is my soulmate.

1826
01:20:44,340 --> 01:20:46,133
Dylan.

1827
01:20:46,133 --> 01:20:49,178
I do know that I've done
everything I can

1828
01:20:49,178 --> 01:20:52,265
to show who I am
and show what I want.

1829
01:20:52,265 --> 01:20:54,100
Dylan, will you
accept this rose?

1830
01:20:54,100 --> 01:20:56,018
Of course.

1831
01:20:56,018 --> 01:20:58,813
All I want to do
is make her happy.

1832
01:20:58,813 --> 01:21:01,607
If I didn't get a rose,
I'd be heartbroken.

1833
01:21:03,651 --> 01:21:04,986
Gentlemen...

1834
01:21:04,986 --> 01:21:06,612
Jenn...

1835
01:21:06,612 --> 01:21:08,489
It's the final rose tonight.

1836
01:21:08,489 --> 01:21:10,866
When you're ready.
- Thanks.

1837
01:21:27,508 --> 01:21:29,218
Sam N.

1838
01:21:33,180 --> 01:21:37,268
Sam, will you accept this rose?
- Of course.

1839
01:21:48,154 --> 01:21:51,157
Gentlemen, I'm really sorry.

1840
01:21:51,157 --> 01:21:52,742
You did not receive a rose.

1841
01:21:52,742 --> 01:21:55,119
Please take a moment
and say your goodbyes.

1842
01:22:00,333 --> 01:22:02,335
- Good?
- Yeah.

1843
01:22:06,255 --> 01:22:08,466
Oh, it was so nice
getting to know you, Jenn.

1844
01:22:08,466 --> 01:22:11,844
Thank you.
Good luck to you.

1845
01:22:11,844 --> 01:22:13,304
see you, boys.

1846
01:22:16,390 --> 01:22:19,435
- Wah gwaan?
- Mm.

1847
01:22:19,435 --> 01:22:21,145
- No, you are.
- Seriously.

1848
01:22:21,145 --> 01:22:22,688
Thank you so much
for everything.

1849
01:22:22,688 --> 01:22:24,523
You're amazing.
Thank you.

1850
01:22:24,523 --> 01:22:25,775
You deserve the world.

1851
01:22:25,775 --> 01:22:27,068
- You do too.
- Thank you.

1852
01:22:27,068 --> 01:22:28,819
Love you guys.

1853
01:22:35,117 --> 01:22:36,744
I hope the best for Jenn.

1854
01:22:36,744 --> 01:22:38,913
She's, uh,
such a beautiful woman.

1855
01:22:38,913 --> 01:22:40,456
Like, inwardly and outwardly.

1856
01:22:40,456 --> 01:22:42,333
And I just wish
I got the chance to tell her

1857
01:22:42,333 --> 01:22:44,043
everything how I felt.

1858
01:22:44,043 --> 01:22:46,337
It's just tough.
It is tough.

1859
01:22:51,801 --> 01:22:53,803
Hello.

1860
01:22:55,346 --> 01:22:56,847
With Jenn, I will always

1861
01:22:56,847 --> 01:22:58,849
{\an8}keep the main thing
the main thing.

1862
01:22:58,849 --> 01:23:02,144
{\an8}I know what I have with her, and
Devin doesn't stand a chance.

1863
01:23:02,144 --> 01:23:04,772
I mean, obviously, cheers
to Jenn first and foremost.

1864
01:23:04,772 --> 01:23:07,358
But cheers to our journey
together, and cheers

1865
01:23:07,358 --> 01:23:09,193
to the next adventure
that we're about to embark on.

1866
01:23:09,193 --> 01:23:10,611
- Cheers!
- Cheers!

1867
01:23:12,405 --> 01:23:15,574
It's clearly obvious he wants
to be that big dog,

1868
01:23:15,574 --> 01:23:17,993
but really, we're about to see
how tough he actually is,

1869
01:23:17,993 --> 01:23:20,454
'cause I can instill fear
into this dude.

1870
01:23:20,454 --> 01:23:22,289
You know, in the real world,
you would never do this.

1871
01:23:22,289 --> 01:23:25,000
In the real world,
I would snap you in half.

1872
01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:28,421
- To love, guys.
- Here's to love.

1873
01:23:28,421 --> 01:23:31,298
<i>Next week
on The Bachelorette...</i>

1874
01:23:36,595 --> 01:23:38,264
{\an8}Traveling to new places
and learning

1875
01:23:38,264 --> 01:23:40,266
{\an8}about the people that come here
before us is something

1876
01:23:40,266 --> 01:23:44,270
{\an8}that I want to be able to do
with my future partner.

1877
01:23:44,270 --> 01:23:47,523
{\an8}I'm falling for you,
and I'm not afraid to say it.

1878
01:23:47,523 --> 01:23:51,152
{\an8}She deserves to know what love
from a man can look like.

1879
01:23:51,152 --> 01:23:52,570
{\an8}Sometimes in life,

1880
01:23:52,570 --> 01:23:53,988
{\an8}you just have to take
a leap of faith.

1881
01:23:55,781 --> 01:23:58,159
{\an8}You used those words,
"ferocious love."

1882
01:23:58,159 --> 01:24:00,494
{\an8}I know exactly what that means.

1883
01:24:00,494 --> 01:24:02,413
{\an8}I am falling for Sam.

1884
01:24:02,413 --> 01:24:03,831
{\an8}It's almost too good to be true.

1885
01:24:03,831 --> 01:24:05,750
{\an8}I don't give a
about you.

1886
01:24:05,750 --> 01:24:07,168
{\an8}I don't respect you.
- I don't respect you either.

1887
01:24:07,168 --> 01:24:08,252
{\an8}I literally got nothing
to say to you.

1888
01:24:08,252 --> 01:24:10,129
{\an8}Being my authentic self.

1889
01:24:10,129 --> 01:24:12,006
{\an8}Devin is a clown show.

1890
01:24:12,006 --> 01:24:13,716
{\an8}I know I might be walking
on eggshells with the guys,

1891
01:24:13,716 --> 01:24:15,426
{\an8}but I don't give a
about those guys.

1892
01:24:15,426 --> 01:24:16,969
{\an8}He needs some humbling.
I'm not here

1893
01:24:16,969 --> 01:24:18,471
{\an8}for this bromance.
I'm here for love.

1894
01:24:18,471 --> 01:24:20,055
{\an8}Bro, you don't know
about love.

1895
01:24:20,055 --> 01:24:21,849
{\an8}You're a kid.
- Then get the [bleep] out.

1896
01:24:21,849 --> 01:24:23,142
{\an8}You're not gonna belittle me
and disrespect me.

1897
01:24:23,142 --> 01:24:25,186
{\an8}- Shut up.
- Get the popcorn.

1898
01:24:25,186 --> 01:24:28,481
{\an8}<i>And if you think things
are bad in the house now,</i>

1899
01:24:28,481 --> 01:24:30,775
{\an8}<i>wait till you see
what happens next.</i>

1900
01:24:32,651 --> 01:24:35,112
{\an8}What is going on?
What is he doing?

1901
01:24:35,112 --> 01:24:39,366
{\an8}<i>It's all next week
on The Bachelorette.</i>