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So we met on Tinder
and we said "I love you"

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on the third date.

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We moved in after two weeks.

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Oh, my God.
And we've been together

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seven years, married for four.

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So, if anything, we can really
to the process that you guys

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are going through, that,
like, yes, it is sped up,

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but, like,
if it's the right person

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like, time doesn't
really matter.

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So, when you know, you know.

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Oh, my God!

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What?!

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Today is my first hometown,

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and I'm in Houston, Texas,
with Devin.

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Meeting his family
is going to be big and huge,

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and I'm excited about it.

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- Jenn!
- Dev Dawg!

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I can't believe you're gonna
make me run for this.

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You look fantastic!

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Seeing Devin just
makes me feel so excited.

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I've missed him.

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On the first night,
if you told me Devin

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was getting a hometown
in Houston, Texas,

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I probably would not
have believed you.

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But as the weeks have gone by,

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Devin has really surprised me
and he's been there for me.

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And that's why
he's here today,

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is because I have
very strong feelings for him.

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- You look great.
- Thanks. You look good, too.

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And I'm so excited
to see everything

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that Devin wants
to show me today.

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What were you
stretching for just now?

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Uh, well, it's so fun
because usually

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I don't know what the
is going on,

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and it's my turn
to get you on the surprise.

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I've got a few surprises
planned for Jenn today.

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{\an8}I'm really excited to show her
the city and show her,

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{\an8}you know, the place
that made me who I am.

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You know, I've got
a lot of good friends here.

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My family is all here.

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So it's a very important place
for me.

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And I take the opinions
of my family

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and the closest people
around me seriously,

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so if the people
that I love here

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don't see what I see in Jenn,

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potentially it could change
things for me, definitely.

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So, I've told you a little bit
about that run club that we do.

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- Yes, yes.
- Well, I think we're gonna

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get to meet a few.

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- Oh, really?!
- Yeah.

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How often do you run
with them?

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Every single Wednesday.

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- Everyone Wednesday?
- Every Wednesday.

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We're gonna be getting active,
so I hope you stretched.

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I didn't.
Should we stretch right now?

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Show me your best stretch.
- Don't stretch. Here they come.

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- Oh, no!

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Oh, yeah!
- That's a lot of friends.

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What's up, guys?
Hello!

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- Oh, gosh!
- What's going on, brother?

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- Look at these shirts!
- Good to see you guys.

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The Good Guys Run Club
is something

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that one of
my closest friends started.

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Honestly, it was
a saving grace for me

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because I've never been
a runner in my life,

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and I was going through a funk,
and with the help of my buddies,

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they picked me up
and introduced me to running.

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That created a new outlet
for me.

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You know, now it's one of
my favorite hobbies to do.

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I do it every single day
when I'm back here,

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so I'm glad
that Jenn gets to see that.

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I didn't know
you were so popular, dude.

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Some of them like me.
Some of them--

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Do you guys call him
Pete Davidson, too?

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Or is that just me?
- A little bit, yeah.

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Oh, man!

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But, yeah, so, I've got a few
things in store for us today,

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a few surprises along the way

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with the people
that I love the most.

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And I think we'll let Roddy
take it away from here.

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- Okay.
- Yeah, we actually do have

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two shirts for y'all right now,
so we're gonna go

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on a little love run
in a second.

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Perfect.
I want Jenn to

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mesh well with my friends,
you know?

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I want her to like my family

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because those aren't people
that are gonna go away.

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And this is something that
I'm really looking forward to.

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We're gonna get after it.
- I'm gonna beat Devin.

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- Oh.
- Alright, guys.

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So we're gonna start our run.
We're gonna go

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around this way and
just stay on the concrete path

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and just follow me, so we'll go
do our one-mile loop around.

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Let's go.

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I'm so excited.
Running is right up my alley.

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So Devin and I are gonna have
a really good time today.

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We're on the love run, guys!
Love run!

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A love run!

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Is it a love run
or is it a love marathon?

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Oh, we're gonna do
a love run today.

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Or is it a love sprint?

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Do you think love
is a sprint or a marathon?

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Love is a relay race, apparently.

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Oh! For you.

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♪ We could skip town ♪

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♪ Get a little wild ♪

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♪ And this place
is evergreen ♪

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♪ As long as you're
coming home to me ♪

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- How's my running form?
- It looks good.

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- Really?
- It's kind of a turn-on.

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Oh! Devin!

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Running through Houston
with my run club and Jenn,

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it's probably the best feeling
I've ever had.

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It's amazing, and I just feel

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nothing but pure bliss
in this moment.

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It's an almost surreal
experience in my opinion.

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♪ I'm running like wild ♪

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♪ Running like wild ♪

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♪ Soak it in, soak it up ♪

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Devin bringing
this run club to me

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and telling me
that these are the people

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that are some of the most
important people to his life,

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like, I cannot be
more grateful and honored

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and excited being here.

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And knowing how much
I love to run, I definitely

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can see myself fitting into
Devin's life here in Houston.

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What's the sweetest thing
he's done for you so far?

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I think we all would
love to know that.

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Honestly, he's been
really good at, like,

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just understanding me, and,
like, when I'm having a bad day,

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he's just there for me,
which is hard to find.

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Yeah.

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What's your favorite
trait of her?

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Like, overall?

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She accepts me
for who I am, 100%.

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Where in a lot of
my aspects of my life,

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I've had to, like, sacrifice
certain parts of myself

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to like, make things work,
and with her, it's not the case.

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I just accept you
for who you are.

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Yes. She loves me.
Oh! Well--

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Something like that.
- Ohh!

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Jenn is making a great
impression on my friends,

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and that is something I love,
you know?

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And especially when
my friends are involved,

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I want her to feel comfortable
in those scenarios.

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And she showed me
she's more than comfortable.

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- Bye, guys!
- Bye!

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And for her to
seamlessly fit into my group

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makes me feel great.

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I have one more surprise
for you.

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- Okay
- This is my one woman

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that you cannot
ever get jealous of.

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- Okay. Wow.
- She's very special to me.

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And I can't wait
for you to meet her.

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- Okay.
- Charlie!

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Charlie!

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Aah!
Come see!

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- Hi!
- Hi, baby girl!

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- Ohh!
- Hi, baby!

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There's another woman
in Devin's life that he loves

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maybe more than me,
and it's his dog.

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I love her little run.

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Yeah. She's fast.
She <i>is</i> fast.

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- Good girl!
- Good girl!

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Oh. Good baby.

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It's hot to see
what a great girl dad

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Devin is to his dog, Charlie.

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He loves her,
and it's-- it's-- it's hot.

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{\an8}What'd you think
of everybody?

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{\an8}Um, I love them.
They're all so nice.

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It's just been a--
It's been a great day for me.

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- Yeah?
- Yeah.

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What are you thinking
for tonight? You nervous?

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- No. Are you?
- A little bit.

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Why are you nervous?

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You know, I haven't
done this in so long.

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Like, basically, like, college,
you know?

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Yeah, well,
I haven't introduced anyone

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to my family ever, so...

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I get, like, your anxiety
around it all.

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Is there anything
that you want to know

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about them before we go?

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Is there anything
I <i>should</i> know?

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- My dad is gonna be there.
- Okay.

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And, um, he is a person

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that has popped in and out
of my life

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when I was a lot younger.

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Um, we've definitely
had our problems.

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But despite
what I've gone through

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with my father in my life,
I couldn't get married

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or get engaged
without his opinion.

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Absolutely. Absolutely.

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In my history
of, like, my family,

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like, relationships,
they never lasted,

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um, up until my mom recently.
- Mm-hmm.

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You know, for me, it's like
I want to do right by my family

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by bringing home the right one,
you know?

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And that's just, you know,
me and my fears.

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You know, I have such
a good feeling about you.

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I just want it to be that way,
you know?

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Like, I want it
to be the right one,

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and I want them to see that
on my face.

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That's where
you're coming from.

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That's an important step
for me.

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Yeah, absolutely.
My family hasn't had

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the easiest time
in relationships,

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and I don't want
to be another one of

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those pieces of that puzzle.

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My biggest fear for tonight
is probably

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for my family
to not accept Jenn.

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You know, I don't want them
to see some external thing

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that I don't see
and them point it out

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and it become,
like, the biggest thing

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about Jenn and I's relationship.

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It would throw a wrench
into everything.

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There's a lot of things
I need to figure out today,

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so we'll see what happens.

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{\an8}"Welcome home, Devin.
Howdy, Jenn."

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{\an8}Aah! I love that!

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{\an8}That's cute as hell.
Wow.

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{\an8}Did you know that
they were gonna do that?

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{\an8}I had no idea.

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They don't even do that
for, like, my birthday.

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Oh! Aww!

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That's definitely
my mom's idea. She's the best.

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I can't wait to meet her.

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Jenn and I are about to
walk in to meet my family.

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And I'm not gonna lie--
I'm super nervous

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in this moment, you know?

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{\an8}I-I didn't get to do this

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{\an8}with my last relationship,
and it's not something

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that I ever thought I would
be doing anytime soon.

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And lo and behold, here we are.

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Okay.
Tell me again who I'm meeting.

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{\an8}Yeah, so-- Yeah. So you're
gonna have my mom, Jennifer.

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{\an8}Yes.
My dad, Temo.

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{\an8}Temo.
- It's much longer than that,

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{\an8}but just call him Temo.
- Okay.

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{\an8}My grandfather, Gary.
Okay.

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{\an8}My grandmother, Phyllis.
My brother, Pierce.

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And I believe that's it.

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{\an8}Your stepdad is here.

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{\an8}
Oh, my stepdad, Todd.

244
00:09:25,399 --> 00:09:26,817
{\an8}Oh, my God.
I forgot him completely.

245
00:09:26,817 --> 00:09:28,485
That's how nervous I am.
Okay.

246
00:09:28,485 --> 00:09:30,153
You know, I haven't introduced
a girl to the family

247
00:09:30,153 --> 00:09:33,991
in 10 years,
so I'm scared for sure.

248
00:09:33,991 --> 00:09:35,659
Y-You know, I'm a strong person,

249
00:09:35,659 --> 00:09:37,577
but I'm gonna need to
lean on you in there.

250
00:09:37,577 --> 00:09:40,038
You can <i>always</i> lean on me.

251
00:09:40,038 --> 00:09:41,498
I just want
everything to go right,

252
00:09:41,498 --> 00:09:43,250
and I don't want to
let myself down

253
00:09:43,250 --> 00:09:44,876
and I don't want to let them
down in these moments

254
00:09:44,876 --> 00:09:46,253
because I have
let them down before,

255
00:09:46,253 --> 00:09:48,005
especially with
my choices in women.

256
00:09:48,005 --> 00:09:50,090
And, you know, this is
something that I'm proud of,

257
00:09:50,090 --> 00:09:51,758
and I just want it to go right.

258
00:09:51,758 --> 00:09:54,720
Hello?
- Devin!

259
00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,054
What's going on?

260
00:09:56,054 --> 00:09:59,349
- Ohh!
- Oh, my gosh!

261
00:09:59,349 --> 00:10:03,103
Who's better than me
to greet you...

262
00:10:03,103 --> 00:10:04,521
Mwah!

263
00:10:04,521 --> 00:10:06,231
Love you, love you, love you.

264
00:10:06,231 --> 00:10:07,774
This is Jenn.
Hi!

265
00:10:07,774 --> 00:10:09,568
Everybody, this is Jenn.

266
00:10:09,568 --> 00:10:11,028
So nice to meet you
- This is my grandmother.

267
00:10:11,028 --> 00:10:12,863
Devin expresses all the time

268
00:10:12,863 --> 00:10:16,533
how unconventional his family is
and how untraditional it is.

269
00:10:16,533 --> 00:10:18,201
And he was nervous
coming into today,

270
00:10:18,201 --> 00:10:20,370
but his family
coming all together

271
00:10:20,370 --> 00:10:24,374
for him and for us
means so much.

272
00:10:24,374 --> 00:10:25,709
It's so nice to meet you.

273
00:10:25,709 --> 00:10:27,252
Hi, Papa. How are you?

274
00:10:27,252 --> 00:10:28,712
How are you doing?

275
00:10:28,712 --> 00:10:30,380
Hi, Jenn. Temo.
Jenn.

276
00:10:30,380 --> 00:10:31,548
- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

277
00:10:31,548 --> 00:10:32,924
Oh, Devin!
Hi, Mama.

278
00:10:32,924 --> 00:10:35,093
Family is
so important to him

279
00:10:35,093 --> 00:10:38,638
and so getting
his family's approval is huge,

280
00:10:38,638 --> 00:10:42,642
so I am nervous
meeting his family.

281
00:10:42,642 --> 00:10:44,561
I loved the sign outside.

282
00:10:44,561 --> 00:10:45,812
Yes?!

283
00:10:45,812 --> 00:10:47,397
That was such
a nice surprise!

284
00:10:47,397 --> 00:10:49,566
{\an8}Yeah!
- We've missed you so much.

285
00:10:49,566 --> 00:10:51,318
{\an8}We've had quite the journey.

286
00:10:51,318 --> 00:10:52,944
{\an8}- Crazy journey.
- It has been.

287
00:10:52,944 --> 00:10:54,404
{\an8}We've been all over the world.
Mm-hmm.

288
00:10:54,404 --> 00:10:56,406
- Where'd you go?
- Well, we went to

289
00:10:56,406 --> 00:10:58,075
Melbourne, Australia.

290
00:10:58,075 --> 00:11:00,077
{\an8}-Yeah.
-Awesome!

291
00:11:00,077 --> 00:11:02,245
You want to take the reins
on these-- on that one?

292
00:11:02,245 --> 00:11:04,456
Um, so have you guys heard
of <i>Thunder Down Under</i>

293
00:11:04,456 --> 00:11:05,999
in Australia?
- Oh, in, uh, Vegas?

294
00:11:05,999 --> 00:11:09,169
Yeah, yeah!
Hey, my dad knows.

295
00:11:09,169 --> 00:11:11,129
He put on a little show
for himself.

296
00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:12,672
Oh, we did, like,
a whole strip show.

297
00:11:12,672 --> 00:11:15,467
It was-- It was the most--
Dude, it was--

298
00:11:15,467 --> 00:11:17,094
Why does that
not surprise me?

299
00:11:17,094 --> 00:11:18,929
Oh, you know
what's gonna surp--

300
00:11:18,929 --> 00:11:21,181
You're gonna be surprised
at what I wore.

301
00:11:21,181 --> 00:11:22,766
It was nothing.
- Oh, no.

302
00:11:22,766 --> 00:11:26,603
-Oh, no!
- He wore a G-string.

303
00:11:26,603 --> 00:11:29,147
He wore something.
- Oh, no. Don't say that.

304
00:11:29,147 --> 00:11:31,983
Very-- As little as
they could possibly let me wear.

305
00:11:34,694 --> 00:11:36,446
I am feeling so excited

306
00:11:36,446 --> 00:11:38,615
to have Jenn here
and to meet her.

307
00:11:38,615 --> 00:11:41,493
{\an8}She seems super genuine,
super sweet.

308
00:11:41,493 --> 00:11:44,496
And I could see the jitters
between both of them,

309
00:11:44,496 --> 00:11:46,456
but in a good way--
the happy jitters,

310
00:11:46,456 --> 00:11:48,625
the, um, the giddiness.

311
00:11:48,625 --> 00:11:52,838
But, of course, I want to make
sure her intentions are sincere.

312
00:11:52,838 --> 00:11:55,465
That would probably be
my number-one concern.

313
00:11:55,465 --> 00:11:57,217
And then that was
our last group date, right?

314
00:11:57,217 --> 00:12:00,387
But that night, you opened up
to me about some things,

315
00:12:00,387 --> 00:12:02,681
and Devin got
the group-date Rose that night.

316
00:12:02,681 --> 00:12:05,684
I did. It was intense and a
very nervous experience for me,

317
00:12:05,684 --> 00:12:07,352
but Jenn really helped me
pull through.

318
00:12:07,352 --> 00:12:09,896
And, um,
Jenn has been that person

319
00:12:09,896 --> 00:12:14,901
who has been there for me,
and that was a huge deal for me.

320
00:12:14,901 --> 00:12:17,028
I can see the chemistry
between both of them.

321
00:12:17,028 --> 00:12:19,489
{\an8}I'm excited.
I'm a little nervous.

322
00:12:19,489 --> 00:12:21,658
Devin, you want chat?
- Yeah. let's do it. Come on.

323
00:12:21,658 --> 00:12:24,578
Once I talk to Devin
and talk about certain concerns,

324
00:12:24,578 --> 00:12:27,164
we'll see what happens
after that.

325
00:12:27,164 --> 00:12:29,833
How do you feel? How are you
feeling in all this process?

326
00:12:29,833 --> 00:12:32,002
Um, I told her
I'd fallen in love with her,

327
00:12:32,002 --> 00:12:34,504
but I'm pretty sure I love her
at this point, you know?

328
00:12:34,504 --> 00:12:36,256
And I'm not scared
to say that to you.

329
00:12:36,256 --> 00:12:37,757
I'm scared as hell
to say that to <i>her.</i>

330
00:12:37,757 --> 00:12:40,051
- Of course.
- Um, but she's--

331
00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:43,346
She is a person that I do see
the rest of my life with.

332
00:12:43,346 --> 00:12:45,557
But I don't want to
tell her I love her

333
00:12:45,557 --> 00:12:47,517
and then for her to turn around

334
00:12:47,517 --> 00:12:49,394
and tell somebody else
that she loves them, too.

335
00:12:49,394 --> 00:12:51,021
Yeah, that's--
that's the scary part.

336
00:12:51,021 --> 00:12:53,565
You know, we haven't
been the luckiest family

337
00:12:53,565 --> 00:12:55,192
with relationships, you know?
- Yeah. You can say that--

338
00:12:55,192 --> 00:12:56,401
Yeah. You can say that again.

339
00:12:56,401 --> 00:12:58,445
And I've seen Mom struggle.

340
00:12:58,445 --> 00:13:00,363
I've seen you struggle.
And Pierce.

341
00:13:00,363 --> 00:13:02,449
I mean, everybod-- everybod--
everybody, you know?

342
00:13:02,449 --> 00:13:04,534
Like, everybody here is-- is--

343
00:13:04,534 --> 00:13:06,703
Has gone through
something in life.

344
00:13:06,703 --> 00:13:10,207
Yeah, and for me,
I want so hard

345
00:13:10,207 --> 00:13:13,585
for it to be different
this time.

346
00:13:13,585 --> 00:13:16,087
And I don't want to be wrong,
you know?

347
00:13:16,087 --> 00:13:18,590
I know you guys
want the best for me.

348
00:13:18,590 --> 00:13:20,717
- Hundred percent.
- I just want you to be honest

349
00:13:20,717 --> 00:13:22,219
and-- and let me know

350
00:13:22,219 --> 00:13:24,054
if there's anything
that I'm missing.

351
00:13:24,054 --> 00:13:26,097
The only concern I have,
because it's--

352
00:13:26,097 --> 00:13:28,725
There's other guys around,
and I don't know.

353
00:13:28,725 --> 00:13:30,101
I don't know the other guys.
I know you.

354
00:13:30,101 --> 00:13:31,436
- Yeah.
- I know you.

355
00:13:31,436 --> 00:13:32,562
And I know
what you're capable of.

356
00:13:32,562 --> 00:13:34,064
I know what you do.

357
00:13:34,064 --> 00:13:35,440
So, yeah, that's the only thing

358
00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,942
that kind of worries me
a little bit.

359
00:13:36,942 --> 00:13:38,652
And I don't want you
to get to the end

360
00:13:38,652 --> 00:13:40,403
and then have your heart broken.

361
00:13:40,403 --> 00:13:42,072
- Yeah, yeah.
- You know?

362
00:13:42,072 --> 00:13:43,615
My dad is a realist.

363
00:13:43,615 --> 00:13:45,075
He's somebody that I rely on

364
00:13:45,075 --> 00:13:46,618
when it comes
to this kind of stuff,

365
00:13:46,618 --> 00:13:48,245
but I think that I'd be lying
if I said

366
00:13:48,245 --> 00:13:49,663
I wasn't worried about
telling her I love her

367
00:13:49,663 --> 00:13:51,164
because I don't want her
to turn around

368
00:13:51,164 --> 00:13:52,749
and tell that to somebody else.

369
00:13:52,749 --> 00:13:54,292
That's something that scares me.

370
00:13:54,292 --> 00:13:55,794
When I say "I love you,"
I want to know

371
00:13:55,794 --> 00:13:58,296
that I'm the only one.

372
00:13:58,296 --> 00:13:59,839
So I gotta ask the question.

373
00:13:59,839 --> 00:14:03,093
{\an8}Um, what makes Devin special?

374
00:14:03,093 --> 00:14:06,137
{\an8}He is so emotionally
intelligent,

375
00:14:06,137 --> 00:14:08,098
so himself, so confident.

376
00:14:08,098 --> 00:14:10,934
And, you know,
Devin has talked to me a lot

377
00:14:10,934 --> 00:14:13,812
about the way he grew up
and his family,

378
00:14:13,812 --> 00:14:16,022
and it's not
the most traditional.

379
00:14:16,022 --> 00:14:18,024
And we related a lot on that

380
00:14:18,024 --> 00:14:21,152
because I grew up
in a similar but different way.

381
00:14:21,152 --> 00:14:23,446
Um, my parents
are also divorced,

382
00:14:23,446 --> 00:14:25,991
and I don't have a relationship
with my dad at all.

383
00:14:25,991 --> 00:14:28,159
And it was very tumultuous
growing up.

384
00:14:28,159 --> 00:14:32,289
And Devin and I just
shared a lot of similarities

385
00:14:32,289 --> 00:14:35,625
in how we felt
about the way we grew up

386
00:14:35,625 --> 00:14:37,294
and what we've learned from it.

387
00:14:37,294 --> 00:14:40,130
And he's spoken
so highly of you.

388
00:14:40,130 --> 00:14:42,132
Thank you so much. Yes.

389
00:14:42,132 --> 00:14:46,511
And I-- You know, it took me
a while to get to my love story.

390
00:14:46,511 --> 00:14:48,471
And, you know,
I didn't always model

391
00:14:48,471 --> 00:14:51,516
the best relationships
for Devin and Pierce and...

392
00:14:51,516 --> 00:14:53,810
Being a single mom
for so many years,

393
00:14:53,810 --> 00:14:55,353
it was-- it was challenging.
- Yeah.

394
00:14:55,353 --> 00:14:58,523
Um, but I really
put my focus in them,

395
00:14:58,523 --> 00:15:01,234
and, you know--
and then now here I am.

396
00:15:01,234 --> 00:15:04,321
You know, I've found my love
story with Todd, his stepdad.

397
00:15:04,321 --> 00:15:07,657
And I think Devin
really appreciates seeing that,

398
00:15:07,657 --> 00:15:09,909
you know, how happy I am.

399
00:15:09,909 --> 00:15:12,996
But it hasn't always
been easy for him.

400
00:15:12,996 --> 00:15:14,998
Absolutely.

401
00:15:14,998 --> 00:15:16,916
Devin's mom is so resilient,

402
00:15:16,916 --> 00:15:19,377
and she's still so optimistic,

403
00:15:19,377 --> 00:15:22,339
having gone through everything
that she's gone through and...

404
00:15:22,339 --> 00:15:24,549
Definitely reminds me
a lot of my mom

405
00:15:24,549 --> 00:15:28,428
and how much she loves me and
how resilient my mom is, too.

406
00:15:28,428 --> 00:15:32,015
So, do you feel like you're--
you're falling for him?

407
00:15:32,015 --> 00:15:34,059
Where's your heart
in all of this?

408
00:15:34,059 --> 00:15:36,102
Yeah, so, Devin and I have
expressed to each other

409
00:15:36,102 --> 00:15:37,896
that we are falling
for each other.

410
00:15:37,896 --> 00:15:39,731
- Aww!
- Um, he told me

411
00:15:39,731 --> 00:15:41,399
he was falling for me
before I did.

412
00:15:41,399 --> 00:15:44,194
And I'm not
the most emotional person,

413
00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:47,530
and it took me a couple weeks
to get there,

414
00:15:47,530 --> 00:15:51,201
but I just really felt like
we've gotten to a point

415
00:15:51,201 --> 00:15:54,704
in our relationship
where I feel so strongly for him

416
00:15:54,704 --> 00:15:57,374
and can really see
a future with him.

417
00:15:57,374 --> 00:15:59,542
- He has a lot of love to give.
- Yeah.

418
00:15:59,542 --> 00:16:01,252
But, of course,

419
00:16:01,252 --> 00:16:03,213
I don't want to see Devin
get his heart broken.

420
00:16:03,213 --> 00:16:05,090
I know there are
three other guys,

421
00:16:05,090 --> 00:16:07,050
so I know
you're in a difficult spot,

422
00:16:07,050 --> 00:16:08,635
but I hope that, you know,

423
00:16:08,635 --> 00:16:11,888
Devin is a shining star
in all of this.

424
00:16:11,888 --> 00:16:14,057
I could see Jenn
as part of our family,

425
00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:17,143
{\an8}but it does make me nervous
that there are three other guys

426
00:16:17,143 --> 00:16:19,979
{\an8}in the same situation as Devin.

427
00:16:19,979 --> 00:16:23,650
And if he's not the one
that Jenn chooses,

428
00:16:23,650 --> 00:16:26,111
his heart
could potentially be broken,

429
00:16:26,111 --> 00:16:29,948
and I worry about that for him.

430
00:16:29,948 --> 00:16:31,616
How was your-- How was
your conversation with Jenn?

431
00:16:31,616 --> 00:16:34,911
It went well.
So how are you feeling?

432
00:16:34,911 --> 00:16:40,417
It has been a very weird
experience for me.

433
00:16:40,417 --> 00:16:41,918
- Mm-hmm.
- So I don't know.

434
00:16:41,918 --> 00:16:44,504
I'm just looking
for some motherly advice

435
00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:46,089
about this whole process.

436
00:16:46,089 --> 00:16:48,800
Well, I will say
that, um, I--

437
00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,929
You know, I want to make
sure your intentions are sincere

438
00:16:52,929 --> 00:16:55,515
and your heart's
in the right place.

439
00:16:55,515 --> 00:16:59,769
I've been to places with this
girl in my heart and in my soul

440
00:16:59,769 --> 00:17:01,771
that I've never been with
with anyone else.

441
00:17:01,771 --> 00:17:03,440
- Right.
- So it does scare me, you know,

442
00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:05,775
that I feel this way
about this girl.

443
00:17:05,775 --> 00:17:09,779
And I want it to work so bad.
But...

444
00:17:09,779 --> 00:17:11,281
You know, it bothers me

445
00:17:11,281 --> 00:17:13,450
that there's other people
still involved.

446
00:17:13,450 --> 00:17:15,160
I can't stand that.
- Right.

447
00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,121
I can't sit here and tell you
that I'm fine with that.

448
00:17:18,121 --> 00:17:19,831
I'm not. Not at all.

449
00:17:19,831 --> 00:17:22,125
I know.

450
00:17:22,125 --> 00:17:25,879
You talked about, you know,
feeling a certain way with her.

451
00:17:25,879 --> 00:17:27,297
How <i>are</i> you feeling?

452
00:17:27,297 --> 00:17:28,631
Do you feel like
you're falling in love?

453
00:17:28,631 --> 00:17:30,133
No, I love her.

454
00:17:30,133 --> 00:17:31,468
Are you already
in love with her?

455
00:17:31,468 --> 00:17:33,720
I love her. I love her.

456
00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,556
And this, I think, is the
first time that I'm in love...

457
00:17:36,556 --> 00:17:37,974
for real.

458
00:17:39,392 --> 00:17:41,394
Have you told her
you love her?

459
00:17:41,394 --> 00:17:43,146
Okay.
- I'm scared to tell her.

460
00:17:43,146 --> 00:17:45,982
I don't like the idea of saying
"I love you" to somebody

461
00:17:45,982 --> 00:17:47,484
and then that
being turned around

462
00:17:47,484 --> 00:17:49,527
and being said somewhere else.

463
00:17:49,527 --> 00:17:51,821
Well, and that's
gonna be my advice.

464
00:17:51,821 --> 00:17:54,532
If you're feeling that way,
don't hold back.

465
00:17:54,532 --> 00:17:56,534
I think you need to tell her
that you love her,

466
00:17:56,534 --> 00:17:59,829
and especially because
there are other guys involved.

467
00:17:59,829 --> 00:18:02,707
You're not gonna be the one
if you don't.

468
00:18:02,707 --> 00:18:04,083
Yeah.

469
00:18:05,752 --> 00:18:07,170
You know you're my hero.

470
00:18:07,170 --> 00:18:09,422
- Ohh. Thank you, Devin.
- I love you, Mama.

471
00:18:09,422 --> 00:18:11,591
Oh, I love you.
I love you so much.

472
00:18:11,591 --> 00:18:13,218
- I love you, too.
- I do.

473
00:18:13,218 --> 00:18:16,012
I think sometimes
Devin can be reserved

474
00:18:16,012 --> 00:18:18,264
so that he doesn't
get his heart hurt,

475
00:18:18,264 --> 00:18:23,102
but as a mom, I want Devin
to have that happy future

476
00:18:23,102 --> 00:18:26,439
and his own love story that
I know he could very well have.

477
00:18:26,439 --> 00:18:27,941
- Love you.
- Be good.

478
00:18:27,941 --> 00:18:29,526
He needs to take that risk.

479
00:18:29,526 --> 00:18:32,195
He needs to go all-in
and open up to her

480
00:18:32,195 --> 00:18:33,863
and share those feelings
with her

481
00:18:33,863 --> 00:18:36,241
and let her know
that he is in love with her.

482
00:18:36,241 --> 00:18:37,951
Goodbye.
- Bye!

483
00:18:37,951 --> 00:18:39,702
- Bye!
- See you later!

484
00:18:39,702 --> 00:18:41,621
If he really, really
wants to be the one,

485
00:18:41,621 --> 00:18:46,417
he's got to take that risk and
share with her how he's feeling.

486
00:18:46,417 --> 00:18:48,920
- Oh, she's so cute.
- Isn't she the sweetest?

487
00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,756
She's so cute. I love her.

488
00:18:51,756 --> 00:18:54,467
Oh, my.

489
00:18:57,053 --> 00:18:59,055
I had so many fears
coming into today.

490
00:18:59,055 --> 00:19:01,641
Hm. I don't know why.

491
00:19:01,641 --> 00:19:03,059
I think it's 'cause I've felt

492
00:19:03,059 --> 00:19:04,811
a certain way about you
for a while.

493
00:19:04,811 --> 00:19:07,605
And, you know,
I told myself so many things

494
00:19:07,605 --> 00:19:09,732
walking into this moment.

495
00:19:12,151 --> 00:19:15,405
Jenn, I told myself
that I was, you know,

496
00:19:15,405 --> 00:19:17,615
not gonna walk in here
and make assumptions

497
00:19:17,615 --> 00:19:21,703
based off of the situation
and how I feel, but...

498
00:19:23,663 --> 00:19:25,456
I [bleep] don't care anymore.

499
00:19:25,456 --> 00:19:28,251
I love you. I love you, Jenn.

500
00:19:28,251 --> 00:19:29,794
I need you to know that, okay?

501
00:19:33,089 --> 00:19:34,966
I'm so happy.

502
00:19:36,759 --> 00:19:39,512
Devin loves me!

503
00:19:39,512 --> 00:19:42,932
Makes me feel really giddy
and excited and happy.

504
00:19:42,932 --> 00:19:45,602
And it's a really good feeling.

505
00:19:47,228 --> 00:19:49,606
I want you to know...

506
00:19:49,606 --> 00:19:52,483
I am falling so hard for you.

507
00:19:52,483 --> 00:19:56,195
And even with today,
I just feel like my feelings

508
00:19:56,195 --> 00:20:00,158
have grown
exponentially more for you.

509
00:20:00,158 --> 00:20:02,327
And I feel like I got to know

510
00:20:02,327 --> 00:20:06,331
even more about you
and a different side of you.

511
00:20:06,331 --> 00:20:09,042
And it's just-- It's unreal.

512
00:20:09,042 --> 00:20:10,668
I feel like
you're not even real.

513
00:20:10,668 --> 00:20:12,503
Aah! I'm a real person.
You can touch me.

514
00:20:12,503 --> 00:20:14,380
- I feel like you're not real.
- Touch me.

515
00:20:14,380 --> 00:20:17,133
I want you to know that I
really do see a future with you.

516
00:20:17,133 --> 00:20:18,468
I love that.

517
00:20:18,468 --> 00:20:21,137
Right now I'm feeling ecstatic.

518
00:20:21,137 --> 00:20:24,974
I'm excited, but I'm also like,
"Holy [bleep]," you know?

519
00:20:24,974 --> 00:20:29,354
To finally be able to just say
what I've been feeling.

520
00:20:29,354 --> 00:20:31,147
I feel like, you know,
a weight's been lifted

521
00:20:31,147 --> 00:20:33,316
off my shoulders in a sense.

522
00:20:37,028 --> 00:20:38,863
It was the best day.
The best day.

523
00:20:38,863 --> 00:20:40,156
I'm gonna miss you.

524
00:20:40,156 --> 00:20:41,824
I'm gonna miss you, too.

525
00:20:41,824 --> 00:20:43,993
But guess what. I'll see you
again really soon, okay?

526
00:20:43,993 --> 00:20:45,411
Okay.

527
00:20:46,454 --> 00:20:50,166
I've never been this happy
with a woman,

528
00:20:50,166 --> 00:20:52,585
and I feel like I could get

529
00:20:52,585 --> 00:20:55,088
everything I've ever wanted
in my life.

530
00:21:07,141 --> 00:21:09,185
We are in
Fairfield, Connecticut,

531
00:21:09,185 --> 00:21:11,354
and I'm at Jeremy's hometown.

532
00:21:11,354 --> 00:21:13,022
I mean, it feels crazy.

533
00:21:13,022 --> 00:21:14,732
Who would have thought
we'd get to this point,

534
00:21:14,732 --> 00:21:16,359
meeting his family?

535
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,696
He was my last one-on-one date,
and I did that

536
00:21:19,696 --> 00:21:21,906
because I was so sure of
how I was feeling about him.

537
00:21:21,906 --> 00:21:25,743
I feel like I grew a lot closer
to Jeremy last week,

538
00:21:25,743 --> 00:21:28,246
but we haven't expressed
our feelings to each other yet,

539
00:21:28,246 --> 00:21:30,873
and I need to get some answers
and figure out

540
00:21:30,873 --> 00:21:33,418
if, truly, Jeremy
could be my life partner.

541
00:21:33,418 --> 00:21:34,544
Ooh!

542
00:21:38,047 --> 00:21:40,049
Mmm!
Unh! How are you?

543
00:21:40,049 --> 00:21:41,884
- I missed you.
- I missed you.

544
00:21:41,884 --> 00:21:44,095
- Welcome to Connecticut.
- Thank you!

545
00:21:44,095 --> 00:21:47,807
- My favorite park.
- Oh, it looks really discreet.

546
00:21:47,807 --> 00:21:49,892
{\an8}Did you take me here
to kill me or what?

547
00:21:49,892 --> 00:21:51,811
{\an8}
Yeah, something like that.

548
00:21:51,811 --> 00:21:56,107
{\an8}Um, we are going to do something
I would do as a kid.

549
00:21:56,107 --> 00:21:58,735
It'll involve a little shopping.
- I love shopping.

550
00:21:58,735 --> 00:22:00,236
And then you'll get to meet
my family later.

551
00:22:00,236 --> 00:22:02,405
- I'm excited.
- You ready? This way.

552
00:22:02,405 --> 00:22:04,073
I feel great about Jenn
right now.

553
00:22:04,073 --> 00:22:05,575
I'm excited to see her.

554
00:22:05,575 --> 00:22:08,119
And today, me and Jenn,
we're gonna go shopping.

555
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:09,787
{\an8}She's already taken me
to two markets--

556
00:22:09,787 --> 00:22:11,497
{\an8}one in Melbourne,
one in Seattle--

557
00:22:11,497 --> 00:22:13,416
{\an8}so I figured I'd take her
to one in Connecticut,

558
00:22:13,416 --> 00:22:14,917
{\an8}and I think
she'll have a good time.

559
00:22:14,917 --> 00:22:16,961
And that's all
I'm gonna say for now.

560
00:22:19,839 --> 00:22:21,924
{\an8}I love the sign.
Did you make that just for me?

561
00:22:21,924 --> 00:22:23,634
{\an8}I did.
Jeremy tells me

562
00:22:23,634 --> 00:22:25,678
we're going shopping.
I'm thinking he's getting me

563
00:22:25,678 --> 00:22:28,598
some jewelry,
a new pair of boots.

564
00:22:28,598 --> 00:22:32,477
♪ We're avocados,
we're avocados ♪

565
00:22:32,477 --> 00:22:35,938
We roll up, and, uh, it's a--
it's a little grocery store.

566
00:22:35,938 --> 00:22:40,276
♪ It's very yummy
for your tummy ♪

567
00:22:40,276 --> 00:22:43,112
- Hmm! Move those hips.

568
00:22:43,112 --> 00:22:45,364
This store is crazy!

569
00:22:51,162 --> 00:22:53,206
Did that cow just move?

570
00:22:53,206 --> 00:22:54,624
Yeah.

571
00:22:56,125 --> 00:22:58,628
This is the wildest
grocery store I've ever been to.

572
00:22:58,628 --> 00:23:01,798
There's animatronics.
There singing milk cartons!

573
00:23:01,798 --> 00:23:05,384
♪ Smile, folks,
that's the style ♪

574
00:23:06,803 --> 00:23:08,805
There's doughnuts and cake.

575
00:23:08,805 --> 00:23:10,306
Ice cream. Popcorn.

576
00:23:11,724 --> 00:23:13,476
Oh, my God!
What is that thing?!

577
00:23:13,476 --> 00:23:15,561
That's Wow the Cow.
It's crazy in here!

578
00:23:15,561 --> 00:23:17,313
There's cows everywhere!

579
00:23:22,485 --> 00:23:24,529
That's what you sound like.

580
00:23:24,529 --> 00:23:29,992
Moo!

581
00:23:29,992 --> 00:23:31,869
This is definitely
the most Jeremy date

582
00:23:31,869 --> 00:23:35,832
that I could ever imagine,
but I'm having the best time.

583
00:23:35,832 --> 00:23:37,917
Wait. Let me throw one
into the mix.

584
00:23:37,917 --> 00:23:39,043
No, I can't do that!

585
00:23:42,547 --> 00:23:45,007
We cannot stop laughing
when we're together,

586
00:23:45,007 --> 00:23:48,845
and I think that is <i>the</i>
best thing in a relationship.

587
00:23:48,845 --> 00:23:50,763
I haven't been
in the best relationships,

588
00:23:50,763 --> 00:23:54,600
so to be able to feel like I can
be 110% myself with Jeremy,

589
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,019
that's really rare
to have in somebody.

590
00:23:57,019 --> 00:23:58,771
Do you like popcorn?
Sure.

591
00:23:58,771 --> 00:24:00,940
I love some glazed nuts.
Let me tell you.

592
00:24:00,940 --> 00:24:02,775
Oh! You can say that again.

593
00:24:02,775 --> 00:24:05,194
We have the same
exact sense of humor.

594
00:24:05,194 --> 00:24:09,407
And just seems like he has the
right qualities I'm looking for.

595
00:24:09,407 --> 00:24:12,410
How's your day going?
- Wait, wait. Whoa. Hold up!

596
00:24:12,410 --> 00:24:15,955
Slow down!
Jenn, you're going fast there.

597
00:24:15,955 --> 00:24:17,957
Ice cream here.
Bag boy, hurry it up.

598
00:24:17,957 --> 00:24:20,418
She's got places to go,
things to do.

599
00:24:20,418 --> 00:24:22,295
Bringing Jenn here today

600
00:24:22,295 --> 00:24:25,047
gives a little glimpse into what
the future could hold, you know?

601
00:24:25,047 --> 00:24:26,549
I'd probably be
looking forward to--

602
00:24:26,549 --> 00:24:28,384
to grocery shopping now.

603
00:24:28,384 --> 00:24:29,760
I love lobster.

604
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,470
Do you like yours
light or chunky?

605
00:24:31,470 --> 00:24:33,806
- Chunky, obviously.
- It's juicy.

606
00:24:33,806 --> 00:24:37,226
This place is very nostalgic
to me, and it would be fun

607
00:24:37,226 --> 00:24:39,645
to think maybe our kids
could come here one day.

608
00:24:43,107 --> 00:24:46,569
That is so good.
I have lobster in my nose.

609
00:24:46,569 --> 00:24:48,070
Oh, my God!

610
00:24:48,070 --> 00:24:49,739
That's my aunt.

611
00:24:49,739 --> 00:24:52,283
- Ohh! What?!
- Wait. I need to say--

612
00:24:52,283 --> 00:24:54,118
- What?!

613
00:24:54,118 --> 00:24:55,620
Jeremy's aunt appears,

614
00:24:55,620 --> 00:24:57,246
and I have butter
dripping down my mouth.

615
00:24:57,246 --> 00:25:00,082
Perfect. I'm definitely
a little embarrassed.

616
00:25:00,082 --> 00:25:02,084
This is my mom's sister,
Debbie.

617
00:25:02,084 --> 00:25:05,087
Oh, nice. I'm Jenn.
It's so nice to meet you!

618
00:25:05,087 --> 00:25:06,172
- How are you?
- I'm so sorry.

619
00:25:06,172 --> 00:25:07,423
I'm good. How are you?

620
00:25:07,423 --> 00:25:09,008
Oh, my gosh. I missed you.

621
00:25:09,008 --> 00:25:10,676
- Aww!
- Aww!

622
00:25:10,676 --> 00:25:12,345
I missed you, too.
Love you. Bye.

623
00:25:12,345 --> 00:25:14,138
- Small world.
- Tell everyone I say hi.

624
00:25:14,138 --> 00:25:15,848
- It's so nice to meet you.
- Have a good day.

625
00:25:15,848 --> 00:25:17,934
Thank you. You too!

626
00:25:17,934 --> 00:25:22,772
Today has been kooky, crazy,
and so much fun.

627
00:25:22,772 --> 00:25:24,982
With Jeremy and I, it's always
gonna be a good time.

628
00:25:24,982 --> 00:25:26,692
We're always gonna
have fun together.

629
00:25:26,692 --> 00:25:29,612
But fun and games aside,
I am looking for a life partner.

630
00:25:29,612 --> 00:25:31,280
My mom loves flowers.

631
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:32,949
I would love to make
a bouquet for your mom.

632
00:25:32,949 --> 00:25:35,451
So, tonight, meeting his family,

633
00:25:35,451 --> 00:25:37,995
I do really want to see
a more serious side to Jeremy,

634
00:25:37,995 --> 00:25:40,665
and I want to be able to know
if we really do have

635
00:25:40,665 --> 00:25:43,376
a future together
and I do really need to know

636
00:25:43,376 --> 00:25:44,961
if he's ready for an engagement.

637
00:25:44,961 --> 00:25:47,213
Some white, some color.
Elegant.

638
00:25:47,213 --> 00:25:49,006
And I just want to be
able to make sure that

639
00:25:49,006 --> 00:25:51,634
him and I are on the same page
at the end of the day.

640
00:25:51,634 --> 00:25:53,636
I hope she likes it.
- So sweet of you.

641
00:25:53,636 --> 00:25:55,096
Aww!

642
00:26:02,144 --> 00:26:05,064
- Do you really come back here?
- Yeah, all the time.

643
00:26:05,064 --> 00:26:06,649
I had an amazing day
with Jeremy.

644
00:26:06,649 --> 00:26:08,859
We had so much fun together.

645
00:26:08,859 --> 00:26:10,987
And I'm excited
to see the people

646
00:26:10,987 --> 00:26:13,155
who gave him his sense of humor

647
00:26:13,155 --> 00:26:16,993
because I do feel like
there is a lot more to uncover.

648
00:26:16,993 --> 00:26:19,078
- You nervous?
- A little, but that's okay.

649
00:26:19,078 --> 00:26:20,329
- Don't be nervous.
- No. I'm excited.

650
00:26:20,329 --> 00:26:22,039
I'm excited, mostly.

651
00:26:22,039 --> 00:26:23,833
You'll do great.

652
00:26:23,833 --> 00:26:26,002
Jeremy hasn't expressed
his feelings to me yet,

653
00:26:26,002 --> 00:26:28,879
so I want to make sure that
Jeremy is going to be ready

654
00:26:28,879 --> 00:26:30,673
for everything
that comes at the end of this.

655
00:26:30,673 --> 00:26:32,550
- I think I hear them!

656
00:26:32,550 --> 00:26:34,051
- I know that laugh.

657
00:26:34,051 --> 00:26:35,678
- Hi!
-Jeremy!

658
00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:38,180
- Hi!
- Everyone meet Jenn.

659
00:26:39,890 --> 00:26:41,934
It's really great
to just see everyone.

660
00:26:41,934 --> 00:26:43,769
{\an8}They're all so excited
to see me,

661
00:26:43,769 --> 00:26:44,937
{\an8}but also meet with Jenn.

662
00:26:44,937 --> 00:26:46,605
{\an8}Oh, she made this.

663
00:26:46,605 --> 00:26:48,691
{\an8}Oh, thank you so much!
So nice to meet you, Jenn.

664
00:26:48,691 --> 00:26:50,860
{\an8}So nice to meet you.
Thanks for having us.

665
00:26:50,860 --> 00:26:53,195
{\an8}Jenn will be meeting
my mom, Karen...

666
00:26:53,195 --> 00:26:54,530
{\an8}her husband, Michael...

667
00:26:54,530 --> 00:26:55,948
{\an8}Nice to meet you.
Hi.

668
00:26:55,948 --> 00:26:57,366
{\an8}
...my older sister, Lindsey...

669
00:26:57,366 --> 00:26:59,618
{\an8}her fiancé, Alex...

670
00:26:59,618 --> 00:27:01,787
{\an8}and my younger sister, Emily.

671
00:27:01,787 --> 00:27:03,706
{\an8}Hi! I missed you!

672
00:27:03,706 --> 00:27:05,541
I could never get engaged

673
00:27:05,541 --> 00:27:07,460
without introducing Jenn
to my family,

674
00:27:07,460 --> 00:27:11,213
so I want to see how Jenn
really fits in with them.

675
00:27:11,213 --> 00:27:13,090
So the important question.
How did you guys meet?

676
00:27:13,090 --> 00:27:15,426
- It's funny. I was, um--

677
00:27:15,426 --> 00:27:17,887
I was standing
by this big mansion,

678
00:27:17,887 --> 00:27:20,639
as I-- as I--
as I usually do sometimes.

679
00:27:20,639 --> 00:27:22,641
And he walks up to me.

680
00:27:22,641 --> 00:27:24,310
And, uh, you want to tell
the rest of that story?

681
00:27:24,310 --> 00:27:26,562
We want to hear.
You know, I came up

682
00:27:26,562 --> 00:27:29,231
in the sports car,
introduced myself,

683
00:27:29,231 --> 00:27:31,734
and I was like, you know,
"I know what they say about,

684
00:27:31,734 --> 00:27:33,569
you know, guys
who drive these kinds of cars.

685
00:27:33,569 --> 00:27:35,321
Like, overcompensation.

686
00:27:35,321 --> 00:27:37,323
But I just wanted
to let you know

687
00:27:37,323 --> 00:27:39,075
that I have, like,
a really big--

688
00:27:39,075 --> 00:27:41,202
like, a really big [bleep]."

689
00:27:44,955 --> 00:27:46,582
That was my face, too.

690
00:27:46,582 --> 00:27:47,958
Well, I knew that if she--

691
00:27:47,958 --> 00:27:49,752
if she wouldn't
take that seriously,

692
00:27:49,752 --> 00:27:51,295
then that's a great start.

693
00:27:51,295 --> 00:27:53,255
Well, at least you can tell
he's got balls.

694
00:27:56,467 --> 00:27:59,512
Jeremy and Jenn,
they have a good sense of humor

695
00:27:59,512 --> 00:28:01,263
back and forth.
They were cute together.

696
00:28:01,263 --> 00:28:03,432
They were sweet together.

697
00:28:03,432 --> 00:28:06,268
But when she was named
the Bachelorette,

698
00:28:06,268 --> 00:28:08,354
{\an8}she described what
she looks for in a guy,

699
00:28:08,354 --> 00:28:12,274
{\an8}and I said to myself,
"That is not Jeremy."

700
00:28:12,274 --> 00:28:14,026
I'm glad you guys
got to meet Jenn.

701
00:28:14,026 --> 00:28:16,529
Every, like, minute with her
has been so much fun,

702
00:28:16,529 --> 00:28:18,322
and I'm glad
she's here right now.

703
00:28:18,322 --> 00:28:20,116
Cheers.

704
00:28:20,116 --> 00:28:22,993
{\an8}Jenn and Jeremy
seem to kind of

705
00:28:22,993 --> 00:28:24,954
{\an8}complement each other
pretty well.

706
00:28:24,954 --> 00:28:26,455
Jenn, mind if we have
a quick talk?

707
00:28:26,455 --> 00:28:27,790
Yeah, let's do it.

708
00:28:27,790 --> 00:28:31,961
But I am just really curious

709
00:28:31,961 --> 00:28:34,171
as to if she sees
a future with him

710
00:28:34,171 --> 00:28:37,383
and if they're really serious
about this.

711
00:28:37,383 --> 00:28:39,552
How have you known
that Jeremy is somebody

712
00:28:39,552 --> 00:28:41,345
you've been interested in

713
00:28:41,345 --> 00:28:43,472
as opposed to all the other guys
that you're seeing?

714
00:28:43,472 --> 00:28:46,642
With Jeremy, like, we always
have such a good time together

715
00:28:46,642 --> 00:28:49,854
and we have, like,
the best laughs together,

716
00:28:49,854 --> 00:28:52,731
so it's been really great
to have somebody like that

717
00:28:52,731 --> 00:28:54,400
and to feel so myself.

718
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,360
There's something
really special there,

719
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,822
but we haven't expressed
our feelings for each other yet,

720
00:28:59,822 --> 00:29:01,699
so I don't really know exactly

721
00:29:01,699 --> 00:29:03,909
where his head is at
in all of this.

722
00:29:03,909 --> 00:29:06,662
He tells me he doesn't
have walls up and he's like--

723
00:29:06,662 --> 00:29:08,205
he's like an open book,

724
00:29:08,205 --> 00:29:10,499
but I do think
he's holding back a little bit.

725
00:29:10,499 --> 00:29:13,169
Do you think that Jeremy's,
like, ready for everything

726
00:29:13,169 --> 00:29:15,671
that's coming
at the end of this?

727
00:29:15,671 --> 00:29:19,258
Do I think he would be
ready to get engaged

728
00:29:19,258 --> 00:29:21,844
in just with the timeline
of you guys dating?

729
00:29:21,844 --> 00:29:24,847
Maybe not, but, I mean,

730
00:29:24,847 --> 00:29:27,725
I think that he probably
does want a partner

731
00:29:27,725 --> 00:29:31,353
who will make him happy
and, like, fulfilled in life.

732
00:29:31,353 --> 00:29:33,564
Jeremy can be
a little bit guarded.

733
00:29:33,564 --> 00:29:35,107
He takes a little bit of time.

734
00:29:35,107 --> 00:29:37,109
But when she told me
that they hadn't

735
00:29:37,109 --> 00:29:39,612
really expressed their feelings
for each other,

736
00:29:39,612 --> 00:29:41,739
I did feel like
that was a benchmark

737
00:29:41,739 --> 00:29:44,867
that I would have liked them
to hit already.

738
00:29:44,867 --> 00:29:47,203
They have
some more conversations

739
00:29:47,203 --> 00:29:50,915
that they need to have and just
kind of lay it out on the table,

740
00:29:50,915 --> 00:29:54,043
be open with each other.

741
00:29:54,043 --> 00:29:56,045
Do you really feel like
you could see a future with her?

742
00:29:56,045 --> 00:29:57,546
Yeah, I do.

743
00:29:57,546 --> 00:30:00,591
Um, we'll see how
the next few weeks ago,

744
00:30:00,591 --> 00:30:03,302
but I've just never,
like, been, like,

745
00:30:03,302 --> 00:30:06,138
so happy around someone
and, like, been myself,

746
00:30:06,138 --> 00:30:09,141
um, which I did not expect
coming into this,

747
00:30:09,141 --> 00:30:12,978
but I have been, so I couldn't
ask for anything else.

748
00:30:12,978 --> 00:30:15,231
You spoke with Jenn?
- I did.

749
00:30:15,231 --> 00:30:16,941
- How was that?
- It was good.

750
00:30:16,941 --> 00:30:18,651
I asked her
what she liked about you.

751
00:30:18,651 --> 00:30:20,069
She said that you were funny,

752
00:30:20,069 --> 00:30:21,987
which I said,
"You don't have to lie."

753
00:30:24,073 --> 00:30:27,451
And then I asked, um,
how she felt about you.

754
00:30:27,451 --> 00:30:29,954
- Mm-hmm.
- And she said that

755
00:30:29,954 --> 00:30:31,914
you got some walls up,
my guy.

756
00:30:31,914 --> 00:30:33,249
She said <i>I</i> have walls up?

757
00:30:33,249 --> 00:30:35,918
- Yeah.
- I don't think I do.

758
00:30:35,918 --> 00:30:39,088
I mean, I think you can be
a little bit... guarded.

759
00:30:39,088 --> 00:30:40,256
Guarded?

760
00:30:40,256 --> 00:30:42,007
It is a bit shocking that,

761
00:30:42,007 --> 00:30:44,301
uh, Jenn thinks I'm guarded,

762
00:30:44,301 --> 00:30:46,470
only because I've been
so confident

763
00:30:46,470 --> 00:30:49,139
in me and her
pretty much this whole time.

764
00:30:49,139 --> 00:30:53,310
She had kind of said that
you guys hadn't expressed really

765
00:30:53,310 --> 00:30:57,022
how you felt about each other,
like, the depth of your emotion.

766
00:30:57,022 --> 00:31:00,109
Even though I've been trying
to be my vulnerable self,

767
00:31:00,109 --> 00:31:01,777
it takes me time.
- Love you.

768
00:31:01,777 --> 00:31:04,113
I'm not gonna sit here
right now and say like,

769
00:31:04,113 --> 00:31:05,656
"Oh, I'm gonna propose
to her tomorrow."

770
00:31:05,656 --> 00:31:07,491
Like, I'm taking it
day by day right now.

771
00:31:07,491 --> 00:31:10,786
So tell me-- where are
you at with everything?

772
00:31:10,786 --> 00:31:14,957
{\an8}Um, I'm very happy
with everything.

773
00:31:14,957 --> 00:31:17,042
{\an8}I'm fully comfortable
around her,

774
00:31:17,042 --> 00:31:19,795
{\an8}and I've been like that
since the first time we chatted,

775
00:31:19,795 --> 00:31:22,339
which is huge for me 'cause
I'm not that way with everyone.

776
00:31:22,339 --> 00:31:24,466
Like, I've never had
so much fun with one person.

777
00:31:24,466 --> 00:31:26,635
- So you've had fun together?
- Yeah.

778
00:31:26,635 --> 00:31:29,179
Have you talked about
anything else seriously?

779
00:31:29,179 --> 00:31:30,806
Like--
- Yeah. I didn't, like,

780
00:31:30,806 --> 00:31:33,225
feel the need to, like,
rush into deep stuff.

781
00:31:33,225 --> 00:31:35,644
It'll obviously come up.
Um...

782
00:31:35,644 --> 00:31:38,230
But I think just the fact
that, like,

783
00:31:38,230 --> 00:31:41,817
we are always making
each other smile effortlessly.

784
00:31:41,817 --> 00:31:44,820
How about you-- Yeah,
but it's one thing to have fun.

785
00:31:44,820 --> 00:31:47,239
Like, do you feel that
you know her well enough

786
00:31:47,239 --> 00:31:48,907
that this is the person

787
00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:50,576
you want to spend
the rest of your life with?

788
00:31:50,576 --> 00:31:52,911
'Cause it's not a game.
- It's a big que-- I know.

789
00:31:52,911 --> 00:31:54,371
- It's not a show.
- It's your life.

790
00:31:54,371 --> 00:31:55,998
Me and her
have talked about that.

791
00:31:55,998 --> 00:31:58,208
Like, we both only
want to get married once.

792
00:31:58,208 --> 00:31:59,835
We only want to
get engaged once.

793
00:31:59,835 --> 00:32:01,712
Like, it's--
We understand it's a big deal.

794
00:32:01,712 --> 00:32:04,048
I mean, she's dating three
other guys at the same time.

795
00:32:04,048 --> 00:32:05,924
I know,
but she likes me the most.

796
00:32:05,924 --> 00:32:07,676
If it makes you feel better--
- That's your confidence.

797
00:32:07,676 --> 00:32:10,888
She was dating 24 other guys
at the beginning.

798
00:32:10,888 --> 00:32:12,181
I don't know if that
makes me feel better.

799
00:32:12,181 --> 00:32:13,349
I'm just saying.

800
00:32:13,349 --> 00:32:15,017
Seriously, I want you to think

801
00:32:15,017 --> 00:32:18,687
long and hard
what you want going forward

802
00:32:18,687 --> 00:32:21,106
because this is such
a commitment.

803
00:32:21,106 --> 00:32:22,858
- Oh, really?
- Yeah.

804
00:32:22,858 --> 00:32:25,027
And she seems like a nice girl,
but I just met her.

805
00:32:25,027 --> 00:32:26,278
You barely got to
talk to her. Yeah.

806
00:32:26,278 --> 00:32:28,197
So...

807
00:32:28,197 --> 00:32:30,949
I'm skeptical just because
I don't even know if it's love

808
00:32:30,949 --> 00:32:33,869
because I don't know that they
really discussed how they feel.

809
00:32:33,869 --> 00:32:35,537
So if it's not love,

810
00:32:35,537 --> 00:32:39,541
it definitely shouldn't be
an engagement, so...

811
00:32:39,541 --> 00:32:41,543
I just wanted to know
where your head's at.

812
00:32:41,543 --> 00:32:46,215
Because you're dating four
guys, which has to be crazy,

813
00:32:46,215 --> 00:32:49,218
like, keeping
everything in order.

814
00:32:49,218 --> 00:32:50,969
Um...

815
00:32:50,969 --> 00:32:54,390
how's it been with Jeremy
compared to the other guys

816
00:32:54,390 --> 00:32:55,766
or how he stands out?

817
00:32:55,766 --> 00:32:58,268
Yeah, I mean,
that is a big question.

818
00:32:58,268 --> 00:33:00,896
It <i>is</i> hard to
compartmentalize everything,

819
00:33:00,896 --> 00:33:02,564
and I never thought
I'd be someone

820
00:33:02,564 --> 00:33:04,441
who's in a relationship
with four different people.

821
00:33:04,441 --> 00:33:07,152
- Right.
- But we just can always

822
00:33:07,152 --> 00:33:08,987
have the best time.

823
00:33:08,987 --> 00:33:11,990
But he also is a mush ball,
and I know that he cares,

824
00:33:11,990 --> 00:33:13,909
and he's thoughtful.
- He is thoughtful.

825
00:33:13,909 --> 00:33:15,744
And he's there for me.

826
00:33:15,744 --> 00:33:18,831
But this is, like, not a game.

827
00:33:18,831 --> 00:33:21,667
It's-- It's your future
together.

828
00:33:21,667 --> 00:33:24,753
You think that you and Jeremy
have a bond

829
00:33:24,753 --> 00:33:27,756
that really goes beyond
the fun part of it?

830
00:33:27,756 --> 00:33:29,174
He wouldn't be here
if I didn't think

831
00:33:29,174 --> 00:33:31,176
that he could be
a life partner for me.

832
00:33:31,176 --> 00:33:33,303
But I do think
sometimes we can get

833
00:33:33,303 --> 00:33:35,597
a little bit too comfortable
in the fun,

834
00:33:35,597 --> 00:33:38,475
and that does scare me
a little bit.

835
00:33:38,475 --> 00:33:41,770
Like, do <i>you</i> think he could
be ready for an engagement

836
00:33:41,770 --> 00:33:43,021
at the end of this?

837
00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,690
- I just met you.
- I know.

838
00:33:44,690 --> 00:33:47,943
So it has a lot to do
with you as a couple.

839
00:33:47,943 --> 00:33:51,321
I think if it was the right
person, he could be ready.

840
00:33:51,321 --> 00:33:54,783
- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
- But, like, I don't know

841
00:33:54,783 --> 00:33:58,120
how you two really are together,
and it just worries me

842
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,207
that this is, hopefully,
a lifetime commitment.

843
00:34:02,207 --> 00:34:03,792
You know,
if you end up getting engaged,

844
00:34:03,792 --> 00:34:05,669
you really only want to
do it once, if you can.

845
00:34:05,669 --> 00:34:07,796
You know?
- A hundred percent.

846
00:34:07,796 --> 00:34:10,966
So that worries me.

847
00:34:10,966 --> 00:34:14,803
Jeremy's mom is unsure
if he's ready for an engagement,

848
00:34:14,803 --> 00:34:19,057
and that definitely
is not encouraging.

849
00:34:19,057 --> 00:34:21,310
I wish you good luck
on your journey.

850
00:34:21,310 --> 00:34:23,645
- Thank you. Thank you.
- And then who knows?

851
00:34:23,645 --> 00:34:25,981
We'll see. Alright.

852
00:34:25,981 --> 00:34:28,484
It scares me
that she doesn't seem

853
00:34:28,484 --> 00:34:31,653
super hopeful
about the relationship.

854
00:34:31,653 --> 00:34:33,489
Thank you, guys, so much.
Seriously.

855
00:34:33,489 --> 00:34:35,991
- Bye.
- Bye.

856
00:34:35,991 --> 00:34:39,828
Right now I'm feeling
a little... conflicted.

857
00:34:40,788 --> 00:34:43,999
I guess I wonder if Jeremy
and I can go the distance.

858
00:34:43,999 --> 00:34:47,544
Or is there just
something missing with us?

859
00:34:47,544 --> 00:34:49,171
- Hmm.
- Ooh!

860
00:34:49,171 --> 00:34:50,839
I don't really want
to say bye to you.

861
00:34:50,839 --> 00:34:52,341
Me neither. I know.
We had the best day.

862
00:34:52,341 --> 00:34:54,009
Mm-hmm.
Um...

863
00:34:54,009 --> 00:34:57,221
but there is an engagement
at the end of this,

864
00:34:57,221 --> 00:35:00,849
and I feel like
things are flying by,

865
00:35:00,849 --> 00:35:02,351
we're doing so well,

866
00:35:02,351 --> 00:35:03,894
and we are really
on the right track.

867
00:35:03,894 --> 00:35:06,396
And I guess my concerns
for you is, like,

868
00:35:06,396 --> 00:35:08,190
are you ready for that?

869
00:35:08,190 --> 00:35:10,567
Yeah. And, like, what
I told you last week is true.

870
00:35:10,567 --> 00:35:13,070
Like, I'm-- I'm ready for it
with the right person.

871
00:35:13,070 --> 00:35:15,197
- Mm-hmm.
- And, like, my feelings for you

872
00:35:15,197 --> 00:35:18,200
have gotten, like, so strong.

873
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,244
You make me happy,
and, like, my sisters

874
00:35:20,244 --> 00:35:22,621
kept asking and my mom asked,
and I'm like-- "Yeah.

875
00:35:22,621 --> 00:35:25,874
Like, I've been so happy
because of her."

876
00:35:25,874 --> 00:35:28,377
And I know
I haven't told you this,

877
00:35:28,377 --> 00:35:30,379
but, like, I am falling for you.

878
00:35:30,379 --> 00:35:32,297
Like, I just love being--
I love being with you.

879
00:35:32,297 --> 00:35:34,466
Like, genuinely.
- Mmm!

880
00:35:34,466 --> 00:35:36,802
That just makes me so happy.

881
00:35:36,802 --> 00:35:38,470
I feel so close to you.

882
00:35:43,475 --> 00:35:46,770
When I say I'm falling for Jenn,

883
00:35:46,770 --> 00:35:49,565
it means that
I love being with her

884
00:35:49,565 --> 00:35:52,568
and I can't imagine
not being with her.

885
00:35:53,569 --> 00:35:56,238
I was confident with me
and her coming into today,

886
00:35:56,238 --> 00:35:58,615
and I'm even more confident
coming out of today.

887
00:35:58,615 --> 00:36:02,578
And I really do think she's
feeling the exact same way.

888
00:36:04,162 --> 00:36:07,291
- Hugs...
You're a joke.

889
00:36:07,291 --> 00:36:11,253
I wanted to hear him express
how he's feeling about me.

890
00:36:11,253 --> 00:36:14,423
This is a huge step
for both him and I.

891
00:36:14,423 --> 00:36:16,425
I know a life with Jeremy
would be so great.

892
00:36:16,425 --> 00:36:18,093
We'd have so much fun together.

893
00:36:18,093 --> 00:36:22,931
But I don't know.
I think today has been hard.

894
00:36:24,016 --> 00:36:25,601
Having his family
be so skeptical

895
00:36:25,601 --> 00:36:27,269
if Jeremy was ready
for this engagement

896
00:36:27,269 --> 00:36:29,438
definitely left me
with some questions.

897
00:36:29,438 --> 00:36:31,857
We only have
such little time left.

898
00:36:31,857 --> 00:36:34,735
I'm just hoping that Jeremy
can get there with that time.

899
00:36:47,998 --> 00:36:50,000
I am in San Diego, California,

900
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,295
{\an8}and I will be meeting
Jonathon's family today.

901
00:36:55,672 --> 00:36:58,550
{\an8}Jonathon makes me feel
very seen and understood,

902
00:36:58,550 --> 00:37:00,218
which I need in a partner,

903
00:37:00,218 --> 00:37:02,304
and we're very similar
in a lot of ways.

904
00:37:02,304 --> 00:37:05,390
We can have fun together
all the time, which I love.

905
00:37:05,390 --> 00:37:09,186
But Jonathon talks a lot about
how he has an emotional wall up

906
00:37:09,186 --> 00:37:11,021
and it's hard for him
to be vulnerable,

907
00:37:11,021 --> 00:37:14,399
and he hasn't expressed
his feelings for me yet,

908
00:37:14,399 --> 00:37:17,569
so my biggest hope
is that he really can start

909
00:37:17,569 --> 00:37:19,863
to open up to me
because I want to be able

910
00:37:19,863 --> 00:37:22,199
to see him as my future fiancé.

911
00:37:22,199 --> 00:37:24,326
Aah!

912
00:37:24,326 --> 00:37:25,911
- Hi!
- How are you?

913
00:37:25,911 --> 00:37:28,163
A little howdy.

914
00:37:29,122 --> 00:37:31,541
- I missed you.
- I missed you more!

915
00:37:31,541 --> 00:37:33,168
How are you?
- I'm good. How are you doing?

916
00:37:33,168 --> 00:37:35,003
- Good. You look good.
- It's been a while.

917
00:37:35,003 --> 00:37:36,672
- I know.
- Welcome to San Diego.

918
00:37:36,672 --> 00:37:38,382
- I love it.
- Have you been here before?

919
00:37:38,382 --> 00:37:39,841
I've never been here,
but I've been to San Diego.

920
00:37:39,841 --> 00:37:41,843
- Okay. So this is my hometown.
- Okay.

921
00:37:41,843 --> 00:37:44,179
We have some
unfinished business that
we need to take care of.

922
00:37:44,179 --> 00:37:45,555
- Mhm!
- Let's go have some fun.

923
00:37:45,555 --> 00:37:47,182
- Okay. Let's do it.
- You ready?

924
00:37:47,182 --> 00:37:49,059
- Where are we going?
- Come on. Come on.

925
00:37:49,059 --> 00:37:51,019
{\an8}To say I'm excited
is an understatement.

926
00:37:51,019 --> 00:37:53,855
{\an8}Every time we hang out, we pick
up exactly where we left off.

927
00:37:53,855 --> 00:37:56,525
{\an8}Same energy,
same fun, same smiles.

928
00:38:01,029 --> 00:38:03,073
So, we have a whole setup.
Mhm!

929
00:38:03,073 --> 00:38:06,201
{\an8}I'm so excited!
I'm gonna show you up.

930
00:38:06,201 --> 00:38:08,453
Both Jenn and I
played lacrosse in college,

931
00:38:08,453 --> 00:38:10,205
and it's one of those
weird, random things

932
00:38:10,205 --> 00:38:12,040
that you don't get to share
with that many people.

933
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,959
It's still a relatively
small sport.

934
00:38:13,959 --> 00:38:15,419
I got us little
matching jerseys.

935
00:38:15,419 --> 00:38:16,920
{\an8}
Amazing. I love that.

936
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,463
{\an8}Check these out.

937
00:38:18,463 --> 00:38:21,216
{\an8}With my number on it?!
I love it!

938
00:38:21,216 --> 00:38:23,427
We're gonna have some fun,
have a wide open field,

939
00:38:23,427 --> 00:38:25,303
and just mess around
a little bit.

940
00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:26,888
Three, two, one. Go.

941
00:38:28,265 --> 00:38:30,308
Can you do a round-off?

942
00:38:30,308 --> 00:38:31,601
Is that where you go like...

943
00:38:31,601 --> 00:38:32,894
You know, with Jonathon,

944
00:38:32,894 --> 00:38:34,604
we can have so much fun
together

945
00:38:34,604 --> 00:38:37,482
and we have this great
physical chemistry together.

946
00:38:37,482 --> 00:38:39,067
There you go.

947
00:38:39,067 --> 00:38:40,902
Feel like I'm back
in high school. Whoo!

948
00:38:40,902 --> 00:38:42,904
I haven't played lacrosse
in so long,

949
00:38:42,904 --> 00:38:45,282
so to have a partner be able
to see this side of me,

950
00:38:45,282 --> 00:38:46,491
like, I'm just so excited.

951
00:38:46,491 --> 00:38:48,452
I feel at peace right now.

952
00:38:48,452 --> 00:38:49,828
Right?
- You're not shooting

953
00:38:49,828 --> 00:38:52,581
from right there.
- Oh. Gotcha!

954
00:38:52,581 --> 00:38:54,583
Playing with Jonathon,
it feels so natural.

955
00:38:54,583 --> 00:38:56,752
It feels like this is something
we'd be doing on a Saturday

956
00:38:56,752 --> 00:38:59,337
with our kids one day.

957
00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:00,589
Nope.
It's going in anyways.

958
00:39:00,589 --> 00:39:02,924
What?!
That was out of bounds.

959
00:39:04,259 --> 00:39:06,094
Ahh!
- You little cheater!

960
00:39:06,094 --> 00:39:07,804
So, I think
the most special thing

961
00:39:07,804 --> 00:39:12,517
about Jenn and I
is that unspoken energy.

962
00:39:12,517 --> 00:39:15,353
It's fun. It's exciting.
It's sexy.

963
00:39:15,353 --> 00:39:17,647
Yeah, it's beyond special.

964
00:39:17,647 --> 00:39:19,441
I wanted to score that one.

965
00:39:19,441 --> 00:39:21,276
We both have
strong feelings for one another,

966
00:39:21,276 --> 00:39:24,279
but I think the internal battle
for me is, like,

967
00:39:24,279 --> 00:39:26,698
{\an8}I've been lied to
in my past relationship,

968
00:39:26,698 --> 00:39:30,160
{\an8}and it kind of stops me from
jumping into things too quick.

969
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:31,953
I want to make sure
everything with you

970
00:39:31,953 --> 00:39:33,789
feels good going into tonight.

971
00:39:33,789 --> 00:39:35,832
Yeah, I think tonight is
gonna be really great for us

972
00:39:35,832 --> 00:39:38,293
and helpful to break down
some more walls

973
00:39:38,293 --> 00:39:40,670
and to continue progressing
the way we want to.

974
00:39:40,670 --> 00:39:42,631
So I'm hopeful that
tonight's gonna go well.

975
00:39:42,631 --> 00:39:44,132
As far as the walls,
like, yeah,

976
00:39:44,132 --> 00:39:45,509
I think there's obviously walls,
you know?

977
00:39:45,509 --> 00:39:47,469
- I know.
- That was because of

978
00:39:47,469 --> 00:39:48,845
the relationship
I told you about it

979
00:39:48,845 --> 00:39:50,847
that just was really tough
for me.

980
00:39:50,847 --> 00:39:53,183
Obviously, like, I was lied to.
after two years.

981
00:39:53,183 --> 00:39:55,393
- I know.
- And, you know, you believe

982
00:39:55,393 --> 00:39:57,813
good and well that
everything is, like,
great up until that point,

983
00:39:57,813 --> 00:40:01,316
and then you find out
something about a person

984
00:40:01,316 --> 00:40:03,151
is not what you thought at all.
- Mm-hmm.

985
00:40:03,151 --> 00:40:06,571
I just want to be able to
help you break through that

986
00:40:06,571 --> 00:40:09,241
and, like, get to that trust
with me and get to a point

987
00:40:09,241 --> 00:40:12,828
where you do feel comfortable
in sharing everything.

988
00:40:12,828 --> 00:40:15,747
I mean, I told you weeks ago
I can see something here.

989
00:40:15,747 --> 00:40:17,499
Mm-hmm.

990
00:40:17,499 --> 00:40:19,417
It's a hard feeling
to explain because it's like--

991
00:40:19,417 --> 00:40:21,002
Mm-hmm.

992
00:40:21,002 --> 00:40:23,088
I don't use the term,
like, "love" lightly.

993
00:40:23,088 --> 00:40:25,048
- Mm-hmm.
- So it's like--

994
00:40:25,048 --> 00:40:27,717
I don't want to say "love" if
I'm not fully there, you know?

995
00:40:27,717 --> 00:40:29,177
My worst nightmare would be
for you to be like,

996
00:40:29,177 --> 00:40:31,096
"Well, why do you love me?"

997
00:40:31,096 --> 00:40:32,931
And may not be able to answer
wholeheartedly and honestly.

998
00:40:32,931 --> 00:40:34,432
Mm-hmm.

999
00:40:34,432 --> 00:40:36,601
I totally appreciate
Jonathon's honesty

1000
00:40:36,601 --> 00:40:38,937
and being so open
about where he's at,

1001
00:40:38,937 --> 00:40:42,190
but it worries me
that he isn't able

1002
00:40:42,190 --> 00:40:46,027
to fully lean into
his feelings for me.

1003
00:40:46,027 --> 00:40:47,529
I mean, Jonathon's
talked a lot about

1004
00:40:47,529 --> 00:40:49,865
how his family is huge for him

1005
00:40:49,865 --> 00:40:52,284
when he's in a relationship
to allow him to trust,

1006
00:40:52,284 --> 00:40:54,369
so I know that today
will be very important

1007
00:40:54,369 --> 00:40:57,372
for Jonathon and important
for our relationship.

1008
00:40:57,372 --> 00:40:59,291
I mean, I think it just
comes back to, like,

1009
00:40:59,291 --> 00:41:02,252
letting your walls down, like,
that emotional intimacy.

1010
00:41:02,252 --> 00:41:04,963
And, like, when
you finally really do
let me into everything,

1011
00:41:04,963 --> 00:41:07,757
like, that will speak wonders
to us.

1012
00:41:07,757 --> 00:41:10,051
I cannot wait
to introduce her to my family.

1013
00:41:10,051 --> 00:41:11,553
The stakes are massive.

1014
00:41:11,553 --> 00:41:13,096
I want to see
what my family thinks.

1015
00:41:13,096 --> 00:41:14,890
I want to see her interact
with my family.

1016
00:41:14,890 --> 00:41:16,892
Are you ready?
- Let's do it.

1017
00:41:16,892 --> 00:41:18,727
I want to see it for
myself to know whether or not

1018
00:41:18,727 --> 00:41:21,229
I can get to the point of saying
that I'm falling for her.

1019
00:41:28,904 --> 00:41:30,989
I can't wait for you
to meet them, genuinely.

1020
00:41:30,989 --> 00:41:32,657
They're gonna love you.

1021
00:41:32,657 --> 00:41:34,618
I'm about to meet
Jonathon's family,

1022
00:41:34,618 --> 00:41:36,578
and I'm nervous and I'm excited.

1023
00:41:36,578 --> 00:41:38,413
I'm so excited.

1024
00:41:38,413 --> 00:41:40,290
Jonathon did say that
getting his family's approval

1025
00:41:40,290 --> 00:41:43,919
is so important if this whole
thing is gonna work for him.

1026
00:41:43,919 --> 00:41:46,338
And it's gonna be fun.
So him getting

1027
00:41:46,338 --> 00:41:47,756
that validation from his family,

1028
00:41:47,756 --> 00:41:49,466
it's gonna propel
our relationship

1029
00:41:49,466 --> 00:41:52,427
and help us get to that level
that I want us to reach.

1030
00:41:52,427 --> 00:41:55,597
I want to know really
where he's at with me and

1031
00:41:55,597 --> 00:41:57,974
if he's gonna be able to let
down those walls a little bit.

1032
00:41:57,974 --> 00:42:00,143
You guys think
you'll be able to see?

1033
00:42:00,143 --> 00:42:01,770
I'll be able to tell
if he likes her right away.

1034
00:42:01,770 --> 00:42:03,146
Might have to give it
a few minutes.

1035
00:42:03,146 --> 00:42:04,189
-Yeah.
- I can hear 'em.

1036
00:42:04,189 --> 00:42:05,607
- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.

1037
00:42:05,607 --> 00:42:06,983
You remember
who you're meeting?

1038
00:42:06,983 --> 00:42:08,443
{\an8}Yes. Your mom's Lisa.
Yeah.

1039
00:42:08,443 --> 00:42:09,945
{\an8}Your dad is Mitch.
Yep.

1040
00:42:09,945 --> 00:42:11,488
{\an8}Your brother, Zach.
Yeah.

1041
00:42:11,488 --> 00:42:12,948
{\an8}And his wife is Emily.
Yes.

1042
00:42:12,948 --> 00:42:14,950
{\an8}
And your sister is Kristy.

1043
00:42:14,950 --> 00:42:16,159
{\an8}Perfect!

1044
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,664
- Let's go.
- Okay.

1045
00:42:20,664 --> 00:42:22,707
I do think body language
will be huge.

1046
00:42:22,707 --> 00:42:23,959
Yeah.

1047
00:42:25,543 --> 00:42:27,796
- Oh, my God.
- Oh, no!

1048
00:42:27,796 --> 00:42:30,131
- Hello.
- Hi.

1049
00:42:30,131 --> 00:42:31,967
- This is Jenn.
- Hi. Hello.

1050
00:42:31,967 --> 00:42:35,470
Hi. I'm glad.
It's nice to meet you.

1051
00:42:35,470 --> 00:42:39,307
I am beyond excited
to introduce Jenn to my family.

1052
00:42:39,307 --> 00:42:42,477
{\an8}I think the word of the day
is "clarity," you know?

1053
00:42:42,477 --> 00:42:45,313
When I get some of
the reassurance from my family,

1054
00:42:45,313 --> 00:42:46,982
it'll answer a lot
of questions for me

1055
00:42:46,982 --> 00:42:48,566
and kind of open up my mind
to be like,

1056
00:42:48,566 --> 00:42:51,152
hey, this is potentially
the right person for me.

1057
00:42:51,152 --> 00:42:52,988
How are you feeling?
Tell us everything.

1058
00:42:52,988 --> 00:42:54,823
Everything?
Yes.

1059
00:42:54,823 --> 00:42:56,908
There has been a lot
that has happened.

1060
00:42:56,908 --> 00:42:58,910
We went to Australia.
- Amazing.

1061
00:42:58,910 --> 00:43:01,246
And then
we went to New Zealand.

1062
00:43:01,246 --> 00:43:03,665
We did, like, wine tasting.
- Private wine tasting.

1063
00:43:03,665 --> 00:43:06,543
He ate a grape
after we stomped our feet in it.

1064
00:43:06,543 --> 00:43:08,712
Ew!
That was when I knew.

1065
00:43:10,755 --> 00:43:13,341
I didn't really believe the
saying "when you know you know"

1066
00:43:13,341 --> 00:43:15,927
until I met him,
and then I was like, "Oh."

1067
00:43:15,927 --> 00:43:18,555
So, we met on Tinder.
We met online.

1068
00:43:18,555 --> 00:43:21,891
And we said "I love you"
on the third date.

1069
00:43:21,891 --> 00:43:23,852
- Oh, my God.
- And we've been together

1070
00:43:23,852 --> 00:43:25,937
seven years, married for four.

1071
00:43:25,937 --> 00:43:28,690
So, if anything, we can
really relate to the process

1072
00:43:28,690 --> 00:43:31,568
that you guys are going through
that, like, yes, it is sped up,

1073
00:43:31,568 --> 00:43:33,069
but, like,
if it's the right person,

1074
00:43:33,069 --> 00:43:34,946
like, time doesn't
really matter, so...

1075
00:43:34,946 --> 00:43:36,531
- Mm-hmm.
- How <i>did</i> you know?

1076
00:43:36,531 --> 00:43:38,533
Probably your dance moves.

1077
00:43:38,533 --> 00:43:41,453
-Hmm!

1078
00:43:41,453 --> 00:43:43,621
Honestly I feel like
they're a good match.

1079
00:43:43,621 --> 00:43:45,373
{\an8}They look happy together.

1080
00:43:45,373 --> 00:43:47,208
{\an8}- Hi.
- Hi!

1081
00:43:47,208 --> 00:43:51,046
But I also understand
that John is a slow mover.

1082
00:43:51,046 --> 00:43:52,922
The last serious relationship
he had,

1083
00:43:52,922 --> 00:43:57,135
it went from happy, healthy
to, like, toxic at the very end.

1084
00:43:57,135 --> 00:43:59,721
And I'm just protective of John.

1085
00:43:59,721 --> 00:44:02,891
The last thing I want to do
is see him get his heart broken.

1086
00:44:02,891 --> 00:44:04,642
It's fast for me. I don't know.

1087
00:44:04,642 --> 00:44:06,895
- Yeah, it is a fast process.
- Yeah.

1088
00:44:06,895 --> 00:44:09,481
I mean, like, I get it
because, like, we moved fast,

1089
00:44:09,481 --> 00:44:12,400
so, like, it's not impossible.
- Yeah.

1090
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,445
But, I mean,
he is the younger brother, so...

1091
00:44:15,445 --> 00:44:17,572
I get that. Totally.

1092
00:44:17,572 --> 00:44:20,241
Do you feel like
you're falling for any
of the other guys?

1093
00:44:20,241 --> 00:44:23,787
Yeah. Yeah. I have very
strong relationships here,

1094
00:44:23,787 --> 00:44:26,748
and I wouldn't be here

1095
00:44:26,748 --> 00:44:29,417
if Jonathon
wasn't a strong relationship.

1096
00:44:29,417 --> 00:44:33,254
So does that mean
you feel like you can...

1097
00:44:33,254 --> 00:44:35,256
let yourself
fall in love with him?

1098
00:44:35,256 --> 00:44:37,258
Do you feel that way?

1099
00:44:37,258 --> 00:44:39,260
Yeah, I mean...
Oh, there's a smile.

1100
00:44:39,260 --> 00:44:41,096
She gave you a smile.

1101
00:44:41,096 --> 00:44:42,680
I think...

1102
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,433
I mean, it's definitely--
It's scary for me,

1103
00:44:45,433 --> 00:44:50,605
but I do think we're, like,
on the cusp of that.

1104
00:44:50,605 --> 00:44:52,982
I can't help myself.
I'm just feeling very, like--

1105
00:44:52,982 --> 00:44:54,943
I want to be protective of John,
so I don't...

1106
00:44:54,943 --> 00:44:57,779
Listen. I can totally
understand where
you're coming from.

1107
00:44:57,779 --> 00:45:02,325
So I appreciate your honesty,
and I 100% get it.

1108
00:45:02,325 --> 00:45:04,160
You just don't
want him to get hurt.

1109
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,663
Yeah, I know. For sure.
That's more or less what it is.

1110
00:45:06,663 --> 00:45:09,874
Jonathon's brother, Zach,
gets emotional with me.

1111
00:45:09,874 --> 00:45:11,960
It's not easy to hear that
from a family member

1112
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:14,462
who cares so much
and protects Jonathon so much.

1113
00:45:14,462 --> 00:45:16,506
I really appreciate it.
- It was nice meeting you.

1114
00:45:16,506 --> 00:45:18,550
I can only hope to impress them,

1115
00:45:18,550 --> 00:45:20,510
and I can only hope
that they see what I see

1116
00:45:20,510 --> 00:45:22,470
between the two of us.

1117
00:45:22,470 --> 00:45:25,056
{\an8}Jonathon's talked so much
about you. Seriously.

1118
00:45:25,056 --> 00:45:27,642
{\an8}So I was very, very excited
to meet you.

1119
00:45:27,642 --> 00:45:29,352
Yeah. I don't know Jenn.

1120
00:45:29,352 --> 00:45:31,646
And I don't want to see him
get his feelings hurt.

1121
00:45:31,646 --> 00:45:34,065
So I want to know
what makes her think

1122
00:45:34,065 --> 00:45:36,025
{\an8}he's going to be
that good partner.

1123
00:45:36,025 --> 00:45:38,069
You know, it seems like
you guys are really

1124
00:45:38,069 --> 00:45:40,405
quite smitten with each other.
- Yeah.

1125
00:45:40,405 --> 00:45:41,906
Um, like,
could you see yourself

1126
00:45:41,906 --> 00:45:44,325
with John long term, then?

1127
00:45:44,325 --> 00:45:46,744
Yeah, I--
I honestly really could.

1128
00:45:46,744 --> 00:45:49,831
And being here, like--
I don't take meeting you

1129
00:45:49,831 --> 00:45:52,709
or meeting his family
lightly at all.

1130
00:45:52,709 --> 00:45:56,045
I think we've built
a lot of great groundwork.

1131
00:45:56,045 --> 00:45:59,716
He is someone who really sees me
and understands me,

1132
00:45:59,716 --> 00:46:01,509
and that's something
that's special to me

1133
00:46:01,509 --> 00:46:03,178
because I haven't
had that before.

1134
00:46:03,178 --> 00:46:05,555
I mean, the one thing
that I'm struggling with,

1135
00:46:05,555 --> 00:46:07,390
with him is, like,
I understand

1136
00:46:07,390 --> 00:46:09,684
his previous relationship
was really tough for him.

1137
00:46:09,684 --> 00:46:11,519
I related
to a little bit of that.

1138
00:46:11,519 --> 00:46:13,688
I've been through
a toxic relationship myself.

1139
00:46:13,688 --> 00:46:16,191
But it's been challenging

1140
00:46:16,191 --> 00:46:18,276
to figure out exactly
where I feel about Jonathon

1141
00:46:18,276 --> 00:46:20,570
because I know
he's holding back a little bit,

1142
00:46:20,570 --> 00:46:21,946
and I can understand why.

1143
00:46:21,946 --> 00:46:24,699
Yeah. I mean,
there's four guys total.

1144
00:46:24,699 --> 00:46:26,367
Is he a contender?

1145
00:46:26,367 --> 00:46:28,870
Is he realistically
someone you're gonna pick?

1146
00:46:28,870 --> 00:46:30,872
I mean, I wouldn't be here
if he wasn't.

1147
00:46:30,872 --> 00:46:32,790
- Okay.
- I mean that wholeheartedly.

1148
00:46:32,790 --> 00:46:36,085
Like, every moment is just

1149
00:46:36,085 --> 00:46:38,379
making our relationship
stronger and stronger,

1150
00:46:38,379 --> 00:46:42,217
and that's why it's giving me
so much hope for the future.

1151
00:46:42,217 --> 00:46:45,553
I think Jenn is adorable.
She is so cute.

1152
00:46:45,553 --> 00:46:48,932
I think she's smitten with John,
and that I loved.

1153
00:46:48,932 --> 00:46:50,892
{\an8}So I think
there's a lot of potential.

1154
00:46:50,892 --> 00:46:53,645
{\an8}I think there's a lot of work
to be done, as well.

1155
00:46:53,645 --> 00:46:56,481
Like, John has to kind of
let down his guard

1156
00:46:56,481 --> 00:46:58,566
and just be
a little less cautious.

1157
00:46:58,566 --> 00:47:01,569
But that's not something
that's easy for him to do.

1158
00:47:01,569 --> 00:47:04,781
{\an8}I want you to be happy.
I want her to be happy.

1159
00:47:04,781 --> 00:47:07,575
{\an8}You have to play big
to win big, right?

1160
00:47:07,575 --> 00:47:09,410
- I agree.
- You could also lose big.

1161
00:47:09,410 --> 00:47:10,828
But either way,
you're gonna be glad

1162
00:47:10,828 --> 00:47:12,455
that you put everything in.

1163
00:47:12,455 --> 00:47:15,458
So don't hold back
if this is what you want.

1164
00:47:15,458 --> 00:47:19,671
Yeah. You're saying literally
all the right things right now.

1165
00:47:19,671 --> 00:47:21,339
Good.

1166
00:47:21,339 --> 00:47:23,091
She seems really wonderful.

1167
00:47:23,091 --> 00:47:27,345
And I hope that you get
everything you want out of this.

1168
00:47:27,345 --> 00:47:29,013
My sister is
the sensitive one, you know?

1169
00:47:29,013 --> 00:47:30,807
She's very emotional.

1170
00:47:30,807 --> 00:47:33,142
I love you so much.
- I love you.

1171
00:47:33,142 --> 00:47:34,686
But when
she speaks from the heart,

1172
00:47:34,686 --> 00:47:37,355
like, you know that what
she's saying is true

1173
00:47:37,355 --> 00:47:39,148
and you got to listen.

1174
00:47:39,148 --> 00:47:40,441
Oh, thank you,
thank you, thank you.

1175
00:47:40,441 --> 00:47:41,776
Of course.

1176
00:47:41,776 --> 00:47:45,029
But my mom
is my biggest star.

1177
00:47:45,029 --> 00:47:47,615
You know, she is the
most big-hearted person,

1178
00:47:47,615 --> 00:47:50,285
and what she has to say
carries weight.

1179
00:47:50,285 --> 00:47:52,036
So, one thing
she had mentioned is that

1180
00:47:52,036 --> 00:47:55,164
you are, like, cautious,
and that's a concern for her.

1181
00:47:55,164 --> 00:47:57,041
Why are you holding
your emotions back?

1182
00:47:57,041 --> 00:47:58,793
I think with all the good
that comes up,

1183
00:47:58,793 --> 00:48:00,211
also fears come up.

1184
00:48:00,211 --> 00:48:02,130
You know, I have worries
that, like--

1185
00:48:02,130 --> 00:48:04,465
Is this time that
I've gotten to know her--

1186
00:48:04,465 --> 00:48:06,634
Is this just, like,
what she wants me to see

1187
00:48:06,634 --> 00:48:08,469
or is it what she really is?

1188
00:48:08,469 --> 00:48:11,723
You know, that's why I hold
so much importance on today,

1189
00:48:11,723 --> 00:48:16,477
getting your guys' reassurance
and your thoughts on--

1190
00:48:16,477 --> 00:48:19,063
"Yeah. You guys are in
a really, really good spot."

1191
00:48:19,063 --> 00:48:20,898
I think that would allow
for me to kind of, like,

1192
00:48:20,898 --> 00:48:23,526
dive in
and not hold back as much.

1193
00:48:23,526 --> 00:48:25,153
But I want you
to be 100% honest.

1194
00:48:25,153 --> 00:48:27,030
- Okay.
- Is this the person

1195
00:48:27,030 --> 00:48:29,949
you see me with long term?

1196
00:48:31,576 --> 00:48:34,245
Honestly? Absolutely.

1197
00:48:34,245 --> 00:48:36,247
I like that she's fun.

1198
00:48:36,247 --> 00:48:38,833
I like-- You know, and not one
time did she bring up looks.

1199
00:48:38,833 --> 00:48:41,711
Not one single time.
It was more about what's inside,

1200
00:48:41,711 --> 00:48:45,506
how you communicate, that
you're there and you support.

1201
00:48:45,506 --> 00:48:47,842
So, like, right away
she just was comfortable,

1202
00:48:47,842 --> 00:48:49,677
and I thought that was
very awesome, actually.

1203
00:48:49,677 --> 00:48:51,846
I could totally
see you with Jenn.

1204
00:48:51,846 --> 00:48:53,848
I think they're a great match.

1205
00:48:53,848 --> 00:48:58,353
He's gonna have to trust and
just say, "Okay, I'm all-in."

1206
00:48:58,353 --> 00:49:00,063
Like, either you're in
or you're out,

1207
00:49:00,063 --> 00:49:02,106
but you can't
just sit here halfway.

1208
00:49:02,106 --> 00:49:04,859
You've got to jump
and just risk the fall.

1209
00:49:04,859 --> 00:49:08,237
You have to, at some point,
close your eyes

1210
00:49:08,237 --> 00:49:11,366
and just be willing
to fall back and just trust.

1211
00:49:11,366 --> 00:49:13,284
And you know what? It's
not always gonna work out.

1212
00:49:13,284 --> 00:49:15,453
And it's gonna sting.
It's gonna hurt.

1213
00:49:15,453 --> 00:49:19,207
But you'll never know if you
don't put it all out there.

1214
00:49:19,207 --> 00:49:20,917
And then you'll have
that reservation

1215
00:49:20,917 --> 00:49:22,210
and that question
in your head like,

1216
00:49:22,210 --> 00:49:24,087
"Ah. Should I have done this?"

1217
00:49:24,087 --> 00:49:25,755
This takes a lot of courage,

1218
00:49:25,755 --> 00:49:27,423
to put yourself out
and be vulnerable.

1219
00:49:27,423 --> 00:49:30,927
And, you know, you just
have to take that chance.

1220
00:49:30,927 --> 00:49:34,555
- I love you so much.
- Love you, too.

1221
00:49:34,555 --> 00:49:36,808
Getting that approval
from my family

1222
00:49:36,808 --> 00:49:39,394
was a giant leap forward.

1223
00:49:39,394 --> 00:49:41,229
I got clarity.

1224
00:49:43,898 --> 00:49:46,734
{\an8}Today was exactly what I needed.

1225
00:49:46,734 --> 00:49:51,239
Getting to just see Jenn
and my family interact

1226
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,074
and hear the things
that my family said about her

1227
00:49:53,074 --> 00:49:54,992
was amazing.

1228
00:49:54,992 --> 00:49:57,120
- Bye. Thank you guys so much.
- Bye, guys.

1229
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:01,124
My family said
to lean in and take a chance,

1230
00:50:01,124 --> 00:50:04,752
put it all out there,
and listen to my gut.

1231
00:50:04,752 --> 00:50:06,587
You know,
that's what this is all about.

1232
00:50:06,587 --> 00:50:08,840
Genuinely...
- Yeah.

1233
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:12,301
Thank you
for everything in there.

1234
00:50:12,301 --> 00:50:15,138
They loved you.

1235
00:50:15,138 --> 00:50:18,266
This opened my eyes
to so much.

1236
00:50:18,266 --> 00:50:21,269
And I love so much
about you that it's...

1237
00:50:26,983 --> 00:50:29,610
Am I getting there?
One hundred percent.

1238
00:50:29,610 --> 00:50:31,696
- Me too.
- When I said that

1239
00:50:31,696 --> 00:50:34,615
this would be the thing
that would open my eyes...

1240
00:50:34,615 --> 00:50:37,827
it would be impossible
for me to not say that I am.

1241
00:50:37,827 --> 00:50:39,454
What was that again?

1242
00:50:39,454 --> 00:50:41,456
- No. Don't you dare.
- What do you mean?

1243
00:50:41,456 --> 00:50:42,957
I actually didn't catch that.

1244
00:50:42,957 --> 00:50:46,377
Jennifer Tran...
- Mm-hmm.

1245
00:50:46,377 --> 00:50:49,297
I am falling for you.

1246
00:50:49,297 --> 00:50:51,048
It's so good that it's true,

1247
00:50:51,048 --> 00:50:52,884
and I need to allow
for myself to feel that

1248
00:50:52,884 --> 00:50:54,677
and fall for that.

1249
00:50:54,677 --> 00:50:56,804
And I am.

1250
00:50:56,804 --> 00:51:01,476
Jonathon Johnson,
I am also falling for you.

1251
00:51:01,476 --> 00:51:03,644
It's like we're in middle
school and we can't spit it out.

1252
00:51:03,644 --> 00:51:05,605
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

1253
00:51:13,988 --> 00:51:15,990
I am falling for Jonathon.

1254
00:51:15,990 --> 00:51:20,828
And to know that he's falling
for me makes me so excited.

1255
00:51:20,828 --> 00:51:23,498
I just wanted it
to get to a certain level today,

1256
00:51:23,498 --> 00:51:25,166
and it really did.

1257
00:51:25,166 --> 00:51:28,503
I feel that we really
are on the right track

1258
00:51:28,503 --> 00:51:30,254
for something real here.

1259
00:51:30,254 --> 00:51:32,924
He could be my husband
at the end of this.

1260
00:51:36,344 --> 00:51:39,263
Today was another giant leap
forward for Jenn and I.

1261
00:51:39,263 --> 00:51:41,224
Bye.

1262
00:51:41,224 --> 00:51:43,559
You know, I have
a lot of confidence right now.

1263
00:51:43,559 --> 00:51:48,105
Jenn told me that she could
see me at the end of this.

1264
00:51:48,105 --> 00:51:50,191
We have a special connection,

1265
00:51:50,191 --> 00:51:53,110
and I want to see
where we can take this.

1266
00:52:11,379 --> 00:52:13,923
Today I am
in Tacoma, Washington,

1267
00:52:13,923 --> 00:52:17,385
meeting Marcus' family,
and I'm feeling excited.

1268
00:52:17,385 --> 00:52:19,804
- Hello!
- Hi!

1269
00:52:19,804 --> 00:52:21,556
Tacoma looks good on you.

1270
00:52:21,556 --> 00:52:22,932
- Does it?
- Yeah.

1271
00:52:22,932 --> 00:52:24,892
- How's it going?
- Hi!

1272
00:52:26,769 --> 00:52:28,229
Welcome to Tacoma.

1273
00:52:28,229 --> 00:52:30,439
- Thank you.
- You look beautiful.

1274
00:52:30,439 --> 00:52:31,899
Thank you. Missed you.

1275
00:52:31,899 --> 00:52:34,652
I feel very hopeful
about Marcus.

1276
00:52:34,652 --> 00:52:37,572
I could really see myself
falling in love with Marcus.

1277
00:52:37,572 --> 00:52:38,948
- Wanna go for a little walk?
- Sure.

1278
00:52:38,948 --> 00:52:40,741
- Alright. Let's go.
- Okay.

1279
00:52:40,741 --> 00:52:42,410
I mean, my feelings
have definitely grown

1280
00:52:42,410 --> 00:52:44,495
in the past few weeks,
and especially last week,

1281
00:52:44,495 --> 00:52:46,247
having a second one-on-one date,

1282
00:52:46,247 --> 00:52:49,166
but it's been really hard
for him to open up to me

1283
00:52:49,166 --> 00:52:51,419
and express how he's feeling.

1284
00:52:51,419 --> 00:52:54,088
I know that my feelings
are further along than he is,

1285
00:52:54,088 --> 00:52:56,132
and that's scary.

1286
00:52:56,132 --> 00:52:58,676
So, today, with meeting
Marcus' his loved ones,

1287
00:52:58,676 --> 00:53:00,595
the people who are
most important to him,

1288
00:53:00,595 --> 00:53:04,348
I am hopeful that he expresses
his feelings for me.

1289
00:53:04,348 --> 00:53:06,434
There's just a lot
of weight on today.

1290
00:53:06,434 --> 00:53:07,935
Why are you sitting
so far away?

1291
00:53:07,935 --> 00:53:09,854
I don't know.
How are you?

1292
00:53:09,854 --> 00:53:12,481
So good. I'm excited
for you to meet everybody.

1293
00:53:12,481 --> 00:53:14,942
Okay. So who am I meeting?
What's the game plan?

1294
00:53:14,942 --> 00:53:16,360
Right.
So you're gonna be meeting

1295
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,279
my little sister, Gabriella.
- Yes.

1296
00:53:18,279 --> 00:53:21,824
She's been the most consistent
person in my life.

1297
00:53:21,824 --> 00:53:23,618
And very excited
for you to meet her.

1298
00:53:23,618 --> 00:53:25,161
Me too.

1299
00:53:25,161 --> 00:53:28,497
My adoptive parents
will not be there today,

1300
00:53:28,497 --> 00:53:31,500
but you will meet Scott and Sue.
- Okay.

1301
00:53:31,500 --> 00:53:33,628
So, when I was a young Ranger,

1302
00:53:33,628 --> 00:53:36,964
I was looking for mentors
and kind of parental figures,

1303
00:53:36,964 --> 00:53:39,967
and they really stepped in
and filled that role for me.

1304
00:53:39,967 --> 00:53:42,970
And that's kind of where
I realized that, you know,

1305
00:53:42,970 --> 00:53:45,723
my friends here in Tacoma
are more than friends.

1306
00:53:45,723 --> 00:53:47,308
They are my family.
- Mm-hmm.

1307
00:53:47,308 --> 00:53:49,185
So it's just the fact
that you're here

1308
00:53:49,185 --> 00:53:50,978
and that I get to
introduce them to you,

1309
00:53:50,978 --> 00:53:52,647
it's a very, very special day
for me today.

1310
00:53:52,647 --> 00:53:55,483
- Yeah. I can tell.
- I don't want anyone else.

1311
00:53:55,483 --> 00:53:58,319
Aww.
- Aww. That's so nice.

1312
00:53:58,319 --> 00:54:00,029
- Come here.
- Oh...

1313
00:54:03,199 --> 00:54:04,992
Having Jenn here in Tacoma

1314
00:54:04,992 --> 00:54:06,744
and getting to meet
my family and my friends

1315
00:54:06,744 --> 00:54:08,329
and all the people
that I care about,

1316
00:54:08,329 --> 00:54:11,040
{\an8}it just feels like a--
a clashing of worlds

1317
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:12,875
{\an8}for me in the best possible way.

1318
00:54:12,875 --> 00:54:16,003
But I'm definitely
feeling nervous

1319
00:54:16,003 --> 00:54:19,173
because I can't wait
to see kind of

1320
00:54:19,173 --> 00:54:21,926
how Jenn interacts
with-- with everyone.

1321
00:54:24,095 --> 00:54:27,098
- We love Marcus.
- Ohh!

1322
00:54:27,098 --> 00:54:28,599
I love Marcus!

1323
00:54:28,599 --> 00:54:31,185
{\an8}I cannot believe
we're gonna see him.

1324
00:54:31,185 --> 00:54:33,688
{\an8}This is a pretty big group
of Marcus' people.

1325
00:54:33,688 --> 00:54:36,607
{\an8}I think sometimes
we might be a bit of a...

1326
00:54:36,607 --> 00:54:39,276
{\an8}Intimidating.
- Bit of a group to walk into.

1327
00:54:39,276 --> 00:54:42,196
{\an8}I hope your brother told Jenn
what she's getting into.

1328
00:54:42,196 --> 00:54:44,115
We'll know
by the look on her face.

1329
00:54:47,201 --> 00:54:48,703
- Alright.
- Okay.

1330
00:54:48,703 --> 00:54:50,413
- How are you feeling right now?
- I'm excited!

1331
00:54:50,413 --> 00:54:52,206
I really am. I'm excited.
- I want to remind you

1332
00:54:52,206 --> 00:54:54,125
that they're gonna love you.
- Thank you.

1333
00:54:54,125 --> 00:54:55,960
You need to walk in there
and just know that.

1334
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,962
- Okay.
- Um, and I think they'll--

1335
00:54:57,962 --> 00:54:59,714
they'll remind you
a few times in there, but...

1336
00:54:59,714 --> 00:55:00,881
- Aww.
- Yeah. I think...

1337
00:55:00,881 --> 00:55:02,383
it's gonna be a blast.

1338
00:55:02,383 --> 00:55:04,468
- Okay.
- You ready?

1339
00:55:04,468 --> 00:55:06,470
- Mm-hmm.
- Alright.

1340
00:55:06,470 --> 00:55:08,556
Here we go.

1341
00:55:08,556 --> 00:55:10,224
I don't want to get into it.

1342
00:55:10,224 --> 00:55:12,268
- Hi!
- Hi!

1343
00:55:12,268 --> 00:55:14,895
What?! What?!
Hello, everyone.

1344
00:55:14,895 --> 00:55:16,564
This is Jenn.
This is everyone.

1345
00:55:16,564 --> 00:55:20,401
Hello, Gabby. Ohh. Hi!
This is my sister.

1346
00:55:20,401 --> 00:55:22,445
Ethan. I'm gonna make
my rounds here.

1347
00:55:22,445 --> 00:55:24,071
Hi. I'm Sue. Oh...

1348
00:55:24,071 --> 00:55:26,407
We open the door,
and I see everyone

1349
00:55:26,407 --> 00:55:28,159
that I care about
and that I love,

1350
00:55:28,159 --> 00:55:31,328
and it instantly
feels like home to me.

1351
00:55:31,328 --> 00:55:33,330
Wait. Can you guys tell us,
like, where you've been?

1352
00:55:33,330 --> 00:55:35,750
Marcus was my first
one-on-one date.

1353
00:55:35,750 --> 00:55:37,251
- Really?
- What?!

1354
00:55:37,251 --> 00:55:39,587
Very, very lucky. Yeah.

1355
00:55:39,587 --> 00:55:41,130
Yeah. So we did something
very casual.

1356
00:55:41,130 --> 00:55:44,091
- We went skydiving.
-No way!

1357
00:55:44,091 --> 00:55:47,344
And, yeah, we got up there,
and he was really great with me.

1358
00:55:47,344 --> 00:55:48,971
Aww!
And he was--

1359
00:55:48,971 --> 00:55:51,015
Yeah, he was really good.
He calmed me down.

1360
00:55:51,015 --> 00:55:52,767
You guys
were in the plane
getting ready to jump out?

1361
00:55:52,767 --> 00:55:54,518
Yeah.
I thought I was going out first.

1362
00:55:54,518 --> 00:55:56,645
I'm like, you know,
Jenn needs see someone do this

1363
00:55:56,645 --> 00:55:58,272
before she can do it.

1364
00:55:58,272 --> 00:55:59,940
And they just kind of,
like, kick her out.

1365
00:55:59,940 --> 00:56:02,485
And I was like, "Okay!
I'm coming for you, Jenn!"

1366
00:56:02,485 --> 00:56:04,111
I wanted to go first.

1367
00:56:04,111 --> 00:56:06,447
I need to break your fall
somehow, you know?

1368
00:56:06,447 --> 00:56:09,366
I know Jenn's a tough girl
and she can handle herself,

1369
00:56:09,366 --> 00:56:11,994
but to see her
so seamlessly fit in

1370
00:56:11,994 --> 00:56:15,122
with, you know, my friends
and family is impressive.

1371
00:56:15,122 --> 00:56:18,125
and it makes me--
it makes me hopeful.

1372
00:56:18,125 --> 00:56:19,668
It is beautiful out today, huh?

1373
00:56:19,668 --> 00:56:21,337
Yeah. Isn't it?

1374
00:56:21,337 --> 00:56:23,172
But I've struggled
this entire journey

1375
00:56:23,172 --> 00:56:26,842
to open up and to stay open,

1376
00:56:26,842 --> 00:56:30,971
and so today I'm looking
for clarity and wisdom

1377
00:56:30,971 --> 00:56:32,890
from my friends to help me,

1378
00:56:32,890 --> 00:56:35,684
like, unpack
how I feel about her.

1379
00:56:35,684 --> 00:56:39,980
{\an8}I'm doing everything I can
to stay open to the possibility

1380
00:56:39,980 --> 00:56:42,983
{\an8}of falling in love
and having a future with Jenn.

1381
00:56:42,983 --> 00:56:47,404
But I think I'm kind of stuck
somewhere between

1382
00:56:47,404 --> 00:56:50,491
really, really liking someone
and-- and loving them.

1383
00:56:50,491 --> 00:56:52,660
And I don't know.

1384
00:56:52,660 --> 00:56:55,246
Maybe I'm beating myself up
a little bit because I'm, like,

1385
00:56:55,246 --> 00:56:57,373
not in love with her yet.

1386
00:56:57,373 --> 00:57:01,335
But, you know, I still do have
hope that that can happen.

1387
00:57:01,335 --> 00:57:04,046
You know, what's the main read
you're getting from her?

1388
00:57:04,046 --> 00:57:07,341
I know that she knows
I feel strongly about her,

1389
00:57:07,341 --> 00:57:09,760
and I know that she feels
strongly about me.

1390
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:11,846
But if and when we fall in love,

1391
00:57:11,846 --> 00:57:13,681
I think we're both kind of,
like, waiting for each other

1392
00:57:13,681 --> 00:57:18,352
to, like, take that step or,
like, to make that known.

1393
00:57:18,352 --> 00:57:20,771
And Jenn is, like, incredible.

1394
00:57:20,771 --> 00:57:23,023
So, you know,
I wonder how much of it

1395
00:57:23,023 --> 00:57:26,694
is because I'm, like, afraid.

1396
00:57:26,694 --> 00:57:29,530
You know, like, the last thing
that I want to happen is to,

1397
00:57:29,530 --> 00:57:32,533
like, miss a great thing
sitting right in front of me.

1398
00:57:32,533 --> 00:57:34,368
But, like, I think
I just need enough answers

1399
00:57:34,368 --> 00:57:35,911
to take that leap, and I think

1400
00:57:35,911 --> 00:57:38,414
that's kind of what
today is for me,

1401
00:57:38,414 --> 00:57:40,207
is kind of getting
some of those answers

1402
00:57:40,207 --> 00:57:41,709
and getting some
of that clarity.

1403
00:57:41,709 --> 00:57:43,460
You know,
I know that there's nobody

1404
00:57:43,460 --> 00:57:45,921
that's gonna think it
and analyze it more than you.

1405
00:57:45,921 --> 00:57:49,383
I just hope that you come
to the right realization.

1406
00:57:49,383 --> 00:57:52,219
This whole thing
is extremely scary to me.

1407
00:57:52,219 --> 00:57:54,889
I think it's really hard
for me to let people in.

1408
00:57:54,889 --> 00:57:58,267
And with Jenn,
I think she can kind of sense

1409
00:57:58,267 --> 00:58:02,062
I'm struggling
to get there fully with her.

1410
00:58:02,062 --> 00:58:05,649
She's waiting on me
to figure out how I feel,

1411
00:58:05,649 --> 00:58:09,153
and I don't have the answers
that I'm looking for right now,

1412
00:58:09,153 --> 00:58:11,030
so I'm terrified.

1413
00:58:21,582 --> 00:58:23,584
{\an8}
So how has it been?

1414
00:58:23,584 --> 00:58:25,669
{\an8}How do you feel
about getting engaged?

1415
00:58:25,669 --> 00:58:28,672
{\an8}Do you think that's
a possibility with Marcus?

1416
00:58:28,672 --> 00:58:30,466
{\an8}I definitely see Marcus

1417
00:58:30,466 --> 00:58:32,968
as someone that
I can have a future with.

1418
00:58:32,968 --> 00:58:34,762
I think he'd make
a great husband.

1419
00:58:34,762 --> 00:58:36,680
I think
he'd make a great father.

1420
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:40,434
But we haven't really expressed
our feelings to each other yet.

1421
00:58:40,434 --> 00:58:42,603
- Okay.
- I do fall hard and fast

1422
00:58:42,603 --> 00:58:44,772
sometimes, and for him,
he did say, you know,

1423
00:58:44,772 --> 00:58:47,149
it takes him a little bit more
to open up and...

1424
00:58:47,149 --> 00:58:49,276
- Sure.
- ...a little bit
slower of a burn.

1425
00:58:49,276 --> 00:58:53,280
And I get that.
So it does make me scared.

1426
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:57,576
I don't know
exactly how he's feeling.

1427
00:58:58,911 --> 00:59:00,871
I feel so strongly for Marcus,

1428
00:59:00,871 --> 00:59:04,208
but I am scared
of falling in love

1429
00:59:04,208 --> 00:59:08,379
with somebody who is
so perfect and amazing

1430
00:59:08,379 --> 00:59:11,840
and someone who I feel like
I really do have a future with

1431
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:14,885
without really knowing
how he feels.

1432
00:59:14,885 --> 00:59:18,138
So I'm excited to talk
to Gabby, his sister,

1433
00:59:18,138 --> 00:59:20,849
because she is someone
who knows Marcus so well.

1434
00:59:20,849 --> 00:59:24,144
He talks so highly of you,

1435
00:59:24,144 --> 00:59:27,356
and I can feel the love
that he has for you.

1436
00:59:27,356 --> 00:59:31,318
And it reminds me so much
of me and my brother.

1437
00:59:32,319 --> 00:59:36,657
So what made-- You know,
what makes my brother stand out?

1438
00:59:36,657 --> 00:59:39,660
Marcus and I, I think,
have, like, a connection

1439
00:59:39,660 --> 00:59:42,579
that I can't really, like,
describe fully,

1440
00:59:42,579 --> 00:59:45,499
but since our first
one-on-one date,

1441
00:59:45,499 --> 00:59:47,835
you know, he really opened up

1442
00:59:47,835 --> 00:59:51,171
about a lot of things
that he's been through,

1443
00:59:51,171 --> 00:59:54,925
and I realized he was someone
I really cared about.

1444
00:59:54,925 --> 01:00:00,389
But I don't know exactly
how much he feels for me.

1445
01:00:00,389 --> 01:00:02,016
With Jenn, I can feel

1446
01:00:02,016 --> 01:00:03,767
that her heart is pure

1447
01:00:03,767 --> 01:00:05,936
and that she is truly
looking for love.

1448
01:00:05,936 --> 01:00:08,772
{\an8}But I'm a little nervous
because, you know,

1449
01:00:08,772 --> 01:00:12,568
{\an8}the internal instincts of me
are, like,

1450
01:00:12,568 --> 01:00:15,029
be protective,
ask the right questions.

1451
01:00:15,029 --> 01:00:16,447
I also want to make sure

1452
01:00:16,447 --> 01:00:20,242
that he doesn't get hurt
in the long run.

1453
01:00:20,242 --> 01:00:23,370
So, you know with, like,
all the trauma

1454
01:00:23,370 --> 01:00:25,289
and the ups and downs
through his life,

1455
01:00:25,289 --> 01:00:29,209
that those have put up
some pretty strong walls.

1456
01:00:29,209 --> 01:00:32,921
And that's one thing
that I know he struggles with,

1457
01:00:32,921 --> 01:00:37,384
is just allowing himself
to be vulnerable.

1458
01:00:37,384 --> 01:00:39,136
I know
he's been through a lot,

1459
01:00:39,136 --> 01:00:42,056
and I've also
been through a lot.

1460
01:00:42,056 --> 01:00:43,974
And in the same way,

1461
01:00:43,974 --> 01:00:46,727
we're both kind of scared
to open up

1462
01:00:46,727 --> 01:00:51,106
and scared to be vulnerable
and scared to really fully fall.

1463
01:00:51,106 --> 01:00:52,983
Do you love him?

1464
01:00:52,983 --> 01:00:58,155
I can picture myself
in love with him, for sure,

1465
01:00:58,155 --> 01:01:01,116
but I've been holding back
a little bit

1466
01:01:01,116 --> 01:01:04,078
just because I'm scared.

1467
01:01:04,078 --> 01:01:08,582
Um, and, yeah, I think, um...

1468
01:01:08,582 --> 01:01:09,833
I don't know.

1469
01:01:13,962 --> 01:01:16,924
Lot of emotions. Scary.

1470
01:01:30,437 --> 01:01:32,773
I care very strongly
for your brother.

1471
01:01:32,773 --> 01:01:36,276
And I mean, yeah,

1472
01:01:36,276 --> 01:01:40,280
I am definitely
falling in love with him.

1473
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:43,700
And I think that I get scared

1474
01:01:43,700 --> 01:01:45,828
'cause I also don't want
to get my heart broken.

1475
01:01:45,828 --> 01:01:48,038
I've been there.

1476
01:01:48,038 --> 01:01:51,041
Just seeing him with you
when you guys were walking in,

1477
01:01:51,041 --> 01:01:53,794
like, I felt the energy
and I felt the connection,

1478
01:01:53,794 --> 01:01:57,297
and I've never seen him
genuinely have that smile

1479
01:01:57,297 --> 01:02:00,926
on his face that I saw
on him with you, so...

1480
01:02:02,261 --> 01:02:06,390
I think-- I genuinely think
that he's happy in this, so...

1481
01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:09,017
That makes me
really happy to hear.

1482
01:02:15,941 --> 01:02:17,651
Jenn could be that person

1483
01:02:17,651 --> 01:02:20,571
that he needs in his life
to balance everything out.

1484
01:02:20,571 --> 01:02:23,365
I just want him to be happy
at the end of the day.

1485
01:02:23,365 --> 01:02:25,409
He deserves it.

1486
01:02:25,409 --> 01:02:29,538
He's gonna through so much
in life that he just--

1487
01:02:29,538 --> 01:02:33,333
He needs someone that can
keep up with his stubbornness

1488
01:02:33,333 --> 01:02:36,253
and his overly clean house
and...

1489
01:02:39,173 --> 01:02:40,507
...and his big heart.

1490
01:02:42,885 --> 01:02:44,344
How do you feel
about Jenn so far?

1491
01:02:44,344 --> 01:02:46,221
- Oh, I like her.
- Yeah?

1492
01:02:46,221 --> 01:02:48,765
She's pretty-- pretty sweet,
pretty nice.

1493
01:02:48,765 --> 01:02:50,517
- Yeah?
- Yeah.

1494
01:02:50,517 --> 01:02:52,269
What do you like about her?

1495
01:02:52,269 --> 01:02:54,396
She opened up
pretty-- pretty easy.

1496
01:02:54,396 --> 01:02:57,399
Um, how are you doing
with everything?

1497
01:02:57,399 --> 01:02:59,234
Are you opening up pretty good?
- Yeah.

1498
01:02:59,234 --> 01:03:02,029
I mean, I think I'm opening up
as best as I'm able to.

1499
01:03:02,029 --> 01:03:04,698
So, like, the whole thing
is pretty fast.

1500
01:03:04,698 --> 01:03:07,534
At the end of this, there's
an engagement, right?

1501
01:03:07,534 --> 01:03:09,620
And the engagement
is a really big deal to me.

1502
01:03:09,620 --> 01:03:11,371
And I think
it's a big deal to me

1503
01:03:11,371 --> 01:03:13,373
because I want to make sure
that I'm doing that

1504
01:03:13,373 --> 01:03:15,125
with the right person.

1505
01:03:15,125 --> 01:03:18,879
And I think that just the...

1506
01:03:18,879 --> 01:03:21,715
speed of everything
is what's kind of making it hard

1507
01:03:21,715 --> 01:03:26,386
for me to...
get out of my own way.

1508
01:03:26,386 --> 01:03:30,057
So I know, like, the feelings
that I have for her are real.

1509
01:03:30,057 --> 01:03:32,100
I know that I like her a lot,

1510
01:03:32,100 --> 01:03:34,811
and I want to be able to connect
with her on a deeper level

1511
01:03:34,811 --> 01:03:37,231
before I start
kind of professing

1512
01:03:37,231 --> 01:03:39,608
those feelings of love.

1513
01:03:39,608 --> 01:03:43,403
Do you have those potential
feelings for her-- love?

1514
01:03:43,403 --> 01:03:46,114
I've let her know
that I do really like her,

1515
01:03:46,114 --> 01:03:50,410
and she knows that I move slow
and she knows why.

1516
01:03:50,410 --> 01:03:51,745
Let's say
you make it to the end.

1517
01:03:51,745 --> 01:03:53,080
Yeah.

1518
01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:54,790
What are your feelings
with that?

1519
01:03:54,790 --> 01:03:56,583
It's honestly hard
for me to picture right now,

1520
01:03:56,583 --> 01:03:59,586
but then again, like, you know
all the big dreams

1521
01:03:59,586 --> 01:04:01,755
that I have for myself,
and I always set these,

1522
01:04:01,755 --> 01:04:04,925
like, high goals
and these high expectations.

1523
01:04:04,925 --> 01:04:07,135
But the thing that I want
more than anything else

1524
01:04:07,135 --> 01:04:10,264
is to be a father.

1525
01:04:19,356 --> 01:04:21,942
You're gonna be
one heck of a father.

1526
01:04:21,942 --> 01:04:24,194
You love so big.

1527
01:04:24,194 --> 01:04:25,946
- Yeah.
- It could be the best thing

1528
01:04:25,946 --> 01:04:29,658
if you just let that guard down
and let it in.

1529
01:04:29,658 --> 01:04:31,451
It's all scary. Love is scary.

1530
01:04:31,451 --> 01:04:33,495
But it's definitely worth it
at the end of the day.

1531
01:04:33,495 --> 01:04:35,664
Yeah. Love ya.

1532
01:04:35,664 --> 01:04:38,375
I love you.

1533
01:04:38,375 --> 01:04:41,128
My sister--
she knows better than anyone

1534
01:04:41,128 --> 01:04:44,131
that struggle that I have
between the mind and the heart.

1535
01:04:44,131 --> 01:04:46,049
- Love you.
- Alright. Come on.

1536
01:04:46,049 --> 01:04:48,343
Today the wisdom
imparted on me

1537
01:04:48,343 --> 01:04:51,138
was to open my heart
and to listen to my heart.

1538
01:04:53,807 --> 01:04:56,018
Jenn meeting
my friends and family...

1539
01:04:57,644 --> 01:04:59,813
It's kind of showing me
that I am deserving

1540
01:04:59,813 --> 01:05:01,982
and I am worthy
to find love with Jenn.

1541
01:05:01,982 --> 01:05:03,317
Love you.
- I love you.

1542
01:05:03,317 --> 01:05:05,986
Good to meet you.

1543
01:05:05,986 --> 01:05:07,487
Meeting Marcus' family,

1544
01:05:07,487 --> 01:05:09,656
I feel so welcome here.

1545
01:05:09,656 --> 01:05:11,408
Thank you, guys.
- Ciao!

1546
01:05:11,408 --> 01:05:13,410
This is a family
that I could see myself

1547
01:05:13,410 --> 01:05:16,371
being a part of, that I would
<i>want</i> to be a part of.

1548
01:05:18,373 --> 01:05:19,875
How are you feeling?

1549
01:05:19,875 --> 01:05:22,044
- Really good, actually.
- Are you?

1550
01:05:22,044 --> 01:05:27,674
It's a family that I see
could be my own one day.

1551
01:05:27,674 --> 01:05:30,719
So I hope that Marcus
feels the same way.

1552
01:05:30,719 --> 01:05:33,847
I had so much fun today,
and it was not as scary

1553
01:05:33,847 --> 01:05:36,558
as I thought it was
going to be at all.

1554
01:05:36,558 --> 01:05:38,018
No, you did great,

1555
01:05:38,018 --> 01:05:39,936
and it honestly
means the world to me.

1556
01:05:39,936 --> 01:05:43,023
So, like, I'm nothing
without my friends.

1557
01:05:43,023 --> 01:05:44,858
I'm nothing without my family.
- Mm-hmm.

1558
01:05:44,858 --> 01:05:47,361
And, you know, so it's--

1559
01:05:47,361 --> 01:05:51,031
it's not a small deal
that they love you.

1560
01:05:51,031 --> 01:05:54,284
And the way
that they feel about you

1561
01:05:54,284 --> 01:05:56,578
is an extension of the way
that I feel about you.

1562
01:05:56,578 --> 01:05:58,705
So...

1563
01:05:58,705 --> 01:06:03,627
I want you
to know that, you know...

1564
01:06:03,627 --> 01:06:05,462
I am falling for you.

1565
01:06:08,715 --> 01:06:12,886
I know that because of
just how happy you make me.

1566
01:06:12,886 --> 01:06:17,307
And I hope that today meant as
much for you as it meant for me.

1567
01:06:17,307 --> 01:06:19,810
I just feel so happy.

1568
01:06:19,810 --> 01:06:21,978
Marcus was able to really
finally let those walls down

1569
01:06:21,978 --> 01:06:24,398
and tell me
that he's falling for me.

1570
01:06:24,398 --> 01:06:27,901
I feel like I've been waiting
so long to hear those words,

1571
01:06:27,901 --> 01:06:32,239
and I am just so excited.

1572
01:06:32,239 --> 01:06:34,991
And I know that it can be hard
to let your walls down

1573
01:06:34,991 --> 01:06:36,576
'cause I'm the same way.

1574
01:06:36,576 --> 01:06:38,161
I don't want to get
my heart broken, either,

1575
01:06:38,161 --> 01:06:40,414
but I feel so strongly for you.

1576
01:06:40,414 --> 01:06:45,752
And, um, especially after today,
I'm falling for you, too.

1577
01:06:53,510 --> 01:06:55,762
I saw Jenn
fitting into my life today,

1578
01:06:55,762 --> 01:06:58,265
so I can definitely see it.

1579
01:06:58,265 --> 01:07:01,184
Jenn is everything
I've ever wanted.

1580
01:07:01,184 --> 01:07:04,187
I'm falling for her now,
and everything that led up

1581
01:07:04,187 --> 01:07:06,523
to this moment
was-- was worth it.

1582
01:07:06,523 --> 01:07:08,608
Come here.

1583
01:07:08,608 --> 01:07:11,278
I'm gonna miss you.
Me too.

1584
01:07:11,278 --> 01:07:12,612
See you in L.A., I think?

1585
01:07:12,612 --> 01:07:14,281
Don't forget about me.

1586
01:07:14,281 --> 01:07:16,199
Oh, gosh.
I could truly envision

1587
01:07:16,199 --> 01:07:19,995
a future not only with Marcus,
but with his family, too.

1588
01:07:19,995 --> 01:07:21,329
Bye.

1589
01:07:21,329 --> 01:07:23,623
It just feels like
the right time,

1590
01:07:23,623 --> 01:07:27,043
and it feels like
everything's falling into place.

1591
01:07:44,561 --> 01:07:46,229
It's been an amazing week.

1592
01:07:46,229 --> 01:07:50,609
Hometowns is a really big
turning point for me.

1593
01:07:50,609 --> 01:07:53,069
Each of these relationships
grew so much this week

1594
01:07:53,069 --> 01:07:54,946
because these guys
were able to express

1595
01:07:54,946 --> 01:07:56,990
how they were feeling to me.

1596
01:07:56,990 --> 01:08:01,828
I really do feel so strongly
for each of these four men,

1597
01:08:01,828 --> 01:08:03,455
and that's why tonight's
rose ceremony

1598
01:08:03,455 --> 01:08:05,665
is just gonna be so hard.

1599
01:08:05,665 --> 01:08:08,460
Probably gonna be
one of the hardest nights
that I've had so far.

1600
01:08:15,258 --> 01:08:17,511
Oh, speak of the devil.

1601
01:08:17,511 --> 01:08:18,804
I've never seen Jeremy
so happy.

1602
01:08:18,804 --> 01:08:20,680
I know. What's his deal?

1603
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:22,516
The guys are meeting
up. One last conversation

1604
01:08:22,516 --> 01:08:24,601
before we head into
the rose ceremony tonight.

1605
01:08:24,601 --> 01:08:28,688
{\an8}These guys have been my best
friends for the last few weeks,

1606
01:08:28,688 --> 01:08:31,858
So as much as, like, we are
competing for Jenn's heart,

1607
01:08:31,858 --> 01:08:33,527
like, we've developed some
really great relationships here,

1608
01:08:33,527 --> 01:08:35,862
so it's gonna be nice
to catch up.

1609
01:08:37,405 --> 01:08:39,199
Ahh.

1610
01:08:39,199 --> 01:08:42,536
So... which one of you
is going home?

1611
01:08:44,871 --> 01:08:46,998
Yeah, it's not like any of us
just, like, dislike each other,

1612
01:08:46,998 --> 01:08:48,625
so it's, like, cool
to sit here and hang out,

1613
01:08:48,625 --> 01:08:50,043
but there's, like,
the elephant in the room.

1614
01:08:50,043 --> 01:08:51,628
Yeah, there is a big elephant.

1615
01:08:51,628 --> 01:08:53,338
This is the last time
we're gonna be together.

1616
01:08:53,338 --> 01:08:54,339
Like, besides
for rose ceremonies.

1617
01:08:54,339 --> 01:08:56,132
- Yeah.
- Yeah.

1618
01:08:56,132 --> 01:08:58,134
- Who had a good hometown?
- I had a great hometown.

1619
01:08:58,134 --> 01:08:59,678
We all had a great hometown.

1620
01:08:59,678 --> 01:09:01,805
I definitely went into it
super nervous,

1621
01:09:01,805 --> 01:09:05,892
but my mom and my brother,
they both made good points.

1622
01:09:05,892 --> 01:09:08,895
One thing that they made
note of was this was,
like, the first time

1623
01:09:08,895 --> 01:09:11,356
I walked through the door
with a girl where I was just...

1624
01:09:11,356 --> 01:09:13,733
cool, calm, and collected
and, like, just happy about it.

1625
01:09:13,733 --> 01:09:16,319
And she was like,
"That's the biggest thing
that I noticed about you,

1626
01:09:16,319 --> 01:09:19,906
was how normal you were
with this girl."

1627
01:09:19,906 --> 01:09:23,034
And, so, right now,
like, with the family involved,

1628
01:09:23,034 --> 01:09:26,746
I get to a place in my head
where I want to know.

1629
01:09:26,746 --> 01:09:28,874
Like, I want to know if I'm
the one. Like, I don't want--

1630
01:09:28,874 --> 01:09:32,252
It's kind of tough right now
to not know. [Bleep] you.

1631
01:09:34,713 --> 01:09:36,423
I loved it because I'm like,

1632
01:09:36,423 --> 01:09:39,175
"Oh, this is what, like,
a normal day could be like."

1633
01:09:39,175 --> 01:09:43,054
And I felt, like, very good
leaving hometown.

1634
01:09:43,054 --> 01:09:44,890
- Yeah.
- Maybe I should be

1635
01:09:44,890 --> 01:09:46,766
more nervous, but I feel, like,
very, very calm right now.

1636
01:09:46,766 --> 01:09:48,602
We're all at peace, right?

1637
01:09:48,602 --> 01:09:51,104
I mean, I am at peace
with how things are.

1638
01:09:51,104 --> 01:09:52,606
I really wanted clarity,

1639
01:09:52,606 --> 01:09:54,357
and I got a lot more of it
that I wanted.

1640
01:09:54,357 --> 01:09:58,194
And there's just
no reservations on it.

1641
01:09:58,194 --> 01:10:00,113
Just sitting down
with everyone,

1642
01:10:00,113 --> 01:10:03,783
{\an8}I think that everyone's
feeling really confident

1643
01:10:03,783 --> 01:10:06,244
{\an8}about their hometowns.

1644
01:10:06,244 --> 01:10:09,956
The guys seem like they,
you know, if given

1645
01:10:09,956 --> 01:10:12,626
the opportunity, that they would
get down on their knee

1646
01:10:12,626 --> 01:10:17,464
and, like, not have, you know,
any reservations about that.

1647
01:10:17,464 --> 01:10:20,050
I mean,
I had a lot of good moments

1648
01:10:20,050 --> 01:10:22,552
where I felt really sure.
Yeah.

1649
01:10:22,552 --> 01:10:24,930
Especially with her meeting my
family and meeting my friends.

1650
01:10:24,930 --> 01:10:27,474
It was kind of
that little clarity

1651
01:10:27,474 --> 01:10:29,559
that I needed, too, so...

1652
01:10:29,559 --> 01:10:31,311
You know,
as happy and as excited

1653
01:10:31,311 --> 01:10:34,314
and as optimistic
as I want to feel,

1654
01:10:34,314 --> 01:10:38,735
like, I just kind of feel like
I'm, like, behind right now.

1655
01:10:50,246 --> 01:10:52,791
And I'm, like, trying my best
to, like, understand why.

1656
01:10:52,791 --> 01:10:55,001
I had my hometown
with my sister

1657
01:10:55,001 --> 01:10:57,087
and, like,
a bunch of my friends.

1658
01:10:57,087 --> 01:11:00,173
I think I went into it
looking for, like, clarity,

1659
01:11:00,173 --> 01:11:03,176
and I think I walked out of it
with <i>some</i> clarity.

1660
01:11:03,176 --> 01:11:05,595
- Mm-hmm.
- Um, but, yeah.

1661
01:11:05,595 --> 01:11:07,514
Like, I think, like,
kind of just where I'm at,

1662
01:11:07,514 --> 01:11:10,100
like, I think
that I have, like--

1663
01:11:10,100 --> 01:11:12,268
Maybe I'm like--
like, have reservations

1664
01:11:12,268 --> 01:11:14,980
or, like, hesitations about,
like, how I'm feeling.

1665
01:11:14,980 --> 01:11:16,523
You know, I think I'm afraid.

1666
01:11:16,523 --> 01:11:20,276
Like, for, me to go
into an engagement,

1667
01:11:20,276 --> 01:11:22,362
like, there are some things

1668
01:11:22,362 --> 01:11:25,615
that I need to feel
unapologetically in my heart

1669
01:11:25,615 --> 01:11:27,659
for me to, like,
get down on a knee

1670
01:11:27,659 --> 01:11:30,036
and know that it means
everything that it should mean.

1671
01:11:30,036 --> 01:11:32,205
Um, yeah, that's where--

1672
01:11:32,205 --> 01:11:33,999
It's kind of where I'm at
with everything.

1673
01:11:33,999 --> 01:11:36,918
I don't know if anyone's
feeling, like, similar, but...

1674
01:11:39,713 --> 01:11:42,382
Like, I don't have
any more reservations for her.

1675
01:11:42,382 --> 01:11:44,384
Like, it's all out there now,
you know?

1676
01:11:44,384 --> 01:11:47,303
Like, "This is where I am.
This is what I want in life.

1677
01:11:47,303 --> 01:11:50,348
And I can see you there."

1678
01:11:50,348 --> 01:11:52,058
Honestly, like,
it's like this feeling of, like,

1679
01:11:52,058 --> 01:11:55,311
shame of, like,
not being there yet.

1680
01:11:55,311 --> 01:11:57,230
Like, what are those guys doing

1681
01:11:57,230 --> 01:12:00,650
that I'm, like,
incapable of right now?

1682
01:12:00,650 --> 01:12:02,068
It does make me feel like

1683
01:12:02,068 --> 01:12:03,570
there's, like, something
wrong with me.

1684
01:12:03,570 --> 01:12:04,988
- Cheers.
- Cheers.

1685
01:12:04,988 --> 01:12:08,408
- Good luck, guys.
- Good luck.

1686
01:12:08,408 --> 01:12:10,577
Going into
this rose ceremony,

1687
01:12:10,577 --> 01:12:13,496
there's no reason

1688
01:12:13,496 --> 01:12:16,332
that I should be feeling
the way that I'm feeling.

1689
01:12:23,506 --> 01:12:25,216
Whenever it's just her and I,

1690
01:12:25,216 --> 01:12:27,594
like, the world is--
is very small.

1691
01:12:27,594 --> 01:12:29,888
It's just-- It's just us, and
that's all I'm thinking about,

1692
01:12:29,888 --> 01:12:31,848
and I'm loving every second
of it,

1693
01:12:31,848 --> 01:12:37,437
but Jenn deserves to have
guys here that are certain.

1694
01:12:38,521 --> 01:12:40,023
It's scary that...

1695
01:12:42,484 --> 01:12:44,569
...something that's bringing
so much, like,

1696
01:12:44,569 --> 01:12:47,113
good and happiness
into my life could--

1697
01:12:47,113 --> 01:12:48,698
could be gone.

1698
01:12:59,876 --> 01:13:01,920
{\an8}This is a rose ceremony
I'm going into

1699
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:04,380
{\an8}where I have no inclination
of what's going to happen next.

1700
01:13:06,174 --> 01:13:08,802
My hometown was
a very big step in--

1701
01:13:08,802 --> 01:13:10,386
in Jenna and I's relationship.

1702
01:13:10,386 --> 01:13:11,888
You know,
I told her I loved her there.

1703
01:13:14,224 --> 01:13:16,768
I don't know anymore
where I stand with her.

1704
01:13:16,768 --> 01:13:19,437
I know I'm in a good place,
but I don't know

1705
01:13:19,437 --> 01:13:22,315
where that ranks
amongst the rest of these guys.

1706
01:13:22,315 --> 01:13:24,984
I'm nervous, and I'd be lying if
I said my heart wasn't pounding

1707
01:13:24,984 --> 01:13:26,820
out of my chest at this point.

1708
01:13:32,784 --> 01:13:35,495
If I went home tonight,
it would hurt a lot,

1709
01:13:35,495 --> 01:13:40,166
{\an8}because I don't want to sabotage
something that could be

1710
01:13:40,166 --> 01:13:44,129
{\an8}really good for--
for the both of us,

1711
01:13:44,129 --> 01:13:48,424
but I think she can kind of feel
that I'm struggling

1712
01:13:48,424 --> 01:13:50,510
to, like, meet her
where she's at,

1713
01:13:50,510 --> 01:13:53,012
and I think that,
if I go home tonight,

1714
01:13:53,012 --> 01:13:58,518
it's because she has,
like, run out of patience.

1715
01:13:59,727 --> 01:14:03,523
I'm worried that something
that makes me extremely happy

1716
01:14:03,523 --> 01:14:05,650
could be, like, taken away.

1717
01:14:05,650 --> 01:14:08,486
We're back.

1718
01:14:08,486 --> 01:14:10,113
Were back,
like we never left.

1719
01:14:14,409 --> 01:14:16,703
{\an8}My relationship with Jenn
keeps progressing,

1720
01:14:16,703 --> 01:14:19,873
{\an8}and I feel very strong about us.

1721
01:14:19,873 --> 01:14:22,375
After her meeting my family,

1722
01:14:22,375 --> 01:14:23,877
I told her
I was falling for her.

1723
01:14:23,877 --> 01:14:25,461
The smile that I saw from her,

1724
01:14:25,461 --> 01:14:27,046
I mean, it went from,
like, a serious face

1725
01:14:27,046 --> 01:14:29,048
to, like, a really happy one.

1726
01:14:29,048 --> 01:14:30,717
How you doing, brother?

1727
01:14:30,717 --> 01:14:33,511
So I could think of me
going home, but it--

1728
01:14:33,511 --> 01:14:36,556
like, it doesn't, you know,
rationalize in my head.

1729
01:14:36,556 --> 01:14:38,808
But it could be,
you know, delusion.

1730
01:14:42,896 --> 01:14:47,066
{\an8}Getting a rose tonight
would mean everything.

1731
01:14:47,066 --> 01:14:49,736
You know, I'm really confident,
just based on hometowns.

1732
01:14:49,736 --> 01:14:53,156
Watching the way that she
conversed with my family

1733
01:14:53,156 --> 01:14:55,575
and the things
my family had to say about her,

1734
01:14:55,575 --> 01:14:59,787
I couldn't help but,
you know, feel that feeling.

1735
01:15:00,955 --> 01:15:02,665
A beautiful night
for some heartbreak.

1736
01:15:04,334 --> 01:15:05,835
Ain't that the truth?

1737
01:15:07,170 --> 01:15:09,088
Somebody's going to get
their heart broken tonight.

1738
01:15:10,006 --> 01:15:11,591
God, I hope it's not me.

1739
01:15:31,444 --> 01:15:32,862
Hey, Jenn,
it's great to see you.

1740
01:15:32,862 --> 01:15:34,239
Hi.
It's great to see you, too.

1741
01:15:34,239 --> 01:15:35,782
- You've been a busy lady.
- Yes.

1742
01:15:35,782 --> 01:15:37,867
- You look fantastic, as always.
- Thank you.

1743
01:15:37,867 --> 01:15:39,786
- Four hometowns this week.
- Mm-hmm.

1744
01:15:39,786 --> 01:15:41,371
- Four families.
- Yeah.

1745
01:15:41,371 --> 01:15:42,956
Been dying to know.
How'd it go?

1746
01:15:42,956 --> 01:15:44,123
Went really well.

1747
01:15:44,123 --> 01:15:45,458
I think I went into the week

1748
01:15:45,458 --> 01:15:47,126
wanting to get
some of these guys

1749
01:15:47,126 --> 01:15:48,378
to express their feelings
for me.

1750
01:15:48,378 --> 01:15:49,963
By the end of the week,

1751
01:15:49,963 --> 01:15:52,298
I do feel like
I got a little bit of that.

1752
01:15:52,298 --> 01:15:53,967
The big question, though--

1753
01:15:53,967 --> 01:15:55,969
are <i>you</i> falling in love
with <i>them?</i>

1754
01:15:55,969 --> 01:15:57,971
I am. I definitely--

1755
01:15:57,971 --> 01:16:00,807
I'm definitely falling for
all four of these men.

1756
01:16:00,807 --> 01:16:03,768
And that's why--
that tonight is so hard for me.

1757
01:16:03,768 --> 01:16:04,978
You really got to think about

1758
01:16:04,978 --> 01:16:06,479
what it is you want...
- Yeah.

1759
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:07,772
...what's going to make
you happy.

1760
01:16:07,772 --> 01:16:09,107
- Yeah.
- If you do that,

1761
01:16:09,107 --> 01:16:10,984
it's the right decision.
- Exactly.

1762
01:16:10,984 --> 01:16:12,402
Okay, Jenn,
can I take that for you?

1763
01:16:12,402 --> 01:16:14,070
Yes, please.

1764
01:16:14,070 --> 01:16:15,613
Alright, Jenn, good luck.

1765
01:16:15,613 --> 01:16:16,781
- See you.
- It's great seeing you again.

1766
01:16:24,831 --> 01:16:26,499
Good luck, boys.

1767
01:16:26,499 --> 01:16:28,418
Yeah, good luck, fellas.

1768
01:16:36,676 --> 01:16:40,847
This week has been
my favorite week so far.

1769
01:16:40,847 --> 01:16:45,810
I feel like I got to know
you guys on such a deeper level.

1770
01:16:45,810 --> 01:16:49,147
I sat with your families
and was asked

1771
01:16:49,147 --> 01:16:53,359
just about every question
about me, you, us,

1772
01:16:53,359 --> 01:16:59,282
and these conversations led me
to ask myself hard questions.

1773
01:16:59,282 --> 01:17:01,868
What do I need
in a relationship?

1774
01:17:01,868 --> 01:17:04,537
What I need is trust,

1775
01:17:04,537 --> 01:17:06,164
equal partnership,

1776
01:17:06,164 --> 01:17:08,708
emotional vulnerability,

1777
01:17:08,708 --> 01:17:10,626
to love, and to be loved.

1778
01:17:10,626 --> 01:17:13,421
And I'm starting
to feel those things here.

1779
01:17:14,380 --> 01:17:17,800
I truly feel so lucky,

1780
01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:23,014
and that's why tonight
I have to make

1781
01:17:23,014 --> 01:17:25,892
one of the hardest decisions
I've had yet.

1782
01:17:44,077 --> 01:17:45,244
Devin.

1783
01:17:50,083 --> 01:17:52,335
Devin,
will you accept this rose?

1784
01:17:52,335 --> 01:17:53,711
Without a doubt.

1785
01:18:13,272 --> 01:18:14,690
Jonathon.

1786
01:18:19,278 --> 01:18:21,280
Jonathon,
will you accept this rose?

1787
01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:22,782
Of course.

1788
01:18:39,090 --> 01:18:42,135
Gentlemen, Jenn,

1789
01:18:42,135 --> 01:18:43,886
it's the final rose tonight.

1790
01:18:44,887 --> 01:18:46,472
When you're ready.
- Thank you.

1791
01:19:05,741 --> 01:19:06,826
Marcus.

1792
01:19:13,499 --> 01:19:15,835
Marcus,
will you accept this rose?

1793
01:19:15,835 --> 01:19:17,253
I would love to.

1794
01:19:18,754 --> 01:19:20,131
Thank you.

1795
01:19:31,684 --> 01:19:33,853
Jeremy, I'm really sorry.

1796
01:19:33,853 --> 01:19:37,023
Please take a moment.
Say your goodbyes.

1797
01:19:37,940 --> 01:19:39,025
Good?

1798
01:20:13,893 --> 01:20:19,232
Like, obviously, it sucks,
but I had the best time.

1799
01:20:19,232 --> 01:20:21,400
I really do want you to know
how grateful I am

1800
01:20:21,400 --> 01:20:23,861
for everything
that you've taught me.

1801
01:20:23,861 --> 01:20:26,072
To be able to be
effortlessly myself,

1802
01:20:26,072 --> 01:20:27,823
and to have those laughs
with you

1803
01:20:27,823 --> 01:20:31,911
and to have all those moments
means so much to me.

1804
01:20:31,911 --> 01:20:33,996
I've been myself with you
this whole time...

1805
01:20:33,996 --> 01:20:35,706
- Yeah.
- ...which I appreciate you

1806
01:20:35,706 --> 01:20:38,167
for that, 'cause I'm not always
like that with everyone.

1807
01:20:38,167 --> 01:20:40,169
- Mm-hmm.
- And even though

1808
01:20:40,169 --> 01:20:42,088
it ended like this,
I'm at ease a bit

1809
01:20:42,088 --> 01:20:45,675
'cause I know that whoever is
in there will take care of you.

1810
01:20:45,675 --> 01:20:47,510
- That means a lot.
- Yeah.

1811
01:20:55,434 --> 01:20:57,853
I've been confidant in us
the whole time,

1812
01:20:57,853 --> 01:21:00,898
and I thought we were
always on the same page,

1813
01:21:00,898 --> 01:21:04,026
which, obviously,
it sucks, but,

1814
01:21:04,026 --> 01:21:06,862
like, I really
just want you to be happy.

1815
01:21:06,862 --> 01:21:09,282
And, look, you'll always have
a place in my heart, actually.

1816
01:21:09,282 --> 01:21:11,701
Thank you. You, too.

1817
01:21:12,952 --> 01:21:13,953
I'll miss you.

1818
01:21:25,131 --> 01:21:28,134
It is hard to watch Jeremy go.

1819
01:21:28,134 --> 01:21:30,761
It's someone that I wanted
to see a future with,

1820
01:21:30,761 --> 01:21:33,306
but I just didn't see it
fully there.

1821
01:21:35,558 --> 01:21:38,769
I started this journey with
25 men, and I'm down to 3,

1822
01:21:38,769 --> 01:21:40,563
and what's really gotten
me this far

1823
01:21:40,563 --> 01:21:42,440
is that I have opened
my heart up

1824
01:21:42,440 --> 01:21:45,985
to allow myself to accept love
when it comes.

1825
01:21:45,985 --> 01:21:48,154
But, like, Jeremy did say,

1826
01:21:48,154 --> 01:21:50,823
like, he thought
that we were on the same page,

1827
01:21:50,823 --> 01:21:54,118
and makes me think, like,

1828
01:21:54,118 --> 01:21:56,495
do <i>I</i> think I'm on the same page
with someone here

1829
01:21:56,495 --> 01:21:59,999
and they're not on the same page
with me?

1830
01:21:59,999 --> 01:22:03,836
I'm absolutely petrified
of that happening.

1831
01:22:05,004 --> 01:22:09,008
Next week is overnights
and fantasy suites,

1832
01:22:09,008 --> 01:22:12,011
and I think
it's going to change everything.

1833
01:22:16,932 --> 01:22:18,809
<i>Coming up next week...</i>

1834
01:22:18,809 --> 01:22:20,936
Wow.
My God.

1835
01:22:20,936 --> 01:22:23,689
<i>...it's two back-to-back
nights of</i> The Bachelorette...

1836
01:22:23,689 --> 01:22:24,857
Look at this.

1837
01:22:24,857 --> 01:22:27,193
<i>...Monday and Tuesday.</i>

1838
01:22:27,193 --> 01:22:29,195
This week is fantasy suites,

1839
01:22:29,195 --> 01:22:32,698
and there's no better place
to fall in love than Hawaii.

1840
01:22:32,698 --> 01:22:34,325
I would love
to call you my fiancée,

1841
01:22:34,325 --> 01:22:36,202
and I would love
to call you my wife.

1842
01:22:36,202 --> 01:22:38,829
There's 1,000 amazing things
that I could say about you

1843
01:22:38,829 --> 01:22:40,956
'cause you're so incredible.

1844
01:22:40,956 --> 01:22:44,543
I have three guys here
who I feel so strongly for.

1845
01:22:44,543 --> 01:22:47,338
I can't hold back my feelings
anymore.

1846
01:22:47,338 --> 01:22:49,340
I would be lying
if I didn't tell you

1847
01:22:49,340 --> 01:22:51,634
that I am in love with you.

1848
01:22:51,634 --> 01:22:53,803
{\an8}You make me feel amazing.

1849
01:22:53,803 --> 01:22:55,680
{\an8}You deserve all the love
in the world.

1850
01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:57,515
{\an8}But...

1851
01:22:57,515 --> 01:23:01,018
{\an8}I'm not there yet.

1852
01:23:01,018 --> 01:23:02,728
{\an8}I'm struggling right now.

1853
01:23:02,728 --> 01:23:04,397
{\an8}It's terrifying
to be in love with someone

1854
01:23:04,397 --> 01:23:06,190
{\an8}who isn't there yet.

1855
01:23:06,190 --> 01:23:09,819
{\an8}What if the other guys feel
the same way?

1856
01:23:09,819 --> 01:23:11,237
{\an8}Don't want you to be afraid

1857
01:23:11,237 --> 01:23:12,905
{\an8}to tell me
how you're really feeling.

1858
01:23:12,905 --> 01:23:16,492
{\an8}As my positive,
like, loving feelings grow,

1859
01:23:16,492 --> 01:23:18,494
{\an8}so do, like,
my fears and my worries.

1860
01:23:18,494 --> 01:23:19,995
{\an8}I want to get to the end,

1861
01:23:19,995 --> 01:23:22,581
{\an8}but I don't know
how to get there with you.

1862
01:23:22,581 --> 01:23:25,710
I don't know how
to be what you need me to be.

1863
01:23:25,710 --> 01:23:28,045
{\an8}Am I doing something wrong?

1864
01:23:28,045 --> 01:23:29,547
{\an8}<i>Plus...</i>

1865
01:23:29,547 --> 01:23:31,674
{\an8}<i>it's</i> The Men Tell All.

1866
01:23:31,674 --> 01:23:33,426
{\an8}I don't give a
about you. I don't respect you.

1867
01:23:33,426 --> 01:23:35,219
{\an8}<i>All your favorite men
are back...</i>

1868
01:23:35,219 --> 01:23:37,179
{\an8}Bro, you don't know
about love. You're a kid.

1869
01:23:37,179 --> 01:23:38,264
{\an8}You're not going to
belittle me and disrespect me.

1870
01:23:38,264 --> 01:23:39,932
{\an8}Shut up.

1871
01:23:39,932 --> 01:23:42,351
{\an8}<i>...and they've got
a lot to say.</i>

1872
01:23:42,351 --> 01:23:44,270
{\an8}You were very arrogant
in that moment.

1873
01:23:44,270 --> 01:23:46,230
{\an8}I brought this book.
I want to give it to you.

1874
01:23:46,230 --> 01:23:48,232
{\an8}You said one thing to eight
guys, then you went back on it.

1875
01:23:48,232 --> 01:23:50,526
{\an8}Shut up, everyone.

1876
01:23:50,526 --> 01:23:53,070
{\an8}<i>It's all next Monday
and Tuesday night</i>

1877
01:23:53,070 --> 01:23:55,197
{\an8}<i>on</i> The Bachelorette.