1 00:00:03,295 --> 00:00:04,504 - Hey, Mom. WOMAN: Yes, son. How are you? 2 00:00:04,504 --> 00:00:06,757 - How you doing? You doing good? 3 00:00:06,757 --> 00:00:08,342 WOMAN: Doing awesome. 4 00:00:08,342 --> 00:00:09,301 Just getting ready to go to the gym. 5 00:00:09,301 --> 00:00:13,013 Okay. I'm just calling to let you know that, um, 6 00:00:13,013 --> 00:00:15,557 I was selected to be the next Bachelor. 7 00:00:15,557 --> 00:00:17,935 So... WOMAN: [ gasps ] No way. 8 00:00:17,935 --> 00:00:19,895 - Yeah. No. I'm -- WOMAN: Are you kidding me? 9 00:00:19,895 --> 00:00:20,270 - Yeah. No. I'm -- WOMAN: Are you kidding me? - I'm not joking. I'm serious. 10 00:00:20,270 --> 00:00:20,622 - I'm not joking. I'm serious. You're kidding. Tell me you're kidding me. 11 00:00:20,622 --> 00:00:22,564 - I'm not joking. I'm serious. 12 00:00:22,564 --> 00:00:24,524 So hopefully you and Grandma and everybody watch this season 13 00:00:24,524 --> 00:00:27,236 and, you know, hopefully, I -- 14 00:00:27,236 --> 00:00:28,862 WOMAN: Oh, my gosh. -Yeah. It's crazy, right? 15 00:00:28,862 --> 00:00:31,406 - I'm so excited. I'm so happy for you. 16 00:00:31,406 --> 00:00:33,784 Are you sure? Are you kidding me? 17 00:00:33,784 --> 00:00:34,952 - No, I'm not. I'm serious. I'm serious. WOMAN: Is this a joke? 18 00:00:34,952 --> 00:00:37,913 Oh, Grant, I'm so excited. Congratulations, son. 19 00:00:37,913 --> 00:00:41,291 - Thank you so much. 20 00:00:41,291 --> 00:00:42,167 So I'll -- I'll keep in touch and -- I'll keep in touch. 21 00:00:42,167 --> 00:00:45,003 And, uh, hopefully Grandma and everybody 22 00:00:45,003 --> 00:00:46,797 watches this season with you. 23 00:00:46,797 --> 00:00:49,299 WOMAN: Oh, absolutely. I'm so excited. I love you. 24 00:00:49,299 --> 00:00:52,344 I'm so proud of you. Congratulations. 25 00:00:52,344 --> 00:00:54,179 - Alright. Love you too, Mom. WOMAN: Love you, son. 26 00:00:54,179 --> 00:00:55,806 Bye-bye. - Alright. 27 00:00:55,806 --> 00:00:58,433 ♪♪ 28 00:00:58,433 --> 00:00:59,935 [ cheers and applause ] 29 00:00:59,935 --> 00:01:03,105 ♪♪ 30 00:01:03,105 --> 00:01:07,359 JESSE: That's pretty cool. How you doing? 31 00:01:07,359 --> 00:01:13,240 Good to see you guys. Hey. Thank you. 32 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:14,283 What's up, guys? How you doing? Good to see you. 33 00:01:14,283 --> 00:01:17,869 [ Bachelors chanting "Jesse!" ] 34 00:01:17,869 --> 00:01:19,496 Alright. 35 00:01:19,496 --> 00:01:22,291 [ audience chanting "Jesse!" ] 36 00:01:22,291 --> 00:01:25,085 Wow. Okay. Alright. 37 00:01:25,085 --> 00:01:27,921 Good evening, Bachelor Nation. It's great to see you. 38 00:01:27,921 --> 00:01:28,839 I'm Jesse Palmer, and welcome 39 00:01:28,839 --> 00:01:31,258 to The Bachelorette: The Men Tell All. 40 00:01:31,258 --> 00:01:35,345 [ cheers and applause ] 41 00:01:35,345 --> 00:01:36,930 Now, Jenn's journey to find love 42 00:01:36,930 --> 00:01:38,181 has been full of shocking surprises, 43 00:01:38,181 --> 00:01:40,934 epic romance, and explosive drama. 44 00:01:40,934 --> 00:01:43,020 And tonight is gonna be no different. 45 00:01:43,020 --> 00:01:46,481 All your favorite guys are back, and they are ready 46 00:01:46,481 --> 00:01:49,109 to dish the dirt about everything that went down. 47 00:01:49,109 --> 00:01:52,237 And then later, your newest Bachelor, Grant, 48 00:01:52,237 --> 00:01:52,946 is gonna be joining us right here onstage. 49 00:01:52,946 --> 00:01:54,948 [ cheers and applause ] 50 00:01:59,119 --> 00:02:01,330 Alright. So what do you think? Should we just get to it? 51 00:02:01,330 --> 00:02:03,081 TOGETHER: Yeah! 52 00:02:03,081 --> 00:02:05,334 - Alright. Here are the guys -- 53 00:02:05,334 --> 00:02:10,464 Ricky, Brian, 54 00:02:10,464 --> 00:02:15,677 Hakeem, Brett, 55 00:02:15,677 --> 00:02:19,473 John, Jeremy, 56 00:02:19,473 --> 00:02:25,771 Thomas N., Tomas A., 57 00:02:25,771 --> 00:02:30,233 Dylan, Aaron, 58 00:02:30,233 --> 00:02:35,364 Sam M., Spencer, 59 00:02:35,364 --> 00:02:37,282 and Sam N. 60 00:02:37,282 --> 00:02:39,368 [ cheers and applause ] 61 00:02:39,368 --> 00:02:39,910 Alright. Well, it's great seeing you all. 62 00:02:39,910 --> 00:02:42,913 I gotta be honest. 63 00:02:42,913 --> 00:02:44,373 I've been thinking about this day for a long time. 64 00:02:44,373 --> 00:02:46,166 I am fired up, so I'm just gonna stand up here, 65 00:02:46,166 --> 00:02:47,709 if that's okay, for a minute with you guys. 66 00:02:47,709 --> 00:02:50,379 I know you all have a lot to say, 67 00:02:50,379 --> 00:02:51,546 and we're definitely gonna get to all that 68 00:02:51,546 --> 00:02:52,214 and give you the opportunity to do that. 69 00:02:52,214 --> 00:02:54,341 But I do want to pause for a moment 70 00:02:54,341 --> 00:02:57,302 because we need to talk about Jenn. 71 00:02:57,302 --> 00:02:57,844 Let me ask our audience -- What do you think 72 00:02:57,844 --> 00:03:00,013 of our Bachelorette? [ cheers and applause ] 73 00:03:00,013 --> 00:03:03,225 Yeah, I agree. 74 00:03:06,937 --> 00:03:08,855 She's pretty great, right? 75 00:03:08,855 --> 00:03:11,108 Well, Jenn put her career on hold 76 00:03:11,108 --> 00:03:13,819 to see if she could finally leave her toxic relationships 77 00:03:13,819 --> 00:03:18,365 behind and find that ferocious love that she deserves. 78 00:03:18,365 --> 00:03:21,368 But last week, things took a dramatic turn, 79 00:03:21,368 --> 00:03:24,371 and Devin simply couldn't take it anymore. 80 00:03:24,371 --> 00:03:25,997 So the big question now -- Will this be the end 81 00:03:25,997 --> 00:03:29,126 for Devin and Jenn? 82 00:03:29,126 --> 00:03:30,585 Well, you're gonna find out... 83 00:03:30,585 --> 00:03:32,379 next week. 84 00:03:32,379 --> 00:03:35,507 [ audience groans ] 85 00:03:35,507 --> 00:03:37,467 No, I'm just kidding. 86 00:03:37,467 --> 00:03:39,094 You're actually gonna find out right now. 87 00:03:39,094 --> 00:03:40,595 [ cheers and applause ] 88 00:03:40,595 --> 00:03:43,390 Yeah. So grab your Mai Tai, hold on to your flip-flops, 89 00:03:43,390 --> 00:03:45,267 because we are going back to Hawaii. 90 00:03:45,267 --> 00:03:47,602 [ cheers and applause ] 91 00:03:49,771 --> 00:03:51,898 ♪♪ 92 00:03:51,898 --> 00:03:58,447 ♪♪ 93 00:03:58,447 --> 00:04:00,532 ♪♪ 94 00:04:00,532 --> 00:04:01,533 ♪♪ 95 00:04:01,533 --> 00:04:01,867 - [ sighs ] 96 00:04:05,787 --> 00:04:08,415 I'm feeling anxiety and -- and stress 97 00:04:08,415 --> 00:04:10,375 and, you know, I'm scared. 98 00:04:10,375 --> 00:04:13,253 [ sighs ] 99 00:04:13,253 --> 00:04:15,213 I told Jenn that I love her 100 00:04:15,213 --> 00:04:16,673 and -- and let her know how I truly feel, 101 00:04:16,673 --> 00:04:19,342 and she didn't say it back and I feel 102 00:04:19,342 --> 00:04:21,803 like I'm an option still and that hurts. 103 00:04:21,803 --> 00:04:27,976 ♪♪ 104 00:04:27,976 --> 00:04:32,772 I don't really know how she feels about me, 105 00:04:32,772 --> 00:04:34,649 but it's something that I need and -- and I want that from her. 106 00:04:34,649 --> 00:04:37,152 [ sighs ] 107 00:04:37,152 --> 00:04:40,822 So I know what I need to do today. 108 00:04:40,822 --> 00:04:41,406 I need to talk to Jenn. 109 00:04:46,077 --> 00:04:50,916 This is probably the end for me and it scares me to no end. 110 00:04:50,916 --> 00:04:53,335 But I can't keep moving forward 111 00:04:53,335 --> 00:04:55,629 without getting this off of my chest. 112 00:04:55,629 --> 00:04:57,964 [ knocking ] 113 00:04:57,964 --> 00:05:02,594 ♪♪ 114 00:05:02,594 --> 00:05:04,513 - Hey. DEVIN: Hi. 115 00:05:04,513 --> 00:05:07,557 JENN: Hey, you. What are you doing here? 116 00:05:07,557 --> 00:05:10,602 DEVIN: I'm here to talk. JENN: What? 117 00:05:10,602 --> 00:05:12,896 DEVIN: Sorry to surprise you. - Sorry to surprise me? 118 00:05:12,896 --> 00:05:17,818 ♪♪ 119 00:05:17,818 --> 00:05:22,781 ♪♪ 120 00:05:22,781 --> 00:05:25,325 DEVIN: Ohh. 121 00:05:25,325 --> 00:05:26,785 JENN: Hey. What's up? - Hey. 122 00:05:26,785 --> 00:05:30,789 - Um... JENN: What's wrong? 123 00:05:30,789 --> 00:05:31,623 Are you okay? - I'm not -- Yeah. I'm good. 124 00:05:31,623 --> 00:05:34,751 I just -- I... 125 00:05:34,751 --> 00:05:36,545 I need you to -- I have a tough convo, 126 00:05:36,545 --> 00:05:37,462 and I need you to just be here with me on it, okay? 127 00:05:37,462 --> 00:05:40,799 - Okay. - Um... 128 00:05:40,799 --> 00:05:42,968 I have really cherished, like, 129 00:05:42,968 --> 00:05:45,971 everything that we've been through. 130 00:05:45,971 --> 00:05:47,389 And I think that you've seen me throughout this whole experience 131 00:05:47,389 --> 00:05:50,141 put my heart on my sleeve. 132 00:05:50,141 --> 00:05:53,645 And I'm not gonna lie to you right now. 133 00:05:53,645 --> 00:05:57,148 I'm just in a weird headspace with my feelings. 134 00:05:57,148 --> 00:05:59,568 Um... 135 00:05:59,568 --> 00:06:00,735 - How so? - You know, 136 00:06:00,735 --> 00:06:02,696 I just -- I'm doubting a little bit 137 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:08,368 of where your head's at right now. Um... 138 00:06:08,368 --> 00:06:09,953 And I should have brought this up to you, you know, 139 00:06:09,953 --> 00:06:15,417 over overnights, but I was just... 140 00:06:15,417 --> 00:06:17,085 You know, I've tried to prioritize you, 141 00:06:17,085 --> 00:06:19,170 and I've tried not to put pressure on you. 142 00:06:19,170 --> 00:06:20,839 And I know how difficult it is for you to be in your position, 143 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:23,550 but with me, um, you know, 144 00:06:23,550 --> 00:06:27,345 I haven't been the priority in so many of my relationships, 145 00:06:27,345 --> 00:06:28,888 and I've been that second and third option, 146 00:06:28,888 --> 00:06:33,143 and I've felt like a safe bet, you know, before. 147 00:06:33,143 --> 00:06:38,273 And, you know, I feel like I'm the safe option for you 148 00:06:38,273 --> 00:06:40,567 because, you know, I am the way I am. 149 00:06:40,567 --> 00:06:43,153 And, you know, I-I feel like I'm wanted here, 150 00:06:43,153 --> 00:06:45,280 but I don't feel like I'm needed here, and that scares me. 151 00:06:49,534 --> 00:06:50,994 'Cause I've risked -- I've risked everything for you and... 152 00:06:53,580 --> 00:06:55,498 My feelings, my sanity. 153 00:06:55,498 --> 00:07:00,003 I do feel like I-I want to -- I want to get to the end. 154 00:07:00,003 --> 00:07:04,299 But I don't know how to get there with you right now. 155 00:07:04,299 --> 00:07:07,302 Um, and that's not for lack of feelings. 156 00:07:07,302 --> 00:07:08,094 Like, I love you. I really, really do, you know? 157 00:07:08,094 --> 00:07:10,430 And -- And I want you to know that I do. 158 00:07:10,430 --> 00:07:12,932 You know, I've -- I've gone through a lot to be here, 159 00:07:12,932 --> 00:07:15,268 and I've gone through a lot while I'm here, and... 160 00:07:15,268 --> 00:07:15,935 JENN: Mm. 161 00:07:19,898 --> 00:07:21,858 - You know, proposals are next week, 162 00:07:21,858 --> 00:07:24,027 and I still don't know where your head's at, and... 163 00:07:24,027 --> 00:07:27,155 that scares the [ bleep ] out of me. 164 00:07:27,155 --> 00:07:28,657 ♪♪ 165 00:07:28,657 --> 00:07:33,453 ♪♪ 166 00:07:33,453 --> 00:07:35,747 ♪♪ 167 00:07:35,747 --> 00:07:38,958 - [ breathes deeply ] 168 00:07:38,958 --> 00:07:41,086 I'm not as good with my words as you are, 169 00:07:41,086 --> 00:07:43,004 and I'm not as good at expressing 170 00:07:43,004 --> 00:07:45,757 my feelings as you are. 171 00:07:45,757 --> 00:07:47,884 And I know that that's not my strong suit, 172 00:07:47,884 --> 00:07:50,512 and I want to be able to do better for you. 173 00:07:50,512 --> 00:07:52,889 And sorry that I wasn't reassuring you. 174 00:07:52,889 --> 00:07:57,727 And [ sighs ] 175 00:07:57,727 --> 00:08:00,188 [ voice breaking ] I don't know how to be and, like... 176 00:08:00,188 --> 00:08:02,524 [ sniffles, sighs ] 177 00:08:05,819 --> 00:08:07,737 [ sniffles ] 178 00:08:07,737 --> 00:08:09,531 I don't want him to feel like that. 179 00:08:09,531 --> 00:08:12,450 I-I want him to feel chosen. 180 00:08:12,450 --> 00:08:15,370 I'm just not great at expressing myself. 181 00:08:15,370 --> 00:08:20,375 And I'm not great at putting myself out there all the time. 182 00:08:20,375 --> 00:08:21,167 I don't know how to be in a healthy relationship. 183 00:08:21,167 --> 00:08:26,131 I don't know how to be... 184 00:08:26,131 --> 00:08:28,091 maybe what you need me to be, and I -- And I wa-- 185 00:08:28,091 --> 00:08:31,136 And I want to do that for you, 186 00:08:31,136 --> 00:08:33,179 and I want to feel like I can do that in the way 187 00:08:33,179 --> 00:08:35,765 that you do that for me every week after week. 188 00:08:35,765 --> 00:08:38,643 And [ sniffles ] 189 00:08:42,313 --> 00:08:45,233 I don't know what I would do if I lost Devin at this point. 190 00:08:45,233 --> 00:08:47,736 He's always so good at reading me and being there for me, 191 00:08:47,736 --> 00:08:50,071 and I want to do that for him, and [ sniffles ] 192 00:08:50,071 --> 00:08:53,283 the fact that I wasn't able to read 193 00:08:53,283 --> 00:08:56,619 that he was feeling that way and that he... 194 00:08:56,619 --> 00:08:58,288 I don't -- I don't know. Like... 195 00:08:58,288 --> 00:09:01,082 that he doesn't feel love from me. 196 00:09:01,082 --> 00:09:03,209 It's like, am I doing something wrong? 197 00:09:03,209 --> 00:09:04,627 [ sniffles ] 198 00:09:07,756 --> 00:09:10,967 You fought so much for me being here, 199 00:09:10,967 --> 00:09:16,222 and I can see that and I can feel that. 200 00:09:16,222 --> 00:09:17,640 And I don't know what I would do if you weren't here. 201 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:23,313 I don't know what I would do if -- if -- 202 00:09:23,313 --> 00:09:24,022 if I didn't feel the love from you 203 00:09:24,022 --> 00:09:28,109 and if I -- If -- If it wasn't -- 204 00:09:28,109 --> 00:09:29,611 If we weren't together, I don't know what I would do. 205 00:09:29,611 --> 00:09:35,617 ♪♪ 206 00:09:35,617 --> 00:09:39,662 Devin, I do love you, you freaking idiot. 207 00:09:39,662 --> 00:09:42,499 [ cheers and applause ] 208 00:09:42,499 --> 00:09:46,211 ♪♪ 209 00:09:46,211 --> 00:09:49,422 ♪♪ 210 00:09:49,422 --> 00:09:51,382 [ Devin sniffles ] 211 00:09:51,382 --> 00:09:54,761 Listen, I love you. I do. 212 00:09:54,761 --> 00:09:59,599 And sometimes I just don't know how to be as amazing as you are. 213 00:09:59,599 --> 00:10:01,351 DEVIN: I do love you, Jenn. 214 00:10:01,351 --> 00:10:03,186 JENN: I love you. 215 00:10:03,186 --> 00:10:05,855 [ cheers and applause ] 216 00:10:05,855 --> 00:10:06,898 DEVIN: You know, I was down, 217 00:10:06,898 --> 00:10:09,359 I was down, and she immediately thought to pick me up. 218 00:10:09,359 --> 00:10:13,613 I feel closer than ever to Jenn. 219 00:10:13,613 --> 00:10:17,200 And I'm feeling stronger than ever before. 220 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:21,246 I feel like a new man. I'm in love, you know? 221 00:10:21,246 --> 00:10:24,791 I feel that truly, and "elated" is my only adjective 222 00:10:24,791 --> 00:10:26,876 that I could put on it. 223 00:10:26,876 --> 00:10:28,002 I think I have what I need to keep moving. 224 00:10:28,002 --> 00:10:34,217 ♪♪ 225 00:10:34,217 --> 00:10:35,260 JENN: I love you. - Love you, too. 226 00:10:35,260 --> 00:10:37,053 JENN: Love you more. - Mm-hmm. 227 00:10:37,053 --> 00:10:39,013 - Alright. See you soon. JENN: Bye. 228 00:10:39,013 --> 00:10:41,599 - Bye. 229 00:10:41,599 --> 00:10:43,560 [ applause ] 230 00:10:45,854 --> 00:10:48,148 JESSE: That's pretty powerful stuff, right? 231 00:10:48,148 --> 00:10:51,234 So who goes home at the rose ceremony in Hawaii? 232 00:10:51,234 --> 00:10:52,735 What do you think? Should we find out? 233 00:10:52,735 --> 00:10:55,488 [ cheers and applause ] 234 00:10:55,488 --> 00:10:57,448 Alright, we'll do just that when we return. 235 00:10:57,448 --> 00:10:59,284 Don't go away. 236 00:10:59,284 --> 00:11:01,452 [ cheers and applause ] 237 00:11:06,875 --> 00:11:07,292 [ cheers and applause ] 238 00:11:07,292 --> 00:11:12,046 ♪♪ 239 00:11:12,046 --> 00:11:15,133 - Welcome back to a very special Men Tell All. 240 00:11:15,133 --> 00:11:16,176 And all of your favorite guys are here. 241 00:11:16,176 --> 00:11:19,596 And we're about to add one more, 242 00:11:19,596 --> 00:11:22,056 because one man will be going home at the rose ceremony 243 00:11:22,056 --> 00:11:26,436 in Hawaii and then joining the others right here on this stage. 244 00:11:26,436 --> 00:11:27,896 Who's that gonna be? Let's find out. 245 00:11:37,322 --> 00:11:40,450 [ dramatic music plays ] 246 00:11:40,450 --> 00:11:43,620 ♪♪ 247 00:11:43,620 --> 00:11:46,164 [ birds chirping ] 248 00:11:46,164 --> 00:11:50,376 ♪♪ 249 00:11:50,376 --> 00:11:54,631 ♪♪ 250 00:11:54,631 --> 00:11:57,175 - I'm stressed, but if I get a rose today, 251 00:11:57,175 --> 00:11:59,010 it'll feel incredible. 252 00:11:59,010 --> 00:12:04,766 ♪♪ 253 00:12:04,766 --> 00:12:06,935 I told Jenn from the beginning I was a bit of a slow burn, 254 00:12:06,935 --> 00:12:08,519 but after our overnight, 255 00:12:08,519 --> 00:12:11,189 I can see a future with her. 256 00:12:11,189 --> 00:12:12,398 I can see her as part of my family. 257 00:12:12,398 --> 00:12:15,777 You know, she has these amazing relationships 258 00:12:15,777 --> 00:12:18,404 with these other guys, and I've never let the thought 259 00:12:18,404 --> 00:12:22,408 of other people's relationships get into my head until today. 260 00:12:24,410 --> 00:12:26,120 I think what we have is great. 261 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:32,126 But I don't know how great it is compared to these two guys. 262 00:12:32,126 --> 00:12:33,670 Marcus and Devin are great guys, 263 00:12:33,670 --> 00:12:37,340 but I'm my own worst enemy and I regret the fact 264 00:12:37,340 --> 00:12:38,716 that I was not able to just jump in sooner. 265 00:12:42,762 --> 00:12:47,141 You know, I want to just express to her how I really feel. 266 00:12:47,141 --> 00:12:50,728 I just hope to God that I'm not too late... 267 00:12:53,564 --> 00:12:55,525 ...because I know she is the one for me. 268 00:12:55,525 --> 00:13:01,614 ♪♪ 269 00:13:01,614 --> 00:13:06,661 ♪♪ 270 00:13:06,661 --> 00:13:08,454 JENN: It's nice to see you guys. 271 00:13:08,454 --> 00:13:10,331 Um... 272 00:13:10,331 --> 00:13:14,043 Going into this week, I had a lot of questions, 273 00:13:14,043 --> 00:13:17,088 specifically regarding 274 00:13:17,088 --> 00:13:21,092 what a future would look like with each of you, 275 00:13:21,092 --> 00:13:24,971 and it was a really revealing time for me. 276 00:13:24,971 --> 00:13:28,433 I revealed parts of my heart and parts of my soul to you guys, 277 00:13:28,433 --> 00:13:32,770 and I felt things that I've never felt before. 278 00:13:32,770 --> 00:13:36,899 So from the bottom of my heart, thank you for everything. 279 00:13:36,899 --> 00:13:39,360 It's not easy for me to have to send somebody home. 280 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:43,698 And as much as this hurts my heart 281 00:13:43,698 --> 00:13:47,035 to have to make a nearly impossible decision today, 282 00:13:47,035 --> 00:13:49,954 I know what I have to do. 283 00:13:49,954 --> 00:13:51,497 [ dramatic music plays ] 284 00:13:51,497 --> 00:13:56,252 ♪♪ 285 00:13:56,252 --> 00:13:57,837 - [ sighs ] 286 00:13:57,837 --> 00:14:02,008 ♪♪ 287 00:14:02,008 --> 00:14:04,218 ♪♪ 288 00:14:04,218 --> 00:14:07,972 ♪♪ 289 00:14:07,972 --> 00:14:12,435 ♪♪ 290 00:14:12,435 --> 00:14:14,854 ♪♪ 291 00:14:14,854 --> 00:14:18,232 ♪♪ 292 00:14:18,232 --> 00:14:20,526 - Devin. 293 00:14:20,526 --> 00:14:23,196 ♪♪ 294 00:14:23,196 --> 00:14:27,325 ♪♪ 295 00:14:27,325 --> 00:14:29,202 Devin, will you accept this rose? 296 00:14:29,202 --> 00:14:30,787 - You know I will. 297 00:14:30,787 --> 00:14:35,708 ♪♪ 298 00:14:35,708 --> 00:14:40,630 ♪♪ 299 00:14:40,630 --> 00:14:41,422 [ dramatic music plays ] 300 00:14:41,422 --> 00:14:46,803 ♪♪ 301 00:14:48,262 --> 00:14:51,015 - Gentlemen, Jenn, 302 00:14:51,015 --> 00:14:54,435 it's the final rose. 303 00:14:54,435 --> 00:14:56,229 Are you ready? - Okay. 304 00:14:56,229 --> 00:14:58,856 [ dramatic music plays ] 305 00:14:58,856 --> 00:15:01,234 ♪♪ 306 00:15:01,234 --> 00:15:03,903 ♪♪ 307 00:15:03,903 --> 00:15:05,029 ♪♪ 308 00:15:05,029 --> 00:15:09,700 ♪♪ 309 00:15:09,700 --> 00:15:12,620 ♪♪ 310 00:15:12,620 --> 00:15:14,747 ♪♪ 311 00:15:14,747 --> 00:15:18,626 ♪♪ 312 00:15:18,626 --> 00:15:19,836 Marcus. 313 00:15:19,836 --> 00:15:22,338 [ audience gasps, ohhs ] 314 00:15:22,338 --> 00:15:24,048 ♪♪ 315 00:15:24,048 --> 00:15:26,759 WOMAN: Oh, no. 316 00:15:26,759 --> 00:15:29,178 - Marcus, will you accept this rose? 317 00:15:29,178 --> 00:15:31,264 - I'd love to. 318 00:15:31,264 --> 00:15:32,431 Thank you. 319 00:15:32,431 --> 00:15:35,726 ♪♪ 320 00:15:35,726 --> 00:15:41,607 ♪♪ 321 00:15:41,607 --> 00:15:46,529 - Jonathon, I am so sorry. Take your time. 322 00:15:46,529 --> 00:15:46,863 And when you're ready, you can say your goodbyes. 323 00:15:50,158 --> 00:15:52,034 Okay? Alright. 324 00:15:52,034 --> 00:15:53,619 MARCUS: I love you, man. 325 00:15:53,619 --> 00:15:56,497 - Thank you. 326 00:15:56,497 --> 00:16:01,043 ♪♪ 327 00:16:01,043 --> 00:16:06,007 ♪♪ 328 00:16:06,007 --> 00:16:08,509 JONATHON: Okay. 329 00:16:08,509 --> 00:16:14,640 ♪♪ 330 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:19,478 ♪♪ 331 00:16:19,478 --> 00:16:24,358 ♪♪ 332 00:16:24,358 --> 00:16:26,444 [ Jenn sighs ] 333 00:16:26,444 --> 00:16:26,777 JENN: How are you doing? 334 00:16:26,777 --> 00:16:29,655 - Been better. - Yeah. 335 00:16:31,407 --> 00:16:36,412 - I think the, uh. hardest part about this is, uh... 336 00:16:36,412 --> 00:16:39,332 being a slow burn was my fault through and through. 337 00:16:39,332 --> 00:16:42,752 I'm my own worst enemy. 338 00:16:42,752 --> 00:16:45,713 And, uh, I know it doesn't help our situation now, 339 00:16:45,713 --> 00:16:50,051 but I was just on a walk along the beach last night 340 00:16:50,051 --> 00:16:52,428 and just found these chairs that overlook the ocean 341 00:16:52,428 --> 00:16:55,598 and just needed a second to think. 342 00:16:55,598 --> 00:16:57,308 And the whole time I was sitting there thinking, 343 00:16:57,308 --> 00:17:00,770 I found all the clarity that I needed. 344 00:17:00,770 --> 00:17:02,813 And, uh, there was nobody 345 00:17:02,813 --> 00:17:05,149 that I wanted to be sitting there with more than you. 346 00:17:09,570 --> 00:17:15,451 And it hit me that, you know, I took too long to realize that, 347 00:17:15,451 --> 00:17:20,164 you know, to realize how incredible you are. 348 00:17:20,164 --> 00:17:22,583 The things you've taught me just about myself 349 00:17:22,583 --> 00:17:24,585 and what I expect and want from a partner moving forward. 350 00:17:24,585 --> 00:17:26,128 It was just... 351 00:17:26,128 --> 00:17:28,756 I think you were perfect for me 352 00:17:28,756 --> 00:17:32,718 and I wasn't perfect for you. 353 00:17:32,718 --> 00:17:36,764 And that's a really hard pill for me to swallow. 354 00:17:36,764 --> 00:17:40,935 - I mean, our relationship was based off of a friendship 355 00:17:40,935 --> 00:17:43,604 at first, and I've never really had that before -- 356 00:17:43,604 --> 00:17:46,482 being able to truly be myself with somebody. 357 00:17:46,482 --> 00:17:48,526 And I want you to know how much I truly appreciated that, 358 00:17:48,526 --> 00:17:51,821 because you've taught me a lot, too, 359 00:17:51,821 --> 00:17:53,864 and I mean that. - I appreciate it. 360 00:17:53,864 --> 00:17:55,950 JENN: Yeah. 361 00:17:58,744 --> 00:17:59,996 - You have two great guys down there, 362 00:17:59,996 --> 00:18:03,958 and I really hope you find exactly what you're looking for. 363 00:18:03,958 --> 00:18:06,168 - Thank you. - You deserve it. 364 00:18:06,168 --> 00:18:08,129 - Thank you. - You're absolutely incredible. 365 00:18:10,756 --> 00:18:13,301 [ engine starts ] 366 00:18:13,301 --> 00:18:16,512 - Alright. Ready? 367 00:18:16,512 --> 00:18:19,265 - No, but yeah. [ laughs ] 368 00:18:19,265 --> 00:18:20,725 Yeah. - Okay. 369 00:18:20,725 --> 00:18:24,228 ♪♪ 370 00:18:24,228 --> 00:18:27,732 ♪♪ 371 00:18:27,732 --> 00:18:29,442 Thank you for everything. 372 00:18:29,442 --> 00:18:33,571 ♪♪ 373 00:18:33,571 --> 00:18:34,614 Okay. Shh. 374 00:18:34,614 --> 00:18:39,910 ♪♪ 375 00:18:39,910 --> 00:18:40,262 [ Jonathon sighs ] ♪♪ 376 00:18:40,262 --> 00:18:44,915 ♪♪ 377 00:18:44,915 --> 00:18:49,879 ♪♪ 378 00:18:49,879 --> 00:18:52,965 ♪♪ 379 00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:58,471 ♪♪ 380 00:18:58,471 --> 00:19:03,059 ♪♪ 381 00:19:03,059 --> 00:19:07,313 JONATHON: I'm just mad at myself. 382 00:19:07,313 --> 00:19:09,857 If I could have gotten there sooner, 383 00:19:09,857 --> 00:19:15,363 this wouldn't even be a problem. 384 00:19:15,363 --> 00:19:18,157 I could have done better. I could have been better. 385 00:19:18,157 --> 00:19:21,077 I could see an amazing future with this girl. 386 00:19:21,077 --> 00:19:23,079 [ sniffles ] 387 00:19:25,539 --> 00:19:28,042 And I feel like the biggest idiot in the world, 388 00:19:28,042 --> 00:19:29,668 because something amazing was right in front of me, 389 00:19:29,668 --> 00:19:35,174 and I was too much of my own enemy just to see it 390 00:19:35,174 --> 00:19:37,510 until I was too late. 391 00:19:41,347 --> 00:19:43,015 [ voice breaking ] I'm just tired of standing in my own way. 392 00:19:43,015 --> 00:19:47,395 ♪♪ 393 00:19:47,395 --> 00:19:51,816 ♪♪ 394 00:19:51,816 --> 00:19:54,735 JESSE: Well, there you have it. 395 00:19:54,735 --> 00:19:55,486 So what does Jonathon have to say 396 00:19:55,486 --> 00:19:57,738 about that devastating breakup? 397 00:19:57,738 --> 00:20:00,074 We are going to find out when we return, 398 00:20:00,074 --> 00:20:01,075 because he is going to join the rest of the men 399 00:20:01,075 --> 00:20:03,869 right here onstage. 400 00:20:03,869 --> 00:20:07,540 And then these guys are ready to tell all. 401 00:20:07,540 --> 00:20:09,917 Plus, don't forget -- Our newest Bachelor, Grant, is gonna be 402 00:20:09,917 --> 00:20:12,044 with us here tonight, so don't go away. 403 00:20:12,044 --> 00:20:13,796 [ cheers and applause ] 404 00:20:18,300 --> 00:20:21,011 [ cheers and applause ] 405 00:20:21,011 --> 00:20:23,264 - Welcome back to The Bachelorette: The Men Tell All. 406 00:20:23,264 --> 00:20:25,224 And, of course, we just watched 407 00:20:25,224 --> 00:20:27,268 Jonathon's emotional breakup in Hawaii, 408 00:20:27,268 --> 00:20:29,437 and he's here with us now. 409 00:20:29,437 --> 00:20:30,563 So please give it up, everybody, for Jonathon. 410 00:20:30,563 --> 00:20:34,942 [ cheers and applause ] 411 00:20:34,942 --> 00:20:35,901 Jonathon, it's great seeing you, man. 412 00:20:35,901 --> 00:20:39,029 First, I want to go back to the very beginning. 413 00:20:39,029 --> 00:20:42,324 You definitely, ahem, revealed yourself 414 00:20:42,324 --> 00:20:43,617 to Jenn on that first night. 415 00:20:43,617 --> 00:20:45,578 But honest question -- How much of an immediate connection 416 00:20:45,578 --> 00:20:47,288 did you feel with her? 417 00:20:47,288 --> 00:20:49,206 For me, it was pretty instantaneous. 418 00:20:49,206 --> 00:20:52,543 You know, it felt fun, it felt free, 419 00:20:52,543 --> 00:20:53,919 and it just felt like I was in the right place. - Yeah. 420 00:20:53,919 --> 00:20:55,212 - I didn't appreciate your ass being out the whole time, 421 00:20:55,212 --> 00:20:57,089 but, you know, it was a good one. - I was cold. 422 00:20:57,089 --> 00:20:58,299 - I'm just jealous that I didn't come up with that myself. 423 00:20:58,299 --> 00:21:00,551 - We saw his ass before his face. 424 00:21:00,551 --> 00:21:00,885 - Well, Ricky, you had a lot of confidence. 425 00:21:00,885 --> 00:21:02,553 You were spitting poetry at Jenn. 426 00:21:02,553 --> 00:21:06,307 But how did it feel to not get a rose on that first night? 427 00:21:06,307 --> 00:21:08,350 - I would be lying if I said that I wasn't disappointed, 428 00:21:08,350 --> 00:21:10,394 but at the end of the day, 429 00:21:10,394 --> 00:21:12,813 if she finds love, I'll applaud for her. 430 00:21:12,813 --> 00:21:14,106 I'll find my one at some point. 431 00:21:14,106 --> 00:21:16,025 It doesn't have to be here, so... 432 00:21:16,025 --> 00:21:19,403 [ applause ] 433 00:21:19,403 --> 00:21:21,071 JESSE: Brett, I got to give it to you, man. 434 00:21:21,071 --> 00:21:24,825 I don't know if any of the other guys got as much love 435 00:21:24,825 --> 00:21:26,452 as you did on social media. 436 00:21:26,452 --> 00:21:29,497 Bachelor Nation, they sure did fall hard. 437 00:21:29,497 --> 00:21:31,040 [ cheers and applause ] 438 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:32,583 - Thank you. Thank you. [ laughs ] 439 00:21:32,583 --> 00:21:35,544 JESSE: So, Brett, I got to ask you -- 440 00:21:35,544 --> 00:21:38,047 What has the response been like for you? 441 00:21:38,047 --> 00:21:39,548 BRETT: Overwhelming. 442 00:21:39,548 --> 00:21:41,884 You know, I consider myself a pretty private guy. 443 00:21:41,884 --> 00:21:42,220 And that's -- that's out the window now. 444 00:21:42,220 --> 00:21:44,678 - Well, I know you shared with me 445 00:21:44,678 --> 00:21:47,848 some of the interesting messages... - Yeah. 446 00:21:47,848 --> 00:21:49,558 JESSE: ...from some very friendly Brett fans. - Yeah, they were interesting. 447 00:21:49,558 --> 00:21:53,020 So here's the first DM. "You are suchhh a stud." 448 00:21:53,020 --> 00:21:56,357 [ laughter ] - That's three H's. 449 00:21:56,357 --> 00:21:57,191 I've never -- I've only gotten one before. 450 00:21:57,191 --> 00:21:59,235 JESSE: Now... [ laughter ] 451 00:21:59,235 --> 00:22:01,111 Here's another one. "You're so hot." 452 00:22:01,111 --> 00:22:02,780 BRETT: Damn right. - "Just thought you should know." 453 00:22:02,780 --> 00:22:04,990 MAN: That was... - Damn right. Damn right! - Thank you. 454 00:22:04,990 --> 00:22:06,951 [ applause ] JESSE: These are cute. 455 00:22:06,951 --> 00:22:09,912 There's a lot of other messages that got kind of intense. 456 00:22:09,912 --> 00:22:11,956 - Yeah, they did get intense. - Jonathon, can you help me out? 457 00:22:11,956 --> 00:22:14,458 - "I cannot believe you didn't get a rose. 458 00:22:14,458 --> 00:22:17,044 If you need, I'm comfort. 459 00:22:17,044 --> 00:22:19,922 I'll be here with open arms, an open mouth, and open..." 460 00:22:19,922 --> 00:22:22,925 MAN: Ah! [ cheers and applause ] 461 00:22:22,925 --> 00:22:26,846 - Yeah. Um, I said, "I really appreciate the kindness. 462 00:22:26,846 --> 00:22:29,723 Uh, but my mom's watching. 463 00:22:29,723 --> 00:22:31,809 [ laughter ] But that's very generous." 464 00:22:31,809 --> 00:22:34,562 If you're a baseball player, that's all the bases. 465 00:22:34,562 --> 00:22:36,355 JESSE: Okay, Brett, I got one more I want you to read. 466 00:22:36,355 --> 00:22:39,358 - "Hi. Do you do foot content?" 467 00:22:39,358 --> 00:22:43,529 Um, Thursday at 7:49 a.m. Was his first thought. 468 00:22:43,529 --> 00:22:46,740 - [ laughs ] - I don't do foot content -- 469 00:22:46,740 --> 00:22:49,159 yet. [ laughter ] 470 00:22:49,159 --> 00:22:51,787 [ applause ] 471 00:22:51,787 --> 00:22:53,038 JESSE: Well, enjoy the ride, man. - Thank you. 472 00:22:53,038 --> 00:22:54,957 I'm glad you're getting the love you are. BRETT: Yeah. 473 00:22:54,957 --> 00:22:57,042 JESSE: Listen, it really has been quite a season. 474 00:22:57,042 --> 00:22:59,211 You know, you start with a strong, beautiful woman. 475 00:22:59,211 --> 00:23:00,796 You add a bunch of guys trying to win her heart, 476 00:23:00,796 --> 00:23:04,758 and things are bound to get a little crazy. 477 00:23:04,758 --> 00:23:06,385 ♪♪ 478 00:23:06,385 --> 00:23:07,845 [ men grunting ] 479 00:23:07,845 --> 00:23:10,264 I'm here for you, Jenn. Let's go! 480 00:23:10,264 --> 00:23:14,184 [ Jenn screams ] 481 00:23:14,184 --> 00:23:15,728 - I want to win for Jenn. I'm trying to beat these guys. - Hey, hey, hey! 482 00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:18,606 I'm gonna do everything I can to fight for Jenn's heart, 483 00:23:18,606 --> 00:23:20,900 and I hate losing more than I love winning. 484 00:23:20,900 --> 00:23:22,401 THOMAS N.: I know what Jenn wants and she wants 485 00:23:22,401 --> 00:23:24,361 that ferocious love. - Oh! 486 00:23:24,361 --> 00:23:24,945 JESSE: Wow! - Ten toes [ bleep ] down. 487 00:23:24,945 --> 00:23:27,197 [ cheers and applause ] 488 00:23:27,197 --> 00:23:29,700 WOMAN: Whoo-hoo-hoo-ooh! 489 00:23:29,700 --> 00:23:32,453 WOMAN #2: Whoo! 490 00:23:32,453 --> 00:23:33,954 HAKEEM: The pressure is really getting on people 491 00:23:33,954 --> 00:23:38,959 and they are doing things that are extremely out of pocket. 492 00:23:38,959 --> 00:23:41,253 - Jenn. I see myself getting on one knee for you. JENN: Mm. 493 00:23:41,253 --> 00:23:45,132 - Jenn, I'm already falling in love with you. 494 00:23:45,132 --> 00:23:46,759 Yeah! [ cheers and applause ] 495 00:23:46,759 --> 00:23:49,219 - We were all stunned. We were all shocked. 496 00:23:49,219 --> 00:23:49,845 There was kind of -- You could hear a pin drop. 497 00:23:49,845 --> 00:23:52,389 - What the [ bleep ] 498 00:23:52,389 --> 00:23:53,891 Because that is ludicrous. 499 00:23:53,891 --> 00:23:55,768 SAM M.: There is a time and a place, 500 00:23:55,768 --> 00:23:57,353 and that was not the time, nor the place. 501 00:23:57,353 --> 00:23:59,938 Just shut up. 502 00:23:59,938 --> 00:24:02,566 - Yeah, you should right now be talking to Jenn. 503 00:24:02,566 --> 00:24:04,068 I'm not here and I think... - Get the [ bleep ] out. 504 00:24:04,068 --> 00:24:05,736 I think that Sam is basically just full of [ bleep ] 505 00:24:05,736 --> 00:24:07,363 - Thomas, yellow is a good color on you. 506 00:24:07,363 --> 00:24:08,864 - Yeah, you're a child. SAM N.: Man. 507 00:24:08,864 --> 00:24:10,240 [ bleep ] clown show. 508 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,410 - Cheers. Cheers. Cheers. JENN: Cheers. 509 00:24:13,410 --> 00:24:14,286 - Can I steal you away for a second? 510 00:24:14,286 --> 00:24:16,080 JENN: Yeah. Of course. 511 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,290 THOMAS N.: What the...just happened? MAN: Hey, it's alright. 512 00:24:18,290 --> 00:24:20,125 - Don't -- Don't let him... do that to you, bro. 513 00:24:20,125 --> 00:24:22,503 - Tommy's like Sam's minion. It's so obvious. 514 00:24:22,503 --> 00:24:25,089 - I'm not here to fight you. I'm here to talk to you. 515 00:24:25,089 --> 00:24:26,674 - Yeah. 'Cause you would get your [ bleep ] ass beat. 516 00:24:26,674 --> 00:24:28,258 - Oh, congratulations. You got me. - [ bleep ] off. 517 00:24:28,258 --> 00:24:29,718 DEVIN: When I talk, people listen. - Hey! Go inside. 518 00:24:29,718 --> 00:24:34,556 - Thomas, Sam, Aaron, they feel some animosity towards Devin. 519 00:24:34,556 --> 00:24:36,558 Some people are starting to call them the Chads. 520 00:24:36,558 --> 00:24:38,143 DEVIN: Mind if I steal her for a minute? 521 00:24:38,143 --> 00:24:41,105 - I do mind. - I wasn't asking you. 522 00:24:41,105 --> 00:24:42,898 - Alright. If you're not asking, then no. JENN: Mm! 523 00:24:42,898 --> 00:24:45,442 AARON: I just don't like the childish behavior from Devin. 524 00:24:45,442 --> 00:24:47,903 And I feel like he's very much kind of obnoxious. 525 00:24:47,903 --> 00:24:51,532 Like, almost like a pest. 526 00:24:51,532 --> 00:24:53,075 I feel like you lack the depth to be with a girl like Jenn. 527 00:24:53,075 --> 00:24:56,203 So I have a little something to give you. 528 00:24:56,203 --> 00:24:59,123 He just lacks the awareness of how he's being perceived. 529 00:24:59,123 --> 00:25:02,000 I've taken enough, and then I reached my breaking point. 530 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,460 I'm not gonna name names, but there are people 531 00:25:03,460 --> 00:25:06,422 that I don't think they'll be ready at the end like you are. 532 00:25:06,422 --> 00:25:08,924 And I think you know... JENN: That's not -- That's not fair. 533 00:25:08,924 --> 00:25:12,261 No, I-I don't know, because I genuinely feel like 534 00:25:12,261 --> 00:25:13,929 I have a connection with a lot of those guys down there. 535 00:25:13,929 --> 00:25:18,559 It's on you to figure out. Just be careful. 536 00:25:18,559 --> 00:25:20,936 DEVIN: Aaron chose to use his last moments to talk [ bleep ] 537 00:25:20,936 --> 00:25:23,397 about every single person. 538 00:25:23,397 --> 00:25:24,273 We don't know what -- who it was, 539 00:25:24,273 --> 00:25:25,524 but it was somebody in this room. 540 00:25:25,524 --> 00:25:26,984 SAM M.: Devin is the only person 541 00:25:26,984 --> 00:25:30,195 that Aaron could ever be talking about. 542 00:25:30,195 --> 00:25:32,030 I don't respect you. I don't like you. 543 00:25:32,030 --> 00:25:33,907 I want nothing to do with you. 544 00:25:33,907 --> 00:25:36,243 If you want to talk, yo, we will step outside and we can talk. 545 00:25:36,243 --> 00:25:38,871 I can instill fear into this dude. 546 00:25:38,871 --> 00:25:40,497 In the real world, I would snap you in half. 547 00:25:40,497 --> 00:25:44,209 He's smooth with his words and, like, I'm smooth with these. 548 00:25:44,209 --> 00:25:47,087 KEVIN: Sam says things to look a certain way 549 00:25:47,087 --> 00:25:49,798 or to fill airwaves with quippy soundbites. 550 00:25:49,798 --> 00:25:52,718 - Like, I'm always gonna keep the main thing, the main thing, 551 00:25:52,718 --> 00:25:53,802 Keeping the main thing, the main thing. 552 00:25:53,802 --> 00:25:54,762 It's going to be a testament to see who can keep 553 00:25:54,762 --> 00:25:57,848 the main thing, the main thing. 554 00:25:57,848 --> 00:25:58,599 Ferocious love. Ferocious love. 555 00:25:58,599 --> 00:26:01,560 Cheers to a ferocious love. 556 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,978 My focal point is Jenn. That -- That's my idea. - Oh, no. 557 00:26:02,978 --> 00:26:04,855 SAM M.: So anybody that gets in the way of that right there, 558 00:26:04,855 --> 00:26:07,066 I'm gonna step on your neck. That's all I know. 559 00:26:07,066 --> 00:26:10,402 [ laughs ] 560 00:26:10,402 --> 00:26:11,945 [ applause ] 561 00:26:17,201 --> 00:26:18,035 We got a lot to discuss here. 562 00:26:18,035 --> 00:26:20,204 Aaron, I want to start with you. 563 00:26:20,204 --> 00:26:21,580 You rolled a bit of a grenade into the journey 564 00:26:21,580 --> 00:26:23,791 on your way out the door. - Yeah. At that point in time, 565 00:26:23,791 --> 00:26:26,502 I thought Jenn and I had a mutual kind of understanding, 566 00:26:26,502 --> 00:26:29,171 kind of a friendship, 567 00:26:29,171 --> 00:26:31,090 and I felt like there was a level of trust 568 00:26:31,090 --> 00:26:33,801 we had, where I was one of the more mature guys, 569 00:26:33,801 --> 00:26:35,260 that she would kind of hear me. 570 00:26:35,260 --> 00:26:37,262 So I wanted to just warn her that, 571 00:26:37,262 --> 00:26:39,181 "Hey, I see a side of guys that you don't see." 572 00:26:39,181 --> 00:26:41,600 So I wanted to make her alert, like, "Hey, just kind of, 573 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:42,976 you know, keep your eyes open." 574 00:26:42,976 --> 00:26:45,521 And I did not think she was gonna react the way she did. 575 00:26:45,521 --> 00:26:45,855 I'll just say that. BRIAN: Aaron, in this moment, 576 00:26:45,855 --> 00:26:48,315 who were you talking about? 577 00:26:48,315 --> 00:26:50,818 Two obvious ones would have been Devin. 578 00:26:50,818 --> 00:26:54,029 At the time, I feel like he treated it like, uh, a game. 579 00:26:54,029 --> 00:26:57,116 I'll also say it was -- I was thinking about Sam N. 580 00:26:57,116 --> 00:27:00,202 You know, the love virgin. This is not on-the-job training. 581 00:27:00,202 --> 00:27:01,829 You know, you should probably be ready. 582 00:27:01,829 --> 00:27:03,330 I'd also say you, Spencer. I feel -- 583 00:27:03,330 --> 00:27:05,541 -What?! What?! SPENCER: [ bleep ] 584 00:27:05,541 --> 00:27:08,043 - I would -- - Spencer?! - Hey, hey, hey. 585 00:27:08,043 --> 00:27:08,710 - Hold on. - First off... -What?! 586 00:27:08,710 --> 00:27:11,964 - Can I explain? -Wait, wait ,wait. [ bleep ] 587 00:27:11,964 --> 00:27:13,382 - What?! - Can I explain? 588 00:27:13,382 --> 00:27:15,342 - Bro, I don't even know you. Go. 589 00:27:15,342 --> 00:27:16,802 AARON: I'm divorced. 590 00:27:16,802 --> 00:27:19,346 I know how difficult it is to heal from a failed relationship. 591 00:27:19,346 --> 00:27:21,348 Watching you on your one-on-one, 592 00:27:21,348 --> 00:27:24,893 how uncomfortable it was talking about your engagement, 593 00:27:24,893 --> 00:27:25,602 I just didn't feel like you're fully healed or you're ready. 594 00:27:25,602 --> 00:27:28,647 SPENCER: Oh, yeah, yeah, 'cause I'm comfortable 595 00:27:28,647 --> 00:27:31,066 talking about getting cheated on by someone I was about to marry? 596 00:27:31,066 --> 00:27:33,068 You can still be healed and can not be comfortable. 597 00:27:33,068 --> 00:27:35,946 What's so ridiculous is that you came into this thinking 598 00:27:35,946 --> 00:27:38,907 you know what she wants. - I didn't say that. 599 00:27:38,907 --> 00:27:39,867 This is Aaron's -- This is Aaron's opinion. - Yes, you did. 600 00:27:39,867 --> 00:27:43,453 No, no, no, no, no, no. Aaron's opinion also told Devin, 601 00:27:43,453 --> 00:27:45,747 "Hey, Devin, I know that you're not the right guy for Jenn." 602 00:27:45,747 --> 00:27:47,875 You don't even know her. 603 00:27:47,875 --> 00:27:49,835 And so for you to bring up me, 604 00:27:49,835 --> 00:27:51,837 when you take the cowardly way out and just, 605 00:27:51,837 --> 00:27:53,714 like, dip on out and decide to not name a name 606 00:27:53,714 --> 00:27:57,050 when you're just gonna name people, like, come on. 607 00:27:57,050 --> 00:27:59,970 You -- You have no right to say anything about Spencer 608 00:27:59,970 --> 00:28:01,638 'cause Spencer is amazing. 609 00:28:01,638 --> 00:28:04,057 Everybody, what you saw, he's that person. 610 00:28:04,057 --> 00:28:06,059 He is that person. 611 00:28:06,059 --> 00:28:08,562 He was there for the right reasons, 612 00:28:08,562 --> 00:28:11,732 and he has no right to say when a man is healed or not. 613 00:28:11,732 --> 00:28:13,358 - Aaron, that book, you need to go back to Australia 614 00:28:13,358 --> 00:28:16,111 and grab that book and reread it. 615 00:28:16,111 --> 00:28:16,945 - Me giving Devin the book 616 00:28:16,945 --> 00:28:21,241 was not a place of being condescending, 617 00:28:21,241 --> 00:28:21,867 and actually care about him as a person, 618 00:28:21,867 --> 00:28:26,496 so I wanted him to have a resource 619 00:28:26,496 --> 00:28:27,372 that he could be a more aware person of how he comes off... -You called him goofy. 620 00:28:27,372 --> 00:28:29,333 - ...which he didn't realize. 621 00:28:29,333 --> 00:28:31,126 - Are you a psychologist? [ laughter ] 622 00:28:31,126 --> 00:28:34,087 AARON: Also, I didn't realize in the moment, 623 00:28:34,087 --> 00:28:37,674 my twin brother a few years ago getting a similar type of book. 624 00:28:37,674 --> 00:28:40,344 I wasn't thinking about that in the middle of Australia, 625 00:28:40,344 --> 00:28:42,596 but I realize it was very similar. 626 00:28:42,596 --> 00:28:43,680 I was just on the opposite end of it. 627 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,016 - We actually have some of Bachelor Nations favorites. 628 00:28:46,016 --> 00:28:47,893 Your brother Noah is here in the audience 629 00:28:47,893 --> 00:28:51,480 with his beautiful fiancée, Abigail. 630 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,316 You had a little bit of your own book-giving incident 631 00:28:54,316 --> 00:28:56,401 back in the day on The Bachelorette with Bennett. - I did. 632 00:28:56,401 --> 00:28:59,029 - So what did you think of your brother's book-giving skills? 633 00:28:59,029 --> 00:29:01,573 NOAH: I was on the other side. 634 00:29:01,573 --> 00:29:02,950 I had a 40-year-old dude from Harvard that was like, 635 00:29:02,950 --> 00:29:06,161 "Hey, I'm from Harvard. You're from Oklahoma. 636 00:29:06,161 --> 00:29:08,497 You know? Like, those two don't go together. 637 00:29:08,497 --> 00:29:10,123 So I'm better than you. 638 00:29:10,123 --> 00:29:12,376 And this is what you should do." 639 00:29:12,376 --> 00:29:13,210 Aaron, you're my twin. We were in the womb together. 640 00:29:13,210 --> 00:29:16,463 But I don't think the book's the move. 641 00:29:16,463 --> 00:29:18,840 I don't think anybody should tell somebody 642 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,634 that they are or aren't ready. 643 00:29:20,634 --> 00:29:24,888 We've all got our own journey. JESSE: Yeah. 644 00:29:24,888 --> 00:29:25,514 Well, I think the book scandal proves that on The Bachelorette, 645 00:29:25,514 --> 00:29:28,475 history sometimes is a vicious cycle. 646 00:29:28,475 --> 00:29:29,935 [ laughter ] 647 00:29:29,935 --> 00:29:32,020 I'm sorry for the pun, but it's time to "turn the page." 648 00:29:32,020 --> 00:29:34,314 [ laughter ] 649 00:29:34,314 --> 00:29:36,984 Aaron, earlier you mentioned Spencer, 650 00:29:36,984 --> 00:29:39,319 but -- but you also mentioned Sam N. 651 00:29:39,319 --> 00:29:41,238 In Melbourne, Thunder Down Under date, Sam N., 652 00:29:41,238 --> 00:29:44,741 you took the opportunity onstage to profess 653 00:29:44,741 --> 00:29:47,160 that you were falling in love with Jenn. - A little bit, yeah. 654 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,329 - So what was your approach there? What was your mind-set? 655 00:29:49,329 --> 00:29:53,375 - Um, I wanted to take the time, um, 656 00:29:53,375 --> 00:29:56,420 to basically show Jenn how much she means to me. 657 00:29:56,420 --> 00:29:59,047 And, sure, did I jump the gun a little bit? 658 00:29:59,047 --> 00:30:01,049 Yeah, a little bit. 659 00:30:01,049 --> 00:30:04,052 But at the end of the day, love isn't linear. 660 00:30:04,052 --> 00:30:07,681 You know, everyone has their -- you know, their own timeline. 661 00:30:07,681 --> 00:30:08,098 Devin says it a week later. 662 00:30:08,098 --> 00:30:10,100 Grant says another week later. 663 00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:12,269 Sam, you said it when you said it. 664 00:30:12,269 --> 00:30:15,564 So I shot my shot. 665 00:30:15,564 --> 00:30:17,566 I didn't -- I missed. Horribly missed. But... 666 00:30:17,566 --> 00:30:20,944 - But it was -- It was rubbing some of the guys the wrong way. 667 00:30:20,944 --> 00:30:23,113 - Yeah. I think everybody had their jaw to the floor. 668 00:30:23,113 --> 00:30:26,158 Even the Australian Bachelorette said that, 669 00:30:26,158 --> 00:30:27,451 "You know, hey, we feel like that's a little early. 670 00:30:27,451 --> 00:30:30,328 We wish that we would have seen him, 671 00:30:30,328 --> 00:30:32,706 you know, drop it to the floor." THOMAS N.: Yeah. 672 00:30:32,706 --> 00:30:33,957 I'm gonna stand on what I said, and I said it to his face. 673 00:30:33,957 --> 00:30:35,709 I said it in front of everyone, 674 00:30:35,709 --> 00:30:36,209 is that I thought it was premature. 675 00:30:36,209 --> 00:30:39,171 And I didn't think that being onstage 676 00:30:39,171 --> 00:30:40,505 with everyone else that had just gotten half naked 677 00:30:40,505 --> 00:30:43,884 to do their own thing on the -- on the stage -- 678 00:30:43,884 --> 00:30:45,343 I didn't think that was the place to do it. 679 00:30:45,343 --> 00:30:50,515 - Sam N., you weren't the only Sam who got into some conflict. 680 00:30:50,515 --> 00:30:53,060 Sam M., I think you took issue with Devin's 681 00:30:53,060 --> 00:30:55,687 general approach to dating Jenn. 682 00:30:55,687 --> 00:30:56,855 How come? SAM M.: Yeah, kind of -- 683 00:30:56,855 --> 00:30:59,274 All that stuff really started for me -- 684 00:30:59,274 --> 00:31:02,027 It was really night two, the rose ceremony, 685 00:31:02,027 --> 00:31:04,279 and I had no idea what had happened 686 00:31:04,279 --> 00:31:06,490 with Thomas N. and Devin. 687 00:31:06,490 --> 00:31:09,034 - There was two weeks of being in Australia, 688 00:31:09,034 --> 00:31:12,037 Austin didn't have a single second in front of Jenn, 689 00:31:12,037 --> 00:31:13,955 not a single second. 690 00:31:13,955 --> 00:31:15,540 So I took offense to Devin going first. 691 00:31:15,540 --> 00:31:16,833 - Why would you take offense to somebody 692 00:31:16,833 --> 00:31:19,795 that's actually trying to talk to the girl? 693 00:31:19,795 --> 00:31:21,797 Like, in the real world, it's not like that, brother. 694 00:31:21,797 --> 00:31:24,841 Like, if you're trying to, like, talk to Jenn or anybody -- 695 00:31:24,841 --> 00:31:25,884 - 100%. RICKY: Nah, let me finish. 696 00:31:25,884 --> 00:31:27,719 They're gonna do what they're gonna do 697 00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:28,386 because they're after the same girl. 698 00:31:28,386 --> 00:31:30,055 So, like, how about you man up, show up, or... 699 00:31:30,055 --> 00:31:32,849 - He said, "Hey, I'll be respectful 700 00:31:32,849 --> 00:31:33,892 for everyone's time... MAN: Yeah. 701 00:31:33,892 --> 00:31:36,770 ...and -- and not being respectful for Austin's time, 702 00:31:36,770 --> 00:31:37,729 who hadn't had a single second. - Devin -- Devin's not here. 703 00:31:37,729 --> 00:31:39,606 So I got -- I got to defend Devin. I actually -- 704 00:31:39,606 --> 00:31:40,899 [ cheers and applause ] 705 00:31:42,442 --> 00:31:45,278 Um... 706 00:31:45,278 --> 00:31:47,823 Devin was not gonna just not talk to Jenn 707 00:31:47,823 --> 00:31:49,533 at the rose ceremony. 708 00:31:49,533 --> 00:31:51,952 Would I have done that? Not exactly. 709 00:31:51,952 --> 00:31:52,494 But, like, I-I respected the move. 710 00:31:52,494 --> 00:31:54,704 It's a strategy. 711 00:31:54,704 --> 00:31:56,206 Um, the thing is, though, like, at least Devin, 712 00:31:56,206 --> 00:31:58,500 like, was keeping the main thing, the main thing, 713 00:31:58,500 --> 00:32:01,378 which was Jenn, un-- unlike two people here. 714 00:32:01,378 --> 00:32:06,591 [ applause ] 715 00:32:06,591 --> 00:32:07,134 - I want to ask -- How often did you hear 716 00:32:07,134 --> 00:32:08,844 "keep the main thing, the main thing"? 717 00:32:08,844 --> 00:32:10,846 - Every single day. 718 00:32:10,846 --> 00:32:12,681 MAN: Baby, that's right. 719 00:32:12,681 --> 00:32:16,101 - "Ten toes down." "Authentic self." 720 00:32:16,101 --> 00:32:18,520 - "Best foot forward." - "Best foot forward." 721 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,480 - There it is. "Best foot forward." Yeah. - "Main thing, main thing." 722 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,523 What else you got, Sam, for us? MAN: "Devin, Devin, Devin." 723 00:32:21,523 --> 00:32:22,858 - Everything he speaks is -- It's, like, from a movie. 724 00:32:22,858 --> 00:32:24,442 It's words, words. - Yeah. 725 00:32:24,442 --> 00:32:26,361 - It's just words without any weight to them whatsoever. 726 00:32:26,361 --> 00:32:30,907 They sound great, and he goes on and on and on and on. 727 00:32:30,907 --> 00:32:31,616 But you don't understand what they really mean 728 00:32:31,616 --> 00:32:34,911 and the way they come off. 729 00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:35,579 - Do you think Sam M. was keeping the main thing, 730 00:32:35,579 --> 00:32:37,247 the main thing? - If the main thing was Devin, 731 00:32:37,247 --> 00:32:38,373 then he was keeping the main... 732 00:32:38,373 --> 00:32:41,626 [ laughter ] MAN: Yeah. 733 00:32:41,626 --> 00:32:43,795 - It's sort -- Have you ever seen Mean Girls? And, like, 734 00:32:43,795 --> 00:32:44,754 Lindsay Lohan's character just, 735 00:32:44,754 --> 00:32:46,548 like, claims she hates Regina George, 736 00:32:46,548 --> 00:32:48,967 but all she does is talk about Regina George. 737 00:32:48,967 --> 00:32:52,304 And she turned -- MAN: Whoo! 738 00:32:52,304 --> 00:32:53,388 - That was like Sam M. MAN: Whoo! 739 00:32:53,388 --> 00:32:55,015 [ cheers and applause ] 740 00:32:57,434 --> 00:32:59,978 - It's ironic that a catchphrase for the season 741 00:32:59,978 --> 00:33:02,689 was "keeping the main thing, the main thing," 742 00:33:02,689 --> 00:33:04,232 because the main thing was rarely ever the main thing. 743 00:33:04,232 --> 00:33:08,653 And it was a bunch of drama a bunch of guys... 744 00:33:08,653 --> 00:33:10,780 not here for a marriage. 745 00:33:10,780 --> 00:33:13,158 - The main thing was finding love 746 00:33:13,158 --> 00:33:14,618 and staying true to yourself. 747 00:33:14,618 --> 00:33:18,997 And if that brings a -- a world of hate, then I'll take it. 748 00:33:18,997 --> 00:33:20,790 And I wish that my delivery in some of these things 749 00:33:20,790 --> 00:33:21,958 could have been a lot better than what it was, 750 00:33:21,958 --> 00:33:23,376 and I take responsibility for that. 751 00:33:23,376 --> 00:33:25,629 I was only taught to love one way, 752 00:33:25,629 --> 00:33:27,130 and it's either all in or all out. 753 00:33:27,130 --> 00:33:28,924 - Alright, well, Sam, I think we got a lot to talk about. 754 00:33:28,924 --> 00:33:30,425 Why don't you come on up in the hot seat? 755 00:33:30,425 --> 00:33:31,635 We'll get to it. 756 00:33:31,635 --> 00:33:33,511 MAN: Go! [ cheers and applause ] 757 00:33:33,511 --> 00:33:35,680 JESSE: Come on. 758 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,934 - Getting a lot of static. 759 00:33:38,934 --> 00:33:40,644 JESSE: Have a seat. SAM M.: Okay. 760 00:33:40,644 --> 00:33:42,020 JESSE: You and I are gonna dig in. 761 00:33:42,020 --> 00:33:43,939 We're gonna get to all that when we come back with more 762 00:33:43,939 --> 00:33:45,482 of The Men Tell All. 763 00:33:45,482 --> 00:33:47,025 [ cheers and applause ] 764 00:33:47,025 --> 00:33:47,817 ♪♪ 765 00:33:52,447 --> 00:33:54,741 [ cheers and applause ] 766 00:33:54,741 --> 00:33:56,993 - Welcome back to The Men Tell All. 767 00:33:56,993 --> 00:33:57,577 How are we doing, everybody? Doing okay? 768 00:33:57,577 --> 00:34:00,830 [ cheers and applause ] 769 00:34:00,830 --> 00:34:04,125 Alright, well, let's just keep the main thing, 770 00:34:04,125 --> 00:34:04,751 the main thing. [ laughter ] 771 00:34:04,751 --> 00:34:06,878 I just had to try that for myself. 772 00:34:06,878 --> 00:34:08,463 Sam, thanks so much for joining me up here, brother. - Absolutely. 773 00:34:08,463 --> 00:34:12,092 - Okay. I-I think it's fair to say you had quite the journey. 774 00:34:12,092 --> 00:34:16,221 Let's take a look back. 775 00:34:16,221 --> 00:34:18,723 Hello, there. How are we doing? 776 00:34:18,723 --> 00:34:19,766 SAM M.: Better now that I get to see you. 777 00:34:19,766 --> 00:34:23,436 - Oh, okay. Already smooth with the lines. 778 00:34:23,436 --> 00:34:24,145 SAM M.: You know. JENN: Sam M. is a hottie 779 00:34:24,145 --> 00:34:26,815 and has a lot of Southern charm. 780 00:34:26,815 --> 00:34:29,818 - I think we're really gonna hit it off. 781 00:34:29,818 --> 00:34:32,404 JENN: He makes me feel excited. 782 00:34:32,404 --> 00:34:35,865 He's got this energy that I am digging. 783 00:34:35,865 --> 00:34:37,450 Will you accept this rose? 784 00:34:37,450 --> 00:34:39,536 - Absolutely. 785 00:34:39,536 --> 00:34:40,996 JENN: Perfect. 786 00:34:43,290 --> 00:34:46,543 SAM M.: The chemistry is very apparent. 787 00:34:46,543 --> 00:34:49,546 It just goes to show how deep that connection 788 00:34:49,546 --> 00:34:52,132 is getting to and really what that can look like 789 00:34:52,132 --> 00:34:54,926 down the road in the future. 790 00:34:54,926 --> 00:34:57,178 I understand the feeling of, like, wanting to be 791 00:34:57,178 --> 00:34:59,889 a better person for the person in front of you 792 00:34:59,889 --> 00:35:01,433 every single day. 793 00:35:01,433 --> 00:35:03,935 That's love. I care about Jenn a lot. 794 00:35:03,935 --> 00:35:05,645 I always say keep the main thing, the main thing, 795 00:35:05,645 --> 00:35:08,440 and Jenn is the main thing. 796 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,150 You have no doubt how bad I want this. 797 00:35:10,150 --> 00:35:13,695 I want all of you, you know, the good, the bad. 798 00:35:13,695 --> 00:35:15,238 Whatever you think is ugly, I don't see as ugly. 799 00:35:15,238 --> 00:35:17,699 I see it as you. -Oh. 800 00:35:20,368 --> 00:35:22,912 JENN: I am falling for Sam. 801 00:35:22,912 --> 00:35:26,333 He's someone I can see a future with. 802 00:35:26,333 --> 00:35:27,167 But at the same time, I am terrified. 803 00:35:27,167 --> 00:35:29,044 I've had a lot of toxic relationships, 804 00:35:29,044 --> 00:35:32,464 and I don't want to make that same mistake again. 805 00:35:32,464 --> 00:35:35,175 WAITER: So you don't have to jump. 806 00:35:35,175 --> 00:35:36,760 But you can walk around the tower and just enjoy the view. 807 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,303 - A walk sounds lovely. WAITER: Yeah? 808 00:35:38,303 --> 00:35:41,056 - No, we would like to jump instead of walk. 809 00:35:41,056 --> 00:35:42,724 - I hate heights, I don't want to do this. 810 00:35:42,724 --> 00:35:45,352 I'm frustrated with Sam right now. 811 00:35:45,352 --> 00:35:48,146 He was dismissing me, and he wasn't listening. 812 00:35:48,146 --> 00:35:49,397 He tells the waiter that we're jumping 813 00:35:49,397 --> 00:35:52,067 without even asking me how I'm feeling about it. 814 00:35:52,067 --> 00:35:55,320 And that was my first big red flag. 815 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,197 What is it about me that makes you feel 816 00:35:57,197 --> 00:35:59,783 like we could have a really great future together? 817 00:35:59,783 --> 00:36:00,658 - Truly, your selflessness. - How do you know that 818 00:36:00,658 --> 00:36:03,870 I'm selfless? 819 00:36:03,870 --> 00:36:04,871 - I mean, you're either selfless or you're full of [ bleep ] 820 00:36:04,871 --> 00:36:06,831 One or the other. 821 00:36:06,831 --> 00:36:09,042 - But do you feel like you really know me? 822 00:36:09,042 --> 00:36:11,127 SAM M.: I don't use a lot of words. 823 00:36:11,127 --> 00:36:13,088 I told you from early that my love language is physical touch. 824 00:36:13,088 --> 00:36:16,508 JENN: I don't feel like his answers make sense. 825 00:36:16,508 --> 00:36:20,720 It reminds me exactly of my toxic ex-boyfriend. 826 00:36:20,720 --> 00:36:23,014 So I need to know who Sam really is 827 00:36:23,014 --> 00:36:25,433 and if he understands me. 828 00:36:25,433 --> 00:36:28,561 I just -- I need answers, and I need clarity. 829 00:36:28,561 --> 00:36:30,688 - With this idea of, like, yeah, how do I know it's you? 830 00:36:30,688 --> 00:36:33,066 I don't. I do trust that I'm here for a reason, 831 00:36:33,066 --> 00:36:35,777 - But that's you and that's your journey in wanting to be here. 832 00:36:35,777 --> 00:36:38,196 But why me? 833 00:36:38,196 --> 00:36:41,991 - Golly. [ breathes deeply ] 834 00:36:41,991 --> 00:36:44,077 Because I love you. 835 00:36:44,077 --> 00:36:46,287 - Sam. - Stop. 836 00:36:46,287 --> 00:36:51,918 - You can't even express to me who I am to you. 837 00:36:51,918 --> 00:36:55,463 I don't feel like he can back up his feelings for me. 838 00:36:55,463 --> 00:36:59,843 I'm not seeing the love. This really is déjà vu. 839 00:36:59,843 --> 00:37:03,471 I can't sit here with someone who says that they love me, 840 00:37:03,471 --> 00:37:05,390 but doesn't even really want to get to know me 841 00:37:05,390 --> 00:37:09,102 and understand me and see me. 842 00:37:09,102 --> 00:37:11,604 I've closed this chapter in my life already. 843 00:37:11,604 --> 00:37:13,022 [ dramatic music plays ] 844 00:37:17,318 --> 00:37:19,571 - It's frustrating. You know, it sucks, 845 00:37:19,571 --> 00:37:23,116 but the energy that she brought was very dull. 846 00:37:25,452 --> 00:37:27,912 I think this really just goes to show 847 00:37:27,912 --> 00:37:29,706 how little she actually does know about me. 848 00:37:29,706 --> 00:37:31,791 It's not my fault. 849 00:37:31,791 --> 00:37:34,544 So I can walk away, really, with my chin up. 850 00:37:34,544 --> 00:37:38,882 ♪♪ 851 00:37:38,882 --> 00:37:43,261 ♪♪ 852 00:37:43,261 --> 00:37:45,555 - So how does it feel watching that back? 853 00:37:45,555 --> 00:37:46,931 - Yeah. It's tough. 854 00:37:46,931 --> 00:37:52,020 Um, it's so easy to see the -- the areas 855 00:37:52,020 --> 00:37:54,022 where you wish you could have done something different. 856 00:37:54,022 --> 00:37:56,900 And I kind of have to live with it. 857 00:37:56,900 --> 00:37:57,235 It's something that -- I was trying 858 00:37:57,235 --> 00:38:00,236 to put a lot of stuff into words 859 00:38:00,236 --> 00:38:04,908 that I genuinely couldn't, and everything that came to mind, 860 00:38:04,908 --> 00:38:07,368 it just didn't feel like it was enough to truly define the way 861 00:38:07,368 --> 00:38:08,828 that I actually felt in that moment. 862 00:38:08,828 --> 00:38:11,247 - How strong did you feel for her? 863 00:38:11,247 --> 00:38:14,209 - Very strong. 864 00:38:14,209 --> 00:38:15,710 Truthfully, this was the first time 865 00:38:15,710 --> 00:38:19,047 that I've ever been really put in the position 866 00:38:19,047 --> 00:38:20,798 to have to explain why I love somebody, 867 00:38:20,798 --> 00:38:25,428 and I just fell extremely short in that moment right there. 868 00:38:25,428 --> 00:38:27,055 JESSE: I mean, you got put on the spot 869 00:38:27,055 --> 00:38:28,014 there in Seattle, right? - 100%. 870 00:38:28,014 --> 00:38:31,309 And -- And I think Jenn, and I think a lot of people, 871 00:38:31,309 --> 00:38:33,853 just questioned your authenticity... 872 00:38:33,853 --> 00:38:35,355 - For sure. Yeah. - ...with what you were saying. 873 00:38:35,355 --> 00:38:37,273 JESSE: You told you that you loved her. 874 00:38:37,273 --> 00:38:39,692 - For sure. 875 00:38:39,692 --> 00:38:41,820 - Yeah, I-I stand -- I really do. I-I stand by... 876 00:38:41,820 --> 00:38:44,447 - Sam, did you really love her? - 100%. 877 00:38:44,447 --> 00:38:46,866 - I think to a lot of people watching that, 878 00:38:46,866 --> 00:38:48,243 when you said that, it kind of felt like a Hail Mary. 879 00:38:48,243 --> 00:38:49,410 - Yeah, for sure. And, you know -- 880 00:38:49,410 --> 00:38:52,664 And I watch all of this back on -- on TV 881 00:38:52,664 --> 00:38:54,874 and I think I'm -- I'm struggling. 882 00:38:54,874 --> 00:38:56,417 - I want to open it up to the panel here. 883 00:38:56,417 --> 00:38:57,669 You're hearing what Sam has to say. 884 00:38:57,669 --> 00:39:00,004 What are your thoughts? 885 00:39:00,004 --> 00:39:01,756 BRIAN: Like, bro, that's -- It's a [ bleep ] move. 886 00:39:01,756 --> 00:39:02,340 It's like, I could sniff it out, brother. 887 00:39:02,340 --> 00:39:05,134 Every girl in this room could say that -- 888 00:39:05,134 --> 00:39:06,094 that there's been a [ bleep ] in their life 889 00:39:06,094 --> 00:39:07,262 that they threw out the "I love you" just to keep it -- 890 00:39:07,262 --> 00:39:09,055 keep it going. SAM M.: I understand 891 00:39:09,055 --> 00:39:11,057 what it might look like to everybody else, 892 00:39:11,057 --> 00:39:14,227 but that's not me, and I hate 893 00:39:14,227 --> 00:39:15,895 that in that moment right there, like, I fell so short. 894 00:39:15,895 --> 00:39:18,189 HAKEEM: I ride with you. 895 00:39:18,189 --> 00:39:19,858 You know that I love you to death. 896 00:39:19,858 --> 00:39:20,567 But I have to hold you accountable to this 897 00:39:20,567 --> 00:39:23,736 because you said you love her. 898 00:39:23,736 --> 00:39:24,153 I'm a brother of four sisters, man. 899 00:39:24,153 --> 00:39:27,574 And, like, if my sisters brought home a man 900 00:39:27,574 --> 00:39:30,159 and he'd said he loved her 901 00:39:30,159 --> 00:39:32,912 and he couldn't speak to why he loved my sister, 902 00:39:32,912 --> 00:39:35,582 I would have a problem with that. 903 00:39:35,582 --> 00:39:36,416 And I-I would hope you would have a problem with that 904 00:39:36,416 --> 00:39:38,084 for your sister, as well. 905 00:39:38,084 --> 00:39:39,377 - And -- And I take full accountability 906 00:39:39,377 --> 00:39:41,129 for it, truthfully. 907 00:39:41,129 --> 00:39:42,714 My past definitely snuck up on me, man. 908 00:39:42,714 --> 00:39:43,464 The last time that I was vulnerable, 909 00:39:43,464 --> 00:39:46,509 I got my heart broke, and that's 910 00:39:46,509 --> 00:39:47,886 why I don't discredit what I said. 911 00:39:47,886 --> 00:39:50,555 Because everybody does have a different way of -- of loving. 912 00:39:50,555 --> 00:39:52,265 And that's where I can take this 913 00:39:52,265 --> 00:39:54,934 and, like, really grow from, truly. 914 00:39:54,934 --> 00:39:56,311 - There were just things towards the end, 915 00:39:56,311 --> 00:40:00,648 even after Jenn had called it quits. 916 00:40:00,648 --> 00:40:04,819 To be driving away and call someone that you loved dull 917 00:40:04,819 --> 00:40:06,195 and to talk down. 918 00:40:06,195 --> 00:40:07,155 - Actually, I really want to clear that up. 919 00:40:07,155 --> 00:40:12,201 One thing that I grew very close to 920 00:40:12,201 --> 00:40:14,537 with Jenn was being able to communicate with your eyes. 921 00:40:14,537 --> 00:40:17,165 Your eyes do not lie. So her walking into that room, 922 00:40:17,165 --> 00:40:19,751 I could see in her eyes 923 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:22,003 that there was -- There was no energy there. 924 00:40:22,003 --> 00:40:22,920 There wasn't what I was used to seeing right there. 925 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,549 So I didn't call her dull. 926 00:40:26,549 --> 00:40:30,803 I truthfully said that her eyes were dull, 927 00:40:30,803 --> 00:40:33,014 and that was that moment, truthfully, right there. 928 00:40:33,014 --> 00:40:36,893 - I mean, like, listen, I-I do respect that Sam came out here 929 00:40:36,893 --> 00:40:38,686 and -- and, you know, said his piece. 930 00:40:38,686 --> 00:40:41,814 I don't know where his eyes really were. 931 00:40:41,814 --> 00:40:43,858 You know, he was talking about eyes a lot, about Jenn's eyes. 932 00:40:43,858 --> 00:40:45,944 I-I -- He might have had eyes for Maria or Daisy before 933 00:40:45,944 --> 00:40:47,570 and...you know. [ audience "ohhs" ] 934 00:40:47,570 --> 00:40:49,989 - Actually, I'm -- I'm really glad you brought that up, 935 00:40:49,989 --> 00:40:51,991 you know, truthfully. 936 00:40:51,991 --> 00:40:55,620 Um, and yeah, whenever we all came out here, 937 00:40:55,620 --> 00:40:57,330 we had no idea who the Bachelorette was gonna be. 938 00:40:57,330 --> 00:40:58,581 But if anybody's gonna sit up here 939 00:40:58,581 --> 00:41:00,958 and say they didn't think it was gonna be Daisy or Maria, 940 00:41:00,958 --> 00:41:01,626 you guys are liars. 941 00:41:01,626 --> 00:41:03,002 Now, hold on. And what I want to -- 942 00:41:03,002 --> 00:41:06,798 What I want to say -- What I -- 943 00:41:06,798 --> 00:41:07,215 What I want to say with all of that, though, is that, 944 00:41:07,215 --> 00:41:10,593 like, I remember telling my parents, I was like, 945 00:41:10,593 --> 00:41:13,304 "I don't see it working out with either of them, truthfully." 946 00:41:13,304 --> 00:41:16,099 And, like, one thing that I've tried to, like -- 947 00:41:16,099 --> 00:41:17,892 - Then why did you go? MAN: Yeah, then why did you go? 948 00:41:17,892 --> 00:41:19,143 - We knew who it was before we got in the limo, bro. 949 00:41:19,143 --> 00:41:20,978 SAM M.: Because it wasn't -- It wasn't either of them. 950 00:41:20,978 --> 00:41:22,772 It -- It -- It wasn't either of them. 951 00:41:22,772 --> 00:41:26,192 That -- That's why. Because it wasn't either of them. 952 00:41:26,192 --> 00:41:27,944 And Jenn was somebody that I didn't know. 953 00:41:27,944 --> 00:41:32,115 And after two conversations with her, I thought, "Damn, 954 00:41:32,115 --> 00:41:33,449 this girl is legit right here." So yeah, 955 00:41:33,449 --> 00:41:36,494 that was really where that statement came from right there. 956 00:41:36,494 --> 00:41:38,871 I had no disrespect to her, and if it came across like that, 957 00:41:38,871 --> 00:41:42,750 then, once again, I continue to apologize for my delivery 958 00:41:42,750 --> 00:41:44,669 because I know it needs work. - There's things that you think, 959 00:41:44,669 --> 00:41:46,671 and then there's things that you say. 960 00:41:46,671 --> 00:41:47,296 And you should not have said that, period, 961 00:41:47,296 --> 00:41:50,341 'cause that's disrespectful. SAM M.: 100%. 962 00:41:50,341 --> 00:41:52,427 [ applause ] 963 00:41:52,427 --> 00:41:54,721 That's why -- That's why I just said, like, 964 00:41:54,721 --> 00:41:57,098 the -- the delivery of it. 965 00:41:57,098 --> 00:41:58,975 But truthfully, like, I do know the spot, like, 966 00:41:58,975 --> 00:42:00,768 where I came from in all of that right there. 967 00:42:00,768 --> 00:42:02,729 And it wasn't to be disrespectful. 968 00:42:02,729 --> 00:42:04,897 And that's something that, like, I can take from all of this 969 00:42:04,897 --> 00:42:07,150 and truthfully, like, learn from. 970 00:42:07,150 --> 00:42:08,234 JOHN: And I appreciate that you're coming from a place of humility. 971 00:42:08,234 --> 00:42:10,361 You know, we all make mistakes. 972 00:42:10,361 --> 00:42:11,738 I've made mistakes. I'm sure we all have. 973 00:42:11,738 --> 00:42:13,698 I'm -- I'm glad that you are -- you know, seem to be growing 974 00:42:13,698 --> 00:42:16,784 and learning from -- from what went down. 975 00:42:16,784 --> 00:42:18,369 So that's really cool, Really cool to see. MAN: Yeah. 976 00:42:18,369 --> 00:42:19,328 - I appreciate that. All I can do is watch this 977 00:42:19,328 --> 00:42:20,830 and take the mistakes that I made in all of this 978 00:42:20,830 --> 00:42:24,751 and make sure that I can correct them and apply them to the -- 979 00:42:24,751 --> 00:42:26,377 you know, the next relationship that -- that stands in front of me. 980 00:42:26,377 --> 00:42:29,505 - I want to thank you for being here. I know it wasn't easy. 981 00:42:29,505 --> 00:42:32,341 But I-I do think you showed some humility, 982 00:42:32,341 --> 00:42:34,761 and I think some people maybe saw a bit 983 00:42:34,761 --> 00:42:35,511 of a different side of you, so I'm really glad you came. SAM M.: Mm. 984 00:42:35,511 --> 00:42:37,096 - Let's hear it for Sam, everyone. 985 00:42:37,096 --> 00:42:39,557 [ cheers and applause ] 986 00:42:39,557 --> 00:42:41,476 Okay. He's fresh off his shocking breakup with Jenn. 987 00:42:41,476 --> 00:42:43,060 But how's he doing now? 988 00:42:43,060 --> 00:42:45,521 Jonathon's gonna join me here onstage. 989 00:42:45,521 --> 00:42:45,856 Make sure you stick around. 990 00:42:45,856 --> 00:42:48,649 [ cheers and applause ] 991 00:42:53,905 --> 00:42:55,448 [ cheers and applause ] 992 00:42:55,448 --> 00:43:00,161 ♪♪ 993 00:43:00,161 --> 00:43:03,039 - Welcome back, Bachelor Nation. Now, earlier tonight, 994 00:43:03,039 --> 00:43:06,084 you all saw Jonathon leave Hawaii with a broken heart. 995 00:43:06,084 --> 00:43:08,669 Well, he's here with me now to talk about it. 996 00:43:08,669 --> 00:43:10,046 So great seeing you, brother. - Yeah. You too. 997 00:43:10,046 --> 00:43:14,092 - And I know -- I think back to your relationship with Jenn. 998 00:43:14,092 --> 00:43:16,511 I know it just seemed like such a fun 999 00:43:16,511 --> 00:43:17,845 and easy connection right from the beginning. - Yeah. 1000 00:43:17,845 --> 00:43:22,100 - And even though it did get more serious as time went on, 1001 00:43:22,100 --> 00:43:22,517 I think in the end, it just may have been too little, 1002 00:43:22,517 --> 00:43:26,270 too late. - Yeah. 1003 00:43:26,270 --> 00:43:28,648 Oh! Oh, my head! 1004 00:43:28,648 --> 00:43:30,483 - Oh! JONATHON: Oh! 1005 00:43:30,483 --> 00:43:32,527 No. What is this? JONATHON: Jenn. 1006 00:43:32,527 --> 00:43:35,279 I'm love-sick. 1007 00:43:35,279 --> 00:43:36,823 - When I first see Jonathon, I'm just thinking, 1008 00:43:36,823 --> 00:43:39,575 "Who is this guy right now?" 1009 00:43:39,575 --> 00:43:40,743 - It's a little hot in here. 1010 00:43:40,743 --> 00:43:43,412 - Whoo! 1011 00:43:43,412 --> 00:43:46,707 Turns out he's hot and fun. 1012 00:43:46,707 --> 00:43:49,210 This is so much fun. 1013 00:43:49,210 --> 00:43:51,254 I love this. There could be something there. 1014 00:43:51,254 --> 00:43:54,215 One. Two. Three. Four. Five. 1015 00:43:54,215 --> 00:43:55,800 JONATHON: Jenn is incredible. - Six. Seven. Eight. Nine. Ten. 1016 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,176 JONATHON: The fun, the banter, the jokes, 1017 00:43:57,176 --> 00:43:58,219 the rapport are all there. 1018 00:43:58,219 --> 00:44:01,472 There's never a dull moment when we're hanging out. 1019 00:44:01,472 --> 00:44:02,932 - Oh, it's a... - There you go. 1020 00:44:02,932 --> 00:44:04,517 - It's a thing. - No, pull it out. Pull it out. 1021 00:44:04,517 --> 00:44:06,811 - Wait, is it this way or this... - There you go. No. 1022 00:44:06,811 --> 00:44:10,106 It almost feels like a rom-com. 1023 00:44:10,106 --> 00:44:11,399 - I'm gonna do a cartwheel. - Are you? 1024 00:44:11,399 --> 00:44:12,316 JONATHON: There's a shared bond over, like, 1025 00:44:12,316 --> 00:44:15,152 how fun and how light we look at life. 1026 00:44:15,152 --> 00:44:17,697 JENN: Do a cartwheel. 1027 00:44:17,697 --> 00:44:18,114 JONATHON: And we have that physical intimacy, as well. 1028 00:44:21,951 --> 00:44:25,746 But can we connect on an emotional level? 1029 00:44:25,746 --> 00:44:28,332 I have a very hard time fully trusting 1030 00:44:28,332 --> 00:44:31,168 that somebody is exactly what they say they are. 1031 00:44:31,168 --> 00:44:32,378 And I don't want to give somebody my all 1032 00:44:32,378 --> 00:44:34,463 when I don't know what all is inside of them. 1033 00:44:34,463 --> 00:44:36,799 - Mm-hmm. 1034 00:44:36,799 --> 00:44:40,386 I can see exactly, like, where you're coming from, 1035 00:44:40,386 --> 00:44:42,305 but I think it's important to be able to let your guard down 1036 00:44:42,305 --> 00:44:44,932 and show your weakness sometimes, 1037 00:44:44,932 --> 00:44:48,394 because that is what allows someone to be there for you. 1038 00:44:48,394 --> 00:44:50,521 - Yeah. It feels great. 1039 00:44:50,521 --> 00:44:53,774 She happens to be on the same ladder that I'm on, 1040 00:44:53,774 --> 00:44:54,901 and she just helped me get to the next step. 1041 00:44:54,901 --> 00:44:56,777 Jennifer Tran... JENN: Mm-hmm. 1042 00:44:56,777 --> 00:44:59,196 ...I am falling for you. 1043 00:45:03,367 --> 00:45:06,412 Jenn is an amazing, amazing woman. 1044 00:45:06,412 --> 00:45:09,040 I can see a future with her. 1045 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,374 I can see her. This is beautiful. 1046 00:45:10,374 --> 00:45:11,792 JENN: Oh, my God. 1047 00:45:14,962 --> 00:45:17,006 JONATHON: I told her from the beginning 1048 00:45:17,006 --> 00:45:18,090 I was a bit of a slow burn, but my feelings 1049 00:45:18,090 --> 00:45:20,259 are so far ahead of 1050 00:45:20,259 --> 00:45:23,262 where I thought they would get from night one. 1051 00:45:23,262 --> 00:45:25,348 We're just happy. 1052 00:45:25,348 --> 00:45:27,850 I have no doubt in my mind this is my person. 1053 00:45:31,562 --> 00:45:32,480 - Marcus. 1054 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:37,193 ♪♪ 1055 00:45:37,193 --> 00:45:39,028 [ Jonathon sniffles ] 1056 00:45:39,028 --> 00:45:41,614 JONATHON: I just mad at myself. 1057 00:45:41,614 --> 00:45:44,575 I could see an amazing future with this girl. 1058 00:45:44,575 --> 00:45:47,995 [ sniffles ] 1059 00:45:47,995 --> 00:45:49,789 And I feel like the biggest idiot in the world 1060 00:45:49,789 --> 00:45:53,209 because something amazing was right in front of me, 1061 00:45:53,209 --> 00:45:57,046 and I was too much of my own enemy just to see it 1062 00:45:57,046 --> 00:46:02,301 until I was too late. 1063 00:46:02,301 --> 00:46:02,637 until I was too late. of standing in my own way. 1064 00:46:02,637 --> 00:46:02,989 of standing in my own way. [ voice breaking ] I'm just tired 1065 00:46:02,989 --> 00:46:03,469 of standing in my own way. 1066 00:46:03,469 --> 00:46:10,977 ♪♪ 1067 00:46:10,977 --> 00:46:12,645 - How does it feel watching that back? 1068 00:46:12,645 --> 00:46:16,148 - [ clears throat ] 1069 00:46:16,148 --> 00:46:17,400 It's hard. It was a beautiful journey. 1070 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,695 Amazing moments. 1071 00:46:20,695 --> 00:46:23,864 And watching it all come to an end is just... 1072 00:46:23,864 --> 00:46:27,076 You know, it's not something that I wanted. 1073 00:46:27,076 --> 00:46:28,244 And I missed out on something incredible. 1074 00:46:28,244 --> 00:46:32,290 And I regretted not getting there a lot quicker. 1075 00:46:32,290 --> 00:46:34,166 - What was it about her 1076 00:46:34,166 --> 00:46:35,334 that made you think that it could work out 1077 00:46:35,334 --> 00:46:37,878 between the two of you? 1078 00:46:37,878 --> 00:46:39,505 - You know, I think from day one, we just had a friendship. 1079 00:46:39,505 --> 00:46:42,300 And I think that's what you want. 1080 00:46:42,300 --> 00:46:42,633 You want to start as, like, friends. 1081 00:46:42,633 --> 00:46:44,969 Like, can you sit there? 1082 00:46:44,969 --> 00:46:46,971 Can you have fun with that person? 1083 00:46:46,971 --> 00:46:49,515 Can you be in a blank room with nothing else but that person 1084 00:46:49,515 --> 00:46:51,892 and enjoy it night in and night out? JESSE: Mm-hmm. 1085 00:46:51,892 --> 00:46:52,935 - And there wasn't a dull moment we ever had. 1086 00:46:52,935 --> 00:46:54,645 - Mm-hmm. - She listened. 1087 00:46:54,645 --> 00:46:56,480 She's so attentive to everything, you know. 1088 00:46:56,480 --> 00:47:00,192 She would reassure you on your feelings. 1089 00:47:00,192 --> 00:47:02,737 Like, there were things that were unspoken 1090 00:47:02,737 --> 00:47:06,574 that I was not even scared -- I was terrified of. JESSE: Mm. 1091 00:47:06,574 --> 00:47:06,908 - And she would just pull me to the side. She'd be like, 1092 00:47:06,908 --> 00:47:09,076 "Hey, this is okay, you got this." 1093 00:47:09,076 --> 00:47:13,664 And then I think it got to a point where she was, 1094 00:47:13,664 --> 00:47:15,249 "I'm in love with Marcus." 1095 00:47:15,249 --> 00:47:17,585 And Devin said he was in love with her and ours 1096 00:47:17,585 --> 00:47:20,212 was just good and comfortable, and that was hard to watch. 1097 00:47:20,212 --> 00:47:22,214 And I was sitting there. I was like, "Love is involved. 1098 00:47:22,214 --> 00:47:26,260 Like, really, love is involved in both of these relationships. 1099 00:47:26,260 --> 00:47:28,888 And we're in this place where we can't go past it." 1100 00:47:28,888 --> 00:47:31,390 JESSE: Yeah. -So that -- that was definitely hard to see. 1101 00:47:31,390 --> 00:47:34,602 - But I think it's -- it's great that you can watch it back 1102 00:47:34,602 --> 00:47:36,979 and -- and make realizations about yourself, too. 1103 00:47:36,979 --> 00:47:39,482 You've talked about, "Hey, you know, 1104 00:47:39,482 --> 00:47:41,942 the next time I'm in a relationship, 1105 00:47:41,942 --> 00:47:44,028 I can try things differently to really be the best version 1106 00:47:44,028 --> 00:47:46,655 of myself in that." JONATHON: Mm-hmm. 1107 00:47:46,655 --> 00:47:50,326 - Because you are a great guy and you deserve to find love. - Thank you. 1108 00:47:50,326 --> 00:47:54,413 - Assuming you're still single. Are you? 1109 00:47:54,413 --> 00:47:57,500 Because, you know, there's a certain beach 1110 00:47:57,500 --> 00:48:00,086 that's gonna be opening next summer. 1111 00:48:00,086 --> 00:48:00,795 [ cheers and applause ] 1112 00:48:07,051 --> 00:48:12,807 So I would hereby like to officially extend to you 1113 00:48:12,807 --> 00:48:16,018 the very first invite to the beach next summer. 1114 00:48:16,018 --> 00:48:19,438 What do you say? MAN: Do it! 1115 00:48:19,438 --> 00:48:21,232 - I say I'll see you there. JESSE: Alright. 1116 00:48:21,232 --> 00:48:24,235 JONATHON: I'll see you there. -We'll see you in Paradise. 1117 00:48:24,235 --> 00:48:26,904 - Yeah! 1118 00:48:26,904 --> 00:48:29,990 - Let's go, Jonathon! Let's go! 1119 00:48:29,990 --> 00:48:32,243 - Obviously, you know Jenn's gonna be out here later tonight. 1120 00:48:32,243 --> 00:48:35,454 How do you feel about talking to her? 1121 00:48:35,454 --> 00:48:39,708 - Um, I'm beyond excited to see her. JESSE: Yeah. 1122 00:48:39,708 --> 00:48:41,168 JONATHON: You know, I have a lot of love for Jenn. 1123 00:48:41,168 --> 00:48:43,420 So when I see her today, you know, I'm just gonna light up. 1124 00:48:43,420 --> 00:48:46,257 I'm gonna be so excited to just give her a hug and say hi 1125 00:48:46,257 --> 00:48:50,636 and hopefully just tell her I hope she found 1126 00:48:50,636 --> 00:48:51,262 exactly what she's looking for. - Oh, that's awesome. 1127 00:48:51,262 --> 00:48:54,432 I'm really excited and glad that you both 1128 00:48:54,432 --> 00:48:56,016 get to have that -- that moment together. 1129 00:48:56,016 --> 00:48:57,351 - Yeah. - Um, thank you so much for being here tonight. 1130 00:48:57,351 --> 00:49:00,604 I know it wasn't easy. Alright. 1131 00:49:00,604 --> 00:49:01,021 The time has finally come. 1132 00:49:01,021 --> 00:49:04,275 He's tall, he's good-looking, 1133 00:49:04,275 --> 00:49:05,651 he's charismatic, and he's the Bachelor. 1134 00:49:05,651 --> 00:49:07,778 Grant's gonna join me next. 1135 00:49:07,778 --> 00:49:12,032 [ cheers and applause ] 1136 00:49:12,032 --> 00:49:16,078 But first, there's a new show coming to Hulu 1137 00:49:16,078 --> 00:49:18,205 that's already got people talking. 1138 00:49:18,205 --> 00:49:21,208 And it's about a group of Mormon influencers known as MomTok. 1139 00:49:21,208 --> 00:49:24,378 The show reveals secrets and scandals 1140 00:49:24,378 --> 00:49:24,712 that not even their millions of followers know about. 1141 00:49:24,712 --> 00:49:27,631 And a couple of those women, 1142 00:49:27,631 --> 00:49:29,175 they're actually here with us tonight. 1143 00:49:29,175 --> 00:49:32,011 Welcome, ladies. Great seeing you. 1144 00:49:32,011 --> 00:49:33,929 [ cheers and applause ] 1145 00:49:33,929 --> 00:49:36,474 Alright, so what are we waiting for? 1146 00:49:36,474 --> 00:49:37,600 Let's check out this exclusive first look at Hulu's 1147 00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:41,103 newest series, The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. 1148 00:49:41,103 --> 00:49:44,648 WOMAN: I love the Mormon church, 1149 00:49:44,648 --> 00:49:45,399 but there are a lot of rules that we have to follow. 1150 00:49:45,399 --> 00:49:47,985 - We were raised to be these housewives 1151 00:49:47,985 --> 00:49:49,570 for the men, serving their every desire. 1152 00:49:49,570 --> 00:49:53,574 - Have kids by the time you're 21, or in my case, at 16. 1153 00:49:53,574 --> 00:49:54,533 -Oh, hell no. 1154 00:49:54,533 --> 00:49:57,494 - ♪ Show me what you're working with ♪ 1155 00:49:57,494 --> 00:49:59,622 - I created MomTok, a group of Mormon moms making TikToks. 1156 00:49:59,622 --> 00:50:03,417 It started with Whitney and Mayci, Michaela, and I. 1157 00:50:03,417 --> 00:50:04,919 - We are trying to change the stigma of gender roles 1158 00:50:04,919 --> 00:50:06,837 in the Mormon culture. 1159 00:50:06,837 --> 00:50:07,504 - That's what scares me. 1160 00:50:07,504 --> 00:50:08,964 In the church, we have rules for a reason. 1161 00:50:08,964 --> 00:50:11,425 - I need you to twerk your ass off. 1162 00:50:11,425 --> 00:50:12,718 - ♪ Show me what you're working with ♪ 1163 00:50:12,718 --> 00:50:15,554 - My goal is just to be able to provide for my family. 1164 00:50:15,554 --> 00:50:16,889 - ♪ That's right ♪ - We blew up overnight. 1165 00:50:16,889 --> 00:50:20,017 2 million followers, 9 million views. 1166 00:50:20,017 --> 00:50:22,853 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. - It's been crazy for us. 1167 00:50:22,853 --> 00:50:24,438 - And then it turned into this whole group 1168 00:50:24,438 --> 00:50:26,190 is swinging with each other. 1169 00:50:26,190 --> 00:50:27,399 - Wait, what? 1170 00:50:27,399 --> 00:50:31,195 MAN: A Mormon swinging scandal has hit Utah. 1171 00:50:31,195 --> 00:50:33,072 - Everyone has hooked up with, like, everyone. 1172 00:50:33,072 --> 00:50:34,657 MAN: Taylor announced that the group was involved 1173 00:50:34,657 --> 00:50:35,616 in soft swinging. 1174 00:50:35,616 --> 00:50:37,201 - It was swapping in front of each other, 1175 00:50:37,201 --> 00:50:39,536 standing next to each other. WOMAN: Whoa. 1176 00:50:39,536 --> 00:50:41,455 - ♪ Lucky, lucky girl ♪ 1177 00:50:41,455 --> 00:50:43,874 - Now there's a fight for MomTok. 1178 00:50:43,874 --> 00:50:45,751 - The group is important to me. 1179 00:50:45,751 --> 00:50:47,002 - Being divorced and taking care of two kids 1180 00:50:47,002 --> 00:50:49,838 would be kind of tough, so you make the decision. 1181 00:50:49,838 --> 00:50:51,548 - There's drama with the husbands, 1182 00:50:51,548 --> 00:50:52,800 and it's starting to tear the group apart. 1183 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,760 WOMAN: Online, it looks like we're all 1184 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,471 the bestest of friends, but we're not. 1185 00:50:57,471 --> 00:50:59,473 - Awkward. WOMAN: We're the most devout 1186 00:50:59,473 --> 00:51:00,391 out of the whole group. And then there are others. 1187 00:51:00,391 --> 00:51:03,310 - In what way do you feel like drinking helps you 1188 00:51:03,310 --> 00:51:05,813 be a better mom? 1189 00:51:05,813 --> 00:51:07,022 - Oh, my gosh. What is happening right now? 1190 00:51:07,022 --> 00:51:09,149 - There's gonna be drama tonight. 1191 00:51:09,149 --> 00:51:10,484 There's something in the air. 1192 00:51:10,484 --> 00:51:12,278 DISPATCHER: 911. What is your emergency? 1193 00:51:12,278 --> 00:51:16,156 MAN: At this time, you're gonna be placed under arrest. 1194 00:51:16,156 --> 00:51:21,370 - ♪ Mummy don't know Daddy's getting hot at the Body Shop ♪ 1195 00:51:21,370 --> 00:51:25,374 ♪ Doing something unholy, oh-ee-oh-ee-oh ♪ 1196 00:51:25,374 --> 00:51:26,709 - There's so many secrets. There's lies, gossip. 1197 00:51:26,709 --> 00:51:28,544 - Sometimes fights are necessary. 1198 00:51:28,544 --> 00:51:30,588 WOMAN: The gloves are off, baby. 1199 00:51:30,588 --> 00:51:32,798 - Hurting so bad. - I'm done. I'm out. 1200 00:51:32,798 --> 00:51:34,091 WOMAN: Can the group even survive this? 1201 00:51:34,091 --> 00:51:36,510 - There's a whole story that we haven't told anyone. 1202 00:51:38,387 --> 00:51:41,140 [ cheers and applause ] 1203 00:51:48,230 --> 00:51:51,358 [ cheers and applause ] 1204 00:51:51,358 --> 00:51:54,820 - Hey, there. Welcome back to "The Men Tell All." 1205 00:51:54,820 --> 00:51:56,780 Well, he's been backstage all night. 1206 00:51:56,780 --> 00:51:59,575 Now it's finally time to bring him out. 1207 00:51:59,575 --> 00:52:02,620 Who's ready to see the next Bachelor? 1208 00:52:02,620 --> 00:52:05,956 [ cheers and applause ] 1209 00:52:05,956 --> 00:52:08,292 Alright, here he is. Ladies and gentlemen, 1210 00:52:08,292 --> 00:52:12,338 your next leading man, Grant Ellis! 1211 00:52:12,338 --> 00:52:13,464 [ cheers and applause ] 1212 00:52:13,464 --> 00:52:17,092 MAN: Let's go! 1213 00:52:17,092 --> 00:52:19,553 MAN #2: What's up! 1214 00:52:21,555 --> 00:52:22,640 [ both speak indistinctly ] 1215 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:23,682 - Good seeing you again. 1216 00:52:23,682 --> 00:52:26,727 - That's right! 1217 00:52:26,727 --> 00:52:30,564 [ cheers and applause continue ] 1218 00:52:30,564 --> 00:52:33,525 JESSE: Well, congrats, man. - Thank you so much. 1219 00:52:33,525 --> 00:52:35,986 - It's great seeing you. You look sharp. 1220 00:52:35,986 --> 00:52:37,738 How does it feel to be the next Bachelor? 1221 00:52:37,738 --> 00:52:40,574 - It feels great. I'm so excited. 1222 00:52:40,574 --> 00:52:42,910 I can't wait to embark on this journey. 1223 00:52:42,910 --> 00:52:45,662 Yeah, it's just all so surreal to me, 1224 00:52:45,662 --> 00:52:46,872 and I'm just -- I'm just happy. I'm grateful. 1225 00:52:46,872 --> 00:52:48,916 - What are your friends and family saying? 1226 00:52:48,916 --> 00:52:49,750 What's the response been that you've gotten 1227 00:52:49,750 --> 00:52:52,878 since you got announced? - Oh, man. 1228 00:52:52,878 --> 00:52:55,130 My friends are happy. My mom is super happy. 1229 00:52:55,130 --> 00:52:56,423 My dad is happy. My sister's happy. 1230 00:52:56,423 --> 00:52:59,551 Everybody's excited for me. 1231 00:52:59,551 --> 00:53:02,012 Everybody's excited for me to find my future wife. 1232 00:53:02,012 --> 00:53:03,680 - Sounds like there's a lot of happiness going on right now. 1233 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,016 - There's a lot of happiness. - Hey, listen, I get it, man. 1234 00:53:06,016 --> 00:53:08,936 Your life must be going a mile a minute right now. 1235 00:53:08,936 --> 00:53:11,480 And I know Bachelor Nation cannot wait for you to embark 1236 00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:12,523 on your own journey to find love. 1237 00:53:12,523 --> 00:53:15,109 But first, let's take a look back at how you got here. 1238 00:53:15,109 --> 00:53:17,820 - Let's do it. 1239 00:53:17,820 --> 00:53:19,196 JENN: Hello. GRANT: I got something for you. 1240 00:53:19,196 --> 00:53:22,700 Ready? ♪ It's nice to meet you ♪ 1241 00:53:22,700 --> 00:53:26,078 ♪ My name is Grant, we'll make all these guys so jealous ♪ 1242 00:53:26,078 --> 00:53:27,413 ♪ 'Cause at the end of this show ♪ 1243 00:53:27,413 --> 00:53:30,708 ♪ We'll change your name to Mrs. Ellis ♪ 1244 00:53:30,708 --> 00:53:34,086 I'm feeling sparks. Jenn is looking fire. 1245 00:53:34,086 --> 00:53:36,839 I came here to find a genuine connection with somebody. 1246 00:53:36,839 --> 00:53:37,464 We could be a good team, though. One, two punch. 1247 00:53:37,464 --> 00:53:40,342 - We could be a good team. 1248 00:53:40,342 --> 00:53:42,094 - I feel like me and Jenn are really gonna get along. 1249 00:53:42,094 --> 00:53:44,388 JENN: How beautiful is this? GRANT: It's so beautiful. 1250 00:53:44,388 --> 00:53:48,100 JENN: Grant is very much my type. 1251 00:53:48,100 --> 00:53:52,104 He's tall. He's handsome. He's charming and funny. 1252 00:53:52,104 --> 00:53:54,523 He brings that manly energy. 1253 00:53:54,523 --> 00:53:56,692 - Jenn Ellis. That's a nice name, right, Jenn? 1254 00:53:56,692 --> 00:54:00,279 - Jenn Ellis? Okay. What about you taking my last name? 1255 00:54:00,279 --> 00:54:01,947 - Grant Tran. - Grant Tran. 1256 00:54:01,947 --> 00:54:04,116 - I like that. 1257 00:54:07,453 --> 00:54:10,497 JENN: That spark is there, and I can be myself with him, 1258 00:54:10,497 --> 00:54:13,333 and I love that feeling. 1259 00:54:13,333 --> 00:54:16,003 I'm not perfect. I have bad days, and -- 1260 00:54:16,003 --> 00:54:18,255 - I'm not perfect. You're not perfect. 1261 00:54:18,255 --> 00:54:19,214 But that's when you know that it's love 1262 00:54:19,214 --> 00:54:22,176 is when you could accept somebody for their imperfection. 1263 00:54:22,176 --> 00:54:24,344 So it's like you don't have to be perfect at all. 1264 00:54:24,344 --> 00:54:26,263 You know what I'm saying? I'm-a rock with you. 1265 00:54:26,263 --> 00:54:29,183 - Thank you. Thank you. - You know? So... 1266 00:54:29,183 --> 00:54:31,685 I feel great, because the connection 1267 00:54:31,685 --> 00:54:32,436 I have with Jenn has been growing, 1268 00:54:32,436 --> 00:54:37,357 and I can see myself falling for her. 1269 00:54:37,357 --> 00:54:39,610 - Grant, will you accept this rose? 1270 00:54:39,610 --> 00:54:42,237 - Of course. 1271 00:54:42,237 --> 00:54:43,655 I see somebody that I could have a life with. 1272 00:54:43,655 --> 00:54:46,450 I genuinely think that I'm falling in love with Jenn. 1273 00:54:46,450 --> 00:54:50,037 [ sighs ] It's just scary, bro. 1274 00:54:50,037 --> 00:54:51,288 MAN: What? Getting feelings? 1275 00:54:51,288 --> 00:54:53,790 - Yeah. Like, what makes somebody fall in love, you know? 1276 00:54:53,790 --> 00:54:56,418 Don't tell anybody I was crying. 1277 00:54:56,418 --> 00:54:58,086 - I won't. I won't. - Keep it between me and you. 1278 00:54:58,086 --> 00:54:59,505 Now I know. At least for me. 1279 00:54:59,505 --> 00:55:01,173 It's different for everybody, so... 1280 00:55:01,173 --> 00:55:03,717 I just want you to know that I am falling in love with you. 1281 00:55:03,717 --> 00:55:05,761 And I've only felt like this once before in my life. 1282 00:55:05,761 --> 00:55:09,765 And I see a future in you. 1283 00:55:09,765 --> 00:55:10,599 I'm talking a lot. Can I get a kiss? 1284 00:55:10,599 --> 00:55:13,769 JENN: Mm-hmm. 1285 00:55:13,769 --> 00:55:14,520 GRANT: If I was on top of the world earlier, 1286 00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:16,980 I'm on top of the moon now, so... 1287 00:55:16,980 --> 00:55:19,775 Once I go there, like, I'm all in. 1288 00:55:19,775 --> 00:55:20,609 I am falling in love with her. 1289 00:55:20,609 --> 00:55:22,528 I wish we could just cut to the end. 1290 00:55:22,528 --> 00:55:25,155 You know what I'm saying? 1291 00:55:25,155 --> 00:55:25,906 - Jonathon? 1292 00:55:31,119 --> 00:55:34,665 GRANT: I feel disappointed. 1293 00:55:34,665 --> 00:55:35,874 I'm hurt. 1294 00:55:35,874 --> 00:55:38,126 I don't know, man. 1295 00:55:38,126 --> 00:55:40,212 I'm confused. 1296 00:55:40,212 --> 00:55:41,088 You know, I really have feelings for Jenn. 1297 00:55:41,088 --> 00:55:43,966 Good luck, okay? 1298 00:55:43,966 --> 00:55:45,551 It hurts not being loved back. 1299 00:55:45,551 --> 00:55:48,387 I want a family, you know? I want a wife. 1300 00:55:48,387 --> 00:55:50,931 I want kids. 1301 00:55:50,931 --> 00:55:53,475 I want to give everything to somebody, 1302 00:55:53,475 --> 00:55:55,435 and I want them to give everything to me in return. 1303 00:55:55,435 --> 00:55:58,897 And through hell or high water, I'm gonna find my happiness, 1304 00:55:58,897 --> 00:56:00,482 and I'm not gonna stop until I do. 1305 00:56:04,903 --> 00:56:07,322 [ cheers and applause ] 1306 00:56:14,288 --> 00:56:16,498 - Emotional roller coaster, for sure. 1307 00:56:16,498 --> 00:56:18,792 GRANT: Yeah, looking back at that, 1308 00:56:18,792 --> 00:56:21,753 being able to develop feelings for somebody 1309 00:56:21,753 --> 00:56:24,923 in such a short amount of time and them being genuine and real 1310 00:56:24,923 --> 00:56:26,341 is something that I didn't -- I didn't expect going into this. 1311 00:56:26,341 --> 00:56:28,927 - What was it about Jenn 1312 00:56:28,927 --> 00:56:29,344 that had you falling in love with her? 1313 00:56:29,344 --> 00:56:31,555 Was there a moment that you realized 1314 00:56:31,555 --> 00:56:33,140 that this was something real? 1315 00:56:33,140 --> 00:56:35,142 - Yeah, I really appreciated Jenn's ability 1316 00:56:35,142 --> 00:56:38,937 to, um, interact with me 1317 00:56:38,937 --> 00:56:39,938 and keep the conversation light and happy. 1318 00:56:39,938 --> 00:56:41,940 And also, on our one-on-one date 1319 00:56:41,940 --> 00:56:44,359 when we -- we had a talk 1320 00:56:44,359 --> 00:56:47,946 and I talked about my father and just, I felt 1321 00:56:47,946 --> 00:56:50,907 like we really related to each other in that aspect. 1322 00:56:50,907 --> 00:56:52,075 And that's the emotional connection 1323 00:56:52,075 --> 00:56:54,745 that I was looking for, 1324 00:56:54,745 --> 00:56:57,372 and it really took me over the edge 1325 00:56:57,372 --> 00:56:59,333 and ultimately, you know, made me fall in love with her. 1326 00:56:59,333 --> 00:57:00,292 JESSE: Yeah, I think one of the things 1327 00:57:00,292 --> 00:57:03,962 I'll always remember was I think that night in Auckland, 1328 00:57:03,962 --> 00:57:06,340 when you were realizing that you were falling in love with her. 1329 00:57:06,340 --> 00:57:08,925 You could see it on your face. - Right. 1330 00:57:08,925 --> 00:57:11,053 Something about me is I do wear my emotions on my sleeve. 1331 00:57:11,053 --> 00:57:12,846 So if I'm happy, you're gonna know. 1332 00:57:12,846 --> 00:57:15,057 If I'm angry, you're gonna know. And if I'm in love with you, 1333 00:57:15,057 --> 00:57:16,308 you're gonna know, and I'm gonna tell you. 1334 00:57:16,308 --> 00:57:18,894 So that's something that I'm gonna carry with me. 1335 00:57:18,894 --> 00:57:22,147 - Well, I know for certain 1336 00:57:22,147 --> 00:57:23,815 that there are a lot of women out there 1337 00:57:23,815 --> 00:57:27,402 that are really excited to get the opportunity to date you. 1338 00:57:27,402 --> 00:57:31,281 In fact, since you were announced as the next Bachelor, 1339 00:57:31,281 --> 00:57:34,660 there have been over 10,000 1340 00:57:34,660 --> 00:57:37,746 new women 1341 00:57:37,746 --> 00:57:39,247 who've applied to be on the show. 1342 00:57:39,247 --> 00:57:41,625 - Oh, man. JESSE: And that number every day 1343 00:57:41,625 --> 00:57:44,294 is going up, and it's growing. 1344 00:57:44,294 --> 00:57:47,339 So what is it that you're looking for? 1345 00:57:47,339 --> 00:57:49,925 - A kind soul, somebody who's genuine, 1346 00:57:49,925 --> 00:57:52,594 somebody who we're able to, either through good or bad, 1347 00:57:52,594 --> 00:57:53,637 we're able to sit down and talk about things. 1348 00:57:53,637 --> 00:57:56,723 You know, ultimately, I know it's so cliche, 1349 00:57:56,723 --> 00:57:58,684 but beauty fades, and I'm looking for what's in here. 1350 00:57:58,684 --> 00:58:01,561 So somebody that's gonna treat other people well 1351 00:58:01,561 --> 00:58:03,605 and that we could ultimately build together a bond 1352 00:58:03,605 --> 00:58:06,149 that's never gonna fade. 1353 00:58:07,776 --> 00:58:12,239 - What does preseason training 1354 00:58:12,239 --> 00:58:15,659 for The Bachelor look like for you? 1355 00:58:15,659 --> 00:58:17,953 - Developing my emotional intelligence. 1356 00:58:17,953 --> 00:58:20,163 That's something I'm definitely gonna do. 1357 00:58:20,163 --> 00:58:22,082 Continue to build that. And ultimately, yeah, 1358 00:58:22,082 --> 00:58:23,291 also doing like 100 pushups a day. 1359 00:58:23,291 --> 00:58:26,044 Yeah, you know? 1360 00:58:26,044 --> 00:58:28,296 - Get used to showering on-camera. 1361 00:58:28,296 --> 00:58:30,382 - Okay. 1362 00:58:30,382 --> 00:58:32,551 - Lots of soap. 1363 00:58:32,551 --> 00:58:34,261 - Lots of soap, lots of suds. Yeah, I got it. 1364 00:58:34,261 --> 00:58:37,931 - Bachelor Nation loves a good lather. 1365 00:58:37,931 --> 00:58:39,015 [ cheers and applause ] 1366 00:58:42,602 --> 00:58:45,272 I want to open it up to the panel real quick. 1367 00:58:45,272 --> 00:58:47,482 Hakeem, I'll ask you, what do you think? 1368 00:58:47,482 --> 00:58:48,066 When he got named the new Bachelor, 1369 00:58:48,066 --> 00:58:50,026 what was going through your mind? 1370 00:58:50,026 --> 00:58:51,778 - I was ecstatic. You guys are getting 1371 00:58:51,778 --> 00:58:53,655 the best Bachelor possible. 1372 00:58:53,655 --> 00:58:54,489 This guy's been a mentor for me. 1373 00:58:54,489 --> 00:58:56,825 He listens to me with my emotions, too, 1374 00:58:56,825 --> 00:58:59,286 'cause, you know, I wear my heart on my sleeves, 1375 00:58:59,286 --> 00:59:00,287 and he's always that ear that I can always go to. 1376 00:59:00,287 --> 00:59:02,581 And honestly, he's a man of God, too. 1377 00:59:02,581 --> 00:59:05,208 So he's helped me find God through him, as well. 1378 00:59:05,208 --> 00:59:07,002 So I love you to death, man. 1379 00:59:07,002 --> 00:59:09,671 GRANT: Thank you. Thank you. 1380 00:59:09,671 --> 00:59:10,964 - Having somebody come into this, 1381 00:59:10,964 --> 00:59:13,049 you know, he's the second person of color coming into this, 1382 00:59:13,049 --> 00:59:15,510 and there's not somebody 1383 00:59:15,510 --> 00:59:17,721 that I can imagine representing Bachelor Nation 1384 00:59:17,721 --> 00:59:19,431 and representing a person of color better than Grant. 1385 00:59:19,431 --> 00:59:22,017 He's gonna do an absolutely amazing job, 1386 00:59:22,017 --> 00:59:22,976 and I can't wait to see who he picks. 1387 00:59:22,976 --> 00:59:25,771 - I appreciate that. Thank you. 1388 00:59:25,771 --> 00:59:28,315 - Well, listen, Grant, congratulations again. 1389 00:59:28,315 --> 00:59:30,567 I'm so excited for you, man. I know all of Bachelor Nation, 1390 00:59:30,567 --> 00:59:33,278 they cannot wait for your journey to kick off 1391 00:59:33,278 --> 00:59:36,531 and get going. Before we let Grant go back 1392 00:59:36,531 --> 00:59:38,325 and join the rest of his buddies over here in the panel, 1393 00:59:38,325 --> 00:59:41,745 let's hear it one more time for your next Bachelor, Grant! 1394 00:59:41,745 --> 00:59:47,417 [ cheers and applause ] 1395 00:59:47,417 --> 00:59:50,170 - Thank you so much. - It's gonna be so good, bro. 1396 00:59:50,170 --> 00:59:52,464 Alright, I know it's called "The Men Tell All," 1397 00:59:52,464 --> 00:59:55,300 but there is one woman that we need to hear from. 1398 00:59:55,300 --> 00:59:56,593 I'm talking about Jenn, of course. 1399 00:59:56,593 --> 00:59:58,887 What does she have to say to all these guys? 1400 00:59:58,887 --> 01:00:00,597 We're gonna find out in just a minute, 1401 01:00:00,597 --> 01:00:01,348 so don't go away. 1402 01:00:08,647 --> 01:00:09,272 JESSE: Do you want to date our next Bachelor, Grant? 1403 01:00:09,272 --> 01:00:12,776 Apply online at abc.com/casting. 1404 01:00:14,736 --> 01:00:16,988 [ cheers and applause ] 1405 01:00:20,325 --> 01:00:21,618 Welcome back to The Bachelorette: 1406 01:00:21,618 --> 01:00:24,412 "The Men Tell All." 1407 01:00:24,412 --> 01:00:27,207 Well, it's already been a dramatic and an emotional night, 1408 01:00:27,207 --> 01:00:30,168 but what does Jenn have to say about it all? 1409 01:00:30,168 --> 01:00:33,004 I say we bring her out. Ladies and gentlemen, 1410 01:00:33,004 --> 01:00:36,216 please welcome your Bachelorette, Jenn. 1411 01:00:36,216 --> 01:00:39,094 [ cheers and applause ] 1412 01:00:44,307 --> 01:00:47,602 JENN: Hello. 1413 01:00:47,602 --> 01:00:50,856 [ Jenn and Jesse speaking indistinctly ] 1414 01:00:50,856 --> 01:00:53,608 - So good seeing you. Have a seat. 1415 01:00:53,608 --> 01:00:55,861 Oh, I've missed you. It's so good seeing you again. 1416 01:00:55,861 --> 01:00:58,321 - I've missed you. It's so good seeing you. 1417 01:00:58,321 --> 01:00:59,573 - You look stunning, as always. - Thank you. 1418 01:00:59,573 --> 01:01:01,825 - So, how does it feel? You're back here. 1419 01:01:01,825 --> 01:01:03,368 You're face to face with all these guys 1420 01:01:03,368 --> 01:01:05,579 since we got done filming. - Yeah. It's kind of crazy. 1421 01:01:05,579 --> 01:01:07,163 I mean, I'm very excited to see you all, 1422 01:01:07,163 --> 01:01:10,166 and I just I feel very nostalgic. 1423 01:01:10,166 --> 01:01:11,710 It's been such an incredible journey, 1424 01:01:11,710 --> 01:01:15,046 and I'm so excited to be here with you guys tonight. 1425 01:01:15,046 --> 01:01:16,131 JESSE: Let's embrace that nostalgia. 1426 01:01:16,131 --> 01:01:17,591 I think we got to give these guys a lot of credit, 1427 01:01:17,591 --> 01:01:20,218 'cause I think so many of them, they really opened up to you. 1428 01:01:20,218 --> 01:01:21,720 They were vulnerable for you. 1429 01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:24,389 What did that mean to you throughout this journey? 1430 01:01:24,389 --> 01:01:25,849 - So much. I mean, to have a group of men 1431 01:01:25,849 --> 01:01:28,351 who were so brave in being vulnerable 1432 01:01:28,351 --> 01:01:30,770 and taking this process so seriously, 1433 01:01:30,770 --> 01:01:34,608 I truly feel so, so lucky to have been in this journey 1434 01:01:34,608 --> 01:01:37,944 with all of you, and I wouldn't take it back for the world. 1435 01:01:37,944 --> 01:01:40,572 - This is the first time you're seeing Jonathon 1436 01:01:40,572 --> 01:01:41,323 since your breakup in Hawaii. - Yes. 1437 01:01:41,323 --> 01:01:43,867 Hi, Jonathon. JONATHON: Hi, Jenn. 1438 01:01:43,867 --> 01:01:45,327 First of all, remember the dress list that we had? 1439 01:01:45,327 --> 01:01:47,037 JENN: Yes. - This is number one now. 1440 01:01:47,037 --> 01:01:48,622 - Thank you. Wow. - For sure. 1441 01:01:48,622 --> 01:01:51,207 If you guys didn't know, 1442 01:01:51,207 --> 01:01:53,251 she's had incredible dresses throughout the season. 1443 01:01:53,251 --> 01:01:54,836 She had this purple one that was number one. 1444 01:01:54,836 --> 01:01:58,173 Now it's number two. White one is number three now. 1445 01:01:58,173 --> 01:02:00,550 Green is number one. - I'm glad you still remember. 1446 01:02:00,550 --> 01:02:02,510 - But no, I just wanted to thank you so much 1447 01:02:02,510 --> 01:02:04,387 for helping me get to a place 1448 01:02:04,387 --> 01:02:06,181 that I didn't think I could get to so quickly. 1449 01:02:06,181 --> 01:02:08,558 You know, that epiphany that I had overnight, 1450 01:02:08,558 --> 01:02:12,812 while I was too late, and, yeah, it sucked incredibly, 1451 01:02:12,812 --> 01:02:15,440 but I'd never been able to come to a conclusion 1452 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:18,109 about somebody so quick in my life. 1453 01:02:18,109 --> 01:02:22,447 And the fact that I got to that point with you in a night, 1454 01:02:22,447 --> 01:02:23,782 not only was I proud of myself for getting there that fast, 1455 01:02:23,782 --> 01:02:25,450 but I was just so happy that I 1456 01:02:25,450 --> 01:02:28,203 had the chance to even meet you, that you had that effect on me. 1457 01:02:28,203 --> 01:02:29,496 So thank you so much for everything. 1458 01:02:29,496 --> 01:02:32,707 - I really cherish those moments that we had together. 1459 01:02:32,707 --> 01:02:35,168 You have such a big, big heart. 1460 01:02:35,168 --> 01:02:38,505 You bring a smile into any room that you walk into, 1461 01:02:38,505 --> 01:02:40,590 and I'm happy to have crossed paths with you. 1462 01:02:40,590 --> 01:02:42,300 - Thank you so much. JENN: Yeah. 1463 01:02:42,300 --> 01:02:44,344 - Sam N., I know Jenn was your first girlfriend. 1464 01:02:44,344 --> 01:02:47,347 - Yeah. [ laughter ] 1465 01:02:47,347 --> 01:02:48,390 JESSE: Was also your first breakup. 1466 01:02:48,390 --> 01:02:48,932 MAN: Wait, wait. JESSE: So how does it feel 1467 01:02:48,932 --> 01:02:53,103 to see your ex for the first time? 1468 01:02:53,103 --> 01:02:57,607 - I'm very proud to have her as, you know, my first girlfriend. 1469 01:02:57,607 --> 01:03:00,110 It was hard for me when it came to emotional maturity, 1470 01:03:00,110 --> 01:03:01,861 but she was there holding my hand essentially 1471 01:03:01,861 --> 01:03:05,365 the entire time. And she said it best, you know? 1472 01:03:05,365 --> 01:03:07,450 I have a lot of love to give, and, you know, it's gonna -- 1473 01:03:07,450 --> 01:03:09,703 We're gonna find that person one day. 1474 01:03:09,703 --> 01:03:12,163 - Yeah. I will say I appreciated 1475 01:03:12,163 --> 01:03:13,707 every conversation that we had together. 1476 01:03:13,707 --> 01:03:15,875 And to be a part of your self-growth journey 1477 01:03:15,875 --> 01:03:18,420 like I truly saw it, that was really special for me. 1478 01:03:18,420 --> 01:03:20,797 And I know you're gonna find your second girlfriend 1479 01:03:20,797 --> 01:03:23,258 to have that first kiss with. 1480 01:03:23,258 --> 01:03:25,969 And I only see good things for you. 1481 01:03:25,969 --> 01:03:27,345 I'm so excited to see you thrive, truly. 1482 01:03:27,345 --> 01:03:28,304 - Really happy for you, as well. Thank you. 1483 01:03:28,304 --> 01:03:30,765 - I think one of the things I'll always remember 1484 01:03:30,765 --> 01:03:34,185 about your journey, there was a lot of drama. 1485 01:03:34,185 --> 01:03:35,770 JENN: Yeah. JESSE: You got pretty frustrated 1486 01:03:35,770 --> 01:03:39,274 when Thomas N. pulled Devin to have a confrontation with him 1487 01:03:39,274 --> 01:03:42,360 instead of actually talk with you. 1488 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,779 - I've never seen a man pull another man 1489 01:03:44,779 --> 01:03:48,366 to talk instead of me. That was -- It was different. 1490 01:03:48,366 --> 01:03:51,786 I truly felt disappointed in that moment, 1491 01:03:51,786 --> 01:03:54,205 because I had wished that you'd just pulled me aside 1492 01:03:54,205 --> 01:03:56,291 and talked to me, because you could have settled the drama 1493 01:03:56,291 --> 01:03:58,293 later on. - Yeah. 1494 01:03:58,293 --> 01:03:58,835 JENN: What I do really want to say to you 1495 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:01,463 is I appreciated so much 1496 01:04:01,463 --> 01:04:02,464 the conversation that we had on the first night, 1497 01:04:02,464 --> 01:04:03,965 being able to bond on our backgrounds 1498 01:04:03,965 --> 01:04:06,718 and our immigrant families. 1499 01:04:06,718 --> 01:04:08,386 That was such a special, special moment for me, 1500 01:04:08,386 --> 01:04:10,889 and I truly wish that, I don't know, 1501 01:04:10,889 --> 01:04:13,433 had you kept your focus on me, 1502 01:04:13,433 --> 01:04:14,684 like, maybe the journey would have turned out 1503 01:04:14,684 --> 01:04:16,269 a little bit different for you. 1504 01:04:16,269 --> 01:04:17,896 - Yeah, I 100% agree. 1505 01:04:17,896 --> 01:04:19,230 If I could do anything back, 1506 01:04:19,230 --> 01:04:21,149 it would be to not leave you alone 1507 01:04:21,149 --> 01:04:22,609 and to deal with Devin later, 1508 01:04:22,609 --> 01:04:26,696 because I left you in a stranded place by yourself. 1509 01:04:26,696 --> 01:04:28,239 And I told you it came from a place of passion, 1510 01:04:28,239 --> 01:04:30,533 but that was on me. And if I could go back 1511 01:04:30,533 --> 01:04:32,327 and do it again, it was not leave you alone. 1512 01:04:32,327 --> 01:04:36,164 - Obviously, you gave out your first impression rose to Sam M. 1513 01:04:36,164 --> 01:04:38,374 What was it about him that drew you in? 1514 01:04:38,374 --> 01:04:42,337 - Yeah, you know, we had a very genuine conversation. 1515 01:04:42,337 --> 01:04:43,880 And for me, I kept thinking back to somebody 1516 01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,465 who made me feel very comfortable. 1517 01:04:45,465 --> 01:04:47,675 And in that moment, it was Sam. 1518 01:04:47,675 --> 01:04:50,220 - Yeah, and you mentioned, though, soon after, 1519 01:04:50,220 --> 01:04:53,056 started feeling some red flags when it came to Sam. 1520 01:04:53,056 --> 01:04:55,100 So what were the alarm bells going off in the head there? 1521 01:04:55,100 --> 01:04:56,392 - There were a lot of alarm bells. 1522 01:04:56,392 --> 01:04:59,813 There were a few red flags I was adding up in my head. 1523 01:04:59,813 --> 01:05:03,066 But it really was so apparent to me 1524 01:05:03,066 --> 01:05:07,445 when I realized that this man and I didn't talk. 1525 01:05:07,445 --> 01:05:09,864 Like, we didn't have any conversations, 1526 01:05:09,864 --> 01:05:11,658 and he didn't really know me at all at the end of the day. 1527 01:05:11,658 --> 01:05:13,660 Hi, Sam. 1528 01:05:13,660 --> 01:05:16,246 Um, so, I'm gonna say this 1529 01:05:16,246 --> 01:05:18,832 in words that you're gonna understand. 1530 01:05:18,832 --> 01:05:22,585 So I'm gonna keep the main thing the main thing here. 1531 01:05:22,585 --> 01:05:25,380 And you know what? I wasn't upset 1532 01:05:25,380 --> 01:05:26,840 that you didn't know how to describe love. 1533 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:31,010 Clearly, we're on very different emotional, intellectual levels. 1534 01:05:31,010 --> 01:05:32,762 That's fine. What I was upset about, 1535 01:05:32,762 --> 01:05:34,848 though, was the fact that I watched this back 1536 01:05:34,848 --> 01:05:37,809 and saw how you interacted with all of these men, 1537 01:05:37,809 --> 01:05:38,977 huffing and puffing your chest everywhere, 1538 01:05:38,977 --> 01:05:41,396 the blatant disrespect to everybody. 1539 01:05:41,396 --> 01:05:42,981 And then on top of that, our relationship -- 1540 01:05:42,981 --> 01:05:46,734 Everything was about you the entire time, 1541 01:05:46,734 --> 01:05:48,486 how you were feeling in the moment, what you wanted to do. 1542 01:05:48,486 --> 01:05:50,155 Everything resolved around you. 1543 01:05:50,155 --> 01:05:53,116 And you watched that back. 1544 01:05:53,116 --> 01:05:54,784 And instead of growing and learning from that, 1545 01:05:54,784 --> 01:05:56,578 you decided to double down on that 1546 01:05:56,578 --> 01:05:59,164 and have your friends and family go out online 1547 01:05:59,164 --> 01:06:01,541 and defend your honor when you're a grown man. 1548 01:06:01,541 --> 01:06:05,545 And instead of taking accountability for your actions, 1549 01:06:05,545 --> 01:06:07,964 you decided to blame it on the producers, 1550 01:06:07,964 --> 01:06:10,008 the edit, the TV show, whatever it was. 1551 01:06:10,008 --> 01:06:11,176 And at the end of the day, 1552 01:06:11,176 --> 01:06:13,928 the man that I saw on TV was exactly the man 1553 01:06:13,928 --> 01:06:17,098 that I sat across from the entire journey. 1554 01:06:17,098 --> 01:06:20,185 [ cheers and applause ] 1555 01:06:23,021 --> 01:06:27,525 The thing is, I want you to be better from this. 1556 01:06:27,525 --> 01:06:31,404 But if you don't take a step back and look at what you saw 1557 01:06:31,404 --> 01:06:36,492 and take accountability for your actions and grow and learn, 1558 01:06:36,492 --> 01:06:38,953 then I feel very, very sorry for whoever you end up with, 1559 01:06:38,953 --> 01:06:42,749 because this delusion world that you're living in right now 1560 01:06:42,749 --> 01:06:45,084 and this denial is not gonna work for anybody. 1561 01:06:45,084 --> 01:06:48,796 [ cheers and applause ] 1562 01:06:48,796 --> 01:06:51,216 - Yeah, I think I came up here 1563 01:06:51,216 --> 01:06:53,843 and took a lot of accountability, uh, truthfully, 1564 01:06:53,843 --> 01:06:57,180 I definitely lost myself in some of those moments right there, 1565 01:06:57,180 --> 01:06:59,974 and I wish that I could go back and redo them, truthfully. 1566 01:06:59,974 --> 01:07:03,811 You saw walls that I had built up around my heart 1567 01:07:03,811 --> 01:07:06,231 that you saw before me. 1568 01:07:06,231 --> 01:07:08,024 And that's something that I'm, like, forever grateful for, 1569 01:07:08,024 --> 01:07:09,150 and that's something that I will be able to take 1570 01:07:09,150 --> 01:07:11,736 towards, you know, my next partner. 1571 01:07:11,736 --> 01:07:12,070 And, you know, for that, 1572 01:07:12,070 --> 01:07:14,530 I really just want to say thank you. 1573 01:07:14,530 --> 01:07:15,073 - I truly hope that you mean that 1574 01:07:15,073 --> 01:07:17,408 and you're not just saying that to say that, 1575 01:07:17,408 --> 01:07:19,744 because I do -- I do want the best for you. 1576 01:07:19,744 --> 01:07:21,704 JESSE: Okay. - Thank you. 1577 01:07:21,704 --> 01:07:24,040 - Alright, Grant. Is there anything 1578 01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,876 that you learned from Jenn that you're gonna take with you 1579 01:07:26,876 --> 01:07:29,545 on your journey as the Bachelor? 1580 01:07:29,545 --> 01:07:30,922 - Of course. The thing I'm gonna take from Jenn 1581 01:07:30,922 --> 01:07:34,217 is to stay true to yourself. And when you doubt yourself, 1582 01:07:34,217 --> 01:07:36,094 just know that you're doing this for love 1583 01:07:36,094 --> 01:07:38,930 and you're doing this for what you deserve. 1584 01:07:38,930 --> 01:07:39,973 And ultimately, I'm so proud of you. 1585 01:07:39,973 --> 01:07:41,766 I want the best for you, and I want you to have that love 1586 01:07:41,766 --> 01:07:44,811 that you are looking for. 1587 01:07:44,811 --> 01:07:47,647 You're a role model, and I'm happy for you. 1588 01:07:47,647 --> 01:07:49,357 I'm proud. JENN: Thank you so much. 1589 01:07:49,357 --> 01:07:51,192 Thank you. I mean, first, congratulations. 1590 01:07:51,192 --> 01:07:52,860 - Thank you. - Honestly, nobody deserves it 1591 01:07:52,860 --> 01:07:54,737 more than you. Throughout the entire journey, 1592 01:07:54,737 --> 01:07:58,074 you were so yourself, 1593 01:07:58,074 --> 01:08:00,952 and you opened your heart up truly since day one. 1594 01:08:00,952 --> 01:08:02,912 I know you're going to do amazing things on your journey, 1595 01:08:02,912 --> 01:08:04,914 and I'm so excited for that. 1596 01:08:04,914 --> 01:08:06,040 - Thank you. 1597 01:08:10,336 --> 01:08:11,004 JESSE: Alright, Jenn, don't go anywhere. 1598 01:08:11,004 --> 01:08:13,339 We've got some more to talk about. 1599 01:08:13,339 --> 01:08:15,508 Plus, some Bachelor Nation fan favorites are here, 1600 01:08:15,508 --> 01:08:18,970 and you don't want to miss the juicy surprises 1601 01:08:18,970 --> 01:08:20,638 that we've got in store. Stick around. 1602 01:08:32,233 --> 01:08:34,569 - Welcome back to "The Men Tell All." 1603 01:08:34,569 --> 01:08:37,530 Of course I'm here with our Bachelorette, Jenn. 1604 01:08:37,530 --> 01:08:39,490 And a little later tonight, we're gonna get a sneak peek 1605 01:08:39,490 --> 01:08:42,285 at the truly shocking and unprecedented way 1606 01:08:42,285 --> 01:08:44,537 her journey ends. But of course, 1607 01:08:44,537 --> 01:08:44,872 that's not the only thing about this season 1608 01:08:44,872 --> 01:08:46,456 that's unprecedented. 1609 01:08:46,456 --> 01:08:47,832 Jenn, of course, you're the very first 1610 01:08:47,832 --> 01:08:50,710 Asian American Bachelorette. 1611 01:08:50,710 --> 01:08:52,503 - Yes. 1612 01:08:52,503 --> 01:08:55,465 [ cheers and applause ] 1613 01:08:55,465 --> 01:08:57,633 JESSE: I've heard you say that in the past, 1614 01:08:57,633 --> 01:09:01,137 you've mostly seen Asian American women 1615 01:09:01,137 --> 01:09:02,055 in supportive roles. 1616 01:09:02,055 --> 01:09:05,224 - Absolutely, especially in the media. 1617 01:09:05,224 --> 01:09:08,186 We've always been cast to fit some kind of stereotype. 1618 01:09:08,186 --> 01:09:11,189 We're the docile Asian, 1619 01:09:11,189 --> 01:09:12,690 the nerdy Asian, the quiet Asian, whatever it is. 1620 01:09:12,690 --> 01:09:13,024 But we're never the main character. 1621 01:09:13,024 --> 01:09:15,234 We never have our own story. 1622 01:09:15,234 --> 01:09:17,278 It's always something to be disposed of, 1623 01:09:17,278 --> 01:09:19,489 something to fill space, right? 1624 01:09:19,489 --> 01:09:21,824 I've never seen it celebrated before. 1625 01:09:21,824 --> 01:09:25,536 And in terms of supporting roles, 1626 01:09:25,536 --> 01:09:27,497 I've also seen it growing up, you know? 1627 01:09:27,497 --> 01:09:31,709 Vietnamese culture is so deeply rooted in patriarchy. 1628 01:09:31,709 --> 01:09:34,587 That's the -- That's been passed on for generations. 1629 01:09:34,587 --> 01:09:36,881 You know, my dad was the head of the household. 1630 01:09:36,881 --> 01:09:39,634 He made all the decisions. He had a voice, 1631 01:09:39,634 --> 01:09:42,220 whereas my mom really didn't. And from that, I've learned 1632 01:09:42,220 --> 01:09:44,889 that I don't want to be in a relationship like that. 1633 01:09:44,889 --> 01:09:47,100 And she doesn't want me to be in a relationship like that, 1634 01:09:47,100 --> 01:09:49,185 because she knows that we can hold our own, 1635 01:09:49,185 --> 01:09:51,187 we can take up space, and we can have a voice. 1636 01:09:51,187 --> 01:09:56,150 So it's moments like that where I feel 1637 01:09:56,150 --> 01:09:58,653 like this whole journey has really come together for me. 1638 01:09:58,653 --> 01:09:59,696 - And what's the response been 1639 01:09:59,696 --> 01:10:02,031 from the Vietnamese American community 1640 01:10:02,031 --> 01:10:02,990 since you were named The Bachelorette? 1641 01:10:02,990 --> 01:10:05,284 - Absolutely amazing. 1642 01:10:05,284 --> 01:10:08,496 I've been so overwhelmed by all of the support. 1643 01:10:08,496 --> 01:10:11,290 And everyone's been like, 1644 01:10:11,290 --> 01:10:12,041 "We've never seen Vietnamese food on TV before. 1645 01:10:12,041 --> 01:10:13,918 We've never seen the Vietnamese language 1646 01:10:13,918 --> 01:10:15,461 being spoken on TV before." 1647 01:10:15,461 --> 01:10:19,841 And I understood what that meant to everybody, 1648 01:10:19,841 --> 01:10:21,384 because growing up, I've always wanted that. 1649 01:10:21,384 --> 01:10:25,138 It's like this community just all of a sudden came alive, 1650 01:10:25,138 --> 01:10:27,056 and people felt a sense of belonging. 1651 01:10:27,056 --> 01:10:29,267 And knowing that I was able to make some people feel 1652 01:10:29,267 --> 01:10:30,852 a little bit less alone, 1653 01:10:30,852 --> 01:10:34,105 it brings it full circle for me, 1654 01:10:34,105 --> 01:10:34,730 and it's been a healing experience. 1655 01:10:34,730 --> 01:10:37,275 JESSE: Yeah. 1656 01:10:37,275 --> 01:10:37,984 JENN: I mean, I knew that when I took on the role, 1657 01:10:37,984 --> 01:10:41,654 I was going to ruffle some feathers 1658 01:10:41,654 --> 01:10:42,822 within the Vietnamese community. 1659 01:10:42,822 --> 01:10:44,824 And my mom probably would have preferred 1660 01:10:44,824 --> 01:10:46,492 if I didn't become the Bachelorette. 1661 01:10:46,492 --> 01:10:48,494 Dating multiple men, intimacy, kissing, all this stuff, 1662 01:10:48,494 --> 01:10:52,915 like, that's all very, very private. 1663 01:10:52,915 --> 01:10:55,251 And it's not something to be put on display, especially on TV. 1664 01:10:55,251 --> 01:10:58,004 And for her to be so traditionally Vietnamese, 1665 01:10:58,004 --> 01:11:01,132 it is difficult for her to watch that, 1666 01:11:01,132 --> 01:11:02,425 'cause that's not something she would want for herself. 1667 01:11:02,425 --> 01:11:05,011 And so we have hard conversations every day, 1668 01:11:05,011 --> 01:11:08,097 but I'm so happy 1669 01:11:08,097 --> 01:11:11,517 that I was able to be my most authentic self in this journey 1670 01:11:11,517 --> 01:11:13,144 and show people that you can be a blend of both cultures, 1671 01:11:13,144 --> 01:11:15,438 and that's gonna be unique to yourself, 1672 01:11:15,438 --> 01:11:18,024 however you want to embody that. 1673 01:11:18,024 --> 01:11:20,359 - Yeah. Well, when I think back on your journey, 1674 01:11:20,359 --> 01:11:24,030 it was so transformational. That's how it felt to me. 1675 01:11:24,030 --> 01:11:25,406 It was like a metamorphosis in some ways. 1676 01:11:25,406 --> 01:11:27,450 - Yeah. JESSE: Jenn sitting 1677 01:11:27,450 --> 01:11:28,826 in that chair right now... - Oh, gosh. 1678 01:11:28,826 --> 01:11:31,245 - ...what would you tell Jenn from night one? 1679 01:11:31,245 --> 01:11:33,080 JENN: I would tell Jenn from night one 1680 01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:35,875 that it's okay to express emotion, 1681 01:11:35,875 --> 01:11:39,879 to be your most vulnerable self whenever you feel like it. 1682 01:11:39,879 --> 01:11:41,672 And it doesn't even have to be a sad emotion. 1683 01:11:41,672 --> 01:11:44,175 Whether you're angry, you're happy, you're distraught, 1684 01:11:44,175 --> 01:11:46,177 you want to be mean, whatever it is, like, 1685 01:11:46,177 --> 01:11:49,222 everybody has them, you know? It's okay to express those. 1686 01:11:49,222 --> 01:11:51,682 It doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you. 1687 01:11:51,682 --> 01:11:53,684 It means that you're working on them. 1688 01:11:53,684 --> 01:11:56,812 - It's hard to imagine that your journey really started 1689 01:11:56,812 --> 01:11:57,814 right here on this very stage, 1690 01:11:57,814 --> 01:12:00,274 when you were announced to be the next Bachelorette 1691 01:12:00,274 --> 01:12:04,612 by your friend and our last Bachelorette, Charity Lawson. 1692 01:12:04,612 --> 01:12:06,447 And Charity is actually live in our audience 1693 01:12:06,447 --> 01:12:08,407 with us here tonight. 1694 01:12:08,407 --> 01:12:10,660 She's here with her amazing fiancé, Dotun. 1695 01:12:10,660 --> 01:12:12,411 [ cheers and applause ] 1696 01:12:12,411 --> 01:12:15,081 Charity, Dotun, great seeing you both. 1697 01:12:15,081 --> 01:12:17,708 How we doing? - We're doing good. Yeah. 1698 01:12:17,708 --> 01:12:19,836 - Well, Charity, obviously you've been watching Jenn 1699 01:12:19,836 --> 01:12:21,504 on her journey. How you think she's doing so far? 1700 01:12:21,504 --> 01:12:24,131 - Jenn, I think you're absolutely crushing it. 1701 01:12:24,131 --> 01:12:28,803 And it's been phenomenal just watching your journey back 1702 01:12:28,803 --> 01:12:31,597 just like the rest of America. I've seen a lot of growth. 1703 01:12:31,597 --> 01:12:34,475 I just want to say I'm really proud of you, and I hope 1704 01:12:34,475 --> 01:12:36,102 that everything you've come into this journey wanting, 1705 01:12:36,102 --> 01:12:38,354 you've achieved. 1706 01:12:38,354 --> 01:12:40,189 Just wishing you the absolute best. 1707 01:12:40,189 --> 01:12:43,192 - Thank you so, so, so much. It's so good to see you. 1708 01:12:43,192 --> 01:12:44,443 - Well, Charity, I want to ask you and Dotun 1709 01:12:44,443 --> 01:12:46,028 what's going on in your lives now? 1710 01:12:46,028 --> 01:12:48,197 - We're living in Brooklyn. We absolutely love it. 1711 01:12:48,197 --> 01:12:51,158 We're in the heat of wedding planning. 1712 01:12:51,158 --> 01:12:53,536 That's obviously a mountain that we're trying to climb, 1713 01:12:53,536 --> 01:12:56,789 slowly but surely. But it's going good. 1714 01:12:56,789 --> 01:12:59,333 So we're just living life and still in love. 1715 01:12:59,333 --> 01:13:02,169 - I know you're also traveling together, 1716 01:13:02,169 --> 01:13:04,714 because I saw some photos of the two of you in Greece. 1717 01:13:04,714 --> 01:13:05,840 It looked amazing. - Yes, we finally got there, 1718 01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:08,384 and it was the best time. 1719 01:13:08,384 --> 01:13:09,969 Dotun did get sick, though, for part of the trip. 1720 01:13:09,969 --> 01:13:12,471 He got the flu, which was a little bit bummed out, 1721 01:13:12,471 --> 01:13:15,182 but we still made the most of the trip, so, yeah. 1722 01:13:15,182 --> 01:13:17,935 - Man, I gotta say, that is no way 1723 01:13:17,935 --> 01:13:19,937 to start the next chapter of your lives together. 1724 01:13:19,937 --> 01:13:21,772 - Not quite. - Not quite. 1725 01:13:21,772 --> 01:13:22,189 We're working on it. 1726 01:13:22,189 --> 01:13:25,192 JESSE: So, our friends at ABC 1727 01:13:25,192 --> 01:13:28,404 have put together a little surprise for you. 1728 01:13:28,404 --> 01:13:32,617 ABC is sending you guys back to Greece... 1729 01:13:32,617 --> 01:13:34,535 - Shut up. JESSE: ...for what will 1730 01:13:34,535 --> 01:13:38,289 hopefully this time really be 1731 01:13:38,289 --> 01:13:42,877 the vacation of your dreams. 1732 01:13:42,877 --> 01:13:44,253 Charity, Dotun, enjoy it. 1733 01:13:44,253 --> 01:13:46,255 You both deserve it. Have so much fun. 1734 01:13:46,255 --> 01:13:49,091 Let's hear it for Charity and Dotun, everybody. 1735 01:13:49,091 --> 01:13:51,510 [ cheers and applause ] 1736 01:13:51,510 --> 01:13:53,804 Alright. Jenn. JENN: Yes. 1737 01:13:53,804 --> 01:13:54,513 - Don't go anywhere, because when we come back, 1738 01:13:54,513 --> 01:13:57,058 we've got bloopers. 1739 01:13:57,058 --> 01:13:58,851 That's right. Don't go away. 1740 01:14:08,527 --> 01:14:10,988 - Welcome back, Bachelor Nation. 1741 01:14:10,988 --> 01:14:12,448 Well, it's been a really fun night. 1742 01:14:12,448 --> 01:14:15,159 And it's about to get a whole lot more fun, because, 1743 01:14:15,159 --> 01:14:17,703 yes, you know what time it is. 1744 01:14:17,703 --> 01:14:20,956 - It's blooper time! 1745 01:14:20,956 --> 01:14:23,167 - Roll the tape! 1746 01:14:25,336 --> 01:14:27,171 - I love all you guys. You guys are amazing men. 1747 01:14:27,171 --> 01:14:29,340 I'm so happy for you, Spencer. 1748 01:14:29,340 --> 01:14:31,676 I mean, I'm like, man, I wish that was me. 1749 01:14:31,676 --> 01:14:35,304 It's like a tug of war that I'm playing with myself. 1750 01:14:35,304 --> 01:14:37,723 [ laughter, men speaking indistinctly ] 1751 01:14:37,723 --> 01:14:40,518 - Keep those thoughts to yourself, Hakeem. 1752 01:14:40,518 --> 01:14:42,895 - Can we cut that one out, please? 1753 01:14:42,895 --> 01:14:45,356 - No, leave that [bleep] in. 1754 01:14:45,356 --> 01:14:47,942 - Every decision you're making just gives me so much confidence 1755 01:14:47,942 --> 01:14:51,112 in how I feel about you. 1756 01:14:51,112 --> 01:14:52,655 It's been like a little bit of a liberating feeling 1757 01:14:52,655 --> 01:14:53,823 a little bit. Yeah. JENN: Right? It is -- 1758 01:14:53,823 --> 01:14:56,659 [ alarm blaring ] 1759 01:14:56,659 --> 01:15:00,663 Oh, no. If you guys are messing up my time, I swear. 1760 01:15:00,663 --> 01:15:03,499 JENN: D. Dawg. D. Dawg. 1761 01:15:03,499 --> 01:15:06,627 - On camera, D. Dawg? 1762 01:15:06,627 --> 01:15:10,339 - John Boy? J. Boy? Thon Boy? 1763 01:15:10,339 --> 01:15:13,634 My little medium king, where'd you go? 1764 01:15:13,634 --> 01:15:16,220 - To a woman that always puts a smile on my face. 1765 01:15:16,220 --> 01:15:18,014 - Wow, Jer Bear. 1766 01:15:18,014 --> 01:15:19,473 - Jer Bear? MAN: That's cute. 1767 01:15:19,473 --> 01:15:21,892 - Jer Bear! Jer Bear. Jer Bear. 1768 01:15:21,892 --> 01:15:23,477 It's always a good time with Jer Bear. 1769 01:15:23,477 --> 01:15:26,105 Said today was Jenn and Jer Bear day -- 1770 01:15:39,535 --> 01:15:43,122 [ fart ] 1771 01:15:43,122 --> 01:15:45,750 - Wouldn't be a rose ceremony if I didn't fart. 1772 01:15:45,750 --> 01:15:46,500 - You really can't control yourself. 1773 01:15:46,500 --> 01:15:47,877 - No. 1774 01:15:47,877 --> 01:15:50,337 MAN: Can we do a toast? 1775 01:15:50,337 --> 01:15:52,256 - I'm just happy to be here. Let's vibe. Let's party. 1776 01:15:52,256 --> 01:15:54,717 Let's get it. MAN: Yeah. Oh, cheers. 1777 01:15:54,717 --> 01:15:57,470 - I'm not drinking this [bleep] though. This is ass. 1778 01:15:57,470 --> 01:15:58,637 - Bro, it's terrible. AUSTIN: This is awful, man. 1779 01:15:58,637 --> 01:16:00,056 MAN: Can I get a different drink? 1780 01:16:00,056 --> 01:16:03,225 JENN: I don't think I like this. 1781 01:16:03,225 --> 01:16:05,478 This feels so wrong in so many ways. 1782 01:16:05,478 --> 01:16:07,813 My blister hurts. JONATHON: It's gross. 1783 01:16:07,813 --> 01:16:09,231 Oh, my God. Your Band-Aid's coming off. 1784 01:16:09,231 --> 01:16:12,485 Your Band-Aid's coming off. JENN: Don't look at the blister. 1785 01:16:12,485 --> 01:16:15,696 Today we're at the local -- No, we're not. 1786 01:16:15,696 --> 01:16:18,407 I'm such a form of -- I'm such -- 1787 01:16:18,407 --> 01:16:21,410 Well, we are at the historic theater -- [Bleep] hell. 1788 01:16:21,410 --> 01:16:23,579 - I'm gonna do whatever I can to, you know, impress Jess, 1789 01:16:23,579 --> 01:16:27,666 so -- Jess. Oh, my gosh. Jenn. 1790 01:16:27,666 --> 01:16:29,794 JONATHON: Ooh. 1791 01:16:29,794 --> 01:16:31,796 - What? - There's a bee. 1792 01:16:31,796 --> 01:16:33,839 - Oh, my God! Aah! No! 1793 01:16:33,839 --> 01:16:36,175 MAN: Beautiful. - Whoa! 1794 01:16:36,175 --> 01:16:38,177 [ animal chirps ] - Oh [bleep] 1795 01:16:38,177 --> 01:16:39,762 What the [bleep] is that? What the [bleep] is that? 1796 01:16:39,762 --> 01:16:41,138 - Make sure to zoom in on that turd there. 1797 01:16:41,138 --> 01:16:43,682 MAN: Yeah, that's right. 1798 01:16:43,682 --> 01:16:45,267 [ Jenn laughs ] 1799 01:16:45,267 --> 01:16:46,018 - Oh. 1800 01:16:46,018 --> 01:16:48,270 [ Jonathon speaks indistinctly ] 1801 01:16:48,270 --> 01:16:50,898 [ objects crashing ] 1802 01:16:50,898 --> 01:16:52,608 - Ooh! 1803 01:16:52,608 --> 01:16:53,692 MAN: Oh, God. 1804 01:17:00,491 --> 01:17:02,118 - Well, we really did share a lot of laughs this season. 1805 01:17:02,118 --> 01:17:05,621 Oh, and there was -- There was one moment 1806 01:17:05,621 --> 01:17:07,832 that, I don't know, I wouldn't exactly call a blooper, 1807 01:17:07,832 --> 01:17:10,835 but I thought that it was very, very funny. 1808 01:17:10,835 --> 01:17:14,338 And it involved a man and a spider. 1809 01:17:14,338 --> 01:17:15,965 Let's roll the tape. JENN: Oh. 1810 01:17:15,965 --> 01:17:19,760 - So, so far, doing this photo shoot, 1811 01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:23,806 we got guys having a owl. 1812 01:17:23,806 --> 01:17:27,476 Somebody had a sweet, little, furry animal that was so cute. 1813 01:17:27,476 --> 01:17:27,977 I'm thinking, give me, like, a koala bear. 1814 01:17:27,977 --> 01:17:29,979 XAVIER: Your model is Goldie. 1815 01:17:33,816 --> 01:17:34,775 - Whoo! 1816 01:17:34,775 --> 01:17:36,193 [ laughter ] 1817 01:17:36,193 --> 01:17:40,406 Whoo! Whoo, whoo, whoo! 1818 01:17:40,406 --> 01:17:40,990 JENN: Is she venomous? XAVIER: Not venomous, okay? 1819 01:17:40,990 --> 01:17:44,201 Or mildly venomous. Eh. 1820 01:17:44,201 --> 01:17:44,827 HAKEEM: Oh. JENN: It's okay. 1821 01:17:44,827 --> 01:17:47,830 Okay, okay. Oh [bleep] 1822 01:17:47,830 --> 01:17:48,372 XAVIER: You're doing it, man. You're doing it. Hey, relax. 1823 01:17:48,372 --> 01:17:49,874 JENN: You got it! 1824 01:17:49,874 --> 01:17:50,209 HAKEEM: I'm not about the moving. 1825 01:17:50,209 --> 01:17:53,002 That [bleep] moving. JENN: It's okay. 1826 01:17:53,002 --> 01:17:55,129 XAVIER: It can sometimes run up your arm. 1827 01:17:55,129 --> 01:17:56,714 If it does happen, just stay still. 1828 01:17:56,714 --> 01:17:58,424 - Don't put that [bleep] on my neck! 1829 01:17:58,424 --> 01:17:59,508 Don't put that [bleep] on my neck! 1830 01:17:59,508 --> 01:18:01,635 JENN: It's not on your neck. It's not on your neck. 1831 01:18:01,635 --> 01:18:03,512 - I might have to just scoop it up. 1832 01:18:03,512 --> 01:18:04,680 - Where is it? Oh, oh, oh. - It's not... 1833 01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:05,973 - Okay. - You're good. 1834 01:18:05,973 --> 01:18:07,349 - Good job, man. - Oh, thank you. 1835 01:18:07,349 --> 01:18:10,102 Thank you. Thank you. 1836 01:18:10,102 --> 01:18:11,312 Thank you. 1837 01:18:14,982 --> 01:18:17,401 - Hakeem, what was the deal with that, man? 1838 01:18:17,401 --> 01:18:19,695 - Honestly, I blacked out. I was squeezing her hand to death. 1839 01:18:19,695 --> 01:18:23,032 I almost broke her hand. - That was a tight grip. 1840 01:18:23,032 --> 01:18:25,159 Very tight grip. - Which I am so sorry, but -- 1841 01:18:25,159 --> 01:18:26,535 - Don't worry. - Yeah, you comforted me 1842 01:18:26,535 --> 01:18:29,747 very well then, so I appreciate you. Shout-out you for that. 1843 01:18:29,747 --> 01:18:32,833 But never again. Never again. 1844 01:18:32,833 --> 01:18:34,293 - Never again? HAKEEM: Never on that. 1845 01:18:34,293 --> 01:18:37,546 - Okay. You know, Paradise is coming back next summer. 1846 01:18:37,546 --> 01:18:40,633 And I'm just saying, in the off-chance 1847 01:18:40,633 --> 01:18:43,177 that you were going to be there, 1848 01:18:43,177 --> 01:18:45,262 there could be bugs. - Nah, man. Come on. 1849 01:18:45,262 --> 01:18:48,015 JESSE: Listen, you might see one. 1850 01:18:48,015 --> 01:18:51,727 So I had this idea of how you might best prepare yourself. 1851 01:18:51,727 --> 01:18:54,939 - Nah, man. 1852 01:18:54,939 --> 01:18:56,982 JENN: What's going on? 1853 01:18:56,982 --> 01:18:58,108 - Hakeem, have a seat over here for me. 1854 01:18:58,108 --> 01:18:58,984 - Where? 1855 01:19:05,199 --> 01:19:05,908 JENN: You got it. You're so strong. 1856 01:19:05,908 --> 01:19:08,160 - You got this. - You're so strong. 1857 01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:10,913 You got this. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 1858 01:19:10,913 --> 01:19:12,539 No, no. - I'd like to offer you this. 1859 01:19:12,539 --> 01:19:15,167 - No! No, no. What is that? 1860 01:19:15,167 --> 01:19:17,503 HANDLER: This is the world's largest spider. 1861 01:19:17,503 --> 01:19:19,046 - Aw, hell no. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 1862 01:19:19,046 --> 01:19:21,298 We don't gotta -- No. MAN: Yeah, no, that's big. 1863 01:19:21,298 --> 01:19:21,840 HAKEEM: It's different. It's different now. 1864 01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:24,593 No, I'm not doing this for no reason. 1865 01:19:24,593 --> 01:19:25,594 -I mean, it'll be on your crotch. Just put down there, 1866 01:19:25,594 --> 01:19:28,180 and we'll put it right -- See where your tie is? 1867 01:19:28,180 --> 01:19:31,308 - I was doing it for you that time. Why? 1868 01:19:31,308 --> 01:19:32,017 - I -- JENN: Do it for yourself. 1869 01:19:32,017 --> 01:19:34,228 - It'll be fun. Trust me. You can do this. 1870 01:19:34,228 --> 01:19:38,399 - [ chanting ] Hakeem, Hakeem, Hakeem, Hakeem. 1871 01:19:38,399 --> 01:19:42,611 CROWD: [ chanting ] Hakeem, Hakeem, Hakeem, Hakeem! 1872 01:19:42,611 --> 01:19:44,780 - Alright, come on, come on. We got it. How we gonna do this? 1873 01:19:44,780 --> 01:19:45,447 - I'm just gonna tickle her bum, 1874 01:19:45,447 --> 01:19:47,908 and she'll go onto your lap, and that's it. 1875 01:19:47,908 --> 01:19:49,702 - Oh [bleep] HANDLER: What? 1876 01:19:49,702 --> 01:19:50,327 HAKEEM: Just put it on my legs. 1877 01:19:50,327 --> 01:19:52,997 Don't put it on my body. Please, bro. Please. 1878 01:19:52,997 --> 01:19:54,081 HANDLER: Okay, but don't move your legs then. 1879 01:19:54,081 --> 01:19:55,541 - I won't move my legs. - Okay, don't move them. 1880 01:19:55,541 --> 01:20:00,546 - But grab that [bleep] if I say grab that [bleep] okay? 1881 01:20:00,546 --> 01:20:00,881 - Just be nice and calm. 1882 01:20:00,881 --> 01:20:02,298 - Oh! [Bleep] 1883 01:20:02,298 --> 01:20:05,092 [ audience screaming ] 1884 01:20:05,092 --> 01:20:06,885 [ grunting ] 1885 01:20:06,885 --> 01:20:10,806 [ cheers and applause ] 1886 01:20:10,806 --> 01:20:13,892 MAN: Whoo! MAN #2: Oh, God. 1887 01:20:13,892 --> 01:20:14,935 [ men shouting indistinctly ] 1888 01:20:17,730 --> 01:20:19,064 HANDLER: It's not so bad, is it? HAKEEM: No, no, it's good. 1889 01:20:19,064 --> 01:20:21,483 HANDLER: I'm gonna pick her up now. 1890 01:20:21,483 --> 01:20:22,776 HAKEEM: Okay, cool. HANDLER: Yeah. Just relax. 1891 01:20:22,776 --> 01:20:23,902 MAN: Like that. MAN #2: Okay. 1892 01:20:23,902 --> 01:20:24,862 HANDLER: Everything's fine. 1893 01:20:24,862 --> 01:20:25,279 - Aah. 1894 01:20:25,279 --> 01:20:28,282 Aah. 1895 01:20:28,282 --> 01:20:30,075 - Everything's fine. - Aah, get that -- 1896 01:20:30,075 --> 01:20:31,535 MAN: Oh, my God. HAKEEM: Please. 1897 01:20:31,535 --> 01:20:33,579 Get that! 1898 01:20:33,579 --> 01:20:35,706 [ cheers and applause ] 1899 01:20:38,375 --> 01:20:42,504 - [ chanting ] Hakeem! Hakeem! Hakeem! Hakeem! 1900 01:20:42,504 --> 01:20:45,549 [ indistinct conversations ] - You did it, baby. 1901 01:20:45,549 --> 01:20:49,053 - Well, Hakeem, you're clearly not afraid to take risks, 1902 01:20:49,053 --> 01:20:51,388 and everybody loves you. 1903 01:20:51,388 --> 01:20:53,015 So if you're still single, I want to extend to you 1904 01:20:53,015 --> 01:20:55,809 the second official invitation to Paradise. 1905 01:20:55,809 --> 01:20:58,687 What do you say? - Absolutely. 1906 01:20:58,687 --> 01:20:59,688 JESSE: Yeah! 1907 01:20:59,688 --> 01:21:03,776 [ cheers and applause ] 1908 01:21:03,776 --> 01:21:05,611 Alright, when we come back, 1909 01:21:05,611 --> 01:21:08,322 we've got an exclusive first look at 1910 01:21:08,322 --> 01:21:10,908 the groundbreaking season finale of The Bachelorette. 1911 01:21:10,908 --> 01:21:13,327 Everybody's gonna be talking about this one. 1912 01:21:13,327 --> 01:21:13,994 We're gonna be right back. 1913 01:21:23,462 --> 01:21:24,880 - Welcome back to The Bachelorette: 1914 01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:27,049 "The Men Tell All." It has been such an incredible night, 1915 01:21:27,049 --> 01:21:30,260 but we're not done yet. 1916 01:21:30,260 --> 01:21:33,347 Next week, Jenn's trailblazing journey comes to a conclusion 1917 01:21:33,347 --> 01:21:35,349 that everybody is gonna be talking about. 1918 01:21:35,349 --> 01:21:36,475 So how is this all gonna end for her? 1919 01:21:36,475 --> 01:21:40,062 Well, obviously I can't give too much away, but I will say this. 1920 01:21:40,062 --> 01:21:45,526 You are going to be on the edge of your seat the entire time. 1921 01:21:45,526 --> 01:21:49,154 Here's a sneak peek at Jenn's final days in Hawaii. 1922 01:21:51,990 --> 01:21:57,037 - I'm feeling so lucky and excited. 1923 01:21:57,037 --> 01:21:59,414 I truly am in love with Marcus and Devin. 1924 01:21:59,414 --> 01:22:02,000 I never thought that I could love one person, let alone two, 1925 01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:06,797 so I have a really big decision to make. 1926 01:22:06,797 --> 01:22:09,049 - Hi, you. - Hello, hello. 1927 01:22:09,049 --> 01:22:14,638 Devin is constantly someone who lifts me up no matter what. 1928 01:22:14,638 --> 01:22:15,430 - You are the most important thing in my life. 1929 01:22:15,430 --> 01:22:18,684 I love the thought of forever with you. 1930 01:22:18,684 --> 01:22:22,229 JENN: With Marcus, he gives me safety, gives me comfortability. 1931 01:22:22,229 --> 01:22:25,440 - Jenn has made me realize that I'm well on my way 1932 01:22:25,440 --> 01:22:26,650 to find true love. 1933 01:22:26,650 --> 01:22:29,862 JENN: I'm so excited about each of these men, 1934 01:22:29,862 --> 01:22:33,699 but I've never introduced someone to my family before. 1935 01:22:33,699 --> 01:22:35,284 - You know, I'm the protective brother, 1936 01:22:35,284 --> 01:22:36,869 and I want what's best for her. - Absolutely. Absolutely. 1937 01:22:36,869 --> 01:22:39,830 You know, I would really love to have your blessing 1938 01:22:39,830 --> 01:22:42,332 to propose to her. 1939 01:22:42,332 --> 01:22:44,293 - I'm definitely not gonna give the blessing. 1940 01:22:44,293 --> 01:22:45,711 DEVIN: That scares me that they may not see it with Jenn and I. 1941 01:22:54,553 --> 01:22:58,015 JENN: Talking to my mom, I am worried. 1942 01:22:58,015 --> 01:23:02,019 - Are you really fall in love with Jenn yet or not? 1943 01:23:02,019 --> 01:23:04,563 - I want to get there for her. 1944 01:23:04,563 --> 01:23:05,939 - So you're not ready for engage, huh? 1945 01:23:05,939 --> 01:23:08,567 MARCUS: I didn't think that 1946 01:23:08,567 --> 01:23:11,403 that conversation was gonna go the way that it went. 1947 01:23:11,403 --> 01:23:14,573 - Your history with people who are emotionally unavailable, 1948 01:23:14,573 --> 01:23:17,201 how long are you willing to wait? 1949 01:23:17,201 --> 01:23:20,704 - My brother's right. I don't want to repeat history. 1950 01:23:20,704 --> 01:23:22,206 - As scared as I am, this week has been a lot of doubts 1951 01:23:22,206 --> 01:23:24,833 and back and forth in my head. 1952 01:23:24,833 --> 01:23:26,293 JENN: The certainty in our relationship 1953 01:23:26,293 --> 01:23:29,588 is just dwindling down. 1954 01:23:29,588 --> 01:23:30,964 [ crying ] I'm just tired of it. I don't want to feel this way. 1955 01:23:30,964 --> 01:23:34,051 - I'm struggling. 1956 01:23:34,051 --> 01:23:37,179 - We're running out of time. - I know. 1957 01:23:37,179 --> 01:23:37,679 [ voice breaking ] I know that I love you. 1958 01:23:37,679 --> 01:23:40,140 I don't want to give up on us. 1959 01:23:48,440 --> 01:23:51,568 JENN: I really need to follow my heart today. 1960 01:23:51,568 --> 01:23:53,445 - You sure you want to do this? 1961 01:24:00,869 --> 01:24:02,412 JENN: What I'm about to do today 1962 01:24:02,412 --> 01:24:04,915 is something that I never thought that I would ever do. 1963 01:24:08,877 --> 01:24:11,672 But I have to do what's right for me. 1964 01:24:14,091 --> 01:24:15,968 I can't let you propose to me. 1965 01:24:33,110 --> 01:24:36,989 [ cheers and applause ] 1966 01:24:36,989 --> 01:24:40,617 - Alright, well, join me next Tuesday -- 1967 01:24:40,617 --> 01:24:42,286 It's not Monday, but Tuesday. 1968 01:24:42,286 --> 01:24:47,374 That's September 3rd -- for the three-hour live finale 1969 01:24:47,374 --> 01:24:49,459 that promises to be one of the most surprising 1970 01:24:49,459 --> 01:24:52,504 and emotional endings in Bachelorette history. 1971 01:24:52,504 --> 01:24:54,089 Big question. Will Jenn finally find 1972 01:24:54,089 --> 01:24:56,550 the ferocious love that she's been after? 1973 01:24:56,550 --> 01:24:59,803 This is the jaw-dropping conclusion 1974 01:24:59,803 --> 01:25:00,762 that you've all been waiting for. 1975 01:25:00,762 --> 01:25:03,098 So, I want to say a big thank-you again 1976 01:25:03,098 --> 01:25:03,890 to all the guys who joined us here tonight... 1977 01:25:03,890 --> 01:25:06,310 [ cheers and applause ] 1978 01:25:06,310 --> 01:25:10,063 ...to our Bachelor Nation family... 1979 01:25:10,063 --> 01:25:14,359 to our next Bachelor, Grant... 1980 01:25:14,359 --> 01:25:18,155 and of course, to the amazing Jenn. 1981 01:25:18,155 --> 01:25:20,741 You're just the best. 1982 01:25:20,741 --> 01:25:23,702 Obviously a big thanks to our studio audience. 1983 01:25:23,702 --> 01:25:25,037 For everybody here and to all of you, 1984 01:25:25,037 --> 01:25:27,080 Bachelor Nation, I'm Jesse Palmer. 1985 01:25:27,080 --> 01:25:29,624 We'll see you next Tuesday! 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