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‐ Tonight
on "The Bachelorette"...
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‐ Truth and honesty
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in a relationship
is everything.
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‐ Have you ever cheated
on someone?
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‐ Yes.
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I hated today.
‐ Why?
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Cheating's nothing
I will tolerate.
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Every time I talk to him,
I uncover something
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that I'm just like,
"Hold on a second."
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[dramatic music]
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‐ The timeframe of proposing
is scary.
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That's the truth.
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‐ When you bring that
into the equation,
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that makes it really real.
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‐ Is today the day
I let myself go?
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[crying]
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‐ But first...
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‐ Whoo!
‐ Oh, God.
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He's gonna be trouble.
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‐ From the moment he arrived,
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Noah had Tayshia's attention.
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‐ I kinda knew
I'd make some enemies.
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‐ And a target on his back.
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‐ [bleep] Noah!
I wanna go at this guy.
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‐ There's zero chance
that you end up with Tayshia.
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‐ They're acting
like a bunch of [bleep].
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‐ Can you imagine having
an argument with a 14 year old?
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That's how I feel right now.
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I'm not on "The Babysitter."
I'm on "The Bachelorette."
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‐ Noah and Bennett,
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there's something going on
between you two.
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‐ Will a two‐on‐one
settle the score?
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‐ There are four components
of emotional intelligence.
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You are deficient
in three of those four.
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‐ This teenage boy drama
is ridiculous.
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‐ I'm not going home
because some snob
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tried to drag my name
through the mud.
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‐ Who stays?
Who goes?
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Find out right now
on "The Bachelorette."
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[tense music]
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‐ Going into the two‐on‐one,
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I know Bennett and Noah has
a lot on their plate right now,
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as well as Tayshia.
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She has a lot on her plate
kinda hearing both sides
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and seeing how it shakes out.
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‐ I couldn't be happier
that this is happening
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because this drama
needs to be put to the side.
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‐ I believe in her
decision‐making ability,
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and I hope, you know,
for her sake, for our sake,
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the stress leaves.
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Right now,
Tayshia is on a two‐on‐one
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with Bennett and Noah.
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They have some sort of beef
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and Tayshia wants to get
to the bottom of it,
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and I think
that it's incredible
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and speaks volumes
about her character
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that she's doing this
prior to the Rose Ceremony.
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I think that it shows us
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how seriously
she's taking this.
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If I was in Tayshia's position
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and I had a group of 11 men,
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nine of which were not
causing drama,
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the two
that were causing me stress
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would be gone immediately.
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‐ Bennett,
you said there is 100% chance
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Tayshia would never be with me.
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You would double down on that
in Vegas.
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You feel like
you're talking down‐‐
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‐ No, I said 0% chance.
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‐ There is 0% chance.
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You'd double down that on‐‐
in Vegas.
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You think I'm a 14 year old.
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‐ That's wrong.
‐ The point is‐‐
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‐ The comment was that,
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"Can you imagine if you were
arguing with a 14 year old?"
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Because there is
11‐year difference
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between the two of us,
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that's what it feels like
arguing with you.
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I stand by that statement.
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‐ Is this, like, what goes on
between you two?
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‐ No.
‐ 'Cause this sounds like,
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honestly, like,
teenage boy drama.
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‐ It's totally childish.
‐ And the fact that I have
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to sit here and, like, listen,
to you guys talk about this
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is ridiculous.
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‐ It's a waste of time.
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‐ So why hasn't this been
taken care of
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when I'm not there?
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‐ I was unaware
of these feelings
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until you brought that up
the other night.
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‐ You realize that you are
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essentially questioning
my integrity, right?
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‐ I actually don't believe
that I‐‐that I am.
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‐ Kay.
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♪ ♪
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What's in the box?
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‐ Um, I...
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♪ ♪
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That was a gift
that I gave to Noah.
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‐ Mm‐kay.
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Bennett, do you wanna go talk?
‐ Yeah, absolutely.
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Thank you.
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It's easy to be misunderstood.
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I wasn't,
in any way, shape, or form,
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questioning
Tayshia's integrity.
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Quite the contrary.
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I had just seen so many things
that she's not seen,
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and I will call a spade a spade
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and be honest, you know,
through and through,
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and I think someone
in the house has to do it.
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So where to begin?
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‐ Let me start.
‐ Sure.
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‐ I don't know,
I just feel like
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I'm in a hard place
because I feel like‐‐
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‐ I know.
I'm sorry for that.
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‐ I genuinely care for you
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and I feel like
we definitely have something,
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but I feel like
there's still a fire
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and someone's fueling it.
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So my question to you is,
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have you ever questioned
my integrity?
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‐ I‐‐I'm not questioning
your integrity.
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‐ My question is,
have you ever?
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‐ No.
By how?
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Like, I don't know
how I would have done that
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by saying that there was
a 0% chance
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that you're going to end up
with him.
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I'll tell you
where that's coming from,
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and I don't think
that you'll feel
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that I'm questioning
your integrity.
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‐ To be quite honest with you,
everyone is here
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and it doesn't matter
why they're here to you.
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You don't have the right
to tell somebody else
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that I will not end up
with them.
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‐ Okay.
I accept that.
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‐ Because guess what?
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I'm personally making
decisions...
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‐ Of course.
Of course.
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‐ To have those people be here,
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just like me giving you a rose
means I possibly see
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a potential future with you.
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‐ Of course.
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‐ So you saying that
that's a 0% chance
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of that possibly happening
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is essentially questioning
my integrity,
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because you're saying
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that I'm not capable
of making decisions, and...
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‐ Whoa.
‐ Bennett...
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making decisions of someone
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that's a good suitor for me
in the future.
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‐ For that,
I'm very, very sorry.
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I think what is quite obvious
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is that there has been drama
centered around
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Noah repeatedly
on three or four instances.
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‐ I realize that,
but now you're involved.
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‐ I know,
and I've been pulled in
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because I've spoken up.
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‐ Yes.
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‐ [stammering]
And I own my words.
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‐ Kay.
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‐ And I'm happy to tell you
where that comment came from
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if you would like to hear.
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‐ Which one?
‐ About the 0% chance.
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‐ Please, share.
‐ Okay.
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So, far more important to me
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than IQ is EQ.
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The four competencies of EQ
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are self‐awareness,
self‐management,
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social awareness,
and relationship management.
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From the moment
Noah has gotten here,
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I've witnessed deficiencies
in three of the four.
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And I have a hard time
seeing this beautiful,
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thoughtful, intelligent,
very decisive,
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strong‐minded woman
ending up with him,
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and I was not questioning you.
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I really am sorry
that you feel that way,
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and I hate more than anything
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that we're having to do it
right now,
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'cause I want nothing to do
more than to love you up,
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to pick up on our, you know,
truths conversation,
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or to get back to that.
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Everything feels so natural
and easy and right with you.
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That's why I'm here.
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‐ Kay.
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‐ Thank you
for listening to me.
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Again, I'm sorry.
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The last thing
I would ever want you to do
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is feel as though
I'm questioning your integrity.
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You got this.
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This is‐‐I have every
ounce of confidence
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in my mind, in my heart,
that that is the case.
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[tender music]
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‐ You're right.
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‐ I think by having
this conversation about Noah,
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she's going to have
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a whole newfound respect
for me,
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and shows her
that I am a potential husband
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that can raise children
and teach morals
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and teach
emotional intelligence,
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which is one
of the strongest qualities
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a person can have.
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I'm feeling
very, very confident
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that I will come away
with that rose.
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‐ Noah.
‐ Yes?
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‐ We've been
on a roller coaster so far,
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you and I, in the sense
that you came out hot,
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guns a‐blazin',
night one, and...
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I don't know, I've just been
able to uncover who you are
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with each conversation,
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and I'm not gonna lie,
it just really sucks,
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'cause now I'm really confused.
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Um...
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and I just feel like,
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lately, there's been
so much drama in the house,
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and I'm not gonna lie,
you're the common denominator
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between all of it.
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‐ I hate that I am
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in the center of this drama,
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but the problem with Bennett
has been,
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from the very beginning,
I had that feeling of‐‐
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you know, that he thought
he was better than me,
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before we even talked.
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Bennett talks to people
in a way
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that you shouldn't talk
to people.
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‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ I think.
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Then he'll downplay it
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and act like
it's not a big deal,
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make it seem like a joke
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or make it seem like
you're wrong.
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Even tonight,
he brings me a gift,
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and the first thing's a‐‐
a bandana.
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The second is a book
about emotional intelligence
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and how I don't have it,
and he went on for ten minutes
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explaining, you know,
all these things
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in the most
condescending way possible.
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‐ Yeah.
‐ To me, I can handle that.
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I can handle the jabs,
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but if I'm being
completely honest with myself,
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I think it's only
a matter of time that,
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if at the end of this,
you chose him,
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he would act that way to you.
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That's why I'm passionate
about it.
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It's 'cause I think you deserve
more than that,
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and I don't think people
should be talked to
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like‐‐like they're less.
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[chuckles]
‐ Don't.
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It's okay.
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‐ I'm fine, I'm fine.
But yeah.
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‐ Like, I'm listening to you.
I mean, I wanna get your side.
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I wanna get your take.
That's why I'm‐‐
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I have to address it, though,
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because this is taking away
from us.
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‐ Mm‐hmm.
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00:09:44,284 --> 00:09:45,985
‐ And, like,
this shouldn't have been,
255
00:09:45,985 --> 00:09:48,388
like, this big of a deal.
256
00:09:48,388 --> 00:09:51,157
‐ I'm sorry for that.
I hate that.
257
00:09:51,157 --> 00:09:53,126
‐ No, but, I mean,
I do appreciate you
258
00:09:53,126 --> 00:09:54,427
bringing things up to me,
259
00:09:54,427 --> 00:09:57,063
but also, it's just like‐‐
it's driving me crazy.
260
00:09:57,063 --> 00:09:59,065
‐ I don't wanna
bring anything up.
261
00:09:59,065 --> 00:10:00,400
I said everything
that I felt like
262
00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,136
you should have
the option of hearing
263
00:10:03,136 --> 00:10:07,073
so you can make
your own decisions.
264
00:10:07,073 --> 00:10:09,042
‐ Kay.
265
00:10:09,042 --> 00:10:12,846
♪ ♪
266
00:10:12,846 --> 00:10:14,848
Well...
267
00:10:17,050 --> 00:10:19,219
I'm gonna have to think
about everything,
268
00:10:19,219 --> 00:10:22,255
and I guess
we'll go from there.
269
00:10:22,255 --> 00:10:26,092
‐ All right.
[exhales]
270
00:10:26,092 --> 00:10:27,327
The first day I was here,
I said,
271
00:10:27,327 --> 00:10:29,429
"I'm going
to put it all out there,"
272
00:10:29,429 --> 00:10:32,065
and tonight,
I did put it all out there.
273
00:10:32,065 --> 00:10:35,301
Can I get a hug?
274
00:10:35,301 --> 00:10:37,270
I didn't intend
to get emotional.
275
00:10:37,270 --> 00:10:39,572
I don't even know where that
came from to be honest,
276
00:10:39,572 --> 00:10:43,409
but it shows how much
I care for Tayshia.
277
00:10:43,409 --> 00:10:46,045
She's incredible.
She's awesome.
278
00:10:46,045 --> 00:10:48,081
I do want, you know,
what's best for her,
279
00:10:48,081 --> 00:10:50,216
and, you know,
if I went home tonight,
280
00:10:50,216 --> 00:10:53,786
I would be heartbroken.
281
00:10:57,557 --> 00:11:01,194
‐ Bennett, listen, you know,
it's ironic to me
282
00:11:01,194 --> 00:11:03,496
that you bring up my EQ
because I've said,
283
00:11:03,496 --> 00:11:07,600
"Bennett is the highest IQ
in the house,
284
00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:11,137
"but Bennett's EQ
is not close to his IQ.
285
00:11:11,137 --> 00:11:13,406
"There's some sort of
disconnect there.
286
00:11:13,406 --> 00:11:15,308
"And if there's one thing
that separates
287
00:11:15,308 --> 00:11:17,310
maybe Bennett and I,
is the self‐awareness."
288
00:11:17,310 --> 00:11:18,545
That's why I've brought up,
289
00:11:18,545 --> 00:11:22,348
"Maybe he doesn't realize that
the way he talks to people
290
00:11:22,348 --> 00:11:26,286
"is condescending
and, you know, demeaning.
291
00:11:26,286 --> 00:11:28,321
Maybe he's not
self‐aware enough."
292
00:11:28,321 --> 00:11:29,656
‐ You know,
I think that I am well aware
293
00:11:29,656 --> 00:11:33,226
that I am different
from everyone in this house‐‐
294
00:11:33,226 --> 00:11:35,562
whether I'm carrying myself
differently,
295
00:11:35,562 --> 00:11:37,931
whether I'm speaking
differently.
296
00:11:37,931 --> 00:11:39,232
I own that.
297
00:11:39,232 --> 00:11:41,201
Tayshia already sees that.
298
00:11:41,201 --> 00:11:43,970
So let's take a breather.
299
00:11:43,970 --> 00:11:45,138
‐ Let's wait on her, yeah.
300
00:11:45,138 --> 00:11:47,106
‐ Let the best man win.
‐ Yeah.
301
00:11:47,106 --> 00:11:49,375
‐ This is
incredibly frustrating.
302
00:11:49,375 --> 00:11:51,277
[dramatic music]
303
00:11:51,277 --> 00:11:52,478
The last way
that I'd like to be spending
304
00:11:52,478 --> 00:11:55,148
my time with Tayshia
is talking about Noah,
305
00:11:55,148 --> 00:11:56,683
but that's what had
to be done tonight.
306
00:11:56,683 --> 00:12:00,320
He's acted like a young child
throughout this entire process
307
00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,422
and I think that he's not ready
308
00:12:02,422 --> 00:12:04,357
to be anyone's husband
or father
309
00:12:04,357 --> 00:12:07,260
at this point in his life.
310
00:12:07,260 --> 00:12:10,330
‐ At this point,
I feel pretty confident.
311
00:12:10,330 --> 00:12:12,498
I let Bennett be Bennett,
Bennett showed himself,
312
00:12:12,498 --> 00:12:15,201
and I think
Tayshia will see that,
313
00:12:15,201 --> 00:12:17,237
so I think
Bennett's going home.
314
00:12:17,237 --> 00:12:20,139
I just hope he doesn't
cause hell on his way out.
315
00:12:20,139 --> 00:12:27,080
♪ ♪
316
00:12:32,352 --> 00:12:35,121
‐ [clears throat]
317
00:12:35,121 --> 00:12:36,155
‐ [sighs]
318
00:12:43,029 --> 00:12:44,530
Bennett.
319
00:12:44,530 --> 00:12:48,334
You have made me feel heard
this entire time
320
00:12:48,334 --> 00:12:51,271
and made me feel very special.
321
00:12:51,271 --> 00:12:54,440
I truly have enjoyed
getting to know you,
322
00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:58,478
and I think that the way
that you make me feel
323
00:12:58,478 --> 00:13:02,015
when you're around me
is amazing,
324
00:13:02,015 --> 00:13:03,249
and I don't think
325
00:13:03,249 --> 00:13:06,386
I've ever actually felt that
before with someone.
326
00:13:06,386 --> 00:13:09,522
But it worries me
327
00:13:09,522 --> 00:13:12,592
that you are condescending,
328
00:13:12,592 --> 00:13:15,495
the way that you talk
to people,
329
00:13:15,495 --> 00:13:19,932
and that you question
my intentions.
330
00:13:23,569 --> 00:13:28,107
Noah, I have enjoyed
getting to know you.
331
00:13:28,107 --> 00:13:29,175
Every single day, I feel like
332
00:13:29,175 --> 00:13:30,643
I discover
a different part of you
333
00:13:30,643 --> 00:13:33,613
that I didn't know
you really had in you,
334
00:13:33,613 --> 00:13:35,615
'cause I feel like you're
joking around all the time,
335
00:13:35,615 --> 00:13:38,284
but there are a lot
of beautiful parts to you,
336
00:13:38,284 --> 00:13:41,554
and you also do make me feel
very special.
337
00:13:41,554 --> 00:13:43,623
But the thing is,
I'm also worried that
338
00:13:43,623 --> 00:13:48,328
you're not ready for marriage
at the end of this.
339
00:13:48,328 --> 00:13:55,835
♪ ♪
340
00:14:04,977 --> 00:14:06,346
Bennett...
341
00:14:06,346 --> 00:14:12,285
♪ ♪
342
00:14:13,619 --> 00:14:16,289
Unfortunately,
I can't give you this rose.
343
00:14:20,493 --> 00:14:23,329
Can I walk you out, please?
‐ Wow.
344
00:14:23,329 --> 00:14:24,497
Sure.
345
00:14:24,497 --> 00:14:28,134
[solemn music]
346
00:14:28,134 --> 00:14:34,974
♪ ♪
347
00:14:35,508 --> 00:14:38,211
‐ [laughs softly]
Jeez.
348
00:14:40,513 --> 00:14:44,117
‐ Is this really goodbye?
349
00:14:44,117 --> 00:14:47,286
♪ ♪
350
00:14:47,286 --> 00:14:49,155
‐ Unfortunately.
351
00:14:49,155 --> 00:14:51,190
‐ Holy cow.
352
00:14:51,190 --> 00:14:58,197
♪ ♪
353
00:15:00,767 --> 00:15:03,669
‐ What?
‐ Wow. I didn't‐‐I'm shocked.
354
00:15:03,669 --> 00:15:07,774
I mean, never for one second
was I questioning
355
00:15:07,774 --> 00:15:10,576
your ability to make a decision
or your integrity.
356
00:15:10,576 --> 00:15:14,814
I simply saw behaviors
that I could never imagine
357
00:15:14,814 --> 00:15:19,819
you putting up with
in a husband and a father.
358
00:15:19,819 --> 00:15:23,556
And I felt very confident
in my words,
359
00:15:23,556 --> 00:15:27,693
and never once for a second
did I question you,
360
00:15:27,693 --> 00:15:31,631
and, you know,
if you feel this way,
361
00:15:31,631 --> 00:15:33,533
I'm so sorry.
I'm...
362
00:15:33,533 --> 00:15:36,502
‐ I'm sorry, Bennett.
363
00:15:36,502 --> 00:15:43,443
♪ ♪
364
00:15:43,443 --> 00:15:45,278
‐ [laughs softly]
365
00:15:51,117 --> 00:15:52,518
‐ I'm sorry.
366
00:15:52,518 --> 00:15:55,688
Tonight, I had to decide
what I wanted to ultimately do,
367
00:15:55,688 --> 00:15:59,892
and I made a decision
368
00:15:59,892 --> 00:16:03,863
based off of what I've seen
and how I feel and...
369
00:16:03,863 --> 00:16:07,366
‐ I'm really, really sorry
that you feel that way.
370
00:16:07,366 --> 00:16:08,701
I hate it.
371
00:16:08,701 --> 00:16:10,536
This was really,
really working for me,
372
00:16:10,536 --> 00:16:13,139
and never for a second
did I question you.
373
00:16:13,139 --> 00:16:14,140
[laughs softly]
374
00:16:14,140 --> 00:16:19,212
♪ ♪
375
00:16:19,212 --> 00:16:20,580
‐ I'm sorry.
376
00:16:20,580 --> 00:16:22,181
‐ All right.
377
00:16:22,181 --> 00:16:26,519
♪ ♪
378
00:16:26,519 --> 00:16:28,988
Thanks.
379
00:16:30,656 --> 00:16:33,426
Hope you find
what you're looking for.
380
00:16:33,426 --> 00:16:35,261
Lot of great guys out there.
381
00:16:35,261 --> 00:16:37,196
‐ Thank you.
382
00:16:37,196 --> 00:16:44,170
♪ ♪
383
00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:56,616
‐ That was interesting.
384
00:16:56,616 --> 00:16:59,285
That was a curveball.
Did not see that coming.
385
00:16:59,285 --> 00:17:04,524
♪ ♪
386
00:17:04,524 --> 00:17:07,593
‐ Not the goodbye I expected
at all.
387
00:17:07,593 --> 00:17:10,663
Sending Bennett home,
it didn't feel right.
388
00:17:10,663 --> 00:17:11,764
He couldn't understand,
389
00:17:11,764 --> 00:17:12,765
he was trying
to figure it out,
390
00:17:12,765 --> 00:17:13,866
and it just felt so weird
391
00:17:13,866 --> 00:17:17,103
and it just did not
feel right.
392
00:17:17,803 --> 00:17:21,641
Especially when
he's such a good person.
393
00:17:21,641 --> 00:17:24,310
I just hope I'm making
the right decision.
394
00:17:31,317 --> 00:17:33,052
[door opens]
395
00:17:38,224 --> 00:17:39,358
No.
396
00:17:39,358 --> 00:17:41,661
Don't be smiling.
397
00:17:41,661 --> 00:17:43,563
‐ [groans]
398
00:17:43,563 --> 00:17:45,431
‐ In fact...
399
00:17:49,602 --> 00:17:53,639
That wasn't, like,
a victory for you by any means.
400
00:17:53,639 --> 00:17:55,341
That was hard.
401
00:17:55,341 --> 00:17:55,875
And I'm not gonna lie,
402
00:17:55,875 --> 00:18:00,012
I did have feelings
for Bennett.
403
00:18:00,012 --> 00:18:02,982
And the fact that I had
to sit you both down
404
00:18:02,982 --> 00:18:04,951
and talk to you tonight is not
something I wanted to do,
405
00:18:04,951 --> 00:18:09,822
and that was not how I wanted
to say goodbye to him.
406
00:18:09,822 --> 00:18:12,458
And to be honest with you,
Noah...
407
00:18:12,458 --> 00:18:15,094
♪ ♪
408
00:18:15,094 --> 00:18:18,264
I'm not gonna give you
this rose right now either.
409
00:18:18,264 --> 00:18:21,934
♪ ♪
410
00:18:21,934 --> 00:18:24,470
I truly don't know
how I feel right now.
411
00:18:24,470 --> 00:18:29,575
♪ ♪
412
00:18:29,575 --> 00:18:32,111
So...
413
00:18:33,779 --> 00:18:36,616
I guess I'll see you later.
414
00:18:36,616 --> 00:18:40,019
♪ ♪
415
00:18:40,019 --> 00:18:43,823
‐ I'm not happy
how it all turned out.
416
00:18:43,823 --> 00:18:46,292
I think Bennett got to her.
417
00:18:48,361 --> 00:18:49,795
I went from, you know,
418
00:18:49,795 --> 00:18:52,632
being on a consistent, like,
growth with her
419
00:18:52,632 --> 00:18:55,901
to starting over
or worse, really.
420
00:18:55,901 --> 00:18:58,871
That's how it feels right now.
421
00:18:58,871 --> 00:19:01,607
You know,
we'll see how the night goes.
422
00:19:01,607 --> 00:19:05,144
Honestly, I'm not sure
what she's thinking.
423
00:19:08,814 --> 00:19:10,683
‐ Do you know someone
looking for love?
424
00:19:10,683 --> 00:19:11,851
Nominate someone or apply
425
00:19:11,851 --> 00:19:13,753
to date the Bachelor
or Bachelorette
426
00:19:13,753 --> 00:19:17,690
at abc.com/casting.
427
00:19:17,690 --> 00:19:20,693
[tense music]
428
00:19:20,693 --> 00:19:27,633
♪ ♪
429
00:19:27,633 --> 00:19:29,702
‐ [sighs]
430
00:19:29,702 --> 00:19:31,570
Well...
431
00:19:31,570 --> 00:19:34,640
Tonight, it's all been
just exhausting.
432
00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:35,808
Tayshia didn't give me
the rose
433
00:19:35,808 --> 00:19:37,843
after she sent Bennett home,
434
00:19:37,843 --> 00:19:38,978
and then she said,
435
00:19:38,978 --> 00:19:41,747
"I don't think you're ready
for marriage."
436
00:19:41,747 --> 00:19:43,916
And that really
actually is disappointing
437
00:19:43,916 --> 00:19:45,851
because I know
I'm a suitable husband.
438
00:19:45,851 --> 00:19:47,887
I know I'm ready for marriage.
I know all these things.
439
00:19:47,887 --> 00:19:50,022
So, you know,
I'm not just gonna give up.
440
00:19:50,022 --> 00:19:52,024
Hopefully,
I'm gonna get another chance
441
00:19:52,024 --> 00:19:56,228
to, like, convince her
that I'm ready for marriage.
442
00:19:56,862 --> 00:19:57,997
‐ I had a feeling.
443
00:19:57,997 --> 00:20:01,567
‐ It's not all
that it appears though.
444
00:20:01,567 --> 00:20:03,636
How you boys doing?
Jeez.
445
00:20:03,636 --> 00:20:05,838
‐ Where's the rose at?
‐ There's not a rose.
446
00:20:05,838 --> 00:20:08,708
‐ No rose?
‐ It's not all it appears, yeah.
447
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:11,777
I guess we got some stuff
to talk about.
448
00:20:11,777 --> 00:20:13,679
‐ How'd it go?
449
00:20:13,679 --> 00:20:17,616
‐ Well, it's been a long night.
450
00:20:17,616 --> 00:20:19,051
She ended up
sending Bennett home,
451
00:20:19,051 --> 00:20:22,588
and then she said that
she doesn't think that
452
00:20:22,588 --> 00:20:24,223
she can give me
the rose either,
453
00:20:24,223 --> 00:20:26,826
but she wants me to hang around
for the Rose Ceremony.
454
00:20:26,826 --> 00:20:28,794
And I'm not glad that you guys
455
00:20:28,794 --> 00:20:31,564
keep getting tied up in,
456
00:20:31,564 --> 00:20:32,998
like, BS, and, you know,
457
00:20:32,998 --> 00:20:35,534
I hope everyone has
a great cocktail party.
458
00:20:35,534 --> 00:20:36,669
‐ I like Noah.
459
00:20:36,669 --> 00:20:38,838
I understand he feels great
460
00:20:38,838 --> 00:20:41,574
about staying
and Bennett leaving.
461
00:20:41,574 --> 00:20:42,608
That's awesome.
462
00:20:42,608 --> 00:20:43,909
But just considering
463
00:20:43,909 --> 00:20:47,980
all the time spent
dealing with the drama...
464
00:20:47,980 --> 00:20:50,850
[sighs]
I'm just like, "Dude.
465
00:20:50,850 --> 00:20:53,719
Just quiet for once.
Just don't talk for once."
466
00:20:53,719 --> 00:20:57,790
♪ ♪
467
00:20:57,790 --> 00:21:00,326
‐ Hello, hello.
‐ Hello.
468
00:21:01,894 --> 00:21:03,796
All right.
Hi. [laughs]
469
00:21:03,796 --> 00:21:04,964
‐ Hey.
‐ How are you?
470
00:21:04,964 --> 00:21:08,634
‐ Um, as you all
may have noticed,
471
00:21:08,634 --> 00:21:11,403
Bennett is no longer with us.
472
00:21:13,672 --> 00:21:15,708
The drama is over for now
473
00:21:15,708 --> 00:21:16,909
and I just wanna be done
with it all.
474
00:21:16,909 --> 00:21:19,512
So I just wanna have
a good night with you guys.
475
00:21:19,512 --> 00:21:20,112
I've been looking forward
476
00:21:20,112 --> 00:21:21,714
to talking to you guys
all night.
477
00:21:21,714 --> 00:21:22,982
So let's just have
a good night, can we?
478
00:21:22,982 --> 00:21:24,950
‐ Of course.
‐ Okay, good.
479
00:21:24,950 --> 00:21:26,819
Thank you so much.
‐ You got it.
480
00:21:26,819 --> 00:21:28,053
We gonna cheers?
481
00:21:28,053 --> 00:21:30,756
‐ Cheers to seeing you guys.
I'm excited to see y'all.
482
00:21:30,756 --> 00:21:31,991
[laughter]
483
00:21:31,991 --> 00:21:32,992
Whoo!
‐ May I?
484
00:21:32,992 --> 00:21:34,760
‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ Let's do it.
485
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,162
‐ As difficult
as that two‐on‐one was,
486
00:21:36,162 --> 00:21:38,264
it was so important
for me to address it,
487
00:21:38,264 --> 00:21:41,801
and I'm happy that it's done
and it's in the past
488
00:21:41,801 --> 00:21:42,902
because I really
just wanna focus
489
00:21:42,902 --> 00:21:44,203
on the relationships
that I have left.
490
00:21:44,203 --> 00:21:46,071
Yeah. [laughs]
‐ Yeah, I got you covered.
491
00:21:46,071 --> 00:21:48,207
‐ Hometowns
are around the corner,
492
00:21:48,207 --> 00:21:52,845
and I guess I'm feeling
a little nervous about it.
493
00:21:52,845 --> 00:21:54,013
I wanna see if the guys
494
00:21:54,013 --> 00:21:55,881
are really ready
for the next step.
495
00:21:55,881 --> 00:21:57,216
‐ Let's get over here.
496
00:21:57,216 --> 00:21:59,718
I gotcha. I gotcha.
See, I got a little surprise.
497
00:21:59,718 --> 00:22:01,620
But before we get started...
‐ Okay.
498
00:22:01,620 --> 00:22:03,889
‐ I'm gonna sit this down,
499
00:22:03,889 --> 00:22:07,126
because I know
today has been stressful,
500
00:22:07,126 --> 00:22:11,030
but you handled your business
like always,
501
00:22:11,030 --> 00:22:12,865
you know, and I love that.
502
00:22:12,865 --> 00:22:15,201
It's everything, you know,
that I want in a wife,
503
00:22:15,201 --> 00:22:18,070
everything that I see,
you know, in a wife,
504
00:22:18,070 --> 00:22:21,640
and since I know
Tayshia loves surprises...
505
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,809
‐ [laughing] I do.
‐ You do.
506
00:22:23,809 --> 00:22:26,979
Today is actually
507
00:22:26,979 --> 00:22:29,148
our one‐week anniversary
508
00:22:29,148 --> 00:22:31,851
of being a boyfriend
and girlfriend, all right?
509
00:22:31,851 --> 00:22:33,485
‐ Is it?
‐ Yes, it is.
510
00:22:33,485 --> 00:22:35,187
‐ Aww.
511
00:22:35,187 --> 00:22:37,823
‐ All right, so got a little
something for you here.
512
00:22:37,823 --> 00:22:39,959
‐ Oh, my gosh.
513
00:22:39,959 --> 00:22:41,794
‐ A little
"happy anniversary" cake.
514
00:22:41,794 --> 00:22:44,797
‐ Wait, I love this.
‐ Yeah, yeah, yeah.
515
00:22:44,797 --> 00:22:46,165
I was able
to see Tayshia first,
516
00:22:46,165 --> 00:22:48,968
and I knew she had
a rough day today,
517
00:22:48,968 --> 00:22:51,237
I knew she had a rough,
you know, past few days,
518
00:22:51,237 --> 00:22:54,740
so my only goal was really
just to make her happy,
519
00:22:54,740 --> 00:22:55,941
put a smile on her face,
520
00:22:55,941 --> 00:22:57,943
and I think I did that.
521
00:22:57,943 --> 00:23:00,546
Happy anniversary.
‐ Happy anniversary.
522
00:23:00,546 --> 00:23:02,948
[laughs]
523
00:23:02,948 --> 00:23:03,983
‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ Mmm.
524
00:23:03,983 --> 00:23:05,217
‐ That's what
I'm talking 'bout.
525
00:23:05,217 --> 00:23:06,986
I really want a rose tonight,
526
00:23:06,986 --> 00:23:08,854
and now I'm feeling confident.
527
00:23:08,854 --> 00:23:11,156
‐ I come bearing gifts.
‐ What is that?
528
00:23:11,156 --> 00:23:13,893
‐ Picture.
‐ A picture of what?
529
00:23:13,893 --> 00:23:15,794
No.
530
00:23:15,794 --> 00:23:16,996
Oh‐‐
531
00:23:16,996 --> 00:23:19,665
‐ Do you love it?
‐ Oh, my gosh!
532
00:23:19,665 --> 00:23:21,533
‐ I'm such a cheeseball.
533
00:23:21,533 --> 00:23:22,167
‐ Zac.
534
00:23:22,167 --> 00:23:23,335
‐ The other day was just, like,
535
00:23:23,335 --> 00:23:26,038
one of the best days I've had
in a long time,
536
00:23:26,038 --> 00:23:28,941
but I also want you to know
that, like,
537
00:23:28,941 --> 00:23:31,844
I'm ready, whatever it takes,
538
00:23:31,844 --> 00:23:34,747
and I got your back.
539
00:23:34,747 --> 00:23:37,750
[soft music]
540
00:23:37,750 --> 00:23:41,186
♪ ♪
541
00:23:41,186 --> 00:23:43,322
I feel just good.
Confident.
542
00:23:43,322 --> 00:23:45,057
You know, I have the rose,
so it's not‐‐
543
00:23:45,057 --> 00:23:47,159
like, I'm not sweating
through the ceremony.
544
00:23:47,159 --> 00:23:50,796
Like, I could see her
completing me.
545
00:23:50,796 --> 00:23:54,066
♪ ♪
546
00:23:54,066 --> 00:23:55,834
‐ What's everyone been doing?
547
00:23:55,834 --> 00:23:59,204
‐ Nothing.
‐ [laughs]
548
00:23:59,204 --> 00:24:01,206
What's that smug look
on your face?
549
00:24:01,206 --> 00:24:03,075
‐ I'm just glad
that I'm not you.
550
00:24:03,075 --> 00:24:05,044
‐ Oh, yeah.
551
00:24:05,044 --> 00:24:07,212
‐ No, you've had to deal with
some [bleep] though, like‐‐
552
00:24:07,212 --> 00:24:09,081
‐ Yeah, she's convinced
I'm causing it all,
553
00:24:09,081 --> 00:24:11,050
and I'm like, "Well, maybe."
554
00:24:11,050 --> 00:24:12,351
I don't think so.
Maybe I am.
555
00:24:12,351 --> 00:24:15,087
But I feel like I'm just the
only one that's said anything.
556
00:24:15,087 --> 00:24:16,355
I'm pretty nervous.
557
00:24:16,355 --> 00:24:18,290
I still haven't had time
with Tayshia.
558
00:24:18,290 --> 00:24:21,060
The whole thing's kinda
a weird feeling for me.
559
00:24:21,060 --> 00:24:22,995
Like, if I don't get
more time with her,
560
00:24:22,995 --> 00:24:25,631
I feel like
I'm not gonna get a rose.
561
00:24:27,933 --> 00:24:33,005
♪ ♪
562
00:24:33,005 --> 00:24:34,106
‐ [laughs]
563
00:24:34,106 --> 00:24:35,240
‐ We're really bad at that.
564
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,242
‐ What?
‐ We're so bad at that.
565
00:24:37,242 --> 00:24:38,877
‐ I don't know.
It's you, actually.
566
00:24:38,877 --> 00:24:40,012
It's not me.
‐ Need more practice.
567
00:24:40,012 --> 00:24:41,113
We need more practice.
568
00:24:41,113 --> 00:24:43,716
‐ So like, move your lips
a little bit like‐‐
569
00:24:43,716 --> 00:24:45,017
[chuckles]
570
00:24:45,017 --> 00:24:46,118
The beginning of this evening
571
00:24:46,118 --> 00:24:47,920
really started out
pretty tough.
572
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,657
It was emotional.
It was frustrating.
573
00:24:52,324 --> 00:24:55,260
But once I started diving in
to talking to the guys,
574
00:24:55,260 --> 00:24:56,562
my night was turned around.
575
00:24:56,562 --> 00:24:59,064
‐ I've told you before, like,
I'm in a point in my life where
576
00:24:59,064 --> 00:25:02,868
I'm ready to be a great husband
going forward, you know?
577
00:25:02,868 --> 00:25:04,003
‐ Mm‐hmm.
578
00:25:04,003 --> 00:25:05,938
‐ And that's why
I'm taking this so seriously.
579
00:25:05,938 --> 00:25:07,339
‐ This is such a good group
of guys.
580
00:25:07,339 --> 00:25:09,775
I'm really excited
about the direction
581
00:25:09,775 --> 00:25:10,776
that we're all going.
582
00:25:10,776 --> 00:25:12,011
‐ How you feeling?
583
00:25:12,011 --> 00:25:14,113
‐ I am good.
Mm‐hmm.
584
00:25:14,113 --> 00:25:15,948
‐ Long night so far for you,
huh?
585
00:25:15,948 --> 00:25:17,049
‐ Just a little bit.
‐ A little bit.
586
00:25:17,049 --> 00:25:18,884
‐ I was a little anxious
coming into tonight,
587
00:25:18,884 --> 00:25:21,153
but I feel like there are
588
00:25:21,153 --> 00:25:22,955
so many things
to be excited about...
589
00:25:22,955 --> 00:25:24,056
‐ Mm‐hmm.
590
00:25:24,056 --> 00:25:25,324
‐ This guy named Brendan
being one of them.
591
00:25:25,324 --> 00:25:27,059
‐ Okay.
‐ So, like, you know?
592
00:25:27,059 --> 00:25:28,927
I have, like,
things to look forward to.
593
00:25:28,927 --> 00:25:30,129
‐ Definitely.
‐ How are you doing?
594
00:25:30,129 --> 00:25:31,330
‐ I'm doing good.
I'm doing great.
595
00:25:31,330 --> 00:25:34,133
It's kinda the same‐‐yeah,
that same, like, sentiment
596
00:25:34,133 --> 00:25:35,934
towards this whole journey
597
00:25:35,934 --> 00:25:38,137
where, you know, if you have,
598
00:25:38,137 --> 00:25:41,273
like, an off day mentally
and emotionally
599
00:25:41,273 --> 00:25:43,342
and even if you're
physically tired,
600
00:25:43,342 --> 00:25:47,079
just, like, getting any time
with you at all is amazing.
601
00:25:47,079 --> 00:25:50,816
It makes it all worth it, so...
‐ [laughs]
602
00:25:50,816 --> 00:25:52,951
Okay.
Um...
603
00:25:52,951 --> 00:25:54,853
‐ So...
‐ You wanna kiss me?
604
00:25:54,853 --> 00:25:56,188
‐ Yeah. Can I?
‐ No.
605
00:25:56,188 --> 00:25:58,257
‐ Oh.
‐ Of course you can. Come here.
606
00:25:58,257 --> 00:26:01,126
‐ I pretend to leave
every time we're together.
607
00:26:01,126 --> 00:26:02,961
‐ Don't leave.
608
00:26:02,961 --> 00:26:06,131
♪ ♪
609
00:26:06,131 --> 00:26:09,068
Tayshia is a really
unique woman for sure.
610
00:26:09,068 --> 00:26:11,036
You know,
she's sweet and gentle,
611
00:26:11,036 --> 00:26:14,039
and I do feel like
me and Tayshia have
612
00:26:14,039 --> 00:26:17,176
a real connection.
613
00:26:17,176 --> 00:26:19,912
So I'm going into
tonight's Rose Ceremony
614
00:26:19,912 --> 00:26:21,046
feeling really, really good.
615
00:26:21,046 --> 00:26:25,284
♪ ♪
616
00:26:25,284 --> 00:26:26,452
‐ It's just always
a good night
617
00:26:26,452 --> 00:26:29,321
when you have an opportunity
to speak with Tayshia.
618
00:26:29,321 --> 00:26:31,490
I think it went well.
619
00:26:31,490 --> 00:26:33,759
I'm just hoping
I get a rose tonight.
620
00:26:33,759 --> 00:26:34,760
[door opens]
621
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,096
♪ ♪
622
00:26:37,096 --> 00:26:38,097
‐ Hi, guys.
623
00:26:38,097 --> 00:26:39,198
‐ Hello.
all: Hey.
624
00:26:39,198 --> 00:26:40,299
‐ Can I come join?
625
00:26:40,299 --> 00:26:41,867
‐ Mm‐hmm, of course.
‐ Yes, of course.
626
00:26:41,867 --> 00:26:43,035
‐ Why, thank you.
627
00:26:43,035 --> 00:26:45,003
‐ Scoot over.
[laughs]
628
00:26:45,003 --> 00:26:46,038
‐ How you guys doing?
629
00:26:46,038 --> 00:26:47,239
‐ Doing well. Doing well.
‐ Yeah?
630
00:26:47,239 --> 00:26:49,074
‐ Yeah.
‐ Good, good, good.
631
00:26:49,074 --> 00:26:50,342
I'm glad we talked today.
632
00:26:50,342 --> 00:26:51,410
I feel like I needed you guys
633
00:26:51,410 --> 00:26:53,145
and you guys brought me
better energy,
634
00:26:53,145 --> 00:26:55,447
so thank you very much.
635
00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:58,851
‐ Tayshia, it's time
for the Rose Ceremony.
636
00:26:58,851 --> 00:27:00,285
‐ Kay.
637
00:27:00,285 --> 00:27:04,223
‐ Tonight was a disaster
'cause I got no time at all,
638
00:27:04,223 --> 00:27:07,092
which sucks 'cause I do have
strong feelings for Tayshia
639
00:27:07,092 --> 00:27:08,193
and they're getting stronger,
640
00:27:08,193 --> 00:27:10,329
but now,
I could be going home.
641
00:27:10,329 --> 00:27:14,500
So far, I've been pretty
confident that I'd get a rose.
642
00:27:14,500 --> 00:27:17,503
But right now,
I don't feel great.
643
00:27:17,503 --> 00:27:20,005
‐ I guess I'm feeling tired,
frustrated.
644
00:27:20,005 --> 00:27:21,340
We have quite a few individuals
645
00:27:21,340 --> 00:27:23,208
who haven't had
any one‐on‐one time
646
00:27:23,208 --> 00:27:24,376
and are fighting
for those roses,
647
00:27:24,376 --> 00:27:26,411
so if I didn't get
a rose tonight,
648
00:27:26,411 --> 00:27:29,982
and it's a result
of Noah being Noah,
649
00:27:29,982 --> 00:27:32,084
I'd be insanely mad.
650
00:27:33,952 --> 00:27:36,955
[dramatic music]
651
00:27:36,955 --> 00:27:43,662
♪ ♪
652
00:27:44,196 --> 00:27:45,631
‐ Right now,
we are down to ten guys,
653
00:27:45,631 --> 00:27:48,233
and more people will be
going home tonight.
654
00:27:48,233 --> 00:27:49,368
I hope I get a rose.
655
00:27:49,368 --> 00:27:51,336
I really wanna continue
to get to know Tayshia.
656
00:27:51,336 --> 00:27:53,705
‐ [whispering]
I can't see that far.
657
00:27:55,274 --> 00:27:57,109
‐ Holy [bleep].
658
00:27:57,109 --> 00:27:58,110
Oh, wow.
659
00:27:59,878 --> 00:28:00,612
‐ Three people.
660
00:28:00,612 --> 00:28:02,214
‐ Everyone counted the rose
and realized, like,
661
00:28:02,214 --> 00:28:03,582
"I'm in trouble."
662
00:28:03,582 --> 00:28:06,185
I'm curious if Noah ends up
sticking around
663
00:28:06,185 --> 00:28:07,319
because of, you know,
all the drama
664
00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:09,021
that he's created.
665
00:28:09,988 --> 00:28:11,190
‐ Jeez.
[scoffs]
666
00:28:11,190 --> 00:28:13,225
Tonight, Tayshia didn't
give me the rose
667
00:28:13,225 --> 00:28:14,526
after she sent Bennett home.
668
00:28:14,526 --> 00:28:17,196
I mean, I'm a realist.
I know where I stand.
669
00:28:17,196 --> 00:28:19,965
I'm 1/4 as confident
as I have been
670
00:28:19,965 --> 00:28:20,599
this entire time,
671
00:28:20,599 --> 00:28:22,467
but I'm not gonna
count myself out.
672
00:28:22,467 --> 00:28:23,569
I mean, I've seen
the way she, like,
673
00:28:23,569 --> 00:28:26,171
looks and smiles at me,
so, you know,
674
00:28:26,171 --> 00:28:28,106
I do think
she has feelings for me.
675
00:28:28,106 --> 00:28:32,911
♪ ♪
676
00:28:37,416 --> 00:28:41,320
‐ This week has been
very draining and emotional,
677
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,422
but as draining
as this week has been,
678
00:28:43,422 --> 00:28:46,091
I'm actually
really, really excited.
679
00:28:46,091 --> 00:28:47,593
I feel like
680
00:28:47,593 --> 00:28:50,429
I have a great group
in front of me
681
00:28:50,429 --> 00:28:53,398
filled with relationships
that, honestly,
682
00:28:53,398 --> 00:28:55,334
are blowing me away,
683
00:28:55,334 --> 00:28:58,270
and I'm just excited
for continuing the momentum
684
00:28:58,270 --> 00:29:00,272
with what we have built.
685
00:29:00,272 --> 00:29:03,242
This is not easy,
but you guys have been amazing
686
00:29:03,242 --> 00:29:06,511
and checking in on me
and supporting me.
687
00:29:06,511 --> 00:29:08,447
I just wanna say thank you.
688
00:29:08,447 --> 00:29:13,418
Unfortunately, I do have to say
goodbye to some of you,
689
00:29:13,418 --> 00:29:17,289
but I care about you all,
and just thank you.
690
00:29:17,289 --> 00:29:24,796
♪ ♪
691
00:29:38,243 --> 00:29:40,078
Brendan.
692
00:29:40,078 --> 00:29:44,216
♪ ♪
693
00:29:44,216 --> 00:29:46,385
Brendan,
will you accept this rose?
694
00:29:46,385 --> 00:29:50,122
‐ Definitely.
695
00:29:50,122 --> 00:29:51,356
Thank you.
‐ Mm‐hmm.
696
00:29:51,356 --> 00:29:58,897
♪ ♪
697
00:30:09,975 --> 00:30:13,345
Riley.
698
00:30:13,345 --> 00:30:15,314
‐ I feel confident
where I'm at.
699
00:30:15,314 --> 00:30:18,050
I don't think Tayshia would
give a rose to Noah
700
00:30:18,050 --> 00:30:19,151
rather than me.
701
00:30:19,151 --> 00:30:20,285
‐ Do you accept this rose?
702
00:30:20,285 --> 00:30:22,421
‐ Yes, ma'am.
703
00:30:22,421 --> 00:30:24,456
‐ But tonight,
I didn't get time
704
00:30:24,456 --> 00:30:26,391
because there was
a bunch of [bleep]
705
00:30:26,391 --> 00:30:29,261
surrounding Noah, again.
706
00:30:29,261 --> 00:30:31,296
It would be pretty
heartbreaking to go home
707
00:30:31,296 --> 00:30:33,031
if I don't get a rose.
708
00:30:33,031 --> 00:30:38,136
♪ ♪
709
00:30:38,136 --> 00:30:41,406
‐ Blake.
710
00:30:41,406 --> 00:30:43,375
‐ I want the rose
extremely badly.
711
00:30:43,375 --> 00:30:45,477
‐ Will you accept this rose?
‐ Absolutely.
712
00:30:45,477 --> 00:30:47,179
‐ This rose would symbolize
713
00:30:47,179 --> 00:30:48,313
that this time has been
worth it
714
00:30:48,313 --> 00:30:50,315
and that, ultimately,
I will be able
715
00:30:50,315 --> 00:30:52,217
to get more time with Tayshia.
716
00:30:55,020 --> 00:30:56,822
‐ Ivan.
717
00:30:56,822 --> 00:30:59,358
‐ I think there's other guys
that have wasted time,
718
00:30:59,358 --> 00:31:00,759
wasted energy, and, you know,
719
00:31:00,759 --> 00:31:02,494
I think she will see
right through it
720
00:31:02,494 --> 00:31:03,662
and send 'em home.
721
00:31:03,662 --> 00:31:05,664
‐ Ivan, will you accept
this rose?
722
00:31:05,664 --> 00:31:07,466
‐ Yes, of course.
‐ [chuckles]
723
00:31:07,466 --> 00:31:09,101
‐ [indistinct whispering]
724
00:31:09,101 --> 00:31:16,141
♪ ♪
725
00:31:18,477 --> 00:31:21,313
‐ I am good enough
as any other guy out there
726
00:31:21,313 --> 00:31:23,115
to get her last rose.
727
00:31:23,115 --> 00:31:23,682
I definitely believe
728
00:31:23,682 --> 00:31:25,384
that I could be the one
for Tayshia,
729
00:31:25,384 --> 00:31:26,651
so fingers crossed
730
00:31:26,651 --> 00:31:29,254
that she feels
that same way too.
731
00:31:29,254 --> 00:31:36,261
♪ ♪
732
00:31:50,342 --> 00:31:52,577
‐ Noah.
733
00:31:52,577 --> 00:31:56,081
[solemn music]
734
00:31:56,081 --> 00:31:59,351
♪ ♪
735
00:31:59,351 --> 00:32:01,186
Noah, will you accept
this rose?
736
00:32:01,186 --> 00:32:02,988
‐ Yes.
737
00:32:04,523 --> 00:32:05,524
Mm‐hmm.
738
00:32:05,524 --> 00:32:13,031
♪ ♪
739
00:32:14,299 --> 00:32:15,434
‐ Guys, I'm sorry.
740
00:32:15,434 --> 00:32:16,735
If you didn't receive a rose,
741
00:32:16,735 --> 00:32:20,639
take a moment
and say your goodbyes.
742
00:32:20,639 --> 00:32:22,374
‐ Pleasure meeting you, dude.
743
00:32:22,374 --> 00:32:23,675
‐ Appreciate you.
‐ Yeah, for sure.
744
00:32:23,675 --> 00:32:26,278
Appreciate it.
‐ See you guys again.
745
00:32:26,278 --> 00:32:27,345
‐ Dog.
‐ Good run.
746
00:32:27,345 --> 00:32:28,680
We had a great run.
‐ Oh, thank God.
747
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,549
Okay.
Another shot.
748
00:32:30,549 --> 00:32:32,717
I'm happy to be alive.
That's it.
749
00:32:32,717 --> 00:32:35,353
Tayshia gave me
a reality check
750
00:32:35,353 --> 00:32:36,655
on kinda where I thought
we were,
751
00:32:36,655 --> 00:32:38,857
but even more importantly,
gave me a reality check
752
00:32:38,857 --> 00:32:41,960
on what I thought
she thinks is important.
753
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,830
Hopefully, the damage is done,
we can go to sleep,
754
00:32:44,830 --> 00:32:47,833
we can wake up,
and it's a new day.
755
00:32:47,833 --> 00:32:49,768
‐ Thank you so much.
I appreciate you.
756
00:32:49,768 --> 00:32:51,703
‐ I appreciate you too.
‐ [indistinct].
757
00:32:51,703 --> 00:32:54,272
I had the best time.
You have great guys here.
758
00:32:54,272 --> 00:32:55,474
It hurts, man.
759
00:32:55,474 --> 00:32:56,741
It's tough being this open
and knowing
760
00:32:56,741 --> 00:32:58,710
that there's a chance
it's gonna fail.
761
00:32:58,710 --> 00:33:00,846
I thought we had
a good connection,
762
00:33:00,846 --> 00:33:03,715
but I guess
it wasn't good enough.
763
00:33:03,715 --> 00:33:06,685
‐ And then there were seven.
764
00:33:06,685 --> 00:33:08,987
‐ Down to seven guys,
and for me, it's like,
765
00:33:08,987 --> 00:33:12,591
I have a real opportunity now
to explore love with someone,
766
00:33:12,591 --> 00:33:16,528
and it's scary and crazy
767
00:33:16,528 --> 00:33:18,864
and real.
768
00:33:18,864 --> 00:33:21,967
‐ Cheers to real love
with a real woman.
769
00:33:21,967 --> 00:33:24,569
‐ I can honestly say
I'm falling for Tayshia,
770
00:33:24,569 --> 00:33:26,438
but my one concern is,
771
00:33:26,438 --> 00:33:28,173
I don't think
it's, like, just me.
772
00:33:28,173 --> 00:33:30,675
all: Cheers.
773
00:33:30,675 --> 00:33:31,877
[dramatic music]
774
00:33:31,877 --> 00:33:34,279
‐ If there's a time
to express how you feel,
775
00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:36,248
this is the time.
776
00:33:36,248 --> 00:33:36,848
‐ Truth and honesty
777
00:33:36,848 --> 00:33:38,450
in a relationship
is everything.
778
00:33:38,450 --> 00:33:40,151
‐ Have you ever cheated
on someone?
779
00:33:40,151 --> 00:33:41,486
‐ Yes.
780
00:33:41,486 --> 00:33:42,787
‐ Every time I talk to him,
781
00:33:42,787 --> 00:33:44,523
I uncover something
that I'm just like,
782
00:33:44,523 --> 00:33:46,057
"Hold on a second."
783
00:33:47,325 --> 00:33:50,328
[tense music]
784
00:33:50,328 --> 00:33:52,531
♪ ♪
785
00:33:52,531 --> 00:33:53,698
‐ We're down to seven.
786
00:33:53,698 --> 00:33:55,901
I didn't expect it to be
that big of a cut.
787
00:33:55,901 --> 00:33:59,170
‐ Yeah, it's gonna be quiet
and weird at the house.
788
00:33:59,170 --> 00:33:59,738
‐ Totally.
789
00:33:59,738 --> 00:34:01,573
‐ More chances
for one‐on‐one time,
790
00:34:01,573 --> 00:34:02,807
which is what
everyone's been wanting.
791
00:34:02,807 --> 00:34:04,809
‐ It's mind‐boggling to think
792
00:34:04,809 --> 00:34:07,546
that I'm one
of the last guys remaining.
793
00:34:07,546 --> 00:34:08,680
This intensifies
794
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,849
every single moment
from here on out.
795
00:34:10,849 --> 00:34:15,353
The real, real journey
begins today.
796
00:34:15,353 --> 00:34:16,621
[door squeaks]
797
00:34:16,621 --> 00:34:17,789
‐ Hey, y'all.
‐ Hey, JoJo.
798
00:34:17,789 --> 00:34:18,924
‐ Good morning.
‐ JoJo.
799
00:34:18,924 --> 00:34:21,693
‐ Good morning.
‐ As crazy as last night was,
800
00:34:21,693 --> 00:34:23,628
Tayshia is feeling great
this morning, guys.
801
00:34:23,628 --> 00:34:26,565
She told me
she is falling in love.
802
00:34:26,565 --> 00:34:27,933
I do have news
803
00:34:27,933 --> 00:34:31,603
that will make things
much more serious.
804
00:34:31,603 --> 00:34:35,473
Next week is Hometown Week.
805
00:34:35,473 --> 00:34:39,444
Tayshia will be meeting
your families.
806
00:34:39,444 --> 00:34:40,845
I can't tell you guys enough
807
00:34:40,845 --> 00:34:43,481
how important
meeting the family is.
808
00:34:43,481 --> 00:34:44,816
This was the week I knew
809
00:34:44,816 --> 00:34:47,752
I was falling in love
with my fiancé, Jordan.
810
00:34:47,752 --> 00:34:50,989
So it's time to check in
with your feelings.
811
00:34:50,989 --> 00:34:54,492
In the meantime,
I have your first date card.
812
00:34:54,492 --> 00:34:55,694
Good luck.
‐ Thank you.
813
00:34:55,694 --> 00:34:57,529
‐ And I will see you guys
later, okay?
814
00:34:57,529 --> 00:34:58,530
‐ Thanks, JoJo.
‐ Bye.
815
00:34:58,530 --> 00:35:00,165
‐ Good to see you.
816
00:35:01,666 --> 00:35:02,801
All right, boys.
817
00:35:02,801 --> 00:35:05,236
Looks like we got
some business to get down to.
818
00:35:10,442 --> 00:35:11,643
"Ben,
819
00:35:11,643 --> 00:35:14,446
"falling in love
is full of surprises.
820
00:35:14,446 --> 00:35:16,448
Love, Tayshia."
821
00:35:16,448 --> 00:35:18,316
‐ You did it, boy.
‐ [laughs]
822
00:35:18,316 --> 00:35:19,484
You did it.
823
00:35:19,484 --> 00:35:20,919
‐ Spoke it into existence,
baby.
824
00:35:20,919 --> 00:35:23,655
‐ Grats, Benny Boy.
‐ Ah, there you go, B.
825
00:35:23,655 --> 00:35:26,558
‐ All right, guys,
gotta go get ready for my date.
826
00:35:26,558 --> 00:35:27,859
‐ Good luck, brother.
‐ Time has come.
827
00:35:27,859 --> 00:35:29,661
‐ Good luck, Benny Boy.
‐ Good luck, brother.
828
00:35:29,661 --> 00:35:30,729
‐ Good luck, Ben.
829
00:35:30,729 --> 00:35:32,631
‐ With JoJo
bringing up Hometowns
830
00:35:32,631 --> 00:35:33,932
and meeting the family,
831
00:35:33,932 --> 00:35:37,602
for myself, at least,
that's a really big step.
832
00:35:37,602 --> 00:35:38,870
But it's the right step though.
833
00:35:38,870 --> 00:35:40,739
That's why getting a rose
is so big.
834
00:35:40,739 --> 00:35:42,374
I'm excited for it.
835
00:35:42,374 --> 00:35:43,875
‐ My family's everything.
836
00:35:43,875 --> 00:35:47,712
So, like, when you bring that
into the equation,
837
00:35:47,712 --> 00:35:49,414
everything gets real.
838
00:35:49,414 --> 00:35:53,618
[sniffling]
839
00:35:53,618 --> 00:35:55,687
My mom and dad are my heroes,
840
00:35:55,687 --> 00:36:00,091
so that makes it
really real for me.
841
00:36:00,091 --> 00:36:02,794
What just happened is, like,
it went from, like,
842
00:36:02,794 --> 00:36:06,031
"Okay, we're here,
we're dating,"
843
00:36:06,031 --> 00:36:09,834
to, "My future wife could be
meeting my family."
844
00:36:09,834 --> 00:36:12,470
I'm literally sitting here
'cause they believed in me.
845
00:36:12,470 --> 00:36:13,471
‐ Yep.
846
00:36:13,471 --> 00:36:14,139
‐ So...
847
00:36:14,139 --> 00:36:17,642
My parents, I know
they just want me to be happy.
848
00:36:17,642 --> 00:36:20,912
Like, I know...
849
00:36:20,912 --> 00:36:24,616
that, like,
that's just all they want.
850
00:36:24,616 --> 00:36:28,753
And so, like, knowing
how happy I've been
851
00:36:28,753 --> 00:36:31,923
the last couple weeks
with Tayshia,
852
00:36:31,923 --> 00:36:35,894
they deserve to see that,
'cause, like,
853
00:36:35,894 --> 00:36:39,397
there's been some times
where I wasn't very happy.
854
00:36:39,397 --> 00:36:42,400
[soft music]
855
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:48,673
♪ ♪
856
00:36:48,673 --> 00:36:50,675
So it's a lot.
857
00:36:50,675 --> 00:36:52,977
It's a lot to take in.
[sniffles]
858
00:36:52,977 --> 00:36:54,979
When you start to bring
family into it,
859
00:36:54,979 --> 00:36:58,717
it just changes
the whole ball game.
860
00:36:58,717 --> 00:37:01,720
♪ ♪
861
00:37:01,720 --> 00:37:04,723
[upbeat music]
862
00:37:04,723 --> 00:37:10,795
♪ ♪
863
00:37:10,795 --> 00:37:12,497
‐ [giggles]
864
00:37:12,497 --> 00:37:13,665
‐ You look beautiful.
865
00:37:13,665 --> 00:37:15,633
‐ Thank you.
[laughs]
866
00:37:15,633 --> 00:37:17,669
‐ We got matching shoes.
867
00:37:17,669 --> 00:37:18,937
‐ Hi.
868
00:37:18,937 --> 00:37:20,839
How are you?
‐ I'm good.
869
00:37:20,839 --> 00:37:22,707
‐ Ben is someone
I've been excited about
870
00:37:22,707 --> 00:37:23,775
since day one.
871
00:37:23,775 --> 00:37:24,876
Last group date, he started,
872
00:37:24,876 --> 00:37:26,144
like, opening up
a little bit more,
873
00:37:26,144 --> 00:37:28,279
so the fact that
we finally have a one‐on‐one
874
00:37:28,279 --> 00:37:31,716
is gonna be crucial to see
if we can keep progressing,
875
00:37:31,716 --> 00:37:32,817
because I don't know
876
00:37:32,817 --> 00:37:34,886
if I could take him
to Hometowns.
877
00:37:34,886 --> 00:37:37,021
I'm still struggling to see
who he really is.
878
00:37:37,021 --> 00:37:38,990
‐ Whoo!
Coming in hot, you guys.
879
00:37:38,990 --> 00:37:40,692
‐ Look who it is.
‐ Hey.
880
00:37:40,692 --> 00:37:41,860
‐ Oh, my goodness.
881
00:37:41,860 --> 00:37:43,561
‐ You look so cute
on that thing.
882
00:37:43,561 --> 00:37:45,864
‐ Hey.
‐ Hi.
883
00:37:45,864 --> 00:37:48,967
‐ I have set up
a fun, amazing oasis,
884
00:37:48,967 --> 00:37:50,902
but you guys are gonna
have to work together
885
00:37:50,902 --> 00:37:53,805
on solving my little clues
and riddles
886
00:37:53,805 --> 00:37:55,874
in order to find this oasis.
887
00:37:55,874 --> 00:37:57,041
‐ Okay.
‐ Good news is,
888
00:37:57,041 --> 00:37:59,978
you guys do have two scooters
around the corner.
889
00:37:59,978 --> 00:38:02,747
I swear to you,
the hunt to the destination
890
00:38:02,747 --> 00:38:03,815
will be worth it.
‐ It's worth it, yeah.
891
00:38:03,815 --> 00:38:04,916
‐ I will see you later, okay?
‐ Okay.
892
00:38:04,916 --> 00:38:06,084
Sounds good. Bye.
‐ Okay. Good luck.
893
00:38:06,084 --> 00:38:08,086
‐ Thank you.
Wait, I wanna ride scooters.
894
00:38:08,086 --> 00:38:09,220
‐ I think
they're right over here.
895
00:38:09,220 --> 00:38:10,822
I've been waiting
for this one‐on‐one
896
00:38:10,822 --> 00:38:12,624
since the second I saw her
walk in the room
897
00:38:12,624 --> 00:38:14,092
on the first night.
898
00:38:14,092 --> 00:38:16,027
I'm incredibly grateful
that it's happening now,
899
00:38:16,027 --> 00:38:17,762
especially with Hometowns
900
00:38:17,762 --> 00:38:19,731
and, like, meeting families
coming up.
901
00:38:19,731 --> 00:38:20,932
You have to read the card.
902
00:38:20,932 --> 00:38:23,067
‐ Why? Oh.
‐ 'Cause it's on your scooter.
903
00:38:23,067 --> 00:38:25,904
Because if there's a time to
really express how you feel,
904
00:38:25,904 --> 00:38:27,972
this is, like,
the time to do that.
905
00:38:27,972 --> 00:38:32,610
‐ "Find me in the place
where the score is love."
906
00:38:32,610 --> 00:38:33,878
‐ Tennis. Love.
‐ Love?
907
00:38:33,878 --> 00:38:35,480
‐ Like, that's a score
in tennis.
908
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:36,281
That means zero.
909
00:38:36,281 --> 00:38:38,783
This is the most important day
of our journey and, like,
910
00:38:38,783 --> 00:38:41,886
I'm excited
to keep the momentum going.
911
00:38:41,886 --> 00:38:43,822
I haven't been on a date
with a girl in a long time.
912
00:38:43,822 --> 00:38:45,089
‐ Really?
‐ Yeah.
913
00:38:45,089 --> 00:38:47,759
‐ I mean, what did you think
it was gonna be like?
914
00:38:47,759 --> 00:38:49,027
‐ I didn't expect this.
915
00:38:49,027 --> 00:38:50,895
This is better. This is better.
‐ Going on‐‐being on scooters?
916
00:38:50,895 --> 00:38:52,030
‐ Well, yeah.
917
00:38:52,030 --> 00:38:53,832
Or just, like, being with you
in general, yeah.
918
00:38:53,832 --> 00:38:55,834
‐ [screams]
[laughs]
919
00:38:55,834 --> 00:38:57,902
I'm not that good yet.
920
00:38:57,902 --> 00:38:59,604
‐ Okay, I see a pool.
921
00:38:59,604 --> 00:39:00,772
‐ Ooh.
922
00:39:00,772 --> 00:39:02,240
‐ Filled with tennis balls.
923
00:39:02,240 --> 00:39:04,042
‐ Wait, do you think
the letter's in here?
924
00:39:04,042 --> 00:39:05,710
‐ I don't know.
‐ There's no way.
925
00:39:05,710 --> 00:39:09,681
‐ Kay, what if I just do this?
926
00:39:09,681 --> 00:39:10,815
‐ Ben!
927
00:39:10,815 --> 00:39:13,017
I found it!
[laughter]
928
00:39:13,017 --> 00:39:15,987
Here, you get to read this one.
929
00:39:15,987 --> 00:39:17,055
Oh, my gosh.
930
00:39:17,055 --> 00:39:20,058
I'm just gonna do it like that.
[laughs]
931
00:39:20,058 --> 00:39:21,826
Ooh.
‐ All right, I see it.
932
00:39:21,826 --> 00:39:23,194
‐ The date is very cute.
933
00:39:23,194 --> 00:39:25,029
I think this is up
both of our alleys.
934
00:39:25,029 --> 00:39:26,865
Probably the perfect date
for us.
935
00:39:26,865 --> 00:39:28,199
You are not.
936
00:39:28,199 --> 00:39:29,734
‐ I'm not gonna get
my pants wet.
937
00:39:29,734 --> 00:39:30,802
Are you kidding me?
938
00:39:30,802 --> 00:39:32,136
‐ I'm definitely not mad
at the fact
939
00:39:32,136 --> 00:39:33,905
that Ben also has
to take off his pants
940
00:39:33,905 --> 00:39:35,073
to get into the fountain.
941
00:39:35,073 --> 00:39:36,140
It's, like, a win‐win.
942
00:39:36,140 --> 00:39:38,142
I'm finding clues for my date,
943
00:39:38,142 --> 00:39:41,713
but he takes off his pa‐‐
like, I'm a happy girl.
944
00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,014
‐ "This journey
can be stressful,
945
00:39:43,014 --> 00:39:44,949
"but this is the one place
you can go to relax.
946
00:39:44,949 --> 00:39:46,885
Remember, it's what's inside
that counts."
947
00:39:46,885 --> 00:39:48,119
‐ It's inside
one of these babies.
948
00:39:48,119 --> 00:39:50,154
‐ It's inside the piñata.
‐ It's inside.
949
00:39:50,154 --> 00:39:51,823
So we have to hit all of them.
950
00:39:51,823 --> 00:39:54,792
‐ All of them.
Swing and hit it.
951
00:39:54,792 --> 00:39:55,827
Oh, better than that.
‐ [laughs]
952
00:39:55,827 --> 00:39:56,961
‐ Take a step forward.
953
00:39:56,961 --> 00:39:58,830
There we go.
954
00:39:58,830 --> 00:40:00,999
Yeah.
955
00:40:00,999 --> 00:40:02,834
‐ There's nothing in here.
956
00:40:05,036 --> 00:40:08,640
It was hilarious that we hit
every single piñata...
957
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:09,774
Come on, Ben!
958
00:40:09,774 --> 00:40:10,975
Oh, my God!
959
00:40:10,975 --> 00:40:13,878
Except for the one that
actually contained the clue.
960
00:40:13,878 --> 00:40:15,914
How is it the last one?
961
00:40:15,914 --> 00:40:18,182
Oh, wow.
962
00:40:18,182 --> 00:40:20,852
That's one way to‐‐
[laughs]
963
00:40:20,852 --> 00:40:22,720
‐ "This journey is a long one.
964
00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:25,556
Let's sit and relax."
965
00:40:27,425 --> 00:40:29,894
I did wanna say thanks
for inviting me on this date.
966
00:40:29,894 --> 00:40:30,962
‐ You're welcome.
967
00:40:30,962 --> 00:40:32,163
‐ I feel like
it's a long time coming,
968
00:40:32,163 --> 00:40:34,165
but I don't think it could've
come at a better time.
969
00:40:34,165 --> 00:40:35,900
‐ I would actually
have to agree.
970
00:40:35,900 --> 00:40:37,235
‐ Yeah, like,
I keep telling you.
971
00:40:37,235 --> 00:40:40,905
I, like, haven't had feelings
in a long time for anybody.
972
00:40:40,905 --> 00:40:42,006
‐ Yeah.
973
00:40:42,006 --> 00:40:43,975
‐ Today, I just kinda, like,
lost track of
974
00:40:43,975 --> 00:40:45,410
time and space and just‐‐
975
00:40:45,410 --> 00:40:48,980
‐ All the‐‐all the other things.
‐ Enjoyed the‐‐yeah.
976
00:40:48,980 --> 00:40:50,815
‐ This‐‐I finally got
977
00:40:50,815 --> 00:40:53,017
a little bit of you
the other night.
978
00:40:53,017 --> 00:40:54,052
‐ Yeah.
979
00:40:54,052 --> 00:40:55,853
‐ And even though
I kept pushing...
980
00:40:55,853 --> 00:40:57,088
‐ [laughs]
981
00:40:57,088 --> 00:40:59,757
‐ It could've been too late,
to be honest.
982
00:40:59,757 --> 00:41:00,391
‐ Yeah.
It could've.
983
00:41:00,391 --> 00:41:02,760
‐ And so that's what
I was just telling you.
984
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,028
Like, you have to just...
985
00:41:04,028 --> 00:41:05,997
‐ Let it out?
‐ Let it out.
986
00:41:05,997 --> 00:41:09,167
But I don't know why
you freak out about it so much.
987
00:41:09,167 --> 00:41:12,870
‐ Maybe it's me trying
to be perfect or whatever.
988
00:41:12,870 --> 00:41:14,005
I don't know.
‐ Yeah. Why?
989
00:41:14,005 --> 00:41:16,007
‐ I'm gonna cut that out.
I'm gonna quit it.
990
00:41:16,007 --> 00:41:17,175
I don't know.
991
00:41:17,175 --> 00:41:18,977
Maybe part of me
doesn't wanna share things
992
00:41:18,977 --> 00:41:21,079
because I'm afraid
of burdening you.
993
00:41:21,079 --> 00:41:23,881
But I trust you.
994
00:41:23,881 --> 00:41:26,317
‐ You do?
‐ Yeah.
995
00:41:26,317 --> 00:41:30,888
‐ You are a tough cookie
to crack,
996
00:41:30,888 --> 00:41:32,256
but I feel like
997
00:41:32,256 --> 00:41:33,992
you probably need it
more than you think.
998
00:41:33,992 --> 00:41:36,194
If I could be that person
to help you do that,
999
00:41:36,194 --> 00:41:38,262
it could, I don't know,
1000
00:41:38,262 --> 00:41:40,932
be the start to something
really special.
1001
00:41:40,932 --> 00:41:42,066
‐ Hope so.
1002
00:41:42,066 --> 00:41:43,601
To me.
‐ To you.
1003
00:41:43,601 --> 00:41:44,268
[laughs]
1004
00:41:44,268 --> 00:41:46,938
I feel like
Ben and I needed this date
1005
00:41:46,938 --> 00:41:49,040
and it couldn't come
at a better time.
1006
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,242
Now, we know we have fun
with each other.
1007
00:41:51,242 --> 00:41:53,044
But I feel like
there's still some things
1008
00:41:53,044 --> 00:41:54,178
I need to uncover with him,
1009
00:41:54,178 --> 00:41:56,047
and I want to know more
1010
00:41:56,047 --> 00:41:59,050
and I want to continue
down this path,
1011
00:41:59,050 --> 00:42:01,152
but with Ben, at this moment,
1012
00:42:01,152 --> 00:42:03,021
I don't know
if I could give him a rose,
1013
00:42:03,021 --> 00:42:06,024
because I have yet to see
who he really is,
1014
00:42:06,024 --> 00:42:08,893
and I really need him
to do that tonight.
1015
00:42:12,697 --> 00:42:15,700
[soft music]
1016
00:42:15,700 --> 00:42:18,002
♪ ♪
1017
00:42:18,002 --> 00:42:19,303
‐ Those are my favorite
so far.
1018
00:42:19,303 --> 00:42:20,838
‐ These shoes?
‐ Yeah.
1019
00:42:20,838 --> 00:42:22,840
People get wowed
by your dresses,
1020
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:23,908
but your shoes are always...
1021
00:42:23,908 --> 00:42:26,110
‐ [laughs]
‐ They're always on point.
1022
00:42:26,110 --> 00:42:28,146
‐ I, like, really like Ben.
1023
00:42:28,146 --> 00:42:30,982
He's so soft‐spoken
when he speaks.
1024
00:42:30,982 --> 00:42:33,151
I love that.
I love that he's been a leader.
1025
00:42:33,151 --> 00:42:35,019
I love that he's been
in the military.
1026
00:42:35,019 --> 00:42:37,255
‐ Here, let me get your chair.
‐ Oh, thank you.
1027
00:42:37,255 --> 00:42:38,556
I'd love to meet Ben's family
1028
00:42:38,556 --> 00:42:41,359
and see what makes him tick
and where his roots are,
1029
00:42:41,359 --> 00:42:43,294
but I just feel like
I'm still struggling
1030
00:42:43,294 --> 00:42:44,529
to see who he really is,
1031
00:42:44,529 --> 00:42:47,098
and I don't even know if
we can actually be something
1032
00:42:47,098 --> 00:42:49,267
if he doesn't open up to me.
1033
00:42:49,267 --> 00:42:51,169
‐ All right, before we start,
let's just do a cheers.
1034
00:42:51,169 --> 00:42:52,437
‐ Mm‐kay.
1035
00:42:52,437 --> 00:42:54,906
‐ I asked for their finest red,
so I don't know what we got.
1036
00:42:54,906 --> 00:42:55,907
‐ [laughs] Did you?
‐ Yeah.
1037
00:42:55,907 --> 00:42:57,075
‐ Thank you.
1038
00:42:57,075 --> 00:42:59,343
‐ I can't believe
this is real life.
1039
00:42:59,343 --> 00:43:01,279
I cannot believe
I'm sitting here with you,
1040
00:43:01,279 --> 00:43:02,914
and I'm so thankful.
1041
00:43:02,914 --> 00:43:03,981
‐ Of course.
1042
00:43:03,981 --> 00:43:07,085
Cheers.
1043
00:43:07,085 --> 00:43:08,186
Mmm.
1044
00:43:08,186 --> 00:43:10,455
‐ So, you know,
I came into this thing,
1045
00:43:10,455 --> 00:43:14,025
and I was hoping that I would
feel feelings for somebody
1046
00:43:14,025 --> 00:43:15,293
and develop a relationship,
1047
00:43:15,293 --> 00:43:17,195
but I had no idea
1048
00:43:17,195 --> 00:43:19,197
that it would, like,
happen this quickly.
1049
00:43:19,197 --> 00:43:21,265
‐ So...
1050
00:43:21,265 --> 00:43:24,168
I have actually said this
1051
00:43:24,168 --> 00:43:25,770
about you since day one.
1052
00:43:25,770 --> 00:43:26,370
‐ Say it.
1053
00:43:26,370 --> 00:43:29,740
‐ I feel like
you're almost too perfect.
1054
00:43:29,740 --> 00:43:30,441
‐ No.
1055
00:43:30,441 --> 00:43:33,010
‐ You say the right things.
You move the right way.
1056
00:43:33,010 --> 00:43:35,012
I feel like you want to, like,
1057
00:43:35,012 --> 00:43:38,282
display this perfect image
of yourself.
1058
00:43:38,282 --> 00:43:39,450
‐ I'm just a real human.
1059
00:43:39,450 --> 00:43:41,219
I know there's, like,
this thing where you think
1060
00:43:41,219 --> 00:43:43,354
I'm, like, trying to be perfect
all the time.
1061
00:43:43,354 --> 00:43:45,256
‐ I know you're holding back.
1062
00:43:45,256 --> 00:43:47,391
And I feel like
there's just, like‐‐
1063
00:43:47,391 --> 00:43:49,760
I don't even know, and, like...
1064
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:50,628
‐ Say it.
1065
00:43:50,628 --> 00:43:53,931
‐ I don't know, I feel like
there's just, like, hurt there.
1066
00:43:53,931 --> 00:43:55,466
‐ Uh...
1067
00:43:55,466 --> 00:43:57,101
You know, I was raised
in a house
1068
00:43:57,101 --> 00:43:58,336
where, like,
being perfect was expected
1069
00:43:58,336 --> 00:44:00,104
or, like, being a certain way
was expected.
1070
00:44:00,104 --> 00:44:02,106
You have to look the part,
you have to...
1071
00:44:02,106 --> 00:44:03,441
do all the things
a certain way.
1072
00:44:03,441 --> 00:44:06,544
I had everything I needed
materially,
1073
00:44:06,544 --> 00:44:09,247
but I think often,
I was left wanting emotionally,
1074
00:44:09,247 --> 00:44:11,983
and then I left home
when I was 18,
1075
00:44:11,983 --> 00:44:13,551
joined the army,
1076
00:44:13,551 --> 00:44:16,420
and I've just been conditioned
to be this person
1077
00:44:16,420 --> 00:44:18,256
that even when
I'm feeling vulnerable,
1078
00:44:18,256 --> 00:44:20,191
I default
to what's most comfortable.
1079
00:44:20,191 --> 00:44:22,460
It's easier for me to do this
1080
00:44:22,460 --> 00:44:25,396
than to, like,
say the wrong thing
1081
00:44:25,396 --> 00:44:28,332
or, like, be overtly vulnerable
1082
00:44:28,332 --> 00:44:30,501
or, like, share a thing
1083
00:44:30,501 --> 00:44:32,970
that's really uncomfortable
for me.
1084
00:44:32,970 --> 00:44:34,405
‐ Of course.
Of course.
1085
00:44:34,405 --> 00:44:37,375
This is the thing about it all,
is just‐‐we're just talking.
1086
00:44:37,375 --> 00:44:38,609
‐ Yeah.
‐ And I get it.
1087
00:44:38,609 --> 00:44:42,446
You are guarding yourself,
but, like, I'm here.
1088
00:44:42,446 --> 00:44:45,049
‐ Yeah.
‐ And I'm interested.
1089
00:44:45,049 --> 00:44:46,484
‐ What do you wanna know?
1090
00:44:46,484 --> 00:44:48,186
‐ What do you mean,
what do I wanna know?
1091
00:44:48,186 --> 00:44:49,287
I wanna know everything.
1092
00:44:49,287 --> 00:44:51,088
‐ Ask me a question.
1093
00:44:51,088 --> 00:44:52,156
‐ Okay.
‐ Or ask more. Like‐‐
1094
00:44:52,156 --> 00:44:53,624
‐ Are you really close
with your family?
1095
00:44:53,624 --> 00:44:56,027
'Cause I feel like
you don't talk about them much.
1096
00:44:56,027 --> 00:44:57,061
‐ My sister.
1097
00:44:57,061 --> 00:44:58,229
She's the best person I know,
1098
00:44:58,229 --> 00:45:01,232
and she's saved my life
in more ways than one.
1099
00:45:01,232 --> 00:45:04,936
‐ Yeah.
How did she help you?
1100
00:45:04,936 --> 00:45:05,970
‐ Um...
1101
00:45:07,872 --> 00:45:08,439
[sighs]
1102
00:45:08,439 --> 00:45:11,275
2018 was, like,
a rough year for me.
1103
00:45:11,275 --> 00:45:12,376
I had left a career
1104
00:45:12,376 --> 00:45:14,078
that I thought
I was gonna be in forever.
1105
00:45:14,078 --> 00:45:15,379
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1106
00:45:15,379 --> 00:45:18,482
‐ The army didn't end up
working out for me
1107
00:45:18,482 --> 00:45:21,219
for a number of reasons,
but I‐‐
1108
00:45:21,219 --> 00:45:24,255
I ended up breaking my back
pretty‐‐pretty bad,
1109
00:45:24,255 --> 00:45:26,390
and, like, I'm 26 years old,
1110
00:45:26,390 --> 00:45:29,160
and I can barely walk up
the steps and, like,
1111
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:30,328
um,
1112
00:45:30,328 --> 00:45:32,230
was living in a city
that was too expensive for me
1113
00:45:32,230 --> 00:45:35,132
and I was completely lost.
1114
00:45:35,132 --> 00:45:38,102
My life was very dark.
1115
00:45:38,102 --> 00:45:39,704
Um...
1116
00:45:43,174 --> 00:45:45,243
And, like,
I didn't know how to say
1117
00:45:45,243 --> 00:45:48,246
that I needed things.
1118
00:45:48,246 --> 00:45:50,181
I don't know if you can relate
with, like, that,
1119
00:45:50,181 --> 00:45:52,950
or, like, how that can be.
1120
00:45:52,950 --> 00:45:53,718
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1121
00:45:53,718 --> 00:45:58,122
‐ The only person I confided in
was my sister, and, um...
1122
00:46:00,291 --> 00:46:03,361
Um, so, like‐‐
1123
00:46:03,361 --> 00:46:05,263
I'm trying to, like, give you
the whole picture, but‐‐
1124
00:46:05,263 --> 00:46:07,064
‐ It's okay.
We have time.
1125
00:46:07,064 --> 00:46:08,132
‐ Um...
1126
00:46:12,069 --> 00:46:15,406
You know, I...
1127
00:46:15,406 --> 00:46:19,210
I guess we can go deep.
1128
00:46:19,210 --> 00:46:20,411
I, uh,
1129
00:46:20,411 --> 00:46:22,213
I had two
failed suicide attempts
1130
00:46:22,213 --> 00:46:25,383
in 2018 and 2019.
1131
00:46:25,383 --> 00:46:26,550
‐ Oh, my gosh.
1132
00:46:26,550 --> 00:46:28,319
‐ And I don't mean to, like,
throw that on you.
1133
00:46:28,319 --> 00:46:31,789
It's, like,
a weird thing to do here.
1134
00:46:31,789 --> 00:46:35,459
My sister, she doesn't know,
and I guess she'll know now.
1135
00:46:35,459 --> 00:46:37,128
[laughs softly]
1136
00:46:37,128 --> 00:46:37,795
I know.
1137
00:46:37,795 --> 00:46:40,298
And when I get worried
and I get nervous, I smile,
1138
00:46:40,298 --> 00:46:41,432
and so I'm, like, smiling.
1139
00:46:41,432 --> 00:46:43,000
‐ You're fine.
1140
00:46:46,504 --> 00:46:47,705
‐ But I didn't wanna
be here anymore,
1141
00:46:47,705 --> 00:46:51,542
and for the same reason
that I don't like to share.
1142
00:46:51,542 --> 00:46:55,179
'Cause I didn't wanna burden
anybody with my problems,
1143
00:46:55,179 --> 00:46:57,548
and I thought
that the easiest way
1144
00:46:57,548 --> 00:47:00,117
was to just not be around.
1145
00:47:00,117 --> 00:47:03,120
Luckily,
1146
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,289
it didn't work.
1147
00:47:05,289 --> 00:47:08,392
And the only thing
that got me through that
1148
00:47:08,392 --> 00:47:11,329
was her, and she has no idea.
1149
00:47:11,329 --> 00:47:14,298
She saved my life, and so I‐‐
1150
00:47:14,298 --> 00:47:15,499
I owe her everything.
1151
00:47:15,499 --> 00:47:17,335
‐ You never told her?
‐ No.
1152
00:47:17,335 --> 00:47:19,470
That would make her
more worried.
1153
00:47:19,470 --> 00:47:21,205
I just didn't think
it was the right time
1154
00:47:21,205 --> 00:47:23,374
or the right place.
1155
00:47:23,374 --> 00:47:25,443
And so I, uh,
1156
00:47:25,443 --> 00:47:29,714
through being very intentional
and aggressive with my therapy,
1157
00:47:29,714 --> 00:47:33,351
the person that you see
before you today, like,
1158
00:47:33,351 --> 00:47:35,119
isn't that person.
1159
00:47:35,119 --> 00:47:37,455
♪ ♪
1160
00:47:37,455 --> 00:47:39,523
It's insane
that I just told you that,
1161
00:47:39,523 --> 00:47:42,193
because I, like,
don't tell people that.
1162
00:47:42,193 --> 00:47:42,860
‐ Ben.
1163
00:47:42,860 --> 00:47:45,396
‐ I was very scared about
sharing all of those things.
1164
00:47:45,396 --> 00:47:46,464
‐ Really?
1165
00:47:46,464 --> 00:47:48,232
‐ Yeah.
[chuckles]
1166
00:47:48,232 --> 00:47:50,334
And I‐‐I'm okay.
1167
00:47:50,334 --> 00:47:52,103
‐ You're okay.
1168
00:47:52,103 --> 00:47:53,170
‐ And that's pretty cool.
1169
00:47:53,170 --> 00:47:55,072
‐ And I'm still right here.
1170
00:47:55,072 --> 00:47:56,173
‐ Yeah.
1171
00:47:56,173 --> 00:47:58,542
‐ I see you and I hear you.
1172
00:47:58,542 --> 00:48:00,344
And that's all
I've been wanting.
1173
00:48:00,344 --> 00:48:02,713
I just‐‐I have been wanting you
to open up to me,
1174
00:48:02,713 --> 00:48:06,150
and I've been wanting
to, like, get to know you.
1175
00:48:06,150 --> 00:48:08,519
You're an amazing person.
1176
00:48:08,519 --> 00:48:11,689
‐ I don't wanna cry,
but thank you.
1177
00:48:11,689 --> 00:48:15,092
I really appreciate it,
you just being here.
1178
00:48:15,092 --> 00:48:16,594
‐ Absolutely.
1179
00:48:16,594 --> 00:48:19,096
‐ It literally means
the world to me.
1180
00:48:23,434 --> 00:48:24,769
‐ Benjamin.
‐ Yes?
1181
00:48:24,769 --> 00:48:26,704
‐ I know that tonight
was really hard
1182
00:48:26,704 --> 00:48:28,339
for you to open up about things
1183
00:48:28,339 --> 00:48:29,807
that you really don't tell
many people.
1184
00:48:29,807 --> 00:48:33,544
Since day one, that's all
I've been wanting from you.
1185
00:48:33,544 --> 00:48:37,381
I'm so incredibly happy
that you're here.
1186
00:48:37,381 --> 00:48:38,482
‐ Me too.
1187
00:48:38,482 --> 00:48:40,384
‐ I'm so happy you were able
to take this step
1188
00:48:40,384 --> 00:48:43,354
so that we could progress
our relationship,
1189
00:48:43,354 --> 00:48:45,423
and I wanna know
if you'd accept this rose.
1190
00:48:45,423 --> 00:48:47,324
‐ Always.
‐ [laughs]
1191
00:48:47,324 --> 00:48:48,659
[tender music]
1192
00:48:48,659 --> 00:48:50,494
‐ Thank you.
‐ Of course.
1193
00:48:50,494 --> 00:48:56,400
♪ ♪
1194
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,736
Tonight, I needed Ben
to open up,
1195
00:48:58,736 --> 00:49:01,372
and I cannot even begin
to express
1196
00:49:01,372 --> 00:49:03,841
how much it meant for me
for him to do that.
1197
00:49:03,841 --> 00:49:06,677
This is a huge step
in our relationship.
1198
00:49:06,677 --> 00:49:08,612
It makes me feel like
he trusts me,
1199
00:49:08,612 --> 00:49:10,214
and I think
it's the breakthrough
1200
00:49:10,214 --> 00:49:10,948
that we needed to have
1201
00:49:10,948 --> 00:49:13,517
to really take that next step
in our relationship.
1202
00:49:13,517 --> 00:49:15,553
I'm really excited
to meet his family.
1203
00:49:15,553 --> 00:49:19,390
["Between Me and
the End of the World" playing]
1204
00:49:19,390 --> 00:49:21,692
Ever had a private show before?
1205
00:49:21,692 --> 00:49:25,296
[soft acoustic guitar music]
1206
00:49:25,296 --> 00:49:29,533
♪ ♪
1207
00:49:29,533 --> 00:49:33,404
‐ ♪ Thank yous don't cut it ♪
1208
00:49:33,404 --> 00:49:38,442
♪ I mean, what do you get ♪
1209
00:49:38,442 --> 00:49:41,645
♪ For the one who sees a crowd
running up ♪
1210
00:49:41,645 --> 00:49:46,484
♪ And then decides to run in? ♪
1211
00:49:46,484 --> 00:49:50,654
♪ It's grace under fire ♪
1212
00:49:50,654 --> 00:49:55,559
♪ It's courage for days ♪
1213
00:49:55,559 --> 00:49:57,695
♪ You're hiding your hands ♪
1214
00:49:57,695 --> 00:50:02,833
♪ And just some of God's
mysterious ways ♪
1215
00:50:02,833 --> 00:50:05,803
‐ Today's date,
it's just been perfect.
1216
00:50:05,803 --> 00:50:09,740
And now we have
this stunning private concert
1217
00:50:09,740 --> 00:50:12,376
with Adam Hambrick performing.
1218
00:50:12,376 --> 00:50:14,678
It truly is a magical moment.
1219
00:50:14,678 --> 00:50:18,782
‐ ♪ It feels like the sky
might fall this time ♪
1220
00:50:18,782 --> 00:50:22,820
♪ And all the bad news hits
too close to home ♪
1221
00:50:22,820 --> 00:50:27,358
♪ And the darkness
is drowning the light ♪
1222
00:50:27,358 --> 00:50:29,827
♪ But I know ♪
1223
00:50:29,827 --> 00:50:33,731
♪ Just who I got
fighting on my side ♪
1224
00:50:33,731 --> 00:50:38,469
♪ Facing all the fire
the devil can hurl ♪
1225
00:50:38,469 --> 00:50:40,905
♪ It's a hell of a thing ♪
1226
00:50:40,905 --> 00:50:44,708
♪ Watching you
standing between ♪
1227
00:50:44,708 --> 00:50:50,648
♪ Between me and the end
of the world, yeah ♪
1228
00:50:50,648 --> 00:50:52,650
♪ The end of the world ♪
1229
00:50:52,650 --> 00:50:55,686
‐ The way Ben made me
feel tonight
1230
00:50:55,686 --> 00:50:58,622
is the way that I wanna feel
with my future husband.
1231
00:50:58,622 --> 00:51:00,758
I feel so connected with him
right now.
1232
00:51:00,758 --> 00:51:02,693
I could really see him
1233
00:51:02,693 --> 00:51:04,728
being by my side
for the rest of my life.
1234
00:51:04,728 --> 00:51:06,830
I truly love Ben.
1235
00:51:06,830 --> 00:51:10,234
‐ ♪ Me and the end
of the world ♪
1236
00:51:10,234 --> 00:51:15,039
♪ ♪
1237
00:51:15,039 --> 00:51:17,908
‐ Ben's been waiting on this
one‐on‐one for a while,
1238
00:51:17,908 --> 00:51:20,311
and I think, you know,
he'll make it to Hometowns
1239
00:51:20,311 --> 00:51:21,946
and go in feeling good.
1240
00:51:21,946 --> 00:51:24,415
‐ I don't wanna go
on the group date at all.
1241
00:51:24,415 --> 00:51:25,716
Even if I got
a Group Date Rose,
1242
00:51:25,716 --> 00:51:28,519
it's like I'm going in, still,
with no one‐on‐one time.
1243
00:51:28,519 --> 00:51:30,354
I'm, like,
hanging on by a thread
1244
00:51:30,354 --> 00:51:31,555
is what I feel like.
1245
00:51:31,555 --> 00:51:33,657
Hometowns are
around the corner.
1246
00:51:33,657 --> 00:51:35,726
I'm very, very into Tayshia.
1247
00:51:35,726 --> 00:51:38,662
[knock at door]
‐ Yup.
1248
00:51:38,662 --> 00:51:41,599
‐ I know it would work
if we really gave it a shot
1249
00:51:41,599 --> 00:51:44,602
and if I got a one‐on‐one,
1250
00:51:44,602 --> 00:51:47,404
but I have no idea
what she's thinking.
1251
00:51:47,404 --> 00:51:50,341
[dramatic music]
1252
00:51:50,341 --> 00:51:52,376
♪ ♪
1253
00:51:52,376 --> 00:51:54,345
‐ Zac,
1254
00:51:54,345 --> 00:51:56,513
Brendan,
1255
00:51:56,513 --> 00:51:58,349
Ivan,
1256
00:51:58,349 --> 00:51:59,617
Noah...
1257
00:51:59,617 --> 00:52:03,587
♪ ♪
1258
00:52:03,587 --> 00:52:06,023
Riley.
1259
00:52:06,023 --> 00:52:09,426
"The truth is that
I'm falling in love.
1260
00:52:09,426 --> 00:52:12,463
Tayshia."
1261
00:52:12,463 --> 00:52:13,597
‐ Blake.
1262
00:52:13,597 --> 00:52:15,532
‐ There we go.
1263
00:52:15,532 --> 00:52:16,834
That's big.
1264
00:52:16,834 --> 00:52:20,537
‐ I'm a little bummed.
I wanted the one‐on‐one.
1265
00:52:20,537 --> 00:52:23,641
Every minute I have,
1266
00:52:23,641 --> 00:52:26,777
at this point, is, like,
1267
00:52:26,777 --> 00:52:28,612
you know, critical.
1268
00:52:28,612 --> 00:52:31,949
So I will go into that
group date fearlessly
1269
00:52:31,949 --> 00:52:33,751
and lay it on the line
and let her know
1270
00:52:33,751 --> 00:52:35,085
that I'm having
really strong feelings
1271
00:52:35,085 --> 00:52:37,888
and that when I love someone,
I will do anything for them.
1272
00:52:37,888 --> 00:52:39,556
Literally anything.
1273
00:52:42,726 --> 00:52:45,529
[soft, tense music]
1274
00:52:45,529 --> 00:52:47,731
♪ ♪
1275
00:52:47,731 --> 00:52:50,701
‐ This is the‐‐
essentially the last impression
1276
00:52:50,701 --> 00:52:53,604
that we can have on Tayshia
until the Rose Ceremony
1277
00:52:53,604 --> 00:52:55,973
and until she meets,
you know, our family,
1278
00:52:55,973 --> 00:52:58,742
so there's a lot
riding on today
1279
00:52:58,742 --> 00:53:00,744
as far as a group date goes.
1280
00:53:00,744 --> 00:53:04,448
‐ The rose tonight means
Tayshia meets my family,
1281
00:53:04,448 --> 00:53:06,784
so I don't think it gets
1282
00:53:06,784 --> 00:53:09,453
more real than that.
1283
00:53:09,453 --> 00:53:10,554
‐ Let's do it.
1284
00:53:10,554 --> 00:53:11,822
‐ Today is the group date
1285
00:53:11,822 --> 00:53:13,757
right before
a group of us are granted
1286
00:53:13,757 --> 00:53:14,958
hometown dates with Tayshia
1287
00:53:14,958 --> 00:53:16,794
and she gets to meet
our families,
1288
00:53:16,794 --> 00:53:21,632
so she's gonna
probably challenge us today,
1289
00:53:21,632 --> 00:53:24,001
and that's okay.
1290
00:53:24,001 --> 00:53:25,069
I just wanna make sure if she‐‐
1291
00:53:25,069 --> 00:53:26,704
like, if she has any questions
about me.
1292
00:53:26,704 --> 00:53:27,971
‐ [laughs]
1293
00:53:27,971 --> 00:53:30,474
‐ I just want her to have
everything that she needs.
1294
00:53:30,474 --> 00:53:32,342
[laughter]
1295
00:53:32,342 --> 00:53:33,010
‐ Hi!
1296
00:53:33,010 --> 00:53:35,479
‐ You look gorgeous as always.
‐ Thank you.
1297
00:53:35,479 --> 00:53:36,613
How are you?
‐ I'm great.
1298
00:53:36,613 --> 00:53:37,681
‐ [laughs]
‐ Hey, how are you?
1299
00:53:37,681 --> 00:53:38,916
Good.
How are you?
1300
00:53:38,916 --> 00:53:41,752
‐ Potentially introducing
my family to Tayshia,
1301
00:53:41,752 --> 00:53:44,855
yeah, I feel like
that's a huge, pivotal moment
1302
00:53:44,855 --> 00:53:48,592
in the progression of Tayshia
and I's relationship,
1303
00:53:48,592 --> 00:53:49,860
so we're gonna have fun today
1304
00:53:49,860 --> 00:53:52,529
and see who gets
that Group Date Rose.
1305
00:53:52,529 --> 00:53:54,631
‐ Well, the date card said,
1306
00:53:54,631 --> 00:53:56,900
"Truth is,
I'm falling in love."
1307
00:53:56,900 --> 00:54:00,504
Have any idea
of what that means?
1308
00:54:00,504 --> 00:54:01,672
Let's go see, shall we?
1309
00:54:01,672 --> 00:54:02,740
‐ Let's find out.
‐ What do you think it is?
1310
00:54:02,740 --> 00:54:03,974
‐ Let's go.
‐ Let's check it out.
1311
00:54:03,974 --> 00:54:05,242
‐ Hometowns are next week
1312
00:54:05,242 --> 00:54:08,712
and I wanna be sure
their heart is where mine is,
1313
00:54:08,712 --> 00:54:11,014
so today is the day
1314
00:54:11,014 --> 00:54:13,917
where I'm gonna put the guys
to the test
1315
00:54:13,917 --> 00:54:15,919
and see just how truthful
they are.
1316
00:54:15,919 --> 00:54:17,755
[tense music]
1317
00:54:17,755 --> 00:54:19,389
[computer beeps]
1318
00:54:19,389 --> 00:54:21,625
♪ ♪
1319
00:54:21,625 --> 00:54:23,660
‐ Let's see.
‐ Okay.
1320
00:54:23,660 --> 00:54:25,062
What do we have here?
1321
00:54:25,062 --> 00:54:26,563
‐ Hello, everyone.
‐ What's up, JoJo?
1322
00:54:26,563 --> 00:54:27,765
‐ How you doing?
1323
00:54:27,765 --> 00:54:29,900
[soft laughter]
1324
00:54:29,900 --> 00:54:32,970
‐ Okay, so as you can see,
I brought my girlfriend JoJo
1325
00:54:32,970 --> 00:54:35,672
to help me with today's date.
1326
00:54:35,672 --> 00:54:36,974
Honesty is probably
1327
00:54:36,974 --> 00:54:38,909
one of the most important
things in a relationship,
1328
00:54:38,909 --> 00:54:41,779
and with this
little contraption over here,
1329
00:54:41,779 --> 00:54:43,080
that is a polygraph test,
1330
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,849
and we are gonna be testing
you all today.
1331
00:54:45,849 --> 00:54:47,818
‐ Oh, jeez.
1332
00:54:47,818 --> 00:54:49,753
‐ Oh, boy.
1333
00:54:49,753 --> 00:54:51,789
‐ Did everyone just get
super nervous?
1334
00:54:51,789 --> 00:54:52,856
‐ We've got nothing
to lie about.
1335
00:54:52,856 --> 00:54:54,024
Right, boys?
[laughter]
1336
00:54:54,024 --> 00:54:55,893
‐ You sure about that?
1337
00:54:55,893 --> 00:54:57,761
‐ One by one,
each of you will come up
1338
00:54:57,761 --> 00:55:00,097
and we will ask you
a series of questions.
1339
00:55:00,097 --> 00:55:03,867
If you're telling the truth,
the green light will flash.
1340
00:55:03,867 --> 00:55:06,870
If you're telling a lie,
the red bulb will light up.
1341
00:55:06,870 --> 00:55:08,038
[buzzes]
1342
00:55:08,038 --> 00:55:09,973
And if the lie detector
can't determine
1343
00:55:09,973 --> 00:55:12,609
if you're telling a truth
or a lie,
1344
00:55:12,609 --> 00:55:14,144
the orange bulb will light up.
1345
00:55:14,144 --> 00:55:15,779
‐ I definitely,
like, stiffened up
1346
00:55:15,779 --> 00:55:16,980
and got a little bit nervous,
you know?
1347
00:55:16,980 --> 00:55:18,949
Oh, boy, here we go.
1348
00:55:18,949 --> 00:55:20,918
‐ So I've actually come up
with a few questions
1349
00:55:20,918 --> 00:55:22,820
that I'd love to get
the answers to.
1350
00:55:22,820 --> 00:55:25,088
Some are serious,
some are fun and silly,
1351
00:55:25,088 --> 00:55:27,758
but also trying to get down
to the nitty‐gritty.
1352
00:55:27,758 --> 00:55:29,092
‐ But just to put
a fun little twist on it,
1353
00:55:29,092 --> 00:55:32,162
Tayshia will also be taking
the test.
1354
00:55:32,162 --> 00:55:34,932
All right, so take a seat.
‐ Okay.
1355
00:55:34,932 --> 00:55:36,834
Yes, I'm nervous
about a lie detector test,
1356
00:55:36,834 --> 00:55:37,935
not that I have
something to hide,
1357
00:55:37,935 --> 00:55:39,837
but she's been
trying to get me
1358
00:55:39,837 --> 00:55:41,004
to peel back some layers.
1359
00:55:41,004 --> 00:55:42,706
She could peel back
some of those layers
1360
00:55:42,706 --> 00:55:43,874
with a few questions
here today.
1361
00:55:43,874 --> 00:55:45,742
‐ Let's strap you in.
1362
00:55:45,742 --> 00:55:46,944
‐ You nervous or what?
‐ No, I'm not.
1363
00:55:46,944 --> 00:55:48,846
‐ Yeah, seems a little nervous
to me.
1364
00:55:48,846 --> 00:55:51,782
‐ It can be difficult
for me to trust people,
1365
00:55:51,782 --> 00:55:53,917
especially after my divorce,
1366
00:55:53,917 --> 00:55:56,653
and so for me,
in my next relationship,
1367
00:55:56,653 --> 00:55:58,889
trust is everything.
1368
00:55:58,889 --> 00:56:01,725
If I can't trust you,
what's the point?
1369
00:56:01,725 --> 00:56:03,794
‐ You ready, girl?
‐ Let's do it.
1370
00:56:03,794 --> 00:56:06,697
‐ Are you truly
falling in love?
1371
00:56:06,697 --> 00:56:09,032
‐ Yes.
1372
00:56:09,032 --> 00:56:11,034
[dings]
‐ Aww.
1373
00:56:11,034 --> 00:56:13,170
‐ I didn't like the hesitation,
but I'll take the green.
1374
00:56:13,170 --> 00:56:16,139
‐ They're all super happy
right now.
1375
00:56:16,139 --> 00:56:21,478
Are you falling in love
with more than one person?
1376
00:56:21,478 --> 00:56:24,014
‐ Yes.
1377
00:56:24,014 --> 00:56:27,050
‐ Wow.
‐ That's a good question.
1378
00:56:27,050 --> 00:56:29,553
‐ Do you regret
sending anyone home?
1379
00:56:29,553 --> 00:56:31,722
‐ No.
1380
00:56:31,722 --> 00:56:32,856
[buzzes]
[gasps]
1381
00:56:32,856 --> 00:56:34,758
♪ ♪
1382
00:56:34,758 --> 00:56:35,993
‐ Okay.
‐ Uh‐oh.
1383
00:56:35,993 --> 00:56:37,494
‐ Okay.
1384
00:56:39,096 --> 00:56:43,600
‐ Do you think your husband
is in the group of men left?
1385
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,802
‐ Yes.
1386
00:56:47,738 --> 00:56:49,539
[dings]
[laughs]
1387
00:56:49,539 --> 00:56:50,874
‐ Aww.
1388
00:56:50,874 --> 00:56:52,743
And that's how it's done,
gentlemen.
1389
00:56:52,743 --> 00:56:55,078
Next up, Ivan.
‐ Okay.
1390
00:56:55,078 --> 00:56:56,847
I'm gonna be truthful.
I'm gonna be honest.
1391
00:56:56,847 --> 00:56:58,181
I'm gonna own anything
that I get asked.
1392
00:56:58,181 --> 00:56:59,416
‐ Is that good?
‐ Yeah, that's good.
1393
00:56:59,416 --> 00:57:01,351
Other guys, I don't know
if they'll be able to do that,
1394
00:57:01,351 --> 00:57:04,187
so this is a great opportunity
for me to separate myself
1395
00:57:04,187 --> 00:57:05,822
more than I already have.
1396
00:57:05,822 --> 00:57:07,791
‐ All right, buckle in.
‐ Uh‐huh.
1397
00:57:07,791 --> 00:57:09,159
‐ Have you ever been aroused
1398
00:57:09,159 --> 00:57:12,029
while spending time
with Tayshia?
1399
00:57:12,029 --> 00:57:13,697
‐ [gasps]
1400
00:57:13,697 --> 00:57:14,932
‐ Yes.
1401
00:57:14,932 --> 00:57:16,967
[dings]
[laughter]
1402
00:57:16,967 --> 00:57:18,969
‐ Yeah, girl.
‐ [laughs]
1403
00:57:18,969 --> 00:57:20,671
‐ Do you want children?
1404
00:57:20,671 --> 00:57:21,872
‐ Yes.
1405
00:57:21,872 --> 00:57:22,873
[dings]
1406
00:57:22,873 --> 00:57:24,074
‐ That was a quick green.
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1407
00:57:24,074 --> 00:57:26,977
‐ He wanna make some babies
with you, girl.
1408
00:57:26,977 --> 00:57:28,145
‐ It's all fun and games
1409
00:57:28,145 --> 00:57:31,181
until somebody gets
their first lie.
1410
00:57:31,181 --> 00:57:34,751
‐ Has anyone ever faked
an orgasm with you?
1411
00:57:34,751 --> 00:57:36,720
‐ No.
1412
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,823
[buzzes]
[laughter]
1413
00:57:39,823 --> 00:57:41,325
Okay.
1414
00:57:41,325 --> 00:57:43,727
‐ Are you ready to meet
Tayshia's family?
1415
00:57:43,727 --> 00:57:45,829
‐ Yes.
1416
00:57:45,829 --> 00:57:47,831
[dings]
1417
00:57:47,831 --> 00:57:49,933
‐ Do you miss your mustache?
1418
00:57:49,933 --> 00:57:51,635
‐ No.
1419
00:57:51,635 --> 00:57:52,636
[buzzes]
1420
00:57:52,636 --> 00:57:54,905
[laughter]
1421
00:57:54,905 --> 00:57:56,640
It misses me too, really.
1422
00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:58,308
[laughter]
1423
00:57:58,308 --> 00:58:01,144
‐ A lie detector test
is no joke,
1424
00:58:01,144 --> 00:58:03,380
so I'm definitely nervous.
1425
00:58:03,380 --> 00:58:07,050
Just settle down my heart rate
and see how this goes.
1426
00:58:07,050 --> 00:58:08,218
‐ Do you believe
you're prepared
1427
00:58:08,218 --> 00:58:10,921
to propose to Tayshia
at the end of all this?
1428
00:58:13,123 --> 00:58:15,892
‐ I hope so.
1429
00:58:15,892 --> 00:58:17,294
[dings]
1430
00:58:17,294 --> 00:58:19,930
‐ Are you ready to meet
Tayshia's family?
1431
00:58:19,930 --> 00:58:22,933
‐ Yes.
1432
00:58:22,933 --> 00:58:25,302
[buzzes]
1433
00:58:25,302 --> 00:58:28,638
‐ Are you ready for Tayshia
to meet your family next week?
1434
00:58:28,638 --> 00:58:31,074
‐ I am.
1435
00:58:31,074 --> 00:58:33,343
[buzzes]
‐ Hmm.
1436
00:58:33,343 --> 00:58:35,645
‐ I swear I am.
[laughs softly]
1437
00:58:35,645 --> 00:58:36,146
‐ Wow.
1438
00:58:36,146 --> 00:58:40,050
Brendan's answer surprised me.
1439
00:58:40,050 --> 00:58:41,952
It's interesting.
1440
00:58:41,952 --> 00:58:43,153
Quite shocked.
1441
00:58:43,153 --> 00:58:46,189
I wonder now, like, what else?
1442
00:58:46,189 --> 00:58:47,958
‐ Have you ever cheated
on someone?
1443
00:58:47,958 --> 00:58:49,159
‐ Yes.
1444
00:58:49,159 --> 00:58:50,827
[dings]
1445
00:58:50,827 --> 00:58:54,131
♪ ♪
1446
00:58:54,131 --> 00:58:57,234
‐ Zac just, like,
really disappointed me.
1447
00:58:57,234 --> 00:59:00,137
‐ Can you see yourself
falling in love with Tayshia?
1448
00:59:00,137 --> 00:59:02,773
‐ It might have
already happened.
1449
00:59:02,773 --> 00:59:05,142
[dings]
1450
00:59:05,142 --> 00:59:07,177
‐ I'm not gonna lie,
I feel like the saying is true:
1451
00:59:07,177 --> 00:59:08,578
once a cheater,
always a cheater.
1452
00:59:08,578 --> 00:59:11,148
They're kinda things I told
myself was a nonnegotiable.
1453
00:59:11,148 --> 00:59:13,050
So, like, now,
it's kinda like,
1454
00:59:13,050 --> 00:59:15,018
what else are we going
to uncover?
1455
00:59:15,018 --> 00:59:16,053
‐ Riley, you might be
used to this.
1456
00:59:16,053 --> 00:59:17,254
You ever do this
to your clients?
1457
00:59:17,254 --> 00:59:20,357
‐ I refuse to let them.
They're not always accurate.
1458
00:59:20,357 --> 00:59:23,260
‐ Riley, I'm gonna ask you
just a couple basic questions
1459
00:59:23,260 --> 00:59:24,995
to establish a baseline, okay?
1460
00:59:24,995 --> 00:59:26,096
‐ Sure.
1461
00:59:26,096 --> 00:59:27,297
‐ What is your name?
1462
00:59:27,297 --> 00:59:29,933
‐ Devon Riley Christian.
1463
00:59:32,069 --> 00:59:33,970
[buzzes]
1464
00:59:33,970 --> 00:59:36,006
‐ Sheesh.
‐ That's not your name?
1465
00:59:36,006 --> 00:59:37,407
‐ Son of a gun.
‐ What?
1466
00:59:37,407 --> 00:59:41,044
Is Riley even his na‐‐
I am very confused.
1467
00:59:41,044 --> 00:59:42,245
‐ [scoffs]
1468
00:59:42,245 --> 00:59:44,981
‐ Can you see yourself
falling in love with Tayshia?
1469
00:59:44,981 --> 00:59:46,883
‐ Yes.
1470
00:59:46,883 --> 00:59:48,385
[dings]
1471
00:59:48,385 --> 00:59:53,990
‐ Are you ready for Tayshia
to meet your family next week?
1472
00:59:53,990 --> 00:59:56,960
‐ [sighs softly]
1473
00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,262
I really want her to.
1474
00:59:59,262 --> 01:00:02,833
Am I ready for it?
I don't know.
1475
01:00:02,833 --> 01:00:05,102
[dings]
1476
01:00:05,102 --> 01:00:09,206
‐ The lie detector test
was very telling,
1477
01:00:09,206 --> 01:00:13,443
but some of these answers
are not what I expected.
1478
01:00:13,443 --> 01:00:16,046
Some questions
were really telling,
1479
01:00:16,046 --> 01:00:18,215
and so I do have some questions
1480
01:00:18,215 --> 01:00:19,583
for you guys tonight
at the cocktail party.
1481
01:00:19,583 --> 01:00:23,186
There are some things
that didn't sit well with me
1482
01:00:23,186 --> 01:00:25,188
and I definitely
will address tonight,
1483
01:00:25,188 --> 01:00:27,324
especially because
whoever gets the rose tonight
1484
01:00:27,324 --> 01:00:29,259
is gonna go to Hometowns.
1485
01:00:29,259 --> 01:00:30,627
I wanna make sure that
that decision is right
1486
01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:33,263
and I wanna make sure that
that person is right.
1487
01:00:33,263 --> 01:00:36,933
So tonight is very important.
1488
01:00:36,933 --> 01:00:37,701
[dramatic music]
1489
01:00:37,701 --> 01:00:41,371
Cheating, I won't tolerate,
and is a dealbreaker for me.
1490
01:00:41,371 --> 01:00:43,840
‐ Think I have a little bit
of explaining to do.
1491
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,109
She has no idea.
1492
01:00:46,109 --> 01:00:48,345
‐ What in the actual hell?
1493
01:00:48,345 --> 01:00:51,748
‐ Is today the day
I let myself go?
1494
01:00:53,250 --> 01:00:57,020
[soft music]
1495
01:00:57,020 --> 01:00:59,356
‐ Hello.
‐ Tay.
1496
01:00:59,356 --> 01:01:02,159
‐ How are you?
‐ Good.
1497
01:01:02,159 --> 01:01:04,895
You know.
[both laugh]
1498
01:01:06,263 --> 01:01:08,565
‐ I'm nervous about tonight.
1499
01:01:08,565 --> 01:01:12,335
The Group Date Rose means
she'll meet my family.
1500
01:01:12,335 --> 01:01:15,138
I really want Tayshia
to meet my family,
1501
01:01:15,138 --> 01:01:17,440
but today
at the lie detector test,
1502
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,075
I got
the first question wrong,
1503
01:01:19,075 --> 01:01:20,243
my name,
1504
01:01:20,243 --> 01:01:23,146
so I'm pretty sure
I'll have to explain that,
1505
01:01:23,146 --> 01:01:25,248
and I'm sure she's gonna
have some questions
1506
01:01:25,248 --> 01:01:26,416
for the rest of the guys too.
1507
01:01:26,416 --> 01:01:30,220
‐ Well, it was interesting
to get to see
1508
01:01:30,220 --> 01:01:32,055
the truth detector
kinda just brought out
1509
01:01:32,055 --> 01:01:33,190
different things
out of you guys,
1510
01:01:33,190 --> 01:01:36,259
but it did spark
some questions,
1511
01:01:36,259 --> 01:01:40,163
and I'm very interested
in getting to know
1512
01:01:40,163 --> 01:01:41,198
the answers to them.
1513
01:01:41,198 --> 01:01:42,432
Let's cheers to a night
1514
01:01:42,432 --> 01:01:45,402
of getting to know each other
a little better.
1515
01:01:45,402 --> 01:01:46,503
‐ Cheers.
‐ [laughs]
1516
01:01:46,503 --> 01:01:50,473
The lie detector test
was eye‐opening.
1517
01:01:50,473 --> 01:01:52,842
Zac, do you wanna
go take a walk and talk?
1518
01:01:52,842 --> 01:01:53,443
‐ Sure.
1519
01:01:53,443 --> 01:01:56,479
‐ The one that stood out
most for me was
1520
01:01:56,479 --> 01:01:57,981
the fact
that Zac has cheated.
1521
01:01:57,981 --> 01:01:58,648
Hi.
1522
01:01:58,648 --> 01:02:00,617
So I feel like
he needs to explain himself.
1523
01:02:00,617 --> 01:02:03,486
Cheating is something
that I won't tolerate
1524
01:02:03,486 --> 01:02:07,023
and is a dealbreaker for me.
1525
01:02:07,023 --> 01:02:08,391
So today,
1526
01:02:08,391 --> 01:02:10,560
you got asked
quite a bit of questions
1527
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:13,263
and you admitted that you had
cheated in the past.
1528
01:02:13,263 --> 01:02:14,431
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1529
01:02:14,431 --> 01:02:16,299
‐ I wasn't expecting that.
1530
01:02:16,299 --> 01:02:20,170
Cheating does not‐‐
does not sit well with me,
1531
01:02:20,170 --> 01:02:22,305
and that's nothing
I will tolerate.
1532
01:02:22,305 --> 01:02:23,506
I mean, essentially,
that was, like,
1533
01:02:23,506 --> 01:02:25,475
the main reason why
my marriage ended.
1534
01:02:25,475 --> 01:02:27,944
I want someone to choose me
every single day,
1535
01:02:27,944 --> 01:02:29,346
and I don't‐‐
1536
01:02:29,346 --> 01:02:31,348
and, like, loyalty
is such a big deal to me,
1537
01:02:31,348 --> 01:02:34,451
and I literally cannot invest
in someone again
1538
01:02:34,451 --> 01:02:36,286
and then have that happen.
1539
01:02:36,286 --> 01:02:38,321
‐ This is a very serious,
like, topic,
1540
01:02:38,321 --> 01:02:41,524
and obviously it's a part
of your past, but, like‐‐
1541
01:02:41,524 --> 01:02:43,293
‐ Like, my recent past.
1542
01:02:43,293 --> 01:02:45,328
It's like‐‐
‐ Yeah.
1543
01:02:45,328 --> 01:02:47,097
‐ I will not date a cheater.
1544
01:02:47,097 --> 01:02:49,099
‐ Can I tell you?
‐ Please.
1545
01:02:49,099 --> 01:02:52,435
‐ Okay.
So yes.
1546
01:02:52,435 --> 01:02:55,472
I've cheated in my past.
1547
01:02:55,472 --> 01:02:59,409
My first girlfriend,
we started dating,
1548
01:02:59,409 --> 01:03:01,978
and we were in love.
‐ Ah.
1549
01:03:01,978 --> 01:03:03,847
‐ I...
1550
01:03:06,049 --> 01:03:07,584
Met another girl,
1551
01:03:07,584 --> 01:03:09,552
and I later met up
with that girl
1552
01:03:09,552 --> 01:03:12,522
at a bowling alley,
a Bowl‐A‐Rama,
1553
01:03:12,522 --> 01:03:15,258
and I French‐kissed her
while I was still dating Emmy.
1554
01:03:15,258 --> 01:03:18,795
[tense tones]
1555
01:03:20,530 --> 01:03:22,332
And it was, like,
on my first girlfriend
1556
01:03:22,332 --> 01:03:24,567
in sixth grade.
1557
01:03:24,567 --> 01:03:28,238
‐ [laughs]
‐ And that's my cheating story.
1558
01:03:28,238 --> 01:03:30,173
‐ I don't‐‐
1559
01:03:30,173 --> 01:03:31,608
Honestly?
Bowl‐A‐Rama?
1560
01:03:31,608 --> 01:03:33,476
You're lying.
‐ I'm not. I'm dead serious.
1561
01:03:33,476 --> 01:03:35,545
‐ Sixth grade, Zac?
‐ I'm being honest.
1562
01:03:35,545 --> 01:03:37,414
And it's like,
I'm hooked up to a thing.
1563
01:03:37,414 --> 01:03:39,249
‐ Oh, my gosh.
1564
01:03:39,249 --> 01:03:40,483
Are you joking?
‐ No, I'm not joking.
1565
01:03:40,483 --> 01:03:42,686
‐ Are you downplaying anything?
‐ No. I promise you.
1566
01:03:42,686 --> 01:03:44,321
‐ Are you being
completely honest?
1567
01:03:44,321 --> 01:03:45,388
‐ Yes.
1568
01:03:45,388 --> 01:03:48,458
‐ You really scared me.
‐ I'm sorry.
1569
01:03:48,458 --> 01:03:51,261
I hated today.
1570
01:03:51,261 --> 01:03:54,097
‐ Why?
‐ Like, the question about...
1571
01:03:55,598 --> 01:03:59,302
Like, falling in love with you
1572
01:03:59,302 --> 01:04:02,272
and...
1573
01:04:02,272 --> 01:04:04,441
like, I am
falling for you, right?
1574
01:04:04,441 --> 01:04:06,810
And I hated to do that there.
1575
01:04:06,810 --> 01:04:09,212
Like, I felt like that's
something I should've told you
1576
01:04:09,212 --> 01:04:11,247
in a more intimate setting.
1577
01:04:13,416 --> 01:04:16,586
‐ And when you said that,
1578
01:04:16,586 --> 01:04:18,521
I, like, wanted to reach over
and grab you
1579
01:04:18,521 --> 01:04:21,191
'cause I'm falling in love
with you too.
1580
01:04:21,191 --> 01:04:22,459
[laughs softly]
1581
01:04:22,459 --> 01:04:24,394
[tender music]
1582
01:04:24,394 --> 01:04:25,462
[laughs]
1583
01:04:25,462 --> 01:04:27,430
Did you think that?
Did you know that?
1584
01:04:27,430 --> 01:04:28,598
‐ No.
1585
01:04:28,598 --> 01:04:30,467
‐ You didn't?
‐ You make me happy.
1586
01:04:30,467 --> 01:04:33,036
‐ [laughs]
1587
01:04:33,036 --> 01:04:39,542
♪ ♪
1588
01:04:39,542 --> 01:04:43,413
Zac made me feel so good.
Like, so much better.
1589
01:04:43,413 --> 01:04:45,582
I'm really thankful
for the polygraph date today
1590
01:04:45,582 --> 01:04:47,550
because it's kind of like
an expedited way
1591
01:04:47,550 --> 01:04:51,388
to get all the tough questions
answered.
1592
01:04:51,388 --> 01:04:54,524
Honestly, a lot of your answers
1593
01:04:54,524 --> 01:04:56,593
made me feel much better today.
1594
01:04:56,593 --> 01:04:58,328
‐ I hate that we got
sidetracked.
1595
01:04:58,328 --> 01:04:59,329
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1596
01:04:59,329 --> 01:05:00,530
‐ And I hate that it appears
1597
01:05:00,530 --> 01:05:04,167
I haven't done a great job
to show who I really am.
1598
01:05:04,167 --> 01:05:06,636
I just...
1599
01:05:06,636 --> 01:05:08,438
I mean, I think you're amazing.
‐ [laughs]
1600
01:05:08,438 --> 01:05:11,274
The guys are really
opening up their hearts to me,
1601
01:05:11,274 --> 01:05:13,710
and their honesty
1602
01:05:13,710 --> 01:05:16,379
is making me care for each
and every one of them more.
1603
01:05:16,379 --> 01:05:19,549
You had a hesitation
with proposals...
1604
01:05:19,549 --> 01:05:20,750
‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ At the end of this.
1605
01:05:20,750 --> 01:05:23,319
‐ I think
I definitely had hesitation
1606
01:05:23,319 --> 01:05:24,788
because I've only loved
one girl.
1607
01:05:24,788 --> 01:05:27,290
That was the last time
I was in love.
1608
01:05:27,290 --> 01:05:28,525
This is, like,
three years later,
1609
01:05:28,525 --> 01:05:30,293
and that's how I feel
about you already.
1610
01:05:30,293 --> 01:05:31,428
‐ [laughs]
‐ All right.
1611
01:05:31,428 --> 01:05:34,164
‐ Ivan made me feel
very secure,
1612
01:05:34,164 --> 01:05:36,266
and I love that.
1613
01:05:36,266 --> 01:05:37,734
For me, trust is everything,
1614
01:05:37,734 --> 01:05:39,602
and I can't get
families involved
1615
01:05:39,602 --> 01:05:41,438
if I don't trust the men.
1616
01:05:41,438 --> 01:05:44,407
So I can't stress enough
how important it is
1617
01:05:44,407 --> 01:05:46,242
for the guys to be honest
with me tonight.
1618
01:05:46,242 --> 01:05:48,545
The lie detector...
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1619
01:05:48,545 --> 01:05:52,315
‐ Said that it was inconclusive
1620
01:05:52,315 --> 01:05:54,717
regarding
you meeting my family...
1621
01:05:54,717 --> 01:05:57,253
‐ Yeah.
‐ And me meeting yours.
1622
01:05:57,253 --> 01:05:58,555
‐ Yeah.
1623
01:05:58,555 --> 01:05:59,889
‐ I wanna know why.
‐ The hell is that about?
1624
01:05:59,889 --> 01:06:03,560
‐ Yeah, what the hell
is that about, Brendan?
1625
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,428
‐ At face value, of course,
1626
01:06:05,428 --> 01:06:09,265
I'm so excited
for you to meet my family,
1627
01:06:09,265 --> 01:06:11,534
but they've seen me propose
1628
01:06:11,534 --> 01:06:13,670
and, you know, the wedding,
the marriage,
1629
01:06:13,670 --> 01:06:16,439
and felt that divorce
with me too, you know.
1630
01:06:16,439 --> 01:06:17,607
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1631
01:06:17,607 --> 01:06:19,776
‐ Like, proposing
to someone again,
1632
01:06:19,776 --> 01:06:23,446
I want it to be the last time
I ever do that.
1633
01:06:23,446 --> 01:06:24,614
‐ I completely understand.
1634
01:06:24,614 --> 01:06:27,717
I don't wanna introduce people
to my parents
1635
01:06:27,717 --> 01:06:30,587
because they've went through
that divorce with me.
1636
01:06:30,587 --> 01:06:32,655
I can't do that to them,
you know?
1637
01:06:32,655 --> 01:06:35,458
So it's very reassuring
1638
01:06:35,458 --> 01:06:38,461
when I have somebody
in front of me,
1639
01:06:38,461 --> 01:06:39,762
such as yourself,
1640
01:06:39,762 --> 01:06:43,466
that I, like‐‐I really like,
1641
01:06:43,466 --> 01:06:46,202
and I'm excited
when you're around.
1642
01:06:46,202 --> 01:06:48,404
I'm, like‐‐you know?
1643
01:06:48,404 --> 01:06:49,739
‐ It's crazy.
1644
01:06:49,739 --> 01:06:52,542
Like, when I'm with you,
this is real feelings.
1645
01:06:52,542 --> 01:06:53,810
This is, like, something that,
1646
01:06:53,810 --> 01:06:57,480
you know, I could really,
like, picture in my future.
1647
01:06:57,480 --> 01:06:59,616
That's just‐‐that's the truth.
1648
01:06:59,616 --> 01:07:01,651
Every single time
I'm with Tayshia,
1649
01:07:01,651 --> 01:07:04,387
my feelings grow stronger
and stronger.
1650
01:07:04,387 --> 01:07:05,722
I'm really having
those feelings
1651
01:07:05,722 --> 01:07:09,559
and potentially actually
falling in love with her.
1652
01:07:09,559 --> 01:07:11,895
I am ready for Tayshia
to meet my family,
1653
01:07:11,895 --> 01:07:14,497
and I would be shocked
if I didn't get the rose.
1654
01:07:14,497 --> 01:07:16,566
‐ I'm happy that, like,
today happened,
1655
01:07:16,566 --> 01:07:18,501
because it brought some things
to the surface
1656
01:07:18,501 --> 01:07:20,570
that we were able
to talk about.
1657
01:07:20,570 --> 01:07:22,906
Like, I wouldn't want her
to spend time with my family
1658
01:07:22,906 --> 01:07:25,909
if she didn't know everything
that she wants to know
1659
01:07:25,909 --> 01:07:29,579
about me to this point,
for better or for worse.
1660
01:07:29,579 --> 01:07:30,647
‐ Right.
‐ That's what we said.
1661
01:07:30,647 --> 01:07:32,382
‐ Yeah,
For better or for worse, man.
1662
01:07:32,382 --> 01:07:33,616
‐ Yeah.
‐ There's no way
1663
01:07:33,616 --> 01:07:34,817
she can meet my family
1664
01:07:34,817 --> 01:07:36,853
without, you know,
us having a discussion
1665
01:07:36,853 --> 01:07:40,623
about, you know,
some pretty serious things.
1666
01:07:40,623 --> 01:07:42,926
Oh, [bleep], dude.
1667
01:07:42,926 --> 01:07:45,728
Pretty personal stuff,
stuff I'd never talk about,
1668
01:07:45,728 --> 01:07:48,531
come up today
during the lie detector test,
1669
01:07:48,531 --> 01:07:49,866
and I rarely share
1670
01:07:49,866 --> 01:07:53,436
this type of information
with anybody.
1671
01:07:53,436 --> 01:07:55,505
But family visits
are next week.
1672
01:07:55,505 --> 01:07:58,808
How can I possibly
bring my family in here,
1673
01:07:58,808 --> 01:08:02,011
and she has no idea,
anything at all,
1674
01:08:02,011 --> 01:08:05,381
about what me and my family
have been through?
1675
01:08:05,381 --> 01:08:07,650
[dramatic music]
1676
01:08:07,650 --> 01:08:09,686
♪ ♪
1677
01:08:09,686 --> 01:08:12,522
Oftentimes,
I don't want people to,
1678
01:08:12,522 --> 01:08:14,023
you know,
see me too vulnerable,
1679
01:08:14,023 --> 01:08:17,260
because I don't want them
thinking any less of me.
1680
01:08:17,260 --> 01:08:19,796
♪ ♪
1681
01:08:19,796 --> 01:08:22,565
And I ask myself,
"Is today the day
1682
01:08:22,565 --> 01:08:24,567
I finally talk about it,"
you know?
1683
01:08:24,567 --> 01:08:28,237
"Is today the day
I let myself go?"
1684
01:08:28,237 --> 01:08:31,441
[crying]
1685
01:08:31,441 --> 01:08:34,444
♪ ♪
1686
01:08:36,412 --> 01:08:40,483
‐ [crying]
1687
01:08:40,483 --> 01:08:43,519
[solemn music]
1688
01:08:43,519 --> 01:08:47,490
♪ ♪
1689
01:08:47,490 --> 01:08:50,593
[sighs]
Damn it.
1690
01:08:50,593 --> 01:08:52,562
[groans]
Okay.
1691
01:08:52,562 --> 01:08:54,631
Let's do it.
1692
01:08:54,631 --> 01:08:56,666
I'm having these feelings
for Tayshia,
1693
01:08:56,666 --> 01:08:59,702
and I want her
to meet my family,
1694
01:08:59,702 --> 01:09:02,005
but my family situation
is difficult,
1695
01:09:02,005 --> 01:09:04,741
and it's something
that I don't really share
1696
01:09:04,741 --> 01:09:06,509
with anybody,
1697
01:09:06,509 --> 01:09:08,678
but if she's gonna meet
my family,
1698
01:09:08,678 --> 01:09:10,913
if there's any possibility
of that,
1699
01:09:10,913 --> 01:09:13,850
I have to be able to share
this type of stuff.
1700
01:09:13,850 --> 01:09:15,518
It's now or never.
1701
01:09:15,518 --> 01:09:17,854
‐ Hi.
1702
01:09:17,854 --> 01:09:19,756
How are you?
‐ I'm good. How are you?
1703
01:09:19,756 --> 01:09:21,591
‐ I'm good.
‐ Good.
1704
01:09:21,591 --> 01:09:22,892
You sure?
‐ You okay?
1705
01:09:22,892 --> 01:09:25,695
‐ I'm good.
Let's have a seat.
1706
01:09:25,695 --> 01:09:27,697
Oh, man.
1707
01:09:27,697 --> 01:09:29,565
[both sigh]
1708
01:09:29,565 --> 01:09:31,934
‐ What's wrong?
‐ [sighs]
1709
01:09:31,934 --> 01:09:33,703
I know we gotta get to know
one another...
1710
01:09:33,703 --> 01:09:34,837
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1711
01:09:34,837 --> 01:09:36,939
‐ And it just involves
talking about things
1712
01:09:36,939 --> 01:09:40,376
that I don't
normally talk about.
1713
01:09:41,577 --> 01:09:42,745
I mean, we had
the lie detector test
1714
01:09:42,745 --> 01:09:45,014
and [bleep] did not go my way,
1715
01:09:45,014 --> 01:09:47,850
and, like, I know I said
I was nervous
1716
01:09:47,850 --> 01:09:49,585
about you, you know,
meeting my family,
1717
01:09:49,585 --> 01:09:51,788
but that's just because
1718
01:09:51,788 --> 01:09:53,856
things are so rocky
and they are...
1719
01:09:53,856 --> 01:09:57,593
[soft dramatic music]
1720
01:09:57,593 --> 01:09:59,529
[sighs]
1721
01:09:59,529 --> 01:10:02,665
♪ ♪
1722
01:10:02,665 --> 01:10:04,934
The name thing, yeah.
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1723
01:10:04,934 --> 01:10:07,637
‐ I know I probably don't look
much like a Dwayne,
1724
01:10:07,637 --> 01:10:08,705
but that's who I was.
1725
01:10:08,705 --> 01:10:10,573
I was Dwayne Henderson Jr.
1726
01:10:10,573 --> 01:10:13,042
I was named after my father.
1727
01:10:13,042 --> 01:10:15,578
He was my best friend
for nearly 22 years.
1728
01:10:15,578 --> 01:10:16,679
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1729
01:10:16,679 --> 01:10:18,915
‐ We would go
to baseball games,
1730
01:10:18,915 --> 01:10:21,584
we would laugh,
we would travel.
1731
01:10:21,584 --> 01:10:24,754
It was great.
It really was.
1732
01:10:24,754 --> 01:10:27,890
But I got older,
1733
01:10:27,890 --> 01:10:32,495
we had a falling out,
and I figured things out.
1734
01:10:32,495 --> 01:10:34,597
You know, with my mother,
1735
01:10:34,597 --> 01:10:36,799
he took some things that‐‐
1736
01:10:36,799 --> 01:10:37,800
he took some things from her
1737
01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:39,969
that didn't belong to him
outright.
1738
01:10:39,969 --> 01:10:41,871
He got sole custody
of me and my brother,
1739
01:10:41,871 --> 01:10:44,741
and that was like‐‐that was it.
1740
01:10:44,741 --> 01:10:47,577
But I was a boy
and it was what it was.
1741
01:10:49,779 --> 01:10:52,582
But my mother,
1742
01:10:52,582 --> 01:10:53,716
she deserved so much.
1743
01:10:53,716 --> 01:10:55,685
We missed so much time.
1744
01:10:55,685 --> 01:10:59,088
♪ ♪
1745
01:10:59,088 --> 01:11:02,859
So, you know, we went‐‐
we went quite a while...
1746
01:11:02,859 --> 01:11:04,026
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1747
01:11:04,026 --> 01:11:05,928
‐ You know, without really
having a relationship,
1748
01:11:05,928 --> 01:11:07,897
and I resented her
for a lot of things
1749
01:11:07,897 --> 01:11:10,933
based on what he was saying
to me,
1750
01:11:10,933 --> 01:11:13,870
but it got to a point where...
[scoffs]
1751
01:11:13,870 --> 01:11:15,638
I couldn't even look at myself
in the mirror.
1752
01:11:15,638 --> 01:11:17,140
It was awful.
1753
01:11:17,140 --> 01:11:19,208
I decided, you know,
I could be a better man.
1754
01:11:19,208 --> 01:11:22,979
I could be an honorable man
if I worked hard at it,
1755
01:11:22,979 --> 01:11:25,681
but the only way to do that
was to start over,
1756
01:11:25,681 --> 01:11:27,817
to start from scratch,
so I did.
1757
01:11:27,817 --> 01:11:28,985
You know,
I got a legal name change.
1758
01:11:28,985 --> 01:11:30,686
People change their names
all the time.
1759
01:11:30,686 --> 01:11:31,854
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1760
01:11:31,854 --> 01:11:33,156
‐ My mother, you know,
she was there with me.
1761
01:11:33,156 --> 01:11:36,526
She was there in the courtroom
with me.
1762
01:11:36,526 --> 01:11:37,093
And that was it.
1763
01:11:37,093 --> 01:11:39,562
I changed it,
and I love my father.
1764
01:11:39,562 --> 01:11:40,096
I truly do.
1765
01:11:40,096 --> 01:11:42,832
Think about him
every single day.
1766
01:11:42,832 --> 01:11:43,966
But he's not here.
1767
01:11:43,966 --> 01:11:45,601
[bleep], I'm sorry.
1768
01:11:45,601 --> 01:11:47,904
‐ Don't say you're sorry.
1769
01:11:47,904 --> 01:11:50,740
You okay?
‐ I'm good, I'm good, I'm good.
1770
01:11:50,740 --> 01:11:52,008
It's just been
kinda bugging me,
1771
01:11:52,008 --> 01:11:53,676
and I don't normally
talk about it,
1772
01:11:53,676 --> 01:11:56,078
and when it came up,
I was just like,
1773
01:11:56,078 --> 01:11:58,481
"Why couldn't it just be wrong
and go green?"
1774
01:11:58,481 --> 01:12:00,783
[both laugh]
1775
01:12:00,783 --> 01:12:02,585
You know?
Holy hell.
1776
01:12:02,585 --> 01:12:04,887
‐ Listen.
1777
01:12:04,887 --> 01:12:07,924
You've done nothing wrong.
There's nothing to hide.
1778
01:12:07,924 --> 01:12:11,093
But I'm also gonna tell you,
you're still right here.
1779
01:12:11,093 --> 01:12:12,962
‐ I am, and I'm happy as hell
about it.
1780
01:12:12,962 --> 01:12:14,797
‐ And you're still smiling.
‐ God.
1781
01:12:14,797 --> 01:12:15,832
Good God, I'm happy that‐‐
1782
01:12:15,832 --> 01:12:16,933
‐ And you're stronger
than hell.
1783
01:12:16,933 --> 01:12:18,801
‐ All I want
is a loving family.
1784
01:12:18,801 --> 01:12:19,969
[both laugh]
‐ No, I know.
1785
01:12:19,969 --> 01:12:22,839
‐ And I think I'm on my way
to finding it.
1786
01:12:22,839 --> 01:12:24,941
‐ I feel extremely honored
and grateful
1787
01:12:24,941 --> 01:12:27,143
that you just opened up
with me.
1788
01:12:27,143 --> 01:12:30,079
You're an incredible man.
‐ Thank you.
1789
01:12:30,079 --> 01:12:33,015
‐ You've been through a lot.
1790
01:12:33,015 --> 01:12:34,217
‐ I don't know if I deserve
such praise,
1791
01:12:34,217 --> 01:12:36,519
but I do appreciate it.
‐ No, you do.
1792
01:12:36,519 --> 01:12:37,687
‐ Come here.
1793
01:12:37,687 --> 01:12:43,226
♪ ♪
1794
01:12:43,226 --> 01:12:46,629
Feels like a weight
has been lifted a bit.
1795
01:12:46,629 --> 01:12:48,130
I don't feel like‐‐
1796
01:12:48,130 --> 01:12:49,765
I don't feel like a fraud.
1797
01:12:49,765 --> 01:12:51,701
I don't feel like
I'm hiding myself.
1798
01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:52,735
It feels really good
1799
01:12:52,735 --> 01:12:56,038
to share that with Tayshia.
1800
01:12:56,038 --> 01:12:57,773
Even though I was nervous,
1801
01:12:57,773 --> 01:12:59,842
she was able
to bring it out of me,
1802
01:12:59,842 --> 01:13:02,912
you know, let me know
that I am a good man.
1803
01:13:02,912 --> 01:13:04,113
[indistinct chatter]
1804
01:13:04,113 --> 01:13:06,249
I would love for Tayshia
to meet my family,
1805
01:13:06,249 --> 01:13:08,918
so I'm really hoping
I get the opportunity
1806
01:13:08,918 --> 01:13:10,052
to do that.
1807
01:13:10,052 --> 01:13:12,154
‐ There's potential
for this rose to be a step
1808
01:13:12,154 --> 01:13:14,190
to the best thing
that's happened in your life.
1809
01:13:14,190 --> 01:13:15,892
‐ Whoever gets it,
I just feel like
1810
01:13:15,892 --> 01:13:17,760
that's gonna be
the strongest relationship,
1811
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:20,062
to be honest, you know?
1812
01:13:20,062 --> 01:13:21,264
‐ I can honestly say to myself
1813
01:13:21,264 --> 01:13:24,233
I've given everything
that I can.
1814
01:13:24,233 --> 01:13:27,036
‐ I feel like I, like,
opened my heart to her,
1815
01:13:27,036 --> 01:13:28,871
expressed my feelings,
1816
01:13:28,871 --> 01:13:31,007
expressed my concerns,
my fears.
1817
01:13:31,007 --> 01:13:33,142
‐ I left it all on the field,
1818
01:13:33,142 --> 01:13:36,746
so it won't be
for lack of honesty
1819
01:13:36,746 --> 01:13:37,980
or lack of trying.
1820
01:13:37,980 --> 01:13:40,283
I'm falling in love
with this girl, right?
1821
01:13:40,283 --> 01:13:43,753
It's happening. It just is.
I can't deny it.
1822
01:13:43,753 --> 01:13:45,888
‐ How are you?
‐ What's up?
1823
01:13:45,888 --> 01:13:47,156
‐ Can I come sit down
with y'all?
1824
01:13:47,156 --> 01:13:48,858
‐ Of course.
‐ But there's four other guys
1825
01:13:48,858 --> 01:13:50,059
that spoke to her.
1826
01:13:50,059 --> 01:13:51,127
I mean, the only reason
she wouldn't
1827
01:13:51,127 --> 01:13:52,261
give me the rose tonight
is 'cause she has
1828
01:13:52,261 --> 01:13:55,498
similar feelings
for someone else.
1829
01:13:57,066 --> 01:13:59,201
‐ I feel like I had
1830
01:13:59,201 --> 01:14:03,205
a very impactful,
meaningful conversation
1831
01:14:03,205 --> 01:14:07,076
with every single one of you.
1832
01:14:07,076 --> 01:14:09,211
I don't think one conversation
was better than the other,
1833
01:14:09,211 --> 01:14:10,746
to be honest with you guys.
1834
01:14:10,746 --> 01:14:12,381
Like, they were all so amazing.
1835
01:14:12,381 --> 01:14:15,084
I feel like I learned so much
about every single one of you,
1836
01:14:15,084 --> 01:14:17,186
things that I've been dying
to know,
1837
01:14:17,186 --> 01:14:21,123
but I think only progressed
every single relationship,
1838
01:14:21,123 --> 01:14:22,224
and to be honest with you,
1839
01:14:22,224 --> 01:14:25,127
this rose holds
so much meaning,
1840
01:14:25,127 --> 01:14:27,964
because it's a rose
1841
01:14:27,964 --> 01:14:30,900
into meeting
your guys' families.
1842
01:14:30,900 --> 01:14:32,268
It's a way
into your guys' hearts,
1843
01:14:32,268 --> 01:14:34,971
and it's something
I truly cherish
1844
01:14:34,971 --> 01:14:36,305
and, like,
find very meaningful,
1845
01:14:36,305 --> 01:14:39,141
so I don't wanna
just give out a rose
1846
01:14:39,141 --> 01:14:41,377
just to give out a rose.
1847
01:14:41,377 --> 01:14:45,081
I feel like everything
meant so much tonight,
1848
01:14:45,081 --> 01:14:47,116
but I think I just need
a little bit more time
1849
01:14:47,116 --> 01:14:48,951
as to who to give this to.
1850
01:14:55,024 --> 01:14:56,158
‐ Hmm.
1851
01:14:56,158 --> 01:14:57,994
‐ So with that,
1852
01:14:57,994 --> 01:15:00,196
I'm going to wait
till the Rose Ceremony
1853
01:15:00,196 --> 01:15:02,999
to give this rose out,
1854
01:15:02,999 --> 01:15:06,335
and I hope you guys
are all okay with that.
1855
01:15:06,335 --> 01:15:08,904
But I just want it to come
from the best place.
1856
01:15:08,904 --> 01:15:09,972
‐ Respect it.
1857
01:15:09,972 --> 01:15:10,973
‐ It's a big deal for us.
‐ Sure, yeah.
1858
01:15:10,973 --> 01:15:12,641
‐ I respect it for sure.
1859
01:15:12,641 --> 01:15:14,010
‐ Okay.
1860
01:15:14,010 --> 01:15:15,244
[sighing]
Okay.
1861
01:15:15,244 --> 01:15:18,414
I'm completely blown away
by the men here tonight.
1862
01:15:18,414 --> 01:15:22,218
Every single guy has put
their heart on the line.
1863
01:15:22,218 --> 01:15:26,122
But meeting family
is a really big deal for me,
1864
01:15:26,122 --> 01:15:27,957
and it's something
I don't take lightly.
1865
01:15:27,957 --> 01:15:29,291
Good night, Riley.
1866
01:15:29,291 --> 01:15:30,593
How can I choose
one guy right now
1867
01:15:30,593 --> 01:15:33,362
when there are so many guys
that I'm falling in love with?
1868
01:15:33,362 --> 01:15:35,031
‐ Good night, Tayshia.
‐ Good night.
1869
01:15:35,031 --> 01:15:36,732
‐ Good night.
‐ Good night.
1870
01:15:37,933 --> 01:15:39,235
‐ Oh, man.
1871
01:15:39,235 --> 01:15:41,971
‐ I have really big decisions
to make,
1872
01:15:41,971 --> 01:15:44,106
and I just hope
I could find some clarity.
1873
01:15:44,106 --> 01:15:47,109
[dramatic music]
1874
01:15:47,109 --> 01:15:49,545
[gasps]
‐ Hello, Tayshia.
1875
01:15:50,980 --> 01:15:52,715
Hi.
1876
01:15:54,116 --> 01:15:57,119
[dramatic music]
1877
01:15:57,119 --> 01:16:00,790
♪ ♪
1878
01:16:00,790 --> 01:16:03,893
‐ [gasps]
1879
01:16:03,893 --> 01:16:05,861
‐ Hello, Tayshia.
1880
01:16:05,861 --> 01:16:06,962
Hi.
1881
01:16:06,962 --> 01:16:09,165
Could we speak for a minute?
1882
01:16:09,165 --> 01:16:10,866
‐ Yeah.
1883
01:16:10,866 --> 01:16:13,769
‐ How are you?
1884
01:16:13,769 --> 01:16:15,104
‐ [laughs]
1885
01:16:15,104 --> 01:16:17,039
I'm good.
‐ Great to see you.
1886
01:16:17,039 --> 01:16:19,208
‐ Good to see you too.
‐ So nice to see you.
1887
01:16:19,208 --> 01:16:20,976
‐ Good to see you too.
Do you wanna talk?
1888
01:16:20,976 --> 01:16:22,311
‐ Yeah, please.
I would love that.
1889
01:16:22,311 --> 01:16:23,879
‐ Okay.
‐ Do you wanna go inside?
1890
01:16:23,879 --> 01:16:24,980
‐ Yeah.
‐ Okay.
1891
01:16:24,980 --> 01:16:27,149
‐ Come on in.
1892
01:16:27,149 --> 01:16:29,785
‐ You look beautiful.
[door creaks]
1893
01:16:29,785 --> 01:16:31,087
What a dress.
1894
01:16:31,087 --> 01:16:32,822
‐ [chuckles]
1895
01:16:32,822 --> 01:16:35,458
Sorry.
1896
01:16:35,458 --> 01:16:37,093
‐ Oh, it smells fresh
in here too.
1897
01:16:37,093 --> 01:16:39,929
‐ Oh, well,
I didn't really clean up.
1898
01:16:39,929 --> 01:16:42,064
‐ [chuckles]
1899
01:16:42,064 --> 01:16:43,432
‐ Sorry.
‐ It's okay. You're perfect.
1900
01:16:43,432 --> 01:16:45,134
You're perfect.
‐ Please sit down.
1901
01:16:45,134 --> 01:16:48,104
‐ Thank you. Thank you.
‐ Can I...
1902
01:16:48,104 --> 01:16:50,906
‐ [sighs]
It's so nice to see you.
1903
01:16:50,906 --> 01:16:52,708
‐ [laughs]
‐ Um...
1904
01:16:54,276 --> 01:16:58,080
So it's been a little bit
of a whirlwind...
1905
01:16:58,080 --> 01:16:59,248
‐ I know.
‐ To say the least,
1906
01:16:59,248 --> 01:17:04,019
and I spent all day
1907
01:17:04,019 --> 01:17:07,022
going over and over in my head,
1908
01:17:07,022 --> 01:17:08,858
you know, our parting.
1909
01:17:08,858 --> 01:17:10,192
[sighs]
1910
01:17:10,192 --> 01:17:13,929
You know,
I first wanted to tell you,
1911
01:17:13,929 --> 01:17:15,097
I'm so sorry.
1912
01:17:15,097 --> 01:17:19,401
I'm so, so, so sorry
1913
01:17:19,401 --> 01:17:21,403
for making you think
I questioned your integrity
1914
01:17:21,403 --> 01:17:24,173
or decision‐making ability.
1915
01:17:24,173 --> 01:17:27,877
It was the least
of my intentions.
1916
01:17:27,877 --> 01:17:30,146
I never would.
1917
01:17:30,146 --> 01:17:32,381
I swear to you.
1918
01:17:32,381 --> 01:17:36,218
Our goodbye was so bizarre,
so surreal.
1919
01:17:36,218 --> 01:17:39,088
I just‐‐I couldn't even fathom
1920
01:17:39,088 --> 01:17:41,423
what just happened.
1921
01:17:41,423 --> 01:17:43,125
And I was thinking
of all of these things
1922
01:17:43,125 --> 01:17:44,560
that I hadn't been able
to share with you.
1923
01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:46,929
You know, sometimes,
you don't realize things
1924
01:17:46,929 --> 01:17:48,564
until they're gone,
1925
01:17:48,564 --> 01:17:51,167
and I realized in that moment
that I love you.
1926
01:17:51,167 --> 01:17:56,105
♪ ♪
1927
01:17:56,105 --> 01:17:57,806
‐ [sighs]
1928
01:17:57,806 --> 01:18:04,813
♪ ♪
1929
01:18:05,981 --> 01:18:08,384
I'm‐‐I'm not gonna lie,
1930
01:18:08,384 --> 01:18:11,453
I'm, like,
speechless right now.
1931
01:18:11,453 --> 01:18:14,390
‐ I couldn't leave without
expressing that to you.
1932
01:18:14,390 --> 01:18:16,325
You have every ounce
of my heart right here.
1933
01:18:16,325 --> 01:18:19,328
I don't use that word lightly.
1934
01:18:19,328 --> 01:18:22,565
And I'm not expecting anything
from you,
1935
01:18:22,565 --> 01:18:26,235
but if there's, you know,
an ounce of you still
1936
01:18:26,235 --> 01:18:29,104
that would like to explore
our relationship
1937
01:18:29,104 --> 01:18:31,173
and continue, you know,
on a journey,
1938
01:18:31,173 --> 01:18:32,274
I would love nothing more
1939
01:18:32,274 --> 01:18:34,376
than to, you know,
stay for you,
1940
01:18:34,376 --> 01:18:37,846
and I'll do absolutely anything
in the whole world.
1941
01:18:37,846 --> 01:18:42,451
♪ ♪
1942
01:18:42,451 --> 01:18:45,254
‐ I truly don't even know
what to say right now.
1943
01:18:45,254 --> 01:18:46,589
‐ I didn't know that I would
ever see you again,
1944
01:18:46,589 --> 01:18:50,459
and sincerely, you don't even
have to say anything.
1945
01:18:50,459 --> 01:18:52,962
You can do whatever you need.
1946
01:18:55,331 --> 01:18:56,999
‐ I mean...
1947
01:18:56,999 --> 01:18:59,335
[pensive music]
1948
01:18:59,335 --> 01:19:03,105
I'm not gonna lie to you,
I was not planning on...
1949
01:19:03,105 --> 01:19:05,941
saying goodbye to you
that night.
1950
01:19:05,941 --> 01:19:08,043
At all.
1951
01:19:10,246 --> 01:19:12,648
I don't know.
1952
01:19:12,648 --> 01:19:16,018
I don't really know
what's happening right now.
1953
01:19:16,018 --> 01:19:19,288
‐ It's okay.
1954
01:19:19,288 --> 01:19:22,625
‐ [softly]
I'm, like, very confused.
1955
01:19:22,625 --> 01:19:26,328
‐ Listen, I mean,
this is a lot, I know.
1956
01:19:26,328 --> 01:19:30,199
I'm not expecting any answers
or any immediate epiphany
1957
01:19:30,199 --> 01:19:31,367
or anything like that.
1958
01:19:31,367 --> 01:19:34,036
I was just wanting
1959
01:19:34,036 --> 01:19:37,006
to see you again
1960
01:19:37,006 --> 01:19:39,441
and share this with you,
1961
01:19:39,441 --> 01:19:42,211
'cause I'm dead serious
about you.
1962
01:19:44,480 --> 01:19:46,982
I haven't had
emotions like this,
1963
01:19:46,982 --> 01:19:49,285
ever, over a girl.
1964
01:19:49,285 --> 01:19:54,256
♪ ♪
1965
01:19:54,256 --> 01:19:57,493
‐ Like, I think I ju‐‐
1966
01:19:57,493 --> 01:20:01,530
I personally have so much
going on right now in my head,
1967
01:20:01,530 --> 01:20:02,665
and I don't really know
1968
01:20:02,665 --> 01:20:04,366
how to process this right here,
right now.
1969
01:20:04,366 --> 01:20:07,503
‐ Sure.
I know the feeling.
1970
01:20:07,503 --> 01:20:08,604
‐ I appreciate this a lot,
1971
01:20:08,604 --> 01:20:11,340
but I feel like
I just need the night.
1972
01:20:11,340 --> 01:20:14,176
Tomorrow, I'll let you know.
1973
01:20:14,176 --> 01:20:15,277
‐ Perfectly fine.
1974
01:20:15,277 --> 01:20:17,212
Thank you.
1975
01:20:17,212 --> 01:20:22,318
♪ ♪
1976
01:20:22,318 --> 01:20:24,086
‐ You can give me a hug.
1977
01:20:24,086 --> 01:20:26,488
‐ Thank you so much.
1978
01:20:26,488 --> 01:20:29,491
‐ You okay?
‐ Yeah, I'm good.
1979
01:20:29,491 --> 01:20:31,960
Thank you.
‐ [laughs] No.
1980
01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:34,396
Nice try.
1981
01:20:34,396 --> 01:20:37,299
I'll walk you out.
‐ Thank you.
1982
01:20:37,299 --> 01:20:40,502
‐ Bennett showed up
at my doorstep today,
1983
01:20:40,502 --> 01:20:42,204
and I've always said
I've wanted a guy
1984
01:20:42,204 --> 01:20:43,472
to show up for me like that.
1985
01:20:43,472 --> 01:20:46,141
‐ Good night.
‐ Good night, Bennett.
1986
01:20:48,110 --> 01:20:50,346
Bennett said, "I love you."
1987
01:20:50,346 --> 01:20:54,683
It's been a long time
since, like, I've heard
1988
01:20:54,683 --> 01:20:59,154
the words "I love you"
and it mean
1989
01:20:59,154 --> 01:21:02,624
absolutely everything.
1990
01:21:02,624 --> 01:21:05,094
And I know Bennett
wasn't just saying things
1991
01:21:05,094 --> 01:21:07,463
just to say them.
1992
01:21:07,463 --> 01:21:09,565
[whispering]
Oh, my...
1993
01:21:09,565 --> 01:21:12,101
What in the actual hell?
1994
01:21:12,101 --> 01:21:15,337
I'm so confused.
1995
01:21:15,337 --> 01:21:18,407
[sighs]
1996
01:21:18,407 --> 01:21:20,442
The way that I sent him home
the other night
1997
01:21:20,442 --> 01:21:22,344
did not feel right,
1998
01:21:22,344 --> 01:21:24,446
but, like,
also at the same time,
1999
01:21:24,446 --> 01:21:27,783
I'm here now with other people,
these seven guys,
2000
01:21:27,783 --> 01:21:30,386
and I really feel like
I have good connections
2001
01:21:30,386 --> 01:21:33,322
with every single one of them.
2002
01:21:33,322 --> 01:21:34,556
‐ [exhales]
2003
01:21:34,556 --> 01:21:36,792
‐ But if I ask Bennett
to come back,
2004
01:21:36,792 --> 01:21:40,596
I don't know how the guys
would react.
2005
01:21:40,596 --> 01:21:41,897
Next week is so important
2006
01:21:41,897 --> 01:21:44,967
that I need to, like,
really, truly figure it out.
2007
01:21:47,136 --> 01:21:49,471
This is very hard.
2008
01:21:49,471 --> 01:21:53,142
I am so confused.
2009
01:21:56,178 --> 01:21:57,513
I don't know what to do.
2010
01:21:57,513 --> 01:22:00,516
♪ ♪
2011
01:22:00,516 --> 01:22:03,152
‐ Next week
on "The Bachelorette"...
2012
01:22:03,152 --> 01:22:03,986
‐ [crying]
2013
01:22:03,986 --> 01:22:06,522
‐ This thing could be the bomb
that just explodes everything.
2014
01:22:06,522 --> 01:22:09,158
‐ It's back‐to‐back nights
of "The Bachelorette."
2015
01:22:09,158 --> 01:22:09,858
‐ This intensifies
2016
01:22:09,858 --> 01:22:12,327
every single moment
from here on out.
2017
01:22:12,327 --> 01:22:14,263
‐ Next Monday and Tuesday...
2018
01:22:14,263 --> 01:22:16,331
‐ [sobs]
I'm done.
2019
01:22:16,331 --> 01:22:18,600
I don't wanna do it anymore.
2020
01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:20,502
‐ I felt like there was a lot
of unfinished business,
2021
01:22:20,502 --> 01:22:24,206
so I'm back.
2022
01:22:24,206 --> 01:22:24,773
Good evening.
2023
01:22:24,773 --> 01:22:26,742
‐ Bennett walks in
like he never left.
2024
01:22:26,742 --> 01:22:28,544
‐ You guys look like
you've seen a ghost.
2025
01:22:28,544 --> 01:22:30,479
‐ I'm scared to death.
‐ I'm nervous as hell.
2026
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:32,448
‐ I don't wanna hurt anyone.
2027
01:22:32,448 --> 01:22:33,649
‐ [crying]
2028
01:22:33,649 --> 01:22:35,517
‐ Like, this is really real
for me.
2029
01:22:35,517 --> 01:22:38,220
‐ I don't see him coming back.
2030
01:22:38,220 --> 01:22:39,288
‐ [sobbing]
2031
01:22:39,288 --> 01:22:42,324
This is really hard.
2032
01:22:42,324 --> 01:22:43,692
‐ Plus...
2033
01:22:43,692 --> 01:22:46,662
It's Men Tell All like you
have never seen before.
2034
01:22:46,662 --> 01:22:48,864
‐ He's a fraud, fake,
and phony.
2035
01:22:48,864 --> 01:22:51,733
‐ You stirred the [bleep] pot.
‐ Talk about a [bleep].
2036
01:22:51,733 --> 01:22:54,603
‐ No woman deserves
to be talked to like that.
2037
01:22:54,603 --> 01:22:56,004
‐ I'm not gonna apologize.
‐ That's not right.
2038
01:22:56,004 --> 01:22:59,408
‐ And Tayshia returns
to face the men she sent home.
2039
01:22:59,408 --> 01:23:00,709
‐ I don't see us being friends
after this.
2040
01:23:00,709 --> 01:23:03,445
‐ Why the hell are you here
other than to feed your ego?
2041
01:23:03,445 --> 01:23:05,447
‐ It's two nights
of all‐new episodes
2042
01:23:05,447 --> 01:23:08,116
next Monday and Tuesday.
2043
01:23:08,684 --> 01:23:10,452
‐ Are you ready for this?
‐ I'm always ready.
2044
01:23:10,452 --> 01:23:11,653
‐ It's gonna actually feel
really good.
2045
01:23:11,653 --> 01:23:14,289
‐ No, I need something.
It's been a stressful week.
2046
01:23:14,289 --> 01:23:15,424
It's been hot as hell.
2047
01:23:15,424 --> 01:23:16,625
‐ Yeah.
‐ Oh, so it looks kinda‐‐
2048
01:23:16,625 --> 01:23:18,527
‐ Kay, so it looks like this.
‐ Looks pretty slimy.
2049
01:23:18,527 --> 01:23:20,462
‐ And you open it‐‐
yeah, that's all the good‐‐
2050
01:23:20,462 --> 01:23:21,763
that's all the goodies.
2051
01:23:21,763 --> 01:23:24,500
Okay. Close your lips.
Okay.
2052
01:23:24,500 --> 01:23:27,436
It's a little cold.
2053
01:23:27,436 --> 01:23:28,770
Okay.
How does it feel?
2054
01:23:28,770 --> 01:23:30,772
Yeah, it should‐‐
‐ I like it.
2055
01:23:30,772 --> 01:23:32,541
I think I chose
to put a mask on
2056
01:23:32,541 --> 01:23:34,810
because she's into
the beauty space
2057
01:23:34,810 --> 01:23:36,545
and also just
to kinda show her
2058
01:23:36,545 --> 01:23:37,846
the things that we can do
on a Wednesday night.
2059
01:23:37,846 --> 01:23:41,450
Hang out, watch some "Dateline"
on a Friday night,
2060
01:23:41,450 --> 01:23:43,452
and do some face masks.
2061
01:23:43,452 --> 01:23:44,620
I don't know why
I chose "Dateline."
2062
01:23:44,620 --> 01:23:45,921
I chose "Dateline."
2063
01:23:45,921 --> 01:23:47,789
‐ I'll leave this on
for a few more minutes.
2064
01:23:47,789 --> 01:23:49,525
That way, you just feel
really hydrated.
2065
01:23:49,525 --> 01:23:51,493
But we're probably gonna need
a napkin.
2066
01:23:51,493 --> 01:23:52,694
‐ A napkin?
‐ Yeah, just in case, but‐‐
2067
01:23:52,694 --> 01:23:53,896
‐ I didn't come prepared
with a napkin.
2068
01:23:53,896 --> 01:23:56,298
Am I gonna be walking around
like an idiot like this?
2069
01:23:56,298 --> 01:23:56,798
‐ [laughs]
2070
01:23:56,798 --> 01:23:58,734
‐ I don't do facials now,
2071
01:23:58,734 --> 01:24:01,670
but I do little skincare
routines here and there.
2072
01:24:01,670 --> 01:24:02,771
Actually, it's nothing.
2073
01:24:02,771 --> 01:24:05,307
It's just get Botox
every three months.
2074
01:24:05,307 --> 01:24:06,642
[laughs]
That's about it.
2075
01:24:06,642 --> 01:24:08,176
That's my routine.