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‐ Tonight, on the shocking
season finale
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of "The Bachelorette"...
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[dramatic music]
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‐ This is the biggest
decision of my life,
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and I have no idea
what I'm gonna do.
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[laughs]
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‐ Tayshia has found the men
that she could marry.
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‐ I am totally spun
outta control on this girl.
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I know that I love you.
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‐ It really feels like
we're made for each other.
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‐ [squeals]
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‐ I am undoubtedly falling
in love with you right now.
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‐ But is it more
than she can handle?
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[knock on door]
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‐ Can I come in?
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I need to finally tell her
how I feel.
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I'm in love with you.
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‐ Hold on a second.
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‐ And tonight...
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‐ Tayshia.
‐ Daddy!
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‐ It's a shocking surprise
that will change everything.
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‐ Frankly, I'm worried.
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I don't want you
to be making
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the biggest mistake
of your life.
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‐ Why did I do that?
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‐ Can Tayshia
trust her heart?
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‐ I am so confused.
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Oh, my gosh.
This is too much.
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This is too much.
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‐ Will she get engaged
to her soul mate?
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‐ [crying]
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‐ Or will she walk away
from love forever?
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‐ I never wanna experience
that heartache
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that I experienced
in my last marriage.
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[crying]
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[dramatic musical sting]
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‐ Don't miss
the incredibly emotional end
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of an unforgettable
love story.
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‐ [sobbing]
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♪ ♪
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‐ And it all starts
right now.
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[tense music]
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♪ ♪
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‐ Tayshia sent me home
last week,
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but I came back
because I'm in love with her.
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‐ There's a Rose Ceremony.
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What do I do with that?
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‐ I don't know
what's gonna happen,
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but I need to finally tell her
how I feel.
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♪ ♪
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‐ I really care about Ben,
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but I sent him home
for a reason.
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‐ I should be long gone,
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but there's a connection,
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and I can tell
by looking at her eyes
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that there's, like,
more under there.
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‐ [sighs]
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‐ I'm really nervous
because, like,
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I know that she's got
a Rose Ceremony
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in, like, an hour.
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I know there's [bleep]
on her plate,
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but I found a woman
that I've never felt
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this way about
ever in my life,
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and I have to see
where it goes.
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♪ ♪
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Wanna sit?
‐ Hi.
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[soft dramatic music]
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♪ ♪
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I'm, like, so very shocked that
you're right here right now.
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‐ I know.
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I should have just told you
what I was thinking.
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But I'm in love with you.
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You make me feel unlike
anything I've ever felt
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in my entire life.
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And that's what
I'm in love with.
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‐ So why didn't you
tell me earlier?
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‐ I was scared.
‐ Of what?
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‐ I don't know.
I never felt that way.
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It was such an intense thing.
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And I think part of it
is, like,
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I was so confident
that I would get a rose,
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that I would progress
to the next week,
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and I would have, like,
a perfect opportunity
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to tell you how I felt.
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And before I walked into
the Rose Ceremony that night,
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Chris Harrison goes,
"How are you feeling?"
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I'm like,
"I'm in love with her, man."
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‐ So why do you tell
everybody but me?
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‐ I was terrified.
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I was terrified to tell you‐‐
‐ So, Ben, it's like,
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down the road
and we're together,
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so, what, you're gonna be‐‐
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like, are you gonna be there,
or are you just gonna run away
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every single time
something gets hard?
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‐ I just blew it.
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The way that you make me feel
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is the way that I've been
wanting to feel
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my entire life.
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‐ I mean, I'm not gonna lie.
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Have I missed you?
Absolutely.
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♪ ♪
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Look,
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I supposed to have
a Rose Ceremony tonight.
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‐ I know.
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I understand that.
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I just can't leave...
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I can't leave
without telling you this.
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‐ I'm gonna take
a little bit of time,
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but you can come to the
Rose Ceremony tonight, though.
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‐ Okay.
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‐ And then I'll just‐‐
I just need to, like,
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decide what the hell's
going on,
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because I'm not gonna lie.
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I already have enough
on my plate.
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‐ I know.
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Look, I don't expect
anything from you.
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♪ ♪
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I'm just here to tell you
how I feel.
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I am in love with you.
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‐ [whispers] Oh, my God.
‐ [whispers] I know.
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That's [bleep] to hear.
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‐ No, it's not.
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I just wish I would have
heard it sooner.
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‐ I know.
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‐ Because I was almost there.
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♪ ♪
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[both sigh]
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I'm sorry.
I'm really sorry.
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♪ ♪
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See you tonight.
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‐ Okay.
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‐ Thank you for talking
with me.
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[music swells]
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♪ ♪
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See you tonight.
‐ Mm‐hmm.
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Ben showing up tonight
affects everything.
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And I just don't wanna
make a bad decision.
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[sighs]
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And I just kissed him.
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Why would I kiss him?
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[tearfully]
Why did I do that?
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♪ ♪
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‐ I can't believe
what just happened, happened.
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She kissed me,
and then I blacked out
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because I've never been
happier in my entire life.
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She's absolutely incredible.
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And I'm 100% confident
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that I'm gonna get a rose.
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[soft music]
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♪ ♪
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‐ Walking to the Rose Ceremony
tonight,
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I feel really confident
in our relationship
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and where we stand right now,
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and I think both of our lives
just align the best.
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So I'm on cloud nine.
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I'm so happy to be
part of the final two
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and be meeting Tayshia's
family next week.
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‐ Ivan.
‐ How's it going there, Chris?
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‐ Good to see you, sir.
‐ Good to see you as well.
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‐ How you doin'?
‐ I'm doing great.
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‐ Yeah?
‐ It was a great week.
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We both were able
to tell each other
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that we're falling in love
with each other and...
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‐ Yeah.
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‐ To be open and vulnerable
like that feels awesome,
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so I'm looking forward
to meeting her family,
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to be honest.
‐ Well, good luck.
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‐ Thank you very much, sir.
‐ Head on inside.
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‐ I appreciate it.
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I definitely feel like we have
the strongest connection
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at this point, and, uh,
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you know,
I feel that Tayshia and I
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are ready for an engagement,
so this is huge.
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I can't wait.
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‐ Chris.
‐ Zac, how you doing, buddy?
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‐ I'm all right.
‐ Good to see you.
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‐ We're here.
‐ Lookin' sharp tonight.
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‐ Thank you.
‐ How you feeling?
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‐ Feel good.
‐ Yeah?
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‐ We shared some
special moments this week.
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Told her I loved her.
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She actually said it back
to me.
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Big stuff.
Yeah.
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‐ All right, good luck.
‐ Thanks, Chris.
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Good to see you, man, thanks.
‐ Head on inside.
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‐ This week, I fell
more in love with Tayshia.
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And I'm ready for a proposal.
I'm ready to do it.
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But there's no guarantees,
especially around here,
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so I'm just prepared
for everything.
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[dramatic music]
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‐ Gentlemen.
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‐ What's goin' on, Ben?
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‐ I wanted to
just let you guys know
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that she invited me
to the Rose Ceremony tonight.
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So I'm here, you know,
just to be with you all
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and see what happens.
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‐ Interesting.
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‐ Ben's back, and I don't know
what this means for me.
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Right now in this moment,
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there's always a chance
that I go home.
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Until that rose
is on my lapel,
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there's no guarantees.
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I could go home tonight.
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‐ [softly]
Wow.
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‐ [exhales]
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♪ ♪
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‐ Hi.
‐ Hey.
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‐ [chuckles]
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Um...
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I was told that
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Fantasy Suites week
is, um,
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definitely a pivotal moment,
and...
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this week proved exactly that.
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Obviously, you don't see
Brendan here today.
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And that's because...
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it just didn't work out.
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And...
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we have Ben.
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[soft tense music]
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Um, I'm still trying
to figure it out,
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but I've just been
praying about clarity
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and trying to figure out
exactly what to do
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and how to navigate this
the best
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because I care about
all of you.
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And so, um...
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[sighs deeply]
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[suspenseful music]
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♪ ♪
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[sighs]
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Ivan, can we talk
really quickly?
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‐ What's up?
‐ Can we talk really quickly?
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‐ Yeah, for sure.
Let's do it.
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How's it going?
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Think I have
a new favorite dress.
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‐ [chuckles]
Thank you.
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‐ [sighs]
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‐ What do you think's
going on over there?
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‐ I, uh...
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‐ Given what she just said
about following her heart,
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I‐‐I don't know if that
conversation's good or bad.
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‐ How are you?
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‐ I'm doing good.
How 'bout you?
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‐ I'm good.
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Um,
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with you, I feel like,
since the very beginning,
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I think we started off
really strong.
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‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ And, like, we found that...
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that trust.
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‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ But also, this past week,
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we talked about some, um...
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important subjects that I feel
like we both needed to have.
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‐ Mm‐hmm.
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‐ But there are some things
that, like,
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kind of posed concern.
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‐ It's so tough to tell.
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I mean, I know that
she's thought highly of Ivan
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this entire time, you know?
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I'm sure she's just looking
for maybe some more clarity.
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Perhaps she wants to‐‐
was unsure about something,
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and I might be next.
‐ Yeah.
261
00:12:40,460 --> 00:12:44,430
‐ You know?
I‐‐I might be next.
262
00:12:44,430 --> 00:12:46,232
‐ I wish I can say
that there were
263
00:12:46,232 --> 00:12:47,533
a lot of red flags
prior to this week...
264
00:12:47,533 --> 00:12:49,202
‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ And there haven't been.
265
00:12:49,202 --> 00:12:52,238
It's just, like,
at the end of the day,
266
00:12:52,238 --> 00:12:54,374
religion's, like, part of
my morals and my beliefs.
267
00:12:54,374 --> 00:12:57,710
‐ I definitely get it.
Yep.
268
00:12:57,710 --> 00:13:00,113
You know, we found out
a lot of stuff about each other
269
00:13:00,113 --> 00:13:01,547
and, uh...
‐ Yeah.
270
00:13:01,547 --> 00:13:03,583
‐ I was definitely struggling
with bringing it up 'cause,
271
00:13:03,583 --> 00:13:06,519
like, you know, all the girls
I have dated in the past,
272
00:13:06,519 --> 00:13:08,388
you know, it never ended
273
00:13:08,388 --> 00:13:10,423
because of religion
or anything.
274
00:13:10,423 --> 00:13:13,426
But I know that is something
that's important to you,
275
00:13:13,426 --> 00:13:15,295
and I do apologize for that,
276
00:13:15,295 --> 00:13:17,430
and I wish I did bring it up
a little sooner.
277
00:13:17,430 --> 00:13:21,267
You know, that is the roadblock
for the two of us.
278
00:13:21,267 --> 00:13:22,468
‐ Yeah.
279
00:13:22,468 --> 00:13:24,404
‐ I don't know what to think.
280
00:13:24,404 --> 00:13:28,041
You know, obviously,
I kinda hope he's gone.
281
00:13:29,442 --> 00:13:31,477
There's two roses,
there's two of us up here.
282
00:13:31,477 --> 00:13:33,346
So...
‐ Yeah.
283
00:13:33,346 --> 00:13:35,181
‐ Look,
284
00:13:35,181 --> 00:13:39,285
I really do think
the world of you.
285
00:13:39,285 --> 00:13:42,388
It's just...
286
00:13:42,388 --> 00:13:45,191
‐ I get it.
No, I get it, Tay.
287
00:13:45,191 --> 00:13:48,061
But, yeah.
288
00:13:48,061 --> 00:13:51,431
[sighs]
289
00:13:51,431 --> 00:13:53,299
‐ I'm sorry.
290
00:13:53,299 --> 00:13:55,468
‐ It's all good.
Um...
291
00:13:55,468 --> 00:13:57,603
It just sucks, but...
292
00:13:57,603 --> 00:13:59,505
I meant every word
when I was saying
293
00:13:59,505 --> 00:14:01,974
I was falling in love with you
this week.
294
00:14:01,974 --> 00:14:04,377
And, uh,
295
00:14:04,377 --> 00:14:07,880
I just hate that
it couldn't work out.
296
00:14:11,150 --> 00:14:14,220
All right.
Ready.
297
00:14:14,220 --> 00:14:17,256
[somber music]
298
00:14:17,256 --> 00:14:23,429
♪ ♪
299
00:14:23,429 --> 00:14:26,265
‐ They're walking to a car.
300
00:14:30,236 --> 00:14:33,406
‐ Best of luck, Tay.
‐ Thanks, Ivan.
301
00:14:33,406 --> 00:14:37,443
‐ You deserve it.
‐ Thank you.
302
00:14:37,443 --> 00:14:40,346
‐ Yep.
I'll see you.
303
00:14:40,346 --> 00:14:47,920
♪ ♪
304
00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,435
I knew in the back of my mind,
I was like,
305
00:15:02,435 --> 00:15:04,670
"This thing could
really just be the bomb
306
00:15:04,670 --> 00:15:06,606
that just explodes
everything here,"
307
00:15:06,606 --> 00:15:10,042
and it just happened.
308
00:15:10,042 --> 00:15:12,879
[sighs]
309
00:15:15,248 --> 00:15:17,116
[bleep].
310
00:15:18,851 --> 00:15:21,687
This is definitely gonna
sting for a while, for sure.
311
00:15:21,687 --> 00:15:26,893
You don't just fall out of love
overnight, you know?
312
00:15:26,893 --> 00:15:30,696
I think this is a lot harder
than Tayshia imagined,
313
00:15:30,696 --> 00:15:32,465
and I don't know if she'll
feel comfortable, really,
314
00:15:32,465 --> 00:15:34,734
with anybody
by the end of this.
315
00:15:34,734 --> 00:15:38,371
'Cause I think me and her
made the most sense.
316
00:15:38,371 --> 00:15:40,473
It's gonna be tough on her,
but I don't‐‐
317
00:15:40,473 --> 00:15:43,276
she's not gonna pick anybody,
I don't think.
318
00:15:45,678 --> 00:15:49,449
‐ Um, I just sent Ivan home.
319
00:15:49,449 --> 00:15:52,552
And unfortunately,
there was just some things
320
00:15:52,552 --> 00:15:55,688
that our future
didn't align on.
321
00:15:55,688 --> 00:15:58,391
He's an amazing guy,
322
00:15:58,391 --> 00:16:02,328
but I think
this is the best way for us.
323
00:16:02,328 --> 00:16:03,629
I wanted to go into this week
324
00:16:03,629 --> 00:16:05,798
fully confident
with who was by my side,
325
00:16:05,798 --> 00:16:10,336
and I feel really good
about you guys.
326
00:16:10,336 --> 00:16:11,904
And this is
a very big deal for me,
327
00:16:11,904 --> 00:16:14,807
'cause you're actually
gonna be meeting my family.
328
00:16:14,807 --> 00:16:18,177
[laughing] And I can't wait
for you to meet them.
329
00:16:18,177 --> 00:16:19,545
So...
330
00:16:19,545 --> 00:16:24,317
[soft music]
331
00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:25,651
‐ I'm in shock right now.
332
00:16:25,651 --> 00:16:27,587
There's two roses,
two of us, and I'm like...
333
00:16:27,587 --> 00:16:29,322
[exhales]
334
00:16:29,322 --> 00:16:31,491
‐ Zac.
335
00:16:31,491 --> 00:16:32,992
‐ The only person
standing between me
336
00:16:32,992 --> 00:16:36,562
and marrying the woman
I'm supposed to marry is Zac.
337
00:16:36,562 --> 00:16:39,599
‐ Zac, will you accept
this rose?
338
00:16:39,599 --> 00:16:41,634
‐ Yes, and I can't wait
to meet your family.
339
00:16:41,634 --> 00:16:42,969
‐ [chuckles]
340
00:16:42,969 --> 00:16:48,207
‐ I'm very, very, very excited
to meet Tayshia's family.
341
00:16:48,207 --> 00:16:50,810
‐ Ben.
342
00:16:50,810 --> 00:16:55,314
‐ But I didn't think
Ben was gonna be here tonight.
343
00:16:55,314 --> 00:16:57,416
‐ Ben.
‐ Yes, Tayshia.
344
00:16:57,416 --> 00:16:59,252
‐ Will you accept this rose?
345
00:16:59,252 --> 00:17:00,987
‐ Always.
346
00:17:00,987 --> 00:17:05,358
‐ I know there's a possibility
of heartbreak, so...
347
00:17:05,358 --> 00:17:09,395
Yeah, it's nerve‐racking.
348
00:17:09,395 --> 00:17:10,830
Really nerve‐racking.
349
00:17:10,830 --> 00:17:13,399
‐ To love.
both: To love.
350
00:17:13,399 --> 00:17:15,101
‐ [giggles]
351
00:17:15,601 --> 00:17:18,271
[pensive music]
352
00:17:18,271 --> 00:17:21,741
♪ ♪
353
00:17:21,741 --> 00:17:24,477
‐ Last night
was very stressful.
354
00:17:24,477 --> 00:17:26,546
As much as I hate
355
00:17:26,546 --> 00:17:28,414
that I had to say goodbye
to Ivan,
356
00:17:28,414 --> 00:17:29,916
I feel like
I did the right thing.
357
00:17:29,916 --> 00:17:33,519
I have two amazing guys
going into this week,
358
00:17:33,519 --> 00:17:36,856
and proposals
are around the corner.
359
00:17:36,856 --> 00:17:38,758
But I feel like I'm nervous
360
00:17:38,758 --> 00:17:42,028
because I've been married
before, and...
361
00:17:42,028 --> 00:17:45,298
I don't wanna make a mistake
and end up in a bad situation
362
00:17:45,298 --> 00:17:47,600
ever again.
363
00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:51,437
This week, Ben and Zac
are meeting my family.
364
00:17:51,437 --> 00:17:52,638
‐ Yeah, I wanna make sure‐‐
365
00:17:52,638 --> 00:17:54,407
see how she's been‐‐
366
00:17:54,407 --> 00:17:55,508
whoa!
‐ [gasps]
367
00:17:55,508 --> 00:17:57,843
‐ [laughing]
Hi!
368
00:17:57,843 --> 00:18:00,279
‐ Oh, my goodness!
‐ My gosh!
369
00:18:00,279 --> 00:18:01,647
‐ Hi!
370
00:18:01,647 --> 00:18:03,482
My family is here!
371
00:18:03,482 --> 00:18:04,684
I love my family.
372
00:18:04,684 --> 00:18:07,653
My family's support
and approval
373
00:18:07,653 --> 00:18:08,921
means everything to me,
374
00:18:08,921 --> 00:18:10,590
especially
when it comes down to a guy
375
00:18:10,590 --> 00:18:11,691
getting down on a knee
376
00:18:11,691 --> 00:18:12,992
and asking for my hand
in marriage.
377
00:18:12,992 --> 00:18:15,761
Mom, don't cry, it is fine!
‐ I know, I‐‐
378
00:18:15,761 --> 00:18:18,931
‐ Hi, Mom, I love you.
‐ I love you so much, baby.
379
00:18:18,931 --> 00:18:21,434
‐ I'm really excited
to have my family
380
00:18:21,434 --> 00:18:23,636
meet both Ben and Zac.
381
00:18:23,636 --> 00:18:26,439
It's very important.
382
00:18:26,439 --> 00:18:28,741
‐ So what has‐‐
[sighs] Tayshia.
383
00:18:28,741 --> 00:18:30,843
What are you doing? I‐‐
‐ I mean...
384
00:18:30,843 --> 00:18:34,680
I've just‐‐I've been living
my best life, I feel like.
385
00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,483
I don't know,
I'm just enjoying
386
00:18:37,483 --> 00:18:38,951
the ride and the journey.
387
00:18:38,951 --> 00:18:40,519
‐ Where are we at?
What are we doing?
388
00:18:40,519 --> 00:18:42,588
‐ Okay, so I had 20 guys here.
389
00:18:42,588 --> 00:18:44,457
‐ Wow.
‐ Now we're down to two.
390
00:18:44,457 --> 00:18:45,625
‐ Two.
‐ Wow.
391
00:18:45,625 --> 00:18:46,993
‐ We have Ben,
392
00:18:46,993 --> 00:18:49,462
who you're gonna meet today,
and then we have Zac.
393
00:18:49,462 --> 00:18:50,529
‐ Ben and Zac.
394
00:18:50,529 --> 00:18:51,597
‐ Uh‐huh.
‐ Nice.
395
00:18:51,597 --> 00:18:53,566
‐ So why these two? What‐‐
‐ Okay.
396
00:18:53,566 --> 00:18:54,734
‐ How come‐‐
‐ So, actually...
397
00:18:54,734 --> 00:18:55,901
‐ We'll start out with Ben,
right?
398
00:18:55,901 --> 00:18:58,704
‐ Let's start out with‐‐
fun little story with Ben.
399
00:18:58,704 --> 00:19:02,842
So Ben is someone I've liked
since the very beginning, and,
400
00:19:02,842 --> 00:19:06,312
um, I actually‐‐so I met
his family at Hometown.
401
00:19:06,312 --> 00:19:06,846
‐ Nice.
402
00:19:06,846 --> 00:19:08,714
‐ But I actually decided
to send Ben home,
403
00:19:08,714 --> 00:19:11,751
so Ben actually went home.
404
00:19:11,751 --> 00:19:13,853
But Ben came back.
[laughter]
405
00:19:13,853 --> 00:19:15,621
So...
‐ How'd he just come back?
406
00:19:15,621 --> 00:19:16,989
‐ Well...
‐ He just showed up?
407
00:19:16,989 --> 00:19:19,825
‐ He showed back up
on my doorstep.
408
00:19:19,825 --> 00:19:22,094
‐ What?
‐ So then, um,
409
00:19:22,094 --> 00:19:24,764
I don't know,
I had a conversation with him.
410
00:19:24,764 --> 00:19:26,866
He, like, reassured me,
and I finally got, like,
411
00:19:26,866 --> 00:19:29,535
what I was looking for
when I sent him home.
412
00:19:29,535 --> 00:19:31,504
‐ Okay, so he had a wall up
at first.
413
00:19:31,504 --> 00:19:32,805
‐ Yeah, he did.
‐ And then...
414
00:19:32,805 --> 00:19:34,573
‐ I kinda brought it
out of him.
415
00:19:34,573 --> 00:19:35,775
‐ Okay.
‐ But I think that
416
00:19:35,775 --> 00:19:37,810
that's kind of, like,
where I kinda need you guys
417
00:19:37,810 --> 00:19:39,712
to come in and, like, just talk
418
00:19:39,712 --> 00:19:40,946
and just get to know him
and see what you think.
419
00:19:40,946 --> 00:19:43,516
‐ Mm‐kay.
‐ He's a really good guy.
420
00:19:43,516 --> 00:19:44,884
‐ Sounds good.
‐ All right.
421
00:19:44,884 --> 00:19:47,820
‐ I'm gonna go get him,
and we'll be back soon.
422
00:19:47,820 --> 00:19:48,821
‐ All right.
‐ We're here.
423
00:19:48,821 --> 00:19:50,623
‐ Can't wait.
‐ Go get Ben.
424
00:19:50,623 --> 00:19:52,358
‐ Okay.
425
00:19:55,661 --> 00:19:57,830
‐ Well, I don't know.
‐ It'll be interesting.
426
00:19:57,830 --> 00:19:59,065
‐ Yeah.
427
00:19:59,065 --> 00:20:02,068
I knew coming into this
I have to have an open mind.
428
00:20:02,068 --> 00:20:05,805
But for Ben to show up
after he was sent home
429
00:20:05,805 --> 00:20:08,874
says a little bit about the guy
with his character
430
00:20:08,874 --> 00:20:12,511
that maybe he didn't put
his best foot forward.
431
00:20:12,511 --> 00:20:15,614
I was skeptical.
432
00:20:15,614 --> 00:20:16,882
‐ How are you?
‐ I'm good.
433
00:20:16,882 --> 00:20:18,851
‐ You look beautiful.
‐ Thank you.
434
00:20:18,851 --> 00:20:20,052
‐ Holy cow!
‐ [giggles]
435
00:20:20,052 --> 00:20:22,088
My parents are here.
‐ I'm a little sweaty.
436
00:20:22,088 --> 00:20:24,857
My palms are sweaty
or just generally sweaty.
437
00:20:24,857 --> 00:20:26,759
‐ It's okay.
438
00:20:26,759 --> 00:20:28,828
‐ Go on in.
439
00:20:28,828 --> 00:20:29,929
‐ Hello!
440
00:20:29,929 --> 00:20:32,031
‐ Hello.
How are y'all?
441
00:20:32,031 --> 00:20:33,899
‐ How are you, man?
‐ What's up man? I'm Ben.
442
00:20:33,899 --> 00:20:35,034
‐ Nice to meet you. Brice.
‐ Brice, nice to meet you, dude.
443
00:20:35,034 --> 00:20:36,602
‐ Desmond.
‐ What's up, dude?
444
00:20:36,602 --> 00:20:37,670
Desmond.
Good to meet you.
445
00:20:37,670 --> 00:20:38,838
Hey, it's great to meet you.
I'm Ben.
446
00:20:38,838 --> 00:20:40,072
‐ Desmond. Nice to meet you.
‐ Nice to meet you.
447
00:20:40,072 --> 00:20:42,108
I'm more nervous than
I've ever been in my life.
448
00:20:42,108 --> 00:20:44,844
If Tayshia's parents know that
I was sent home last week,
449
00:20:44,844 --> 00:20:46,946
I'm sure they'll have
questions about that,
450
00:20:46,946 --> 00:20:49,815
why it happened, so I wanna
make a nice impression.
451
00:20:49,815 --> 00:20:51,917
‐ So this is Ben.
I just told you guys about Ben.
452
00:20:51,917 --> 00:20:53,719
‐ Yes.
‐ And now this is my family.
453
00:20:53,719 --> 00:20:55,654
‐ Brice, Desmond,
Rosario, Desmond.
454
00:20:55,654 --> 00:20:56,889
‐ Yes.
‐ Got it.
455
00:20:56,889 --> 00:20:58,958
‐ Ben, where did you
go to college?
456
00:20:58,958 --> 00:21:00,860
‐ I went to West Point.
‐ Oh, really?
457
00:21:00,860 --> 00:21:02,895
‐ Ooh!
‐ Oh, okay.
458
00:21:02,895 --> 00:21:05,598
We gotta meet.
[overlapping chatter, laughter]
459
00:21:05,598 --> 00:21:07,032
‐ Go Navy, beat Army?
460
00:21:07,032 --> 00:21:08,734
‐ That's all right,
that's all right.
461
00:21:08,734 --> 00:21:10,836
‐ What about this experience?
How...
462
00:21:10,836 --> 00:21:11,971
‐ It's been up and down,
for sure.
463
00:21:11,971 --> 00:21:14,807
I'm sure you heard
she dumped me last week.
464
00:21:14,807 --> 00:21:16,776
‐ Yeah, well...
[laughter]
465
00:21:16,776 --> 00:21:18,611
‐ Ben and I have had...
‐ She did.
466
00:21:18,611 --> 00:21:20,679
‐ Like, a fun journey.
467
00:21:20,679 --> 00:21:21,747
Right?
‐ Yeah.
468
00:21:21,747 --> 00:21:22,948
‐ Had to have made
a good impression...
469
00:21:22,948 --> 00:21:24,817
‐ It was incredible.
‐ For second chances.
470
00:21:24,817 --> 00:21:27,586
‐ See‐‐okay, so let's cheers.
‐ Yeah, please.
471
00:21:27,586 --> 00:21:28,154
[laughter]
472
00:21:28,154 --> 00:21:30,623
‐ Let's just toast
to second chances.
473
00:21:30,623 --> 00:21:31,891
‐ Yes.
‐ Second chances.
474
00:21:31,891 --> 00:21:33,692
‐ Toast me.
475
00:21:33,692 --> 00:21:34,894
‐ Cheers, guys.
‐ Cheers me.
476
00:21:34,894 --> 00:21:36,962
‐ As a father,
you protect your children
477
00:21:36,962 --> 00:21:38,197
for the rest of their life.
478
00:21:38,197 --> 00:21:41,000
She's been through some
tough times with her divorce
479
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,068
and how that just
didn't work out, and...
480
00:21:43,068 --> 00:21:47,006
I'm gonna do whatever I could
to not have that happen again.
481
00:21:47,006 --> 00:21:49,141
Why Ben?
‐ Well, Ben was someone
482
00:21:49,141 --> 00:21:51,744
that I really liked
since day one.
483
00:21:51,744 --> 00:21:53,078
‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ I get, like, lost in time
484
00:21:53,078 --> 00:21:54,914
when I'm with Ben,
in the sense of like,
485
00:21:54,914 --> 00:21:56,682
no one else is around
kinda thing.
486
00:21:56,682 --> 00:21:58,818
You know?
‐ That's good.
487
00:21:58,818 --> 00:22:00,886
‐ And there's just been
deeper conversations
488
00:22:00,886 --> 00:22:02,888
and not just‐‐
it's not just surface level.
489
00:22:02,888 --> 00:22:04,089
‐ Okay.
‐ And...
490
00:22:04,089 --> 00:22:06,158
he was one of the first people
491
00:22:06,158 --> 00:22:08,961
I could see myself ending up
with at the end of all of this.
492
00:22:08,961 --> 00:22:10,996
‐ Really?
‐ Yeah, he really was.
493
00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:12,865
‐ I like his background.
‐ Mm‐hmm.
494
00:22:12,865 --> 00:22:14,767
‐ How he's gone to West Point.
495
00:22:14,767 --> 00:22:16,468
So that shows
that he has some drive.
496
00:22:16,468 --> 00:22:16,969
‐ Mm‐hmm.
497
00:22:16,969 --> 00:22:19,805
‐ But more importantly is,
498
00:22:19,805 --> 00:22:23,843
I don't want you
to have to work so hard
499
00:22:23,843 --> 00:22:26,712
to get somebody
to be on the same page as you.
500
00:22:26,712 --> 00:22:27,780
‐ Right.
501
00:22:27,780 --> 00:22:30,216
‐ To bring somebody else
into the picture,
502
00:22:30,216 --> 00:22:35,554
they need to be able to come
with a lot at this point.
503
00:22:35,554 --> 00:22:37,489
‐ Yeah.
504
00:22:38,757 --> 00:22:41,093
‐ What do you think
about Tayshia?
505
00:22:41,093 --> 00:22:43,863
‐ I mean, the way
that she makes me feel
506
00:22:43,863 --> 00:22:46,031
is unlike anything
I've ever felt in my lifetime,
507
00:22:46,031 --> 00:22:48,901
and the thought
of potentially, like,
508
00:22:48,901 --> 00:22:51,237
getting to spend my life
with her is‐‐
509
00:22:51,237 --> 00:22:53,973
it's overwhelming for me
because she's the woman
510
00:22:53,973 --> 00:22:55,674
that I could imagine
having children with
511
00:22:55,674 --> 00:22:56,308
and having a family with.
512
00:22:56,308 --> 00:22:59,745
‐ Do you think this is
gonna be a forever thing?
513
00:22:59,745 --> 00:23:00,846
‐ Yeah.
‐ It's not‐‐
514
00:23:00,846 --> 00:23:02,681
you're still kinda, like,
trying to figure it out?
515
00:23:02,681 --> 00:23:04,917
‐ No.
‐ I need to know that.
516
00:23:04,917 --> 00:23:06,385
‐ Oh, yeah.
This is a forever thing.
517
00:23:06,385 --> 00:23:10,022
I'll just come out and say it.
I'm in love with your daughter.
518
00:23:10,022 --> 00:23:13,158
I, uh, I've never felt this way
in my lifetime.
519
00:23:13,158 --> 00:23:15,861
‐ I appreciate you
being super honest.
520
00:23:15,861 --> 00:23:16,929
‐ Of course.
521
00:23:16,929 --> 00:23:18,664
You know,
after speaking with her mom,
522
00:23:18,664 --> 00:23:20,666
which was awesome,
523
00:23:20,666 --> 00:23:21,967
I felt great,
524
00:23:21,967 --> 00:23:24,169
but I mean, there's a lot
on the line today.
525
00:23:24,169 --> 00:23:25,938
I could sit down
with Tayshia's dad
526
00:23:25,938 --> 00:23:28,741
and he could not like me.
527
00:23:28,741 --> 00:23:30,042
That's scary.
528
00:23:30,042 --> 00:23:32,645
It's great
to finally meet you...
529
00:23:32,645 --> 00:23:33,312
‐ Right.
530
00:23:33,312 --> 00:23:35,581
‐ 'Cause the way that she
speaks about all of you is‐‐
531
00:23:35,581 --> 00:23:36,315
it's incredible.
532
00:23:36,315 --> 00:23:39,852
‐ My question for you is,
what do you see in Tayshia?
533
00:23:39,852 --> 00:23:41,053
Why...
‐ Yeah.
534
00:23:41,053 --> 00:23:43,355
‐ Would you like to go further?
535
00:23:43,355 --> 00:23:46,892
‐ For me, what made me
come back to this experience,
536
00:23:46,892 --> 00:23:48,961
even though I was sent home,
537
00:23:48,961 --> 00:23:50,629
is the way
that she makes me feel.
538
00:23:50,629 --> 00:23:51,297
‐ Kay.
539
00:23:51,297 --> 00:23:55,034
‐ And I would be an idiot
to not come back
540
00:23:55,034 --> 00:23:56,936
and, uh...
541
00:23:56,936 --> 00:23:58,904
The first thing
that she asked me to do
542
00:23:58,904 --> 00:24:00,105
when we started
our relationship
543
00:24:00,105 --> 00:24:01,840
was to show up for her.
544
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,075
And so across
this entire experience,
545
00:24:03,075 --> 00:24:04,710
I've been showing up
in little ways.
546
00:24:04,710 --> 00:24:05,411
‐ Right.
547
00:24:05,411 --> 00:24:09,014
So what makes you think
you're ready to be married?
548
00:24:09,014 --> 00:24:10,215
‐ You know,
549
00:24:10,215 --> 00:24:12,785
to be fully honest with you,
meeting your daughter.
550
00:24:12,785 --> 00:24:15,220
There's nobody else like her.
551
00:24:15,220 --> 00:24:17,389
She's incredible.
‐ That's good to hear.
552
00:24:17,389 --> 00:24:20,092
‐ It's my fault that
we were on different pages.
553
00:24:20,092 --> 00:24:22,127
I‐‐I, uh...
554
00:24:22,127 --> 00:24:25,030
Full disclosure.
I'm in love with your daughter.
555
00:24:25,030 --> 00:24:27,967
I fell in love with your
daughter several weeks ago,
556
00:24:27,967 --> 00:24:31,136
and I was so terrified
to share that with her
557
00:24:31,136 --> 00:24:33,105
because I didn't know
that it would be reciprocated.
558
00:24:33,105 --> 00:24:35,207
‐ Okay.
I respect that.
559
00:24:35,207 --> 00:24:38,210
‐ Like,
I've never experienced
560
00:24:38,210 --> 00:24:40,079
a relationship,
romantic or otherwise,
561
00:24:40,079 --> 00:24:43,949
that was anywhere like‐‐
anything like this.
562
00:24:43,949 --> 00:24:47,086
‐ I think you're a sincere
563
00:24:47,086 --> 00:24:49,154
young man.
564
00:24:49,154 --> 00:24:52,157
I see some good qualities
in you, truthfully.
565
00:24:52,157 --> 00:24:53,392
I like that.
‐ Thank you.
566
00:24:53,392 --> 00:24:56,895
‐ And I really appreciate you
being genuine.
567
00:24:56,895 --> 00:24:58,364
‐ Yeah.
‐ Being open, being honest.
568
00:24:58,364 --> 00:25:01,533
‐ Thank you.
‐ And that says a lot to me.
569
00:25:01,533 --> 00:25:05,104
‐ I do thank you for sitting
here and chatting with me.
570
00:25:05,104 --> 00:25:06,271
It was a pleasure.
‐ All right.
571
00:25:06,271 --> 00:25:08,407
After having my conversation
with Ben,
572
00:25:08,407 --> 00:25:12,144
I felt a little bit better
about his intentions.
573
00:25:12,144 --> 00:25:14,146
He really acknowledged
where he messed up
574
00:25:14,146 --> 00:25:15,914
and where he could have
done better.
575
00:25:15,914 --> 00:25:17,182
That says a lot
for some people.
576
00:25:17,182 --> 00:25:19,051
Some people
try to just gloss over it.
577
00:25:19,051 --> 00:25:21,954
I probably went from
578
00:25:21,954 --> 00:25:24,023
being doubtful of the guy
579
00:25:24,023 --> 00:25:25,824
to where I would
give him a chance.
580
00:25:25,824 --> 00:25:27,893
[bright music]
581
00:25:27,893 --> 00:25:29,962
‐ Whoo!
‐ Wait‐‐what‐‐
582
00:25:29,962 --> 00:25:32,431
‐ No, no, no, no!
[laughing]
583
00:25:32,431 --> 00:25:34,166
‐ I'm so happy
that I came back.
584
00:25:34,166 --> 00:25:35,367
I'm so happy
that I got to meet her family.
585
00:25:35,367 --> 00:25:38,837
I'm so grateful that
she, like, took me back.
586
00:25:38,837 --> 00:25:41,407
Her family likes me.
587
00:25:41,407 --> 00:25:43,442
I can see myself
fitting in with her family.
588
00:25:43,442 --> 00:25:45,944
All right, so Tayshia and I
are out of here for the night.
589
00:25:45,944 --> 00:25:47,112
It was great to meet you all.
590
00:25:47,112 --> 00:25:48,280
‐ Bye, baby!
‐ I love you!
591
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,083
‐ Love you, Taysh.
Look where you're going, girl!
592
00:25:51,083 --> 00:25:53,018
‐ See you later!
[giggling]
593
00:25:53,018 --> 00:25:54,153
[bell jingles]
594
00:25:54,153 --> 00:25:55,387
Today was amazing.
595
00:25:55,387 --> 00:25:57,389
It was really nice
bringing Ben to my family.
596
00:25:57,389 --> 00:25:59,058
I'm glad
they got to know him.
597
00:25:59,058 --> 00:26:00,793
I feel like
they do really like him.
598
00:26:00,793 --> 00:26:01,493
I beat you though.
599
00:26:01,493 --> 00:26:05,064
If my dad walks away feeling,
like, good about Ben,
600
00:26:05,064 --> 00:26:06,765
then that makes me happy.
601
00:26:06,765 --> 00:26:11,470
♪ ♪
602
00:26:11,470 --> 00:26:13,305
I was already
falling in love with Ben,
603
00:26:13,305 --> 00:26:16,141
and I kinda put my heart
on hold
604
00:26:16,141 --> 00:26:17,509
when I sent him home.
605
00:26:17,509 --> 00:26:20,145
And today, I started
to fall in love with Ben
606
00:26:20,145 --> 00:26:23,816
all over again.
607
00:26:23,816 --> 00:26:25,851
‐ I love you.
608
00:26:25,851 --> 00:26:28,487
I really love you.
609
00:26:28,487 --> 00:26:32,424
‐ For Ben to come back here
and tell me that he loves me‐‐
610
00:26:32,424 --> 00:26:34,460
those are the words
I wanted to hear.
611
00:26:34,460 --> 00:26:37,996
Those are the words
I was looking for.
612
00:26:37,996 --> 00:26:39,932
[giggling]
‐ See you later.
613
00:26:39,932 --> 00:26:41,300
‐ Bye.
614
00:26:41,300 --> 00:26:44,736
Today was the perfect day
for Ben and I.
615
00:26:47,973 --> 00:26:51,176
[mellow music]
616
00:26:51,176 --> 00:26:53,145
♪ ♪
617
00:26:53,145 --> 00:26:55,447
‐ I'm really happy
my family got to meet Ben.
618
00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:58,317
I feel like they saw
a fun side of him yesterday
619
00:26:58,317 --> 00:27:01,420
but also how genuine he is.
620
00:27:01,420 --> 00:27:04,223
But today,
it's all about Zac.
621
00:27:04,223 --> 00:27:07,192
Today I'm really excited
for Zac to meet my family.
622
00:27:07,192 --> 00:27:09,027
I feel like he's gonna get
623
00:27:09,027 --> 00:27:10,329
bombarded
with a lot of questions,
624
00:27:10,329 --> 00:27:12,164
but I feel like
it's a good thing,
625
00:27:12,164 --> 00:27:15,167
and I think he's ready
for it.
626
00:27:15,167 --> 00:27:16,201
Hey, you.
627
00:27:16,201 --> 00:27:18,203
‐ Hi.
‐ [giggling]
628
00:27:18,203 --> 00:27:21,240
‐ Big day.
‐ Big day!
629
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,941
[gasps]
630
00:27:22,941 --> 00:27:26,278
‐ Good to see you.
631
00:27:26,278 --> 00:27:27,946
‐ How're you doing?
‐ I'm good.
632
00:27:27,946 --> 00:27:29,014
‐ Are you nervous?
633
00:27:29,014 --> 00:27:30,115
‐ Yeah.
‐ You‐‐
634
00:27:30,115 --> 00:27:32,117
‐ Yeah, of course.
‐ Just a little bit.
635
00:27:32,117 --> 00:27:33,252
Good nerves.
‐ Yeah, good nerves,
636
00:27:33,252 --> 00:27:34,419
'cause I care.
‐ Okay.
637
00:27:34,419 --> 00:27:36,221
So my family's here, and
they're excited to meet you.
638
00:27:36,221 --> 00:27:37,289
‐ Good.
639
00:27:37,289 --> 00:27:39,057
‐ And I think
it's gonna be a good day.
640
00:27:39,057 --> 00:27:40,893
‐ I know it is.
‐ Come on.
641
00:27:40,893 --> 00:27:42,161
‐ Okay.
‐ Okay.
642
00:27:42,161 --> 00:27:43,195
‐ Okay.
Okay.
643
00:27:43,195 --> 00:27:45,697
‐ [giggling]
644
00:27:45,697 --> 00:27:48,934
‐ [inhales] Oh, my God.
‐ [laughs] You're freaking out.
645
00:27:48,934 --> 00:27:50,102
‐ Me?
‐ Yeah.
646
00:27:50,102 --> 00:27:52,271
‐ No, I'm good.
‐ Okay, good.
647
00:27:52,271 --> 00:27:54,406
‐ Within five minutes
of meeting Tayshia,
648
00:27:54,406 --> 00:27:56,975
it became so clear
how important family is to her.
649
00:27:56,975 --> 00:27:58,210
I mean, so clear.
650
00:27:58,210 --> 00:28:01,380
So today is the most
important day of my life
651
00:28:01,380 --> 00:28:05,250
because I need to convey to
her family that I love Tayshia
652
00:28:05,250 --> 00:28:09,388
and that I wanna marry her
if I'm given the opportunity.
653
00:28:09,388 --> 00:28:11,456
‐ We just gotta make sure
that this guy fits in‐‐
654
00:28:11,456 --> 00:28:13,158
whomever it is.
‐ Right.
655
00:28:13,158 --> 00:28:15,027
‐ Fits into the family.
‐ Yeah.
656
00:28:15,027 --> 00:28:16,895
‐ Yes.
‐ So...
657
00:28:16,895 --> 00:28:18,630
We'll see.
658
00:28:18,630 --> 00:28:21,533
I'm gonna be tough with Zac
'cause I just wanna make sure
659
00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:25,237
that I'm feeling comfortable
when this is all done.
660
00:28:25,237 --> 00:28:28,173
[soft tense music]
661
00:28:28,173 --> 00:28:29,308
‐ Ready?
662
00:28:29,308 --> 00:28:31,076
‐ Hello, hello.
‐ Tayshia.
663
00:28:31,076 --> 00:28:33,378
‐ Oh.
‐ What's up?
664
00:28:33,378 --> 00:28:35,147
How we doing?
‐ Hi.
665
00:28:35,147 --> 00:28:36,548
Good, how are you?
‐ What's up, man? I'm Zac.
666
00:28:36,548 --> 00:28:38,483
‐ Hey, nice to meet you. Brice.
‐ Nice to meet you.
667
00:28:38,483 --> 00:28:41,320
‐ Nice meeting you. Desmond.
‐ Desmond. Desmond, Desmond.
668
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,155
Hi. I have beautiful flowers.
‐ Hi, Zac.
669
00:28:43,155 --> 00:28:44,356
‐ Can I have a hug?
‐ Oh, yes.
670
00:28:44,356 --> 00:28:45,457
‐ Hi.
‐ Nice to meet you.
671
00:28:45,457 --> 00:28:46,558
‐ Tayshia's been through
672
00:28:46,558 --> 00:28:48,393
some tough times
with her divorce,
673
00:28:48,393 --> 00:28:51,196
and I just need to do
everything that I can
674
00:28:51,196 --> 00:28:53,332
to not have that happen again.
675
00:28:53,332 --> 00:28:56,335
So Zac better be
the real deal.
676
00:28:56,335 --> 00:28:58,170
How have you guys been?
677
00:28:58,170 --> 00:29:00,339
How's La Quinta
treating you guys?
678
00:29:00,339 --> 00:29:02,374
‐ I don't know,
she walked in,
679
00:29:02,374 --> 00:29:04,676
and from there,
it's just been really good.
680
00:29:04,676 --> 00:29:08,480
Really good, and we've
built a nice connection.
681
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,482
I just feel really lucky
to just be here
682
00:29:10,482 --> 00:29:12,651
and meeting you guys, and...
683
00:29:12,651 --> 00:29:16,355
I will say, like,
the first night we talked...
684
00:29:16,355 --> 00:29:17,489
‐ Mm‐hmm.
685
00:29:17,489 --> 00:29:19,224
‐ Everyone knows
Tayshia's got this, like, glow
686
00:29:19,224 --> 00:29:21,159
where she, like,
lights up the room.
687
00:29:21,159 --> 00:29:22,394
And the first time
I got to see that
688
00:29:22,394 --> 00:29:24,329
was when she started
talking about you guys.
689
00:29:24,329 --> 00:29:26,164
So it was like...
‐ Nice, nice.
690
00:29:26,164 --> 00:29:27,566
‐ Family, and so...
691
00:29:27,566 --> 00:29:30,402
‐ Zac is someone
that's very special to me.
692
00:29:30,402 --> 00:29:32,604
We've had, like, a really good
thing going for a while now.
693
00:29:32,604 --> 00:29:34,539
‐ To gratitude
and to meeting you guys.
694
00:29:34,539 --> 00:29:37,309
I look forward
to talking to each of you
695
00:29:37,309 --> 00:29:39,144
and getting to know you better.
696
00:29:39,144 --> 00:29:40,379
‐ Cheers to that.
‐ Cheers.
697
00:29:40,379 --> 00:29:43,215
‐ My dad can be pretty blunt
at times,
698
00:29:43,215 --> 00:29:45,484
but he brings me
back to reality
699
00:29:45,484 --> 00:29:48,053
and challenges me
with his questions.
700
00:29:48,053 --> 00:29:49,354
Hi, Dad.
701
00:29:49,354 --> 00:29:51,356
‐ Hey, Tayshia.
‐ [giggling]
702
00:29:51,356 --> 00:29:53,358
Like having him behind me
and, like,
703
00:29:53,358 --> 00:29:56,995
by my side is everything to me.
704
00:29:56,995 --> 00:29:57,562
‐ So Zac...
705
00:29:57,562 --> 00:29:59,998
‐ Yes.
‐ What's going on with Zac?
706
00:29:59,998 --> 00:30:01,400
‐ Zac.
707
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,302
Zac is just a good guy.
708
00:30:03,302 --> 00:30:05,270
He makes me laugh
and he makes me, like, happy,
709
00:30:05,270 --> 00:30:06,471
and he makes me, like,
excited‐‐
710
00:30:06,471 --> 00:30:09,041
like, it's just,
like, all the things.
711
00:30:09,041 --> 00:30:10,275
It's all the things.
712
00:30:10,275 --> 00:30:14,346
‐ So, on a scale
of one to ten...
713
00:30:14,346 --> 00:30:17,349
[stammering]
714
00:30:17,349 --> 00:30:18,684
I even hate saying it!
‐ [laughs]
715
00:30:18,684 --> 00:30:22,487
‐ Do you see you guys‐‐
‐ I'll say about an 8.95.
716
00:30:22,487 --> 00:30:23,655
Only because you guys
are important to me,
717
00:30:23,655 --> 00:30:25,390
and I want you guys
to be able to, like‐‐
718
00:30:25,390 --> 00:30:26,558
I wanna see, like,
how you guys...
719
00:30:26,558 --> 00:30:28,393
‐ Mm‐kay.
‐ Mesh, right?
720
00:30:28,393 --> 00:30:29,561
‐ Mm‐hmm.
721
00:30:29,561 --> 00:30:31,530
‐ If it doesn't feel right,
I'm not gonna just
722
00:30:31,530 --> 00:30:33,598
get engaged
just to get engaged.
723
00:30:33,598 --> 00:30:36,068
No, like, I'm really confident.
724
00:30:36,068 --> 00:30:37,269
‐ There's no rush.
725
00:30:37,269 --> 00:30:39,438
‐ Dad, we get it, okay?
[laughs]
726
00:30:39,438 --> 00:30:41,206
Thank you.
727
00:30:41,206 --> 00:30:43,508
‐ Just sayin'!
‐ I know.
728
00:30:43,508 --> 00:30:45,377
‐ You know?
‐ Just sayin'.
729
00:30:45,377 --> 00:30:47,713
‐ So, um, I'm thinking,
730
00:30:47,713 --> 00:30:50,449
you know, she, um,
she got hurt before.
731
00:30:50,449 --> 00:30:51,650
‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ And our family
732
00:30:51,650 --> 00:30:53,585
will do anything
to protect her.
733
00:30:53,585 --> 00:30:55,487
Do you love Tayshia?
734
00:30:55,487 --> 00:30:57,389
‐ I do.
735
00:30:57,389 --> 00:30:59,725
‐ Have you told her?
‐ I have.
736
00:30:59,725 --> 00:31:03,128
So I told her the other night.
We were on a date.
737
00:31:03,128 --> 00:31:05,063
And I was nervous.
738
00:31:05,063 --> 00:31:05,664
‐ Mm‐hmm.
739
00:31:05,664 --> 00:31:08,200
‐ But I was able to tell her
that I love her,
740
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,302
and she said it back.
741
00:31:10,302 --> 00:31:13,305
So it was a beautiful...
742
00:31:13,305 --> 00:31:15,474
moment for both of us.
‐ Mm‐hmm.
743
00:31:15,474 --> 00:31:18,844
‐ And the feeling
has not changed.
744
00:31:18,844 --> 00:31:22,347
It just gets stronger
every time I see her, honestly.
745
00:31:22,347 --> 00:31:25,517
‐ Where do you see yourself
and Tayshia
746
00:31:25,517 --> 00:31:28,286
five years from now?
747
00:31:28,286 --> 00:31:30,555
‐ [laughs]
I love that question.
748
00:31:30,555 --> 00:31:33,392
‐ [chuckles]
749
00:31:33,392 --> 00:31:35,360
‐ I see us married.
750
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,429
And...
751
00:31:37,429 --> 00:31:39,698
I see us happy.
752
00:31:39,698 --> 00:31:41,867
And I see us still
madly in love with each other
753
00:31:41,867 --> 00:31:45,070
and falling more in love with
each other each and every day.
754
00:31:45,070 --> 00:31:45,704
‐ Nice.
755
00:31:45,704 --> 00:31:49,674
‐ And I see us
starting a family.
756
00:31:49,674 --> 00:31:54,413
That's what I see.
‐ I like that.
757
00:31:54,413 --> 00:31:57,649
‐ No family wants to see
someone they love be hurt.
758
00:31:57,649 --> 00:32:00,752
So what I've hoped
to convey to her parents
759
00:32:00,752 --> 00:32:04,589
is how I feel about Tayshia
and how she makes me feel.
760
00:32:04,589 --> 00:32:06,558
I hope they see
that we're in love.
761
00:32:06,558 --> 00:32:10,429
‐ You‐‐you've been in love
before, right?
762
00:32:10,429 --> 00:32:13,365
‐ I mean,
I was married back in 2009.
763
00:32:13,365 --> 00:32:14,466
‐ Kay.
764
00:32:14,466 --> 00:32:16,368
‐ I was 24, 25 years old
when I got married.
765
00:32:16,368 --> 00:32:18,403
It lasted a year and a half,
two years.
766
00:32:18,403 --> 00:32:20,539
I was partying
a bunch of the time.
767
00:32:20,539 --> 00:32:23,508
I was just like, you know,
not ready for it.
768
00:32:23,508 --> 00:32:24,743
I was in my 20s,
769
00:32:24,743 --> 00:32:27,379
and I didn't really understand
what marriage was.
770
00:32:27,379 --> 00:32:30,248
‐ Hopefully, as we all
get older in life,
771
00:32:30,248 --> 00:32:32,884
one takes note, right,
772
00:32:32,884 --> 00:32:36,488
and learns from what has
happened in the past.
773
00:32:36,488 --> 00:32:39,157
Because the same thing
could easily happen again.
774
00:32:39,157 --> 00:32:39,891
‐ Yeah.
775
00:32:39,891 --> 00:32:43,628
‐ And that's what I'm looking
at for her, at this point.
776
00:32:43,628 --> 00:32:46,598
I don't want it to be a test.
777
00:32:46,598 --> 00:32:48,433
I don't want you guys
to just wing it
778
00:32:48,433 --> 00:32:49,568
and see
"if we can make it work."
779
00:32:49,568 --> 00:32:52,504
‐ I hear exactly
what you're saying,
780
00:32:52,504 --> 00:32:56,508
and what I've had
to really look at is,
781
00:32:56,508 --> 00:32:58,443
when all this goes away,
782
00:32:58,443 --> 00:33:00,445
you know,
and it's just me and her,
783
00:33:00,445 --> 00:33:01,913
life is not always easy.
‐ Mm‐hmm.
784
00:33:01,913 --> 00:33:05,417
‐ Supporting each other
through these tough times
785
00:33:05,417 --> 00:33:08,720
is actually
what I look forward to.
786
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,389
We had this beautiful
conversation the other night.
787
00:33:11,389 --> 00:33:13,525
We were talking about family.
788
00:33:13,525 --> 00:33:15,927
You came up, and she said,
789
00:33:15,927 --> 00:33:18,997
"You know,
my dad has always been my rock.
790
00:33:18,997 --> 00:33:21,666
He's been tough on me at times
like dads can be,"
791
00:33:21,666 --> 00:33:24,736
but she went on
to kinda tell me how
792
00:33:24,736 --> 00:33:26,705
you gave her this life.
793
00:33:26,705 --> 00:33:28,807
You put her
through private school.
794
00:33:28,807 --> 00:33:31,243
You gave her
these opportunities.
795
00:33:31,243 --> 00:33:31,843
‐ Mm‐hmm.
796
00:33:31,843 --> 00:33:33,778
‐ You may be in over your head
at times,
797
00:33:33,778 --> 00:33:36,114
but you did it
because you loved her.
798
00:33:36,114 --> 00:33:36,781
‐ Yep.
799
00:33:36,781 --> 00:33:38,416
‐ And she made it
very clear to me that
800
00:33:38,416 --> 00:33:40,685
that's what she's looking for.
801
00:33:40,685 --> 00:33:42,621
The expectations
are gonna be up here,
802
00:33:42,621 --> 00:33:44,489
because you set 'em
really high.
803
00:33:44,489 --> 00:33:46,625
You set 'em really high.
804
00:33:46,625 --> 00:33:49,528
And I need you to know that
that doesn't scare me.
805
00:33:49,528 --> 00:33:52,364
It actually excites me,
you know?
806
00:33:52,364 --> 00:33:54,733
But I tell you that because
807
00:33:54,733 --> 00:33:58,570
I might have an opportunity
to propose to your daughter
808
00:33:58,570 --> 00:34:01,706
in the very near future,
and...
809
00:34:01,706 --> 00:34:03,608
I take that very seriously.
810
00:34:03,608 --> 00:34:05,544
I know what that means.
I know what that represents.
811
00:34:05,544 --> 00:34:07,279
‐ Absolutely.
‐ And I'm not gonna do that
812
00:34:07,279 --> 00:34:09,548
unless I am so sure,
813
00:34:09,548 --> 00:34:11,416
which I am right now,
sitting here in this moment,
814
00:34:11,416 --> 00:34:12,717
that it's the right thing
to do.
815
00:34:12,717 --> 00:34:16,321
Because I'm committed
to what that means
816
00:34:16,321 --> 00:34:18,290
on the back end.
817
00:34:18,290 --> 00:34:19,558
‐ I appreciate that.
818
00:34:19,558 --> 00:34:21,593
[mellow music]
819
00:34:21,593 --> 00:34:23,495
I like Zac.
820
00:34:23,495 --> 00:34:25,764
He's a good man.
He's a good man.
821
00:34:25,764 --> 00:34:29,467
You know, just to see
another man love my daughter
822
00:34:29,467 --> 00:34:31,636
the way
that he expressed himself
823
00:34:31,636 --> 00:34:33,572
made me be at ease.
824
00:34:33,572 --> 00:34:36,041
And so
I'm looking forward to‐‐
825
00:34:36,041 --> 00:34:39,744
to see what may come about,
you know, moving forward.
826
00:34:39,744 --> 00:34:40,979
‐ This is the closest
we're gonna get
827
00:34:40,979 --> 00:34:43,815
to a New York‐style pizza
here in the desert, so...
828
00:34:43,815 --> 00:34:45,016
‐ Which one do you want me
to give to you?
829
00:34:45,016 --> 00:34:46,685
You could get this little guy,
or do you want pepperoni?
830
00:34:46,685 --> 00:34:47,752
‐ They all look so good.
831
00:34:47,752 --> 00:34:49,688
‐ This is really good
cheese pizza.
832
00:34:49,688 --> 00:34:51,456
‐ Nowhere else
I'd rather be, right?
833
00:34:51,456 --> 00:34:52,490
‐ Yeah.
‐ Aw, that's so sweet.
834
00:34:52,490 --> 00:34:53,959
‐ That was good.
‐ Thank you.
835
00:34:53,959 --> 00:34:57,829
Zac seems, like,
very honest and caring.
836
00:34:57,829 --> 00:35:00,699
The chemistry was actually
something that I noticed
837
00:35:00,699 --> 00:35:02,667
that it was really good.
838
00:35:02,667 --> 00:35:04,536
‐ Get over here.
‐ So great to meet you.
839
00:35:04,536 --> 00:35:06,037
‐ [chuckles]
840
00:35:06,037 --> 00:35:07,706
‐ Now I know where you learned
to hug from, you know?
841
00:35:07,706 --> 00:35:08,773
‐ My mom?
‐ Oh, yeah.
842
00:35:08,773 --> 00:35:09,908
[laughter]
Come on, man.
843
00:35:09,908 --> 00:35:12,577
‐ It's been amazing
to have my family meet
844
00:35:12,577 --> 00:35:14,613
both Ben and Zac.
845
00:35:14,613 --> 00:35:15,614
‐ Bye.
‐ Take care.
846
00:35:15,614 --> 00:35:16,615
‐ See you, bye.
‐ Bye‐bye.
847
00:35:16,615 --> 00:35:17,782
‐ Take care.
‐ Bye‐bye.
848
00:35:17,782 --> 00:35:20,885
‐ I couldn't have asked
for it to go any better.
849
00:35:20,885 --> 00:35:24,022
But now it's up to my heart
and my gut.
850
00:35:24,022 --> 00:35:25,857
Thank you for everything
you did today,
851
00:35:25,857 --> 00:35:28,393
and I hope you had fun.
852
00:35:28,393 --> 00:35:29,461
‐ I did.
‐ Good.
853
00:35:29,461 --> 00:35:30,528
‐ It meant a lot.
‐ Good.
854
00:35:30,528 --> 00:35:31,763
‐ Thank you.
855
00:35:31,763 --> 00:35:34,766
[soft music]
856
00:35:34,766 --> 00:35:37,636
♪ ♪
857
00:35:37,636 --> 00:35:39,738
‐ [giggles]
858
00:35:39,738 --> 00:35:43,341
♪ ♪
859
00:35:43,341 --> 00:35:47,412
All right.
860
00:35:47,412 --> 00:35:49,447
See ya.
861
00:35:49,447 --> 00:35:52,117
[chuckles]
862
00:35:53,952 --> 00:35:56,521
Ben and Zac
are very different.
863
00:35:56,521 --> 00:35:58,690
But there's
a part of my heart
864
00:35:58,690 --> 00:36:01,993
that wants each
of what they offer.
865
00:36:01,993 --> 00:36:04,629
These next two days
are pretty significant.
866
00:36:04,629 --> 00:36:06,665
I mean,
they're the last days
867
00:36:06,665 --> 00:36:07,899
I'm gonna be seeing
each of these men
868
00:36:07,899 --> 00:36:10,568
before a possible proposal,
869
00:36:10,568 --> 00:36:12,637
and making that decision
is something
870
00:36:12,637 --> 00:36:16,408
that's really gonna require me
to look within.
871
00:36:18,410 --> 00:36:19,077
[dramatic music]
872
00:36:19,077 --> 00:36:21,012
‐ Tayshia,
I don't want you to be making
873
00:36:21,012 --> 00:36:22,947
the biggest mistake
of your life.
874
00:36:22,947 --> 00:36:25,550
‐ I'm confused.
[sniffles]
875
00:36:25,550 --> 00:36:27,786
‐ Our love is stronger
than ever.
876
00:36:27,786 --> 00:36:30,021
But anything can happen.
877
00:36:30,021 --> 00:36:31,923
‐ I never wanna experience
that heartache
878
00:36:31,923 --> 00:36:34,559
that I experienced
in my last marriage.
879
00:36:34,559 --> 00:36:35,660
[sobbing]
880
00:36:37,395 --> 00:36:37,896
[birds chirping]
881
00:36:37,896 --> 00:36:41,700
[soft bright music]
882
00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,969
♪ ♪
883
00:36:44,969 --> 00:36:47,238
‐ I woke up feeling
very grateful.
884
00:36:47,238 --> 00:36:51,810
It was amazing to have my
family meet both Ben and Zac.
885
00:36:51,810 --> 00:36:54,979
I feel like they truly
welcomed both of them.
886
00:36:54,979 --> 00:36:57,615
I couldn't have asked
for it to go any better.
887
00:36:57,615 --> 00:36:59,951
Now I know
I have their support.
888
00:36:59,951 --> 00:37:03,221
That means everything to me.
889
00:37:03,221 --> 00:37:06,057
I see a life with both guys,
and they're beautiful lives.
890
00:37:06,057 --> 00:37:09,060
Like, I would be happy
with either.
891
00:37:09,060 --> 00:37:10,929
I'm proud of the guys
that I have.
892
00:37:10,929 --> 00:37:13,631
I'm proud of who they are.
893
00:37:13,631 --> 00:37:16,701
Two completely
different worlds.
894
00:37:16,701 --> 00:37:20,405
And now I just
have to decide.
895
00:37:20,405 --> 00:37:21,873
[knock on door]
896
00:37:21,873 --> 00:37:23,675
[softly]
Oh, my God.
897
00:37:23,675 --> 00:37:25,677
Uh‐uh.
898
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,517
Are you kidding me right now?
899
00:37:32,517 --> 00:37:34,452
[sighs]
900
00:37:36,955 --> 00:37:39,524
‐ Tayshia.
‐ Daddy!
901
00:37:39,524 --> 00:37:40,892
Come inside.
902
00:37:40,892 --> 00:37:43,461
‐ Oh, okay.
You have a moment to talk?
903
00:37:43,461 --> 00:37:46,097
‐ Yes, of course.
904
00:37:46,097 --> 00:37:49,367
The last person I expected
it to be was my dad.
905
00:37:49,367 --> 00:37:50,001
Come on!
906
00:37:50,001 --> 00:37:52,003
I noticed he didn't
seem like himself.
907
00:37:52,003 --> 00:37:54,139
He was a little reserved.
908
00:37:54,139 --> 00:37:56,808
It's what made me
a little worried.
909
00:37:56,808 --> 00:37:58,576
Come sit down.
910
00:37:58,576 --> 00:38:00,812
‐ Ah.
‐ What are you doing?
911
00:38:00,812 --> 00:38:02,781
‐ Nothing.
First off, how are you?
912
00:38:02,781 --> 00:38:03,982
‐ I'm good!
‐ Yeah?
913
00:38:03,982 --> 00:38:06,951
‐ Yeah.
‐ Okay. Good, good, good.
914
00:38:06,951 --> 00:38:10,922
So how are you feeling
coming up to these next days?
915
00:38:10,922 --> 00:38:13,858
‐ [sighs]
Well...
916
00:38:13,858 --> 00:38:15,593
‐ Are you
a hundred percent confident?
917
00:38:15,593 --> 00:38:17,729
There's no doubt?
918
00:38:17,729 --> 00:38:20,565
‐ I don't know.
It's just a big step.
919
00:38:20,565 --> 00:38:21,733
‐ It's huge.
920
00:38:21,733 --> 00:38:24,135
So wanted to have
a conversation with you
921
00:38:24,135 --> 00:38:26,771
and just let you know
what your mom,
922
00:38:26,771 --> 00:38:29,741
your brothers, and Nicky
and I have talked about.
923
00:38:29,741 --> 00:38:31,843
‐ Okay.
924
00:38:31,843 --> 00:38:33,778
‐ I haven't been able
to stop thinking about
925
00:38:33,778 --> 00:38:36,414
our family time
with Ben and Zac.
926
00:38:36,414 --> 00:38:37,148
‐ Yeah.
927
00:38:37,148 --> 00:38:40,785
‐ We basically don't want you
to make a mistake here.
928
00:38:42,954 --> 00:38:46,991
I like Zac and, you know,
Ben's a good guy.
929
00:38:46,991 --> 00:38:49,194
But frankly, I'm worried,
930
00:38:49,194 --> 00:38:52,130
'cause, you know,
I've seen you hurt before,
931
00:38:52,130 --> 00:38:56,267
and I can't let that happen
this time.
932
00:38:56,267 --> 00:38:59,904
You know, I've seen you.
You've learned from every step
933
00:38:59,904 --> 00:39:01,973
from‐‐since that day,
from your divorce, right?
934
00:39:01,973 --> 00:39:04,209
And what I wanna make sure
is that
935
00:39:04,209 --> 00:39:08,680
we can do whatever we can
to not go down that path again.
936
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,683
[soft music]
937
00:39:11,683 --> 00:39:13,084
♪ ♪
938
00:39:13,084 --> 00:39:15,153
‐ Having you here,
it kinda like snaps me back
939
00:39:15,153 --> 00:39:18,823
to, like...the things
I kinda forget about
940
00:39:18,823 --> 00:39:20,859
because I blocked, you know,
941
00:39:20,859 --> 00:39:22,994
all the pain after my divorce
out of my mind
942
00:39:22,994 --> 00:39:25,063
and everything like that.
943
00:39:25,063 --> 00:39:26,798
And you bringing
those concerns forward
944
00:39:26,798 --> 00:39:27,966
just kinda just...
[inhales]
945
00:39:27,966 --> 00:39:30,768
It just, like, made me feel,
like, kind of heavy.
946
00:39:30,768 --> 00:39:31,970
‐ I don't want you to get hurt,
947
00:39:31,970 --> 00:39:34,138
and seeing these guys,
you know,
948
00:39:34,138 --> 00:39:38,176
we don't want things
to go backwards for you.
949
00:39:38,176 --> 00:39:41,079
It might not be
what you want to hear,
950
00:39:41,079 --> 00:39:42,914
but I don't want you
to be making
951
00:39:42,914 --> 00:39:45,583
the biggest mistake
of your life.
952
00:39:45,583 --> 00:39:50,121
♪ ♪
953
00:39:50,121 --> 00:39:52,891
‐ [sighing]
Oh, gosh.
954
00:39:52,891 --> 00:39:56,227
♪ ♪
955
00:39:56,227 --> 00:39:58,963
I know my dad meant well
by coming today
956
00:39:58,963 --> 00:40:00,765
and trying to provide
some clarity,
957
00:40:00,765 --> 00:40:03,735
but now
I am very overwhelmed.
958
00:40:03,735 --> 00:40:06,537
Thanks, Daddy.
‐ Anytime, baby.
959
00:40:08,139 --> 00:40:10,041
‐ I never want to experience
that heartache
960
00:40:10,041 --> 00:40:12,176
that I experienced
in my last marriage.
961
00:40:12,176 --> 00:40:15,847
And my family
experienced it all with me.
962
00:40:15,847 --> 00:40:19,017
I love you, Dad.
‐ I love you too, Tayshia.
963
00:40:19,017 --> 00:40:21,786
‐ I mean, I remember
a pretty vivid night.
964
00:40:21,786 --> 00:40:23,955
It was 3:00,
965
00:40:23,955 --> 00:40:25,990
4:00 in the morning,
I don't even know.
966
00:40:25,990 --> 00:40:28,259
Just in my car.
967
00:40:28,259 --> 00:40:31,796
And my dad just ran outside
and sat with me in the car
968
00:40:31,796 --> 00:40:36,034
and just‐‐I just wailed.
969
00:40:36,034 --> 00:40:39,971
All that I had
was my dad next to me.
970
00:40:39,971 --> 00:40:41,973
And so, like,
I know he knows that pain
971
00:40:41,973 --> 00:40:45,810
that I felt at one point.
972
00:40:45,810 --> 00:40:48,446
And, like,
he couldn't do anything...
973
00:40:48,446 --> 00:40:52,951
except for be there next to me,
so, like, you know?
974
00:40:52,951 --> 00:40:57,055
♪ ♪
975
00:40:57,055 --> 00:40:58,923
I know when he says, like,
he doesn't want me to hurt‐‐
976
00:40:58,923 --> 00:41:00,925
go down that road again,
he knows, he knows.
977
00:41:00,925 --> 00:41:03,895
Like, I know
what he's talking about.
978
00:41:06,731 --> 00:41:08,166
Oh, my God.
979
00:41:08,166 --> 00:41:12,136
I am so confused.
980
00:41:12,136 --> 00:41:14,672
Oh, my gosh.
This is too much.
981
00:41:14,672 --> 00:41:17,542
This is too much.
982
00:41:22,947 --> 00:41:25,950
[soft music]
983
00:41:25,950 --> 00:41:30,254
♪ ♪
984
00:41:30,254 --> 00:41:32,023
‐ I'm going on a date
with Tayshia today.
985
00:41:32,023 --> 00:41:35,259
It's the last opportunity
to see her before
986
00:41:35,259 --> 00:41:38,863
potentially getting engaged.
987
00:41:38,863 --> 00:41:40,098
[inhales]
988
00:41:40,098 --> 00:41:44,102
So crazy to say out loud!
989
00:41:44,102 --> 00:41:46,804
I can't wait to see her,
on the heels of yesterday,
990
00:41:46,804 --> 00:41:48,072
just meeting her family.
991
00:41:48,072 --> 00:41:50,975
Of course, I know
there's another guy here.
992
00:41:50,975 --> 00:41:53,144
I can only control
what I can control.
993
00:41:53,144 --> 00:41:55,446
So I'm gonna reinforce to her
how I feel
994
00:41:55,446 --> 00:41:58,049
and I want her to walk away
feeling really good
995
00:41:58,049 --> 00:42:01,085
about me, us.
996
00:42:01,085 --> 00:42:03,421
I mean, I hope when her head
hits her pillow tonight,
997
00:42:03,421 --> 00:42:07,992
she knows she's in love
and she's found her guy.
998
00:42:07,992 --> 00:42:10,261
♪ ♪
999
00:42:10,261 --> 00:42:13,431
‐ Today is my last date
with Zac,
1000
00:42:13,431 --> 00:42:15,366
and I feel like
I should be excited,
1001
00:42:15,366 --> 00:42:19,670
but having my dad show up,
it just makes me overwhelmed.
1002
00:42:19,670 --> 00:42:22,240
♪ ♪
1003
00:42:22,240 --> 00:42:24,342
The idea of getting
married again...
1004
00:42:24,342 --> 00:42:26,310
I mean, truly,
it is a fear of mine,
1005
00:42:26,310 --> 00:42:30,048
'cause I've experienced it
before.
1006
00:42:30,048 --> 00:42:32,183
I got screwed over with that.
1007
00:42:32,183 --> 00:42:35,319
Granted,
Zac is not my ex‐husband,
1008
00:42:35,319 --> 00:42:37,021
so I have to be careful
with it.
1009
00:42:37,021 --> 00:42:39,090
But it's still a fear.
1010
00:42:39,090 --> 00:42:40,825
Hello!
1011
00:42:40,825 --> 00:42:43,628
[laughs]
1012
00:42:44,862 --> 00:42:46,898
‐ Hi.
‐ Hi.
1013
00:42:46,898 --> 00:42:48,232
[laughing]
How are you?
1014
00:42:48,232 --> 00:42:49,467
The truth is,
1015
00:42:49,467 --> 00:42:51,202
I am really confident with Zac
and where we are.
1016
00:42:51,202 --> 00:42:53,137
I think Zac is definitely
someone that
1017
00:42:53,137 --> 00:42:56,140
I care about,
but after talking to my dad,
1018
00:42:56,140 --> 00:43:01,079
I feel like I can't decide
if I wanna get married again.
1019
00:43:01,079 --> 00:43:02,980
How are you?
1020
00:43:02,980 --> 00:43:04,982
‐ I'm‐‐I'm good.
1021
00:43:04,982 --> 00:43:06,050
I'm always good
when I'm with you.
1022
00:43:06,050 --> 00:43:07,218
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1023
00:43:07,218 --> 00:43:09,287
I was really looking forward
to seeing you today.
1024
00:43:09,287 --> 00:43:10,555
I wanted everything
to go well,
1025
00:43:10,555 --> 00:43:13,224
but then also, we're coming
down to the end of this thing,
1026
00:43:13,224 --> 00:43:15,259
and it's just‐‐
it's a lot, it's a lot.
1027
00:43:15,259 --> 00:43:16,394
‐ Yeah, it is.
1028
00:43:16,394 --> 00:43:18,429
‐ But yesterday was really fun.
1029
00:43:18,429 --> 00:43:21,199
‐ Yeah.
Your family's amazing.
1030
00:43:21,199 --> 00:43:22,967
‐ I can't believe
you met my mom and dad.
1031
00:43:22,967 --> 00:43:24,302
That's so crazy to me.
1032
00:43:24,302 --> 00:43:27,038
‐ I think they're all very
clear on how I feel about you.
1033
00:43:27,038 --> 00:43:29,040
That was important for me.
1034
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,342
They know
what you've gone through.
1035
00:43:31,342 --> 00:43:33,311
‐ Yeah.
‐ So they're protective of you.
1036
00:43:33,311 --> 00:43:36,180
‐ Yep. But you felt good
after everything.
1037
00:43:36,180 --> 00:43:37,248
‐ Yesterday?
‐ Yeah.
1038
00:43:37,248 --> 00:43:38,483
‐ Yeah.
‐ Okay, good.
1039
00:43:38,483 --> 00:43:41,752
‐ I mean, I think you would
probably know better than me,
1040
00:43:41,752 --> 00:43:43,087
you know?
1041
00:43:43,087 --> 00:43:44,355
‐ Yeah.
1042
00:43:44,355 --> 00:43:45,423
I think it's just‐‐
it's just, like,
1043
00:43:45,423 --> 00:43:47,925
the stress, is, like,
settling in.
1044
00:43:47,925 --> 00:43:49,160
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1045
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,295
Can I do anything for you?
Can I help you?
1046
00:43:51,295 --> 00:43:54,398
‐ Are you nervous?
‐ For what?
1047
00:43:54,398 --> 00:43:58,169
‐ For the rest of what
this journey might look like?
1048
00:43:58,169 --> 00:44:00,171
‐ I mean...
1049
00:44:00,171 --> 00:44:03,007
[soft music]
1050
00:44:03,007 --> 00:44:06,777
I am ready.
1051
00:44:06,777 --> 00:44:08,079
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1052
00:44:08,079 --> 00:44:10,348
♪ ♪
1053
00:44:10,348 --> 00:44:14,252
‐ I feel very ready.
1054
00:44:14,252 --> 00:44:17,054
With Tayshia, I can feel
1055
00:44:17,054 --> 00:44:20,591
the heaviness.
1056
00:44:20,591 --> 00:44:25,329
I think there's
a feeling of trepidation
1057
00:44:25,329 --> 00:44:28,933
from her that is concerning.
1058
00:44:28,933 --> 00:44:30,334
What are we doing?
1059
00:44:30,334 --> 00:44:32,103
‐ I'll just show you
rather than tell you.
1060
00:44:32,103 --> 00:44:33,137
‐ Okay. Yeah.
‐ Is that okay?
1061
00:44:33,137 --> 00:44:34,305
‐ That's great.
‐ Okay.
1062
00:44:34,305 --> 00:44:37,041
‐ She's allowed to have
moments of doubt.
1063
00:44:37,041 --> 00:44:39,343
But I want her to know
1064
00:44:39,343 --> 00:44:41,279
I'm not going anywhere.
1065
00:44:41,279 --> 00:44:44,282
[gentle guitar music]
1066
00:44:44,282 --> 00:44:49,987
♪ ♪
1067
00:44:49,987 --> 00:44:51,822
Yes!
1068
00:44:51,822 --> 00:44:57,361
♪ ♪
1069
00:44:57,361 --> 00:44:59,430
‐ That was so sweet!
1070
00:44:59,430 --> 00:45:01,098
‐ Hi, guys.
‐ Hey, guys.
1071
00:45:01,098 --> 00:45:02,433
[laughter]
Come on out, come on out.
1072
00:45:02,433 --> 00:45:04,368
Join us. How're you guys doing?
‐ We're doing good!
1073
00:45:04,368 --> 00:45:06,404
‐ My name is William.
This is my fiancée Eden,
1074
00:45:06,404 --> 00:45:08,372
and we're gonna be
your dance instructors today.
1075
00:45:08,372 --> 00:45:10,107
We're gonna actually
teach you guys
1076
00:45:10,107 --> 00:45:12,310
a traditional
wedding dance routine.
1077
00:45:12,310 --> 00:45:14,545
You know, as dance partners,
you're a team,
1078
00:45:14,545 --> 00:45:18,349
a team that works and thrives
on clear communication,
1079
00:45:18,349 --> 00:45:21,385
trust, and love.
1080
00:45:21,385 --> 00:45:22,486
You guys game for that?
‐ Okay.
1081
00:45:22,486 --> 00:45:23,688
‐ All right.
‐ Let's do it.
1082
00:45:23,688 --> 00:45:26,157
‐ We're doing, like,
a first dance together,
1083
00:45:26,157 --> 00:45:27,525
which makes me more aware
1084
00:45:27,525 --> 00:45:30,261
of the possibilities
of an engagement.
1085
00:45:30,261 --> 00:45:33,231
So it's just, like‐‐
it's just a lot.
1086
00:45:33,231 --> 00:45:36,234
‐ So we're gonna go
one, two...
1087
00:45:36,234 --> 00:45:37,368
‐ Oh.
‐ One, two.
1088
00:45:37,368 --> 00:45:40,438
‐ [mouthing]
‐ And one, two, three, four.
1089
00:45:40,438 --> 00:45:42,139
And what's gonna happen
is we're gonna step
1090
00:45:42,139 --> 00:45:43,307
away from each other.
1091
00:45:43,307 --> 00:45:45,643
One, two, three.
Nice job.
1092
00:45:45,643 --> 00:45:48,346
Now, instead of stepping back
towards each other,
1093
00:45:48,346 --> 00:45:51,048
you're gonna roll her in.
‐ Ooh!
1094
00:45:51,048 --> 00:45:52,049
‐ We're gonna let her go.
1095
00:45:52,049 --> 00:45:53,150
There you go.
‐ Yeah.
1096
00:45:53,150 --> 00:45:54,385
‐ Okay.
‐ That was good. You did it.
1097
00:45:54,385 --> 00:45:55,586
‐ But you, like‐‐
okay, whatever.
1098
00:45:55,586 --> 00:45:56,687
‐ Let's try it again.
We're gonna watch this one.
1099
00:45:56,687 --> 00:45:58,556
‐ Okay.
You didn't look at me at first,
1100
00:45:58,556 --> 00:46:00,324
so then I looked away, and then
you're like, "Look at me."
1101
00:46:00,324 --> 00:46:01,492
‐ I'm sorry. Sorry.
‐ No, you're totally fine.
1102
00:46:01,492 --> 00:46:03,227
But I wa‐‐what do you wanna do?
Look?
1103
00:46:03,227 --> 00:46:05,263
‐ Yeah, look at me.
‐ Okay.
1104
00:46:05,263 --> 00:46:08,099
One, two‐‐
wait, I did that wrong.
1105
00:46:08,099 --> 00:46:09,467
I did that wrong.
1106
00:46:09,467 --> 00:46:11,269
I tried really hard
to enjoy the day,
1107
00:46:11,269 --> 00:46:13,237
but I think, like,
I'm just feeling so heavy
1108
00:46:13,237 --> 00:46:15,473
and stressed right now.
1109
00:46:15,473 --> 00:46:17,541
There's a lot going on.
1110
00:46:17,541 --> 00:46:20,478
[gentle music playing]
‐ Two, three...
1111
00:46:20,478 --> 00:46:22,413
‐ We're off, we're off,
we're off, we're off,
1112
00:46:22,413 --> 00:46:23,614
we're off, we're off.
‐ We were off?
1113
00:46:23,614 --> 00:46:25,549
‐ Yeah, we were off.
‐ Too fast?
1114
00:46:25,549 --> 00:46:28,252
Let's just roll with it.
We got it.
1115
00:46:28,252 --> 00:46:31,155
I can just tell
she's feeling nervous.
1116
00:46:31,155 --> 00:46:33,591
I'm just hoping
that I can be
1117
00:46:33,591 --> 00:46:37,094
a support
and whatever she needs
1118
00:46:37,094 --> 00:46:38,396
now and forever.
1119
00:46:38,396 --> 00:46:40,431
‐ And roll...
‐ [laughs]
1120
00:46:40,431 --> 00:46:42,233
‐ You got more than that.
1121
00:46:42,233 --> 00:46:43,467
‐ No, I don't!
‐ Yes, you do.
1122
00:46:43,467 --> 00:46:44,502
‐ Stop!
‐ You ready?
1123
00:46:44,502 --> 00:46:46,570
‐ You're making me nervous.
1124
00:46:46,570 --> 00:46:48,572
[giggling]
You're rolling with me.
1125
00:46:48,572 --> 00:46:51,242
‐ I'm trying to help you.
‐ You're so cute.
1126
00:46:51,242 --> 00:46:52,476
Zac was great.
1127
00:46:52,476 --> 00:46:55,112
He did a really good job
trying to distract me
1128
00:46:55,112 --> 00:46:56,380
and keep me in the moment.
1129
00:46:56,380 --> 00:47:00,351
You know what, you're a pretty
good dance partner, my friend.
1130
00:47:00,351 --> 00:47:01,419
‐ All right, ready to go on
to the next part?
1131
00:47:01,419 --> 00:47:02,586
‐ Yes, please.
‐ Absolutely.
1132
00:47:02,586 --> 00:47:06,157
I mean, today was awesome,
the way that we just
1133
00:47:06,157 --> 00:47:07,658
have so much fun together.
1134
00:47:07,658 --> 00:47:11,362
I mean, she is just
a special person.
1135
00:47:11,362 --> 00:47:13,264
This is it.
If we get this...
1136
00:47:13,264 --> 00:47:15,299
‐ [sighs]
Then...
1137
00:47:17,335 --> 00:47:20,037
‐ Look at me.
1138
00:47:20,037 --> 00:47:23,040
[soft piano music]
1139
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:30,081
♪ ♪
1140
00:47:35,419 --> 00:47:37,455
Being on this dance floor
with Tayshia‐‐
1141
00:47:37,455 --> 00:47:40,391
our chemistry and our...
1142
00:47:40,391 --> 00:47:42,560
love is stronger than ever.
1143
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,296
I mean, it's just
we're in unison.
1144
00:47:45,296 --> 00:47:52,269
♪ ♪
1145
00:48:08,085 --> 00:48:09,987
‐ [giggles]
1146
00:48:15,326 --> 00:48:17,094
[laughs]
‐ Yay!
1147
00:48:17,094 --> 00:48:18,562
[applause]
1148
00:48:18,562 --> 00:48:20,798
[both cheer]
1149
00:48:20,798 --> 00:48:23,434
‐ Whoo‐whoo‐whoo‐whoo!
‐ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah!
1150
00:48:23,434 --> 00:48:26,871
Zac makes me so happy,
and, like, he's amazing.
1151
00:48:26,871 --> 00:48:30,641
And it kind of bothers me
I can't find any flaws in him.
1152
00:48:30,641 --> 00:48:32,443
‐ Thank you, guys.
‐ Bye, you guys.
1153
00:48:32,443 --> 00:48:34,445
‐ 'Cause everything
just can't be perfect.
1154
00:48:34,445 --> 00:48:35,613
I mean,
just like my dad said,
1155
00:48:35,613 --> 00:48:36,747
I have to consider, like,
1156
00:48:36,747 --> 00:48:38,482
the little things
that I forget about
1157
00:48:38,482 --> 00:48:39,717
because I'm so happy
in the moment.
1158
00:48:39,717 --> 00:48:42,753
That was fun, wasn't it?
‐ Yeah.
1159
00:48:42,753 --> 00:48:44,855
‐ You know, there is a lot
into a relationship
1160
00:48:44,855 --> 00:48:47,558
that you find out
months down the road,
1161
00:48:47,558 --> 00:48:50,594
and I don't want any surprises.
1162
00:48:50,594 --> 00:48:52,730
I'm gonna definitely
be using tonight
1163
00:48:52,730 --> 00:48:55,866
to just kind of having those
last‐minute conversations,
1164
00:48:55,866 --> 00:48:59,503
because this is the biggest
decision of my life,
1165
00:48:59,503 --> 00:49:02,440
and I have no idea
what I'm gonna do.
1166
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:06,343
[dramatic chords]
1167
00:49:08,479 --> 00:49:11,482
[gentle music]
1168
00:49:11,482 --> 00:49:15,453
♪ ♪
1169
00:49:15,453 --> 00:49:20,458
‐ This morning, Tayshia
was having some doubts.
1170
00:49:20,458 --> 00:49:22,359
I think her parents
and her family
1171
00:49:22,359 --> 00:49:24,762
probably raised some concerns.
1172
00:49:24,762 --> 00:49:26,564
She's feeling the intensity
1173
00:49:26,564 --> 00:49:28,532
and the heaviness
of this moment,
1174
00:49:28,532 --> 00:49:33,237
and I'm scared.
1175
00:49:33,237 --> 00:49:34,472
I love Tayshia.
1176
00:49:34,472 --> 00:49:36,640
I wanna propose to her,
and I want us to start
1177
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,409
the next chapter
of this love story.
1178
00:49:38,409 --> 00:49:40,711
[knocks in
"Shave and a Haircut" rhythm]
1179
00:49:40,711 --> 00:49:44,482
That's why
I think tonight is so...
1180
00:49:44,482 --> 00:49:46,884
beautifully scary,
because that means
1181
00:49:46,884 --> 00:49:50,387
committing to something
for the rest of your life.
1182
00:49:50,387 --> 00:49:52,223
Hello.
‐ Hello!
1183
00:49:52,223 --> 00:49:53,491
[laughs]
1184
00:49:53,491 --> 00:49:55,893
‐ I need her
to go to bed tonight
1185
00:49:55,893 --> 00:50:00,598
just being
100% certain and clear
1186
00:50:00,598 --> 00:50:03,033
as to how I feel.
1187
00:50:03,033 --> 00:50:07,571
That gives her the key to
doing whatever she has to do,
1188
00:50:07,571 --> 00:50:10,574
because right now,
I don't think she's there yet.
1189
00:50:10,574 --> 00:50:12,510
How are you?
‐ I'm good.
1190
00:50:12,510 --> 00:50:14,945
‐ Did you have fun today?
‐ I did.
1191
00:50:14,945 --> 00:50:17,548
I mean, I was feeling
a little funky earlier, but‐‐
1192
00:50:17,548 --> 00:50:19,817
‐ Why were you feeling funky?
1193
00:50:19,817 --> 00:50:22,486
‐ I don't know.
It's been kind of heavy,
1194
00:50:22,486 --> 00:50:25,589
and I feel like I'm just
starting to think about,
1195
00:50:25,589 --> 00:50:27,591
you know, like, all the things
1196
00:50:27,591 --> 00:50:29,793
that could possibly go wrong.
1197
00:50:29,793 --> 00:50:33,664
And so I guess what I started
stressing out about was
1198
00:50:33,664 --> 00:50:36,367
just like us falling for each
other the way that we are...
1199
00:50:36,367 --> 00:50:37,601
‐ Mm‐hmm.
‐ And then...
1200
00:50:37,601 --> 00:50:39,970
that possibly changing
in the future.
1201
00:50:39,970 --> 00:50:41,672
And that's a concern of mine
because I feel like
1202
00:50:41,672 --> 00:50:43,707
that's what's‐‐
like, has happened to me.
1203
00:50:43,707 --> 00:50:46,677
It scares me being, like,
an independent person
1204
00:50:46,677 --> 00:50:48,646
and, like, I wanna, like,
conquer the world,
1205
00:50:48,646 --> 00:50:51,882
but then, like, down the road,
like, what if life happens,
1206
00:50:51,882 --> 00:50:53,784
kids later and, like,
I just wanna be, like,
1207
00:50:53,784 --> 00:50:56,153
a mom, like, with the kids,
and then you're gonna, like,
1208
00:50:56,153 --> 00:50:58,822
be like, "But you were once
this one, ambitious, like, girl
1209
00:50:58,822 --> 00:51:00,057
"that just to, like,
rule the world,
1210
00:51:00,057 --> 00:51:01,859
and now you wanna be
a stay‐at‐home mom," and then‐‐
1211
00:51:01,859 --> 00:51:03,928
what if, like,
it just changes, and then‐‐
1212
00:51:03,928 --> 00:51:05,663
I'm blabbing right now,
but I'm just‐‐
1213
00:51:05,663 --> 00:51:07,831
there's a lot of things
that I don't wanna experience
1214
00:51:07,831 --> 00:51:11,969
that I have in the past,
and so it stresses me out.
1215
00:51:11,969 --> 00:51:14,438
I guess I'm just used
to people running away
1216
00:51:14,438 --> 00:51:17,741
as opposed to staying, so...
1217
00:51:17,741 --> 00:51:21,779
‐ Obviously, as we, like,
grow and life happens,
1218
00:51:21,779 --> 00:51:24,715
yeah, there'll be moments
of craziness and insanity
1219
00:51:24,715 --> 00:51:26,650
and things change.
1220
00:51:26,650 --> 00:51:29,053
But I've never
laughed and smiled
1221
00:51:29,053 --> 00:51:32,590
and had as much fun with
someone as I have with you.
1222
00:51:32,590 --> 00:51:34,959
And...
1223
00:51:34,959 --> 00:51:37,828
I will do whatever it takes
to hold on to that.
1224
00:51:37,828 --> 00:51:39,096
‐ But this is just how I am
sometimes.
1225
00:51:39,096 --> 00:51:42,600
It's like I want to, like,
say, yeah, you say that now,
1226
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:44,735
but just, you know,
when things get hard,
1227
00:51:44,735 --> 00:51:48,505
it's much easier
to say goodbye and walk away.
1228
00:51:48,505 --> 00:51:49,907
‐ So I know
we've talked about‐‐
1229
00:51:49,907 --> 00:51:52,476
like, I told you my story
and my sobriety
1230
00:51:52,476 --> 00:51:53,777
and, like, that whole thing.
1231
00:51:53,777 --> 00:51:54,945
Right?
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1232
00:51:54,945 --> 00:51:57,781
‐ So today it's an anniversary
for me, right?
1233
00:51:57,781 --> 00:52:00,751
So like, nine years sober.
1234
00:52:00,751 --> 00:52:02,886
So, like my sobriety,
my recovery,
1235
00:52:02,886 --> 00:52:04,822
whatever you wanna call it,
1236
00:52:04,822 --> 00:52:06,590
is the most important thing
in my life.
1237
00:52:06,590 --> 00:52:07,791
‐ Mm‐hmm.
1238
00:52:07,791 --> 00:52:12,496
‐ And the reason for that
is because it allows me to...
1239
00:52:12,496 --> 00:52:15,432
not run away.
1240
00:52:15,432 --> 00:52:16,667
Like, not run,
1241
00:52:16,667 --> 00:52:18,936
and actually face life
as it comes my way.
1242
00:52:18,936 --> 00:52:22,473
‐ Yeah.
‐ So, like, to hear you say...
1243
00:52:24,308 --> 00:52:26,877
Your fear is...
1244
00:52:26,877 --> 00:52:28,846
that things will change
or that I'll run
1245
00:52:28,846 --> 00:52:32,449
or whatever it is,
like, breaks my heart
1246
00:52:32,449 --> 00:52:34,051
because...
[inhales]
1247
00:52:34,051 --> 00:52:38,822
If I were given the opportunity
to propose to you,
1248
00:52:38,822 --> 00:52:40,958
I am not doing that
unless I am committing to you
1249
00:52:40,958 --> 00:52:42,826
and committing to you
not just for that day
1250
00:52:42,826 --> 00:52:45,663
or for the next couple months‐‐
like, for my‐‐for life.
1251
00:52:45,663 --> 00:52:47,765
I mean, that's what
that signifies to me.
1252
00:52:47,765 --> 00:52:49,033
And, like, I understand
the word commitment.
1253
00:52:49,033 --> 00:52:51,702
I understand the word loyalty.
I understand the word‐‐
1254
00:52:51,702 --> 00:52:55,406
like, I understand
what these things mean.
1255
00:52:55,406 --> 00:52:57,408
I know, Tayshia,
1256
00:52:57,408 --> 00:52:59,810
why I love you,
1257
00:52:59,810 --> 00:53:01,945
and that has nothing to do with
1258
00:53:01,945 --> 00:53:04,682
whether or not in five years
you're gonna be
1259
00:53:04,682 --> 00:53:06,917
a stay‐at‐home mom
or waitress‐‐
1260
00:53:06,917 --> 00:53:08,852
it just‐‐
it doesn't matter to me,
1261
00:53:08,852 --> 00:53:11,021
as long as you're happy.
1262
00:53:11,021 --> 00:53:14,425
Because that's not the reason
that...
1263
00:53:14,425 --> 00:53:15,793
I love you.
1264
00:53:15,793 --> 00:53:19,396
[tender music]
1265
00:53:19,396 --> 00:53:25,836
♪ ♪
1266
00:53:25,836 --> 00:53:28,639
‐ [giggling]
1267
00:53:28,639 --> 00:53:30,808
I love that Zac
just loves me,
1268
00:53:30,808 --> 00:53:32,076
but he doesn't just love me.
1269
00:53:32,076 --> 00:53:36,847
He, like, truly,
whole‐heartedly cares about me.
1270
00:53:36,847 --> 00:53:39,817
I love that
he truly feels like
1271
00:53:39,817 --> 00:53:42,052
someone I could rely on,
1272
00:53:42,052 --> 00:53:43,887
and we could have
hard conversations,
1273
00:53:43,887 --> 00:53:45,622
and it's still good.
1274
00:53:45,622 --> 00:53:48,425
Like, we can talk through
anything.
1275
00:53:48,425 --> 00:53:50,461
Cheers to...
1276
00:53:50,461 --> 00:53:55,632
♪ ♪
1277
00:53:55,632 --> 00:53:57,935
[laughs]
‐ Don't make me cry.
1278
00:53:57,935 --> 00:54:00,771
‐ The man that makes me
feel safe,
1279
00:54:00,771 --> 00:54:03,841
heard...
1280
00:54:03,841 --> 00:54:05,642
[chuckles]
1281
00:54:05,642 --> 00:54:09,446
Special.
1282
00:54:09,446 --> 00:54:12,082
That has...
1283
00:54:12,082 --> 00:54:15,652
been through hell and back
to only be the best man
1284
00:54:15,652 --> 00:54:19,123
that I could ever dream of.
1285
00:54:19,123 --> 00:54:22,593
So cheers to you today,
Zachary Clark.
1286
00:54:22,593 --> 00:54:24,595
[glasses clink]
1287
00:54:24,595 --> 00:54:26,897
‐ I think she believes in me.
1288
00:54:26,897 --> 00:54:29,466
All right, let's change the
scenery up here a little bit.
1289
00:54:29,466 --> 00:54:30,834
‐ Okay.
1290
00:54:30,834 --> 00:54:34,738
‐ This is actually
truly the scariest part.
1291
00:54:34,738 --> 00:54:37,141
Because when the love
is like this
1292
00:54:37,141 --> 00:54:42,880
and it's real and it's strong,
there's a lot to lose.
1293
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,783
And she's the best.
1294
00:54:45,783 --> 00:54:47,751
‐ I don't know.
Today's really special.
1295
00:54:47,751 --> 00:54:50,954
I feel like‐‐like, the dance
1296
00:54:50,954 --> 00:54:55,025
and today being
your anniversary
1297
00:54:55,025 --> 00:54:56,160
doesn't really feel real.
1298
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,996
I feel like I'm in a dream,
to be honest.
1299
00:54:58,996 --> 00:55:00,998
‐ Well, maybe dreams come true.
1300
00:55:00,998 --> 00:55:03,066
‐ Oh, stop it.
‐ No, I'm ser‐‐
1301
00:55:03,066 --> 00:55:05,636
‐ That's, like,
literally a Hallmark card.
1302
00:55:05,636 --> 00:55:06,804
Where'd you read that?
1303
00:55:06,804 --> 00:55:07,871
‐ Now you're gonna make me
feel...[murmurs]
1304
00:55:07,871 --> 00:55:09,173
‐ Oh.
[laughs]
1305
00:55:09,173 --> 00:55:12,009
You literally read that
on a Hallmark card.
1306
00:55:12,009 --> 00:55:13,977
You just used it on me.
‐ No, no, that's not‐‐
1307
00:55:13,977 --> 00:55:16,847
‐ I cannot believe you!
‐ No. No, no, no.
1308
00:55:16,847 --> 00:55:18,081
‐ Really?
Okay.
1309
00:55:18,081 --> 00:55:19,850
What else ya got?
What else ya got?
1310
00:55:19,850 --> 00:55:21,852
‐ I love you.
‐ Oh.
1311
00:55:21,852 --> 00:55:23,754
♪ ♪
1312
00:55:23,754 --> 00:55:27,891
Yeah, I don't think
you read that one.
1313
00:55:27,891 --> 00:55:29,760
That one's all Zac.
1314
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,730
‐ I just really love you.
1315
00:55:36,934 --> 00:55:40,838
I know that
I've given you all I have.
1316
00:55:40,838 --> 00:55:44,675
And I'm totally open
to do it again.
1317
00:55:47,911 --> 00:55:51,315
‐ I love Zac Clark.
1318
00:55:52,850 --> 00:55:55,018
There's so much sincerity
1319
00:55:55,018 --> 00:55:57,020
behind everything
that Zac says
1320
00:55:57,020 --> 00:55:59,022
that you know
how genuine he is
1321
00:55:59,022 --> 00:56:01,058
and you know
where his heart is.
1322
00:56:01,058 --> 00:56:03,760
I had a lot of fun tonight.
1323
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,295
‐ [whispers]
Me too.
1324
00:56:05,295 --> 00:56:08,065
I mean, all I know how to say
right now is I love you.
1325
00:56:08,065 --> 00:56:11,101
‐ [giggling]
‐ And thank you.
1326
00:56:11,101 --> 00:56:14,738
I'm ready for whatever
the future holds.
1327
00:56:14,738 --> 00:56:16,673
I'm here for you.
1328
00:56:16,673 --> 00:56:20,944
♪ ♪
1329
00:56:20,944 --> 00:56:22,880
‐ My divorce hurt so bad
1330
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,983
that I didn't think
I could get engaged again.
1331
00:56:25,983 --> 00:56:27,784
‐ I love you.
1332
00:56:27,784 --> 00:56:29,019
‐ Love you too.
1333
00:56:29,019 --> 00:56:30,287
But you can get through
1334
00:56:30,287 --> 00:56:31,989
like the biggest challenges
in life
1335
00:56:31,989 --> 00:56:34,157
and like think it's never
gonna get better...
1336
00:56:34,157 --> 00:56:37,194
but you just believe
in yourself,
1337
00:56:37,194 --> 00:56:38,962
and there are people out there
1338
00:56:38,962 --> 00:56:42,866
that will sweep you
off your feet.
1339
00:56:42,866 --> 00:56:43,967
Bye, Zachary Clark.
1340
00:56:43,967 --> 00:56:46,069
‐ Bye, Tayshia.
1341
00:56:46,069 --> 00:56:50,841
‐ But to think that I was
like so uneasy this morning,
1342
00:56:50,841 --> 00:56:53,744
I'm going to bed feeling
pretty damn good.
1343
00:56:55,712 --> 00:56:58,415
‐ [sighs]
1344
00:57:02,052 --> 00:57:04,821
[soft music]
1345
00:57:04,821 --> 00:57:10,961
♪ ♪
1346
00:57:10,961 --> 00:57:14,965
‐ Today I have my last date
with Tayshia.
1347
00:57:14,965 --> 00:57:17,234
I'm so excited.
1348
00:57:17,234 --> 00:57:22,673
She makes me feel unlike
anyone has ever made me feel.
1349
00:57:24,608 --> 00:57:26,543
I love her.
1350
00:57:28,011 --> 00:57:30,113
I can't wait
to see her again.
1351
00:57:30,113 --> 00:57:31,949
And my gut tells me that
1352
00:57:31,949 --> 00:57:35,886
I'm gonna propose to her
and she's gonna say yes.
1353
00:57:38,055 --> 00:57:40,123
‐ [exhales]
1354
00:57:40,123 --> 00:57:42,225
[soft dramatic music]
1355
00:57:42,225 --> 00:57:44,962
‐ Waking up this morning,
I'm feeling very,
1356
00:57:44,962 --> 00:57:47,931
very nervous.
1357
00:57:47,931 --> 00:57:49,266
It's only because
at this point,
1358
00:57:49,266 --> 00:57:53,770
I feel like I know
what my heart wants, and...
1359
00:57:53,770 --> 00:57:55,939
I know that it's not Ben.
1360
00:57:55,939 --> 00:58:02,012
♪ ♪
1361
00:58:02,012 --> 00:58:06,083
I wish my heart was with him,
but it's just not.
1362
00:58:06,083 --> 00:58:09,853
I don't know.
1363
00:58:09,853 --> 00:58:13,256
[crying]
1364
00:58:13,256 --> 00:58:16,727
I do know what I need to do.
1365
00:58:16,727 --> 00:58:20,964
♪ ♪
1366
00:58:20,964 --> 00:58:22,232
‐ Oh, boy.
1367
00:58:22,232 --> 00:58:24,668
‐ Can I come in?
‐ Please.
1368
00:58:26,069 --> 00:58:28,972
‐ [tearfully]
I don't like hurting people.
1369
00:58:28,972 --> 00:58:31,174
♪ ♪
1370
00:58:31,174 --> 00:58:32,976
How are you doing?
‐ I'm good.
1371
00:58:32,976 --> 00:58:35,879
My heart is a little high,
all of a sudden.
1372
00:58:35,879 --> 00:58:37,247
‐ Oh, boy.
1373
00:58:37,247 --> 00:58:39,449
‐ Okay, talk to me.
‐ Okay.
1374
00:58:39,449 --> 00:58:42,119
Through this whole week,
all I've been thinking about
1375
00:58:42,119 --> 00:58:43,854
is just, like,
the entire journey here.
1376
00:58:43,854 --> 00:58:44,988
‐ Yeah.
1377
00:58:44,988 --> 00:58:47,124
‐ And that starts with us,
really.
1378
00:58:47,124 --> 00:58:50,093
I remember seeing you
out of the group of guys,
1379
00:58:50,093 --> 00:58:51,261
and then you were just someone
that I really wanted
1380
00:58:51,261 --> 00:58:53,163
to continue to get to know.
1381
00:58:53,163 --> 00:58:55,165
I don't think
I've told you this,
1382
00:58:55,165 --> 00:58:58,001
but you kind of, like,
set the bar for people
1383
00:58:58,001 --> 00:59:01,905
because you were being
vulnerable with me.
1384
00:59:01,905 --> 00:59:03,340
And I saw that,
1385
00:59:03,340 --> 00:59:06,343
and I started falling in love
with that guy more and more.
1386
00:59:06,343 --> 00:59:10,781
And this week, it's‐‐
it's a really heavy week.
1387
00:59:10,781 --> 00:59:12,649
‐ [whispers]
Yeah.
1388
00:59:12,649 --> 00:59:14,818
‐ And...
1389
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:20,557
I care about you so much.
1390
00:59:25,128 --> 00:59:28,198
But I just feel like my heart
is with somebody else.
1391
00:59:28,198 --> 00:59:30,167
[somber music]
1392
00:59:30,167 --> 00:59:32,069
I just‐‐
1393
00:59:32,069 --> 00:59:36,206
I don't want you to, like...
1394
00:59:36,206 --> 00:59:39,176
ever second‐guess anything.
1395
00:59:39,176 --> 00:59:42,179
And me giving you that rose
the other night
1396
00:59:42,179 --> 00:59:43,980
was because I truly, truly
1397
00:59:43,980 --> 00:59:45,882
wanted to give us
another chance
1398
00:59:45,882 --> 00:59:48,251
because I saw something.
1399
00:59:48,251 --> 00:59:50,454
I just feel like we...
1400
00:59:50,454 --> 00:59:53,857
we missed out on a little
bit of time that was...
1401
00:59:53,857 --> 00:59:56,193
♪ ♪
1402
00:59:56,193 --> 00:59:57,994
‐ [sighs]
1403
00:59:57,994 --> 01:00:02,799
‐ That was very monumental.
1404
01:00:02,799 --> 01:00:05,902
‐ Um...
1405
01:00:05,902 --> 01:00:07,804
yeah, and I, uh...
1406
01:00:07,804 --> 01:00:14,044
♪ ♪
1407
01:00:14,044 --> 01:00:15,946
You know,
I was excited to be back.
1408
01:00:15,946 --> 01:00:19,149
I was really hopeful
that, uh,
1409
01:00:19,149 --> 01:00:22,352
you know, we would be together.
1410
01:00:22,352 --> 01:00:28,191
And obviously, that‐‐
that doesn't change.
1411
01:00:28,191 --> 01:00:29,960
‐ [sighs]
1412
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:33,897
♪ ♪
1413
01:00:33,897 --> 01:00:35,866
Um...
1414
01:00:38,168 --> 01:00:41,171
I saw it going differently,
but, uh,
1415
01:00:41,171 --> 01:00:42,572
like, when you‐‐like, I'm‐‐
1416
01:00:42,572 --> 01:00:46,209
when you love somebody,
you want them to be happy.
1417
01:00:46,209 --> 01:00:50,780
‐ [whispering]
I want you to be happy too.
1418
01:00:50,780 --> 01:00:53,950
‐ Someday.
1419
01:00:53,950 --> 01:00:56,153
Okay.
‐ All right.
1420
01:00:56,153 --> 01:01:03,693
♪ ♪
1421
01:01:05,162 --> 01:01:06,696
‐ So yeah.
1422
01:01:19,342 --> 01:01:21,244
I'm happy for you.
1423
01:01:21,244 --> 01:01:23,380
‐ [whispers] Thank you.
‐ Yeah. I'm dead serious.
1424
01:01:23,380 --> 01:01:26,082
‐ I know, but‐‐
‐ It's all right.
1425
01:01:30,921 --> 01:01:32,756
It's all right.
1426
01:01:34,958 --> 01:01:37,093
Bye.
1427
01:01:37,093 --> 01:01:44,100
♪ ♪
1428
01:01:47,237 --> 01:01:50,173
I put all of myself into this.
1429
01:01:50,173 --> 01:01:52,909
[sighs]
1430
01:01:52,909 --> 01:01:55,111
And so, um...
1431
01:01:57,180 --> 01:01:59,382
Um...
1432
01:01:59,382 --> 01:02:03,286
‐ [whispering]
Oh, my God.
1433
01:02:03,286 --> 01:02:06,089
‐ I thought
I was gonna be her husband.
1434
01:02:06,089 --> 01:02:09,226
♪ ♪
1435
01:02:09,226 --> 01:02:10,527
I'm still in love with her.
1436
01:02:10,527 --> 01:02:14,064
I don't know what the [bleep]
to do now, but, uh...
1437
01:02:14,064 --> 01:02:16,967
♪ ♪
1438
01:02:16,967 --> 01:02:18,101
Man.
1439
01:02:18,101 --> 01:02:21,371
♪ ♪
1440
01:02:21,371 --> 01:02:24,174
I lost a really good thing.
1441
01:02:26,276 --> 01:02:27,611
All the things
that I was looking for,
1442
01:02:27,611 --> 01:02:29,446
all the things
that I saw in her,
1443
01:02:29,446 --> 01:02:34,317
all of the beauty
that she has...
1444
01:02:34,317 --> 01:02:37,320
Our life would have been
so good.
1445
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:40,123
♪ ♪
1446
01:02:40,123 --> 01:02:44,060
She was perfect for me.
1447
01:02:51,234 --> 01:02:54,237
[mellow music]
1448
01:02:54,237 --> 01:02:58,375
♪ ♪
1449
01:02:58,375 --> 01:03:00,610
‐ Waking up this morning,
1450
01:03:00,610 --> 01:03:03,346
I never thought this would be
where I would be
1451
01:03:03,346 --> 01:03:06,182
in my wildest dreams.
1452
01:03:06,182 --> 01:03:08,251
With one man left,
1453
01:03:08,251 --> 01:03:09,552
today's the day,
1454
01:03:09,552 --> 01:03:13,089
and I cannot believe
I'm here.
1455
01:03:14,557 --> 01:03:17,060
I can honestly say,
like wholeheartedly,
1456
01:03:17,060 --> 01:03:18,595
that Zac is my person.
1457
01:03:18,595 --> 01:03:21,598
And I truly don't think
I have the words
1458
01:03:21,598 --> 01:03:24,367
to describe the love
that I have for him,
1459
01:03:24,367 --> 01:03:28,438
and the way he makes me feel.
1460
01:03:28,438 --> 01:03:32,742
But there is still
a fear of, you know,
1461
01:03:32,742 --> 01:03:37,647
what if we leave outside
of here and things change?
1462
01:03:37,647 --> 01:03:40,450
That is something
that kind of stresses me out,
1463
01:03:40,450 --> 01:03:43,953
and it worries me.
1464
01:03:48,224 --> 01:03:51,461
‐ I love Tayshia, and...
1465
01:03:51,461 --> 01:03:55,265
I'm gonna propose
to the woman of my dreams.
1466
01:04:01,204 --> 01:04:02,372
‐ Hi.
I'm Neil Lane.
1467
01:04:02,372 --> 01:04:03,506
‐ Zac Clark.
Nice to meet you.
1468
01:04:03,506 --> 01:04:05,208
‐ Nice to meet you.
‐ Thanks for coming by.
1469
01:04:05,208 --> 01:04:06,309
Come on in.
‐ Sure.
1470
01:04:06,309 --> 01:04:07,510
‐ Great to see you.
1471
01:04:07,510 --> 01:04:10,613
I have been through
some stuff in life.
1472
01:04:10,613 --> 01:04:15,752
So celebrating kinda,
like, nine years sober
1473
01:04:15,752 --> 01:04:21,524
and being in love
with this beautiful woman,
1474
01:04:21,524 --> 01:04:24,361
it's incredible.
1475
01:04:24,361 --> 01:04:26,463
‐ That is a princess cut.
1476
01:04:26,463 --> 01:04:29,299
‐ Okay.
1477
01:04:29,299 --> 01:04:31,434
My love for her,
like, transcends
1478
01:04:31,434 --> 01:04:36,439
any physical beauty.
1479
01:04:36,439 --> 01:04:40,110
She is just, like, everything
that I've ever wanted
1480
01:04:40,110 --> 01:04:42,612
in a partner.
1481
01:04:42,612 --> 01:04:45,415
I'm the luckiest guy
in the world.
1482
01:04:45,415 --> 01:04:47,384
‐ This is an emerald cut.
‐ Okay.
1483
01:04:47,384 --> 01:04:51,454
‐ It's one of the most
sophisticated cuts.
1484
01:04:51,454 --> 01:04:52,756
‐ I mean, it's beautiful,
right?
1485
01:04:52,756 --> 01:04:55,191
This is a beautiful...
‐ It's an elegance to it.
1486
01:04:55,191 --> 01:04:58,361
‐ I think I love this one.
1487
01:04:58,361 --> 01:05:01,364
I will be nervous
to propose to her,
1488
01:05:01,364 --> 01:05:06,336
because I don't know
what's gonna happen.
1489
01:05:06,336 --> 01:05:08,405
But...
1490
01:05:08,405 --> 01:05:11,107
I love Tayshia so much.
1491
01:05:15,211 --> 01:05:16,813
[dramatic music]
1492
01:05:16,813 --> 01:05:18,648
‐ Outside of this
particular journey,
1493
01:05:18,648 --> 01:05:20,750
I've had a long journey
of my own
1494
01:05:20,750 --> 01:05:23,386
coming back from being
divorced and whatnot
1495
01:05:23,386 --> 01:05:25,655
and going from feeling like
1496
01:05:25,655 --> 01:05:27,690
I would never
get married again
1497
01:05:27,690 --> 01:05:30,794
to being on this
really unexpected,
1498
01:05:30,794 --> 01:05:35,565
but amazing journey
and actually finding love.
1499
01:05:35,565 --> 01:05:38,134
It's overwhelming.
1500
01:05:40,503 --> 01:05:41,771
This involves our families.
1501
01:05:41,771 --> 01:05:46,276
This involves
a lot of risk, and...
1502
01:05:46,276 --> 01:05:49,479
I know I love Zac.
1503
01:05:49,479 --> 01:05:53,450
But it's still scary.
1504
01:05:53,450 --> 01:05:55,718
And...
1505
01:05:55,718 --> 01:05:58,555
thinking about all that
1506
01:05:58,555 --> 01:06:01,357
does make me wonder
if it's too much too soon.
1507
01:06:01,357 --> 01:06:08,398
♪ ♪
1508
01:06:27,283 --> 01:06:28,551
‐ Hey, there.
‐ Hello.
1509
01:06:28,551 --> 01:06:30,520
‐ How you doing?
‐ [laughs] I'm doing good.
1510
01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:33,323
‐ Yeah? You doing okay?
‐ I'm getting there.
1511
01:06:33,323 --> 01:06:34,724
Yeah.
Um...
1512
01:06:34,724 --> 01:06:37,560
I'm starting to get
a little nervous.
1513
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,630
It's a big day.
‐ Yeah.
1514
01:06:40,630 --> 01:06:44,501
‐ And I didn't expect
for this...
1515
01:06:44,501 --> 01:06:46,402
to be happening when it is.
1516
01:06:46,402 --> 01:06:47,770
‐ If we learned anything
this year,
1517
01:06:47,770 --> 01:06:51,174
we know life can just
turn on a dime.
1518
01:06:51,174 --> 01:06:52,775
[soft music]
1519
01:06:52,775 --> 01:06:55,311
‐ [sighs]
‐ I can't tell what's going on.
1520
01:06:55,311 --> 01:06:57,814
‐ [laughs]
I‐‐I have a lot.
1521
01:06:57,814 --> 01:06:59,849
I don't know.
There's just a lot going on.
1522
01:06:59,849 --> 01:07:03,620
I'm excited but also
I love him so much.
1523
01:07:03,620 --> 01:07:06,589
‐ Yeah.
‐ Um...
1524
01:07:06,589 --> 01:07:09,692
But it's something
that's different.
1525
01:07:09,692 --> 01:07:11,728
To be honest,
I question the fact
1526
01:07:11,728 --> 01:07:14,497
if, you know, I've really
ever been in love...
1527
01:07:14,497 --> 01:07:17,500
‐ Yeah.
‐ True love.
1528
01:07:17,500 --> 01:07:20,303
Until now.
[chuckles]
1529
01:07:20,303 --> 01:07:26,676
♪ ♪
1530
01:07:26,676 --> 01:07:29,779
[small whimper]
1531
01:07:29,779 --> 01:07:32,515
‐ What is going on?
‐ I'm just excited. [sniffles]
1532
01:07:32,515 --> 01:07:33,550
‐ It's okay.
‐ Yeah.
1533
01:07:33,550 --> 01:07:34,751
‐ You should be.
‐ I know.
1534
01:07:34,751 --> 01:07:36,586
‐ This is everything
we've ever wanted for you.
1535
01:07:36,586 --> 01:07:38,821
‐ I know.
It's good.
1536
01:07:38,821 --> 01:07:40,523
‐ This is amazing.
‐ [laughs]
1537
01:07:40,523 --> 01:07:42,625
It's really good.
1538
01:07:42,625 --> 01:07:48,898
♪ ♪
1539
01:07:48,898 --> 01:07:51,601
‐ Well, good luck.
‐ Thank you.
1540
01:07:51,601 --> 01:07:53,903
‐ All right.
‐ Love you.
1541
01:07:53,903 --> 01:07:56,573
‐ Why don't you head on up?
‐ All right.
1542
01:07:56,573 --> 01:07:58,508
‐ I'll send Zac
in a little bit.
1543
01:07:58,508 --> 01:08:01,344
‐ [exhales]
1544
01:08:01,344 --> 01:08:04,347
[stirring music]
1545
01:08:04,347 --> 01:08:11,387
♪ ♪
1546
01:08:11,387 --> 01:08:13,423
[exhales]
1547
01:08:30,573 --> 01:08:32,408
[exhales]
1548
01:08:36,312 --> 01:08:39,349
[bird calling]
1549
01:08:42,719 --> 01:08:45,655
[dramatic music]
1550
01:08:45,655 --> 01:08:48,558
‐ I'm stressed.
I'm overwhelmed.
1551
01:08:48,558 --> 01:08:51,628
I'm...I'm scared.
1552
01:08:51,628 --> 01:08:54,330
It's taken a lot to get here.
1553
01:08:55,865 --> 01:08:58,568
I think it's just, like,
all hitting me that it's‐‐
1554
01:08:58,568 --> 01:09:00,803
this is it.
1555
01:09:00,803 --> 01:09:03,840
I don't know
if I'm doing the right thing.
1556
01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:05,808
I have been down
this road before,
1557
01:09:05,808 --> 01:09:07,810
and I never wanna experience
that heartache
1558
01:09:07,810 --> 01:09:10,480
that I experienced
in my last marriage.
1559
01:09:10,480 --> 01:09:11,781
But I love Zac,
1560
01:09:11,781 --> 01:09:14,617
and I just hope
I'm making the right decision.
1561
01:09:14,617 --> 01:09:16,653
♪ ♪
1562
01:09:16,653 --> 01:09:18,721
‐ I feel like
the luckiest guy in the world
1563
01:09:18,721 --> 01:09:20,490
sitting here today.
1564
01:09:20,490 --> 01:09:22,792
I love everything about her.
1565
01:09:22,792 --> 01:09:24,927
She's incredible.
1566
01:09:24,927 --> 01:09:26,829
When we are together,
1567
01:09:26,829 --> 01:09:28,798
it's like nothing else
is going on in the world.
1568
01:09:28,798 --> 01:09:32,702
I can't picture my life
without her in it.
1569
01:09:32,702 --> 01:09:34,937
But anything can happen.
1570
01:09:34,937 --> 01:09:38,841
For her to say no
or for her to pick another guy
1571
01:09:38,841 --> 01:09:41,577
is not out of the question,
I get that.
1572
01:09:41,577 --> 01:09:44,614
So today means everything.
1573
01:09:49,619 --> 01:09:53,456
♪ ♪
1574
01:09:53,456 --> 01:09:54,857
Chris.
1575
01:09:54,857 --> 01:09:58,027
‐ How ya doing, buddy?
‐ I'm good.
1576
01:09:58,027 --> 01:09:59,729
‐ You all right?
Come on, man.
1577
01:09:59,729 --> 01:10:01,597
‐ Give me that hug.
I'll take all I can get.
1578
01:10:01,597 --> 01:10:03,800
‐ [laughs]
1579
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:05,034
How ya feeling?
1580
01:10:05,034 --> 01:10:08,538
‐ I feel...like I'm exactly
where I'm supposed to be.
1581
01:10:08,538 --> 01:10:10,807
She's, uh,
1582
01:10:10,807 --> 01:10:13,142
literally everything I could
have ever dreamed for, so...
1583
01:10:13,142 --> 01:10:16,079
‐ It's been one hell of a ride.
‐ Yes, it has.
1584
01:10:16,079 --> 01:10:18,614
‐ All right, my friend.
‐ But not over yet.
1585
01:10:18,614 --> 01:10:19,716
Thanks, Chris.
‐ Good luck.
1586
01:10:19,716 --> 01:10:21,651
All right, man.
‐ I'll see you later.
1587
01:10:21,651 --> 01:10:24,487
‐ She's waitin' for ya.
‐ Thanks.
1588
01:10:25,988 --> 01:10:29,659
I spent a lot of time thinking
about what could go wrong.
1589
01:10:29,659 --> 01:10:33,062
But I've done
everything in my power
1590
01:10:33,062 --> 01:10:36,132
to get to this moment,
and I owe it to her
1591
01:10:36,132 --> 01:10:38,668
to go into this thing
without fear.
1592
01:10:38,668 --> 01:10:40,169
There's just moments in life
1593
01:10:40,169 --> 01:10:43,005
that you wait
your entire existence for,
1594
01:10:43,005 --> 01:10:45,608
and this is one of
those moments.
1595
01:10:45,608 --> 01:10:47,110
So if she says yes,
1596
01:10:47,110 --> 01:10:51,581
I'm gonna be the happiest guy
in the world.
1597
01:10:51,581 --> 01:10:54,584
‐ [laughing]
1598
01:10:57,386 --> 01:10:57,987
Hi.
1599
01:10:57,987 --> 01:11:00,590
‐ How are you?
‐ [exhales]
1600
01:11:00,590 --> 01:11:02,992
[softly]
I'm good.
1601
01:11:02,992 --> 01:11:07,497
‐ [inhales, exhales]
1602
01:11:07,497 --> 01:11:08,231
You know, our...
1603
01:11:08,231 --> 01:11:11,901
first conversation
we ever had by our fountain,
1604
01:11:11,901 --> 01:11:16,005
we talked about that everything
happens for a reason.
1605
01:11:16,005 --> 01:11:18,141
And when I came here
to the desert,
1606
01:11:18,141 --> 01:11:20,943
I didn't know
what that reason was.
1607
01:11:20,943 --> 01:11:23,713
But I do today.
1608
01:11:23,713 --> 01:11:26,682
I came here 'cause I was
supposed to meet you,
1609
01:11:26,682 --> 01:11:28,785
and I came here
'cause I was supposed
1610
01:11:28,785 --> 01:11:31,587
to fall in love with you.
1611
01:11:31,587 --> 01:11:34,824
From our first kiss...
1612
01:11:34,824 --> 01:11:37,760
to riding the Ferris wheel
1613
01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:39,962
to meeting each other's
families,
1614
01:11:39,962 --> 01:11:41,964
nothing has ever felt
1615
01:11:41,964 --> 01:11:45,501
so right in my entire life.
1616
01:11:45,501 --> 01:11:47,336
You've...
1617
01:11:47,336 --> 01:11:52,675
helped me experience a love
that I didn't know existed,
1618
01:11:52,675 --> 01:11:54,811
and you've made me smile
1619
01:11:54,811 --> 01:11:58,781
more than anyone
has ever made me smile.
1620
01:11:58,781 --> 01:12:01,884
I love you, Tayshia.
1621
01:12:01,884 --> 01:12:05,087
I love you
'cause you're a fighter.
1622
01:12:05,087 --> 01:12:08,024
I love you
'cause you're a strong,
1623
01:12:08,024 --> 01:12:10,092
independent woman.
1624
01:12:10,092 --> 01:12:13,896
You make everyone around you
better.
1625
01:12:13,896 --> 01:12:16,132
I love you
'cause you believe in me.
1626
01:12:16,132 --> 01:12:18,734
I love you
'cause you're a total dork.
1627
01:12:18,734 --> 01:12:21,771
‐ [chuckling]
1628
01:12:21,771 --> 01:12:24,540
‐ And I love you
because you drive me
1629
01:12:24,540 --> 01:12:28,744
absolutely wild.
1630
01:12:28,744 --> 01:12:31,881
I love everything
about you.
1631
01:12:31,881 --> 01:12:34,150
[soft, emotional music]
1632
01:12:34,150 --> 01:12:39,388
And I listened when you spoke
of the importance of loyalty.
1633
01:12:41,090 --> 01:12:43,693
I promise to be loyal to you.
1634
01:12:43,693 --> 01:12:50,700
♪ ♪
1635
01:12:51,767 --> 01:12:54,470
‐ [exhales]
1636
01:12:57,940 --> 01:13:01,043
[light laugh]
1637
01:13:01,043 --> 01:13:03,880
That first night
when I got here,
1638
01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:06,015
I was extremely excited
for the possibility
1639
01:13:06,015 --> 01:13:08,818
of finding love,
1640
01:13:08,818 --> 01:13:11,354
but also very nervous
and scared
1641
01:13:11,354 --> 01:13:15,892
because I didn't know
if finding true love was...
1642
01:13:15,892 --> 01:13:17,860
possible.
1643
01:13:17,860 --> 01:13:21,631
When I first met you,
I thought to myself,
1644
01:13:21,631 --> 01:13:23,666
"He's different."
1645
01:13:23,666 --> 01:13:26,936
[laughs]
And...
1646
01:13:26,936 --> 01:13:29,972
that man is kind,
1647
01:13:29,972 --> 01:13:33,876
he shows gratitude,
and has the biggest smile.
1648
01:13:33,876 --> 01:13:37,914
♪ ♪
1649
01:13:37,914 --> 01:13:41,851
He has been through a lot
but has never given up.
1650
01:13:44,820 --> 01:13:47,123
But also has learned
1651
01:13:47,123 --> 01:13:50,226
how to read me better
than anyone really has
1652
01:13:50,226 --> 01:13:54,163
and knows how to comfort me
when I'm down.
1653
01:13:54,163 --> 01:13:55,965
And there was one point
in my life
1654
01:13:55,965 --> 01:13:59,201
where I thought
I would never get married
1655
01:13:59,201 --> 01:14:00,736
because of all the pain
and the heartbreak
1656
01:14:00,736 --> 01:14:02,004
that I've been through,
1657
01:14:02,004 --> 01:14:04,774
and I hit absolute
rock bottom.
1658
01:14:07,643 --> 01:14:11,213
And...
1659
01:14:11,213 --> 01:14:14,517
I know that I told you
that I love you...
1660
01:14:16,786 --> 01:14:19,355
But...
1661
01:14:19,355 --> 01:14:22,792
[whispers] Sorry.
‐ [whispers] It's okay.
1662
01:14:38,140 --> 01:14:39,909
‐ It's more than that.
1663
01:14:39,909 --> 01:14:41,877
[stirring music]
1664
01:14:41,877 --> 01:14:46,749
It's this wild,
wild love that I have
1665
01:14:46,749 --> 01:14:49,151
tried to come up with
1666
01:14:49,151 --> 01:14:51,253
so many reasons to not believe.
1667
01:14:51,253 --> 01:14:54,256
And you have truly
just made me believe
1668
01:14:54,256 --> 01:14:57,159
that there doesn't need
to be flaws
1669
01:14:57,159 --> 01:15:00,763
and that I deserve a love
with a man that won't run away.
1670
01:15:02,331 --> 01:15:06,869
And I'm truly
looking at my heart,
1671
01:15:06,869 --> 01:15:09,839
and, yes, it is real,
1672
01:15:09,839 --> 01:15:11,107
and I feel it too.
1673
01:15:11,107 --> 01:15:12,475
And I wanna make
more traditions
1674
01:15:12,475 --> 01:15:15,144
and jump into fountains
all over the world with you.
1675
01:15:15,144 --> 01:15:18,047
I'm ready to hail a taxi.
1676
01:15:18,047 --> 01:15:20,216
‐ Prove it.
‐ [laughs]
1677
01:15:20,216 --> 01:15:24,754
And I'm ready
to start a life with you.
1678
01:15:24,754 --> 01:15:26,222
But also...
1679
01:15:26,222 --> 01:15:29,925
I love you, Zac Clark.
1680
01:15:29,925 --> 01:15:32,328
And...
‐ [mouthing] I love you.
1681
01:15:32,328 --> 01:15:36,966
‐ And I'll do absolutely
anything
1682
01:15:36,966 --> 01:15:40,870
to keep that huge smile
on your face.
1683
01:15:40,870 --> 01:15:45,174
Because you do everything...
1684
01:15:45,174 --> 01:15:49,812
to keep a huge smile on mine.
1685
01:15:49,812 --> 01:15:52,214
‐ [clears throat]
1686
01:15:52,214 --> 01:15:54,884
The night of my hometown...
1687
01:15:57,153 --> 01:15:59,755
[exhales]
1688
01:16:02,058 --> 01:16:04,326
[inhales, clears throat]
1689
01:16:04,326 --> 01:16:06,262
‐ [whispers]
It's okay.
1690
01:16:06,262 --> 01:16:09,098
‐ [whispering]
When we walked in,
1691
01:16:09,098 --> 01:16:12,501
and my parents got to see
that smile on my face,
1692
01:16:12,501 --> 01:16:16,972
you gave them the best gift
you could ever give them.
1693
01:16:16,972 --> 01:16:20,142
They haven't seen me that happy
in years.
1694
01:16:20,142 --> 01:16:22,078
You did that.
1695
01:16:22,078 --> 01:16:24,947
[softly]
That's when I knew.
1696
01:16:24,947 --> 01:16:26,882
That's when they knew.
1697
01:16:26,882 --> 01:16:28,851
[both sniffling]
1698
01:16:28,851 --> 01:16:30,419
And...
1699
01:16:30,419 --> 01:16:32,988
the other night,
we were talking.
1700
01:16:32,988 --> 01:16:36,258
You spoke about this idea of
1701
01:16:36,258 --> 01:16:40,029
someone choosing you.
1702
01:16:40,029 --> 01:16:42,798
And...
1703
01:16:42,798 --> 01:16:44,233
I can't...
1704
01:16:44,233 --> 01:16:48,137
picture another day,
1705
01:16:48,137 --> 01:16:51,774
another moment without you
1706
01:16:51,774 --> 01:16:54,276
in my life.
1707
01:16:54,276 --> 01:16:57,379
And if you'll let me,
1708
01:16:57,379 --> 01:17:00,182
I'm gonna choose you right now.
1709
01:17:00,182 --> 01:17:02,952
I'm gonna choose you
tomorrow morning.
1710
01:17:02,952 --> 01:17:04,987
I'm gonna choose you next week
1711
01:17:04,987 --> 01:17:07,389
and next year.
1712
01:17:07,389 --> 01:17:11,160
[softly]
I'm gonna choose you forever.
1713
01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:13,362
[both sniffling]
1714
01:17:13,362 --> 01:17:16,932
[soft, emotional music]
1715
01:17:16,932 --> 01:17:20,035
'Cause I love you.
1716
01:17:20,035 --> 01:17:22,938
‐ Oh, my gosh.
1717
01:17:26,008 --> 01:17:29,111
[sobbing]
1718
01:17:29,111 --> 01:17:32,148
♪ ♪
1719
01:17:32,148 --> 01:17:34,917
‐ [softly]
Marry me.
1720
01:17:34,917 --> 01:17:37,086
‐ [sniffling]
1721
01:17:37,086 --> 01:17:41,023
Yes!
1722
01:17:41,023 --> 01:17:43,192
Yes, yes, yes!
1723
01:17:43,192 --> 01:17:49,298
♪ ♪
1724
01:17:49,298 --> 01:17:52,067
[laughs]
I love you.
1725
01:17:52,067 --> 01:17:54,436
♪ ♪
1726
01:17:54,436 --> 01:17:58,040
‐ Yes!
‐ [squeals, laughs]
1727
01:17:58,040 --> 01:17:59,975
‐ Oh, come on!
1728
01:17:59,975 --> 01:18:02,144
‐ [laughing]
1729
01:18:02,144 --> 01:18:03,312
‐ Gimme your hand.
‐ Holy [bleep].
1730
01:18:03,312 --> 01:18:05,881
‐ Gimme your hand.
‐ Okay. Okay!
1731
01:18:07,516 --> 01:18:10,085
I'm, like, shaking.
‐ Don't shake.
1732
01:18:10,085 --> 01:18:11,921
‐ Oh, my God.
1733
01:18:11,921 --> 01:18:15,391
[laughs]
1734
01:18:15,391 --> 01:18:17,927
‐ This is so crazy.
1735
01:18:17,927 --> 01:18:19,895
‐ [laughs]
1736
01:18:22,064 --> 01:18:23,199
‐ No.
1737
01:18:23,199 --> 01:18:24,200
Do you?
‐ Yes!
1738
01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:26,235
‐ Yeah?
[laughs]
1739
01:18:26,235 --> 01:18:29,271
Oh, my God!
1740
01:18:29,271 --> 01:18:33,909
You're mine!
[laughs]
1741
01:18:33,909 --> 01:18:35,377
Oh, my God!
1742
01:18:35,377 --> 01:18:37,112
We did it.
‐ We did it.
1743
01:18:37,112 --> 01:18:38,247
‐ Me and you.
‐ Yeah, we did it.
1744
01:18:38,247 --> 01:18:39,248
‐ It's us.
‐ We're crazy.
1745
01:18:39,248 --> 01:18:41,150
‐ We did it!
‐ We did it.
1746
01:18:41,150 --> 01:18:44,119
‐ Oh, my God!
1747
01:18:44,119 --> 01:18:46,021
But there's one more thing.
1748
01:18:46,021 --> 01:18:48,857
[laughs]
1749
01:18:48,857 --> 01:18:50,292
Zac,
1750
01:18:50,292 --> 01:18:52,194
will you accept this rose?
1751
01:18:52,194 --> 01:18:54,096
‐ Absolutely.
1752
01:18:54,096 --> 01:18:56,031
‐ [giggling]
1753
01:18:56,031 --> 01:18:59,068
Oh!
1754
01:18:59,068 --> 01:19:01,203
[laughs]
We did it!
1755
01:19:01,203 --> 01:19:02,905
‐ We did it!
‐ We did it!
1756
01:19:02,905 --> 01:19:04,073
‐ Whoo!
1757
01:19:04,073 --> 01:19:06,275
‐ Yeah!
1758
01:19:06,275 --> 01:19:09,311
Go, go, go, go, go!
[laughing]
1759
01:19:09,311 --> 01:19:10,546
‐ Best day of my life.
‐ Oh, my God.
1760
01:19:10,546 --> 01:19:13,916
‐ This is my fiancée.
‐ Whoo!
1761
01:19:13,916 --> 01:19:14,917
No, no, I‐‐
1762
01:19:14,917 --> 01:19:17,219
‐ Ah!
1763
01:19:17,219 --> 01:19:19,555
‐ How did this happen?
[laughing]
1764
01:19:19,555 --> 01:19:21,290
I swear,
just a few weeks ago,
1765
01:19:21,290 --> 01:19:24,193
I was sitting in bed
all by my lonesome,
1766
01:19:24,193 --> 01:19:25,361
eating donuts,
1767
01:19:25,361 --> 01:19:27,062
probably crying myself
to sleep.
1768
01:19:27,062 --> 01:19:28,163
[laughs]
‐ No.
1769
01:19:28,163 --> 01:19:30,399
‐ And now I got you!
1770
01:19:30,399 --> 01:19:32,501
Do you like donuts?
‐ Yeah.
1771
01:19:32,501 --> 01:19:34,370
‐ Perfect.
Then we're good.
1772
01:19:34,370 --> 01:19:36,505
‐ We gonna dance tonight?
‐ Oh!
1773
01:19:36,505 --> 01:19:38,507
We're gonna do more than dance.
We're gonna really...
1774
01:19:38,507 --> 01:19:39,541
We have a whole dance set up.
1775
01:19:39,541 --> 01:19:40,609
‐ Yeah,
we have some work to do.
1776
01:19:40,609 --> 01:19:43,178
Make beautiful babies,
all that stuff.
1777
01:19:43,178 --> 01:19:46,448
Whoa, whoa!
‐ [laughing]
1778
01:19:46,448 --> 01:19:48,384
He's the gas.
I'm the brakes.
1779
01:19:48,384 --> 01:19:49,485
‐ Are you ready
to get outta here?
1780
01:19:49,485 --> 01:19:50,486
‐ Yeah.
‐ Let's go.
1781
01:19:50,486 --> 01:19:53,155
Taxi!
‐ [laughs]
1782
01:19:53,155 --> 01:19:54,423
‐ Taxi!
‐ Taxi!
1783
01:19:54,423 --> 01:19:56,292
‐ This is my fiancée
right here!
1784
01:19:56,292 --> 01:19:57,559
‐ Oh, my God,
this is ridiculous.
1785
01:19:57,559 --> 01:19:59,595
How am I gonna get in this one?
‐ You want me to pick you up?
1786
01:19:59,595 --> 01:20:01,363
‐ I don't know how
I'm gonna get in it.
1787
01:20:01,363 --> 01:20:03,532
‐ Come on.
‐ Okay, ready?
1788
01:20:03,532 --> 01:20:06,268
Oh, God, okay.
Thank you.
1789
01:20:06,268 --> 01:20:08,404
Oh.
Are you ready?
1790
01:20:08,404 --> 01:20:09,505
[car horn honks]
1791
01:20:09,505 --> 01:20:11,440
‐ [humming
"New York, New York"]
1792
01:20:11,440 --> 01:20:14,176
[both humming]
‐ [laughs]
1793
01:20:14,176 --> 01:20:15,511
‐ To New York!
1794
01:20:15,511 --> 01:20:17,279
‐ To New York we go!
1795
01:20:17,279 --> 01:20:18,380
‐ Whoo!
‐ Big Apple.
1796
01:20:18,380 --> 01:20:21,650
‐ I love New York.
‐ New York, New York!
1797
01:20:21,650 --> 01:20:25,154
‐ As one journey ends,
another begins.
1798
01:20:25,154 --> 01:20:27,222
[dramatic music]
1799
01:20:27,222 --> 01:20:30,392
Premiering on January 4th,
1800
01:20:30,392 --> 01:20:33,996
an incredible new season
of "The Bachelor"...
1801
01:20:33,996 --> 01:20:35,297
♪ ♪
1802
01:20:35,297 --> 01:20:38,534
With our new bachelor,
Matt James.
1803
01:20:38,534 --> 01:20:42,504
‐ Love, for me,
is about the heart.
1804
01:20:42,504 --> 01:20:46,208
And the way that I view life,
everything is a blessing.
1805
01:20:46,208 --> 01:20:47,409
women: Matt!
1806
01:20:47,409 --> 01:20:49,611
‐ [laughs]
[women whooping]
1807
01:20:49,611 --> 01:20:51,313
‐ He's tall, dark,
and handsome.
1808
01:20:51,313 --> 01:20:52,548
What more could you want?
1809
01:20:52,548 --> 01:20:55,317
‐ Ten out of ten.
He is the perfect bachelor.
1810
01:20:55,317 --> 01:20:56,752
‐ I grew up in North Carolina,
1811
01:20:56,752 --> 01:20:59,121
but now I'm a commercial
real estate broker
1812
01:20:59,121 --> 01:20:59,788
in New York City.
1813
01:20:59,788 --> 01:21:01,357
I've never been through
something like this.
1814
01:21:01,357 --> 01:21:03,325
‐ Oh, my God!
‐ This is all new to me.
1815
01:21:03,325 --> 01:21:05,494
‐ Are you nervous?
‐ Not anymore.
1816
01:21:05,494 --> 01:21:08,530
‐ He's probably the most
handsome man I've ever seen.
1817
01:21:08,530 --> 01:21:11,467
‐ You may be someone that
I could share my life with.
1818
01:21:11,467 --> 01:21:14,303
‐ I felt
that instant chemistry.
1819
01:21:14,303 --> 01:21:15,637
‐ Hey!
‐ Whoo!
1820
01:21:15,637 --> 01:21:17,539
‐ [laughs]
‐ It's the best feeling.
1821
01:21:17,539 --> 01:21:19,341
It's like butterflies
and excitement.
1822
01:21:19,341 --> 01:21:21,377
‐ He just keeps
getting hotter.
1823
01:21:21,377 --> 01:21:24,046
Whew.
It's just like, yum.
1824
01:21:24,046 --> 01:21:24,680
Daddy.
1825
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:26,515
‐ I do acknowledge color
in every sense.
1826
01:21:26,515 --> 01:21:28,617
At the end of the day, like,
love is love.
1827
01:21:28,617 --> 01:21:30,386
It doesn't matter
what it looks like.
1828
01:21:30,386 --> 01:21:32,421
‐ I've potentially
found the person
1829
01:21:32,421 --> 01:21:33,622
who's gonna
change the world with me.
1830
01:21:33,622 --> 01:21:37,426
‐ The work you're doing
is gonna shape a generation.
1831
01:21:37,426 --> 01:21:38,594
‐ So like, we have,
like, a real connection,
1832
01:21:38,594 --> 01:21:40,462
a real spark.
1833
01:21:40,462 --> 01:21:42,498
‐ I definitely
could see myself
1834
01:21:42,498 --> 01:21:44,733
falling in love with you.
1835
01:21:44,733 --> 01:21:48,303
‐ Oh, my gosh,
I am so in love with Matt.
1836
01:21:48,303 --> 01:21:49,671
‐ [laughs]
Oh, my God.
1837
01:21:49,671 --> 01:21:52,708
We're going to war
for Matt's heart.
1838
01:21:52,708 --> 01:21:55,477
‐ Everyone is ready
to go for the kill.
1839
01:21:55,477 --> 01:21:56,745
‐ [crying]
I wanna see Matt.
1840
01:21:56,745 --> 01:21:59,615
‐ It looks like
you have a guilty conscience.
1841
01:21:59,615 --> 01:22:02,484
‐ In this house,
there are no secrets.
1842
01:22:02,484 --> 01:22:04,353
Well, I've heard two different
terms going around.
1843
01:22:04,353 --> 01:22:06,455
I've heard sugar baby
and escort.
1844
01:22:06,455 --> 01:22:09,358
‐ She may be having
a transactional relationship
1845
01:22:09,358 --> 01:22:10,592
with wealthy men.
1846
01:22:10,592 --> 01:22:13,262
‐ Oh, my God, yes!
1847
01:22:13,262 --> 01:22:15,431
The queen has arrived, bitches.
1848
01:22:15,431 --> 01:22:17,466
‐ Queen Victoria
is definitely
1849
01:22:17,466 --> 01:22:18,534
more of a drama queen.
1850
01:22:18,534 --> 01:22:20,536
‐ Sometimes you just
let a bitch go.
1851
01:22:20,536 --> 01:22:22,671
‐ Victoria has been a mean girl
since day one.
1852
01:22:22,671 --> 01:22:25,507
‐ Can you tell Matt
that, like, Sarah sucks?
1853
01:22:25,507 --> 01:22:27,643
‐ That was so, like, brutal.
1854
01:22:27,643 --> 01:22:29,711
I just felt so attacked.
1855
01:22:29,711 --> 01:22:31,513
‐ If you're gonna throw
another tantrum,
1856
01:22:31,513 --> 01:22:32,681
there's going to be an issue.
1857
01:22:32,681 --> 01:22:34,850
‐ If Matt sends her home,
1858
01:22:34,850 --> 01:22:37,619
I will wanna [bleep] him
because I'll just be like,
1859
01:22:37,619 --> 01:22:40,389
"That is so hot that he can
see through her [bleep]."
1860
01:22:40,389 --> 01:22:41,423
‐ [sobbing]
1861
01:22:41,423 --> 01:22:42,724
‐ Everyone's in it
for themself.
1862
01:22:42,724 --> 01:22:44,593
‐ What the hell?
‐ Ew, ew.
1863
01:22:44,593 --> 01:22:46,595
‐ It's a mind [bleep]
being here.
1864
01:22:46,595 --> 01:22:49,364
‐ Listen, like, you are going
to get hit with the truth.
1865
01:22:49,364 --> 01:22:50,599
all: Oh!
1866
01:22:50,599 --> 01:22:52,401
‐ I just feel sick
to my stomach.
1867
01:22:52,401 --> 01:22:54,470
‐ I'm cracking.
1868
01:22:54,470 --> 01:22:55,671
[both scream]
1869
01:22:55,671 --> 01:22:58,507
‐ I am about to explode.
1870
01:22:58,507 --> 01:23:01,577
‐ God, I'm so‐‐I was just
dying to talk to him.
1871
01:23:01,577 --> 01:23:04,213
‐ It's really hard!
1872
01:23:04,213 --> 01:23:05,280
[dramatic musical sting]
1873
01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:07,616
‐ [crying]
‐ Holy [bleep].
1874
01:23:07,616 --> 01:23:09,651
You okay?
‐ No. [laughs]
1875
01:23:09,651 --> 01:23:12,521
Whew.
No, I'm not.
1876
01:23:12,521 --> 01:23:13,922
[emotional music]
1877
01:23:13,922 --> 01:23:16,492
One of the things
that's been hard for me
1878
01:23:16,492 --> 01:23:18,694
in my relationships is
1879
01:23:18,694 --> 01:23:20,762
going deep
and sharing who I am,
1880
01:23:20,762 --> 01:23:22,631
what I'm about,
and what I've been through
1881
01:23:22,631 --> 01:23:25,968
because it opens up this place
that scares me.
1882
01:23:25,968 --> 01:23:29,471
And I think about my mom
and I think about my brother
1883
01:23:29,471 --> 01:23:30,806
and how this broken family
1884
01:23:30,806 --> 01:23:33,775
and broken marriage
has affected our lives.
1885
01:23:33,775 --> 01:23:36,678
And I don't wanna put
anybody through that.
1886
01:23:36,678 --> 01:23:38,814
And the only thing
I'm certain of is that
1887
01:23:38,814 --> 01:23:42,818
love causes you to do things
that you wouldn't normally do.
1888
01:23:42,818 --> 01:23:45,721
I've got this
beautiful diamond
1889
01:23:45,721 --> 01:23:48,557
that represents so much more
than you could ever imagine.
1890
01:23:48,557 --> 01:23:50,425
[exhales]
1891
01:23:50,425 --> 01:23:52,594
[wind howling]
1892
01:23:52,594 --> 01:23:54,296
‐ An all‐new season
of "The Bachelor"
1893
01:23:54,296 --> 01:23:56,365
premieres January 4th.
1894
01:23:56,365 --> 01:23:58,367
[light music]
1895
01:23:58,367 --> 01:23:59,535
‐ The funny thing is,
1896
01:23:59,535 --> 01:24:02,671
my mom
is a Chris Harrison super fan,
1897
01:24:02,671 --> 01:24:06,441
and Chris Harrison kinda
came in and said hi to my mom,
1898
01:24:06,441 --> 01:24:08,443
so my mom was, like,
on cloud nine...
1899
01:24:08,443 --> 01:24:10,512
‐ Oh!
‐ After seeing him, so...
1900
01:24:10,512 --> 01:24:12,347
‐ You guys haven't met him
at all.
1901
01:24:12,347 --> 01:24:13,348
‐ No.
‐ No.
1902
01:24:13,348 --> 01:24:14,650
Me and Chris DM each other.
1903
01:24:14,650 --> 01:24:15,717
‐ Oh!
‐ [laughs]
1904
01:24:15,717 --> 01:24:16,919
‐ Yeah, yeah.
‐ Is that how it goes?
1905
01:24:16,919 --> 01:24:19,555
‐ Yeah, yeah. It's like having
the vice president
1906
01:24:19,555 --> 01:24:21,423
and the president
in the same room all the t‐‐
1907
01:24:21,423 --> 01:24:22,624
you can't do that.
‐ Yeah.
1908
01:24:22,624 --> 01:24:24,493
Got it.
Okay.
1909
01:24:24,493 --> 01:24:25,761
‐ Hey, hey!
‐ Oh!
1910
01:24:25,761 --> 01:24:28,230
‐ Oh!
‐ Well, come in!
1911
01:24:28,230 --> 01:24:30,265
‐ [laughs]
1912
01:24:30,265 --> 01:24:30,966
‐ Wow!
‐ Hey.
1913
01:24:30,966 --> 01:24:33,001
‐ Desmond, how you doing?
‐ Nice to meet you.
1914
01:24:33,001 --> 01:24:35,837
‐ How you doing, Rosario?
‐ You just ruined my plan.
1915
01:24:35,837 --> 01:24:38,540
We're not supposed to be in
the same room at the same time!
1916
01:24:38,540 --> 01:24:39,608
[laughter]
1917
01:24:39,608 --> 01:24:40,742
‐ What do you think
of all this, dude?
1918
01:24:40,742 --> 01:24:43,445
‐ It's pretty big.
[laughter]
1919
01:24:43,445 --> 01:24:44,613
‐ I was just talking
to the producers,
1920
01:24:44,613 --> 01:24:45,948
and they're‐‐how old are you?
‐ 14.
1921
01:24:45,948 --> 01:24:47,816
‐ Yeah, they were saying,
eight to ten years
1922
01:24:47,816 --> 01:24:49,585
about you being the Bachelor.
1923
01:24:49,585 --> 01:24:50,852
[laughter]
1924
01:24:50,852 --> 01:24:52,955
‐ We'll talk about it, okay?
1925
01:24:52,955 --> 01:24:56,391
‐ I'll talk to your agent.
[laughter]