1 00:00:02,244 --> 00:00:03,985 Narrator: This program contains subject 2 00:00:04,005 --> 00:00:05,320 Matter and language that may be disturbing to some viewers. 3 00:00:05,339 --> 00:00:06,630 Viewer discretion is advised. 4 00:00:10,845 --> 00:00:14,071 So we're just leaving la, we're on our way 5 00:00:14,089 --> 00:00:17,016 To the airport to go to philly. 6 00:00:17,243 --> 00:00:20,744 I'm amber rose, I'm here to help my friend, tina. 7 00:00:20,837 --> 00:00:22,579 We grew up in south philly together, 8 00:00:22,672 --> 00:00:27,342 And she's addicted to heroin and crack. 9 00:00:27,436 --> 00:00:30,270 I am a model, I'm a philanthropist, I'm an actress, 10 00:00:30,364 --> 00:00:32,698 And I'm an entrepreneur. 11 00:00:32,925 --> 00:00:36,426 But fame, money, none of that matters when 12 00:00:36,445 --> 00:00:38,686 Someone's addicted to drugs. 13 00:00:38,706 --> 00:00:41,765 I can buy a rehab center for tina, 14 00:00:41,858 --> 00:00:44,209 But she has to want to go. 15 00:00:44,436 --> 00:00:48,939 I don't think I can fix people, and that's why I wanted 16 00:00:49,032 --> 00:00:52,276 To reach out to intervention. 17 00:00:52,369 --> 00:00:53,719 I really don't know how I feel right 18 00:00:53,946 --> 00:00:57,222 Now, like, I'm excited to go and hope for the best. 19 00:00:57,449 --> 00:00:59,616 But I don't know, I just hope she says yes 20 00:00:59,635 --> 00:01:01,118 To going away and getting help. 21 00:01:01,136 --> 00:01:02,969 So I guess we'll just have to wait and see. 22 00:01:03,064 --> 00:01:05,397 [music playing] 23 00:01:36,155 --> 00:01:40,415 Being back in philly, it feels kind of surreal. 24 00:01:40,434 --> 00:01:43,769 It's my hometown, this is where I grew up. 25 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,772 But all in all, I mean, this isn't a vacation for me. 26 00:01:46,923 --> 00:01:49,608 I didn't come here to check in with family or anything 27 00:01:49,759 --> 00:01:55,280 Like that, I'm really here just to find tina. 28 00:01:55,432 --> 00:01:58,675 Tina is one of my best friends that I grew up with. 29 00:01:58,768 --> 00:02:01,936 We've talked on the phone throughout the years. 30 00:02:01,956 --> 00:02:06,350 She'll ask me for a hotel or she'll ask me for food. 31 00:02:06,443 --> 00:02:08,518 But since I stopped giving her money 32 00:02:08,537 --> 00:02:10,354 And she kind of stopped reaching out to me. 33 00:02:10,447 --> 00:02:13,023 I've been back and forth trying to find 34 00:02:13,041 --> 00:02:16,284 Tina, getting her for a second, and then 35 00:02:16,303 --> 00:02:17,785 Her kind of going ghost. 36 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,213 We couldn't find her again. 37 00:02:20,366 --> 00:02:23,200 If tina doesn't say yes, the rate that she's going, 38 00:02:23,218 --> 00:02:25,126 She's not going to make it. 39 00:02:25,220 --> 00:02:27,062 The next time I come to philly, I'm going to be at her funeral. 40 00:02:30,634 --> 00:02:34,153 My biggest concern with tina is she has to say yes 41 00:02:34,304 --> 00:02:38,073 And most importantly, we have to find her for her to say yes. 42 00:02:40,977 --> 00:02:44,404 Tina is missing somewhere in kensington, 43 00:02:44,556 --> 00:02:47,240 And I know that she moves around a lot. 44 00:02:47,334 --> 00:02:51,728 So I'm going to hire a private investigator to find her. 45 00:02:51,747 --> 00:02:53,914 Kensington is a jungle. 46 00:02:54,008 --> 00:02:57,176 There's a lot of guns, violence, and there's a lot of drugs. 47 00:02:57,403 --> 00:02:59,344 I can't believe my friend is out there right now. 48 00:03:08,689 --> 00:03:09,188 Kevin ryan: Hello. 49 00:03:09,415 --> 00:03:10,522 Hey, kevin. 50 00:03:10,674 --> 00:03:12,098 It's amber rose. 51 00:03:12,193 --> 00:03:14,860 I heard that you look for missing people, 52 00:03:15,087 --> 00:03:19,013 And my friend tina is missing in kensington. 53 00:03:19,033 --> 00:03:22,108 Kevin ryan: How long has she been missing? 54 00:03:22,261 --> 00:03:25,595 Well, her daughter sees her periodically, 55 00:03:25,614 --> 00:03:29,041 But she's from one house to another or in the street. 56 00:03:29,192 --> 00:03:31,101 So it's kind of hard to track her down. 57 00:03:31,119 --> 00:03:32,527 Kevin ryan: Ok. 58 00:03:32,546 --> 00:03:33,787 You don't mind texting me a picture of her? 59 00:03:33,881 --> 00:03:35,772 Sure. 60 00:03:35,791 --> 00:03:37,549 Kevin ryan: Anything you can think of, my phone's always on. 61 00:03:37,776 --> 00:03:38,700 Ok. 62 00:03:38,794 --> 00:03:39,793 Thank you, we'll keep in touch. 63 00:03:39,945 --> 00:03:40,627 Kevin ryan: Bye bye. 64 00:03:40,779 --> 00:03:41,445 Bye. 65 00:03:41,463 --> 00:03:43,555 [music playing] 66 00:03:49,379 --> 00:03:52,472 Right now, we're going to our old neighborhood 67 00:03:52,566 --> 00:03:56,902 Where we were early teenagers. 68 00:03:57,129 --> 00:04:00,388 I met tina probably in the first grade. 69 00:04:00,482 --> 00:04:01,907 We've known each other our whole lives. 70 00:04:04,970 --> 00:04:09,473 Yeah, this is our house right here. 71 00:04:09,566 --> 00:04:12,158 We had some good times here, it was fun. 72 00:04:12,311 --> 00:04:16,146 I would ride my bike up here and use her computer 73 00:04:16,164 --> 00:04:17,756 For my myspace profile. 74 00:04:17,983 --> 00:04:22,744 And we used to kind of just sit on the step, 75 00:04:22,838 --> 00:04:27,657 Smoke cigarettes, talk (bleep). 76 00:04:27,676 --> 00:04:29,175 I was very young. 77 00:04:29,328 --> 00:04:32,496 And I used to tell tina, I'm moving to hollywood, 78 00:04:32,514 --> 00:04:33,939 I'm going to be famous. 79 00:04:34,166 --> 00:04:37,000 And she was like, well, I'm going to have babies. 80 00:04:37,019 --> 00:04:40,428 Ultimately, she wanted to be a mom. 81 00:04:40,447 --> 00:04:43,356 But I used to tell tina, like, tin, let's go, 82 00:04:43,450 --> 00:04:44,599 Let's get out of here. 83 00:04:44,618 --> 00:04:46,118 All my friends were on drugs. 84 00:04:46,269 --> 00:04:48,120 Tina was not on drugs at the time. 85 00:04:48,347 --> 00:04:51,531 Growing up, I was surrounded by heroin and crack. 86 00:04:51,625 --> 00:04:55,109 Not from my mother but within my immediate family. 87 00:04:55,203 --> 00:04:58,371 I just didn't want to do it, I saw what it did to people. 88 00:04:58,465 --> 00:05:01,207 I chose to look at that and take a different route. 89 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,618 I got on the train one day to new 90 00:05:03,712 --> 00:05:07,121 York, probably 19 years old. 91 00:05:07,141 --> 00:05:09,883 Found a little apartment, started dancing out there. 92 00:05:09,977 --> 00:05:13,628 And I just knew that I didn't want to be here anymore. 93 00:05:13,647 --> 00:05:15,797 Then she had latina, her daughter. 94 00:05:15,816 --> 00:05:18,875 I said, ok, you got your baby. 95 00:05:18,968 --> 00:05:22,395 Let's get the hell up out of here. 96 00:05:22,489 --> 00:05:26,383 And she just wanted different. 97 00:05:26,401 --> 00:05:29,977 Her mother actually, I want to say overdosed 98 00:05:29,997 --> 00:05:32,647 Up the street up here. 99 00:05:32,741 --> 00:05:35,742 When they found her, she was in a house down the street. 100 00:05:35,836 --> 00:05:40,747 Her mother was a crack addict, and in 2009, 101 00:05:40,841 --> 00:05:46,511 She smoked crack and choked on her throw up in her sleep. 102 00:05:46,663 --> 00:05:50,515 And this is where tina found out her mom passed away. 103 00:05:55,189 --> 00:05:57,338 I think that really just goes to show you 104 00:05:57,432 --> 00:06:01,175 I have much less than tina as far as like, she had a house, 105 00:06:01,195 --> 00:06:03,753 I had a one bedroom apartment. 106 00:06:03,772 --> 00:06:06,365 We didn't have a car, we didn't have money, I was very poor. 107 00:06:06,592 --> 00:06:10,427 But I had a lot of love for my mom. 108 00:06:10,445 --> 00:06:13,038 I had a whole lot of love and she didn't. 109 00:06:13,189 --> 00:06:16,023 She didn't get that love because her mom was on drugs 110 00:06:16,043 --> 00:06:19,102 And her dad was an alcoholic. 111 00:06:19,195 --> 00:06:21,788 And they didn't give her the hugs 112 00:06:21,940 --> 00:06:22,881 And kisses that she needed. 113 00:06:25,627 --> 00:06:28,294 You know. 114 00:06:28,447 --> 00:06:32,465 I guess life can sway you in different ways. 115 00:06:32,559 --> 00:06:35,143 [music playing] 116 00:06:47,299 --> 00:06:52,652 Today's Thursday, and I'm getting ready to go to the club 117 00:06:52,746 --> 00:06:54,137 Where I work at. 118 00:06:54,230 --> 00:06:58,808 My name is latina, and tina is my mom. 119 00:06:58,902 --> 00:07:01,235 Amber rose: Tina has four daughters. 120 00:07:01,329 --> 00:07:05,239 The two youngest ones are adopted by a family member. 121 00:07:05,259 --> 00:07:08,760 And lanyah, she's in foster care, she's 17. 122 00:07:08,912 --> 00:07:13,432 And latina is 19, and she's living all her own. 123 00:07:13,659 --> 00:07:17,661 I just want to hurry up and finish because if I'm late, 124 00:07:17,754 --> 00:07:19,104 I got to pay a higher house fee. 125 00:07:19,331 --> 00:07:21,331 Once in a blue life, whenever she 126 00:07:21,424 --> 00:07:22,999 Feels like going down to kensington, 127 00:07:23,018 --> 00:07:25,277 That's when I see my mom in a trap house. 128 00:07:25,504 --> 00:07:27,779 I really couldn't depend on her for a lot of stuff. 129 00:07:27,931 --> 00:07:33,601 So I texted amber a couple of years ago, and I told her yeah, 130 00:07:33,620 --> 00:07:35,679 I was selling drugs and stuff. 131 00:07:35,697 --> 00:07:38,457 And she was like, "you got to get a job." 132 00:07:38,608 --> 00:07:41,776 I wanted to get latina off the streets 133 00:07:41,795 --> 00:07:43,628 Because she was selling drugs. 134 00:07:43,855 --> 00:07:45,855 She was not doing drugs, she was selling drugs. 135 00:07:45,949 --> 00:07:48,633 I look much older, much older and when 136 00:07:48,785 --> 00:07:50,877 I put my heels and my makeup and everything on. 137 00:07:50,971 --> 00:07:54,047 I got her a job at the club that I used to work at. 138 00:07:54,199 --> 00:07:56,032 It's a very reputable club. 139 00:07:56,051 --> 00:07:59,460 And listen, I was a stripper, it's an honest living. 140 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,888 You're safe, you can make hundreds of a night 141 00:08:01,982 --> 00:08:03,148 If not thousands. 142 00:08:05,894 --> 00:08:06,726 Hey. 143 00:08:06,878 --> 00:08:08,878 So good to see you. 144 00:08:08,972 --> 00:08:10,897 Me and latina talk on the phone a lot, 145 00:08:11,049 --> 00:08:13,492 But it's been probably a little over five years 146 00:08:13,643 --> 00:08:14,551 Since I saw her. 147 00:08:14,569 --> 00:08:16,495 And she looks so grown. 148 00:08:16,646 --> 00:08:18,071 How do you think your mom is going 149 00:08:18,165 --> 00:08:20,499 To react to the intervention? 150 00:08:20,650 --> 00:08:23,317 I think that she's going to be kind of angry at me 151 00:08:23,411 --> 00:08:26,079 Because I never told her. 152 00:08:26,173 --> 00:08:28,414 But you know you're doing the right thing. 153 00:08:28,509 --> 00:08:32,068 Even if she gets angry, I'mma put all the blame on myself. 154 00:08:32,161 --> 00:08:33,570 If she wants to be mad at anybody, 155 00:08:33,588 --> 00:08:35,329 She could be mad at me. 156 00:08:35,423 --> 00:08:36,681 I'm proud of her. 157 00:08:36,908 --> 00:08:39,000 We all grew up in a lot of dysfunction, 158 00:08:39,094 --> 00:08:42,837 But tina's daughters have the opportunity to break the cycle 159 00:08:42,856 --> 00:08:45,265 And not go down the same path as their mother 160 00:08:45,359 --> 00:08:46,525 And their grandmother. 161 00:08:50,864 --> 00:08:54,090 I was out having a family today in the midwest 162 00:08:54,183 --> 00:08:56,760 And got the call, and I was asked to come help 163 00:08:56,778 --> 00:08:58,261 Another family in philadelphia. 164 00:08:58,354 --> 00:08:59,946 To me, it's important to get there 165 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,615 On the street in kensington and do as much help as I can, 166 00:09:02,768 --> 00:09:04,117 Because there's a lot of hopeless people 167 00:09:04,269 --> 00:09:05,544 Out there right now. 168 00:09:05,695 --> 00:09:07,287 And I hope I can make a change and make 169 00:09:07,381 --> 00:09:08,788 A difference in somebody's life there in philadelphia. 170 00:09:08,882 --> 00:09:10,048 [music playing] 171 00:09:16,131 --> 00:09:19,299 This is more dangerous now than it was. 172 00:09:19,393 --> 00:09:22,135 A lot more dangerous. 173 00:09:22,287 --> 00:09:24,563 My name is kevin ryan, I'm a missing person investigator. 174 00:09:24,790 --> 00:09:26,806 There's a lot at stake in going into kensington 175 00:09:26,958 --> 00:09:28,792 And looking for a missing person. 176 00:09:28,885 --> 00:09:32,237 Safety is paramount when we do these types of extra occasions. 177 00:09:32,464 --> 00:09:34,297 Amber contacted me to locate tina 178 00:09:34,316 --> 00:09:36,800 Who's been down in kensington for a couple of years. 179 00:09:36,818 --> 00:09:39,560 Kensington is a very, very rough area, 180 00:09:39,654 --> 00:09:44,157 It's a very high drug, prostitution, and crime area. 181 00:09:44,309 --> 00:09:45,658 But there's going to be people that 182 00:09:45,811 --> 00:09:48,253 Are going to know who she is, and people 183 00:09:48,404 --> 00:09:49,337 That have seen her before. 184 00:09:53,151 --> 00:09:54,150 Oh, (bleep). 185 00:09:54,243 --> 00:09:55,485 Producer 1: What's the matter? 186 00:09:55,578 --> 00:09:57,503 We've got to be careful with these guys. 187 00:09:57,598 --> 00:10:00,098 If we get boxed here, we are not getting out of the vehicle 188 00:10:00,325 --> 00:10:01,600 At all. 189 00:10:01,827 --> 00:10:03,176 Oh, (bleep). 190 00:10:03,328 --> 00:10:04,177 We're getting surrounded. 191 00:10:04,329 --> 00:10:05,011 Put the camera down. 192 00:10:05,163 --> 00:10:06,012 Camera down. 193 00:10:06,106 --> 00:10:07,022 (bleep). 194 00:10:18,619 --> 00:10:21,527 They were definitely trying to figure out what we're doing. 195 00:10:21,680 --> 00:10:23,196 They want to look cool, they want 196 00:10:23,290 --> 00:10:26,625 To feel like they're the cream of the crop down here. 197 00:10:29,630 --> 00:10:31,463 [music playing] 198 00:10:35,694 --> 00:10:38,803 We're on our way to sal's house, which is tina's brother. 199 00:10:39,030 --> 00:10:41,973 And I'm just going to go talk to him, 200 00:10:42,125 --> 00:10:47,203 See what news he has about tina, just gauge what's going on. 201 00:10:47,222 --> 00:10:47,962 Hey. 202 00:10:47,981 --> 00:10:50,373 Hi, how are you. 203 00:10:50,392 --> 00:10:51,224 Hi. 204 00:10:51,318 --> 00:10:52,299 How you doing? 205 00:10:52,319 --> 00:10:53,059 Good to see you. 206 00:10:53,211 --> 00:10:53,893 You too. 207 00:10:53,987 --> 00:10:55,395 Took so long. 208 00:10:55,489 --> 00:10:58,323 Sal was basically the pesky little brother. 209 00:10:58,474 --> 00:11:00,550 I consider sal family. 210 00:11:00,568 --> 00:11:01,660 How's it going? 211 00:11:01,811 --> 00:11:03,310 As far as me, I can't complain. 212 00:11:03,330 --> 00:11:04,721 We're many now. 213 00:11:04,739 --> 00:11:05,813 You've been clean for three years now. 214 00:11:05,832 --> 00:11:06,647 Yeah. 215 00:11:06,667 --> 00:11:07,832 God bless, sal. 216 00:11:07,984 --> 00:11:10,151 So proud of you. 217 00:11:10,245 --> 00:11:13,913 I started doing prescription medication when I was young. 218 00:11:14,065 --> 00:11:16,841 I want to say, I might have been like, 14. 219 00:11:17,068 --> 00:11:18,492 It winded up just getting the best of me. 220 00:11:18,586 --> 00:11:19,511 It became my norm. 221 00:11:19,662 --> 00:11:20,828 You know what I mean? 222 00:11:20,847 --> 00:11:22,496 Popping xanax, percocets, whatever. 223 00:11:22,590 --> 00:11:23,423 Just self-medicate. 224 00:11:23,517 --> 00:11:25,925 Have you spoken to tina? 225 00:11:26,077 --> 00:11:29,354 No, last time I talked to her was like a month ago. 226 00:11:29,505 --> 00:11:31,856 She reads my messages on facebook but don't respond. 227 00:11:32,083 --> 00:11:33,191 She's like a needle in a haystack 228 00:11:33,342 --> 00:11:35,193 Trying to find on there. 229 00:11:35,344 --> 00:11:36,695 We're kind of all we had growing up, 230 00:11:36,846 --> 00:11:38,438 But we was always by each other's side. 231 00:11:38,532 --> 00:11:43,276 And I think my mother's death kind of affected both of us. 232 00:11:43,370 --> 00:11:45,778 Tina didn't touch her drugs till she was 23. 233 00:11:45,872 --> 00:11:48,948 And once I guess she got a taste of the lifestyle, 234 00:11:49,042 --> 00:11:51,209 It was kind of hard for her to try to turn around. 235 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,938 Tina is like my sister, and a part of me wants to like-- 236 00:11:54,956 --> 00:11:56,363 I'm mad at her. 237 00:11:56,383 --> 00:12:00,034 I can't fully understand how you watched what 238 00:12:00,053 --> 00:12:02,946 Your mother did to you and now you're 239 00:12:03,039 --> 00:12:04,464 Doing this to your daughters. 240 00:12:04,616 --> 00:12:06,799 Like, I want to beat her ass. 241 00:12:06,952 --> 00:12:10,303 And I say that with love. 242 00:12:10,455 --> 00:12:13,231 I have this guy, he looks for missing people. 243 00:12:13,458 --> 00:12:15,567 He's out there looking for her right now. 244 00:12:15,718 --> 00:12:18,236 And I just keep in touch with you the next couple of days. 245 00:12:18,463 --> 00:12:19,720 Yeah. 246 00:12:19,740 --> 00:12:21,072 Her bringing a private investigator on 247 00:12:21,224 --> 00:12:22,407 Is an added bonus. 248 00:12:22,634 --> 00:12:25,059 And I'm hopeful that he can find tina, 249 00:12:25,078 --> 00:12:27,245 And then we can do what we have to do to try to make 250 00:12:27,396 --> 00:12:28,395 Her go away and get clean. 251 00:12:28,415 --> 00:12:29,414 Thank you so much. 252 00:12:36,648 --> 00:12:37,255 Hi, babe. 253 00:12:37,482 --> 00:12:39,406 How are you? 254 00:12:39,426 --> 00:12:41,075 How are you doing? 255 00:12:41,169 --> 00:12:43,169 It's been so long. 256 00:12:43,263 --> 00:12:46,155 It was amazing seeing lanyah, she's grown so much, 257 00:12:46,249 --> 00:12:47,991 She's so beautiful and smart. 258 00:12:48,009 --> 00:12:49,842 Oh, my god. 259 00:12:49,995 --> 00:12:50,935 Hi, babe. 260 00:12:51,162 --> 00:12:52,178 Hey. 261 00:12:52,330 --> 00:12:53,513 Hi, guys. 262 00:12:53,607 --> 00:12:54,514 Hi, how are you? 263 00:12:54,608 --> 00:12:55,498 How's everybody doing? 264 00:12:55,517 --> 00:12:56,849 How are you? 265 00:12:56,943 --> 00:12:58,443 I'm michael, by the way. 266 00:12:58,594 --> 00:13:00,094 Nice to meet you, michael. 267 00:13:00,113 --> 00:13:01,762 Little stressed, little nervous? 268 00:13:01,782 --> 00:13:02,614 Yeah? 269 00:13:02,841 --> 00:13:04,115 Why? 270 00:13:04,267 --> 00:13:07,860 I don't think anybody has gotten my mom 271 00:13:08,013 --> 00:13:10,121 To stop doing what she's doing. 272 00:13:10,273 --> 00:13:11,697 And I want her to be able to do it just 273 00:13:11,850 --> 00:13:13,458 Because she wants to do it. 274 00:13:13,685 --> 00:13:15,201 What is the biggest thing that you think 275 00:13:15,295 --> 00:13:17,462 Is blocking her from another chance at life? 276 00:13:17,689 --> 00:13:19,613 I think it's she doesn't have the mindset 277 00:13:19,633 --> 00:13:21,190 That she wants to get clean, that she 278 00:13:21,209 --> 00:13:22,283 Wants to live a good life. 279 00:13:22,302 --> 00:13:23,802 So she's not going to do that. 280 00:13:23,953 --> 00:13:25,862 Because she doesn't-- 281 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,623 I came here-- that's why I said didn't want to talk about this. 282 00:13:29,643 --> 00:13:31,476 I know it hurts. 283 00:13:31,627 --> 00:13:33,386 But the more information that I have, 284 00:13:33,538 --> 00:13:35,221 The better I'm going to be able to help her. 285 00:13:35,373 --> 00:13:37,890 Before your mom got on drugs, I was there. 286 00:13:38,043 --> 00:13:39,967 And she loved you guys so much. 287 00:13:39,986 --> 00:13:43,655 She put you guys to bed every night, she fed you guys. 288 00:13:43,882 --> 00:13:45,731 This is not your mom, it's the drugs. 289 00:13:45,884 --> 00:13:46,883 Y'all got to know that. 290 00:13:46,976 --> 00:13:48,326 And that's why we're doing this. 291 00:13:48,553 --> 00:13:50,477 Having family members that are on drugs, 292 00:13:50,497 --> 00:13:53,072 Sometimes you really do become numb to it. 293 00:13:53,224 --> 00:13:58,336 And you can still tell that lanyah really loves her mom. 294 00:13:58,563 --> 00:14:00,079 And she doesn't have a significant other 295 00:14:00,231 --> 00:14:01,397 During all of this? 296 00:14:01,490 --> 00:14:03,007 Her boyfriend is a good person. 297 00:14:03,234 --> 00:14:06,085 He doesn't beat on her or make her 298 00:14:06,237 --> 00:14:08,162 Give him her money or anything. 299 00:14:08,181 --> 00:14:12,499 Them being young girls, because he's not beating her, 300 00:14:12,519 --> 00:14:14,668 Because she's not giving him the money, 301 00:14:14,688 --> 00:14:16,746 They think that that's a good person. 302 00:14:16,764 --> 00:14:19,765 So this morning I was told that tina's boyfriend, 303 00:14:19,918 --> 00:14:22,009 He wants a pretty face to smoke crack with. 304 00:14:22,028 --> 00:14:23,753 And that's the honest to god truth. 305 00:14:23,771 --> 00:14:26,698 He feeds her drugs, he makes a lot of money, 306 00:14:26,925 --> 00:14:28,925 And he doesn't let her out of his sight. 307 00:14:28,943 --> 00:14:30,869 Well, what I hear you saying right now 308 00:14:31,020 --> 00:14:31,944 Is he's a sugar daddy. 309 00:14:32,097 --> 00:14:33,854 Yes. 310 00:14:33,948 --> 00:14:35,707 And just because he's not beating her doesn't mean that-- 311 00:14:35,858 --> 00:14:37,375 He doesn't need to be around her. 312 00:14:37,602 --> 00:14:40,211 The severity of this intervention is huge. 313 00:14:40,363 --> 00:14:41,938 So I have a question. 314 00:14:41,956 --> 00:14:44,457 Is anybody else going to be at the intervention? 315 00:14:44,551 --> 00:14:48,702 It's us and maybe sal. 316 00:14:48,722 --> 00:14:50,204 Who do you not want to be there? 317 00:14:50,223 --> 00:14:51,797 Is there something that I need to know? 318 00:14:51,892 --> 00:14:53,892 I don't know how my mom is really going to react 319 00:14:54,043 --> 00:14:56,469 To victoria being there. 320 00:14:56,563 --> 00:14:59,122 Tina's brother, sal, that's his girlfriend, right? 321 00:14:59,140 --> 00:15:02,625 She has a lot of energy, she's very loud. 322 00:15:02,718 --> 00:15:04,460 She's a good person, it's just-- 323 00:15:04,479 --> 00:15:06,220 She rubs her the wrong way? 324 00:15:06,314 --> 00:15:09,632 I think it is best if it's just us three and sal and you. 325 00:15:09,725 --> 00:15:11,409 I need to dig a little bit more 326 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,395 And find out what's going on so I can better make a decision, 327 00:15:14,489 --> 00:15:15,972 So we can better help your mom. 328 00:15:15,990 --> 00:15:18,808 She's got trauma, like, she's got it all guys. 329 00:15:18,826 --> 00:15:20,251 All of it. 330 00:15:20,478 --> 00:15:22,828 And that's because she lives in kensington. 331 00:15:22,981 --> 00:15:24,814 You can't be in that lifestyle and expect 332 00:15:24,832 --> 00:15:25,998 Her to listen to you either. 333 00:15:26,151 --> 00:15:27,741 It'll be thrown in your guys' face. 334 00:15:27,835 --> 00:15:33,097 I used to sell drugs but ever since amber got me my job, 335 00:15:33,324 --> 00:15:35,341 She said, you're not being in those houses anymore, 336 00:15:35,493 --> 00:15:37,101 You're not selling drugs anymore. 337 00:15:37,253 --> 00:15:39,771 You're a young lady, you got no business in a trap house. 338 00:15:39,922 --> 00:15:44,850 A trap house is an abandoned house and you get drugs, 339 00:15:45,003 --> 00:15:46,110 And you prostitute. 340 00:15:46,337 --> 00:15:49,005 And by any means necessary to get high, 341 00:15:49,023 --> 00:15:50,673 That's what you're going to do. 342 00:15:50,692 --> 00:15:52,450 The traumas that we experience through all this stuff 343 00:15:52,601 --> 00:15:54,268 Are horrendous, guys. 344 00:15:54,287 --> 00:15:57,180 If you guys don't address your trauma with a therapist 345 00:15:57,273 --> 00:15:59,123 And start living a different life, 346 00:15:59,275 --> 00:16:01,017 You guys are going to fall back too. 347 00:16:01,035 --> 00:16:05,021 We need to help you guys from making the same mistakes over 348 00:16:05,039 --> 00:16:06,522 And over again. 349 00:16:06,541 --> 00:16:08,541 The goal is to get out of this place. 350 00:16:08,635 --> 00:16:11,970 You living this way, it's normal, but it's not. 351 00:16:18,536 --> 00:16:21,871 So we've received a tip on tina's whereabouts 352 00:16:21,964 --> 00:16:24,148 Up in the north kensington area. 353 00:16:24,375 --> 00:16:25,775 So we're going to head up there right now. 354 00:16:28,896 --> 00:16:32,657 And we're going to do a stake out on this property. 355 00:16:32,808 --> 00:16:35,384 Hopefully, we will be able to see tina 356 00:16:35,403 --> 00:16:36,661 Either entering or exiting. 357 00:16:39,332 --> 00:16:41,073 See, this is a thing when we do surveillance, 358 00:16:41,226 --> 00:16:42,458 We only got one shot of this. 359 00:16:54,663 --> 00:16:57,331 We have not seen tina yet. 360 00:16:57,350 --> 00:16:58,850 We've been sitting here for hours now. 361 00:17:06,084 --> 00:17:08,267 Stand by. 362 00:17:08,361 --> 00:17:10,862 All right, we got a white male, approximately 5' 8". 363 00:17:11,013 --> 00:17:12,679 And he's got a goatee. 364 00:17:12,774 --> 00:17:14,866 That's going to match the description of the boyfriend. 365 00:17:15,017 --> 00:17:18,444 He's walking into our target house. 366 00:17:18,538 --> 00:17:21,947 Now that we have positively identified the boyfriend, 367 00:17:22,100 --> 00:17:25,192 I am very confident that tina has a reason 368 00:17:25,211 --> 00:17:27,937 To be either inside the house at this time 369 00:17:27,955 --> 00:17:29,338 Or living at this property. 370 00:17:36,130 --> 00:17:37,371 Hey, kevin. 371 00:17:37,465 --> 00:17:38,297 Kevin ryan: Hey, amber. 372 00:17:38,391 --> 00:17:39,373 What's going on? 373 00:17:39,467 --> 00:17:40,725 Kevin ryan: Well, I found tina. 374 00:17:40,952 --> 00:17:41,967 Oh, wow. 375 00:17:42,120 --> 00:17:43,469 Ok. 376 00:17:43,563 --> 00:17:44,878 Where is she? 377 00:17:44,898 --> 00:17:46,564 Kevin ryan: So she's living at a house, 378 00:17:46,715 --> 00:17:48,733 I confirm that she is there with her boyfriend. 379 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:50,793 Ok. 380 00:17:50,886 --> 00:17:52,628 There's no way we can get to her there? 381 00:17:52,647 --> 00:17:54,072 Kevin ryan: No, definitely not. 382 00:17:54,223 --> 00:17:56,299 I definitely don't want anybody to put 383 00:17:56,392 --> 00:17:59,652 Themselves or her in jeopardy. 384 00:17:59,804 --> 00:18:03,139 Is it possible for me to get her a place to stay 385 00:18:03,232 --> 00:18:05,308 Or maybe I can rent something? 386 00:18:05,326 --> 00:18:07,660 Kevin ryan: For safety reasons, that would be the best thing. 387 00:18:07,812 --> 00:18:09,587 Ok. 388 00:18:09,814 --> 00:18:12,148 Let me start working on that, and then 389 00:18:12,166 --> 00:18:13,424 I guess I'll call you back. 390 00:18:13,576 --> 00:18:14,834 I'll keep you posted. 391 00:18:14,986 --> 00:18:17,929 Thank you so much, kevin. 392 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,248 So hopefully they find her and they bring her to the airbnb 393 00:18:21,267 --> 00:18:23,993 So we can go through this intervention. 394 00:18:24,086 --> 00:18:25,895 That's the most important thing. 395 00:18:33,279 --> 00:18:35,855 I appreciate you guys taking the time to sit with me. 396 00:18:35,949 --> 00:18:38,432 I think it's important that I get the family's 397 00:18:38,526 --> 00:18:39,742 Perspective on what's going on. 398 00:18:49,187 --> 00:18:53,297 We tried multiple times, both of us to get our way for help, 399 00:18:53,449 --> 00:18:56,041 And we're just not getting no results from it. 400 00:18:56,136 --> 00:18:59,044 We've tried everything from taking care of her kids 401 00:18:59,197 --> 00:19:01,455 To reaching out and helping her. 402 00:19:01,474 --> 00:19:03,532 Shortly after me and sal got together, 403 00:19:03,626 --> 00:19:06,051 Tina lost custody of her kids. 404 00:19:06,204 --> 00:19:08,479 And we took custody of the two older girls. 405 00:19:08,706 --> 00:19:11,131 But latina obviously is an adult now, 406 00:19:11,151 --> 00:19:13,151 And lanyah is in foster care. 407 00:19:13,378 --> 00:19:16,320 The last time that we've seen tina 408 00:19:16,472 --> 00:19:18,381 Was the time I went to get her away. 409 00:19:18,399 --> 00:19:21,159 Hell, what happened was me and him talked to her, 410 00:19:21,310 --> 00:19:22,809 And she agreed to go away. 411 00:19:22,829 --> 00:19:25,070 And then he took her to the place. 412 00:19:25,223 --> 00:19:27,981 And no sooner than maybe a half an hour later, he called me 413 00:19:28,075 --> 00:19:30,242 And he's like, I'm dropping her back over to kensington. 414 00:19:30,336 --> 00:19:32,228 She had every excuse in the book, she's not ready. 415 00:19:32,246 --> 00:19:33,562 It is what it is. 416 00:19:33,581 --> 00:19:34,839 You know, she's caught an addiction, 417 00:19:35,066 --> 00:19:36,174 And she's not making the right decisions 418 00:19:36,325 --> 00:19:37,917 Because she's not capable. 419 00:19:38,011 --> 00:19:40,753 Not everybody can make that decision to get sober. 420 00:19:40,905 --> 00:19:43,255 All right, and we're definitely 421 00:19:43,408 --> 00:19:44,831 Here with full support. 422 00:19:44,926 --> 00:19:45,925 And she knows that. 423 00:19:46,077 --> 00:19:47,910 So we're going to do everything 424 00:19:47,929 --> 00:19:50,763 We can to make sure that we get her to where she needs to go. 425 00:19:50,857 --> 00:19:54,358 I'm hoping that we can all come together as a unit 426 00:19:54,510 --> 00:19:55,918 Looking for the same goal. 427 00:19:55,937 --> 00:19:57,436 That's all it needs to be. 428 00:19:57,530 --> 00:20:00,698 The information they gave me, it was very crucial. 429 00:20:00,925 --> 00:20:03,092 And the way victoria was described to me 430 00:20:03,110 --> 00:20:04,944 Is completely inaccurate. 431 00:20:05,096 --> 00:20:07,371 These two people are totally loving 432 00:20:07,523 --> 00:20:08,948 Family members that want to help, 433 00:20:09,100 --> 00:20:10,208 And they want to see her succeed. 434 00:20:41,482 --> 00:20:45,076 The first time I saw my mom doing drugs, 435 00:20:45,303 --> 00:20:48,320 I was really young, I can't even remember. 436 00:20:48,414 --> 00:20:51,640 Now, she pretty much does it around me all the time. 437 00:20:51,659 --> 00:20:53,809 I don't get angry about it, she's just 438 00:20:53,828 --> 00:20:55,978 Another one of those people. 439 00:20:56,071 --> 00:20:57,922 These are all like empty caps. 440 00:20:58,073 --> 00:20:58,998 I got to clean this out. 441 00:20:59,150 --> 00:21:00,591 This is from yesterday. 442 00:21:00,743 --> 00:21:02,001 That's all from today? 443 00:21:02,095 --> 00:21:04,077 Yesterday. 444 00:21:04,171 --> 00:21:05,654 I still got more in here. 445 00:21:05,673 --> 00:21:06,655 Oh, my god. 446 00:21:06,674 --> 00:21:08,340 Look at the bottom there. 447 00:21:08,493 --> 00:21:11,585 Yesterday, that was $260. 448 00:21:11,604 --> 00:21:13,420 And then today, $120. 449 00:21:13,439 --> 00:21:16,089 And then that's not including my dope. 450 00:21:16,183 --> 00:21:18,017 Producer 1: Which dope? 451 00:21:18,169 --> 00:21:19,685 Heroin. 452 00:21:19,779 --> 00:21:22,113 Well, it's not even heroin anymore, it's fentanyl. 453 00:21:22,340 --> 00:21:24,598 And I can't do that in front of you guys 454 00:21:24,617 --> 00:21:27,860 Because when I do that, I'm incapacitated. 455 00:21:28,012 --> 00:21:31,104 It's bad. 456 00:21:31,124 --> 00:21:35,684 My drug use is getting out of control. 457 00:21:35,778 --> 00:21:37,962 My worst fear from my mom, fentanyl 458 00:21:38,113 --> 00:21:41,707 Is a really powerful drug. 459 00:21:41,859 --> 00:21:43,634 I don't know what I would do if I lost my mom. 460 00:21:46,639 --> 00:21:47,471 I don't know. 461 00:21:52,537 --> 00:21:54,553 I really never had anybody telling 462 00:21:54,705 --> 00:21:56,722 Me to my face everything good what was going on 463 00:21:56,816 --> 00:21:58,223 Was not normal. 464 00:21:58,318 --> 00:22:01,134 What michael was saying, I thought it was normal. 465 00:22:01,154 --> 00:22:04,488 I did. 466 00:22:04,715 --> 00:22:06,565 Some people, they love philly because it's 467 00:22:06,659 --> 00:22:07,716 Where they came from. 468 00:22:07,735 --> 00:22:10,069 But I don't like being here. 469 00:22:10,163 --> 00:22:12,721 Producer 2: Does it make you want to get out of here? 470 00:22:12,740 --> 00:22:16,075 Now that I hear everybody saying like it's not good 471 00:22:16,227 --> 00:22:20,062 And it's not healthy and stuff, I do want to leave. 472 00:22:20,155 --> 00:22:21,397 I don't want to be here forever. 473 00:22:21,415 --> 00:22:23,507 [music playing] 474 00:22:37,081 --> 00:22:37,746 Lanyah. 475 00:22:37,765 --> 00:22:39,005 (door knock) 476 00:22:39,025 --> 00:22:40,599 Lanyah: I don't want to talk to you. 477 00:22:40,751 --> 00:22:41,750 Bye. 478 00:22:41,769 --> 00:22:43,861 Get the (bleep) out of here. 479 00:22:56,024 --> 00:22:57,708 He's (bleep) so lying. 480 00:22:57,860 --> 00:23:00,378 I'm (bleep), I need xanax right now. 481 00:23:00,529 --> 00:23:03,622 Growing up, my mom, she was in my life 482 00:23:03,774 --> 00:23:05,608 But she focused on other men. 483 00:23:05,701 --> 00:23:07,459 She wasn't focused on kids. 484 00:23:07,612 --> 00:23:08,944 You guys are driving me nuts. 485 00:23:08,963 --> 00:23:10,537 Can you please stop and go to the entry. 486 00:23:10,631 --> 00:23:12,205 I went to go get a xanax. 487 00:23:12,225 --> 00:23:14,116 I'm having a panic attack, and you guys 488 00:23:14,135 --> 00:23:15,041 Are starting your (bleep). 489 00:23:15,136 --> 00:23:16,468 So I'm getting burnt out. 490 00:23:16,562 --> 00:23:19,880 I'm being shrank so thin, I'm between breaking 491 00:23:19,974 --> 00:23:22,716 You and her up, trying to break myself and him the (bleep) up. 492 00:23:22,735 --> 00:23:24,885 Well, everybody heard you and him arguing all night. 493 00:23:24,904 --> 00:23:27,721 Yeah, because I got a referee. 494 00:23:27,740 --> 00:23:30,908 Growing up, I was in foster homes, 495 00:23:31,059 --> 00:23:34,078 And I really couldn't depend on my mom. 496 00:23:34,305 --> 00:23:37,489 Like important events in my life, she wasn't there. 497 00:23:37,642 --> 00:23:39,232 I haven't done dope since (bleep) 498 00:23:39,326 --> 00:23:40,993 Yesterday at 4:00 o'clock. 499 00:23:41,145 --> 00:23:42,494 I'm ready to (bleep) do it now. 500 00:23:42,647 --> 00:23:45,906 I just want to have somebody I can count on, 501 00:23:45,925 --> 00:23:48,150 Somebody I can really talk to, just 502 00:23:48,243 --> 00:23:49,985 Somebody just be there for me. 503 00:23:50,078 --> 00:23:52,078 Mom, please, don't do this to me. 504 00:23:52,098 --> 00:23:54,432 I'm going to only be gone for like an hour. 505 00:23:54,583 --> 00:23:58,327 She's not coming back. 506 00:23:58,345 --> 00:24:00,846 She doesn't really want to have a connection with anybody else 507 00:24:00,998 --> 00:24:02,514 Anymore. 508 00:24:02,608 --> 00:24:03,924 She only looks at people for what they do for her. 509 00:24:03,943 --> 00:24:05,776 [music playing] 510 00:24:15,362 --> 00:24:17,437 I miss your mom and she-- 511 00:24:17,457 --> 00:24:18,864 She was the best. 512 00:24:19,016 --> 00:24:20,699 She was really like a aunt to me. 513 00:24:20,851 --> 00:24:22,293 I really loved her so much. 514 00:24:22,444 --> 00:24:23,627 I really did. 515 00:24:23,854 --> 00:24:26,538 I was very devastated when she passed. 516 00:24:26,632 --> 00:24:28,114 I really was. 517 00:24:28,134 --> 00:24:29,708 This is about interacting with the family 518 00:24:29,860 --> 00:24:31,302 And getting a plan together. 519 00:24:31,453 --> 00:24:33,286 Our family is like a little chaos. 520 00:24:33,306 --> 00:24:34,472 Yeah, I get it. 521 00:24:34,623 --> 00:24:36,031 Not everybody sees the same thing. 522 00:24:36,050 --> 00:24:37,791 You guys don't see eye to eye on everything, 523 00:24:37,810 --> 00:24:39,702 But that's why we're meeting right now. 524 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:41,370 After meeting with the family yesterday, I'm 525 00:24:41,388 --> 00:24:43,372 A little nervous. 526 00:24:43,390 --> 00:24:46,208 But really, the truth is I need to get the family wrangled in 527 00:24:46,301 --> 00:24:47,726 And get them on the same page. 528 00:24:47,820 --> 00:24:49,561 Hey, guys. 529 00:24:49,655 --> 00:24:50,821 Hi, how are you doing? 530 00:24:50,973 --> 00:24:51,638 How are you doing? 531 00:24:51,657 --> 00:24:52,715 Hello. 532 00:24:52,733 --> 00:24:53,899 Hey, how are you? 533 00:24:53,993 --> 00:24:54,717 Good to see you. 534 00:24:54,735 --> 00:24:55,493 Hey, girls. 535 00:24:55,644 --> 00:24:57,069 No texting, nothing? 536 00:24:57,221 --> 00:24:58,478 You want act up right now because you on it? 537 00:24:58,498 --> 00:24:59,571 I don't want to hear it. 538 00:24:59,724 --> 00:25:00,572 Yeah, I know it was your phone. 539 00:25:00,666 --> 00:25:01,573 Get out of here. 540 00:25:01,726 --> 00:25:03,242 This is pissing me off. 541 00:25:03,336 --> 00:25:04,409 Hold on, wait. 542 00:25:04,504 --> 00:25:05,911 Wait one second. 543 00:25:06,005 --> 00:25:07,171 What's going on? - She's going to be too much. 544 00:25:07,322 --> 00:25:08,989 I don't have time for her, I don't. 545 00:25:09,083 --> 00:25:12,067 When I saw victoria, I felt like nobody listened to me, 546 00:25:12,086 --> 00:25:14,828 Nobody took what I said into consideration. 547 00:25:14,847 --> 00:25:16,329 All right, guys. 548 00:25:16,349 --> 00:25:17,589 It's going to be a tough one. 549 00:25:17,742 --> 00:25:18,665 It is. 550 00:25:18,684 --> 00:25:20,351 And it starts with tina. 551 00:25:20,502 --> 00:25:23,262 And we're going to offer her a gift, she deserves that. 552 00:25:23,356 --> 00:25:25,597 But the only way to do that is to get our ducks in a row. 553 00:25:25,750 --> 00:25:28,008 And you guys are making me nervous. 554 00:25:28,027 --> 00:25:30,586 At every turn, there's something going on. 555 00:25:30,604 --> 00:25:32,696 So if there's something going on that we can fix, 556 00:25:32,848 --> 00:25:35,032 Let's fix it for tina. 557 00:25:35,259 --> 00:25:37,092 Um. 558 00:25:37,111 --> 00:25:40,596 When we first got custody of latina and lanyah, 559 00:25:40,689 --> 00:25:42,781 Me and latina bumped heads. 560 00:25:42,875 --> 00:25:45,117 I just thought she was just so disrespectful. 561 00:25:45,269 --> 00:25:47,102 And then once I really opened up my heart 562 00:25:47,121 --> 00:25:49,621 And had a more open mind, I can't imagine the feeling 563 00:25:49,715 --> 00:25:51,440 Of not having parents. 564 00:25:51,458 --> 00:25:53,942 I mean, the girls will literally sit in the crack house 565 00:25:53,961 --> 00:25:57,462 That she lives in just to be around tina and just to I 566 00:25:57,615 --> 00:25:59,281 Guess fill the void that they've been missing 567 00:25:59,374 --> 00:26:00,632 Their entire life with her. 568 00:26:00,726 --> 00:26:01,800 What's up? 569 00:26:01,894 --> 00:26:03,619 What's going on? 570 00:26:03,637 --> 00:26:06,230 I just feel as though-- 571 00:26:06,457 --> 00:26:07,898 Victoria, don't take this any type of way 572 00:26:08,050 --> 00:26:09,291 At all because I love you. 573 00:26:09,310 --> 00:26:11,460 I just feel as though-- 574 00:26:11,553 --> 00:26:12,570 I don't know how to say it. 575 00:26:12,721 --> 00:26:14,054 Say what you got to say, latina, 576 00:26:14,073 --> 00:26:16,815 Because I'm here for it. 577 00:26:16,967 --> 00:26:17,741 I can't. 578 00:26:17,893 --> 00:26:19,577 I can't say it out. 579 00:26:19,804 --> 00:26:23,822 So I can tell you what, I know what's going on, 580 00:26:23,974 --> 00:26:26,250 Is she feels like you're fake. 581 00:26:26,477 --> 00:26:28,068 That's it. That's the issue we're having. 582 00:26:28,087 --> 00:26:29,069 That's what she told me. 583 00:26:29,088 --> 00:26:30,236 Being fake as in how? 584 00:26:30,256 --> 00:26:32,089 Yeah. 585 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,074 I don't think that you know her as well as you're saying 586 00:26:34,168 --> 00:26:36,409 Or like, you know? 587 00:26:36,429 --> 00:26:39,412 Who said that I know her as well as anything? 588 00:26:39,506 --> 00:26:40,764 Hold on one second. 589 00:26:40,991 --> 00:26:42,007 I wasn't fake when I was running down 590 00:26:42,159 --> 00:26:43,175 Kensington avenue trying to-- 591 00:26:43,327 --> 00:26:43,934 I'm done. 592 00:26:44,086 --> 00:26:44,843 I don't even care. 593 00:26:44,937 --> 00:26:45,661 I don't care. 594 00:26:45,679 --> 00:26:46,495 Don't run. 595 00:26:46,513 --> 00:26:48,254 Latina, sit down. 596 00:26:48,274 --> 00:26:49,440 Latina, come here. 597 00:26:49,591 --> 00:26:50,182 - Just stop. - No. 598 00:26:50,334 --> 00:26:50,941 Stop. 599 00:26:51,168 --> 00:26:52,109 No. 600 00:26:52,260 --> 00:26:53,611 Latina, listen to me. 601 00:26:53,762 --> 00:26:54,686 She doesn't know my mom. 602 00:26:54,780 --> 00:26:56,780 She doesn't know her. 603 00:26:57,007 --> 00:26:59,283 I'm not going to hear the words fake 604 00:26:59,434 --> 00:27:02,102 Coming out of nobody's mouth, especially latina. 605 00:27:02,121 --> 00:27:04,437 I took care of her with no (bleep) 606 00:27:04,457 --> 00:27:06,457 Cheque from the government, no (bleep) 607 00:27:06,608 --> 00:27:07,958 Food stamps, no nothing. 608 00:27:08,110 --> 00:27:09,701 I told her you're like a daughter to me. 609 00:27:09,854 --> 00:27:12,112 I love you like a daughter. 610 00:27:12,131 --> 00:27:14,447 My mom, she said she don't like her. 611 00:27:14,541 --> 00:27:17,693 Listen to me, this is not about you, it's not about her, 612 00:27:17,786 --> 00:27:19,361 It's not about me, it's about your mom. 613 00:27:19,454 --> 00:27:20,453 Let me ask you a question, latina. 614 00:27:20,473 --> 00:27:21,546 Can you please, stop? Please. 615 00:27:21,699 --> 00:27:23,365 Relax, what are you so upset for? 616 00:27:23,384 --> 00:27:26,218 I just don't want to talk about it right now, please. 617 00:27:26,370 --> 00:27:28,704 Latina. 618 00:27:28,722 --> 00:27:31,148 She feels like she can't get her point across. 619 00:27:31,375 --> 00:27:32,724 Yeah. 620 00:27:32,818 --> 00:27:34,801 This family is good at making and distracting. 621 00:27:34,895 --> 00:27:37,229 There's just a lot of moving pieces to this intervention. 622 00:27:37,381 --> 00:27:39,305 If I don't get the family on the same page, 623 00:27:39,325 --> 00:27:41,900 The intervention is not going to work. 624 00:27:42,052 --> 00:27:44,310 You guys are addicted to chaos. 625 00:27:44,330 --> 00:27:45,996 She has to be able to hear the message. 626 00:27:46,223 --> 00:27:47,665 And if we're all yelling at each other, 627 00:27:47,816 --> 00:27:50,075 She's not going to hear the message. 628 00:27:50,227 --> 00:27:53,578 So I don't want you to be upset. 629 00:27:53,731 --> 00:27:55,898 I think moving forward with the intervention, 630 00:27:55,991 --> 00:27:58,250 It's just strictly the family. 631 00:27:58,344 --> 00:28:01,845 So you're going to be involved but not until after. 632 00:28:02,072 --> 00:28:03,755 And it has nothing actually to do with you. 633 00:28:03,908 --> 00:28:05,182 I know. 634 00:28:05,333 --> 00:28:07,242 Not coming to the intervention, it's 635 00:28:07,335 --> 00:28:08,911 Just a hard pill to swallow. 636 00:28:08,929 --> 00:28:10,521 I just have to chalk it up because everybody 637 00:28:10,672 --> 00:28:12,356 Has their own reality. 638 00:28:12,583 --> 00:28:14,433 I'll still continue to be there, and I just 639 00:28:14,585 --> 00:28:16,009 Obviously hope for the best. 640 00:28:16,028 --> 00:28:17,753 And that's all that I can really hope for. 641 00:28:17,771 --> 00:28:19,254 There's going to be some emotions 642 00:28:19,273 --> 00:28:21,757 But she wants help, guys. 643 00:28:21,775 --> 00:28:22,758 She wants help. 644 00:28:22,776 --> 00:28:23,442 Ok? 645 00:28:23,594 --> 00:28:24,868 Ok. 646 00:28:25,020 --> 00:28:26,278 You guys try to have a good night, ok? 647 00:28:26,430 --> 00:28:27,353 - You too. - You too. 648 00:28:27,373 --> 00:28:28,038 Thank you, guys. 649 00:28:37,441 --> 00:28:39,458 I wanted to bring you guys together and talk to you 650 00:28:39,552 --> 00:28:41,610 About what's going on because this situation 651 00:28:41,703 --> 00:28:44,279 Is just, it's uncontrollable. 652 00:28:44,372 --> 00:28:47,057 All the chaos, it's got to stop. 653 00:28:47,209 --> 00:28:48,784 We want to intervene on everybody, 654 00:28:48,802 --> 00:28:50,619 And we want to make sure that everybody leaves 655 00:28:50,637 --> 00:28:52,137 Today and goes to treatment. 656 00:28:52,231 --> 00:28:53,638 You know, in the beginning of the intervention, 657 00:28:53,791 --> 00:28:55,474 I thought I was intervening on one person, 658 00:28:55,568 --> 00:28:58,068 I realized that I'm now intervening on three people. 659 00:28:58,220 --> 00:29:01,739 I think that latina was stuck in the cycle of kensington. 660 00:29:01,890 --> 00:29:04,983 But lanyah, she's young, she's being 661 00:29:05,135 --> 00:29:07,411 Exposed to things that she shouldn't be exposed to. 662 00:29:07,638 --> 00:29:09,805 Michael told me that they're actually going 663 00:29:09,898 --> 00:29:11,731 To try to get the girls help. 664 00:29:11,825 --> 00:29:15,586 They're in a lot of trauma, a lot of drama, a lot of turmoil. 665 00:29:15,737 --> 00:29:18,814 Amber, I think that you're the key. 666 00:29:18,832 --> 00:29:21,333 And I think that if we come together, me and you, 667 00:29:21,427 --> 00:29:24,152 And we go to intervene on the girls, that they'll lead 668 00:29:24,171 --> 00:29:25,153 And they'll listen to you. 669 00:29:25,172 --> 00:29:27,556 [music playing] 670 00:29:40,595 --> 00:29:43,839 Today is the intervention. 671 00:29:43,857 --> 00:29:45,190 I'm excited. 672 00:29:45,342 --> 00:29:47,359 My mom's finally going to hear everything 673 00:29:47,453 --> 00:29:51,513 We have to say and know that everybody's here for her. 674 00:29:51,532 --> 00:29:53,015 And we're here for you too. 675 00:29:53,033 --> 00:29:54,349 Thank you. 676 00:29:54,368 --> 00:29:58,203 We have essentially a gift for you. 677 00:29:58,355 --> 00:30:00,705 We want you to go to california too 678 00:30:00,858 --> 00:30:04,617 And go somewhere to deal with the trauma 679 00:30:04,711 --> 00:30:05,636 That you've been through. 680 00:30:05,787 --> 00:30:06,953 I think it's a great idea. 681 00:30:07,047 --> 00:30:08,621 And we can leave today. 682 00:30:08,715 --> 00:30:10,032 We want to help you. 683 00:30:10,050 --> 00:30:11,475 It's set up perfectly, it has nothing 684 00:30:11,626 --> 00:30:13,385 To do with anything other than dealing with trauma 685 00:30:13,537 --> 00:30:14,645 And getting past all this stuff. 686 00:30:14,796 --> 00:30:16,038 I would take it girl. 687 00:30:16,056 --> 00:30:17,389 Thank you. 688 00:30:17,541 --> 00:30:18,723 Yes? 689 00:30:18,876 --> 00:30:19,558 Yes. 690 00:30:19,710 --> 00:30:20,317 Yes. 691 00:30:22,971 --> 00:30:24,655 I'm so happy. 692 00:30:24,806 --> 00:30:26,731 Now let's get your mom and your sister on the same page 693 00:30:26,884 --> 00:30:27,807 Too, right? - Yeah. 694 00:30:27,827 --> 00:30:28,884 That's the goal. 695 00:30:28,902 --> 00:30:31,328 [music playing] 696 00:30:40,564 --> 00:30:43,489 I don't want her overwhelmed if we come in and rush her. 697 00:30:43,584 --> 00:30:44,749 That's my only concern. 698 00:30:44,902 --> 00:30:46,251 I'm sorry I took a xanax. 699 00:30:46,345 --> 00:30:47,402 Why xanax? 700 00:30:47,495 --> 00:30:50,180 I took a xanax for my nerves. 701 00:30:50,407 --> 00:30:51,515 Oh, (bleep). 702 00:30:51,742 --> 00:30:52,832 Anxiety. 703 00:30:52,852 --> 00:30:53,925 It's all good. 704 00:30:54,078 --> 00:30:56,094 I'm taking a hit real quick. 705 00:30:56,188 --> 00:30:57,003 I have to. 706 00:30:57,097 --> 00:30:58,914 This calms me down. 707 00:30:58,932 --> 00:31:01,083 Sal, he should be here. 708 00:31:01,176 --> 00:31:03,768 Today is my mother's birthday. 709 00:31:03,921 --> 00:31:06,512 My mom was my best friend and my mom got high. 710 00:31:06,532 --> 00:31:09,257 Even though she did (bleep) up sometimes, 711 00:31:09,276 --> 00:31:10,775 That was still my mother. 712 00:31:10,870 --> 00:31:12,870 I hated her drug use. 713 00:31:13,021 --> 00:31:14,705 And I became what I hated. 714 00:31:18,878 --> 00:31:20,452 Tina. 715 00:31:20,546 --> 00:31:21,786 Are you going to go with me to get my haircut? 716 00:31:21,939 --> 00:31:23,772 Tina. 717 00:31:23,790 --> 00:31:24,606 Hi, babe. 718 00:31:24,625 --> 00:31:25,382 Oh, my god. 719 00:31:25,609 --> 00:31:26,550 How are you? 720 00:31:30,297 --> 00:31:30,888 Hug me babe. 721 00:31:35,452 --> 00:31:36,968 It's ok. 722 00:31:37,121 --> 00:31:40,213 I just don't want you to see me like this. 723 00:31:40,232 --> 00:31:41,398 I know. It's ok. 724 00:31:41,625 --> 00:31:42,457 I love you. 725 00:31:42,476 --> 00:31:44,643 I love you too. 726 00:31:44,737 --> 00:31:46,737 I missed you so much. 727 00:31:46,888 --> 00:31:48,196 I want my sister back. 728 00:31:53,153 --> 00:31:55,303 I'm glad to see you, though. 729 00:31:55,397 --> 00:31:57,155 Me too, this is my friend, mike. 730 00:31:57,307 --> 00:31:58,156 Hi, mike. 731 00:31:58,308 --> 00:31:59,474 How are you? 732 00:31:59,567 --> 00:32:00,475 I'm really grateful that you're 733 00:32:00,494 --> 00:32:01,493 Even willing to talk to us. 734 00:32:01,587 --> 00:32:02,402 I mean, I do. 735 00:32:02,496 --> 00:32:03,236 I want to get clean. 736 00:32:03,330 --> 00:32:05,330 You know what else? 737 00:32:05,424 --> 00:32:06,998 She's also going. 738 00:32:07,092 --> 00:32:08,408 That's my baby. 739 00:32:08,427 --> 00:32:10,761 And she's getting some help today too. 740 00:32:10,912 --> 00:32:11,653 I love you baby. 741 00:32:11,672 --> 00:32:13,413 I love you too. 742 00:32:13,432 --> 00:32:17,417 And all you have to do is say yes. 743 00:32:17,436 --> 00:32:19,161 I have to leave like right now, though. 744 00:32:19,179 --> 00:32:20,845 Yes. 745 00:32:20,940 --> 00:32:22,180 I want to call my boyfriend, like, what's going on 746 00:32:22,274 --> 00:32:23,515 And stuff. 747 00:32:23,667 --> 00:32:24,590 We can do all of that in the car. 748 00:32:24,685 --> 00:32:26,351 Are you saying yes? 749 00:32:26,445 --> 00:32:28,928 I mean, of course, I'm going to take the opportunity. 750 00:32:28,948 --> 00:32:30,447 I don't have insurance to do anything. 751 00:32:30,598 --> 00:32:31,673 Hey, you don't think you don't need 752 00:32:31,692 --> 00:32:32,783 To worry about any of that. 753 00:32:32,934 --> 00:32:34,025 Your whole life is changing today. 754 00:32:34,119 --> 00:32:35,118 Say hello. 755 00:32:35,345 --> 00:32:36,344 Ny. 756 00:32:36,438 --> 00:32:37,603 Lanyah: So you're going to go? 757 00:32:37,623 --> 00:32:39,439 Yeah, I'm going to go. 758 00:32:39,533 --> 00:32:41,199 But I got to go right now. 759 00:32:41,293 --> 00:32:42,517 Lanyah: I. Know. 760 00:32:42,536 --> 00:32:43,794 Are you crying? 761 00:32:44,021 --> 00:32:44,944 Lanyah: No. 762 00:32:44,964 --> 00:32:46,705 Can I talk to her? 763 00:32:46,799 --> 00:32:49,207 Lanyah, we're also offering you help for your trauma. 764 00:32:49,359 --> 00:32:51,134 That's stuff that's been going on with your family. 765 00:32:51,286 --> 00:32:52,636 Lanyah: I can't go. 766 00:32:52,787 --> 00:32:54,454 Ny, listen to me, right? 767 00:32:54,548 --> 00:32:55,714 Lanyah: No, no, no. 768 00:32:55,808 --> 00:32:57,199 You listen to me, mom. 769 00:32:57,292 --> 00:32:59,810 You're trying to separate us. 770 00:32:59,961 --> 00:33:00,869 No, we're not. 771 00:33:00,962 --> 00:33:02,037 That's not what we're doing. 772 00:33:02,055 --> 00:33:02,980 [phone beeping] 773 00:33:05,150 --> 00:33:07,651 She's scared because of everything 774 00:33:07,802 --> 00:33:09,227 That they've been through. 775 00:33:09,379 --> 00:33:12,731 I need to pee really big. 776 00:33:12,883 --> 00:33:15,717 I need you to be a big girl, lanyah, no one's 777 00:33:15,810 --> 00:33:16,976 Trying to separate you guys. 778 00:33:17,070 --> 00:33:18,403 We would never do that. 779 00:33:18,555 --> 00:33:19,162 Producer 2: I think you need to go get tina. 780 00:33:19,314 --> 00:33:20,405 I'm serious, babe. 781 00:33:20,499 --> 00:33:21,573 It's detrimental. 782 00:33:21,725 --> 00:33:22,499 You know what that means? 783 00:33:25,746 --> 00:33:27,395 Can we get amber up here? 784 00:33:27,489 --> 00:33:30,340 Producer 2: Yeah, we need amber. 785 00:33:30,492 --> 00:33:33,159 She said yes, that she wanted to go. 786 00:33:33,178 --> 00:33:36,404 But she said she had to go pee, and I knew what it was. 787 00:33:36,423 --> 00:33:37,756 As soon as she lets us come in, 788 00:33:37,908 --> 00:33:39,407 We just need you to walk her to the car. 789 00:33:39,426 --> 00:33:42,744 She wanted to get high. 790 00:33:42,763 --> 00:33:45,413 Can you please unlock the door? 791 00:33:45,432 --> 00:33:47,840 When the withdrawal starts taking place, 792 00:33:47,860 --> 00:33:49,860 That's what we're faced with right now. 793 00:33:50,087 --> 00:33:51,862 She either lives or dies, you know that. 794 00:33:52,013 --> 00:33:53,346 She's going to go. 795 00:33:53,365 --> 00:33:54,180 Amber rose: You're just addicted babe. 796 00:33:54,274 --> 00:33:55,032 We have a nurse with you. 797 00:33:55,183 --> 00:33:56,849 Latina's leaving babe. 798 00:33:56,943 --> 00:33:58,535 So you're not going? 799 00:33:58,686 --> 00:34:00,704 Tina: That's not what I said latina. 800 00:34:00,855 --> 00:34:02,188 I'm going. 801 00:34:02,282 --> 00:34:03,448 Tina: I know you're going. 802 00:34:03,542 --> 00:34:04,449 And that's ok. 803 00:34:04,543 --> 00:34:05,950 Tina, let me in. 804 00:34:06,103 --> 00:34:07,527 I don't care if you're smoking crack, bro. 805 00:34:07,546 --> 00:34:09,938 Tina: I need my phone. 806 00:34:09,956 --> 00:34:12,532 Ok, we'll get your phone. 807 00:34:12,626 --> 00:34:15,034 One of our biggest concerns is if the boyfriend comes here. 808 00:34:15,054 --> 00:34:17,203 We don't want that, we don't want another situation. 809 00:34:17,222 --> 00:34:19,631 Tina: I really don't give a (bleep) about life no more. 810 00:34:19,725 --> 00:34:20,949 My life's over. 811 00:34:20,967 --> 00:34:22,284 Tina, your life isn't over. 812 00:34:22,377 --> 00:34:24,043 Otherwise, I wouldn't be here. 813 00:34:24,063 --> 00:34:26,563 Amber rose: You can start your life over in california 814 00:34:26,714 --> 00:34:30,292 And be out of this cold, dark place. 815 00:34:30,310 --> 00:34:33,553 Tina: All latina cares about is her (bleep) self. 816 00:34:33,572 --> 00:34:34,905 She (bleep) set me up. 817 00:34:35,132 --> 00:34:36,481 I don't even want nothing to do with her. 818 00:34:36,633 --> 00:34:37,741 Amber rose: I set you up, tina. 819 00:34:37,892 --> 00:34:39,134 Tina: No, she set me up. 820 00:34:39,152 --> 00:34:40,560 Amber rose: I called her, babe. 821 00:34:40,579 --> 00:34:43,138 She is constantly calling these people names 822 00:34:43,156 --> 00:34:45,657 That she's supposedly loves. 823 00:34:45,751 --> 00:34:47,492 You know, we were listening to the drugs talk. 824 00:34:47,586 --> 00:34:48,585 It wasn't her. 825 00:34:48,736 --> 00:34:49,811 Tina: I want my phone. 826 00:34:49,904 --> 00:34:51,571 I want to call my boyfriend. 827 00:34:51,665 --> 00:34:54,149 Amber rose: He's giving you money to smoke crack, tina. 828 00:34:54,167 --> 00:34:56,318 Tina: Amber, he gives me money to go-- 829 00:34:56,336 --> 00:34:58,670 Amber rose: Ok, but that's not love, you know that. 830 00:34:58,822 --> 00:34:59,763 That's enough, tina. 831 00:34:59,914 --> 00:35:01,581 You smoke a lot babe. 832 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,826 She smoked 20 rocks, but I couldn't leave that bathroom 833 00:35:04,845 --> 00:35:07,162 Because if I left the bathroom, she was going 834 00:35:07,180 --> 00:35:09,497 To shoot dope and maybe od. 835 00:35:09,591 --> 00:35:12,091 Tina: I want my (bleep) phone. 836 00:35:12,111 --> 00:35:14,018 Give me my phone. 837 00:35:14,171 --> 00:35:15,278 Give me my (bleep) phone. 838 00:35:21,178 --> 00:35:24,846 Tina: Once I get my phone, then we can go. 839 00:35:24,865 --> 00:35:26,272 Amber rose: You promised me? 840 00:35:26,366 --> 00:35:27,365 Tina: Amber, I promise. 841 00:35:27,517 --> 00:35:28,416 Amber rose: You promise me. 842 00:35:31,130 --> 00:35:32,370 What's up? 843 00:35:32,522 --> 00:35:35,132 How do we make this work? 844 00:35:35,283 --> 00:35:37,450 She started texting her boyfriend. 845 00:35:37,544 --> 00:35:41,529 And I got to be honest with you, I literally hate his guts. 846 00:35:41,548 --> 00:35:43,473 Talk to me, how do we make this work? 847 00:35:43,625 --> 00:35:44,808 I don't know. 848 00:35:45,035 --> 00:35:46,626 I don't like the way things went down. 849 00:35:46,645 --> 00:35:48,461 I just don't like it. 850 00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,131 I'm a grown ass woman, I make my own (bleep) decisions. 851 00:35:52,225 --> 00:35:56,394 What the (bleep) if my daughter dies while I'm out there? 852 00:35:56,546 --> 00:35:58,155 I did it with my mother, amber. 853 00:35:58,306 --> 00:36:00,231 I lost my mother, and I was arguing and I didn't tell-- 854 00:36:00,384 --> 00:36:01,992 Your kids are going to lose you. 855 00:36:04,721 --> 00:36:06,404 Producer 1: You ever been on a plane before? 856 00:36:06,556 --> 00:36:10,500 No, I've never been anywhere besides philly. 857 00:36:10,652 --> 00:36:12,243 I feel different emotions right now. 858 00:36:12,337 --> 00:36:15,230 I'm scared because I've never been there before. 859 00:36:15,248 --> 00:36:17,657 I'm nervous, I'm excited. 860 00:36:17,751 --> 00:36:21,994 If I leave here and you don't go to california, tina, 861 00:36:22,088 --> 00:36:24,923 The next time I come here I'm going to have to bury you. 862 00:36:25,017 --> 00:36:27,242 Will you please say yes and get in the car and go? 863 00:36:27,260 --> 00:36:28,668 Please. 864 00:36:28,687 --> 00:36:31,246 I was going to go, I was fine with it. 865 00:36:31,264 --> 00:36:33,932 But all the other (bleep), it just burnt me out. 866 00:36:34,084 --> 00:36:35,767 Just try it for me. 867 00:36:35,861 --> 00:36:38,586 I'll be in california with you, I'll check up on you. 868 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,606 But I want to see my daughter. 869 00:36:41,758 --> 00:36:44,201 I don't want to be around all this. 870 00:36:44,352 --> 00:36:46,928 There's really no reason for this, tina. 871 00:36:46,947 --> 00:36:48,872 In the process of her coming outside and walking 872 00:36:49,099 --> 00:36:50,356 Down the street, she was in communications 873 00:36:50,450 --> 00:36:51,449 With her boyfriend. 874 00:36:51,601 --> 00:36:53,117 She wanted him to come get her. 875 00:36:53,270 --> 00:36:55,437 Where is the (bleep) car? 876 00:36:55,530 --> 00:36:57,363 I don't like being lied to. 877 00:36:57,382 --> 00:36:58,531 Tina. 878 00:36:58,550 --> 00:37:00,458 Where are you at? 879 00:37:00,610 --> 00:37:01,776 Where? 880 00:37:01,869 --> 00:37:03,703 Because I'm under the l. Please, I 881 00:37:03,722 --> 00:37:05,947 Want to get the (bleep) out of here before I (bleep) go ballistic. 882 00:37:05,966 --> 00:37:07,557 Tina, can we stop this? 883 00:37:07,709 --> 00:37:09,893 Where's the (bleep) car? 884 00:37:10,044 --> 00:37:13,396 I really hope that my mom takes this as something 885 00:37:13,548 --> 00:37:16,140 Good and not anything that I did to harm her. 886 00:37:16,293 --> 00:37:18,384 And that little bitch left. 887 00:37:18,403 --> 00:37:20,128 She's said to me this morning, you promise 888 00:37:20,221 --> 00:37:21,738 You won't hate me regardless? 889 00:37:21,965 --> 00:37:23,889 Now, I know why she said what she said. 890 00:37:23,909 --> 00:37:25,984 Tina, you asked for something and we did it. 891 00:37:26,136 --> 00:37:27,635 She doesn't want to go. 892 00:37:27,654 --> 00:37:32,565 I'm going in my (bleep) car right (bleep) now. 893 00:37:32,659 --> 00:37:36,569 [interposing voices] 894 00:37:36,588 --> 00:37:37,829 Tina, I'm going to go. 895 00:37:37,981 --> 00:37:39,923 Tina, you gave me your word and now 896 00:37:40,074 --> 00:37:41,073 You're going back on it. 897 00:37:41,093 --> 00:37:43,075 Tina, don't go. 898 00:37:43,169 --> 00:37:44,410 She's going to die. 899 00:37:44,429 --> 00:37:48,431 She's going to die, bro. 900 00:37:48,583 --> 00:37:49,933 Her boyfriend showed up. 901 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:51,826 She got in the car and so did lanyah. 902 00:37:51,845 --> 00:37:53,937 [music playing] 903 00:38:15,702 --> 00:38:16,918 Her poor daughter. 904 00:38:19,798 --> 00:38:21,706 I don't know if there's hope for tina. 905 00:38:21,858 --> 00:38:25,468 With the drugs on top of her natural personality, 906 00:38:25,695 --> 00:38:27,695 I don't think she'll ever get clean. 907 00:38:27,714 --> 00:38:31,474 I can leave here knowing that I tried my best to get her to go, 908 00:38:31,626 --> 00:38:36,054 But at least her daughter gets something great out of it. 909 00:38:36,148 --> 00:38:38,481 [music playing] 910 00:38:50,737 --> 00:38:51,903 How's it going, latina? 911 00:38:52,055 --> 00:38:52,737 Hi. 912 00:38:52,889 --> 00:38:53,663 Welcome. 913 00:38:53,815 --> 00:38:54,572 Welcome to oak forest. 914 00:38:54,666 --> 00:38:55,999 Nice to meet you. 915 00:38:56,150 --> 00:38:58,226 I don't think that latina's had 916 00:38:58,319 --> 00:39:02,730 Any really solid, healthy family system 917 00:39:02,749 --> 00:39:04,990 Or role models to grow up with. 918 00:39:05,010 --> 00:39:06,067 And she struggles. 919 00:39:06,086 --> 00:39:07,735 Here, come on in. 920 00:39:07,754 --> 00:39:09,846 What we really want to provide here at oak forest 921 00:39:10,073 --> 00:39:13,666 Is a place where we can stop the noise, 922 00:39:13,685 --> 00:39:18,429 Engage into life with healthy role models, and to see 923 00:39:18,582 --> 00:39:22,417 And be taught how to build a sustainable life. 924 00:39:22,435 --> 00:39:24,102 This is your first time leaving philly, right? 925 00:39:24,254 --> 00:39:25,920 Yeah. 926 00:39:25,939 --> 00:39:27,939 I think this is going to be an experience that you 927 00:39:28,091 --> 00:39:29,199 Certainly won't regret. 928 00:39:29,426 --> 00:39:31,016 I feel like this experience is going 929 00:39:31,036 --> 00:39:33,761 To be positive because I'm doing it for me and not 930 00:39:33,780 --> 00:39:34,537 For anybody else. 931 00:39:43,882 --> 00:39:47,867 Before I came here, I was always miserable and angry. 932 00:39:47,961 --> 00:39:51,888 And now, I am happy. 933 00:39:52,039 --> 00:39:55,299 Hi, how are you babe 934 00:39:55,452 --> 00:39:58,803 Oak forest is helping me figure myself out. 935 00:39:58,955 --> 00:40:01,789 I'm learning how to accept people being there 936 00:40:01,808 --> 00:40:03,566 And not pushing people away. 937 00:40:03,718 --> 00:40:04,959 How's everything been? 938 00:40:04,978 --> 00:40:06,385 It's been good. 939 00:40:06,405 --> 00:40:09,221 I've been in like a more positive mindset. 940 00:40:09,241 --> 00:40:12,133 It feels good to have people you can like rely on. 941 00:40:12,226 --> 00:40:13,818 Latina's doing really well. 942 00:40:13,912 --> 00:40:17,305 This girl, when she got here, extremely resistant. 943 00:40:17,323 --> 00:40:20,658 And today she loves being supported by this community, 944 00:40:20,810 --> 00:40:22,401 And she's putting in the work. 945 00:40:22,421 --> 00:40:25,480 Do you feel like your feelings changed about your mom? 946 00:40:25,498 --> 00:40:27,740 Yeah, I'm more understanding with her 947 00:40:27,759 --> 00:40:31,669 And she is not like, oh, yeah, I'm going to go get help. 948 00:40:31,763 --> 00:40:33,838 It's a hard decision for her to really make. 949 00:40:33,990 --> 00:40:36,099 How has it going with lanyah? 950 00:40:39,162 --> 00:40:41,104 She's still down there. 951 00:40:41,255 --> 00:40:46,000 I don't want her to do that, but part of my program is accepting 952 00:40:46,019 --> 00:40:48,352 That I cannot change people. 953 00:40:48,505 --> 00:40:50,262 I can just pray for her, that's all I could do. 954 00:40:50,282 --> 00:40:52,431 It's such a good place to be. 955 00:40:52,451 --> 00:40:53,766 It is. 956 00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:55,618 Just to know that you can just let 957 00:40:55,770 --> 00:40:59,530 Go and just focus on yourself to be a different person. 958 00:40:59,683 --> 00:41:01,683 Because I don't want to be that person anymore. 959 00:41:01,701 --> 00:41:02,417 I really don't. 960 00:41:05,689 --> 00:41:07,780 I'm happy to see you smiling. 961 00:41:07,799 --> 00:41:10,858 She absolutely wanted a different life. 962 00:41:10,877 --> 00:41:13,711 She knew that there was something wrong. 963 00:41:13,805 --> 00:41:15,972 She knew that that's not where she was supposed to be. 964 00:41:16,199 --> 00:41:18,457 And then she's out here, she's happy, 965 00:41:18,477 --> 00:41:20,051 She doesn't want to go back to philly, 966 00:41:20,203 --> 00:41:22,294 She doesn't want that life anymore. 967 00:41:22,388 --> 00:41:23,646 It's a beautiful thing. 968 00:41:23,798 --> 00:41:24,872 I'm happy I did it. 969 00:41:24,891 --> 00:41:25,965 Me too. 970 00:41:25,984 --> 00:41:29,560 Thank you for believing in me. 971 00:41:29,713 --> 00:41:31,045 I love you so much. 972 00:41:31,064 --> 00:41:33,656 [music playing]