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Kids, the day you get married is supposed

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To bethe happiest day of your life,

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The perfect ending to a perfect love story.

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My wedding-- at least my first wedding--

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Didn't go so well.

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It's funny looking back on it now.

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I was so sure stella was the one.

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And when she left me, I was so devastated.

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But you guys got me through it.

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And now the painful part's over.

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I've come out the other side a little bit stronger.

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You know, i... I hardly even think about her anymore.

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That's what time does, I guess.

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Ted, the wedding was yesterday.

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It's been 24 hours.

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I know.

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And this is me, moving on.

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A great new chapter

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Of my life began today,

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And we're gonna celebrate.

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Right now, we need two things.

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We need kool, and we need the gang.

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It's jukebox time, huh?

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I look at that young man

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Popping and locking his way over to the jukebox,

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And I think to myself,

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You know...

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Maybe stella made the right call.

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Ow, pain.

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How is he dancing right now?

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He should... he should be smashing up

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Stella's car with a sledgehammer.

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Hypothetical.

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Ted isn't pretending to be happy.

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Ted really is happy.

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He never wanted to get married

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In the first place.

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Ted just pulled off

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The greatest train dodge since stand by me.

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Well, not the first kid, but the other kids.

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No, he is in bad shape.

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What's up?

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Really bad shape.

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And we need to be there for him.

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But as much as my friend really want to be there for me,

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I was...by all the appearances...

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Fine.

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Hey,buddy

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Want to hang out?

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Guys, I'm fine.

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Hey, pal, you want to have a catch?

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I'm fine.

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Hey, kiddo.

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Barney, I'm fine.

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This is not necessary,

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And it's actually kind of weird.

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No offense, ladies.

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I did not realize you'd be home.

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Ladies, to the stairwell.

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Finally, after two weeks,

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The inevitable emotions boiled over.

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Hey, you guys want to get some dinner?

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Oh, shut up.

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I'm sorry, sweetie.

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It's just, ted,

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You've been through something traumatic,

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And we're trying to be there for you

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As friends, but you're not letting us,

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And it's pissing us off, you selfish bitch.

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Sorry.

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Look, we're just worried

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That you're not dealing with this whole stella thing.

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Do you remember when lily left me?

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You remember how I held in my feelings?

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I... Miss... Her so much.

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Yeah, dude, you were a rock.

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Well, I should have been even worse, okay?

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I should have gotten mad.

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I should have taken your advice

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And set all of lily's stuff on fire.

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Oh, nice-- thanks, ted.

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But I didn't, and I think that that's why

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It took me so long to get better.

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So, now, ted...

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I want you to explode.

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Release the berserker.

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Okay, ready?

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Now!

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I'm good.

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No.

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Guys, get off his back.

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He's happy.

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Listen, if ted were married right now,

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He'd be married,

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He'd be living in new jersey,

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And he'd be married.

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He's fine. Now, let's eat.

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How about flat michael's?

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No, that's 44th and lex. Can't do it.

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Why not? It's too close to stella's gym.

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Might run into her. Anywhere else, though.

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Okay, um, how about hurley's?

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Right between stella's office and her dry cleaners.

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No, sir.

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Well, what about meatloaf charlie's?

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Two blocks from stella's mother's hairdressers.

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Well, geez, ted, is there anywhere

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In manhattan we can go to dinner?

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Of course.

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Check this out.

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What you got there, ted?

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A little reference map I made for myself.

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A new york guide to places you might run into stella zinman.

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Red areas

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Are places to avoid.

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White areas are safe.

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Blue is water.

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That is just ridiculous.

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Well, water is blue.

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You can't live that way.

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She leaves you at the altar,

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And you're the one avoiding her?

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Yes, I'm avoiding her.

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What's the big deal?

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That's how we do it.

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Who's we, gutless weenies?

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Uh, no, "we" is people from the great state of ohio.

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When life gives us pain,

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We buckeyes take that pain and we push it down.

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And if the pain starts

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To come up again,

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We push more pain down on top of it.

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Why confront something when you can avoid it, right?

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All I have to do

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Is never see stella again,

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And I'll live a long, happy life.

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Now, who wants to get something to eat?

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Oh, somebody just told me

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About a tapas place that's in the white zone.

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Great. Let's go there.

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You ready to order?

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Uh, not quite yet.

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Oh, can we get some of those almonds for the table?

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Certainly.

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Nice call, lily.

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This place looks great.

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Who told you about it?

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You know, I don't remember.

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What?

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i just remembered...

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Oh, my god, oh, my god.

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Okay, okay, just be cool.

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We're just gonna have to deal with this.

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Everyone... Follow my lead.

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Oh, you're kidding. Is he serious?

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I am not getting under thisable.

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I'd maybe get under that table.

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She's turning around.

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Think, think, think.

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Everyone, just stay here.

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I'm gonna go take a look.

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Marshall, go take a look.

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And will you need utensils?

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No, I'm just going straight home.

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She's placing an order to go.

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Did she seem happy? Did she say anything about me?

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I don't even care.

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Where are those almonds?

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Gosh, where would ted's nuts be?

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Hey, why don't you check the vise in stella's garage.

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Go yell at her.

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Ted, you may be from ohio,

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But you live in new york now.

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We don't push down our feelings in new york.

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We take our feelings and we shove them

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In somebody else's face!

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Oh, spare me, lily.

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You'd be doing the same thing

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If you were in this situation.

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Thats out of rageous.

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There is not a person on earth

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I would hide under a table from.

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Oh, really, not a single person?

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Not even... Gasser?

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How dare you mention that name to me.

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Who's gasser?

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He's the last person

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I'd want to see walk through that door.

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Michael sasser.

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He's a guy I went to high school with.

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Michael sat next to me in freshman biology.

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He had been a bit of a loser all through middle school,

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But the summer before ninth grade,

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He grew 12 inches and joined the baseball team.

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He was right on the precipice

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Of becoming one of the cool kids.

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Until one day...

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Oh, lily, we've all been there.

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When you've ripped one, it's not pretty.

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What did you do?

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Are you kidding?

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This was ninth grade.

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I only had one choice.

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Oh, my god, sasser.

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Fart much?

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No, it wasn't me. It was her.

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Oh, as if, sasser.

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More like gasser.

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Gasser!

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Gasser! Gasser!

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No. Gasser! Gasser! Gasser! Gasser!

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I'm on the baseball team.

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I-i'm cool.

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Gasser! Gasser!

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The nickname gasser stuck.

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He got teased so much,

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Eventually he had to change schools.

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Kids are awesome.

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I've always felt awful about that.

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But if gasser-- michael--

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Walked in right now, as hard as it would be,

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I would go up to gasser-- michael--

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And I would resolve things between us.

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Right, clear the air, as it were.

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Oh, man.

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Those don't come around often.

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Y'all are welcome.

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Hey, are you guys okay? Oh, yeah.

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We're just gonna be eating down here if that's okay.

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Well, here's your almonds.

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Oh, thanks... You guys have any specials today?

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Ted, this is ludicrous.

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Ted, I am a person who... Well, let's just face it.

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There are a lot of people I don't want to see--

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People of the "chicks I banged" persuasion--

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But if any of them were to walk in here,

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I would stand up,

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And I would look them right in the eye.

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Some of them for the very first time.

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Really, you wouldn't hide from anyone?

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Not even, say...

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Becca delucci?

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You son of a bitch.

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Who's becca delucci?

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Do you mind?

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So, who is becca delucci?

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Becca is just this girl who lives upstate.

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I used to visit her now and again.

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Mm-hmm, where exactly upstate, barney?

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Bedford hills federal penitentiary.

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And yes, the visits were of a conjugal nature.

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No way, really?

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Really.

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And what I had with becca was a perfect relationship.

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She was only allowed, by law, to call me once a week.

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If she ever got clingy,

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The armed guards stopped her.

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And I never had to pay for dinner.

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Well, that's not true. I pay taxes.

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Then again, I guess we all paid for dinner.

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Thanks a lot, guys.

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Anyway, the last time I visited,

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I kind of screwed things up.

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I know it's hard, baby,

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But I'm in a prison, too.

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A prison of my own heart.

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Is that room ready yet or what?

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Can we...? Tick-tock.

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Barney, you're the only thing

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That's keeping me going here.

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That's what I'm here for, baby.

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I'm your rock.

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I'm... Oh, my god.

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Hello, strange.

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Barney stinson, attorney at law.

276
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Let's talk about getting you off.

277
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Oh, hell, no!

278
00:10:36,370 --> 00:10:38,820
Now I get letters from becca and she's all,

279
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"i'm coming to get you the day I get out of here.

280
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I'm gonna hang your eyes from my rearview mirror."

281
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Women, huh?

282
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See? You're scared of becca.

283
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Lily's scared of gasser.

284
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We're staying under the table.

285
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We don't have to. Stella's gone.

286
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Oh, my gosh.

287
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There, all done,

288
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And that's how we do it ohio style.

289
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Problem showed up. We avoided it. It went away.

290
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Now we can enjoy our meal in peace and...

291
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She's back.

292
00:11:16,780 --> 00:11:19,260
Ted, we all think that you need--

293
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Wait, where's barney?

294
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Ted,

295
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We all think that you need to go talk to her.

296
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I don't. What?

297
00:11:30,740 --> 00:11:32,210
Yeah, if t last person I wanted to see

298
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Walked through the door, I wouldn't say a damn word.

299
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Really?

300
00:11:34,780 --> 00:11:36,920
And who's that? My father.

301
00:11:37,890 --> 00:11:40,530
You guys, that other table is off the hook.

302
00:11:40,730 --> 00:11:42,680
What are we talking about? Robin's dad.

303
00:11:42,690 --> 00:11:44,010
I haven't spoken to him in three years

304
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And I don't intend to start now.

305
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Why?

306
00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,050
It goes back to the day I was born.

307
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You give me my son now. Push.

308
00:11:55,990 --> 00:11:57,400
Oh, no... Oh, no.

309
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He wanted a son

310
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And the fact that I was a girl didn't change his plan.

311
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What do you mean?

312
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My full legal name is robin charles scherbatsky, jr.

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And it only gets worse from there.

314
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When I was eight, he took me hunting for the first time.

315
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I don't want to shoot a deer.

316
00:12:15,180 --> 00:12:16,650
Nonsense, r.J.

317
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Shooting deer

318
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Is the noblest of pursuits.

319
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But they're cute.

320
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You said the same thing about our rabbits.

321
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Remember how delicious they were?

322
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Over the years, as my body developed...

323
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Whoa, hold on a sec.

324
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Sorry, go on.

325
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It became harder and harder for him to pretend I was a boy.

326
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The lowest moment came when I turned 14.

327
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My peewee hockey team had just won the squamish invitational

328
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And everyone came back to my house to celebrate.

329
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You lads availed yourself splendidly

330
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Out there on the ice.

331
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Splendidly. You go on outside.

332
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I'll come back with an assortment

333
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Of soft drinks and american pretzels.

334
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I can't believe

335
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You missed that last empty-netter, you hoser.

336
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You're the hoser.

337
00:13:02,410 --> 00:13:03,820
No, you're the hoser.

338
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What are you doing?

339
00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,530
You're teammates, hockey players.

340
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Teammates don't kiss!

341
00:13:19,980 --> 00:13:22,220
Hockey players don't kiss!

342
00:13:24,580 --> 00:13:25,740
Oh, my god.

343
00:13:27,060 --> 00:13:28,350
I have no son.

344
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Oh, you poor thing.

345
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To have to grow up in canada

346
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With america right there.

347
00:13:39,110 --> 00:13:39,810
That...

348
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Sucks about your dad, robin,

349
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But congratulations on that game.

350
00:13:45,790 --> 00:13:48,020
And kyle and I weren't even doing anything serious.

351
00:13:48,030 --> 00:13:50,730
We only went to the blue line. The blue line?

352
00:13:50,740 --> 00:13:52,610
Yeah, you know how when you're a kid,

353
00:13:52,620 --> 00:13:53,820
You put everything into hockey terms?

354
00:13:53,830 --> 00:13:56,100
The blue line is kissing; the red line is getting naked;

355
00:13:56,110 --> 00:13:58,500
And I think "in the crease" speaks for itself.

356
00:13:59,500 --> 00:14:00,790
Anyway, after that,

357
00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,110
My relationship with my dad pretty much went north.

358
00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:04,440
I moved in with my mom,

359
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Grew my hair out, became a canadian pop star.

360
00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:08,830
You know, normal teen stuff.

361
00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:10,870
Don't you think it would feel better

362
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To talk to him about all this?

363
00:14:12,500 --> 00:14:14,000
No, that's the point.

364
00:14:14,010 --> 00:14:15,610
It wouldn't solve anything.

365
00:14:15,620 --> 00:14:17,330
It's in the past. It's done.

366
00:14:18,340 --> 00:14:19,720
I mean, what would I even say to him?

367
00:14:19,730 --> 00:14:21,730
"i wish you hadn't raised me as a boy"?

368
00:14:21,740 --> 00:14:24,160
"i wish you hadn't taught me how to hunt

369
00:14:24,170 --> 00:14:26,560
"and fish and smoke cigars and drink scotch

370
00:14:26,570 --> 00:14:28,500
"because that's not what girls do.

371
00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,530
"and you know the reason I throw like a girl, dad,

372
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Is because I am a girl."

373
00:14:34,350 --> 00:14:37,830
Wow, you held onto that for a long time, huh?

374
00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:39,520
Yeah.

375
00:14:40,380 --> 00:14:41,910
It really messed you up.

376
00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,270
Yeah.

377
00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:45,100
That sucks. I'm sorry.

378
00:14:45,220 --> 00:14:46,360
That's hot.

379
00:14:48,150 --> 00:14:49,670
And then I realized...

380
00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,110
All of my friends were haunted,

381
00:14:54,670 --> 00:14:57,380
But there was a difference between my ghost and theirs.

382
00:14:58,290 --> 00:14:59,800
It wasn't too late for me.

383
00:15:01,340 --> 00:15:02,770
I'm gonna go talk to her.

384
00:15:08,940 --> 00:15:09,930
She's gone.

385
00:15:10,130 --> 00:15:11,080
I'm going after her.

386
00:15:11,090 --> 00:15:12,450
Whoo. Go, go.

387
00:15:14,850 --> 00:15:16,090
There she goes!

388
00:15:23,430 --> 00:15:23,990
Okay, I see her.

389
00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,340
She's two cabs ahead on the right.

390
00:15:25,350 --> 00:15:26,380
Just stay with her, okay?

391
00:15:26,390 --> 00:15:28,510
Finally. Finally, you're doing this.

392
00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:29,830
You're going to confront her.

393
00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,660
Yes, I am going to confront her. Yeah.

394
00:15:31,670 --> 00:15:32,860
This is so exciting.

395
00:15:32,870 --> 00:15:34,460
Totally. What are you going to say?

396
00:15:34,470 --> 00:15:39,050
I'm gonna say, "stella, I'm sorry things didn't work out."

397
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Ay, caramba. No! Yes.

398
00:15:40,930 --> 00:15:42,920
We're going to talk about this like adults.

399
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She can tell me her side and... I'm going to listen.

400
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Probably

401
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Should have done a little more of that before.

402
00:15:48,750 --> 00:15:50,180
Driver, can you run us into the nearest lamppost?

403
00:15:50,190 --> 00:15:52,370
Everyone, buckle up. Not you, ted.

404
00:15:52,380 --> 00:15:53,530
Ted, ted,

405
00:15:53,540 --> 00:15:55,350
You got to get mad right now.

406
00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:57,350
Come on. Dig deep.

407
00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,400
Dude, come on. This isn't about me waving my arms,

408
00:15:59,410 --> 00:16:01,300
Stamping my feet, and getting really mad.

409
00:16:01,310 --> 00:16:02,680
This is about stella and i

410
00:16:02,690 --> 00:16:04,150
Finally communicating.

411
00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:05,040
I mean, clearly, that was...

412
00:16:05,050 --> 00:16:08,450
Stella hated star wars. She lied to you.

413
00:16:08,460 --> 00:16:11,470
Search your feelings, ted. You know it to be true.

414
00:16:12,510 --> 00:16:13,840
Well, that's her business.

415
00:16:13,850 --> 00:16:16,810
Come on, ted. She left you at the altar.

416
00:16:16,820 --> 00:16:18,090
I don't understand!

417
00:16:18,100 --> 00:16:20,140
Ted, in the name of all that is sacred...

418
00:16:20,150 --> 00:16:21,230
Wait, wait, wait!

419
00:16:21,310 --> 00:16:22,270
Where is she going?

420
00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,230
Her cab just missed the turn for the lincoln tunnel.

421
00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,170
Why would anybody

422
00:16:25,180 --> 00:16:26,000
Buy takeout food

423
00:16:26,010 --> 00:16:28,320
And bring it all the way back to new jersey anyway?

424
00:16:28,500 --> 00:16:29,800
Maybe she's going to her office.

425
00:16:29,810 --> 00:16:30,820
No.

426
00:16:31,350 --> 00:16:33,720
The waiter asked her, "will you need utensils?"

427
00:16:33,730 --> 00:16:35,900
And then she said, "nah, I'm just going straight home."

428
00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,330
But if she's going home, why are we still heading...?

429
00:16:39,340 --> 00:16:40,430
Oh, my god.

430
00:16:41,670 --> 00:16:42,830
Tony lives downtown.

431
00:16:43,650 --> 00:16:46,810
"home" is tony's apartment.

432
00:16:46,820 --> 00:16:49,280
She was going to make me move to new jersey

433
00:16:49,290 --> 00:16:52,700
And then she moves into the city with tony?!

434
00:16:53,370 --> 00:16:54,880
Son of a bitch!

435
00:16:55,260 --> 00:16:55,930
Finally.

436
00:16:55,940 --> 00:16:57,050
Finally, buddy.

437
00:16:57,060 --> 00:16:58,510
I am so angry right now!

438
00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:00,180
I know, and I love it!

439
00:17:02,210 --> 00:17:03,750
Yeah, that is awesome!

440
00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,270
Sir, we'd be happy to cover

441
00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,330
The cost of that window crank.

442
00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,010
I love angry ted!

443
00:17:09,020 --> 00:17:10,340
So do i!

444
00:17:11,780 --> 00:17:14,340
Get it out, baby. Let it out.

445
00:17:14,350 --> 00:17:15,760
Oh... She's stopping.

446
00:17:15,770 --> 00:17:16,800
Oh, it is on.

447
00:17:16,810 --> 00:17:18,310
It is on! Yes, ted.

448
00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:19,650
Go get her, buddy!

449
00:17:19,660 --> 00:17:21,040
Go get rid of your demons!

450
00:17:21,050 --> 00:17:22,320
My leg is asleep!

451
00:17:22,330 --> 00:17:23,310
Okay, wa-wa-wait.

452
00:17:23,470 --> 00:17:24,270
Wait, hold on. Lily,

453
00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:24,990
What are you doing?

454
00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,780
All right, hold on.

455
00:17:27,140 --> 00:17:28,630
Look, ted,

456
00:17:28,710 --> 00:17:31,210
It's great that you're angry right now. It sure is.

457
00:17:31,220 --> 00:17:32,510
Yes. Yeah!

458
00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:34,110
And that you're finally dealing

459
00:17:34,120 --> 00:17:37,000
With this, but you only get one shot here.

460
00:17:37,030 --> 00:17:38,490
Let's just take a beat and,

461
00:17:38,500 --> 00:17:40,760
And think about what you're going to say.

462
00:17:42,010 --> 00:17:43,840
Oh, I know exactly what I'm gonna say.

463
00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:55,950
You picked the wrong guy.

464
00:17:57,660 --> 00:17:58,650
Ted.

465
00:17:59,490 --> 00:18:01,290
You picked the wrong guy.

466
00:18:03,050 --> 00:18:07,710
You made a really, really, really bad choice.

467
00:18:09,830 --> 00:18:11,070
What were you thinking?

468
00:18:11,140 --> 00:18:12,170
That guy?

469
00:18:12,500 --> 00:18:13,970
Are you kidding me?

470
00:18:14,730 --> 00:18:16,880
Have you learned nothing in the last eight years?

471
00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:19,370
You're just gonna regret this.

472
00:18:19,380 --> 00:18:20,300
You know that, right?

473
00:18:20,310 --> 00:18:21,970
You are going to regret this,

474
00:18:21,980 --> 00:18:23,690
And now there is nothing you can do about it

475
00:18:23,700 --> 00:18:25,210
Because it's too late.

476
00:18:26,330 --> 00:18:27,760
All you can do now is go up there

477
00:18:27,770 --> 00:18:31,160
And start your crappy, disappointing life

478
00:18:31,910 --> 00:18:33,530
That will never be nearly as happy

479
00:18:33,540 --> 00:18:35,230
As the one you could have had with me.

480
00:18:37,750 --> 00:18:38,650
Good-bye.

481
00:18:39,170 --> 00:18:39,960
Ted, wait.

482
00:18:39,970 --> 00:18:43,110
Look, stella, I am not here to win you back.

483
00:18:43,410 --> 00:18:43,900
I am here

484
00:18:43,910 --> 00:18:47,220
Because I need to know that you know

485
00:18:47,870 --> 00:18:49,690
You made the biggest mistake of your life.

486
00:18:51,060 --> 00:18:52,050
I know.

487
00:18:55,650 --> 00:18:56,550
Good.

488
00:18:59,650 --> 00:19:00,980
That's what I'm gonna say. Oh...

489
00:19:02,620 --> 00:19:04,610
Cold-blooded. Yeah, that's good.

490
00:19:04,620 --> 00:19:05,930
Go say that.

491
00:19:08,770 --> 00:19:09,650
Thanks.

492
00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,230
So I got out of the cab, ready to say all of that stuff,

493
00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,790
Ready to explode, but then...

494
00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:17,640
Mommy! H-h-hey. Hey.

495
00:19:22,100 --> 00:19:23,640
It all just went away.

496
00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:29,800
And that was it.

497
00:19:29,940 --> 00:19:31,940
In that moment, I wasn't angry anymore.

498
00:19:33,090 --> 00:19:35,380
I could see stella was meant to be with tony.

499
00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,280
Kids, you may think your only choices

500
00:19:38,290 --> 00:19:39,810
Are to swallow your anger

501
00:19:39,820 --> 00:19:41,430
Or throw it in someone's face.

502
00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:43,350
there is a third option

503
00:19:43,430 --> 00:19:44,830
You can just let it go,

504
00:19:45,540 --> 00:19:47,530
And only when you do that is it really gone,

505
00:19:47,540 --> 00:19:48,880
And you can move forward.

506
00:19:49,380 --> 00:19:53,580
And that, kids, was the perfect ending to a perfect love story.

507
00:19:53,810 --> 00:19:55,310
It just wasn't mine.

508
00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,030
Mine was still out there waiting for me.
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