[dramatic music]
[engine revving]
* *
- Tamra talks a lot of sh-- about her friends.
And that makes her a little dangerous.
- Don't scream at me for one ----ing time
in your life, and listen!
- I-- - You won't listen!
- Tamra is no bullsh---er.
- I understand.
- (BLEEP) you.
No, (BLEEP) you!
- I feel like you don't like me.
You always have something against me.
- She gets pissed. She becomes like Shrek.
She's like an ogre.
- No.
- You can't pull the stick out of her ass
because it's really lodged in her throat.
- It's none of your ----ing business!
Do you understand me?
But there's a lot of good memories.
- This is my way of showing you how much I love you.
Will you marry me?
- I pronounce you husband and wife.
You may kiss your bride.
[light cheering]
- Don't cry. You're making me cry.
[Ava cooing]
[tearfully laughs]
- Can Tamra change?
Hopefully.
- Sorry. - I love you.
- And I'd do anything for you.
- * Careful what you wish for *
- You can say whatever you want, Shannon!
You're a ----ing liar, and you're a drunk!
- I don't miss this.
- You are a fake friend!
- This is your theme! You are a dick!
- * Careful what you wish for *
[electronic pop music]
* *
- Hey, babe! - Hi, baby.
- * That bike is pretty badass *
- Yeah? Did you have fun?
- How are you? Good, yeah.
- I'm good. - It was fun.
- You want some cheese?
- I want a kiss.
I'm gonna go change.
Whew. It's hot out.
- Hi, baby.
- What's for dinner?
- You are. - Oh.
I'm not really that hungry.
- Then why do you want me to cook?
Why don't I just make--
- Make something easy. - Easy.
You're easy. - But not cheap.
[laughs]
- When I left the show, I was in a bush.
- Tamra!
- You don't know!
No, you don't know!
And that's not the way I wanted to go out after 12 years,
so I'm back with a different perspective.
Like, I don't have to call everybody out.
I'm hoping that I'll stick to that, but who knows?
How about our Costco pizzas?
- Cornmeal crust pizza.
That's interesting.
- There has been lots of changes
in the Judge household.
At the beginning of the pandemic,
we got an offer on our house in Coto
that we just couldn't pass up.
So we moved back to the Ladera house,
totally remodeled it.
And our original thought was stay there
until Sophia got out of high school,
and then move on to bigger and better.
- Hello. - Hey, Mom.
- What's up, Mama? - Hey.
- And then we got stuck with Sandy.
- How was traffic?
- It was bad.
I had to walk around two chairs.
- [laughs]
- And the damn fire pit would not move.
- I sold my mom's condo, and she moved in to our casita.
We're counting down the days until she leaves,
but I don't think it's any time soon.
You don't want anything to drink other than water?
- Trying to get me drunk, take advantage of me or something?
- Well, that would be nice. - I don't do anal.
- That's not what I heard about you.
- I got my early mini-retirement.
I can't wait to enjoy that.
- Hey, if you want another job, I could get you one.
- Where? - Costco.
- Costco, giving out samples.
- [laughs] - Ah, that's my dream job.
- I know it.
- When COVID hit, CUT Fitness took a huge hit.
The economy the way it is, people weren't coming.
We have to sell the equipment. We got to paint.
We got to take the flooring down.
And that's it?
- That's it.
- CUT Fitness was Eddie's baby.
And now I am concerned, like, what's next?
How is he going to feel?
Is he going to get on my goddamn nerves?
I don't know.
I can't wait to just be done.
It's been more work, probably, for you.
- But what are you going to do every day?
- Her.
- What--that's my mom. - So?
- I don't want to talk with my mom about boning.
- Mom bones.
- Well, we have to have a conversation about that
because David's been spending the night a lot lately.
I noticed his car out there.
You know, Sophia's room is right underneath yours.
- We're very quiet. - I told you.
- When you have one of those balls in your mouth,
with the strap, you don't--
you don't moan. - I told you.
And when we're not home, she gets the whip out, the leather.
- I go to your room when you're not home.
- Oh, my God! - Ugh!
Gross. - You're disgusting.
- How did she become such a prude?
Like-- - I'm not a prude.
I just don't want to hear about my mom...
- Boning? - Boning.
- Mom with one of these.
That's how we met. That was you and me.
- What are you talking about? - See?
- Yeah, you were like, "Hi. What's your name?"
- See? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
- And that's what I'm worried about.
- Like, we did a moaning test the other day.
- We did.
- [loudly moaning]
Could you hear?
- I think the neighbors heard that one.
- I don't need any sexual noises
coming from my 70-year-old mom
into my 17-year-old daughter's ears.
- Like mother, like daughter.
- The very first time we had sex
was at Eddie's birthday party.
- Ew!
- Happy birthday to me. - [laughs]
- Yeah, happy birthday to you.
- I said that at the end.
- [laughs]
[indie pop music]
* *
- Okay, come on.
Archie. - Hi.
- Oh, Archie.
You got a friend.
Eee-ah.
- Oh, hi, Archie.
- Oh. - Fisker.
- He is afraid of small dogs.
- [laughs]
I just got a new dog like five months ago.
I thought about bringing him today,
but he doesn't do well with other dogs yet.
- Really? - All right.
Well, I think there's a trail over here if you want to--
- OK. - Let's go.
* *
So how are your girls? - They're good.
The twins are going to Paris with their dad.
- Oh. - Sophie starts school.
Her boyfriend's here, so they're
going back to school together. And--
- It's been a while, huh?
- A little over a year, which isn't that long,
but they do talk about marriage.
But they're at a school where that's what happens.
- It's a religious school, right?
- Yeah.
- They get engaged young, too, get married young.
- Yeah, so they get like-- get engaged--yeah.
No sex before marriage?
I mean, you got to test the equipment.
Does it fit? Does it work?
You got to know what you're diving into
for the rest of your life.
- Fisker, come on.
- There's like ticks and sh-- in here.
Archie, heel.
Here, you want some more water, sweetie?
It's so hot for you.
That's a boy. Well, here.
There you go.
OK, really? Drink it out of--
- It's OK.
- Here.
You can just set it on the ground.
Yikes.
Who drinks out of a dog bowl?
- I've always heard that a dog's mouth
is much cleaner than a human's mouth,
so I share spoons, forks, plates.
- I don't know.
Whew.
So did you see what Tamra said about me?
- Yeah.
- I don't want anyone to say bad things about me.
- She'll go below the belt, and there's a lot of stuff
that she said about me that isn't accurate.
- The last time I was around Tamra,
the two of you were super, super close.
- She was my best friend for six years.
- Right. So then what happened?
- She got fired.
- And then? - And I--
- And then you stayed in touch?
- Absolutely.
I remember there were a couple of days
where we didn't connect, but the attempt was made.
- Yeah.
- Tamra and I have a long history of
really going deep with each other.
- Thank you for being the best friend
any girl could ever ask for.
- I mean, I witnessed Tamra getting baptized.
[cheers and applause]
- She helped me officially take my wedding ring off.
- Does it hurt? - Just rip my knuckle off.
I got it!
- I gave her an enema.
Just stick it in your ass.
- Ah!
- I have traveled with her.
I've never laughed more with a person in my life.
And to all of a sudden have that cut off
was devastating to me,
because I really was there for her as a friend.
- So did she text you, and you didn't respond?
- No.
We called each other, and we missed each other.
And the next thing I knew, for two and a half years,
any podcast, anyone who would interview her,
she would come up with new falsehoods about me.
- Do you think Shannon has a drinking problem?
- Yes.
Biggest mistakes I ever did was really stick up for her.
- So she's a user? - 100%.
- I mean, I was crushed.
I want to know all the things that I did to hurt her.
I do.
I've done a lot of thinking about this
in the last few days, knowing, oh, wow,
I'm going to actually run into her.
- Right.
- To exacerbate the untruths about me to the press--
not OK.
What is the reason for this, Tamra?
- I told the truth.
I was in an interview on a podcast.
They asked me if we were friends,
and I said she doesn't reach out to me anymore.
- Tamra wants to try and push my buttons so that
it'd get to the point where I do go to the press,
and we have this big argument that everybody knows about,
and she becomes relevant again.
- Truth hurts, bitch!
[tense music]
- I want for you to have some kind of resolution
because it'll be good for your heart, OK?
- Oh, I agree.
But I have to stand up for myself.
I'm not going to bend over anymore.
I need to be heard.
[electronic pop music]
- You're gonna hear a little popping sound.
It's just the glue cracking, OK?
- You guys excited you got your braces off today?
- Oh!
- Congratulations. [cheers and applause]
- I love the orthodontist.
- Here's your gift, all the stuff
that you couldn't eat before.
- Take care, you guys. - All right, thank you.
- Bye. - Bye, guys!
- I got Hershey Kisses for me.
- Now, you guys can eat all the candy you want.
- We want!
- Well, not all the candy you want.
- Gumballs!
- Yay!
- How was the Y? - Good.
- It was good? - It's bad.
- What?
- Keller, Luke told me that you got in trouble.
If you get in trouble at school,
you know what happens at home? - What?
- You get in trouble at home.
- OK.
- That's very disrespectful to say.
You want to tell Daddy that?
[scoffs]
Now that Shane has passed the bar exam--
- Congratulations.
Welcome to the State Bar of California.
- Thank you, Your Honor.
- He works as an attorney.
He's gone all day.
And I'm used to being able to have
access to him all the time. [laughs]
That's why the ringtone on his phone when I call him
is Darth Vader.
[heavy breathing]
Look how fast that car is going.
- It's like... * Ba, da, da, da *
* No one's in my way *
* Ba ba, da, da * - Like, you're in my way.
- * Ba, na, ba, ba * [giggles]
- * Clap, clap *
* Clap your hands *
- What are you goofballs doing?
I have you all hopped up on sugar.
- We weren't doing anything.
- OK, Mommy is tired already.
I love and hate summer break.
We got to get your school supplies.
Dad got your backpacks.
And thankfully, I'm in a really good spot with my ex,
co-parenting as a family.
- Bye, bye, Dada.
- I'll see you later.
- OK, thank you. - All right. Later, guys.
Bye. See ya.
- It's like a weird, redefined modern family,
but, like, it's working.
- You just squirted out all the air!
- [giggles] - Hold on.
I need to order, so you have to be quiet.
[intercom chatters]
Hi. How are you?
- How are you?
- How's your summer?
- Oh, yeah.
Are you ready for them to go back to school?
- Me too. It's driving me insane.
Can I get two six-piece chicken nuggets, two medium fries,
a six-piece chicken nugget Happy Meal
with extra fries and an apple juice.
Being a stay-at-home mom
is what I always wanted for my children.
However, it's this constant pull
between wanting to be a mom and wanting to be great
and wanting to be home with your kids...
And wanting to drive your car off of a cliff.
Thank you.
- Thank you.
- * Ba, na, ba, ba * [laughs]
- You're a lot.
[upbeat music]
* *
- All right.
OK. Sit.
[pained groan]
Oh, thanks, Pete.
Can I put this on your lap, or is that bad?
- Yeah, I want the cold thing. I want the ice.
- All right.
Nurse Ratchet on duty. - Oh.
- Let's do it.
I don't remember you wheeling me around
when I had my foot done.
- No.
Can I hit the elevator? - Yeah, can you reach it?
[thudding] - Ow.
- Ooh! - Oh.
[laughing] I didn't mean to.
- You're the worst driver.
- [laughs] That's why I have Pete.
- I want the ice thing.
- I'm gonna get it made up for you.
Terry's very into fitness, and he tore his meniscus.
- I was fine till you crashed me into the elevator.
- Yeah, I know.
- It's safer walking than being pushed in the wheelchair
by you. - [laughs]
You know, when you get older,
you got to be careful about all those parts.
[thudding in slow motion] - Ow.
- Ooh!
I mean, he's going to be OK.
You need to--
- Nice butt, honey. - Thanks.
Feel free to enjoy it.
- Ooh.
- Well, it's only your knee.
I mean, your other parts still work.
- We'll test that theory.
- OK.
both: Oh.
- Can you just stay and massage my foot all day?
- Yes, I can.
- Oh, that feels good.
- Can you believe we're losing 50% of our kids?
- 50% more to go. - [laughs]
I can't believe that Max and Nicky are off to college.
They don't know how to do laundry, but it's OK.
These dorms now, they have laundry service.
Isn't that bougie? We didn't have that.
We used to have to go down to the basement.
If you didn't stand there, someone would take
your wet clothes and put them on top of the thing.
I was with Emily the other night.
And I was like, Terry would get rid of all of them right now.
- No, I love them.
Did you see Shane? - Briefly on the way out.
- Shane's cute. - I know.
- I like Shane. - I know.
So I was telling her that we've been hanging out
with Shannon and John a lot.
- Yeah.
- And we talked about Gina a little bit.
- I don't ever hear from Gina.
I felt like we were developing, like,
this real, connected friendship.
Then it's sort of been radio silence.
- I just know what you're saying 'cause, like,
I've been there.
I was there like two years ago.
- Gina's canceled on me multiple times.
But at some point, I see her on social media going to events.
So I guess I'm not at the top of that list.
And that's OK, too, but then I'm not going
to put that effort in anymore.
- Sometimes I think people don't want to invite us
to their thing because maybe we'll think
it's not fancy enough for us?
- But that's ridiculous. - No, I know it's ridiculous.
But, I don't know, you flew her on a G4 to New York.
- Look at this. We have gold seatbelts.
- All right, cheers to you guys.
All right. - Cheers.
- On to Manhattan.
And we had a great time.
I thought we were friends-friends.
- Yeah. - It's just odd.
- Yeah.
- She's so cool, and she's real.
I would love to keep being friends with her.
I miss her, but I can't keep chasing her.
How is this? - So good.
- Are you in pain? - No.
- No?
- The only pain I'm having is when
you smash me into the elevator. - [laughs]
I'm giving you a foot rub.
I suggest we dial down the injury.
- That foot rub is so good.
[bombastic music]
* *
- [laughs]
Thank you. - Thank you.
- You're welcome.
- Are you ready to bowl?
- I'm going to bowl you, baby.
- [laughs]
- Can I get your guys' shoe sizes?
- I'm a seven. - 10, please.
- Thank you.
Thank you.
We have two other people coming.
- Where do we go?
- Shoes, honey.
- Come on.
- You ready?
- Hi.
- Of course, they're getting their practice rolls in.
- Oh! OK, good.
- Uh-huh. - At least we're hitting them.
- We've been practicing, and I can see you have, too.
Hi, bro. - Hi. You look so cute.
- Thank you. - It's been a long time.
- You already got your shoes on?
- Oh, yes. Aren't they pretty?
Jennifer is a friend that I've had for many years,
and then she started coming to CUT Fitness.
It doesn't like Thanksgiving made you gain any weight.
- It did.
In Oklahoma, everything is, like, covered in gravy.
- What's your Oklahoma name, Jenny Sue?
Jenny Lynn. Jenny Lynn. - Jenny Lynn.
I kind of like Tammy Sue. There's something naughty.
- In fact, we trained her for a fitness competition,
and she won.
- Do you guys want something to drink?
- Do you have champagne?
- I do have champagne.
- She's a hooker.
Just kidding.
- Mm-hmm.
Who do you think trained her?
- Whoo!
- Oh, my God!
- There we go!
- What is that?
- [laughs]
- Whoo!
- Oh!
Oh!
- Now, let me kick your ass.
- Let's go.
- Oh, no!
[thunk] Oh!
I don't think you were supposed to do that!
- We're going to put the bunkers up for you guys.
- [laughs]
- Cheers.
- I don't feel any--
- Whoo!
- Oh!
- That's how we finish! - Yeah!
That's how we finish. - Awesome.
- Wow. Good job, baby.
- That was good.
- Are you ready for Friday?
- I am ready for Friday.
You're for sure coming? - Yeah, of course.
- OK, good. - So what is it?
- It's just--you know, I was telling Ryan,
since we opened up during COVID, it's been, like,
open, closed, open, closed.
So we've not done, like, out-of-studio events.
So this is like the first.
- We used to do those all the time.
- Yeah, so bring whoever, if you have anybody
you'd love to bring.
- What's going on?
- We got bad news.
Because of the economy, because of COVID,
I've just decided to close my doors.
- You're closing CUT? - Yeah.
- I'm sure the range of emotion for you has been--
- Yeah.
- He's had his moments where he had to, like,
literally pull over on the side of the road.
I'm very concerned for Eddie
because I don't know what's going to fill that void.
- Good job, team. On your toes.
- Eddie's going to kick your ass tonight.
- Squat, press, squat, press.
He's always been an athlete.
And to be able to train people and connect
with people at that level was everything to him.
It was never about the money.
- CUT was like--
I took my kids to school, and I came to you guys.
That was like my place.
- You met me. - I met you.
- Yes.
- I remember when you came, I was not there.
And you girls were like, you missed it.
- You missed it.
Ryan was there with his shirt off.
- And there was this guy. And he brought some girl.
- Oh, that's right. A hooker.
- No. [laughter]
Absolutely not.
- When Jenn met Ryan, Ryan would come into the gym,
and he was kind of like Rico Suave,
staring at himself in the mirror all the time.
- I thought he was a gym douche.
The skin looked a little glistening,
and he looked like he probably smelled good.
- It was always a running joke.
I didn't know that there was really flames there.
- I was like, so are you going to sit in the hot tub?
Like, so what you got going on?
- He knew how to work the room, let's just put it that way.
You know, the closing of CUT,
does that mean you're going to close the deal and get married?
- Oh, gosh.
- Since we met at CUT-- - Yeah.
- We'll get married at CUT.
- Yeah--oh! [laughing] Yeah, there you go.
- [laughs]
[electronic pop music]
[line ringing]
- Oh, my God. Hi.
- Hi. - How are you?
- Good. I'm so happy that I caught you.
- Oh, my gosh.
I haven't spoken to you in a million years.
- I know.
I'm actually, like, right in your neighborhood,
and I had a little gift for Max and Nicky,
like a going-away.
- Aw.
- I wanted to just, like, stop by and drop it off.
- Yeah, come over. I'll put your name on the gate.
- OK. All right, cool. I'll see you in a little bit.
- No one ever pops by my house.
It's not really a thing. It's behind three gates.
[quirky music]
* *
Hi! - Hi!
- Oh, my God. Look at you.
How are you? - It's so nice to see you.
- Come in.
- I miss you, friend. - Oh, my God.
- You look so cute. - Look at how cute this is.
Gina, do you know Liz? - Hi.
Yes. - We're doing a Starbucks run.
What do you want? - Hi. Oh, my gosh.
I love it here. Just, like, a cold brew.
- Mm-hmm.
- I'm just finishing ordering stuff.
Look at this.
Look at how crazy this is. - What is this?
- This is his room. - Oh, is this the dorms?
- Yes.
You can go online, and you can, like,
physically move the furniture around--
- Oh, it's helpful.
- And measure and figure it out.
- How do you-- you are something else.
I prepared for college.
I went to Bed, Bath & Beyond with my 20%-off coupon.
I got a few iconic posters and hung them the (BLEEP) up.
- You want to go outside? You want to go out back?
- Yeah, whatever you want to do.
- All right. Let's do it. - Yeah, let's hang out.
I really miss you. I feel like
I haven't seen you in a long time.
My dorm room looked like a prison cell,
and I'm doing just fine.
- Hey, Heather? - Yeah?
- Got it here. - Oh, thanks.
- Thank you. - Yeah.
- God, I never get tired of the view here.
I don't know why I don't come here more.
- I feel like I haven't seen you in a hundred years.
- I know.
So I have some new stuff going on.
I decided that I'm going to get my real estate license.
- Oh, my--
Nicky's studying for his real estate license.
- Really?
- Gina, you should've talked to him about it.
- Oh, my gosh. - He can help you.
- I definitely should talk to him about it.
Nicky is a wonderful child, but he's a kid.
I have to figure out how I'm going
to take care of my family.
I have six mouths to feed, and I have to send them
all to college, and I need to make
as much money as I can now.
He's still in that, like, zone, right?
I'm like, I haven't been to college in 15 years.
- I know.
It's a lot to go back and start studying.
- Yeah. - I'm so excited for you.
- Thank you. - That's so good.
You know, I was kind of wondering why
you've been, like, kind of MIA.
- Honestly, for me, the summer just caught me by surprise.
I went--well, I went to New York for three weeks.
- I totally understand how crazy the summers are,
but, I mean, like, never a text or never an anything.
And I'm like, we invited you to all these things,
we had your parents over, and felt very close to you.
- Yeah.
- And then you just completely disappeared.
- I had a lot going on, honestly, with Travis.
We didn't have his kids for a little bit,
so my kids were sad, and I got sad.
And so when something's wrong, I'm like, go to New York.
[echoing] So I was in New York.
Just been to many camps and stuff.
I've been a little closed in.
Like, I get, like, tunnel vision.
And then I think I went through this transitional time.
So I have this real, you know, come-to-Jesus type moment,
where I'm like, OK, I feel like I'm healed,
you know? - Yeah, yeah.
- [echoing] And I think I got, like, a--
- I feel like Gina's avoiding the conversation.
Do you want to be in the friendship or not?
- I think I got, like, a little bit nervous
and a little overwhelmed.
And also, like, I've been having
more just, like, social anxiety.
- But back to us-- - Yes.
- My whole thing is this. - I'm sorry.
- You were doing a charity thing,
and Emily was there and whatever.
And I was like-- - Yeah.
- OK, invite lost in mail.
So when it's not reciprocated, I start going,
OK, well, am I in a one-sided friendship?
Is this just for me?
- I don't think to necessarily, like,
throw an invite out to you
because it's not, like, a fabulous thing.
But I should. - I know.
So I should-- - Yeah.
- Is what you're saying? - Yeah.
- Yes? - You should.
- I will work on that.
Heather Dubrow does not want to come to a dive bar
where they are not serving food.
Heather Dubrow just wants to be invited to the dive bar
so that she can say no.
[laughs] It's the truth.
- Now that we're having a fresh start,
you're going to help me pick out a comforter.
Let's go. - OK. [laughs]
Put me to work, girl.
I have missed you, really.
And I, for sure, missed your castle.
[electronic rock music]
* *
- Evy! - Yes?
- Honey, I need you to help me with the Guinea pigs!
- OK! - We have got to find the cage.
- It's outside. - Oh, good.
Let's go. I need your help.
- Can I go grab the cage?
- No, because we're going to clean in here.
We're going to need, like, paper towels.
Hi, Harold.
You're turning everywhere.
- Babe? - Yeah?
- We're making chips and cheese.
- The whole bottle.
- I'm going to shut this, Evy, because I don't want
Sparkles driving you nuts.
This is what happens when you're naughty.
My house is a three-ring circus--
the 12-year-old who thinks she's 17,
the 16-year-old who doesn't think
he needs to be in school.
Dawson! Did he leave?
I've got the 18-year-old who can't go get a license.
I'm going to the store.
Text me if you think of anything.
- Protein bars. 20 grams of protein.
Any less, it's not worth it.
- Dominic, we adopted him three years ago.
- You might want me to drive.
- No.
He feels like he needs to be the next daredevil.
And then there's Greyson, who's just like, please, God,
I just want to pray for everybody.
What time will you be back?
- Like 10:00?
- No, absolutely not. - 8:00?
- It's a school night.
Two dogs, two Guinea pigs, two fish, and then a mama cat,
and five foster cats, and a partridge in a pear tree,
I think. I don't know. [laughs]
* *
- I found a kitchen box.
- I wish I could, like, wiggle my nose, and this all be done.
Did I already get a package?
That's for Will.
I don't know what shoes.
- Maybe they're Will's shoes.
- Yes, I know. It's a very weird situation.
- Uh, yeah, it is very weird.
- Ha, that's a million dollar question.
Will and I share a house.
But that--we--but--
- But it works--
- It works. - For now.
- For now.
- My ex husband, Will, is living in Oklahoma,
working for my family's business.
Instead of moving the kids back and forth all the time,
when he comes in town, I go stay at Ryan's,
and then he's in the house.
- Will he mind where I put his shoes or--
- Do I understand it's weird? Yes.
But it is just how we're navigating it right now.
- You don't think Will would mind if I put on his jacket
just for a little moving?
- Stop it. - What?
[laughs]
- You're not funny. - I am.
- You're not. - I am.
- You're not funny. - I am. Mm-hmm.
I am.
- I do feel like we are still in
somewhat of the honeymoon phase.
- Selfishly, I would like to see
a year from now or sometime sooner
moving out and into my house.
- With that comes learning who he is.
And, yes, I will pump the brakes a little bit
because I have to be smart.
Right now, it works. - It works.
- But it's not going to work forever, and I know that.
- Yeah, OK. Well, then one step at a time.
- One step at a time. - One step at a time, lady.
[upbeat music]
* *
- Thank you. You know what?
I'm going to leave the picnic basket
in the car because it's so hot.
Yeah? OK. Thanks, sweetie.
Oh, it's hot. Wow.
- Hi, Heather. How are ya?
- Oh, hey, Adam. - Hi, it's good to see you.
- Good to see you. - How have you been?
- Very well. - Good, good.
- Thanks. - Great day for pickleball.
- I know. I'm so excited.
We're terrible, by the way. - [chuckles]
- Hi, hi, hi, hi, hi. - Oh, hi.
- Hi. - Oh, look at you!
You're all, like, tennised out. Hi.
- Hi. Hey. both: Muah!
- I would hug you tighter, but it's hot.
This is Adam. This is Gina.
- Hi. Gina. - Hi, how are you?
- Nice to meet you. - Pleasure to meet you.
- Thanks, Adam. - All right.
Nice meeting you. Take care. - Nice meeting you.
- I already told him we're terrible.
- We're not terrible.
- No, I have one friend who's played before.
And the other one I don't know, but she's very athletic.
Hello!
- I heard somebody wants to play with my pickle?
[laughter] - Yes.
- Oh, my God. How are you?
- I haven't see you in so long. - Hi!
- It's great to see Tamra. I missed her.
Tamra doesn't make me feel like I'm doing something wrong
if I don't text back.
She's like Casper.
It's like a friendly ghost, you know?
- All right, ladies, you ready to play some pickleball?
- Let's do it. - Let's do this.
- All right, Adam.
- Pickleball has a little bit of ping pong,
a little bit of tennis, a little bit of badminton.
And pickleball, most of it's played here at this area
right here called the kitchen.
And it's important to try and hit them deep--
- What does that mean, deep?
- To try and keep your opponents back.
- Like in the back? - Yeah, so deep in the box.
- OK.
- Tamra, I'm sure you've taken it deep in the kitchen before.
- Seriously. - You got this.
- [laughs]
- Let's just get a little game going.
[upbeat electronic music]
- OK. I'm ----ing worried.
- [laughs] - We all are.
- OK, wrong box.
Sorry! Take over.
Oh! - Oh.
- Ah! - I'm hot.
- Oh! - That was a good shot.
- Oh! - Ooh, sorry!
- Jesus, Gina!
It's pickleball!
Old people do this!
- Oh.
- There's a hole in my racket!
- You stand there.
Hit it.
- This is what we call an oven roaster.
- That was far.
- Up. - Melting, melting.
- Yeah. - Very hot now.
- Next time, can we do it indoors,
where it's air conditioned?
Pete! - Tamra, you remember Pete?
- Oh, Pete!
- Hi, Tamra. - Love Pete.
She does this every time we do a sport.
That's why I'll do sports with Heather.
- OK. - This is a little picnic,
and there's some herbs from my garden.
- This is beautiful.
- It seems sad to put Dom in a paper bag.
Cheers. Thanks for joining me today.
- This was so fun. - Man, it's hot out here.
- Are you going to--
I went to Devi Rebel, and I saw Jenn--
- Jenn! - Pedranti the other day.
And she said she's doing, like, outdoor--
- Yoga retreat. Like a retreat?
- I met Jenn about three or four years ago through Tamra,
and I've been going to her yoga studio on and off.
- Awesome job. - Namaste.
- We're going to start doing some yoga retreats.
We have one up and coming next Friday.
- There are certain things about Jenn
that I think are a little bit mysterious,
but she has very good energy.
- Yeah, I'm going to go. - I think we should go to that.
- Can I bring someone?
- Yeah. - Sure, I think so.
- I was thinking about asking Shannon.
- Oh, my good friend. How is she? [laughs]
- Well, listen, the twins just left for Europe with David...
- She kind of just ghosted me.
- I have not ghosted Tamra.
The definition of ghost
is completely cutting off communication.
- I'm not a liar.
I wouldn't just say that out of nowhere.
- I have a string of text messages to prove that.
- I would call her, and she wouldn't call me back,
or she'd send me to voicemail.
- I don't really know how to send someone to voicemail.
I don't.
- Simon got cancer.
I was literally crying, and she would not respond to my texts.
She's a self-centered person that only gives a (BLEEP)
about herself. - Well, how about this?
Can't people evolve and change?
I think they can. - But has she?
- I'm telling you, my recent experience with Shannon
has been really great.
In the last several months, Shannon and I
have really become close.
You know, when Shannon and I first met, we got along great.
And then it just went south.
You shouldn't have said anything.
- I am a very loyal and trustworthy person.
- You're not!
Look, friendship takes work.
At some point, you got to let the old sh-- go.
You wouldn't be so passionately angry
if you didn't have feelings of love for her.
- And you feel betrayed.
I just think it's maybe good for you to say your piece.
- Don't do it for her. Do it for you.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- I was there for her for years.
I listened to you cry, and you'd tell me your problems
and what David was doing and the divorce.
[crying] It just got to the point where I'm just like,
why is it always about Shannon?
I needed somebody to tell me, you're going to be OK,
Simon's going to make it, your kids are going to be OK.
And when she wasn't there for me, it was a deal breaker.
I don't want to fight with her,
but I definitely have some things
I would like to talk to her about.
[upbeat music]
* *
- All right, girls. Ready?
Lisa, you want to grab your--
- Yep. - OK.
- I'll come around and get it. - OK.
I would just load up, and let's go.
We're like a rolling gypsy wagon.
I took my first hot yoga class 11 years ago.
I literally thought I died, and then I thought I was reborn.
- I just want to see what time I start
just so we have enough time to get through
to the group exercises.
- Yeah, Heidi and I will keep it short.
I knew what I wanted. I had this vision.
I bought into the yoga studio.
And we opened in COVID.
There were so many times
that we thought we were not going to make it.
We're like, we've got to take this yoga outside.
And we are hoping that this goes over really well.
Let's sage the sh-- out of this place.
* *
- This will officially be the first time I've seen Shannon
in two years. - Oh, my gosh.
- I mean, I think there'll be enough people there
that I could just be like, hi. - Yeah.
I think so too.
- I can be like, hi.
- [laughs] - Hi. How are you?
* *
- Heather brought up that I hadn't been,
like, around in a while,
so I have been trying to, like, text her.
- She asked me, and I was like,
oh, hello, welcome to Gina's world.
* *
- Shannon, Kristina. Kristina, Shannon.
I think you guys know each other.
- Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- That sounds on brand.
- Yep. - [laughs]
Tell me, you are-- - I'm Nancy
- This is Brian. - Nancy.
- Yes. - You know Lisa.
- I do, yeah. - OK.
- Just watch your step. - OK.
Thank you so much.
- Hi, I'm Frank.
- Frank, that's right. Jenn.
Nice to meet you. I'm so happy you're here.
Is that Tamra?
I thought that was you!
- I don't think you can miss me!
- I'm like, Barbie!
No, wait, Tamra. - Thank you for coming.
- No, of--I wouldn't miss it for anything.
- I know, but it means a lot to me.
- What are you talking about?
I just hope you like my friends.
[laughter]
- Is this a yoga retreat?
- It is!
Hi.
- I was like, I know you,
but that was the only one I recognized.
- You're like, who else? Who else do I know?
- [laughs] - This is--
- How are you? - My friend--
- I'm Jenn. Nice to meet you. - Hi, Jenn.
Emily. Hi. - Emily.
- Thank you for coming. - Of course, yeah.
I'm happy to be here.
I am not a yoga person.
I feel like yoga people, you can kind of just spot them.
They are very into, like,
the moon and the stars and alignment.
They drive, like, Outbacks or Subarus or something.
I don't know.
- I think we're just waiting on a couple of guests to arrive.
- I know that you're not great with Tamra.
Just so you know, I don't want to get in the middle of it.
I'm just saying, like, we're friends, and I just--
you know, not today, though.
- Heather's never late.
- No? - But she's bringing Shannon.
- Well, that's what it is. - Shannon's always late.
[laughter] - We're late.
I think they're starting. - We are?
- Well, I see a lot of people there.
- Oh, yeah. Here they are.
Here they come. Heather brought a friend.
- Oh, yeah.
She brought a friend, all right.
- Oh. [laughter]
- You're it! I'm Jenn.
- Oh, hi. - You're Heather.
- So nice to meet you. - I'm Jenn.
- I'm Shannon. - Shannon, Jenn.
both: Nice to meet you.
- We'll be fine. This is good.
It's a good thing. We say hello.
We're good. - OK.
- I can't believe we made it. - Let me feel your butt.
- Hi. - Heya.
How are you? - Good.
How are you? - Things change.
- Hi, Shannon? - Hello, Tamra Judge.
- How are you? - Pretty good.
How are you? - Good.
Ready for some yoga.
- What do you say to a person
that you haven't seen in two and a half years?
- I so badly wanted to take the opportunity to say,
why'd you ghost me?
- It's just awkward.
- I just want to say, truly, thank you, guys,
for showing up today.
Heidi, we'd like to open it up,
if you just want to take us through a flow.
- When you're ready, rise up.
Open your heart, shining your gratitude.
- Oh, I can't do that.
- This is a beautiful heart-opening Mudra.
Exhale. Forward fold.
Inhale. Half-Lift.
- Oh, my God.
[quirky music]
- Rise up.
This is called Warrior I.
- Staying bent in that front knee, arms are high.
[ding]
- Inhale, rise the arms.
As you lift that right arm all the way up,
straighten that front leg.
Slowly come down to the mat.
[laughing] Send your right foot back.
- When you think of Shannon, the first thing that
jumps to mind isn't agile.
- Beautiful.
- Shannon. - You got it, girl.
- Perfect. Good.
- [laughs] Sorry.
I just--sorry.
- Lisa, I want to invite you in.
- I'm going over where you're at, so if you could--
- OK, you come by me, Jenn. - Sure, of course.
- So we're going to just go into a partner exercise,
and I'm going to intuitively match you guys up.
So Jenn and Heather, can you guys get together?
- Sure. - Want to come on my mat?
- I'll come to you. - [laughs]
- Please God, don't make it be Shannon.
Your intuition could be wrong if you pair me with Shannon.
- Are you good going over to Emily
or Emily coming over to you?
- I would love to.
- OK.
You're going to let all your guard down.
I'm going to have you share whatever comes to mind.
- Is it nerve-wracking for you to be here with, like,
Tamra and stuff, or you're good?
- Yeah, I'm good.
- Deep down in there, you have a really childlike, kind soul,
but you have this tough exterior.
We've probably came from a different background
than other people, and I think that--
- I was smoking cigarettes at 10 at my grandma's.
- Well, I was alone and had no parental supervision and--
- Right.
- But maybe if we cracked this,
"I'm a badass, I'm so tough," like--
- We might like each other?
- We might actually like each other.
- I would like that.
And I would, like, apologize for anything
that I've ever said or done to you, ever.
- Yeah. I will do the same.
We're both kind of scrappers, you know?
- Let's just close together. Hands at heart.
And we'll go upstairs and enjoy a cocktail
and some appetizers.
- Like, there's that toughness in you
that you get from where you had to actually
work and claw and dig to get it.
[cork pops] Whoa!
all: Oh!
- Yes! - She's a bitch. I'm a bitch.
We're both bitches.
- OK, Shannon, you're up. You're in the hot seat.
Let's hear it. Who's Shannon?
Married, dating, single?
- My boyfriend and I, just, like, a couple of months ago,
had our three-year mark.
- Very cool. You guys are not engaged?
- No. - No?
- And you know, I went through a very acrimonious divorce.
And I was very wound up.
And so I feel like I'm finally getting my calm.
- Honestly, to me, Shannon,
today, seemed, like, more chill and, like, not as wound up.
- No, she's been like that lately.
- Yeah. - Is she on the pot?
- Hitting the pot hard. - I sell the pot.
- You sell pot. - Yeah, I sell the pot.
- You're the dealer.
- I married my ex at 25.
So Will was born and raised here.
And then we got married.
And I'm like, take me out of Oklahoma.
So I moved here, had all the kids here.
He lives in Oklahoma, running my family business.
To say my family loves Will is an understatement.
He comes in town as often as he can.
And when he's here, he's super involved.
- So you didn't want to move back to Oklahoma
even though he was there? - No.
And then we completely split.
There were moments in my separation
where my family was flown out to have an intervention
with me because they could not fathom
a world where their daughter would leave her husband.
- I think you put yourself, like, first for once--
- I did. - Which you never did before.
- I did.
My dad had his finger in my face.
And he was just, like, going at me.
And I will tell you, that was a time for me when I thought
I will put my head down and go back,
'cause I couldn't handle the disappointment
that I was causing.
- Well, I don't think there's anything wrong
with a woman saying, this isn't working for me,
so I need to change it and do something different.
Jennifer is very nice, and she's very sweet.
It's nice to just meet someone
who you can instantly just kind of connect with.
I honestly think as long as you're taking care
of your kids, then to me, like, you're winning.
But I have heard from Gina
that Jenn was not faithful to her husband.
- You're like an open book. - Yeah, I try.
- You know what? I have to tell you this.
With Shannon, I find her to be
kind of difficult sometimes. - OK.
- This isn't, like, bad. I'm just talking.
But she's shared things with me before.
And then I had a completely different understanding
of what it is that she had to go through.
Like, maybe she has, like, some PTSD or--
you know what I mean? - Yeah. Oh, it shapes you.
- And so I found myself feeling like,
oh, you're too hard on her.
Like, think about-- you know what I mean?
And I apologize for that. - Good for you.
- I just wanted you to know that.
- That's a damn good friend.
Good for you, Emily. - I appreciate that.
And I am working on being less reactive
despite the chaos.
- Do you feel like-- are you going to have, like,
a conversa-- you're going to have
a conversation with Shannon?
- Yeah.
- Here she is. - Hi.
We're just sweating up a storm out here.
- Oh, my God. It's so bright.
- Literally. Yeah, no.
- I'm gonna-- I need to just get--
[sighs]
- You know what I think you need to do though?
I think you need to have a conversation with her.
I think you need to tell her exactly how you feel.
And then you say, this hurt me, you hurt my heart.
You know what I mean? Then--
- Yeah.
- That's when I feel like it's cooler in here.
- It'll get better? - Yeah.
- She should hear that. If you say,
you hurt my feelings, she should hear that.
- But I feel like she's only gonna--
- Oh, is this me? - [laughs]
[dramatic music]
- You got to break it down, and you talk from the heart.
- Yeah. - She should hear that.
If you say, you hurt my-- she should hear that.
- But I feel like she's only gonna--
- Oh, is this me? - [laughs]
- You should hear that.
[laughter]
It wasn't bad though.
- I was like, whoo-hoo!
- We were hearing the-- - No, we were--
I was-- - It was about the chicken.
- What is this?
- Shannon, you just sneak in the back.
- No, I just--I wanted to see what the food was.
- OK, I forget. I was supposed to do something.
You and I need to go-- I need a drink.
I'm just going to take this. I don't know whose it is, but--
- I think I'm just going to take it.
- Yeah, we--yeah, I mean-- - I'm just gonna--
- Do you want to come outside with me?
- Yeah, I'm going to-- - OK.
- The problem is we broke a cardinal rule,
which is never talk sh-- by the food.
- I hope you're OK. - I am OK.
Are you? - I am OK.
- Good. Don't cry.
Don't tear up.
- [voice breaking] It's a lot going on.
- With you, right now?
- I miss my best friend. - I know.
I do too, Tamra. It's been really, really hard.
- Bronx died.
- Are you serious? Oh, I'm so sorry.
- Just a few weeks ago.
And then we closed our gym down.
- What? I mean, come on.
Are you serious?
- Yeah, it's been-- it's just been a lot.
It's been a lot going on.
[sighs]
- Should we tell her to come out here?
- Shannon! - Shannon!
Shannon, we got to go! - Good to see you.
I know we both have a lot of hurts.
I'm at a point-- now I'm going to tear up.
I'm at a point in my life where everything is so good,
and I don't want to have hardships
about anything or with anyone.
Let's get together and start talking through it.
- I would like that a lot.
- OK. - Honestly.
- We have a history, amiga. - So...
[eerie music]
* *
- Thank you. - You're welcome.
[tense music]
- [echoing] You said that I was a fake friend.
- [echoing] Well, you are a fake friend.
- It was kind of an attack.
- It was more of, like, an intervention.
- Intervention, my ass.
- You were out of control.
- You were crossing a line.
You've told people that you're hurt, and I get it.
- But do you get it?
It didn't sound like you got it.
- That's why I'm excited to have this conversation.
* *