1 00:00:07,191 --> 00:00:08,275 Previously on 2 00:00:08,308 --> 00:00:10,335 The Real Housewives of Orange County. 3 00:00:10,402 --> 00:00:13,280 TikTok is an avenue that you can make money. 4 00:00:13,313 --> 00:00:15,048 [laughing] 5 00:00:15,115 --> 00:00:16,550 Put the rocking chair right there, 6 00:00:16,617 --> 00:00:17,818 we're going to turn it right here. 7 00:00:17,851 --> 00:00:19,386 Little less talk, little more work here. 8 00:00:19,486 --> 00:00:20,387 [laughing] 9 00:00:20,454 --> 00:00:22,789 Orgies at our house! Kids are gone! 10 00:00:22,823 --> 00:00:24,349 What's the total square footage? 11 00:00:24,416 --> 00:00:25,626 8,600 square feet. 12 00:00:25,759 --> 00:00:29,354 I've sold almost $100 million in the last 10 years. 13 00:00:29,421 --> 00:00:31,131 Hustle is an understatement. 14 00:00:31,164 --> 00:00:32,132 She's a developer... 15 00:00:32,266 --> 00:00:34,534 That's not a developer, that's a rehabber. 16 00:00:34,601 --> 00:00:35,903 I think we should be nice to her. 17 00:00:35,969 --> 00:00:38,438 I'm going to catch her in a lie, I swear to go I will. 18 00:00:38,505 --> 00:00:39,439 [laughing] 19 00:00:39,506 --> 00:00:42,075 Carmella got me a Dior clutch. 20 00:00:42,142 --> 00:00:43,777 I could see there was another box in there, 21 00:00:43,877 --> 00:00:45,245 it was like, a purple vibrator. 22 00:00:45,312 --> 00:00:48,982 You show up as like, a B invite, and you bring a Dior bag? 23 00:00:49,016 --> 00:00:51,343 If you don't like the bag, go [bleep] yourself. 24 00:00:51,376 --> 00:00:52,819 Good one, right? 25 00:00:52,853 --> 00:00:54,187 Just be happy for your friend 26 00:00:54,254 --> 00:00:56,523 that somebody got her a Dior bag! How about that? 27 00:00:56,556 --> 00:00:58,358 We're having an unboxing party, 28 00:00:58,392 --> 00:00:59,993 so we know exactly where everybody stands. 29 00:01:00,027 --> 00:01:02,663 I am not a Debbie Downer, I'm a positive bitch. 30 00:01:02,763 --> 00:01:04,298 I miss the fun-- 31 00:01:04,398 --> 00:01:05,632 It'll come back, I promise you! 32 00:01:05,732 --> 00:01:06,900 Okay, okay. 33 00:01:10,971 --> 00:01:13,073 Heather said she thinks that you're obsessed with her. 34 00:01:13,140 --> 00:01:14,174 What? 35 00:01:14,207 --> 00:01:17,511 Heather has this need to control the narrative, 36 00:01:17,544 --> 00:01:19,705 and it's so ----ing annoying. 37 00:01:19,738 --> 00:01:20,480 Can I just talk? 38 00:01:20,580 --> 00:01:21,648 Let me talk! 39 00:01:21,715 --> 00:01:23,016 You've been talking all night! 40 00:01:23,116 --> 00:01:24,710 Oh! That's rich. 41 00:01:24,743 --> 00:01:25,919 [dramatic music] 42 00:01:29,314 --> 00:01:31,216 [upbeat music] 43 00:01:39,666 --> 00:01:43,103 - Hi! - Hi. 44 00:01:43,170 --> 00:01:44,037 Girl. 45 00:01:44,137 --> 00:01:45,072 Hi! 46 00:01:45,138 --> 00:01:46,306 You're hobbling. 47 00:01:46,406 --> 00:01:48,141 I know. It's... It goes like, I have a good day 48 00:01:48,241 --> 00:01:49,409 and then I have four bad days. 49 00:01:49,476 --> 00:01:50,444 Hi! 50 00:01:50,544 --> 00:01:52,379 I'm not a Debbie Downer, I swear to God, I'm not. 51 00:01:52,446 --> 00:01:53,213 Oh, my God. 52 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:54,448 You are not. 53 00:01:54,514 --> 00:01:56,508 Anyway, I put down for hydrofacial. 54 00:01:56,608 --> 00:01:57,551 Okay, I'll do the mask. 55 00:01:57,618 --> 00:01:59,119 Okay, so we're going to get you guys in. 56 00:01:59,186 --> 00:02:00,287 Alright, well let's do it! 57 00:02:00,354 --> 00:02:02,422 Yeah! 58 00:02:02,489 --> 00:02:05,742 Well, we're going to be nice and easy and relaxing, 59 00:02:05,776 --> 00:02:06,927 we're going to have you leaving-- 60 00:02:06,994 --> 00:02:08,295 I am not a Debbie Downer. 61 00:02:08,362 --> 00:02:10,263 I've been called a lot of things in my life, 62 00:02:10,330 --> 00:02:12,232 but I've never been called a Debbie Downer. 63 00:02:12,265 --> 00:02:14,768 - So excited about life. - How is this? 64 00:02:14,835 --> 00:02:16,261 - Debbie Downer. - That really bothers you. 65 00:02:16,294 --> 00:02:17,437 Oh, I hate that. 66 00:02:17,504 --> 00:02:18,905 I mean, nobody can say, Vicki, tonight's the night 67 00:02:19,006 --> 00:02:20,073 you're gonna whoop it up. 68 00:02:20,107 --> 00:02:22,309 No, I'm not on call to whoop it up. 69 00:02:22,409 --> 00:02:25,712 And then older I get, the less whooping it up happens. 70 00:02:25,779 --> 00:02:27,414 While she's kind of starting, 71 00:02:27,481 --> 00:02:28,749 do you wanna get started with your mask? 72 00:02:28,815 --> 00:02:30,308 - Oh sure, of course! - How about that? 73 00:02:30,375 --> 00:02:32,252 How'd you feel about the box party? 74 00:02:32,319 --> 00:02:34,554 I saw a softer side of Heather. 75 00:02:34,621 --> 00:02:35,989 - Really? - Yeah. 76 00:02:36,056 --> 00:02:37,924 I always thought she was kind of a cold fish. 77 00:02:37,991 --> 00:02:40,060 Like, nothing hurts her. 78 00:02:40,127 --> 00:02:41,895 I went to dinner with Heather, 79 00:02:41,995 --> 00:02:44,097 but sometimes I feel like everything has to present 80 00:02:44,197 --> 00:02:45,666 so perfect for Heather, 81 00:02:45,732 --> 00:02:48,035 that sometimes as her girlfriend, like, I don't care 82 00:02:48,101 --> 00:02:49,436 if everything's not perfect. 83 00:02:49,503 --> 00:02:52,506 I wanna know my friend isn't sitting at a dinner one night, 84 00:02:52,572 --> 00:02:54,641 talking mad sh-- about me, 85 00:02:54,708 --> 00:02:56,109 and the next day, you're gonna check on me. 86 00:02:56,143 --> 00:02:57,511 Because in my mind, 87 00:02:57,577 --> 00:02:59,546 that makes me feel it's not real. 88 00:02:59,613 --> 00:03:01,782 When something happens between us, 89 00:03:01,815 --> 00:03:03,850 I will come to you directly... 90 00:03:03,917 --> 00:03:04,785 Okay. 91 00:03:04,851 --> 00:03:06,486 And I really hope you take a step back. 92 00:03:06,553 --> 00:03:07,120 Yep. 93 00:03:07,220 --> 00:03:08,655 I do love who Heather is, 94 00:03:08,722 --> 00:03:10,290 and I think she's a really good person. 95 00:03:10,323 --> 00:03:11,625 And I wanna rebuild, 96 00:03:11,725 --> 00:03:14,961 and let's rebuild from a place of authenticity. Like honesty. 97 00:03:15,028 --> 00:03:18,165 I got together the other day with Tamra and Carmella, and-- 98 00:03:18,231 --> 00:03:19,066 How was that? 99 00:03:19,166 --> 00:03:20,033 We had so much fun. 100 00:03:20,133 --> 00:03:21,693 Carmella has so many layers. 101 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:22,636 [exhales] 102 00:03:22,736 --> 00:03:24,538 [upbeat music] 103 00:03:31,536 --> 00:03:33,213 [doorbell rings] 104 00:03:36,149 --> 00:03:38,218 Hi! Look how good you look! 105 00:03:38,285 --> 00:03:39,986 I feel like we even have the same vibe today! 106 00:03:40,020 --> 00:03:41,321 - So, welcome. - Thank you! 107 00:03:41,354 --> 00:03:42,556 Garage, elevator... 108 00:03:42,622 --> 00:03:44,024 I'll pretend like I'm a hardworking 109 00:03:44,091 --> 00:03:45,258 real estate agent here. 110 00:03:45,325 --> 00:03:47,394 Oh, yeah, sell me the place. 111 00:03:47,494 --> 00:03:48,662 God, these stairs never end. 112 00:03:48,795 --> 00:03:50,163 They never end. 113 00:03:50,197 --> 00:03:54,034 Two bedrooms. There's a private suite up here... 114 00:03:54,101 --> 00:03:55,519 Cute little neighborhood, right? 115 00:03:55,552 --> 00:03:56,670 Oh, this is nice. 116 00:03:56,736 --> 00:03:57,771 Is this your daughter? 117 00:03:57,871 --> 00:03:59,740 That's my almost 18-year-old. 118 00:03:59,806 --> 00:04:02,067 - She's so pretty! - Oh, thank you. 119 00:04:02,134 --> 00:04:04,211 Does it get any better after 13, 'cause mine's 13 120 00:04:04,277 --> 00:04:06,146 and I tell you, she is a piece of work. 121 00:04:06,246 --> 00:04:08,582 The middle school years are so tough, 122 00:04:08,648 --> 00:04:10,083 they turn into complete assholes. 123 00:04:10,150 --> 00:04:11,084 Yeah. 124 00:04:11,184 --> 00:04:12,219 Um, and then, it's just different. 125 00:04:12,252 --> 00:04:13,120 It is different, yeah. 126 00:04:13,186 --> 00:04:14,454 It's hard in it's own ways, like, 127 00:04:14,521 --> 00:04:16,389 I'd like to say I'm not as physically tired. 128 00:04:16,423 --> 00:04:18,258 - It's the mental exhaustion... - The mental... 129 00:04:18,325 --> 00:04:19,593 Or the driving! 130 00:04:19,659 --> 00:04:21,528 Yeah. 131 00:04:21,628 --> 00:04:24,531 What can I get you to drink? Can I make us lattes? 132 00:04:24,564 --> 00:04:25,732 Oh, yeah, go ahead. 133 00:04:25,799 --> 00:04:29,060 Okay, so, the kids are in Rancho, Santa Fe. 134 00:04:29,094 --> 00:04:29,803 Yes. 135 00:04:29,870 --> 00:04:30,871 But they go to school there, 136 00:04:30,904 --> 00:04:31,872 so that's why they're there, mostly. 137 00:04:31,905 --> 00:04:33,140 Yes, that's why they're there. 138 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:34,708 Okay. But you have a place here because you... 139 00:04:34,774 --> 00:04:36,243 - My office is here. - Okay. 140 00:04:36,276 --> 00:04:37,711 And I can kind of just dive into work. 141 00:04:37,844 --> 00:04:38,812 Okay. 142 00:04:38,912 --> 00:04:39,980 It's just like my happy place. 143 00:04:40,046 --> 00:04:42,107 And I'm so rigid and structured down there, 144 00:04:42,174 --> 00:04:44,451 and this is a little bit of like, freedom for me. 145 00:04:44,518 --> 00:04:45,552 Yeah. 146 00:04:45,585 --> 00:04:47,420 Carmella is a hustler, I think she works hard, 147 00:04:47,454 --> 00:04:50,590 I think she enjoys making her own money 148 00:04:50,657 --> 00:04:51,858 and supporting herself, 149 00:04:51,958 --> 00:04:53,785 and I find all those things admirable, 150 00:04:53,852 --> 00:04:57,230 and she needs to lead with that, not with expensive gifts. 151 00:04:57,297 --> 00:04:58,398 [chuckling] 152 00:04:58,431 --> 00:05:00,400 So, I went to dinner the other night 153 00:05:00,433 --> 00:05:02,736 with Jenn and Tamra. 154 00:05:02,869 --> 00:05:06,973 And they let me know that there was like, all kinds of talk... 155 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,176 Vicki had a conversation with Gina. 156 00:05:09,242 --> 00:05:10,877 They are trying to piece it together, 157 00:05:10,944 --> 00:05:13,580 what does Carmella do? You buy land and develop? 158 00:05:13,713 --> 00:05:18,310 Well, I think Vicki... she said that you were a liar. 159 00:05:18,376 --> 00:05:20,787 And that you didn't know what you were talking about. 160 00:05:20,820 --> 00:05:22,722 I develop properties. 161 00:05:22,822 --> 00:05:24,357 I've been doing it for almost a decade. 162 00:05:24,424 --> 00:05:25,559 Mm-hmm. 163 00:05:25,625 --> 00:05:26,626 To be called a liar, 164 00:05:26,660 --> 00:05:28,461 like I'm a lot of ----ing things, right? 165 00:05:28,528 --> 00:05:29,729 Liar isn't one of them. 166 00:05:29,830 --> 00:05:31,431 - Like, that's insulting. - Yeah, I don't know... 167 00:05:31,464 --> 00:05:32,899 Vicki is incorrect. 168 00:05:32,966 --> 00:05:36,169 Whether it's cosmetic remodels, ground-up construction, 169 00:05:36,236 --> 00:05:39,673 build new spec homes, you're developing real estate. 170 00:05:39,739 --> 00:05:44,878 So I don't know where she gets this like... cuckoo crazy sh--. 171 00:05:44,945 --> 00:05:46,413 Like, get a hobby. 172 00:05:46,479 --> 00:05:48,982 Do you think it's a generational thing with Vicki? 173 00:05:49,015 --> 00:05:52,619 It's like this 1950s sitcom where like, if you're a woman, 174 00:05:52,652 --> 00:05:54,579 you're not showing up on a construction site. 175 00:05:54,646 --> 00:05:56,723 No, I think Vicki's just crazy. 176 00:05:56,823 --> 00:05:59,526 My Mike is a developer, she's not a developer. 177 00:05:59,593 --> 00:06:01,353 No, she told Tamra and I, her first project, 178 00:06:01,419 --> 00:06:03,697 she did a million-four on her own. 179 00:06:03,763 --> 00:06:05,966 Why is she telling you her profit margins? 180 00:06:05,999 --> 00:06:07,158 That's weird to me. 181 00:06:07,192 --> 00:06:08,668 I call bullsh-- to anybody that's lying. 182 00:06:08,735 --> 00:06:10,470 I think she's very sweet, 183 00:06:10,503 --> 00:06:12,472 I think she wants to be, obviously, very generous, 184 00:06:12,505 --> 00:06:15,175 like, the gift she gave Emily, 185 00:06:15,208 --> 00:06:17,669 and she is inviting me to do development projects with her. 186 00:06:17,702 --> 00:06:20,839 I'll have to show you the last luxury renovation that I did. 187 00:06:20,872 --> 00:06:22,415 - It was cute. - I wanna see it. 188 00:06:22,482 --> 00:06:23,541 It's fun! 189 00:06:23,608 --> 00:06:25,352 Do the next project. We'll have so much fun. 190 00:06:25,385 --> 00:06:26,711 You're going to love it. 191 00:06:26,778 --> 00:06:28,221 I have no idea what the [bleep] you're talking about. 192 00:06:28,321 --> 00:06:30,991 Just work on this with me and see if you like it. Try one. 193 00:06:31,024 --> 00:06:32,325 Oh, for God's sake. 194 00:06:32,359 --> 00:06:33,551 I'm going to be a boss bitch. 195 00:06:33,618 --> 00:06:35,328 You need to stay in your lane on what you know 196 00:06:35,428 --> 00:06:36,429 and what you do. 197 00:06:36,496 --> 00:06:37,898 Financial independence is critical, 198 00:06:37,964 --> 00:06:40,333 and I need to know, what is that? And what do I do? 199 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:44,337 And Carmella was sharing with me all about being a developer 200 00:06:44,371 --> 00:06:45,872 and her real estate business. 201 00:06:45,939 --> 00:06:48,541 Has Carmella done really well financially for herself? Yeah. 202 00:06:48,608 --> 00:06:50,944 Would I love that for myself? Yeah. Tell me more. 203 00:06:51,011 --> 00:06:53,413 So what would Jenn help you with? 204 00:06:53,513 --> 00:06:54,748 Picking out, like, the tiles 205 00:06:54,848 --> 00:06:56,983 and help me put together the design. 206 00:06:57,083 --> 00:06:59,586 It would just be good for Jenn to experience it, 207 00:06:59,686 --> 00:07:01,588 and I'd be paying somebody anyway. 208 00:07:01,655 --> 00:07:04,257 How do you decide like, how much of a kickback Jenn gets? 209 00:07:04,357 --> 00:07:06,059 For like, her contribution. 210 00:07:06,092 --> 00:07:07,727 I told I'd give her like 20,000 bucks. 211 00:07:07,794 --> 00:07:09,496 [dramatic music] 212 00:07:09,562 --> 00:07:10,964 You just gave me a $3,000 bag, 213 00:07:11,031 --> 00:07:12,365 and everybody had a problem with it, 214 00:07:12,432 --> 00:07:14,100 and now you're gonna give Jenn $20,000-- 215 00:07:14,167 --> 00:07:15,060 She'd be working! 216 00:07:15,093 --> 00:07:16,436 To pick out some tiles? 217 00:07:16,503 --> 00:07:17,404 Okay, no, no, no. 218 00:07:17,470 --> 00:07:18,538 I'll pick out some tiles! 219 00:07:18,571 --> 00:07:19,673 [laughing] 220 00:07:19,773 --> 00:07:20,840 That's such a random, arbitrary number, 221 00:07:20,940 --> 00:07:22,233 did you just pull that out of the air? 222 00:07:22,267 --> 00:07:25,512 It's an opportunity for Jenn to try something new. 223 00:07:25,612 --> 00:07:27,681 And it can be a very lucrative career. 224 00:07:27,747 --> 00:07:30,050 It's very important to empower women. 225 00:07:30,083 --> 00:07:32,385 It just seems messy. 226 00:07:32,452 --> 00:07:35,847 I have a red flag, icky gut about her. 227 00:07:35,914 --> 00:07:37,557 I don't like braggers! 228 00:07:37,624 --> 00:07:40,085 I think they're trying to buy their way into the friends, 229 00:07:40,118 --> 00:07:41,127 like it's weird. 230 00:07:41,227 --> 00:07:42,762 I'm gonna save you, I'm gonna give you a job, 231 00:07:42,796 --> 00:07:45,799 you're going to make a million dollars. Bull-flipping-sh--. 232 00:07:45,899 --> 00:07:48,134 Don't get hurt, and don't invest any money in it. 233 00:07:48,234 --> 00:07:50,603 Jenn's just like, oh, she wants to hire me! 234 00:07:50,670 --> 00:07:53,073 Really? It's going to go so wrong. 235 00:07:53,139 --> 00:07:55,775 I guarantee you, Carmella's gonna ask Ryan 236 00:07:55,842 --> 00:07:57,811 for money to develop their next project. 237 00:07:57,877 --> 00:07:59,079 I'm not stupid. 238 00:07:59,145 --> 00:08:01,181 Whatever she wants to do, cool. 239 00:08:01,281 --> 00:08:02,148 [chuckles] 240 00:08:02,215 --> 00:08:02,916 Good luck, bitch. 241 00:08:03,016 --> 00:08:04,918 [dramatic music] 242 00:08:04,984 --> 00:08:07,754 So did you get an invite to Vicki's event? 243 00:08:07,787 --> 00:08:09,322 Even though she thinks you're a liar. 244 00:08:09,389 --> 00:08:10,256 [laughs] 245 00:08:10,323 --> 00:08:11,716 I think so. 246 00:08:11,816 --> 00:08:14,728 I want to invite you. I want you to go, and I'm hoping you'll go. 247 00:08:14,828 --> 00:08:15,962 I mean, I would love to. 248 00:08:16,029 --> 00:08:19,566 Do you think she'll be irritated that you brought me? 249 00:08:19,666 --> 00:08:21,101 No. I don't really care. 250 00:08:21,134 --> 00:08:23,628 Vicki has not given Carmella a chance. 251 00:08:23,661 --> 00:08:25,997 I mean, you don't normally get a new friend 252 00:08:26,064 --> 00:08:28,174 that's just so open like that, and I like that! 253 00:08:28,241 --> 00:08:31,811 I do feel a little bit uncomfortable walking into that. 254 00:08:31,878 --> 00:08:33,580 I mean, right now, it's just your career- 255 00:08:33,646 --> 00:08:35,582 do you have any criminal background? 256 00:08:35,648 --> 00:08:37,384 I do, I mean, I do. 257 00:08:37,450 --> 00:08:38,885 Oh, have they brought that up yet? 258 00:08:38,985 --> 00:08:40,020 [laughing] 259 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:41,287 Not yet! I mean, I guess... 260 00:08:41,354 --> 00:08:42,680 Wait, what was it for? 261 00:08:42,747 --> 00:08:46,126 So I did get convicted of violating a restraining order. 262 00:08:46,192 --> 00:08:47,961 So you had to have a restraining order 263 00:08:48,061 --> 00:08:50,196 in order to violate a restraining order. 264 00:08:50,263 --> 00:08:52,198 Something happened with some woman, 265 00:08:52,298 --> 00:08:54,359 and my ex-husband, 266 00:08:54,426 --> 00:08:55,635 who was not my husband at the time, 267 00:08:55,702 --> 00:08:57,170 we had an altercation... 268 00:08:57,203 --> 00:08:59,305 And then she got a temporary restraining order against you. 269 00:08:59,339 --> 00:09:00,540 Yes, I violated it. 270 00:09:00,607 --> 00:09:01,808 But you... did you violate it on purpose? 271 00:09:01,875 --> 00:09:03,601 Like, you knew you were violating it? 272 00:09:03,668 --> 00:09:04,411 Yes and no. 273 00:09:04,511 --> 00:09:05,545 [laughing] 274 00:09:05,645 --> 00:09:07,872 I wasn't allowed within like 100 yards of her. 275 00:09:07,939 --> 00:09:08,748 Uh-huh. 276 00:09:08,815 --> 00:09:09,983 And I was being hard-headed, 277 00:09:10,050 --> 00:09:11,818 and we were at the same place at the same time-- 278 00:09:11,885 --> 00:09:13,620 - And you wouldn't leave? - I'm being a hard-ass, 279 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:14,387 and I wouldn't leave. 280 00:09:14,454 --> 00:09:15,789 But you never touched her? 281 00:09:15,855 --> 00:09:17,390 No, I couldn't reach her. I probably would have. 282 00:09:17,457 --> 00:09:18,992 But what do you mean, couldn't reach her? 283 00:09:19,025 --> 00:09:20,727 So, I'm at this bar. 284 00:09:20,794 --> 00:09:23,396 They have tables just like this, and they have stripper poles... 285 00:09:23,463 --> 00:09:25,231 Okay, I totally wanna go there, where is this place? 286 00:09:25,298 --> 00:09:26,066 It was in Ohio. 287 00:09:26,166 --> 00:09:27,967 Oh, my God! Of course it is. 288 00:09:28,068 --> 00:09:29,936 I might have been there that night, I don't know. 289 00:09:30,036 --> 00:09:31,638 And I'm like, I should get up there. 290 00:09:31,704 --> 00:09:32,839 So I'm on the stripper pole-- 291 00:09:32,872 --> 00:09:34,007 Yes, you should get up there. 292 00:09:34,107 --> 00:09:36,342 And the woman starts talking sh-- to me. 293 00:09:36,376 --> 00:09:37,877 Was it an ex of his? 294 00:09:37,944 --> 00:09:39,112 Yes. 295 00:09:39,212 --> 00:09:40,914 And then I started saying things back. 296 00:09:40,980 --> 00:09:42,115 Okay. 297 00:09:42,182 --> 00:09:43,850 And then her friend takes a drink and nails me 298 00:09:43,917 --> 00:09:44,818 in the face. 299 00:09:44,918 --> 00:09:45,877 - You get assaulted-- - Yes! 300 00:09:45,910 --> 00:09:46,686 ...but you're arrested? 301 00:09:46,786 --> 00:09:48,021 That was the irony in it. 302 00:09:48,054 --> 00:09:49,722 So I got not guilty on the assault, 303 00:09:49,789 --> 00:09:51,958 but I got convicted of... 304 00:09:52,058 --> 00:09:53,359 Violating the restraining order. 305 00:09:53,393 --> 00:09:54,360 Violating the restraining order. 306 00:09:54,427 --> 00:09:55,820 [chuckling] 307 00:09:55,887 --> 00:09:58,498 I just wanna go to this bar in Ohio and swing on a pole now. 308 00:09:58,565 --> 00:09:59,599 Right? [laughing] 309 00:09:59,666 --> 00:10:00,967 That's where I'm at. Like, can we do that? 310 00:10:01,034 --> 00:10:02,268 That's the Carmella I wanna know. 311 00:10:02,335 --> 00:10:04,104 I wanna know all the dirty details. 312 00:10:04,170 --> 00:10:07,073 I've calmed down immensely over the years. 313 00:10:07,140 --> 00:10:09,375 Lesson learned, I was 20. 314 00:10:09,509 --> 00:10:10,543 How embarrassing. 315 00:10:10,810 --> 00:10:12,912 You are who you are. I find it refreshing and fun. 316 00:10:12,946 --> 00:10:14,772 Listen, this is where you went wrong. 317 00:10:14,839 --> 00:10:16,416 You shouldn't have led with, 318 00:10:16,449 --> 00:10:18,109 I'm a real estate agent or developer, 319 00:10:18,176 --> 00:10:20,553 you should have led with, I had to go trial for assault 320 00:10:20,653 --> 00:10:23,122 and I also violated a restraining order. 321 00:10:23,223 --> 00:10:24,724 So watch yourself. 322 00:10:24,757 --> 00:10:25,925 [laughing] 323 00:10:25,959 --> 00:10:26,784 Coming up... 324 00:10:26,851 --> 00:10:28,161 I did not sleep last night. 325 00:10:28,261 --> 00:10:30,088 And it was mostly about Emily! 326 00:10:30,121 --> 00:10:32,090 [dramatic music] 327 00:10:32,123 --> 00:10:33,466 I'm so upset. 328 00:10:36,903 --> 00:10:39,130 [upbeat music] 329 00:10:39,230 --> 00:10:40,673 [knocking] 330 00:10:40,707 --> 00:10:41,608 Hello? 331 00:10:41,708 --> 00:10:42,809 What'd you bring with you? 332 00:10:42,876 --> 00:10:44,536 Oh, I got you some little things. 333 00:10:44,602 --> 00:10:46,279 - You look cute! - You look cute. 334 00:10:46,379 --> 00:10:47,413 Where's Jasper? 335 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,741 He's so excited. He loves all the space. 336 00:10:49,807 --> 00:10:50,917 It looks good! 337 00:10:50,984 --> 00:10:53,253 It feels a lot more homey than it originally did. 338 00:10:53,319 --> 00:10:55,380 I woke up the first night, and I was like, dang, 339 00:10:55,446 --> 00:10:56,439 where am I? 340 00:10:56,472 --> 00:10:57,557 This feels wrong. 341 00:10:57,624 --> 00:11:00,260 But now it's feeling a lot more... me. 342 00:11:00,326 --> 00:11:01,361 Like, yeah. 343 00:11:01,394 --> 00:11:02,220 So you love it? 344 00:11:02,287 --> 00:11:04,556 Yeah. You like my decor? 345 00:11:04,589 --> 00:11:05,990 Yeah but that picture's crooked. 346 00:11:06,090 --> 00:11:08,393 I did that on purpose. Just to bug you. 347 00:11:08,459 --> 00:11:10,703 Even though Sophia's not that far away, 348 00:11:10,737 --> 00:11:13,106 I think it's harder than I thought it was gonna be, 349 00:11:13,206 --> 00:11:14,407 not having her at home. 350 00:11:14,474 --> 00:11:15,633 This came out nice. 351 00:11:15,733 --> 00:11:18,811 I know. I'm living out my Elden Ring fantasies. 352 00:11:18,878 --> 00:11:20,413 I don't even know what that means. 353 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:21,447 [laughing] 354 00:11:21,514 --> 00:11:23,608 Well, I knew where her every move was, 355 00:11:23,641 --> 00:11:25,944 and now I'm like, where is she? 356 00:11:26,010 --> 00:11:29,022 But I wanna see my little girl just spread her wings and fly 357 00:11:29,055 --> 00:11:30,623 and become independent. 358 00:11:30,723 --> 00:11:32,892 Hey! You're splashing me! 359 00:11:32,959 --> 00:11:34,427 But I'm also gonna miss her. 360 00:11:34,494 --> 00:11:36,354 I can't just keep her at home 361 00:11:36,421 --> 00:11:37,830 and not let her out of the bubble. 362 00:11:37,897 --> 00:11:39,232 Yeah, it's bittersweet. 363 00:11:39,299 --> 00:11:41,459 So what's going on with Nico? Everything good? 364 00:11:41,492 --> 00:11:43,603 Yeah. We've been hanging out a lot now. 365 00:11:43,670 --> 00:11:44,762 Does he have a key? 366 00:11:44,829 --> 00:11:46,497 Not yet. I'm gonna give him one, though. 367 00:11:46,598 --> 00:11:48,575 - You are? - Yeah, why not? 368 00:11:48,608 --> 00:11:49,601 You think this is the one? 369 00:11:49,667 --> 00:11:51,110 - This is the forever? - Yes! 370 00:11:51,144 --> 00:11:52,437 Yes, I know this is the one. 371 00:11:52,503 --> 00:11:53,646 - Really? - Husband. 372 00:11:53,713 --> 00:11:55,248 - Husband. - Yeah. 373 00:11:55,281 --> 00:11:57,283 I mean, you're not in, like, a huge hurry? 374 00:11:57,317 --> 00:11:58,484 No, I'm not in a huge hurry. 375 00:11:58,585 --> 00:12:00,169 I think it's just more nice to be like, 376 00:12:00,203 --> 00:12:03,648 I love this person so much that we're legally, like, together. 377 00:12:03,715 --> 00:12:06,125 I also just like beautiful wedding gowns, 378 00:12:06,159 --> 00:12:07,994 and like, the whole event of it all. 379 00:12:08,061 --> 00:12:09,312 I think that'd be fun. 380 00:12:09,379 --> 00:12:13,725 I am in total shock. However, Nico is such a good kid. 381 00:12:13,791 --> 00:12:16,369 He loves her so much, he treats her so well. 382 00:12:16,436 --> 00:12:19,564 But I made sure before Sophia moved out 383 00:12:19,664 --> 00:12:21,040 that I put her on birth control. 384 00:12:21,140 --> 00:12:24,344 Because when I was Sophia's age, I had a two-year-old. 385 00:12:24,444 --> 00:12:25,945 [child crying] 386 00:12:25,979 --> 00:12:27,680 So, how did your party go? 387 00:12:27,747 --> 00:12:29,782 I think it was good, and, um... 388 00:12:29,816 --> 00:12:31,951 Shannon came over early to help me set up. 389 00:12:31,985 --> 00:12:33,536 Is it too much? 390 00:12:33,569 --> 00:12:34,988 No! I'll be okay. 391 00:12:35,054 --> 00:12:36,723 But it's a lot for you to carry! 392 00:12:36,789 --> 00:12:39,183 Well, you know, I'm trying to work out. 393 00:12:39,250 --> 00:12:40,585 Did you guys end up punching each other? 394 00:12:40,685 --> 00:12:42,020 [chuckling] No. 395 00:12:42,053 --> 00:12:43,963 I'm hopeful that we can continue to move forward like this... 396 00:12:43,997 --> 00:12:45,023 Yeah. 397 00:12:45,089 --> 00:12:47,033 - And we can be... - Do you think you will? 398 00:12:47,100 --> 00:12:49,836 I think so. I think so. But I mean, I never know. 399 00:12:49,902 --> 00:12:52,238 It's tough to move forward with Shannon Beador. 400 00:12:52,338 --> 00:12:54,574 But on the other side, Shannon's got this big heart, 401 00:12:54,674 --> 00:12:58,344 so I'm going to hold on to this friendship, see where it goes. 402 00:12:58,411 --> 00:13:00,213 Am I cautious? Yeah. 403 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,941 But I'm trying. I'm trying, I'm trying! It's a softer me. 404 00:13:04,042 --> 00:13:06,044 You can't just change overnight! 405 00:13:06,110 --> 00:13:10,056 I mean, it's so crazy that you're outta the house. 406 00:13:10,156 --> 00:13:12,792 It's crazy to me that I'm like, a grown woman now. 407 00:13:12,859 --> 00:13:14,377 Always being the youngest. 408 00:13:14,444 --> 00:13:16,713 I always felt like a child, and now I'm like, dang. 409 00:13:16,779 --> 00:13:19,532 You always know, there's always a place for you at the house, 410 00:13:19,565 --> 00:13:20,933 it's just not in the casita. 411 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:22,368 Yeah, dang it. 412 00:13:22,435 --> 00:13:23,569 [laughing] 413 00:13:23,670 --> 00:13:25,555 [upbeat music] 414 00:13:32,845 --> 00:13:33,738 Hi! 415 00:13:33,805 --> 00:13:35,048 - Hey! - There you are! 416 00:13:35,081 --> 00:13:36,316 Hi! Mwah. 417 00:13:36,349 --> 00:13:37,517 Sorry, you guys. 418 00:13:37,550 --> 00:13:38,718 - Oh hi! - Hi! 419 00:13:38,785 --> 00:13:40,353 - Hi, honey! - How are you? 420 00:13:40,386 --> 00:13:41,312 Sorry! 421 00:13:41,412 --> 00:13:42,789 Honey, that's okay! 422 00:13:42,855 --> 00:13:44,073 Hi! 423 00:13:44,140 --> 00:13:45,750 Are we all set to get some dinner started? 424 00:13:45,817 --> 00:13:48,277 I'm gonna do the ribeye house butchered. 425 00:13:48,311 --> 00:13:49,929 Filet, cooked medium well. 426 00:13:50,029 --> 00:13:51,322 Ma'am, for your dinner? 427 00:13:51,422 --> 00:13:52,465 The flatiron steak. 428 00:13:52,565 --> 00:13:53,950 I'd like a New York steak. 429 00:13:53,983 --> 00:13:55,793 Perfect, alright. 430 00:13:55,893 --> 00:13:56,994 I'm getting drunk. 431 00:13:57,095 --> 00:13:58,071 I love that for you. 432 00:13:58,104 --> 00:13:59,238 The whooping up girl's coming out! 433 00:13:59,305 --> 00:14:00,506 Yeah. [laughing] 434 00:14:00,540 --> 00:14:03,142 Who do you have to know to not be a Debbie Downer! 435 00:14:03,209 --> 00:14:04,877 That really bothered you! 436 00:14:04,944 --> 00:14:06,412 I'm just gonna call you Deb. 437 00:14:06,446 --> 00:14:07,480 Thanks. 438 00:14:07,580 --> 00:14:09,115 No offense to all Debs out there, 439 00:14:09,182 --> 00:14:11,342 but I am not a Debbie Downer. I don't wanna be called Deb. 440 00:14:11,409 --> 00:14:15,722 Deb's favorite phrase is "boo-hoo," 'cause, you know, 441 00:14:15,755 --> 00:14:16,956 the opposite of "woo-hoo." 442 00:14:17,023 --> 00:14:18,758 - Wow. - Bon appetit, everyone. 443 00:14:18,791 --> 00:14:21,427 I saw Tamra recently, and had a very honest, 444 00:14:21,461 --> 00:14:25,331 good conversation, I thought, and we're moving forward. 445 00:14:25,398 --> 00:14:27,150 Social bestie. 446 00:14:27,183 --> 00:14:28,101 It's me. 447 00:14:28,167 --> 00:14:30,027 When we're together, we're good, 448 00:14:30,128 --> 00:14:33,239 but then, when you talk to other people, I'm just confused. 449 00:14:33,306 --> 00:14:36,242 Just in the past year, I'm like, is she a social friend, 450 00:14:36,309 --> 00:14:37,844 does she not want to be seen with me? 451 00:14:37,910 --> 00:14:42,548 Guess who the only person who has been there for you? It's me. 452 00:14:42,582 --> 00:14:47,136 But I gotta tell you something, this does not add up to me, 453 00:14:47,203 --> 00:14:49,989 because I have done nothing but prove to you 454 00:14:50,056 --> 00:14:52,492 what a good friend I am! 455 00:14:52,558 --> 00:14:53,976 [tearing] I'm sorry. 456 00:14:54,043 --> 00:14:56,846 We all know that it's much more difficult for Tamra 457 00:14:56,879 --> 00:14:59,632 to take accountability for a lot of stuff. 458 00:14:59,699 --> 00:15:02,568 But I appreciate her apology, 'cause for the first time, 459 00:15:02,602 --> 00:15:06,631 I felt there was some genuineness to it. 460 00:15:06,697 --> 00:15:10,368 When I got home, Tamra said I can't believe you came early 461 00:15:10,468 --> 00:15:12,829 and helped me decorate... thank you so much... 462 00:15:12,895 --> 00:15:14,138 And then it went back and forth. 463 00:15:14,205 --> 00:15:18,017 I don't want this to be like, our thing. 464 00:15:18,084 --> 00:15:19,852 With Tamra, we're at a peaceful place, 465 00:15:19,919 --> 00:15:24,682 and I appreciate any apology, but what holds me back is... 466 00:15:24,715 --> 00:15:26,083 ...the rollercoaster. 467 00:15:26,184 --> 00:15:27,819 I don't want to ride it anymore. 468 00:15:27,885 --> 00:15:29,362 I'm afraid of heights. 469 00:15:29,429 --> 00:15:34,425 I think that I have a unique ability to be able to go okay, 470 00:15:34,492 --> 00:15:35,685 I don't like this. 471 00:15:35,751 --> 00:15:39,764 So, I need to put this over here so I can be your friend. 472 00:15:39,864 --> 00:15:43,167 I understand that, Heather, but I do think that there is 473 00:15:43,201 --> 00:15:44,844 like, a sensitive side of you. 474 00:15:44,911 --> 00:15:47,180 I'm glad you're telling me that, 'cause I have to tell you, 475 00:15:47,213 --> 00:15:48,606 I did not sleep last night. 476 00:15:48,706 --> 00:15:49,816 And it was mostly about Emily. 477 00:15:49,849 --> 00:15:51,651 At the start of this year, she said to me, 478 00:15:51,684 --> 00:15:53,319 "Oh, my God, you're one of my best friends." 479 00:15:53,386 --> 00:15:54,737 I was with Jenn, and I said, 480 00:15:54,770 --> 00:15:57,348 you know, I consider Heather one of my best friends. 481 00:15:57,415 --> 00:15:58,624 I love that. 482 00:15:58,724 --> 00:16:01,752 But when I saw her and Jenn and Tamra sitting outside, 483 00:16:01,853 --> 00:16:04,497 and we were all inside, she came in, didn't look at me 484 00:16:04,530 --> 00:16:06,265 or talk to me when she came back in the room. 485 00:16:06,332 --> 00:16:10,061 Well, you know that Emily told Jenn what you had told her about 486 00:16:10,127 --> 00:16:11,295 the being obsessed thing. 487 00:16:11,395 --> 00:16:14,440 I am upset because there was no context to it. 488 00:16:14,540 --> 00:16:15,466 Okay. 489 00:16:15,566 --> 00:16:18,427 And then Emily told me to stop talking. 490 00:16:18,461 --> 00:16:20,897 Nobody wants to hear that. 491 00:16:22,782 --> 00:16:27,979 I know I'm overly sensitive, whatever, but I'm so upset. 492 00:16:28,079 --> 00:16:31,924 I grew up in a family that wasn't the warmest, 493 00:16:31,991 --> 00:16:35,361 and so my friendships are family to me. 494 00:16:35,394 --> 00:16:38,231 I should be allowed to be who I am. 495 00:16:38,264 --> 00:16:41,492 So what Emily did was so disappointing to me. 496 00:16:41,592 --> 00:16:43,703 Well, yeah, I mean, I get it. 497 00:16:43,736 --> 00:16:45,763 And I know how Emily could be, she's my best friend! 498 00:16:45,796 --> 00:16:49,342 I know, but sometimes, it can go over the line to cause hurt. 499 00:16:49,375 --> 00:16:51,744 I... and I'm seeing that, and I understand. 500 00:16:51,811 --> 00:16:54,080 I'm sorry that your feelings got hurt, 501 00:16:54,113 --> 00:16:55,673 and I hate seeing you upset. 502 00:16:55,740 --> 00:16:57,675 Emily was harsh that night. 503 00:16:57,775 --> 00:17:00,486 It's not easy to be holding Emily accountable, 504 00:17:00,586 --> 00:17:02,480 but I feel like it's the right thing to do 505 00:17:02,580 --> 00:17:05,349 for both of my friends in this circumstance. 506 00:17:05,449 --> 00:17:07,285 You should talk to her about it. 507 00:17:07,351 --> 00:17:08,586 I'd be happy to. 508 00:17:08,653 --> 00:17:10,663 Thank you for being honest with us, we love you. 509 00:17:10,730 --> 00:17:11,814 I love you, too. 510 00:17:11,847 --> 00:17:13,900 I just wanna know, who do you have to know 511 00:17:13,966 --> 00:17:15,293 to whoop it up around here? 512 00:17:15,326 --> 00:17:16,527 Alright! Whoop it up! 513 00:17:16,627 --> 00:17:17,795 No Debbie Downers around here! 514 00:17:17,828 --> 00:17:19,438 I'm not a Debbie Downer, bitches! 515 00:17:19,505 --> 00:17:20,273 [laughing] 516 00:17:20,306 --> 00:17:22,099 - Cheers, Deb. - Woo-hoo! 517 00:17:22,166 --> 00:17:23,793 Debbie! Debbie Downer! 518 00:17:26,712 --> 00:17:27,980 Coming up... 519 00:17:28,047 --> 00:17:30,333 It's just odd to meet somebody, 520 00:17:30,366 --> 00:17:34,136 here's a Dior bag and something to masturbate with. 521 00:17:38,074 --> 00:17:39,809 [upbeat music] 522 00:17:43,262 --> 00:17:44,221 Hi! 523 00:17:44,322 --> 00:17:46,399 Hi there. Do you have a table for two? 524 00:17:46,465 --> 00:17:47,366 Yep. Of course. 525 00:17:47,466 --> 00:17:50,861 Wow, this is, like, crowded, Dad! 526 00:17:54,073 --> 00:17:55,341 How are we doing with the menu? 527 00:17:55,374 --> 00:17:56,367 Very good. 528 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,311 I'll do a Ketel One soda. 529 00:17:58,377 --> 00:18:00,513 And can I have the chicken parmesan? 530 00:18:00,613 --> 00:18:01,547 Chicken parm? 531 00:18:01,580 --> 00:18:03,082 He'll have a glass of Prosecco. 532 00:18:03,149 --> 00:18:04,083 Yeah. 533 00:18:04,183 --> 00:18:05,985 He's gonna have the sole, thank you. 534 00:18:06,052 --> 00:18:07,078 I'll get that started for us. 535 00:18:07,144 --> 00:18:08,054 - Thank you. - Thank you. 536 00:18:08,154 --> 00:18:09,480 - You look good. - Yeah. 537 00:18:09,547 --> 00:18:11,082 You look good for 97! 538 00:18:11,182 --> 00:18:12,291 [laughing] 539 00:18:12,325 --> 00:18:15,027 Growing up, I thought I was nothing like my father. 540 00:18:15,094 --> 00:18:19,832 And as I sit with him today, I realize we're very similar. 541 00:18:19,899 --> 00:18:22,760 Gene the Machine is outgoing, and I am as well! 542 00:18:22,827 --> 00:18:24,203 I remember when you were 96, 543 00:18:24,303 --> 00:18:26,664 with Marilyn Monroe giving you a kiss on the cheek! 544 00:18:26,731 --> 00:18:28,207 [chuckling] 545 00:18:28,274 --> 00:18:32,211 I will probably come up with a name for myself when I'm 97. 546 00:18:32,244 --> 00:18:33,579 Shannon the Cannon? 547 00:18:33,679 --> 00:18:34,413 [boom] 548 00:18:34,447 --> 00:18:36,874 Beador-a the Explor-a. 549 00:18:36,941 --> 00:18:38,776 Encore Beador! 550 00:18:38,876 --> 00:18:40,077 [applause] 551 00:18:40,111 --> 00:18:42,188 Hardcore Beador. 552 00:18:42,254 --> 00:18:44,457 Beador Conquistador! 553 00:18:44,523 --> 00:18:46,125 A little Español. 554 00:18:46,192 --> 00:18:48,961 So, you know, I had the meeting with the bookkeeper. 555 00:18:49,061 --> 00:18:50,229 How is that going? 556 00:18:50,296 --> 00:18:52,264 My problem is, is that I put my head in the sand. 557 00:18:52,365 --> 00:18:56,427 But I told her I had a six-month goal of getting anything 558 00:18:56,460 --> 00:18:59,472 that I owe, or anything out of the way. 559 00:18:59,572 --> 00:19:03,209 When I grew up, I would work every Saturday and Sunday. 560 00:19:03,309 --> 00:19:05,678 We had cars to wash, we had to rake the driveway 561 00:19:05,711 --> 00:19:07,972 for $3 an hour. 562 00:19:08,072 --> 00:19:09,281 That's the rate I negotiated. 563 00:19:09,382 --> 00:19:10,883 But yet, I never learned budgeting. 564 00:19:10,916 --> 00:19:12,084 If there was money in the account, 565 00:19:12,184 --> 00:19:13,152 and I wanted something, 566 00:19:13,252 --> 00:19:14,720 that means that you can go buy it. 567 00:19:14,754 --> 00:19:16,313 I would love to live by you, 568 00:19:16,380 --> 00:19:18,858 but I'm not going to spend that much money on a house. 569 00:19:18,891 --> 00:19:20,292 What is your dream of a retirement? 570 00:19:20,393 --> 00:19:22,161 I don't know! You gotta help me with that. 571 00:19:22,261 --> 00:19:23,120 I will. 572 00:19:23,154 --> 00:19:24,463 And now, here I am at 62, 573 00:19:24,497 --> 00:19:29,226 realizing you can't ignore your finances anymore! 574 00:19:29,293 --> 00:19:31,337 'Cause no one else is taking care of it but you. 575 00:19:31,404 --> 00:19:34,231 My new friend, Carmella, she lives in Rancho, 576 00:19:34,298 --> 00:19:35,408 and then Corona Del Mar. 577 00:19:35,441 --> 00:19:37,710 When we moved to Rancho Santa Fe, 578 00:19:37,743 --> 00:19:40,212 and we still had our house in Los Angeles... 579 00:19:40,246 --> 00:19:41,414 Yeah. 580 00:19:41,447 --> 00:19:43,082 How many years did you have that house in LA? 581 00:19:43,149 --> 00:19:45,910 Three or four. I was stupid, I should've kept the house! 582 00:19:45,976 --> 00:19:50,748 I bought that house in Rancho Santa Fe as a summer house. 583 00:19:50,815 --> 00:19:52,892 So fall came, and then-- 584 00:19:52,925 --> 00:19:54,760 So Mom said, I wanna stay? 585 00:19:54,827 --> 00:19:56,420 Everybody said, we wanna stay. 586 00:19:56,487 --> 00:20:00,900 Well, Dad, I didn't wanna stay. I wanted to go back to LA. 587 00:20:00,933 --> 00:20:02,868 It weighed so heavy on me, 588 00:20:02,935 --> 00:20:06,505 because I thought that if I said no, we would've packed up and-- 589 00:20:06,605 --> 00:20:07,798 Yeah. 590 00:20:07,865 --> 00:20:09,842 ...my brother and my sister and mother would've been 591 00:20:09,942 --> 00:20:11,043 - angry at me. - Yeah. 592 00:20:11,110 --> 00:20:12,211 - So I caved. - I know. 593 00:20:12,278 --> 00:20:15,414 I had friends in LA, I loved my school in LA. 594 00:20:15,448 --> 00:20:20,319 I know! I didn't have the balls to say we're going back to LA 595 00:20:20,352 --> 00:20:22,980 and run my business. 596 00:20:23,047 --> 00:20:26,926 You're like me, Dad. We kind of like the faster pace. 597 00:20:26,959 --> 00:20:27,860 Yeah. 598 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,395 I don't wanna stay in my old house, 599 00:20:29,495 --> 00:20:31,664 where I see nobody walk by. 600 00:20:31,730 --> 00:20:34,567 I like where I live now, I go sit outside, 601 00:20:34,633 --> 00:20:36,660 I say hello to people when they walk by... 602 00:20:36,727 --> 00:20:38,003 Right, right. 603 00:20:38,070 --> 00:20:41,132 I was 10 years old, it's not like my opinion of 604 00:20:41,198 --> 00:20:43,676 I wanna go back to Los Angeles would have changed anything. 605 00:20:43,776 --> 00:20:48,539 But it does make me realize that even though I might not be 606 00:20:48,572 --> 00:20:50,574 in the best financial position right now, 607 00:20:50,641 --> 00:20:52,585 today I'm happy in Corona Del Mar. 608 00:20:52,685 --> 00:20:55,421 So I'm going to trust my gut and my instincts, 609 00:20:55,521 --> 00:20:57,823 and I am old enough to make my own choices. 610 00:20:57,857 --> 00:21:00,793 It's very impressive that you went to school 611 00:21:00,826 --> 00:21:02,428 in a one-room schoolhouse. 612 00:21:02,495 --> 00:21:03,662 Yeah. 613 00:21:03,696 --> 00:21:05,764 The success that you made of yourself, I'm proud of you. 614 00:21:05,865 --> 00:21:07,558 And I'm... I'm still trying. 615 00:21:07,591 --> 00:21:09,268 I made it through. [chuckling] 616 00:21:09,368 --> 00:21:11,262 Well, you did. With a bang. 617 00:21:11,362 --> 00:21:15,065 [laughing] 618 00:21:15,099 --> 00:21:17,776 [upbeat music] 619 00:21:23,782 --> 00:21:24,942 Hey, bitch! 620 00:21:25,042 --> 00:21:26,952 Look at you just standing out on that corner. 621 00:21:27,019 --> 00:21:28,187 Trying to make some money. 622 00:21:28,254 --> 00:21:29,455 Yeah! [laughing] 623 00:21:29,555 --> 00:21:30,689 Everybody just keeps passing me by! 624 00:21:30,756 --> 00:21:31,924 Yeah! [laughing] 625 00:21:31,957 --> 00:21:33,058 I'm like, yep, sorry. 626 00:21:33,125 --> 00:21:34,426 You're a retired hooker? 627 00:21:34,460 --> 00:21:35,394 How are you? 628 00:21:35,494 --> 00:21:38,297 Honestly, Tamra, I'm freakin'... exhausted. 629 00:21:38,364 --> 00:21:41,200 My stepdaughter had emergency appendectomy 630 00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:42,668 in the middle of the night last night. 631 00:21:42,701 --> 00:21:43,627 Yeah. 632 00:21:43,694 --> 00:21:44,703 Oh, jeez. 633 00:21:44,804 --> 00:21:47,798 Thankfully, it wasn't ruptured, so surgery itself 634 00:21:47,898 --> 00:21:50,075 was laparoscopic, it was an hour long. 635 00:21:50,109 --> 00:21:52,444 And then, two hours later, she was allowed to come home. 636 00:21:52,545 --> 00:21:53,971 Aw, poor thing! 637 00:21:54,038 --> 00:21:54,747 I know! 638 00:21:54,847 --> 00:21:57,550 My stepdaughter wanted me to come, 639 00:21:57,616 --> 00:21:59,185 but you have to call her mom. 640 00:21:59,251 --> 00:22:00,186 You don't beat around that. 641 00:22:00,219 --> 00:22:01,579 This is one of those times 642 00:22:01,645 --> 00:22:03,822 that's actually just really difficult to navigate 643 00:22:03,889 --> 00:22:05,024 as a step-parent, 644 00:22:05,057 --> 00:22:06,659 because although I want to be there for my step-child, 645 00:22:06,725 --> 00:22:10,930 if it is in their best interest to get through a circumstance 646 00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:12,164 where it is stressful, 647 00:22:12,231 --> 00:22:14,900 I am not going to do anything that is going to cause 648 00:22:14,967 --> 00:22:17,236 more stress for them. That's the bottom line. 649 00:22:17,269 --> 00:22:21,332 I say, try to stay out of it as much as I can, 650 00:22:21,398 --> 00:22:23,375 but obviously, I'm very much involved in it. 651 00:22:23,409 --> 00:22:24,410 Yeah. 652 00:22:24,476 --> 00:22:25,669 What's been going on with you? 653 00:22:25,769 --> 00:22:29,139 Well, I went to dinner with Jenn and Carmella. 654 00:22:29,173 --> 00:22:30,182 How did that go? 655 00:22:30,249 --> 00:22:32,084 Carmella's not very happy with you. 656 00:22:32,151 --> 00:22:33,586 Is it Gina you're upset with? 657 00:22:33,619 --> 00:22:35,521 Yes, to like, accuse me of having of, like, 658 00:22:35,588 --> 00:22:37,156 having an ulterior motive? 659 00:22:37,256 --> 00:22:38,282 Yeah. 660 00:22:38,349 --> 00:22:39,758 To like, buying a... like, that's gross. 661 00:22:39,792 --> 00:22:42,194 It's just odd to meet somebody... 662 00:22:42,261 --> 00:22:45,931 here's a Dior bag and something to masturbate with. 663 00:22:45,998 --> 00:22:47,099 [laughing] 664 00:22:47,199 --> 00:22:49,193 And it just struck me as weird, 665 00:22:49,260 --> 00:22:51,036 and, of course, I'm going to communicate that to Emily, 666 00:22:51,136 --> 00:22:52,605 like, I do think it's weird! 667 00:22:52,638 --> 00:22:54,740 But Emily's like, hanging out with Carmella, 668 00:22:54,773 --> 00:22:55,966 throwing me under the bus! 669 00:22:56,033 --> 00:22:58,702 Emily and I, we were invited by Carmella 670 00:22:58,769 --> 00:23:00,779 to go to an exercise class. 671 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,373 And Emily talked about the purse. 672 00:23:02,473 --> 00:23:03,674 Thank you so much for the bag. 673 00:23:03,707 --> 00:23:06,819 But I will tell you, Gina's been very vocal about it. 674 00:23:06,886 --> 00:23:09,288 That you have like, a... like, motive behind it. 675 00:23:09,355 --> 00:23:10,589 Oh, Emily! 676 00:23:10,623 --> 00:23:14,318 I honestly don't know if Emily was concussed that day 677 00:23:14,385 --> 00:23:15,661 that she told Carmella, 678 00:23:15,694 --> 00:23:17,888 because that was supposed to be a safe space. 679 00:23:17,955 --> 00:23:20,057 Of course I talk sh-- about Carmella to you, 680 00:23:20,157 --> 00:23:22,493 you're my best ----ing friend. 681 00:23:22,559 --> 00:23:25,371 Wait for this... 682 00:23:25,471 --> 00:23:26,505 So... 683 00:23:26,605 --> 00:23:28,999 We're talking, me, Jenn, Carmella. 684 00:23:29,066 --> 00:23:31,677 And she says, about her career and what she does, 685 00:23:31,744 --> 00:23:35,347 and she says, "Well I'm bringing Jenn in on my next project." 686 00:23:35,447 --> 00:23:37,808 Jenn Pedranti? 687 00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:41,211 Why can't Carmella just make friends like a normal person? 688 00:23:41,245 --> 00:23:43,547 It's all just money, money, money to me, 689 00:23:43,580 --> 00:23:47,184 which always is kind of a red flag to me. 690 00:23:47,251 --> 00:23:48,327 You sound like Vicki now! 691 00:23:48,394 --> 00:23:49,695 [laughing] 692 00:23:49,795 --> 00:23:50,930 Oh! Well, yeah, I mean, 693 00:23:51,030 --> 00:23:53,390 this woman has way bigger fish to fry than me. 694 00:23:53,424 --> 00:23:54,858 I mean, Vicki's the one who's going around saying, 695 00:23:54,925 --> 00:23:57,261 "I don't like her, I think she's a liar, 696 00:23:57,328 --> 00:23:59,697 and she's Carmella De Vil!" 697 00:23:59,763 --> 00:24:01,540 Oh, she can't even get her name straight. 698 00:24:01,607 --> 00:24:04,043 It's just, something feels wrong to me. 699 00:24:04,143 --> 00:24:05,844 Do you think she's full of sh-- about it? 700 00:24:05,911 --> 00:24:07,104 I don't know her well enough. 701 00:24:07,171 --> 00:24:09,214 I mean, I had a lovely conversation with her. 702 00:24:09,315 --> 00:24:11,517 Then when you do look at other things... 703 00:24:11,583 --> 00:24:13,686 You know, you are kind of like, huh. 704 00:24:13,752 --> 00:24:15,913 She's like, she's doing too much. You know what I mean? 705 00:24:15,946 --> 00:24:18,290 It's like... designer bags and sex toys. 706 00:24:18,390 --> 00:24:20,225 Oh, if only it was a designer dildo! 707 00:24:20,326 --> 00:24:21,418 Right? I know! 708 00:24:21,452 --> 00:24:22,728 Coming up.... 709 00:24:22,795 --> 00:24:23,729 That's a character flaw. 710 00:24:23,762 --> 00:24:25,589 Don't put me in a box like that, baby, 711 00:24:25,622 --> 00:24:27,066 because if I think that something's weird 712 00:24:27,099 --> 00:24:29,051 for my best friend, I'm gonna say it. 713 00:24:33,906 --> 00:24:37,209 [upbeat music] 714 00:24:37,242 --> 00:24:38,644 What do I wear to a winery? 715 00:24:38,744 --> 00:24:39,978 You can't go wrong with all black. 716 00:24:40,112 --> 00:24:41,980 I'm so tired of wearing pants! 717 00:24:42,114 --> 00:24:43,148 I'm gonna text Jenn. 718 00:24:43,248 --> 00:24:45,442 What are you wearing to the winery? 719 00:24:45,476 --> 00:24:46,719 Text them all. 720 00:24:46,752 --> 00:24:48,954 What are you wearing to the winery? 721 00:24:49,021 --> 00:24:50,022 Question mark. 722 00:24:50,089 --> 00:24:51,782 What are you wearing to the winery? 723 00:24:51,815 --> 00:24:52,691 Question mark. 724 00:24:52,758 --> 00:24:54,460 What are you wearing to the winery? 725 00:24:54,593 --> 00:24:56,128 What are you wearing to the winery? 726 00:24:56,195 --> 00:24:58,122 Question mark. 727 00:24:58,155 --> 00:25:00,282 Okay, Heather... 728 00:25:00,315 --> 00:25:03,669 Pants and a grey jacket. I hope I have a bra. 729 00:25:03,802 --> 00:25:06,672 [laughing] 730 00:25:06,805 --> 00:25:08,665 Well, I'm definitely not wearing this. 731 00:25:08,766 --> 00:25:10,075 [laughing] 732 00:25:10,142 --> 00:25:11,276 I love your sweats. 733 00:25:11,343 --> 00:25:13,412 These are Ryan's that are covered in... 734 00:25:13,445 --> 00:25:15,347 Dog hair. 735 00:25:19,184 --> 00:25:21,311 [train horn] 736 00:25:21,345 --> 00:25:24,440 [upbeat music] 737 00:25:27,009 --> 00:25:28,360 Oh, how pretty. 738 00:25:28,460 --> 00:25:29,661 Hi, Vicki, good to see you. 739 00:25:29,695 --> 00:25:30,963 Hi, Sylvia, welcome to Rancho Capistrano Winery! 740 00:25:31,063 --> 00:25:32,664 Yes, yes, I've been here quite often, it's beautiful. 741 00:25:32,765 --> 00:25:34,266 - Oh, wonderful, thank you. - Thanks for having us. 742 00:25:34,333 --> 00:25:36,435 So, this is where you're going to be dining this evening. 743 00:25:36,468 --> 00:25:38,170 Okay, I'm not sitting at the end. 744 00:25:38,203 --> 00:25:39,138 I'm going to sit here. 745 00:25:39,171 --> 00:25:40,339 [chuckles] 746 00:25:40,439 --> 00:25:42,341 When I sit at the end, people call me a Debbie Downer 747 00:25:42,408 --> 00:25:43,801 'cause I can't hear what they're saying. 748 00:25:43,867 --> 00:25:45,494 Oh no! Oh yeah, right, 'cause you can't hear them. 749 00:25:45,527 --> 00:25:47,329 - Mama needs a drink. - Alright! 750 00:25:47,362 --> 00:25:48,347 [groans] 751 00:25:48,380 --> 00:25:49,181 Came to the right place! 752 00:25:49,214 --> 00:25:50,149 Do you like spicy stuff? 753 00:25:50,215 --> 00:25:52,351 Let's do it. 754 00:25:52,484 --> 00:25:53,719 Cheers. 755 00:25:57,356 --> 00:25:59,850 [coughing] 756 00:25:59,883 --> 00:26:01,493 Oh, I like it. 757 00:26:01,527 --> 00:26:03,028 Welcome to Rancho Capistrano Winery! 758 00:26:03,095 --> 00:26:04,363 Thank you! How are you? 759 00:26:04,496 --> 00:26:06,799 Who do you have to know to whoop it up around here with? 760 00:26:06,832 --> 00:26:08,300 Oh! Look at you, sexy mama! 761 00:26:08,367 --> 00:26:09,359 [laughing] 762 00:26:09,393 --> 00:26:10,068 Hi. 763 00:26:10,202 --> 00:26:11,537 Hi, honey. 764 00:26:11,603 --> 00:26:13,305 You know Carmella's gonna be here, right? 765 00:26:13,372 --> 00:26:15,899 - I didn't invite her. - Well, I did. 766 00:26:15,999 --> 00:26:17,334 Are you going to be nice to her? 767 00:26:17,401 --> 00:26:18,510 Ish. 768 00:26:18,577 --> 00:26:20,245 I don't know, she bugs me, I think she's a liar. 769 00:26:20,345 --> 00:26:22,531 You have to get through-- you have to get through to me. 770 00:26:22,564 --> 00:26:24,883 - Are you gonna tell her that? - No, I just, I just have to... 771 00:26:24,983 --> 00:26:26,885 Maybe just, maybe get to know her a little bit better. 772 00:26:26,985 --> 00:26:28,086 [scoffs] 773 00:26:28,187 --> 00:26:29,488 The more they're telling me to like Carmella, 774 00:26:29,555 --> 00:26:30,756 the more I'm not gonna like her. 775 00:26:30,856 --> 00:26:32,224 Just let me decide this on my own. 776 00:26:32,257 --> 00:26:35,894 But it doesn't... sniff... smell the sniff test. 777 00:26:35,961 --> 00:26:37,362 Is that right? 778 00:26:37,429 --> 00:26:38,764 The smelling sniff test. 779 00:26:38,897 --> 00:26:40,549 It doesn't sniff the sniff test. 780 00:26:40,582 --> 00:26:41,733 [laughs] 781 00:26:41,834 --> 00:26:45,404 Wait, is... what is that? Doesn't pass the sniff test! 782 00:26:45,471 --> 00:26:47,030 [upbeat music] 783 00:26:47,097 --> 00:26:47,906 Hi! 784 00:26:47,940 --> 00:26:49,141 - You cut your hair! - I know! 785 00:26:49,208 --> 00:26:51,110 - I love it! - Why a wine tasting? 786 00:26:51,243 --> 00:26:52,703 So, I'm in a really good mood tonight. 787 00:26:52,769 --> 00:26:54,513 Don't get used to it, 'cause some days I'm crabby. 788 00:26:54,580 --> 00:26:55,581 [laughing] 789 00:26:55,848 --> 00:26:57,416 So you wanna prove that you're not a Debbie Downer? 790 00:26:57,516 --> 00:26:59,017 Well, I don't have to prove it to anybody! 791 00:26:59,084 --> 00:27:00,619 You are lots of fun. 792 00:27:00,719 --> 00:27:04,022 When you want to be fun, you are fun. 793 00:27:04,056 --> 00:27:05,249 Can you record that please? 794 00:27:05,282 --> 00:27:07,259 But sometimes, you don't want to be fun. 795 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,428 - Then you are not fun. - That's called being human. 796 00:27:09,495 --> 00:27:10,929 Debbie Downer's eating you alive, Vicki? 797 00:27:10,963 --> 00:27:12,297 How about just be fun 798 00:27:12,397 --> 00:27:15,584 and then not bring up Debbie Downer 100 times? 799 00:27:15,617 --> 00:27:17,586 Get a backbone! 800 00:27:17,619 --> 00:27:19,071 - Hi! - Hi! 801 00:27:19,138 --> 00:27:19,938 [chuckling] 802 00:27:20,072 --> 00:27:21,106 - Oh, hi! - Hi! 803 00:27:21,140 --> 00:27:22,299 Hi, hi, hi! How are you? 804 00:27:22,399 --> 00:27:24,109 Hi! Nice to see you! 805 00:27:24,209 --> 00:27:26,136 - Hello! - Hello! 806 00:27:26,236 --> 00:27:28,105 Top of the morning! 807 00:27:28,138 --> 00:27:31,483 Hi! Thank you. 808 00:27:31,550 --> 00:27:32,935 That is Carmella. 809 00:27:32,968 --> 00:27:33,886 I don't know her! 810 00:27:33,919 --> 00:27:35,621 You need to knock it the [bleep] off. 811 00:27:35,654 --> 00:27:36,772 We already had a talk with her. 812 00:27:36,805 --> 00:27:37,981 I don't know her, I don't know her, 813 00:27:38,115 --> 00:27:39,725 I met her once, kind of at a distance. 814 00:27:39,791 --> 00:27:43,153 Okay, well, you clearly invited her to an event. 815 00:27:43,287 --> 00:27:44,363 - How are you? - Good, good. 816 00:27:44,429 --> 00:27:46,949 - Hi! I'm Vicki. - How are you? We've met before. 817 00:27:46,982 --> 00:27:50,827 Well, ish, I think we've met ish. 818 00:27:50,961 --> 00:27:52,304 Didn't I meet this bitch already? 819 00:27:52,371 --> 00:27:55,290 Like why are you saying, nice to meet you? Is that on purpose? 820 00:27:55,324 --> 00:27:57,476 - I'm Carmella. - Really good to meet you! 821 00:27:57,509 --> 00:27:59,127 Hi, it's nice to meet you, too. 822 00:27:59,161 --> 00:28:00,504 Hello! 823 00:28:00,604 --> 00:28:01,980 You look wonderful! 824 00:28:02,014 --> 00:28:03,248 I love the housecoat! 825 00:28:03,315 --> 00:28:04,800 Come on, I'm not forgettable. 826 00:28:04,833 --> 00:28:07,519 - I don't drink wine. Do you? - I don't really either. 827 00:28:07,653 --> 00:28:08,645 That's what I said! 828 00:28:08,679 --> 00:28:10,822 - Oh... - You have vodka in your purse? 829 00:28:10,923 --> 00:28:12,457 You brought vodka in your pocket? 830 00:28:12,524 --> 00:28:13,492 Damn right. 831 00:28:13,592 --> 00:28:15,160 - Of course you did. - In my pocket? Look. 832 00:28:15,294 --> 00:28:16,979 It's just getting better and better. 833 00:28:17,012 --> 00:28:20,165 I'm not much of a wine drinker, because one time in the past, 834 00:28:20,199 --> 00:28:24,102 I had taken my clothes off when drinking wine... 835 00:28:24,169 --> 00:28:27,606 I just do, like, risqué stuff. 836 00:28:27,673 --> 00:28:28,607 Thank you. 837 00:28:28,674 --> 00:28:30,776 First it's a vibrator, then a Dior bag, 838 00:28:30,842 --> 00:28:32,611 now she has vodka in her pocket. 839 00:28:32,678 --> 00:28:34,846 She's like the magician that just keeps like, the rabbit, 840 00:28:34,980 --> 00:28:36,665 the scarf... [chuckling] 841 00:28:36,698 --> 00:28:37,666 Just keeps going. 842 00:28:37,699 --> 00:28:39,001 Hello! 843 00:28:39,034 --> 00:28:40,510 Hello! 844 00:28:40,544 --> 00:28:41,645 Hey! 845 00:28:41,712 --> 00:28:42,679 Get some wine! 846 00:28:42,713 --> 00:28:43,680 I don't drink! 847 00:28:43,714 --> 00:28:44,790 - Oh, sh--! - Yeah. 848 00:28:44,856 --> 00:28:46,149 They have hot water, we're good. 849 00:28:46,216 --> 00:28:49,361 Okay, everyone! We are gonna whoop it the [bleep] up. 850 00:28:49,461 --> 00:28:50,345 Oh, wow. 851 00:28:50,379 --> 00:28:51,496 Vicki came to whoop it up. 852 00:28:51,597 --> 00:28:52,698 I am not a Debbie Downer! 853 00:28:52,831 --> 00:28:55,367 Oh, okay. 854 00:28:55,467 --> 00:28:56,702 Cheers to that. 855 00:28:56,802 --> 00:28:58,637 Cheers to that. 856 00:28:58,704 --> 00:29:00,205 Okay, so you're spilling now. 857 00:29:00,238 --> 00:29:02,065 Deb, you're spilling. 858 00:29:02,199 --> 00:29:03,533 You guys, this is Keith. 859 00:29:03,567 --> 00:29:04,776 - Kyle. - No, Kyle. 860 00:29:04,843 --> 00:29:06,144 - Oh, Kyle. - Try again. 861 00:29:06,211 --> 00:29:07,546 Welcome, everybody to Rancho Capistrano Winery. 862 00:29:07,679 --> 00:29:09,047 I brought out several whites, several reds. 863 00:29:09,147 --> 00:29:10,882 I am not going to be a Debbie Downer tonight, 864 00:29:10,916 --> 00:29:12,985 'cause this is gonna go down super easy! 865 00:29:13,018 --> 00:29:14,486 Let's play a drinking game. 866 00:29:14,553 --> 00:29:16,346 Every time Vicki says Debbie Downer, 867 00:29:16,413 --> 00:29:17,556 we're gonna take a sip. 868 00:29:17,656 --> 00:29:20,225 Come on, Debbie Downer, let's go! 869 00:29:20,258 --> 00:29:22,961 I'm not a Debbie Downer! 870 00:29:23,028 --> 00:29:24,421 Here we go again, more wine! 871 00:29:24,554 --> 00:29:26,214 I don't wanna be a Debbie Downer! 872 00:29:26,248 --> 00:29:28,859 Mine's almost done! Who needs Debbie Downer? 873 00:29:28,925 --> 00:29:29,893 Debbie Downer... 874 00:29:29,926 --> 00:29:30,861 Debbie Downer. 875 00:29:30,927 --> 00:29:31,837 Debbie Downer! 876 00:29:31,903 --> 00:29:33,305 Wait, I don't wanna get that drunk. 877 00:29:33,372 --> 00:29:36,108 I know you guys are moving on to dinner next, so enjoy. 878 00:29:36,241 --> 00:29:38,710 - Thank you, Kyle! - Thank you, Kyle! 879 00:29:38,777 --> 00:29:40,937 Sure thing. 880 00:29:41,071 --> 00:29:43,415 Good evening, lovely ladies. May I grab your entrée order? 881 00:29:43,448 --> 00:29:44,566 I'll do a steak, medium. 882 00:29:44,599 --> 00:29:45,684 Cowboy, medium. 883 00:29:45,717 --> 00:29:47,953 We're gonna split the avocado crunch salad. 884 00:29:48,086 --> 00:29:50,222 Flank steak. Can we split it? 885 00:29:50,288 --> 00:29:51,790 Yeah, it's a big dish, yeah, definitely. 886 00:29:51,923 --> 00:29:53,625 I'll do this... [indistinct] 887 00:29:53,725 --> 00:29:54,326 ...plain. 888 00:29:54,393 --> 00:29:55,694 Thank you so much. 889 00:29:55,727 --> 00:29:58,121 I love that it's Vicki's whoop-it-up night. I love that. 890 00:29:58,255 --> 00:30:00,424 Okay, you guys, we're gonna whoop it up tonight 891 00:30:00,457 --> 00:30:01,391 if we don't do it here! 892 00:30:01,458 --> 00:30:02,601 I've created a monster. 893 00:30:02,634 --> 00:30:04,603 - You created a monster. - Yes. 894 00:30:04,636 --> 00:30:06,096 She's upset about it. 895 00:30:06,129 --> 00:30:08,340 [tense music] 896 00:30:08,407 --> 00:30:09,541 You know what it was, Vicki? 897 00:30:09,574 --> 00:30:11,877 I just... I haven't seen you for many years, 898 00:30:11,943 --> 00:30:15,547 and my expectation was more of, like, a very vivacious, 899 00:30:15,580 --> 00:30:16,515 vibrant-- 900 00:30:16,581 --> 00:30:17,949 But you know what? As you get older, 901 00:30:17,983 --> 00:30:19,384 you don't do it as much as you did... 902 00:30:19,451 --> 00:30:21,653 No, I know, but I miss that Vicki, so I said-- 903 00:30:21,753 --> 00:30:22,754 Well, it's gonna come back! 904 00:30:22,821 --> 00:30:24,122 Okay, well, I love that. 905 00:30:24,156 --> 00:30:27,059 It's gonna come back slowly and then it's gonna go large! 906 00:30:27,125 --> 00:30:29,611 [laughing] 907 00:30:29,644 --> 00:30:31,630 Vicki's sensitive, like, I don't think people really-- 908 00:30:31,697 --> 00:30:32,798 Just like you! 909 00:30:32,898 --> 00:30:34,966 I know! I know. 910 00:30:35,067 --> 00:30:38,670 We had dinner, um, with Gina. Heather, Vicki, and I, 911 00:30:38,804 --> 00:30:41,406 after your box party, and Heather... 912 00:30:41,473 --> 00:30:44,501 ...you know, also got very emotional. 913 00:30:44,634 --> 00:30:45,744 She's hurt. 914 00:30:45,777 --> 00:30:47,145 By you. 915 00:30:47,212 --> 00:30:48,805 [dramatic music] 916 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,188 [dramatic music] 917 00:30:56,288 --> 00:30:58,290 Heather got very emotional. 918 00:30:58,356 --> 00:30:59,850 She's hurt. 919 00:30:59,916 --> 00:31:00,751 By you. 920 00:31:00,851 --> 00:31:04,654 What... by what? 921 00:31:04,688 --> 00:31:06,231 I'm confused. 922 00:31:06,298 --> 00:31:08,867 We went from, oh, my God, you're one of my best friends. 923 00:31:08,934 --> 00:31:10,861 And then, we go to Tamra's house, 924 00:31:10,927 --> 00:31:12,904 and then, you told me to be quiet, 925 00:31:13,004 --> 00:31:15,507 why are you always talking? You're constantly talking... 926 00:31:15,540 --> 00:31:19,311 I didn't say, be quiet! You said, "Can I talk?" 927 00:31:19,444 --> 00:31:22,506 And I said, "You've been talking all night." 928 00:31:22,539 --> 00:31:25,350 [dramatic music] 929 00:31:25,384 --> 00:31:27,285 I couldn't talk at all 930 00:31:27,352 --> 00:31:29,788 because I felt like I get cut off all the time. 931 00:31:29,855 --> 00:31:32,190 You never get cut off, Emily, you talk a lot. 932 00:31:32,257 --> 00:31:33,558 - And-- - So do you! 933 00:31:33,625 --> 00:31:35,627 - Yes, we both do! - You go into monologues! 934 00:31:35,727 --> 00:31:37,496 By the way, I know brevity isn't my strong suit, 935 00:31:37,529 --> 00:31:39,398 that's one of the things we like about each other! 936 00:31:39,464 --> 00:31:40,690 Exactly! 937 00:31:40,724 --> 00:31:42,534 Right, so why are you ragging on me for it? 938 00:31:42,601 --> 00:31:44,102 - I'm not! - You did. 939 00:31:44,169 --> 00:31:45,896 Because I said you've been talking all night, 940 00:31:45,962 --> 00:31:47,572 that's a statement of fact. 941 00:31:47,672 --> 00:31:51,368 I knew that Heather was upset with me after that party. 942 00:31:51,401 --> 00:31:52,677 I'm not dumb. 943 00:31:52,744 --> 00:31:55,530 All I was doing, I felt like, was standing up for myself. 944 00:31:55,564 --> 00:31:58,183 But I can't alter who I am 945 00:31:58,250 --> 00:32:00,685 and become someone totally different to accommodate 946 00:32:00,719 --> 00:32:02,087 her needs. 947 00:32:02,187 --> 00:32:04,856 And that's the part that, like, irritates the [bleep] outta me. 948 00:32:04,990 --> 00:32:06,258 You guys gotta talk louder 949 00:32:06,358 --> 00:32:07,759 'cause the girls on the end can't hear you! 950 00:32:07,859 --> 00:32:10,262 Are there gonna be Debbie Downers down there? 951 00:32:10,328 --> 00:32:12,464 Wait, didn't you say she said, "Shut the [bleep] up?" 952 00:32:12,564 --> 00:32:13,598 I did not say that. 953 00:32:13,698 --> 00:32:15,467 - Where did I hear that? - I didn't hear that. 954 00:32:15,534 --> 00:32:16,868 I never said that. 955 00:32:17,002 --> 00:32:19,237 Yeah, but it wasn't like, nice. You told her to stop talking. 956 00:32:19,304 --> 00:32:21,097 I don't even remember it! 957 00:32:21,164 --> 00:32:22,741 And I didn't say shut the [bleep] up! 958 00:32:22,808 --> 00:32:24,734 It's just the sentiment 959 00:32:24,768 --> 00:32:26,478 that she's trying to communicate that she-- 960 00:32:26,545 --> 00:32:27,712 I understand, I'm sitting across from her... 961 00:32:27,846 --> 00:32:29,481 - And I'm listening to her. - I know that! 962 00:32:29,548 --> 00:32:32,450 I don't need you to jump in. 963 00:32:32,517 --> 00:32:33,952 Oh, wow. 964 00:32:34,019 --> 00:32:36,555 Don't say you don't need me, that's not nice. 965 00:32:36,588 --> 00:32:39,908 I meant for this conversation, not in general. 966 00:32:39,941 --> 00:32:42,093 I'm just trying to get you to see that you hurt her feelings, 967 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,354 'cause she loves you, and then you snap! 968 00:32:44,421 --> 00:32:45,464 Like, I don't like that, 969 00:32:45,530 --> 00:32:47,098 I don't like that you say you don't need me, 970 00:32:47,132 --> 00:32:48,400 that hurts my ----ing feelings, don't say that. 971 00:32:48,533 --> 00:32:50,869 I didn't! I said I don't need you in the conversation. 972 00:32:50,969 --> 00:32:52,137 Well, I-I-- 973 00:32:52,204 --> 00:32:53,905 I can't get to a resolution if everyone's chiming in. 974 00:32:53,972 --> 00:32:58,443 Do I need to whip a boob out right now and like, break it up? 975 00:32:58,510 --> 00:32:59,544 [dramatic music] 976 00:32:59,611 --> 00:33:01,880 [laughing] 977 00:33:01,947 --> 00:33:03,081 I need you in life, 978 00:33:03,114 --> 00:33:07,018 I don't need you in this conversation right now. 979 00:33:07,085 --> 00:33:09,221 Listen, it wasn't very nice. 980 00:33:09,321 --> 00:33:12,757 Those things, in a bubble, was a complete departure 981 00:33:12,791 --> 00:33:15,160 from the relationship that we've been having, 982 00:33:15,227 --> 00:33:17,596 and I didn't get it, and it really hurt my feelings. 983 00:33:17,662 --> 00:33:19,064 I'm sorry that your feelings were hurt. 984 00:33:19,164 --> 00:33:22,292 All those things that I've said to you are true. 985 00:33:24,469 --> 00:33:25,937 They can both be true at once. 986 00:33:25,971 --> 00:33:28,240 You can still be someone that I trust, 987 00:33:28,306 --> 00:33:29,608 and one of my closest friends, 988 00:33:29,674 --> 00:33:31,343 and someone that I would pick up the phone and call 989 00:33:31,443 --> 00:33:34,613 and ask for advice, and you can mean the world to me, 990 00:33:34,679 --> 00:33:36,798 and I can still be irritated one night. 991 00:33:36,831 --> 00:33:38,475 And those things can still be true. 992 00:33:38,508 --> 00:33:42,053 So if that's the way you felt when I said that, I apologize. 993 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,346 From the bottom of my heart, 994 00:33:43,413 --> 00:33:45,257 'cause I would never want you to feel that. 995 00:33:45,323 --> 00:33:46,683 It's okay. 996 00:33:46,750 --> 00:33:48,693 But let's just be communicative with each other, okay? 997 00:33:48,793 --> 00:33:50,186 Yeah, you're right, I agree, yeah. 998 00:33:50,253 --> 00:33:52,297 I don't need an apology, I just need her to stop poking. 999 00:33:52,330 --> 00:33:55,534 And then, maybe we could move forward. 1000 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,502 Can you get me another glass of champagne? 1001 00:33:57,569 --> 00:33:58,637 I'm going hard tonight. 1002 00:33:58,670 --> 00:34:00,538 [laughing] 1003 00:34:00,639 --> 00:34:03,366 Hey, you guys, Emily and I met with Carmella, 1004 00:34:03,433 --> 00:34:07,712 and the topic came up of the gift that she gave Emily 1005 00:34:07,779 --> 00:34:08,980 for her birthday. 1006 00:34:09,014 --> 00:34:12,551 And we all did pipe in. I said it was very extravagant. 1007 00:34:12,617 --> 00:34:15,020 We're gonna send you a list of everyone's birthday. 1008 00:34:15,086 --> 00:34:16,922 I welcome it. 1009 00:34:17,022 --> 00:34:19,591 To be honest with you, I was caught off-guard. 1010 00:34:19,691 --> 00:34:21,217 Can I explain to you my point of view, 1011 00:34:21,284 --> 00:34:23,328 because I did hear that you heard about this. 1012 00:34:23,361 --> 00:34:25,597 - Yes. - And I don't want to get off 1013 00:34:25,664 --> 00:34:26,665 on the wrong foot with you. 1014 00:34:26,798 --> 00:34:28,366 And I don't want you to be offended by this, 1015 00:34:28,433 --> 00:34:30,235 so I want you to understand where I'm coming from. 1016 00:34:30,302 --> 00:34:31,169 Sure. Absolutely. 1017 00:34:31,202 --> 00:34:32,938 Okay? So, that's my best friend. 1018 00:34:33,004 --> 00:34:35,140 You go to dinner with my best friend. 1019 00:34:35,240 --> 00:34:39,010 The feedback that I heard that you had for her after dinner 1020 00:34:39,044 --> 00:34:42,681 was that she talks too much, she asks too many questions. 1021 00:34:42,714 --> 00:34:44,249 So, are you married? 1022 00:34:44,316 --> 00:34:46,017 How did you end up in California? 1023 00:34:46,051 --> 00:34:47,978 What do you mean, working for Playboy? 1024 00:34:48,044 --> 00:34:51,489 Emily is a very good, like, questioner. 1025 00:34:51,556 --> 00:34:52,791 - She's an attorney. - Yes. 1026 00:34:52,891 --> 00:34:54,526 I know that it came from a good place, 1027 00:34:54,626 --> 00:34:57,387 but it was a lot and... quickly, I guess. 1028 00:34:57,420 --> 00:34:59,764 It wasn't like you came out of that dinner and you were like, 1029 00:34:59,831 --> 00:35:02,167 "Oh, my God, we clicked, we're fast friends, 1030 00:35:02,233 --> 00:35:03,234 I love this chick!" 1031 00:35:03,268 --> 00:35:05,637 And then you come to her birthday party... 1032 00:35:05,704 --> 00:35:07,772 While we were there, I kept hearing you say, 1033 00:35:07,872 --> 00:35:09,766 "Let's open the gifts, let's open the gifts!" 1034 00:35:09,833 --> 00:35:11,610 Okay, this is just my perspective. 1035 00:35:11,676 --> 00:35:12,844 Right. 1036 00:35:12,944 --> 00:35:14,938 And then she gets home and the gift is a Dior bag 1037 00:35:15,005 --> 00:35:18,183 and something to masturbate with! 1038 00:35:18,249 --> 00:35:21,987 To me, Carmella, this is a weird gift! 1039 00:35:22,087 --> 00:35:23,580 This is it! It's a weird gift. 1040 00:35:23,613 --> 00:35:27,058 To me, in isolation, each of these items is weird. 1041 00:35:27,192 --> 00:35:31,229 And together, I'm like, who the [bleep] is Carmella? 1042 00:35:31,296 --> 00:35:33,565 It blew my ----ing mind. 1043 00:35:33,632 --> 00:35:37,102 I feel like Gina's a little jealous of Carmella! 1044 00:35:37,168 --> 00:35:40,205 She's given her best friend a Dior bag, 1045 00:35:40,305 --> 00:35:42,440 she's got her dream job. Ruh roh! 1046 00:35:42,507 --> 00:35:44,609 Let me back up to the dinner with Emily. 1047 00:35:44,676 --> 00:35:47,612 My take was not that she talks too much. 1048 00:35:47,679 --> 00:35:51,249 It was that I felt insecure and exposed 1049 00:35:51,316 --> 00:35:53,485 because she asked a lot of questions. 1050 00:35:53,585 --> 00:35:58,590 I even told Heather, I know this wasn't her intention. 1051 00:35:58,657 --> 00:36:01,893 I get it, she's an attorney, maybe it's by trade. 1052 00:36:01,993 --> 00:36:04,662 But I feel like everything's that maybe defective 1053 00:36:04,763 --> 00:36:05,930 is, like, out on the table. 1054 00:36:05,997 --> 00:36:08,199 I asked a lot of questions because one, 1055 00:36:08,299 --> 00:36:09,801 I was trying to get to know you. 1056 00:36:09,834 --> 00:36:10,935 When I sit down at dinner with someone, 1057 00:36:11,036 --> 00:36:13,038 and I'm meeting them for the first time, 1058 00:36:13,104 --> 00:36:16,174 I'm making an effort because I wanna know who they are. 1059 00:36:16,241 --> 00:36:17,542 But I don't spill 1060 00:36:17,609 --> 00:36:19,811 all my sh-- to people in five ----ing minutes! 1061 00:36:19,878 --> 00:36:23,840 It was marriage, boyfriend, cheating, like, divorce. 1062 00:36:23,907 --> 00:36:25,583 Like, it was a lot at once. 1063 00:36:25,684 --> 00:36:27,644 Well, and maybe I ask more questions than normal 1064 00:36:27,677 --> 00:36:29,954 because I found it difficult to get a straight answer 1065 00:36:30,021 --> 00:36:31,081 out of you. 1066 00:36:31,147 --> 00:36:32,290 Maybe it wasn't the best start for me, 1067 00:36:32,357 --> 00:36:33,491 and maybe I felt uncomfortable, 1068 00:36:33,525 --> 00:36:35,126 and then going into your birthday party, 1069 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,829 I knew I was running the risk of the vibrator 1070 00:36:37,896 --> 00:36:39,631 if she didn't have a good sense of humor. 1071 00:36:39,698 --> 00:36:42,600 But she opened it in front of her kids! 1072 00:36:42,667 --> 00:36:44,102 Well, that wasn't the intention. 1073 00:36:44,202 --> 00:36:46,137 - That's not her fault. - We were at a drag show. 1074 00:36:46,204 --> 00:36:48,031 So it was kind of fitting for-- for the occasion. 1075 00:36:48,098 --> 00:36:51,209 I didn't intend on you opening it in front of your kids, 1076 00:36:51,276 --> 00:36:53,211 I didn't intend on my cleaning lady 1077 00:36:53,311 --> 00:36:55,338 putting seven of the other ones that I ordered for her 1078 00:36:55,371 --> 00:36:56,047 on the floor. 1079 00:36:56,147 --> 00:36:59,484 You ordered eight vibrators? 1080 00:36:59,517 --> 00:37:01,386 Opposite of what people might think, 1081 00:37:01,453 --> 00:37:03,722 I'm not a vibrator connoisseur... 1082 00:37:03,788 --> 00:37:07,225 Any clit suckers? 1083 00:37:07,292 --> 00:37:08,218 Stop! 1084 00:37:08,284 --> 00:37:10,662 They have those new clit suckers! 1085 00:37:10,695 --> 00:37:14,799 Had I known it would cause, like, this amount of chaos, 1086 00:37:14,899 --> 00:37:16,568 I probably wouldn't have done it. 1087 00:37:16,668 --> 00:37:19,771 But I wanted to do something nice. 1088 00:37:19,838 --> 00:37:21,573 You had that beautiful cream suit. 1089 00:37:21,673 --> 00:37:23,742 It was gold, it matched it. 1090 00:37:23,808 --> 00:37:26,703 I saw it, I thought of her, and that was it. 1091 00:37:26,736 --> 00:37:27,846 But then it's weird to me 1092 00:37:27,879 --> 00:37:29,547 that somebody who made you feel uncomfortable, 1093 00:37:29,581 --> 00:37:31,875 you would turn up to their birthday and buy them 1094 00:37:31,908 --> 00:37:34,052 such an extravagant gift. 1095 00:37:34,085 --> 00:37:35,320 It does read a little bit like, 1096 00:37:35,420 --> 00:37:37,222 does she like to flash her money around? 1097 00:37:37,255 --> 00:37:38,423 Oh, my God. 1098 00:37:38,523 --> 00:37:41,593 Gina is either jealous that she didn't get a Dior bag, 1099 00:37:41,659 --> 00:37:47,432 or she felt like maybe Carmella was trying too hard. 1100 00:37:47,532 --> 00:37:50,835 What is happening right now, Gina? 1101 00:37:50,935 --> 00:37:52,103 Take it down a notch! 1102 00:37:52,170 --> 00:37:56,241 I'm offended by... saying that I have ulterior motives, 1103 00:37:56,307 --> 00:37:57,642 because that insinuates-- 1104 00:37:57,709 --> 00:38:00,912 I didn't! I, I didn't say that, I said-- I actually said 1105 00:38:00,945 --> 00:38:01,980 I was intrigued by it. 1106 00:38:02,046 --> 00:38:03,882 You said, is she trying to buy your friendship? 1107 00:38:03,948 --> 00:38:06,084 That was one of the things. It was very intriguing to me. 1108 00:38:06,151 --> 00:38:08,278 Which is like, calculated and disingenuous. 1109 00:38:08,344 --> 00:38:09,587 - Yeah. - Right. 1110 00:38:09,654 --> 00:38:11,623 But that would mean that I'm-that's a character flaw. 1111 00:38:11,689 --> 00:38:12,957 But I don't know! 1112 00:38:13,024 --> 00:38:15,185 Don't put me in a box like that, baby, because if I think 1113 00:38:15,251 --> 00:38:16,161 that something's weird 1114 00:38:16,261 --> 00:38:17,896 for my best friend, I'm gonna say it! 1115 00:38:17,962 --> 00:38:19,297 And I'm not going to apologize for that. 1116 00:38:19,364 --> 00:38:20,765 But you said it to everyone in the group. 1117 00:38:20,832 --> 00:38:22,333 Gina, call me. Call me. 1118 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:23,501 I don't even have your phone number! 1119 00:38:23,568 --> 00:38:24,969 You didn't even have her phone number 1120 00:38:25,036 --> 00:38:26,571 and you bought her a Dior bag and a dildo! 1121 00:38:26,671 --> 00:38:28,973 [dramatic music] 1122 00:38:35,413 --> 00:38:37,081 You said, is she trying to buy your friendship? 1123 00:38:37,148 --> 00:38:38,449 That's a character flaw. 1124 00:38:38,550 --> 00:38:39,651 But I don't know! 1125 00:38:39,717 --> 00:38:41,252 But you said it to everyone in the group. 1126 00:38:41,352 --> 00:38:43,446 Gina, call me. Call me. 1127 00:38:43,546 --> 00:38:44,722 I don't even have your phone number! 1128 00:38:44,756 --> 00:38:46,107 You didn't even have her phone number 1129 00:38:46,140 --> 00:38:49,085 and you bought her a Dior purse and a dildo! 1130 00:38:49,152 --> 00:38:50,762 She got the perfect size. 1131 00:38:50,828 --> 00:38:52,297 It looks great and feels great. 1132 00:38:52,363 --> 00:38:56,100 It's fun. I thought it was a lovely gift. 1133 00:38:56,167 --> 00:38:58,436 It's okay that you think it's weird or extravagant, 1134 00:38:58,503 --> 00:39:00,230 but guess what? It's me. 1135 00:39:00,296 --> 00:39:01,289 Okay. Okay! 1136 00:39:01,322 --> 00:39:02,307 It's me! 1137 00:39:02,407 --> 00:39:03,708 I thought your gift was weird as [bleep], 1138 00:39:03,775 --> 00:39:05,468 and I will own that because I did. 1139 00:39:05,568 --> 00:39:06,769 But I'm gonna let you know it too, 1140 00:39:06,803 --> 00:39:08,980 you have way bigger fish to fry than me. 1141 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,741 I did think your gift was weird, but this one over here-- 1142 00:39:11,774 --> 00:39:12,842 I did too. 1143 00:39:12,909 --> 00:39:14,777 Not just the gift, you're calling her a liar! 1144 00:39:14,844 --> 00:39:17,680 You're saying she's full of sh-- about her business and stuff! 1145 00:39:17,780 --> 00:39:20,258 Vicki has questions about what you do. 1146 00:39:20,291 --> 00:39:22,785 I don't know why it's so complicated what I do! 1147 00:39:22,852 --> 00:39:23,962 Pretty basic. 1148 00:39:24,028 --> 00:39:27,498 The fact that you're hiring Jenn to be a developer? 1149 00:39:27,565 --> 00:39:30,151 She's not hiring me, God! 1150 00:39:30,184 --> 00:39:33,137 Do we push women down and not like, push them forward? 1151 00:39:33,238 --> 00:39:34,606 I'm all about elevated. 1152 00:39:34,639 --> 00:39:37,775 Right, like at what point do we not try to help friends 1153 00:39:37,842 --> 00:39:41,246 and all cross the finish line together? 1154 00:39:41,312 --> 00:39:44,874 Vicki has not spent any time with me, 1155 00:39:44,941 --> 00:39:47,385 to even get to know me as a person, 1156 00:39:47,418 --> 00:39:51,155 but she's the first one to throw out all kinds of accusations, 1157 00:39:51,222 --> 00:39:53,391 like she knows everything about your life. 1158 00:39:53,424 --> 00:39:56,719 Her level of self-importance appears very high to me. 1159 00:39:56,819 --> 00:40:00,890 So my future husband is a developer. 1160 00:40:00,990 --> 00:40:04,819 If we get married or not, doesn't... schematics. 1161 00:40:04,886 --> 00:40:07,038 He developed the residence of Little Nell. 1162 00:40:07,105 --> 00:40:09,157 that's a developer. You buy the land, you build-- 1163 00:40:09,223 --> 00:40:11,643 There can be different levels of develop. 1164 00:40:11,709 --> 00:40:12,902 Well, I'm just asking the questions. 1165 00:40:12,969 --> 00:40:15,179 Gina, Vicki and Tamra told me that you said 1166 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,149 she wasn't even an agent. 1167 00:40:18,216 --> 00:40:19,651 I did not say that! 1168 00:40:19,717 --> 00:40:20,919 She has her real estate license! 1169 00:40:20,952 --> 00:40:23,187 I'm a mother----ing broker! I'm not just an agent! 1170 00:40:23,288 --> 00:40:24,322 That's what I'm saying! 1171 00:40:24,355 --> 00:40:25,873 You can check these things, 1172 00:40:25,907 --> 00:40:27,917 like, I have a real estate licence, 1173 00:40:28,017 --> 00:40:30,420 I have a California broker's license. 1174 00:40:30,486 --> 00:40:33,423 Like, I have sold multiple properties that you can see, 1175 00:40:33,523 --> 00:40:35,500 transactions that have closed. 1176 00:40:35,533 --> 00:40:38,594 And she's an investor, this is where I'm trying to be! 1177 00:40:38,695 --> 00:40:40,338 I get it, I get it. 1178 00:40:40,371 --> 00:40:41,839 When you purchase property, 1179 00:40:41,906 --> 00:40:45,501 whether it's raw land or a remodel, 1180 00:40:45,568 --> 00:40:47,412 that's real estate development. 1181 00:40:47,478 --> 00:40:50,540 Buying a property and flipping it? 1182 00:40:50,606 --> 00:40:51,874 That's not a developer. 1183 00:40:51,908 --> 00:40:53,952 And I think she's got the word wrong. 1184 00:40:53,985 --> 00:40:56,612 She's a flipper. 1185 00:40:56,679 --> 00:40:58,406 I feel like it's like a sorority, 1186 00:40:58,439 --> 00:40:59,924 like, this is like my initiation. 1187 00:40:59,991 --> 00:41:02,593 All this chaos is like, making me hungry. 1188 00:41:02,660 --> 00:41:05,088 It's hard sometimes to take people on face value, 1189 00:41:05,188 --> 00:41:06,497 but I will do that with you. 1190 00:41:06,531 --> 00:41:08,366 - And I do apologize, okay? - Thank you. Thank you. 1191 00:41:08,433 --> 00:41:10,551 And if you give me your phone number, 1192 00:41:10,618 --> 00:41:12,061 next time I will call you. 1193 00:41:12,128 --> 00:41:14,297 Thank you very much, I do appreciate it, 1194 00:41:14,397 --> 00:41:16,799 and I don't have bad intentions. 1195 00:41:16,899 --> 00:41:20,011 I'm sorry everything you've done out of kindness 1196 00:41:20,078 --> 00:41:21,971 has turned into, like, a disaster. 1197 00:41:22,071 --> 00:41:24,415 I'm not mad, I get where it came from. I'm not mad anymore. 1198 00:41:24,515 --> 00:41:27,785 I actually have seen her many times since the dinner, 1199 00:41:27,852 --> 00:41:30,813 and we've gone to an exercise class, I've been to her home. 1200 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:32,056 She actually came back to me 1201 00:41:32,123 --> 00:41:35,159 and said she felt like you were a girl's girl. 1202 00:41:35,193 --> 00:41:37,278 I think it was just because it was her, 1203 00:41:37,311 --> 00:41:38,563 and because of the circumstances. 1204 00:41:38,596 --> 00:41:40,732 I respect your loyalty to your friend, I do. 1205 00:41:40,765 --> 00:41:42,734 I, I just... So, I'm sorry. 1206 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,127 Thank you very much. 1207 00:41:44,227 --> 00:41:47,205 In all honesty, I never meant for Carmella to even know 1208 00:41:47,271 --> 00:41:49,932 that I was talking sh-- about her in the first place, 1209 00:41:49,999 --> 00:41:54,128 so I'm very happy that we can move forward. 1210 00:41:54,162 --> 00:41:55,079 Alright. 1211 00:41:55,146 --> 00:41:57,749 May all our fights be about purses. 1212 00:41:57,815 --> 00:41:59,317 Cheers to Carmella! 1213 00:41:59,417 --> 00:42:00,918 Thank you for the bag, I love it! 1214 00:42:00,985 --> 00:42:02,954 Our birthday's coming up next! 1215 00:42:03,020 --> 00:42:05,590 Vicki likes her, yay! 1216 00:42:05,656 --> 00:42:07,825 She doesn't know your name, but she-- 1217 00:42:07,892 --> 00:42:08,926 It's Cruella. 1218 00:42:08,993 --> 00:42:10,853 [laughing] 1219 00:42:10,953 --> 00:42:11,988 [chuckles] 1220 00:42:12,088 --> 00:42:14,290 Next on the Real Housewives of Orange County. 1221 00:42:14,357 --> 00:42:16,617 You guys are going to become real Vegas showgirls. 1222 00:42:16,684 --> 00:42:17,602 - Oh! - Ooh. 1223 00:42:17,668 --> 00:42:18,636 [spitting] 1224 00:42:18,703 --> 00:42:20,571 Your ----ing feathers are in my face! 1225 00:42:20,638 --> 00:42:22,031 You're not seeing, like, I'm trying. 1226 00:42:22,131 --> 00:42:23,633 I'm not ever getting over it. 1227 00:42:23,699 --> 00:42:24,742 [dramatic music] 1228 00:42:24,809 --> 00:42:26,778 I love how you're just like, she'll be fine. 1229 00:42:26,844 --> 00:42:28,346 Alright, yes, dear. 1230 00:42:28,413 --> 00:42:30,131 She is stressed, but that's starting to irritate me. 1231 00:42:30,198 --> 00:42:31,482 Right. 1232 00:42:31,549 --> 00:42:32,650 Heather brought up that it bothers her 1233 00:42:32,717 --> 00:42:33,618 that we roomed together. 1234 00:42:33,684 --> 00:42:34,969 She doesn't have the control. 1235 00:42:35,036 --> 00:42:37,839 I don't wanna feel micromanaged in my relationship. 1236 00:42:37,872 --> 00:42:38,956 You shut me up! 1237 00:42:39,023 --> 00:42:42,226 I have every right to speak as much as you do.