1 00:00:08,842 --> 00:00:10,176 {\an8}What a cute little town. 2 00:00:10,177 --> 00:00:11,711 {\an8}Whoa, whoa! 3 00:00:11,712 --> 00:00:12,746 {\an8}Sh--! We lost the Chanel! 4 00:00:12,846 --> 00:00:13,913 {\an8}Chanel down! 5 00:00:13,914 --> 00:00:16,349 {\an8}Jeez! Longest ride of my life. Sorry, guys. 6 00:00:16,350 --> 00:00:17,483 {\an8}Wow, Vicki! 7 00:00:17,484 --> 00:00:19,051 {\an8}Oh, it's so pretty. 8 00:00:19,052 --> 00:00:20,953 - Chandelier. - It's beautiful. 9 00:00:20,954 --> 00:00:23,056 "Whoop it up." Alright, I'm gonna wear this. 10 00:00:23,590 --> 00:00:25,817 [music slows and distorts] 11 00:00:26,084 --> 00:00:27,753 I'm just going to talk about this. 12 00:00:28,086 --> 00:00:30,898 You had said that Max was gonna be looking for a home 13 00:00:30,998 --> 00:00:33,165 and you were going to reach out to Carmella about that. 14 00:00:33,166 --> 00:00:34,659 - Yes. - What the [bleep]? 15 00:00:34,660 --> 00:00:36,203 Are you fake as [bleep]? 16 00:00:36,737 --> 00:00:37,770 It blew my mind. 17 00:00:37,771 --> 00:00:39,206 You have spoken unkindly about her. 18 00:00:39,306 --> 00:00:41,507 I didn't feel like you belonged in our group 19 00:00:41,508 --> 00:00:43,442 and I used the word "trashy." 20 00:00:43,443 --> 00:00:44,945 I'm really sorry. 21 00:00:45,045 --> 00:00:47,114 When you get frustrated, you go for Jen. 22 00:00:47,214 --> 00:00:48,981 She's low-hanging fruit. 23 00:00:48,982 --> 00:00:50,883 Sometimes your words can be harsh. 24 00:00:50,884 --> 00:00:53,612 Assholes. Just be quiet for a second. 25 00:00:53,879 --> 00:00:54,955 Jesus, you guys. 26 00:00:55,055 --> 00:00:56,390 Stop poking the bear. 27 00:01:00,385 --> 00:01:01,795 {\an8}[dramatic music] 28 00:01:02,396 --> 00:01:05,264 I feel like all we have to do is have an honest conversation. 29 00:01:05,265 --> 00:01:06,390 Listen to me. 30 00:01:06,391 --> 00:01:07,700 Listen to me right now. 31 00:01:07,701 --> 00:01:08,868 We're just talking. 32 00:01:08,869 --> 00:01:10,604 Everybody can get the [bleep] out of my home. 33 00:01:10,704 --> 00:01:12,506 They will never be invited back. 34 00:01:12,606 --> 00:01:13,740 This thing is bullsh--. 35 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:14,908 I'm done! 36 00:01:20,739 --> 00:01:22,683 {\an8}[gentle music] 37 00:01:23,050 --> 00:01:24,885 {\an8}[crickets chirping] 38 00:01:25,218 --> 00:01:27,879 This is bad, I feel like we should leave. 39 00:01:32,359 --> 00:01:34,151 {\an8}You guys, you guys. He's very mad. 40 00:01:34,152 --> 00:01:34,962 {\an8}[clatter] 41 00:01:35,062 --> 00:01:36,555 {\an8}What are you doing? 42 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:41,867 Guys, this is like one of my best friends. 43 00:01:41,868 --> 00:01:43,102 I just... 44 00:01:43,103 --> 00:01:45,371 Okay, I'm very uncomfortable right now. 45 00:01:45,372 --> 00:01:46,373 I am too! 46 00:01:46,473 --> 00:01:48,541 I-I, I can't----ing win. 47 00:01:48,542 --> 00:01:50,402 I feel like we should leave. 48 00:01:52,579 --> 00:01:54,948 Vicki, like, this is not good. 49 00:01:59,953 --> 00:02:02,688 Yeah. Well, everybody feels very uncomfortable. 50 00:02:02,689 --> 00:02:04,458 Michael's so pissed, like, 51 00:02:04,558 --> 00:02:06,425 I feel disrespectful just being here. 52 00:02:06,426 --> 00:02:08,761 To know that he's in the house 53 00:02:08,762 --> 00:02:11,430 while there's tension with Victoria, 54 00:02:11,431 --> 00:02:12,865 it's a strange vibe. 55 00:02:12,866 --> 00:02:13,934 Please, let's go. 56 00:02:14,334 --> 00:02:15,701 How do you order an Uber? 57 00:02:15,702 --> 00:02:17,203 From Palm Springs to Orange County. 58 00:02:17,204 --> 00:02:18,696 We need like a decent size vehicle. 59 00:02:18,697 --> 00:02:20,206 I feel like we're going to have to 60 00:02:20,207 --> 00:02:21,933 get dropped off at a gas station. 61 00:02:24,177 --> 00:02:25,537 [upbeat music] 62 00:02:25,637 --> 00:02:27,147 [car honking] 63 00:02:27,781 --> 00:02:29,815 {\an8}How 'bout we put our jammies on 64 00:02:29,816 --> 00:02:32,635 {\an8}and then we go hang out by the fire pit? 65 00:02:32,636 --> 00:02:35,554 - Yes. - Watch your step, please. 66 00:02:35,555 --> 00:02:36,856 [groans] 67 00:02:36,857 --> 00:02:39,458 - Oh... - Oh, this is heaven. 68 00:02:39,459 --> 00:02:41,394 - Isn't this great? - Yes. 69 00:02:41,395 --> 00:02:43,596 What do you think they're doing on the trip right now? 70 00:02:43,597 --> 00:02:45,698 Maybe they're counting how many TVs 71 00:02:45,699 --> 00:02:46,700 Vicki has in her house. 72 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,100 [laughter] 73 00:02:48,101 --> 00:02:50,103 Vicki, wants to know why you don't have any TVs 74 00:02:50,203 --> 00:02:51,370 on the wall in the house. 75 00:02:51,371 --> 00:02:53,005 She said you have nothing in your pantry. 76 00:02:53,006 --> 00:02:57,668 Who goes to somebody's house like Inspector----ing Gadget? 77 00:02:57,669 --> 00:02:59,211 Vicki Gunvalson. 78 00:02:59,212 --> 00:03:01,080 - Does Vicki really live there? - Yeah. 79 00:03:01,081 --> 00:03:04,718 Is the ring in the safe at the bank or at the house? 80 00:03:04,818 --> 00:03:08,120 I'm going to bank on there is no ring. 81 00:03:08,121 --> 00:03:09,188 [gasps] 82 00:03:09,189 --> 00:03:11,224 - No! - It doesn't make sense. 83 00:03:11,324 --> 00:03:13,459 - Ooh! - Victoria doesn't make sense. 84 00:03:13,460 --> 00:03:15,094 That's a hot take, Carmella. 85 00:03:15,095 --> 00:03:17,197 Carmella got a little bit drinky-poo in her. 86 00:03:17,297 --> 00:03:19,757 She was pop, pop, pop, popping off! 87 00:03:19,758 --> 00:03:21,068 You buy a ring for somebody 88 00:03:21,168 --> 00:03:22,668 'cause you're going to ask them to marry you. 89 00:03:22,669 --> 00:03:25,171 Unless you break up, you ask them to marry you. 90 00:03:25,172 --> 00:03:26,172 That's what I said. 91 00:03:26,173 --> 00:03:28,041 I like the theory, I like the theory. 92 00:03:28,141 --> 00:03:31,336 In all honestly, look, I want the best for her. 93 00:03:31,611 --> 00:03:32,579 {\an8}I do. 94 00:03:32,679 --> 00:03:33,747 [laughter] 95 00:03:33,847 --> 00:03:35,548 If there's anybody that you're going to go in 96 00:03:35,549 --> 00:03:37,950 on judgment on, it should be Victoria. 97 00:03:37,951 --> 00:03:40,787 I feel bad because, as a woman, that sucks 98 00:03:40,887 --> 00:03:43,522 and I don't ever want to like make another woman feel bad. 99 00:03:43,523 --> 00:03:44,690 She mom-shamed you! 100 00:03:44,691 --> 00:03:46,226 [laughter] 101 00:03:47,127 --> 00:03:48,294 I will tell you one thing, 102 00:03:48,295 --> 00:03:50,863 if somebody told me they bought me a ring 103 00:03:50,864 --> 00:03:53,699 and had it in a safe, and didn't propose to me, 104 00:03:53,700 --> 00:03:56,035 I would----ing lose my sh--. 105 00:03:56,036 --> 00:04:00,005 It's sort of odd that Vicki is okay with that 106 00:04:00,006 --> 00:04:02,208 'cause Vicki is so strong, you know? 107 00:04:02,209 --> 00:04:04,877 I think when it comes to love she just not... 108 00:04:04,878 --> 00:04:08,047 All bets are off. Yeah. Guilty too. 109 00:04:08,048 --> 00:04:09,448 I get this, 'cause people would always ask me, 110 00:04:09,449 --> 00:04:10,716 are you and Travis going to get engaged? 111 00:04:10,717 --> 00:04:11,817 Are you going to get engaged? 112 00:04:11,818 --> 00:04:13,285 And after a while, you're like... 113 00:04:13,286 --> 00:04:16,288 this isn't a question for me, this is a question for Travis. 114 00:04:16,289 --> 00:04:17,314 - You know? - Yeah. 115 00:04:17,315 --> 00:04:18,758 But you weren't pushing the issue? 116 00:04:18,759 --> 00:04:21,318 Well, no, because I got myself to a place where I was okay 117 00:04:21,319 --> 00:04:22,761 if that wasn't in the cards for us 118 00:04:22,762 --> 00:04:26,132 because of his really complicated issue 119 00:04:26,133 --> 00:04:28,468 with his kids and his ex. 120 00:04:28,568 --> 00:04:30,437 And I felt very selfish to be like, 121 00:04:30,537 --> 00:04:32,571 "Are you going to spend money on a ring for me 122 00:04:32,572 --> 00:04:35,241 when you have to spend money, like, 123 00:04:35,242 --> 00:04:37,544 fighting to keep your kids safe? 124 00:04:37,644 --> 00:04:42,081 I always will prioritize everybody else before, like, 125 00:04:42,082 --> 00:04:44,117 these kind of fairy tale moments 126 00:04:44,217 --> 00:04:46,319 and maybe that's part of why 127 00:04:46,419 --> 00:04:49,156 he ultimately wanted to purpose too. 128 00:04:49,256 --> 00:04:51,658 And that's kind of person that you want with you 129 00:04:51,758 --> 00:04:53,726 for the long haul, and he's handsome, 130 00:04:53,727 --> 00:04:54,793 that doesn't hurt. 131 00:04:54,794 --> 00:04:56,996 I can't believe how big these trees are. 132 00:04:56,997 --> 00:04:57,963 Oh, oh, okay. 133 00:04:57,964 --> 00:04:59,499 Changing the subject! 134 00:04:59,599 --> 00:05:00,566 They're kind of creepy at night. 135 00:05:00,567 --> 00:05:01,934 How old do you think those trees are? 136 00:05:01,935 --> 00:05:03,794 Too----ing old. [chuckling] 137 00:05:03,795 --> 00:05:05,971 Older than Vicki for sure, right, Carmella? 138 00:05:05,972 --> 00:05:07,706 [laughter] I mean... 139 00:05:07,707 --> 00:05:08,841 I'm going to hell already. 140 00:05:08,842 --> 00:05:10,109 Yeah, you are! 141 00:05:10,110 --> 00:05:12,062 [laughter] 142 00:05:13,380 --> 00:05:15,315 [ominous music] 143 00:05:21,721 --> 00:05:24,190 {\an8}I think you said that it would be better if we left. 144 00:05:24,191 --> 00:05:25,291 No, I never... 145 00:05:25,292 --> 00:05:27,327 That is an absolute, 100% lie. 146 00:05:29,229 --> 00:05:30,829 The tension in this house right now 147 00:05:30,830 --> 00:05:31,931 is like, off the charts. 148 00:05:31,932 --> 00:05:33,499 I feel like it's weird being here right now! 149 00:05:33,500 --> 00:05:35,985 I feel like you have issues with Mike and he's not happy. 150 00:05:35,986 --> 00:05:39,163 You guys need to work that out, we're happy to leave. It's fine. 151 00:05:39,164 --> 00:05:40,439 {\an8}He saw me upset. 152 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:41,674 {\an8}I understand that. 153 00:05:41,675 --> 00:05:43,009 {\an8}I didn't explain to him what happened 154 00:05:43,109 --> 00:05:44,710 {\an8}and he said, okay. 155 00:05:44,711 --> 00:05:46,913 {\an8}You're not going anywhere. It's 11 o'clock at night. 156 00:05:47,013 --> 00:05:48,005 Let's go eat, please. 157 00:05:48,006 --> 00:05:49,716 I got dinner... Please. 158 00:05:49,816 --> 00:05:51,250 Mine looks the best. 159 00:05:51,251 --> 00:05:52,686 Come on. 160 00:05:54,821 --> 00:05:56,922 I-I honestly don't know what to do right now. 161 00:05:56,923 --> 00:05:59,292 Do you want to just stick to it and say we love you? 162 00:05:59,392 --> 00:06:01,594 Yeah, I feel like we should just say, you have things with Mike 163 00:06:01,595 --> 00:06:03,296 and there's issues, and he's in the house, 164 00:06:03,396 --> 00:06:06,366 {\an8}and he's not happy and everything's awkward and... 165 00:06:07,234 --> 00:06:08,201 {\an8}That's weird! 166 00:06:09,269 --> 00:06:11,304 {\an8}Okay, Vicki, this is... I-I feel. 167 00:06:11,438 --> 00:06:14,874 {\an8}Can we please just put a pin in it and get to these? 168 00:06:15,675 --> 00:06:17,543 So you guys aren't gonna eat? 169 00:06:17,544 --> 00:06:19,345 I-I already packed up my stuff. 170 00:06:19,346 --> 00:06:21,614 I feel like it's best if we maybe we just go. 171 00:06:21,615 --> 00:06:24,516 I'm really shocked that Jen and Emily feel 172 00:06:24,517 --> 00:06:26,118 it's important to leave at midnight. 173 00:06:26,119 --> 00:06:29,588 I prepared a lot. I took time off work for two days, 174 00:06:29,589 --> 00:06:32,358 come out to the desert, showcase my beautiful home 175 00:06:32,359 --> 00:06:34,360 and it's like they sh-- on it. 176 00:06:34,361 --> 00:06:36,387 {\an8}If you guys just wanna leave and go to a hotel, 177 00:06:36,388 --> 00:06:38,063 {\an8}that's really offensive to me. 178 00:06:38,064 --> 00:06:40,400 {\an8}Well, this doesn't have to be defensive. 179 00:06:42,202 --> 00:06:44,437 {\an8}You guys want to have salad or not? 180 00:06:44,537 --> 00:06:47,039 Well, I'd like to try a little. Yes. 181 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,175 - Thank you. - Ooh... My god. 182 00:06:49,676 --> 00:06:52,636 It's tough to defend Vicki. 183 00:06:52,637 --> 00:06:56,016 So, I do understand Emily and Jen's position. 184 00:06:56,149 --> 00:06:58,118 It's just a bad situation. 185 00:06:58,218 --> 00:07:00,586 I don't feel like there's a recovery from this right now. 186 00:07:00,587 --> 00:07:02,154 And if you feel that way, I said let's go, 187 00:07:02,155 --> 00:07:03,657 we already talked... We already did the Uber. 188 00:07:03,757 --> 00:07:06,158 - I know! Okay, then let's go. - Oh, you guys got an Uber? 189 00:07:06,159 --> 00:07:06,917 Yeah. 190 00:07:06,918 --> 00:07:08,261 [dramatic music] 191 00:07:10,163 --> 00:07:12,164 This Uber cost 450 dollars 192 00:07:12,165 --> 00:07:13,832 and it's probably going to take two hours, 193 00:07:13,833 --> 00:07:14,801 but I don't care. 194 00:07:14,901 --> 00:07:17,169 I can hitch hike. Thumbs up, let's go. 195 00:07:17,170 --> 00:07:18,495 I'm getting home. 196 00:07:18,496 --> 00:07:20,540 I feel like... I-I don't have any room to talk anymore. 197 00:07:20,674 --> 00:07:22,441 You guys do what you want. 198 00:07:22,442 --> 00:07:24,410 I'm just putting a pin in this. 199 00:07:24,411 --> 00:07:25,904 I'm sorry. 200 00:07:35,922 --> 00:07:37,656 [luggage clattering] 201 00:07:37,657 --> 00:07:40,359 [whispering] Wait, are they gonna say goodbye or...? 202 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,161 - Hello, sir. - Evening, ladies. 203 00:07:42,162 --> 00:07:43,463 Hi. 204 00:07:45,699 --> 00:07:47,217 Wow... 205 00:07:47,834 --> 00:07:49,219 That was so fun. 206 00:07:55,008 --> 00:07:57,468 {\an8}[gentle music] 207 00:07:57,469 --> 00:07:59,479 {\an8}[birds chirping] 208 00:08:01,181 --> 00:08:04,109 Ah, what a beautiful day. 209 00:08:06,186 --> 00:08:08,645 - Good morning, sunshine. - Good morning! 210 00:08:08,646 --> 00:08:09,955 How'd you sleep? 211 00:08:09,956 --> 00:08:11,950 Well, not very long. 212 00:08:12,050 --> 00:08:13,317 Did you have trouble going to bed? 213 00:08:13,318 --> 00:08:14,293 No. 214 00:08:14,294 --> 00:08:16,220 Oh, yeah. Just 'cause we were up so late. 215 00:08:16,221 --> 00:08:17,956 I took a gummy, though. [laughter] 216 00:08:18,331 --> 00:08:19,991 Good morning! 217 00:08:20,091 --> 00:08:22,267 Who's cooking bacon? 218 00:08:22,268 --> 00:08:24,137 - I'm trying. - Do I smell bacon? 219 00:08:24,237 --> 00:08:25,429 Bless your heart. 220 00:08:25,430 --> 00:08:26,822 While we're waiting for those to bake, 221 00:08:26,823 --> 00:08:28,999 does anyone want to look at my plans for my apartment? 222 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:30,401 - Oh, I do. - Sure. 223 00:08:30,402 --> 00:08:32,511 When we sold the Beverly Hills house, 224 00:08:32,512 --> 00:08:34,638 we bought our penthouse, 225 00:08:34,639 --> 00:08:36,307 rented another apartment at our building 226 00:08:36,408 --> 00:08:37,950 and just thought we'd figure it out. 227 00:08:37,951 --> 00:08:39,618 When our lease was coming to an end, 228 00:08:39,619 --> 00:08:40,812 Terry and I talked about it 229 00:08:40,912 --> 00:08:42,788 and decided we were done with homes. 230 00:08:42,789 --> 00:08:45,124 So, I bought the penthouse below us. 231 00:08:45,125 --> 00:08:46,851 So, these are the elevators, right? 232 00:08:46,951 --> 00:08:49,295 So, it opens up into your vestibule. 233 00:08:49,396 --> 00:08:51,697 Your vestibule, I don't have a vestibule. 234 00:08:51,698 --> 00:08:53,565 - My vestibule. - Vestibule. 235 00:08:53,566 --> 00:08:54,850 Yes. 236 00:08:54,851 --> 00:08:58,095 Heather has been talking about this apartment forever. 237 00:08:58,096 --> 00:08:59,805 Did I tell you about... I'm trying to buy... 238 00:08:59,806 --> 00:09:01,032 The apartment underneath us. 239 00:09:01,132 --> 00:09:02,307 The apartment underneath ours. 240 00:09:02,308 --> 00:09:03,700 The apartment underneath me. 241 00:09:03,701 --> 00:09:05,536 Yes, five times. 242 00:09:05,537 --> 00:09:08,147 Before you know it, she's gonna own the whole damn building. 243 00:09:08,148 --> 00:09:09,649 What is-- what's the square footage? 244 00:09:09,749 --> 00:09:12,009 It's a little under 11,000 total with both. 245 00:09:12,010 --> 00:09:13,211 - With both of them? - Yeah. 246 00:09:13,311 --> 00:09:14,253 Oh, that's awesome. 247 00:09:14,254 --> 00:09:15,455 I can't wait to see it. 248 00:09:15,955 --> 00:09:19,116 Alright, well, let's get going so we don't hit traffic. 249 00:09:19,117 --> 00:09:20,617 Yeah, we gotta go. 250 00:09:20,618 --> 00:09:22,619 {\an8}Is it really three hours to get home? 251 00:09:22,620 --> 00:09:24,831 {\an8}'Cause I have an appointment today. 252 00:09:24,931 --> 00:09:26,900 {\an8}[dryer chimes] 253 00:09:29,385 --> 00:09:30,694 - Vicki? - Huh? 254 00:09:30,695 --> 00:09:32,554 What did... What do you want to do with the food? 255 00:09:32,555 --> 00:09:35,199 Throw it all out because the bitches didn't eat anything. 256 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,076 Why don't I give them a Venmo request 257 00:09:37,077 --> 00:09:39,237 and they can pay me back for all the money I spent? 258 00:09:39,337 --> 00:09:41,573 I drove Mike's truck out to the desert 259 00:09:41,673 --> 00:09:44,075 and that is a $200, fill up the tank. 260 00:09:44,175 --> 00:09:46,577 I got all the ingredients for the homemade pizzas, 261 00:09:46,578 --> 00:09:50,147 I did appetizers, I did heating the pool. 262 00:09:50,148 --> 00:09:51,723 The morning, I had all the fixings 263 00:09:51,724 --> 00:09:52,883 to make the quiches. 264 00:09:52,884 --> 00:09:54,586 And they got a gift bag with the pj's 265 00:09:54,686 --> 00:09:56,361 and the hat, and an eye mask. 266 00:09:56,362 --> 00:09:58,056 So, I would say... 267 00:09:59,132 --> 00:10:02,902 {\an8}I would say roughly $1000, divided by four. 268 00:10:03,303 --> 00:10:04,903 {\an8}$250 each, they owe me. 269 00:10:04,904 --> 00:10:06,421 I would never do that to them. 270 00:10:06,422 --> 00:10:08,099 They-they go into somebody's home 271 00:10:08,199 --> 00:10:09,241 and they do that to them? No. 272 00:10:09,242 --> 00:10:10,576 Those are not the kind of the people 273 00:10:10,577 --> 00:10:11,760 I want to be around. 274 00:10:11,761 --> 00:10:14,413 Well, I think that when you're overwhelmed 275 00:10:14,414 --> 00:10:16,648 or when there's a bit of chaos going on 276 00:10:16,649 --> 00:10:18,433 you can poke a little bit 277 00:10:18,434 --> 00:10:20,777 and not realize that sometimes it can hurt. 278 00:10:20,778 --> 00:10:22,688 Okay. So, then I said, "I'm sorry, let's move on," 279 00:10:22,689 --> 00:10:23,956 and they can't. 280 00:10:23,957 --> 00:10:26,117 But you were upset about the Debbie Downer comment. 281 00:10:26,217 --> 00:10:27,960 I didn't go on and on and on and on. 282 00:10:27,961 --> 00:10:29,087 I'm not a Debbie Downer. 283 00:10:29,187 --> 00:10:30,788 Maybe that's why I'm a Debbie Downer. 284 00:10:30,889 --> 00:10:32,257 Debbie Downer. Debbie Downer! 285 00:10:32,357 --> 00:10:33,899 I'm not going to be a Debbie Downer tonight 286 00:10:33,900 --> 00:10:35,926 'cause this is going to go down super easy! 287 00:10:35,927 --> 00:10:38,337 I thought it was rude and I was down, 288 00:10:38,338 --> 00:10:39,464 I admitted it. 289 00:10:39,564 --> 00:10:41,874 The tone isn't, um-- 290 00:10:41,875 --> 00:10:43,610 I have zero patience with stupid. 291 00:10:43,710 --> 00:10:45,043 Shannon, shut up. 292 00:10:45,044 --> 00:10:47,212 I just think she wants to be friends with everybody. 293 00:10:47,213 --> 00:10:49,274 It's not my intent to hurt Vicki. 294 00:10:49,374 --> 00:10:51,476 It's my intent to try and resolve. 295 00:10:51,576 --> 00:10:53,151 She doesn't want to be here, she can leave too. 296 00:10:53,152 --> 00:10:54,721 I think it's going to be a long morning. 297 00:10:55,221 --> 00:10:58,457 It's just, don't talk, talk now, you can talk now, I-- 298 00:10:58,458 --> 00:11:00,659 It was ten minutes while I was on a phone call. 299 00:11:00,660 --> 00:11:02,619 Now, I'm----ing pissed! 300 00:11:02,620 --> 00:11:03,795 Now I'm mad. 301 00:11:03,796 --> 00:11:05,163 Well, don't go to the extreme. 302 00:11:05,164 --> 00:11:06,991 I don't want you and I to go sideways. 303 00:11:07,091 --> 00:11:08,066 We're not going to. 304 00:11:08,067 --> 00:11:09,801 I'm your friend and I want to try 305 00:11:09,802 --> 00:11:11,203 and make things better, that's all. 306 00:11:11,204 --> 00:11:13,497 Well, how 'bout they try to make it better? 307 00:11:13,498 --> 00:11:15,967 [dramatic music] 308 00:11:37,964 --> 00:11:39,232 What's for dinner? 309 00:11:39,566 --> 00:11:41,733 Oh... I don't know, I was doing laundry. 310 00:11:41,734 --> 00:11:43,193 What's on the menu today? 311 00:11:43,194 --> 00:11:44,595 [awkward beat] 312 00:11:44,596 --> 00:11:45,871 Okay... 313 00:11:45,872 --> 00:11:47,072 What is it this time? 314 00:11:47,073 --> 00:11:49,199 You didn't put the trash bag back in the trash can. 315 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:50,142 You know why? 316 00:11:50,143 --> 00:11:51,477 And you tell me that that's wrong. 317 00:11:51,578 --> 00:11:53,111 [tense music] 318 00:11:53,112 --> 00:11:55,414 - I took the trash out-- - Yeah, well, you-- 319 00:11:55,415 --> 00:11:57,841 First of all, no, I took the trash outside, 320 00:11:57,842 --> 00:12:01,054 and then I just did a load of laundry, 321 00:12:01,154 --> 00:12:03,722 so, I just hadn't gotten to it yet, thank you. 322 00:12:03,723 --> 00:12:04,824 Having the date night 323 00:12:04,924 --> 00:12:06,291 and being honest and communicating 324 00:12:06,292 --> 00:12:07,493 with one another was good. 325 00:12:07,594 --> 00:12:10,487 We're just in a bad place in our marriage right now. 326 00:12:10,488 --> 00:12:13,523 I'm juggling the three kids with school and everything. 327 00:12:13,524 --> 00:12:14,366 You don't understand. 328 00:12:14,367 --> 00:12:16,861 Is it easy to fix everything? 329 00:12:16,961 --> 00:12:19,839 No! It's marriage, it's a journey. 330 00:12:19,939 --> 00:12:24,035 I'm tired. I only had, like, three hours of sleep. 331 00:12:24,135 --> 00:12:28,180 I think I got home at 2:33 AM. I don't know. 332 00:12:28,181 --> 00:12:29,948 So, then, wait, you and... Did Shannon leave? 333 00:12:29,949 --> 00:12:31,650 - No. - Did Jen leave? 334 00:12:31,651 --> 00:12:34,286 Yes. Anyway, so, I'm home. 335 00:12:34,287 --> 00:12:35,212 Yay. 336 00:12:35,213 --> 00:12:36,673 {\an8}Hello, Luke. 337 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:40,717 {\an8}Thank you. 338 00:12:40,718 --> 00:12:42,152 You didn't bring any of the trash down, 339 00:12:42,153 --> 00:12:44,129 but you brought your bottle down, good job. 340 00:12:44,130 --> 00:12:46,057 I think the thing that's hardest for me is, 341 00:12:46,157 --> 00:12:48,767 I wish he wanted to do more things 342 00:12:48,768 --> 00:12:49,993 outside of the house. 343 00:12:49,994 --> 00:12:51,737 Mm. I don't ask him, I just take him. 344 00:12:51,738 --> 00:12:53,330 No, I know. I see you do that. 345 00:12:53,331 --> 00:12:55,240 I just mean sometimes when, like, 346 00:12:55,241 --> 00:12:56,601 we want to go to dinner as a family 347 00:12:56,701 --> 00:12:58,243 and he just does not want to go. 348 00:12:58,244 --> 00:12:59,878 Hm, well, he pushes you more. 349 00:12:59,879 --> 00:13:02,774 Well, he pushes back on me more. Yeah, I know. 350 00:13:02,874 --> 00:13:06,444 Luke started a new treatment, it's called IBIG infusion. 351 00:13:06,544 --> 00:13:08,178 It takes like six-to-eight hours 352 00:13:08,179 --> 00:13:09,655 and it's a cocktail of antibiotics 353 00:13:09,656 --> 00:13:11,606 that's supposed to help with the reduction, and... 354 00:13:11,607 --> 00:13:13,283 the swelling of the brain. 355 00:13:13,284 --> 00:13:15,253 So, Luke did one round, 356 00:13:15,353 --> 00:13:16,778 he woke up in the middle of the night 357 00:13:16,779 --> 00:13:18,764 throwing up and having horrible migraines. 358 00:13:18,765 --> 00:13:21,291 I have things under control with him, 359 00:13:21,292 --> 00:13:24,436 but I always have to be ten steps ahead, you know? 360 00:13:24,437 --> 00:13:25,671 He's due to do a second round, 361 00:13:25,672 --> 00:13:28,574 I just can't get myself to physically schedule it. 362 00:13:28,675 --> 00:13:32,177 'Cause I literally feel like I'm scheduling torture 363 00:13:32,178 --> 00:13:33,246 for my child. 364 00:13:33,346 --> 00:13:34,479 The thing about the boys, 365 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:35,640 I'm glad they have their separate space 366 00:13:35,740 --> 00:13:37,642 and they both love their room so much. 367 00:13:37,742 --> 00:13:39,444 Do you know every time I go up there, 368 00:13:39,544 --> 00:13:41,646 Luke is meticulous about his room? 369 00:13:41,746 --> 00:13:43,789 Keller keeps his room clean too. 370 00:13:43,790 --> 00:13:46,242 {\an8}It's always cleaned up and organized. 371 00:13:46,693 --> 00:13:47,859 {\an8}[awkward beat] 372 00:13:47,860 --> 00:13:50,028 Well, I pay more attention than you I think 'cause-- 373 00:13:50,029 --> 00:13:51,730 Have you seen her room? 374 00:13:51,731 --> 00:13:53,825 I asked her yesterday, she had a mess in the closet, 375 00:13:53,925 --> 00:13:55,317 I said pick it up, then later I left, 376 00:13:55,318 --> 00:13:57,095 I came back and it was actually picked up. 377 00:13:57,628 --> 00:13:59,996 {\an8}- I go in there and clean-- - You weren't home last night. 378 00:13:59,997 --> 00:14:01,273 You were gone. 379 00:14:01,274 --> 00:14:03,709 Alright, I'm just saying I go in there a lot and clean. 380 00:14:03,710 --> 00:14:05,569 I find myself making a lot of sacrifices 381 00:14:05,570 --> 00:14:08,547 for the household and Emily can kind of do her thing. 382 00:14:08,548 --> 00:14:10,165 I wish she would recognize that a little bit more. 383 00:14:10,166 --> 00:14:13,311 Shane's so defensive in anything that I say 384 00:14:13,411 --> 00:14:16,555 and that's hurtful because you're insinuating 385 00:14:16,556 --> 00:14:18,357 that you're the only person that care of the kids 386 00:14:18,358 --> 00:14:20,852 and that I don't contribute. He does that a lot. 387 00:14:20,952 --> 00:14:22,319 And I feel like that's where we are 388 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:25,163 in our relationship. I just want it to be better. 389 00:14:25,164 --> 00:14:26,449 Nice talk. 390 00:14:27,266 --> 00:14:28,693 - See you later. - See you tomorrow. 391 00:14:28,793 --> 00:14:31,204 Oh, my gosh. You're so annoying. 392 00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:33,372 [chuckling] 393 00:14:34,540 --> 00:14:35,690 {\an8}Coming up... 394 00:14:35,691 --> 00:14:37,033 {\an8}I did hear that Vicki said 395 00:14:37,034 --> 00:14:39,311 {\an8}I don't even live in that home in Rancho Santa Fe. 396 00:14:39,312 --> 00:14:41,672 That is actually delusional. 397 00:14:46,085 --> 00:14:47,385 [upbeat music] 398 00:14:47,386 --> 00:14:49,222 [yacht horn] 399 00:14:52,383 --> 00:14:53,525 [bird squawking] 400 00:14:53,526 --> 00:14:55,193 - Hello. Welcome in. - Hi. 401 00:14:55,194 --> 00:14:56,052 Thank you. 402 00:14:56,053 --> 00:14:57,387 Hi. 403 00:14:57,388 --> 00:14:58,364 This is so nice. 404 00:14:58,464 --> 00:14:59,865 Good. I got a purse chair. 405 00:14:59,866 --> 00:15:02,226 Oh, yeah, 'cause so much fits is in here. 406 00:15:02,326 --> 00:15:03,301 [laughter] 407 00:15:03,302 --> 00:15:05,061 Sparkling or flat water to start? 408 00:15:05,062 --> 00:15:08,573 Um, I'll go straight for the Cake Bread Chardonnay. 409 00:15:08,574 --> 00:15:09,699 Oh, is that what you're having? 410 00:15:09,700 --> 00:15:11,401 Do you have just a margarita not spicy? 411 00:15:11,402 --> 00:15:13,412 We do. Traditional margarita with salt on the rim? 412 00:15:13,513 --> 00:15:14,579 That'd be perfect. 413 00:15:14,580 --> 00:15:15,515 Excellent, ladies. I'll get it started. 414 00:15:15,615 --> 00:15:16,849 - Okay, thank you. - Thank you. 415 00:15:16,949 --> 00:15:19,551 Oh, my god. Oh, my god! 416 00:15:19,552 --> 00:15:21,319 - I'm dying to tell! - I'm like who goes first? 417 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,655 You wanna go first? You want me to go first? 418 00:15:23,656 --> 00:15:25,023 Did you have fun? 419 00:15:25,024 --> 00:15:27,726 I don't know. I can't-- that whole night was so weird, 420 00:15:27,727 --> 00:15:29,252 like, we left early. 421 00:15:29,253 --> 00:15:32,088 So, I feel like you should go first because once I tell you, 422 00:15:32,089 --> 00:15:33,933 I have so many things I have to ask you. 423 00:15:34,033 --> 00:15:35,400 Really, okay? I'll go first. 424 00:15:35,401 --> 00:15:37,994 Maybe I might need a glass of wine for your conversation. 425 00:15:37,995 --> 00:15:40,564 So, Carmella wanted to drive because she gets car sick. 426 00:15:40,565 --> 00:15:42,933 Okay. Somebody texted that you guys got pulled over 427 00:15:42,934 --> 00:15:44,176 - on the way. - Yes! 428 00:15:44,177 --> 00:15:45,269 Why'd you get pulled over? 429 00:15:45,369 --> 00:15:47,245 All her windows are blacked out. 430 00:15:47,246 --> 00:15:49,582 - Oh. - Her registration is expired, 431 00:15:49,682 --> 00:15:51,616 - last year. - Her registration? 432 00:15:51,617 --> 00:15:53,076 Did she get a ticket? 433 00:15:53,077 --> 00:15:54,110 She got a fix-it ticket. 434 00:15:54,111 --> 00:15:56,456 If I would've had an expired registration 435 00:15:56,556 --> 00:15:58,924 and blacked out windows, my ass is going to jail. 436 00:15:58,925 --> 00:16:00,926 But the former playboy playmate, 437 00:16:00,927 --> 00:16:03,361 she gets a little slap on the wrist. 438 00:16:03,362 --> 00:16:04,621 It's so Carmella. 439 00:16:04,622 --> 00:16:07,091 [upbeat music] 440 00:16:09,335 --> 00:16:10,536 Hi, how are you? 441 00:16:10,636 --> 00:16:11,803 Hi. Good, how are you? 442 00:16:11,804 --> 00:16:13,071 Have you ever been here before? 443 00:16:13,072 --> 00:16:14,806 I have not but it's so cute. 444 00:16:14,807 --> 00:16:16,533 Alright, ladies, we have you right here. 445 00:16:16,534 --> 00:16:18,610 - Oh, thank you so much. - Of course. 446 00:16:18,611 --> 00:16:20,604 Look how cute! This is like, adorable. 447 00:16:20,605 --> 00:16:22,539 Like a hidden gem, I love it. 448 00:16:22,540 --> 00:16:25,083 You'll have to have like a... like a girl thing here. 449 00:16:25,084 --> 00:16:26,485 For sure. 450 00:16:26,486 --> 00:16:28,386 So, how was your trip? 451 00:16:28,387 --> 00:16:31,757 Let me start out by saying, we left early. 452 00:16:31,858 --> 00:16:33,593 - You did not. - Yes. 453 00:16:33,693 --> 00:16:34,818 Jen and I did. 454 00:16:34,819 --> 00:16:36,962 Okay, so it must have not been good then. 455 00:16:36,963 --> 00:16:38,990 Woo! Look at this smoke show. 456 00:16:39,090 --> 00:16:40,632 You look so pretty. I love that. 457 00:16:40,633 --> 00:16:43,468 Look at her go. Sophisticated. 458 00:16:43,469 --> 00:16:45,997 Oh! I should've worn my shirt. 459 00:16:46,097 --> 00:16:48,240 - Hi, how are you? - Thank you again, Carmella. 460 00:16:48,241 --> 00:16:49,275 I mean, honestly. 461 00:16:49,375 --> 00:16:51,743 You're so welcome, I was happy to do it. 462 00:16:51,744 --> 00:16:55,172 I'm getting the low-down right now. I'm a little shocked. 463 00:16:55,273 --> 00:16:56,682 - Hi. - How are you doing? 464 00:16:56,782 --> 00:16:59,018 - I'm fine, how are you? - I'm good. 465 00:16:59,118 --> 00:17:01,153 Hi, ladies, how are we doing today? 466 00:17:01,254 --> 00:17:02,013 Good. 467 00:17:02,113 --> 00:17:03,179 Could I get a Diet Coke, please? 468 00:17:03,180 --> 00:17:04,581 Diet Coke? Yeah. Perfect. 469 00:17:04,582 --> 00:17:07,325 Vodka and soda water please. 470 00:17:07,326 --> 00:17:10,428 Can I have a Strawberry Fields Forever? 471 00:17:10,429 --> 00:17:12,022 - Perfect. - Thank you. 472 00:17:12,023 --> 00:17:13,633 I-I hope you're not angry with me. 473 00:17:13,733 --> 00:17:14,799 No! 474 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,527 You're not upset that Jen and I left at all? 475 00:17:17,528 --> 00:17:18,937 No! I get it. 476 00:17:18,938 --> 00:17:21,106 She's... she just makes... 477 00:17:21,107 --> 00:17:23,433 Vicki just blurts things out all the time. 478 00:17:23,434 --> 00:17:26,512 On the way to Palm Springs, 479 00:17:26,612 --> 00:17:28,371 Vicki had a lot to say about you. 480 00:17:28,372 --> 00:17:31,208 There's obviously an issue with the affair. 481 00:17:31,309 --> 00:17:34,286 I don't think she'll ever get over infidelity like that. 482 00:17:34,287 --> 00:17:35,620 {\an8}That wastes time. 483 00:17:35,621 --> 00:17:37,348 {\an8}It was bad, and you know-- 484 00:17:39,792 --> 00:17:41,184 - What did you just say? - Nothing. 485 00:17:41,185 --> 00:17:42,552 Yeah, but I will say, I was surprised 486 00:17:42,553 --> 00:17:43,562 by what she was saying. 487 00:17:43,663 --> 00:17:45,021 You gave her such a beautiful gift. 488 00:17:45,022 --> 00:17:46,197 She Backhanded Betty. 489 00:17:46,198 --> 00:17:48,233 Shannon gets put in an awkward position 490 00:17:48,234 --> 00:17:50,670 because she's very close to Vicki 491 00:17:50,770 --> 00:17:54,340 and so I think it's hard for her to be honest with us 492 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,901 'cause I don't she wants to damage that relationship. 493 00:17:57,335 --> 00:17:58,644 I don't know, I feel like with Danny, 494 00:17:58,744 --> 00:18:00,904 I loved him and he's here for that reason, 495 00:18:00,905 --> 00:18:04,382 but there are all of these little, like, triggers. 496 00:18:04,383 --> 00:18:07,485 And it's like I don't know how to push that out of my mind. 497 00:18:07,486 --> 00:18:09,854 But I think you do think that he's a good guy 498 00:18:09,855 --> 00:18:11,390 and you do think that he's good to your kids 499 00:18:11,490 --> 00:18:13,391 but you're punishing yourself in thinking 500 00:18:13,392 --> 00:18:16,394 that by forgiving him that you're weak 501 00:18:16,395 --> 00:18:17,755 and that you're not being, like, 502 00:18:17,855 --> 00:18:21,900 the independent, stand up, hustler, badass that you are. 503 00:18:21,901 --> 00:18:23,268 Thank you. 504 00:18:23,269 --> 00:18:24,402 There is... it's deep. 505 00:18:24,403 --> 00:18:26,905 There's so much, there's so much pain and anger. 506 00:18:26,906 --> 00:18:28,708 I do see how hard he's trying, 507 00:18:28,808 --> 00:18:32,277 but I just can't connect the two and like actually... 508 00:18:32,278 --> 00:18:35,180 Then stop thinking about him and start talking to yourself. 509 00:18:35,181 --> 00:18:38,074 I have a hard time wrapping my mind around a break-up 510 00:18:38,075 --> 00:18:41,353 with somebody that you've been with for a decade 511 00:18:41,354 --> 00:18:43,913 that have seen your kids grow up, 512 00:18:43,914 --> 00:18:46,783 but we have struggled post-infidelity 513 00:18:46,784 --> 00:18:49,853 with him being dishonest at times. 514 00:18:49,854 --> 00:18:52,789 So, I hesitate because I am fearful 515 00:18:52,790 --> 00:18:54,466 that I'm going to decide something 516 00:18:54,467 --> 00:18:56,435 that I'm later going to regret. 517 00:18:56,535 --> 00:18:59,071 I spoke to him for a bit with Vicki 518 00:18:59,171 --> 00:19:02,932 and his intention is to spend the rest of his life with you 519 00:19:02,933 --> 00:19:06,136 and he really, really cares about you. 520 00:19:06,137 --> 00:19:07,638 Do you know that Vicki, 521 00:19:07,738 --> 00:19:10,807 she told Gina that she went to get the scoop from Danny. 522 00:19:10,808 --> 00:19:14,986 He said they lived there for two years and I thought, 523 00:19:14,987 --> 00:19:17,113 okay, where is a rug, 524 00:19:17,114 --> 00:19:18,649 where is a towel in the bathroom? 525 00:19:18,749 --> 00:19:20,058 Do they live there? 526 00:19:20,059 --> 00:19:22,652 And she wouldn't be okay if somebody did that to Mike. 527 00:19:22,653 --> 00:19:23,895 It's projection. 528 00:19:23,896 --> 00:19:27,332 On the car ride there, Vicki was doing her thing, like, 529 00:19:27,333 --> 00:19:28,067 she had calls to make. 530 00:19:28,167 --> 00:19:29,501 She had calls to make? 531 00:19:29,502 --> 00:19:31,771 Yeah, she had calls, she had things she had to do 532 00:19:31,871 --> 00:19:34,473 and Emily made a comment about, like, you know what, Vicki? 533 00:19:34,573 --> 00:19:38,309 When... when we're all together, is it hard for you to be, like, 534 00:19:38,310 --> 00:19:40,278 away because you're like, answering your emails 535 00:19:40,279 --> 00:19:42,314 and you're telling all of us, like, shut up. 536 00:19:42,415 --> 00:19:43,349 And Vicki's like, 537 00:19:43,449 --> 00:19:45,017 "You're disrespecting me in my home." 538 00:19:45,117 --> 00:19:46,676 How did you disrespect her? 539 00:19:46,677 --> 00:19:47,653 I don't know. 540 00:19:47,753 --> 00:19:49,345 Shannon's like, "You know, she's been burned 541 00:19:49,346 --> 00:19:50,588 in the past by friends--" 542 00:19:50,589 --> 00:19:51,956 - Who? - I don't know. 543 00:19:51,957 --> 00:19:53,024 Shannon's just telling Emily and I. 544 00:19:53,025 --> 00:19:54,360 Shannon's making excuses for her. 545 00:19:54,460 --> 00:19:57,595 I talked to Jen yesterday because my car was at her house. 546 00:19:57,596 --> 00:20:00,999 I was just in the car with Vicki for almost three hours 547 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,768 and I acted as an assistant for her, 548 00:20:03,769 --> 00:20:06,304 holding the phone up as she took the calls, 549 00:20:06,305 --> 00:20:08,198 I typed some emails for her 550 00:20:08,199 --> 00:20:10,942 and the woman is incredibly taxed. 551 00:20:10,943 --> 00:20:15,438 Sometimes Vicki's mouth, her words get the best of her. 552 00:20:15,439 --> 00:20:19,509 It's not about that. I'm not... I'm really not even mad at her. 553 00:20:19,510 --> 00:20:21,053 Well, I am. 554 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:22,621 I'm pissed. 555 00:20:23,089 --> 00:20:26,291 I truly felt like, we rounded the corner 556 00:20:26,292 --> 00:20:28,359 and like, we were starting fresh, 557 00:20:28,360 --> 00:20:31,888 but during our trip, I did hear that Vicki said 558 00:20:31,889 --> 00:20:33,566 I don't even live in that home in Rancho Santa Fe. 559 00:20:33,666 --> 00:20:35,901 Yeah, she does say that. She said that on the way there. 560 00:20:36,001 --> 00:20:38,104 That is actually delusional. 561 00:20:38,971 --> 00:20:41,874 It's a false narrative that is put out there publicly 562 00:20:41,974 --> 00:20:44,634 and she's saying things about my character 563 00:20:44,635 --> 00:20:46,378 that I'm dishonest, that I'm not authentic. 564 00:20:46,479 --> 00:20:48,580 All the things that she's saying, 565 00:20:48,581 --> 00:20:50,315 I wish that I could just hold up a mirror. 566 00:20:50,316 --> 00:20:52,217 I sold my house off-market 567 00:20:52,218 --> 00:20:53,719 and I had 30 days to get into a place. 568 00:20:53,819 --> 00:20:55,712 It was intended to be a six-month rental, 569 00:20:55,713 --> 00:20:59,391 but work was crazy and now, I'm there 18 months. 570 00:20:59,492 --> 00:21:00,993 It's like what do you think this is? Like, 571 00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:03,586 "Hey, kids, pretend like you live here." 572 00:21:03,587 --> 00:21:06,064 Like, this is ridiculous. 573 00:21:06,065 --> 00:21:10,169 Yes! Her house seemed a little sparse. 574 00:21:10,603 --> 00:21:11,736 [voice echoing] Hello? 575 00:21:11,737 --> 00:21:12,771 But I've been there. 576 00:21:12,772 --> 00:21:14,239 I built a house in crystal cove 577 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:15,932 and it took two years to furnish it. 578 00:21:15,933 --> 00:21:18,009 She might not own a cutting board, 579 00:21:18,010 --> 00:21:19,335 but let her be. 580 00:21:19,336 --> 00:21:20,913 She doesn't want to explain anything 581 00:21:21,013 --> 00:21:22,515 about her relationship with Mike, 582 00:21:22,615 --> 00:21:25,608 but she's so quick to judge somebody else's relationship, 583 00:21:25,609 --> 00:21:26,786 or their home, 584 00:21:26,886 --> 00:21:29,112 or where they work, or what they do. 585 00:21:29,113 --> 00:21:32,448 And Vicki had said, I do not want Michael brought up. 586 00:21:32,449 --> 00:21:34,192 I don't bring up my relationships. 587 00:21:34,193 --> 00:21:36,861 She's really walking around on eggshells with Mike, 588 00:21:36,862 --> 00:21:37,955 it sounds like. 589 00:21:38,055 --> 00:21:41,199 I do believe that Vicki's experience with Brooks 590 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:42,367 made her worried. 591 00:21:42,368 --> 00:21:44,594 So, now with Mike, she doesn't want 592 00:21:44,595 --> 00:21:46,129 anybody to know much about him. 593 00:21:46,130 --> 00:21:48,072 She doesn't want anybody to talk about him. 594 00:21:48,073 --> 00:21:50,910 She doesn't want to do anything that could upset him. 595 00:21:51,010 --> 00:21:54,312 So, that's a little bit concerning to me. 596 00:21:54,313 --> 00:21:56,773 So, Michael comes home and she's like, 597 00:21:56,774 --> 00:21:57,783 "Michael is so pissed. 598 00:21:57,883 --> 00:22:00,051 He is so upset 'cause he knows I am upset." 599 00:22:00,052 --> 00:22:02,053 She kept saying, like, "can you just leave? 600 00:22:02,054 --> 00:22:03,713 Can you stop berating me?" 601 00:22:03,714 --> 00:22:05,291 Emily's like I want the [bleep] outta here. 602 00:22:05,391 --> 00:22:07,825 And we zipped our suitcases up, Uber came. 603 00:22:07,826 --> 00:22:10,161 Wow! I, I... 604 00:22:10,162 --> 00:22:11,454 From what you told me, 605 00:22:11,455 --> 00:22:13,631 I don't know what's going on with her, honestly. 606 00:22:13,632 --> 00:22:15,567 Something just doesn't add up. 607 00:22:15,568 --> 00:22:16,502 I agree. 608 00:22:16,602 --> 00:22:18,462 I think there's more to this story. 609 00:22:20,339 --> 00:22:21,307 {\an8}Coming up... 610 00:22:21,407 --> 00:22:22,799 This is lovely. 611 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:23,975 I'm going to do a piano. 612 00:22:23,976 --> 00:22:26,244 You can paint the ceiling black. 613 00:22:26,245 --> 00:22:28,005 Did you just say to paint the ceiling black? 614 00:22:28,105 --> 00:22:29,081 - Yeah. - Okay. 615 00:22:29,181 --> 00:22:30,641 [chuckling] 616 00:22:35,012 --> 00:22:37,022 [upbeat music] 617 00:22:40,726 --> 00:22:41,493 It's a nice day. 618 00:22:41,594 --> 00:22:42,861 This is stunning. 619 00:22:42,862 --> 00:22:44,363 When I first moved here, 620 00:22:44,463 --> 00:22:46,365 I would come to the beach every single weekend 621 00:22:46,498 --> 00:22:48,182 'cause the kids were so little 622 00:22:48,183 --> 00:22:51,670 {\an8}and now they're so busy and we're so busy, 623 00:22:51,770 --> 00:22:53,688 {\an8}I feel like I never get down to the beach. 624 00:22:53,689 --> 00:22:54,840 Yeah. 625 00:22:54,974 --> 00:22:58,201 Like, I don't understand anybody who leaves Orange County. 626 00:22:58,202 --> 00:23:00,703 It's the most beautiful place you could ever live. 627 00:23:00,704 --> 00:23:02,038 It's a dream come true. 628 00:23:02,039 --> 00:23:03,549 Yeah, but it's not cheap. 629 00:23:03,682 --> 00:23:05,650 It is not cheap, no. 630 00:23:05,651 --> 00:23:07,702 And this is why I go back and forth in my head 631 00:23:07,703 --> 00:23:09,880 because I think, "Do we want the big wedding 632 00:23:10,014 --> 00:23:13,717 or do we want to settle into our forever home?" 633 00:23:13,817 --> 00:23:15,260 Yeah, I know. It's a good point. 634 00:23:15,261 --> 00:23:17,362 The hard part about the house is that... 635 00:23:17,363 --> 00:23:19,898 eventually these kids are going to go to school, 636 00:23:19,899 --> 00:23:22,500 is it really worth spending the amount of money 637 00:23:22,501 --> 00:23:25,270 that you need to spend to stay where we live 638 00:23:25,271 --> 00:23:26,537 to get a house big enough 639 00:23:26,538 --> 00:23:29,407 for a relatively short period of time? 640 00:23:29,408 --> 00:23:31,542 Part of me is like, maybe we just have a wedding 641 00:23:31,543 --> 00:23:34,213 and then, invest in another business idea 642 00:23:34,313 --> 00:23:36,881 and then just keep things the way there are. 643 00:23:36,882 --> 00:23:38,216 - Yeah. - Which are great, 644 00:23:38,217 --> 00:23:40,052 it's not like we're not happy where we're at. 645 00:23:40,152 --> 00:23:41,252 Yeah. 646 00:23:41,253 --> 00:23:43,555 The size of the home that we would need 647 00:23:43,656 --> 00:23:46,391 to live comfortably would be about 3 million dollars 648 00:23:46,392 --> 00:23:48,359 and it's kind of one of those things 649 00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:52,747 where we could do it but... 650 00:23:52,748 --> 00:23:54,565 we would feel it. 651 00:23:54,566 --> 00:23:56,527 [chuckles] 652 00:23:56,927 --> 00:23:58,870 My girlfriends will be, like, let's go wedding dress shopping. 653 00:23:58,871 --> 00:24:00,038 They all say the same thing. 654 00:24:00,039 --> 00:24:01,597 They're like, Gina, you'll never regret it. 655 00:24:01,598 --> 00:24:03,609 You guys have gone through so much together 656 00:24:03,742 --> 00:24:06,761 and you're not going to regret celebrating that. 657 00:24:06,762 --> 00:24:09,947 And having everybody around you that loves you celebrating that. 658 00:24:09,948 --> 00:24:11,950 I think we need, like, have a rough idea 659 00:24:12,051 --> 00:24:13,443 of what a budget is for a wedding 660 00:24:13,444 --> 00:24:15,087 before we can make any decisions, though. 661 00:24:15,220 --> 00:24:17,089 Yeah, we have to meet with a wedding planner 662 00:24:17,189 --> 00:24:19,457 and I did get the number from Jen, actually. 663 00:24:19,458 --> 00:24:20,784 Jen's using a wedding planning? 664 00:24:20,918 --> 00:24:23,127 No, Jen isn't even... Jen isn't even... 665 00:24:23,128 --> 00:24:24,779 They don't even know what the [bleep] is going on 666 00:24:24,780 --> 00:24:26,097 with their wedding. Like, I'm telling you, 667 00:24:26,098 --> 00:24:27,624 we're going to get married before Jen and Ryan. 668 00:24:27,758 --> 00:24:28,600 Oh, really? 669 00:24:28,734 --> 00:24:30,301 You want to go down to the beach? 670 00:24:30,302 --> 00:24:31,270 Yeah, I do. 671 00:24:31,403 --> 00:24:32,296 Alright, let's go. 672 00:24:32,396 --> 00:24:34,105 Well, the problem is, obviously, 673 00:24:34,106 --> 00:24:35,773 that my parents aren't paying for this wedding. 674 00:24:35,774 --> 00:24:37,609 You know, my parents paid for the first wedding. 675 00:24:37,710 --> 00:24:39,844 Second wedding you gotta pay for yourself. 676 00:24:39,845 --> 00:24:41,305 Oh, look at that seagull. 677 00:24:41,438 --> 00:24:43,464 You were that impressed by a seagull? 678 00:24:43,465 --> 00:24:46,476 I mean, he was gliding really impressively. 679 00:24:46,477 --> 00:24:48,319 Travis has a big family 680 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,971 and then there is like, so many people 681 00:24:49,972 --> 00:24:54,317 who have been there for our journey together 682 00:24:54,318 --> 00:24:56,527 and, like, those people you can't exclude 683 00:24:56,528 --> 00:24:58,330 and that's ching-ching. 684 00:24:58,464 --> 00:25:00,666 Well, I have something exciting. 685 00:25:00,799 --> 00:25:02,166 - You do? - I do. 686 00:25:02,167 --> 00:25:03,434 What? What? 687 00:25:03,435 --> 00:25:06,205 I'm not proposing to you again, but guess what I got? 688 00:25:06,572 --> 00:25:08,473 - I got the actual ring. - Stop it! 689 00:25:08,474 --> 00:25:09,842 - Yep. - Oh, my god, babe. 690 00:25:09,942 --> 00:25:12,326 - So, I can take that off. - So, we can take that off! 691 00:25:12,327 --> 00:25:13,311 Yeah. 692 00:25:13,312 --> 00:25:16,831 Oh, my god, stop! Oh, it's so pretty! 693 00:25:16,832 --> 00:25:19,008 Bling, bling. [chiming] 694 00:25:19,009 --> 00:25:22,854 It feels even more real now, because this is real. 695 00:25:22,855 --> 00:25:25,624 I love that you put the six stones for the kids. 696 00:25:26,024 --> 00:25:27,842 - It's so beautiful. - I know. 697 00:25:27,843 --> 00:25:29,343 Everything that I've been through 698 00:25:29,344 --> 00:25:32,856 in order to get to Travis truly is my own love story. 699 00:25:32,990 --> 00:25:35,667 He's like the person who is responsible 700 00:25:35,801 --> 00:25:39,003 for repairing a heart that he did not break. 701 00:25:39,004 --> 00:25:41,172 It's so beautiful. I love it so much. 702 00:25:41,173 --> 00:25:42,373 Don't cry. 703 00:25:42,374 --> 00:25:45,535 So, when I think about having a wedding with him, 704 00:25:45,536 --> 00:25:47,695 I want it. I do. 705 00:25:47,696 --> 00:25:49,381 So, now we can talk to the wedding planner 706 00:25:49,481 --> 00:25:51,649 - 'cause we have a legit ring. - Now I have a real ring. 707 00:25:51,650 --> 00:25:54,544 Now I'm really engaged. [laughter] 708 00:25:54,545 --> 00:25:56,387 - I love you. - I love you too. 709 00:25:56,388 --> 00:25:58,549 [dogs bark] 710 00:25:58,682 --> 00:26:00,550 - They don't love us. - They don't love our love. 711 00:26:00,551 --> 00:26:02,394 They don't love our love. 712 00:26:04,096 --> 00:26:06,815 [upbeat music] 713 00:26:16,567 --> 00:26:17,910 - Hi. - Hi, how are you guys? 714 00:26:18,043 --> 00:26:19,560 - Great. - Good, how are you? 715 00:26:19,561 --> 00:26:20,736 - Thank you. - For two? 716 00:26:20,737 --> 00:26:22,239 - Yeah. - Okay. This way please. 717 00:26:22,339 --> 00:26:23,740 Thank you. 718 00:26:23,874 --> 00:26:24,883 I like this. 719 00:26:24,983 --> 00:26:26,502 It's so pretty. 720 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,721 - Enjoy your dinner, guys. - Thank you. 721 00:26:29,822 --> 00:26:30,721 Hello. 722 00:26:30,722 --> 00:26:31,856 - Hi. - Welcome. 723 00:26:31,857 --> 00:26:33,925 Do you like anything to drink from the bar? 724 00:26:33,926 --> 00:26:36,527 Can I do Titos and soda with no lime? 725 00:26:36,528 --> 00:26:37,578 - Sure. - Two of those. 726 00:26:37,579 --> 00:26:38,397 - Two of those? - Yep. 727 00:26:38,530 --> 00:26:40,015 - Coming up. - Thank you. 728 00:26:42,768 --> 00:26:44,394 {\an8}Are my boobs straight? 729 00:26:45,003 --> 00:26:45,736 {\an8}Yeah. 730 00:26:45,737 --> 00:26:46,705 {\an8}[chuckles] 731 00:26:46,805 --> 00:26:48,773 I don't think we've been on a date since... 732 00:26:48,774 --> 00:26:50,074 I don't know how long. 733 00:26:50,075 --> 00:26:51,410 Well, 'cause I don't like you. 734 00:26:51,543 --> 00:26:53,529 {\an8}Just kidding. [chuckles] 735 00:26:55,013 --> 00:26:57,915 Danny is so happy, and he laughs, 736 00:26:57,916 --> 00:26:59,118 and he's easygoing. 737 00:26:59,251 --> 00:27:01,277 There's a comfort level with him 738 00:27:01,278 --> 00:27:05,256 where I don't have to be on, but I'm not very easy 739 00:27:05,257 --> 00:27:06,625 because I hold on to everything. 740 00:27:06,758 --> 00:27:08,259 - Thank you. - There you are. 741 00:27:08,260 --> 00:27:09,628 Are you folks ready to order? 742 00:27:09,728 --> 00:27:13,956 Um, sure. So, I'll do just the tacos 743 00:27:13,957 --> 00:27:16,268 with the steak and not the shredded beef. 744 00:27:16,401 --> 00:27:18,270 - Okay, for you, sir? - What is this, sorry? 745 00:27:18,403 --> 00:27:19,629 It's a creamy chipotle sauce 746 00:27:19,630 --> 00:27:21,607 sauteed with mushrooms and onions on top. 747 00:27:21,707 --> 00:27:23,141 I might try that. 748 00:27:23,142 --> 00:27:24,075 Alright, sounds good. 749 00:27:24,076 --> 00:27:25,443 Thank you so much. 750 00:27:25,444 --> 00:27:27,044 Cheers. I love you. 751 00:27:27,045 --> 00:27:28,647 To... 752 00:27:29,181 --> 00:27:30,616 Huh? 753 00:27:30,716 --> 00:27:32,109 Cheers to what? 754 00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:35,645 Fresh start? 755 00:27:35,646 --> 00:27:37,447 [awkward beat] 756 00:27:40,058 --> 00:27:41,460 What do you mean? 757 00:27:41,593 --> 00:27:44,829 Like, it's so beyond redundant at this point. 758 00:27:44,830 --> 00:27:46,631 We're working on it, that's a decision. 759 00:27:46,632 --> 00:27:48,633 But my goal is to get married. 760 00:27:48,634 --> 00:27:50,334 Why do we need to get married? 761 00:27:50,335 --> 00:27:51,302 I like being married. 762 00:27:51,303 --> 00:27:52,820 Well, you've been married a few times 763 00:27:52,821 --> 00:27:54,488 so I think you're cut off. 764 00:27:54,489 --> 00:27:56,440 I definitely think that time makes it easier 765 00:27:56,441 --> 00:28:00,762 to rebuild trust, but I still hold on to so much anger. 766 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,342 I do not know the answer to that question. 767 00:28:06,343 --> 00:28:07,677 Are you married? 768 00:28:07,678 --> 00:28:09,021 Uh, I'm engaged. 769 00:28:09,154 --> 00:28:10,855 Mm, congratulations. 770 00:28:10,856 --> 00:28:11,957 - That's awesome. - Thank you. 771 00:28:12,057 --> 00:28:13,859 - Oh, this looks good. - Enjoy your meal. 772 00:28:13,992 --> 00:28:14,850 Thank you. 773 00:28:14,851 --> 00:28:16,494 Marriage is just such a big thing. 774 00:28:16,495 --> 00:28:18,029 - I don't know, it's-- - I'm not saying 775 00:28:18,030 --> 00:28:19,189 I need to be married. 776 00:28:19,289 --> 00:28:21,199 I just think it's like when people are together, 777 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:22,199 it's like, I don't know. 778 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,502 {\an8}But there are underlying issues 779 00:28:24,503 --> 00:28:27,305 that you also need to work on. 780 00:28:27,306 --> 00:28:28,832 You cheated on me. 781 00:28:30,309 --> 00:28:35,705 It is imperative that you are completely transparent. 782 00:28:35,706 --> 00:28:39,518 You can't lie about the color of underwear that you have on. 783 00:28:39,618 --> 00:28:43,321 Recently Danny had messages with this woman, 784 00:28:43,322 --> 00:28:46,524 he said he was going to meet her at a property. 785 00:28:46,525 --> 00:28:48,993 I can be honest with you for the rest of my life 786 00:28:48,994 --> 00:28:51,387 and you wouldn't even know because you can't trust it. 787 00:28:51,388 --> 00:28:54,365 So, when asked who is that, he was like, 788 00:28:54,366 --> 00:28:56,667 "Oh, it's real estate agent." 789 00:28:56,668 --> 00:28:59,503 And I'm like, "Have you dated the real estate agent?" 790 00:28:59,504 --> 00:29:02,056 And he's like, "No! I mean, I went out with her once." 791 00:29:02,057 --> 00:29:04,558 And I'm like, okay, so you... so you did. 792 00:29:04,559 --> 00:29:06,577 So, you're now going to go and meet somebody 793 00:29:06,578 --> 00:29:08,379 that you've dated before 794 00:29:08,380 --> 00:29:10,248 and you have a history of infidelity, 795 00:29:10,249 --> 00:29:13,417 and then you're like, "How can I rebuild trust?" 796 00:29:13,418 --> 00:29:15,754 Stop lying, stop hiding things. 797 00:29:15,854 --> 00:29:18,623 I can say sorry, but we can't change that part. 798 00:29:18,624 --> 00:29:20,384 Where do we go from here? 799 00:29:20,826 --> 00:29:21,918 Therapy. 800 00:29:22,019 --> 00:29:24,595 Therapy and just be... Let's do more of this-- 801 00:29:24,596 --> 00:29:27,758 It the next six months, what's our goal? 802 00:29:27,891 --> 00:29:29,433 Lots of sex. 803 00:29:29,434 --> 00:29:31,435 [chuckling] 804 00:29:31,436 --> 00:29:33,571 - I'll go to couples therapy. - Mm-hmm. 805 00:29:33,572 --> 00:29:35,089 Because I love you, 806 00:29:35,090 --> 00:29:37,041 and because I know I hold so much resentment 807 00:29:37,042 --> 00:29:41,113 and anger that I'm sure that it's tough to talk to me. 808 00:29:41,213 --> 00:29:44,081 We need to see if we can get there 809 00:29:44,082 --> 00:29:46,410 and if we can't, we have to stop this. 810 00:29:48,270 --> 00:29:50,104 If you give 100% and I give a 100%, 811 00:29:50,105 --> 00:29:51,689 I don't think we can lose. 812 00:29:51,690 --> 00:29:52,957 Okay. 813 00:29:52,958 --> 00:29:54,892 Thank you. I love you. 814 00:29:54,893 --> 00:29:56,294 Love you. 815 00:29:58,130 --> 00:29:59,598 {\an8}Coming up... 816 00:29:59,698 --> 00:30:01,832 I'm worried about you for many, many, many reasons. 817 00:30:01,833 --> 00:30:03,935 On paper everything looks perfect. 818 00:30:04,036 --> 00:30:07,306 In my heart, in my brain, it's not. 819 00:30:11,134 --> 00:30:13,478 [upbeat music] 820 00:30:18,684 --> 00:30:20,277 And here we are. 821 00:30:20,686 --> 00:30:22,154 {\an8}Oh! 822 00:30:23,221 --> 00:30:25,289 {\an8}This is lovely. 823 00:30:25,290 --> 00:30:26,657 Um, honey? 824 00:30:26,658 --> 00:30:29,327 Oh, you want me to carry you over the threshold? 825 00:30:29,328 --> 00:30:31,429 {\an8}- Literally? - Yes, literally. 826 00:30:31,430 --> 00:30:32,463 {\an8}She's like a little chicken. 827 00:30:32,464 --> 00:30:33,798 {\an8}Wow. You actually weigh nothing. 828 00:30:33,799 --> 00:30:34,982 {\an8}Thank you. 829 00:30:34,983 --> 00:30:36,567 {\an8}This is the first time I've ever done this. 830 00:30:36,568 --> 00:30:37,501 Look! 831 00:30:37,502 --> 00:30:39,970 We spent about 14 million on the apartment 832 00:30:39,971 --> 00:30:43,107 and, honestly, we actually paid more for this apartment 833 00:30:43,108 --> 00:30:44,208 than it was worth, 834 00:30:44,209 --> 00:30:47,012 but the proximity to our other apartment... 835 00:30:47,112 --> 00:30:50,005 made us go, "Okay, in the long run 836 00:30:50,006 --> 00:30:51,507 does it really matter?" 837 00:30:51,508 --> 00:30:52,583 No. 838 00:30:52,584 --> 00:30:54,019 Oh, my god, if you could've seen this place. 839 00:30:54,119 --> 00:30:55,387 Really? 840 00:30:55,487 --> 00:30:57,589 {\an8}I just want you to picture something as we walk through. 841 00:30:57,689 --> 00:31:00,591 {\an8}I want you to picture shelving with-- 842 00:31:00,592 --> 00:31:02,527 - Hoarders. - ...with hoarders. 843 00:31:02,627 --> 00:31:07,064 Worse than you with bags and shoes and things. 844 00:31:07,065 --> 00:31:09,067 I have beautiful items. 845 00:31:09,167 --> 00:31:13,372 So, Mom, we're ripping up everything. 846 00:31:14,639 --> 00:31:15,806 Terry doesn't know what things cost. 847 00:31:15,807 --> 00:31:19,510 I'd like to do a two million dollar remodel, 848 00:31:19,511 --> 00:31:21,912 but I'm sure it'll balloon up a little bit but, 849 00:31:21,913 --> 00:31:23,948 you know, we're going to be there for a long time, 850 00:31:23,949 --> 00:31:25,217 so, it should be fabulous. 851 00:31:25,317 --> 00:31:28,754 I had this vision of this champagne corridor. 852 00:31:28,854 --> 00:31:31,222 As you walk through, it's going to be champagne 853 00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:32,390 like this, this, this. 854 00:31:32,491 --> 00:31:34,058 - How cool. - And it'll be lit up 855 00:31:34,059 --> 00:31:35,427 and then I'm going to do a piano. 856 00:31:35,527 --> 00:31:38,129 You can paint the ceiling black. 857 00:31:38,130 --> 00:31:39,697 Did you just say to paint the ceiling black? 858 00:31:39,698 --> 00:31:41,166 - Yeah. - Okay. 859 00:31:41,266 --> 00:31:42,892 If the ceiling's black won't it look like 860 00:31:42,893 --> 00:31:43,701 the inside of a coffin? 861 00:31:43,702 --> 00:31:45,227 Anyway, we're not doing that. 862 00:31:45,228 --> 00:31:46,395 If it was up to mother, 863 00:31:46,396 --> 00:31:49,641 {\an8}this apartment would have big heavy drapes, 864 00:31:49,741 --> 00:31:51,675 {\an8}tassels, tchotchkes everywhere, 865 00:31:51,676 --> 00:31:53,878 {\an8}grandfather clocks, tea sets 866 00:31:53,879 --> 00:31:56,515 {\an8}and lots of furniture that's not comfortable. 867 00:31:56,615 --> 00:31:57,615 She's a hoarder! 868 00:31:57,616 --> 00:31:58,916 And this is Max's room. 869 00:31:58,917 --> 00:32:01,235 Instead of doing this, 870 00:32:01,236 --> 00:32:02,921 the entrance to her bathroom is going to be 871 00:32:03,021 --> 00:32:04,555 a pocket door on this side. 872 00:32:04,556 --> 00:32:06,390 I'm thinking about the future. 873 00:32:06,391 --> 00:32:08,426 I want my kids to be happy here. 874 00:32:08,527 --> 00:32:10,128 {\an8}I do a miss house, 875 00:32:10,228 --> 00:32:11,829 {\an8}but I think my mind has been changed 876 00:32:11,830 --> 00:32:13,330 {\an8}because the apartment is going to be so nice. 877 00:32:13,331 --> 00:32:15,157 But it will be a good like, pied-à-terre 878 00:32:15,158 --> 00:32:17,502 - for you to come home to. - Yeah. 879 00:32:17,602 --> 00:32:21,173 At the same time, you need a little space to disappear to. 880 00:32:21,273 --> 00:32:25,176 So, now that we're going to have our own apartment, 881 00:32:25,177 --> 00:32:30,482 I might redo a little bit more for just me and Terry, 882 00:32:30,582 --> 00:32:32,550 for us to focus on each other. 883 00:32:32,551 --> 00:32:34,518 You don't think you want to... keep the entrance here? 884 00:32:34,519 --> 00:32:35,487 - No. - No? 885 00:32:35,587 --> 00:32:38,356 - I don't know feng shui, I... - No. 886 00:32:38,456 --> 00:32:40,624 I think it's short-sighted not to have 887 00:32:40,625 --> 00:32:42,660 a little mini kitchen. 888 00:32:42,661 --> 00:32:43,861 Doesn't want it. 889 00:32:43,862 --> 00:32:46,430 Like doing a bar. Maybe you could, you know, 890 00:32:46,431 --> 00:32:47,566 put a little microwave in it. 891 00:32:47,666 --> 00:32:48,933 Why? 892 00:32:48,934 --> 00:32:51,369 Can I ask one question, what is your palette? 893 00:32:51,470 --> 00:32:52,770 It's there. 894 00:32:52,771 --> 00:32:54,205 [laughter] 895 00:32:54,206 --> 00:32:56,532 This was the last place that I would've ever thought 896 00:32:56,533 --> 00:32:58,609 that we would want, but it's kind of perfect. 897 00:32:58,610 --> 00:32:59,944 Remember I was saying to you, 898 00:32:59,945 --> 00:33:03,013 I look forward to the time where we're in a forever place 899 00:33:03,014 --> 00:33:04,182 and we know we're dug in. 900 00:33:04,282 --> 00:33:06,418 - Yeah. Yeah. - I feel like this is our spot. 901 00:33:06,551 --> 00:33:10,921 I think the path to penthouse living was circuitous. 902 00:33:10,922 --> 00:33:12,323 {\an8}This place looks like sh--. 903 00:33:12,324 --> 00:33:13,624 {\an8}To me it looks like a war zone. 904 00:33:13,625 --> 00:33:15,860 {\an8}I say we sell it. Let's just move on. 905 00:33:15,861 --> 00:33:18,629 The maintenance of a house and honestly, 906 00:33:18,630 --> 00:33:20,723 so many people have been robbed. 907 00:33:20,724 --> 00:33:25,237 Living in this high-rise, it's easy, it's fun. 908 00:33:25,337 --> 00:33:26,937 I find it really sexy. 909 00:33:26,938 --> 00:33:29,340 I never want to see a blade of grass again. 910 00:33:29,341 --> 00:33:30,708 I felt that way about our last house. 911 00:33:30,709 --> 00:33:32,510 Remember I used to say, I want to be buried there, 912 00:33:32,611 --> 00:33:33,878 I love it so much. 913 00:33:33,879 --> 00:33:36,814 But for 55 million dollars, you can bury me here. 914 00:33:36,815 --> 00:33:38,682 [laughter] 915 00:33:38,683 --> 00:33:40,818 Like, this is really beautiful. 916 00:33:40,819 --> 00:33:42,254 {\an8}Thank you. 917 00:33:42,354 --> 00:33:44,522 {\an8}I hope to have many years here. 918 00:33:44,623 --> 00:33:47,224 {\an8}Playing pool, drinking champagne, 919 00:33:47,225 --> 00:33:48,826 {\an8}telling you what to do. 920 00:33:48,827 --> 00:33:49,961 {\an8}[laughter] 921 00:33:50,061 --> 00:33:51,195 Did you hear what I said? 922 00:33:51,196 --> 00:33:52,496 Oh, I heard. 923 00:33:52,497 --> 00:33:53,522 [laughter] 924 00:33:53,523 --> 00:33:56,368 [upbeat music] 925 00:34:08,613 --> 00:34:09,581 Vick? 926 00:34:09,681 --> 00:34:11,115 I'm in the kitchen. 927 00:34:11,116 --> 00:34:12,249 So quiet in here. 928 00:34:12,250 --> 00:34:13,150 Hi. 929 00:34:13,151 --> 00:34:14,451 Where are you going all dolled up? 930 00:34:14,452 --> 00:34:15,611 I am? 931 00:34:15,612 --> 00:34:17,788 Where you going? Look like you're working out. 932 00:34:17,789 --> 00:34:20,558 Well, I took a little walk. I'm trying to get my... 933 00:34:22,861 --> 00:34:23,861 It's getting better. 934 00:34:23,862 --> 00:34:25,454 Vicki's like the sister I never had. 935 00:34:25,455 --> 00:34:26,864 We've gone through so much. 936 00:34:26,865 --> 00:34:28,465 I don't know what's going on with her, 937 00:34:28,466 --> 00:34:30,534 but I just want her to know I will be there. 938 00:34:30,535 --> 00:34:33,137 I will be by your side the entire time. 939 00:34:33,138 --> 00:34:35,140 I feel like I haven't seen you in so long. 940 00:34:35,240 --> 00:34:36,273 You haven't. 941 00:34:36,274 --> 00:34:37,474 What's going on? 942 00:34:37,475 --> 00:34:38,509 Are you hungry? 943 00:34:38,510 --> 00:34:40,411 I made egg salad and some watermelon. 944 00:34:40,412 --> 00:34:41,645 I'll take watermelon. 945 00:34:41,646 --> 00:34:43,348 Okay. 946 00:34:43,915 --> 00:34:46,184 Well, yesterday I had a big infusion. 947 00:34:46,284 --> 00:34:48,152 I was in an IV treatment yesterday 948 00:34:48,153 --> 00:34:49,219 for four and a half hours. 949 00:34:49,220 --> 00:34:50,254 So, I'm struggling. 950 00:34:50,255 --> 00:34:51,455 I know you're struggling 951 00:34:51,456 --> 00:34:53,482 'cause you look so overwhelmed right now. 952 00:34:53,483 --> 00:34:54,725 Well, I didn't go in to work today, 953 00:34:54,726 --> 00:34:56,961 I called in sick 'cause I wanted to just, like-- 954 00:34:56,962 --> 00:34:58,430 Who'd you call? Yourself? 955 00:34:58,997 --> 00:35:01,265 I'm worried about you for many, many, many reasons. 956 00:35:01,266 --> 00:35:03,834 One, your knee. Another, your health. 957 00:35:03,835 --> 00:35:04,768 Yeah. 958 00:35:04,769 --> 00:35:06,603 And then I met with Jen the other day 959 00:35:06,604 --> 00:35:08,505 and she said you lost your mind 960 00:35:08,506 --> 00:35:10,474 and you like, kicked them out of your house. 961 00:35:10,475 --> 00:35:11,710 Yeah, I know. Jen lied. 962 00:35:11,843 --> 00:35:14,646 And probably Emily will lie too, 'cause they're liars. 963 00:35:14,746 --> 00:35:17,348 You guys, everybody can get the [bleep] out of my home. 964 00:35:17,349 --> 00:35:19,951 I think you said that it would be better if we left. 965 00:35:21,936 --> 00:35:24,122 The worse thing I can do is stress. 966 00:35:24,222 --> 00:35:25,856 When they were picking at me in the kitchen, 967 00:35:25,857 --> 00:35:27,324 I thought I was going to have a heart attack. 968 00:35:27,325 --> 00:35:30,961 They, they weren't respecting me for how hard I work. 969 00:35:30,962 --> 00:35:32,297 Oh, and they say, "Oh, you can't work." 970 00:35:32,397 --> 00:35:34,865 But I don't get all this because I sit on my ass. 971 00:35:34,866 --> 00:35:36,258 I know. I know. 972 00:35:36,259 --> 00:35:37,126 It really bothers me. 973 00:35:37,127 --> 00:35:38,268 I know, honey. 974 00:35:38,269 --> 00:35:40,838 I work to get where I'm at to help my children 975 00:35:40,839 --> 00:35:43,290 to put them through school with no debt, 976 00:35:43,291 --> 00:35:45,909 through private schools, through everything I've done. 977 00:35:45,910 --> 00:35:47,311 Stop poking at me, 978 00:35:47,312 --> 00:35:49,346 and don't tell me I can't work. 979 00:35:49,347 --> 00:35:52,082 The reason why I exist is 'cause I'm a good advisor, 980 00:35:52,083 --> 00:35:53,550 I'm a good insurance agent. 981 00:35:53,551 --> 00:35:56,354 And a big fear for me is what would I do when I retire? 982 00:35:56,454 --> 00:35:58,156 My dad never retired, he just died. 983 00:35:58,256 --> 00:35:59,423 I think that's what I'll do. 984 00:35:59,424 --> 00:36:01,650 COTO Insurance is never going to abandon me. 985 00:36:01,651 --> 00:36:03,093 Work is Vicki's identity. 986 00:36:03,094 --> 00:36:04,863 I think it makes her feel good about herself, 987 00:36:04,963 --> 00:36:06,997 but she's going to wake up one day and be like, 988 00:36:06,998 --> 00:36:10,993 "I chose money over people in my life." 989 00:36:10,994 --> 00:36:12,936 Do you think they're saying that just to poke at you 990 00:36:12,937 --> 00:36:15,540 and they don't really mean it? Is it what you're saying? 991 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:16,740 You know how it is. 992 00:36:16,741 --> 00:36:18,642 Don't look at my life, but I'll look yours, 993 00:36:18,643 --> 00:36:20,135 and I'll poke you, poke you, poke you. 994 00:36:20,136 --> 00:36:22,413 I'm calm as long as those people don't poke me. 995 00:36:22,414 --> 00:36:24,248 I live calm life. 996 00:36:24,249 --> 00:36:25,583 I do! 997 00:36:25,684 --> 00:36:28,152 But when I'm defensive or feel insecure, 998 00:36:28,153 --> 00:36:31,188 or feel less than, or feel whatever-- 999 00:36:31,189 --> 00:36:32,123 Do you feel less than? 1000 00:36:32,223 --> 00:36:34,259 - Well, sometimes I do. - Why? 1001 00:36:34,359 --> 00:36:35,826 You're Vicki----ing Gunvalson. 1002 00:36:35,827 --> 00:36:36,927 Why would you feel less than? 1003 00:36:36,928 --> 00:36:38,196 Why not? 1004 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,066 You are successful, you are beautiful, 1005 00:36:41,166 --> 00:36:44,001 you have an amazing boyfriend, 1006 00:36:44,002 --> 00:36:45,829 will be your husband one day. 1007 00:36:48,273 --> 00:36:51,543 I've had three engagements, it obviously didn't work. 1008 00:36:51,643 --> 00:36:55,012 I can't be in a... 1009 00:36:55,013 --> 00:36:57,382 toxic relationship. 1010 00:37:00,185 --> 00:37:01,678 [sniffles] 1011 00:37:06,791 --> 00:37:12,296 I can't be in a toxic relationship. 1012 00:37:12,297 --> 00:37:15,958 I am fearful of ever having another failure. 1013 00:37:15,959 --> 00:37:18,368 Call me depressed, called me scared, call me, 1014 00:37:18,369 --> 00:37:22,397 you know, turning 64, and my sister and family, 1015 00:37:22,398 --> 00:37:24,400 and Briana, everybody's far away from me. 1016 00:37:24,501 --> 00:37:25,726 Everybody. 1017 00:37:25,727 --> 00:37:28,061 Michael travels five days a week. 1018 00:37:28,062 --> 00:37:29,513 I come home from work, I'm like-- 1019 00:37:29,514 --> 00:37:30,806 You're home alone. 1020 00:37:30,807 --> 00:37:32,383 It's not a good place to be. 1021 00:37:32,884 --> 00:37:35,745 I had the big house, the dogs, family. 1022 00:37:35,845 --> 00:37:37,321 {\an8}You got your puppy? 1023 00:37:37,322 --> 00:37:39,048 {\an8}Oh, hi, Brodie! 1024 00:37:39,149 --> 00:37:40,958 My kids are adults 1025 00:37:40,959 --> 00:37:43,694 and I'm gonna have them both living home this summer, 1026 00:37:43,695 --> 00:37:46,413 so the dinner table will have four of us sitting there, 1027 00:37:46,414 --> 00:37:47,256 finally! 1028 00:37:47,257 --> 00:37:48,398 {\an8}Cheers, honey! 1029 00:37:48,399 --> 00:37:49,726 {\an8}You're now legally drinking age. 1030 00:37:49,826 --> 00:37:52,060 {\an8}I can go out with my daughter and have a glass of wine. 1031 00:37:52,061 --> 00:37:53,604 {\an8}It's weird. 1032 00:37:53,605 --> 00:37:54,588 {\an8}Great times. 1033 00:37:54,589 --> 00:37:56,540 {\an8}The older I get, the more I realize 1034 00:37:56,541 --> 00:37:59,944 {\an8}I don't ever want to be alone without you in my life. 1035 00:38:04,174 --> 00:38:06,441 Nobody can fix it. 1036 00:38:06,442 --> 00:38:08,419 On paper everything looks perfect, 1037 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,580 in my heart, in my brain, it's not. 1038 00:38:11,581 --> 00:38:14,049 When I was younger, I was always sick. 1039 00:38:14,050 --> 00:38:16,953 At seven I had my first cholesteatoma surgery. 1040 00:38:17,053 --> 00:38:18,429 I had another at 11. 1041 00:38:18,530 --> 00:38:20,564 My mom would be there as much as she could 1042 00:38:20,565 --> 00:38:22,425 and then I remember my aunt coming 1043 00:38:22,525 --> 00:38:23,767 and I was never left alone. 1044 00:38:23,768 --> 00:38:26,596 I always had attention and so I think that's why 1045 00:38:26,696 --> 00:38:27,788 I'm so freaked out about it. 1046 00:38:27,789 --> 00:38:29,173 It's because I never was abandoned. 1047 00:38:29,174 --> 00:38:31,909 I know, I'm even feeling it like a little bit now 1048 00:38:31,910 --> 00:38:33,302 not having any kids in the house. 1049 00:38:33,303 --> 00:38:38,081 It's a very icky feeling and I think, like, 1050 00:38:38,082 --> 00:38:39,918 maybe you need to talk about that. 1051 00:38:40,018 --> 00:38:42,486 Say, "Listen, I'm sad." 1052 00:38:42,487 --> 00:38:43,687 [soft music] 1053 00:38:43,688 --> 00:38:45,656 Michael is so good to me, 1054 00:38:45,657 --> 00:38:49,359 he's the only one I've shared my fears, 1055 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,595 my sadness and he's like, 1056 00:38:51,596 --> 00:38:53,156 "Everything will be fine, you know?" 1057 00:38:53,256 --> 00:38:54,498 [sniffles] 1058 00:38:54,499 --> 00:38:56,467 I'm glad that you have him, that you can share. 1059 00:38:56,568 --> 00:38:57,602 Yeah. 1060 00:38:58,269 --> 00:39:01,238 But my fear always is, maybe this is too much for him. 1061 00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,907 He exits out the way the rest of them did. 1062 00:39:03,908 --> 00:39:05,834 What's too much, the show? 1063 00:39:05,835 --> 00:39:10,214 My stress level, like, when he got home that night 1064 00:39:10,215 --> 00:39:12,499 and I was upset 'cause girls were just... 1065 00:39:12,500 --> 00:39:14,319 They were... they wouldn't leave me alone. 1066 00:39:14,419 --> 00:39:15,552 I walked in and he's like, 1067 00:39:15,553 --> 00:39:17,347 "You're such a good person and why would... 1068 00:39:17,447 --> 00:39:18,655 why would this be happening?" 1069 00:39:18,656 --> 00:39:20,683 I'm like, "Obviously, I did something wrong." 1070 00:39:20,783 --> 00:39:21,993 No. That's not true. 1071 00:39:22,093 --> 00:39:23,527 Obviously, I did something wrong. 1072 00:39:23,528 --> 00:39:25,330 You had said, like, sometimes I walk around on eggshells, 1073 00:39:25,430 --> 00:39:27,189 I'm afraid I'm going to do something wrong 1074 00:39:27,190 --> 00:39:28,257 and I think that's you. 1075 00:39:28,258 --> 00:39:30,133 I think that's you in your own head. 1076 00:39:30,134 --> 00:39:31,768 Because I don't like being divorced 1077 00:39:31,769 --> 00:39:34,238 and I don't like not having a forever relationship. 1078 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:37,024 It's one of my insecurities. It's just... 1079 00:39:37,025 --> 00:39:40,002 I can't wave a magic wand and say 1080 00:39:40,003 --> 00:39:42,529 everything's going to be fine forever 'cause I don't know. 1081 00:39:42,530 --> 00:39:44,815 And then you add Steve onto that, 1082 00:39:44,816 --> 00:39:46,675 and then you add Brooks onto that. 1083 00:39:46,676 --> 00:39:48,277 Vicki puts a lot of pressure on herself 1084 00:39:48,278 --> 00:39:49,712 and not feeling good enough, 1085 00:39:49,812 --> 00:39:52,155 and pretty enough, and skinny enough, 1086 00:39:52,156 --> 00:39:53,882 when Slade called her Miss Piggy-- 1087 00:39:53,883 --> 00:39:57,160 {\an8}We have Vicki, she went under major reconstructive surgery. 1088 00:39:57,161 --> 00:39:59,997 {\an8}Don't get mad at me because she looks like Miss Piggy. 1089 00:39:59,998 --> 00:40:01,465 She went and had, you know, 1090 00:40:01,466 --> 00:40:03,526 a nose, and a chin implant, and all this. 1091 00:40:03,626 --> 00:40:08,772 I had boobs, tummy tuck, boobs, eyelift, boobs. 1092 00:40:08,773 --> 00:40:10,223 I'm going to have it tweaked and tweaked 1093 00:40:10,224 --> 00:40:11,700 and pulled and pulled. I'm going to do it. 1094 00:40:11,701 --> 00:40:14,537 {\an8}I wanted to be so pretty for you. 1095 00:40:15,338 --> 00:40:17,180 Smile. [chuckles] 1096 00:40:17,181 --> 00:40:20,400 I think that a lot of it is... it comes from insecurity. 1097 00:40:20,401 --> 00:40:23,253 I think that does trickle down to the guys that she has dated. 1098 00:40:23,254 --> 00:40:26,315 She puts up with more things because they're showing her love 1099 00:40:26,316 --> 00:40:27,658 and that's all Vicki wants. 1100 00:40:27,659 --> 00:40:29,559 You wasted ten years of your life 1101 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:30,595 with these two guys. 1102 00:40:32,630 --> 00:40:35,248 I think that she's so worried that Mike's going to leave her 1103 00:40:35,249 --> 00:40:38,393 that it's hurting her relationship. 1104 00:40:38,394 --> 00:40:39,938 He's not going anywhere. 1105 00:40:40,271 --> 00:40:43,708 All my friends in Illinois, not one of them are separated. 1106 00:40:43,808 --> 00:40:46,243 So, do you think if you and Don never left Chicago 1107 00:40:46,244 --> 00:40:47,745 that you guys would still be together? 1108 00:40:47,845 --> 00:40:48,738 100%. 1109 00:40:48,838 --> 00:40:50,005 Does that bug you? 1110 00:40:50,006 --> 00:40:51,381 Yeah, I have guilt about it 1111 00:40:51,382 --> 00:40:53,417 because I got caught up in the wrong things 1112 00:40:53,418 --> 00:40:54,601 here in California. 1113 00:40:54,602 --> 00:40:56,921 We didn't make our relationship a priority 1114 00:40:57,021 --> 00:40:59,423 and so that is on the forefront of my mind 1115 00:40:59,424 --> 00:41:01,825 to make my relationship a priority with Mike. 1116 00:41:01,826 --> 00:41:04,461 Does he make your relationship a priority as well? 1117 00:41:04,462 --> 00:41:05,762 Yeah, I think he does. 1118 00:41:05,763 --> 00:41:07,447 Like he's my buddy, you know? 1119 00:41:07,448 --> 00:41:08,398 Yeah. 1120 00:41:08,399 --> 00:41:11,284 Mike is very attentive to my needs, 1121 00:41:11,285 --> 00:41:13,862 like I get coffee every morning, asks me how my day is. 1122 00:41:13,863 --> 00:41:15,105 He texts me halfway through the day, 1123 00:41:15,106 --> 00:41:16,099 "How are you doing? 1124 00:41:16,199 --> 00:41:17,474 What are we doing for dinner tonight? 1125 00:41:17,475 --> 00:41:19,443 Do you want me to cook? Do you want to go out?" 1126 00:41:19,444 --> 00:41:21,294 And it makes me feel important, like he's thinking of me. 1127 00:41:21,295 --> 00:41:23,438 If you don't spend time together, 1128 00:41:23,439 --> 00:41:25,274 there's nothing to glue you back together with. 1129 00:41:25,375 --> 00:41:27,952 And it took a divorce for me to realize, like, 1130 00:41:28,052 --> 00:41:31,154 you gotta give it time, you gotta water that grass. 1131 00:41:31,155 --> 00:41:35,492 {\an8}Well, I need to see happy Vick. I need to see strong Vick. 1132 00:41:35,493 --> 00:41:39,196 {\an8}The one that's secure in who the [bleep] she is. 1133 00:41:39,197 --> 00:41:40,981 {\an8}You gotta dig deep, girl, 1134 00:41:40,982 --> 00:41:43,292 {\an8}and don't let anybody else bug you. 1135 00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:44,993 {\an8}I love you. 1136 00:41:44,994 --> 00:41:46,461 {\an8}I love you too. Thanks for coming over. 1137 00:41:46,462 --> 00:41:47,537 {\an8}I really do. 1138 00:41:47,538 --> 00:41:49,232 {\an8}- And I'm worried about you. - Thank you. 1139 00:41:49,799 --> 00:41:51,942 {\an8}So, I'm getting your ass in an MRI machine 1140 00:41:51,943 --> 00:41:54,178 {\an8}and making sure there's nothing else wrong. 1141 00:41:55,663 --> 00:41:57,432 {\an8}We have holes in our head. 1142 00:41:58,116 --> 00:41:59,684 {\an8}I know. 1143 00:42:00,251 --> 00:42:01,386 {\an8}Owee. 1144 00:42:01,853 --> 00:42:04,054 {\an8}I don't know what I did with my purse. 1145 00:42:04,055 --> 00:42:04,955 {\an8}Bye. 1146 00:42:04,956 --> 00:42:06,441 {\an8}Love you. See you. 1147 00:42:07,191 --> 00:42:08,484 {\an8}Okay, then. 1148 00:42:09,260 --> 00:42:11,820 {\an8}That is not the way the curtains go. 1149 00:42:11,821 --> 00:42:14,089 {\an8}Next on the Real Housewives of Orange County... 1150 00:42:14,090 --> 00:42:16,191 {\an8}One of us gotta go up, one of us gotta go down. 1151 00:42:16,192 --> 00:42:17,467 Oh! 1152 00:42:17,468 --> 00:42:19,161 Grinding on the coconut's the most action Shannon's had 1153 00:42:19,162 --> 00:42:20,337 in a minute. 1154 00:42:20,338 --> 00:42:22,639 I don't want there to be any weirdness between us. 1155 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,001 Gina told me just being around me a lot irritates you. 1156 00:42:26,002 --> 00:42:27,879 Vicki was expecting an apology. 1157 00:42:27,979 --> 00:42:29,913 I think she's more delusional than you are. 1158 00:42:29,914 --> 00:42:32,250 Vicki made a comment that Danny's raising the kids. 1159 00:42:33,084 --> 00:42:36,453 You cannot say things like that about somebody as a mother. 1160 00:42:36,454 --> 00:42:38,355 I started this franchise, so, don't do that. 1161 00:42:38,356 --> 00:42:39,656 Everything has an expiration. 1162 00:42:39,657 --> 00:42:42,226 Oh! Sh--.