1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:02,967 [narrator] Previously on Little People, Big World... 2 00:00:03,033 --> 00:00:06,567 [Zach] It's a boy. It's a boy. It's a boy. 3 00:00:06,634 --> 00:00:08,100 [Zach] Yeah, Josiah is a little person. 4 00:00:08,100 --> 00:00:10,066 Achondroplasia, like his siblings. 5 00:00:10,133 --> 00:00:12,266 I got my little dwarf tribe. 6 00:00:12,266 --> 00:00:15,166 Are you, uh, doing anything with pumpkin seeds in the share? 7 00:00:15,166 --> 00:00:16,467 -No. -No? 8 00:00:16,467 --> 00:00:18,567 [Zach] Tori and I decided to make an offer to my dad 9 00:00:18,634 --> 00:00:20,000 for the north side of the farm. 10 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:21,367 But things did not go well. 11 00:00:21,367 --> 00:00:23,567 I said to my dad, "What is it worth 12 00:00:23,567 --> 00:00:25,266 to have your grandkids on this property? 13 00:00:25,266 --> 00:00:26,967 Do you wanna make money off your own family? 14 00:00:27,033 --> 00:00:30,967 Or is it like, do you want this legacy that you've preached about for ten years?" 15 00:00:30,967 --> 00:00:32,266 We're miles apart, 16 00:00:32,266 --> 00:00:35,567 and it has to do with taking over the responsibility. 17 00:00:35,567 --> 00:00:38,567 I think what they wanted was me to basically give it to them, 18 00:00:38,567 --> 00:00:40,367 you know, at cut-throat price, 19 00:00:40,433 --> 00:00:42,667 and then still have me do all the work. 20 00:00:42,667 --> 00:00:44,867 I'm really kicking around my plan B. 21 00:00:44,934 --> 00:00:48,567 Are you thinking about taking it off the market then? 22 00:00:48,567 --> 00:00:50,266 Maybe. 23 00:00:50,266 --> 00:00:53,266 The north side of the farm has been on the market for little over three months. 24 00:00:53,333 --> 00:00:55,166 It, um, hasn't sold yet. 25 00:00:55,233 --> 00:00:59,367 So, plan B is to do short term rental. 26 00:00:59,433 --> 00:01:02,367 [Amy] You had texted the kids about opening this up. 27 00:01:02,433 --> 00:01:04,367 -Have you heard back from them? -[Matt] No. 28 00:01:04,367 --> 00:01:05,567 I don't think anybody cared. 29 00:01:05,567 --> 00:01:06,967 I don't blame them. 30 00:01:07,033 --> 00:01:09,867 My dad texted us that he's renting out the house. 31 00:01:09,867 --> 00:01:11,667 It's kind of ridiculous, honestly. 32 00:01:11,667 --> 00:01:14,767 -All right, well, let's hope it works. -[Matt] Yeah. 33 00:01:14,834 --> 00:01:16,667 Some elements of the family 34 00:01:16,734 --> 00:01:20,166 are never going to agree with me 35 00:01:20,166 --> 00:01:22,266 on the way that the farm deal went down. 36 00:01:22,266 --> 00:01:24,967 I just have to accept that and do the best that I can 37 00:01:25,033 --> 00:01:27,000 to keep everybody together, 38 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,767 um, the best that I can. 39 00:01:44,500 --> 00:01:46,533 [medical device beeping] 40 00:01:47,667 --> 00:01:48,834 [Tori] Where does it hurt the worst? 41 00:01:49,567 --> 00:01:50,567 [Zach speaking] 42 00:01:50,567 --> 00:01:51,567 [Tori] Where on your head? 43 00:01:54,967 --> 00:01:56,467 Do you feel it in your neck at all? 44 00:01:57,867 --> 00:01:58,967 Do you feel nauseous? 45 00:02:02,967 --> 00:02:04,166 Love you. 46 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,567 The last ten years, Zach has had really bad migraines. 47 00:02:25,567 --> 00:02:26,967 Almost once a month. 48 00:02:27,033 --> 00:02:30,567 And, they've never been able to really pin point what they are. 49 00:02:30,567 --> 00:02:34,667 He would get a headache and then he would be treated for the headache, and then, 50 00:02:34,667 --> 00:02:36,333 you know, the pain would subside. 51 00:02:43,967 --> 00:02:47,166 Zach has dealt with these headaches for way too long. 52 00:02:47,233 --> 00:02:49,533 But this time it escalated very quickly. 53 00:02:51,867 --> 00:02:53,133 Tori had called me. 54 00:02:53,867 --> 00:02:55,166 And said, um, 55 00:02:55,166 --> 00:02:58,634 Zach... This is emergency. Zach really wants to go. 56 00:02:59,867 --> 00:03:02,567 You know, I said, okay. You know, I'll be there. 57 00:03:02,567 --> 00:03:06,266 It was a little nerve wracking that Zach had to be rushed to the hospital. 58 00:03:06,266 --> 00:03:08,066 And I tried to make sure that whatever 59 00:03:08,066 --> 00:03:10,767 information Tori relayed to me 60 00:03:10,834 --> 00:03:13,734 that I would go ahead and relay to Matt and all the kids. 61 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,033 [medical device beeping] 62 00:03:24,467 --> 00:03:28,066 I was not gonna leave the hospital without more answers. 63 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,567 This doctor picked up there was two breakages in his neck 64 00:03:34,634 --> 00:03:38,834 of the catheter that drained from the shunt. 65 00:03:47,567 --> 00:03:49,166 Zach has hydrocephalus. 66 00:03:49,166 --> 00:03:51,000 And people with achondroplasia 67 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,066 are definitely more susceptible to having hydrocephalus. 68 00:03:54,133 --> 00:03:57,567 Hydrocephalus causes excess fluid on your brain. 69 00:03:57,567 --> 00:03:59,567 And if it's not drained properly, 70 00:03:59,567 --> 00:04:04,333 then it can build up and the pressure can cause some major damage. 71 00:04:12,266 --> 00:04:14,667 I've never seen Zach in that much pain. 72 00:04:14,667 --> 00:04:17,667 He started crying and saying, "I'm dying". 73 00:04:30,867 --> 00:04:34,166 The most dangerous part of the surgery to my knowledge 74 00:04:34,166 --> 00:04:38,567 was replacing the catheter that connects from the valve into his brain. 75 00:04:38,634 --> 00:04:40,367 You know, it was definitely scary. 76 00:04:59,266 --> 00:05:00,767 They had to replace the whole thing. 77 00:05:00,834 --> 00:05:02,367 They had to replace the shunt, 78 00:05:02,367 --> 00:05:03,734 like, the valve. 79 00:05:04,467 --> 00:05:06,567 And they had to replace the catheter. 80 00:05:06,634 --> 00:05:09,667 You risk more by taking out the old catheter. 81 00:05:09,734 --> 00:05:12,367 Um, like, you risk scarring and bleeding, 82 00:05:12,367 --> 00:05:13,867 and they don't want any of that. 83 00:05:13,934 --> 00:05:15,934 So they abandoned it and just left it there. 84 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:19,166 [Zach] Gonna walk around. 85 00:05:22,266 --> 00:05:23,667 [Tori] How you feeling? 86 00:05:23,734 --> 00:05:25,433 [Zach] Good. Just wanna get out of here. 87 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:27,734 [Tori speaking] 88 00:05:31,467 --> 00:05:34,667 This whole experience was scary and chaotic. 89 00:05:34,667 --> 00:05:37,433 We were lucky my mom was able to come up, take care of the kids. 90 00:05:38,767 --> 00:05:41,233 There's definitely a part of me that wanted to be there as well. 91 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,166 You know, because, 92 00:05:43,900 --> 00:05:45,266 he's my boy, too. 93 00:05:45,333 --> 00:05:47,734 Even though he's almost 33, he's still my son. 94 00:05:48,667 --> 00:05:49,867 Hey, Zach. 95 00:05:49,867 --> 00:05:52,567 But, I've been through it during the younger years. 96 00:05:52,634 --> 00:05:53,734 Same place as always? 97 00:05:54,367 --> 00:05:55,767 Just in front here? 98 00:05:55,767 --> 00:05:58,066 -[Zach whispers] Yeah. -Okay. 99 00:05:58,066 --> 00:05:59,634 And I know it's tough. 100 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,467 I got my shunt in when I was like, 16 months old. 101 00:06:04,467 --> 00:06:07,867 And, nothing really happened with it until middle school. 102 00:06:07,934 --> 00:06:09,066 [Matt] How painful is it? 103 00:06:09,066 --> 00:06:10,266 Very. 104 00:06:10,266 --> 00:06:12,166 'Kay. Go back over to the couch. 105 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:16,567 -We're gonna take you in. -Ow. 106 00:06:16,634 --> 00:06:17,667 Where? 107 00:06:17,734 --> 00:06:19,266 Inside the stomach? 108 00:06:19,266 --> 00:06:20,367 Uh-oh. 109 00:06:20,433 --> 00:06:21,600 Let me get this. 110 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,066 [Zach] I just got a really sick pressure behind my eyes. 111 00:06:24,133 --> 00:06:25,367 Vomiting. 112 00:06:25,367 --> 00:06:26,467 [Matt] Here. 113 00:06:26,467 --> 00:06:28,233 [Zach] I needed a revision. 114 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:32,567 Oh, Mom. 115 00:06:32,634 --> 00:06:34,967 [Amy] What? Your head? 116 00:06:34,967 --> 00:06:35,867 [Zach] Headache. 117 00:06:35,867 --> 00:06:38,166 We're talking 16-17 years ago. 118 00:06:38,166 --> 00:06:39,867 I had my first revision. 119 00:06:39,867 --> 00:06:42,166 [Matt] Zach, he's still in the surgery right now. 120 00:06:42,166 --> 00:06:45,266 So the first part was the... taking the shunt, 121 00:06:45,333 --> 00:06:46,467 the head part out. 122 00:06:46,533 --> 00:06:49,166 And then the other part is to open up his belly, 123 00:06:49,233 --> 00:06:51,667 and drainin' that fluid out. 124 00:06:51,734 --> 00:06:55,333 The lifespan of a shunt is two to fifteen years. 125 00:06:56,467 --> 00:06:58,467 Zach had his for 16 years. 126 00:06:58,467 --> 00:07:01,834 So, he was on borrowed time, no matter which way you look at it. 127 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:07,166 I think that we have been sitting on a knife's edge. 128 00:07:07,166 --> 00:07:08,266 And we just didn't know it. 129 00:07:08,333 --> 00:07:10,567 -Yeah. This is a scary business. -Mmm-hmm. 130 00:07:23,567 --> 00:07:25,567 [Amy] Let's go get you all freshened up. 131 00:07:25,567 --> 00:07:26,734 Come on, let's go. 132 00:07:29,467 --> 00:07:31,066 -Good girl. -[Daisy whimpers] 133 00:07:31,133 --> 00:07:32,367 [Amy laughs] 134 00:07:33,367 --> 00:07:35,066 She knows. 135 00:07:36,767 --> 00:07:38,767 Just like a kid who doesn't want a bath. 136 00:07:38,767 --> 00:07:41,166 [in excited voice] Yes, you do. 137 00:07:41,166 --> 00:07:44,367 [normal voice] With so much going on, with Zach's surgery, 138 00:07:44,367 --> 00:07:46,767 it's been a little crazy. 139 00:07:46,834 --> 00:07:50,367 I went back and forth up to Zach and Tori's house, once or twice. 140 00:07:50,367 --> 00:07:53,367 But then I was there about three nights and four days, 141 00:07:53,433 --> 00:07:55,166 uh, taking care of the kids. 142 00:07:55,233 --> 00:07:56,467 There we go. 143 00:07:56,533 --> 00:07:58,066 I know. I know. 144 00:07:58,133 --> 00:07:59,867 Now that Zach is back home, 145 00:07:59,867 --> 00:08:02,367 I think Zach and Tori are able to settle down. 146 00:08:02,367 --> 00:08:03,867 He's recuperating. 147 00:08:03,867 --> 00:08:06,767 So, there's no need for me to go up there everyday 148 00:08:06,834 --> 00:08:09,166 or spend the night and stuff like that. 149 00:08:09,166 --> 00:08:11,467 Unless, you know, Zach and Tori, call me and say, 150 00:08:11,533 --> 00:08:13,467 "Well, you know, we kindly need some help". 151 00:08:14,700 --> 00:08:17,667 Look at all that dirt come off of him. 152 00:08:17,734 --> 00:08:19,367 I was definitely exhausted. 153 00:08:19,367 --> 00:08:21,567 Chris held down the fort here at the house. 154 00:08:21,567 --> 00:08:24,367 And you know, taking care of Daisy. 155 00:08:24,367 --> 00:08:26,367 -Babe, you're in the way. -[laughing] 156 00:08:26,367 --> 00:08:27,867 So, now that I'm back, 157 00:08:27,867 --> 00:08:28,934 here we are. 158 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:31,000 We became tight. 159 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,166 -But, she's not much of a conversationalist. -[Amy laughs] 160 00:08:34,166 --> 00:08:37,867 You know, it was kind of boring at night, not having anyone to talk to. 161 00:08:37,867 --> 00:08:39,367 [Amy] It was an emergency for Zach. 162 00:08:39,433 --> 00:08:42,033 I... I had to go there two o'clock in the morning. 163 00:08:42,867 --> 00:08:44,734 You know, man, it was quick. 164 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:49,133 I felt for him. 165 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:51,233 You know, I mean... 166 00:08:52,166 --> 00:08:54,667 It's more than just a headache for him. 167 00:08:54,667 --> 00:08:57,266 It's a different kind of pain and just everything. 168 00:08:59,367 --> 00:09:03,266 So is that something that he's gonna always have to go through every 10 or 15 years? 169 00:09:03,333 --> 00:09:04,166 And have it replaced? 170 00:09:04,166 --> 00:09:05,967 Well, I think he probably will have 171 00:09:05,967 --> 00:09:08,667 -to go through with this again. -Mmm. 172 00:09:08,667 --> 00:09:11,634 So, I just hope he has, you know, peace about it and, 173 00:09:12,567 --> 00:09:13,867 um... 174 00:09:13,867 --> 00:09:16,467 doesn't become, you know, too oversensitive. 175 00:09:16,467 --> 00:09:18,266 'Cause you just don't wanna go there again. 176 00:09:18,266 --> 00:09:19,266 You don't wanna have those headaches. 177 00:09:19,333 --> 00:09:20,667 You don't wanna be in that pain. 178 00:09:22,166 --> 00:09:23,367 You know, as an adult, 179 00:09:23,367 --> 00:09:24,767 you're thinking about well, 180 00:09:24,834 --> 00:09:26,066 if anything happens to me, 181 00:09:26,066 --> 00:09:28,567 then what will happen with Tori and the kids or anything. 182 00:09:28,567 --> 00:09:31,567 But, you know, you just don't 183 00:09:31,567 --> 00:09:34,467 get your mind into that space because, 184 00:09:34,467 --> 00:09:37,467 you just gotta hope that everything goes okay, 185 00:09:37,533 --> 00:09:39,166 and if all went well, 186 00:09:39,233 --> 00:09:42,367 he won't be back in there for another revision. 187 00:09:42,433 --> 00:09:44,867 Whether it be a week, two weeks, two months. 188 00:09:44,934 --> 00:09:46,967 Hopefully, it'll be years. 189 00:09:47,033 --> 00:09:51,266 To tell the truth, I'm just really glad, I can help out. 190 00:09:51,266 --> 00:09:53,367 -You know when the kids need stuff like that. -Mmm. 191 00:09:53,367 --> 00:09:54,667 And, does it make you feel good, 192 00:09:54,667 --> 00:09:56,767 that you're their go to when they need somebody 193 00:09:56,834 --> 00:09:58,567 -to run out and spend the night? -Yeah. 194 00:09:58,567 --> 00:10:00,266 I'm the mom. 195 00:10:00,333 --> 00:10:02,367 Yeah. I was just glad that, you know, 196 00:10:02,367 --> 00:10:03,867 they were able to call me. 197 00:10:03,867 --> 00:10:07,367 I just think, you know, I was readily available and, 198 00:10:07,367 --> 00:10:09,266 I've been there, done that, I can handle it. 199 00:10:09,266 --> 00:10:11,767 But, you know, I think Matt helped out, 200 00:10:11,767 --> 00:10:14,967 as much as he was capable of doing. 201 00:10:14,967 --> 00:10:17,767 With Matt and Zach, in any fractured relationship, 202 00:10:17,767 --> 00:10:20,266 is always for it to heal and get better 203 00:10:20,266 --> 00:10:22,100 and be able to move forward. 204 00:10:22,100 --> 00:10:25,166 And, um, you know, with Zach being in the hospital, 205 00:10:25,166 --> 00:10:27,667 it's when, you know, families, 206 00:10:27,667 --> 00:10:30,166 you know, should, regardless of what's going on, 207 00:10:30,166 --> 00:10:31,767 should rally together. 208 00:10:31,767 --> 00:10:33,367 We missed you. 209 00:10:33,433 --> 00:10:35,467 Oh, I especially missed you at dinner time. 210 00:10:35,467 --> 00:10:36,667 I did very little cooking. 211 00:10:36,734 --> 00:10:38,867 My cooking just doesn't taste as good as it used to. 212 00:10:38,867 --> 00:10:41,166 -You broke me. -Hey. Oh, no. That's a good thing. 213 00:10:41,233 --> 00:10:42,233 That's a good thing. 214 00:10:42,233 --> 00:10:45,367 -That way you always have to keep me. -[chuckles] 215 00:10:45,367 --> 00:10:47,367 Thankful I'm not a bachelor anymore. 216 00:10:47,367 --> 00:10:48,967 Aw. 217 00:10:50,100 --> 00:10:51,767 Well, things are going great with Chris and I, 218 00:10:51,767 --> 00:10:55,000 but, in a lot of ways, I don't think we're quite settled yet. 219 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,367 I mean, we absolutely love this house. 220 00:10:57,367 --> 00:10:58,367 We're enjoying it, 221 00:10:58,367 --> 00:11:01,266 but, it's not quite our forever home. 222 00:11:01,266 --> 00:11:03,367 Well, there are a lot of things that we liked about the house. 223 00:11:03,367 --> 00:11:05,266 But, we knew in the very beginning, 224 00:11:05,333 --> 00:11:07,066 it didn't check all the boxes. 225 00:11:07,066 --> 00:11:11,367 Ideally, three car garage, or room for shop, and, 226 00:11:11,367 --> 00:11:13,767 for me, and then ideally, 227 00:11:13,767 --> 00:11:17,266 Amy would like a master bedroom on the main level. 228 00:11:17,266 --> 00:11:20,433 So, not our forever home, but, so we're watching. 229 00:11:22,900 --> 00:11:25,166 Seems like the house is getting rented a lot. 230 00:11:25,233 --> 00:11:26,867 When we went to take her over, 231 00:11:26,867 --> 00:11:28,967 Matt let us know to go through the back gate. 232 00:11:28,967 --> 00:11:31,266 -[Amy] Yeah? -'Cause there was somebody standing at the house. 233 00:11:31,266 --> 00:11:35,100 -Curious how that's going. -I don't know. 234 00:11:35,100 --> 00:11:38,967 I never pictured the house that I raised my kids in for the last 30 years 235 00:11:39,033 --> 00:11:41,133 to be a short term rental. It's... It's... 236 00:11:42,567 --> 00:11:45,767 It's too big of a place, it's too... There should be... 237 00:11:47,066 --> 00:11:48,734 a family or someone in it. 238 00:11:50,166 --> 00:11:52,066 But, if it's going great, great. 239 00:11:52,133 --> 00:11:54,467 You know, I mean, Matt owns it all. 240 00:11:54,467 --> 00:11:56,667 It's not like I wish him ill will. 241 00:11:56,734 --> 00:11:57,667 It makes sense, 242 00:11:57,734 --> 00:11:59,667 you know, for Matt to do it. 243 00:11:59,734 --> 00:12:01,467 I mean, [stutters]. 244 00:12:01,533 --> 00:12:04,266 From a business perspective, or anything, it definitely makes sense. 245 00:12:04,266 --> 00:12:06,066 From a personal perspective, 246 00:12:06,133 --> 00:12:07,967 I just see it as very sad. 247 00:12:09,266 --> 00:12:10,867 I don't ask him about those things. 248 00:12:10,867 --> 00:12:13,367 -I know. -You can do that, not me. 249 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,266 [narrator reading] 250 00:12:18,333 --> 00:12:19,367 [Tori] Babe, it was scary though. 251 00:12:19,367 --> 00:12:21,367 Like, you scared me. 252 00:12:21,433 --> 00:12:24,667 [Zach] I do have something in my body that my body depends on. 253 00:12:24,667 --> 00:12:26,166 You know, I could die without it. 254 00:12:26,166 --> 00:12:27,467 We're not out of the woods yet. 255 00:12:27,533 --> 00:12:30,867 You know, things aren't good if it breaks. 256 00:12:30,934 --> 00:12:32,734 So it is like, you do feel a little fragile. 257 00:12:35,467 --> 00:12:36,467 [narrator reading] 258 00:12:36,467 --> 00:12:39,000 Should I tell her? No? 259 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:40,133 Oh, yeah. Tell her. 260 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,634 We're all but decided on that... 261 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:46,967 when I die... 262 00:12:48,266 --> 00:12:50,133 You... you... What? Like... 263 00:13:05,767 --> 00:13:07,767 [Zach] Every now and then, I like, my head, like, 264 00:13:07,834 --> 00:13:09,667 feels like, it's just, like, all... 265 00:13:09,667 --> 00:13:10,867 it's like... 266 00:13:10,867 --> 00:13:12,967 -[Tori] Expanded? -Yeah, it wants to expand, or-- 267 00:13:13,033 --> 00:13:14,100 Lilah. 268 00:13:14,100 --> 00:13:15,767 Does Daddy got a booboo? 269 00:13:15,767 --> 00:13:17,266 -[Lilah speaking] -Where's Dadda's booboo? 270 00:13:19,166 --> 00:13:20,266 [Tori laughs] 271 00:13:20,266 --> 00:13:21,634 Are you gonna take care of Dadda? 272 00:13:22,500 --> 00:13:24,266 Wait. Here, let me see behind your ear. 273 00:13:24,333 --> 00:13:25,767 I wanna see if you have stitches. 274 00:13:26,900 --> 00:13:28,767 [Zach] I'm at home recovering from my surgery 275 00:13:28,767 --> 00:13:30,767 and trying to get as much rest as possible. 276 00:13:30,767 --> 00:13:31,767 Pain's been all right. 277 00:13:31,767 --> 00:13:33,467 It hasn't been bad at all. 278 00:13:33,467 --> 00:13:35,567 I think it's just the aching of a surgery. 279 00:13:35,567 --> 00:13:37,367 I was cut open. 280 00:13:37,367 --> 00:13:40,934 This more feels like, the head is physically, actually just aching. 281 00:13:41,900 --> 00:13:44,533 Like, bones and muscle are aching. 282 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,000 [Tori] Oh, yes. See, there is a like, a gnarly... 283 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:49,066 [Zach] A gnarly what? 284 00:13:49,066 --> 00:13:50,066 -Bump. -Bump? 285 00:13:50,066 --> 00:13:51,767 Tori's had a lot on her plate. 286 00:13:51,767 --> 00:13:54,000 Uh, she's taken care of me and the kids. 287 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,367 It kind of looks like, they cut the front and like... 288 00:13:56,367 --> 00:13:58,367 [Zach] Well, they had to cut the front to take the old one out. 289 00:13:58,367 --> 00:13:59,767 Holy smokes. 290 00:13:59,767 --> 00:14:02,567 [Zach] The doctor closed the surgery spot up with staples. 291 00:14:02,567 --> 00:14:05,367 So I'll have to get those staples taken out on a later date. 292 00:14:05,433 --> 00:14:07,467 They have a device that apparently pulls them out, 293 00:14:07,533 --> 00:14:09,467 like snaps them, and then pulls them out. 294 00:14:09,533 --> 00:14:12,734 Sounds just irritating and hurtful. 295 00:14:13,867 --> 00:14:15,867 So, I have to be a big boy. 296 00:14:15,934 --> 00:14:18,567 Breathe super hard and grab on to my chair. 297 00:14:18,634 --> 00:14:20,066 [Tori] Babe, it was scary though. 298 00:14:20,133 --> 00:14:21,567 Like you scared me. 299 00:14:21,567 --> 00:14:23,967 [Zach] I scared myself. I was scared. 300 00:14:23,967 --> 00:14:26,967 You sobbed, screamed, like, it was just like... 301 00:14:27,033 --> 00:14:28,100 I didn't scream. 302 00:14:28,100 --> 00:14:29,667 [Tori] You did, though. 303 00:14:29,667 --> 00:14:32,367 Like, that's the thing is, I feel like, maybe you don't remember all of it. 304 00:14:32,367 --> 00:14:34,767 And your heart rate dropped to 34. 305 00:14:34,767 --> 00:14:36,667 They called in cardiology. 306 00:14:36,734 --> 00:14:39,266 I think that's what finally gave them a box though, 307 00:14:39,266 --> 00:14:42,166 that they can say, "All right. Now he skips the line". 308 00:14:42,166 --> 00:14:45,367 Babe, it's literally the most triggering... 309 00:14:45,367 --> 00:14:48,567 That was the most terrifying experience I've ever been in. 310 00:14:49,900 --> 00:14:51,066 But now, moving forward, 311 00:14:51,133 --> 00:14:52,367 in six months, when you get a headache, 312 00:14:52,367 --> 00:14:54,467 -and it feels like there's pressure... -Yeah. 313 00:14:54,467 --> 00:14:55,967 ...you have to say something. 314 00:14:56,033 --> 00:14:57,467 -I just didn't wanna be over dramatic. -No, but that's the thing, 315 00:14:57,467 --> 00:15:01,166 is I think that now I have enough in my back pocket to be 316 00:15:01,166 --> 00:15:03,066 a lot louder of an advocate. 317 00:15:03,066 --> 00:15:05,166 [Zach] It's very important to always have an advocate with you, 318 00:15:05,166 --> 00:15:07,166 because, one, this has happened before. 319 00:15:07,233 --> 00:15:09,567 -I'm in pain and I'm getting pain medicine. -You don't hear at all. 320 00:15:09,634 --> 00:15:10,967 So I don't hear everything. 321 00:15:10,967 --> 00:15:14,166 Like, I'm not focused on that. I'm focused on like, relieving my pain. 322 00:15:14,166 --> 00:15:15,867 But now, 323 00:15:15,867 --> 00:15:17,367 we have a neuro surgeon. 324 00:15:17,367 --> 00:15:18,667 -Yeah. -And if you get a headache, 325 00:15:18,734 --> 00:15:20,767 I'm gonna be like, call your doctor. 326 00:15:20,834 --> 00:15:24,467 [Zach] I wasn't really super aware that my shunt had expired. 327 00:15:24,467 --> 00:15:27,867 I do have something in my body that my body depends on. 328 00:15:27,867 --> 00:15:29,433 You know, I could die without it. 329 00:15:30,900 --> 00:15:33,967 Um, so it is like, kind of, nerve wracking. 330 00:15:34,033 --> 00:15:37,100 It was sad that maybe the placement of the tube 331 00:15:37,100 --> 00:15:40,867 into my ventricle wasn't A plus. 332 00:15:40,867 --> 00:15:42,467 You know, but there's so much scarring, 333 00:15:42,467 --> 00:15:44,467 that they didn't wanna jam it in there. 334 00:15:44,467 --> 00:15:47,066 But then and now that, I'm like, okay, well then... 335 00:15:47,066 --> 00:15:49,634 anything that happens from here on now, it's because that thing's popped out. 336 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:52,367 So it's like, we're not out of the woods yet. 337 00:15:52,367 --> 00:15:54,066 You know, things aren't good if... 338 00:15:54,767 --> 00:15:56,066 it breaks. 339 00:15:56,066 --> 00:15:58,033 So it is like, you do feel a little fragile. 340 00:15:59,900 --> 00:16:01,166 Want this zipped up? 341 00:16:01,233 --> 00:16:02,567 [Lilah speaks indistinctly] 342 00:16:02,567 --> 00:16:03,667 [Zach] And I got kids. 343 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:07,734 [Zach speaking] 344 00:16:09,567 --> 00:16:11,934 You know, they wanna have their daddy for a while and... 345 00:16:14,967 --> 00:16:16,266 Where do you wanna walk? 346 00:16:16,266 --> 00:16:18,467 [Lilah speaking] 347 00:16:18,533 --> 00:16:21,667 [Zach] Having surgery when you're a husband, and father, and you got kids, 348 00:16:21,734 --> 00:16:23,266 it's, um... 349 00:16:23,266 --> 00:16:25,166 yeah, definitely adds more to it. 350 00:16:25,166 --> 00:16:26,767 You know, it's hard. 351 00:16:26,767 --> 00:16:28,567 Watch out for the mud. 352 00:16:28,634 --> 00:16:30,367 I don't know. For me, dads should not 353 00:16:30,367 --> 00:16:33,667 create this much inconvenience for their family. 354 00:16:33,734 --> 00:16:36,767 And there's just stuff to do. The kids have places to be. 355 00:16:36,767 --> 00:16:38,634 Things need to be taken care of, and... 356 00:16:39,266 --> 00:16:40,467 Um... 357 00:16:40,533 --> 00:16:42,066 This is not the season of life 358 00:16:42,133 --> 00:16:45,166 for Dad to not be able to operate. 359 00:16:45,166 --> 00:16:47,867 [Tori] If you hurry up, we can go outside, too. 360 00:16:47,867 --> 00:16:49,867 I think it's important for Zach to learn 361 00:16:49,934 --> 00:16:50,967 the signals of his body, 362 00:16:50,967 --> 00:16:53,767 and to know when something is wrong. 363 00:16:53,767 --> 00:16:55,266 Uh, not just for himself, 364 00:16:55,266 --> 00:16:57,567 but also, because he has four people 365 00:16:57,567 --> 00:17:00,166 that are really dependent on him. 366 00:17:00,233 --> 00:17:02,867 -[baby cooing] -[Tori] Yes. 367 00:17:02,867 --> 00:17:05,467 There's a lot more to think about when you have kids at home, 368 00:17:05,467 --> 00:17:09,166 and a spouse, and you know, it's not just you. 369 00:17:11,867 --> 00:17:13,000 [Zach] Oh, my goodness. 370 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,867 I leave for one week and then... 371 00:17:14,867 --> 00:17:17,166 They're all using the same box for some reason. 372 00:17:17,166 --> 00:17:18,667 So, Lilah, let's do this. 373 00:17:18,667 --> 00:17:20,667 We're gonna put an egg in each one of these. 374 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:23,266 Okay? 375 00:17:24,266 --> 00:17:26,166 We're gonna see if that helps them. 376 00:17:26,233 --> 00:17:28,467 Tori supported me a ton this week in the hospital, 377 00:17:28,467 --> 00:17:30,367 just taking care of the kids. 378 00:17:30,367 --> 00:17:32,767 You know, going back and forth from the hospital. 379 00:17:32,834 --> 00:17:35,767 Because it was a very nerve wracking thing for her. 380 00:17:35,767 --> 00:17:39,166 But, you know, she's able to put all that aside 381 00:17:39,233 --> 00:17:41,266 and you know, do what she needed to do. 382 00:17:41,266 --> 00:17:42,467 Dada. 383 00:17:42,467 --> 00:17:44,767 [Lilah indistinct] 384 00:17:44,834 --> 00:17:46,567 -You're gonna go that way? -Yeah. 385 00:17:46,634 --> 00:17:49,667 It's very important for me to stay updated with my doctors, 386 00:17:49,667 --> 00:17:52,166 just so I can stay as healthy as possible moving forward. 387 00:17:52,166 --> 00:17:54,967 And one day, there could be more difficult outcomes. 388 00:17:55,033 --> 00:17:57,100 Wouldn't be ideal, obviously. 389 00:17:57,100 --> 00:17:59,166 But, I think our family's pretty tight. 390 00:17:59,233 --> 00:18:00,867 I think we have a pretty good support system. 391 00:18:00,867 --> 00:18:02,767 And that we would get through it. 392 00:18:04,567 --> 00:18:05,867 [narrator] Coming up next... 393 00:18:05,867 --> 00:18:07,767 You like to think, when you do the short-term rentals, 394 00:18:07,767 --> 00:18:09,867 -that you just can have... Cute little... -Cute little family. 395 00:18:09,934 --> 00:18:12,367 You can't come over here and create a porno video. 396 00:18:12,433 --> 00:18:15,000 Going there with a purple light. 397 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,266 -[exclaims] -I'm not going, no purple light. 398 00:18:17,266 --> 00:18:18,367 Ugh. 399 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:30,533 [Caryn] Whoo! 400 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:32,667 -You cold? -Oh, yeah. 401 00:18:32,667 --> 00:18:33,767 [Caryn] Oh, yeah. 402 00:18:33,834 --> 00:18:34,834 [Caryn groans] 403 00:18:36,066 --> 00:18:37,834 Oh, my God. 404 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:40,467 [Matt] Yeah, just... 405 00:18:40,467 --> 00:18:42,266 [Matt] Give me enough to kind of peek at it. 406 00:18:43,100 --> 00:18:45,166 I mean, it's been really busy on the farm. 407 00:18:45,233 --> 00:18:46,700 And Caryn's been in Arizona. 408 00:18:46,767 --> 00:18:50,433 So, I wanna make sure to catch up with what's been going on around the farm. 409 00:18:51,467 --> 00:18:53,367 This is where the pool's unusable. 410 00:18:53,367 --> 00:18:54,867 See there? The chip? 411 00:18:54,934 --> 00:18:56,867 -[Caryn] Oh, my God. -Yeah. 412 00:18:56,934 --> 00:18:58,066 I mean, here's the thing. 413 00:18:58,133 --> 00:18:59,367 The pool has to be repaired, 414 00:18:59,367 --> 00:19:01,467 whether you continue the short-term rental, 415 00:19:01,467 --> 00:19:03,166 long-term or you're selling it. 416 00:19:03,166 --> 00:19:05,166 [Matt] I looked at the north farm, 417 00:19:05,166 --> 00:19:07,266 we call it the big house up for sale. 418 00:19:07,333 --> 00:19:09,000 And, since nobody bid on it, 419 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,567 we decided to turn it into a short-term rental. 420 00:19:11,567 --> 00:19:14,166 The short-term rental concept has been very, very good. 421 00:19:14,166 --> 00:19:15,867 We're booked almost solid. 422 00:19:15,867 --> 00:19:18,767 I would say my ultimate goal would be to still sell the north side. 423 00:19:18,834 --> 00:19:21,367 But, I'm gonna do this short-term rental, 424 00:19:21,433 --> 00:19:24,867 um, now while the economy is sort of in question. 425 00:19:24,934 --> 00:19:27,066 You like to think when you do to these short-term rental, 426 00:19:27,133 --> 00:19:28,867 that you're just gonna have these... 427 00:19:28,934 --> 00:19:31,100 -Cute little family. Grandma. -...cute little family. 428 00:19:31,100 --> 00:19:32,767 Yeah, grandma and the kid. 429 00:19:32,767 --> 00:19:34,367 Like a Roloff-free evening. 430 00:19:34,433 --> 00:19:36,767 -[chuckles] -We had that, once. 431 00:19:36,767 --> 00:19:38,867 But of the 20 or 30 that we've done so far, 432 00:19:38,867 --> 00:19:41,266 every scenario is different. 433 00:19:41,266 --> 00:19:43,967 One group will come in there and it'll be wonderful. 434 00:19:44,033 --> 00:19:46,367 But then there's other times when people try to clean 435 00:19:46,367 --> 00:19:49,266 the wine glasses down the garbage disposal. 436 00:19:49,333 --> 00:19:51,767 -Oh. -We had shards of glass down the garbage disposal. 437 00:19:51,834 --> 00:19:53,367 Well, so that was interesting. 438 00:19:53,367 --> 00:19:56,000 Oh, we didn't tell them about the pool cue in the wall. 439 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:59,066 -Yeah, there was a pool cue in the wall. -[laughing] 440 00:20:00,166 --> 00:20:02,367 We are tightening down the rules of what people can do. 441 00:20:02,367 --> 00:20:03,867 You know, you can't come over here and create 442 00:20:03,867 --> 00:20:05,867 a porno video or something, you know. 443 00:20:05,867 --> 00:20:06,967 [scoffs] Jeez. 444 00:20:06,967 --> 00:20:10,166 I mean, that's what it's coming to. 445 00:20:10,233 --> 00:20:12,066 -I mean, how would you know? -Well, we wouldn't. That's... 446 00:20:12,133 --> 00:20:13,467 But it will show up on... 447 00:20:13,467 --> 00:20:16,266 Somebody would say, isn't that the Roloff's living room? [laughing] 448 00:20:16,266 --> 00:20:18,166 Oh, my God. 449 00:20:18,166 --> 00:20:19,667 People were filming. 450 00:20:19,667 --> 00:20:22,967 And we didn't know if they were filming, like, dirty, obscene stuff. 451 00:20:22,967 --> 00:20:26,567 -You know. -Going there with the purple light. [laughs] 452 00:20:26,634 --> 00:20:29,667 -I'm not going, no purple light. -[screams] 453 00:20:29,667 --> 00:20:30,867 Ugh. 454 00:20:32,367 --> 00:20:34,967 [Caryn] So any news how Zach is feeling? 455 00:20:35,033 --> 00:20:39,266 Yeah, well, you know, Zach had that major... you know, scare. 456 00:20:39,333 --> 00:20:41,967 When Tori called me, we were in Arizona. 457 00:20:41,967 --> 00:20:43,367 When this all went down, 458 00:20:43,367 --> 00:20:45,266 and of course, you know, talked to Amy, 459 00:20:45,333 --> 00:20:46,367 everyday about it. 460 00:20:46,367 --> 00:20:48,667 And, you know, he was having some severe headaches, 461 00:20:48,734 --> 00:20:50,467 as I understood it from Tori. 462 00:20:50,467 --> 00:20:54,467 And, those headaches were related somehow to the shunt. 463 00:20:54,467 --> 00:20:57,667 -Gosh. Four years ago, you said, "Oh, it's the shunt". -Yeah. 464 00:20:58,867 --> 00:21:02,066 I just feel a super big sense of relief 465 00:21:02,133 --> 00:21:04,166 that they came up with something definitive. 466 00:21:04,233 --> 00:21:06,066 Yeah, he'd been struggling for a long time. 467 00:21:06,066 --> 00:21:08,266 [Matt] You know, because he was struggling for a long time and the unknown. 468 00:21:08,333 --> 00:21:13,567 And finally, they're just like, it's what everybody kind of, thought it was. 469 00:21:13,634 --> 00:21:16,667 If you have a shunt that's draining fluid off your head, 470 00:21:16,667 --> 00:21:19,467 and, it gets clogged or broken, 471 00:21:19,533 --> 00:21:21,166 it's building up pressure on your head. 472 00:21:21,233 --> 00:21:23,266 So, yes, it could cause anything from, 473 00:21:23,333 --> 00:21:26,467 you know, brain damage to other neurological problems, 474 00:21:26,533 --> 00:21:29,467 which I'm not aware. I'm not a doctor. I don't know, but it's just not good. 475 00:21:30,367 --> 00:21:34,066 With Zach being a husband and having three kids now 476 00:21:34,066 --> 00:21:37,367 nobody wants him to have problems with the shunt, 477 00:21:37,367 --> 00:21:39,567 and medical problems at all. 478 00:21:39,567 --> 00:21:41,066 Sounds like Amy stepped up. 479 00:21:41,133 --> 00:21:43,567 I talked to her. You know, I said, you want me to come back? 480 00:21:43,567 --> 00:21:47,166 -She thought the consistency was good for the kids. -Sure. 481 00:21:47,166 --> 00:21:49,000 You know, having one... 482 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,567 Having her do it. 483 00:21:50,634 --> 00:21:54,567 So she was, you know, Johnny-on-the-spot about that, from what I heard. 484 00:21:54,567 --> 00:21:56,100 The good news is 485 00:21:56,100 --> 00:21:58,266 that from the last time I talked to him, 486 00:21:58,266 --> 00:22:01,266 he's feeling like, it definitely is a lot better. 487 00:22:01,333 --> 00:22:03,367 They've got the fluid out, the pressure off. 488 00:22:03,367 --> 00:22:06,367 He was telling me that his eyes move better now. 489 00:22:06,433 --> 00:22:09,233 Like, he didn't realize how much pressure was in his head. 490 00:22:10,767 --> 00:22:14,967 Zach's big surgery, you know, it really reminds you 491 00:22:14,967 --> 00:22:16,867 how important life is. 492 00:22:16,934 --> 00:22:20,266 And, how you know quickly things can change and turn and, 493 00:22:20,266 --> 00:22:22,767 you really have to appreciate all the moments 494 00:22:22,834 --> 00:22:24,100 you have with your family and 495 00:22:24,100 --> 00:22:26,567 your loved ones and people around you. 496 00:22:26,567 --> 00:22:29,867 It's, um... Life is so fragile. 497 00:22:29,867 --> 00:22:32,066 Certainly when Zach had a surgery, 498 00:22:32,066 --> 00:22:34,367 you know, those thoughts cross your mind. 499 00:22:34,433 --> 00:22:38,433 My impression now with Zach and Tori is they... 500 00:22:39,467 --> 00:22:41,767 want space, you know. They don't really, 501 00:22:41,834 --> 00:22:43,367 you know, like, I go up there, 502 00:22:43,367 --> 00:22:45,166 you know, for birthdays, 503 00:22:45,233 --> 00:22:48,066 sometimes I'm just on my way to the airport, I'll call them and stop in. 504 00:22:48,133 --> 00:22:51,467 But, um, they don't come to the farm. 505 00:22:51,533 --> 00:22:53,467 So, I think they just want space still. 506 00:22:53,467 --> 00:22:55,166 So, I'm making sure 507 00:22:55,233 --> 00:22:57,567 I completely give 'em the space that they need, 508 00:22:57,634 --> 00:22:59,367 without crowding them. 509 00:22:59,433 --> 00:23:00,667 There was something going on. 510 00:23:00,667 --> 00:23:03,367 Well, he's apparently doing good. 511 00:23:03,367 --> 00:23:05,767 I'm kind of giving him space to heal now. 512 00:23:05,767 --> 00:23:08,066 You know, even though there's still some hurt feelings, 513 00:23:08,133 --> 00:23:09,467 and some misunderstandings, I think, 514 00:23:09,567 --> 00:23:13,066 this family, pulls together when it's important and when it matters. 515 00:23:13,967 --> 00:23:15,467 Everybody rallied around. 516 00:23:15,467 --> 00:23:17,100 Zach held them up in prayers, 517 00:23:17,100 --> 00:23:19,367 and everybody was very concerned 518 00:23:19,367 --> 00:23:21,667 about what he was going through, and, um... 519 00:23:21,734 --> 00:23:23,066 We're just glad he's all right. 520 00:23:24,567 --> 00:23:26,867 [Matt] I wanna show you what they're doing with the new house. 521 00:23:34,100 --> 00:23:36,467 -[Caryn] Oh, my goodness. Look at that. -Yeah. 522 00:23:37,767 --> 00:23:38,867 After a long wait, 523 00:23:38,867 --> 00:23:41,667 I've finally started building my final home. 524 00:23:41,734 --> 00:23:45,567 When I moved into the DW on the south side of the farm, 525 00:23:45,634 --> 00:23:47,767 which is almost ten years ago. 526 00:23:47,767 --> 00:23:50,166 I never in my wildest dreams 527 00:23:50,233 --> 00:23:52,767 expected to be there that long. 528 00:23:52,767 --> 00:23:56,967 I mean, it's definitely not been an ideal living situation. 529 00:23:56,967 --> 00:23:59,367 So, it's very exciting 530 00:23:59,367 --> 00:24:02,266 that I'm finally able to get going on 531 00:24:02,266 --> 00:24:06,066 building something that, you know, is gonna be completely accessible for me. 532 00:24:06,066 --> 00:24:08,467 Everyday something new is happening and being added. 533 00:24:08,533 --> 00:24:11,166 So, I can't wait to show Caryn the progress. 534 00:24:11,166 --> 00:24:13,166 [Caryn] You weren't kidding. It's happening? 535 00:24:13,166 --> 00:24:15,166 [Matt] Yeah, it's happening all right. 536 00:24:16,367 --> 00:24:18,867 -[Caryn] Oh, my gosh. -[laughs] 537 00:24:18,934 --> 00:24:21,000 [Caryn] You know, we're living together full time. 538 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,667 So, having a place that we will live together, 539 00:24:23,734 --> 00:24:25,967 here, and then also live together in Arizona, 540 00:24:25,967 --> 00:24:28,066 -that's big. -Yeah. 541 00:24:28,133 --> 00:24:30,166 -I love the shape of it. -I do, too. 542 00:24:30,233 --> 00:24:32,367 It's still hard to visualize. 543 00:24:32,367 --> 00:24:36,367 I mean, you could probably walk through and know where the rooms are. 544 00:24:36,367 --> 00:24:38,567 [Matt] But the biggest thing we're doing with this plan 545 00:24:38,567 --> 00:24:40,467 and the reason why this is so elaborate 546 00:24:40,467 --> 00:24:43,367 -is cause there's gonna be zero steps. -Right. 547 00:24:43,433 --> 00:24:45,166 Building your own home 548 00:24:45,166 --> 00:24:47,367 for your comfort and your retirement, 549 00:24:47,367 --> 00:24:50,967 that's going to offer him a very comfortable 550 00:24:51,033 --> 00:24:53,066 landing spot as he ages. 551 00:24:53,066 --> 00:24:56,467 We don't plan to change our formula of going down to Arizona, 552 00:24:56,467 --> 00:24:57,467 and back and forth. 553 00:24:57,467 --> 00:24:58,567 We just think when we come back, 554 00:24:58,567 --> 00:25:01,367 we're gonna have a much more comfortable place. 555 00:25:01,367 --> 00:25:03,266 [Caryn] You had this in your mind for so long. 556 00:25:03,266 --> 00:25:05,000 Aren't you just like, so excited right now? 557 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,266 Yeah, I'm very... It's very... Yeah, well, good. 558 00:25:07,266 --> 00:25:10,066 Thank you. I'm happy for us. 559 00:25:10,066 --> 00:25:12,367 We're definitely thinking of the new house as being 560 00:25:12,367 --> 00:25:13,967 a fun place all the way around, 561 00:25:14,033 --> 00:25:18,266 whether it be our friends or the grandkids or her kids or my kids. 562 00:25:18,266 --> 00:25:20,567 I mean, we're definitely looking at it 563 00:25:20,567 --> 00:25:23,967 as being a fun place to hang out. 564 00:25:24,033 --> 00:25:26,567 I haven't seen Zach and Tori down here, 565 00:25:26,567 --> 00:25:29,066 uh, in quite a few months. 566 00:25:29,133 --> 00:25:32,266 But, I am not in a space where I am... 567 00:25:32,266 --> 00:25:35,533 I hang my happiness on what the kids... 568 00:25:36,500 --> 00:25:39,367 accept or don't accept about what we're doing here. 569 00:25:39,367 --> 00:25:41,166 I do hang my hat on the fact 570 00:25:41,166 --> 00:25:44,467 that all the kids have gone off and got their own lives going. 571 00:25:44,467 --> 00:25:47,100 That's the independence that I'm very happy about. 572 00:25:47,100 --> 00:25:50,000 They may all wish things happened in a different way, 573 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,767 but deep down in my soul, 574 00:25:51,834 --> 00:25:55,100 I feel very good about the way things are. 575 00:25:55,100 --> 00:25:57,867 You know, whatever happens, the farm is beautiful. 576 00:25:57,867 --> 00:26:00,233 The farm deserves a home like this for you. 577 00:26:01,467 --> 00:26:03,266 We're happy. We're ploughing forward. 578 00:26:03,266 --> 00:26:06,266 We're gonna make this house amazing for Matt. 579 00:26:06,266 --> 00:26:08,667 And what's that saying? If you build it, they will come. 580 00:26:08,667 --> 00:26:11,367 And whoever comes, we're gonna welcome everyone with open arms. 581 00:26:11,367 --> 00:26:13,767 And whoever doesn't wanna come, that's okay, too. 582 00:26:13,767 --> 00:26:16,667 What does that guy say about, building houses causes divorces? 583 00:26:16,734 --> 00:26:18,567 -What was that concept? -We don't have to worry about that. 584 00:26:18,567 --> 00:26:20,967 -Yeah. We don't have to worry about that. -We're not married. 585 00:26:20,967 --> 00:26:23,567 Let's make a commitment we don't get married till after the house is finished. 586 00:26:23,634 --> 00:26:26,166 So we don't have to go... [laughs] 587 00:26:26,166 --> 00:26:28,467 The truth is, we've talked about it, a lot. 588 00:26:28,467 --> 00:26:31,266 We may get married, we may not. 589 00:26:31,266 --> 00:26:32,667 We're gonna wait and see. 590 00:26:32,667 --> 00:26:35,000 I mean, tomorrow I could wake up and, 591 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,867 he could propose and I'd say yes. 592 00:26:36,867 --> 00:26:39,266 Or we could go the next ten years and never get married. 593 00:26:39,266 --> 00:26:41,166 We don't know. [whispers] It's a surprise. 594 00:26:42,266 --> 00:26:43,867 [Matt] And you know what the biggest thing about this is? 595 00:26:43,867 --> 00:26:45,567 For the next eight months, 596 00:26:45,567 --> 00:26:46,767 as long as this is gonna take, 597 00:26:46,767 --> 00:26:48,100 it's gonna keep me out of your hair. 598 00:26:48,100 --> 00:26:50,567 Ha! I like you in my hair. 599 00:26:50,567 --> 00:26:51,767 [Matt] I'm very, very happy, 600 00:26:51,834 --> 00:26:53,867 'cause it feels like, a sense of settle. 601 00:26:53,867 --> 00:26:55,467 Like, I'm on a beautiful piece of property, 602 00:26:55,467 --> 00:26:58,066 with a beautiful home, and with a beautiful woman, 603 00:26:58,066 --> 00:27:00,066 -and I'm settled. -Aw. 604 00:27:00,066 --> 00:27:02,367 I think the house represents for me, 605 00:27:02,367 --> 00:27:04,967 watching Matt be able to 606 00:27:04,967 --> 00:27:06,967 enjoy all of the years 607 00:27:06,967 --> 00:27:09,266 that he worked so hard on the farm. 608 00:27:09,266 --> 00:27:13,967 Really put his heart, sweat, tears, and soul into this farm. 609 00:27:13,967 --> 00:27:15,467 I wanna watch 'em pour the concrete. 610 00:27:15,467 --> 00:27:17,066 -'Cause that's kind of... -Oh, yeah. That's gonna be done. 611 00:27:17,066 --> 00:27:19,266 Oh, can we put our initials in the concrete? 612 00:27:19,333 --> 00:27:21,567 Now, he's finally able 613 00:27:21,567 --> 00:27:23,667 as he stares down the barrel of retirement. 614 00:27:23,734 --> 00:27:25,567 Having his kind of, 615 00:27:25,634 --> 00:27:27,867 last build on the farm, 616 00:27:27,867 --> 00:27:30,667 where he will reside and watch over the grandchildren, 617 00:27:30,667 --> 00:27:33,100 and then hopefully, keep that in the family to pass on. 618 00:27:33,100 --> 00:27:35,767 Well, you did it. I'm very excited. 619 00:27:35,834 --> 00:27:37,734 You pulled it off, Matt Roloff. 620 00:27:39,867 --> 00:27:40,767 [Zach] Oh, here we go. 621 00:27:40,767 --> 00:27:41,767 [narrator] Coming up... 622 00:27:41,767 --> 00:27:42,967 [Zach] Go Lilah, go. 623 00:27:43,033 --> 00:27:44,066 [Jackson] Lilah. 624 00:27:44,133 --> 00:27:45,567 Josiah, you go, too. Go, go, go. 625 00:27:45,567 --> 00:27:47,734 Do you and Lilah race though, on your scooters? 626 00:27:50,767 --> 00:27:52,367 -[Tori gasps] -[Jackson] Oh. 627 00:27:52,367 --> 00:27:53,767 Wipes, wipes. 628 00:27:53,834 --> 00:27:55,367 Wow. 629 00:28:05,100 --> 00:28:07,467 [Zach] Lilah, you're getting pretty good on that scooter. 630 00:28:07,467 --> 00:28:08,967 [Tori] Oh, here she goes. 631 00:28:09,033 --> 00:28:10,066 [Zach] Oh, here we go. 632 00:28:10,066 --> 00:28:12,266 You have to go all the way around the kitchen island 633 00:28:12,333 --> 00:28:14,667 and the couch, and whoever gets back here first, wins. 634 00:28:14,667 --> 00:28:16,100 Ready? Go. 635 00:28:16,100 --> 00:28:17,367 [Jackson exclaims] 636 00:28:17,433 --> 00:28:19,266 -[Zach] Go, Lilah, go. -[Tori] Please be careful inside. 637 00:28:19,333 --> 00:28:21,100 [Zach] Go, go, go. 638 00:28:21,100 --> 00:28:23,266 I'm kind of taking it easy since my surgery. 639 00:28:23,266 --> 00:28:26,367 I was trying to ease back into our routine as a family. 640 00:28:26,367 --> 00:28:28,667 [Tori] This is how more injuries occur, 641 00:28:28,667 --> 00:28:29,767 and more surgeries happen. 642 00:28:29,767 --> 00:28:31,266 I don't have my timer. 643 00:28:31,266 --> 00:28:33,567 Do you and Lilah race though, on your scooters? 644 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,066 -[Tori gasps] -[Jackson] Oh. 645 00:28:38,133 --> 00:28:39,166 Wipes, wipes. 646 00:28:39,166 --> 00:28:40,867 Josiah, you go, too. Go, go, go. 647 00:28:40,934 --> 00:28:42,166 Josiah, you go fast. 648 00:28:42,233 --> 00:28:43,667 [Zach] Go follow them. 649 00:28:43,734 --> 00:28:44,767 [Tori] There you go. 650 00:28:44,834 --> 00:28:45,867 [Zach] Now, go. 651 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,166 No, no. We're just gonna continue. 652 00:28:50,166 --> 00:28:51,266 -Thank you. -[woman] You're welcome. 653 00:28:51,333 --> 00:28:52,867 [Jackson speaking] 654 00:28:52,934 --> 00:28:53,967 -Good job. -Whoa. 655 00:28:54,066 --> 00:28:55,367 [Zach] Did you go all the way around the couch, too? 656 00:28:55,367 --> 00:28:56,634 And the kitchen island? 657 00:28:58,166 --> 00:29:00,133 Wow. 658 00:29:01,266 --> 00:29:04,333 [Zach] We have a baby, a toddler, and a five year old. 659 00:29:05,066 --> 00:29:06,734 And, uh, yeah. Life's pretty hectic. 660 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,467 -Oh, gosh. -Oh, dear. 661 00:29:09,467 --> 00:29:11,767 -Hold on. -Go follow Jackson. 662 00:29:11,834 --> 00:29:14,367 Sometimes challenges are like, they're all in different wavelengths. 663 00:29:14,367 --> 00:29:16,667 They all... My challenge right now is nap time. 664 00:29:16,734 --> 00:29:18,767 I feel like I'm nap trapped all day long. 665 00:29:18,834 --> 00:29:21,066 Lilah, you're getting pretty good on that scooter. 666 00:29:21,066 --> 00:29:22,767 -[Lilah] Yeah. -[Tori] Say, "Thanks, Daddy." 667 00:29:22,834 --> 00:29:26,166 I mean, it's been definitely more challenging not having my partner, 668 00:29:26,166 --> 00:29:28,266 that's there to help with the kids. 669 00:29:28,266 --> 00:29:29,567 Zach is still recovering, 670 00:29:29,567 --> 00:29:32,433 and he can't lift more than 10lb. 671 00:29:33,567 --> 00:29:35,367 -Um... -I can't bend over. 672 00:29:35,367 --> 00:29:38,567 He can't put his head below his heart. 673 00:29:38,567 --> 00:29:41,567 Those are the two, like pretty significant things he can't do. 674 00:29:41,634 --> 00:29:42,667 You can't tie your shoes. 675 00:29:42,667 --> 00:29:43,767 You can't pick up your kids. 676 00:29:43,767 --> 00:29:45,767 So, I've just, kind of, been on my own. 677 00:29:45,767 --> 00:29:47,433 And yeah, it's just been a little hectic. 678 00:29:49,967 --> 00:29:51,033 [Zach] Whose room is this? 679 00:29:52,066 --> 00:29:53,166 The boys room. 680 00:29:53,166 --> 00:29:54,567 [Zach] The boys room? What're you doing? 681 00:29:54,634 --> 00:29:56,967 -[Tori] Just the boys. -What do you do in the boys room? 682 00:29:56,967 --> 00:29:59,100 [Jackson] Play LEGOs with my dad. 683 00:29:59,100 --> 00:30:01,367 -[Zach] Do you like sharing the room with Josiah? -[Jackson] Yeah. 684 00:30:01,367 --> 00:30:03,367 [Zach] Jackson and Josiah love sharing the room. 685 00:30:03,433 --> 00:30:05,266 And it's worked out so well. 686 00:30:05,266 --> 00:30:07,367 -Wish we would have done that earlier. -Yes. 687 00:30:07,433 --> 00:30:08,567 -Are you ready, Lilah? -[Lilah] Yeah. 688 00:30:08,567 --> 00:30:09,967 Can you do five jumping jacks? 689 00:30:10,667 --> 00:30:11,734 How old are you? 690 00:30:12,367 --> 00:30:13,967 [gasps] Don't say it. 691 00:30:13,967 --> 00:30:15,367 -Three. -Are you four? 692 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,266 -Three? Mmm-hmm. -[Zach] Three. 693 00:30:18,266 --> 00:30:19,367 What a big girl. 694 00:30:19,367 --> 00:30:20,867 Should Lilah have a sleepover one night? 695 00:30:20,867 --> 00:30:22,300 Sure. 696 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,767 -That's so sad. That's so sad if you put it like that. -That's so... 697 00:30:30,767 --> 00:30:32,266 But wait, that's so accurate though. 698 00:30:32,333 --> 00:30:33,734 Lilah, what's your dance? 699 00:30:34,867 --> 00:30:36,266 How do you do your dance? 700 00:30:36,266 --> 00:30:38,667 She has found a love for dance. 701 00:30:38,667 --> 00:30:40,266 [Lilah speaking] 702 00:30:40,266 --> 00:30:41,467 'Kay, now do this. 703 00:30:41,467 --> 00:30:42,567 [Zach] I'll say, "Do you want to go to school?" 704 00:30:42,634 --> 00:30:43,600 And she goes, "No, dance". 705 00:30:43,667 --> 00:30:45,066 I'm like, "We're gonna go on a boat next year". 706 00:30:45,066 --> 00:30:46,767 That's her favorite part of dance class. 707 00:30:46,767 --> 00:30:48,834 And then remember, you gotta do one, 708 00:30:49,867 --> 00:30:50,867 two. 709 00:30:50,867 --> 00:30:52,467 [Zach] And so she's gonna start pre-school, 710 00:30:52,467 --> 00:30:53,667 whether she likes it or not. 711 00:30:53,667 --> 00:30:55,266 Whether she likes it or not, she's going to pre-school. 712 00:30:55,266 --> 00:30:56,667 -Yeah, she's going to pre-school. AM class. -Next year. 713 00:30:56,667 --> 00:30:58,066 You're supposed to sign her up today. 714 00:30:58,066 --> 00:30:59,667 I'm gonna sign her up. Trust me. 715 00:30:59,667 --> 00:31:01,266 Si-Si, what are you doing? 716 00:31:01,333 --> 00:31:04,166 -[Jackson speaking] -What are you doing you happy little... 717 00:31:04,233 --> 00:31:05,367 Lilah, Lilah, poor choice. 718 00:31:06,900 --> 00:31:08,667 Jackson loves Josiah, too. 719 00:31:08,667 --> 00:31:10,467 Josiah takes any attention. 720 00:31:10,467 --> 00:31:11,667 -Oh, yeah. -Any attention they'll give him. 721 00:31:11,667 --> 00:31:12,967 He's much more resilient and tough 722 00:31:12,967 --> 00:31:15,667 -Yeah. -than both of them, I think. 723 00:31:15,734 --> 00:31:17,166 -Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. -Oh, oh. 724 00:31:17,166 --> 00:31:19,266 -Yeah, what? -What? 725 00:31:19,266 --> 00:31:21,567 -When did that happen? No. -No. 726 00:31:21,634 --> 00:31:23,667 Si-Si's mobile. He's crawling. 727 00:31:23,734 --> 00:31:25,467 He has his little like, walking thing, 728 00:31:25,467 --> 00:31:26,467 -that he sits in. -It's so funny. 729 00:31:26,467 --> 00:31:28,266 [Zach] And he can move, he can back up, 730 00:31:28,266 --> 00:31:30,767 parallel park, perpendicular park. 731 00:31:30,767 --> 00:31:32,667 It's all very impressive. 732 00:31:32,734 --> 00:31:34,767 It all happened while I was in the hospital, too. 733 00:31:34,767 --> 00:31:36,467 I came home and he was perfect. 734 00:31:42,367 --> 00:31:43,667 Yeah. When I'm done recovering. 735 00:31:43,667 --> 00:31:44,867 When am I gonna be done? 736 00:31:44,867 --> 00:31:46,967 Maybe in December. 737 00:31:47,033 --> 00:31:50,166 Hopefully not, dude. Hopefully it's done in, like, end of February. 738 00:31:50,166 --> 00:31:51,066 Okay. 739 00:31:51,066 --> 00:31:52,667 Everything happened so fast. 740 00:31:52,734 --> 00:31:54,667 It's good to be on the other side of the surgery. 741 00:31:54,734 --> 00:31:56,734 So far no setbacks. 742 00:31:57,567 --> 00:31:59,667 Tori, you did a great job that week. 743 00:31:59,734 --> 00:32:00,967 -Yeah? -Yeah. 744 00:32:00,967 --> 00:32:03,467 Tori rallied hard. She got the kids going. 745 00:32:03,467 --> 00:32:05,367 And my mom came up a couple times, 746 00:32:05,367 --> 00:32:06,667 to watch the kids. 747 00:32:06,667 --> 00:32:08,767 Tori asked my mom and dad for advice. 748 00:32:08,767 --> 00:32:11,266 And everyone was very responsive to her. 749 00:32:11,266 --> 00:32:13,166 When it comes to my dad, yeah, I think 750 00:32:13,233 --> 00:32:14,967 he really screwed over the farm. 751 00:32:15,033 --> 00:32:16,967 Everything that the family built, 752 00:32:17,033 --> 00:32:18,367 but yeah, when he's around, you know, hey, 753 00:32:18,367 --> 00:32:20,266 he's grandpa to the kids and everything, 754 00:32:20,266 --> 00:32:23,667 but, that doesn't change that I think he screwed over the family. 755 00:32:23,667 --> 00:32:25,367 I don't know how much contact we have, 756 00:32:25,433 --> 00:32:26,767 like, we probably have less now. 757 00:32:26,767 --> 00:32:28,367 Like, Tori and me are taking a break. 758 00:32:28,367 --> 00:32:31,767 We're definitely separating ourselves from our family more. 759 00:32:31,767 --> 00:32:33,467 I get my staples out next Friday. 760 00:32:33,467 --> 00:32:35,266 [Jackson speaking] 761 00:32:35,266 --> 00:32:36,367 That's gonna hurt. 762 00:32:36,367 --> 00:32:38,967 -And where is Daddy's scar? -[Lilah] Mommy. Mom. 763 00:32:38,967 --> 00:32:40,667 -Touch it, get in there. -Mommy. 764 00:32:43,867 --> 00:32:45,667 No fear. 765 00:32:45,667 --> 00:32:47,967 -Show Lilah the staples. -What were you thinking about when dad was in the hospital? 766 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,767 You didn't think I got staples? That's good. 767 00:32:53,767 --> 00:32:55,567 Jackson knew I was in the hospital, 768 00:32:55,567 --> 00:32:57,467 and Jackson I think had pretty good awareness. 769 00:32:57,467 --> 00:32:59,867 [Tori] While Jackson had leg surgery, 770 00:32:59,867 --> 00:33:02,266 I don't think we shied away from the fact that, like, 771 00:33:02,266 --> 00:33:04,367 dad is having surgery. 772 00:33:04,367 --> 00:33:06,166 [Zach] He was scared though. He was nervous. 773 00:33:06,166 --> 00:33:08,166 [Tori] You could tell, he was thinking about dad 774 00:33:08,233 --> 00:33:10,967 -and just what the repercussions will be. -Is he gonna be okay? 775 00:33:11,033 --> 00:33:12,667 -Is he coming home and... -Yeah. 776 00:33:12,667 --> 00:33:14,367 How do you take care of daddy? 777 00:33:17,867 --> 00:33:20,467 [Zach] They picked me up. The nurse, like, said to the kids in the car 778 00:33:20,467 --> 00:33:22,967 he can't lift 10lb, he can't do this. 779 00:33:22,967 --> 00:33:24,467 So Jackson, oh, rules. 780 00:33:24,467 --> 00:33:26,667 -Jackson's been a little police officer. -Yeah. 781 00:33:26,667 --> 00:33:28,767 Lilah, no. Daddy can't do that. 782 00:33:30,667 --> 00:33:33,000 Lot can happen in another week. 783 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,767 Pressure can build up again. 784 00:33:34,767 --> 00:33:36,266 Migraine, vomiting, 785 00:33:36,266 --> 00:33:38,567 shunt could have a infection, failure. 786 00:33:38,634 --> 00:33:40,367 -Okay. Mmm-hmm. -So... 787 00:33:40,367 --> 00:33:42,100 We're not out of the woods. 788 00:33:42,100 --> 00:33:45,867 I feel all right, but every now and then, I get these, like, headaches. 789 00:33:45,934 --> 00:33:47,867 Headaches, not migraines, but it's like, 790 00:33:47,867 --> 00:33:49,867 they call it, like, medical trauma. 791 00:33:49,934 --> 00:33:51,200 Every time I get a headache, I like, 792 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:52,867 -oh, my God, is it gonna... -It's triggering, like, you're like, 793 00:33:52,867 --> 00:33:55,166 -It's triggering. Is it gonna escalate? -Is it gonna escalate? 794 00:33:55,166 --> 00:33:56,634 Is there something wrong with the shunt. 795 00:33:57,367 --> 00:33:59,266 This thing, I depend on it. 796 00:33:59,266 --> 00:34:00,767 So I can go into another surgery. 797 00:34:00,834 --> 00:34:02,767 At any point, this thing could fail. 798 00:34:02,834 --> 00:34:04,867 There could be an infection. 799 00:34:04,867 --> 00:34:06,367 Um... 800 00:34:06,367 --> 00:34:08,867 It would just be very nerve wracking, if I had to go back in. 801 00:34:11,300 --> 00:34:13,166 Every now and then, I get like, an ache or a headache, 802 00:34:13,233 --> 00:34:14,867 I'm just trying not to, like, over think that. 803 00:34:14,867 --> 00:34:16,967 Where is the ache or headache at? 804 00:34:17,033 --> 00:34:18,867 It's like the general head area. 805 00:34:18,934 --> 00:34:21,867 Okay, you just literally did this. Where is it at though? 806 00:34:21,934 --> 00:34:25,367 [Zach] Obviously, any day, something terrible could happen. 807 00:34:25,433 --> 00:34:26,867 But, I need to be there for my kids, 808 00:34:26,867 --> 00:34:30,467 and, my kids need me, you know. 809 00:34:30,467 --> 00:34:33,667 Super sad to think that Tori would have to explain to them, 810 00:34:34,500 --> 00:34:35,967 why isn't Dad here. 811 00:34:35,967 --> 00:34:38,667 Parents do that, like, that happens all the time, 812 00:34:38,734 --> 00:34:41,100 which devastating, I couldn't imagine having that conversation 813 00:34:41,100 --> 00:34:45,467 where you have to explain to your kids why one of their parents isn't coming home. 814 00:34:48,100 --> 00:34:49,133 Come on, let's go. 815 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,033 Oh, gosh. 816 00:35:15,500 --> 00:35:17,233 [Amy] I don't know where that dog is. 817 00:35:18,266 --> 00:35:20,867 The mud like this, this is why I put her on a leash. 818 00:35:20,867 --> 00:35:23,066 [Chris] Well, we don't bring her out here very often. 819 00:35:23,133 --> 00:35:24,367 It's kind of nice to... 820 00:35:24,367 --> 00:35:26,066 -let her... -Yeah. 821 00:35:26,066 --> 00:35:27,367 ...stretch her legs and run, 822 00:35:27,367 --> 00:35:30,767 'cause she likes to run when she gets the space to do that. 823 00:35:31,767 --> 00:35:33,867 I'm glad that Matt occasionally, you know, 824 00:35:33,867 --> 00:35:36,166 is okay with having Chris and I 825 00:35:36,166 --> 00:35:39,166 take Daisy for a walk around the farm. 826 00:35:39,233 --> 00:35:41,100 [Chris] No, I'm glad we have a place that we can go 827 00:35:41,100 --> 00:35:43,567 and she doesn't have to be on a leash. 828 00:35:43,567 --> 00:35:44,667 [Amy] Good girl. 829 00:35:45,467 --> 00:35:46,967 But it's kind of cold out here. 830 00:35:47,033 --> 00:35:49,266 So we couldn't really do a full walk. 831 00:35:49,266 --> 00:35:51,100 So, Matt wanted us to check out 832 00:35:51,100 --> 00:35:53,266 the changes that he's made to the garage. 833 00:35:53,266 --> 00:35:55,066 [Chris] I love doing things myself. 834 00:35:55,133 --> 00:35:57,667 And I always have fun going over and looking and seeing what the latest project is. 835 00:35:57,667 --> 00:35:59,100 What he's working on next. 836 00:35:59,100 --> 00:36:01,967 [Amy] I don't need to be invested in every, 837 00:36:01,967 --> 00:36:03,867 you know, project that Matt does on the farm. 838 00:36:03,867 --> 00:36:06,767 That... My time for that has come and gone. 839 00:36:06,767 --> 00:36:09,166 Yeah. Usually when I say, I wanna go check out 840 00:36:09,166 --> 00:36:12,166 you know, Matt's projects, she goes, have fun. 841 00:36:12,166 --> 00:36:13,934 You can tell me all about it when you get back. 842 00:36:15,700 --> 00:36:19,266 [Matt] Well, I shouldn't say that. Remember when we were... 843 00:36:19,333 --> 00:36:21,567 -Hey. -[Chris] Hey. Good afternoon. 844 00:36:21,567 --> 00:36:23,266 [Amy] Hi. 845 00:36:23,266 --> 00:36:26,467 Well, this is the cleanest this garage has ever been. 846 00:36:26,533 --> 00:36:29,367 [Chris] Why, I like what you've done with this. This is kind of cozy. 847 00:36:29,433 --> 00:36:31,767 [Matt] You know, in some ways, it's a little surreal 848 00:36:31,767 --> 00:36:35,166 that we, you know, are sitting here, hanging out, 849 00:36:35,166 --> 00:36:36,767 you know, Caryn and I, 850 00:36:36,834 --> 00:36:39,567 my ex-wife, Amy, her new husband, Chris, 851 00:36:39,567 --> 00:36:41,066 in Amy's old house, 852 00:36:41,066 --> 00:36:43,367 the house that Amy and I raised our four kids. 853 00:36:43,367 --> 00:36:45,767 It's a little funny and it's a little bit surreal, 854 00:36:45,834 --> 00:36:49,000 but it's also very comfortable and you know, um, 855 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,867 um, I think, 856 00:36:50,867 --> 00:36:52,834 you know, we've all come a long way. 857 00:36:53,567 --> 00:36:55,166 How's Zach been feeling? 858 00:36:55,233 --> 00:36:57,367 -[Amy] I think Zach is doing pretty good. I mean... -Good. 859 00:36:57,367 --> 00:36:59,767 -You know, we've been down this road before. -Yeah. 860 00:36:59,767 --> 00:37:02,066 I'm glad they had you, Amy, to watch those three kids. 861 00:37:02,133 --> 00:37:03,266 -'Cause that's a lot. -Oh, yeah. 862 00:37:03,266 --> 00:37:05,266 I was called at two o'clock in the morning. 863 00:37:05,266 --> 00:37:07,367 You're like... When the phone rings at two in the morning, 864 00:37:07,433 --> 00:37:08,800 you know it's not good. 865 00:37:08,867 --> 00:37:12,066 Well, that's why I tell people, that's why I leave my phone by my bed. 866 00:37:12,133 --> 00:37:15,567 'Cause if my kids or my grandkids, the older they get, it's like... 867 00:37:15,567 --> 00:37:17,266 -[Caryn] You never know. -Yeah, grandma's around. 868 00:37:17,333 --> 00:37:19,567 I don't know if she'll be functioning, but... 869 00:37:19,567 --> 00:37:22,266 -And that's what family does. When you have an emergency, -Yeah. 870 00:37:22,266 --> 00:37:24,066 when something arises, 871 00:37:24,133 --> 00:37:27,767 -you do jump in and... -Look after the kids, and... 872 00:37:27,767 --> 00:37:29,367 -Keep their routine. -Yeah. 873 00:37:29,367 --> 00:37:32,667 I mean, there was a day when Caryn would have jumped in and helped with that, 874 00:37:32,734 --> 00:37:34,333 but, um, yeah. 875 00:37:36,667 --> 00:37:39,767 I don't think any of his other kids have that. 876 00:37:39,767 --> 00:37:42,000 The signs would have already been known. 877 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,166 -Oh, okay. -'Cause I knew something was wrong with Zach, 878 00:37:44,166 --> 00:37:45,467 back in the day. 879 00:37:45,467 --> 00:37:47,367 Because he always threw up. 880 00:37:47,433 --> 00:37:48,667 Right. 881 00:37:48,700 --> 00:37:51,567 I just hope he doesn't have to go down this road any time soon. 882 00:37:51,567 --> 00:37:53,667 We've heard a lot of stories where people 883 00:37:53,667 --> 00:37:55,367 had this done every year. 884 00:38:00,900 --> 00:38:02,166 [Matt] Um... 885 00:38:02,233 --> 00:38:05,100 So, Amy hasn't seen my little progress on my foundation. 886 00:38:05,100 --> 00:38:06,767 Are you still pouring tomorrow? 887 00:38:06,834 --> 00:38:08,166 [Matt] Tomorrow it's concrete day. 888 00:38:08,166 --> 00:38:10,367 In the true Matt Roloff tradition, 889 00:38:10,367 --> 00:38:12,667 I'm making last second changes. 890 00:38:12,667 --> 00:38:15,367 And Caryn wanted to eliminate this bar we found. 891 00:38:15,367 --> 00:38:16,967 That's a shear wall, you know. 892 00:38:17,033 --> 00:38:18,934 [Chris] So why would you want to eliminate the bar? 893 00:38:19,567 --> 00:38:22,967 It's got this 12-foot island. 894 00:38:22,967 --> 00:38:24,767 -[Chris] Oh. -I mean, it's gigantic. 895 00:38:24,834 --> 00:38:25,900 Okay, right. 896 00:38:25,967 --> 00:38:27,100 -[Caryn] It's just something else to clean. -I get ya. 897 00:38:27,100 --> 00:38:28,467 -Yeah. -[Caryn] And thinking design. 898 00:38:28,533 --> 00:38:30,567 She's nipping away at every little thing. All the features. 899 00:38:30,567 --> 00:38:32,367 -No, can't do that. -That's not true. 900 00:38:32,367 --> 00:38:34,867 -We're trying to simplify. That's, I mean... -[Chris] Yeah. 901 00:38:34,867 --> 00:38:37,867 -Well, there's nothing wrong with simplifying. Is it? -[Caryn] Yeah. 902 00:38:37,867 --> 00:38:42,066 You know, it's a little bit weird talking about the new dream home, 903 00:38:42,133 --> 00:38:44,767 uh, you know, with Amy being my ex-wife and all. 904 00:38:44,834 --> 00:38:46,367 But, she seems to be a good sport 905 00:38:46,367 --> 00:38:49,867 and Chris seems to be legitimately interested in what we're doing. 906 00:38:49,867 --> 00:38:51,667 So, it's a fine line between 907 00:38:51,667 --> 00:38:53,867 being awkward, not saying anything about it, 908 00:38:53,934 --> 00:38:56,266 and telling her too much about it. 909 00:38:56,266 --> 00:38:58,066 [Chris] So are you guys doing wallpaper? 910 00:38:58,066 --> 00:39:00,767 [Caryn] In maybe a-- We don't know yet. 911 00:39:00,767 --> 00:39:04,767 [Amy] It does feel different to talk about the stages 912 00:39:04,767 --> 00:39:06,867 of my ex-husband's house. 913 00:39:06,867 --> 00:39:09,066 Because, that's not my life. 914 00:39:09,066 --> 00:39:12,033 It's not a part of me, it never will be, and it shouldn't be. 915 00:39:12,767 --> 00:39:14,166 Uh, that is his. 916 00:39:14,166 --> 00:39:17,967 And that is his and Caryn's, and whatever they wanna do. 917 00:39:18,033 --> 00:39:20,233 You know, time will settle that... 918 00:39:20,900 --> 00:39:22,533 a little bit, and... 919 00:39:23,467 --> 00:39:25,667 not everything you want or dreams 920 00:39:25,667 --> 00:39:26,734 that you had hoped for... 921 00:39:27,667 --> 00:39:28,867 always come true. 922 00:39:28,867 --> 00:39:31,433 So, you have to figure out a way how to move on. 923 00:39:32,767 --> 00:39:35,266 Should I tell her? No? 924 00:39:35,266 --> 00:39:36,533 Oh, yeah. Tell her. 925 00:39:40,266 --> 00:39:43,467 We're all but decided that... 926 00:39:44,767 --> 00:39:45,867 when I die... 927 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,066 we're giving whatever piece of the farm I still have... 928 00:39:52,567 --> 00:39:53,600 to Amy. 929 00:39:57,166 --> 00:40:00,433 [stutters] I don't even know how to comment on that. 930 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,467 You... you... What? Like... 931 00:40:07,533 --> 00:40:08,567 it's crazy. 932 00:40:12,066 --> 00:40:14,967 Uh, yeah. So that's been kicked around. 933 00:40:14,967 --> 00:40:18,567 That update, we had to, because, it's like, 934 00:40:18,567 --> 00:40:20,333 otherwise it's too complicated. 935 00:40:23,467 --> 00:40:25,367 Let's talk about the fact 936 00:40:25,433 --> 00:40:27,867 that I'm the one that had the idea 937 00:40:27,867 --> 00:40:31,567 that you leave everything you own, 938 00:40:31,567 --> 00:40:34,567 aside from Arizona, 'cause that's ours together, to Amy. 939 00:40:34,567 --> 00:40:36,667 You did. That was your idea. 940 00:40:36,667 --> 00:40:39,100 [Caryn] Your family, in the first part of your life, 941 00:40:39,100 --> 00:40:40,667 built and worked for this farm. 942 00:40:40,734 --> 00:40:42,100 I came in later. 943 00:40:42,100 --> 00:40:43,667 And I don't want it. 944 00:40:43,734 --> 00:40:45,967 And I don't wanna ever take anything away from the people that built it, 945 00:40:45,967 --> 00:40:48,266 the family, the kids. So, that is a definite. 946 00:40:48,266 --> 00:40:50,166 That's... Whether we get married or we don't, 947 00:40:50,166 --> 00:40:51,667 farm is off the table. 948 00:40:51,667 --> 00:40:54,166 'Cause she would wanna make sure all the kids are happy. 949 00:40:54,166 --> 00:40:55,567 That's exactly... 950 00:40:55,634 --> 00:40:57,767 [Amy] Or give 'em a dose of reality. 951 00:40:57,767 --> 00:41:02,433 Let her be the one to dish that spoonful of sugar out, okay? 952 00:41:03,700 --> 00:41:05,767 [Amy] I was absolutely surprised. 953 00:41:05,834 --> 00:41:07,867 What Matt said, I didn't take seriously. 954 00:41:07,867 --> 00:41:11,266 Statements like that, it's, you know, in one ear, out the other. 955 00:41:11,333 --> 00:41:13,467 It's like, you know, I'll believe it when I see it. 956 00:41:13,467 --> 00:41:16,367 Not that I want him to die anytime soon. 957 00:41:16,433 --> 00:41:18,767 But, I'll believe it when I see it. 958 00:41:18,767 --> 00:41:20,667 Boom. She can figure it out. 959 00:41:20,734 --> 00:41:21,967 [all laughing] 960 00:41:26,967 --> 00:41:30,000 [Matt] Coming up this season on Little People, Big World. 961 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:31,066 He's about to throw it. 962 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,367 ♪ That's divine ♪ 963 00:41:34,367 --> 00:41:36,467 Having three kids right now is kinda hectic. 964 00:41:36,467 --> 00:41:38,066 It's very go, go, go. 965 00:41:38,133 --> 00:41:39,166 [screaming] 966 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,266 There's lots of energy, it's just not very peaceful. 967 00:41:41,266 --> 00:41:42,166 [shrieks] 968 00:41:42,166 --> 00:41:44,767 [laughing] 969 00:41:44,767 --> 00:41:46,066 Here he comes! 970 00:41:46,133 --> 00:41:48,467 Some of the opposing kids point out that he's different. 971 00:41:48,467 --> 00:41:50,567 It's not a conversation I'd prefer to have, 972 00:41:50,567 --> 00:41:52,166 but right now, it's starting. 973 00:41:52,166 --> 00:41:53,467 Like, it's never gonna stop. 974 00:41:53,467 --> 00:41:55,767 Jackson, do you wanna play a game? 975 00:41:55,767 --> 00:41:58,867 So, they got the bar out there, they got drinks out there. 976 00:41:58,867 --> 00:42:00,667 We're hosting a fundraising event 977 00:42:00,667 --> 00:42:02,000 along with Matt and Karen. 978 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,166 He's gonna wanna be in charge. 979 00:42:04,166 --> 00:42:06,100 I am running the show. 980 00:42:06,100 --> 00:42:07,166 We'll do it my way. 981 00:42:07,166 --> 00:42:08,767 'Cause this has to go. 982 00:42:08,834 --> 00:42:10,567 That would be easier than moving the other way, I guess. 983 00:42:10,567 --> 00:42:11,767 This has to go. 984 00:42:11,767 --> 00:42:16,467 Amy can cross that line from micromanager to dictator 985 00:42:16,533 --> 00:42:19,767 quicker than me, and you just fasten your seat belt. 986 00:42:19,834 --> 00:42:21,567 She gave the guys instructions. 987 00:42:21,567 --> 00:42:22,767 No, I did not. 988 00:42:22,767 --> 00:42:25,166 I didn't talk to nobody. 989 00:42:25,233 --> 00:42:27,967 You're the one who doesn't take ownership or apologize. 990 00:42:27,967 --> 00:42:29,367 -What I meant to say -- -He doesn't apologize. 991 00:42:31,467 --> 00:42:33,934 How did you scout this out, you cutie. 992 00:42:37,100 --> 00:42:40,667 I asked Caryn to marry me, and she said yes. 993 00:42:40,667 --> 00:42:42,166 Did you talk this over with Chris? 994 00:42:42,166 --> 00:42:44,166 -[laughing] -Oh, my god. 995 00:42:44,166 --> 00:42:45,767 Hey guys, welcome. 996 00:42:45,767 --> 00:42:48,867 I haven't seen Amy since Caryn and I were engaged. 997 00:42:48,867 --> 00:42:51,066 I don't know if she's gonna make things awkward, 998 00:42:51,066 --> 00:42:52,367 or if she's okay with it. 999 00:42:52,367 --> 00:42:54,367 Oh, let's see the ring. 1000 00:42:54,367 --> 00:42:55,634 Oh, boy. 1001 00:43:01,867 --> 00:43:03,967 I didn't reply, I don't want to talk about her. 1002 00:43:04,033 --> 00:43:05,467 I'm, like, dreaming of the day 1003 00:43:05,467 --> 00:43:07,967 where the grandkids are out playing in the distance. 1004 00:43:07,967 --> 00:43:09,767 We don't see Zack and Tori that often. 1005 00:43:09,767 --> 00:43:12,100 I think they must have made some kind of pact 1006 00:43:12,100 --> 00:43:13,467 that they don't want to come to the farm 1007 00:43:13,533 --> 00:43:14,667 They don't come over anymore. 1008 00:43:14,667 --> 00:43:17,266 I'm not used to being cut off, 1009 00:43:17,266 --> 00:43:19,467 where it's just, poik, gone. 1010 00:43:19,467 --> 00:43:22,367 You have a choice, how long do you leave it broken? 1011 00:43:22,433 --> 00:43:24,767 Is there a way to help heal it? 1012 00:43:24,767 --> 00:43:27,867 The family wasn't put first on multiple occasions. 1013 00:43:27,867 --> 00:43:29,567 That ship all sailed. 1014 00:43:29,567 --> 00:43:33,266 My job as a grandpa is to love my grandkids, 1015 00:43:33,266 --> 00:43:36,100 and that's the sad part, you never get all that time back.