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Where does it hurt the worst?
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[narrator] Previously on
Little People, Big World.
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Tori had called me
and said, uh,
"This is an emergency."
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Do you feel nauseous?
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[Tori] I have never seen Zach
in that much pain.
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He started crying
and saying, "I'm dying."
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I think that we have
been sitting
on a knife's edge.
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And we just didn't know it.
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There was something going on.
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Well, he's apparently
doing good.
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I'm kind of giving him
space to heal, now.
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You know, like,
I got up there for birthdays
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but, um, they don't come
to the farm.
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I think they just
want space, still.
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I never pictured the house
that I raised my kids in
for the last 30 years
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to be a short term rental.
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I just see it as very sad.
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When it comes to my dad,
I think he really
screwed over the farm,
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everything that the family
built.
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When he's around, you know,
hey.
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He's grandpa to the kids
and everything,
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but that doesn't change
that I think
he screwed over the family.
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Like, Tori and me
are taking a break.
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We're definitely
separating ourselves
from our family more.
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[Tori] Oh my gosh,
are you going to
do the laundry?
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-Thank you so much.
-No, this is what
you're doing.
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Dad's going to do the laundry.
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I'm just bringing it
here for you.
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Wow.
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Don't throw it.
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[Zach] Hey, hey, hey.
I told you this was
going to get out of hand.
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[screaming]
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Every time I play
or roughhouse with the kids,
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I seem to get in trouble
for doing it
but then Zach can do it.
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-[laughing]
-Ow!
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That one... [laughing]
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That one went so fast
I didn't even see it. [laughs]
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You guys get all crazy
and then he doesn't know
how to calm down
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and then you yell at him
and then the whole
emotional uproar.
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Here, take it. [laughs]
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Okay. Mom's done.
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Before I get in trouble.
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Testosterone's raging
through that kid's body.
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That's why I say simmer down.
I see it.
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Like, he's, like, raging.
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I think Si-Si
is ready for bed.
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[Zach] I'll put him down
toward you.
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We're going to put
the cute little baby to bed.
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[Zach] It's been one month
since my shunt surgery.
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I don't have any restrictions,
or--
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You were more restricted
than I was after a C-section,
though.
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Like, the things
that you couldn't do.
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Yeah, 'cause they had to
take care of me.
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About two weeks
after my surgery,
I got my staples out.
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[Tori] Let me see.
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-Ooh. A little bit
of dandruff.
-Can you see holes?
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Can you see the holes?
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Wait, they kept your staples?
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And Jackson's touching them?
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Yeah, I told the guy,
I was like, I'm just going to
breathe really hard.
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Don't mind me.
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And then, like, the first one,
I'm like [breathes]
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or whatever I was doing
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and he's like, are you okay?
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I'm like, yep. I told you,
I'm fine.
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-Just do it.
-Just do it.
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Did they put any, like,
numbing cream
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or was it just like
balls to the wall,
they just did it?
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-Balls to the wall.
-Ew.
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Stick your hand in
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and then pull it out.
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Like that.
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Okay, now go. Fold it.
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Man, folding laundry
is the worst.
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You folded
two articles of clothing.
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I know.
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Do you have
any appreciation for me
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that I do this
every day of my life?
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I, but, yeah, I do.
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-[Tori] But what?
-I have a lot of appreciation.
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-[Tori] But what?
-I do. It's simply the worst.
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It's simply the worst
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and I can never
be on top of it.
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It's never ending.
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Life's definitely been busy.
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Three kids and a husband
recovering from surgery.
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Change a couple more diapers.
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Make a couple more meals.
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-She had to play
a little bit more defense.
-Yeah.
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Look at Lilah trying to help.
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Lilah's so helpful compared to
the rest of you knuckleheads.
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When I can't pass the kids off
to go take a shower,
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I definitely notice it
a little bit more.
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I feel like
it's an emotional thing
rather than a physical burden.
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Totally.
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I have an appointment
coming up
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and I think it ends
this whole shunt situation.
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[Zach]
I don't think I've had any--
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Well, it's never going to be
done with,
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so don't get in that mindset
when your brain explodes
again.
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Honestly, I think I'm just
grateful too
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that I think
we finally have answers
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of what's been going on
for the last 10 years
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and hoping that
we don't have to deal with it
for another 10 years
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and yeah. We're happy
to have him home.
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How are you doing
since this whole scenario?
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Good.
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Like I'm the only one
who's kept it together.
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You have.
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You did good. [laughs]
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[Zach] Some wives
would have freaked out
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and had mental breakdowns.
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You kept it together.
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Tori handles
everything that comes with me
very well.
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[laughs]
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And she supports me awesome.
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And yeah,
I put her through a lot.
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[laughs]
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And she's still here, so...
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Well, imagine if you had
a wife that, like
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-couldn't deal with this.
-Oh, God help me.
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Imagine if you had a wife
that, like, any little thing
happened, they completely--
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Oh, yeah.
It would have been over.
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She's kind of like the rock.
[laughs]
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I'm like the sandstone.
Just keep breaking. [laughs]
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Like, I was definitely nervous
in the hospital.
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Hopefully this thing
stays together
for another 15 years.
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I hope you stay together
for another 15 years.
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I'm still in, like, you know,
post-traumatic stress
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from, like, the pain
and, like, the headaches
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and every time my head aches
or something,
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you know, oh, is this going to
lead up to something worse?
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So that might take a while
to get out of that.
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[Zach] Well, I'm still here,
you're still here.
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-Thank you.
-Yeah.
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For being here.
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Now the crisis is over,
we can start living life.
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-Um, do you want to tackle
this bucket now?
-Oh, yeah.
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Well, you have been
a busy bee.
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Is this the fireplace?
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-That's one possibility.
-Oh, okay.
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-On your wish, we added--
-Thank you.
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Isn't that better?
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I think it is, yeah.
Finn certainly liked it
better.
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-Finn always likes
what I say.
-Yeah.
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'Cause he's an artiste.
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Early next week,
Karen is going to be
heading out of town
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so I'm going to
give her one last chance
to influence the plans
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and the decisions
and a lot of the choices
that I'm making
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and I'm sure there'll be
a million other things
that come up while she's gone.
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If this shelf
came to the top of this,
it was like a border.
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Okay.
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And then this
lined up with that.
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Yeah, you like it better.
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Yeah.
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We've engaged
with a, you know, designer
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to help us, uh,
work out the details
of the house.
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She's really just helping us
narrow down this or that.
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We're kind of coming in
with ideas
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and then she's like,
oh, this would be great
and it's all overwhelming
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and so she's sort of
our sounding board.
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Are you going to be okay
when you're gone
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with me making
all these decisions?
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I'm going to have to be.
[laughs]
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Okay. All right.
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-Just call me first.
-All right.
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-I want this to be our house.
-Well, I appreciate that.
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But it is still
always going to be
your house
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-No.
-that we're going to share.
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I do look at it that way.
We're not married.
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This is Matt's house
that I happen to
cohabitate in.
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We have heard
that building homes,
construction, remodel,
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can cause divorces.
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We don't have to worry
about that.
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[laughs] Don't have to worry
about that.
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Um, and then are you happy
about moving the shower
so you're closer?
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Yeah, let me look at that.
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It was funny,
'cause I mentioned that to you
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and you're like,
oh, no, we're not doing that.
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And then the designer's like,
why is the shower
way over here?
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Well, you pushed on it.
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She's got to agree
to some of the stuff,
you know.
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I tell you all the time.
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You make the final decision.
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In the end,
it doesn't matter to me
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if the house is this,
or this, or this.
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Karen's famous.
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That's a crazy idea,
but you make the call.
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That's the craziest thing
I've ever heard.
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That will look so ugly,
but you decide.
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Click.
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I get left with...
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Hey, I'm trying to work
through a collaboration.
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That's a terrible idea,
but it's your decision.
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That's a terrible idea
but it's your call.
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Go to bed with that.
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She's in Arizona,
I'm up here and I get that.
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And then, good night.
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So beside all house stuff,
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what else are you going to do
while I'm gone?
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Chris and I are going forward
with that guys' night.
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That'll happen
a couple of nights
after you leave.
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-Oh, good.
-So you're going to have
a girls' thing.
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We're going to have
a guys' night
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and I talked to Zach,
haven't talked to him
in the last couple of days,
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but when I talked to him,
he seemed to be doing good,
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so I'm happy
that he got through
all that revision stuff.
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Yeah, probably feels better
than he has in a long time.
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Yeah, I think
last time I talked to him,
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he definitely was
noticeably better.
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Checked in on Zach
a couple of times
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and it seemed like
he was recovering well.
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I think the phrase
he used for me
was gamechanger.
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So he's not expecting
any more headaches
like he had before.
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Um, it feels like Zach's
on a good road to recovery.
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Well, now that we're
getting a home, we've got to
figure us out.
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-But let's give it
a little breathing room.
-Okay.
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I mean, we won't have any
baby footsteps running around.
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-That's not where we're at.
-No.
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But grandkids...
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It's a little bigger
than we should have built,
probably.
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I mean, you know,
but I think
at least we don't worry
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about not having room
for all my junk.
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Lilah has started
taking dance classes
and she loves it.
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Oh, oh, whoa.
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Well, we'll see
how this fundraiser goes.
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Amy and I were talking about
doing a charity event.
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I think the biggest thing is,
um,
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do I want to go
down this road again?
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Having it at the farm
and with them.
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Matt offered the farm up
to, you know, host this,
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but Matt and I have history
and it wasn't always pleasant
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so we'll see
how smoothly it goes.
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Come on.
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[Zach] We're building
a shop right now.
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Downstairs is going to be
for the tractors
and all the tools.
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And, uh, create more of
an official workspace.
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Oh my goodness.
239
00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,100
[laughs] Yeah.
240
00:11:16,100 --> 00:11:17,567
Jackson, look at this.
241
00:11:17,567 --> 00:11:19,934
[Zach] Shop's where Dad
is going to spend
a lot of time.
242
00:11:20,467 --> 00:11:22,567
Dad's space, not Mom's.
243
00:11:22,567 --> 00:11:25,967
Growing up, I didn't spend
a lot of time tinkering
at the farm.
244
00:11:25,967 --> 00:11:27,367
I spent a lot of time
walking around the farm,
245
00:11:27,367 --> 00:11:30,967
but I never got into, like,
the tinkering, fixing things,
246
00:11:30,967 --> 00:11:35,033
but now, I'll be able to
have my own space and maybe
get into that more.
247
00:11:35,667 --> 00:11:36,867
So this is going to be a wall.
248
00:11:36,867 --> 00:11:38,333
There's going to be
a wall right here.
249
00:11:40,266 --> 00:11:41,834
Hang on, let me see
what Lilah's doing.
250
00:11:42,367 --> 00:11:43,533
What are you doing?
251
00:11:44,667 --> 00:11:45,934
Get unstuck.
252
00:11:46,467 --> 00:11:47,634
Pull.
253
00:11:49,767 --> 00:11:50,934
Can you back up?
254
00:11:52,367 --> 00:11:53,433
Gosh.
255
00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,233
This is why we walk
around the mud, okay?
256
00:12:07,266 --> 00:12:08,834
-[Tori] What?
-What?
257
00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,967
[Tori] How'd you get up there?
258
00:12:11,967 --> 00:12:15,567
[Zach] The next steps for it
is just finishing that framing
259
00:12:15,567 --> 00:12:17,266
and then getting
the plywood on the roof,
260
00:12:17,266 --> 00:12:19,467
building out
the dormer windows.
261
00:12:19,467 --> 00:12:22,767
I've never seen
a structure be built
from foundation to roof.
262
00:12:22,767 --> 00:12:24,166
Oh, yeah.
Big learning experience.
263
00:12:24,166 --> 00:12:27,166
So it's been kind of fun
to, like, learn.
264
00:12:27,166 --> 00:12:31,066
I say instead of,
'cause we talked about doing
one of those porcelain sinks
265
00:12:31,066 --> 00:12:32,667
-that doesn't have
any storage.
-Yeah.
266
00:12:32,667 --> 00:12:35,834
I say we get
a short sink in here
267
00:12:36,900 --> 00:12:39,667
and its cabinet built in.
268
00:12:39,667 --> 00:12:42,166
-So you have storage
underneath.
-I think that ship has sailed.
269
00:12:42,166 --> 00:12:44,767
No it hasn't. I'm the one
that's in charge of that.
270
00:12:44,767 --> 00:12:46,900
The light switches
and the windows are low.
271
00:12:46,900 --> 00:12:49,467
And the bathroom sink
is going to be super low.
272
00:12:49,467 --> 00:12:53,867
And all the light switches
are, like, 24 inches high.
273
00:12:53,867 --> 00:12:55,467
So our kids can sit there
and turn them on and off.
274
00:12:55,467 --> 00:12:57,967
Yeah, so our kids
can sit there
and turn them on and off.
275
00:12:57,967 --> 00:12:59,667
All right. Do you guys
have to get ready for dance?
276
00:12:59,667 --> 00:13:01,467
We do have to get ready
for dance.
277
00:13:01,467 --> 00:13:02,900
Tell the boys, bye.
278
00:13:02,900 --> 00:13:04,367
-[Zach] All right, Lilah.
-Goodbye, boys.
279
00:13:04,367 --> 00:13:05,567
-[Zach] You're going to dance?
-Bye.
280
00:13:05,567 --> 00:13:07,767
Lilah has started
taking dance classes
281
00:13:07,767 --> 00:13:09,900
and she's doing
just ballet right now.
282
00:13:09,900 --> 00:13:12,400
[Tori] I was just thinking
she really needs
to be socialized
283
00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:14,166
and if I put her
on a sports field,
284
00:13:14,166 --> 00:13:16,567
-she'd probably think
that we were killing her.
-[Zach] Oh, yeah.
285
00:13:16,567 --> 00:13:19,066
-Anything with bouncing balls.
-Anything, anything that--
286
00:13:19,066 --> 00:13:20,767
A basketball comes up to her,
ugh.
287
00:13:20,767 --> 00:13:23,100
Yeah, I just couldn't
imagine her
doing sports.
288
00:13:23,100 --> 00:13:27,400
So I did dance
and she went to two classes
and ended up loving it.
289
00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:28,967
And she talks about it.
290
00:13:28,967 --> 00:13:31,266
She comes home
and shows everyone
her dance moves
291
00:13:31,266 --> 00:13:33,266
and she loves it, so it stuck.
292
00:13:43,100 --> 00:13:44,233
Can you do that?
293
00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,200
[Tori] In front of
all the dance moms,
294
00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,667
one little girl came out
and said she had to go
to the bathroom.
295
00:13:49,667 --> 00:13:51,700
So then Lilah comes out
and says she has to go
to the bathroom.
296
00:13:51,700 --> 00:13:53,367
And I'm like, no, no, no.
We're not going to
play this game.
297
00:13:53,367 --> 00:13:54,900
Just because somebody else
is going pee-pee,
298
00:13:54,900 --> 00:13:56,667
we're not going to,
like, do it.
299
00:13:56,667 --> 00:13:59,467
Well, five minutes later,
she peed her pants right there
300
00:13:59,467 --> 00:14:01,567
and I felt like
a terrible mom.
301
00:14:01,567 --> 00:14:04,166
So bad, it was, like,
a whole big thing, too.
302
00:14:05,500 --> 00:14:08,233
But that was my fault.
It was a bad mom move.
303
00:14:09,300 --> 00:14:11,233
Now we always
go to the bathroom
before dance class.
304
00:14:15,066 --> 00:14:16,667
Wait, Lilah. Come here.
305
00:14:16,667 --> 00:14:18,000
Come right here and do it.
306
00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,367
Go right on this little dot.
Do it right there.
307
00:14:20,367 --> 00:14:21,767
Okay. Do your twirl.
308
00:14:23,066 --> 00:14:26,200
Oh! Perfect.
309
00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:27,166
Okay. Do it again.
310
00:14:28,500 --> 00:14:31,600
Ooh. That was good.
311
00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:35,867
I think the dance class
has given Lilah
something of her own.
312
00:14:35,867 --> 00:14:36,800
Yeah.
313
00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:37,900
It's something that she does
314
00:14:37,900 --> 00:14:40,166
and I think that
that's given her
a lot of confidence.
315
00:14:40,166 --> 00:14:41,367
Yeah.
316
00:14:41,367 --> 00:14:42,500
Okay. Really quick.
Show Daddy,
then we've got to go.
317
00:14:42,500 --> 00:14:43,467
Are you ready?
318
00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,800
Oh, oh, whoa.
319
00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:48,066
Hey, Lilah.
320
00:14:48,066 --> 00:14:49,567
[Tori] Wait, Lilah.
Try one more time.
You've got it, girl.
321
00:14:49,567 --> 00:14:50,734
Lilah.
322
00:14:50,734 --> 00:14:52,667
-Lilah, you've got to do that
without falling.
-Hey, Lilah.
323
00:14:53,266 --> 00:14:54,567
-Yeah.
-[Tori] There you go.
324
00:14:54,567 --> 00:14:55,667
Hey, Lilah.
325
00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,800
[Tori] See, it's not easy.
326
00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,100
-[Zach] Okay, okay.
I think we're all done.
-[Tori] All right. Got to go.
327
00:15:03,100 --> 00:15:05,100
-Ow!
-[Zach] Yeah.
328
00:15:05,100 --> 00:15:07,433
[Tori] Are you okay?
Let's put your shoes on.
329
00:15:15,700 --> 00:15:18,867
Main thing, cabinets,
carpet, flooring.
330
00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,533
Now, you want to know
the truth, right?
331
00:15:23,100 --> 00:15:24,100
The truth? Yeah.
332
00:15:24,100 --> 00:15:25,066
You can't handle the truth.
333
00:15:25,900 --> 00:15:27,500
You can't handle the truth.
334
00:15:27,500 --> 00:15:30,700
The truth is
I don't care much
about all this stuff in here.
335
00:15:30,700 --> 00:15:32,767
I care about what's happening
back at the farm.
336
00:15:32,767 --> 00:15:35,567
Well, that's obvious,
but it all has to work
together.
337
00:15:35,567 --> 00:15:40,066
You can't just abandon me
with all this stuff.
338
00:15:40,066 --> 00:15:42,567
Karen's leaving for Arizona
tomorrow,
339
00:15:42,567 --> 00:15:47,567
so Cherie, our designer,
sent us to the flooring store
340
00:15:47,567 --> 00:15:52,266
to look at some flooring,
you know, textures and color.
341
00:15:52,266 --> 00:15:53,767
I feel a lot of pressure
right now,
342
00:15:53,767 --> 00:15:56,200
because Karen's
going to be leaving,
going out of town,
343
00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,266
so it's more difficult
to make decisions
344
00:15:58,266 --> 00:16:00,667
when you're trying
to save time,
345
00:16:00,667 --> 00:16:02,667
you know, you're not
physically right there
346
00:16:02,667 --> 00:16:05,100
in the same showroom together.
347
00:16:05,100 --> 00:16:06,367
You ready?
348
00:16:06,367 --> 00:16:08,300
What have you got?
349
00:16:08,300 --> 00:16:10,166
Da, da, da.
350
00:16:11,367 --> 00:16:12,533
No.
351
00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:14,600
Too light.
352
00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,600
Okay, that's your
tadum, tadum, tadum.
353
00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,734
Look at my
tadum, tadum, tadum.
354
00:16:21,867 --> 00:16:23,367
There. The top one up there.
355
00:16:23,367 --> 00:16:24,433
[laughs]
356
00:16:25,166 --> 00:16:27,066
That's like a black floor
almost.
357
00:16:27,066 --> 00:16:28,300
That is so dark.
358
00:16:28,300 --> 00:16:30,900
How about, look at the grains
in this one.
359
00:16:30,900 --> 00:16:34,367
You want the grains
or the color?
360
00:16:34,367 --> 00:16:35,567
Both.
361
00:16:35,567 --> 00:16:38,000
All right. I mean,
if you want to throw that
in the mix.
362
00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:39,166
You think that's too dark?
363
00:16:39,900 --> 00:16:43,166
I do,
but here's the good thing.
364
00:16:43,166 --> 00:16:44,266
The designer decides.
365
00:16:44,266 --> 00:16:46,467
We pick the ones we like
and then she decides.
366
00:16:46,467 --> 00:16:49,667
You know what's interesting?
As soon as it starts going
in a direction you don't like,
367
00:16:49,667 --> 00:16:52,266
then it goes, oh, let's get
the designer to help.
368
00:16:52,266 --> 00:16:54,800
The designer has picked up
what I do.
369
00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:56,100
Well, you can do that.
370
00:16:56,100 --> 00:16:58,533
I mean, I think
it's a terrible idea,
but yeah. Go ahead.
371
00:17:00,066 --> 00:17:01,867
I think it's a terrible idea
but go ahead.
372
00:17:01,867 --> 00:17:03,367
-I think it's going to look
terrible.
-Yeah, she does say that.
373
00:17:03,367 --> 00:17:04,700
But it's up to you guys.
374
00:17:04,700 --> 00:17:07,166
That's really bad.
That's really ugly, but okay.
375
00:17:07,166 --> 00:17:10,066
That's what Karen says
to me all the time.
376
00:17:10,066 --> 00:17:11,667
I'm like, I love that style.
377
00:17:11,667 --> 00:17:15,066
I want to put
some barnwood in my office.
Just, like, one piece.
378
00:17:15,066 --> 00:17:17,567
All right. Well, that would be
really obnoxious, but okay.
379
00:17:18,567 --> 00:17:23,066
Maybe one of the bathrooms
has this barnwood look.
380
00:17:24,967 --> 00:17:26,233
Seriously?
381
00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,900
The house is definitely
more contemporary
382
00:17:29,900 --> 00:17:32,200
than anything else on the farm
383
00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,767
and so it's not a barn
384
00:17:33,767 --> 00:17:37,100
and so, you know,
you don't want to try to
make it look like a barn.
385
00:17:37,100 --> 00:17:39,000
Why not?
386
00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:41,367
This is the way
we're going to do it
from now on.
387
00:17:41,367 --> 00:17:42,667
Find a product that you like.
388
00:17:43,500 --> 00:17:45,500
You tell me
where you don't want it
389
00:17:45,500 --> 00:17:47,367
and wherever's left
is where I'll put it.
390
00:17:48,567 --> 00:17:49,967
Is this a product you like?
391
00:17:49,967 --> 00:17:51,166
That's a product I like.
392
00:17:52,266 --> 00:17:53,367
You want to know
where I want it?
393
00:17:54,166 --> 00:17:55,467
In the, where?
394
00:17:55,467 --> 00:17:56,934
-Nowhere.
-Nowhere?
395
00:17:57,967 --> 00:18:01,767
Now that we're making
all these decisions
on this house,
396
00:18:01,767 --> 00:18:03,767
I can kind of sympathize
with Amy.
397
00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:09,467
You're so persuasive
and you just stay on it
and gnaw at it
398
00:18:09,467 --> 00:18:10,634
until I'm like, you know what?
399
00:18:11,100 --> 00:18:12,100
I don't care.
400
00:18:12,100 --> 00:18:13,967
My mother used to say,
he grinds on it.
401
00:18:13,967 --> 00:18:15,500
[laughing]
402
00:18:15,500 --> 00:18:18,066
You know what?
You just hurt
my personal feelings.
403
00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:19,900
I'm actually kidding.
404
00:18:19,900 --> 00:18:21,667
I mean, yeah.
Let's bring it out
405
00:18:21,667 --> 00:18:23,667
and maybe Cherie
can find a place for it.
406
00:18:23,667 --> 00:18:27,266
By rejecting that product,
I am now damaged goods.
407
00:18:27,266 --> 00:18:29,467
But look. Elegant.
408
00:18:29,467 --> 00:18:32,000
-I'm going to go with that.
-Sophisticated.
409
00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,066
Still warm and rustic.
410
00:18:35,166 --> 00:18:36,767
Barn doesn't...
411
00:18:36,767 --> 00:18:39,467
So certain things
just need to--
412
00:18:39,467 --> 00:18:43,000
What's that hotel
we went to years ago
where every room is different?
413
00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:44,867
Madonna Inn
or something like that.
414
00:18:44,867 --> 00:18:46,266
You went there with Amy,
not me.
415
00:18:46,266 --> 00:18:47,233
Oh, sorry.
416
00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,266
Get your girlfriends straight.
417
00:18:50,667 --> 00:18:52,400
[laughs]
418
00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,600
Okay. Well,
every room was different.
419
00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,100
That's what I want to achieve.
420
00:18:56,100 --> 00:18:58,133
-Well...
-When you walk
into every room,
421
00:18:58,500 --> 00:18:59,734
it's unique.
422
00:19:01,166 --> 00:19:03,900
We've got problems, then.
423
00:19:03,900 --> 00:19:06,667
'Cause we talked about
a cohesive look.
424
00:19:06,667 --> 00:19:12,300
Well, there's a lot of choices
and Karen's taste and my taste
are not always,
425
00:19:12,300 --> 00:19:16,000
I mean, we're sort of
in the same neighborhood,
often.
426
00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,800
Um, but, you know,
I like certain things
427
00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,867
and she likes
different things.
428
00:19:20,867 --> 00:19:23,667
Uh, I wish we had made
a little more progress,
429
00:19:23,667 --> 00:19:25,700
but I guess something's
better than nothing.
430
00:19:25,700 --> 00:19:28,333
I like a little more rustic,
a little more natural.
431
00:19:29,066 --> 00:19:30,300
Rustic and natural.
432
00:19:30,300 --> 00:19:31,634
And I like steel.
433
00:19:32,166 --> 00:19:34,066
Metal steel with big bolts.
434
00:19:34,667 --> 00:19:35,900
She doesn't like big bolts.
435
00:19:35,900 --> 00:19:38,200
I never said
I didn't like big bolts.
436
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:42,800
I don't like big bolts
from 1917.
437
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,900
It happened to be 1937
that the Golden Gate Bridge
was built
438
00:19:46,900 --> 00:19:48,367
and they used lots of rivets.
439
00:19:48,367 --> 00:19:50,467
And it looks a wonderful look.
440
00:19:50,467 --> 00:19:52,367
-Do you think we've
made any progress?
-No.
441
00:19:53,367 --> 00:19:54,533
But it's a good start.
442
00:19:55,767 --> 00:19:58,266
I think that, like, everything
that we went through
443
00:19:58,266 --> 00:20:00,667
definitely, like,
puts things into perspective.
444
00:20:00,667 --> 00:20:02,400
All these issues
are still here
445
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:05,166
and, you know,
the other shoe can drop
at any time,
446
00:20:05,166 --> 00:20:07,400
but I would go through
millions of surgeries
447
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,667
before I want my kids
to go through a surgery.
448
00:20:30,100 --> 00:20:31,400
[Tori] Hey, who's gonna win?
449
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:32,967
-[Lilah speaking]
-[Jackson speaking]
450
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:34,934
[Lilah speaking]
451
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,467
[Zach] It's been a month
since my surgery,
452
00:20:37,467 --> 00:20:39,567
and the whole family's
gonna go bowling.
453
00:20:39,567 --> 00:20:42,467
Feels good. Feels, you know,
still not out of the woods,
454
00:20:42,467 --> 00:20:45,467
but it feels good to be out
of that, you know, time.
455
00:20:45,467 --> 00:20:47,266
Why don't you put
your shoes on?
456
00:20:47,266 --> 00:20:51,100
Oh, we're not just gonna
pull our pants down right
here, thanks, though.
457
00:20:51,100 --> 00:20:53,767
[Tori] The actual reason
why we went bowling,
458
00:20:53,767 --> 00:20:55,367
was because a couple
of weeks ago,
459
00:20:55,367 --> 00:20:57,700
one Saturday, we're sitting
around, just bored,
460
00:20:57,700 --> 00:21:00,867
-and Dad's like, "Hey, who
wants to go bowling?"
-[Zach] Oh, yeah.
461
00:21:00,867 --> 00:21:03,166
And all of us were, like,
"Yeah! Let's go bowling!"
462
00:21:03,166 --> 00:21:04,266
-Yeah.
-And we're packing up,
463
00:21:04,266 --> 00:21:06,467
we're literally
getting in the car,
464
00:21:06,467 --> 00:21:07,767
and Jackson goes,
465
00:21:08,300 --> 00:21:09,800
"Guys.
466
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,166
Dad can't lift more
than 10 pounds."
467
00:21:12,166 --> 00:21:15,100
-Yeah. Yeah.
-"And a bowling ball is
more than 10 pounds."
468
00:21:15,100 --> 00:21:18,000
-And Zack and I
looked at each other...
-So we didn't go bowling.
469
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:22,367
Our five-year-old is
being more responsible
than we are at this point.
470
00:21:22,367 --> 00:21:24,433
So we didn't go
bowling. [chuckles]
471
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:37,967
We like bowling. We like...
472
00:21:37,967 --> 00:21:39,734
-We've done it
a couple of times.
-Easy with the kids.
473
00:21:40,867 --> 00:21:43,066
-[Tori] Oh, Daddy-o!
-[Zach] There we go!
474
00:21:43,066 --> 00:21:45,767
-[Tori] Wow! Oh!
-[Zach] There we go!
475
00:21:45,767 --> 00:21:47,667
[Tori] Honestly,
it's like, easy,
476
00:21:47,667 --> 00:21:49,700
'cause we just get
out of the house for
a couple of hours.
477
00:21:49,700 --> 00:21:52,066
-[Zach] Yeah.
-It's nice to just get out.
478
00:21:52,066 --> 00:21:55,367
-Let them get some energy out.
-And it's fun watching
Jackson do new things.
479
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,100
[Tori] Watch fingers!
480
00:21:59,100 --> 00:22:01,767
-[Jackson speaking]
-[Lilah speaking]
481
00:22:06,300 --> 00:22:08,433
-[Jackson] Wow, straight!
-[Zach] Oh, wow, wow, yeah.
482
00:22:10,100 --> 00:22:11,700
[Tori] Ooh!
483
00:22:11,700 --> 00:22:13,000
[Lilah squeals excitedly]
484
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,400
[Tori] That's so cute.
Jackson helps Lilah
with her ball,
485
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,767
Lilah does not care,
as long as there's snacks.
486
00:22:17,767 --> 00:22:19,867
She's, like, "Sure,
I'll go along with it."
487
00:22:19,867 --> 00:22:21,767
-[Lilah speaking]
-Go.
488
00:22:23,967 --> 00:22:26,900
[Tori] Wow, look at it, Lilah!
You gotta watch it!
489
00:22:26,900 --> 00:22:27,934
[Zach] Uh-oh.
490
00:22:28,667 --> 00:22:30,200
[Tori] Wow, Lilah!
491
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,333
[Jackson speaking]
492
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,800
Well, nobody got any stripes,
493
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,667
-'cause we're not tigers.
-They're called strikes.
494
00:22:42,567 --> 00:22:43,934
-There you go.
-Strikes.
495
00:22:44,767 --> 00:22:46,567
[Tori] Oh!
496
00:22:46,567 --> 00:22:48,767
[Tori and Zach] Oh! Oh!
497
00:22:48,767 --> 00:22:50,066
[both yelling] Oh!
498
00:22:53,367 --> 00:22:54,467
[Tori] Good job, J!
499
00:22:54,467 --> 00:22:56,000
[Tori] How big was
your bowling ball?
500
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,667
[Josiah babbling]
501
00:22:57,667 --> 00:22:59,266
Or, like, how heavy?
502
00:22:59,266 --> 00:23:00,834
So what was the number
that was on it?
503
00:23:01,767 --> 00:23:03,900
-Six pounds.
-[Josiah continues babbling]
504
00:23:03,900 --> 00:23:05,667
[Zach] Tori, you were
losing the whole game!
505
00:23:05,667 --> 00:23:06,867
Now you're gonna win it.
506
00:23:06,867 --> 00:23:08,567
I'm gonna, I'm gonna blow
it right here. Watch.
507
00:23:08,567 --> 00:23:10,634
You just have to hit one pin,
and you're gonna win.
508
00:23:11,367 --> 00:23:12,533
[Tori] Oh wait, really?
509
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,867
-[Tori] Strike.
-[Zach] Oh my gosh.
510
00:23:18,867 --> 00:23:20,467
-[Tori] Whoa!
-[Zach laughs]
511
00:23:20,467 --> 00:23:22,000
[Tori] Finally!
512
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,300
-That's annoying.
-[Tori] I win!
513
00:23:24,300 --> 00:23:25,533
[Zach] Who's the best bowler?
514
00:23:26,467 --> 00:23:28,767
-[Zach laughs]
-Pretty sure I won.
515
00:23:28,767 --> 00:23:30,333
Yeah, Mom did win.
516
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,300
Mom got a strike
at the very end.
517
00:23:38,300 --> 00:23:40,467
I think Si-Si's
the best bowler.
518
00:23:40,467 --> 00:23:42,100
[Tori chuckles]
519
00:23:42,100 --> 00:23:45,066
[Zach] Glad I'm over
my ordeal.
520
00:23:45,066 --> 00:23:46,667
[Tori] You were falling apart.
521
00:23:46,667 --> 00:23:49,467
I know, I am falling apart.
I already told you that.
522
00:23:49,467 --> 00:23:52,400
I think I've been pretty
clear about my falling
apart since day one.
523
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:53,667
[Tori] I don't know,
though. Have you?
524
00:23:53,667 --> 00:23:56,200
I have.
You chose to ignore it.
525
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,667
-Did I, though?
-Yeah. [chuckles]
526
00:23:57,667 --> 00:23:59,000
[Zach] It's always something.
527
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,367
-There's always some--
-There's always some headache,
528
00:24:01,367 --> 00:24:04,000
-some gut ache.
-Ache. Yeah.
529
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,567
-Some ache.
-Knee ache, toe ache.
530
00:24:06,567 --> 00:24:07,767
Brain ache.
531
00:24:07,767 --> 00:24:09,200
[Tori] I think, though,
once you hit 30,
532
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,567
it's really just a new
world for everyone.
533
00:24:11,567 --> 00:24:14,066
It's, like, things
just make noises, and...
534
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,567
-Yeah.
-...things start
breaking down.
535
00:24:17,567 --> 00:24:20,667
No, I think that,
like, everything that
we went through,
536
00:24:20,667 --> 00:24:22,867
for sure, makes you,
like, more grateful,
537
00:24:22,867 --> 00:24:25,967
for every, like, day
that everyone's healthy,
538
00:24:25,967 --> 00:24:27,567
and everyone's good.
539
00:24:27,567 --> 00:24:28,900
-[Zach] Oh, yeah.
-[Tori] You know?
540
00:24:28,900 --> 00:24:31,266
-[ball crashes into pins]
-Right?
541
00:24:31,266 --> 00:24:32,734
I think about that
all the time, now.
542
00:24:35,300 --> 00:24:37,333
It definitely, like, puts
things into perspective.
543
00:24:38,767 --> 00:24:41,667
And, like, the fact that all
of our kids are able to bowl.
544
00:24:41,667 --> 00:24:43,367
Oh, yeah, bowl. Not just bowl,
545
00:24:43,367 --> 00:24:45,000
but they're all
very capable kids.
546
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,467
[Tori chuckles] Okay, can
you just turn around?
547
00:24:46,467 --> 00:24:47,867
[Zach] Regardless, you know
what I'm saying?
548
00:24:47,867 --> 00:24:49,867
-Right.
-They're all very capable.
549
00:24:49,867 --> 00:24:51,400
Right.
550
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,600
[Zach] When it comes
to what I just went through
with hydrocephalus,
551
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,166
and shutting all function,
and all that,
552
00:24:56,166 --> 00:24:57,967
I feel like our kids
are old enough now
553
00:24:57,967 --> 00:24:59,567
that they might
be out of that.
554
00:24:59,567 --> 00:25:01,367
-Hopefully.
-It's a very common thing,
555
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,300
at a young baby age.
556
00:25:03,300 --> 00:25:05,700
But you can get
a shunt at any time.
557
00:25:05,700 --> 00:25:08,300
You can get a need
for a shunt any time.
558
00:25:08,300 --> 00:25:10,066
You know, you can
get cancer, you can,
559
00:25:10,066 --> 00:25:12,300
there's a lot of different
things that can happen.
560
00:25:12,300 --> 00:25:14,166
Three dwarf kids
are doing pretty good.
561
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,800
We're blessed.
That's for sure.
562
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,567
[Zach] They still got
a lot of life to live, though.
563
00:25:19,667 --> 00:25:21,667
They have a lot of time
to break down, like Dad.
564
00:25:21,667 --> 00:25:23,567
Yeah. [chuckles]
565
00:25:23,567 --> 00:25:25,567
[Zach] I would go
through 20 surgeries,
566
00:25:25,567 --> 00:25:27,100
a hundred,
millions of surgeries,
567
00:25:27,100 --> 00:25:29,100
before I want my kids
to go through a surgery.
568
00:25:29,100 --> 00:25:31,767
But, um, all these
issues are still here,
569
00:25:31,767 --> 00:25:34,300
and, you know, the other
shoe can drop any time.
570
00:25:34,300 --> 00:25:36,767
I don't think that's
in Tori's mindset,
571
00:25:36,767 --> 00:25:38,867
to wait for the other
shoe to drop.
572
00:25:38,867 --> 00:25:40,467
I don't think that's
her personality.
573
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,000
It's probably more mine,
if anything.
574
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,100
With, like, kids,
like, I'll, my next,
575
00:25:45,100 --> 00:25:47,166
when's one of our kids
gonna have an issue?
576
00:25:47,166 --> 00:25:48,800
But, you know,
we'll take it one step,
577
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,133
one, you know, day at a time.
578
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,333
Gonna break
the floor! [laughs]
579
00:25:57,700 --> 00:25:58,767
[Matt] Coming up...
580
00:25:58,767 --> 00:26:00,367
So being relatively
new married,
581
00:26:00,367 --> 00:26:01,467
how's that changed your life?
582
00:26:01,467 --> 00:26:05,000
That's what I wanna know!
What is the hardest part?
583
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,600
[Chris] It was hard sharing,
584
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,767
and cleaning up
after somebody else,
and closing doors.
585
00:26:09,767 --> 00:26:11,567
[Matt] You're not trying
to convince me that Amy
586
00:26:11,567 --> 00:26:13,367
doesn't close doors
behind her?
587
00:26:13,367 --> 00:26:15,100
She's always been like that?
588
00:26:15,100 --> 00:26:16,667
[both laugh]
589
00:26:16,667 --> 00:26:18,767
Drives me a little nutty too,
when people don't do that.
590
00:26:30,567 --> 00:26:32,567
Boy, it's a little slippery
out there, isn't it?
591
00:26:32,567 --> 00:26:34,433
-[Ty shouts]
-Very. Very.
592
00:26:34,900 --> 00:26:36,100
I can see your breath!
593
00:26:36,100 --> 00:26:38,100
Caryn's away,
and it's a perfect time
594
00:26:38,100 --> 00:26:39,867
to get Chris and Bill and Ty,
595
00:26:39,867 --> 00:26:41,300
a couple of my
buddies together,
596
00:26:41,300 --> 00:26:42,800
and, you know,
just kind of hang out.
597
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,166
I think both of 'em
have met Chris briefly,
598
00:26:45,166 --> 00:26:47,667
on multiple family
events and things.
599
00:26:47,667 --> 00:26:50,667
So Ty came to me specifically,
600
00:26:50,667 --> 00:26:53,567
and said, "We gotta
set up a guy's night,
601
00:26:53,567 --> 00:26:55,800
and hang out with them."
I said "Great!" So we did.
602
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,166
-[Ty] Oh, fire.
-[Chris] Wow.
603
00:26:58,166 --> 00:26:59,667
[Ty] Get that thing stoked up.
604
00:26:59,667 --> 00:27:01,400
[Chris] Oh, the cabin
looks good.
605
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,100
-It does.
-Let's go check
it out, gentlemen.
606
00:27:03,100 --> 00:27:04,166
All right.
607
00:27:04,166 --> 00:27:08,166
I've known Matt now for,
what, six years, I think?
608
00:27:08,166 --> 00:27:11,567
And in the beginning,
I was really kind of
surprised that, uh,
609
00:27:11,567 --> 00:27:13,667
Matt was, uh,
as friendly as he was.
610
00:27:13,667 --> 00:27:15,600
You know, usually, you know,
611
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,166
you hear exes not being
too friendly with, uh,
612
00:27:19,166 --> 00:27:20,667
new significant others.
613
00:27:20,667 --> 00:27:22,000
I just know that
when we sit down,
614
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:23,166
and we have a conversation,
615
00:27:23,166 --> 00:27:25,000
you know, it feels like we're
talking the same language,
616
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,600
we just seem to have
a lot in common,
617
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,667
and, uh,
it's a great opportunity
618
00:27:28,667 --> 00:27:31,567
to, you know,
expand my friend circle,
619
00:27:31,567 --> 00:27:32,800
and, nice to be included.
620
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:33,934
Whoa!
621
00:27:34,467 --> 00:27:36,266
It's a little warm in here.
622
00:27:36,266 --> 00:27:37,767
[Chris] Oh!
623
00:27:37,767 --> 00:27:39,300
Oh, yeah. That feels good.
624
00:27:39,300 --> 00:27:41,867
Amy wasn't, by any means,
625
00:27:41,867 --> 00:27:44,000
encouraging me to go over
626
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,166
and do a guy's night,
627
00:27:46,166 --> 00:27:47,767
with Matt and his friends.
628
00:27:47,767 --> 00:27:50,266
But, you know,
she knew it was something
I wanted to do,
629
00:27:50,266 --> 00:27:52,367
and, um, fortunately,
630
00:27:52,367 --> 00:27:55,567
Amy's kinda gotten
used to the idea that,
631
00:27:55,567 --> 00:27:58,300
you know, we're gonna
keep running into each
other, you know?
632
00:27:58,300 --> 00:28:00,166
And, um,
633
00:28:00,166 --> 00:28:02,634
and it's, I think
in a healthy way.
634
00:28:03,166 --> 00:28:05,266
Ty, thanks
for pushing on this.
635
00:28:05,266 --> 00:28:06,767
[chuckles]
636
00:28:06,767 --> 00:28:09,600
-[Matt] Yeah, if Ty
hadn't been so persistent...
-[Chris chuckles] Yeah.
637
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,467
I really wanted to do this.
638
00:28:11,467 --> 00:28:12,667
Cheers to all of us.
639
00:28:12,667 --> 00:28:14,200
-[Chris] Yeah.
-[Ty] Here's to friends.
640
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,200
-[Matt] Here's to
friendship, yeah, yeah.
-[Ty] Whoo.
641
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,200
-[Bill] Cheers.
-[Ty] No, I really
wanted to do this.
642
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,266
Whoa, whoa.
643
00:28:19,266 --> 00:28:21,567
Am I the only one in
the group that's not married?
644
00:28:21,567 --> 00:28:22,767
[Ty] Yes!
645
00:28:22,767 --> 00:28:24,500
-[Ty laughs]
-That's not right.
646
00:28:24,500 --> 00:28:26,367
-[Ty] I know--
-Yeah!
647
00:28:26,367 --> 00:28:27,767
[all laugh]
648
00:28:27,767 --> 00:28:30,266
-I thought maybe this was
gonna be a bachelor--
-[Matt] Go back around!
649
00:28:30,266 --> 00:28:32,100
[Ty] I thought this was gonna
be a bachelor party.
650
00:28:32,100 --> 00:28:33,266
I was gonna, like,
pop the news on you?
651
00:28:33,266 --> 00:28:35,033
Yeah, I thought you were
gonna pop the news to us.
652
00:28:36,667 --> 00:28:38,500
Hey, you guys like?
I just added--
653
00:28:38,500 --> 00:28:40,066
[Ty] No, don't
change the subject.
654
00:28:40,066 --> 00:28:42,266
[Matt] I am changing
the subject.
655
00:28:42,266 --> 00:28:44,934
I've added curtains since
anybody's been down here.
These are new.
656
00:28:45,467 --> 00:28:46,500
[Ty] Those are nice.
657
00:28:46,500 --> 00:28:48,567
Are you gonna
start a family, Chris?
658
00:28:49,100 --> 00:28:50,967
[all laugh]
659
00:28:50,967 --> 00:28:54,400
We got a dog in
September, we're set.
660
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,467
-Yeah, Amy wants to
be pregnant again, right?
-I don't know!
661
00:28:56,467 --> 00:28:58,467
I don't if you know
the king of awkward questions.
662
00:28:58,467 --> 00:29:00,066
[all laugh]
663
00:29:00,066 --> 00:29:02,200
I know how much
Amy loves kids, man.
664
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,367
-You gotta have one more.
Come on, Chris.
-No, no. You know,
665
00:29:04,367 --> 00:29:05,767
never having kids of my own,
666
00:29:05,767 --> 00:29:08,367
I never thought I would
experience, you know,
the grandchild thing.
667
00:29:08,367 --> 00:29:11,500
-Oh, man. And you--
-But, uh, having hooked
up with Amy--
668
00:29:11,500 --> 00:29:13,066
-Jackpot.
-Yeah.
669
00:29:13,066 --> 00:29:14,900
Yeah, seven grandkids already,
670
00:29:14,900 --> 00:29:17,367
-and more on the way,
and you know, so...
-Yeah.
671
00:29:17,367 --> 00:29:19,567
[Matt] Yeah, you know,
and I must admit,
672
00:29:19,567 --> 00:29:21,300
Chris fits into
the family very well.
673
00:29:21,300 --> 00:29:24,000
-Everyone, all the kids,
rant and rave. Yeah.
-[Chris] Oh, well, thank you.
674
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:28,266
And it's really great
that you guys are such
good buddies...
675
00:29:28,266 --> 00:29:30,500
-[Chris chuckles]
-...because you don't
see it very often.
676
00:29:30,500 --> 00:29:32,867
Well, you know, it is,
it's not like, you know,
677
00:29:32,867 --> 00:29:35,900
Matt and I aren't
anywhere near as close
as you guys are,
678
00:29:35,900 --> 00:29:38,266
but Matt's more like
a really good neighbor.
679
00:29:38,266 --> 00:29:40,500
If I need to borrow
a power tool, I can
call him up.
680
00:29:40,500 --> 00:29:42,967
-[Ty] Right.
-If he's got a question about
drywall, he calls me up.
681
00:29:42,967 --> 00:29:45,100
-Yeah, that's true.
-You know? We just, you know,
682
00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:47,266
So there's, we're
just very comfortable
683
00:29:47,266 --> 00:29:49,700
about reaching out
if we have a question
about anything.
684
00:29:49,700 --> 00:29:53,300
You know, we don't just
call each other to talk
for an hour or two.
685
00:29:53,300 --> 00:29:54,800
Right, no, exactly.
686
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,066
[Matt] I gotta respect
Amy's, you know...
687
00:29:57,066 --> 00:29:59,100
-What does Amy think about it?
-[Matt]...whatever
you call it.
688
00:29:59,100 --> 00:30:01,467
You know, initially, she,
when I first met her,
689
00:30:01,467 --> 00:30:02,667
she wouldn't have
approved of this at all.
690
00:30:02,667 --> 00:30:05,266
But over time, it's just kind
of evolved naturally.
691
00:30:05,266 --> 00:30:07,266
-[Matt] Right.
-But still, on the way here,
692
00:30:07,266 --> 00:30:10,467
I stopped at the, uh,
the spot over there,
693
00:30:10,467 --> 00:30:12,000
on, uh, West Union.
694
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,100
and got a bouquet of flowers,
I've got 'em in the car.
695
00:30:14,100 --> 00:30:15,467
-Oh, good!
-So when I go home tonight--
696
00:30:15,467 --> 00:30:16,867
[all laugh]
697
00:30:16,867 --> 00:30:19,100
Good move! This guy here!
698
00:30:19,100 --> 00:30:22,100
-[all laughing]
-[Matt] Everybody get out
your notepads!
699
00:30:22,100 --> 00:30:24,300
-[Ty] Cheers to that!
-[all chuckling]
700
00:30:24,300 --> 00:30:26,100
[Ty] That's, good for you!
701
00:30:26,100 --> 00:30:27,800
You know, one of the things
I love about her,
702
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,567
is a bouquet of flowers
go a long way.
703
00:30:29,567 --> 00:30:31,266
-[Ty] Oh, I bet!
-Oh, I know that!
704
00:30:32,066 --> 00:30:34,300
I'm happy that Amy, you know,
705
00:30:34,300 --> 00:30:36,100
seems to be more
and more okay,
706
00:30:36,100 --> 00:30:37,667
-I mean,
the flowers don't hurt.
-[chuckles]
707
00:30:37,667 --> 00:30:38,967
But, you know,
708
00:30:38,967 --> 00:30:41,767
but it's good that, um,
Amy seems to be okay with it.
709
00:30:41,767 --> 00:30:44,567
We get together to just,
you know, catch up on what
710
00:30:44,567 --> 00:30:46,867
-he's doing, what
I'm doing, and yeah.
-Yeah.
711
00:30:46,867 --> 00:30:49,667
It's neat that you guys
have a, you know,
that you get along.
712
00:30:49,667 --> 00:30:51,767
Like I said, it's probably--
713
00:30:51,767 --> 00:30:53,500
I, you know, honestly,
714
00:30:53,500 --> 00:30:55,767
I feel I can call Amy
and talk to her about things.
715
00:30:55,767 --> 00:30:58,567
Honestly, we get along
better now than,
than we did.
716
00:30:58,567 --> 00:31:00,567
-Funny how that happens.
-Yeah, funny how
that happens.
717
00:31:00,567 --> 00:31:02,500
Time always heals, too.
718
00:31:02,500 --> 00:31:04,767
I mean, don't you
feel like you're getting
along better now
719
00:31:04,767 --> 00:31:05,967
than you did five years ago?
720
00:31:05,967 --> 00:31:07,166
Yeah. Definitely.
721
00:31:07,166 --> 00:31:09,400
Amy does seem to have,
722
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:13,000
a lot of people say,
she's relaxed a lot more.
723
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,500
I've heard that
about you, too.
724
00:31:14,500 --> 00:31:16,867
I mean, I didn't
know you very well
five years ago,
725
00:31:16,867 --> 00:31:19,867
but I've heard people
say that you've kinda
relaxed a little bit too.
726
00:31:19,867 --> 00:31:24,166
I mean, obviously I haven't
really gotten to know Matt
727
00:31:24,166 --> 00:31:26,500
until probably just
the last couple of years.
728
00:31:26,500 --> 00:31:29,100
But, so, I don't know
what Matt was like before,
729
00:31:29,100 --> 00:31:32,767
uh, we met, but, uh,
from what I hear,
730
00:31:32,767 --> 00:31:34,100
you know, I've heard
some good things,
731
00:31:34,100 --> 00:31:35,567
that you've sort of
mellowed with age.
732
00:31:35,567 --> 00:31:38,266
and, uh, which is natural,
I think most people do.
733
00:31:38,266 --> 00:31:40,500
There have been some things
that have happened out here,
734
00:31:40,500 --> 00:31:41,567
some events and stuff,
735
00:31:41,567 --> 00:31:43,000
and Amy said to me,
in the old days,
736
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,166
you never would
have agreed to that.
737
00:31:44,166 --> 00:31:46,200
And so, I think
even she has said
738
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,867
-that you've kinda mellowed,
softened in some areas.
-Yeah, yeah.
739
00:31:48,867 --> 00:31:49,900
That's true.
740
00:31:49,900 --> 00:31:52,934
-I don't sweat
the petty stuff as much.
-Yeah.
741
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:55,800
So being relatively
new married,
742
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,066
how's that changed your life?
743
00:31:57,066 --> 00:31:59,900
Well, it's, you know,
I've been a bachelor
all my life,
744
00:31:59,900 --> 00:32:02,367
-and, you know--
-[Matt] That's what
I wanna know,
745
00:32:02,367 --> 00:32:03,934
what is the hardest part?
746
00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:06,100
It was hard sharing,
747
00:32:06,100 --> 00:32:07,900
and cleaning up
after somebody else,
748
00:32:07,900 --> 00:32:11,266
and closing doors,
and drawers,
749
00:32:11,266 --> 00:32:14,166
um, that took a lot
of adjusting, you know?
750
00:32:14,166 --> 00:32:15,600
Putting the toilet seat down.
751
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,467
-[Chris] Yeah!
-[all laugh]
752
00:32:18,467 --> 00:32:20,200
-Oh...
-[Matt] You're not saying,
753
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,266
you're not trying
to convince me that Amy
754
00:32:22,266 --> 00:32:24,100
doesn't close
doors behind her?
755
00:32:24,100 --> 00:32:25,767
She's always been like that?
756
00:32:25,767 --> 00:32:27,300
[all laugh]
757
00:32:27,300 --> 00:32:29,600
Drives me a little nutty too,
when people don't do that.
758
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,000
When Chris is sitting
there in the cabin,
759
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,800
you know, you would
never know that,
760
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,767
you know, me and Bill and Ty
go back quite a few years,
761
00:32:36,767 --> 00:32:40,467
and that Chris is just,
you know, recently,
762
00:32:40,467 --> 00:32:42,100
um, but you'd never know that,
763
00:32:42,100 --> 00:32:45,500
we visited as if we'd all been
fishing buddies for 30 years.
764
00:32:45,500 --> 00:32:47,367
Caryn and I were
trying to figure out, like,
765
00:32:47,367 --> 00:32:51,166
we had the whole,
don't fix what's not broke,
766
00:32:51,166 --> 00:32:53,266
we got that whole thing
going, you know, like...
767
00:32:53,266 --> 00:32:55,066
-Right.
-...it's just,
it's working so well,
768
00:32:55,066 --> 00:32:57,433
we're, I think
we're afraid that,
769
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,767
I mean, it's not that
we have anything
770
00:33:00,767 --> 00:33:02,567
against the institution
of marriage,
771
00:33:02,567 --> 00:33:04,967
we've both liked it,
we've been married,
772
00:33:04,967 --> 00:33:08,300
but, like, do we need to do
that, exactly? You know...
773
00:33:08,300 --> 00:33:10,266
I was concerned
about that too.
774
00:33:10,266 --> 00:33:11,467
You know, I mean, at 59,
775
00:33:11,467 --> 00:33:13,400
it's not like I felt like
I had to get married,
776
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,166
but I'd heard so many stories
from other couples that,
777
00:33:17,166 --> 00:33:18,700
were together for a long time,
778
00:33:18,700 --> 00:33:20,166
and as soon
as they got married,
779
00:33:20,166 --> 00:33:21,200
the relationship changed.
780
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:22,367
-Yeah.
-I was a little...
781
00:33:22,367 --> 00:33:23,467
They're allergic to the metal.
782
00:33:23,467 --> 00:33:25,700
-[Matt] Don't talk
to us about that!
-The jewelry.
783
00:33:25,700 --> 00:33:27,867
[Matt] That's all I need
to know, in real life,
don't tell me about that.
784
00:33:27,867 --> 00:33:30,000
So did you feel that
kind of shift, or?
785
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,567
-Well...
-[Matt] Not yet.
786
00:33:31,567 --> 00:33:33,367
[Chris] Fortunately,
that didn't happen.
787
00:33:33,367 --> 00:33:34,800
But no, I was
concerned about that,
788
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,300
but fortunately,
it didn't change.
789
00:33:36,300 --> 00:33:38,333
-Okay.
-I don't even feel like,
790
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,166
if anything, it became easier.
791
00:33:41,166 --> 00:33:44,100
We're not, we're not taking
anything off the table.
792
00:33:44,100 --> 00:33:45,700
We always,
when we talk about it,
793
00:33:45,700 --> 00:33:47,100
we always say we'll
talk about it again
794
00:33:47,100 --> 00:33:48,700
in a couple of weeks,
or months, or whatever.
795
00:33:48,700 --> 00:33:50,400
You know, but the house
right now, is,
796
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,266
a lot of it was,
push stop because of that.
797
00:33:53,266 --> 00:33:55,767
So that does sort of,
it's a game changer.
798
00:33:55,767 --> 00:33:57,266
-You're scared.
-Petrified.
799
00:33:57,266 --> 00:33:58,467
-[Chris chuckles]
-[Ty] You are!
800
00:33:58,467 --> 00:34:00,467
-Petrified! Yeah.
-[Chris] You are?
Really, you are?
801
00:34:00,467 --> 00:34:03,467
You are, I feel it.
You're scared.
802
00:34:03,467 --> 00:34:05,734
-I'm shaking in my boots.
-[Ty] You're shaking
in your boots.
803
00:34:06,567 --> 00:34:08,567
You don't like that...
[stammers]...commitment.
804
00:34:08,567 --> 00:34:10,867
-[Matt] No, it's not
that commitment, no.
-No?
805
00:34:10,867 --> 00:34:12,800
No, it's just, I understand.
806
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,867
I don't ever see myself with
anybody other than Caryn.
807
00:34:14,867 --> 00:34:16,767
I think she feels
the same way.
808
00:34:16,767 --> 00:34:19,767
One of the things that's
very good about Caryn
and I's relationship,
809
00:34:19,767 --> 00:34:22,867
is we're able to give
each other space.
810
00:34:22,867 --> 00:34:26,467
We enjoy, sort of,
our mixture of independence.
811
00:34:26,467 --> 00:34:28,467
We've tested our waters
812
00:34:28,467 --> 00:34:30,767
by having our place
together in Arizona,
813
00:34:30,767 --> 00:34:31,767
being able to go down there.
814
00:34:31,767 --> 00:34:34,266
We did talk about once
the house is real,
815
00:34:34,266 --> 00:34:35,767
we would revisit it,
816
00:34:35,767 --> 00:34:37,667
so we're starting
that process of, like,
817
00:34:37,667 --> 00:34:39,200
hey, does this
change anything?
818
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,900
[chuckling] We're both kinda
like, not necessarily,
819
00:34:41,900 --> 00:34:43,367
other than, you might
sell your house
820
00:34:43,367 --> 00:34:44,667
and move in, you know.
821
00:34:44,667 --> 00:34:46,567
So, um, but you know,
822
00:34:46,567 --> 00:34:49,367
we very much respect
823
00:34:49,367 --> 00:34:51,867
and appreciate the,
824
00:34:51,867 --> 00:34:53,300
the concept of marriage,
825
00:34:53,300 --> 00:34:55,400
and the principles behind it,
826
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,867
and we're weighing
all of our options.
827
00:34:57,867 --> 00:35:00,700
No matter what I do,
one thing I can promise.
828
00:35:00,700 --> 00:35:02,266
You guys will be
the last to know.
829
00:35:02,266 --> 00:35:03,500
-[all chuckle]
-Whoo!
830
00:35:03,500 --> 00:35:05,667
-[Ty] Salute!
-[all chuckling]
831
00:35:05,667 --> 00:35:07,000
[narrator] Coming up...
832
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,467
[Amy] It's so funny,
I'm getting so many
people commenting
833
00:35:09,467 --> 00:35:11,767
-on yours and Matt's romance.
-[Chris chuckles]
834
00:35:11,767 --> 00:35:14,500
People think you guys
will talk about me.
835
00:35:14,500 --> 00:35:15,967
I don't think so.
836
00:35:39,100 --> 00:35:40,266
[Chris] Wow. What a great day.
837
00:35:40,266 --> 00:35:41,767
[Amy] I have to get
a map of this park,
838
00:35:41,767 --> 00:35:43,166
I haven't been
here in so long.
839
00:35:43,166 --> 00:35:46,300
[Chris] Yeah, I'm glad
that we kinda have it to
ourselves, too.
840
00:35:46,300 --> 00:35:48,133
[Amy] Oh, yeah.
Me too. Come on!
841
00:35:49,266 --> 00:35:50,867
[Chris] If you guys wanna
walk up to this table...
842
00:35:50,867 --> 00:35:52,667
-[Amy] All right.
-...I'll go back to the car
and get our lunch.
843
00:35:52,667 --> 00:35:54,700
[Amy] Oh, good!
I get to watch her,
you do all the work?
844
00:35:54,700 --> 00:35:55,800
[Chris] Yeah.
845
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,767
We're kind of in
our early spring,
846
00:35:57,767 --> 00:35:59,700
and wanna take advantage
of the nice weather,
847
00:35:59,700 --> 00:36:02,266
so, we wanted to have
a different kind of scenery,
848
00:36:02,266 --> 00:36:04,900
-taking Daisy for a walk.
-[Chris] Yeah. We got
spring fever.
849
00:36:04,900 --> 00:36:07,934
-We wanna get out in
the sunshine, and open air.
-Yeah.
850
00:36:09,467 --> 00:36:10,867
All right,
to our first picnic.
851
00:36:10,867 --> 00:36:12,500
I know, isn't that great?
852
00:36:12,500 --> 00:36:15,166
First picnic of the year.
853
00:36:15,166 --> 00:36:17,867
It's so funny, I'm getting so
many people commenting
854
00:36:17,867 --> 00:36:19,867
-on yours and Matt's romance.
-[Chris chuckles]
855
00:36:19,867 --> 00:36:23,066
Lisa's, like,
what in the world
is that all about?
856
00:36:23,066 --> 00:36:24,867
and I said, "Yeah, i know."
857
00:36:24,867 --> 00:36:26,734
You're getting okay
with it, though, right?
858
00:36:27,467 --> 00:36:29,800
As long as it
doesn't get too crazy.
859
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,433
People think you guys
will talk about me.
860
00:36:33,500 --> 00:36:35,266
I don't think so.
861
00:36:35,266 --> 00:36:38,300
I'm glad that Amy is getting
more comfortable with,
862
00:36:38,300 --> 00:36:39,800
uh, you know, Matt and I.
863
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,967
-You know?
-I swallow it.
864
00:36:42,700 --> 00:36:43,967
[laughs] Okay.
865
00:36:43,967 --> 00:36:45,233
[both chuckle]
866
00:36:46,166 --> 00:36:48,166
I'm glad Amy could
choke it down.
867
00:36:48,166 --> 00:36:49,367
[both laugh]
868
00:36:49,367 --> 00:36:51,867
Well, in a way, when Matt
and I get together,
869
00:36:51,867 --> 00:36:54,567
she knows it's safe,
we're not talking about Amy.
870
00:36:54,567 --> 00:36:56,667
You know, no one's throwing
her under the bus.
871
00:36:56,667 --> 00:36:58,533
-Don't be
comparing notes, man.
-[Chris chuckles]
872
00:36:59,767 --> 00:37:02,600
You know, occasionally,
I mean, some relationship
comes up.
873
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,066
Oh, like what?
874
00:37:04,767 --> 00:37:06,567
I might make a comment
about, you know,
875
00:37:06,567 --> 00:37:09,200
you and I do this,
or this is an issue,
876
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,467
and he might say something
about he and Caryn,
877
00:37:11,467 --> 00:37:13,367
but we don't compare
notes about you.
878
00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:15,000
[Amy] What's the issue?
879
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:16,367
Oh, no issue.
880
00:37:16,367 --> 00:37:18,433
[chuckles] I'm in heaven.
881
00:37:27,266 --> 00:37:29,100
Really?
882
00:37:29,100 --> 00:37:30,266
What did you say, babe?
883
00:37:30,266 --> 00:37:31,767
-I--
-What'd you say about me?
884
00:37:31,767 --> 00:37:33,333
I have no idea what
he's talking about.
885
00:37:34,567 --> 00:37:35,567
[Amy] Tell me the truth.
886
00:37:35,567 --> 00:37:38,500
Um, yeah.
Apparently, you know,
887
00:37:38,500 --> 00:37:40,166
Matt and I both, uh,
888
00:37:40,867 --> 00:37:42,266
think that it's kind of,
889
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,100
I don't know.
890
00:37:44,100 --> 00:37:46,200
Maybe a little irritating
891
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,166
that you're always
leaving doors
892
00:37:48,166 --> 00:37:50,100
and drawers open,
for no reason!
893
00:37:50,100 --> 00:37:51,467
You grab something,
894
00:37:51,467 --> 00:37:54,467
and then you just walk away,
and leave the door open!
895
00:37:54,467 --> 00:37:56,867
Well, I leave it open because
I have to go back and shut it
896
00:37:56,867 --> 00:37:57,967
when I return the item there--
897
00:37:57,967 --> 00:38:00,500
But it could be weeks
before you go back!
898
00:38:00,500 --> 00:38:01,867
In the meantime,
899
00:38:01,867 --> 00:38:04,300
I'm tripping over
an open door!
900
00:38:04,300 --> 00:38:05,567
-You know?
-You know what?
901
00:38:05,567 --> 00:38:08,166
Those incidents rarely happen,
902
00:38:08,166 --> 00:38:11,667
-and when they do, I think
they're blown out of--
-[groans] Oh my god.
903
00:38:11,667 --> 00:38:13,300
...blown out of proportion!
904
00:38:13,300 --> 00:38:14,567
Rare? Oh.
905
00:38:14,567 --> 00:38:17,367
I think I know BS when
I see it, most of the time.
906
00:38:18,467 --> 00:38:20,867
Well, we'll see how
this fundraiser goes.
907
00:38:20,867 --> 00:38:23,533
Are you into helping,
or being with me on it?
908
00:38:24,166 --> 00:38:26,066
I mean, I've been trying.
909
00:38:26,066 --> 00:38:27,767
What more would you
like me to do?
910
00:38:27,767 --> 00:38:29,400
[Amy] Well, once I get a date,
911
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,900
maybe think about a few people
912
00:38:30,900 --> 00:38:33,400
that maybe would be
interested in coming.
913
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,900
[Chris] Amy and I
are talking about, uh,
doing a charity event.
914
00:38:36,900 --> 00:38:38,100
Amy has in the past,
915
00:38:38,100 --> 00:38:39,867
and now I'm finally
at that point in life
916
00:38:39,867 --> 00:38:42,700
where I wanna start doing
some more charitable work,
and giving back.
917
00:38:42,700 --> 00:38:44,266
And so far,
it's been kind of fun.
918
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,166
[Amy] And then the, um,
919
00:38:46,166 --> 00:38:47,867
things that I was thinking
about raising money for,
920
00:38:47,867 --> 00:38:50,000
I think it's just
easier to do it
921
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,200
for organizations
I'm familiar with.
922
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,900
And that is DAAA.
923
00:38:54,900 --> 00:38:57,066
What does the DAAA stand for?
924
00:38:57,066 --> 00:38:59,300
Dwarf Athletic
Association of America.
925
00:38:59,300 --> 00:39:02,867
So the charity we're
supporting is DAAA.
926
00:39:03,967 --> 00:39:05,567
[Amy] There you go!
You're picking it up!
927
00:39:05,567 --> 00:39:08,200
[Amy] It formed back in 1985,
928
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,567
to give the opportunity
for dwarves
929
00:39:10,567 --> 00:39:13,567
to really compete in sports.
930
00:39:13,567 --> 00:39:14,667
We have national games,
931
00:39:14,667 --> 00:39:17,467
we compete, we have,
uh, medals.
932
00:39:17,467 --> 00:39:20,900
There's a, uh,
international dwarf games.
933
00:39:20,900 --> 00:39:22,567
It's a wonderful organization,
934
00:39:22,567 --> 00:39:25,033
and now that
I have grandchildren,
935
00:39:25,567 --> 00:39:26,867
um, it's an organization
936
00:39:26,867 --> 00:39:28,867
I'll be with,
you know, forever.
937
00:39:28,867 --> 00:39:31,000
Can you handle
me being in charge?
938
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:32,467
I don't mind you
being in charge.
939
00:39:32,467 --> 00:39:34,967
But I don't wanna be
a mute gopher for you.
940
00:39:34,967 --> 00:39:36,667
-[Amy laughs]
-You just want my mouth shut,
941
00:39:36,667 --> 00:39:39,300
and just do whatever you
point and tell me to do.
942
00:39:39,300 --> 00:39:42,266
This will be our first
time collaborating on
anything like this,
943
00:39:42,266 --> 00:39:44,166
so if I'm gonna be
a part of this event,
944
00:39:44,166 --> 00:39:46,567
I actually wanna be a part
of the meetings, too.
945
00:39:46,567 --> 00:39:48,467
Obviously, you can really,
you know,
946
00:39:48,467 --> 00:39:50,000
only have one chief
when it comes to
947
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,867
planning any kind
of special event,
948
00:39:51,867 --> 00:39:53,200
I just wanna be able to,
949
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,100
you know, throw some
of my own creative ideas
and input into it,
950
00:39:56,100 --> 00:39:57,867
and be proactive,
951
00:39:57,867 --> 00:40:00,367
rather than just
being reactive
952
00:40:00,367 --> 00:40:02,000
to whatever the boss says.
953
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:03,767
I gotta pick a date.
954
00:40:03,767 --> 00:40:05,500
I thought Matt only
had one date available,
955
00:40:05,500 --> 00:40:06,867
which I still think he does.
956
00:40:06,867 --> 00:40:09,100
Or he has another date,
I don't know. I gotta see.
957
00:40:09,100 --> 00:40:11,767
Matt offered the farm up,
to, you know,
958
00:40:11,767 --> 00:40:15,066
host this, so, you know,
that was, checkmark,
959
00:40:15,066 --> 00:40:16,500
you know, a done deal.
960
00:40:16,500 --> 00:40:19,467
I think the farm
was a good option,
961
00:40:19,467 --> 00:40:21,667
because it's not
taking anything
962
00:40:21,667 --> 00:40:23,367
out of the budget or cost,
963
00:40:23,367 --> 00:40:25,400
and I'm familiar
with the venue.
964
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,066
It's a beautiful,
interesting place
965
00:40:27,066 --> 00:40:28,767
-for almost any event.
-[Amy] Yeah.
966
00:40:30,867 --> 00:40:32,967
I think the biggest
thing is, um...
967
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,166
...do I wanna go down
this road again?
968
00:40:38,166 --> 00:40:41,367
Having it at the farm,
and with them.
969
00:40:41,367 --> 00:40:44,166
[Amy] I think the place
I'm at with Matt and Caryn,
970
00:40:44,166 --> 00:40:46,200
is a little more
neutral right now.
971
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,200
But Matt and I have history,
972
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,367
And, you know, history
sometimes stays with you.
973
00:40:51,367 --> 00:40:52,600
It wasn't always pleasant,
974
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,500
and Matt has a harder
time when someone
else is in charge,
975
00:40:56,500 --> 00:40:59,066
and so, we'll see
how smoothly it goes.
976
00:41:01,867 --> 00:41:04,100
[narrator] Next, on
Little People, Big World...
977
00:41:04,100 --> 00:41:05,367
Go get Mom's suitcase!
978
00:41:05,367 --> 00:41:07,100
Thank you! That's so helpful.
979
00:41:07,100 --> 00:41:09,967
Now that Zach is feeling
better, doing better,
980
00:41:09,967 --> 00:41:12,467
I'm gonna go out of town
with two of my girlfriends.
981
00:41:12,467 --> 00:41:14,567
[Zach] I'm not, like,
nervous, it's just, you know,
982
00:41:14,567 --> 00:41:17,767
you're diving in
for three days, of, like,
who knows what.
983
00:41:17,767 --> 00:41:19,100
[Zach] All right Jackson,
you ready to roll?
984
00:41:19,100 --> 00:41:20,767
Let's go do your hair!
985
00:41:20,767 --> 00:41:23,700
Lilah. Find your shoes.
986
00:41:23,700 --> 00:41:26,467
I mean, a lot of things
can happen in 72 hours.
987
00:41:26,467 --> 00:41:28,266
-[Lilah] No!
-[Zach] Lilah...
988
00:41:28,266 --> 00:41:30,066
-[screaming]
-[Zach] Lilah.
Lilah! Jackson!
989
00:41:30,066 --> 00:41:31,367
-[crying]
-[Zach] Jackson!
990
00:41:32,900 --> 00:41:34,500
Thank you!
991
00:41:34,500 --> 00:41:35,967
Chris and I were
thinking about
992
00:41:35,967 --> 00:41:39,066
maybe to put on a small
little charity function.
993
00:41:39,066 --> 00:41:41,600
Are Matt and Caryn
participating in this too?
994
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:42,667
I would assume so.
995
00:41:42,667 --> 00:41:44,367
He's gonna wanna be in charge.
996
00:41:44,367 --> 00:41:45,967
That's his farm now.
997
00:41:45,967 --> 00:41:48,467
-Who's gonna be in charge--
-Me! Me.
998
00:41:48,467 --> 00:41:50,967
Girlfriend, let me
tell you something.
999
00:41:50,967 --> 00:41:52,867
-[Amy] No. They said--
-That is not your farm.
1000
00:41:52,867 --> 00:41:54,467
I am running the show.
1001
00:41:54,467 --> 00:41:57,467
When it comes to the charity
and how it's gonna be run,
1002
00:41:57,467 --> 00:41:58,634
we'll do it my way.
1003
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,467
We got a date blocked out.
1004
00:42:00,467 --> 00:42:02,000
Well, from what you told me,
1005
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,066
there's no other
dates available.
1006
00:42:04,066 --> 00:42:06,100
They were very sparse, yes.
1007
00:42:06,100 --> 00:42:08,567
Well, is there any way that
you can check these dates?
1008
00:42:08,567 --> 00:42:10,767
[Matt] Amy's made it very
clear that she's in charge.
1009
00:42:10,767 --> 00:42:14,900
Amy, if you're lucky,
I'll let you plan my
fundraiser. [chuckles]
1010
00:42:14,900 --> 00:42:16,667
-This is gonna be fun.
-[Matt chuckling] Yes.
1011
00:42:16,667 --> 00:42:18,567
[Matt] I loved the idea
1012
00:42:18,567 --> 00:42:20,266
of this party being out here.
1013
00:42:20,266 --> 00:42:22,367
[Caryn] Okay, that is not
the indication
1014
00:42:22,367 --> 00:42:25,000
you gave multiple times!