1 00:00:01,266 --> 00:00:03,200 [man] Previously on Little People, Big World... 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,767 I think that, like, everything that we went through 3 00:00:05,767 --> 00:00:08,000 definitely, like, puts things into perspective. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,867 When it comes to what I just went through with the shunt malfunction and all that, 5 00:00:11,867 --> 00:00:15,066 I feel like our kids are old enough now that they might be out of that. 6 00:00:15,066 --> 00:00:18,066 But, you know, the other shoe can drop at any time. 7 00:00:18,066 --> 00:00:21,867 So, yeah, we'll take it one, you know, day at a time. 8 00:00:21,867 --> 00:00:25,100 Now that we're getting our home, we gotta figure us out. 9 00:00:25,100 --> 00:00:26,300 But let's give it a little... 10 00:00:26,300 --> 00:00:29,000 -Let's give it a little breathing room. [laughs] -Okay. 11 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,600 I always thought, well, once we have the house in progress, 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,567 that was gonna be the moment to really get serious about 13 00:00:35,567 --> 00:00:37,000 what our relationship future is. 14 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:40,667 What's that hotel we went to years ago where every room is different? 15 00:00:40,667 --> 00:00:43,767 -You went there with Amy, not me. -Oh, I'm sorry. 16 00:00:43,767 --> 00:00:45,867 Get your girlfriends straight. 17 00:00:45,867 --> 00:00:48,000 Well, we'll see how this fundraiser goes. 18 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,900 Amy and I are talking about doing a charity event, 19 00:00:50,900 --> 00:00:52,266 Amy has in the past, and now, 20 00:00:52,266 --> 00:00:54,367 I'm finally at that point in life where I wanna start 21 00:00:54,367 --> 00:00:55,867 doing some more charitable work. 22 00:00:55,867 --> 00:00:59,567 I think the biggest thing is, um, do I wanna go down this road again, 23 00:00:59,567 --> 00:01:02,400 having it at the farm, and with them? 24 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,767 Matt offered the farm up to, you know, host this. 25 00:01:05,767 --> 00:01:07,767 But Matt and I have history. 26 00:01:07,767 --> 00:01:10,800 And it wasn't always pleasant. And you, 27 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,634 you should be a little more cautious. 28 00:01:19,467 --> 00:01:21,634 [upbeat music playing] 29 00:01:31,300 --> 00:01:34,266 Please be careful, okay? 30 00:01:34,266 --> 00:01:35,667 Okay, I've got it. 31 00:01:35,667 --> 00:01:39,567 One, two, three, four, five... 32 00:01:39,567 --> 00:01:42,100 -[Zach] Ooh, but Lilah's doing it with her hands up. -[Tori] ...six, seven. 33 00:01:42,100 --> 00:01:43,467 Can I tell you a trick? 34 00:01:43,467 --> 00:01:47,967 It's easier to stand on one foot if you pick a spot on the ground. 35 00:01:47,967 --> 00:01:51,767 So, like, if I'm standing right here, I might pick, like, this spot right here. 36 00:01:51,767 --> 00:01:55,734 And you just stare at that spot, and it makes it easier. 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:01,967 -I'm doing it! -Good job, J. Nice, dude. 38 00:02:02,367 --> 00:02:03,734 Hey, I have a plan. 39 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,166 You and Lilah 40 00:02:07,166 --> 00:02:08,834 should go out in the garage... 41 00:02:09,667 --> 00:02:11,700 ..and get Mom's suitcase for her. 42 00:02:11,700 --> 00:02:13,200 -[Jackson speaking] -[Zach] Lilah, help Jackson 43 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:14,367 go get Mom's suitcase. 44 00:02:14,367 --> 00:02:16,867 Thank you. That's so helpful. 45 00:02:16,867 --> 00:02:21,266 I recently had surgery to replace a broken shunt. 46 00:02:21,266 --> 00:02:26,166 And I am still in recovery, but I'm pretty much back to 100%. 47 00:02:26,166 --> 00:02:28,133 It's been over a month and I haven't had a migraine. 48 00:02:28,500 --> 00:02:29,667 Hallelujah. 49 00:02:29,667 --> 00:02:33,000 And so, now that Zach is feeling better, doing better, 50 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,100 I'm going on a three-night trip to California with two of my girlfriends. 51 00:02:37,100 --> 00:02:40,367 You're gonna eat when you wanna eat, you're gonna sleep when you wanna sleep. 52 00:02:40,367 --> 00:02:41,767 [Tori] That sounds good to me. 53 00:02:42,700 --> 00:02:45,000 [Zach] Um, what do I need to know while you're gone? 54 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,000 -Should we make a list? -Make a list. 55 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,367 Come here, let's make a list. Come here, Si-guy. 56 00:02:49,367 --> 00:02:52,266 [Zach] Tori did a lot while I was in surgery and recovering, 57 00:02:52,266 --> 00:02:54,567 so she definitely deserves this. 58 00:02:54,567 --> 00:02:56,467 I've never done this before, so-- 59 00:02:56,467 --> 00:02:59,333 Yeah, Tori's never done just a girls' trip like this before. 60 00:03:00,667 --> 00:03:02,467 I'm gonna start with food. 61 00:03:02,467 --> 00:03:07,033 Lasagna, okay? I would say 350 62 00:03:07,700 --> 00:03:10,467 for 30 minutes. 63 00:03:10,467 --> 00:03:13,033 And then what else? Homework. 64 00:03:14,166 --> 00:03:17,600 Okay? Kindergarten pictures, 65 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:22,467 do Jackson's hair. 66 00:03:22,467 --> 00:03:25,567 -Drop-off. Do you know when drop-off and pick-up is? -[Zach] Yeah, 3:10 p.m. 67 00:03:25,567 --> 00:03:28,266 -That's pick-up. -Oh, drop-off. Um, 8 o'clock. 68 00:03:28,266 --> 00:03:30,533 -8:00 a.m. to 8:15 a.m. -8:00 a.m. to 8:15 a.m. 69 00:03:35,367 --> 00:03:37,400 Do you know what time to feed Si-Si bottles? 70 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,100 -[Zach] When he needs them. -[laughs] 71 00:03:39,100 --> 00:03:41,066 He knows. Thank you, that's a good one. 72 00:03:41,066 --> 00:03:46,000 Zach is a great dad, you know, but I think that when you're, like, alone, on your own 73 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:50,867 with three kids is exhausting. I've done it a couple times and it's hard, for sure. 74 00:03:50,867 --> 00:03:55,066 You're all on your own with three kids, like, no breaks. 75 00:03:55,066 --> 00:03:59,166 Cleaning any chance you get would be greatly appreciated. 76 00:03:59,166 --> 00:04:04,166 -[Zach groans] -Jackson's so good at mopping the floors. 77 00:04:04,166 --> 00:04:07,767 I have zero expectations. My clean is not the same as Zach's clean. 78 00:04:07,767 --> 00:04:09,967 We grew up in a very fun house. 79 00:04:09,967 --> 00:04:11,300 She doesn't even know what a messy house is. 80 00:04:11,300 --> 00:04:12,967 Is our house not fun? 81 00:04:12,967 --> 00:04:15,867 Uh, there are times when I feel like we can't 82 00:04:15,867 --> 00:04:17,400 -live in our house. -Tigers everywhere. 83 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,100 'Cause she'll clean it and then we just can't use it. 84 00:04:19,100 --> 00:04:21,200 And then I go in the kitchen to make a sandwich 85 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,800 and she's like, "You know, mess up my-- I just cleaned the kitchen." 86 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:28,300 I'm like, "It's a kitchen! It's not like I'm, like, doing an art project in here." 87 00:04:28,300 --> 00:04:31,767 Like, I'm using the kitchen how it's supposed to be used. 88 00:04:31,767 --> 00:04:35,934 Oh, also, N-O-T-E-S. Um, they're up. 89 00:04:36,266 --> 00:04:37,967 Okay. 90 00:04:37,967 --> 00:04:41,100 I prewrote Jackson some notes to put into his lunchbox. 91 00:04:41,100 --> 00:04:43,467 And Zach is going to put them in his lunchbox 92 00:04:43,467 --> 00:04:45,000 -for school. -Good to know. 93 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,266 [Tori] Wait, how many days am I gone? Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. 94 00:04:48,266 --> 00:04:51,967 [Zach] Tori writes notes for Jackson in his lunch pail every day. 95 00:04:51,967 --> 00:04:53,600 And one time, Tori, I don't know what you were doing. 96 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,166 -I stopped because he never brought it up. -Yeah. 97 00:04:56,166 --> 00:04:57,467 He never said anything about it. 98 00:04:57,467 --> 00:04:59,367 So I thought, "Oh, he's indifferent. He doesn't care about it." 99 00:04:59,367 --> 00:05:03,200 And I was making his lunch that day, and he's over there writing himself 100 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,767 -his own note, then he puts, like-- -What did he write on it? 101 00:05:05,767 --> 00:05:08,367 -He wrote, like, "I love you, Jackson." -[exhales deeply] 102 00:05:08,367 --> 00:05:10,767 Like, he wrote it like it was from Mom 103 00:05:10,767 --> 00:05:13,967 and puts it in his lunch pail, okay? And so, 104 00:05:13,967 --> 00:05:16,667 I asked him, "What are you doing?" He goes, "All the kids have notes." 105 00:05:16,667 --> 00:05:19,400 -Ah. -And so, like, he wants to read the note with everyone. 106 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,400 And so we have continued to do that. 107 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:23,400 He'll be in therapy for that when he's 18. 108 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,867 Like, "My mom didn't write me a lunch note and I had to write it myself." 109 00:05:26,867 --> 00:05:29,667 Are you ready for three against one? 110 00:05:29,667 --> 00:05:31,600 -It's not against, it's three-- -Three on one? 111 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:35,767 -I've been alone with the kids for 24 hours, 48 hours. -[Tori] Three kids? 112 00:05:35,767 --> 00:05:37,266 All three kids, yeah. How long? 113 00:05:37,266 --> 00:05:39,734 I don't think you've been alone with the three kids. 114 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:44,867 I've never watched all the kids overnight like this, but there's no nervousness. 115 00:05:44,867 --> 00:05:47,266 "It's not gonna be hard. It's gonna be so easy, yeah." 116 00:05:47,266 --> 00:05:49,900 -[laughs] No, it's-- -"Tori doesn't know anything." 117 00:05:49,900 --> 00:05:52,100 [both laughing] 118 00:05:52,100 --> 00:05:53,600 [Tori] Are you gonna miss me? 119 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,900 [kisses] I'm gonna miss you. 120 00:05:55,900 --> 00:05:58,734 J, you gotta keep this house running while I'm gone, okay? 121 00:06:00,166 --> 00:06:01,967 Make sure Dad does what he's supposed to do? 122 00:06:03,667 --> 00:06:06,967 -And remember, Mom loves you. -[Zach] No TV right now. 123 00:06:06,967 --> 00:06:11,300 Managing all the kids when you're so used to it being a two-parent situation, 124 00:06:11,300 --> 00:06:13,066 I'm not, like, nervous, it's just, 125 00:06:13,066 --> 00:06:17,300 it is like, okay, you know, you're diving in for three days of, like, who knows what? 126 00:06:17,300 --> 00:06:20,133 I mean, a lot of things can happen in 72 hours. 127 00:06:22,300 --> 00:06:24,467 We'll see if that one happens. 128 00:06:24,467 --> 00:06:26,567 Cleaning. What is that? What is that? 129 00:06:26,567 --> 00:06:29,767 You don't know. You're the one who makes the mess! 130 00:06:37,667 --> 00:06:39,133 Thank you. [chuckles] 131 00:06:40,066 --> 00:06:42,667 Oh, my God, it's just pouring down rain. 132 00:06:42,667 --> 00:06:47,166 -[Amy] It's a drizzle. -I've lived here all my life and I still hate it. 133 00:06:47,166 --> 00:06:48,567 -Hi. -[woman] Hi, how are ya? 134 00:06:48,567 --> 00:06:49,867 -Two for lunch? -[Amy] Yes. 135 00:06:49,867 --> 00:06:51,567 -Please. -All right, have you down here. 136 00:06:51,567 --> 00:06:52,767 -All right, great, thank you. -All right, thank you. 137 00:06:52,767 --> 00:06:53,800 You're welcome. 138 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,867 -[Amy] It's been a while since I've been here. -Yeah. 139 00:06:55,867 --> 00:06:58,100 [Amy] I forget about this place. 140 00:06:58,100 --> 00:07:00,667 -So anyway-- -All right, well, it's good to see you. It's been a while. 141 00:07:00,667 --> 00:07:04,166 -Yeah, I know. It really has, it really has. -Wow, what's new with you? 142 00:07:04,166 --> 00:07:07,000 -Well, Zachary. I told you about Zachary. -That was scary. 143 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,000 I'm so glad that, you know, he's over that. 144 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,000 He's doing so much better now, the kids were great. 145 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,867 But I'll tell you, it doesn't matter what grandkids 146 00:07:14,867 --> 00:07:17,000 -I'm with, they test you. -[laughs] 147 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:21,667 Sometimes you never know, after surgery, how you will recuperate and bounce back, 148 00:07:21,667 --> 00:07:23,967 and thankfully, Zach is doing fantastic. 149 00:07:23,967 --> 00:07:27,300 I just hope he doesn't have to have another surgery for a long time. 150 00:07:27,300 --> 00:07:31,166 -How's the bromance going with Chris and Matt? -Oh, Lord above. 151 00:07:31,166 --> 00:07:34,367 So, Chris had a guys' time with Matt 152 00:07:34,367 --> 00:07:38,800 -at the little cabin that Matt built out on the farm. -Oh, wow. 153 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,867 -I don't know what to think about it, really. -Your whole voice 154 00:07:41,867 --> 00:07:46,033 -tone changed when you're talking about it. -[both laugh] 155 00:07:46,300 --> 00:07:48,166 Well, I mean, 156 00:07:48,166 --> 00:07:50,800 I kind of feel stupid still having that 157 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:54,166 -intense not liking it. -Uh-huh. 158 00:07:55,300 --> 00:07:57,400 What do you say to that? It's like, 159 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,967 the only thing I tell him is, like, don't become best friends, 160 00:08:00,967 --> 00:08:05,266 -okay? That can't happen. -Yeah. Yeah. 161 00:08:05,266 --> 00:08:10,266 When the guy you're married to and your ex get together, I don't know, 162 00:08:10,266 --> 00:08:13,634 it doesn't even have to be bad vibes or anything, it's just 163 00:08:14,266 --> 00:08:16,200 weird to me. [laughs] 164 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,500 But, you know, I often remind him of the fact that, 165 00:08:19,500 --> 00:08:21,800 you know, hanging out with Matt, it's like, it's okay, 166 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:26,500 but it just still feels a little strange, a little awkward, a little like, "Hmm." 167 00:08:26,500 --> 00:08:29,467 Just remember he is my ex. [chuckles] 168 00:08:29,467 --> 00:08:32,900 So what are some things you wanna do this spring? 169 00:08:32,900 --> 00:08:37,000 I feel so disconnected from people, like, life. 170 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:40,667 Like, we used to put on charity foundations, and that kept us involved. 171 00:08:40,667 --> 00:08:44,367 So, I don't know. Doing something on a much smaller scale. 172 00:08:44,367 --> 00:08:45,667 Yeah. That's doable. 173 00:08:45,667 --> 00:08:48,467 -To kind of just test those waters. -Mmm-hmm. 174 00:08:48,467 --> 00:08:51,867 Chris and I, you know, we're thinking about, as we get older in life, 175 00:08:51,867 --> 00:08:55,066 to maybe give back, maybe put on a 176 00:08:55,066 --> 00:08:56,800 small, little charity function. 177 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:02,667 And so, the charity we're supporting is Dwarf Athletic Association of America. 178 00:09:02,667 --> 00:09:07,300 You know, we mentioned it to Matt and Caryn that we were, you know, doing a fundraiser, 179 00:09:07,300 --> 00:09:10,867 so Matt offered the farm up to, uh, host the event. 180 00:09:10,867 --> 00:09:15,266 And they also agreed, both he and Caryn, agreed to help out. 181 00:09:15,266 --> 00:09:19,266 -Are Matt and Caryn participating in this, too? -Oh, yeah, I mean, 182 00:09:19,266 --> 00:09:23,400 -the barn is an ideal place. -Yeah. 183 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,967 Chris and I are kind of heading this up, but we're definitely needing, 184 00:09:26,967 --> 00:09:28,166 you know, Matt and Caryn's help. 185 00:09:28,166 --> 00:09:31,400 And, uh, we do have to meet up with them again. 186 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:35,300 Just to really finalize on things, you know, there's a lot of details. 187 00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:37,600 So, it's just making sure that everyone understands 188 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,200 what are those details, and can we pull it off? 189 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,166 What do you think about the barn? 190 00:09:42,166 --> 00:09:44,800 Well, he's gonna wanna be in charge, 191 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:46,800 -that's his farm now. -Yeah. 192 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,567 -Who's gonna be in charge? -Me. Me. 193 00:09:49,567 --> 00:09:51,800 You can't have too many cooks in the kitchen. 194 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,433 But it's his house, not yours. 195 00:09:53,767 --> 00:09:55,000 No. 196 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:57,667 -I am running the show. -Girlfriend, 197 00:09:57,667 --> 00:10:00,834 -let me tell you something. That is not your farm. -No. 198 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,800 Absolutely, he's in charge of the location, 199 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,767 but when it comes to the charity and how it's gonna be run, 200 00:10:07,767 --> 00:10:09,367 that's me, falls on me. 201 00:10:09,367 --> 00:10:11,867 It's not that I don't wanna hear Matt's ideas, 202 00:10:11,867 --> 00:10:15,166 but if I'm to do this, we'll do it my way. 203 00:10:15,166 --> 00:10:18,400 And if you don't wanna do it, great, don't do it. 204 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,567 It's no sweat off my back, I will find something else. 205 00:10:21,567 --> 00:10:23,400 Now you have Caryn, 206 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:27,667 -who's been on that farm forever managing-- -No, when we talked, she said, 207 00:10:27,667 --> 00:10:31,667 "I don't wanna head anything up. You just tell me what to do." Or whatever she said. 208 00:10:31,667 --> 00:10:33,900 -Interesting. -Yeah. 209 00:10:33,900 --> 00:10:37,300 -Just tell her what to do. -[laughs] Just tell her what to do. 210 00:10:37,300 --> 00:10:42,367 -Well, yeah. -[both laughing] 211 00:10:42,367 --> 00:10:43,400 [woman] Coming up... 212 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,100 [Zach] Jackson, we've gotta hurry, okay? 213 00:10:46,100 --> 00:10:49,767 Taking care of the kids is, you're first up, last to bed. 214 00:10:49,767 --> 00:10:51,500 I know, hang on. I'm trying to wipe the poop. 215 00:10:51,500 --> 00:10:53,367 You're always on. 216 00:10:53,367 --> 00:10:55,433 Okay, hold on. Just hold on. 217 00:10:57,467 --> 00:10:58,567 [man] And later... 218 00:10:58,567 --> 00:10:59,867 [Caryn] Charity event. 219 00:10:59,867 --> 00:11:02,767 -We've got a date blocked out. -Well, from what you told me, 220 00:11:02,767 --> 00:11:04,367 there's no other dates available. 221 00:11:04,367 --> 00:11:06,567 They were very sparse, yes. 222 00:11:06,567 --> 00:11:08,867 Well, is there any way that you can check these dates? 223 00:11:08,867 --> 00:11:11,867 You put a stressed-out Amy and a stressed-out Matt 224 00:11:11,867 --> 00:11:14,367 -in the same, you know, one-mile radius... -In the same box. 225 00:11:14,367 --> 00:11:16,834 -...there's a combustion of smoke. -[laughs] 226 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:22,734 [upbeat music playing] 227 00:11:31,700 --> 00:11:33,467 [Zach speaking] 228 00:11:33,467 --> 00:11:36,667 Just while Tori's gone. Just to, like, get ahead of myself. 229 00:11:36,667 --> 00:11:39,100 Start with some breakfast, when they're up, we can eat, 230 00:11:39,100 --> 00:11:41,467 and then get them ready for school. 231 00:11:41,467 --> 00:11:43,767 Forty-five minutes to roll. 232 00:11:43,767 --> 00:11:48,567 Tori left yesterday morning, and, uh, first day and night went good. 233 00:11:48,567 --> 00:11:52,767 But yeah, just taking care of the kids is like you're first up, last to bed. 234 00:11:52,767 --> 00:11:55,266 You're always on. This morning, we have a tight schedule. 235 00:11:55,266 --> 00:11:57,367 Jackson needs to be at school by 8:00 a.m. 236 00:11:57,367 --> 00:12:01,367 And, uh, we need to be out the door in 45 minutes or we're gonna be late. 237 00:12:01,367 --> 00:12:02,867 And I still have a lot to do. 238 00:12:02,867 --> 00:12:06,100 I gotta feed the kids, pack Jackson's lunch, get them dressed. 239 00:12:06,100 --> 00:12:10,166 I gotta do Jackson's hair, because it's picture day, get them all in the car, 240 00:12:10,166 --> 00:12:11,233 but we'll make it. 241 00:12:14,166 --> 00:12:16,867 I usually do, like, a 14-egg scramble thing. 242 00:12:16,867 --> 00:12:19,900 If Jackson has his normal burrito, I have my normal burrito, 243 00:12:19,900 --> 00:12:23,967 Josiah has his normal and Lilah has her normal, we'll put some damage in this. 244 00:12:25,166 --> 00:12:27,767 I've always kind of made a big batch of scrambled eggs. 245 00:12:27,767 --> 00:12:29,767 Eggs kind of take a while, and if I'm gonna make eggs, 246 00:12:29,767 --> 00:12:32,467 might as well just pile them all in there. 247 00:12:32,467 --> 00:12:35,467 Tori writes little notes for Jackson every morning, 248 00:12:35,467 --> 00:12:38,367 she prewrote some notes to put in the lunch thing. 249 00:12:38,367 --> 00:12:40,066 I need to remember to do that. 250 00:12:40,066 --> 00:12:43,767 The notes are, like, super important to her, so I gotta remember today. 251 00:12:43,767 --> 00:12:46,266 Or in my mind, he'll just go about his day. 252 00:12:46,266 --> 00:12:49,700 In Tori's mind, in Mom's mind, he'll be devastated. 253 00:12:49,700 --> 00:12:53,867 Worst day ever, all the other kids will think Jackson has the worst mom. 254 00:12:53,867 --> 00:12:55,000 And blah, blah, blah. 255 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,667 Hey, dude. You want me to make you a burrito? 256 00:12:58,667 --> 00:12:59,834 That sound good? 257 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,066 After Jackson's done with school, 258 00:13:02,066 --> 00:13:04,100 we're gonna pick him up and we're all gonna go shopping 259 00:13:04,100 --> 00:13:06,900 for a couch for the new shop. 260 00:13:06,900 --> 00:13:11,066 That'll go good, like, I'm a quick shopper. So I think it'll be good with the kids. 261 00:13:12,567 --> 00:13:16,233 Oh, hi. You're a mood. 262 00:13:17,266 --> 00:13:18,467 Are you okay? 263 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:20,634 Do you want yogurt? 264 00:13:25,100 --> 00:13:26,066 [Zach] Yeah? 265 00:13:27,166 --> 00:13:29,667 [Zach] Do you have poo-poos? 266 00:13:29,667 --> 00:13:33,166 Okay, hang on. Have a yogurt and then we'll take your diaper off, okay? 267 00:13:34,166 --> 00:13:35,867 Let me get Jackson set up, okay? 268 00:13:40,767 --> 00:13:42,767 They're up. 269 00:13:42,767 --> 00:13:44,634 All right, come on, Lilah. 270 00:13:46,300 --> 00:13:48,567 Jackson and Lilah both woke up kind of moody. 271 00:13:48,567 --> 00:13:50,266 That particular morning, I wasn't 272 00:13:50,266 --> 00:13:52,867 quite doing everything exactly how Mom does things. 273 00:13:52,867 --> 00:13:57,934 Mom has a little bit more of a graceful Mom-ness, cute little morning. 274 00:13:58,567 --> 00:14:01,367 Dad has a rigid, like, go, go, go. 275 00:14:01,367 --> 00:14:03,333 Three minutes, you gotta go get dressed, okay? 276 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:06,667 Time is of essence. 277 00:14:06,667 --> 00:14:08,100 Jackson? 278 00:14:08,100 --> 00:14:10,934 Are you-- Okay, bud, you gotta hurry, okay? 279 00:14:16,367 --> 00:14:18,266 I know, hang on. I'm trying to wipe the poop. 280 00:14:18,266 --> 00:14:19,800 All right, Jackson. You ready to roll? 281 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:23,634 Let's go do your hair. Lilah, find your shoes. 282 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:27,233 What? 283 00:14:29,467 --> 00:14:32,500 [laughs] Yeah? Why? 'Cause you don't wanna do your hair? 284 00:14:32,500 --> 00:14:34,867 -Yeah. -Hold still. 285 00:14:34,867 --> 00:14:37,767 -Ow. Ow. -I know, I'm sorry. Cover your eyes. 286 00:14:37,767 --> 00:14:41,967 I'm more efficient than Tori just because I'll be able to let things go. 287 00:14:43,567 --> 00:14:44,967 Tori can't let things go. 288 00:14:44,967 --> 00:14:48,367 -That get in your eyes? [chuckles] I'm sorry. -Yeah. 289 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,266 [Zach] Hold on. Just hold on. 290 00:14:51,266 --> 00:14:54,367 His hair's not done, but we're running late. Get in the car. 291 00:14:54,367 --> 00:14:57,100 You have undies and pants on and shoes, get in the car. 292 00:14:57,100 --> 00:15:00,967 Tori's get in the car, but in a certain way, you have to look a certain way. 293 00:15:00,967 --> 00:15:02,967 And we have to do things a certain way. 294 00:15:02,967 --> 00:15:04,033 Where are you going? 295 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,567 Me? Get in the car. 296 00:15:06,567 --> 00:15:10,066 I packed you a bigger lunch. I gave you a whole sandwich instead of a half. 297 00:15:11,266 --> 00:15:12,900 [Jackson speaking] 298 00:15:12,900 --> 00:15:15,767 [Zach] Well, you don't have to eat the whole thing. 299 00:15:15,767 --> 00:15:17,767 Lilah, get in your seat. 300 00:15:17,767 --> 00:15:19,066 Hey, Jackson! 301 00:15:22,100 --> 00:15:24,100 I'm gonna help you. 302 00:15:24,100 --> 00:15:27,467 I'm more efficient, but I also let a lot-- My quality isn't as good. 303 00:15:27,467 --> 00:15:30,533 Tori's quality is very high, no efficiency. 304 00:15:30,767 --> 00:15:31,867 All right. 305 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,233 [Zach] Hey, Lilah. 306 00:15:49,166 --> 00:15:50,533 Oh, my gosh. 307 00:15:51,700 --> 00:15:53,266 I forgot the note. 308 00:15:53,266 --> 00:15:57,667 I forgot it. [laughs] He'll get a note tomorrow. 309 00:15:57,667 --> 00:15:59,634 [crying] 310 00:16:00,467 --> 00:16:02,333 [sighs] 311 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,567 [Caryn] Shut the front door. 312 00:16:15,567 --> 00:16:18,000 -Are you kidding me? [chuckles] -[Matt laughs] 313 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,467 -[Cary] It's, like, half built! -[Matt] Yeah. Oh, I know. 314 00:16:21,266 --> 00:16:23,467 -Um-- -[Caryn] This is so cool! 315 00:16:23,467 --> 00:16:25,266 -[Matt] Come check it out. -[Caryn] I'm pretty shocked. 316 00:16:25,266 --> 00:16:27,867 [Matt] If you take off for a week, that's what happens. 317 00:16:27,867 --> 00:16:30,266 [Caryn] This is, like, crazy. 318 00:16:31,100 --> 00:16:32,867 [Matt] Caryn got back late last night. 319 00:16:32,867 --> 00:16:37,000 She was down in Arizona visiting her folks and checking in on my mom. 320 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:41,867 I decided it was best if I stayed up here and kept tabs on the house build. 321 00:16:41,867 --> 00:16:46,300 Look at this nice, wide hallway. I love the size of these hallways. 322 00:16:46,300 --> 00:16:49,100 I really love the back of the house. 323 00:16:49,100 --> 00:16:53,166 -Yep, the whole layout and plan is really... -Amazing. 324 00:16:53,166 --> 00:16:55,200 ...pretty, pretty amazing. 325 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,000 When those walls, you know, 326 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,400 start going up, it's very exciting. 327 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,266 'Cause you start to take shape. 328 00:17:01,266 --> 00:17:02,567 It makes it all very real. 329 00:17:02,567 --> 00:17:04,667 So this is the door to our bathroom. 330 00:17:04,667 --> 00:17:07,867 -[Caryn] Wow. What is that? -[Matt] That's my sunken shower. 331 00:17:07,867 --> 00:17:11,367 -So that it's no steps. -[Caryn] Nice. 332 00:17:11,367 --> 00:17:14,767 I came back, I could not believe the advancement of this house. 333 00:17:14,767 --> 00:17:18,367 Matt had sent me a couple pictures and I could hear the excitement in his voice, 334 00:17:18,367 --> 00:17:20,000 and seeing 335 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:25,367 this dream, you know, really start to take shape. That was very exciting for me. 336 00:17:25,367 --> 00:17:27,600 Wait, you left the bar in. 337 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:33,734 [laughs] Sorry, I made a call. I had to make decisions while you were gone. 338 00:17:36,367 --> 00:17:40,500 I mean, I don't think they were necessary, but if they make him happy, then-- 339 00:17:40,500 --> 00:17:43,066 I just know that I keep him in check a little bit. 340 00:17:43,066 --> 00:17:46,000 I know that this was Amy's role for a long time. 341 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,266 You know, as he's running full force across the street, 342 00:17:48,266 --> 00:17:51,567 she's leaning out and kind of trying to get him from, 343 00:17:51,567 --> 00:17:53,000 you know, having a car hit him. 344 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:58,900 You do have to have some boundaries, so it's almost the voice of reason? 345 00:17:58,900 --> 00:18:01,967 This isn't lined up with that. Does this wall come out that far? 346 00:18:01,967 --> 00:18:05,800 -No, the wall's back here. I could put a rack here. -That's what I'm thinking. 347 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,367 -Yeah. -Like, you could totally... 348 00:18:07,367 --> 00:18:09,667 [Matt] Put little cereal boxes, bread, things like that. 349 00:18:09,667 --> 00:18:13,767 So, if we wanted to. That's a decision we'll make downstream. 350 00:18:16,100 --> 00:18:18,200 I think my 351 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,467 preferences that, certain things that I want 352 00:18:20,467 --> 00:18:22,000 will probably come into the decorating. 353 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:23,867 That's where we'll have a struggle. 354 00:18:23,867 --> 00:18:27,400 -Our tastes have always been similar but not exact. -[Matt laughs] 355 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,667 When I go for too much rustic, there's gonna be some friction. 356 00:18:30,667 --> 00:18:34,266 Oh, boy. [laughs] 357 00:18:34,266 --> 00:18:35,867 [Caryn] How do you like the bunk room? 358 00:18:35,867 --> 00:18:39,367 -Do you-- Is it? -I like it. It's great. It's perfect size. 359 00:18:39,367 --> 00:18:42,600 I'm real excited about this house because there's gonna be a bunk room, 360 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:44,166 so when the grandkids 361 00:18:44,166 --> 00:18:48,867 come over, they're gonna see that there's plenty of space for them to hang out. 362 00:18:48,867 --> 00:18:52,967 Matt always had a vision where he wanted to be able to sit between the bunkbeds 363 00:18:52,967 --> 00:18:56,100 and read a story to all the grandkids before they went to bed. 364 00:18:56,100 --> 00:18:57,500 -Oh. -And that's just what we're gonna do. 365 00:18:57,500 --> 00:18:59,867 So that, hopefully, will happen. 366 00:18:59,867 --> 00:19:04,667 -I'm so impressed at how far you got it. -Yeah, thank you. 367 00:19:04,667 --> 00:19:06,166 I'm not raising a family. 368 00:19:06,166 --> 00:19:08,967 Now these are grandkids, they may or may not-- They all live fairly close. 369 00:19:08,967 --> 00:19:11,100 I mean, Zach and Tori are kind of an hour away, 370 00:19:11,100 --> 00:19:14,867 but I'm thinking that, you know, Grandpa might get some 371 00:19:14,867 --> 00:19:17,667 more babysitting duties, and if they need to stay overnight, 372 00:19:17,667 --> 00:19:21,667 I wanna be able to facilitate them comfortably in this bunk room. 373 00:19:21,667 --> 00:19:24,100 Well, is this all pretty exciting? 374 00:19:24,100 --> 00:19:27,100 This is very, very overwhelming actually. 375 00:19:27,100 --> 00:19:31,667 I honestly wasn't thinking it was gonna happen, so I'm very proud of you. 376 00:19:31,667 --> 00:19:34,467 [Matt] Amy and I always had plans to build a big house. 377 00:19:34,467 --> 00:19:38,600 And then we realized that the family was growing. We didn't have time 378 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:42,967 to do another big house. So we remodeled the farm house. 379 00:19:42,967 --> 00:19:45,367 At that time, Amy and I were a team. 380 00:19:45,367 --> 00:19:49,900 But, you know, things change, and, uh, life is that way. 381 00:19:49,900 --> 00:19:52,667 -Come look at the rest of the house. -[Caryn] Okay. 382 00:19:52,667 --> 00:19:54,467 I think Caryn and I are... 383 00:19:54,467 --> 00:19:55,800 She's a great partner and I think 384 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,567 that things are all coming together now that the house is, 385 00:19:58,567 --> 00:20:00,900 you know, well on its way. 386 00:20:00,900 --> 00:20:03,166 And this is our bedroom door. 387 00:20:03,166 --> 00:20:07,000 [Caryn] Aren't you supposed to, like, carry me across the threshold or something? 388 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,567 -[laughs] Watch me crumble. -Oh, my gosh, snap. 389 00:20:09,567 --> 00:20:12,867 -Look at our view. Look at the view from the bedroom. -[Caryn] Stop it. 390 00:20:12,867 --> 00:20:16,800 I think I'm gonna cry. That is so beautiful. 391 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,800 [Matt] I'm feeling very happy that it's happening. 392 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:23,166 You start kind of realizing that this is gonna be a room 393 00:20:23,166 --> 00:20:24,166 that you're gonna spend 394 00:20:24,166 --> 00:20:25,100 the rest of your life in. 395 00:20:25,100 --> 00:20:26,333 It's dramatic. 396 00:20:26,767 --> 00:20:29,667 [Caryn] Wow. You did it! 397 00:20:29,667 --> 00:20:32,166 -Are you happy? Yeah. -Yeah! This was your vision. 398 00:20:32,166 --> 00:20:35,867 I think the house is just, it's just a normal 399 00:20:35,867 --> 00:20:40,867 step in the process of where we wanna be together. 400 00:20:40,867 --> 00:20:43,300 -Yeah. -So, this will just sort of be the next step 401 00:20:43,300 --> 00:20:45,166 in our evolution of our relationship, 402 00:20:45,166 --> 00:20:46,567 in our future, 403 00:20:46,567 --> 00:20:48,667 and we've talked about it forever. 404 00:20:48,667 --> 00:20:50,300 So, I'm excited about it. 405 00:20:50,300 --> 00:20:51,266 Are you? 406 00:20:51,266 --> 00:20:53,867 Yeah. I'm very excited about that. Yes. 407 00:20:53,867 --> 00:20:56,433 -I'm glad you're happy about it. -[Caryn] I love it! 408 00:20:58,300 --> 00:20:59,400 [woman] Coming up... 409 00:21:01,567 --> 00:21:03,100 Jackson and Lilah definitely are getting to that age 410 00:21:03,100 --> 00:21:04,767 where they're trying to push each other's buttons. 411 00:21:05,100 --> 00:21:06,200 No! 412 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:07,600 -[Zach] Lilah, Lilah! -[Lilah screaming and crying] 413 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,266 [Zach] Jackson, Jackson! 414 00:21:09,266 --> 00:21:11,000 Guys, just chill for a second. 415 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,066 -[Lilah crying] -Hey, hey, hey. 416 00:21:13,900 --> 00:21:14,867 Hey! 417 00:21:15,700 --> 00:21:17,333 Okay. Let's go! 418 00:21:21,367 --> 00:21:24,333 [upbeat music playing] 419 00:21:33,100 --> 00:21:35,367 [Zach] All right. Here we are. 420 00:21:35,367 --> 00:21:37,300 Let's see who finds the best couch. 421 00:21:37,300 --> 00:21:40,066 We're gonna ask them, do they have cheap couches? 422 00:21:40,767 --> 00:21:42,567 Tori's still on her girls' trip. 423 00:21:42,567 --> 00:21:45,200 Um, so it's just me and the kids, and today we're gonna... 424 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,166 I'm gonna take the kids furniture shopping. 425 00:21:47,166 --> 00:21:48,266 I don't take all three of them 426 00:21:48,266 --> 00:21:50,467 out in the world like this often. 427 00:21:50,467 --> 00:21:53,166 It's not our first, but it's pretty close to being our first. 428 00:21:55,467 --> 00:21:57,066 I'm not quite sure how things are gonna go. 429 00:21:57,066 --> 00:21:58,700 It'd definitely be easier with two parents. 430 00:21:58,700 --> 00:22:00,300 But it's not like you're trying to shop, 431 00:22:00,300 --> 00:22:02,266 you know, to couch stores. 432 00:22:02,266 --> 00:22:04,467 So, I hope we'll be okay. 433 00:22:04,467 --> 00:22:06,467 Let's go see what they have. 434 00:22:06,467 --> 00:22:08,867 Today we're just looking at some couches. 435 00:22:08,867 --> 00:22:12,100 Um, I wanna get a couch upstairs in the shop. 436 00:22:12,100 --> 00:22:14,266 I think I have to do it before we get our doors in 437 00:22:14,266 --> 00:22:15,567 'cause it's not gonna fit. 438 00:22:15,567 --> 00:22:17,066 So, I think anything-- 439 00:22:18,667 --> 00:22:21,467 Okay. Yeah. Okay, okay. 440 00:22:21,467 --> 00:22:22,967 -Um-- -[Jackson speaking] 441 00:22:22,967 --> 00:22:24,033 [Zach] Yeah? 442 00:22:26,900 --> 00:22:28,800 Ooh! Look at this one straight ahead, bud. 443 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:29,867 Do you like this one? 444 00:22:31,300 --> 00:22:32,266 This one good? 445 00:22:32,767 --> 00:22:34,266 [Jackson speaking] 446 00:22:34,266 --> 00:22:35,934 Should we call it good? Done? 447 00:22:37,100 --> 00:22:38,133 Let's see how much it is. 448 00:22:39,300 --> 00:22:41,166 Jiminy crickets! 449 00:22:41,166 --> 00:22:42,867 Tori and me do not have the same taste, 450 00:22:42,867 --> 00:22:45,667 and so, uh, sometimes it's easier just to pick something out 451 00:22:45,667 --> 00:22:47,266 when Tori's gone. 452 00:22:47,266 --> 00:22:50,467 Tori just brings a lot of extra to shopping. 453 00:22:50,467 --> 00:22:53,967 Extra style, taste, expense, opinions. 454 00:22:53,967 --> 00:22:55,200 Tori's probably not gonna like it 455 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,467 because I picked it out. [laughs] 456 00:22:56,467 --> 00:22:58,667 But is she gonna absolutely reject it 457 00:22:58,667 --> 00:23:00,300 or will she tolerate it? 458 00:23:00,300 --> 00:23:01,300 You know what I'm saying? 459 00:23:01,300 --> 00:23:03,667 That's the thought process in my head. [laughs] 460 00:23:03,667 --> 00:23:04,667 What are you doing? 461 00:23:04,667 --> 00:23:06,266 Are you supposed to be standing on furniture 462 00:23:06,266 --> 00:23:07,333 with your shoes? 463 00:23:07,867 --> 00:23:09,033 I wonder what this is. 464 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,467 Do you know where the tag is, Jackson? 465 00:23:16,300 --> 00:23:17,266 [Zach] What? 466 00:23:18,166 --> 00:23:19,166 That's okay. 467 00:23:23,867 --> 00:23:25,100 Jackson and Lilah love each other, 468 00:23:25,100 --> 00:23:26,300 but they definitely are getting to that age 469 00:23:26,300 --> 00:23:28,100 where they're trying to push each other's buttons. 470 00:23:28,100 --> 00:23:29,800 Anytime we go anywhere, sometimes, like, 471 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,367 say I did wanna stop and look at a tag for a second, 472 00:23:32,367 --> 00:23:35,066 it's like, "Guys just chill for a second," you know? 473 00:23:35,066 --> 00:23:38,600 They just know to... Dad's paying attention to something other than us. 474 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,033 Therefore, cause chaos. [laughs] 475 00:23:41,567 --> 00:23:43,233 Hey, look at me. 476 00:23:43,467 --> 00:23:44,567 Chill. 477 00:23:44,567 --> 00:23:45,667 Stop. Look at me. 478 00:23:45,667 --> 00:23:46,667 Chill. 479 00:23:46,667 --> 00:23:48,700 [Jackson speaking] 480 00:23:48,700 --> 00:23:50,433 Hey, oh, oh, oh. 481 00:23:51,700 --> 00:23:53,767 What? Why would you do that? 482 00:23:53,767 --> 00:23:55,500 Lilah, this way. This way. 483 00:23:55,500 --> 00:23:57,900 -[loudly] Oh! -[Zach] Okay. Shh. 484 00:23:57,900 --> 00:23:59,500 -[Jackson speaking] -[Zach] That's pretty cool. 485 00:23:59,500 --> 00:24:01,867 Yeah. Can you put those back? 486 00:24:01,867 --> 00:24:04,166 -[Jackson speaking] -Oh, hey, go put that back, okay? 487 00:24:05,567 --> 00:24:07,467 [Zach] No, Lilah's moving you. 488 00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:11,667 [Lilah speaking] 489 00:24:11,667 --> 00:24:13,166 -[Zach] Lilah! Lilah! -[Lilah screaming] 490 00:24:13,166 --> 00:24:16,266 -[crying] -[Zach] Jackson! Jackson! Jackson! 491 00:24:16,266 --> 00:24:18,100 Tori's very good at disciplining 492 00:24:18,100 --> 00:24:19,867 the kids in public. 493 00:24:19,867 --> 00:24:22,166 I get, like... I just don't like it. 494 00:24:22,166 --> 00:24:23,600 But she's, like, not afraid of that. 495 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,066 And then the kids know, 496 00:24:25,066 --> 00:24:26,200 like, "We can't do this in public, 497 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,100 Mom doesn't care if we have the whole world looking at us." 498 00:24:29,100 --> 00:24:30,166 Hey, Lilah. 499 00:24:30,166 --> 00:24:31,734 [cell phone ringing] 500 00:24:33,100 --> 00:24:35,667 -Hey! -[Tori] Yay! Hi! 501 00:24:35,667 --> 00:24:38,233 [Lilah screaming and crying] 502 00:24:40,900 --> 00:24:42,767 [Zach] All right, let me... Let's call you back. 503 00:24:42,767 --> 00:24:43,700 [Tori] Okay. 504 00:24:43,700 --> 00:24:44,700 [screams] 505 00:24:44,700 --> 00:24:46,500 Lilah, Lilah, Lilah! 506 00:24:46,500 --> 00:24:48,066 [Lilah crying hysterically] 507 00:24:48,066 --> 00:24:49,834 Hey, hey, hey! 508 00:24:50,867 --> 00:24:51,934 Hey! 509 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,367 Okay. Come on. Let's go. 510 00:24:57,300 --> 00:24:58,634 Ooh! Look at this. 511 00:24:59,867 --> 00:25:01,567 -Can you say thank you? -[Jackson speaking] 512 00:25:01,567 --> 00:25:03,200 -You're welcome. -All right. Thank you. 513 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,266 Now, look at that. You guys have a balloon now. 514 00:25:06,266 --> 00:25:08,066 All right. Let's go find the car. 515 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,367 Taking three kids shopping, 516 00:25:10,367 --> 00:25:11,967 I don't know, I had no worries. 517 00:25:11,967 --> 00:25:13,467 I was a little cocky. 518 00:25:13,467 --> 00:25:14,567 It wasn't like the end of the world, 519 00:25:14,567 --> 00:25:16,166 but they definitely were over it. 520 00:25:16,166 --> 00:25:17,867 You know, it'd be nice if Tori was here. 521 00:25:17,867 --> 00:25:19,100 But she's not. 522 00:25:19,100 --> 00:25:21,600 And I'm glad that she's enjoying her time with her friends. 523 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,000 But, you know, 524 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,467 I think it's a lot of work with three kids. 525 00:25:24,467 --> 00:25:26,066 Still gotta go home, make dinner, 526 00:25:26,567 --> 00:25:28,467 you know, clean up, 527 00:25:28,467 --> 00:25:30,266 you know, but that's just what it is, you know. 528 00:25:30,266 --> 00:25:31,634 It's just what you have to do. 529 00:25:31,867 --> 00:25:32,767 All right. 530 00:25:32,767 --> 00:25:34,000 Lilah, you come to the other side. 531 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,100 Hold on to your balloon. 532 00:25:35,100 --> 00:25:36,367 Jackson, you get in. 533 00:25:36,367 --> 00:25:37,667 I didn't find a couch today. 534 00:25:37,667 --> 00:25:39,767 But, um, I'll probably come back. 535 00:25:39,767 --> 00:25:43,100 And maybe I'll go by myself next time. 536 00:25:43,100 --> 00:25:44,800 And then, Jackson, shut the door once you're in. 537 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:45,767 Oh! 538 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,667 [Zach] Lilah, did you... Did you let go? 539 00:25:50,667 --> 00:25:52,066 [Lilah crying] 540 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,367 Lilah, did you let go of it? 541 00:25:55,367 --> 00:25:57,567 Okay. Come on. No more balloon. 542 00:25:57,567 --> 00:25:58,900 Say, "Bye-bye, balloon." 543 00:25:58,900 --> 00:25:59,867 Say, "Bye-bye." 544 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:01,934 [Lilah speaking] 545 00:26:02,700 --> 00:26:03,700 [woman] Coming up... 546 00:26:03,700 --> 00:26:05,367 I'd like to have some competitions 547 00:26:05,367 --> 00:26:06,667 with some fun prizes. 548 00:26:06,667 --> 00:26:09,166 Can we also emphasize that this is a fundraiser? 549 00:26:09,166 --> 00:26:10,200 Because I'll probably-- 550 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,166 [Matt] No fun! 551 00:26:11,166 --> 00:26:12,667 [both laughing] 552 00:26:12,667 --> 00:26:14,900 Well, we can't talk with these two. 553 00:26:14,900 --> 00:26:16,467 No, no, you can't. 554 00:26:19,166 --> 00:26:20,533 Complete disaster. 555 00:26:24,567 --> 00:26:25,567 [upbeat music playing] 556 00:26:31,667 --> 00:26:33,367 [Zach] Let's go get Josiah. 557 00:26:34,166 --> 00:26:36,667 [Lilah speaking] 558 00:26:36,667 --> 00:26:38,367 [Zach] Hi, are you good? 559 00:26:38,367 --> 00:26:40,367 Do you wanna get some lunch? 560 00:26:40,367 --> 00:26:42,266 Tori's been gone a couple of days now, 561 00:26:42,266 --> 00:26:43,667 and, uh, it's going well. 562 00:26:43,667 --> 00:26:46,667 You know, the stuff that Josiah and Lilah wanna do 563 00:26:46,667 --> 00:26:48,166 isn't usually what Dad wants to do. 564 00:26:48,166 --> 00:26:50,100 And Jackson's at school the whole day, 565 00:26:50,100 --> 00:26:52,300 so it's been a little low-key. 566 00:26:52,300 --> 00:26:54,567 The hardest part has been that Tori left 567 00:26:54,567 --> 00:26:56,867 right when daylight savings time hit. 568 00:26:56,867 --> 00:26:59,000 And it's been brutal. This morning was brutal. 569 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,667 I had to wake up Jackson. 570 00:27:00,667 --> 00:27:02,400 He's been late both days. 571 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,033 And I do not like being late. 572 00:27:04,500 --> 00:27:06,300 Oh. Poo-poos. 573 00:27:06,300 --> 00:27:08,867 Tori does a great job at dressing our kids 574 00:27:08,867 --> 00:27:12,500 -in fancy, creative clothes. -[Lilah screaming] 575 00:27:12,500 --> 00:27:15,400 I can't stand having to find an outfit. 576 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,000 I just wanna grab something. 577 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,166 I went to the store 578 00:27:18,567 --> 00:27:19,967 and I just picked up 579 00:27:19,967 --> 00:27:23,266 a bunch of basic, simple onesies. 580 00:27:23,266 --> 00:27:25,667 So every single day, we just put them in a onesie. 581 00:27:25,667 --> 00:27:27,567 Super simple. [chuckles] Okay? 582 00:27:27,567 --> 00:27:28,533 Come on, Lilah. 583 00:27:29,567 --> 00:27:31,667 This is my point to everything. 584 00:27:31,667 --> 00:27:34,400 Like, everyone has way too many options in this house. 585 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,367 This is literally my uniform. 586 00:27:36,367 --> 00:27:38,200 Black or white. I wear black or white. 587 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,900 And it's super simple every morning, you know. 588 00:27:40,900 --> 00:27:43,767 I'm totally a fan of just simplifying the options. 589 00:27:43,767 --> 00:27:46,000 And I think it'll just be a lot easier 590 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,667 getting out of the house on time if we did that. 591 00:27:54,166 --> 00:27:56,867 -Uh-oh. -[Zach] Okay. What? 592 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,567 What? Did you give him a wipe? 593 00:27:59,567 --> 00:28:00,767 Why'd you do that? 594 00:28:05,700 --> 00:28:07,266 Are you being silly? 595 00:28:12,867 --> 00:28:14,000 It's hot? 596 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,667 [Zach] I think I did a great job with Tori's list. 597 00:28:16,667 --> 00:28:19,266 Picture day went great, the house is pretty clean, 598 00:28:19,266 --> 00:28:20,700 we made the lasagna last. 599 00:28:20,700 --> 00:28:22,800 The only thing I haven't done on the list 600 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,000 was pack the lunch notes for Jackson. 601 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,266 This morning, I forgot again. 602 00:28:27,266 --> 00:28:29,767 Tori's not gonna be happy. [laughs] 603 00:28:29,767 --> 00:28:31,166 Do you know what Mom did yesterday? 604 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,867 She was out from eight in the morning 605 00:28:35,300 --> 00:28:37,767 to 1 o'clock at night. 606 00:28:37,767 --> 00:28:40,567 Incredible. We were in bed by eight. 607 00:28:44,367 --> 00:28:46,500 [Zach] Tori gets back from her trip tomorrow. 608 00:28:46,500 --> 00:28:49,166 Um, and it'll be great to get back to normal. 609 00:28:49,166 --> 00:28:50,767 We've really missed her. 610 00:28:50,767 --> 00:28:52,300 But she deserves it. 611 00:28:52,300 --> 00:28:53,867 Sounds like she's having a lot of fun, 612 00:28:53,867 --> 00:28:56,266 and yeah, we're happy she did that. 613 00:28:56,266 --> 00:28:58,367 You guys wanna practice some walking? 614 00:28:58,367 --> 00:28:59,767 [Zach grunts] 615 00:29:01,467 --> 00:29:02,700 Hey! 616 00:29:02,700 --> 00:29:04,266 [Lilah speaking] 617 00:29:04,266 --> 00:29:06,467 [Zach] All right, we're gonna walk all the way to the living room. 618 00:29:06,467 --> 00:29:09,767 The kids and I have gotten into a nice little routine throughout the day. 619 00:29:09,767 --> 00:29:12,467 After lunch, the three of us will hang out for a while 620 00:29:12,467 --> 00:29:13,567 and then it'll be time for us 621 00:29:13,567 --> 00:29:15,000 to pick Jackson up from school. 622 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,266 [cooing] 623 00:29:17,266 --> 00:29:18,600 [Zach] Si's doing great walking. 624 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,600 He can't catch himself if he falls. 625 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:21,667 Once we're up, though, 626 00:29:21,667 --> 00:29:23,800 he is doing pretty good with walking. 627 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,000 -[Lilah speaking] -All right. 628 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,300 Good job, Si-Si. Let's take a little break. 629 00:29:28,300 --> 00:29:31,934 Josiah's second nap happens, like, a one to three thing. 630 00:29:32,367 --> 00:29:33,834 Night, night, Si-Si! 631 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:35,500 Okay. Let's go. 632 00:29:35,500 --> 00:29:37,100 Whilst Josiah's napping, 633 00:29:37,100 --> 00:29:38,600 Lilah still has a lot of energy. 634 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,000 And so, we're finding things to do. 635 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,767 -[Lilah speaking] -[Zach] Si-Si is sleeping. 636 00:29:44,266 --> 00:29:45,634 You wanna go walk in the water? 637 00:29:46,300 --> 00:29:47,266 [Lilah speaking] 638 00:29:47,266 --> 00:29:49,266 [Zach] You're excited for Mama to be home? 639 00:29:49,266 --> 00:29:51,300 It's been nice hanging out with Lilah and Josiah. 640 00:29:51,300 --> 00:29:53,667 Getting to spend a lot of one-on-one time with them. 641 00:29:53,667 --> 00:29:55,667 This is totally Josiah's Jacket. 642 00:29:55,667 --> 00:29:58,133 Oh, and your boots are on the wrong foot. 643 00:29:58,767 --> 00:30:00,467 Oh, my heavens! 644 00:30:01,467 --> 00:30:02,734 God help us. 645 00:30:04,367 --> 00:30:06,000 -Oh! -[Lilah crying] 646 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,867 [Zach] Lilah, you're looking a little bit like a mess. 647 00:30:07,867 --> 00:30:08,900 You're all muddy. 648 00:30:08,900 --> 00:30:10,467 We have to go inside and change. 649 00:30:10,467 --> 00:30:11,867 [Lilah speaking] 650 00:30:11,867 --> 00:30:13,800 Tori's gonna see everything I did 651 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,767 not exactly how she does it. 652 00:30:15,767 --> 00:30:17,467 She'll be mortified. 653 00:30:17,467 --> 00:30:20,000 But, like, other dads do the same thing I do, 654 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,000 and... [sighs] ...we just worry about less. [laughs] 655 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,467 Lilah, your shoes are on the wrong feet. 656 00:30:25,467 --> 00:30:26,333 [Lilah speaking] 657 00:30:26,333 --> 00:30:28,367 [Zach] You're wearing Josiah's sweatshirt. 658 00:30:28,367 --> 00:30:29,266 [Lilah speaking] 659 00:30:29,266 --> 00:30:31,000 [Zach] Your pants are inside out. 660 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,100 [Lilah speaking] 661 00:30:32,100 --> 00:30:33,433 [Zach] And now you're all muddy. 662 00:30:34,500 --> 00:30:36,834 Let's go home. Let's change, okay? 663 00:30:37,500 --> 00:30:38,934 [Lilah speaking] 664 00:30:50,166 --> 00:30:51,266 How are you doing? 665 00:30:51,266 --> 00:30:52,467 -[Chris] Good afternoon. -We're gonna park it there. 666 00:30:52,467 --> 00:30:53,634 Hello! 667 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,100 [Matt] Hey, there, Daisy! 668 00:30:58,100 --> 00:31:00,667 [Caryn] Daisy, hi, girl! 669 00:31:00,667 --> 00:31:03,066 -She got a nice haircut. -Yeah, she did. 670 00:31:03,066 --> 00:31:04,266 [Amy] She needed it. 671 00:31:04,266 --> 00:31:06,567 Amy and Chris are stopping by the farm 672 00:31:06,567 --> 00:31:10,867 to discuss this idea about doing a potential charity event 673 00:31:10,867 --> 00:31:13,166 and to kind of brainstorm what that would look like. 674 00:31:13,166 --> 00:31:16,667 I thought the idea that Amy came up with 675 00:31:16,667 --> 00:31:20,367 for the Dwarf Athletic Association of America, 676 00:31:20,367 --> 00:31:22,367 when she mentioned it to Matt, 677 00:31:22,367 --> 00:31:23,767 we were like, "Why wouldn't we?" 678 00:31:23,767 --> 00:31:26,066 -That's just such a great concept. -[Matt] Yeah. 679 00:31:26,066 --> 00:31:29,166 Like, little Jackson is starting to take advantage 680 00:31:29,166 --> 00:31:31,567 of the organization, and then I presume 681 00:31:31,567 --> 00:31:33,900 Lilah will get involved, and then Josiah. 682 00:31:33,900 --> 00:31:36,667 So, it's important to keep the organization healthy, 683 00:31:36,667 --> 00:31:39,667 and if we can help out in some small way, then great. 684 00:31:39,667 --> 00:31:43,100 So, I'm battling a cold and I understand that, uh, 685 00:31:43,100 --> 00:31:45,200 you know, vitamin C is good for you. 686 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,500 So I stopped and got some lemon poppy seed donuts. 687 00:31:48,500 --> 00:31:50,533 -So that should be good for me, right? -[Amy laughs] Okay. 688 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,266 Oh, yeah, I'll grab one. 689 00:31:52,266 --> 00:31:55,000 -Oh, my goodness! That looks so good. -Thank you, Chris. 690 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:55,967 [Chris] Uh-huh. 691 00:31:55,967 --> 00:31:58,233 Anyhoo, charity event. 692 00:31:58,667 --> 00:32:00,066 Yeah. 693 00:32:00,066 --> 00:32:01,667 We got a date blocked out. Um-- 694 00:32:01,667 --> 00:32:03,166 Well, from what you told me, 695 00:32:03,166 --> 00:32:04,867 there's no other dates available. 696 00:32:05,967 --> 00:32:08,166 They were very sparse, yes. 697 00:32:08,166 --> 00:32:09,367 There was a lot of fairly, 698 00:32:09,367 --> 00:32:12,266 like, seven-day stays that were back-to-back. 699 00:32:12,266 --> 00:32:14,867 Well, is there any way that you can check these dates? 700 00:32:15,767 --> 00:32:16,867 The one thing I wanted, 701 00:32:16,867 --> 00:32:19,000 you know, make sure happens at this meeting, 702 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,700 we need a date because you have to let people know. 703 00:32:21,700 --> 00:32:24,000 Matt has got a number of people, I guess, 704 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,166 renting out the farm house 705 00:32:26,166 --> 00:32:27,767 that I've got to nail down the date, 706 00:32:27,767 --> 00:32:30,266 and it's gotta happen now. 707 00:32:30,266 --> 00:32:33,500 If we can push it to June, the weather will be better. 708 00:32:33,500 --> 00:32:34,834 June 24th. 709 00:32:35,767 --> 00:32:38,000 Yeah. Yeah. That could totally work. 710 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,000 June 24th. We're setting a date today. 711 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,967 June 24th. Okay. 712 00:32:41,967 --> 00:32:44,467 Amy, she can cross that line 713 00:32:44,467 --> 00:32:48,867 from micro-manager to, um, dictator quicker than me. 714 00:32:48,867 --> 00:32:50,500 You know, and she can go right there, 715 00:32:50,500 --> 00:32:52,667 and you just fasten your seat belt. 716 00:32:52,667 --> 00:32:55,100 You know, she could boss people around with the best of 'em. 717 00:32:55,100 --> 00:32:56,000 [Chris] What are your thoughts 718 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,300 about doing it in the wedding area? 719 00:32:58,300 --> 00:33:00,567 Using the wedding barn and then that grass area there? 720 00:33:00,567 --> 00:33:02,000 -It's got an amazing view. -Oh, I like that plan. 721 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,667 There's no heat, but I like it. Would you get a tent? 722 00:33:04,667 --> 00:33:06,166 -I'm not doing a tent. -Okay. 723 00:33:06,166 --> 00:33:08,000 -[Amy] That's way too much money. -Yep. 724 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,166 [Amy] Planning for anything, 725 00:33:09,166 --> 00:33:10,667 you know, who's gonna take ownership? 726 00:33:10,667 --> 00:33:11,867 Who's gonna lead this? 727 00:33:11,867 --> 00:33:13,100 I've been there, done that. 728 00:33:13,100 --> 00:33:14,867 You can't have too many leaders 729 00:33:14,867 --> 00:33:16,300 and too many bosses, so... 730 00:33:16,300 --> 00:33:18,400 Well, not only that. Out of the four of us, 731 00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,000 Amy has the most experience. 732 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,567 So, I think it'd be better for Matt and I to kinda 733 00:33:22,567 --> 00:33:24,100 do the peripheral stuff. 734 00:33:24,100 --> 00:33:25,367 [chuckles] 735 00:33:25,367 --> 00:33:26,667 We need to look at the wedding barn, 736 00:33:26,667 --> 00:33:28,166 'cause all of the store stuff 737 00:33:28,166 --> 00:33:31,266 -is all stuffed in the big round middle of it. -Oh, right. 738 00:33:31,266 --> 00:33:34,367 Maybe we could just push it to the back. 739 00:33:34,367 --> 00:33:36,266 So, I wanna get... Nail that down today. 740 00:33:36,266 --> 00:33:39,266 So, we'll take a ride over there and get that figured out. 741 00:33:39,266 --> 00:33:40,333 Okay. 742 00:33:41,767 --> 00:33:43,800 There's a number of ideas being kicked around. 743 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,767 And, you know, Amy made it very clear 744 00:33:45,767 --> 00:33:47,000 that she's in charge. 745 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,567 [laughs] 746 00:33:48,567 --> 00:33:49,767 -Fine by us. -Yeah. 747 00:33:49,767 --> 00:33:50,767 I mean, it was their idea 748 00:33:50,767 --> 00:33:52,266 and we want them to roll with it 749 00:33:52,266 --> 00:33:53,667 and we'll be the support. 750 00:33:53,667 --> 00:33:55,100 -The co-pilots. -Yeah. I'm like, 751 00:33:55,100 --> 00:33:58,066 "Amy, if you're lucky, I'll let you play on my fun ride." 752 00:33:58,066 --> 00:33:59,767 [laughing] 753 00:33:59,767 --> 00:34:01,433 Oh, you two. 754 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,166 -This is gonna be fun. -Yeah. [laughs] 755 00:34:05,166 --> 00:34:08,400 [Caryn] So would it be safe to say we're gonna kinda hover around 756 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,100 a total of 60 people? 757 00:34:10,100 --> 00:34:12,867 That's my expectation, that's my anticipation. 758 00:34:12,867 --> 00:34:15,100 We're just in the beginning of the stage of planning, 759 00:34:15,100 --> 00:34:17,367 but part of a fundraising event 760 00:34:17,367 --> 00:34:19,266 is that, you know, there's a fee, 761 00:34:19,266 --> 00:34:22,567 and that will go towards DAAA. 762 00:34:22,567 --> 00:34:23,667 So, besides dinner, 763 00:34:23,667 --> 00:34:26,000 we'll have some silent auction items. 764 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,266 Uh, we'll have some activities there. 765 00:34:28,266 --> 00:34:30,266 And then, you know, after all of it, 766 00:34:30,266 --> 00:34:31,867 then we'll have entertainment. 767 00:34:31,867 --> 00:34:35,000 You've mentioned you were thinking, like, four to seven? 768 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,467 Yeah, like four to seven. I mean, what do you think? 769 00:34:37,467 --> 00:34:39,100 That seems kinda quick 770 00:34:39,100 --> 00:34:41,567 if we're gonna be adding, you know, a bunch of activities and stuff, 771 00:34:41,567 --> 00:34:44,367 and we need to give people a reason to come here 772 00:34:44,367 --> 00:34:47,100 other than just a "sit down and eat lunch and go". 773 00:34:47,100 --> 00:34:49,367 -Uh-- -Why don't we do maybe, like, four to seven, 774 00:34:49,367 --> 00:34:51,700 and then if people wanna stay till eight or nine, 775 00:34:51,700 --> 00:34:53,667 -then we have our after-party? -[Chris] Yeah. Four to seven is too soon. 776 00:34:53,667 --> 00:34:56,333 That's perfect. That's a good idea. 777 00:34:57,266 --> 00:34:59,266 And then we can always have music 778 00:34:59,266 --> 00:35:01,467 -from, like, seven to nine. -[Caryn] Yeah. 779 00:35:02,266 --> 00:35:04,266 [Amy] Um... What? 780 00:35:04,266 --> 00:35:05,867 Just... Nothing. 781 00:35:05,867 --> 00:35:07,867 Just, like, okay. Let's just do it. 782 00:35:07,867 --> 00:35:08,967 During the meeting, 783 00:35:08,967 --> 00:35:10,867 I could tell there was a point where it seemed like 784 00:35:10,867 --> 00:35:12,667 you and Amy were getting a little agitated 785 00:35:12,667 --> 00:35:15,166 with each other, and I'm not ever 786 00:35:15,166 --> 00:35:16,100 getting in the middle of that. 787 00:35:16,100 --> 00:35:17,567 [chuckles] 788 00:35:17,567 --> 00:35:20,000 Well, I don't wanna get into having to get lights for the parking lot. 789 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,100 So it'd be better if it wrapped before dark. 790 00:35:22,100 --> 00:35:24,166 -That's the longest-- -[Caryn] Seven to nine. She just said. 791 00:35:24,166 --> 00:35:26,100 [Amy] That is the longest day. 792 00:35:26,100 --> 00:35:28,300 -[Chris] Yeah. -So, if it happens to be-- 793 00:35:28,300 --> 00:35:30,266 -How painful! [laughs] -[Chris laughs] 794 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,266 -Complete disaster. -[laughs] 795 00:35:36,266 --> 00:35:39,467 No. I mean, any event is a little bit stressful 796 00:35:39,467 --> 00:35:43,000 and you put a stressed-out Amy and a stressed-out Matt 797 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,667 anywhere in the same... 798 00:35:44,667 --> 00:35:46,367 -In the same box. -...in a one-mile radius, 799 00:35:46,367 --> 00:35:49,767 and it seems like there's a combustion of smoke that just starts. 800 00:35:49,767 --> 00:35:51,700 [laughing] 801 00:35:51,700 --> 00:35:54,100 Can we also emphasize that this is a fundraiser 802 00:35:54,100 --> 00:35:56,266 and we're gonna encourage everyone? 803 00:35:56,266 --> 00:35:57,867 -[Matt] Oh. -Because I'll probably-- 804 00:35:57,867 --> 00:36:00,066 -No fun. [laughs] -[Chris laughs] 805 00:36:00,066 --> 00:36:02,367 Well, we can't talk with these two. 806 00:36:02,367 --> 00:36:04,166 No, no, you can't. 807 00:36:04,166 --> 00:36:07,266 It's a little easier to goof off when you're not the one in charge. 808 00:36:07,266 --> 00:36:10,867 And so, since Amy's taken that role, then... [laughs] 809 00:36:10,867 --> 00:36:13,233 Then yes, it's a little easier to have fun. 810 00:36:14,567 --> 00:36:18,266 I think every 30 minutes, we have a cow bell 811 00:36:18,266 --> 00:36:20,567 and we pass the cowboy hat 812 00:36:20,567 --> 00:36:22,367 and everybody could throw, you know, something. 813 00:36:22,367 --> 00:36:23,867 Everybody will know when the cow bell goes off, 814 00:36:23,867 --> 00:36:26,800 turn around and run with your wallet. 815 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,266 [Matt] I don't have any apprehension with working with Amy. 816 00:36:29,266 --> 00:36:31,567 I just know I can go to Chris and solve it. 817 00:36:31,567 --> 00:36:33,300 -Oh, my gosh. -Figure it out. [laughs] 818 00:36:33,300 --> 00:36:36,767 So, with Chris being the safety net there, 819 00:36:36,767 --> 00:36:39,266 I'm pretty sure, um, 820 00:36:39,266 --> 00:36:42,000 we can stay out of any conflict. 821 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,500 Okay. So, should we head over to the wedding barn? 822 00:36:44,500 --> 00:36:46,700 Okay. You guys wanna ride with us? 823 00:36:46,700 --> 00:36:49,100 -Yeah. -We'll get a meal out there. We'll go over there. 824 00:36:49,100 --> 00:36:51,266 I'm sure it's a little uncomfortable for Matt 825 00:36:51,266 --> 00:36:54,166 to, you know, be in a room planning an event with his ex. 826 00:36:54,166 --> 00:36:57,400 I'm sure there's elements, that we push each other's buttons, 827 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,667 but, uh, 828 00:36:58,667 --> 00:37:00,400 if I didn't think, by the end of the day, 829 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:05,400 that I could work with Matt on this fundraising project, 830 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,000 I wouldn't have broached it. 831 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,000 But no, it definitely occurs to me, like, 832 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,867 I did have a choice in this. 833 00:37:11,867 --> 00:37:13,467 [clicks tongue] 834 00:37:13,467 --> 00:37:14,934 And here I go. 835 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,433 [Matt] Just for the record, 836 00:37:16,433 --> 00:37:20,266 I loved the idea of this, the party being out here. 837 00:37:20,266 --> 00:37:23,467 [Amy] Okay. That is not the indication you gave 838 00:37:23,467 --> 00:37:26,233 multiple times. 839 00:37:30,166 --> 00:37:31,200 [upbeat music playing] 840 00:37:46,934 --> 00:37:47,900 [engine stops] 841 00:37:51,834 --> 00:37:53,333 -Gentle. -[Jackson] Oh, ow! 842 00:37:53,333 --> 00:37:54,433 [chuckles] Are you okay? 843 00:37:54,867 --> 00:37:56,400 [Zach] The crazy one. 844 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,000 Are you excited to be back? 845 00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,734 I'm so excited to be back. 846 00:38:00,467 --> 00:38:01,934 I missed my family. 847 00:38:02,967 --> 00:38:04,400 [Tori] I went on a girls' trip. 848 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:05,467 It was so nice 849 00:38:05,467 --> 00:38:07,166 to just spend time with my friends, 850 00:38:07,166 --> 00:38:08,367 and when I got home, 851 00:38:08,367 --> 00:38:10,600 Zach and the kids were outside waiting for me. 852 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,333 I was so excited to see you and my kids again. 853 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,900 [Zach] Look at Mama! 854 00:38:17,967 --> 00:38:19,266 [Tori] Hi! 855 00:38:19,266 --> 00:38:21,333 -[Zach] Hi. -Come here. 856 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,934 -I missed you so much. -[Zach] You see Mama? 857 00:38:26,934 --> 00:38:28,667 How are you? 858 00:38:28,667 --> 00:38:30,233 Oh, I missed you so much. 859 00:38:30,567 --> 00:38:32,133 How are you? 860 00:38:32,133 --> 00:38:36,133 -How are you? -Good. I missed my family! 861 00:38:38,767 --> 00:38:40,667 What was the hardest part about being away? 862 00:38:40,667 --> 00:38:43,967 Not a lot was difficult for me. 863 00:38:43,967 --> 00:38:46,133 It was fairly easy. It was very nice. 864 00:38:46,133 --> 00:38:47,333 [Zach] Did you feel refreshed though? 865 00:38:47,333 --> 00:38:48,367 [Tori] Oh, yeah. 866 00:38:48,367 --> 00:38:50,867 When you become a mom and you're breast-feeding 867 00:38:50,867 --> 00:38:53,000 and you are pregnant, 868 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,467 like, you're constantly attached to someone else. 869 00:38:56,467 --> 00:38:58,400 Like, someone's needing something from you. 870 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,166 And so, I think that was the best part of it 871 00:39:00,166 --> 00:39:02,667 was just like my body's mine again. 872 00:39:02,667 --> 00:39:04,233 I'm not pregnant. I'm not breast-feeding. 873 00:39:04,233 --> 00:39:05,567 I'm not trying to get pregnant. 874 00:39:05,567 --> 00:39:09,166 Like, it was just nice to get away and have my own time 875 00:39:09,166 --> 00:39:11,166 where somebody didn't need me. 876 00:39:11,166 --> 00:39:13,066 I think the kids liked having just Dad though. 877 00:39:13,066 --> 00:39:14,667 Yeah, I bet they did. 878 00:39:14,667 --> 00:39:16,367 We can wear whatever we wanted. 879 00:39:16,367 --> 00:39:17,967 -[Tori laughing] -Eat whatever we wanted. 880 00:39:17,967 --> 00:39:19,333 [Tori] Okay. 881 00:39:19,333 --> 00:39:21,033 Zach did a great job while I was gone. 882 00:39:21,033 --> 00:39:23,266 Everyone's still breathing. Dad's still breathing. 883 00:39:23,266 --> 00:39:24,500 -They're still breathing. -The house is very clean. 884 00:39:24,500 --> 00:39:26,767 Yeah. The house was fantastic. 885 00:39:26,767 --> 00:39:29,333 Now you just push this all around like this, okay? 886 00:39:29,767 --> 00:39:30,667 [Lilah] Okay. 887 00:39:30,667 --> 00:39:32,033 Here. 888 00:39:32,033 --> 00:39:34,834 Right before Tori got back, I did a clean-up of the whole house, 889 00:39:34,834 --> 00:39:36,333 and Lilah helped me too. 890 00:39:36,333 --> 00:39:38,166 She was probably excited that Mom was coming back, 891 00:39:38,166 --> 00:39:40,467 and, uh, yeah, she was being helpful. 892 00:39:43,667 --> 00:39:44,867 Sorry. 893 00:39:44,867 --> 00:39:46,367 I'm probably gonna do it more. 894 00:39:46,367 --> 00:39:47,333 [laughing] 895 00:39:47,333 --> 00:39:48,567 'Cause you're so good at it. 896 00:39:48,567 --> 00:39:51,333 So, now I'm like, "Can't wait for the next trip." 897 00:39:52,767 --> 00:39:54,867 -[Tori] Si-Si! Where are you going? -I forgot 898 00:39:54,867 --> 00:39:56,433 to put the notes in the lunch box. 899 00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,867 -You forgot? -I forgot. 900 00:39:59,867 --> 00:40:01,266 I thought about it every morning. 901 00:40:01,266 --> 00:40:02,667 Babe, how excited would he have been 902 00:40:02,667 --> 00:40:04,734 -if he read that, Zach? -Tori, I know. 903 00:40:04,734 --> 00:40:06,033 It's a bummer I forgot. 904 00:40:06,767 --> 00:40:09,600 The mornings did get hectic, okay. 905 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,066 -Yeah. -And I forgot the notes 906 00:40:11,066 --> 00:40:14,266 in the lunch pail during that time. 907 00:40:14,266 --> 00:40:16,133 Every day. [laughs] I just didn't do that. 908 00:40:16,133 --> 00:40:17,667 -[Tori] You live and you learn. -[Zach] Yeah. 909 00:40:17,667 --> 00:40:20,333 I just realized I forgot a note today. 910 00:40:20,333 --> 00:40:22,066 [exhales in relief] 911 00:40:22,066 --> 00:40:24,667 Happens to the best of us. 912 00:40:24,667 --> 00:40:26,667 [Zach] Is my parenting style different than yours? 913 00:40:26,667 --> 00:40:27,634 A little bit. 914 00:40:28,500 --> 00:40:30,567 Who's, like, more chill? Mom or me? 915 00:40:32,667 --> 00:40:34,667 Mom is? 916 00:40:34,667 --> 00:40:36,500 I don't think you know what chill means. 917 00:40:36,500 --> 00:40:39,567 Don't pat him on the head. That's kinda weird. 918 00:40:42,934 --> 00:40:46,100 [laughs] No. You choose whoever it is. 919 00:40:48,066 --> 00:40:50,000 Guilt-tripping to that one. 920 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,967 What was it like having Dad in charge 921 00:40:51,967 --> 00:40:53,000 and Mom out of town? 922 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,834 Oh. Was the house more crazy without Mom? 923 00:41:00,166 --> 00:41:01,100 [giggles] 924 00:41:01,467 --> 00:41:02,834 Why? 925 00:41:04,934 --> 00:41:06,967 [Tori] Hey, it's getting a little cold for Si. 926 00:41:06,967 --> 00:41:08,166 We're gonna go in. 927 00:41:08,166 --> 00:41:09,166 [Zach] Got it. 928 00:41:09,667 --> 00:41:11,100 I fully appreciate Tori 929 00:41:11,100 --> 00:41:13,367 and everything she does on a daily basis. 930 00:41:13,367 --> 00:41:15,767 I think Tori and me, like, we definitely parent together. 931 00:41:15,767 --> 00:41:17,934 You know, we don't have long periods of time 932 00:41:17,934 --> 00:41:20,166 when there's just one of us with all the kids. 933 00:41:20,166 --> 00:41:22,500 And so it makes each other appreciate each other 934 00:41:22,500 --> 00:41:25,200 more that we're doing this together. 935 00:41:25,667 --> 00:41:26,834 [Tori] Come on. 936 00:41:27,367 --> 00:41:29,200 I'm leaving. Come on. 937 00:41:31,467 --> 00:41:33,667 [woman] Next on Little People, Big World... 938 00:41:33,667 --> 00:41:35,767 Amy, I gotta show you the kitchen plan. 939 00:41:35,767 --> 00:41:37,467 Do you now? 940 00:41:37,467 --> 00:41:39,734 I don't really have a need or a desire 941 00:41:39,734 --> 00:41:42,100 to check out the house that Matt's building. 942 00:41:42,100 --> 00:41:45,166 I've been through so many construction sites on this farm. 943 00:41:45,166 --> 00:41:47,100 Working with him or being with him 944 00:41:47,100 --> 00:41:48,767 can be very exhausting. 945 00:41:48,767 --> 00:41:51,400 We're doing the wall. No, we're not. 946 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:52,667 -Right, Caryn? -[Chris laughs] 947 00:41:52,667 --> 00:41:53,767 Whatever you want. 948 00:41:53,767 --> 00:41:54,734 Hasn't changed. 949 00:41:56,100 --> 00:41:57,367 [Zach] Here he comes. 950 00:41:57,367 --> 00:41:58,367 Go, go, go, go, go. 951 00:41:58,367 --> 00:42:00,266 I am coaching Jackson's soccer team. 952 00:42:00,266 --> 00:42:02,100 Jackson, you're open. Jackson! 953 00:42:02,100 --> 00:42:03,367 Some of the opposing kids 954 00:42:03,367 --> 00:42:04,767 point out that he's different, 955 00:42:04,767 --> 00:42:06,767 and he's starting to hear that for the first time. 956 00:42:06,767 --> 00:42:08,600 -Are you okay? -[Jackson speaking] 957 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,000 We need to be very aware how we respond 958 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,634 because it's just... It's not ever gonna stop. 959 00:42:19,367 --> 00:42:20,767 You go, Caryn. You go-- 960 00:42:20,767 --> 00:42:22,734 No. You do it. 961 00:42:24,266 --> 00:42:25,266 [sighs]