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[Matt] Previously on
Little People, Big World...
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Are you ready
for three against one?
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I'm going on a three-night
trip to California.
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-[Jackson] Papa.
-I know, hang on.
I'm trying to wipe the poop.
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[Zach] Jackson,
are you ready to roll?
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Lilah, find your shoes.
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It is like, okay, you know,
you're diving in for three
days of, like, who knows what.
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[Lilah crying and screaming]
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Hey, hey, hey.
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Nice. Let's go.
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[Matt] And that's just
our bedroom door.
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[Caryn] Aren't you
supposed to, like,
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-carry me across
the threshold or something?
-[Matt laughing] Yeah.
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[Caryn] The house
is the next step
in our relationship.
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So I'm excited
about it.
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[Matt] Look at the view.
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[Caryn] I think I'm gonna cry!
That is so beautiful!
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-Are you?
-Yeah, I'm, I'm very excited
about that, yes.
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Anywho, charity event.
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[Amy] Chris and I were
thinking about putting on
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a small little
charity function
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and Matt offered the farm up
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to, uh, host the event.
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We can always have music
from like 7:00 to 9:00.
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I don't wanna get into having
to get lights, though.
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Be better if it wrapped
before dark.
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That is the longest day.
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Okay, let's just do it.
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Amy, she can cross that line
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from micro-manager
to dictator
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and you just
fasten your seat belt.
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That's his farm now.
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-Who's gonna be in charge?
-Me. Me.
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[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
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[motor whirring]
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[Amy] What are you doing?
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It always loses--
The tires lose air
over the winter,
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so that's the first thing
I have to do
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and walked around,
checked nuts and bolts,
everything seems to be okay.
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So nice enough
to ride, you think?
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I think so. For a short ride,
maybe up to the farm.
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All right.
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It's just about warm enough
to take the bike out.
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Still a lot to do
at the fundraiser,
but we're gonna take a break.
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And just go to the farm
and, uh, check out
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the latest progress
on Matt's house.
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Okay, I'll get the key fob
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and then, uh,
see if she starts up
and if so, let's...
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-Hey, am I ready for this?
-...go for a cruise.
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[Amy] I don't really have
a need or a desire
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to check out the house
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that Matt's building
on the farm.
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For him to wanna go over
and see the house,
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it's interesting to Chris.
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Okay. To me,
it's pretty bland.
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I am pretty much
just going for the ride
and for him.
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Thought I had the key
on me, but I...
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Key for what?
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Uh... the bike,
I thought...
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I thought it was
in here but...
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-...it's not.
-Oh, dear.
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You may not be able to...
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[cackles] If you lost
the key...
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I didn't lose it.
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It's in the house
somewhere.
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-[chuckles]
-Oh, dear.
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[Amy] I don't know.
Chris can't find the key
to the motorcycle.
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So someone
who's very organized...
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See, that would be
an Amy moment,
not a Chris.
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So, it is best that
I say nothing to him.
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I'm sure if it happened
to me, he would say stuff.
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"Well, you know,
that's what happens.
You're not organized.
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Look at your office."
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We'll see.
Maybe I should go help.
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But see, he likes
being in his moment,
you know.
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I don't know.
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That's a tricky one
with him.
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Do you think
in your office anywhere?
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I just checked, dear.
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[Amy] Oh, dear!
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Well, obviously,
I looked there.
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You know, see,
he doesn't say thank you!
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He just goes like,
"What a... what a moron!"
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But...
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-I know what he's thinking.
-Well, hey, I never...
I never say that out loud.
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This is all my stuff
in here.
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I am running out of places.
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That is so weird.
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It was kind of fun
to see him
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'cause he, he got
kind of flustered.
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-[Amy] And frustrated.
-And I don't like being
in that position.
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Oh!
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My riding pants.
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-Could be in my riding--
-See?
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That's why you keep saying
things 'cause you never know
what'll spark!
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I don't know where,
where those are at.
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Do you have any idea
where those are it?
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-Where did you put all that--
-Possibly this big bin
that says 'MC' on it.
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For 'motorcycle'.
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Ha!
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What do you mean 'ha'?
I told you to look everywhere.
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[Chris chuckles]
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-Oh, gee, mothers.
-Ah!
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-I helped a lot.
-You did.
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-You did.
-Because we would not have
been able to go on this ride
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-if I didn't get your brain...
-All right.
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...thinking in
a different direction.
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I would be lost
without you.
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I know, see?
Isn't that the truth?
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All right, let's get our gear.
We can do this.
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[Amy] Okay.
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[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
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[Caryn] I actually like
this look better.
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That's perfect.
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[Chris] I was surprised
that they got
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all of the walls
up so quick.
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Just a few days ago,
there was just the foundation.
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He's obviously had some
good contractors working
on it
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and it should
go quickly.
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-[Chris] Knock knock,
who's that?
-[Matt] Hey, there they are!
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-[Caryn] Hey, guys!
-[Chris] How you doin'?
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It's gonna be fun
to watch the process
from here on out.
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-You guys are on the bike?
-[Amy] Yeah.
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-[Chris] Yeah, well...
-Oh, great day for it!
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-[Chris] How's your day going?
-Terrible.
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-[Caryn chuckles]
-[Chris] Why?
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There's so many decisions
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that it's drivin' us-- me,
absolutely bonkers.
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She's a good decision-maker.
But I don't like the decisions
she comes up with.
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[Chris, Caryn
and Matt laughing]
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Been there, done that.
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[Matt] And Jim here is like
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saying you've got to decide
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because he's building
the house faster than
we're able to...
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-[Chris] Make decisions?
-...I'm able-- Yeah.
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-[Chris laughs]
-Are they your worst
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nightmare for a home?
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At this rate, we're gonna go
from an eight-month build
to two years.
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[Chris] Oh, yeah?
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[Amy] Matt has a lot
of great ideas.
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But the process of working
with him or being with him
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can be very exhausting,
you know.
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He's often made changes,
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switched it up,
last-minute, you know,
you're all...
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gung-ho to do something
or go here
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or whatever, this way,
and then,
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you gotta radically shift.
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I think that's
the frustrating thing,
so yeah,
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been there, done that.
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Amy, I gotta show you
the kitchen plan.
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-Do you, now?
-Yeah.
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Tell me what
you'd do different.
There's our kitchen.
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-[Caryn sighs]
-Yeah, that's not a bad idea.
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-Yeah, because...
-[Chris] 'Cause we're
gonna have to remodel
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whatever kitchen we get.
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Why would I wanna
look at this?
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I don't know,
because we're trying
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-to make decisions, yeah.
-What for?
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[Chris] Fair.
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Amy, what's interesting
about this house
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is it has a double kitchen.
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What the hell do you need
such a big kitchen for?
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[Matt chuckles]
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What the hell do we need
such a big, giant house for?
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[Amy] I mean,
do you like to cook?
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-[Matt] No.
-[Caryn] No!
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-[Amy] And you're not.
-[Caryn] We're hoping
to cook in the kitchen
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just to get a view.
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So why such a big kitchen?
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[Matt] The small kitchen,
see, this is all low here--
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But you're never
cooking in here.
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[Matt] Maybe.
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[Caryn] No, the oven, he's...
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he's getting the oven
basically on the floor.
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[Amy] Well, when Matt
asked me to look at the model,
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that is just like opening up
a can of worms.
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It's like, this is your house,
this is yours
and Caryn's house.
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Caryn should happy--
be having this input.
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I, being the ex, no.
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I'm not getting myself
involved in that.
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-I mean, wanna see the house?
-Yeah.
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-Let's see it real quick.
-[Matt] Yeah, come check
this out real quick.
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It'll give you some ideas
if you guys ever build.
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When Amy is a little salty
and a little gruff,
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I don't even
notice it anymore.
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She's not gonna come out
and pat me on the back, say,
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"Hey, Matt, good, you finally
built the house you wanted,"
you know.
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-You know.
-I thought she was just fine.
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-She was genuine. She was Amy.
She didn't do anything wrong.
-Yeah.
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She went along
better than expected that
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-she actually came and saw it,
so good for her.
-Yeah.
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[Chris] Just kind of watch
where you walk.
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Sometimes, with so many
construction sites
on this farm.
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Yeah, I bet you have.
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Amy, I'll give you
a quick little tour.
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[Amy] Not the stuff
that I went through.
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Seeing the construction
site now,
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there's less stress because,
you know, we had little kids.
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And we're living
in half a house,
it's not even a house.
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It's bare walls or studs
or whatever it is,
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and we're freezing
half the time, and, you know,
night and day,
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I look at what's
happening now,
this is so much easier.
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'Cause you're still
living someplace else
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and you can come, "Oh yeah,
let's do this, let's do that."
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[Caryn] The dining room
had a bar
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that wrapped
around the corner.
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How many times
have I changed that, Jim?
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And I wanted
to wall it in.
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At least five.
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-Yeah.
-[Jim and Matt chuckle]
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"We're doing the wall."
"No, we're not."
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What are we doing?
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[Matt] We're not
doing the wall.
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-Right, Caryn?
-Whatever you want.
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-[Jim laughing]
-So, wait a minute.
How is it working with him?
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You are a saint
to still be here.
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I am, yeah.
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-Focused.
-Yes. Yeah.
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[Matt laughs]
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-Nope.
-Hasn't changed.
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[Amy] He and Caryn
will get the house
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that, you know,
they kind of want,
or Matt wants,
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and Caryn is, you know,
definitely being a part of it
and everything.
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But, uh, if I never
walked through the house,
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I would be okay, too.
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It's not like I desired
and wanted to.
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But I pretty much went along
with, you know, with Chris.
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I'm glad you guys
aren't throwing blows,
you know.
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Oh, that's all just starting.
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[Amy] That's all
she can handle.
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She came to rescue me
from Jim.
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-[Matt and Chris chuckle]
-[Chris] Right.
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He wants me to pick
the bathtub, so I got
my work cut out for me.
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Oh! Well, you know
he's going to change it.
Don't have to--
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-[Caryn] Right.
-[Matt] Yeah.
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[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
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[Tori] Lilah, get outta there.
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Can it be like
summertime already
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and just, everyone wears
dresses all the time?
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[Zach] Next week,
it's gonna be 72.
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Seventy-two?
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Yeah, Jackson goes to school
everyday, kindergarten,
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'cause there's more time
to spend with Josiah
and Lilah.
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-We've only had one
soccer practice.
-[Tori] I know.
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-This weather
keeps cancelling them.
-He's got one-and-a-half.
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We-- No,
wasn't even a half, Tori.
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-It's like five minutes.
-[Tori chuckles]
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[Zach] Torrential downpour.
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You can get out.
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[Zach] I am coaching
Jackson's soccer team
this spring.
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And I'm excited.
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Uh, soccer's
my favorite sport.
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What I obsessed over
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in my childhood years
and adolescence.
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-Soccer's--
-And even now.
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Yeah, soccer's
my favorite sport.
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Now he just obsesses
about Jackson's soccer.
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Yeah.
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I'm trying to resist so hard
not to take it too seriously.
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-It does--
-It's not working.
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What do you mean
it's not working?
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Babe, you talk
about it everyday.
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You're thinking about, like,
"Where am I gonna
play these kids?"
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"How am I gonna make
my kid look good?"
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I'm not volunteering
my time for free.
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This is all about making
Jackson look good.
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[laughs]
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How do I highlight
his strengths and hide
his shortcomings?
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-Get it? [laughs]
-Shortcomings?
Pun intended.
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[Zach] I want Jackson
to be on a very good team,
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and by coaching him,
also I'm able to, you know,
put him
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in the best positions
for him to succeed.
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'Cause, like,
Jackson's a good player.
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He's our third-top
goal-scorer.
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But physically, he had some
physical limitations that,
me as a coach,
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I was able to kind of help.
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I do that with all the kids
though, too, like,
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there are certain kids
that have strong points
and weak points.
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You wanna put
everyone in positions
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that they can feel good
and succeed.
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-Jackson's always gotta
have a mindset.
-[Lilah screams]
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-Just gotta do the best
he can do.
-[Tori] Yeah.
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[Zach] That's how I did it.
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-[Lilah] Daddy...
-Are you sure you don't
wanna play soccer?
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Lilah, do you want
to get hit in the face
with a soccer ball?
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-That would hurt, huh?
-Yeah.
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-Ouch.
-Hey, should we have
a little team party?
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Or we can just get some,
like, snacks and like...
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No, babe.
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Think of how many parties
you go to and there's snacks.
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And then you're like,
"Dang, I wish there was,
like, actual food here."
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You're gonna have people over,
you gotta feed 'em.
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We're gonna have a couple
of Jackson's soccer friends
over and their parents.
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I think I'm gonna set up
a soccer field for them
and yeah,
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when the kids come, you know,
they can jump outside, play.
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That's how friendships
start for your kids.
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If you want your kids
to make friends,
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you have to make friends.
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Yeah. Yeah, Jackson and me
will go pick up some food.
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-[Zach] We'll do this party.
-Okay.
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-We'll do hamburgers, water,
cheese, maybe some juice.
-[Tori to Lilah] Too much now.
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But if I'm cooking it though,
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I don't really want
you shopping.
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Do you remember Jackson's
first birthday party?
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Do you recall?
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I do recall.
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Apparently we ran out of food.
Hopefully everyone ate.
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-Did you guys eat?
-We ran out?
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I brought 30 burgers
and 30 hot dogs,
and they're gone.
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-[woman] This is
the last of it.
-[Zach] Oh.
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-Tori hasn't eaten.
Your mum hasn't eaten.
-Oh, crap.
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Chris hasn't eaten.
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Tori's mum hasn't eaten.
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[Tori] You gotta have
a lot of food 'cause
there's a lot of people there.
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Okay, Jackson's party
was a mistake.
It was a mistake, okay?
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I still don't think
if you're having 12 people,
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you don't need
36 hamburgers.
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I don't like wasting.
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00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,600
-I think that's ridiculous.
-I agree. But you need
more than 12.
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Yeah, you need
more than 12.
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-Okay!
-[instrument chiming]
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[Zach] Hey, Lilah.
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Could we go bring this toy
back in your room?
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Yeah, it's just so loud.
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[Lilah] This?
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00:13:07,166 --> 00:13:08,333
-[Zach] Yeah.
-"Me?"
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Thank you, Lilah.
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[narrator] Coming up...
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-Wait, we gotta
tell people?
-Slow down!
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We don't have
to tell people.
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00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:21,967
-You got emotional.
-I got emotional.
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I got caught up
in the moment.
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-[Matt] And later...
- [Zach] Here he comes!
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Here he comes!
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Hey! Hey!
Come on, Jackson!
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Some of the opposing kids
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point out that he's different,
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and he's starting
to hear that
for the first time.
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Are you okay?
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[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
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-[Caryn] Thank you so much.
-[server] You're welcome.
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-Popcorn chips
should be right out.
-[Caryn] Thank you.
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00:13:50,467 --> 00:13:53,467
-Well, Ty and Shelly should
be here any minute. Cheers.
-Yeah, yeah.
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00:13:55,667 --> 00:13:59,000
Um, you need-- It's polite
to take a drink
after you toast.
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00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,667
-Oh! Sorry.
-Try again.
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00:14:01,667 --> 00:14:03,467
Okay.
347
00:14:03,467 --> 00:14:05,166
-Cheers!
-Cheers.
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00:14:05,166 --> 00:14:09,200
[Matt] Caryn and I will be
meeting our friends Ty
and Shelly for dinner.
349
00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,467
We have some really exciting
news to share with them.
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00:14:23,100 --> 00:14:25,367
I, I asked Caryn
to marry me,
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and, um, she said yes.
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00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,166
[Caryn] You said to me,
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"I've thought about this a lot
for a long time
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and I want
to grow old with you."
355
00:14:33,967 --> 00:14:36,667
-That's what he said.
Then I started to cry.
-Yeah.
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00:14:36,667 --> 00:14:38,100
[Matt] Yeah.
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00:14:38,100 --> 00:14:40,700
Thought about this a lot.
That is exactly it...
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I had no idea.
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Come to find out,
he's got, you know,
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00:14:44,700 --> 00:14:47,600
my parents on the hook
and my friends
on the hook and...
361
00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,900
-It was a tight circle
that knew about it.
-Right, right.
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00:14:49,900 --> 00:14:53,700
It was my closest people
but nobody gave me
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00:14:53,700 --> 00:14:55,066
any hints at all.
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00:14:57,266 --> 00:14:59,266
-Hi!
-[Shelly] Hi!
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00:14:59,266 --> 00:15:00,400
-Oh, my God!
-Hey, folks!
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00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,266
-Congratulations!
-[Ty laughing]
367
00:15:03,266 --> 00:15:04,266
-Congrats.
-Thank you.
368
00:15:04,266 --> 00:15:05,166
[Shelly] Hey, Matt!
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00:15:05,166 --> 00:15:06,266
[Shelly] Congratulations!
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00:15:06,266 --> 00:15:07,367
Can you believe it?
371
00:15:07,367 --> 00:15:09,367
-[Ty] I can't believe it!
-[Shelly] Aw!
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00:15:09,367 --> 00:15:11,266
-[Matt] I thought you were
gonna say, "It's about time."
-[Ty] Just a couple weeks ago,
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00:15:11,266 --> 00:15:13,767
-It is about time.
-at our guy's night,
he was all nervous.
374
00:15:13,767 --> 00:15:15,467
-We're in our backyard
in Arizona.
-We're in our backyard
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-in Arizona.
-[Caryn] Like our
favorite spot.
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00:15:16,667 --> 00:15:20,233
The sun had set,
so the ambience
was just really
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00:15:20,767 --> 00:15:22,967
cosy vibes and nice and...
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00:15:22,967 --> 00:15:25,600
I went into the room.
379
00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:28,266
I'd fished the ring
out of my bag
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00:15:28,266 --> 00:15:29,967
and put it in my pocket.
381
00:15:29,967 --> 00:15:33,166
And then I just said,
"You know what?
I should just go for it."
382
00:15:33,166 --> 00:15:36,100
And I pulled the box out
at the exact time
383
00:15:36,100 --> 00:15:37,900
that I said,
"Will you marry me?"
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00:15:37,900 --> 00:15:41,000
And she looked at the box,
looked at me,
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00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,000
and then, she had that
386
00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,266
feeling like, "What's this?"
You know?
387
00:15:46,266 --> 00:15:48,066
But she opened the box.
388
00:15:48,066 --> 00:15:50,100
You know, she's smart.
She knew...
389
00:15:50,100 --> 00:15:52,000
-and I was... I know...
-I didn't. I don't remember.
390
00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,266
There's good things
in this box.
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00:15:54,266 --> 00:15:56,367
Of course, after he asked,
392
00:15:56,367 --> 00:15:58,000
I was so shocked,
and then,
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00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:02,266
we took a minute,
we didn't, we just sat
for a few minutes and just...
394
00:16:02,266 --> 00:16:05,500
-chatted and I was very
excited and I cried.
-Yeah, we--
395
00:16:05,500 --> 00:16:07,367
And he's like, "Don't you
wanna go in the light
and look at it?"
396
00:16:07,367 --> 00:16:10,300
And I'm like, "No, I just
wanna sit here for a minute
and absorb this moment."
397
00:16:10,300 --> 00:16:11,800
'Cause it just...
398
00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:13,000
it just felt right.
399
00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,834
It felt natural.
It felt like it was
always meant to be.
400
00:16:17,166 --> 00:16:20,400
All right! Let me see!
401
00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:24,467
-[gasps] Oh, my gosh!
That is beautiful!
-[Caryn] He did good.
402
00:16:24,467 --> 00:16:25,867
-[Caryn] Thank you!
-[Ty] Well done, man.
403
00:16:25,867 --> 00:16:27,567
-[Shelly] Nice! You did good!
-He did that!
404
00:16:27,567 --> 00:16:28,967
About time.
405
00:16:28,967 --> 00:16:31,867
[Matt] I had been
looking around for a ring.
406
00:16:31,867 --> 00:16:35,266
I saw the right diamond
at the right time
407
00:16:35,266 --> 00:16:37,367
and I ordered the ring.
408
00:16:37,367 --> 00:16:40,266
It arrived about a week
before I went to Arizona.
409
00:16:40,266 --> 00:16:42,500
But I thought it still
doesn't mean we're
gonna get married.
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00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:44,066
Then I put it
in my little bag
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00:16:44,066 --> 00:16:46,567
that I wore
and went down to Arizona.
412
00:16:46,567 --> 00:16:48,867
Then I got kinda nervous
about, you know,
413
00:16:48,867 --> 00:16:51,367
"I wonder if she's gonna
actually like
this thing or..."
414
00:16:51,367 --> 00:16:52,667
I'm glad she said yes.
415
00:16:52,667 --> 00:16:54,266
-So where'd you do it at?
-Hey!
416
00:16:54,266 --> 00:16:55,467
-We gotta hear details.
-[Caryn] Arizona.
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00:16:55,467 --> 00:16:57,967
-[Ty] Arizona?
-He was acting really weird
all day.
418
00:16:57,967 --> 00:16:59,767
-Yeah?
-First he said,
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00:16:59,767 --> 00:17:03,166
"If I ever ask you
to marry me, do I have
to get down on one knee?"
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00:17:03,166 --> 00:17:05,867
And I said, "No!
Of course not!
That's hard for you."
421
00:17:05,867 --> 00:17:08,266
And then he's like,
[imitating Matt] "Well,
then in that case..."
422
00:17:08,266 --> 00:17:10,367
[all laughing]
423
00:17:10,367 --> 00:17:12,867
[in normal voice] And then,
and then he was very sweet
and he said,
424
00:17:12,867 --> 00:17:15,367
"I want to spend
the rest of my life
with you.
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00:17:15,367 --> 00:17:17,467
I wanna grow old with you."
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00:17:17,467 --> 00:17:20,300
And then, all I had seen
at that point was the box.
427
00:17:20,300 --> 00:17:21,867
So I was kind of like...
428
00:17:21,867 --> 00:17:24,200
-Yeah, standard stuff.
-[Ty] Did you cry?
429
00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,266
-I... I...
-[Caryn] He did not cry.
430
00:17:26,266 --> 00:17:27,867
-[Caryn] I cried. I cried.
-He did not cry?
431
00:17:27,867 --> 00:17:30,900
I cried of just complete
and total surprise.
432
00:17:30,900 --> 00:17:34,367
And then I'm like,
"Oh, my gosh!
Who are we gonna tell?"
433
00:17:34,367 --> 00:17:36,200
And he's like, "Whoa, hey!
Whoa! Hey!
434
00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,667
-I'm just coming down
off of this asking here."
-[Shelly laughing]
435
00:17:39,900 --> 00:17:41,567
Wait, we gotta tell people?
436
00:17:41,567 --> 00:17:43,000
"Slow down!"
437
00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,667
We don't have to tell people.
438
00:17:44,667 --> 00:17:48,100
He's like, "I'm just,
I'm just relieved that
this is over.
439
00:17:48,100 --> 00:17:51,367
I've been working on this
for a long time." So he just
wanted to, like,
440
00:17:51,367 --> 00:17:53,767
put on some music
and have a drink and relax.
441
00:17:53,767 --> 00:17:56,767
And I'm like... [babbling]
I was all charged.
442
00:17:58,300 --> 00:18:01,367
I thought you were just gonna
give her a ring and say,
"Hey, we're friends forever."
443
00:18:01,367 --> 00:18:02,667
[Caryn and Shelly laughing]
444
00:18:02,667 --> 00:18:04,100
-"Friends Forever"?
-[Ty] "Friends Forever," yeah.
445
00:18:04,100 --> 00:18:06,266
-Friends forever.
-Yeah.
446
00:18:06,266 --> 00:18:07,967
-[Ty] That's what I thought.
-That was the plan.
447
00:18:07,967 --> 00:18:09,200
-You got emotional.
-Got emotional.
448
00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:10,100
I got emotional.
449
00:18:10,100 --> 00:18:11,300
I got caught up
in the moment.
450
00:18:11,300 --> 00:18:13,266
-[Caryn] Do you wanna rescind?
-No!
451
00:18:13,266 --> 00:18:14,667
-I got...
-Too late!
452
00:18:14,667 --> 00:18:17,000
-I got a very clear 'yes'
from her.
-I think it's been used now.
453
00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:18,467
-Yeah.
-You can't send it back.
454
00:18:18,467 --> 00:18:22,000
We talked about a promise ring
or something years ago.
455
00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,200
A lot of people, you know,
you get divorced,
456
00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:27,700
you know, after being
with somebody, I was with Amy
for 30 years
457
00:18:27,700 --> 00:18:29,266
or, or close to it.
458
00:18:29,266 --> 00:18:32,500
You kind of say, "I don't
ever wanna go through
that again."
459
00:18:32,500 --> 00:18:36,066
Marriage is, is tough
and, um,
460
00:18:36,066 --> 00:18:38,867
it's, it's hard and so,
Caryn and I were thinking
461
00:18:38,867 --> 00:18:40,266
that we had
such a good thing going,
462
00:18:40,266 --> 00:18:41,900
why would we
wanna ruin it?
463
00:18:41,900 --> 00:18:44,867
A commitment ring
sounds kind of cool
and kind of like a good idea.
464
00:18:44,867 --> 00:18:47,200
You know, like, "Hey,
I'm committed and here is
something to prove it."
465
00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:48,934
And whatever
466
00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,767
ceremony or paperwork
we had
467
00:18:51,767 --> 00:18:53,667
was a different issue.
I wanted her to have a ring.
468
00:18:54,667 --> 00:18:56,200
So we don't have
any big plans.
469
00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:57,400
No big wedding?
470
00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,667
-No big wedding.
-No. No!
471
00:18:59,667 --> 00:19:01,100
-We might...
-Cabo.
472
00:19:01,100 --> 00:19:02,567
-[Ty] Cabo?
-...elope in Cabo.
473
00:19:02,567 --> 00:19:05,100
I might go to Cabo
and just get married
on the beach.
474
00:19:05,100 --> 00:19:06,300
[Caryn] That's kinda, yeah.
475
00:19:06,300 --> 00:19:08,567
-[Shelly] Cabo? Oh, yeah!
-We might do something
in Arizona.
476
00:19:08,567 --> 00:19:12,166
Second marriage,
we have both been
married previously.
477
00:19:12,166 --> 00:19:15,400
And we are thinking
very intimate, very small.
478
00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,700
We haven't ruled anybody in
or anybody out.
479
00:19:17,700 --> 00:19:19,400
Maybe we'll just do it
the two of us.
480
00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,000
Um, but we haven't really
nailed anything down yet.
481
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,967
I may or may not have browsed
wedding dresses just for fun.
482
00:19:28,467 --> 00:19:30,667
Wow! This is moving fast.
483
00:19:31,700 --> 00:19:33,266
Did you talk this over
with Chris?
484
00:19:33,266 --> 00:19:35,100
-[Ty and Shelly laughing]
-Oh, my God.
485
00:19:35,100 --> 00:19:38,567
Not really.
He was taken aback
but I did let him know.
486
00:19:38,567 --> 00:19:41,266
-You let Amy know?
-I didn't want Amy to hear it
from the kids, you know.
487
00:19:41,266 --> 00:19:42,367
[Shelly] That was right.
488
00:19:42,367 --> 00:19:44,867
She kicked it right back
and said, "Congratulations"
489
00:19:44,867 --> 00:19:48,367
or something very sincere
and pleasant.
490
00:19:48,367 --> 00:19:49,767
So did you tell
all your kids?
491
00:19:49,767 --> 00:19:51,667
Yep. Let all the kids know.
492
00:19:51,667 --> 00:19:54,000
You know, I made sure
I texted all the kids
493
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,767
and, um, everybody
seemed excited.
494
00:19:55,767 --> 00:19:59,200
I don't think I heard
anything from Zach,
um, you know.
495
00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,800
Which doesn't surprise me.
They're raising three kids,
496
00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,900
and he's kind of in his own
life up there in Battleground.
497
00:20:05,900 --> 00:20:07,667
I didn't take it personally.
498
00:20:07,667 --> 00:20:11,166
No, I'm-- One thing
you need to know about me
is I have very thick skin.
499
00:20:11,166 --> 00:20:12,700
-Toast. Yay!
-Yay!
500
00:20:12,700 --> 00:20:14,266
-[Ty and Shelly]
Congratulations!
-Thank you, I appreciate it.
501
00:20:14,266 --> 00:20:16,266
[all whooping]
502
00:20:16,266 --> 00:20:17,634
[Ty and Shelly]
Congratulations!
503
00:20:19,867 --> 00:20:22,166
-[Caryn] Coming up...
-[Chris] Congratulations.
504
00:20:22,166 --> 00:20:23,800
-Oh, thanks.
-Oh!
505
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:25,367
We're gonna do things
completely different.
506
00:20:25,367 --> 00:20:27,066
We're gonna invite you guys.
507
00:20:28,467 --> 00:20:31,266
We don't even know
if we're inviting our
best friends.
508
00:20:31,266 --> 00:20:33,867
So for him to throw that
out there was like, "Uh-oh!"
509
00:20:33,867 --> 00:20:36,667
-Well, you are gonna need
a best man.
-Yeah.
510
00:20:36,667 --> 00:20:38,200
-Oh, yeah, right, right.
-[Caryn] No...
511
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,166
[Caryn] That might be
a little...
512
00:20:39,166 --> 00:20:40,266
I think that might be
a little weird.
513
00:20:40,266 --> 00:20:42,533
-Come on, Chris!
-Scratch.
514
00:20:47,467 --> 00:20:50,133
[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
515
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,567
I would love to wrap these
so I counted
516
00:20:55,567 --> 00:20:57,467
these corners here
517
00:20:57,467 --> 00:21:02,100
because I think it looks
really good to have those
jambs wrapped in stone.
518
00:21:02,100 --> 00:21:05,700
So the new house
is now... flying.
519
00:21:05,700 --> 00:21:07,767
Today is the day
that the trusses arrive.
520
00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:11,033
A truss holds up the roof.
It's your rafters
on your house.
521
00:21:13,900 --> 00:21:15,200
-[Chris] Hey, guys.
-Hey!
522
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,000
-[Caryn] Hi, Chris!
-Hi!
523
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,533
-[Matt] You know Jim.
-[Jim] Hey, Chris.
524
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:20,500
[Jim] Sorry,
I'll just give you...
525
00:21:20,500 --> 00:21:22,266
-[Chris] Well,
congratulations!
-Oh, thanks.
526
00:21:22,266 --> 00:21:23,500
[Chris] Yeah.
527
00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:26,467
Well, Amy's out running around
on an errand
528
00:21:26,467 --> 00:21:28,667
and I just, uh,
I got a quick note from Matt
529
00:21:28,667 --> 00:21:30,500
that, uh, the trusses
were coming for the house.
530
00:21:30,500 --> 00:21:32,567
So I'm running over
real quick to take a look.
531
00:21:32,567 --> 00:21:34,367
I asked him
to let me know because
532
00:21:34,367 --> 00:21:36,667
you know, kind of one of those
fun projects to watch.
533
00:21:36,667 --> 00:21:39,166
Plus, Matt and Caryn
just got engaged
just a couple days ago.
534
00:21:39,166 --> 00:21:42,467
This'll be my chance
to congratulate him
in person.
535
00:21:42,467 --> 00:21:44,533
I know, first thing,
you know, the...
536
00:21:45,100 --> 00:21:46,700
Oh, that's beautiful.
537
00:21:46,700 --> 00:21:49,667
[Matt] Chris said, you know,
he said, "Tell me the story,
you know."
538
00:21:49,667 --> 00:21:51,700
I hardly ever feel awkward
talking to Chris
539
00:21:51,700 --> 00:21:53,166
about pretty much anything.
540
00:21:53,166 --> 00:21:56,667
Maybe he felt awkward.
I don't know. Have to ask him.
541
00:21:56,667 --> 00:21:58,767
I was, I was quite surprised.
542
00:21:58,767 --> 00:22:01,266
I'm a little miffed that
it's so much bigger
than the one I gave Amy.
543
00:22:01,266 --> 00:22:02,600
[Caryn] Aww!
544
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,266
It's at least twice the size
as the one that I gave
to Amy.
545
00:22:06,266 --> 00:22:08,767
You know, it kind of made me
feel a little bit bad
546
00:22:08,767 --> 00:22:11,400
but fortunately for me,
Amy already told me
ahead of time
547
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:12,767
that she didn't want
548
00:22:12,767 --> 00:22:15,400
a big, gaudy ring
that, you know,
would hang up on things.
549
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:19,000
She has small fingers
and it's still big enough,
you see it.
550
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,166
It's just not near
as big as Caryn's.
551
00:22:21,166 --> 00:22:22,400
[Caryn chuckles]
552
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,667
Well, I kind of got
the impression
from guys' night
553
00:22:24,667 --> 00:22:26,066
that you'd wait
till the house was done.
554
00:22:26,066 --> 00:22:27,166
So did we!
555
00:22:27,166 --> 00:22:29,400
Well, if the house
wasn't in progress,
you know, but...
556
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,867
-I knew it had
to happen sometime...
-Yeah.
557
00:22:31,867 --> 00:22:35,367
...between when we poured
the foundation and when
we finished.
558
00:22:35,367 --> 00:22:37,133
But that didn't matter to me.
559
00:22:38,567 --> 00:22:40,000
[Caryn] Back in the day,
560
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:44,100
I never envisioned myself
living on a farm,
561
00:22:44,100 --> 00:22:45,767
engaged to Matt.
562
00:22:45,767 --> 00:22:47,767
If we're finding ways
to advertise the farm,
563
00:22:47,767 --> 00:22:50,500
the Starlight Parade
is more family-orientated.
564
00:22:50,500 --> 00:22:52,767
I've never been
a parade person.
I'm not gonna start now.
565
00:22:52,767 --> 00:22:55,867
There's probably around
400,000 people that
go to that.
566
00:22:55,867 --> 00:22:57,166
-What?
-[Caryn] Yeah.
567
00:22:57,166 --> 00:23:00,467
But life has a funny way
of working out.
568
00:23:00,467 --> 00:23:03,867
Things have evolved
and I'm blessed
and happy to be here
569
00:23:03,867 --> 00:23:08,066
and I love Matt
and there was
a lot of discussion where
570
00:23:08,066 --> 00:23:11,100
you know, would I ever
live in the big house?
571
00:23:11,100 --> 00:23:15,066
And that just never
felt comfortable to me.
572
00:23:15,066 --> 00:23:18,900
There's a lot of history there
and I try to respect that,
if I can.
573
00:23:18,900 --> 00:23:21,367
And I know that Matt
had one more build in him.
574
00:23:21,367 --> 00:23:23,400
He'd talked about this house
for ever and ever and ever
575
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,500
and so the fact that he's
finally getting to do it,
576
00:23:25,500 --> 00:23:29,567
I'm glad that I'm, you know,
hopping along on the journey
with him for that.
577
00:23:29,567 --> 00:23:32,266
Well, we were honored
to get the text, you know.
578
00:23:32,266 --> 00:23:34,667
-So thank you for that.
-Oh, right. You guys were
one of the first, I did think,
579
00:23:34,667 --> 00:23:38,900
-that I wanted Amy to know
before anybody else.
-Yeah.
580
00:23:38,900 --> 00:23:41,700
Because I didn't want the kids
to be calling her, you know.
581
00:23:41,700 --> 00:23:43,166
-And I didn't want her
to hear that way.
-Mm-hmm.
582
00:23:43,166 --> 00:23:45,734
But we're gonna do things
completely different.
We're gonna invite you guys!
583
00:23:49,300 --> 00:23:52,467
I was okay that
you mentioned that to Chris
584
00:23:52,467 --> 00:23:54,600
that they could
come to the wedding but--
585
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,467
-We hadn't talked about it.
-Yeah.
586
00:23:56,467 --> 00:23:58,100
[Caryn] We haven't made
a guestlist yet.
587
00:23:58,100 --> 00:24:01,567
We don't even know
if we're inviting our,
our best friends.
588
00:24:01,567 --> 00:24:04,533
So for him to throw that
out there was like, "Uh-oh!"
[chuckles]
589
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,967
What was the response
you got from your kids?
590
00:24:07,967 --> 00:24:10,600
I mean, I haven't talked
to any of them
so I don't know.
591
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,100
You know-- Most of them,
Molly called immediately.
I texted and she called.
592
00:24:14,100 --> 00:24:15,467
Oh, Amy was probably up there.
593
00:24:15,467 --> 00:24:17,266
Yeah, and Jacob and Izzy
were very happy.
594
00:24:17,266 --> 00:24:18,767
And even Jeremy--
595
00:24:18,767 --> 00:24:21,800
I think everybody was happy
and great, felt settled
about it.
596
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,000
I haven't heard much
from Zach. I know they were
busy with Easter.
597
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,567
-But I don't think anybody
was surprised, you know.
-Yeah.
598
00:24:27,567 --> 00:24:30,467
Oh, now, they might expect
to be invited to your wedding
too, you know.
599
00:24:30,467 --> 00:24:32,100
-Yeah, yeah.
-[Chris laughs]
600
00:24:32,100 --> 00:24:33,333
We have to cross all that--
601
00:24:33,333 --> 00:24:34,800
-[Chris] That's tough.
-Yeah, we have bridges
to cross on that.
602
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,367
As a father, you know,
you never stop trying
to build bridges
603
00:24:38,367 --> 00:24:43,200
and, you know,
mend hurt feelings
and, um, you know,
604
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:47,400
it's one of those things
that's just, it's kind of
a constant thing, you know.
605
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,166
And as a father, you gotta
kind of accept that they're
on their own
606
00:24:50,166 --> 00:24:52,166
and then they gotta accept it.
607
00:24:52,166 --> 00:24:56,667
You know, inversely, they
gotta accept the fact that
you're on your own too, so.
608
00:24:56,667 --> 00:24:58,867
But, doesn't change
the fact that
609
00:24:58,867 --> 00:25:03,000
you know, you love 'em
and you're still, you're still
you know, family.
610
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,767
-Well, you are gonna need
a best man.
-Yeah.
611
00:25:05,767 --> 00:25:07,166
Oh, yeah.
Right, right.
612
00:25:07,166 --> 00:25:08,667
-[Caryn] Yeah, that might
be a little...
-I think that might be
613
00:25:08,667 --> 00:25:10,000
-a little weird.
-[Caryn] Scratch.
614
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,266
-Come on, Chris!
-Scratch.
615
00:25:12,266 --> 00:25:14,100
[Chris] Oh, that was
obviously a joke
616
00:25:14,100 --> 00:25:16,567
when Matt said something
about me being best man.
617
00:25:16,567 --> 00:25:18,533
Part of what made it
funny is that...
618
00:25:19,767 --> 00:25:23,567
knowing that it probably
wasn't as funny
to other people I guess.
619
00:25:23,567 --> 00:25:25,367
I guess that's kinda mean. Mm.
620
00:25:26,367 --> 00:25:29,166
I'm feeling another
guys' night coming on.
621
00:25:29,166 --> 00:25:31,166
-[Chris laughing]
-I need to update
the troops.
622
00:25:31,166 --> 00:25:33,066
[Caryn groaning]
Not a bachelor party!
623
00:25:33,066 --> 00:25:34,900
I don't mind, you know,
624
00:25:34,900 --> 00:25:36,967
-not being invited
to the wedding.
-Yes!
625
00:25:36,967 --> 00:25:39,100
-But, hey, please invite me
to the bachelor party.
-Yeah, well, there you go.
626
00:25:39,100 --> 00:25:41,100
-That's a no-brainer.
-[Chris] Okay.
627
00:25:41,100 --> 00:25:44,467
[Matt] We all got a kick
out of the fact that
Amy was gonna flip.
628
00:25:44,467 --> 00:25:46,367
But what would be
even more hilarious...
629
00:25:47,567 --> 00:25:49,667
than Chris being
my best man
630
00:25:49,667 --> 00:25:53,233
would be if, um,
Amy became
Caryn's bridesmaid.
631
00:25:55,467 --> 00:25:58,934
That would be
even more hysterical.
632
00:26:01,100 --> 00:26:02,266
[Amy] Coming up...
633
00:26:02,266 --> 00:26:04,166
[Zach] Jackson's having
his friends over, Lilah.
634
00:26:04,166 --> 00:26:06,233
[Tori] I'm gonna order
a pizza right now.
635
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,100
You're ordering pizza?
636
00:26:08,100 --> 00:26:09,767
I'm ordering pizza.
637
00:26:09,767 --> 00:26:12,767
It's never my party.
Tori doesn't let it
be my party.
638
00:26:12,767 --> 00:26:14,467
You invited
a bunch of moms.
It's your fault.
639
00:26:14,467 --> 00:26:16,400
You moms will just make
things so complicating.
640
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,367
-[Matt] And later...
-No, I don't think
I'd go to the wedding.
641
00:26:19,367 --> 00:26:21,567
I think out of respect
to the kids and stuff,
642
00:26:21,567 --> 00:26:23,467
I think it'd be too weird.
643
00:26:23,467 --> 00:26:26,967
We did not invite Matt
and Caryn to our wedding.
644
00:26:26,967 --> 00:26:29,700
And I don't expect
to go.
645
00:26:29,700 --> 00:26:32,967
Actually, I told Matt
that I wouldn't mind going
to his bachelor party, though.
646
00:26:32,967 --> 00:26:34,667
[Amy] Oh.
647
00:26:34,667 --> 00:26:36,600
Wedding, probably not.
But the bachelor party.
648
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,266
This is so funny!
649
00:26:42,867 --> 00:26:47,166
[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
650
00:26:47,166 --> 00:26:49,367
[Zach] Jackson's having
his friends over, Lilah.
651
00:26:49,367 --> 00:26:52,000
Do you wanna go outside
and watch them
play soccer?
652
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,266
Do you wanna play soccer?
653
00:26:54,767 --> 00:26:56,567
-[Zach] Jackson play soccer.
Good idea.
-Yeah.
654
00:26:56,567 --> 00:26:59,066
[Tori] Um, I gonna
order a pizza right now.
655
00:26:59,867 --> 00:27:03,266
-You're ordering pizza?
-I'm ordering pizza.
656
00:27:03,266 --> 00:27:06,367
We are switching from
burgers to pizza.
I guess pizza's easier.
657
00:27:07,367 --> 00:27:10,266
It's never my party.
Tori doesn't let it
be my party.
658
00:27:10,266 --> 00:27:12,867
[Tori] You have a bunch
of moms coming over.
It's my party.
659
00:27:12,867 --> 00:27:16,100
-Tori found out that other
moms were coming to the house.
-There are times it's working.
660
00:27:16,100 --> 00:27:20,767
So then she took over.
And it wasn't just...
a hangout.
661
00:27:20,767 --> 00:27:22,600
Turned into like
a formal, manicured...
play date.
662
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,367
You can't have people
over at 5:30 and not
feed them.
663
00:27:25,367 --> 00:27:27,066
That's just silly talk.
664
00:27:28,767 --> 00:27:30,767
It's not what,
what was on my menu.
665
00:27:32,500 --> 00:27:33,934
This was on your menu.
666
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,667
That was your menu
right there.
667
00:27:36,667 --> 00:27:38,567
Those are super good cookies.
668
00:27:38,567 --> 00:27:40,400
-Those are--
-And they...
they were open.
669
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,166
-So they're probably
stale by now.
-I didn't open them.
670
00:27:43,166 --> 00:27:44,967
Do you want pizza?
671
00:27:44,967 --> 00:27:46,634
What kind of pizza
do you want?
672
00:27:47,467 --> 00:27:49,834
-Um...
-Like, cheese pizza?
673
00:27:54,367 --> 00:27:55,567
Two fruit snacks?
674
00:27:55,567 --> 00:27:56,867
For everyone?
675
00:27:56,867 --> 00:27:58,567
[Tori] Okay.
676
00:27:58,567 --> 00:28:01,266
[Zach] Not taking
Lilah shopping.
677
00:28:01,266 --> 00:28:03,266
Not taking either one
of you shopping.
678
00:28:03,700 --> 00:28:05,133
Good job, girl.
679
00:28:05,900 --> 00:28:07,500
Name one party
680
00:28:07,500 --> 00:28:10,467
that your mother
ran out of food at.
681
00:28:10,467 --> 00:28:14,200
Name one hangout that
she couldn't whip
something together
682
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,166
for all of you hungry boys.
683
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,266
Name it, I'm waiting.
684
00:28:20,266 --> 00:28:23,367
-She never ran out of food.
-See?
685
00:28:23,367 --> 00:28:24,900
[Zach] Now, my mum
always had playdates.
686
00:28:24,900 --> 00:28:27,800
Either going to friends'
houses or having friends
come over to our house.
687
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,867
[all laughing]
688
00:28:29,867 --> 00:28:31,900
Burgers are out
on the grill, guys.
689
00:28:31,900 --> 00:28:34,266
Buns are in here.
Ketchup, mustard, relish.
690
00:28:34,266 --> 00:28:36,467
Have fun, boys.
Be careful.
691
00:28:36,467 --> 00:28:38,266
[Zach] With us living out
where we were,
692
00:28:38,266 --> 00:28:40,967
not having kids to play with
in like a neighborhood
setting,
693
00:28:40,967 --> 00:28:44,000
she was pretty big on
make sure kids come
to our house.
694
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,867
And us have that
social interaction.
695
00:28:46,867 --> 00:28:49,934
Well, I think Zach has
just been taken care of
his whole life.
696
00:28:50,567 --> 00:28:51,967
I say that
in the nicest way.
697
00:28:51,967 --> 00:28:55,100
But when it comes to food,
he's always had
a woman there...
698
00:28:55,100 --> 00:28:59,600
-My mom.
-...to make sure he's fed
and taken care of.
699
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,467
-It's not about
running out of food.
-We just have to prepare.
700
00:29:02,467 --> 00:29:04,867
This is being made
into way bigger of a deal
701
00:29:04,867 --> 00:29:06,667
than it needs to be.
This is a hangout.
702
00:29:06,667 --> 00:29:10,367
But, like, a hangout
with pizza is very
simple still.
703
00:29:12,100 --> 00:29:13,700
Seems complicating.
704
00:29:13,700 --> 00:29:16,500
It's just like, sometimes you
just make things such a big
deal when--
705
00:29:16,500 --> 00:29:20,300
-You invited a bunch of moms!
-You moms just make things
so complicating!
706
00:29:20,300 --> 00:29:22,367
Just come over
and play soccer!
707
00:29:22,367 --> 00:29:24,467
When hangouts happen
and the moms
are involved,
708
00:29:24,467 --> 00:29:25,567
there's a certain standard.
709
00:29:25,567 --> 00:29:27,066
I show up
to a hangout,
710
00:29:27,066 --> 00:29:30,367
I would be annoyed
if I was then had to go home
and cook dinner.
711
00:29:30,367 --> 00:29:32,266
-How annoying.
-I would have gone to talk
about afterwards.
712
00:29:32,266 --> 00:29:34,200
Right? And that's what happens
713
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,100
and then you feel guilty
as parents
714
00:29:36,100 --> 00:29:39,266
-because you're like,
"Oh, I just thought..."
-I would not feel guilty.
715
00:29:39,266 --> 00:29:41,400
I would not.
716
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,567
All right, Tori, I'm gonna
go outside and set up
this field.
717
00:29:44,567 --> 00:29:46,100
Tell your friends
not to stress.
718
00:29:46,100 --> 00:29:48,600
[Tori to Lilah] You're gonna
go night-night. Okay?
719
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,266
Because you gotta rest up
for all these boys.
720
00:29:52,700 --> 00:29:54,266
[imitating Lilah] Otay.
721
00:29:54,266 --> 00:29:57,634
[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
722
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,266
[Amy] I feel like
a kid going skiing.
723
00:30:02,266 --> 00:30:06,066
Like, help me.
Can you just lift me up
and just plop me on the bike?
724
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,166
[engine whirring]
725
00:30:09,166 --> 00:30:11,066
[Amy groans]
726
00:30:12,066 --> 00:30:13,367
You're welcome.
727
00:30:13,367 --> 00:30:15,634
-[Chris] Okay. You good?
-Yeah.
728
00:30:18,867 --> 00:30:20,767
Well, Amy and I
are gonna go on a ride.
729
00:30:20,767 --> 00:30:24,467
I think I remember
a waterfall back behind
the fish hatchery
730
00:30:24,467 --> 00:30:27,166
and it's only about 40 minutes
away from the house.
731
00:30:27,166 --> 00:30:28,867
I think.
It's been a while.
732
00:30:28,867 --> 00:30:30,367
We're gonna go
check it out.
733
00:30:30,367 --> 00:30:32,800
This is a place that
Chris really wanted
to show me
734
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,634
and, you know,
I didn't think
I'd ever been there.
735
00:30:36,266 --> 00:30:38,133
All right, I am ready
for a break.
736
00:30:38,667 --> 00:30:40,533
I'm stiff, babe.
737
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,233
[groans]
738
00:30:45,467 --> 00:30:48,266
This is what the northwest
forest is all about.
All the...
739
00:30:48,266 --> 00:30:50,066
-The moss? Yeah.
-Yeah.
740
00:30:52,367 --> 00:30:53,834
[Amy] Wow.
741
00:30:55,467 --> 00:30:58,567
-Isn't that pretty?
-I-- Gorgeous!
742
00:30:58,567 --> 00:31:01,467
-[Amy] And look at how
the water's all green.
-Yeah.
743
00:31:02,867 --> 00:31:05,467
-Hey, babe!
-[Chris laughs]
744
00:31:05,467 --> 00:31:07,667
[Amy] How are you?
745
00:31:07,667 --> 00:31:10,333
-Boy, this is really nice.
-Yeah.
746
00:31:12,567 --> 00:31:14,967
[Amy] One thing
I really like about Chris
747
00:31:14,967 --> 00:31:18,767
is he really likes
new experiences
and adventures
748
00:31:18,767 --> 00:31:22,800
and it can be the simplest
thing or it can be a really
great, big, huge experience
749
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,667
or adventure
or something like that.
750
00:31:24,667 --> 00:31:27,100
I like that about him
because I think it's...
751
00:31:27,100 --> 00:31:28,800
kind of makes life
a little interesting.
752
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,166
He's, he's good.
He's good for me.
753
00:31:33,367 --> 00:31:34,967
Hey, that's pretty good!
754
00:31:34,967 --> 00:31:38,100
-Are you impressed?
-I am!
755
00:31:38,100 --> 00:31:41,300
This is what we did
on Lake Michigan
all the time.
756
00:31:41,300 --> 00:31:44,367
Oh, did I tell you
I went and saw
Matt and Caryn yesterday?
757
00:31:44,367 --> 00:31:47,667
Uh... no.
What for?
758
00:31:47,667 --> 00:31:49,200
They're supposed to be
setting trusses
759
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:50,867
-on Matt's house, but...
-Uh-huh?
760
00:31:50,867 --> 00:31:52,767
They got delayed
on the trusses,
so they weren't there
761
00:31:52,767 --> 00:31:55,800
but I got a chance
to talk with Matt and Caryn
762
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,166
-and congratulate them
on their engagement
-Oh yeah.
763
00:31:59,166 --> 00:32:00,867
and all that.
764
00:32:00,867 --> 00:32:02,900
Chris is like
a neutral party.
765
00:32:02,900 --> 00:32:06,066
He's not involved
in anything and so,
I'm not surprised that
766
00:32:06,066 --> 00:32:07,867
he happened to be there
767
00:32:07,867 --> 00:32:10,567
and, you know,
Matt and Caryn shared,
you know,
768
00:32:10,567 --> 00:32:12,400
that news or whatever
with him.
769
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:13,867
I'm all good with it.
770
00:32:13,867 --> 00:32:16,400
Nice ring. Big rock.
771
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,533
Don't compare size, babe.
[chuckles]
772
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,567
-Matt doesn't do
anything little.
-Yeah.
773
00:32:21,567 --> 00:32:24,166
-But it's
a beautiful ring. Yeah.
-Oh, that's nice.
774
00:32:24,166 --> 00:32:26,700
Yeah, kind of talked a little
bit on, you know,
how he proposed
775
00:32:26,700 --> 00:32:28,100
and where and all that.
776
00:32:28,100 --> 00:32:31,166
-Kind of interesting
to compare stories, you know.
-How did he do it?
777
00:32:31,166 --> 00:32:33,767
Uh, in Arizona,
at their home.
778
00:32:33,767 --> 00:32:35,200
-You know? Yeah.
-Oh, okay.
779
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,166
I was thrilled that, you know,
Matt at least let us
know and everything.
780
00:32:39,166 --> 00:32:43,166
Um, but, there's no reason
why wouldn't I be happy
that someone got married?
781
00:32:43,166 --> 00:32:46,166
I mean, you know,
we're all moving on
782
00:32:46,166 --> 00:32:50,133
in whatever way that,
you know, we think best
for ourselves
783
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:51,767
and our families.
784
00:32:51,767 --> 00:32:54,467
And, um, yeah,
I'm happy for him.
785
00:32:56,166 --> 00:32:57,900
Haven't set a date.
786
00:32:57,900 --> 00:32:59,567
They don't know when.
787
00:32:59,567 --> 00:33:02,667
Or where or how or...
but, you know, got lots
of time to figure it out.
788
00:33:02,667 --> 00:33:05,700
Well, yeah. I mean,
there's no hurry, really.
789
00:33:05,700 --> 00:33:08,066
-No, I don't think
there is.
-You know.
790
00:33:08,066 --> 00:33:10,667
I didn't think he was gonna
propose this soon, either,
so who knows.
791
00:33:10,667 --> 00:33:13,567
They just might decide
to go and elope one day.
792
00:33:13,567 --> 00:33:15,667
You know, you keep 'em
guessing, that's what
Matt does.
793
00:33:15,667 --> 00:33:17,066
-Yeah?
-Keep them on the edge
of their seat.
794
00:33:17,066 --> 00:33:19,133
-I like to keep
you guessing. Yeah.
-Like you.
795
00:33:19,767 --> 00:33:21,900
Yeah.
796
00:33:21,900 --> 00:33:25,266
Actually, I told Matt that
I wouldn't mind going
to his bachelor party, though.
797
00:33:25,266 --> 00:33:26,900
[Amy chuckles]
798
00:33:26,900 --> 00:33:28,767
[Chris] Wedding, probably not,
but the bachelor party
would be fun.
799
00:33:28,767 --> 00:33:30,500
[Amy] You're just so funny.
800
00:33:30,500 --> 00:33:32,967
Well, do you have a problem
with me going
to the bachelor party?
801
00:33:32,967 --> 00:33:35,200
Well, it's just like...
802
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,567
"Oh, if it's an adventure,
if it's an experience,
803
00:33:37,567 --> 00:33:40,567
-if it's a party! Who cares?
I'll be there!"
-That's right.
804
00:33:40,567 --> 00:33:43,800
-It's all about
new experiences, babe.
-Oh, brother.
805
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,367
Like you haven't gone
to a bachelor party before.
806
00:33:47,367 --> 00:33:49,767
Well, again,
it's a way of comparing.
807
00:33:49,767 --> 00:33:52,800
-It's like, compare his
bachelor party.
-But why?
808
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,467
Well, bachelor parties
are always fun.
809
00:33:54,467 --> 00:33:57,300
[Amy] I mean, I didn't
take it seriously
810
00:33:57,300 --> 00:33:59,667
but Chris has this
sarcastic humor
811
00:33:59,667 --> 00:34:03,166
and so, I'm thinking,
he's not serious, is he?
812
00:34:03,166 --> 00:34:06,266
I won't be flying to Arizona
to go to a bachelor
party, hun'.
813
00:34:06,266 --> 00:34:08,800
Oh, well, gee,
aren't I lucky?
814
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,166
But if it's local,
and I'm invited,
815
00:34:11,166 --> 00:34:13,100
you wouldn't hold it
against me, would you?
816
00:34:13,100 --> 00:34:15,634
I would encourage you
probably not to go.
I mean, why?
817
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,233
It's a party.
818
00:34:18,266 --> 00:34:20,266
Amy knows I like
new experiences.
819
00:34:20,266 --> 00:34:21,367
[both laugh]
820
00:34:21,367 --> 00:34:22,800
Sometimes she rolls her eyes
821
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,500
but usually you let me go
along with it, right?
822
00:34:24,500 --> 00:34:26,834
Well, I don't know
about that one.
823
00:34:28,367 --> 00:34:29,967
No, I don't think
I'd go to the wedding.
824
00:34:30,867 --> 00:34:32,967
I think out of respect
to the kids and stuff.
825
00:34:32,967 --> 00:34:34,867
I think it'd be too weird
and awkward for them.
826
00:34:34,867 --> 00:34:37,734
That was exactly what
I told Matt and Caryn too.
827
00:34:38,667 --> 00:34:42,200
We did not invite Matt
and, uh, Caryn to our wedding.
828
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,867
And I don't expect to go.
829
00:34:44,867 --> 00:34:47,266
This is something, you know,
just for them.
830
00:34:47,266 --> 00:34:49,867
And if the kids go,
and that's fine too.
831
00:34:49,867 --> 00:34:53,400
I mean, the main reason that
we didn't invite Matt
and Caryn to our wedding
832
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,367
is we thought it would be
awkward for the kids.
833
00:34:56,367 --> 00:34:58,500
Um, so, you know,
I'm kind of expecting
834
00:34:58,500 --> 00:35:00,367
the same thing
with Matt and Caryn's wedding.
835
00:35:00,367 --> 00:35:02,900
It would probably be
kind of weird for us
to be there.
836
00:35:02,900 --> 00:35:05,133
But I know one thing
I won't be doing is spying.
837
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:08,100
Now see,
838
00:35:08,100 --> 00:35:10,433
if he set up a camera,
I would watch.
839
00:35:11,667 --> 00:35:14,533
-Okay, I'm beginning
to wonder, who are you?
-[chuckles]
840
00:35:16,967 --> 00:35:19,367
-[Tori] Coming up...
-[Zach] Jackson,
you're open! Jackson!
841
00:35:19,367 --> 00:35:21,567
[Tori] Jackson stopped
in the middle of the game
842
00:35:21,567 --> 00:35:23,266
and told me
on the sideline like,
843
00:35:23,266 --> 00:35:26,100
"Hey, they're saying
I'm too short to play soccer."
844
00:35:26,100 --> 00:35:27,867
Jackson, do you
want to play a game?
845
00:35:27,867 --> 00:35:29,133
It's not really
gonna stop.
846
00:35:35,066 --> 00:35:38,066
[upbeat instrumental
music playing]
847
00:35:41,367 --> 00:35:44,200
-[Zach] Hey! Hey, hey,
stop, stop.
-[kids chattering]
848
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,867
You'll have something break.
Go into Jackson's room
and do this.
849
00:35:49,567 --> 00:35:51,400
Jackson's play date's
going really well.
850
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,066
The moms are here.
The kids brought
all their gear.
851
00:35:54,066 --> 00:35:56,066
And some older siblings
came, too.
852
00:35:56,066 --> 00:35:57,700
And, uh, yeah,
with this many kids,
853
00:35:57,700 --> 00:35:59,166
we can definitely
get some work done.
854
00:35:59,166 --> 00:36:03,467
[kids chattering]
855
00:36:04,300 --> 00:36:06,266
Hey, guys! Guys! Hey!
856
00:36:06,266 --> 00:36:08,266
Let's get-- Let's go
outside, okay?
857
00:36:08,266 --> 00:36:10,567
We have a soccer field
set up down there.
858
00:36:10,567 --> 00:36:12,300
Everyone get
your soccer shoes on.
859
00:36:12,300 --> 00:36:14,266
Hey, if you don't have them,
that's okay.
860
00:36:14,266 --> 00:36:16,967
Let's go out to the back door,
get your soccer shoes
and soccer ball.
861
00:36:18,166 --> 00:36:19,734
Jackson, your soccer shoes
are right here.
862
00:36:21,467 --> 00:36:22,467
[Zach] Yes.
863
00:36:22,467 --> 00:36:23,767
Everyone else
is wearing them.
864
00:36:23,767 --> 00:36:25,767
And then you gotta
show your friends
how to set up these goals.
865
00:36:25,767 --> 00:36:28,266
I already have them set up,
but you gotta position them.
866
00:36:28,266 --> 00:36:29,367
Is Daddy a good coach?
867
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,867
All right, go Jackson.
868
00:36:32,867 --> 00:36:34,467
Gotta be a one-touch goal.
869
00:36:35,867 --> 00:36:37,266
Good cross, bud.
870
00:36:37,266 --> 00:36:40,700
There you go, one-touch! Yeah.
871
00:36:40,700 --> 00:36:43,000
Can Josiah stand with you
for a minute?
872
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,867
I'm gonna go
check on the pizza.
873
00:36:44,867 --> 00:36:46,300
Let's play 3v3!
874
00:36:46,300 --> 00:36:47,767
Hey, you're on our team.
875
00:36:47,767 --> 00:36:50,367
Beck's on our team.
Robert, Beckett and Cody.
876
00:36:50,367 --> 00:36:51,900
I think he likes soccer.
877
00:36:51,900 --> 00:36:54,967
I think that's helped him
with his confidence,
same like me.
878
00:36:54,967 --> 00:36:57,100
Here he comes.
Here he comes!
879
00:36:57,100 --> 00:36:58,667
Our team was very good
growing up.
880
00:36:58,667 --> 00:37:01,400
And so I think I felt
myself as being good.
881
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,266
And so that definitely gave me
confidence on
the soccer field.
882
00:37:04,266 --> 00:37:06,166
I was very timid
off the field.
883
00:37:06,166 --> 00:37:09,567
But on the field,
I was very chatty
884
00:37:09,567 --> 00:37:11,367
and kind of forget
who I am a little bit.
885
00:37:11,367 --> 00:37:12,867
Get your head up.
Get your head up!
886
00:37:12,867 --> 00:37:13,867
-Oh!
-[Zach] Oh!
887
00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:16,467
[Zach] Keep going,
Jackson, come on!
888
00:37:16,467 --> 00:37:18,834
Don't feel bad.
It's toughening him up.
Builds character.
889
00:37:19,967 --> 00:37:21,900
[Zach] Jackson's
super-focused
as a soccer player.
890
00:37:21,900 --> 00:37:25,467
He's very coachable.
He pays attention, runs hard.
891
00:37:25,467 --> 00:37:28,867
He's just not the best player.
Yeah, some of it's dwarfism.
892
00:37:28,867 --> 00:37:30,667
Jackson, you're open. Jackson!
893
00:37:30,667 --> 00:37:32,667
But he's pretty aware
of his skillset.
894
00:37:32,667 --> 00:37:35,467
He's picked up pretty quick
he can't out-run people,
895
00:37:35,467 --> 00:37:37,667
so he controls the ball
really well.
896
00:37:37,667 --> 00:37:40,533
Don't let it pass you, bud.
Go, shoot it!
897
00:37:41,100 --> 00:37:42,266
There we go!
898
00:37:42,266 --> 00:37:44,600
Hey! What is he doing?
899
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,166
What are you doing?
900
00:37:46,166 --> 00:37:48,567
Put your...
Are you gonna
go play soccer?
901
00:37:48,567 --> 00:37:51,467
All right. You gonna play
soccer out there?
902
00:37:51,467 --> 00:37:53,200
You gonna go?
903
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,000
[Paige] We're just saying,
like, that I think it's like
the second brother thing.
904
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,266
-Like when they're chasing
older brothers.
-Oh, right.
905
00:37:58,266 --> 00:38:01,000
-Older, yeah.
They gotta keep up.
-And just like...
906
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,867
-Yeah, for sure.
-Keep up, get sick of getting
beat all the time.
907
00:38:03,867 --> 00:38:06,367
-[ladies chuckle]
-That's so funny.
908
00:38:06,367 --> 00:38:07,667
Robert, the whole tank.
909
00:38:09,967 --> 00:38:12,700
He loves it! He's like,
"I can't wait!
I want to go to soccer!"
910
00:38:12,700 --> 00:38:14,166
I love that!
911
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,400
Why is he here, though?
912
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,700
-[Zach] I think
he's just tired.
-Are you tired?
913
00:38:21,700 --> 00:38:25,500
Did you nap?
Did you go night-night?
Did you nap? Are you tired?
914
00:38:25,500 --> 00:38:26,900
-[Jackson] No!
-All your friends are here.
915
00:38:26,900 --> 00:38:28,567
You're just over here
on the sideline?
916
00:38:28,567 --> 00:38:29,767
What are you doing?
917
00:38:29,767 --> 00:38:31,600
Jackson's, you know,
getting to the age where
918
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,467
the size differences
are becoming more obvious.
919
00:38:34,467 --> 00:38:36,233
And he's not catching up.
920
00:38:36,767 --> 00:38:38,400
Some of the opposing kids,
921
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,066
you know, point out
that he's different.
922
00:38:40,066 --> 00:38:42,467
And he's starting
to hear that
for the first time.
923
00:38:42,467 --> 00:38:43,634
Are you okay?
924
00:38:44,266 --> 00:38:47,367
-[giggles]
-[giggling]
925
00:38:47,367 --> 00:38:49,166
The first game
that it happened at,
926
00:38:49,166 --> 00:38:51,467
Jackson stopped
in the middle of the game
927
00:38:51,467 --> 00:38:55,667
and told me on the sideline
like, "Hey, they're saying
I'm too short to play soccer."
928
00:38:55,667 --> 00:38:59,567
Beckett, you do it.
This is one-on-one
touches, guys. Yeah, go.
929
00:38:59,567 --> 00:39:02,567
All three of our kids,
you know, we just hope
that they find friends,
930
00:39:02,567 --> 00:39:04,400
will find families that,
you know,
931
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,100
can just see them
for who they are,
932
00:39:06,100 --> 00:39:10,100
and they'll see Jackson
for Jackson, Lilah for Lilah,
Josiah for Josiah.
933
00:39:10,100 --> 00:39:13,400
I definitely don't want anyone
being friends with them
934
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,767
because they feel bad for them
or anything like that.
935
00:39:15,767 --> 00:39:18,100
Right now, it's starting,
and like, kids will say, like,
936
00:39:18,100 --> 00:39:19,667
come up to him,
"Why are you so short?"
937
00:39:19,667 --> 00:39:21,767
Like, stare at him.
938
00:39:21,767 --> 00:39:22,867
Like, in his face.
939
00:39:22,867 --> 00:39:24,567
It doesn't really register
with them that, like,
940
00:39:24,567 --> 00:39:26,667
he's never gonna
be as tall as them.
941
00:39:26,667 --> 00:39:30,700
Right now, he's still
young enough that
his feelings aren't hurt yet.
942
00:39:30,700 --> 00:39:33,166
Like, we need to be
very aware how we respond
943
00:39:33,166 --> 00:39:34,500
when these things happen.
944
00:39:34,500 --> 00:39:36,767
For me, it's not making
a huge deal out of it.
945
00:39:37,467 --> 00:39:39,567
Jackson! You wanna
play a game?
946
00:39:39,567 --> 00:39:42,967
I over-react, he's gonna
over-react, and that's
not healthy, either.
947
00:39:42,967 --> 00:39:45,266
Because it's just,
it's never gonna stop.
948
00:39:45,266 --> 00:39:46,767
-Jackson?
-Yeah.
949
00:39:46,767 --> 00:39:48,767
All right, come out.
Come out and play.
950
00:39:48,767 --> 00:39:50,166
Right there,
right there, right there.
951
00:39:50,166 --> 00:39:52,266
He's gonna cross it
to you, Jackson!
952
00:39:53,100 --> 00:39:54,967
And then, turn.
953
00:39:54,967 --> 00:39:57,133
Now you gotta shoot it!
Shoot it!
954
00:39:58,867 --> 00:40:00,667
[chuckling] Good job, bud.
955
00:40:03,667 --> 00:40:05,567
Hey! Guys, you guys
want pizza?
956
00:40:05,567 --> 00:40:06,967
Let's take a lunch break!
957
00:40:08,100 --> 00:40:10,367
-[Tori] Thank God
we had pizza.
-Yes.
958
00:40:10,367 --> 00:40:13,100
Tori was right.
Tori got the pizza
959
00:40:13,100 --> 00:40:15,634
-and made the party
that much better.
-I'm always ready.
960
00:40:16,467 --> 00:40:18,533
Thank you, sir.
All right, there you go.
961
00:40:22,500 --> 00:40:23,767
Here you go, bud.
962
00:40:23,767 --> 00:40:26,467
Oh, wait, you wanted cheese.
Here, sorry.
963
00:40:26,467 --> 00:40:28,066
Here you go.
964
00:40:29,700 --> 00:40:32,166
[kids laughing]
965
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,667
-[Tori] Love ya.
-[Zach] Love ya.
966
00:40:35,667 --> 00:40:37,100
[Zach] Good party.
967
00:40:37,100 --> 00:40:38,467
It's not a party,
it's a hangout.
968
00:40:38,467 --> 00:40:39,767
-Good hangout?
-It was a hangout.
969
00:40:39,767 --> 00:40:41,333
Good job with the pizza.
970
00:40:41,667 --> 00:40:42,867
It was good, right?
971
00:40:42,867 --> 00:40:44,567
-Pizza was a hit.
-It was a good thing
that we did that.
972
00:40:44,567 --> 00:40:46,200
[chatter]
973
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,667
[laughs]
974
00:40:47,667 --> 00:40:49,567
[Zach] Jackson, I think
our friends are leaving, bud.
975
00:40:49,567 --> 00:40:51,066
One more time, Jackson.
976
00:40:52,367 --> 00:40:55,567
[all laughing]
977
00:40:55,567 --> 00:40:57,734
-No?
-[Paige] Oh! [chuckles]
978
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,533
[Caryn] Next on
Little People, Big World...
979
00:41:04,266 --> 00:41:07,100
-Si-Si is one.
-It's crazy that
Josiah is already one.
980
00:41:07,100 --> 00:41:09,166
Si-Si, what is that?
981
00:41:09,867 --> 00:41:12,900
[all laughing]
982
00:41:12,900 --> 00:41:15,200
[Tori] There's moments
you wish it would slow down
983
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,166
and there's moments
you wish it would speed up.
984
00:41:17,166 --> 00:41:20,567
But I think overall,
it's fun watching him grow.
985
00:41:20,567 --> 00:41:24,000
Chris and I,
we're kind of looking
for another house.
986
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,500
The house we live in
is a good house
987
00:41:26,500 --> 00:41:29,900
but, you know, I'm used
to having a little more space.
An acre would be nice.
988
00:41:29,900 --> 00:41:32,367
Yeah, I'm liking
this space.
989
00:41:32,367 --> 00:41:34,266
[Amy] It's kind of insane.
990
00:41:34,266 --> 00:41:37,400
[Chris] The house is a little
out of our price range,
and it's bigger than we want.
991
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,266
But the idea is that
maybe be able to do
992
00:41:40,266 --> 00:41:42,100
special events,
like weddings.
993
00:41:42,100 --> 00:41:44,600
-I wanna look out back there
and see if I can...
--Yeah, I don't know
994
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,400
-what to think of it.
-...envision doing
something out there.
995
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,166
I think we need
to look at more homes.
996
00:41:49,767 --> 00:41:51,200
I've already done this.
997
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,400
I don't know if I have
that kind of fight
at this age.
998
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,000
[Caryn] Everybody seems
really excited.
999
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,066
Lots of little
congratulations.
1000
00:41:58,066 --> 00:42:02,066
My side weren't surprised
or upset or, you know, and--
1001
00:42:02,066 --> 00:42:05,500
-Well, you haven't heard
from all of them!
-Damn right, yeah.
1002
00:42:05,500 --> 00:42:08,767
Zach and Tori are still,
you know, very much
keeping to themselves.
1003
00:42:08,767 --> 00:42:11,066
I think they must have
made some kind of pact
1004
00:42:11,066 --> 00:42:13,567
and they're being very,
you know, strict about it.
1005
00:42:13,567 --> 00:42:14,867
You get to a certain point,
it's like,
1006
00:42:14,867 --> 00:42:16,533
-"Hey, that's our life,"
you know?
-Right.
1007
00:42:20,900 --> 00:42:22,867
I didn't reply.
I don't wanna talk about it.