1 00:00:01,767 --> 00:00:02,867 [Matt] Previously on Little People, Big World... 2 00:00:02,867 --> 00:00:04,166 Are you ready for three against one? 3 00:00:04,166 --> 00:00:06,567 I'm going on a three-night trip to California. 4 00:00:06,567 --> 00:00:09,266 -[Jackson] Papa. -I know, hang on. I'm trying to wipe the poop. 5 00:00:09,266 --> 00:00:10,567 [Zach] Jackson, are you ready to roll? 6 00:00:10,567 --> 00:00:12,567 Lilah, find your shoes. 7 00:00:12,567 --> 00:00:16,567 It is like, okay, you know, you're diving in for three days of, like, who knows what. 8 00:00:16,567 --> 00:00:20,567 [Lilah crying and screaming] 9 00:00:20,567 --> 00:00:22,967 Hey, hey, hey. 10 00:00:23,967 --> 00:00:26,166 Nice. Let's go. 11 00:00:26,166 --> 00:00:28,000 [Matt] And that's just our bedroom door. 12 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:29,367 [Caryn] Aren't you supposed to, like, 13 00:00:29,367 --> 00:00:31,367 -carry me across the threshold or something? -[Matt laughing] Yeah. 14 00:00:31,367 --> 00:00:34,066 [Caryn] The house is the next step in our relationship. 15 00:00:34,066 --> 00:00:35,567 So I'm excited about it. 16 00:00:35,567 --> 00:00:36,667 [Matt] Look at the view. 17 00:00:36,667 --> 00:00:39,567 [Caryn] I think I'm gonna cry! That is so beautiful! 18 00:00:39,567 --> 00:00:42,333 -Are you? -Yeah, I'm, I'm very excited about that, yes. 19 00:00:42,900 --> 00:00:45,166 Anywho, charity event. 20 00:00:45,166 --> 00:00:47,166 [Amy] Chris and I were thinking about putting on 21 00:00:47,166 --> 00:00:48,600 a small little charity function 22 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,367 and Matt offered the farm up 23 00:00:50,367 --> 00:00:52,000 to, uh, host the event. 24 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,800 We can always have music from like 7:00 to 9:00. 25 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,266 I don't wanna get into having to get lights, though. 26 00:00:57,266 --> 00:00:58,867 Be better if it wrapped before dark. 27 00:00:58,867 --> 00:01:01,000 That is the longest day. 28 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,400 Okay, let's just do it. 29 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,066 Amy, she can cross that line 30 00:01:05,066 --> 00:01:07,767 from micro-manager to dictator 31 00:01:07,767 --> 00:01:09,900 and you just fasten your seat belt. 32 00:01:09,900 --> 00:01:11,467 That's his farm now. 33 00:01:11,467 --> 00:01:14,133 -Who's gonna be in charge? -Me. Me. 34 00:01:18,967 --> 00:01:23,367 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 35 00:01:32,967 --> 00:01:34,367 [motor whirring] 36 00:01:34,867 --> 00:01:36,400 [Amy] What are you doing? 37 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,367 It always loses-- The tires lose air over the winter, 38 00:01:39,367 --> 00:01:41,867 so that's the first thing I have to do 39 00:01:41,867 --> 00:01:44,967 and walked around, checked nuts and bolts, everything seems to be okay. 40 00:01:44,967 --> 00:01:46,800 So nice enough to ride, you think? 41 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,333 I think so. For a short ride, maybe up to the farm. 42 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:51,066 All right. 43 00:01:51,066 --> 00:01:53,567 It's just about warm enough to take the bike out. 44 00:01:53,567 --> 00:01:56,300 Still a lot to do at the fundraiser, but we're gonna take a break. 45 00:01:56,300 --> 00:01:59,100 And just go to the farm and, uh, check out 46 00:01:59,100 --> 00:02:02,066 the latest progress on Matt's house. 47 00:02:02,066 --> 00:02:03,600 Okay, I'll get the key fob 48 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,867 and then, uh, see if she starts up and if so, let's... 49 00:02:06,867 --> 00:02:09,200 -Hey, am I ready for this? -...go for a cruise. 50 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,700 [Amy] I don't really have a need or a desire 51 00:02:11,700 --> 00:02:12,867 to check out the house 52 00:02:12,867 --> 00:02:15,667 that Matt's building on the farm. 53 00:02:15,667 --> 00:02:17,967 For him to wanna go over and see the house, 54 00:02:17,967 --> 00:02:19,166 it's interesting to Chris. 55 00:02:19,166 --> 00:02:21,266 Okay. To me, it's pretty bland. 56 00:02:21,266 --> 00:02:24,467 I am pretty much just going for the ride and for him. 57 00:02:24,467 --> 00:02:26,367 Thought I had the key on me, but I... 58 00:02:27,700 --> 00:02:29,166 Key for what? 59 00:02:29,166 --> 00:02:32,000 Uh... the bike, I thought... 60 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,033 I thought it was in here but... 61 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,066 -...it's not. -Oh, dear. 62 00:02:39,700 --> 00:02:41,467 You may not be able to... 63 00:02:41,467 --> 00:02:44,166 [cackles] If you lost the key... 64 00:02:44,166 --> 00:02:45,634 I didn't lose it. 65 00:02:47,166 --> 00:02:48,467 It's in the house somewhere. 66 00:02:48,467 --> 00:02:50,400 -[chuckles] -Oh, dear. 67 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,967 [Amy] I don't know. Chris can't find the key to the motorcycle. 68 00:02:53,967 --> 00:02:56,133 So someone who's very organized... 69 00:02:57,166 --> 00:02:59,967 See, that would be an Amy moment, not a Chris. 70 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,033 So, it is best that I say nothing to him. 71 00:03:06,700 --> 00:03:08,767 I'm sure if it happened to me, he would say stuff. 72 00:03:08,767 --> 00:03:11,000 "Well, you know, that's what happens. You're not organized. 73 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,367 Look at your office." 74 00:03:13,967 --> 00:03:15,967 We'll see. Maybe I should go help. 75 00:03:15,967 --> 00:03:18,266 But see, he likes being in his moment, you know. 76 00:03:18,266 --> 00:03:19,667 I don't know. 77 00:03:19,667 --> 00:03:21,066 That's a tricky one with him. 78 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,767 Do you think in your office anywhere? 79 00:03:24,767 --> 00:03:25,934 I just checked, dear. 80 00:03:26,300 --> 00:03:27,467 [Amy] Oh, dear! 81 00:03:27,467 --> 00:03:28,800 Well, obviously, I looked there. 82 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,000 You know, see, he doesn't say thank you! 83 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,767 He just goes like, "What a... what a moron!" 84 00:03:34,100 --> 00:03:35,667 But... 85 00:03:35,667 --> 00:03:37,934 -I know what he's thinking. -Well, hey, I never... I never say that out loud. 86 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,266 This is all my stuff in here. 87 00:03:43,266 --> 00:03:45,233 I am running out of places. 88 00:03:45,767 --> 00:03:47,467 That is so weird. 89 00:03:47,467 --> 00:03:48,967 It was kind of fun to see him 90 00:03:48,967 --> 00:03:50,367 'cause he, he got kind of flustered. 91 00:03:50,367 --> 00:03:52,834 -[Amy] And frustrated. -And I don't like being in that position. 92 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:54,533 Oh! 93 00:03:56,767 --> 00:03:58,567 My riding pants. 94 00:03:58,567 --> 00:03:59,900 -Could be in my riding-- -See? 95 00:04:01,300 --> 00:04:05,166 That's why you keep saying things 'cause you never know what'll spark! 96 00:04:05,166 --> 00:04:07,066 I don't know where, where those are at. 97 00:04:10,166 --> 00:04:12,767 Do you have any idea where those are it? 98 00:04:12,767 --> 00:04:16,266 -Where did you put all that-- -Possibly this big bin that says 'MC' on it. 99 00:04:17,367 --> 00:04:18,834 For 'motorcycle'. 100 00:04:22,166 --> 00:04:24,100 Ha! 101 00:04:24,100 --> 00:04:26,500 What do you mean 'ha'? I told you to look everywhere. 102 00:04:26,500 --> 00:04:27,634 [Chris chuckles] 103 00:04:28,100 --> 00:04:30,233 -Oh, gee, mothers. -Ah! 104 00:04:32,367 --> 00:04:34,300 -I helped a lot. -You did. 105 00:04:34,300 --> 00:04:37,000 -You did. -Because we would not have been able to go on this ride 106 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:39,467 -if I didn't get your brain... -All right. 107 00:04:39,467 --> 00:04:41,634 ...thinking in a different direction. 108 00:04:42,166 --> 00:04:43,300 I would be lost without you. 109 00:04:43,300 --> 00:04:46,467 I know, see? Isn't that the truth? 110 00:04:46,467 --> 00:04:48,367 All right, let's get our gear. We can do this. 111 00:04:48,367 --> 00:04:49,567 [Amy] Okay. 112 00:04:49,567 --> 00:04:53,066 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 113 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,467 [Caryn] I actually like this look better. 114 00:05:03,066 --> 00:05:04,166 That's perfect. 115 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:07,300 [Chris] I was surprised that they got 116 00:05:07,300 --> 00:05:09,166 all of the walls up so quick. 117 00:05:09,166 --> 00:05:12,767 Just a few days ago, there was just the foundation. 118 00:05:12,767 --> 00:05:15,500 He's obviously had some good contractors working on it 119 00:05:15,500 --> 00:05:16,867 and it should go quickly. 120 00:05:16,867 --> 00:05:18,800 -[Chris] Knock knock, who's that? -[Matt] Hey, there they are! 121 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:20,000 -[Caryn] Hey, guys! -[Chris] How you doin'? 122 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,367 It's gonna be fun to watch the process from here on out. 123 00:05:22,367 --> 00:05:24,100 -You guys are on the bike? -[Amy] Yeah. 124 00:05:24,100 --> 00:05:26,867 -[Chris] Yeah, well... -Oh, great day for it! 125 00:05:26,867 --> 00:05:28,767 -[Chris] How's your day going? -Terrible. 126 00:05:28,767 --> 00:05:30,166 -[Caryn chuckles] -[Chris] Why? 127 00:05:30,166 --> 00:05:31,867 There's so many decisions 128 00:05:31,867 --> 00:05:34,800 that it's drivin' us-- me, absolutely bonkers. 129 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,900 She's a good decision-maker. But I don't like the decisions she comes up with. 130 00:05:37,900 --> 00:05:39,600 [Chris, Caryn and Matt laughing] 131 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:40,934 Been there, done that. 132 00:05:42,367 --> 00:05:44,567 [Matt] And Jim here is like 133 00:05:44,567 --> 00:05:46,367 saying you've got to decide 134 00:05:46,367 --> 00:05:49,567 because he's building the house faster than we're able to... 135 00:05:49,567 --> 00:05:51,000 -[Chris] Make decisions? -...I'm able-- Yeah. 136 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,500 -[Chris laughs] -Are they your worst 137 00:05:52,500 --> 00:05:54,200 nightmare for a home? 138 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:58,000 At this rate, we're gonna go from an eight-month build to two years. 139 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,567 [Chris] Oh, yeah? 140 00:05:59,567 --> 00:06:01,567 [Amy] Matt has a lot of great ideas. 141 00:06:01,567 --> 00:06:05,000 But the process of working with him or being with him 142 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,467 can be very exhausting, you know. 143 00:06:07,467 --> 00:06:09,467 He's often made changes, 144 00:06:09,467 --> 00:06:12,967 switched it up, last-minute, you know, you're all... 145 00:06:12,967 --> 00:06:15,400 gung-ho to do something or go here 146 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,266 or whatever, this way, and then, 147 00:06:17,266 --> 00:06:19,367 you gotta radically shift. 148 00:06:19,367 --> 00:06:21,467 I think that's the frustrating thing, so yeah, 149 00:06:21,467 --> 00:06:22,867 been there, done that. 150 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,400 Amy, I gotta show you the kitchen plan. 151 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,166 -Do you, now? -Yeah. 152 00:06:28,166 --> 00:06:30,567 Tell me what you'd do different. There's our kitchen. 153 00:06:30,567 --> 00:06:32,367 -[Caryn sighs] -Yeah, that's not a bad idea. 154 00:06:32,367 --> 00:06:34,000 -Yeah, because... -[Chris] 'Cause we're gonna have to remodel 155 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,233 whatever kitchen we get. 156 00:06:38,100 --> 00:06:39,467 Why would I wanna look at this? 157 00:06:39,467 --> 00:06:41,100 I don't know, because we're trying 158 00:06:41,100 --> 00:06:43,066 -to make decisions, yeah. -What for? 159 00:06:43,367 --> 00:06:44,467 [Chris] Fair. 160 00:06:44,467 --> 00:06:46,667 Amy, what's interesting about this house 161 00:06:46,667 --> 00:06:48,667 is it has a double kitchen. 162 00:06:48,667 --> 00:06:51,400 What the hell do you need such a big kitchen for? 163 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:52,567 [Matt chuckles] 164 00:06:52,567 --> 00:06:55,600 What the hell do we need such a big, giant house for? 165 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,300 [Amy] I mean, do you like to cook? 166 00:06:57,300 --> 00:06:58,700 -[Matt] No. -[Caryn] No! 167 00:06:58,700 --> 00:07:00,166 -[Amy] And you're not. -[Caryn] We're hoping to cook in the kitchen 168 00:07:00,166 --> 00:07:01,166 just to get a view. 169 00:07:01,166 --> 00:07:02,700 So why such a big kitchen? 170 00:07:02,700 --> 00:07:04,867 [Matt] The small kitchen, see, this is all low here-- 171 00:07:04,867 --> 00:07:06,567 But you're never cooking in here. 172 00:07:06,567 --> 00:07:07,867 [Matt] Maybe. 173 00:07:07,867 --> 00:07:09,667 [Caryn] No, the oven, he's... 174 00:07:09,667 --> 00:07:12,166 he's getting the oven basically on the floor. 175 00:07:12,166 --> 00:07:14,266 [Amy] Well, when Matt asked me to look at the model, 176 00:07:14,266 --> 00:07:16,567 that is just like opening up a can of worms. 177 00:07:16,567 --> 00:07:20,000 It's like, this is your house, this is yours and Caryn's house. 178 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,000 Caryn should happy-- be having this input. 179 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,000 I, being the ex, no. 180 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,000 I'm not getting myself involved in that. 181 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,800 -I mean, wanna see the house? -Yeah. 182 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,800 -Let's see it real quick. -[Matt] Yeah, come check this out real quick. 183 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,967 It'll give you some ideas if you guys ever build. 184 00:07:33,867 --> 00:07:36,166 When Amy is a little salty and a little gruff, 185 00:07:36,166 --> 00:07:38,667 I don't even notice it anymore. 186 00:07:38,667 --> 00:07:40,500 She's not gonna come out and pat me on the back, say, 187 00:07:40,500 --> 00:07:44,166 "Hey, Matt, good, you finally built the house you wanted," you know. 188 00:07:44,166 --> 00:07:45,567 -You know. -I thought she was just fine. 189 00:07:45,567 --> 00:07:47,567 -She was genuine. She was Amy. She didn't do anything wrong. -Yeah. 190 00:07:47,567 --> 00:07:49,467 She went along better than expected that 191 00:07:49,467 --> 00:07:52,166 -she actually came and saw it, so good for her. -Yeah. 192 00:07:52,166 --> 00:07:53,767 [Chris] Just kind of watch where you walk. 193 00:07:53,767 --> 00:07:56,867 Sometimes, with so many construction sites on this farm. 194 00:07:56,867 --> 00:07:58,200 Yeah, I bet you have. 195 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,467 Amy, I'll give you a quick little tour. 196 00:08:00,467 --> 00:08:02,467 [Amy] Not the stuff that I went through. 197 00:08:02,467 --> 00:08:04,500 Seeing the construction site now, 198 00:08:04,500 --> 00:08:07,967 there's less stress because, you know, we had little kids. 199 00:08:07,967 --> 00:08:11,000 And we're living in half a house, it's not even a house. 200 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:14,266 It's bare walls or studs or whatever it is, 201 00:08:14,266 --> 00:08:17,166 and we're freezing half the time, and, you know, night and day, 202 00:08:17,166 --> 00:08:20,100 I look at what's happening now, this is so much easier. 203 00:08:20,100 --> 00:08:21,767 'Cause you're still living someplace else 204 00:08:21,767 --> 00:08:24,900 and you can come, "Oh yeah, let's do this, let's do that." 205 00:08:24,900 --> 00:08:27,100 [Caryn] The dining room had a bar 206 00:08:27,100 --> 00:08:28,867 that wrapped around the corner. 207 00:08:28,867 --> 00:08:31,367 How many times have I changed that, Jim? 208 00:08:31,367 --> 00:08:33,266 And I wanted to wall it in. 209 00:08:33,266 --> 00:08:34,367 At least five. 210 00:08:34,367 --> 00:08:36,000 -Yeah. -[Jim and Matt chuckle] 211 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,667 "We're doing the wall." "No, we're not." 212 00:08:38,667 --> 00:08:39,900 What are we doing? 213 00:08:39,900 --> 00:08:41,166 [Matt] We're not doing the wall. 214 00:08:41,166 --> 00:08:43,500 -Right, Caryn? -Whatever you want. 215 00:08:43,500 --> 00:08:45,800 -[Jim laughing] -So, wait a minute. How is it working with him? 216 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,700 You are a saint to still be here. 217 00:08:47,700 --> 00:08:49,066 I am, yeah. 218 00:08:49,066 --> 00:08:51,266 -Focused. -Yes. Yeah. 219 00:08:51,266 --> 00:08:52,767 [Matt laughs] 220 00:08:52,767 --> 00:08:55,266 -Nope. -Hasn't changed. 221 00:08:55,266 --> 00:08:57,000 [Amy] He and Caryn will get the house 222 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,266 that, you know, they kind of want, or Matt wants, 223 00:09:00,266 --> 00:09:03,166 and Caryn is, you know, definitely being a part of it and everything. 224 00:09:03,166 --> 00:09:05,467 But, uh, if I never walked through the house, 225 00:09:05,467 --> 00:09:07,100 I would be okay, too. 226 00:09:07,100 --> 00:09:09,500 It's not like I desired and wanted to. 227 00:09:09,500 --> 00:09:12,767 But I pretty much went along with, you know, with Chris. 228 00:09:12,767 --> 00:09:15,467 I'm glad you guys aren't throwing blows, you know. 229 00:09:15,467 --> 00:09:17,100 Oh, that's all just starting. 230 00:09:17,100 --> 00:09:18,000 [Amy] That's all she can handle. 231 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:19,767 She came to rescue me from Jim. 232 00:09:19,767 --> 00:09:21,166 -[Matt and Chris chuckle] -[Chris] Right. 233 00:09:21,166 --> 00:09:24,467 He wants me to pick the bathtub, so I got my work cut out for me. 234 00:09:24,467 --> 00:09:26,900 Oh! Well, you know he's going to change it. Don't have to-- 235 00:09:26,900 --> 00:09:28,166 -[Caryn] Right. -[Matt] Yeah. 236 00:09:31,367 --> 00:09:35,233 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 237 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:41,834 [Tori] Lilah, get outta there. 238 00:09:43,266 --> 00:09:45,266 Can it be like summertime already 239 00:09:45,266 --> 00:09:47,467 and just, everyone wears dresses all the time? 240 00:09:47,467 --> 00:09:49,066 [Zach] Next week, it's gonna be 72. 241 00:09:49,467 --> 00:09:51,567 Seventy-two? 242 00:09:51,567 --> 00:09:54,467 Yeah, Jackson goes to school everyday, kindergarten, 243 00:09:54,467 --> 00:09:57,967 'cause there's more time to spend with Josiah and Lilah. 244 00:09:57,967 --> 00:10:00,100 -We've only had one soccer practice. -[Tori] I know. 245 00:10:00,100 --> 00:10:02,166 -This weather keeps cancelling them. -He's got one-and-a-half. 246 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:04,467 We-- No, wasn't even a half, Tori. 247 00:10:04,467 --> 00:10:06,367 -It's like five minutes. -[Tori chuckles] 248 00:10:06,367 --> 00:10:07,800 [Zach] Torrential downpour. 249 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,100 You can get out. 250 00:10:09,100 --> 00:10:11,767 [Zach] I am coaching Jackson's soccer team this spring. 251 00:10:11,767 --> 00:10:13,667 And I'm excited. 252 00:10:13,667 --> 00:10:15,767 Uh, soccer's my favorite sport. 253 00:10:15,767 --> 00:10:17,600 What I obsessed over 254 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,333 in my childhood years and adolescence. 255 00:10:20,967 --> 00:10:22,100 -Soccer's-- -And even now. 256 00:10:22,100 --> 00:10:23,166 Yeah, soccer's my favorite sport. 257 00:10:23,166 --> 00:10:25,100 Now he just obsesses about Jackson's soccer. 258 00:10:25,100 --> 00:10:26,300 Yeah. 259 00:10:26,300 --> 00:10:29,166 I'm trying to resist so hard not to take it too seriously. 260 00:10:30,100 --> 00:10:31,433 -It does-- -It's not working. 261 00:10:32,266 --> 00:10:33,266 What do you mean it's not working? 262 00:10:33,266 --> 00:10:36,100 Babe, you talk about it everyday. 263 00:10:36,100 --> 00:10:39,000 You're thinking about, like, "Where am I gonna play these kids?" 264 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:40,867 "How am I gonna make my kid look good?" 265 00:10:40,867 --> 00:10:43,166 I'm not volunteering my time for free. 266 00:10:43,166 --> 00:10:45,934 This is all about making Jackson look good. 267 00:10:46,467 --> 00:10:47,634 [laughs] 268 00:10:47,634 --> 00:10:52,767 How do I highlight his strengths and hide his shortcomings? 269 00:10:52,767 --> 00:10:55,800 -Get it? [laughs] -Shortcomings? Pun intended. 270 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,100 [Zach] I want Jackson to be on a very good team, 271 00:10:58,100 --> 00:11:01,867 and by coaching him, also I'm able to, you know, put him 272 00:11:01,867 --> 00:11:04,967 in the best positions for him to succeed. 273 00:11:04,967 --> 00:11:06,700 'Cause, like, Jackson's a good player. 274 00:11:06,700 --> 00:11:09,000 He's our third-top goal-scorer. 275 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:12,667 But physically, he had some physical limitations that, me as a coach, 276 00:11:12,667 --> 00:11:14,467 I was able to kind of help. 277 00:11:14,467 --> 00:11:16,166 I do that with all the kids though, too, like, 278 00:11:16,166 --> 00:11:19,166 there are certain kids that have strong points and weak points. 279 00:11:19,166 --> 00:11:21,367 You wanna put everyone in positions 280 00:11:21,367 --> 00:11:24,000 that they can feel good and succeed. 281 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:27,700 -Jackson's always gotta have a mindset. -[Lilah screams] 282 00:11:27,700 --> 00:11:30,266 -Just gotta do the best he can do. -[Tori] Yeah. 283 00:11:30,266 --> 00:11:31,667 [Zach] That's how I did it. 284 00:11:31,667 --> 00:11:34,333 -[Lilah] Daddy... -Are you sure you don't wanna play soccer? 285 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:38,834 Lilah, do you want to get hit in the face with a soccer ball? 286 00:11:39,367 --> 00:11:41,300 -That would hurt, huh? -Yeah. 287 00:11:41,300 --> 00:11:43,900 -Ouch. -Hey, should we have a little team party? 288 00:11:43,900 --> 00:11:46,166 Or we can just get some, like, snacks and like... 289 00:11:46,467 --> 00:11:47,867 No, babe. 290 00:11:47,867 --> 00:11:50,166 Think of how many parties you go to and there's snacks. 291 00:11:50,166 --> 00:11:53,200 And then you're like, "Dang, I wish there was, like, actual food here." 292 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,066 You're gonna have people over, you gotta feed 'em. 293 00:11:55,066 --> 00:11:58,367 We're gonna have a couple of Jackson's soccer friends over and their parents. 294 00:11:58,367 --> 00:12:00,800 I think I'm gonna set up a soccer field for them and yeah, 295 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:03,700 when the kids come, you know, they can jump outside, play. 296 00:12:03,700 --> 00:12:06,000 That's how friendships start for your kids. 297 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,100 If you want your kids to make friends, 298 00:12:08,100 --> 00:12:09,767 you have to make friends. 299 00:12:09,767 --> 00:12:12,200 Yeah. Yeah, Jackson and me will go pick up some food. 300 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:13,900 -[Zach] We'll do this party. -Okay. 301 00:12:13,900 --> 00:12:18,000 -We'll do hamburgers, water, cheese, maybe some juice. -[Tori to Lilah] Too much now. 302 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:19,367 But if I'm cooking it though, 303 00:12:19,367 --> 00:12:21,667 I don't really want you shopping. 304 00:12:21,667 --> 00:12:23,467 Do you remember Jackson's first birthday party? 305 00:12:23,467 --> 00:12:25,000 Do you recall? 306 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:26,166 I do recall. 307 00:12:26,166 --> 00:12:28,600 Apparently we ran out of food. Hopefully everyone ate. 308 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,367 -Did you guys eat? -We ran out? 309 00:12:30,367 --> 00:12:33,867 I brought 30 burgers and 30 hot dogs, and they're gone. 310 00:12:33,867 --> 00:12:35,667 -[woman] This is the last of it. -[Zach] Oh. 311 00:12:35,667 --> 00:12:38,600 -Tori hasn't eaten. Your mum hasn't eaten. -Oh, crap. 312 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:39,867 Chris hasn't eaten. 313 00:12:39,867 --> 00:12:41,333 Tori's mum hasn't eaten. 314 00:12:41,333 --> 00:12:44,266 [Tori] You gotta have a lot of food 'cause there's a lot of people there. 315 00:12:44,266 --> 00:12:47,400 Okay, Jackson's party was a mistake. It was a mistake, okay? 316 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,567 I still don't think if you're having 12 people, 317 00:12:49,567 --> 00:12:51,266 you don't need 36 hamburgers. 318 00:12:51,266 --> 00:12:52,600 I don't like wasting. 319 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,600 -I think that's ridiculous. -I agree. But you need more than 12. 320 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:55,934 Yeah, you need more than 12. 321 00:12:57,667 --> 00:12:59,600 -Okay! -[instrument chiming] 322 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:01,467 [Zach] Hey, Lilah. 323 00:13:01,467 --> 00:13:03,166 Could we go bring this toy back in your room? 324 00:13:04,500 --> 00:13:06,000 Yeah, it's just so loud. 325 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,166 [Lilah] This? 326 00:13:07,166 --> 00:13:08,333 -[Zach] Yeah. -"Me?" 327 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:10,767 Thank you, Lilah. 328 00:13:10,767 --> 00:13:11,600 [narrator] Coming up... 329 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:13,166 -Wait, we gotta tell people? -Slow down! 330 00:13:14,166 --> 00:13:15,834 We don't have to tell people. 331 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:21,967 -You got emotional. -I got emotional. 332 00:13:21,967 --> 00:13:23,166 I got caught up in the moment. 333 00:13:23,166 --> 00:13:24,667 -[Matt] And later... - [Zach] Here he comes! 334 00:13:24,667 --> 00:13:25,634 Here he comes! 335 00:13:26,867 --> 00:13:28,900 Hey! Hey! Come on, Jackson! 336 00:13:28,900 --> 00:13:30,166 Some of the opposing kids 337 00:13:30,166 --> 00:13:31,367 point out that he's different, 338 00:13:31,367 --> 00:13:33,867 and he's starting to hear that for the first time. 339 00:13:33,867 --> 00:13:35,033 Are you okay? 340 00:13:40,166 --> 00:13:42,667 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 341 00:13:46,066 --> 00:13:47,967 -[Caryn] Thank you so much. -[server] You're welcome. 342 00:13:47,967 --> 00:13:50,467 -Popcorn chips should be right out. -[Caryn] Thank you. 343 00:13:50,467 --> 00:13:53,467 -Well, Ty and Shelly should be here any minute. Cheers. -Yeah, yeah. 344 00:13:55,667 --> 00:13:59,000 Um, you need-- It's polite to take a drink after you toast. 345 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,667 -Oh! Sorry. -Try again. 346 00:14:01,667 --> 00:14:03,467 Okay. 347 00:14:03,467 --> 00:14:05,166 -Cheers! -Cheers. 348 00:14:05,166 --> 00:14:09,200 [Matt] Caryn and I will be meeting our friends Ty and Shelly for dinner. 349 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,467 We have some really exciting news to share with them. 350 00:14:23,100 --> 00:14:25,367 I, I asked Caryn to marry me, 351 00:14:25,367 --> 00:14:26,734 and, um, she said yes. 352 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,166 [Caryn] You said to me, 353 00:14:30,166 --> 00:14:32,266 "I've thought about this a lot for a long time 354 00:14:32,266 --> 00:14:33,967 and I want to grow old with you." 355 00:14:33,967 --> 00:14:36,667 -That's what he said. Then I started to cry. -Yeah. 356 00:14:36,667 --> 00:14:38,100 [Matt] Yeah. 357 00:14:38,100 --> 00:14:40,700 Thought about this a lot. That is exactly it... 358 00:14:40,700 --> 00:14:42,400 I had no idea. 359 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,700 Come to find out, he's got, you know, 360 00:14:44,700 --> 00:14:47,600 my parents on the hook and my friends on the hook and... 361 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,900 -It was a tight circle that knew about it. -Right, right. 362 00:14:49,900 --> 00:14:53,700 It was my closest people but nobody gave me 363 00:14:53,700 --> 00:14:55,066 any hints at all. 364 00:14:57,266 --> 00:14:59,266 -Hi! -[Shelly] Hi! 365 00:14:59,266 --> 00:15:00,400 -Oh, my God! -Hey, folks! 366 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,266 -Congratulations! -[Ty laughing] 367 00:15:03,266 --> 00:15:04,266 -Congrats. -Thank you. 368 00:15:04,266 --> 00:15:05,166 [Shelly] Hey, Matt! 369 00:15:05,166 --> 00:15:06,266 [Shelly] Congratulations! 370 00:15:06,266 --> 00:15:07,367 Can you believe it? 371 00:15:07,367 --> 00:15:09,367 -[Ty] I can't believe it! -[Shelly] Aw! 372 00:15:09,367 --> 00:15:11,266 -[Matt] I thought you were gonna say, "It's about time." -[Ty] Just a couple weeks ago, 373 00:15:11,266 --> 00:15:13,767 -It is about time. -at our guy's night, he was all nervous. 374 00:15:13,767 --> 00:15:15,467 -We're in our backyard in Arizona. -We're in our backyard 375 00:15:15,467 --> 00:15:16,667 -in Arizona. -[Caryn] Like our favorite spot. 376 00:15:16,667 --> 00:15:20,233 The sun had set, so the ambience was just really 377 00:15:20,767 --> 00:15:22,967 cosy vibes and nice and... 378 00:15:22,967 --> 00:15:25,600 I went into the room. 379 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:28,266 I'd fished the ring out of my bag 380 00:15:28,266 --> 00:15:29,967 and put it in my pocket. 381 00:15:29,967 --> 00:15:33,166 And then I just said, "You know what? I should just go for it." 382 00:15:33,166 --> 00:15:36,100 And I pulled the box out at the exact time 383 00:15:36,100 --> 00:15:37,900 that I said, "Will you marry me?" 384 00:15:37,900 --> 00:15:41,000 And she looked at the box, looked at me, 385 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,000 and then, she had that 386 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,266 feeling like, "What's this?" You know? 387 00:15:46,266 --> 00:15:48,066 But she opened the box. 388 00:15:48,066 --> 00:15:50,100 You know, she's smart. She knew... 389 00:15:50,100 --> 00:15:52,000 -and I was... I know... -I didn't. I don't remember. 390 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,266 There's good things in this box. 391 00:15:54,266 --> 00:15:56,367 Of course, after he asked, 392 00:15:56,367 --> 00:15:58,000 I was so shocked, and then, 393 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:02,266 we took a minute, we didn't, we just sat for a few minutes and just... 394 00:16:02,266 --> 00:16:05,500 -chatted and I was very excited and I cried. -Yeah, we-- 395 00:16:05,500 --> 00:16:07,367 And he's like, "Don't you wanna go in the light and look at it?" 396 00:16:07,367 --> 00:16:10,300 And I'm like, "No, I just wanna sit here for a minute and absorb this moment." 397 00:16:10,300 --> 00:16:11,800 'Cause it just... 398 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:13,000 it just felt right. 399 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,834 It felt natural. It felt like it was always meant to be. 400 00:16:17,166 --> 00:16:20,400 All right! Let me see! 401 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:24,467 -[gasps] Oh, my gosh! That is beautiful! -[Caryn] He did good. 402 00:16:24,467 --> 00:16:25,867 -[Caryn] Thank you! -[Ty] Well done, man. 403 00:16:25,867 --> 00:16:27,567 -[Shelly] Nice! You did good! -He did that! 404 00:16:27,567 --> 00:16:28,967 About time. 405 00:16:28,967 --> 00:16:31,867 [Matt] I had been looking around for a ring. 406 00:16:31,867 --> 00:16:35,266 I saw the right diamond at the right time 407 00:16:35,266 --> 00:16:37,367 and I ordered the ring. 408 00:16:37,367 --> 00:16:40,266 It arrived about a week before I went to Arizona. 409 00:16:40,266 --> 00:16:42,500 But I thought it still doesn't mean we're gonna get married. 410 00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:44,066 Then I put it in my little bag 411 00:16:44,066 --> 00:16:46,567 that I wore and went down to Arizona. 412 00:16:46,567 --> 00:16:48,867 Then I got kinda nervous about, you know, 413 00:16:48,867 --> 00:16:51,367 "I wonder if she's gonna actually like this thing or..." 414 00:16:51,367 --> 00:16:52,667 I'm glad she said yes. 415 00:16:52,667 --> 00:16:54,266 -So where'd you do it at? -Hey! 416 00:16:54,266 --> 00:16:55,467 -We gotta hear details. -[Caryn] Arizona. 417 00:16:55,467 --> 00:16:57,967 -[Ty] Arizona? -He was acting really weird all day. 418 00:16:57,967 --> 00:16:59,767 -Yeah? -First he said, 419 00:16:59,767 --> 00:17:03,166 "If I ever ask you to marry me, do I have to get down on one knee?" 420 00:17:03,166 --> 00:17:05,867 And I said, "No! Of course not! That's hard for you." 421 00:17:05,867 --> 00:17:08,266 And then he's like, [imitating Matt] "Well, then in that case..." 422 00:17:08,266 --> 00:17:10,367 [all laughing] 423 00:17:10,367 --> 00:17:12,867 [in normal voice] And then, and then he was very sweet and he said, 424 00:17:12,867 --> 00:17:15,367 "I want to spend the rest of my life with you. 425 00:17:15,367 --> 00:17:17,467 I wanna grow old with you." 426 00:17:17,467 --> 00:17:20,300 And then, all I had seen at that point was the box. 427 00:17:20,300 --> 00:17:21,867 So I was kind of like... 428 00:17:21,867 --> 00:17:24,200 -Yeah, standard stuff. -[Ty] Did you cry? 429 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,266 -I... I... -[Caryn] He did not cry. 430 00:17:26,266 --> 00:17:27,867 -[Caryn] I cried. I cried. -He did not cry? 431 00:17:27,867 --> 00:17:30,900 I cried of just complete and total surprise. 432 00:17:30,900 --> 00:17:34,367 And then I'm like, "Oh, my gosh! Who are we gonna tell?" 433 00:17:34,367 --> 00:17:36,200 And he's like, "Whoa, hey! Whoa! Hey! 434 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,667 -I'm just coming down off of this asking here." -[Shelly laughing] 435 00:17:39,900 --> 00:17:41,567 Wait, we gotta tell people? 436 00:17:41,567 --> 00:17:43,000 "Slow down!" 437 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,667 We don't have to tell people. 438 00:17:44,667 --> 00:17:48,100 He's like, "I'm just, I'm just relieved that this is over. 439 00:17:48,100 --> 00:17:51,367 I've been working on this for a long time." So he just wanted to, like, 440 00:17:51,367 --> 00:17:53,767 put on some music and have a drink and relax. 441 00:17:53,767 --> 00:17:56,767 And I'm like... [babbling] I was all charged. 442 00:17:58,300 --> 00:18:01,367 I thought you were just gonna give her a ring and say, "Hey, we're friends forever." 443 00:18:01,367 --> 00:18:02,667 [Caryn and Shelly laughing] 444 00:18:02,667 --> 00:18:04,100 -"Friends Forever"? -[Ty] "Friends Forever," yeah. 445 00:18:04,100 --> 00:18:06,266 -Friends forever. -Yeah. 446 00:18:06,266 --> 00:18:07,967 -[Ty] That's what I thought. -That was the plan. 447 00:18:07,967 --> 00:18:09,200 -You got emotional. -Got emotional. 448 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:10,100 I got emotional. 449 00:18:10,100 --> 00:18:11,300 I got caught up in the moment. 450 00:18:11,300 --> 00:18:13,266 -[Caryn] Do you wanna rescind? -No! 451 00:18:13,266 --> 00:18:14,667 -I got... -Too late! 452 00:18:14,667 --> 00:18:17,000 -I got a very clear 'yes' from her. -I think it's been used now. 453 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:18,467 -Yeah. -You can't send it back. 454 00:18:18,467 --> 00:18:22,000 We talked about a promise ring or something years ago. 455 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,200 A lot of people, you know, you get divorced, 456 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:27,700 you know, after being with somebody, I was with Amy for 30 years 457 00:18:27,700 --> 00:18:29,266 or, or close to it. 458 00:18:29,266 --> 00:18:32,500 You kind of say, "I don't ever wanna go through that again." 459 00:18:32,500 --> 00:18:36,066 Marriage is, is tough and, um, 460 00:18:36,066 --> 00:18:38,867 it's, it's hard and so, Caryn and I were thinking 461 00:18:38,867 --> 00:18:40,266 that we had such a good thing going, 462 00:18:40,266 --> 00:18:41,900 why would we wanna ruin it? 463 00:18:41,900 --> 00:18:44,867 A commitment ring sounds kind of cool and kind of like a good idea. 464 00:18:44,867 --> 00:18:47,200 You know, like, "Hey, I'm committed and here is something to prove it." 465 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:48,934 And whatever 466 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,767 ceremony or paperwork we had 467 00:18:51,767 --> 00:18:53,667 was a different issue. I wanted her to have a ring. 468 00:18:54,667 --> 00:18:56,200 So we don't have any big plans. 469 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:57,400 No big wedding? 470 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,667 -No big wedding. -No. No! 471 00:18:59,667 --> 00:19:01,100 -We might... -Cabo. 472 00:19:01,100 --> 00:19:02,567 -[Ty] Cabo? -...elope in Cabo. 473 00:19:02,567 --> 00:19:05,100 I might go to Cabo and just get married on the beach. 474 00:19:05,100 --> 00:19:06,300 [Caryn] That's kinda, yeah. 475 00:19:06,300 --> 00:19:08,567 -[Shelly] Cabo? Oh, yeah! -We might do something in Arizona. 476 00:19:08,567 --> 00:19:12,166 Second marriage, we have both been married previously. 477 00:19:12,166 --> 00:19:15,400 And we are thinking very intimate, very small. 478 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,700 We haven't ruled anybody in or anybody out. 479 00:19:17,700 --> 00:19:19,400 Maybe we'll just do it the two of us. 480 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,000 Um, but we haven't really nailed anything down yet. 481 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,967 I may or may not have browsed wedding dresses just for fun. 482 00:19:28,467 --> 00:19:30,667 Wow! This is moving fast. 483 00:19:31,700 --> 00:19:33,266 Did you talk this over with Chris? 484 00:19:33,266 --> 00:19:35,100 -[Ty and Shelly laughing] -Oh, my God. 485 00:19:35,100 --> 00:19:38,567 Not really. He was taken aback but I did let him know. 486 00:19:38,567 --> 00:19:41,266 -You let Amy know? -I didn't want Amy to hear it from the kids, you know. 487 00:19:41,266 --> 00:19:42,367 [Shelly] That was right. 488 00:19:42,367 --> 00:19:44,867 She kicked it right back and said, "Congratulations" 489 00:19:44,867 --> 00:19:48,367 or something very sincere and pleasant. 490 00:19:48,367 --> 00:19:49,767 So did you tell all your kids? 491 00:19:49,767 --> 00:19:51,667 Yep. Let all the kids know. 492 00:19:51,667 --> 00:19:54,000 You know, I made sure I texted all the kids 493 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,767 and, um, everybody seemed excited. 494 00:19:55,767 --> 00:19:59,200 I don't think I heard anything from Zach, um, you know. 495 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,800 Which doesn't surprise me. They're raising three kids, 496 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,900 and he's kind of in his own life up there in Battleground. 497 00:20:05,900 --> 00:20:07,667 I didn't take it personally. 498 00:20:07,667 --> 00:20:11,166 No, I'm-- One thing you need to know about me is I have very thick skin. 499 00:20:11,166 --> 00:20:12,700 -Toast. Yay! -Yay! 500 00:20:12,700 --> 00:20:14,266 -[Ty and Shelly] Congratulations! -Thank you, I appreciate it. 501 00:20:14,266 --> 00:20:16,266 [all whooping] 502 00:20:16,266 --> 00:20:17,634 [Ty and Shelly] Congratulations! 503 00:20:19,867 --> 00:20:22,166 -[Caryn] Coming up... -[Chris] Congratulations. 504 00:20:22,166 --> 00:20:23,800 -Oh, thanks. -Oh! 505 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:25,367 We're gonna do things completely different. 506 00:20:25,367 --> 00:20:27,066 We're gonna invite you guys. 507 00:20:28,467 --> 00:20:31,266 We don't even know if we're inviting our best friends. 508 00:20:31,266 --> 00:20:33,867 So for him to throw that out there was like, "Uh-oh!" 509 00:20:33,867 --> 00:20:36,667 -Well, you are gonna need a best man. -Yeah. 510 00:20:36,667 --> 00:20:38,200 -Oh, yeah, right, right. -[Caryn] No... 511 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,166 [Caryn] That might be a little... 512 00:20:39,166 --> 00:20:40,266 I think that might be a little weird. 513 00:20:40,266 --> 00:20:42,533 -Come on, Chris! -Scratch. 514 00:20:47,467 --> 00:20:50,133 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 515 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,567 I would love to wrap these so I counted 516 00:20:55,567 --> 00:20:57,467 these corners here 517 00:20:57,467 --> 00:21:02,100 because I think it looks really good to have those jambs wrapped in stone. 518 00:21:02,100 --> 00:21:05,700 So the new house is now... flying. 519 00:21:05,700 --> 00:21:07,767 Today is the day that the trusses arrive. 520 00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:11,033 A truss holds up the roof. It's your rafters on your house. 521 00:21:13,900 --> 00:21:15,200 -[Chris] Hey, guys. -Hey! 522 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,000 -[Caryn] Hi, Chris! -Hi! 523 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,533 -[Matt] You know Jim. -[Jim] Hey, Chris. 524 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:20,500 [Jim] Sorry, I'll just give you... 525 00:21:20,500 --> 00:21:22,266 -[Chris] Well, congratulations! -Oh, thanks. 526 00:21:22,266 --> 00:21:23,500 [Chris] Yeah. 527 00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:26,467 Well, Amy's out running around on an errand 528 00:21:26,467 --> 00:21:28,667 and I just, uh, I got a quick note from Matt 529 00:21:28,667 --> 00:21:30,500 that, uh, the trusses were coming for the house. 530 00:21:30,500 --> 00:21:32,567 So I'm running over real quick to take a look. 531 00:21:32,567 --> 00:21:34,367 I asked him to let me know because 532 00:21:34,367 --> 00:21:36,667 you know, kind of one of those fun projects to watch. 533 00:21:36,667 --> 00:21:39,166 Plus, Matt and Caryn just got engaged just a couple days ago. 534 00:21:39,166 --> 00:21:42,467 This'll be my chance to congratulate him in person. 535 00:21:42,467 --> 00:21:44,533 I know, first thing, you know, the... 536 00:21:45,100 --> 00:21:46,700 Oh, that's beautiful. 537 00:21:46,700 --> 00:21:49,667 [Matt] Chris said, you know, he said, "Tell me the story, you know." 538 00:21:49,667 --> 00:21:51,700 I hardly ever feel awkward talking to Chris 539 00:21:51,700 --> 00:21:53,166 about pretty much anything. 540 00:21:53,166 --> 00:21:56,667 Maybe he felt awkward. I don't know. Have to ask him. 541 00:21:56,667 --> 00:21:58,767 I was, I was quite surprised. 542 00:21:58,767 --> 00:22:01,266 I'm a little miffed that it's so much bigger than the one I gave Amy. 543 00:22:01,266 --> 00:22:02,600 [Caryn] Aww! 544 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,266 It's at least twice the size as the one that I gave to Amy. 545 00:22:06,266 --> 00:22:08,767 You know, it kind of made me feel a little bit bad 546 00:22:08,767 --> 00:22:11,400 but fortunately for me, Amy already told me ahead of time 547 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:12,767 that she didn't want 548 00:22:12,767 --> 00:22:15,400 a big, gaudy ring that, you know, would hang up on things. 549 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:19,000 She has small fingers and it's still big enough, you see it. 550 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,166 It's just not near as big as Caryn's. 551 00:22:21,166 --> 00:22:22,400 [Caryn chuckles] 552 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,667 Well, I kind of got the impression from guys' night 553 00:22:24,667 --> 00:22:26,066 that you'd wait till the house was done. 554 00:22:26,066 --> 00:22:27,166 So did we! 555 00:22:27,166 --> 00:22:29,400 Well, if the house wasn't in progress, you know, but... 556 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,867 -I knew it had to happen sometime... -Yeah. 557 00:22:31,867 --> 00:22:35,367 ...between when we poured the foundation and when we finished. 558 00:22:35,367 --> 00:22:37,133 But that didn't matter to me. 559 00:22:38,567 --> 00:22:40,000 [Caryn] Back in the day, 560 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:44,100 I never envisioned myself living on a farm, 561 00:22:44,100 --> 00:22:45,767 engaged to Matt. 562 00:22:45,767 --> 00:22:47,767 If we're finding ways to advertise the farm, 563 00:22:47,767 --> 00:22:50,500 the Starlight Parade is more family-orientated. 564 00:22:50,500 --> 00:22:52,767 I've never been a parade person. I'm not gonna start now. 565 00:22:52,767 --> 00:22:55,867 There's probably around 400,000 people that go to that. 566 00:22:55,867 --> 00:22:57,166 -What? -[Caryn] Yeah. 567 00:22:57,166 --> 00:23:00,467 But life has a funny way of working out. 568 00:23:00,467 --> 00:23:03,867 Things have evolved and I'm blessed and happy to be here 569 00:23:03,867 --> 00:23:08,066 and I love Matt and there was a lot of discussion where 570 00:23:08,066 --> 00:23:11,100 you know, would I ever live in the big house? 571 00:23:11,100 --> 00:23:15,066 And that just never felt comfortable to me. 572 00:23:15,066 --> 00:23:18,900 There's a lot of history there and I try to respect that, if I can. 573 00:23:18,900 --> 00:23:21,367 And I know that Matt had one more build in him. 574 00:23:21,367 --> 00:23:23,400 He'd talked about this house for ever and ever and ever 575 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,500 and so the fact that he's finally getting to do it, 576 00:23:25,500 --> 00:23:29,567 I'm glad that I'm, you know, hopping along on the journey with him for that. 577 00:23:29,567 --> 00:23:32,266 Well, we were honored to get the text, you know. 578 00:23:32,266 --> 00:23:34,667 -So thank you for that. -Oh, right. You guys were one of the first, I did think, 579 00:23:34,667 --> 00:23:38,900 -that I wanted Amy to know before anybody else. -Yeah. 580 00:23:38,900 --> 00:23:41,700 Because I didn't want the kids to be calling her, you know. 581 00:23:41,700 --> 00:23:43,166 -And I didn't want her to hear that way. -Mm-hmm. 582 00:23:43,166 --> 00:23:45,734 But we're gonna do things completely different. We're gonna invite you guys! 583 00:23:49,300 --> 00:23:52,467 I was okay that you mentioned that to Chris 584 00:23:52,467 --> 00:23:54,600 that they could come to the wedding but-- 585 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,467 -We hadn't talked about it. -Yeah. 586 00:23:56,467 --> 00:23:58,100 [Caryn] We haven't made a guestlist yet. 587 00:23:58,100 --> 00:24:01,567 We don't even know if we're inviting our, our best friends. 588 00:24:01,567 --> 00:24:04,533 So for him to throw that out there was like, "Uh-oh!" [chuckles] 589 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,967 What was the response you got from your kids? 590 00:24:07,967 --> 00:24:10,600 I mean, I haven't talked to any of them so I don't know. 591 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,100 You know-- Most of them, Molly called immediately. I texted and she called. 592 00:24:14,100 --> 00:24:15,467 Oh, Amy was probably up there. 593 00:24:15,467 --> 00:24:17,266 Yeah, and Jacob and Izzy were very happy. 594 00:24:17,266 --> 00:24:18,767 And even Jeremy-- 595 00:24:18,767 --> 00:24:21,800 I think everybody was happy and great, felt settled about it. 596 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,000 I haven't heard much from Zach. I know they were busy with Easter. 597 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,567 -But I don't think anybody was surprised, you know. -Yeah. 598 00:24:27,567 --> 00:24:30,467 Oh, now, they might expect to be invited to your wedding too, you know. 599 00:24:30,467 --> 00:24:32,100 -Yeah, yeah. -[Chris laughs] 600 00:24:32,100 --> 00:24:33,333 We have to cross all that-- 601 00:24:33,333 --> 00:24:34,800 -[Chris] That's tough. -Yeah, we have bridges to cross on that. 602 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,367 As a father, you know, you never stop trying to build bridges 603 00:24:38,367 --> 00:24:43,200 and, you know, mend hurt feelings and, um, you know, 604 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:47,400 it's one of those things that's just, it's kind of a constant thing, you know. 605 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,166 And as a father, you gotta kind of accept that they're on their own 606 00:24:50,166 --> 00:24:52,166 and then they gotta accept it. 607 00:24:52,166 --> 00:24:56,667 You know, inversely, they gotta accept the fact that you're on your own too, so. 608 00:24:56,667 --> 00:24:58,867 But, doesn't change the fact that 609 00:24:58,867 --> 00:25:03,000 you know, you love 'em and you're still, you're still you know, family. 610 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,767 -Well, you are gonna need a best man. -Yeah. 611 00:25:05,767 --> 00:25:07,166 Oh, yeah. Right, right. 612 00:25:07,166 --> 00:25:08,667 -[Caryn] Yeah, that might be a little... -I think that might be 613 00:25:08,667 --> 00:25:10,000 -a little weird. -[Caryn] Scratch. 614 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,266 -Come on, Chris! -Scratch. 615 00:25:12,266 --> 00:25:14,100 [Chris] Oh, that was obviously a joke 616 00:25:14,100 --> 00:25:16,567 when Matt said something about me being best man. 617 00:25:16,567 --> 00:25:18,533 Part of what made it funny is that... 618 00:25:19,767 --> 00:25:23,567 knowing that it probably wasn't as funny to other people I guess. 619 00:25:23,567 --> 00:25:25,367 I guess that's kinda mean. Mm. 620 00:25:26,367 --> 00:25:29,166 I'm feeling another guys' night coming on. 621 00:25:29,166 --> 00:25:31,166 -[Chris laughing] -I need to update the troops. 622 00:25:31,166 --> 00:25:33,066 [Caryn groaning] Not a bachelor party! 623 00:25:33,066 --> 00:25:34,900 I don't mind, you know, 624 00:25:34,900 --> 00:25:36,967 -not being invited to the wedding. -Yes! 625 00:25:36,967 --> 00:25:39,100 -But, hey, please invite me to the bachelor party. -Yeah, well, there you go. 626 00:25:39,100 --> 00:25:41,100 -That's a no-brainer. -[Chris] Okay. 627 00:25:41,100 --> 00:25:44,467 [Matt] We all got a kick out of the fact that Amy was gonna flip. 628 00:25:44,467 --> 00:25:46,367 But what would be even more hilarious... 629 00:25:47,567 --> 00:25:49,667 than Chris being my best man 630 00:25:49,667 --> 00:25:53,233 would be if, um, Amy became Caryn's bridesmaid. 631 00:25:55,467 --> 00:25:58,934 That would be even more hysterical. 632 00:26:01,100 --> 00:26:02,266 [Amy] Coming up... 633 00:26:02,266 --> 00:26:04,166 [Zach] Jackson's having his friends over, Lilah. 634 00:26:04,166 --> 00:26:06,233 [Tori] I'm gonna order a pizza right now. 635 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,100 You're ordering pizza? 636 00:26:08,100 --> 00:26:09,767 I'm ordering pizza. 637 00:26:09,767 --> 00:26:12,767 It's never my party. Tori doesn't let it be my party. 638 00:26:12,767 --> 00:26:14,467 You invited a bunch of moms. It's your fault. 639 00:26:14,467 --> 00:26:16,400 You moms will just make things so complicating. 640 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,367 -[Matt] And later... -No, I don't think I'd go to the wedding. 641 00:26:19,367 --> 00:26:21,567 I think out of respect to the kids and stuff, 642 00:26:21,567 --> 00:26:23,467 I think it'd be too weird. 643 00:26:23,467 --> 00:26:26,967 We did not invite Matt and Caryn to our wedding. 644 00:26:26,967 --> 00:26:29,700 And I don't expect to go. 645 00:26:29,700 --> 00:26:32,967 Actually, I told Matt that I wouldn't mind going to his bachelor party, though. 646 00:26:32,967 --> 00:26:34,667 [Amy] Oh. 647 00:26:34,667 --> 00:26:36,600 Wedding, probably not. But the bachelor party. 648 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,266 This is so funny! 649 00:26:42,867 --> 00:26:47,166 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 650 00:26:47,166 --> 00:26:49,367 [Zach] Jackson's having his friends over, Lilah. 651 00:26:49,367 --> 00:26:52,000 Do you wanna go outside and watch them play soccer? 652 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,266 Do you wanna play soccer? 653 00:26:54,767 --> 00:26:56,567 -[Zach] Jackson play soccer. Good idea. -Yeah. 654 00:26:56,567 --> 00:26:59,066 [Tori] Um, I gonna order a pizza right now. 655 00:26:59,867 --> 00:27:03,266 -You're ordering pizza? -I'm ordering pizza. 656 00:27:03,266 --> 00:27:06,367 We are switching from burgers to pizza. I guess pizza's easier. 657 00:27:07,367 --> 00:27:10,266 It's never my party. Tori doesn't let it be my party. 658 00:27:10,266 --> 00:27:12,867 [Tori] You have a bunch of moms coming over. It's my party. 659 00:27:12,867 --> 00:27:16,100 -Tori found out that other moms were coming to the house. -There are times it's working. 660 00:27:16,100 --> 00:27:20,767 So then she took over. And it wasn't just... a hangout. 661 00:27:20,767 --> 00:27:22,600 Turned into like a formal, manicured... play date. 662 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,367 You can't have people over at 5:30 and not feed them. 663 00:27:25,367 --> 00:27:27,066 That's just silly talk. 664 00:27:28,767 --> 00:27:30,767 It's not what, what was on my menu. 665 00:27:32,500 --> 00:27:33,934 This was on your menu. 666 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,667 That was your menu right there. 667 00:27:36,667 --> 00:27:38,567 Those are super good cookies. 668 00:27:38,567 --> 00:27:40,400 -Those are-- -And they... they were open. 669 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,166 -So they're probably stale by now. -I didn't open them. 670 00:27:43,166 --> 00:27:44,967 Do you want pizza? 671 00:27:44,967 --> 00:27:46,634 What kind of pizza do you want? 672 00:27:47,467 --> 00:27:49,834 -Um... -Like, cheese pizza? 673 00:27:54,367 --> 00:27:55,567 Two fruit snacks? 674 00:27:55,567 --> 00:27:56,867 For everyone? 675 00:27:56,867 --> 00:27:58,567 [Tori] Okay. 676 00:27:58,567 --> 00:28:01,266 [Zach] Not taking Lilah shopping. 677 00:28:01,266 --> 00:28:03,266 Not taking either one of you shopping. 678 00:28:03,700 --> 00:28:05,133 Good job, girl. 679 00:28:05,900 --> 00:28:07,500 Name one party 680 00:28:07,500 --> 00:28:10,467 that your mother ran out of food at. 681 00:28:10,467 --> 00:28:14,200 Name one hangout that she couldn't whip something together 682 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,166 for all of you hungry boys. 683 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,266 Name it, I'm waiting. 684 00:28:20,266 --> 00:28:23,367 -She never ran out of food. -See? 685 00:28:23,367 --> 00:28:24,900 [Zach] Now, my mum always had playdates. 686 00:28:24,900 --> 00:28:27,800 Either going to friends' houses or having friends come over to our house. 687 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,867 [all laughing] 688 00:28:29,867 --> 00:28:31,900 Burgers are out on the grill, guys. 689 00:28:31,900 --> 00:28:34,266 Buns are in here. Ketchup, mustard, relish. 690 00:28:34,266 --> 00:28:36,467 Have fun, boys. Be careful. 691 00:28:36,467 --> 00:28:38,266 [Zach] With us living out where we were, 692 00:28:38,266 --> 00:28:40,967 not having kids to play with in like a neighborhood setting, 693 00:28:40,967 --> 00:28:44,000 she was pretty big on make sure kids come to our house. 694 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,867 And us have that social interaction. 695 00:28:46,867 --> 00:28:49,934 Well, I think Zach has just been taken care of his whole life. 696 00:28:50,567 --> 00:28:51,967 I say that in the nicest way. 697 00:28:51,967 --> 00:28:55,100 But when it comes to food, he's always had a woman there... 698 00:28:55,100 --> 00:28:59,600 -My mom. -...to make sure he's fed and taken care of. 699 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,467 -It's not about running out of food. -We just have to prepare. 700 00:29:02,467 --> 00:29:04,867 This is being made into way bigger of a deal 701 00:29:04,867 --> 00:29:06,667 than it needs to be. This is a hangout. 702 00:29:06,667 --> 00:29:10,367 But, like, a hangout with pizza is very simple still. 703 00:29:12,100 --> 00:29:13,700 Seems complicating. 704 00:29:13,700 --> 00:29:16,500 It's just like, sometimes you just make things such a big deal when-- 705 00:29:16,500 --> 00:29:20,300 -You invited a bunch of moms! -You moms just make things so complicating! 706 00:29:20,300 --> 00:29:22,367 Just come over and play soccer! 707 00:29:22,367 --> 00:29:24,467 When hangouts happen and the moms are involved, 708 00:29:24,467 --> 00:29:25,567 there's a certain standard. 709 00:29:25,567 --> 00:29:27,066 I show up to a hangout, 710 00:29:27,066 --> 00:29:30,367 I would be annoyed if I was then had to go home and cook dinner. 711 00:29:30,367 --> 00:29:32,266 -How annoying. -I would have gone to talk about afterwards. 712 00:29:32,266 --> 00:29:34,200 Right? And that's what happens 713 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,100 and then you feel guilty as parents 714 00:29:36,100 --> 00:29:39,266 -because you're like, "Oh, I just thought..." -I would not feel guilty. 715 00:29:39,266 --> 00:29:41,400 I would not. 716 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,567 All right, Tori, I'm gonna go outside and set up this field. 717 00:29:44,567 --> 00:29:46,100 Tell your friends not to stress. 718 00:29:46,100 --> 00:29:48,600 [Tori to Lilah] You're gonna go night-night. Okay? 719 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,266 Because you gotta rest up for all these boys. 720 00:29:52,700 --> 00:29:54,266 [imitating Lilah] Otay. 721 00:29:54,266 --> 00:29:57,634 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 722 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,266 [Amy] I feel like a kid going skiing. 723 00:30:02,266 --> 00:30:06,066 Like, help me. Can you just lift me up and just plop me on the bike? 724 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,166 [engine whirring] 725 00:30:09,166 --> 00:30:11,066 [Amy groans] 726 00:30:12,066 --> 00:30:13,367 You're welcome. 727 00:30:13,367 --> 00:30:15,634 -[Chris] Okay. You good? -Yeah. 728 00:30:18,867 --> 00:30:20,767 Well, Amy and I are gonna go on a ride. 729 00:30:20,767 --> 00:30:24,467 I think I remember a waterfall back behind the fish hatchery 730 00:30:24,467 --> 00:30:27,166 and it's only about 40 minutes away from the house. 731 00:30:27,166 --> 00:30:28,867 I think. It's been a while. 732 00:30:28,867 --> 00:30:30,367 We're gonna go check it out. 733 00:30:30,367 --> 00:30:32,800 This is a place that Chris really wanted to show me 734 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,634 and, you know, I didn't think I'd ever been there. 735 00:30:36,266 --> 00:30:38,133 All right, I am ready for a break. 736 00:30:38,667 --> 00:30:40,533 I'm stiff, babe. 737 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,233 [groans] 738 00:30:45,467 --> 00:30:48,266 This is what the northwest forest is all about. All the... 739 00:30:48,266 --> 00:30:50,066 -The moss? Yeah. -Yeah. 740 00:30:52,367 --> 00:30:53,834 [Amy] Wow. 741 00:30:55,467 --> 00:30:58,567 -Isn't that pretty? -I-- Gorgeous! 742 00:30:58,567 --> 00:31:01,467 -[Amy] And look at how the water's all green. -Yeah. 743 00:31:02,867 --> 00:31:05,467 -Hey, babe! -[Chris laughs] 744 00:31:05,467 --> 00:31:07,667 [Amy] How are you? 745 00:31:07,667 --> 00:31:10,333 -Boy, this is really nice. -Yeah. 746 00:31:12,567 --> 00:31:14,967 [Amy] One thing I really like about Chris 747 00:31:14,967 --> 00:31:18,767 is he really likes new experiences and adventures 748 00:31:18,767 --> 00:31:22,800 and it can be the simplest thing or it can be a really great, big, huge experience 749 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,667 or adventure or something like that. 750 00:31:24,667 --> 00:31:27,100 I like that about him because I think it's... 751 00:31:27,100 --> 00:31:28,800 kind of makes life a little interesting. 752 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,166 He's, he's good. He's good for me. 753 00:31:33,367 --> 00:31:34,967 Hey, that's pretty good! 754 00:31:34,967 --> 00:31:38,100 -Are you impressed? -I am! 755 00:31:38,100 --> 00:31:41,300 This is what we did on Lake Michigan all the time. 756 00:31:41,300 --> 00:31:44,367 Oh, did I tell you I went and saw Matt and Caryn yesterday? 757 00:31:44,367 --> 00:31:47,667 Uh... no. What for? 758 00:31:47,667 --> 00:31:49,200 They're supposed to be setting trusses 759 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:50,867 -on Matt's house, but... -Uh-huh? 760 00:31:50,867 --> 00:31:52,767 They got delayed on the trusses, so they weren't there 761 00:31:52,767 --> 00:31:55,800 but I got a chance to talk with Matt and Caryn 762 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,166 -and congratulate them on their engagement -Oh yeah. 763 00:31:59,166 --> 00:32:00,867 and all that. 764 00:32:00,867 --> 00:32:02,900 Chris is like a neutral party. 765 00:32:02,900 --> 00:32:06,066 He's not involved in anything and so, I'm not surprised that 766 00:32:06,066 --> 00:32:07,867 he happened to be there 767 00:32:07,867 --> 00:32:10,567 and, you know, Matt and Caryn shared, you know, 768 00:32:10,567 --> 00:32:12,400 that news or whatever with him. 769 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:13,867 I'm all good with it. 770 00:32:13,867 --> 00:32:16,400 Nice ring. Big rock. 771 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,533 Don't compare size, babe. [chuckles] 772 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,567 -Matt doesn't do anything little. -Yeah. 773 00:32:21,567 --> 00:32:24,166 -But it's a beautiful ring. Yeah. -Oh, that's nice. 774 00:32:24,166 --> 00:32:26,700 Yeah, kind of talked a little bit on, you know, how he proposed 775 00:32:26,700 --> 00:32:28,100 and where and all that. 776 00:32:28,100 --> 00:32:31,166 -Kind of interesting to compare stories, you know. -How did he do it? 777 00:32:31,166 --> 00:32:33,767 Uh, in Arizona, at their home. 778 00:32:33,767 --> 00:32:35,200 -You know? Yeah. -Oh, okay. 779 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,166 I was thrilled that, you know, Matt at least let us know and everything. 780 00:32:39,166 --> 00:32:43,166 Um, but, there's no reason why wouldn't I be happy that someone got married? 781 00:32:43,166 --> 00:32:46,166 I mean, you know, we're all moving on 782 00:32:46,166 --> 00:32:50,133 in whatever way that, you know, we think best for ourselves 783 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:51,767 and our families. 784 00:32:51,767 --> 00:32:54,467 And, um, yeah, I'm happy for him. 785 00:32:56,166 --> 00:32:57,900 Haven't set a date. 786 00:32:57,900 --> 00:32:59,567 They don't know when. 787 00:32:59,567 --> 00:33:02,667 Or where or how or... but, you know, got lots of time to figure it out. 788 00:33:02,667 --> 00:33:05,700 Well, yeah. I mean, there's no hurry, really. 789 00:33:05,700 --> 00:33:08,066 -No, I don't think there is. -You know. 790 00:33:08,066 --> 00:33:10,667 I didn't think he was gonna propose this soon, either, so who knows. 791 00:33:10,667 --> 00:33:13,567 They just might decide to go and elope one day. 792 00:33:13,567 --> 00:33:15,667 You know, you keep 'em guessing, that's what Matt does. 793 00:33:15,667 --> 00:33:17,066 -Yeah? -Keep them on the edge of their seat. 794 00:33:17,066 --> 00:33:19,133 -I like to keep you guessing. Yeah. -Like you. 795 00:33:19,767 --> 00:33:21,900 Yeah. 796 00:33:21,900 --> 00:33:25,266 Actually, I told Matt that I wouldn't mind going to his bachelor party, though. 797 00:33:25,266 --> 00:33:26,900 [Amy chuckles] 798 00:33:26,900 --> 00:33:28,767 [Chris] Wedding, probably not, but the bachelor party would be fun. 799 00:33:28,767 --> 00:33:30,500 [Amy] You're just so funny. 800 00:33:30,500 --> 00:33:32,967 Well, do you have a problem with me going to the bachelor party? 801 00:33:32,967 --> 00:33:35,200 Well, it's just like... 802 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,567 "Oh, if it's an adventure, if it's an experience, 803 00:33:37,567 --> 00:33:40,567 -if it's a party! Who cares? I'll be there!" -That's right. 804 00:33:40,567 --> 00:33:43,800 -It's all about new experiences, babe. -Oh, brother. 805 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,367 Like you haven't gone to a bachelor party before. 806 00:33:47,367 --> 00:33:49,767 Well, again, it's a way of comparing. 807 00:33:49,767 --> 00:33:52,800 -It's like, compare his bachelor party. -But why? 808 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,467 Well, bachelor parties are always fun. 809 00:33:54,467 --> 00:33:57,300 [Amy] I mean, I didn't take it seriously 810 00:33:57,300 --> 00:33:59,667 but Chris has this sarcastic humor 811 00:33:59,667 --> 00:34:03,166 and so, I'm thinking, he's not serious, is he? 812 00:34:03,166 --> 00:34:06,266 I won't be flying to Arizona to go to a bachelor party, hun'. 813 00:34:06,266 --> 00:34:08,800 Oh, well, gee, aren't I lucky? 814 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,166 But if it's local, and I'm invited, 815 00:34:11,166 --> 00:34:13,100 you wouldn't hold it against me, would you? 816 00:34:13,100 --> 00:34:15,634 I would encourage you probably not to go. I mean, why? 817 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,233 It's a party. 818 00:34:18,266 --> 00:34:20,266 Amy knows I like new experiences. 819 00:34:20,266 --> 00:34:21,367 [both laugh] 820 00:34:21,367 --> 00:34:22,800 Sometimes she rolls her eyes 821 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,500 but usually you let me go along with it, right? 822 00:34:24,500 --> 00:34:26,834 Well, I don't know about that one. 823 00:34:28,367 --> 00:34:29,967 No, I don't think I'd go to the wedding. 824 00:34:30,867 --> 00:34:32,967 I think out of respect to the kids and stuff. 825 00:34:32,967 --> 00:34:34,867 I think it'd be too weird and awkward for them. 826 00:34:34,867 --> 00:34:37,734 That was exactly what I told Matt and Caryn too. 827 00:34:38,667 --> 00:34:42,200 We did not invite Matt and, uh, Caryn to our wedding. 828 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,867 And I don't expect to go. 829 00:34:44,867 --> 00:34:47,266 This is something, you know, just for them. 830 00:34:47,266 --> 00:34:49,867 And if the kids go, and that's fine too. 831 00:34:49,867 --> 00:34:53,400 I mean, the main reason that we didn't invite Matt and Caryn to our wedding 832 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,367 is we thought it would be awkward for the kids. 833 00:34:56,367 --> 00:34:58,500 Um, so, you know, I'm kind of expecting 834 00:34:58,500 --> 00:35:00,367 the same thing with Matt and Caryn's wedding. 835 00:35:00,367 --> 00:35:02,900 It would probably be kind of weird for us to be there. 836 00:35:02,900 --> 00:35:05,133 But I know one thing I won't be doing is spying. 837 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:08,100 Now see, 838 00:35:08,100 --> 00:35:10,433 if he set up a camera, I would watch. 839 00:35:11,667 --> 00:35:14,533 -Okay, I'm beginning to wonder, who are you? -[chuckles] 840 00:35:16,967 --> 00:35:19,367 -[Tori] Coming up... -[Zach] Jackson, you're open! Jackson! 841 00:35:19,367 --> 00:35:21,567 [Tori] Jackson stopped in the middle of the game 842 00:35:21,567 --> 00:35:23,266 and told me on the sideline like, 843 00:35:23,266 --> 00:35:26,100 "Hey, they're saying I'm too short to play soccer." 844 00:35:26,100 --> 00:35:27,867 Jackson, do you want to play a game? 845 00:35:27,867 --> 00:35:29,133 It's not really gonna stop. 846 00:35:35,066 --> 00:35:38,066 [upbeat instrumental music playing] 847 00:35:41,367 --> 00:35:44,200 -[Zach] Hey! Hey, hey, stop, stop. -[kids chattering] 848 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,867 You'll have something break. Go into Jackson's room and do this. 849 00:35:49,567 --> 00:35:51,400 Jackson's play date's going really well. 850 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,066 The moms are here. The kids brought all their gear. 851 00:35:54,066 --> 00:35:56,066 And some older siblings came, too. 852 00:35:56,066 --> 00:35:57,700 And, uh, yeah, with this many kids, 853 00:35:57,700 --> 00:35:59,166 we can definitely get some work done. 854 00:35:59,166 --> 00:36:03,467 [kids chattering] 855 00:36:04,300 --> 00:36:06,266 Hey, guys! Guys! Hey! 856 00:36:06,266 --> 00:36:08,266 Let's get-- Let's go outside, okay? 857 00:36:08,266 --> 00:36:10,567 We have a soccer field set up down there. 858 00:36:10,567 --> 00:36:12,300 Everyone get your soccer shoes on. 859 00:36:12,300 --> 00:36:14,266 Hey, if you don't have them, that's okay. 860 00:36:14,266 --> 00:36:16,967 Let's go out to the back door, get your soccer shoes and soccer ball. 861 00:36:18,166 --> 00:36:19,734 Jackson, your soccer shoes are right here. 862 00:36:21,467 --> 00:36:22,467 [Zach] Yes. 863 00:36:22,467 --> 00:36:23,767 Everyone else is wearing them. 864 00:36:23,767 --> 00:36:25,767 And then you gotta show your friends how to set up these goals. 865 00:36:25,767 --> 00:36:28,266 I already have them set up, but you gotta position them. 866 00:36:28,266 --> 00:36:29,367 Is Daddy a good coach? 867 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,867 All right, go Jackson. 868 00:36:32,867 --> 00:36:34,467 Gotta be a one-touch goal. 869 00:36:35,867 --> 00:36:37,266 Good cross, bud. 870 00:36:37,266 --> 00:36:40,700 There you go, one-touch! Yeah. 871 00:36:40,700 --> 00:36:43,000 Can Josiah stand with you for a minute? 872 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,867 I'm gonna go check on the pizza. 873 00:36:44,867 --> 00:36:46,300 Let's play 3v3! 874 00:36:46,300 --> 00:36:47,767 Hey, you're on our team. 875 00:36:47,767 --> 00:36:50,367 Beck's on our team. Robert, Beckett and Cody. 876 00:36:50,367 --> 00:36:51,900 I think he likes soccer. 877 00:36:51,900 --> 00:36:54,967 I think that's helped him with his confidence, same like me. 878 00:36:54,967 --> 00:36:57,100 Here he comes. Here he comes! 879 00:36:57,100 --> 00:36:58,667 Our team was very good growing up. 880 00:36:58,667 --> 00:37:01,400 And so I think I felt myself as being good. 881 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,266 And so that definitely gave me confidence on the soccer field. 882 00:37:04,266 --> 00:37:06,166 I was very timid off the field. 883 00:37:06,166 --> 00:37:09,567 But on the field, I was very chatty 884 00:37:09,567 --> 00:37:11,367 and kind of forget who I am a little bit. 885 00:37:11,367 --> 00:37:12,867 Get your head up. Get your head up! 886 00:37:12,867 --> 00:37:13,867 -Oh! -[Zach] Oh! 887 00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:16,467 [Zach] Keep going, Jackson, come on! 888 00:37:16,467 --> 00:37:18,834 Don't feel bad. It's toughening him up. Builds character. 889 00:37:19,967 --> 00:37:21,900 [Zach] Jackson's super-focused as a soccer player. 890 00:37:21,900 --> 00:37:25,467 He's very coachable. He pays attention, runs hard. 891 00:37:25,467 --> 00:37:28,867 He's just not the best player. Yeah, some of it's dwarfism. 892 00:37:28,867 --> 00:37:30,667 Jackson, you're open. Jackson! 893 00:37:30,667 --> 00:37:32,667 But he's pretty aware of his skillset. 894 00:37:32,667 --> 00:37:35,467 He's picked up pretty quick he can't out-run people, 895 00:37:35,467 --> 00:37:37,667 so he controls the ball really well. 896 00:37:37,667 --> 00:37:40,533 Don't let it pass you, bud. Go, shoot it! 897 00:37:41,100 --> 00:37:42,266 There we go! 898 00:37:42,266 --> 00:37:44,600 Hey! What is he doing? 899 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,166 What are you doing? 900 00:37:46,166 --> 00:37:48,567 Put your... Are you gonna go play soccer? 901 00:37:48,567 --> 00:37:51,467 All right. You gonna play soccer out there? 902 00:37:51,467 --> 00:37:53,200 You gonna go? 903 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,000 [Paige] We're just saying, like, that I think it's like the second brother thing. 904 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,266 -Like when they're chasing older brothers. -Oh, right. 905 00:37:58,266 --> 00:38:01,000 -Older, yeah. They gotta keep up. -And just like... 906 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,867 -Yeah, for sure. -Keep up, get sick of getting beat all the time. 907 00:38:03,867 --> 00:38:06,367 -[ladies chuckle] -That's so funny. 908 00:38:06,367 --> 00:38:07,667 Robert, the whole tank. 909 00:38:09,967 --> 00:38:12,700 He loves it! He's like, "I can't wait! I want to go to soccer!" 910 00:38:12,700 --> 00:38:14,166 I love that! 911 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,400 Why is he here, though? 912 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,700 -[Zach] I think he's just tired. -Are you tired? 913 00:38:21,700 --> 00:38:25,500 Did you nap? Did you go night-night? Did you nap? Are you tired? 914 00:38:25,500 --> 00:38:26,900 -[Jackson] No! -All your friends are here. 915 00:38:26,900 --> 00:38:28,567 You're just over here on the sideline? 916 00:38:28,567 --> 00:38:29,767 What are you doing? 917 00:38:29,767 --> 00:38:31,600 Jackson's, you know, getting to the age where 918 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,467 the size differences are becoming more obvious. 919 00:38:34,467 --> 00:38:36,233 And he's not catching up. 920 00:38:36,767 --> 00:38:38,400 Some of the opposing kids, 921 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,066 you know, point out that he's different. 922 00:38:40,066 --> 00:38:42,467 And he's starting to hear that for the first time. 923 00:38:42,467 --> 00:38:43,634 Are you okay? 924 00:38:44,266 --> 00:38:47,367 -[giggles] -[giggling] 925 00:38:47,367 --> 00:38:49,166 The first game that it happened at, 926 00:38:49,166 --> 00:38:51,467 Jackson stopped in the middle of the game 927 00:38:51,467 --> 00:38:55,667 and told me on the sideline like, "Hey, they're saying I'm too short to play soccer." 928 00:38:55,667 --> 00:38:59,567 Beckett, you do it. This is one-on-one touches, guys. Yeah, go. 929 00:38:59,567 --> 00:39:02,567 All three of our kids, you know, we just hope that they find friends, 930 00:39:02,567 --> 00:39:04,400 will find families that, you know, 931 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,100 can just see them for who they are, 932 00:39:06,100 --> 00:39:10,100 and they'll see Jackson for Jackson, Lilah for Lilah, Josiah for Josiah. 933 00:39:10,100 --> 00:39:13,400 I definitely don't want anyone being friends with them 934 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,767 because they feel bad for them or anything like that. 935 00:39:15,767 --> 00:39:18,100 Right now, it's starting, and like, kids will say, like, 936 00:39:18,100 --> 00:39:19,667 come up to him, "Why are you so short?" 937 00:39:19,667 --> 00:39:21,767 Like, stare at him. 938 00:39:21,767 --> 00:39:22,867 Like, in his face. 939 00:39:22,867 --> 00:39:24,567 It doesn't really register with them that, like, 940 00:39:24,567 --> 00:39:26,667 he's never gonna be as tall as them. 941 00:39:26,667 --> 00:39:30,700 Right now, he's still young enough that his feelings aren't hurt yet. 942 00:39:30,700 --> 00:39:33,166 Like, we need to be very aware how we respond 943 00:39:33,166 --> 00:39:34,500 when these things happen. 944 00:39:34,500 --> 00:39:36,767 For me, it's not making a huge deal out of it. 945 00:39:37,467 --> 00:39:39,567 Jackson! You wanna play a game? 946 00:39:39,567 --> 00:39:42,967 I over-react, he's gonna over-react, and that's not healthy, either. 947 00:39:42,967 --> 00:39:45,266 Because it's just, it's never gonna stop. 948 00:39:45,266 --> 00:39:46,767 -Jackson? -Yeah. 949 00:39:46,767 --> 00:39:48,767 All right, come out. Come out and play. 950 00:39:48,767 --> 00:39:50,166 Right there, right there, right there. 951 00:39:50,166 --> 00:39:52,266 He's gonna cross it to you, Jackson! 952 00:39:53,100 --> 00:39:54,967 And then, turn. 953 00:39:54,967 --> 00:39:57,133 Now you gotta shoot it! Shoot it! 954 00:39:58,867 --> 00:40:00,667 [chuckling] Good job, bud. 955 00:40:03,667 --> 00:40:05,567 Hey! Guys, you guys want pizza? 956 00:40:05,567 --> 00:40:06,967 Let's take a lunch break! 957 00:40:08,100 --> 00:40:10,367 -[Tori] Thank God we had pizza. -Yes. 958 00:40:10,367 --> 00:40:13,100 Tori was right. Tori got the pizza 959 00:40:13,100 --> 00:40:15,634 -and made the party that much better. -I'm always ready. 960 00:40:16,467 --> 00:40:18,533 Thank you, sir. All right, there you go. 961 00:40:22,500 --> 00:40:23,767 Here you go, bud. 962 00:40:23,767 --> 00:40:26,467 Oh, wait, you wanted cheese. Here, sorry. 963 00:40:26,467 --> 00:40:28,066 Here you go. 964 00:40:29,700 --> 00:40:32,166 [kids laughing] 965 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,667 -[Tori] Love ya. -[Zach] Love ya. 966 00:40:35,667 --> 00:40:37,100 [Zach] Good party. 967 00:40:37,100 --> 00:40:38,467 It's not a party, it's a hangout. 968 00:40:38,467 --> 00:40:39,767 -Good hangout? -It was a hangout. 969 00:40:39,767 --> 00:40:41,333 Good job with the pizza. 970 00:40:41,667 --> 00:40:42,867 It was good, right? 971 00:40:42,867 --> 00:40:44,567 -Pizza was a hit. -It was a good thing that we did that. 972 00:40:44,567 --> 00:40:46,200 [chatter] 973 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,667 [laughs] 974 00:40:47,667 --> 00:40:49,567 [Zach] Jackson, I think our friends are leaving, bud. 975 00:40:49,567 --> 00:40:51,066 One more time, Jackson. 976 00:40:52,367 --> 00:40:55,567 [all laughing] 977 00:40:55,567 --> 00:40:57,734 -No? -[Paige] Oh! [chuckles] 978 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,533 [Caryn] Next on Little People, Big World... 979 00:41:04,266 --> 00:41:07,100 -Si-Si is one. -It's crazy that Josiah is already one. 980 00:41:07,100 --> 00:41:09,166 Si-Si, what is that? 981 00:41:09,867 --> 00:41:12,900 [all laughing] 982 00:41:12,900 --> 00:41:15,200 [Tori] There's moments you wish it would slow down 983 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,166 and there's moments you wish it would speed up. 984 00:41:17,166 --> 00:41:20,567 But I think overall, it's fun watching him grow. 985 00:41:20,567 --> 00:41:24,000 Chris and I, we're kind of looking for another house. 986 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,500 The house we live in is a good house 987 00:41:26,500 --> 00:41:29,900 but, you know, I'm used to having a little more space. An acre would be nice. 988 00:41:29,900 --> 00:41:32,367 Yeah, I'm liking this space. 989 00:41:32,367 --> 00:41:34,266 [Amy] It's kind of insane. 990 00:41:34,266 --> 00:41:37,400 [Chris] The house is a little out of our price range, and it's bigger than we want. 991 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,266 But the idea is that maybe be able to do 992 00:41:40,266 --> 00:41:42,100 special events, like weddings. 993 00:41:42,100 --> 00:41:44,600 -I wanna look out back there and see if I can... --Yeah, I don't know 994 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,400 -what to think of it. -...envision doing something out there. 995 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,166 I think we need to look at more homes. 996 00:41:49,767 --> 00:41:51,200 I've already done this. 997 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,400 I don't know if I have that kind of fight at this age. 998 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,000 [Caryn] Everybody seems really excited. 999 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,066 Lots of little congratulations. 1000 00:41:58,066 --> 00:42:02,066 My side weren't surprised or upset or, you know, and-- 1001 00:42:02,066 --> 00:42:05,500 -Well, you haven't heard from all of them! -Damn right, yeah. 1002 00:42:05,500 --> 00:42:08,767 Zach and Tori are still, you know, very much keeping to themselves. 1003 00:42:08,767 --> 00:42:11,066 I think they must have made some kind of pact 1004 00:42:11,066 --> 00:42:13,567 and they're being very, you know, strict about it. 1005 00:42:13,567 --> 00:42:14,867 You get to a certain point, it's like, 1006 00:42:14,867 --> 00:42:16,533 -"Hey, that's our life," you know? -Right. 1007 00:42:20,900 --> 00:42:22,867 I didn't reply. I don't wanna talk about it.