1 00:00:02,068 --> 00:00:03,344 [Matt Roloff] Previously, on Little People Big World... 2 00:00:03,379 --> 00:00:04,413 All right, let me see. 3 00:00:04,448 --> 00:00:06,000 It is beautiful. 4 00:00:06,034 --> 00:00:07,689 [Caryn] Thank you. 5 00:00:07,724 --> 00:00:09,344 I asked Caryn to marry me and... 6 00:00:09,379 --> 00:00:10,758 she said yes. 7 00:00:10,793 --> 00:00:11,758 Did you tell all your kids? 8 00:00:11,793 --> 00:00:12,793 Yup. 9 00:00:12,827 --> 00:00:14,620 You know, I made sure I texted all the kids. 10 00:00:14,655 --> 00:00:16,551 Everybody seemed excited. 11 00:00:16,586 --> 00:00:19,034 I don't think I heard anything from Zack. 12 00:00:19,068 --> 00:00:21,310 As a father, you got to, kind of, accept that 13 00:00:21,344 --> 00:00:22,344 they're on their own 14 00:00:22,379 --> 00:00:23,448 and they got to accept that-- 15 00:00:24,310 --> 00:00:25,310 You know, inversely, 16 00:00:25,344 --> 00:00:26,689 they got to accept the fact that 17 00:00:26,724 --> 00:00:28,551 you're on your own too. 18 00:00:28,586 --> 00:00:31,137 But it doesn't change the fact that, 19 00:00:31,172 --> 00:00:34,551 you know, you love them and you're still... you know, family. 20 00:00:35,689 --> 00:00:37,172 We're gonna do things completely different. 21 00:00:37,206 --> 00:00:38,379 We're gonna invite you guys. 22 00:00:40,482 --> 00:00:42,965 It was okay that you mentioned... 23 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,758 that to Chris that they could come to the wedding. 24 00:00:44,793 --> 00:00:45,689 But... 25 00:00:45,724 --> 00:00:47,655 -We hadn't talked about it. -Yeah. 26 00:00:47,689 --> 00:00:49,551 I think out of respect for the kids and stuff, 27 00:00:49,586 --> 00:00:51,724 no, I don't think I'd go to the wedding. 28 00:00:51,758 --> 00:00:54,034 And look at how the water's all green. 29 00:00:54,068 --> 00:00:57,000 [Chris] Actually I told Matt that I wouldn't mind going to his bachelor party though. 30 00:00:58,344 --> 00:00:59,655 Wedding, probably not. 31 00:00:59,689 --> 00:01:01,896 -But the bachelor party would be fine. -You're just so funny. 32 00:01:01,931 --> 00:01:03,793 Chris has this sarcastic humor. 33 00:01:04,310 --> 00:01:05,862 And so I'm thinking, 34 00:01:05,896 --> 00:01:07,620 "He's not serious, is he?" 35 00:01:07,655 --> 00:01:09,551 You wouldn't hold it against me, would you? 36 00:01:09,586 --> 00:01:11,172 I would encourage you probably not to go. 37 00:01:11,206 --> 00:01:12,344 I mean, why? 38 00:01:12,379 --> 00:01:13,586 It's a party. 39 00:01:13,620 --> 00:01:14,517 [Zack yelling] Jackson, you open. 40 00:01:14,551 --> 00:01:15,551 Jackson? 41 00:01:15,586 --> 00:01:17,206 Jackson's, you know, getting to the age, 42 00:01:17,241 --> 00:01:20,344 where the size differences are becoming more obvious. 43 00:01:20,379 --> 00:01:21,275 -[Tori] Are you okay? -[Jackson] Yes. 44 00:01:22,413 --> 00:01:24,000 You're just over here at the sideline? 45 00:01:24,033 --> 00:01:25,379 [Zack] Some of the opposing kids 46 00:01:25,413 --> 00:01:26,482 pointed out that he's different 47 00:01:26,517 --> 00:01:28,551 and he's starting to hear that for the first time. 48 00:01:48,310 --> 00:01:50,758 Birthday season has definitely hit the Roloff household. 49 00:01:50,793 --> 00:01:53,206 So from April 30th to May 12th, 50 00:01:53,241 --> 00:01:55,000 everyone in our family has a birthday 51 00:01:55,793 --> 00:01:57,344 except for Lilah. 52 00:01:57,378 --> 00:01:59,241 -[store attendant] Hi, guys. -Hi. 53 00:01:59,275 --> 00:02:00,931 [store attendant] Welcome to Piccolo Mondo. 54 00:02:00,965 --> 00:02:03,965 [Tori] Josiah kicks off the birthday craziness. 55 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,862 So then it's my birthday, Zack's birthday, Jackson's birthday. 56 00:02:07,896 --> 00:02:10,655 And so today Lilah and I are going shopping 57 00:02:10,689 --> 00:02:12,137 for birthday presents. 58 00:02:13,103 --> 00:02:14,068 Who're we here for? 59 00:02:15,586 --> 00:02:16,482 What? 60 00:02:17,344 --> 00:02:18,275 What is that? 61 00:02:18,965 --> 00:02:20,655 A scooter? 62 00:02:20,689 --> 00:02:22,448 Okay, we got to look for presents. 63 00:02:22,482 --> 00:02:25,103 Zack and I are not doing anything for our birthday's this year. 64 00:02:25,137 --> 00:02:27,241 But, Josiah's turning one 65 00:02:27,275 --> 00:02:30,172 and we're having a birthday party for just... 66 00:02:30,206 --> 00:02:31,448 close friends and family. 67 00:02:34,551 --> 00:02:36,137 You wanna get all that stuff for Si-Si? 68 00:02:37,034 --> 00:02:39,067 I don't know if my pocket can afford that. 69 00:02:40,620 --> 00:02:43,827 And then two weeks after Josiah turns one, 70 00:02:43,862 --> 00:02:45,344 Jackson turns six 71 00:02:45,379 --> 00:02:48,620 and he's having his first drop-off party with a bunch of his friends. 72 00:02:48,655 --> 00:02:51,103 So it's definitely been pretty exhausting. 73 00:02:51,137 --> 00:02:53,310 Okay, wouldn't that be good for Jackson? 74 00:02:55,482 --> 00:02:56,586 No? 75 00:02:58,413 --> 00:02:59,620 No, thank you. 76 00:03:00,344 --> 00:03:01,206 Mom. 77 00:03:02,172 --> 00:03:03,137 Mom. 78 00:03:03,172 --> 00:03:05,000 Look at me. Hey, don't yell at me. 79 00:03:05,689 --> 00:03:06,551 What are you thinking? 80 00:03:07,827 --> 00:03:08,758 That puzzle? 81 00:03:09,931 --> 00:03:11,000 Okay, Lilah, look at all this. 82 00:03:13,620 --> 00:03:14,965 Whatever you wanna get Josiah, 83 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,724 you have to pick it out, okay. 84 00:03:17,448 --> 00:03:18,586 Remember, look at this. 85 00:03:20,517 --> 00:03:22,482 Remember, you put all the stuff in there? 86 00:03:24,068 --> 00:03:25,551 That could be, kind of, cool. 87 00:03:27,172 --> 00:03:28,137 You like that? 88 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:29,931 Are you sure? 89 00:03:33,689 --> 00:03:34,586 What's this? 90 00:03:36,172 --> 00:03:37,137 Bucket? 91 00:03:38,206 --> 00:03:39,379 Okay. 92 00:03:39,413 --> 00:03:40,655 Is that what you wanna get Si-Si? 93 00:03:41,344 --> 00:03:42,241 Okay. 94 00:03:42,275 --> 00:03:44,586 Lilah, did we go shopping? 95 00:03:44,620 --> 00:03:46,517 For what, what did we go shopping for? 96 00:03:48,655 --> 00:03:49,827 Did we get toys? 97 00:03:50,172 --> 00:03:51,000 For who? 98 00:03:51,862 --> 00:03:53,034 Did you like shopping? 99 00:03:55,827 --> 00:03:56,655 Tiny? 100 00:03:57,067 --> 00:03:58,517 Aw! 101 00:03:58,551 --> 00:03:59,724 I don't know what that means. 102 00:04:01,758 --> 00:04:02,931 [store attendant] All right, you guys ready? 103 00:04:02,965 --> 00:04:03,931 I think so. 104 00:04:03,965 --> 00:04:05,000 [store attendant] All right. 105 00:04:09,241 --> 00:04:10,068 So silly. 106 00:04:11,275 --> 00:04:12,413 [Tori] Okay. 107 00:04:13,413 --> 00:04:15,206 Awesome, thank you so much. 108 00:04:15,241 --> 00:04:16,481 Thank you guys for coming. 109 00:04:16,517 --> 00:04:18,447 -Have a great birthday. -You want me carry you? 110 00:04:18,481 --> 00:04:19,379 You wanna help me carry? 111 00:04:19,413 --> 00:04:20,447 Bye, Lilah. 112 00:04:20,481 --> 00:04:21,654 See you next time. 113 00:04:21,689 --> 00:04:22,896 -[Tori] All right. -[store attendant] Bye, guys. 114 00:04:23,793 --> 00:04:24,896 [Tori] Good job, sister. 115 00:04:37,034 --> 00:04:39,034 We're going to be on this rollercoaster ride again? 116 00:04:40,896 --> 00:04:42,379 Well, let's not get too excited. 117 00:04:42,413 --> 00:04:43,275 I mean, it's... 118 00:04:43,827 --> 00:04:45,241 Oh, I'm not excited. 119 00:04:45,275 --> 00:04:46,413 -I'm-- -You're not excited? 120 00:04:46,448 --> 00:04:48,758 Uh... I'm worried that this... 121 00:04:48,793 --> 00:04:51,206 house will roll out of our budget. 122 00:04:51,241 --> 00:04:53,551 But... it's good to look at it... 123 00:04:53,586 --> 00:04:54,793 -Yeah. -... to see. 124 00:04:54,827 --> 00:04:56,586 I think the first step is to... 125 00:04:56,620 --> 00:04:57,620 see if we like it. 126 00:04:57,655 --> 00:04:59,620 And then if we do, then... 127 00:04:59,655 --> 00:05:02,172 work out how we pay for it. 128 00:05:02,206 --> 00:05:05,689 Chris and I were, kind of, looking for another house. 129 00:05:05,724 --> 00:05:08,275 [Chris] Seeing Matt get so far along on his dream house, 130 00:05:08,965 --> 00:05:10,344 you know, reminds us that 131 00:05:10,379 --> 00:05:11,965 we're not in our dream house yet. 132 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,655 So we're actively watching. 133 00:05:13,689 --> 00:05:17,965 And, you know, it would be nice to find that home before we retire. 134 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,137 [Amy] The house we live in is a good house. 135 00:05:20,172 --> 00:05:21,517 It's a good neighborhood. 136 00:05:21,551 --> 00:05:23,931 But, you know, I'm used to having a little more space. 137 00:05:23,965 --> 00:05:25,517 An acre would be nice. 138 00:05:25,551 --> 00:05:28,482 I would eventually like, you know, a home that... 139 00:05:28,517 --> 00:05:30,482 you know, master on the main and everything 140 00:05:30,517 --> 00:05:32,379 and we'd love a three-car garage. 141 00:05:33,241 --> 00:05:35,275 So we're about to go see a... 142 00:05:35,310 --> 00:05:37,448 house that we thought may be interesting 143 00:05:37,482 --> 00:05:39,724 and... it's worth taking a look at. 144 00:05:39,758 --> 00:05:41,931 Well, so the thing that intrigues me about that 145 00:05:41,965 --> 00:05:43,931 is, uh, you know, the... 146 00:05:43,965 --> 00:05:45,482 the master bedroom on the main level. 147 00:05:45,517 --> 00:05:47,793 -Well, yeah, yeah, definitely. -Six-car garage 148 00:05:47,827 --> 00:05:48,793 and a shop. 149 00:05:48,827 --> 00:05:50,206 Ah! 150 00:05:50,241 --> 00:05:52,206 -[Amy] Well, does it-- -[Chris] Looks like it might have a view. 151 00:05:52,241 --> 00:05:53,310 We've got an acre. 152 00:05:53,344 --> 00:05:54,689 -[Amy] Yeah. -[Chris] So there's space around it. 153 00:05:54,724 --> 00:05:56,517 I didn't quite realize 154 00:05:56,551 --> 00:05:58,655 how big this house was. 155 00:05:58,689 --> 00:06:01,103 -It escaped you that it's 10,000 square feet? -Yeah. 156 00:06:01,137 --> 00:06:02,793 I'm not going to apolo-- 157 00:06:02,827 --> 00:06:04,862 I, kind of, missed that in the beginning. 158 00:06:04,896 --> 00:06:06,034 So it'll be interesting. 159 00:06:06,068 --> 00:06:07,931 That's one of the first things I look at. 160 00:06:07,965 --> 00:06:09,896 [Amy] 10,000 square foot home is big. 161 00:06:09,931 --> 00:06:11,862 I think the big house at the farm is 162 00:06:11,896 --> 00:06:14,896 about 5,000 or a little over 5,000 square feet. 163 00:06:14,931 --> 00:06:17,586 And I thought that farmhouse was, you know... 164 00:06:17,620 --> 00:06:19,793 plenty of space as well, so. 165 00:06:19,827 --> 00:06:22,344 I think if it registered with me from the very beginning, 166 00:06:22,379 --> 00:06:23,655 I probably would've said, 167 00:06:23,689 --> 00:06:25,517 "You know, we probably don't need a 10,000 square foot home." 168 00:06:25,551 --> 00:06:27,103 I mean, what are we gonna do? 169 00:06:27,137 --> 00:06:30,344 If it doesn't have any income possibilities, 170 00:06:30,379 --> 00:06:32,517 there's no way that we would 171 00:06:32,551 --> 00:06:36,241 need or even want a 10,000 square foot house. 172 00:06:36,275 --> 00:06:37,931 [Chris] The house is a little out of our price range. 173 00:06:37,965 --> 00:06:39,551 And it's bigger than we want. 174 00:06:39,586 --> 00:06:41,275 But the idea is 175 00:06:41,310 --> 00:06:45,172 that maybe we'd be able to do special events like weddings. 176 00:06:45,206 --> 00:06:47,655 -So... that's what we're looking at. -Yeah. 177 00:06:47,689 --> 00:06:48,862 I'm looking at. 178 00:06:48,896 --> 00:06:51,448 If we like it, if it's a maybe, 179 00:06:51,482 --> 00:06:54,034 I'm looking forward to talking to Matt tonight 180 00:06:54,068 --> 00:06:56,241 when we meet up to talk about fundraiser 181 00:06:56,275 --> 00:07:00,103 and see what they think the possibilities or income potential. 182 00:07:00,137 --> 00:07:01,793 Yeah, we'll see. [sighs] 183 00:07:01,827 --> 00:07:03,310 -You know. -Yeah, I mean, that's how I was looking at it. 184 00:07:03,344 --> 00:07:05,482 Do we wanna work until we're 85? 185 00:07:06,517 --> 00:07:08,758 I really don't think that would be much work. 186 00:07:08,793 --> 00:07:11,241 I am, kind of, a little hopeful than Amy is 187 00:07:11,275 --> 00:07:13,068 about the one that we're taking a look at. 188 00:07:13,103 --> 00:07:16,448 Living on the property for a lot of my adult life, 189 00:07:16,482 --> 00:07:19,620 you know, I've been through a lot of these different scenarios 190 00:07:19,655 --> 00:07:20,620 and stuff like that. 191 00:07:20,655 --> 00:07:22,241 So I don't mind doing something 192 00:07:22,275 --> 00:07:25,448 or having another business or... 193 00:07:25,482 --> 00:07:27,137 you know, generating some income. 194 00:07:27,172 --> 00:07:28,172 I... 195 00:07:28,206 --> 00:07:30,793 I guess I just don't wanna have to be dependent 196 00:07:30,827 --> 00:07:34,620 on it in order to live there in my later years. 197 00:07:36,172 --> 00:07:38,103 [Chris] So far, I like this area. 198 00:07:39,275 --> 00:07:41,310 -Long driveway, isn't it? -Yeah. 199 00:07:41,344 --> 00:07:44,793 It's pretty though. I mean, they put a lot of landscape in here. 200 00:07:44,827 --> 00:07:46,896 It has a lot of space around it, some acres. 201 00:07:46,931 --> 00:07:48,689 It's not too big, 6 and a half acres. 202 00:07:48,724 --> 00:07:50,586 It's about-- You know, that's a great size. 203 00:07:50,620 --> 00:07:53,379 Um... I knew it had a long driveway, 204 00:07:53,413 --> 00:07:54,655 but I had no idea 205 00:07:54,689 --> 00:07:57,586 that there was so much, um... 206 00:07:57,620 --> 00:08:01,103 you know, almost exotic landscaping involved. 207 00:08:01,137 --> 00:08:03,931 Just the maintenance, would require a lot of landscape maintenance. 208 00:08:05,413 --> 00:08:06,551 [Amy] Wow, this is a lot. 209 00:08:07,344 --> 00:08:08,517 We would need somebody. 210 00:08:08,551 --> 00:08:10,379 There's no way, I don't see 211 00:08:10,413 --> 00:08:12,448 just the two of us being able to 212 00:08:12,482 --> 00:08:14,344 ... the driveway. 213 00:08:14,379 --> 00:08:15,517 [Amy] Oh, there it is. 214 00:08:16,793 --> 00:08:18,034 -It's nice. -[Chris] That is nice. 215 00:08:18,482 --> 00:08:19,620 [Amy] Hmm. 216 00:08:19,655 --> 00:08:20,896 I like the entrance. 217 00:08:20,931 --> 00:08:22,517 Yeah. 218 00:08:22,551 --> 00:08:25,413 [Chris] So this is basically 13 minutes from our house. 219 00:08:26,103 --> 00:08:27,310 [Amy] That's not far. 220 00:08:34,724 --> 00:08:36,309 [Chris] Big entry. 221 00:08:36,344 --> 00:08:37,517 [Amy] Yeah, it's nice. 222 00:08:38,344 --> 00:08:39,827 [Chris] Oh, look at that view. 223 00:08:42,206 --> 00:08:44,551 On a clear day, we'd be looking at the coast range. 224 00:08:45,758 --> 00:08:46,931 Wow. 225 00:08:48,724 --> 00:08:50,068 [Chris] I think it looks better than the pictures. 226 00:08:50,724 --> 00:08:52,000 [Amy] Yeah. 227 00:08:52,034 --> 00:08:54,068 I mean, I'd probably change out the brass. 228 00:08:54,103 --> 00:08:55,551 -Yeah, I would too. -It would be something there. 229 00:08:55,586 --> 00:08:57,068 The brass is outdated. 230 00:08:57,758 --> 00:08:59,896 And I'm liking this space. 231 00:08:59,931 --> 00:09:01,586 [Chris] The house is built in the late 70s. 232 00:09:01,620 --> 00:09:03,310 So there's still some of that element there. 233 00:09:03,344 --> 00:09:05,137 But they've had some significant remodels 234 00:09:05,172 --> 00:09:07,103 over the years since then. 235 00:09:07,137 --> 00:09:08,448 -Yeah. -I, I... 236 00:09:08,482 --> 00:09:10,448 Theoretically, we could move right in. 237 00:09:10,482 --> 00:09:13,448 So it shows really well right from the get-go. 238 00:09:14,413 --> 00:09:15,655 Nice built-in 239 00:09:15,689 --> 00:09:18,206 and this is big enough for our table. 240 00:09:18,241 --> 00:09:20,413 Oh, yeah, yeah. No, definitely. 241 00:09:20,448 --> 00:09:24,206 [Amy] I think, Chris and I, we're still learning about each other. 242 00:09:24,241 --> 00:09:25,896 You know, this will be the first time 243 00:09:25,931 --> 00:09:29,310 that we're really making some really major decisions together. 244 00:09:29,344 --> 00:09:31,758 So I think this is, kind of, fun. 245 00:09:31,793 --> 00:09:33,758 It's, kind of, exciting to see, 246 00:09:33,793 --> 00:09:34,931 you know, how we work together. 247 00:09:34,965 --> 00:09:37,034 And hopefully, you know, I think we'll do well. 248 00:09:37,655 --> 00:09:39,379 But I also am a realist 249 00:09:39,413 --> 00:09:44,620 and I'm sure there will be a little "ew," "eh," "oh," "no." 250 00:09:44,655 --> 00:09:46,275 -[Chris] Oh, okay. -[Amy] Oh, yeah, this is the kitchen. 251 00:09:46,310 --> 00:09:47,448 [Chris] Now, the important room. 252 00:09:48,965 --> 00:09:49,896 Now, keep in mind, 253 00:09:49,931 --> 00:09:51,206 any kitchen that we look at 254 00:09:51,241 --> 00:09:53,448 we're gonna have to redo the island. 255 00:09:53,482 --> 00:09:55,413 I know, but look at how nice this island is. 256 00:09:55,448 --> 00:09:57,655 [Chris] Yeah, I like the cabinets too. 257 00:09:58,310 --> 00:09:59,586 [Amy] Okay. 258 00:09:59,620 --> 00:10:01,137 You know, my first impression was, 259 00:10:01,172 --> 00:10:04,068 wow, this is a pretty cool house. 260 00:10:04,103 --> 00:10:05,793 -Wow. -Oh, my Gosh. 261 00:10:06,137 --> 00:10:07,724 It's huge. 262 00:10:07,758 --> 00:10:09,068 [Amy laughs] We'll get lost. 263 00:10:09,103 --> 00:10:10,103 [Chris] Wow! 264 00:10:11,068 --> 00:10:12,103 [Amy] Woah! 265 00:10:12,137 --> 00:10:14,482 This massive bedroom was huge. 266 00:10:14,517 --> 00:10:16,965 This is like a small apartment. 267 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,965 I think I'm a little overwhelmed. 268 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,103 I'm thinking, "This is great, how can I capitalize on this space." 269 00:10:22,137 --> 00:10:23,586 "What can I do with it." 270 00:10:23,620 --> 00:10:26,137 Oh, yeah, they had this whole movie thing, right Chris? 271 00:10:26,724 --> 00:10:28,517 Oh, my Gosh. 272 00:10:28,551 --> 00:10:30,275 It's kind of insane. 273 00:10:30,310 --> 00:10:31,310 I don't think it's insane. 274 00:10:31,344 --> 00:10:33,206 I think it's a dream house. 275 00:10:33,241 --> 00:10:36,689 It seems like this would be a good venue for weddings. 276 00:10:36,724 --> 00:10:38,137 Not a lot of people around. 277 00:10:38,172 --> 00:10:40,620 You know, it's a beautiful farmland. 278 00:10:40,655 --> 00:10:45,103 And if we're able to do enough events there 279 00:10:45,137 --> 00:10:48,413 that we could pay someone else to maintain the property for us, 280 00:10:48,448 --> 00:10:50,758 then I see there's a real possibility. 281 00:10:51,482 --> 00:10:53,034 All right. 282 00:10:53,068 --> 00:10:55,965 Let's go take a look. I wanna look out back there. 283 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,931 -See if I can envision... -I don't know what to think of this. 284 00:10:57,965 --> 00:10:59,241 ... doing something out there. 285 00:10:59,275 --> 00:11:01,724 I think we need to look at more homes. 286 00:11:01,758 --> 00:11:04,137 I think Chris is getting excited over this. 287 00:11:04,172 --> 00:11:08,172 'Cause, you know, he's had several of his own businesses. 288 00:11:08,206 --> 00:11:11,551 And even though he's working for a real estate company or whatever, 289 00:11:11,586 --> 00:11:13,689 you're kind of self-employed in a lot of ways. 290 00:11:13,724 --> 00:11:17,068 So this is just an extension of what he's done in the past 291 00:11:17,103 --> 00:11:21,517 trying to, you know, come up and see what another business he can do. 292 00:11:21,551 --> 00:11:24,793 The potential to host weddings on this property is there. 293 00:11:24,827 --> 00:11:27,965 But if we have to host them 294 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,724 and we need to host so many of them 295 00:11:30,758 --> 00:11:35,172 in order to cover a lot more expenses that I would've anticipated in my later years, 296 00:11:35,206 --> 00:11:37,241 then that's where I hesitate. 297 00:11:37,275 --> 00:11:40,206 'Cause I don't know if I have that kind of fight at this age. 298 00:11:41,379 --> 00:11:42,689 [Amy] What is this? 299 00:11:42,724 --> 00:11:44,586 [Chris] Oh, I bet it was a nursery. 300 00:11:44,620 --> 00:11:45,551 [Amy] Greenhouse. 301 00:11:45,586 --> 00:11:46,620 [Chris] A greenhouse, yeah. 302 00:11:46,655 --> 00:11:48,344 We could build a pickleball court. 303 00:11:48,379 --> 00:11:49,689 This would be perfect. 304 00:11:49,724 --> 00:11:51,620 We're looking at a 10,000 square feet home. 305 00:11:51,655 --> 00:11:54,275 People retiring are looking, like, to downsize. 306 00:11:54,310 --> 00:11:55,965 Downsizing, I know. [laughs] 307 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,344 [Chris] This would be upsizing like no one's business. 308 00:11:59,379 --> 00:12:02,068 I've, kind of, had an entrepreneurial spirit forever. 309 00:12:02,103 --> 00:12:03,517 And... 310 00:12:03,551 --> 00:12:05,655 even though, you know, we're getting closer to retirement, 311 00:12:05,689 --> 00:12:06,827 I wanna travel, 312 00:12:06,862 --> 00:12:08,206 you know, you get these ideas 313 00:12:08,241 --> 00:12:09,896 and, you know, you want to put into work 314 00:12:09,931 --> 00:12:12,965 or at least see if it's feasible. 315 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,379 Uh, it's one of the reasons that Matt and I click, 316 00:12:15,413 --> 00:12:17,724 you know, we're both idea people, I think. 317 00:12:17,758 --> 00:12:20,241 But Amy picked up right away 318 00:12:20,275 --> 00:12:21,931 that the property's too much work 319 00:12:21,965 --> 00:12:23,931 for a couple that's trying to retire 320 00:12:23,965 --> 00:12:26,551 and live off of retirement funds. 321 00:12:26,586 --> 00:12:29,689 But, so far, she's not telling me, "No, you can't do it." 322 00:12:29,724 --> 00:12:32,896 So Amy will let me make my case. 323 00:12:32,931 --> 00:12:34,551 You wanna walk around and take a look at the grounds? 324 00:12:35,517 --> 00:12:36,862 This way, hon. 325 00:12:36,896 --> 00:12:39,689 Yeah, this is high maintenance, man. 326 00:12:40,379 --> 00:12:41,379 [Amy] I will admit, 327 00:12:41,413 --> 00:12:43,862 sometimes I'm not as visionary. 328 00:12:43,896 --> 00:12:46,517 You know, Matt always had grandiose ideas. 329 00:12:46,551 --> 00:12:49,379 And my opinion really didn't matter a whole lot. 330 00:12:49,413 --> 00:12:53,275 Because Matt had already decided what he was doing. 331 00:12:53,310 --> 00:12:55,758 And so a lot of times I would just say no. 332 00:12:55,793 --> 00:12:58,241 Because it's going way too fast. 333 00:12:58,275 --> 00:12:59,827 You've already made your decision. 334 00:12:59,862 --> 00:13:01,172 What is happening? 335 00:13:01,206 --> 00:13:03,310 But seeing this house, 336 00:13:03,344 --> 00:13:05,586 I didn't wanna be so quick to say no. 337 00:13:05,620 --> 00:13:07,241 Because I've already been here, 338 00:13:07,275 --> 00:13:09,413 I've already done this with Matt, 339 00:13:09,448 --> 00:13:11,241 you know, Roloff farms and everything. 340 00:13:12,862 --> 00:13:15,655 Oh, can you see somebody doing a wedding there? 341 00:13:15,689 --> 00:13:17,448 [Amy] Could be, yeah. 342 00:13:17,482 --> 00:13:20,862 Chris really hasn't had, kind of, that opportunity. 343 00:13:20,896 --> 00:13:25,310 And so I just felt like I wanted to give him that space 344 00:13:25,344 --> 00:13:28,000 and that time to dream a little bit, 345 00:13:28,034 --> 00:13:30,931 knowing, "Oh, he's gonna go and investigate." 346 00:13:30,965 --> 00:13:33,655 "He's gonna research this, he's gonna find out." 347 00:13:33,689 --> 00:13:34,793 "And I'm gonna be right." 348 00:13:36,034 --> 00:13:37,448 Well, very interesting. 349 00:13:37,482 --> 00:13:38,793 [Chris] Mm-hmm. 350 00:13:38,827 --> 00:13:40,413 Then we got a lot to ponder here. 351 00:13:40,448 --> 00:13:42,482 [Amy scoffs] It's overwhelming. 352 00:13:45,758 --> 00:13:47,586 [Amy] Coming up... 353 00:13:47,620 --> 00:13:50,344 We don't go to the farm at all as a family anymore. 354 00:13:50,379 --> 00:13:52,482 And Jackson loves our backyard, 355 00:13:52,517 --> 00:13:53,793 so I don't think he misses it. 356 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,793 I didn't reply, I don't wanna talk about it. 357 00:14:02,758 --> 00:14:03,931 Oh, let's see the ring. 358 00:14:05,517 --> 00:14:06,379 Uh-oh. 359 00:14:08,206 --> 00:14:09,068 Oh, boy. 360 00:14:28,068 --> 00:14:29,655 [Matt] Pulling in my garage for the first time. 361 00:14:29,689 --> 00:14:30,862 [Caryn] Yeah. 362 00:14:30,896 --> 00:14:32,517 [Matt] This will be my garage, you get the big one. 363 00:14:34,275 --> 00:14:35,517 We're getting there, Caryn. 364 00:14:35,551 --> 00:14:36,724 [Caryn] I know... 365 00:14:36,758 --> 00:14:38,000 [Matt] Things with the house build, 366 00:14:38,034 --> 00:14:40,137 the progress of the house build is moving very quickly now. 367 00:14:40,862 --> 00:14:41,689 [Matt grunts] 368 00:14:42,172 --> 00:14:43,068 So this is a... 369 00:14:43,103 --> 00:14:44,482 [Caryn] This will be no step. 370 00:14:44,517 --> 00:14:46,689 We had a big, major fu pa... 371 00:14:47,103 --> 00:14:48,034 Fu pa? 372 00:14:48,068 --> 00:14:49,655 -Faux pas. -Faux pas. 373 00:14:49,689 --> 00:14:51,000 The trucks were running late. 374 00:14:51,862 --> 00:14:53,482 A truck holds up the roof. 375 00:14:53,517 --> 00:14:56,310 It delayed the roof build about a week. 376 00:15:01,827 --> 00:15:03,206 Now that we're beyond that, 377 00:15:03,241 --> 00:15:04,862 we were able to frame the roof on. 378 00:15:04,896 --> 00:15:06,689 Rough plumbing all is in. 379 00:15:06,724 --> 00:15:09,000 So it is going pretty quick. 380 00:15:09,034 --> 00:15:12,034 It's going quicker than Caryn and I make decisions, 381 00:15:12,068 --> 00:15:13,517 I'll tell you that. 382 00:15:13,551 --> 00:15:14,586 Look at that view. 383 00:15:14,620 --> 00:15:18,241 That is just the gem of this whole operation. 384 00:15:18,275 --> 00:15:22,068 I think being engaged to Matt has brought... 385 00:15:22,103 --> 00:15:25,310 some new excitement and clarity to the house project. 386 00:15:25,344 --> 00:15:29,758 I was already really committed and envisioning us together. 387 00:15:29,793 --> 00:15:32,034 But now we'll get to maybe... 388 00:15:32,068 --> 00:15:34,275 You know, he'll carry me over the threshold... 389 00:15:34,310 --> 00:15:35,310 [whispering] No, maybe not. 390 00:15:35,344 --> 00:15:37,241 But maybe he could scooter over the threshold. 391 00:15:37,275 --> 00:15:38,206 I don't know. 392 00:15:38,241 --> 00:15:39,448 But, uh... 393 00:15:39,482 --> 00:15:41,482 Yeah, it just adds more excitement to it. 394 00:15:41,517 --> 00:15:42,758 And the truth is... 395 00:15:42,793 --> 00:15:44,965 something that I really thought I didn't need or want 396 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,068 was that ring. 397 00:15:47,103 --> 00:15:49,655 When he presented to me so unexpectedly, 398 00:15:50,586 --> 00:15:52,034 a puzzle piece fell into place 399 00:15:52,068 --> 00:15:54,758 that I didn't know I was wanting. 400 00:15:54,793 --> 00:15:57,137 [Caryn] So I felt really good about that. 401 00:15:58,068 --> 00:16:00,137 So the big house is rented almost 402 00:16:00,172 --> 00:16:02,172 all the way through now until pumpkin season. 403 00:16:02,206 --> 00:16:03,689 [Matt] New people come in today. 404 00:16:03,724 --> 00:16:04,620 Yeah. 405 00:16:04,655 --> 00:16:06,103 Has everybody been behaving? 406 00:16:06,620 --> 00:16:07,793 Yeah, so far... 407 00:16:07,827 --> 00:16:10,068 I mean, the last group was a bachelor party, 408 00:16:10,103 --> 00:16:12,310 and it was about... I don't know, six or eight guys, 409 00:16:12,344 --> 00:16:13,655 and never saw them. 410 00:16:14,586 --> 00:16:16,310 They went to the naked girls, 411 00:16:16,344 --> 00:16:17,931 the naked girls didn't come to the farm? 412 00:16:17,965 --> 00:16:18,827 Oh, the strip-- 413 00:16:18,862 --> 00:16:20,206 Strippers? Yeah, yeah. 414 00:16:20,241 --> 00:16:21,137 -No, we didn't get-- -Could you imagine 415 00:16:21,172 --> 00:16:22,827 us looking out and there's like... 416 00:16:22,862 --> 00:16:24,689 -No request of-- -...a van of strippers pulls up. 417 00:16:24,724 --> 00:16:27,034 No, guys rummaging around in my pipe 418 00:16:27,068 --> 00:16:28,689 for a pole, my pole pile. 419 00:16:30,068 --> 00:16:33,827 This was the best idea instead of a courtyard. 420 00:16:33,862 --> 00:16:35,517 And let's so much light in the house, 421 00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:38,000 bet you, this time of the day. 422 00:16:38,034 --> 00:16:39,689 [Caryn] Perfect place for a little wedding. 423 00:16:41,758 --> 00:16:43,344 -All right, I mean-- -Everybody, I mean, the word is out. 424 00:16:43,379 --> 00:16:44,655 Now it's not our little... 425 00:16:44,689 --> 00:16:46,344 our little secret anymore. 426 00:16:46,379 --> 00:16:47,862 Not our little secret anymore. 427 00:16:47,896 --> 00:16:50,310 We kept it quiet for a couple of hours. 428 00:16:50,344 --> 00:16:51,448 Yes, it's kind of nice. 429 00:16:52,517 --> 00:16:53,827 Some people are surprised. 430 00:16:53,862 --> 00:16:57,103 Some people are, "Not always waiting for that forever." 431 00:16:57,137 --> 00:16:59,551 But, of course, now we're getting the questions like, 432 00:16:59,586 --> 00:17:01,448 "When's the wedding?" and... 433 00:17:01,482 --> 00:17:03,758 -kind of, just not sure. -Yeah. 434 00:17:03,793 --> 00:17:06,241 Yeah, I haven't heard from all my kids yet, but... 435 00:17:06,275 --> 00:17:07,378 you know, that's okay. 436 00:17:07,413 --> 00:17:09,413 I don't have any expectation around that. 437 00:17:09,448 --> 00:17:11,448 I mean, even though my kids are all adults, 438 00:17:11,482 --> 00:17:15,034 it doesn't mean that they're not gonna have feelings about this. 439 00:17:15,068 --> 00:17:17,655 But I haven't got any negativity 440 00:17:17,689 --> 00:17:18,619 directly, no. 441 00:17:18,655 --> 00:17:21,344 And, you know, if any of my kids, 442 00:17:21,378 --> 00:17:24,448 you know, wanted to discuss our engagement, 443 00:17:24,482 --> 00:17:26,344 you know, I'd be way open to that. 444 00:17:28,034 --> 00:17:30,103 People seem to be more curious about 445 00:17:30,137 --> 00:17:31,551 where than when. 446 00:17:31,586 --> 00:17:32,551 Yeah. 447 00:17:32,586 --> 00:17:34,344 -I would agree. -Right, is it at the farm? 448 00:17:34,379 --> 00:17:35,586 Is it in Arizona? 449 00:17:35,620 --> 00:17:36,965 -Is it somewhere else? -Yeah. 450 00:17:37,241 --> 00:17:38,068 Vegas. 451 00:17:38,413 --> 00:17:39,724 No... 452 00:17:39,758 --> 00:17:41,206 Not Vegas. 453 00:17:41,241 --> 00:17:43,931 -So, I think, we've kind of ruled out the farm? -Yeah. 454 00:17:43,965 --> 00:17:46,586 -We'll decide that one when we need to decide it. -Yeah. 455 00:17:46,620 --> 00:17:48,034 -We don't need to decide that now. -Exactly. 456 00:17:48,068 --> 00:17:51,172 We need to get this monster moved along. 457 00:17:51,965 --> 00:17:53,551 [Matt] Anyway, um... 458 00:17:53,586 --> 00:17:56,206 -So we have that dinner coming up at Amy's -Oh, right. 459 00:17:56,241 --> 00:17:57,206 I'm okay. 460 00:17:57,241 --> 00:18:00,206 Have you given any thought to the fundraiser? 461 00:18:00,241 --> 00:18:02,000 [laughs] Not particularly. 462 00:18:02,034 --> 00:18:03,275 -I didn't think so. -I only have 463 00:18:03,310 --> 00:18:04,793 one thought on the whole fundraiser. 464 00:18:04,827 --> 00:18:06,655 I just wanna make sure that 465 00:18:06,689 --> 00:18:08,655 all the proceeds go 466 00:18:08,689 --> 00:18:09,793 to the charity. 467 00:18:09,827 --> 00:18:12,482 I mean, I don't-- Amy has run charity, she knows. 468 00:18:12,517 --> 00:18:15,620 [Matt] You know, I was glad when Amy approached us 469 00:18:15,655 --> 00:18:18,275 about the possibility of doing a fundraiser. 470 00:18:18,310 --> 00:18:20,931 DAAA, the Dwarf Athletic Association 471 00:18:20,965 --> 00:18:22,724 played a big role, you know... 472 00:18:22,758 --> 00:18:24,103 Amy and my life. 473 00:18:24,137 --> 00:18:27,896 And I met Amy... because of it. 474 00:18:27,931 --> 00:18:30,310 I was at one event when I met Amy. 475 00:18:30,344 --> 00:18:32,931 So I think that this little fundraiser 476 00:18:32,965 --> 00:18:34,551 that Amy is planning 477 00:18:34,586 --> 00:18:36,241 is super important. 478 00:18:36,275 --> 00:18:37,931 [Caryn] Working on this with them, 479 00:18:37,965 --> 00:18:40,000 you know, it'll be a little challenging, but I think it'll be fun. 480 00:18:40,034 --> 00:18:41,793 She's done a lot of fundraisers, so... 481 00:18:41,827 --> 00:18:43,068 Yeah. 482 00:18:43,103 --> 00:18:44,758 There's a lot of complexities in different relationships. 483 00:18:44,793 --> 00:18:46,000 I mean, here we are, 484 00:18:46,034 --> 00:18:48,827 sitting down with my ex-wife 485 00:18:49,448 --> 00:18:51,448 and my fiance 486 00:18:51,482 --> 00:18:53,655 and my ex-wife's new husband, 487 00:18:53,689 --> 00:18:55,655 planning an event together. 488 00:18:55,689 --> 00:18:57,413 I mean, it's a little bit like 489 00:18:57,448 --> 00:18:59,000 a setup for a sitcom. 490 00:18:59,034 --> 00:19:01,896 I don't think they would've approached it a few years ago with us. 491 00:19:01,931 --> 00:19:03,413 But, over time, 492 00:19:03,448 --> 00:19:04,724 it's gotten so much better 493 00:19:04,758 --> 00:19:06,551 and it's easy and... 494 00:19:06,586 --> 00:19:07,896 I don't know it just kind of made sense 495 00:19:07,931 --> 00:19:09,827 when they brought to our attention. 496 00:19:09,862 --> 00:19:13,172 We haven't really seen Amy since the engagement. 497 00:19:13,206 --> 00:19:14,896 -So... -Yeah, it will be good to see her. 498 00:19:14,931 --> 00:19:16,379 You know, I don't... 499 00:19:16,413 --> 00:19:18,034 I don't know what her feelings are, but... 500 00:19:18,068 --> 00:19:19,206 I spoke with her on the phone 501 00:19:19,241 --> 00:19:22,551 and she seemed genuinely... happy, you know. 502 00:19:22,586 --> 00:19:24,896 I don't think... is any ill will. 503 00:19:24,931 --> 00:19:27,068 And feels like it's all good. 504 00:19:27,344 --> 00:19:28,310 So... 505 00:19:28,344 --> 00:19:29,689 Good. 506 00:19:29,724 --> 00:19:30,655 [Caryn] We'll see how it goes. 507 00:19:45,551 --> 00:19:47,068 [Zack] Tori, Tori... 508 00:19:47,103 --> 00:19:48,000 Oh. [Tori laughs] 509 00:19:50,275 --> 00:19:51,551 [Zack] As the kids are getting older, 510 00:19:51,586 --> 00:19:53,586 our backyard is seeing a lot more action. 511 00:19:53,620 --> 00:19:55,965 From, like, playing, you know, with the water table 512 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,689 to, like, scooters, 513 00:19:57,724 --> 00:20:00,758 to now we're on battery-powered jeeps. 514 00:20:00,793 --> 00:20:03,517 And so I feel like the next thing is probably gonna be 515 00:20:03,551 --> 00:20:04,827 some sort of quad or... 516 00:20:05,655 --> 00:20:07,137 gas-powered go-cart. 517 00:20:14,793 --> 00:20:16,310 -[Tori] Jackson. -[Zack] Jackson is so bright. 518 00:20:16,344 --> 00:20:18,517 He's the polar opposite of what I was. 519 00:20:18,551 --> 00:20:20,827 [Tori] He's so reckless though. 520 00:20:22,379 --> 00:20:23,413 Jackson Kyle, 521 00:20:23,448 --> 00:20:25,172 Jackson freaking Kyle. 522 00:20:25,206 --> 00:20:27,000 Jackson freaking Kyle. [laughs nervously] 523 00:20:31,206 --> 00:20:33,000 I'm so stressed out right now. 524 00:20:34,379 --> 00:20:36,827 [Zack] This is how the farm was with quads though. 525 00:20:36,862 --> 00:20:38,931 We would all be whipping around. 526 00:20:38,965 --> 00:20:41,551 We don't go to the farm as a family anymore. 527 00:20:41,586 --> 00:20:42,862 And, um... 528 00:20:42,896 --> 00:20:44,206 Jackson loves our backyard. 529 00:20:44,241 --> 00:20:46,344 So I don't think he misses it, you know. 530 00:20:46,379 --> 00:20:48,758 We obviously want grandpa to be in our kids' lives. 531 00:20:50,034 --> 00:20:52,344 Yeah, all the grandparents are always invited up here. 532 00:20:57,517 --> 00:20:59,310 I didn't reply, I don't wanna talk about it. 533 00:21:10,103 --> 00:21:11,931 I just don't wanna talk about my Dad's engagement. 534 00:21:16,586 --> 00:21:18,448 Tori, do you think Josiah's gonna be walking soon? 535 00:21:19,413 --> 00:21:20,586 [Tori] I think so. 536 00:21:20,620 --> 00:21:22,724 I don't know, I don't know. 537 00:21:22,758 --> 00:21:23,862 The other day, if you would've asked, 538 00:21:23,896 --> 00:21:25,034 two days ago, I would've said no. 539 00:21:26,172 --> 00:21:27,655 But I don't know, I feel like all of the sudden 540 00:21:27,689 --> 00:21:29,896 he'll just wake up and, like, know how to do stuff. 541 00:21:29,931 --> 00:21:32,000 So I feel like maybe he will. 542 00:21:32,034 --> 00:21:33,620 [Zack] Josiah's hitting all of his milestones. 543 00:21:33,655 --> 00:21:34,689 He's growing. 544 00:21:34,724 --> 00:21:35,827 -[Tori] He's gonna walk any day now. -Yeah, 545 00:21:35,862 --> 00:21:37,862 Teeth are walking in, physically he's great. 546 00:21:37,896 --> 00:21:38,965 "Teeth are walking in?" 547 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:40,103 Oh, teeth are coming in. 548 00:21:40,137 --> 00:21:41,931 [Zack] He wants-- Like, he want's to walk. 549 00:21:41,965 --> 00:21:44,310 -[Tori] He can hear just fine. -[Zack] Yeah. 550 00:21:44,344 --> 00:21:45,793 -He's just-- -Our baby's growing up. 551 00:21:45,827 --> 00:21:47,413 Yeah, he's hitting all his milestones. 552 00:21:51,862 --> 00:21:54,413 Did we have, like, Si-Si's "First word moment?" 553 00:21:54,448 --> 00:21:56,689 Third kid, you don't even know what they said first. 554 00:21:56,724 --> 00:21:58,103 [Zack] I don't know. 555 00:21:58,137 --> 00:21:59,241 -I don't think his first-- -You don't know what they said first. 556 00:21:59,275 --> 00:22:01,551 You don't know when, to who, about what. 557 00:22:03,310 --> 00:22:04,931 I feel bad for number three. 558 00:22:04,965 --> 00:22:07,206 Like, I could tell you the hour 559 00:22:07,241 --> 00:22:09,827 that Jackson said something, 560 00:22:09,862 --> 00:22:11,275 the day he walked. 561 00:22:11,310 --> 00:22:13,275 Jackson's stuff happened six years ago. 562 00:22:13,310 --> 00:22:14,655 -Josiah's stuff's just happening... -Oh, yeah. 563 00:22:14,689 --> 00:22:16,206 -...we can't remember it. -We can't remember it... 564 00:22:17,896 --> 00:22:19,620 Si-Si, where are you going? 565 00:22:19,655 --> 00:22:22,000 [Zack] Ah, the kids are growing up fast, Tori. 566 00:22:22,689 --> 00:22:23,827 They are. 567 00:22:28,344 --> 00:22:31,862 Every weekend somebody points out that you and him are short. 568 00:22:31,896 --> 00:22:34,103 Yeah, it's so normal to me. That's the thing. 569 00:22:34,137 --> 00:22:36,344 Jackson's going through that time where... 570 00:22:36,379 --> 00:22:38,034 kids are starting to pointing out that he's different. 571 00:22:38,068 --> 00:22:39,827 He's gonna have to handle that. 572 00:22:39,862 --> 00:22:41,862 He came up to Tori in the last game. 573 00:22:41,896 --> 00:22:44,034 He was like, "They keep pointing it out." 574 00:22:44,068 --> 00:22:46,689 It's tough because at this age, kids are curious. 575 00:22:46,724 --> 00:22:47,827 No one's being mean. 576 00:22:47,862 --> 00:22:49,241 It's a curiosity. 577 00:22:49,275 --> 00:22:50,172 It's a... 578 00:22:50,206 --> 00:22:51,172 "You're, like, different." 579 00:22:51,206 --> 00:22:53,551 "I've never seen anyone like you," you know. 580 00:22:53,586 --> 00:22:55,206 I feel like we're just trying to teach Jackson 581 00:22:55,241 --> 00:22:56,517 it's just a fact. 582 00:22:56,551 --> 00:22:57,758 -We're like, "We're not gonna lie to you." -But we can't-- 583 00:22:57,793 --> 00:22:58,965 -We won't say, "No, you're not." -But we can't make it-- 584 00:22:59,000 --> 00:22:59,931 We can't make a big deal. 585 00:22:59,965 --> 00:23:01,068 Because then he'd-- 586 00:23:01,103 --> 00:23:02,724 If we give him a reaction, 587 00:23:02,758 --> 00:23:03,689 he's like "Oh," 588 00:23:03,724 --> 00:23:05,206 and then tell us all the time. 589 00:23:05,241 --> 00:23:07,137 -That's like we got to now-- -I think he's already 590 00:23:07,172 --> 00:23:09,172 -kind of what he's doing. -We got to now transition into life, 591 00:23:09,206 --> 00:23:11,241 "Okay, yeah, whatever, it is what it is." 592 00:23:12,827 --> 00:23:14,379 [Zack] I think sometimes too many parents, 593 00:23:14,413 --> 00:23:15,827 specifically with dwarf kids, 594 00:23:15,862 --> 00:23:18,517 uh, they'll search for something. 595 00:23:18,551 --> 00:23:20,620 You know, something that's not there yet, you know. 596 00:23:20,655 --> 00:23:23,000 Because that makes them feel better, 597 00:23:23,034 --> 00:23:26,379 that... justifies their thoughts, concerns. 598 00:23:26,413 --> 00:23:29,586 So I'm not apprehensive to having those conversions. 599 00:23:29,620 --> 00:23:31,172 But I'm not gonna invite them 600 00:23:31,206 --> 00:23:33,000 without him inviting it first. 601 00:23:33,034 --> 00:23:34,551 Once it does come to him, 602 00:23:34,586 --> 00:23:36,344 I'll help guide him through that, 603 00:23:36,379 --> 00:23:38,517 but I don't wanna emphasize anything 604 00:23:38,551 --> 00:23:41,068 that's not naturally emphasized. 605 00:23:41,103 --> 00:23:42,241 -Mom, mom. -Lilah, 606 00:23:42,275 --> 00:23:44,241 what did I say if you were gonna do that again? 607 00:23:45,482 --> 00:23:47,379 -No more chalk. -I said, I would take it away. 608 00:23:47,413 --> 00:23:49,344 Do I need to take all of that chalk away? 609 00:23:49,965 --> 00:23:51,241 We don't break the chalk. 610 00:23:53,896 --> 00:23:54,827 [Zack] Um... 611 00:23:54,862 --> 00:23:55,827 She's me though. 612 00:23:55,862 --> 00:23:57,517 -She is me. -I know. 613 00:23:57,551 --> 00:23:59,517 Lilah's identical to you. 614 00:23:59,551 --> 00:24:02,620 Sassy and emotional in personality. 615 00:24:02,655 --> 00:24:04,448 -[Tori] I'm not emotional. -Stubborn. 616 00:24:04,482 --> 00:24:05,344 [Tori] I'm stubborn. 617 00:24:06,758 --> 00:24:07,862 [Tori] You can stand up. 618 00:24:10,620 --> 00:24:11,655 [Tori giggles] Hi! 619 00:24:12,620 --> 00:24:13,620 [Amy] Coming up... 620 00:24:13,655 --> 00:24:16,482 So when you take a look at Caryn's ring, 621 00:24:16,517 --> 00:24:18,862 please don't put yours up next to her. 622 00:24:18,896 --> 00:24:20,620 I'm not sure why Chris really wanted to... 623 00:24:20,655 --> 00:24:21,758 prepare me 624 00:24:21,793 --> 00:24:24,000 that the ring that I will see on 625 00:24:24,034 --> 00:24:25,517 Caryn's finger, 626 00:24:25,551 --> 00:24:27,137 you know, the diamonds gonna be bigger. 627 00:24:27,620 --> 00:24:28,965 How much bigger? 628 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,793 I don't get into all that stuff. 629 00:24:42,172 --> 00:24:43,000 Okay. 630 00:24:48,103 --> 00:24:48,931 You hold this. 631 00:24:49,586 --> 00:24:50,620 [Zack] Si-Si is one. 632 00:24:50,655 --> 00:24:52,551 It's crazy that Josiah's already one. 633 00:24:52,586 --> 00:24:54,620 [Zack] Josiah's birthday went great. 634 00:24:54,655 --> 00:24:56,965 We had a lot of people couple of days ago. 635 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,862 My Mom and my Dad, other family, Chris. 636 00:24:59,896 --> 00:25:01,862 A lot of friends from up here. 637 00:25:01,896 --> 00:25:04,206 But it was good. It was a good one-year-old party. 638 00:25:04,241 --> 00:25:06,827 There's moments you wish it would slow down. 639 00:25:06,862 --> 00:25:08,827 And there's moments you wish it would speed up. 640 00:25:08,862 --> 00:25:11,000 But I think overall it's just, you know. 641 00:25:11,724 --> 00:25:13,724 It's fun watching them grow. 642 00:25:13,758 --> 00:25:15,448 [Zack] Jackson, get behind Mumma and 643 00:25:15,482 --> 00:25:16,758 get Si-Si to look at you. 644 00:25:16,793 --> 00:25:18,275 [Tori] Fix his hat, it got turned. 645 00:25:19,517 --> 00:25:21,724 There you go, keep going, keep going. Oh, Gosh. 646 00:25:29,724 --> 00:25:30,724 One. 647 00:25:31,413 --> 00:25:32,448 [Tori] Si-Si, 648 00:25:33,137 --> 00:25:34,379 Josiah, how old are you? 649 00:25:35,379 --> 00:25:36,448 Can you say one? 650 00:25:36,482 --> 00:25:37,793 [cooing] 651 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,275 [Zack] Jackson, get that white stool over here. 652 00:25:45,379 --> 00:25:48,551 You know, I think that first birthday is gonna be a lot of pressure. 653 00:25:48,586 --> 00:25:50,310 Giving them cake for the first time 654 00:25:50,344 --> 00:25:53,310 in front of a bunch of people doesn't always go well. 655 00:25:53,344 --> 00:25:55,275 So yeah, we're doing a cake smash today. 656 00:25:55,310 --> 00:25:58,344 'Cause I had a cute idea of me wanted to photograph him 657 00:25:58,379 --> 00:26:00,172 eating cake and having fun with it. 658 00:26:01,206 --> 00:26:02,965 Okay. 659 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,413 -[Tori] Okay, J, come stand behind me. -Jackson, go stand by Mumma. 660 00:26:06,517 --> 00:26:07,413 Ready? 661 00:26:07,448 --> 00:26:08,896 [Jackson] Si-Si. 662 00:26:08,931 --> 00:26:10,241 [Tori laughs] Oh, yes. 663 00:26:10,275 --> 00:26:12,068 Yes, he's going for it. 664 00:26:12,103 --> 00:26:13,862 He's like, "See you later, guys." 665 00:26:14,862 --> 00:26:16,241 [Zack and Tori laughing] 666 00:26:17,862 --> 00:26:19,586 I put the cake in front of Josiah 667 00:26:19,620 --> 00:26:22,000 and he just... he went for it. 668 00:26:22,034 --> 00:26:23,724 [Tori] Oh, yeah, get in there. 669 00:26:23,758 --> 00:26:25,689 Oh, he got to the berries. 670 00:26:30,241 --> 00:26:32,172 [camera shutter clicking] 671 00:26:34,206 --> 00:26:36,517 Dude, there's so much... 672 00:26:36,551 --> 00:26:39,482 [Tori] This party that we had for Josiah for his first birthday, 673 00:26:39,517 --> 00:26:41,931 -is the last party we're throwing. We're done. -This is the last party. 674 00:26:41,965 --> 00:26:43,413 [Tori] From here on out, 675 00:26:43,448 --> 00:26:44,758 it's friends only. 676 00:26:44,793 --> 00:26:47,068 And then like a family dinner or something like that. 677 00:26:47,103 --> 00:26:49,655 Jackson's party's gonna have, um... 678 00:26:49,689 --> 00:26:51,379 -we're gonna do-- -No, no... 679 00:26:51,413 --> 00:26:52,724 adults allowed. 680 00:26:52,758 --> 00:26:54,896 -[Zack] Yeah, we're gonna do-- -[Tori] Only his little friends. 681 00:26:54,931 --> 00:26:56,448 He's gonna run around in the property, 682 00:26:56,482 --> 00:26:57,931 and catch frogs and... 683 00:26:57,965 --> 00:26:59,551 go down the slip and slide. 684 00:26:59,586 --> 00:27:01,275 [Tori] Everyone loves kids. 685 00:27:01,310 --> 00:27:02,620 We love our friends' kids, 686 00:27:02,655 --> 00:27:04,172 they love our kids. 687 00:27:04,206 --> 00:27:06,517 No one likes going to a kid's birthday party. 688 00:27:12,827 --> 00:27:15,103 [singing "Lion King Song"] 689 00:27:15,448 --> 00:27:16,758 Bath time? 690 00:27:16,793 --> 00:27:18,137 I don't even know what to do with this? 691 00:27:18,758 --> 00:27:21,000 -[Lilah] Mom! -Come on. 692 00:27:21,034 --> 00:27:22,586 I'll leave the door open, okay? 693 00:27:35,241 --> 00:27:37,172 [Amy] Hey, let me dress up this desert a little bit. 694 00:27:37,758 --> 00:27:39,655 Oh, yeah. Look at this. 695 00:27:39,689 --> 00:27:41,655 Look at this. These are my tools. 696 00:27:42,827 --> 00:27:45,000 -Isn't that nice? -[Chris] That's nice. 697 00:27:46,137 --> 00:27:48,000 Seems like when we had them over before, 698 00:27:48,034 --> 00:27:51,068 -Matt doesn't usually eat desert, does he? -No. 699 00:27:53,344 --> 00:27:55,172 I cut some... 700 00:27:55,206 --> 00:27:57,586 guac to put on top of that enchilada. 701 00:27:58,827 --> 00:28:00,758 So Matt and Caryn are coming over for dinner, 702 00:28:00,793 --> 00:28:03,862 so Chris and I and four of us can talk about the fundraiser. 703 00:28:06,241 --> 00:28:07,965 Might do a... 704 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,172 Might do a little tomatoes. 705 00:28:09,206 --> 00:28:11,413 Now, this will be your first time seeing them since... 706 00:28:12,275 --> 00:28:14,068 the engagement announcement, right? 707 00:28:14,103 --> 00:28:15,172 Oh, yeah. 708 00:28:15,206 --> 00:28:18,034 I haven't seen them and all. 709 00:28:18,068 --> 00:28:20,517 So when you take a look at Caryn's ring, 710 00:28:21,620 --> 00:28:23,379 please don't put yours up next to it. 711 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,517 Should I say, uh... 712 00:28:25,551 --> 00:28:28,034 "Gosh, I know what I want for my second anniversary." 713 00:28:30,517 --> 00:28:32,172 Is that what I should say? 714 00:28:32,206 --> 00:28:33,586 Now, you told me before 715 00:28:33,620 --> 00:28:35,586 you didn't want a diamond that big 716 00:28:35,620 --> 00:28:36,758 because it gets in the way. 717 00:28:37,413 --> 00:28:38,896 A big diamond is okay, 718 00:28:38,931 --> 00:28:40,551 you just don't want it, like, standing. 719 00:28:40,586 --> 00:28:43,206 Well, if it's a big diamond, it's gonna stick up. 720 00:28:43,758 --> 00:28:44,931 I would've managed. 721 00:28:48,551 --> 00:28:51,000 -See, this ring tells a story. -Yeah. 722 00:28:51,034 --> 00:28:53,931 -And I like that. -Okay. 723 00:28:53,965 --> 00:28:56,206 [Amy] Caryn and Matt have known each other for a long time. 724 00:28:56,896 --> 00:28:58,827 So I'm happy for them that, 725 00:28:58,862 --> 00:29:01,379 you know, they're choosing to make that step for each other. 726 00:29:01,413 --> 00:29:02,482 That's what they wanna do. 727 00:29:02,896 --> 00:29:04,724 Uh, but... 728 00:29:04,758 --> 00:29:06,448 I'm not sure why Chris really wanted to 729 00:29:06,482 --> 00:29:08,310 prepare me 730 00:29:08,344 --> 00:29:12,137 that the ring that I will see on Caryn's finger, 731 00:29:12,172 --> 00:29:13,862 you know, the diamonds gonna be bigger. 732 00:29:13,896 --> 00:29:17,275 I'm like, "Okay... how much bigger?" 733 00:29:17,310 --> 00:29:19,275 I mean, you make it sound like it's... 734 00:29:20,448 --> 00:29:22,896 it's a rock that covers her whole hand or something. 735 00:29:23,655 --> 00:29:25,448 I don't get into all that stuff. 736 00:29:27,482 --> 00:29:30,137 Well, as long as you're happy with it, that's what counts. 737 00:29:30,172 --> 00:29:31,137 Of course, I'm happy. 738 00:29:33,310 --> 00:29:34,931 Come on, fiance. 739 00:29:38,172 --> 00:29:39,068 [doorbell rings] 740 00:29:41,103 --> 00:29:43,413 -Hey, guys. Welcome! -[Caryn] Hi, how are you? 741 00:29:43,448 --> 00:29:45,896 -[Matt] Chris. -[Chris] Oh, you don't need to bring over gifts 742 00:29:45,931 --> 00:29:47,517 -every time you come over. -Oh, well. 743 00:29:47,551 --> 00:29:49,724 You know, you guys do. 744 00:29:49,758 --> 00:29:51,068 That's very nice. 745 00:29:51,103 --> 00:29:53,379 But, seriously, Chris is right. You don't have to. 746 00:29:53,413 --> 00:29:55,689 Well, you're serving us a wonderful dinner. 747 00:29:55,724 --> 00:29:57,068 I can smell it. 748 00:29:57,103 --> 00:30:00,724 Even though I've told Amy, I haven't seen Amy 749 00:30:00,758 --> 00:30:02,103 since Caryn and I were engaged. 750 00:30:02,137 --> 00:30:04,275 So I think it's gonna be fine, 751 00:30:04,310 --> 00:30:05,931 but I hope she's... 752 00:30:05,965 --> 00:30:07,413 You know, I hope Amy... 753 00:30:07,448 --> 00:30:11,137 She sounded great on the phone when I talked and we texted and stuff. 754 00:30:11,172 --> 00:30:14,310 But, you know, to see her actually to see her, 755 00:30:14,344 --> 00:30:18,137 I don't know if she's gonna make things awkward or she's okay with it. 756 00:30:18,172 --> 00:30:19,793 But we're gonna find out here in a few minutes. 757 00:30:21,758 --> 00:30:22,793 [Chris] Okay. 758 00:30:27,482 --> 00:30:28,620 Oh, let's see the ring. 759 00:30:31,241 --> 00:30:32,103 Uh-oh! 760 00:30:33,931 --> 00:30:34,931 Oh, boy. 761 00:30:54,241 --> 00:30:55,379 Oh, let's see the ring. 762 00:30:57,379 --> 00:30:58,344 Uh-oh. 763 00:31:00,206 --> 00:31:01,620 Oh, boy, um... 764 00:31:08,862 --> 00:31:11,275 Oh, yeah. That's very pretty. 765 00:31:11,310 --> 00:31:13,172 Wow. 766 00:31:13,206 --> 00:31:15,827 [Caryn] When Amy asked to see the ring, 767 00:31:15,862 --> 00:31:18,275 I would say I was a little apprehensive. 768 00:31:18,310 --> 00:31:20,068 You know, who wants to do that? 769 00:31:20,103 --> 00:31:22,344 You know, the moment was just fine. 770 00:31:22,379 --> 00:31:24,793 I think she's okay that we're engaged. 771 00:31:24,827 --> 00:31:27,241 Probably expected it at some and... 772 00:31:28,310 --> 00:31:30,137 yeah, she had been really nice about it. 773 00:31:30,172 --> 00:31:32,586 Jeez, I guess second half of life is better, huh? 774 00:31:33,448 --> 00:31:36,862 Hey, you always had some good ones. 775 00:31:36,896 --> 00:31:39,068 [Amy] I does feel a little funny to me, you know, 776 00:31:39,103 --> 00:31:40,448 Matt's my ex. 777 00:31:40,482 --> 00:31:43,000 But, you know, I'll be okay. 778 00:31:43,034 --> 00:31:45,137 As long we don't get nitty gritty and... 779 00:31:45,482 --> 00:31:47,000 personal. 780 00:31:47,034 --> 00:31:49,482 Like, I would never talk to Caryn about Matt. 781 00:31:49,517 --> 00:31:52,068 And I'm glad she's not, "Oh, yeah, we're doing this together, Amy, 782 00:31:52,103 --> 00:31:53,413 you know, did you guys did.?" 783 00:31:53,448 --> 00:31:54,517 I mean, it's... 784 00:31:58,689 --> 00:32:00,586 It would not happen. 785 00:32:00,620 --> 00:32:02,758 -Congrats on your engagement. -Yeah. 786 00:32:02,793 --> 00:32:04,965 Cheers, you were one of the first people to know, 787 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,310 I'll tell you that. 788 00:32:06,344 --> 00:32:08,068 -Right? -[Chris] Yeah, we appreciate it. 789 00:32:10,827 --> 00:32:12,172 [Caryn] Oh, how was the house? 790 00:32:13,275 --> 00:32:15,827 Um, the house is really great. 791 00:32:15,862 --> 00:32:17,655 Six-car garage? 792 00:32:17,689 --> 00:32:19,413 [Chris] Oh, beautiful garage. 793 00:32:19,448 --> 00:32:22,137 And another shop space. 794 00:32:22,172 --> 00:32:24,724 So there are two bedrooms down below, a full kitchen, 795 00:32:24,758 --> 00:32:26,413 it's got a game room with a pool table. 796 00:32:26,448 --> 00:32:29,413 It has a movie room, theatre setup, you know-- 797 00:32:29,448 --> 00:32:30,758 -All downstairs? -Yeah. 798 00:32:30,793 --> 00:32:32,551 [Matt] Sounds like you're sold on it. 799 00:32:32,586 --> 00:32:34,379 I'm trying to figure out a way-- 800 00:32:34,413 --> 00:32:38,103 I think if a guy could do 10 to 12 wedding events there, 801 00:32:38,137 --> 00:32:40,000 -that would cover all the expenses for the year. -Yeah. 802 00:32:42,310 --> 00:32:43,586 Wow. 803 00:32:43,620 --> 00:32:45,896 Is doing another, like, business, 804 00:32:45,931 --> 00:32:48,379 is that something that you guys actually want to do? 805 00:32:48,413 --> 00:32:49,655 -[Chris] I do. -[Amy] Not exactly. 806 00:32:49,689 --> 00:32:50,689 She doesn't. 807 00:32:50,724 --> 00:32:51,655 [Matt] Yeah. 808 00:32:51,689 --> 00:32:53,862 Why does this remind me of de-ja-vu? 809 00:32:53,896 --> 00:32:55,931 I mean, you sound like me 30 years ago. 810 00:32:55,965 --> 00:32:58,103 You know, I'm like excited about that and this and so... 811 00:32:58,137 --> 00:33:00,413 -I'm excited about the possibilities. -Yeah, you better do that. 812 00:33:00,448 --> 00:33:01,758 I would be. 813 00:33:01,793 --> 00:33:03,586 -I, you know-- -[Amy] See, what I said? 814 00:33:03,620 --> 00:33:04,758 Thirty years ago. 815 00:33:04,793 --> 00:33:06,103 -Yeah, I know. -Thirty years ago. 816 00:33:06,137 --> 00:33:07,413 Yeah, but he hasn't done it yet. 817 00:33:07,448 --> 00:33:08,517 -So let him-- Yeah, yeah. -[Chris] That's fair. 818 00:33:08,551 --> 00:33:09,551 I mean, he's got... 819 00:33:09,586 --> 00:33:11,241 -I have some catching up to do. -But I have. 820 00:33:11,275 --> 00:33:12,724 I know, I see that's the-- 821 00:33:12,758 --> 00:33:15,206 That is-- There lies the challenge. 822 00:33:15,241 --> 00:33:17,862 She's been through the craziness. 823 00:33:17,896 --> 00:33:19,689 [Matt] Amy and I dabbled in the 824 00:33:19,724 --> 00:33:21,241 I dea of a wedding business. 825 00:33:21,275 --> 00:33:25,827 And one summer, we went ahead and opened the Roloff farm 826 00:33:25,862 --> 00:33:28,655 and scheduled, I don't know, four, five, maybe six weddings. 827 00:33:32,965 --> 00:33:35,482 We have a special gift that we're gonna give from the farm. 828 00:33:40,620 --> 00:33:42,931 And while it was fun, 829 00:33:42,965 --> 00:33:45,310 it was a lot of work. 830 00:33:45,344 --> 00:33:48,793 So I had to guess about this big house, 831 00:33:48,827 --> 00:33:51,241 I don't think it's just perfectly right for them 832 00:33:51,275 --> 00:33:56,310 in terms of the scope of work, you know, required at that place. 833 00:33:57,275 --> 00:33:59,931 Well, it looks delightful, Amy. 834 00:34:00,620 --> 00:34:02,344 [Chris] Mm. 835 00:34:02,379 --> 00:34:05,379 [Caryn] Should we talk more about the fundraiser? 836 00:34:05,413 --> 00:34:08,275 The DAAA fundraiser is about a couple of months away. 837 00:34:08,310 --> 00:34:10,034 And there's definitely a lot to do. 838 00:34:10,068 --> 00:34:12,793 The biggest thing is to get the E-vite worded right. 839 00:34:12,827 --> 00:34:15,447 Because you have to get the word out to let people know 840 00:34:15,482 --> 00:34:16,827 that something's coming up. 841 00:34:16,862 --> 00:34:19,655 First of all, the thing is I need to fine-tune this invite. 842 00:34:19,688 --> 00:34:21,757 They'll get two free raffle tickets 843 00:34:21,793 --> 00:34:23,793 including into their fee 844 00:34:23,827 --> 00:34:25,862 plus dinner, plus drinks. 845 00:34:25,896 --> 00:34:29,379 Um, so they let me know that they're coming, 846 00:34:29,413 --> 00:34:32,965 but Amy Roloff Enterprises does not receive any monies. 847 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,172 Then it doesn't have to go through my business 848 00:34:35,206 --> 00:34:37,965 and then I in turn, you know, donate. 849 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:39,965 This is gonna go directly to DAAA? 850 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,862 The problem is how do I know they actually did it? 851 00:34:42,896 --> 00:34:44,034 Have them write a check. 852 00:34:44,068 --> 00:34:45,862 Make a check out to DAAA 853 00:34:45,896 --> 00:34:47,103 and you mail it to me? 854 00:34:47,137 --> 00:34:48,688 I think that's the best way to do it. 855 00:34:48,724 --> 00:34:50,172 -It keeps you clean. -Because-- 856 00:34:50,206 --> 00:34:51,379 Keeps it going straight to them. 857 00:34:51,413 --> 00:34:52,827 I disagree with that. 858 00:34:52,862 --> 00:34:58,310 I think it's, like, way cleaner to have the fee 859 00:34:58,344 --> 00:35:00,517 that people pay, the $75. 860 00:35:00,551 --> 00:35:03,241 That money goes directly into your bank and then-- 861 00:35:03,275 --> 00:35:04,413 -That's income for me. -[Caryn] We've already 862 00:35:04,448 --> 00:35:06,034 -discussed this. -No, it's not income from you. 863 00:35:06,068 --> 00:35:08,896 You can completely offset that income 864 00:35:08,931 --> 00:35:10,862 by sending a check to DAAA. 865 00:35:10,896 --> 00:35:13,000 If you have a business, which Amy does. 866 00:35:13,034 --> 00:35:14,965 And you take in income, 867 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,000 but they're not income directly related to expenses, 868 00:35:18,034 --> 00:35:19,620 it should be a wash. 869 00:35:19,655 --> 00:35:21,896 [Caryn] Why would-- If they're gonna write a check? 870 00:35:21,931 --> 00:35:23,172 [Matt] They're not gonna write a check for that. 871 00:35:23,206 --> 00:35:25,068 Yes, they are. That's how they get in. 872 00:35:27,379 --> 00:35:29,620 [Matt] In the past, I always had a little fun. 873 00:35:29,655 --> 00:35:31,862 You know, Amy knows my buttons, I know her buttons, you know. 874 00:35:31,896 --> 00:35:34,862 We poke each other on the side, you know. 875 00:35:34,896 --> 00:35:36,517 [Caryn] When the ambers flair up, 876 00:35:36,551 --> 00:35:38,413 it's just always better 877 00:35:38,448 --> 00:35:39,551 to agree with the ex-wife. 878 00:35:42,758 --> 00:35:45,413 See, I get two on one. 879 00:35:45,448 --> 00:35:48,551 If that happens, Chris inevitably takes my side. 880 00:35:48,586 --> 00:35:51,344 So just to even the score. 881 00:35:51,379 --> 00:35:53,241 People don't wanna write checks anymore. 882 00:35:53,275 --> 00:35:55,068 I just think checks are so out of date. 883 00:35:55,103 --> 00:35:57,517 -[Caryn] Well, they're but if you don't have a checkbook-- -I write checks all the time. 884 00:35:58,551 --> 00:35:59,448 Okay. 885 00:36:00,413 --> 00:36:03,482 Matt had some legitimate concerns, but... 886 00:36:03,517 --> 00:36:05,137 Sometimes you can go down a rabbit hole 887 00:36:05,172 --> 00:36:08,793 and make something really complicated than it really needs to be. 888 00:36:08,827 --> 00:36:12,448 [Matt] Yeah, I thought I'd throw a couple of logical ideas in the mix. 889 00:36:12,482 --> 00:36:15,655 But now I'm letting her steer the ship, you know. 890 00:36:16,827 --> 00:36:18,482 As long as she stays in her lane. 891 00:36:21,034 --> 00:36:26,000 Now, at the event, we'll have some silent auction items 892 00:36:26,034 --> 00:36:29,000 that people can buy raffle tickets. 893 00:36:29,034 --> 00:36:32,103 If they wanna use a credit card for that raffle ticket, 894 00:36:32,137 --> 00:36:35,103 we can input their credit card number 895 00:36:35,137 --> 00:36:38,620 -right into the website. -[Caryn] Yeah, I think that's the best way. 896 00:36:38,655 --> 00:36:41,241 [Amy] I think Matt may have felt a little like, 897 00:36:41,275 --> 00:36:43,448 "I'm not sure how this is all gonna work." 898 00:36:43,482 --> 00:36:44,655 I felt good with it. 899 00:36:45,931 --> 00:36:47,827 Yeah, we accomplished a lot. 900 00:36:47,862 --> 00:36:49,448 You know, we worked out a lot of details. 901 00:36:49,482 --> 00:36:51,275 There's still a lot more to do ahead of time, but 902 00:36:51,310 --> 00:36:54,517 I'm surprised everyone's working well together. 903 00:36:54,551 --> 00:36:56,689 And so I think we're gonna pull it off. 904 00:36:56,724 --> 00:36:58,034 What you say we clear the table 905 00:36:58,068 --> 00:37:00,620 -and go check out those cherry turnovers? -[Caryn] Yeah. 906 00:37:00,655 --> 00:37:03,896 -Dinner was delicious. -We're not gonna stay too late 'cause we're... 907 00:37:03,931 --> 00:37:05,517 I got up at six this morning. 908 00:37:05,551 --> 00:37:06,896 Well, we all did. 909 00:37:06,931 --> 00:37:08,068 Yeah, you did too? 910 00:37:08,103 --> 00:37:09,344 So there's no violin here. 911 00:37:13,034 --> 00:37:14,344 [Caryn] Coming up... 912 00:37:14,379 --> 00:37:15,586 [Matt] As far as the engagement go, 913 00:37:15,620 --> 00:37:20,000 my side wasn't surprised or upset or, you know. 914 00:37:20,034 --> 00:37:23,000 Well, you haven't heard from all of them. 915 00:37:23,034 --> 00:37:26,551 Zack and Tori, you know, very much keeping to themselves. 916 00:37:26,586 --> 00:37:28,827 I think they've made some kind of pact 917 00:37:28,862 --> 00:37:31,137 and they're being very, you know, strict about it. 918 00:37:33,517 --> 00:37:35,000 I think it's a shame. 919 00:37:52,310 --> 00:37:53,827 [Matt] Scene is beautiful. 920 00:37:53,862 --> 00:37:56,896 -I mean, I'm looking at some gorgeous little country side. -[Caryn] I know. 921 00:37:56,931 --> 00:37:59,862 We're actually sitting in the view of your house. 922 00:37:59,896 --> 00:38:03,103 So you were sitting on your 923 00:38:03,137 --> 00:38:06,586 -back veranda, whatever, we could wave to us. -Why did you say 924 00:38:06,620 --> 00:38:07,931 your house? You say our house. 925 00:38:07,965 --> 00:38:09,758 We're gonna live there together, aren't we? 926 00:38:10,862 --> 00:38:12,379 Oh, I have to get used to that. 927 00:38:13,965 --> 00:38:17,034 If we're sitting in the back of "our house." 928 00:38:17,068 --> 00:38:18,206 It sound so funny. 929 00:38:18,758 --> 00:38:20,206 We got plenty of room. 930 00:38:20,241 --> 00:38:21,758 And we got a killer, killer view. 931 00:38:22,931 --> 00:38:25,931 -Dinner at Amy and Chris was great. -Mm-hmm. 932 00:38:25,965 --> 00:38:27,275 I had a good time over there. 933 00:38:27,310 --> 00:38:28,931 Chris was all into the whole, 934 00:38:28,965 --> 00:38:30,965 "Hey, Matt rolled out 20 years ago." 935 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,482 -Amy was like, "I've done that." -She's like, 936 00:38:32,517 --> 00:38:34,517 "No..." 937 00:38:34,551 --> 00:38:37,206 -He likes projects, it sounds like. -Absolutely. 938 00:38:37,241 --> 00:38:39,034 So she picked the same guy twice. 939 00:38:39,689 --> 00:38:41,068 In a roundabout way. 940 00:38:42,482 --> 00:38:45,241 [Matt] I thought Amy was very gracious 941 00:38:45,275 --> 00:38:46,586 as far as engagement. 942 00:38:46,620 --> 00:38:49,275 I wasn't sure how Amy was gonna take everything. 943 00:38:49,310 --> 00:38:50,344 But she was... 944 00:38:50,379 --> 00:38:53,689 I think she was appreciative that I let her know 945 00:38:53,724 --> 00:38:55,413 early on in the process. 946 00:38:55,448 --> 00:38:56,379 Yeah. 947 00:38:56,413 --> 00:38:58,724 No, she was extremely gracious. 948 00:38:58,758 --> 00:39:01,793 -Yeah, she was gracious. -As we thought she would be. 949 00:39:02,103 --> 00:39:03,103 Yup. 950 00:39:03,137 --> 00:39:05,689 -Everybody seems really excited. -I think so. 951 00:39:05,724 --> 00:39:08,137 Lots of congratulations, you know. 952 00:39:08,172 --> 00:39:09,965 Some people are surprised. 953 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,793 What did Britney say to me, "I'm gonna have step siblings?" 954 00:39:13,827 --> 00:39:15,275 And I'm like... 955 00:39:15,310 --> 00:39:17,241 I hadn't even thought of that. 956 00:39:17,275 --> 00:39:18,689 Right. 957 00:39:18,724 --> 00:39:21,344 When my daughter Britney found out that we were engaged officially, 958 00:39:21,379 --> 00:39:22,931 she was quite surprised. 959 00:39:22,965 --> 00:39:26,344 Because we were both were adamant that we're probably not gonna get married. 960 00:39:27,310 --> 00:39:29,068 But she loves Matt. 961 00:39:29,103 --> 00:39:31,620 And she came around and is excited for us. 962 00:39:32,827 --> 00:39:34,620 It's understandable if any of the kids, 963 00:39:34,655 --> 00:39:37,586 you know, were just not upset 964 00:39:37,620 --> 00:39:40,000 but just feeling maybe cautious or... 965 00:39:41,137 --> 00:39:42,379 confused. 966 00:39:42,413 --> 00:39:44,965 I don't wanna discount anyone's feelings if they have them. 967 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,689 Everybody's entitled to their own feelings, you know. 968 00:39:47,724 --> 00:39:49,896 We get to have ours, they get to have theirs. 969 00:39:49,931 --> 00:39:50,896 You know, I, I... 970 00:39:50,931 --> 00:39:52,931 You know, for best I can tell, 971 00:39:52,965 --> 00:39:57,620 my side wasn't surprised or upset or you know... 972 00:39:58,965 --> 00:40:00,896 Well, you haven't heard from all of them. 973 00:40:00,931 --> 00:40:02,758 Damn, right, yeah. 974 00:40:02,793 --> 00:40:05,344 You get to a certain point, it's like, "Hey, it's our life." 975 00:40:05,379 --> 00:40:08,241 -Right. -We, you know, raised you. 976 00:40:08,275 --> 00:40:11,448 But yeah, I think it all feels... 977 00:40:11,482 --> 00:40:13,448 feels good and healthy, my heart is full. 978 00:40:13,482 --> 00:40:14,448 My heart is full. 979 00:40:15,724 --> 00:40:17,689 I'm looking forward to marrying you, Mister. 980 00:40:18,793 --> 00:40:20,517 Good, me too. 981 00:40:20,551 --> 00:40:22,344 [Caryn] I'm like dreaming of the day where we can 982 00:40:23,034 --> 00:40:26,103 start up the barbeque, 983 00:40:26,137 --> 00:40:27,931 get you out there flipping burgers. 984 00:40:27,965 --> 00:40:30,655 our grandkids are out playing in the distance. 985 00:40:30,689 --> 00:40:33,793 It's been a long since I've had this space to really 986 00:40:33,827 --> 00:40:35,413 properly entertain. 987 00:40:35,448 --> 00:40:39,517 Because it's very tight spatially in the DW. 988 00:40:39,551 --> 00:40:43,448 And, you know, in the new house, I really do see 989 00:40:43,482 --> 00:40:45,344 most of the grandkids anyway. 990 00:40:45,379 --> 00:40:49,827 Zack and Tori are still are very much keeping to themselves up there. 991 00:40:49,862 --> 00:40:52,758 But I keep holding out hope that maybe they would come. 992 00:40:52,793 --> 00:40:53,793 But... 993 00:40:53,827 --> 00:40:56,448 I think they've made some kind of pact 994 00:40:56,482 --> 00:40:59,103 and they're being, you know, very strict about it 995 00:40:59,137 --> 00:41:00,517 that they don't wanna come to the farm. 996 00:41:02,379 --> 00:41:03,862 But if I wanna see Zack and Tori, 997 00:41:03,896 --> 00:41:05,379 I got to go up there, 998 00:41:05,413 --> 00:41:07,310 which I do. 999 00:41:07,344 --> 00:41:10,241 Josiah just had a birthday party and I went up for that. 1000 00:41:10,275 --> 00:41:13,482 But I haven't seen him down here 1001 00:41:13,517 --> 00:41:15,310 in quite a few months. 1002 00:41:17,206 --> 00:41:18,689 I think, um... 1003 00:41:18,724 --> 00:41:20,000 I think it's a shame. 1004 00:41:20,034 --> 00:41:22,068 And I hope we could change that. 1005 00:41:24,206 --> 00:41:26,379 [Matt] Next onLittle People Big World... 1006 00:41:26,413 --> 00:41:27,724 Matt and Caryn are engaged. 1007 00:41:27,758 --> 00:41:28,965 -[Amy] I know. -Oh, my God. 1008 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:29,896 What the heck! 1009 00:41:29,931 --> 00:41:31,655 Was it, um... romantic? 1010 00:41:31,689 --> 00:41:33,137 -How did he propose? -I have no idea. 1011 00:41:33,172 --> 00:41:35,448 I don't wanna get in. I don't know those details. 1012 00:41:35,482 --> 00:41:36,793 But her ring's nice. 1013 00:41:36,827 --> 00:41:39,517 I mean, it would be a ring that 1014 00:41:39,551 --> 00:41:42,172 -I could see Matt getting. -I wouldn't think of anything less. 1015 00:41:42,206 --> 00:41:43,137 [Amy] Mm-hmm. 1016 00:41:43,172 --> 00:41:44,758 Should I put your snacks in your backpack? 1017 00:41:44,793 --> 00:41:46,551 [Zack] Tonight is Lilah's sleep study. 1018 00:41:46,586 --> 00:41:48,862 I'm gonna be the one taking her to her sleep study. 1019 00:41:48,896 --> 00:41:52,068 We're not gonna be able to come home until the morning, okay? 1020 00:41:52,103 --> 00:41:53,310 Yeah, I'm nervous about it. 1021 00:41:53,344 --> 00:41:54,862 I don't see Lilah... 1022 00:41:54,896 --> 00:41:56,344 it going well. 1023 00:41:56,379 --> 00:41:57,551 Are you gonna be brave? 1024 00:41:57,586 --> 00:41:58,655 [Lilah timidly] Yeah. 1025 00:41:58,689 --> 00:42:00,931 Look at all those wires they're gonna put on you. 1026 00:42:00,965 --> 00:42:01,862 [Lilah] Dad. 1027 00:42:01,896 --> 00:42:03,344 [Zack] It's okay. 1028 00:42:03,379 --> 00:42:07,724 -If we start with how, Amy, you see a rough itinerary? -[Amy] Yeah. 1029 00:42:07,758 --> 00:42:10,413 Do I think I'll see the itinerary prior to the event? 1030 00:42:10,448 --> 00:42:12,586 I mean, I got a 50/50 shot. 1031 00:42:13,793 --> 00:42:16,413 Caryn's a very list driven 1032 00:42:16,448 --> 00:42:18,896 and Amy's a little bit more haphazard. 1033 00:42:18,931 --> 00:42:20,724 We can think, okay, where do we want tables, 1034 00:42:20,758 --> 00:42:21,965 where do we wanna set the bar? 1035 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,620 -[Amy] I will work on that. -Okay. 1036 00:42:23,655 --> 00:42:25,931 [Amy] This could go off without a hitch 1037 00:42:25,965 --> 00:42:28,793 or we could definitely have a number hiccups 1038 00:42:28,827 --> 00:42:31,689 that could make this, you know, 1039 00:42:31,724 --> 00:42:32,931 very chaotic.