1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:03,000 [Matt] Previously on Little People, Big World... 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,870 We haven't really seen Amy since the engagement. 3 00:00:05,870 --> 00:00:08,500 Amy, she sounded great on the phone. 4 00:00:08,500 --> 00:00:11,230 But, you know, to actually see her, I don't know 5 00:00:11,230 --> 00:00:12,630 if she's gonna make things awkward. 6 00:00:12,630 --> 00:00:14,270 Uh, let's see the ring. 7 00:00:15,370 --> 00:00:16,570 Uh-oh. 8 00:00:16,570 --> 00:00:18,530 [Amy] It does feel a little funny to me. 9 00:00:18,530 --> 00:00:20,400 As long as we don't get, you know, nitty-gritty 10 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:22,430 and personal. 11 00:00:22,430 --> 00:00:26,030 Chris and I, we're kinda looking for another house. 12 00:00:26,030 --> 00:00:27,900 Yeah, I'm liking this space. 13 00:00:27,900 --> 00:00:29,870 [Amy] It's kind of insane. 14 00:00:29,870 --> 00:00:32,400 You know, probably don't need a 10,000-square-foot home. 15 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:33,570 I mean, what are we gonna do? 16 00:00:33,570 --> 00:00:35,570 I think if a guy could do 17 00:00:35,570 --> 00:00:37,270 10 to 12 wedding events there, 18 00:00:37,270 --> 00:00:38,870 that would cover all the expenses for the year. 19 00:00:38,870 --> 00:00:39,970 [Caryn] Is that something that you guys 20 00:00:39,970 --> 00:00:41,270 actually, like, want to do? 21 00:00:41,270 --> 00:00:43,500 -[Chris] I do. She doesn't. -[Amy] Not exactly. 22 00:00:43,500 --> 00:00:45,830 Why does this remind me of déjà vu? 23 00:00:45,830 --> 00:00:47,170 You sound like me 30 years ago. 24 00:00:49,900 --> 00:00:51,730 From my side, 25 00:00:51,730 --> 00:00:54,630 wasn't surprised or upset, or, you know. 26 00:00:54,630 --> 00:00:56,700 You haven't heard from all of 'em. 27 00:00:56,700 --> 00:00:58,130 Well, yeah, right, yeah. 28 00:00:58,130 --> 00:00:59,700 Zach and Tori are still, you know, 29 00:00:59,700 --> 00:01:01,800 very much keeping to themselves up there. 30 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,129 I think they must have made some kind of pact 31 00:01:04,129 --> 00:01:06,500 and they're being very, you know, strict about it, 32 00:01:06,500 --> 00:01:08,100 that they don't wanna come to the farm. 33 00:01:08,100 --> 00:01:09,130 You get to a certain point, 34 00:01:09,130 --> 00:01:10,530 it's like, "Hey, that's our life." 35 00:01:14,570 --> 00:01:17,070 I didn't reply. I don't wanna talk about it. 36 00:01:17,070 --> 00:01:19,700 I just don't wanna talk about my dad's engagement. 37 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:40,930 [Tori] Wanna go in the wagon? 38 00:01:41,830 --> 00:01:43,170 What? 39 00:01:44,229 --> 00:01:46,770 Push? Let's go see what Daddy's doing. Come on. 40 00:01:48,630 --> 00:01:50,600 -Don't we have one of these trees? -Oh, it is a little chilly. 41 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,430 Don't we have one of these trees that you wanna plant? 42 00:01:54,330 --> 00:01:56,100 It's a beautiful day, 43 00:01:56,100 --> 00:01:57,229 so I did what my parents did 44 00:01:57,229 --> 00:01:59,130 and I dragged my kids to the Lilac Garden. 45 00:01:59,130 --> 00:02:01,730 Jackson, here. Smell this. 46 00:02:01,730 --> 00:02:04,230 Smell this one right here. See all these. 47 00:02:04,230 --> 00:02:06,370 I grew up in this area, and grew up going to 48 00:02:06,370 --> 00:02:08,370 the Lilac Festival every year. 49 00:02:08,370 --> 00:02:10,330 I think there are certain times 50 00:02:10,330 --> 00:02:13,330 that I find it very bizarre that we live here. 51 00:02:13,330 --> 00:02:14,830 -Like, I never... -Yeah. 52 00:02:14,830 --> 00:02:16,870 ...expected to live here again. 53 00:02:16,870 --> 00:02:18,530 I was kinda like... 54 00:02:18,530 --> 00:02:21,170 I said goodbye to Washington six years ago 55 00:02:21,170 --> 00:02:23,800 and thought I'd never come back. 56 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,329 So there are definitely moments where I'm like, 57 00:02:25,329 --> 00:02:27,329 "This is weird that we're at the Lilac Gardens 58 00:02:27,329 --> 00:02:29,130 right now with my kids." 59 00:02:29,900 --> 00:02:31,230 Can you smell it? 60 00:02:31,230 --> 00:02:32,600 Doesn't it smell so good? 61 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,130 Smell this one. 62 00:02:36,270 --> 00:02:37,930 -[laughing] -[Zach] Oh, dear. 63 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,730 Not everybody can be on my stomach! 64 00:02:41,730 --> 00:02:44,570 -Si Si is so tall, right? -I know, he really is. 65 00:02:44,570 --> 00:02:46,430 He loves it. He's not only taller, 66 00:02:46,430 --> 00:02:47,770 he's like, "This is awesome." 67 00:02:47,770 --> 00:02:50,329 Ow! Lilah. Ahhh! 68 00:02:50,329 --> 00:02:52,400 [giggling] 69 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,070 [Zach] Lilah, do you have your sleep test coming up? 70 00:02:55,070 --> 00:02:56,730 Who's taking you to your sleep test? 71 00:02:57,870 --> 00:02:59,970 Not Mama? You don't want Mama to go? 72 00:03:02,170 --> 00:03:03,570 [Zach] Lilah has a lot coming up. 73 00:03:03,570 --> 00:03:05,100 She has her sleep study. 74 00:03:05,100 --> 00:03:06,430 It's recommended that you get a sleep study 75 00:03:06,430 --> 00:03:08,400 for people with dwarfism 76 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,500 regularly to monitor sleep apnea. 77 00:03:10,500 --> 00:03:11,970 But also in our case, 78 00:03:11,970 --> 00:03:14,530 if Lilah potentially needs eye surgery, 79 00:03:14,530 --> 00:03:16,800 it's to make sure that she is safe 80 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,300 -when put under anesthesia. -Yeah. 81 00:03:19,300 --> 00:03:22,300 Do you know what they're gonna do at your sleep study? 82 00:03:22,300 --> 00:03:24,700 We're gonna spend the night at the hospital, okay? 83 00:03:26,130 --> 00:03:28,600 No, no. Just you and I, okay? 84 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,970 Lilah, they're gonna put a lot of stickers on you 85 00:03:30,970 --> 00:03:33,800 and wires. Are you gonna cry? 86 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:34,900 The more you cry, 87 00:03:34,900 --> 00:03:36,230 the more tape they have to put on you. 88 00:03:36,230 --> 00:03:37,570 -Okay? -[Tori laughs] 89 00:03:38,470 --> 00:03:39,800 [Tori] Okay. 90 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,500 [Zach] Jackson and I both had sleep studies 91 00:03:41,500 --> 00:03:43,370 and Jackson did a great job with his sleep study. 92 00:03:43,370 --> 00:03:45,130 He was a little younger than Lilah is now, 93 00:03:45,130 --> 00:03:46,230 but he did good. 94 00:03:46,230 --> 00:03:47,700 We've been trying to prepare Lilah 95 00:03:47,700 --> 00:03:48,770 for the sleep study. 96 00:03:48,770 --> 00:03:50,870 Lilah is gonna hate the sleep test. 97 00:03:50,870 --> 00:03:52,930 Gonna be the worst day of her life. 98 00:03:52,930 --> 00:03:55,070 Lilah doesn't like to be touched. 99 00:03:55,070 --> 00:03:56,470 Lilah doesn't like, you know, 100 00:03:56,470 --> 00:03:58,030 nurses or doctors, 101 00:03:58,030 --> 00:04:01,130 or anyone in particular to come into her stratosphere. 102 00:04:01,130 --> 00:04:03,130 Lilah doesn't like strange places. 103 00:04:03,130 --> 00:04:04,800 Everything about the sleep study 104 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,770 are things that Lilah on a day-to-day 105 00:04:06,770 --> 00:04:08,130 does not care for. 106 00:04:08,130 --> 00:04:10,130 And we're gonna combine all these things 107 00:04:10,130 --> 00:04:11,470 during one night, 108 00:04:11,470 --> 00:04:13,300 and make her sleep through it. 109 00:04:15,570 --> 00:04:17,870 I don't know yet. It's gonna be miserable. 110 00:04:17,870 --> 00:04:19,170 [Jackson] Lilah! 111 00:04:19,170 --> 00:04:20,670 [Tori] I hope that Lilah's sleep study goes well, 112 00:04:20,670 --> 00:04:23,130 'cause the day that we come back, she has dance. 113 00:04:23,130 --> 00:04:25,400 She has a recital coming up in a week. 114 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,400 So every class counts, that's for sure. 115 00:04:29,030 --> 00:04:30,200 Okay, ready, sis? 116 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:31,800 Hold my hand. 117 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,430 -Okay, wait, let me... -[Zach] Lilah. 118 00:04:33,430 --> 00:04:35,500 Here, ready? You look at Daddy. 119 00:04:35,500 --> 00:04:37,170 -No, stand up! -[Zach] Lilah! 120 00:04:37,170 --> 00:04:38,970 [Tori] I signed Lilah up for dance class 121 00:04:38,970 --> 00:04:40,300 just because I really felt like 122 00:04:40,300 --> 00:04:42,330 she needed to do something socially. 123 00:04:42,330 --> 00:04:44,200 She just needed to be around girls her age. 124 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,130 She needs to be in a classroom setting more 125 00:04:46,130 --> 00:04:47,470 to get ready for pre-school. 126 00:04:47,470 --> 00:04:50,330 I really felt like her being put in a situation 127 00:04:50,330 --> 00:04:52,570 that forced her to communicate with other people 128 00:04:52,570 --> 00:04:54,300 was gonna improve her talking. 129 00:04:54,300 --> 00:04:56,770 [Zach] Being around other kids that are communicating too 130 00:04:56,770 --> 00:04:58,630 -will help her socially, physically. -There's a lot of things. 131 00:04:58,630 --> 00:05:00,130 And just learn how to... 132 00:05:00,130 --> 00:05:02,370 And she's frickin' adorable. I mean, come on. 133 00:05:04,770 --> 00:05:06,470 [Zach] Lilah, are you gonna be okay? 134 00:05:06,470 --> 00:05:09,000 [Josiah cooing] 135 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,270 [Zach] This way, this way. Left, left. Hard left. 136 00:05:28,230 --> 00:05:29,830 [Amy speaking] 137 00:05:34,300 --> 00:05:35,800 Good morning, hon. 138 00:05:36,530 --> 00:05:39,430 My attempt at continuing to believe 139 00:05:39,430 --> 00:05:40,970 that I have a green thumb. 140 00:05:40,970 --> 00:05:43,400 [both chuckle] 141 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:44,430 Do you need more pots? 142 00:05:44,430 --> 00:05:45,930 I mean, we've got some in the shed 143 00:05:45,930 --> 00:05:47,200 and on the side of the shed. 144 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,230 No, because I'm not gonna plant as many, 145 00:05:50,230 --> 00:05:52,070 -like, flowering. -All right. 146 00:05:52,070 --> 00:05:53,770 -Um... -What's up? 147 00:05:55,870 --> 00:05:59,470 Well, we planned on talking to, uh, Brad 148 00:05:59,470 --> 00:06:01,400 -at Scotch Church about, uh... -Yeah. 149 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,670 ...doing a contribution for the fundraiser. 150 00:06:03,670 --> 00:06:05,300 -See if they're willing... -Okay. 151 00:06:05,300 --> 00:06:06,800 ...and, you know. 152 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,170 We're hosting a fundraiser for DAAA, 153 00:06:09,170 --> 00:06:11,630 Dwarf Athletic Association of America. 154 00:06:11,630 --> 00:06:14,530 So we're going around to see if 155 00:06:14,530 --> 00:06:16,930 people will donate towards a silent auction. 156 00:06:16,930 --> 00:06:19,470 Scotch Church Road Vineyard is where I held 157 00:06:19,470 --> 00:06:21,470 Chris's surprise birthday party. 158 00:06:21,470 --> 00:06:23,370 [all] Surprise! 159 00:06:24,700 --> 00:06:26,770 [Amy] So we wanted to see if they would be willing 160 00:06:26,770 --> 00:06:29,170 to donate a gift basket. 161 00:06:29,170 --> 00:06:31,130 [Chris] I found another reason to talk to him. 162 00:06:31,130 --> 00:06:32,330 Oh, why? 163 00:06:32,330 --> 00:06:34,500 [Chris] So, I went to the county to find out 164 00:06:34,500 --> 00:06:36,800 if we could do weddings at that property. 165 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,600 Yeah? 166 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:39,670 I really liked the house 167 00:06:39,670 --> 00:06:40,970 that we looked at on Nursery Road, 168 00:06:40,970 --> 00:06:44,370 and, um, it just really checks a lot of the boxes. 169 00:06:44,370 --> 00:06:46,900 But the only way we could afford to live there 170 00:06:46,900 --> 00:06:49,230 is to be able to generate an income on the property. 171 00:06:49,230 --> 00:06:51,670 And so I've started doing some research 172 00:06:51,670 --> 00:06:53,770 and found out you really need to either have 173 00:06:53,770 --> 00:06:55,100 a vineyard or a cidery 174 00:06:55,100 --> 00:06:58,000 in order to have big gatherings. 175 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,370 Anyway, if it was a vineyard, 176 00:07:00,370 --> 00:07:01,930 we would have a lot of latitude 177 00:07:01,930 --> 00:07:03,830 on what we could do there. 178 00:07:03,830 --> 00:07:06,170 Yeah, I don't know if it's income-based 179 00:07:06,170 --> 00:07:07,730 or what kind of vineyard you may have to have, 180 00:07:07,730 --> 00:07:09,370 but yeah, it's hard. 181 00:07:09,370 --> 00:07:11,430 It's gonna be an expensive property to maintain 182 00:07:11,430 --> 00:07:14,200 if we can't generate an income right away. I don't know. 183 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:15,930 Mmm. 184 00:07:15,930 --> 00:07:17,600 Well, yeah, but you gotta see 185 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,070 what you can find. 186 00:07:19,070 --> 00:07:21,570 I'm still gathering info, gathering numbers. 187 00:07:22,300 --> 00:07:23,570 Bless your heart. 188 00:07:23,570 --> 00:07:24,830 [Chris] I know you've already moved on, 189 00:07:24,830 --> 00:07:26,230 but I'm not ready to... 190 00:07:26,230 --> 00:07:28,170 -Well, I just... -...kill the idea yet. 191 00:07:28,170 --> 00:07:30,500 I think for me, just living on the farm 192 00:07:30,500 --> 00:07:32,530 and dealing with that crap 193 00:07:32,530 --> 00:07:34,530 for so many years... 194 00:07:34,530 --> 00:07:36,270 Doing pumpkin season 195 00:07:36,270 --> 00:07:38,300 and not realizing how big it was gonna get. 196 00:07:38,300 --> 00:07:41,230 Being married to Matt, I mean, there was always... 197 00:07:41,230 --> 00:07:43,230 It seemed like there was always 198 00:07:43,230 --> 00:07:44,530 a new project coming up. 199 00:07:44,530 --> 00:07:46,370 It would be quite overwhelming. 200 00:07:46,370 --> 00:07:48,030 I would tell Matt, like, 201 00:07:48,030 --> 00:07:51,270 "No. No. We don't need another project. No. 202 00:07:51,270 --> 00:07:52,570 Where's the budget, man? 203 00:07:52,570 --> 00:07:54,230 Where's the money coming from?" 204 00:07:55,070 --> 00:07:56,570 You know, starting a vineyard 205 00:07:56,570 --> 00:07:58,770 or something of that magnitude with Chris, 206 00:07:58,770 --> 00:08:00,800 I just don't see it for us 207 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,770 at this stage of our life. 208 00:08:02,770 --> 00:08:04,170 And like in any relationship, 209 00:08:04,170 --> 00:08:05,570 you know, what I've learned is 210 00:08:05,570 --> 00:08:08,000 sometimes it's best not to just say no. 211 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,630 Uh, sometimes it's best just to let it play out, 212 00:08:10,630 --> 00:08:13,370 and let him figure it out. 213 00:08:13,370 --> 00:08:15,400 You know, I had the worst nightmare. 214 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,270 It was so weird. 215 00:08:17,270 --> 00:08:19,300 I dreamt 216 00:08:19,300 --> 00:08:22,200 like this ring was shaped differently or something. 217 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,430 But all the diamonds just, "Boom!" 218 00:08:24,430 --> 00:08:26,070 came out and I lost 'em. 219 00:08:26,070 --> 00:08:28,900 Like, all the diamond, boom. 220 00:08:28,900 --> 00:08:32,600 And I was looking at an empty ring. Nightmare. 221 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:33,900 -That is a nightmare. -Yeah. 222 00:08:33,900 --> 00:08:35,470 [laughs] 223 00:08:35,470 --> 00:08:37,470 -You're scaring me. -I know. 224 00:08:37,470 --> 00:08:40,530 I... It was... It was kinda weird. 225 00:08:41,169 --> 00:08:42,429 All my diamonds weren't there. 226 00:08:42,429 --> 00:08:44,230 Like, it... like my ring fell off, 227 00:08:44,230 --> 00:08:45,800 or all the diamonds were gone, 228 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,530 and I was like, "What in the world?" 229 00:08:48,530 --> 00:08:50,570 And I thought, "Whoa, you know, what does that mean?" 230 00:08:50,570 --> 00:08:52,000 What, Chris, you're gonna leave me? 231 00:08:52,900 --> 00:08:54,930 It didn't sound good to me to hear that dream. 232 00:08:54,930 --> 00:08:56,730 I was thinking, we weren't even fighting 233 00:08:56,730 --> 00:08:58,070 or arguing or anything. 234 00:08:58,070 --> 00:09:00,830 Why would you share that with me? 235 00:09:00,830 --> 00:09:01,930 [Amy reading] 236 00:09:01,930 --> 00:09:03,630 [Tori] Okay, where's your backpack, sis? 237 00:09:05,900 --> 00:09:07,370 Should we put your snacks in your backpack? 238 00:09:07,370 --> 00:09:08,430 Yeah. 239 00:09:08,430 --> 00:09:10,130 [Zach] Tonight is Lilah's sleep study. 240 00:09:10,130 --> 00:09:11,470 Yeah, nervous about it. 241 00:09:11,470 --> 00:09:13,530 It's gonna be a long night, I think. 242 00:09:13,530 --> 00:09:17,530 And I don't see Lilah... It going well. 243 00:09:17,530 --> 00:09:19,730 -Are you gonna be brave? -Yeah. 244 00:09:19,730 --> 00:09:22,700 Look at all those wires they're gonna put on you. 245 00:09:22,700 --> 00:09:23,700 [Matt reading] 246 00:09:23,700 --> 00:09:25,200 [Caryn] So, maybe if we start, 247 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,070 we can think, "Okay, where do we want tables?" 248 00:09:27,070 --> 00:09:28,670 Um, I will work on that. 249 00:09:28,670 --> 00:09:31,500 That'll be a raffle ticket. Just so that they know. 250 00:09:31,500 --> 00:09:34,130 And how many silent auction items we have. 251 00:09:34,130 --> 00:09:37,970 Being that my nature is to plan events, 252 00:09:37,970 --> 00:09:40,070 it's gonna take a little extra effort for me 253 00:09:40,070 --> 00:09:41,600 to just let it go. 254 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:59,570 Hey, Brad. We thought we'd drag you up, out and early. 255 00:09:59,570 --> 00:10:01,430 But I'm sure you were up early. 256 00:10:01,430 --> 00:10:02,870 I've been up, mowed lawns, 257 00:10:02,870 --> 00:10:04,170 filled the tractor with diesel. 258 00:10:04,170 --> 00:10:05,770 -I've done a bunch of stuff. -Oh, man. 259 00:10:05,770 --> 00:10:07,870 You're one of the hardest-working guys I know. 260 00:10:07,870 --> 00:10:09,570 You've got so many irons on the fire. 261 00:10:09,570 --> 00:10:10,770 Always busy. 262 00:10:10,770 --> 00:10:12,840 [Amy] We're here meeting with Brad. 263 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,900 He and his wife Gina are the owners of 264 00:10:14,900 --> 00:10:16,570 Scotch Church Road Vineyard. 265 00:10:16,570 --> 00:10:19,370 You know, he has this beautiful, beautiful vineyard, 266 00:10:19,370 --> 00:10:21,330 and so we wanted to approach him 267 00:10:21,330 --> 00:10:23,770 to see if maybe he'd be willing to donate 268 00:10:23,770 --> 00:10:26,740 a basket for our silent auction, 269 00:10:26,740 --> 00:10:29,130 uh, for the fundraiser that we're doing. 270 00:10:29,130 --> 00:10:32,470 Well, I guess we have a ulterior motive. 271 00:10:32,470 --> 00:10:34,430 -Yeah. -Getting you up and... 272 00:10:34,430 --> 00:10:36,770 before drinking wine hour. 273 00:10:36,770 --> 00:10:37,930 -You know? -Okay. 274 00:10:37,930 --> 00:10:39,470 I'm not drinking wine, I'm drinking water. 275 00:10:39,470 --> 00:10:40,800 [Amy] No, I know. 276 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:42,770 Before we get started on that, so I got a question 277 00:10:42,770 --> 00:10:44,370 about this property that I wanna look at. 278 00:10:45,330 --> 00:10:46,740 Um... 279 00:10:46,740 --> 00:10:48,430 So, I went to the county 280 00:10:48,430 --> 00:10:51,100 to see if, uh, I could do weddings there. 281 00:10:51,100 --> 00:10:52,270 All right. 282 00:10:52,270 --> 00:10:54,200 [Chris] I am just kinda curious 283 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,370 what a guy, if he had about three acres 284 00:10:56,370 --> 00:10:58,000 that he wanted to do vineyards with, 285 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,100 what kind of start-up cost would we be looking at? 286 00:11:02,740 --> 00:11:04,370 Boy, that's a tough question. 287 00:11:05,270 --> 00:11:07,570 You're probably... If you go to, like, 288 00:11:07,570 --> 00:11:10,470 Oregon State University, they have a guide sheet. 289 00:11:10,470 --> 00:11:12,300 -Yeah. -They probably... 290 00:11:12,300 --> 00:11:14,270 Their estimates are probably about 291 00:11:14,270 --> 00:11:17,030 -$15,000 to $20,000 per acre. -Oh. 292 00:11:17,030 --> 00:11:18,870 Then they control the number. 293 00:11:18,870 --> 00:11:21,870 I think we can only have, like, 12 events a year here. 294 00:11:21,870 --> 00:11:23,470 They have the number of weddings 295 00:11:23,470 --> 00:11:25,000 -you can do. -See, that was my number too. 296 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,300 So, yeah, 12 events wouldn't be enough. 297 00:11:27,300 --> 00:11:30,870 Oh, shoot. Oh, this might not pencil out for us, hon. 298 00:11:30,870 --> 00:11:33,000 I'm glad you figured that out. 299 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:34,970 [Brad] Well, I don't wanna discourage you. 300 00:11:34,970 --> 00:11:36,630 -I don't wanna... -Now I have the facts, ma'am. 301 00:11:36,630 --> 00:11:38,330 Just facts. 302 00:11:38,330 --> 00:11:40,330 Twelve would not be enough. I would... 303 00:11:40,330 --> 00:11:42,470 I would, uh... We would probably need to do 304 00:11:42,470 --> 00:11:46,330 more than that to make that particular property 305 00:11:46,330 --> 00:11:48,600 we looked at self-sustaining, so... 306 00:11:49,470 --> 00:11:51,840 [sighs] The information I'm getting 307 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,330 -is, um... -Deflating. 308 00:11:54,330 --> 00:11:57,740 [laughing] It's not going in the right direction. 309 00:11:57,740 --> 00:11:59,570 Shoot. 310 00:11:59,570 --> 00:12:01,370 -Sorry, babe. -I'm disappointed. 311 00:12:01,370 --> 00:12:05,030 I saw that as our possible retirement future there. 312 00:12:05,030 --> 00:12:07,500 Well, buying a farm is just 313 00:12:07,500 --> 00:12:10,430 -another full-time job. -[Amy] Yeah. 314 00:12:11,700 --> 00:12:13,370 [Amy] Part of me is relieved. 315 00:12:13,370 --> 00:12:14,430 I think I already knew 316 00:12:14,430 --> 00:12:16,200 what the answers were gonna be. 317 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,370 But sometimes you have to allow 318 00:12:18,370 --> 00:12:20,070 the other person 319 00:12:20,070 --> 00:12:22,870 to find that on his own. 320 00:12:22,870 --> 00:12:24,130 Love what you've done with this place 321 00:12:24,130 --> 00:12:25,400 in the last 12 years. 322 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,700 And you're producing some good wines. 323 00:12:27,700 --> 00:12:30,230 -Thank you. -Which kinda leads us 324 00:12:30,230 --> 00:12:32,200 -to the next question. -Oh, is it my turn? 325 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,800 -Yeah, you wanna ask him? -Oh, really? 326 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,870 -I... I... -What have I got coming? 327 00:12:35,870 --> 00:12:37,530 [Amy] I know, I know. 328 00:12:37,530 --> 00:12:39,800 We had... Well, I should say, I had 329 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:41,700 the brainstorm idea 330 00:12:41,700 --> 00:12:44,000 in a very short amount of time to do a fundraiser. 331 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,600 It's called Dwarf Athletic Association of America. 332 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:48,370 -Okay. -So basically what it does 333 00:12:48,370 --> 00:12:50,570 is provide sport opportunities 334 00:12:50,570 --> 00:12:52,740 -for people with dwarfism. -Yeah. 335 00:12:52,740 --> 00:12:54,170 I benefitted from it. 336 00:12:54,170 --> 00:12:56,400 I, uh, was there when it first formed 337 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:58,070 in 1985. 338 00:12:58,070 --> 00:13:01,630 -Long time. -And, uh, played basketball. 339 00:13:01,630 --> 00:13:03,930 First time, we played against 340 00:13:03,930 --> 00:13:06,770 an LA crowd of, you know, little people. 341 00:13:06,770 --> 00:13:08,670 And it was just a bunch of us 342 00:13:08,670 --> 00:13:10,800 pulled together from, uh, 343 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,870 the Detroit area and everything, 344 00:13:12,870 --> 00:13:14,130 and we won the gold medal. 345 00:13:14,130 --> 00:13:16,300 -Oh, cool. -I have never been 346 00:13:16,300 --> 00:13:17,740 so excited. 347 00:13:17,740 --> 00:13:20,670 And to me, just the confidence, 348 00:13:20,670 --> 00:13:22,500 it changed my life. 349 00:13:22,500 --> 00:13:24,430 And then Zachary came up through it. 350 00:13:24,430 --> 00:13:27,470 I never dreamt of ever playing a sport before. 351 00:13:27,470 --> 00:13:30,130 I would just watch my brother in swimming and baseball. 352 00:13:30,130 --> 00:13:32,100 And so when I had the opportunity 353 00:13:32,100 --> 00:13:35,030 to play a sport through DAAA, 354 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,030 I was amazed. 355 00:13:37,030 --> 00:13:40,070 I can see why people like playing a sport, 356 00:13:40,070 --> 00:13:42,800 or pushing themself in some activity like that. 357 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:44,840 It really does something to you physically. 358 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:46,870 It does something to you mentally. 359 00:13:46,870 --> 00:13:49,200 Um, maybe even socially. 360 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,400 And that was... 361 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:53,470 I think I gained a different perspective 362 00:13:53,470 --> 00:13:55,630 of my self-confidence. 363 00:13:55,630 --> 00:14:00,230 And I will forever support DAAA as best I can. 364 00:14:00,230 --> 00:14:01,840 Till Amy explained it to me, 365 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:03,570 it just never dawned on me that, you know, 366 00:14:03,570 --> 00:14:06,070 most little people would never get the chance 367 00:14:06,070 --> 00:14:08,170 -to play competitive sports. Yeah. -[Brad] Yeah, no opportunity. 368 00:14:08,170 --> 00:14:10,740 If it wasn't for an organization making that available. 369 00:14:10,740 --> 00:14:14,000 [Amy] But anyway, that is the organization, um, 370 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,840 and so, uh, we were thinking 371 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,740 if you guys were willing to maybe do a basket? 372 00:14:19,740 --> 00:14:21,530 -A wine basket? -Oh, yeah, absolutely. 373 00:14:21,530 --> 00:14:23,170 Something for a silent auction. 374 00:14:23,170 --> 00:14:24,530 If you gotta think about it, feel free. 375 00:14:24,530 --> 00:14:26,200 That would be a no-brainer. 376 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:27,900 Well, thank you. We appreciate that. 377 00:14:27,900 --> 00:14:29,130 We love Brad and Gina, 378 00:14:29,130 --> 00:14:30,800 and what they've done with the place. 379 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,130 So I think a gift basket from them's gonna be pretty special. 380 00:14:33,130 --> 00:14:35,770 [Amy] I think there's a few other places 381 00:14:35,770 --> 00:14:37,700 that we'll ask and see if they'd be interested. 382 00:14:37,700 --> 00:14:39,270 Whether it be a gift certificate 383 00:14:39,270 --> 00:14:40,230 -at a restaurant. -Yeah. 384 00:14:40,230 --> 00:14:42,230 We'll try and get, like, 10. 385 00:14:42,230 --> 00:14:43,870 We've only got three or four right now, 386 00:14:43,870 --> 00:14:46,900 so we have some work to do. We definitely need to, 387 00:14:46,900 --> 00:14:48,740 um, knock on a few more doors 388 00:14:48,740 --> 00:14:50,840 and get some more items together. 389 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:52,570 [Brad] Well, you better take some of this, 390 00:14:52,570 --> 00:14:55,130 because you didn't get to have your dose... 391 00:14:55,900 --> 00:14:57,900 today. Take that home with you. 392 00:14:57,900 --> 00:14:59,300 -Oh, gosh. -[Chris] Wow. 393 00:14:59,300 --> 00:15:01,200 -Come on, really? -[Brad] Yeah. Thats your rosé. 394 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:02,800 -I know that one. -I love it. 395 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,530 I know it won't go to waste. 396 00:15:04,530 --> 00:15:05,800 -No, it won't. -No. 397 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,030 -All right, I'll see you guys later. -[Amy] Bye. 398 00:15:17,870 --> 00:15:20,030 [Tori] Okay, where's your backpack, sis? 399 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,570 -Shall we put your snacks in your backpack? -Yeah. 400 00:15:26,570 --> 00:15:28,570 Okay, there's your snacks. 401 00:15:28,570 --> 00:15:30,270 And then Jackson's got the iPad. 402 00:15:30,270 --> 00:15:32,870 We're gonna let him play for just a couple more minutes, okay? 403 00:15:32,870 --> 00:15:34,600 [Zach] Tonight is Lilah's sleep study. 404 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:36,840 I'm gonna be the one taking her to her sleep study. 405 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,230 Yeah, nervous about it. 406 00:15:38,230 --> 00:15:40,400 I... It's gonna be a long night, I think. 407 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,770 And I don't see Lilah... 408 00:15:42,770 --> 00:15:45,330 -It going well. -[Tori chuckles softly] 409 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,330 [Tori] She's very excited, babe. 410 00:15:50,330 --> 00:15:52,400 Little night away with Dad. 411 00:15:53,770 --> 00:15:56,770 She thinks she's going to, like, a spa or something. 412 00:15:56,770 --> 00:15:58,870 [Zach] Where's her insurance card? 413 00:15:58,870 --> 00:16:00,570 [Tori] It's in my wallet. 414 00:16:00,570 --> 00:16:01,970 Okay, where's your wallet? 415 00:16:01,970 --> 00:16:04,030 [Tori] On my desk in our room. 416 00:16:04,030 --> 00:16:05,800 People with dwarfism, I think 417 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:07,000 a sleep study is just recommended 418 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:08,530 -to make sure that there's not... -Yeah. 419 00:16:08,530 --> 00:16:09,930 ...obstructive sleep apnea. 420 00:16:09,930 --> 00:16:11,570 [Zach] I think it's also to make sure that 421 00:16:11,570 --> 00:16:14,230 she is safe when put under anesthesia. 422 00:16:14,230 --> 00:16:16,600 Our airways are built slightly different 423 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,070 than other people, 424 00:16:18,070 --> 00:16:20,200 and there is maybe a higher threat of, 425 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,070 you know, maybe something going wrong. 426 00:16:22,070 --> 00:16:23,430 Lilah, look at me. 427 00:16:23,430 --> 00:16:24,870 We're not gonna be able to come home, 428 00:16:24,870 --> 00:16:27,430 -not until the morning, okay? -Okay. 429 00:16:27,430 --> 00:16:29,740 -Are you gonna be okay with that? -Yeah. 430 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:32,800 They're gonna put stickers all over you. 431 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:34,770 -Yeah. -It's not gonna feel nice. 432 00:16:34,770 --> 00:16:36,530 But we gotta sleep through it, okay? 433 00:16:36,530 --> 00:16:38,600 Okay. 434 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:40,100 [Zach] I keep telling her they're gonna put 435 00:16:40,100 --> 00:16:41,600 stickers all over her head, 436 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,530 and, you know, we're gonna have a nurse there 437 00:16:43,530 --> 00:16:45,500 and things like that, so I hope she has a good idea. 438 00:16:45,500 --> 00:16:47,370 But who knows with her? 439 00:16:47,370 --> 00:16:48,840 Yeah, I don't think she has a good idea. 440 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:50,700 She gets it in her head and then she gets scared, 441 00:16:50,700 --> 00:16:53,100 and then she has a hard time recovering. 442 00:16:54,030 --> 00:16:57,170 -Lilah, you go bye-bye? -Yeah. 443 00:16:57,170 --> 00:16:59,270 -Will you be a brave girl? -Yeah. 444 00:16:59,270 --> 00:17:00,870 Can I have love before you leave? 445 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,430 Can I have love, please? 446 00:17:03,430 --> 00:17:05,000 -Please, please. -I love you. 447 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,030 You're giving me love! Real love. 448 00:17:07,030 --> 00:17:08,930 -Love you. -Love you. 449 00:17:08,930 --> 00:17:10,270 You. 450 00:17:13,069 --> 00:17:14,369 Now you! 451 00:17:14,369 --> 00:17:16,170 All right, we'll try to FaceTime you guys. 452 00:17:16,170 --> 00:17:18,900 I am hoping that Lilah's sleep study goes well, 453 00:17:18,900 --> 00:17:21,329 'cause she has a dance class tomorrow. 454 00:17:21,329 --> 00:17:23,599 Lilah's dance recital's coming up, 455 00:17:23,599 --> 00:17:26,430 and so every class counts, 456 00:17:26,430 --> 00:17:28,569 and getting as much practice in as possible 457 00:17:28,569 --> 00:17:30,500 is definitely good at this point. 458 00:17:31,370 --> 00:17:33,430 [Zach] She's freakin' cute. Doing it. 459 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,000 Love you. 460 00:17:39,100 --> 00:17:41,430 -Good luck. -[Jackson] Good luck. 461 00:17:41,430 --> 00:17:42,400 [Amy reading] 462 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:43,840 Matt and Caryn are engaged. 463 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,600 -I know. What the heck? -Oh, my God. 464 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,740 Was it, um, romantic? 465 00:17:47,740 --> 00:17:49,870 I don't wanna hear it. I don't know those details. 466 00:18:02,740 --> 00:18:04,840 -All right. -Oh, thank you. 467 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,470 -Love it. -Ooh, fun. 468 00:18:07,470 --> 00:18:09,800 My girlfriends and I, Lisa and Deb, 469 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:11,940 are getting together just to catch up, 470 00:18:11,940 --> 00:18:13,600 talk about the fundraiser, 471 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,770 and especially getting together 472 00:18:15,770 --> 00:18:17,500 before Lisa leaves on vacation, 473 00:18:17,500 --> 00:18:20,300 'cause she will not be able to attend the event. 474 00:18:20,300 --> 00:18:21,340 -Cheers, ladies. -Cheers. 475 00:18:21,340 --> 00:18:22,400 -Cheers, friends. -Girlfriends. 476 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:23,770 -Good friends. -Thank you for 477 00:18:23,770 --> 00:18:25,170 being here today. 478 00:18:25,170 --> 00:18:26,540 [Lisa] And being back together 479 00:18:26,540 --> 00:18:27,600 -after a few months. -Finally. 480 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,000 And we have so much to catch up on. 481 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,140 -We have a lot to talk about. -Oh, my God. 482 00:18:31,140 --> 00:18:32,740 -A lot. -Oh, my God. 483 00:18:32,740 --> 00:18:34,640 We're done with this. We might have to order another one. 484 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:35,900 Yeah, I'll come and... I won't even ask. 485 00:18:35,900 --> 00:18:37,070 -I'll be here. -All right, thank you. 486 00:18:37,070 --> 00:18:38,340 -I'll be back. -[Lisa] Oh, my gosh. 487 00:18:38,340 --> 00:18:41,140 You are going to Lilah's ballet recital? 488 00:18:41,140 --> 00:18:43,600 -Yeah, I'm very excited. -'Cause I saw Tori post 489 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,440 and she was practicing and she was pointing her toes. 490 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:47,700 Oh, my gosh. 491 00:18:47,700 --> 00:18:49,140 And it was so sweet. 492 00:18:49,140 --> 00:18:51,170 Yeah, I'm excited to go see that. 493 00:18:51,170 --> 00:18:54,040 All right, so let's get down to the heavy-duty. 494 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:55,370 Oh, like what? 495 00:18:55,370 --> 00:18:56,670 Matt and Caryn are engaged. 496 00:18:56,670 --> 00:18:58,570 -I know. What the heck? -Oh, my God. 497 00:18:58,570 --> 00:19:01,170 Well, to me, you know, when he texted me, 498 00:19:01,170 --> 00:19:03,670 "Oh, I thought you guys would be the first to know," 499 00:19:03,670 --> 00:19:05,000 you know, Chris and I, 500 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,970 I'm like, "Why?" 501 00:19:07,970 --> 00:19:10,100 Why would I be the first to know? But anyway. 502 00:19:10,100 --> 00:19:13,400 Um... But I said, "Hey. Great. It's about time." 503 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:14,870 -Mmm. -You know, like... 504 00:19:14,870 --> 00:19:16,470 You knew it was gonna come. 505 00:19:16,470 --> 00:19:19,370 But it wasn't this, like, surprise. 506 00:19:19,370 --> 00:19:21,540 -[Deb] Yes. Yeah. -You know what I mean? 507 00:19:21,540 --> 00:19:23,170 [Deb] Exactly. 508 00:19:23,170 --> 00:19:25,070 Was it, um, romantic? 509 00:19:25,070 --> 00:19:26,700 -How did he propose? -I have no idea. 510 00:19:26,700 --> 00:19:29,540 I don't wanna hear it. I don't know those details. 511 00:19:29,540 --> 00:19:31,370 But her ring's nice. 512 00:19:31,370 --> 00:19:32,840 I mean, it would be a ring that, 513 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,070 you know, I could see Matt getting. 514 00:19:34,070 --> 00:19:36,240 I wouldn't think of anything less. 515 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:37,640 But did you hear what happened? 516 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,170 -[Deb] What? -Tell you this. 517 00:19:39,170 --> 00:19:41,470 -What? -Give me the scoop. 518 00:19:41,470 --> 00:19:43,600 [Amy] No, it was kinda... I don't even know why. 519 00:19:44,340 --> 00:19:45,700 After I saw the ring or something, 520 00:19:45,700 --> 00:19:47,200 like, a week later or something like that, 521 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:49,170 I had this really weird dream 522 00:19:49,170 --> 00:19:50,570 that I lost my ring 523 00:19:50,570 --> 00:19:51,740 or all the diamonds popped 524 00:19:51,740 --> 00:19:52,870 out of it and stuff like that. 525 00:19:52,870 --> 00:19:54,740 -What? -Chris panicked. 526 00:19:54,740 --> 00:19:57,170 -Whoa. -I wonder what it means. 527 00:19:57,170 --> 00:19:58,840 I don't know. 528 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,570 Because she said her stone fell out. 529 00:20:01,570 --> 00:20:04,070 But I'm wondering if it was more towards 530 00:20:04,070 --> 00:20:06,040 Matt and Caryn. Like, maybe her... 531 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:07,770 -She's done with Matt. -They're... Yeah. 532 00:20:07,770 --> 00:20:08,970 Which I know, emotionally, 533 00:20:08,970 --> 00:20:10,770 -she's been done for a long time. -It's like, let it go. 534 00:20:10,770 --> 00:20:13,100 -Move on. -Yeah, let Matt move on. 535 00:20:13,100 --> 00:20:16,170 Yes. I think that might be part of it. 536 00:20:16,170 --> 00:20:17,900 -Yeah. But that was weird. -Who knows? 537 00:20:17,900 --> 00:20:20,670 -That's weird. So weird. -Weird. 538 00:20:20,670 --> 00:20:22,540 Will she sell her house 539 00:20:22,540 --> 00:20:24,500 -and move into the house? -I have no idea. 540 00:20:24,500 --> 00:20:26,670 That's something she's gotta decide, and... 541 00:20:26,670 --> 00:20:28,470 -'Cause I saw that he's building... -Mmm-hmm. 542 00:20:28,470 --> 00:20:30,100 -...on the property. -Yeah. 543 00:20:30,100 --> 00:20:31,700 A huge house. 544 00:20:31,700 --> 00:20:34,670 -Why so big? -I have no idea. 545 00:20:34,670 --> 00:20:38,500 Well, take a step back. It's Matt. 546 00:20:38,500 --> 00:20:42,000 -[Amy] It is Matt and, you know, he likes big. -He loves everything grande. 547 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,700 [Lisa] How does it change the dynamic on the farm, like, when you go there 548 00:20:45,700 --> 00:20:48,000 and see all of a sudden this big house there? 549 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,770 -Does it feel weird to you, or... -[Amy] Well... 550 00:20:51,870 --> 00:20:53,270 ...it's like a whole different lifetime. 551 00:20:54,670 --> 00:20:56,240 You know, it feels empty. 552 00:20:56,900 --> 00:20:58,740 There's no life to it. 553 00:20:58,740 --> 00:21:01,500 This could have been, like, the next generation. 554 00:21:01,500 --> 00:21:03,300 -You tried to make that happen. -[Amy] You know... 555 00:21:03,300 --> 00:21:04,470 ...I did the best I could. 556 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:11,370 My boys have moved on, but it just saddens me that the family's broken. 557 00:21:11,370 --> 00:21:13,500 When a family goes through a major event 558 00:21:13,500 --> 00:21:15,870 like Matt and I getting divorced, 559 00:21:15,870 --> 00:21:18,440 and then the farm not working out, or anything like that, 560 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,140 yeah, you do feel like something has broke. 561 00:21:21,140 --> 00:21:22,470 But you have a choice. 562 00:21:22,470 --> 00:21:24,270 How long do you leave it broken? 563 00:21:24,270 --> 00:21:27,470 Or is there a way to help heal it? 564 00:21:27,470 --> 00:21:28,640 That will take time. 565 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,340 Oh, Trent's gonna come. 566 00:21:30,940 --> 00:21:32,640 I gave him an invite today. 567 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,370 We're talking about the fundraiser now 568 00:21:34,370 --> 00:21:36,800 -that I'm not going to be able to attend. -Yeah. Why? 569 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,770 Because Amy chose to do it when I'm gone. 570 00:21:39,770 --> 00:21:41,940 -Amy's got this. I already know. -I know. 571 00:21:41,940 --> 00:21:42,900 -You won't-- -We've been 572 00:21:42,900 --> 00:21:44,100 -We talked about it. -talking about things 573 00:21:44,100 --> 00:21:45,400 -and she's got it. -You're in charge, right? 574 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:46,970 How do you feel about that? 575 00:21:46,970 --> 00:21:49,170 I was a little leery of doing this, you know, with Matt. 576 00:21:50,140 --> 00:21:52,640 -And? -I pretty much told everyone. 577 00:21:53,470 --> 00:21:54,840 [Lisa] Yeah, what did you tell them? 578 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,570 I'm in charge. 579 00:21:56,570 --> 00:21:59,840 -You did? -Whether this succeeds, it falls on all of us. 580 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,970 Whether this fails, then it falls on me. 581 00:22:01,970 --> 00:22:03,700 -Chris helping with... -So this is what I need us to do. 582 00:22:03,700 --> 00:22:05,800 -Is he helping with being in charge? -[Amy] Oh, he is. 583 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,700 He is being very good. 584 00:22:07,700 --> 00:22:09,900 Chris and Matt are completely different people. 585 00:22:09,900 --> 00:22:12,000 Working with Chris is a whole lot different. 586 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,470 The one thing I love about Chris is that, 587 00:22:13,470 --> 00:22:15,370 you know, he was willing at bat. 588 00:22:15,370 --> 00:22:16,840 He said, "Yeah, great idea." 589 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,840 It is nice. It is refreshing. 590 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:24,140 Matt definitely is used to being in control or overseeing the farm. 591 00:22:24,140 --> 00:22:25,800 Now he's in a support role, 592 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:29,300 it's gonna be interesting to see how he handles that. 593 00:22:29,300 --> 00:22:31,300 I will help you decorate, I will help you... 594 00:22:31,300 --> 00:22:34,140 [Amy] I kind of put Caryn in charge of decoration. 595 00:22:34,140 --> 00:22:35,170 We will help... 596 00:22:35,170 --> 00:22:37,070 -[Lisa laughs] -...but she's very good at that, 597 00:22:37,070 --> 00:22:38,900 -she really is. -So am I. 598 00:22:38,900 --> 00:22:40,270 [Amy] I know. 599 00:22:40,270 --> 00:22:42,970 I will work with Caryn, whatever decorations. 600 00:22:42,970 --> 00:22:44,670 I've got a lot to bring to the table. 601 00:22:44,670 --> 00:22:47,000 -She has a lot of decorations. -I have a lot of decorations. 602 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,540 I hope it goes well. 603 00:22:48,540 --> 00:22:50,540 -I pray for you. -Thank you. 604 00:22:50,540 --> 00:22:52,370 [laughs] 605 00:22:52,370 --> 00:22:54,640 And call me if Amy gets... 606 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:58,740 Because I'm telling you things are not gonna go smoothly, 607 00:22:58,740 --> 00:23:02,340 not because of her, but things are gonna come up 608 00:23:02,340 --> 00:23:05,870 -and you need to have her back. -[Deb] Okay. All right. 609 00:23:05,870 --> 00:23:08,870 [Lisa] Am I gonna have to fly home for the weekend? 610 00:23:08,870 --> 00:23:10,900 -[Deb] Please. -[Lisa laughs] 611 00:23:10,900 --> 00:23:11,940 -[Deb] Yes. -[Amy] I don't know. 612 00:23:19,770 --> 00:23:21,170 Hey, where are we? 613 00:23:22,940 --> 00:23:24,170 Are we at sleep study? 614 00:23:30,140 --> 00:23:31,540 Are you gonna be brave? 615 00:23:31,540 --> 00:23:32,940 -Yeah. -Yeah. 616 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,600 Look at all those wires that they're gonna put on you. 617 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,170 [Lilah] 618 00:23:38,170 --> 00:23:40,270 All right, you want to keep watching your movie? 619 00:23:40,740 --> 00:23:41,870 Yeah. 620 00:23:41,870 --> 00:23:43,140 Are they gonna hook you up soon? 621 00:23:44,540 --> 00:23:45,440 All right. 622 00:23:52,100 --> 00:23:54,500 [Jackson] 623 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,600 I think Dad and Lilah will be back 624 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,600 before you and I even think about getting up, 625 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,100 especially if you stay up late. 626 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,900 Okay, yeah, I didn't really want that. 627 00:24:05,900 --> 00:24:08,840 [Tori] While Zach is at Lilah's sleep study, I'm at home with the boys. 628 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,070 Si is already sleeping, and Jackson and I are having a movie night. 629 00:24:13,070 --> 00:24:15,400 You checking yourself out in the mirror, dude? 630 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:17,100 [chuckles] 631 00:24:17,770 --> 00:24:19,270 No, don't laugh while you do it. 632 00:24:21,540 --> 00:24:22,800 [laughs] 633 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,940 -That was very good. [chuckles] -[laughs] 634 00:24:25,940 --> 00:24:27,300 [Tori]I was definitely nervous 635 00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:29,570 because I texted him, you know, "How's it going" 636 00:24:29,570 --> 00:24:30,940 and I still hadn't heard from him. 637 00:24:30,940 --> 00:24:33,800 So I was a little nervous of about what was going on. 638 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,640 I 100% was assuming, like, she's crying, 639 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,100 they're holding her down to the bed, 640 00:24:38,100 --> 00:24:40,540 they're strapping her arms, they're strapping her legs. 641 00:24:40,540 --> 00:24:41,440 Just, like, yep. 642 00:24:42,470 --> 00:24:44,340 -Can you pause it, J? -[cell phone rings] 643 00:24:45,770 --> 00:24:48,240 -Hi. Hey, come sit with me. -[Zach] Hi. 644 00:24:49,470 --> 00:24:51,070 How's it going? 645 00:24:51,070 --> 00:24:54,470 -[Zach] It's going great. Lilah did so good. -[gasps] 646 00:24:54,470 --> 00:24:58,270 -Wow. She did good? -Uh-huh. She did great. 647 00:24:58,940 --> 00:25:01,600 -Hi, sis. -What does, hey, Dad? 648 00:25:08,670 --> 00:25:11,900 She has to have testing. That tests her CO2. 649 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,340 [Tori] Ohh. 650 00:25:13,340 --> 00:25:14,340 [Zach] So, yeah, but, uh... 651 00:25:15,370 --> 00:25:16,740 I know. Were we wrong? 652 00:25:16,740 --> 00:25:18,040 Yeah. 653 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:19,600 [Zach] Jackson, Lilah wants you to see this. 654 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,940 [gasps] Oh, they did put one on her foot. 655 00:25:22,940 --> 00:25:25,200 It's like a little toe bean. 656 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,370 Lailee, you did so good, girl. 657 00:25:29,370 --> 00:25:32,700 I was super stoked to see Lilah with everything on, 658 00:25:32,700 --> 00:25:36,770 and she was calm and not terrified. 659 00:25:37,500 --> 00:25:38,500 It was awesome to see. 660 00:25:38,500 --> 00:25:41,670 -How are you doing, sis? -Good. 661 00:25:41,670 --> 00:25:43,500 You're such a big brave girl. 662 00:25:44,270 --> 00:25:45,500 And no crying? 663 00:25:46,570 --> 00:25:47,940 -Yeah. -[gasps] 664 00:25:47,940 --> 00:25:50,670 I'm so proud of you, Lilah. 665 00:25:50,670 --> 00:25:52,440 [Zach] We need her to lay down now. 666 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,740 [Tori] Okay. I love you. 667 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,800 All right, we're going to go bye bye. 668 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,440 -Bye. -Love you. 669 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,240 -Thank you, babe, for doing that. -[Zach] All right, bye bye. 670 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,070 [Tori] I love you, Lilah. 671 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:05,540 Good job, babe. 672 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,970 She didn't cry. 673 00:26:12,270 --> 00:26:14,140 I thought she was gonna freak out. 674 00:26:14,970 --> 00:26:17,170 -She's so good, dude. -Yeah. 675 00:26:17,170 --> 00:26:19,370 Our sister's so good. 676 00:26:19,370 --> 00:26:21,770 We got all the stuff on her and she's been great so far, 677 00:26:21,770 --> 00:26:24,070 but, you know, we still need her to keep all the stuff on 678 00:26:24,070 --> 00:26:26,400 throughout the night to get the right data. 679 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,870 So we still potentially have a long night ahead of us. 680 00:26:29,500 --> 00:26:30,840 We need her to sleep though. 681 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,870 The next day she has her last dance practice before her recital, 682 00:26:34,870 --> 00:26:37,270 and so that's important to go to. 683 00:26:37,270 --> 00:26:41,300 -Do you think that Lilah's gonna sleep all night tonight? -Oh, yeah. 684 00:26:41,300 --> 00:26:43,100 -You think she will? -Yeah. 685 00:26:43,100 --> 00:26:45,240 She's kind of proven us wrong. I think she will. 686 00:26:46,270 --> 00:26:47,370 [Jackson] Oh, yeah. 687 00:26:57,340 --> 00:26:59,470 [Zach] Where's those new toys that you got? 688 00:26:59,470 --> 00:27:01,840 -[Tori] You got a new toy? -She was very helpful. 689 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,070 -Can I see your elephant? -[Zach] We got an elephant. 690 00:27:05,070 --> 00:27:10,040 -[gasps] Aww. That's so cute. -But, but, but I want you to see this. 691 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,840 Lilah did so well. 692 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,770 She didn't pull out her air thing once. 693 00:27:15,770 --> 00:27:18,040 -[laughs] -That's really good. 694 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:19,500 [Zach] The nurse never had to come in 695 00:27:19,500 --> 00:27:23,000 -because she, like, yanked something or... -[Tori] Good job, Lilah Ray. 696 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,900 Did you do good or bad? 697 00:27:26,670 --> 00:27:28,640 Good. You did so good. 698 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:30,270 Did you have to, like, pep talk her then 699 00:27:30,270 --> 00:27:32,470 -once you got her to the room? -I pep talked her the whole time. 700 00:27:33,570 --> 00:27:34,770 I prepped her lot by saying, 701 00:27:34,770 --> 00:27:36,300 "You're gonna get stickers on your face, 702 00:27:36,300 --> 00:27:38,100 lots of tape, lots of wires." 703 00:27:38,100 --> 00:27:41,540 I think that helped a little bit. She at least saw it coming. 704 00:27:41,540 --> 00:27:43,900 -Did you sleep in the same bed as daddy? -Yeah. 705 00:27:43,900 --> 00:27:45,770 You got to have a sleepover? 706 00:27:46,300 --> 00:27:48,070 That's so fun. 707 00:27:48,070 --> 00:27:52,070 Lilah's test came back and she has a moderate form of sleep apnea. 708 00:27:52,070 --> 00:27:54,040 [Tori]She's probably gonna need her tonsils taken out, 709 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,970 and then supposedly after that the apnea goes away. 710 00:27:57,770 --> 00:27:59,200 Lilah can do anything now. 711 00:27:59,940 --> 00:28:01,900 I had my doubts about the recital, 712 00:28:01,900 --> 00:28:04,300 but now I'm kind of like, "Maybe she actually will do it." 713 00:28:04,300 --> 00:28:05,500 [Tori] Lilah. 714 00:28:05,500 --> 00:28:06,770 [Tori] What are you gonna do at dance? 715 00:28:07,700 --> 00:28:10,440 Yay! [laughs] 716 00:28:11,700 --> 00:28:14,240 -[woman] Coming up... -[Alyssa] Hello, friends. Come on in. 717 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,540 Let's go! 718 00:28:15,540 --> 00:28:17,100 Let's go do some dancing. 719 00:28:17,100 --> 00:28:20,870 [Alyssa] One, two, three, four. 720 00:28:20,870 --> 00:28:22,600 Good job. 721 00:28:25,870 --> 00:28:27,600 Uh... 722 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,970 -Clunky, slow. -[laughs] Clueless. 723 00:28:29,970 --> 00:28:31,240 Clueless. [chuckles] 724 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,100 [Alyssa] Stand on up for me, Miss Lilah. 725 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:34,770 What's in there? 726 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,300 All right, ready? Can you go find your spot? 727 00:28:53,300 --> 00:28:56,170 Yeah, you show me where you want to take your shoes off. 728 00:28:56,170 --> 00:28:59,070 [Tori] Lilah has her dance class today and she really loves it. 729 00:28:59,070 --> 00:29:01,670 Lilah has a dance recital coming up in a little under a week, 730 00:29:01,670 --> 00:29:04,070 and so this is them getting ready for it. 731 00:29:04,070 --> 00:29:07,340 Yeah, we're super excited for Lilah's upcoming recital. 732 00:29:07,340 --> 00:29:10,540 And then Tori's mom and my mom will be attending also. 733 00:29:10,540 --> 00:29:12,670 -So all the grannies. -All the grandmas. 734 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,700 That one feel good? 735 00:29:15,700 --> 00:29:17,870 -[Lilah] -Okay, and then this one? 736 00:29:17,870 --> 00:29:19,340 Is it this part that bothers? 737 00:29:19,340 --> 00:29:21,740 My mom and your mom love watching the whole dance. 738 00:29:21,740 --> 00:29:23,200 They love all that girly stuff. 739 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,370 I think my mom enjoys it. 740 00:29:24,370 --> 00:29:26,740 She had us three boys, and Molly was more 741 00:29:26,740 --> 00:29:28,870 -she wanted to hang out with us brothers. -Yeah. 742 00:29:28,870 --> 00:29:32,170 -And so I think she's kinda getting a kick out of it all. -It's fun. 743 00:29:32,170 --> 00:29:33,940 -Is that better? -Yeah. 744 00:29:33,940 --> 00:29:35,640 [Tori] I don't know if she likes dancing, 745 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,070 -but she loves the tutus... -[Zach] Yeah. 746 00:29:38,070 --> 00:29:40,100 -...she likes the pink... -All the girls, yeah. 747 00:29:40,100 --> 00:29:42,740 -She likes with all the girls and... -...and the girls, and yeah. 748 00:29:42,740 --> 00:29:44,600 -Just something fun to do. -Yeah. 749 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,240 -It's her time. -And she loves her teacher. 750 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:47,800 -Like, she really loves her teacher -Yeah. 751 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,400 and I think that helps a lot 752 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,740 because it just has given her confidence 753 00:29:50,740 --> 00:29:53,300 to walk into that room every week and do it. 754 00:29:54,270 --> 00:29:56,240 Hello, friends. 755 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:57,940 Are we ready for class? 756 00:29:57,940 --> 00:30:00,300 -Yeah! -Yeah? Come on in. 757 00:30:00,300 --> 00:30:03,040 Let's go. Let's go do some dancing. 758 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:08,500 [Alyssa] We're gonna tap our toe now. 759 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,340 Stand on up for me, Miss Lilah. 760 00:30:12,070 --> 00:30:13,200 What's in there? 761 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,100 Oh, I see. 762 00:30:15,100 --> 00:30:16,040 Ready? 763 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:17,140 [Tori] The place that we're at 764 00:30:17,140 --> 00:30:19,040 has been so accommodating to Lilah 765 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,540 because they've figured out a way 766 00:30:20,540 --> 00:30:22,570 to put a bar down below for Lilah 767 00:30:22,570 --> 00:30:24,200 so she can still participate. 768 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,570 All better? 769 00:30:25,570 --> 00:30:26,670 [Alyssa] Yeah. All better. 770 00:30:26,670 --> 00:30:29,400 [Tori] They've just done an amazing job. 771 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:30,700 [woman] 772 00:30:31,140 --> 00:30:32,070 [woman laughs] 773 00:30:32,070 --> 00:30:33,270 All right, take those toes. 774 00:30:33,270 --> 00:30:34,770 We're gonna do our pizza toes. 775 00:30:34,770 --> 00:30:35,770 And we're gonna tap. 776 00:30:35,770 --> 00:30:38,570 We go wipe and close. 777 00:30:38,570 --> 00:30:42,640 Wipe and close. Wipe and close. 778 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,770 Wipe and close. 779 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,370 Uh... 780 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,900 -Clunky, slow. -[laughs] 781 00:30:53,900 --> 00:30:55,900 -Clueless. [laughs] -Clueless. [chuckles] 782 00:30:55,900 --> 00:31:00,240 [Alyssa] One, two, three, four. 783 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,000 [Tori] I mean, some of those girls that are in her class, 784 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,940 I'm like, "That girl is gonna be a dancer." 785 00:31:03,940 --> 00:31:07,040 She's, like, long legs, pointed toe, all the things. 786 00:31:07,700 --> 00:31:10,200 But then Lilah, she's...I... 787 00:31:11,170 --> 00:31:12,370 I don't know if she's a dancer. 788 00:31:12,370 --> 00:31:14,000 [laughing] We'll see. 789 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,040 We're gonna go right here. Fabulous. 790 00:31:18,770 --> 00:31:19,940 Right over this way. 791 00:31:19,940 --> 00:31:21,700 We're gonna stretch those arms 792 00:31:21,700 --> 00:31:22,770 and put that toe out. 793 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,670 Run, run, run. Go, Lilah. 794 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:32,540 One, two, three, four, 795 00:31:33,300 --> 00:31:35,470 and five. 796 00:31:35,470 --> 00:31:37,670 Nice job. Come give me a high five. 797 00:31:40,340 --> 00:31:42,440 That was awesome. 798 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,140 I think it turned out to be a really good class for Lilah 799 00:31:45,140 --> 00:31:46,970 just because the girls are very calm. 800 00:31:46,970 --> 00:31:49,400 -They're older so it's not as chaotic. -Yeah. 801 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:54,270 And I think that if the class had been chaotic she wouldn't have lasted. 802 00:31:54,270 --> 00:31:55,940 And then structure I feel like, too, was... 803 00:31:55,940 --> 00:31:59,840 -Ms. Alyssa has been the most patient human. -Yeah. 804 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:01,170 Hey, I got a question. 805 00:32:01,170 --> 00:32:03,800 -Can we go put on our pretty costumes -Yeah! 806 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,770 and dance in our pretty costumes? 807 00:32:06,770 --> 00:32:10,540 The recital's coming up and I have very low expectations. 808 00:32:10,540 --> 00:32:13,500 -[Zach] If she gets out there I'm gonna be happy. -[Tori] Oh, yeah. 809 00:32:13,500 --> 00:32:15,500 But I'm nervous that she's simply not. 810 00:32:15,500 --> 00:32:19,100 -She's gonna be like, "Nope, I'm not doing that." -I, I, I really, oh. 811 00:32:19,100 --> 00:32:21,540 It's so hard because we doubted her with the sleep study, 812 00:32:21,540 --> 00:32:22,740 and it's like... 813 00:32:22,740 --> 00:32:24,070 -She killed it with the sleep study. -I just look at her 814 00:32:24,070 --> 00:32:26,170 and I'm like, "She's not gonna do it." 815 00:32:26,170 --> 00:32:30,740 I have very low expectations of her going out on the stage and doing it. 816 00:32:30,740 --> 00:32:35,800 Here we go. First, fifth. Open, down. 817 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:40,770 Other arm. First, fifth. Open, down. 818 00:32:40,770 --> 00:32:43,170 Round and round. 819 00:32:43,170 --> 00:32:45,840 -[woman] Mom's gonna be... -[Tori] Oh, my gosh, stop. I'm gonna cry. 820 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:49,640 [Tori] Are you kidding me? I literally cannot. 821 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:54,200 Lilah's not great with transitions or, like, new things, right? 822 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,070 She's not, with the unknown she gets uncomfortable. 823 00:32:57,070 --> 00:32:59,900 So, like, doing things for the first time. 824 00:32:59,900 --> 00:33:02,940 And she could totally surprise me, and she could rock it, 825 00:33:02,940 --> 00:33:05,570 but I just have a feeling it's not gonna be easy. 826 00:33:05,570 --> 00:33:08,540 It's just gonna be nerve-wracking for her, but... 827 00:33:08,540 --> 00:33:10,470 -It's gonna be very dramatic. -Yeah. 828 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,670 [Alyssa] Open, down. And we twinkle. 829 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,500 Good job. 830 00:33:18,500 --> 00:33:19,970 [mouthing] No. 831 00:33:21,070 --> 00:33:24,470 I'm gonna glue them on to her feet for the performance. 832 00:33:26,300 --> 00:33:27,900 [Alyssa] I think usually it's the parents 833 00:33:27,900 --> 00:33:31,700 that are more nervous beforehand for the performance. 834 00:33:31,700 --> 00:33:35,700 And the kids don't usually get nervous until they get to the location 835 00:33:35,700 --> 00:33:38,370 because we don't have our performances here at the dance studio. 836 00:33:38,370 --> 00:33:40,440 We have them at a local theatre. 837 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,270 And so when we get to the theatre 838 00:33:42,270 --> 00:33:44,440 that's when the kids then go, "Oh, wait a minute. 839 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:45,800 Mom, you said I'm going to dance. 840 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,440 This does not look like dance." 841 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,570 [Alyssa] Oh, beautiful. Now we get to sleep again. 842 00:33:52,940 --> 00:33:55,500 They're so cute. 843 00:33:55,500 --> 00:33:58,440 -[Alyssa] Awesome. -[chuckles] 844 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,340 [Alyssa] Let's take our princess costumes 845 00:34:00,340 --> 00:34:04,300 and walk like princess all the way to our grownups. 846 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:09,739 Are you gonna cry? 847 00:34:11,469 --> 00:34:13,540 A little bit? You'll just cry a little bit? 848 00:34:13,540 --> 00:34:15,170 -Yeah. -Say, "No cry." 849 00:34:15,170 --> 00:34:16,699 -No cry. -No cry. 850 00:34:16,699 --> 00:34:18,540 There's no crying in dance. 851 00:34:18,540 --> 00:34:20,570 -No cry dance. -There we go. 852 00:34:20,570 --> 00:34:23,770 Beautiful job, princesses. 853 00:34:24,639 --> 00:34:25,600 [woman] Coming up... 854 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,199 Maybe if we start just with how, Amy, 855 00:34:28,199 --> 00:34:31,139 you see, like, a rough itinerary. 856 00:34:31,139 --> 00:34:33,969 -I will work on that, but-- -Arrival, drinks. 857 00:34:33,969 --> 00:34:37,100 -And where do we want to set the bar? -I will work on that. 858 00:34:37,100 --> 00:34:39,770 [Caryn] Do I think I'll see an itinerary prior to the event? 859 00:34:39,770 --> 00:34:41,739 I would probably say no. 860 00:34:41,739 --> 00:34:46,540 Caryn's very list-driven. Amy's a little bit more haphazard, you know? 861 00:34:46,540 --> 00:34:49,639 She established right up front, "I want to be in charge." 862 00:34:49,639 --> 00:34:54,840 So whatever happens is fine. It's on her shoulders. [laughs] 863 00:35:08,670 --> 00:35:10,370 [Amy] This morning she was kind of whimpering, 864 00:35:10,370 --> 00:35:12,640 and I'm like, "Gosh, why are you whimpering?" 865 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,970 And then I thought, "Aw, crap." 866 00:35:14,970 --> 00:35:17,840 -The door was shut, the doggy door. -Ohh. 867 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,770 And so then I started looking all around... 868 00:35:19,770 --> 00:35:22,500 -...but I didn't see anything. -Did you see? Wow. 869 00:35:22,500 --> 00:35:25,070 Well, I think then that means she's officially potty trained. 870 00:35:25,070 --> 00:35:26,800 I think we can put that gate away. 871 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:27,970 It's a beautiful day. 872 00:35:27,970 --> 00:35:29,400 We're here at the farm to take Daisy for walk 873 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:30,640 and then to chat with Matt and Caryn 874 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,170 about the fundraiser coming up. 875 00:35:32,170 --> 00:35:34,500 [Amy]It's only, like, in six weeks, 876 00:35:34,500 --> 00:35:36,440 but, you know, like any challenge, 877 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,600 the fundraiser is, you know, there's always stuff to do. 878 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:44,100 I'm hoping to, you know, come up with a rough itinerary of how I see it, 879 00:35:44,100 --> 00:35:48,670 get their input and, you know, see what everyone else thinks. 880 00:35:48,670 --> 00:35:51,070 -[Matt] Hey, guys. How you guys doing? -[Caryn] Hello. 881 00:35:51,070 --> 00:35:52,500 -[Chris] Good. -[Amy] It's a gorgeous day. 882 00:35:52,500 --> 00:35:53,870 -Yeah. -Hello. 883 00:35:53,870 --> 00:35:56,140 It's kind of, it's a little cooler than I thought. 884 00:35:56,140 --> 00:36:00,070 [Chris] And you got a little trench running down your road here. 885 00:36:00,070 --> 00:36:04,700 [Matt] We're gonna put a big old irrigation pipe right where that is. 886 00:36:04,700 --> 00:36:06,900 -So we'll end up putting rocks or something over it. -Oh. 887 00:36:06,900 --> 00:36:08,040 -Oh, okay. -[Matt] Yeah. 888 00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:09,370 [Caryn] What's new with you guys? 889 00:36:09,370 --> 00:36:11,040 Did you ever decide on that house you looked at? 890 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,640 In the end I don't think we can afford to live there 891 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,370 because it would just, the monthly maintenance 892 00:36:15,370 --> 00:36:16,570 -would be so high. -[Matt] Yeah. 893 00:36:17,170 --> 00:36:18,240 Believe me, I get it. 894 00:36:18,240 --> 00:36:20,170 I mean, it's okay. We like our house. 895 00:36:20,170 --> 00:36:21,740 -But, you know, we've got time to wait -It's all right. 896 00:36:21,740 --> 00:36:23,470 and for the right deal coming up. 897 00:36:23,470 --> 00:36:25,400 Yeah, and just like we were talking about the other day. 898 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,240 I mean, I'm open to finding something that's gonna be a fixer. 899 00:36:28,240 --> 00:36:29,540 As long as it has the right footprint. 900 00:36:29,540 --> 00:36:30,900 -[Matt] Yeah, yeah. -[Caryn] Right. 901 00:36:30,900 --> 00:36:32,300 [Chris] Mmm. 902 00:36:32,300 --> 00:36:34,640 Well, the fundraiser will be coming down the pipe 903 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,470 -pretty quick here. -[Amy] Yeah. 904 00:36:36,470 --> 00:36:39,340 I think the biggest thing is just, you know, trying to, you know... 905 00:36:39,340 --> 00:36:40,870 -...if we can get at least 40 people there -Yeah. 906 00:36:40,870 --> 00:36:42,270 that would be great. 907 00:36:42,270 --> 00:36:45,070 -[Amy] But, um... -[Chris] My poker buddy is building a potting table. 908 00:36:45,070 --> 00:36:48,070 And then we've got, oh, we stopped at Scotch Church Winery 909 00:36:48,070 --> 00:36:50,100 and they're donating a nice basket for us. 910 00:36:50,100 --> 00:36:52,400 -Ohh. -[Amy] I still got to go to some restaurants 911 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,100 to kind of build that up. 912 00:36:54,100 --> 00:36:55,600 [Caryn] We've got a lot of RSVPs 913 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,100 but we haven't done real well on our auction items. 914 00:36:58,100 --> 00:36:59,800 -So we'll have to give... -[Chris] Yeah. 915 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:04,070 I know we're gonna do a big, we'll do a Roloff farm basket with t-shirts, and hats... 916 00:37:04,070 --> 00:37:05,700 -...and maybe, you know... -Oh, yeah. 917 00:37:05,700 --> 00:37:07,540 ...a dozen pumpkin season tickets or something. 918 00:37:07,540 --> 00:37:09,340 -Oh, there you go. -[gasps] A private tour by Chris Marek. 919 00:37:09,340 --> 00:37:12,240 [all laugh] 920 00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:14,300 I'd be curious to see how many tickets get thrown 921 00:37:14,300 --> 00:37:15,870 -into that bucket. -[Matt] Yeah. 922 00:37:15,870 --> 00:37:19,800 Now, ladies and gentlemen, we have a very special guest. 923 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,000 Gonna be offered by a very special person. 924 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,770 Everybody will be looking around going, "Who? Who?" 925 00:37:25,770 --> 00:37:27,140 [all laugh] 926 00:37:27,140 --> 00:37:28,540 You guys get the people there. 927 00:37:28,540 --> 00:37:30,470 We'll have some silent auction items. 928 00:37:30,470 --> 00:37:34,400 The auction items, yeah, at the time they may not have, you know, 929 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,170 come up with a few more than I was hoping... 930 00:37:37,170 --> 00:37:39,570 -...but they're bringing in people -[Chris] Mmm. 931 00:37:39,570 --> 00:37:41,270 and that's just as important. 932 00:37:41,270 --> 00:37:43,100 So we're bringing in more auction items 933 00:37:43,100 --> 00:37:46,240 but they're bringing in probably a lot more people than what we are. 934 00:37:46,240 --> 00:37:51,200 He's also getting a whole barn ready for us to host this event. 935 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,100 Matt's got a pretty fully plate. 936 00:37:53,100 --> 00:37:57,970 -We're both doing our part to help make it go well. -Mmm-hmm. Mmm. 937 00:37:57,970 --> 00:37:59,740 I think I sent this to you, maybe not, 938 00:37:59,740 --> 00:38:01,700 but the menu, like, do you guys care? 939 00:38:01,700 --> 00:38:03,600 I kind of want to tweak it though. 940 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:07,170 Cheeseburger and bacon sliders and blue cheese and bacon sliders. 941 00:38:07,170 --> 00:38:08,500 -That's probably because... -Now that sounds good. 942 00:38:08,500 --> 00:38:11,040 [Amy] Homemade potato salad, garden Greek salad, 943 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,670 fresh fruit, baked beans, 944 00:38:12,670 --> 00:38:15,400 -and a berry crisp à la mode. -Mmm. 945 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:16,600 -[Chris] Sounds good. -I'm in. 946 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,040 -Can we go over and sample lunch? -[Chris] Yeah, I know. 947 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,700 [Amy]We're doing a Western theme. 948 00:38:19,700 --> 00:38:21,100 We've already got the caterer lined up. 949 00:38:21,100 --> 00:38:23,400 I've got to tweak the menu a little bit. 950 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:28,170 I wanted it more like a barbecue, like you're around a campfire, 951 00:38:28,170 --> 00:38:29,740 you know, that kind of thing. 952 00:38:29,740 --> 00:38:31,040 I've got a bartender there 953 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,200 because we'll just have one signature drink. 954 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,640 We're not gonna have a slew of liquor. 955 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,470 It's gonna be beer and wine and just one, like, signature drink. 956 00:38:38,470 --> 00:38:39,900 Like what we did for our wedding, right? 957 00:38:39,900 --> 00:38:42,170 -Some sort of vodka-based drink. -Yeah. 958 00:38:42,170 --> 00:38:45,040 So maybe if we start just with we can think, 959 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:46,600 okay, where do we want tables 960 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,900 -and where do we want to set the bar? -I will work on that. 961 00:38:48,900 --> 00:38:51,970 -[Caryn] Okay. -Pretty much 4 to 7 is all about the fundraiser. 962 00:38:51,970 --> 00:38:53,600 6:30 we'll start music. 963 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,100 -Okay. -[Amy] You know, once this gets closer 964 00:38:55,100 --> 00:38:58,640 I can also do a follow-up, I think, email 965 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,740 -just to give you an idea of what to expect. -Okay. 966 00:39:00,740 --> 00:39:03,000 [Amy] Especially, depending on when we eat. 967 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:08,600 So, you know, we'll have an additional opportunity to give, you know. 968 00:39:09,700 --> 00:39:15,400 Caryn is very list-driven, constantly making a list, 969 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,840 and Amy's a little bit more haphazard, you know, so... 970 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:21,640 Be sure to get plenty of raffle tickets. 971 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,070 And if you really want to challenge someone to a game, 972 00:39:24,070 --> 00:39:25,940 that'll be a raffle ticket item 973 00:39:25,940 --> 00:39:28,700 just so that they know what are raffle ticket items 974 00:39:28,700 --> 00:39:31,370 -and how many silent auction items we have. -Well... 975 00:39:31,370 --> 00:39:33,700 So hopefully they'll be thinking ahead of time. 976 00:39:33,700 --> 00:39:36,470 We're letting go and letting her establish right up front, 977 00:39:36,470 --> 00:39:39,740 "I want to be in charge, I want to be the boss, and it's my event." 978 00:39:39,740 --> 00:39:42,100 And so we're in a supporting role, 979 00:39:42,100 --> 00:39:44,770 and I think, you know, we know that we have a lane. 980 00:39:44,770 --> 00:39:49,370 Whatever happens is fine. It's on her shoulders. [laughs] 981 00:39:50,700 --> 00:39:54,340 So maybe if we start just with how you guys see, 982 00:39:54,340 --> 00:39:58,440 or, Amy, you see, like, a rough itinerary. 983 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:02,770 -I will work on that, but, yep, okay. -[Caryn] Arrival, drinks. 984 00:40:07,900 --> 00:40:10,640 Do I think I'll see an itinerary prior to the event? 985 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,370 I mean, I got a 50/50 shot, 986 00:40:13,370 --> 00:40:17,740 but if I were to put my personal money on it I would probably say no. 987 00:40:17,740 --> 00:40:20,600 -[chuckles softly] -And I'm good with that. 988 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:22,670 [laughs] It is what it is. 989 00:40:22,670 --> 00:40:24,900 -Who needs an itinerary anyway? -She... [laughs] 990 00:40:24,900 --> 00:40:29,400 Being that my nature is to plan events, 991 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:33,540 it's gonna take a little extra effort for me to just let it go, 992 00:40:33,540 --> 00:40:34,440 but I'm gonna work on it. 993 00:40:35,070 --> 00:40:36,900 I'm just working on, you know, 994 00:40:36,900 --> 00:40:41,270 -come the day of the event I might be like, "Ah!" -[laughs] 995 00:40:41,770 --> 00:40:43,540 [Caryn] Okay, bye! 996 00:40:43,540 --> 00:40:44,570 [Amy] Do you want her off the leash? 997 00:40:44,570 --> 00:40:46,240 Yeah, let's give her a chance to run. 998 00:40:46,240 --> 00:40:47,770 She never gets a chance to run. 999 00:40:47,770 --> 00:40:50,540 I think the fundraiser planning is going well, 1000 00:40:50,540 --> 00:40:55,100 but any time you put on a big event like this, I mean, anything can happen. 1001 00:40:55,100 --> 00:40:57,840 So this could go off without a hitch, 1002 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:00,940 or we could definitely have a number of hiccups 1003 00:41:00,940 --> 00:41:06,140 that could make this, you know, very chaotic. 1004 00:41:06,140 --> 00:41:07,140 -I don't know. -We, you know, 1005 00:41:07,140 --> 00:41:08,900 we have a few strong personalities 1006 00:41:08,900 --> 00:41:12,570 -working here that [chuckles] could go in either direction. -Yes. 1007 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,870 [Matt] Next on Little People, Big World... 1008 00:41:16,870 --> 00:41:18,470 I don't remember much. 1009 00:41:18,470 --> 00:41:21,040 I know. You were, like, out. 1010 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,100 [Matt] My esophagus has been acting up a little bit here and there. 1011 00:41:24,100 --> 00:41:26,670 It just feels like the food's not going down properly. 1012 00:41:26,670 --> 00:41:28,700 It just bubbles up like a volcano. 1013 00:41:28,700 --> 00:41:30,270 The doctor said, 1014 00:41:30,270 --> 00:41:33,000 "We're concerned that we may have perforated his esophagus." 1015 00:41:36,340 --> 00:41:37,670 Whoa! 1016 00:41:37,670 --> 00:41:38,700 [Zach]Tonight is the first night 1017 00:41:38,700 --> 00:41:41,040 the entire family's gonna camp out together. 1018 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:42,800 I'm excited. I think it should be fun. 1019 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,270 -A good family memory. -Are you excited? 1020 00:41:44,270 --> 00:41:45,170 I am excited. 1021 00:41:45,170 --> 00:41:46,300 [Tori] Camping in my backyard 1022 00:41:46,300 --> 00:41:48,440 is not my ideal situation. 1023 00:41:50,270 --> 00:41:51,670 [Lilah cries] 1024 00:41:52,940 --> 00:41:56,570 Lilah and the outdoors, she doesn't have the best of luck. 1025 00:41:56,570 --> 00:41:59,000 Can you lay in your bed? Where's your water? 1026 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:00,700 -Get in. -Your little table. 1027 00:42:00,700 --> 00:42:03,600 -[cries] -[Zach chuckles] 1028 00:42:05,740 --> 00:42:07,600 Hello. You got all kinds of stuff. 1029 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:08,800 I got it. 1030 00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,600 [Amy] For me, it's still kind of awkward 1031 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,000 to meet up with Caryn, 1032 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,700 but we're also meeting up with each other 1033 00:42:14,700 --> 00:42:15,600 for a cause. 1034 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,070 We'll get the Bug out. 1035 00:42:17,070 --> 00:42:20,500 Then we could have two check-in booths. 1036 00:42:20,500 --> 00:42:22,240 Maybe a table there and a table there. 1037 00:42:22,240 --> 00:42:25,040 Not that everything that was going on, 1038 00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,570 Matt and I's situation, 1039 00:42:27,570 --> 00:42:29,340 that still doesn't have an impact on me 1040 00:42:29,340 --> 00:42:32,070 because it'll always impact me until the day I die.