1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:03,033 [narrator] Previously on Little People, Big World... 2 00:00:03,067 --> 00:00:04,233 [woman speaking] 3 00:00:07,067 --> 00:00:08,700 Clunky, slow. 4 00:00:08,733 --> 00:00:10,700 -Clueless. -Clueless. 5 00:00:10,733 --> 00:00:13,133 [woman speaking] 6 00:00:13,167 --> 00:00:14,767 I don't know if she's a dancer. 7 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:15,633 We'll see. 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,700 -Matt and Caryn are engaged. -[Amy] I know. 9 00:00:19,733 --> 00:00:21,700 -Oh my God. -What the heck? 10 00:00:21,733 --> 00:00:24,033 How does it change the dynamic on the farm? 11 00:00:24,067 --> 00:00:25,433 Like, when you go there, 12 00:00:25,467 --> 00:00:27,200 does it feel weird to you, or-- 13 00:00:27,233 --> 00:00:29,633 Well, it's like a whole different lifetime. 14 00:00:30,467 --> 00:00:32,299 It feels empty. 15 00:00:32,333 --> 00:00:36,133 So maybe if we start just with a rough itinerary. 16 00:00:36,167 --> 00:00:37,600 I will work on that. 17 00:00:37,633 --> 00:00:40,600 We're hosting a DAAA fundraising event 18 00:00:40,633 --> 00:00:42,167 along with Matt and Caryn. 19 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,333 We could definitely have a number of hiccups 20 00:00:44,367 --> 00:00:46,967 that could make this very chaotic. 21 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,833 I still gotta go to some restaurants 22 00:00:48,867 --> 00:00:50,800 and kinda build that up. 23 00:00:50,833 --> 00:00:53,300 Amy is a little bit more haphazard, you know, 24 00:00:53,333 --> 00:00:55,500 so we're letting her be in charge, 25 00:00:55,533 --> 00:00:56,467 let her be the boss. 26 00:00:56,500 --> 00:01:00,167 Being that my nature is to plan events, 27 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,233 it's gonna take a little extra effort for me 28 00:01:02,267 --> 00:01:03,733 to just let it go. 29 00:01:03,767 --> 00:01:05,600 But the menu, like, do you guys care? 30 00:01:05,633 --> 00:01:07,333 I kinda wanna tweak it, though. 31 00:01:07,367 --> 00:01:09,267 Whatever happens is fine. 32 00:01:09,300 --> 00:01:10,733 It's on her shoulder. 33 00:01:10,767 --> 00:01:12,200 [laughs] 34 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,233 [dramatic music playing] 35 00:01:30,133 --> 00:01:31,100 [Caryn] Hey. 36 00:01:38,633 --> 00:01:41,533 I bet it did. Okay. I got your pillow. 37 00:01:41,567 --> 00:01:43,933 [Matthew] Well, my esophagus has been acting up 38 00:01:43,967 --> 00:01:45,067 a little bit here and there. 39 00:01:45,100 --> 00:01:46,500 It's been happening for a couple years. 40 00:01:46,533 --> 00:01:48,233 What happens is seems sort of... 41 00:01:48,267 --> 00:01:50,366 Seems like it's closed off at times. 42 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,500 Not every meal but, you know, not really sure 43 00:01:53,533 --> 00:01:55,200 what brings it on. 44 00:01:55,233 --> 00:01:56,600 You know, I'm not sure if it's... 45 00:01:56,633 --> 00:01:58,267 I'm eating too fast or too much, 46 00:01:58,300 --> 00:02:00,133 but it gets mad. 47 00:02:00,167 --> 00:02:03,400 The esophagus gets very angry very quickly 48 00:02:03,433 --> 00:02:05,200 and generates phlegm. 49 00:02:05,500 --> 00:02:07,133 [groans] 50 00:02:07,167 --> 00:02:09,300 I don't need anything right now. 51 00:02:09,333 --> 00:02:10,967 Are you sure? 52 00:02:11,067 --> 00:02:12,167 Why don't you take a little sip? 53 00:02:13,833 --> 00:02:17,167 It bubbles up like a volcano until it comes out 54 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:18,133 -and you're, like... -It's shocking. 55 00:02:18,167 --> 00:02:19,300 -It's shocking. -It's actually shocking. 56 00:02:19,333 --> 00:02:20,933 It's very, very dramatic. 57 00:02:20,966 --> 00:02:23,433 So this doctor, you know, recommended us, 58 00:02:23,466 --> 00:02:25,733 we need to go down there with the scope, 59 00:02:25,767 --> 00:02:27,767 you know, then they saw that it was real tight, 60 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,233 so they wanted to stretch it 61 00:02:29,267 --> 00:02:31,167 so the food would go down a little easier. 62 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,100 Very routine procedure. 63 00:02:34,367 --> 00:02:37,733 And that didn't... It didn't go as planned. 64 00:02:37,767 --> 00:02:39,966 That was kind of traumatic. 65 00:02:40,933 --> 00:02:42,500 I don't remember much. 66 00:02:42,533 --> 00:02:44,900 I know. You were, like, out. 67 00:02:44,933 --> 00:02:46,100 [sighs] 68 00:02:46,133 --> 00:02:47,833 What happened? 69 00:02:47,867 --> 00:02:50,300 Well, they had told me several hours, right? 70 00:02:50,333 --> 00:02:53,100 'Cause you got sedated and you were gonna... 71 00:02:53,133 --> 00:02:54,233 They were gonna do the test. 72 00:02:54,267 --> 00:02:56,933 And then, I walked downstairs to get coffee 73 00:02:56,966 --> 00:02:58,600 and my cell phone rang and they're, like, 74 00:02:58,633 --> 00:03:00,500 "He's out, you can come back." 75 00:03:00,533 --> 00:03:03,233 And then, the doctor came in and said, 76 00:03:03,267 --> 00:03:04,800 "There's been a complication. 77 00:03:04,833 --> 00:03:06,333 We're concerned that 78 00:03:06,367 --> 00:03:09,067 we may have perforated his esophagus." 79 00:03:09,067 --> 00:03:10,067 -And that's why they... -I remember... 80 00:03:10,067 --> 00:03:11,500 -rushed their test. -everybody being panicked. 81 00:03:11,533 --> 00:03:12,500 I remember that. 82 00:03:12,533 --> 00:03:14,200 I remember the panic in the room. 83 00:03:14,233 --> 00:03:15,967 It was just... It was a weird vibe. 84 00:03:16,067 --> 00:03:17,333 -And so... -Yeah. 85 00:03:17,367 --> 00:03:19,133 I said, "Okay, what happens now?" 86 00:03:19,167 --> 00:03:21,867 And they said, "We're gonna do a test 87 00:03:21,900 --> 00:03:25,533 that will tell us if we perforated the wall." 88 00:03:25,567 --> 00:03:27,533 They did the test and you were drinking this stuff, 89 00:03:27,567 --> 00:03:28,567 and I was watching. 90 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,400 They let me stay in there and I could see, 91 00:03:30,433 --> 00:03:31,433 I thought, "Oh God." 92 00:03:31,466 --> 00:03:33,333 And so as you drank it, you know, it went down 93 00:03:33,367 --> 00:03:34,867 and they did it to you, like, three or four times, 94 00:03:34,900 --> 00:03:36,300 they had you take sips 95 00:03:36,333 --> 00:03:38,300 and it didn't show a perforation. 96 00:03:38,333 --> 00:03:41,367 But I could tell that the doctor thought that 97 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:42,700 that could have happened. 98 00:03:44,067 --> 00:03:47,400 It was honestly, in the end, more of an emotional 99 00:03:47,433 --> 00:03:49,400 sort of experience than physical. 100 00:03:49,433 --> 00:03:50,900 Once we found out that he... 101 00:03:50,933 --> 00:03:53,133 They did not perforate the esophagus, 102 00:03:53,167 --> 00:03:55,133 and that we had dodged that bullet 103 00:03:55,167 --> 00:03:56,733 'cause that could have been very dangerous. 104 00:03:56,767 --> 00:03:59,700 So it was... It... 105 00:03:59,733 --> 00:04:01,733 We got through it, but it's definitely opened up 106 00:04:01,767 --> 00:04:04,233 a lot of future conversations that we're having 107 00:04:04,267 --> 00:04:07,633 about how we would handle health issues for both of us. 108 00:04:08,733 --> 00:04:12,533 When she came in and she asked me if I was your proctor 109 00:04:12,567 --> 00:04:14,900 that could make that decision for you 110 00:04:14,933 --> 00:04:16,700 because you were still so sedated, 111 00:04:16,733 --> 00:04:19,399 and that freaked me out. 112 00:04:19,433 --> 00:04:20,567 I don't know if I am. 113 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,200 So now that we're engaged, 114 00:04:22,233 --> 00:04:24,700 we need to get that dialed in. 115 00:04:24,733 --> 00:04:26,600 It's scary for anybody who goes in for a routine 116 00:04:26,633 --> 00:04:27,900 and something happens. 117 00:04:27,933 --> 00:04:30,433 It's more scary when you have a little person 118 00:04:30,467 --> 00:04:32,533 because the doctors may not be familiar 119 00:04:32,567 --> 00:04:33,433 with everything going on. 120 00:04:33,467 --> 00:04:35,300 Things can go wrong very quickly. 121 00:04:35,332 --> 00:04:37,133 Any kind of anesthesia, there's more risk. 122 00:04:37,167 --> 00:04:40,400 Everything just has an extra layer it can be dealt with. 123 00:04:40,433 --> 00:04:42,467 But in a crisis situation, 124 00:04:42,500 --> 00:04:46,267 it's not easy to just make a quick decision. 125 00:04:46,300 --> 00:04:48,233 One other thing that he did say 126 00:04:48,267 --> 00:04:52,067 was that you have a lot of damage from acid reflux. 127 00:04:52,067 --> 00:04:54,100 They didn't need to measure it 128 00:04:54,133 --> 00:04:57,400 because they already can see the damage that it's caused. 129 00:04:58,500 --> 00:05:00,867 So old Matt Roloff is gonna die from esophagitis. 130 00:05:00,900 --> 00:05:02,067 No. 131 00:05:03,133 --> 00:05:04,500 -That's what gonna get me. -I don't think so. 132 00:05:04,533 --> 00:05:05,767 -I'm not-- -But gosh, 133 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:06,800 -nothing's ever just... -I thought I was... 134 00:05:06,833 --> 00:05:07,700 -simple... -gonna get hit by a tractor. 135 00:05:07,733 --> 00:05:08,800 and easy-breezy 136 00:05:08,833 --> 00:05:10,200 with you, it was, like, 137 00:05:10,233 --> 00:05:12,167 chaos and drama and oh my gosh, 138 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:13,800 -I was so scared. -Oh boy. 139 00:05:13,833 --> 00:05:17,067 But he did say that you should feel better 140 00:05:17,067 --> 00:05:20,367 because where it was so tight, 141 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,200 you know, he was able to stretch it. 142 00:05:23,233 --> 00:05:24,867 Apparently, he might've went too far. 143 00:05:24,900 --> 00:05:26,800 Luckily, he didn't go through and perforate, 144 00:05:26,832 --> 00:05:30,367 but he, it must have got it open so you shouldn't have, 145 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:31,733 you know, the symptoms. 146 00:05:33,300 --> 00:05:35,367 I feel like, you know, with us being engaged 147 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,467 and definitely planning to spend the rest of our my life together, 148 00:05:37,500 --> 00:05:39,267 I'm taking it a little more seriously. 149 00:05:39,300 --> 00:05:40,700 Like, I wanna be prepared 150 00:05:40,733 --> 00:05:42,267 in case something should come up. 151 00:05:42,300 --> 00:05:44,433 So whether he was a dwarf or not, 152 00:05:44,467 --> 00:05:45,800 I don't know that I would be behaving 153 00:05:45,832 --> 00:05:47,867 any different other than 154 00:05:47,900 --> 00:05:50,133 a little more information needs to be gathered 155 00:05:50,167 --> 00:05:51,633 and thought through. 156 00:05:51,667 --> 00:05:53,100 One of the most interesting things, 157 00:05:53,133 --> 00:05:54,433 I don't know if you remember this, 158 00:05:54,467 --> 00:05:57,167 your actual esophagus... 159 00:05:57,832 --> 00:05:59,800 -Mmm-hmm. -is average size. 160 00:06:00,767 --> 00:06:01,767 Average size? 161 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,933 You do not have a little person esophagus. 162 00:06:03,967 --> 00:06:06,600 -It's crammed in there? -It's kinked. 163 00:06:06,633 --> 00:06:08,933 So a normal esophagus, you know, is... 164 00:06:08,967 --> 00:06:10,533 Goes straight down and you have a diaphragm, 165 00:06:10,567 --> 00:06:11,733 then your stomach. 166 00:06:11,767 --> 00:06:13,600 So he said yours is longer 167 00:06:13,633 --> 00:06:14,767 than your body can handle. 168 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,200 So it's pushed to the side. 169 00:06:17,233 --> 00:06:18,900 Yeah. My guts are squished. 170 00:06:18,933 --> 00:06:20,733 [laughs] 171 00:06:20,767 --> 00:06:22,067 It all makes sense and... 172 00:06:22,100 --> 00:06:23,867 You know, yeah, and something... 173 00:06:23,900 --> 00:06:27,067 It's too much, you know, packed into. 174 00:06:27,067 --> 00:06:28,500 You know, there's too much Matt Roloff. 175 00:06:28,533 --> 00:06:30,700 -Too much goodness in there. -Yeah. 176 00:06:30,733 --> 00:06:33,500 Poor little esophagus all crammed in there and... 177 00:06:33,533 --> 00:06:34,500 -I feel like... -kinked over. 178 00:06:34,533 --> 00:06:36,867 I went in... I went in all good 179 00:06:36,900 --> 00:06:39,067 -and came out all bad. -No. 180 00:06:39,100 --> 00:06:40,367 I mean, what's up with that? 181 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,100 No, you didn't come out all bad 182 00:06:42,133 --> 00:06:43,832 but, I mean, at least now you know 183 00:06:43,867 --> 00:06:45,367 why you're having those spells, 184 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,200 'cause those spells are scary. 185 00:06:47,233 --> 00:06:48,200 -Okay. -I'm sorry. 186 00:06:48,233 --> 00:06:49,433 Well, let's just... 187 00:06:49,467 --> 00:06:51,067 Let's just take a breath. 188 00:06:51,067 --> 00:06:52,267 -Relax. -Yeah. 189 00:06:52,300 --> 00:06:53,500 -You know. -Okay. All right. 190 00:06:53,533 --> 00:06:54,600 Why don't you close your eyes for a little bit? 191 00:06:54,633 --> 00:06:55,933 -Yeah. -Okay? 192 00:06:58,567 --> 00:07:00,333 Thank you for taking me. That was nice of you. 193 00:07:00,367 --> 00:07:03,500 -You're welcome. -Bet your whole good morning. 194 00:07:03,533 --> 00:07:05,367 Just holler if you need something. 195 00:07:10,133 --> 00:07:13,600 [upbeat music playing] 196 00:07:20,133 --> 00:07:23,100 [Zach] Jackson, where's your insect thing? 197 00:07:23,133 --> 00:07:24,500 [Jackson speaking] 198 00:07:31,767 --> 00:07:33,500 [Zach speaking] 199 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,233 Why are you crying over it? 200 00:07:37,267 --> 00:07:39,167 Because it's our baby. 201 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,433 Jackson's kindergarten graduation, 202 00:07:41,467 --> 00:07:42,832 it went really well, 203 00:07:42,867 --> 00:07:45,100 but it was a little tough for me. 204 00:07:48,100 --> 00:07:49,633 -He's grown so much... -[Zach] Yeah. 205 00:07:49,667 --> 00:07:50,667 -So much. -[Tori] in a year. 206 00:07:50,700 --> 00:07:51,800 [Zach] And every now and then we'll look at, 207 00:07:51,832 --> 00:07:53,067 like, old videos of him 208 00:07:53,100 --> 00:07:54,767 and be, like, oh my gosh. So-- 209 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,467 [Tori] That, like, chubby baby fat is gone 210 00:07:57,500 --> 00:07:58,400 -and he's just... -Just different... 211 00:07:58,433 --> 00:07:59,332 -like a kid. -personality. Yeah. 212 00:07:59,367 --> 00:08:00,700 He's a person now. 213 00:08:00,733 --> 00:08:04,500 Jackson, you did two school reports this year. 214 00:08:04,533 --> 00:08:06,233 What was your first report on? 215 00:08:06,267 --> 00:08:07,567 [Jackson speaking] 216 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,067 And what was your second report on? 217 00:08:11,233 --> 00:08:15,200 Not only are you cooler than I was at your age. 218 00:08:15,233 --> 00:08:18,533 Not... You're better at soccer and you're smarter... 219 00:08:18,567 --> 00:08:20,233 -Is he better at soccer? -than I was at your age. 220 00:08:20,267 --> 00:08:21,800 Oh yeah. He's so much better than me, when... 221 00:08:21,832 --> 00:08:24,467 -Wait. Really? -Oh, yeah. 222 00:08:24,500 --> 00:08:26,700 You kidding me? I didn't score my first outdoor goal 223 00:08:26,733 --> 00:08:29,233 until I was in high school. 224 00:08:29,267 --> 00:08:30,500 Okay. 225 00:08:30,533 --> 00:08:32,866 [Zach] I was very different than Jackson as a kid. 226 00:08:32,900 --> 00:08:35,732 I was very shy, timid. 227 00:08:35,767 --> 00:08:40,067 Yeah, I didn't like heights, or the dark, or people. 228 00:08:40,067 --> 00:08:42,200 Like I didn't like much of anything. 229 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,967 Should we compare soccer trophies? 230 00:08:46,067 --> 00:08:49,367 Um, Lilah needs to show her trophy. 231 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,067 Lilah, you get a trophy? 232 00:08:51,067 --> 00:08:52,367 Do you wanna go get it? 233 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:53,533 Okay, Lilah, go get your trophy 234 00:08:53,567 --> 00:08:54,533 and bring it out here, okay? 235 00:08:54,567 --> 00:08:55,700 But be very careful. 236 00:08:55,733 --> 00:08:56,700 Yeah. Lilah, go show us your trophy. 237 00:08:56,733 --> 00:08:57,800 Don't drop it. 238 00:08:57,833 --> 00:08:59,067 [Jackson] If you drop it, 239 00:08:59,067 --> 00:09:00,567 it's all done. 240 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,300 -[Tori] All done. -Okay. Go get it. 241 00:09:03,167 --> 00:09:06,767 Oh my. I am obsessed with her. 242 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:07,933 Is she serious? 243 00:09:07,967 --> 00:09:10,400 [Zach] Lilah had her very first dance recital 244 00:09:10,433 --> 00:09:13,233 on a big stage in front of a huge crowd 245 00:09:13,267 --> 00:09:14,600 and she did awesome. 246 00:09:14,633 --> 00:09:17,633 [crowd cheering] 247 00:09:19,567 --> 00:09:20,467 -Yes. -She went out. 248 00:09:20,500 --> 00:09:22,200 -She did great. -She did it, like, yeah. 249 00:09:22,233 --> 00:09:23,200 -Fantastic. -Yeah. 250 00:09:23,233 --> 00:09:26,233 [crowd cheering] 251 00:09:35,433 --> 00:09:38,300 [Tori] Dance has, I think, grown her confidence immensely. 252 00:09:38,333 --> 00:09:39,900 She loves dance. 253 00:09:39,933 --> 00:09:42,567 We both just really wanted something 254 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,900 that would socialize Lilah as well, 255 00:09:44,933 --> 00:09:46,567 like, get her out with the kids her age 256 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,767 and, like, just in a new situation. 257 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:52,967 And it was something that she took ownership of 258 00:09:53,067 --> 00:09:55,233 and had a ton of fun with. 259 00:09:55,267 --> 00:09:58,267 [crowd cheering] 260 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:05,133 [Zach] Look at her hold it. 261 00:10:05,900 --> 00:10:07,400 Look at that mood. 262 00:10:07,433 --> 00:10:08,733 [Tori] Wow. 263 00:10:08,767 --> 00:10:10,300 -What is that? -Can I see it? 264 00:10:11,500 --> 00:10:14,267 -Is this for dancing? -[Tori gasps] 265 00:10:14,300 --> 00:10:15,800 What's on top? 266 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,300 Is that a ballerina? 267 00:10:23,567 --> 00:10:26,533 The whole day was slightly terrifying. 268 00:10:26,567 --> 00:10:27,600 -Yeah. -Like, I don't know 269 00:10:27,633 --> 00:10:28,933 if I wanna do it again. 270 00:10:30,933 --> 00:10:32,200 -But she did it... -Perfect. 271 00:10:32,233 --> 00:10:33,233 -and she rocked it. -Yeah. 272 00:10:33,267 --> 00:10:34,467 And she was so cute. 273 00:10:36,300 --> 00:10:37,800 [Zach] You guys ready for summer? 274 00:10:37,833 --> 00:10:39,100 [Jackson speaking] 275 00:10:39,133 --> 00:10:42,167 Jackson, what do you wanna do this summer? 276 00:10:44,100 --> 00:10:45,800 -[Zach] Every night? -Yes. 277 00:10:45,833 --> 00:10:46,933 -No. -Every single night? 278 00:10:46,967 --> 00:10:48,767 You can't have daddy every night. 279 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,433 That's not fair. 280 00:10:54,767 --> 00:10:56,033 -Right? -[Zach] Should we get mom... 281 00:10:56,067 --> 00:10:57,500 -I'll put it right here, okay. -to camp out with us? 282 00:10:59,567 --> 00:11:02,933 You guys have a friend named mom that likes to camp? 283 00:11:02,967 --> 00:11:05,167 Camping in my backyard 284 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,533 when I'm a hundred yards away from my bed 285 00:11:07,567 --> 00:11:09,800 is not my ideal situation. 286 00:11:09,833 --> 00:11:11,267 I got you the nicest cot. 287 00:11:11,300 --> 00:11:13,200 Babe, a cot is not nice that... 288 00:11:13,233 --> 00:11:14,200 You can't use those adjectives... 289 00:11:14,233 --> 00:11:16,633 -Cot. -in the same sentence, like-- 290 00:11:19,500 --> 00:11:23,167 That's because you guys both weigh 50 pounds. 291 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,700 You weigh 20 pounds, you weigh 50 pounds. 292 00:11:25,733 --> 00:11:27,833 Mom weighs this... Like, I'm not gonna say 293 00:11:27,867 --> 00:11:28,767 how much I weigh but in a cot... 294 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,533 -130? -it's just not... 295 00:11:33,500 --> 00:11:34,967 Okay, Zach, can you shush up... 296 00:11:35,067 --> 00:11:35,933 -130. -over there? 297 00:11:35,967 --> 00:11:37,933 -Was that right? -No. 298 00:11:37,967 --> 00:11:40,200 -Like way off? -Way off, honey. 299 00:11:40,233 --> 00:11:42,367 I weighed a hundred thirty, like, in high school. 300 00:11:45,133 --> 00:11:46,533 Sure. We'll go with that. 301 00:11:46,567 --> 00:11:49,467 Lilah, are you gonna camp out with us? 302 00:11:50,700 --> 00:11:52,967 I did this growing up. We all camped out together 303 00:11:53,067 --> 00:11:55,133 and it's a fun thing to do for all families. 304 00:11:55,167 --> 00:11:57,367 I think, all families should put themselves 305 00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:00,200 all in a tent for the night and, you know, 306 00:12:00,233 --> 00:12:01,233 I think it's a good experience, 307 00:12:01,267 --> 00:12:03,200 and I think the kids will remember it. 308 00:12:03,233 --> 00:12:04,700 And it's always just good to be together 309 00:12:04,733 --> 00:12:05,933 as a family like that. 310 00:12:05,967 --> 00:12:07,733 Well, we're gonna make you a comfy spot 311 00:12:07,767 --> 00:12:08,833 whether you like it or not, 312 00:12:08,867 --> 00:12:10,667 and you can choose to sleep with us 313 00:12:10,700 --> 00:12:12,533 -whether you like it or not. -[Tori] Okay. 314 00:12:13,467 --> 00:12:15,733 -No! -[Jackson laughing] 315 00:12:15,767 --> 00:12:17,267 What is that? 316 00:12:17,300 --> 00:12:19,433 [laughter] 317 00:12:19,467 --> 00:12:20,933 You got mom so good. 318 00:12:20,967 --> 00:12:22,833 He just got me so good. 319 00:12:22,867 --> 00:12:25,733 -[Zach] Is that snake skin? -Yes. 320 00:12:25,767 --> 00:12:28,267 That was not very nice, Jackson. 321 00:12:28,300 --> 00:12:29,467 [Zach] Let's go. 322 00:12:31,067 --> 00:12:32,067 [Amy] Coming up. 323 00:12:32,100 --> 00:12:34,067 So just out of curiosity, 324 00:12:34,100 --> 00:12:35,267 who do you think will be taking care 325 00:12:35,300 --> 00:12:36,400 of who as we get older? 326 00:12:36,433 --> 00:12:38,233 Oh, I'm bringing someone in to take care of you. 327 00:12:38,267 --> 00:12:39,900 How am I gonna take care of you? 328 00:12:39,933 --> 00:12:41,900 If I need assistance, you're gonna hire it out? 329 00:12:43,100 --> 00:12:45,567 [Jackson speaking] 330 00:12:54,967 --> 00:12:55,900 [Matt] And later. 331 00:12:55,933 --> 00:12:57,867 So how is it working with the house? 332 00:12:57,900 --> 00:13:01,067 Oh, well you should know. 333 00:13:01,100 --> 00:13:02,933 [Amy] For me it's still kind of awkward 334 00:13:02,967 --> 00:13:04,633 to meet up with Caryn, 335 00:13:04,667 --> 00:13:07,367 but it'll always impact me till the day I die. 336 00:13:16,567 --> 00:13:18,633 [upbeat music playing] 337 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:26,367 [Amy] What are you doing Daisy May? 338 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:28,700 [Chris] She found something in that dirt to chew on. 339 00:13:28,733 --> 00:13:30,533 You never know what that girl's gonna eat. 340 00:13:30,567 --> 00:13:32,167 [Amy laughing] 341 00:13:32,933 --> 00:13:35,400 Put these in here just in case. 342 00:13:36,667 --> 00:13:38,867 -Look at that. -[Chris] Mmm-hmm. 343 00:13:38,900 --> 00:13:41,233 -So my visit went well. -[Amy] Oh, did it? 344 00:13:41,267 --> 00:13:42,300 Did you bring the gun? 345 00:13:42,333 --> 00:13:43,533 -You brought the gun over? -[Chris] Yeah, yeah, 346 00:13:43,567 --> 00:13:44,433 I showed him my new toy. 347 00:13:44,467 --> 00:13:46,600 I went to the farm to talk to Matt 348 00:13:46,633 --> 00:13:47,900 about the upcoming fundraiser 349 00:13:47,933 --> 00:13:49,400 and I'll be helping out 350 00:13:49,433 --> 00:13:51,300 setting up all the games. 351 00:13:51,333 --> 00:13:53,933 -Does this look Western? -Oh, my goodness. 352 00:13:53,967 --> 00:13:56,067 [Chris] I kinda like the idea of having a shooting gallery 353 00:13:56,100 --> 00:13:57,567 because it's a western thing, 354 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,733 you know, like, uh, like you'd see in a carnival. 355 00:13:59,767 --> 00:14:01,633 Check this out. Because, yeah, I want to try to get something... 356 00:14:01,667 --> 00:14:03,633 -[Matt] Yeah. -to go with the western thing. 357 00:14:03,667 --> 00:14:06,533 -Yeah, that's... -So it's a Nerf gun, 358 00:14:06,567 --> 00:14:09,467 but the Nerf things are loaded into these shotgun shells. 359 00:14:09,500 --> 00:14:11,667 Oh my goodness. Aren't those cute? 360 00:14:11,700 --> 00:14:14,267 Now watch this, just like a real shotgun. 361 00:14:14,300 --> 00:14:16,367 -Oh, yeah. -Ain't that cool? 362 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:17,533 That gives you the... 363 00:14:17,567 --> 00:14:19,100 -That is cool. -Yeah. 364 00:14:19,133 --> 00:14:21,633 So I am gonna go ahead and build a shooting gallery, 365 00:14:21,667 --> 00:14:23,133 and he's gonna let me use the tools 366 00:14:23,167 --> 00:14:25,267 and leftover lumber stuff out there. 367 00:14:25,300 --> 00:14:27,133 Well, good. I'm glad that'll work. 368 00:14:27,167 --> 00:14:28,267 He was talking okay. 369 00:14:28,300 --> 00:14:29,533 I thought with, uh, you know... 370 00:14:29,567 --> 00:14:31,300 -[Amy] Oh, yeah. How is that going? -the surgery going down? 371 00:14:31,333 --> 00:14:33,133 I... You know, I guess it went okay. 372 00:14:33,167 --> 00:14:36,100 So what he found out is that he has... 373 00:14:36,133 --> 00:14:39,100 His esophagus, it's the same size as an average person's. 374 00:14:39,133 --> 00:14:40,067 -It's too big... -Oh. 375 00:14:40,100 --> 00:14:41,700 for his body, and so there's a kink in it. 376 00:14:41,733 --> 00:14:43,767 Yeah, he's... You know, he... He's... He... 377 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,800 He's a different type of dwarfism and I mean, he... 378 00:14:46,833 --> 00:14:49,200 -He's run into some problems. -Mmm-hmm. 379 00:14:49,233 --> 00:14:50,500 And, you know, later on in life, 380 00:14:50,533 --> 00:14:52,233 all our bodies change, but-- 381 00:14:53,333 --> 00:14:54,867 Caryn was a good support there. 382 00:14:54,900 --> 00:14:57,067 We kinda got into a conversation, you know. 383 00:14:57,067 --> 00:14:59,267 So just out of curiosity, 384 00:14:59,300 --> 00:15:01,667 who do you think will be taking care of who as we get older? 385 00:15:01,700 --> 00:15:03,567 Oh, I'm bringing someone in to take care of you. 386 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,367 How am I gonna take care of you? 387 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,533 I can bring you soup. I can bring you a drink. 388 00:15:07,567 --> 00:15:10,333 Really? If I need assistance, you're gonna hire it out? 389 00:15:10,367 --> 00:15:12,700 No, I... But I mean, I can't, 390 00:15:12,733 --> 00:15:14,367 like, lift you, I can't, you know, 391 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,267 -do any of that stuff. -[Chris] That's true. 392 00:15:16,300 --> 00:15:18,233 Well, It's okay, hon. I'm bulletproof. 393 00:15:18,267 --> 00:15:19,600 I'll be taking care of you. 394 00:15:19,633 --> 00:15:21,667 Are you up for that? 395 00:15:21,700 --> 00:15:22,900 Sure. 396 00:15:22,933 --> 00:15:24,733 [Amy] I mean, there's really no comparison 397 00:15:24,767 --> 00:15:25,833 between Matt and Chris 398 00:15:25,867 --> 00:15:27,567 because when you're born 399 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,767 with dwarfism and stuff, 400 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,500 you kind of already know some point in your life 401 00:15:32,533 --> 00:15:35,600 that you're gonna be dealing with some health concerns. 402 00:15:35,633 --> 00:15:37,700 But with Chris, you know, 403 00:15:37,733 --> 00:15:40,567 he's just like average Joe Blow, 404 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:45,600 and bulletproof and rarely ever sick. 405 00:15:45,633 --> 00:15:50,067 And so, hopefully, he'll be able to handle it if I am. 406 00:15:50,100 --> 00:15:52,267 It is in the back of my mind. 407 00:15:52,300 --> 00:15:53,933 I just know so many other people 408 00:15:53,967 --> 00:15:55,867 with achondroplasia dwarfism 409 00:15:55,900 --> 00:15:58,233 that they've had surgery and they're doing better, 410 00:15:58,267 --> 00:16:00,767 but it's forever changed. 411 00:16:03,367 --> 00:16:06,133 I definitely worry a little bit about my own limitations 412 00:16:06,167 --> 00:16:10,067 and, you know, the impact that if I have to have surgery, 413 00:16:10,100 --> 00:16:11,167 what would that look like? 414 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:12,333 How would that be? 415 00:16:12,367 --> 00:16:14,100 How would that change my lifestyle, 416 00:16:14,133 --> 00:16:17,800 but also our lifestyle and just living together? 417 00:16:17,833 --> 00:16:20,067 I just hope it's not to the extent 418 00:16:20,100 --> 00:16:23,667 where, you know, Chris has to take care of everything. 419 00:16:23,700 --> 00:16:25,667 Yours seems to be starting in your neck. 420 00:16:25,700 --> 00:16:26,800 -Yeah. -Do you think that's a start 421 00:16:26,833 --> 00:16:27,933 of something more serious? 422 00:16:27,967 --> 00:16:29,833 I hope not, 423 00:16:29,867 --> 00:16:31,600 but achondroplasia dwarfism 424 00:16:31,633 --> 00:16:34,400 have a history of spinal stenosis. 425 00:16:34,433 --> 00:16:37,733 Spinal stenosis is the tightening 426 00:16:37,767 --> 00:16:39,300 around your spinal cord. 427 00:16:39,333 --> 00:16:42,733 A lot of archons have a smaller space 428 00:16:42,767 --> 00:16:44,433 between the vertebraes, 429 00:16:44,467 --> 00:16:45,967 so it tightens up the spinal cord. 430 00:16:46,067 --> 00:16:47,267 Then you can have numbness, 431 00:16:47,300 --> 00:16:48,467 you can have pain, 432 00:16:48,500 --> 00:16:50,267 you can have lack of movement. 433 00:16:50,300 --> 00:16:53,233 That to me is pretty serious. 434 00:16:53,267 --> 00:16:55,133 And mine may be happening in the neck first, 435 00:16:55,167 --> 00:16:56,800 which is to me the worst part. 436 00:16:57,767 --> 00:17:01,067 I don't know, babe, but that's not good. 437 00:17:01,067 --> 00:17:03,067 [Chris] I'm just not the type to worry about something 438 00:17:03,100 --> 00:17:04,133 that hasn't happened yet. 439 00:17:04,166 --> 00:17:05,300 You know, I just always, 440 00:17:05,333 --> 00:17:07,567 you know, assume or hope for the best, 441 00:17:07,599 --> 00:17:11,067 but, you know, I won't have any trouble adapting 442 00:17:11,067 --> 00:17:12,700 -if something-- -You mean you'll take care of me? 443 00:17:12,733 --> 00:17:14,833 Absolutely, hon. You know, I-- 444 00:17:14,867 --> 00:17:18,067 You'll carry me up the stairs if you have to? 445 00:17:18,099 --> 00:17:19,867 Or turn the office into a bedroom. 446 00:17:19,900 --> 00:17:21,532 [laughter] 447 00:17:21,567 --> 00:17:23,800 [Amy] It's like having your favorite old car 448 00:17:23,833 --> 00:17:26,666 and it's like, I will do anything to keep it... 449 00:17:27,700 --> 00:17:30,067 lubricated and moving and... 450 00:17:30,067 --> 00:17:31,667 You know, all of that stuff. 451 00:17:31,700 --> 00:17:34,300 -Put oil in it. Do all that. -Yeah. 452 00:17:34,333 --> 00:17:37,067 -And so that's like us. -Am I your old car, babe? 453 00:17:37,067 --> 00:17:39,500 You're gonna make sure that I lubricated and keep moving. 454 00:17:39,533 --> 00:17:41,500 Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, babe. 455 00:17:41,533 --> 00:17:43,333 [laughter] 456 00:17:43,367 --> 00:17:46,633 You're so silly. You're so silly. 457 00:17:46,667 --> 00:17:50,167 [upbeat music playing] 458 00:17:56,700 --> 00:17:58,467 Let me make sure Lila doesn't see this stuff. 459 00:17:58,500 --> 00:18:00,567 I'm gonna surprise her, okay? 460 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,233 Look at her. She's got all these little cool things. 461 00:18:04,333 --> 00:18:05,700 [Jackson speaking] 462 00:18:05,733 --> 00:18:07,867 Because we need her to like camping, okay? 463 00:18:07,900 --> 00:18:09,533 And she's not gonna like it 464 00:18:09,567 --> 00:18:11,733 unless she has a bunch of fun stuff, okay? 465 00:18:11,767 --> 00:18:13,933 -What's that? -Her own little table, 466 00:18:13,967 --> 00:18:16,133 just like you have your own little table, okay? 467 00:18:17,633 --> 00:18:18,767 Yeah. 468 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:20,933 We're gonna camp out as a family for the first time. 469 00:18:20,967 --> 00:18:23,600 The entire family in the tent in the backyard, 470 00:18:23,633 --> 00:18:25,467 and so we're gonna try to make the tent 471 00:18:25,500 --> 00:18:27,900 very friendly for Lilah and Tori. 472 00:18:29,500 --> 00:18:31,200 -Mommy. -[Jackson speaking] 473 00:18:31,233 --> 00:18:32,767 No, don't show her. 474 00:18:33,433 --> 00:18:34,633 Lilah look. Look at your pool. 475 00:18:34,667 --> 00:18:36,233 [gasps] Look all that stuff. 476 00:18:36,267 --> 00:18:37,700 [Zach] Lilah's never camped out. 477 00:18:37,733 --> 00:18:40,067 So we got her, her own cot, 478 00:18:40,067 --> 00:18:42,567 very colorful own sleeping bag, 479 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,933 some lamps, a new blankie, her own little table. 480 00:18:45,967 --> 00:18:48,067 So she'll have her own little space 481 00:18:48,100 --> 00:18:50,200 that she can say, "This is mine, mine, mine." 482 00:18:50,233 --> 00:18:52,100 And then, Tori gets her brand new cot, 483 00:18:52,133 --> 00:18:56,100 splurged a little bit and got her a mat on top of the cot. 484 00:18:56,133 --> 00:18:57,867 We'll hope that she's comfortable as well 485 00:18:57,900 --> 00:18:59,067 and hangs out with us. 486 00:18:59,100 --> 00:19:01,200 Mom's cots probably gonna take up all this room, 487 00:19:01,233 --> 00:19:03,267 so Josiah might have to be right here. 488 00:19:03,300 --> 00:19:04,300 Okay. 489 00:19:09,333 --> 00:19:11,200 I have zero expectations. 490 00:19:13,300 --> 00:19:14,500 No offense. 491 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,433 -Gosh. -[laughs] 492 00:19:18,467 --> 00:19:20,467 [Tori] Okay. To be fair, though, 493 00:19:20,500 --> 00:19:22,300 my camping experiences with you 494 00:19:22,333 --> 00:19:24,467 also have been so bad. 495 00:19:24,500 --> 00:19:26,667 Like the last trip with your old roommate, 496 00:19:26,700 --> 00:19:29,600 you guys picked a lake that was infested 497 00:19:29,633 --> 00:19:32,533 with mosquitoes, infested. 498 00:19:32,567 --> 00:19:35,533 So that was already... I'm like, I'm done. 499 00:19:35,567 --> 00:19:38,600 But then you guys took the boat out 500 00:19:38,633 --> 00:19:39,933 and I got left on the shore 501 00:19:39,967 --> 00:19:41,867 for, like, a solid three hours 502 00:19:42,900 --> 00:19:44,833 and, like, by the time everyone came back in, 503 00:19:44,867 --> 00:19:46,867 they were all too tired to go back out, 504 00:19:46,900 --> 00:19:49,500 so I never got to go on the boat. 505 00:19:49,533 --> 00:19:52,267 And then, we're all sitting around the fire making dinner 506 00:19:52,300 --> 00:19:55,367 and they were making beans in a can 507 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,300 that they didn't poke any holes in it, 508 00:19:57,333 --> 00:20:00,267 and so there was nowhere for the air to be released. 509 00:20:00,300 --> 00:20:04,267 It exploded in the pot and it hit me. 510 00:20:04,300 --> 00:20:05,767 And so, I got like... 511 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:06,933 I thought I was gonna need stitches. 512 00:20:06,967 --> 00:20:08,433 I got a huge cut on my leg 513 00:20:08,467 --> 00:20:11,300 and I got hot beans all over me, 514 00:20:11,333 --> 00:20:13,033 huge gash in my leg. 515 00:20:13,067 --> 00:20:15,700 And that was the last camping trip I've been on. 516 00:20:16,967 --> 00:20:19,567 Oh, it was the worst. It was the worst. 517 00:20:28,967 --> 00:20:30,300 Will you still ride a horse with me 518 00:20:30,333 --> 00:20:32,200 even if I don't camp out tonight? 519 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,900 -No. -What? 520 00:20:40,533 --> 00:20:41,733 What kind of horse? 521 00:20:42,967 --> 00:20:44,267 A ponytail horse? 522 00:20:44,300 --> 00:20:45,667 Are we gonna do like a big horse 523 00:20:45,700 --> 00:20:46,833 or a little one? 524 00:20:48,133 --> 00:20:49,833 Oh no, we're doing a big one. 525 00:20:51,900 --> 00:20:53,133 You're gonna do it with me. 526 00:20:53,167 --> 00:20:54,367 It'll be safe. 527 00:20:56,500 --> 00:20:57,867 You're kind of nervous? 528 00:20:57,900 --> 00:20:59,167 Why are you nervous? 529 00:21:00,533 --> 00:21:02,267 You are gonna be like a real cowboy at the end of it. 530 00:21:03,933 --> 00:21:05,767 -[Jackson speaking] -[Tori] Okay, we gotta wait, Lilah. 531 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,167 This is mama's. 532 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,700 -[speaks indistinctly] -Okay. 533 00:21:08,733 --> 00:21:10,100 This is Lilah's. 534 00:21:12,100 --> 00:21:14,067 -[Jackson] We're ready! -[Zach] All right. 535 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,767 [Tori] Oh, wow. 536 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,733 [Zach] Right next to Jackson, nice and close. 537 00:21:21,767 --> 00:21:23,567 [Tori] Wow. 538 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:24,933 [Jackson speaking] 539 00:21:25,867 --> 00:21:27,533 -Lilah... -[Tori] This is pretty cool. 540 00:21:27,567 --> 00:21:29,267 Lilah, are you gonna be able to sleep in that? 541 00:21:29,300 --> 00:21:30,700 -[Lilah speaking] -Wait, that's so cute. 542 00:21:30,733 --> 00:21:32,067 It's like low to the ground for her. 543 00:21:32,067 --> 00:21:33,067 [Zach] Yeah. 544 00:21:33,100 --> 00:21:34,933 [Tori] Look at it Lilah. 545 00:21:34,967 --> 00:21:37,533 [Zach] Lilah, those are your flashlights. 546 00:21:37,567 --> 00:21:40,567 [Tori] Lilah, look, you got your own sleeping bag. 547 00:21:42,767 --> 00:21:44,233 [Zach] Lilah, how cool is that? 548 00:21:45,100 --> 00:21:46,600 Jackson, we did awesome, 549 00:21:46,633 --> 00:21:48,733 I think, setting up that for everyone. 550 00:21:48,767 --> 00:21:51,367 I think everyone loved it. Secret handshake? 551 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:52,933 Oh, you guys have a secret handshake? 552 00:21:52,967 --> 00:21:53,967 No, it's the other hand. 553 00:21:54,933 --> 00:21:55,933 Now, it's not a secret. 554 00:21:55,967 --> 00:21:57,367 -Everyone just saw it. -Stop. 555 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:58,367 Stop. 556 00:22:01,667 --> 00:22:03,067 Oh, not everyone? Okay. 557 00:22:03,833 --> 00:22:06,233 Wow, guys, this is impressive. 558 00:22:06,267 --> 00:22:07,633 I like the little table. 559 00:22:07,667 --> 00:22:10,067 Lilah's got her own little table for her wa wa. 560 00:22:10,067 --> 00:22:10,933 This is pretty cool. 561 00:22:10,967 --> 00:22:12,633 You guys did set it up really well. 562 00:22:12,667 --> 00:22:15,767 I just... I wake up so tired in my own bed... 563 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,600 -[Zach] I know. -so I don't know how 564 00:22:17,633 --> 00:22:21,567 tomorrow's gonna be if I sleep out here. 565 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,667 Yeah? You're not gonna do it with us? 566 00:22:24,300 --> 00:22:25,400 I'll do it. 567 00:22:25,433 --> 00:22:26,867 You have to ride a horse with me then. 568 00:22:27,867 --> 00:22:29,067 -Yeah, I will. -Mom, can we cook this? 569 00:22:29,067 --> 00:22:30,633 [Zach] All right. 570 00:22:30,667 --> 00:22:33,333 Yeah, I struck a deal with my six-year-old 571 00:22:33,367 --> 00:22:35,233 that if I camped out with the family, 572 00:22:35,267 --> 00:22:38,067 that he would go horseback riding with me. 573 00:22:38,067 --> 00:22:39,567 Game on, kid. 574 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:40,700 [chuckles] 575 00:22:42,667 --> 00:22:43,800 [Matt] Coming up. 576 00:22:43,833 --> 00:22:47,600 Jackson asked why Beckett couldn't play DAAA with him. 577 00:22:47,633 --> 00:22:49,767 -Did I tell you this? -No. 578 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,133 And I said, because he's not a dwarf. 579 00:22:52,167 --> 00:22:53,433 And then, he goes, "What?" 580 00:22:53,467 --> 00:22:55,267 You know, the questions are gonna come 581 00:22:55,300 --> 00:22:57,267 and the curiosity about themselves, 582 00:22:57,300 --> 00:22:59,600 but I don't have it planned out in my head. 583 00:23:06,567 --> 00:23:09,933 [upbeat music playing] 584 00:23:13,500 --> 00:23:15,067 [Jackson speaking] 585 00:23:16,433 --> 00:23:17,900 Wait, don't hit me, though. 586 00:23:19,833 --> 00:23:21,200 I think it's going. Just let it... 587 00:23:21,233 --> 00:23:22,167 Give it a minute. 588 00:23:24,267 --> 00:23:25,733 Tonight is the first night 589 00:23:25,767 --> 00:23:27,867 the entire family is gonna camp out together. 590 00:23:27,900 --> 00:23:29,733 I'm excited. I think this will be fun. 591 00:23:29,767 --> 00:23:31,233 -Good family memory. -Are you excited? 592 00:23:31,267 --> 00:23:32,767 I'm excited. I'm excited. 593 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:34,233 I think all the kids are gonna love it. 594 00:23:34,267 --> 00:23:36,133 They're gonna remember it, you know. 595 00:23:36,167 --> 00:23:37,267 I think it's gonna be a good time. 596 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,200 [Zach] Jackson's very excited about camping, 597 00:23:53,233 --> 00:23:55,233 and wants to show us all how to do it, 598 00:23:55,267 --> 00:23:57,233 and what to do and I love it. 599 00:23:57,267 --> 00:23:58,533 I love that he loves it so much 600 00:23:58,567 --> 00:23:59,600 and he wants everyone else 601 00:23:59,633 --> 00:24:01,167 to be just as excited as he is. 602 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,467 Get it, dude. 603 00:24:05,533 --> 00:24:06,833 [Zach] Yeah. 604 00:24:06,867 --> 00:24:08,267 [Lilah speaking] 605 00:24:08,300 --> 00:24:09,667 [Tori] No, just eat your hotdog. 606 00:24:09,700 --> 00:24:12,867 -[Zach] There's also-- -No, just eat your hotdog. 607 00:24:12,900 --> 00:24:14,067 No. 608 00:24:15,467 --> 00:24:17,300 Lilah's not gonna camp out tonight. 609 00:24:18,500 --> 00:24:19,500 [Lilah] No. 610 00:24:19,533 --> 00:24:21,467 [Zach] Lilah's kinda having a rough evening. 611 00:24:21,500 --> 00:24:23,867 Very particular about how her hotdog is cooked 612 00:24:23,900 --> 00:24:26,367 and she didn't take a nap earlier. 613 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,767 Si Si is apparently bullying her 614 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,600 and she doesn't like bugs or dust. 615 00:24:30,633 --> 00:24:33,533 So I just feel like when it comes to Lilah and the outdoors, 616 00:24:33,567 --> 00:24:34,867 she doesn't have the best of luck. 617 00:24:35,967 --> 00:24:37,167 What are you doing? 618 00:24:38,467 --> 00:24:40,067 Get unstuck. 619 00:24:40,067 --> 00:24:41,200 Pull. 620 00:24:43,167 --> 00:24:48,667 -[Zach laughs] -[Lilah cries] 621 00:24:48,700 --> 00:24:51,067 Honestly, it's that one I'm more worried about. 622 00:24:52,733 --> 00:24:54,067 [Lilah cries] 623 00:24:55,133 --> 00:24:56,633 Unbelievable. 624 00:24:56,667 --> 00:24:58,800 Yeah, she just has a tendency to... 625 00:24:58,833 --> 00:25:00,833 -Injure herself. -injure, or trip, 626 00:25:00,867 --> 00:25:03,100 or get scraped up. 627 00:25:03,133 --> 00:25:05,267 You go play with Jackson in the tent, okay? 628 00:25:05,300 --> 00:25:07,367 So yeah, the rest of this night could be... 629 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:08,367 Could be rough. 630 00:25:11,233 --> 00:25:12,600 Tori, do you think Lilah's gonna need a surgery 631 00:25:12,633 --> 00:25:15,067 -on that left leg, though? -Yeah. 632 00:25:15,067 --> 00:25:17,233 What did the doctor say about it? 633 00:25:17,267 --> 00:25:19,567 It's not as bad as J's, but she'll probably need help. 634 00:25:20,267 --> 00:25:21,533 When though? 635 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,067 He didn't say. 636 00:25:24,067 --> 00:25:25,733 [Zach] Lilah's legs are showing bowing, 637 00:25:25,767 --> 00:25:27,200 like Jackson's were. 638 00:25:27,233 --> 00:25:29,067 Whether it's as severe or not, 639 00:25:29,100 --> 00:25:31,167 we don't know until we make measurements 640 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,900 and everything. 641 00:25:32,933 --> 00:25:35,933 But she might have to have leg surgery as well. 642 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:38,767 Surgery is another... 643 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,433 That's a... That's a huge ball game. 644 00:25:42,533 --> 00:25:44,667 You hope that's the only one that she needs. 645 00:25:44,700 --> 00:25:45,700 Yeah. 646 00:25:46,967 --> 00:25:49,233 I wonder if we'll see him in Austin, though. 647 00:25:49,267 --> 00:25:51,333 All the doctors hang out, like I don't know where, 648 00:25:51,367 --> 00:25:52,733 but like you'll probably see him, 649 00:25:52,767 --> 00:25:54,233 like he'll be at a table like... 650 00:25:54,267 --> 00:25:55,700 -Somewhere? -[Zach] Yeah. 651 00:25:55,733 --> 00:25:57,700 And then, now you'll, like, register. 652 00:25:57,733 --> 00:25:59,767 This year we're going to Austin 653 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,633 for the LPA/DAAA convention, 654 00:26:02,667 --> 00:26:05,933 Little People of America and Dwarf Athletic Association. 655 00:26:05,967 --> 00:26:07,833 One of the awesome things about LPA 656 00:26:07,867 --> 00:26:11,567 is they bring in specialists on people with dwarfism 657 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,433 and, you know, give free clinics 658 00:26:13,467 --> 00:26:15,067 and things of that nature. 659 00:26:15,100 --> 00:26:16,300 So we might take it an opportunity 660 00:26:16,333 --> 00:26:18,100 to have Lilah seen. 661 00:26:18,133 --> 00:26:19,967 We'll see, though. 662 00:26:20,067 --> 00:26:24,167 Jackson asked why Beckett couldn't play DAAA with him. 663 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,300 -Did I tell you this? -No. 664 00:26:26,333 --> 00:26:28,667 And I said, because he's not a dwarf. 665 00:26:28,700 --> 00:26:30,767 And then he goes, "What? I'm a dwarf? 666 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,967 -What does that mean?" -No, you did not... 667 00:26:33,067 --> 00:26:34,067 -And, uh... -tell me this conversation. 668 00:26:34,067 --> 00:26:34,933 [Zach] Yeah, straight up. 669 00:26:34,967 --> 00:26:37,667 I had to have the dwarf talk with my son 670 00:26:37,700 --> 00:26:39,567 way too early, you know. 671 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,300 Was he just like, oh, okay, and moved on, or-- 672 00:26:41,333 --> 00:26:42,933 [Zach] Kinda. He was like kinda just confused, 673 00:26:42,967 --> 00:26:44,567 like, why aren't other people dwarfs? 674 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,667 I said, "You know, that's how God made you 675 00:26:46,700 --> 00:26:47,967 and this and that." 676 00:26:48,067 --> 00:26:50,100 But he was like totally fine with it? He was-- 677 00:26:50,133 --> 00:26:51,067 -[Zach] Yeah, he was... -[Tori] Okay. 678 00:26:51,100 --> 00:26:52,333 [Zach] ...fine with it and everything, 679 00:26:52,367 --> 00:26:53,800 but he kinda laughed, like 680 00:26:53,833 --> 00:26:55,767 he almost thought I was, like, name calling him, you know. 681 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,600 He's like, I'm not a dwarf, you know, like... 682 00:27:00,933 --> 00:27:02,800 It's not a conversation I'm prepared to have 683 00:27:02,833 --> 00:27:05,067 but, you know, families have dwarfism. 684 00:27:05,067 --> 00:27:06,233 Those moments come up 685 00:27:06,267 --> 00:27:07,700 that you have to then talk about. 686 00:27:07,733 --> 00:27:09,067 You know it's coming, 687 00:27:09,067 --> 00:27:10,667 you know the questions are gonna come 688 00:27:10,700 --> 00:27:12,633 and the curiosity about themselves, 689 00:27:12,667 --> 00:27:14,967 but I don't have it planned out in my head, 690 00:27:15,067 --> 00:27:17,633 it's just kinda however my kids bring it up, 691 00:27:17,667 --> 00:27:19,633 because I don't think it's gonna be like a conversation. 692 00:27:19,667 --> 00:27:21,833 I think it's gonna be, like, more like moments. 693 00:27:21,867 --> 00:27:24,533 Tori, my philosophy on him and all of our kids 694 00:27:24,567 --> 00:27:27,867 is I'm a big believer in the more we react to everything... 695 00:27:27,900 --> 00:27:30,367 -Oh, yeah. -they're affected by it negatively 696 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:31,867 -because we're affected by it. -[Tori] Right. 697 00:27:31,900 --> 00:27:33,300 So it's all about like, 698 00:27:33,333 --> 00:27:34,967 when he does bring that stuff up, 699 00:27:35,067 --> 00:27:36,733 -not overreacting-- -[Tori] Staying calm. 700 00:27:36,767 --> 00:27:38,667 Not... It's not about us in that moment. 701 00:27:38,700 --> 00:27:41,067 It's about the next 50 years for him, 702 00:27:41,067 --> 00:27:42,467 you know what I'm saying? 703 00:27:42,500 --> 00:27:44,633 How we react in these early ages... 704 00:27:44,667 --> 00:27:47,067 -[Tori] Yeah. -affects how he deals with this 705 00:27:47,067 --> 00:27:48,067 -for the rest of his life... -[Tori] Yeah. 706 00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:49,533 you know what I'm saying? 707 00:27:49,567 --> 00:27:50,833 When he asks me these questions 708 00:27:50,867 --> 00:27:52,333 or tells me these things, 709 00:27:52,367 --> 00:27:54,067 I'm obviously truthful, 710 00:27:54,067 --> 00:27:55,867 but I am careful how I present myself. 711 00:27:55,900 --> 00:27:58,067 I don't wanna show too much emotion 712 00:27:58,067 --> 00:27:59,567 or make too big of a deal of it. 713 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,600 As parents, we project so much 714 00:28:01,633 --> 00:28:04,733 of our own insecurities and just worries 715 00:28:04,767 --> 00:28:06,267 that they shouldn't even think about it 716 00:28:06,300 --> 00:28:07,733 for, like, 10 years. 717 00:28:07,767 --> 00:28:09,933 My parents had the same sensitivity for sure. 718 00:28:09,967 --> 00:28:11,467 And I just hope Tori and me 719 00:28:11,500 --> 00:28:13,400 can help him mentally get through it, 720 00:28:13,433 --> 00:28:15,733 can help him keep up. 721 00:28:15,767 --> 00:28:17,533 Let's go inside, get jammies on. 722 00:28:17,567 --> 00:28:20,467 -Let's all, like, go reconvene. -Yeah. 723 00:28:20,500 --> 00:28:22,133 [Tori] We got to let Murph out to come eat this... 724 00:28:22,167 --> 00:28:24,333 -[Zach] Yeah. -so there's no bears tonight. 725 00:28:25,067 --> 00:28:26,900 Oh, we also have another kid. 726 00:28:26,933 --> 00:28:28,800 -[Zach] Oh, hey, Si Si. -[Tori] Hi, Si. 727 00:28:34,133 --> 00:28:35,233 [Amy] Coming up... 728 00:28:35,267 --> 00:28:38,433 Did you hear about Matt's health scare? 729 00:28:38,467 --> 00:28:40,800 -He's cried wolf so many times. -[Caryn chuckles] 730 00:28:40,833 --> 00:28:42,233 No matter whatever happens, 731 00:28:42,267 --> 00:28:44,067 Amy and I will have Matt in common, 732 00:28:44,100 --> 00:28:46,200 the good, the bad, the whatever, 733 00:28:46,233 --> 00:28:48,533 and so, I'll just leave it at that. 734 00:28:48,567 --> 00:28:50,433 I think that probably says it all. 735 00:28:57,633 --> 00:29:00,667 [upbeat music playing] 736 00:29:06,100 --> 00:29:08,733 -Hello. What do you got? -[Amy] Geez. 737 00:29:08,767 --> 00:29:10,333 Oh, you got all kinds of stuff. Here. 738 00:29:10,367 --> 00:29:12,067 [Amy] No, I got it, because if... 739 00:29:12,067 --> 00:29:13,067 -It will all fall-- -Okay. 740 00:29:13,067 --> 00:29:14,067 [Amy] You know... You know those situations? 741 00:29:14,067 --> 00:29:14,933 [Caryn] Yeah. 742 00:29:14,967 --> 00:29:16,733 Here, let's start off in the barn. 743 00:29:16,767 --> 00:29:17,733 Yeah. 744 00:29:17,767 --> 00:29:19,267 I'm going to the farm today 745 00:29:19,300 --> 00:29:21,067 to just meet up with Caryn 746 00:29:21,100 --> 00:29:23,467 and go over some rough ideas 747 00:29:23,500 --> 00:29:24,967 and plans for decorating. 748 00:29:25,067 --> 00:29:26,600 How do we need to get the barn ready 749 00:29:26,633 --> 00:29:28,600 for this fundraiser for DAAA, 750 00:29:28,633 --> 00:29:30,067 which is in a month. 751 00:29:30,100 --> 00:29:31,233 You go run around, Daisy. 752 00:29:31,267 --> 00:29:32,567 This is your chance. 753 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:33,800 She's so cute. 754 00:29:33,833 --> 00:29:35,667 [Amy] For me, it's still kind of awkward 755 00:29:35,700 --> 00:29:37,267 to meet up with Caryn, 756 00:29:37,300 --> 00:29:39,167 but we're also meeting up 757 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,167 with each other for a cause, 758 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,833 and you don't have to get into personal things 759 00:29:44,867 --> 00:29:47,167 and, you know, go in that different space, 760 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:48,500 because it's not necessary. 761 00:29:48,533 --> 00:29:50,333 It's doesn't serve anything. 762 00:29:50,367 --> 00:29:51,967 Not that, you know, way back 763 00:29:52,067 --> 00:29:54,433 in Matt and I's situation 764 00:29:54,467 --> 00:29:56,467 that still doesn't have an impact on me 765 00:29:56,500 --> 00:29:58,733 because, you know, 766 00:29:58,767 --> 00:30:00,667 it'll always impact me till the day I die. 767 00:30:00,700 --> 00:30:04,133 But, you know, you just do the best you can. 768 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,900 I think my main thing is I would really like to 769 00:30:08,933 --> 00:30:11,400 get that barn cleared out as soon as we can. 770 00:30:11,433 --> 00:30:12,833 Not, like, tomorrow, 771 00:30:12,867 --> 00:30:14,300 but in the next couple of weeks, 772 00:30:14,333 --> 00:30:15,633 because I wanna set up these tables 773 00:30:15,667 --> 00:30:17,067 -and get a visual... -Got it. 774 00:30:17,100 --> 00:30:18,500 and see what it's gonna look like. 775 00:30:18,533 --> 00:30:20,433 Do we have enough room to pull out chairs and stuff? 776 00:30:21,500 --> 00:30:23,067 [Caryn] Working with Amy is good. 777 00:30:23,100 --> 00:30:24,433 She knows what she's doing. 778 00:30:24,467 --> 00:30:25,767 She's done these events before. 779 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:26,900 She knows the farm. 780 00:30:26,933 --> 00:30:28,967 She's got a good head on her shoulders. 781 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,300 I think there's been some history 782 00:30:30,333 --> 00:30:32,133 where she had a lot of feelings 783 00:30:32,167 --> 00:30:34,267 about the farm and her space 784 00:30:34,300 --> 00:30:36,400 and I totally got that. 785 00:30:36,433 --> 00:30:38,100 And so I'm just glad 786 00:30:38,133 --> 00:30:41,233 that she made the choice 787 00:30:41,267 --> 00:30:44,633 to embrace a relationship with Matt and I, 788 00:30:44,667 --> 00:30:48,000 because it's made all of our lives easier. 789 00:30:48,033 --> 00:30:52,267 And so I have a true respect for that maturity. 790 00:30:52,300 --> 00:30:54,400 -Let's think about this. -Okay. 791 00:30:54,433 --> 00:30:56,133 Um-- 792 00:30:56,167 --> 00:30:57,833 We'll get the bug out, 793 00:30:57,867 --> 00:31:02,067 then we could have the two check-in booths, 794 00:31:02,067 --> 00:31:03,967 maybe a table there and a table there. 795 00:31:04,067 --> 00:31:06,600 They take care of it, and then once they walk in, 796 00:31:07,533 --> 00:31:08,900 I don't know, the caterer is set up, 797 00:31:08,933 --> 00:31:10,233 -there's a bar and then... -Yup. 798 00:31:10,267 --> 00:31:12,833 -the tables. -[Amy] Yup. Yup. 799 00:31:12,867 --> 00:31:13,967 We're all the team, 800 00:31:14,067 --> 00:31:16,967 but Caryn's specific role is to, 801 00:31:17,067 --> 00:31:18,733 I don't wanna say manage Matt, 802 00:31:18,767 --> 00:31:21,067 but can you help him 803 00:31:21,100 --> 00:31:23,900 like get the barn ready, remind Matt 804 00:31:23,933 --> 00:31:25,467 that he's got to do this, this and this and that, 805 00:31:25,500 --> 00:31:27,333 because that's not my job anymore. 806 00:31:27,367 --> 00:31:30,500 I... I'm leaving that in her hands. 807 00:31:30,533 --> 00:31:33,400 Oh, by the way, I bought treats. 808 00:31:33,433 --> 00:31:35,533 Oh, you brought treats for us? 809 00:31:35,567 --> 00:31:37,067 I thought they were for the dog. 810 00:31:37,067 --> 00:31:38,900 [Amy] Well, I did for her too because... 811 00:31:38,933 --> 00:31:40,500 Oh, that's the sweetest thing ever. 812 00:31:40,533 --> 00:31:41,933 it's a forever toddler. 813 00:31:43,167 --> 00:31:46,067 Daisy, she brought treats for you and me. 814 00:31:46,067 --> 00:31:48,300 I've always liked Amy. I always think she's funny 815 00:31:48,333 --> 00:31:51,067 and we kinda laugh at each other because we're... 816 00:31:51,100 --> 00:31:53,233 You know, we're roughly the same age, 817 00:31:53,267 --> 00:31:55,167 and we're both a little forgetful, 818 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,067 and maybe a little clumsy and... 819 00:31:57,067 --> 00:31:58,067 I mean, for God sake, 820 00:31:58,100 --> 00:31:59,800 we're both married to the same guy. 821 00:31:59,833 --> 00:32:01,700 Oh, I'm not married yet but you know what I mean. 822 00:32:01,733 --> 00:32:04,100 We've both been with Matt forever. 823 00:32:04,133 --> 00:32:05,800 And no matter what ever happens, 824 00:32:05,833 --> 00:32:07,600 Amy and I will have Matt in common, 825 00:32:07,633 --> 00:32:09,900 the good, the bad, the whatever. 826 00:32:09,933 --> 00:32:12,067 And so, I'll just leave it at that. 827 00:32:12,100 --> 00:32:13,967 I think that probably says it all. 828 00:32:14,733 --> 00:32:16,267 So how is it 829 00:32:16,300 --> 00:32:17,567 -working with the house? -[Caryn] Oh. 830 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,800 Ooh, well you should know. 831 00:32:21,767 --> 00:32:24,733 Of all people who can relate to my shoes, 832 00:32:24,767 --> 00:32:26,733 it would be you, Ame. Thank you. 833 00:32:26,767 --> 00:32:28,533 I mean, he can't make a decision. 834 00:32:28,567 --> 00:32:29,733 [Amy laughs] 835 00:32:29,767 --> 00:32:31,433 I know, he keeps saying I can. 836 00:32:31,467 --> 00:32:32,733 It's like, yeah, I can. 837 00:32:32,767 --> 00:32:34,267 -[Caryn] Right? -I say no. 838 00:32:34,300 --> 00:32:36,567 -Right. -[Amy] But you didn't like it. 839 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,200 -[Caryn] It makes me the most crazy... -Okay. Chocolate croissant. 840 00:32:38,233 --> 00:32:39,533 -Where'd your thing go? -Oh, right here. 841 00:32:39,567 --> 00:32:41,433 Thank you. Oh, my gosh. 842 00:32:41,467 --> 00:32:43,233 Going through a big project of building a house, 843 00:32:43,267 --> 00:32:45,100 I've been there, been there, done that 844 00:32:45,133 --> 00:32:47,967 with Matt on the two major remodels and other remodels. 845 00:32:48,067 --> 00:32:49,767 And I can make a decision, 846 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,600 but I'm just not, you know, 847 00:32:52,633 --> 00:32:55,767 because when you make a decision in a snap of a moment, 848 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,900 oftentimes you have to go back and change it, 849 00:32:57,933 --> 00:33:00,100 you're gonna have to go back again and again. 850 00:33:00,133 --> 00:33:01,600 I mean, who can function 851 00:33:01,633 --> 00:33:04,067 in that kind of chaos half of the time? 852 00:33:04,067 --> 00:33:06,767 It was funny to hear that some things haven't changed. 853 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,133 Did you hear about Matt's health scare? 854 00:33:10,167 --> 00:33:11,700 Well, he mentioned it briefly 855 00:33:11,733 --> 00:33:13,333 when we got together before, but-- 856 00:33:13,367 --> 00:33:15,167 It was, like, crazy 857 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,667 because they're like, "Okay. We had a complication." 858 00:33:17,700 --> 00:33:19,833 And then, I'm trying to absorb all that, 859 00:33:19,867 --> 00:33:21,500 and then the lady was like, 860 00:33:21,533 --> 00:33:23,100 "What if he's not coherent 861 00:33:23,133 --> 00:33:26,100 to make the decision to go back under?" 862 00:33:26,133 --> 00:33:27,367 -Because he was on... -[Amy] Mmm-hmm. 863 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,067 sedation. 864 00:33:29,067 --> 00:33:30,300 And that really hit me. 865 00:33:30,333 --> 00:33:31,800 So I was like... They're like, 866 00:33:31,833 --> 00:33:33,700 "Who is his person in charge?" 867 00:33:33,733 --> 00:33:36,067 And I'm like, "I don't know." 868 00:33:37,067 --> 00:33:38,767 I mean, "I guess, it's me, but I don't... 869 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,300 You know, legally, I'm... 870 00:33:40,333 --> 00:33:41,633 I don't know. We're not married yet." 871 00:33:41,667 --> 00:33:43,133 Well, it doesn't matter if you're married or not, 872 00:33:43,167 --> 00:33:45,100 he can always designate anyone he wants. 873 00:33:45,133 --> 00:33:47,767 -Right. But I didn't know. -[Amy] You know? 874 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,600 -[Caryn] It was scary. It's... It just... -Yeah. 875 00:33:49,633 --> 00:33:51,967 goes to show that anything can happen at any time, 876 00:33:52,067 --> 00:33:54,067 and you have to have these preparations in place. 877 00:33:54,067 --> 00:33:55,800 [Amy] Yeah, you do. And you have to, 878 00:33:55,833 --> 00:33:57,200 if something were to go wrong-- 879 00:33:57,233 --> 00:33:59,133 [Caryn] I mean, have you and Chris had those like con... 880 00:33:59,167 --> 00:34:01,333 -Hard conversations? -A little bit. 881 00:34:01,367 --> 00:34:02,500 [Caryn] 'Cause I... 882 00:34:02,533 --> 00:34:03,533 Matt and I... 883 00:34:03,567 --> 00:34:04,867 I mean he always says, 884 00:34:04,900 --> 00:34:05,867 you know, I don't wanna linger. 885 00:34:05,900 --> 00:34:07,533 That's what his word is. I don't wanna linger. 886 00:34:07,567 --> 00:34:09,167 It's like, "Okay. Well, what does that mean?" 887 00:34:09,199 --> 00:34:11,100 Listen, I've heard his story so many times. 888 00:34:11,132 --> 00:34:13,766 -[Caryn] Oh, yeah. He-- -He's cried wolf so many times. 889 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,400 Is that when it actually happens, I'm like, 890 00:34:15,433 --> 00:34:16,766 "Well, it's about time." 891 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,533 You know, like, "It's like okay." 892 00:34:18,567 --> 00:34:20,699 You're still here. 893 00:34:20,733 --> 00:34:22,833 I don't... I don't really get too shook up. 894 00:34:22,867 --> 00:34:24,833 But then there's a part of you it's like, 895 00:34:24,867 --> 00:34:25,900 "Well, is this it?" 896 00:34:27,900 --> 00:34:29,533 When I say Matt cried wolf a lot, 897 00:34:29,567 --> 00:34:32,533 it's not that something wasn't going on, 898 00:34:32,567 --> 00:34:34,433 but just because you stubbed your toe 899 00:34:34,467 --> 00:34:36,699 does not mean you're losing your leg. 900 00:34:36,733 --> 00:34:39,600 So, when that happens so many of the times, 901 00:34:39,632 --> 00:34:41,900 it's like, "Okay. Well, I'm not gonna come and run. 902 00:34:41,933 --> 00:34:44,500 You'll be okay. You'll be fine." 903 00:34:44,533 --> 00:34:46,067 But I've also know 904 00:34:46,067 --> 00:34:48,199 that when we're entering 905 00:34:48,233 --> 00:34:50,367 this season of life that we're in now, 906 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,900 some of those health scares 907 00:34:51,933 --> 00:34:54,533 can become a lot more significant. 908 00:34:54,567 --> 00:34:56,699 I don't think he cries wolf as much anymore 909 00:34:56,733 --> 00:34:58,400 because it's more real. 910 00:34:58,433 --> 00:35:00,833 So, are you ready for these later years, 911 00:35:00,867 --> 00:35:02,133 taking care of someone who may need it? 912 00:35:02,167 --> 00:35:03,367 Oh, good. I'm good. Thank you. 913 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:04,633 -No, you gotta have another one. -No, I can't have two. 914 00:35:04,667 --> 00:35:05,967 Yes, you do. I'm having two. 915 00:35:06,067 --> 00:35:07,300 I'm gonna have more berries. 916 00:35:09,433 --> 00:35:11,567 No. You have another one and I'll have one. 917 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,767 -I'm having the other one. -Thank you. 918 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,733 -That's-- -This is... This is lunch. 919 00:35:15,767 --> 00:35:17,300 -How about that? -[Caryn] Yeah. 920 00:35:17,333 --> 00:35:18,800 You know, when you're young, 921 00:35:18,833 --> 00:35:20,600 you don't think about being old, which is good. 922 00:35:20,633 --> 00:35:21,667 -You don't think about-- -[Amy] Yeah. 923 00:35:21,700 --> 00:35:23,067 -No, you shouldn't. -You know, 924 00:35:23,100 --> 00:35:24,467 and just like Matt said, 925 00:35:24,500 --> 00:35:26,733 "We could worry all about me and me being a dwarf, 926 00:35:26,767 --> 00:35:28,233 and you could be the one that comes down 927 00:35:28,267 --> 00:35:29,133 -with breast cancer." -[indistinct] 928 00:35:29,167 --> 00:35:30,900 [Caryn] I mean, anything can happen. 929 00:35:30,933 --> 00:35:33,500 And then, I don't think he could take care of me, 930 00:35:33,533 --> 00:35:35,633 but he'd do what he does best. He'll hire somebody. 931 00:35:36,433 --> 00:35:38,167 Yeah. Yeah. 932 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,500 So, you just kinda gotta go with each day we know, 933 00:35:40,533 --> 00:35:41,833 but none of us know the future. 934 00:35:41,867 --> 00:35:43,733 Uh-uh. 935 00:35:43,767 --> 00:35:46,133 There are more complications when you know 936 00:35:46,167 --> 00:35:48,800 that you have someone that has dwarfism 937 00:35:48,833 --> 00:35:50,833 because there's always a little bit more risk. 938 00:35:50,867 --> 00:35:52,967 But I can't fix dwarfism, 939 00:35:53,067 --> 00:35:56,067 I can't fix anything that may happen with Matt, 940 00:35:56,100 --> 00:35:58,567 but I can try to be prepared and I... 941 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,167 I'm in for the long haul. 942 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,067 I'm up for the challenge. 943 00:36:02,067 --> 00:36:04,100 I can see that you didn't eat your croissant. 944 00:36:05,067 --> 00:36:07,467 I mean, I got good half of it done. 945 00:36:07,500 --> 00:36:09,667 -[Amy] Well... -I'm trying. 946 00:36:09,700 --> 00:36:12,067 I'm gonna put the guilt trip on you because I ate mine. 947 00:36:12,100 --> 00:36:15,133 Okay. Well, I'm not walking away from... 948 00:36:15,167 --> 00:36:17,333 -[Amy] That's right. -this gazebo until this thing is gone. 949 00:36:17,367 --> 00:36:19,067 [Amy] That's right. 950 00:36:19,100 --> 00:36:21,567 So sweet that she brought these pastries 951 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,400 and so I didn't wanna like 952 00:36:23,433 --> 00:36:25,833 stuff it in my pocket when she turned around. 953 00:36:25,867 --> 00:36:28,233 You know, that would've been really weird. 954 00:36:28,267 --> 00:36:30,233 We might be sitting here a while 955 00:36:31,433 --> 00:36:32,933 -but I'm doing it. -[Amy] Mmm-hmm. 956 00:36:33,933 --> 00:36:35,067 [Matthew] Coming up... 957 00:36:35,067 --> 00:36:36,567 [Lilah crying] 958 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:37,867 Can you hand her a flashlight back, Jackson? 959 00:36:37,900 --> 00:36:39,400 Let's go camping, they said, 960 00:36:39,433 --> 00:36:41,233 it'll be fun! 961 00:36:41,267 --> 00:36:42,567 [Lilah crying] 962 00:36:45,067 --> 00:36:46,700 [Zach laughs] 963 00:36:56,633 --> 00:36:59,167 [upbeat music playing] 964 00:37:04,300 --> 00:37:06,267 [Zach] You guys ready to go back out? 965 00:37:06,300 --> 00:37:07,500 -[Jackson speaking] -[Zach] All right. 966 00:37:07,533 --> 00:37:09,567 Let's do it. 967 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,500 [Lilah] Yes! 968 00:37:11,533 --> 00:37:13,867 When you're camping out, it's kinda tough to go to bed 969 00:37:13,900 --> 00:37:16,267 here in the northwest because it stays light pretty late. 970 00:37:16,300 --> 00:37:18,933 But we're gonna try to see if everyone wants to lie down. 971 00:37:19,700 --> 00:37:21,067 [Tori] Here we go. 972 00:37:23,067 --> 00:37:25,400 [Lilah crying] 973 00:37:25,433 --> 00:37:27,733 [quirky music playing] 974 00:37:29,633 --> 00:37:31,067 [Tori] Come here. 975 00:37:31,100 --> 00:37:32,600 Come here. What happened? 976 00:37:32,633 --> 00:37:34,867 [Lilah speaking] 977 00:37:34,900 --> 00:37:36,267 [Tori speaking] 978 00:37:36,300 --> 00:37:37,400 [Lilah] No. 979 00:37:37,433 --> 00:37:40,633 [Tori speaking] 980 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:42,833 [Zach] Yeah, it's not a great start. 981 00:37:42,867 --> 00:37:44,833 Lilah trips 982 00:37:44,867 --> 00:37:47,567 and falls on her face and is pretty upset. 983 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,767 We haven't even made it off the patio yet. 984 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,067 Lilah just has these accidents that happen to her 985 00:37:53,067 --> 00:37:55,933 and it's tough because she takes a long time to calm down. 986 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:00,767 [Lilah crying] Ow! Ow! 987 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:01,900 [Zach] Lilah. 988 00:38:01,933 --> 00:38:04,933 [crying] 989 00:38:06,967 --> 00:38:08,100 [Zach] Lilah? 990 00:38:09,500 --> 00:38:10,933 Can you hand her a flashlight, Jackson? 991 00:38:10,967 --> 00:38:14,967 Let's go camping, they said, it'll be fun! 992 00:38:16,367 --> 00:38:18,433 Originally, I wasn't worried about Lilah 993 00:38:18,467 --> 00:38:19,800 spending the night out there. 994 00:38:19,833 --> 00:38:21,067 I was worried about myself. 995 00:38:21,067 --> 00:38:22,800 I was worried about how I was gonna wake up the next day. 996 00:38:22,833 --> 00:38:24,067 That's what I was worried about. 997 00:38:24,067 --> 00:38:25,833 But here we are. 998 00:38:26,367 --> 00:38:30,900 [Jackson speaking] 999 00:38:30,933 --> 00:38:33,767 No. I think Lila's been tortured enough tonight. 1000 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,067 [Zach] Can you lie in your bed? 1001 00:38:35,100 --> 00:38:37,067 [Lilah speaking] 1002 00:38:37,067 --> 00:38:38,300 I'll help you. 1003 00:38:39,133 --> 00:38:41,233 -Lilah, where's-- -Ready? Get in. 1004 00:38:41,267 --> 00:38:42,967 -Where's your water? -Get in. 1005 00:38:43,067 --> 00:38:44,133 Your little table. 1006 00:38:44,167 --> 00:38:47,200 [Lilah crying] 1007 00:38:49,433 --> 00:38:52,100 Lilah finally gets in bed, and then she hits her table 1008 00:38:52,133 --> 00:38:54,467 and the water bowl comes down and hits her in the face, 1009 00:38:54,500 --> 00:38:56,067 and she's pretty upset about it. 1010 00:38:56,100 --> 00:38:57,200 Get your feet up. 1011 00:38:57,967 --> 00:38:59,500 -[crying] -[Zach] No. No. 1012 00:38:59,533 --> 00:39:02,367 -Lilah. Lilah. -[crying] 1013 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:03,933 -Okay. Then we're gonna go outside. -Hey. Hey. 1014 00:39:10,433 --> 00:39:11,900 Just the boys! 1015 00:39:16,067 --> 00:39:17,667 [Zach] Mom's not coming back. 1016 00:39:17,700 --> 00:39:18,900 It's not happening. 1017 00:39:22,867 --> 00:39:25,200 I don't think mom's worried about that right now. 1018 00:39:25,233 --> 00:39:27,500 [Zach laughs] 1019 00:39:29,267 --> 00:39:30,733 [Jackson speaking] 1020 00:39:35,500 --> 00:39:37,167 Lilah was so uncomfortable 1021 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,667 and I felt bad for her, 1022 00:39:38,700 --> 00:39:40,167 and I was just kinda at this point 1023 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:41,800 where I'm like, "I'm not gonna force her 1024 00:39:41,833 --> 00:39:45,067 to sit out here and camp." 1025 00:39:45,067 --> 00:39:46,867 Well, I'm just gonna try again. 1026 00:39:47,533 --> 00:39:48,800 I took her inside. 1027 00:39:48,833 --> 00:39:50,567 She was in her bed for a couple minutes, 1028 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,633 was able to calm down, and then she decided 1029 00:39:52,667 --> 00:39:53,967 that she wanted to come back out 1030 00:39:54,067 --> 00:39:55,067 and try it again. 1031 00:40:01,433 --> 00:40:02,667 [Zach] You're gonna sleep? 1032 00:40:04,700 --> 00:40:06,033 You wanna sleep with Da-da? 1033 00:40:08,367 --> 00:40:09,900 I think Tori taking Lilah inside 1034 00:40:09,933 --> 00:40:12,000 and just reset the night for her. 1035 00:40:12,033 --> 00:40:13,167 [laughs] Yeah. 1036 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:14,100 [Zach] All right. Ready. 1037 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:26,133 [quirky music playing] 1038 00:40:26,167 --> 00:40:28,800 [Tori] Josiah woke up in the middle of the night with a dirty diaper. 1039 00:40:28,833 --> 00:40:30,333 And so I had to leave with him, 1040 00:40:30,367 --> 00:40:32,133 but I think he would've made it 1041 00:40:32,167 --> 00:40:34,567 had he not gotten a gross diaper. 1042 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,133 [Zach] Yes, he would've definitely made it. 1043 00:40:36,167 --> 00:40:37,567 [Tori] He would've totally made it. 1044 00:40:39,667 --> 00:40:41,467 [birds chirping] 1045 00:40:41,500 --> 00:40:43,500 [upbeat music playing] 1046 00:40:43,533 --> 00:40:45,233 I was actually very into camping. 1047 00:40:45,267 --> 00:40:46,733 Yeah, Tori got into it, okay? 1048 00:40:46,767 --> 00:40:48,167 She was a good spirit about it. 1049 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,267 [Tori] I could have stayed out there all night long. 1050 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:52,833 [Lilah] Pee. 1051 00:40:56,567 --> 00:40:58,333 I think camping is... Definitely, it's not about 1052 00:40:58,367 --> 00:41:00,700 being comfortable and it's not smooth sailing. 1053 00:41:00,733 --> 00:41:02,133 It's for sure about, like, 1054 00:41:02,167 --> 00:41:04,367 the experience, being together. 1055 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,733 And honestly, not being super comfortable 1056 00:41:06,767 --> 00:41:09,400 and, like, things going the same, you know? 1057 00:41:09,433 --> 00:41:11,200 I think that's what camping's all about. 1058 00:41:11,233 --> 00:41:15,067 So, this is all just part of the adventure and memory. 1059 00:41:15,067 --> 00:41:16,300 What's up, dude? 1060 00:41:18,567 --> 00:41:19,667 [Zach] Josiah. 1061 00:41:21,467 --> 00:41:23,233 [Jackson speaking] 1062 00:41:25,467 --> 00:41:27,700 [narrator] Next on Little People, Big World... 1063 00:41:27,733 --> 00:41:29,233 [Zach] All right, Jackson, you ready to go, bud? 1064 00:41:29,267 --> 00:41:31,100 [Tori] Are you nervous? 1065 00:41:31,133 --> 00:41:32,967 Jackson said he was nervous, which is... 1066 00:41:33,067 --> 00:41:34,267 I mean, he's never done it before. 1067 00:41:34,300 --> 00:41:35,767 I don't blame him for being a little nervous. 1068 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:37,633 It's a big animal. 1069 00:41:37,667 --> 00:41:39,233 You good, J? 1070 00:41:40,767 --> 00:41:42,300 Our event is here. 1071 00:41:42,333 --> 00:41:45,367 I need stuff gone from here 1072 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:46,900 at least by midweek. 1073 00:41:46,933 --> 00:41:49,600 We're hosting a DAAA fundraising event. 1074 00:41:49,633 --> 00:41:51,567 There's certain things that we need to get done 1075 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,233 in a matter of like a week-and-a-half, two weeks. 1076 00:41:54,267 --> 00:41:55,933 You're not moving any more of my stuff, are you? 1077 00:41:56,900 --> 00:41:59,400 You know that she didn't do that, right? 1078 00:41:59,433 --> 00:42:01,167 -[Amy] I didn't do-- -No. And she gave the... 1079 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,333 -Gave the guys instructions. -No, I did not. 1080 00:42:03,367 --> 00:42:05,433 -[Chris] No, she didn't. -No, I did not. 1081 00:42:05,467 --> 00:42:07,167 [Matthew] I had specific instructions 1082 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:08,967 that were different than what happened, 1083 00:42:09,067 --> 00:42:11,100 so I don't know why all of a sudden 1084 00:42:11,133 --> 00:42:12,700 she's all miss deniability, you know? 1085 00:42:15,367 --> 00:42:16,967 Are the kids coming to the fundraiser? 1086 00:42:17,067 --> 00:42:19,967 You know, Zach and Tori said, no. 1087 00:42:20,067 --> 00:42:22,500 I'm very disappointed, honestly. 1088 00:42:22,533 --> 00:42:24,200 I didn't ask them, Amy did, 1089 00:42:24,233 --> 00:42:27,133 but they came up with some reason. 1090 00:42:28,367 --> 00:42:30,833 It's an unfortunate thing. 1091 00:42:30,867 --> 00:42:33,200 [dramatic music playing]