1 00:00:01,724 --> 00:00:02,827 [Amy] Previously on Little People, Big World... 2 00:00:07,482 --> 00:00:09,448 [Tori] Are we gonna do like, a big horse, or a little one? 3 00:00:10,862 --> 00:00:12,517 Oh, no. We're doing a big one. 4 00:00:13,517 --> 00:00:15,137 [chuckling] 5 00:00:15,172 --> 00:00:18,965 -Your little table. -[Lilah crying] 6 00:00:23,586 --> 00:00:26,275 [Zach] Mom's not coming back. It's not happening. 7 00:00:29,655 --> 00:00:32,619 [laughing] I don't think Mom's worried about that right now. 8 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,137 Does this look Western? 9 00:00:35,172 --> 00:00:36,724 -Oh, my goodness. -[laughs] 10 00:00:36,758 --> 00:00:40,206 This fundraiser that we're having for DAAA will be at the farm. 11 00:00:40,241 --> 00:00:42,206 And it's kind of Western themed. 12 00:00:42,241 --> 00:00:45,206 -Hello! Well, you got all kinds of stuff. Here. -[Amy] Well. 13 00:00:45,241 --> 00:00:47,482 [Caryn] We've both been with Matt for ever 14 00:00:47,517 --> 00:00:49,206 and I think there's been some history where 15 00:00:49,241 --> 00:00:53,172 she had a lot of feelings about the farm and her space. 16 00:00:53,206 --> 00:00:54,034 So, how is it, 17 00:00:54,827 --> 00:00:57,000 -working with the house? -Oh? Oh! 18 00:00:57,034 --> 00:00:59,482 Well, you should know. [laughs] 19 00:00:59,517 --> 00:01:03,413 For me, it's still kind of awkward to meet up with Caryn. 20 00:01:03,448 --> 00:01:05,758 It'll always impact me till the day I die, but... 21 00:01:06,758 --> 00:01:07,965 you just do the best you can. 22 00:01:27,103 --> 00:01:27,931 -[Zach] Let's go there. -[Tori] You good? 23 00:01:29,068 --> 00:01:30,862 -[Kelsey] Hi, guys! -Hi! 24 00:01:30,896 --> 00:01:32,103 -[Kelsey] How are you today? -[Tori] Good. 25 00:01:32,137 --> 00:01:33,931 Ready to ride some horses I think. 26 00:01:33,965 --> 00:01:35,172 -Yeah? -These two. 27 00:01:35,206 --> 00:01:36,482 -These two? -[Zach] Not the little guy. 28 00:01:36,517 --> 00:01:37,517 Okay. 29 00:01:37,551 --> 00:01:40,586 Last week, I made a deal with Jackson 30 00:01:40,620 --> 00:01:43,896 that if I camped out, he would go horseback riding with me. 31 00:01:43,931 --> 00:01:45,517 I made good on my promise. 32 00:01:45,551 --> 00:01:47,206 Now, he's making good on his. 33 00:01:47,241 --> 00:01:48,689 [Zach] All right, Jackson. You ready to go, bud? 34 00:01:49,758 --> 00:01:50,758 Are you excited? 35 00:01:51,620 --> 00:01:53,931 [Kelsey] Yeah? Are you nervous? 36 00:01:53,965 --> 00:01:56,862 -[Tori] You're gonna be great, dude. -[Kelsey] Kinda? That's okay. 37 00:01:56,896 --> 00:01:58,103 [Tori] Jackson said he was nervous. 38 00:01:58,137 --> 00:01:59,931 Which is, I mean, he's never done it before. 39 00:01:59,965 --> 00:02:01,620 I don't blame him for being a little nervous. 40 00:02:02,172 --> 00:02:03,068 It's a big animal. 41 00:02:05,172 --> 00:02:06,482 -[gasping] Ooh! -There you go, perfect. 42 00:02:06,517 --> 00:02:08,931 -[Zach] Oh, wow. Look at Jackson up there. -[Tori] Good? 43 00:02:10,482 --> 00:02:12,068 -[Zach] Hey, Jackson. -[Tori] What? 44 00:02:12,103 --> 00:02:13,620 There was no, like, build up. 45 00:02:13,655 --> 00:02:15,931 It was just kind of like, "Oh, he's on a horse." 46 00:02:15,965 --> 00:02:17,931 He didn't have any opportunity to think about it. 47 00:02:17,965 --> 00:02:19,655 -It was like, done. -Yeah. 48 00:02:19,689 --> 00:02:21,000 -It was "go, go, go". -Yeah. 49 00:02:21,655 --> 00:02:23,310 [groans] Got it. 50 00:02:24,620 --> 00:02:27,275 Whoo! Whoo. It's been a minute. 51 00:02:28,965 --> 00:02:30,241 [Zach] They're gonna be too short. 52 00:02:31,862 --> 00:02:33,137 Here, put your foot in there real quick. 53 00:02:33,172 --> 00:02:34,448 -Let's see how that looks. -[Tori] Too long? 54 00:02:34,482 --> 00:02:36,241 -[Zach] Oh, no. It looks good. -[Kelsey] Yeah. 55 00:02:36,275 --> 00:02:38,275 There's some things, being a little person, 56 00:02:38,310 --> 00:02:39,482 things have to be adapted, 57 00:02:39,517 --> 00:02:40,862 riding a horse is one of them. 58 00:02:40,896 --> 00:02:44,586 Usually have to get shorter stirrups to put your feet in. 59 00:02:44,620 --> 00:02:46,517 And Jackson being as young as he is, as well, 60 00:02:46,551 --> 00:02:49,793 just being a child, you know, they have to make adjustments for that. 61 00:02:50,344 --> 00:02:51,448 All righty. 62 00:02:51,482 --> 00:02:53,172 So, we're gonna follow this trail across the road, 63 00:02:53,206 --> 00:02:55,103 through another trail, and out onto the beach. 64 00:02:55,137 --> 00:02:56,000 [Tori] You good, Jake? 65 00:03:02,931 --> 00:03:05,000 [Zach] Wow. Look at Jackson go. 66 00:03:06,068 --> 00:03:07,689 All right. Should we go to the beach, Lilah? 67 00:03:09,103 --> 00:03:11,206 No, Mama's gone horseback riding too. 68 00:03:11,241 --> 00:03:12,172 Pretty cool. 69 00:03:13,862 --> 00:03:14,862 All right, let's go. 70 00:03:14,896 --> 00:03:17,068 I was a little nervous, I'm not gonna lie. 71 00:03:17,103 --> 00:03:19,379 It's one thing for me to, like, bail off a horse. 72 00:03:19,413 --> 00:03:22,172 It's a whole other thing for a six-year-old to do it. 73 00:03:22,206 --> 00:03:24,586 But I hope he has a good experience. 74 00:03:24,620 --> 00:03:26,896 'Sup, Jake? You having fun? 75 00:03:28,448 --> 00:03:29,517 [Tori] Are you loving it? 76 00:03:31,551 --> 00:03:32,551 Can I get a 'yee-haw'? 77 00:03:34,724 --> 00:03:37,000 Nothing? Yee-haw! 78 00:03:37,034 --> 00:03:39,758 It was cool to see him doing something that 79 00:03:39,793 --> 00:03:41,379 he was so adamant that he wouldn't do, 80 00:03:41,413 --> 00:03:43,620 but then, not just like, doing it to appease me, 81 00:03:43,655 --> 00:03:45,517 but actually enjoying it. 82 00:03:46,344 --> 00:03:48,241 -What's up? -[Zach] Hey! 83 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,000 Jackson, how was it? 84 00:03:51,758 --> 00:03:53,551 [Colin] Did you have fun, bud? 85 00:03:53,586 --> 00:03:56,000 -[Colin] Good, I'm so glad you guys had fun. -What do you say? 86 00:03:56,034 --> 00:03:57,930 -[Tori] Thank you guys so much. -[Colin] You're welcome. 87 00:03:58,482 --> 00:03:59,413 [Jackson speaking] 88 00:04:03,620 --> 00:04:04,931 [Tori] But you did it, didn't you? 89 00:04:04,965 --> 00:04:06,586 You jumped right on there. 90 00:04:06,620 --> 00:04:08,034 [Zach] Jackson did amazing. 91 00:04:08,068 --> 00:04:09,724 Jackson, I'm so proud of you for doing that, dude. 92 00:04:09,758 --> 00:04:11,068 I had never doubted you though. 93 00:04:11,931 --> 00:04:13,655 Glad you did that, hey? 94 00:04:13,689 --> 00:04:15,379 Is Mom gonna camp out with us again now? 95 00:04:16,241 --> 00:04:17,137 Yeah? 96 00:04:20,067 --> 00:04:21,206 Sit still, please. 97 00:04:24,103 --> 00:04:25,379 Seeing me on a horse? 98 00:04:25,413 --> 00:04:27,000 You know the best part for me on the horse? 99 00:04:27,655 --> 00:04:29,241 Was seeing you ride a horse. 100 00:04:29,275 --> 00:04:31,034 Twinsies. 101 00:04:31,068 --> 00:04:33,413 [Zach] Jackson, I can't wait till the shop's done. 102 00:04:35,448 --> 00:04:36,551 [Zach] It's almost there. 103 00:04:36,586 --> 00:04:37,931 The contractors are so close. 104 00:04:37,965 --> 00:04:40,655 They still have to finish the sidewalk outside. 105 00:04:40,689 --> 00:04:42,241 -The bathroom. -And the bathroom. 106 00:04:42,275 --> 00:04:44,206 Painting, the electrical. 107 00:04:45,482 --> 00:04:47,379 Well, if you say it like that there's still a lot but... 108 00:04:47,413 --> 00:04:48,379 [both chuckle] 109 00:04:48,413 --> 00:04:49,827 I think they're so close. 110 00:04:49,862 --> 00:04:53,103 The shop is a building we're having built on the property. 111 00:04:53,137 --> 00:04:56,551 We did have a prediction in there that it might be finished in May. 112 00:04:56,586 --> 00:04:58,241 But we're hoping it's done in July. 113 00:04:58,275 --> 00:04:59,827 We're definitely getting antsy. 114 00:04:59,862 --> 00:05:01,517 -You know, summer's here. -And we're just like, 115 00:05:01,551 --> 00:05:05,137 we're also like, in this space right now of summer, 116 00:05:05,172 --> 00:05:06,931 and we just wanna like, clean out the garage, 117 00:05:06,965 --> 00:05:08,931 and get rid of stuff and organize and like... 118 00:05:08,965 --> 00:05:10,689 -Yep. -...move on, but we can't, 119 00:05:10,724 --> 00:05:12,137 until that shop is done. 120 00:05:12,172 --> 00:05:14,793 And I think that's like, the most frustrating part. 121 00:05:14,827 --> 00:05:16,586 And are you guys ready for Austin? 122 00:05:16,620 --> 00:05:17,689 -[Jackson] Yeah. -Oh, yep. 123 00:05:17,724 --> 00:05:19,551 Once we're back from Austin, the shop's done. 124 00:05:20,344 --> 00:05:22,137 Besides finishing the shop, 125 00:05:22,172 --> 00:05:26,275 the whole family is going to go to the LPA Convention in Austin, Texas 126 00:05:26,310 --> 00:05:27,241 in a few weeks. 127 00:05:27,275 --> 00:05:29,000 And then, also, before we go to Texas, 128 00:05:29,034 --> 00:05:31,206 we're going to take a trip to see some friends in Idaho. 129 00:05:34,793 --> 00:05:36,206 Oh, we're going to be so busy. 130 00:05:37,379 --> 00:05:40,275 My mom's throwing a fundraiser to benefit DAAA. 131 00:05:40,310 --> 00:05:42,448 We, unfortunately, won't be in town for it. 132 00:05:42,482 --> 00:05:45,551 But I'm sure my mom's gonna throw a great fundraiser. 133 00:05:47,241 --> 00:05:48,310 You wanna sleep out again? 134 00:05:50,206 --> 00:05:51,310 Okay, are you gonna cry? 135 00:05:53,241 --> 00:05:55,724 [Zach and Tori laughing] 136 00:05:55,758 --> 00:05:57,586 We're having a great time on the beach with the family. 137 00:05:57,620 --> 00:05:58,724 The family loves the beach, 138 00:05:58,758 --> 00:06:01,172 and it's fun just watching the kids play 139 00:06:01,206 --> 00:06:02,724 and have fun like that. 140 00:06:02,758 --> 00:06:04,551 -[Tori] Lilah! -[Jackson panting] 141 00:06:04,586 --> 00:06:06,896 [Tori] Go, sis! Go, sis! Go, sis! Go, sis! 142 00:06:07,931 --> 00:06:09,793 [Zach] It's important to cherish these moments. 143 00:06:09,827 --> 00:06:11,068 You know, your kids are growing up. 144 00:06:11,103 --> 00:06:12,689 -So fast, they grow up. -You know? Yeah. 145 00:06:12,724 --> 00:06:14,275 They grow up fast, so... 146 00:06:14,310 --> 00:06:16,862 They're not gonna wanna go horseback riding with mom in a couple of years. 147 00:06:16,896 --> 00:06:19,275 Yeah, or they're just not gonna be that excited about it the same way 148 00:06:19,310 --> 00:06:20,586 -they are when they're kids. -Yeah. 149 00:06:20,620 --> 00:06:22,103 Siah-siah, are you at the beach? 150 00:06:22,793 --> 00:06:24,344 Whoo! 151 00:06:24,379 --> 00:06:26,344 [Zach] You know, we have three kids that have dwarfism, 152 00:06:26,379 --> 00:06:28,034 there's gonna be maybe a higher possibility 153 00:06:28,068 --> 00:06:30,206 that they're gonna need some sort of 154 00:06:30,241 --> 00:06:31,586 surgery or something like that. 155 00:06:31,620 --> 00:06:34,655 But that's just gonna develop good resilience in them 156 00:06:34,689 --> 00:06:35,896 and our kids are doing great. 157 00:06:35,931 --> 00:06:37,793 And these family moments are just family moments 158 00:06:37,827 --> 00:06:39,655 that we can all enjoy each other's company. 159 00:06:39,689 --> 00:06:40,620 [Tori] Jackson! 160 00:06:42,551 --> 00:06:43,896 Wow! 161 00:06:43,931 --> 00:06:46,103 These clothes are gonna get thrown away after this experience. 162 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:57,034 [Chris] So, this was Matt's suggestion for the shooting gallery. 163 00:06:57,068 --> 00:07:00,586 Put a couple of boards across and then, build a top. 164 00:07:00,620 --> 00:07:02,827 You've got a lot of work to do, just on this activity. 165 00:07:02,862 --> 00:07:05,034 -I know, I do. -Right. [chuckles] 166 00:07:05,068 --> 00:07:08,482 We're hosting a fundraising event along with Matt and Caryn. 167 00:07:08,517 --> 00:07:10,103 And it's gonna be on the farm. 168 00:07:10,137 --> 00:07:15,137 The charity we're supporting is Dwarf Athletic Association of America. 169 00:07:15,172 --> 00:07:17,275 Yeah, this stuff's gotta go, man. 170 00:07:18,103 --> 00:07:19,172 Shoot! 171 00:07:19,206 --> 00:07:22,241 Right now, we're only a couple of weeks away, and so, 172 00:07:22,275 --> 00:07:24,000 we're just getting together to meet with them, 173 00:07:24,034 --> 00:07:26,689 because there's certain things that we need to get done 174 00:07:26,724 --> 00:07:28,827 in a matter of like [chuckles] a week and a half, two weeks. 175 00:07:28,862 --> 00:07:31,241 -[dogs barking] -[Amy] Hi, Daze. 176 00:07:31,275 --> 00:07:34,310 Well, let's hope the fundraiser day's weather just... 177 00:07:34,344 --> 00:07:35,827 -Oh, yeah. Wouldn't that be nice? -...like this. 178 00:07:35,862 --> 00:07:37,413 [Amy] We were going over some stuff. 179 00:07:37,448 --> 00:07:39,310 Just where the activities are gonna be placed. 180 00:07:39,344 --> 00:07:41,241 I think bocce ball would be great there, 181 00:07:41,275 --> 00:07:42,689 but that's too much in the way. 182 00:07:42,724 --> 00:07:45,379 So, I'm gonna turn bocce ball just on the other side of this barn. 183 00:07:45,413 --> 00:07:46,344 [Caryn] Okay. 184 00:07:46,379 --> 00:07:47,758 So, the charity event is coming up, 185 00:07:47,793 --> 00:07:50,689 everybody has their own things they need to do. 186 00:07:50,724 --> 00:07:52,620 Amy's in charge, period. [chuckles] 187 00:07:52,655 --> 00:07:54,793 Catering, and the whole event. 188 00:07:54,827 --> 00:07:56,413 I am doing decorations, 189 00:07:56,448 --> 00:07:58,862 Matt is in charge of getting the facility ready, 190 00:07:58,896 --> 00:08:03,172 and Chris is helping Amy and then, doing his shooting gallery. 191 00:08:03,206 --> 00:08:05,310 [Matt] Now, I went ahead and put one table out. 192 00:08:05,344 --> 00:08:07,137 I put this here just to, um, 193 00:08:08,034 --> 00:08:10,137 see what condition they were in. 194 00:08:10,172 --> 00:08:14,482 I think we all just want a great event that, 195 00:08:14,517 --> 00:08:16,758 not only do people have a good time at, 196 00:08:16,793 --> 00:08:20,241 but they have a good time in wanting to give. 197 00:08:20,275 --> 00:08:24,413 -[laughing] -And part of that is making people feel the atmosphere, 198 00:08:24,448 --> 00:08:27,931 feel, you know, the purpose and why we're doing all this. 199 00:08:28,758 --> 00:08:30,344 So, this is the size of the tables. 200 00:08:30,379 --> 00:08:33,517 -But I think it's a six-- Six foot. -Six foot. 201 00:08:33,551 --> 00:08:37,344 The central location for the charity event is gonna be the wedding barn. 202 00:08:37,379 --> 00:08:40,586 We're really focusing on what needs to happen inside the wedding barn 203 00:08:40,620 --> 00:08:42,102 to get it ready for the event. 204 00:08:42,136 --> 00:08:45,827 Well, I think today, primarily, is what needs to come out of the barn, 205 00:08:45,862 --> 00:08:48,137 and where's the band gonna go, 206 00:08:48,172 --> 00:08:49,620 where are the auction items gonna go. 207 00:08:49,655 --> 00:08:52,344 So, it's more about, you know, really getting a vision on the setup. 208 00:08:52,379 --> 00:08:54,517 Hey, we're gonna gonna move all that stuff, are we? 209 00:08:54,551 --> 00:08:56,827 What I was thinking is, those apparatuses there, 210 00:08:56,862 --> 00:08:58,931 right there, underneath the umbrella, 211 00:08:58,965 --> 00:09:01,448 -we're just gonna put those behind that wagon. -[Amy] No. 212 00:09:01,482 --> 00:09:04,793 Matt, I need enough room for seven tables. 213 00:09:04,827 --> 00:09:06,931 -Right, we... -[Amy] We're barely gonna make it. 214 00:09:06,965 --> 00:09:08,241 [Matt] Amy can be stubborn. 215 00:09:08,275 --> 00:09:11,482 [laughs] Bless her heart. Yes. 216 00:09:11,517 --> 00:09:15,241 Well, I think for me, one of the things that I thought about was, 217 00:09:15,275 --> 00:09:16,758 Matt moves quick. 218 00:09:16,793 --> 00:09:19,448 He'll turn over one stone, and then he's turning over another stone, 219 00:09:19,482 --> 00:09:21,000 but have we finished this stone? 220 00:09:21,034 --> 00:09:23,103 No, we gotta keep this going, and that going, and that... 221 00:09:23,137 --> 00:09:26,379 I mean, our life moved fast. 222 00:09:26,413 --> 00:09:29,241 For me, sometimes, a little bit too fast. 223 00:09:29,275 --> 00:09:32,896 So, that's why I decided right up front, I'm taking charge. 224 00:09:33,620 --> 00:09:35,310 Can we, like, push it back? 225 00:09:35,344 --> 00:09:37,137 -[Caryn] We can try. -'Cause this has to go. 226 00:09:37,172 --> 00:09:39,931 -That would be easier than moving the other wagon. -No, this has to go. 227 00:09:41,172 --> 00:09:42,965 [Matt] Amy wants me to move the stagecoach. 228 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,689 And I don't think she has any idea how much work goes into an event like this. 229 00:09:46,724 --> 00:09:48,413 Phase one is, move everything. 230 00:09:48,448 --> 00:09:50,068 Reposition things. 231 00:09:50,103 --> 00:09:52,586 And then, phase two is cleaning. 232 00:09:52,620 --> 00:09:54,896 Blowing and get all the cobwebs, cleaning the windows. 233 00:09:54,931 --> 00:09:56,724 And then, phase three is staging it. 234 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,103 Okay. 235 00:10:02,137 --> 00:10:04,103 [Amy] Matt has got a lot of things in his brain, 236 00:10:04,137 --> 00:10:05,965 going in all different directions. 237 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,758 But I need this direction to happen. 238 00:10:09,793 --> 00:10:14,310 So, Caryn, well, I'm hoping you make it happen. 239 00:10:14,344 --> 00:10:16,206 [Caryn] And then, you were still gonna do photos, 240 00:10:16,241 --> 00:10:18,724 -and I was gonna print out a big DAAA logo. -Yeah, that... 241 00:10:18,758 --> 00:10:21,310 That, I... Jeez, I gotta figure out where that'll go. 242 00:10:22,827 --> 00:10:25,034 She's got time to be over in my lane, 243 00:10:25,068 --> 00:10:27,103 I see some way bigger issues. 244 00:10:27,137 --> 00:10:30,068 There's no agenda, which is kind of, you know, 245 00:10:30,103 --> 00:10:31,586 what you work from. 246 00:10:31,620 --> 00:10:33,931 I don't think we have that from Amy yet. 247 00:10:35,448 --> 00:10:36,862 Yeah. 248 00:10:36,896 --> 00:10:40,034 [Caryn] Okay, so maybe, I'll draft something that's gonna go out 249 00:10:40,068 --> 00:10:42,103 to everyone who has RSVPed yes. 250 00:10:42,137 --> 00:10:44,551 Look it, here. These are the people. 251 00:10:44,586 --> 00:10:47,137 I definitely let the kids and Zach and Tori 252 00:10:47,172 --> 00:10:50,137 know that I was putting on this fundraiser for DAAA. 253 00:10:50,172 --> 00:10:52,310 You know, let them know what their mom is doing. 254 00:10:52,344 --> 00:10:55,724 Zach and Tori, you know, they'd let me know they probably weren't able 255 00:10:55,758 --> 00:10:59,206 to make it 'cause they already had a planned event that weekend. 256 00:10:59,241 --> 00:11:01,103 That's a bummer. I wish that they would be there. 257 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,551 [Matt] I'm gonna sit down. 258 00:11:03,586 --> 00:11:05,862 I recently went through a little health scare. 259 00:11:05,896 --> 00:11:07,310 I just had a procedure done 260 00:11:07,344 --> 00:11:09,034 where they go down and check your esophagus. 261 00:11:09,068 --> 00:11:12,137 And got a little scary because when they went down, 262 00:11:12,172 --> 00:11:14,827 they realized they wanted to stretch the esophagus, 263 00:11:14,862 --> 00:11:16,275 there was a couple of tight spots. 264 00:11:16,310 --> 00:11:18,896 Apparently, they stretched it so far 265 00:11:18,931 --> 00:11:22,379 that they broke through a couple of layers of my esophagus, 266 00:11:22,413 --> 00:11:25,379 almost perforated the entire thing. 267 00:11:25,413 --> 00:11:27,482 -I don't remember much. -I know. 268 00:11:27,517 --> 00:11:29,137 You were like, out. 269 00:11:29,172 --> 00:11:31,137 Like, there was panic in the room. 270 00:11:31,172 --> 00:11:33,310 [Caryn] It was just-- It was a weird vibe. 271 00:11:33,344 --> 00:11:35,689 But it was okay, and I'm much better. 272 00:11:35,724 --> 00:11:38,137 And actually, I'm noticing an improvement. 273 00:11:38,172 --> 00:11:40,724 My food goes down a lot better than it did before. 274 00:11:41,413 --> 00:11:42,758 What's in the box? 275 00:11:42,793 --> 00:11:43,827 Easy breezy. 276 00:11:43,862 --> 00:11:45,689 Games. Fun and games. [chuckles] 277 00:11:45,724 --> 00:11:47,344 And rats. [chuckling] 278 00:11:47,379 --> 00:11:49,344 -And what? -Rats. 279 00:11:49,379 --> 00:11:52,793 I'm spending most of my time putting together this shooting gallery. 280 00:11:52,827 --> 00:11:56,551 I may have, um, volunteered without thinking. 281 00:11:56,586 --> 00:11:59,344 [hesitates] Yeah, when I said this will be a good idea. 282 00:11:59,379 --> 00:12:01,413 It... It actually has taken a lot of time. 283 00:12:01,448 --> 00:12:05,068 Today, I'm glad I get a chance to try it out with-- 284 00:12:05,103 --> 00:12:06,620 -Guinea pigs. -Yeah. [laughs] 285 00:12:06,655 --> 00:12:09,241 If you squeeze halfway, it will shoot one at a time. 286 00:12:09,275 --> 00:12:11,275 If you squeeze all the way, it will shoot both. 287 00:12:13,241 --> 00:12:14,862 -Oh! She got it! -[Chris] Oh, almost. 288 00:12:14,896 --> 00:12:16,482 -[shoots] -Oh! 289 00:12:16,517 --> 00:12:18,689 [continues shooting] 290 00:12:18,724 --> 00:12:21,103 -[Amy] I can't drop it out there. -Turn around. 291 00:12:21,137 --> 00:12:24,034 -Get away from me. -[all laughing] 292 00:12:27,275 --> 00:12:30,551 I think handing Amy and I each a weapon 293 00:12:30,586 --> 00:12:33,448 is maybe not the best idea. [laughs] 294 00:12:33,482 --> 00:12:37,586 Okay so, let me make sure I got this straight in summary. 295 00:12:37,620 --> 00:12:39,965 -The Volkswagen for sure is moving. -Yep. 296 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,275 -[Matt] The stagecoach is gonna move. -Yes. 297 00:12:42,310 --> 00:12:44,068 But that's gonna move at the last minute, 298 00:12:44,103 --> 00:12:46,275 because I don't wanna have it out in the weather. 299 00:12:46,310 --> 00:12:49,172 Look at this. Our event is here. 300 00:12:49,206 --> 00:12:51,310 -[gasps loudly] -So, we're here. 301 00:12:51,344 --> 00:12:56,448 -Good gosh, how did that happen? -I need stuff gone from here. 302 00:12:56,482 --> 00:12:59,241 -At least by mid-week. -Jeez, okay. 303 00:12:59,275 --> 00:13:02,827 There's only 14 days left until the actual fundraiser. 304 00:13:02,862 --> 00:13:05,931 And it does feel like a lot to do, 305 00:13:05,965 --> 00:13:08,862 a lot to accomplish in those two weeks. 306 00:13:08,896 --> 00:13:13,344 The number one thing is to get the barn ready for this event. 307 00:13:13,379 --> 00:13:17,172 So that we can actually put this fundraiser together. 308 00:13:17,206 --> 00:13:19,965 I wanna lay out tables, I wanna lay out chairs, 309 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,620 I wanna get a visual as to what else we may need... 310 00:13:22,655 --> 00:13:24,241 -Yep. -...to make this doable. 311 00:13:30,103 --> 00:13:31,275 [Amy] Coming up... 312 00:13:31,310 --> 00:13:33,793 Do you feel like things are going well? 313 00:13:33,827 --> 00:13:36,827 The only one, really, that we don't see is Zach and Tori. 314 00:13:36,862 --> 00:13:41,172 I really don't understand still Zach and Tori's, 315 00:13:41,206 --> 00:13:43,103 you know, "We will not come to the farm," 316 00:13:43,137 --> 00:13:45,448 except maybe when Zach needed to dump his trash, 317 00:13:45,482 --> 00:13:46,655 but that's a different story. 318 00:13:46,689 --> 00:13:48,000 One day, maybe that'll change. 319 00:13:48,034 --> 00:13:49,000 You know, who knows? 320 00:13:50,482 --> 00:13:51,448 [Matt] And later... 321 00:13:51,482 --> 00:13:53,137 Where's all my stuff? 322 00:13:53,172 --> 00:13:54,448 Who moved all the stuff? 323 00:13:54,482 --> 00:13:56,241 That's my question. 324 00:13:56,275 --> 00:13:57,655 [Matt] I checked with my guys. 325 00:13:57,689 --> 00:14:00,862 Amy had given them explicit instructions, 326 00:14:00,896 --> 00:14:03,517 much to our surprise, that we weren't aware of. 327 00:14:03,551 --> 00:14:06,896 -Hey, Matt. -I'm very irritated at your wife. 328 00:14:23,206 --> 00:14:26,275 -Thank you for driving. -This weather's so nice, oh, my gosh. 329 00:14:26,310 --> 00:14:28,310 We are so due. 330 00:14:28,344 --> 00:14:30,310 I'm meeting my girlfriend, Wendy, for dinner. 331 00:14:30,344 --> 00:14:31,931 Where would you like to sit? 332 00:14:31,965 --> 00:14:33,344 I'm looking forward to catching up with her. 333 00:14:33,379 --> 00:14:36,206 We have been friends over 20 years. 334 00:14:36,241 --> 00:14:39,931 -I'm gonna go with the drop, the lemon drop. -[waitress] Okay. 335 00:14:39,965 --> 00:14:42,206 [Caryn] I appreciate Wendy at such a deep level. 336 00:14:42,241 --> 00:14:46,482 I mean, she has been there for all the pivotal moments in my life, 337 00:14:46,517 --> 00:14:49,000 the triumphs, and the sorrows, and the divorces, 338 00:14:49,034 --> 00:14:51,793 and the family dramas on both sides. 339 00:14:51,827 --> 00:14:53,827 You know, she's listened to all of my 340 00:14:53,862 --> 00:14:56,172 "Roloff crazy train" as we keep calling it. 341 00:14:56,206 --> 00:14:57,793 So, yeah, we're pretty close. 342 00:14:57,827 --> 00:14:59,862 And I just love her to death. 343 00:14:59,896 --> 00:15:03,689 So, you and I have not talked since the engagement happened. 344 00:15:03,724 --> 00:15:05,517 'Cause the last time I saw was you and Matt. 345 00:15:05,551 --> 00:15:08,172 -And that's such a beautiful ring. -Yeah! 346 00:15:08,206 --> 00:15:11,137 -It's so good. -[Wendy] Really, so you. 347 00:15:11,172 --> 00:15:13,827 So then, you guys are engaged, 348 00:15:13,862 --> 00:15:16,517 and there is going to be a wedding, right? 349 00:15:16,551 --> 00:15:19,482 -Or... -I mean, right now, I think we're like, 350 00:15:19,517 --> 00:15:21,896 maybe in about a year? 351 00:15:21,931 --> 00:15:24,137 We're thinking, like, something kind of small and intimate, 352 00:15:24,172 --> 00:15:25,344 maybe in Arizona. 353 00:15:25,379 --> 00:15:27,620 I was surprised to be engaged. I think that was... 354 00:15:27,655 --> 00:15:29,034 kind of, "Wow!" 355 00:15:29,068 --> 00:15:31,862 So, I hadn't really ever given much thought to a wedding. 356 00:15:31,896 --> 00:15:34,137 Um, we'd talked about it here and there, 357 00:15:34,172 --> 00:15:36,241 but Matt would run down to the courthouse tomorrow 358 00:15:36,275 --> 00:15:37,862 if I said, "Hey, let's just go do this." 359 00:15:37,896 --> 00:15:40,620 And we just might. I mean, he-- He's spontaneous. 360 00:15:40,655 --> 00:15:42,724 So, you never know. 361 00:15:42,758 --> 00:15:44,827 'Cause you know I didn't really wanna get remarried. 362 00:15:44,862 --> 00:15:46,241 That was kind of always my thing, like, 363 00:15:46,275 --> 00:15:49,241 -why break something... -Yeah, what do you kind of shifted for you? 364 00:15:49,275 --> 00:15:52,310 Honestly, I think a lot of it was fear, 365 00:15:52,344 --> 00:15:54,586 a lot of it was timing. 366 00:15:54,620 --> 00:15:57,275 -We didn't ever really have a place to live. -Yeah. 367 00:15:57,310 --> 00:16:00,172 -Absolutely. -And then the house, it all kind of culminating. 368 00:16:00,206 --> 00:16:02,448 -And so, you know, I think Brittany was... -[Wendy] That's so exciting. 369 00:16:03,413 --> 00:16:06,931 -...a little bit surprised. -Mmm! 370 00:16:06,965 --> 00:16:10,000 -Well, because I'd been telling her the same thing. -[Wendy] No doubt. 371 00:16:10,034 --> 00:16:11,586 -Right. -Like, I don't think I'm ever gonna get married. 372 00:16:11,620 --> 00:16:14,206 -And then, all of a sudden, I'm like, "Guess what?" -[Wendy] Mmm-hmm. 373 00:16:14,241 --> 00:16:15,896 [Caryn] My daughter, Brittany, she'd asked me, 374 00:16:15,931 --> 00:16:17,379 "Are you gonna get married?" And I was always like, 375 00:16:17,413 --> 00:16:19,896 "You know, I'm not seeing myself in a second marriage." 376 00:16:19,931 --> 00:16:24,068 So, when it popped up, it was kind of a surprise to all of us. 377 00:16:24,103 --> 00:16:27,655 Luckily, we were able to talk through her feelings. 378 00:16:27,689 --> 00:16:30,103 So, it's all healthy and all good now. 379 00:16:30,137 --> 00:16:32,965 I'm sure Matt's kids, even though they didn't verbalize it, 380 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:34,586 probably went through some of the similar things, 381 00:16:34,620 --> 00:16:35,896 like, "What does that mean?" 382 00:16:35,931 --> 00:16:39,172 Do you feel like things are going well for you guys with... 383 00:16:39,206 --> 00:16:42,482 -You know... [sighs] I think it's so different. -...the kids? 384 00:16:42,517 --> 00:16:44,620 I'm kind of all all-in kind of a person, 385 00:16:44,655 --> 00:16:47,551 -and so, when Matt and I were dating... -Yeah. 386 00:16:47,586 --> 00:16:49,586 ...I was all-in with the family and the kids, 387 00:16:49,620 --> 00:16:52,862 and probably, um, too close? 388 00:16:52,896 --> 00:16:55,137 Well, you were in a unique situation. 389 00:16:55,172 --> 00:16:58,275 -To have, you know-- Because you were working there... -That's true. 390 00:16:58,310 --> 00:17:00,310 -I've known them. I knew them before. -[Wendy] You've knew... 391 00:17:00,344 --> 00:17:01,827 Absolutely. 392 00:17:01,862 --> 00:17:04,619 [Caryn] I think we've learned a lot this last couple of years about 393 00:17:04,655 --> 00:17:06,689 offering advice, 394 00:17:06,723 --> 00:17:08,550 but then, standing down. 395 00:17:08,586 --> 00:17:12,586 Like, I... He really had me included in everything. 396 00:17:12,619 --> 00:17:15,034 And it went badly. 397 00:17:15,068 --> 00:17:18,378 And I included myself over and wanted to be so... 398 00:17:18,413 --> 00:17:19,619 And it went badly. 399 00:17:19,655 --> 00:17:20,964 -[Wendy] Yeah. -So, I'm more fearful now. 400 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,172 Like, I've definitely taken a step back. 401 00:17:24,205 --> 00:17:26,000 -You know, so, it changes. -[Wendy] Yeah. 402 00:17:26,034 --> 00:17:28,793 And you gotta learn from everything that happens. 403 00:17:28,827 --> 00:17:32,137 Blending families, that's a tough one. 404 00:17:32,172 --> 00:17:33,862 Some go better than others. 405 00:17:33,896 --> 00:17:36,379 In my case, I've learned that 406 00:17:36,413 --> 00:17:38,862 boundaries are healthy in second relationships. 407 00:17:38,896 --> 00:17:42,689 I don't have any regrets about the relationship that existed 408 00:17:42,724 --> 00:17:44,931 and getting close to the kids. 409 00:17:44,965 --> 00:17:48,724 But, um, I learned a valuable lesson 410 00:17:48,758 --> 00:17:51,827 that maybe sometimes less is more. 411 00:17:53,034 --> 00:17:54,758 So, I'm treading lightly. 412 00:17:54,793 --> 00:17:56,517 Everybody reacts differently. 413 00:17:56,551 --> 00:18:01,448 You know, I believe everyone is happy for us, overall. 414 00:18:01,482 --> 00:18:03,517 We were just up to see Molly and Joel. 415 00:18:03,551 --> 00:18:05,793 -Oh, right! That's right. -Yeah, and that was a great visit. 416 00:18:05,827 --> 00:18:08,689 So, the only one, really, that we don't see is Zach and Tori. 417 00:18:08,724 --> 00:18:09,689 Which, that's a shame. 418 00:18:09,724 --> 00:18:11,551 That is a huge shame. 419 00:18:11,586 --> 00:18:13,758 One day, maybe, that'll change, you know? Who knows? 420 00:18:14,586 --> 00:18:16,275 Well, I'm so sorry about that. 421 00:18:17,206 --> 00:18:20,862 I really don't understand still 422 00:18:20,896 --> 00:18:25,206 Zach and Tori's, you know, "We will not come to the farm, no matter what." 423 00:18:25,241 --> 00:18:27,379 Except maybe when Zach needed to dump his trash. 424 00:18:27,413 --> 00:18:29,068 But that's a different story. 425 00:18:29,103 --> 00:18:31,241 That's what they gotta do, that's what they gotta do. 426 00:18:31,275 --> 00:18:33,172 I'm not living or dying by it. 427 00:18:33,206 --> 00:18:35,758 My expectations are very low when it comes to them. 428 00:18:35,793 --> 00:18:39,586 My hope is that things will soften over time. 429 00:18:39,620 --> 00:18:43,103 But they have to live their life the way that 430 00:18:43,862 --> 00:18:45,241 they see fit. 431 00:18:45,275 --> 00:18:47,724 Hopefully, the adult kids can all handle it. 432 00:18:47,758 --> 00:18:51,620 I mean, I'm sure there are some hidden emotions out there that are happening. 433 00:18:51,655 --> 00:18:53,862 -Like, you know. -Yeah, and maybe I don't need to know all of them. 434 00:18:53,896 --> 00:18:56,206 -Right? -Right! And isn't that so true? 435 00:18:56,241 --> 00:18:57,517 I mean, this is your life. 436 00:18:57,551 --> 00:18:59,103 -This is you and Matt's. -[Caryn] Yeah, this is me and Matt's. 437 00:19:16,344 --> 00:19:17,931 [shuffling] 438 00:19:19,034 --> 00:19:19,965 [groans in frustration] 439 00:19:24,655 --> 00:19:30,000 I put a whole thing together of Roloff Farm goodies for the auction. 440 00:19:30,034 --> 00:19:33,344 I went through all the boxes, and now it's gone. 441 00:19:33,379 --> 00:19:36,137 So, the stuff that we want out is still here, 442 00:19:36,172 --> 00:19:38,000 and stuff that I need has been taken out. 443 00:19:40,862 --> 00:19:42,551 Where's all my stuff? 444 00:19:42,586 --> 00:19:43,965 Who moved all the stuff? 445 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:45,793 That's my question. 446 00:19:45,827 --> 00:19:50,103 And there was like, no organization to it. So... 447 00:19:51,206 --> 00:19:53,827 Yeah, I don't like the fact that, um, 448 00:19:53,862 --> 00:19:56,655 somebody came in here and moved a bunch of stuff around. 449 00:19:56,689 --> 00:19:58,379 -I know what happened. -What? 450 00:19:58,413 --> 00:20:03,000 [Matt] Amy, behind our backs, started giving instructions to my guys. 451 00:20:04,034 --> 00:20:06,758 That really frustrates me. 452 00:20:06,793 --> 00:20:13,586 Amy, Chris, Caryn and I had a little powwow in the barn about a week ago. 453 00:20:13,620 --> 00:20:16,241 And we talked about what needed to be done. 454 00:20:16,275 --> 00:20:20,172 And most of it, we had planned to execute today. 455 00:20:20,793 --> 00:20:22,310 I checked with my guys, 456 00:20:22,344 --> 00:20:25,482 and I pretty much confirmed what I suspected, 457 00:20:25,517 --> 00:20:29,586 which was, Amy had given them explicit instructions. 458 00:20:29,620 --> 00:20:32,000 And my guys thought, 459 00:20:32,034 --> 00:20:34,724 "Well, Amy's said it, we better do it." 460 00:20:34,758 --> 00:20:36,793 You know? And so, they cleaned out, 461 00:20:36,827 --> 00:20:38,586 they did a bunch of stuff, 462 00:20:38,620 --> 00:20:41,517 much to our surprise, that we weren't aware of. 463 00:20:41,551 --> 00:20:45,448 [Caryn] I know that I had taken a box for the auction 464 00:20:45,482 --> 00:20:49,068 and got all kinds of merchandise from pumpkin season 465 00:20:49,103 --> 00:20:50,482 to put in a basket. 466 00:20:50,517 --> 00:20:53,758 And I had the basket sitting over here and it's gone. 467 00:20:53,793 --> 00:20:58,448 I was frustrated and surprised that the stuff was moved. 468 00:20:58,482 --> 00:20:59,931 I'm sure she didn't mean it, 469 00:20:59,965 --> 00:21:03,586 But I have no idea where Amy said, "Hey, move this stuff out." 470 00:21:03,620 --> 00:21:05,413 She probably didn't know where to tell them to put it. 471 00:21:05,448 --> 00:21:08,000 So now, it's like double the work 472 00:21:08,034 --> 00:21:10,413 because we don't know where stuff is, so... 473 00:21:10,448 --> 00:21:14,344 -I'm not sure who's in charge of this event now. -[both chuckle] 474 00:21:14,379 --> 00:21:15,551 -[Matt] Yeah. -I know it's not me. 475 00:21:16,413 --> 00:21:17,517 We didn't have to move anything. 476 00:21:17,551 --> 00:21:19,379 She's changing her mind as we go. 477 00:21:20,241 --> 00:21:22,172 -Hey, Caryn! -Hi, Chris, how are you? 478 00:21:22,206 --> 00:21:23,379 Good. Hey, Matt! 479 00:21:23,931 --> 00:21:25,689 Hey. Um... 480 00:21:25,724 --> 00:21:27,517 -I'm very irritated... -[Chris] Why? 481 00:21:27,551 --> 00:21:28,413 ...at your wife. 482 00:21:29,517 --> 00:21:30,379 What? 483 00:21:41,965 --> 00:21:44,448 -I'm very irritated... -[Chris] Why? 484 00:21:44,482 --> 00:21:45,655 ...at your wife. 485 00:21:45,689 --> 00:21:47,000 What? 486 00:21:47,034 --> 00:21:50,137 Because all this movement, we didn't know about till just now. 487 00:21:51,482 --> 00:21:55,034 She gave instructions to my guys, 488 00:21:55,068 --> 00:21:57,827 and they moved all this stuff and they weren't supposed to. 489 00:21:57,862 --> 00:22:00,724 I just asked them and they said, "Oh, Amy gave us a list." 490 00:22:00,758 --> 00:22:02,344 -Oh! -[Matt] Yeah. 491 00:22:02,379 --> 00:22:05,724 I'm surprised. I didn't think she, you know... 492 00:22:05,758 --> 00:22:06,896 I thought she was leaving that up to you. 493 00:22:06,931 --> 00:22:09,000 -I didn't know that. Yeah. -Yeah. Yeah. 494 00:22:09,034 --> 00:22:10,689 [Chris] Amy's busy with the grandkids, 495 00:22:10,724 --> 00:22:13,448 so I'll be helping out setting up today. 496 00:22:13,482 --> 00:22:17,724 But when first I got there, Matt was a little upset with Amy... [chuckles] 497 00:22:17,758 --> 00:22:21,344 thinking that she'd overstepped and was telling his guys what to do. 498 00:22:21,379 --> 00:22:23,482 That was, you know, his people doing the work, 499 00:22:23,517 --> 00:22:25,103 his stuff in the barn, 500 00:22:25,137 --> 00:22:28,482 and I'm sure that, you know, he had an idea of what should go where and when, 501 00:22:28,517 --> 00:22:30,758 and I would've been very upset too. 502 00:22:30,793 --> 00:22:36,655 But it is the first time that I've seen Matt express himself that way about Amy. 503 00:22:36,689 --> 00:22:39,241 Oh, man, I'm sorry that caused a problem for you. 504 00:22:39,275 --> 00:22:42,241 I'm sure in Amy's mind, she thought she was taking that off of your plate 505 00:22:42,275 --> 00:22:44,862 -by just, you know, so that she didn't have to do it. -[Matt] Yeah. 506 00:22:44,896 --> 00:22:47,172 Yeah, I like all instructions with the guys to go through me 507 00:22:47,206 --> 00:22:49,310 so that I can pace it properly. 508 00:22:49,344 --> 00:22:51,724 You know? 'Cause then they don't get the stuff I ask and... 509 00:22:51,758 --> 00:22:54,241 I mean, I don't even really wanna go through it with you guys 510 00:22:54,275 --> 00:22:56,517 'cause then, they'll make the same mistake again. 511 00:22:56,551 --> 00:22:58,275 -That when-- -Well, just trust me. 512 00:22:58,310 --> 00:23:00,758 -I'm not gonna be giving your guys any instructions. -[Matt chuckles] Okay. 513 00:23:00,793 --> 00:23:02,310 -[Chris chuckling] -[Matt] Okay, thank you. 514 00:23:02,344 --> 00:23:03,931 I'm gonna get the guys to move some stuff. 515 00:23:03,965 --> 00:23:07,034 And then, maybe you and Chris can move that round table. 516 00:23:07,068 --> 00:23:09,379 -Let's do our placement. -[Chris] Sure. 517 00:23:09,413 --> 00:23:11,310 I thought, "Well, you know, Chris is a big boy. 518 00:23:11,344 --> 00:23:13,413 He can handle me being honest 519 00:23:13,448 --> 00:23:14,586 that this was frustrating." 520 00:23:14,620 --> 00:23:17,103 I'd just walked in moments before he had. 521 00:23:17,137 --> 00:23:19,724 So, I don't feel bad about, you know, 522 00:23:19,758 --> 00:23:21,793 letting Chris know what was wrong 523 00:23:21,827 --> 00:23:23,827 because he would do the same thing with me. 524 00:23:23,862 --> 00:23:25,758 So, I want you to spin these haybales. 525 00:23:26,379 --> 00:23:27,965 [man] Grab it. 526 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,241 Yep, I'm gonna see how this is gonna work. 527 00:23:31,172 --> 00:23:32,931 Lot to do already, and yes, 528 00:23:32,965 --> 00:23:34,413 I don't do it. I get guys to do it, 529 00:23:34,448 --> 00:23:37,724 but they're off of other tasks that are their... 530 00:23:37,758 --> 00:23:39,241 what they're hired for. 531 00:23:39,275 --> 00:23:40,965 Put one about where that hay is, 532 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,758 so we're gonna see how many we can get in that row. 533 00:23:43,793 --> 00:23:45,275 [Caryn] Well, and time is money, right? 534 00:23:45,310 --> 00:23:46,896 These guys are on the clock, 535 00:23:46,931 --> 00:23:50,068 -and you got three guys, do the math that's... Yeah. -[Matt chuckling] Yeah. 536 00:23:50,103 --> 00:23:52,448 -Adds up. So, that was a little bit of a... -Yeah. 537 00:23:52,482 --> 00:23:54,965 [sighs deeply] 538 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,931 All right, guys. Thanks a lot. Appreciate your help. 539 00:23:56,965 --> 00:23:57,862 [man] Yeah. No problem. 540 00:23:57,896 --> 00:23:59,758 So, we got a lot going on in here. 541 00:23:59,793 --> 00:24:02,793 So, the band, the catering, the bar, 542 00:24:02,827 --> 00:24:04,344 -the check-in. -Yeah. 543 00:24:04,379 --> 00:24:06,482 [chuckles] 544 00:24:06,517 --> 00:24:10,034 The way it was pitched to me was we were just gonna eat in here, 545 00:24:10,068 --> 00:24:12,034 and that the catering was gonna be out there. 546 00:24:12,068 --> 00:24:15,517 All of a sudden, rules of the thing have changed, so... 547 00:24:15,551 --> 00:24:17,793 Well, we had good reasoning for that. 548 00:24:17,827 --> 00:24:19,689 Because, it's Oregon. It could rain. 549 00:24:19,724 --> 00:24:23,448 And then, the second thing is, we wanted it to feel like everybody's together. 550 00:24:23,482 --> 00:24:24,758 -Not outside. -[Chris] Yeah. 551 00:24:24,793 --> 00:24:27,206 -Sort of, you get lost. -Yeah. 552 00:24:27,241 --> 00:24:30,655 To pull off an event like this, I mean, we all need to be working together. 553 00:24:30,689 --> 00:24:32,517 So, when something like this happens, 554 00:24:32,551 --> 00:24:36,689 you know, it becomes a little more clear that we're not always all on the same page. 555 00:24:36,724 --> 00:24:38,310 Amy's gonna be at the farm tomorrow, 556 00:24:38,344 --> 00:24:41,137 so I definitely wanna ask her why is she 557 00:24:41,172 --> 00:24:44,517 giving instructions to my guys without my knowledge. 558 00:24:44,551 --> 00:24:46,862 Well, I have to go locate all my auction items, 559 00:24:46,896 --> 00:24:49,137 'cause those have just disappeared into thin air. 560 00:24:49,172 --> 00:24:50,448 [Matt sighs] Oh, boy. 561 00:24:50,482 --> 00:24:52,206 [Chris] I don't feel like it's a catastrophe. 562 00:24:52,241 --> 00:24:54,620 You know, if there are apologies that need to be said, 563 00:24:55,310 --> 00:24:57,379 get it said and then move on. 564 00:24:57,413 --> 00:24:59,379 We've still got a lot to do. 565 00:24:59,413 --> 00:25:02,758 But somewhere along the line, there was some miscommunication. 566 00:25:02,793 --> 00:25:05,206 I just know there's always two sides to every story, 567 00:25:05,241 --> 00:25:09,103 and looking forward to running it by Amy to hear her side. 568 00:25:09,137 --> 00:25:11,068 We made some headway, so... 569 00:25:11,103 --> 00:25:12,758 -Till the next meeting. -[Caryn and Matt] Yeah. 570 00:25:12,793 --> 00:25:15,000 -Until the real boss is here. -[Chris] All right. All right. 571 00:25:15,034 --> 00:25:16,862 [laughing] Yeah. Yeah. 572 00:25:16,896 --> 00:25:18,000 [Caryn] All right. Thanks, Chris. 573 00:25:30,758 --> 00:25:32,931 Nope. Nope. Lilah, we're not gonna swim, okay? 574 00:25:36,448 --> 00:25:38,413 I love how they still always like, "Dad said. 575 00:25:39,068 --> 00:25:40,172 He said it was okay." 576 00:25:40,206 --> 00:25:41,758 -Um... -They just do that same with you, though. 577 00:25:41,793 --> 00:25:43,586 They always tell me, "Mom said. Mom said it was okay." 578 00:25:43,620 --> 00:25:44,586 [chuckles] 579 00:25:46,103 --> 00:25:47,172 Well, it just got delivered. 580 00:25:53,620 --> 00:25:54,862 [Tori] Wait, that was fast. 581 00:25:55,275 --> 00:25:56,620 Go get them! 582 00:25:56,655 --> 00:25:58,517 -[Tori] They're on the front porch. -Go, run, run, run! 583 00:25:58,551 --> 00:26:00,413 Find a ball pump too. 584 00:26:00,448 --> 00:26:05,344 I've ordered some stuff for DAAA's soccer event in Austin, Texas this summer. 585 00:26:05,379 --> 00:26:08,448 But then, some of the items are also for the shop. 586 00:26:08,482 --> 00:26:11,103 -I mean, I can't even say... -No, Daddy's gonna do this, okay, Jackson? 587 00:26:11,137 --> 00:26:13,758 'Cause I don't wanna pop this or... 588 00:26:13,793 --> 00:26:15,137 [Tori] These are not for upstairs. 589 00:26:15,172 --> 00:26:17,413 -Yes? -These are for the upstairs in the shop. 590 00:26:17,448 --> 00:26:18,965 This is actually for DAAA though, right? 591 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,275 -These are for DAAA as well. -[laughing] 592 00:26:21,310 --> 00:26:23,793 [Zach] We're gonna be playing futsal at DAAA this year for the first time. 593 00:26:23,827 --> 00:26:26,137 It's like soccer, it's an indoor type of soccer. 594 00:26:26,172 --> 00:26:28,413 These balls are harder though, so they don't bounce. 595 00:26:28,448 --> 00:26:30,000 They're like, almost like a medicine ball. 596 00:26:30,034 --> 00:26:31,241 -I wanna try. -Oh, wow. 597 00:26:32,137 --> 00:26:33,137 It's gonna take a minute. 598 00:26:33,689 --> 00:26:35,034 Uh-huh, I'm going. 599 00:26:35,068 --> 00:26:36,931 Futsal balls are a little different than normal soccer balls. 600 00:26:36,965 --> 00:26:39,413 Which also, you probably shouldn't have up there. 601 00:26:39,448 --> 00:26:41,586 I think the ball being in the shop is fine. 602 00:26:41,620 --> 00:26:43,482 I'm gonna say that if you were to break the wall, 603 00:26:43,517 --> 00:26:44,827 you'd be mad at yourself. 604 00:26:44,862 --> 00:26:47,413 So, that's why we use a futsal ball, not a ball that bounces. 605 00:26:47,448 --> 00:26:49,931 -Ball stays on the ground, and the baseballs... -But futsal's heavier. 606 00:26:49,965 --> 00:26:51,931 But the baseball boards are strong. 607 00:26:53,310 --> 00:26:55,310 I'm super stoked for the shop to be done, though. 608 00:26:55,344 --> 00:26:57,931 And I'm ready to get everything in there and get it all set up, 609 00:26:57,965 --> 00:27:00,758 -for living and working. -For living? 610 00:27:00,793 --> 00:27:03,379 -Yeah, living. -Oh, dear. I'm never gonna see you again. 611 00:27:03,413 --> 00:27:05,517 The dream would probably just be a cool hangout. 612 00:27:08,344 --> 00:27:09,931 -Foosball! -And we're getting a foosball table. 613 00:27:11,551 --> 00:27:12,655 Me for sure. 614 00:27:12,689 --> 00:27:14,379 Daddy loves foosball. 615 00:27:14,413 --> 00:27:15,896 Oh, and a LEGO table. 616 00:27:15,931 --> 00:27:18,862 That room is what, like 20x20, isn't it? 617 00:27:18,896 --> 00:27:21,482 -None of those comments, none of those, like... -[laughs] 618 00:27:21,517 --> 00:27:23,689 Those comments are what like, like just... 619 00:27:23,724 --> 00:27:24,896 You don't have room for that. 620 00:27:28,137 --> 00:27:30,758 Should we go back in the shop and show Mom what we're designing? 621 00:27:30,793 --> 00:27:34,310 Jackson's very excited about the new space and everything we're gonna do. 622 00:27:34,344 --> 00:27:36,172 -Are we gonna play soccer in the shop? -Oh, no more snakes. 623 00:27:42,517 --> 00:27:44,655 [Zach] And nothing's connected right now, guys. 624 00:27:44,689 --> 00:27:46,724 Downstairs, it could just be a workshop area. 625 00:27:46,758 --> 00:27:48,758 You know, I'm gonna put a workbench in there. 626 00:27:48,793 --> 00:27:51,172 Ay, Jackson. Right here is the soccer field. 627 00:27:51,206 --> 00:27:52,413 Where's your office? 628 00:27:52,448 --> 00:27:55,310 [laughing] There's a soccer... Right here's a soccer field? 629 00:27:55,344 --> 00:27:56,689 Is that what you're... 630 00:27:56,724 --> 00:27:58,310 This is gonna be our soccer lines. 631 00:27:58,344 --> 00:28:01,206 Upstairs, primarily, will be for the boys. 632 00:28:01,241 --> 00:28:04,965 -Upstairs and downstairs. -I just really wanna know when that switched though. 633 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,793 Because wasn't it, originally, 634 00:28:06,827 --> 00:28:09,896 -"this shop is for storage"? -[Zach] It was. 635 00:28:09,931 --> 00:28:12,620 When did that shift from storage to... 636 00:28:12,655 --> 00:28:14,310 It ended up being such a... 637 00:28:14,344 --> 00:28:16,862 It just started becoming such a cool place. 638 00:28:16,896 --> 00:28:18,931 -Did we do this? -[Tori gasps] 639 00:28:20,241 --> 00:28:21,379 Or was that already here? 640 00:28:21,413 --> 00:28:24,137 -[Tori] Zach. -That was already there. [laughing] 641 00:28:24,172 --> 00:28:27,758 MCC was the Men's Crisis Center at the farm. 642 00:28:27,793 --> 00:28:30,586 It's gonna have similar properties to the MCC. [chuckles] 643 00:28:30,620 --> 00:28:32,793 Just a place where you can hang out, if you want, 644 00:28:32,827 --> 00:28:36,103 tinker with stuff, do projects, no judgement. 645 00:28:36,137 --> 00:28:38,206 Could be for all of our kids though, eventually. 646 00:28:38,241 --> 00:28:40,413 Lilah's gonna be welcomed in there too, 647 00:28:40,448 --> 00:28:42,137 and Josiah, so... 648 00:28:42,172 --> 00:28:45,793 But, yeah, it's gonna have a similar vibe as the MCC. 649 00:28:45,827 --> 00:28:48,275 [Tori] Zach, this was the best idea though. 650 00:28:48,310 --> 00:28:51,862 -[Zach] The shop? -[Tori] I was a little hesitant at the beginning. 651 00:28:51,896 --> 00:28:53,793 I thought it was a little bit unnecessary. 652 00:28:53,827 --> 00:28:56,241 Not unnecessary, big. 653 00:28:56,275 --> 00:28:58,034 I usually go too small. 654 00:28:58,068 --> 00:29:00,275 But I knew it, you gotta go big now. 655 00:29:00,310 --> 00:29:03,310 I wanted to maximize the space, you know? 656 00:29:03,344 --> 00:29:05,724 When the shop is done, it's another step in the direction 657 00:29:05,758 --> 00:29:07,137 of creating a cool space for the kids 658 00:29:07,172 --> 00:29:09,275 to be able to explore and grow up. 659 00:29:09,310 --> 00:29:11,896 I had a pretty cool space to grow up when I was a kid 660 00:29:11,931 --> 00:29:14,482 and I want them to have that, and I think they will here. 661 00:29:14,517 --> 00:29:16,758 Let's leave before we break something, 662 00:29:16,793 --> 00:29:18,448 and the contractor gets mad at us. 663 00:29:21,413 --> 00:29:22,310 [Amy] Coming up... 664 00:29:22,344 --> 00:29:24,482 You know that she didn't do that, right? 665 00:29:24,517 --> 00:29:27,655 I said, "Hey! I just wanted to give him a heads up." 666 00:29:27,689 --> 00:29:31,172 I had specific instructions that were different than what happened. 667 00:29:31,206 --> 00:29:34,103 So, I don't know why all of a sudden she's all Miss Deniability. 668 00:29:34,137 --> 00:29:35,103 You know? 669 00:29:35,137 --> 00:29:36,448 Somehow, the signal got crossed. 670 00:29:50,758 --> 00:29:52,275 -Hey, Caryn. -[Caryn] Hi, how are you? 671 00:29:52,310 --> 00:29:53,482 Amy's right behind me. 672 00:29:53,517 --> 00:29:56,965 Her and Daisy are coming separately 'cause I'm gonna, uh, 673 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,655 stick around and work a little bit on my project. 674 00:29:59,689 --> 00:30:01,482 -[Caryn] Oh, she's pulling in right now. -[Chris] Oh, there she is. 675 00:30:01,517 --> 00:30:03,068 -Yeah. -[Caryn] I got the ring toss. 676 00:30:03,103 --> 00:30:06,241 I'd show you and see if you guys think that's gonna be 677 00:30:06,275 --> 00:30:08,310 -a decent game. -[Chris] Okay. Wow. 678 00:30:09,241 --> 00:30:10,689 [Amy] Okay, what is this? 679 00:30:10,724 --> 00:30:13,275 -Oh, her ring toss. -[laughs] 680 00:30:13,310 --> 00:30:15,103 You have to elevate small... 681 00:30:15,137 --> 00:30:17,137 -Small, medium and then large. -Yeah, there you go. Yeah. 682 00:30:17,172 --> 00:30:19,482 All right. I'll just get things to put on top of here 683 00:30:19,517 --> 00:30:21,551 -so these are higher in the back. -Yeah. 684 00:30:21,586 --> 00:30:24,586 -[Caryn] All right. -[Amy] Okay, I heard there was a mix up here. 685 00:30:24,620 --> 00:30:26,551 [Caryn] Yeah. I just thought Matt told the guys to do it. 686 00:30:26,586 --> 00:30:27,724 [Amy] Well, see, so did I. 687 00:30:27,758 --> 00:30:31,034 I just don't think Matt clarified with any of them. 688 00:30:31,068 --> 00:30:34,068 Matt was definitely irritated with Amy yesterday. 689 00:30:34,103 --> 00:30:37,620 And the basket that I put together of all the Roloff Farm merch 690 00:30:37,655 --> 00:30:39,448 is still MIA. 691 00:30:39,482 --> 00:30:41,034 I don't know the whole story. 692 00:30:41,068 --> 00:30:42,689 I'm hearing different stories. 693 00:30:42,724 --> 00:30:44,827 Was it her fault, was it not. 694 00:30:44,862 --> 00:30:46,965 That's just something I don't wanna be a part of. [laughing] 695 00:30:47,758 --> 00:30:50,241 So, no, I think this looks great. 696 00:30:50,275 --> 00:30:52,482 -I mean, don't you? -It'll be fine. 697 00:30:52,517 --> 00:30:55,379 Yesterday, I was watching grandkids. So, I couldn't be here 698 00:30:55,413 --> 00:30:57,758 when Chris, Matt and Caryn were here 699 00:30:57,793 --> 00:31:01,344 cleaning out the barn for this fundraising auction that we're doing. 700 00:31:01,379 --> 00:31:04,344 So, some of the help here, 701 00:31:04,379 --> 00:31:07,275 I think they took out too much, not enough, 702 00:31:07,310 --> 00:31:08,965 I'm not sure. 703 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,931 And everyone said that I told the workers here to do it, 704 00:31:12,965 --> 00:31:14,482 I gave them this whole big list. 705 00:31:14,517 --> 00:31:16,689 And I'm like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 706 00:31:16,724 --> 00:31:18,620 No, let's just stop right there." 707 00:31:18,655 --> 00:31:22,034 Would you like the portapotties right here? 708 00:31:24,068 --> 00:31:26,275 And then, they would just walk in and walk out, 709 00:31:26,310 --> 00:31:27,379 and then, the wine barrels here. 710 00:31:27,413 --> 00:31:29,206 But you can still kind of see it, you know? 711 00:31:29,241 --> 00:31:31,344 'Cause it's tall, so they're not looking for it. 712 00:31:32,379 --> 00:31:34,103 [Matt] You guys got it all figured out? 713 00:31:34,137 --> 00:31:35,827 You're not moving any more of my stuff, are you? 714 00:31:38,965 --> 00:31:41,344 You know that she didn't do that, right? 715 00:31:41,379 --> 00:31:44,379 -[Amy] I didn't do... -No, she gave the guys instructions. 716 00:31:44,413 --> 00:31:47,172 -[Amy] No, I did not. No, I did not. -[Chris] No, she didn't. 717 00:31:51,206 --> 00:31:55,655 I did wanna make it clear that was a difference of opinion on what had actually happened. 718 00:31:55,689 --> 00:31:58,275 And I just wanna make sure that he really understood 719 00:31:58,310 --> 00:32:01,137 the other side of that story. 720 00:32:01,172 --> 00:32:04,034 She didn't give those guys... She didn't talk to your guys. 721 00:32:04,068 --> 00:32:06,310 [Amy] I didn't talk to nobody! 722 00:32:06,344 --> 00:32:09,931 I had specific instructions that were different than what happened. 723 00:32:09,965 --> 00:32:13,310 To Amy, not to anybody else, I just said, "Wait for me." 724 00:32:13,344 --> 00:32:16,413 So, I don't know why all of a sudden she's all Miss Deniability. 725 00:32:16,448 --> 00:32:17,482 You know? [chuckles] 726 00:32:17,517 --> 00:32:20,103 -You talked to Jacob. -[Amy] This was weeks ago. 727 00:32:20,137 --> 00:32:23,344 And I just said, "Hey, I'm hoping that this is done. 728 00:32:23,379 --> 00:32:24,620 But you know what? 729 00:32:24,655 --> 00:32:27,413 You talk to your dad, your dad will tell you what to do." 730 00:32:27,448 --> 00:32:29,206 Okay, well, they didn't get that memo. 731 00:32:29,241 --> 00:32:32,379 [Amy] My youngest son, Jacob, has been working on the farm for quite some time. 732 00:32:32,413 --> 00:32:36,448 And I just gave him an idea of what I'm hoping, 733 00:32:36,482 --> 00:32:40,586 you know, will happen to get the farm and the barn ready for this fundraiser. 734 00:32:40,620 --> 00:32:43,586 -[Matt stutters] I mean... -Well, maybe you didn't clarify with him. 735 00:32:43,620 --> 00:32:45,931 -Yeah, but I guess they had did it before that. -[Amy] 'Cause you told me... 736 00:32:45,965 --> 00:32:47,793 -They didn't, Matt. -[Matt] Okay. 737 00:32:48,931 --> 00:32:51,206 Jacob's kind of manager over with the guys, 738 00:32:51,241 --> 00:32:54,448 and so, Amy got to Jacob's ears 739 00:32:54,482 --> 00:32:57,689 and said, "Oh, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna do this, this and this." 740 00:32:57,724 --> 00:32:59,172 Sooner the better, kind of thing. 741 00:32:59,206 --> 00:33:01,413 So, lot of stuff got moved. 742 00:33:02,896 --> 00:33:04,758 Somehow, the signal got crossed, but... 743 00:33:04,793 --> 00:33:08,448 I said, "Hey!" I just wanted to give him a heads up. 744 00:33:08,482 --> 00:33:11,241 I wanted to bring up so many examples, you know? 745 00:33:11,275 --> 00:33:14,000 But it's not a fair fight, you know, 746 00:33:14,034 --> 00:33:16,724 when you're so far ahead in terms of the facts. 747 00:33:16,758 --> 00:33:18,896 Well, that must've got triggered... 748 00:33:18,931 --> 00:33:21,275 Anyway, the guys and stuff got... 749 00:33:21,310 --> 00:33:24,896 Like I was gonna keep the stagecoach, 'cause it's gonna rain this Sunday... 750 00:33:24,931 --> 00:33:26,448 I don't think we're gonna have a rain. 751 00:33:26,482 --> 00:33:29,068 If it does anything, it's just gonna drizzle. 752 00:33:30,103 --> 00:33:33,413 I just wanted to make it crystal clear... 753 00:33:33,448 --> 00:33:36,724 -Crystal clear. -...I did not do what Matt said I did 754 00:33:36,758 --> 00:33:38,965 in the way he said it. 755 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:44,310 I wanna make it crystal clear that I would like to thank you for your telephone apology 756 00:33:44,344 --> 00:33:45,793 the next day about that. 757 00:33:45,827 --> 00:33:47,931 And that apology meant everything. 758 00:33:47,965 --> 00:33:49,413 -So, all that-- -Did I say that? No. 759 00:33:49,448 --> 00:33:51,172 -Slap my face. -The denials now. 760 00:33:51,206 --> 00:33:52,241 Slap my face. 761 00:33:52,275 --> 00:33:53,931 The reason I remember it so distinctly, 762 00:33:53,965 --> 00:33:57,103 because Amy's not been known... 763 00:33:57,137 --> 00:33:59,344 -Oh, yes, I have. -...for being apologetic. 764 00:33:59,379 --> 00:34:02,517 You're the one that doesn't take ownership or apologize. 765 00:34:02,551 --> 00:34:04,413 -What I meant to say... -He doesn't apologize. 766 00:34:04,448 --> 00:34:06,068 -He doesn't take ownership. -I'm sorry. 767 00:34:06,103 --> 00:34:07,000 It's always... 768 00:34:09,206 --> 00:34:11,241 That sort of came down to as miscommunication. 769 00:34:11,275 --> 00:34:13,585 -Yeah, miscommunication, right. -[Chris] Yeah. 770 00:34:13,620 --> 00:34:17,241 In full communication, I have a list still of things, 771 00:34:17,275 --> 00:34:19,551 strings need to be done, trashcans with bags. 772 00:34:19,585 --> 00:34:20,585 [Matt] Who's gonna do that list? 773 00:34:20,620 --> 00:34:22,172 -[Caryn] You. -Was that-- Me? 774 00:34:22,206 --> 00:34:23,688 -It's getting the barn ready. -[Matt] Oh! 775 00:34:23,724 --> 00:34:24,862 -Oh, yeah. -We still need stuff to get the barn ready. 776 00:34:24,896 --> 00:34:26,034 Moving the bistro table. 777 00:34:26,068 --> 00:34:29,000 Okay, yes. Yes, we're geared up for that. 778 00:34:29,034 --> 00:34:31,862 It's awkward when anybody is not getting along in your presence, 779 00:34:31,896 --> 00:34:35,137 let alone your new fiancé and his ex-wife. 780 00:34:35,172 --> 00:34:36,551 That probably caps it. 781 00:34:36,585 --> 00:34:38,516 But as long as they're not going to blows, 782 00:34:38,551 --> 00:34:42,103 actual physical altercations, I'm just gonna stand down. 783 00:34:42,137 --> 00:34:45,068 Okay, I'm gonna go to work 'cause they're waiting for me. 784 00:34:45,103 --> 00:34:47,516 I think I'm used to Matt, being married to him, 785 00:34:47,551 --> 00:34:50,516 you know, pouncing on me a lot. 786 00:34:50,551 --> 00:34:54,241 So, I think I'm probably a little more reactionary 787 00:34:54,275 --> 00:34:58,206 of him thinking I suddenly caused this whole chaos and mess. 788 00:34:58,241 --> 00:35:02,310 It's like, "No, it wasn't me. Move on. Next." 789 00:35:03,689 --> 00:35:07,862 I'm hoping this is our one and only major hiccup. 790 00:35:07,896 --> 00:35:10,000 But, you know, we'll wait and see. 791 00:35:10,620 --> 00:35:11,827 [Matt] All right. 792 00:35:13,620 --> 00:35:14,931 [Amy sighs] Oh, man. 793 00:35:19,413 --> 00:35:20,310 [Matt] Coming up... 794 00:35:20,344 --> 00:35:21,896 Are the kids coming to the fundraiser? 795 00:35:21,931 --> 00:35:24,482 You know, Zach and Tori said no. 796 00:35:24,517 --> 00:35:26,206 Well, it would've been nice if they'd have been here 797 00:35:26,241 --> 00:35:28,896 just because it's supporting them. 798 00:35:28,931 --> 00:35:30,586 -[Michelle] Right, especially... -That's the part that 799 00:35:30,620 --> 00:35:32,413 kind of blows my mind. 800 00:35:32,448 --> 00:35:34,758 I'm very disappointed, honestly, 801 00:35:34,793 --> 00:35:37,448 with Zach not planning to be at the event. 802 00:35:37,482 --> 00:35:38,310 I think it's sad. 803 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,862 [Caryn] Trash cans. 804 00:35:55,896 --> 00:35:57,413 You guys can hang this. 805 00:35:57,448 --> 00:35:58,862 [Michelle] Okay, we will. 806 00:35:58,896 --> 00:36:02,724 [Caryn] And then, here is the nails and the hammer. 807 00:36:03,413 --> 00:36:04,379 Okay? 808 00:36:04,413 --> 00:36:06,586 It is in here or no? 809 00:36:06,620 --> 00:36:08,724 Yeah, that can go in there. 810 00:36:08,758 --> 00:36:10,655 So, the charity event is four days away. 811 00:36:10,689 --> 00:36:13,758 And my parents decided to fly in from Arizona. 812 00:36:13,793 --> 00:36:16,241 Obviously, I'm marrying a little person, 813 00:36:16,275 --> 00:36:17,862 and they've known Matt for a long time. 814 00:36:17,896 --> 00:36:19,689 They know Amy, they know the children, 815 00:36:19,724 --> 00:36:21,275 they know the grandchildren. 816 00:36:21,310 --> 00:36:23,620 And this was very important to them. 817 00:36:23,655 --> 00:36:27,379 And they felt like, "Hey, we wanna be a part of it, we wanna support them." 818 00:36:30,137 --> 00:36:32,379 Give me a kiss. You give me a kiss. 819 00:36:32,413 --> 00:36:33,586 You give me a kiss. 820 00:36:33,620 --> 00:36:36,103 -[blabbering] -[laughs] 821 00:36:36,137 --> 00:36:38,551 [Caryn] Also, little Liam, he's with us today. 822 00:36:38,586 --> 00:36:40,448 He is my grandson. 823 00:36:40,482 --> 00:36:42,793 He's almost two years old. 824 00:36:42,827 --> 00:36:45,724 And he had to come with me today, on Fridays, 825 00:36:45,758 --> 00:36:47,000 'cause I watch him every Friday. 826 00:36:47,034 --> 00:36:50,551 So, along with me, my parents are also on babysitting duty. 827 00:36:50,586 --> 00:36:52,275 -Well, you guys got good weather. -Yeah. 828 00:36:52,310 --> 00:36:55,068 -Oh, great weather, we got great weather. -Not as hot as Arizona. 829 00:36:55,103 --> 00:36:56,793 [Roger] Pretty warm down there now. 830 00:36:56,827 --> 00:37:00,482 How is Arizona? I know you guys still see Honey a lot. 831 00:37:00,517 --> 00:37:02,517 -[Matt] Thank you, guys. -[Michelle] Yeah, we enjoy that. 832 00:37:02,551 --> 00:37:04,689 -She's so sweet. We just love her. -[Roger] Yeah. 833 00:37:04,724 --> 00:37:08,275 [Matt] Unfortunately, my dad passed away last summer. 834 00:37:08,310 --> 00:37:11,551 And Roger and Michelle, Caryn's parents, 835 00:37:11,586 --> 00:37:14,103 live very close to my mother. 836 00:37:14,137 --> 00:37:17,034 They are quick to jump over and... 837 00:37:17,068 --> 00:37:19,379 They run my mother to her doctor's appointments, 838 00:37:19,413 --> 00:37:21,793 errands, you know, help her with everything. 839 00:37:21,827 --> 00:37:24,206 So, yeah. They're wonderful, wonderful people. 840 00:37:24,241 --> 00:37:27,000 And very, very appreciated 841 00:37:27,034 --> 00:37:30,379 in how they step in and help my mom. 842 00:37:30,413 --> 00:37:33,620 You went to dinner with her the other day, and was it Father's Day? 843 00:37:33,655 --> 00:37:35,620 [Michelle] Yeah, we had dinner with her Father's Day. 844 00:37:35,655 --> 00:37:37,310 -Happy Father's... Oh, I told you on the text. -Yeah. 845 00:37:37,344 --> 00:37:40,310 But happy in person, you know? 846 00:37:40,344 --> 00:37:42,793 You know, at some point, you gotta start calling me "dad," right? 847 00:37:42,827 --> 00:37:44,620 -[Caryn] Oh, my gosh. -[Michelle] Oh, yeah. 848 00:37:44,655 --> 00:37:46,689 -Pops? -Yeah, Pops. 849 00:37:46,724 --> 00:37:48,793 We're very happy that you're engaged. 850 00:37:48,827 --> 00:37:50,793 Oh, yeah, okay. Thank you, yeah. 851 00:37:50,827 --> 00:37:52,137 Yeah, I mean, it was a little weird. 852 00:37:52,172 --> 00:37:54,310 One minute, you're saying you got a ring, 853 00:37:54,344 --> 00:37:56,517 but you're not gonna ask her to get married. 854 00:37:56,551 --> 00:37:59,137 But I said to you... You know, I gave you your blessings at that time, 855 00:37:59,172 --> 00:38:01,758 but then you went ahead and popped the question. 856 00:38:01,793 --> 00:38:04,241 Well, I took your kind of sort of blessing and ran with it. 857 00:38:04,275 --> 00:38:05,344 -[Roger] Yeah. -[laughs] 858 00:38:05,379 --> 00:38:08,344 Matt came to us and said that he had a bought a ring 859 00:38:08,379 --> 00:38:10,068 and that he was gonna present her with it, 860 00:38:10,103 --> 00:38:14,275 but his intentions were not to ask her to marry him at that time. 861 00:38:14,310 --> 00:38:18,931 But in any case, I said, you know, "You have our blessings." 862 00:38:18,965 --> 00:38:23,034 And so, the next day, they sent us a text, 863 00:38:23,068 --> 00:38:24,896 -and they were engaged! -[Michelle] Yeah. 864 00:38:24,931 --> 00:38:27,689 I thought he was gonna come back to me to ask, you know, 865 00:38:27,724 --> 00:38:29,551 for my hand in that. 866 00:38:29,586 --> 00:38:31,413 But it didn't matter. You know, we love Matt. 867 00:38:31,448 --> 00:38:33,206 I think he's a great guy. 868 00:38:33,241 --> 00:38:35,517 [Matt] I've been meaning to debrief with you guys about that 869 00:38:35,551 --> 00:38:38,206 because, you know, I felt kind of bad because... 870 00:38:38,241 --> 00:38:41,517 that was honest, what I told you that night, was the truth. 871 00:38:41,551 --> 00:38:42,758 That was where my head is. 872 00:38:42,793 --> 00:38:44,758 In fact, I was talking to you about what are the words, 873 00:38:44,793 --> 00:38:46,620 -you know, how to say-- -Right, how to say it. 874 00:38:46,655 --> 00:38:48,931 [Matt] When I had the ring and went down to Arizona, 875 00:38:48,965 --> 00:38:53,137 I asked Roger and Michelle, when Caryn was out of earshot, 876 00:38:53,172 --> 00:38:57,034 I said, "Hey, I got a ring for Caryn, but I'm not... It's gonna be a promise ring. 877 00:38:57,068 --> 00:38:59,379 And I'm not sure when or how." So, I asked Michelle, 878 00:38:59,413 --> 00:39:03,172 "Give me some words," you know, 'cause Caryn's mom's really good with words. 879 00:39:03,206 --> 00:39:06,241 So, her mom was coaching me on how to say "promise ring", 880 00:39:06,275 --> 00:39:08,241 and how to say, "Oh, you mean so much to me." 881 00:39:08,275 --> 00:39:10,034 And I thought, "Those words are great! 882 00:39:10,068 --> 00:39:12,689 Those words might actually fit like a full blown proposal." 883 00:39:12,724 --> 00:39:14,172 You know? I didn't say that to her, 884 00:39:14,206 --> 00:39:15,862 I just like, listened to her, you know? 885 00:39:15,896 --> 00:39:17,448 But they didn't know I was gonna propose, 886 00:39:17,482 --> 00:39:18,586 because I didn't know! 887 00:39:18,620 --> 00:39:19,689 That was the night before. 888 00:39:19,724 --> 00:39:22,000 I had to convince them that I didn't know. 889 00:39:22,034 --> 00:39:24,448 I wasn't just keeping it a secret. 890 00:39:24,482 --> 00:39:27,655 And they're like, "Ha, ha, you're pretty good, Matt Roloff." 891 00:39:27,689 --> 00:39:29,724 And I said, "I didn't know either." 892 00:39:29,758 --> 00:39:30,793 [both] We're very happy. 893 00:39:30,827 --> 00:39:32,655 -Okay, well, thank you. -We both are very happy. 894 00:39:32,689 --> 00:39:35,137 -You have our blessings. -Appreciate that. Thank you for that. 895 00:39:36,172 --> 00:39:37,689 Thanks for coming and supporting us. 896 00:39:37,724 --> 00:39:40,241 -It's really nice to have... -[Roger] Well, it's important. 897 00:39:40,275 --> 00:39:43,689 So, are the kids coming to the fundraiser? 898 00:39:43,724 --> 00:39:45,758 You know, Isabell will be helping out. 899 00:39:45,793 --> 00:39:48,172 Of course, Molly and Joel are up in Washington. 900 00:39:48,206 --> 00:39:50,965 They come later in the summer, but not for this. 901 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,517 And then, we didn't really ask Jeremy and Audrey, 902 00:39:54,551 --> 00:39:56,862 because it just didn't seem like that was... 903 00:39:56,896 --> 00:40:00,344 But they're helping in a way, in terms of the auction items. 904 00:40:00,379 --> 00:40:04,000 And then, Zach and Tori said no. 905 00:40:06,896 --> 00:40:11,000 I didn't ask 'em, Amy did, but they came up with some reason. 906 00:40:12,931 --> 00:40:15,482 It's an unfortunate thing, 907 00:40:15,517 --> 00:40:19,620 but everybody has to live their life the way they wanna live their life. 908 00:40:19,655 --> 00:40:21,482 -Probably would've been nice if they'd have been here. -Yeah. 909 00:40:21,517 --> 00:40:23,965 Just because it's supporting... 910 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,620 Right. And especially supporting... 911 00:40:25,655 --> 00:40:27,724 -[Matt] That's the part that kind of blows my mind. -...the little people. Yeah. 912 00:40:27,758 --> 00:40:29,689 I'm very disappointed, honestly, 913 00:40:29,724 --> 00:40:34,206 that Zach and Tori couldn't figure out how to be here. 914 00:40:34,241 --> 00:40:38,758 Given the fact that Amy specifically picked, you know... 915 00:40:38,793 --> 00:40:40,655 purpose that was good for... 916 00:40:40,689 --> 00:40:42,034 I would've liked to have seen, you know, 917 00:40:42,068 --> 00:40:44,793 if Tori didn't go because of the baby, that would be one thing, 918 00:40:44,827 --> 00:40:47,931 but Zach not planning to be at the event 919 00:40:47,965 --> 00:40:49,758 is... I think it's sad. 920 00:40:51,310 --> 00:40:52,896 You know, when Amy conceived it, 921 00:40:52,931 --> 00:40:56,413 I think she had Zach and Jackson in mind. 922 00:40:56,448 --> 00:40:59,172 You know, but, it is what it is. 923 00:40:59,206 --> 00:41:03,379 I think there's, call it space, between Zach and Tori. 924 00:41:03,413 --> 00:41:08,241 Caryn and I have definitely gone on longer than I've expected. 925 00:41:08,275 --> 00:41:10,655 I'm always hopeful, and hoping that, you know, 926 00:41:10,689 --> 00:41:13,379 things could sort of patch back up again. 927 00:41:13,413 --> 00:41:18,206 But I think that healing is a two-way street. 928 00:41:18,241 --> 00:41:21,482 And there's been a lot of significant events that we've had 929 00:41:21,517 --> 00:41:22,758 that they don't come to, 930 00:41:22,793 --> 00:41:25,517 and that's the sad part, you never get all that time back. 931 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,172 [Matt] Next on Little People, Big World. 932 00:41:32,206 --> 00:41:34,000 Jackson, are you ready to play DAAA? 933 00:41:35,551 --> 00:41:38,000 [Zach] This could be the year Jackson kind of puts it all together. 934 00:41:38,034 --> 00:41:40,551 There's gonna be challenges up ahead, they recognize, 935 00:41:40,586 --> 00:41:42,137 you know, that they have dwarfism. 936 00:41:42,172 --> 00:41:44,000 Which two sports are you gonna play though? 937 00:41:44,034 --> 00:41:45,068 Are you gonna-- 938 00:41:45,103 --> 00:41:46,344 Yes! 939 00:41:46,379 --> 00:41:49,413 Kids on the soccer field have pointed out like, he's short. 940 00:41:49,448 --> 00:41:51,034 He's starting to connect the dots. 941 00:41:51,068 --> 00:41:55,172 But I think he's still very young and not fully aware of why. 942 00:41:55,206 --> 00:41:57,827 Tori and me will answer his questions if he comes to us, 943 00:41:57,862 --> 00:42:00,000 but we're not gonna make it too big of a deal. 944 00:42:01,689 --> 00:42:04,482 -Are we going eight? -[Amy] Yep, we have to. 945 00:42:04,517 --> 00:42:05,965 It's the day of the fundraiser, 946 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,586 and now we're in chaotic mode. 947 00:42:08,620 --> 00:42:10,827 -Well, I gotta go. -Go! 948 00:42:10,862 --> 00:42:15,379 This is the point where the whole thing could explode. 949 00:42:15,413 --> 00:42:17,310 -Amy is not back? -Check-- No! 950 00:42:17,344 --> 00:42:18,482 [Caryn groans] 951 00:42:18,517 --> 00:42:20,689 [Matt] People are gonna be arriving soon. 952 00:42:20,724 --> 00:42:21,620 It's crazy. 953 00:42:21,655 --> 00:42:23,103 Pretty soon, I'm gonna lose it. 954 00:42:23,137 --> 00:42:24,620 [Caryn] I'm pretty stressed at the moment. 955 00:42:24,655 --> 00:42:27,103 People are arriving. I don't think we're quite ready. 956 00:42:27,137 --> 00:42:29,310 If the timeline is going the way it is right now, 957 00:42:29,931 --> 00:42:31,068 this is not gonna be good.