1 00:00:01,667 --> 00:00:02,900 {\an8}[Amy] Previously on Little People, Big World... 2 00:00:02,967 --> 00:00:03,867 {\an8}Are you ready? Go! 3 00:00:04,500 --> 00:00:05,967 The older they get, 4 00:00:05,967 --> 00:00:07,066 they're gonna start realizing 5 00:00:07,066 --> 00:00:08,266 that the world maybe looks at them differently. 6 00:00:08,266 --> 00:00:09,800 [Tori] I think it's our job 7 00:00:09,867 --> 00:00:13,467 to protect their innocence as long as we possibly can. 8 00:00:13,467 --> 00:00:15,266 {\an8}Whoo! 9 00:00:16,567 --> 00:00:17,767 [Chris] Rally time. 10 00:00:19,266 --> 00:00:20,400 Oh! 11 00:00:20,467 --> 00:00:22,367 [Amy] Ever since I've moved off the farm, 12 00:00:22,367 --> 00:00:24,266 I kinda, like, feel disconnected. 13 00:00:24,266 --> 00:00:26,767 You know, with half of it up for sale, it's like, 14 00:00:26,767 --> 00:00:29,800 pumpkin season's lost its lure for me now. 15 00:00:29,867 --> 00:00:30,000 I'm sorry that the house isn't going to one of the kids. 16 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,000 I'm sorry that the house isn't going to one of the kids. 17 00:00:32,667 --> 00:00:35,667 You just don't see very often a family farm. 18 00:00:35,667 --> 00:00:38,900 -I think you should be there. -I don't know. 19 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,266 [exhales slowly] 20 00:00:46,266 --> 00:00:48,967 My dad was getting more and more ill, and, um, 21 00:00:48,967 --> 00:00:52,600 after putting up a very big fight, 22 00:00:52,667 --> 00:00:54,500 um, he passed away. 23 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,000 [Caryn] Very nice that all of your kids flew there 24 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,000 [Caryn] Very nice that all of your kids flew there 25 00:01:02,367 --> 00:01:03,800 to say their goodbyes. 26 00:01:03,867 --> 00:01:05,967 That meant a lot to me. 27 00:01:05,967 --> 00:01:07,800 We can all not get along for this, that, 28 00:01:07,867 --> 00:01:09,367 or the other thing, but when it mattered most, 29 00:01:09,367 --> 00:01:11,367 they all dropped everything. 30 00:01:12,367 --> 00:01:14,767 I got a lot of work to do. 31 00:01:26,166 --> 00:01:27,500 {\an8}I mean, it is nice 32 00:01:28,700 --> 00:01:30,000 to have it staged, no doubt about that. 33 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:31,000 to have it staged, no doubt about that. 34 00:01:32,667 --> 00:01:34,800 Yeah, it makes a big difference 35 00:01:34,867 --> 00:01:39,867 than walking in and it's kind of hollow and loud and... 36 00:01:39,867 --> 00:01:41,266 [Matt] Right. 37 00:01:41,266 --> 00:01:43,467 The north side of the farm's been on sale, 38 00:01:43,467 --> 00:01:44,567 you know, on the market, 39 00:01:44,567 --> 00:01:46,166 for just a little over three months. 40 00:01:46,166 --> 00:01:49,000 Before we put the house on the market we had it staged. 41 00:01:52,767 --> 00:01:54,100 I'm very happy with the way it came out. 42 00:01:54,166 --> 00:01:56,000 I mean, it's a great little structure. 43 00:01:56,066 --> 00:01:57,266 Big structure. 44 00:01:57,266 --> 00:02:00,000 I mean, everything from the rugs to the... 45 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:00,867 I mean, everything from the rugs to the... 46 00:02:00,867 --> 00:02:01,000 She got a lot of really nice detail. 47 00:02:03,867 --> 00:02:05,867 Just, you know, I just don't like paying the... 48 00:02:05,867 --> 00:02:08,767 Already paying the outrageous insurance. 49 00:02:08,767 --> 00:02:11,967 The staging is... you know, it's expensive. 50 00:02:11,967 --> 00:02:14,367 It's monthly. There's a monthly fee for it. 51 00:02:14,367 --> 00:02:17,367 Um, and the property, you know, 52 00:02:17,367 --> 00:02:19,667 it's gotten some interesting attention, 53 00:02:19,667 --> 00:02:21,867 but not nearly, you know, 54 00:02:21,867 --> 00:02:24,000 as close as we would have liked it to come. 55 00:02:24,066 --> 00:02:25,767 [Caryn] It definitely helps, 56 00:02:25,767 --> 00:02:26,900 -but I don't know if... -Yeah. 57 00:02:26,967 --> 00:02:28,467 ...having it staged is, like... 58 00:02:29,266 --> 00:02:30,000 the selling factor. 59 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:31,000 the selling factor. 60 00:02:31,166 --> 00:02:32,266 Yeah. 61 00:02:32,266 --> 00:02:36,700 The year drags on, and it, um, hasn't sold yet. 62 00:02:36,767 --> 00:02:38,767 You know, I'm probably gonna have to get creative 63 00:02:38,767 --> 00:02:41,266 about how, um... how to move forward. 64 00:02:41,266 --> 00:02:44,867 But in light of the fact that my dad passed away 65 00:02:44,867 --> 00:02:46,367 and my mom is now on her own, 66 00:02:46,367 --> 00:02:50,467 the house sale is not my, um, main priority at the moment. 67 00:02:50,467 --> 00:02:53,100 So, I know you were anxious to get back down 68 00:02:53,100 --> 00:02:54,567 and see your mom. 69 00:02:54,567 --> 00:02:56,667 Are you thinking this week or next week? 70 00:02:56,667 --> 00:02:58,500 Yeah, I'm thinking... I... yeah. 71 00:02:58,567 --> 00:03:00,000 I'm just talking about a quick two or three-day thing, 72 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:01,000 I'm just talking about a quick two or three-day thing, 73 00:03:01,767 --> 00:03:04,767 and my sister's gonna come the following week. 74 00:03:04,767 --> 00:03:07,800 I'm, you know, concerned about my mother a lot. 75 00:03:07,867 --> 00:03:10,100 You know, my dad... With Dad passing, 76 00:03:10,166 --> 00:03:12,400 I'm going back and forth to Arizona. 77 00:03:12,467 --> 00:03:17,266 You know, obviously she's lost her life-long partner. 78 00:03:17,266 --> 00:03:20,500 They've been married for 63 years or something. 79 00:03:20,567 --> 00:03:22,467 So obviously that's tough. 80 00:03:22,467 --> 00:03:25,567 But she emotionally seems to be doing great, 81 00:03:25,567 --> 00:03:27,767 considering, you know, what she's been through. 82 00:03:27,767 --> 00:03:29,667 I know she's in good hands. 83 00:03:29,667 --> 00:03:30,000 Just, you know, just nothing like 84 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,000 Just, you know, just nothing like 85 00:03:31,166 --> 00:03:33,266 getting your own eyes on the situation. 86 00:03:33,266 --> 00:03:36,467 -Right. -And see, um, you know... 87 00:03:36,467 --> 00:03:37,767 see how she's doing. 88 00:03:37,767 --> 00:03:42,100 Towards the end when we knew things looked more dire, 89 00:03:42,100 --> 00:03:43,767 it was really nice to, you know, to have Zach, 90 00:03:43,767 --> 00:03:46,100 Jeremy, Molly, and Jacob all come down 91 00:03:46,100 --> 00:03:48,567 to say goodbye to Pop in his final days. 92 00:03:48,567 --> 00:03:50,600 Papa was very happy. 93 00:03:50,667 --> 00:03:54,400 He told me that he didn't like any kind of, you know, 94 00:03:54,467 --> 00:03:57,100 things going on, dramas in the family, and, um, 95 00:03:57,100 --> 00:03:59,900 you know, that we needed to put things aside 96 00:03:59,967 --> 00:04:00,000 and, um, get on with it. 97 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,000 and, um, get on with it. 98 00:04:01,266 --> 00:04:03,166 So it was very nice to see everybody do that. 99 00:04:03,166 --> 00:04:06,767 I think Dad, you know, kinda... 100 00:04:06,767 --> 00:04:08,500 We didn't understand the extent 101 00:04:08,567 --> 00:04:09,867 in which he was really helping her, 102 00:04:09,867 --> 00:04:12,667 and part of it, I think, was that... 103 00:04:12,667 --> 00:04:14,667 hey, it's like me with you. 104 00:04:14,667 --> 00:04:16,667 You know, "Hey, you wanna help me get my coffee?" 105 00:04:16,667 --> 00:04:19,000 If you're not there, I figure out how to get it on my own. 106 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,500 Right, it becomes routine. 107 00:04:20,567 --> 00:04:22,367 -I just get it so you don't... -It becomes easy. 108 00:04:22,367 --> 00:04:23,867 Because I'm there, and I can, and... 109 00:04:23,867 --> 00:04:25,567 -Right. -So I agree with you. 110 00:04:25,567 --> 00:04:26,867 So I think my mom... 111 00:04:26,867 --> 00:04:28,300 I think she was a little bit spoiled by your dad. 112 00:04:28,367 --> 00:04:30,000 And he said that to me, in some of his last words, 113 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:31,000 -"I spoiled her." Yeah. -Oh. 114 00:04:32,367 --> 00:04:35,100 So yeah, that was... 115 00:04:35,100 --> 00:04:36,166 I said, "I know you did, 116 00:04:36,166 --> 00:04:37,500 and it's okay. We'll take over." 117 00:04:37,567 --> 00:04:41,000 My dad did a lot for my mother. 118 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,367 Anything she needed, you know, he was always there. 119 00:04:43,367 --> 00:04:45,567 And, um, growing up, I had 120 00:04:45,567 --> 00:04:47,700 a lot of orthopedic issues, 121 00:04:47,767 --> 00:04:50,567 and spent a lot of time getting surgeries 122 00:04:50,567 --> 00:04:52,500 on my legs and hips. 123 00:04:52,567 --> 00:04:55,567 And my dad was supportive through all of that. 124 00:04:55,567 --> 00:04:57,667 It was very important to my dad, 125 00:04:57,667 --> 00:04:59,900 some of his last words to me 126 00:04:59,967 --> 00:05:00,000 were to take care of my mother. 127 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,000 were to take care of my mother. 128 00:05:02,467 --> 00:05:05,066 And he, you know, really doted on her, 129 00:05:05,066 --> 00:05:06,266 and took very good care of her. 130 00:05:06,266 --> 00:05:08,800 So I take that very, very seriously. 131 00:05:08,867 --> 00:05:11,066 I promised him I would. 132 00:05:11,066 --> 00:05:14,767 Right now, her having something to look forward to 133 00:05:14,767 --> 00:05:17,200 such as you coming, or your sister, 134 00:05:17,266 --> 00:05:18,567 or any of the grandkids, 135 00:05:18,567 --> 00:05:21,667 -that's what's gonna kind of keep her going. -I agree. 136 00:05:34,266 --> 00:05:36,400 Do you wanna sit on this side? 137 00:05:37,166 --> 00:05:38,700 This side or that side? 138 00:05:38,767 --> 00:05:39,967 [Chris] That side. 139 00:05:39,967 --> 00:05:41,567 Okay, I'll sit right here. 140 00:05:41,567 --> 00:05:43,200 No, I'll sit right here. 141 00:05:43,266 --> 00:05:46,266 That way. No. Yeah, I'll sit right here. 142 00:05:46,266 --> 00:05:47,767 Or no. 143 00:05:47,767 --> 00:05:49,166 I'll sit right over here. 144 00:05:49,166 --> 00:05:51,266 That way we can look at each other, babe. 145 00:05:51,266 --> 00:05:54,200 This heatwave that we're having here in Portland 146 00:05:54,266 --> 00:05:56,000 has really hit me hard. 147 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,100 And I'm not gonna sit in a sprinkler. 148 00:05:59,166 --> 00:06:00,000 So I thought a kiddie pool would be kinda fun and cool, 149 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:01,000 So I thought a kiddie pool would be kinda fun and cool, 150 00:06:02,266 --> 00:06:03,667 and it works for me. 151 00:06:03,667 --> 00:06:06,000 And we're gonna have a little cocktail hour. 152 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:07,166 Oh! [laughs] 153 00:06:07,166 --> 00:06:08,700 -It's cold. -[Amy laughs] 154 00:06:08,767 --> 00:06:10,667 Whoa. Yeah, cooled down real quick. 155 00:06:10,667 --> 00:06:11,867 [Amy] Oh, yeah. 156 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:15,800 So have you, uh... 157 00:06:15,867 --> 00:06:19,100 Have you heard, have they set, um, 158 00:06:19,166 --> 00:06:20,700 a memorial service yet for Ron? 159 00:06:20,767 --> 00:06:22,300 I haven't heard anything. 160 00:06:22,367 --> 00:06:24,200 Were your kids very close with him? 161 00:06:24,266 --> 00:06:28,567 Um, they know more about Matt's parents than mine. 162 00:06:29,567 --> 00:06:30,000 [Chris] Really? 163 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:30,767 [Chris] Really? 164 00:06:30,767 --> 00:06:31,000 -Yeah, 'cause we live so much closer to them. -Oh. 165 00:06:32,867 --> 00:06:36,166 You know, Matt just lost his father Ron, 166 00:06:36,166 --> 00:06:38,000 and that's always a hard and sad thing. 167 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,600 But, um, regardless of what may be 168 00:06:41,667 --> 00:06:44,166 some of the family drama and family dynamics, 169 00:06:44,166 --> 00:06:46,700 I was just really happy that 170 00:06:46,767 --> 00:06:48,867 the kids, on the spur of the moment, 171 00:06:48,867 --> 00:06:51,500 were really able to go down there 172 00:06:51,567 --> 00:06:54,000 and not only be there for their dad, 173 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,667 but, you know, maybe to see their grandpa, Ron, 174 00:06:57,667 --> 00:07:00,000 you know, maybe one last time, and see their grandma, 175 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:00,767 you know, maybe one last time, and see their grandma, 176 00:07:00,767 --> 00:07:01,000 you know, Peg. 177 00:07:02,066 --> 00:07:04,166 How's Matt doing? Do you know? 178 00:07:04,166 --> 00:07:05,367 [Amy] I don't know. 179 00:07:05,367 --> 00:07:07,500 I mean, I texted him and said, "Hey, I'm so sorry and... 180 00:07:07,567 --> 00:07:08,967 [Chris] Yeah, I did, too. 181 00:07:08,967 --> 00:07:10,767 ...you know, I'll be thinking of you, 182 00:07:10,767 --> 00:07:13,266 and I'm just glad the kids were all able to go down," 183 00:07:13,266 --> 00:07:15,700 and, you know, stuff like that, but... 184 00:07:15,767 --> 00:07:17,867 I mean, you know, it's not my place, really, 185 00:07:17,867 --> 00:07:19,200 I don't think. I mean, he'll... 186 00:07:19,266 --> 00:07:20,567 [Chris] Yeah. 187 00:07:20,567 --> 00:07:22,467 Well, hopefully you and I are both 188 00:07:22,467 --> 00:07:24,100 a couple decades away from that. 189 00:07:24,100 --> 00:07:26,100 [Amy softly] Jeez, I hope so. 190 00:07:26,166 --> 00:07:28,467 Even though we are turning the big 6-0. 191 00:07:28,467 --> 00:07:30,000 I know, the big 6-0. 192 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:30,467 I know, the big 6-0. 193 00:07:31,166 --> 00:07:34,367 The big 6-0. 194 00:07:34,367 --> 00:07:37,600 So are we on agreement of doing a little celebration 195 00:07:37,667 --> 00:07:39,900 some time this month between our birthdays? 196 00:07:39,967 --> 00:07:41,867 [chuckles] Yeah, I think we said we were 197 00:07:41,867 --> 00:07:43,266 -gonna do that, yeah. -Okay. 198 00:07:43,266 --> 00:07:45,567 I've told Chris that, "Yeah, sure, 199 00:07:45,567 --> 00:07:48,166 we can have a joint birthday party for us 200 00:07:48,166 --> 00:07:49,867 with all of our friends being there." 201 00:07:49,867 --> 00:07:52,700 What Chris doesn't know is that I'm working on 202 00:07:52,767 --> 00:07:55,066 a surprise birthday party that's just for him. 203 00:07:55,066 --> 00:07:57,767 Speaking of, don't we have a thing this Saturday, right? 204 00:07:57,767 --> 00:08:00,000 Yeah, well, no, it's Friday, August 5th. 205 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:00,367 Yeah, well, no, it's Friday, August 5th. 206 00:08:01,066 --> 00:08:02,266 -Oh, it's on Friday? -Yeah. 207 00:08:02,266 --> 00:08:04,266 -And this is a surprise party? -Yeah. 208 00:08:04,266 --> 00:08:07,100 -So is this a big one for him? -No, it's not. 209 00:08:07,166 --> 00:08:09,767 The surprise birthday party, 210 00:08:09,767 --> 00:08:12,266 which he thinks is for Art Fletcher, 211 00:08:12,266 --> 00:08:13,600 is really for him. 212 00:08:13,667 --> 00:08:17,100 We play pickleball with Art and Lisa Fletcher. 213 00:08:17,166 --> 00:08:19,066 -No! -[Chris] Oh! 214 00:08:20,367 --> 00:08:23,767 {\an8}[Amy] I'm hoping by telling Chris that 215 00:08:23,767 --> 00:08:26,166 {\an8}we're going to a surprise birthday party 216 00:08:26,166 --> 00:08:28,166 for Art Fletcher 217 00:08:28,166 --> 00:08:30,000 that it will be, you know, the perfect cover story. 218 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,000 that it will be, you know, the perfect cover story. 219 00:08:32,467 --> 00:08:35,400 Yeah, she's having it at the Scotch Church. 220 00:08:35,467 --> 00:08:36,867 -Oh, is that right? -Yeah. 221 00:08:36,867 --> 00:08:38,867 -Oh, okay. -Yeah, she's been there and she likes that a lot. 222 00:08:38,867 --> 00:08:41,166 -Yeah. -You know? Her and Art. 223 00:08:41,166 --> 00:08:43,000 -Oh. -So yeah. 224 00:08:43,066 --> 00:08:45,767 [Amy] When Chris threw a 55th surprise birthday party for me, 225 00:08:45,767 --> 00:08:47,867 I was totally surprised. 226 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,900 [all] Surprise! 227 00:08:52,967 --> 00:08:54,600 I wanted to share the special moment 228 00:08:54,667 --> 00:08:56,767 for Chris's 60th birthday 229 00:08:56,767 --> 00:08:59,600 like I felt when he did 230 00:08:59,667 --> 00:09:00,000 my surprise 55th birthday party. 231 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:01,000 my surprise 55th birthday party. 232 00:09:02,100 --> 00:09:04,800 And I can't wait to see Chris's face 233 00:09:04,867 --> 00:09:06,467 when he walks through that door. 234 00:09:06,467 --> 00:09:08,266 [Chris] Well, do we wanna do ours there, 235 00:09:08,266 --> 00:09:09,500 or would you rather do it here? 236 00:09:10,967 --> 00:09:12,667 -I think here. -Okay. 237 00:09:12,667 --> 00:09:13,767 I think here would be good. 238 00:09:13,767 --> 00:09:14,867 [Chris] 'Cause we could do ours there. 239 00:09:16,367 --> 00:09:17,567 [Amy] Yeah, but we've already... 240 00:09:17,567 --> 00:09:19,700 You know, if we're going to that one for theirs, 241 00:09:19,767 --> 00:09:21,700 -let's make it, let's... -Oh. 242 00:09:21,767 --> 00:09:25,100 'Cause some of those people may come to ours, too. 243 00:09:25,100 --> 00:09:27,200 -I don't know. -Okay. All right. 244 00:09:27,266 --> 00:09:29,567 [Amy] I decided to throw the party at 245 00:09:29,567 --> 00:09:30,000 Scotch Church Road Vineyard. 246 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:31,000 Scotch Church Road Vineyard. 247 00:09:31,867 --> 00:09:33,000 We have gone there often, 248 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,100 we hear a lot of local music there. 249 00:09:35,100 --> 00:09:36,867 And, you know, at our wedding, 250 00:09:36,867 --> 00:09:39,867 he always teased me about wearing a Hawaiian shirt, 251 00:09:39,867 --> 00:09:42,900 so I thought I'd throw kind of a combined 252 00:09:42,967 --> 00:09:45,667 motorcycle-Hawaiian theme. 253 00:09:45,667 --> 00:09:48,300 I did invite the kids and the grandkids 254 00:09:48,367 --> 00:09:50,867 to go to Chris's surprise birthday party. 255 00:09:50,867 --> 00:09:53,367 But it's gonna be a long day, 256 00:09:53,367 --> 00:09:54,567 late into the night, 257 00:09:54,567 --> 00:09:57,767 and so, you know, I don't expect them to make it. 258 00:09:57,767 --> 00:10:00,000 Yeah, so we'll know some people there, you know. 259 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:00,567 Yeah, so we'll know some people there, you know. 260 00:10:00,567 --> 00:10:01,000 Other people, you know, we may not know, 261 00:10:02,367 --> 00:10:03,800 but that's all right. 262 00:10:03,867 --> 00:10:07,867 It's nerve-wracking. I find anxiety and just the... 263 00:10:07,867 --> 00:10:14,000 the tenseness of it, the anxiousness, 264 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,066 and, "Gosh, will he find out, does he have a clue?" 265 00:10:17,066 --> 00:10:19,567 Well, you know, Chris has a tendency 266 00:10:19,567 --> 00:10:21,200 to just know things, 267 00:10:21,266 --> 00:10:23,567 and so I'm really gonna have to work hard 268 00:10:23,567 --> 00:10:25,500 to be able to pull this off, 269 00:10:25,567 --> 00:10:28,800 and, um, you know, just really surprise him. 270 00:10:28,867 --> 00:10:30,000 Think my biggest surprise party for you was your 55th. 271 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,000 Think my biggest surprise party for you was your 55th. 272 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,500 [Amy] Yeah, I know. Like, "What? 273 00:10:33,567 --> 00:10:35,567 "What in the world?" 274 00:10:35,567 --> 00:10:37,300 So I think it's gonna-- 275 00:10:37,367 --> 00:10:39,066 See, I was still wooing you then. 276 00:10:39,066 --> 00:10:40,166 Now we're an old married couple. 277 00:10:40,166 --> 00:10:42,000 I know, I know. It's like, who cares? 278 00:10:42,066 --> 00:10:45,400 Oh, talk about how things will change once you get married. 279 00:10:45,467 --> 00:10:48,300 Oh, my gosh. No more wooing? 280 00:10:48,367 --> 00:10:51,667 Babe, I can surprise you every day of the week now. 281 00:10:51,667 --> 00:10:53,567 [chuckling] Right. 282 00:10:53,567 --> 00:10:54,900 [Chris] I'll keep you guessing. 283 00:10:54,967 --> 00:10:56,400 [Amy] Oh, brother. 284 00:10:57,867 --> 00:10:59,500 {\an8}[Matt reading] 285 00:10:59,567 --> 00:11:00,000 {\an8}Well, what do you say? Hey, buddy. 286 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,000 {\an8}Well, what do you say? Hey, buddy. 287 00:11:01,967 --> 00:11:05,266 With all the kids, I'm redoubling my efforts 288 00:11:05,266 --> 00:11:08,467 to just check in on them all as often as possible. 289 00:11:08,467 --> 00:11:10,767 Look at that little Josiah! 290 00:11:10,767 --> 00:11:12,266 [Tori] Are you a little chunker dude? 291 00:11:12,266 --> 00:11:13,767 [Zach] When we see my dad, 292 00:11:13,767 --> 00:11:14,800 sometimes things can be awkward, 293 00:11:14,867 --> 00:11:16,600 but that's what's to be expected 294 00:11:16,667 --> 00:11:17,867 with where our relationship's at. 295 00:11:17,867 --> 00:11:20,200 But it's sometimes better just to, you know, 296 00:11:20,266 --> 00:11:21,667 just keep the peace. 297 00:11:21,667 --> 00:11:22,767 {\an8}[Amy reading] 298 00:11:22,767 --> 00:11:25,166 {\an8}-Oh, my gosh. That looks so cute. -Yeah! 299 00:11:25,166 --> 00:11:27,367 -I love it! -[Amy] Hey Lisa. 300 00:11:27,367 --> 00:11:28,467 -Yes? -Hey, Ame. 301 00:11:28,467 --> 00:11:30,000 I have a feeling you guys are gonna run out of time. 302 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:30,600 I have a feeling you guys are gonna run out of time. 303 00:11:30,667 --> 00:11:31,000 I showed up, I was looking at, 304 00:11:33,100 --> 00:11:35,367 you know, what was done and I'm like, 305 00:11:35,367 --> 00:11:38,100 people are gonna be showing up in a couple hours, like, 306 00:11:38,100 --> 00:11:40,967 we have a lot to do, I think. 307 00:12:00,100 --> 00:12:01,500 {\an8}[Jackson speaking] 308 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:03,400 {\an8}My Dad's here? 309 00:12:04,166 --> 00:12:06,100 [Matt] Well, what do you say? 310 00:12:07,500 --> 00:12:08,767 Hey, buddy. 311 00:12:08,767 --> 00:12:10,867 Did your dad tell you Grandpa was coming? 312 00:12:10,867 --> 00:12:12,300 Hi Lilah. 313 00:12:12,367 --> 00:12:13,953 Zach wanted me to come out and check out his bridge. 314 00:12:13,953 --> 00:12:14,000 Zach wanted me to come out and check out his bridge. 315 00:12:14,567 --> 00:12:15,667 He's proud of it, 316 00:12:15,667 --> 00:12:18,500 and I'm proud of him for making it happen. 317 00:12:19,300 --> 00:12:20,800 Tonight I'm going to Arizona, 318 00:12:20,867 --> 00:12:23,100 and, uh... To see my mother, 319 00:12:23,100 --> 00:12:25,667 but Caryn is not going with me on this trip, 320 00:12:25,667 --> 00:12:26,800 just 'cause I'm gonna go down there, 321 00:12:26,867 --> 00:12:28,200 check on my mom, come back. 322 00:12:28,266 --> 00:12:32,000 It's not really that far to go right by Battle Ground, 323 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,600 and see the kids before I go to the airport. 324 00:12:34,667 --> 00:12:36,767 You look awfully like you've gotten big. 325 00:12:37,767 --> 00:12:39,300 Gonna give Grandpa a little hug? 326 00:12:39,367 --> 00:12:40,400 Just a little one? 327 00:12:40,467 --> 00:12:42,100 Oh, that's a big one! 328 00:12:42,166 --> 00:12:43,667 [Zach] When we see my dad, 329 00:12:43,667 --> 00:12:43,953 sometimes things can be awkward, 330 00:12:43,953 --> 00:12:44,000 sometimes things can be awkward, 331 00:12:44,867 --> 00:12:46,600 but that's what's to be expected 332 00:12:46,667 --> 00:12:47,867 with where our relationship's at. 333 00:12:47,867 --> 00:12:50,066 But it's... You know, he's family, 334 00:12:50,066 --> 00:12:51,867 so we're all family, and we're... 335 00:12:51,867 --> 00:12:53,166 Yeah, we're gonna be happy to see him. 336 00:12:53,166 --> 00:12:55,367 Where's, um, little Si? 337 00:12:55,367 --> 00:12:56,700 He's crying. 338 00:12:56,767 --> 00:12:58,500 [Zach] Look at that. So you pull it like this. 339 00:12:58,567 --> 00:12:59,767 He's having a day. 340 00:12:59,767 --> 00:13:01,000 Oh, he's having a day. 341 00:13:01,066 --> 00:13:04,000 Usually he's super chill, but today he's a little off. 342 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,367 [Matt] Yeah. 343 00:13:05,367 --> 00:13:08,600 Feeling reflective on my dad passing away, 344 00:13:08,667 --> 00:13:12,166 you know, processing and all the good memories, and, um, 345 00:13:12,166 --> 00:13:13,953 with all the kids I'm spending... 346 00:13:13,953 --> 00:13:14,000 with all the kids I'm spending... 347 00:13:14,767 --> 00:13:18,100 I'm redoubling my efforts to just sort of 348 00:13:18,166 --> 00:13:20,867 check in on them all as often as possible. 349 00:13:20,867 --> 00:13:23,500 Oh, yeah, I see a stake here. Is this for... 350 00:13:23,567 --> 00:13:24,700 Is this a stake... 351 00:13:24,767 --> 00:13:26,166 This is our garage build. 352 00:13:26,166 --> 00:13:27,667 Oh, my goodness. 353 00:13:27,667 --> 00:13:29,467 [Zach] The next project I want to start for the house 354 00:13:29,467 --> 00:13:31,100 is a big workshop garage. 355 00:13:31,166 --> 00:13:32,700 Yeah, we got plans drawn up 356 00:13:32,767 --> 00:13:34,367 and we're excited to get started. 357 00:13:34,367 --> 00:13:37,467 So, you just pulled up to the garage door. 358 00:13:37,467 --> 00:13:38,867 The staircase goes like this. 359 00:13:38,867 --> 00:13:40,700 So there's actually gonna be a bathroom 360 00:13:40,767 --> 00:13:42,000 -right here under the stairs. -Oh, my goodness. 361 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,953 -This is gonna be... -But you walk over, upstairs, 362 00:13:43,953 --> 00:13:44,000 -This is gonna be... -But you walk over, upstairs, 363 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,367 this will be a deck that kind of looks out over it. 364 00:13:47,367 --> 00:13:49,867 [Matt] I'm very happy that Zach is, 365 00:13:49,867 --> 00:13:52,600 you know, taking on the interest of building things, 366 00:13:52,667 --> 00:13:55,266 because I think it enables him 367 00:13:55,266 --> 00:13:59,166 to, um, really do projects on his own. 368 00:13:59,166 --> 00:14:01,667 You know, his own speed, his own level, 369 00:14:01,667 --> 00:14:03,967 his own, you know, property. 370 00:14:03,967 --> 00:14:05,567 It's like a blank slate, you know? 371 00:14:05,567 --> 00:14:07,266 Have you got your building permits? 372 00:14:07,266 --> 00:14:08,567 -[Zach] No. -[Tori] He's working on it. 373 00:14:08,567 --> 00:14:09,700 [Zach] We're working on it. 374 00:14:09,767 --> 00:14:13,467 Yeah. I'm going through... I've already submitted mine 375 00:14:13,467 --> 00:14:13,953 and it takes... It took eight weeks. 376 00:14:13,953 --> 00:14:14,000 and it takes... It took eight weeks. 377 00:14:15,567 --> 00:14:17,500 'Cause after you've filled out the form, 378 00:14:17,567 --> 00:14:19,100 and then I went and paid the fee 379 00:14:19,166 --> 00:14:21,567 and they said, "Okay, now that you're in the system, 380 00:14:21,567 --> 00:14:25,066 it takes 12 to 16 weeks." 381 00:14:25,066 --> 00:14:26,100 [Tori] This is for your house? 382 00:14:26,166 --> 00:14:28,767 Well, yeah, this is for the grading permit 383 00:14:28,767 --> 00:14:30,400 before the house can even get submitted. 384 00:14:30,467 --> 00:14:32,266 -[Tori] Dang. -So it's been, um... 385 00:14:32,266 --> 00:14:33,600 [chuckles] 386 00:14:33,667 --> 00:14:36,266 Well, I'm still waiting on permits. 387 00:14:36,266 --> 00:14:39,266 There's sort of this lock-jam at the county. 388 00:14:39,266 --> 00:14:42,867 So hopefully, um, in the spring now. 389 00:14:42,867 --> 00:14:43,953 I'm essentially a year behind, once again. 390 00:14:43,953 --> 00:14:44,000 I'm essentially a year behind, once again. 391 00:14:45,967 --> 00:14:49,100 But right now I am just being patient 392 00:14:49,166 --> 00:14:52,367 and focused on what I can focus on, 393 00:14:52,367 --> 00:14:56,000 and hoping that the county 394 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,767 sort of gets their ducks in a row. 395 00:14:58,767 --> 00:15:00,500 Wow, doesn't that look good? 396 00:15:00,567 --> 00:15:01,900 [Tori] Just be careful cause it's... 397 00:15:01,967 --> 00:15:03,900 Nothing is... 398 00:15:03,967 --> 00:15:05,467 -Screwed down. -Yes. 399 00:15:05,467 --> 00:15:06,667 Okay, got it. 400 00:15:06,667 --> 00:15:08,567 -Walk in the middle. -Yeah, walk in the middle. 401 00:15:08,567 --> 00:15:10,100 -We've already had a couple... -Okay, I won't even walk on. 402 00:15:10,166 --> 00:15:13,367 Probably look at it. Wow. Jackson! 403 00:15:13,367 --> 00:15:13,953 You got your very own bridge? I'm glad you put... 404 00:15:13,953 --> 00:15:14,000 You got your very own bridge? I'm glad you put... 405 00:15:17,867 --> 00:15:20,000 put big, heavy beams 406 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,967 so the tractor can go right across it, huh? 407 00:15:22,967 --> 00:15:25,100 I've been working on this bridge for a while now, 408 00:15:25,100 --> 00:15:26,667 and I'm excited that it's almost done. 409 00:15:27,867 --> 00:15:30,166 It's cool being able to show a project that I've done 410 00:15:30,166 --> 00:15:32,667 on my own property, by myself. 411 00:15:32,667 --> 00:15:34,600 I know he's into bridges, 412 00:15:34,667 --> 00:15:36,400 and he's done a lot of bridge builds himself 413 00:15:36,467 --> 00:15:37,734 over the years. 414 00:15:37,734 --> 00:15:40,000 So I know he's, like, interested in something like this. 415 00:15:40,066 --> 00:15:41,367 This is super nice. 416 00:15:41,367 --> 00:15:42,800 When that water's flowing, 417 00:15:42,867 --> 00:15:43,953 this bridge is gonna be the bomb. 418 00:15:43,953 --> 00:15:44,000 this bridge is gonna be the bomb. 419 00:15:44,967 --> 00:15:48,500 Zach in this scenario, feeling the satisfaction 420 00:15:48,567 --> 00:15:51,967 of owning a project, I'm happy that Zach's 421 00:15:51,967 --> 00:15:53,967 developing his own memories. 422 00:15:53,967 --> 00:15:57,066 It reminds me a lot of the memories that he had 423 00:15:57,066 --> 00:15:59,066 as a kid. I think he's replaying them out. 424 00:15:59,066 --> 00:16:00,367 You say hi. 425 00:16:00,367 --> 00:16:02,200 -Hey. -He's a little grumpy. 426 00:16:02,266 --> 00:16:03,967 -Are you grumpy today? Oh, you... -Can you say hi? 427 00:16:04,967 --> 00:16:06,800 -[Tori] Hi! -[Matt] No? Hi! 428 00:16:06,867 --> 00:16:08,300 -You smile? -Do you remember me? 429 00:16:08,367 --> 00:16:10,400 You didn't have your eyes open, huh? 430 00:16:10,467 --> 00:16:12,000 -[Matt chuckling] -[Tori] Is his eye all gross? 431 00:16:13,567 --> 00:16:13,953 -Hi, little cute guy. Hi. Hi. -Say hi? Can you smile for Grandpa? 432 00:16:13,953 --> 00:16:14,000 -Hi, little cute guy. Hi. Hi. -Say hi? Can you smile for Grandpa? 433 00:16:17,567 --> 00:16:19,200 He's giving me a little smile. 434 00:16:19,266 --> 00:16:20,300 [Tori] I know. 435 00:16:20,367 --> 00:16:21,367 [Matt] How is he interacting good 436 00:16:21,367 --> 00:16:22,667 with the brothers and sisters? 437 00:16:22,667 --> 00:16:24,266 [Tori] Oh, he's obsessed with them, 438 00:16:24,266 --> 00:16:25,500 especially Jackson. 439 00:16:25,567 --> 00:16:27,100 Let me hold him for one second. 440 00:16:27,100 --> 00:16:28,667 How heavy is he? 441 00:16:28,667 --> 00:16:29,767 Is he more than I can handle? 442 00:16:29,767 --> 00:16:31,100 I don't think so. 443 00:16:32,567 --> 00:16:34,867 [Zach] He's pretty strong. He's stronger than, like, 444 00:16:34,867 --> 00:16:36,500 I think Jackson or Lilah. 445 00:16:36,567 --> 00:16:38,100 Yeah, actually, he looks strong. Hey. 446 00:16:38,100 --> 00:16:39,467 [Tori] Can you smile? 447 00:16:39,467 --> 00:16:41,667 A-da-da. Yeah. 448 00:16:41,667 --> 00:16:43,567 See, look. You just look huge right now. 449 00:16:43,567 --> 00:16:43,953 Are you just chilling with Grandpa? 450 00:16:43,953 --> 00:16:44,000 Are you just chilling with Grandpa? 451 00:16:45,467 --> 00:16:46,500 [Matt chuckles] 452 00:16:46,567 --> 00:16:48,000 [Tori] Are you just hanging out? 453 00:16:48,066 --> 00:16:49,567 "I like it better when Mom holds me 454 00:16:49,567 --> 00:16:51,100 -and I get to stare at you." -We just needed Grandpa! 455 00:16:51,100 --> 00:16:52,800 We just needed you to come over. 456 00:16:52,867 --> 00:16:55,300 We needed Grandpa to be here so we weren't so grumpy. 457 00:16:55,367 --> 00:16:56,700 [Matt chuckles] 458 00:16:56,767 --> 00:16:58,100 [Tori] That's what it was. 459 00:16:59,300 --> 00:17:00,900 -He just staring at you? -Yeah. 460 00:17:00,967 --> 00:17:03,467 -[Tori] He knows Mom, that's for sure. -Yeah, I'm sure. 461 00:17:03,467 --> 00:17:04,667 He knows Mom and Dad. 462 00:17:04,667 --> 00:17:06,467 -[Matt] Mmm-hmm. -And Jackson. 463 00:17:06,467 --> 00:17:09,767 Lilah he's a little more like, "Are you gonna come at me 464 00:17:09,767 --> 00:17:11,100 -or, like..." -[chuckles] 465 00:17:11,100 --> 00:17:12,400 [Tori] He loves her, but... 466 00:17:12,467 --> 00:17:13,700 Oh, that'll change. 467 00:17:13,700 --> 00:17:13,953 He's a little like, "Oh, where are you coming at me from?" 468 00:17:13,953 --> 00:17:14,000 He's a little like, "Oh, where are you coming at me from?" 469 00:17:16,166 --> 00:17:18,367 Look at that little Josiah. 470 00:17:18,367 --> 00:17:19,600 [Tori] Are you a little chunker dude? 471 00:17:19,667 --> 00:17:22,066 Josiah's starting to get very alert, 472 00:17:22,066 --> 00:17:24,266 and he's becoming like a little human 473 00:17:24,266 --> 00:17:27,800 and he's, um... He's just healthy and looks, you know, 474 00:17:27,867 --> 00:17:30,867 just looks like he's ready to take on the world. 475 00:17:30,867 --> 00:17:33,900 I think he's gonna give Jackson a run for his money. 476 00:17:36,467 --> 00:17:37,800 {\an8}[Amy reading] 477 00:17:37,867 --> 00:17:39,900 {\an8}I've got lookout watching the window. 478 00:17:39,967 --> 00:17:41,367 {\an8}They're not showing up. 479 00:17:41,367 --> 00:17:43,767 What is your ETA, please? 480 00:17:43,767 --> 00:17:43,953 We've got this barn full of people 481 00:17:43,953 --> 00:17:44,000 We've got this barn full of people 482 00:17:46,066 --> 00:17:49,100 and it's hot, and we keep saying, "They're almost here. 483 00:17:49,100 --> 00:17:50,667 -They're almost here." -"They're coming." 484 00:18:00,467 --> 00:18:03,800 I can't believe his little... his little arms, 485 00:18:03,867 --> 00:18:05,967 his little hands. He looks like he's just 486 00:18:05,967 --> 00:18:08,467 ready to start playing out here. 487 00:18:08,467 --> 00:18:10,100 I mean, doesn't he look like he's ready to start playing? 488 00:18:10,166 --> 00:18:11,266 [Zach] Oh, yeah, he's gonna be crawling 489 00:18:11,266 --> 00:18:12,567 before any of the other kids. 490 00:18:12,567 --> 00:18:13,767 -[Tori] Oh, yeah. -I believe it. 491 00:18:13,767 --> 00:18:14,867 [Zach] And walking. 492 00:18:14,867 --> 00:18:17,800 [Matt] She's cute in her little dress, 493 00:18:17,867 --> 00:18:19,467 but she's a farm girl but she has her little dress. 494 00:18:19,467 --> 00:18:21,066 Oh, yeah. She's a farm girl. 495 00:18:21,066 --> 00:18:23,100 They sit in the rock pile all day and they'll just... 496 00:18:23,100 --> 00:18:24,490 -Like, what are they doing? -What are they doing? 497 00:18:24,490 --> 00:18:25,000 -Like, what are they doing? -What are they doing? 498 00:18:25,467 --> 00:18:27,667 [Matt] That's just where they wanna be. 499 00:18:27,667 --> 00:18:29,567 -[Tori] A bunch of knuckleheads over there. -[Matt] On their own. 500 00:18:29,567 --> 00:18:31,567 It's nice that everyone makes the effort 501 00:18:31,567 --> 00:18:32,734 to come up and see us. 502 00:18:32,734 --> 00:18:36,467 And I am thankful that all of the grandparents, 503 00:18:36,467 --> 00:18:37,567 Zach's parents, my parents, 504 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,300 everybody wants to be involved in the kids' lives, 505 00:18:39,367 --> 00:18:41,467 and that's all that matters. 506 00:18:41,467 --> 00:18:43,700 [Matt] Well, I'm gonna catch the late flight 507 00:18:43,767 --> 00:18:45,700 and, um, bomb up there. 508 00:18:45,767 --> 00:18:47,467 -[Tori] Yeah, tell Honey that we're thinking of her. -Yeah, I will. 509 00:18:47,467 --> 00:18:50,500 I'm going to Arizona to see my mother. 510 00:18:50,567 --> 00:18:51,667 You know, wanted to just make sure 511 00:18:51,667 --> 00:18:53,567 she has what she needs down there, 512 00:18:53,567 --> 00:18:54,490 um, in terms of support. 513 00:18:54,490 --> 00:18:55,000 um, in terms of support. 514 00:18:55,567 --> 00:18:59,100 There's nothing like having your eyes on the situation, 515 00:18:59,166 --> 00:19:02,367 um, you know, beyond just talking on the phone. 516 00:19:02,367 --> 00:19:03,667 It meant a lot to him 517 00:19:03,667 --> 00:19:05,367 that you came down there at the last second, 518 00:19:05,367 --> 00:19:06,867 so I know that for sure. 519 00:19:06,867 --> 00:19:08,967 He asked one time, 520 00:19:08,967 --> 00:19:10,367 "Have you heard from Jeremy or Zach?" or, you know... 521 00:19:10,367 --> 00:19:11,567 Yeah, he was pretty excited 522 00:19:11,567 --> 00:19:13,066 -when everyone walked in. -[Matt] Yeah. 523 00:19:13,066 --> 00:19:15,967 [Zach] My dad told us that Papa wasn't doing well, 524 00:19:15,967 --> 00:19:18,667 and, yeah, bought a ticket and left the next morning. 525 00:19:18,667 --> 00:19:20,800 It's hard to see him go, yeah, it's hard to see him go. 526 00:19:20,867 --> 00:19:23,800 He was a very active papa, he was a very active grandpa. 527 00:19:23,867 --> 00:19:24,490 He, uh, loved his grandkids, 528 00:19:24,490 --> 00:19:25,000 He, uh, loved his grandkids, 529 00:19:26,066 --> 00:19:27,600 his great-grandkids. 530 00:19:27,667 --> 00:19:29,467 But he's in heaven, he's in a better place, 531 00:19:29,467 --> 00:19:31,567 and he's, um... 532 00:19:32,867 --> 00:19:35,967 Yeah, it was hard to see him in pain, so, like, 533 00:19:35,967 --> 00:19:39,000 definitely don't wanna see such a positive guy like that, 534 00:19:39,867 --> 00:19:41,367 um, hurting. 535 00:19:41,367 --> 00:19:43,500 Is Honey, like... 536 00:19:43,567 --> 00:19:45,567 And, like, sorry if this is overstepping, 537 00:19:45,567 --> 00:19:48,500 but is Honey, like... Is she, like, good? 538 00:19:48,567 --> 00:19:49,967 She is. I'd say she is. 539 00:19:49,967 --> 00:19:51,066 -[Tori] Okay, good. -Yeah, yeah. 540 00:19:51,066 --> 00:19:54,490 I think Honey is handling it as well as anyone, 541 00:19:54,490 --> 00:19:55,000 I think Honey is handling it as well as anyone, 542 00:19:55,266 --> 00:19:56,567 but I'd still think 543 00:19:56,567 --> 00:19:58,667 you have a partner for 60-something years, 544 00:19:58,667 --> 00:20:01,367 when was the last time they spent time away from each other? 545 00:20:01,367 --> 00:20:02,967 Like Papa traveled or something. 546 00:20:02,967 --> 00:20:05,500 -Yeah. -Like, I don't remember, 547 00:20:05,567 --> 00:20:06,600 you know what I'm saying? 548 00:20:06,667 --> 00:20:08,000 So like, they've slept next to each other 549 00:20:08,066 --> 00:20:10,266 in the same bed, woken up together, 550 00:20:10,266 --> 00:20:14,100 you know, for the last, what, probably 20, 25 years? 551 00:20:14,166 --> 00:20:17,800 So yeah, I think she's doing really well, considering. 552 00:20:17,867 --> 00:20:20,467 Hey Jackson, come down here please! 553 00:20:20,467 --> 00:20:21,567 Grandpa's leaving. 554 00:20:21,567 --> 00:20:23,600 -Lilah, come here! -Come on guys! 555 00:20:23,667 --> 00:20:24,490 [Matt] I just go in, you know, 556 00:20:24,490 --> 00:20:25,000 [Matt] I just go in, you know, 557 00:20:26,367 --> 00:20:30,100 with love in my heart, and you just sort of try to find 558 00:20:30,166 --> 00:20:31,867 common ground and conversations 559 00:20:31,867 --> 00:20:35,967 that you can both agree on and enjoy talking about. 560 00:20:35,967 --> 00:20:39,467 Oh, man, it was so good to see you, okay. Okay. 561 00:20:39,467 --> 00:20:41,867 -[Jackson] 'Kay. -[Matthew] And, hopefully, I'll see you again soon. 562 00:20:41,867 --> 00:20:43,266 You got berries on there. 563 00:20:43,266 --> 00:20:44,700 Caryn cheering me on, you know, 564 00:20:44,767 --> 00:20:47,100 I think, at the same time Zach and Tori moved away. 565 00:20:47,166 --> 00:20:49,000 She's taken a little half step back 566 00:20:49,066 --> 00:20:50,867 to continue to develop my relationship 567 00:20:50,867 --> 00:20:53,166 with all my kids, my grandkids. 568 00:20:53,166 --> 00:20:54,490 And so that's... I think that that's working for now. 569 00:20:54,490 --> 00:20:55,000 And so that's... I think that that's working for now. 570 00:21:10,767 --> 00:21:13,367 -[Deb] Hello. -[Lisa] Hey, friend. We made it. 571 00:21:13,367 --> 00:21:14,867 {\an8}Oh, my goodness. 572 00:21:14,867 --> 00:21:16,667 {\an8}-Oh, my gosh. -[Deb] You ready for this? 573 00:21:16,667 --> 00:21:21,100 {\an8}-Another event. [chuckles] -[sighs] My car is loaded. 574 00:21:21,166 --> 00:21:24,490 {\an8}Amy's telling Chris they're going to a surprise birthday party for their good friends 575 00:21:24,490 --> 00:21:25,000 {\an8}Amy's telling Chris they're going to a surprise birthday party for their good friends 576 00:21:26,166 --> 00:21:28,500 Art and Lisa Fletcher. 577 00:21:28,567 --> 00:21:32,767 So, they're gonna show up thinking it's all for somebody else, 578 00:21:32,767 --> 00:21:35,367 and Chris is gonna walk in and it's gonna be for him. 579 00:21:35,367 --> 00:21:37,867 -[Lisa] So, this is all table. -[Deb] Table. 580 00:21:37,867 --> 00:21:40,467 We're gonna have to figure out how to tape these down, 581 00:21:40,467 --> 00:21:42,166 she wants one of these at each table. 582 00:21:42,166 --> 00:21:43,667 Okay, let's put those out. 583 00:21:43,667 --> 00:21:46,400 Sixty years ago, what happened then? 584 00:21:46,467 --> 00:21:48,700 I think it's wonderful that she's doing this for Chris. 585 00:21:48,767 --> 00:21:52,100 -And, I hope, he is gonna be so surprised. -I know. 586 00:21:52,166 --> 00:21:54,490 -I hope he is too. I hope nobody spilled the beans. -I hope not. 587 00:21:54,490 --> 00:21:55,000 -I hope he is too. I hope nobody spilled the beans. -I hope not. 588 00:21:55,100 --> 00:21:57,867 -Oh, my gosh, that looks so cute. -Yeah. 589 00:21:57,867 --> 00:21:59,467 -[in sing-song voice] I love it. -I love it. 590 00:21:59,467 --> 00:22:01,367 -Okay, good job. -One thing down! 591 00:22:01,367 --> 00:22:04,266 -Twenty things to go. -Twenty? How about 100. 592 00:22:04,266 --> 00:22:06,100 -[Amy] Hey, Lisa. -Yes, ma'am. 593 00:22:06,166 --> 00:22:08,667 [Amy] I have a feeling you guys are gonna run outta time. 594 00:22:08,667 --> 00:22:12,367 I showed up, I was looking at, you know, what was done. 595 00:22:12,367 --> 00:22:15,166 And I'm like, "People are gonna be showing up in a couple hours." 596 00:22:15,166 --> 00:22:19,266 Like, "We have a lot to do," I think. 597 00:22:19,266 --> 00:22:23,000 -Okay, so... -[Amy] Remember guys, it just needs to be hung up. 598 00:22:23,066 --> 00:22:24,490 [Deb] We know, we're doing it, hello. 599 00:22:24,490 --> 00:22:25,000 [Deb] We know, we're doing it, hello. 600 00:22:26,066 --> 00:22:30,900 I just told Chris I'm going to the bank. The bank does not take 3 hours. [chuckles] 601 00:22:30,967 --> 00:22:34,400 And, I don't want him to get the suspicion 602 00:22:34,467 --> 00:22:37,467 that something is going on, this is odd, 603 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,667 you know, for Amy. 604 00:22:39,667 --> 00:22:42,500 I didn't start getting nervous until she showed up. 605 00:22:42,567 --> 00:22:45,467 -Because this stuff stresses me out the older I get. -[Deb] I know it does. 606 00:22:45,467 --> 00:22:47,867 -But we got this. -It stresses me out. 607 00:22:47,867 --> 00:22:49,500 -[Deb] We got this, girl. -[Lisa] Yeah. 608 00:22:49,567 --> 00:22:53,166 I felt under stress trying to keep this a secret from Chris. 609 00:22:53,166 --> 00:22:54,490 [Deb] Hold on, Amy. [chuckling] 610 00:22:54,490 --> 00:22:55,000 [Deb] Hold on, Amy. [chuckling] 611 00:22:55,867 --> 00:22:59,300 -Hold on to those balloons. -[Amy] We've got a tangled mess. 612 00:22:59,367 --> 00:23:02,667 I felt like everything that was coming out of my mouth was, 613 00:23:02,667 --> 00:23:05,467 oh, dear, it's kinda like lying. 614 00:23:05,467 --> 00:23:08,100 It's like, how do you just lie right in front of him? 615 00:23:08,900 --> 00:23:10,667 Just so... It feels so horrible. 616 00:23:10,667 --> 00:23:12,667 -[Lisa] Look how great it looks. -No, I think it'll look good. 617 00:23:12,667 --> 00:23:15,000 -[Lisa] Oh, my gosh. -See, the whole Hawaiian stuff just compliments. 618 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,667 -[Lisa] Yes, and it just puts color. -See, that's cute. 619 00:23:16,667 --> 00:23:19,200 -[Lisa] I love that. -No, that's very good. 620 00:23:19,266 --> 00:23:22,166 I know, in the end, things are all gonna fall into place. 621 00:23:22,166 --> 00:23:24,490 And, I could not make this surprise birthday party happen 622 00:23:24,490 --> 00:23:25,000 And, I could not make this surprise birthday party happen 623 00:23:26,367 --> 00:23:27,967 without the two of them. 624 00:23:27,967 --> 00:23:31,700 So, I'm very thankful, very grateful that they were willing to help me out. 625 00:23:31,767 --> 00:23:33,400 And, be a part of the fun time. 626 00:23:33,467 --> 00:23:34,834 Okay, I think we're done. 627 00:23:34,834 --> 00:23:37,000 -Are you okay with this? -[Deb] I think we're done, looks great. 628 00:23:37,066 --> 00:23:42,400 I think I was under so much stress and pressure to make it perfect. 629 00:23:42,467 --> 00:23:47,066 My thinking is, if I can actually pull this off... 630 00:23:47,667 --> 00:23:49,200 I think it'll be a miracle. 631 00:23:49,266 --> 00:23:51,767 I just can't wait to say, "Surprise!" 632 00:23:53,166 --> 00:23:54,490 -[Deb] All right, girls. -[Lisa] On to the party. 633 00:23:54,490 --> 00:23:55,000 -[Deb] All right, girls. -[Lisa] On to the party. 634 00:23:55,467 --> 00:23:56,467 {\an8}[Amy] Coming up... 635 00:23:56,467 --> 00:23:58,667 {\an8}[Tori] One, two, three! 636 00:24:01,967 --> 00:24:03,567 [Tori] Ooh, that's a good stroke. 637 00:24:03,567 --> 00:24:05,867 Jackson, great job swimming, dude. 638 00:24:17,967 --> 00:24:20,266 [Tori] Whoa, Dad, this is a steep spot. 639 00:24:21,567 --> 00:24:23,266 -Yeah, I got it. I got it. -You got it? 640 00:24:23,266 --> 00:24:25,166 -You sure? -Yeah. 641 00:24:25,166 --> 00:24:27,367 What's been your favorite thing to do this summer? 642 00:24:27,367 --> 00:24:29,266 {\an8}-You're a swimmer guy, now. -Yeah. 643 00:24:33,867 --> 00:24:35,200 {\an8}-Not at lakes. -[Tori] Why not? 644 00:24:38,367 --> 00:24:38,780 {\an8}-[Tori] Put your shirt on. -Lilah, are you gonna go swimming? 645 00:24:38,780 --> 00:24:39,000 {\an8}-[Tori] Put your shirt on. -Lilah, are you gonna go swimming? 646 00:24:41,567 --> 00:24:43,567 {\an8}-[Lilah] Mama. -Yeah, you're gonna go swimming with Mama. 647 00:24:44,900 --> 00:24:45,900 {\an8}Oh, okay, got ya. 648 00:24:47,667 --> 00:24:49,667 Yeah. Okay. 649 00:24:49,667 --> 00:24:51,500 -[Zach] Jackson, are you gonna go swimming out there? -Jackson, you gonna swim? 650 00:24:53,767 --> 00:24:56,567 -I'll come out as far as I can with you. -[Zach] Is it freezing? 651 00:24:56,567 --> 00:24:58,066 Its... Oh! There's a fish. 652 00:24:58,066 --> 00:24:59,667 -There's two fish right there, look at them. -[Zach] See, go fishing. 653 00:25:02,100 --> 00:25:03,767 {\an8}-You and sis. -I have my swimsuit on. 654 00:25:03,767 --> 00:25:05,400 -Yeah. -I'm gonna get wet today. 655 00:25:05,467 --> 00:25:06,467 I'm not getting wet today. 656 00:25:07,100 --> 00:25:08,266 [Zach] Ahhh! 657 00:25:11,967 --> 00:25:14,000 [Tori] Go, sis. Yeah, girl. 658 00:25:17,100 --> 00:25:18,600 [Zach] Gonna swim across? 659 00:25:18,667 --> 00:25:20,000 [Tori] Jackson, go, dude. 660 00:25:21,667 --> 00:25:22,667 Are you doing that on purpose? 661 00:25:22,667 --> 00:25:23,700 You think Dad can swim all the way across? 662 00:25:23,767 --> 00:25:25,266 [Tori] You okay? 663 00:25:25,266 --> 00:25:27,066 Lilah, be careful. Look it though, there's a... Look at this right here. 664 00:25:27,066 --> 00:25:28,266 -[Zach] Can you stand? -There's a big rock right here. 665 00:25:28,266 --> 00:25:29,567 {\an8}[Zach] Can you touch the sand? 666 00:25:31,166 --> 00:25:32,800 {\an8}Great job swimming, dude. 667 00:25:35,100 --> 00:25:36,100 {\an8}[Tori] Are you all done? 668 00:25:38,567 --> 00:25:38,780 Yeah, yeah. Jackson, great job swimming, dude. 669 00:25:38,780 --> 00:25:39,000 Yeah, yeah. Jackson, great job swimming, dude. 670 00:25:40,967 --> 00:25:43,100 When Jackson first started swimming lessons, 671 00:25:43,100 --> 00:25:45,100 I don't know, he's always been into it. 672 00:25:45,100 --> 00:25:48,367 He's just always been hesitant to, like, actually dive in 673 00:25:48,367 --> 00:25:51,667 and, like, learn how to swim. 674 00:25:51,667 --> 00:25:54,700 She's scary near water because she'll just go. 675 00:25:54,767 --> 00:25:57,166 One, two, three! 676 00:25:57,166 --> 00:25:59,600 Whoo-hoo. 677 00:25:59,667 --> 00:26:02,767 Show me what you did at the lake. What did you do? 678 00:26:02,767 --> 00:26:05,266 Okay, show 'em. You stood up and you went 679 00:26:05,266 --> 00:26:08,100 one, two, three! 680 00:26:08,900 --> 00:26:09,000 -Ma! -Jump! 681 00:26:10,467 --> 00:26:12,200 -Mama. -Into Mama. 682 00:26:12,266 --> 00:26:13,200 Jackson, what'd you do at the lake? 683 00:26:13,266 --> 00:26:14,300 Just do this. 684 00:26:15,367 --> 00:26:18,500 Do it. Yay! Now look at your hands. 685 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:20,367 Now look at 'em. 686 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,467 Ooh, that's a good stroke. 687 00:26:26,467 --> 00:26:28,900 High five, dude. Jackson, great job swimming, dude. 688 00:26:29,867 --> 00:26:30,867 You know what Lilah likes? 689 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:32,667 The snacks. 690 00:26:40,066 --> 00:26:40,967 {\an8}And do you do? 691 00:26:43,667 --> 00:26:45,600 {\an8}Yeah. Jackson, what are you building? 692 00:26:49,900 --> 00:26:51,900 Do you say, you got a lot of work to do? 693 00:26:54,767 --> 00:26:55,867 [Tori chuckles softly] Yeah. 694 00:26:55,867 --> 00:26:57,400 [Zach] Yeah, that was great with my Dad visiting, 695 00:26:57,467 --> 00:26:59,967 -showed him the bridge build. -Yeah. 696 00:26:59,967 --> 00:27:01,567 It was nice just to visit. 697 00:27:01,567 --> 00:27:04,600 Like, a pure visit, not talking about anything else really. 698 00:27:04,667 --> 00:27:06,400 Yeah, it was good. 699 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,567 [Zach] The visit with my Dad was nice, where we talked about the bridge. 700 00:27:08,567 --> 00:27:08,780 Like, we want a relationship and everything. 701 00:27:08,780 --> 00:27:09,000 Like, we want a relationship and everything. 702 00:27:10,266 --> 00:27:12,867 We want him to be able to have a relationship with his grandkids and all that. 703 00:27:12,867 --> 00:27:15,266 You wish things didn't go the way that they did. 704 00:27:15,266 --> 00:27:17,900 But it's just cool for him to be up here and see the family, 705 00:27:17,967 --> 00:27:19,567 and then just no business talk, 706 00:27:19,567 --> 00:27:22,700 no anything, then, yeah, we just go about it. 707 00:27:22,767 --> 00:27:25,367 He got to see what, like, we get to see a lot with Josiah... 708 00:27:25,367 --> 00:27:27,200 -Yeah. -...that sometimes other people miss out on. 709 00:27:27,266 --> 00:27:30,100 'Cause he was smiling and happy. 710 00:27:30,100 --> 00:27:33,200 Huh? You like seeing grandpa. 711 00:27:33,266 --> 00:27:34,600 -[Josiah coughs] -Sorry 712 00:27:34,667 --> 00:27:37,066 -[Lilah fussing] -You still whiny? 713 00:27:37,066 --> 00:27:38,780 -Yeah. -Are you trying to talk more? 714 00:27:38,780 --> 00:27:39,000 -Yeah. -Are you trying to talk more? 715 00:27:39,266 --> 00:27:40,600 -Yeah. -[Tori] What's wrong? 716 00:27:40,667 --> 00:27:42,266 -What's wrong, honey? -Yeah. 717 00:27:42,967 --> 00:27:43,767 Pee-pee? 718 00:27:44,266 --> 00:27:45,100 [Lilah babbling] 719 00:27:45,867 --> 00:27:47,166 -Snack. -[Zach] Snack? 720 00:27:47,166 --> 00:27:48,266 [Lilah] Yeah. 721 00:27:48,266 --> 00:27:50,667 -Okay, you go find another snack, okay? -Yeah. 722 00:27:50,667 --> 00:27:52,367 Uh, she's talking a lot better. 723 00:27:52,367 --> 00:27:55,100 But she's still... I'm waiting for her to like... 724 00:27:55,166 --> 00:27:58,166 Like, put three, four, five, six words together. 725 00:27:58,166 --> 00:28:00,767 Well, I'd just like to hear her personality a little bit more. 726 00:28:00,767 --> 00:28:02,767 -I'm, like, excited for that. -I want it... 727 00:28:02,767 --> 00:28:05,467 I can't wait till it gets to a point where her words are, like... 728 00:28:05,467 --> 00:28:06,667 She's like, "Oh, wait, 729 00:28:06,700 --> 00:28:08,467 -this actually works better than whining." -Oh, yeah. 730 00:28:08,467 --> 00:28:08,780 Like, "I'm less frustrated with Dad when I can actually explain what I want." 731 00:28:08,780 --> 00:28:09,000 Like, "I'm less frustrated with Dad when I can actually explain what I want." 732 00:28:11,767 --> 00:28:13,967 -Right, right. -But she has gotten better. 733 00:28:13,967 --> 00:28:17,300 A lot of people ask us about Lilah, and ask us about, like, 734 00:28:17,367 --> 00:28:19,467 "Are you worried that she's not talking?" 735 00:28:19,467 --> 00:28:21,266 She's definitely behind. 736 00:28:21,266 --> 00:28:23,767 But, you know, we've talked with her pediatrician 737 00:28:23,767 --> 00:28:27,000 we've, like, "Like, do we need to go to speech therapy with her? 738 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,400 Do we need to do all this extra stuff?" 739 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,867 And it's just, at this point, we're just not concerned about it. 740 00:28:32,967 --> 00:28:34,600 Do you want sandwich? 741 00:28:34,667 --> 00:28:37,367 -Yeah. -No sandwich, you already had a sandwich. 742 00:28:37,367 --> 00:28:38,600 Do you want cheese? 743 00:28:38,667 --> 00:28:38,780 He offers her a sandwich, she says, "Yes," 744 00:28:38,780 --> 00:28:39,000 He offers her a sandwich, she says, "Yes," 745 00:28:40,667 --> 00:28:42,700 then he goes, "No, you can't have a sandwich." 746 00:28:44,367 --> 00:28:45,867 Daddy is so silly. 747 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:02,500 {\an8}[Deb] Hi, Brandy. 748 00:29:02,567 --> 00:29:05,567 {\an8}-How are you? -[Deb] Good, how are you? 749 00:29:05,567 --> 00:29:08,467 {\an8}-We did have a lot of last minute tweaking. -A lot. 750 00:29:08,467 --> 00:29:08,780 {\an8}-Little, you know, tying things up. -Hanging things. 751 00:29:08,780 --> 00:29:09,000 {\an8}-Little, you know, tying things up. -Hanging things. 752 00:29:11,367 --> 00:29:12,834 -[Deb] Yep. - A lot of things. 753 00:29:12,834 --> 00:29:16,567 And then, once we got to the point where more people were showing up 754 00:29:16,567 --> 00:29:17,867 it's like, "Okay, we're done." 755 00:29:17,867 --> 00:29:19,567 -[Lisa] Yeah. -We just gotta call it good, 756 00:29:19,567 --> 00:29:21,166 -and move forward. -Right. 757 00:29:21,166 --> 00:29:23,867 Okay, everybody, listen up. 758 00:29:23,867 --> 00:29:28,166 We're about five to 10 minutes away from Chris and Amy getting here, 759 00:29:28,166 --> 00:29:31,767 so just have fun, drink, get a little snack. 760 00:29:31,767 --> 00:29:35,567 -Well, I've got lookout watching the window. -Mmm-hmm. 761 00:29:35,567 --> 00:29:38,780 - Lisa's got people to quiet down. - Crowd control. 762 00:29:38,780 --> 00:29:38,900 - Lisa's got people to quiet down. - Crowd control. 763 00:29:38,967 --> 00:29:39,000 Crowd control and we're waiting. 764 00:29:44,667 --> 00:29:46,266 They're not showing up. 765 00:29:46,266 --> 00:29:48,266 Yeah, it's 6:00 o'clock, nobody's here. 766 00:29:48,266 --> 00:29:50,100 -They're not here. -You know, what's Amy doing? 767 00:29:50,100 --> 00:29:52,200 And I keep thinking, "Why is she so late?" 768 00:29:52,266 --> 00:29:54,800 -Well, obvious, she's always late. -Of course, she's always late. 769 00:29:54,867 --> 00:29:57,900 What is your ETA, please. 770 00:29:57,967 --> 00:30:02,166 We're got this barnful of people and it's hot, and we keep saying, 771 00:30:02,166 --> 00:30:04,166 "They're almost here, they're almost here." 772 00:30:04,166 --> 00:30:05,867 -[Deb] They're coming. - They're coming. 773 00:30:05,867 --> 00:30:08,780 Then, I get this text that Chris wants to change his pants. 774 00:30:08,780 --> 00:30:09,000 Then, I get this text that Chris wants to change his pants. 775 00:30:09,567 --> 00:30:11,166 -Oh, Jesus. -And so, now, 776 00:30:11,166 --> 00:30:13,667 we've got all these people waiting in a hot barn, 777 00:30:13,667 --> 00:30:17,166 and Amy's texting me that Chris doesn't like the pants he has, 778 00:30:17,166 --> 00:30:18,800 and he has to change them. 779 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,867 And we're like, "Can you just get the pants on so we can get the party going?" 780 00:30:21,867 --> 00:30:24,166 Just get here, everybody's ready. 781 00:30:24,166 --> 00:30:25,867 [Lisa] Wait, no, I need her ETA. 782 00:30:26,967 --> 00:30:29,000 We'll probably leave here in about five to eight... 783 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,867 -Oh, wait. -Please. 784 00:30:30,867 --> 00:30:33,767 -Here we're getting all upset about Amy being late... -Yeah. 785 00:30:33,767 --> 00:30:36,567 -...'cause she's always late, and it wasn't even Amy. -Yes. 786 00:30:36,567 --> 00:30:38,780 -So, Chris, don't follow suit with Amy... -Right. 787 00:30:38,780 --> 00:30:39,000 -So, Chris, don't follow suit with Amy... -Right. 788 00:30:39,266 --> 00:30:41,667 ...and take her bad habits. 789 00:30:41,667 --> 00:30:42,667 [laughing] 790 00:30:42,667 --> 00:30:44,767 Ooh, he's learning some things from her. 791 00:30:44,767 --> 00:30:46,467 [Deb] Hey, guys! Wait! 792 00:30:49,367 --> 00:30:50,900 -They're here! -[Lisa] They're pulling in! 793 00:30:50,967 --> 00:30:53,400 They're here, you guys. Quiet! Shh, shh, shh. 794 00:30:54,767 --> 00:30:55,600 Quiet. 795 00:30:56,667 --> 00:30:58,000 Guys... 796 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,667 Ryan's gonna open the door shortly. I'll let you know, Ryan. 797 00:31:02,467 --> 00:31:04,166 Shh! 798 00:31:04,166 --> 00:31:07,200 All right, guys, they're slowly walking up. Quiet. 799 00:31:07,266 --> 00:31:08,780 Walking up to the venue, I mean, I really got, like, nervous. 800 00:31:08,780 --> 00:31:09,000 Walking up to the venue, I mean, I really got, like, nervous. 801 00:31:11,667 --> 00:31:14,000 I have not pulled this off yet, 802 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,567 until I see the look on his face and is he actually surprised? 803 00:31:32,066 --> 00:31:33,667 [Deb] Hey, guys! Wait! 804 00:31:36,700 --> 00:31:38,200 -They're here! -[Lisa] They're pulling in! 805 00:31:38,266 --> 00:31:40,567 They're here, you guys. Quiet! Shh, shh, shh. 806 00:31:42,100 --> 00:31:42,967 Quiet. 807 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,333 Guys... 808 00:31:46,367 --> 00:31:49,000 Ryan's gonna open the door shortly. I'll let you know, Ryan. 809 00:31:49,767 --> 00:31:51,400 Shh! 810 00:31:51,467 --> 00:31:54,215 I hope Chris will be surprised and love it. 811 00:31:54,215 --> 00:31:55,000 I hope Chris will be surprised and love it. 812 00:31:55,467 --> 00:31:59,100 And not be shocked and, like, you know, "Why'd you do this?" You know. 813 00:31:59,166 --> 00:32:00,266 Or something like that. 814 00:32:00,266 --> 00:32:02,767 But I hope he will appreciate it. 815 00:32:02,767 --> 00:32:07,867 And love it, and be surprised, and enjoy it, and just have fun. 816 00:32:07,867 --> 00:32:09,467 All right, guys, they're slowly walking up. 817 00:32:10,166 --> 00:32:11,000 One, 818 00:32:11,967 --> 00:32:14,767 two, three, four, 819 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,000 five, open the doors, Ryan. 820 00:32:18,467 --> 00:32:19,867 [Lisa] Surprise. 821 00:32:19,867 --> 00:32:20,900 [all] Surprise! 822 00:32:23,100 --> 00:32:24,100 [all cheering] 823 00:32:35,667 --> 00:32:37,100 Happy Birthday. 824 00:32:38,166 --> 00:32:39,467 This is for you, babe. 825 00:32:39,467 --> 00:32:41,767 Come on old man Marek. 826 00:32:41,767 --> 00:32:44,266 I bought a birthday present for Art. 827 00:32:44,266 --> 00:32:45,300 [all laughing] 828 00:32:47,467 --> 00:32:48,867 And you would have liked it. 829 00:32:48,867 --> 00:32:49,867 He'll take the present. 830 00:32:51,667 --> 00:32:52,467 [Amy] Happy Birthday. 831 00:32:55,367 --> 00:32:57,066 Are you surprised? 832 00:32:57,066 --> 00:32:58,800 I... [scoffs] 833 00:32:58,867 --> 00:33:00,500 I did not see this coming. 834 00:33:03,300 --> 00:33:04,667 [Lisa] Good job, Amy. 835 00:33:04,667 --> 00:33:06,767 Seriously, you didn't suspect? 836 00:33:06,767 --> 00:33:08,367 -[Deb] What a day. -Come on. 837 00:33:09,066 --> 00:33:10,800 [Lisa] The lying. 838 00:33:10,867 --> 00:33:14,667 This was a huge surprise, I really had no idea. 839 00:33:14,667 --> 00:33:18,066 [Art] Thanks for coming to my birthday party. 840 00:33:18,066 --> 00:33:22,266 So, you know what? I told Amy I got this pickleball paddle, you know, for you. 841 00:33:22,266 --> 00:33:24,215 And I'm going, "I wanna give him my old one, I really like this one." 842 00:33:24,215 --> 00:33:25,000 And I'm going, "I wanna give him my old one, I really like this one." 843 00:33:25,867 --> 00:33:29,100 -So I'm keeping it damn it. -There ya go, happy birthday! 844 00:33:30,867 --> 00:33:32,467 You made it so darn hard. 845 00:33:32,467 --> 00:33:34,867 [imitating Chris] "Oh, let's have a combined birthday party." 846 00:33:34,867 --> 00:33:38,467 And I felt so bad 'cause I was unenthusiastic. 847 00:33:38,467 --> 00:33:41,000 -[Chris] Uh-huh. -And I'm like, "God, this one." 848 00:33:41,066 --> 00:33:44,367 I know, she was like, "Yeah, yeah, oh, yeah." 849 00:33:44,367 --> 00:33:48,600 You know, and I was talking to him, "Well, see if Macy Garden's available." 850 00:33:48,667 --> 00:33:50,867 "I'll call Macy Garden." [imitating Amy] "No, no, I'll do it. 851 00:33:52,700 --> 00:33:54,215 I really, honestly, thought when that door opened 852 00:33:54,215 --> 00:33:55,000 I really, honestly, thought when that door opened 853 00:33:56,166 --> 00:33:58,166 that it was for the wrong person. 854 00:33:58,166 --> 00:34:01,600 I kept waiting for the clapping to stop 855 00:34:01,667 --> 00:34:04,200 for people to realize, "Oh, it's you." 856 00:34:04,266 --> 00:34:07,200 And then... But the clapping and everything kept going, 857 00:34:07,266 --> 00:34:08,467 and then I started looking around-- 858 00:34:08,467 --> 00:34:10,367 And then I went this is for you. 859 00:34:10,367 --> 00:34:13,100 And then I started seeing faces that Art didn't know. 860 00:34:13,166 --> 00:34:14,667 [chuckles] You know? 861 00:34:14,667 --> 00:34:18,066 Oh, yeah, so, it was a huge surprise. 862 00:34:18,066 --> 00:34:20,100 I honestly had no clue. 863 00:34:20,100 --> 00:34:22,867 Oh, thanks Lisa. 864 00:34:22,867 --> 00:34:24,215 -Wow. -We pulled it off, right? 865 00:34:24,215 --> 00:34:24,700 -Wow. -We pulled it off, right? 866 00:34:24,767 --> 00:34:25,000 Oh, my God! 867 00:34:26,367 --> 00:34:28,367 All of this stuff, all that I had to go through, 868 00:34:28,367 --> 00:34:33,100 just to make sure that he was surprised and knew nothing. 869 00:34:33,967 --> 00:34:35,600 And if he... But he didn't know. 870 00:34:35,667 --> 00:34:38,567 So it was totally a surprise, I loved it. 871 00:34:38,567 --> 00:34:42,467 It was well worth everything and, yeah. 872 00:34:43,467 --> 00:34:44,667 I love you, babe. 873 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,100 You sneaky little devil. 874 00:34:47,166 --> 00:34:51,266 But I lied so much! I'm like... Oh, my God! 875 00:34:51,266 --> 00:34:53,867 Now I'm gonna be second guessing you all the time. 876 00:34:53,867 --> 00:34:54,215 -Oh, like I do you? -[both laughing] 877 00:34:54,215 --> 00:34:55,000 -Oh, like I do you? -[both laughing] 878 00:34:56,767 --> 00:35:01,000 [Chris] I'm just amazed and surprised how well she did. 879 00:35:01,066 --> 00:35:05,767 She, uh, definitely catered the party to me. 880 00:35:05,767 --> 00:35:07,166 I mean, the motorcycle theme. 881 00:35:07,166 --> 00:35:09,667 And then, a chance to wear a Hawaiian shirt, 882 00:35:09,667 --> 00:35:12,100 you know, I'm always looking for that opportunity during the summer. 883 00:35:12,166 --> 00:35:14,166 So, I thought that was pretty clever. 884 00:35:14,166 --> 00:35:16,767 [Amy] I tried to pick the food that you like. 885 00:35:16,767 --> 00:35:18,767 Mac and cheese, wow. 886 00:35:18,767 --> 00:35:20,800 And then, I did chicken because chicken. 887 00:35:20,867 --> 00:35:23,367 Chris loves his meat and potatoes. 888 00:35:23,367 --> 00:35:24,215 So, I tried to pick things that, you know, he would enjoy. 889 00:35:24,215 --> 00:35:25,000 So, I tried to pick things that, you know, he would enjoy. 890 00:35:27,266 --> 00:35:28,266 [Chris] Oh, the food was great. 891 00:35:28,266 --> 00:35:29,467 Everyone else seemed to like it, 892 00:35:29,467 --> 00:35:31,000 got a lot of positive comments. 893 00:35:31,066 --> 00:35:32,400 It was perfect. 894 00:35:32,467 --> 00:35:34,500 {\an8}You coming up here. 895 00:35:34,567 --> 00:35:36,667 {\an8}-Thank you. -[Tammy] I love you, happy birthday. 896 00:35:36,667 --> 00:35:37,667 {\an8}[Chris] Thank you. 897 00:35:37,667 --> 00:35:39,767 I was shocked the see my sister there. 898 00:35:39,767 --> 00:35:44,100 Um, you know, she lives 6.5 hours away, she still lives in Idaho. 899 00:35:44,100 --> 00:35:47,900 So, that was quite a shocker, a very nice surprise though. 900 00:35:49,500 --> 00:35:51,367 {\an8}[Rick chuckling] Happy birthday, bro. 901 00:35:51,367 --> 00:35:53,200 {\an8}Chris loves surprises. 902 00:35:53,266 --> 00:35:54,215 {\an8}And he will... 903 00:35:54,215 --> 00:35:55,000 {\an8}And he will... 904 00:35:55,266 --> 00:35:58,867 {\an8}He will, absolutely, be talking about this for years. 905 00:35:58,867 --> 00:36:03,000 Hello people, friends, and even family. 906 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:08,100 I just really wanna thank you all for coming out here to celebrate 907 00:36:09,166 --> 00:36:11,767 - this wonderful guy that... -[all cheering] 908 00:36:13,367 --> 00:36:16,867 came into my world six years ago. 909 00:36:16,867 --> 00:36:22,300 And I just wanted to kickoff our first year of marriage, his birthday, 910 00:36:22,367 --> 00:36:24,215 and just let him know how special he is. 911 00:36:24,215 --> 00:36:25,000 and just let him know how special he is. 912 00:36:26,467 --> 00:36:29,800 I tried to get as many people here as I could. 913 00:36:29,867 --> 00:36:32,400 You got your poker buddies, you've got your sister here, 914 00:36:32,467 --> 00:36:35,867 you've got a lot of my friends that are now your friends. 915 00:36:35,867 --> 00:36:38,667 And, babe, I love you. 916 00:36:38,667 --> 00:36:40,367 Happy 60th birthday. 917 00:36:40,467 --> 00:36:42,100 And, um... 918 00:36:42,100 --> 00:36:45,567 You know, I don't know, you just mean everything to me. 919 00:36:45,567 --> 00:36:48,100 And I just hope you're happy, and you were surprised, 920 00:36:48,166 --> 00:36:51,400 and all of that other good stuff. [laughing] 921 00:36:52,500 --> 00:36:54,215 - Anyway. -[Lisa] Speech, speech. 922 00:36:54,215 --> 00:36:54,266 - Anyway. -[Lisa] Speech, speech. 923 00:36:54,266 --> 00:36:55,000 -[Chris] Thank you. -[all cheering] 924 00:36:57,467 --> 00:37:01,200 [Amy] For me, you know, being his first wife and only wife 925 00:37:01,266 --> 00:37:03,400 he and I will have a very short time together, 926 00:37:03,467 --> 00:37:07,200 compared to being married since you've been in your 20s 927 00:37:07,266 --> 00:37:09,367 and till you die. 928 00:37:09,367 --> 00:37:13,467 So, I wanted to start off, you know, us both turning 60 929 00:37:13,467 --> 00:37:16,767 and, hopefully, it's a little special coming from his wife. 930 00:37:16,767 --> 00:37:19,166 Well, I wanna thank everybody that did show up. 931 00:37:19,166 --> 00:37:22,100 This is, uh... Really was a huge surprise. 932 00:37:22,166 --> 00:37:24,215 I really, truly, feel blessed. Not only that you all are here, 933 00:37:24,215 --> 00:37:25,000 I really, truly, feel blessed. Not only that you all are here, 934 00:37:25,967 --> 00:37:29,166 but, um, never... 935 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:32,700 [chuckles softly] 936 00:37:33,767 --> 00:37:38,066 Never would've thought that I'd, uh, [voice shaking] be lucky enough 937 00:37:38,066 --> 00:37:40,667 to have a woman that would do something like this. 938 00:37:40,667 --> 00:37:42,867 -[all] Aww! -[all applauding] 939 00:37:45,700 --> 00:37:52,166 So, best birthday ever. Thank you all. Thank you, my love. 940 00:37:52,166 --> 00:37:54,200 -I love you. - I love you, too. 941 00:37:56,166 --> 00:38:00,867 Unfortunately, one of the downsides of getting older is it's, uh, 942 00:38:00,867 --> 00:38:04,266 gets a little harder to keep those emotions in check, so. 943 00:38:04,266 --> 00:38:08,100 Yeah, sometimes I may show emotion when I really don't want to. 944 00:38:08,166 --> 00:38:10,567 Aww, but, babe, everyone wants to see that. 945 00:38:10,567 --> 00:38:12,767 -That makes you human. -No, no. 946 00:38:12,767 --> 00:38:16,100 -It makes you human, but yet strong. -No, I don't like seeing it. 947 00:38:16,166 --> 00:38:17,867 -Oh, brother. -I don't like showing it. 948 00:38:17,867 --> 00:38:21,667 So, thank you all for coming. Tammy, did you wanna? Okay. 949 00:38:21,667 --> 00:38:24,215 -Before I end this, I'll have her come up. - [all cheering] 950 00:38:24,215 --> 00:38:24,467 -Before I end this, I'll have her come up. - [all cheering] 951 00:38:29,300 --> 00:38:34,567 {\an8}So, we had a pretty, um, adventurous upbringing. I'll say that. 952 00:38:34,567 --> 00:38:36,066 Let's say adventurous. 953 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,767 It's a good word. 954 00:38:38,767 --> 00:38:43,767 But there was one thing that I was always sure of, and that was my brother. 955 00:38:43,767 --> 00:38:45,367 [voice shaking] I 'm so happy for you, Chris. 956 00:38:46,266 --> 00:38:48,967 I love you so much. 957 00:38:48,967 --> 00:38:53,900 I hope you know how much you've always meant to me and you always will. 958 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:55,000 And I'm so grateful to Amy. 959 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,367 It's a marvel to watch you, Chris. 960 00:39:01,367 --> 00:39:04,567 To watch you having joy in your life, 961 00:39:04,567 --> 00:39:07,467 and love in your life, that you have never had 962 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,767 until you met Amy. 963 00:39:10,767 --> 00:39:14,467 This is all because of her love for you. 964 00:39:14,467 --> 00:39:18,567 And we see it, Amy. And we love you, thank you. 965 00:39:18,567 --> 00:39:20,967 -Happy birthday, big brother. -[all applauding] 966 00:39:22,867 --> 00:39:24,215 I was pretty surprised when my sister got up and, um... 967 00:39:24,215 --> 00:39:25,000 I was pretty surprised when my sister got up and, um... 968 00:39:27,166 --> 00:39:28,500 and did her speech. 969 00:39:28,567 --> 00:39:31,000 [Tammy] You know I love you. I love you so much. 970 00:39:31,066 --> 00:39:32,700 [Chris] Thank you. That was real. 971 00:39:32,767 --> 00:39:36,300 [Tammy] I am so happy for you. I just love you so much. 972 00:39:39,066 --> 00:39:40,133 [Chris] I was... 973 00:39:41,867 --> 00:39:45,367 I was really touched by the things that she said 974 00:39:45,367 --> 00:39:47,767 that I had never heard from her before. 975 00:39:47,767 --> 00:39:50,767 -And, uh, yeah. -Aww. 976 00:39:52,100 --> 00:39:53,266 It got to me. 977 00:39:55,066 --> 00:39:58,967 ♪ Happy birthday to you♪ 978 00:39:58,967 --> 00:40:03,500 ♪ Happy birthday to you♪ 979 00:40:03,567 --> 00:40:08,400 ♪ Happy birthday dear Chris♪ 980 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:14,567 ♪ Happy birthday to you♪ 981 00:40:14,567 --> 00:40:16,867 [all cheering] 982 00:40:16,867 --> 00:40:19,200 -Thank you, thank you. -[Rick] Make a wish, make a wish! 983 00:40:19,266 --> 00:40:22,667 Not only was it... You know, it's an awesome birthday party. 984 00:40:22,667 --> 00:40:24,215 I mean, it's definitely the best surprised birthday party I've ever had. 985 00:40:24,215 --> 00:40:25,000 I mean, it's definitely the best surprised birthday party I've ever had. 986 00:40:25,767 --> 00:40:28,867 But, um, I... 987 00:40:28,867 --> 00:40:31,467 - I don't know. It just... - It makes you feel good. 988 00:40:31,467 --> 00:40:32,667 Well, it does. 989 00:40:32,667 --> 00:40:34,266 I mean, you know, I just... 990 00:40:35,066 --> 00:40:36,567 I appreciate everything you do. 991 00:40:36,567 --> 00:40:41,467 And then just all the work and the effort that you did on this 992 00:40:41,467 --> 00:40:43,100 just blows me away. 993 00:40:43,166 --> 00:40:46,066 -You're just... -Well, you're worth it, babe. 994 00:40:46,867 --> 00:40:47,700 You're worth it. 995 00:40:48,667 --> 00:40:52,000 Just I'm... A day like this I'm... 996 00:40:52,066 --> 00:40:54,215 -reminded why we're married. -[both chuckle] 997 00:40:54,215 --> 00:40:54,300 -reminded why we're married. -[both chuckle] 998 00:40:55,266 --> 00:40:56,567 Or, you're so happy you asked. 999 00:40:56,567 --> 00:40:58,266 -I absolutely. -All right. 1000 00:40:58,266 --> 00:41:01,567 -Never had a day where I wasn't happy. -Oh, good. 1001 00:41:03,266 --> 00:41:04,867 You're gonna be a hard act to follow. 1002 00:41:04,867 --> 00:41:06,266 -No, no, no. -[Chris chuckles] 1003 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:09,867 I love you, babe. 1004 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,266 {\an8}[Amy] Next on Little People, Big World... 1005 00:41:16,266 --> 00:41:17,567 {\an8}You don't yell that much, but. 1006 00:41:17,567 --> 00:41:20,867 {\an8}-I don't yell ever. -Oh, I wouldn't say ever. 1007 00:41:20,867 --> 00:41:22,800 You don't give me any credit for anything. 1008 00:41:22,867 --> 00:41:24,215 -No, Tori, I give you credit, I'm just saying-- -You do not though. 1009 00:41:24,215 --> 00:41:25,000 -No, Tori, I give you credit, I'm just saying-- -You do not though. 1010 00:41:25,667 --> 00:41:28,400 This is an issue in our marriage currently. 1011 00:41:28,467 --> 00:41:31,867 I'm exhausted. I'm, literally, pouring from an empty cup. 1012 00:41:31,867 --> 00:41:35,667 And everybody wants something from me. I'm sleeping upstairs tonight. 1013 00:41:37,467 --> 00:41:39,767 Oh, did I tell ya? I texted Matt this morning. 1014 00:41:39,767 --> 00:41:43,367 -He's been wanting to talk to us about pumpkin season. -Oh, yeah. 1015 00:41:43,367 --> 00:41:45,400 Are you up for doing what you usually do? 1016 00:41:45,900 --> 00:41:46,767 I have to... 1017 00:41:47,867 --> 00:41:49,667 get my head around it. 1018 00:41:49,667 --> 00:41:53,367 Because of everything that went on, I mean, it's changed so much. 1019 00:41:53,367 --> 00:41:54,215 It kinda lost its appeal. 1020 00:41:54,215 --> 00:41:55,000 It kinda lost its appeal. 1021 00:41:55,367 --> 00:41:59,600 It's like I'm at a strangers place now or something. 1022 00:42:00,767 --> 00:42:02,266 {\an8}Where do you wanna eat at? 1023 00:42:02,266 --> 00:42:05,166 {\an8}Oh, I go down at the Garden Cafe, I think, is the best. 1024 00:42:05,166 --> 00:42:08,900 {\an8}Yeah, been a couple weeks since my dad passed away, 1025 00:42:08,967 --> 00:42:12,467 {\an8}so I've come back to kinda check on my mother again. 1026 00:42:12,467 --> 00:42:14,400 {\an8}-Our life is gonna be different. -Mmm-hmm. 1027 00:42:14,467 --> 00:42:17,300 {\an8}Dad made a big impact on a lot of people. 1028 00:42:17,367 --> 00:42:20,166 {\an8}My dad set a great example for all of this grandkids 1029 00:42:20,166 --> 00:42:23,567 {\an8}and I'm gonna do my best to, you know, follow in his footsteps 1030 00:42:23,567 --> 00:42:24,215 {\an8}and honor his memory. 1031 00:42:24,215 --> 00:42:25,000 {\an8}and honor his memory.