1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,667 {\an8}[narrator] Previously on Little People, Big World: 2 00:00:03,667 --> 00:00:05,200 {\an8}I, like, literally can't remember a time in my life 3 00:00:05,266 --> 00:00:07,800 {\an8}I've been that emotionally, physically drained. 4 00:00:07,867 --> 00:00:11,266 Josiah doesn't sleep at night. Which is like, it's killing everyone. 5 00:00:11,266 --> 00:00:14,400 Okay, so, yeah, you're upstairs, Lilah's with me, 6 00:00:14,467 --> 00:00:16,567 Jackson's in his room, and Josiah's in Lilah's room. 7 00:00:16,567 --> 00:00:18,000 Musical beds. 8 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,066 [Caryn Chandler] It makes a big difference. 9 00:00:21,066 --> 00:00:22,467 [Matt Roloff] The North side of the farm's been on the market 10 00:00:22,467 --> 00:00:24,300 for just a little over three months. 11 00:00:24,367 --> 00:00:27,066 Before we put the house on the market, we had it staged. 12 00:00:27,066 --> 00:00:28,767 -[Caryn] It definitely helps. -[Matt] Yeah. 13 00:00:28,767 --> 00:00:30,000 But I don't know if having it staged is like, the selling factor. 14 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,000 But I don't know if having it staged is like, the selling factor. 15 00:00:33,100 --> 00:00:34,467 Yeah. 16 00:00:34,467 --> 00:00:38,967 Well, the year drags on, and it, um, hasn't sold yet, you know, 17 00:00:38,967 --> 00:00:42,567 I'm probably gonna have to get creative about how to move forward. 18 00:00:42,567 --> 00:00:45,667 Are you, uh, doing anything with pumpkin season this year? 19 00:00:45,667 --> 00:00:47,000 No. 20 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,900 I will not regret if this is the last year of pumpkin season, 21 00:00:49,967 --> 00:00:51,567 and we did not, like, participate. 22 00:00:51,567 --> 00:00:55,467 The farm is not a place of joy for me anymore. 23 00:01:10,300 --> 00:01:11,367 {\an8}[Tori Roloff] Hey, Zach. 24 00:01:12,500 --> 00:01:15,100 {\an8}Murphy left you a little surprise over here. 25 00:01:15,166 --> 00:01:17,266 {\an8}Uh-oh. 26 00:01:17,266 --> 00:01:22,100 [Tori] Remember you had that steak that was in there last night? It is gone now. 27 00:01:25,700 --> 00:01:27,400 Okay, any guesses on how this goes? 28 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,000 [sighs in frustration] 29 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:30,166 [sighs in frustration] 30 00:01:30,166 --> 00:01:31,000 [Zach Roloff] Last night was rough. 31 00:01:31,367 --> 00:01:35,066 Last night was R,U,F,F, rough. 32 00:01:35,066 --> 00:01:39,867 It's not a fun time. Like I'm literally dying on the inside. 33 00:01:39,867 --> 00:01:41,567 [Josiah whining] 34 00:01:43,667 --> 00:01:45,700 {\an8}[Zach] Josiah is four and a half months, 35 00:01:45,767 --> 00:01:48,367 {\an8}and we've been trying to sleep train him for a while. 36 00:01:48,367 --> 00:01:51,567 {\an8}-For a while. -And it's, uh, it's been tough. 37 00:01:51,567 --> 00:01:56,100 [Tori] The last, like, three nights, it's been, like, every hour, he's crying. 38 00:01:56,166 --> 00:01:57,667 Like, he doesn't sleep. 39 00:01:57,667 --> 00:02:00,000 -We never have really had to deal with any sleep issues. -Yeah. 40 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:00,200 -We never have really had to deal with any sleep issues. -Yeah. 41 00:02:00,266 --> 00:02:01,000 Because our previous two kids were like, oh, I can sleep 11 hours? I'm gonna do that. 42 00:02:06,066 --> 00:02:09,767 But it's not even like at night, though, too. It's during the day. 43 00:02:09,767 --> 00:02:12,967 He naps for 20 to 30 minutes, and that's not normal. 44 00:02:12,967 --> 00:02:17,066 I think there's a bit of a challenge having three kids to have such a set schedule. 45 00:02:17,066 --> 00:02:19,066 'Cause life just flows differently. 46 00:02:19,066 --> 00:02:20,400 -[baby exclaiming] -This house. 47 00:02:20,467 --> 00:02:23,000 We did not think about the three bedroom situation. 48 00:02:23,066 --> 00:02:24,400 Sucks. 49 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,266 [Zach] Currently, Josiah and Lilah are sharing a room, 50 00:02:26,266 --> 00:02:28,100 because Jackson's at school, and just, 51 00:02:28,100 --> 00:02:30,000 we wanna make sure that he's not interrupted. 52 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:30,700 we wanna make sure that he's not interrupted. 53 00:02:30,767 --> 00:02:31,000 But also, Lilah's tough. 54 00:02:33,166 --> 00:02:34,767 If she gets woken up in the middle of the night, 55 00:02:34,767 --> 00:02:37,000 she can be tough to get back down to sleep. 56 00:02:37,066 --> 00:02:39,567 So that's causing the issue, because then we have to go in... 57 00:02:39,567 --> 00:02:41,567 That's part of it, too. Tori can't go in. 58 00:02:41,567 --> 00:02:43,900 Once he sees Tori, he's like, oh, feeding time. 59 00:02:43,967 --> 00:02:46,500 Okay, let's hope I did this right. 60 00:02:46,567 --> 00:02:50,000 [Tori] Because of this, we've been having to have Zach 61 00:02:50,066 --> 00:02:54,767 sleep upstairs with Lilah, and have Josiah be alone in Lilah's room. 62 00:02:54,767 --> 00:02:56,667 It's a whole cluster. 63 00:02:56,667 --> 00:03:00,000 {\an8}It's hard, like, right now, 'cause there's days that, like, I love where we're at. 64 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:01,000 {\an8}It's hard, like, right now, 'cause there's days that, like, I love where we're at. 65 00:03:02,266 --> 00:03:03,533 {\an8}[baby toys blipping, chirping] 66 00:03:03,533 --> 00:03:05,767 {\an8}-And I'm trying really hard to enjoy this stage. -Yeah. 67 00:03:05,767 --> 00:03:10,166 {\an8}But then there's other days where I'm like, I straight up am miserable. 68 00:03:10,166 --> 00:03:11,867 I'm very sleep deprived. 69 00:03:11,867 --> 00:03:14,967 And then I have days like today where it just all, like, boils, 70 00:03:14,967 --> 00:03:17,166 and I just can't even, like, do anything. 71 00:03:17,166 --> 00:03:18,967 Like, it's just frustrating. 72 00:03:18,967 --> 00:03:21,467 Babe, do you realize how easy you have it, though? 73 00:03:21,467 --> 00:03:22,500 What do you mean? 74 00:03:22,567 --> 00:03:24,000 "What do you mean?" 75 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,400 You have it so easy. You literally, you can leave whenever you want. 76 00:03:27,467 --> 00:03:29,100 You could just leave the house. 77 00:03:29,166 --> 00:03:30,000 You know I don't like that comparison, though. 78 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,000 You know I don't like that comparison, though. 79 00:03:31,066 --> 00:03:33,100 Oh, because it's true? And it's... 80 00:03:33,166 --> 00:03:35,767 No. You're, you're a mom. You have a special gift. 81 00:03:35,767 --> 00:03:37,166 -Oh. -Yeah. 82 00:03:37,166 --> 00:03:40,000 -Is that what it is? Okay. -So, like, enjoy that. Appreciate that. 83 00:03:40,066 --> 00:03:41,900 [Tori] Zach does not understand. 84 00:03:41,967 --> 00:03:44,667 I'm constantly, like, needed. 85 00:03:44,667 --> 00:03:45,900 By someone in the family. 86 00:03:45,967 --> 00:03:49,166 Not that he is not, but he is needed in a different way. 87 00:03:49,166 --> 00:03:52,166 Like, I have, like, a role that I cannot escape from. 88 00:03:52,166 --> 00:03:56,166 Like, I literally physically cannot escape from my role as mom, 89 00:03:56,166 --> 00:04:00,000 like, with breastfeeding, and I am a stay at home mom. That's my job. 90 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:00,667 like, with breastfeeding, and I am a stay at home mom. That's my job. 91 00:04:00,667 --> 00:04:01,000 And so, I understand my role. 92 00:04:02,567 --> 00:04:06,066 It just would be nice to be appreciated for that role. 93 00:04:06,066 --> 00:04:08,767 A little bit more often. 94 00:04:08,767 --> 00:04:11,667 I just, I haven't slept since I gave birth to him. 95 00:04:11,667 --> 00:04:12,767 [Josiah exclaiming] 96 00:04:14,100 --> 00:04:16,166 Still chaotic at the moment. It's just a little... 97 00:04:16,166 --> 00:04:18,567 It's a season of life. That's what I keep telling myself. 98 00:04:18,567 --> 00:04:20,166 -Yeah. -One day, I'm going to miss this. 99 00:04:20,166 --> 00:04:21,100 [Josiah exclaiming] 100 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,100 I'm gonna miss this. I know I am. 101 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,000 [Tori] Anyway. Date night? 102 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:30,266 [Tori] Anyway. Date night? 103 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,667 -I could use one. -Yeah. 104 00:04:32,667 --> 00:04:34,800 -[laughing] -Is it a date night, 105 00:04:34,867 --> 00:04:36,467 or is it a time to get closer to one another 106 00:04:36,467 --> 00:04:37,567 -as a married couple... -Oh. 107 00:04:37,567 --> 00:04:38,900 ...or is it a time to get away from the kids? 108 00:04:38,967 --> 00:04:41,567 -It's a time to get away from the kids at this point. -Yeah. 109 00:04:41,567 --> 00:04:44,467 [Zach] I appreciate Tori and everything she does for the family. 110 00:04:44,467 --> 00:04:46,166 This moment in time is harder for her. 111 00:04:46,166 --> 00:04:48,367 She takes a lot more on emotionally. 112 00:04:48,367 --> 00:04:51,000 So I, I wanna get her out of the house. We need to go on a date. 113 00:04:51,066 --> 00:04:53,367 She just needs to know that the whole family loves her, 114 00:04:53,367 --> 00:04:54,567 and yeah, she's doing a good job. 115 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:56,166 [Tori] Lilah. 116 00:04:56,166 --> 00:04:57,200 Lilah, what are you making? 117 00:04:57,266 --> 00:04:58,600 [Tori] What are you making us? 118 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,000 -Mine. -How about, can I have, uh, a milkshake too with it? 119 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,000 -Mine. -How about, can I have, uh, a milkshake too with it? 120 00:05:02,266 --> 00:05:04,967 I still say that Lilah's one of the funniest kids I've ever met. 121 00:05:04,967 --> 00:05:07,166 Like, I love her personality. You know? 122 00:05:07,166 --> 00:05:09,767 She's got the right dosage of clueless, spunky and funny. 123 00:05:09,767 --> 00:05:11,567 [laughing] The right dosage of clueless. 124 00:05:11,567 --> 00:05:12,967 -[both] Lilah. -[Tori] Lilah. 125 00:05:13,867 --> 00:05:14,934 [both laughing] 126 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:17,900 [Zach] Lilah's definitely a daddy's girl. 127 00:05:17,967 --> 00:05:19,867 And she won't let Tori and me 128 00:05:19,867 --> 00:05:23,200 show any form of affection in the house [laughing] whatsoever. 129 00:05:23,266 --> 00:05:24,767 Lilah. [laughing] 130 00:05:24,767 --> 00:05:26,767 [Lilah crying] 131 00:05:26,767 --> 00:05:29,000 [both laughing] 132 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:31,000 Okay, Tori. You're upsetting her. 133 00:05:34,166 --> 00:05:37,100 I don't know if it's a jealousy thing with Lilah, or is it like a... 134 00:05:37,166 --> 00:05:38,600 She doesn't like when Jackson and me wrestle. 135 00:05:38,667 --> 00:05:39,700 -Yeah. -For example. 136 00:05:39,700 --> 00:05:41,600 I think she just wants things just to be calm. 137 00:05:41,667 --> 00:05:43,600 Oh, is that your man? 138 00:05:43,667 --> 00:05:45,166 Lilah, that's my man. 139 00:05:45,166 --> 00:05:46,667 -No. -My man. 140 00:05:47,467 --> 00:05:48,467 {\an8}-Yeah! -No. 141 00:05:48,467 --> 00:05:51,367 {\an8}Daddy's mine. Not your... 142 00:05:51,367 --> 00:05:54,100 {\an8}-She's like, you get Josiah. -[both laughing] 143 00:05:55,567 --> 00:05:59,300 This is why we need a date night. I need to be alone with my man. 144 00:05:59,367 --> 00:06:00,000 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. 145 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:00,700 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. 146 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:15,166 [Matt] Lemme show you what we're doing, here. 147 00:06:15,166 --> 00:06:17,700 I don't know if you remember, Caryn, years ago, 148 00:06:17,767 --> 00:06:21,000 when we were getting ready for a Thanksgiving dinner 149 00:06:21,066 --> 00:06:22,767 and I tore the floor up in the house. 150 00:06:22,767 --> 00:06:24,100 This reminds me of that. 151 00:06:26,100 --> 00:06:29,467 That pipe there, that's the main line to our new house. 152 00:06:29,467 --> 00:06:30,000 Today, I have the place, you know, so tore up, 153 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,000 Today, I have the place, you know, so tore up, 154 00:06:32,667 --> 00:06:36,867 because I'm doing a big infrastructure project that goes to my new house 155 00:06:36,867 --> 00:06:38,300 that we don't know when it's gonna be built. 156 00:06:38,367 --> 00:06:40,200 That's gonna go East. 157 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:45,066 The permits for my new house are tied up in a sort of a logjam of bureaucracy, 158 00:06:45,066 --> 00:06:49,166 so the house project is sort of on hold for the moment. 159 00:06:49,166 --> 00:06:52,667 So, you gotta get this covered up before it gets 160 00:06:52,667 --> 00:06:54,567 -all rainy and muddy and... -Yeah, this is like... 161 00:06:54,567 --> 00:06:57,300 -This is Grand Central Station. -Oh, my... 162 00:06:57,367 --> 00:06:58,500 With the pumpkin patch. 163 00:06:58,567 --> 00:07:00,000 [Caryn] Pumpkin season opens in 21 days. 164 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:00,433 [Caryn] Pumpkin season opens in 21 days. 165 00:07:00,433 --> 00:07:01,000 [Matt] There's only a small window in Oregon when it's not rainy and muddy. 166 00:07:04,266 --> 00:07:07,266 Well, with my dad passing away in July, 167 00:07:07,266 --> 00:07:10,367 that kinda took August out of the picture. 168 00:07:10,367 --> 00:07:13,166 So now, here we are at the beginning of September, 169 00:07:13,166 --> 00:07:15,900 having to dig up a bunch of trenches. 170 00:07:15,967 --> 00:07:18,400 Well, September isn't the time to be digging up things. [laughing] 171 00:07:18,467 --> 00:07:21,767 Man, September's the time to be making everything pretty and nice. 172 00:07:21,767 --> 00:07:24,467 [Caryn] All of this construction right in the middle of pumpkin season, 173 00:07:24,467 --> 00:07:27,600 that's a problem in itself. So we gotta get this cleaned up. 174 00:07:27,667 --> 00:07:30,000 You know, it's funny how like, all this was super important to me, 175 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:30,767 You know, it's funny how like, all this was super important to me, 176 00:07:30,767 --> 00:07:31,000 and then when my dad passed, and now taking care of my mother, 177 00:07:34,066 --> 00:07:37,967 it's funny how priorities change in life, you know? 178 00:07:37,967 --> 00:07:40,100 -[laughing] Yes, it does. -Right? 179 00:07:40,166 --> 00:07:43,100 There's not a day that doesn't go by where I don't think about something 180 00:07:43,100 --> 00:07:45,100 that makes me happy about my father. 181 00:07:45,166 --> 00:07:49,066 And I'm doing okay. I think just staying busy and pro-- productive 182 00:07:49,066 --> 00:07:50,967 is my go-to place. 183 00:07:50,967 --> 00:07:53,600 Um, I'm very self-contained in that way. 184 00:07:53,667 --> 00:07:55,967 I never got a chance to really appreciate 185 00:07:55,967 --> 00:07:59,166 everything you did for my mom during those final weeks, 186 00:07:59,166 --> 00:08:00,000 -and the week after my dad passed. -[whispering] Yeah. 187 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:01,000 -and the week after my dad passed. -[whispering] Yeah. 188 00:08:01,266 --> 00:08:03,600 The final days of my dad's life, 189 00:08:03,667 --> 00:08:06,500 you know, I spent a lot of time at the hospital with him, 190 00:08:06,567 --> 00:08:09,567 and Caryn was really back home 191 00:08:09,567 --> 00:08:12,400 helping my mother get established without Ron. 192 00:08:12,467 --> 00:08:14,233 Then, after my dad passed, 193 00:08:14,233 --> 00:08:17,266 Caryn jumped right in and started helping with the meds and the laundry 194 00:08:17,266 --> 00:08:18,600 and figuring out what her needs were. 195 00:08:18,667 --> 00:08:20,467 And so, I mean, she was indispensable. 196 00:08:21,667 --> 00:08:24,667 A lot of that early stuff you did, Caryn, 197 00:08:24,667 --> 00:08:26,767 has led to her independence today. 198 00:08:26,767 --> 00:08:28,467 -Aww. Thanks. -You know? 199 00:08:28,467 --> 00:08:30,000 -Because she... -She had the will to do it, though. 200 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:30,600 -Because she... -She had the will to do it, though. 201 00:08:30,667 --> 00:08:31,000 She, you know, she wanted to do it. 202 00:08:32,867 --> 00:08:33,900 Yeah. 203 00:08:33,967 --> 00:08:35,767 And now that your dad is gone, 204 00:08:35,767 --> 00:08:42,300 we are reinvesting our energy in getting to know Honey in this new space. 205 00:08:42,367 --> 00:08:44,900 I promised my dad I'd go take care of Mom, 206 00:08:44,967 --> 00:08:48,367 and do what I could, and, uh, you know, that's what I'm doing. 207 00:08:48,367 --> 00:08:49,734 And, um... 208 00:08:49,734 --> 00:08:53,767 Probably spent more time with your mom in the last few months 209 00:08:53,767 --> 00:08:55,800 -than you had in the last few years. -Yeah. 210 00:08:55,867 --> 00:08:58,467 And so I've seen your relationship blossom. It's been really pretty. 211 00:08:58,467 --> 00:09:00,000 Yeah. 212 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:00,133 Yeah. 213 00:09:00,133 --> 00:09:01,000 Did I mention that I stopped in on, um, Zach and Tori on the way to Arizona? 214 00:09:04,667 --> 00:09:08,400 -Oh, no. -I got to hold little Josiah. Yeah, very cute. 215 00:09:08,467 --> 00:09:10,767 Very good. Very good. I'm, I'm glad about that. 216 00:09:10,767 --> 00:09:11,734 Yeah. 217 00:09:11,734 --> 00:09:13,400 [Matt] I know we still got issues. 218 00:09:13,467 --> 00:09:17,867 Zach and Tori I think have really sort of isolated themselves, 219 00:09:17,867 --> 00:09:21,000 you know, from me and Cha-Cha and the farm. 220 00:09:21,066 --> 00:09:22,867 Um, and that's been disappointing. 221 00:09:22,867 --> 00:09:26,400 I've been able to see them, and been to the birthday parties and stuff, 222 00:09:26,467 --> 00:09:30,000 but, um, you know, they really developed their own new world and life and stuff 223 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:31,000 but, um, you know, they really developed their own new world and life and stuff 224 00:09:31,367 --> 00:09:33,567 that's not under the shadow of the farm. 225 00:09:33,567 --> 00:09:35,300 And I respect that. 226 00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:40,100 But my hope always is that everybody can harmonize and, and get together. 227 00:09:40,100 --> 00:09:42,667 And I believe that there's hope for that. 228 00:09:42,667 --> 00:09:46,800 [Caryn] It's been a year since all the craziness ensued 229 00:09:46,867 --> 00:09:49,800 and things are still chilly, but I am hopeful every single day 230 00:09:49,867 --> 00:09:51,467 that one of these times 231 00:09:52,467 --> 00:09:55,166 things are gonna melt and get back on track. 232 00:09:57,767 --> 00:09:59,700 [Matt] Chris came by. We talked pumpkin season. 233 00:09:59,767 --> 00:10:00,000 -Is he in? -Yeah, he's in. He's in. 234 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,000 -Is he in? -Yeah, he's in. He's in. 235 00:10:01,567 --> 00:10:03,667 He doesn't want to get more in, but he's in. [chuckles] I mean... 236 00:10:03,667 --> 00:10:05,266 He doesn't want to get more in? What does that mean? 237 00:10:05,266 --> 00:10:08,166 He doesn't want to do more than what he did last year, a couple hours a day. 238 00:10:08,166 --> 00:10:11,066 I tried to nudge him towards maybe a bigger commitment, you know. 239 00:10:11,066 --> 00:10:13,900 I said, "Well, we'll build a program around whatever you want to do." 240 00:10:13,967 --> 00:10:16,667 Zach's not gonna be here, you know, doing the tours 241 00:10:16,667 --> 00:10:18,667 and he's not gonna be doing pumpkin season. 242 00:10:18,667 --> 00:10:24,200 So we're hoping that Chris is interested in filling some of that role. 243 00:10:24,266 --> 00:10:27,000 Last year, Chris kind of made his own schedule. 244 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,000 This year, it'd be nice if we could get a bigger commitment from him. 245 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:30,667 This year, it'd be nice if we could get a bigger commitment from him. 246 00:10:30,667 --> 00:10:31,000 With Amy, you know, I think she's committed 247 00:10:32,667 --> 00:10:34,000 to being there and doing her role, 248 00:10:34,066 --> 00:10:37,066 but we want to nail down exactly what she's gonna be doing. 249 00:10:37,066 --> 00:10:41,367 I think in the past, you know, Amy gets to be the face of the pumpkin season. 250 00:10:41,367 --> 00:10:43,867 She sits out there and really greets everybody. 251 00:10:43,867 --> 00:10:46,667 She's a very important part of what we do. 252 00:10:46,667 --> 00:10:49,467 So I need to have a meeting with her and Chris 253 00:10:49,467 --> 00:10:51,667 and we're just keeping our fingers crossed 254 00:10:51,667 --> 00:10:55,667 that they, you know, continue to be interested in helping out. 255 00:10:55,667 --> 00:10:58,400 Next step is get Chris and Amy over here. 256 00:10:58,467 --> 00:11:00,000 Assuming that there is a pumpkin season 257 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:00,100 Assuming that there is a pumpkin season 258 00:11:00,100 --> 00:11:01,000 because right now I have the biggest catastrophe 259 00:11:04,667 --> 00:11:06,367 in the history of pumpkin season. 260 00:11:06,367 --> 00:11:08,767 You don't get me anymore. I've heard that so many times. 261 00:11:08,767 --> 00:11:10,967 You always pull it off. I'm not panicking. 262 00:11:10,967 --> 00:11:12,367 [Matt] Yeah, you know what I do though? 263 00:11:12,367 --> 00:11:14,600 When I take a bite of the elephant, 264 00:11:14,667 --> 00:11:17,467 I take... I shove so much in my mouth, I can't... 265 00:11:17,467 --> 00:11:19,567 That's a... Just an awful analogy. 266 00:11:19,567 --> 00:11:20,667 [Matt] That's my analogy right there. 267 00:11:20,667 --> 00:11:22,767 I have to take little bites. I don't do that. 268 00:11:23,767 --> 00:11:25,000 [Caryn] No, you don't. 269 00:11:27,467 --> 00:11:28,767 {\an8}[Matt] Coming up... 270 00:11:28,767 --> 00:11:30,000 {\an8}-[Amy] Hey, hey, hey. -[Caryn] How are ya? 271 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:30,266 {\an8}-[Amy] Hey, hey, hey. -[Caryn] How are ya? 272 00:11:30,266 --> 00:11:31,000 So let's get down to business. 273 00:11:31,767 --> 00:11:32,700 What are you guys... 274 00:11:32,767 --> 00:11:34,467 Are you still on board? 275 00:11:34,467 --> 00:11:36,166 [Amy] Everything that's gone on, 276 00:11:36,166 --> 00:11:38,100 how this whole farm thing went down, 277 00:11:38,100 --> 00:11:40,400 I think, you know, we're all trying to figure out 278 00:11:40,467 --> 00:11:41,867 this is still family. 279 00:11:41,867 --> 00:11:45,000 But how do we interact with that family now? 280 00:11:45,567 --> 00:11:46,467 {\an8}[Matt] And later... 281 00:11:46,500 --> 00:11:48,567 {\an8}So you're doing pumpkin season this year? 282 00:11:48,567 --> 00:11:50,667 -Are you? -Things have changed, you know. 283 00:11:50,667 --> 00:11:52,166 The place is up for sale. 284 00:11:52,166 --> 00:11:55,266 And then, of course, you know, the whole thing between Matt and Chris. 285 00:11:55,266 --> 00:11:56,967 -Their little bromance. -Yeah. 286 00:11:56,967 --> 00:11:58,100 Are you okay with that? 287 00:12:04,867 --> 00:12:05,000 [bright music playing] 288 00:12:16,767 --> 00:12:18,967 -[Matt] Hey Caryn. -[Caryn] Yeah? 289 00:12:18,967 --> 00:12:20,700 [Matt] Let's go. Amy and Chris are here. 290 00:12:20,767 --> 00:12:22,266 We can chit-chat with them. 291 00:12:22,266 --> 00:12:23,767 Chris and Amy are gonna come by 292 00:12:23,767 --> 00:12:26,266 and talk about their involvement in pumpkin season 293 00:12:26,266 --> 00:12:29,066 and that's bearing down on us right now. 294 00:12:29,066 --> 00:12:34,014 So we would like to see Chris and Amy be here, um-- 295 00:12:34,014 --> 00:12:34,066 So we would like to see Chris and Amy be here, um-- 296 00:12:34,066 --> 00:12:35,000 -As much as possible. -As much as possible, yeah. 297 00:12:35,867 --> 00:12:40,266 So today it's about selling them on their involvement. 298 00:12:40,266 --> 00:12:43,166 [Amy] I tell ya. I thought it was gonna be so much colder. 299 00:12:43,166 --> 00:12:45,900 I thought about it and I didn't want to do it, 300 00:12:45,967 --> 00:12:48,066 and then I did, and then I didn't. 301 00:12:48,066 --> 00:12:50,567 So I agreed to do pumpkin season 302 00:12:50,567 --> 00:12:53,066 because there's an element of it that I enjoy. 303 00:12:53,066 --> 00:12:56,166 And to help out at something 304 00:12:56,166 --> 00:12:58,700 that I've been a part of for a very, very long time. 305 00:12:58,767 --> 00:13:00,066 I'm doing it because I was asked 306 00:13:00,066 --> 00:13:02,667 and if it goes south, that's a choice I live with. 307 00:13:02,667 --> 00:13:04,014 If it goes great, that's a choice I live with too. 308 00:13:04,014 --> 00:13:05,000 If it goes great, that's a choice I live with too. 309 00:13:05,367 --> 00:13:07,200 -[Amy] Hey, hey, hey. -[Caryn] How are ya? 310 00:13:07,266 --> 00:13:09,300 [Matt] Let me get off this thing. 311 00:13:09,367 --> 00:13:11,667 So, it looks like you're setting up the air cannons over here. 312 00:13:11,667 --> 00:13:14,000 I take it the net's gonna go up there between the poles? 313 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,867 [Matt laughs] Chris, you're good. 314 00:13:15,867 --> 00:13:18,567 -Well, I try to figure out the operation. -Yeah, yeah. 315 00:13:18,567 --> 00:13:22,800 Now, I thought I heard that maybe the pirate ship's gonna be a target? 316 00:13:22,867 --> 00:13:24,667 Is that the... Still the plan? 317 00:13:24,667 --> 00:13:26,166 [Matt strains] Yes. 318 00:13:26,166 --> 00:13:29,200 The idea is you aim at the tin pirate cutouts. 319 00:13:29,266 --> 00:13:32,066 Well, you know, Amy always dresses up as a pirate. 320 00:13:32,066 --> 00:13:34,014 At least one day, during the season, 321 00:13:34,014 --> 00:13:34,667 At least one day, during the season, 322 00:13:34,667 --> 00:13:35,000 will she be required to be a human target during that day? 323 00:13:36,967 --> 00:13:39,000 -See this? See this? -[Matt] I'll be shooting her. 324 00:13:39,066 --> 00:13:41,000 [laughing] I'll challenge you. 325 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,467 [Matt] She'd have to give me two hands up. 326 00:13:42,467 --> 00:13:43,600 [both laughing] 327 00:13:43,667 --> 00:13:46,000 I'll be putting you on the plank. 328 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:47,767 There you go. That's actually pretty good. 329 00:13:47,767 --> 00:13:50,967 -We should have a big plank coming out with Amy out there. -[chuckles] Yeah. 330 00:13:50,967 --> 00:13:53,500 Matt and I were targets for you and Caryn a couple years ago. 331 00:13:53,567 --> 00:13:55,700 -Yeah, we did do that, yeah. -We had fun doing that. 332 00:13:55,767 --> 00:13:58,367 Come on, Amy. You've always wanted to do this to me. 333 00:13:58,367 --> 00:13:59,967 -[air cannon fires] -Hey! 334 00:13:59,967 --> 00:14:02,100 -[Caryn] Amy, you went right for him. -[cheering] 335 00:14:02,166 --> 00:14:04,014 -Amy was aiming for my mouth. -[laughing] 336 00:14:04,014 --> 00:14:04,100 -Amy was aiming for my mouth. -[laughing] 337 00:14:04,100 --> 00:14:05,000 -I was not. -But she hit my nose, 338 00:14:06,467 --> 00:14:08,567 but can't blame her for that. 339 00:14:10,567 --> 00:14:11,900 So, let's get down to business. 340 00:14:11,967 --> 00:14:13,066 What are you guys... 341 00:14:13,066 --> 00:14:14,567 Are you still on board? 342 00:14:14,567 --> 00:14:17,000 Well, you haven't told me what the tour looks like yet. 343 00:14:17,066 --> 00:14:21,100 We're going to cut the loop off that goes around the DW. 344 00:14:21,100 --> 00:14:22,166 [Chris] Yeah? 345 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,367 And I'm assuming no pending offer on the house, 346 00:14:24,367 --> 00:14:26,266 -so no restrictions there. -[Matt] No. 347 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,433 The farmhouse sale, 348 00:14:28,433 --> 00:14:32,867 I think everybody's kind of waiting 'til the economy sorts itself out a bit. 349 00:14:32,867 --> 00:14:34,014 So I'm gonna go into some other ideas that I have. 350 00:14:34,014 --> 00:14:35,000 So I'm gonna go into some other ideas that I have. 351 00:14:37,066 --> 00:14:39,266 You said that you wanted to do about two hours 352 00:14:39,266 --> 00:14:41,667 -or what... Is that still about right? -[Chris] Mmm-hmm. 353 00:14:41,667 --> 00:14:43,467 And we tried to nudge you to three, right? 354 00:14:43,467 --> 00:14:44,767 [laughs] You tried, yeah. 355 00:14:44,767 --> 00:14:47,266 We did have a thought 356 00:14:47,266 --> 00:14:51,166 about we do have a lot of people requesting the private tours 357 00:14:51,166 --> 00:14:53,967 -and we haven't opened up that schedule at all. -[Caryn] Right. 358 00:14:53,967 --> 00:14:56,000 Zach used to do these private tours, 359 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,600 and once Zach stepped back from the farm 360 00:14:58,667 --> 00:14:59,867 and moved up to Battle Ground, 361 00:14:59,867 --> 00:15:01,600 we stopped doing the private tours. 362 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,014 This year, we're gonna do the private tours on a very limited basis. 363 00:15:04,014 --> 00:15:05,000 This year, we're gonna do the private tours on a very limited basis. 364 00:15:05,166 --> 00:15:06,834 It's a shame that Zach's not gonna be doing 'em, 365 00:15:06,867 --> 00:15:10,767 but hopefully Chris will kind of pitch in to help make it happen. 366 00:15:10,767 --> 00:15:15,100 But we thought since you qualify so dearly as family, 367 00:15:15,166 --> 00:15:17,767 this would be lucrative for you. 368 00:15:17,767 --> 00:15:19,467 I'd be open to that. I'd... 369 00:15:19,467 --> 00:15:22,100 Yeah, I was surprised when Matt mentioned the private tours. 370 00:15:22,166 --> 00:15:25,100 That was actually kind of what I was hoping to do the year before. 371 00:15:25,166 --> 00:15:27,867 The private tours were a position or a job 372 00:15:27,867 --> 00:15:29,900 that Zachary was really excited about, 373 00:15:29,967 --> 00:15:34,014 and willing to take on and that's all he would do. 374 00:15:34,014 --> 00:15:34,467 and willing to take on and that's all he would do. 375 00:15:34,467 --> 00:15:35,000 So the farm is definitely missing Zach. 376 00:15:37,266 --> 00:15:41,467 But it's totally understandable why he's not. 377 00:15:41,467 --> 00:15:43,100 How about you, Caryn? What's your role? 378 00:15:43,100 --> 00:15:45,266 -Are you running the show? -I'm doing the employees. 379 00:15:45,266 --> 00:15:48,667 Okay. So, will I be working for you then? 380 00:15:48,667 --> 00:15:51,867 -Yes. It's all a team effort. -[all laughing] 381 00:15:51,867 --> 00:15:53,967 [Chris] Alright, well, I kind of have an idea of my duties. 382 00:15:53,967 --> 00:15:55,000 What about Amy's duties? 383 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,800 [Matt] Yeah, Amy's duty is super critical. 384 00:15:57,867 --> 00:16:00,066 -Well, greet everybody. -[Matt] Yes. 385 00:16:00,066 --> 00:16:02,367 [Amy] I think some of the kids think I'm crazy about doing it. 386 00:16:02,367 --> 00:16:04,014 Like, "Why? Why would you want to go back 387 00:16:04,014 --> 00:16:04,467 Like, "Why? Why would you want to go back 388 00:16:04,467 --> 00:16:05,000 and, I don't know, support that or whatever?" 389 00:16:07,166 --> 00:16:10,100 Everything that's gone on between their dad and I 390 00:16:10,100 --> 00:16:13,367 and knowing how this whole farm thing went down, 391 00:16:13,367 --> 00:16:15,867 I think, you know, we're all trying to figure out... 392 00:16:15,867 --> 00:16:17,367 This is still family. 393 00:16:17,367 --> 00:16:20,667 But how do we interact with that family now? 394 00:16:20,667 --> 00:16:23,400 I just want to make sure that 395 00:16:23,467 --> 00:16:28,000 hopefully it doesn't impact my relationship with my kids. 396 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,367 Well, are you guys excited about the new season? 397 00:16:30,367 --> 00:16:31,700 I think it's gonna be a good one. 398 00:16:31,767 --> 00:16:33,800 Well, I'm excited to figure out what my job's gonna be. 399 00:16:33,867 --> 00:16:34,014 But I do like the idea of doing the private tours. 400 00:16:34,014 --> 00:16:35,000 But I do like the idea of doing the private tours. 401 00:16:35,867 --> 00:16:38,667 -Okay, we'll talk more to you about that for sure. -[Chris] Yeah, yeah. 402 00:16:38,667 --> 00:16:41,000 [Matt] I thought the meeting with Amy and Chris went well. 403 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:42,467 It'd be nice if Zach and Tori 404 00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:46,000 and all of the members of the family would come out to pumpkin season, 405 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:49,166 but people have to make their own decisions about that. 406 00:16:49,166 --> 00:16:51,467 I mean, it's sad, but that's where we are. 407 00:16:52,767 --> 00:16:53,900 {\an8}Coming up... 408 00:16:53,967 --> 00:16:57,200 {\an8}So you said you had a big plan B. 409 00:16:57,266 --> 00:17:00,100 You feel like you get hit in the head with a hammer and it wakes you up. 410 00:17:00,166 --> 00:17:02,867 It's just a matter of that it's a tough time. 411 00:17:02,867 --> 00:17:04,014 It's time to listen [chuckles] to the hammer 412 00:17:04,014 --> 00:17:05,000 It's time to listen [chuckles] to the hammer 413 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:08,867 hitting the side of my skull 414 00:17:08,867 --> 00:17:11,166 and do something different with the farm. 415 00:17:15,700 --> 00:17:16,700 [whimsical music playing] 416 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,000 {\an8}[Tori] Momma's room is kind of a mess. 417 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:24,367 {\an8}[Josiah giggling] 418 00:17:25,767 --> 00:17:26,700 Okay, ready? 419 00:17:26,767 --> 00:17:29,266 You crazy. You sit right here. 420 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,300 You stay right there, mister. 421 00:17:34,367 --> 00:17:36,100 We got to find a date night outfit. 422 00:17:37,266 --> 00:17:38,266 [coos] 423 00:17:39,266 --> 00:17:40,667 Okay. 424 00:17:40,667 --> 00:17:42,467 I have a lot of dresses actually though. 425 00:17:43,767 --> 00:17:44,408 I just don't wear any of them. 426 00:17:44,408 --> 00:17:45,000 I just don't wear any of them. 427 00:17:45,667 --> 00:17:49,100 My closet is filled with an excessive amount of clothes. 428 00:17:49,100 --> 00:17:51,900 But it's always fun to like, get something new 429 00:17:51,967 --> 00:17:54,166 for a date night and feel good about yourself. 430 00:17:55,300 --> 00:17:57,900 It sucks 'cause I'm still in that mode of like, 431 00:17:57,967 --> 00:18:00,200 I have to be able to feed him wherever I go, 432 00:18:00,266 --> 00:18:02,667 so like, my wardrobe literally like, consists of like, 433 00:18:02,667 --> 00:18:06,800 "Okay, what can I easily feed Josiah in?" 434 00:18:06,867 --> 00:18:08,467 So I feel like until that's done, 435 00:18:08,467 --> 00:18:11,900 I'm not gonna be able to like, wear what I want 436 00:18:11,967 --> 00:18:14,408 -because I love wearing dresses. -[Josiah gurgles] 437 00:18:14,408 --> 00:18:14,567 -because I love wearing dresses. -[Josiah gurgles] 438 00:18:14,567 --> 00:18:15,000 That's like, I live in dresses, 439 00:18:16,567 --> 00:18:19,100 but I can't always do that when I'm breast feeding. 440 00:18:19,166 --> 00:18:20,867 I also like, still don't really know 441 00:18:20,867 --> 00:18:23,967 how to dress my body like, post mortem. 442 00:18:23,967 --> 00:18:26,800 I've never really like... I don't know. 443 00:18:26,867 --> 00:18:28,767 I always think something looks cute and then I leave the house 444 00:18:28,767 --> 00:18:30,900 and I'm like, "What was I thinking?" 445 00:18:30,967 --> 00:18:33,800 I don't know. Like, third kid, man, really rocked my world. 446 00:18:34,300 --> 00:18:36,266 Like, with my body. 447 00:18:36,266 --> 00:18:40,700 I'm at like, this awkward point in my life where like, 448 00:18:40,767 --> 00:18:44,300 things just don't fit the way that I want them to. 449 00:18:44,367 --> 00:18:44,408 So when I go shopping, it's just like, 450 00:18:44,408 --> 00:18:45,000 So when I go shopping, it's just like, 451 00:18:46,100 --> 00:18:47,767 I want to find something that feels good 452 00:18:47,767 --> 00:18:50,667 and that's all that really matters to me right now. 453 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,367 Honestly, my style like, it's always been kinda plain. 454 00:18:55,367 --> 00:18:56,867 So no, it hasn't really changed. 455 00:18:56,867 --> 00:18:58,767 Like, that's kind of been me my whole life. [chuckles] 456 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:01,500 [Zach] Yeah, look at you. 457 00:19:03,467 --> 00:19:05,600 You're like, right there. 458 00:19:05,667 --> 00:19:08,667 -[babbling] -[Zach] That thing's gonna get crowded. [laughs] 459 00:19:08,667 --> 00:19:10,066 Da-da. 460 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:12,567 Lilah loves to go shopping, huh? 461 00:19:13,367 --> 00:19:14,408 Lilah, do you love dresses? 462 00:19:14,408 --> 00:19:15,000 Lilah, do you love dresses? 463 00:19:16,767 --> 00:19:18,166 No? Not today? 464 00:19:18,166 --> 00:19:22,100 -Da-da. -Babe, what kind of dress do you want me to get? 465 00:19:22,166 --> 00:19:23,467 [Zach] I don't have an opinion. 466 00:19:23,467 --> 00:19:25,367 [Tori] Well, I may have talked with your mother. 467 00:19:25,367 --> 00:19:26,967 I think we're gonna go shopping. 468 00:19:26,967 --> 00:19:28,166 [Zach] You guys are the same style? 469 00:19:28,867 --> 00:19:30,367 Your mom has cute clothes. 470 00:19:30,367 --> 00:19:32,567 Amy has mad style. 471 00:19:32,567 --> 00:19:34,567 She's the most fun to run around with. 472 00:19:34,567 --> 00:19:37,200 -Like, I used to hang out with your mom all the time. -[Zach] Yeah. 473 00:19:37,266 --> 00:19:39,567 I mean, there was like, a rough patch there, 474 00:19:39,567 --> 00:19:42,767 but I hope that we're kinda like, coming back into, 475 00:19:42,767 --> 00:19:44,000 "Let's hang out." 476 00:19:46,166 --> 00:19:49,367 Like, when you become a mom, 477 00:19:49,367 --> 00:19:53,867 sometimes it's really difficult to take advice. 478 00:19:53,867 --> 00:19:55,500 Tori's favorite line is, 479 00:19:55,567 --> 00:19:57,700 if my mom says something to her about parenting, 480 00:19:57,767 --> 00:20:00,467 she'll be like, "I've seen your work. [laughing] 481 00:20:00,467 --> 00:20:03,500 I live with your work, okay?" Like... [chuckles] 482 00:20:03,567 --> 00:20:06,667 No, but I think like... I think her and I both had to kind of learn 483 00:20:06,667 --> 00:20:11,000 like, sometimes I need to be more receptive to advice 484 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,408 and sometimes I need to be less lectured. 485 00:20:14,408 --> 00:20:15,000 and sometimes I need to be less lectured. 486 00:20:15,066 --> 00:20:16,500 But I think every mother-in-law 487 00:20:16,567 --> 00:20:18,367 and daughter-in-law go through that. 488 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:20,767 [Zach] Okay, well, date night. 489 00:20:20,767 --> 00:20:23,166 So, you're gonna go get a dress. I'll pick out a spot. 490 00:20:23,166 --> 00:20:25,567 And then, my mom's lined up to watch the kids. 491 00:20:25,567 --> 00:20:26,900 [Tori] I'm down for that. 492 00:20:26,900 --> 00:20:28,967 [Zach] I think Tori definitely deserves this date night. 493 00:20:28,967 --> 00:20:30,500 Yeah, it's important that Tori and me go out 494 00:20:30,567 --> 00:20:32,867 and get some, you know, one on one time without the kids 495 00:20:32,867 --> 00:20:35,867 and just spend time together, talk and just relax. 496 00:20:35,867 --> 00:20:38,967 -Okay, so mom's gonna go shopping, okay? -[Lilah] Yeah. 497 00:20:38,967 --> 00:20:40,166 What should I get? 498 00:20:42,166 --> 00:20:43,300 I should get a chicken? 499 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:46,367 [upbeat music playing] 500 00:20:55,367 --> 00:20:56,900 {\an8}[Amy] Okay, babe. 501 00:20:56,967 --> 00:20:59,367 {\an8}We probably should have done this last year, 502 00:20:59,367 --> 00:21:01,066 but I mean, we gave it a chance, 503 00:21:01,066 --> 00:21:03,600 -but it's just not working there. -Yeah. 504 00:21:03,667 --> 00:21:05,166 [Chris] The cedar by the pond, 505 00:21:05,166 --> 00:21:07,166 it's been in bad shape ever since we moved in. 506 00:21:07,166 --> 00:21:09,200 And it's not getting any better. 507 00:21:09,266 --> 00:21:10,667 So, it's time for it to go. 508 00:21:11,667 --> 00:21:12,667 So here's the plan. 509 00:21:12,667 --> 00:21:14,200 I don't want it to fall across the pond 510 00:21:14,266 --> 00:21:14,408 'cause I don't want any more of that dead crap falling in there. 511 00:21:14,408 --> 00:21:15,000 'cause I don't want any more of that dead crap falling in there. 512 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,200 So, I'm gonna tie a rope up, 513 00:21:19,266 --> 00:21:21,867 and then when I cut it, I'd like you to pull 514 00:21:21,867 --> 00:21:23,066 and guide it this way. 515 00:21:23,066 --> 00:21:24,900 On top of me? 516 00:21:24,967 --> 00:21:29,100 You know, I'm glad that I can help Chris out with some house projects. 517 00:21:29,100 --> 00:21:32,900 However, the last time I helped him with a project, 518 00:21:32,967 --> 00:21:37,100 [laughs] I almost got smooshed by the microwave. 519 00:21:37,100 --> 00:21:38,767 Oh, this is heavy, babe. 520 00:21:38,767 --> 00:21:40,367 Do you need to wedge this? 521 00:21:42,467 --> 00:21:44,400 -[chuckles] -That ain't gonna work. 522 00:21:44,467 --> 00:21:45,000 -Can you hold it here for a second? -Hang on. Hurry up. 523 00:21:46,867 --> 00:21:48,700 -[wheeze] -[groans] 524 00:21:51,166 --> 00:21:52,567 My shoulders hurt. 525 00:21:54,667 --> 00:21:55,500 [door closes] 526 00:21:55,567 --> 00:21:57,600 Okay, this is my reinforcement. 527 00:21:57,667 --> 00:21:59,600 -[chuckling] -I mean, tie a rope around a tree. 528 00:21:59,667 --> 00:22:01,700 "Oh yeah. Just pull it towards you, man. No problem." 529 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,266 [Chris] I'd like to think that the... 530 00:22:04,266 --> 00:22:07,400 [laughing] The helmet wasn't necessary, 531 00:22:07,467 --> 00:22:10,000 but uh, there has been a time or two 532 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,166 where my calculations were off just a little bit. 533 00:22:12,166 --> 00:22:13,967 [both chuckle] 534 00:22:13,967 --> 00:22:14,408 [Amy] We're gonna miss this little tree. 535 00:22:14,408 --> 00:22:15,000 [Amy] We're gonna miss this little tree. 536 00:22:16,467 --> 00:22:19,400 Just want you to... So none of it goes across the pond, but yeah. 537 00:22:19,467 --> 00:22:20,767 -Just pull it right through here. -Alright. 538 00:22:20,767 --> 00:22:21,767 [dramatic music playing] 539 00:22:22,266 --> 00:22:23,166 [saw whirring] 540 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:30,967 Woah. 541 00:22:32,300 --> 00:22:36,166 Oh, that was a piece of cake. 542 00:22:36,166 --> 00:22:38,266 Well, except it landed on the pond, hon. 543 00:22:38,266 --> 00:22:41,100 -You were supposed to pull it that way. -[Amy] Well, I tried. 544 00:22:41,166 --> 00:22:43,900 [Chris] All she has to do is stand off to the side 545 00:22:43,967 --> 00:22:44,408 -and then, just-- -I know, but my arm's not long enough. 546 00:22:44,408 --> 00:22:45,000 -and then, just-- -I know, but my arm's not long enough. 547 00:22:46,266 --> 00:22:48,100 I... Well, I could have yanked it. 548 00:22:48,166 --> 00:22:50,300 -You could have just moved your body. -[laughing] 549 00:22:50,367 --> 00:22:53,667 That's all you had to do was take a couple steps over. 550 00:22:53,667 --> 00:22:55,400 [Amy] Hey, I did a good job. 551 00:22:55,467 --> 00:22:57,300 [Chris chortles] What do you mean did a good job? 552 00:22:57,367 --> 00:23:00,567 -That landed where it wasn't supposed to go. -[Amy] I did a good job. 553 00:23:00,567 --> 00:23:02,200 -Are you serious? -Babe, you did nothing. 554 00:23:02,266 --> 00:23:04,767 You held a string or a rope 555 00:23:04,767 --> 00:23:07,700 -that went limp because you weren't pulling it. -[laughing] 556 00:23:07,767 --> 00:23:09,333 [saw whirring] 557 00:23:10,500 --> 00:23:14,000 -It kind of went towards me. -Once it started falling, she just watched it. 558 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:14,408 [laughing] 559 00:23:14,408 --> 00:23:15,000 [laughing] 560 00:23:17,166 --> 00:23:20,266 -[Chris] Alright. -[Amy] Man, you got that done quick. 561 00:23:20,266 --> 00:23:22,166 It definitely looks a little more bare over there, 562 00:23:22,166 --> 00:23:26,266 but now we're not looking at dead branches though. 563 00:23:26,266 --> 00:23:29,900 Well anyway, um, I'm not sure if you're on your own for dinner or not. 564 00:23:29,967 --> 00:23:31,467 I got to look at what we're doing. 565 00:23:31,467 --> 00:23:32,867 I'm getting together with Tori. 566 00:23:33,700 --> 00:23:35,567 We're gonna do a little shopping. 567 00:23:35,567 --> 00:23:37,500 Tori and I are gonna go dress shopping 568 00:23:37,567 --> 00:23:41,900 and I'm excited because I'm the mother-in-law, you know. 569 00:23:41,967 --> 00:23:44,408 Let's face it. Not everyone has a rapport with their mother-in-law. 570 00:23:44,408 --> 00:23:45,000 Let's face it. Not everyone has a rapport with their mother-in-law. 571 00:23:46,367 --> 00:23:49,000 And so, when Tori, you know, had asked me 572 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,767 just to kind of hang out for the afternoon with her, 573 00:23:51,767 --> 00:23:55,066 I thought, "Absolutely. That'll be so fun." 574 00:23:55,066 --> 00:23:57,967 -[Chris] Do you two have the same fashion sense? -Oh gosh, no. 575 00:23:57,967 --> 00:24:00,367 I don't have the same fashion sense as anybody. 576 00:24:00,367 --> 00:24:02,600 When I go out shopping with Deb, 577 00:24:02,667 --> 00:24:06,166 I'm like, anything in this store you could wear. 578 00:24:06,166 --> 00:24:07,467 I've got to go through everything 579 00:24:07,467 --> 00:24:09,700 and, "Oh no, that's not gonna work for a little person. 580 00:24:09,767 --> 00:24:11,767 No, no." [mumbling] 581 00:24:12,266 --> 00:24:13,767 When I do go shopping, 582 00:24:13,767 --> 00:24:14,408 I often have to check so much of the different styles and sizes. 583 00:24:14,408 --> 00:24:15,000 I often have to check so much of the different styles and sizes. 584 00:24:18,867 --> 00:24:21,166 And then, most anything I have to alter. 585 00:24:21,166 --> 00:24:24,166 It's like, "Oh brothers." 586 00:24:24,166 --> 00:24:27,066 Okay, [sighs] so are you ready for pumpkin season? 587 00:24:27,066 --> 00:24:30,467 Yeah, so uh, Caryn is going to be my boss. 588 00:24:31,467 --> 00:24:32,700 [mischievous music playing] 589 00:24:32,767 --> 00:24:35,900 [chuckles] Does that make her your boss too? 590 00:24:35,967 --> 00:24:38,667 Hell no. No one ain't my boss on the Roloff Farm, man. 591 00:24:39,867 --> 00:24:42,467 The day that happens is when I check out. 592 00:24:42,467 --> 00:24:44,100 It's okay, hon. You can talk tough, 593 00:24:44,100 --> 00:24:44,408 but we know who's boss around here. 594 00:24:44,408 --> 00:24:45,000 but we know who's boss around here. 595 00:24:45,867 --> 00:24:47,600 [laughing] 596 00:24:47,667 --> 00:24:50,867 Oh, you mean me? I'm so glad you know that. 597 00:24:50,867 --> 00:24:52,667 [both laughing] 598 00:24:52,667 --> 00:24:56,500 I have agreed to work pumpkin season this year. 599 00:24:56,567 --> 00:24:58,467 I mean, I... I will admit. 600 00:24:58,467 --> 00:25:01,667 It's not like I'm 100% jumping up and down for joy 601 00:25:01,667 --> 00:25:04,467 'cause I think I still have some personal 602 00:25:05,166 --> 00:25:06,667 emotions and thoughts 603 00:25:07,467 --> 00:25:09,967 behind, you know, the farm 604 00:25:09,967 --> 00:25:13,000 and what has gone down and everything. 605 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:14,408 I hope the kids come by and... 606 00:25:14,408 --> 00:25:15,000 I hope the kids come by and... 607 00:25:17,300 --> 00:25:18,700 -Bring the grandkids by... -You know, it's... 608 00:25:18,767 --> 00:25:21,000 ...just to kind of check it out and say hi. 609 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,300 [Amy] Yeah, we'll have to see. 610 00:25:23,166 --> 00:25:24,800 -We'll have to see. -[Chris] Yeah. 611 00:25:24,867 --> 00:25:26,600 No matter what, it'll be interesting. 612 00:25:26,667 --> 00:25:28,200 It's... There's a lot of changes. 613 00:25:28,266 --> 00:25:30,166 There's a lot of dynamics going on. [chuckles] 614 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,967 The farm will always be Roloff Farms. 615 00:25:32,967 --> 00:25:33,867 I mean, it's... 616 00:25:33,867 --> 00:25:35,333 The Roloffs grew up there. 617 00:25:35,367 --> 00:25:38,800 But I... There's a part of me that can definitely understand and see 618 00:25:38,867 --> 00:25:41,800 why not all the kids would be there. 619 00:25:41,867 --> 00:25:44,408 Because they don't consider it their farm anymore. 620 00:25:44,408 --> 00:25:44,667 Because they don't consider it their farm anymore. 621 00:25:44,667 --> 00:25:45,000 Maybe over time that will change depending on what happens to this farm, 622 00:25:47,867 --> 00:25:50,867 but I... I think at this very second, it's Matt's farm. 623 00:25:50,867 --> 00:25:52,367 It's their dad's farm. 624 00:25:52,367 --> 00:25:53,467 And it's sad. 625 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,166 {\an8}Coming up... 626 00:25:55,166 --> 00:25:56,667 {\an8}[Tori] These are super cute. 627 00:25:56,667 --> 00:25:57,700 {\an8}Can I pull these off? 628 00:25:57,767 --> 00:25:59,000 [Amy] I think so. 629 00:25:59,066 --> 00:26:00,467 This would be nice. 630 00:26:00,467 --> 00:26:01,734 It's see through! 631 00:26:01,734 --> 00:26:04,100 -[Amy] Oh yeah, but it's only like right here. -[gasping] 632 00:26:04,100 --> 00:26:06,467 Amy Roloff! 633 00:26:06,467 --> 00:26:07,300 What? 634 00:26:15,100 --> 00:26:16,467 {\an8}[Amy] Well, this'll be fun. 635 00:26:16,467 --> 00:26:18,767 [Tori] Wait, what are you looking for? Just for funsies? 636 00:26:18,767 --> 00:26:20,867 -Yeah, just for funsies and... -Okay. 637 00:26:20,867 --> 00:26:23,066 ...you know, I might, if I find a really neat dress 638 00:26:23,066 --> 00:26:25,467 for this wedding that I gotta go to. 639 00:26:25,467 --> 00:26:27,133 [Tori] Okay. 640 00:26:27,133 --> 00:26:29,867 I'm going shopping with Amy to help me find an outfit for date night. 641 00:26:29,867 --> 00:26:32,000 It's nice to just get out of the house 642 00:26:32,066 --> 00:26:35,200 and just go shopping for me, which doesn't happen a lot. 643 00:26:35,266 --> 00:26:36,867 I was telling Zach how me and Molly 644 00:26:36,867 --> 00:26:38,600 used to raid your closet. 645 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:39,734 -[Amy] Oh, yeah, all the time. -[Tori] Remember when all of us hung out at the farm? 646 00:26:39,734 --> 00:26:40,000 -[Amy] Oh, yeah, all the time. -[Tori] Remember when all of us hung out at the farm? 647 00:26:40,066 --> 00:26:42,000 [Amy] Molly took a lot. 648 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,767 It's definitely not as easy for me to just leave the house as it is for Zach. 649 00:26:45,767 --> 00:26:47,200 He just... 650 00:26:47,266 --> 00:26:49,767 Wallet, keys, phone, see ya. 651 00:26:49,767 --> 00:26:51,400 I have to make sure that there's, like, 652 00:26:51,467 --> 00:26:55,066 food at home for our children to eat before I can leave. 653 00:26:56,266 --> 00:26:58,967 But, when I left to go shopping with Amy, 654 00:26:58,967 --> 00:27:01,867 it was like, "Peace, Mom! We got Dad, we don't need you." 655 00:27:01,867 --> 00:27:02,867 See ya later. 656 00:27:02,867 --> 00:27:04,767 -[clerk] Hi, welcome. -Hi! 657 00:27:04,767 --> 00:27:06,767 -Yeah, hey, hi. How are you? -[clerk] How are ya? Good, thanks. 658 00:27:06,767 --> 00:27:08,266 [Tori] I kind of want to get a leather jacket, 659 00:27:08,266 --> 00:27:09,734 'cause I feel like Zach would freak. 660 00:27:09,734 --> 00:27:10,000 'cause I feel like Zach would freak. 661 00:27:11,266 --> 00:27:13,567 Ooh, these are super cute. 662 00:27:13,567 --> 00:27:14,600 Can I pull these off? 663 00:27:14,667 --> 00:27:15,867 [Amy] I think so. 664 00:27:15,867 --> 00:27:17,867 Well, see, that's the thing I love shopping with you. 665 00:27:17,867 --> 00:27:19,367 It's like, I look at all of this, 666 00:27:19,367 --> 00:27:21,400 and like, "Yeah, she can wear anything in this store." 667 00:27:21,467 --> 00:27:22,567 So could you. 668 00:27:22,567 --> 00:27:23,600 -Oh, God. -[Tori] You... Every time you try... 669 00:27:23,667 --> 00:27:24,767 Every time I've ever gone shopping, 670 00:27:24,767 --> 00:27:26,166 you're the one who makes out. 671 00:27:27,567 --> 00:27:29,567 Oh, yeah. Look at this jacket. 672 00:27:29,567 --> 00:27:31,500 -[Tori] Ooh! -Is this cool or what? 673 00:27:31,567 --> 00:27:32,567 I think I might get this. 674 00:27:32,567 --> 00:27:34,300 [gasping] This is this dress. 675 00:27:36,967 --> 00:27:39,734 A lot of the dresses that I buy are cocktail dresses 676 00:27:39,734 --> 00:27:40,000 A lot of the dresses that I buy are cocktail dresses 677 00:27:40,567 --> 00:27:42,767 or would come up to an average-sized person 678 00:27:42,767 --> 00:27:45,800 just slightly above the knees or a little bit more. 679 00:27:45,867 --> 00:27:49,667 For me, they come below the knee or mid-calf. 680 00:27:49,667 --> 00:27:51,066 And I'm like, perfect! 681 00:27:51,100 --> 00:27:54,166 I don't even have to do anything to this dress except put it on, 682 00:27:54,166 --> 00:27:55,767 and I get so excited over that. 683 00:27:57,166 --> 00:27:58,567 -Oh, how about this? -[Amy] This one? 684 00:27:58,567 --> 00:28:00,800 -Well, here we go. -[Amy] Oh, see this would be nice. 685 00:28:02,467 --> 00:28:04,100 -But it's too long. -It's see through! 686 00:28:04,100 --> 00:28:07,100 -[Amy] Oh yeah, but it's only, like, right here. -[gasping] 687 00:28:07,100 --> 00:28:09,000 -Amy Roloff! -[Amy laughing] 688 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:09,734 What? 689 00:28:09,734 --> 00:28:10,000 What? 690 00:28:10,567 --> 00:28:11,767 -Oh, look at this. -[Tori] See anything else? 691 00:28:11,767 --> 00:28:12,767 If this was longer... 692 00:28:12,767 --> 00:28:14,400 Ooh, I actually really like that. 693 00:28:14,467 --> 00:28:16,300 -[Amy] I do too. -[Tori] With, like, a tank top underneath? 694 00:28:16,367 --> 00:28:18,266 [Amy] Let me see what size this is. 695 00:28:18,266 --> 00:28:20,367 -[Amy] I like it. -[Tori] Are you trying it on? 696 00:28:21,066 --> 00:28:22,300 Why not? 697 00:28:22,300 --> 00:28:24,500 -Thank you. -[Tori] I want these jeans to work so bad, 698 00:28:24,567 --> 00:28:26,667 but I'm not a 31. 699 00:28:26,667 --> 00:28:28,967 Yeah, post-partum shopping for me is not fun. 700 00:28:28,967 --> 00:28:32,100 It's been hard to, like, dress myself differently 701 00:28:32,100 --> 00:28:36,300 just because, like, this time's very different than my first two. 702 00:28:36,367 --> 00:28:38,166 So, it hasn't been as fun. 703 00:28:38,166 --> 00:28:39,734 But I'm only, you know, four and a half months post-partum, 704 00:28:39,734 --> 00:28:40,000 But I'm only, you know, four and a half months post-partum, 705 00:28:40,667 --> 00:28:42,467 -so hopefully it'll get better. -Yeah. 706 00:28:42,467 --> 00:28:44,467 [Tori] Oh, my God. Okay! 707 00:28:44,467 --> 00:28:46,667 This is why I don't own a leather jacket. 708 00:28:46,667 --> 00:28:50,700 -I can't move! Oh, I can't... -[Amy] I like the pants, Tori. 709 00:28:50,767 --> 00:28:52,200 'Cause they're above your ankles, 710 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,000 -you got cute shoes, little booties... -[Tori] Mmm, I don't know... 711 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,367 -Okay. -[Amy] I'm not... I'm not digging the dress. 712 00:28:59,367 --> 00:29:00,667 [Tori] Okay, wait, yeah. Let me see this. 713 00:29:00,667 --> 00:29:02,367 -No, I'm not digging it. -[Tori] Too big? 714 00:29:02,367 --> 00:29:04,400 [Tori giggling] 715 00:29:04,467 --> 00:29:05,667 [Amy] Because I don't wanna take off the pants! 716 00:29:05,667 --> 00:29:06,567 {\an8}[Tori speaking] 717 00:29:06,567 --> 00:29:08,467 I actually really like that, though. 718 00:29:08,467 --> 00:29:09,734 Yeah, but it just feels... 719 00:29:09,734 --> 00:29:09,967 Yeah, but it just feels... 720 00:29:11,266 --> 00:29:13,200 [Tori] See, if it doesn't feel good you can't do it. 721 00:29:13,266 --> 00:29:14,700 [Amy] But, see, look at it, it... 722 00:29:14,767 --> 00:29:16,000 [Tori] Strike one. 723 00:29:17,100 --> 00:29:19,066 Flare jeans just aren't my thing. 724 00:29:19,066 --> 00:29:21,200 -[laughing] -[Amy] I thought they looked good. 725 00:29:21,266 --> 00:29:24,367 [Tori] Oh, what? Amy, who are you? 726 00:29:24,367 --> 00:29:26,066 That looks so good on you! 727 00:29:26,066 --> 00:29:28,500 -This girl... -[Amy] Where am I? 728 00:29:28,567 --> 00:29:31,000 [Tori] Who are you? I love that on you. 729 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,367 Yeah, where's the mirror? 730 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,200 -[Tori] That's so cute on you. -[Amy] I like it! 731 00:29:36,266 --> 00:29:37,266 [Tori] So good. 732 00:29:39,100 --> 00:29:39,734 It's not as cute on me as it is on you. 733 00:29:39,734 --> 00:29:40,000 It's not as cute on me as it is on you. 734 00:29:41,567 --> 00:29:43,166 -Obviously, I wouldn't wear it like this... -[Amy] Classy. 735 00:29:43,166 --> 00:29:45,767 -...but like, I would wear it underneath something. -Yeah, yeah. 736 00:29:46,266 --> 00:29:48,200 Super cute. 737 00:29:48,266 --> 00:29:50,367 [Amy] And the sleeves are a little long, but that's okay. 738 00:29:51,066 --> 00:29:53,300 {\an8}[Tori speaking] 739 00:29:53,367 --> 00:29:54,700 {\an8}-[Amy] You'll get there! -[Tori speaking] 740 00:29:54,767 --> 00:29:56,900 {\an8}-[Amy] You'll get there. -[Tori speaking] 741 00:29:57,900 --> 00:30:00,200 [Amy] You'll get there, sister. 742 00:30:00,266 --> 00:30:04,700 I'm definitely more motivated this time to, like, get back into shape. 743 00:30:04,767 --> 00:30:06,900 I think that there was like a lot before that I was like, 744 00:30:06,967 --> 00:30:08,367 "Well, I'm just gonna get pregnant again, 745 00:30:08,367 --> 00:30:09,734 and it's all gonna just... hit the fan anyways." 746 00:30:09,734 --> 00:30:10,000 and it's all gonna just... hit the fan anyways." 747 00:30:10,767 --> 00:30:11,800 So, like... 748 00:30:11,867 --> 00:30:13,400 I would love to lose some weight, 749 00:30:13,467 --> 00:30:15,400 but like, when you're wanting to have kids, 750 00:30:15,467 --> 00:30:17,867 I wanted to be healthy rather than be, like... 751 00:30:18,500 --> 00:30:20,100 ...you know, skinny. 752 00:30:20,100 --> 00:30:21,400 This time around, it is like, 753 00:30:21,467 --> 00:30:23,166 I am done having children. 754 00:30:23,166 --> 00:30:25,767 I am ready to, like, "Okay, now dieting 755 00:30:25,767 --> 00:30:29,900 and like exercise could be more of a forefront for myself." 756 00:30:29,967 --> 00:30:32,700 I mean, we could get matching shirts and matching earrings. 757 00:30:32,767 --> 00:30:36,066 -[Amy] Oh, that's for you? Is there another pair? -[Tori] No, this is for me. 758 00:30:36,066 --> 00:30:37,567 We didn't find exactly... 759 00:30:37,567 --> 00:30:38,867 -...what we wanted. -We didn't find what we wanted. 760 00:30:38,867 --> 00:30:39,734 Didn't get anything for a date. 761 00:30:39,734 --> 00:30:40,000 Didn't get anything for a date. 762 00:30:41,266 --> 00:30:43,000 -But we found other stuff. -[Amy] Yeah. 763 00:30:43,867 --> 00:30:45,400 [Tori] Thank you! 764 00:30:45,467 --> 00:30:47,467 -Okay, dinner is to the left. -[Amy] Is it? 765 00:30:55,367 --> 00:30:56,767 [Tori] Ooh. 766 00:30:56,767 --> 00:30:58,967 I am, like, scared this is gonna be too spicy. 767 00:30:58,967 --> 00:31:01,166 Now, do you stick this whole thing in your mouth? 768 00:31:02,266 --> 00:31:03,467 I don't know if I can! 769 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,200 Good job, girl. 770 00:31:09,266 --> 00:31:09,734 -That's really good. -[Amy] Mmm-hmm. 771 00:31:09,734 --> 00:31:10,000 -That's really good. -[Amy] Mmm-hmm. 772 00:31:11,500 --> 00:31:12,867 It just feels... 773 00:31:12,867 --> 00:31:15,100 And it's different with girlfriends, or, of course, 774 00:31:15,166 --> 00:31:16,700 my lovely daughter-in-law here. 775 00:31:16,767 --> 00:31:19,100 Girls and women, they... 776 00:31:19,166 --> 00:31:22,467 {\an8}They just know how to chit chat and talk, and... 777 00:31:22,467 --> 00:31:24,200 And they enjoy what they're doing, 778 00:31:24,266 --> 00:31:26,300 whereas sometimes going with your spouse, 779 00:31:26,367 --> 00:31:29,100 it's like an ordeal for them or something. 780 00:31:29,100 --> 00:31:30,266 I don't know. 781 00:31:30,266 --> 00:31:31,700 It's better if you... 782 00:31:31,767 --> 00:31:32,867 ...with this stuff. 783 00:31:32,867 --> 00:31:34,567 -Oh, is it? -Yeah. 784 00:31:34,567 --> 00:31:36,367 That, honestly, was the best part of the whole day, 785 00:31:36,367 --> 00:31:39,100 is we got to eat sushi, which I never get to eat sushi, 786 00:31:39,100 --> 00:31:39,734 because my family doesn't like it. 787 00:31:39,734 --> 00:31:40,000 because my family doesn't like it. 788 00:31:40,667 --> 00:31:43,667 And then with Josiah, sleep training... 789 00:31:43,667 --> 00:31:46,300 It's been a week of misery, and so it was nice! 790 00:31:46,367 --> 00:31:49,500 So it was nice hanging out with Amy and having that one-on-one time with her. 791 00:31:49,567 --> 00:31:51,166 I remember one time you and I... 792 00:31:51,867 --> 00:31:53,867 ...it was me, you, Molly... 793 00:31:53,867 --> 00:31:55,000 It was New Year's Day! 794 00:31:55,066 --> 00:31:56,200 Like, oh, my gosh. 795 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,100 -And we all went shopping the next day. -Oh, yeah. 796 00:31:58,166 --> 00:32:00,667 -We were all so hungover. -Oh, yeah, we were like... 797 00:32:00,667 --> 00:32:02,300 -[groaning] -[Tori] Yeah. 798 00:32:02,367 --> 00:32:03,667 -[Amy] Oh, wow. -That's like one of my most 799 00:32:03,667 --> 00:32:05,767 -memorable shopping trips with you for some reason. -Oh, yeah. 800 00:32:05,767 --> 00:32:08,000 [Amy] When Zach first met Tori and everything, 801 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,567 occasionally we would go shopping, 802 00:32:09,567 --> 00:32:09,734 we would go out to eat, have a drink. 803 00:32:09,734 --> 00:32:10,000 we would go out to eat, have a drink. 804 00:32:11,667 --> 00:32:14,100 A lot of times Molly, when she was still in town, 805 00:32:14,166 --> 00:32:15,700 would be there with us. 806 00:32:15,767 --> 00:32:18,767 I... I just thought that was the coolest thing, 807 00:32:18,767 --> 00:32:20,000 'cause it's like... 808 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,467 You hear all these stories about other mother-in-laws 809 00:32:22,467 --> 00:32:24,100 saying, "Yeah, my daughter-in-law..." 810 00:32:24,166 --> 00:32:25,800 you know, or, the daughter-in-law saying, 811 00:32:25,867 --> 00:32:28,367 "Yeah, my mother-in-law..." and I... 812 00:32:28,367 --> 00:32:32,300 I'm just really grateful for the relationship 813 00:32:32,367 --> 00:32:35,100 and the rapport that I have with all my daughter-in-laws. 814 00:32:35,166 --> 00:32:37,367 Um, and I'm just so appreciative 815 00:32:37,367 --> 00:32:39,734 and thankful for the relationship that I have with Tori. 816 00:32:39,734 --> 00:32:40,000 and thankful for the relationship that I have with Tori. 817 00:32:40,166 --> 00:32:41,300 Gosh, this is good. 818 00:32:41,300 --> 00:32:43,500 You know what? I am so glad you suggested this. 819 00:32:45,967 --> 00:32:48,200 -This is fantastic! -Mmm-hmm, that's really nice. 820 00:32:49,767 --> 00:32:51,700 Okay, so you're doing pumpkin season this year? 821 00:32:59,266 --> 00:33:00,600 You know what, it... 822 00:33:00,667 --> 00:33:02,467 It like... I mean... 823 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,166 Oh, boy. 824 00:33:14,467 --> 00:33:16,200 So, you're doing pumpkin season this year? 825 00:33:19,166 --> 00:33:20,300 -Are you? -[Amy] How convenient. 826 00:33:21,667 --> 00:33:24,166 Oh, you can't talk. Oh, sorry. 827 00:33:24,166 --> 00:33:28,066 So yeah. I... I debated, like... I mean... 828 00:33:28,066 --> 00:33:29,667 In the beginning, I was like, 829 00:33:29,667 --> 00:33:31,667 "Oh, my God. What are my kids gonna think?" 830 00:33:31,667 --> 00:33:32,867 People are gonna say, you know, 831 00:33:32,867 --> 00:33:34,000 him and all, why... 832 00:33:35,066 --> 00:33:38,367 But yeah, I'm doing pumpkin season this year. 833 00:33:38,367 --> 00:33:39,112 And it's so funny, because a lot of people ask me, 834 00:33:39,112 --> 00:33:40,000 And it's so funny, because a lot of people ask me, 835 00:33:40,967 --> 00:33:42,266 "Well, where are the kids? Where are the kids?" 836 00:33:42,266 --> 00:33:43,500 I said, "You know what?" 837 00:33:43,567 --> 00:33:44,900 And I think that... well, the thing is, 838 00:33:44,967 --> 00:33:45,900 I think of myself, 839 00:33:45,967 --> 00:33:47,600 it's your season of life right now, 840 00:33:47,667 --> 00:33:49,700 and I said, "Well, you know, if they come they come." 841 00:33:49,767 --> 00:33:52,600 -But I'm not expecting that. -[Tori] Right. 842 00:33:52,667 --> 00:33:54,867 I could see Zachary maybe taking Jackson, 843 00:33:54,867 --> 00:33:57,567 but I will not be going to pumpkin season this year. 844 00:33:57,567 --> 00:33:58,934 -We've already like... -[Amy] No... 845 00:33:58,934 --> 00:34:01,266 -...we're doing our own tradition for harvest... -[Amy] Yeah. 846 00:34:01,266 --> 00:34:02,367 ...and all that this year, you know? 847 00:34:02,367 --> 00:34:03,767 Like, it's just... 848 00:34:03,767 --> 00:34:05,867 I don't... I don't need to be a part of it. 849 00:34:05,867 --> 00:34:09,112 It's a sad place to me now, and I don't need to, like, 850 00:34:09,112 --> 00:34:09,467 It's a sad place to me now, and I don't need to, like, 851 00:34:09,467 --> 00:34:10,000 go to a sad place. 852 00:34:10,767 --> 00:34:12,700 That's just not healthy, so... 853 00:34:12,767 --> 00:34:14,166 It's still sad for me to go there, 854 00:34:14,166 --> 00:34:17,100 -'cause I'm thinking what this could've been. -Yeah. 855 00:34:17,867 --> 00:34:19,367 Things have changed, you know. 856 00:34:19,367 --> 00:34:21,266 -The place is up for sale... -[Tori] Right. 857 00:34:21,266 --> 00:34:23,367 It's just different. It's... It's like... 858 00:34:23,367 --> 00:34:25,767 -I don't even know this place anymore! -Right. 859 00:34:25,767 --> 00:34:28,166 [Amy] And then of course, you know... 860 00:34:28,166 --> 00:34:30,100 The whole thing between Matt and Chris, 861 00:34:30,166 --> 00:34:31,867 I'm like, oh brothers. 862 00:34:31,867 --> 00:34:33,400 -Their little bromance? -[Amy] And... yeah. 863 00:34:33,467 --> 00:34:35,100 [Tori] Are you okay with that? 864 00:34:35,100 --> 00:34:37,066 The one thing I told myself Tori, it's like, 865 00:34:37,066 --> 00:34:39,112 I bring a lot of baggage, and he's never been married, he doesn't have kids. 866 00:34:39,112 --> 00:34:40,000 I bring a lot of baggage, and he's never been married, he doesn't have kids. 867 00:34:40,967 --> 00:34:42,100 Zach and I have talked about it, though. 868 00:34:42,166 --> 00:34:44,900 We, like, worry about you... sometimes. 869 00:34:44,967 --> 00:34:46,200 And it's just like, we wanna make sure... 870 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:47,600 -Aw, my kids... -[Tori] ...that you're like, uh, yeah! 871 00:34:47,667 --> 00:34:49,000 Like that you're comfortable there, 872 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:49,867 and that like... 873 00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,033 ...you know. 874 00:34:52,033 --> 00:34:53,467 -'Cause we have such an emotional, like... -[Amy] Well, mmm-hmm. 875 00:34:53,467 --> 00:34:54,767 ...issue with it right now, that like, 876 00:34:54,767 --> 00:34:57,300 I can't even imagine where your headspace is at. 877 00:34:57,367 --> 00:34:58,767 -It's so funny... -[Tori] And we love that, like, 878 00:34:58,767 --> 00:35:01,166 Chris gets along with Matt, but we also just, like... 879 00:35:02,100 --> 00:35:04,667 -[Amy] Oh, yeah. -Hope he recognizes, like... 880 00:35:04,667 --> 00:35:06,767 -[Amy] No. -...the lines, I guess. 881 00:35:06,767 --> 00:35:08,767 [Amy] Tori told me that her and Zach 882 00:35:08,767 --> 00:35:09,112 were just worried about me and, 883 00:35:09,112 --> 00:35:10,000 were just worried about me and, 884 00:35:10,667 --> 00:35:12,900 I think it might've been the first time 885 00:35:12,967 --> 00:35:15,300 that I've heard it so directly... 886 00:35:15,367 --> 00:35:16,667 ...from any of my kids. 887 00:35:16,667 --> 00:35:19,667 And I really wanted to try and not to be on the defense. 888 00:35:19,667 --> 00:35:24,000 This was really about love and concern for me. 889 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,000 So, there's a part of me that felt glad 890 00:35:26,066 --> 00:35:28,367 that they were... were thinking about that. 891 00:35:28,367 --> 00:35:33,400 I... I try to do really good at the absolutes. 892 00:35:33,467 --> 00:35:36,000 There's a lot going on here, and I've got a lot of history, 893 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,567 -and it doesn't work for me. -[Tori] Right. 894 00:35:37,567 --> 00:35:39,112 The... The stage of life that I'm in, 895 00:35:39,112 --> 00:35:40,000 The... The stage of life that I'm in, 896 00:35:40,266 --> 00:35:43,467 um, I... I think I'm able to give Chris a place 897 00:35:43,467 --> 00:35:46,567 to be heard, and also he does the same for me. 898 00:35:46,567 --> 00:35:49,667 But with Matt, everything was happening and chaotic, 899 00:35:49,667 --> 00:35:53,367 keep moving, I think, you know, you lose the fact 900 00:35:53,367 --> 00:35:55,000 that you didn't give each other 901 00:35:55,066 --> 00:35:58,100 what you really need in a relationship. 902 00:35:58,100 --> 00:36:00,800 I think we all saw how, like, devastated you were, 903 00:36:00,867 --> 00:36:02,500 -that it didn't work out. -[Amy] Oh, but I... 904 00:36:02,567 --> 00:36:04,000 I like marriage. 905 00:36:04,066 --> 00:36:06,000 Like, I... the whole concept of it. 906 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,700 -And... and it should last a lifetime, you know? -[Tori] Right. 907 00:36:08,767 --> 00:36:09,112 [Amy] But I... I had to contain myself, 908 00:36:09,112 --> 00:36:10,000 [Amy] But I... I had to contain myself, 909 00:36:10,667 --> 00:36:14,066 because it's like, I... I gotta handle myself in a way, 910 00:36:14,066 --> 00:36:16,000 that not only can I be proud of myself, 911 00:36:16,066 --> 00:36:17,667 -but also... -But you also had kids. 912 00:36:17,667 --> 00:36:19,367 -And you had a young kid with Jacob, like... -[Amy] But I also had kids. 913 00:36:19,367 --> 00:36:20,567 Yeah. 914 00:36:20,567 --> 00:36:22,500 Divorce was hard on me. 915 00:36:22,567 --> 00:36:27,000 And I realize how much it played on me, 916 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:32,367 and how close I could've been destroyed. 917 00:36:32,367 --> 00:36:37,567 Internally, emotionally, mentally, and... 918 00:36:37,567 --> 00:36:39,112 I think I came away from divorce being proud of the fact that... 919 00:36:39,112 --> 00:36:40,000 I think I came away from divorce being proud of the fact that... 920 00:36:41,767 --> 00:36:43,300 ...I had something to stand on, 921 00:36:43,367 --> 00:36:45,166 and that was my faith... 922 00:36:46,266 --> 00:36:48,266 ...it was being a mom... 923 00:36:48,266 --> 00:36:52,767 ...because I cannot let myself go there... 924 00:36:52,767 --> 00:36:55,367 ...knowing that I've got four kids to still be here for. 925 00:36:55,367 --> 00:36:58,300 So they gave me a purpose, they gave me a reason. 926 00:36:58,367 --> 00:37:01,567 And... they will always be, till... 927 00:37:01,567 --> 00:37:03,166 [choked up sigh] 928 00:37:08,100 --> 00:37:09,112 In... In a lot of ways, um, my kids were my saving grace. 929 00:37:09,112 --> 00:37:10,000 In... In a lot of ways, um, my kids were my saving grace. 930 00:37:11,767 --> 00:37:15,066 I just hope I was a good... good enough mom for them. 931 00:37:15,066 --> 00:37:17,767 But seeing who they are now, seeing... 932 00:37:17,767 --> 00:37:20,300 ...who they're becoming, and... 933 00:37:20,367 --> 00:37:23,000 ...family life, they're married, they've got... 934 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:26,567 They've chosen good people, and... and you know, 935 00:37:26,567 --> 00:37:27,800 that makes me happy. 936 00:37:28,967 --> 00:37:31,967 My hope is that one day, it's never gonna be the same, 937 00:37:31,967 --> 00:37:34,467 obviously we all know that... 938 00:37:34,467 --> 00:37:38,767 ...but maybe one day, Zachary and his dad... 939 00:37:38,767 --> 00:37:39,112 ...can reconcile to the point where whatever. 940 00:37:39,112 --> 00:37:40,000 ...can reconcile to the point where whatever. 941 00:37:41,967 --> 00:37:44,467 -So to me, that is what I hope. -I think especially with 942 00:37:44,467 --> 00:37:46,867 -the farm leaving the situation... -[Amy] Yeah. 943 00:37:46,867 --> 00:37:48,367 ...I think that will help everyone 944 00:37:48,367 --> 00:37:50,000 -in the long run. -Well, we'll see if it even sells. 945 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,066 Mmm-hmm. 946 00:37:51,066 --> 00:37:52,800 I would prefer for the farm to go away. 947 00:37:52,867 --> 00:37:56,166 Yeah, I think it would just be a lot easier on our family, personally. 948 00:37:56,166 --> 00:38:00,800 Instead of it just still constantly being dangled in front of everyone. 949 00:38:00,867 --> 00:38:05,166 I think that there's been a lot more damage than just selling the farm. 950 00:38:05,166 --> 00:38:07,300 And so, the farm disappearing tomorrow 951 00:38:07,367 --> 00:38:09,112 doesn't... fix the relationship between us, 952 00:38:09,112 --> 00:38:10,000 doesn't... fix the relationship between us, 953 00:38:11,066 --> 00:38:14,100 and Matt and Caryn. 954 00:38:14,166 --> 00:38:19,100 I don't know if I could, like, pinpoint what's gonna mend the relationship. 955 00:38:19,166 --> 00:38:20,567 Time, hopefully? 956 00:38:22,300 --> 00:38:24,967 -Sister, girl, this was so fun! -[Tori] This was. 957 00:38:24,967 --> 00:38:27,667 This was exactly what I needed. 958 00:38:33,367 --> 00:38:36,367 [Caryn] You can see a little bit of fall in the trees now. 959 00:38:36,367 --> 00:38:38,266 [Matt] Yeah, a little bit of fall, right? 960 00:38:39,166 --> 00:38:40,000 [Caryn] Come here, you! 961 00:38:40,066 --> 00:38:40,967 [Lucy barking] 962 00:38:41,900 --> 00:38:43,266 [Caryn] Hey, what's the matter, you? 963 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,767 -[Matt] Well, let's go check it out. -[Caryn] Okay. 964 00:38:48,767 --> 00:38:50,867 -Lucy, go on. -[Matt] Lucy, go out, go out. 965 00:38:50,867 --> 00:38:52,100 You're not allowed in here. 966 00:38:54,166 --> 00:38:56,400 Wow, it's empty again! 967 00:38:56,467 --> 00:38:57,600 Yup! Isn't that funny? 968 00:38:57,667 --> 00:39:01,100 The staging was so beautiful, but I know you... 969 00:39:01,166 --> 00:39:04,100 With no buyers, you can't just keep it... 970 00:39:04,166 --> 00:39:07,100 -[Matt] Yeah. -...staged forever. 971 00:39:07,166 --> 00:39:08,300 [Matt] Today we're in the big house. 972 00:39:08,300 --> 00:39:09,112 They've just pulled all the staging back out. 973 00:39:09,112 --> 00:39:10,000 They've just pulled all the staging back out. 974 00:39:10,967 --> 00:39:12,867 That's rental stuff. 975 00:39:12,867 --> 00:39:16,200 We already have pictures and the videos of inside, 976 00:39:16,266 --> 00:39:18,266 so we don't need we need to pay for it any... 977 00:39:18,266 --> 00:39:20,900 You pay for it monthly. It's a big nut! 978 00:39:20,967 --> 00:39:25,266 Um, and also 'cause the economy isn't looking 979 00:39:25,266 --> 00:39:28,166 like it's gonna turn and do anything really good, 980 00:39:28,166 --> 00:39:30,100 and it's... we're going into winter. 981 00:39:30,166 --> 00:39:31,767 You know, houses in this area on a farm, 982 00:39:31,767 --> 00:39:35,600 they're gonna be more apt to sell during the... spring and summer. 983 00:39:35,667 --> 00:39:38,100 So we kind of put it in the background for now, 984 00:39:38,166 --> 00:39:39,112 focus on the pumpkin season, and focus on what the next step 985 00:39:39,112 --> 00:39:40,000 focus on the pumpkin season, and focus on what the next step 986 00:39:41,667 --> 00:39:43,867 with the big house would be. 987 00:39:43,867 --> 00:39:47,400 So you said you had a big plan B. 988 00:39:47,467 --> 00:39:49,033 -[Matt] Mmm-hmm. -Do tell. 989 00:39:49,033 --> 00:39:52,200 [Matt] You know, occasionally, even Matt Roloff's thick skull, 990 00:39:52,266 --> 00:39:54,567 you know, you feel like you get hit in the head with a hammer 991 00:39:54,567 --> 00:39:55,467 and it wakes you up. 992 00:39:55,467 --> 00:39:58,900 It's time to listen... 993 00:39:58,967 --> 00:40:01,767 ...to the hammer hitting the side of my skull, 994 00:40:01,767 --> 00:40:03,867 and possibly going in a different direction. 995 00:40:05,100 --> 00:40:07,266 I'm really kicking around my plan B. 996 00:40:07,266 --> 00:40:09,112 [Caryn] Are you thinking about taking it off the market, then? 997 00:40:09,112 --> 00:40:10,000 [Caryn] Are you thinking about taking it off the market, then? 998 00:40:11,867 --> 00:40:13,367 [Matt sighing] Um... 999 00:40:13,367 --> 00:40:14,266 Maybe. 1000 00:40:14,300 --> 00:40:16,100 There's been a couple of close calls, 1001 00:40:16,100 --> 00:40:18,667 but I'm not saying, you know, that's, uh, imminent. 1002 00:40:18,667 --> 00:40:23,166 I think high-end real estate market has totally taken a tank. 1003 00:40:23,166 --> 00:40:25,367 Yeah, and you know, interest rates are going up again. 1004 00:40:25,367 --> 00:40:27,967 -[Matt] Yup, yeah. -So, it doesn't look like there's... 1005 00:40:27,967 --> 00:40:30,000 -...anything on the horizon. -[Matt] Right. 1006 00:40:30,066 --> 00:40:31,567 Isn't anything that I... anything, uh, 1007 00:40:31,567 --> 00:40:34,500 gonna happen anytime real soon, I don't think. 1008 00:40:34,567 --> 00:40:37,567 The farm sale, there's a lot of things that I don't, you know, 1009 00:40:37,567 --> 00:40:39,112 have any control or influence on. 1010 00:40:39,112 --> 00:40:40,000 have any control or influence on. 1011 00:40:40,467 --> 00:40:43,900 I think some of it I expected, some of it's a little bit of a surprise, 1012 00:40:43,967 --> 00:40:46,266 but I'm rolling with the punches, 1013 00:40:46,266 --> 00:40:49,600 and trying to deal with the... the wave of... 1014 00:40:49,667 --> 00:40:52,800 which... you know, which way the wind is blowing on different things. 1015 00:40:52,867 --> 00:40:55,800 It's hard to celebrate something when you wanna go one way, 1016 00:40:55,867 --> 00:40:58,100 and it, you know, blows you in a different direction. 1017 00:40:58,100 --> 00:41:02,200 But I'm looking at, "Oh, how can I turn this into an opportunity?" 1018 00:41:03,367 --> 00:41:05,600 Yeah, I'm gonna move to plan B now. 1019 00:41:06,867 --> 00:41:09,112 I know that this decision may shock some people, 1020 00:41:09,112 --> 00:41:09,467 I know that this decision may shock some people, 1021 00:41:09,467 --> 00:41:10,000 but I have to keep things moving forward. 1022 00:41:11,767 --> 00:41:14,000 It's a huge decision. 1023 00:41:14,867 --> 00:41:16,200 But something's gotta change. 1024 00:41:19,266 --> 00:41:21,166 {\an8}[narrator] Next, on Little People, Big World. 1025 00:41:21,166 --> 00:41:23,100 {\an8}Cheers to date night. 1026 00:41:23,166 --> 00:41:26,000 Sleep training is tough, but I think we're coming out of it. 1027 00:41:26,066 --> 00:41:27,100 Yeah. 1028 00:41:29,166 --> 00:41:31,000 All right, you're upset with me or something? 1029 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,000 I do feel underappreciated. 1030 00:41:33,066 --> 00:41:35,000 You've been doing great with Josiah... 1031 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,600 It would just be nice to hear it. 1032 00:41:36,667 --> 00:41:38,400 [Zach] Like, I just don't say it every day. 1033 00:41:38,467 --> 00:41:39,112 Obviously, I appreciate you. 1034 00:41:39,112 --> 00:41:39,800 Obviously, I appreciate you. 1035 00:41:39,867 --> 00:41:40,000 See, that's where relationships go south. 1036 00:41:41,767 --> 00:41:42,767 If I'm not being critical... 1037 00:41:42,767 --> 00:41:45,500 Assuming makes an ass out of you and me. 1038 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:47,767 [Tori chuckling] 1039 00:41:47,767 --> 00:41:49,066 Excellent, good job. 1040 00:41:49,066 --> 00:41:50,467 -I like the salad a lot. -Mmm-hmm. 1041 00:41:51,367 --> 00:41:52,667 [Zach] Are you tour guiding? 1042 00:41:52,667 --> 00:41:56,900 Matt opened up that he might want to do private tours. 1043 00:41:56,967 --> 00:41:58,667 Are you... still not? 1044 00:41:58,667 --> 00:42:00,166 -Oh, yeah. No. -[Chris] No? 1045 00:42:00,166 --> 00:42:02,900 {\an8}Would you hold it against me if I did? 1046 00:42:02,967 --> 00:42:05,300 {\an8}[Zach] You know, my dad bringing back private tours, 1047 00:42:05,367 --> 00:42:09,112 {\an8}trying to sell it off like it's the same thing, as me doing private tours, 1048 00:42:09,112 --> 00:42:09,667 {\an8}trying to sell it off like it's the same thing, as me doing private tours, 1049 00:42:09,667 --> 00:42:10,000 {\an8}it's like, whatever. 1050 00:42:12,100 --> 00:42:15,467 {\an8}Are you gonna tell everybody about... that you're switching gears? 1051 00:42:15,467 --> 00:42:16,800 {\an8}Are you just gonna do it, or... 1052 00:42:16,867 --> 00:42:18,166 {\an8}No, I'm gonna tell everybody. 1053 00:42:18,166 --> 00:42:19,767 {\an8}I just, you know, wanna wait till it's official. 1054 00:42:19,767 --> 00:42:22,467 {\an8}I mean, I'm still in the decision process. 1055 00:42:22,467 --> 00:42:24,400 {\an8}I'm not worried about what everybody else thinks. 1056 00:42:24,467 --> 00:42:26,900 {\an8}I mean, I have no idea what their reaction might be.