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Man:
PREVIOUSLY ON
"IN TREATMENT"...

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AMY'S BEEN TRYING
TO REACH OUT TO ME
THIS WEEK

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AND MAKE IT ALL OKAY,
THE WHOLE BEN THING,

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BUT HOW CAN YOU MAKE UP
FOR SOMETHING LIKE THAT?

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I DON'T HAVE THAT MANY PEOPLE
TO TALK TO RIGHT NOW.

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I'M SCARED SHITLESS
OF LOSING LENNY IN SOME
CUSTODY BATTLE.

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AMY'S--
SHE'S DAMAGED, PAUL.

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SHE'S FUCKED UP.

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THE LAST TIME
YOU WERE HERE,

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YOU IMPLIED
THAT YOU HAD FALLEN
OUT OF LOVE WITH AMY.

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WOULD YOU STILL SAY
THAT'S TRUE?

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I DON'T KNOW.
HOW WOULD I KNOW?
WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE?

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I'VE ONLY EVER BEEN IN LOVE
WITH ONE GIRL-- HER.

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I'VE NEVER FALLEN OUT OF LOVE.
TELL ME WHAT IT FEELS LIKE

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AND I'LL TELL YOU
IF I'M FEELING IT.

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- HELLO, AMY.
- Jake: HEY, PAUL.

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HI, JAKE.
COME ON IN.

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- YOU'RE LOOKING WELL.
- THANK YOU.

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YOU KNOW, I'M ACTUALLY
GONNA MISS THIS OFFICE.

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I LIKE THE FEEL OF IT.
I LIKE THE CLUTTER.

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REALLY?
WHAT DO YOU MEAN,
YOU'RE GONNA MISS IT?

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( sighs )
IT'S OUR LAST SESSION.

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WE'RE GETTING A DIVORCE--
FOR REAL THIS TIME.

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I AM SORRY TO HEAR THAT.

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Jake:
IT'S BECAUSE OF YOU,
ACTUALLY.

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WELL, NOT REALLY YOU.
IT'S BECAUSE OF THERAPY.

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THERAPY DID US GOOD.

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WOULD YOU AGREE
WITH THAT, AMY?

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SURE, IF BY "GOOD,"
HE MEANS, "IT WAS A DISASTER."

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( theme music playing )

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YOU EVER BEEN
THROUGH A DIVORCE, PAUL?

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NO, I HAVEN'T.

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IT'S NOT FOR SISSIES.

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EVEN WHEN YOU WANT IT
MORE THAN ANYTHING,

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IT TURNS INTO THIS SPIRAL
OF UNCERTAINTY AND PAIN

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AND YOU BURY
A PART OF YOURSELF.

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( clears throat )
WELL, MAYBE WE SHOULD BEGIN

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WITH JUST...

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RECAPPING THE LAST WEEK.
HOW'S IT BEEN?

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WELL, WE BARELY
SAW EACH OTHER ALL WEEK.

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THAT WAS JAKE'S IDEA.
HE WANTED TO SEE HOW
IT WOULD FEEL.

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AND?

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IT FELT OKAY.

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BETTER THAN I EXPECTED.

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- AMY?
- OH SURE.

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MY WEEK WAS
LIGHT AND BREEZY.

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WOULD YOU MIND
TALKING ABOUT IT?

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YES, I DO MIND TALKING
ABOUT IT BECAUSE EVERY TIME
I TELL YOU ABOUT MY WEEK,

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YOU FIND A WAY TO MAKE ME
FEEL MISERABLE,

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TO MAKE MY CHILDHOOD
SEEM LIKE A NIGHTMARE,

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TO MAKE MY MARRIAGE
LOOK LIKE A SHAM,
SO SORRY, FORGIVE ME,

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BUT I'M ACTUALLY THROUGH
TALKING ABOUT MY WEEK.

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- COME ON, THAT'S NOT
WHAT HAPPENED HERE.
- MAYBE NOT FOR YOU.

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WE CAME IN MISERABLE.
WE COULDN'T TALK
TO EACH OTHER.

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ALL WE COULD DO WAS FUCK.

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YOU KNOW?
FUCK AND FIGHT.

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TSCH.
AND NOW, I--

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I DON'T KNOW.
I'M FEELING...

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- WHAT?
- ...WHAT PAUL SAYS
HE'S SEEING--

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YOU KNOW, WHAT WE DO
TO EACH OTHER,

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HOW WE BRING OUT
THE WORST IN EACH OTHER.

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I CAN'T SPEAK
FOR YOU, BUT I--

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( sighs )

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I'M FEELING BETTER
THIS WEEK.

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BETTER THAN I'VE FELT
IN A LONG TIME.

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WHY CAN'T YOU
SPEAK FOR ME?

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UH... BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T
SEEN EACH OTHER ALL WEEK.

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WHOSE IDEA WAS THAT?

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- WELL, WE BOTH AGREED THAT--
- NO, I DIDN'T AGREE.

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Jake:
I THOUGHT YOU SAID
IT WAS A GOOD IDEA.

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I WAS TRYING TO BE
ACCOMMODATING.

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AND, WAIT, YOU CAN'T
SPEAK FOR ME?

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THERE WAS A TIME
WHEN YOU WOULD HAVE SPOKEN
FOR ME IN A HEARTBEAT,

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A TIME WHEN YOU KNEW
EVERY THOUGHT IN MY HEAD.

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I WANTED IT TO BE TRUE,
BUT IT NEVER WAS.

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AND HOW WOULD YOU KNOW THAT?
IT'S MY HEAD.

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DID YOU KNOW I HEARD
YOU PLAY THIS WEEK?

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WHAT ARE YOU
TALKING ABOUT?

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- WHERE?
- AT ELLIOT'S HOUSE
ON FRIDAY NIGHT.

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YOU WERE AT ELLIOT'S?
WHEN?

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WELL, NOT EXACTLY.
I WAS ON ELLIOT'S STREET.

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I COULD HEAR YOU PLAYING
FROM SITTING IN MY CAR.

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YOU WERE ACTUALLY
QUITE GOOD.

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Jake:
THAT'S INSANE.
THIS WAS FRIDAY NIGHT?

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- MM-HMM.
- WHERE WAS LENNY?

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HOME WITH A SITTER.
I WAS GONNA SURPRISE YOU.

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I WAS GONNA RING
THE DOORBELL AND COME INSIDE

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AND SAY-- ACTUALLY
I WAS HOPING I WOULDN'T
HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING.

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I WAS HOPING YOU'D
JUST GRAB ME BEFORE
I GOT TO THAT PART.

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- YOU NEVER CAME IN.
- NO.

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Jake:
WHY NOT?

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BECAUSE OF PAUL.

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BECAUSE OF EVERYTHING
THAT WE'VE SAID TO
EACH OTHER HERE.

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BECAUSE
I COULDN'T REMEMBER

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HOW WE USED TO MAKE UP
BEFORE WE CAME TO PAUL.

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WE USED TO HAVE SEX.
THAT'S HOW WE USED
TO MAKE UP.

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I'M SO SORRY I EVER
SUGGESTED COMING HERE.

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I JUST WISH
WE'D NEVER DONE IT.

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AMY, YOU SAID THAT
YOU SEE OUR WORK HERE
AS BEING A FAILURE.

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- WHY DO YOU THINK THAT?
- BECAUSE IT IS.

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BEEN COMING TO YOU
FOR MONTHS

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AND IT'S ONLY GOTTEN
WORSE BETWEEN US.

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JAKE, HOW DO YOU
SEE THE...

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THE THERAPY?
DO YOU SEE IT AS A SUCCESS?

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WELL, I THINK
IT'S A LITTLE BIT MORE
COMPLICATED THAN THAT.

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- IN WHAT WAY?
- I'M JUST--
I DON'T KNOW.

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I THINK I'M GETTING IT
MORE NOW--

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WHY WE CAN'T CONTROL
OUR DYNAMIC,

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WHY WE TRIGGER EACH OTHER'S
WORST INSTINCTS.

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AND, I DON'T KNOW,
IT FEELS GOOD TO ME.

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I MEAN, IT FEELS AWFUL,
OF COURSE,

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BUT IT FEELS GOOD
THAT IT'S MAKING MORE SENSE.

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YOU KNOW?
LIKE, IT'S NOT ME,
IT'S NOT HER, IT'S US.

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IT SEEMS TO ME
THAT IT'S FINALLY CLEAR

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THAT YOU BOTH HAVE TWO
RADICALLY DIFFERENT IDEAS

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OF WHAT A RELATIONSHIP
FUNDAMENTALLY IS.

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AMY, YOU THINK THINGS ARE
FALLING APART, YET THE WORST
IS GONNA COME.

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JAKE, YOU SEE THINGS
AS COMING TOGETHER,

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THAT THE FUTURE IS
BRIGHTER THAN THE PAST.

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YOU'RE EVALUATING
OUR ENTIRE BEINGS

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BASED ON THE WAY THAT
WE BEHAVE AT THE MOMENT
WE'RE GETTING DIVORCED?

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- THAT'S RIDICULOUS.
- THERE IS A THEORY

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THAT SAYS THE WAY
A PERSON HANDLES ONE THING

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IS THE WAY
THEY HANDLE EVERYTHING.

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AND... I GUESS
WHAT I'M TRYING TO DO
IS TAKE INTO ACCOUNT

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THE WHOLE HISTORY
OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

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I DO REMEMBER, AMY,
THAT IT WAS SEX

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THAT FIRST ATTRACTED YOU
TO EACH OTHER.

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AND YOUR FIRST ENCOUNTERS
YOU DESCRIBED

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AS "MESSY, BUT REALLY
REALLY POWERFUL."

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AND THEN YOU GOT PREGNANT,
WHICH YOU HADN'T PLANNED,

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AND THEN YOU GOT MARRIED.

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BY THEN YOU'D BEGUN
TO FALL INTO THE PATTERNS

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OF PROVOKING EACH OTHER.

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AMY, YOU MENTIONED
HOW DEPRESSED YOU WERE
WHEN LENNY WAS BORN.

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DO YOU REMEMBER THAT?

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DO YOU REMEMBER WHY?

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I FELT LIKE THE WORLD
WAS A TERRIBLE PLACE

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AND IT WAS WRONG
TO BRING A CHILD INTO IT.

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AND WHAT ABOUT YOU, JAKE?

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WHAT DO YOU REMEMBER FEELING
WHEN LENNY WAS BORN?

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I FELT PURE...

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UNADULTERATED ELATION.

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LOOK, I STILL
DON'T UNDERSTAND.

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I'M A PESSIMIST
AND HE'S AN OPTIMIST

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AND OPPOSITES ATTRACT.

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THAT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME,
SO WHY CAN'T WE FIX THIS?

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WHY DOESN'T
THIS RELATIONSHIP WORK?

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YOU KNOW, I THINK THAT
WHAT WE'VE TRIED TO DO
HERE IN THESE SESSIONS

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IS TO ILLUMINATE
THE PATTERNS OF BEHAVIOR

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THAT HAVE KEPT
THE TWO OF YOU KIND OF...

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( sighs )
COILED AROUND EACH OTHER--

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THE CYCLES
THAT YOU'VE EMBRACED,

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THE WAY YOU'VE
HIDDEN BEHIND THEM.

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SO YOU CAN'T REALLY

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ACT OUT THESE
PATTERNS ANYMORE

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BECAUSE EVERYTHING
IS NOW OUT IN THE OPEN.

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NOW THEY'RE
IN THE CONSCIOUS MIND.

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THE TWO OF YOU ARE,
IN A WAY,

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EMOTIONALLY NAKED
BEFORE EACH OTHER.

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I REMEMBER
WHEN IT ALL STARTED.

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AFTER LENNY WAS BORN,
I JUST SORT OF LOST IT.

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THERE WERE NIGHTS
I'D SIT THERE HOLDING HIM

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WATCHING TELEVISION,
JUST CRYING.

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AND THEN OF COURSE,
HE'D START TO CRY.

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JAKE WOULD COME HOME
FROM WORK AND TAKE LENNY

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AND TAKE HIM
INTO ANOTHER ROOM.

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I MEAN, I CAME OUT OF IT
EVENTUALLY,

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BUT JAKE DIDN'T LOOK AT ME
THE SAME WAY AGAIN.

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- THAT'S NOT EXACTLY
WHAT HAPPENED.
- YES, IT IS.

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WHEN I GOT DEPRESSED,
IT WAS LIKE YOU TOOK IT
PERSONALLY OR SOMETHING.

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- YOU ACTED AS IF
I'D BETRAYED YOU.
- YOU HAD.

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WHEN I MET YOU,
YOU SEEMED LIKE
THIS PERSON

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WHO WAS UNHAPPY
IN A RELATIONSHIP.

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SO I THOUGHT,
"TAKE THE WOMAN OUT
OF THE RELATIONSHIP

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AND YOU'LL TAKE AWAY
HER PAIN."

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BUT THEN I GOT YOU OUT
OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND YOU
WERE STILL UNHAPPY.

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AND THEN WE HAD A KID,
A BEAUTIFUL KID,

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AND YOU WERE STILL UNHAPPY,

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SO I FELT LIKE
I'D BEEN TRICKED.

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( softly )
SORRY.

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I WASN'T TRYING
TO TRICK YOU.

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- I'M SORRY TOO.
- YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING
TO BE SORRY ABOUT.

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NO, I DO.
I'M SORRY.

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I REALLY HAVE SCREWED
A LOT OF THINGS UP

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AND...

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I'M REALLY SORRY THAT I...

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GOT ANGRY.

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I KNEW YOU WERE HAVING
A HARD TIME

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AND I SHOULDN'T HAVE
DONE THAT.

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I DON'T KNOW.
I JUST...

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- I GOT SCARED.
- WE BOTH DID.

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I'M GONNA MISS
OUR FAMILY.

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THIS IS WHAT I SEE
IN FRONT OF ME:

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TWO PEOPLE WHO HAVE REALLY
LOVED EACH OTHER DEEPLY.

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AND EVEN THOUGH YOU'RE
NOT BRINGING EACH OTHER
HAPPINESS AT THE MOMENT,

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THE TRUTH IS YOU'VE GOTTEN
TO THIS PLACE TOGETHER.

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AND THOUGH YOU'RE LOOKING
AT IT FROM DIFFERENT
PERSPECTIVES,

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IT IS THE SAME PLACE.

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AND I GUESS WHAT
I'M ASKING YOU TO DO

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IS TO THINK ABOUT
NOT TURNING AWAY.

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EVEN AT THIS
DIFFICULT TIME

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WHEN YOU'RE CONTEMPLATING
THE NOTION OF SEPARATION,

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YOU CAN STILL DRAW STRENGTH
FROM EACH OTHER.

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WHAT ARE YOU SAYING?
YOU THINK WE SHOULDN'T
GET DIVORCED?

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COUPLES THERAPY EITHER
HELPS PEOPLE HEAL

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OR IT SHOWS THEM
HOW THEY CAN SEPARATE.

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THE THERAPIST'S JOB
IN THE END,

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I SUPPOSE, IS TO LET
THE COUPLE DECIDE.

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BUT WE'VE BEEN
COMING HERE FOR WEEKS.

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WE'VE TOLD YOU SO MUCH.
YOU MUST HAVE AN OPINION.

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00:11:59,152 --> 00:12:03,090
ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT YOU
ARE A UNIQUE COUPLE.

213
00:12:03,190 --> 00:12:05,793
I KNOW COUPLES
WHO USE LESS ENERGY
TO MAKE LOVE

214
00:12:05,893 --> 00:12:08,796
THAN YOU TWO USE
IN CASUAL CONVERSATION.

215
00:12:08,896 --> 00:12:11,832
AND PASSION LIKE THAT
IS A RARE COMMODITY.

216
00:12:11,932 --> 00:12:14,034
BUT PASSION ITSELF
ISN'T ENOUGH

217
00:12:14,134 --> 00:12:16,937
TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP
FOR A LIFETIME.

218
00:12:17,037 --> 00:12:18,605
WHAT IS?

219
00:12:18,705 --> 00:12:23,777
WHAT IS ENOUGH
TO KEEP TWO PEOPLE
TOGETHER FOR A LIFETIME?

220
00:12:23,877 --> 00:12:26,246
I WISH I KNEW
THE ANSWER TO THAT.

221
00:12:36,056 --> 00:12:38,291
I'M SO WORRIED
ABOUT LENNY.

222
00:12:39,893 --> 00:12:42,429
YEAH, HE'S GONNA HAVE
A WHOLE DIFFERENT LIFE.

223
00:12:44,965 --> 00:12:47,200
SO YOU'RE GONNA
SHARE CUSTODY THEN.

224
00:12:48,768 --> 00:12:50,770
I ASSUME WE WOULD.

225
00:12:52,139 --> 00:12:53,506
JAKE?

226
00:12:55,909 --> 00:12:58,378
YEAH.
JOINT CUSTODY.

227
00:13:03,951 --> 00:13:05,986
YOU UNDERSTAND
WHAT THAT MEANS.

228
00:13:06,086 --> 00:13:08,088
IT MEANS HE MOVES
BACK AND FORTH, RIGHT?

229
00:13:08,188 --> 00:13:10,523
YES, BUT I THINK
IT'S A LITTLE BIT MORE
SPECIFIC THAN THAT.

230
00:13:10,623 --> 00:13:13,693
BUT, YOU KNOW WHAT?
THIS ISN'T MY AREA
OF EXPERTISE.

231
00:13:13,793 --> 00:13:15,896
YOU BOTH NEED
TO SIT DOWN

232
00:13:15,996 --> 00:13:18,231
AND DISCUSS THIS
IN DETAIL

233
00:13:18,331 --> 00:13:20,367
WITH A LAWYER.

234
00:13:22,735 --> 00:13:24,037
JESUS.

235
00:13:24,137 --> 00:13:26,773
WE CAN BARELY GET HIM
TO SCHOOL ON TIME
AS IT IS

236
00:13:26,874 --> 00:13:28,541
BETWEEN THE TWO OF US.

237
00:13:28,641 --> 00:13:30,277
AMY'S WORKING AS MUCH
AS SHE DOES...

238
00:13:30,377 --> 00:13:33,947
SO I GUESS, WHAT?
I SHOULD TAKE HIM
DURING THE WEEK?

239
00:13:34,047 --> 00:13:36,950
ACTUALLY, I'M NOT
WORKING ANYMORE.

240
00:13:38,751 --> 00:13:40,520
WHAT, DID YOU QUIT?

241
00:13:44,324 --> 00:13:45,392
WHAT HAPPENED?

242
00:13:45,492 --> 00:13:47,694
I SLEPT WITH MY BOSS.
AND HE HAS A WIFE.

243
00:13:47,794 --> 00:13:49,229
HE DIDN'T WANT ME
AROUND ANYMORE.

244
00:13:49,329 --> 00:13:53,433
- SO YOU WERE FIRED.
- YEAH.

245
00:13:54,567 --> 00:13:56,569
THAT FUCKING ASSHOLE.

246
00:14:00,507 --> 00:14:02,209
I'M RELIEVED, ACTUALLY.

247
00:14:02,309 --> 00:14:05,345
WE'VE GOT A BIT OF A CUSHION
WITH THE SEVERANCE PACKAGE,

248
00:14:05,445 --> 00:14:06,546
SO...

249
00:14:11,451 --> 00:14:13,987
I GOT A PRODUCER WHO'S STILL
REALLY INTERESTED

250
00:14:14,087 --> 00:14:16,056
IN A FEW SONGS OF MINE.

251
00:14:17,991 --> 00:14:20,227
I THINK IT MIGHT BE HELPFUL
TO TALK THROUGH

252
00:14:20,327 --> 00:14:22,029
SOME OF THE MORE
COMPLICATED QUESTIONS

253
00:14:22,129 --> 00:14:23,964
THAT ARISE AS A RESULT.

254
00:14:24,064 --> 00:14:27,600
FOR EXAMPLE, JAKE,
HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT
WHERE YOU'RE GOING TO LIVE?

255
00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:31,304
WELL, I WAS THINKING
OF GETTING A PLACE
IN THE CITY.

256
00:14:31,404 --> 00:14:34,174
I KNOW A GUY,
HE'S A FRIEND OF ELLIOT'S.
HE'S GOT THIS LOFT.

257
00:14:34,274 --> 00:14:36,343
IT'S ROUGH,
BUT IT'S CHEAP.

258
00:14:36,443 --> 00:14:40,013
THERE'S ENOUGH SPACE
FOR ME, LENNY, AND MAYBE EVEN
A LITTLE RECORDING STUDIO.

259
00:14:40,113 --> 00:14:41,714
- IS IT SAFE?
- SURE.

260
00:14:41,814 --> 00:14:44,117
- IS THERE A DOORMAN?
- I JUST TOLD YOU
IT WAS CHEAP.

261
00:14:44,217 --> 00:14:46,719
I DON'T WANT LENNY
STAYING IN SOMEPLACE
THAT ISN'T SAFE.

262
00:14:46,819 --> 00:14:49,322
WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO,
STAY IN THE HOUSE WITH YOU,

263
00:14:49,422 --> 00:14:51,558
BUILD A LITTLE WALL
THROUGH THE BEDROOM?

264
00:14:54,261 --> 00:14:57,064
I THOUGHT ABOUT MOVING AWAY,
STARTING OVER IN ANOTHER PLACE,

265
00:14:57,164 --> 00:14:59,066
BUT I WANT HIM
TO BE CLOSE TO YOU.

266
00:14:59,166 --> 00:15:00,633
LOOK, IT'LL BE FINE.

267
00:15:00,733 --> 00:15:03,070
IT'LL BE GOOD FOR HIM TO GET
OUT OF THE SUBURBS ANYWAY.

268
00:15:03,170 --> 00:15:05,738
AND YOU KNOW I'M NOT
GONNA LET ANYTHING BAD
HAPPEN TO HIM.

269
00:15:05,838 --> 00:15:07,607
IF WORSE COMES TO WORSE,
YOU COULD ALWAYS

270
00:15:07,707 --> 00:15:10,110
- GET YOUR PARENTS
TO HELP OUT WITH LENNY.
- ARE YOU KIDDING?

271
00:15:10,210 --> 00:15:13,313
I'D LIVE ON THE STREETS
BEFORE I EVER ASK MY
PARENTS FOR HELP.

272
00:15:17,484 --> 00:15:20,820
HAVE YOU TOLD THEM
ABOUT THIS, ABOUT US?

273
00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,622
- YEAH.
- WHAT'D THEY SAY?

274
00:15:22,722 --> 00:15:24,424
MY DAD CRIED.

275
00:15:24,524 --> 00:15:26,259
- REALLY?
- NO.

276
00:15:26,359 --> 00:15:29,296
BUT I THINK HE WANTED TO.
I COULD TELL.

277
00:15:29,396 --> 00:15:33,066
HELL, PROBABLY
INVITE YOU FOR CHRISTMAS,
TELL YOU TO BRING A DATE.

278
00:15:35,302 --> 00:15:37,004
WE'LL FIGURE
THIS CUSTODY THING OUT.

279
00:15:37,104 --> 00:15:39,072
PEOPLE DO IT
EVERY YEAR, RIGHT?

280
00:15:51,418 --> 00:15:53,386
HAVE EITHER OF YOU
TALKED TO LENNY

281
00:15:53,486 --> 00:15:55,655
ABOUT WHAT'S BEEN
GOING ON BETWEEN YOU?

282
00:15:55,755 --> 00:15:58,058
NOT REALLY,
BUT HE KNOWS.

283
00:15:58,158 --> 00:16:00,727
KIDS PICK UP
ON EVERYTHING,
YOU KNOW?

284
00:16:00,827 --> 00:16:02,262
THEY CERTAINLY DO.

285
00:16:02,362 --> 00:16:04,731
HE THINKS WE'RE CRAZY.
I CAN TELL.

286
00:16:04,831 --> 00:16:08,068
HE'S ONLY NINE.
BUT HE ALREADY REALIZES
HE'S GOT CRAZY PARENTS.

287
00:16:08,168 --> 00:16:09,902
HE'S NOT ENTIRELY
WRONG THERE, IS HE?

288
00:16:10,003 --> 00:16:11,771
( snorts )

289
00:16:11,871 --> 00:16:14,841
REMEMBER THAT TIME
WE TRIED TO TEACH HIM
WHERE BABIES COME FROM?

290
00:16:14,941 --> 00:16:17,044
( chuckles )

291
00:16:17,144 --> 00:16:20,647
PAUL, AMY HAD GOTTEN HIM
THIS BOOK CALLED

292
00:16:20,747 --> 00:16:22,382
"WHERE DO I COME FROM?"

293
00:16:22,482 --> 00:16:24,451
IT WAS ONE OF THOSE
CARTOON BOOKS

294
00:16:24,551 --> 00:16:26,686
THAT THEY WRITE
TO TEACH KIDS ABOUT SEX.

295
00:16:26,786 --> 00:16:28,588
IT WAS A PRETTY GOOD BOOK,

296
00:16:28,688 --> 00:16:31,224
- EXCEPT--
- EXCEPT THAT IT LEFT OUT
THIS REALLY SIGNIFICANT PART,

297
00:16:31,324 --> 00:16:34,894
- THAT SEX IS PLEASURABLE.
- WHICH AMY FELT LIKE LENNY
REALLY NEEDED TO KNOW.

298
00:16:34,994 --> 00:16:38,298
THEY MADE IT SOUND LIKE
SEX WAS SOMETHING GROWN-UPS
DID BECAUSE THEY HAD TO,

299
00:16:38,398 --> 00:16:40,767
- LIKE BRUSHING YOUR TEETH.
- I'M READING LENNY THE BOOK

300
00:16:40,867 --> 00:16:43,603
AND AMY KEEPS INTERRUPTING
TRYING TO EXPLAIN TO HIM
WHAT SEX FEELS LIKE

301
00:16:43,703 --> 00:16:46,839
USING ALL THESE RIDICULOUS
METAPHORS TO DESCRIBE HOW SEX
FEELS FOR A WOMAN.

302
00:16:46,939 --> 00:16:48,708
IT WAS MY ONLY
FRAME OF REFERENCE.

303
00:16:48,808 --> 00:16:50,443
MEANWHILE,
JAKE KEEPS CORRECTING ME

304
00:16:50,543 --> 00:16:53,246
WITH THESE CONTRADICTORY
METAPHORS FROM THE MALE
PERSPECTIVE,

305
00:16:53,346 --> 00:16:56,483
SAYING IT'S LIKE
HITTING A HOME RUN NAKED
INSIDE OF SOMEONE ELSE.

306
00:16:56,583 --> 00:16:59,719
AND THIS POOR KID
IS JUST LOOKING AT US,
JUST MORE AND MORE CONFUSED

307
00:16:59,819 --> 00:17:02,355
- UNTIL FINALLY HE JUST--
- GOT UP AND WALKED AWAY.

308
00:17:02,455 --> 00:17:04,191
JUST WALKED
RIGHT OUT THE DOOR.

309
00:17:04,291 --> 00:17:05,792
SHAKING HIS HEAD
LIKE A LITTLE OLD MAN.

310
00:17:05,892 --> 00:17:07,360
( chuckles )

311
00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:21,774
YEAH.

312
00:17:22,842 --> 00:17:24,611
YEAH, HE'LL BE OKAY.

313
00:17:47,767 --> 00:17:50,303
MY FATHER USED TO SAY
THERE'S NO GREATER DISTANCE

314
00:17:50,403 --> 00:17:53,206
THAN THE SPACE
BETWEEN TWO HEADS.

315
00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:03,450
( sobs )
WE'RE OVER, AREN'T WE?

316
00:18:05,585 --> 00:18:07,687
( gasping )

317
00:18:08,755 --> 00:18:10,323
( sobbing )

318
00:18:26,105 --> 00:18:27,474
DAMN IT.

319
00:18:28,608 --> 00:18:30,743
( sobbing )

320
00:18:34,214 --> 00:18:36,416
OH GOD!

321
00:19:09,782 --> 00:19:11,618
WE SHOULD GET GOING.

322
00:19:11,718 --> 00:19:14,454
LENNY'S PIANO LESSON IS
GONNA BE OVER PRETTY SOON.

323
00:19:19,025 --> 00:19:20,727
( breathlessly )
SORRY.

324
00:19:23,663 --> 00:19:25,665
AND I NEED TO GO.
I DON'T THINK I CAN
BE HERE ANY LONGER.

325
00:19:25,765 --> 00:19:28,201
- WE'RE GONNA
TALK TO HIM NOW?!
- NO, I THINK LATER.

326
00:19:28,301 --> 00:19:30,603
- WHEN?
- I DON'T KNOW, OKAY?

327
00:19:30,703 --> 00:19:33,840
I THINK YOU'LL FIND
THE RIGHT TIME.

328
00:19:33,940 --> 00:19:35,908
WE'RE GONNA BE LATE.
LET'S GO.

329
00:19:37,777 --> 00:19:40,213
DO YOU WANT TO STAY AND TALK
TO PAUL FOR A FEW MORE MINUTES

330
00:19:40,313 --> 00:19:41,681
AND I CAN GO PICK
LENNY UP MYSELF?

331
00:19:41,781 --> 00:19:43,950
NO, I WANT THIS
TO BE HARDER FOR YOU.

332
00:19:45,252 --> 00:19:46,953
- IT IS HARD FOR ME.
- NO, IT'S NOT.

333
00:19:47,053 --> 00:19:49,222
YOU CAN'T WAIT
TO GET OUT OF HERE.

334
00:19:50,990 --> 00:19:52,459
NO, I'M JUST DONE
WITH THIS ROOM.

335
00:19:52,559 --> 00:19:55,462
OKAY, I WANT TO GO
TO A BAR, GET DRUNK,

336
00:19:55,562 --> 00:19:58,565
AND CRY LIKE A BABY.
I WANT TO FEEL ALL
THOSE THINGS.

337
00:19:58,665 --> 00:20:01,368
I JUST DON'T WANT
TO DO IT HERE, OKAY?

338
00:20:10,677 --> 00:20:12,211
COME ON, AME.

339
00:20:15,815 --> 00:20:17,284
( gate opens )

340
00:20:20,287 --> 00:20:21,721
WHO'S THAT?

341
00:20:24,924 --> 00:20:26,893
MY NEXT PATIENTS.

342
00:20:44,076 --> 00:20:45,745
( sighs )

343
00:20:52,184 --> 00:20:53,720
( Jake whispers )
LET'S GO.

344
00:21:01,994 --> 00:21:05,365
Paul:
AMY. JAKE.

345
00:21:20,279 --> 00:21:23,316
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