1 00:01:30,719 --> 00:01:32,618 [BIRD CAWING] 2 00:01:46,252 --> 00:01:49,669 [] 3 00:01:49,807 --> 00:01:52,707 [THUNDER RUMBLING] 4 00:01:58,368 --> 00:01:59,645 [EXHALES SHARPLY] 5 00:02:07,549 --> 00:02:08,688 [GASPS] 6 00:02:21,598 --> 00:02:24,601 Got to move! Get the kids! We gotta get home! 7 00:02:26,396 --> 00:02:28,052 Crazy woman. 8 00:02:41,514 --> 00:02:44,379 [] 9 00:03:14,754 --> 00:03:16,273 [ELEVATOR DOOR DINGS] 10 00:03:17,826 --> 00:03:19,552 [SIGHS] 11 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,531 Ah, speak of the devil. How'd it go?Great. 12 00:03:32,669 --> 00:03:35,085 Did you get your source?Absolutely. 13 00:03:35,223 --> 00:03:36,120 Good. 14 00:03:38,330 --> 00:03:41,816 Dana, we're gonna put Rosenblum on your story. 15 00:03:41,954 --> 00:03:44,336 Excuse me?You're short on manpower. 16 00:03:44,474 --> 00:03:46,269 And you know I hate losing to the Post. 17 00:03:46,407 --> 00:03:47,753 We're not gonna lose to the Post. 18 00:03:47,891 --> 00:03:49,272 Don't get me started on the Journal. 19 00:03:49,410 --> 00:03:50,859 We're not gonna lose to the Journal. 20 00:03:50,997 --> 00:03:52,620 Especially not with my help. 21 00:03:52,758 --> 00:03:55,899 What are you gonna do?I got Sandberg. 22 00:03:56,037 --> 00:03:57,901 You actually talked to him? 23 00:03:58,039 --> 00:04:00,766 We're sitting down next week.When? 24 00:04:00,904 --> 00:04:03,251 [STAMMERS] 25 00:04:03,389 --> 00:04:07,842 I wanna hear everything you got by Monday's page-one meeting. 26 00:04:07,980 --> 00:04:11,224 Meantime, you two exchange notes. 27 00:04:11,363 --> 00:04:13,710 When next week?It's not set yet. 28 00:04:13,848 --> 00:04:15,884 Oh. Okay, so all of this is predicated 29 00:04:16,022 --> 00:04:18,231 on a meeting you don't actually have. 30 00:04:18,370 --> 00:04:20,579 No, no, I said it's not set yet, but next week. 31 00:04:20,717 --> 00:04:23,409 No, you said it wasn't set yet.No, I said it's not set, until-- 32 00:04:23,547 --> 00:04:25,480 Are you for real?No. Yes. 33 00:04:25,618 --> 00:04:27,413 Uh, Dana?He just says "Sandberg," 34 00:04:27,551 --> 00:04:29,208 and suddenly he's on my story?Dana. 35 00:04:29,346 --> 00:04:30,658 Because I've come to you a thousand times 36 00:04:30,796 --> 00:04:33,695 and it's never been that easy.Yeah. 37 00:04:33,833 --> 00:04:36,180 When you sit down with him, tell him I said hi. 38 00:04:36,319 --> 00:04:37,872 Dana.Because I just had that meeting 39 00:04:38,010 --> 00:04:40,115 that you think you're gonna get.Dana. Dana. 40 00:04:40,253 --> 00:04:41,185 What? 41 00:04:47,433 --> 00:04:48,469 Shit. 42 00:04:55,407 --> 00:04:57,512 Hang on a minute.It's me. 43 00:04:57,650 --> 00:04:59,480 I heard what happened. 44 00:04:59,618 --> 00:05:02,345 Rosenblum is telling everybody he's on your story now. 45 00:05:02,483 --> 00:05:05,520 Oh, I can't stand his little smug ass. 46 00:05:05,658 --> 00:05:08,558 Why you still breastfeeding? Jordan's 1. 47 00:05:08,696 --> 00:05:10,836 Because the World Health Organization recommends it 48 00:05:10,974 --> 00:05:12,665 for up to two years and beyond. 49 00:05:12,803 --> 00:05:14,943 Kid's got a mouth full of teeth, D. 50 00:05:15,081 --> 00:05:17,774 He's gonna be able to spell "milk" pretty soon. 51 00:05:17,912 --> 00:05:19,085 Doesn't it hurt? 52 00:05:19,223 --> 00:05:21,260 It's a good way for us to stay close. 53 00:05:24,539 --> 00:05:26,955 How you doing?My blouse is almost dry. 54 00:05:27,093 --> 00:05:28,923 I'm not asking about your blouse. 55 00:05:30,442 --> 00:05:31,822 Please don't isolate yourself. 56 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:33,755 I'm not isolated, we're talking right now. 57 00:05:33,893 --> 00:05:36,102 You know what I mean, D. You work, you go home. 58 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,588 That's all you ever do.I'm a single mother. 59 00:05:40,348 --> 00:05:43,386 All right. You're not gonna talk to me, 60 00:05:43,524 --> 00:05:45,388 you better talk to someone.I am fine. 61 00:05:45,526 --> 00:05:46,975 I don't think you're fine. 62 00:05:47,113 --> 00:05:48,563 I would tell you if I wasn't. 63 00:05:49,840 --> 00:05:52,325 Now, if you will excuse me, 64 00:05:52,464 --> 00:05:55,743 I have to go make sure little Rosenblum stays off my story. 65 00:06:10,758 --> 00:06:13,277 How you doing, Manny?Evening, Ms. Canedy. 66 00:06:13,416 --> 00:06:16,004 Saw little man earlier. Not so little anymore. 67 00:06:16,142 --> 00:06:17,972 Who are you telling?[CHUCKLES] 68 00:06:21,458 --> 00:06:23,840 Hi. Sorry I'm late. 69 00:06:23,978 --> 00:06:26,083 How is he?Taking his nap. 70 00:06:26,221 --> 00:06:27,775 Still? 71 00:06:27,913 --> 00:06:29,811 Hope he's not coming down with something. 72 00:06:29,949 --> 00:06:34,057 No. No, that boy ran wild in the park. 73 00:06:34,195 --> 00:06:37,612 I had to pry him away.Thank you, Kaleisha. 74 00:06:37,750 --> 00:06:40,063 You should go on home.Okay, let me finish up, 75 00:06:40,201 --> 00:06:42,375 and I'll see you tomorrow, all right? Okay. 76 00:06:54,284 --> 00:06:57,183 [] 77 00:07:33,565 --> 00:07:35,498 [SHOES CLATTER] 78 00:07:38,052 --> 00:07:39,743 [GROANS SOFTLY] 79 00:08:00,039 --> 00:08:01,903 [BABY CRYING] 80 00:08:04,388 --> 00:08:05,700 Here I come. 81 00:08:21,233 --> 00:08:23,028 Tell him everything, Ma. 82 00:08:23,166 --> 00:08:25,064 [GASPS, PANTING] 83 00:09:34,962 --> 00:09:37,240 "Dear Jordan, 84 00:09:37,378 --> 00:09:40,623 I want you to know that it's all right for boys to cry. 85 00:09:42,866 --> 00:09:47,837 Sometimes crying can release a lot of pain and stress. 86 00:10:01,644 --> 00:10:04,819 It has nothing to do with your manhood." 87 00:10:08,858 --> 00:10:10,376 Your father wrote that. 88 00:10:13,966 --> 00:10:17,487 He wrote this whole thing. Just for you. 89 00:10:21,215 --> 00:10:23,976 I thought you should hear it because... 90 00:10:24,114 --> 00:10:27,980 [BREATHES DEEPLY] ...well, you cry a lot. 91 00:10:36,506 --> 00:10:39,440 Dear Jordan, if you are reading this 92 00:10:39,578 --> 00:10:43,409 it means that we got through the sorrowful years somehow, 93 00:10:43,547 --> 00:10:45,618 and that you are old enough to understand 94 00:10:45,757 --> 00:10:47,724 all that I am about to tell you. 95 00:10:58,562 --> 00:11:04,292 The first time I saw your father, Charles Monroe King, 96 00:11:04,430 --> 00:11:07,606 was in the living room of the house where I grew up. 97 00:11:07,744 --> 00:11:10,229 It was the spring of 1998. 98 00:11:10,367 --> 00:11:12,611 And I was visiting your grandfather for this birthday. 99 00:11:12,749 --> 00:11:15,476 [LISA STANSFIELD'S "ALL AROUND THE WORLD" PLAYING ON RADIO] 100 00:11:15,614 --> 00:11:18,065 DANA [SINGING ALONG]: 101 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:10,462 So, baby, how's Dwayne doing? 102 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,154 Mike, come on.Mama, I told you, we broke up. 103 00:12:13,292 --> 00:12:15,743 Well, flames rekindle. Look at your brother. 104 00:12:15,881 --> 00:12:17,676 Remember when he and Charlene fell out? 105 00:12:17,814 --> 00:12:19,678 Yeah. I'm shocked she took him back. 106 00:12:19,816 --> 00:12:22,301 Well, you never know. Did you call him? 107 00:12:22,439 --> 00:12:23,958 Now, why would I do that? 108 00:12:24,096 --> 00:12:26,685 You're the one who said he's so perfect. Mommy. 109 00:12:26,823 --> 00:12:28,480 Works on Wall Street.Ma. 110 00:12:28,618 --> 00:12:29,826 Ivy League.I know. 111 00:12:29,964 --> 00:12:31,103 Speaks Italian. 112 00:12:31,241 --> 00:12:32,829 We are not getting back together, okay? 113 00:12:32,967 --> 00:12:34,486 It's over.You never know. 114 00:12:34,624 --> 00:12:37,765 No, Mom. Some things you do know. 115 00:12:37,903 --> 00:12:39,008 Well, well, well. 116 00:12:39,146 --> 00:12:43,012 [CHUCKLES]Oops. Sorry. 117 00:12:53,332 --> 00:12:55,024 [SIGHS] 118 00:12:58,682 --> 00:12:59,580 Grace? 119 00:13:02,790 --> 00:13:04,550 Bless us, oh, Lord, 120 00:13:04,688 --> 00:13:08,037 for these gifts we're about to receive from thy bounty 121 00:13:08,175 --> 00:13:10,556 through Christ our Lord. Amen. 122 00:13:10,694 --> 00:13:11,557 Amen.Amen. 123 00:13:11,695 --> 00:13:12,627 Amen. 124 00:13:23,052 --> 00:13:24,398 Who's smoking reefer out here? 125 00:13:24,536 --> 00:13:26,055 [COUGHING] Shit.[LAUGHS] 126 00:13:26,193 --> 00:13:28,574 Y'all know this house is downwind, right? 127 00:13:28,712 --> 00:13:30,714 You want a hit?You know I don't smoke. 128 00:13:30,853 --> 00:13:32,682 You can't think when you're high. 129 00:13:32,820 --> 00:13:35,685 Might help you relax.I'm relaxed. 130 00:13:35,823 --> 00:13:37,998 You think I need to relax? 131 00:13:38,136 --> 00:13:40,863 What? Do you?Girl, yes. 132 00:13:41,001 --> 00:13:43,969 Okay, maybe I'm a little type A.A little? 133 00:13:44,107 --> 00:13:45,419 [COUGHING] 134 00:13:45,557 --> 00:13:47,455 They stress me out. 135 00:13:47,593 --> 00:13:49,733 Why you think I'm staying at a hotel? 136 00:13:49,872 --> 00:13:52,840 Same reason we out here getting high. 137 00:13:52,978 --> 00:13:55,947 I just don't understand how she stays with him all these years. 138 00:13:56,085 --> 00:13:59,605 She loves him.That is not love. It's fear. 139 00:13:59,743 --> 00:14:01,814 She's scared to end up alone. 140 00:14:01,953 --> 00:14:04,196 Is that how it is, Mike? 141 00:14:04,334 --> 00:14:06,095 Huh? 142 00:14:06,233 --> 00:14:08,925 Is that how it is being married? 143 00:14:09,063 --> 00:14:10,306 Is what how it is? 144 00:14:10,444 --> 00:14:11,859 [BOTH LAUGH] 145 00:14:11,997 --> 00:14:14,793 Aren't you scared you're gonna end up alone? 146 00:14:14,931 --> 00:14:16,243 No, not really. 147 00:14:16,381 --> 00:14:18,901 Shit, sometimes I wish she would leave me alone. 148 00:14:20,109 --> 00:14:23,560 But are you happy?Yeah. 149 00:14:23,698 --> 00:14:27,081 We fight and shit, but yeah.See, there's hope. 150 00:14:27,219 --> 00:14:29,359 Now I just gotta find the right guy. 151 00:14:29,497 --> 00:14:31,051 Good luck. 152 00:14:31,189 --> 00:14:33,536 Men are luxuries. Not necessities. 153 00:14:33,674 --> 00:14:34,709 Damn.Damn. 154 00:14:34,847 --> 00:14:35,952 I'm not playing. 155 00:14:36,090 --> 00:14:37,402 Apparently not. 156 00:14:37,540 --> 00:14:38,610 [ALL LAUGH] 157 00:14:38,748 --> 00:14:39,749 It's cold, I'll see y'all inside. 158 00:14:39,887 --> 00:14:40,923 All right. 159 00:15:01,736 --> 00:15:04,394 Hi.Hi. 160 00:15:04,532 --> 00:15:06,189 I'm a friend of your father's. 161 00:15:06,327 --> 00:15:08,536 Oh.[CHUCKLES] 162 00:15:08,674 --> 00:15:11,954 Are you Dana or Gwen?Dana. 163 00:15:13,093 --> 00:15:15,129 The journalist. 164 00:15:15,267 --> 00:15:16,959 And you are? 165 00:15:17,097 --> 00:15:20,997 Oh. I'm, uh, First Sergeant Charles King, at your service. 166 00:15:21,135 --> 00:15:23,724 Oh. You're a soldier.Yes, ma'am. 167 00:15:23,862 --> 00:15:26,175 Your father was my drill sergeant back in the day. 168 00:15:28,487 --> 00:15:30,765 I just came by to hang this for him. 169 00:15:30,903 --> 00:15:33,389 Early birthday present. 170 00:15:33,527 --> 00:15:35,908 761st Tank Battalion. 171 00:15:36,047 --> 00:15:38,808 Some of the bravest men to fight in World War II. 172 00:15:38,946 --> 00:15:41,984 Me and your dad are tankers, so we share a mutual admiration. 173 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,125 What do you think about it? 174 00:15:48,024 --> 00:15:49,336 It's beautiful. 175 00:15:50,578 --> 00:15:52,856 Is that pointillism? 176 00:15:52,995 --> 00:15:54,720 Yes, ma'am, it is. 177 00:15:54,858 --> 00:15:56,619 You know, like Georges Seurat. 178 00:15:56,757 --> 00:15:59,587 Takes a bit more time, but I think it's worth it. 179 00:16:01,003 --> 00:16:04,696 You drew that?Yes, ma'am. 180 00:16:04,834 --> 00:16:07,285 [SOFTLY] Technically, it's a painting. 181 00:16:07,423 --> 00:16:10,219 [NORMALLY] But I won't hold it against you. 182 00:16:10,357 --> 00:16:14,085 You know, sarge talks about you a lot. 183 00:16:14,223 --> 00:16:18,054 Does he?Nonstop. All three of you. 184 00:16:18,192 --> 00:16:20,436 You're his pride and joy. 185 00:16:20,574 --> 00:16:23,542 Is he here?Yes, ma'am. 186 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:25,199 He's out on the porch. 187 00:16:25,337 --> 00:16:28,513 I told him to wait there while I finished hanging this. 188 00:16:28,651 --> 00:16:30,239 Excuse me real quick. 189 00:16:36,555 --> 00:16:39,765 Morning, Daddy.Oh, good morning. 190 00:16:39,903 --> 00:16:42,423 Happy birthday.Oh... 191 00:16:42,561 --> 00:16:45,012 I know it's not till tomorrow, but these are cigars, 192 00:16:45,150 --> 00:16:46,841 so don't let Mommy see them. 193 00:16:46,979 --> 00:16:48,360 Thank you, pumpkin. 194 00:16:48,498 --> 00:16:50,052 [BOTH CHUCKLE] 195 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,748 So your friend in there. 196 00:16:56,886 --> 00:16:58,681 He finish putting my picture up yet? 197 00:16:58,819 --> 00:17:00,821 Not yet. But you're gonna love it. 198 00:17:03,065 --> 00:17:06,447 He's, uh, talented, isn't he? And good looking. 199 00:17:09,381 --> 00:17:10,589 Did Gwen meet him yet? 200 00:17:10,727 --> 00:17:13,144 No, she's been out with your mom all morning. 201 00:17:14,421 --> 00:17:15,629 Oh... 202 00:17:17,424 --> 00:17:19,702 Just tell him you forgot something at your hotel, 203 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:21,083 your sister wants to borrow your car. 204 00:17:21,221 --> 00:17:23,085 Daddy.I'm just trying to help. 205 00:17:23,223 --> 00:17:24,534 Don't. 206 00:17:24,672 --> 00:17:25,915 Okay. 207 00:17:28,918 --> 00:17:29,815 [SIGHS] 208 00:17:39,446 --> 00:17:42,656 Excuse me? Hi. 209 00:17:42,794 --> 00:17:44,175 Can I ask you a favor? 210 00:17:44,313 --> 00:17:46,315 I left my cell phone back at my hotel, 211 00:17:46,453 --> 00:17:49,076 and my sister needs to borrow my car when she gets back. 212 00:17:49,214 --> 00:17:51,320 Would you mind giving me a ride? 213 00:18:02,365 --> 00:18:04,126 You mind if I turn on the radio? 214 00:18:04,264 --> 00:18:06,576 No, sure. 215 00:18:06,714 --> 00:18:08,992 What kind of music do you like? 216 00:18:09,131 --> 00:18:10,822 There should be a CD in there. 217 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,066 [THE SPINNERS' "SADIE" PLAYING] 218 00:18:16,483 --> 00:18:19,382 Oldies?Yeah, that's the Spinners. 219 00:18:27,494 --> 00:18:30,980 You don't talk much, do you?Yeah, I do. 220 00:18:31,118 --> 00:18:33,638 I mean, when I got something to say. 221 00:18:33,776 --> 00:18:34,708 Okay. 222 00:18:38,056 --> 00:18:40,369 So my dad was your drill sergeant? 223 00:18:40,507 --> 00:18:41,749 Yes, ma'am. 224 00:18:41,887 --> 00:18:44,062 He taught me how to be a soldier. 225 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,479 I'm lucky I met him. Both of your folks. 226 00:18:48,653 --> 00:18:50,068 They've been there for me. 227 00:18:52,208 --> 00:18:53,485 Good. 228 00:19:11,054 --> 00:19:12,711 [HONKING]Go! You want an invite? 229 00:19:14,713 --> 00:19:15,749 Sorry. 230 00:19:18,407 --> 00:19:21,168 You can take the girl out of the city... 231 00:19:21,306 --> 00:19:23,619 you can't take the city out of the girl. 232 00:19:35,838 --> 00:19:39,428 You know I'm a journalist, so I have to ask. 233 00:19:39,566 --> 00:19:42,189 My parents have been there for you how? 234 00:19:47,401 --> 00:19:49,300 I'm going through a divorce. 235 00:19:49,438 --> 00:19:51,060 Oh. 236 00:19:52,786 --> 00:19:55,133 I'm sorry.Eh, don't be. 237 00:19:56,893 --> 00:19:58,792 [SIGHS] 238 00:19:58,930 --> 00:20:00,794 Your mom's a great listener, 239 00:20:00,932 --> 00:20:03,831 and Pop always invites me over to watch ball games. 240 00:20:03,969 --> 00:20:06,662 Pop?Yes, ma'am. 241 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,147 I mean, don't get me wrong, I love my parents, 242 00:20:09,285 --> 00:20:13,427 but I don't think I would have made it through without yours. 243 00:20:13,565 --> 00:20:15,464 Hmm. 244 00:20:15,602 --> 00:20:17,535 Why do you seem so surprised? 245 00:20:17,673 --> 00:20:19,157 You didn't grow up with them. 246 00:20:21,987 --> 00:20:24,852 What about you?What about me? 247 00:20:27,441 --> 00:20:29,443 You seeing someone? 248 00:20:29,581 --> 00:20:31,445 I'm surprised my parents didn't tell you 249 00:20:31,583 --> 00:20:33,792 since you all talk so much. 250 00:20:36,933 --> 00:20:39,315 I'm single. Recently. 251 00:20:43,595 --> 00:20:46,011 Hey, listen, I'm supposed to go to the house tomorrow 252 00:20:46,149 --> 00:20:47,979 for the barbeque. 253 00:20:48,117 --> 00:20:50,464 I could pick you up on my way if you want. 254 00:20:52,915 --> 00:20:55,952 Yeah, that'd be great. 255 00:20:56,090 --> 00:20:59,162 How's 0900? 256 00:20:59,301 --> 00:21:00,543 Early. 257 00:21:03,132 --> 00:21:04,375 That's perfect. 258 00:21:05,652 --> 00:21:07,516 [SNORING] 259 00:21:09,103 --> 00:21:11,727 [KNOCKING] 260 00:21:11,865 --> 00:21:15,593 No housekeeping. Come back later. 261 00:21:15,731 --> 00:21:17,560 It's Charles King. 262 00:21:17,698 --> 00:21:19,873 Who? 263 00:21:20,011 --> 00:21:22,324 First Sergeant Charles King.Oh, shit. 264 00:21:22,462 --> 00:21:24,705 Uh, what-what time is it? 265 00:21:24,843 --> 00:21:27,432 Uh,49. 266 00:21:27,570 --> 00:21:29,607 I asked for a wake-up call, I'm so sorry. 267 00:21:29,745 --> 00:21:31,471 Don't worry about it. 268 00:21:35,785 --> 00:21:37,339 I'll be right out. 269 00:21:37,477 --> 00:21:39,686 I-it's okay. Take your time. 270 00:21:39,824 --> 00:21:42,309 I won't be long. Sh--! I promise. 271 00:21:42,447 --> 00:21:44,138 Whenever you're ready, I'll be here. 272 00:21:44,276 --> 00:21:45,485 Shit! Shit! 273 00:22:01,570 --> 00:22:05,436 I'm so sorry.It was worth the wait. 274 00:22:11,787 --> 00:22:13,616 Um, hi.Hi. 275 00:22:14,928 --> 00:22:18,310 Are you hungry?I could eat. 276 00:22:18,449 --> 00:22:19,795 All right. After you. 277 00:22:28,113 --> 00:22:29,943 So, what made you join the Army? 278 00:22:31,807 --> 00:22:34,568 The discipline. The travel. 279 00:22:34,706 --> 00:22:38,158 And I love my country, so I always wanted to serve. 280 00:22:38,296 --> 00:22:40,678 Plus, the camo just brings out my eyes. 281 00:22:42,507 --> 00:22:44,751 It's a tough way to make a living. 282 00:22:44,889 --> 00:22:45,959 Yes, ma'am, it is. 283 00:22:47,443 --> 00:22:49,100 You know you don't have to call me ma'am. 284 00:22:49,238 --> 00:22:51,516 I know. I don't want to either. 285 00:22:54,105 --> 00:22:56,003 Belgian waffle. Side of hash browns. 286 00:22:56,141 --> 00:22:57,971 Thank you.And... 287 00:22:58,109 --> 00:23:00,525 I've got scrambled egg whites and oatmeal. 288 00:23:00,663 --> 00:23:02,907 Perfect. Got you a little extra brown sugar. 289 00:23:03,045 --> 00:23:06,117 You sure you don't want some fruit or something? 290 00:23:06,255 --> 00:23:08,222 No, thank you. I'm fine. Thanks, ma'am. 291 00:23:08,360 --> 00:23:09,879 You let me know if you need anything. 292 00:23:10,017 --> 00:23:11,674 Excuse me. Hi.Hi. 293 00:23:11,812 --> 00:23:14,194 I'm gonna need some hot sauce for those hash browns 294 00:23:14,332 --> 00:23:18,647 and a little warm up, please.Sure thing. 295 00:23:25,136 --> 00:23:26,862 So how long have you been in the Army? 296 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,588 Just one second, I'm sorry. 297 00:23:32,039 --> 00:23:33,385 All right, thank you. 298 00:23:33,524 --> 00:23:35,077 Uh, it's been 11 years. 299 00:23:35,215 --> 00:23:36,596 I plan on doing another nine 300 00:23:36,734 --> 00:23:38,667 and hopefully retiring a Sergeant Major. 301 00:23:38,805 --> 00:23:40,462 Then I want to focus on my art. 302 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:44,845 Who's your favorite artist?You ask a lot of questions. 303 00:23:46,606 --> 00:23:48,953 Occupational hazard.Mm. 304 00:23:49,091 --> 00:23:51,990 Well, if you must know, I have two. 305 00:23:52,128 --> 00:23:53,129 Georges Seurat? 306 00:23:53,267 --> 00:23:55,028 Yeah. 307 00:23:55,166 --> 00:23:56,995 And Claude Monet. You heard of him? 308 00:23:57,133 --> 00:23:58,963 Of course. 309 00:23:59,101 --> 00:24:00,689 He's my number one. 310 00:24:00,827 --> 00:24:03,968 I mean, I mess around a bit with pointillism but Monet's style? 311 00:24:04,106 --> 00:24:06,039 I mean, who's messing with him? 312 00:24:07,385 --> 00:24:10,768 You, um, got a little bit right... 313 00:24:10,906 --> 00:24:12,321 Oh.Some right here. 314 00:24:12,459 --> 00:24:14,116 Other side. 315 00:24:14,254 --> 00:24:17,222 Just-- All right, you smudged it. Let me... 316 00:24:17,360 --> 00:24:20,881 You mind?Uh-- No. 317 00:24:21,019 --> 00:24:23,850 Got a little bit. Yep. 318 00:24:24,989 --> 00:24:25,852 Thanks. 319 00:24:25,990 --> 00:24:28,406 Mm-hm. 320 00:24:28,544 --> 00:24:32,203 You know, I saw some of Monet's work at the Met in New York. 321 00:24:32,341 --> 00:24:34,067 I've never been to New York. 322 00:24:34,205 --> 00:24:36,863 It's so different when you can see the brushstrokes up close. 323 00:24:37,001 --> 00:24:39,555 And I've actually never seen a real Monet in person. 324 00:24:39,693 --> 00:24:40,867 Mm. 325 00:24:41,005 --> 00:24:42,524 You should get up there sometime. 326 00:24:44,664 --> 00:24:46,079 To see the painting? 327 00:24:51,636 --> 00:24:52,879 Maybe I will. 328 00:24:57,849 --> 00:24:59,782 Ooh! Look at that. 329 00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:03,130 [CHUCKLES] Yeah, baby. 330 00:25:03,268 --> 00:25:05,029 Hey.Hey, Charles! 331 00:25:05,167 --> 00:25:07,618 Hey, come on over and meet First Sergeant King. 332 00:25:07,756 --> 00:25:09,654 Gentlemen.Just call them fellas. 333 00:25:09,792 --> 00:25:11,725 [ALL CHUCKLE] 334 00:25:11,863 --> 00:25:14,625 Why in the world would anybody want to do that? 335 00:25:14,763 --> 00:25:16,834 I don't understand. You know what I'm saying? 336 00:25:16,972 --> 00:25:19,112 Oh, what? It's not. You're getting very upset. 337 00:25:19,250 --> 00:25:20,976 [IMITATING ENGINE DRONING] 338 00:25:21,114 --> 00:25:22,805 [ALL LAUGH] 339 00:25:22,943 --> 00:25:26,015 Well, I thought men were luxuries, not necessities. 340 00:25:26,153 --> 00:25:29,156 You just wanna stand there or you gonna come help me? 341 00:25:29,294 --> 00:25:31,296 You're lucky you saw him first. 342 00:25:34,161 --> 00:25:36,474 Appreciate you coming by, son.I appreciate the food. 343 00:25:36,612 --> 00:25:38,200 Anytime.Yeah. 344 00:25:38,338 --> 00:25:39,581 We'll see you again soon, hon. 345 00:25:39,719 --> 00:25:41,479 Okay?Yes. Of course. 346 00:25:41,617 --> 00:25:44,965 You leaving already?I am. Yes, ma'am. 347 00:25:46,380 --> 00:25:48,935 I mean, yes, I am.Are you sure? 348 00:25:49,073 --> 00:25:51,316 I was just about to put out dessert. 349 00:25:51,454 --> 00:25:55,010 I wish that I could.Fresh apple pie. 350 00:25:55,148 --> 00:25:57,150 I got a phone date with my daughter. 351 00:25:57,288 --> 00:25:58,738 Oh. 352 00:25:58,876 --> 00:26:00,740 Yeah, she lives in Texas with her mother, 353 00:26:00,878 --> 00:26:03,984 and I gotta catch her before she goes to sleep. 354 00:26:04,122 --> 00:26:05,330 Of course. 355 00:26:07,263 --> 00:26:08,851 Well, if you're ever in New York 356 00:26:08,989 --> 00:26:11,613 and wanna see that Monet, look me up. 357 00:26:13,338 --> 00:26:14,616 Will do. 358 00:26:15,927 --> 00:26:17,757 Now, take care.You too. 359 00:26:24,591 --> 00:26:25,627 [CHUCKLES] 360 00:26:27,421 --> 00:26:28,837 What? 361 00:26:28,975 --> 00:26:30,562 [CHAKA KHAN'S "I KNOW YOU, I LIVE YOU" PLAYING] 362 00:26:42,989 --> 00:26:44,853 [RINGING] 363 00:26:44,991 --> 00:26:47,476 [TV DRONING INDISTINCTLY] 364 00:26:47,614 --> 00:26:49,305 Hello? 365 00:26:49,443 --> 00:26:51,238 Hi, can I speak to Dana, please? 366 00:26:51,376 --> 00:26:53,827 This is she. Hey. 367 00:26:53,965 --> 00:26:56,347 This is First Sergeant Charles King. 368 00:26:56,485 --> 00:26:58,452 Oh. 369 00:26:58,590 --> 00:27:00,558 Hello, Charles. 370 00:27:00,696 --> 00:27:03,734 My dad told me he gave you my number. 371 00:27:03,872 --> 00:27:05,321 Three weeks ago. 372 00:27:05,459 --> 00:27:07,807 Yeah. Um... 373 00:27:07,945 --> 00:27:09,463 Is now a good time to talk? 374 00:27:09,601 --> 00:27:11,189 [INHALES DEEPLY] Mm... 375 00:27:11,327 --> 00:27:13,502 I am kind of in the middle of something. 376 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,608 Oh, okay, I can call you back. 377 00:27:16,747 --> 00:27:19,163 No. No, that's fine. I have a few minutes. 378 00:27:20,958 --> 00:27:23,892 Listen, Dana, I would have called you sooner. 379 00:27:25,687 --> 00:27:26,860 But... 380 00:27:30,208 --> 00:27:32,521 I just... I wanna be honest 381 00:27:32,659 --> 00:27:37,560 and my divorce just got final. 382 00:27:39,355 --> 00:27:41,530 I don't want to make things harder for you, Charles. 383 00:27:41,668 --> 00:27:45,292 No, but you're not. You're not. 384 00:27:45,430 --> 00:27:48,123 That's exactly why I'm calling you right now. 385 00:27:48,261 --> 00:27:50,470 You've got your daughter to think about. 386 00:27:50,608 --> 00:27:53,404 And I'm always gonna be thinking about her. 387 00:27:53,542 --> 00:27:55,302 You know, it's not gonna change. 388 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,892 But I just want you to know 389 00:27:59,030 --> 00:28:01,412 that you don't have anything to worry about. 390 00:28:02,654 --> 00:28:03,621 I promise. 391 00:28:06,382 --> 00:28:07,383 Fair enough. 392 00:28:15,495 --> 00:28:16,427 Hello? 393 00:28:18,809 --> 00:28:21,397 Dana, I want you to know I've been thinking about you. 394 00:28:23,365 --> 00:28:24,400 A lot. 395 00:28:26,989 --> 00:28:30,337 Well, you have had three weeks. 396 00:28:54,154 --> 00:28:56,674 Okay, okay, let's blow them out. Ready? 397 00:28:56,812 --> 00:28:58,849 [BOTH LAUGHING] 398 00:28:58,987 --> 00:29:00,264 Yay! 399 00:29:00,402 --> 00:29:04,233 Okay, now, let's get all sugared up. 400 00:29:04,371 --> 00:29:05,994 Here we go. 401 00:29:06,132 --> 00:29:07,996 [WHOOPING] 402 00:29:08,134 --> 00:29:10,515 [NE-YO'S "MISS INDEPENDENT" PLAYING ON RADIO] 403 00:29:13,967 --> 00:29:15,141 Okay. 404 00:29:17,315 --> 00:29:21,009 All right, time out. 405 00:29:21,147 --> 00:29:22,873 Mommy needs a little break. 406 00:29:27,394 --> 00:29:29,880 Peek-a-boo, Daddy! 407 00:29:30,018 --> 00:29:32,089 What are you talking about? 408 00:29:34,954 --> 00:29:37,473 What?Okay. 409 00:29:37,611 --> 00:29:38,820 What are you looking at? 410 00:29:38,958 --> 00:29:40,407 [RADIO STOPS PLAYING] 411 00:29:40,545 --> 00:29:42,340 What are you saying, silly boy? 412 00:29:42,478 --> 00:29:43,721 Peek-a-boo, Daddy! 413 00:29:46,172 --> 00:29:49,037 [] 414 00:30:58,451 --> 00:31:01,799 [STEVIE WONDER'S "FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE" PLAYING] 415 00:31:09,117 --> 00:31:11,395 [PHONE RINGING] 416 00:31:15,571 --> 00:31:16,883 Hello? 417 00:31:17,021 --> 00:31:18,540 Hey, it's Charles. How you doing? 418 00:31:18,678 --> 00:31:21,646 [SIGHS] Better now. 419 00:31:21,784 --> 00:31:24,615 There's barely any Black people, let alone Black women. 420 00:31:24,753 --> 00:31:26,651 No second chances if I mess up. 421 00:31:26,789 --> 00:31:28,653 It's like I'm the standard bearer 422 00:31:28,791 --> 00:31:31,277 for every other Black person who wants to work there. 423 00:31:31,415 --> 00:31:33,175 I understand that. 424 00:31:33,313 --> 00:31:36,040 But you do love what you do, right? 425 00:31:36,178 --> 00:31:39,216 It's the New York Times. Of course I love it. 426 00:31:39,354 --> 00:31:41,528 For a journalist, that's the dream come true. 427 00:31:41,666 --> 00:31:45,670 It's the only time I hate New York, when it's hot and muggy. 428 00:31:45,808 --> 00:31:50,365 New York is not hot. Iraq, now, that's hot. 429 00:31:50,503 --> 00:31:51,676 You've been to Iraq? 430 00:31:51,814 --> 00:31:54,300 Kuwait too. Desert Storm. 431 00:31:54,438 --> 00:31:57,406 Wow, was it bad? 432 00:31:57,544 --> 00:31:59,270 Bad enough. 433 00:32:01,341 --> 00:32:02,894 Listen, can I call you back later? 434 00:32:03,033 --> 00:32:04,551 I got a meeting with the brass in a few, 435 00:32:04,689 --> 00:32:07,106 and I do not want to be late. 436 00:32:07,244 --> 00:32:09,349 Yeah, of course. Call me tomorrow. 437 00:32:09,487 --> 00:32:11,420 All right, bye. 438 00:32:11,558 --> 00:32:12,939 Bye. 439 00:32:15,942 --> 00:32:17,495 Hang up. 440 00:32:17,633 --> 00:32:19,808 You hang up. 441 00:32:19,946 --> 00:32:21,499 No, you hang up. 442 00:32:21,637 --> 00:32:23,225 Are we really doing this right now? 443 00:32:23,363 --> 00:32:24,882 I guess we are. 444 00:32:25,020 --> 00:32:26,884 Okay. 445 00:32:27,022 --> 00:32:29,404 [CHUCKLES] Are you gonna hang up the phone? 446 00:32:29,542 --> 00:32:31,509 Bye. 447 00:32:32,959 --> 00:32:33,995 Bye. 448 00:32:36,721 --> 00:32:39,862 So do you think you'll want more kids? 449 00:32:40,001 --> 00:32:43,073 Definitely. I always wanted a big family. 450 00:32:45,903 --> 00:32:47,387 How's your daughter handling it? 451 00:32:47,525 --> 00:32:50,425 Christina? She's great. 452 00:32:50,563 --> 00:32:53,842 Beautiful. She listens. Smart. 453 00:32:55,844 --> 00:32:58,053 Lot smarter than me, I'll tell you that. 454 00:33:00,883 --> 00:33:02,023 Hold on one second. 455 00:33:07,718 --> 00:33:09,409 Um... 456 00:33:09,547 --> 00:33:11,032 You know, it was, uh... 457 00:33:13,896 --> 00:33:15,243 It was stressful. 458 00:33:17,762 --> 00:33:22,008 It was stressful for everybody. 459 00:33:22,146 --> 00:33:25,046 Well, how did you handle it? 460 00:33:25,184 --> 00:33:27,531 How did I handle it? It was, um... 461 00:33:35,090 --> 00:33:36,367 I felt like a failure. 462 00:33:41,269 --> 00:33:42,546 Tried to make it work. 463 00:33:45,031 --> 00:33:48,690 But, you know, we were young. 464 00:33:48,828 --> 00:33:53,902 We were kids trying to figure it out and... 465 00:33:55,766 --> 00:34:01,772 you know, we both were to blame, you know, so... 466 00:34:07,502 --> 00:34:08,537 It hurt. 467 00:34:11,782 --> 00:34:13,404 Well, I'm sorry you were hurt. 468 00:34:13,542 --> 00:34:16,649 Hey, no, it's... 469 00:34:16,787 --> 00:34:20,791 You know, I'm doing good. 470 00:34:22,448 --> 00:34:24,588 And I love being a father. 471 00:34:24,726 --> 00:34:27,211 You know, one of the best things that ever happened to me. 472 00:34:31,284 --> 00:34:33,044 And if I didn't go through that, 473 00:34:33,183 --> 00:34:36,151 I wouldn't be talking to you, so... 474 00:34:36,289 --> 00:34:37,808 Sometimes after dinner, 475 00:34:37,946 --> 00:34:41,639 my father would announce he was going to buy milk. 476 00:34:41,777 --> 00:34:46,472 I never understood how my mom could just sit there 477 00:34:46,610 --> 00:34:48,198 with her head down. 478 00:34:49,475 --> 00:34:52,133 She knew he was having an affair. 479 00:34:52,271 --> 00:34:53,996 Hell, the whole town did. 480 00:34:56,792 --> 00:35:02,212 One night, I came down with this terrible flu, 481 00:35:02,350 --> 00:35:04,524 and my mom had to borrow the neighbor's car 482 00:35:04,662 --> 00:35:06,354 to take me to the hospital. 483 00:35:08,390 --> 00:35:13,050 And I just remember lying there on that back seat, delirious. 484 00:35:15,259 --> 00:35:17,399 When I lifted my head up, 485 00:35:17,537 --> 00:35:19,021 I saw we were driving around 486 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,473 a parking lot of a bar on the base. 487 00:35:22,611 --> 00:35:26,063 How old were you?I was 7. 488 00:35:28,030 --> 00:35:30,171 She was looking for his car. 489 00:35:33,174 --> 00:35:37,212 Did she ever find it?No. 490 00:35:42,252 --> 00:35:44,806 He used to say that she trapped him 491 00:35:44,944 --> 00:35:46,911 by getting pregnant with me. 492 00:35:48,879 --> 00:35:51,502 She was just as trapped as he was. 493 00:35:54,264 --> 00:35:55,851 Wow. 494 00:35:58,889 --> 00:36:00,753 How'd that make you feel? 495 00:36:06,966 --> 00:36:09,417 Now, see... Mm-mm. 496 00:36:09,555 --> 00:36:12,454 You are all up in my business. 497 00:36:12,592 --> 00:36:14,456 Trying to get me all open. 498 00:36:14,594 --> 00:36:17,563 Well, sounds a little too late for that. 499 00:36:17,701 --> 00:36:19,392 What did you say? 500 00:36:19,530 --> 00:36:20,876 You heard me. 501 00:36:23,016 --> 00:36:24,846 No, I'm just playing. 502 00:36:24,984 --> 00:36:27,400 Enough about me. 503 00:36:29,437 --> 00:36:30,817 So, what do you do? 504 00:36:30,955 --> 00:36:33,993 When you're not turning young men into soldiers. 505 00:36:34,131 --> 00:36:39,895 Well, if I'm not drawing or painting... 506 00:36:43,071 --> 00:36:44,279 probably in the gym. 507 00:36:44,417 --> 00:36:47,800 Okay. I like the gym too. 508 00:36:47,938 --> 00:36:52,908 For the massages, and the little smoothies at the juice bar. 509 00:36:55,532 --> 00:36:58,500 Are you telling me you go to the gym and you don't work out? 510 00:36:58,638 --> 00:37:03,264 Well, I'm not exactly the workout type. 511 00:37:04,679 --> 00:37:06,646 But I stay active. 512 00:37:06,784 --> 00:37:08,130 It's a walking city. 513 00:37:11,064 --> 00:37:14,344 Well, the massages 514 00:37:14,482 --> 00:37:19,659 or juices, smoothies, all that, 515 00:37:19,797 --> 00:37:21,454 whatever it is you're doing... 516 00:37:24,492 --> 00:37:26,010 it's working. 517 00:37:28,116 --> 00:37:30,187 I think you are beautiful. 518 00:37:34,467 --> 00:37:37,056 So you like this guy or not?I can't. He's a soldier. 519 00:37:37,194 --> 00:37:38,644 My dad was a soldier. 520 00:37:38,782 --> 00:37:40,749 It's not like he walks around in uniform all the time. 521 00:37:40,887 --> 00:37:42,579 That shit would be hot though, boo-boo. 522 00:37:42,717 --> 00:37:43,718 Oh, girl! 523 00:37:43,856 --> 00:37:45,651 And he's divorced. 524 00:37:45,789 --> 00:37:47,135 And he has a 9-year-old daughter. 525 00:37:47,273 --> 00:37:48,826 So?Is he a good dad? 526 00:37:48,964 --> 00:37:50,207 He seems like it. 527 00:37:50,345 --> 00:37:51,588 I don't know. I don't know. 528 00:37:51,726 --> 00:37:53,383 He is not exactly my type. 529 00:37:53,521 --> 00:37:56,075 Look, you said he was nice, right? 530 00:37:56,213 --> 00:37:57,248 Mm-hm. 531 00:37:57,387 --> 00:38:00,390 And he's cute too?God, yes. 532 00:38:00,528 --> 00:38:01,770 So, what's your problem? 533 00:38:01,908 --> 00:38:03,082 Are you too good for him? 534 00:38:03,220 --> 00:38:05,395 You little bougie bitch. 535 00:38:05,533 --> 00:38:07,017 I barely know him. 536 00:38:07,155 --> 00:38:08,708 We've only talked on the phone. 537 00:38:08,846 --> 00:38:11,159 If you decide to let him visit, don't shave your legs. 538 00:38:11,297 --> 00:38:13,023 What?I know you. 539 00:38:13,161 --> 00:38:14,921 There is no way you would ever sleep with a guy, 540 00:38:15,059 --> 00:38:16,475 at least not the first time, 541 00:38:16,613 --> 00:38:19,063 without exfoliating, moisturizing, and shaving. 542 00:38:19,201 --> 00:38:20,962 God, it's true. 543 00:38:21,100 --> 00:38:22,343 Same. 544 00:38:23,792 --> 00:38:25,725 Sorry I can't come pick you up. 545 00:38:25,863 --> 00:38:28,279 Don't worry about it. I know you got work. 546 00:38:28,418 --> 00:38:31,110 If you get lucky with traffic, you should be here about30. 547 00:38:31,248 --> 00:38:33,215 You know, I could just stay in a hotel. 548 00:38:33,354 --> 00:38:34,907 It's not a problem. 549 00:38:35,045 --> 00:38:37,530 Of course not. Don't be silly. 550 00:38:37,668 --> 00:38:40,395 I mean, unless-- Well, do you wanna stay at a hotel? 551 00:38:40,533 --> 00:38:44,261 No. No, I'm good. 552 00:38:44,399 --> 00:38:49,093 Good. Okay, good. 553 00:38:49,231 --> 00:38:51,441 Oh, and by the way, that cab ride from LaGuardia 554 00:38:51,579 --> 00:38:53,615 shouldn't cost you more than 30 bucks. 555 00:38:53,753 --> 00:38:56,722 I usually tip if he helps me with my bags. 556 00:38:56,860 --> 00:38:58,965 And don't let him take the Queensboro Bridge. 557 00:38:59,103 --> 00:39:00,588 Okay, general. 558 00:39:00,726 --> 00:39:02,141 Hopefully, all my training 559 00:39:02,279 --> 00:39:04,350 and the tank battles I survived in Iraq 560 00:39:04,488 --> 00:39:06,835 have prepared me enough for New York City. 561 00:39:06,973 --> 00:39:08,906 As you were, Negro. 562 00:39:09,044 --> 00:39:11,875 And if I don't make it... Oh, God. 563 00:39:12,013 --> 00:39:13,670 I want you to know that I tried. 564 00:39:13,808 --> 00:39:16,120 Can you call my mama for me and just tell her that I love her? 565 00:39:16,258 --> 00:39:18,019 Charles, you can stop now. 566 00:39:18,157 --> 00:39:19,710 Guess what. 567 00:39:19,848 --> 00:39:21,022 Huh? 568 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,955 Guess.What? 569 00:39:23,093 --> 00:39:24,922 Chicken butt. 570 00:39:25,060 --> 00:39:27,269 You are so corny. 571 00:39:27,408 --> 00:39:29,548 Get off the phone! 572 00:39:29,686 --> 00:39:31,308 [PHONE RINGS] 573 00:39:31,446 --> 00:39:32,723 Hey, are you there? 574 00:39:32,861 --> 00:39:35,554 Yes, ma'am. I'm right here. 575 00:39:35,692 --> 00:39:36,796 I'm sorry, Manny. 576 00:39:36,934 --> 00:39:38,453 No problem, Ms. Canedy. 577 00:39:38,591 --> 00:39:41,111 Your guest has arrived. Do you want me to send him up? 578 00:39:41,249 --> 00:39:42,768 Yes, please. I left the key for him. 579 00:39:42,906 --> 00:39:44,148 Yes, ma'am, I got it right here. 580 00:39:44,286 --> 00:39:45,322 Can you put him on real quick? 581 00:39:45,460 --> 00:39:48,394 Sure. She wants to talk to you. 582 00:39:48,532 --> 00:39:50,983 Hey, just wanna let you know that I made it in safe. 583 00:39:51,121 --> 00:39:52,053 Mission accomplished. 584 00:39:52,191 --> 00:39:54,020 [CHUCKLES] Happy to hear. 585 00:39:54,158 --> 00:39:56,333 So I'm not gonna be home for another couple hours. 586 00:39:56,471 --> 00:39:58,646 Yeah, that's fine. I got my sketchbook with me, 587 00:39:58,784 --> 00:40:00,302 so handle your work.Okay. 588 00:40:00,441 --> 00:40:02,063 Help yourself to anything in the fridge. 589 00:40:02,201 --> 00:40:04,790 I'll do that. See you later?[MOUTHS] It's him. 590 00:40:04,928 --> 00:40:07,137 Can you put Manny back on? Sure. Hold on. 591 00:40:07,275 --> 00:40:08,483 Yes, ma'am. 592 00:40:08,621 --> 00:40:10,865 Manny, it's his first time in New York, 593 00:40:11,003 --> 00:40:13,868 help him if he needs anything. Yes, ma'am. 594 00:40:14,006 --> 00:40:16,836 Can you see if he has on kind of worn-out sneakers? 595 00:40:16,974 --> 00:40:21,496 Probably dirty?Yes, ma'am. 596 00:40:21,634 --> 00:40:25,604 Okay. You can send him up. All right. 597 00:40:26,984 --> 00:40:28,192 She says you can go on up. 598 00:40:28,330 --> 00:40:29,297 All right, perfect. 599 00:40:29,435 --> 00:40:31,368 Thanks, man.You got it. 600 00:40:33,991 --> 00:40:34,923 He there? 601 00:40:35,061 --> 00:40:36,442 Mm-hm. 602 00:40:36,580 --> 00:40:38,444 What are you doing? Get out of here! 603 00:40:38,582 --> 00:40:40,273 No! I have too much work to do. 604 00:40:40,411 --> 00:40:42,966 Work, shmerk! Go get some! 605 00:40:43,104 --> 00:40:45,969 [] 606 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:48,972 Here you go. 607 00:40:53,045 --> 00:40:55,185 Ms. Canedy.Manny. 608 00:40:55,323 --> 00:40:57,221 [CHUCKLES] 609 00:41:17,725 --> 00:41:19,623 [LOCK CLICKS] 610 00:41:23,006 --> 00:41:23,972 Hey, you. 611 00:41:24,110 --> 00:41:25,664 How was your day? 612 00:41:25,802 --> 00:41:27,010 It was good. 613 00:41:27,148 --> 00:41:29,150 How was your flight? 614 00:41:29,288 --> 00:41:30,531 It was good. 615 00:41:31,635 --> 00:41:32,912 Welcome home. 616 00:41:33,050 --> 00:41:35,363 [CHUCKLES] 617 00:41:35,501 --> 00:41:37,434 Mm. 618 00:41:37,572 --> 00:41:39,747 You smell good.Thank you. 619 00:41:39,885 --> 00:41:41,438 I got something for you. 620 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,962 This is for you. 621 00:41:48,100 --> 00:41:49,550 Oh, my God. 622 00:41:49,688 --> 00:41:51,862 You like it? 623 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,277 I do. 624 00:41:53,415 --> 00:41:56,557 I really tried to imagine you in my head. 625 00:42:02,252 --> 00:42:05,117 What?I'm lying. 626 00:42:05,255 --> 00:42:08,223 I used that photo over there.Oh, my God. 627 00:42:09,811 --> 00:42:10,985 Glad you like it. 628 00:42:12,573 --> 00:42:14,091 So I know you just got here, 629 00:42:14,229 --> 00:42:18,268 but we should probably talk about sleeping arrangements. 630 00:42:18,406 --> 00:42:21,582 I have a sofa bed. It's pretty comfortable. 631 00:42:23,756 --> 00:42:25,068 That's fine. 632 00:42:25,206 --> 00:42:27,795 I have no problem sleeping on the couch. 633 00:42:27,933 --> 00:42:29,072 Why you look nervous? 634 00:42:29,210 --> 00:42:30,591 What did you think I was gonna say? 635 00:42:30,729 --> 00:42:32,489 I don't look nervous. 636 00:42:32,627 --> 00:42:35,837 I just didn't want to set up any unrealistic expectations. 637 00:42:35,975 --> 00:42:38,909 Mm-hm. Well, I expect to have a good time. 638 00:42:40,290 --> 00:42:42,879 I'm not worried. I'll be with you. 639 00:42:49,679 --> 00:42:54,960 Okay. Have we decided?We have. Uh... 640 00:42:55,098 --> 00:42:57,825 I'm ready. Are you?Yeah. 641 00:42:57,963 --> 00:43:00,172 What is that?Olive oil. 642 00:43:01,794 --> 00:43:03,693 I'll have the linguini with clam sauce, please, 643 00:43:03,831 --> 00:43:05,798 and a caprese salad to start.Absolutely. 644 00:43:05,936 --> 00:43:08,870 And for you, sir?I'll have the Caesar salad. 645 00:43:09,008 --> 00:43:09,871 That's it? 646 00:43:11,321 --> 00:43:13,047 I'm sorry, can you give us one minute? 647 00:43:13,185 --> 00:43:15,118 Of course.Thank you. 648 00:43:15,256 --> 00:43:16,395 What? 649 00:43:16,533 --> 00:43:18,397 You can get a Caesar salad anywhere. 650 00:43:18,535 --> 00:43:20,813 Try the pasta.That's a lot of carbs. 651 00:43:20,951 --> 00:43:23,678 You eat mess hall food all day. Come on. 652 00:43:23,816 --> 00:43:27,544 How do you know what I like to eat? Hmm? 653 00:43:29,857 --> 00:43:33,377 Well, at least get some grilled chicken in it or something. 654 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:37,830 Okay. 655 00:43:46,943 --> 00:43:48,530 I really am glad you're here. 656 00:43:48,669 --> 00:43:51,844 I just want you to enjoy your weekend and a have good-- 657 00:43:59,231 --> 00:44:01,233 You taste like oregano. 658 00:44:11,588 --> 00:44:13,555 What kind of theater is that? 659 00:44:13,694 --> 00:44:15,696 That's an off-Broadway theater. 660 00:44:15,834 --> 00:44:18,112 So we're near Broadway.No. 661 00:44:18,250 --> 00:44:22,081 See, there's off-Broadway, and there's off-off-Broadway. 662 00:44:22,219 --> 00:44:25,119 Okay, so is there anything actually on Broadway? 663 00:44:25,257 --> 00:44:28,950 [CHUCKLES] Yes, but it's not about the street. 664 00:44:29,088 --> 00:44:32,126 It's all about the size of the house. 665 00:44:32,264 --> 00:44:34,991 The house?How many seats there are. 666 00:44:36,509 --> 00:44:38,788 In the house?Yes. 667 00:44:38,926 --> 00:44:41,687 Okay. In a theater house.Yes. 668 00:44:41,825 --> 00:44:42,999 Just like I thought. 669 00:44:49,626 --> 00:44:51,801 Charles, please. I appreciate the manners, 670 00:44:51,939 --> 00:44:54,286 but you can't keep walking on the outside of the sidewalk. 671 00:44:54,424 --> 00:44:56,771 It's New York. There are too many people. 672 00:44:56,909 --> 00:44:58,393 I'm sorry. I just can't help it. 673 00:44:59,981 --> 00:45:04,261 Just-- It's a force of habit. 674 00:45:05,849 --> 00:45:08,818 You know what? No, I'm sorry. Thank you. 675 00:45:08,956 --> 00:45:10,681 The world needs more gentlemen. 676 00:45:15,479 --> 00:45:18,344 That's an off-off-Broadway kiss. 677 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,213 That's an off-Broadway kiss. 678 00:45:26,801 --> 00:45:28,423 And this is... 679 00:45:35,948 --> 00:45:37,398 Broadway. 680 00:45:39,745 --> 00:45:43,197 And the Tony Award for best kiss goes to... 681 00:45:43,335 --> 00:45:46,303 No, hold on a second. Who the hell is Tony? 682 00:45:48,098 --> 00:45:48,961 Easy. 683 00:45:56,348 --> 00:45:58,522 Uh, I'm gonna go freshen up really quick. 684 00:45:58,660 --> 00:46:02,078 There's water and stuff in the fridge, 685 00:46:02,216 --> 00:46:05,978 so help yourself to whatever.Okay. 686 00:46:12,398 --> 00:46:13,952 [DOOR CLOSES] 687 00:46:21,476 --> 00:46:23,513 [SOFTLY] She's so fine. 688 00:46:38,839 --> 00:46:39,943 No. 689 00:47:07,419 --> 00:47:08,730 Do you need anything? 690 00:47:11,941 --> 00:47:16,877 Uh, yeah, maybe just a couple extra pillows and a blanket. 691 00:47:17,015 --> 00:47:18,775 That red wine got me sleepy. 692 00:47:20,742 --> 00:47:24,401 I was thinking maybe you could sleep on one side of the bed. 693 00:47:26,093 --> 00:47:26,956 If you want. 694 00:47:30,097 --> 00:47:33,100 Yeah. Yeah, that'd be cool. 695 00:47:34,377 --> 00:47:36,241 [WATER RUNNING] 696 00:47:50,082 --> 00:47:51,566 [CLEARS THROAT] 697 00:48:39,442 --> 00:48:40,650 We should stop. 698 00:48:40,788 --> 00:48:41,996 Huh? 699 00:48:44,343 --> 00:48:48,347 Yeah, sorry. Uh... It's all that oregano. 700 00:49:01,567 --> 00:49:03,052 Good night. 701 00:49:05,192 --> 00:49:06,503 Good night. 702 00:49:14,684 --> 00:49:17,549 [CHARLES GRUNTING, PANTING] 703 00:49:50,168 --> 00:49:52,825 Who travels with exercise equipment? 704 00:49:52,963 --> 00:49:54,689 I do. 705 00:49:54,827 --> 00:49:57,761 You slept good.I slept well. 706 00:49:58,969 --> 00:50:00,005 You slept well. 707 00:50:08,220 --> 00:50:11,706 Now, you need to put all that away. 708 00:50:11,844 --> 00:50:13,743 I have not had my coffee yet. 709 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,988 I remembered. You like it black, right? 710 00:50:20,198 --> 00:50:22,096 Yes, I do. 711 00:50:22,234 --> 00:50:26,928 All right, so I'm gonna need you to get up, 712 00:50:27,067 --> 00:50:30,587 get in the shower, get dressed, then we'll go for a run. 713 00:50:30,725 --> 00:50:33,901 But I wanna see more of your city. Okay? 714 00:50:36,869 --> 00:50:37,939 [LAUGHS] 715 00:50:38,078 --> 00:50:40,425 And I wanna see more of your city. 716 00:50:40,563 --> 00:50:42,737 I'll take your state, your zip code. 717 00:50:42,875 --> 00:50:44,325 I wanna see your area code. 718 00:50:44,463 --> 00:50:46,431 I wanna see your social security number. 719 00:50:46,569 --> 00:50:48,295 I wanna see your passport, 720 00:50:48,433 --> 00:50:51,815 your military ID, your blood type. 721 00:50:51,953 --> 00:50:53,645 Show it all to me. 722 00:50:53,783 --> 00:50:56,303 Oh, my God! I wanna see it all! 723 00:50:58,132 --> 00:51:01,066 [] 724 00:51:02,792 --> 00:51:04,552 Mmm!Mm-hm. 725 00:51:06,209 --> 00:51:08,694 Mm-hm.I told you. 726 00:51:08,832 --> 00:51:11,973 You really trying to corrupt me.You know you like it. 727 00:51:18,497 --> 00:51:21,328 So when are you gonna show me this Monet? 728 00:51:21,466 --> 00:51:23,123 Saving the best for last. 729 00:51:26,298 --> 00:51:29,543 You know, I can't show you the whole city in one weekend. 730 00:51:35,342 --> 00:51:37,275 Then I guess I gotta come back. 731 00:52:10,204 --> 00:52:11,205 Wait.What? What? 732 00:52:11,343 --> 00:52:12,620 I have to take a shower.Now? 733 00:52:12,758 --> 00:52:14,277 Yes, now. Because.No, no, why? 734 00:52:14,415 --> 00:52:15,761 No.No. 735 00:52:15,899 --> 00:52:17,211 I'll be right back. 736 00:52:28,257 --> 00:52:30,190 [DOOR OPENS] 737 00:52:39,889 --> 00:52:42,063 I'll keep that in mind. 738 00:52:42,202 --> 00:52:43,858 Close the drapes. 739 00:52:46,723 --> 00:52:48,035 I got you. 740 00:53:06,778 --> 00:53:09,677 [] 741 00:53:34,978 --> 00:53:36,325 Slow down. 742 00:54:01,246 --> 00:54:02,558 You like it? 743 00:54:07,079 --> 00:54:08,667 I love it. 744 00:54:11,221 --> 00:54:12,430 It's so beautiful. 745 00:54:19,368 --> 00:54:20,783 Thank you. 746 00:54:35,729 --> 00:54:38,248 [IMITATING BUGLE PLAYING "REVEILLE"] 747 00:54:39,491 --> 00:54:40,492 What? 748 00:54:43,357 --> 00:54:44,945 What are you doing up before me? 749 00:54:45,083 --> 00:54:47,292 We've only got four days, soldier. 750 00:54:47,430 --> 00:54:48,880 It's Christmas time in New York. 751 00:54:49,018 --> 00:54:50,295 Up and at them. 752 00:54:53,194 --> 00:54:55,956 [DONNY HATHAWAY "THIS CHRISTMAS" PLAYING] 753 00:55:04,689 --> 00:55:06,760 Are you done yet? 754 00:55:06,898 --> 00:55:08,555 Yeah. 755 00:55:08,693 --> 00:55:11,799 Well, come on out. Let me see. 756 00:55:14,630 --> 00:55:17,287 Charles, get out here, please. 757 00:55:22,085 --> 00:55:23,293 Oh, yes. 758 00:55:23,432 --> 00:55:24,950 I-I don't know. 759 00:55:25,088 --> 00:55:29,921 Let's try the blazer. Come on. 760 00:55:30,059 --> 00:55:31,888 I look like somebody's accountant. 761 00:55:32,026 --> 00:55:33,821 Mm-hm. A fine one. 762 00:55:33,959 --> 00:55:36,479 And do you know how expensive these clothes are? 763 00:55:36,617 --> 00:55:38,619 It's a Christmas gift. 764 00:55:38,757 --> 00:55:41,415 No, I can't let you do that.I want to. 765 00:55:41,553 --> 00:55:43,555 I know you don't care about clothes. 766 00:55:43,693 --> 00:55:46,006 Because clothes don't make the man, baby. 767 00:55:46,144 --> 00:55:48,526 But the man can make the clothes, baby. 768 00:55:48,664 --> 00:55:50,873 Besides, you work hard. 769 00:55:51,011 --> 00:55:54,428 You deserve more than just baggy jeans and T-shirts. 770 00:55:54,566 --> 00:55:56,292 I like my jeans.Okay. 771 00:55:56,430 --> 00:55:58,121 Well, what about the grandpa sneakers? 772 00:55:58,259 --> 00:55:59,985 Grandpa? 773 00:56:00,123 --> 00:56:02,540 The only place you should be wearing those to is the gym. 774 00:56:02,678 --> 00:56:04,058 They're practical and comfortable. 775 00:56:04,196 --> 00:56:07,545 And those aren't? Come on, now. 776 00:56:07,683 --> 00:56:10,858 Don't act like you don't like it. 777 00:56:13,447 --> 00:56:17,969 Look at you. Smile. See? 778 00:56:21,213 --> 00:56:23,146 Fine. 779 00:56:23,284 --> 00:56:25,114 I'm keeping my sneakers, I'm paying for half. 780 00:56:25,252 --> 00:56:26,426 Charles!Half! 781 00:56:29,429 --> 00:56:30,878 Baby.Hmm? 782 00:56:31,016 --> 00:56:32,362 I want you to be my girlfriend. 783 00:56:32,501 --> 00:56:34,157 What? 784 00:56:34,295 --> 00:56:37,782 I want you to be my lady. Like, officially. 785 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:42,683 What do you mean, like, go steady? 786 00:56:42,821 --> 00:56:45,375 You know exactly what that means. Heh. 787 00:56:45,514 --> 00:56:49,310 That's funny?No. It's just-- 788 00:56:49,449 --> 00:56:52,486 It's just what?We're grown. 789 00:56:52,624 --> 00:56:55,938 Yeah. We're grown enough to commit to one another. 790 00:56:57,491 --> 00:56:58,941 Charles. 791 00:56:59,079 --> 00:57:00,632 Don't say my name like that. 792 00:57:00,770 --> 00:57:02,185 [DOORBELL BUZZES] 793 00:57:02,323 --> 00:57:04,325 Can we talk about this later?I want to now. 794 00:57:04,464 --> 00:57:05,913 We have guests.They can wait. 795 00:57:08,916 --> 00:57:09,986 Please? 796 00:57:14,335 --> 00:57:16,303 - Merry Christmas!- Hi. 797 00:57:16,441 --> 00:57:17,994 Merry Christmas! 798 00:57:21,204 --> 00:57:23,897 However, I don't want her hurt. 799 00:57:24,035 --> 00:57:25,277 I don't want her hurt.No, no. 800 00:57:25,415 --> 00:57:26,831 That's not my intention at all. 801 00:57:26,969 --> 00:57:29,316 I know it's not your intentions, but it may happen. 802 00:57:29,454 --> 00:57:31,421 He actually said officially? 803 00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:34,045 That's the sweetest thing I ever heard. Oh, my God. 804 00:57:34,183 --> 00:57:36,185 To die for.It is so corny. 805 00:57:36,323 --> 00:57:37,566 But he can't help it. He's military. 806 00:57:37,704 --> 00:57:40,603 You can't help it. You're falling for him. 807 00:57:40,741 --> 00:57:42,536 Yeah, you're sprung, boo-boo.I am not. 808 00:57:42,674 --> 00:57:44,227 I've never seen you like this before. 809 00:57:44,365 --> 00:57:45,850 Like what?Like you like him. 810 00:57:45,988 --> 00:57:48,853 Of course I like him.No, I mean, you "like" like him. 811 00:57:48,991 --> 00:57:51,200 Like you really like him. 812 00:57:51,338 --> 00:57:52,995 I want a drink.You want wine or-- 813 00:57:53,133 --> 00:57:55,894 It's Christmas, I need a drink. I need a drink. 814 00:57:56,032 --> 00:58:00,002 But you're gonna be good to her.Yes, yes, ma'am, I am. 815 00:58:00,140 --> 00:58:02,280 You said--No, no, I want Scotch. 816 00:58:02,418 --> 00:58:03,937 You weren't kidding about his ass. 817 00:58:04,075 --> 00:58:05,663 You could bounce a quarter off that thing. 818 00:58:05,801 --> 00:58:07,527 'Tis the season.Ho, ho, ho. 819 00:58:07,665 --> 00:58:09,563 Just tell me one thing.Hmm? 820 00:58:09,701 --> 00:58:10,806 Is he good in bed? 821 00:58:12,497 --> 00:58:14,257 Now, you know we wouldn't be talking if he weren't. 822 00:58:14,395 --> 00:58:15,431 [ALL EXCLAIM] 823 00:58:15,569 --> 00:58:16,605 Good God. 824 00:58:16,743 --> 00:58:18,952 I don't want that.Yeah. 825 00:58:19,090 --> 00:58:20,919 She's a good girl.She is a very good girl. 826 00:58:21,057 --> 00:58:23,197 She was a-- Don't talk to me like that. 827 00:58:23,335 --> 00:58:24,716 No, no, like a nice girl. 828 00:58:26,373 --> 00:58:28,824 Julie?Yeah, Ms. Judy. 829 00:58:28,962 --> 00:58:31,965 Yeah, she could talk. She could talk. 830 00:58:32,103 --> 00:58:35,485 So you gonna answer my question?What question? 831 00:58:35,624 --> 00:58:36,901 The one we were talking about earlier. 832 00:58:37,039 --> 00:58:39,835 Charles, you know I care about you. 833 00:58:39,973 --> 00:58:42,596 Why do we have to define our relationship? 834 00:58:42,734 --> 00:58:45,772 Because we have one.But what's the hurry? 835 00:58:45,910 --> 00:58:48,602 There's no hurry. We've just been together for six months. 836 00:58:50,328 --> 00:58:52,261 I don't wanna give up my career to follow you around 837 00:58:52,399 --> 00:58:53,918 to different military bases. 838 00:58:54,056 --> 00:58:55,644 Well, who said anything about that? 839 00:58:55,782 --> 00:58:57,922 And you don't even live here. 840 00:58:58,060 --> 00:59:00,407 You seeing somebody else?What? 841 00:59:01,719 --> 00:59:04,791 Are you seeing somebody else?No. 842 00:59:06,862 --> 00:59:08,104 I'm serious. 843 00:59:10,590 --> 00:59:13,075 No. I'm not. 844 00:59:13,213 --> 00:59:16,319 I would never ask you to give up your career just to follow me. 845 00:59:16,457 --> 00:59:17,804 You know that, right? 846 00:59:21,221 --> 00:59:22,325 Yeah, I know. 847 00:59:33,267 --> 00:59:37,686 I'm not saying this is gonna be easy, but we can make this work. 848 00:59:42,138 --> 00:59:43,795 How can you be so sure? 849 00:59:47,454 --> 00:59:48,489 I can't. 850 00:59:50,181 --> 00:59:51,700 I can't predict the future either, 851 00:59:51,838 --> 00:59:54,288 but I know we got a shot at one. 852 00:59:59,639 --> 01:00:01,537 Do you trust me? 853 01:00:04,782 --> 01:00:06,093 Yeah. 854 01:00:09,959 --> 01:00:13,825 Then be my girlfriend. Officially. 855 01:00:18,588 --> 01:00:20,107 I already am. 856 01:00:30,842 --> 01:00:33,707 [] 857 01:00:35,605 --> 01:00:39,023 You know you could've told me that earlier, right? 858 01:00:39,161 --> 01:00:41,232 I had to make you work for it. 859 01:00:44,269 --> 01:00:46,030 Now it's about to be your turn. 860 01:00:48,722 --> 01:00:50,103 Lead the way. 861 01:00:58,836 --> 01:01:00,147 Leave them open. 862 01:01:05,739 --> 01:01:07,258 Baby. 863 01:01:19,891 --> 01:01:23,377 Slow down, slow down, slow down. 864 01:01:23,515 --> 01:01:24,516 Hold up. 865 01:02:02,623 --> 01:02:04,280 Do you want a ride? 866 01:02:04,418 --> 01:02:06,731 Now, you know you don't wanna drive to the airport 867 01:02:06,869 --> 01:02:08,146 this early in the morning. 868 01:02:08,284 --> 01:02:09,492 It's freezing out. 869 01:02:14,739 --> 01:02:16,810 And you could put this one under the tree. 870 01:02:16,948 --> 01:02:19,295 Another one?This is for Manny. 871 01:02:19,433 --> 01:02:20,538 The doorman? 872 01:02:20,676 --> 01:02:22,540 It's a Mets hat. He's from Queens. 873 01:02:22,678 --> 01:02:25,508 I didn't know you two were friends. 874 01:02:25,646 --> 01:02:27,234 We're buddies. 875 01:02:27,372 --> 01:02:29,789 Oh, buddies. 876 01:02:31,894 --> 01:02:33,482 Bet you didn't know he was a marine. 877 01:02:33,620 --> 01:02:36,830 No. He never mentioned it. 878 01:02:36,968 --> 01:02:38,728 That's because you two aren't buddies. 879 01:02:40,696 --> 01:02:42,353 This is for you. 880 01:02:43,872 --> 01:02:45,321 It's a bunch of grandpa music? 881 01:02:45,459 --> 01:02:48,152 Hey, that's grown man music right there. 882 01:02:48,290 --> 01:02:49,498 Crazy woman. 883 01:02:50,948 --> 01:02:52,673 Am I? 884 01:02:52,812 --> 01:02:55,366 What?Crazy. 885 01:02:57,782 --> 01:02:59,335 Absolutely not. 886 01:03:02,718 --> 01:03:06,791 I'm gonna call you when I land.Be careful. 887 01:03:06,929 --> 01:03:08,275 I will. 888 01:03:12,555 --> 01:03:15,006 You know, you can leave some of your new stuff here. 889 01:03:16,663 --> 01:03:19,873 I can clear out some closet space. 890 01:03:20,011 --> 01:03:21,461 If you want. 891 01:03:29,676 --> 01:03:32,575 [] 892 01:03:37,718 --> 01:03:39,617 [DOOR CLOSES] 893 01:04:07,369 --> 01:04:09,405 [PHONE RINGING] 894 01:04:19,933 --> 01:04:21,970 - Hello?- Guess what. 895 01:04:22,108 --> 01:04:23,799 Chicken butt. 896 01:04:23,937 --> 01:04:25,421 I'm serious. 897 01:04:25,559 --> 01:04:28,010 CHARLES [CHUCKLES]: Okay, what? 898 01:04:28,148 --> 01:04:30,806 We're doing a whole series on race in America. 899 01:04:30,944 --> 01:04:32,428 I'm writing one of the stories, 900 01:04:32,566 --> 01:04:34,568 and they want me to be an editor too. 901 01:04:34,706 --> 01:04:37,226 This is the biggest opportunity they've ever given me. 902 01:04:37,364 --> 01:04:38,918 Hey! Congratulations. 903 01:04:39,056 --> 01:04:40,643 But if I don't nail this, 904 01:04:40,781 --> 01:04:42,473 my career at theTimes will literally be over. 905 01:04:42,611 --> 01:04:44,475 Woman, please. No, no, I'm not kidding. 906 01:04:44,613 --> 01:04:46,132 They'll fire me. 907 01:04:46,270 --> 01:04:47,996 I can't lose this job, Charles. 908 01:04:48,134 --> 01:04:49,825 New York is too expensive, and... 909 01:04:49,963 --> 01:04:53,208 Stop. Listen, they picked you because you're qualified 910 01:04:53,346 --> 01:04:55,313 and you do outstanding work. 911 01:04:55,451 --> 01:04:56,866 I'm proud of you. 912 01:04:57,005 --> 01:04:58,454 Thank you, baby. 913 01:04:58,592 --> 01:05:02,148 And I can't wait to read what you write. 914 01:05:02,286 --> 01:05:04,322 I gotta start flying to Akron once a week 915 01:05:04,460 --> 01:05:06,566 before I write anything. 916 01:05:06,704 --> 01:05:08,533 Not looking forward to that. 917 01:05:08,671 --> 01:05:11,502 Okay, well, just give me a couple weeks. 918 01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:13,090 Let me get my new soldiers squared away, 919 01:05:13,228 --> 01:05:14,746 and I'll see if I can fly down. 920 01:05:14,884 --> 01:05:17,370 Really? Yeah. 921 01:05:17,508 --> 01:05:18,923 I'd love that. 922 01:05:20,994 --> 01:05:22,858 [KEYPAD BEEPING] 923 01:05:22,996 --> 01:05:24,929 [LINE TRILLING] 924 01:05:26,655 --> 01:05:28,657 You've reached First Sergeant Charles King. 925 01:05:28,795 --> 01:05:30,521 Please leave a message after the beep. 926 01:05:30,659 --> 01:05:32,350 [BEEPS]Hey, sweetie. 927 01:05:32,488 --> 01:05:33,903 I made it back to Akron. 928 01:05:34,042 --> 01:05:36,665 I think all this traveling has got me sick. 929 01:05:36,803 --> 01:05:38,080 Thank you.Thank you. 930 01:05:38,218 --> 01:05:42,533 Anyways, I, uh-- I can't wait to see you. 931 01:05:42,671 --> 01:05:44,880 Call me later. Bye. 932 01:05:45,018 --> 01:05:47,710 [LINE TRILLING] 933 01:05:47,848 --> 01:05:49,850 You've reached First Sergeant Charles King. 934 01:05:49,989 --> 01:05:51,680 Please leave a message after the beep. 935 01:05:51,818 --> 01:05:54,407 Charles, where are you? 936 01:05:54,545 --> 01:05:56,029 Starting to get worried. 937 01:05:58,859 --> 01:06:00,758 [PHONE RINGING] 938 01:06:03,209 --> 01:06:05,349 Charles?Hey, baby. 939 01:06:05,487 --> 01:06:08,283 Where are you? I'm at the hospital. 940 01:06:08,421 --> 01:06:10,561 One of my soldiers' wives just had a baby. 941 01:06:10,699 --> 01:06:12,356 Well, I've been calling you. 942 01:06:12,494 --> 01:06:15,462 I'm sorry. I had to come to the hospital to help him. 943 01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:17,533 Help him what? 944 01:06:17,671 --> 01:06:19,259 Dana, he's 19 years old. 945 01:06:19,397 --> 01:06:21,503 You know, he was scared. He needed me. 946 01:06:21,641 --> 01:06:23,815 Well, they don't have phones at the hospital? 947 01:06:23,953 --> 01:06:25,921 It was pretty hectic in here. 948 01:06:26,059 --> 01:06:27,992 I tried, but I couldn't get away. 949 01:06:28,130 --> 01:06:29,821 Well, since when is delivering babies 950 01:06:29,959 --> 01:06:31,513 a part of your job description? 951 01:06:34,067 --> 01:06:35,931 How about we both get some sleep tonight, 952 01:06:36,069 --> 01:06:37,864 and we'll talk about it in the morning? 953 01:06:38,002 --> 01:06:40,384 It is morning. And I'm sick as a dog 954 01:06:40,522 --> 01:06:42,524 and stuck in Akron, Ohio, waiting for you. 955 01:06:42,662 --> 01:06:44,250 I thought you were in a plane crash. 956 01:06:44,388 --> 01:06:46,217 I-I'm sorry. I should've called you, 957 01:06:46,355 --> 01:06:48,150 but you know I have to be there for my men. 958 01:06:48,288 --> 01:06:50,083 And what about me? 959 01:06:50,221 --> 01:06:51,602 Your official girlfriend. 960 01:06:51,740 --> 01:06:53,500 I haven't seen you in two months. 961 01:06:53,638 --> 01:06:55,640 Baby, it's only been six weeks. 962 01:06:55,778 --> 01:06:59,127 Okay, I don't think you understand how hurt I am. 963 01:06:59,265 --> 01:07:01,750 Dana, his wife had complications. 964 01:07:01,888 --> 01:07:03,441 Well, what kind? 965 01:07:03,579 --> 01:07:06,099 I don't know exactly. 966 01:07:06,237 --> 01:07:10,069 So, you've been there all night and you don't know anything? 967 01:07:10,207 --> 01:07:12,623 All I know is that she needed a C-section. 968 01:07:12,761 --> 01:07:15,177 Hmm. I see. 969 01:07:17,041 --> 01:07:19,388 So maybe you're the one that's seeing someone else. 970 01:07:19,526 --> 01:07:21,218 What? That why you missed your flight? 971 01:07:21,356 --> 01:07:24,842 What? No. No. No. 972 01:07:24,980 --> 01:07:27,431 You wanna talk to him? He's in the other room with his wife. 973 01:07:27,569 --> 01:07:29,122 Charles, you can get your soldiers 974 01:07:29,260 --> 01:07:30,468 to say anything that you want. 975 01:07:30,606 --> 01:07:32,125 Come on, Dana, you're talking crazy. 976 01:07:32,263 --> 01:07:35,232 Crazy? I have been sitting in a hotel room for hours 977 01:07:35,370 --> 01:07:36,750 waiting on you.Why would I lie? 978 01:07:36,888 --> 01:07:38,269 You did not even bother to call me 979 01:07:38,407 --> 01:07:39,960 to let me know that you're not coming. 980 01:07:40,099 --> 01:07:41,617 Relax.I don't need to relax. 981 01:07:41,755 --> 01:07:45,587 We're-- You-- I can't do this. Goodbye. 982 01:07:52,525 --> 01:07:54,009 [CLEARS THROAT] 983 01:07:54,147 --> 01:07:58,047 [] 984 01:08:05,158 --> 01:08:07,643 Hey, Manny.Welcome back, Ms. Canedy. 985 01:08:07,781 --> 01:08:09,162 You got a delivery earlier. 986 01:08:09,300 --> 01:08:11,647 I hope you don't mind, I put it upstairs.Thanks. 987 01:08:19,103 --> 01:08:20,829 What are you doing here? 988 01:08:22,141 --> 01:08:25,074 Dana, I screwed up. And I'm sorry. 989 01:08:25,213 --> 01:08:27,042 No, no, you can't just show up like this. 990 01:08:27,180 --> 01:08:28,837 We haven't spoken in weeks. 991 01:08:28,975 --> 01:08:30,632 Because you won't return my calls. 992 01:08:30,770 --> 01:08:32,565 Because I didn't wanna talk to you. 993 01:08:32,703 --> 01:08:35,568 I'm sorry I didn't show up in Akron. 994 01:08:35,706 --> 01:08:37,673 You're right. I should've called you that night. 995 01:08:37,811 --> 01:08:40,124 I had no idea where you were. 996 01:08:40,262 --> 01:08:41,850 Or who you were with. 997 01:08:41,988 --> 01:08:44,059 I wasn't with anybody. 998 01:08:46,510 --> 01:08:47,683 Dana. 999 01:08:49,582 --> 01:08:50,893 Baby. 1000 01:08:52,895 --> 01:08:55,933 I'm-- I'm not your father. 1001 01:08:57,831 --> 01:08:59,833 I will never be with another woman. 1002 01:09:01,732 --> 01:09:02,698 I love you. 1003 01:09:02,836 --> 01:09:04,631 You don't love me.I do. 1004 01:09:04,769 --> 01:09:06,357 No, you love your men. 1005 01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:10,499 I'm just better looking.No. Dana. 1006 01:09:11,569 --> 01:09:12,846 I love you. 1007 01:09:16,298 --> 01:09:18,852 I might've given you a reason to leave me, but... 1008 01:09:20,682 --> 01:09:22,753 I'm never gonna leave you. 1009 01:09:27,033 --> 01:09:28,379 I love you. 1010 01:09:31,969 --> 01:09:33,212 I love you too. 1011 01:09:35,662 --> 01:09:37,216 I'm not going anywhere. 1012 01:09:40,357 --> 01:09:45,085 You can trust that. Okay? You can trust that. 1013 01:09:46,811 --> 01:09:48,710 Okay? Okay? 1014 01:09:48,848 --> 01:09:51,713 [] 1015 01:09:53,266 --> 01:09:58,133 I love you so much. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. 1016 01:09:58,271 --> 01:09:59,928 I'm so sorry. 1017 01:10:03,828 --> 01:10:05,761 You know, it's not a bad color on you. 1018 01:10:08,247 --> 01:10:10,387 Sometimes I forget you're a soldier. 1019 01:10:15,771 --> 01:10:18,084 Can I ask you a question? 1020 01:10:18,222 --> 01:10:20,189 Have I ever been able to stop you? 1021 01:10:22,122 --> 01:10:23,607 What's combat like? 1022 01:10:25,229 --> 01:10:27,956 My dad never talks about Vietnam. 1023 01:10:28,094 --> 01:10:29,889 You never talk about Iraq. 1024 01:10:33,617 --> 01:10:35,722 To be honest, I don't remember much. 1025 01:10:37,759 --> 01:10:39,070 Smells. 1026 01:10:40,865 --> 01:10:42,177 Sounds. 1027 01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:49,288 Training kicks in, so it's kind of a blur. 1028 01:10:51,324 --> 01:10:53,361 Were you scared? 1029 01:10:53,499 --> 01:10:55,155 Of course I was. 1030 01:11:02,059 --> 01:11:06,443 Have you ever actually killed someone? 1031 01:11:22,942 --> 01:11:24,840 [SIGHS] 1032 01:11:28,879 --> 01:11:31,882 How can you be a soldier and believe in God? 1033 01:11:32,020 --> 01:11:33,884 [HELICOPTER WHIRRING SOFTLY] 1034 01:11:35,713 --> 01:11:37,439 I believe in evil too. 1035 01:11:38,992 --> 01:11:41,650 Protecting people who can't protect themselves. 1036 01:11:51,660 --> 01:11:55,112 [CHANTING] Hard work work! Hard work work! 1037 01:11:55,250 --> 01:11:57,079 And everyone's doing another formation. 1038 01:11:57,217 --> 01:12:00,048 Hey! What's wrong with you, boy? 1039 01:12:00,186 --> 01:12:04,432 Get your ass out of the line. What's wrong with you, boy! 1040 01:12:04,570 --> 01:12:06,468 Get your ass over here. What's wrong with you? 1041 01:12:06,606 --> 01:12:09,264 Your ass is out of formation. March now! March! 1042 01:12:09,402 --> 01:12:11,956 You know what I'm talking about? They're sitting here, waiting. 1043 01:12:12,094 --> 01:12:13,717 Yes, first sarge.Wagon wheel! 1044 01:12:13,855 --> 01:12:15,788 Are you out of your mind?No, first sarge. 1045 01:12:15,926 --> 01:12:16,996 We're out in the streets, taking fire, 1046 01:12:17,134 --> 01:12:18,446 you looking real weak here. 1047 01:12:18,584 --> 01:12:19,999 You see these guys?Yes. 1048 01:12:20,137 --> 01:12:21,897 They're willing to take a bullet and die for you. 1049 01:12:22,035 --> 01:12:24,590 Look at them. They're willing to die for you. 1050 01:12:24,728 --> 01:12:27,213 You tired? You tired?Yes, first sarge. 1051 01:12:27,351 --> 01:12:29,249 Keep moving your feet. 1052 01:12:29,388 --> 01:12:31,907 I'm gonna put you on my back. It's no man left behind. 1053 01:12:32,045 --> 01:12:34,634 No man left behind, you hear me?Yes, first sarge. 1054 01:12:34,772 --> 01:12:36,256 Do I need to carry you?No. 1055 01:12:36,395 --> 01:12:38,707 Get on my back and I'll carry you!No! 1056 01:12:38,845 --> 01:12:40,640 I know you're still smoking those cigarettes. 1057 01:12:40,778 --> 01:12:42,884 Yes, first sarge.You gotta get off that stuff. 1058 01:12:43,022 --> 01:12:46,059 Come on. Get in my formation, let's go. 1059 01:12:46,197 --> 01:12:47,751 Let's go! Work, work. 1060 01:12:47,889 --> 01:12:50,478 Come on, Imhoff! No more slow asses, you feel me? 1061 01:12:50,616 --> 01:12:53,688 There it is. Let him hear it!Hard work work. 1062 01:12:54,896 --> 01:12:57,450 Hard work work.Work work. 1063 01:12:57,588 --> 01:12:59,314 Hard work work. 1064 01:13:02,144 --> 01:13:03,594 Excuse me. 1065 01:13:03,732 --> 01:13:07,322 [PHONES RINGING][CLAMORING] 1066 01:13:07,460 --> 01:13:09,428 Excuse me, sorry. 1067 01:13:11,050 --> 01:13:13,017 [RINGING] 1068 01:13:13,155 --> 01:13:14,605 Charles? Dana. 1069 01:13:14,743 --> 01:13:16,331 You okay?Hey. Yeah, yeah, I'm fine. 1070 01:13:16,469 --> 01:13:17,677 You're safe?Yes, I'm safe. 1071 01:13:17,815 --> 01:13:19,645 Where are you? I'm at the office. 1072 01:13:19,783 --> 01:13:20,646 You watching this? 1073 01:13:22,337 --> 01:13:24,926 Oh, my God. Oh, my God![PEOPLE SCREAMING] 1074 01:13:25,064 --> 01:13:29,206 Another plane has just hit into another building. 1075 01:13:29,344 --> 01:13:31,104 I want you to go home and don't leave. 1076 01:13:31,242 --> 01:13:33,348 Call your parents, tell them not to leave the house. 1077 01:13:33,486 --> 01:13:35,454 Don't do anything till you hear from me, got it? 1078 01:13:35,592 --> 01:13:37,870 Yeah. Yes, I got it. I got it! Nothing. 1079 01:13:38,008 --> 01:13:40,355 All right, I gotta go.Charles. Wait. 1080 01:13:40,493 --> 01:13:42,495 Yes?Please be careful. 1081 01:13:44,083 --> 01:13:45,464 You too. 1082 01:13:45,602 --> 01:13:47,569 Okay. All right, bye. 1083 01:13:51,090 --> 01:13:53,920 [THE MAIN INGREDIENT'S "YOU'VE BEEN MY INSPIRATION" PLAYING] 1084 01:14:18,911 --> 01:14:21,327 Hey, sweetie. How was school?Fine. 1085 01:14:21,465 --> 01:14:22,880 [DOOR SLAMS] 1086 01:14:35,375 --> 01:14:37,308 May I come in?No. 1087 01:14:43,556 --> 01:14:45,247 Do you wanna talk?No. 1088 01:14:47,422 --> 01:14:48,975 Jordan Monroe King, look at me. 1089 01:14:52,220 --> 01:14:54,533 Oh, my God, baby, what happened?I got in a fight. 1090 01:14:54,671 --> 01:14:56,604 With who?Lance. 1091 01:14:56,742 --> 01:14:58,122 Oh, I'm calling the principal. 1092 01:14:58,260 --> 01:14:59,607 And I wanna talk to that boy's parents. 1093 01:14:59,745 --> 01:15:00,918 Mom, no. 1094 01:15:01,056 --> 01:15:03,783 Snitches get stitches.What? 1095 01:15:03,921 --> 01:15:05,578 If I snitch, I'm dead. 1096 01:15:07,373 --> 01:15:08,754 Jordan, why were you fighting? 1097 01:15:10,134 --> 01:15:13,655 They called me a wigger. A white nigger. 1098 01:15:13,793 --> 01:15:18,280 They say all kinds of stuff.Like what? 1099 01:15:18,418 --> 01:15:21,145 Like if I'm Black, how come I'm not good at basketball? 1100 01:15:21,283 --> 01:15:23,562 Oh, sweetie. 1101 01:15:26,323 --> 01:15:29,360 They said my dad wasn't a soldier. 1102 01:15:29,498 --> 01:15:32,398 They said if he's Black, he's probably in prison. 1103 01:15:38,093 --> 01:15:39,439 Okay. 1104 01:15:43,236 --> 01:15:44,755 Come with me. 1105 01:15:47,586 --> 01:15:49,208 Take your coat off. Sit down. 1106 01:15:51,762 --> 01:15:53,695 Am I in trouble?No. 1107 01:16:00,771 --> 01:16:01,945 Read it. 1108 01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:06,190 Out loud. 1109 01:16:12,162 --> 01:16:15,683 "Jordan, you are African-American. 1110 01:16:17,132 --> 01:16:19,652 No one can ever take that away from you. 1111 01:16:25,485 --> 01:16:27,073 You will be challenged 1112 01:16:27,211 --> 01:16:30,421 because of your complexion and the color of your eyes. 1113 01:16:32,285 --> 01:16:35,772 But let your character and deeds shine in everything you do. 1114 01:16:37,187 --> 01:16:39,189 And never forget where you came from." 1115 01:16:39,327 --> 01:16:41,743 [] 1116 01:16:43,607 --> 01:16:45,022 What's this? 1117 01:16:46,748 --> 01:16:48,439 Your dad wrote it. 1118 01:16:51,788 --> 01:16:53,859 He wrote everything in there just for you. 1119 01:16:55,481 --> 01:16:58,380 You're old enough now, so I want you to read it. 1120 01:17:00,210 --> 01:17:01,660 Every word. 1121 01:17:25,718 --> 01:17:28,307 [ALL CHEER] 1122 01:17:28,445 --> 01:17:29,895 Y'all know it's not my birthday. 1123 01:17:30,033 --> 01:17:31,793 Are y'all trying to scam free dessert? 1124 01:17:31,931 --> 01:17:33,830 Well, you wouldn't let us celebrate last year, 1125 01:17:33,968 --> 01:17:37,178 and I know how much you hate it on the actual day, so... 1126 01:17:37,316 --> 01:17:39,042 Make a wish. 1127 01:17:40,733 --> 01:17:42,252 Whoa! 1128 01:17:44,047 --> 01:17:45,945 You guys.Open mine first. 1129 01:17:47,326 --> 01:17:48,430 Fine. 1130 01:17:54,057 --> 01:17:56,956 [LAUGHING] 1131 01:17:58,786 --> 01:18:01,305 Is this what I think it is?Mm-hm. 1132 01:18:01,443 --> 01:18:03,169 If you won't let me set you up on dates, 1133 01:18:03,307 --> 01:18:04,792 you should at least have some pleasure. 1134 01:18:04,930 --> 01:18:06,172 I go on dates. 1135 01:18:06,310 --> 01:18:07,656 Three dates and a one-night stand 1136 01:18:07,795 --> 01:18:10,452 in over a decade does not count.Mm-hm. 1137 01:18:10,590 --> 01:18:12,454 Well, do I have to plug it in?Plug it in. 1138 01:18:12,592 --> 01:18:15,250 And then work your way up to the highest setting. 1139 01:18:15,388 --> 01:18:17,114 Slowly.Not too slowly. 1140 01:18:17,252 --> 01:18:18,460 You have one too?Oh, yeah. 1141 01:18:18,598 --> 01:18:20,911 Yeah, we all do.Better than most boyfriends. 1142 01:18:21,049 --> 01:18:22,188 No, I don't know about that, boo-boo. 1143 01:18:22,326 --> 01:18:23,603 Well, I do. 1144 01:18:23,742 --> 01:18:25,122 It's better than my husband half the time, 1145 01:18:25,260 --> 01:18:26,330 I'll tell you that. 1146 01:18:26,468 --> 01:18:28,643 Shit, wish I could plug his ass in. 1147 01:18:28,781 --> 01:18:30,541 Woof.Oh. 1148 01:18:30,679 --> 01:18:32,302 [WHIRRING SLOWLY] 1149 01:18:33,406 --> 01:18:35,754 [CLICKS, WHIRRING FASTER] 1150 01:18:35,892 --> 01:18:37,479 Oh. 1151 01:18:41,380 --> 01:18:43,071 Mom, what's that? 1152 01:18:43,209 --> 01:18:44,970 Uh... 1153 01:18:45,108 --> 01:18:49,353 It's a massager. For tension. What's up? 1154 01:18:49,491 --> 01:18:52,356 You think we could go see my sister in Texas soon? 1155 01:18:52,494 --> 01:18:54,358 Christina? Of course, baby. 1156 01:18:54,496 --> 01:18:55,912 We should see her more. 1157 01:18:56,050 --> 01:18:58,017 My dad said he wanted us to get to know each other. 1158 01:18:58,155 --> 01:19:01,296 Well, we can do that. Come here. 1159 01:19:08,890 --> 01:19:11,134 How come you barely ever talk about him? 1160 01:19:15,724 --> 01:19:17,968 Well, sometimes, it hurts to remember. 1161 01:19:19,694 --> 01:19:22,248 But I think about him all the time. 1162 01:19:22,386 --> 01:19:25,320 And I write about him too. That makes me feel better. 1163 01:19:25,458 --> 01:19:28,185 [] 1164 01:19:28,323 --> 01:19:30,153 Why don't we have any pictures of him? 1165 01:19:30,291 --> 01:19:31,706 We do. 1166 01:19:31,844 --> 01:19:34,191 Just that one on your desk with the balloons. 1167 01:19:37,298 --> 01:19:39,887 We'll put more up. 1168 01:19:40,025 --> 01:19:43,960 With the folded flag, like Nana and Grandpa King have? 1169 01:19:44,098 --> 01:19:47,998 Well, the Army only gives those to the family at the funeral. 1170 01:19:50,311 --> 01:19:52,658 We're his family.We are. 1171 01:19:55,350 --> 01:19:57,490 But technically, I'm not. 1172 01:20:00,390 --> 01:20:02,841 Your father and I never got married. 1173 01:20:19,133 --> 01:20:22,446 My fellow citizens, at this hour, 1174 01:20:22,584 --> 01:20:25,380 American and coalition forces are in the early stages 1175 01:20:25,518 --> 01:20:28,073 of military operations to disarm Iraq, 1176 01:20:28,211 --> 01:20:29,626 to free its people, 1177 01:20:29,764 --> 01:20:33,112 and to defend the world from grave danger. 1178 01:20:33,250 --> 01:20:35,563 On my orders, coalition forces 1179 01:20:35,701 --> 01:20:39,222 have begun striking selected targets of military importance 1180 01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:42,466 to undermine Saddam Hussein's ability to wage war. 1181 01:20:42,604 --> 01:20:44,468 Hello?Hey. 1182 01:20:44,606 --> 01:20:47,402 Hey, oh, my God, you scared me. 1183 01:20:47,540 --> 01:20:50,958 I'm sorry. You okay?Yeah. Yeah, I'm fine. 1184 01:20:51,096 --> 01:20:54,720 Oh, I got your painting. It's beautiful. I love it. 1185 01:20:54,858 --> 01:20:56,066 I'm glad you like it. 1186 01:20:57,861 --> 01:21:00,795 Baby, uh, listen.Yeah? 1187 01:21:03,936 --> 01:21:05,731 [SIGHS HEAVILY] 1188 01:21:05,869 --> 01:21:07,043 What's wrong? 1189 01:21:10,736 --> 01:21:13,359 Nothing. Nothing.What? 1190 01:21:16,431 --> 01:21:18,675 I got my orders for Iraq. 1191 01:21:26,614 --> 01:21:28,098 When do you deploy? 1192 01:21:30,342 --> 01:21:31,826 I don't know. 1193 01:21:33,345 --> 01:21:36,313 We transfer out to Fort Irwin tomorrow. 1194 01:21:36,451 --> 01:21:38,488 California? Yeah. 1195 01:21:43,596 --> 01:21:45,288 When can I see you? 1196 01:21:46,737 --> 01:21:48,291 That, I don't know. 1197 01:22:15,490 --> 01:22:17,216 Charles, I need to talk to you. 1198 01:22:17,354 --> 01:22:19,632 Call me back right away. It's an emergency. 1199 01:22:33,198 --> 01:22:35,096 [PHONE RINGING] 1200 01:22:37,857 --> 01:22:39,549 Charles?What's wrong? 1201 01:22:39,687 --> 01:22:40,791 Is that gunfire? 1202 01:22:43,001 --> 01:22:44,864 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, I'm at the range. 1203 01:22:45,003 --> 01:22:46,418 Is everything okay? 1204 01:22:46,556 --> 01:22:48,523 I need to see you. When can you come home? 1205 01:22:48,661 --> 01:22:50,180 Are you okay? 1206 01:22:50,318 --> 01:22:52,562 Yes, but I don't wanna talk about it on the phone. 1207 01:22:52,700 --> 01:22:54,598 Cease fire!Cease fire! 1208 01:22:54,736 --> 01:22:56,324 Cease fire!Talk about what? 1209 01:22:56,462 --> 01:22:58,878 Can you come this weekend? Please? 1210 01:22:59,017 --> 01:23:00,570 Baby, I can't just leave like that. 1211 01:23:00,708 --> 01:23:02,158 Okay, well, maybe I can come and see you. 1212 01:23:02,296 --> 01:23:04,850 Dana, tell me what's wrong. 1213 01:23:06,472 --> 01:23:07,542 I wanna have a baby. 1214 01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:09,268 What? 1215 01:23:09,406 --> 01:23:11,132 I wanna get pregnant. 1216 01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:14,377 Now? 1217 01:23:14,515 --> 01:23:15,688 Yes. Now. 1218 01:23:17,759 --> 01:23:20,590 Commence fire!Commence fire! 1219 01:23:20,728 --> 01:23:22,040 Where's all this coming from? 1220 01:23:22,178 --> 01:23:23,455 Because I wanna live life, 1221 01:23:23,593 --> 01:23:25,284 and not just report on it. 1222 01:23:25,422 --> 01:23:29,737 And I wanna live it with you so please have a baby with me. 1223 01:23:32,429 --> 01:23:33,948 Absolutely. 1224 01:23:34,086 --> 01:23:37,779 Well, you don't wanna take a second to think about it? 1225 01:23:37,917 --> 01:23:39,402 I'm not asking you for a puppy. 1226 01:23:39,540 --> 01:23:42,612 I don't need to think about it. Are you sure? 1227 01:23:42,750 --> 01:23:44,959 You're the one who doesn't sound too sure, Dana. 1228 01:23:45,097 --> 01:23:47,824 I just don't understand how you can make a decision so quickly. 1229 01:23:47,962 --> 01:23:50,137 Because I made my mind up a long time ago. 1230 01:23:51,621 --> 01:23:53,174 Well, what if I can't get pregnant? 1231 01:23:53,312 --> 01:23:55,003 Marry me.What? 1232 01:23:55,142 --> 01:23:56,936 Marry me. 1233 01:23:58,697 --> 01:23:59,594 Okay. 1234 01:24:00,250 --> 01:24:01,355 Okay? 1235 01:24:01,493 --> 01:24:04,289 So is that a yes? 1236 01:24:04,427 --> 01:24:08,086 Charles Monroe King, yes. I will marry you. 1237 01:24:08,224 --> 01:24:10,295 [WHOOPS] 1238 01:24:10,433 --> 01:24:12,435 Cease fire! Cease fire!Cease fire! 1239 01:24:14,954 --> 01:24:17,371 She said yes.Sir? 1240 01:24:17,509 --> 01:24:19,166 I'm getting married! 1241 01:24:19,304 --> 01:24:20,857 Hoo-ah! 1242 01:24:20,995 --> 01:24:22,997 Hoo-ah! 1243 01:24:23,135 --> 01:24:24,757 [CHUCKLES] You heard that? 1244 01:24:24,895 --> 01:24:27,105 [LAUGHS] 1245 01:24:29,935 --> 01:24:31,971 - What is this?- A gift. 1246 01:24:32,110 --> 01:24:33,559 We're going to see Dad. 1247 01:24:39,324 --> 01:24:41,326 Jordan, I have work. You have school. 1248 01:24:41,464 --> 01:24:44,639 Mom. It's on a weekend. 1249 01:24:44,777 --> 01:24:47,021 It's only Washington, D.C., it's not that far. 1250 01:24:50,128 --> 01:24:52,302 Baby, give me and your auntie a minute, please. 1251 01:24:54,718 --> 01:24:55,650 Good luck. 1252 01:25:01,208 --> 01:25:02,864 You have no right to do this, Miriam. 1253 01:25:03,002 --> 01:25:04,142 The hell I don't. 1254 01:25:04,280 --> 01:25:06,696 He's my godson. I love him too. 1255 01:25:06,834 --> 01:25:08,801 Who's paying for this?It's taken care of. 1256 01:25:08,939 --> 01:25:11,045 So this was your idea?No. Jordan's. 1257 01:25:11,183 --> 01:25:14,635 He e-mailed me. He needs this trip. 1258 01:25:14,773 --> 01:25:16,671 You both do. 1259 01:25:19,018 --> 01:25:20,399 Hey. 1260 01:25:20,537 --> 01:25:25,163 Listen, it's not like Charles left you with nothing. 1261 01:25:26,681 --> 01:25:29,167 We both know that little man in there is special. 1262 01:25:29,305 --> 01:25:30,892 And he needs you right now. 1263 01:25:31,030 --> 01:25:33,032 [] 1264 01:25:33,171 --> 01:25:35,034 He's not gonna be a kid forever. 1265 01:25:51,775 --> 01:25:54,192 [THUNDER RUMBLING] 1266 01:25:57,574 --> 01:26:00,750 PILOT [OVER PA]: Sorry, folks. We're headed for more choppy air. 1267 01:26:00,888 --> 01:26:02,372 Please return to your seats, 1268 01:26:02,510 --> 01:26:05,030 and keep your seatbelts securely fastened. 1269 01:26:18,768 --> 01:26:20,770 Hey.Hi. 1270 01:26:20,908 --> 01:26:23,117 What's up, beautiful? No, no, don't get up. 1271 01:26:23,255 --> 01:26:25,050 I'm fine. 1272 01:26:25,188 --> 01:26:26,776 Ooh. 1273 01:26:26,914 --> 01:26:28,916 You... Look at you. 1274 01:26:29,054 --> 01:26:30,987 Mwah! 1275 01:26:31,125 --> 01:26:34,232 Welcome home.Wow, it's good to be back. 1276 01:26:36,303 --> 01:26:39,340 We missed you.Oh, yeah? I missed you too. 1277 01:26:40,514 --> 01:26:42,447 A-ten, hut!No. 1278 01:26:42,585 --> 01:26:44,794 Mm-mm.What? 1279 01:26:44,932 --> 01:26:46,796 No soldiers in this house. 1280 01:26:46,934 --> 01:26:49,143 Oh. Just me?Just you. 1281 01:26:53,354 --> 01:26:56,564 There we go. A little head. 1282 01:26:58,532 --> 01:27:00,534 Spine. 1283 01:27:02,743 --> 01:27:06,264 And heartbeat. 1284 01:27:08,611 --> 01:27:15,100 Dana, thank you. I love you.I love you too. 1285 01:27:15,238 --> 01:27:16,757 You guys wanna know the sex? 1286 01:27:18,068 --> 01:27:19,173 Yes.Yes. 1287 01:27:20,623 --> 01:27:24,489 It's a boy.I knew it. Yes! It's a boy. 1288 01:27:24,627 --> 01:27:28,009 What's up, little fella? How you doing? It's Papa. 1289 01:27:28,147 --> 01:27:29,459 [LAUGHS] 1290 01:27:29,597 --> 01:27:31,323 I knew it was a boy, I knew it. 1291 01:27:32,980 --> 01:27:35,810 Doc, can you take a picture? 1292 01:27:35,948 --> 01:27:36,949 Charles.Just one. 1293 01:27:37,087 --> 01:27:38,882 Sure.I'm sorry. 1294 01:27:39,952 --> 01:27:42,127 Say, "It's a boy." 1295 01:27:42,265 --> 01:27:44,336 It's a boy. 1296 01:27:46,131 --> 01:27:47,857 There's enough money in these accounts, 1297 01:27:47,995 --> 01:27:49,928 so you can withdraw whenever you need to. 1298 01:27:50,066 --> 01:27:53,518 My combat pay gets deposited on the 15th of every month. 1299 01:27:53,656 --> 01:27:55,209 I'm not gonna need to spend much over there, 1300 01:27:55,347 --> 01:27:57,073 so it's gonna add up. 1301 01:27:57,211 --> 01:27:58,764 Okay? 1302 01:27:58,902 --> 01:28:02,389 This is a power of attorney, so you can sign 1303 01:28:02,527 --> 01:28:05,530 for military dependent benefits.Can I ask you a question? 1304 01:28:05,668 --> 01:28:06,979 Yeah. Sure. 1305 01:28:08,326 --> 01:28:10,328 When people go to war, 1306 01:28:10,466 --> 01:28:13,020 what do they do about sex? 1307 01:28:15,574 --> 01:28:17,058 [SCOFFS] 1308 01:28:17,196 --> 01:28:21,546 I don't know. I never think about it. 1309 01:28:21,684 --> 01:28:24,514 I'm more worried about getting shot than I am horny. 1310 01:28:26,516 --> 01:28:30,520 I was just thinking that if you need sex in Iraq, 1311 01:28:30,658 --> 01:28:32,867 I mean, to help you get through it, 1312 01:28:33,005 --> 01:28:35,560 I want you to know that you have my permission. 1313 01:28:37,734 --> 01:28:39,909 Have you lost your mind?I'm serious. 1314 01:28:40,047 --> 01:28:42,187 Me too.If you need human contact 1315 01:28:42,325 --> 01:28:44,085 or someone to hold, Dana, stop. 1316 01:28:44,223 --> 01:28:46,225 or to be held, I don't want you-- Dana, stop. 1317 01:28:46,364 --> 01:28:48,366 Dana, I don't want another woman. 1318 01:28:48,504 --> 01:28:51,092 And I'll never disrespect you or my son like that. 1319 01:28:53,992 --> 01:28:56,097 I hope you don't expect me to extend that same offer 1320 01:28:56,235 --> 01:28:58,859 because you better keep that shit locked up. 1321 01:28:58,997 --> 01:29:00,412 [LAUGHS] 1322 01:29:00,550 --> 01:29:02,483 Shut up.I ain't laughing. 1323 01:29:04,761 --> 01:29:05,866 Okay. 1324 01:29:15,496 --> 01:29:17,291 I want you to keep this some place safe. 1325 01:29:17,429 --> 01:29:18,706 Just in case something happens to me. 1326 01:29:18,844 --> 01:29:20,570 Nothing is going to happen to you. 1327 01:29:20,708 --> 01:29:22,192 I know, but I don't want you to worry 1328 01:29:22,330 --> 01:29:23,711 I got you something. 1329 01:29:23,849 --> 01:29:26,127 about funeral arrangements or anything like that. 1330 01:29:37,242 --> 01:29:40,487 What's this?It's a journal. 1331 01:29:40,625 --> 01:29:42,799 So you can write to your son. 1332 01:29:42,937 --> 01:29:44,732 Even if it's just a page or two. 1333 01:29:49,392 --> 01:29:50,531 Open it. 1334 01:29:50,669 --> 01:29:53,085 [] 1335 01:30:02,923 --> 01:30:04,580 I, uh... 1336 01:30:06,305 --> 01:30:11,000 I don't know what to say. What do I write? 1337 01:30:11,138 --> 01:30:13,140 Well, it's especially for dads, 1338 01:30:13,278 --> 01:30:15,625 so there's some questions to get you started. 1339 01:30:21,459 --> 01:30:22,977 Tell him who you are. 1340 01:30:25,014 --> 01:30:26,464 What you believe in. 1341 01:30:35,024 --> 01:30:36,508 And tell him you love him. 1342 01:30:42,169 --> 01:30:43,515 Just so he knows. 1343 01:30:58,219 --> 01:31:01,119 [THUNDER RUMBLING] 1344 01:31:12,130 --> 01:31:13,718 Jordan, always remember, 1345 01:31:13,856 --> 01:31:15,409 your thoughts and actions 1346 01:31:15,547 --> 01:31:18,550 must be open to change and improvement. 1347 01:31:18,688 --> 01:31:22,865 But your convictions must be non-negotiable. 1348 01:31:23,003 --> 01:31:25,902 So live by your convictions. 1349 01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:29,078 And on your journey, if you ever get down 1350 01:31:29,216 --> 01:31:31,218 and feel like you need to talk to someone, 1351 01:31:31,356 --> 01:31:34,980 then talk to the one who can do something about it. 1352 01:31:36,982 --> 01:31:39,882 Mom. Mom.Yes? 1353 01:31:40,020 --> 01:31:43,541 You said my dad couldn't come home when I was born. 1354 01:31:43,679 --> 01:31:45,957 No, sweetie.Why not? 1355 01:31:48,580 --> 01:31:50,271 Ma, can you hear me? 1356 01:31:50,409 --> 01:31:52,342 Yeah. Yeah, I can hear you. Hi, baby. 1357 01:31:52,480 --> 01:31:54,586 Hey, baby girl. How you doing? 1358 01:31:54,724 --> 01:31:57,589 I'm, uh... I'm good. 1359 01:31:57,727 --> 01:31:59,971 Hang on, hang on. Say hi to your son. 1360 01:32:02,042 --> 01:32:05,286 Hey, what's up, soldier? A-ten, hut! 1361 01:32:05,424 --> 01:32:07,392 Oh, he's kicking. He's kicking? 1362 01:32:07,530 --> 01:32:10,809 He hears you. He hears you. 1363 01:32:10,947 --> 01:32:12,777 Yeah, he know Daddy voice. 1364 01:32:12,915 --> 01:32:15,918 We miss you.I miss you too. 1365 01:32:16,056 --> 01:32:17,160 How are you? 1366 01:32:17,298 --> 01:32:18,645 Well, "gainfully employed" 1367 01:32:18,783 --> 01:32:20,888 would definitely be an understatement, but... 1368 01:32:22,096 --> 01:32:23,304 Sorry I haven't called you. 1369 01:32:23,442 --> 01:32:26,618 Mm-hm. It's been three weeks. 1370 01:32:26,756 --> 01:32:30,449 Where are you? I wanna look at it on my map. 1371 01:32:30,588 --> 01:32:32,141 You know I can't tell you that. 1372 01:32:32,279 --> 01:32:34,799 Thank you for my pictures, though. 1373 01:32:34,937 --> 01:32:38,250 You look beautiful. I mean, shit! 1374 01:32:38,388 --> 01:32:39,700 I'm loving the belly. 1375 01:32:39,838 --> 01:32:41,322 Yeah, it's easy for you to say. 1376 01:32:41,460 --> 01:32:43,911 You're not the one who has to carry him around. 1377 01:32:44,049 --> 01:32:46,500 It's true, it's true. 1378 01:32:46,638 --> 01:32:48,847 Can't wait to meet him. You and me, both. 1379 01:32:48,985 --> 01:32:50,642 You know, hold him. 1380 01:32:50,780 --> 01:32:53,783 Which reminds me, you need to tell me when you're coming, 1381 01:32:53,921 --> 01:32:55,820 so I can set a date to be induced. 1382 01:32:57,753 --> 01:33:02,689 Yeah, uh... I don't know yet. 1383 01:33:02,827 --> 01:33:05,346 Well, you must have some idea. 1384 01:33:05,484 --> 01:33:07,521 Haven't you put in a request for your leave? 1385 01:33:08,833 --> 01:33:10,179 No. Not yet. 1386 01:33:13,631 --> 01:33:15,633 Well, you're cutting it kind of close. 1387 01:33:15,771 --> 01:33:17,151 What are you waiting for? 1388 01:33:23,951 --> 01:33:25,090 Charles? 1389 01:33:26,782 --> 01:33:27,955 I don't know. 1390 01:33:28,093 --> 01:33:29,923 You don't know what? 1391 01:33:32,615 --> 01:33:33,616 Charles? 1392 01:33:33,754 --> 01:33:34,928 Yes, ma'am. 1393 01:33:36,343 --> 01:33:37,655 What are you telling me? 1394 01:33:37,793 --> 01:33:39,484 Let's go, let's go. Move it, come on. 1395 01:33:46,042 --> 01:33:47,906 You're not coming, are you? 1396 01:33:51,082 --> 01:33:52,600 Hello? 1397 01:33:52,739 --> 01:33:56,259 Ma, I just need you to please, just try to understand. 1398 01:33:56,397 --> 01:33:57,951 We got in country a couple months ago. 1399 01:33:58,089 --> 01:34:00,263 I can't do this without you. My guys are not-- 1400 01:34:00,401 --> 01:34:02,818 No, Charles, you promised me.Things change. 1401 01:34:02,956 --> 01:34:05,061 But you promised me.We adapt. That's what we do. 1402 01:34:05,199 --> 01:34:06,545 I'm having your baby. 1403 01:34:06,684 --> 01:34:08,271 I'm responsible for an entire company. 1404 01:34:08,409 --> 01:34:11,067 If my men got killed while I was gone, I wouldn't forgive myself. 1405 01:34:11,205 --> 01:34:13,069 That can happen whether you are there or not. 1406 01:34:13,207 --> 01:34:15,106 It's not like I'm asking you to go on a cruise. 1407 01:34:15,244 --> 01:34:17,280 I can't do this. Just breathe. Charles, please. 1408 01:34:17,418 --> 01:34:19,213 You promised me.You know I love you. 1409 01:34:19,351 --> 01:34:21,664 We need you as much as they do. I love you so much. 1410 01:34:21,802 --> 01:34:23,045 Give me some time.Please, Charles, 1411 01:34:23,183 --> 01:34:24,046 I am begging you. 1412 01:34:24,184 --> 01:34:25,426 Charles?I love you. 1413 01:34:25,564 --> 01:34:27,256 We're moving out. 1414 01:34:27,394 --> 01:34:30,259 I gotta go. I'll call you soon.No. Don't get off this phone. 1415 01:34:30,397 --> 01:34:33,296 Charles? No, no, no. Charles?All right. 1416 01:34:40,372 --> 01:34:41,995 [YELLS] 1417 01:34:42,133 --> 01:34:44,894 [] 1418 01:34:47,966 --> 01:34:50,935 Son, I couldn't be at your birth because of the war. 1419 01:34:53,523 --> 01:34:55,836 And I hope you and your mother can forgive me. 1420 01:34:57,942 --> 01:34:59,944 Every time I roll out of that gate, 1421 01:35:00,082 --> 01:35:02,325 I pray I don't run out of time. 1422 01:35:02,463 --> 01:35:05,743 Time with you, time with your mother. 1423 01:35:06,916 --> 01:35:09,919 So much to do, Jordan. 1424 01:35:10,057 --> 01:35:13,336 But I have faith that you are safe and sound. 1425 01:35:13,474 --> 01:35:16,650 Because you're surrounded by strong women. 1426 01:35:18,928 --> 01:35:21,413 These are your first teachers, little prince. 1427 01:35:22,863 --> 01:35:24,416 [SCREAMING] 1428 01:35:24,554 --> 01:35:26,280 And all of these women 1429 01:35:26,418 --> 01:35:30,940 embody the reasons you should never, ever disrespect 1430 01:35:31,078 --> 01:35:33,943 or lay your hand against any woman. 1431 01:35:35,911 --> 01:35:37,947 The woman you choose to be your partner 1432 01:35:38,085 --> 01:35:40,156 should guard your friendship first, son. 1433 01:35:40,294 --> 01:35:43,125 You're doing good, good! 1434 01:35:43,263 --> 01:35:47,267 Company, attention! 1435 01:35:47,405 --> 01:35:51,133 And just like you, she should be honorable. 1436 01:35:52,893 --> 01:35:55,344 And take pride in how she carries herself. 1437 01:36:02,351 --> 01:36:03,870 But remember... 1438 01:36:04,008 --> 01:36:06,010 Here we go! Here we go, push! 1439 01:36:06,148 --> 01:36:08,322 ...beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 1440 01:36:08,460 --> 01:36:09,358 Roll call! 1441 01:36:10,911 --> 01:36:14,432 And real beauty comes from deep inside. 1442 01:36:14,570 --> 01:36:17,366 He's here.He's coming, he's coming! 1443 01:36:22,129 --> 01:36:23,406 PFC Coats! 1444 01:36:23,544 --> 01:36:24,925 Here, first sergeant! 1445 01:36:25,063 --> 01:36:27,445 Private Bryant!Here, first sergeant! 1446 01:36:27,583 --> 01:36:30,862 Just take one look at your mother, 1447 01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:33,416 and that'll tell you what I think beautiful is. 1448 01:36:33,554 --> 01:36:35,833 [JORDAN CRYING] 1449 01:36:35,971 --> 01:36:37,317 Corporal Light! 1450 01:36:38,697 --> 01:36:40,768 Corporal Robbie Light! 1451 01:36:42,598 --> 01:36:45,497 Corporal Robbie Glen Light! 1452 01:36:52,850 --> 01:36:56,025 [PLAYING "TAPS" ON BUGLE] 1453 01:37:33,718 --> 01:37:36,031 Welcome home, Daddy. 1454 01:37:36,169 --> 01:37:37,895 Come meet your son. 1455 01:37:38,033 --> 01:37:41,346 Hey. Hey. 1456 01:37:42,451 --> 01:37:44,073 Oh, my God. 1457 01:37:45,350 --> 01:37:47,801 Hey. Hi. 1458 01:37:47,939 --> 01:37:49,009 Hi. 1459 01:37:50,355 --> 01:37:53,289 This boy is so special.It's okay. 1460 01:37:53,427 --> 01:37:56,361 You gonna be a blessing to everybody you meet. 1461 01:37:56,499 --> 01:38:00,262 I know, Daddy's home. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 1462 01:38:01,849 --> 01:38:04,507 Someone else thought I was his nanny today. 1463 01:38:04,645 --> 01:38:07,441 He's so light-skinned, no one thinks he's mine. 1464 01:38:07,579 --> 01:38:09,029 He just gets that from my mom. 1465 01:38:09,167 --> 01:38:11,307 So you know what I did?What? 1466 01:38:11,445 --> 01:38:13,931 I pulled out my boob and I breastfed him right there, 1467 01:38:14,069 --> 01:38:15,553 in front of her. 1468 01:38:15,691 --> 01:38:18,004 Lucky I didn't squirt milk on her little punk ass. 1469 01:38:21,697 --> 01:38:23,699 Guess I gotta get you a ring, then. 1470 01:38:23,837 --> 01:38:25,528 [COUGHING] 1471 01:38:25,666 --> 01:38:29,015 Man, white people, they won't think twice. 1472 01:38:46,791 --> 01:38:51,520 Are you all right?Yeah. 1473 01:38:51,658 --> 01:38:53,177 It's just asthma. 1474 01:38:53,315 --> 01:38:55,041 Since when do you have asthma? 1475 01:38:56,939 --> 01:38:58,527 Our base is by a power plant. 1476 01:38:58,665 --> 01:39:02,462 Doc said I probably got it there. It's nothing. 1477 01:39:02,600 --> 01:39:06,880 Are you sure?Yes. 1478 01:39:07,018 --> 01:39:08,330 Don't worry about it. 1479 01:39:10,366 --> 01:39:11,678 But I'm serious, though. 1480 01:39:13,162 --> 01:39:15,302 I can get you a ring. 1481 01:39:15,440 --> 01:39:17,511 We could do the whole thing while I'm in town. 1482 01:39:17,649 --> 01:39:19,168 What whole thing? 1483 01:39:19,306 --> 01:39:22,758 Jordan could be my best man, we can get him a little tux. 1484 01:39:22,896 --> 01:39:25,312 You mean get married.Why not? 1485 01:39:28,074 --> 01:39:33,010 No. I don't wanna cram our whole lives into one visit. 1486 01:39:35,115 --> 01:39:37,531 I want a real wedding. 1487 01:39:37,669 --> 01:39:40,431 With white calla lilies, 1488 01:39:40,569 --> 01:39:43,779 and flower girls in tulle dresses. 1489 01:39:43,917 --> 01:39:46,299 What kind of dresses?Tulle. 1490 01:39:49,681 --> 01:39:52,581 And look, you've got six weeks left. 1491 01:39:53,685 --> 01:39:54,997 I can wait. 1492 01:39:57,413 --> 01:39:59,243 Then so can I. 1493 01:40:07,596 --> 01:40:09,322 Charles?Yeah? 1494 01:40:09,460 --> 01:40:11,358 [JORDAN COOING] 1495 01:40:23,232 --> 01:40:25,683 Hey, we got a surprise for you. 1496 01:40:25,821 --> 01:40:27,685 Oh, no, you don't.Mm-hm. 1497 01:40:27,823 --> 01:40:30,584 We have enough soldiers in the family. 1498 01:40:31,965 --> 01:40:33,587 All right, fine. I'll wait till he's 18, 1499 01:40:33,725 --> 01:40:36,107 and take him down to the recruiters. 1500 01:40:36,245 --> 01:40:38,868 But in the meantime, Comfy. 1501 01:40:39,006 --> 01:40:40,801 put this on.What is this? 1502 01:40:40,939 --> 01:40:44,426 Just trust us. Go. 1503 01:40:51,122 --> 01:40:52,606 Where are we? 1504 01:40:56,610 --> 01:40:58,025 I know we're in the East Side. 1505 01:41:00,649 --> 01:41:02,099 And I know we're in the park. 1506 01:41:02,237 --> 01:41:03,652 Oh, my God. 1507 01:41:09,761 --> 01:41:12,281 Why are you doing this? 1508 01:41:15,319 --> 01:41:18,011 You're so loud. Charles. 1509 01:41:29,609 --> 01:41:30,506 Be quiet! 1510 01:41:30,644 --> 01:41:32,025 All right, you can take it off. 1511 01:41:32,163 --> 01:41:33,130 Thank you. 1512 01:41:41,138 --> 01:41:46,867 Olive oil. Extra virgin. Just like you... 1513 01:41:48,869 --> 01:41:51,320 used to be.Shut up. 1514 01:41:51,458 --> 01:41:54,323 [] 1515 01:41:56,118 --> 01:42:01,537 Peek-a-boo! Peek-a-boo! 1516 01:42:01,675 --> 01:42:04,885 He's just a biscuit, I just wanna eat him up. 1517 01:42:05,023 --> 01:42:08,510 What's up, little soldier? What's going on? 1518 01:42:11,513 --> 01:42:14,516 Can I get a membership into your little boys' club? 1519 01:42:14,654 --> 01:42:16,552 I don't know, biscuit, what do you say? 1520 01:42:16,690 --> 01:42:18,416 Should we let her in our club? 1521 01:42:18,554 --> 01:42:20,556 Hmm? 1522 01:42:20,694 --> 01:42:21,833 What's that? 1523 01:42:23,214 --> 01:42:24,629 He said your application's pending. 1524 01:42:24,767 --> 01:42:26,390 Pending?He calls the shots. 1525 01:42:26,528 --> 01:42:29,393 As much as I whip my boobies out to feed him? 1526 01:42:29,531 --> 01:42:31,843 That's a good point. Hold, please. 1527 01:42:31,981 --> 01:42:35,295 You sure? I don't know. 1528 01:42:35,433 --> 01:42:37,297 She's good looking. 1529 01:42:37,435 --> 01:42:39,126 All right. Okay, okay, fine. 1530 01:42:39,265 --> 01:42:41,128 On account of the booby thing, he said okay. 1531 01:42:43,786 --> 01:42:46,755 Biscuit. Biscuit. 1532 01:42:46,893 --> 01:42:50,276 [HELICOPTER WHIRRING] 1533 01:43:00,389 --> 01:43:01,701 Sweetie, you okay? 1534 01:43:03,427 --> 01:43:05,325 [COUGHING] 1535 01:43:08,742 --> 01:43:09,674 Charles. 1536 01:43:20,720 --> 01:43:22,791 Ain't that right, biscuit? 1537 01:43:24,102 --> 01:43:27,036 Everything's good. My little man. 1538 01:43:34,527 --> 01:43:35,700 I don't want this one. 1539 01:43:35,838 --> 01:43:37,115 Which one? 1540 01:43:42,638 --> 01:43:43,605 Is this you? 1541 01:43:54,271 --> 01:43:56,411 How about this one? 1542 01:43:58,620 --> 01:44:00,277 I don't want this one either. 1543 01:44:02,140 --> 01:44:04,419 Can't you just go AWOL and stay here with us? 1544 01:44:04,557 --> 01:44:06,628 So you wanna marry a coward? 1545 01:44:08,423 --> 01:44:10,804 All right, fine, go. 1546 01:44:10,942 --> 01:44:12,806 You hear that, biscuit? 1547 01:44:12,944 --> 01:44:14,808 She doesn't like Daddy's work. 1548 01:44:16,154 --> 01:44:18,156 Love you. 1549 01:44:18,295 --> 01:44:20,124 Take care of your mother for me. 1550 01:44:23,196 --> 01:44:24,542 And you... 1551 01:44:30,030 --> 01:44:32,309 You still gonna marry me when I get back home? 1552 01:44:33,448 --> 01:44:34,621 I can't wait. 1553 01:44:36,796 --> 01:44:39,039 Can I pick out my own tux? 1554 01:44:39,177 --> 01:44:41,904 I want you to wear your dress blues. 1555 01:44:42,042 --> 01:44:43,803 I'm marrying a soldier. 1556 01:44:45,494 --> 01:44:46,737 Yeah, you are. 1557 01:44:48,877 --> 01:44:52,570 I love you.I love you more. 1558 01:44:56,574 --> 01:44:57,575 Guess what. 1559 01:44:57,713 --> 01:45:00,509 Oh, God, don't start. 1560 01:45:00,647 --> 01:45:02,062 Guess what.No. 1561 01:45:02,200 --> 01:45:04,202 Guess what.No. 1562 01:45:04,341 --> 01:45:05,342 Say it. 1563 01:45:07,689 --> 01:45:08,931 Chicken butt. 1564 01:45:10,623 --> 01:45:12,072 Crazy woman. 1565 01:45:12,210 --> 01:45:15,144 [] 1566 01:45:17,664 --> 01:45:18,872 See you, biscuit. 1567 01:45:25,983 --> 01:45:27,536 [DOOR OPENS] 1568 01:45:28,917 --> 01:45:30,815 [DOOR CLOSES] 1569 01:45:48,730 --> 01:45:50,007 [CHUCKLES] 1570 01:45:51,284 --> 01:45:52,699 Take care of my girl.I will. 1571 01:45:52,837 --> 01:45:53,942 All right? 1572 01:46:06,092 --> 01:46:08,784 [THUNDER RUMBLING] 1573 01:46:26,112 --> 01:46:28,701 You know, technically, he didn't free the slaves. 1574 01:46:28,839 --> 01:46:30,530 They freed themselves. 1575 01:46:30,668 --> 01:46:32,187 Did they? 1576 01:46:32,325 --> 01:46:33,706 The Emancipation Proclamation 1577 01:46:33,844 --> 01:46:35,432 only applied to Confederate states, 1578 01:46:35,570 --> 01:46:37,019 but it also allowed Black people 1579 01:46:37,157 --> 01:46:39,643 to join the Army and help win the war. 1580 01:46:39,781 --> 01:46:42,093 Someone's been paying attention in history class. 1581 01:46:45,062 --> 01:46:46,512 How did my dad die? 1582 01:46:48,997 --> 01:46:50,619 I told you, baby. 1583 01:46:50,757 --> 01:46:53,380 All you said was that a bomb exploded. 1584 01:46:53,519 --> 01:46:55,797 I wanna know what happened. 1585 01:47:04,840 --> 01:47:07,533 Your father was a part of the First Battalion 1586 01:47:07,671 --> 01:47:10,881 67th Armed Regiment from Fort Hood, Texas. 1587 01:47:11,019 --> 01:47:14,885 [] 1588 01:47:15,023 --> 01:47:17,508 They called themselves the Death Dealers. 1589 01:47:17,646 --> 01:47:18,992 Which was fitting 1590 01:47:19,130 --> 01:47:20,856 because most of their missions in Iraq 1591 01:47:20,994 --> 01:47:22,824 took part in a place the military called 1592 01:47:22,962 --> 01:47:24,826 "the Triangle of Death." 1593 01:47:26,724 --> 01:47:30,417 Your dad's nickname was Top, because of his rank. 1594 01:47:30,556 --> 01:47:35,319 He was in charge of 105 men of Charlie Company. 1595 01:47:35,457 --> 01:47:38,218 Their nickname was the Carnivores. 1596 01:47:38,356 --> 01:47:41,256 Your dad's job was, and I quote: 1597 01:47:41,394 --> 01:47:45,812 "to teach them to stay alive and kill the enemy." 1598 01:47:47,987 --> 01:47:52,957 On October 14th, 2006, 1599 01:47:54,683 --> 01:47:57,065 he took them on a mission. 1600 01:47:57,203 --> 01:48:00,413 He could've stayed behind that day. 1601 01:48:00,551 --> 01:48:03,485 He even let his battle buddies sleep in. 1602 01:48:05,832 --> 01:48:07,903 But your dad would never ask his soldiers 1603 01:48:08,041 --> 01:48:10,906 to do anything he wouldn't do himself. 1604 01:48:11,044 --> 01:48:13,391 He went where they went. 1605 01:48:13,530 --> 01:48:15,255 Let's move out. 1606 01:48:15,393 --> 01:48:17,741 [SOLDIERS WHOOP] 1607 01:48:17,879 --> 01:48:20,502 That's the kind of man your dad was. 1608 01:48:20,640 --> 01:48:22,849 It's go time, Imhoff.Cherry, let him know. 1609 01:48:22,987 --> 01:48:24,161 Load up! 1610 01:48:24,299 --> 01:48:27,474 [SOLDIERS CHATTERING INDISTINCTLY] 1611 01:48:59,334 --> 01:49:00,922 We trust in you, oh, God. 1612 01:49:01,060 --> 01:49:04,132 We trust in you in the name of the Father and the Son, 1613 01:49:04,270 --> 01:49:05,996 in the name of Jesus Christ. 1614 01:49:08,274 --> 01:49:09,309 Amen. 1615 01:49:10,828 --> 01:49:12,658 Their mission was to re-supply 1616 01:49:12,796 --> 01:49:14,073 a place called the Island. 1617 01:49:16,109 --> 01:49:17,663 It was an isolated spot 1618 01:49:17,801 --> 01:49:20,217 where about 60 soldiers were posted. 1619 01:49:28,570 --> 01:49:30,434 At38 in the morning, 1620 01:49:30,572 --> 01:49:35,508 their convoy passed a place called Jurf Al Sakhar. 1621 01:49:35,646 --> 01:49:38,166 It was about two miles from the Island. 1622 01:49:39,270 --> 01:49:42,170 [] 1623 01:50:13,511 --> 01:50:16,549 [WIND WHISTLING] 1624 01:50:30,839 --> 01:50:34,291 - IED! IED!- Return fire! 1625 01:50:34,429 --> 01:50:36,051 Light it up! Light it up! 1626 01:50:36,189 --> 01:50:38,536 [SCREAMING] 1627 01:50:41,505 --> 01:50:45,682 Imhoff! Drop, drop down.Cover the rear! Cover the rear! 1628 01:50:45,820 --> 01:50:46,855 Return fire! 1629 01:50:48,339 --> 01:50:51,446 Cease fire! Cease fire! 1630 01:50:55,830 --> 01:50:57,072 Come on, Imhoff. 1631 01:51:08,532 --> 01:51:10,430 [GROANING] 1632 01:51:13,640 --> 01:51:16,574 Soldier down. Need help. Help! 1633 01:51:18,507 --> 01:51:20,613 Move it, move it! 1634 01:51:20,751 --> 01:51:24,065 Top! I got you, Top! 1635 01:51:24,203 --> 01:51:26,377 I got you. Come on. Come on. 1636 01:51:30,071 --> 01:51:31,037 Medic! 1637 01:51:37,768 --> 01:51:40,426 It's gonna be all right. I got you, Top. 1638 01:51:44,775 --> 01:51:47,882 Slow your breath. Come on. I got you, bro. 1639 01:51:49,297 --> 01:51:50,436 Come on. Look at me. 1640 01:51:52,196 --> 01:51:54,302 Medic! Medic! 1641 01:51:54,440 --> 01:51:56,649 Come on. Stay with me. Stay with me. 1642 01:51:56,787 --> 01:51:59,583 Come on, stay with me, I got you. 1643 01:52:03,760 --> 01:52:06,314 Come on. Stay with me. Stay with me, bro. 1644 01:52:06,452 --> 01:52:09,282 No! No, no, no! Stay with me, Top. 1645 01:52:09,420 --> 01:52:11,975 I'm right here. Stay with me. Medic! 1646 01:52:12,113 --> 01:52:14,943 Stay with me! Medic! 1647 01:52:15,081 --> 01:52:16,462 Medic! 1648 01:52:17,981 --> 01:52:19,465 Medic! 1649 01:52:21,743 --> 01:52:23,883 [PHONE RINGING] 1650 01:52:32,305 --> 01:52:34,066 Hello? 1651 01:52:34,204 --> 01:52:35,550 Uh, I'm good. 1652 01:52:35,688 --> 01:52:36,931 How are you? 1653 01:52:41,798 --> 01:52:44,628 Yeah. A couple of friends just walked in. What's going on? 1654 01:52:47,493 --> 01:52:50,185 Wait. I'm sorry, what happened? 1655 01:52:53,671 --> 01:52:55,156 He didn't-- He didn't make... 1656 01:52:55,294 --> 01:52:56,813 [EXHALES SHARPLY] 1657 01:53:02,646 --> 01:53:06,857 No. No, no, no. Where is he? 1658 01:53:08,686 --> 01:53:12,725 No, where is he? Tell me! Where is he? 1659 01:53:14,969 --> 01:53:17,178 No! No![SHUSHING] 1660 01:53:28,051 --> 01:53:29,121 No. 1661 01:53:31,192 --> 01:53:34,160 [DANA SOBBING] 1662 01:53:34,298 --> 01:53:36,680 No, no. 1663 01:53:45,516 --> 01:53:49,072 No! 1664 01:53:51,212 --> 01:53:53,421 No! 1665 01:53:57,011 --> 01:54:00,014 No! 1666 01:54:01,222 --> 01:54:03,569 They had a plan in place. 1667 01:54:03,707 --> 01:54:08,160 A secret plan, in case something happened to your father. 1668 01:54:08,298 --> 01:54:11,439 He didn't want me to be alone when I heard he was gone. 1669 01:54:13,544 --> 01:54:15,236 Why were we even fighting that war? 1670 01:54:17,376 --> 01:54:19,896 Well, that depends on who you ask. 1671 01:54:20,034 --> 01:54:22,381 Some might say we were fighting to free a country 1672 01:54:22,519 --> 01:54:24,901 from a tyrant and stop terrorists. 1673 01:54:25,039 --> 01:54:26,972 Others might say we're the reason they became terrorists 1674 01:54:27,110 --> 01:54:28,628 in the first place. 1675 01:54:30,216 --> 01:54:33,702 But I bet if you asked your father, 1676 01:54:33,840 --> 01:54:36,774 he'd say he was fighting for his soldiers. 1677 01:54:36,913 --> 01:54:40,157 To keep them alive and to get them home. 1678 01:54:42,125 --> 01:54:43,954 But he had to die to do it? 1679 01:54:46,405 --> 01:54:48,579 Well, that's what heroes do, baby. 1680 01:54:59,901 --> 01:55:02,455 [THUNDER RUMBLING] 1681 01:55:09,117 --> 01:55:12,949 [STEVIE WONDER'S "FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE" PLAYING] 1682 01:55:29,172 --> 01:55:31,691 Jordan, what are you doing? 1683 01:55:31,829 --> 01:55:33,279 Working out. 1684 01:55:33,417 --> 01:55:36,006 My dad said physical fitness is important. 1685 01:55:36,144 --> 01:55:39,113 I've only got one body. I better take care of it. 1686 01:55:40,459 --> 01:55:41,943 It's working, isn't it? 1687 01:55:43,772 --> 01:55:46,706 I'm gonna go hit the showers and get dressed. 1688 01:55:46,844 --> 01:55:49,640 Maybe we should wait. Till the rain lets up. 1689 01:55:49,778 --> 01:55:51,988 No, we've gotta go this morning. 1690 01:55:53,506 --> 01:55:54,783 Get dressed. 1691 01:55:58,925 --> 01:56:01,825 [] 1692 01:56:11,179 --> 01:56:12,905 You brought your suit? 1693 01:56:14,044 --> 01:56:15,218 Let's move out. 1694 01:57:03,024 --> 01:57:06,959 Mom. You all right? 1695 01:57:08,098 --> 01:57:09,927 Yeah. I'm fine. 1696 01:57:11,791 --> 01:57:13,552 Told you the sun would come out today. 1697 01:58:10,471 --> 01:58:11,989 Let's go. 1698 01:58:16,062 --> 01:58:18,927 [] 1699 01:58:33,597 --> 01:58:36,462 What is this?I sent an e-mail. 1700 01:58:36,600 --> 01:58:38,188 It went a little viral. 1701 01:58:38,326 --> 01:58:41,191 More people wanted to come, but they couldn't make it. 1702 01:58:41,329 --> 01:58:43,918 Jordan, why didn't you just ask me? Mom. 1703 01:58:45,540 --> 01:58:48,060 Hi, baby.Hi. 1704 01:58:50,821 --> 01:58:52,237 How are you, pumpkin? 1705 01:58:52,375 --> 01:58:54,894 Oh, my God, I can't believe you guys are here. 1706 01:58:57,069 --> 01:58:58,070 Hi. 1707 01:59:06,147 --> 01:59:08,218 You helped him with this? 1708 01:59:08,356 --> 01:59:10,565 He wanted to surprise you. 1709 01:59:10,703 --> 01:59:12,049 It worked. 1710 01:59:16,122 --> 01:59:18,677 Excuse me, everybody? Can I have your attention? 1711 01:59:24,648 --> 01:59:25,546 Mom. 1712 01:59:37,178 --> 01:59:39,560 Thank you all for coming. 1713 01:59:39,698 --> 01:59:41,596 Some of you came from pretty far. 1714 01:59:43,357 --> 01:59:45,600 I'd like to read this. It's from my dad. 1715 01:59:54,575 --> 01:59:56,784 "Family means everything, Jordan. 1716 01:59:58,786 --> 02:00:01,340 It's why I wake up in the morning. 1717 02:00:01,478 --> 02:00:04,964 It's why I put on the uniform and risk my life. 1718 02:00:05,102 --> 02:00:07,070 And the great thing about family 1719 02:00:07,208 --> 02:00:08,623 is that when you get older, 1720 02:00:08,761 --> 02:00:10,798 you get to choose who's in it." 1721 02:00:12,178 --> 02:00:14,215 He underlined the word "you." 1722 02:00:16,907 --> 02:00:18,668 "So choose wisely. 1723 02:00:18,806 --> 02:00:20,946 Surround yourself with people that love you for you 1724 02:00:21,084 --> 02:00:23,017 and love them back. 1725 02:00:23,155 --> 02:00:25,261 Because love is the one thing in this world 1726 02:00:25,399 --> 02:00:26,814 that's worth fighting for." 1727 02:00:30,542 --> 02:00:32,785 So I guess that makes all of you my family. 1728 02:00:34,408 --> 02:00:35,478 Mom. 1729 02:00:44,141 --> 02:00:46,212 Since you never got a flag, 1730 02:00:46,351 --> 02:00:48,594 my dad would want me to make sure you got one. 1731 02:00:50,665 --> 02:00:52,529 Private Imhoff, Private Mohammed. 1732 02:00:55,187 --> 02:00:57,603 [] 1733 02:01:03,954 --> 02:01:06,888 On behalf of a grateful nation and Charlie Company, 1734 02:01:08,511 --> 02:01:10,409 we wouldn't be here if it weren't for Top. 1735 02:01:10,547 --> 02:01:11,893 None of us would, ma'am. 1736 02:01:42,027 --> 02:01:43,994 This belongs to you. 1737 02:01:47,550 --> 02:01:50,725 Dear Jordan, when your father died, 1738 02:01:50,863 --> 02:01:53,590 I thought my life was over. 1739 02:01:53,728 --> 02:01:57,353 But the truth is, it was just beginning. 1740 02:01:59,251 --> 02:02:02,634 You and your dad both showed me how beautiful life is 1741 02:02:02,772 --> 02:02:06,983 when you live it below your neck and in your heart. 1742 02:02:07,121 --> 02:02:10,400 Risky place, the heart. 1743 02:02:10,538 --> 02:02:13,369 Because it's fragile, so it breaks. 1744 02:02:13,507 --> 02:02:14,991 And it hurts. 1745 02:02:16,889 --> 02:02:20,445 After your dad left, I tried my best to feel nothing 1746 02:02:20,583 --> 02:02:23,620 so my heart would never break again. 1747 02:02:23,758 --> 02:02:26,796 But even pain is better than nothing. 1748 02:02:26,934 --> 02:02:31,076 Because without pain, it's impossible to find joy. 1749 02:02:33,009 --> 02:02:35,287 I hope these words will help you understand 1750 02:02:35,425 --> 02:02:39,602 the remarkable love your father and I shared. 1751 02:02:39,740 --> 02:02:42,570 I want you to have that kind of love, Jordan. 1752 02:02:44,192 --> 02:02:46,056 The kind of love that does not ask her 1753 02:02:46,194 --> 02:02:49,094 to be anyone other than who she is. 1754 02:02:49,232 --> 02:02:51,407 And that does not ask any more of you. 1755 02:02:52,718 --> 02:02:54,651 T.J.: Dear heavenly Father, 1756 02:02:54,789 --> 02:02:56,619 thank you for bringing us here as family 1757 02:02:56,757 --> 02:02:58,103 to honor the life 1758 02:02:58,241 --> 02:03:01,658 and remember the life of Charles Monroe King. 1759 02:03:03,729 --> 02:03:05,524 My prayer for you, Jordan, 1760 02:03:05,662 --> 02:03:07,630 is that you carry with you the knowledge 1761 02:03:07,768 --> 02:03:11,530 that you will always have two parents guiding you. 1762 02:03:11,668 --> 02:03:13,808 But my mother's intuition alone 1763 02:03:13,946 --> 02:03:16,984 will not be enough to teach you to be a man. 1764 02:03:18,744 --> 02:03:23,369 For that, I give you your father's journal. 1765 02:03:23,508 --> 02:03:26,545 And the wisdom it contains. 1766 02:03:26,683 --> 02:03:30,687 Its pages should give you an idea of where you came from 1767 02:03:30,825 --> 02:03:34,139 so you can decide on exactly where you're going. 1768 02:03:35,692 --> 02:03:37,867 I love you, son. 1769 02:03:38,005 --> 02:03:41,733 Always and forever. 1770 02:03:41,871 --> 02:03:43,010 Mom. 1771 02:03:43,148 --> 02:03:45,046 [] 1772 02:04:48,282 --> 02:04:51,181 [] 1773 02:09:43,508 --> 02:09:46,407 []