1 00:00:02,460 --> 00:00:02,919 - Previously on 2 00:00:04,254 --> 00:00:05,839 "The Real Housewives of New York City"... 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,550 - Oh, I'm thinking about having Aunt Sufia fly out next week. 4 00:00:08,591 --> 00:00:09,968 We'll probably do some cooking. 5 00:00:10,010 --> 00:00:10,885 Will you eat some rice and beans? 6 00:00:10,927 --> 00:00:12,470 - [speaking Spanish] 7 00:00:12,512 --> 00:00:14,556 - What exactly is bothering you 8 00:00:14,597 --> 00:00:16,641 about going out to get investors? 9 00:00:16,683 --> 00:00:18,977 - Maybe because of the job that I have, being a model, 10 00:00:19,019 --> 00:00:20,729 because there's never free lunch. 11 00:00:20,770 --> 00:00:22,731 - So I'm having a staycation, finally. 12 00:00:22,772 --> 00:00:24,899 - Are you gonna have sex? - (BLEEP) yes! 13 00:00:24,941 --> 00:00:26,901 [punchy music] 14 00:00:26,943 --> 00:00:30,405 - [laughs] Wear that to dinner. 15 00:00:30,447 --> 00:00:32,657 - There was a point where I had $20 in my bank account. 16 00:00:32,699 --> 00:00:35,869 - Having 20 bucks in my bank account 17 00:00:35,910 --> 00:00:37,203 was a dream when I was young. 18 00:00:37,245 --> 00:00:39,205 - She hears Sai's story, she hears Ubah's story, 19 00:00:39,247 --> 00:00:40,373 and she wants the same story, 20 00:00:40,415 --> 00:00:41,499 but it's like, that's not your story. 21 00:00:41,541 --> 00:00:43,293 - And that's okay. - Exactly. 22 00:00:43,335 --> 00:00:45,003 - When you were telling your story about your mom, 23 00:00:45,045 --> 00:00:47,172 I also had, like, a similar situation. 24 00:00:47,213 --> 00:00:49,758 Uncle Nitin, he was an alcoholic. 25 00:00:49,799 --> 00:00:52,510 - Babe, it's apples and oranges with my story. 26 00:00:52,552 --> 00:00:53,636 I'm done. 27 00:00:53,678 --> 00:00:54,888 Check. 28 00:00:54,929 --> 00:00:57,307 [upbeat music] 29 00:00:57,349 --> 00:00:58,850 - The secret ingredient? 30 00:00:58,892 --> 00:01:01,061 Darling, it's me. 31 00:01:01,102 --> 00:01:02,604 - My lashes may be fake, 32 00:01:02,645 --> 00:01:05,231 but I definitely keep it real. 33 00:01:05,273 --> 00:01:06,816 - I'm a true New Yorker. 34 00:01:06,858 --> 00:01:09,402 The only bull I'll take is by the horns. 35 00:01:09,444 --> 00:01:11,321 - I always bring the flavor. 36 00:01:11,363 --> 00:01:14,407 It's not my fault you don't have any taste. 37 00:01:14,449 --> 00:01:16,451 - In New York, there's a lot of bad apples, 38 00:01:16,493 --> 00:01:18,745 but I'm the baddest of the bunch. 39 00:01:18,787 --> 00:01:21,206 - I love to laugh, but make me mad, 40 00:01:21,247 --> 00:01:22,791 and I'll date your dad. 41 00:01:26,711 --> 00:01:31,132 - * All the way, all the way, to the midnight hour * 42 00:01:31,174 --> 00:01:32,300 * All the way * 43 00:01:32,342 --> 00:01:34,260 - Yo, yo, yo, can you hear me? 44 00:01:34,302 --> 00:01:35,929 - What's up? - Nothing. 45 00:01:35,970 --> 00:01:37,180 - Yeah. 46 00:01:37,222 --> 00:01:38,264 - I got a little bit of COVID, but... 47 00:01:38,306 --> 00:01:40,058 - Oh. - I'm so over it. 48 00:01:40,100 --> 00:01:41,768 - That's good. - What's up? 49 00:01:47,273 --> 00:01:48,400 - Oh, really? 50 00:01:49,484 --> 00:01:52,404 - Is she blacked out? 51 00:01:54,739 --> 00:01:57,450 - Oh, good. Having an awesome time? 52 00:01:57,492 --> 00:01:58,493 [laughs] 53 00:01:58,535 --> 00:02:01,287 - * All the way, all the way * 54 00:02:01,329 --> 00:02:03,248 - Gorgeous. I love it. 55 00:02:03,289 --> 00:02:05,625 Beautiful. Great, Ubah. 56 00:02:07,544 --> 00:02:09,462 - How many guys did you already turn down? 57 00:02:09,504 --> 00:02:11,131 - They don't know I'm gonna turn them down. 58 00:02:11,172 --> 00:02:12,882 I wanna wait until the 13--midnight. 59 00:02:12,924 --> 00:02:14,634 - You're like, "You still have a chance till"... 60 00:02:14,676 --> 00:02:16,136 - Yeah, yeah. - "Till 11:59 p.m." 61 00:02:16,177 --> 00:02:17,846 - Uh-huh. - Go. 62 00:02:17,887 --> 00:02:20,807 Wow, she's giving me Iman right now, actually. 63 00:02:20,849 --> 00:02:21,975 She nailed it. 64 00:02:22,017 --> 00:02:23,685 That's a wrap. - Whoo! 65 00:02:23,727 --> 00:02:26,479 - * To the midnight hour * 66 00:02:26,521 --> 00:02:28,815 - What cup would you like? - The yellow one. 67 00:02:28,857 --> 00:02:31,067 - No, I don't want anything without a top in our room. 68 00:02:31,109 --> 00:02:32,277 You want this one? Okay. 69 00:02:32,318 --> 00:02:35,113 - * All the way, all the way * 70 00:02:35,155 --> 00:02:37,323 - Here, babe. 71 00:02:37,365 --> 00:02:39,701 [phone chimes] 72 00:02:39,743 --> 00:02:41,911 Hey, girl. - Oh, my God. 73 00:02:41,953 --> 00:02:45,165 I was just burping. [both laugh] 74 00:02:45,206 --> 00:02:47,083 - So glad I caught you mid-burp. 75 00:02:47,125 --> 00:02:49,336 - What are you doing? 76 00:02:49,377 --> 00:02:51,796 - I just got home from the Craft Studio. 77 00:02:51,838 --> 00:02:52,964 - I gotta tell you about this lunch 78 00:02:53,006 --> 00:02:55,175 that I went on with Jessel. 79 00:02:55,216 --> 00:02:57,177 It was so ----ing awkward. 80 00:02:57,218 --> 00:02:58,470 - I'm gonna sit down for this. 81 00:02:58,511 --> 00:03:00,388 I think it's gonna be a long one. 82 00:03:00,430 --> 00:03:02,682 [chill music] 83 00:03:02,724 --> 00:03:03,683 [Popeye barks, howls] 84 00:03:03,725 --> 00:03:05,310 - Sorry, sorry, sorry. Stop! 85 00:03:05,352 --> 00:03:06,728 Hi. - How are you? 86 00:03:06,770 --> 00:03:08,897 - Ooh, you look so glam. - I got some flowers for you. 87 00:03:08,938 --> 00:03:10,315 - Aww, you're so sweet. 88 00:03:13,610 --> 00:03:15,528 Brandon's here. Ooh. - Oh, my goodness. 89 00:03:15,570 --> 00:03:16,780 Hi! - Hi, darling. 90 00:03:16,821 --> 00:03:18,531 - I was hoping to see you. - Oh, me too. 91 00:03:18,573 --> 00:03:19,741 It's so good to see you. - So good to see you. 92 00:03:19,783 --> 00:03:21,201 What are you whipping up? Thank you. 93 00:03:21,242 --> 00:03:22,369 - Oh, just a little snack for you guys. 94 00:03:22,410 --> 00:03:23,745 - Oh, my God. You're so good. 95 00:03:23,787 --> 00:03:25,205 Okay, what are you doing this weekend? 96 00:03:25,246 --> 00:03:27,540 - I'm working, and then I go to Scotland on Sunday. 97 00:03:27,582 --> 00:03:28,583 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 98 00:03:28,625 --> 00:03:30,377 - I was invited by a brand, 99 00:03:30,418 --> 00:03:33,880 and they are flying me out and doing, like, a spa weekend 100 00:03:33,922 --> 00:03:35,465 in an insane countryside. 101 00:03:35,507 --> 00:03:36,675 I can't wait. 102 00:03:36,716 --> 00:03:38,343 - Are you excited to go to Scotland? 103 00:03:38,385 --> 00:03:40,679 - I'm so excited. It just looks, like, gorgeous. 104 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:41,763 - Do you understand their accent? 105 00:03:41,805 --> 00:03:43,473 - No, not a word. - [laughs] 106 00:03:43,515 --> 00:03:45,058 I have this really good friend, 107 00:03:45,100 --> 00:03:46,851 like, who lives there, who actually lives, 108 00:03:46,893 --> 00:03:48,353 like, right down the street... - Yeah. 109 00:03:48,395 --> 00:03:50,063 - And every time I'm like... 110 00:03:50,105 --> 00:03:51,272 - What? [laughs] 111 00:03:51,314 --> 00:03:53,108 It's like Ubah-- you need subtitles. 112 00:03:53,149 --> 00:03:54,401 - I can't believe I'm gonna miss couples' night. 113 00:03:54,442 --> 00:03:55,610 I know you guys are going. 114 00:03:55,652 --> 00:03:57,362 - It would be really great 115 00:03:57,404 --> 00:03:58,905 to do something, like, 116 00:03:58,947 --> 00:04:01,366 all the husbands and just, like, a couples' event. 117 00:04:01,408 --> 00:04:04,411 So bring a date, or even just a friend, 118 00:04:04,452 --> 00:04:05,704 and we're gonna go to Swingers, 119 00:04:05,745 --> 00:04:07,747 like, a restaurant that has mini golf. 120 00:04:07,789 --> 00:04:09,666 - Speaking of couples' night-- 121 00:04:09,708 --> 00:04:12,043 - [gasps] We did the deed. 122 00:04:12,085 --> 00:04:14,963 - [gasps] Wait, seriously? - [laughs] Yeah. I know. 123 00:04:15,005 --> 00:04:16,297 - Jessel! - [laughs] 124 00:04:16,339 --> 00:04:18,383 - Oh, my God. - I can't justify 125 00:04:18,425 --> 00:04:20,051 why it took so long. 126 00:04:20,093 --> 00:04:22,470 I just think that there was something emotional 127 00:04:22,512 --> 00:04:24,014 in both of us that just, like, couldn't. 128 00:04:24,055 --> 00:04:26,266 - I'm so proud. - Thank you. [laughs] 129 00:04:26,307 --> 00:04:28,893 - Oh, they had sex? - Yeah. 130 00:04:28,935 --> 00:04:30,937 She's like, "Yeah, it took me 25 minutes 131 00:04:30,979 --> 00:04:32,272 to warm up down there." 132 00:04:32,313 --> 00:04:33,732 - What? 133 00:04:33,773 --> 00:04:34,899 - I'm like, "Are you a ----ing oven? 134 00:04:34,941 --> 00:04:36,276 Does everybody need to preheat you?" 135 00:04:36,317 --> 00:04:38,361 - And he went down on her or something? 136 00:04:41,072 --> 00:04:42,365 - Is the kids there? 137 00:04:42,407 --> 00:04:43,867 I don't wanna say this in front of the kids. 138 00:04:43,908 --> 00:04:45,368 - Yeah, let's wait for the kids to get out of here. 139 00:04:45,410 --> 00:04:46,828 No, there's no slime in that. - [exclaims] 140 00:04:46,870 --> 00:04:48,955 - Go downstairs, and please give Daddy the slime. 141 00:04:48,997 --> 00:04:50,665 - That's what happens when you have three kids. 142 00:04:50,707 --> 00:04:53,501 - I know. This helps. 143 00:04:53,543 --> 00:04:55,211 - The psychology behind all of this, it's just-- 144 00:04:55,253 --> 00:04:56,463 it's not black and white. 145 00:04:56,504 --> 00:04:59,007 - Everyone's so afraid to be honest 146 00:04:59,049 --> 00:05:01,176 'cause people are judgmental. Like, "What's wrong with you?" 147 00:05:01,217 --> 00:05:03,303 Something--you know? And it's-- - Well, that's what Sai-- 148 00:05:03,345 --> 00:05:06,181 I mean, I had lunch with Sai, and the reason why I wanted 149 00:05:06,222 --> 00:05:09,017 to have lunch with her was to-- I felt like there was tension 150 00:05:09,059 --> 00:05:10,643 in Anguilla between the two of us. 151 00:05:10,685 --> 00:05:12,020 I mean, I'm sure you saw. - Right. 152 00:05:12,062 --> 00:05:13,646 - And I just wanted to address it. 153 00:05:13,688 --> 00:05:17,317 I was running late, and I felt so bad, and-- 154 00:05:17,359 --> 00:05:18,360 - How late were you? 155 00:05:18,401 --> 00:05:19,694 - Like, 15 minutes. - Oh. 156 00:05:19,736 --> 00:05:21,071 - Lunch was at 11:00. She gets there 157 00:05:21,112 --> 00:05:22,655 at 11:35 or 11:40. 158 00:05:22,697 --> 00:05:25,367 - 40 minutes late? That's really rude. 159 00:05:25,408 --> 00:05:27,118 - Doesn't even call me. 160 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,329 So then she brings up my freaking mother. 161 00:05:29,371 --> 00:05:30,997 - Oh, God, I'm nervous. 162 00:05:31,039 --> 00:05:32,999 - She's like, "You know, when you brought up the situation 163 00:05:33,041 --> 00:05:35,835 "with your mom, you know, I related 164 00:05:35,877 --> 00:05:40,715 because my uncle is an alcoholic." 165 00:05:40,757 --> 00:05:43,968 - That is so insensitive to compare that to your mother. 166 00:05:44,010 --> 00:05:45,387 - I just think she's trying to find something 167 00:05:45,428 --> 00:05:47,555 that's relatable, but it didn't come off that way. 168 00:05:47,597 --> 00:05:49,307 - Because she skirts around-- 169 00:05:49,349 --> 00:05:51,810 like, tries to compare these, like, little, like, 170 00:05:51,851 --> 00:05:55,271 excerpts of things that don't really connect with any of us 171 00:05:55,313 --> 00:05:57,023 because they're not really the same. 172 00:05:57,065 --> 00:05:59,776 - It is-- - It's Crazy Town. 173 00:05:59,818 --> 00:06:01,611 - My uncle that I was living with, you know, 174 00:06:01,653 --> 00:06:03,697 he was an alcoholic, and I thought 175 00:06:03,738 --> 00:06:05,365 if anyone would understand, it would be her, 176 00:06:05,407 --> 00:06:06,700 just 'cause she had the same, 177 00:06:06,741 --> 00:06:08,535 or lived the same reality that I did. 178 00:06:08,576 --> 00:06:10,370 I mean, I think that she understood 179 00:06:10,412 --> 00:06:11,955 where I was coming from, 180 00:06:11,996 --> 00:06:15,583 but she also said she doesn't care. 181 00:06:15,625 --> 00:06:16,710 - It sounds like it's more meaningful to you 182 00:06:16,751 --> 00:06:17,919 to be understood, and I think 183 00:06:17,961 --> 00:06:19,004 that's what you were looking for, 184 00:06:19,045 --> 00:06:20,505 and it doesn't sound like you got it. 185 00:06:20,547 --> 00:06:22,674 - Yeah. - Oftentimes, people want 186 00:06:22,716 --> 00:06:24,300 from people who won't give. 187 00:06:24,342 --> 00:06:25,719 That happens a lot. 188 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,263 And when the person that won't give you what you want 189 00:06:28,304 --> 00:06:30,724 is sometimes the person you go after the most. 190 00:06:30,765 --> 00:06:33,601 I can see it in you, when you feel out of sorts, 191 00:06:33,643 --> 00:06:35,895 you start to backpedal, and it's like, 192 00:06:35,937 --> 00:06:39,441 you don't have to defend-- like, it's really okay. 193 00:06:39,482 --> 00:06:42,068 - Yeah, I really, truly appreciate that. 194 00:06:42,110 --> 00:06:45,155 I have to constantly prove myself, I think, like-- 195 00:06:45,196 --> 00:06:47,782 - But you don't. - I don't. 196 00:06:47,824 --> 00:06:49,826 - I know that her intentions were good. 197 00:06:49,868 --> 00:06:53,246 I know she was just trying to connect and relate... 198 00:06:53,288 --> 00:06:55,248 but your mom is your mom, 199 00:06:55,290 --> 00:06:57,917 and it's really different than anyone else on the planet. 200 00:06:57,959 --> 00:06:59,252 - And as far as I'm concerned, 201 00:06:59,294 --> 00:07:01,087 I said everything I needed to say, 202 00:07:01,129 --> 00:07:04,841 and I'm not gonna beat a dead horse. 203 00:07:04,883 --> 00:07:07,761 You don't have to be best friends with everybody. 204 00:07:07,802 --> 00:07:12,599 I will, obviously, put my best foot forward always. 205 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,101 But if that doesn't resonate, 206 00:07:15,143 --> 00:07:17,562 then I'm not going to sit there and cry over it. 207 00:07:17,604 --> 00:07:19,481 So there you have it. 208 00:07:19,522 --> 00:07:20,607 - There you have it. 209 00:07:20,648 --> 00:07:22,776 - But then we move on. 210 00:07:22,817 --> 00:07:25,278 Did you know her husband is going to Vietnam 211 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,947 for three days, I believe? 212 00:07:27,989 --> 00:07:29,449 - When is he going to Vietnam? 213 00:07:29,491 --> 00:07:31,618 - I think next week. 214 00:07:31,659 --> 00:07:33,828 The reason why he is going 215 00:07:33,870 --> 00:07:38,083 is because he's trying to rack up his points. 216 00:07:38,124 --> 00:07:39,209 - Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 217 00:07:39,250 --> 00:07:42,671 - [laughs] - Hold on, that's bizarre. 218 00:07:42,712 --> 00:07:43,963 - No, apparently, he's going to Vietnam-- 219 00:07:44,005 --> 00:07:46,091 make it even worse-- for 24 hours. 220 00:07:46,132 --> 00:07:48,051 That's enough time to get into trouble. 221 00:07:48,093 --> 00:07:50,011 - [laughs] 222 00:07:50,053 --> 00:07:55,141 - Lots can happen in 24 hours, can't it, Pavit? 223 00:07:55,183 --> 00:07:56,184 [mysterious music] 224 00:07:56,226 --> 00:07:59,062 - Um, I'll put it this way. 225 00:07:59,104 --> 00:08:01,606 When you start adding that to the pot 226 00:08:01,648 --> 00:08:03,274 with I haven't had sex in two years, 227 00:08:03,316 --> 00:08:05,652 he was my roommate, the Popsicle-- 228 00:08:05,694 --> 00:08:07,195 can't forget the Popsicle-- 229 00:08:07,237 --> 00:08:10,115 that tied into Pavit going to Vietnam 230 00:08:10,156 --> 00:08:12,659 for one night is strange. 231 00:08:12,701 --> 00:08:14,285 You have to hear this. This is wild. 232 00:08:14,327 --> 00:08:16,037 - I had lunch with Jessel yesterday, 233 00:08:16,079 --> 00:08:19,165 and she told me that Pavit was going to Vietnam 234 00:08:19,207 --> 00:08:23,003 for 24 hours just so he can get 60,000 points. 235 00:08:23,044 --> 00:08:25,880 - Three or four days of peace and quiet, 236 00:08:25,922 --> 00:08:27,424 and you get the points? 237 00:08:27,465 --> 00:08:28,550 - [laughs] - It's not a bad deal. 238 00:08:28,591 --> 00:08:30,135 - I think Abe and David just wish 239 00:08:30,176 --> 00:08:32,178 they could get on a plane for three days and have 240 00:08:32,220 --> 00:08:34,139 peace and quiet, but we just would not let them do that. 241 00:08:34,180 --> 00:08:35,890 - Yeah, I don't think so. - I don't think so. 242 00:08:35,932 --> 00:08:37,017 - All right, well... 243 00:08:40,645 --> 00:08:41,771 [laughter] 244 00:08:41,813 --> 00:08:43,690 - Coming up... 245 00:08:43,732 --> 00:08:46,026 Her energy towards me was just very cold, you know? 246 00:08:46,067 --> 00:08:48,319 She called me a prude, she called me a diva, like-- 247 00:08:48,361 --> 00:08:50,321 - Is she a diva? - Jess? No. 248 00:08:50,363 --> 00:08:51,656 Is Sai bipolar? Yes. 249 00:08:51,698 --> 00:08:54,617 - [laughs] - Oh. 250 00:09:01,041 --> 00:09:01,875 - * Wait for you, oh, oh, oh * 251 00:09:03,293 --> 00:09:06,880 * Don't, don't wait for you, wait for you * 252 00:09:06,921 --> 00:09:07,922 * Oh * 253 00:09:07,964 --> 00:09:09,883 [bright percussive music] 254 00:09:09,924 --> 00:09:14,095 * Oh, don't, don't wait for you, wait for you * 255 00:09:14,137 --> 00:09:17,390 - Aah, hi, Lucy! - Hi, Ubah. How are you? 256 00:09:17,432 --> 00:09:18,600 - So good. 257 00:09:18,641 --> 00:09:20,310 - Lovely to see you. 258 00:09:20,352 --> 00:09:22,854 - How are you? - Good, thank you. 259 00:09:22,896 --> 00:09:24,272 - Ubah Hot. - [gasps] Oh, my God. 260 00:09:24,314 --> 00:09:25,815 - More Ubah Hot for Geoff. - Yeah. [laughs] 261 00:09:25,857 --> 00:09:27,275 Come sit down. 262 00:09:27,317 --> 00:09:29,694 Let me grab Geoff, and we can have a chat. 263 00:09:29,736 --> 00:09:31,154 - Thank you so much. 264 00:09:31,196 --> 00:09:33,656 All these restaurants wanted me to do collabs with them. 265 00:09:33,698 --> 00:09:36,326 It has so much joy, like, 266 00:09:36,368 --> 00:09:39,662 ten-time fold more than modeling, because... 267 00:09:41,790 --> 00:09:43,667 They actually want my input. 268 00:09:43,708 --> 00:09:45,168 - I just love the green chili flavor. 269 00:09:45,210 --> 00:09:47,253 - Oh, my God, it's vegan as well, 270 00:09:47,295 --> 00:09:48,797 and that's why we're excited to work with you and see 271 00:09:48,838 --> 00:09:50,256 what we can come up with. 272 00:09:50,298 --> 00:09:52,258 - I eat at Beatnic all the time, 273 00:09:52,300 --> 00:09:53,677 and for them to give me an opportunity 274 00:09:53,718 --> 00:09:57,555 to create an Ubah dish, this is the greatest thing. 275 00:09:57,597 --> 00:10:00,016 - Well, why don't we, like, go back into the kitchen 276 00:10:00,058 --> 00:10:02,143 try a few things with the hot sauce? 277 00:10:02,185 --> 00:10:03,395 - Yeah, try and come up-- - You know, put together a dish 278 00:10:03,436 --> 00:10:04,396 that we could collab on. 279 00:10:04,437 --> 00:10:05,772 - I cannot wait, so yeah, 280 00:10:05,814 --> 00:10:08,858 let's try something for the Ubah Hot. 281 00:10:08,900 --> 00:10:11,653 I am so excited. 282 00:10:11,695 --> 00:10:13,697 - Welcome to our back kitchen. 283 00:10:13,738 --> 00:10:15,740 - I love it, I love it, I love it. 284 00:10:15,782 --> 00:10:18,326 - What I'm gonna do is--so I know you like the pretzel bun-- 285 00:10:18,368 --> 00:10:20,704 - Oh, my God, first of all, I did not know 286 00:10:20,745 --> 00:10:24,040 there's a pretzel bread exist, ever. 287 00:10:24,082 --> 00:10:27,794 I bit into this bread-- 288 00:10:27,836 --> 00:10:29,170 - Nice little toasty bun. 289 00:10:29,212 --> 00:10:31,923 - [vocalizes] 290 00:10:35,385 --> 00:10:38,179 - We got our buns toasted. We heated up our chicky. 291 00:10:38,221 --> 00:10:40,181 I think what we're gonna do-- just give it a quick toss 292 00:10:40,223 --> 00:10:42,183 with your nice Ubah Hot sauce. 293 00:10:42,225 --> 00:10:43,935 And it actually coats it really nicely. 294 00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:47,188 - Kind of, like, hugging together very well. 295 00:10:47,230 --> 00:10:49,315 I'm not ready to have an investor 296 00:10:49,357 --> 00:10:52,444 because I am not ready to have sleepless night 297 00:10:52,485 --> 00:10:55,030 and answer questions of what I'm doing 298 00:10:55,071 --> 00:10:56,406 with the money or where I am at. 299 00:10:56,448 --> 00:10:59,075 - We'll just put a little bit of this on the top. 300 00:10:59,117 --> 00:11:01,161 - So, Ubah, the model, right now, 301 00:11:01,202 --> 00:11:04,831 she is the "sugar mama" of Ubah Hot. 302 00:11:04,873 --> 00:11:06,458 We're, like, feeding-- and we're, like, spending 303 00:11:06,499 --> 00:11:08,084 like we're in strip joint. 304 00:11:08,126 --> 00:11:09,252 We're just, like, doing this. 305 00:11:09,294 --> 00:11:11,671 We're making it rain on Ubah Hot. 306 00:11:11,713 --> 00:11:12,839 - That looks nice. - [squeals] Yes. 307 00:11:12,881 --> 00:11:14,215 That looks really nice, 308 00:11:14,257 --> 00:11:18,845 and I like that the Ubah Hot just appear in there. 309 00:11:18,887 --> 00:11:21,598 Oh my God. This is so good, Geoff. 310 00:11:21,639 --> 00:11:23,016 - Mmm. - Oh, my God. 311 00:11:23,058 --> 00:11:25,435 I know eventually, to grow, 312 00:11:25,477 --> 00:11:30,273 you need help, so I will do it eventually. 313 00:11:30,315 --> 00:11:32,233 - Oh. [laughs] - Thank you so much. 314 00:11:32,275 --> 00:11:34,277 - All right, well, let's get in there. 315 00:11:34,319 --> 00:11:38,031 * * 316 00:11:38,073 --> 00:11:39,657 Mmm. - Get it all in there. 317 00:11:39,699 --> 00:11:41,409 That is amazing. 318 00:11:41,451 --> 00:11:43,244 - But I love that it's, like-- it's not just hot-- 319 00:11:43,286 --> 00:11:45,121 there's, like, a lot of flavor. - Mm-hmm. 320 00:11:45,163 --> 00:11:47,290 - So we landed on a dish. - Yeah, okay. 321 00:11:47,332 --> 00:11:48,833 - We actually landed on a sandwich. 322 00:11:48,875 --> 00:11:50,126 - Oh, really? both: Yeah. 323 00:11:50,168 --> 00:11:52,504 - That's so exciting. - So I know you guys have 324 00:11:52,545 --> 00:11:54,297 to work out, uh, next steps. 325 00:11:54,339 --> 00:11:55,423 - Yes. - It was such a pleasure. 326 00:11:55,465 --> 00:11:56,675 Thank you, thank you, thank you. 327 00:11:56,716 --> 00:11:58,051 - All right. 328 00:11:58,093 --> 00:11:59,469 - Collabs like this helps Ubah Hot 329 00:11:59,511 --> 00:12:02,389 to kind of tap clientele that I don't have. 330 00:12:02,430 --> 00:12:04,933 This way is very authentic 'cause you're introduced 331 00:12:04,974 --> 00:12:06,476 without putting people in their face. 332 00:12:06,518 --> 00:12:08,269 - Now we've gotta add this on to the menu, 333 00:12:08,311 --> 00:12:10,480 so we gotta organize a photo shoot. 334 00:12:10,522 --> 00:12:12,107 - Maybe you might want one of me wearing bathing suit-- 335 00:12:12,148 --> 00:12:13,566 I'm kidding. - [laughs] 336 00:12:13,608 --> 00:12:16,194 Whatever you're comfortable in. 337 00:12:16,236 --> 00:12:18,071 - Naked, naked. - Yeah. [laughs] 338 00:12:18,113 --> 00:12:21,032 [serene music] 339 00:12:21,074 --> 00:12:22,367 * * 340 00:12:22,409 --> 00:12:26,121 - Aunt Sufia? - Yes? 341 00:12:26,162 --> 00:12:27,622 - Can you help with this rice? 342 00:12:27,664 --> 00:12:30,083 - You mean, can I make the rice, don't you? 343 00:12:30,125 --> 00:12:32,043 - Yeah, of course. 344 00:12:32,085 --> 00:12:35,088 - [laughs] I'll make the sofrito. 345 00:12:37,215 --> 00:12:38,299 - All right, this is done? 346 00:12:38,341 --> 00:12:40,844 - Yes, but don't put it in first. 347 00:12:40,885 --> 00:12:43,388 - Wait, you put this in? - We need--yes. 348 00:12:43,430 --> 00:12:45,181 It's gonna all be chopped up. 349 00:12:45,223 --> 00:12:46,391 It's not gonna make any difference, 350 00:12:46,433 --> 00:12:48,893 and there's a lot of flavor in the stems. 351 00:12:48,935 --> 00:12:51,396 - Aunt Sufia and my mom were sisters. 352 00:12:51,438 --> 00:12:54,065 She's the glue to our family, and she holds us together. 353 00:12:54,107 --> 00:12:55,275 - Put the onions in first 354 00:12:55,316 --> 00:12:56,526 because we want the liquid. 355 00:12:56,568 --> 00:12:58,236 Right? - Okay. 356 00:12:58,278 --> 00:13:01,656 My aunt is extremely emotional and very sensitive, 357 00:13:01,698 --> 00:13:03,450 so she wears her heart on her sleeve. 358 00:13:03,491 --> 00:13:05,744 So, you know, to see your older sister 359 00:13:05,785 --> 00:13:08,913 in that situation is never ideal. 360 00:13:08,955 --> 00:13:10,957 It took a toll on her. 361 00:13:10,999 --> 00:13:12,876 When my mom was here for Thanksgiving-- 362 00:13:12,917 --> 00:13:15,628 not last year, but the year before-- 363 00:13:15,670 --> 00:13:19,341 she spent hours doing this pelucathat was-- 364 00:13:19,382 --> 00:13:20,925 [both laugh] 365 00:13:20,967 --> 00:13:22,761 - Your mom loved her peluca. - Always. 366 00:13:22,802 --> 00:13:26,931 And she came up and she said, "Look at my hair." 367 00:13:26,973 --> 00:13:28,850 - It did look kind of good, though. 368 00:13:28,892 --> 00:13:30,310 She looked kind of cute. 369 00:13:30,352 --> 00:13:31,853 - She was so proud of herself. 370 00:13:31,895 --> 00:13:33,605 I said, "We've been up here cooking the whole time, 371 00:13:33,646 --> 00:13:35,774 and you're putting an extension in your hair?" 372 00:13:35,815 --> 00:13:37,984 Oh, wait, I wanna give you your Christmas gift-- 373 00:13:38,026 --> 00:13:39,819 speaking of my mom. - My Christmas gift? 374 00:13:39,861 --> 00:13:41,112 I'm still getting Christmas gifts? 375 00:13:41,154 --> 00:13:43,198 Is it gonna make me cry? - No, I don't think so. 376 00:13:43,239 --> 00:13:44,491 - I don't wanna cry. 377 00:13:44,532 --> 00:13:46,451 - I don't think it will. - I don't like to cry. 378 00:13:46,493 --> 00:13:50,330 - Okay, here we go. So David made this. 379 00:13:53,333 --> 00:13:55,335 - It's-- 380 00:13:55,377 --> 00:13:57,712 - And it's a book of all... - Whoa. 381 00:13:57,754 --> 00:13:59,214 - Her art. - Oh my. 382 00:13:59,255 --> 00:14:03,218 - So he took all her art and he photographed all of it... 383 00:14:03,259 --> 00:14:04,427 - [exhales heavily] Wow. 384 00:14:04,469 --> 00:14:07,597 - And then had it made in a book. 385 00:14:07,639 --> 00:14:09,349 - Oh, my God. 386 00:14:09,391 --> 00:14:10,558 [cries] 387 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,436 - I'm sorry. I didn't want to make you cry. 388 00:14:15,980 --> 00:14:17,399 Look how beautiful it is. 389 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,652 She would have been so happy to see her art in a book. 390 00:14:20,694 --> 00:14:22,404 Everyone in my family is very creative. 391 00:14:22,445 --> 00:14:24,906 If you're not a painter or an artist, 392 00:14:24,948 --> 00:14:26,241 you are a musician. 393 00:14:26,282 --> 00:14:28,993 Like, we all do something completely different, 394 00:14:29,035 --> 00:14:31,079 but we are all in a creative space. 395 00:14:31,121 --> 00:14:35,333 - Oh, my God. I dream about her all the time. 396 00:14:35,375 --> 00:14:39,212 David, you hit a home run. 397 00:14:39,254 --> 00:14:41,339 Whew. Wow. [sniffles] 398 00:14:41,381 --> 00:14:43,258 Okay, I'll be crying later tonight. 399 00:14:43,299 --> 00:14:45,385 - Seeing all of my mother's work 400 00:14:45,427 --> 00:14:47,971 in this book and seeing how talented 401 00:14:48,013 --> 00:14:49,973 she really, really was, 402 00:14:50,015 --> 00:14:54,060 I think, was just--just very, very overwhelming for her. 403 00:14:54,102 --> 00:14:57,313 - [sighs] Meanwhile, the food's burning. 404 00:14:57,355 --> 00:14:58,940 - Well, cheers to you being here. 405 00:14:58,982 --> 00:15:00,775 I love you. - I love you too, Sai. 406 00:15:00,817 --> 00:15:03,528 - I love you like a mother. - I love you like a daughter. 407 00:15:03,570 --> 00:15:05,488 - Oh, that's perfect. All right, well, cheers. 408 00:15:05,530 --> 00:15:07,824 Let's sit on the couch until our food is ready. 409 00:15:07,866 --> 00:15:09,659 - Coming up... 410 00:15:09,701 --> 00:15:11,578 - Who's coming? 411 00:15:11,619 --> 00:15:14,122 - But--so it's basically, like, a triple date 412 00:15:14,164 --> 00:15:16,332 with Pavit and Jessel, your favorite. 413 00:15:16,374 --> 00:15:17,667 Is it gonna be awkward? 414 00:15:26,176 --> 00:15:26,926 [rhythmic percussive music] 415 00:15:28,261 --> 00:15:32,432 * * 416 00:15:32,474 --> 00:15:34,559 - Thank you, my love. - Jenna. 417 00:15:34,601 --> 00:15:36,478 - Hey. - Hi. Welcome back. 418 00:15:36,519 --> 00:15:37,729 - How are you? - Great to see you. 419 00:15:37,771 --> 00:15:39,064 - It's nice to see you too. How's it goin'? 420 00:15:39,105 --> 00:15:40,523 - Great. - You look great. 421 00:15:40,565 --> 00:15:41,775 - Thank you, and I can't believe 422 00:15:41,816 --> 00:15:43,610 how tall you've gotten, oh, my gosh. 423 00:15:43,651 --> 00:15:45,195 - I know. Beckett, Ariel. I know it's been a long time. 424 00:15:45,236 --> 00:15:46,571 - I met you a while ago when you were like this. 425 00:15:46,613 --> 00:15:48,156 - He was a baby. This is the only thing 426 00:15:48,198 --> 00:15:50,367 I've been wearing, and I need a new option. 427 00:15:50,408 --> 00:15:52,118 - We have so many great styles 428 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:53,370 that we just received, you know? 429 00:15:53,411 --> 00:15:55,538 - Okay. I'm off to Scotland tomorrow. 430 00:15:55,580 --> 00:15:57,457 Beckett is deeply independent, 431 00:15:57,499 --> 00:15:59,167 I think, having joint custody, 432 00:15:59,209 --> 00:16:02,337 so he is used to being a week without me and a week with me, 433 00:16:02,379 --> 00:16:05,340 so I always try to schedule my travel in the week 434 00:16:05,382 --> 00:16:07,550 that he would have already not been with me. 435 00:16:07,592 --> 00:16:09,386 So leaving Beckett is not easy, 436 00:16:09,427 --> 00:16:10,595 and it's never gonna be easy, 437 00:16:10,637 --> 00:16:13,264 but it's gotten easier over time. 438 00:16:13,306 --> 00:16:15,517 - I gotta show you something that's, like, amazing. 439 00:16:15,558 --> 00:16:17,519 Like, this is, like, super chic. 440 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,437 - Oh. - What do you think, Beckett? 441 00:16:19,479 --> 00:16:21,189 - Wow. - Isn't that cool? 442 00:16:21,231 --> 00:16:22,273 Those are sick. 443 00:16:22,315 --> 00:16:24,317 - I like the outer frame isn't-- 444 00:16:24,359 --> 00:16:26,194 - Wait, try another-- - Yeah, yeah. 445 00:16:26,236 --> 00:16:28,571 - I do love these. [laughs] 446 00:16:28,613 --> 00:16:30,240 - Oh, my God. I look like that-- 447 00:16:30,281 --> 00:16:32,409 wait, wait, wait, wait, I look like Mr. Peabody. 448 00:16:32,450 --> 00:16:33,785 - Who can wear these? I can't wear them. 449 00:16:33,827 --> 00:16:34,953 - Yeah, it's a little-- - [laughs] 450 00:16:34,994 --> 00:16:36,955 - I'm dying. You're so cute. 451 00:16:36,996 --> 00:16:38,540 You're so cute. 452 00:16:38,581 --> 00:16:39,708 - So let's talk about prices. 453 00:16:39,749 --> 00:16:42,502 So this one is 550. - Okay. 454 00:16:42,544 --> 00:16:44,045 - Japanese acetate, amazing. 455 00:16:44,087 --> 00:16:45,547 - Why is Japanese acetate better? 456 00:16:45,588 --> 00:16:47,590 - This is organic, so this is 750. 457 00:16:47,632 --> 00:16:49,050 - I mean, I love the color. - Japanese ac-- 458 00:16:49,092 --> 00:16:50,093 - Do you wanna just try yours on 459 00:16:50,135 --> 00:16:51,428 one more time before we go? 460 00:16:51,469 --> 00:16:53,471 - And he's worth 650. - First of all, 461 00:16:53,513 --> 00:16:55,890 I can't believe that I actually have a teenager. 462 00:16:55,932 --> 00:16:57,434 Beckett, I really like him. 463 00:16:57,475 --> 00:17:01,688 Like, I remember my mom didn't like me, and I knew that. 464 00:17:01,730 --> 00:17:03,523 - I actually do like those on you. 465 00:17:03,565 --> 00:17:05,066 - I actually like these on me. - Yeah, yeah. 466 00:17:05,108 --> 00:17:06,776 - But I need to stop. - Exactly. 467 00:17:06,818 --> 00:17:08,278 - It's so rewarding 'cause I feel like 468 00:17:08,319 --> 00:17:10,405 I get kind of a do-over. 469 00:17:10,447 --> 00:17:11,698 Being able to have 470 00:17:11,740 --> 00:17:13,408 a loving relationship with Beckett, 471 00:17:13,450 --> 00:17:15,618 I think, mends a little bit of what I didn't have. 472 00:17:15,660 --> 00:17:17,162 - So we'll let you know when-- - Will you text me? 473 00:17:17,203 --> 00:17:18,705 - Yeah, we'll text you, of co-- - You have my number. 474 00:17:18,747 --> 00:17:19,622 - Pleasure seeing you. - Just don't send me the bill. 475 00:17:19,664 --> 00:17:20,790 - Just shh. - Yeah, yeah. 476 00:17:20,832 --> 00:17:22,334 Well, I have your card on file, so. 477 00:17:22,375 --> 00:17:23,668 - I've heard that more times than I should. 478 00:17:23,710 --> 00:17:24,753 - Yes. 479 00:17:24,794 --> 00:17:27,130 [upbeat music] 480 00:17:27,172 --> 00:17:30,133 - * Just wanna take time * 481 00:17:30,175 --> 00:17:33,553 * Ooh, ooh * 482 00:17:33,595 --> 00:17:35,764 * Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh * 483 00:17:35,805 --> 00:17:42,645 * Just wanna take the time, ooh, ooh * 484 00:17:42,687 --> 00:17:43,730 - I feel like we've been here before-- 485 00:17:43,772 --> 00:17:45,732 - I have never been here, never. 486 00:17:45,774 --> 00:17:46,733 - We'll send your server over right away. 487 00:17:46,775 --> 00:17:48,360 - Thank you. - Thanks a lot. 488 00:17:48,401 --> 00:17:50,153 - I think I'm gonna start with a glass of wine. 489 00:17:50,195 --> 00:17:52,238 Should I? Or a cocktail? - Cocktail. 490 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:53,823 - Cocktail? - Hi. How are you? 491 00:17:53,865 --> 00:17:55,825 - All right, let's start with, like, a bunch of guac. 492 00:17:55,867 --> 00:17:58,620 - No problem, we have guac with mango, regular guacamole-- 493 00:17:58,661 --> 00:17:59,996 - Let's do all of them. - Okay. 494 00:18:00,038 --> 00:18:02,165 - [laughs] Like, I don't wanna mess around here. 495 00:18:02,207 --> 00:18:03,375 - Okay. - We're both gonna do 496 00:18:03,416 --> 00:18:04,834 Lo Siento mezcal, 497 00:18:04,876 --> 00:18:08,171 but can I have mine with squeezed orange... 498 00:18:08,213 --> 00:18:09,881 - Okay. - Are you gonna kill me? 499 00:18:09,923 --> 00:18:11,341 - No, go ahead. - And a splash of pineapple? 500 00:18:11,383 --> 00:18:13,468 - [laughs] No problem. 501 00:18:13,510 --> 00:18:15,512 - Oh-ho. - Hello... 502 00:18:15,553 --> 00:18:17,764 - Hi, guys. - To my homies. 503 00:18:17,806 --> 00:18:19,349 - You know, she's like, "Who do you think 504 00:18:19,391 --> 00:18:20,517 the first one here is gonna be?" 505 00:18:20,558 --> 00:18:21,601 - How are you gonna play in heels? 506 00:18:21,643 --> 00:18:22,977 - How are you? - I wore sneakers. 507 00:18:23,019 --> 00:18:26,022 - [groans] Why have you been avoiding me? 508 00:18:26,064 --> 00:18:28,274 - I ordered a bunch of food so that you're not hungry. 509 00:18:28,316 --> 00:18:29,901 - I already ate. - You did? 510 00:18:29,943 --> 00:18:31,861 - Just in case. - Oh, my God. [laughs] 511 00:18:31,903 --> 00:18:33,488 That's, like, actually insulting. 512 00:18:33,530 --> 00:18:35,865 It's like, now she comes to my event, so she eats before 513 00:18:35,907 --> 00:18:37,409 'cause she thinks I'm not gonna feed her? 514 00:18:37,450 --> 00:18:39,452 - What you got to eat? - More caviar. 515 00:18:39,494 --> 00:18:41,454 - Caviar. [laughter] 516 00:18:41,496 --> 00:18:43,832 - Why are you laughing? - I'm hangry. 517 00:18:43,873 --> 00:18:45,000 - But, I mean, fine. 518 00:18:45,041 --> 00:18:46,584 Cool. Hopefully, it works. 519 00:18:46,626 --> 00:18:49,295 - Siente--this one's yours with the splash of grapefruit 520 00:18:49,337 --> 00:18:51,715 and orange squeeze-- - And what's that? 521 00:18:51,756 --> 00:18:53,091 - And this one's for you. - Oh, great, thank you. 522 00:18:53,133 --> 00:18:54,718 - It's the same thing, just grapefruit and a lime. 523 00:18:54,759 --> 00:18:56,553 - Can you do a very skinny margarita? 524 00:18:56,594 --> 00:18:58,346 Just no sugar at all? 525 00:18:58,388 --> 00:19:00,223 - Okay. 526 00:19:00,265 --> 00:19:02,350 - Who's coming? 527 00:19:02,392 --> 00:19:04,352 - Ubah. Brynn is sick. 528 00:19:04,394 --> 00:19:06,563 - Oh, Brynn's still sick? - Brynn's still sick. 529 00:19:06,604 --> 00:19:08,690 So it's basically, like, a triple date 530 00:19:08,732 --> 00:19:10,900 with Pavit and Jessel, your favorite. 531 00:19:10,942 --> 00:19:12,610 Is it gonna be awkward? 532 00:19:12,652 --> 00:19:14,404 - Don't care. - No? 533 00:19:14,446 --> 00:19:16,448 Have you spoken to Jessel since your lunch? 534 00:19:16,489 --> 00:19:18,074 Like, have you seen her? 535 00:19:18,116 --> 00:19:19,743 - No, I haven't seen her. 536 00:19:19,784 --> 00:19:21,995 I mean, I don't know what to say. 537 00:19:22,037 --> 00:19:24,539 I don't--genuinely don't care-- - I know. 538 00:19:24,581 --> 00:19:26,332 - I don't-- - But I think she cares. 539 00:19:26,374 --> 00:19:27,917 - I just want her to be herself. 540 00:19:27,959 --> 00:19:29,002 - Yeah. 541 00:19:29,044 --> 00:19:30,295 - I'm gonna act like nothing is wrong. 542 00:19:30,337 --> 00:19:31,421 - Good. You should. 543 00:19:31,463 --> 00:19:32,756 - We'll see how long it lasts, 544 00:19:32,797 --> 00:19:34,674 because I do get cranky really quickly. 545 00:19:34,716 --> 00:19:38,762 - I didn't know that Jessel and Pavit had a date. 546 00:19:38,803 --> 00:19:40,555 - Oh, they had a-- - Tell me about this date. 547 00:19:40,597 --> 00:19:43,058 - Oh, they had sex. - Did they? 548 00:19:43,099 --> 00:19:44,184 - Is this confirmed? 549 00:19:44,225 --> 00:19:46,603 - She told me that they had sex, yes. 550 00:19:46,644 --> 00:19:48,104 - All right, all right. - Did they have-- 551 00:19:48,146 --> 00:19:49,814 they had, like-- - I told you. 552 00:19:49,856 --> 00:19:52,317 - I need you both to get the truth... 553 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:53,526 - Yes. - From Pavit tonight. 554 00:19:53,568 --> 00:19:55,111 - Get the truth out. 555 00:19:55,153 --> 00:19:56,654 - If we get this-- - What do we get in return? 556 00:19:56,696 --> 00:19:59,783 - Thank you. Negotiate. - I'm good for a couple days. 557 00:19:59,824 --> 00:20:01,117 - What, did you put out this morning? 558 00:20:01,159 --> 00:20:03,620 - No, he got a blowjob. That's a big deal. 559 00:20:03,661 --> 00:20:06,164 - That's a big deal? - It shouldn't be a big deal. 560 00:20:06,206 --> 00:20:08,333 - [laughs] - Good for you. 561 00:20:08,375 --> 00:20:10,960 You must have did a-- something good. 562 00:20:11,002 --> 00:20:11,961 - Oh, I did. 563 00:20:12,003 --> 00:20:13,129 [laughter] 564 00:20:13,171 --> 00:20:14,673 And she was very happy. 565 00:20:14,714 --> 00:20:20,303 I feel bad for Erin because I just want it all the time. 566 00:20:20,345 --> 00:20:22,389 - No comment. 567 00:20:23,264 --> 00:20:24,849 - Hi. 568 00:20:24,891 --> 00:20:28,853 This is, like, the hottest club on a freaking Tuesday night. 569 00:20:28,895 --> 00:20:30,021 - What's up, man? - Oh, thank you. 570 00:20:30,063 --> 00:20:31,398 - What's going on? - Good to see you. 571 00:20:31,439 --> 00:20:33,983 - Hey, Abe. Thank you so much. 572 00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:35,443 It's been a minute. - Hi, guys. 573 00:20:35,485 --> 00:20:36,820 - Hi. 574 00:20:36,861 --> 00:20:38,947 Obviously, there's tension in the air. 575 00:20:38,988 --> 00:20:43,159 I really don't know where this animosity is coming from. 576 00:20:43,201 --> 00:20:45,662 I mean, honestly, I think Sai maybe doesn't like me 577 00:20:45,704 --> 00:20:47,789 because I dress better than her. 578 00:20:47,831 --> 00:20:51,042 Where's everyone else? - Jenna's in Scotland. 579 00:20:51,084 --> 00:20:52,127 - I knew that. 580 00:20:52,168 --> 00:20:53,670 - And then we're just waiting on Ubah. 581 00:20:53,712 --> 00:20:55,714 - Oh. - Neither of you eating? 582 00:20:55,755 --> 00:20:56,923 - I will. 583 00:20:56,965 --> 00:20:59,718 Can I have, like, one cocktail, please? 584 00:20:59,759 --> 00:21:01,386 - No, I just feel awkward eating by myself. 585 00:21:01,428 --> 00:21:04,347 - I thought my wife was over there. 586 00:21:04,389 --> 00:21:06,641 - I don't get it. 587 00:21:06,683 --> 00:21:08,935 - You're acting like my wife. 588 00:21:08,977 --> 00:21:11,855 - [laughs] 589 00:21:11,896 --> 00:21:13,940 How was your thing at the Ritz the other night? 590 00:21:13,982 --> 00:21:15,984 - It was a good time, glad to get away, 591 00:21:16,026 --> 00:21:16,901 break from the kids. 592 00:21:16,943 --> 00:21:18,737 We get no breaks from the kids. 593 00:21:18,778 --> 00:21:20,572 - Erin was just telling me you're going 594 00:21:20,613 --> 00:21:22,282 to Vietnam for points? 595 00:21:22,323 --> 00:21:23,992 - I--yes. 596 00:21:24,034 --> 00:21:26,536 - Oh, yeah, what's going on? When are you leaving? 597 00:21:26,578 --> 00:21:27,954 - Wait, so why are you going to Vietnam? 598 00:21:27,996 --> 00:21:32,125 - This ticket normally costs... $15,000 round trip. 599 00:21:32,167 --> 00:21:34,127 - You'll 20 grand, yeah. 600 00:21:34,169 --> 00:21:36,755 - This ticket was going for 900 bucks, 601 00:21:36,796 --> 00:21:38,173 so I bought three of them. 602 00:21:38,214 --> 00:21:39,549 - Wait, you literally have three tickets? 603 00:21:39,591 --> 00:21:40,675 So why aren't you going? 604 00:21:40,717 --> 00:21:41,885 - Well, I've already flown two of 'em. 605 00:21:41,926 --> 00:21:43,720 - You used them already? - Yeah, two of 'em. 606 00:21:43,762 --> 00:21:45,513 - Wait, I'm so confused. 607 00:21:45,555 --> 00:21:48,433 - You've been to Vietnam twice? - Yes. Yeah. 608 00:21:48,475 --> 00:21:51,019 - But I know, but still, why are you going? 609 00:21:51,061 --> 00:21:53,605 [tense music] 610 00:22:01,613 --> 00:22:02,655 - Wait, so why are you going to Vietnam? 611 00:22:03,490 --> 00:22:04,741 I wanna--I've been dying to-- 612 00:22:04,783 --> 00:22:07,535 - 'Cause he had booked a flight before COVID. 613 00:22:07,577 --> 00:22:08,745 - But I know, but still, why are you going? 614 00:22:08,787 --> 00:22:10,789 [tense music] 615 00:22:10,830 --> 00:22:12,791 Like, do you love Vietnam? How many times have you been? 616 00:22:12,832 --> 00:22:14,459 Like, is this something-- like, your first time going? 617 00:22:14,501 --> 00:22:16,419 - You're just going there to come back? 618 00:22:16,461 --> 00:22:18,338 - Yes. 619 00:22:18,380 --> 00:22:20,090 Have you ever flown international first class? 620 00:22:20,131 --> 00:22:21,508 both: Yeah. - Right, it's literally, 621 00:22:21,549 --> 00:22:25,220 you just sit on a plane, eat caviar, get fed good food. 622 00:22:25,261 --> 00:22:26,763 - Oh, you're going for that experience. 623 00:22:26,805 --> 00:22:28,181 - Yes, and come back. - Oh. 624 00:22:28,223 --> 00:22:30,475 - That's it. - I honestly am so confused. 625 00:22:30,517 --> 00:22:33,353 What person flies to Vietnam for miles? 626 00:22:33,395 --> 00:22:35,980 Is his business there? 627 00:22:36,022 --> 00:22:39,943 Does he have some "business" there? 628 00:22:39,984 --> 00:22:41,861 - These trips, for me, I see 'em as two things. 629 00:22:41,903 --> 00:22:43,530 First, it's getting away. 630 00:22:43,571 --> 00:22:46,116 We have so little free time. It's ridiculous. 631 00:22:46,157 --> 00:22:48,827 The second benefit of that is it allows me to earn miles, 632 00:22:48,868 --> 00:22:50,578 and I can eventually use these miles 633 00:22:50,620 --> 00:22:51,746 to take us on vacations. 634 00:22:51,788 --> 00:22:53,998 - But do you stay overnight? 635 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,834 - I'll stay overnight, have a sandwich, come back. 636 00:22:55,875 --> 00:22:57,836 - When are you leaving? - I wanna come. 637 00:22:57,877 --> 00:23:00,839 - We can all go... but there's no date yet. 638 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,674 - I thought you were leaving next week? 639 00:23:02,716 --> 00:23:03,925 - I'm not going next week. 640 00:23:03,967 --> 00:23:04,926 - Oh. - He's not going next week. 641 00:23:04,968 --> 00:23:06,261 He's trying to figure it out. 642 00:23:06,302 --> 00:23:07,554 - I--no, no, no. 643 00:23:07,595 --> 00:23:10,849 It's booked the day the flights open up. 644 00:23:10,890 --> 00:23:12,684 - So you want to get away from your wife and kids? 645 00:23:12,726 --> 00:23:14,102 - Yes. - [laughs] 646 00:23:14,144 --> 00:23:15,311 - Pretty much, yes. 647 00:23:15,353 --> 00:23:17,814 - At least you admit that. - Oh, oh! Why-- 648 00:23:17,856 --> 00:23:19,274 - Like, he gets miles. - Oh, yeah. 649 00:23:19,315 --> 00:23:20,734 You get a lot of miles. So if you get these flights-- 650 00:23:20,775 --> 00:23:21,860 - And that's the reason he's telling you. 651 00:23:21,901 --> 00:23:23,486 We just heard the reason. 652 00:23:23,528 --> 00:23:24,696 - Anyway. 653 00:23:24,738 --> 00:23:27,282 I've never in my life 654 00:23:27,323 --> 00:23:29,951 had friends so invested 655 00:23:29,993 --> 00:23:31,870 in my husband's travel schedule. 656 00:23:31,911 --> 00:23:34,039 It's none of your business, full stop. 657 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,541 "Hey, Abe, like, how many sh--s did you take today?" 658 00:23:36,583 --> 00:23:38,126 I don't ----ing care. 659 00:23:38,168 --> 00:23:40,962 - Hi, everyone. It is time for golf. 660 00:23:41,004 --> 00:23:42,005 - Yay! - Amazing. 661 00:23:42,047 --> 00:23:43,715 - So the way it works is we take, 662 00:23:43,757 --> 00:23:45,967 like, a group every five minutes, so-- 663 00:23:46,009 --> 00:23:47,886 - Let's do boys first. - Awesome. 664 00:23:47,927 --> 00:23:49,846 - Hold on, I wanna take some food with me. 665 00:23:49,888 --> 00:23:52,432 - I gotta use the bathroom. 666 00:23:52,474 --> 00:23:54,726 - Do you know how to keep score? 667 00:23:54,768 --> 00:23:57,228 - Yeah, I cheat. [both laugh] 668 00:23:57,270 --> 00:24:00,106 So before anything, Pavit gets the blue ball. 669 00:24:00,148 --> 00:24:01,566 - Oh. [laughs] 670 00:24:01,608 --> 00:24:02,776 - Is that how we're starting out? 671 00:24:02,817 --> 00:24:04,486 - It's not right now. I'm good right now. 672 00:24:04,527 --> 00:24:06,821 [both laugh] 673 00:24:08,406 --> 00:24:10,450 - You--I don't even want to-- - [laughs] 674 00:24:10,492 --> 00:24:12,118 - You don't want any part of that. 675 00:24:12,952 --> 00:24:14,496 - Yeah. Why? - The only reason I ask you 676 00:24:14,537 --> 00:24:16,623 that is 'cause I know you haven't seen each other. 677 00:24:16,664 --> 00:24:19,417 - Who? - You and Sai. 678 00:24:19,459 --> 00:24:22,170 - Oh, since lunch? - Yeah. 679 00:24:22,212 --> 00:24:25,674 - It was--it was definitely not what I expected, you know? 680 00:24:25,715 --> 00:24:28,176 I felt like her energy was very, like, cold 681 00:24:28,218 --> 00:24:30,929 and, like, almost, like, negative towards me, 682 00:24:30,970 --> 00:24:32,889 and I honestly don't know what I've done. 683 00:24:32,931 --> 00:24:35,934 - It's a ballsy move. 684 00:24:35,975 --> 00:24:38,645 - Oh! - This is why I don't golf. 685 00:24:38,687 --> 00:24:40,355 - This is why you don't. - [laughs] 686 00:24:40,397 --> 00:24:43,108 - This is why you don't golf. - Oh, oh, these are our drinks. 687 00:24:43,149 --> 00:24:45,110 all: Cheers. 688 00:24:45,151 --> 00:24:46,611 - Cheers to being away from our wives. 689 00:24:46,653 --> 00:24:48,113 Cheers, cheers. 690 00:24:48,154 --> 00:24:49,781 - Time-out time. - Cheer time-out. 691 00:24:49,823 --> 00:24:52,617 Listen-- - Cheers to Vietnam, cheers. 692 00:24:52,659 --> 00:24:54,077 - What are you guys talking about? 693 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,495 - Our lunch. - We're talking about you-- 694 00:24:55,537 --> 00:24:57,080 - Oh, my God, that was the most awkward ----ing lunch 695 00:24:57,122 --> 00:24:58,790 I've ever had. - Yeah, but why? 696 00:24:58,832 --> 00:25:00,500 - I just felt like 697 00:25:00,542 --> 00:25:03,795 the reasons why you wanted to talk to me were-- 698 00:25:03,837 --> 00:25:05,463 it could have been a phone call. 699 00:25:05,505 --> 00:25:08,299 - I know, but sometimes you just wanna have a lunch. 700 00:25:08,341 --> 00:25:11,678 - You wanted to meet me to tell me that you're not, 701 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,472 like--your struggle--you're not comparing your struggles, 702 00:25:14,514 --> 00:25:16,141 and that you're not-- - Yeah, 'cause I just wanted 703 00:25:16,182 --> 00:25:17,976 to make sure you understood that-- 704 00:25:18,018 --> 00:25:19,978 - Why do you think out of everything that we did 705 00:25:20,020 --> 00:25:22,439 in Anguilla, that would bother me the most? 706 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,816 - Because we had that moment on the boat 707 00:25:24,858 --> 00:25:26,651 where you seemed upset, Sai. 708 00:25:26,693 --> 00:25:28,153 - We wanna know about you! - Jessel. 709 00:25:28,194 --> 00:25:30,321 - It's that simple! It's that simple! 710 00:25:30,363 --> 00:25:32,157 - Why are you ----ing yelling? - Because I can't get 711 00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:34,325 the point across the same sh--! 712 00:25:34,367 --> 00:25:37,412 I was upset because you're not understanding 713 00:25:37,454 --> 00:25:38,747 what we're saying to you. 714 00:25:38,788 --> 00:25:41,166 It's like there's no accountability for anything, 715 00:25:41,207 --> 00:25:43,543 and you're talking in circles. 716 00:25:43,585 --> 00:25:45,587 It's like nothing is making sense. 717 00:25:45,628 --> 00:25:47,047 - Okay. - Then I'm sitting 718 00:25:47,088 --> 00:25:49,090 at the lunch, and you bring up my mom. 719 00:25:49,132 --> 00:25:51,259 I'll be honest with you, I don't wanna talk about my mom 720 00:25:51,301 --> 00:25:52,552 in that aspect. 721 00:25:52,594 --> 00:25:55,013 Like, I was actually offended, to be honest. 722 00:25:55,055 --> 00:25:57,182 - Okay. - And I was just like-- 723 00:25:57,223 --> 00:25:59,684 - I was talking about my uncle, and I thought 724 00:25:59,726 --> 00:26:05,023 that my experience with that would relate to yours. 725 00:26:05,065 --> 00:26:06,858 And not in a-- I'm not trying to--again, 726 00:26:06,900 --> 00:26:09,152 I'm not trying to, like, create similarities. 727 00:26:09,194 --> 00:26:12,864 I find it really hard-- hi! 728 00:26:12,906 --> 00:26:14,783 There she is! - Oh, hello! 729 00:26:14,824 --> 00:26:17,660 - Babe, you're freaking-- you're so late. [laughs] 730 00:26:17,702 --> 00:26:19,579 - What is--what is this? What is this? What is that? 731 00:26:19,621 --> 00:26:22,207 - Oh, no, it's about their conversation, don't worry. 732 00:26:22,248 --> 00:26:25,085 - Sai and Jessel are, like, at it. 733 00:26:25,126 --> 00:26:26,920 Maybe Jessel didn't tell me everything. 734 00:26:26,961 --> 00:26:29,214 - I had lunch with Sai, actually. 735 00:26:29,255 --> 00:26:31,549 I just wanted to make sure that we were okay, 736 00:26:31,591 --> 00:26:34,052 and I don't think we are. 737 00:26:34,094 --> 00:26:36,054 - Maybe she had a reason to, like, worry. 738 00:26:36,096 --> 00:26:41,226 I don't know, but it's always nice when the spotlight 739 00:26:41,267 --> 00:26:46,356 of sh---iness and dysfunction is not there for you. 740 00:26:46,398 --> 00:26:48,525 I thought it was, like, real swinging-- 741 00:26:48,566 --> 00:26:50,485 That's why I wore these tights. - We are. [laughs] 742 00:26:50,527 --> 00:26:52,529 - I was like, "Somebody has won tonight." 743 00:26:52,570 --> 00:26:55,031 - Oh, I thought you said-- - You like the-- 744 00:26:55,073 --> 00:26:57,075 - I know. I love this look on you. 745 00:26:57,117 --> 00:26:59,661 - Ubah, sit down. We're talking. 746 00:26:59,703 --> 00:27:01,246 Like, why would we bring this up 747 00:27:01,287 --> 00:27:03,498 when we're not no longer in Anguilla? 748 00:27:03,540 --> 00:27:05,333 - Look, I never intentionally meant to bring it up. 749 00:27:05,375 --> 00:27:07,419 And by the way, if I had known that that was something 750 00:27:07,460 --> 00:27:09,546 that would, like, upset you-- - Talking about my mom 751 00:27:09,587 --> 00:27:12,257 is clearly-- I've never opened up about it. 752 00:27:12,298 --> 00:27:14,676 I talked about it, and I didn't talk about it anymore. 753 00:27:14,718 --> 00:27:15,760 Like, it's clearly not a thing-- 754 00:27:15,802 --> 00:27:17,512 - Okay, I didn't know that. 755 00:27:29,649 --> 00:27:30,984 - [laughs] 756 00:27:33,361 --> 00:27:36,656 - I was super offended. - Okay. 757 00:27:36,698 --> 00:27:39,784 I am honestly blown away. 758 00:27:39,826 --> 00:27:42,203 Being offended that I shared a story 759 00:27:42,245 --> 00:27:45,081 about my uncle who went through a really hard time 760 00:27:45,123 --> 00:27:47,292 and eventually passed away-- 761 00:27:47,334 --> 00:27:49,252 I have no words. 762 00:27:49,294 --> 00:27:51,171 - You talk in circles sometimes, and you-- 763 00:27:51,212 --> 00:27:53,965 - I'm a ----ing publicist, like, that's what we do. 764 00:27:54,007 --> 00:27:55,300 - I just want you to be real. 765 00:27:55,342 --> 00:27:56,718 I want you to be honest. - I am being real. 766 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,428 - I am being honest. I've never lied. 767 00:27:58,470 --> 00:28:00,221 I've literally never lied to you guys. 768 00:28:00,263 --> 00:28:01,806 - You lie all the time. 769 00:28:01,848 --> 00:28:05,018 You just told me that Pavit was going to Vietnam next week. 770 00:28:05,060 --> 00:28:07,103 - So I'm having a staycation finally. 771 00:28:07,145 --> 00:28:09,189 He's going to Vietnam in a couple of weeks, 772 00:28:09,230 --> 00:28:11,775 and so I wanna-- I'm, like, really happy that... 773 00:28:11,816 --> 00:28:14,527 - Now he's going to Vietnam when a ticket opens up. 774 00:28:14,569 --> 00:28:16,571 - I--okay, listen. - That's what you told me. 775 00:28:16,613 --> 00:28:18,907 - He has to go when the ----ing tickets open up. 776 00:28:18,948 --> 00:28:20,325 - Why? - It doesn't matter. 777 00:28:20,367 --> 00:28:21,910 When I discuss it with-- - Okay, but you're telling me 778 00:28:21,951 --> 00:28:23,161 you never lie, but I'm telling you-- 779 00:28:23,203 --> 00:28:24,412 - I didn't lie about that. 780 00:28:24,454 --> 00:28:27,207 That's what we discussed that day or that week. 781 00:28:27,248 --> 00:28:28,625 He said the tickets have to open up. 782 00:28:28,667 --> 00:28:29,834 He was trying to go next week. - You know, at the end 783 00:28:29,876 --> 00:28:31,002 of the day, Jessel, I don't care. 784 00:28:31,044 --> 00:28:31,920 I don't care. - And I don't care either. 785 00:28:31,961 --> 00:28:33,630 I seriously am, like, 786 00:28:33,672 --> 00:28:36,132 so over this mean-girl sh--, and it is mean-girl sh--. 787 00:28:36,174 --> 00:28:37,717 - No one's being a mean girl. 788 00:28:37,759 --> 00:28:40,720 - Yes, you are. - Jessel, you make no sense... 789 00:28:40,762 --> 00:28:41,763 - You are. - When you speak. 790 00:28:41,805 --> 00:28:42,972 - You literally are. 791 00:28:43,014 --> 00:28:45,350 - You cannot answer a question, 792 00:28:45,392 --> 00:28:48,186 and you speak in circles. - I don't get a chance, Sai. 793 00:28:48,228 --> 00:28:50,647 The minute I try, this is what happens-- 794 00:28:50,689 --> 00:28:52,357 she, your ----ing pet parrot-- 795 00:28:52,399 --> 00:28:55,026 - My pet parrot is talking, so she's not even involved. 796 00:28:55,068 --> 00:28:56,653 - Exactly. - Exactly what? 797 00:28:56,695 --> 00:28:58,488 - Well, no, I'm saying this is what happens. 798 00:28:58,530 --> 00:29:00,198 It's, like, a ----ing, like-- - She's not-- 799 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,825 it's just me and you talking right now. 800 00:29:01,866 --> 00:29:04,369 She's talking to Ubah. - I'm sitting here with you. 801 00:29:04,411 --> 00:29:07,330 - Do you have my phone? - I'm sitting with you. 802 00:29:07,372 --> 00:29:09,374 - You ----ing had me sitting there for 35 minutes 803 00:29:09,416 --> 00:29:12,460 and didn't even have the decency to call me. 804 00:29:12,502 --> 00:29:15,505 - You want to help her? No. [laughs] 805 00:29:15,547 --> 00:29:16,881 - I'm hungry. 806 00:29:16,923 --> 00:29:18,258 - I didn't even wanna be at the lunch. 807 00:29:18,299 --> 00:29:19,509 I don't wanna be at this lunch. It's a waste 808 00:29:19,551 --> 00:29:21,219 of my ----ing time. - Why did you come? 809 00:29:21,261 --> 00:29:22,387 - 'Cause I was being nice. - Okay, well-- 810 00:29:22,429 --> 00:29:23,638 - It was a waste of my time at lunch. 811 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,140 - Okay, good. Good. I'm glad. 812 00:29:25,181 --> 00:29:26,516 - I'm actually so ----ing over you. 813 00:29:26,558 --> 00:29:28,226 - Yeah, well, I've been over you too. 814 00:29:28,268 --> 00:29:29,644 - Let's be done. I'm out. - I am done. 815 00:29:38,862 --> 00:29:39,779 - I'm actually so ----ing over you. 816 00:29:41,072 --> 00:29:42,574 - Yeah, well, I've been over you too. 817 00:29:42,615 --> 00:29:43,992 - Let's be done. I'm out. - I am done. 818 00:29:44,034 --> 00:29:45,744 - ----ing bitch. Diva. 819 00:29:45,785 --> 00:29:48,038 Quite frankly, I've never met, in my life, 820 00:29:48,079 --> 00:29:51,291 anyone that lacks the amount of empathy 821 00:29:51,332 --> 00:29:55,378 that she lacks in this moment, and by the way, 822 00:29:55,420 --> 00:29:57,589 she hasn't seen this bitch yet. 823 00:29:57,630 --> 00:29:59,466 I've been very PC. 824 00:29:59,507 --> 00:30:03,094 - If I went repeatedly to Vietnam, Sai would be like-- 825 00:30:03,136 --> 00:30:05,138 - Hey, guys, I'm gonna be your fourth. 826 00:30:05,180 --> 00:30:07,015 - Oh sh--! - Oh! 827 00:30:07,057 --> 00:30:08,308 - What are you guys talking about? 828 00:30:08,350 --> 00:30:10,435 - Game's over. - Game's over. I beat the game. 829 00:30:10,477 --> 00:30:13,271 - I said going to Vietnam repeatedly-- 830 00:30:13,313 --> 00:30:15,065 what would you say 831 00:30:15,106 --> 00:30:17,317 if I was just flying to Vietnam repeatedly? 832 00:30:17,359 --> 00:30:19,277 - Who the (BLEEP) are you ----ing? 833 00:30:19,319 --> 00:30:21,905 - You hear that? - [laughs] 834 00:30:21,946 --> 00:30:24,407 - Maybe we're not going to Vietnam, me and you. 835 00:30:24,449 --> 00:30:25,658 - I mean, I don't know. 836 00:30:25,700 --> 00:30:26,534 What happens in Vietnam 837 00:30:26,576 --> 00:30:27,786 if you go over and over again? 838 00:30:27,827 --> 00:30:29,996 - What happens in Vietnam stays in Vietnam. 839 00:30:30,038 --> 00:30:32,207 - Well, yes. 840 00:30:32,248 --> 00:30:34,668 - All right, who's next? - Well, there's no ball, so-- 841 00:30:34,709 --> 00:30:35,835 - We lost our ball. 842 00:30:35,877 --> 00:30:37,170 - I'm actually wondering why 843 00:30:37,212 --> 00:30:38,630 Sai keeps bringing up this trip to Vietnam. 844 00:30:38,672 --> 00:30:40,382 I think she thinks that there's something else going on, 845 00:30:40,423 --> 00:30:41,758 so maybe she's trying to catch me in a lie. 846 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,301 I don't know. There's no lie, though. 847 00:30:43,343 --> 00:30:45,512 I'm going to eat a banh mi. 848 00:30:45,553 --> 00:30:46,763 - Hi, David. 849 00:30:46,805 --> 00:30:48,014 - Be concerned about your own relationships. 850 00:30:48,056 --> 00:30:49,683 Let me and Jess be. 851 00:30:49,724 --> 00:30:51,601 - Where's your date? 852 00:30:51,643 --> 00:30:54,437 We set you up with one of the waiters. 853 00:30:54,479 --> 00:30:56,856 - You think a waiter will handle this? 854 00:30:56,898 --> 00:30:58,900 - See, that's why I love you, 'cause you're like my wife-- 855 00:30:58,942 --> 00:31:00,360 No bullsh--, badass bitch. 856 00:31:00,402 --> 00:31:02,237 - Erin. - Nothing, I'm totally fine. 857 00:31:02,278 --> 00:31:04,197 - We got the memo, the four of us. 858 00:31:04,239 --> 00:31:05,532 - Oh, yes. - What happened 859 00:31:05,573 --> 00:31:06,533 to these people? 860 00:31:06,574 --> 00:31:08,243 - They're part of their own memo. 861 00:31:08,284 --> 00:31:09,619 - Wait, Ubah, I wanna try-- 862 00:31:09,661 --> 00:31:11,162 I want to try some. - This is why... 863 00:31:11,204 --> 00:31:12,372 - I want to try it. - I'm single. 864 00:31:12,414 --> 00:31:13,707 - [laughs] You bring food? - I bring food. 865 00:31:13,748 --> 00:31:18,378 - She brings--she brings, literally, fried chicken. 866 00:31:18,420 --> 00:31:21,214 - What happened? - So I'm just being honest. 867 00:31:21,256 --> 00:31:23,049 I say the sh-- that everybody is thinking 868 00:31:23,091 --> 00:31:24,592 that they wanna say, 869 00:31:24,634 --> 00:31:26,845 but they don't because they're being cordial. 870 00:31:26,886 --> 00:31:28,138 I'm just being ----ing honest. 871 00:31:28,179 --> 00:31:30,682 One, I didn't wanna be at the lunch. 872 00:31:30,724 --> 00:31:33,101 Two, you were late. It really pissed me off. 873 00:31:33,143 --> 00:31:34,477 - I'm sorry. - Three, you lie to me 874 00:31:34,519 --> 00:31:36,229 about the ----ing Vietnam sh--, 875 00:31:36,271 --> 00:31:37,564 and then you tell me you're not a liar. 876 00:31:37,605 --> 00:31:38,940 You told me he was leaving next week, 877 00:31:38,982 --> 00:31:42,110 and that was the whole point of the staycation. 878 00:31:44,279 --> 00:31:46,573 - The reason why he rushed was the staycation. 879 00:31:46,614 --> 00:31:49,117 And then while we're sitting on the couch-- 880 00:31:49,159 --> 00:31:50,535 - They need to get on the same page. 881 00:31:50,577 --> 00:31:52,912 - Yeah, 'cause he doesn't know that she's lying! 882 00:31:52,954 --> 00:31:54,330 - [laughs] 883 00:31:54,372 --> 00:31:57,417 - So you are a spectacularly gorgeous woman. 884 00:31:57,459 --> 00:31:59,627 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - You are confident, 885 00:31:59,669 --> 00:32:00,754 you are smart, 886 00:32:00,795 --> 00:32:02,797 you're a businesswoman, you're well-- 887 00:32:02,839 --> 00:32:05,592 I'm just wondering, in the relation-- 888 00:32:05,633 --> 00:32:06,926 like, dating... - Yeah. 889 00:32:06,968 --> 00:32:08,928 - Why you're not in a serious relationship or-- 890 00:32:08,970 --> 00:32:10,764 - I don't know. Why don't we all close our eyes 891 00:32:10,805 --> 00:32:13,183 and speak to God in your own language? 892 00:32:13,224 --> 00:32:14,309 Let's do this. 893 00:32:14,351 --> 00:32:16,269 Let's ask God. Let's ask God. 894 00:32:16,311 --> 00:32:17,812 - [laughs] 895 00:32:17,854 --> 00:32:19,105 - Okay, I have question. 896 00:32:19,147 --> 00:32:20,648 I need a question. 897 00:32:20,690 --> 00:32:24,778 What made you guys think these bitches were the one? 898 00:32:24,819 --> 00:32:26,446 [laughter] Because I cannot even 899 00:32:26,488 --> 00:32:27,947 keep a guy for three days. - "Bee-ches." 900 00:32:27,989 --> 00:32:29,574 - These bitches! 901 00:32:29,616 --> 00:32:31,159 Like, what made you, out of all the people-- 902 00:32:31,201 --> 00:32:32,744 - It's very easy for me. Very easy. 903 00:32:32,786 --> 00:32:35,705 - Yeah, tell me. - The honest answer is, 904 00:32:35,747 --> 00:32:38,458 I have never met a woman in my life 905 00:32:38,500 --> 00:32:42,587 who is more honest than my wife. 906 00:32:42,629 --> 00:32:44,339 - She is--no, no. - Aww. 907 00:32:44,381 --> 00:32:47,133 - And on top of that, 908 00:32:47,175 --> 00:32:48,635 we laugh hysterically all the time, 909 00:32:48,677 --> 00:32:51,471 so humor and honesty are very important. 910 00:32:51,513 --> 00:32:53,473 That's the woman-- it is what it is. 911 00:32:53,515 --> 00:32:54,808 - That's a very good answer. 912 00:32:54,849 --> 00:32:56,142 Did you rehearse that? - That's so sweet. 913 00:32:56,184 --> 00:32:57,519 - I did rehearse it. - Who is next? Who is next? 914 00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,854 I'm taking notes. I need to be married this year. 915 00:32:59,896 --> 00:33:01,898 Either knocked up or married--something. 916 00:33:01,940 --> 00:33:03,316 - The biggest thing was somebody who's gonna 917 00:33:03,358 --> 00:33:04,776 keep me honest, 918 00:33:04,818 --> 00:33:07,278 who I could make happy by just having, 919 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,988 like, not a boring ----ing life. 920 00:33:09,030 --> 00:33:11,324 Somebody gonna have an exciting life with... 921 00:33:11,366 --> 00:33:12,534 - Somebody who's gonna spice that sh-- up. 922 00:33:12,575 --> 00:33:13,827 - Love to travel, loves to try new things... 923 00:33:13,868 --> 00:33:15,870 love music, loves sex... 924 00:33:15,912 --> 00:33:17,080 - Whoo! - Whoa. 925 00:33:17,122 --> 00:33:20,000 - Love food, put up with my sh--. 926 00:33:20,041 --> 00:33:22,627 I can put up with her sh-- for the most part. 927 00:33:22,669 --> 00:33:24,504 I could marry this girl. - "For the most part." 928 00:33:24,546 --> 00:33:26,673 - That was great. Really wonderful. 929 00:33:26,715 --> 00:33:28,299 - Really, actually, that was very sweet. 930 00:33:28,341 --> 00:33:30,468 - Even though there's a lot of pressure on you right now. 931 00:33:30,510 --> 00:33:32,429 - You're a brat. - Okay, Pavit. 932 00:33:32,470 --> 00:33:34,139 - Life is an adventure, 933 00:33:34,180 --> 00:33:37,017 and you don't wanna live a boring life, 934 00:33:37,058 --> 00:33:41,438 and I just want to travel, eat, have fun, and do whatever, 935 00:33:41,479 --> 00:33:43,023 and she's the perfect partner for that, 936 00:33:43,064 --> 00:33:46,818 so it's being able to do what you love with someone else 937 00:33:46,860 --> 00:33:48,611 and they put up with your sh--. 938 00:33:48,653 --> 00:33:52,323 - Wow. - So that's why. 939 00:33:52,365 --> 00:33:54,951 - But perfect partner 'cause she lets you go on the trips... 940 00:33:54,993 --> 00:33:57,203 - Yeah. [laughs] - To Vietnam and back, alone? 941 00:33:57,245 --> 00:33:59,122 - I'm so chill, dude. I don't give a sh-- what he does. 942 00:33:59,164 --> 00:34:01,124 He can do whatever he wants. - You're pretty chill. 943 00:34:01,166 --> 00:34:03,626 - I'm sorry, you married her 944 00:34:03,668 --> 00:34:06,713 because she lets you do whatever you want? 945 00:34:06,755 --> 00:34:09,090 - He can go to strip clubs with his friends. 946 00:34:09,132 --> 00:34:10,550 Like, he can do whatever he-- - I go to strip clubs 947 00:34:10,592 --> 00:34:12,052 with my friends, and I go with her sometimes, you know? 948 00:34:12,093 --> 00:34:13,803 - I literally don't care. - It doesn't matter. 949 00:34:13,845 --> 00:34:15,513 - I personally think that's what makes life, you know? 950 00:34:15,555 --> 00:34:16,848 - Yeah. - To live each other. 951 00:34:16,890 --> 00:34:20,518 - I think there's, like, more to it all-- 952 00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:21,978 I really do. I have theories. 953 00:34:22,020 --> 00:34:23,897 - Yeah, I wanna show Sai something. 954 00:34:23,938 --> 00:34:25,565 - She likes space. 955 00:34:25,607 --> 00:34:27,609 - He does his job, and I'm good. 956 00:34:27,650 --> 00:34:29,569 - Oh, who is that? - I'm good. [laughs] 957 00:34:29,611 --> 00:34:31,237 - Oh, let me see. - No. 958 00:34:31,279 --> 00:34:32,947 - One more time. - [laughing] No. 959 00:34:32,989 --> 00:34:34,491 - Why you being like that? - We're friends. 960 00:34:34,532 --> 00:34:35,784 - Show me. It was, like, a quick switch. 961 00:34:35,825 --> 00:34:37,535 Just let me see a little bit more. 962 00:34:37,577 --> 00:34:40,455 - No, no, no, no, no. - Why are you going so fast? 963 00:34:40,497 --> 00:34:42,290 - I'm drived by ego at the moment. 964 00:34:42,332 --> 00:34:45,126 Since David is so curious, 965 00:34:45,168 --> 00:34:48,713 I'm gonna show his wife what is going on in my iPhone. 966 00:34:50,131 --> 00:34:51,675 - It's very delicious. 967 00:34:53,593 --> 00:34:55,261 - Where you at, Cipriani? - What? 968 00:34:55,303 --> 00:34:56,388 - Where was that? 969 00:34:56,429 --> 00:34:57,722 - Oh. 970 00:35:01,559 --> 00:35:02,769 - It's something very new, 971 00:35:02,811 --> 00:35:05,689 and I don't want anyone else energy. 972 00:35:05,730 --> 00:35:08,358 And I just wanna make decisions for myself. 973 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:09,609 And Sai can keep a secret. 974 00:35:09,651 --> 00:35:12,779 Sai--Sai is like--yeah, so. 975 00:35:12,821 --> 00:35:14,906 You are the only one who knows this. 976 00:35:14,948 --> 00:35:16,616 - Won't say a word. - Okay. 977 00:35:16,658 --> 00:35:18,368 - It doesn't matter. 978 00:35:18,410 --> 00:35:19,953 - I know nothing. 979 00:35:19,994 --> 00:35:21,621 - Coming up... 980 00:35:21,663 --> 00:35:23,123 - Do you know what Erin told me? 981 00:35:23,164 --> 00:35:24,290 - Hmm? - "Pavit's so weird. 982 00:35:24,332 --> 00:35:25,792 He wasn't wearing his ring." 983 00:35:25,834 --> 00:35:26,876 And she's like, "I don't know what's going on." 984 00:35:35,468 --> 00:35:35,927 [mellow music] 985 00:35:38,221 --> 00:35:43,560 * * 986 00:35:43,601 --> 00:35:47,814 - Hi, Giggly. [vocalizing] 987 00:35:47,856 --> 00:35:50,942 Oh, you're so heavy now. [knock at door] 988 00:35:50,984 --> 00:35:52,277 - NYPD! 989 00:35:52,318 --> 00:35:53,737 Hi! 990 00:35:55,905 --> 00:35:57,699 - It's, like, 19 degrees outside. 991 00:35:57,741 --> 00:35:59,242 - I know, it's ----ing cold. 992 00:35:59,284 --> 00:36:02,287 - Oh, look at you. You didn't have to bring this. 993 00:36:02,328 --> 00:36:04,706 - With all this fighting, they're all on the slopes-- 994 00:36:04,748 --> 00:36:07,000 like, oh, my God, accidents everywhere. 995 00:36:07,042 --> 00:36:08,168 It's like Gwyneth all over again. 996 00:36:08,209 --> 00:36:09,794 [laughs] You know what I'm saying? 997 00:36:09,836 --> 00:36:11,338 Now it's time for a little après-ski. 998 00:36:11,379 --> 00:36:12,756 - Hi. 999 00:36:12,797 --> 00:36:15,175 You look very Scottish right now... 1000 00:36:15,216 --> 00:36:16,718 - Oh, I'm looking Scottish? - With this, like, the layered 1001 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:18,720 and the tartans and the-- 1002 00:36:18,762 --> 00:36:19,929 - I'm not wearing tartan now. - Oh, no. 1003 00:36:19,971 --> 00:36:20,889 I mean, this is-- - It's okay. 1004 00:36:20,930 --> 00:36:22,640 both: Pinstripe. - [laughs] 1005 00:36:22,682 --> 00:36:23,850 - I love that COVID has kept me away from this. 1006 00:36:23,892 --> 00:36:25,477 Hi, my love. both: Mwah. 1007 00:36:25,518 --> 00:36:27,103 - I missed you. 1008 00:36:27,145 --> 00:36:28,396 The dangerous part is over. 1009 00:36:28,438 --> 00:36:30,065 Now it's time where we just enjoy the drinks 1010 00:36:30,106 --> 00:36:33,026 and the rosé on the mountaintop. 1011 00:36:33,068 --> 00:36:35,904 - Chin-chin, guys. - Chin-chin. 1012 00:36:35,945 --> 00:36:37,906 I'm so excited 'cause I'm having a birthday party... 1013 00:36:37,947 --> 00:36:40,450 - Yeah. - And I'm turning 62. 1014 00:36:40,492 --> 00:36:42,494 - Mmm. - I've had a lot of work done. 1015 00:36:42,535 --> 00:36:44,579 - Oh, yeah. I got it. 1016 00:36:44,621 --> 00:36:46,039 - Okay. - What does that mean? 1017 00:36:46,081 --> 00:36:47,374 - Whatever you want it to mean. Just get weird. 1018 00:36:47,415 --> 00:36:48,833 - That's just black tie. - It's called "Get weird." 1019 00:36:48,875 --> 00:36:52,087 - But, like, black tie. - More sequins and no bra. 1020 00:36:52,128 --> 00:36:53,588 - Cools. - Perfect. 1021 00:36:53,630 --> 00:36:56,007 - What else? Oh, and then let's do Venetian. 1022 00:36:56,049 --> 00:36:57,592 - I'm here for it. - Yeah. 1023 00:36:57,634 --> 00:37:00,095 I'm hoping that people will be uninhibited 1024 00:37:00,136 --> 00:37:01,680 with wearing these masks, 1025 00:37:01,721 --> 00:37:03,223 that they'll be more likely to participate 1026 00:37:03,264 --> 00:37:04,432 in naughty behavior. 1027 00:37:04,474 --> 00:37:06,643 No, but it's gonna be fun, so-- 1028 00:37:06,685 --> 00:37:09,604 - Are the husbands invited? - Abe's invited. 1029 00:37:09,646 --> 00:37:11,272 - Oh, wow. - [laughing] 1030 00:37:11,314 --> 00:37:15,151 - Can I just say, I missed you guys so much at Swingers. 1031 00:37:15,193 --> 00:37:16,611 - What's been going on? 1032 00:37:16,653 --> 00:37:19,572 - This is a whole thing. both: Okay. 1033 00:37:19,614 --> 00:37:20,907 - Tell me. - You know about the lunch 1034 00:37:20,949 --> 00:37:22,367 Sai and I had, right, or no? 1035 00:37:22,409 --> 00:37:23,868 - She told me about it. - Okay. 1036 00:37:23,910 --> 00:37:25,954 - Pavit's, like, gripped for the story. 1037 00:37:25,995 --> 00:37:27,580 - I know, I came for the best part? 1038 00:37:27,622 --> 00:37:28,623 - How many times have you had to hear this? 1039 00:37:28,665 --> 00:37:30,250 - I'm not-- - No, not enough. 1040 00:37:30,291 --> 00:37:32,794 - Okay, when we left Anguilla, everything was fine, truly. 1041 00:37:32,836 --> 00:37:34,546 - But was it, though? 1042 00:37:34,587 --> 00:37:36,673 - I don't think so. - It didn't seem-- 1043 00:37:36,715 --> 00:37:37,924 - Well, it didn't seem like-- I mean, you said 1044 00:37:37,966 --> 00:37:39,300 that you felt like it was okay when you left, 1045 00:37:39,342 --> 00:37:41,469 but the reason you actually called her to have lunch 1046 00:37:41,511 --> 00:37:42,637 was 'cause you didn't feel-- - The reason why you called is 1047 00:37:42,679 --> 00:37:44,139 'cause you didn't feel-- - I just think 1048 00:37:44,180 --> 00:37:46,725 there was a misunderstanding that I wanted to clear up. 1049 00:37:46,766 --> 00:37:48,018 - So what actually happened? 1050 00:37:48,059 --> 00:37:49,644 So you said she flipped a switch, what happened? 1051 00:37:49,686 --> 00:37:52,188 - So it started off with Sai saying, 1052 00:37:52,230 --> 00:37:53,773 "I can't believe you brought my mom up, 1053 00:37:53,815 --> 00:37:56,067 and I'm really offended." 1054 00:37:56,109 --> 00:37:57,527 - Just from the outside looking in, like, 1055 00:37:57,569 --> 00:37:59,779 losing your mom the way-- losing her mom the way she did 1056 00:37:59,821 --> 00:38:01,281 and what she went through... - So recently. 1057 00:38:01,322 --> 00:38:03,825 - Is, I think, for her-- 1058 00:38:03,867 --> 00:38:06,202 is probably very different than an uncle, and I-- 1059 00:38:06,244 --> 00:38:08,038 and I say that with respect. 1060 00:38:08,079 --> 00:38:10,874 - Her energy towards me was just very cold, right? 1061 00:38:10,915 --> 00:38:13,460 And, you know, she called me prude, she called me a diva-- 1062 00:38:13,501 --> 00:38:15,545 - Is she a diva? - Jess? No. 1063 00:38:15,587 --> 00:38:17,422 Is Sai bipolar? Yes. - [laughs] 1064 00:38:17,464 --> 00:38:19,174 - Oh. - [gasps] 1065 00:38:19,215 --> 00:38:21,468 - She flips a switch, and one side she's fine, 1066 00:38:21,509 --> 00:38:24,679 and then she's... 1067 00:38:24,721 --> 00:38:25,680 - I don't think that's warranted. 1068 00:38:25,722 --> 00:38:26,806 Like, she's not. 1069 00:38:26,848 --> 00:38:28,058 - I think you should retract that. 1070 00:38:28,099 --> 00:38:29,392 - Yeah, I think you should too. 1071 00:38:29,434 --> 00:38:31,478 - It's not what she is. I think what you meant 1072 00:38:31,519 --> 00:38:33,355 to say was it just went from, like, 1073 00:38:33,396 --> 00:38:36,149 one minute she is, like, kind of cool with you, 1074 00:38:36,191 --> 00:38:37,525 you're telling the story about your uncle, 1075 00:38:37,567 --> 00:38:39,027 you think you're connecting, and then all of a sudden 1076 00:38:39,069 --> 00:38:40,153 it's like, oh, by the way, actually, and then it's, like, 1077 00:38:40,195 --> 00:38:41,696 a different person in that moment. 1078 00:38:41,738 --> 00:38:43,073 - She did change. - She changed quickly. 1079 00:38:43,114 --> 00:38:44,532 Yeah, yeah. - Okay, that's retracted. 1080 00:38:44,574 --> 00:38:46,076 I just don't get her. 1081 00:38:46,117 --> 00:38:47,369 She also thinks, like, you're, like, lying on everything. 1082 00:38:47,410 --> 00:38:48,995 Remember the whole thing about this Vietnam thing? 1083 00:38:49,037 --> 00:38:50,372 - Wait, what's the Vietnam thing? 1084 00:38:50,413 --> 00:38:53,208 - I'm going to Vietnam soon, and then Jess, I guess-- 1085 00:38:53,249 --> 00:38:55,377 - Next week, right? - Well, I--there's no timeline. 1086 00:38:55,418 --> 00:38:57,545 - You did tell me at the sex shop it was booked. 1087 00:38:57,587 --> 00:38:58,922 - You know, he wants to go to Vietnam 1088 00:38:58,963 --> 00:39:00,298 'cause he wants his alone time. 1089 00:39:00,340 --> 00:39:02,467 So he had a ticket booked before COVID, 1090 00:39:02,509 --> 00:39:04,386 and then he kept pushing it and pushing it and pushing it, 1091 00:39:04,427 --> 00:39:06,888 and so now he has to go 'cause it's gonna expire. 1092 00:39:06,930 --> 00:39:08,848 - Okay, okay. both: It is booked. 1093 00:39:08,890 --> 00:39:10,058 - It's been booked for three years. 1094 00:39:10,100 --> 00:39:11,601 The thing is, the flights are not open yet, 1095 00:39:11,643 --> 00:39:14,062 so they're supposed to open, like, literally any second now 1096 00:39:14,104 --> 00:39:15,397 'cause they just opened up the borders. 1097 00:39:15,438 --> 00:39:16,773 And I'm second--I'm counting down the second-- 1098 00:39:16,815 --> 00:39:18,191 - But, like, also, who cares? 1099 00:39:18,233 --> 00:39:19,150 - Well, that's the whole point. - Like, who cares? 1100 00:39:19,192 --> 00:39:20,276 I wouldn't lie about something-- 1101 00:39:20,318 --> 00:39:21,486 That's a stupid thing to lie about. 1102 00:39:21,528 --> 00:39:23,071 - Let's get some more champagne. 1103 00:39:23,113 --> 00:39:24,072 - Do you know what Erin told me? 1104 00:39:24,114 --> 00:39:25,323 - Hmm? - She was like, 1105 00:39:25,365 --> 00:39:26,908 "Oh, my God, Ubah asked the cutest question 1106 00:39:26,950 --> 00:39:28,243 "and went around and asked, like, 1107 00:39:28,284 --> 00:39:29,953 'How did you meet the person you loved, or'"... 1108 00:39:29,994 --> 00:39:31,621 - Oh, no, "Why do you love"... - Something. Yeah. 1109 00:39:31,663 --> 00:39:32,914 - "Your wife?" - Yeah, and Erin was like, 1110 00:39:32,956 --> 00:39:34,416 "What Pavit said was like, 1111 00:39:34,457 --> 00:39:36,793 'I like Jessel because she lets me do what I want.'" 1112 00:39:36,835 --> 00:39:40,338 - Um, that's exactly not what he said. 1113 00:39:40,380 --> 00:39:41,631 - No? - No. 1114 00:39:41,673 --> 00:39:43,425 - It's being able to do what you love 1115 00:39:43,466 --> 00:39:46,177 with someone else, and they put up with your sh--. 1116 00:39:46,219 --> 00:39:47,637 - And she's like, "It was so weird. 1117 00:39:47,679 --> 00:39:49,139 He wasn't wearing his ring." 1118 00:39:49,180 --> 00:39:50,306 And she's like, "I don't know what's going on." 1119 00:39:50,348 --> 00:39:52,600 - Whoa. [laughs] - Is she trying to imply-- 1120 00:39:52,642 --> 00:39:54,853 what the (BLEEP)? Are you serious? 1121 00:39:54,894 --> 00:39:57,939 - Am I right now stirring the pot and di-di-di? Yes. 1122 00:39:57,981 --> 00:39:59,524 But you know what? This is a serious topic. 1123 00:39:59,566 --> 00:40:00,984 - Pavit! - Friends are the place 1124 00:40:01,026 --> 00:40:02,861 where you should go when you're having 1125 00:40:02,902 --> 00:40:04,404 marital problems and help them through it. 1126 00:40:04,446 --> 00:40:08,742 We shouldn't be trying to poke holes in people's marriages. 1127 00:40:08,783 --> 00:40:10,744 The only time you wanna poke holes is in condoms 1128 00:40:10,785 --> 00:40:13,955 with really rich men. 1129 00:40:13,997 --> 00:40:16,875 - [laughs] - Seriously, though. 1130 00:40:16,916 --> 00:40:18,710 - Do you remember what you said at the-- 1131 00:40:18,752 --> 00:40:20,754 - Why you love me. - Why you love her? 1132 00:40:20,795 --> 00:40:22,422 - Oh, no, I was, like, six scotches in. 1133 00:40:22,464 --> 00:40:24,174 [laughter] What did I say? - That's my boy. 1134 00:40:24,215 --> 00:40:25,425 - [laughs] 1135 00:40:25,467 --> 00:40:28,345 - Erin's trying to insinuate that you said-- 1136 00:40:28,386 --> 00:40:30,597 - Erin and Sai both said, "Pavit was like, 1137 00:40:30,638 --> 00:40:33,767 'Oh, I like Jessel because she lets me do what I want.'" 1138 00:40:33,808 --> 00:40:34,809 - That's not what you said. 1139 00:40:34,851 --> 00:40:35,769 - That's not what I said at all. 1140 00:40:35,810 --> 00:40:36,978 - [laughs] Oh, and she said 1141 00:40:37,020 --> 00:40:38,229 that you don't wear your wedding ring, 1142 00:40:38,271 --> 00:40:39,522 but he's actually never worn his wedding ring. 1143 00:40:39,564 --> 00:40:41,733 He lost it the second week that we got married, 1144 00:40:41,775 --> 00:40:42,901 and we just never replaced it. 1145 00:40:42,942 --> 00:40:44,652 Let me just close a loop on this, though. 1146 00:40:44,694 --> 00:40:46,446 This is my ----ing best friend. 1147 00:40:46,488 --> 00:40:48,281 - That's what it is. We trust each other. 1148 00:40:48,323 --> 00:40:49,866 There's no-- - You don't have to defend it. 1149 00:40:49,908 --> 00:40:51,743 I don't know why they're taking shots at you guys. 1150 00:40:51,785 --> 00:40:53,370 I don't know what the deal is. 1151 00:40:55,205 --> 00:40:57,082 And I can't cry 'cause I have a dinner. 1152 00:40:57,123 --> 00:40:58,583 - As far as I'm concerned, 1153 00:40:58,625 --> 00:41:01,503 conversations about anyone's relationship, 1154 00:41:01,544 --> 00:41:04,673 I want them to be intimate, private, behind closed doors. 1155 00:41:04,714 --> 00:41:06,341 Like, it's a fragile subject, 1156 00:41:06,383 --> 00:41:07,509 particularly if something is wrong, 1157 00:41:07,550 --> 00:41:08,927 so to kind of come at them 1158 00:41:08,968 --> 00:41:11,346 in a group setting, I just think it can be hurtful. 1159 00:41:11,388 --> 00:41:13,348 - The thing is, is I can't carry the weight 1160 00:41:13,390 --> 00:41:14,808 of this around with me. Do you know what I mean? Like-- 1161 00:41:14,849 --> 00:41:16,643 - You don't need to. - And I'm not, 1162 00:41:16,685 --> 00:41:17,977 and that's what I'm saying. I addressed it in the moment-- 1163 00:41:18,019 --> 00:41:19,312 and it's done, like-- - I think--yeah. 1164 00:41:19,354 --> 00:41:20,772 But the more you, like, feed into it and care, 1165 00:41:20,814 --> 00:41:22,023 the harder it's gonna be. 1166 00:41:22,065 --> 00:41:24,025 - I think I have to move on from it. 1167 00:41:24,067 --> 00:41:26,403 - I think a lot of people nowadays do this whole, like, 1168 00:41:26,444 --> 00:41:27,904 "No, I wanna move on, I wanna do whatever," 1169 00:41:27,946 --> 00:41:30,281 and it's now just an excuse for, like, 1170 00:41:30,323 --> 00:41:31,616 "I'm not gonna stand up for myself." 1171 00:41:31,658 --> 00:41:34,369 - I did stand up for myself. Like, trust me, I-- 1172 00:41:34,411 --> 00:41:36,871 Sai walked away. - After she insulted you, 1173 00:41:36,913 --> 00:41:38,248 she got bored, so she walked away. 1174 00:41:38,289 --> 00:41:40,000 - But I gave it to her back. I gave it to her back. 1175 00:41:40,041 --> 00:41:41,543 I did give it to her back. 1176 00:41:41,584 --> 00:41:43,128 I stood up for myself, I told her everything 1177 00:41:43,169 --> 00:41:44,879 I needed to tell her, and-- 1178 00:41:44,921 --> 00:41:46,423 - How people treat you is a direct reflection 1179 00:41:46,464 --> 00:41:48,091 of what you've given them permission to do, 1180 00:41:48,133 --> 00:41:50,176 so that's not the-- it's not the end of it. 1181 00:41:50,218 --> 00:41:52,137 People aren't gonna like you if they don't respect you. 1182 00:41:52,178 --> 00:41:54,097 I said with Sai, or Erin, or whatever, 1183 00:41:54,139 --> 00:41:55,974 the next time that they come up to you, 1184 00:41:56,016 --> 00:41:57,851 say, "Stay the (BLEEP) out of my business." 1185 00:41:57,892 --> 00:41:59,811 The second you say that to Sai, 1186 00:41:59,853 --> 00:42:01,104 Sai is gonna turn around and be like, 1187 00:42:01,146 --> 00:42:02,731 "You wanna go have a drink?" 1188 00:42:02,772 --> 00:42:04,357 - I have a family, 1189 00:42:04,399 --> 00:42:06,484 I'm successful, I have a career. 1190 00:42:06,526 --> 00:42:10,071 I don't need this mean-girl bullying sh--. 1191 00:42:10,113 --> 00:42:12,115 Like, now it's turned, like, a leaf, I think. 1192 00:42:12,157 --> 00:42:13,158 You know what I mean? [sniffles] 1193 00:42:13,199 --> 00:42:15,702 It's not being opinionated anymore. 1194 00:42:15,744 --> 00:42:18,747 Like, this is just, like, targeting. 1195 00:42:18,788 --> 00:42:21,875 [tense music] 1196 00:42:21,916 --> 00:42:24,169 - Next time on the season finale 1197 00:42:24,210 --> 00:42:26,129 of "The Real Housewives of New York City"... 1198 00:42:26,171 --> 00:42:28,673 - What do you think of this? 1199 00:42:28,715 --> 00:42:31,301 - I'm sorry, that looks really wacky. 1200 00:42:31,343 --> 00:42:32,469 - Wacky? 1201 00:42:32,510 --> 00:42:33,762 - Guys, let's just do donut. 1202 00:42:33,803 --> 00:42:34,846 Let's all go around. 1203 00:42:34,888 --> 00:42:36,306 - [laughs] - Turn around! 1204 00:42:36,348 --> 00:42:39,768 - Aah! What are you doing? You're gonna vomit! 1205 00:42:39,809 --> 00:42:42,937 - Erin's, like, now in her ear, or sitting on her shoulder, 1206 00:42:42,979 --> 00:42:44,314 or whatever the (BLEEP) parrots do. 1207 00:42:44,356 --> 00:42:45,440 - Pet parrot? 1208 00:42:45,482 --> 00:42:46,900 I wanna drop-kick her. 1209 00:42:49,152 --> 00:42:50,487 - He did? - "Why you not married?" 1210 00:42:50,528 --> 00:42:51,571 - Oh, I heard that. 1211 00:42:51,613 --> 00:42:53,740 - I'm happy being me. - Yeah, yeah. 1212 00:42:53,782 --> 00:42:54,741 - You know what I mean? - Yeah. 1213 00:42:54,783 --> 00:42:56,493 - Ubah! 1214 00:42:56,534 --> 00:42:58,078 I heard you got a man in Connecticut. 1215 00:42:58,119 --> 00:43:00,789 both: Oh. - Oh, my God. 1216 00:43:00,830 --> 00:43:01,998 - Brynn, that was ----ed up. 1217 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:03,583 - She said it on camera? 1218 00:43:03,625 --> 00:43:04,751 - Yeah, she said it on camera. 1219 00:43:04,793 --> 00:43:07,295 - It was not on ----ing camera! 1220 00:43:07,337 --> 00:43:09,172 You're being really ----ing wack right now. 1221 00:43:09,214 --> 00:43:10,924 (BLEEP) you, Brynn. (BLEEP) you tonight. 1222 00:43:10,965 --> 00:43:13,009 Have a good birthday. (BLEEP) you.