1 00:00:02,269 --> 00:00:05,389 ♪♪ 2 00:00:05,489 --> 00:00:08,609 - Previously, on "The Real Housewives of Atlanta"... 3 00:00:08,742 --> 00:00:10,669 - all: Go, Phaedra! Go, Phaedra! 4 00:00:10,802 --> 00:00:11,803 Go, Angela! 5 00:00:11,904 --> 00:00:13,764 Go, Pinky! Go! 6 00:00:14,848 --> 00:00:16,316 - Everybody knows she's married, right? 7 00:00:16,383 --> 00:00:18,652 - Arleigh and Avan know that... 8 00:00:18,785 --> 00:00:21,238 ...Valaria is Ahmauri's best friend. 9 00:00:21,338 --> 00:00:21,955 - Wow. 10 00:00:22,089 --> 00:00:23,290 - Life is lifin'. 11 00:00:23,423 --> 00:00:25,918 So, yes, I need miracles on top of miracles. 12 00:00:26,018 --> 00:00:26,852 Everything is in the red. 13 00:00:26,985 --> 00:00:28,520 I'm in World War III. 14 00:00:28,654 --> 00:00:29,963 When going through a divorce, 15 00:00:29,997 --> 00:00:31,798 it becomes a burden. 16 00:00:31,832 --> 00:00:35,402 - You have an opening where you previously had surgery. 17 00:00:35,502 --> 00:00:37,638 It looks like you have a infection. 18 00:00:37,671 --> 00:00:39,806 - It's because of stuff that I did. 19 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:41,099 I got my body done, 20 00:00:41,199 --> 00:00:43,644 trying to get a butt that I already had. 21 00:00:43,677 --> 00:00:45,771 - The divorce settled not long ago. 22 00:00:45,871 --> 00:00:47,848 I just listed my mom's house. 23 00:00:47,915 --> 00:00:51,184 I bought my house in Duluth after the first divorce. 24 00:00:51,251 --> 00:00:53,153 It was my first big purchase. 25 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,389 My realtor called me today, and she's like, 26 00:00:55,455 --> 00:00:57,190 "Oh, we got, like, three offers." 27 00:00:57,257 --> 00:00:58,492 It just made me a little emotional today. 28 00:00:58,659 --> 00:01:00,352 I ain't gonna lie. 29 00:01:04,398 --> 00:01:06,099 - I've lived many lives, 30 00:01:06,199 --> 00:01:09,002 and all of them have been fabulous. 31 00:01:09,069 --> 00:01:11,063 - If you cast me in you drama, 32 00:01:11,196 --> 00:01:13,732 I only accept leading roles. 33 00:01:13,865 --> 00:01:15,342 - I've been loyal to a fault, 34 00:01:15,375 --> 00:01:18,645 and now I'm ready to have my own back. 35 00:01:18,745 --> 00:01:20,305 - I'm short, seasoned, 36 00:01:20,405 --> 00:01:23,216 and always a full course meal. 37 00:01:23,350 --> 00:01:28,246 - In a field of players, I always run it back. 38 00:01:28,380 --> 00:01:29,790 - In a world of legends, 39 00:01:29,890 --> 00:01:33,026 they call me the Godfather. 40 00:01:33,193 --> 00:01:38,256 - While they're busy beefin', I stay vegan. 41 00:01:38,390 --> 00:01:39,967 - I don't need any background singers. 42 00:01:40,067 --> 00:01:41,685 It's always my show. 43 00:01:47,257 --> 00:01:49,668 ♪ Main character energy oh yeah ♪ 44 00:01:49,768 --> 00:01:52,337 ♪ Yes I know that you heard of me oh yeah ♪ 45 00:01:52,437 --> 00:01:54,881 ♪ I don't listen to my enemies oh yeah ♪ 46 00:01:54,915 --> 00:01:57,718 ♪ Got a lot of better things in front of me ♪ 47 00:01:57,751 --> 00:02:00,387 - Hello! [laughing] - Hi. 48 00:02:00,554 --> 00:02:02,923 - Walk the runway, baby. How are you? 49 00:02:02,990 --> 00:02:04,558 - Ready to walk the runway, honey. Yes. 50 00:02:04,691 --> 00:02:07,119 - Yes. 51 00:02:07,252 --> 00:02:08,261 Come in here. I got some food. 52 00:02:08,395 --> 00:02:09,955 You know what I mean? - Oh, okay. 53 00:02:10,088 --> 00:02:11,398 We always like to eat. 54 00:02:11,465 --> 00:02:13,191 - I was in the kitchen all day. 55 00:02:13,291 --> 00:02:14,835 [laughing] It's just too much. 56 00:02:14,935 --> 00:02:16,003 [laughing] 57 00:02:16,103 --> 00:02:18,171 Baby, I love me some Cynthia, honey. 58 00:02:18,271 --> 00:02:19,973 I know I can get a good kiki. 59 00:02:20,073 --> 00:02:21,575 I know I can get the truth. 60 00:02:21,675 --> 00:02:24,703 I'm in good company. Cynthia is amazing. 61 00:02:24,803 --> 00:02:26,747 - So, what have you been doin' since Drew's brunch? 62 00:02:26,813 --> 00:02:28,315 Have you seen anybody? 63 00:02:28,415 --> 00:02:29,783 - No, I haven't seen anyone. 64 00:02:29,850 --> 00:02:31,201 - Oh, I've seen a lot of people. 65 00:02:31,301 --> 00:02:32,144 - Oh! 66 00:02:32,277 --> 00:02:33,879 - Chile, I need to fill you in 67 00:02:33,979 --> 00:02:35,922 on the rest of my conversation with Shamea. 68 00:02:35,956 --> 00:02:37,658 She was-- definitely had a lot of smoke for you... 69 00:02:37,724 --> 00:02:39,217 - Mm-hmm. - ...based off y'all's... 70 00:02:39,317 --> 00:02:41,553 - Yeah, based off her-- - ...non-lunch, 71 00:02:41,653 --> 00:02:43,380 that didn't actually happen. - Yeah, I wanted to eat. 72 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:44,431 - So, y'all didn't even get to the appetizer, chile. 73 00:02:44,464 --> 00:02:45,657 - No, I wonder why. 74 00:02:45,791 --> 00:02:47,334 - The other thing that she was sharing was 75 00:02:47,434 --> 00:02:50,270 there was stuff, like, with her whole surrogacy thing. 76 00:02:50,303 --> 00:02:52,272 And then she also mentioned-- she didn't go into detail, 77 00:02:52,439 --> 00:02:53,640 but, apparently, something's going on 78 00:02:53,774 --> 00:02:55,809 with her mom health-wise. 79 00:02:55,876 --> 00:02:57,711 So, she said that's been stressing her out. 80 00:02:57,811 --> 00:03:00,514 So, I even said to her, "Are you in therapy?" 81 00:03:00,614 --> 00:03:01,615 - Yeah. 82 00:03:01,648 --> 00:03:03,884 - And she said she didn't have time for therapy. 83 00:03:03,984 --> 00:03:05,952 I was like, well, none of us 84 00:03:06,086 --> 00:03:07,788 just have all this time for it. 85 00:03:07,821 --> 00:03:08,955 [laughing] - For therapy-- 86 00:03:09,056 --> 00:03:10,415 we make time for therapy. 87 00:03:10,515 --> 00:03:11,458 - Like, that's not-- that has nothing to do with the circle. 88 00:03:11,591 --> 00:03:12,751 That's for you. 89 00:03:12,851 --> 00:03:13,860 Like, all this stuff you're talking about 90 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,062 is very stressful. 91 00:03:15,162 --> 00:03:17,464 - That is the reason why she is the way she is. 92 00:03:17,531 --> 00:03:18,965 This bitch need therapy. 93 00:03:19,132 --> 00:03:22,803 Shamea, you need to go to therapy. 94 00:03:22,936 --> 00:03:25,706 It forces me to take more chances 95 00:03:25,806 --> 00:03:28,508 and bigger risks and move forward with my life. 96 00:03:28,575 --> 00:03:32,938 It'll make you less afraid to say what you wanna say 97 00:03:33,038 --> 00:03:34,014 and, you know, 98 00:03:34,081 --> 00:03:36,316 confront the people you wanna confront. 99 00:03:36,450 --> 00:03:37,517 My heart goes out to her. - Mm-hmm. 100 00:03:37,651 --> 00:03:39,419 - Especially if she's dealing with somethin' 101 00:03:39,519 --> 00:03:40,854 with her mom and her health 102 00:03:40,987 --> 00:03:41,988 because losing my mother-- - Yeah. 103 00:03:42,155 --> 00:03:43,990 - It's been a year since she passed, 104 00:03:44,024 --> 00:03:45,325 and I'm like, where did the year go? 105 00:03:45,425 --> 00:03:46,927 - A year. Wow. - You know, like, 106 00:03:47,027 --> 00:03:49,162 most of it is denial. - Yeah, yeah. 107 00:03:49,196 --> 00:03:51,498 - And, you know, the rest of it is tears. 108 00:03:51,565 --> 00:03:54,284 So, I wanna do somethin' fun in memory of my mom. 109 00:03:54,384 --> 00:03:56,069 - Okay, in celebration. - And I-- 110 00:03:56,136 --> 00:03:59,030 - Mm-hmm. - A celebration of life for her. 111 00:03:59,131 --> 00:04:00,841 And I wanna include all the girls. 112 00:04:00,974 --> 00:04:02,843 - Okay. You know what I did once? 113 00:04:02,876 --> 00:04:04,344 I did a Bailey Bowl. 114 00:04:04,411 --> 00:04:05,403 - Okay. [laughing] 115 00:04:05,537 --> 00:04:07,347 - Which was just, like, goin' to P.E. 116 00:04:07,414 --> 00:04:09,883 but, like, on, like, a different level, 117 00:04:09,950 --> 00:04:11,518 like playing basketball and-- 118 00:04:11,618 --> 00:04:13,854 - That would be cute, a basketball game. 119 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,855 - That would be fun, actually. 120 00:04:15,021 --> 00:04:16,314 - The girls-- that would be cool. 121 00:04:16,414 --> 00:04:17,315 - But Charles can't play. 122 00:04:17,415 --> 00:04:19,092 - I think Charles should be a part of it, 123 00:04:19,192 --> 00:04:20,527 even if he's the referee. 124 00:04:20,627 --> 00:04:21,920 Can we just-- okay, we'll make him be the referee. 125 00:04:22,053 --> 00:04:23,029 - Okay, he-- and I think he would be fair. 126 00:04:23,196 --> 00:04:24,998 - He would be. [laughing] 127 00:04:25,165 --> 00:04:30,395 ♪♪ 128 00:04:32,764 --> 00:04:34,708 - Knock-knock! 129 00:04:34,875 --> 00:04:36,543 - Porsha. 130 00:04:36,576 --> 00:04:38,670 Girl, you must've flew down the road. 131 00:04:38,770 --> 00:04:40,814 - I definitely did fly. 132 00:04:40,914 --> 00:04:43,950 - Hey, boo, I didn't know you were coming, too. 133 00:04:44,050 --> 00:04:45,886 - Hi. - Give me some sugar-wugar. 134 00:04:45,986 --> 00:04:47,687 Mmm! 135 00:04:47,788 --> 00:04:48,955 Have a seat. 136 00:04:49,022 --> 00:04:51,016 - Okay, yes, I will. I'd love to. 137 00:04:51,116 --> 00:04:54,427 PJ, take your iPad to upstairs, 138 00:04:54,494 --> 00:04:56,229 and then I'm gonna up there and play wit' you, okay? 139 00:04:56,363 --> 00:04:57,697 - Okay. - Okay, give me kisses. 140 00:04:57,798 --> 00:04:59,182 - Such a big ol' girl. 141 00:04:59,282 --> 00:05:01,601 - Yes, she is, mama's sweet girl. 142 00:05:01,668 --> 00:05:04,354 [sighs] - Well, I've been busy over here. 143 00:05:04,454 --> 00:05:05,705 - I see. - Yeah. Mm-hmm. 144 00:05:05,806 --> 00:05:07,240 - I don't see none of you in the house. 145 00:05:07,274 --> 00:05:09,276 - No, it's completely bland. 146 00:05:09,409 --> 00:05:11,269 - Uh-huh. Where your big, gorgeous picture at? 147 00:05:11,369 --> 00:05:13,004 - Oh, you just have to look at me. 148 00:05:13,171 --> 00:05:16,283 ♪♪ 149 00:05:16,383 --> 00:05:18,051 - All right. [laughing] 150 00:05:18,151 --> 00:05:20,020 Luckily, you be lookin' the same. 151 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,621 You're damn frozen. 152 00:05:21,755 --> 00:05:24,875 It's bittersweet because this is the last time 153 00:05:24,975 --> 00:05:27,544 that I'll be visiting my mom at this house. 154 00:05:27,644 --> 00:05:30,297 - I mean, who knew the house would get so many offers? 155 00:05:30,430 --> 00:05:31,565 And, I mean, what was it? 156 00:05:31,665 --> 00:05:32,766 Like, two weeks, and you got a-a all-cash offer. 157 00:05:32,899 --> 00:05:35,202 - It's-- well, let me tell you, it's crazy. 158 00:05:35,302 --> 00:05:36,603 I mean, these people are ready to come in here, 159 00:05:36,736 --> 00:05:39,039 like, next month. - I know. I know. 160 00:05:39,139 --> 00:05:41,641 - When you are looking at moving around assets, 161 00:05:41,775 --> 00:05:43,568 if I can sell a $2 million asset, 162 00:05:43,668 --> 00:05:46,379 make $1 million, keep the $7 million asset, 163 00:05:46,479 --> 00:05:48,114 take out its equity, 164 00:05:48,148 --> 00:05:50,050 we're makin' smart business decisions. 165 00:05:50,150 --> 00:05:51,952 I broke my toenail. - Oh. 166 00:05:51,985 --> 00:05:53,745 - I broke it at the skate party. Damn. 167 00:05:53,845 --> 00:05:56,414 - Mm-hmm. - Oh, we went skating. 168 00:05:56,514 --> 00:05:57,824 - Oh, wow, that's good. 169 00:05:57,891 --> 00:05:59,985 - I needed it. I needed it. - That's good. Mm-hmm. 170 00:06:00,085 --> 00:06:01,461 - It renewed my hope for the group... 171 00:06:01,528 --> 00:06:02,913 - Okay. - ...because I was losing faith. 172 00:06:03,013 --> 00:06:05,298 - Because Phaedra and I are planning a trip for the girls. 173 00:06:05,432 --> 00:06:07,133 - Porsha and I... - Yes. 174 00:06:07,234 --> 00:06:09,252 - ...are proposing an international trip. 175 00:06:09,352 --> 00:06:12,639 - Yes! To... 176 00:06:12,706 --> 00:06:14,474 - in unison: Scotland! 177 00:06:14,507 --> 00:06:15,867 [cheering] 178 00:06:16,001 --> 00:06:17,594 - Scotland? - So, you know, 179 00:06:17,694 --> 00:06:18,979 both of us just went to Scotland. 180 00:06:19,112 --> 00:06:20,947 - With the "Traitors," okay. - With "Traitors," right. 181 00:06:21,047 --> 00:06:22,816 It was such a great experience for us. 182 00:06:22,882 --> 00:06:24,276 We wanna give them that vibe. 183 00:06:24,376 --> 00:06:26,211 - Oh, wow, okay. 184 00:06:26,344 --> 00:06:27,387 - To be honest with you, 185 00:06:27,454 --> 00:06:30,490 I really need this trip to do its big one. 186 00:06:30,590 --> 00:06:33,393 I feel like this group needs to come back together, 187 00:06:33,460 --> 00:06:35,328 and we need to just get rid of the traitors, 188 00:06:35,495 --> 00:06:36,354 and we all just need to be faithful 189 00:06:36,454 --> 00:06:37,555 to the friendship. 190 00:06:37,622 --> 00:06:39,566 Did I tell you Dennis came over the other day? 191 00:06:39,666 --> 00:06:41,167 - And what? - I looked in his lap, 192 00:06:41,234 --> 00:06:43,169 and I saw this box. Why is it my ring? 193 00:06:43,203 --> 00:06:45,397 [gasps] - Porsha. 194 00:06:45,530 --> 00:06:47,123 - You should get your ring back. I'm done. 195 00:06:47,223 --> 00:06:49,901 You know, I-I waited around to see if we can maybe, 196 00:06:50,035 --> 00:06:51,244 but I can't do nothin' with it. 197 00:06:54,047 --> 00:06:55,682 - How'd you feel when you saw the ring? 198 00:06:55,749 --> 00:06:57,968 - When I saw it, I was triggered. 199 00:06:58,068 --> 00:06:59,019 - Wow. 200 00:06:59,119 --> 00:07:00,186 - I know you're trying to make your point 201 00:07:00,353 --> 00:07:02,889 of you want me to choose, right now, 202 00:07:02,956 --> 00:07:04,482 but I can't choose you. 203 00:07:04,582 --> 00:07:06,309 I can't choose him. I can't choose her. 204 00:07:06,409 --> 00:07:07,894 I can't choose nobody, right now. 205 00:07:08,028 --> 00:07:10,196 I'm too busy choosing me. 206 00:07:10,330 --> 00:07:11,423 - Mmm. 207 00:07:11,556 --> 00:07:12,465 - At this point in my life, 208 00:07:12,565 --> 00:07:14,768 it's very liberating for me to be able 209 00:07:14,834 --> 00:07:16,903 to stand up and say, "No, I'm just single, 210 00:07:16,970 --> 00:07:19,372 and I am just gently dating." 211 00:07:19,406 --> 00:07:21,266 That feels powerful to me. 212 00:07:21,399 --> 00:07:23,068 If I want you to drop me off after a date, 213 00:07:23,168 --> 00:07:24,544 please and thank you, goodnight. - Yeah. 214 00:07:24,711 --> 00:07:26,713 - And I'll go in my bed, and pass a little gas, 215 00:07:26,780 --> 00:07:28,048 and take this wig off, 216 00:07:28,214 --> 00:07:30,575 and eat me some Goddamn crab legs, 217 00:07:30,675 --> 00:07:34,020 and I goes the hell to bed, okay? 218 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:35,989 And luckily for me, I guess I'm pre-menopausal. 219 00:07:36,089 --> 00:07:37,223 I don't even feel no tingle. 220 00:07:37,357 --> 00:07:39,159 So, what's it even matter? 221 00:07:39,259 --> 00:07:42,028 [laughing] 222 00:07:42,195 --> 00:07:52,972 ♪♪ 223 00:07:53,039 --> 00:07:55,475 ♪ Spinnin' out yeah we're spinnin' out ♪ 224 00:07:58,545 --> 00:07:59,579 - There she is. - Hi. 225 00:07:59,746 --> 00:08:01,014 - Hey, how you doing? - I'm good. 226 00:08:01,114 --> 00:08:02,115 How are you, Johnny? Nice to meet you. 227 00:08:02,248 --> 00:08:03,083 - Johnny. Nice to meet you. 228 00:08:03,116 --> 00:08:04,776 - Nice to meet you. 229 00:08:04,876 --> 00:08:06,878 - All right, Ms. Ferrell. 230 00:08:06,978 --> 00:08:08,254 - You can call me Potter. 231 00:08:08,355 --> 00:08:09,622 - Potter? Ms. Potter, excuse me. 232 00:08:09,756 --> 00:08:11,424 - Thank you. - All right. 233 00:08:11,491 --> 00:08:13,526 So, today, we're gonna have a hard conversation 234 00:08:13,626 --> 00:08:15,095 about your budget. - Okay. 235 00:08:15,128 --> 00:08:17,197 - We're gonna talk about your finances. 236 00:08:17,297 --> 00:08:19,232 - Whew... - So, let's start with the basics. 237 00:08:19,332 --> 00:08:21,601 How much you think you're bringing in per month? 238 00:08:21,668 --> 00:08:24,270 - The Nana's McDonough location 239 00:08:24,304 --> 00:08:27,474 roughly brings in, I would say, about $75,000. 240 00:08:27,540 --> 00:08:28,566 - Okay. [cash register rings] 241 00:08:28,666 --> 00:08:29,609 - And then we have Nana's Sandy Springs, 242 00:08:29,743 --> 00:08:31,578 that just opened. 243 00:08:31,678 --> 00:08:32,946 Ooh, chile, 244 00:08:33,046 --> 00:08:35,148 let's just say, maybe $15,000. 245 00:08:35,281 --> 00:08:37,117 - Okay. - That would be at a high number. 246 00:08:37,183 --> 00:08:39,010 I'm meeting with a financial planner today 247 00:08:39,144 --> 00:08:44,290 because I need to figure out what my next steps look like. 248 00:08:44,324 --> 00:08:46,684 The last two restaurants that I've had 249 00:08:46,818 --> 00:08:48,128 made money out the door. 250 00:08:48,161 --> 00:08:50,130 So, seeing the Sandy Springs numbers 251 00:08:50,163 --> 00:08:51,464 definitely scare me. 252 00:08:51,598 --> 00:08:52,824 - I promise I won't judge, 253 00:08:52,924 --> 00:08:55,101 but let's figure out exactly what's coming out 254 00:08:55,201 --> 00:08:57,003 of the bank account. - Whew. [laughing] 255 00:08:57,070 --> 00:08:59,139 I wasn't expecting all of this. 256 00:08:59,305 --> 00:09:00,473 - I'm in your business, right now. 257 00:09:00,573 --> 00:09:02,042 - Um, it's okay. 258 00:09:02,108 --> 00:09:03,443 - Let's talk about your car payment first. 259 00:09:03,543 --> 00:09:06,037 - My-my Range Rover car payment is about $2,000. 260 00:09:06,171 --> 00:09:09,582 Insurance is maybe $600. 261 00:09:09,682 --> 00:09:10,817 [whistles] 262 00:09:10,850 --> 00:09:13,611 - Let's talk about beauty and makeup. 263 00:09:13,711 --> 00:09:15,321 - Is that including the lashes or not the lashes? 264 00:09:15,422 --> 00:09:16,548 - Let's include lashes. 265 00:09:16,681 --> 00:09:18,191 [laughing] - $2,500. 266 00:09:18,324 --> 00:09:20,527 - What about hair? 267 00:09:20,660 --> 00:09:23,096 - Um... 268 00:09:23,196 --> 00:09:25,123 - Let's start around $1,500 a month. 269 00:09:25,223 --> 00:09:27,434 Do you think it's more or less? 270 00:09:27,534 --> 00:09:29,369 - More. - More, all right. 271 00:09:29,502 --> 00:09:31,905 Let's say $3,000 a month. 272 00:09:32,005 --> 00:09:34,966 What's your shopping bill look like per month? 273 00:09:35,066 --> 00:09:36,176 Let's start with clothes. 274 00:09:36,276 --> 00:09:37,911 Would you say that you spend more or less 275 00:09:37,977 --> 00:09:40,013 than $5,000 a month on clothes? 276 00:09:40,046 --> 00:09:44,417 [laughing] 277 00:09:44,484 --> 00:09:47,145 More or less than $7,000 a month on clothes? 278 00:09:47,245 --> 00:09:49,522 - Let's just do eight... five. 279 00:09:49,556 --> 00:09:51,591 Do $8,500. 280 00:09:51,658 --> 00:09:53,810 - We're at $22,000 per month now. 281 00:09:53,910 --> 00:09:54,861 - Ooh. 282 00:09:54,961 --> 00:09:58,198 I was truly a housewife in my marriage. 283 00:09:58,364 --> 00:10:00,166 I didn't worry about bills. 284 00:10:00,266 --> 00:10:02,427 I didn't know how to make a car payment. 285 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:05,705 I've never had to figure out anything when it came to debt 286 00:10:05,772 --> 00:10:08,141 because I really haven't had any, 287 00:10:08,241 --> 00:10:10,710 but now it's time for me to tie up some loose ends 288 00:10:10,777 --> 00:10:14,005 and make a decision on what my future looks like. 289 00:10:14,105 --> 00:10:18,084 - So, the hard conversation that we need to have now 290 00:10:18,218 --> 00:10:20,820 is what we can pull back on. 291 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:24,958 For instance, you have-- you have a housekeeper. 292 00:10:25,024 --> 00:10:27,460 You have Cha-Cha and-and-- 293 00:10:27,527 --> 00:10:29,229 - Not you telling me to get rid of the dog. 294 00:10:29,295 --> 00:10:30,513 - Well, some of the expenses 295 00:10:30,613 --> 00:10:33,233 that are attached to them. 296 00:10:33,399 --> 00:10:35,635 - So many people talk about, oh, entrepreneur, 297 00:10:35,735 --> 00:10:37,520 you can be this, or you can be that. 298 00:10:37,620 --> 00:10:39,739 But what do you do when it fails? 299 00:10:39,806 --> 00:10:41,533 Maybe your purpose wasn't the business? 300 00:10:41,633 --> 00:10:43,776 Maybe your purpose was to show 301 00:10:43,843 --> 00:10:46,179 what it's like to restart your life over? 302 00:10:46,279 --> 00:10:47,580 And I receive that. 303 00:10:47,647 --> 00:10:49,699 - What's something else? 304 00:10:49,799 --> 00:10:51,684 - You sure are an aggressive man. 305 00:10:51,784 --> 00:10:53,953 [laughing] - I've been told. 306 00:10:54,087 --> 00:10:54,954 But right now, it's okay. 307 00:10:55,021 --> 00:10:56,923 I'm not your friend. I'm your accountant. 308 00:10:56,956 --> 00:10:58,716 - Heard, all right. 309 00:10:58,816 --> 00:11:00,360 - Coming up... 310 00:11:00,460 --> 00:11:04,430 - I personally don't think you should go with the implants. 311 00:11:04,497 --> 00:11:05,890 - You don't think I should do that, again? 312 00:11:05,990 --> 00:11:07,333 - Not at all. 313 00:11:12,272 --> 00:11:21,606 ♪♪ 314 00:11:21,673 --> 00:11:23,249 - Hi. - Hi. Welcome. 315 00:11:23,349 --> 00:11:24,851 - How you doing? Whew. - I'm doing good. 316 00:11:24,951 --> 00:11:26,219 So, I'm gonna get you checked in, right now, 317 00:11:26,352 --> 00:11:27,754 and Dr. Jones will be right with you. 318 00:11:27,854 --> 00:11:30,757 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 319 00:11:30,823 --> 00:11:32,275 - All right. - Hi, doctor. 320 00:11:32,342 --> 00:11:34,586 Good to see you. - Good seeing you. 321 00:11:34,686 --> 00:11:37,864 So, how have you been doing? - A whole lot better. 322 00:11:37,964 --> 00:11:40,124 - All right, good. 323 00:11:40,258 --> 00:11:43,428 You're recovered from our little procedure. 324 00:11:43,528 --> 00:11:44,704 - Yes. - All right, good. 325 00:11:44,804 --> 00:11:46,639 - So, I just wanted to come and talk to you 326 00:11:46,739 --> 00:11:50,969 about the next steps in order to be complete with this journey. 327 00:11:51,035 --> 00:11:51,961 - Mm-hmm. Right, right. 328 00:11:52,028 --> 00:11:53,838 - My body has gone through a lot. 329 00:11:53,972 --> 00:11:56,507 I'm on my 15th ass. 330 00:11:56,641 --> 00:11:57,842 We can laugh. We can joke. 331 00:11:57,942 --> 00:12:03,681 But from 35 until now, this has changed my life 332 00:12:03,815 --> 00:12:05,959 in just trying to be healthy. 333 00:12:06,059 --> 00:12:08,628 I know we had talked about what needed to be done 334 00:12:08,728 --> 00:12:11,723 in order to do, like, a lift. - Mm-hmm. 335 00:12:11,823 --> 00:12:14,025 - And to, like, fix my scars. 336 00:12:14,125 --> 00:12:17,971 I'm over, like, the, um, the big ol' whopper on my back. 337 00:12:18,071 --> 00:12:19,806 - Okay. - I just want, like, 338 00:12:19,906 --> 00:12:23,309 a, you know, nice, little fitness body. 339 00:12:23,409 --> 00:12:24,644 I want to be healthy. 340 00:12:24,711 --> 00:12:28,481 - I personally don't think you should go with the implants. 341 00:12:28,581 --> 00:12:29,882 - You don't think I should do that, again? 342 00:12:29,983 --> 00:12:31,017 - Not at all. - Yeah. 343 00:12:31,150 --> 00:12:33,152 - You have a significant amount of scarring. 344 00:12:33,252 --> 00:12:35,488 Inevitably, over time, more than likely, 345 00:12:35,555 --> 00:12:36,839 you'll end up with the same problem. 346 00:12:36,906 --> 00:12:37,674 - Mm-hmm. The same thing? - Yeah. 347 00:12:37,740 --> 00:12:39,359 - No, I'm over that. Okay. - Right. 348 00:12:39,492 --> 00:12:42,487 So, you don't have any fat, really, but the science 349 00:12:42,553 --> 00:12:45,757 has advanced a little bit, and now they have fat 350 00:12:45,857 --> 00:12:48,134 that you can take off the shelf. 351 00:12:48,268 --> 00:12:50,003 It's called alloClae. 352 00:12:50,103 --> 00:12:53,197 It's human fat that's been sterilized or whatnot, 353 00:12:53,264 --> 00:12:56,267 and you can use it to enhance your butt. 354 00:12:56,367 --> 00:13:00,004 - Right now, I have a condition that I placed upon myself 355 00:13:00,071 --> 00:13:02,573 that cannot be cured. 356 00:13:02,707 --> 00:13:04,534 I have silicone floating in my body 357 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:05,852 that I will never get out. 358 00:13:05,952 --> 00:13:09,180 I am labeled as a chronic pain patient 359 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,115 after now 15 surgeries. 360 00:13:11,215 --> 00:13:14,544 I'm not against upgrading yourself, 361 00:13:14,610 --> 00:13:17,255 as you will call it, but, for me, 362 00:13:17,355 --> 00:13:20,892 I have to look at myself and be okay with myself. 363 00:13:20,958 --> 00:13:22,760 - And then you just want to kinda stay off your butt 364 00:13:22,894 --> 00:13:25,463 just so it'll optimize the healing. 365 00:13:25,563 --> 00:13:27,557 - These ladies in this friend group-- 366 00:13:27,623 --> 00:13:28,633 they stress me out so bad. 367 00:13:28,733 --> 00:13:30,243 I feel like it affects my ass. 368 00:13:30,376 --> 00:13:39,644 ♪♪ 369 00:13:39,744 --> 00:13:42,780 - Chile, let's go have a seat, honey. 370 00:13:42,914 --> 00:13:44,424 - How have you been? 371 00:13:44,524 --> 00:13:47,326 - A lot going on. - I know, right? 372 00:13:47,427 --> 00:13:50,922 Life is pretty chaotic, right now. 373 00:13:51,055 --> 00:13:54,417 Oh, my gosh, I'm so tired. [sighs] 374 00:13:54,484 --> 00:13:59,063 Been running around all day, living life. 375 00:13:59,163 --> 00:14:01,165 What's wrong? 376 00:14:01,265 --> 00:14:02,233 - Nothing is wrong. 377 00:14:02,333 --> 00:14:06,104 I, um, I went and talked to Wendy. 378 00:14:06,170 --> 00:14:07,772 - Okay, how did that go? - Yeah. 379 00:14:07,839 --> 00:14:10,475 I haven't told my youngest yet that she's married. 380 00:14:10,575 --> 00:14:12,143 - What if it's hers to tell? 381 00:14:12,276 --> 00:14:14,112 - She kinda feels like it's too soon. 382 00:14:14,178 --> 00:14:19,275 I'm like, no, I think they need to know. 383 00:14:19,342 --> 00:14:26,124 She told me that that's your story to tell the kids. 384 00:14:26,190 --> 00:14:29,360 I think Ahmauri wants to have one foot in and one foot out. 385 00:14:29,460 --> 00:14:32,205 She wants to be a child in my house, 386 00:14:32,305 --> 00:14:33,973 as well as an adult in her house, 387 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,468 in her marital home, and I feel like she needs to 388 00:14:37,535 --> 00:14:40,138 tell the truth to Arleigh and Avan 389 00:14:40,271 --> 00:14:43,007 and let them know that she is indeed married. 390 00:14:43,107 --> 00:14:46,144 I want them to know because I don't want them 391 00:14:46,210 --> 00:14:50,973 to be blindsided. - Blindsided? 392 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,976 Okay, but I don't see how the kids mix in all this. 393 00:14:54,043 --> 00:14:55,428 - Ahmauri's partner has been coming around 394 00:14:55,561 --> 00:14:58,631 since Ahmauri was about 17 years old. 395 00:14:58,698 --> 00:15:00,825 They believe that's her best friend, 396 00:15:00,958 --> 00:15:02,894 which is not entirely true. 397 00:15:02,994 --> 00:15:05,496 They trust her, and they rely on her 398 00:15:05,563 --> 00:15:07,573 to be honest with them. 399 00:15:10,393 --> 00:15:12,161 - Yeah, of course, I would be more willing 400 00:15:12,228 --> 00:15:14,113 'cause that's a-- that's a-- that's a norm. 401 00:15:14,247 --> 00:15:17,008 That's normal in society. You see that every day. 402 00:15:17,074 --> 00:15:19,977 You see it in Disney movies. You see it everywhere. 403 00:15:20,044 --> 00:15:22,355 Maybe in a couple years, I'll tell them. 404 00:15:22,488 --> 00:15:25,917 Okay, but before we get there, can we just open it up 405 00:15:26,017 --> 00:15:28,486 because now you're saying I'm gonna hurt the kids? 406 00:15:28,586 --> 00:15:29,796 Like, that's not fair because we're not getting to 407 00:15:29,929 --> 00:15:31,497 the root of it all. You sit-- 408 00:15:31,564 --> 00:15:33,090 - This is going-- this is not the way 409 00:15:33,191 --> 00:15:34,167 I wanted this to go. 410 00:15:34,267 --> 00:15:35,902 - Okay, but, like, let's talk about it. 411 00:15:36,002 --> 00:15:37,595 Do you want to know why I didn't tell you? 412 00:15:37,695 --> 00:15:40,189 - It's not even about why you didn't tell me. 413 00:15:40,256 --> 00:15:42,508 - But it is to me. - But it's okay. 414 00:15:42,608 --> 00:15:43,434 You didn't wanna tell me. - It's important to me. 415 00:15:43,534 --> 00:15:44,669 - I don't wanna do this. I don't want to. 416 00:15:44,735 --> 00:15:45,878 - I didn't wanna tell you because you were 417 00:15:45,978 --> 00:15:48,614 impossible to talk to. - I was wit' you every day. 418 00:15:48,714 --> 00:15:50,341 - Yes, but I had to hear about all the stuff 419 00:15:50,441 --> 00:15:51,442 you were going through. 420 00:15:51,542 --> 00:15:53,611 You never see my point of view. Your-- 421 00:15:53,711 --> 00:15:56,122 - What's your point of view? "Ma, I wanna go get married, 422 00:15:56,222 --> 00:15:57,548 and I don't wanna tell you about it. 423 00:15:57,682 --> 00:16:00,418 Ma, I wanna be grown and do what I wanna do, 424 00:16:00,518 --> 00:16:03,095 and I still wanna be a kid and be treated like a kid over here. 425 00:16:03,196 --> 00:16:06,023 I know I'm an adult, ma, but I want to have one foot in 426 00:16:06,090 --> 00:16:09,093 and one foot out, and I wanna do what I wanna do. 427 00:16:09,193 --> 00:16:11,462 I don't care if I stressed you out 428 00:16:11,562 --> 00:16:13,030 by making you feel like you don't include me." 429 00:16:13,097 --> 00:16:15,975 - Are you serious? I've tried to come to you before 430 00:16:16,075 --> 00:16:17,009 not to tell you about the marriage 431 00:16:17,143 --> 00:16:19,245 because I didn't want anybody to know about that 432 00:16:19,378 --> 00:16:20,413 because I feel like you're not understanding 433 00:16:20,513 --> 00:16:21,647 where I'm coming from. - Okay. 434 00:16:21,747 --> 00:16:22,874 You always feel like I don't understand you. 435 00:16:22,940 --> 00:16:24,150 - Because you don't. - I do. 436 00:16:24,250 --> 00:16:26,310 - You never did. - I feel like you're entitled. 437 00:16:26,410 --> 00:16:27,778 You're spoiled. - Entitled? What do you mean? 438 00:16:27,879 --> 00:16:29,288 - What do you call it? - I take care of myself. 439 00:16:29,388 --> 00:16:30,389 - But what do you call it? I mean-- 440 00:16:30,490 --> 00:16:31,449 - I pay my own bills. 441 00:16:31,549 --> 00:16:33,050 - I get it, but what do you call it? 442 00:16:33,117 --> 00:16:35,419 - Okay, so, I will be grown, and I won't come around no more. 443 00:16:35,486 --> 00:16:36,762 Is that what it is? - That's not what I'm saying. 444 00:16:36,863 --> 00:16:39,991 - It is. - I feel like, right now, 445 00:16:40,091 --> 00:16:43,436 we're not connecting, so I definitely feel like 446 00:16:43,536 --> 00:16:50,067 we need to bring in Wendy and explore what the real issue is 447 00:16:50,134 --> 00:16:52,912 'cause, right now, it's a bit damaged. 448 00:16:53,012 --> 00:16:56,782 It's a bit strained. [sighs] 449 00:16:56,883 --> 00:17:00,278 - Can I go? [sighs] 450 00:17:00,344 --> 00:17:04,015 - Ahmauri, okay. - This is stupid. 451 00:17:04,215 --> 00:17:08,486 ♪♪ 452 00:17:12,965 --> 00:17:21,541 ♪♪ 453 00:17:21,641 --> 00:17:25,511 - I'm always having to, like, defend who I am, 454 00:17:25,645 --> 00:17:27,346 and I really don't give a (BLEEP). 455 00:17:27,446 --> 00:17:28,506 - It's the best way to be. 456 00:17:28,539 --> 00:17:29,815 - Yeah, there's no box for me, 457 00:17:29,949 --> 00:17:32,184 and I feel like the country album 458 00:17:32,351 --> 00:17:36,172 should just speak to all demographics. 459 00:17:36,205 --> 00:17:41,160 ♪♪ 460 00:17:41,260 --> 00:17:42,628 - You know we're anxious to get you back 461 00:17:42,728 --> 00:17:44,964 in-in operation with us. 462 00:17:45,031 --> 00:17:47,900 - Well, I like dead folks because it lets me be artistic, 463 00:17:48,034 --> 00:17:48,701 you know. - Yeah. 464 00:17:48,834 --> 00:17:49,869 - And I love hanging out wit' you. 465 00:17:50,002 --> 00:17:51,704 - You're gonna do what you're happiest to do. 466 00:17:51,804 --> 00:17:54,206 - The name means service, Willie A. Watkins. 467 00:17:54,340 --> 00:17:56,709 I'm the mistress of the dead. - Get outta here, girl. 468 00:17:56,876 --> 00:17:58,311 [laughing] 469 00:17:58,477 --> 00:18:03,382 ♪♪ 470 00:18:03,516 --> 00:18:05,518 - Ladies and gentlemen, I need you to get up 471 00:18:05,618 --> 00:18:11,324 on your feet for the one, the only, D'Ella. 472 00:18:11,424 --> 00:18:13,759 [cheers and applause] 473 00:18:17,254 --> 00:18:18,664 Yes. 474 00:18:18,731 --> 00:18:20,791 Okay, come on back. 475 00:18:20,958 --> 00:18:25,071 ♪♪ 476 00:18:25,237 --> 00:18:26,839 - So, are you excited about going to Scotland, 477 00:18:26,939 --> 00:18:28,407 'cause you've never been there, right? 478 00:18:28,541 --> 00:18:29,342 - But, you know, I really want to be 479 00:18:29,442 --> 00:18:30,910 fully engulfed in the culture, though. 480 00:18:31,077 --> 00:18:32,211 - Yeah, absolutely. 481 00:18:32,345 --> 00:18:34,513 - So, I gotta figure out, like, what I can wear. Uh-- 482 00:18:34,580 --> 00:18:36,115 - Just put your clothes in a backpack this time, 483 00:18:36,215 --> 00:18:38,584 so we-we can keep up with 'em. - Oh, my gosh. 484 00:18:38,751 --> 00:18:42,188 - So, what is going on? - My bags never came. 485 00:18:42,254 --> 00:18:44,624 - When is the soonest it could arrive? 486 00:18:44,724 --> 00:18:46,759 - Not until tomorrow. I'm in pain right now, 487 00:18:46,892 --> 00:18:48,761 knowing that I'm not fitting to have a fresh pair of underwear, 488 00:18:48,894 --> 00:18:51,030 but I'm gonna dance through it, not too hard, though, 489 00:18:51,130 --> 00:18:53,299 'cause I don't want to dance and get the crotch too dirty. 490 00:18:53,466 --> 00:18:55,134 Don't know when I'll get another pair. 491 00:18:55,301 --> 00:18:57,303 I'm gonna layer up. I'm gonna wear all my stuff, 492 00:18:57,403 --> 00:18:59,138 so when I get there, it's already on. 493 00:18:59,238 --> 00:18:59,972 - Well, you're gonna need them layers 494 00:19:00,072 --> 00:19:01,966 to catch them blows they could give. 495 00:19:02,066 --> 00:19:03,309 [laughing] 496 00:19:03,409 --> 00:19:04,777 - Baby, they're on your neck. You know that. 497 00:19:04,877 --> 00:19:06,212 - They are. They're on my neck. 498 00:19:06,312 --> 00:19:07,980 Speaking of being on my neck, I ain't really been bothered 499 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,449 with Angela, and it's crazy because 500 00:19:10,483 --> 00:19:13,552 she invited me to-- I think it's Maggie Madness, 501 00:19:13,652 --> 00:19:14,720 but it's like the Bailey Bowl. 502 00:19:14,820 --> 00:19:17,448 So, her and Cynthia are both doing it together. 503 00:19:17,481 --> 00:19:18,891 It's like a field day almost where you-- 504 00:19:18,958 --> 00:19:20,426 it's competitive. - Oh, that's so-- that's fun. 505 00:19:20,526 --> 00:19:22,294 - And it's in honor of her mom. - Mm-hmm. 506 00:19:22,428 --> 00:19:24,664 - So, you know, I'm definitely not trying to 507 00:19:24,797 --> 00:19:27,666 go there on no drama 'cause, I mean, 508 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,794 I be going through it with you and your health 509 00:19:29,827 --> 00:19:31,737 and you-you being up and down all the time. 510 00:19:31,837 --> 00:19:33,072 - Absolutely, absolutely, absolutely. 511 00:19:33,139 --> 00:19:34,507 - So, just not having her mom there, I just-- 512 00:19:34,607 --> 00:19:36,308 I just can't even imagine that hurt. 513 00:19:36,409 --> 00:19:39,045 I don't wish that on nobody. - Absolutely. 514 00:19:39,245 --> 00:19:45,584 ♪♪ 515 00:19:45,651 --> 00:19:48,654 - Miss Tatiana, yes. 516 00:19:48,754 --> 00:19:52,725 Hey, girlfriend, you giving me the side-eye? 517 00:19:52,925 --> 00:20:00,332 ♪♪ 518 00:20:00,466 --> 00:20:02,268 Ahh! [laughing] 519 00:20:02,334 --> 00:20:04,003 - Listen. Hello. - Girl, hey. 520 00:20:04,136 --> 00:20:05,571 Muah. - Muah. 521 00:20:05,771 --> 00:20:07,273 ♪♪ 522 00:20:07,339 --> 00:20:08,632 Okay, so, we're gonna do this. 523 00:20:08,699 --> 00:20:10,826 Then we're gonna talk good ol' lemon pepper wings. 524 00:20:10,860 --> 00:20:11,777 Yes. - Okay, all right. 525 00:20:11,877 --> 00:20:13,379 All right, you ready? - Okay, mm-hmm. 526 00:20:13,512 --> 00:20:17,283 - Cheers to health, wealth, and mental health. 527 00:20:17,383 --> 00:20:18,851 - Yes, period. - Yes, period. 528 00:20:18,884 --> 00:20:22,513 - Amen. Mmm. 529 00:20:22,546 --> 00:20:25,291 - Oh, my God! 530 00:20:25,357 --> 00:20:26,350 - Look at us. We're all healthy now. 531 00:20:26,383 --> 00:20:28,160 - But it's-- I know. [laughing] 532 00:20:28,260 --> 00:20:30,062 Bitch, I'm tired of being in survival mode. 533 00:20:30,162 --> 00:20:31,163 I'm ready to live. - Yes. 534 00:20:31,263 --> 00:20:33,023 No, that is so real because, listen, what is going on 535 00:20:33,057 --> 00:20:37,069 'cause I just saw in the blogs you've been banned from Nigeria, 536 00:20:37,169 --> 00:20:40,406 and Simon has taken away the sponsor? 537 00:20:40,539 --> 00:20:42,475 I said, okay, you need to explain this and break it down. 538 00:20:42,541 --> 00:20:44,076 - I don't even understand it myself. 539 00:20:44,210 --> 00:20:45,744 I don't. - Oh, wow. 540 00:20:45,878 --> 00:20:48,347 - I feel like he just did it to get some press. 541 00:20:48,447 --> 00:20:52,752 Oh, my God, anything that has any of my exes attached to it 542 00:20:52,852 --> 00:20:54,687 when it comes to a headline, it's a spectacle. 543 00:20:54,787 --> 00:20:57,556 It's not a never-ending saga over here. 544 00:20:57,656 --> 00:20:59,692 I have retired. 545 00:20:59,792 --> 00:21:00,926 I mean, think about it. 546 00:21:01,026 --> 00:21:03,996 Why would I care about citizenship over there 547 00:21:04,063 --> 00:21:05,898 if I can visit anytime I want? 548 00:21:05,931 --> 00:21:08,717 Matter of fact, another reason why I don't mind his post-- 549 00:21:08,751 --> 00:21:12,037 every time I'm trending, Go Naked goes crazy. 550 00:21:12,138 --> 00:21:13,906 - Mm-hmm. - One time, he actually posted. 551 00:21:14,039 --> 00:21:16,575 Girl, I made $50,000 that day. - Yeah, shut up. 552 00:21:16,742 --> 00:21:21,347 - So, I think that will be another great situation for you. 553 00:21:21,413 --> 00:21:22,748 I wanted to ask you. 554 00:21:22,915 --> 00:21:24,583 Would you like to make money together? 555 00:21:24,683 --> 00:21:26,235 - Oh, yeah, girl, what are we talking about? 556 00:21:26,268 --> 00:21:28,687 - Because I'm starting my pop on wig line. 557 00:21:28,754 --> 00:21:31,524 Cynthia is also gonna do a wig line with Go Naked, 558 00:21:31,590 --> 00:21:33,559 and I have some units that came in, 559 00:21:33,659 --> 00:21:35,094 and I think they look like you. - Mm-hmm. 560 00:21:35,227 --> 00:21:38,931 - So, let's do a Drew line. - Oh, oh, wait! 561 00:21:38,964 --> 00:21:39,899 Oh, wait a-- - I wanted to-- 562 00:21:39,999 --> 00:21:42,034 I wanted to offer-- [laughing] 563 00:21:42,101 --> 00:21:45,070 - What a difference a year will make! 564 00:21:45,171 --> 00:21:47,706 - My mind frame when it comes to Drew is, 565 00:21:47,773 --> 00:21:50,876 I'm looking forward to being on a different path with her 566 00:21:50,943 --> 00:21:53,429 as a friend. Like, I really, you know, 567 00:21:53,462 --> 00:21:55,548 hate what we went through before. 568 00:21:55,614 --> 00:21:58,284 She was setting up a photoshoot for my company, Go Naked. 569 00:21:58,384 --> 00:21:59,618 Your team called. 570 00:21:59,752 --> 00:22:00,986 - Yes, I am planning an amazing photoshoot for Go Naked. 571 00:22:01,086 --> 00:22:03,122 - Nobody asked you to film a photoshoot for my company! 572 00:22:03,155 --> 00:22:04,557 Are you insane? You're an influencer! 573 00:22:04,657 --> 00:22:06,091 - But I didn't know that was an issue. 574 00:22:06,192 --> 00:22:07,927 - I really want to empower her 575 00:22:08,027 --> 00:22:10,963 and especially with her going through her divorce. 576 00:22:11,096 --> 00:22:13,958 I know how it feels to have a man 577 00:22:13,991 --> 00:22:15,467 stake his claim over your life 578 00:22:15,501 --> 00:22:17,403 and then try to pull it away from you. 579 00:22:17,503 --> 00:22:19,471 - For us to start anew, I'm here for it. 580 00:22:19,638 --> 00:22:20,773 I'm completely open. - Yeah, mm-hmm. 581 00:22:20,873 --> 00:22:22,107 - I have a new manager. 582 00:22:22,208 --> 00:22:24,343 So, you know, we'll let our teams talk. 583 00:22:24,443 --> 00:22:25,678 - Okay. 584 00:22:25,811 --> 00:22:28,781 - Porsha and I honestly have come a long way, 585 00:22:28,881 --> 00:22:30,683 but I do have my reservations 586 00:22:30,783 --> 00:22:32,101 because I just don't ever want to mix 587 00:22:32,167 --> 00:22:34,144 our business and our friendship. 588 00:22:34,178 --> 00:22:36,422 I'm excited for it, but I will just need 589 00:22:36,522 --> 00:22:38,257 to make sure that we do things 590 00:22:38,357 --> 00:22:39,959 the right way this time. 591 00:22:40,059 --> 00:22:41,093 - Hold on, Drew. 592 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,963 You don't really know how to eat chicken wings. 593 00:22:44,063 --> 00:22:44,964 - What you mean? 594 00:22:45,064 --> 00:22:45,998 Hold on. - Oh, my God! 595 00:22:46,098 --> 00:22:46,799 - What are you saying, right now? 596 00:22:46,932 --> 00:22:48,000 - Give me your black card. 597 00:22:48,033 --> 00:22:49,335 We're about to have a lesson. 598 00:22:49,468 --> 00:22:51,036 - What happened? - All right, twist it a little bit. 599 00:22:51,136 --> 00:22:52,972 - Wait, okay, yeah. - No, we're not. 600 00:22:53,072 --> 00:22:54,673 - Okay, we're gonna get you to eat a chicken wing. 601 00:22:54,707 --> 00:22:56,275 - It's for teaching purposes. 602 00:22:56,342 --> 00:22:57,309 Take this one bone. 603 00:22:57,443 --> 00:22:58,510 - Oh, you break the bone apart? 604 00:22:58,611 --> 00:22:59,845 - Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 605 00:22:59,878 --> 00:23:00,980 - Oh, oh, how does that work? 606 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,015 Okay, period. 607 00:23:03,115 --> 00:23:04,783 - Ain't no damn period. Look at that meat. 608 00:23:04,884 --> 00:23:06,318 Look at all of that. - That is gristle. 609 00:23:06,418 --> 00:23:07,686 - You need to eat that. 610 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,555 My African brothers and sisters would be shaking 611 00:23:09,655 --> 00:23:10,522 their head at you. 612 00:23:10,556 --> 00:23:12,324 Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. - Oh, my, well, ma'am, 613 00:23:12,424 --> 00:23:13,692 you are banned, right now, so... 614 00:23:13,792 --> 00:23:16,395 - You got-- [laughing] 615 00:23:18,222 --> 00:23:19,298 - Coming up... 616 00:23:19,365 --> 00:23:21,333 - Okay, Angela, you became relevant 617 00:23:21,433 --> 00:23:22,518 because of your last name 618 00:23:22,551 --> 00:23:23,702 because you ----ed a NBA player. 619 00:23:23,869 --> 00:23:24,803 - Whoa. - And married him. 620 00:23:24,870 --> 00:23:25,871 - Oakley. - And married him. 621 00:23:25,904 --> 00:23:26,705 - But you had to (BLEEP) him first, right? 622 00:23:26,839 --> 00:23:27,656 - And married him. 623 00:23:29,174 --> 00:23:30,576 - Girl! 624 00:23:35,764 --> 00:23:40,636 ♪♪ 625 00:23:40,736 --> 00:23:43,480 - Hey, how are you? - Hey, boo. 626 00:23:43,580 --> 00:23:44,815 - Oh, my God, was there a memo? 627 00:23:44,915 --> 00:23:46,859 Was there a white purity memo? - All white affair-- 628 00:23:46,926 --> 00:23:48,894 you know when you're buying, you can wear white. 629 00:23:48,961 --> 00:23:51,088 - You look fabulous. - You do, too, baby. 630 00:23:51,221 --> 00:23:52,489 - Thank you. 631 00:23:52,589 --> 00:23:55,000 - I think you're gonna absolutely love this place. 632 00:23:55,100 --> 00:23:56,660 - Ooh. - Downtown Alpharetta, 633 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,062 Milton school district. 634 00:24:00,097 --> 00:24:01,273 All right, girl. 635 00:24:01,340 --> 00:24:03,275 - Ooh. 636 00:24:07,212 --> 00:24:08,681 - And boom. - Bathroom? 637 00:24:08,781 --> 00:24:10,783 - Elevator. - Ahh! 638 00:24:12,718 --> 00:24:15,004 - There we go, yes. - There we go. 639 00:24:15,104 --> 00:24:16,722 Cute. 640 00:24:16,822 --> 00:24:18,123 Oh, she just has to be finished. 641 00:24:18,190 --> 00:24:19,758 - Yes, yes. - Okay, cute, okay. 642 00:24:19,892 --> 00:24:21,060 - So, we're gonna go up to the fourth floor. 643 00:24:21,226 --> 00:24:22,177 - Okay. 644 00:24:22,277 --> 00:24:25,064 Shamea made sure that we were comfortable. 645 00:24:25,097 --> 00:24:27,016 - You have as much time as you need. 646 00:24:27,116 --> 00:24:28,350 Take your time. 647 00:24:28,450 --> 00:24:29,868 - Well, Cha-Cha is definitely ----ing making 648 00:24:29,968 --> 00:24:30,903 herself at home. - There we go. 649 00:24:31,036 --> 00:24:33,072 I mean, as she should. [laughing] 650 00:24:33,105 --> 00:24:35,341 - This was only a temporary solution 651 00:24:35,441 --> 00:24:36,525 to my fix. 652 00:24:36,625 --> 00:24:38,677 However, it's been a great space. 653 00:24:38,777 --> 00:24:40,813 It's time for us to move on. 654 00:24:40,879 --> 00:24:42,197 There we go. [laughing] 655 00:24:42,297 --> 00:24:43,749 - Oh, gotta put some muscle in this thing. 656 00:24:43,882 --> 00:24:46,710 Good gracious. - Listen. 657 00:24:46,810 --> 00:24:48,354 - So, this is the fourth level. 658 00:24:48,454 --> 00:24:49,588 - Oh, this is cute. 659 00:24:49,688 --> 00:24:51,949 - Look at the patio. - Oh, wow. 660 00:24:52,049 --> 00:24:53,317 [gasps] 661 00:24:53,384 --> 00:24:54,727 - All right, we're gonna go down to, 662 00:24:54,827 --> 00:24:57,262 now, the second level. 663 00:24:57,329 --> 00:24:59,098 So, here you go, your family room 664 00:24:59,231 --> 00:25:01,767 and your kitchen. - Wow. 665 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,636 Okay, financially, do you think it's something 666 00:25:04,703 --> 00:25:07,564 that I can do? 667 00:25:07,664 --> 00:25:09,299 'Cause, you know, I have financial fears, right now, 668 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,477 dealing with, um, you know, a kid in college? 669 00:25:11,577 --> 00:25:13,345 - Yeah. - And I haven't really, 670 00:25:13,445 --> 00:25:16,515 um, gotten any support from my ex. 671 00:25:16,582 --> 00:25:18,851 - Well, to be honest... - Mm-hmm. 672 00:25:18,917 --> 00:25:19,818 - If you want to hear my-- 673 00:25:19,885 --> 00:25:20,953 you know I'm gonna keep it one thousand. 674 00:25:20,986 --> 00:25:22,955 - Keep it one thousand with me, sis. 675 00:25:23,088 --> 00:25:24,681 - Financially, you're gonna have to suffer 676 00:25:24,815 --> 00:25:26,417 for a little while, poo. 677 00:25:26,517 --> 00:25:28,018 - Whew. - You can't live the way 678 00:25:28,152 --> 00:25:29,586 you're used to living. 679 00:25:29,686 --> 00:25:34,191 - I'm in a space where I have to put myself 680 00:25:34,324 --> 00:25:35,801 in a position to win, 681 00:25:35,901 --> 00:25:37,469 not only myself but my girls. 682 00:25:37,503 --> 00:25:40,364 I want to provide a similar lifestyle 683 00:25:40,497 --> 00:25:41,924 to what they have experienced. 684 00:25:42,024 --> 00:25:43,434 - Oh, yeah, my first Chanel bag! 685 00:25:43,534 --> 00:25:46,011 [laughing] Oh, this is so cute. 686 00:25:46,145 --> 00:25:49,314 [cheering] I'm thrilled. 687 00:25:49,348 --> 00:25:51,316 - However, I'm gonna be real honest. 688 00:25:51,383 --> 00:25:52,709 It's hard to downsize, 689 00:25:52,843 --> 00:25:54,953 but I definitely do see it as a reset. 690 00:25:55,054 --> 00:25:57,489 So, is it uncomfortable? 691 00:25:57,623 --> 00:25:59,291 Abso- ----ing-lutely. 692 00:25:59,391 --> 00:26:01,718 Um, is it necessarily? Abso-- ----ing—lutely. 693 00:26:01,852 --> 00:26:04,329 And I think that, as women, as mothers, 694 00:26:04,463 --> 00:26:07,499 as single moms, that you have to make some sacrifices. 695 00:26:07,666 --> 00:26:11,120 - The goal is, next year, for you to purchase. 696 00:26:11,220 --> 00:26:12,729 - I-- we-we talked about that, yes. 697 00:26:12,863 --> 00:26:14,339 - Yes. - And I-I really wanna 698 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,741 purchase my dream home. 699 00:26:15,841 --> 00:26:18,844 - So, with that being said, you need to find something 700 00:26:18,944 --> 00:26:21,180 under the budget 701 00:26:21,313 --> 00:26:22,915 so that you can put back. - Okay. 702 00:26:23,015 --> 00:26:24,550 - 'Cause you've gotta save. 703 00:26:24,616 --> 00:26:26,518 [sighs] But, I mean, 704 00:26:26,652 --> 00:26:28,187 these are the sacrifices that we have to make 705 00:26:28,287 --> 00:26:30,689 in order to-to be better. 706 00:26:30,789 --> 00:26:33,459 - Can I at least have a prayer closet and pantry? 707 00:26:33,559 --> 00:26:36,320 - We can find you a prayer closet and a pantry. 708 00:26:36,420 --> 00:26:37,729 - Guess I'll just have to get my steps in 709 00:26:37,796 --> 00:26:39,364 on the stairs. - Yes. 710 00:26:39,498 --> 00:26:40,482 At least your ass will sit up good. 711 00:26:40,582 --> 00:26:42,167 - Just-- oh. [laughing] 712 00:26:42,334 --> 00:26:51,610 ♪♪ 713 00:26:55,906 --> 00:26:58,175 - Here you are. - I made it! 714 00:26:58,275 --> 00:27:00,652 - Oh, excuse me. Sorry. 715 00:27:00,752 --> 00:27:03,280 I'm here, I'm here. 716 00:27:03,413 --> 00:27:06,058 - Ahmauri is heading home soon, and I didn't like 717 00:27:06,191 --> 00:27:08,260 the way our conversation ended. 718 00:27:08,327 --> 00:27:10,662 I didn't want to become estranged from my daughter 719 00:27:10,762 --> 00:27:13,799 because I need my daughter, 720 00:27:13,899 --> 00:27:15,792 and I want my daughter in my life. 721 00:27:15,926 --> 00:27:18,303 She is not someone that I'm willing to throw away 722 00:27:18,403 --> 00:27:20,531 or that I'm willing to not speak to. 723 00:27:20,631 --> 00:27:21,740 Let's get to it. 724 00:27:21,807 --> 00:27:25,244 - So, what would you like to get out of this today? 725 00:27:25,277 --> 00:27:27,946 - I wanna make sure I talk about the boundaries 726 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,749 that you and I spoke about before, 727 00:27:30,916 --> 00:27:33,018 uh, you know, setting boundaries. 728 00:27:33,118 --> 00:27:37,022 And, um... 729 00:27:37,122 --> 00:27:38,891 I wanna make sure I am heard 730 00:27:38,991 --> 00:27:42,394 and that I am here for her. 731 00:27:42,494 --> 00:27:44,763 I want her to feel included, but I also want her 732 00:27:44,930 --> 00:27:47,933 to build a life for herself 733 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,937 and, um, not punish me 734 00:27:51,970 --> 00:27:54,898 for allowing her to do that. 735 00:27:54,998 --> 00:27:57,342 - I didn't understand why I had to tell my siblings. 736 00:27:57,442 --> 00:27:59,178 I didn't see how that was relevant. 737 00:27:59,244 --> 00:28:00,612 I didn't see how that was making 738 00:28:00,646 --> 00:28:02,573 any progression in our relationship. 739 00:28:02,673 --> 00:28:04,449 Like, if I wasn't even comfortable enough 740 00:28:04,583 --> 00:28:06,118 to tell my mom, 741 00:28:06,151 --> 00:28:07,452 what makes you think I'm comfortable 742 00:28:07,553 --> 00:28:09,388 telling my siblings that? 743 00:28:09,488 --> 00:28:10,789 - So, does it make sense to you that 744 00:28:10,923 --> 00:28:12,457 that's what she wants, Ahmauri? 745 00:28:12,624 --> 00:28:14,726 - No, that doesn't make sense to me. 746 00:28:14,826 --> 00:28:16,461 You pushing me away or establishing 747 00:28:16,595 --> 00:28:19,756 your boundaries 748 00:28:19,856 --> 00:28:21,967 oftentimes makes me feel like, 749 00:28:22,100 --> 00:28:24,928 Oh, like, yeah, like, you know, 750 00:28:25,028 --> 00:28:26,638 you don't-- you don't need me. 751 00:28:26,672 --> 00:28:29,174 And I feel like I-I want, you know-- I don't know. 752 00:28:29,241 --> 00:28:31,034 I just really need her now more than ever 753 00:28:31,168 --> 00:28:35,013 since, you know, we lost my grandmother. 754 00:28:35,147 --> 00:28:37,015 - Which is the anniversary of her death now, isn't it? 755 00:28:37,082 --> 00:28:39,551 - Mm-hmm, yes. 756 00:28:39,618 --> 00:28:40,485 - That was hard. - So, it doesn't-- 757 00:28:40,619 --> 00:28:42,487 that's-that's part of what this is about? 758 00:28:42,588 --> 00:28:44,948 - When my grandmother was here, 759 00:28:45,048 --> 00:28:47,559 she used to help us navigate each other 760 00:28:47,626 --> 00:28:49,286 and each other's feelings. 761 00:28:49,386 --> 00:28:52,197 So, not having that, I guess, middleman-- 762 00:28:52,331 --> 00:28:53,165 - Yeah. 763 00:28:53,198 --> 00:28:55,100 - ...it's been proven to be difficult. 764 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,169 - There's such powerful relationships 765 00:28:57,236 --> 00:28:58,503 with your grandmother. 766 00:28:58,637 --> 00:29:00,038 - Yes. - And your mom. 767 00:29:00,105 --> 00:29:02,874 And as you take a breath to let her go, 768 00:29:03,008 --> 00:29:05,744 how do we want to be with each other? 769 00:29:05,844 --> 00:29:09,072 - I feel like my mother being gone 770 00:29:09,206 --> 00:29:11,617 is playing a huge part 771 00:29:11,717 --> 00:29:15,087 in the dynamic in Ahmauri and our relationship. 772 00:29:15,153 --> 00:29:18,690 My mother was definitely the mediator for us. 773 00:29:18,724 --> 00:29:20,959 Her not being here, 774 00:29:21,059 --> 00:29:24,262 like, it's crippling pain. 775 00:29:24,363 --> 00:29:26,390 - Angela, take a look in her eyes. 776 00:29:29,868 --> 00:29:32,095 - Please. 777 00:29:32,229 --> 00:29:33,739 You have pretty eyes. 778 00:29:33,805 --> 00:29:35,474 - Oh, my baby. - Nice job, guys. 779 00:29:35,574 --> 00:29:37,492 You did good with this today. 780 00:29:37,592 --> 00:29:39,069 - Thank you, Wendy. - Thank you. 781 00:29:39,169 --> 00:29:40,712 - So, one takeaway is what? 782 00:29:40,879 --> 00:29:43,273 - The takeaway is, we'll be calling you again 783 00:29:43,407 --> 00:29:44,549 in two weeks 784 00:29:44,683 --> 00:29:47,152 because we have to keep this train moving. 785 00:29:47,252 --> 00:29:48,887 [laughing] - Right. 786 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,181 - Baby steps. - Got you on speed dial. 787 00:29:51,281 --> 00:29:52,491 - Coming up... 788 00:29:52,591 --> 00:29:54,226 - Yeah. - I got ballers on my team. 789 00:29:54,259 --> 00:29:55,861 - What in the world is this? 790 00:29:55,961 --> 00:29:58,188 I literally have my glam and my boyfriend. 791 00:29:58,288 --> 00:30:00,123 - What is our secret code word? 792 00:30:00,257 --> 00:30:02,467 - Help. [laughing] 793 00:30:07,406 --> 00:30:11,376 ♪♪ 794 00:30:11,510 --> 00:30:13,804 ♪ I'm gonna step in the kitchen let me cook a little bit ♪ 795 00:30:13,904 --> 00:30:16,373 ♪ none of y'all mess with my fresh and my fly ♪ 796 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,650 ♪ I'm gonna switch it up any time I see you try ♪ 797 00:30:18,750 --> 00:30:21,420 ♪ in my DMs waiting on a reply ♪ 798 00:30:21,486 --> 00:30:23,213 ♪ pull up let me floss a little bit ♪ 799 00:30:23,313 --> 00:30:25,482 ♪ eeny meeny miny mo ♪ 800 00:30:25,582 --> 00:30:27,392 ♪ they gonna pick me all the time for sure ♪ 801 00:30:27,492 --> 00:30:31,488 - Ahh, the Bailey Bowl Maggie Madness. 802 00:30:31,588 --> 00:30:33,749 This looks so good. 803 00:30:33,815 --> 00:30:35,225 Cynthia and I are coming together 804 00:30:35,325 --> 00:30:37,094 to throw Maggie Madness 805 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:38,562 to honor my mom, 806 00:30:38,628 --> 00:30:41,273 and it's gonna be a 5-on-5 basketball game 807 00:30:41,406 --> 00:30:42,966 because, you know, my mother loved college basketball. 808 00:30:43,066 --> 00:30:44,234 - Yeah. 809 00:30:44,301 --> 00:30:45,469 - I know you don't know a lot about basketball, 810 00:30:45,602 --> 00:30:46,570 but I can teach you, 811 00:30:46,636 --> 00:30:48,413 and we're gonna have a ball. 812 00:30:48,580 --> 00:30:53,769 ♪♪ 813 00:30:53,835 --> 00:30:55,487 - All right, now. 814 00:30:55,587 --> 00:30:57,456 - Ahh, Cynthia! - This ain't looking good. 815 00:30:57,556 --> 00:30:59,791 - Save me! [laughing] 816 00:30:59,891 --> 00:31:02,119 [indistinct]. 817 00:31:02,185 --> 00:31:03,762 Hi. - Hi. 818 00:31:03,862 --> 00:31:05,163 - Okay, my team is here. 819 00:31:05,263 --> 00:31:06,932 Like, I got ballers on my team. 820 00:31:06,998 --> 00:31:08,617 - What in the world is this? 821 00:31:08,683 --> 00:31:10,268 Are these people really in the NBA? 822 00:31:10,368 --> 00:31:12,362 I literally have my glam and my boyfriend. 823 00:31:12,562 --> 00:31:14,072 ♪♪ 824 00:31:14,206 --> 00:31:16,274 - I got LeBron. I got Michael Jordan. 825 00:31:16,341 --> 00:31:17,634 I got-- no, I don't. 826 00:31:17,768 --> 00:31:19,378 I have my husband. 827 00:31:19,478 --> 00:31:21,012 I have my best friend of 25 years. 828 00:31:21,113 --> 00:31:22,139 That's Crystal. 829 00:31:22,272 --> 00:31:23,965 And I have Luke and John. 830 00:31:24,032 --> 00:31:26,151 They helped Derrick to build Big Dave's Cheesesteak. 831 00:31:26,284 --> 00:31:27,844 So, we're coming in heavy. 832 00:31:27,944 --> 00:31:30,113 No pun intended. [laughing] 833 00:31:30,213 --> 00:31:31,807 - How ya doin', P? - I'm good. 834 00:31:35,026 --> 00:31:36,628 [laughing] 835 00:31:36,695 --> 00:31:39,364 - Does the NBA have, like, heavyweight players? 836 00:31:39,464 --> 00:31:40,465 - No. 837 00:31:40,565 --> 00:31:42,626 You know, it's energy is key. 838 00:31:42,726 --> 00:31:45,170 You know, metabolism, you know, it ain't burning. 839 00:31:45,303 --> 00:31:47,731 We can't give you an orange or apple during the game. 840 00:31:47,931 --> 00:31:51,343 ♪♪ 841 00:31:51,476 --> 00:31:52,711 - Hello. 842 00:31:52,811 --> 00:31:55,480 Hey, cheerleader. - Oh, my goodness, you look cute. 843 00:31:55,580 --> 00:31:56,581 - Thank you. 844 00:31:56,681 --> 00:31:58,150 - Not heels to the basketball game. 845 00:31:58,316 --> 00:32:05,248 ♪♪ 846 00:32:05,348 --> 00:32:06,825 - I love basketball. 847 00:32:06,925 --> 00:32:08,518 I talk about basketball. 848 00:32:08,585 --> 00:32:10,720 But playing basketball? 849 00:32:10,854 --> 00:32:12,189 I might can, you know, dribble the ball 850 00:32:12,255 --> 00:32:13,156 a little bit, 851 00:32:13,223 --> 00:32:14,991 pretend to go through my legs, 852 00:32:15,091 --> 00:32:17,169 shoot it, might not make it in, 853 00:32:17,269 --> 00:32:18,837 but at least I shot my shot. 854 00:32:19,004 --> 00:32:25,844 ♪♪ 855 00:32:25,944 --> 00:32:27,746 - I'm feeling very unprepared. 856 00:32:27,846 --> 00:32:30,073 I'm feeling very insecure. 857 00:32:30,207 --> 00:32:31,875 I mean, it is only myself and Mike. 858 00:32:32,008 --> 00:32:33,618 I don't even have a team, right now. 859 00:32:33,718 --> 00:32:35,020 But we're gonna call some people from the hood 860 00:32:35,086 --> 00:32:36,888 around the way and see if they can come through. 861 00:32:37,022 --> 00:32:38,882 [whistle blows] 862 00:32:38,949 --> 00:32:40,592 - You can't be late and talking. 863 00:32:40,692 --> 00:32:42,027 - This is the second Bailey Bowl, 864 00:32:42,127 --> 00:32:45,355 and I'm so honored to do it with Angela 865 00:32:45,422 --> 00:32:47,290 in celebration of her mother. 866 00:32:47,390 --> 00:32:49,901 [applause] 867 00:32:50,035 --> 00:32:52,387 - I'm gonna tell everybody their team names. 868 00:32:52,454 --> 00:32:53,505 Pinky... 869 00:32:53,638 --> 00:32:55,540 - Your team is called Team Chatty Patty 870 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,133 for the obvious reasons. 871 00:32:57,234 --> 00:32:59,561 [laughing] 872 00:32:59,628 --> 00:33:01,713 - Next up, we name Phaedra's team 873 00:33:01,780 --> 00:33:03,565 the Godfather, baby. 874 00:33:03,632 --> 00:33:05,851 - Oh, that's right, of Atlanta. 875 00:33:05,984 --> 00:33:06,685 - So, if we don't win, 876 00:33:06,818 --> 00:33:07,978 we're just gonna have you killed. 877 00:33:08,078 --> 00:33:10,080 - Oh! [laughing] 878 00:33:10,146 --> 00:33:11,556 Uh, no, ma'am. 879 00:33:11,623 --> 00:33:13,884 - I don't think these ladies are ready for the Godfather 880 00:33:13,950 --> 00:33:15,452 because I have a real strategy. 881 00:33:15,585 --> 00:33:18,096 Everybody on my team is very athletic, 882 00:33:18,230 --> 00:33:19,322 and the girls seem to like Trey. 883 00:33:19,422 --> 00:33:22,250 So, hopefully, we'll knock ‘em off their game. 884 00:33:22,317 --> 00:33:24,870 - Uh, next, I'm gonna introduce the person 885 00:33:25,003 --> 00:33:27,264 who always talks about my height. 886 00:33:27,330 --> 00:33:28,607 This is my little sister. 887 00:33:28,707 --> 00:33:32,444 I call her minion-- Team Minion, Kelli. 888 00:33:32,544 --> 00:33:35,105 - Give it up for Kelli Ferrell. 889 00:33:35,171 --> 00:33:36,172 Yes! 890 00:33:36,306 --> 00:33:37,983 - This is Angela's way of reminding me 891 00:33:38,083 --> 00:33:41,786 what she wishes her shoe size was, a minion. 892 00:33:41,887 --> 00:33:44,856 - K. thinks everybody is out to get her. 893 00:33:44,956 --> 00:33:46,424 So, the name of your team is Blind Opposition. 894 00:33:46,491 --> 00:33:48,894 - Blind Opps. - ‘Cause we ain't your opps. 895 00:33:49,027 --> 00:33:50,595 - Wow. - Oh, okay, whatever. 896 00:33:50,662 --> 00:33:52,197 [laughing] 897 00:33:52,297 --> 00:33:55,450 - All right, and last but not least, Shamea. 898 00:33:55,517 --> 00:33:56,902 Go ahead, Angela. - Oh, Shamea likes to talk 899 00:33:57,035 --> 00:34:00,338 about my size 11 and a half shoe. 900 00:34:00,438 --> 00:34:02,032 - A lot. - So, I felt like 901 00:34:02,132 --> 00:34:04,793 now is the time to give her the name 902 00:34:04,859 --> 00:34:06,636 Team Sasquatch. 903 00:34:06,770 --> 00:34:07,779 - Whoo! 904 00:34:07,946 --> 00:34:10,248 ♪♪ 905 00:34:10,382 --> 00:34:12,509 - We are having a single elimination, 906 00:34:12,642 --> 00:34:14,853 five-on-five basketball game, 907 00:34:14,953 --> 00:34:18,181 and whoever loses has to go home. 908 00:34:18,281 --> 00:34:21,651 - Look what we got! Ahh! 909 00:34:21,718 --> 00:34:23,962 - What is our secret code word? 910 00:34:24,062 --> 00:34:25,830 - Help. [laughing] 911 00:34:25,931 --> 00:34:27,299 - We're ready. 912 00:34:27,399 --> 00:34:28,658 On court A, 913 00:34:28,725 --> 00:34:31,570 this is Team Fangie versus Team 50 Cynt. 914 00:34:31,670 --> 00:34:33,705 Cynthia's team doesn't have a shot. 915 00:34:33,805 --> 00:34:36,441 - No, I don't know if the-the talent she had 916 00:34:36,575 --> 00:34:37,667 can match your talent. 917 00:34:37,734 --> 00:34:39,469 - So, you got the ball. 918 00:34:39,569 --> 00:34:42,038 - Oh, we got the ball. - Okay. 919 00:34:43,148 --> 00:34:44,833 - Oh! - Ahh! 920 00:34:44,899 --> 00:34:46,985 - Damn. - What happened? 921 00:34:47,052 --> 00:34:48,178 - Fall on the floor. 922 00:34:48,244 --> 00:34:49,654 Most times, it's-it's a injury 923 00:34:49,754 --> 00:34:51,990 because if you don't get right back up. 924 00:34:52,090 --> 00:34:53,083 - Time out. 925 00:34:53,183 --> 00:34:54,017 - Let's go. Go! 926 00:34:54,084 --> 00:34:55,752 - But you didn't come check on me. 927 00:34:55,852 --> 00:34:57,662 - If you had been there more than 30 seconds, 928 00:34:57,762 --> 00:34:59,556 I would have been running like Superman. 929 00:34:59,656 --> 00:35:01,166 - I was there longer than 30 seconds, 930 00:35:01,266 --> 00:35:03,560 and you didn't come. - No, I didn't have my cape. 931 00:35:03,693 --> 00:35:05,937 [laughing] 932 00:35:06,037 --> 00:35:09,065 - Oh, my God! - That was not hard. 933 00:35:09,165 --> 00:35:11,176 - Strawberry Shortcake has on the, you know, 934 00:35:11,242 --> 00:35:13,378 stilettos and socks. 935 00:35:13,511 --> 00:35:15,105 - Ahh! 936 00:35:15,205 --> 00:35:17,382 [laughing] - Get it! Get it! 937 00:35:17,515 --> 00:35:20,618 - It's sorta giving cosplay prostitution. 938 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:21,753 Y'all remember that prostitute who used to wear 939 00:35:21,853 --> 00:35:24,122 baby doll socks and heels? 940 00:35:24,222 --> 00:35:25,757 - You can't be good at everything! 941 00:35:25,857 --> 00:35:28,084 (BLEEP) them cheesesteaks! [whistle blows] 942 00:35:32,130 --> 00:35:33,723 - I don't wear sneakers. 943 00:35:33,790 --> 00:35:36,092 - Let's go, Sasquatch! Let's go! 944 00:35:36,192 --> 00:35:38,370 - Do you know why I named her Team Sasquatch? 945 00:35:38,470 --> 00:35:39,562 Because she said I have big feet, 946 00:35:39,629 --> 00:35:41,306 and I'm Team Sasquatch. - I mean, well, 947 00:35:41,406 --> 00:35:43,541 everybody knows you wear, you know-- 948 00:35:43,642 --> 00:35:45,343 uh, have a large size. 949 00:35:45,477 --> 00:35:48,246 How you walk around wearing a size six or seven? 950 00:35:48,346 --> 00:35:49,814 You're gonna fall over. 951 00:35:49,914 --> 00:35:52,083 - Here we go, Sasquatch! Here we go! 952 00:35:52,183 --> 00:35:54,044 Oh! 953 00:35:54,110 --> 00:35:56,780 Let's go, Sasquatch! Let's go! 954 00:35:57,881 --> 00:36:00,050 Come on! Come on! Let's go! 955 00:36:00,150 --> 00:36:02,060 Oh! - Okay, Jordan. 956 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,762 [whistle blows] - Ballgame! 957 00:36:03,862 --> 00:36:05,563 Ballgame-- 12-1! 958 00:36:05,630 --> 00:36:07,298 - Not freaking fair! 959 00:36:07,399 --> 00:36:09,325 - Want some champagne? [laughing] 960 00:36:09,526 --> 00:36:11,586 ♪♪ 961 00:36:11,653 --> 00:36:14,756 - Shamea did her homework. She had talent. 962 00:36:14,823 --> 00:36:16,132 She was geeked. 963 00:36:16,232 --> 00:36:17,709 I-I thought she was back at Atlanta Falcons day 964 00:36:17,842 --> 00:36:19,244 when she was a dancer. 965 00:36:19,411 --> 00:36:23,081 ♪♪ 966 00:36:23,181 --> 00:36:25,216 - Yeah! - Losing, right now. 967 00:36:25,350 --> 00:36:27,410 - Thank you! 968 00:36:27,510 --> 00:36:28,686 Come on, ref! Open your eyes! 969 00:36:28,787 --> 00:36:29,746 He fouled her! - Come on. 970 00:36:29,846 --> 00:36:31,106 - It was out of bounds. 971 00:36:31,172 --> 00:36:32,315 - I think it was personal. 972 00:36:32,415 --> 00:36:34,125 Something's going on between her and Shamea, 973 00:36:34,225 --> 00:36:35,293 for real though. 974 00:36:35,393 --> 00:36:37,862 - Come on-- game point! 975 00:36:39,122 --> 00:36:41,783 [cheering] 976 00:36:44,069 --> 00:36:45,570 - Oh, stank-ass. 977 00:36:45,704 --> 00:36:48,273 - I wanted to win this for you. 978 00:36:48,373 --> 00:36:49,274 - Thank you. 979 00:36:49,340 --> 00:36:50,975 - Because I know you have never won... 980 00:36:51,076 --> 00:36:54,204 ...a championship game. - See? 981 00:36:54,304 --> 00:36:55,205 - You know you came close in college. 982 00:36:55,305 --> 00:36:58,808 - Yeah. Yeah. - Came close in the NBA. 983 00:36:58,875 --> 00:37:01,286 But it took me to bring it home. 984 00:37:01,386 --> 00:37:03,480 I got us a championship! 985 00:37:03,613 --> 00:37:05,482 - Thank you. Thank you. - I am the champion. 986 00:37:05,548 --> 00:37:07,292 - Thank you. Okay. - I don't want a kiss. 987 00:37:07,392 --> 00:37:08,960 - All right. Ooh. - I don't want a kiss. 988 00:37:09,027 --> 00:37:10,562 - Remember that one. 989 00:37:12,297 --> 00:37:13,656 - Give me a kiss. 990 00:37:13,723 --> 00:37:16,985 Give me a kiss. - Why do you need a kiss? 991 00:37:18,570 --> 00:37:19,904 - That wasn't no kiss. 992 00:37:20,004 --> 00:37:20,905 - Oh, I'm good. Thank you, though. 993 00:37:21,005 --> 00:37:22,006 - Thank you. Thank you, beautiful. 994 00:37:22,073 --> 00:37:24,159 Now, you're way nicer than your mama. 995 00:37:24,225 --> 00:37:26,711 - If you're not one of the team captains, 996 00:37:26,811 --> 00:37:28,838 you guys can go out and get refreshments. 997 00:37:28,905 --> 00:37:30,306 We got tacos. 998 00:37:30,406 --> 00:37:31,249 We got slushies. 999 00:37:31,349 --> 00:37:33,918 The Bailey Bowl, with Maggie Madness, 1000 00:37:34,018 --> 00:37:36,504 is a huge success. 1001 00:37:36,571 --> 00:37:39,382 Now, it is a little suspect that Angela sat up here 1002 00:37:39,482 --> 00:37:41,017 and won her own tournament. 1003 00:37:41,084 --> 00:37:43,753 - Thank you, guys, for coming. 1004 00:37:43,853 --> 00:37:44,854 [applause] 1005 00:37:44,921 --> 00:37:46,514 All y'all brought you're A-game. 1006 00:37:46,581 --> 00:37:47,632 - Yes. 1007 00:37:47,766 --> 00:37:49,000 - Even though you knew you was gonna win 1008 00:37:49,067 --> 00:37:50,268 with them basketball players. - Right. 1009 00:37:50,368 --> 00:37:51,703 - I had a surprise. Y'all are lucky. 1010 00:37:51,803 --> 00:37:53,171 Y'all are lucky. I took it easy. 1011 00:37:53,271 --> 00:37:55,098 K, I see you Xed out your name. 1012 00:37:55,198 --> 00:37:57,776 "Only opp is in opportunity." 1013 00:37:57,876 --> 00:37:59,677 I like that, though. - That's good. 1014 00:37:59,811 --> 00:38:01,546 - I see you. I see you. 1015 00:38:01,646 --> 00:38:03,006 - That was cute. - That's a bar. 1016 00:38:03,106 --> 00:38:04,716 "Only opp in opportunity." - That was cute. 1017 00:38:04,849 --> 00:38:06,701 - Shamea, where is Gerald? - He's working. 1018 00:38:06,768 --> 00:38:07,610 It's a workday. 1019 00:38:07,710 --> 00:38:08,378 - She said we ain't got sh-- to do, 1020 00:38:08,444 --> 00:38:09,287 'cause we're just here. 1021 00:38:09,387 --> 00:38:10,221 - I know, Shamea, you mentioned that 1022 00:38:10,321 --> 00:38:11,656 I was coming for your marriage. 1023 00:38:11,790 --> 00:38:14,083 - Shamea is definitely, like, 1024 00:38:14,217 --> 00:38:16,052 "Attacking my marriage and my this." 1025 00:38:16,119 --> 00:38:17,520 - Attacking her marriage? 1026 00:38:17,620 --> 00:38:20,965 - Uh, Hawks games and players and all this, yeah. 1027 00:38:21,065 --> 00:38:22,892 - Yes. Yeah, I said that. 1028 00:38:22,959 --> 00:38:26,054 And that couldn't have been further from the truth. 1029 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,206 And I feel like you are spreading 1030 00:38:28,306 --> 00:38:29,766 that narrative about me, 1031 00:38:29,899 --> 00:38:31,543 and if we're talking about patterns, 1032 00:38:31,643 --> 00:38:34,379 you were the one who said that you thought 1033 00:38:34,445 --> 00:38:35,713 I set my husband up. 1034 00:38:35,814 --> 00:38:38,208 - Do you think that Phaedra really set Angela up 1035 00:38:38,274 --> 00:38:39,609 for that whole scene? 1036 00:38:39,709 --> 00:38:40,818 - No one even knew that you and Charles were gonna be 1037 00:38:40,919 --> 00:38:43,855 at that event, from what I'm-- what I've heard. 1038 00:38:43,988 --> 00:38:45,740 So, it kinda feels like somethin' that 1039 00:38:45,807 --> 00:38:47,584 her and Drew might have set up themselves. 1040 00:38:47,650 --> 00:38:49,085 Mm-hmm. - And then you're saying 1041 00:38:49,152 --> 00:38:50,094 that you knew my husband, 1042 00:38:50,195 --> 00:38:52,096 and he was outside and all these things. 1043 00:38:52,230 --> 00:38:54,999 ♪♪ 1044 00:39:01,731 --> 00:39:04,108 - You were the one who said that you thought 1045 00:39:04,175 --> 00:39:05,835 I set my husband up. - Mm-hmm. 1046 00:39:05,935 --> 00:39:07,770 - And then you're saying that you knew my husband, 1047 00:39:07,837 --> 00:39:10,114 and he was outside and all these things. 1048 00:39:10,215 --> 00:39:12,450 - Okay, Angela, you were the one that said, 1049 00:39:12,517 --> 00:39:13,785 "You're only with the Hawks, 1050 00:39:13,918 --> 00:39:15,320 "so you can have easy access to the players 1051 00:39:15,420 --> 00:39:16,354 "'cause you (BLEEP) all of 'em." 1052 00:39:16,421 --> 00:39:17,488 - Oh! - Wow. 1053 00:39:17,622 --> 00:39:18,923 - Now, to me, that's coming for my marriage. 1054 00:39:18,990 --> 00:39:20,250 - You never did? Are you sure about that? 1055 00:39:20,350 --> 00:39:21,726 - Please bring forth somebody. Yes, I would love-- 1056 00:39:21,793 --> 00:39:22,827 Bring ‘em to me. 1057 00:39:22,961 --> 00:39:24,996 You became relevant because of your last name 1058 00:39:25,096 --> 00:39:26,297 because you ----ed a NBA player. 1059 00:39:26,397 --> 00:39:27,298 - Whoa. - Uh, and married him. 1060 00:39:27,398 --> 00:39:28,800 - Oakley. - Whoa, no. 1061 00:39:28,867 --> 00:39:29,367 - And married him. - You had to (BLEEP) him first, right? 1062 00:39:29,467 --> 00:39:30,368 - And married him. 1063 00:39:31,469 --> 00:39:32,837 - Girl! 1064 00:39:32,971 --> 00:39:36,174 - In this moment, Angela, there's a lot of other things 1065 00:39:36,274 --> 00:39:38,643 to worry about other than Shamea. 1066 00:39:38,710 --> 00:39:39,677 From our conversation, 1067 00:39:39,777 --> 00:39:41,813 your mother is everything to you. 1068 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,349 Shamea is going to twerk and be Shamea. 1069 00:39:44,482 --> 00:39:46,050 You can't do that. 1070 00:39:46,184 --> 00:39:47,610 - Do y'all think that there is a way that we can move-- 1071 00:39:47,710 --> 00:39:49,846 - I will never mention your name regarding Shamea, again. 1072 00:39:49,946 --> 00:39:51,723 - Hallelujah! - Any issue I have for Shamea, 1073 00:39:51,856 --> 00:39:53,725 is how she shows up for me, and that's just what it is. 1074 00:39:53,858 --> 00:39:56,219 - I think y'all have other-- way more issues besides me. 1075 00:39:56,319 --> 00:39:58,488 - No, it's not. It started with you and that-- 1076 00:39:58,554 --> 00:39:59,697 in Nashville. - See? 1077 00:39:59,797 --> 00:40:01,032 - It's a pattern. 1078 00:40:01,132 --> 00:40:02,367 - Not you amen-ing, lapdog. - No, it's true. 1079 00:40:02,500 --> 00:40:03,726 I have to agree because your issue with me-- 1080 00:40:03,826 --> 00:40:04,669 - Not you-- I'm just saying but when I agree-- 1081 00:40:04,769 --> 00:40:06,638 but when I agree with people against you, 1082 00:40:06,704 --> 00:40:08,039 you call me a lapdog. - Your issue-- 1083 00:40:08,172 --> 00:40:08,873 but your issue with me only started because of Porsha. 1084 00:40:09,007 --> 00:40:10,008 - So, what are you being, right now? 1085 00:40:10,074 --> 00:40:10,566 ‘Cause I'm not even talking to you. 1086 00:40:10,667 --> 00:40:11,534 I'm talking to her. 1087 00:40:11,634 --> 00:40:12,735 - What happened with you and Drew? 1088 00:40:12,869 --> 00:40:14,737 I thought you guys were gonna try to work it out. 1089 00:40:14,871 --> 00:40:15,880 - It's not a negative thing that I don't wanna-- 1090 00:40:16,014 --> 00:40:17,015 - We can't talk. There's nothing to talk about. 1091 00:40:17,148 --> 00:40:17,982 When we tried to talk, she got up and left. 1092 00:40:18,049 --> 00:40:19,751 It's like, it is what it is. 1093 00:40:19,884 --> 00:40:21,085 Goodbye to you. - Well, I got up and left you 1094 00:40:21,185 --> 00:40:22,587 because you started calling me a lapdog, again. 1095 00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:23,988 - Girl, 'cause you were being that. 1096 00:40:24,055 --> 00:40:24,922 I only keep it 100. 1097 00:40:28,718 --> 00:40:29,694 - I'm sick of my lap. 1098 00:40:29,794 --> 00:40:32,096 I'm really-- my lap is empty. - Off the lap, baby. 1099 00:40:32,196 --> 00:40:33,364 - And then y'all keep bringing it up. 1100 00:40:33,464 --> 00:40:34,599 - It's okay. It's okay. 1101 00:40:34,732 --> 00:40:36,267 - So, Shamea, you good? - Yeah, I'm-I'm okay. 1102 00:40:36,367 --> 00:40:37,593 - Are you and K. good, too? - Yes. 1103 00:40:37,694 --> 00:40:38,594 - Yeah. - Okay. 1104 00:40:38,695 --> 00:40:39,370 - What-what was wrong with me and K? 1105 00:40:39,437 --> 00:40:40,438 - I just felt a little energy. 1106 00:40:40,505 --> 00:40:41,839 I just wanted to make sure y'all was good. 1107 00:40:41,906 --> 00:40:43,841 - Shamea say to me, 1108 00:40:43,908 --> 00:40:45,735 "And I just hope you'll be loyal to me. 1109 00:40:45,835 --> 00:40:48,212 "I hope you'll be my friend because none of my friends 1110 00:40:48,279 --> 00:40:49,939 "want me to be your friend." 1111 00:40:50,039 --> 00:40:53,084 So, when I got to the car, I'm literally crying by then. 1112 00:40:53,184 --> 00:40:53,885 - You was crying? 1113 00:40:53,952 --> 00:40:54,886 - Yeah, because you keep on. 1114 00:40:54,952 --> 00:40:56,187 - It's heavy. - It's heavy. 1115 00:40:56,254 --> 00:40:57,513 - That's not right. 1116 00:40:57,613 --> 00:40:58,690 - What energy do you feel? - You know, I just feel-- 1117 00:40:58,790 --> 00:41:00,416 I just feel a disconnect. I don't know what I feel. 1118 00:41:00,516 --> 00:41:01,225 - Where? - Here. 1119 00:41:01,292 --> 00:41:02,251 - It is a disconnect. 1120 00:41:02,352 --> 00:41:03,194 - Yeah, a little somethin'-somethin'. 1121 00:41:03,261 --> 00:41:04,287 I feel somethin' in the air. 1122 00:41:04,420 --> 00:41:05,530 I don't know. - No. What do you mean? 1123 00:41:05,630 --> 00:41:07,165 - I'm just looking, and watching, taking it in, 1124 00:41:07,231 --> 00:41:08,291 observing, like always. I'm just-- 1125 00:41:08,391 --> 00:41:09,934 - Runnin' the opps. - I-I don't know. 1126 00:41:10,068 --> 00:41:12,295 I mean, if there's somebody that-- 1127 00:41:12,395 --> 00:41:13,938 - The energy does not lie. 1128 00:41:14,038 --> 00:41:17,475 - No, no, no, not you, Pinky, no, no beef, 1129 00:41:17,608 --> 00:41:21,813 just vegan, but I feel like, in the moment of this game, 1130 00:41:21,913 --> 00:41:24,640 everyone's attacking Shamea for everything. 1131 00:41:24,741 --> 00:41:25,650 If I'm your friend, 1132 00:41:25,717 --> 00:41:28,419 you should find out just for me. 1133 00:41:28,486 --> 00:41:30,780 - Angela, we had a great time. 1134 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,425 I hope you felt like your mom was memorialized 1135 00:41:34,492 --> 00:41:35,426 in a positive way. - I really did. I really did. 1136 00:41:35,493 --> 00:41:36,894 - And we would like to give you a hug, 1137 00:41:36,961 --> 00:41:40,164 if we could just end it with that, everybody. 1138 00:41:40,298 --> 00:41:43,101 [collective chatter] 1139 00:41:43,201 --> 00:41:45,928 - This so fake, so disingenuous. 1140 00:41:45,995 --> 00:41:47,171 Why can't we right our wrongs? 1141 00:41:47,238 --> 00:41:49,599 Why can't we nip things in the bud and move forward? 1142 00:41:49,665 --> 00:41:51,943 Why is it that when you address a problem with one person, 1143 00:41:52,010 --> 00:41:54,270 now everybody wants to attach themselves 1144 00:41:54,337 --> 00:41:57,448 to that problem and attack that person? 1145 00:41:57,582 --> 00:41:58,975 I don't even know what I did wrong. 1146 00:41:59,075 --> 00:42:01,018 I get it, you don't want me to be a part of the friend group. 1147 00:42:01,119 --> 00:42:03,846 I get it, and it's hurtful, 1148 00:42:03,980 --> 00:42:06,349 and it makes me not want to be a part of the friend group. 1149 00:42:06,449 --> 00:42:08,326 - Let's get on this plane to Scotland. 1150 00:42:08,426 --> 00:42:10,486 - That's right. - Yay! 1151 00:42:10,586 --> 00:42:12,463 - Cheers to Scotland. - Let's go. 1152 00:42:12,530 --> 00:42:13,464 - Next time, 1153 00:42:13,531 --> 00:42:16,192 on "The Real Housewives of Atlanta"... 1154 00:42:16,325 --> 00:42:17,635 - We are in Scotland. 1155 00:42:17,735 --> 00:42:20,029 - Oh, my God! 1156 00:42:20,163 --> 00:42:21,664 - That's our Black Scot. 1157 00:42:23,941 --> 00:42:25,109 - She's obsessed. 1158 00:42:25,176 --> 00:42:27,111 - Don't talk about me if you're not gonna say 1159 00:42:27,178 --> 00:42:28,479 the sh-- to my face! 1160 00:42:28,546 --> 00:42:31,007 Peek-a-boo! I see you! 1161 00:42:31,107 --> 00:42:32,884 - You said to me, "K., you've come in my life 1162 00:42:32,950 --> 00:42:35,019 "like a hurricane." I said, "Good or bad?" 1163 00:42:35,119 --> 00:42:36,804 You said, "Both."