(dramatic music)
- I love everything.
I don't know why I do what I do.
- The condition of his house has affected our relationship
to the point where I have never been inside Nathan's house.
- I just don't know who I am
and that's probably why I have a lot of (beep) in here.
I can't heal if I can't know that I'm okay being who I am.
Oh, good to see you.
- It's been eight years since I've seen Nathan.
I am so excited to see inside.
- I'm the mother of 14 children.
- It's hard to remember her happy.
- I will be so upset at throwing away.
- When you grow up in an abusive household,
it tends to leave a mark.
- I would like an apology.
- Hi, oh my goodness.
I am really excited to see Dorothy.
- I wanna go see her now.
Oh no, it happened.
She's right back in the hoard.
(dramatic music)
(suspenseful music)
(upbeat music)
- I am Nathan. I'm 34 years old
and I'm a scavenger.
I get a rush off finding things.
Ooh, green glass.
Jokingly I say I have ADOS.
Attention deficit ooh shiny.
Sweet, I'll take it. Yeah.
- I'm Kathy Nathan's mother.
Just something about the shiny things he likes.
Shiny rocks, ball caps, anything shiny.
So many things.
I mean, just so many things.
- [Nathan] I have a lot of hot wheels.
I love glass.
I have a lot of puppets.
I've always loved rocks, troll dolls.
I love everything.
I don't know why I do what I do.
- I am Ronald and Nathan is my son.
Nathan definitely looking for a pot of gold
at the end of the rainbow.
(emotional music)
- [Kathy] Nathan was five or six when we divorced.
It was very hard.
It was very difficult.
- When I started scavenging to deal with tension at home,
I filled the void in my life with stuff.
(emotional music)
The church that I grew up in,
I loved everyone there, and
they turned their back on me.
My Christian faith teaches me
that homosexuality is wrong.
- [Kathy] His dad and stepmother was telling Nathan
that he was going to go to hell and die with aids.
Just very upsetting.
He is going to be evicted if he doesn't clean up the house.
- This is the lowest I've ever been in my life.
(dramatic music)
- Hi Nathan. - Hey, how are you?
- I'm great.
I'm Dr. Green.
- Nice to meet you. - Come on out.
I'm Dr. Melva Green, a psychiatrist
specializing in hoarding behaviors.
As soon as Nathan comes out and he and his brother embrace,
it's very clear that they care a lot about each other.
And it was a very tender moment.
- Come on in.
- When I first walked inside,
predominant themes of puppets, cars,
back to the childhood Peter Pan toys.
(emotional music)
- [Dr. Green] There's a whole lot of silence here.
What's really going on?
It's unclear whether or not Nathan
just doesn't have the words to express
what's going on with him,
or that he's really just too embarrassed
to talk about it in front of his brother.
(emotional music)
- I know how they...
Like my dad, I know how he felt about it with the church.
And I know how he still feels about it.
And, you know, I respect his belief.
- Nathan has grown up in a place
where homosexuality is just unacceptable.
- It's not something I believe myself to be wrong.
- He has put on this face,
it's almost as if he's put on one of his puppets
and moved through his life, hiding behind these masks.
Well, as you start to let this stuff go,
you're gonna have to say some things as well.
People are gonna have to hear some things that
are gonna be tough to hear.
Are you willing?
- Yeah.
- Okay.
(emotional music)
- Good morning everyone. - Good morning.
- I'm Standolyn Robertson,
a certified professional organizer.
The doctor and I want to really team up
with you and your family to help you through this process.
- From my perspective, I think this is gonna be important
to have a lot of conversation.
There have been a lot of things
that perhaps may not have been said.
Nathan is angry.
Nathan has been holding a tremendous amount of resentment
towards his father.
But until he begins getting rid of the emotional hoard,
nothing's gonna change.
He's just gonna continue to do what he's been doing.
(dramatic music)
- So, let's start.
We'll just start here.
- We'll keep...
And Twinky..
- Okay and the rest of these?
- Donate.
- If this was this easy, why are we here?
- It's not easy for me.
I'm just trying to be strong.
One keep.
See, it's getting a little harder.
I'm not gonna get crabby though.
- The humor is a great psychological defense mechanism,
but ultimately it's concerning that
they really aren't getting into the deep.
They're really not communicating things
that really need to be communicated.
(dramatic music)
Nathan, I want you to tell your father what it is
that you are really holding onto.
- Do you think being gay is a sin?
- Yes, to me it is.
But can I judge someone?
I can't.
- But I can't heal myself
if I can't know that I'm okay being who I am.
- Nathan, I accept you the way you are.
Will you accept me the way I am?
- That's not accepting.
- I'm not asking you to change.
I think you're asking me to change.
- If you're gonna have deeper connections with your father
and with your family,
you're gonna have to accept you 1000%.
How are you?
- I'm fine, how are you? - Good, this is so pretty.
- I was called into the room
because Nathan has had a problem with his dad
because of his sexuality.
- I've just wanted dad to accept who I am.
- It doesn't matter whether you're gay, it doesn't matter.
We're all different people.
But that doesn't mean we love you any less.
- But there is so much wisdom there
and so much love for you.
You really wanna live and not just continue to exist.
You better let it go.
(emotional music)
The issue is self-acceptance.
Ronald accepting Ronald as he is,
and Nathan accepting Nathan as he is.
That's the real healing.
That's the real transformation.
(emotional music)
- What is your decision with all these items on this table?
- Every bit of it needs to go-
- All of it? - All of it?
- All of it.
- Ron, that's all donate - Trash probably.
- [Dr. Green] Nathan has gotten rid of many of the things
that have held him stuck in very childlike
and immature behaviors.
- Donate? - Yep.
- Nathan is finally growing up.
(dramatic music)
- [Nathan] Wow.
- [Ronald] This is amazing transformation.
I mean, there's so much clear space.
- When this began, everyone had tears.
Tears of sadness, tears of shame, tears of guilt.
But they're all radiating with a very beautiful glow now,
it's like the weights have been lifted off of
each and every one of their shoulders.
- Holy cow.
Very nice.
- What I like about this room,
I feel like it's not a child's room.
This room belongs to a man.
- That was kind of the first thought I had when I walked in.
For my family to come and help me with this,
for y'all to come and help me,
that's just really a message of love.
(emotional music)
(upbeat guitar music)
Oh my gosh, hey. - Hey.
- Oh, good to see you.
- [Standolyn] It's been eight years since I've seen Nathan.
I'm really proud of the work we did before
and so I'm looking forward to seeing
his progress and where he is now.
Start from we left and what happened next.
- Well, y'all left and it was about a month later,
I guess, that I decided it was just time to move back home.
After my episode ended, I moved back to Florida.
I stayed with my dad for or six years.
- Okay, what happened to all the stuff when you moved here?
- It's still here, it's in a pod.
I just basically packed up everything
and moved back to my dad.
- Yeah, you moved back.
So things were good?
- Yeah, yeah, they're still good.
They're so much better now. - Good.
Why?
- You.
- No, I mean there...
Is it just dealing with your stuff
changed that relationship?
- No, I think a lot of things changed that.
I think that, you know, doing the show really,
like that was the first time that my parents
had been around each other in 30 years.
- Oh yeah. - So-
- Yeah. - And they came
together for me like-
- That's huge.
- Yeah, it is. - Yeah.
- It still feels kind of bad though that the stuff is
still packed up.
It's like I took what I thought was my life there
and moved it here, but then, you know,
I realized that's not really my life.
My life is not my stuff.
- What did you do afterwards?
Did you do any therapy sessions?
Did you work with an organizer?
- No more organizers 'cause you're the best,
but- - Thank you.
- I did therapy and completed that.
- So I'm interested,
like when you were at your dad's,
any of the things that came outta our session as far as how
to maintain and take care of things.
Were you able to keep up with it?
- It took a long time for me to learn
to start developing habits. - Yeah.
- That was the biggest thing like,
you know, knowing not to pick up this stuff
that I liked on the side of the road or-
- Right, so did that stop?
- No, that's still there.
I still see the shiny stuff
and still I'm tempted to go look-
- But you don't, you don't?
Okay, so how did you get from shiny stuff,
I gotta take it home to where you are now?
- A lot of help.
A lot of help from a lot of people.
- Okay. - Like yourself.
The show, the therapy, my family.
And then just really recognizing that it's happening.
Like recognizing when it's happening and
moving forward, you know.
- [Standolyn] I am absolutely proud of Nathan.
I think he's prioritizing what's important
and that's what counts.
He's focusing on friendships, family,
relationships and all of that's really good.
So we gotta be clear.
This is a new place.
So you've made the change to move here?
- I moved out of dad's just to basically have my...
Or a space where I felt a little more comfortable.
- Yeah. - And he felt more comfortable.
Here I can have a lot of peace.
- [Standolyn] Okay, so you're living with a friend here?
- Yeah, yeah. - Okay.
- [Nathan] So I work on the land.
That's mostly how I would help my roommate.
He's got a bad back
and this stuff's just really hard for him to do by himself.
He needed help and I needed a place,
a room of my own that, you know,
I wasn't given a lot of grief over
how it looked or how I kept it.
He's taught me a lot about structure
and has his own routine that
I've kind of picked up on his routine.
- [Standolyn] Okay, so there could be some good things
with having a routine.
You know, that consistency.
Some of the things we talked about before,
you're doing it here?
- I am. - You're maintaining.
- Yeah. - I am so excited to see inside.
- I can't wait to show you.
- Okay- - Let's go look.
(upbeat guitar music)
- [Standolyn] So this is a new place.
We're not in the same place we were in Georgia.
So it's different.
I don't know when I'm gonna see.
For all I know he has gone back to some of his old habits
and this place could be filled with who knows what.
- Come on in.
Oh.
So here it is.
- Looking good in here. - Thank you.
- In Georgia, in the shared space, there was a lot going on.
So I notice that it's really different here, so.
It's clear paths, the counters look good.
All of that.
So are you nervous about me being here?
- Oh yeah, yeah.
- [Standolyn] Okay, what's that all about?
What's-
- Well, you know, I want for you to be proud of me.
You know, there's...
For you to see that I've picked up
some of the things you've told me to do.
- Okay. - And really put 'em to use.
- I am proud of you.
The fact that you came on TV and said,
"this is my struggle."
Do you know how many people you helped by just saying this?
You're a nice young person.
You came on camera and you said, "I'm struggling with this."
You helped so many people by doing that.
- Oh, thank you for saying that.
- Yeah, no, you did.
- I wanna show everyone that they can do it themselves.
- Yeah. - You know?
- Yeah, yeah.
That's a nice message to give that.
That you were willing to do...
And everybody's situation is different.
- Yeah. - You know, for some people
they may not be able to maintain the level that you have,
but everybody is working hard at this,
so I really appreciate you inviting us back
and so that we could see just your progress.
Let's look around.
So the space looks really good.
There's movies, DVDs.
So are you sitting here with friends?
You and your roommate? - Oh yeah.
Yeah, we have a bunch of friends come over and
it's so much different when it's clean.
Like to be able to do that-
- Clean and organized. That's the thing.
You can get into a space that's clean but not organized.
And this appears to be organized
and that's what's allowing you to be free to have fun.
- I wouldn't have had anybody in my house there, you know.
- Yeah - It was embarrassment.
You know, people come over and...
But then that also leads to not having friends.
You know, when you don't have them over,
you know, people are like, "why won't he let me come over
to his house?" - Yeah.
It was great to see how well he kept the common area.
He has a family room that's set up to invite friends over.
It's more about comradery with friends
rather than focusing on the stuff in his life.
Wow, this looks really good.
- [Nathan] Thank you.
Yeah, I try to keep it simple.
- Do you feel good about this?
- Yeah, I do, yeah. - Yeah, yeah.
- And I really...
I need to thank you, you know,
you've helped me get to this point.
- You're the one that did the work and that's what counts.
Don't forget that.
Do you keep it like this all the time?
Or did you do this because you knew I was coming?
- Well, I mean, some of it, you know,
maybe like folding my clothes that I had to put away.
But I think it's important,
like when you wake up to make your bed,
that sets your whole day. - Okay, so
yes, you do keep it like this.
And yes, of course everyone a little something, something
when company's coming. - [Nathan] Yeah.
I do that for sure. - [Nathan] Yeah.
So, but you know what to do,
how to do that little five minute pickup
if someone's coming into your room.
You didn't have that before.
You could not have done that before.
- Well, it's taken a lot of time.
But...
And then a lot of self-realization.
Even today I've learned some things from you that
it's like, "how did you not know this this whole time?
You know, why are you not proud of yourself?"
- Oh yeah, yeah. - You know?
- You should be. - So.
- [Standolyn] I am absolutely proud of Nathan
and where he is.
I feel like he's in a good situation now.
He did a great job of maintaining
and keeping some of the systems
that we set in place years ago.
And I feel confident that he will continue that
in the future.
So thank you for having us here.
- [Nathan] Thank you.
- Bye. - All right.
Bye.
(emotional music)
(suspenseful music)
- I am Kathy.
I'm a former dance instructor
and I'm the mother of 14 children.
(suspenseful music)
My house is an absolute labyrinth.
It's very confusing
because I live in the upstairs area.
Next to where I live,
I have the dance studio where I used to teach dance.
Below me, I have two apartments that are rentable
and it's majorly cluttered.
- I'm April and I'm Kathy's 11th child.
My mom's at an age where she should be retired
instead right now, because of her clutter and her hoarding,
she has to work a full-time job.
It's sad to see
because she could make enough income off of the dance studio
in these two apartments that are already available to her
to make money off of.
(suspenseful music)
- I am Sarah and I'm Kathy's eighth child.
When I was growing up, the house was pretty orderly
for the most part, but there was always one room
where everything would end up,
a kind of a catchall for everything.
(emotional music)
- I just was like numb and I just would get bills
and I would just pigeon hole and I didn't deal with things.
- I think at that point her disorder took on a new form.
So there became...
Everyday garbage just piling up.
(emotional music)
- I'm Sam and I'm Kathy's 13th child.
Once the hoarding took hold, my mom would go from one to 11
in a heartbeat over nothing.
- When I was growing up,
my mom had a really unpredictable nature about her.
It would be very traumatic.
Sometimes it was violent
and sometimes it was just yelling and screaming.
- I would have to be honest and say,
yes, I was verbally abusive.
I can remember too many days of yelling
and there were times of physical abuse.
(dramatic music)
- I love my mom.
I want her to spend her last final years in peace.
But I fear that my mom will pass away
in a state of mind that's not healthy,
in a home that's surrounded with gross,
disgusting dirt.
- [Sam] My mother is notorious for
always putting things down
and leaving them saying, "I'm gonna leave it for tomorrow.
I'll get to it tomorrow."
And that's why I'm here because I want to help her
before she runs out of tomorrows.
(dramatic music)
- Good morning everybody. - Morning.
- I'm Dorothy Breininger.
I'm a professional organizing expert
and I specialize in hoarding.
Our main goal here is to get you
out of this financial crisis.
- Right, right. - So first,
we're going to work on the two downstairs apartments
and the dance studio.
We need to get moving.
(dramatic music)
(dramatic music continues)
- Hey, why don't we sit right over here, Kathy.
I'm Dr. David Tolin.
I'm a clinical psychologist who specializes
in the study and treatment of hoarding disorder.
- Right behind you are these tutus, Dr. Tolin.
And I'd like to get a blanket rule
about what we're going to do with these costumes.
- So what do you think the blanket rule ought to be, Kathy?
- I will be so upset at throwing them away.
- It will be upsetting.
- I mean, can we just come back to it?
- Remember, the not dealing with it,
that's the kind of behavior that leads to hoarding.
- I do see a whole lot of uses for 'em.
Just for Christmas decoration.
I can make like a little Christmas tree.
- She has this burning desire to just hang on to things.
I need it, I want it, it's mine.
I'm gonna donate it to this place.
The bottom line is she just wants it.
(dramatic music)
- I am going to need you to look to your children
to make decisions.
So if it's soiled, if it's dirty,
if it's stinky, if it's broken.
Okay, family, let's get to it.
(dramatic music)
(dramatic music continues)
(emotional music)
(April crying)
- [Dr. Tolin] A lot of these kids are really struggling.
When you grow up as a child of a hoarder
or you grow up in an abusive household,
it tends to leave a mark.
(dramatic music)
- Kathy, you tired. - A little bit.
It's hard to let go of some things.
- Do you feel beaten up? - Kind of, yeah.
- It's just painful,
she's experiencing what I experienced as a 4-year-old
or a 6-year-old, 8-year-old,
and it's bringing the same thing up.
It's like, I'm going through that right now.
- Am I talking too sharply?
- I hate what you make me do.
(suspenseful music)
- It's like how the (censored) did you talk to us
all the time?
- Sarah had to endure kathy's meanness
her entire childhood.
So to hear Kathy complain that Dorothy
is being mean is just too much for her to bear.
I had to walk away otherwise I would've yelled and screamed
and I don't know what would've happened.
I walked to the store and then came back.
I feel more calm right now and a whole lot more in control.
(suspenseful music)
- Three,
two,
one, move.
(dramatic music)
(dramatic music continues)
- What really has amazed me is how much
love and support your kids are showing toward you.
- Right, yeah. - Which is
really impressive.
You know, we've been talking about kind of
trying to heal behavior and trying to heal the house.
Is there anything else that the family need
in order to heal?
- Mom, it's been a long time and we all talk about it,
but we all don't talk about it to you.
And in as few words, it was hard growing up.
And even to this day,
you haven't ever come forward and said,
"I'm sorry for the way I treated you."
And I would like an apology.
- Well, let me say that, not only to you Sarah,
but to everyone.
I do apologize for the way each of you were treated.
I've hurt you and I apologize for that.
- This is something that I've been wanting
for a lot of years, but not really knowing how to ask.
- And April, I know I've hurt you and I apologize for that.
- I appreciate you, mom.
- A lot of weight has lifted in the relationship with my mom
as well as with my siblings.
- It's okay.
- She took everyone individually
and that preciousness of each person to her
seemed to shine through.
(upbeat music)
- I want you to chuck this in here.
I'm holding it, you're chucking.
- Okay.
(upbeat music)
- We have actually succeeded in clearing everything out.
Now we just need to show Kathy what has been done.
(mellow music)
- Look at this, wow.
- The whole thing here was we really wanted to create
some financial security for Kathy.
Is this rentable?
- This is rentable. - Okay.
(mellow music)
- Oh my goodness.
Oh my gosh, you guys, oh. - This is beautiful.
(group laughs)
- Kathy, your family is here for you.
They're here to celebrate and support you.
After all this family has been through,
they still show love and generosity
of spirit toward Kathy.
It's really wonderful to see.
- I didn't expect this.
Thank you everyone for being so amazing.
(upbeat music)
(mellow guitar music)
(Dorthy knocks on the door)
- There she is.
- Hi, oh my goodness.
Dorothy, hi.
Oh my goodness. So good to see you.
I am really excited to see Dorothy.
I think that out of all the people
that could have come back,
Dorothy is the best because she can get through to mom.
They definitely have a very special relationship.
- Oh my gosh.
- Oh, come on in.
- Whoa. - Yeah.
- [Dorothy] So glad to see this space.
It looks identical to when I left.
- Yes, and it's rented. - You're kidding.
- I'm not kidding and so was the other unit.
- So you have both units rented.
- Yes, so wonderful.
- So after your mom got these units rented,
did that solve her financial crisis?
'Cause that's what we were here for, right?
- She was able to retire and now she lives comfortably.
She doesn't stress a lot over
"I have to work, I have to make money.
I need to keep going.
Keep going, keep going."
- And what about mom's health?
- It's been declining for sure.
She's, you know, no young pup.
So-
- And Kathy is how old right now?
- 83.
I mean, I don't know whether to talk about Kathy
or whether to talk about what I'm seeing here.
- The last time we were here,
this was all kinds of stuff here.
- Well, yeah, there was the hoard,
but then when I left, it looked just like this.
- Yes, yes.
- [Dr. Green] By the way, how are the renters?
Judging by this unit,
it's perfect.
- [April] Wonderful, yes, yes.
We have some wonderful renters.
They take care of the space.
They love it.
Love it here.
They say mom's such a great landlord.
You know how she's just so bubbly
and love to get along with.
So yeah, they love it here.
- This is...
I could never have asked for anything better.
Wow, wow, wow, wow, I wanna go see her now.
- Yes, let's go do that. That way.
- The downstairs area apartment is super organized,
super clean, clear of clutter.
And then we go upstairs and I see Kathy,
this gem in blue and glitter.
She's right back in the hoard.
- It's been too many years.
- It's been almost a decade.
- Yeah, I thought that, "oh my gosh."
You know, I was never gonna see you again.
You know, in real person, you know.
- Yeah, here we are. - Yeah, look at this.
- The best thing for me is walking in
and seeing you here, okay?
- That's me too. - I really wanted to see you.
- Yeah, that's wonderful. - And of course, April,
right? - Right, right.
- I'm really proud of you. - I've got family.
- You've got family. - Right.
- But something happened. - Right.
(dramatic music)
- This is pretty close to how it looked before.
- Right.
- Well- - Tell me about all this.
- Okay, so yeah, it's clean in one apartment
and clean in the other.
And so whatever was down there came up here.
- When we left, things were looking really good.
- Right. - Really, really good.
And I can see into all the rooms, I see the bedrooms,
the dining room and this room.
- [Kathy] Right.
- How long did it take for this to start
cluttering up again and then turn back into
what I would call a hoard?
- Yeah, right, I guess just gradually.
- It was gradual? - Yeah.
- As I'm looking around, I'm seeing
the same kind of hoarding that was there before.
So that's old food.
I'm seeing dishes, I'm seeing paper.
I mean, there's no rhyme or reason,
but the worst of all is
that there is not a single path that I can see so far
that is clear and easy for Kathy to walk.
Have you fallen in here yet?
- Yes, I have. - You have?
- Well, walking over this, that's why I use my cane now.
- You're a little emotional about that question.
Yeah, what's going on for you?
- Well, it's hard to see mom like this.
It's hard to know that one fall could be it,
that we may not know that something's happened.
It's hard to know that her health is declining
and this is not helping it at all.
(suspenseful music)
After all the work that we did on the show before,
it is so disheartening to see the way that the upstairs is.
We were so hopeful that
this was gonna be a fresh start for mom.
But then it turned into not that,
it turned into more room for her to create another hoard
with old stuff and new stuff.
- April, in terms of how you saw
all of the re-hoarding unfold,
what was your experience, how you saw it?
- Well, I know when I last saw you,
the task was to take the boxes and go one at a time
and decide, keep, donate, throw away.
And kind of what happened was,
the boxes came upstairs and just got...
That process didn't happen.
- Okay. - And so right away
a lot of the things that she was meant to go through
came right back into the house.
And then, you know, mom likes to collect things.
So she buys this, buys that.
You know, if a close is on sale,
she can't resist a good deal and-
- Yep. - Gets that and
so it just kind of came back and again and again, you just
build, build, build.
- You and your siblings' ability to come here
and do something about this.
Explain.
Because it's not your problem
and it's not your fault, let me say that.
But explain how it is that you can't get in here anymore to
do anything.
- When effort's made,
you know, a couple weeks later, you come back and it's
right back where it was.
- The one thing I would wanna say to Kathy's kids
and all the family members
who were helping on the hoard originally,
they worked hard and they've done this over
and over and over again
and they are not at fault at all
for how often they visit this place or not visit this place.
This room, to me, was the most emotional room-
- Uh huh, right.
- During our time together. - Right.
- This is the room where the whole family was kind of
curved around and it was at that point
that you went to every single child and apologized.
- It was hard, it was humbling.
So it did feel good
and just made me realize that that was...
You know, there was a lot more pain than...
A lot of pain that I didn't realize
that the children had, you know.
- How has it been since then,
since that big apology?
- It really felt like all the difficulty as children,
all the hardships in this house
and clearing out that muck
and her saying, "please forgive me,"
and giving that away was it for me.
So I know for me, I felt that it was gone.
That I wasn't gonna carry difficulty forward.
But I think for some of my siblings, they still see this.
They still see this-
- Meaning the hoard. - Right, yeah, right.
- Family members, do they come here?
Do- - Oh no,
why would they come anyway?
- Oh- - I mean, you know.
- [Dr. Green] Tell me,
why would they come? - Why would they wanna come?
- Why would they wanna come if the space were cleared out?
- Right. - Because you are
heading into the sunset years.
- Oh yeah, absolutely.
- You know, from an adult kid point of view,
I know that as my mom is aging, she's 91,
we grow older and we become wiser
and we say, "oh, I better make the most of
what time left I have with my mom."
- I see my mom as a human being that's struggling
and I wanna help her.
I wanted to take the time that she has left
and be able to guide her gracefully
to the other side while she's still here.
- If you can, what I want you to do
is consider getting a team in here again
and getting rid of the stuff now for sure.
- Yeah.
- And have family over. - Sure.
- Okay? - Yeah.
- Thank you for having me. - Alright.
- I appreciate you. You're a wonderful lady, okay?
- Alright.
(emotional music)