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- Previously
on the "Teen Mom 2" reunion...
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Ashley--
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- I'ma let y'all talk
without me
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'cause I don't wanna be
in none of that [bleep].
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[dramatic music]
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- I may or may not be
in a relationship right now.
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- Wait!
- So--
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- What?
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- Why am I doing this?
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This is so crazy.
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- I wasn't open to more kids,
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but I'm now open to more kids.
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- Tonight we have a surprise
for the entire cast
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and the audience.
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[all gasp]
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- Oh, my God.
[cheering]
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- I guess you were wearing
Chris' shirt.
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- Me and him
literally have the same shirt.
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- The crazy thing is, is I
forgot I gave her that shirt.
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- Is that your business?
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I don't think so.
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Not Kail's business either.
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She can kiss my ass.
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- Kail, it actually, like,
hurts my heart to hear this.
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I am so sorry.
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I wish I'd known.
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[upbeat music]
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[cheers and applause]
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Welcome to part two
of the "Teen Mom 2" reunion.
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I'm your host, Dr. Drew,
and my cohost Nessa
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will be joining me
in a little bit.
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But for now,
I'm sitting here with Leah,
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Jaylan, Ashley, Bar, Briana,
Devoin, and Jade.
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[cheers and applause]
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And all of them
recently took part
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in the "Teen Mom
Family Reunion,"
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and we wanted to get
your thoughts on what happened
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down in San Diego.
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So, Jade, you first.
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- For me,
it was, like, life-changing.
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I think that separation
from everything at home
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and meeting other people,
getting to know 'em
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it was--it was--it was awesome.
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- Leah.
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- I mean, I had no idea
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what we were walking into
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at the "Teen Mom
Family Reunion."
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But going there, I mean,
I think it was a lot of fun.
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The activities were fun.
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Coach Bryant
really helped me open up more
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and not be so guarded.
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- You were just starting
to feel emotions again.
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- Yeah.
- And Jaylan,
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really, that was
your first experience--
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I guess you'd been in front
of the cameras a little bit,
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but this was a little bit
different environment.
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- Yeah, that was my first time
actually meeting everybody
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in person, so yeah.
- Got it.
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And this is your first time
in, uh, this thing
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we call the reunion show.
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How is that going
for you so far?
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How you feel?
- Well, I mean, it's...
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it is everything
I heard it would be.
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So--
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[indistinct]
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I guess I gotta be ready
for it.
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I'm ready, so let's do it.
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- Ashley.
- I had a good experience.
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I think I learned
a lot of things
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I didn't expect to really learn
from Coach B.
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- Briana.
- I had a blast.
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The best experience
I've had thus far
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with "Teen Mom."
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And Bar, I noticed
you were really bonding
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with the other dads.
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- Yeah. It was cool.
- Good, right?
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- Yeah, that's always
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The dads always do that.
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- Well, we have a surprise
for the entire cast
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and the audience.
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Come on out, Coach B.
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[all gasp]
- Oh, [bleep]!
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- Oh, my God!
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[cheers and applause]
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- Hi. How are you?
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- It's good to see you.
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- Welcome, Coach B.
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We appreciate so much
you being here.
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And it's a chance to check in
with everybody
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since you last saw them,
so have at it.
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- Yeah, obviously, we've, uh,
had a lot of breakthroughs
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and shared a lot of moments,
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and Jade,
I wanna start with you.
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If you can kinda just tell me
a little bit of, like,
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what you took from the reunion
and what you've implemented.
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- Well, one thing I can say,
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make sure you process
before you produce.
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I feel like I'm thinking about
a million things all the time,
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so the moment
someone says something,
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in my head,
the first thing that pops up
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probably isn't, like,
the proper thing
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in the moment
because in that moment,
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I know that I might
say something
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or act a certain way
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where I'm like, uh,
I'm probably not gonna be
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comfortable with that,
so how 'bout I go home.
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Lemme sleep on that.
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- That was one of our tools--
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- 'Cause I'm more of a reactor,
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so I think it's me learning
to not just react.
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- Yeah.
- You know?
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- Good for you.
Thank you, Jade.
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Leah and Jaylan,
bring me up to speed
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just a little bit
on how your emotions now
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are healthier and what
that relationship is like
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for yourself.
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- I mean,
I think when it comes up,
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like, I definitely have
conversations with myself.
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Like, I'm not--
I have no reason to be afraid.
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- Mm.
- And being free, being open.
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- Mm.
- It's allowed him
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to move differently too,
I think.
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- Yeah, I mean,
I think for me, it just--
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I just understood
to be patient with her
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and just, you know,
reassure her that I am here.
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And, uh, you know,
just to be patient.
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- So finally, Ashley and Bar.
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I know that we talked a lot
about the roles, right,
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and how his parent issues
was married
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to your need to control
and be mama bear.
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And so your dysfunctions
and your concerns
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actually married each other.
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So I just wanna know,
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have those roles shifted
a little bit?
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- I think it's hard.
- Of course.
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- Because obviously,
like already said,
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our traumas marry.
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Um, and I think part
of my issue is knowing
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that he has trauma and wanting
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And on the other hand of that,
I have my own issue
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with wanting things
to go left, right, up, down.
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And so I think
that I'm trying this new thing
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where I'm like, you know what?
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If it doesn't work out for you,
I'm sorry, boo.
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This is on--this is on you.
- There you go.
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- And my ultimate goal
is not to get him
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to be who I want him to be.
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It's for him to be passionate
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And in order for me
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I need to be quiet.
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So thanks, Coach B.
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- I wanna thank you
for helping them.
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They seem happier
and, more importantly,
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happier with one another.
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Was there something
that stuck out?
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Was there a moment
that really stays with you?
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- It wasn't a moment.
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I think for everyone,
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we connected
at the heart space.
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And I always say,
you connect at the mind space.
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When the memory goes,
there you go.
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But if you connect
at the heart space,
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you have a friend for life.
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And, uh, as much as they keep
saying I helped them
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and I gave them
all these tools--
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- [laughs]
- I was very moved
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by how they all allowed me
to see their heart.
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And I learned so much
from each of them,
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and I added to my toolbox,
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so I wanna be able
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to say thank you to them
in return as well.
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- Aww.
both: Love you.
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- [laughs]
- All the time.
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- To that,
Coach B will be back,
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so don't go away.
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Up next, we'll meet
Kail's new boyfriend.
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♪ ♪
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- I may or may not be
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in a relationship right now.
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- Tell him to come downstairs.
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- Why am I doing this?
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This is so crazy.
- Hi.
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- What's--what's your name?
Kail won't tell us.
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[cheers and applause]
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- Welcome back
to the "Teen Mom 2" reunion.
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We're back with Kail.
[cheers]
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In part one, you told us
you were seeing someone.
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We'd love him to come in
and sit down.
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We'd like to talk to him.
- Can we say hi to him?
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- [laughs]
- Or...
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please.
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- Tell him to come downstairs.
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- Is he here?
- [laughs]
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- Why am I doing this?
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This is so crazy.
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- Why am I nervous?
- I know--
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- I'm nervous right now.
- Looking around the corner.
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- What's going on?
- Mom.
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- Hey, hey.
- Wait, hold on.
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Can we--
- Squat down.
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- Hi.
- What's--what's your name?
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Kail won't tell us.
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- No, no, no, no, no.
Don't say your name.
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Don't you dare.
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- Nice to meet you
nonetheless.
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- Nice to meet you.
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- You're making Kail
very happy,
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and we thank you for that.
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- No problem.
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- Is she making you happy
as well?
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- Yes.
- Yeah?
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- Very.
- How did you guys meet?
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- Don't tell them.
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- Kail, he's a--
- [laughs]
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- Don't--don't you listen
to her.
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[laughs]
- And that is my cue
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to go back to work.
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- Bye.
- Bye.
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- All right, Kail.
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Let's talk about
you and Briana.
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- I wish I had her address.
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So I could send her a gift.
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I'd [bleep] buy her
a treadmill.
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Instead of running your mouth,
run some [bleep] miles.
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- What went through your mind
when you received the treadmill
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that Briana had sent you?
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- I mean,
at the end of the day,
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I think it's another form
of projection.
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You have to distract people
from your own insecurities
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and from your own self-hate.
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And "Kail's big,
Kail's overweight,
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Kail's this, Kail's that,"
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it distracts her
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from how she feels
about herself.
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- Is it fat-shaming?
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Is that what she's trying
to do?
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- Absolutely.
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- How did you feel
about Chris asking Briana
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to be a guest on his podcast?
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- I don't think I was upset.
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I think it's just another...
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you know, the people--
your enemies can't betray you.
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The people that you have
kids with and the people
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that you've been
in a relationship with
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can betray you,
and so, you know,
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that was just another thing
that he did
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that was a form of betrayal,
in my opinion.
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- And fans noticed
that you had unfollowed Leah.
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- I unfollowed every single
person I was following.
253
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[laughs]
I even unfollowed you, Nessa.
254
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- [laughs]
- And, um,
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a couple weeks ago,
it was just like,
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I was having a meltdown
and unfollowed everyone.
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- There's no issues
between you and Leah.
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Is that correct?
- As far as I'm aware,
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there are no issues
between me and Leah.
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- Okay.
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Now, Javi was in the mix,
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obviously,
we've been discussing.
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But he and Vee were
chatting a bit.
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And Vee told him
that your miscarriage with Javi
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might not have been his.
266
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What was your reaction to that?
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- That was a baby
that Javi and I tried for,
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so I don't know
why she said that,
269
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but I think
the biggest takeaway for me
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is that I have done things
in my life
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that I'm not proud of,
and, you know,
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if I want other people
to forgive me for things,
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then I can't be a hypocrite
and turn around
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and not forgive her,
and, you know,
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her keeping it a secret
for four years
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and starting a podcast
with me,
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that has been the hardest...
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- Ooh, boy.
- Part of it.
279
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- Yeah, the deception
- Right, for sure.
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- Um, I also never got
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to formally apologize
to Jenelle.
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I don't think it was fair
for me to have blamed her
283
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for leaking my pregnancy news.
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I think when she tweeted me,
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she genuinely thought
that the news was out.
286
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I couldn't have ever guessed
that it was Vee and Javi.
287
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Um, I did post it
on my Instagram
288
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just knowing
that I publicly blamed her
289
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for this, so I needed
to also publicly apologize.
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- I'm so glad you did this.
291
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All right, Kail, on Instagram
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you revealed that you've been
diagnosed with depression.
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Do you wanna talk any more
about that
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and about what you've done
to take care of yourself?
295
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- Um, I see my therapist
twice a week.
296
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Right now, I think minimizing
my communications with Javi
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is the number one thing
298
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that I need
to stay consistent with
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because he seems to be
a huge trigger for me.
300
00:10:02,970 --> 00:10:04,505
- Right,
and of course parenting itself
301
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is extremely stressful,
302
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and then dealing
with three dads
303
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with different, you know,
levels of commitment.
304
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I mean, my God, that, to me,
just sounds overwhelming,
305
00:10:14,081 --> 00:10:16,483
and overwhelming
can feel depressing.
306
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- I have a question: have you
always been going to therapy,
307
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or was it something
that led you to want to go
308
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seeing your therapist
twice a week?
309
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- In October of 2019,
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someone almost took my life,
and that was--
311
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- Oh, my gosh.
- You know, the pivotal moment
312
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in my life where I was like,
I need help.
313
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And so I've been in therapy
since then.
314
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- I didn't--don't think I knew
about this traumatic event.
315
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Can you talk to us about it?
316
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Was it, like,
a domestic abuse situation?
317
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Was it just
a random act of violence?
318
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Was it--I mean,
was it somebody you knew?
319
00:10:46,680 --> 00:10:49,883
- Um, Chris almost killed me
in October of 2019.
320
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With dom--by domestic violence.
- Oh, my.
321
00:10:52,853 --> 00:10:53,854
Okay.
322
00:10:53,921 --> 00:10:55,556
Kail, can I just say,
323
00:10:55,622 --> 00:10:57,391
it actually, like,
hurts my heart to hear this.
324
00:10:57,457 --> 00:10:59,359
I--you know, we've been
with you a long time,
325
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I am so sorry.
I wish I'd known.
326
00:11:01,695 --> 00:11:04,064
No one would know this
if you didn't share it.
327
00:11:04,064 --> 00:11:05,499
I am so heartbroken for you.
328
00:11:05,566 --> 00:11:07,067
I'm really sorry.
- Yeah.
329
00:11:07,067 --> 00:11:09,336
- It's very, very painful
to hear you say this,
330
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and, I mean, my goodness.
331
00:11:10,971 --> 00:11:12,606
I'm so glad
you're in treatment.
332
00:11:12,673 --> 00:11:15,809
- I just haven't figured out
the right time or way
333
00:11:15,876 --> 00:11:18,078
to, you know,
tell my whole story.
334
00:11:18,078 --> 00:11:20,113
- No one knew
you were going through this.
335
00:11:20,180 --> 00:11:21,381
- I don't think it's something
336
00:11:21,448 --> 00:11:24,251
that people
just openly talk about.
337
00:11:24,318 --> 00:11:26,119
I fully acknowledge
that I, you know--
338
00:11:26,186 --> 00:11:27,921
I pushed Javi in 2012,
339
00:11:28,021 --> 00:11:30,691
so I don't get to cry
domestic violence victim
340
00:11:30,757 --> 00:11:33,026
because I also pushed
my ex-husband,
341
00:11:33,026 --> 00:11:35,362
so it makes me a hypocrite.
342
00:11:35,429 --> 00:11:36,497
- Mm, no.
343
00:11:36,563 --> 00:11:39,366
No, they are two
separate phenomenon.
344
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And as many things
in mental health,
345
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people become flip sides
of the same coin:
346
00:11:44,538 --> 00:11:46,707
victim, victimizer.
347
00:11:46,773 --> 00:11:48,275
Both roles go back and forth
348
00:11:48,342 --> 00:11:50,143
in all these things
we're talking about.
349
00:11:50,210 --> 00:11:52,246
So--and they're different.
350
00:11:52,312 --> 00:11:53,881
Not okay.
- Mm-hmm.
351
00:11:53,947 --> 00:11:57,284
- But you were a victim
of domestic violence.
352
00:11:57,351 --> 00:12:01,054
Has--is this something you've
shared anywhere publicly?
353
00:12:01,121 --> 00:12:02,389
- No.
354
00:12:02,456 --> 00:12:03,924
I mean, people know
that something happened
355
00:12:04,057 --> 00:12:05,425
that changed my life,
but I've never--
356
00:12:05,492 --> 00:12:07,494
I've never told the story.
357
00:12:07,561 --> 00:12:08,662
I've never talked about it.
358
00:12:08,729 --> 00:12:10,464
I've never gone into detail.
359
00:12:10,531 --> 00:12:13,634
- And then Chris is now
more visible in the series.
360
00:12:13,700 --> 00:12:16,837
Should he be talking about...
361
00:12:16,904 --> 00:12:18,272
his perspective on all this?
362
00:12:18,338 --> 00:12:20,073
- It's not that I don't want
y'all to question him.
363
00:12:20,073 --> 00:12:23,143
I just--I think that he knows
what he did.
364
00:12:23,210 --> 00:12:24,578
It is what it is.
365
00:12:24,645 --> 00:12:26,580
- I really appreciate
you being open today, Kail.
366
00:12:26,647 --> 00:12:27,881
- Yeah, I do too.
367
00:12:28,015 --> 00:12:30,117
You've refined things
a little more today.
368
00:12:30,184 --> 00:12:31,585
I really thought abandonment...
- Right.
369
00:12:31,652 --> 00:12:34,588
- Was a key problem for you,
but betrayal,
370
00:12:34,655 --> 00:12:38,892
betrayal is really
the real writ large phenomenon
371
00:12:39,026 --> 00:12:40,027
in your life right now.
372
00:12:40,027 --> 00:12:41,829
- Yeah,
I would agree with that.
373
00:12:41,895 --> 00:12:44,464
- And I hope, you know--
and both Nessa and I hope
374
00:12:44,531 --> 00:12:46,266
this is not the end
of your journey.
375
00:12:46,333 --> 00:12:48,836
Do you wanna stay on the show?
376
00:12:48,902 --> 00:12:50,270
- Not necessarily, no.
377
00:12:50,337 --> 00:12:52,039
I think that I need
to move on.
378
00:12:52,072 --> 00:12:54,041
I need to do my own thing.
- Hmm.
379
00:12:54,041 --> 00:12:56,076
I'm not gonna say goodbye
to her today, am I?
380
00:12:56,143 --> 00:12:57,377
I'm not gonna say--
381
00:12:57,444 --> 00:12:59,046
- I don't know.
I feel like we should.
382
00:12:59,046 --> 00:13:00,414
- Really?
- Whoa.
383
00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:01,582
- Yeah.
- This is like
384
00:13:01,648 --> 00:13:03,116
a breakup right now.
385
00:13:03,183 --> 00:13:04,284
- I think this needs
to be my farewell.
386
00:13:04,351 --> 00:13:05,519
- I wasn't ready for this,
Kail.
387
00:13:05,586 --> 00:13:06,753
- I think I'm ready.
388
00:13:06,820 --> 00:13:08,288
I think
that we just should part ways.
389
00:13:08,355 --> 00:13:09,690
I think this should be the end.
390
00:13:09,756 --> 00:13:10,858
- You will be a huge loss
391
00:13:10,924 --> 00:13:12,426
'cause I have deep affection
for you.
392
00:13:12,493 --> 00:13:14,061
And, you know, you helped, uh,
393
00:13:14,127 --> 00:13:16,663
turn the tide of teen pregnancy
in this country.
394
00:13:16,730 --> 00:13:18,398
You helped do that.
- I hope so.
395
00:13:18,465 --> 00:13:20,634
I hope I had a small part
in that.
396
00:13:20,701 --> 00:13:21,835
- Yep, you did.
397
00:13:21,902 --> 00:13:23,504
- Awesome.
Well, thank you, guys.
398
00:13:23,570 --> 00:13:26,406
- Thank you, Kail,
and we appreciate you.
399
00:13:26,473 --> 00:13:28,408
Please say hi to the kids.
- I will.
400
00:13:28,475 --> 00:13:30,777
- Up next,
we dive into Briana's story.
401
00:13:30,844 --> 00:13:33,514
In the meantime, we'll see
if Chris would like to join us.
402
00:13:33,580 --> 00:13:35,282
[applause]
403
00:13:35,349 --> 00:13:36,316
- Oh, my,
I really felt a lot
404
00:13:36,383 --> 00:13:37,317
of intense emotion--
405
00:13:37,384 --> 00:13:39,720
- That was very unexpected.
406
00:13:39,786 --> 00:13:40,821
- Yeah.
407
00:13:40,888 --> 00:13:41,822
Oh, my goodness.
408
00:13:41,889 --> 00:13:43,257
- That's sad, man.
409
00:13:48,929 --> 00:13:51,165
- Just because I had relations
410
00:13:51,231 --> 00:13:52,733
with someone's ex-husband
doesn't mean
411
00:13:52,799 --> 00:13:54,668
I wanna do that
every single time.
412
00:13:54,735 --> 00:13:56,803
I think she needs to come up
with a better way
413
00:13:56,870 --> 00:13:58,405
to "try to drag me down."
414
00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:02,408
- ♪ I got what you want ♪
415
00:14:02,475 --> 00:14:05,077
♪ I got what you like ♪
416
00:14:05,144 --> 00:14:06,979
- We're back
with the "Teen Mom 2" reunion,
417
00:14:07,046 --> 00:14:08,614
and it's time to talk
to Briana.
418
00:14:08,681 --> 00:14:09,915
[cheers and applause]
419
00:14:09,982 --> 00:14:12,551
Now, Briana dealt
with more drama this season
420
00:14:12,618 --> 00:14:13,686
than any other mom:
421
00:14:13,753 --> 00:14:16,322
an engagement, a breakup,
a lawsuit,
422
00:14:16,388 --> 00:14:18,457
a health scare
for her younger child,
423
00:14:18,524 --> 00:14:21,393
and inconsistency
from both her kids' fathers.
424
00:14:21,460 --> 00:14:22,561
Let's refresh our memories
425
00:14:22,628 --> 00:14:24,363
of all that Briana
went through.
426
00:14:24,430 --> 00:14:25,664
[upbeat music]
427
00:14:27,199 --> 00:14:28,367
- Sure, go for it.
428
00:14:28,434 --> 00:14:30,302
Say a bad word, Stella.
- Oh, [bleep].
429
00:14:30,369 --> 00:14:31,504
- Oh, my God.
430
00:14:31,570 --> 00:14:32,638
- Oh, [bleep].
431
00:14:32,705 --> 00:14:34,340
- [laughing]
Stella. Okay, that's it.
432
00:14:34,407 --> 00:14:35,908
No more.
- [laughs]
433
00:14:35,975 --> 00:14:37,443
- Kail's baby daddy, Chris,
434
00:14:37,510 --> 00:14:39,678
wants to invite me
on his podcast.
435
00:14:39,745 --> 00:14:41,814
- Did you tell Javi
that you were gonna do this?
436
00:14:41,881 --> 00:14:42,948
- The podcast?
- Mm-hmm.
437
00:14:43,015 --> 00:14:44,083
- What did he say?
438
00:14:44,150 --> 00:14:45,818
- What can he say?
439
00:14:45,885 --> 00:14:47,019
- What happened
to you and Javi?
440
00:14:47,086 --> 00:14:50,289
- Going to do a podcast
with Chris.
441
00:14:50,356 --> 00:14:52,358
The article says
MTV wasn't there.
442
00:14:52,425 --> 00:14:53,993
He thought I lied to him
about it.
443
00:14:54,059 --> 00:14:56,729
I don't think I want
to talk to him ever again.
444
00:14:56,796 --> 00:14:57,863
Oh, my God.
- Don't cry, Bri.
445
00:14:57,930 --> 00:14:59,365
- Bri.
446
00:14:59,432 --> 00:15:01,634
- I am going through a lawsuit
right now with Kail.
447
00:15:01,700 --> 00:15:03,202
I'm [bleep] annoyed.
448
00:15:03,302 --> 00:15:04,837
She's saying
that I [bleep] Chris.
449
00:15:04,904 --> 00:15:06,071
Like, damn, bitch,
450
00:15:06,138 --> 00:15:08,574
why are you so worried
about my vagina?
451
00:15:08,641 --> 00:15:10,309
- Is Devoin coming?
On the way?
452
00:15:10,342 --> 00:15:12,812
- I don't know, he asked me
if he could take Nova,
453
00:15:12,878 --> 00:15:15,314
but she said no, so...
454
00:15:15,347 --> 00:15:17,850
I think Nova was definitely
expecting Devoin.
455
00:15:17,917 --> 00:15:19,952
He disappointed her.
456
00:15:20,019 --> 00:15:22,121
- I love Nova.
- I know.
457
00:15:22,188 --> 00:15:26,225
- I'm definitely--
can do a lot more for her now.
458
00:15:26,325 --> 00:15:28,461
- Is that a commitment?
- It's a promise.
459
00:15:28,527 --> 00:15:30,329
- So they're telling me
that her heart
460
00:15:30,329 --> 00:15:31,964
is beating really fast.
461
00:15:32,031 --> 00:15:34,467
She has to wear
a heart monitor.
462
00:15:34,533 --> 00:15:36,102
Luis said he was gonna come
to the appointment,
463
00:15:36,168 --> 00:15:38,104
and he did not [bleep] show.
464
00:15:38,170 --> 00:15:41,474
Such a nice thing we did here.
465
00:15:41,540 --> 00:15:44,877
I really wanted the girls
to experience something
466
00:15:44,944 --> 00:15:47,747
where all of us could be
under the same household
467
00:15:47,813 --> 00:15:50,483
and just have a good time,
and I think we did just that.
468
00:15:50,549 --> 00:15:52,418
[applause]
469
00:15:52,485 --> 00:15:54,220
- What do you remember most
from this season?
470
00:15:54,353 --> 00:15:55,955
- Oh, God, it was a--
it's a blur.
471
00:15:56,021 --> 00:15:57,590
- First thing that comes
to mind, though.
472
00:15:57,656 --> 00:15:59,024
- There was a lot.
I dealt with a lot.
473
00:15:59,091 --> 00:16:00,793
Every day was something new.
474
00:16:00,860 --> 00:16:03,195
Um, but I'm here today
and I feel better,
475
00:16:03,295 --> 00:16:05,564
so that's a positive.
476
00:16:05,631 --> 00:16:08,167
- So people were surprised
to see you and Chris together.
477
00:16:08,300 --> 00:16:10,402
So what motivated you
to wanna be on his podcast?
478
00:16:10,469 --> 00:16:12,004
- Um, he just asked me,
479
00:16:12,071 --> 00:16:15,107
and I thought
it was a good idea,
480
00:16:15,174 --> 00:16:16,842
and I just went for it.
481
00:16:16,909 --> 00:16:19,311
- And is it correct
that he helped you out
482
00:16:19,311 --> 00:16:21,747
with an affidavit
or a deposition or something?
483
00:16:21,814 --> 00:16:23,082
Or was it helpful?
484
00:16:23,149 --> 00:16:25,317
- My lawyer asked him questions
under oath
485
00:16:25,351 --> 00:16:28,421
and he answered them,
and that's that.
486
00:16:28,487 --> 00:16:29,488
- So I wanted
to clear some things
487
00:16:29,555 --> 00:16:30,689
that, you know,
488
00:16:30,756 --> 00:16:32,792
we've seen or have heard...
- Yeah.
489
00:16:32,858 --> 00:16:34,827
- That you and Chris
might be intimate,
490
00:16:34,894 --> 00:16:36,028
have been intimate.
491
00:16:36,095 --> 00:16:37,630
- That story's so old.
492
00:16:37,696 --> 00:16:41,133
Just because I had relations
with someone's ex-husband
493
00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:43,669
doesn't mean I wanna do that
every single time.
494
00:16:43,736 --> 00:16:45,704
I think that's annoying.
I think that's played out.
495
00:16:45,771 --> 00:16:49,975
I think she needs to come up
with a better...
496
00:16:50,042 --> 00:16:52,111
a better way
to "try to drag me down"
497
00:16:52,178 --> 00:16:53,546
because that's not gonna
get to me.
498
00:16:53,612 --> 00:16:58,584
- I know the "Teen Mom" world
are gonna bug--
499
00:16:58,651 --> 00:17:01,153
get mad at us if we don't
follow that question
500
00:17:01,287 --> 00:17:03,089
with yes or no?
501
00:17:03,155 --> 00:17:04,957
Because you didn't really say
yes or no.
502
00:17:05,024 --> 00:17:06,292
- Yes or no to what?
503
00:17:06,358 --> 00:17:08,394
If I [bleep] Chris? No.
- No?
504
00:17:08,461 --> 00:17:09,929
- But why does that
even matter?
505
00:17:09,995 --> 00:17:11,997
Why do you guys care?
506
00:17:12,064 --> 00:17:14,433
Like, is that your business?
I don't think so.
507
00:17:14,500 --> 00:17:16,535
I don't think
it's anybody's business.
508
00:17:16,602 --> 00:17:18,637
Not Kail's business either.
509
00:17:18,704 --> 00:17:20,306
Chris is not her property.
510
00:17:20,306 --> 00:17:21,841
So even if I did want
to [bleep] Chris,
511
00:17:21,907 --> 00:17:24,143
who the [bleep] cares?
512
00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:26,078
- Well, I just know that--
- Well, I think the fans--
513
00:17:26,145 --> 00:17:27,480
- [laughs]
- It was the fans who care.
514
00:17:27,546 --> 00:17:28,481
Wait, hold on.
- Yeah, it's not--
515
00:17:28,547 --> 00:17:29,749
and they come on--
516
00:17:29,815 --> 00:17:31,550
they get on us
for things we don't ask.
517
00:17:31,617 --> 00:17:32,952
- Okay. I get that.
518
00:17:33,018 --> 00:17:34,487
It's your job.
519
00:17:34,553 --> 00:17:36,055
- Do you understand, though,
520
00:17:36,122 --> 00:17:37,656
your fans, right--
- Yeah.
521
00:17:37,723 --> 00:17:39,191
- You know,
people had pointed out
522
00:17:39,325 --> 00:17:41,360
that I guess you were wearing
Chris' shirt
523
00:17:41,427 --> 00:17:43,729
or something like that on IG.
524
00:17:43,796 --> 00:17:46,665
Tell us--well, tell them.
525
00:17:46,732 --> 00:17:48,467
- First of all,
526
00:17:48,534 --> 00:17:51,470
I have a lot of graphic tees,
number one.
527
00:17:51,537 --> 00:17:54,707
Number two, there's tons
of "Goosebumps" shirt
528
00:17:54,774 --> 00:17:56,876
that I have.
529
00:17:56,942 --> 00:17:59,745
Me and him literally have
the same shirt.
530
00:17:59,812 --> 00:18:02,148
Me and him could sit down
right here with each other
531
00:18:02,281 --> 00:18:05,918
and have the same shirt on,
and that's just that.
532
00:18:05,985 --> 00:18:07,420
- They follow you.
They like you.
533
00:18:07,486 --> 00:18:08,988
They wanna know.
- I guess.
534
00:18:09,054 --> 00:18:12,124
I'm trying to be as transparent
and authentic as possible,
535
00:18:12,191 --> 00:18:13,826
so bring it on, I guess.
536
00:18:13,893 --> 00:18:16,362
- Do you think the situation
can ever get cleared up?
537
00:18:16,429 --> 00:18:18,164
- With who?
- With you, Kail, even Javi.
538
00:18:18,297 --> 00:18:19,565
Just--
- I don't have no problems
539
00:18:19,632 --> 00:18:21,500
with anybody.
540
00:18:21,567 --> 00:18:23,102
I don't think
it'll ever get cleared up.
541
00:18:23,169 --> 00:18:26,172
I don't care to fix it
with her.
542
00:18:26,305 --> 00:18:28,474
She doesn't affect
my day-to-day life.
543
00:18:28,541 --> 00:18:30,643
So probably not.
544
00:18:30,709 --> 00:18:32,511
She can kiss my ass.
545
00:18:32,578 --> 00:18:34,880
- So I wanna talk about
your ex, Javi.
546
00:18:34,947 --> 00:18:37,216
Did you wanna be engaged
to him?
547
00:18:37,316 --> 00:18:41,854
- I did see
somewhat of a future with him.
548
00:18:41,921 --> 00:18:44,857
But I think
it happened too fast.
549
00:18:44,924 --> 00:18:47,526
And he just wasn't the guy
for me.
550
00:18:47,593 --> 00:18:50,062
I feel like
once I accepted that ring,
551
00:18:50,129 --> 00:18:54,400
he viewed me as an object
and not as a wife.
552
00:18:54,467 --> 00:18:56,335
And then it just turned me off.
553
00:18:56,335 --> 00:18:58,170
- Have you started dating
since the breakup?
554
00:18:58,237 --> 00:18:59,438
- No, but I want to.
555
00:18:59,505 --> 00:19:01,173
I've been celibate
for nine, ten months.
556
00:19:01,273 --> 00:19:03,142
I'm ready to [bleep].
557
00:19:03,275 --> 00:19:04,343
[laughter]
558
00:19:04,410 --> 00:19:05,711
But I do wanna date.
I wanna, like--
559
00:19:05,778 --> 00:19:08,447
I downloaded a dating app.
560
00:19:08,514 --> 00:19:11,183
Um, so yeah,
I'm trying to get out there.
561
00:19:11,283 --> 00:19:13,919
- The dads are coming up soon,
uh, out here with us.
562
00:19:13,986 --> 00:19:16,188
How has it been going
with Devoin?
563
00:19:16,288 --> 00:19:18,390
- Better. Better.
564
00:19:18,457 --> 00:19:20,292
- And Luis has been stepping up
a little bit
565
00:19:20,292 --> 00:19:22,294
with Stella, right?
566
00:19:22,361 --> 00:19:24,897
Is that not consistently so?
567
00:19:24,964 --> 00:19:27,933
- Um, again,
like, last week, yes.
568
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,369
Today...
569
00:19:30,436 --> 00:19:33,405
me as a mother,
I wish there was more.
570
00:19:33,472 --> 00:19:36,175
I wish I could get more
out of Luis and Devoin
571
00:19:36,308 --> 00:19:38,310
for these girls.
- Got it.
572
00:19:38,310 --> 00:19:40,346
Up next, something I never
thought would happen
573
00:19:40,413 --> 00:19:42,848
on one of these reunions:
we're speaking to Chris.
574
00:19:42,915 --> 00:19:45,384
[applause]
575
00:19:45,451 --> 00:19:48,387
[percussive music]
576
00:19:48,454 --> 00:19:51,390
I wanted to get some clarity
behind some rumors
577
00:19:51,457 --> 00:19:53,692
that you and Briana were
more than just friends.
578
00:19:53,759 --> 00:19:54,827
Any truth to that?
579
00:19:54,894 --> 00:19:56,162
- Uh...
580
00:19:58,693 --> 00:20:00,627
{\an7}[upbeat music]
581
00:20:00,627 --> 00:20:03,155
{\an7}[cheers and applause]
582
00:20:03,155 --> 00:20:04,693
{\an7}- After our discussion
\h\h\h\h\h\hwith Kail,
583
00:20:04,693 --> 00:20:06,122
{\an7}we decided to have Chris
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hon the show
584
00:20:06,122 --> 00:20:09,396
{\an7}\hto get his perspective,
so please welcome Chris.
585
00:20:09,396 --> 00:20:10,561
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h[applause]
- How y’all doing?
586
00:20:10,561 --> 00:20:13,495
{\an7}- Hey, it was nice to see you
\h\h\hon camera this season.
587
00:20:13,495 --> 00:20:16,155
{\an7}How has the filming experience
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbeen for you?
588
00:20:16,155 --> 00:20:19,528
{\an7}- I mean, the good, I guess,
\h\his, I got to kinda share
589
00:20:19,528 --> 00:20:22,627
{\an7}a little bit about me,
\hbut the bad is, um,
590
00:20:22,627 --> 00:20:24,363
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI felt like
I was being silenced.
591
00:20:24,363 --> 00:20:27,264
{\an7}Like, you know, people had
\ha little temper tantrum,
592
00:20:27,264 --> 00:20:29,495
{\an7}\hand ever since then, um,
I ain’t heard from nobody.
593
00:20:29,495 --> 00:20:32,221
{\an7}\h\h\hLike, I didn’t even know
y’all had a reunion going on.
594
00:20:32,221 --> 00:20:34,297
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Well,
I hope during this reunion
595
00:20:34,297 --> 00:20:35,155
{\an7}with Dr. Drew and myself
596
00:20:35,155 --> 00:20:37,792
{\an7}\h\h\h\hthat you’re able
to fully express yourself
597
00:20:37,792 --> 00:20:38,759
{\an7}however way you want to.
598
00:20:38,759 --> 00:20:41,297
{\an7}I mean, that’s the reason
\hwhy we do this reunion.
599
00:20:41,297 --> 00:20:44,528
{\an7}\h\hI guess for me, I’m just
trying to get more clarity.
600
00:20:44,528 --> 00:20:45,726
{\an7}What caused the demise?
601
00:20:45,726 --> 00:20:49,924
{\an7}- Between the Briana thing
\hand me having a new baby,
602
00:20:49,924 --> 00:20:50,858
{\an7}that’s what it was.
603
00:20:50,858 --> 00:20:51,759
{\an7}I’ma tell y’all this,
604
00:20:51,759 --> 00:20:55,023
{\an7}before all this happened,
\h\h\h\h\h\hwe was...us.
605
00:20:55,023 --> 00:20:56,297
{\an7}All right, I’m just gonna
\h\h\h\hput it like that.
606
00:20:56,297 --> 00:20:57,693
{\an7}We was hanging out
\hwith each other,
607
00:20:57,693 --> 00:20:58,858
{\an7}doing all that stuff.
608
00:20:58,858 --> 00:21:00,462
{\an7}And once this stuff broke,
609
00:21:00,462 --> 00:21:03,023
{\an7}you know, it was just--
\h\h\hit was--you know,
610
00:21:03,023 --> 00:21:04,726
{\an7}I am the worst person
\h\h\h\hin the world.
611
00:21:04,726 --> 00:21:06,726
{\an7}- I wanna ask a couple
questions about Briana.
612
00:21:06,726 --> 00:21:09,858
{\an7}\h\h\hAnd what made you want
to get her for your podcast?
613
00:21:09,858 --> 00:21:11,221
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- It was just
to share experiences.
614
00:21:11,221 --> 00:21:13,221
{\an7}It wasn’t to be, like, petty
\h\h\h\hor anything, like--
615
00:21:13,221 --> 00:21:14,627
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Right.
- It’s not like I’m trying
616
00:21:14,627 --> 00:21:15,990
{\an7}to purposely hurt this girl.
617
00:21:15,990 --> 00:21:19,594
{\an7}- What made you agree
to give a deposition
618
00:21:19,594 --> 00:21:20,792
{\an7}on Briana’s behalf?
619
00:21:20,792 --> 00:21:22,297
{\an7}- This whole thing put me
\h\h\h\h\hin a tough spot
620
00:21:22,297 --> 00:21:23,825
{\an7}because it was like I had
\h\h\h\hto choose sides.
621
00:21:23,825 --> 00:21:26,056
{\an7}They was trying to basically
\h\hmake me appear in court,
622
00:21:26,056 --> 00:21:28,594
{\an7}and I ain’t even wanna do that,
\h\h\hso I just told her, like,
623
00:21:28,594 --> 00:21:30,594
{\an7}you know, I said what I said.
624
00:21:30,594 --> 00:21:32,023
{\an7}\h\h\hYou know, like,
I told her the story.
625
00:21:32,023 --> 00:21:33,056
{\an7}There’s nothing to hide,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know,
626
00:21:33,056 --> 00:21:34,264
{\an7}so that was basically
\h\h\h\hhow I had it.
627
00:21:34,264 --> 00:21:36,264
{\an7}\hBriana, I’m not saying,
like, it’s all her fault.
628
00:21:36,264 --> 00:21:38,957
{\an7}\h\hBut she did, you know,
talk about certain things,
629
00:21:38,957 --> 00:21:41,792
{\an7}like, that really wasn’t
\h\h\h\h\h\hher business,
630
00:21:41,792 --> 00:21:42,627
{\an7}but it is what it is.
631
00:21:42,627 --> 00:21:45,759
{\an7}- I wanted to get some clarity
\h\h\h\h\h\hbehind some rumors
632
00:21:45,759 --> 00:21:48,693
{\an7}that you and Briana were
\hmore than just friends.
633
00:21:48,693 --> 00:21:49,495
{\an7}Any truth to that?
634
00:21:49,495 --> 00:21:51,264
{\an7}- Nah, me and Bri,
we was just cool.
635
00:21:51,264 --> 00:21:52,825
{\an7}Like, we hung out,
don’t get it wrong,
636
00:21:52,825 --> 00:21:53,957
{\an7}but, like, it was just friends.
637
00:21:53,957 --> 00:21:55,957
{\an7}I was very respectful
\hwith that, you know?
638
00:21:55,957 --> 00:21:58,528
{\an7}- Kail specifically alluded
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto the fact
639
00:21:58,528 --> 00:22:00,023
{\an7}that you two had
\hslept together.
640
00:22:00,023 --> 00:22:04,891
{\an7}So do you wanna clarify
what actually happened?
641
00:22:04,891 --> 00:22:05,924
{\an7}- Kail say a lot of stuff.
642
00:22:05,924 --> 00:22:07,122
{\an7}That don’t mean it’s true.
643
00:22:07,122 --> 00:22:09,089
{\an7}- What about someone
\h\h\hon social media
644
00:22:09,089 --> 00:22:12,221
{\an7}pointing out that Briana came
\hhome wearing the same shirt
645
00:22:12,221 --> 00:22:14,594
{\an7}\h\h\hthat you wore
during the podcast?
646
00:22:14,594 --> 00:22:16,056
{\an7}- All right.
\h\h[laughs]
647
00:22:16,056 --> 00:22:18,660
{\an7}That--I gave her my shirt.
648
00:22:18,660 --> 00:22:20,297
{\an7}She had, like, a beater
\h\h\h\h\h\hon that day,
649
00:22:20,297 --> 00:22:22,155
{\an7}and she was like, "I’m cold,"
\h\h\hand I was like, "Here."
650
00:22:22,155 --> 00:22:23,330
{\an7}I mean, she asked me
\h\h\h\hfor my shirt,
651
00:22:23,330 --> 00:22:24,528
{\an7}and I was like, "Here,"
\h\h\hand that was it.
652
00:22:24,528 --> 00:22:27,122
{\an7}Nothing more, nothing less.
\h- And so she didn’t have
653
00:22:27,122 --> 00:22:28,155
{\an7}anything else packed with her?
654
00:22:28,155 --> 00:22:29,396
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah,
she did have stuff packed,
655
00:22:29,396 --> 00:22:30,924
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbut, like,
I ain’t think nothing of it.
656
00:22:30,924 --> 00:22:32,330
{\an7}You know, it was just, like,
\h\h\h\h\hone of those things
657
00:22:32,330 --> 00:22:34,188
{\an7}like, all right, here,
and the crazy thing is,
658
00:22:34,188 --> 00:22:35,660
{\an7}is I forgot I gave her
\h\h\h\h\h\hthat shirt
659
00:22:35,660 --> 00:22:36,693
{\an7}’cause I was looking for it.
660
00:22:36,693 --> 00:22:39,264
{\an7}- Congrats on the birth
\h\h\h\h\hof Chris Jr.
661
00:22:39,264 --> 00:22:40,023
{\an7}How’s he doing?
662
00:22:40,023 --> 00:22:41,957
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh, he good.
He in there taking a nap.
663
00:22:41,957 --> 00:22:43,759
{\an7}He not really Junior, per se.
664
00:22:43,759 --> 00:22:45,297
{\an7}His real name--his first name--
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\his Trew.
665
00:22:45,297 --> 00:22:47,957
{\an7}I just call him CJ
’cause, you know.
666
00:22:47,957 --> 00:22:48,759
{\an7}- Oh, okay.
667
00:22:48,759 --> 00:22:51,155
{\an7}And are you still
with Trew’s mom?
668
00:22:51,155 --> 00:22:53,221
{\an7}- Nah, like, I wasn’t
\hin a place to date.
669
00:22:53,221 --> 00:22:54,594
{\an7}You know, like, mentally,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI wasn’t.
670
00:22:54,594 --> 00:22:56,188
{\an7}- What are some things
\h\hyou wanna work on?
671
00:22:56,188 --> 00:22:58,330
{\an7}\h- I’ve been open about it.
Like, I deal with depression.
672
00:22:58,330 --> 00:23:01,023
{\an7}You know, depression, anxiety,
\h\h\h\h\hand things like that,
673
00:23:01,023 --> 00:23:02,297
{\an7}and, um, it really bothers me.
674
00:23:02,297 --> 00:23:05,825
{\an7}\h\h\h\hLike, you know, like,
I could just wake up one day
675
00:23:05,825 --> 00:23:06,891
{\an7}and just be out of it.
676
00:23:06,891 --> 00:23:09,330
{\an7}\h\h- Have you been treated
for some of these symptoms?
677
00:23:09,330 --> 00:23:12,825
{\an7}- So I put myself in therapy,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know,
678
00:23:12,825 --> 00:23:14,056
{\an7}when that incident happened,
679
00:23:14,056 --> 00:23:15,396
{\an7}so almost three years
680
00:23:15,396 --> 00:23:16,297
{\an7}I’ve been doing therapy.
681
00:23:16,297 --> 00:23:18,122
{\an7}It’s kinda one of those, um--
682
00:23:18,122 --> 00:23:20,297
{\an7}\hI just wasn’t happy
with how things were.
683
00:23:20,297 --> 00:23:22,188
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I hear it.
- So, you know, I kinda--
684
00:23:22,188 --> 00:23:23,155
{\an7}- Yep.
685
00:23:23,155 --> 00:23:24,297
{\an7}So I wanna clear stuff up
686
00:23:24,297 --> 00:23:25,858
{\an7}that’s been swirling around
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor a while.
687
00:23:25,858 --> 00:23:28,056
{\an7}\h\hAnd you mentioned
that three years ago,
688
00:23:28,056 --> 00:23:30,297
{\an7}\h\h\hsomething happened
that sent you to therapy.
689
00:23:30,297 --> 00:23:31,891
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
- There have been allegations
690
00:23:31,891 --> 00:23:33,396
{\an7}of abuse between you two.
691
00:23:33,396 --> 00:23:34,957
{\an7}Can you clarify that for me?
692
00:23:34,957 --> 00:23:35,825
{\an7}- We both did some.
693
00:23:35,825 --> 00:23:38,693
{\an7}It’s--it’s--it’s faults
\h\h\h\h\hon both sides.
694
00:23:38,693 --> 00:23:39,990
{\an7}Whatever’s been said about me
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfrom her
695
00:23:39,990 --> 00:23:42,221
{\an7}\h\h\h\hcan literally be said
about them, so it’s more like
696
00:23:42,221 --> 00:23:43,594
{\an7}I ain’t about to sit here
\h\h\h\h\hand tell y’all
697
00:23:43,594 --> 00:23:45,561
{\an7}exactly what this--
\hwhat’s happened,
698
00:23:45,561 --> 00:23:47,363
{\an7}But it’s been abuse
\h\hon both sides.
699
00:23:47,363 --> 00:23:49,924
{\an7}- Did you ever threaten her
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith violence
700
00:23:49,924 --> 00:23:50,660
{\an7}or injure Kail?
701
00:23:50,660 --> 00:23:52,429
{\an7}- Injure? No.
\h\h\h\h- No.
702
00:23:52,429 --> 00:23:54,561
{\an7}- She’s making it seem like
\h\h\h\hI really beat her.
703
00:23:54,561 --> 00:23:56,221
{\an7}That’s the--that’s the story
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hgoing around
704
00:23:56,221 --> 00:23:57,561
{\an7}like I actually beat this girl.
705
00:23:57,561 --> 00:23:58,330
{\an7}I never beat her.
706
00:23:58,330 --> 00:24:00,561
{\an7}- Did you threaten her?
\h\h\h- What I did--I--
707
00:24:00,561 --> 00:24:01,495
{\an7}did I threaten her?
708
00:24:01,495 --> 00:24:03,627
{\an7}I might’ve said some things
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hout of anger.
709
00:24:03,627 --> 00:24:05,594
{\an7}I don’t necessarily know
\h\hexactly what I said,
710
00:24:05,594 --> 00:24:07,462
{\an7}\h\h\h\hbut I said some--
I’m not gonna stand here
711
00:24:07,462 --> 00:24:08,660
{\an7}and act like I’m innocent.
712
00:24:08,660 --> 00:24:09,825
{\an7}I did--I done things.
713
00:24:09,825 --> 00:24:11,297
{\an7}And I--and I served for it.
714
00:24:11,297 --> 00:24:13,825
{\an7}You know, like, I got
handed my punishment.
715
00:24:13,825 --> 00:24:15,792
{\an7}\hI’m not ’bout to let
y’all keep punishing me
716
00:24:15,792 --> 00:24:17,825
{\an7}\hfor something I did
three, four years ago.
717
00:24:17,825 --> 00:24:19,759
{\an7}- No, that’s not my intention.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hTrust me.
718
00:24:19,759 --> 00:24:21,023
{\an7}\h\h- No, no, no.
Not you. Not you.
719
00:24:21,023 --> 00:24:22,528
{\an7}I’m just saying, you know,
\h\hI’m saying in general,
720
00:24:22,528 --> 00:24:23,759
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know,
that’s what people do.
721
00:24:23,759 --> 00:24:24,594
{\an7}They use my past as a way
722
00:24:24,594 --> 00:24:26,924
{\an7}to constantly try to,
\h\h\h\h\hyou know--
723
00:24:26,924 --> 00:24:27,858
{\an7}I’m honest with myself.
724
00:24:27,858 --> 00:24:29,693
{\an7}\h\hI’m, like, at a--
at a different place.
725
00:24:29,693 --> 00:24:31,396
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hLike I said,
I’m not angry no more.
726
00:24:31,396 --> 00:24:32,528
{\an7}I’m not--I’m not mad.
727
00:24:32,528 --> 00:24:33,429
{\an7}I’m not none of that.
728
00:24:33,429 --> 00:24:35,221
{\an7}You know, it’s not--
and I wish the best,
729
00:24:35,221 --> 00:24:36,396
{\an7}you know, for everybody.
730
00:24:36,396 --> 00:24:37,264
{\an7}Um, as far as Kail,
731
00:24:37,264 --> 00:24:38,891
{\an7}like, I don’t have no issues
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith this girl.
732
00:24:38,891 --> 00:24:40,264
{\an7}Like, I genuinely wanna
\h\h\h\h\h\hget along.
733
00:24:40,264 --> 00:24:42,188
{\an7}Our kids deserve it.
\hIt’s been too long.
734
00:24:42,188 --> 00:24:44,792
{\an7}\h\h- She had said she was
very much in love with you.
735
00:24:44,792 --> 00:24:45,726
{\an7}Were you in love with her?
736
00:24:45,726 --> 00:24:47,792
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah,
I was in love with that girl.
737
00:24:47,792 --> 00:24:50,264
{\an7}\h\h\h\hThat’s why I chose
to stay quiet for so long.
738
00:24:50,264 --> 00:24:52,089
{\an7}’Cause it’s like, yo,
\hthat was really my--
739
00:24:52,089 --> 00:24:54,122
{\an7}that was my dawg, like,
\h\h\h\h\hyou feel me?
740
00:24:54,122 --> 00:24:56,089
{\an7}\hSo for all this
to be going down,
741
00:24:56,089 --> 00:24:58,188
{\an7}it kinda--it do suck.
742
00:24:58,188 --> 00:24:59,122
{\an7}And I’m not gonna say--
743
00:24:59,122 --> 00:25:01,089
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hlike, yeah,
we can say we toxic now.
744
00:25:01,089 --> 00:25:02,990
{\an7}But we great when we get along.
745
00:25:02,990 --> 00:25:05,858
{\an7}\h\h\h- We’re about to wrap up,
Chris, but any final thoughts?
746
00:25:05,858 --> 00:25:08,264
{\an7}- My kids are probably the only
reason why I’m out here today,
747
00:25:08,264 --> 00:25:11,188
{\an7}\hespecially when I’m dealing
with depression and all that.
748
00:25:11,188 --> 00:25:14,023
{\an7}\h\hMy kids, like,
they keep me here.
749
00:25:14,023 --> 00:25:16,122
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hLike, sane.
They keep me, like, happy.
750
00:25:16,122 --> 00:25:17,858
{\an7}\h- Well, Chris,
thank you so much
751
00:25:17,858 --> 00:25:19,155
{\an7}for talking with us today,
752
00:25:19,155 --> 00:25:20,528
{\an7}and I hope everybody’s able
753
00:25:20,528 --> 00:25:22,726
{\an7}to work their differences out.
754
00:25:22,726 --> 00:25:25,221
{\an7}- Coming up next, we’ll be
\hjoined by Ashley and Bar
755
00:25:25,221 --> 00:25:28,759
{\an7}and Ashley’s mom, Tea,
\h\h\hafter the break.
756
00:25:28,759 --> 00:25:32,221
{\an7}[applause]
757
00:25:32,957 --> 00:25:34,396
{\an7}When you started talking
\h\h\h\h\habout divorce,
758
00:25:34,396 --> 00:25:37,155
{\an7}that--that broke my heart
\h\h\h\h\h\ha little bit.
759
00:25:37,155 --> 00:25:38,330
{\an7}- Believe me when I say,
760
00:25:38,330 --> 00:25:43,264
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hif I said it,
I had just cause to say it.
761
00:25:47,209 --> 00:25:49,836
{\an7}[applause]
762
00:25:49,836 --> 00:25:51,737
{\an7}[upbeat music]
763
00:25:51,737 --> 00:25:52,440
{\an7}- And we’re back.
764
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:53,704
{\an7}\hWe’ve been talking
with Ashley and Bar,
765
00:25:53,704 --> 00:25:57,077
{\an7}and we are joined now
by Ashley’s mom, Tea.
766
00:25:57,077 --> 00:25:57,879
{\an7}Hi, Tea. Welcome.
767
00:25:57,879 --> 00:26:00,704
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- [laughs]
[cheers and applause]
768
00:26:00,704 --> 00:26:03,945
{\an7}- Talk to us--how do you think
\h\h\hthey’re doing as parents?
769
00:26:03,945 --> 00:26:06,143
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Um, I think
they’re doing great as parents.
770
00:26:06,143 --> 00:26:08,879
{\an7}I’m really excited
about watching them
771
00:26:08,879 --> 00:26:10,176
{\an7}mother and father Holly.
772
00:26:10,176 --> 00:26:13,242
{\an7}I think they are doing better
\h\h\h\h\hthan I did for sure.
773
00:26:13,242 --> 00:26:15,737
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- [laughs]
- So that’s a plus right there.
774
00:26:15,737 --> 00:26:19,209
{\an7}- How’s your relationship
\h\hwith Shen these days?
775
00:26:19,209 --> 00:26:19,879
{\an7}- [sighs]
776
00:26:19,879 --> 00:26:21,473
{\an7}Why you ask that?
\h\h[both laugh]
777
00:26:21,473 --> 00:26:23,539
{\an7}\h\h- Well, you know,
we’ve seen the past,
778
00:26:23,539 --> 00:26:24,638
{\an7}but now it’s the present.
779
00:26:24,638 --> 00:26:26,638
{\an7}- I think our relationship
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\his better.
780
00:26:26,638 --> 00:26:29,374
{\an7}I like, uh, where we’re headed.
781
00:26:29,374 --> 00:26:30,803
{\an7}As time goes on,
782
00:26:30,803 --> 00:26:33,176
{\an7}I think me and Shen’ll
\h\h\h\h\hbe just fine
783
00:26:33,176 --> 00:26:34,011
{\an7}as I always knew we was.
784
00:26:34,011 --> 00:26:36,638
{\an7}\hBut, you know, sometimes
you just gotta let things
785
00:26:36,638 --> 00:26:39,011
{\an7}run its course because when
\h\h\h\heverybody is trying
786
00:26:39,011 --> 00:26:41,638
{\an7}to make something be--
and it’s just not time.
787
00:26:41,638 --> 00:26:45,671
{\an7}And I think now is the season,
now is the time for me and Shen
788
00:26:45,671 --> 00:26:49,011
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hto explore
whatever it is for us
789
00:26:49,011 --> 00:26:53,143
{\an7}without anybody’s involvement.
790
00:26:53,143 --> 00:26:54,605
{\an7}Just her and I.
\h\h- For sure.
791
00:26:54,605 --> 00:26:57,077
{\an7}- And Tea, you officiated
\h\h\h\h\hat the wedding?
792
00:26:57,077 --> 00:26:59,011
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I did.
- How was that experience?
793
00:26:59,011 --> 00:27:01,110
{\an7}- Do we really even have
\h\h\h\h\hto mention it?
794
00:27:01,110 --> 00:27:01,704
{\an7}I was--
795
00:27:01,704 --> 00:27:03,275
{\an7}- There wasn’t a wedding.
\h\h\h- I was not happy.
796
00:27:03,275 --> 00:27:05,143
{\an7}Don’t look at me like that,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hBar.
797
00:27:05,143 --> 00:27:05,770
{\an7}- [laughs]
798
00:27:05,770 --> 00:27:06,945
{\an7}- Don’t even look at me
\h\h\h\h\h\hlike that.
799
00:27:06,945 --> 00:27:09,978
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI didn’t want it
to happen like that, you know?
800
00:27:09,978 --> 00:27:12,044
{\an7}But they were gonna do it
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hanyway.
801
00:27:12,044 --> 00:27:14,407
{\an7}And so why not it be me?
802
00:27:14,407 --> 00:27:15,737
{\an7}Um, but I would’ve wanted
803
00:27:15,737 --> 00:27:18,374
{\an7}\h\h\h\hfor them to have
the big fairy tale thing
804
00:27:18,374 --> 00:27:20,638
{\an7}\hand, you know,
I think hopefully
805
00:27:20,638 --> 00:27:21,473
{\an7}we can still see that.
806
00:27:21,473 --> 00:27:24,044
{\an7}- Tea, there--when you started
\h\h\h\htalking about divorce,
807
00:27:24,044 --> 00:27:26,704
{\an7}that--that broke my heart
\h\h\h\h\h\ha little bit.
808
00:27:26,704 --> 00:27:29,341
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- It’s no secret.
I never wanted you with Bar.
809
00:27:29,341 --> 00:27:31,572
{\an7}Girl, you better divorce him.
810
00:27:31,572 --> 00:27:33,671
{\an7}- You still feel that way?
811
00:27:33,671 --> 00:27:36,077
{\an7}- Um, believe me when I say,
812
00:27:36,077 --> 00:27:40,473
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hif I said it,
I had just cause to say it.
813
00:27:40,473 --> 00:27:44,110
{\an7}Um, and so--but we’ll work out
\h\h\h\h\h\hour family things.
814
00:27:44,110 --> 00:27:45,638
{\an7}You guys don’t see everything.
815
00:27:45,638 --> 00:27:48,110
{\an7}Now, do I feel like that
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin general?
816
00:27:48,110 --> 00:27:49,737
{\an7}No, because I love Bar.
817
00:27:49,737 --> 00:27:50,638
{\an7}- Ashley, was she right
818
00:27:50,638 --> 00:27:51,836
{\an7}to feel that way
\hat that moment?
819
00:27:51,836 --> 00:27:54,209
{\an7}- Everyone is entitled
\h\h\hto their opinion.
820
00:27:54,209 --> 00:27:57,978
{\an7}I’m gonna do what I want to do
\h\hbecause I’m a grown woman.
821
00:27:57,978 --> 00:28:01,945
{\an7}I respect my mom’s opinion
\hbecause my mom has lived
822
00:28:01,945 --> 00:28:03,770
{\an7}a thousand more lives than me.
823
00:28:03,770 --> 00:28:04,605
{\an7}- Girl, don’t lie.
824
00:28:04,605 --> 00:28:06,143
{\an7}- Not--not your age!
\h\h\h\h\h[laughter]
825
00:28:06,143 --> 00:28:07,572
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Your face.
You hear that [bleep]?
826
00:28:07,572 --> 00:28:09,605
{\an7}\h- I’m talking about--
- Don’t put that on me.
827
00:28:09,605 --> 00:28:10,638
{\an7}- I’m talking about your--
828
00:28:10,638 --> 00:28:12,638
{\an7}\h\h\hyou know, the stuff
that you’ve been through.
829
00:28:12,638 --> 00:28:14,473
{\an7}- Trying to make me older
\h\h\hthan I need to be.
830
00:28:14,473 --> 00:28:16,440
{\an7}\h\h\h- The knowledge
that she has to share
831
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,275
{\an7}really is probably worth
\h\h\h\ha thousand lives.
832
00:28:18,275 --> 00:28:19,506
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- You know what I’m saying?
833
00:28:19,506 --> 00:28:21,605
{\an7}So I appreciate what she says.
834
00:28:21,605 --> 00:28:24,671
{\an7}I listen to what she says,
\hand it’s no hard feelings
835
00:28:24,671 --> 00:28:25,506
{\an7}because she’s my mama.
836
00:28:25,506 --> 00:28:28,176
{\an7}And another thing that people
\h\h\h\hdon’t understand is,
837
00:28:28,176 --> 00:28:29,879
{\an7}she’s kinda like Bar’s mom.
838
00:28:29,879 --> 00:28:31,770
{\an7}And so when Bar [bleep] up,
839
00:28:31,770 --> 00:28:32,770
{\an7}she’s gonna cuss him out
840
00:28:32,770 --> 00:28:34,638
{\an7}\h\h\hand do everything
that she would do to me
841
00:28:34,638 --> 00:28:36,506
{\an7}because she’s our mom.
842
00:28:36,506 --> 00:28:37,912
{\an7}And so I don’t take that--
843
00:28:37,912 --> 00:28:39,704
{\an7}- But ultimately,
\hshe’s your mom.
844
00:28:39,704 --> 00:28:41,638
{\an7}And that’s why divorce
\h\h\h\hcomes into it.
845
00:28:41,638 --> 00:28:42,836
{\an7}- That is true.
\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
846
00:28:42,836 --> 00:28:45,275
{\an7}- But on the flip side of that,
847
00:28:45,275 --> 00:28:47,945
{\an7}if it was me [bleep] up
\hand Bar calling her,
848
00:28:47,945 --> 00:28:50,473
{\an7}she would say, "Bar...
849
00:28:50,473 --> 00:28:51,704
{\an7}she ain’t doing right."
850
00:28:51,704 --> 00:28:52,879
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Leave her.
- "You might need to make
851
00:28:52,879 --> 00:28:54,209
{\an7}a better decision"...
\h\h\h\h- Leave her.
852
00:28:54,209 --> 00:28:55,308
{\an7}- "Than my daughter."
853
00:28:55,308 --> 00:28:56,737
{\an7}- Tea, you good with them
\h\h\htogether right now?
854
00:28:56,737 --> 00:29:00,671
{\an7}- My issue is, is that when
they aren’t getting along,
855
00:29:00,671 --> 00:29:03,836
{\an7}I don’t wanna see it fall out
\h\h\h\h\hall over the place.
856
00:29:03,836 --> 00:29:06,506
{\an7}I want them to be able
\h\h\h\hto contain that
857
00:29:06,506 --> 00:29:10,176
{\an7}’cause it takes some steadiness
\h\h\h\hto make it to 20 years.
858
00:29:10,176 --> 00:29:12,308
{\an7}\h\h\h- Well, I know,
watching the journey,
859
00:29:12,308 --> 00:29:13,572
{\an7}it has been incredible,
860
00:29:13,572 --> 00:29:15,275
{\an7}especially the ending
\h\h\hof this season.
861
00:29:15,275 --> 00:29:17,506
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm.
- You two really overcame.
862
00:29:17,506 --> 00:29:19,044
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI didn’t know
what was gonna happen.
863
00:29:19,044 --> 00:29:20,671
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Me either.
- From the start of the season.
864
00:29:20,671 --> 00:29:21,506
{\an7}- I didn’t at all.
865
00:29:21,506 --> 00:29:23,506
{\an7}- I mean, you know, Ashley,
866
00:29:23,506 --> 00:29:24,879
{\an7}\h\h\hshe was clear
in what she wanted.
867
00:29:24,879 --> 00:29:26,737
{\an7}And she wasn’t gonna lower--
- And I was on the same page
868
00:29:26,737 --> 00:29:28,879
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hat that point.
Like, we was like, we’re done.
869
00:29:28,879 --> 00:29:30,044
{\an7}\h\h\h\hLike--
- And--and Bar,
870
00:29:30,044 --> 00:29:32,572
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hyou looked like
you really understood...
871
00:29:32,572 --> 00:29:34,242
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I did.
- What she was saying.
872
00:29:34,242 --> 00:29:38,737
{\an7}So to see where you both
\hare today, it’s great.
873
00:29:38,737 --> 00:29:39,539
{\an7}It’s really amazing.
874
00:29:39,539 --> 00:29:40,978
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Thank you.
- Great job. For sure.
875
00:29:40,978 --> 00:29:43,143
{\an7}Well, Ashley, Bar, and Tea,
\h\h\h\h\hthank you so much
876
00:29:43,143 --> 00:29:45,506
{\an7}for being so open and candid
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith us today.
877
00:29:45,506 --> 00:29:48,308
{\an7}We gotta take a quick break,
\h\hand we’ll be right back.
878
00:29:48,308 --> 00:29:51,440
{\an7}[cheers and applause]
879
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,539
{\an7}♪ ♪
880
00:29:55,190 --> 00:29:58,784
{\an7}[cheers and applause]
881
00:29:58,784 --> 00:30:00,784
{\an7}- And we have another
\h\hfirst-time guest
882
00:30:00,784 --> 00:30:03,685
{\an7}on a reunion show:
\hBar’s mom, Shen.
883
00:30:03,685 --> 00:30:06,619
{\an7}[cheers and applause]
\h\h\h\h- Oh, Jesus.
884
00:30:06,619 --> 00:30:07,992
{\an7}- So listen, um,
885
00:30:07,992 --> 00:30:09,355
{\an7}\h\h\hI got to know you
a little bit backstage.
886
00:30:09,355 --> 00:30:11,256
{\an7}It is such a privilege
\h\hto get to know you
887
00:30:11,256 --> 00:30:14,058
{\an7}\hand look you in the eye
and find out who you are.
888
00:30:14,058 --> 00:30:16,784
{\an7}What do you want people
\h\hto know about you?
889
00:30:16,784 --> 00:30:19,355
{\an7}- I--I don’t--
890
00:30:19,355 --> 00:30:20,454
{\an7}I need a minute.
891
00:30:20,454 --> 00:30:21,421
{\an7}I-I-I need a minute.
892
00:30:21,421 --> 00:30:22,685
{\an7}- No, no, no, no, no, no, no--
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I can’t.
893
00:30:22,685 --> 00:30:25,784
{\an7}\h\h- Shen, please.
- I need a minute.
894
00:30:25,784 --> 00:30:27,751
{\an7}Where do I get out of here?
895
00:30:27,751 --> 00:30:29,388
{\an7}I need a minute.
I need a minute.
896
00:30:29,388 --> 00:30:30,718
{\an7}Where’s my kid?
897
00:30:30,718 --> 00:30:32,619
{\an7}I need a minute.
898
00:30:37,058 --> 00:30:37,751
{\an7}- Let’s be clear.
899
00:30:37,751 --> 00:30:39,388
{\an7}\hI didn’t do this
’cause I wanted to.
900
00:30:39,388 --> 00:30:41,388
{\an7}- I know you didn’t. I know.
\h\h\h\h\h- My kid begged me
901
00:30:41,388 --> 00:30:42,256
{\an7}for two weeks to do it.
902
00:30:42,256 --> 00:30:44,751
{\an7}\h\h\hI was against it.
- I know. But I think--
903
00:30:47,322 --> 00:30:49,992
{\an7}- They were supposed
\hto be here with me.
904
00:30:49,992 --> 00:30:51,718
{\an7}We’ve been good. I babysit.
905
00:30:51,718 --> 00:30:53,487
{\an7}\h\h\h\hThey call me.
We talk on the phone.
906
00:30:53,487 --> 00:30:55,619
{\an7}We’ve gone shopping,
\h\h\hand now, today,
907
00:30:55,619 --> 00:30:57,190
{\an7}there’s a problem for filming?
908
00:30:57,190 --> 00:30:58,421
{\an7}- One minute.
909
00:30:58,421 --> 00:30:59,992
{\an7}- Keep walking.
910
00:31:02,025 --> 00:31:04,157
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Okay.
- [indistinct]
911
00:31:04,157 --> 00:31:05,959
{\an7}[somber music]
912
00:31:05,959 --> 00:31:07,025
{\an7}- Are you okay?
\h- I’m sorry.
913
00:31:07,025 --> 00:31:09,223
{\an7}\h\h\h\hI needed a minute.
- Let me ask you something.
914
00:31:09,223 --> 00:31:10,784
{\an7}Did I say something to--
\h\h\h\h- No, you didn’t.
915
00:31:10,784 --> 00:31:12,223
{\an7}- Okay. Are you cool?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I am.
916
00:31:12,223 --> 00:31:13,718
{\an7}- Okay. Come on. We wanna--
\h- This is so much deeper
917
00:31:13,718 --> 00:31:15,784
{\an7}\h\hthan you could ever know.
- You were alluding to that,
918
00:31:15,784 --> 00:31:17,817
{\an7}so I didn’t wanna even ask
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout that.
919
00:31:17,817 --> 00:31:19,619
{\an7}- I am so sorry, you guys.
920
00:31:19,619 --> 00:31:21,520
{\an7}- Shh. No, no, no, no, no, no.
921
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:22,454
{\an7}We’re just glad you’re back.
922
00:31:22,454 --> 00:31:24,322
{\an7}- You’re so pretty.
\h\h\h\h- [laughs]
923
00:31:24,322 --> 00:31:26,421
{\an7}- Thank you. Thank you.
924
00:31:26,421 --> 00:31:27,751
{\an7}You’re fine. Take your time.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
925
00:31:27,751 --> 00:31:30,091
{\an7}- We’re here for you.
\h\h\h\h- Take. Cut.
926
00:31:30,091 --> 00:31:32,992
{\an7}Let’s start again, guys.
\h\h\h\h\h\h[both laugh]
927
00:31:32,992 --> 00:31:34,553
{\an7}- Happily.
928
00:31:34,553 --> 00:31:36,926
{\an7}\h\h\hI’m sorry you’re anxious.
I’m sorry you’re uncomfortable.
929
00:31:36,926 --> 00:31:39,091
{\an7}\h- Well, I felt like
everything was okay.
930
00:31:39,091 --> 00:31:39,959
{\an7}Everything’s been fine.
931
00:31:39,959 --> 00:31:42,959
{\an7}\h\h\hAnd then all of a sudden,
somebody pretended an argument
932
00:31:42,959 --> 00:31:43,959
{\an7}and my son left me here.
933
00:31:43,959 --> 00:31:45,157
{\an7}He’s supposed to be here
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith me.
934
00:31:45,157 --> 00:31:48,091
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- He--he was.
That was supposed to happen.
935
00:31:48,091 --> 00:31:49,058
{\an7}And you had said
936
00:31:49,058 --> 00:31:50,860
{\an7}that that happens
once in a while.
937
00:31:50,860 --> 00:31:52,355
{\an7}- That happens all the time.
938
00:31:52,355 --> 00:31:55,553
{\an7}- That he abandons you
\hor lets you down or--
939
00:31:55,553 --> 00:31:56,388
{\an7}- That he pretends
940
00:31:56,388 --> 00:31:58,388
{\an7}that there’s drama
when there’s not.
941
00:31:58,388 --> 00:32:01,256
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- I noticed
the effusive affection
942
00:32:01,256 --> 00:32:03,926
{\an7}and love you have for him
\hwhen you guys are cool.
943
00:32:03,926 --> 00:32:07,751
{\an7}\h\h\hSo it must be extra
crazy-feeling and painful.
944
00:32:07,751 --> 00:32:09,091
{\an7}- I’ll tell you, with me,
945
00:32:09,091 --> 00:32:10,926
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI came from
a very tough background.
946
00:32:10,926 --> 00:32:13,520
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- What happened?
- I was abused as a child.
947
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,817
{\an7}I was doing my own laundry
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hat seven.
948
00:32:15,817 --> 00:32:17,751
{\an7}I was raped, kidnapped,
\h\h\h\h\hand molested
949
00:32:17,751 --> 00:32:21,157
{\an7}\h\h\h\hall before I was 18,
so I turned into a nurturer.
950
00:32:21,157 --> 00:32:25,091
{\an7}\h\h\h\hAnd I feel like
I was so overprotective
951
00:32:25,091 --> 00:32:26,784
{\an7}and loving to my children
952
00:32:26,784 --> 00:32:31,454
{\an7}that now, they’re used
to me being superwoman.
953
00:32:31,454 --> 00:32:33,992
{\an7}They think I can handle
\hthe hurt they cause.
954
00:32:33,992 --> 00:32:36,355
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hBar thinks
that I can handle this.
955
00:32:36,355 --> 00:32:37,718
{\an7}And he doesn’t understand,
956
00:32:37,718 --> 00:32:41,718
{\an7}\h\hnothing in this world
will break me, Dr. Drew,
957
00:32:41,718 --> 00:32:42,388
{\an7}but my children.
958
00:32:42,388 --> 00:32:45,091
{\an7}\h- So I’m hearing that Bar
may be willing to come out.
959
00:32:45,091 --> 00:32:47,025
{\an7}He’s not been listening
\h\hto this interview.
960
00:32:47,025 --> 00:32:47,893
{\an7}Are you cool with that?
961
00:32:47,893 --> 00:32:49,619
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah,
I thought that was the plan
962
00:32:49,619 --> 00:32:50,421
{\an7}from the beginning.
963
00:32:50,421 --> 00:32:51,487
{\an7}- Well, me too.
\h[both laugh]
964
00:32:51,487 --> 00:32:54,058
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hBut I--I--I--
- Which is why I felt betrayed.
965
00:32:54,058 --> 00:32:54,959
{\an7}Like, I’m out here alone.
966
00:32:54,959 --> 00:32:57,190
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I think he’s coming,
and I’m delighted to see that.
967
00:32:57,190 --> 00:32:59,959
{\an7}So, Bar, if you’re available,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou’re willing,
968
00:32:59,959 --> 00:33:01,926
{\an7}come on out here and join us.
969
00:33:01,926 --> 00:33:03,487
{\an7}[applause]
970
00:33:03,487 --> 00:33:04,685
{\an7}- I ain’t even gonna lie--
971
00:33:04,685 --> 00:33:06,322
{\an7}I know I’m not supposed
\h\h\h\h\hto say this.
972
00:33:06,322 --> 00:33:08,091
{\an7}They’re gonna have
\h\h\hto bleep it--
973
00:33:08,091 --> 00:33:08,860
{\an7}but your fine ass.
974
00:33:08,860 --> 00:33:10,388
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- [laughs]
- Can I have a hug?
975
00:33:10,388 --> 00:33:11,926
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Guess so, Mama.
- ’Cause you sure didn’t
976
00:33:11,926 --> 00:33:12,926
{\an7}speak to me this morning.
977
00:33:12,926 --> 00:33:13,817
{\an7}Can I borrow your jacket?
978
00:33:13,817 --> 00:33:15,124
{\an7}\h\hThat’s hella cute.
- Yeah, you can have it
979
00:33:15,124 --> 00:33:16,322
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hwhen we done.
What y’all got going on?
980
00:33:16,322 --> 00:33:17,718
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hWhat’s up?
- We have gotten to know
981
00:33:17,718 --> 00:33:19,817
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyour mom,
and what I have learned,
982
00:33:19,817 --> 00:33:23,784
{\an7}\h\h\huh, is that you have
a tremendous impact on her.
983
00:33:23,784 --> 00:33:25,025
{\an7}\h\h\h- I think it got
something to do with--
984
00:33:25,025 --> 00:33:26,751
{\an7}\h\h\hwe’ve been through
a lot of stuff together.
985
00:33:26,751 --> 00:33:28,091
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- One of the thing
people are gonna wonder is
986
00:33:28,091 --> 00:33:29,817
{\an7}why you weren’t here and what
\h\h\hmade you come back out.
987
00:33:29,817 --> 00:33:32,058
{\an7}- The reason I wasn’t here
\h\his because the reunions
988
00:33:32,058 --> 00:33:35,619
{\an7}\hare always very high-strung
emotions and stuff like that.
989
00:33:35,619 --> 00:33:36,322
{\an7}- Yeah. Okay.
990
00:33:36,322 --> 00:33:38,553
{\an7}- So I just was trying
\h\h\h\h\hto figure out
991
00:33:38,553 --> 00:33:40,817
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hbasically how to make
the situation easier yesterday,
992
00:33:40,817 --> 00:33:42,553
{\an7}\h\hand I got frustrated
in the process of trying
993
00:33:42,553 --> 00:33:43,992
{\an7}to do all that, so...
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
994
00:33:43,992 --> 00:33:45,256
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- End result,
me and her kinda ended up
995
00:33:45,256 --> 00:33:47,784
{\an7}in a little discrepancy, but it
\hwas just a miscommunication.
996
00:33:47,784 --> 00:33:50,553
{\an7}- Got it, and what you led you
\h\h\h\h\hcoming now out here?
997
00:33:50,553 --> 00:33:52,520
{\an7}- ’Cause I don’t want my mama
\hto be out here by herself.
998
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,652
{\an7}I don’t want her to feel like
\h\h\h\h\hshe out here alone.
999
00:33:54,652 --> 00:33:55,421
{\an7}That’s shady.
1000
00:33:55,421 --> 00:33:57,322
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hHer first reunion
and she gotta talk to y’all.
1001
00:33:57,322 --> 00:34:00,058
{\an7}Y’all great people, but, like,
\h\h\hyou know, it’s pressure.
1002
00:34:00,058 --> 00:34:00,652
{\an7}- Yeah.
1003
00:34:00,652 --> 00:34:02,454
{\an7}And Shen, and you and Tea
\h\h\h\hare talking now,
1004
00:34:02,454 --> 00:34:03,817
{\an7}so we can say--
\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
1005
00:34:03,817 --> 00:34:05,091
{\an7}- And one of the things
\h\h\h\hI’m taking away
1006
00:34:05,091 --> 00:34:07,487
{\an7}is that we need--you wanna
\hget all on the same page
1007
00:34:07,487 --> 00:34:08,586
{\an7}all together all at once.
1008
00:34:08,586 --> 00:34:10,091
{\an7}- Yeah. Why not?
\h- And that’s--
1009
00:34:10,091 --> 00:34:10,992
{\an7}- Yeah, I mean, of course.
1010
00:34:10,992 --> 00:34:12,992
{\an7}That’s the ultimate goal
\hat the end of all of it
1011
00:34:12,992 --> 00:34:13,959
{\an7}is for it to be one family.
1012
00:34:13,959 --> 00:34:16,322
{\an7}What my thing is,
is the smoothness
1013
00:34:16,322 --> 00:34:20,190
{\an7}\hor the way stuff is heading
and how it’s been happening,
1014
00:34:20,190 --> 00:34:21,520
{\an7}\hyou know, it’s--
you can’t rush it.
1015
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,893
{\an7}\hEvery time I’ve tried to rush
[bleep] in the past six years,
1016
00:34:24,893 --> 00:34:27,322
{\an7}it’s utterly failed completely.
1017
00:34:27,322 --> 00:34:29,454
{\an7}People started talking
\hon their own accord.
1018
00:34:29,454 --> 00:34:31,256
{\an7}I didn’t have nothing
\h\h\hto do with it.
1019
00:34:31,256 --> 00:34:32,718
{\an7}You gotta let time
\htake its course.
1020
00:34:32,718 --> 00:34:34,190
{\an7}\h\h\h- I understand.
It was great getting
1021
00:34:34,190 --> 00:34:35,256
{\an7}to know your mom.
\hIt really was.
1022
00:34:35,256 --> 00:34:36,652
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Right,
y’all finally get to see her.
1023
00:34:36,652 --> 00:34:38,322
{\an7}- She’s great.
\h\h[laughter]
1024
00:34:38,322 --> 00:34:41,718
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hSo we’ll be back
with more "Teen Mom 2" reunion
1025
00:34:41,718 --> 00:34:43,157
{\an7}right after the break.
1026
00:34:43,157 --> 00:34:46,223
{\an7}[cheers and applause]
1027
00:34:46,223 --> 00:34:49,553
{\an7}[upbeat music]
1028
00:34:50,889 --> 00:34:52,090
[cheers and applause]
1029
00:34:52,157 --> 00:34:54,926
[upbeat music]
1030
00:34:54,993 --> 00:34:55,927
- Welcome back.
1031
00:34:55,994 --> 00:34:57,128
We are talking to Briana,
1032
00:34:57,195 --> 00:34:58,496
and she's joined by Devoin
1033
00:34:58,563 --> 00:35:01,132
and, for the first time
on the reunion stage,
1034
00:35:01,199 --> 00:35:02,167
Luis.
1035
00:35:02,233 --> 00:35:03,735
[applause]
1036
00:35:03,802 --> 00:35:05,236
Welcome to the show.
1037
00:35:05,303 --> 00:35:06,738
And how are you feeling so far?
1038
00:35:06,805 --> 00:35:09,007
The stage. Are we okay?
- I'm a little, you know,
1039
00:35:09,073 --> 00:35:10,542
but it's all right.
- A little--
1040
00:35:10,608 --> 00:35:11,876
The lights and everything--
- There's lots of lights...
1041
00:35:11,943 --> 00:35:13,178
- I'm fine.
- And cameras.
1042
00:35:13,244 --> 00:35:14,279
- I'm okay.
1043
00:35:14,345 --> 00:35:15,580
- There are a few other things
1044
00:35:15,647 --> 00:35:17,048
that happened
at "Family Reunion"
1045
00:35:17,115 --> 00:35:20,518
that we wanna touch on,
so we brought back Coach B.
1046
00:35:20,585 --> 00:35:22,187
[cheering]
And hopefully she can also
1047
00:35:22,253 --> 00:35:25,490
shed some insight on Briana
and Luis' issues.
1048
00:35:25,557 --> 00:35:27,759
Please welcome back Coach B.
1049
00:35:27,826 --> 00:35:28,760
[cheers and applause]
1050
00:35:28,827 --> 00:35:30,095
- Hello.
1051
00:35:30,161 --> 00:35:31,262
Hello, guys.
- Welcome.
1052
00:35:31,329 --> 00:35:32,764
- Hi.
- Hello, hello. Thank you.
1053
00:35:32,831 --> 00:35:37,368
Um, so I just know
that, uh, Luis--
1054
00:35:37,435 --> 00:35:38,803
- Hi.
- We haven't seen you.
1055
00:35:38,870 --> 00:35:40,105
My first time.
1056
00:35:40,171 --> 00:35:41,239
- How you doing?
- How you doing?
1057
00:35:41,306 --> 00:35:42,240
- Good.
- I don't wanna
1058
00:35:42,307 --> 00:35:43,741
pick on you yet.
- [laughs]
1059
00:35:43,808 --> 00:35:45,376
- If that's okay with you.
- That's fine.
1060
00:35:45,443 --> 00:35:48,480
- But I do want
to kinda talk about,
1061
00:35:48,546 --> 00:35:51,516
um, Devoin, you and Briana's
communication.
1062
00:35:51,583 --> 00:35:53,151
- I'm so glad I got
to see you today.
1063
00:35:53,218 --> 00:35:54,586
- [laughs]
- 'Cause I was like, damn,
1064
00:35:54,652 --> 00:35:56,688
I gotta see her next season
for "Family Reunion,"
1065
00:35:56,755 --> 00:35:58,123
and I can't go that long.
1066
00:35:58,189 --> 00:36:00,125
But, um, we were doing good.
1067
00:36:00,191 --> 00:36:02,761
After family therapy,
everything was going well.
1068
00:36:02,827 --> 00:36:04,896
You know, I still want
both of them to be consistent.
1069
00:36:04,996 --> 00:36:06,131
I still want them to help...
- Yeah.
1070
00:36:06,197 --> 00:36:07,265
- As much as they can.
1071
00:36:07,332 --> 00:36:08,700
I still want all these things,
1072
00:36:08,767 --> 00:36:11,402
but I'm not, like,
hounding on them.
1073
00:36:11,469 --> 00:36:13,271
I'm just more like,
okay, they know
1074
00:36:13,338 --> 00:36:15,006
what I want from them
1075
00:36:15,006 --> 00:36:17,308
and they know what the girls
need from them,
1076
00:36:17,375 --> 00:36:19,644
so hopefully it'll happen.
1077
00:36:19,711 --> 00:36:22,547
- And so that kinda leads me
into, you know,
1078
00:36:22,614 --> 00:36:27,152
how you all, you know, plan
to blend as a family.
1079
00:36:27,218 --> 00:36:28,419
What do you think
that looks like?
1080
00:36:28,486 --> 00:36:30,221
What do you think co-parenting
1081
00:36:30,288 --> 00:36:32,891
with a blended family
like you guys
1082
00:36:33,024 --> 00:36:35,160
looks like for you?
1083
00:36:35,226 --> 00:36:37,295
- I guess just communicating
with each other
1084
00:36:37,362 --> 00:36:40,064
and being open
to certain things.
1085
00:36:40,131 --> 00:36:42,333
- I heard you say
your father's a truck driver.
1086
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,402
What is your guys' relationship
like when you were a kiddo?
1087
00:36:44,469 --> 00:36:45,437
- It's always been good.
1088
00:36:45,503 --> 00:36:47,105
- What's good?
- Uh, open.
1089
00:36:47,172 --> 00:36:48,640
He's always been there.
1090
00:36:48,706 --> 00:36:50,108
- What are some of the things
he's done that
1091
00:36:50,175 --> 00:36:52,110
maybe you would've done
different?
1092
00:36:52,177 --> 00:36:54,279
- If I'm being real,
I would say
1093
00:36:54,345 --> 00:36:55,980
that I would be more like him.
1094
00:36:56,047 --> 00:36:57,382
- And what is
being more like him?
1095
00:36:57,449 --> 00:36:58,616
What does that look like?
- Always present.
1096
00:36:58,683 --> 00:37:01,085
Always talking.
Always communicating.
1097
00:37:01,152 --> 00:37:02,754
Always letting me know
that he's there.
1098
00:37:02,821 --> 00:37:04,389
- Yeah.
- So...
1099
00:37:04,456 --> 00:37:05,657
- So then I have to ask,
1100
00:37:05,723 --> 00:37:07,992
where did--
where is the disconnect at?
1101
00:37:08,026 --> 00:37:10,361
Because--I'm gonna
appropriately confront you--
1102
00:37:10,428 --> 00:37:12,997
you said you would have done it
just like Dad did it,
1103
00:37:13,064 --> 00:37:15,700
but you did it the opposite
of how Dad did it.
1104
00:37:15,767 --> 00:37:17,502
- Yeah.
- So where--
1105
00:37:17,569 --> 00:37:19,471
there is a disparity there.
1106
00:37:19,537 --> 00:37:21,005
Where is that disparity?
1107
00:37:21,005 --> 00:37:22,674
- I really can't point a finger
to it.
1108
00:37:22,740 --> 00:37:25,276
Like, I wish I knew.
1109
00:37:25,343 --> 00:37:26,711
- Okay. Well, I'ma tell you.
1110
00:37:26,778 --> 00:37:29,581
Because you have disconnected
from emotion.
1111
00:37:29,647 --> 00:37:31,816
Like many of them have.
1112
00:37:31,883 --> 00:37:33,084
You don't have
a good relationship
1113
00:37:33,151 --> 00:37:35,320
with feeling,
so you can't articulate it
1114
00:37:35,386 --> 00:37:36,821
'cause you can't feel it.
1115
00:37:36,888 --> 00:37:39,390
Do you know why
you can't feel it?
1116
00:37:39,457 --> 00:37:40,825
- No.
- Because somewhere
1117
00:37:40,892 --> 00:37:43,328
at some point,
whether you were in denial
1118
00:37:43,394 --> 00:37:46,030
or not, um, your heart as well,
1119
00:37:46,064 --> 00:37:48,833
like you've done with Stella,
was broken.
1120
00:37:48,900 --> 00:37:51,002
- I see Briana's reacting
to everything you're saying
1121
00:37:51,069 --> 00:37:52,971
'cause it's some
of your stuff too, right?
1122
00:37:53,004 --> 00:37:54,205
- Yeah.
1123
00:37:54,272 --> 00:37:55,974
- Devoin, is it yours also?
1124
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,109
- Yeah. I've been there.
1125
00:37:58,176 --> 00:37:59,844
- It was mine.
1126
00:37:59,978 --> 00:38:01,045
I had it too.
1127
00:38:01,112 --> 00:38:02,614
And I think you've talked
about this before
1128
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:03,615
on this show.
1129
00:38:03,681 --> 00:38:04,816
These similar issues, right?
1130
00:38:04,883 --> 00:38:06,284
So I know this is
deeply meaningful to you.
1131
00:38:06,351 --> 00:38:07,986
- Oh, yeah.
I'm trying not to cry.
1132
00:38:08,019 --> 00:38:09,187
- Yeah, I could tell,
1133
00:38:09,254 --> 00:38:10,822
so tell me--tell us
your part of this.
1134
00:38:10,889 --> 00:38:13,091
- Yeah, um, you know,
I didn't grow up
1135
00:38:13,158 --> 00:38:15,393
in the most functional
household.
1136
00:38:15,460 --> 00:38:17,262
My mom and my dad split.
1137
00:38:17,328 --> 00:38:20,098
Um, my dad left me behind,
you know.
1138
00:38:20,165 --> 00:38:21,666
I had him
throughout my childhood,
1139
00:38:21,733 --> 00:38:23,368
and then when I got pregnant
at 16,
1140
00:38:23,435 --> 00:38:24,869
he just disappeared.
1141
00:38:25,003 --> 00:38:28,206
And that broke me.
Like, oh, my God.
1142
00:38:28,273 --> 00:38:29,741
[clears throat]
That was hard,
1143
00:38:29,808 --> 00:38:31,176
and it's still hard
still to this day.
1144
00:38:31,242 --> 00:38:33,545
I'm 27 years old, and...
- Yeah.
1145
00:38:33,611 --> 00:38:35,547
- I think about my dad
every day.
1146
00:38:35,613 --> 00:38:37,749
I went to New York, um,
1147
00:38:37,816 --> 00:38:40,552
a few weeks ago
and I found his address.
1148
00:38:40,618 --> 00:38:44,255
And I showed up, um...
1149
00:38:44,322 --> 00:38:46,558
and...
1150
00:38:46,624 --> 00:38:48,026
he didn't wanna see me.
1151
00:38:48,059 --> 00:38:50,061
That was hard.
1152
00:38:50,128 --> 00:38:51,963
Hard.
1153
00:38:52,030 --> 00:38:56,601
I don't want Stella or Nova
to feel how I feel.
1154
00:38:56,668 --> 00:38:58,436
And I feel like
if they continue
1155
00:38:58,503 --> 00:38:59,804
to do what they're doing,
1156
00:38:59,871 --> 00:39:02,173
they're gonna end up like me.
1157
00:39:04,142 --> 00:39:07,011
- Right, and so this is the...
- [cries]
1158
00:39:07,078 --> 00:39:09,814
- Pathology
that goes on and on.
1159
00:39:09,881 --> 00:39:12,050
Her father abandoned her.
1160
00:39:12,117 --> 00:39:15,253
She chooses a man or men who--
1161
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:16,454
- Do the same thing.
- Do the same thing
1162
00:39:16,521 --> 00:39:18,990
to her daughter.
- Or something similar.
1163
00:39:19,023 --> 00:39:20,091
- What does that mean?
1164
00:39:20,158 --> 00:39:22,393
It just means
that you guys have
1165
00:39:22,460 --> 00:39:27,165
to be the change advocates
to change and disrupt
1166
00:39:27,232 --> 00:39:30,869
the dysfunctional pattern
so your daughters don't grow up
1167
00:39:31,002 --> 00:39:36,307
to choose men who abandon them
and their kids.
1168
00:39:36,374 --> 00:39:37,642
- Yeah.
- And my hope
1169
00:39:37,709 --> 00:39:39,911
is that by her being
so emotionally vulnerable
1170
00:39:40,011 --> 00:39:41,780
and telling this story,
you guys get the message
1171
00:39:41,846 --> 00:39:43,448
that you do not want your kids
1172
00:39:43,515 --> 00:39:44,649
feeling like this
when they're 30.
1173
00:39:44,716 --> 00:39:46,084
- I mean, this is so painful
to see.
1174
00:39:46,151 --> 00:39:47,752
- This is why
we're spending all this energy.
1175
00:39:47,819 --> 00:39:49,687
- That's not an option
on this side.
1176
00:39:49,754 --> 00:39:50,822
- Huh?
- Said that's not an option
1177
00:39:50,955 --> 00:39:52,357
on this side.
1178
00:39:52,424 --> 00:39:55,827
I mean, Nova's not gonna be
feeling like that at 27, no.
1179
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:57,996
- Yeah. Briana, you okay?
1180
00:39:58,062 --> 00:39:59,197
- I'm okay.
1181
00:39:59,264 --> 00:40:00,331
- I'm gonna sit with you.
1182
00:40:00,398 --> 00:40:01,332
Come on. Let's sit.
1183
00:40:01,399 --> 00:40:02,967
[laughs]
- Okay. Perfect.
1184
00:40:02,967 --> 00:40:04,068
Perfect.
1185
00:40:04,135 --> 00:40:05,537
Well, thank you, Coach B,
really.
1186
00:40:05,603 --> 00:40:08,306
And, uh, of course we are--
have deep hopes
1187
00:40:08,373 --> 00:40:10,542
that they will continue
to build a stronger family.
1188
00:40:10,608 --> 00:40:11,976
- Absolutely.
1189
00:40:12,043 --> 00:40:13,978
And that's all
for the "Teen Mom 2" reunion.
1190
00:40:14,045 --> 00:40:15,814
Thanks again
to the entire cast and crew
1191
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,682
for another
unforgettable season.
1192
00:40:17,749 --> 00:40:20,318
- Remember, young people
who have sex without protection
1193
00:40:20,385 --> 00:40:23,855
on a regular basis have
an 85% chance of pregnancy
1194
00:40:23,988 --> 00:40:25,557
within a year.
1195
00:40:25,623 --> 00:40:26,891
Birth control
gives you the power
1196
00:40:26,991 --> 00:40:28,526
to decide your future.
1197
00:40:28,593 --> 00:40:32,397
Find the method that is right
for you at bedsider.org.
1198
00:40:32,464 --> 00:40:35,066
For Nessa and for myself,
we'll see you next time
1199
00:40:35,133 --> 00:40:36,768
on the "Teen Mom 2" reunion.
1200
00:40:36,835 --> 00:40:39,771
[cheers and applause]
1201
00:40:39,838 --> 00:40:42,774
[upbeat music]
1202
00:40:42,841 --> 00:40:49,948
♪ ♪