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[Jackie] Previously
on Basketball Wives...
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My husband, he's coming.
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I wanna show him around LA
and get him to, like, enjoy LA.
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I'm trying to convince
before I start to force.
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This isn't a violent offense.
Like, I feel like you guys
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are really doing this
to me because of who I am.
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I have to wear an ankle monitor.
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Oh, Lord!
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-This is not that serious.
-It's all not serious for y'all
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because none of y'all
gotta have none on!
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Duffey, that's not what the
[bleep] I just said, sweetie.
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-[Duffey] Well, clarify for me.
-What did you say?
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-Is there air, like--
-This is how you belittle Jason
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in y'all's arguments?
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I won't be coming around
your group of friends anymore.
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Ouch.
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I have to walk away from
this group and this show.
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[music]
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It's so beautiful today!
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I want you guys to
feed the ducks with me.
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-You feel good?
-The ducks represent freedom,
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You just gonna have
a little thing on you.
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-Exactly.
-It don't look little to me.
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It is temporary.
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[Brittish] I'm still
dealing with my federal case
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that I have going on,
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and I had to go to Houston
to take a business meeting,
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but I left without permission.
And that violated my bond.
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So now I'm gonna have to
have GPS monitor placed on me
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so they know where
I'm at all times.
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-I have bread for us.
-Listen,
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this is gonna be the last piece
of bread that you guys see,
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because my fitness
event is coming up,
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and I want you guys to
take it serious and be ready.
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Do you know, I've had
so much stress going on
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in the last couple of months
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with going through the
separation with my husband,
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talking about divorce,
like, all this stuff.
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I feel like I haven't
been at my healthiest.
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So I'd just like to
promote a healthier lifestyle
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for all of us.
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Without the gym and therapy,
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I don't know where the
hell I would be right now--
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somewhere losing my mind.
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So I just wanna get
all of these ladies together,
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and I think that I can help them
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relieve some of their tension
and stress in a workout.
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This might be a stress
reliever for you
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after your situation
with Duffey at the winery.
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You guys can definitely
burn out your stress
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and get your mind, and your
bodies, and your souls together.
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I mean, that's--girl.
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Look how they fighting over
the bread, kind of like us.
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[laughter]
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-Kind of like us.
-Yeah, it is.
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The one duck that
keep talking is Jackie.
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[laughter]
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You guys, look at these ducks
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and how they all come
together as a family.
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That's what I love
about our sisterhood.
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And this is what I been trying
to accomplish with us all.
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And I know there's been, like,
some arguments here and there,
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and different disputes.
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And at the Ponderosa,
it kind of went left.
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With Jennifer saying
what she said--I had no idea.
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Don't care about this.
Cameras rolling, real life.
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We all know your house
was foreclosed on.
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I just really wanna make sure
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that I share something
with you guys,
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'cause it's weighing
heavy on my heart.
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Malaysia and I and Duffey got
a chance to have some drinks,
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um, the other night,
and Malaysia said that
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she wants to take herself away.
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I actually talked to her,
and she did mention
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that she didn't know
what she was gonna do.
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Know what she was gonna do
as far as what?
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She was like, I think
I'm gonna quit the show.
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Is this true, Krystal,
that Malaysia saying
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she's gonna quit the show?
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She's been here for 10 years,
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so her final decision is not
coming back to Basketball Wives.
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She says she's
quitting the show.
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-This is crazy.
-Let's just put it on the table.
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Malaysia shared with me her
baby's father wasn't helping her
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with child support.
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If her not getting child
support is a hardship for her,
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then why would you quit
your main source of income?
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[Jackie] I'll be honest.
I think she's at a point where
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certain things are
coming to light.
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A lot of the different
un-dealt with issues.
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that she's had with
a lot of people,
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and it's been brushed under the
rug so long is now coming back.
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And it's like, boom!
Here's the devil in your face.
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And the stress she's
already going through,
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this is just adding on to it.
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Feel like if you don't put
your personal life on the table
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and show all of it, and
you trying to hide something,
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then that's gonna
stress you out even more.
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It's the good, the
bad, and the ugly.
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And that's what we are here for.
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I don't understand her.
You know?
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I don't understand why you would
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walk away from income
that you may need.
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Um...
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Malaysia and I don't
have the relationship
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that we used to have.
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I miss those throwback
Brandi and Malaysia days.
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Those were the fun days.
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But...I wish her well.
I really do wish her well.
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I think for me, I have shared
everything messed up in my life.
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-Whether you wanted to or not.
-For me, it's like
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I know somebody
else in the world
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is going through
what I'm going through,
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and I don't want you to
ever think that I'm perfect
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or that I got it all
together, 'cause I don't.
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Being able to rely on
the ladies for support
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with all of my legal
issues going on
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has been such a tremendous help.
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I really feel bad for
Malaysia that she didn't feel
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that she could rely on the
ladies for all of her issues
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she had going on.
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I got problems way bigger
than Malaysia Pargo, baby.
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So, what I'm telling you is, I
wish her nothin' but the best.
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I'm going through it,
trials and tribulations.
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She going through
trials and tribulations.
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I have always told Malaysia, you
gotta do what's best for you.
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Her saying, you know, my mental
health is more important?
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-And it is.
-I feel like
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if I need to take
a step away, I'mma step away.
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I wish her well,
but I feel bad for her.
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Whew, this is a lot.
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-I hope it all works out.
-Me too.
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-Hey!
-What's up?
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-Whatcha doin'?
-Working.
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-Are you having a good day?
-I'm having a great day.
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-I just signed another deal.
-You signed a deal!
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-Congratulations!
-Thanks.
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That's good.
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-So, whatcha doin'?
-I am...eating a salad.
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And I'm also looking
forward to our appointment.
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I'm happy that we are
going to communication therapy,
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even though I think I'm a
great communicator already.
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Right. You're the best.
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-Are you trying to be funny?
-No.
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Can you tell I've been trying
to work on it lately, though?
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-Yeah, mm, you're doing better.
-[Duffey] Thank you.
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I think you could do
a little bit better
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with your communication.
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I don't think I have
any communication issues.
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-[Duffey] I think you do.
-I'm very clear.
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After our last heated
discussion about our finances--
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It's like that fire, that
hunger you had when we met
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is not all the
way there anymore.
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Yeah, I don't--
I don't agree to that.
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Like, I've been making
money for 15 years.
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I want to be here.
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And if I look up
and I'm up here,
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and you're not up here with me
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because you were
just being lazy,
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-like, I'm not okay with that.
-Stop! Stop.
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I realize that those things
aren't the real issue.
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We were really
just having trouble
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understanding each other,
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but I think bringing
in an expert
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is really gonna
help us with that.
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Speaking of
communication problems,
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me and Brandi, we ain't
been getting along lately.
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And maybe I mentioned
Jason's name
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in an argument the other day.
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But I only mentioned
Jason's name
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because she mentioned your name.
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-What she say?
-[Duffey] She was like,
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Duffey, you don't listen to me!
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You're not hearing
anything I'm saying.
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You need to learn
how to communicate.
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Maybe after you go to
communication therapy
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with Iman...
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And I'm like, she's talking
to me crazy right now.
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I was like, is this how you
belittle Jason in arguments?
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I don't wanna keep going back
and forth with somebody I love
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because we get so worked up
that it could easily turn to
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something worse
than just arguing.
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And, you know, I love Brandi,
so I ain't wanna fight.
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But if it would've been anybody
else, I would want to fight her.
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I don't want you to do that.
You know, when people
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drop silly stuff, don't
put too much emphasis in it
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-'cause I don't care about it.
-So if somebody be like--
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say something crazy about you,
I'm just supposed to let it go?
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Right.
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[Duffey] I'm not gonna
let anybody get away with
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talking about my
man or my family.
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But hopefully communication
therapy will help me
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calmly explain myself
when I feel like
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someone has punched at me
and I gotta punch back.
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So what if a guy say
something crazy about me?
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If somebody talks
about you in front of me,
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-I will handle it my way.
-What would you do?
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I know address it.
What I'm just saying--
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-How would you address it?
-You can't address things
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-the way I address things.
-Oh!
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I would much rather have...
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-What?
-Some pizza.
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[laughs]
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[music]
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-Hey.
-Hello.
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-How are you?
-Thanks for coming down.
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-Thanks for having me.
-Have a seat.
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It's been a little over a month
now since I left my husband.
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And although he feels
like he can win me back,
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I've just gotta show
him that he can't.
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I need to move on.
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So I see you're here
because you're interested in
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-getting a divorce.
-Mm-hmm.
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-When were you married?
-September 9, 2016.
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And do you have a date of
separation, where you decided--
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January 4, 2022.
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Now, in the state of California,
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the process takes about
six months and a day
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from the time that
he was served.
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Wow. Okay.
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I know it feels long,
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but it allows you to
think about whether or not
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you wanna make
your marriage work.
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Are you sure that you're
wanting to start today, though?
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I definitely wanna start
the paperwork today
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'cause I just feel
like it will...
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Sorry.
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Thank you.
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I definitely feel like
it'll just make me feel better.
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Um, like, I'm just looking
for some type of control
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-for my life, you know?
-I know it can be hard.
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It's very hard.
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It's definitely hard to make
a decision to say, you know,
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that this is no longer
going to be our union,
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because I do love him, and of
course, I love being married.
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I love the idea of love.
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But I feel so betrayed,
that I feel like
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there are no other options.
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So these are the documents
that you need to review.
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Okay. [sighs]
242
00:10:41,108 --> 00:10:43,210
-I know it's a lot to take in.
-Yeah.
243
00:10:43,310 --> 00:10:44,878
If you have any
questions, let us know.
244
00:10:44,978 --> 00:10:46,947
We're just gonna be
right around the corner.
245
00:10:47,047 --> 00:10:48,348
And, uh, that's it.
246
00:10:48,448 --> 00:10:50,417
Thank you so much.
I appreciate your help.
247
00:10:50,517 --> 00:10:52,085
-No problem.
-Thank you.
248
00:10:54,955 --> 00:10:57,691
[Jackie] Coming up on
Basketball Wives...
249
00:10:57,791 --> 00:10:59,059
Hey, Jackie!
250
00:10:59,159 --> 00:11:01,695
I haven't seen you
since you had the baby!
251
00:11:01,795 --> 00:11:03,964
I know, take a look at me!
Can you see?
252
00:11:04,064 --> 00:11:05,666
We're gonna get
together soon, okay?
253
00:11:06,867 --> 00:11:09,837
-Jackie, don't start crying.
-[sobs]
254
00:11:09,937 --> 00:11:13,674
No, it's okay.
It's okay!
255
00:11:13,774 --> 00:11:15,342
You said my head
was full of air.
256
00:11:15,442 --> 00:11:17,711
You said after you go to
communication with Iman,
257
00:11:17,811 --> 00:11:19,880
then maybe--don't
say my [bleep] name!
258
00:11:19,980 --> 00:11:21,748
Don't say my [bleep] name!
259
00:11:21,849 --> 00:11:24,017
Don't play the victim
and the villain!
260
00:11:30,424 --> 00:11:39,933
[music]
261
00:11:40,033 --> 00:11:44,538
[phone vibrates]
262
00:11:46,473 --> 00:11:47,674
Hey, Jackie!
263
00:11:47,774 --> 00:11:50,010
[Jackie] Hey, mamacita!
What you doin'?
264
00:11:50,110 --> 00:11:51,712
Nothing. How are you?
265
00:11:51,812 --> 00:11:54,515
Oh my god, I haven't seen
you since you had the baby!
266
00:11:54,615 --> 00:11:56,817
I know, take a look at me!
Can you see?
267
00:11:56,917 --> 00:11:58,018
[Jackie] I see!
268
00:11:58,118 --> 00:12:00,854
Okay, why are you
so [bleep] snatched?
269
00:12:00,954 --> 00:12:02,489
And all of us don't
look like that.
270
00:12:02,589 --> 00:12:03,824
[Angel] You do!
271
00:12:03,924 --> 00:12:05,759
It's been four months
since I had my baby.
272
00:12:05,859 --> 00:12:07,995
His name was
Prince Leon Youngblood.
273
00:12:08,095 --> 00:12:11,498
He was born at 7 pounds,
6 ounces, 23 inches.
274
00:12:11,598 --> 00:12:13,667
And he is just the
cutest little thing!
275
00:12:13,767 --> 00:12:15,369
How's Rocc? He good?
276
00:12:15,469 --> 00:12:16,970
Yeah, he's good.
He's at the studio.
277
00:12:18,639 --> 00:12:20,507
Kids are good.
And the baby's sleeping.
278
00:12:20,607 --> 00:12:22,209
So I have a little bit of time.
279
00:12:22,309 --> 00:12:26,513
You gonna do, like, a post,
after-baby, here he is shower
280
00:12:26,613 --> 00:12:28,315
so we can all come?
281
00:12:28,415 --> 00:12:30,050
Yeah, probably after
a little while.
282
00:12:30,150 --> 00:12:32,786
I know all the ladies wanna
come over and meet the baby
283
00:12:32,886 --> 00:12:34,988
and squeeze his cute little
cheeks and everything.
284
00:12:35,088 --> 00:12:36,957
But you know, right
now is not the time.
285
00:12:37,057 --> 00:12:39,059
We want to keep all
germs away and, you know,
286
00:12:39,159 --> 00:12:42,963
just make sure that the baby
is fine with no problems.
287
00:12:43,063 --> 00:12:44,865
You know how Rocc is.
He's so, like,
288
00:12:44,965 --> 00:12:47,634
so worried about the baby
and who's around the baby,
289
00:12:47,734 --> 00:12:49,636
and, you know, like--
because it was really hard,
290
00:12:49,736 --> 00:12:51,939
Jackie, I'm not gonna lie.
Like, the first, you know--
291
00:12:52,039 --> 00:12:54,575
'cause I couldn't really
walk from the C-section.
292
00:12:56,777 --> 00:12:59,379
So he was really hands on,
like, full time with the baby.
293
00:12:59,479 --> 00:13:01,682
And I know that, like,
took a toll on him.
294
00:13:01,782 --> 00:13:03,951
Recovering from a C-section
was a nightmare.
295
00:13:04,051 --> 00:13:06,653
But our newborn is healthy.
He's beautiful.
296
00:13:06,753 --> 00:13:08,922
And we're just happy to be home.
It's been four months.
297
00:13:09,022 --> 00:13:12,593
And everybody's settled in,
and I'm mostly recovered.
298
00:13:12,693 --> 00:13:15,596
What's new? Fill me in.
How are the girls?
299
00:13:15,696 --> 00:13:16,930
The girls are good.
300
00:13:17,030 --> 00:13:18,832
The Brooke thing was a
shocker for me, though.
301
00:13:18,932 --> 00:13:21,068
I know what it's like
to be cheated on.
302
00:13:21,168 --> 00:13:22,469
Is she okay?
303
00:13:22,569 --> 00:13:23,904
Yeah, she's okay.
She's, um--she's strong,
304
00:13:24,004 --> 00:13:25,572
and she's just doing her thing.
305
00:13:25,672 --> 00:13:27,074
I'm disappointed that
I haven't been able to
306
00:13:27,174 --> 00:13:28,976
spend time with Jackie
and the other ladies,
307
00:13:29,076 --> 00:13:31,245
but I'm sure they understand
I just had a newborn baby,
308
00:13:31,345 --> 00:13:32,713
and it's hard to
get out as much.
309
00:13:32,813 --> 00:13:35,215
I do actually miss the girls.
310
00:13:35,315 --> 00:13:37,651
Don't miss the drama,
but I miss the girls.
311
00:13:39,419 --> 00:13:40,821
Oh my god,
I love you too!
312
00:13:40,921 --> 00:13:43,590
We're gonna get
together soon, okay?
313
00:13:43,690 --> 00:13:45,559
-I love you, bye!
-[Jackie] Bye!
314
00:13:46,393 --> 00:13:55,335
[music]
315
00:13:55,435 --> 00:13:57,137
[Brandi] This is so peaceful.
316
00:13:57,237 --> 00:13:59,039
This is, like, totally
different than Dallas.
317
00:13:59,139 --> 00:14:00,307
Look at them yachts.
318
00:14:00,407 --> 00:14:03,644
I never knew how much
I missed LA until I left it.
319
00:14:03,744 --> 00:14:04,945
Yeah, well...
320
00:14:11,218 --> 00:14:14,655
This a little staycation.
It's pretty nice!
321
00:14:14,755 --> 00:14:17,658
And relaxing.
We gotta do this more often.
322
00:14:17,758 --> 00:14:18,959
[Jason] I'm down.
323
00:14:19,059 --> 00:14:20,961
[Brandi] Jason is
here from Dallas.
324
00:14:21,061 --> 00:14:22,729
And after the blowup
with me and Duffey,
325
00:14:22,829 --> 00:14:24,298
it's really good
to just step away
326
00:14:24,398 --> 00:14:27,734
and just to focus on me and
my relationship with my husband.
327
00:14:27,835 --> 00:14:30,170
I talked to the girls.
And we were just talking...
328
00:14:30,270 --> 00:14:31,939
-Who, your posse?
-Yeah.
329
00:14:32,039 --> 00:14:34,308
I was just telling the ladies
how I want you and Baby Jason
330
00:14:34,408 --> 00:14:37,878
-here to support my dreams.
-And what is your dream, baby?
331
00:14:37,978 --> 00:14:41,548
Right now, what I'm
focused on is my book.
332
00:14:41,648 --> 00:14:43,450
-The cookbook is important.
-Mm-hmm.
333
00:14:43,550 --> 00:14:47,087
[Brandi] I'm trying to test
out, like, cook some things,
334
00:14:47,187 --> 00:14:49,923
'cause you know I wanna
do this recipe book.
335
00:14:50,023 --> 00:14:51,892
But I been saying I was
gonna do it for the longest,
336
00:14:51,992 --> 00:14:53,727
so I need to just
go ahead and do it.
337
00:14:53,827 --> 00:14:56,196
I'm just really trying
to think bigger.
338
00:14:56,296 --> 00:15:01,068
I'm trying to be Rachel Ray
on steroids and Black.
339
00:15:01,168 --> 00:15:03,904
And I cannot do it
without my family.
340
00:15:04,004 --> 00:15:07,174
I think I need y'all
here 90% of the time.
341
00:15:08,742 --> 00:15:10,644
I moved out to LA
to pursue my dreams.
342
00:15:10,744 --> 00:15:14,014
But my husband and my
son is still in Dallas.
343
00:15:14,114 --> 00:15:16,116
It's so hard being
away from my family
344
00:15:16,216 --> 00:15:19,887
and actually flying home
every single week to see them.
345
00:15:19,987 --> 00:15:22,022
But I am looking to change that.
346
00:15:22,122 --> 00:15:23,757
[Jason] Now's not
really a good time.
347
00:15:23,857 --> 00:15:25,659
I mean, got things
poppin' in Dallas.
348
00:15:25,759 --> 00:15:27,828
Yeah, but you can coach here.
349
00:15:29,329 --> 00:15:30,597
The foundation is there.
350
00:15:30,697 --> 00:15:32,132
I have to keep building
my foundation there.
351
00:15:32,232 --> 00:15:34,168
You're retired and
everything now.
352
00:15:37,204 --> 00:15:40,040
The deal was when you
got close to retirement
353
00:15:40,140 --> 00:15:44,878
that it was my turn to
do what I wanted to do.
354
00:15:44,978 --> 00:15:47,447
But I can't sit there and just,
like, not do anything at all.
355
00:15:47,548 --> 00:15:49,049
Texas is--that's
where we at, man.
356
00:15:49,149 --> 00:15:51,552
It's not about me.
Jason there as well.
357
00:15:51,652 --> 00:15:54,488
-It sounds like it is about you.
-Whoa!
358
00:15:54,588 --> 00:15:57,791
I traveled across
the world for you.
359
00:15:57,891 --> 00:16:01,061
I move four times
a year for you.
360
00:16:01,161 --> 00:16:06,033
I literally for once
need y'alls full support.
361
00:16:06,133 --> 00:16:07,935
-I will follow your dream.
-[Brandi] When?
362
00:16:08,035 --> 00:16:09,503
On Facetime in Dallas.
363
00:16:11,104 --> 00:16:12,840
I'm over it.
I'm over it.
364
00:16:12,940 --> 00:16:16,210
I have sacrificed
almost 15 years of
365
00:16:16,310 --> 00:16:19,246
being his biggest supporter,
being his biggest cheerleader
366
00:16:19,346 --> 00:16:22,583
through a lot of [bleep]
that he's put me through.
367
00:16:22,683 --> 00:16:25,485
You know, being a basketball
wife, it's challenging.
368
00:16:25,586 --> 00:16:28,522
We move from place to
place to be there with them
369
00:16:28,622 --> 00:16:29,890
and to support them,
370
00:16:29,990 --> 00:16:33,260
and we put so much
energy into their world.
371
00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,897
So I feel like it is
a slap in the face.
372
00:16:36,997 --> 00:16:39,833
He should honor his word.
373
00:16:41,602 --> 00:16:42,736
I'm over it.
374
00:16:44,505 --> 00:16:47,107
[music]
375
00:16:47,207 --> 00:16:50,043
[doorbell rings]
[knocking on door]
376
00:16:50,143 --> 00:16:56,783
[music]
377
00:16:56,884 --> 00:16:58,418
Damn, did I tell
you about knocking?
378
00:16:58,519 --> 00:17:00,454
I be thinking you're the police.
379
00:17:00,554 --> 00:17:03,123
I told you I was
coming, mamacita.
380
00:17:03,223 --> 00:17:07,127
Ever since Brittish has been
dealing with this legal stuff,
381
00:17:07,227 --> 00:17:10,964
she has been really strong.
But she's also vulnerable.
382
00:17:11,064 --> 00:17:13,000
And I've seen her
break down and cry.
383
00:17:13,100 --> 00:17:15,269
You are strong, but this is
384
00:17:15,369 --> 00:17:16,670
starting to take
its toll on you.
385
00:17:16,770 --> 00:17:18,605
I can see it.
386
00:17:18,705 --> 00:17:20,574
Jackie, for real, I feel like
387
00:17:20,674 --> 00:17:23,043
I'm about to break
the [bleep] down.
388
00:17:23,143 --> 00:17:24,378
[Jackie] And with
this ankle monitor,
389
00:17:24,478 --> 00:17:26,446
I definitely feel it's
more important than ever
390
00:17:26,547 --> 00:17:27,848
for me to support Brittish.
391
00:17:27,948 --> 00:17:29,816
She's a little sister to me.
392
00:17:29,917 --> 00:17:32,286
Jackie, look at this thing
on my ankle, it's huge.
393
00:17:32,386 --> 00:17:34,221
Brittish, you notice
I won't look down.
394
00:17:34,321 --> 00:17:36,156
Brittish, I ain't ready.
I ain't ready, Brittish.
395
00:17:36,256 --> 00:17:38,158
[Brittish] Look how big it is.
396
00:17:38,258 --> 00:17:41,495
-Jackie, don't start crying.
-[sobs]
397
00:17:41,595 --> 00:17:43,664
[Brittish] No, it's okay.
398
00:17:43,764 --> 00:17:46,466
It's okay.
399
00:17:46,567 --> 00:17:48,268
It's okay!
400
00:17:48,368 --> 00:17:50,404
I've never seen one of these
in real life, Brittish.
401
00:17:50,504 --> 00:17:53,373
-It's not comfortable.
-It fits you. It's cute.
402
00:17:53,473 --> 00:17:56,777
[laughs] Thank you, Jackie.
403
00:17:56,877 --> 00:18:00,280
-It's okay.
-Oh my god, it's real.
404
00:18:00,380 --> 00:18:03,217
-I'm not happy about it at all.
-No, of course not.
405
00:18:03,317 --> 00:18:05,586
I feel like I deserved
a warning, but
406
00:18:05,686 --> 00:18:06,920
I'm a firm believer in whatever
407
00:18:07,020 --> 00:18:08,555
people will do
have consequences.
408
00:18:08,655 --> 00:18:10,958
And if I'm gonna tell
my daughter that you--
409
00:18:11,058 --> 00:18:13,594
if you go and touch the stove,
you're gonna get burned,
410
00:18:13,694 --> 00:18:16,496
then I gotta tell myself,
you went and did something
411
00:18:16,597 --> 00:18:18,832
they asked you not to do,
so you get burned.
412
00:18:18,932 --> 00:18:21,134
That's right, Brittish.
I'm so proud of you.
413
00:18:23,337 --> 00:18:24,838
Did you talk to
your mom or anybody,
414
00:18:24,938 --> 00:18:26,173
or are you just dealing
with this alone?
415
00:18:26,273 --> 00:18:27,674
I had a talk with Dash about it,
416
00:18:27,774 --> 00:18:29,276
because I wanted
her to be prepared
417
00:18:29,376 --> 00:18:31,311
before my mama bring her
back for a couple weeks.
418
00:18:31,411 --> 00:18:34,281
I was like, Dash, Mommy gotta
get something put on her ankle.
419
00:18:34,381 --> 00:18:37,317
I was like, it's not gonna hurt.
You're gonna see it.
420
00:18:37,417 --> 00:18:38,852
But it's not gonna
bother me, okay?
421
00:18:38,952 --> 00:18:40,454
It'll only be there
for a little while.
422
00:18:40,554 --> 00:18:42,990
They'll take it off, okay?
She was like, it's okay, Mommy.
423
00:18:43,090 --> 00:18:45,959
It's our little secret.
And she said, pinky promise.
424
00:18:46,059 --> 00:18:49,429
So she knows it shouldn't
be on your ankle.
425
00:18:49,530 --> 00:18:52,199
She's so smart!
426
00:18:52,299 --> 00:18:53,767
[Brittish] I really feel
bad because I feel like
427
00:18:53,867 --> 00:18:55,269
I disappointed Dash,
428
00:18:55,369 --> 00:18:57,204
although these things happened
prior to her being born.
429
00:18:57,304 --> 00:18:58,939
I just feel like
it broke my heart
430
00:18:59,039 --> 00:19:00,340
to have to explain
to my daughter
431
00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,843
why I had to have this
monitor on my ankle.
432
00:19:02,943 --> 00:19:05,312
What I'm more so concerned about
is my restrictions to travel
433
00:19:05,412 --> 00:19:07,848
and being able to see Dash.
I'm just really worried.
434
00:19:07,948 --> 00:19:10,184
This is light at the end
of the tunnel because
435
00:19:10,284 --> 00:19:12,319
you got this on and you
sitting here, talking to me.
436
00:19:12,419 --> 00:19:15,455
-I mean, what else I'mma do?
-Cry, break down.
437
00:19:15,556 --> 00:19:18,325
I can't be claiming
all this gangster [bleep]
438
00:19:18,425 --> 00:19:20,561
-and wanna cry.
-[Jackie] There it is.
439
00:19:20,661 --> 00:19:22,496
-Are you the thug or the group?
-I gotta get myself together.
440
00:19:22,596 --> 00:19:25,632
-You are more of a thug than me!
-No, no.
441
00:19:25,732 --> 00:19:27,067
[Brittish] Are you crazy?
442
00:19:27,167 --> 00:19:30,904
-You turn over tables, growl.
-Listen, cheers to...
443
00:19:31,004 --> 00:19:32,940
you going ahead and
handling that like a G.
444
00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:34,875
Okay. Thanks, OG.
445
00:19:34,975 --> 00:19:36,710
[laughs]
446
00:19:36,810 --> 00:19:39,179
Don't say OG!
Mm-mm!
447
00:19:39,279 --> 00:19:41,381
Coming up onBasketball Wives...
448
00:19:41,481 --> 00:19:43,317
When you and Duffey
was talking--
449
00:19:43,417 --> 00:19:45,786
-Oh, lord.
-What the [bleep] was that?
450
00:19:45,886 --> 00:19:47,354
I don't want to attack her.
451
00:19:47,454 --> 00:19:50,023
But after a while,
when it comes to me?
452
00:19:50,123 --> 00:19:51,992
I ain't gonna give
a [bleep] no more.
453
00:19:59,032 --> 00:20:09,076
[music]
454
00:20:09,176 --> 00:20:10,244
[doorbell rings]
455
00:20:10,344 --> 00:20:11,678
[Brandi] Come in!
456
00:20:11,778 --> 00:20:14,581
-Brandi!
-[Brandi] Jackie!
457
00:20:14,681 --> 00:20:16,617
-Girl...
-Morning!
458
00:20:16,717 --> 00:20:18,852
Good morning, mama!
459
00:20:18,952 --> 00:20:20,821
Oh my god, I finally get
to come into your home.
460
00:20:20,921 --> 00:20:24,258
-Welcome to mi casa .
-Look at this spread, girl!
461
00:20:24,358 --> 00:20:25,993
Okay, I want you
to taste something.
462
00:20:26,093 --> 00:20:27,828
This is a concoction.
463
00:20:27,928 --> 00:20:31,064
I don't want this
to be too strong.
464
00:20:33,734 --> 00:20:35,235
-Ooh!
-Is it good?
465
00:20:35,335 --> 00:20:37,070
-It's good!
-Is it really?
466
00:20:37,171 --> 00:20:39,206
It's sexy. It's good.
467
00:20:39,306 --> 00:20:40,741
You gotta put this
in your cookbook.
468
00:20:40,841 --> 00:20:42,509
-[Brandi] Did you like it?
-No, love it!
469
00:20:42,609 --> 00:20:44,745
I have been doing a lot
of work with this cookbook.
470
00:20:44,845 --> 00:20:46,813
And now I'm, like,
in the drinks section,
471
00:20:46,914 --> 00:20:50,551
so it's really fun
to have Jackie over
472
00:20:50,651 --> 00:20:53,487
and be, like, the test taster,
'cause she love to drink!
473
00:20:55,622 --> 00:20:57,291
-Cheers, ladies!
-[Others] Cheers!
474
00:20:57,391 --> 00:20:58,725
Thank you for coming by!
475
00:20:58,825 --> 00:21:01,361
Thank you for having us.
How's it going?
476
00:21:01,461 --> 00:21:03,931
[Jennifer] It's good!
So, how are you?
477
00:21:04,031 --> 00:21:07,201
[Brooke] I actually filed
for divorce this week.
478
00:21:07,301 --> 00:21:08,635
Right.
479
00:21:08,735 --> 00:21:10,737
-Never a dull moment.
-Exactly.
480
00:21:10,838 --> 00:21:12,506
Have you heard from Stephen?
481
00:21:12,606 --> 00:21:14,975
Literally he's on my
phone right now, like,
482
00:21:15,075 --> 00:21:18,879
"I'm hurting, but I love you,
and I'm gonna win you back."
483
00:21:18,979 --> 00:21:21,548
-What's your response?
-I didn't respond yet.
484
00:21:21,648 --> 00:21:23,450
You don't look like
you goin' through [bleep].
485
00:21:23,550 --> 00:21:24,852
But you know what it is?
It's because
486
00:21:24,952 --> 00:21:29,556
I think I'm so honest with
him about my feelings,
487
00:21:29,656 --> 00:21:31,024
I'm putting myself first.
488
00:21:31,124 --> 00:21:34,728
I think honest
communication is so key.
489
00:21:34,828 --> 00:21:38,899
You know what you just made
me think about, both y'all?
490
00:21:38,999 --> 00:21:44,171
Me and Brandi's conversation,
and my delivery.
491
00:21:44,271 --> 00:21:46,673
Y'all was saying some [bleep].
I was like, ooh!
492
00:21:46,773 --> 00:21:48,208
Yeah, you guys kind
of took some digs.
493
00:21:48,308 --> 00:21:51,278
One thing is can't
nobody argue like some sisters.
494
00:21:52,913 --> 00:21:54,648
[Jackie] When you and
Duffey was talking...
495
00:21:54,748 --> 00:21:57,117
-Oh, lord.
-What the [bleep] was that?
496
00:21:57,217 --> 00:21:59,353
The problem that I can
have sometimes with her
497
00:21:59,453 --> 00:22:02,489
is, like, I'll say something,
and she gets so defensive,
498
00:22:02,589 --> 00:22:04,157
you know what I mean?
499
00:22:04,258 --> 00:22:06,960
You have to listen to what
someone is fully saying
500
00:22:07,060 --> 00:22:09,997
instead of giving a reaction.
501
00:22:10,097 --> 00:22:11,865
What you and Brandi
have going on,
502
00:22:11,965 --> 00:22:16,003
it requires open,
honest conversation.
503
00:22:16,103 --> 00:22:17,971
You guys both have
to be vulnerable.
504
00:22:18,071 --> 00:22:21,108
You have to absolutely
speak your truth.
505
00:22:21,208 --> 00:22:23,744
I know that Jen and Brooke want
me to be vulnerable with Brandi,
506
00:22:23,844 --> 00:22:26,680
but it's hard to do that
when she's still upset.
507
00:22:26,780 --> 00:22:29,116
I feel like we have
a communication block.
508
00:22:29,216 --> 00:22:31,451
Since me and Iman are
going through therapy,
509
00:22:31,552 --> 00:22:33,654
it may help with me
and Brandi as well.
510
00:22:33,754 --> 00:22:35,756
Would you just be willing
to apologize about it?
511
00:22:35,856 --> 00:22:38,125
If she's willing to
apologize for what she said.
512
00:22:38,225 --> 00:22:39,193
[Jennifer] Oh, [bleep].
513
00:22:39,293 --> 00:22:40,794
I know you guys can
come back from it.
514
00:22:40,894 --> 00:22:43,864
I just don't know the steps
that you need to take.
515
00:22:43,964 --> 00:22:45,532
I know the step.
When I see her,
516
00:22:45,632 --> 00:22:48,035
I'm gonna put her in a headlock.
517
00:22:48,135 --> 00:22:50,404
And she gonna hear
what I gotta say.
518
00:22:50,504 --> 00:22:53,240
Did you feel offended when
she said you treat Jason poorly?
519
00:22:53,340 --> 00:22:56,310
That bothered me.
I don't want to attack her,
520
00:22:56,410 --> 00:22:57,978
but I don't play
with my husband.
521
00:22:58,078 --> 00:22:59,913
I don't play with my kid, okay?
522
00:23:00,013 --> 00:23:03,016
We can play all day,
but keep them out of it.
523
00:23:03,116 --> 00:23:04,685
Just wanna make sure that y'all
524
00:23:04,785 --> 00:23:06,353
always keep it real
with each other, Brandi,
525
00:23:06,453 --> 00:23:07,921
because if you don't,
526
00:23:08,021 --> 00:23:11,291
I see you and Duffey's
friendship one day suffering.
527
00:23:11,391 --> 00:23:15,896
With the pressure of my business
and my family being in Texas,
528
00:23:15,996 --> 00:23:17,998
and then with this
group and arguing,
529
00:23:18,098 --> 00:23:21,301
that's, like, a recipe
for disaster for me.
530
00:23:21,401 --> 00:23:26,840
I been so overwhelmed with all
of this, balancing my family,
531
00:23:26,940 --> 00:23:30,777
and this whole three days LA,
four days LA, three days home,
532
00:23:30,878 --> 00:23:32,980
four days home, is
not working for me.
533
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,382
And I don't wanna force Jason.
534
00:23:35,482 --> 00:23:40,220
I want him to see and want
to be here, because it's like
535
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,956
I really want to do
something for myself.
536
00:23:43,056 --> 00:23:45,192
And now, you know,
he wants to go into coaching.
537
00:23:45,292 --> 00:23:47,427
It reminds me so much of
what I just went through,
538
00:23:47,528 --> 00:23:48,795
and I shared with
the ladies too.
539
00:23:48,896 --> 00:23:50,497
And I know how you feel.
It's like, okay,
540
00:23:50,597 --> 00:23:52,065
now I been there, Jason.
Now it's my turn.
541
00:23:52,165 --> 00:23:53,700
I'm ready to do
Brandi for a minute.
542
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,469
Come support me.
You know what I mean?
543
00:23:55,569 --> 00:23:56,703
[Brandi] And that was the plan.
544
00:23:56,803 --> 00:23:58,405
It's give and take.
You're gonna be okay.
545
00:23:58,505 --> 00:23:59,740
I was nervous too.
546
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:01,909
But then I found a way
that I could do both.
547
00:24:02,009 --> 00:24:04,111
We could have our place here,
we could have our place there,
548
00:24:04,211 --> 00:24:05,846
and we just go back and forth.
549
00:24:05,946 --> 00:24:08,949
I really, truly value
Jackie's opinion.
550
00:24:09,049 --> 00:24:12,753
She has literally walked
in my shoes before,
551
00:24:12,853 --> 00:24:14,521
you know, with
Doug being a coach.
552
00:24:14,621 --> 00:24:16,990
Jason's transitioning
and trying to be a coach.
553
00:24:17,090 --> 00:24:18,525
Jackie, she's an entrepreneur.
554
00:24:18,625 --> 00:24:21,595
I feel like if Jackie and
Dough can find a compromise,
555
00:24:21,695 --> 00:24:23,730
Jason and I can do it as well.
556
00:24:23,830 --> 00:24:25,432
It's your time,
Brandi, I see it.
557
00:24:25,532 --> 00:24:27,301
I feel it, it's here.
It's, like, right here.
558
00:24:27,401 --> 00:24:29,203
Right there on your
shoulder, that's right.
559
00:24:29,303 --> 00:24:36,076
[music]
560
00:24:36,176 --> 00:24:38,111
Iman!
561
00:24:38,212 --> 00:24:40,781
-Hey.
-Hey!
562
00:24:40,881 --> 00:24:43,483
-Are you excited?
-Yeah.
563
00:24:43,584 --> 00:24:44,918
I'm excited!
564
00:24:45,018 --> 00:24:47,921
I feel like this is
really gonna be good for us.
565
00:24:48,021 --> 00:24:50,123
Iman and I are finally
starting couple's therapy.
566
00:24:50,224 --> 00:24:52,259
I feel like we can
talk about anything,
567
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,561
but sometimes we're
not on the same page,
568
00:24:54,661 --> 00:24:56,163
and it causes fights.
569
00:24:56,263 --> 00:24:58,799
And I feel like that's what's
going on with me and Brandi.
570
00:24:58,899 --> 00:25:00,367
[doorbell rings]
571
00:25:00,467 --> 00:25:02,135
-[Iman] Hey, how ya doin'?
-[Dr. Keisha] Good, how are you?
572
00:25:02,236 --> 00:25:04,137
[Iman] Good, Iman.
Nice to meet you.
573
00:25:04,238 --> 00:25:05,439
Come on in.
574
00:25:05,539 --> 00:25:06,607
-[Duffey] Hi!
-Hi!
575
00:25:06,707 --> 00:25:08,008
-I'm Dr. Keisha.
-Nice to meet you.
576
00:25:08,108 --> 00:25:11,011
-We heard about you.
-Good things, I hope.
577
00:25:11,111 --> 00:25:12,646
-Yeah, of course.
-[Dr. Keisha] All right.
578
00:25:12,746 --> 00:25:14,448
I told him I'm very
excited to see you.
579
00:25:14,548 --> 00:25:18,118
All right.
That's good stuff.
580
00:25:19,486 --> 00:25:22,723
-So how are y'all doing today?
-We are doing good.
581
00:25:22,823 --> 00:25:24,858
So what do you
know about therapy?
582
00:25:24,958 --> 00:25:26,159
Nothing much.
583
00:25:26,260 --> 00:25:28,095
In my culture,
there's no such thing.
584
00:25:28,195 --> 00:25:29,997
Well, I appreciate
you attending, though.
585
00:25:30,097 --> 00:25:35,636
For me, I don't wanna be
married and there's issues.
586
00:25:35,736 --> 00:25:37,905
What do you feel are the issues?
587
00:25:38,005 --> 00:25:40,407
Communication when we're upset.
588
00:25:40,507 --> 00:25:41,742
Anything else?
589
00:25:41,842 --> 00:25:44,344
I do feel like, you know,
sometimes you a little short,
590
00:25:44,444 --> 00:25:46,880
and it could be
because you stressed--
591
00:25:46,980 --> 00:25:48,849
Your issue is that I
can be short sometimes--
592
00:25:48,949 --> 00:25:50,150
Impatient.
593
00:25:50,250 --> 00:25:52,519
[Duffey] I talk about
what my issues are.
594
00:25:52,619 --> 00:25:53,954
I didn't say you
talk about issues.
595
00:25:54,054 --> 00:25:57,224
You just focus on,
you know, your feelings.
596
00:25:57,324 --> 00:25:59,326
-Versus yours?
-Yeah, in general, yeah.
597
00:25:59,426 --> 00:26:02,196
I think that I could use
a little bit of empathy,
598
00:26:02,296 --> 00:26:07,401
because when I'm stressed, he...
599
00:26:07,501 --> 00:26:10,237
continues to poke
until the bear wakes up.
600
00:26:10,337 --> 00:26:12,239
And then he's like,
whoa, I love you!
601
00:26:12,339 --> 00:26:13,207
What's wrong?
602
00:26:13,307 --> 00:26:15,609
So you're smiling, Iman.
Why?
603
00:26:15,709 --> 00:26:17,377
-Because--
-He likes it.
604
00:26:17,477 --> 00:26:19,847
Because, again, you know, like,
this is the way we communicate,
605
00:26:19,947 --> 00:26:22,182
and yeah, again, like, it's--
606
00:26:23,417 --> 00:26:24,418
No.
607
00:26:24,518 --> 00:26:25,953
So, one of the things
that I'm noticing,
608
00:26:26,053 --> 00:26:27,955
-she was interrupting you.
-Right.
609
00:26:28,055 --> 00:26:30,257
-Is that okay for you?
-No, it's not.
610
00:26:30,357 --> 00:26:31,825
That's one of the things
that actually upsets me.
611
00:26:31,925 --> 00:26:33,260
We have to fix that, you know?
612
00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:36,864
So what is it that makes
you want to do that?
613
00:26:36,964 --> 00:26:41,902
-He's longwinded.
-So, I have a recommendation.
614
00:26:42,002 --> 00:26:45,239
-You can, "Can I say something?"
-Okay, I like that.
615
00:26:45,339 --> 00:26:48,308
Or, "You are longwinded.
Gotta be mindful."
616
00:26:48,408 --> 00:26:50,811
There's such a thing
called listen to understand
617
00:26:50,911 --> 00:26:52,212
and listen to defend.
618
00:26:52,312 --> 00:26:54,481
So we want to listen
to understand.
619
00:26:54,581 --> 00:26:56,817
I definitely don't do
that enough at all.
620
00:26:56,917 --> 00:26:59,152
[laughs] Now that you say that.
621
00:26:59,253 --> 00:27:02,022
I've never thought that
I've had communication issues,
622
00:27:02,122 --> 00:27:03,423
but I definitely realize that
623
00:27:03,524 --> 00:27:05,626
I'm not the perfect
communicator.
624
00:27:05,726 --> 00:27:09,229
And I'm still upset with
Brandi, but I definitely see now
625
00:27:09,329 --> 00:27:11,532
that there was some truth
to what she was saying.
626
00:27:11,632 --> 00:27:14,168
And I think the tools that
Dr. Keisha is giving me
627
00:27:14,268 --> 00:27:15,702
will help me
communicate better with
628
00:27:15,802 --> 00:27:17,938
Brandi and Iman in the future.
629
00:27:18,038 --> 00:27:19,339
This is really good.
630
00:27:19,439 --> 00:27:21,208
Like, you guys were able to
sit here and talk through
631
00:27:21,308 --> 00:27:22,409
some of the issues, which is
632
00:27:22,509 --> 00:27:24,344
what I wanna
continue working on.
633
00:27:24,444 --> 00:27:27,047
-Iman, how do you feel?
-Honestly, I like that.
634
00:27:27,147 --> 00:27:29,183
I mean...yeah.
635
00:27:29,283 --> 00:27:31,251
I wanna make an
effort for both of us.
636
00:27:31,351 --> 00:27:33,320
Yes.
637
00:27:33,420 --> 00:27:35,422
See? Now, that's what I'm
talking about right there.
638
00:27:35,522 --> 00:27:36,723
[Iman] Yeah.
639
00:27:40,227 --> 00:27:43,130
[Jackie] Coming up on
Basketball Wives...
640
00:27:43,230 --> 00:27:47,301
I need you to make a decision
on what you're going to do.
641
00:27:47,401 --> 00:27:50,204
I don't wanna talk
with my mouth full.
642
00:27:50,304 --> 00:27:51,271
[sighs]
643
00:27:58,445 --> 00:28:06,486
[music]
644
00:28:06,587 --> 00:28:09,189
Hey, guys.
How are you doing?
645
00:28:09,289 --> 00:28:10,357
-Good.
-Good, how are you?
646
00:28:10,457 --> 00:28:11,491
Good. How was school?
647
00:28:11,592 --> 00:28:12,492
-Good.
-It was cool.
648
00:28:12,593 --> 00:28:13,994
-It was cool?
-Yeah.
649
00:28:14,094 --> 00:28:16,630
You look tired.
Do you want something to eat?
650
00:28:16,730 --> 00:28:17,898
-I was making sandwiches.
-I don't know,
651
00:28:17,998 --> 00:28:19,099
I have to go to
practice right now.
652
00:28:19,199 --> 00:28:20,501
You have to go to
practice right now?
653
00:28:20,601 --> 00:28:22,503
What time is it?
Oh my god.
654
00:28:22,603 --> 00:28:24,438
Stop it, you!
All right, okay.
655
00:28:24,538 --> 00:28:26,173
So you don't want a
sandwich before you go?
656
00:28:26,273 --> 00:28:27,508
No, thank you.
When I get back.
657
00:28:27,608 --> 00:28:28,742
Okay, all right.
Go ahead, baby.
658
00:28:28,842 --> 00:28:30,143
-Love you.
-Love you.
659
00:28:30,244 --> 00:28:31,712
Have a good practice.
Call me when you're done
660
00:28:31,812 --> 00:28:33,447
so I can come get you.
Come sit, Amani, come sit.
661
00:28:33,547 --> 00:28:35,115
Put your backpack down.
662
00:28:35,215 --> 00:28:37,918
Balancing three children and my
relationship with Rocc is a lot.
663
00:28:38,018 --> 00:28:40,988
You know, babies require
all of your attention.
664
00:28:41,088 --> 00:28:42,856
And I wanna make sure
that everyone around me
665
00:28:42,956 --> 00:28:44,525
is getting the right attention
666
00:28:44,625 --> 00:28:46,894
and getting everything
that they want.
667
00:28:46,994 --> 00:28:49,763
-Where's the baby?
-The baby's with Rocc.
668
00:28:49,863 --> 00:28:52,499
-Oh.
-Yeah, he's watching him
669
00:28:52,599 --> 00:28:54,635
so I can make sure
you guys are good.
670
00:28:54,735 --> 00:28:56,770
-You like being a big sister?
-Yeah.
671
00:28:56,870 --> 00:28:59,740
He reminds me of you
when you were little.
672
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,843
-Just such sweet, sweet babies.
-[giggles]
673
00:29:02,943 --> 00:29:05,078
So now that I had baby Prince,
674
00:29:05,179 --> 00:29:08,749
I'm thinking about
going back to work.
675
00:29:08,849 --> 00:29:10,784
And I wanted to know
what you thought about that.
676
00:29:10,884 --> 00:29:13,120
I am gonna miss you.
When I was on spring break,
677
00:29:13,220 --> 00:29:14,855
-I was crying for you.
-[Angel] Yeah?
678
00:29:14,955 --> 00:29:17,891
-What makes you cry?
-When, like, the things
679
00:29:17,991 --> 00:29:20,961
that you do with me,
like you hug me,
680
00:29:21,061 --> 00:29:24,231
that's what makes me remember
it, because you're not there.
681
00:29:24,331 --> 00:29:25,499
[Angel] You miss my hugs?
682
00:29:25,599 --> 00:29:28,502
You miss my hugs?
You can get all my hugs.
683
00:29:28,602 --> 00:29:29,970
You get all my hugs!
684
00:29:30,070 --> 00:29:31,305
I've been working from
home, but you know,
685
00:29:31,405 --> 00:29:32,973
I have a very demanding career.
686
00:29:33,073 --> 00:29:35,576
And a lot of my clients
are reaching back out.
687
00:29:35,676 --> 00:29:39,046
I feel like I have
to get with Mary J. Blige,
688
00:29:39,146 --> 00:29:40,848
get with these tours,
work with Lil' Kim.
689
00:29:40,948 --> 00:29:42,816
Like, I don't want my
clients going elsewhere.
690
00:29:42,916 --> 00:29:45,252
But as a working
mom, I feel bad.
691
00:29:45,352 --> 00:29:46,787
I feel guilty.
692
00:29:46,887 --> 00:29:50,324
I feel like work does take
away time from the children.
693
00:29:50,424 --> 00:29:53,393
[sighs] I'm gonna figure it out.
You okay with that?
694
00:29:53,493 --> 00:29:54,428
-Yeah.
-Okay.
695
00:29:54,528 --> 00:29:55,662
-You promise?
-Yeah.
696
00:29:55,762 --> 00:29:57,164
Okay, all right.
697
00:29:57,264 --> 00:30:00,834
We're still gonna have
daughter and mommy time, okay?
698
00:30:00,934 --> 00:30:01,869
Okay.
699
00:30:02,836 --> 00:30:05,005
♪ W-w-work, work
W-w-w-work, work ♪
700
00:30:05,105 --> 00:30:08,008
♪ W-w-work, work
W-w-w-work, work ♪
701
00:30:08,108 --> 00:30:10,043
♪ W-w-work, work
W-w-w-work, work ♪
702
00:30:10,143 --> 00:30:11,345
Let me set you up!
703
00:30:11,445 --> 00:30:12,646
And you probably
guessed I'm Italian.
704
00:30:12,746 --> 00:30:14,414
So today, the menu
is fresh pasta
705
00:30:14,515 --> 00:30:15,616
the way my mom used to make it.
706
00:30:15,716 --> 00:30:16,984
[Brandi] Oh!
707
00:30:17,084 --> 00:30:18,552
[Chef] We're gonna make a
fountain in front of us.
708
00:30:18,652 --> 00:30:20,954
And we make a hole big enough
709
00:30:21,054 --> 00:30:23,624
for the two eggs to be cracked
in so they don't run away.
710
00:30:23,724 --> 00:30:25,092
Bigger! There we go.
711
00:30:25,192 --> 00:30:29,129
-I did that and it still ran.
-[laughs]
712
00:30:29,229 --> 00:30:30,731
After talking to Jackie,
713
00:30:30,831 --> 00:30:33,567
I need to take a new
approach with Jason.
714
00:30:33,667 --> 00:30:34,902
He's not in town long,
715
00:30:35,002 --> 00:30:37,804
so I don't wanna waste
precious times or moments
716
00:30:37,905 --> 00:30:40,574
that I have with him arguing.
717
00:30:40,674 --> 00:30:41,909
We just scramble the eggs.
718
00:30:42,009 --> 00:30:44,545
Keep incorporating the
flour a little at a time.
719
00:30:44,645 --> 00:30:46,647
So once you pretty much--
the liquid is gone,
720
00:30:46,747 --> 00:30:49,082
get it together and
start working our dough.
721
00:30:49,183 --> 00:30:51,151
So we're gonna start
doing a technique
722
00:30:51,251 --> 00:30:52,953
which is called
the punch and fold.
723
00:30:53,053 --> 00:30:55,722
You take your palm, and you
punch down, and then you fold.
724
00:30:55,822 --> 00:30:58,659
-This is working my shoulders.
-[laughs]
725
00:30:58,759 --> 00:31:00,761
[Chef] Sauté a little
bit of garlic whole,
726
00:31:00,861 --> 00:31:02,763
and we're just gonna let
the garlic flavor the oil.
727
00:31:02,863 --> 00:31:05,065
It's gonna be a
simple tomato sauce.
728
00:31:05,165 --> 00:31:07,501
[Brandi] Cooking with
your spouse is so much fun.
729
00:31:07,601 --> 00:31:10,103
You know, a little
messy, flirty.
730
00:31:10,204 --> 00:31:12,606
We both have our hands
in this tomato sauce,
731
00:31:12,706 --> 00:31:14,041
and we, you know--
732
00:31:14,141 --> 00:31:17,644
I feel like we're having
a little Ghost moment.
733
00:31:17,744 --> 00:31:20,013
[Chef] [laughs] There we go.
734
00:31:20,113 --> 00:31:24,451
[laughter]
735
00:31:24,551 --> 00:31:25,986
It means a lot to me that Jason
736
00:31:26,086 --> 00:31:27,821
is willing to step out
of his comfort zone
737
00:31:27,921 --> 00:31:29,690
and do the things
that I like to do.
738
00:31:29,790 --> 00:31:31,658
I brought you to
this cooking class
739
00:31:31,758 --> 00:31:33,760
'cause I wanted
you to see, like,
740
00:31:33,861 --> 00:31:35,762
how passionate I am in this.
741
00:31:39,399 --> 00:31:42,035
I just want you to understand
that this is a hobby,
742
00:31:42,135 --> 00:31:44,705
but this is a hobby that I'm
trying to make into a business.
743
00:31:44,805 --> 00:31:47,007
And this is something that
is very important to me.
744
00:31:47,107 --> 00:31:50,844
And I feel like for Jason, I'm
gonna give him the opportunity
745
00:31:50,944 --> 00:31:52,679
to finish fourth grade.
746
00:31:52,779 --> 00:31:56,550
And I need you to
make a decision on
747
00:31:56,650 --> 00:31:58,318
what you're going to do.
748
00:32:04,291 --> 00:32:05,826
[sighs]
749
00:32:12,032 --> 00:32:15,335
I know that 'cause I always
said to you it's your turn,
750
00:32:15,435 --> 00:32:16,737
and I'm respecting that.
751
00:32:16,837 --> 00:32:20,641
So once Jason gets
out of school,
752
00:32:20,741 --> 00:32:22,543
I'mma stay on top of my contacts
753
00:32:22,643 --> 00:32:24,044
and couple trips
every once in a while,
754
00:32:24,144 --> 00:32:26,613
where we can move--
we can move--
755
00:32:26,713 --> 00:32:28,982
That--that--
Okay, first of all--
756
00:32:29,082 --> 00:32:30,517
I'm gonna bring my
Black ass out here.
757
00:32:30,617 --> 00:32:31,952
I ain't stupid.
758
00:32:32,052 --> 00:32:34,888
He plays so much.
I don't know how to take it.
759
00:32:34,988 --> 00:32:39,126
But if he's serious,
which I hope that he is,
760
00:32:39,226 --> 00:32:41,795
it makes me feel good, because
it's showing the true testament
761
00:32:41,895 --> 00:32:44,131
of the love that he has for me
762
00:32:44,231 --> 00:32:46,066
and the love that
he has for his family.
763
00:32:47,701 --> 00:32:50,137
All right, I will.
Come on.
764
00:32:52,606 --> 00:32:54,374
Trust me!
765
00:32:55,409 --> 00:32:57,244
It's all about trust, see?
766
00:32:59,847 --> 00:33:02,783
[Jackie] Coming up on
Basketball Wives...
767
00:33:02,883 --> 00:33:05,619
We wouldn't even be
here had you listened.
768
00:33:05,719 --> 00:33:07,054
You kept interrupting.
769
00:33:07,154 --> 00:33:08,922
So it's only so much a
mother[bleep] can take.
770
00:33:16,697 --> 00:33:24,705
[music]
771
00:33:24,805 --> 00:33:27,274
-Katie, you are setting up.
-Hey, girl.
772
00:33:27,374 --> 00:33:30,010
-[Brooke] You must be excited.
-I'm so excited.
773
00:33:30,110 --> 00:33:33,146
[Brooke] I am so fired up
about getting everyone together
774
00:33:33,247 --> 00:33:34,681
for my workout.
775
00:33:34,781 --> 00:33:38,752
This has really helped me
so much, mind, body, and soul.
776
00:33:38,852 --> 00:33:40,988
And I have definitely
been on that road
777
00:33:41,088 --> 00:33:43,590
since finding out that
my husband is a cheater.
778
00:33:43,690 --> 00:33:45,893
I feel like my biggest
goal in this group
779
00:33:45,993 --> 00:33:49,429
is to help some of these
women get stress relief,
780
00:33:49,530 --> 00:33:51,698
because it seems like
when we all get together,
781
00:33:51,798 --> 00:33:54,001
there's always an explosion.
782
00:33:54,101 --> 00:33:56,303
-This is gonna be great.
-Hellur!
783
00:33:56,403 --> 00:33:57,604
[Brooke] Hellur!
784
00:33:57,704 --> 00:33:59,206
Come over here eating
candy and Laffy Taffy
785
00:33:59,306 --> 00:34:00,741
before I start this.
786
00:34:00,841 --> 00:34:05,212
-Brandi, this is Katie.
-Nice to meet you.
787
00:34:05,312 --> 00:34:06,914
She is gonna be
helping us today.
788
00:34:07,014 --> 00:34:08,549
She is our trainer.
789
00:34:08,649 --> 00:34:12,986
-Brookie!
-Hey!
790
00:34:13,086 --> 00:34:15,222
I brought some snacks and stuff
just so I can have energy.
791
00:34:15,322 --> 00:34:16,523
First of all,
what are you doing?
792
00:34:16,623 --> 00:34:17,991
[Brandi] Jackie,
you brought snacks?
793
00:34:18,091 --> 00:34:20,327
Well, yeah, I mean, if I
run out of energy and stuff.
794
00:34:20,427 --> 00:34:22,563
This is not the energy--
795
00:34:22,663 --> 00:34:25,632
I cannot believe that
Brooke threw my chips away.
796
00:34:25,732 --> 00:34:28,068
When my blood sugar
drops during a workout,
797
00:34:28,168 --> 00:34:30,737
I hope Brooke's ready to
jump in that trash can.
798
00:34:30,838 --> 00:34:32,372
Y'all, do I have a camel toe?
799
00:34:32,472 --> 00:34:34,141
-Not really.
-I think you're good.
800
00:34:35,876 --> 00:34:37,411
[Brooke] Duffey!
801
00:34:37,511 --> 00:34:40,547
Y'all, this place
is so freaking cute!
802
00:34:40,647 --> 00:34:42,115
I'm looking forward
to working out.
803
00:34:42,216 --> 00:34:45,452
But I don't know what vibe I'm
gonna get from Brandi today.
804
00:34:45,552 --> 00:34:47,120
I'm a little bit nervous because
805
00:34:47,221 --> 00:34:48,889
we haven't got to
talk things out,
806
00:34:48,989 --> 00:34:52,793
and I don't know which
way this day could go.
807
00:34:52,893 --> 00:34:56,563
-Where is Baby B?
-Is she coming?
808
00:34:56,663 --> 00:34:58,999
-I hope so.
-So let's start stretching.
809
00:34:59,099 --> 00:35:03,637
And then, when she gets
here, she'll just fall in.
810
00:35:03,737 --> 00:35:07,007
So first one we wanna do is
just bend the knees slightly.
811
00:35:07,107 --> 00:35:09,510
Walk right out, okay?
812
00:35:09,610 --> 00:35:11,345
Oh my god, my calves.
813
00:35:11,445 --> 00:35:13,280
Walk in.
814
00:35:13,380 --> 00:35:16,116
Let's do five of those.
815
00:35:16,216 --> 00:35:17,985
-That's a workout!
-Yeah!
816
00:35:18,085 --> 00:35:20,487
[bleep]!
817
00:35:20,587 --> 00:35:22,356
Oh my god, you guys!
818
00:35:22,456 --> 00:35:24,358
[Group] Baby B!
819
00:35:24,458 --> 00:35:28,095
[exclaiming]
820
00:35:28,195 --> 00:35:29,963
-Hey!
-Hey, Baby!
821
00:35:30,063 --> 00:35:31,832
Oh my god!
822
00:35:31,932 --> 00:35:36,003
[exclaiming]
823
00:35:36,103 --> 00:35:38,138
I've never seen an
ankle monitor in person.
824
00:35:38,238 --> 00:35:41,842
And to see it on a friend,
it's, like, really sad.
825
00:35:41,942 --> 00:35:43,977
You got on your ankle weights?
826
00:35:44,077 --> 00:35:45,279
[laughter]
827
00:35:45,379 --> 00:35:46,747
I'm from South
Central Los Angeles.
828
00:35:46,847 --> 00:35:49,349
I've seen lots of
ankle monitors.
829
00:35:49,449 --> 00:35:51,618
I don't feel like
it's the biggest deal.
830
00:35:51,718 --> 00:35:53,320
Brittish, is your lawyer
making any progress
831
00:35:53,420 --> 00:35:54,688
with getting that [bleep] off?
832
00:35:54,788 --> 00:35:56,890
He basically told me that
833
00:35:56,990 --> 00:35:58,725
I won't have it on
for a long time.
834
00:35:58,825 --> 00:36:02,162
But I have to show that I
understand my consequences.
835
00:36:02,262 --> 00:36:04,097
It's a punishment, because
I should've got permission--
836
00:36:04,198 --> 00:36:06,700
-So they're punishing you?
-Basically.
837
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,035
That's exactly
what they're doing.
838
00:36:08,135 --> 00:36:10,704
Let's work off some
of this frustration, okay?
839
00:36:10,804 --> 00:36:13,373
First circuit, we are gonna
be doing reverse lunges.
840
00:36:13,473 --> 00:36:15,375
Next up, we got
goblet squats.
841
00:36:15,475 --> 00:36:17,277
And then we're moving
on to some core.
842
00:36:17,377 --> 00:36:19,046
All right, we ready?
Go, let's go.
843
00:36:19,146 --> 00:36:21,114
♪ Work witcha,
work, work witcha ♪
844
00:36:21,915 --> 00:36:23,383
[Katie]
Larger step-out.
845
00:36:23,483 --> 00:36:24,985
Yep, perfect.
846
00:36:25,085 --> 00:36:26,420
♪ Work, work, work, work,
work, work witcha ♪
847
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,689
[exclaiming]
848
00:36:28,789 --> 00:36:31,091
[Katie] Come on, push!
Push, push!
849
00:36:31,692 --> 00:36:33,060
Come on, Duffey!
850
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,095
I'm putting my all
into this workout,
851
00:36:35,195 --> 00:36:37,531
because even though I worked
on some things with Dr. Keisha
852
00:36:37,631 --> 00:36:38,932
to help me to communicate,
853
00:36:39,032 --> 00:36:41,535
I still feel angry
and a little upset
854
00:36:41,635 --> 00:36:43,036
when I'm looking at Brandi.
855
00:36:43,136 --> 00:36:45,439
I just need to burn
this all off right now.
856
00:36:45,539 --> 00:36:47,407
♪ Bring it in, poke it out ♪
857
00:36:47,508 --> 00:36:48,842
[Katie] Throw these on.
858
00:36:49,743 --> 00:36:52,412
-Let's go, girl.
-Get it, girl!
859
00:36:52,513 --> 00:36:54,681
♪ Brand new --
with a brand new ♪
860
00:36:56,850 --> 00:36:57,885
Surgery!
861
00:36:57,985 --> 00:36:58,919
[laughter]
862
00:36:59,019 --> 00:37:01,889
Jackie...that's
a reverse cowgirl.
863
00:37:01,989 --> 00:37:05,959
[cheering and exclaiming]
864
00:37:08,328 --> 00:37:10,664
That was a great workout.
Did you guys release
865
00:37:10,764 --> 00:37:13,534
some of your negative
frustration and energy?
866
00:37:13,634 --> 00:37:14,902
Yes, sir,
Coach Brooke, sir!
867
00:37:15,002 --> 00:37:16,136
[laughter]
868
00:37:16,236 --> 00:37:18,372
Well, I'm glad,
'cause that was the point.
869
00:37:18,472 --> 00:37:19,706
I feel, like, the endorphins.
870
00:37:19,806 --> 00:37:22,242
I'm, like, in a better
mood after working out.
871
00:37:22,342 --> 00:37:25,979
Did you and your sister
is having a little...
872
00:37:26,079 --> 00:37:28,582
You haven't talked to her yet?
873
00:37:28,682 --> 00:37:31,151
I'm avoiding it.
874
00:37:31,251 --> 00:37:33,487
I know that I have to
talk to Brandi eventually.
875
00:37:33,587 --> 00:37:35,756
But I've known
Brandi for 19 years,
876
00:37:35,856 --> 00:37:38,725
and when she's upset
with someone, she's upset.
877
00:37:38,825 --> 00:37:40,627
And I'm a little
bit nervous because
878
00:37:40,727 --> 00:37:42,829
I really don't want
to fight with her.
879
00:37:42,930 --> 00:37:47,401
So, Duffey and Brooke came over
to my house after the winery.
880
00:37:47,501 --> 00:37:50,270
-You guys need to have a talk.
-Talk about what, though?
881
00:37:50,370 --> 00:37:51,972
Well, you had brought
up something about her
882
00:37:52,072 --> 00:37:54,975
going to, uh,
communication counseling?
883
00:37:55,075 --> 00:37:56,443
Well, she told everybody that
884
00:37:56,543 --> 00:37:58,078
she was going to
communication therapy.
885
00:37:58,178 --> 00:38:01,481
It was the way you
said it, Brandi.
886
00:38:01,582 --> 00:38:02,749
Actually, let's have
this conversation
887
00:38:02,850 --> 00:38:04,384
after you and Iman,
because they'll teach you
888
00:38:04,484 --> 00:38:05,819
how to stop being defensive.
889
00:38:05,919 --> 00:38:07,387
She's not listening.
890
00:38:07,487 --> 00:38:09,523
It's also gonna help you
with your other relationships
891
00:38:09,623 --> 00:38:10,958
with other people that you have,
892
00:38:11,058 --> 00:38:13,460
and it's gonna help
you to understand,
893
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:14,962
and it's gonna
help you to listen.
894
00:38:15,062 --> 00:38:18,498
And that is a problem,
obviously, that she has.
895
00:38:18,599 --> 00:38:20,767
It's a little hard, because
I care about my friendships.
896
00:38:20,868 --> 00:38:22,536
It's important
for me in my life.
897
00:38:22,636 --> 00:38:25,873
I think with you and Brandi,
a conversation has to be had,
898
00:38:25,973 --> 00:38:27,474
and I think the
sooner, the better.
899
00:38:27,574 --> 00:38:28,876
Yeah.
900
00:38:28,976 --> 00:38:32,312
I do not want to see
a situation like this
901
00:38:32,412 --> 00:38:35,349
blow up into something
that can be resolved
902
00:38:35,449 --> 00:38:36,617
actually right here, right now.
903
00:38:36,717 --> 00:38:38,819
It can, but I get--
Look, Jen.
904
00:38:38,919 --> 00:38:40,921
I have to have boundaries,
and I have boundaries.
905
00:38:41,021 --> 00:38:43,123
And if you don't respect
those boundaries,
906
00:38:43,223 --> 00:38:48,529
I am very good at and
perfected at letting people go.
907
00:38:48,629 --> 00:38:49,930
-Hello, ladies!
-Hey, ladies.
908
00:38:50,030 --> 00:38:53,233
-What y'all want?
-Well, you know...
909
00:38:57,838 --> 00:38:59,840
♪ Bring it in, poke it out ♪
910
00:38:59,940 --> 00:39:01,975
♪ Stick it in, walk it out ♪
911
00:39:05,913 --> 00:39:08,549
[music]
912
00:39:08,649 --> 00:39:10,617
I have to have boundaries,
and I have boundaries.
913
00:39:10,717 --> 00:39:12,986
And if you don't respect
those boundaries,
914
00:39:13,086 --> 00:39:17,758
I am very good at and
perfected at letting people go.
915
00:39:19,393 --> 00:39:22,362
I cannot believe that
we are still talking about
916
00:39:22,462 --> 00:39:24,631
what happened at the winery.
917
00:39:24,731 --> 00:39:27,401
They simply chose
some poor words.
918
00:39:27,501 --> 00:39:30,838
Nobody slept with your husband.
Nobody stole any money.
919
00:39:30,938 --> 00:39:33,540
Can we just move on?
920
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,175
-Hello, ladies.
-Hey, ladies!
921
00:39:35,275 --> 00:39:37,244
-Hi, ladies!
-What y'all want?
922
00:39:37,344 --> 00:39:40,514
Well, you know...
we want you and Duffey
923
00:39:40,614 --> 00:39:42,516
to have a conversation.
924
00:39:42,616 --> 00:39:44,751
I believe that you
guys' issue right now
925
00:39:44,852 --> 00:39:47,454
is what happened at the
winery when a comment was made
926
00:39:47,554 --> 00:39:48,989
between the two of you guys.
927
00:39:49,089 --> 00:39:51,491
-About the whole Iman thing--
-That wasn't a nice comment.
928
00:39:51,592 --> 00:39:52,726
But it's a lot of comments
929
00:39:52,826 --> 00:39:54,228
that you make that
are not nice either.
930
00:39:54,328 --> 00:39:55,562
-Correct.
-So, I wasn't throwing
931
00:39:55,662 --> 00:39:58,065
a dig at Iman.
I was saying
932
00:39:58,165 --> 00:39:59,666
when you go to counseling,
933
00:39:59,766 --> 00:40:01,969
it's not gonna just help with
you and Iman and relationships,
934
00:40:02,069 --> 00:40:05,305
but you'll learn how to
listen to understand somebody.
935
00:40:05,405 --> 00:40:08,876
And I think we wouldn't
even be here had you listened.
936
00:40:08,976 --> 00:40:10,244
You kept interrupting.
937
00:40:10,344 --> 00:40:14,014
So it's only so much a
mother[bleep] can take.
938
00:40:14,114 --> 00:40:15,749
I'm trying really hard right now
939
00:40:15,849 --> 00:40:18,318
to do what Dr. Keisha
has advised me to do
940
00:40:18,418 --> 00:40:21,388
and keep my mouth closed
while Brandi is talking.
941
00:40:21,488 --> 00:40:23,490
But I feel like she's
trying to beat me down
942
00:40:23,590 --> 00:40:24,925
in front of the group right now.
943
00:40:25,025 --> 00:40:27,227
Like, I don't know how much
more of this I can take.
944
00:40:27,327 --> 00:40:30,531
When I said, do you
belittle Jason in arguments,
945
00:40:30,631 --> 00:40:33,834
it was not a dig to Jason.
It was a dig to you,
946
00:40:33,934 --> 00:40:35,302
because I felt like
you were belittling me
947
00:40:35,402 --> 00:40:36,570
in that conversation.
948
00:40:36,670 --> 00:40:38,272
You said my head
was full of air.
949
00:40:38,372 --> 00:40:40,240
You said, after you go
to communication with Iman,
950
00:40:40,340 --> 00:40:42,743
then maybe--don't
say my [bleep] name!
951
00:40:42,843 --> 00:40:45,279
-Don't say my [bleep] name!
-You said it first!
952
00:40:45,379 --> 00:40:47,314
-Don't say nothing about--
-You said my man first!
953
00:40:47,414 --> 00:40:48,649
Don't play the victim
and the villain.
954
00:40:48,749 --> 00:40:50,417
Don't play the victim
and the villain.
955
00:40:50,517 --> 00:40:52,252
I'm not playing the victim!
956
00:40:59,126 --> 00:41:01,695
[Jackie] Next time on
Basketball Wives...
957
00:41:01,795 --> 00:41:04,031
Did you hear that
she just apologized?
958
00:41:04,131 --> 00:41:06,333
-Yeah!
-And then you still went in.
959
00:41:06,433 --> 00:41:09,102
-I sure did.
-But you can't do that!
960
00:41:09,203 --> 00:41:12,472
Some days, I'm happy.
But some days, I feel sad.
961
00:41:12,573 --> 00:41:14,107
You're a little moody.
962
00:41:14,208 --> 00:41:18,312
It's LA Fashion Week.
I got us tickets for the VIP.
963
00:41:18,412 --> 00:41:21,215
I've shown in LA Fashion
Week three times.
964
00:41:21,315 --> 00:41:22,816
Jennifer walk down this runway,
965
00:41:22,916 --> 00:41:24,818
it's gonna be a
mother[bleep] problem.
966
00:41:24,918 --> 00:41:28,055
[shouting]
967
00:41:28,155 --> 00:41:29,957
You're picking at
every little thing!
968
00:41:30,057 --> 00:41:31,391
I'm not picking at
every [bleep] little thing!
969
00:41:31,491 --> 00:41:33,126
If you want to continue
to play a victim,
970
00:41:33,227 --> 00:41:34,962
act like I don't know
what I'm talking about--
971
00:41:35,062 --> 00:41:37,664
You're talking about this
in front of the cameras?
972
00:41:37,764 --> 00:41:39,766
Shut the [bleep] cameras off
so I can talk to this bitch
973
00:41:39,867 --> 00:41:41,502
however I want to talk to her!
974
00:41:47,307 --> 00:41:59,453
[music]
975
00:42:07,995 --> 00:42:09,963
[music]
976
00:42:10,864 --> 00:42:11,965
[whoosh]
977
00:42:13,534 --> 00:42:15,802
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