1 00:00:07,307 --> 00:00:09,443 [Jackie] Previously on Basketball Wives... 2 00:00:09,543 --> 00:00:11,245 My husband, he's coming. 3 00:00:11,345 --> 00:00:16,617 I wanna show him around LA and get him to, like, enjoy LA. 4 00:00:16,717 --> 00:00:19,486 I'm trying to convince before I start to force. 5 00:00:20,454 --> 00:00:22,222 This isn't a violent offense. Like, I feel like you guys 6 00:00:22,322 --> 00:00:24,057 are really doing this to me because of who I am. 7 00:00:24,157 --> 00:00:25,559 I have to wear an ankle monitor. 8 00:00:25,659 --> 00:00:27,160 Oh, Lord! 9 00:00:27,261 --> 00:00:29,663 -This is not that serious. -It's all not serious for y'all 10 00:00:29,763 --> 00:00:32,366 because none of y'all gotta have none on! 11 00:00:32,466 --> 00:00:34,935 Duffey, that's not what the [bleep] I just said, sweetie. 12 00:00:35,035 --> 00:00:36,270 -[Duffey] Well, clarify for me. -What did you say? 13 00:00:36,370 --> 00:00:38,672 -Is there air, like-- -This is how you belittle Jason 14 00:00:38,772 --> 00:00:40,207 in y'all's arguments? 15 00:00:41,508 --> 00:00:44,478 I won't be coming around your group of friends anymore. 16 00:00:44,578 --> 00:00:45,913 Ouch. 17 00:00:46,013 --> 00:00:49,149 I have to walk away from this group and this show. 18 00:01:15,342 --> 00:01:21,415 [music] 19 00:01:21,515 --> 00:01:24,218 It's so beautiful today! 20 00:01:24,318 --> 00:01:28,388 I want you guys to feed the ducks with me. 21 00:01:28,488 --> 00:01:30,390 -You feel good? -The ducks represent freedom, 22 00:01:32,292 --> 00:01:33,493 You just gonna have a little thing on you. 23 00:01:33,594 --> 00:01:35,062 -Exactly. -It don't look little to me. 24 00:01:35,162 --> 00:01:36,630 It is temporary. 25 00:01:36,730 --> 00:01:38,065 [Brittish] I'm still dealing with my federal case 26 00:01:38,165 --> 00:01:39,533 that I have going on, 27 00:01:39,633 --> 00:01:42,736 and I had to go to Houston to take a business meeting, 28 00:01:42,836 --> 00:01:46,573 but I left without permission. And that violated my bond. 29 00:01:46,673 --> 00:01:49,510 So now I'm gonna have to have GPS monitor placed on me 30 00:01:49,610 --> 00:01:51,578 so they know where I'm at all times. 31 00:01:51,678 --> 00:01:53,614 -I have bread for us. -Listen, 32 00:01:53,714 --> 00:01:56,783 this is gonna be the last piece of bread that you guys see, 33 00:01:56,884 --> 00:01:59,586 because my fitness event is coming up, 34 00:01:59,686 --> 00:02:03,624 and I want you guys to take it serious and be ready. 35 00:02:03,724 --> 00:02:06,026 Do you know, I've had so much stress going on 36 00:02:06,126 --> 00:02:07,461 in the last couple of months 37 00:02:07,561 --> 00:02:09,563 with going through the separation with my husband, 38 00:02:09,663 --> 00:02:11,732 talking about divorce, like, all this stuff. 39 00:02:11,832 --> 00:02:14,134 I feel like I haven't been at my healthiest. 40 00:02:14,234 --> 00:02:17,171 So I'd just like to promote a healthier lifestyle 41 00:02:17,271 --> 00:02:18,338 for all of us. 42 00:02:18,438 --> 00:02:20,374 Without the gym and therapy, 43 00:02:20,474 --> 00:02:22,609 I don't know where the hell I would be right now-- 44 00:02:22,709 --> 00:02:24,111 somewhere losing my mind. 45 00:02:24,211 --> 00:02:27,047 So I just wanna get all of these ladies together, 46 00:02:27,147 --> 00:02:29,149 and I think that I can help them 47 00:02:29,249 --> 00:02:32,819 relieve some of their tension and stress in a workout. 48 00:02:32,920 --> 00:02:34,721 This might be a stress reliever for you 49 00:02:34,821 --> 00:02:38,492 after your situation with Duffey at the winery. 50 00:02:38,592 --> 00:02:41,828 You guys can definitely burn out your stress 51 00:02:41,929 --> 00:02:45,999 and get your mind, and your bodies, and your souls together. 52 00:02:46,099 --> 00:02:47,634 I mean, that's--girl. 53 00:02:47,734 --> 00:02:49,937 Look how they fighting over the bread, kind of like us. 54 00:02:50,037 --> 00:02:51,405 [laughter] 55 00:02:51,505 --> 00:02:54,408 -Kind of like us. -Yeah, it is. 56 00:02:54,508 --> 00:02:56,376 The one duck that keep talking is Jackie. 57 00:02:56,476 --> 00:02:58,712 [laughter] 58 00:03:00,214 --> 00:03:01,481 You guys, look at these ducks 59 00:03:01,582 --> 00:03:03,817 and how they all come together as a family. 60 00:03:03,917 --> 00:03:05,686 That's what I love about our sisterhood. 61 00:03:05,786 --> 00:03:10,591 And this is what I been trying to accomplish with us all. 62 00:03:10,691 --> 00:03:13,060 And I know there's been, like, some arguments here and there, 63 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:14,394 and different disputes. 64 00:03:14,494 --> 00:03:16,797 And at the Ponderosa, it kind of went left. 65 00:03:16,897 --> 00:03:20,667 With Jennifer saying what she said--I had no idea. 66 00:03:20,767 --> 00:03:22,603 Don't care about this. Cameras rolling, real life. 67 00:03:22,703 --> 00:03:25,806 We all know your house was foreclosed on. 68 00:03:27,841 --> 00:03:28,909 I just really wanna make sure 69 00:03:29,009 --> 00:03:30,377 that I share something with you guys, 70 00:03:30,477 --> 00:03:32,079 'cause it's weighing heavy on my heart. 71 00:03:32,179 --> 00:03:35,749 Malaysia and I and Duffey got a chance to have some drinks, 72 00:03:35,849 --> 00:03:39,253 um, the other night, and Malaysia said that 73 00:03:39,353 --> 00:03:41,054 she wants to take herself away. 74 00:03:43,524 --> 00:03:45,792 I actually talked to her, and she did mention 75 00:03:45,893 --> 00:03:47,728 that she didn't know what she was gonna do. 76 00:03:47,828 --> 00:03:49,963 Know what she was gonna do as far as what? 77 00:03:50,063 --> 00:03:51,798 She was like, I think I'm gonna quit the show. 78 00:03:51,899 --> 00:03:53,734 Is this true, Krystal, that Malaysia saying 79 00:03:53,834 --> 00:03:54,968 she's gonna quit the show? 80 00:03:56,670 --> 00:03:58,138 She's been here for 10 years, 81 00:03:58,238 --> 00:04:01,341 so her final decision is not coming back to Basketball Wives. 82 00:04:01,441 --> 00:04:02,643 She says she's quitting the show. 83 00:04:02,743 --> 00:04:05,012 -This is crazy. -Let's just put it on the table. 84 00:04:05,112 --> 00:04:08,949 Malaysia shared with me her baby's father wasn't helping her 85 00:04:09,049 --> 00:04:10,250 with child support. 86 00:04:10,350 --> 00:04:13,520 If her not getting child support is a hardship for her, 87 00:04:13,620 --> 00:04:16,089 then why would you quit your main source of income? 88 00:04:16,190 --> 00:04:18,292 [Jackie] I'll be honest. I think she's at a point where 89 00:04:18,392 --> 00:04:20,027 certain things are coming to light. 90 00:04:20,127 --> 00:04:23,330 A lot of the different un-dealt with issues. 91 00:04:23,430 --> 00:04:24,932 that she's had with a lot of people, 92 00:04:25,032 --> 00:04:27,935 and it's been brushed under the rug so long is now coming back. 93 00:04:28,035 --> 00:04:30,103 And it's like, boom! Here's the devil in your face. 94 00:04:30,204 --> 00:04:32,105 And the stress she's already going through, 95 00:04:32,206 --> 00:04:33,807 this is just adding on to it. 96 00:04:33,907 --> 00:04:36,910 Feel like if you don't put your personal life on the table 97 00:04:37,010 --> 00:04:39,713 and show all of it, and you trying to hide something, 98 00:04:39,813 --> 00:04:41,682 then that's gonna stress you out even more. 99 00:04:41,782 --> 00:04:43,317 It's the good, the bad, and the ugly. 100 00:04:43,417 --> 00:04:45,285 And that's what we are here for. 101 00:04:45,385 --> 00:04:47,254 I don't understand her. You know? 102 00:04:47,354 --> 00:04:48,822 I don't understand why you would 103 00:04:48,922 --> 00:04:51,725 walk away from income that you may need. 104 00:04:54,328 --> 00:04:56,530 Um... 105 00:04:56,630 --> 00:04:58,131 Malaysia and I don't have the relationship 106 00:04:58,232 --> 00:04:59,600 that we used to have. 107 00:04:59,700 --> 00:05:02,035 I miss those throwback Brandi and Malaysia days. 108 00:05:02,135 --> 00:05:03,570 Those were the fun days. 109 00:05:03,670 --> 00:05:08,342 But...I wish her well. I really do wish her well. 110 00:05:08,442 --> 00:05:11,945 I think for me, I have shared everything messed up in my life. 111 00:05:12,045 --> 00:05:14,648 -Whether you wanted to or not. -For me, it's like 112 00:05:14,748 --> 00:05:15,949 I know somebody else in the world 113 00:05:16,049 --> 00:05:17,651 is going through what I'm going through, 114 00:05:17,751 --> 00:05:19,219 and I don't want you to ever think that I'm perfect 115 00:05:19,319 --> 00:05:22,456 or that I got it all together, 'cause I don't. 116 00:05:22,556 --> 00:05:24,825 Being able to rely on the ladies for support 117 00:05:24,925 --> 00:05:26,660 with all of my legal issues going on 118 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,295 has been such a tremendous help. 119 00:05:28,395 --> 00:05:31,265 I really feel bad for Malaysia that she didn't feel 120 00:05:31,365 --> 00:05:33,333 that she could rely on the ladies for all of her issues 121 00:05:33,433 --> 00:05:34,801 she had going on. 122 00:05:34,902 --> 00:05:36,737 I got problems way bigger than Malaysia Pargo, baby. 123 00:05:36,837 --> 00:05:40,641 So, what I'm telling you is, I wish her nothin' but the best. 124 00:05:40,741 --> 00:05:42,509 I'm going through it, trials and tribulations. 125 00:05:42,609 --> 00:05:44,011 She going through trials and tribulations. 126 00:05:44,111 --> 00:05:46,813 I have always told Malaysia, you gotta do what's best for you. 127 00:05:46,914 --> 00:05:49,316 Her saying, you know, my mental health is more important? 128 00:05:49,416 --> 00:05:50,651 -And it is. -I feel like 129 00:05:50,751 --> 00:05:54,421 if I need to take a step away, I'mma step away. 130 00:05:54,521 --> 00:05:56,456 I wish her well, but I feel bad for her. 131 00:05:56,557 --> 00:05:57,925 Whew, this is a lot. 132 00:05:58,025 --> 00:06:00,160 -I hope it all works out. -Me too. 133 00:06:01,128 --> 00:06:10,204 [music] 134 00:06:10,304 --> 00:06:11,905 -Hey! -What's up? 135 00:06:14,274 --> 00:06:16,376 -Whatcha doin'? -Working. 136 00:06:16,476 --> 00:06:18,879 -Are you having a good day? -I'm having a great day. 137 00:06:18,979 --> 00:06:21,715 -I just signed another deal. -You signed a deal! 138 00:06:21,815 --> 00:06:23,450 -Congratulations! -Thanks. 139 00:06:23,550 --> 00:06:24,952 That's good. 140 00:06:25,052 --> 00:06:29,156 -So, whatcha doin'? -I am...eating a salad. 141 00:06:29,256 --> 00:06:32,025 And I'm also looking forward to our appointment. 142 00:06:32,125 --> 00:06:35,162 I'm happy that we are going to communication therapy, 143 00:06:35,262 --> 00:06:39,399 even though I think I'm a great communicator already. 144 00:06:39,499 --> 00:06:41,768 Right. You're the best. 145 00:06:41,869 --> 00:06:44,171 -Are you trying to be funny? -No. 146 00:06:44,271 --> 00:06:46,206 Can you tell I've been trying to work on it lately, though? 147 00:06:46,306 --> 00:06:49,743 -Yeah, mm, you're doing better. -[Duffey] Thank you. 148 00:06:49,843 --> 00:06:51,245 I think you could do a little bit better 149 00:06:51,345 --> 00:06:52,613 with your communication. 150 00:06:52,713 --> 00:06:54,081 I don't think I have any communication issues. 151 00:06:54,181 --> 00:06:57,184 -[Duffey] I think you do. -I'm very clear. 152 00:06:57,284 --> 00:06:59,987 After our last heated discussion about our finances-- 153 00:07:00,087 --> 00:07:01,989 It's like that fire, that hunger you had when we met 154 00:07:02,089 --> 00:07:03,757 is not all the way there anymore. 155 00:07:03,857 --> 00:07:05,192 Yeah, I don't-- I don't agree to that. 156 00:07:05,292 --> 00:07:06,793 Like, I've been making money for 15 years. 157 00:07:06,894 --> 00:07:08,762 I want to be here. 158 00:07:08,862 --> 00:07:10,364 And if I look up and I'm up here, 159 00:07:10,464 --> 00:07:11,865 and you're not up here with me 160 00:07:11,965 --> 00:07:13,667 because you were just being lazy, 161 00:07:13,767 --> 00:07:16,103 -like, I'm not okay with that. -Stop! Stop. 162 00:07:16,203 --> 00:07:18,705 I realize that those things aren't the real issue. 163 00:07:18,805 --> 00:07:20,207 We were really just having trouble 164 00:07:20,307 --> 00:07:21,175 understanding each other, 165 00:07:21,275 --> 00:07:22,776 but I think bringing in an expert 166 00:07:22,876 --> 00:07:24,511 is really gonna help us with that. 167 00:07:24,611 --> 00:07:26,446 Speaking of communication problems, 168 00:07:26,547 --> 00:07:29,082 me and Brandi, we ain't been getting along lately. 169 00:07:29,183 --> 00:07:33,053 And maybe I mentioned Jason's name 170 00:07:33,153 --> 00:07:35,389 in an argument the other day. 171 00:07:35,489 --> 00:07:38,325 But I only mentioned Jason's name 172 00:07:38,425 --> 00:07:40,160 because she mentioned your name. 173 00:07:40,260 --> 00:07:42,496 -What she say? -[Duffey] She was like, 174 00:07:42,596 --> 00:07:43,931 Duffey, you don't listen to me! 175 00:07:44,031 --> 00:07:45,766 You're not hearing anything I'm saying. 176 00:07:45,866 --> 00:07:47,768 You need to learn how to communicate. 177 00:07:47,868 --> 00:07:51,004 Maybe after you go to communication therapy 178 00:07:51,104 --> 00:07:52,840 with Iman... 179 00:07:52,940 --> 00:07:55,075 And I'm like, she's talking to me crazy right now. 180 00:07:55,175 --> 00:07:58,879 I was like, is this how you belittle Jason in arguments? 181 00:07:58,979 --> 00:08:00,948 I don't wanna keep going back and forth with somebody I love 182 00:08:01,048 --> 00:08:04,885 because we get so worked up that it could easily turn to 183 00:08:04,985 --> 00:08:07,221 something worse than just arguing. 184 00:08:07,321 --> 00:08:10,724 And, you know, I love Brandi, so I ain't wanna fight. 185 00:08:10,824 --> 00:08:13,527 But if it would've been anybody else, I would want to fight her. 186 00:08:13,627 --> 00:08:15,495 I don't want you to do that. You know, when people 187 00:08:15,596 --> 00:08:18,432 drop silly stuff, don't put too much emphasis in it 188 00:08:18,532 --> 00:08:21,435 -'cause I don't care about it. -So if somebody be like-- 189 00:08:21,535 --> 00:08:24,304 say something crazy about you, I'm just supposed to let it go? 190 00:08:24,404 --> 00:08:25,873 Right. 191 00:08:25,973 --> 00:08:27,541 [Duffey] I'm not gonna let anybody get away with 192 00:08:27,641 --> 00:08:29,443 talking about my man or my family. 193 00:08:29,543 --> 00:08:32,212 But hopefully communication therapy will help me 194 00:08:32,312 --> 00:08:35,282 calmly explain myself when I feel like 195 00:08:35,382 --> 00:08:38,252 someone has punched at me and I gotta punch back. 196 00:08:38,352 --> 00:08:40,954 So what if a guy say something crazy about me? 197 00:08:41,054 --> 00:08:42,356 If somebody talks about you in front of me, 198 00:08:42,456 --> 00:08:44,591 -I will handle it my way. -What would you do? 199 00:08:44,691 --> 00:08:46,426 I know address it. What I'm just saying-- 200 00:08:46,527 --> 00:08:48,061 -How would you address it? -You can't address things 201 00:08:48,161 --> 00:08:49,997 -the way I address things. -Oh! 202 00:08:50,097 --> 00:08:51,665 I would much rather have... 203 00:08:51,765 --> 00:08:54,401 -What? -Some pizza. 204 00:08:54,501 --> 00:08:55,802 [laughs] 205 00:08:56,770 --> 00:09:07,714 [music] 206 00:09:07,814 --> 00:09:09,016 -Hey. -Hello. 207 00:09:09,116 --> 00:09:10,684 -How are you? -Thanks for coming down. 208 00:09:10,784 --> 00:09:12,286 -Thanks for having me. -Have a seat. 209 00:09:12,386 --> 00:09:15,455 It's been a little over a month now since I left my husband. 210 00:09:15,556 --> 00:09:18,926 And although he feels like he can win me back, 211 00:09:19,026 --> 00:09:21,895 I've just gotta show him that he can't. 212 00:09:21,995 --> 00:09:23,964 I need to move on. 213 00:09:24,064 --> 00:09:25,799 So I see you're here because you're interested in 214 00:09:25,899 --> 00:09:27,935 -getting a divorce. -Mm-hmm. 215 00:09:28,035 --> 00:09:31,471 -When were you married? -September 9, 2016. 216 00:09:31,572 --> 00:09:34,541 And do you have a date of separation, where you decided-- 217 00:09:34,641 --> 00:09:36,977 January 4, 2022. 218 00:09:37,077 --> 00:09:38,445 Now, in the state of California, 219 00:09:38,545 --> 00:09:40,581 the process takes about six months and a day 220 00:09:40,681 --> 00:09:42,149 from the time that he was served. 221 00:09:42,249 --> 00:09:43,483 Wow. Okay. 222 00:09:43,584 --> 00:09:45,052 I know it feels long, 223 00:09:45,152 --> 00:09:47,054 but it allows you to think about whether or not 224 00:09:47,154 --> 00:09:49,223 you wanna make your marriage work. 225 00:09:49,323 --> 00:09:52,392 Are you sure that you're wanting to start today, though? 226 00:09:52,492 --> 00:09:54,161 I definitely wanna start the paperwork today 227 00:09:54,261 --> 00:09:56,196 'cause I just feel like it will... 228 00:09:57,865 --> 00:09:59,199 Sorry. 229 00:10:00,767 --> 00:10:02,236 Thank you. 230 00:10:03,203 --> 00:10:06,106 I definitely feel like it'll just make me feel better. 231 00:10:06,206 --> 00:10:09,443 Um, like, I'm just looking for some type of control 232 00:10:09,543 --> 00:10:12,713 -for my life, you know? -I know it can be hard. 233 00:10:12,813 --> 00:10:14,348 It's very hard. 234 00:10:14,448 --> 00:10:19,086 It's definitely hard to make a decision to say, you know, 235 00:10:19,186 --> 00:10:22,122 that this is no longer going to be our union, 236 00:10:22,222 --> 00:10:25,726 because I do love him, and of course, I love being married. 237 00:10:25,826 --> 00:10:28,195 I love the idea of love. 238 00:10:28,295 --> 00:10:32,733 But I feel so betrayed, that I feel like 239 00:10:32,833 --> 00:10:35,202 there are no other options. 240 00:10:35,302 --> 00:10:37,671 So these are the documents that you need to review. 241 00:10:37,771 --> 00:10:41,008 Okay. [sighs] 242 00:10:41,108 --> 00:10:43,210 -I know it's a lot to take in. -Yeah. 243 00:10:43,310 --> 00:10:44,878 If you have any questions, let us know. 244 00:10:44,978 --> 00:10:46,947 We're just gonna be right around the corner. 245 00:10:47,047 --> 00:10:48,348 And, uh, that's it. 246 00:10:48,448 --> 00:10:50,417 Thank you so much. I appreciate your help. 247 00:10:50,517 --> 00:10:52,085 -No problem. -Thank you. 248 00:10:54,955 --> 00:10:57,691 [Jackie] Coming up on Basketball Wives... 249 00:10:57,791 --> 00:10:59,059 Hey, Jackie! 250 00:10:59,159 --> 00:11:01,695 I haven't seen you since you had the baby! 251 00:11:01,795 --> 00:11:03,964 I know, take a look at me! Can you see? 252 00:11:04,064 --> 00:11:05,666 We're gonna get together soon, okay? 253 00:11:06,867 --> 00:11:09,837 -Jackie, don't start crying. -[sobs] 254 00:11:09,937 --> 00:11:13,674 No, it's okay. It's okay! 255 00:11:13,774 --> 00:11:15,342 You said my head was full of air. 256 00:11:15,442 --> 00:11:17,711 You said after you go to communication with Iman, 257 00:11:17,811 --> 00:11:19,880 then maybe--don't say my [bleep] name! 258 00:11:19,980 --> 00:11:21,748 Don't say my [bleep] name! 259 00:11:21,849 --> 00:11:24,017 Don't play the victim and the villain! 260 00:11:30,424 --> 00:11:39,933 [music] 261 00:11:40,033 --> 00:11:44,538 [phone vibrates] 262 00:11:46,473 --> 00:11:47,674 Hey, Jackie! 263 00:11:47,774 --> 00:11:50,010 [Jackie] Hey, mamacita! What you doin'? 264 00:11:50,110 --> 00:11:51,712 Nothing. How are you? 265 00:11:51,812 --> 00:11:54,515 Oh my god, I haven't seen you since you had the baby! 266 00:11:54,615 --> 00:11:56,817 I know, take a look at me! Can you see? 267 00:11:56,917 --> 00:11:58,018 [Jackie] I see! 268 00:11:58,118 --> 00:12:00,854 Okay, why are you so [bleep] snatched? 269 00:12:00,954 --> 00:12:02,489 And all of us don't look like that. 270 00:12:02,589 --> 00:12:03,824 [Angel] You do! 271 00:12:03,924 --> 00:12:05,759 It's been four months since I had my baby. 272 00:12:05,859 --> 00:12:07,995 His name was Prince Leon Youngblood. 273 00:12:08,095 --> 00:12:11,498 He was born at 7 pounds, 6 ounces, 23 inches. 274 00:12:11,598 --> 00:12:13,667 And he is just the cutest little thing! 275 00:12:13,767 --> 00:12:15,369 How's Rocc? He good? 276 00:12:15,469 --> 00:12:16,970 Yeah, he's good. He's at the studio. 277 00:12:18,639 --> 00:12:20,507 Kids are good. And the baby's sleeping. 278 00:12:20,607 --> 00:12:22,209 So I have a little bit of time. 279 00:12:22,309 --> 00:12:26,513 You gonna do, like, a post, after-baby, here he is shower 280 00:12:26,613 --> 00:12:28,315 so we can all come? 281 00:12:28,415 --> 00:12:30,050 Yeah, probably after a little while. 282 00:12:30,150 --> 00:12:32,786 I know all the ladies wanna come over and meet the baby 283 00:12:32,886 --> 00:12:34,988 and squeeze his cute little cheeks and everything. 284 00:12:35,088 --> 00:12:36,957 But you know, right now is not the time. 285 00:12:37,057 --> 00:12:39,059 We want to keep all germs away and, you know, 286 00:12:39,159 --> 00:12:42,963 just make sure that the baby is fine with no problems. 287 00:12:43,063 --> 00:12:44,865 You know how Rocc is. He's so, like, 288 00:12:44,965 --> 00:12:47,634 so worried about the baby and who's around the baby, 289 00:12:47,734 --> 00:12:49,636 and, you know, like-- because it was really hard, 290 00:12:49,736 --> 00:12:51,939 Jackie, I'm not gonna lie. Like, the first, you know-- 291 00:12:52,039 --> 00:12:54,575 'cause I couldn't really walk from the C-section. 292 00:12:56,777 --> 00:12:59,379 So he was really hands on, like, full time with the baby. 293 00:12:59,479 --> 00:13:01,682 And I know that, like, took a toll on him. 294 00:13:01,782 --> 00:13:03,951 Recovering from a C-section was a nightmare. 295 00:13:04,051 --> 00:13:06,653 But our newborn is healthy. He's beautiful. 296 00:13:06,753 --> 00:13:08,922 And we're just happy to be home. It's been four months. 297 00:13:09,022 --> 00:13:12,593 And everybody's settled in, and I'm mostly recovered. 298 00:13:12,693 --> 00:13:15,596 What's new? Fill me in. How are the girls? 299 00:13:15,696 --> 00:13:16,930 The girls are good. 300 00:13:17,030 --> 00:13:18,832 The Brooke thing was a shocker for me, though. 301 00:13:18,932 --> 00:13:21,068 I know what it's like to be cheated on. 302 00:13:21,168 --> 00:13:22,469 Is she okay? 303 00:13:22,569 --> 00:13:23,904 Yeah, she's okay. She's, um--she's strong, 304 00:13:24,004 --> 00:13:25,572 and she's just doing her thing. 305 00:13:25,672 --> 00:13:27,074 I'm disappointed that I haven't been able to 306 00:13:27,174 --> 00:13:28,976 spend time with Jackie and the other ladies, 307 00:13:29,076 --> 00:13:31,245 but I'm sure they understand I just had a newborn baby, 308 00:13:31,345 --> 00:13:32,713 and it's hard to get out as much. 309 00:13:32,813 --> 00:13:35,215 I do actually miss the girls. 310 00:13:35,315 --> 00:13:37,651 Don't miss the drama, but I miss the girls. 311 00:13:39,419 --> 00:13:40,821 Oh my god, I love you too! 312 00:13:40,921 --> 00:13:43,590 We're gonna get together soon, okay? 313 00:13:43,690 --> 00:13:45,559 -I love you, bye! -[Jackie] Bye! 314 00:13:46,393 --> 00:13:55,335 [music] 315 00:13:55,435 --> 00:13:57,137 [Brandi] This is so peaceful. 316 00:13:57,237 --> 00:13:59,039 This is, like, totally different than Dallas. 317 00:13:59,139 --> 00:14:00,307 Look at them yachts. 318 00:14:00,407 --> 00:14:03,644 I never knew how much I missed LA until I left it. 319 00:14:03,744 --> 00:14:04,945 Yeah, well... 320 00:14:11,218 --> 00:14:14,655 This a little staycation. It's pretty nice! 321 00:14:14,755 --> 00:14:17,658 And relaxing. We gotta do this more often. 322 00:14:17,758 --> 00:14:18,959 [Jason] I'm down. 323 00:14:19,059 --> 00:14:20,961 [Brandi] Jason is here from Dallas. 324 00:14:21,061 --> 00:14:22,729 And after the blowup with me and Duffey, 325 00:14:22,829 --> 00:14:24,298 it's really good to just step away 326 00:14:24,398 --> 00:14:27,734 and just to focus on me and my relationship with my husband. 327 00:14:27,835 --> 00:14:30,170 I talked to the girls. And we were just talking... 328 00:14:30,270 --> 00:14:31,939 -Who, your posse? -Yeah. 329 00:14:32,039 --> 00:14:34,308 I was just telling the ladies how I want you and Baby Jason 330 00:14:34,408 --> 00:14:37,878 -here to support my dreams. -And what is your dream, baby? 331 00:14:37,978 --> 00:14:41,548 Right now, what I'm focused on is my book. 332 00:14:41,648 --> 00:14:43,450 -The cookbook is important. -Mm-hmm. 333 00:14:43,550 --> 00:14:47,087 [Brandi] I'm trying to test out, like, cook some things, 334 00:14:47,187 --> 00:14:49,923 'cause you know I wanna do this recipe book. 335 00:14:50,023 --> 00:14:51,892 But I been saying I was gonna do it for the longest, 336 00:14:51,992 --> 00:14:53,727 so I need to just go ahead and do it. 337 00:14:53,827 --> 00:14:56,196 I'm just really trying to think bigger. 338 00:14:56,296 --> 00:15:01,068 I'm trying to be Rachel Ray on steroids and Black. 339 00:15:01,168 --> 00:15:03,904 And I cannot do it without my family. 340 00:15:04,004 --> 00:15:07,174 I think I need y'all here 90% of the time. 341 00:15:08,742 --> 00:15:10,644 I moved out to LA to pursue my dreams. 342 00:15:10,744 --> 00:15:14,014 But my husband and my son is still in Dallas. 343 00:15:14,114 --> 00:15:16,116 It's so hard being away from my family 344 00:15:16,216 --> 00:15:19,887 and actually flying home every single week to see them. 345 00:15:19,987 --> 00:15:22,022 But I am looking to change that. 346 00:15:22,122 --> 00:15:23,757 [Jason] Now's not really a good time. 347 00:15:23,857 --> 00:15:25,659 I mean, got things poppin' in Dallas. 348 00:15:25,759 --> 00:15:27,828 Yeah, but you can coach here. 349 00:15:29,329 --> 00:15:30,597 The foundation is there. 350 00:15:30,697 --> 00:15:32,132 I have to keep building my foundation there. 351 00:15:32,232 --> 00:15:34,168 You're retired and everything now. 352 00:15:37,204 --> 00:15:40,040 The deal was when you got close to retirement 353 00:15:40,140 --> 00:15:44,878 that it was my turn to do what I wanted to do. 354 00:15:44,978 --> 00:15:47,447 But I can't sit there and just, like, not do anything at all. 355 00:15:47,548 --> 00:15:49,049 Texas is--that's where we at, man. 356 00:15:49,149 --> 00:15:51,552 It's not about me. Jason there as well. 357 00:15:51,652 --> 00:15:54,488 -It sounds like it is about you. -Whoa! 358 00:15:54,588 --> 00:15:57,791 I traveled across the world for you. 359 00:15:57,891 --> 00:16:01,061 I move four times a year for you. 360 00:16:01,161 --> 00:16:06,033 I literally for once need y'alls full support. 361 00:16:06,133 --> 00:16:07,935 -I will follow your dream. -[Brandi] When? 362 00:16:08,035 --> 00:16:09,503 On Facetime in Dallas. 363 00:16:11,104 --> 00:16:12,840 I'm over it. I'm over it. 364 00:16:12,940 --> 00:16:16,210 I have sacrificed almost 15 years of 365 00:16:16,310 --> 00:16:19,246 being his biggest supporter, being his biggest cheerleader 366 00:16:19,346 --> 00:16:22,583 through a lot of [bleep] that he's put me through. 367 00:16:22,683 --> 00:16:25,485 You know, being a basketball wife, it's challenging. 368 00:16:25,586 --> 00:16:28,522 We move from place to place to be there with them 369 00:16:28,622 --> 00:16:29,890 and to support them, 370 00:16:29,990 --> 00:16:33,260 and we put so much energy into their world. 371 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,897 So I feel like it is a slap in the face. 372 00:16:36,997 --> 00:16:39,833 He should honor his word. 373 00:16:41,602 --> 00:16:42,736 I'm over it. 374 00:16:44,505 --> 00:16:47,107 [music] 375 00:16:47,207 --> 00:16:50,043 [doorbell rings] [knocking on door] 376 00:16:50,143 --> 00:16:56,783 [music] 377 00:16:56,884 --> 00:16:58,418 Damn, did I tell you about knocking? 378 00:16:58,519 --> 00:17:00,454 I be thinking you're the police. 379 00:17:00,554 --> 00:17:03,123 I told you I was coming, mamacita. 380 00:17:03,223 --> 00:17:07,127 Ever since Brittish has been dealing with this legal stuff, 381 00:17:07,227 --> 00:17:10,964 she has been really strong. But she's also vulnerable. 382 00:17:11,064 --> 00:17:13,000 And I've seen her break down and cry. 383 00:17:13,100 --> 00:17:15,269 You are strong, but this is 384 00:17:15,369 --> 00:17:16,670 starting to take its toll on you. 385 00:17:16,770 --> 00:17:18,605 I can see it. 386 00:17:18,705 --> 00:17:20,574 Jackie, for real, I feel like 387 00:17:20,674 --> 00:17:23,043 I'm about to break the [bleep] down. 388 00:17:23,143 --> 00:17:24,378 [Jackie] And with this ankle monitor, 389 00:17:24,478 --> 00:17:26,446 I definitely feel it's more important than ever 390 00:17:26,547 --> 00:17:27,848 for me to support Brittish. 391 00:17:27,948 --> 00:17:29,816 She's a little sister to me. 392 00:17:29,917 --> 00:17:32,286 Jackie, look at this thing on my ankle, it's huge. 393 00:17:32,386 --> 00:17:34,221 Brittish, you notice I won't look down. 394 00:17:34,321 --> 00:17:36,156 Brittish, I ain't ready. I ain't ready, Brittish. 395 00:17:36,256 --> 00:17:38,158 [Brittish] Look how big it is. 396 00:17:38,258 --> 00:17:41,495 -Jackie, don't start crying. -[sobs] 397 00:17:41,595 --> 00:17:43,664 [Brittish] No, it's okay. 398 00:17:43,764 --> 00:17:46,466 It's okay. 399 00:17:46,567 --> 00:17:48,268 It's okay! 400 00:17:48,368 --> 00:17:50,404 I've never seen one of these in real life, Brittish. 401 00:17:50,504 --> 00:17:53,373 -It's not comfortable. -It fits you. It's cute. 402 00:17:53,473 --> 00:17:56,777 [laughs] Thank you, Jackie. 403 00:17:56,877 --> 00:18:00,280 -It's okay. -Oh my god, it's real. 404 00:18:00,380 --> 00:18:03,217 -I'm not happy about it at all. -No, of course not. 405 00:18:03,317 --> 00:18:05,586 I feel like I deserved a warning, but 406 00:18:05,686 --> 00:18:06,920 I'm a firm believer in whatever 407 00:18:07,020 --> 00:18:08,555 people will do have consequences. 408 00:18:08,655 --> 00:18:10,958 And if I'm gonna tell my daughter that you-- 409 00:18:11,058 --> 00:18:13,594 if you go and touch the stove, you're gonna get burned, 410 00:18:13,694 --> 00:18:16,496 then I gotta tell myself, you went and did something 411 00:18:16,597 --> 00:18:18,832 they asked you not to do, so you get burned. 412 00:18:18,932 --> 00:18:21,134 That's right, Brittish. I'm so proud of you. 413 00:18:23,337 --> 00:18:24,838 Did you talk to your mom or anybody, 414 00:18:24,938 --> 00:18:26,173 or are you just dealing with this alone? 415 00:18:26,273 --> 00:18:27,674 I had a talk with Dash about it, 416 00:18:27,774 --> 00:18:29,276 because I wanted her to be prepared 417 00:18:29,376 --> 00:18:31,311 before my mama bring her back for a couple weeks. 418 00:18:31,411 --> 00:18:34,281 I was like, Dash, Mommy gotta get something put on her ankle. 419 00:18:34,381 --> 00:18:37,317 I was like, it's not gonna hurt. You're gonna see it. 420 00:18:37,417 --> 00:18:38,852 But it's not gonna bother me, okay? 421 00:18:38,952 --> 00:18:40,454 It'll only be there for a little while. 422 00:18:40,554 --> 00:18:42,990 They'll take it off, okay? She was like, it's okay, Mommy. 423 00:18:43,090 --> 00:18:45,959 It's our little secret. And she said, pinky promise. 424 00:18:46,059 --> 00:18:49,429 So she knows it shouldn't be on your ankle. 425 00:18:49,530 --> 00:18:52,199 She's so smart! 426 00:18:52,299 --> 00:18:53,767 [Brittish] I really feel bad because I feel like 427 00:18:53,867 --> 00:18:55,269 I disappointed Dash, 428 00:18:55,369 --> 00:18:57,204 although these things happened prior to her being born. 429 00:18:57,304 --> 00:18:58,939 I just feel like it broke my heart 430 00:18:59,039 --> 00:19:00,340 to have to explain to my daughter 431 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,843 why I had to have this monitor on my ankle. 432 00:19:02,943 --> 00:19:05,312 What I'm more so concerned about is my restrictions to travel 433 00:19:05,412 --> 00:19:07,848 and being able to see Dash. I'm just really worried. 434 00:19:07,948 --> 00:19:10,184 This is light at the end of the tunnel because 435 00:19:10,284 --> 00:19:12,319 you got this on and you sitting here, talking to me. 436 00:19:12,419 --> 00:19:15,455 -I mean, what else I'mma do? -Cry, break down. 437 00:19:15,556 --> 00:19:18,325 I can't be claiming all this gangster [bleep] 438 00:19:18,425 --> 00:19:20,561 -and wanna cry. -[Jackie] There it is. 439 00:19:20,661 --> 00:19:22,496 -Are you the thug or the group? -I gotta get myself together. 440 00:19:22,596 --> 00:19:25,632 -You are more of a thug than me! -No, no. 441 00:19:25,732 --> 00:19:27,067 [Brittish] Are you crazy? 442 00:19:27,167 --> 00:19:30,904 -You turn over tables, growl. -Listen, cheers to... 443 00:19:31,004 --> 00:19:32,940 you going ahead and handling that like a G. 444 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:34,875 Okay. Thanks, OG. 445 00:19:34,975 --> 00:19:36,710 [laughs] 446 00:19:36,810 --> 00:19:39,179 Don't say OG! Mm-mm! 447 00:19:39,279 --> 00:19:41,381 Coming up onBasketball Wives... 448 00:19:41,481 --> 00:19:43,317 When you and Duffey was talking-- 449 00:19:43,417 --> 00:19:45,786 -Oh, lord. -What the [bleep] was that? 450 00:19:45,886 --> 00:19:47,354 I don't want to attack her. 451 00:19:47,454 --> 00:19:50,023 But after a while, when it comes to me? 452 00:19:50,123 --> 00:19:51,992 I ain't gonna give a [bleep] no more. 453 00:19:59,032 --> 00:20:09,076 [music] 454 00:20:09,176 --> 00:20:10,244 [doorbell rings] 455 00:20:10,344 --> 00:20:11,678 [Brandi] Come in! 456 00:20:11,778 --> 00:20:14,581 -Brandi! -[Brandi] Jackie! 457 00:20:14,681 --> 00:20:16,617 -Girl... -Morning! 458 00:20:16,717 --> 00:20:18,852 Good morning, mama! 459 00:20:18,952 --> 00:20:20,821 Oh my god, I finally get to come into your home. 460 00:20:20,921 --> 00:20:24,258 -Welcome to mi casa . -Look at this spread, girl! 461 00:20:24,358 --> 00:20:25,993 Okay, I want you to taste something. 462 00:20:26,093 --> 00:20:27,828 This is a concoction. 463 00:20:27,928 --> 00:20:31,064 I don't want this to be too strong. 464 00:20:33,734 --> 00:20:35,235 -Ooh! -Is it good? 465 00:20:35,335 --> 00:20:37,070 -It's good! -Is it really? 466 00:20:37,171 --> 00:20:39,206 It's sexy. It's good. 467 00:20:39,306 --> 00:20:40,741 You gotta put this in your cookbook. 468 00:20:40,841 --> 00:20:42,509 -[Brandi] Did you like it? -No, love it! 469 00:20:42,609 --> 00:20:44,745 I have been doing a lot of work with this cookbook. 470 00:20:44,845 --> 00:20:46,813 And now I'm, like, in the drinks section, 471 00:20:46,914 --> 00:20:50,551 so it's really fun to have Jackie over 472 00:20:50,651 --> 00:20:53,487 and be, like, the test taster, 'cause she love to drink! 473 00:20:55,622 --> 00:20:57,291 -Cheers, ladies! -[Others] Cheers! 474 00:20:57,391 --> 00:20:58,725 Thank you for coming by! 475 00:20:58,825 --> 00:21:01,361 Thank you for having us. How's it going? 476 00:21:01,461 --> 00:21:03,931 [Jennifer] It's good! So, how are you? 477 00:21:04,031 --> 00:21:07,201 [Brooke] I actually filed for divorce this week. 478 00:21:07,301 --> 00:21:08,635 Right. 479 00:21:08,735 --> 00:21:10,737 -Never a dull moment. -Exactly. 480 00:21:10,838 --> 00:21:12,506 Have you heard from Stephen? 481 00:21:12,606 --> 00:21:14,975 Literally he's on my phone right now, like, 482 00:21:15,075 --> 00:21:18,879 "I'm hurting, but I love you, and I'm gonna win you back." 483 00:21:18,979 --> 00:21:21,548 -What's your response? -I didn't respond yet. 484 00:21:21,648 --> 00:21:23,450 You don't look like you goin' through [bleep]. 485 00:21:23,550 --> 00:21:24,852 But you know what it is? It's because 486 00:21:24,952 --> 00:21:29,556 I think I'm so honest with him about my feelings, 487 00:21:29,656 --> 00:21:31,024 I'm putting myself first. 488 00:21:31,124 --> 00:21:34,728 I think honest communication is so key. 489 00:21:34,828 --> 00:21:38,899 You know what you just made me think about, both y'all? 490 00:21:38,999 --> 00:21:44,171 Me and Brandi's conversation, and my delivery. 491 00:21:44,271 --> 00:21:46,673 Y'all was saying some [bleep]. I was like, ooh! 492 00:21:46,773 --> 00:21:48,208 Yeah, you guys kind of took some digs. 493 00:21:48,308 --> 00:21:51,278 One thing is can't nobody argue like some sisters. 494 00:21:52,913 --> 00:21:54,648 [Jackie] When you and Duffey was talking... 495 00:21:54,748 --> 00:21:57,117 -Oh, lord. -What the [bleep] was that? 496 00:21:57,217 --> 00:21:59,353 The problem that I can have sometimes with her 497 00:21:59,453 --> 00:22:02,489 is, like, I'll say something, and she gets so defensive, 498 00:22:02,589 --> 00:22:04,157 you know what I mean? 499 00:22:04,258 --> 00:22:06,960 You have to listen to what someone is fully saying 500 00:22:07,060 --> 00:22:09,997 instead of giving a reaction. 501 00:22:10,097 --> 00:22:11,865 What you and Brandi have going on, 502 00:22:11,965 --> 00:22:16,003 it requires open, honest conversation. 503 00:22:16,103 --> 00:22:17,971 You guys both have to be vulnerable. 504 00:22:18,071 --> 00:22:21,108 You have to absolutely speak your truth. 505 00:22:21,208 --> 00:22:23,744 I know that Jen and Brooke want me to be vulnerable with Brandi, 506 00:22:23,844 --> 00:22:26,680 but it's hard to do that when she's still upset. 507 00:22:26,780 --> 00:22:29,116 I feel like we have a communication block. 508 00:22:29,216 --> 00:22:31,451 Since me and Iman are going through therapy, 509 00:22:31,552 --> 00:22:33,654 it may help with me and Brandi as well. 510 00:22:33,754 --> 00:22:35,756 Would you just be willing to apologize about it? 511 00:22:35,856 --> 00:22:38,125 If she's willing to apologize for what she said. 512 00:22:38,225 --> 00:22:39,193 [Jennifer] Oh, [bleep]. 513 00:22:39,293 --> 00:22:40,794 I know you guys can come back from it. 514 00:22:40,894 --> 00:22:43,864 I just don't know the steps that you need to take. 515 00:22:43,964 --> 00:22:45,532 I know the step. When I see her, 516 00:22:45,632 --> 00:22:48,035 I'm gonna put her in a headlock. 517 00:22:48,135 --> 00:22:50,404 And she gonna hear what I gotta say. 518 00:22:50,504 --> 00:22:53,240 Did you feel offended when she said you treat Jason poorly? 519 00:22:53,340 --> 00:22:56,310 That bothered me. I don't want to attack her, 520 00:22:56,410 --> 00:22:57,978 but I don't play with my husband. 521 00:22:58,078 --> 00:22:59,913 I don't play with my kid, okay? 522 00:23:00,013 --> 00:23:03,016 We can play all day, but keep them out of it. 523 00:23:03,116 --> 00:23:04,685 Just wanna make sure that y'all 524 00:23:04,785 --> 00:23:06,353 always keep it real with each other, Brandi, 525 00:23:06,453 --> 00:23:07,921 because if you don't, 526 00:23:08,021 --> 00:23:11,291 I see you and Duffey's friendship one day suffering. 527 00:23:11,391 --> 00:23:15,896 With the pressure of my business and my family being in Texas, 528 00:23:15,996 --> 00:23:17,998 and then with this group and arguing, 529 00:23:18,098 --> 00:23:21,301 that's, like, a recipe for disaster for me. 530 00:23:21,401 --> 00:23:26,840 I been so overwhelmed with all of this, balancing my family, 531 00:23:26,940 --> 00:23:30,777 and this whole three days LA, four days LA, three days home, 532 00:23:30,878 --> 00:23:32,980 four days home, is not working for me. 533 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,382 And I don't wanna force Jason. 534 00:23:35,482 --> 00:23:40,220 I want him to see and want to be here, because it's like 535 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,956 I really want to do something for myself. 536 00:23:43,056 --> 00:23:45,192 And now, you know, he wants to go into coaching. 537 00:23:45,292 --> 00:23:47,427 It reminds me so much of what I just went through, 538 00:23:47,528 --> 00:23:48,795 and I shared with the ladies too. 539 00:23:48,896 --> 00:23:50,497 And I know how you feel. It's like, okay, 540 00:23:50,597 --> 00:23:52,065 now I been there, Jason. Now it's my turn. 541 00:23:52,165 --> 00:23:53,700 I'm ready to do Brandi for a minute. 542 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,469 Come support me. You know what I mean? 543 00:23:55,569 --> 00:23:56,703 [Brandi] And that was the plan. 544 00:23:56,803 --> 00:23:58,405 It's give and take. You're gonna be okay. 545 00:23:58,505 --> 00:23:59,740 I was nervous too. 546 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:01,909 But then I found a way that I could do both. 547 00:24:02,009 --> 00:24:04,111 We could have our place here, we could have our place there, 548 00:24:04,211 --> 00:24:05,846 and we just go back and forth. 549 00:24:05,946 --> 00:24:08,949 I really, truly value Jackie's opinion. 550 00:24:09,049 --> 00:24:12,753 She has literally walked in my shoes before, 551 00:24:12,853 --> 00:24:14,521 you know, with Doug being a coach. 552 00:24:14,621 --> 00:24:16,990 Jason's transitioning and trying to be a coach. 553 00:24:17,090 --> 00:24:18,525 Jackie, she's an entrepreneur. 554 00:24:18,625 --> 00:24:21,595 I feel like if Jackie and Dough can find a compromise, 555 00:24:21,695 --> 00:24:23,730 Jason and I can do it as well. 556 00:24:23,830 --> 00:24:25,432 It's your time, Brandi, I see it. 557 00:24:25,532 --> 00:24:27,301 I feel it, it's here. It's, like, right here. 558 00:24:27,401 --> 00:24:29,203 Right there on your shoulder, that's right. 559 00:24:29,303 --> 00:24:36,076 [music] 560 00:24:36,176 --> 00:24:38,111 Iman! 561 00:24:38,212 --> 00:24:40,781 -Hey. -Hey! 562 00:24:40,881 --> 00:24:43,483 -Are you excited? -Yeah. 563 00:24:43,584 --> 00:24:44,918 I'm excited! 564 00:24:45,018 --> 00:24:47,921 I feel like this is really gonna be good for us. 565 00:24:48,021 --> 00:24:50,123 Iman and I are finally starting couple's therapy. 566 00:24:50,224 --> 00:24:52,259 I feel like we can talk about anything, 567 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,561 but sometimes we're not on the same page, 568 00:24:54,661 --> 00:24:56,163 and it causes fights. 569 00:24:56,263 --> 00:24:58,799 And I feel like that's what's going on with me and Brandi. 570 00:24:58,899 --> 00:25:00,367 [doorbell rings] 571 00:25:00,467 --> 00:25:02,135 -[Iman] Hey, how ya doin'? -[Dr. Keisha] Good, how are you? 572 00:25:02,236 --> 00:25:04,137 [Iman] Good, Iman. Nice to meet you. 573 00:25:04,238 --> 00:25:05,439 Come on in. 574 00:25:05,539 --> 00:25:06,607 -[Duffey] Hi! -Hi! 575 00:25:06,707 --> 00:25:08,008 -I'm Dr. Keisha. -Nice to meet you. 576 00:25:08,108 --> 00:25:11,011 -We heard about you. -Good things, I hope. 577 00:25:11,111 --> 00:25:12,646 -Yeah, of course. -[Dr. Keisha] All right. 578 00:25:12,746 --> 00:25:14,448 I told him I'm very excited to see you. 579 00:25:14,548 --> 00:25:18,118 All right. That's good stuff. 580 00:25:19,486 --> 00:25:22,723 -So how are y'all doing today? -We are doing good. 581 00:25:22,823 --> 00:25:24,858 So what do you know about therapy? 582 00:25:24,958 --> 00:25:26,159 Nothing much. 583 00:25:26,260 --> 00:25:28,095 In my culture, there's no such thing. 584 00:25:28,195 --> 00:25:29,997 Well, I appreciate you attending, though. 585 00:25:30,097 --> 00:25:35,636 For me, I don't wanna be married and there's issues. 586 00:25:35,736 --> 00:25:37,905 What do you feel are the issues? 587 00:25:38,005 --> 00:25:40,407 Communication when we're upset. 588 00:25:40,507 --> 00:25:41,742 Anything else? 589 00:25:41,842 --> 00:25:44,344 I do feel like, you know, sometimes you a little short, 590 00:25:44,444 --> 00:25:46,880 and it could be because you stressed-- 591 00:25:46,980 --> 00:25:48,849 Your issue is that I can be short sometimes-- 592 00:25:48,949 --> 00:25:50,150 Impatient. 593 00:25:50,250 --> 00:25:52,519 [Duffey] I talk about what my issues are. 594 00:25:52,619 --> 00:25:53,954 I didn't say you talk about issues. 595 00:25:54,054 --> 00:25:57,224 You just focus on, you know, your feelings. 596 00:25:57,324 --> 00:25:59,326 -Versus yours? -Yeah, in general, yeah. 597 00:25:59,426 --> 00:26:02,196 I think that I could use a little bit of empathy, 598 00:26:02,296 --> 00:26:07,401 because when I'm stressed, he... 599 00:26:07,501 --> 00:26:10,237 continues to poke until the bear wakes up. 600 00:26:10,337 --> 00:26:12,239 And then he's like, whoa, I love you! 601 00:26:12,339 --> 00:26:13,207 What's wrong? 602 00:26:13,307 --> 00:26:15,609 So you're smiling, Iman. Why? 603 00:26:15,709 --> 00:26:17,377 -Because-- -He likes it. 604 00:26:17,477 --> 00:26:19,847 Because, again, you know, like, this is the way we communicate, 605 00:26:19,947 --> 00:26:22,182 and yeah, again, like, it's-- 606 00:26:23,417 --> 00:26:24,418 No. 607 00:26:24,518 --> 00:26:25,953 So, one of the things that I'm noticing, 608 00:26:26,053 --> 00:26:27,955 -she was interrupting you. -Right. 609 00:26:28,055 --> 00:26:30,257 -Is that okay for you? -No, it's not. 610 00:26:30,357 --> 00:26:31,825 That's one of the things that actually upsets me. 611 00:26:31,925 --> 00:26:33,260 We have to fix that, you know? 612 00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:36,864 So what is it that makes you want to do that? 613 00:26:36,964 --> 00:26:41,902 -He's longwinded. -So, I have a recommendation. 614 00:26:42,002 --> 00:26:45,239 -You can, "Can I say something?" -Okay, I like that. 615 00:26:45,339 --> 00:26:48,308 Or, "You are longwinded. Gotta be mindful." 616 00:26:48,408 --> 00:26:50,811 There's such a thing called listen to understand 617 00:26:50,911 --> 00:26:52,212 and listen to defend. 618 00:26:52,312 --> 00:26:54,481 So we want to listen to understand. 619 00:26:54,581 --> 00:26:56,817 I definitely don't do that enough at all. 620 00:26:56,917 --> 00:26:59,152 [laughs] Now that you say that. 621 00:26:59,253 --> 00:27:02,022 I've never thought that I've had communication issues, 622 00:27:02,122 --> 00:27:03,423 but I definitely realize that 623 00:27:03,524 --> 00:27:05,626 I'm not the perfect communicator. 624 00:27:05,726 --> 00:27:09,229 And I'm still upset with Brandi, but I definitely see now 625 00:27:09,329 --> 00:27:11,532 that there was some truth to what she was saying. 626 00:27:11,632 --> 00:27:14,168 And I think the tools that Dr. Keisha is giving me 627 00:27:14,268 --> 00:27:15,702 will help me communicate better with 628 00:27:15,802 --> 00:27:17,938 Brandi and Iman in the future. 629 00:27:18,038 --> 00:27:19,339 This is really good. 630 00:27:19,439 --> 00:27:21,208 Like, you guys were able to sit here and talk through 631 00:27:21,308 --> 00:27:22,409 some of the issues, which is 632 00:27:22,509 --> 00:27:24,344 what I wanna continue working on. 633 00:27:24,444 --> 00:27:27,047 -Iman, how do you feel? -Honestly, I like that. 634 00:27:27,147 --> 00:27:29,183 I mean...yeah. 635 00:27:29,283 --> 00:27:31,251 I wanna make an effort for both of us. 636 00:27:31,351 --> 00:27:33,320 Yes. 637 00:27:33,420 --> 00:27:35,422 See? Now, that's what I'm talking about right there. 638 00:27:35,522 --> 00:27:36,723 [Iman] Yeah. 639 00:27:40,227 --> 00:27:43,130 [Jackie] Coming up on Basketball Wives... 640 00:27:43,230 --> 00:27:47,301 I need you to make a decision on what you're going to do. 641 00:27:47,401 --> 00:27:50,204 I don't wanna talk with my mouth full. 642 00:27:50,304 --> 00:27:51,271 [sighs] 643 00:27:58,445 --> 00:28:06,486 [music] 644 00:28:06,587 --> 00:28:09,189 Hey, guys. How are you doing? 645 00:28:09,289 --> 00:28:10,357 -Good. -Good, how are you? 646 00:28:10,457 --> 00:28:11,491 Good. How was school? 647 00:28:11,592 --> 00:28:12,492 -Good. -It was cool. 648 00:28:12,593 --> 00:28:13,994 -It was cool? -Yeah. 649 00:28:14,094 --> 00:28:16,630 You look tired. Do you want something to eat? 650 00:28:16,730 --> 00:28:17,898 -I was making sandwiches. -I don't know, 651 00:28:17,998 --> 00:28:19,099 I have to go to practice right now. 652 00:28:19,199 --> 00:28:20,501 You have to go to practice right now? 653 00:28:20,601 --> 00:28:22,503 What time is it? Oh my god. 654 00:28:22,603 --> 00:28:24,438 Stop it, you! All right, okay. 655 00:28:24,538 --> 00:28:26,173 So you don't want a sandwich before you go? 656 00:28:26,273 --> 00:28:27,508 No, thank you. When I get back. 657 00:28:27,608 --> 00:28:28,742 Okay, all right. Go ahead, baby. 658 00:28:28,842 --> 00:28:30,143 -Love you. -Love you. 659 00:28:30,244 --> 00:28:31,712 Have a good practice. Call me when you're done 660 00:28:31,812 --> 00:28:33,447 so I can come get you. Come sit, Amani, come sit. 661 00:28:33,547 --> 00:28:35,115 Put your backpack down. 662 00:28:35,215 --> 00:28:37,918 Balancing three children and my relationship with Rocc is a lot. 663 00:28:38,018 --> 00:28:40,988 You know, babies require all of your attention. 664 00:28:41,088 --> 00:28:42,856 And I wanna make sure that everyone around me 665 00:28:42,956 --> 00:28:44,525 is getting the right attention 666 00:28:44,625 --> 00:28:46,894 and getting everything that they want. 667 00:28:46,994 --> 00:28:49,763 -Where's the baby? -The baby's with Rocc. 668 00:28:49,863 --> 00:28:52,499 -Oh. -Yeah, he's watching him 669 00:28:52,599 --> 00:28:54,635 so I can make sure you guys are good. 670 00:28:54,735 --> 00:28:56,770 -You like being a big sister? -Yeah. 671 00:28:56,870 --> 00:28:59,740 He reminds me of you when you were little. 672 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,843 -Just such sweet, sweet babies. -[giggles] 673 00:29:02,943 --> 00:29:05,078 So now that I had baby Prince, 674 00:29:05,179 --> 00:29:08,749 I'm thinking about going back to work. 675 00:29:08,849 --> 00:29:10,784 And I wanted to know what you thought about that. 676 00:29:10,884 --> 00:29:13,120 I am gonna miss you. When I was on spring break, 677 00:29:13,220 --> 00:29:14,855 -I was crying for you. -[Angel] Yeah? 678 00:29:14,955 --> 00:29:17,891 -What makes you cry? -When, like, the things 679 00:29:17,991 --> 00:29:20,961 that you do with me, like you hug me, 680 00:29:21,061 --> 00:29:24,231 that's what makes me remember it, because you're not there. 681 00:29:24,331 --> 00:29:25,499 [Angel] You miss my hugs? 682 00:29:25,599 --> 00:29:28,502 You miss my hugs? You can get all my hugs. 683 00:29:28,602 --> 00:29:29,970 You get all my hugs! 684 00:29:30,070 --> 00:29:31,305 I've been working from home, but you know, 685 00:29:31,405 --> 00:29:32,973 I have a very demanding career. 686 00:29:33,073 --> 00:29:35,576 And a lot of my clients are reaching back out. 687 00:29:35,676 --> 00:29:39,046 I feel like I have to get with Mary J. Blige, 688 00:29:39,146 --> 00:29:40,848 get with these tours, work with Lil' Kim. 689 00:29:40,948 --> 00:29:42,816 Like, I don't want my clients going elsewhere. 690 00:29:42,916 --> 00:29:45,252 But as a working mom, I feel bad. 691 00:29:45,352 --> 00:29:46,787 I feel guilty. 692 00:29:46,887 --> 00:29:50,324 I feel like work does take away time from the children. 693 00:29:50,424 --> 00:29:53,393 [sighs] I'm gonna figure it out. You okay with that? 694 00:29:53,493 --> 00:29:54,428 -Yeah. -Okay. 695 00:29:54,528 --> 00:29:55,662 -You promise? -Yeah. 696 00:29:55,762 --> 00:29:57,164 Okay, all right. 697 00:29:57,264 --> 00:30:00,834 We're still gonna have daughter and mommy time, okay? 698 00:30:00,934 --> 00:30:01,869 Okay. 699 00:30:02,836 --> 00:30:05,005 ♪ W-w-work, work W-w-w-work, work ♪ 700 00:30:05,105 --> 00:30:08,008 ♪ W-w-work, work W-w-w-work, work ♪ 701 00:30:08,108 --> 00:30:10,043 ♪ W-w-work, work W-w-w-work, work ♪ 702 00:30:10,143 --> 00:30:11,345 Let me set you up! 703 00:30:11,445 --> 00:30:12,646 And you probably guessed I'm Italian. 704 00:30:12,746 --> 00:30:14,414 So today, the menu is fresh pasta 705 00:30:14,515 --> 00:30:15,616 the way my mom used to make it. 706 00:30:15,716 --> 00:30:16,984 [Brandi] Oh! 707 00:30:17,084 --> 00:30:18,552 [Chef] We're gonna make a fountain in front of us. 708 00:30:18,652 --> 00:30:20,954 And we make a hole big enough 709 00:30:21,054 --> 00:30:23,624 for the two eggs to be cracked in so they don't run away. 710 00:30:23,724 --> 00:30:25,092 Bigger! There we go. 711 00:30:25,192 --> 00:30:29,129 -I did that and it still ran. -[laughs] 712 00:30:29,229 --> 00:30:30,731 After talking to Jackie, 713 00:30:30,831 --> 00:30:33,567 I need to take a new approach with Jason. 714 00:30:33,667 --> 00:30:34,902 He's not in town long, 715 00:30:35,002 --> 00:30:37,804 so I don't wanna waste precious times or moments 716 00:30:37,905 --> 00:30:40,574 that I have with him arguing. 717 00:30:40,674 --> 00:30:41,909 We just scramble the eggs. 718 00:30:42,009 --> 00:30:44,545 Keep incorporating the flour a little at a time. 719 00:30:44,645 --> 00:30:46,647 So once you pretty much-- the liquid is gone, 720 00:30:46,747 --> 00:30:49,082 get it together and start working our dough. 721 00:30:49,183 --> 00:30:51,151 So we're gonna start doing a technique 722 00:30:51,251 --> 00:30:52,953 which is called the punch and fold. 723 00:30:53,053 --> 00:30:55,722 You take your palm, and you punch down, and then you fold. 724 00:30:55,822 --> 00:30:58,659 -This is working my shoulders. -[laughs] 725 00:30:58,759 --> 00:31:00,761 [Chef] Sauté a little bit of garlic whole, 726 00:31:00,861 --> 00:31:02,763 and we're just gonna let the garlic flavor the oil. 727 00:31:02,863 --> 00:31:05,065 It's gonna be a simple tomato sauce. 728 00:31:05,165 --> 00:31:07,501 [Brandi] Cooking with your spouse is so much fun. 729 00:31:07,601 --> 00:31:10,103 You know, a little messy, flirty. 730 00:31:10,204 --> 00:31:12,606 We both have our hands in this tomato sauce, 731 00:31:12,706 --> 00:31:14,041 and we, you know-- 732 00:31:14,141 --> 00:31:17,644 I feel like we're having a little Ghost moment. 733 00:31:17,744 --> 00:31:20,013 [Chef] [laughs] There we go. 734 00:31:20,113 --> 00:31:24,451 [laughter] 735 00:31:24,551 --> 00:31:25,986 It means a lot to me that Jason 736 00:31:26,086 --> 00:31:27,821 is willing to step out of his comfort zone 737 00:31:27,921 --> 00:31:29,690 and do the things that I like to do. 738 00:31:29,790 --> 00:31:31,658 I brought you to this cooking class 739 00:31:31,758 --> 00:31:33,760 'cause I wanted you to see, like, 740 00:31:33,861 --> 00:31:35,762 how passionate I am in this. 741 00:31:39,399 --> 00:31:42,035 I just want you to understand that this is a hobby, 742 00:31:42,135 --> 00:31:44,705 but this is a hobby that I'm trying to make into a business. 743 00:31:44,805 --> 00:31:47,007 And this is something that is very important to me. 744 00:31:47,107 --> 00:31:50,844 And I feel like for Jason, I'm gonna give him the opportunity 745 00:31:50,944 --> 00:31:52,679 to finish fourth grade. 746 00:31:52,779 --> 00:31:56,550 And I need you to make a decision on 747 00:31:56,650 --> 00:31:58,318 what you're going to do. 748 00:32:04,291 --> 00:32:05,826 [sighs] 749 00:32:12,032 --> 00:32:15,335 I know that 'cause I always said to you it's your turn, 750 00:32:15,435 --> 00:32:16,737 and I'm respecting that. 751 00:32:16,837 --> 00:32:20,641 So once Jason gets out of school, 752 00:32:20,741 --> 00:32:22,543 I'mma stay on top of my contacts 753 00:32:22,643 --> 00:32:24,044 and couple trips every once in a while, 754 00:32:24,144 --> 00:32:26,613 where we can move-- we can move-- 755 00:32:26,713 --> 00:32:28,982 That--that-- Okay, first of all-- 756 00:32:29,082 --> 00:32:30,517 I'm gonna bring my Black ass out here. 757 00:32:30,617 --> 00:32:31,952 I ain't stupid. 758 00:32:32,052 --> 00:32:34,888 He plays so much. I don't know how to take it. 759 00:32:34,988 --> 00:32:39,126 But if he's serious, which I hope that he is, 760 00:32:39,226 --> 00:32:41,795 it makes me feel good, because it's showing the true testament 761 00:32:41,895 --> 00:32:44,131 of the love that he has for me 762 00:32:44,231 --> 00:32:46,066 and the love that he has for his family. 763 00:32:47,701 --> 00:32:50,137 All right, I will. Come on. 764 00:32:52,606 --> 00:32:54,374 Trust me! 765 00:32:55,409 --> 00:32:57,244 It's all about trust, see? 766 00:32:59,847 --> 00:33:02,783 [Jackie] Coming up on Basketball Wives... 767 00:33:02,883 --> 00:33:05,619 We wouldn't even be here had you listened. 768 00:33:05,719 --> 00:33:07,054 You kept interrupting. 769 00:33:07,154 --> 00:33:08,922 So it's only so much a mother[bleep] can take. 770 00:33:16,697 --> 00:33:24,705 [music] 771 00:33:24,805 --> 00:33:27,274 -Katie, you are setting up. -Hey, girl. 772 00:33:27,374 --> 00:33:30,010 -[Brooke] You must be excited. -I'm so excited. 773 00:33:30,110 --> 00:33:33,146 [Brooke] I am so fired up about getting everyone together 774 00:33:33,247 --> 00:33:34,681 for my workout. 775 00:33:34,781 --> 00:33:38,752 This has really helped me so much, mind, body, and soul. 776 00:33:38,852 --> 00:33:40,988 And I have definitely been on that road 777 00:33:41,088 --> 00:33:43,590 since finding out that my husband is a cheater. 778 00:33:43,690 --> 00:33:45,893 I feel like my biggest goal in this group 779 00:33:45,993 --> 00:33:49,429 is to help some of these women get stress relief, 780 00:33:49,530 --> 00:33:51,698 because it seems like when we all get together, 781 00:33:51,798 --> 00:33:54,001 there's always an explosion. 782 00:33:54,101 --> 00:33:56,303 -This is gonna be great. -Hellur! 783 00:33:56,403 --> 00:33:57,604 [Brooke] Hellur! 784 00:33:57,704 --> 00:33:59,206 Come over here eating candy and Laffy Taffy 785 00:33:59,306 --> 00:34:00,741 before I start this. 786 00:34:00,841 --> 00:34:05,212 -Brandi, this is Katie. -Nice to meet you. 787 00:34:05,312 --> 00:34:06,914 She is gonna be helping us today. 788 00:34:07,014 --> 00:34:08,549 She is our trainer. 789 00:34:08,649 --> 00:34:12,986 -Brookie! -Hey! 790 00:34:13,086 --> 00:34:15,222 I brought some snacks and stuff just so I can have energy. 791 00:34:15,322 --> 00:34:16,523 First of all, what are you doing? 792 00:34:16,623 --> 00:34:17,991 [Brandi] Jackie, you brought snacks? 793 00:34:18,091 --> 00:34:20,327 Well, yeah, I mean, if I run out of energy and stuff. 794 00:34:20,427 --> 00:34:22,563 This is not the energy-- 795 00:34:22,663 --> 00:34:25,632 I cannot believe that Brooke threw my chips away. 796 00:34:25,732 --> 00:34:28,068 When my blood sugar drops during a workout, 797 00:34:28,168 --> 00:34:30,737 I hope Brooke's ready to jump in that trash can. 798 00:34:30,838 --> 00:34:32,372 Y'all, do I have a camel toe? 799 00:34:32,472 --> 00:34:34,141 -Not really. -I think you're good. 800 00:34:35,876 --> 00:34:37,411 [Brooke] Duffey! 801 00:34:37,511 --> 00:34:40,547 Y'all, this place is so freaking cute! 802 00:34:40,647 --> 00:34:42,115 I'm looking forward to working out. 803 00:34:42,216 --> 00:34:45,452 But I don't know what vibe I'm gonna get from Brandi today. 804 00:34:45,552 --> 00:34:47,120 I'm a little bit nervous because 805 00:34:47,221 --> 00:34:48,889 we haven't got to talk things out, 806 00:34:48,989 --> 00:34:52,793 and I don't know which way this day could go. 807 00:34:52,893 --> 00:34:56,563 -Where is Baby B? -Is she coming? 808 00:34:56,663 --> 00:34:58,999 -I hope so. -So let's start stretching. 809 00:34:59,099 --> 00:35:03,637 And then, when she gets here, she'll just fall in. 810 00:35:03,737 --> 00:35:07,007 So first one we wanna do is just bend the knees slightly. 811 00:35:07,107 --> 00:35:09,510 Walk right out, okay? 812 00:35:09,610 --> 00:35:11,345 Oh my god, my calves. 813 00:35:11,445 --> 00:35:13,280 Walk in. 814 00:35:13,380 --> 00:35:16,116 Let's do five of those. 815 00:35:16,216 --> 00:35:17,985 -That's a workout! -Yeah! 816 00:35:18,085 --> 00:35:20,487 [bleep]! 817 00:35:20,587 --> 00:35:22,356 Oh my god, you guys! 818 00:35:22,456 --> 00:35:24,358 [Group] Baby B! 819 00:35:24,458 --> 00:35:28,095 [exclaiming] 820 00:35:28,195 --> 00:35:29,963 -Hey! -Hey, Baby! 821 00:35:30,063 --> 00:35:31,832 Oh my god! 822 00:35:31,932 --> 00:35:36,003 [exclaiming] 823 00:35:36,103 --> 00:35:38,138 I've never seen an ankle monitor in person. 824 00:35:38,238 --> 00:35:41,842 And to see it on a friend, it's, like, really sad. 825 00:35:41,942 --> 00:35:43,977 You got on your ankle weights? 826 00:35:44,077 --> 00:35:45,279 [laughter] 827 00:35:45,379 --> 00:35:46,747 I'm from South Central Los Angeles. 828 00:35:46,847 --> 00:35:49,349 I've seen lots of ankle monitors. 829 00:35:49,449 --> 00:35:51,618 I don't feel like it's the biggest deal. 830 00:35:51,718 --> 00:35:53,320 Brittish, is your lawyer making any progress 831 00:35:53,420 --> 00:35:54,688 with getting that [bleep] off? 832 00:35:54,788 --> 00:35:56,890 He basically told me that 833 00:35:56,990 --> 00:35:58,725 I won't have it on for a long time. 834 00:35:58,825 --> 00:36:02,162 But I have to show that I understand my consequences. 835 00:36:02,262 --> 00:36:04,097 It's a punishment, because I should've got permission-- 836 00:36:04,198 --> 00:36:06,700 -So they're punishing you? -Basically. 837 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,035 That's exactly what they're doing. 838 00:36:08,135 --> 00:36:10,704 Let's work off some of this frustration, okay? 839 00:36:10,804 --> 00:36:13,373 First circuit, we are gonna be doing reverse lunges. 840 00:36:13,473 --> 00:36:15,375 Next up, we got goblet squats. 841 00:36:15,475 --> 00:36:17,277 And then we're moving on to some core. 842 00:36:17,377 --> 00:36:19,046 All right, we ready? Go, let's go. 843 00:36:19,146 --> 00:36:21,114 ♪ Work witcha, work, work witcha ♪ 844 00:36:21,915 --> 00:36:23,383 [Katie] Larger step-out. 845 00:36:23,483 --> 00:36:24,985 Yep, perfect. 846 00:36:25,085 --> 00:36:26,420 ♪ Work, work, work, work, work, work witcha ♪ 847 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,689 [exclaiming] 848 00:36:28,789 --> 00:36:31,091 [Katie] Come on, push! Push, push! 849 00:36:31,692 --> 00:36:33,060 Come on, Duffey! 850 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,095 I'm putting my all into this workout, 851 00:36:35,195 --> 00:36:37,531 because even though I worked on some things with Dr. Keisha 852 00:36:37,631 --> 00:36:38,932 to help me to communicate, 853 00:36:39,032 --> 00:36:41,535 I still feel angry and a little upset 854 00:36:41,635 --> 00:36:43,036 when I'm looking at Brandi. 855 00:36:43,136 --> 00:36:45,439 I just need to burn this all off right now. 856 00:36:45,539 --> 00:36:47,407 ♪ Bring it in, poke it out ♪ 857 00:36:47,508 --> 00:36:48,842 [Katie] Throw these on. 858 00:36:49,743 --> 00:36:52,412 -Let's go, girl. -Get it, girl! 859 00:36:52,513 --> 00:36:54,681 ♪ Brand new -- with a brand new ♪ 860 00:36:56,850 --> 00:36:57,885 Surgery! 861 00:36:57,985 --> 00:36:58,919 [laughter] 862 00:36:59,019 --> 00:37:01,889 Jackie...that's a reverse cowgirl. 863 00:37:01,989 --> 00:37:05,959 [cheering and exclaiming] 864 00:37:08,328 --> 00:37:10,664 That was a great workout. Did you guys release 865 00:37:10,764 --> 00:37:13,534 some of your negative frustration and energy? 866 00:37:13,634 --> 00:37:14,902 Yes, sir, Coach Brooke, sir! 867 00:37:15,002 --> 00:37:16,136 [laughter] 868 00:37:16,236 --> 00:37:18,372 Well, I'm glad, 'cause that was the point. 869 00:37:18,472 --> 00:37:19,706 I feel, like, the endorphins. 870 00:37:19,806 --> 00:37:22,242 I'm, like, in a better mood after working out. 871 00:37:22,342 --> 00:37:25,979 Did you and your sister is having a little... 872 00:37:26,079 --> 00:37:28,582 You haven't talked to her yet? 873 00:37:28,682 --> 00:37:31,151 I'm avoiding it. 874 00:37:31,251 --> 00:37:33,487 I know that I have to talk to Brandi eventually. 875 00:37:33,587 --> 00:37:35,756 But I've known Brandi for 19 years, 876 00:37:35,856 --> 00:37:38,725 and when she's upset with someone, she's upset. 877 00:37:38,825 --> 00:37:40,627 And I'm a little bit nervous because 878 00:37:40,727 --> 00:37:42,829 I really don't want to fight with her. 879 00:37:42,930 --> 00:37:47,401 So, Duffey and Brooke came over to my house after the winery. 880 00:37:47,501 --> 00:37:50,270 -You guys need to have a talk. -Talk about what, though? 881 00:37:50,370 --> 00:37:51,972 Well, you had brought up something about her 882 00:37:52,072 --> 00:37:54,975 going to, uh, communication counseling? 883 00:37:55,075 --> 00:37:56,443 Well, she told everybody that 884 00:37:56,543 --> 00:37:58,078 she was going to communication therapy. 885 00:37:58,178 --> 00:38:01,481 It was the way you said it, Brandi. 886 00:38:01,582 --> 00:38:02,749 Actually, let's have this conversation 887 00:38:02,850 --> 00:38:04,384 after you and Iman, because they'll teach you 888 00:38:04,484 --> 00:38:05,819 how to stop being defensive. 889 00:38:05,919 --> 00:38:07,387 She's not listening. 890 00:38:07,487 --> 00:38:09,523 It's also gonna help you with your other relationships 891 00:38:09,623 --> 00:38:10,958 with other people that you have, 892 00:38:11,058 --> 00:38:13,460 and it's gonna help you to understand, 893 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:14,962 and it's gonna help you to listen. 894 00:38:15,062 --> 00:38:18,498 And that is a problem, obviously, that she has. 895 00:38:18,599 --> 00:38:20,767 It's a little hard, because I care about my friendships. 896 00:38:20,868 --> 00:38:22,536 It's important for me in my life. 897 00:38:22,636 --> 00:38:25,873 I think with you and Brandi, a conversation has to be had, 898 00:38:25,973 --> 00:38:27,474 and I think the sooner, the better. 899 00:38:27,574 --> 00:38:28,876 Yeah. 900 00:38:28,976 --> 00:38:32,312 I do not want to see a situation like this 901 00:38:32,412 --> 00:38:35,349 blow up into something that can be resolved 902 00:38:35,449 --> 00:38:36,617 actually right here, right now. 903 00:38:36,717 --> 00:38:38,819 It can, but I get-- Look, Jen. 904 00:38:38,919 --> 00:38:40,921 I have to have boundaries, and I have boundaries. 905 00:38:41,021 --> 00:38:43,123 And if you don't respect those boundaries, 906 00:38:43,223 --> 00:38:48,529 I am very good at and perfected at letting people go. 907 00:38:48,629 --> 00:38:49,930 -Hello, ladies! -Hey, ladies. 908 00:38:50,030 --> 00:38:53,233 -What y'all want? -Well, you know... 909 00:38:57,838 --> 00:38:59,840 ♪ Bring it in, poke it out ♪ 910 00:38:59,940 --> 00:39:01,975 ♪ Stick it in, walk it out ♪ 911 00:39:05,913 --> 00:39:08,549 [music] 912 00:39:08,649 --> 00:39:10,617 I have to have boundaries, and I have boundaries. 913 00:39:10,717 --> 00:39:12,986 And if you don't respect those boundaries, 914 00:39:13,086 --> 00:39:17,758 I am very good at and perfected at letting people go. 915 00:39:19,393 --> 00:39:22,362 I cannot believe that we are still talking about 916 00:39:22,462 --> 00:39:24,631 what happened at the winery. 917 00:39:24,731 --> 00:39:27,401 They simply chose some poor words. 918 00:39:27,501 --> 00:39:30,838 Nobody slept with your husband. Nobody stole any money. 919 00:39:30,938 --> 00:39:33,540 Can we just move on? 920 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,175 -Hello, ladies. -Hey, ladies! 921 00:39:35,275 --> 00:39:37,244 -Hi, ladies! -What y'all want? 922 00:39:37,344 --> 00:39:40,514 Well, you know... we want you and Duffey 923 00:39:40,614 --> 00:39:42,516 to have a conversation. 924 00:39:42,616 --> 00:39:44,751 I believe that you guys' issue right now 925 00:39:44,852 --> 00:39:47,454 is what happened at the winery when a comment was made 926 00:39:47,554 --> 00:39:48,989 between the two of you guys. 927 00:39:49,089 --> 00:39:51,491 -About the whole Iman thing-- -That wasn't a nice comment. 928 00:39:51,592 --> 00:39:52,726 But it's a lot of comments 929 00:39:52,826 --> 00:39:54,228 that you make that are not nice either. 930 00:39:54,328 --> 00:39:55,562 -Correct. -So, I wasn't throwing 931 00:39:55,662 --> 00:39:58,065 a dig at Iman. I was saying 932 00:39:58,165 --> 00:39:59,666 when you go to counseling, 933 00:39:59,766 --> 00:40:01,969 it's not gonna just help with you and Iman and relationships, 934 00:40:02,069 --> 00:40:05,305 but you'll learn how to listen to understand somebody. 935 00:40:05,405 --> 00:40:08,876 And I think we wouldn't even be here had you listened. 936 00:40:08,976 --> 00:40:10,244 You kept interrupting. 937 00:40:10,344 --> 00:40:14,014 So it's only so much a mother[bleep] can take. 938 00:40:14,114 --> 00:40:15,749 I'm trying really hard right now 939 00:40:15,849 --> 00:40:18,318 to do what Dr. Keisha has advised me to do 940 00:40:18,418 --> 00:40:21,388 and keep my mouth closed while Brandi is talking. 941 00:40:21,488 --> 00:40:23,490 But I feel like she's trying to beat me down 942 00:40:23,590 --> 00:40:24,925 in front of the group right now. 943 00:40:25,025 --> 00:40:27,227 Like, I don't know how much more of this I can take. 944 00:40:27,327 --> 00:40:30,531 When I said, do you belittle Jason in arguments, 945 00:40:30,631 --> 00:40:33,834 it was not a dig to Jason. It was a dig to you, 946 00:40:33,934 --> 00:40:35,302 because I felt like you were belittling me 947 00:40:35,402 --> 00:40:36,570 in that conversation. 948 00:40:36,670 --> 00:40:38,272 You said my head was full of air. 949 00:40:38,372 --> 00:40:40,240 You said, after you go to communication with Iman, 950 00:40:40,340 --> 00:40:42,743 then maybe--don't say my [bleep] name! 951 00:40:42,843 --> 00:40:45,279 -Don't say my [bleep] name! -You said it first! 952 00:40:45,379 --> 00:40:47,314 -Don't say nothing about-- -You said my man first! 953 00:40:47,414 --> 00:40:48,649 Don't play the victim and the villain. 954 00:40:48,749 --> 00:40:50,417 Don't play the victim and the villain. 955 00:40:50,517 --> 00:40:52,252 I'm not playing the victim! 956 00:40:59,126 --> 00:41:01,695 [Jackie] Next time on Basketball Wives... 957 00:41:01,795 --> 00:41:04,031 Did you hear that she just apologized? 958 00:41:04,131 --> 00:41:06,333 -Yeah! -And then you still went in. 959 00:41:06,433 --> 00:41:09,102 -I sure did. -But you can't do that! 960 00:41:09,203 --> 00:41:12,472 Some days, I'm happy. But some days, I feel sad. 961 00:41:12,573 --> 00:41:14,107 You're a little moody. 962 00:41:14,208 --> 00:41:18,312 It's LA Fashion Week. I got us tickets for the VIP. 963 00:41:18,412 --> 00:41:21,215 I've shown in LA Fashion Week three times. 964 00:41:21,315 --> 00:41:22,816 Jennifer walk down this runway, 965 00:41:22,916 --> 00:41:24,818 it's gonna be a mother[bleep] problem. 966 00:41:24,918 --> 00:41:28,055 [shouting] 967 00:41:28,155 --> 00:41:29,957 You're picking at every little thing! 968 00:41:30,057 --> 00:41:31,391 I'm not picking at every [bleep] little thing! 969 00:41:31,491 --> 00:41:33,126 If you want to continue to play a victim, 970 00:41:33,227 --> 00:41:34,962 act like I don't know what I'm talking about-- 971 00:41:35,062 --> 00:41:37,664 You're talking about this in front of the cameras? 972 00:41:37,764 --> 00:41:39,766 Shut the [bleep] cameras off so I can talk to this bitch 973 00:41:39,867 --> 00:41:41,502 however I want to talk to her! 974 00:41:47,307 --> 00:41:59,453 [music] 975 00:42:07,995 --> 00:42:09,963 [music] 976 00:42:10,864 --> 00:42:11,965 [whoosh] 977 00:42:13,534 --> 00:42:15,802 ♪ MTV ♪