1 00:00:01,102 --> 00:00:02,368 - FEMALE NARRATOR: Previously on Basketball Wives. 2 00:00:02,470 --> 00:00:04,870 - We need to get to a good place where we still can 3 00:00:04,972 --> 00:00:06,905 trust each other when it comes to Dash. 4 00:00:07,008 --> 00:00:09,208 - 'Cause our main priority is this little one right here. 5 00:00:09,310 --> 00:00:11,176 - I agree. - You know what I'm saying? 6 00:00:13,881 --> 00:00:15,814 - Me and French, we have all these shows coming up, 7 00:00:15,916 --> 00:00:17,449 so I just want to rehearse. 8 00:00:17,551 --> 00:00:19,151 - A couple of months ago you were like, "I'm done." 9 00:00:19,253 --> 00:00:20,652 End of the day you know, we got her, 10 00:00:20,755 --> 00:00:22,521 I want you to be home. 11 00:00:23,791 --> 00:00:26,425 - If I ever did say I was gonna quit, like, how would you feel? 12 00:00:26,527 --> 00:00:28,894 - Understand that if you leave, you can't come back. 13 00:00:28,996 --> 00:00:30,229 - I'ma think about it. 14 00:00:30,331 --> 00:00:31,964 - Do you want to get married now? 15 00:00:32,066 --> 00:00:33,966 Because there were some words going around 16 00:00:34,068 --> 00:00:35,834 that you're not happy, Angel. 17 00:00:35,936 --> 00:00:37,069 - What? 18 00:00:37,171 --> 00:00:38,337 - Did you talk to Duffey? 19 00:00:38,439 --> 00:00:39,772 She shared this information with me. 20 00:00:39,874 --> 00:00:41,206 - If Duffy wanna get aired out, 21 00:00:41,308 --> 00:00:43,042 she will get aired out, 22 00:00:43,144 --> 00:00:44,843 her relationship will be done today. 23 00:00:44,945 --> 00:00:47,946 - I did things out of care and concern for Angel and Rocc. 24 00:00:48,049 --> 00:00:49,648 - Why are you guys having a conversation 25 00:00:49,750 --> 00:00:51,984 about my man and my relationship? 26 00:00:52,086 --> 00:00:53,619 I'm not having these conversations 27 00:00:53,721 --> 00:00:55,187 about y'all men. 28 00:00:55,289 --> 00:00:56,789 - It's okay. 29 00:01:00,061 --> 00:01:06,165 - ♪ 30 00:01:20,681 --> 00:01:26,618 - ♪ 31 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,660 - Angel. 32 00:01:34,762 --> 00:01:38,097 - Hey, I'm back here. Oh my gosh. 33 00:01:38,199 --> 00:01:40,999 - Angel, this store is amazing. 34 00:01:41,102 --> 00:01:42,501 - You like it? - This is so cool. 35 00:01:42,603 --> 00:01:44,970 You have a whole factory in here. 36 00:01:45,072 --> 00:01:46,705 - I know, we make everything in house, 37 00:01:46,807 --> 00:01:48,640 like sample making, and everything else. 38 00:01:48,742 --> 00:01:51,043 I'm doing tour, you know, like Megan Thee Stallion. 39 00:01:51,145 --> 00:01:53,312 - You make a lot of stuff for her, I see. 40 00:01:53,414 --> 00:01:55,481 This is amazing. I love a woman that's on her shit 41 00:01:55,583 --> 00:01:57,382 when it comes to business. - Thanks, babe. 42 00:01:57,485 --> 00:01:59,151 - So, are you okay from yesterday? 43 00:01:59,253 --> 00:02:00,719 Like, did they stress you out too much? 44 00:02:00,821 --> 00:02:02,321 - Yeah, because I'm like, 45 00:02:02,423 --> 00:02:03,889 "Why is my relationship being discussed so much?" 46 00:02:03,991 --> 00:02:05,357 You know, it was just like, 47 00:02:05,459 --> 00:02:06,725 I don't do that to nobody else. 48 00:02:06,827 --> 00:02:08,594 - I am not surprised that Jackie has been meddling 49 00:02:08,696 --> 00:02:10,562 in Rocc and Angel's relationship, 50 00:02:10,664 --> 00:02:12,598 she's been meddling in Me and Lorenzo's for ten years, 51 00:02:12,700 --> 00:02:14,299 but I know how to laugh her off. 52 00:02:14,401 --> 00:02:15,868 Everybody else doesn't. 53 00:02:15,970 --> 00:02:18,437 - For me, the hardest part was for Rocc to hear that. 54 00:02:18,539 --> 00:02:20,139 You know what I mean? 55 00:02:20,241 --> 00:02:21,607 - And I told Jackie, 56 00:02:21,709 --> 00:02:22,975 "You could have told her that alone." 57 00:02:23,077 --> 00:02:24,476 - Yeah, and she's like, "Sorry," 58 00:02:24,578 --> 00:02:26,311 like, no, your sorry's don't mean shit. 59 00:02:26,413 --> 00:02:28,247 You know what I mean, when you're saying it like that. 60 00:02:28,349 --> 00:02:30,182 I don't want an apology, I want some respect. 61 00:02:30,284 --> 00:02:32,284 I need to take a break from the girls, 62 00:02:32,386 --> 00:02:34,386 because I have so much going on in my life, you know? 63 00:02:34,488 --> 00:02:36,722 I've got my kids, I've got my man to worry about, 64 00:02:36,824 --> 00:02:39,358 and we're getting ready for a new baby, 65 00:02:39,460 --> 00:02:41,827 so I need to really focus on everything that's important 66 00:02:41,929 --> 00:02:43,295 to me right now. 67 00:02:43,397 --> 00:02:44,930 - You know, Jackie when she start Jackie-ing, 68 00:02:45,032 --> 00:02:46,431 it be something different, 69 00:02:46,534 --> 00:02:48,600 but she's coming from a good place most of the time. 70 00:02:48,702 --> 00:02:50,769 - Well you guys got into it, too. 71 00:02:50,871 --> 00:02:52,871 From what I heard, she was telling you something about 72 00:02:52,973 --> 00:02:55,174 getting back with Lorenzo, and I'm like "Why?" 73 00:02:55,276 --> 00:02:57,509 - Jackie is so, wants me to be with Lorenzo. 74 00:02:57,611 --> 00:02:59,111 - You and Lorenzo are completely done? 75 00:02:59,213 --> 00:03:00,345 - You damn right! 76 00:03:00,447 --> 00:03:01,880 Jackie, what you got to say?! 77 00:03:01,982 --> 00:03:03,448 - I really want to see you with Lorenzo. 78 00:03:03,551 --> 00:03:05,384 - Jackie, we are broken up! 79 00:03:05,486 --> 00:03:08,453 - She doesn't understand when things transpire and spiral 80 00:03:08,556 --> 00:03:10,822 so out of control that there's no fixing it anymore. 81 00:03:10,925 --> 00:03:13,292 - She was like that with me and my daughter's father. 82 00:03:13,394 --> 00:03:16,395 Same with Tyreek, like, "Work it out," like, how? 83 00:03:16,497 --> 00:03:18,564 - I would love for my daughter to have her father 84 00:03:18,666 --> 00:03:21,266 be in the household, of course I would love that. 85 00:03:21,368 --> 00:03:23,268 Ever since Lorenzo told me he ended 86 00:03:23,370 --> 00:03:25,537 his domestic partnership with his ex, 87 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,406 things have got a lot better between us. 88 00:03:27,508 --> 00:03:29,274 Now that Lorenzo's still in St. Louis, 89 00:03:29,376 --> 00:03:31,243 and I'm now in Los Angeles, we're trying our best 90 00:03:31,345 --> 00:03:32,945 to be able to co-parent effectively. 91 00:03:33,047 --> 00:03:35,147 - Have you been eating McDonald's every day? 92 00:03:35,249 --> 00:03:37,416 - Yes. No, I had oranges. 93 00:03:37,518 --> 00:03:39,785 - You had oranges? Okay, okay, that was good, then. 94 00:03:42,623 --> 00:03:44,256 - You know, you really been doing better with 95 00:03:44,358 --> 00:03:45,958 this co-parenting thing. 96 00:03:48,095 --> 00:03:50,662 - We have tried our best to be the best parents we can be 97 00:03:50,764 --> 00:03:52,764 to Dash, but I don't know if me and Lorenzo 98 00:03:52,866 --> 00:03:54,399 should be back together. 99 00:03:54,501 --> 00:03:57,169 If Lorenzo could change, I would have no problem. 100 00:03:57,271 --> 00:03:58,804 - Really? 101 00:03:58,906 --> 00:04:01,006 - I always loved my baby daddy, I ain't gonna lie to y'all. 102 00:04:01,108 --> 00:04:02,641 But, you know-- 103 00:04:02,743 --> 00:04:04,476 - Well listen, I'm with you, whatever you decide to do, 104 00:04:04,578 --> 00:04:06,578 I'm with you, you know? 105 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,080 - And when you and Rockstar decide to get married, 106 00:04:08,182 --> 00:04:09,081 I definitely will be there. 107 00:04:09,183 --> 00:04:10,949 - Okay, okay. 108 00:04:12,119 --> 00:04:18,090 - ♪ 109 00:04:22,363 --> 00:04:24,129 - What's up? 110 00:04:24,231 --> 00:04:25,797 - Just texting. 111 00:04:25,899 --> 00:04:27,366 - Texting who? 112 00:04:27,468 --> 00:04:29,801 - Work. - Oh. 113 00:04:31,405 --> 00:04:33,605 - How's work been going? - Great. 114 00:04:33,707 --> 00:04:37,476 - My man, Iman, is a basketball sports agent, 115 00:04:37,578 --> 00:04:40,512 he's changed the lives for many families, 116 00:04:40,614 --> 00:04:43,415 putting them in the right position to be able to really 117 00:04:43,517 --> 00:04:46,752 make money and grow in the sport of basketball. 118 00:04:46,854 --> 00:04:50,455 You making money? - Always. What's up? 119 00:04:50,557 --> 00:04:53,392 - Oh yeah, at Brandi's food tasting, 120 00:04:53,494 --> 00:04:55,694 first of all, okay, you know we did a food tasting, 121 00:04:55,796 --> 00:04:57,729 'cause she's gonna have a cookbook, 122 00:04:57,831 --> 00:05:00,132 but she was trying to think of like a name, 123 00:05:00,234 --> 00:05:01,767 and my mind was like... 124 00:05:01,869 --> 00:05:05,003 "Maximum Flavor." 125 00:05:05,105 --> 00:05:06,705 - I like it. - You like it? 126 00:05:06,807 --> 00:05:07,806 - Yeah. 127 00:05:07,908 --> 00:05:09,541 - I see "Maximum flavor," let me see, 128 00:05:09,643 --> 00:05:11,043 I would like to try it. 129 00:05:11,145 --> 00:05:12,778 - I like the name. 130 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,780 - But you know I was telling you there was all this drama. 131 00:05:14,882 --> 00:05:17,482 Jackie had a conversation with Angel. 132 00:05:17,584 --> 00:05:21,053 She overexagerated what I said. 133 00:05:21,155 --> 00:05:24,423 I was just like, "I'm really worried about Angel," 134 00:05:24,525 --> 00:05:25,991 you know, 'cause her and Roccstar was having issues, 135 00:05:26,093 --> 00:05:28,694 Jackie was like, "Oh, Roccstar got really upset 136 00:05:28,796 --> 00:05:31,063 when I said, you know, about the whole group was like 137 00:05:31,165 --> 00:05:33,065 talking about his business and you kind of like 138 00:05:33,167 --> 00:05:34,599 was the one starting it." 139 00:05:34,702 --> 00:05:36,768 He was like "Yeah, she got one more chance 140 00:05:36,870 --> 00:05:39,671 or I'm gonna make Iman leave her." 141 00:05:39,773 --> 00:05:41,773 - He said these exact [bleep] words. 142 00:05:41,875 --> 00:05:43,942 When he sees her he's going to air her the [bleep] out, 143 00:05:44,044 --> 00:05:48,747 and her man is gonna want to [bleep] leave her the next day. 144 00:05:48,849 --> 00:05:52,851 - I politely let the room know my man ain't going nowhere, 145 00:05:52,953 --> 00:05:55,053 and if he's trying to insinuate that 146 00:05:55,155 --> 00:05:57,823 I'm cheating on Iman, that is like a old tell 147 00:05:57,925 --> 00:05:59,991 that me and Iman have been dealt with, 148 00:06:00,094 --> 00:06:01,693 with people saying I'm with French Montana, 149 00:06:01,795 --> 00:06:03,795 or I'm with this guy, I'm with that guy. 150 00:06:03,897 --> 00:06:06,498 - I mean, all this is, Roccstar's too emotional 151 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,567 for his own good. I mean, his female business, 152 00:06:08,669 --> 00:06:10,635 separate that from real issues. 153 00:06:10,738 --> 00:06:13,271 - Roccstar can't say nothing that hundreds of thousands 154 00:06:13,374 --> 00:06:15,140 of people haven't already said about me. 155 00:06:15,242 --> 00:06:16,842 Iman knows my heart, 156 00:06:16,944 --> 00:06:18,977 and so those things don't even phase us anymore. 157 00:06:19,079 --> 00:06:22,981 Anyway, taking a trip to Vegas will, you know, 158 00:06:23,083 --> 00:06:25,183 make me feel better. 159 00:06:25,285 --> 00:06:27,319 'Cause you know me and French, we have a show. 160 00:06:27,421 --> 00:06:28,954 - Mm. 161 00:06:29,056 --> 00:06:32,491 Speaking of French, have you thought about our conversation? 162 00:06:32,593 --> 00:06:34,693 About you being done DJing? 163 00:06:34,795 --> 00:06:36,328 - What? I said that? - Yeah. 164 00:06:36,430 --> 00:06:37,896 - Oh. 165 00:06:37,998 --> 00:06:40,966 Um, I have been thinking about it, you know? 166 00:06:41,068 --> 00:06:44,669 I'll commit to this being my final show as a DJ, 167 00:06:44,772 --> 00:06:49,708 but I feel like I want to find another career to transition to. 168 00:06:49,810 --> 00:06:54,112 But I mean, that is gonna take up a little of my time. 169 00:06:54,214 --> 00:06:55,614 - I mean, you need to be home. 170 00:06:55,716 --> 00:06:57,482 - I'm going to be doing something, 171 00:06:57,584 --> 00:06:59,451 I'm not just gonna be sitting in the house. 172 00:06:59,553 --> 00:07:00,919 Just so you know. 173 00:07:01,021 --> 00:07:02,621 So I don't wanna disappoint you. - Nobody's saying that. 174 00:07:02,723 --> 00:07:04,923 - I want to bring a lot to the table, 175 00:07:05,025 --> 00:07:06,858 so we can really elevate as a family. 176 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,227 Growing up, I was taught to work hard, 177 00:07:09,329 --> 00:07:11,596 my father was really tough on me, 178 00:07:11,698 --> 00:07:13,632 and so for me to just sit around at home 179 00:07:13,734 --> 00:07:18,170 and let a man pay for things, it just, it'll never be me. 180 00:07:18,272 --> 00:07:20,639 - To me, the main thing is the family life 181 00:07:20,741 --> 00:07:22,641 I'm having right now is what I was hoping 182 00:07:22,743 --> 00:07:24,476 or what I was wishing I had when I was growing up. 183 00:07:24,578 --> 00:07:26,978 - Like, this is important to me. 184 00:07:28,282 --> 00:07:31,349 - Alright, if that's what you want to do, I'll support that. 185 00:07:31,452 --> 00:07:37,622 - ♪ 186 00:07:42,930 --> 00:07:46,731 - Hi, guys. I'm so happy to have you here. 187 00:07:46,834 --> 00:07:49,401 - I need a fun workout moment, so I brought 188 00:07:49,503 --> 00:07:52,337 Jackie and June along, no arguments please. 189 00:07:53,340 --> 00:07:54,739 - Hang time, huh? 190 00:07:54,842 --> 00:07:57,242 - MALAYSIA: So, is it gonna be a good sweat? 191 00:07:58,312 --> 00:07:59,578 - So, you're gonna take the hammock and lift up 192 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,179 your right ankle. 193 00:08:02,716 --> 00:08:04,349 - Oh, lord. My leg. 194 00:08:04,451 --> 00:08:05,917 - INSTRUCTOR: Is it still too tight? 195 00:08:06,019 --> 00:08:07,552 Alright, let's start at the knee. Bend at the knee. 196 00:08:07,654 --> 00:08:09,855 Bring it to the side, one side of the kneecap. 197 00:08:09,957 --> 00:08:11,556 Alright, then we're gonna take the left leg back behind us. 198 00:08:11,658 --> 00:08:13,058 Start to spin. 199 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:14,326 - Woo. 200 00:08:14,428 --> 00:08:17,028 - Wait, how did you spin? 201 00:08:18,499 --> 00:08:19,831 - Spin. 202 00:08:23,604 --> 00:08:25,237 - What'd I do wrong? 203 00:08:27,808 --> 00:08:30,275 - I have done flying yoga before-- 204 00:08:30,377 --> 00:08:32,110 - Right leg comes around - [bleep] 205 00:08:32,212 --> 00:08:34,045 - I'm gonna have a nip slip any second, 206 00:08:34,147 --> 00:08:35,614 I'm telling you guys. 207 00:08:35,716 --> 00:08:38,216 I feel dizzy. Drea... 208 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:41,786 - Great job Malaysia, great. 209 00:08:41,889 --> 00:08:43,688 - I actually have a swing in my basement. 210 00:08:43,790 --> 00:08:45,924 - She's already ready to go upside down. 211 00:08:47,194 --> 00:08:49,027 - I ain't freaky though. 212 00:08:49,129 --> 00:08:50,862 - INSTRUCTOR: Alright guys, I feel like you are 213 00:08:50,964 --> 00:08:52,864 professionals at this point, right? 214 00:08:52,966 --> 00:08:56,535 - That was so much fun. - Oh my god. 215 00:08:56,637 --> 00:08:58,703 - I needed that after all that mess 216 00:08:58,805 --> 00:09:01,773 at Brandi's food tasting - What happened? 217 00:09:01,875 --> 00:09:03,975 - People be trying to twist my intentions, 218 00:09:04,077 --> 00:09:05,744 even when I'm just trying to help them out. 219 00:09:05,846 --> 00:09:07,212 I'm gonna be very diligent going forward, 220 00:09:07,314 --> 00:09:08,813 and speaking to the people, 221 00:09:08,916 --> 00:09:10,615 'cause I know there's probably some people 222 00:09:10,717 --> 00:09:12,284 that got some things they want to say to me, 223 00:09:12,386 --> 00:09:13,885 and they just aren't, because they're like, 224 00:09:13,987 --> 00:09:15,387 "We don't feel like hearing her big ass mouth," 225 00:09:15,489 --> 00:09:16,821 but I'm gonna address it, 226 00:09:16,924 --> 00:09:18,657 because I care about all you guys. 227 00:09:18,759 --> 00:09:20,525 - Listen, if you're passionate about something, 228 00:09:20,627 --> 00:09:22,794 be authentic in that moment. 229 00:09:22,896 --> 00:09:25,397 - I really feel like everybody needs to move ahead, 230 00:09:25,499 --> 00:09:28,266 go forward from that drama that happened at the tasting, 231 00:09:28,368 --> 00:09:30,669 and all that's been going on in the group. 232 00:09:30,771 --> 00:09:33,038 - We can't just keep brushing stuff under the rug, 233 00:09:33,140 --> 00:09:36,241 we know from years past that when we do that, 234 00:09:36,343 --> 00:09:38,009 in this group, what happens? 235 00:09:38,111 --> 00:09:39,945 It ends up being a blow up, you know? 236 00:09:40,047 --> 00:09:43,915 - You are right. My old method was to just avoid it, 237 00:09:44,017 --> 00:09:48,420 but I see that everyone don't really adapt to that 238 00:09:48,522 --> 00:09:49,955 kind of things, so-- 239 00:09:50,057 --> 00:09:52,090 - But we got to start sharing some of this stuff 240 00:09:52,192 --> 00:09:54,326 that is between us to get through it. 241 00:09:54,428 --> 00:09:55,827 You know what, you guys? 242 00:09:55,929 --> 00:09:57,996 I do a podcast, and I want to do one with all of us. 243 00:09:58,098 --> 00:09:59,831 Where we're all there together, 244 00:09:59,933 --> 00:10:02,067 and we just talk about life and what we're doing, 245 00:10:02,169 --> 00:10:05,937 we're in the Basketball Wives family for life. 246 00:10:06,039 --> 00:10:08,840 I feel like we start building the foundation 247 00:10:08,942 --> 00:10:11,710 by coming together, and we can do it on the podcast 248 00:10:11,812 --> 00:10:14,312 and everybody will feel like they're coming there, 249 00:10:14,414 --> 00:10:16,681 they need to put it out on the table and no bullshit, 250 00:10:16,783 --> 00:10:18,483 'cause I'm not gonna allow that, 251 00:10:18,585 --> 00:10:20,218 you guys already know how I get down. 252 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,288 - I want to move in a positive direction. 253 00:10:24,424 --> 00:10:26,091 - JACKIE: You're gonna be my guest of honor at the podcast. 254 00:10:26,193 --> 00:10:28,860 - I think Jackie has the right idea when she says that 255 00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:30,962 we need to communicate, 256 00:10:31,064 --> 00:10:33,498 because I shove everything under the rug, 257 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,234 and that's when shit goes wrong. 258 00:10:36,336 --> 00:10:38,770 - It's just gonna be a moment for us ladies to come together, 259 00:10:38,872 --> 00:10:41,406 and let me handle everything. 260 00:10:45,379 --> 00:10:48,013 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 261 00:10:48,115 --> 00:10:51,616 - Rocc and I were talking about putting the baby stuff, 262 00:10:51,718 --> 00:10:54,386 the basinet, the crib, in here in your room. 263 00:10:54,488 --> 00:10:56,187 - Don't know about that. 264 00:11:01,495 --> 00:11:03,061 - You are a [bleep] ass man, 265 00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:04,763 that's why I don't want to have no conversation with you 266 00:11:04,865 --> 00:11:06,331 [bleep] off and [bleep] you! 267 00:11:09,836 --> 00:11:15,407 - ♪ 268 00:11:15,509 --> 00:11:17,842 - SALESMAN: Here we got our selection of mic's. 269 00:11:17,944 --> 00:11:19,477 This is your-- - That's the one I have. 270 00:11:19,579 --> 00:11:21,146 - Yeah, that's the SM7B. 271 00:11:21,248 --> 00:11:23,648 It was the radio mic in the '70s. 272 00:11:23,750 --> 00:11:25,483 And then you've got your Nuemann, 273 00:11:25,585 --> 00:11:26,951 that's the Billie Eilish mic, 274 00:11:27,054 --> 00:11:29,020 where she picks up all that nice little sexy whispering 275 00:11:29,122 --> 00:11:31,489 - This is Jackie Marie Christine... 276 00:11:31,591 --> 00:11:33,024 - I'm sorry. 277 00:11:33,126 --> 00:11:36,961 - Welcome to my podcast, this is a basketball wife... 278 00:11:38,665 --> 00:11:39,898 - JACKIE: You better cut it out. 279 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,967 - Hi, guys. - Hey, Noria. 280 00:11:43,070 --> 00:11:46,004 How are you? - How are you? 281 00:11:46,106 --> 00:11:49,207 - So yeah, I need to buy some stuff, because I want to get 282 00:11:49,309 --> 00:11:51,710 the ladies together and do a podcast where we can all 283 00:11:51,812 --> 00:11:54,012 kind of share our experiences. 284 00:11:54,114 --> 00:11:56,014 The main topic of the conversation is 285 00:11:56,116 --> 00:11:58,383 life after basketball. And during. 286 00:11:58,485 --> 00:12:00,885 And I want to talk about the journey from playing 287 00:12:00,987 --> 00:12:02,721 to you know, what they go to next, 288 00:12:02,823 --> 00:12:04,422 and then to where they end up. 289 00:12:04,524 --> 00:12:07,025 You know, my husband went from playing basketball to coaching. 290 00:12:07,127 --> 00:12:09,294 Now, he's back on the road, like with coaching, 291 00:12:09,396 --> 00:12:12,163 it feels like my husband's going off to play again. 292 00:12:12,265 --> 00:12:15,066 - It's literally the same, but worse, because 293 00:12:15,168 --> 00:12:18,269 they're working longer hours, 294 00:12:18,371 --> 00:12:20,405 and even through the summers, 295 00:12:20,507 --> 00:12:22,941 and the breaks that we get to have, coaches don't get them. 296 00:12:23,043 --> 00:12:25,276 - Yeah, you know, I'm crying silently by myself. 297 00:12:25,378 --> 00:12:27,178 A lot of people don't know about that, 298 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:29,080 so it's a lot that we go through, 299 00:12:29,182 --> 00:12:30,582 let's just band together, y'all. 300 00:12:30,684 --> 00:12:32,751 A lot of times, the women in the group do focus 301 00:12:32,853 --> 00:12:36,321 on their differences, but we are all part of a basketball family, 302 00:12:36,423 --> 00:12:38,123 and we should come together in that way. 303 00:12:38,225 --> 00:12:39,791 So, in this podcast, 304 00:12:39,893 --> 00:12:42,360 they're gonna see how similar we all are. 305 00:12:42,462 --> 00:12:44,696 - I invited all the ladies, Malaysia will definitely 306 00:12:44,798 --> 00:12:46,431 be coming. 307 00:12:46,533 --> 00:12:48,133 Let me ask you, where are you guys right now? 308 00:12:48,235 --> 00:12:50,034 Are you still kind of in the same place? 309 00:12:50,137 --> 00:12:52,270 - I would say the latest thing, really, 310 00:12:52,372 --> 00:12:56,574 that irritated me the most was bringing Zell around. 311 00:12:56,676 --> 00:12:59,577 Anybody that bring Zell know what they're doing. 312 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,479 - Girl, stop talking to me. Stop talking to me. 313 00:13:01,581 --> 00:13:04,616 - No, you shut up and you stop talking. 314 00:13:05,719 --> 00:13:08,253 You almost tried to like set me up in a sense, 315 00:13:08,355 --> 00:13:11,923 or you tried to play me, with having somebody be reckless. 316 00:13:12,025 --> 00:13:15,193 Don't put the one that literally Rocked with you 317 00:13:15,295 --> 00:13:17,362 the hardest and was by her side, 318 00:13:17,464 --> 00:13:20,198 on the phone with her all day, every day, at night, 319 00:13:20,300 --> 00:13:22,300 in the bed with my husband, we on the phone, 320 00:13:22,402 --> 00:13:25,069 we face timing, we talking and everything else, 321 00:13:25,172 --> 00:13:27,305 and you try to like, play me. 322 00:13:27,407 --> 00:13:29,240 - JACKIE: I totally get it. 323 00:13:29,342 --> 00:13:31,176 And we gonna work through it, however we have to. 324 00:13:31,278 --> 00:13:32,844 We can make it through. 325 00:13:32,946 --> 00:13:34,846 Relationships-- - Sad, thinking about it. 326 00:13:34,948 --> 00:13:36,881 - This is the thing, you talking about it 327 00:13:36,983 --> 00:13:38,983 is gonna work itself out. 328 00:13:39,085 --> 00:13:40,819 - You work through your differences, Brandi, 329 00:13:40,921 --> 00:13:42,921 and she's done some things, obviously, 330 00:13:43,023 --> 00:13:44,389 that you feel was hurtful, 331 00:13:44,491 --> 00:13:45,757 she feels you've done some things that was hurtful, 332 00:13:45,859 --> 00:13:46,891 and that's, we-- 333 00:13:46,993 --> 00:13:48,593 - I haven't done nothing to her. 334 00:13:48,695 --> 00:13:52,096 I been through so much in the last, like, 335 00:13:52,199 --> 00:13:54,265 even couple of months, you know? 336 00:13:54,367 --> 00:13:57,569 Like, dealing with my dad, like. 337 00:13:57,671 --> 00:13:59,838 This week, I've been feeling really hormonal, 338 00:13:59,940 --> 00:14:01,639 and I don't know what's going on with me, 339 00:14:01,741 --> 00:14:06,377 but I don't hope to be back friends with Malaysia at all. 340 00:14:06,479 --> 00:14:08,179 - I understand. - BRANDI: It's just a lot. 341 00:14:08,281 --> 00:14:09,447 - We done been through a lot, 342 00:14:09,549 --> 00:14:11,316 we been knowing each other for a very long time, 343 00:14:11,418 --> 00:14:13,218 we in each other's life for the rest our lives, 344 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,353 so I hope this podcast is a time for us to be a sisterhood. 345 00:14:15,455 --> 00:14:17,255 - We're here to support you, 346 00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:18,823 whatever you need, we're here for you. 347 00:14:18,925 --> 00:14:20,525 No matter what. 348 00:14:22,863 --> 00:14:26,998 - ♪ 349 00:14:27,100 --> 00:14:28,766 - ANGEL: Azari, you found your phone? 350 00:14:28,869 --> 00:14:31,002 - AZARI: Yeah, it was in the car. 351 00:14:31,104 --> 00:14:32,737 - It was in the car? I just told you that. 352 00:14:32,839 --> 00:14:34,138 - AZARI: I know. 353 00:14:34,241 --> 00:14:36,274 - I'm taking a break from the girls right now 354 00:14:36,376 --> 00:14:38,042 because I need to really focus on this pregnancy. 355 00:14:38,144 --> 00:14:40,879 How was school? High school. 356 00:14:40,981 --> 00:14:43,481 - I know. Nervous a little bit, but... 357 00:14:43,583 --> 00:14:44,716 - ANGEL: Why? 358 00:14:44,818 --> 00:14:46,117 - I don't know what to expect. 359 00:14:46,219 --> 00:14:47,719 - Nobody's messing with you, right? 360 00:14:47,821 --> 00:14:49,354 - No. - ANGEL: Okay. 361 00:14:49,456 --> 00:14:53,157 Well, I wanted to talk to you about something. 362 00:14:53,260 --> 00:14:54,993 - Okay, oh great. 363 00:14:55,095 --> 00:14:57,395 - So, Rocc and I were talking, right, 364 00:14:57,497 --> 00:15:01,599 about the baby and stuff, and um, how we're gonna, 365 00:15:01,701 --> 00:15:04,569 you know, go about putting all his stuff, 366 00:15:04,671 --> 00:15:08,606 the baby's stuff, the basinet, the crib, in here. 367 00:15:09,809 --> 00:15:11,676 In here, in your room. 368 00:15:12,479 --> 00:15:15,113 - Don't know about that. I don't know. 369 00:15:15,215 --> 00:15:17,148 - Not to share a room with you or anything, but I was 370 00:15:17,250 --> 00:15:18,616 just thinking maybe-- 371 00:15:18,718 --> 00:15:20,919 - I'd rather do that than him take my room. 372 00:15:21,021 --> 00:15:22,453 - You would share a room with a baby? 373 00:15:22,555 --> 00:15:24,455 - Yeah, I like my room. - No way. 374 00:15:24,557 --> 00:15:26,491 A brand new baby? Like, stinky diaper... 375 00:15:26,593 --> 00:15:28,192 - Oh, I'm not gonna change a diaper, 376 00:15:28,295 --> 00:15:30,028 that's a little too much, but... 377 00:15:30,130 --> 00:15:31,796 - I mean, what's wrong with the guest room? 378 00:15:31,898 --> 00:15:34,165 - Mom, my room's bigger, you know what I'm saying? 379 00:15:34,267 --> 00:15:35,633 - This room is a little bigger. 380 00:15:35,735 --> 00:15:37,602 All the bedrooms are on the top floor, 381 00:15:37,704 --> 00:15:39,837 and there's one extra bedroom on the second floor 382 00:15:39,940 --> 00:15:41,606 that we use as a guestroom. 383 00:15:41,708 --> 00:15:43,741 I can't have the baby all the way down 384 00:15:43,843 --> 00:15:45,276 on a different floor from me, 385 00:15:45,378 --> 00:15:47,378 how am I gonna keep going up and down, you know? 386 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:48,947 It doesn't make any sense. 387 00:15:49,049 --> 00:15:50,481 If you don't want the guestroom, I mean, 388 00:15:50,583 --> 00:15:52,350 the only other option would be the back house. 389 00:15:52,452 --> 00:15:54,886 - Yeah, no, that's fine. I'm good. 390 00:15:54,988 --> 00:15:56,287 - Azari, come look. 391 00:15:56,389 --> 00:15:58,589 Come look at my situation, okay? 392 00:15:58,692 --> 00:16:01,192 Amani's room is all the way down there, okay? 393 00:16:01,294 --> 00:16:03,494 If I were to put her downstairs on the floor 394 00:16:03,596 --> 00:16:05,797 by herself, that's like-- - Oh, she'll be fine. 395 00:16:05,899 --> 00:16:08,800 - No, she won't be fine. - She has to get used to it. 396 00:16:08,902 --> 00:16:12,003 - I'm gonna show you the guest house, let's do that. Come on. 397 00:16:12,105 --> 00:16:14,339 Because you need to really think about this. 398 00:16:14,441 --> 00:16:16,541 Could you imagine your own freedom? 399 00:16:16,643 --> 00:16:20,378 Back house, like you don't have to worry about anything. 400 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:22,880 Can you imagine having your own privacy, 401 00:16:22,983 --> 00:16:24,615 like away from us? 402 00:16:24,718 --> 00:16:26,751 You don't have to hear a baby crying. 403 00:16:26,853 --> 00:16:28,953 I feel bad, you know, but at the end of the day, 404 00:16:29,055 --> 00:16:31,022 the guest house would be ideal for Azari 405 00:16:31,124 --> 00:16:33,358 because he'll feel like he has more privacy 406 00:16:33,460 --> 00:16:35,426 and he won't be bothered as much by us. 407 00:16:35,528 --> 00:16:37,628 I mean, what high school boy wouldn't like his own house? 408 00:16:37,731 --> 00:16:41,232 Look, look at this. Your own space. 409 00:16:43,203 --> 00:16:45,303 Look, two bedrooms, you've got a gym in here. 410 00:16:45,405 --> 00:16:48,172 You can work out every day. 411 00:16:48,274 --> 00:16:49,841 You got your own view. 412 00:16:49,943 --> 00:16:51,576 I mean, look at this. 413 00:16:51,678 --> 00:16:53,277 You know there's nothing I don't do for you. 414 00:16:53,380 --> 00:16:55,013 Look, you got your own basketball court 415 00:16:55,115 --> 00:16:56,547 with your name on it, you know? 416 00:16:56,649 --> 00:16:58,349 I want the best for you, you know. 417 00:16:58,451 --> 00:17:00,218 I'm just kind of in a tight spot, 418 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,954 because I don't know exactly where to put the baby 419 00:17:03,056 --> 00:17:05,556 and I want you to know that even when I do have the baby, 420 00:17:05,658 --> 00:17:09,827 like I'm gonna do my best to, you know, 421 00:17:09,929 --> 00:17:14,332 divide my time up with you, your sister, you know, 422 00:17:14,434 --> 00:17:16,934 your new brother, you know, work and everything. 423 00:17:17,037 --> 00:17:20,471 - Are you sure? 'Cause I don't want you to, you know, 424 00:17:20,573 --> 00:17:23,207 be focusing on everybody else and not me. 425 00:17:23,309 --> 00:17:25,710 You know, I don't want to feel like that. 426 00:17:25,812 --> 00:17:29,280 I'm just saying, with Amani, when she was first born, 427 00:17:29,382 --> 00:17:31,416 that was what I felt like. - Really? 428 00:17:31,518 --> 00:17:35,186 - Yeah. - Why did you feel that way? 429 00:17:35,288 --> 00:17:37,522 - Well, because, I don't know, 430 00:17:37,624 --> 00:17:39,624 you probably just put more time on her, you know, 431 00:17:39,726 --> 00:17:42,160 and I felt like you weren't putting time on me sometimes, 432 00:17:42,262 --> 00:17:44,262 and you know, it would just get to me. 433 00:17:44,364 --> 00:17:46,197 - You know, I know it's been a struggle for my son, 434 00:17:46,299 --> 00:17:47,732 because his father hasn't been around. 435 00:17:47,834 --> 00:17:49,500 I have something I want to talk to you about. 436 00:17:49,602 --> 00:17:51,202 When we went shopping the other day, 437 00:17:51,304 --> 00:17:53,471 and the guy was talking to me, 438 00:17:53,573 --> 00:17:56,407 when he asked you about your father? 439 00:17:56,509 --> 00:17:59,177 - Well, I don't know how to say it like he died, 440 00:17:59,279 --> 00:18:01,579 I don't like to say that. 441 00:18:01,681 --> 00:18:05,049 - No, don't cry. You do have a father. 442 00:18:05,151 --> 00:18:08,886 Being a mom and dad his whole life has been hard for me, 443 00:18:08,988 --> 00:18:12,290 but I do the best that I can, I've sacrificed a lot. 444 00:18:12,392 --> 00:18:15,226 - Spending time with you is, like, important. 445 00:18:15,328 --> 00:18:17,929 I mean, it would be cool if you could at least 446 00:18:18,031 --> 00:18:19,297 come to my games too, though. 447 00:18:19,399 --> 00:18:20,798 'Cause you're my mom, 448 00:18:20,900 --> 00:18:22,266 and you're the only one I have, basically. 449 00:18:22,368 --> 00:18:24,669 - Yeah. 450 00:18:30,743 --> 00:18:32,510 - You don't have to feel bad, it's okay. 451 00:18:32,612 --> 00:18:37,715 I know, I just, I know that, um, I work a lot, you know? 452 00:18:37,817 --> 00:18:40,818 And I know I'm your only parent, you know 453 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,155 and that is, you know, like the responsibility 454 00:18:44,257 --> 00:18:47,458 that I have, and I don't ever want you to feel any kind of 455 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,727 neglect or anything like that. 456 00:18:49,829 --> 00:18:52,330 I feel guilty of course, as any parent does, you know? 457 00:18:52,432 --> 00:18:55,099 But, it just means I just have to do better. 458 00:18:55,201 --> 00:18:58,202 - AZARI: Are you okay? 459 00:18:58,304 --> 00:19:00,705 - I'm sorry. 460 00:19:08,281 --> 00:19:11,649 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 461 00:19:12,285 --> 00:19:14,152 - Oh, hey Laysia. 462 00:19:14,254 --> 00:19:17,555 - Hey, Momma. - Hey, my love. Hi, baby. 463 00:19:17,657 --> 00:19:19,924 - Showing up late, this is just typical. 464 00:19:20,026 --> 00:19:22,360 And it's just like, Malaysia, get your [bleep] together. 465 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:33,137 - ♪ 466 00:19:36,476 --> 00:19:39,777 - It is my dream and my hope and my truest desire 467 00:19:39,879 --> 00:19:42,413 for these ladies to use my podcast 468 00:19:42,515 --> 00:19:44,282 as not only a way to come together, 469 00:19:44,384 --> 00:19:46,617 but to find common ground with one another. 470 00:19:46,719 --> 00:19:49,887 But I certainly got my work cut out for me. 471 00:19:49,989 --> 00:19:52,323 Hey. 472 00:19:52,425 --> 00:19:54,759 - Okay. - JACKIE: You look amazing. 473 00:19:54,861 --> 00:19:58,262 You smell so good. Girl, I haven't seen you in a minute. 474 00:19:58,364 --> 00:20:00,097 I'm glad you came here a little early, 475 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,300 because I wanted to know how are you feeling since 476 00:20:02,402 --> 00:20:04,936 everything that happened? - Girl, it's like-- 477 00:20:05,038 --> 00:20:07,438 - Come get a drink, come get a drink. 478 00:20:07,540 --> 00:20:10,241 - The situation, it's just like confusing to me. 479 00:20:10,343 --> 00:20:13,077 The way Angel seemed so upset, 480 00:20:13,179 --> 00:20:15,913 the way Roccstar disrespected me 481 00:20:16,015 --> 00:20:17,949 and was threatening, like, my relationship, 482 00:20:18,051 --> 00:20:19,984 I just wanted to leave that situation behind-- 483 00:20:20,086 --> 00:20:21,219 - Me too. 484 00:20:21,321 --> 00:20:22,653 - DUFFEY: I'm good on Roccstar. 485 00:20:22,755 --> 00:20:24,088 I don't have to hang out with him, 486 00:20:24,190 --> 00:20:25,856 and at the end of the day, last time I checked, 487 00:20:25,959 --> 00:20:27,992 whenever I'm in the bed, I don't never see Roccstar 488 00:20:28,094 --> 00:20:29,694 to the right or the left, 489 00:20:29,796 --> 00:20:31,395 so he shouldn't know nothing about my personal business. 490 00:20:31,497 --> 00:20:33,297 - What I want to tell you is... 491 00:20:33,399 --> 00:20:34,665 I need to drink the rest of this. 492 00:20:34,767 --> 00:20:36,400 I was trying to hold on, 493 00:20:36,502 --> 00:20:37,802 so I could have it during the podcast. 494 00:20:37,904 --> 00:20:39,370 - DUFFEY: Have you spoke to Angel? 495 00:20:39,472 --> 00:20:41,606 - You know what? I have spoke to Angel. 496 00:20:41,708 --> 00:20:44,976 - ANGEL: I just felt like a lot of the girls 497 00:20:45,078 --> 00:20:46,611 and everybody was just in my business a lot. 498 00:20:46,713 --> 00:20:48,579 - I'm so sorry, Angel, and I might have, you know, 499 00:20:48,681 --> 00:20:50,648 overstepped my bounds a little bit. 500 00:20:50,750 --> 00:20:52,450 And um, she was just kind of like, 501 00:20:52,552 --> 00:20:54,652 "Jackie, I just really want to know, 502 00:20:54,754 --> 00:20:57,855 are you sure that you really told me that?" 503 00:20:57,957 --> 00:21:00,024 And I said, "Of course." And she was like, "Okay." 504 00:21:00,126 --> 00:21:03,461 But, she has a lot going on, so she couldn't make it today. 505 00:21:05,765 --> 00:21:07,798 - I mean, I wish Angel was going to be here, 506 00:21:07,900 --> 00:21:09,767 I want to work this out soon, 507 00:21:09,869 --> 00:21:11,569 because it might ruin our friendship. 508 00:21:11,671 --> 00:21:13,037 - I'm so glad about today, 509 00:21:13,139 --> 00:21:14,972 and I'm so glad we're gonna get to share in our life. 510 00:21:15,074 --> 00:21:17,475 - You know what I love about podcasts compared to radio, 511 00:21:17,577 --> 00:21:19,543 is you can say what the -- you want to say. 512 00:21:19,646 --> 00:21:21,178 - Why don't you do one? 513 00:21:21,281 --> 00:21:23,247 'Cause I know you're talking about retiring from DJing, 514 00:21:23,349 --> 00:21:26,083 that's another outlet you can build that'd be in your alley. 515 00:21:26,185 --> 00:21:28,986 - I'm thinking about executive produce my album. 516 00:21:29,088 --> 00:21:30,588 I want to be like a female DJ Khaled, 517 00:21:30,690 --> 00:21:32,456 'cause I have an ear. 518 00:21:32,558 --> 00:21:34,792 DJ Khaled went from being just a DJ, 519 00:21:34,894 --> 00:21:37,461 he now executive produces his own record. 520 00:21:37,563 --> 00:21:40,264 If I'm producing, I get to be in the studio 521 00:21:40,366 --> 00:21:41,932 and be close to my family, 522 00:21:42,035 --> 00:21:43,901 and I don't have to go on a 40-day tour. 523 00:21:44,003 --> 00:21:45,670 - You're gonna kill that. That's right. 524 00:21:45,772 --> 00:21:47,171 - Cheers. - Cheers. 525 00:21:47,273 --> 00:21:49,106 Cheers mamacita. 526 00:21:50,910 --> 00:21:56,847 - ♪ 527 00:22:06,993 --> 00:22:09,193 - Hey! 528 00:22:11,998 --> 00:22:14,865 You look nice. - Thank you, you look cute. 529 00:22:14,967 --> 00:22:19,036 - How you think this podcast is gonna go today, honey? 530 00:22:20,373 --> 00:22:23,007 - I know what the subject is supposed to be, but-- 531 00:22:23,109 --> 00:22:25,843 - What is it supposed to be? - Life after basketball, 532 00:22:25,945 --> 00:22:28,012 or life being a basketball wife, or something like that. 533 00:22:28,114 --> 00:22:29,914 - Okay. 534 00:22:30,016 --> 00:22:33,718 - Hey now, hey! - Hi, nice seeing you again. 535 00:22:35,121 --> 00:22:37,154 - Can we have another champagne for Brandi, please? 536 00:22:37,256 --> 00:22:38,556 Thank you. 537 00:22:38,658 --> 00:22:40,324 I just want y'all to know that this week, 538 00:22:40,426 --> 00:22:41,659 me and Lorenzo are on good terms, 539 00:22:41,761 --> 00:22:43,127 I texted her I said, "What you doing?" 540 00:22:43,229 --> 00:22:44,395 I said, "What you doing?" 541 00:22:44,497 --> 00:22:46,664 He said, um, I said, "Buy me something." 542 00:22:46,766 --> 00:22:49,066 You talking about, "Thanks for checking on me, 543 00:22:49,168 --> 00:22:50,735 and what you doing?" 544 00:22:50,837 --> 00:22:52,737 I said, "I'm about to work," he says, "Okay." 545 00:22:52,839 --> 00:22:54,872 I said, "Okay." We're in a good spirit today. 546 00:22:56,776 --> 00:22:59,710 - Ooh, hey. Look at you being cute. 547 00:22:59,812 --> 00:23:01,512 Give me a hug. 548 00:23:01,614 --> 00:23:03,447 - You got cheesecake. - Mm-hmm. 549 00:23:03,549 --> 00:23:05,149 I brought, you know, olive branch. 550 00:23:05,251 --> 00:23:07,785 So, how you think this is gonna be today? 551 00:23:07,887 --> 00:23:09,720 - I have no idea what to expect. 552 00:23:09,822 --> 00:23:11,155 - What do you think about the other ladies? 553 00:23:11,257 --> 00:23:13,591 I haven't seen them since our gender reveal. 554 00:23:13,693 --> 00:23:15,226 - So, I don't know. We'll see how it goes. 555 00:23:15,328 --> 00:23:17,128 - Yeah, well, we'll see. 556 00:23:17,230 --> 00:23:19,930 Even though things are weird after the gender reveal-- 557 00:23:20,032 --> 00:23:23,000 - It said, "I got a taste for some out of wedlock 558 00:23:23,102 --> 00:23:25,002 baby shower food." 559 00:23:25,104 --> 00:23:27,772 The post that you made today is shady. 560 00:23:27,874 --> 00:23:30,040 - I thought it was funny, so, I mean... 561 00:23:30,143 --> 00:23:32,042 - I don't think it was appropriate. 562 00:23:32,145 --> 00:23:34,178 - This is time for them to get to know me 563 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,781 and see that I'm funny, I like to have a good time, 564 00:23:36,883 --> 00:23:38,682 and they're gonna be like, 565 00:23:38,785 --> 00:23:40,284 "Okay, that girl didn't mean no harm by that." 566 00:23:40,386 --> 00:23:41,786 Wish me luck. 567 00:23:43,890 --> 00:23:46,891 - Hey, girl. - How are you, mamacita? 568 00:23:49,395 --> 00:23:52,096 - Hi, Mia, I didn't even see you, mamacita. 569 00:23:52,198 --> 00:23:53,798 I'm so glad you could come. Come on. 570 00:23:55,968 --> 00:23:59,203 - I have not seen Mia since the shit that she has pulled 571 00:23:59,305 --> 00:24:00,871 at Angel's gender reveal. 572 00:24:00,973 --> 00:24:03,641 She gives me weird bitch vibes, 573 00:24:03,743 --> 00:24:06,811 and I'm just like, "Girl, I don't have time, bye." 574 00:24:08,147 --> 00:24:10,915 - You guys, I want to thank you all for coming. 575 00:24:11,017 --> 00:24:13,050 This podcast today touches home with me 576 00:24:13,152 --> 00:24:15,352 because it's my ladies, it's my sisters, 577 00:24:15,455 --> 00:24:16,720 and in some way, shape, or form, 578 00:24:16,823 --> 00:24:18,489 we're all basketball wives, 579 00:24:18,591 --> 00:24:20,691 we talking about our life, our experiences, 580 00:24:20,793 --> 00:24:22,927 the good, if you want to share a little bit of bad, 581 00:24:23,029 --> 00:24:24,862 you can, and just really opening up 582 00:24:24,964 --> 00:24:26,831 so the world can get to know us. 583 00:24:26,933 --> 00:24:29,033 Nobody has told our story the way that I'm hoping 584 00:24:29,135 --> 00:24:31,168 that we can start telling our story today. 585 00:24:31,270 --> 00:24:33,003 So, starting it off, 586 00:24:33,105 --> 00:24:35,005 I'm gonna share a little bit about my story. 587 00:24:35,107 --> 00:24:36,640 All of you guys know me already, 588 00:24:36,742 --> 00:24:38,576 but I've been married for 26 years, 589 00:24:38,678 --> 00:24:40,311 I've been with Doug for 30, 590 00:24:40,413 --> 00:24:44,048 and our journey to getting married wasn't easy. Um... 591 00:24:44,150 --> 00:24:47,618 Oh, hey 'Laysia. Hey, momma. 592 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,987 - Hey, my love. - Hi, baby. 593 00:24:50,089 --> 00:24:52,022 - Oh, you look so pretty. - Come on, this your seat. 594 00:24:52,124 --> 00:24:54,124 - Oh, alright. 595 00:24:55,428 --> 00:24:57,695 - Showing up late, this is just typical, and it's just like, 596 00:24:57,797 --> 00:24:59,997 Malaysia, get your [bleep] together. 597 00:25:04,170 --> 00:25:06,737 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 598 00:25:06,839 --> 00:25:08,873 - Being with a basketball player is not easy. 599 00:25:08,975 --> 00:25:11,709 We really have been through a lot of stuff together. 600 00:25:11,811 --> 00:25:14,044 It's kind of messed up. 601 00:25:18,317 --> 00:25:24,188 - ♪ 602 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,861 - JACKIE: Oh, hey, 'Laysia. - Hi. 603 00:25:30,963 --> 00:25:33,230 Hey, my love. - Hi, baby. 604 00:25:33,332 --> 00:25:35,499 - Ooh, you look so pretty. - Come on, this your seat. 605 00:25:35,601 --> 00:25:37,067 - Oh, alright. 606 00:25:37,169 --> 00:25:39,036 - Showing up late? This is just typical. 607 00:25:39,138 --> 00:25:41,505 And it's just like, Malaysia, get your [bleep] together. 608 00:25:41,607 --> 00:25:43,073 - JACKIE: Malaysia, I'm glad 609 00:25:43,175 --> 00:25:45,175 that you're my first special guest, and I would love to know, 610 00:25:45,278 --> 00:25:47,978 what was it like, like being married to Gennaro 611 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,648 and traveling and that kind of thing and him playing? 612 00:25:50,750 --> 00:25:54,084 - MALAYSIA: Every day was an adventure. 613 00:25:54,186 --> 00:25:56,287 I think we were on like six different teams. 614 00:25:56,389 --> 00:25:59,690 - So his transition from playing basketball to after, 615 00:25:59,792 --> 00:26:01,392 what was that like? 616 00:26:01,494 --> 00:26:03,861 - He went right into coaching, so we went through 617 00:26:03,963 --> 00:26:06,163 a very difficult period. 618 00:26:06,265 --> 00:26:09,266 Now you're the coach, and you're not in the limelight. 619 00:26:09,368 --> 00:26:11,969 You're in a transition period, where you're like, 620 00:26:12,071 --> 00:26:13,804 "I don't know where the [bleep] I'm going, 621 00:26:13,906 --> 00:26:15,873 and I got all these bills, and I have children." 622 00:26:15,975 --> 00:26:18,342 And sometimes you take it out on the person that 623 00:26:18,444 --> 00:26:21,745 you love the most, and I was his punching bag. 624 00:26:21,847 --> 00:26:23,747 We had three beautiful children, 625 00:26:23,849 --> 00:26:26,517 and I wouldn't change it for the world. 626 00:26:26,619 --> 00:26:29,019 - This is amazing, and it shows a little bit 627 00:26:29,121 --> 00:26:30,854 of vulnerability with Malaysia, 628 00:26:30,957 --> 00:26:32,656 and I can appreciate that. 629 00:26:32,758 --> 00:26:35,893 This sounds like someone that I really can get to know, 630 00:26:35,995 --> 00:26:37,928 like she sounds real. 631 00:26:38,030 --> 00:26:40,030 - Everybody's going through something, 632 00:26:40,132 --> 00:26:41,599 so this is what it is. 633 00:26:41,701 --> 00:26:43,133 - I've already heard this story, 634 00:26:43,235 --> 00:26:45,769 but it just reminds me just back when we were friends, 635 00:26:45,871 --> 00:26:47,871 and I miss that. 636 00:26:47,974 --> 00:26:50,140 - So Brandi, I'm glad you're here to share your story, 637 00:26:50,242 --> 00:26:52,610 and I would love to talk to you about Jason. 638 00:26:52,712 --> 00:26:54,011 How you met him, 639 00:26:54,113 --> 00:26:56,080 his time in the league, and then his transition out. 640 00:26:56,182 --> 00:26:57,881 - We were together in high school, 641 00:26:57,984 --> 00:27:01,285 and we've been together ever since then. 642 00:27:01,387 --> 00:27:03,354 - JACKIE: Did you know what you was getting into? 643 00:27:03,456 --> 00:27:04,922 - BRANDI: I've never been the person 644 00:27:05,024 --> 00:27:06,657 that wanted to be a stay at home mom. 645 00:27:06,759 --> 00:27:08,359 I've always been taught to hustle, 646 00:27:08,461 --> 00:27:10,461 I've always been taught to work and do your own thing. 647 00:27:10,563 --> 00:27:12,930 And so we had a deal 648 00:27:13,032 --> 00:27:16,033 that when it got towards the end of his career, 649 00:27:16,135 --> 00:27:18,535 that that was the time for me to transition 650 00:27:18,638 --> 00:27:20,838 to do what I wanted to do. 651 00:27:20,940 --> 00:27:23,440 - In the past, I've watched my friends 652 00:27:23,542 --> 00:27:26,810 who have dated athletes or men who are successful 653 00:27:26,912 --> 00:27:28,312 get left with nothing, 654 00:27:28,414 --> 00:27:30,514 and I just want to make sure that I'm not 655 00:27:30,616 --> 00:27:33,917 one of those women that falls victim to depending on a man. 656 00:27:34,020 --> 00:27:36,053 - So, transitioning into retirement, 657 00:27:36,155 --> 00:27:38,756 was that an easy thing for you guys or was it difficult? 658 00:27:38,858 --> 00:27:41,625 - No, I mean, he went from being the man, 659 00:27:41,727 --> 00:27:45,362 to really humbling himself and being just a normal person. 660 00:27:45,464 --> 00:27:47,131 - Just being a normal guy? - Yeah. 661 00:27:47,233 --> 00:27:49,600 - I'm definitely worried that if I retire, 662 00:27:49,702 --> 00:27:53,303 I might look up and resent Iman for making me quit, 663 00:27:53,406 --> 00:27:55,172 or feeling the pressure to quit. 664 00:27:55,274 --> 00:27:58,042 But, if I could get a record and executive produce, 665 00:27:58,144 --> 00:28:00,310 that'll just take me to a whole other level, 666 00:28:00,413 --> 00:28:02,446 and I really want to be the first female DJ 667 00:28:02,548 --> 00:28:04,114 that looks like me 668 00:28:04,216 --> 00:28:06,116 to be able to accomplish something like that. 669 00:28:06,218 --> 00:28:08,018 - Thank you, Nia, for joining us. 670 00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:09,787 - Hi, everyone. 671 00:28:09,889 --> 00:28:12,056 - JACKIE: Let's talk about your experience 672 00:28:12,158 --> 00:28:13,924 with your significant other in the league. 673 00:28:14,026 --> 00:28:15,893 - Well, I'm an ex. 674 00:28:15,995 --> 00:28:18,328 He was super sweet, he was super kind, 675 00:28:18,431 --> 00:28:20,330 and then he started feeling himself, 676 00:28:20,433 --> 00:28:22,199 'cause I had put so much into him, 677 00:28:22,301 --> 00:28:24,068 helping him with his page, his image, 678 00:28:24,170 --> 00:28:25,736 making him work out, making him change up eating, 679 00:28:25,838 --> 00:28:27,438 I'm like, investing so much, 680 00:28:27,540 --> 00:28:28,839 where I stop investing into myself. 681 00:28:28,941 --> 00:28:30,174 - Okay. 682 00:28:30,276 --> 00:28:32,109 - NIA: So, I had to leave the situation. 683 00:28:32,211 --> 00:28:33,577 I would tell him, like, "Be humble." 684 00:28:33,679 --> 00:28:35,646 - I understand what these women are saying, 685 00:28:35,748 --> 00:28:37,815 because it's a lifestyle change. 686 00:28:37,917 --> 00:28:41,018 And so once you get used to something, you get used to it 687 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,921 so I get it, it's not an easy task. 688 00:28:44,023 --> 00:28:46,890 - Would you ever date another player? 689 00:28:46,992 --> 00:28:49,093 Oh, you kinda are, huh? 690 00:28:49,195 --> 00:28:51,361 - I kind of dated athletes all my life. 691 00:28:51,464 --> 00:28:54,164 I might need to stop doing that, because girl-- 692 00:28:54,266 --> 00:28:55,999 - JACKIE: I love you for sharing that with me. 693 00:28:56,102 --> 00:28:57,601 Thank you, Nia. 694 00:28:57,703 --> 00:28:59,737 Last, and let's bring you up, Brittish. 695 00:28:59,839 --> 00:29:01,839 - You want me to talk about how I'm a basketball ho? 696 00:29:01,941 --> 00:29:03,240 That's what you want me to say? 697 00:29:03,342 --> 00:29:04,541 - No. 698 00:29:04,643 --> 00:29:07,144 Everybody, we're welcoming Brittish to the show. 699 00:29:08,147 --> 00:29:09,813 - I met Lorenzo when I was 21, 700 00:29:09,915 --> 00:29:11,215 when I was a senior in college. 701 00:29:11,317 --> 00:29:12,649 Lorenzo played international basketball, 702 00:29:12,752 --> 00:29:14,985 so I've lived in Turkey, Russia, Israel, France, 703 00:29:15,087 --> 00:29:17,054 damn, Germany, everywhere. 704 00:29:17,156 --> 00:29:19,389 And I feel like I learned and grew with him. 705 00:29:19,492 --> 00:29:21,391 We're not together today, because like, 706 00:29:21,494 --> 00:29:22,993 I went through the hard transition of him 707 00:29:23,095 --> 00:29:24,394 going through retirement, 708 00:29:24,497 --> 00:29:26,230 I thought about stuff that he does every day. 709 00:29:26,332 --> 00:29:27,564 I'm like, "Well, you work out everyday. 710 00:29:27,666 --> 00:29:28,966 You love training people. 711 00:29:29,068 --> 00:29:30,768 Train people. Become a trainer." 712 00:29:30,870 --> 00:29:32,169 My issue is, with Lorenzo, 713 00:29:32,271 --> 00:29:34,204 is that he wanted to fuck his clients, 714 00:29:34,306 --> 00:29:36,140 so when that happens, then it... 715 00:29:36,242 --> 00:29:39,843 it's the truth. - Brittish... 716 00:29:39,945 --> 00:29:42,412 - You want me to tell the truth or you want me to lie? 717 00:29:42,515 --> 00:29:44,481 - JACKIE: I want you to tell the truth. 718 00:29:44,583 --> 00:29:46,116 - BRITTISH: I'd never take any of the things that we... 719 00:29:46,218 --> 00:29:48,051 that was my best friend. 720 00:29:48,154 --> 00:29:49,353 He really was there no matter what. 721 00:29:49,455 --> 00:29:51,221 When my dad died, he was there. 722 00:29:51,323 --> 00:29:53,357 Like, Lorenzo has...I'm about to cry thinking about it. 723 00:29:53,459 --> 00:29:55,692 We really have been through a lot of stuff together. 724 00:29:55,795 --> 00:29:57,327 - JACKIE: Brittish, oh my god. 725 00:29:57,429 --> 00:29:59,129 - It's kind of messed up. - JACKIE: Oh my god, 726 00:29:59,231 --> 00:30:01,031 don't mess up my make up, Brittish. 727 00:30:01,133 --> 00:30:02,666 - I want people to understand 728 00:30:02,768 --> 00:30:05,202 that being with a basketball player is not easy. 729 00:30:05,304 --> 00:30:07,838 - JACKIE: No, it's not. It's not. 730 00:30:07,940 --> 00:30:09,540 It's beautiful, but it's not easy. 731 00:30:09,642 --> 00:30:12,109 - Sometimes it's beautiful, sometimes it's a nightmare. 732 00:30:12,211 --> 00:30:13,844 I definitely appreciate the time that me and Lorenzo 733 00:30:13,946 --> 00:30:15,312 had together. 734 00:30:15,414 --> 00:30:17,214 It definitely taught me a lot of learning lessons 735 00:30:17,316 --> 00:30:19,049 and made me who I am today. 736 00:30:19,151 --> 00:30:21,118 And you know, it's hard to kind of come to terms 737 00:30:21,220 --> 00:30:23,253 with the fact that we're not together anymore. 738 00:30:23,355 --> 00:30:25,155 - Brittish, thank you. - Thank you, Jackie. 739 00:30:25,257 --> 00:30:27,257 - For sharing your story! 740 00:30:27,359 --> 00:30:30,260 - You got me all podcast crying. 741 00:30:30,362 --> 00:30:33,430 - I have something to add to that. I really feel like, 742 00:30:33,532 --> 00:30:35,265 I'm thankful for this space, 743 00:30:35,367 --> 00:30:37,201 because we are the head of our households, 744 00:30:37,303 --> 00:30:40,938 I don't care what anybody says. As women, we are. 745 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,240 We make sure the bills are paid, 746 00:30:43,342 --> 00:30:47,110 even if you giving me the money. The house is clean. 747 00:30:47,213 --> 00:30:49,880 - JACKIE: The booty is ready. - The booty is ready. 748 00:30:49,982 --> 00:30:52,149 Okay, the food is on the table. 749 00:30:52,251 --> 00:30:53,750 You know what I'm saying? 750 00:30:53,853 --> 00:30:55,185 So, while you're going through your transition, 751 00:30:55,287 --> 00:30:56,954 it's like, we do, 752 00:30:57,056 --> 00:30:59,289 and we go through our transition silently, 753 00:30:59,391 --> 00:31:01,992 and you can either grow with it or get rolled over. 754 00:31:02,094 --> 00:31:03,493 You know what I'm saying? 755 00:31:03,596 --> 00:31:05,028 - We gonna leave that right there, 756 00:31:05,130 --> 00:31:06,230 because Brooke ain't playing. 757 00:31:06,332 --> 00:31:07,731 I love it, sis. Thank you for sharing. 758 00:31:07,833 --> 00:31:09,166 - I love you. 759 00:31:09,268 --> 00:31:10,801 - JACKIE: This podcast went even better than I could 760 00:31:10,903 --> 00:31:12,402 have ever imagined. 761 00:31:12,504 --> 00:31:13,837 All of us coming together, sharing our experiences, 762 00:31:13,939 --> 00:31:17,140 bonding, laughing, and really enjoying each other 763 00:31:17,243 --> 00:31:19,276 and connecting, not only as women, 764 00:31:19,378 --> 00:31:21,979 but basketball wives, and a family. 765 00:31:22,081 --> 00:31:23,680 Every one of you, I appreciate you coming, 766 00:31:23,782 --> 00:31:25,816 and I appreciate the guests for coming 767 00:31:25,918 --> 00:31:27,417 and sharing in this moment with us. 768 00:31:30,389 --> 00:31:32,289 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 769 00:31:32,391 --> 00:31:34,124 - I mean, I understand you dating, 770 00:31:34,226 --> 00:31:36,693 why does she feel comfortable to post a picture 771 00:31:36,795 --> 00:31:39,396 of my daughter on her social media page? 772 00:31:39,498 --> 00:31:41,798 - Well, like I said, she took it down-- 773 00:31:41,901 --> 00:31:43,867 - Lorenzo, the fact that you're almost 40 years old 774 00:31:43,969 --> 00:31:46,270 and you don't think that it's inappropriate for somebody 775 00:31:46,372 --> 00:31:48,372 to post somebody else's child is a problem! 776 00:31:51,110 --> 00:31:54,544 - ♪ 777 00:31:54,647 --> 00:31:56,480 - ANGEL: Let's see you go. 778 00:31:58,851 --> 00:32:01,551 - I'm gonna go here. 779 00:32:02,554 --> 00:32:04,087 - AZARI: You'll never beat me. 780 00:32:04,189 --> 00:32:05,622 - Oh, Amani. 781 00:32:05,724 --> 00:32:08,025 - That's cheating. Nah, nah, put it down. 782 00:32:08,127 --> 00:32:11,194 That's cheating, that's cheating. 783 00:32:11,297 --> 00:32:13,397 - Alright! Connect Four! 784 00:32:13,499 --> 00:32:15,766 I feel like I've done an amazing job raising my children, 785 00:32:15,868 --> 00:32:18,568 and I think that it's still not enough sometimes. 786 00:32:18,671 --> 00:32:20,470 I think kids always want more. 787 00:32:20,572 --> 00:32:22,306 I understand, you know, he's a kid, 788 00:32:22,408 --> 00:32:23,840 and if he wants more attention, 789 00:32:23,943 --> 00:32:25,676 then it's something that I should work on. 790 00:32:25,778 --> 00:32:28,011 So, now that we're having a new addition to the family, 791 00:32:28,113 --> 00:32:29,479 how's that gonna be? 792 00:32:29,581 --> 00:32:30,781 How do you guys see that happening? 793 00:32:30,883 --> 00:32:32,582 How do you feel about being a big sister? 794 00:32:32,685 --> 00:32:34,084 - Excited. 795 00:32:34,186 --> 00:32:36,286 'Cause I don't know what it feels like. 796 00:32:36,388 --> 00:32:37,754 - What about you? 797 00:32:37,856 --> 00:32:39,423 - The baby's gonna move into the guest room, 798 00:32:39,525 --> 00:32:41,558 and I'm gonna be in my room still. 799 00:32:41,660 --> 00:32:43,493 - [Amani laughs] - Speaking of that, right? 800 00:32:43,595 --> 00:32:45,529 So, Rocc and I were talking, and I've been thinking about it, 801 00:32:45,631 --> 00:32:47,664 we had that conversation, and you're like, 802 00:32:47,766 --> 00:32:50,367 "I was here first, and I love my room," 803 00:32:50,469 --> 00:32:53,403 and you know, you can keep your room. 804 00:32:55,074 --> 00:32:57,841 - What if, like, when he gets older, and you need a bed? 805 00:32:57,943 --> 00:32:59,910 - We'll adjust, we'll make adjustments. 806 00:33:00,012 --> 00:33:01,144 - Thank you. 807 00:33:01,246 --> 00:33:02,479 - Are you happy about that? - Yes. 808 00:33:02,581 --> 00:33:05,582 - Can I get a hug? - Yeah, you can. 809 00:33:05,684 --> 00:33:08,218 - You were not giving up that room at all. 810 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,187 I took Azari's feelings into consideration. 811 00:33:10,289 --> 00:33:13,223 Our baby is definitely gonna be sleeping with us in my room, 812 00:33:13,325 --> 00:33:15,425 that way Azari can still have his room, 813 00:33:15,527 --> 00:33:17,361 and we can use the other room downstairs 814 00:33:17,463 --> 00:33:19,196 for the baby's things. 815 00:33:19,298 --> 00:33:20,864 And with the baby, 816 00:33:20,966 --> 00:33:23,233 we're all gonna be one big happy family. 817 00:33:23,335 --> 00:33:25,335 - AZARI: Sounds good. - Sound good? 818 00:33:25,437 --> 00:33:26,970 You guys ready for some dinner and ice cream? 819 00:33:27,072 --> 00:33:28,905 - Yes! - Yes! 820 00:33:29,008 --> 00:33:31,908 - Alright, now help me up. - Give me food! Here. 821 00:33:32,011 --> 00:33:33,677 - [Angel groans] 822 00:33:33,779 --> 00:33:35,946 - Okay, thank you very much. I love you guys. 823 00:33:36,048 --> 00:33:37,748 - Love you more. 824 00:33:44,723 --> 00:33:47,824 - BRITTISH: Hey, Brandi, how are you? 825 00:33:47,926 --> 00:33:49,760 - BRANDI: I'm good. 826 00:33:49,862 --> 00:33:52,129 - What is this? - I'm making some chicken. 827 00:33:52,231 --> 00:33:53,563 Chicken, mashed potatoes. 828 00:33:53,665 --> 00:33:55,732 'Cause you're always asking for food. 829 00:33:55,834 --> 00:33:57,901 Bring a little Southern hospitality 830 00:33:58,003 --> 00:33:59,503 to the west coast. 831 00:33:59,605 --> 00:34:01,838 - This is my type of hospitality, I get food. 832 00:34:01,940 --> 00:34:05,409 - So Brittish, how was yesterday, then? 833 00:34:05,511 --> 00:34:07,778 - I really was so proud of Jackie, 834 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,880 because I thought she was throwing us in a whirlwind, 835 00:34:09,982 --> 00:34:11,415 but in reality, 836 00:34:11,517 --> 00:34:13,717 it really was about basketball and our lives-- 837 00:34:13,819 --> 00:34:15,719 - Hold on, I'ma make this later. 838 00:34:15,821 --> 00:34:18,555 Let me tell you something. Okay. 839 00:34:18,657 --> 00:34:22,459 I really think this podcast really kind of helped us. 840 00:34:22,561 --> 00:34:25,595 If your man played in the league, or played overseas, 841 00:34:25,697 --> 00:34:27,330 we are all the same, 842 00:34:27,433 --> 00:34:29,099 and we all deal with the same problems, 843 00:34:29,201 --> 00:34:31,535 and I feel like that kind of brought us together. 844 00:34:31,637 --> 00:34:34,704 - Everybody was vulnerable and sensitive, 845 00:34:34,807 --> 00:34:36,573 and you know if I start crying, I'm like, 846 00:34:36,675 --> 00:34:38,542 "Oh my god. What are you doing?" 847 00:34:38,644 --> 00:34:40,210 - You're in love with Lorenzo and you don't know it. 848 00:34:40,312 --> 00:34:41,678 - I'm not in love with him. 849 00:34:41,780 --> 00:34:43,413 - You're in love with Lorenzo. 850 00:34:43,515 --> 00:34:45,582 Every time you talk about him, you are smiling. 851 00:34:45,684 --> 00:34:47,184 Every time you, like, 852 00:34:47,286 --> 00:34:49,653 when you're thinking about the memories and everything, 853 00:34:49,755 --> 00:34:52,189 yes, I know he did a lot to you, I do, 854 00:34:52,291 --> 00:34:54,524 but you miss that man. 855 00:34:57,262 --> 00:35:00,197 - I felt like when I left, I didn't leave to leave forever. 856 00:35:00,299 --> 00:35:01,731 In my head, 857 00:35:01,834 --> 00:35:03,433 I really was leaving for him to appreciate, to understand 858 00:35:03,535 --> 00:35:05,001 that I will leave, you know what I'm saying? 859 00:35:05,104 --> 00:35:07,504 I think me and Lorenzo when were together, 860 00:35:07,606 --> 00:35:11,308 we were a very toxic but good relationship. 861 00:35:11,410 --> 00:35:13,343 I don't know if that's even a thing, 862 00:35:13,445 --> 00:35:15,078 but he gets me, I get him. 863 00:35:15,180 --> 00:35:17,114 But I don't know if I should give him another chance, 864 00:35:17,216 --> 00:35:20,083 especially since he's seeing some new random girl again. 865 00:35:20,185 --> 00:35:21,918 I don't know, it's weird. 866 00:35:22,020 --> 00:35:25,055 - For Jason, for me, I never left that man. 867 00:35:25,157 --> 00:35:26,790 Everybody's like, "Oh, you need to leave him alone. 868 00:35:26,892 --> 00:35:27,891 He's trash." 869 00:35:27,993 --> 00:35:29,826 But they don't know the good in him, like, 870 00:35:29,928 --> 00:35:32,262 Jason was there for me 100 percent 871 00:35:32,364 --> 00:35:34,598 when I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. 872 00:35:34,700 --> 00:35:37,634 The way he supported me, the way that he was there for me, 873 00:35:37,736 --> 00:35:40,737 it was on a whole other level. 874 00:35:40,839 --> 00:35:42,739 Jason's like, "Okay, watch the game tonight." 875 00:35:42,841 --> 00:35:45,075 So I turn on the TV, I'm watching the game, 876 00:35:45,177 --> 00:35:49,646 and I'm like, "This dude done shaved his head. Oh my god." 877 00:35:49,748 --> 00:35:52,015 - To do something like that is like, 878 00:35:52,117 --> 00:35:53,717 I'll never forget that. 879 00:35:53,819 --> 00:35:55,719 - How did you get over him cheating? 880 00:35:55,821 --> 00:35:58,488 - It was very challenging, and it was very difficult, 881 00:35:58,590 --> 00:36:02,459 but I looked at the bigger picture, you know? 882 00:36:02,561 --> 00:36:05,028 I just really let go of a lot of negativity, 883 00:36:05,130 --> 00:36:07,364 and then we focused and went to counseling, 884 00:36:07,466 --> 00:36:09,633 and that was what, you know, what worked. 885 00:36:09,735 --> 00:36:12,335 And, sometimes you gotta tune out people like your friends, 886 00:36:12,437 --> 00:36:16,039 your mom, your cousins and stuff out of your ear about them. 887 00:36:16,141 --> 00:36:18,041 - If I listened to them, we wouldn't have been together 888 00:36:18,143 --> 00:36:19,743 for six months, so I don't pay them... 889 00:36:19,845 --> 00:36:21,344 Everybody knows, you know how I am, 890 00:36:21,446 --> 00:36:23,346 I'm very strong-willed, whatever I feel is how I feel. 891 00:36:23,448 --> 00:36:25,115 - So, just think about it. 892 00:36:28,020 --> 00:36:30,120 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 893 00:36:30,222 --> 00:36:31,521 - What's going on? 894 00:36:31,623 --> 00:36:33,557 - BRANDI: Something happened and I called my doctor 895 00:36:33,659 --> 00:36:35,225 back in Detroit, and he was like, 896 00:36:35,327 --> 00:36:37,127 "Brandi, you need to go to the hospital right now." 897 00:36:37,229 --> 00:36:38,662 So, I'm freaking out. 898 00:36:43,535 --> 00:36:49,406 - ♪ 899 00:36:49,508 --> 00:36:50,740 - BRITTISH: Hey baby! 900 00:36:50,842 --> 00:36:53,910 You with your daddy? What y'all doing? 901 00:36:54,012 --> 00:36:55,912 - We were taking pictures. 902 00:36:56,014 --> 00:36:58,348 - You were? You look pretty. 903 00:37:05,857 --> 00:37:07,190 - He handsome to you? 904 00:37:08,660 --> 00:37:10,660 I'm sorry to hear that. 905 00:37:10,762 --> 00:37:12,062 I miss you, 906 00:37:12,164 --> 00:37:13,863 but tell your daddy to take you in your room, 907 00:37:13,966 --> 00:37:15,765 let me talk to your dad for a second, okay? 908 00:37:15,867 --> 00:37:17,534 - Take me to my room. 909 00:37:17,636 --> 00:37:19,569 - LORENZO: What's up? What's the problem? 910 00:37:19,671 --> 00:37:22,072 - First of all let's just do a little rewind. 911 00:37:22,174 --> 00:37:24,174 I mean, I understand you dating and you know, 912 00:37:24,276 --> 00:37:26,576 to my understanding, you just started dating this person 913 00:37:26,678 --> 00:37:27,744 that you're dating this month. 914 00:37:27,846 --> 00:37:29,613 So, my question to you is, 915 00:37:29,715 --> 00:37:32,115 I've never met the girl before, 916 00:37:32,217 --> 00:37:35,051 why does she feel comfortable to post a picture 917 00:37:35,153 --> 00:37:38,221 of my daughter on her social media page? 918 00:37:42,628 --> 00:37:45,061 - Okay, so... 919 00:37:45,998 --> 00:37:47,697 Lorenzo has a new girlfriend all of a sudden, 920 00:37:47,799 --> 00:37:49,499 and he has the nerve to let the girl post pictures 921 00:37:49,601 --> 00:37:51,034 of my daughter on social media. 922 00:37:51,136 --> 00:37:52,369 That [bleep] is not okay with me. 923 00:37:52,471 --> 00:37:53,770 I've never met her in my life, 924 00:37:53,872 --> 00:37:55,338 I don't even know who the girl is, 925 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,107 you don't even know how to spell her name properly. 926 00:37:57,209 --> 00:38:00,110 How would you feel if I was dating somebody, 927 00:38:05,651 --> 00:38:07,984 - Nobody can tell you what to do, but ain't nobody gonna do 928 00:38:08,086 --> 00:38:09,619 what they want to do with my [bleep] child! 929 00:38:09,721 --> 00:38:11,521 As long as you got whoever you want to be with, 930 00:38:11,623 --> 00:38:13,156 she don't have to come over there. 931 00:38:13,258 --> 00:38:14,724 You know that's where I'm at with it! 932 00:38:14,826 --> 00:38:16,259 We ain't gotta argue about it! 933 00:38:17,829 --> 00:38:19,462 No! Ain't no bitch about to post my daughter 934 00:38:19,564 --> 00:38:20,864 on their social media, either. 935 00:38:20,966 --> 00:38:22,565 I'm not going back and forth with you about that, 936 00:38:22,668 --> 00:38:24,234 and you know that already. So just stop it. 937 00:38:27,506 --> 00:38:29,306 - Lorenzo, the fact that you're almost 40 years old, 938 00:38:29,408 --> 00:38:31,308 and you don't think that's inappropriate for somebody 939 00:38:31,410 --> 00:38:33,943 to post somebody else's child is a problem! 940 00:38:34,046 --> 00:38:36,246 - Well like I said, she erased it, she took it down. 941 00:38:36,348 --> 00:38:38,448 - Lorenzo knows all of my trigger points 942 00:38:38,550 --> 00:38:40,383 that gets me really upset. 943 00:38:40,485 --> 00:38:44,354 Every time I think I have a little inkling that 944 00:38:44,456 --> 00:38:47,857 I'm gonna go back with him, oh my god, he does some [bleep] 945 00:38:47,959 --> 00:38:49,993 that just says huh, I know why I left, 946 00:38:50,095 --> 00:38:51,961 and I'm never coming back. Like, seriously. 947 00:38:52,064 --> 00:38:53,863 You are a [bleep] ass man and that's why I don't want 948 00:38:53,965 --> 00:38:55,065 to have no conversation with you! 949 00:38:55,167 --> 00:38:57,133 [bleep] off and [bleep] you! 950 00:38:57,235 --> 00:38:59,402 [bleep] him, I'm so tired of that bullshit. 951 00:39:02,274 --> 00:39:08,244 - ♪ 952 00:39:17,989 --> 00:39:19,622 - MARKUS: Okay guys, Brandi will be by, 953 00:39:19,725 --> 00:39:21,257 we'll get her next. 954 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,326 Alright, thanks guys. Okay. - [phone rings] 955 00:39:25,864 --> 00:39:27,697 - Hey, hey Brandi. - BRANDI: Hey, Markus. 956 00:39:27,799 --> 00:39:29,132 - What's going on? 957 00:39:29,234 --> 00:39:31,000 - BRANDI: Um, don't be mad at me. 958 00:39:31,103 --> 00:39:32,969 - Why would I be mad at you? 959 00:39:33,071 --> 00:39:35,505 - BRANDI: I gotta cancel the interview today. 960 00:39:35,607 --> 00:39:37,173 - MARKUS: What's going on? 961 00:39:40,379 --> 00:39:42,846 - MARKUS: Let me talk to her real quick. 962 00:39:43,515 --> 00:39:45,014 Hold on one second. 963 00:39:46,885 --> 00:39:48,218 What's going on? 964 00:39:49,287 --> 00:39:50,920 - BRANDI: Um, so something happened, 965 00:39:51,022 --> 00:39:52,522 and I called my doctor back in Detroit, 966 00:39:52,624 --> 00:39:54,023 and he was like, 967 00:39:54,126 --> 00:39:55,592 "Brandi, you need to go to the hospital right now 968 00:39:55,694 --> 00:39:56,926 and get it checked out." 969 00:39:57,028 --> 00:39:58,395 I have no idea what's going on, 970 00:39:58,497 --> 00:40:00,130 but I'm just gonna rush to the hospital. 971 00:40:00,232 --> 00:40:01,598 - MARKUS: I'm sorry to hear that. 972 00:40:01,700 --> 00:40:02,966 Is it anything that we can help with? 973 00:40:05,270 --> 00:40:07,637 - BRANDI: They're worried that it could be cancer. 974 00:40:07,739 --> 00:40:09,339 And they want to make sure, 975 00:40:09,441 --> 00:40:11,741 because of all the cancer stuff that I had 976 00:40:11,843 --> 00:40:13,410 back in the day. - Yeah. 977 00:40:13,512 --> 00:40:17,180 - BRANDI: So, I'm freaking out, honestly, 'cause... 978 00:40:17,282 --> 00:40:19,783 Keep me in your prayers. - MARKUS: Of course. 979 00:40:19,885 --> 00:40:21,985 - BRANDI: I don't know what's going on. 980 00:40:23,455 --> 00:40:24,687 - NARRATOR: Next time on Basketball Wives... 981 00:40:24,790 --> 00:40:28,291 - I want to cordially invite these beautiful baddies 982 00:40:28,393 --> 00:40:32,061 in front of me to a weekend in Vegas 983 00:40:32,164 --> 00:40:34,297 for my birthday this weekend! 984 00:40:35,300 --> 00:40:37,634 - My husband and I are talking about 985 00:40:37,736 --> 00:40:40,537 doing IVF again. - Oh no! 986 00:40:40,639 --> 00:40:41,905 [unintelligible] gonna have a friend? 987 00:40:42,007 --> 00:40:43,239 - Yes. 988 00:40:43,341 --> 00:40:44,674 - Is Gennaro helping with the house? 989 00:40:44,776 --> 00:40:46,042 - Girl, no. 990 00:40:46,144 --> 00:40:48,077 I know you guys have been telling me that I need 991 00:40:48,180 --> 00:40:49,245 to take him to court. 992 00:40:49,347 --> 00:40:50,747 I am going to pray about it. 993 00:40:50,849 --> 00:40:52,182 - How do you know God not saying, 994 00:40:52,284 --> 00:40:54,017 "Walk your ass in that courthouse?" 995 00:40:54,119 --> 00:40:56,019 - I just want you to know that Jackie was like, 996 00:40:56,121 --> 00:40:58,788 "Rocc said that he was gonna make Iman leave her." 997 00:40:58,890 --> 00:41:01,558 - Rocc and I both feel like we're being attacked. 998 00:41:03,628 --> 00:41:06,196 - He was like, "We're having too many issues. 999 00:41:06,298 --> 00:41:09,365 We might want to have a full hysterectomy." 1000 00:41:10,869 --> 00:41:12,368 - WOMAN: Aw yeah. I'm sorry.