1 00:00:01,034 --> 00:00:02,302 - FEMALE NARRATOR: Previously on Basketball Wives. 2 00:00:02,402 --> 00:00:04,805 - We need to get to a good place where we still can 3 00:00:04,905 --> 00:00:06,840 trust each other when it comes to Dash. 4 00:00:06,940 --> 00:00:09,142 - 'Cause our main priority is this little one right here. 5 00:00:09,243 --> 00:00:11,078 - I agree. - You know what I'm saying? 6 00:00:13,814 --> 00:00:15,749 - Me and French, we have all these shows coming up, 7 00:00:15,849 --> 00:00:17,384 so I just want to rehearse. 8 00:00:17,484 --> 00:00:19,086 - A couple of months ago you were like, "I'm done." 9 00:00:19,186 --> 00:00:20,554 End of the day you know, we got her, 10 00:00:20,654 --> 00:00:22,456 I want you to be home. 11 00:00:23,724 --> 00:00:26,326 - If I ever did say I was gonna quit, like, how would you feel? 12 00:00:26,426 --> 00:00:28,795 - Understand that if you leave, you can't come back. 13 00:00:28,896 --> 00:00:30,130 - I'ma think about it. 14 00:00:30,230 --> 00:00:31,899 - Do you want to get married now? 15 00:00:31,999 --> 00:00:33,867 Because there were some words going around 16 00:00:33,967 --> 00:00:35,769 that you're not happy, Angel. 17 00:00:35,869 --> 00:00:36,970 - What? 18 00:00:37,070 --> 00:00:38,238 - Did you talk to Duffey? 19 00:00:38,338 --> 00:00:39,706 She shared this information with me. 20 00:00:39,806 --> 00:00:41,108 - If Duffy wanna get aired out, 21 00:00:41,208 --> 00:00:42,976 she will get aired out, 22 00:00:43,076 --> 00:00:44,745 her relationship will be done today. 23 00:00:44,845 --> 00:00:47,881 - I did things out of care and concern for Angel and Rocc. 24 00:00:47,981 --> 00:00:49,550 - Why are you guys having a conversation 25 00:00:49,650 --> 00:00:51,885 about my man and my relationship? 26 00:00:51,985 --> 00:00:53,520 I'm not having these conversations 27 00:00:53,620 --> 00:00:55,088 about y'all men. 28 00:00:55,189 --> 00:00:56,723 - It's okay. 29 00:00:59,960 --> 00:01:06,099 - ♪ 30 00:01:20,581 --> 00:01:26,520 - ♪ 31 00:01:31,892 --> 00:01:34,561 - Angel. 32 00:01:34,661 --> 00:01:37,998 - Hey, I'm back here. Oh my gosh. 33 00:01:38,098 --> 00:01:40,901 - Angel, this store is amazing. 34 00:01:41,001 --> 00:01:42,402 - You like it? - This is so cool. 35 00:01:42,503 --> 00:01:44,905 You have a whole factory in here. 36 00:01:45,005 --> 00:01:46,640 - I know, we make everything in house, 37 00:01:46,740 --> 00:01:48,542 like sample making, and everything else. 38 00:01:48,642 --> 00:01:50,944 I'm doing tour, you know, like Megan Thee Stallion. 39 00:01:51,111 --> 00:01:53,213 - You make a lot of stuff for her, I see. 40 00:01:53,313 --> 00:01:55,382 This is amazing. I love a woman that's on her shit 41 00:01:55,482 --> 00:01:57,284 when it comes to business. - Thanks, babe. 42 00:01:57,384 --> 00:01:59,119 - So, are you okay from yesterday? 43 00:01:59,152 --> 00:02:00,654 Like, did they stress you out too much? 44 00:02:00,754 --> 00:02:02,222 - Yeah, because I'm like, 45 00:02:02,322 --> 00:02:03,790 "Why is my relationship being discussed so much?" 46 00:02:03,891 --> 00:02:05,292 You know, it was just like, 47 00:02:05,392 --> 00:02:06,627 I don't do that to nobody else. 48 00:02:06,727 --> 00:02:08,529 - I am not surprised that Jackie has been meddling 49 00:02:08,629 --> 00:02:10,464 in Rocc and Angel's relationship, 50 00:02:10,564 --> 00:02:12,499 she's been meddling in Me and Lorenzo's for ten years, 51 00:02:12,599 --> 00:02:14,201 but I know how to laugh her off. 52 00:02:14,301 --> 00:02:15,769 Everybody else doesn't. 53 00:02:15,869 --> 00:02:18,338 - For me, the hardest part was for Rocc to hear that. 54 00:02:18,438 --> 00:02:20,073 You know what I mean? 55 00:02:20,140 --> 00:02:21,508 - And I told Jackie, 56 00:02:21,608 --> 00:02:22,910 "You could have told her that alone." 57 00:02:23,076 --> 00:02:24,378 - Yeah, and she's like, "Sorry," 58 00:02:24,478 --> 00:02:26,246 like, no, your sorry's don't mean shit. 59 00:02:26,346 --> 00:02:28,148 You know what I mean, when you're saying it like that. 60 00:02:28,248 --> 00:02:30,117 I don't want an apology, I want some respect. 61 00:02:30,217 --> 00:02:32,219 I need to take a break from the girls, 62 00:02:32,319 --> 00:02:34,321 because I have so much going on in my life, you know? 63 00:02:34,421 --> 00:02:36,657 I've got my kids, I've got my man to worry about, 64 00:02:36,757 --> 00:02:39,293 and we're getting ready for a new baby, 65 00:02:39,393 --> 00:02:41,728 so I need to really focus on everything that's important 66 00:02:41,828 --> 00:02:43,230 to me right now. 67 00:02:43,330 --> 00:02:44,865 - You know, Jackie when she start Jackie-ing, 68 00:02:44,965 --> 00:02:46,333 it be something different, 69 00:02:46,433 --> 00:02:48,502 but she's coming from a good place most of the time. 70 00:02:48,602 --> 00:02:50,671 - Well you guys got into it, too. 71 00:02:50,771 --> 00:02:52,806 From what I heard, she was telling you something about 72 00:02:52,906 --> 00:02:55,108 getting back with Lorenzo, and I'm like "Why?" 73 00:02:55,209 --> 00:02:57,444 - Jackie is so, wants me to be with Lorenzo. 74 00:02:57,544 --> 00:02:59,012 - You and Lorenzo are completely done? 75 00:02:59,112 --> 00:03:00,280 - You damn right! 76 00:03:00,380 --> 00:03:01,782 Jackie, what you got to say?! 77 00:03:01,882 --> 00:03:03,350 - I really want to see you with Lorenzo. 78 00:03:03,450 --> 00:03:05,319 - Jackie, we are broken up! 79 00:03:05,419 --> 00:03:08,355 - She doesn't understand when things transpire and spiral 80 00:03:08,455 --> 00:03:10,757 so out of control that there's no fixing it anymore. 81 00:03:10,858 --> 00:03:13,193 - She was like that with me and my daughter's father. 82 00:03:13,293 --> 00:03:16,330 Same with Tyreek, like, "Work it out," like, how? 83 00:03:16,430 --> 00:03:18,465 - I would love for my daughter to have her father 84 00:03:18,565 --> 00:03:21,168 be in the household, of course I would love that. 85 00:03:21,268 --> 00:03:23,170 Ever since Lorenzo told me he ended 86 00:03:23,270 --> 00:03:25,439 his domestic partnership with his ex, 87 00:03:25,539 --> 00:03:27,341 things have got a lot better between us. 88 00:03:27,441 --> 00:03:29,209 Now that Lorenzo's still in St. Louis, 89 00:03:29,309 --> 00:03:31,178 and I'm now in Los Angeles, we're trying our best 90 00:03:31,278 --> 00:03:32,846 to be able to co-parent effectively. 91 00:03:32,946 --> 00:03:35,082 - Have you been eating McDonald's every day? 92 00:03:35,182 --> 00:03:37,317 - Yes. No, I had oranges. 93 00:03:37,417 --> 00:03:39,720 - You had oranges? Okay, okay, that was good, then. 94 00:03:42,556 --> 00:03:44,157 - You know, you really been doing better with 95 00:03:44,258 --> 00:03:45,859 this co-parenting thing. 96 00:03:47,995 --> 00:03:50,564 - We have tried our best to be the best parents we can be 97 00:03:50,664 --> 00:03:52,699 to Dash, but I don't know if me and Lorenzo 98 00:03:52,799 --> 00:03:54,334 should be back together. 99 00:03:54,434 --> 00:03:57,104 If Lorenzo could change, I would have no problem. 100 00:03:57,171 --> 00:03:58,705 - Really? 101 00:03:58,805 --> 00:04:00,908 - I always loved my baby daddy, I ain't gonna lie to y'all. 102 00:04:01,041 --> 00:04:02,543 But, you know-- 103 00:04:02,643 --> 00:04:04,411 - Well listen, I'm with you, whatever you decide to do, 104 00:04:04,511 --> 00:04:06,480 I'm with you, you know? 105 00:04:06,580 --> 00:04:08,048 - And when you and Rockstar decide to get married, 106 00:04:08,115 --> 00:04:09,049 I definitely will be there. 107 00:04:09,082 --> 00:04:10,851 - Okay, okay. 108 00:04:12,052 --> 00:04:18,058 - ♪ 109 00:04:22,262 --> 00:04:24,064 - What's up? 110 00:04:24,131 --> 00:04:25,699 - Just texting. 111 00:04:25,799 --> 00:04:27,267 - Texting who? 112 00:04:27,367 --> 00:04:29,703 - Work. - Oh. 113 00:04:31,305 --> 00:04:33,507 - How's work been going? - Great. 114 00:04:33,607 --> 00:04:37,377 - My man, Iman, is a basketball sports agent, 115 00:04:37,477 --> 00:04:40,414 he's changed the lives for many families, 116 00:04:40,514 --> 00:04:43,317 putting them in the right position to be able to really 117 00:04:43,417 --> 00:04:46,653 make money and grow in the sport of basketball. 118 00:04:46,753 --> 00:04:50,390 You making money? - Always. What's up? 119 00:04:50,490 --> 00:04:53,327 - Oh yeah, at Brandi's food tasting, 120 00:04:53,427 --> 00:04:55,596 first of all, okay, you know we did a food tasting, 121 00:04:55,696 --> 00:04:57,631 'cause she's gonna have a cookbook, 122 00:04:57,731 --> 00:05:00,033 but she was trying to think of like a name, 123 00:05:00,133 --> 00:05:01,702 and my mind was like... 124 00:05:01,802 --> 00:05:04,938 "Maximum Flavor." 125 00:05:05,038 --> 00:05:06,607 - I like it. - You like it? 126 00:05:06,707 --> 00:05:07,708 - Yeah. 127 00:05:07,808 --> 00:05:09,476 - I see "Maximum flavor," let me see, 128 00:05:09,576 --> 00:05:10,944 I would like to try it. 129 00:05:11,044 --> 00:05:12,713 - I like the name. 130 00:05:12,813 --> 00:05:14,681 - But you know I was telling you there was all this drama. 131 00:05:14,781 --> 00:05:17,384 Jackie had a conversation with Angel. 132 00:05:17,484 --> 00:05:20,954 She overexagerated what I said. 133 00:05:21,054 --> 00:05:24,358 I was just like, "I'm really worried about Angel," 134 00:05:24,458 --> 00:05:25,926 you know, 'cause her and Roccstar was having issues, 135 00:05:26,059 --> 00:05:28,595 Jackie was like, "Oh, Roccstar got really upset 136 00:05:28,695 --> 00:05:30,964 when I said, you know, about the whole group was like 137 00:05:31,064 --> 00:05:32,966 talking about his business and you kind of like 138 00:05:33,066 --> 00:05:34,535 was the one starting it." 139 00:05:34,635 --> 00:05:36,703 He was like "Yeah, she got one more chance 140 00:05:36,803 --> 00:05:39,573 or I'm gonna make Iman leave her." 141 00:05:39,673 --> 00:05:41,708 - He said these exact [bleep] words. 142 00:05:41,808 --> 00:05:43,877 When he sees her he's going to air her the [bleep] out, 143 00:05:43,977 --> 00:05:48,682 and her man is gonna want to [bleep] leave her the next day. 144 00:05:48,782 --> 00:05:52,786 - I politely let the room know my man ain't going nowhere, 145 00:05:52,886 --> 00:05:54,988 and if he's trying to insinuate that 146 00:05:55,088 --> 00:05:57,724 I'm cheating on Iman, that is like a old tell 147 00:05:57,824 --> 00:05:59,893 that me and Iman have been dealt with, 148 00:06:00,027 --> 00:06:01,595 with people saying I'm with French Montana, 149 00:06:01,695 --> 00:06:03,697 or I'm with this guy, I'm with that guy. 150 00:06:03,797 --> 00:06:06,400 - I mean, all this is, Roccstar's too emotional 151 00:06:06,500 --> 00:06:08,468 for his own good. I mean, his female business, 152 00:06:08,569 --> 00:06:10,537 separate that from real issues. 153 00:06:10,637 --> 00:06:13,207 - Roccstar can't say nothing that hundreds of thousands 154 00:06:13,307 --> 00:06:15,042 of people haven't already said about me. 155 00:06:15,142 --> 00:06:16,743 Iman knows my heart, 156 00:06:16,844 --> 00:06:18,879 and so those things don't even phase us anymore. 157 00:06:19,046 --> 00:06:22,883 Anyway, taking a trip to Vegas will, you know, 158 00:06:23,050 --> 00:06:25,085 make me feel better. 159 00:06:25,185 --> 00:06:27,221 'Cause you know me and French, we have a show. 160 00:06:27,321 --> 00:06:28,856 - Mm. 161 00:06:28,956 --> 00:06:32,392 Speaking of French, have you thought about our conversation? 162 00:06:32,492 --> 00:06:34,595 About you being done DJing? 163 00:06:34,695 --> 00:06:36,230 - What? I said that? - Yeah. 164 00:06:36,330 --> 00:06:37,831 - Oh. 165 00:06:37,931 --> 00:06:40,901 Um, I have been thinking about it, you know? 166 00:06:41,068 --> 00:06:44,605 I'll commit to this being my final show as a DJ, 167 00:06:44,705 --> 00:06:49,643 but I feel like I want to find another career to transition to. 168 00:06:49,743 --> 00:06:54,081 But I mean, that is gonna take up a little of my time. 169 00:06:54,147 --> 00:06:55,516 - I mean, you need to be home. 170 00:06:55,616 --> 00:06:57,384 - I'm going to be doing something, 171 00:06:57,484 --> 00:06:59,353 I'm not just gonna be sitting in the house. 172 00:06:59,453 --> 00:07:00,854 Just so you know. 173 00:07:01,021 --> 00:07:02,556 So I don't wanna disappoint you. - Nobody's saying that. 174 00:07:02,656 --> 00:07:04,858 - I want to bring a lot to the table, 175 00:07:05,025 --> 00:07:06,760 so we can really elevate as a family. 176 00:07:06,860 --> 00:07:09,162 Growing up, I was taught to work hard, 177 00:07:09,263 --> 00:07:11,498 my father was really tough on me, 178 00:07:11,598 --> 00:07:13,567 and so for me to just sit around at home 179 00:07:13,667 --> 00:07:18,071 and let a man pay for things, it just, it'll never be me. 180 00:07:18,172 --> 00:07:20,541 - To me, the main thing is the family life 181 00:07:20,641 --> 00:07:22,576 I'm having right now is what I was hoping 182 00:07:22,676 --> 00:07:24,411 or what I was wishing I had when I was growing up. 183 00:07:24,511 --> 00:07:26,880 - Like, this is important to me. 184 00:07:28,182 --> 00:07:31,285 - Alright, if that's what you want to do, I'll support that. 185 00:07:31,385 --> 00:07:37,524 - ♪ 186 00:07:42,829 --> 00:07:46,667 - Hi, guys. I'm so happy to have you here. 187 00:07:46,767 --> 00:07:49,336 - I need a fun workout moment, so I brought 188 00:07:49,436 --> 00:07:52,239 Jackie and June along, no arguments please. 189 00:07:53,273 --> 00:07:54,641 - Hang time, huh? 190 00:07:54,741 --> 00:07:57,144 - MALAYSIA: So, is it gonna be a good sweat? 191 00:07:58,212 --> 00:07:59,513 - So, you're gonna take the hammock and lift up 192 00:07:59,613 --> 00:08:01,081 your right ankle. 193 00:08:02,616 --> 00:08:04,284 - Oh, lord. My leg. 194 00:08:04,384 --> 00:08:05,819 - INSTRUCTOR: Is it still too tight? 195 00:08:05,919 --> 00:08:07,454 Alright, let's start at the knee. Bend at the knee. 196 00:08:07,554 --> 00:08:09,756 Bring it to the side, one side of the kneecap. 197 00:08:09,857 --> 00:08:11,458 Alright, then we're gonna take the left leg back behind us. 198 00:08:11,558 --> 00:08:13,026 Start to spin. 199 00:08:13,060 --> 00:08:14,228 - Woo. 200 00:08:14,328 --> 00:08:16,930 - Wait, how did you spin? 201 00:08:18,398 --> 00:08:19,733 - Spin. 202 00:08:23,537 --> 00:08:25,138 - What'd I do wrong? 203 00:08:27,708 --> 00:08:30,210 - I have done flying yoga before-- 204 00:08:30,310 --> 00:08:32,045 - Right leg comes around - [bleep] 205 00:08:32,145 --> 00:08:34,047 - I'm gonna have a nip slip any second, 206 00:08:34,081 --> 00:08:35,549 I'm telling you guys. 207 00:08:35,649 --> 00:08:38,118 I feel dizzy. Drea... 208 00:08:39,820 --> 00:08:41,688 - Great job Malaysia, great. 209 00:08:41,788 --> 00:08:43,590 - I actually have a swing in my basement. 210 00:08:43,690 --> 00:08:45,859 - She's already ready to go upside down. 211 00:08:47,127 --> 00:08:48,962 - I ain't freaky though. 212 00:08:49,062 --> 00:08:50,797 - INSTRUCTOR: Alright guys, I feel like you are 213 00:08:50,898 --> 00:08:52,766 professionals at this point, right? 214 00:08:52,866 --> 00:08:56,470 - That was so much fun. - Oh my god. 215 00:08:56,570 --> 00:08:58,605 - I needed that after all that mess 216 00:08:58,705 --> 00:09:01,675 at Brandi's food tasting - What happened? 217 00:09:01,775 --> 00:09:03,911 - People be trying to twist my intentions, 218 00:09:04,011 --> 00:09:05,646 even when I'm just trying to help them out. 219 00:09:05,746 --> 00:09:07,147 I'm gonna be very diligent going forward, 220 00:09:07,247 --> 00:09:08,715 and speaking to the people, 221 00:09:08,815 --> 00:09:10,517 'cause I know there's probably some people 222 00:09:10,617 --> 00:09:12,186 that got some things they want to say to me, 223 00:09:12,286 --> 00:09:13,787 and they just aren't, because they're like, 224 00:09:13,887 --> 00:09:15,289 "We don't feel like hearing her big ass mouth," 225 00:09:15,389 --> 00:09:16,723 but I'm gonna address it, 226 00:09:16,823 --> 00:09:18,559 because I care about all you guys. 227 00:09:18,659 --> 00:09:20,460 - Listen, if you're passionate about something, 228 00:09:20,561 --> 00:09:22,729 be authentic in that moment. 229 00:09:22,829 --> 00:09:25,332 - I really feel like everybody needs to move ahead, 230 00:09:25,432 --> 00:09:28,168 go forward from that drama that happened at the tasting, 231 00:09:28,268 --> 00:09:30,604 and all that's been going on in the group. 232 00:09:30,704 --> 00:09:32,940 - We can't just keep brushing stuff under the rug, 233 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,176 we know from years past that when we do that, 234 00:09:36,276 --> 00:09:37,911 in this group, what happens? 235 00:09:38,045 --> 00:09:39,847 It ends up being a blow up, you know? 236 00:09:39,947 --> 00:09:43,817 - You are right. My old method was to just avoid it, 237 00:09:43,917 --> 00:09:48,322 but I see that everyone don't really adapt to that 238 00:09:48,422 --> 00:09:49,857 kind of things, so-- 239 00:09:49,957 --> 00:09:52,059 - But we got to start sharing some of this stuff 240 00:09:52,092 --> 00:09:54,261 that is between us to get through it. 241 00:09:54,361 --> 00:09:55,729 You know what, you guys? 242 00:09:55,829 --> 00:09:57,931 I do a podcast, and I want to do one with all of us. 243 00:09:58,065 --> 00:09:59,766 Where we're all there together, 244 00:09:59,867 --> 00:10:01,969 and we just talk about life and what we're doing, 245 00:10:02,069 --> 00:10:05,873 we're in the Basketball Wives family for life. 246 00:10:05,973 --> 00:10:08,775 I feel like we start building the foundation 247 00:10:08,876 --> 00:10:11,645 by coming together, and we can do it on the podcast 248 00:10:11,745 --> 00:10:14,214 and everybody will feel like they're coming there, 249 00:10:14,314 --> 00:10:16,583 they need to put it out on the table and no bullshit, 250 00:10:16,683 --> 00:10:18,418 'cause I'm not gonna allow that, 251 00:10:18,519 --> 00:10:20,120 you guys already know how I get down. 252 00:10:20,220 --> 00:10:23,190 - I want to move in a positive direction. 253 00:10:24,324 --> 00:10:25,993 - JACKIE: You're gonna be my guest of honor at the podcast. 254 00:10:26,093 --> 00:10:28,795 - I think Jackie has the right idea when she says that 255 00:10:28,896 --> 00:10:30,864 we need to communicate, 256 00:10:30,964 --> 00:10:33,433 because I shove everything under the rug, 257 00:10:33,534 --> 00:10:36,170 and that's when shit goes wrong. 258 00:10:36,270 --> 00:10:38,672 - It's just gonna be a moment for us ladies to come together, 259 00:10:38,772 --> 00:10:41,341 and let me handle everything. 260 00:10:45,312 --> 00:10:47,948 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 261 00:10:48,048 --> 00:10:51,552 - Rocc and I were talking about putting the baby stuff, 262 00:10:51,652 --> 00:10:54,321 the basinet, the crib, in here in your room. 263 00:10:54,421 --> 00:10:56,089 - Don't know about that. 264 00:11:01,395 --> 00:11:02,963 - You are a [bleep] ass man, 265 00:11:03,063 --> 00:11:04,665 that's why I don't want to have no conversation with you 266 00:11:04,765 --> 00:11:06,233 [bleep] off and [bleep] you! 267 00:11:09,645 --> 00:11:15,184 - ♪ 268 00:11:15,284 --> 00:11:17,620 - SALESMAN: Here we got our selection of mic's. 269 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,255 This is your-- - That's the one I have. 270 00:11:19,355 --> 00:11:20,923 - Yeah, that's the SM7B. 271 00:11:21,023 --> 00:11:23,425 It was the radio mic in the '70s. 272 00:11:23,525 --> 00:11:25,261 And then you've got your Nuemann, 273 00:11:25,361 --> 00:11:26,729 that's the Billie Eilish mic, 274 00:11:26,829 --> 00:11:28,797 where she picks up all that nice little sexy whispering 275 00:11:28,898 --> 00:11:31,267 - This is Jackie Marie Christine... 276 00:11:31,367 --> 00:11:32,801 - I'm sorry. 277 00:11:32,902 --> 00:11:36,739 - Welcome to my podcast, this is a basketball wife... 278 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:39,675 - JACKIE: You better cut it out. 279 00:11:39,775 --> 00:11:42,745 - Hi, guys. - Hey, Noria. 280 00:11:42,845 --> 00:11:45,781 How are you? - How are you? 281 00:11:45,881 --> 00:11:48,951 - So yeah, I need to buy some stuff, because I want to get 282 00:11:49,051 --> 00:11:51,487 the ladies together and do a podcast where we can all 283 00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:53,756 kind of share our experiences. 284 00:11:53,856 --> 00:11:55,791 The main topic of the conversation is 285 00:11:55,891 --> 00:11:58,160 life after basketball. And during. 286 00:11:58,260 --> 00:12:00,629 And I want to talk about the journey from playing 287 00:12:00,729 --> 00:12:02,498 to you know, what they go to next, 288 00:12:02,598 --> 00:12:04,199 and then to where they end up. 289 00:12:04,300 --> 00:12:06,802 You know, my husband went from playing basketball to coaching. 290 00:12:06,902 --> 00:12:09,071 Now, he's back on the road, like with coaching, 291 00:12:09,171 --> 00:12:11,941 it feels like my husband's going off to play again. 292 00:12:12,041 --> 00:12:14,843 - It's literally the same, but worse, because 293 00:12:14,944 --> 00:12:18,047 they're working longer hours, 294 00:12:18,147 --> 00:12:20,149 and even through the summers, 295 00:12:20,249 --> 00:12:22,718 and the breaks that we get to have, coaches don't get them. 296 00:12:22,818 --> 00:12:25,054 - Yeah, you know, I'm crying silently by myself. 297 00:12:25,154 --> 00:12:26,956 A lot of people don't know about that, 298 00:12:27,056 --> 00:12:28,857 so it's a lot that we go through, 299 00:12:28,958 --> 00:12:30,359 let's just band together, y'all. 300 00:12:30,459 --> 00:12:32,528 A lot of times, the women in the group do focus 301 00:12:32,628 --> 00:12:36,098 on their differences, but we are all part of a basketball family, 302 00:12:36,198 --> 00:12:37,900 and we should come together in that way. 303 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:39,568 So, in this podcast, 304 00:12:39,668 --> 00:12:42,137 they're gonna see how similar we all are. 305 00:12:42,238 --> 00:12:44,473 - I invited all the ladies, Malaysia will definitely 306 00:12:44,573 --> 00:12:46,208 be coming. 307 00:12:46,308 --> 00:12:47,910 Let me ask you, where are you guys right now? 308 00:12:48,010 --> 00:12:49,812 Are you still kind of in the same place? 309 00:12:49,912 --> 00:12:52,014 - I would say the latest thing, really, 310 00:12:52,114 --> 00:12:56,352 that irritated me the most was bringing Zell around. 311 00:12:56,485 --> 00:12:59,355 Anybody that bring Zell know what they're doing. 312 00:12:59,488 --> 00:13:01,257 - Girl, stop talking to me. Stop talking to me. 313 00:13:01,357 --> 00:13:04,393 - No, you shut up and you stop talking. 314 00:13:05,594 --> 00:13:08,030 You almost tried to like set me up in a sense, 315 00:13:08,130 --> 00:13:11,700 or you tried to play me, with having somebody be reckless. 316 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,970 Don't put the one that literally Rocked with you 317 00:13:15,070 --> 00:13:17,139 the hardest and was by her side, 318 00:13:17,239 --> 00:13:19,975 on the phone with her all day, every day, at night, 319 00:13:20,075 --> 00:13:22,077 in the bed with my husband, we on the phone, 320 00:13:22,177 --> 00:13:24,847 we face timing, we talking and everything else, 321 00:13:24,947 --> 00:13:27,082 and you try to like, play me. 322 00:13:27,182 --> 00:13:29,018 - JACKIE: I totally get it. 323 00:13:29,118 --> 00:13:30,953 And we gonna work through it, however we have to. 324 00:13:31,053 --> 00:13:32,621 We can make it through. 325 00:13:32,721 --> 00:13:34,623 Relationships-- - Sad, thinking about it. 326 00:13:34,723 --> 00:13:36,659 - This is the thing, you talking about it 327 00:13:36,759 --> 00:13:38,761 is gonna work itself out. 328 00:13:38,861 --> 00:13:40,596 - You work through your differences, Brandi, 329 00:13:40,696 --> 00:13:42,698 and she's done some things, obviously, 330 00:13:42,798 --> 00:13:44,166 that you feel was hurtful, 331 00:13:44,266 --> 00:13:45,534 she feels you've done some things that was hurtful, 332 00:13:45,634 --> 00:13:46,669 and that's, we-- 333 00:13:46,769 --> 00:13:48,370 - I haven't done nothing to her. 334 00:13:48,470 --> 00:13:51,874 I been through so much in the last, like, 335 00:13:51,974 --> 00:13:54,009 even couple of months, you know? 336 00:13:54,109 --> 00:13:57,346 Like, dealing with my dad, like. 337 00:13:57,479 --> 00:13:59,615 This week, I've been feeling really hormonal, 338 00:13:59,715 --> 00:14:01,383 and I don't know what's going on with me, 339 00:14:01,483 --> 00:14:06,155 but I don't hope to be back friends with Malaysia at all. 340 00:14:06,255 --> 00:14:07,957 - I understand. - BRANDI: It's just a lot. 341 00:14:08,057 --> 00:14:09,225 - We done been through a lot, 342 00:14:09,325 --> 00:14:11,060 we been knowing each other for a very long time, 343 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,995 we in each other's life for the rest our lives, 344 00:14:13,095 --> 00:14:15,130 so I hope this podcast is a time for us to be a sisterhood. 345 00:14:15,231 --> 00:14:17,032 - We're here to support you, 346 00:14:17,132 --> 00:14:18,601 whatever you need, we're here for you. 347 00:14:18,701 --> 00:14:20,302 No matter what. 348 00:14:22,638 --> 00:14:26,775 - ♪ 349 00:14:26,875 --> 00:14:28,544 - ANGEL: Azari, you found your phone? 350 00:14:28,644 --> 00:14:30,779 - AZARI: Yeah, it was in the car. 351 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,514 - It was in the car? I just told you that. 352 00:14:32,615 --> 00:14:33,916 - AZARI: I know. 353 00:14:34,016 --> 00:14:36,051 - I'm taking a break from the girls right now 354 00:14:36,151 --> 00:14:37,820 because I need to really focus on this pregnancy. 355 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,656 How was school? High school. 356 00:14:40,756 --> 00:14:43,259 - I know. Nervous a little bit, but... 357 00:14:43,359 --> 00:14:44,493 - ANGEL: Why? 358 00:14:44,593 --> 00:14:45,861 - I don't know what to expect. 359 00:14:45,961 --> 00:14:47,496 - Nobody's messing with you, right? 360 00:14:47,596 --> 00:14:49,131 - No. - ANGEL: Okay. 361 00:14:49,231 --> 00:14:52,935 Well, I wanted to talk to you about something. 362 00:14:53,035 --> 00:14:54,770 - Okay, oh great. 363 00:14:54,870 --> 00:14:57,139 - So, Rocc and I were talking, right, 364 00:14:57,239 --> 00:15:01,377 about the baby and stuff, and um, how we're gonna, 365 00:15:01,477 --> 00:15:04,346 you know, go about putting all his stuff, 366 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:08,384 the baby's stuff, the basinet, the crib, in here. 367 00:15:09,585 --> 00:15:11,420 In here, in your room. 368 00:15:12,221 --> 00:15:14,890 - Don't know about that. I don't know. 369 00:15:14,990 --> 00:15:16,926 - Not to share a room with you or anything, but I was 370 00:15:17,026 --> 00:15:18,427 just thinking maybe-- 371 00:15:18,460 --> 00:15:20,696 - I'd rather do that than him take my room. 372 00:15:20,796 --> 00:15:22,231 - You would share a room with a baby? 373 00:15:22,331 --> 00:15:24,233 - Yeah, I like my room. - No way. 374 00:15:24,333 --> 00:15:26,268 A brand new baby? Like, stinky diaper... 375 00:15:26,435 --> 00:15:27,937 - Oh, I'm not gonna change a diaper, 376 00:15:28,037 --> 00:15:29,805 that's a little too much, but... 377 00:15:29,905 --> 00:15:31,574 - I mean, what's wrong with the guest room? 378 00:15:31,674 --> 00:15:33,943 - Mom, my room's bigger, you know what I'm saying? 379 00:15:34,043 --> 00:15:35,444 - This room is a little bigger. 380 00:15:35,511 --> 00:15:37,446 All the bedrooms are on the top floor, 381 00:15:37,479 --> 00:15:39,582 and there's one extra bedroom on the second floor 382 00:15:39,682 --> 00:15:41,450 that we use as a guestroom. 383 00:15:41,483 --> 00:15:43,519 I can't have the baby all the way down 384 00:15:43,619 --> 00:15:45,054 on a different floor from me, 385 00:15:45,154 --> 00:15:47,156 how am I gonna keep going up and down, you know? 386 00:15:47,256 --> 00:15:48,724 It doesn't make any sense. 387 00:15:48,824 --> 00:15:50,259 If you don't want the guestroom, I mean, 388 00:15:50,359 --> 00:15:52,127 the only other option would be the back house. 389 00:15:52,228 --> 00:15:54,630 - Yeah, no, that's fine. I'm good. 390 00:15:54,730 --> 00:15:56,065 - Azari, come look. 391 00:15:56,165 --> 00:15:58,367 Come look at my situation, okay? 392 00:15:58,467 --> 00:16:00,970 Amani's room is all the way down there, okay? 393 00:16:01,070 --> 00:16:03,272 If I were to put her downstairs on the floor 394 00:16:03,372 --> 00:16:05,541 by herself, that's like-- - Oh, she'll be fine. 395 00:16:05,641 --> 00:16:08,577 - No, she won't be fine. - She has to get used to it. 396 00:16:08,677 --> 00:16:11,780 - I'm gonna show you the guest house, let's do that. Come on. 397 00:16:11,881 --> 00:16:14,116 Because you need to really think about this. 398 00:16:14,216 --> 00:16:16,285 Could you imagine your own freedom? 399 00:16:16,418 --> 00:16:20,155 Back house, like you don't have to worry about anything. 400 00:16:20,256 --> 00:16:22,625 Can you imagine having your own privacy, 401 00:16:22,725 --> 00:16:24,426 like away from us? 402 00:16:24,493 --> 00:16:26,495 You don't have to hear a baby crying. 403 00:16:26,595 --> 00:16:28,731 I feel bad, you know, but at the end of the day, 404 00:16:28,831 --> 00:16:30,799 the guest house would be ideal for Azari 405 00:16:30,900 --> 00:16:33,135 because he'll feel like he has more privacy 406 00:16:33,235 --> 00:16:35,204 and he won't be bothered as much by us. 407 00:16:35,304 --> 00:16:37,439 I mean, what high school boy wouldn't like his own house? 408 00:16:37,506 --> 00:16:41,010 Look, look at this. Your own space. 409 00:16:42,978 --> 00:16:45,080 Look, two bedrooms, you've got a gym in here. 410 00:16:45,180 --> 00:16:47,950 You can work out every day. 411 00:16:48,050 --> 00:16:49,618 You got your own view. 412 00:16:49,718 --> 00:16:51,353 I mean, look at this. 413 00:16:51,453 --> 00:16:53,022 You know there's nothing I don't do for you. 414 00:16:53,122 --> 00:16:54,790 Look, you got your own basketball court 415 00:16:54,890 --> 00:16:56,325 with your name on it, you know? 416 00:16:56,458 --> 00:16:58,127 I want the best for you, you know. 417 00:16:58,227 --> 00:16:59,995 I'm just kind of in a tight spot, 418 00:17:00,095 --> 00:17:02,731 because I don't know exactly where to put the baby 419 00:17:02,831 --> 00:17:05,334 and I want you to know that even when I do have the baby, 420 00:17:05,467 --> 00:17:09,605 like I'm gonna do my best to, you know, 421 00:17:09,705 --> 00:17:14,076 divide my time up with you, your sister, you know, 422 00:17:14,176 --> 00:17:16,712 your new brother, you know, work and everything. 423 00:17:16,812 --> 00:17:20,249 - Are you sure? 'Cause I don't want you to, you know, 424 00:17:20,416 --> 00:17:22,985 be focusing on everybody else and not me. 425 00:17:23,085 --> 00:17:25,487 You know, I don't want to feel like that. 426 00:17:25,588 --> 00:17:29,058 I'm just saying, with Amani, when she was first born, 427 00:17:29,158 --> 00:17:31,193 that was what I felt like. - Really? 428 00:17:31,293 --> 00:17:34,930 - Yeah. - Why did you feel that way? 429 00:17:35,030 --> 00:17:37,266 - Well, because, I don't know, 430 00:17:37,433 --> 00:17:39,435 you probably just put more time on her, you know, 431 00:17:39,501 --> 00:17:41,937 and I felt like you weren't putting time on me sometimes, 432 00:17:42,037 --> 00:17:44,039 and you know, it would just get to me. 433 00:17:44,139 --> 00:17:45,941 - You know, I know it's been a struggle for my son, 434 00:17:46,041 --> 00:17:47,509 because his father hasn't been around. 435 00:17:47,610 --> 00:17:49,245 I have something I want to talk to you about. 436 00:17:49,345 --> 00:17:50,980 When we went shopping the other day, 437 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:53,249 and the guy was talking to me, 438 00:17:53,349 --> 00:17:56,185 when he asked you about your father? 439 00:17:56,285 --> 00:17:58,954 - Well, I don't know how to say it like he died, 440 00:17:59,054 --> 00:18:01,357 I don't like to say that. 441 00:18:01,457 --> 00:18:04,827 - No, don't cry. You do have a father. 442 00:18:04,927 --> 00:18:08,664 Being a mom and dad his whole life has been hard for me, 443 00:18:08,764 --> 00:18:12,034 but I do the best that I can, I've sacrificed a lot. 444 00:18:12,134 --> 00:18:15,004 - Spending time with you is, like, important. 445 00:18:15,104 --> 00:18:17,706 I mean, it would be cool if you could at least 446 00:18:17,806 --> 00:18:19,074 come to my games too, though. 447 00:18:19,174 --> 00:18:20,542 'Cause you're my mom, 448 00:18:20,643 --> 00:18:22,044 and you're the only one I have, basically. 449 00:18:22,144 --> 00:18:24,446 - Yeah. 450 00:18:30,519 --> 00:18:32,288 - You don't have to feel bad, it's okay. 451 00:18:32,421 --> 00:18:37,459 I know, I just, I know that, um, I work a lot, you know? 452 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,596 And I know I'm your only parent, you know 453 00:18:40,696 --> 00:18:43,933 and that is, you know, like the responsibility 454 00:18:44,033 --> 00:18:47,236 that I have, and I don't ever want you to feel any kind of 455 00:18:47,336 --> 00:18:49,505 neglect or anything like that. 456 00:18:49,605 --> 00:18:52,107 I feel guilty of course, as any parent does, you know? 457 00:18:52,207 --> 00:18:54,877 But, it just means I just have to do better. 458 00:18:54,977 --> 00:18:57,980 - AZARI: Are you okay? 459 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,482 - I'm sorry. 460 00:19:08,057 --> 00:19:11,393 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 461 00:19:12,027 --> 00:19:13,929 - Oh, hey Laysia. 462 00:19:14,029 --> 00:19:17,399 - Hey, Momma. - Hey, my love. Hi, baby. 463 00:19:17,433 --> 00:19:19,702 - Showing up late, this is just typical. 464 00:19:19,802 --> 00:19:22,137 And it's just like, Malaysia, get your [bleep] together. 465 00:19:26,876 --> 00:19:32,815 - ♪ 466 00:19:36,152 --> 00:19:39,455 - It is my dream and my hope and my truest desire 467 00:19:39,555 --> 00:19:42,091 for these ladies to use my podcast 468 00:19:42,191 --> 00:19:43,959 as not only a way to come together, 469 00:19:44,060 --> 00:19:46,328 but to find common ground with one another. 470 00:19:46,429 --> 00:19:49,565 But I certainly got my work cut out for me. 471 00:19:49,665 --> 00:19:52,034 Hey. 472 00:19:52,134 --> 00:19:54,437 - Okay. - JACKIE: You look amazing. 473 00:19:54,537 --> 00:19:57,940 You smell so good. Girl, I haven't seen you in a minute. 474 00:19:58,040 --> 00:19:59,775 I'm glad you came here a little early, 475 00:19:59,875 --> 00:20:02,011 because I wanted to know how are you feeling since 476 00:20:02,111 --> 00:20:04,613 everything that happened? - Girl, it's like-- 477 00:20:04,714 --> 00:20:07,116 - Come get a drink, come get a drink. 478 00:20:07,216 --> 00:20:09,919 - The situation, it's just like confusing to me. 479 00:20:10,019 --> 00:20:12,755 The way Angel seemed so upset, 480 00:20:12,855 --> 00:20:15,591 the way Roccstar disrespected me 481 00:20:15,691 --> 00:20:17,626 and was threatening, like, my relationship, 482 00:20:17,727 --> 00:20:19,662 I just wanted to leave that situation behind-- 483 00:20:19,762 --> 00:20:20,930 - Me too. 484 00:20:21,030 --> 00:20:22,331 - DUFFEY: I'm good on Roccstar. 485 00:20:22,431 --> 00:20:23,766 I don't have to hang out with him, 486 00:20:23,866 --> 00:20:25,534 and at the end of the day, last time I checked, 487 00:20:25,634 --> 00:20:27,670 whenever I'm in the bed, I don't never see Roccstar 488 00:20:27,770 --> 00:20:29,405 to the right or the left, 489 00:20:29,505 --> 00:20:31,107 so he shouldn't know nothing about my personal business. 490 00:20:31,207 --> 00:20:33,008 - What I want to tell you is... 491 00:20:33,109 --> 00:20:34,343 I need to drink the rest of this. 492 00:20:34,443 --> 00:20:36,078 I was trying to hold on, 493 00:20:36,178 --> 00:20:37,480 so I could have it during the podcast. 494 00:20:37,613 --> 00:20:39,081 - DUFFEY: Have you spoke to Angel? 495 00:20:39,181 --> 00:20:41,283 - You know what? I have spoke to Angel. 496 00:20:41,384 --> 00:20:44,653 - ANGEL: I just felt like a lot of the girls 497 00:20:44,754 --> 00:20:46,322 and everybody was just in my business a lot. 498 00:20:46,422 --> 00:20:48,257 - I'm so sorry, Angel, and I might have, you know, 499 00:20:48,357 --> 00:20:50,326 overstepped my bounds a little bit. 500 00:20:50,426 --> 00:20:52,128 And um, she was just kind of like, 501 00:20:52,228 --> 00:20:54,330 "Jackie, I just really want to know, 502 00:20:54,430 --> 00:20:57,533 are you sure that you really told me that?" 503 00:20:57,633 --> 00:20:59,702 And I said, "Of course." And she was like, "Okay." 504 00:20:59,802 --> 00:21:03,172 But, she has a lot going on, so she couldn't make it today. 505 00:21:05,474 --> 00:21:07,476 - I mean, I wish Angel was going to be here, 506 00:21:07,643 --> 00:21:09,445 I want to work this out soon, 507 00:21:09,545 --> 00:21:11,247 because it might ruin our friendship. 508 00:21:11,347 --> 00:21:12,748 - I'm so glad about today, 509 00:21:12,848 --> 00:21:14,650 and I'm so glad we're gonna get to share in our life. 510 00:21:14,750 --> 00:21:17,186 - You know what I love about podcasts compared to radio, 511 00:21:17,286 --> 00:21:19,221 is you can say what the -- you want to say. 512 00:21:19,321 --> 00:21:20,856 - Why don't you do one? 513 00:21:20,956 --> 00:21:22,925 'Cause I know you're talking about retiring from DJing, 514 00:21:23,025 --> 00:21:25,761 that's another outlet you can build that'd be in your alley. 515 00:21:25,861 --> 00:21:28,664 - I'm thinking about executive produce my album. 516 00:21:28,764 --> 00:21:30,266 I want to be like a female DJ Khaled, 517 00:21:30,366 --> 00:21:32,134 'cause I have an ear. 518 00:21:32,234 --> 00:21:34,470 DJ Khaled went from being just a DJ, 519 00:21:34,603 --> 00:21:37,139 he now executive produces his own record. 520 00:21:37,239 --> 00:21:39,942 If I'm producing, I get to be in the studio 521 00:21:40,042 --> 00:21:41,610 and be close to my family, 522 00:21:41,711 --> 00:21:43,612 and I don't have to go on a 40-day tour. 523 00:21:43,679 --> 00:21:45,347 - You're gonna kill that. That's right. 524 00:21:45,448 --> 00:21:46,849 - Cheers. - Cheers. 525 00:21:46,949 --> 00:21:48,784 Cheers mamacita. 526 00:21:50,619 --> 00:21:56,525 - ♪ 527 00:22:06,669 --> 00:22:08,871 - Hey! 528 00:22:11,674 --> 00:22:14,543 You look nice. - Thank you, you look cute. 529 00:22:14,643 --> 00:22:18,748 - How you think this podcast is gonna go today, honey? 530 00:22:20,049 --> 00:22:22,685 - I know what the subject is supposed to be, but-- 531 00:22:22,785 --> 00:22:25,521 - What is it supposed to be? - Life after basketball, 532 00:22:25,654 --> 00:22:27,690 or life being a basketball wife, or something like that. 533 00:22:27,790 --> 00:22:29,592 - Okay. 534 00:22:29,692 --> 00:22:33,429 - Hey now, hey! - Hi, nice seeing you again. 535 00:22:34,797 --> 00:22:36,832 - Can we have another champagne for Brandi, please? 536 00:22:36,932 --> 00:22:38,267 Thank you. 537 00:22:38,367 --> 00:22:40,002 I just want y'all to know that this week, 538 00:22:40,102 --> 00:22:41,337 me and Lorenzo are on good terms, 539 00:22:41,437 --> 00:22:42,805 I texted her I said, "What you doing?" 540 00:22:42,905 --> 00:22:44,106 I said, "What you doing?" 541 00:22:44,206 --> 00:22:46,375 He said, um, I said, "Buy me something." 542 00:22:46,475 --> 00:22:48,744 You talking about, "Thanks for checking on me, 543 00:22:48,844 --> 00:22:50,413 and what you doing?" 544 00:22:50,513 --> 00:22:52,415 I said, "I'm about to work," he says, "Okay." 545 00:22:52,515 --> 00:22:54,617 I said, "Okay." We're in a good spirit today. 546 00:22:56,452 --> 00:22:59,388 - Ooh, hey. Look at you being cute. 547 00:22:59,488 --> 00:23:01,190 Give me a hug. 548 00:23:01,290 --> 00:23:03,125 - You got cheesecake. - Mm-hmm. 549 00:23:03,225 --> 00:23:04,827 I brought, you know, olive branch. 550 00:23:04,927 --> 00:23:07,463 So, how you think this is gonna be today? 551 00:23:07,630 --> 00:23:09,398 - I have no idea what to expect. 552 00:23:09,498 --> 00:23:10,866 - What do you think about the other ladies? 553 00:23:10,966 --> 00:23:13,269 I haven't seen them since our gender reveal. 554 00:23:13,369 --> 00:23:14,904 - So, I don't know. We'll see how it goes. 555 00:23:15,004 --> 00:23:16,839 - Yeah, well, we'll see. 556 00:23:16,939 --> 00:23:19,642 Even though things are weird after the gender reveal-- 557 00:23:19,708 --> 00:23:22,712 - It said, "I got a taste for some out of wedlock 558 00:23:22,812 --> 00:23:24,680 baby shower food." 559 00:23:24,780 --> 00:23:27,450 The post that you made today is shady. 560 00:23:27,583 --> 00:23:29,719 - I thought it was funny, so, I mean... 561 00:23:29,819 --> 00:23:31,721 - I don't think it was appropriate. 562 00:23:31,821 --> 00:23:33,856 - This is time for them to get to know me 563 00:23:33,956 --> 00:23:36,459 and see that I'm funny, I like to have a good time, 564 00:23:36,592 --> 00:23:38,360 and they're gonna be like, 565 00:23:38,461 --> 00:23:39,962 "Okay, that girl didn't mean no harm by that." 566 00:23:40,062 --> 00:23:41,497 Wish me luck. 567 00:23:43,599 --> 00:23:46,602 - Hey, girl. - How are you, mamacita? 568 00:23:49,071 --> 00:23:51,774 - Hi, Mia, I didn't even see you, mamacita. 569 00:23:51,874 --> 00:23:53,509 I'm so glad you could come. Come on. 570 00:23:55,678 --> 00:23:58,881 - I have not seen Mia since the shit that she has pulled 571 00:23:58,981 --> 00:24:00,616 at Angel's gender reveal. 572 00:24:00,649 --> 00:24:03,352 She gives me weird bitch vibes, 573 00:24:03,452 --> 00:24:06,522 and I'm just like, "Girl, I don't have time, bye." 574 00:24:07,823 --> 00:24:10,626 - You guys, I want to thank you all for coming. 575 00:24:10,693 --> 00:24:12,728 This podcast today touches home with me 576 00:24:12,828 --> 00:24:15,030 because it's my ladies, it's my sisters, 577 00:24:15,131 --> 00:24:16,432 and in some way, shape, or form, 578 00:24:16,532 --> 00:24:18,200 we're all basketball wives, 579 00:24:18,300 --> 00:24:20,369 we talking about our life, our experiences, 580 00:24:20,469 --> 00:24:22,638 the good, if you want to share a little bit of bad, 581 00:24:22,705 --> 00:24:24,540 you can, and just really opening up 582 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,575 so the world can get to know us. 583 00:24:26,609 --> 00:24:28,744 Nobody has told our story the way that I'm hoping 584 00:24:28,844 --> 00:24:30,846 that we can start telling our story today. 585 00:24:30,946 --> 00:24:32,681 So, starting it off, 586 00:24:32,782 --> 00:24:34,683 I'm gonna share a little bit about my story. 587 00:24:34,784 --> 00:24:36,318 All of you guys know me already, 588 00:24:36,419 --> 00:24:38,287 but I've been married for 26 years, 589 00:24:38,387 --> 00:24:39,989 I've been with Doug for 30, 590 00:24:40,089 --> 00:24:43,726 and our journey to getting married wasn't easy. Um... 591 00:24:43,826 --> 00:24:47,296 Oh, hey 'Laysia. Hey, momma. 592 00:24:47,396 --> 00:24:49,665 - Hey, my love. - Hi, baby. 593 00:24:49,765 --> 00:24:51,734 - Oh, you look so pretty. - Come on, this your seat. 594 00:24:51,834 --> 00:24:53,803 - Oh, alright. 595 00:24:55,104 --> 00:24:57,373 - Showing up late, this is just typical, and it's just like, 596 00:24:57,473 --> 00:24:59,675 Malaysia, get your [bleep] together. 597 00:25:03,879 --> 00:25:06,449 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 598 00:25:06,615 --> 00:25:08,617 - Being with a basketball player is not easy. 599 00:25:08,651 --> 00:25:11,420 We really have been through a lot of stuff together. 600 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,723 It's kind of messed up. 601 00:25:17,952 --> 00:25:23,791 - ♪ 602 00:25:27,395 --> 00:25:30,498 - JACKIE: Oh, hey, 'Laysia. - Hi. 603 00:25:30,598 --> 00:25:32,833 Hey, my love. - Hi, baby. 604 00:25:32,934 --> 00:25:35,102 - Ooh, you look so pretty. - Come on, this your seat. 605 00:25:35,203 --> 00:25:36,671 - Oh, alright. 606 00:25:36,771 --> 00:25:38,673 - Showing up late? This is just typical. 607 00:25:38,773 --> 00:25:41,142 And it's just like, Malaysia, get your [bleep] together. 608 00:25:41,242 --> 00:25:42,710 - JACKIE: Malaysia, I'm glad 609 00:25:42,810 --> 00:25:44,779 that you're my first special guest, and I would love to know, 610 00:25:44,879 --> 00:25:47,582 what was it like, like being married to Gennaro 611 00:25:47,682 --> 00:25:50,251 and traveling and that kind of thing and him playing? 612 00:25:50,351 --> 00:25:53,688 - MALAYSIA: Every day was an adventure. 613 00:25:53,788 --> 00:25:55,923 I think we were on like six different teams. 614 00:25:56,023 --> 00:25:59,293 - So his transition from playing basketball to after, 615 00:25:59,393 --> 00:26:00,995 what was that like? 616 00:26:01,095 --> 00:26:03,464 - He went right into coaching, so we went through 617 00:26:03,564 --> 00:26:05,766 a very difficult period. 618 00:26:05,867 --> 00:26:08,870 Now you're the coach, and you're not in the limelight. 619 00:26:08,970 --> 00:26:11,572 You're in a transition period, where you're like, 620 00:26:11,672 --> 00:26:13,407 "I don't know where the [bleep] I'm going, 621 00:26:13,507 --> 00:26:15,476 and I got all these bills, and I have children." 622 00:26:15,576 --> 00:26:17,945 And sometimes you take it out on the person that 623 00:26:18,045 --> 00:26:21,349 you love the most, and I was his punching bag. 624 00:26:21,449 --> 00:26:23,384 We had three beautiful children, 625 00:26:23,484 --> 00:26:26,120 and I wouldn't change it for the world. 626 00:26:26,220 --> 00:26:28,623 - This is amazing, and it shows a little bit 627 00:26:28,756 --> 00:26:30,491 of vulnerability with Malaysia, 628 00:26:30,591 --> 00:26:32,260 and I can appreciate that. 629 00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:35,496 This sounds like someone that I really can get to know, 630 00:26:35,596 --> 00:26:37,532 like she sounds real. 631 00:26:37,632 --> 00:26:39,634 - Everybody's going through something, 632 00:26:39,767 --> 00:26:41,235 so this is what it is. 633 00:26:41,335 --> 00:26:42,770 - I've already heard this story, 634 00:26:42,837 --> 00:26:45,373 but it just reminds me just back when we were friends, 635 00:26:45,473 --> 00:26:47,508 and I miss that. 636 00:26:47,608 --> 00:26:49,777 - So Brandi, I'm glad you're here to share your story, 637 00:26:49,844 --> 00:26:52,213 and I would love to talk to you about Jason. 638 00:26:52,313 --> 00:26:53,648 How you met him, 639 00:26:53,781 --> 00:26:55,683 his time in the league, and then his transition out. 640 00:26:55,783 --> 00:26:57,485 - We were together in high school, 641 00:26:57,585 --> 00:27:00,888 and we've been together ever since then. 642 00:27:00,988 --> 00:27:02,957 - JACKIE: Did you know what you was getting into? 643 00:27:03,057 --> 00:27:04,525 - BRANDI: I've never been the person 644 00:27:04,625 --> 00:27:06,260 that wanted to be a stay at home mom. 645 00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:07,962 I've always been taught to hustle, 646 00:27:08,062 --> 00:27:10,097 I've always been taught to work and do your own thing. 647 00:27:10,198 --> 00:27:12,533 And so we had a deal 648 00:27:12,633 --> 00:27:15,636 that when it got towards the end of his career, 649 00:27:15,803 --> 00:27:18,139 that that was the time for me to transition 650 00:27:18,239 --> 00:27:20,474 to do what I wanted to do. 651 00:27:20,575 --> 00:27:23,044 - In the past, I've watched my friends 652 00:27:23,144 --> 00:27:26,414 who have dated athletes or men who are successful 653 00:27:26,514 --> 00:27:27,915 get left with nothing, 654 00:27:28,015 --> 00:27:30,117 and I just want to make sure that I'm not 655 00:27:30,218 --> 00:27:33,521 one of those women that falls victim to depending on a man. 656 00:27:33,621 --> 00:27:35,656 - So, transitioning into retirement, 657 00:27:35,756 --> 00:27:38,359 was that an easy thing for you guys or was it difficult? 658 00:27:38,459 --> 00:27:41,229 - No, I mean, he went from being the man, 659 00:27:41,329 --> 00:27:44,966 to really humbling himself and being just a normal person. 660 00:27:45,066 --> 00:27:46,767 - Just being a normal guy? - Yeah. 661 00:27:46,834 --> 00:27:49,203 - I'm definitely worried that if I retire, 662 00:27:49,303 --> 00:27:52,907 I might look up and resent Iman for making me quit, 663 00:27:53,007 --> 00:27:54,775 or feeling the pressure to quit. 664 00:27:54,876 --> 00:27:57,645 But, if I could get a record and executive produce, 665 00:27:57,778 --> 00:27:59,914 that'll just take me to a whole other level, 666 00:28:00,014 --> 00:28:02,049 and I really want to be the first female DJ 667 00:28:02,149 --> 00:28:03,784 that looks like me 668 00:28:03,818 --> 00:28:05,786 to be able to accomplish something like that. 669 00:28:05,820 --> 00:28:07,622 - Thank you, Nia, for joining us. 670 00:28:07,788 --> 00:28:09,423 - Hi, everyone. 671 00:28:09,524 --> 00:28:11,659 - JACKIE: Let's talk about your experience 672 00:28:11,792 --> 00:28:13,528 with your significant other in the league. 673 00:28:13,628 --> 00:28:15,530 - Well, I'm an ex. 674 00:28:15,630 --> 00:28:17,965 He was super sweet, he was super kind, 675 00:28:18,065 --> 00:28:19,934 and then he started feeling himself, 676 00:28:20,034 --> 00:28:21,802 'cause I had put so much into him, 677 00:28:21,903 --> 00:28:23,738 helping him with his page, his image, 678 00:28:23,771 --> 00:28:25,339 making him work out, making him change up eating, 679 00:28:25,439 --> 00:28:27,041 I'm like, investing so much, 680 00:28:27,141 --> 00:28:28,442 where I stop investing into myself. 681 00:28:28,543 --> 00:28:29,777 - Okay. 682 00:28:29,877 --> 00:28:31,746 - NIA: So, I had to leave the situation. 683 00:28:31,812 --> 00:28:33,180 I would tell him, like, "Be humble." 684 00:28:33,281 --> 00:28:35,283 - I understand what these women are saying, 685 00:28:35,383 --> 00:28:37,418 because it's a lifestyle change. 686 00:28:37,518 --> 00:28:40,655 And so once you get used to something, you get used to it 687 00:28:40,755 --> 00:28:43,558 so I get it, it's not an easy task. 688 00:28:43,658 --> 00:28:46,494 - Would you ever date another player? 689 00:28:46,594 --> 00:28:48,763 Oh, you kinda are, huh? 690 00:28:48,796 --> 00:28:50,998 - I kind of dated athletes all my life. 691 00:28:51,098 --> 00:28:53,768 I might need to stop doing that, because girl-- 692 00:28:53,868 --> 00:28:55,636 - JACKIE: I love you for sharing that with me. 693 00:28:55,770 --> 00:28:57,205 Thank you, Nia. 694 00:28:57,305 --> 00:28:59,340 Last, and let's bring you up, Brittish. 695 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,442 - You want me to talk about how I'm a basketball ho? 696 00:29:01,542 --> 00:29:02,843 That's what you want me to say? 697 00:29:02,944 --> 00:29:04,145 - No. 698 00:29:04,245 --> 00:29:06,781 Everybody, we're welcoming Brittish to the show. 699 00:29:07,782 --> 00:29:09,450 - I met Lorenzo when I was 21, 700 00:29:09,550 --> 00:29:10,818 when I was a senior in college. 701 00:29:10,918 --> 00:29:12,253 Lorenzo played international basketball, 702 00:29:12,353 --> 00:29:14,589 so I've lived in Turkey, Russia, Israel, France, 703 00:29:14,689 --> 00:29:16,691 damn, Germany, everywhere. 704 00:29:16,791 --> 00:29:18,993 And I feel like I learned and grew with him. 705 00:29:19,093 --> 00:29:20,995 We're not together today, because like, 706 00:29:21,095 --> 00:29:22,630 I went through the hard transition of him 707 00:29:22,730 --> 00:29:23,998 going through retirement, 708 00:29:24,098 --> 00:29:25,833 I thought about stuff that he does every day. 709 00:29:25,933 --> 00:29:27,168 I'm like, "Well, you work out everyday. 710 00:29:27,268 --> 00:29:28,569 You love training people. 711 00:29:28,736 --> 00:29:30,371 Train people. Become a trainer." 712 00:29:30,471 --> 00:29:31,772 My issue is, with Lorenzo, 713 00:29:31,873 --> 00:29:33,808 is that he wanted to fuck his clients, 714 00:29:33,908 --> 00:29:35,743 so when that happens, then it... 715 00:29:35,843 --> 00:29:39,447 it's the truth. - Brittish... 716 00:29:39,547 --> 00:29:42,016 - You want me to tell the truth or you want me to lie? 717 00:29:42,116 --> 00:29:44,085 - JACKIE: I want you to tell the truth. 718 00:29:44,185 --> 00:29:45,753 - BRITTISH: I'd never take any of the things that we... 719 00:29:45,820 --> 00:29:47,655 that was my best friend. 720 00:29:47,755 --> 00:29:48,990 He really was there no matter what. 721 00:29:49,090 --> 00:29:50,858 When my dad died, he was there. 722 00:29:50,958 --> 00:29:52,960 Like, Lorenzo has...I'm about to cry thinking about it. 723 00:29:53,060 --> 00:29:55,329 We really have been through a lot of stuff together. 724 00:29:55,429 --> 00:29:56,931 - JACKIE: Brittish, oh my god. 725 00:29:57,031 --> 00:29:58,766 - It's kind of messed up. - JACKIE: Oh my god, 726 00:29:58,833 --> 00:30:00,635 don't mess up my make up, Brittish. 727 00:30:00,768 --> 00:30:02,303 - I want people to understand 728 00:30:02,403 --> 00:30:04,805 that being with a basketball player is not easy. 729 00:30:04,906 --> 00:30:07,441 - JACKIE: No, it's not. It's not. 730 00:30:07,542 --> 00:30:09,143 It's beautiful, but it's not easy. 731 00:30:09,243 --> 00:30:11,779 - Sometimes it's beautiful, sometimes it's a nightmare. 732 00:30:11,812 --> 00:30:13,447 I definitely appreciate the time that me and Lorenzo 733 00:30:13,548 --> 00:30:14,916 had together. 734 00:30:15,016 --> 00:30:16,817 It definitely taught me a lot of learning lessons 735 00:30:16,918 --> 00:30:18,719 and made me who I am today. 736 00:30:18,753 --> 00:30:20,755 And you know, it's hard to kind of come to terms 737 00:30:20,855 --> 00:30:22,890 with the fact that we're not together anymore. 738 00:30:22,990 --> 00:30:24,759 - Brittish, thank you. - Thank you, Jackie. 739 00:30:24,859 --> 00:30:26,861 - For sharing your story! 740 00:30:26,961 --> 00:30:29,897 - You got me all podcast crying. 741 00:30:29,997 --> 00:30:33,034 - I have something to add to that. I really feel like, 742 00:30:33,134 --> 00:30:34,902 I'm thankful for this space, 743 00:30:35,002 --> 00:30:36,837 because we are the head of our households, 744 00:30:36,938 --> 00:30:40,541 I don't care what anybody says. As women, we are. 745 00:30:40,641 --> 00:30:42,877 We make sure the bills are paid, 746 00:30:42,977 --> 00:30:46,747 even if you giving me the money. The house is clean. 747 00:30:46,847 --> 00:30:49,517 - JACKIE: The booty is ready. - The booty is ready. 748 00:30:49,617 --> 00:30:51,752 Okay, the food is on the table. 749 00:30:51,853 --> 00:30:53,354 You know what I'm saying? 750 00:30:53,454 --> 00:30:54,789 So, while you're going through your transition, 751 00:30:54,889 --> 00:30:56,557 it's like, we do, 752 00:30:56,657 --> 00:30:58,926 and we go through our transition silently, 753 00:30:59,026 --> 00:31:01,596 and you can either grow with it or get rolled over. 754 00:31:01,762 --> 00:31:03,097 You know what I'm saying? 755 00:31:03,197 --> 00:31:04,632 - We gonna leave that right there, 756 00:31:04,765 --> 00:31:05,867 because Brooke ain't playing. 757 00:31:05,967 --> 00:31:07,335 I love it, sis. Thank you for sharing. 758 00:31:07,435 --> 00:31:08,769 - I love you. 759 00:31:08,870 --> 00:31:10,404 - JACKIE: This podcast went even better than I could 760 00:31:10,504 --> 00:31:12,006 have ever imagined. 761 00:31:12,106 --> 00:31:13,441 All of us coming together, sharing our experiences, 762 00:31:13,541 --> 00:31:16,777 bonding, laughing, and really enjoying each other 763 00:31:16,844 --> 00:31:18,880 and connecting, not only as women, 764 00:31:18,980 --> 00:31:21,582 but basketball wives, and a family. 765 00:31:21,716 --> 00:31:23,284 Every one of you, I appreciate you coming, 766 00:31:23,384 --> 00:31:25,453 and I appreciate the guests for coming 767 00:31:25,553 --> 00:31:27,021 and sharing in this moment with us. 768 00:31:29,991 --> 00:31:31,926 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 769 00:31:32,026 --> 00:31:33,728 - I mean, I understand you dating, 770 00:31:33,828 --> 00:31:36,297 why does she feel comfortable to post a picture 771 00:31:36,397 --> 00:31:39,000 of my daughter on her social media page? 772 00:31:39,100 --> 00:31:41,402 - Well, like I said, she took it down-- 773 00:31:41,502 --> 00:31:43,471 - Lorenzo, the fact that you're almost 40 years old 774 00:31:43,571 --> 00:31:45,873 and you don't think that it's inappropriate for somebody 775 00:31:45,973 --> 00:31:47,975 to post somebody else's child is a problem! 776 00:31:50,636 --> 00:31:54,039 - ♪ 777 00:31:54,139 --> 00:31:55,975 - ANGEL: Let's see you go. 778 00:31:58,344 --> 00:32:01,046 - I'm gonna go here. 779 00:32:02,047 --> 00:32:03,582 - AZARI: You'll never beat me. 780 00:32:03,682 --> 00:32:05,117 - Oh, Amani. 781 00:32:05,217 --> 00:32:07,519 - That's cheating. Nah, nah, put it down. 782 00:32:07,620 --> 00:32:10,689 That's cheating, that's cheating. 783 00:32:10,789 --> 00:32:12,892 - Alright! Connect Four! 784 00:32:12,992 --> 00:32:15,261 I feel like I've done an amazing job raising my children, 785 00:32:15,361 --> 00:32:18,063 and I think that it's still not enough sometimes. 786 00:32:18,163 --> 00:32:19,965 I think kids always want more. 787 00:32:20,065 --> 00:32:21,800 I understand, you know, he's a kid, 788 00:32:21,901 --> 00:32:23,335 and if he wants more attention, 789 00:32:23,435 --> 00:32:25,204 then it's something that I should work on. 790 00:32:25,304 --> 00:32:27,506 So, now that we're having a new addition to the family, 791 00:32:27,606 --> 00:32:28,974 how's that gonna be? 792 00:32:29,074 --> 00:32:30,309 How do you guys see that happening? 793 00:32:30,409 --> 00:32:32,077 How do you feel about being a big sister? 794 00:32:32,177 --> 00:32:33,612 - Excited. 795 00:32:33,712 --> 00:32:35,781 'Cause I don't know what it feels like. 796 00:32:35,881 --> 00:32:37,249 - What about you? 797 00:32:37,349 --> 00:32:38,951 - The baby's gonna move into the guest room, 798 00:32:39,051 --> 00:32:41,053 and I'm gonna be in my room still. 799 00:32:41,153 --> 00:32:42,988 - [Amani laughs] - Speaking of that, right? 800 00:32:43,088 --> 00:32:45,024 So, Rocc and I were talking, and I've been thinking about it, 801 00:32:45,124 --> 00:32:47,159 we had that conversation, and you're like, 802 00:32:47,259 --> 00:32:49,862 "I was here first, and I love my room," 803 00:32:49,962 --> 00:32:52,898 and you know, you can keep your room. 804 00:32:54,567 --> 00:32:57,336 - What if, like, when he gets older, and you need a bed? 805 00:32:57,436 --> 00:32:59,438 - We'll adjust, we'll make adjustments. 806 00:32:59,505 --> 00:33:00,639 - Thank you. 807 00:33:00,739 --> 00:33:01,974 - Are you happy about that? - Yes. 808 00:33:02,074 --> 00:33:05,077 - Can I get a hug? - Yeah, you can. 809 00:33:05,177 --> 00:33:07,713 - You were not giving up that room at all. 810 00:33:07,813 --> 00:33:09,682 I took Azari's feelings into consideration. 811 00:33:09,782 --> 00:33:12,751 Our baby is definitely gonna be sleeping with us in my room, 812 00:33:12,851 --> 00:33:14,954 that way Azari can still have his room, 813 00:33:15,054 --> 00:33:16,855 and we can use the other room downstairs 814 00:33:16,956 --> 00:33:18,724 for the baby's things. 815 00:33:18,824 --> 00:33:20,359 And with the baby, 816 00:33:20,459 --> 00:33:22,761 we're all gonna be one big happy family. 817 00:33:22,861 --> 00:33:24,830 - AZARI: Sounds good. - Sound good? 818 00:33:24,930 --> 00:33:26,465 You guys ready for some dinner and ice cream? 819 00:33:26,565 --> 00:33:28,467 - Yes! - Yes! 820 00:33:28,500 --> 00:33:31,470 - Alright, now help me up. - Give me food! Here. 821 00:33:31,503 --> 00:33:33,205 - [Angel groans] 822 00:33:33,305 --> 00:33:35,474 - Okay, thank you very much. I love you guys. 823 00:33:35,541 --> 00:33:37,243 - Love you more. 824 00:33:44,216 --> 00:33:47,319 - BRITTISH: Hey, Brandi, how are you? 825 00:33:47,486 --> 00:33:49,255 - BRANDI: I'm good. 826 00:33:49,355 --> 00:33:51,624 - What is this? - I'm making some chicken. 827 00:33:51,724 --> 00:33:53,092 Chicken, mashed potatoes. 828 00:33:53,192 --> 00:33:55,261 'Cause you're always asking for food. 829 00:33:55,427 --> 00:33:57,429 Bring a little Southern hospitality 830 00:33:57,496 --> 00:33:58,998 to the west coast. 831 00:33:59,098 --> 00:34:01,333 - This is my type of hospitality, I get food. 832 00:34:01,433 --> 00:34:04,904 - So Brittish, how was yesterday, then? 833 00:34:05,004 --> 00:34:07,273 - I really was so proud of Jackie, 834 00:34:07,439 --> 00:34:09,441 because I thought she was throwing us in a whirlwind, 835 00:34:09,475 --> 00:34:10,910 but in reality, 836 00:34:11,010 --> 00:34:13,212 it really was about basketball and our lives-- 837 00:34:13,312 --> 00:34:15,247 - Hold on, I'ma make this later. 838 00:34:15,347 --> 00:34:18,083 Let me tell you something. Okay. 839 00:34:18,183 --> 00:34:21,954 I really think this podcast really kind of helped us. 840 00:34:22,054 --> 00:34:25,090 If your man played in the league, or played overseas, 841 00:34:25,190 --> 00:34:26,859 we are all the same, 842 00:34:26,959 --> 00:34:28,594 and we all deal with the same problems, 843 00:34:28,694 --> 00:34:31,030 and I feel like that kind of brought us together. 844 00:34:31,130 --> 00:34:34,233 - Everybody was vulnerable and sensitive, 845 00:34:34,333 --> 00:34:36,101 and you know if I start crying, I'm like, 846 00:34:36,201 --> 00:34:38,037 "Oh my god. What are you doing?" 847 00:34:38,137 --> 00:34:39,705 - You're in love with Lorenzo and you don't know it. 848 00:34:39,805 --> 00:34:41,207 - I'm not in love with him. 849 00:34:41,307 --> 00:34:42,908 - You're in love with Lorenzo. 850 00:34:43,008 --> 00:34:45,077 Every time you talk about him, you are smiling. 851 00:34:45,177 --> 00:34:46,679 Every time you, like, 852 00:34:46,779 --> 00:34:49,148 when you're thinking about the memories and everything, 853 00:34:49,248 --> 00:34:51,717 yes, I know he did a lot to you, I do, 854 00:34:51,817 --> 00:34:54,019 but you miss that man. 855 00:34:56,755 --> 00:34:59,692 - I felt like when I left, I didn't leave to leave forever. 856 00:34:59,792 --> 00:35:01,227 In my head, 857 00:35:01,327 --> 00:35:02,928 I really was leaving for him to appreciate, to understand 858 00:35:03,028 --> 00:35:04,496 that I will leave, you know what I'm saying? 859 00:35:04,597 --> 00:35:06,999 I think me and Lorenzo when were together, 860 00:35:07,099 --> 00:35:10,803 we were a very toxic but good relationship. 861 00:35:10,903 --> 00:35:12,838 I don't know if that's even a thing, 862 00:35:12,938 --> 00:35:14,573 but he gets me, I get him. 863 00:35:14,673 --> 00:35:16,609 But I don't know if I should give him another chance, 864 00:35:16,709 --> 00:35:19,578 especially since he's seeing some new random girl again. 865 00:35:19,678 --> 00:35:21,447 I don't know, it's weird. 866 00:35:21,513 --> 00:35:24,550 - For Jason, for me, I never left that man. 867 00:35:24,650 --> 00:35:26,285 Everybody's like, "Oh, you need to leave him alone. 868 00:35:26,452 --> 00:35:27,453 He's trash." 869 00:35:27,519 --> 00:35:29,321 But they don't know the good in him, like, 870 00:35:29,455 --> 00:35:31,790 Jason was there for me 100 percent 871 00:35:31,891 --> 00:35:34,093 when I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. 872 00:35:34,193 --> 00:35:37,129 The way he supported me, the way that he was there for me, 873 00:35:37,229 --> 00:35:40,232 it was on a whole other level. 874 00:35:40,332 --> 00:35:42,234 Jason's like, "Okay, watch the game tonight." 875 00:35:42,334 --> 00:35:44,570 So I turn on the TV, I'm watching the game, 876 00:35:44,670 --> 00:35:49,141 and I'm like, "This dude done shaved his head. Oh my god." 877 00:35:49,241 --> 00:35:51,510 - To do something like that is like, 878 00:35:51,610 --> 00:35:53,212 I'll never forget that. 879 00:35:53,312 --> 00:35:55,214 - How did you get over him cheating? 880 00:35:55,314 --> 00:35:57,983 - It was very challenging, and it was very difficult, 881 00:35:58,083 --> 00:36:01,954 but I looked at the bigger picture, you know? 882 00:36:02,054 --> 00:36:04,523 I just really let go of a lot of negativity, 883 00:36:04,623 --> 00:36:06,859 and then we focused and went to counseling, 884 00:36:06,959 --> 00:36:09,161 and that was what, you know, what worked. 885 00:36:09,261 --> 00:36:11,830 And, sometimes you gotta tune out people like your friends, 886 00:36:11,931 --> 00:36:15,534 your mom, your cousins and stuff out of your ear about them. 887 00:36:15,634 --> 00:36:17,536 - If I listened to them, we wouldn't have been together 888 00:36:17,636 --> 00:36:19,238 for six months, so I don't pay them... 889 00:36:19,338 --> 00:36:20,839 Everybody knows, you know how I am, 890 00:36:20,940 --> 00:36:22,875 I'm very strong-willed, whatever I feel is how I feel. 891 00:36:22,975 --> 00:36:24,610 - So, just think about it. 892 00:36:27,513 --> 00:36:29,615 - NARRATOR: Coming up on Basketball Wives... 893 00:36:29,715 --> 00:36:31,016 - What's going on? 894 00:36:31,116 --> 00:36:33,052 - BRANDI: Something happened and I called my doctor 895 00:36:33,152 --> 00:36:34,720 back in Detroit, and he was like, 896 00:36:34,820 --> 00:36:36,622 "Brandi, you need to go to the hospital right now." 897 00:36:36,722 --> 00:36:38,190 So, I'm freaking out. 898 00:36:42,878 --> 00:36:48,751 - ♪ 899 00:36:48,851 --> 00:36:50,119 - BRITTISH: Hey baby! 900 00:36:50,219 --> 00:36:53,288 You with your daddy? What y'all doing? 901 00:36:53,388 --> 00:36:55,290 - We were taking pictures. 902 00:36:55,390 --> 00:36:57,726 - You were? You look pretty. 903 00:37:05,234 --> 00:37:06,568 - He handsome to you? 904 00:37:08,036 --> 00:37:10,038 I'm sorry to hear that. 905 00:37:10,139 --> 00:37:11,440 I miss you, 906 00:37:11,540 --> 00:37:13,242 but tell your daddy to take you in your room, 907 00:37:13,342 --> 00:37:15,144 let me talk to your dad for a second, okay? 908 00:37:15,244 --> 00:37:16,912 - Take me to my room. 909 00:37:17,012 --> 00:37:18,947 - LORENZO: What's up? What's the problem? 910 00:37:19,047 --> 00:37:21,417 - First of all let's just do a little rewind. 911 00:37:21,517 --> 00:37:23,552 I mean, I understand you dating and you know, 912 00:37:23,652 --> 00:37:25,921 to my understanding, you just started dating this person 913 00:37:26,021 --> 00:37:27,122 that you're dating this month. 914 00:37:27,222 --> 00:37:28,991 So, my question to you is, 915 00:37:29,091 --> 00:37:31,493 I've never met the girl before, 916 00:37:31,593 --> 00:37:34,430 why does she feel comfortable to post a picture 917 00:37:34,530 --> 00:37:37,599 of my daughter on her social media page? 918 00:37:42,004 --> 00:37:44,406 - Okay, so... 919 00:37:45,340 --> 00:37:47,075 Lorenzo has a new girlfriend all of a sudden, 920 00:37:47,176 --> 00:37:48,877 and he has the nerve to let the girl post pictures 921 00:37:48,977 --> 00:37:50,412 of my daughter on social media. 922 00:37:50,512 --> 00:37:51,747 That [bleep] is not okay with me. 923 00:37:51,847 --> 00:37:53,148 I've never met her in my life, 924 00:37:53,315 --> 00:37:54,716 I don't even know who the girl is, 925 00:37:54,817 --> 00:37:56,485 you don't even know how to spell her name properly. 926 00:37:56,585 --> 00:37:59,488 How would you feel if I was dating somebody, 927 00:38:05,027 --> 00:38:07,362 - Nobody can tell you what to do, but ain't nobody gonna do 928 00:38:07,463 --> 00:38:08,997 what they want to do with my [bleep] child! 929 00:38:09,098 --> 00:38:10,899 As long as you got whoever you want to be with, 930 00:38:10,999 --> 00:38:12,534 she don't have to come over there. 931 00:38:12,634 --> 00:38:14,103 You know that's where I'm at with it! 932 00:38:14,203 --> 00:38:15,637 We ain't gotta argue about it! 933 00:38:17,206 --> 00:38:18,841 No! Ain't no bitch about to post my daughter 934 00:38:18,941 --> 00:38:20,242 on their social media, either. 935 00:38:20,342 --> 00:38:21,944 I'm not going back and forth with you about that, 936 00:38:22,044 --> 00:38:23,612 and you know that already. So just stop it. 937 00:38:26,882 --> 00:38:28,684 - Lorenzo, the fact that you're almost 40 years old, 938 00:38:28,784 --> 00:38:30,686 and you don't think that's inappropriate for somebody 939 00:38:30,786 --> 00:38:33,355 to post somebody else's child is a problem! 940 00:38:33,422 --> 00:38:35,624 - Well like I said, she erased it, she took it down. 941 00:38:35,724 --> 00:38:37,826 - Lorenzo knows all of my trigger points 942 00:38:37,926 --> 00:38:39,762 that gets me really upset. 943 00:38:39,862 --> 00:38:43,699 Every time I think I have a little inkling that 944 00:38:43,799 --> 00:38:47,302 I'm gonna go back with him, oh my god, he does some [bleep] 945 00:38:47,336 --> 00:38:49,371 that just says huh, I know why I left, 946 00:38:49,471 --> 00:38:51,340 and I'm never coming back. Like, seriously. 947 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,308 You are a [bleep] ass man and that's why I don't want 948 00:38:53,342 --> 00:38:54,443 to have no conversation with you! 949 00:38:54,543 --> 00:38:56,512 [bleep] off and [bleep] you! 950 00:38:56,612 --> 00:38:58,781 [bleep] him, I'm so tired of that bullshit. 951 00:39:01,650 --> 00:39:07,589 - ♪ 952 00:39:17,332 --> 00:39:19,001 - MARKUS: Okay guys, Brandi will be by, 953 00:39:19,101 --> 00:39:20,636 we'll get her next. 954 00:39:20,736 --> 00:39:22,704 Alright, thanks guys. Okay. - [phone rings] 955 00:39:25,240 --> 00:39:27,075 - Hey, hey Brandi. - BRANDI: Hey, Markus. 956 00:39:27,176 --> 00:39:28,510 - What's going on? 957 00:39:28,610 --> 00:39:30,345 - BRANDI: Um, don't be mad at me. 958 00:39:30,446 --> 00:39:32,347 - Why would I be mad at you? 959 00:39:32,448 --> 00:39:34,883 - BRANDI: I gotta cancel the interview today. 960 00:39:34,983 --> 00:39:36,552 - MARKUS: What's going on? 961 00:39:39,755 --> 00:39:42,291 - MARKUS: Let me talk to her real quick. 962 00:39:42,925 --> 00:39:44,393 Hold on one second. 963 00:39:46,295 --> 00:39:47,596 What's going on? 964 00:39:48,664 --> 00:39:50,299 - BRANDI: Um, so something happened, 965 00:39:50,399 --> 00:39:51,900 and I called my doctor back in Detroit, 966 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:53,402 and he was like, 967 00:39:53,502 --> 00:39:54,970 "Brandi, you need to go to the hospital right now 968 00:39:55,070 --> 00:39:56,305 and get it checked out." 969 00:39:56,371 --> 00:39:57,773 I have no idea what's going on, 970 00:39:57,873 --> 00:39:59,508 but I'm just gonna rush to the hospital. 971 00:39:59,608 --> 00:40:00,976 - MARKUS: I'm sorry to hear that. 972 00:40:01,076 --> 00:40:02,344 Is it anything that we can help with? 973 00:40:04,646 --> 00:40:07,015 - BRANDI: They're worried that it could be cancer. 974 00:40:07,116 --> 00:40:08,717 And they want to make sure, 975 00:40:08,817 --> 00:40:11,120 because of all the cancer stuff that I had 976 00:40:11,220 --> 00:40:12,788 back in the day. - Yeah. 977 00:40:12,888 --> 00:40:16,525 - BRANDI: So, I'm freaking out, honestly, 'cause... 978 00:40:16,625 --> 00:40:19,161 Keep me in your prayers. - MARKUS: Of course. 979 00:40:19,328 --> 00:40:21,330 - BRANDI: I don't know what's going on. 980 00:40:22,682 --> 00:40:23,916 - NARRATOR: Next time on Basketball Wives... 981 00:40:24,016 --> 00:40:27,520 - I want to cordially invite these beautiful baddies 982 00:40:27,620 --> 00:40:31,290 in front of me to a weekend in Vegas 983 00:40:31,390 --> 00:40:33,492 for my birthday this weekend! 984 00:40:34,527 --> 00:40:36,829 - My husband and I are talking about 985 00:40:36,929 --> 00:40:39,732 doing IVF again. - Oh no! 986 00:40:39,832 --> 00:40:41,133 [unintelligible] gonna have a friend? 987 00:40:41,234 --> 00:40:42,435 - Yes. 988 00:40:42,535 --> 00:40:43,903 - Is Gennaro helping with the house? 989 00:40:44,003 --> 00:40:45,238 - Girl, no. 990 00:40:45,338 --> 00:40:47,273 I know you guys have been telling me that I need 991 00:40:47,373 --> 00:40:48,474 to take him to court. 992 00:40:48,574 --> 00:40:49,976 I am going to pray about it. 993 00:40:50,076 --> 00:40:51,377 - How do you know God not saying, 994 00:40:51,477 --> 00:40:53,212 "Walk your ass in that courthouse?" 995 00:40:53,312 --> 00:40:55,248 - I just want you to know that Jackie was like, 996 00:40:55,348 --> 00:40:57,984 "Rocc said that he was gonna make Iman leave her." 997 00:40:58,084 --> 00:41:00,786 - Rocc and I both feel like we're being attacked. 998 00:41:02,822 --> 00:41:05,391 - He was like, "We're having too many issues. 999 00:41:05,491 --> 00:41:08,594 We might want to have a full hysterectomy." 1000 00:41:10,096 --> 00:41:11,597 - WOMAN: Aw yeah. I'm sorry.