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- FEMALE NARRATOR: Previously on
Basketball Wives.
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- We need to get to a good place
where we still can
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trust each other
when it comes to Dash.
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- 'Cause our main priority is
this little one right here.
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- I agree.
- You know what I'm saying?
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- Me and French, we have all
these shows coming up,
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so I just want to rehearse.
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- A couple of months ago you
were like, "I'm done."
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End of the day you know,
we got her,
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I want you to be home.
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- If I ever did say I was gonna
quit, like, how would you feel?
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- Understand that if you leave,
you can't come back.
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- I'ma think about it.
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- Do you want to
get married now?
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Because there were some words
going around
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that you're not happy, Angel.
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- What?
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- Did you talk to Duffey?
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She shared this
information with me.
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- If Duffy wanna
get aired out,
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she will get aired out,
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her relationship
will be done today.
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- I did things out of care and
concern for Angel and Rocc.
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- Why are you guys having a
conversation
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about my man and my
relationship?
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I'm not having these
conversations
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about y'all men.
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- It's okay.
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- Angel.
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- Hey, I'm back here.
Oh my gosh.
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- Angel, this store is amazing.
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- You like it?
- This is so cool.
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You have a
whole factory in here.
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- I know, we make
everything in house,
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like sample making,
and everything else.
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I'm doing tour, you know,
like Megan Thee Stallion.
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- You make a lot
of stuff for her, I see.
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This is amazing. I love a woman
that's on her shit
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when it comes to business.
- Thanks, babe.
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- So, are you okay from
yesterday?
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Like, did they stress you out
too much?
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- Yeah, because I'm like,
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"Why is my relationship
being discussed so much?"
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You know, it was just like,
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I don't do that to
nobody else.
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- I am not surprised that Jackie
has been meddling
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in Rocc and Angel's
relationship,
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she's been meddling in Me and
Lorenzo's for ten years,
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but I know how to laugh her off.
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Everybody else doesn't.
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- For me, the hardest part was
for Rocc to hear that.
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You know what I mean?
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- And I told Jackie,
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"You could have told her that
alone."
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- Yeah, and she's like, "Sorry,"
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like, no,
your sorry's don't mean shit.
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You know what I mean, when
you're saying it like that.
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I don't want an apology,
I want some respect.
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I need to take
a break from the girls,
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because I have so much going on
in my life, you know?
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I've got my kids, I've got my
man to worry about,
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and we're getting
ready for a new baby,
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so I need to really focus on
everything that's important
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to me right now.
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- You know, Jackie when she
start Jackie-ing,
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it be something different,
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but she's coming from a good
place most of the time.
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- Well you guys
got into it, too.
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From what I heard, she was
telling you something about
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getting back with Lorenzo, and
I'm like "Why?"
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- Jackie is so, wants me to be
with Lorenzo.
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- You and Lorenzo
are completely done?
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- You damn right!
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Jackie, what you got
to say?!
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- I really want to see you
with Lorenzo.
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- Jackie, we are broken up!
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- She doesn't understand when
things transpire and spiral
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so out of control that there's
no fixing it anymore.
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- She was like that with me and
my daughter's father.
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Same with Tyreek, like, "Work it
out," like, how?
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- I would love for my daughter
to have her father
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be in the household,
of course I would love that.
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Ever since Lorenzo
told me he ended
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his domestic partnership
with his ex,
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things have got
a lot better between us.
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Now that Lorenzo's
still in St. Louis,
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and I'm now in Los Angeles,
we're trying our best
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to be able to co-parent
effectively.
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- Have you been eating
McDonald's every day?
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- Yes. No, I had oranges.
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- You had oranges? Okay, okay,
that was good, then.
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- You know, you really been
doing better with
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this co-parenting thing.
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- We have tried our best to be
the best parents we can be
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to Dash, but I don't know if me
and Lorenzo
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should be back together.
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If Lorenzo could change, I would
have no problem.
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- Really?
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- I always loved my baby daddy,
I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
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But, you know--
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- Well listen, I'm with you,
whatever you decide to do,
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I'm with you, you know?
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- And when you and Rockstar
decide to get married,
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I definitely will
be there.
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- Okay, okay.
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- What's up?
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- Just texting.
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- Texting who?
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- Work.
- Oh.
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- How's work been going?
- Great.
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- My man, Iman, is a basketball
sports agent,
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he's changed the lives
for many families,
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putting them in the right
position to be able to really
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make money and grow
in the sport of basketball.
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You making money?
- Always. What's up?
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- Oh yeah, at Brandi's food
tasting,
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first of all, okay, you know we
did a food tasting,
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'cause she's gonna have a
cookbook,
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but she was trying to think of
like a name,
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and my mind was like...
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"Maximum Flavor."
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- I like it.
- You like it?
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- Yeah.
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- I see "Maximum flavor,"
let me see,
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I would like to try it.
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- I like the name.
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- But you know I was telling you
there was all this drama.
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Jackie had a
conversation with Angel.
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She overexagerated what I said.
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I was just like, "I'm really
worried about Angel,"
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you know, 'cause her and
Roccstar was having issues,
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Jackie was like, "Oh, Roccstar
got really upset
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when I said, you know, about the
whole group was like
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talking about his business and
you kind of like
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was the one starting it."
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He was like "Yeah,
she got one more chance
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or I'm gonna make
Iman leave her."
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- He said these
exact [bleep] words.
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When he sees her he's going to
air her the [bleep] out,
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and her man is gonna want to
[bleep] leave her the next day.
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- I politely let the room know
my man ain't going nowhere,
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and if he's trying
to insinuate that
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I'm cheating on Iman,
that is like a old tell
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that me and Iman
have been dealt with,
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with people saying I'm with
French Montana,
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or I'm with this guy,
I'm with that guy.
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- I mean, all this is,
Roccstar's too emotional
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for his own good.
I mean, his female business,
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separate that
from real issues.
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- Roccstar can't say nothing
that hundreds of thousands
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of people haven't
already said about me.
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Iman knows my heart,
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and so those things don't even
phase us anymore.
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Anyway, taking a trip to Vegas
will, you know,
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make me feel better.
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'Cause you know me and French,
we have a show.
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- Mm.
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Speaking of French, have you
thought about our conversation?
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About you being done DJing?
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- What? I said that?
- Yeah.
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- Oh.
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Um, I have been thinking about
it, you know?
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I'll commit to this being my
final show as a DJ,
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but I feel like I want to find
another career to transition to.
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But I mean, that is gonna take
up a little of my time.
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- I mean, you need to be home.
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- I'm going to be
doing something,
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I'm not just gonna be
sitting in the house.
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Just so you know.
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So I don't wanna disappoint you.
- Nobody's saying that.
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- I want to bring
a lot to the table,
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so we can really
elevate as a family.
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Growing up, I was
taught to work hard,
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my father was
really tough on me,
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and so for me to just
sit around at home
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and let a man pay for things,
it just, it'll never be me.
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- To me, the main thing is the
family life
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I'm having right now is what I
was hoping
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or what I was wishing I had when
I was growing up.
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- Like, this is important to me.
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- Alright, if that's what you
want to do, I'll support that.
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- Hi, guys. I'm so happy to have
you here.
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- I need a fun workout moment,
so I brought
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Jackie and June along,
no arguments please.
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- Hang time, huh?
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- MALAYSIA: So, is it gonna be a
good sweat?
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- So, you're gonna take the
hammock and lift up
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your right ankle.
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- Oh, lord. My leg.
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- INSTRUCTOR: Is it still too
tight?
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Alright, let's start at the
knee. Bend at the knee.
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Bring it to the side,
one side of the kneecap.
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Alright, then we're gonna take
the left leg back behind us.
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Start to spin.
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- Woo.
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- Wait, how did you spin?
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- Spin.
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- What'd I do wrong?
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- I have done flying yoga
before--
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- Right leg comes around
- [bleep]
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- I'm gonna have a nip slip
any second,
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I'm telling you guys.
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I feel dizzy.
Drea...
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- Great job Malaysia, great.
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- I actually have a
swing in my basement.
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- She's already ready to go
upside down.
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- I ain't freaky though.
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- INSTRUCTOR: Alright guys, I
feel like you are
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professionals at this point,
right?
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- That was so much fun.
- Oh my god.
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- I needed that
after all that mess
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at Brandi's food tasting
- What happened?
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- People be trying to twist my
intentions,
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even when I'm just trying to
help them out.
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I'm gonna be very diligent
going forward,
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and speaking to the people,
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'cause I know there's probably
some people
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that got some things they want
to say to me,
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and they just aren't, because
they're like,
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"We don't feel like hearing her
big ass mouth,"
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but I'm gonna address it,
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because I care about
all you guys.
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- Listen, if you're passionate
about something,
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be authentic in that moment.
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- I really feel like everybody
needs to move ahead,
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go forward from that drama that
happened at the tasting,
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and all that's been going on
in the group.
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- We can't just keep brushing
stuff under the rug,
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we know from years past
that when we do that,
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in this group, what happens?
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It ends up being a blow up,
you know?
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- You are right. My old method
was to just avoid it,
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but I see that everyone don't
really adapt to that
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kind of things, so--
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- But we got to start sharing
some of this stuff
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that is between us
to get through it.
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You know what, you guys?
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I do a podcast, and I want to do
one with all of us.
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Where we're all there together,
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and we just talk about life
and what we're doing,
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we're in the Basketball Wives
family for life.
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I feel like we start building
the foundation
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by coming together, and we can
do it on the podcast
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and everybody will feel like
they're coming there,
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they need to put it out on the
table and no bullshit,
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'cause I'm not
gonna allow that,
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you guys already know
how I get down.
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- I want to move
in a positive direction.
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- JACKIE: You're gonna be my
guest of honor at the podcast.
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- I think Jackie has the right
idea when she says that
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we need to communicate,
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because I shove everything
under the rug,
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and that's when shit goes wrong.
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- It's just gonna be a moment
for us ladies to come together,
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and let me handle everything.
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- NARRATOR: Coming up on
Basketball Wives...
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- Rocc and I were talking about
putting the baby stuff,
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the basinet, the crib, in here
in your room.
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- Don't know about that.
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- You are a [bleep] ass man,
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that's why I don't want to have
no conversation with you
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[bleep] off and [bleep] you!
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- ♪
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- SALESMAN: Here we got our
selection of mic's.
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This is your--
- That's the one I have.
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- Yeah, that's the SM7B.
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It was the radio mic
in the '70s.
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And then you've got your
Nuemann,
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that's the Billie Eilish mic,
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where she picks up all that nice
little sexy whispering
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- This is Jackie Marie
Christine...
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- I'm sorry.
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- Welcome to my podcast, this is
a basketball wife...
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- JACKIE: You better cut it out.
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- Hi, guys.
- Hey, Noria.
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How are you?
- How are you?
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- So yeah, I need to buy some
stuff, because I want to get
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the ladies together and do a
podcast where we can all
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kind of share
our experiences.
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The main topic of the
conversation is
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life after basketball.
And during.
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And I want to talk about the
journey from playing
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to you know, what
they go to next,
288
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and then to where they end up.
289
00:12:04,300 --> 00:12:06,802
You know, my husband went from
playing basketball to coaching.
290
00:12:06,902 --> 00:12:09,071
Now, he's back on the road, like
with coaching,
291
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it feels like my husband's going
off to play again.
292
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- It's literally the same,
but worse, because
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they're working longer hours,
294
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and even through the summers,
295
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and the breaks that we get to
have, coaches don't get them.
296
00:12:22,818 --> 00:12:25,054
- Yeah, you know, I'm crying
silently by myself.
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A lot of people
don't know about that,
298
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so it's a lot
that we go through,
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let's just band together, y'all.
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A lot of times, the women in the
group do focus
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on their differences, but we are
all part of a basketball family,
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and we should
come together in that way.
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So, in this podcast,
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they're gonna see
how similar we all are.
305
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- I invited all the ladies,
Malaysia will definitely
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be coming.
307
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Let me ask you, where are you
guys right now?
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Are you still kind of in the
same place?
309
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- I would say the latest thing,
really,
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that irritated me the most
was bringing Zell around.
311
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Anybody that bring Zell know
what they're doing.
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- Girl, stop talking to me.
Stop talking to me.
313
00:13:01,357 --> 00:13:04,393
- No, you shut up
and you stop talking.
314
00:13:05,594 --> 00:13:08,030
You almost tried to like set me
up in a sense,
315
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or you tried to play me, with
having somebody be reckless.
316
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Don't put the one that literally
Rocked with you
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the hardest and was
by her side,
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on the phone with her all day,
every day, at night,
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in the bed with my husband,
we on the phone,
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we face timing, we talking and
everything else,
321
00:13:24,947 --> 00:13:27,082
and you try to like, play me.
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- JACKIE: I totally get it.
323
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And we gonna work through it,
however we have to.
324
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We can make it through.
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Relationships--
- Sad, thinking about it.
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- This is the thing,
you talking about it
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is gonna work itself out.
328
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- You work through your
differences, Brandi,
329
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and she's done some things,
obviously,
330
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that you feel was hurtful,
331
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she feels you've done some
things that was hurtful,
332
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and that's, we--
333
00:13:46,769 --> 00:13:48,370
- I haven't done
nothing to her.
334
00:13:48,470 --> 00:13:51,874
I been through so much in the
last, like,
335
00:13:51,974 --> 00:13:54,009
even couple of months,
you know?
336
00:13:54,109 --> 00:13:57,346
Like, dealing with my dad, like.
337
00:13:57,479 --> 00:13:59,615
This week, I've been feeling
really hormonal,
338
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and I don't know what's going on
with me,
339
00:14:01,483 --> 00:14:06,155
but I don't hope to be back
friends with Malaysia at all.
340
00:14:06,255 --> 00:14:07,957
- I understand.
- BRANDI: It's just a lot.
341
00:14:08,057 --> 00:14:09,225
- We done been through a lot,
342
00:14:09,325 --> 00:14:11,060
we been knowing each other for a
very long time,
343
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we in each other's life for the
rest our lives,
344
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so I hope this podcast is a time
for us to be a sisterhood.
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- We're here to support you,
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whatever you need,
we're here for you.
347
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No matter what.
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- ♪
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- ANGEL: Azari,
you found your phone?
350
00:14:28,644 --> 00:14:30,779
- AZARI: Yeah,
it was in the car.
351
00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,514
- It was in the car?
I just told you that.
352
00:14:32,615 --> 00:14:33,916
- AZARI: I know.
353
00:14:34,016 --> 00:14:36,051
- I'm taking a break from the
girls right now
354
00:14:36,151 --> 00:14:37,820
because I need to really focus
on this pregnancy.
355
00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,656
How was school? High school.
356
00:14:40,756 --> 00:14:43,259
- I know. Nervous a little bit,
but...
357
00:14:43,359 --> 00:14:44,493
- ANGEL: Why?
358
00:14:44,593 --> 00:14:45,861
- I don't know what
to expect.
359
00:14:45,961 --> 00:14:47,496
- Nobody's messing with you,
right?
360
00:14:47,596 --> 00:14:49,131
- No.
- ANGEL: Okay.
361
00:14:49,231 --> 00:14:52,935
Well, I wanted to talk to you
about something.
362
00:14:53,035 --> 00:14:54,770
- Okay, oh great.
363
00:14:54,870 --> 00:14:57,139
- So, Rocc and I were talking,
right,
364
00:14:57,239 --> 00:15:01,377
about the baby and stuff, and
um, how we're gonna,
365
00:15:01,477 --> 00:15:04,346
you know, go about putting all
his stuff,
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00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:08,384
the baby's stuff, the basinet,
the crib, in here.
367
00:15:09,585 --> 00:15:11,420
In here, in your room.
368
00:15:12,221 --> 00:15:14,890
- Don't know about that.
I don't know.
369
00:15:14,990 --> 00:15:16,926
- Not to share a room with you
or anything, but I was
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00:15:17,026 --> 00:15:18,427
just thinking maybe--
371
00:15:18,460 --> 00:15:20,696
- I'd rather do that
than him take my room.
372
00:15:20,796 --> 00:15:22,231
- You would share a room
with a baby?
373
00:15:22,331 --> 00:15:24,233
- Yeah, I like my room.
- No way.
374
00:15:24,333 --> 00:15:26,268
A brand new baby?
Like, stinky diaper...
375
00:15:26,435 --> 00:15:27,937
- Oh, I'm not gonna
change a diaper,
376
00:15:28,037 --> 00:15:29,805
that's a little too much, but...
377
00:15:29,905 --> 00:15:31,574
- I mean, what's wrong
with the guest room?
378
00:15:31,674 --> 00:15:33,943
- Mom, my room's bigger, you
know what I'm saying?
379
00:15:34,043 --> 00:15:35,444
- This room is a little bigger.
380
00:15:35,511 --> 00:15:37,446
All the bedrooms
are on the top floor,
381
00:15:37,479 --> 00:15:39,582
and there's one extra bedroom on
the second floor
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that we use as a guestroom.
383
00:15:41,483 --> 00:15:43,519
I can't have the baby
all the way down
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on a different floor from me,
385
00:15:45,154 --> 00:15:47,156
how am I gonna keep going
up and down, you know?
386
00:15:47,256 --> 00:15:48,724
It doesn't make any sense.
387
00:15:48,824 --> 00:15:50,259
If you don't want the guestroom,
I mean,
388
00:15:50,359 --> 00:15:52,127
the only other option would be
the back house.
389
00:15:52,228 --> 00:15:54,630
- Yeah, no, that's fine.
I'm good.
390
00:15:54,730 --> 00:15:56,065
- Azari, come look.
391
00:15:56,165 --> 00:15:58,367
Come look at my situation, okay?
392
00:15:58,467 --> 00:16:00,970
Amani's room is all the way down
there, okay?
393
00:16:01,070 --> 00:16:03,272
If I were to put her downstairs
on the floor
394
00:16:03,372 --> 00:16:05,541
by herself, that's like--
- Oh, she'll be fine.
395
00:16:05,641 --> 00:16:08,577
- No, she won't be fine.
- She has to get used to it.
396
00:16:08,677 --> 00:16:11,780
- I'm gonna show you the guest
house, let's do that. Come on.
397
00:16:11,881 --> 00:16:14,116
Because you need to really think
about this.
398
00:16:14,216 --> 00:16:16,285
Could you imagine
your own freedom?
399
00:16:16,418 --> 00:16:20,155
Back house, like you don't have
to worry about anything.
400
00:16:20,256 --> 00:16:22,625
Can you imagine having
your own privacy,
401
00:16:22,725 --> 00:16:24,426
like away from us?
402
00:16:24,493 --> 00:16:26,495
You don't have to hear a baby
crying.
403
00:16:26,595 --> 00:16:28,731
I feel bad, you know, but at the
end of the day,
404
00:16:28,831 --> 00:16:30,799
the guest house would be ideal
for Azari
405
00:16:30,900 --> 00:16:33,135
because he'll feel like he has
more privacy
406
00:16:33,235 --> 00:16:35,204
and he won't be bothered
as much by us.
407
00:16:35,304 --> 00:16:37,439
I mean, what high school boy
wouldn't like his own house?
408
00:16:37,506 --> 00:16:41,010
Look, look at this.
Your own space.
409
00:16:42,978 --> 00:16:45,080
Look, two bedrooms,
you've got a gym in here.
410
00:16:45,180 --> 00:16:47,950
You can work out every day.
411
00:16:48,050 --> 00:16:49,618
You got your own view.
412
00:16:49,718 --> 00:16:51,353
I mean, look at this.
413
00:16:51,453 --> 00:16:53,022
You know there's nothing I don't
do for you.
414
00:16:53,122 --> 00:16:54,790
Look, you got your own
basketball court
415
00:16:54,890 --> 00:16:56,325
with your name on it,
you know?
416
00:16:56,458 --> 00:16:58,127
I want the best for you,
you know.
417
00:16:58,227 --> 00:16:59,995
I'm just kind of
in a tight spot,
418
00:17:00,095 --> 00:17:02,731
because I don't know exactly
where to put the baby
419
00:17:02,831 --> 00:17:05,334
and I want you to know that even
when I do have the baby,
420
00:17:05,467 --> 00:17:09,605
like I'm gonna do my best to,
you know,
421
00:17:09,705 --> 00:17:14,076
divide my time up with you, your
sister, you know,
422
00:17:14,176 --> 00:17:16,712
your new brother, you know,
work and everything.
423
00:17:16,812 --> 00:17:20,249
- Are you sure? 'Cause I don't
want you to, you know,
424
00:17:20,416 --> 00:17:22,985
be focusing on everybody else
and not me.
425
00:17:23,085 --> 00:17:25,487
You know, I don't want
to feel like that.
426
00:17:25,588 --> 00:17:29,058
I'm just saying, with Amani,
when she was first born,
427
00:17:29,158 --> 00:17:31,193
that was what I felt like.
- Really?
428
00:17:31,293 --> 00:17:34,930
- Yeah.
- Why did you feel that way?
429
00:17:35,030 --> 00:17:37,266
- Well, because,
I don't know,
430
00:17:37,433 --> 00:17:39,435
you probably just put more time
on her, you know,
431
00:17:39,501 --> 00:17:41,937
and I felt like you weren't
putting time on me sometimes,
432
00:17:42,037 --> 00:17:44,039
and you know,
it would just get to me.
433
00:17:44,139 --> 00:17:45,941
- You know, I know it's been a
struggle for my son,
434
00:17:46,041 --> 00:17:47,509
because his father
hasn't been around.
435
00:17:47,610 --> 00:17:49,245
I have something I want to talk
to you about.
436
00:17:49,345 --> 00:17:50,980
When we went shopping
the other day,
437
00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:53,249
and the guy was talking to me,
438
00:17:53,349 --> 00:17:56,185
when he asked you
about your father?
439
00:17:56,285 --> 00:17:58,954
- Well, I don't know how to say
it like he died,
440
00:17:59,054 --> 00:18:01,357
I don't like to say that.
441
00:18:01,457 --> 00:18:04,827
- No, don't cry.
You do have a father.
442
00:18:04,927 --> 00:18:08,664
Being a mom and dad his whole
life has been hard for me,
443
00:18:08,764 --> 00:18:12,034
but I do the best that I can,
I've sacrificed a lot.
444
00:18:12,134 --> 00:18:15,004
- Spending time with you is,
like, important.
445
00:18:15,104 --> 00:18:17,706
I mean, it would be cool if you
could at least
446
00:18:17,806 --> 00:18:19,074
come to my games too, though.
447
00:18:19,174 --> 00:18:20,542
'Cause you're my mom,
448
00:18:20,643 --> 00:18:22,044
and you're the only one
I have, basically.
449
00:18:22,144 --> 00:18:24,446
- Yeah.
450
00:18:30,519 --> 00:18:32,288
- You don't have to feel bad,
it's okay.
451
00:18:32,421 --> 00:18:37,459
I know, I just, I know that, um,
I work a lot, you know?
452
00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,596
And I know I'm your only parent,
you know
453
00:18:40,696 --> 00:18:43,933
and that is, you know, like the
responsibility
454
00:18:44,033 --> 00:18:47,236
that I have, and I don't ever
want you to feel any kind of
455
00:18:47,336 --> 00:18:49,505
neglect or anything like that.
456
00:18:49,605 --> 00:18:52,107
I feel guilty of course,
as any parent does, you know?
457
00:18:52,207 --> 00:18:54,877
But, it just means
I just have to do better.
458
00:18:54,977 --> 00:18:57,980
- AZARI: Are you okay?
459
00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,482
- I'm sorry.
460
00:19:08,057 --> 00:19:11,393
- NARRATOR: Coming up on
Basketball Wives...
461
00:19:12,027 --> 00:19:13,929
- Oh, hey Laysia.
462
00:19:14,029 --> 00:19:17,399
- Hey, Momma.
- Hey, my love. Hi, baby.
463
00:19:17,433 --> 00:19:19,702
- Showing up late,
this is just typical.
464
00:19:19,802 --> 00:19:22,137
And it's just like, Malaysia,
get your [bleep] together.
465
00:19:26,876 --> 00:19:32,815
- ♪
466
00:19:36,152 --> 00:19:39,455
- It is my dream and my hope and
my truest desire
467
00:19:39,555 --> 00:19:42,091
for these ladies
to use my podcast
468
00:19:42,191 --> 00:19:43,959
as not only a way to come
together,
469
00:19:44,060 --> 00:19:46,328
but to find common ground
with one another.
470
00:19:46,429 --> 00:19:49,565
But I certainly got
my work cut out for me.
471
00:19:49,665 --> 00:19:52,034
Hey.
472
00:19:52,134 --> 00:19:54,437
- Okay.
- JACKIE: You look amazing.
473
00:19:54,537 --> 00:19:57,940
You smell so good. Girl, I
haven't seen you in a minute.
474
00:19:58,040 --> 00:19:59,775
I'm glad you came here
a little early,
475
00:19:59,875 --> 00:20:02,011
because I wanted to know how are
you feeling since
476
00:20:02,111 --> 00:20:04,613
everything that happened?
- Girl, it's like--
477
00:20:04,714 --> 00:20:07,116
- Come get a drink,
come get a drink.
478
00:20:07,216 --> 00:20:09,919
- The situation, it's just like
confusing to me.
479
00:20:10,019 --> 00:20:12,755
The way Angel seemed so upset,
480
00:20:12,855 --> 00:20:15,591
the way Roccstar disrespected me
481
00:20:15,691 --> 00:20:17,626
and was threatening, like,
my relationship,
482
00:20:17,727 --> 00:20:19,662
I just wanted to leave that
situation behind--
483
00:20:19,762 --> 00:20:20,930
- Me too.
484
00:20:21,030 --> 00:20:22,331
- DUFFEY: I'm good on Roccstar.
485
00:20:22,431 --> 00:20:23,766
I don't have to
hang out with him,
486
00:20:23,866 --> 00:20:25,534
and at the end of the day,
last time I checked,
487
00:20:25,634 --> 00:20:27,670
whenever I'm in the bed, I don't
never see Roccstar
488
00:20:27,770 --> 00:20:29,405
to the right or the left,
489
00:20:29,505 --> 00:20:31,107
so he shouldn't know nothing
about my personal business.
490
00:20:31,207 --> 00:20:33,008
- What I want to tell you is...
491
00:20:33,109 --> 00:20:34,343
I need to drink
the rest of this.
492
00:20:34,443 --> 00:20:36,078
I was trying to hold on,
493
00:20:36,178 --> 00:20:37,480
so I could have it
during the podcast.
494
00:20:37,613 --> 00:20:39,081
- DUFFEY: Have you
spoke to Angel?
495
00:20:39,181 --> 00:20:41,283
- You know what?
I have spoke to Angel.
496
00:20:41,384 --> 00:20:44,653
- ANGEL: I just felt like a lot
of the girls
497
00:20:44,754 --> 00:20:46,322
and everybody was just in my
business a lot.
498
00:20:46,422 --> 00:20:48,257
- I'm so sorry, Angel, and I
might have, you know,
499
00:20:48,357 --> 00:20:50,326
overstepped my bounds a little
bit.
500
00:20:50,426 --> 00:20:52,128
And um, she was
just kind of like,
501
00:20:52,228 --> 00:20:54,330
"Jackie, I just
really want to know,
502
00:20:54,430 --> 00:20:57,533
are you sure that you really
told me that?"
503
00:20:57,633 --> 00:20:59,702
And I said, "Of course."
And she was like, "Okay."
504
00:20:59,802 --> 00:21:03,172
But, she has a lot going on, so
she couldn't make it today.
505
00:21:05,474 --> 00:21:07,476
- I mean, I wish Angel was going
to be here,
506
00:21:07,643 --> 00:21:09,445
I want to work this out soon,
507
00:21:09,545 --> 00:21:11,247
because it might ruin
our friendship.
508
00:21:11,347 --> 00:21:12,748
- I'm so glad about today,
509
00:21:12,848 --> 00:21:14,650
and I'm so glad we're gonna get
to share in our life.
510
00:21:14,750 --> 00:21:17,186
- You know what I love about
podcasts compared to radio,
511
00:21:17,286 --> 00:21:19,221
is you can say what the --
you want to say.
512
00:21:19,321 --> 00:21:20,856
- Why don't you do one?
513
00:21:20,956 --> 00:21:22,925
'Cause I know you're talking
about retiring from DJing,
514
00:21:23,025 --> 00:21:25,761
that's another outlet you can
build that'd be in your alley.
515
00:21:25,861 --> 00:21:28,664
- I'm thinking about executive
produce my album.
516
00:21:28,764 --> 00:21:30,266
I want to be like a female
DJ Khaled,
517
00:21:30,366 --> 00:21:32,134
'cause I have an ear.
518
00:21:32,234 --> 00:21:34,470
DJ Khaled went from being just a
DJ,
519
00:21:34,603 --> 00:21:37,139
he now executive produces
his own record.
520
00:21:37,239 --> 00:21:39,942
If I'm producing, I get to be in
the studio
521
00:21:40,042 --> 00:21:41,610
and be close to my family,
522
00:21:41,711 --> 00:21:43,612
and I don't have to go on
a 40-day tour.
523
00:21:43,679 --> 00:21:45,347
- You're gonna kill that.
That's right.
524
00:21:45,448 --> 00:21:46,849
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
525
00:21:46,949 --> 00:21:48,784
Cheers mamacita.
526
00:21:50,619 --> 00:21:56,525
- ♪
527
00:22:06,669 --> 00:22:08,871
- Hey!
528
00:22:11,674 --> 00:22:14,543
You look nice.
- Thank you, you look cute.
529
00:22:14,643 --> 00:22:18,748
- How you think this podcast is
gonna go today, honey?
530
00:22:20,049 --> 00:22:22,685
- I know what the subject is
supposed to be, but--
531
00:22:22,785 --> 00:22:25,521
- What is it supposed to be?
- Life after basketball,
532
00:22:25,654 --> 00:22:27,690
or life being a basketball wife,
or something like that.
533
00:22:27,790 --> 00:22:29,592
- Okay.
534
00:22:29,692 --> 00:22:33,429
- Hey now, hey!
- Hi, nice seeing you again.
535
00:22:34,797 --> 00:22:36,832
- Can we have another champagne
for Brandi, please?
536
00:22:36,932 --> 00:22:38,267
Thank you.
537
00:22:38,367 --> 00:22:40,002
I just want y'all to know that
this week,
538
00:22:40,102 --> 00:22:41,337
me and Lorenzo are on good
terms,
539
00:22:41,437 --> 00:22:42,805
I texted her I said,
"What you doing?"
540
00:22:42,905 --> 00:22:44,106
I said, "What you doing?"
541
00:22:44,206 --> 00:22:46,375
He said, um, I said,
"Buy me something."
542
00:22:46,475 --> 00:22:48,744
You talking about, "Thanks for
checking on me,
543
00:22:48,844 --> 00:22:50,413
and what you doing?"
544
00:22:50,513 --> 00:22:52,415
I said, "I'm about to work,"
he says, "Okay."
545
00:22:52,515 --> 00:22:54,617
I said, "Okay."
We're in a good spirit today.
546
00:22:56,452 --> 00:22:59,388
- Ooh, hey.
Look at you being cute.
547
00:22:59,488 --> 00:23:01,190
Give me a hug.
548
00:23:01,290 --> 00:23:03,125
- You got cheesecake.
- Mm-hmm.
549
00:23:03,225 --> 00:23:04,827
I brought, you know,
olive branch.
550
00:23:04,927 --> 00:23:07,463
So, how you think this is gonna
be today?
551
00:23:07,630 --> 00:23:09,398
- I have no idea what to expect.
552
00:23:09,498 --> 00:23:10,866
- What do you think about the
other ladies?
553
00:23:10,966 --> 00:23:13,269
I haven't seen them since our
gender reveal.
554
00:23:13,369 --> 00:23:14,904
- So, I don't know.
We'll see how it goes.
555
00:23:15,004 --> 00:23:16,839
- Yeah, well, we'll see.
556
00:23:16,939 --> 00:23:19,642
Even though things are weird
after the gender reveal--
557
00:23:19,708 --> 00:23:22,712
- It said, "I got a taste for
some out of wedlock
558
00:23:22,812 --> 00:23:24,680
baby shower food."
559
00:23:24,780 --> 00:23:27,450
The post that you made today is
shady.
560
00:23:27,583 --> 00:23:29,719
- I thought it was funny, so, I
mean...
561
00:23:29,819 --> 00:23:31,721
- I don't think
it was appropriate.
562
00:23:31,821 --> 00:23:33,856
- This is time for them to get
to know me
563
00:23:33,956 --> 00:23:36,459
and see that I'm funny, I like
to have a good time,
564
00:23:36,592 --> 00:23:38,360
and they're gonna be like,
565
00:23:38,461 --> 00:23:39,962
"Okay, that girl didn't mean no
harm by that."
566
00:23:40,062 --> 00:23:41,497
Wish me luck.
567
00:23:43,599 --> 00:23:46,602
- Hey, girl.
- How are you, mamacita?
568
00:23:49,071 --> 00:23:51,774
- Hi, Mia, I didn't even see
you, mamacita.
569
00:23:51,874 --> 00:23:53,509
I'm so glad you could come.
Come on.
570
00:23:55,678 --> 00:23:58,881
- I have not seen Mia since the
shit that she has pulled
571
00:23:58,981 --> 00:24:00,616
at Angel's gender reveal.
572
00:24:00,649 --> 00:24:03,352
She gives me weird bitch vibes,
573
00:24:03,452 --> 00:24:06,522
and I'm just like, "Girl, I
don't have time, bye."
574
00:24:07,823 --> 00:24:10,626
- You guys, I want to thank you
all for coming.
575
00:24:10,693 --> 00:24:12,728
This podcast today touches home
with me
576
00:24:12,828 --> 00:24:15,030
because it's my ladies,
it's my sisters,
577
00:24:15,131 --> 00:24:16,432
and in some way, shape, or form,
578
00:24:16,532 --> 00:24:18,200
we're all basketball wives,
579
00:24:18,300 --> 00:24:20,369
we talking about our life,
our experiences,
580
00:24:20,469 --> 00:24:22,638
the good, if you want to share a
little bit of bad,
581
00:24:22,705 --> 00:24:24,540
you can, and just
really opening up
582
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,575
so the world can get to know us.
583
00:24:26,609 --> 00:24:28,744
Nobody has told our story the
way that I'm hoping
584
00:24:28,844 --> 00:24:30,846
that we can start telling our
story today.
585
00:24:30,946 --> 00:24:32,681
So, starting it off,
586
00:24:32,782 --> 00:24:34,683
I'm gonna share a little bit
about my story.
587
00:24:34,784 --> 00:24:36,318
All of you guys know me already,
588
00:24:36,419 --> 00:24:38,287
but I've been married for 26
years,
589
00:24:38,387 --> 00:24:39,989
I've been with Doug for 30,
590
00:24:40,089 --> 00:24:43,726
and our journey to getting
married wasn't easy. Um...
591
00:24:43,826 --> 00:24:47,296
Oh, hey 'Laysia.
Hey, momma.
592
00:24:47,396 --> 00:24:49,665
- Hey, my love.
- Hi, baby.
593
00:24:49,765 --> 00:24:51,734
- Oh, you look so pretty.
- Come on, this your seat.
594
00:24:51,834 --> 00:24:53,803
- Oh, alright.
595
00:24:55,104 --> 00:24:57,373
- Showing up late, this is just
typical, and it's just like,
596
00:24:57,473 --> 00:24:59,675
Malaysia, get your [bleep]
together.
597
00:25:03,879 --> 00:25:06,449
- NARRATOR: Coming up on
Basketball Wives...
598
00:25:06,615 --> 00:25:08,617
- Being with a basketball player
is not easy.
599
00:25:08,651 --> 00:25:11,420
We really have been through a
lot of stuff together.
600
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,723
It's kind of messed up.
601
00:25:17,952 --> 00:25:23,791
- ♪
602
00:25:27,395 --> 00:25:30,498
- JACKIE: Oh, hey, 'Laysia.
- Hi.
603
00:25:30,598 --> 00:25:32,833
Hey, my love.
- Hi, baby.
604
00:25:32,934 --> 00:25:35,102
- Ooh, you look so pretty.
- Come on, this your seat.
605
00:25:35,203 --> 00:25:36,671
- Oh, alright.
606
00:25:36,771 --> 00:25:38,673
- Showing up late?
This is just typical.
607
00:25:38,773 --> 00:25:41,142
And it's just like, Malaysia,
get your [bleep] together.
608
00:25:41,242 --> 00:25:42,710
- JACKIE: Malaysia, I'm glad
609
00:25:42,810 --> 00:25:44,779
that you're my first special
guest, and I would love to know,
610
00:25:44,879 --> 00:25:47,582
what was it like, like being
married to Gennaro
611
00:25:47,682 --> 00:25:50,251
and traveling and that kind of
thing and him playing?
612
00:25:50,351 --> 00:25:53,688
- MALAYSIA: Every day was an
adventure.
613
00:25:53,788 --> 00:25:55,923
I think we were on like six
different teams.
614
00:25:56,023 --> 00:25:59,293
- So his transition from playing
basketball to after,
615
00:25:59,393 --> 00:26:00,995
what was that like?
616
00:26:01,095 --> 00:26:03,464
- He went right into coaching,
so we went through
617
00:26:03,564 --> 00:26:05,766
a very difficult period.
618
00:26:05,867 --> 00:26:08,870
Now you're the coach, and you're
not in the limelight.
619
00:26:08,970 --> 00:26:11,572
You're in a transition period,
where you're like,
620
00:26:11,672 --> 00:26:13,407
"I don't know where the [bleep]
I'm going,
621
00:26:13,507 --> 00:26:15,476
and I got all these bills, and I
have children."
622
00:26:15,576 --> 00:26:17,945
And sometimes you take it out on
the person that
623
00:26:18,045 --> 00:26:21,349
you love the most, and I was his
punching bag.
624
00:26:21,449 --> 00:26:23,384
We had three beautiful children,
625
00:26:23,484 --> 00:26:26,120
and I wouldn't change it
for the world.
626
00:26:26,220 --> 00:26:28,623
- This is amazing, and it shows
a little bit
627
00:26:28,756 --> 00:26:30,491
of vulnerability with Malaysia,
628
00:26:30,591 --> 00:26:32,260
and I can appreciate that.
629
00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:35,496
This sounds like someone that I
really can get to know,
630
00:26:35,596 --> 00:26:37,532
like she sounds real.
631
00:26:37,632 --> 00:26:39,634
- Everybody's going through
something,
632
00:26:39,767 --> 00:26:41,235
so this is what it is.
633
00:26:41,335 --> 00:26:42,770
- I've already heard this story,
634
00:26:42,837 --> 00:26:45,373
but it just reminds me just back
when we were friends,
635
00:26:45,473 --> 00:26:47,508
and I miss that.
636
00:26:47,608 --> 00:26:49,777
- So Brandi, I'm glad you're
here to share your story,
637
00:26:49,844 --> 00:26:52,213
and I would love to talk to you
about Jason.
638
00:26:52,313 --> 00:26:53,648
How you met him,
639
00:26:53,781 --> 00:26:55,683
his time in the league, and then
his transition out.
640
00:26:55,783 --> 00:26:57,485
- We were together
in high school,
641
00:26:57,585 --> 00:27:00,888
and we've been together
ever since then.
642
00:27:00,988 --> 00:27:02,957
- JACKIE: Did you know what you
was getting into?
643
00:27:03,057 --> 00:27:04,525
- BRANDI: I've never
been the person
644
00:27:04,625 --> 00:27:06,260
that wanted to be a stay at home
mom.
645
00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:07,962
I've always been taught to
hustle,
646
00:27:08,062 --> 00:27:10,097
I've always been taught to work
and do your own thing.
647
00:27:10,198 --> 00:27:12,533
And so we had a deal
648
00:27:12,633 --> 00:27:15,636
that when it got towards the end
of his career,
649
00:27:15,803 --> 00:27:18,139
that that was the
time for me to transition
650
00:27:18,239 --> 00:27:20,474
to do what I wanted to do.
651
00:27:20,575 --> 00:27:23,044
- In the past,
I've watched my friends
652
00:27:23,144 --> 00:27:26,414
who have dated athletes
or men who are successful
653
00:27:26,514 --> 00:27:27,915
get left with nothing,
654
00:27:28,015 --> 00:27:30,117
and I just want to
make sure that I'm not
655
00:27:30,218 --> 00:27:33,521
one of those women that falls
victim to depending on a man.
656
00:27:33,621 --> 00:27:35,656
- So, transitioning
into retirement,
657
00:27:35,756 --> 00:27:38,359
was that an easy thing for you
guys or was it difficult?
658
00:27:38,459 --> 00:27:41,229
- No, I mean, he went from being
the man,
659
00:27:41,329 --> 00:27:44,966
to really humbling himself and
being just a normal person.
660
00:27:45,066 --> 00:27:46,767
- Just being a normal guy?
- Yeah.
661
00:27:46,834 --> 00:27:49,203
- I'm definitely worried that if
I retire,
662
00:27:49,303 --> 00:27:52,907
I might look up and resent Iman
for making me quit,
663
00:27:53,007 --> 00:27:54,775
or feeling the pressure
to quit.
664
00:27:54,876 --> 00:27:57,645
But, if I could get a record and
executive produce,
665
00:27:57,778 --> 00:27:59,914
that'll just take me to a whole
other level,
666
00:28:00,014 --> 00:28:02,049
and I really want to be the
first female DJ
667
00:28:02,149 --> 00:28:03,784
that looks like me
668
00:28:03,818 --> 00:28:05,786
to be able to accomplish
something like that.
669
00:28:05,820 --> 00:28:07,622
- Thank you, Nia, for joining
us.
670
00:28:07,788 --> 00:28:09,423
- Hi, everyone.
671
00:28:09,524 --> 00:28:11,659
- JACKIE: Let's talk about
your experience
672
00:28:11,792 --> 00:28:13,528
with your significant other in
the league.
673
00:28:13,628 --> 00:28:15,530
- Well, I'm an ex.
674
00:28:15,630 --> 00:28:17,965
He was super sweet,
he was super kind,
675
00:28:18,065 --> 00:28:19,934
and then he started
feeling himself,
676
00:28:20,034 --> 00:28:21,802
'cause I had put
so much into him,
677
00:28:21,903 --> 00:28:23,738
helping him with his page,
his image,
678
00:28:23,771 --> 00:28:25,339
making him work out,
making him change up eating,
679
00:28:25,439 --> 00:28:27,041
I'm like, investing so much,
680
00:28:27,141 --> 00:28:28,442
where I stop investing
into myself.
681
00:28:28,543 --> 00:28:29,777
- Okay.
682
00:28:29,877 --> 00:28:31,746
- NIA: So, I had to
leave the situation.
683
00:28:31,812 --> 00:28:33,180
I would tell him,
like, "Be humble."
684
00:28:33,281 --> 00:28:35,283
- I understand what these women
are saying,
685
00:28:35,383 --> 00:28:37,418
because it's
a lifestyle change.
686
00:28:37,518 --> 00:28:40,655
And so once you get used to
something, you get used to it
687
00:28:40,755 --> 00:28:43,558
so I get it,
it's not an easy task.
688
00:28:43,658 --> 00:28:46,494
- Would you ever date another
player?
689
00:28:46,594 --> 00:28:48,763
Oh, you kinda are, huh?
690
00:28:48,796 --> 00:28:50,998
- I kind of dated
athletes all my life.
691
00:28:51,098 --> 00:28:53,768
I might need to stop doing that,
because girl--
692
00:28:53,868 --> 00:28:55,636
- JACKIE: I love you for sharing
that with me.
693
00:28:55,770 --> 00:28:57,205
Thank you, Nia.
694
00:28:57,305 --> 00:28:59,340
Last, and let's
bring you up, Brittish.
695
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,442
- You want me to talk about how
I'm a basketball ho?
696
00:29:01,542 --> 00:29:02,843
That's what you
want me to say?
697
00:29:02,944 --> 00:29:04,145
- No.
698
00:29:04,245 --> 00:29:06,781
Everybody, we're welcoming
Brittish to the show.
699
00:29:07,782 --> 00:29:09,450
- I met Lorenzo
when I was 21,
700
00:29:09,550 --> 00:29:10,818
when I was a
senior in college.
701
00:29:10,918 --> 00:29:12,253
Lorenzo played international
basketball,
702
00:29:12,353 --> 00:29:14,589
so I've lived in Turkey, Russia,
Israel, France,
703
00:29:14,689 --> 00:29:16,691
damn, Germany, everywhere.
704
00:29:16,791 --> 00:29:18,993
And I feel like I learned and
grew with him.
705
00:29:19,093 --> 00:29:20,995
We're not together today,
because like,
706
00:29:21,095 --> 00:29:22,630
I went through the hard
transition of him
707
00:29:22,730 --> 00:29:23,998
going through retirement,
708
00:29:24,098 --> 00:29:25,833
I thought about stuff that he
does every day.
709
00:29:25,933 --> 00:29:27,168
I'm like, "Well, you
work out everyday.
710
00:29:27,268 --> 00:29:28,569
You love training people.
711
00:29:28,736 --> 00:29:30,371
Train people.
Become a trainer."
712
00:29:30,471 --> 00:29:31,772
My issue is, with Lorenzo,
713
00:29:31,873 --> 00:29:33,808
is that he wanted to
fuck his clients,
714
00:29:33,908 --> 00:29:35,743
so when that happens, then it...
715
00:29:35,843 --> 00:29:39,447
it's the truth.
- Brittish...
716
00:29:39,547 --> 00:29:42,016
- You want me to tell the truth
or you want me to lie?
717
00:29:42,116 --> 00:29:44,085
- JACKIE: I want you
to tell the truth.
718
00:29:44,185 --> 00:29:45,753
- BRITTISH: I'd never take any
of the things that we...
719
00:29:45,820 --> 00:29:47,655
that was my best friend.
720
00:29:47,755 --> 00:29:48,990
He really was
there no matter what.
721
00:29:49,090 --> 00:29:50,858
When my dad died,
he was there.
722
00:29:50,958 --> 00:29:52,960
Like, Lorenzo has...I'm about to
cry thinking about it.
723
00:29:53,060 --> 00:29:55,329
We really have been through a
lot of stuff together.
724
00:29:55,429 --> 00:29:56,931
- JACKIE: Brittish,
oh my god.
725
00:29:57,031 --> 00:29:58,766
- It's kind of messed up.
- JACKIE: Oh my god,
726
00:29:58,833 --> 00:30:00,635
don't mess up my
make up, Brittish.
727
00:30:00,768 --> 00:30:02,303
- I want people to understand
728
00:30:02,403 --> 00:30:04,805
that being with a basketball
player is not easy.
729
00:30:04,906 --> 00:30:07,441
- JACKIE: No, it's not.
It's not.
730
00:30:07,542 --> 00:30:09,143
It's beautiful,
but it's not easy.
731
00:30:09,243 --> 00:30:11,779
- Sometimes it's beautiful,
sometimes it's a nightmare.
732
00:30:11,812 --> 00:30:13,447
I definitely appreciate the time
that me and Lorenzo
733
00:30:13,548 --> 00:30:14,916
had together.
734
00:30:15,016 --> 00:30:16,817
It definitely taught me
a lot of learning lessons
735
00:30:16,918 --> 00:30:18,719
and made me who I am today.
736
00:30:18,753 --> 00:30:20,755
And you know, it's hard to kind
of come to terms
737
00:30:20,855 --> 00:30:22,890
with the fact that we're not
together anymore.
738
00:30:22,990 --> 00:30:24,759
- Brittish, thank you.
- Thank you, Jackie.
739
00:30:24,859 --> 00:30:26,861
- For sharing your story!
740
00:30:26,961 --> 00:30:29,897
- You got me all podcast crying.
741
00:30:29,997 --> 00:30:33,034
- I have something to add to
that. I really feel like,
742
00:30:33,134 --> 00:30:34,902
I'm thankful for this space,
743
00:30:35,002 --> 00:30:36,837
because we are the head of our
households,
744
00:30:36,938 --> 00:30:40,541
I don't care what anybody says.
As women, we are.
745
00:30:40,641 --> 00:30:42,877
We make sure the bills are paid,
746
00:30:42,977 --> 00:30:46,747
even if you giving me the money.
The house is clean.
747
00:30:46,847 --> 00:30:49,517
- JACKIE: The booty is ready.
- The booty is ready.
748
00:30:49,617 --> 00:30:51,752
Okay, the food
is on the table.
749
00:30:51,853 --> 00:30:53,354
You know what I'm saying?
750
00:30:53,454 --> 00:30:54,789
So, while you're going through
your transition,
751
00:30:54,889 --> 00:30:56,557
it's like, we do,
752
00:30:56,657 --> 00:30:58,926
and we go through our transition
silently,
753
00:30:59,026 --> 00:31:01,596
and you can either grow with it
or get rolled over.
754
00:31:01,762 --> 00:31:03,097
You know what I'm saying?
755
00:31:03,197 --> 00:31:04,632
- We gonna leave
that right there,
756
00:31:04,765 --> 00:31:05,867
because Brooke ain't playing.
757
00:31:05,967 --> 00:31:07,335
I love it, sis.
Thank you for sharing.
758
00:31:07,435 --> 00:31:08,769
- I love you.
759
00:31:08,870 --> 00:31:10,404
- JACKIE: This podcast went even
better than I could
760
00:31:10,504 --> 00:31:12,006
have ever imagined.
761
00:31:12,106 --> 00:31:13,441
All of us coming together,
sharing our experiences,
762
00:31:13,541 --> 00:31:16,777
bonding, laughing, and really
enjoying each other
763
00:31:16,844 --> 00:31:18,880
and connecting,
not only as women,
764
00:31:18,980 --> 00:31:21,582
but basketball wives,
and a family.
765
00:31:21,716 --> 00:31:23,284
Every one of you,
I appreciate you coming,
766
00:31:23,384 --> 00:31:25,453
and I appreciate
the guests for coming
767
00:31:25,553 --> 00:31:27,021
and sharing in this moment
with us.
768
00:31:29,991 --> 00:31:31,926
- NARRATOR: Coming up
on Basketball Wives...
769
00:31:32,026 --> 00:31:33,728
- I mean,
I understand you dating,
770
00:31:33,828 --> 00:31:36,297
why does she feel comfortable to
post a picture
771
00:31:36,397 --> 00:31:39,000
of my daughter
on her social media page?
772
00:31:39,100 --> 00:31:41,402
- Well, like I said,
she took it down--
773
00:31:41,502 --> 00:31:43,471
- Lorenzo, the fact that you're
almost 40 years old
774
00:31:43,571 --> 00:31:45,873
and you don't think that it's
inappropriate for somebody
775
00:31:45,973 --> 00:31:47,975
to post somebody else's child
is a problem!
776
00:31:50,636 --> 00:31:54,039
- ♪
777
00:31:54,139 --> 00:31:55,975
- ANGEL: Let's see you go.
778
00:31:58,344 --> 00:32:01,046
- I'm gonna go here.
779
00:32:02,047 --> 00:32:03,582
- AZARI: You'll never beat me.
780
00:32:03,682 --> 00:32:05,117
- Oh, Amani.
781
00:32:05,217 --> 00:32:07,519
- That's cheating.
Nah, nah, put it down.
782
00:32:07,620 --> 00:32:10,689
That's cheating,
that's cheating.
783
00:32:10,789 --> 00:32:12,892
- Alright! Connect Four!
784
00:32:12,992 --> 00:32:15,261
I feel like I've done an amazing
job raising my children,
785
00:32:15,361 --> 00:32:18,063
and I think that it's still not
enough sometimes.
786
00:32:18,163 --> 00:32:19,965
I think kids always want more.
787
00:32:20,065 --> 00:32:21,800
I understand, you know,
he's a kid,
788
00:32:21,901 --> 00:32:23,335
and if he wants more attention,
789
00:32:23,435 --> 00:32:25,204
then it's something
that I should work on.
790
00:32:25,304 --> 00:32:27,506
So, now that we're having a new
addition to the family,
791
00:32:27,606 --> 00:32:28,974
how's that gonna be?
792
00:32:29,074 --> 00:32:30,309
How do you guys
see that happening?
793
00:32:30,409 --> 00:32:32,077
How do you feel about being a
big sister?
794
00:32:32,177 --> 00:32:33,612
- Excited.
795
00:32:33,712 --> 00:32:35,781
'Cause I don't know
what it feels like.
796
00:32:35,881 --> 00:32:37,249
- What about you?
797
00:32:37,349 --> 00:32:38,951
- The baby's gonna
move into the guest room,
798
00:32:39,051 --> 00:32:41,053
and I'm gonna be
in my room still.
799
00:32:41,153 --> 00:32:42,988
- [Amani laughs]
- Speaking of that, right?
800
00:32:43,088 --> 00:32:45,024
So, Rocc and I were talking,
and I've been thinking about it,
801
00:32:45,124 --> 00:32:47,159
we had that conversation,
and you're like,
802
00:32:47,259 --> 00:32:49,862
"I was here first,
and I love my room,"
803
00:32:49,962 --> 00:32:52,898
and you know,
you can keep your room.
804
00:32:54,567 --> 00:32:57,336
- What if, like, when he gets
older, and you need a bed?
805
00:32:57,436 --> 00:32:59,438
- We'll adjust,
we'll make adjustments.
806
00:32:59,505 --> 00:33:00,639
- Thank you.
807
00:33:00,739 --> 00:33:01,974
- Are you happy about that?
- Yes.
808
00:33:02,074 --> 00:33:05,077
- Can I get a hug?
- Yeah, you can.
809
00:33:05,177 --> 00:33:07,713
- You were not giving up
that room at all.
810
00:33:07,813 --> 00:33:09,682
I took Azari's feelings into
consideration.
811
00:33:09,782 --> 00:33:12,751
Our baby is definitely gonna be
sleeping with us in my room,
812
00:33:12,851 --> 00:33:14,954
that way Azari
can still have his room,
813
00:33:15,054 --> 00:33:16,855
and we can use
the other room downstairs
814
00:33:16,956 --> 00:33:18,724
for the baby's things.
815
00:33:18,824 --> 00:33:20,359
And with the baby,
816
00:33:20,459 --> 00:33:22,761
we're all gonna be one big
happy family.
817
00:33:22,861 --> 00:33:24,830
- AZARI: Sounds good.
- Sound good?
818
00:33:24,930 --> 00:33:26,465
You guys ready for
some dinner and ice cream?
819
00:33:26,565 --> 00:33:28,467
- Yes!
- Yes!
820
00:33:28,500 --> 00:33:31,470
- Alright, now help me up.
- Give me food! Here.
821
00:33:31,503 --> 00:33:33,205
- [Angel groans]
822
00:33:33,305 --> 00:33:35,474
- Okay, thank you very much.
I love you guys.
823
00:33:35,541 --> 00:33:37,243
- Love you more.
824
00:33:44,216 --> 00:33:47,319
- BRITTISH: Hey, Brandi,
how are you?
825
00:33:47,486 --> 00:33:49,255
- BRANDI: I'm good.
826
00:33:49,355 --> 00:33:51,624
- What is this?
- I'm making some chicken.
827
00:33:51,724 --> 00:33:53,092
Chicken, mashed potatoes.
828
00:33:53,192 --> 00:33:55,261
'Cause you're always
asking for food.
829
00:33:55,427 --> 00:33:57,429
Bring a little
Southern hospitality
830
00:33:57,496 --> 00:33:58,998
to the west coast.
831
00:33:59,098 --> 00:34:01,333
- This is my type of
hospitality, I get food.
832
00:34:01,433 --> 00:34:04,904
- So Brittish,
how was yesterday, then?
833
00:34:05,004 --> 00:34:07,273
- I really was
so proud of Jackie,
834
00:34:07,439 --> 00:34:09,441
because I thought she was
throwing us in a whirlwind,
835
00:34:09,475 --> 00:34:10,910
but in reality,
836
00:34:11,010 --> 00:34:13,212
it really was about basketball
and our lives--
837
00:34:13,312 --> 00:34:15,247
- Hold on, I'ma make this later.
838
00:34:15,347 --> 00:34:18,083
Let me tell you something.
Okay.
839
00:34:18,183 --> 00:34:21,954
I really think this podcast
really kind of helped us.
840
00:34:22,054 --> 00:34:25,090
If your man played in the
league, or played overseas,
841
00:34:25,190 --> 00:34:26,859
we are all the same,
842
00:34:26,959 --> 00:34:28,594
and we all deal with
the same problems,
843
00:34:28,694 --> 00:34:31,030
and I feel like that kind of
brought us together.
844
00:34:31,130 --> 00:34:34,233
- Everybody was vulnerable
and sensitive,
845
00:34:34,333 --> 00:34:36,101
and you know if I start crying,
I'm like,
846
00:34:36,201 --> 00:34:38,037
"Oh my god.
What are you doing?"
847
00:34:38,137 --> 00:34:39,705
- You're in love with Lorenzo
and you don't know it.
848
00:34:39,805 --> 00:34:41,207
- I'm not in love with him.
849
00:34:41,307 --> 00:34:42,908
- You're in love
with Lorenzo.
850
00:34:43,008 --> 00:34:45,077
Every time you talk about him,
you are smiling.
851
00:34:45,177 --> 00:34:46,679
Every time you, like,
852
00:34:46,779 --> 00:34:49,148
when you're thinking about the
memories and everything,
853
00:34:49,248 --> 00:34:51,717
yes, I know he did a lot to you,
I do,
854
00:34:51,817 --> 00:34:54,019
but you miss that man.
855
00:34:56,755 --> 00:34:59,692
- I felt like when I left,
I didn't leave to leave forever.
856
00:34:59,792 --> 00:35:01,227
In my head,
857
00:35:01,327 --> 00:35:02,928
I really was leaving for him to
appreciate, to understand
858
00:35:03,028 --> 00:35:04,496
that I will leave, you know what
I'm saying?
859
00:35:04,597 --> 00:35:06,999
I think me and Lorenzo
when were together,
860
00:35:07,099 --> 00:35:10,803
we were a very toxic
but good relationship.
861
00:35:10,903 --> 00:35:12,838
I don't know
if that's even a thing,
862
00:35:12,938 --> 00:35:14,573
but he gets me, I get him.
863
00:35:14,673 --> 00:35:16,609
But I don't know if I should
give him another chance,
864
00:35:16,709 --> 00:35:19,578
especially since he's seeing
some new random girl again.
865
00:35:19,678 --> 00:35:21,447
I don't know, it's weird.
866
00:35:21,513 --> 00:35:24,550
- For Jason, for me,
I never left that man.
867
00:35:24,650 --> 00:35:26,285
Everybody's like, "Oh, you need
to leave him alone.
868
00:35:26,452 --> 00:35:27,453
He's trash."
869
00:35:27,519 --> 00:35:29,321
But they don't know the good in
him, like,
870
00:35:29,455 --> 00:35:31,790
Jason was there
for me 100 percent
871
00:35:31,891 --> 00:35:34,093
when I was diagnosed with
ovarian cancer.
872
00:35:34,193 --> 00:35:37,129
The way he supported me, the way
that he was there for me,
873
00:35:37,229 --> 00:35:40,232
it was on
a whole other level.
874
00:35:40,332 --> 00:35:42,234
Jason's like, "Okay,
watch the game tonight."
875
00:35:42,334 --> 00:35:44,570
So I turn on the TV,
I'm watching the game,
876
00:35:44,670 --> 00:35:49,141
and I'm like, "This dude done
shaved his head. Oh my god."
877
00:35:49,241 --> 00:35:51,510
- To do something
like that is like,
878
00:35:51,610 --> 00:35:53,212
I'll never forget that.
879
00:35:53,312 --> 00:35:55,214
- How did you
get over him cheating?
880
00:35:55,314 --> 00:35:57,983
- It was very challenging,
and it was very difficult,
881
00:35:58,083 --> 00:36:01,954
but I looked at the bigger
picture, you know?
882
00:36:02,054 --> 00:36:04,523
I just really let go
of a lot of negativity,
883
00:36:04,623 --> 00:36:06,859
and then we focused
and went to counseling,
884
00:36:06,959 --> 00:36:09,161
and that was what,
you know, what worked.
885
00:36:09,261 --> 00:36:11,830
And, sometimes you gotta tune
out people like your friends,
886
00:36:11,931 --> 00:36:15,534
your mom, your cousins and stuff
out of your ear about them.
887
00:36:15,634 --> 00:36:17,536
- If I listened to them, we
wouldn't have been together
888
00:36:17,636 --> 00:36:19,238
for six months,
so I don't pay them...
889
00:36:19,338 --> 00:36:20,839
Everybody knows,
you know how I am,
890
00:36:20,940 --> 00:36:22,875
I'm very strong-willed,
whatever I feel is how I feel.
891
00:36:22,975 --> 00:36:24,610
- So, just think about it.
892
00:36:27,513 --> 00:36:29,615
- NARRATOR: Coming up on
Basketball Wives...
893
00:36:29,715 --> 00:36:31,016
- What's going on?
894
00:36:31,116 --> 00:36:33,052
- BRANDI: Something happened and
I called my doctor
895
00:36:33,152 --> 00:36:34,720
back in Detroit,
and he was like,
896
00:36:34,820 --> 00:36:36,622
"Brandi, you need to go to the
hospital right now."
897
00:36:36,722 --> 00:36:38,190
So, I'm freaking out.
898
00:36:42,878 --> 00:36:48,751
- ♪
899
00:36:48,851 --> 00:36:50,119
- BRITTISH: Hey baby!
900
00:36:50,219 --> 00:36:53,288
You with your daddy?
What y'all doing?
901
00:36:53,388 --> 00:36:55,290
- We were taking pictures.
902
00:36:55,390 --> 00:36:57,726
- You were? You look pretty.
903
00:37:05,234 --> 00:37:06,568
- He handsome to you?
904
00:37:08,036 --> 00:37:10,038
I'm sorry to hear that.
905
00:37:10,139 --> 00:37:11,440
I miss you,
906
00:37:11,540 --> 00:37:13,242
but tell your daddy to take you
in your room,
907
00:37:13,342 --> 00:37:15,144
let me talk to your
dad for a second, okay?
908
00:37:15,244 --> 00:37:16,912
- Take me to my room.
909
00:37:17,012 --> 00:37:18,947
- LORENZO: What's up?
What's the problem?
910
00:37:19,047 --> 00:37:21,417
- First of all let's just do a
little rewind.
911
00:37:21,517 --> 00:37:23,552
I mean, I understand you dating
and you know,
912
00:37:23,652 --> 00:37:25,921
to my understanding, you just
started dating this person
913
00:37:26,021 --> 00:37:27,122
that you're dating this month.
914
00:37:27,222 --> 00:37:28,991
So, my question to you is,
915
00:37:29,091 --> 00:37:31,493
I've never met the girl before,
916
00:37:31,593 --> 00:37:34,430
why does she feel comfortable to
post a picture
917
00:37:34,530 --> 00:37:37,599
of my daughter on her
social media page?
918
00:37:42,004 --> 00:37:44,406
- Okay, so...
919
00:37:45,340 --> 00:37:47,075
Lorenzo has a new girlfriend all
of a sudden,
920
00:37:47,176 --> 00:37:48,877
and he has the nerve to let the
girl post pictures
921
00:37:48,977 --> 00:37:50,412
of my daughter
on social media.
922
00:37:50,512 --> 00:37:51,747
That [bleep] is
not okay with me.
923
00:37:51,847 --> 00:37:53,148
I've never met her in my life,
924
00:37:53,315 --> 00:37:54,716
I don't even know
who the girl is,
925
00:37:54,817 --> 00:37:56,485
you don't even know how to spell
her name properly.
926
00:37:56,585 --> 00:37:59,488
How would you feel if I was
dating somebody,
927
00:38:05,027 --> 00:38:07,362
- Nobody can tell you what to
do, but ain't nobody gonna do
928
00:38:07,463 --> 00:38:08,997
what they want to do with my
[bleep] child!
929
00:38:09,098 --> 00:38:10,899
As long as you got whoever you
want to be with,
930
00:38:10,999 --> 00:38:12,534
she don't have
to come over there.
931
00:38:12,634 --> 00:38:14,103
You know that's
where I'm at with it!
932
00:38:14,203 --> 00:38:15,637
We ain't gotta argue about it!
933
00:38:17,206 --> 00:38:18,841
No! Ain't no bitch about to post
my daughter
934
00:38:18,941 --> 00:38:20,242
on their social media, either.
935
00:38:20,342 --> 00:38:21,944
I'm not going back and forth
with you about that,
936
00:38:22,044 --> 00:38:23,612
and you know that already.
So just stop it.
937
00:38:26,882 --> 00:38:28,684
- Lorenzo, the fact that you're
almost 40 years old,
938
00:38:28,784 --> 00:38:30,686
and you don't think that's
inappropriate for somebody
939
00:38:30,786 --> 00:38:33,355
to post somebody else's child is
a problem!
940
00:38:33,422 --> 00:38:35,624
- Well like I said, she erased
it, she took it down.
941
00:38:35,724 --> 00:38:37,826
- Lorenzo knows all of my
trigger points
942
00:38:37,926 --> 00:38:39,762
that gets me really upset.
943
00:38:39,862 --> 00:38:43,699
Every time I think I have a
little inkling that
944
00:38:43,799 --> 00:38:47,302
I'm gonna go back with him, oh
my god, he does some [bleep]
945
00:38:47,336 --> 00:38:49,371
that just says huh,
I know why I left,
946
00:38:49,471 --> 00:38:51,340
and I'm never coming back.
Like, seriously.
947
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,308
You are a [bleep] ass man
and that's why I don't want
948
00:38:53,342 --> 00:38:54,443
to have no
conversation with you!
949
00:38:54,543 --> 00:38:56,512
[bleep] off and [bleep] you!
950
00:38:56,612 --> 00:38:58,781
[bleep] him, I'm so tired
of that bullshit.
951
00:39:01,650 --> 00:39:07,589
- ♪
952
00:39:17,332 --> 00:39:19,001
- MARKUS: Okay guys,
Brandi will be by,
953
00:39:19,101 --> 00:39:20,636
we'll get her next.
954
00:39:20,736 --> 00:39:22,704
Alright, thanks guys. Okay.
- [phone rings]
955
00:39:25,240 --> 00:39:27,075
- Hey, hey Brandi.
- BRANDI: Hey, Markus.
956
00:39:27,176 --> 00:39:28,510
- What's going on?
957
00:39:28,610 --> 00:39:30,345
- BRANDI:
Um, don't be mad at me.
958
00:39:30,446 --> 00:39:32,347
- Why would I be mad at you?
959
00:39:32,448 --> 00:39:34,883
- BRANDI: I gotta cancel the
interview today.
960
00:39:34,983 --> 00:39:36,552
- MARKUS: What's going on?
961
00:39:39,755 --> 00:39:42,291
- MARKUS: Let me
talk to her real quick.
962
00:39:42,925 --> 00:39:44,393
Hold on one second.
963
00:39:46,295 --> 00:39:47,596
What's going on?
964
00:39:48,664 --> 00:39:50,299
- BRANDI:
Um, so something happened,
965
00:39:50,399 --> 00:39:51,900
and I called my doctor
back in Detroit,
966
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:53,402
and he was like,
967
00:39:53,502 --> 00:39:54,970
"Brandi, you need to go to the
hospital right now
968
00:39:55,070 --> 00:39:56,305
and get it checked out."
969
00:39:56,371 --> 00:39:57,773
I have no idea what's going on,
970
00:39:57,873 --> 00:39:59,508
but I'm just gonna
rush to the hospital.
971
00:39:59,608 --> 00:40:00,976
- MARKUS: I'm sorry
to hear that.
972
00:40:01,076 --> 00:40:02,344
Is it anything that
we can help with?
973
00:40:04,646 --> 00:40:07,015
- BRANDI: They're worried
that it could be cancer.
974
00:40:07,116 --> 00:40:08,717
And they want to make sure,
975
00:40:08,817 --> 00:40:11,120
because of all
the cancer stuff that I had
976
00:40:11,220 --> 00:40:12,788
back in the day.
- Yeah.
977
00:40:12,888 --> 00:40:16,525
- BRANDI: So, I'm freaking out,
honestly, 'cause...
978
00:40:16,625 --> 00:40:19,161
Keep me in your prayers.
- MARKUS: Of course.
979
00:40:19,328 --> 00:40:21,330
- BRANDI: I don't know
what's going on.
980
00:40:22,682 --> 00:40:23,916
- NARRATOR: Next time on
Basketball Wives...
981
00:40:24,016 --> 00:40:27,520
- I want to cordially invite
these beautiful baddies
982
00:40:27,620 --> 00:40:31,290
in front of me
to a weekend in Vegas
983
00:40:31,390 --> 00:40:33,492
for my birthday this weekend!
984
00:40:34,527 --> 00:40:36,829
- My husband and I
are talking about
985
00:40:36,929 --> 00:40:39,732
doing IVF again.
- Oh no!
986
00:40:39,832 --> 00:40:41,133
[unintelligible] gonna
have a friend?
987
00:40:41,234 --> 00:40:42,435
- Yes.
988
00:40:42,535 --> 00:40:43,903
- Is Gennaro helping with the
house?
989
00:40:44,003 --> 00:40:45,238
- Girl, no.
990
00:40:45,338 --> 00:40:47,273
I know you guys have been
telling me that I need
991
00:40:47,373 --> 00:40:48,474
to take him to court.
992
00:40:48,574 --> 00:40:49,976
I am going to pray about it.
993
00:40:50,076 --> 00:40:51,377
- How do you know God not
saying,
994
00:40:51,477 --> 00:40:53,212
"Walk your ass
in that courthouse?"
995
00:40:53,312 --> 00:40:55,248
- I just want you to know that
Jackie was like,
996
00:40:55,348 --> 00:40:57,984
"Rocc said that he was gonna
make Iman leave her."
997
00:40:58,084 --> 00:41:00,786
- Rocc and I both feel like
we're being attacked.
998
00:41:02,822 --> 00:41:05,391
- He was like,
"We're having too many issues.
999
00:41:05,491 --> 00:41:08,594
We might want to have
a full hysterectomy."
1000
00:41:10,096 --> 00:41:11,597
- WOMAN: Aw yeah. I'm sorry.