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[Mark Athans]
She was my first love.
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[narrator] When Mark Athans
loses the mother
of his children,
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it leaves a gaping hole
in his life.
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[Mark] To fall in love agai
and feel that
for another person...
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...was something
that I longed for.
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[narrator] When he meets
a woman who seems
to fill the void...
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[Mark] Charity drew me in
personality-wise.
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[narrator] ...he'll quickly
discover he's just the mark
she's been looking for.
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[Michael Flores] She's
a master manipulator.
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And she's literally
out to take all that she can.
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[Mark] I paid for vehicles,
for apartments,
cell phones, clothes.
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That's strange. Why are there
men's clothes here
if her daughter is here?
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[Mark] That's when Dakota
started looking
into Charity's background.
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There wasn't a Charity Parchem
or a Charity anything.
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[anchor] Montgomery County
has ordered Athans
to pay $96,000 by tomorrow.
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I found Charity's husband.
Her real husband.
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Boy, did I get
a kick in the balls.
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[Mark] My name is Mark Athan
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I live in Willis, Texas.
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And I'm a surgical
first assistant,
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licensed through
the State of Texas.
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I been doing this
for 35 years.
And, uh, I love it.
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I'm proud of all three
of my boys. I couldn't have
asked for better.
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Dakota is my youngest.
He is 25.
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He is God's gift to me.
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Dakota is very
high functioning,
but he is autistic.
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So he sees things
in a different light.
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He is purely honest and ope
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with what he sees,
understands, or hears.
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[Dakota Athans] I do love
my dad. My dad's
a very wonderful guy.
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He takes care of me,
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takes care of
my doctor's appointments,
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hair appointments,
that sort of stuff.
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Always stands up for me.
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[Mark] We were told that he
would never
graduate high school.
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He graduated from high schoo
He went on to college.
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It's a tragedy that his moth
is deceased,
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and is not seeing
the young man
that he's turned out to be.
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Kelly was my first love.
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I spent 22 years of my life
with a woman
that I loved dearly.
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That filled the void
in my heart with something
that I longed for.
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[narrator] It's been almost
four years since the death
of Mark's first wife.
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[Mark] I'd tried dating,
and there wasn't any
encounters that were serious
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I was hoping to find someone
who I could trust enough
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that if something
happens to me,
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that they can carry on forward
to help Dakota.
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So he's not left alone.
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Because I'm not gonna be
around forever.
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Now, I met Charity online.
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Charity said that she was
a Texas registered nurse.
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With a couple of
home health agencies.
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She worked with
elderly patients
and terminally ill patients
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That made me say, wow,
she's gotta be pretty special
if she can do that.
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We did have a chance
to have a date.
Going to a local restaurant
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Charity had told me
that she had been
married twice,
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and that she had
four daughters.
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[narrator] Charity is livin
with her two
youngest daughters,
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Paige, 17, and Destiny, 15,
in the nearby
town of Spring.
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She had been divorced
from her second husband
for almost ten years.
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Charity had told me that, uh,
his name was Bart Parchem.
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That she didn't have anythin
to do with Bart.
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That he was, uh,
a convicted felon.
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I said, okay, well,
it is what it is.
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Charity had, uh, a magnetism
that drew me in
personality-wise...
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...that in a way kind of
reminded me of the boys' mom.
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Bubbly, friendly.
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[narrator] It only takes
a few weeks for Mark
to fall in love.
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Now, he introduces Charity
to his closest friends:
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his neighbors,
Gina and James,
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who are living with him
while their house
is being renovated.
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[Gina Helm] Mark said, hey,
I'd like you guys to meet he
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see what you think.
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So I was like, oh, yay,
that's so nice.
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She was very bubbly,
and I liked her.
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She looked very normal to me.
Just a normal, average person.
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Like... yeah, nice.
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[narrator] Mark and Charity
start seeing
more of one another.
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[Mark] I mean,
to fall in love again...
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...and feel that
for another person,
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that was something
that I hadn't felt
in a long time.
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Charity came, she was like,
hey, I've gotta
run a few errands,
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do you wanna come with me?
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I just have to pick up
a prescription
and we'll come back.
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So, we go to the pharmacy,
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and she immediately
pulls out her insurance card
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and it said, Charity Parchem
Bart Parchem.
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And I thought,
who's Bart Parchem?
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And she said, that's my ex.
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[narrator] Charity has been
divorced for almost ten year
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It seems strange
her ex is still
on her insurance card.
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[Gina] But you know,
she started immediately
talking to the pharmacist,
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and so I wasn't able to tal
more about it.
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So, then we leave
the pharmacy, and she says,
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hey, I am really sorry,
but I need to stop by
my house.
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When we get there, she says
my middle daughter, Paige,
lives here by herself.
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Then she goes, oh, I'm gonna
go to my bedroom.
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Come with me.
You can see the bedroom.
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So I go to the bedroom.
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And there's a closet open,
full of men's clothes.
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And so I'm thinking, what?
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That's strange. Why are ther
men's clothes here
if her daughter is here?
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And then I look down,
and there's a basket of like
like, laundry.
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Like someone's staying here
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And then, she takes me
through the bathroom,
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and there's like,
men's cologne, men's razors
um, shaving cream.
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And I said,
what man lives here?
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And she says, oh,
no man lives here.
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My ex comes here
after working out,
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showers and changes and the
takes the girls to do stuff
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And I was like, okay, but...
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...this is a lotta stuff.
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It literally looked like
the girls lived there
and he lived there.
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So, when we got back,
I went straight to Mark.
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I was like, okay.
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I don't understand at all.
You may want
to discuss that with her.
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[Mark] That was where
my confusion starts.
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How do I take this?
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Because I was in love
with Charity,
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and because of,
I wanted things to work,
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that was the whole intent,
was to get a life partner.
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And he comes to us
and mentions, hey,
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I've asked Charity
to move in with us.
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And James and I, you know,
are like, okay...
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[Mark] Her youngest daughter
Destiny, came with Charity.
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So I picked up a ready-made
family, pretty much.
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[Gina] Charity really
took over the house.
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Like, these are my things,
and I'm gonna cook this.
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And I thought, she just
wants us outta here.
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[Mark] Charity
wanted to quit work
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and just concentrate
on Destiny and Dakota.
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At that point in time, I jus
said, you know what? Sure.
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Let's rock and roll with thi
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I'm getting back on track
with a life, a family life.
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[Gina] I just
didn't understand it.
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You know, we're thinking, uh,
he's just so in love?
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You know... You know,
is this what's happening?
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We didn't like it at all.
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Honestly, I thought that Gina
and James were not
getting along with Charity
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because there might be
an issue that I'm not seeing.
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So that weekend, I wanted
to go somewhere
with James, Gina and Charity
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and I could take a little
mental health break,
and I guess reconnect.
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[Gina] James and I
were a bit reluctant.
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But we were like, okay,
you know, we'll do it.
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[Mark]
Charity starts drinking.
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All of a sudden, she starts
forcing me to do these shots
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Then I just put my foot down
said, that's it, I'm not doi
no more shots.
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[Gina] James snaps a pictur
of us at the table,
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and it was, oh, I got
a picture of us,
I'm posting it on Facebook,
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and we're all, like, oh, cut
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[narrator] Moments
after posting the photo,
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James gets a phone call
from an old and trusted
friend, Michael Flores.
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[phone ringing]
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Michael and Charity had bee
friends and colleagues
in the past.
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But it didn't end well.
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I, I was just like, wow.
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Out of all the people
in the world,
what are the odds?
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It had been two years
since I had saw Charity.
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She was more full figured
than she was when I knew her,
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but I I knew it was her
as soon as I saw her.
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[Gina] James comes back
to the table, and he's very...
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...like, freaked-out looking.
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And then James kinda,
like, nudges me
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while Mark and Charity
are talking about something
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And he says...
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...Mike Flores says Mark
needs to run.
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From Charity.
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James asks Charity,
do you know Mike Flores?
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And her face was shock.
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And then James goes,
I grew up with him.
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And in fact, I spoke to him
and he didn't have very goo
things to say about you.
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[narrator] But before Charit
can respond,
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the group is distracted
by another bar patron.
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[Gina] Somebody bumps into
Charity's chair,
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which, you know, seemed
harmless, oh, and he was like,
[slurring] "Oh sorry."
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You know, and just walked off.
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But then she's telling Mark
oh my gosh,
I think he touched me.
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And now Mark's up,
and he's like,
what do you mean?
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Like, how did he touch you?
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And she seems to be
getting Mark all riled up.
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There he is, pointing him ou
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[Mark] Man, I was,
I was fixing to go at him.
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I was losing my cool.
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My saving grace was, is Jame
decided this is done,
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we gotta walk outta here now
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We got out in my truck.
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[Gina] Charity is still,
you know, badgering Mark,
they're fighting.
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Mark's trying to get her
to calm down.
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And she seems
to just want to escalate it.
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And she's like,
you don't even care.
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[Mark] When we were
coming down the road
here at the house,
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Charity got out of the truck
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[Gina] She slams the door,
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walks over to her vehicle,
and says, "I'm leaving."
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And Mark's like, what?
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And she did. She left.
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James and I
look at each other,
and we're thinking...
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...but where is she going?
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This is not good.
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I told James that she isn't
who he thinks she is.
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She's a master manipulator.
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I lost everything.
I lost everything.
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She is the spawn of Satan.
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[narrator] Mark Athans'
evening out with his
friends and girlfriend
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has ended in confusion.
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I'm going, like,
what the hell just happened?
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[Gina] Charity just
tears outta there.
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And I don't even understand.
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[narrator] James thinks
he knows what was behind
Charity's hasty retreat.
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[Gina] James says she didn'
wanna deal
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with any of the Mike Flores
questions from any of us.
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So it was a giant, blown-up
situation to create drama.
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And then I think,
oh, that's right.
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[narrator] The next morning
there's still
no sign of Charity.
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It's James' chance
to get Mark alone.
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[Gina] They sit down,
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and James begins to just
unload all this material
that Mike Flores,
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you know, explained to him.
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[Flores] I gave him a rundow
of my dealings with her.
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And I met her
at the tattoo shop years ago
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Charity liked getting
older guys to fall for her,
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and then getting what
she wanted out of them,
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whether it was dinner or
jewelry or, you know, takin
care of some of her bills.
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Charity just uses,
you know, sexual favors
to kinda reel 'em in.
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She talked about
how to manipulate, uh, men
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to get what she wanted
out of it.
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Weak men with money
who are searching
for a relationship.
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Use 'em while she can,
and just go on to the next.
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She's a master manipulator.
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You know, she's sweet
on the outside,
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and just a, a monster
on the inside once she gets
her, her fangs sunk in.
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I told James to tell Mark
to get out now, while you ca
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Before this guy
just loses everything.
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This is the real deal.
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And she's literally
out to take all that she can.
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[narrator] A dire warning
which Mark completely ignore
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when Charity
returns a day later.
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[Flores] James says Mark's
response was,
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well, that may have been
her in her past,
that's not the way she is no
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[Mark] You know what?
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I had lost somebody
that I spent 22 years
of my life with.
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You know, to feel that
for another person...
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...I opened up totally, 100%.
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[narrator] And now,
Gina and James are the ones
who feel unwelcome.
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[Gina] There's a lotta tensi
in the house.
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We go in to get
a cup of coffee,
if she's in there,
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she just immediately, like,
removes herself from the roo
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I'm sure she doesn't want me
asking her questions.
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[Mark] I'm getting told
over and over
that they're just using you
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I mean, Charity had told me
that James had tried
to sell her drugs.
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She had told me also
that James had tried
to come on to her.
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On multiple occasions.
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I was upset.
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Of course.
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Honestly, I was
really hurt by it.
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He must be
believing this stuff.
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And at that point, you know,
James and I were like,
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we need to immediately
get out of Mark's house.
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We get everything done quick
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And we move where
we needed to be next door.
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It was weird. We lived
right next door to Mark,
but we didn't talk.
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[Mark] Everything really
started going into high gea
within a matter of weeks.
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[Mark] I got down on one kne
and asked Charity
if she would marry me.
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And I guess I'm expecting
something like,
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okay, yeah, yeah, yeah,
and then come give me
a big hug and a kiss,
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and, oh my gosh, and...
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But it's... subdued.
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She looked at me and she said
yes, she would.
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I guess I'm thinking
of a crescendo...
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...when it was more like
a little vibrato,
[laughing] you know?
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But that's the way
that occurred.
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And she told me
she didn't want
any of her family knowing.
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Nobody. Daughters, nobody.
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Charity had pushed it,
wanting to get married
in South Dakota, at Sturgis
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So, you know, we went
to South Dakota, and we
got married in City Hall
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in front of pictures of all
the Mayors [laughing]
of Deadwood, South Dakota.
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[laughing]
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We go back, the people
at the resort
that we stayed at
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had, uh, drinks for us there
and that was it.
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That was the end of the nigh
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What, what a wedding night,
huh?
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[laughing]
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Nothing else happened.
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Actually, nothing else
happened for the next...
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...six days.
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So for six days, we didn't
consummate the marriage?
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Seriously? What the hell
is going on?
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On the way back, I had
20-something hours of drivin
to think,
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and the whole time back,
I felt like I had made
one hell of an error.
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[narrator] Once back home
in Willis, Mark
sets his concerns aside
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and commits himself
to supporting his new family
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But it's a strain.
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The expenses increased tenfold
from the day we were married.
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Charity told me that Bart
didn't pay any child support
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He was an ex-con deadbeat da
That's exactly
the way she put it.
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With Charity
and her daughters, I had
to pay for vehicles,
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I had to pay for furniture,
I had to pay for apartments,
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I had to pay for college
tuitions, cell phones,
and I'm doing it all alone.
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For a lotta people.
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Even though Destiny
was the only daughter
that lived here.
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One day, Charity said
she had to go see Paige
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and pick up some things
that she had.
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She left at like, eight, nin
in the morning.
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I would come home from work
about four or five-ish
in the afternoon.
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She wasn't here.
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I was going, like, okay, well,
she's just busy. I'd text her.
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And couldn't get a reply
out of the text.
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She just disappeared
off the face of the earth.
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Gone.
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She came back home
at about 11:00.
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And she's going like, well,
I had a lotta things I had
to get with Paige.
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I had suspicions
that something was up.
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And that's when Dakota
started looking into
Charity's background.
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[Dakota] I actually
went through, uh, online,
found some stuff about her.
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I went to the Montgomery
County Texas Odyssey databas
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that's actually the court
docket system, and she has
a criminal record.
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For theft by check.
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She said she was a nurse.
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[Mark] All the lights,
all the red flags, popped up
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You can't be a nurse
with a criminal record.
You just can't do it.
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I called the Texas State
Nursing Board.
They went and looked.
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There weren't no
Charity Parchem, or a Charit
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or anything
with her birthday in there.
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Anything. Her social securit
anything.
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I'm going, like,
are you kidding me?
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So she's been lying to me
all this time about her being
a nurse when she never was.
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[narrator] What else
is she lying about?
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Now Mark really wants to kno
what Charity has been up to
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[Mark] And then I also
remembered
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that I put GPS trackers
on my vehicles.
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On all the vehicles.
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So if one of 'em ever
got stolen, I knew exactly
where that would be.
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Said, you know what? I need
to look and see
where the vehicles are.
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And guess where the vehicle
would be showing up at?
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Especially the one
that Charity had?
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At the old house in Spring.
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[narrator] ...where earlier
Gina had observed
men's toiletries and clothes
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Imagine that.
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[narrator] Mark Athans
has just discovered
that his new bride Charity
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has been spending a lot
of time at her previous hous
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Of course, I'd already had
the devil picking on
my shoulder, causing doubt.
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And doubt was starting
to seem pretty, pretty
hard and heavy then.
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[narrator] True, her daughte
Paige lives there.
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But does her ex-husband
Bart live there as well?
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Mark's suspicions are growin
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There's a lotta things I will
believe, but when it
comes down to it,
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and you can't get in touch
with somebody,
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whether you needed 'em
for an emergency or nothing
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no contact, cell phone's
turned off...
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Things changed
very rapidly then.
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I started looking at Charity
cell phone records,
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because the phones
were in my name.
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And it was kinda funny,
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because the morning
that she disappeared
off the face of the earth...
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...there was a phone call
made on her cell phone,
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and guess whose phone
it went to?
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Bart Parchem's.
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I confronted Charity
about this.
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I said, you're calling
your ex-husband three or fou
times a day.
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"It had to do about the girl
They are his daughters."
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And I said, so,
you're telling me
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that you sent him over
a hundred-and-something text
about his daughters
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when you never
did that before?
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She blew up. So she got
extremely mad.
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Extremely ticked off.
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"What are you doing
tracking me,
you don't trust me?"
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And I told her straight up,
hell, no, I don't trust ya.
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You're doing things that are,
that are violating that trust.
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I asked her if she
was sleeping with Bart.
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And she said no, she was not
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But sometimes, you don't
have to have
an admission of guilt
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whenever you got the proof
sittin' right in front
of your face.
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She was pissed off,
and she just took off.
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After about ten hours,
Charity came back,
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and it was like, let's talk
I can fix this, I,
I can do right.
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I went and said,
okay, you know,
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you can't say
I'm not gonna try.
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[narrator] Charity seems
determined to make
a fresh new start with Mark
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[Mark] Charity made
reservations
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at the San Luis Hotel
in Galveston for the weekend
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Just me and her.
Something to rebuild
what had been broken.
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We go to the hotel.
The restaurant
was a very good dinner.
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But, uh,
halfway through the meal,
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she wanted to go
back upstairs.
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We went back up to the room
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and she starts getting
a little bit frisky with me
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And we end up having sex.
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Twice.
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So I'm going, like, okay.
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We go out for a walk
on the beach together.
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The next morning, we get up
and go have
some fancy brunch there
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that they have every Sunday
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I opened up totally. 100%.
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00:24:12,076 --> 00:24:15,661
[narrator] And Charity
is in it 100%, too.
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For Dakota's birthday,
she organizes a trip they ca
all three enjoy together.
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[Mark] Dakota wanted to go
to Fredericksburg.
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Me and Dakota
spent lots of time
at Fredericksburg.
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We always have.
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[narrator] Charity arranges
for her daughters
to house sit,
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and the three of them
head West to Fredericksburg
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a popular spot for wine love
and history buffs.
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[Mark] It's a four to five
hour drive there.
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Got there in Fredericksburg
with the B&B.
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And then Charity
started a conversation
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00:24:44,892 --> 00:24:49,028
that went really South on me.
Real quick.
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00:24:50,531 --> 00:24:53,782
Charity's talking about
her past life,
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00:24:53,826 --> 00:24:58,078
about how one of her
boyfriends had made her
be a drug mule
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00:24:58,155 --> 00:25:02,082
down in Mexico, and do
some real wild, crazy stuff
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00:25:02,084 --> 00:25:04,210
And Dakota's
out there with us.
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00:25:04,286 --> 00:25:06,587
So I got uptight.
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00:25:06,589 --> 00:25:09,673
And this is not something
that Dakota
needed to be hearing.
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And he doesn't know what
to think. I'm sure right now
he's in panic mode.
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And you can tell, because
with anybody
that's, that's autistic,
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they start
flapping their hands.
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00:25:20,745 --> 00:25:24,939
I would think she was tryin
to bait me into something
where it would get physical
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And then she could have me
arrested for assault,
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00:25:28,361 --> 00:25:31,904
so it's a he said, she said
type situation.
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00:25:31,981 --> 00:25:33,948
Because that's
exactly what she wanted.
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She was baiting me into that
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I said, I've got to get thi
under control immediately,
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and isolate this
from me and Dakota.
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And I did. I just said
it stops. It stops now.
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00:25:46,662 --> 00:25:48,629
This is not the life
I'm gonna live.
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I said, Dakota,
we gotta go home.
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[narrator] Mark and Dakota
make the five hour drive hom
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00:25:55,972 --> 00:25:59,723
knowing that when they
get there, they'll have
to tell Destiny and Paige
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they left their mom
in Fredericksburg
to cool down.
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00:26:03,813 --> 00:26:06,522
But that's not
how the night unfolds.
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00:26:07,733 --> 00:26:10,109
[Mark] Dakota and I pulled i
at around 4:00 in the mornin
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00:26:10,611 --> 00:26:12,111
The dogs were gone.
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00:26:12,187 --> 00:26:14,655
And Destiny and Paige
were gone.
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00:26:14,732 --> 00:26:19,910
And so were the vehicles.
The Mustang, her truck,
the truck that I had.
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All of those vehicles
were gone.
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00:26:22,290 --> 00:26:25,749
And I knew what had happened
then. I'd been set up.
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00:26:27,628 --> 00:26:32,047
Me and Dakota walk
into my house and see
a lotta things missing.
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00:26:32,082 --> 00:26:34,925
I mean a lotta things.
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00:26:35,002 --> 00:26:38,262
[Dakota] It was very empty.
So I was like, where's
the stuff that was gone?
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00:26:42,351 --> 00:26:43,583
[phone chimes]
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00:26:43,661 --> 00:26:45,844
[Mark] My phone
starts burning up.
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00:26:45,846 --> 00:26:49,690
[narrator] It's a string
of texts that were sent
by Mark's neighbor, James,
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00:26:49,692 --> 00:26:53,110
while he and Dakota were sti
on their way home.
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00:26:53,187 --> 00:26:55,195
[Mark] You're, you're out
in the hill country of Texas
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We don't get cell signals
down there.
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00:26:57,066 --> 00:27:00,117
So I got 'em after I got her
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00:27:02,455 --> 00:27:05,205
[narrator] Hours earlier,
sometime around midnight,
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00:27:05,282 --> 00:27:08,417
Gina and James had been
alerted to trouble.
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00:27:09,295 --> 00:27:11,754
-[dog barking]
-[Gina] Champ keeps barking
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00:27:11,797 --> 00:27:14,548
Champ likes Mark and he like
to watch his house.
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00:27:14,550 --> 00:27:19,720
And James goes outside
and he sees a U-Haul truck
and a Charger,
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00:27:19,722 --> 00:27:24,391
and there's a man
and some girls there.
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00:27:24,468 --> 00:27:26,101
[narrator] Gina believes
she recognizes the man.
451
00:27:26,145 --> 00:27:29,730
and at least one of the girl
452
00:27:29,807 --> 00:27:33,400
[Gina] The lights were on,
so you could see
Bart and Paige.
453
00:27:33,486 --> 00:27:36,487
[narrator] Bart Parchem,
Charity's ex.
454
00:27:36,563 --> 00:27:39,073
They were going
into the house,
bringing things out,
455
00:27:39,149 --> 00:27:41,825
and putting 'em
into the U-Haul.
456
00:27:41,902 --> 00:27:45,788
And at this point, James and
are just thinking,
this is not good.
457
00:27:45,823 --> 00:27:48,374
[scoffs] We were like,
this is not good.
458
00:27:48,450 --> 00:27:53,796
James says, I don't see
Mark's truck. Let me just
send him a quick text.
459
00:27:55,466 --> 00:28:00,010
[narrator] But by the time
Mark receives James' messages,
it's far too late.
460
00:28:00,087 --> 00:28:04,515
It was four in the morning.
I had driven 800 miles.
461
00:28:04,591 --> 00:28:07,768
I'm mentally
and physically wiped out.
462
00:28:07,845 --> 00:28:10,270
So me and Dakota laid down
and went to sleep.
463
00:28:10,856 --> 00:28:12,981
[narrator] Mark feels
he's been burgled.
464
00:28:13,025 --> 00:28:17,569
But as his spouse,
Charity is entitled
to remove her belongings.
465
00:28:17,646 --> 00:28:22,116
What happens next is less
of a legal gray area.
466
00:28:22,118 --> 00:28:24,201
[Mark] The next morning,
I woke up,...
467
00:28:25,579 --> 00:28:28,997
...and my phone
is going crazy.
468
00:28:29,041 --> 00:28:35,170
I'm getting alerts from
my bank, sending me notices
of charges right and left.
469
00:28:35,214 --> 00:28:37,423
They're wanting to know
what's going on.
470
00:28:37,499 --> 00:28:43,929
There was $15,000
taken out of my bank account
all to Amazon.
471
00:28:44,006 --> 00:28:47,808
And Amazon told me
where everything was going,
to Spring.
472
00:28:49,979 --> 00:28:52,020
Guess who lives in Spring?
473
00:28:52,064 --> 00:28:55,232
[narrator] Sure, Charity's
daughter Paige lives there,
474
00:28:55,309 --> 00:28:57,359
but now, Mark thinks
Gina was right
475
00:28:57,403 --> 00:29:00,612
that Bart Parchem
is also staying there.
476
00:29:01,490 --> 00:29:04,950
[Mark] I knew what had
happened. I knew who did it
477
00:29:06,370 --> 00:29:10,038
At the meantime,
Charity is texting me,
burning my phone up,
478
00:29:10,082 --> 00:29:12,916
trying to get me
to come pick her up
from Fredericksburg.
479
00:29:15,004 --> 00:29:16,754
First thing
that popped into my head...
480
00:29:16,830 --> 00:29:19,798
...is Charity was not even
in Fredericksburg.
481
00:29:21,802 --> 00:29:26,388
[narrator] Mark has
his suspicions. Now,
he goes looking for proof.
482
00:29:26,432 --> 00:29:28,891
[Mark] I went to Sam's
and actually said,
483
00:29:28,934 --> 00:29:30,768
I wanna see who used my card
484
00:29:30,844 --> 00:29:33,604
and they pulled it up
on their video surveillance.
485
00:29:34,565 --> 00:29:37,107
And who was on
the video surveillance?
486
00:29:37,818 --> 00:29:40,194
Charity and Bart.
487
00:29:42,114 --> 00:29:46,950
When she's trying to get me
to go back to Fredericksbur
to pick her up,
488
00:29:46,952 --> 00:29:51,163
her and Bart are here
in the woodlands at Sam's,
489
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,417
trying to pick up stuff
they had just bought
off my credit card together.
490
00:29:56,837 --> 00:29:59,004
[narrator]
Bart may be Charity's ex,
491
00:29:59,081 --> 00:30:00,964
but as far as
Mark is concerned,
492
00:30:01,041 --> 00:30:03,884
the two of them
seem to be working together
493
00:30:03,886 --> 00:30:07,846
[Mark] Her and Bart, they bo
facilitated this together.
494
00:30:07,848 --> 00:30:11,433
They instigated this whole
thing and had it planned.
495
00:30:13,103 --> 00:30:15,062
[narrator] Mark
has reached his limit.
496
00:30:15,064 --> 00:30:19,817
I got a local attorney
down here in Conroe,
I file for divorce.
497
00:30:20,903 --> 00:30:22,802
Everything went to court.
498
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:27,616
This time, I'm going
full force, locked and cocked.
I'm ready to go.
499
00:30:27,660 --> 00:30:29,451
[narrator]
Less than a month later,
500
00:30:29,495 --> 00:30:31,870
with the divorce proceeding
already underway,
501
00:30:31,947 --> 00:30:37,668
Mark looks like he might be
on the hook for a hefty amou
of spousal support.
502
00:30:37,670 --> 00:30:41,630
Until he gets a call
that could change everything
503
00:30:41,674 --> 00:30:44,967
[Mark] The detective called
on the phone and says,
504
00:30:44,969 --> 00:30:47,719
"Uh, I've got
some news for you."
505
00:30:48,722 --> 00:30:50,973
"I found Charity's husband."
506
00:30:50,975 --> 00:30:53,809
And I said, Bart, yeah,
I know about Bart.
507
00:30:53,853 --> 00:30:55,561
He's going, like, no.
508
00:30:55,563 --> 00:30:58,105
"Trevor Hendry.
Her real husband."
509
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,683
And I'm going, like, what?
510
00:31:04,238 --> 00:31:08,532
[narrator] Trevor Hendry,
the guy Charity said
she'd been a drug mule for,
511
00:31:08,609 --> 00:31:10,826
wasn't just an ex-boyfriend
512
00:31:11,370 --> 00:31:13,662
He was a husband.
513
00:31:13,706 --> 00:31:17,040
[Mark] The detective told m
they've never been divorced
514
00:31:17,117 --> 00:31:22,421
I'm trying to, to unscramble
all of what I was just told.
515
00:31:22,423 --> 00:31:25,674
[narrator] Charity had marri
Bart Parchem in 1999,
516
00:31:25,718 --> 00:31:28,093
divorced Bart in 2002,
517
00:31:28,170 --> 00:31:31,179
married Trevor
just one day later,
518
00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:35,142
and then left him, without
bothering to divorce him.
519
00:31:35,177 --> 00:31:37,561
[Mark] And he says,
"Guess what?"
520
00:31:37,563 --> 00:31:42,691
"She illegally married
Bart Parchem again, after sh
was married to Trevor Hendry
521
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,360
"And then she married you."
522
00:31:46,780 --> 00:31:49,323
[narrator] Four weddings.
One divorce.
523
00:31:49,399 --> 00:31:52,993
Charity is now married
to three different men.
524
00:31:53,070 --> 00:31:54,912
[Mark] And I'm going like,
hold on, hold on.
525
00:31:54,988 --> 00:31:58,624
This is bull [bleep], right?
You're kidding me, right?
526
00:31:58,700 --> 00:32:05,505
That whole entire court case
was the biggest mess
I have ever seen.
527
00:32:05,582 --> 00:32:07,925
It's baffling. It's upsetting.
528
00:32:07,927 --> 00:32:12,262
[Mark] The Texas justice
system failed me completely.
529
00:32:16,727 --> 00:32:19,019
[narrator] A detective
from the sheriff's departmen
530
00:32:19,021 --> 00:32:21,063
has just discovered
that Mark Athans' wife Chari
531
00:32:21,106 --> 00:32:25,776
is married to two other men
besides Mark.
532
00:32:25,852 --> 00:32:27,945
[Mark] And I'm going, like,
you've got to be kidding me.
533
00:32:27,947 --> 00:32:30,172
And he's going, like, no.
534
00:32:30,174 --> 00:32:34,493
They filed a warrant
for her arrest, and she was
taken into custody.
535
00:32:34,569 --> 00:32:37,245
[reporter] Now, she's, she's
facing court tomorrow. It was
a bigamy charge?
536
00:32:37,289 --> 00:32:40,499
Yes, sir. She is in court.
She's been indicted
by a grand jury.
537
00:32:40,575 --> 00:32:44,127
Uh, she's gonna be in court
for the criminal charges
tomorrow.
538
00:32:44,129 --> 00:32:47,255
When the detectives sent over
Charity Parchem's case,
539
00:32:47,257 --> 00:32:50,133
it had everything in it
that a prosecutor would need
540
00:32:50,135 --> 00:32:52,219
to prove it
beyond a reasonable doubt.
541
00:32:52,254 --> 00:32:54,846
[narrator] With Charity
now charged with bigamy,
542
00:32:54,848 --> 00:32:58,392
Mark expects he won't even
have to bother
about a divorce,
543
00:32:58,468 --> 00:33:00,769
let alone spousal support.
544
00:33:00,771 --> 00:33:04,231
[Mark] I was elated.
I was going like, my God.
545
00:33:04,233 --> 00:33:06,274
Now all this is over.
This is done.
546
00:33:06,318 --> 00:33:09,778
She's a bigamist.
So none of this stuff
goes forward.
547
00:33:09,780 --> 00:33:13,031
Divorce proceedings
are gonna be
stopped immediately.
548
00:33:13,108 --> 00:33:15,242
Because I'm not
legally married to her.
549
00:33:16,078 --> 00:33:17,703
And we've got proof I'm not.
550
00:33:19,415 --> 00:33:22,040
Did that happen?
No, it did not.
551
00:33:22,117 --> 00:33:27,504
Boy, was I shocked. Boy,
did I get a kick in the balls.
552
00:33:27,581 --> 00:33:33,510
Even after the voided marria
was submitted to
Judge McDonald in her court
553
00:33:33,587 --> 00:33:35,804
she refused to accept it.
554
00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:40,350
And she still
kept coming after me.
555
00:33:41,937 --> 00:33:45,939
[narrator] Mark fires
his attorney and seeks
out a tougher advocate.
556
00:33:47,609 --> 00:33:51,820
When Mark called me,
every petition that they
had filed with the court
557
00:33:51,864 --> 00:33:54,239
was getting shut down
and denied.
558
00:33:54,316 --> 00:34:00,078
Sara immediately
started trying to get
this divorce dismissed,
559
00:34:00,155 --> 00:34:02,497
because... it's bigamy.
560
00:34:03,792 --> 00:34:05,667
[Sara Razavi Zand]
It was shocking.
561
00:34:05,669 --> 00:34:08,837
This was the first time
in all of my years of practi
562
00:34:08,881 --> 00:34:10,605
this judge wasn't
following the law.
563
00:34:10,607 --> 00:34:14,676
Mark was ordered to pay
$40,000 as a cash settlement
564
00:34:14,678 --> 00:34:17,929
He was ordered to, uh,
give her a car.
565
00:34:18,006 --> 00:34:21,141
He was also
ordered to give
other cash settlements,
566
00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,643
uh, with regard to the decre
567
00:34:23,645 --> 00:34:26,438
[Mark] At one point in time
I, I just said,
568
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,774
Charity Parchem
is not my legal wife.
569
00:34:28,850 --> 00:34:33,028
And I locked my heels and I
dug in, and I just said, I'm
not paying another dime.
570
00:34:36,158 --> 00:34:38,742
[narrator] But this only
makes things worse.
571
00:34:38,819 --> 00:34:40,577
[Zand] Charity had filed
an enforcement
572
00:34:40,654 --> 00:34:45,457
to throw Mark in jail
because he hadn't paid
his cash settlement.
573
00:34:45,534 --> 00:34:47,042
She wanted her money.
[laughing]
574
00:34:47,086 --> 00:34:50,587
The judge held me
in contempt of court.
575
00:34:50,664 --> 00:34:54,174
There were five or six
orders of contempt.
576
00:34:54,251 --> 00:34:57,719
[narrator] Mark faces at lea
a year and a half behind bar
577
00:34:59,014 --> 00:35:02,390
Essentially, Charity
told the court
what she wanted,
578
00:35:02,434 --> 00:35:03,809
and the court granted it.
579
00:35:04,645 --> 00:35:07,062
And what am I
supposed to tell my son?
580
00:35:07,064 --> 00:35:10,065
I'm sorry, son, but I've gotta
go to jail for 18 months?
581
00:35:10,275 --> 00:35:12,000
[sniffling]
582
00:35:12,002 --> 00:35:17,155
[Mark] Charity showed hersel
walking on TV, smiling,
583
00:35:17,157 --> 00:35:19,825
because she knew that day,
I was gonna go to jail.
584
00:35:21,453 --> 00:35:23,495
Who does that? Who does that
585
00:35:23,572 --> 00:35:25,622
but a professional criminal...
586
00:35:26,083 --> 00:35:28,959
...or the spawn of Satan?
587
00:35:30,462 --> 00:35:36,591
[Zand] I can't believe that
have someone who is so bold
588
00:35:36,593 --> 00:35:41,096
that she files a petition
to enforce spousal support
589
00:35:41,140 --> 00:35:43,682
with felony charges
that are pending against her
for bigamy.
590
00:35:43,684 --> 00:35:45,225
That's crazy.
591
00:35:48,397 --> 00:35:50,272
Why was the law failing me?
592
00:35:50,274 --> 00:35:52,540
It should have been
protecting me.
593
00:35:55,988 --> 00:35:59,156
[narrator] Mark's lawyer
brings in the detective
who arrested Charity
594
00:35:59,232 --> 00:36:02,242
to present proof
that she's a bigamist.
595
00:36:02,319 --> 00:36:06,788
[Zand] This judge
saw the police officer
in the courtroom,
596
00:36:06,790 --> 00:36:12,210
and the judge just wouldn't
even give us an opportunity
to present the evidence.
597
00:36:13,213 --> 00:36:16,381
I was bamboozled.
Absolutely bamboozled.
598
00:36:16,383 --> 00:36:21,386
Everything that,
that Mark's attorney Sara
put out there,
599
00:36:21,388 --> 00:36:22,762
she knocked it down.
600
00:36:22,839 --> 00:36:25,265
Everything
that Charity's attorney,
601
00:36:25,342 --> 00:36:29,227
whatever his name is,
he's the sorriest attorney
I ever saw in my life.
602
00:36:29,346 --> 00:36:31,479
She went with it.
603
00:36:31,481 --> 00:36:34,024
[reporter] Were you
already married,
married to someone else?
604
00:36:34,100 --> 00:36:36,568
[security door beeping]
605
00:36:36,645 --> 00:36:37,936
I wanna talk to her.
She should talk to me.
606
00:36:37,938 --> 00:36:40,488
I'm her lawyer.
She doesn't wanna talk to you.
607
00:36:40,490 --> 00:36:47,537
[narrator] At last, Mark's
side catches what should be
a break in the criminal cour
608
00:36:47,614 --> 00:36:54,044
Today, uh, in court, Ms.
Charity Parchem pled guilty
to the offense of bigamy.
609
00:36:54,713 --> 00:36:56,379
[Sheri Culberson]
That basically proves
610
00:36:56,381 --> 00:36:59,090
what Mark Athans has been
saying in the divorce.
611
00:36:59,167 --> 00:37:03,053
"She's not really my wife.
She is not
legally married to me."
612
00:37:03,129 --> 00:37:06,181
"Therefore, I shouldn't
have to pay her a dime."
613
00:37:06,216 --> 00:37:09,309
[Mark] Charity pled guilty
to bigamy.
614
00:37:09,311 --> 00:37:13,480
And Judge McDonald
still didn't
rescind her orders.
615
00:37:13,556 --> 00:37:15,607
[anchor] Montgomery County
Judge Patrice McDonald
616
00:37:15,609 --> 00:37:20,195
has ordered Athans to pay
$96,000 to Parchem by tomorrow
617
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,113
or face jail time.
618
00:37:22,115 --> 00:37:24,407
[Mark] Sara knew,
she's gonna put you in jail
619
00:37:24,484 --> 00:37:26,660
Okay, well, I've already
talked to my son.
620
00:37:26,662 --> 00:37:30,830
Prepared for this. I am not
backing down from this.
621
00:37:32,793 --> 00:37:36,962
This wasn't just about
his wife being married
to other people.
622
00:37:37,038 --> 00:37:40,799
This was about his wife
taking advantage
of him and his son.
623
00:37:41,260 --> 00:37:44,427
Leaving Mark
financially destitute.
624
00:37:50,227 --> 00:37:52,602
[narrator] The clock
is ticking for surgical
assistant Mark Athans.
625
00:37:52,679 --> 00:37:56,231
With few exceptions, if you'
done time in jail in Texas,
626
00:37:56,275 --> 00:37:58,299
you can't practice medicine
627
00:37:58,301 --> 00:38:03,196
And yet, in less than
24 hours, that's
where Mark is going.
628
00:38:03,198 --> 00:38:06,157
Mark's lawyer files
a last minute appeal.
629
00:38:07,286 --> 00:38:09,527
[Zand]
Filed an emergency stay.
630
00:38:09,604 --> 00:38:13,665
And we were requesting that
the court of appeals freeze
all trial court proceedings.
631
00:38:14,376 --> 00:38:16,351
[Mark] From what I understan
632
00:38:16,353 --> 00:38:20,505
they had only had it
for about 15 minutes
before they made a decision.
633
00:38:22,467 --> 00:38:27,429
The appellate court overrod
Judge McDonald's decision
and dismissed it.
634
00:38:28,682 --> 00:38:31,308
Told 'em, basically,
leave this man alone.
635
00:38:32,936 --> 00:38:35,312
[Mark] Sara saved me
from going to jail.
636
00:38:37,858 --> 00:38:42,444
It was just a sigh of relief,
because all along, this is
absolutely what he deserved.
637
00:38:42,487 --> 00:38:44,212
...but I've
gotta go to jail...
638
00:38:44,214 --> 00:38:46,239
[Mark] I was pretty emotiona
just to get it over with.
639
00:38:46,241 --> 00:38:49,701
Actually, I, I did.
I cried over it.
640
00:38:51,455 --> 00:38:53,830
[narrator] Three months
after filing for divorce,
641
00:38:53,865 --> 00:38:56,249
and barely five months
after their wedding,
642
00:38:56,326 --> 00:38:59,336
Mark's marriage to Charity
is officially dissolved.
643
00:38:59,412 --> 00:39:01,421
The ordeal is over.
644
00:39:03,592 --> 00:39:06,176
Charity had scammed
645
00:39:06,252 --> 00:39:11,222
over $425,000 from me.
646
00:39:12,142 --> 00:39:14,309
I had lost funds
647
00:39:14,344 --> 00:39:19,522
in over $220,000
in legal fees.
648
00:39:19,599 --> 00:39:23,526
Everything that I had,
all my retirement, was gone.
649
00:39:24,029 --> 00:39:26,404
I mean, I lost everything.
650
00:39:28,408 --> 00:39:30,658
[Culberson] The sentence
for bigamy in Texas,
651
00:39:30,693 --> 00:39:32,243
because it's a third degree
felony,
652
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:36,498
is anywhere from two years
up to ten years in prison.
653
00:39:38,543 --> 00:39:42,128
[narrator] Charity gets
four years, but not in priso
654
00:39:44,091 --> 00:39:46,299
[Mark] She walks away
with probation.
655
00:39:46,968 --> 00:39:48,793
Not a day in jail.
656
00:39:48,870 --> 00:39:52,472
After all the people
she's hurt, where's
the justification in that?
657
00:39:52,549 --> 00:39:55,266
I don't know
what's in Charity's future.
658
00:39:55,268 --> 00:39:59,354
I hope she doesn't hurt
anybody else.
659
00:39:59,389 --> 00:40:04,025
But, not so sure I can
trust that hope.
660
00:40:07,531 --> 00:40:09,948
[narrator] Some good has com
from this ordeal.
661
00:40:10,024 --> 00:40:13,410
Dakota discovered he's got
a valuable skill set.
662
00:40:13,870 --> 00:40:19,833
Dakota has a knack
of sizing people up.
663
00:40:19,868 --> 00:40:22,836
A hell of a lot better
than mine, [laughing]
I can tell you that.
664
00:40:22,912 --> 00:40:28,007
So he's already got
his license in process
through the State of Texas
665
00:40:28,042 --> 00:40:29,509
to become a private detectiv
666
00:40:30,554 --> 00:40:32,095
[Dakota] I like
to find out the truth.
667
00:40:32,130 --> 00:40:34,639
I'm like the truth seeker.
668
00:40:34,641 --> 00:40:37,851
I wanna be the best
of the best when it comes
to investigations.
669
00:40:39,729 --> 00:40:41,980
[narrator] In spite
of all that Mark lost,
670
00:40:41,982 --> 00:40:47,444
there's one precious
and irreplaceable thing
he managed to win back.
671
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,406
James checks his phone,
and he's like,
Mark wants to talk to us.
672
00:40:53,869 --> 00:40:59,539
So James goes over there
and Mark says, hey,
I am really sorry.
673
00:40:59,616 --> 00:41:02,625
And he really was regretful
674
00:41:02,702 --> 00:41:06,963
[Mark] The things that I
look for in a relationship,
I've got 'em already.
675
00:41:08,049 --> 00:41:11,134
Because I've got
a relationship
with James and Gina
676
00:41:11,211 --> 00:41:13,928
that after all
that happened...
677
00:41:13,972 --> 00:41:17,557
...and me coming back tryin
to eat crow and apologize..
678
00:41:17,634 --> 00:41:19,517
They could have told me
to [bleep] off.
679
00:41:20,604 --> 00:41:22,294
But they didn't.
680
00:41:23,565 --> 00:41:26,274
Gina and James, I know that
something happens to me,
681
00:41:26,276 --> 00:41:29,527
or if Dakota needs help,
[voice breaking]
he's gonna have it.
682
00:41:31,072 --> 00:41:33,239
And I know that.
683
00:41:33,241 --> 00:41:37,118
[Gina] Now that
Charity's gone, Mark
is a different person.
684
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,621
He's not frustrated
all the time.
685
00:41:39,664 --> 00:41:43,708
[laughing] It's back to life
as normal.
686
00:41:45,670 --> 00:41:47,754
[Mark] I'm back
on the dating scene.
687
00:41:47,830 --> 00:41:51,508
I'm just more thorough now
about looking at people.
688
00:41:53,053 --> 00:41:57,222
I want to try to find somebo
that will love my family,
689
00:41:57,224 --> 00:42:01,684
and give me the same amount
of love and attention
690
00:42:01,686 --> 00:42:03,311
that I'm gonna
give to her back.
691
00:42:04,231 --> 00:42:05,939
Because I learned
that I deserve that.