1 00:00:03,379 --> 00:00:06,922 [Mark Athans] She was my first love. 2 00:00:06,999 --> 00:00:10,092 [narrator] When Mark Athans loses the mother of his children, 3 00:00:10,094 --> 00:00:13,721 it leaves a gaping hole in his life. 4 00:00:13,797 --> 00:00:17,891 [Mark] To fall in love agai and feel that for another person... 5 00:00:18,728 --> 00:00:20,543 ...was something that I longed for. 6 00:00:20,579 --> 00:00:24,440 [narrator] When he meets a woman who seems to fill the void... 7 00:00:24,516 --> 00:00:27,818 [Mark] Charity drew me in personality-wise. 8 00:00:27,862 --> 00:00:32,239 [narrator] ...he'll quickly discover he's just the mark she's been looking for. 9 00:00:32,316 --> 00:00:33,757 [Michael Flores] She's a master manipulator. 10 00:00:33,759 --> 00:00:36,577 And she's literally out to take all that she can. 11 00:00:36,579 --> 00:00:41,290 [Mark] I paid for vehicles, for apartments, cell phones, clothes. 12 00:00:41,366 --> 00:00:45,377 That's strange. Why are there men's clothes here if her daughter is here? 13 00:00:45,454 --> 00:00:49,631 [Mark] That's when Dakota started looking into Charity's background. 14 00:00:49,708 --> 00:00:53,093 There wasn't a Charity Parchem or a Charity anything. 15 00:00:53,220 --> 00:00:57,931 [anchor] Montgomery County has ordered Athans to pay $96,000 by tomorrow. 16 00:00:57,933 --> 00:01:02,895 I found Charity's husband. Her real husband. 17 00:01:02,971 --> 00:01:05,022 Boy, did I get a kick in the balls. 18 00:01:24,043 --> 00:01:25,834 [Mark] My name is Mark Athan 19 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,044 I live in Willis, Texas. 20 00:01:27,088 --> 00:01:29,213 And I'm a surgical first assistant, 21 00:01:29,215 --> 00:01:31,548 licensed through the State of Texas. 22 00:01:31,592 --> 00:01:35,719 I been doing this for 35 years. And, uh, I love it. 23 00:01:38,849 --> 00:01:42,935 I'm proud of all three of my boys. I couldn't have asked for better. 24 00:01:43,011 --> 00:01:46,230 Dakota is my youngest. He is 25. 25 00:01:46,273 --> 00:01:49,233 He is God's gift to me. 26 00:01:50,569 --> 00:01:53,779 Dakota is very high functioning, but he is autistic. 27 00:01:53,856 --> 00:01:56,448 So he sees things in a different light. 28 00:01:56,450 --> 00:01:59,201 He is purely honest and ope 29 00:01:59,203 --> 00:02:03,664 with what he sees, understands, or hears. 30 00:02:03,666 --> 00:02:07,543 [Dakota Athans] I do love my dad. My dad's a very wonderful guy. 31 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:09,294 He takes care of me, 32 00:02:09,296 --> 00:02:12,047 takes care of my doctor's appointments, 33 00:02:12,124 --> 00:02:13,924 hair appointments, that sort of stuff. 34 00:02:14,593 --> 00:02:16,844 Always stands up for me. 35 00:02:16,920 --> 00:02:20,764 [Mark] We were told that he would never graduate high school. 36 00:02:20,766 --> 00:02:24,518 He graduated from high schoo He went on to college. 37 00:02:25,479 --> 00:02:28,939 It's a tragedy that his moth is deceased, 38 00:02:28,983 --> 00:02:33,318 and is not seeing the young man that he's turned out to be. 39 00:02:34,238 --> 00:02:37,614 Kelly was my first love. 40 00:02:37,616 --> 00:02:44,454 I spent 22 years of my life with a woman that I loved dearly. 41 00:02:44,456 --> 00:02:50,210 That filled the void in my heart with something that I longed for. 42 00:02:50,287 --> 00:02:54,339 [narrator] It's been almost four years since the death of Mark's first wife. 43 00:02:56,135 --> 00:03:01,680 [Mark] I'd tried dating, and there wasn't any encounters that were serious 44 00:03:01,757 --> 00:03:05,517 I was hoping to find someone who I could trust enough 45 00:03:05,594 --> 00:03:07,895 that if something happens to me, 46 00:03:07,971 --> 00:03:11,190 that they can carry on forward to help Dakota. 47 00:03:11,266 --> 00:03:13,400 So he's not left alone. 48 00:03:13,477 --> 00:03:15,819 Because I'm not gonna be around forever. 49 00:03:18,324 --> 00:03:20,699 Now, I met Charity online. 50 00:03:20,701 --> 00:03:23,702 Charity said that she was a Texas registered nurse. 51 00:03:23,779 --> 00:03:28,874 With a couple of home health agencies. 52 00:03:28,909 --> 00:03:32,961 She worked with elderly patients and terminally ill patients 53 00:03:32,963 --> 00:03:37,216 That made me say, wow, she's gotta be pretty special if she can do that. 54 00:03:39,637 --> 00:03:44,640 We did have a chance to have a date. Going to a local restaurant 55 00:03:46,310 --> 00:03:49,978 Charity had told me that she had been married twice, 56 00:03:50,055 --> 00:03:53,607 and that she had four daughters. 57 00:03:56,487 --> 00:03:59,655 [narrator] Charity is livin with her two youngest daughters, 58 00:03:59,731 --> 00:04:05,786 Paige, 17, and Destiny, 15, in the nearby town of Spring. 59 00:04:05,862 --> 00:04:10,415 She had been divorced from her second husband for almost ten years. 60 00:04:10,417 --> 00:04:14,461 Charity had told me that, uh, his name was Bart Parchem. 61 00:04:14,538 --> 00:04:17,714 That she didn't have anythin to do with Bart. 62 00:04:17,758 --> 00:04:21,218 That he was, uh, a convicted felon. 63 00:04:22,137 --> 00:04:24,221 I said, okay, well, it is what it is. 64 00:04:26,350 --> 00:04:32,312 Charity had, uh, a magnetism that drew me in personality-wise... 65 00:04:34,024 --> 00:04:37,025 ...that in a way kind of reminded me of the boys' mom. 66 00:04:37,403 --> 00:04:39,528 Bubbly, friendly. 67 00:04:40,656 --> 00:04:44,366 [narrator] It only takes a few weeks for Mark to fall in love. 68 00:04:44,443 --> 00:04:47,411 Now, he introduces Charity to his closest friends: 69 00:04:47,413 --> 00:04:50,163 his neighbors, Gina and James, 70 00:04:50,165 --> 00:04:54,293 who are living with him while their house is being renovated. 71 00:04:54,295 --> 00:04:56,795 [Gina Helm] Mark said, hey, I'd like you guys to meet he 72 00:04:56,872 --> 00:04:58,338 see what you think. 73 00:04:58,415 --> 00:05:00,590 So I was like, oh, yay, that's so nice. 74 00:05:00,634 --> 00:05:04,469 She was very bubbly, and I liked her. 75 00:05:04,546 --> 00:05:08,098 She looked very normal to me. Just a normal, average person. 76 00:05:08,851 --> 00:05:11,101 Like... yeah, nice. 77 00:05:12,938 --> 00:05:16,273 [narrator] Mark and Charity start seeing more of one another. 78 00:05:16,317 --> 00:05:19,526 [Mark] I mean, to fall in love again... 79 00:05:20,070 --> 00:05:23,238 ...and feel that for another person, 80 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,200 that was something that I hadn't felt in a long time. 81 00:05:28,787 --> 00:05:31,121 Charity came, she was like, hey, I've gotta run a few errands, 82 00:05:31,165 --> 00:05:32,889 do you wanna come with me? 83 00:05:32,891 --> 00:05:34,791 I just have to pick up a prescription and we'll come back. 84 00:05:34,793 --> 00:05:37,919 So, we go to the pharmacy, 85 00:05:37,921 --> 00:05:41,089 and she immediately pulls out her insurance card 86 00:05:41,091 --> 00:05:44,217 and it said, Charity Parchem Bart Parchem. 87 00:05:44,294 --> 00:05:46,678 And I thought, who's Bart Parchem? 88 00:05:46,755 --> 00:05:49,222 And she said, that's my ex. 89 00:05:49,299 --> 00:05:52,225 [narrator] Charity has been divorced for almost ten year 90 00:05:52,302 --> 00:05:56,063 It seems strange her ex is still on her insurance card. 91 00:05:57,566 --> 00:06:00,776 [Gina] But you know, she started immediately talking to the pharmacist, 92 00:06:00,852 --> 00:06:04,654 and so I wasn't able to tal more about it. 93 00:06:05,657 --> 00:06:08,450 So, then we leave the pharmacy, and she says, 94 00:06:08,452 --> 00:06:12,704 hey, I am really sorry, but I need to stop by my house. 95 00:06:12,739 --> 00:06:18,001 When we get there, she says my middle daughter, Paige, lives here by herself. 96 00:06:18,003 --> 00:06:20,504 Then she goes, oh, I'm gonna go to my bedroom. 97 00:06:20,547 --> 00:06:21,797 Come with me. You can see the bedroom. 98 00:06:21,873 --> 00:06:24,132 So I go to the bedroom. 99 00:06:24,209 --> 00:06:28,220 And there's a closet open, full of men's clothes. 100 00:06:29,139 --> 00:06:31,515 And so I'm thinking, what? 101 00:06:31,558 --> 00:06:36,103 That's strange. Why are ther men's clothes here if her daughter is here? 102 00:06:36,179 --> 00:06:41,400 And then I look down, and there's a basket of like like, laundry. 103 00:06:41,402 --> 00:06:42,809 Like someone's staying here 104 00:06:42,811 --> 00:06:45,487 And then, she takes me through the bathroom, 105 00:06:45,522 --> 00:06:51,993 and there's like, men's cologne, men's razors um, shaving cream. 106 00:06:51,995 --> 00:06:55,664 And I said, what man lives here? 107 00:06:55,740 --> 00:06:58,583 And she says, oh, no man lives here. 108 00:06:58,585 --> 00:07:01,962 My ex comes here after working out, 109 00:07:01,964 --> 00:07:05,257 showers and changes and the takes the girls to do stuff 110 00:07:06,176 --> 00:07:09,678 And I was like, okay, but... 111 00:07:09,754 --> 00:07:11,655 ...this is a lotta stuff. 112 00:07:11,657 --> 00:07:15,517 It literally looked like the girls lived there and he lived there. 113 00:07:16,603 --> 00:07:20,605 So, when we got back, I went straight to Mark. 114 00:07:20,682 --> 00:07:23,024 I was like, okay. 115 00:07:24,236 --> 00:07:29,322 I don't understand at all. You may want to discuss that with her. 116 00:07:31,076 --> 00:07:33,201 [Mark] That was where my confusion starts. 117 00:07:34,663 --> 00:07:35,770 How do I take this? 118 00:07:35,847 --> 00:07:37,539 Because I was in love with Charity, 119 00:07:37,616 --> 00:07:41,168 and because of, I wanted things to work, 120 00:07:41,244 --> 00:07:44,671 that was the whole intent, was to get a life partner. 121 00:07:44,748 --> 00:07:47,757 And he comes to us and mentions, hey, 122 00:07:47,759 --> 00:07:51,052 I've asked Charity to move in with us. 123 00:07:51,129 --> 00:07:55,474 And James and I, you know, are like, okay... 124 00:07:55,550 --> 00:07:59,227 [Mark] Her youngest daughter Destiny, came with Charity. 125 00:07:59,262 --> 00:08:04,191 So I picked up a ready-made family, pretty much. 126 00:08:04,267 --> 00:08:07,402 [Gina] Charity really took over the house. 127 00:08:07,437 --> 00:08:11,823 Like, these are my things, and I'm gonna cook this. 128 00:08:11,900 --> 00:08:14,951 And I thought, she just wants us outta here. 129 00:08:16,038 --> 00:08:18,580 [Mark] Charity wanted to quit work 130 00:08:18,582 --> 00:08:22,876 and just concentrate on Destiny and Dakota. 131 00:08:22,953 --> 00:08:25,795 At that point in time, I jus said, you know what? Sure. 132 00:08:25,839 --> 00:08:27,631 Let's rock and roll with thi 133 00:08:27,633 --> 00:08:31,092 I'm getting back on track with a life, a family life. 134 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,429 [Gina] I just didn't understand it. 135 00:08:34,506 --> 00:08:38,141 You know, we're thinking, uh, he's just so in love? 136 00:08:38,185 --> 00:08:41,311 You know... You know, is this what's happening? 137 00:08:41,355 --> 00:08:43,813 We didn't like it at all. 138 00:08:43,857 --> 00:08:48,735 Honestly, I thought that Gina and James were not getting along with Charity 139 00:08:48,812 --> 00:08:52,656 because there might be an issue that I'm not seeing. 140 00:08:52,699 --> 00:08:56,660 So that weekend, I wanted to go somewhere with James, Gina and Charity 141 00:08:56,703 --> 00:09:01,998 and I could take a little mental health break, and I guess reconnect. 142 00:09:02,709 --> 00:09:04,876 [Gina] James and I were a bit reluctant. 143 00:09:04,953 --> 00:09:07,629 But we were like, okay, you know, we'll do it. 144 00:09:08,423 --> 00:09:10,197 [Mark] Charity starts drinking. 145 00:09:10,275 --> 00:09:14,302 All of a sudden, she starts forcing me to do these shots 146 00:09:14,304 --> 00:09:17,931 Then I just put my foot down said, that's it, I'm not doi no more shots. 147 00:09:18,725 --> 00:09:21,810 [Gina] James snaps a pictur of us at the table, 148 00:09:21,886 --> 00:09:25,397 and it was, oh, I got a picture of us, I'm posting it on Facebook, 149 00:09:25,473 --> 00:09:27,148 and we're all, like, oh, cut 150 00:09:27,943 --> 00:09:30,217 [narrator] Moments after posting the photo, 151 00:09:30,219 --> 00:09:34,447 James gets a phone call from an old and trusted friend, Michael Flores. 152 00:09:34,524 --> 00:09:36,557 [phone ringing] 153 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,452 Michael and Charity had bee friends and colleagues in the past. 154 00:09:39,529 --> 00:09:41,204 But it didn't end well. 155 00:09:43,959 --> 00:09:46,042 I, I was just like, wow. 156 00:09:46,044 --> 00:09:49,129 Out of all the people in the world, what are the odds? 157 00:09:50,215 --> 00:09:52,882 It had been two years since I had saw Charity. 158 00:09:52,926 --> 00:09:55,885 She was more full figured than she was when I knew her, 159 00:09:55,929 --> 00:09:59,014 but I I knew it was her as soon as I saw her. 160 00:10:01,476 --> 00:10:04,394 [Gina] James comes back to the table, and he's very... 161 00:10:05,606 --> 00:10:07,522 ...like, freaked-out looking. 162 00:10:08,358 --> 00:10:10,358 And then James kinda, like, nudges me 163 00:10:10,435 --> 00:10:13,028 while Mark and Charity are talking about something 164 00:10:13,238 --> 00:10:16,031 And he says... 165 00:10:17,075 --> 00:10:20,201 ...Mike Flores says Mark needs to run. 166 00:10:20,537 --> 00:10:22,037 From Charity. 167 00:10:26,793 --> 00:10:30,295 James asks Charity, do you know Mike Flores? 168 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,633 And her face was shock. 169 00:10:35,135 --> 00:10:37,719 And then James goes, I grew up with him. 170 00:10:39,181 --> 00:10:44,309 And in fact, I spoke to him and he didn't have very goo things to say about you. 171 00:10:45,145 --> 00:10:47,520 [narrator] But before Charit can respond, 172 00:10:47,597 --> 00:10:50,398 the group is distracted by another bar patron. 173 00:10:51,234 --> 00:10:53,652 [Gina] Somebody bumps into Charity's chair, 174 00:10:53,654 --> 00:10:57,781 which, you know, seemed harmless, oh, and he was like, [slurring] "Oh sorry." 175 00:10:57,783 --> 00:10:59,824 You know, and just walked off. 176 00:10:59,901 --> 00:11:04,204 But then she's telling Mark oh my gosh, I think he touched me. 177 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:05,997 And now Mark's up, and he's like, what do you mean? 178 00:11:06,074 --> 00:11:08,333 Like, how did he touch you? 179 00:11:08,335 --> 00:11:11,628 And she seems to be getting Mark all riled up. 180 00:11:11,713 --> 00:11:13,713 There he is, pointing him ou 181 00:11:17,886 --> 00:11:20,053 [Mark] Man, I was, I was fixing to go at him. 182 00:11:20,130 --> 00:11:21,930 I was losing my cool. 183 00:11:21,932 --> 00:11:25,308 My saving grace was, is Jame decided this is done, 184 00:11:25,352 --> 00:11:26,935 we gotta walk outta here now 185 00:11:27,729 --> 00:11:29,913 We got out in my truck. 186 00:11:29,915 --> 00:11:34,609 [Gina] Charity is still, you know, badgering Mark, they're fighting. 187 00:11:35,946 --> 00:11:38,279 Mark's trying to get her to calm down. 188 00:11:38,356 --> 00:11:41,408 And she seems to just want to escalate it. 189 00:11:41,484 --> 00:11:45,286 And she's like, you don't even care. 190 00:11:45,363 --> 00:11:48,581 [Mark] When we were coming down the road here at the house, 191 00:11:48,616 --> 00:11:50,458 Charity got out of the truck 192 00:11:51,628 --> 00:11:53,628 [Gina] She slams the door, 193 00:11:53,705 --> 00:11:57,257 walks over to her vehicle, and says, "I'm leaving." 194 00:11:58,093 --> 00:12:00,427 And Mark's like, what? 195 00:12:02,013 --> 00:12:03,629 And she did. She left. 196 00:12:04,975 --> 00:12:07,225 James and I look at each other, and we're thinking... 197 00:12:08,186 --> 00:12:10,103 ...but where is she going? 198 00:12:12,107 --> 00:12:13,547 This is not good. 199 00:12:13,625 --> 00:12:16,651 I told James that she isn't who he thinks she is. 200 00:12:16,728 --> 00:12:18,570 She's a master manipulator. 201 00:12:18,572 --> 00:12:21,573 I lost everything. I lost everything. 202 00:12:21,649 --> 00:12:23,825 She is the spawn of Satan. 203 00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:34,043 [narrator] Mark Athans' evening out with his friends and girlfriend 204 00:12:34,087 --> 00:12:36,421 has ended in confusion. 205 00:12:36,423 --> 00:12:38,965 I'm going, like, what the hell just happened? 206 00:12:38,967 --> 00:12:41,426 [Gina] Charity just tears outta there. 207 00:12:41,595 --> 00:12:45,305 And I don't even understand. 208 00:12:45,381 --> 00:12:49,934 [narrator] James thinks he knows what was behind Charity's hasty retreat. 209 00:12:49,936 --> 00:12:52,979 [Gina] James says she didn' wanna deal 210 00:12:52,981 --> 00:12:57,692 with any of the Mike Flores questions from any of us. 211 00:12:57,769 --> 00:13:03,156 So it was a giant, blown-up situation to create drama. 212 00:13:03,784 --> 00:13:07,410 And then I think, oh, that's right. 213 00:13:09,498 --> 00:13:13,583 [narrator] The next morning there's still no sign of Charity. 214 00:13:13,618 --> 00:13:16,127 It's James' chance to get Mark alone. 215 00:13:17,672 --> 00:13:19,522 [Gina] They sit down, 216 00:13:19,524 --> 00:13:25,553 and James begins to just unload all this material that Mike Flores, 217 00:13:25,555 --> 00:13:27,847 you know, explained to him. 218 00:13:27,849 --> 00:13:31,226 [Flores] I gave him a rundow of my dealings with her. 219 00:13:31,228 --> 00:13:34,479 And I met her at the tattoo shop years ago 220 00:13:34,481 --> 00:13:37,649 Charity liked getting older guys to fall for her, 221 00:13:37,725 --> 00:13:39,984 and then getting what she wanted out of them, 222 00:13:39,986 --> 00:13:44,030 whether it was dinner or jewelry or, you know, takin care of some of her bills. 223 00:13:44,107 --> 00:13:48,201 Charity just uses, you know, sexual favors to kinda reel 'em in. 224 00:13:48,278 --> 00:13:51,913 She talked about how to manipulate, uh, men 225 00:13:51,990 --> 00:13:54,374 to get what she wanted out of it. 226 00:13:54,376 --> 00:13:58,211 Weak men with money who are searching for a relationship. 227 00:13:58,213 --> 00:14:01,297 Use 'em while she can, and just go on to the next. 228 00:14:01,842 --> 00:14:03,258 She's a master manipulator. 229 00:14:03,334 --> 00:14:06,386 You know, she's sweet on the outside, 230 00:14:06,462 --> 00:14:11,307 and just a, a monster on the inside once she gets her, her fangs sunk in. 231 00:14:11,351 --> 00:14:15,520 I told James to tell Mark to get out now, while you ca 232 00:14:15,597 --> 00:14:18,439 Before this guy just loses everything. 233 00:14:18,441 --> 00:14:20,149 This is the real deal. 234 00:14:20,193 --> 00:14:23,236 And she's literally out to take all that she can. 235 00:14:23,238 --> 00:14:25,738 [narrator] A dire warning which Mark completely ignore 236 00:14:25,740 --> 00:14:28,241 when Charity returns a day later. 237 00:14:29,119 --> 00:14:31,786 [Flores] James says Mark's response was, 238 00:14:31,788 --> 00:14:35,957 well, that may have been her in her past, that's not the way she is no 239 00:14:37,210 --> 00:14:39,193 [Mark] You know what? 240 00:14:39,195 --> 00:14:42,630 I had lost somebody that I spent 22 years of my life with. 241 00:14:43,717 --> 00:14:46,926 You know, to feel that for another person... 242 00:14:47,804 --> 00:14:50,305 ...I opened up totally, 100%. 243 00:14:53,518 --> 00:14:57,687 [narrator] And now, Gina and James are the ones who feel unwelcome. 244 00:14:57,731 --> 00:14:59,856 [Gina] There's a lotta tensi in the house. 245 00:14:59,983 --> 00:15:02,609 We go in to get a cup of coffee, if she's in there, 246 00:15:02,685 --> 00:15:06,279 she just immediately, like, removes herself from the roo 247 00:15:06,356 --> 00:15:10,408 I'm sure she doesn't want me asking her questions. 248 00:15:10,410 --> 00:15:13,995 [Mark] I'm getting told over and over that they're just using you 249 00:15:14,072 --> 00:15:18,416 I mean, Charity had told me that James had tried to sell her drugs. 250 00:15:18,493 --> 00:15:22,128 She had told me also that James had tried to come on to her. 251 00:15:23,256 --> 00:15:24,797 On multiple occasions. 252 00:15:25,884 --> 00:15:27,175 I was upset. 253 00:15:27,251 --> 00:15:28,551 Of course. 254 00:15:32,557 --> 00:15:36,225 Honestly, I was really hurt by it. 255 00:15:36,937 --> 00:15:39,854 He must be believing this stuff. 256 00:15:39,931 --> 00:15:43,983 And at that point, you know, James and I were like, 257 00:15:44,060 --> 00:15:48,237 we need to immediately get out of Mark's house. 258 00:15:49,366 --> 00:15:51,532 We get everything done quick 259 00:15:51,609 --> 00:15:55,745 And we move where we needed to be next door. 260 00:15:55,747 --> 00:16:00,750 It was weird. We lived right next door to Mark, but we didn't talk. 261 00:16:00,752 --> 00:16:06,422 [Mark] Everything really started going into high gea within a matter of weeks. 262 00:16:08,635 --> 00:16:12,929 [Mark] I got down on one kne and asked Charity if she would marry me. 263 00:16:12,931 --> 00:16:18,434 And I guess I'm expecting something like, 264 00:16:18,478 --> 00:16:22,188 okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, and then come give me a big hug and a kiss, 265 00:16:22,190 --> 00:16:23,856 and, oh my gosh, and... 266 00:16:25,110 --> 00:16:27,694 But it's... subdued. 267 00:16:28,947 --> 00:16:33,366 She looked at me and she said yes, she would. 268 00:16:33,443 --> 00:16:36,995 I guess I'm thinking of a crescendo... 269 00:16:37,071 --> 00:16:40,999 ...when it was more like a little vibrato, [laughing] you know? 270 00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:44,877 But that's the way that occurred. 271 00:16:44,954 --> 00:16:49,048 And she told me she didn't want any of her family knowing. 272 00:16:49,467 --> 00:16:51,718 Nobody. Daughters, nobody. 273 00:16:54,764 --> 00:17:00,226 Charity had pushed it, wanting to get married in South Dakota, at Sturgis 274 00:17:00,303 --> 00:17:05,231 So, you know, we went to South Dakota, and we got married in City Hall 275 00:17:05,233 --> 00:17:10,695 in front of pictures of all the Mayors [laughing] of Deadwood, South Dakota. 276 00:17:10,697 --> 00:17:12,588 [laughing] 277 00:17:13,283 --> 00:17:17,493 We go back, the people at the resort that we stayed at 278 00:17:17,537 --> 00:17:21,914 had, uh, drinks for us there and that was it. 279 00:17:22,292 --> 00:17:23,624 That was the end of the nigh 280 00:17:25,837 --> 00:17:27,795 What, what a wedding night, huh? 281 00:17:27,872 --> 00:17:30,923 [laughing] 282 00:17:32,761 --> 00:17:35,094 Nothing else happened. 283 00:17:35,171 --> 00:17:37,722 Actually, nothing else happened for the next... 284 00:17:39,976 --> 00:17:41,392 ...six days. 285 00:17:42,812 --> 00:17:45,438 So for six days, we didn't consummate the marriage? 286 00:17:48,443 --> 00:17:52,028 Seriously? What the hell is going on? 287 00:17:52,989 --> 00:17:57,575 On the way back, I had 20-something hours of drivin to think, 288 00:17:57,652 --> 00:18:03,498 and the whole time back, I felt like I had made one hell of an error. 289 00:18:06,211 --> 00:18:10,088 [narrator] Once back home in Willis, Mark sets his concerns aside 290 00:18:10,090 --> 00:18:12,965 and commits himself to supporting his new family 291 00:18:13,042 --> 00:18:14,592 But it's a strain. 292 00:18:14,669 --> 00:18:19,806 The expenses increased tenfold from the day we were married. 293 00:18:19,882 --> 00:18:23,893 Charity told me that Bart didn't pay any child support 294 00:18:23,937 --> 00:18:28,231 He was an ex-con deadbeat da That's exactly the way she put it. 295 00:18:29,526 --> 00:18:33,736 With Charity and her daughters, I had to pay for vehicles, 296 00:18:33,738 --> 00:18:37,573 I had to pay for furniture, I had to pay for apartments, 297 00:18:37,575 --> 00:18:42,829 I had to pay for college tuitions, cell phones, and I'm doing it all alone. 298 00:18:43,039 --> 00:18:44,956 For a lotta people. 299 00:18:44,958 --> 00:18:48,126 Even though Destiny was the only daughter that lived here. 300 00:18:50,046 --> 00:18:53,297 One day, Charity said she had to go see Paige 301 00:18:53,374 --> 00:18:55,633 and pick up some things that she had. 302 00:18:55,710 --> 00:18:59,262 She left at like, eight, nin in the morning. 303 00:18:59,305 --> 00:19:02,807 I would come home from work about four or five-ish in the afternoon. 304 00:19:03,601 --> 00:19:05,217 She wasn't here. 305 00:19:05,294 --> 00:19:07,979 I was going, like, okay, well, she's just busy. I'd text her. 306 00:19:08,055 --> 00:19:11,941 And couldn't get a reply out of the text. 307 00:19:11,985 --> 00:19:15,153 She just disappeared off the face of the earth. 308 00:19:15,738 --> 00:19:17,530 Gone. 309 00:19:17,607 --> 00:19:21,075 She came back home at about 11:00. 310 00:19:21,077 --> 00:19:26,330 And she's going like, well, I had a lotta things I had to get with Paige. 311 00:19:26,332 --> 00:19:30,042 I had suspicions that something was up. 312 00:19:30,044 --> 00:19:34,505 And that's when Dakota started looking into Charity's background. 313 00:19:34,507 --> 00:19:38,092 [Dakota] I actually went through, uh, online, found some stuff about her. 314 00:19:38,928 --> 00:19:41,804 I went to the Montgomery County Texas Odyssey databas 315 00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:44,724 that's actually the court docket system, and she has a criminal record. 316 00:19:45,685 --> 00:19:47,226 For theft by check. 317 00:19:48,229 --> 00:19:50,730 She said she was a nurse. 318 00:19:50,806 --> 00:19:54,150 [Mark] All the lights, all the red flags, popped up 319 00:19:56,029 --> 00:20:00,990 You can't be a nurse with a criminal record. You just can't do it. 320 00:20:01,034 --> 00:20:04,994 I called the Texas State Nursing Board. They went and looked. 321 00:20:05,038 --> 00:20:08,080 There weren't no Charity Parchem, or a Charit 322 00:20:08,082 --> 00:20:10,833 or anything with her birthday in there. 323 00:20:11,669 --> 00:20:14,378 Anything. Her social securit anything. 324 00:20:14,380 --> 00:20:17,048 I'm going, like, are you kidding me? 325 00:20:17,050 --> 00:20:23,179 So she's been lying to me all this time about her being a nurse when she never was. 326 00:20:23,223 --> 00:20:25,056 [narrator] What else is she lying about? 327 00:20:25,132 --> 00:20:28,601 Now Mark really wants to kno what Charity has been up to 328 00:20:28,603 --> 00:20:30,353 [Mark] And then I also remembered 329 00:20:30,396 --> 00:20:33,856 that I put GPS trackers on my vehicles. 330 00:20:33,900 --> 00:20:36,049 On all the vehicles. 331 00:20:36,051 --> 00:20:39,946 So if one of 'em ever got stolen, I knew exactly where that would be. 332 00:20:40,073 --> 00:20:44,158 Said, you know what? I need to look and see where the vehicles are. 333 00:20:44,193 --> 00:20:46,327 And guess where the vehicle would be showing up at? 334 00:20:46,329 --> 00:20:48,496 Especially the one that Charity had? 335 00:20:50,458 --> 00:20:53,834 At the old house in Spring. 336 00:20:53,836 --> 00:20:58,297 [narrator] ...where earlier Gina had observed men's toiletries and clothes 337 00:20:58,549 --> 00:21:00,782 Imagine that. 338 00:21:06,307 --> 00:21:09,475 [narrator] Mark Athans has just discovered that his new bride Charity 339 00:21:09,552 --> 00:21:12,728 has been spending a lot of time at her previous hous 340 00:21:12,772 --> 00:21:16,524 Of course, I'd already had the devil picking on my shoulder, causing doubt. 341 00:21:17,777 --> 00:21:21,320 And doubt was starting to seem pretty, pretty hard and heavy then. 342 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,074 [narrator] True, her daughte Paige lives there. 343 00:21:25,118 --> 00:21:27,660 But does her ex-husband Bart live there as well? 344 00:21:28,955 --> 00:21:32,081 Mark's suspicions are growin 345 00:21:32,125 --> 00:21:35,084 There's a lotta things I will believe, but when it comes down to it, 346 00:21:35,128 --> 00:21:37,878 and you can't get in touch with somebody, 347 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,381 whether you needed 'em for an emergency or nothing 348 00:21:40,458 --> 00:21:42,591 no contact, cell phone's turned off... 349 00:21:43,594 --> 00:21:46,137 Things changed very rapidly then. 350 00:21:47,098 --> 00:21:49,557 I started looking at Charity cell phone records, 351 00:21:49,633 --> 00:21:52,393 because the phones were in my name. 352 00:21:53,521 --> 00:21:55,387 And it was kinda funny, 353 00:21:55,389 --> 00:21:59,025 because the morning that she disappeared off the face of the earth... 354 00:22:00,236 --> 00:22:02,611 ...there was a phone call made on her cell phone, 355 00:22:02,613 --> 00:22:04,613 and guess whose phone it went to? 356 00:22:06,492 --> 00:22:07,658 Bart Parchem's. 357 00:22:09,537 --> 00:22:11,645 I confronted Charity about this. 358 00:22:11,647 --> 00:22:16,334 I said, you're calling your ex-husband three or fou times a day. 359 00:22:16,410 --> 00:22:19,086 "It had to do about the girl They are his daughters." 360 00:22:19,088 --> 00:22:22,214 And I said, so, you're telling me 361 00:22:22,249 --> 00:22:26,969 that you sent him over a hundred-and-something text about his daughters 362 00:22:26,971 --> 00:22:30,389 when you never did that before? 363 00:22:30,391 --> 00:22:33,768 She blew up. So she got extremely mad. 364 00:22:33,770 --> 00:22:35,594 Extremely ticked off. 365 00:22:35,671 --> 00:22:38,314 "What are you doing tracking me, you don't trust me?" 366 00:22:38,358 --> 00:22:40,608 And I told her straight up, hell, no, I don't trust ya. 367 00:22:40,684 --> 00:22:43,444 You're doing things that are, that are violating that trust. 368 00:22:45,031 --> 00:22:47,573 I asked her if she was sleeping with Bart. 369 00:22:47,575 --> 00:22:50,493 And she said no, she was not 370 00:22:50,536 --> 00:22:54,955 But sometimes, you don't have to have an admission of guilt 371 00:22:54,957 --> 00:22:58,125 whenever you got the proof sittin' right in front of your face. 372 00:22:59,879 --> 00:23:02,922 She was pissed off, and she just took off. 373 00:23:03,424 --> 00:23:07,259 After about ten hours, Charity came back, 374 00:23:07,294 --> 00:23:11,514 and it was like, let's talk I can fix this, I, I can do right. 375 00:23:11,516 --> 00:23:15,226 I went and said, okay, you know, 376 00:23:15,302 --> 00:23:17,469 you can't say I'm not gonna try. 377 00:23:17,546 --> 00:23:21,232 [narrator] Charity seems determined to make a fresh new start with Mark 378 00:23:21,901 --> 00:23:24,235 [Mark] Charity made reservations 379 00:23:24,311 --> 00:23:27,988 at the San Luis Hotel in Galveston for the weekend 380 00:23:28,065 --> 00:23:33,536 Just me and her. Something to rebuild what had been broken. 381 00:23:33,579 --> 00:23:38,082 We go to the hotel. The restaurant was a very good dinner. 382 00:23:38,084 --> 00:23:41,752 But, uh, halfway through the meal, 383 00:23:41,829 --> 00:23:43,963 she wanted to go back upstairs. 384 00:23:44,081 --> 00:23:45,798 We went back up to the room 385 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,135 and she starts getting a little bit frisky with me 386 00:23:50,054 --> 00:23:52,555 And we end up having sex. 387 00:23:53,891 --> 00:23:55,307 Twice. 388 00:23:56,727 --> 00:23:58,269 So I'm going, like, okay. 389 00:23:58,345 --> 00:24:01,188 We go out for a walk on the beach together. 390 00:24:01,265 --> 00:24:05,067 The next morning, we get up and go have some fancy brunch there 391 00:24:05,069 --> 00:24:06,694 that they have every Sunday 392 00:24:07,738 --> 00:24:10,322 I opened up totally. 100%. 393 00:24:12,076 --> 00:24:15,661 [narrator] And Charity is in it 100%, too. 394 00:24:15,738 --> 00:24:21,000 For Dakota's birthday, she organizes a trip they ca all three enjoy together. 395 00:24:21,002 --> 00:24:22,960 [Mark] Dakota wanted to go to Fredericksburg. 396 00:24:23,037 --> 00:24:25,087 Me and Dakota spent lots of time at Fredericksburg. 397 00:24:25,131 --> 00:24:27,715 We always have. 398 00:24:27,717 --> 00:24:30,384 [narrator] Charity arranges for her daughters to house sit, 399 00:24:30,461 --> 00:24:33,429 and the three of them head West to Fredericksburg 400 00:24:33,431 --> 00:24:36,348 a popular spot for wine love and history buffs. 401 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,727 [Mark] It's a four to five hour drive there. 402 00:24:39,803 --> 00:24:42,354 Got there in Fredericksburg with the B&B. 403 00:24:42,431 --> 00:24:44,815 And then Charity started a conversation 404 00:24:44,892 --> 00:24:49,028 that went really South on me. Real quick. 405 00:24:50,531 --> 00:24:53,782 Charity's talking about her past life, 406 00:24:53,826 --> 00:24:58,078 about how one of her boyfriends had made her be a drug mule 407 00:24:58,155 --> 00:25:02,082 down in Mexico, and do some real wild, crazy stuff 408 00:25:02,084 --> 00:25:04,210 And Dakota's out there with us. 409 00:25:04,286 --> 00:25:06,587 So I got uptight. 410 00:25:06,589 --> 00:25:09,673 And this is not something that Dakota needed to be hearing. 411 00:25:09,750 --> 00:25:13,427 And he doesn't know what to think. I'm sure right now he's in panic mode. 412 00:25:13,429 --> 00:25:18,307 And you can tell, because with anybody that's, that's autistic, 413 00:25:18,309 --> 00:25:20,743 they start flapping their hands. 414 00:25:20,745 --> 00:25:24,939 I would think she was tryin to bait me into something where it would get physical 415 00:25:25,015 --> 00:25:28,317 And then she could have me arrested for assault, 416 00:25:28,361 --> 00:25:31,904 so it's a he said, she said type situation. 417 00:25:31,981 --> 00:25:33,948 Because that's exactly what she wanted. 418 00:25:33,950 --> 00:25:35,824 She was baiting me into that 419 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,246 I said, I've got to get thi under control immediately, 420 00:25:40,248 --> 00:25:42,915 and isolate this from me and Dakota. 421 00:25:42,950 --> 00:25:46,585 And I did. I just said it stops. It stops now. 422 00:25:46,662 --> 00:25:48,629 This is not the life I'm gonna live. 423 00:25:48,706 --> 00:25:51,006 I said, Dakota, we gotta go home. 424 00:25:53,094 --> 00:25:55,970 [narrator] Mark and Dakota make the five hour drive hom 425 00:25:55,972 --> 00:25:59,723 knowing that when they get there, they'll have to tell Destiny and Paige 426 00:25:59,725 --> 00:26:02,810 they left their mom in Fredericksburg to cool down. 427 00:26:03,813 --> 00:26:06,522 But that's not how the night unfolds. 428 00:26:07,733 --> 00:26:10,109 [Mark] Dakota and I pulled i at around 4:00 in the mornin 429 00:26:10,611 --> 00:26:12,111 The dogs were gone. 430 00:26:12,187 --> 00:26:14,655 And Destiny and Paige were gone. 431 00:26:14,732 --> 00:26:19,910 And so were the vehicles. The Mustang, her truck, the truck that I had. 432 00:26:19,987 --> 00:26:22,288 All of those vehicles were gone. 433 00:26:22,290 --> 00:26:25,749 And I knew what had happened then. I'd been set up. 434 00:26:27,628 --> 00:26:32,047 Me and Dakota walk into my house and see a lotta things missing. 435 00:26:32,082 --> 00:26:34,925 I mean a lotta things. 436 00:26:35,002 --> 00:26:38,262 [Dakota] It was very empty. So I was like, where's the stuff that was gone? 437 00:26:42,351 --> 00:26:43,583 [phone chimes] 438 00:26:43,661 --> 00:26:45,844 [Mark] My phone starts burning up. 439 00:26:45,846 --> 00:26:49,690 [narrator] It's a string of texts that were sent by Mark's neighbor, James, 440 00:26:49,692 --> 00:26:53,110 while he and Dakota were sti on their way home. 441 00:26:53,187 --> 00:26:55,195 [Mark] You're, you're out in the hill country of Texas 442 00:26:55,272 --> 00:26:56,989 We don't get cell signals down there. 443 00:26:57,066 --> 00:27:00,117 So I got 'em after I got her 444 00:27:02,455 --> 00:27:05,205 [narrator] Hours earlier, sometime around midnight, 445 00:27:05,282 --> 00:27:08,417 Gina and James had been alerted to trouble. 446 00:27:09,295 --> 00:27:11,754 -[dog barking] -[Gina] Champ keeps barking 447 00:27:11,797 --> 00:27:14,548 Champ likes Mark and he like to watch his house. 448 00:27:14,550 --> 00:27:19,720 And James goes outside and he sees a U-Haul truck and a Charger, 449 00:27:19,722 --> 00:27:24,391 and there's a man and some girls there. 450 00:27:24,468 --> 00:27:26,101 [narrator] Gina believes she recognizes the man. 451 00:27:26,145 --> 00:27:29,730 and at least one of the girl 452 00:27:29,807 --> 00:27:33,400 [Gina] The lights were on, so you could see Bart and Paige. 453 00:27:33,486 --> 00:27:36,487 [narrator] Bart Parchem, Charity's ex. 454 00:27:36,563 --> 00:27:39,073 They were going into the house, bringing things out, 455 00:27:39,149 --> 00:27:41,825 and putting 'em into the U-Haul. 456 00:27:41,902 --> 00:27:45,788 And at this point, James and are just thinking, this is not good. 457 00:27:45,823 --> 00:27:48,374 [scoffs] We were like, this is not good. 458 00:27:48,450 --> 00:27:53,796 James says, I don't see Mark's truck. Let me just send him a quick text. 459 00:27:55,466 --> 00:28:00,010 [narrator] But by the time Mark receives James' messages, it's far too late. 460 00:28:00,087 --> 00:28:04,515 It was four in the morning. I had driven 800 miles. 461 00:28:04,591 --> 00:28:07,768 I'm mentally and physically wiped out. 462 00:28:07,845 --> 00:28:10,270 So me and Dakota laid down and went to sleep. 463 00:28:10,856 --> 00:28:12,981 [narrator] Mark feels he's been burgled. 464 00:28:13,025 --> 00:28:17,569 But as his spouse, Charity is entitled to remove her belongings. 465 00:28:17,646 --> 00:28:22,116 What happens next is less of a legal gray area. 466 00:28:22,118 --> 00:28:24,201 [Mark] The next morning, I woke up,... 467 00:28:25,579 --> 00:28:28,997 ...and my phone is going crazy. 468 00:28:29,041 --> 00:28:35,170 I'm getting alerts from my bank, sending me notices of charges right and left. 469 00:28:35,214 --> 00:28:37,423 They're wanting to know what's going on. 470 00:28:37,499 --> 00:28:43,929 There was $15,000 taken out of my bank account all to Amazon. 471 00:28:44,006 --> 00:28:47,808 And Amazon told me where everything was going, to Spring. 472 00:28:49,979 --> 00:28:52,020 Guess who lives in Spring? 473 00:28:52,064 --> 00:28:55,232 [narrator] Sure, Charity's daughter Paige lives there, 474 00:28:55,309 --> 00:28:57,359 but now, Mark thinks Gina was right 475 00:28:57,403 --> 00:29:00,612 that Bart Parchem is also staying there. 476 00:29:01,490 --> 00:29:04,950 [Mark] I knew what had happened. I knew who did it 477 00:29:06,370 --> 00:29:10,038 At the meantime, Charity is texting me, burning my phone up, 478 00:29:10,082 --> 00:29:12,916 trying to get me to come pick her up from Fredericksburg. 479 00:29:15,004 --> 00:29:16,754 First thing that popped into my head... 480 00:29:16,830 --> 00:29:19,798 ...is Charity was not even in Fredericksburg. 481 00:29:21,802 --> 00:29:26,388 [narrator] Mark has his suspicions. Now, he goes looking for proof. 482 00:29:26,432 --> 00:29:28,891 [Mark] I went to Sam's and actually said, 483 00:29:28,934 --> 00:29:30,768 I wanna see who used my card 484 00:29:30,844 --> 00:29:33,604 and they pulled it up on their video surveillance. 485 00:29:34,565 --> 00:29:37,107 And who was on the video surveillance? 486 00:29:37,818 --> 00:29:40,194 Charity and Bart. 487 00:29:42,114 --> 00:29:46,950 When she's trying to get me to go back to Fredericksbur to pick her up, 488 00:29:46,952 --> 00:29:51,163 her and Bart are here in the woodlands at Sam's, 489 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,417 trying to pick up stuff they had just bought off my credit card together. 490 00:29:56,837 --> 00:29:59,004 [narrator] Bart may be Charity's ex, 491 00:29:59,081 --> 00:30:00,964 but as far as Mark is concerned, 492 00:30:01,041 --> 00:30:03,884 the two of them seem to be working together 493 00:30:03,886 --> 00:30:07,846 [Mark] Her and Bart, they bo facilitated this together. 494 00:30:07,848 --> 00:30:11,433 They instigated this whole thing and had it planned. 495 00:30:13,103 --> 00:30:15,062 [narrator] Mark has reached his limit. 496 00:30:15,064 --> 00:30:19,817 I got a local attorney down here in Conroe, I file for divorce. 497 00:30:20,903 --> 00:30:22,802 Everything went to court. 498 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:27,616 This time, I'm going full force, locked and cocked. I'm ready to go. 499 00:30:27,660 --> 00:30:29,451 [narrator] Less than a month later, 500 00:30:29,495 --> 00:30:31,870 with the divorce proceeding already underway, 501 00:30:31,947 --> 00:30:37,668 Mark looks like he might be on the hook for a hefty amou of spousal support. 502 00:30:37,670 --> 00:30:41,630 Until he gets a call that could change everything 503 00:30:41,674 --> 00:30:44,967 [Mark] The detective called on the phone and says, 504 00:30:44,969 --> 00:30:47,719 "Uh, I've got some news for you." 505 00:30:48,722 --> 00:30:50,973 "I found Charity's husband." 506 00:30:50,975 --> 00:30:53,809 And I said, Bart, yeah, I know about Bart. 507 00:30:53,853 --> 00:30:55,561 He's going, like, no. 508 00:30:55,563 --> 00:30:58,105 "Trevor Hendry. Her real husband." 509 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,683 And I'm going, like, what? 510 00:31:04,238 --> 00:31:08,532 [narrator] Trevor Hendry, the guy Charity said she'd been a drug mule for, 511 00:31:08,609 --> 00:31:10,826 wasn't just an ex-boyfriend 512 00:31:11,370 --> 00:31:13,662 He was a husband. 513 00:31:13,706 --> 00:31:17,040 [Mark] The detective told m they've never been divorced 514 00:31:17,117 --> 00:31:22,421 I'm trying to, to unscramble all of what I was just told. 515 00:31:22,423 --> 00:31:25,674 [narrator] Charity had marri Bart Parchem in 1999, 516 00:31:25,718 --> 00:31:28,093 divorced Bart in 2002, 517 00:31:28,170 --> 00:31:31,179 married Trevor just one day later, 518 00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:35,142 and then left him, without bothering to divorce him. 519 00:31:35,177 --> 00:31:37,561 [Mark] And he says, "Guess what?" 520 00:31:37,563 --> 00:31:42,691 "She illegally married Bart Parchem again, after sh was married to Trevor Hendry 521 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,360 "And then she married you." 522 00:31:46,780 --> 00:31:49,323 [narrator] Four weddings. One divorce. 523 00:31:49,399 --> 00:31:52,993 Charity is now married to three different men. 524 00:31:53,070 --> 00:31:54,912 [Mark] And I'm going like, hold on, hold on. 525 00:31:54,988 --> 00:31:58,624 This is bull [bleep], right? You're kidding me, right? 526 00:31:58,700 --> 00:32:05,505 That whole entire court case was the biggest mess I have ever seen. 527 00:32:05,582 --> 00:32:07,925 It's baffling. It's upsetting. 528 00:32:07,927 --> 00:32:12,262 [Mark] The Texas justice system failed me completely. 529 00:32:16,727 --> 00:32:19,019 [narrator] A detective from the sheriff's departmen 530 00:32:19,021 --> 00:32:21,063 has just discovered that Mark Athans' wife Chari 531 00:32:21,106 --> 00:32:25,776 is married to two other men besides Mark. 532 00:32:25,852 --> 00:32:27,945 [Mark] And I'm going, like, you've got to be kidding me. 533 00:32:27,947 --> 00:32:30,172 And he's going, like, no. 534 00:32:30,174 --> 00:32:34,493 They filed a warrant for her arrest, and she was taken into custody. 535 00:32:34,569 --> 00:32:37,245 [reporter] Now, she's, she's facing court tomorrow. It was a bigamy charge? 536 00:32:37,289 --> 00:32:40,499 Yes, sir. She is in court. She's been indicted by a grand jury. 537 00:32:40,575 --> 00:32:44,127 Uh, she's gonna be in court for the criminal charges tomorrow. 538 00:32:44,129 --> 00:32:47,255 When the detectives sent over Charity Parchem's case, 539 00:32:47,257 --> 00:32:50,133 it had everything in it that a prosecutor would need 540 00:32:50,135 --> 00:32:52,219 to prove it beyond a reasonable doubt. 541 00:32:52,254 --> 00:32:54,846 [narrator] With Charity now charged with bigamy, 542 00:32:54,848 --> 00:32:58,392 Mark expects he won't even have to bother about a divorce, 543 00:32:58,468 --> 00:33:00,769 let alone spousal support. 544 00:33:00,771 --> 00:33:04,231 [Mark] I was elated. I was going like, my God. 545 00:33:04,233 --> 00:33:06,274 Now all this is over. This is done. 546 00:33:06,318 --> 00:33:09,778 She's a bigamist. So none of this stuff goes forward. 547 00:33:09,780 --> 00:33:13,031 Divorce proceedings are gonna be stopped immediately. 548 00:33:13,108 --> 00:33:15,242 Because I'm not legally married to her. 549 00:33:16,078 --> 00:33:17,703 And we've got proof I'm not. 550 00:33:19,415 --> 00:33:22,040 Did that happen? No, it did not. 551 00:33:22,117 --> 00:33:27,504 Boy, was I shocked. Boy, did I get a kick in the balls. 552 00:33:27,581 --> 00:33:33,510 Even after the voided marria was submitted to Judge McDonald in her court 553 00:33:33,587 --> 00:33:35,804 she refused to accept it. 554 00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:40,350 And she still kept coming after me. 555 00:33:41,937 --> 00:33:45,939 [narrator] Mark fires his attorney and seeks out a tougher advocate. 556 00:33:47,609 --> 00:33:51,820 When Mark called me, every petition that they had filed with the court 557 00:33:51,864 --> 00:33:54,239 was getting shut down and denied. 558 00:33:54,316 --> 00:34:00,078 Sara immediately started trying to get this divorce dismissed, 559 00:34:00,155 --> 00:34:02,497 because... it's bigamy. 560 00:34:03,792 --> 00:34:05,667 [Sara Razavi Zand] It was shocking. 561 00:34:05,669 --> 00:34:08,837 This was the first time in all of my years of practi 562 00:34:08,881 --> 00:34:10,605 this judge wasn't following the law. 563 00:34:10,607 --> 00:34:14,676 Mark was ordered to pay $40,000 as a cash settlement 564 00:34:14,678 --> 00:34:17,929 He was ordered to, uh, give her a car. 565 00:34:18,006 --> 00:34:21,141 He was also ordered to give other cash settlements, 566 00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,643 uh, with regard to the decre 567 00:34:23,645 --> 00:34:26,438 [Mark] At one point in time I, I just said, 568 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,774 Charity Parchem is not my legal wife. 569 00:34:28,850 --> 00:34:33,028 And I locked my heels and I dug in, and I just said, I'm not paying another dime. 570 00:34:36,158 --> 00:34:38,742 [narrator] But this only makes things worse. 571 00:34:38,819 --> 00:34:40,577 [Zand] Charity had filed an enforcement 572 00:34:40,654 --> 00:34:45,457 to throw Mark in jail because he hadn't paid his cash settlement. 573 00:34:45,534 --> 00:34:47,042 She wanted her money. [laughing] 574 00:34:47,086 --> 00:34:50,587 The judge held me in contempt of court. 575 00:34:50,664 --> 00:34:54,174 There were five or six orders of contempt. 576 00:34:54,251 --> 00:34:57,719 [narrator] Mark faces at lea a year and a half behind bar 577 00:34:59,014 --> 00:35:02,390 Essentially, Charity told the court what she wanted, 578 00:35:02,434 --> 00:35:03,809 and the court granted it. 579 00:35:04,645 --> 00:35:07,062 And what am I supposed to tell my son? 580 00:35:07,064 --> 00:35:10,065 I'm sorry, son, but I've gotta go to jail for 18 months? 581 00:35:10,275 --> 00:35:12,000 [sniffling] 582 00:35:12,002 --> 00:35:17,155 [Mark] Charity showed hersel walking on TV, smiling, 583 00:35:17,157 --> 00:35:19,825 because she knew that day, I was gonna go to jail. 584 00:35:21,453 --> 00:35:23,495 Who does that? Who does that 585 00:35:23,572 --> 00:35:25,622 but a professional criminal... 586 00:35:26,083 --> 00:35:28,959 ...or the spawn of Satan? 587 00:35:30,462 --> 00:35:36,591 [Zand] I can't believe that have someone who is so bold 588 00:35:36,593 --> 00:35:41,096 that she files a petition to enforce spousal support 589 00:35:41,140 --> 00:35:43,682 with felony charges that are pending against her for bigamy. 590 00:35:43,684 --> 00:35:45,225 That's crazy. 591 00:35:48,397 --> 00:35:50,272 Why was the law failing me? 592 00:35:50,274 --> 00:35:52,540 It should have been protecting me. 593 00:35:55,988 --> 00:35:59,156 [narrator] Mark's lawyer brings in the detective who arrested Charity 594 00:35:59,232 --> 00:36:02,242 to present proof that she's a bigamist. 595 00:36:02,319 --> 00:36:06,788 [Zand] This judge saw the police officer in the courtroom, 596 00:36:06,790 --> 00:36:12,210 and the judge just wouldn't even give us an opportunity to present the evidence. 597 00:36:13,213 --> 00:36:16,381 I was bamboozled. Absolutely bamboozled. 598 00:36:16,383 --> 00:36:21,386 Everything that, that Mark's attorney Sara put out there, 599 00:36:21,388 --> 00:36:22,762 she knocked it down. 600 00:36:22,839 --> 00:36:25,265 Everything that Charity's attorney, 601 00:36:25,342 --> 00:36:29,227 whatever his name is, he's the sorriest attorney I ever saw in my life. 602 00:36:29,346 --> 00:36:31,479 She went with it. 603 00:36:31,481 --> 00:36:34,024 [reporter] Were you already married, married to someone else? 604 00:36:34,100 --> 00:36:36,568 [security door beeping] 605 00:36:36,645 --> 00:36:37,936 I wanna talk to her. She should talk to me. 606 00:36:37,938 --> 00:36:40,488 I'm her lawyer. She doesn't wanna talk to you. 607 00:36:40,490 --> 00:36:47,537 [narrator] At last, Mark's side catches what should be a break in the criminal cour 608 00:36:47,614 --> 00:36:54,044 Today, uh, in court, Ms. Charity Parchem pled guilty to the offense of bigamy. 609 00:36:54,713 --> 00:36:56,379 [Sheri Culberson] That basically proves 610 00:36:56,381 --> 00:36:59,090 what Mark Athans has been saying in the divorce. 611 00:36:59,167 --> 00:37:03,053 "She's not really my wife. She is not legally married to me." 612 00:37:03,129 --> 00:37:06,181 "Therefore, I shouldn't have to pay her a dime." 613 00:37:06,216 --> 00:37:09,309 [Mark] Charity pled guilty to bigamy. 614 00:37:09,311 --> 00:37:13,480 And Judge McDonald still didn't rescind her orders. 615 00:37:13,556 --> 00:37:15,607 [anchor] Montgomery County Judge Patrice McDonald 616 00:37:15,609 --> 00:37:20,195 has ordered Athans to pay $96,000 to Parchem by tomorrow 617 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,113 or face jail time. 618 00:37:22,115 --> 00:37:24,407 [Mark] Sara knew, she's gonna put you in jail 619 00:37:24,484 --> 00:37:26,660 Okay, well, I've already talked to my son. 620 00:37:26,662 --> 00:37:30,830 Prepared for this. I am not backing down from this. 621 00:37:32,793 --> 00:37:36,962 This wasn't just about his wife being married to other people. 622 00:37:37,038 --> 00:37:40,799 This was about his wife taking advantage of him and his son. 623 00:37:41,260 --> 00:37:44,427 Leaving Mark financially destitute. 624 00:37:50,227 --> 00:37:52,602 [narrator] The clock is ticking for surgical assistant Mark Athans. 625 00:37:52,679 --> 00:37:56,231 With few exceptions, if you' done time in jail in Texas, 626 00:37:56,275 --> 00:37:58,299 you can't practice medicine 627 00:37:58,301 --> 00:38:03,196 And yet, in less than 24 hours, that's where Mark is going. 628 00:38:03,198 --> 00:38:06,157 Mark's lawyer files a last minute appeal. 629 00:38:07,286 --> 00:38:09,527 [Zand] Filed an emergency stay. 630 00:38:09,604 --> 00:38:13,665 And we were requesting that the court of appeals freeze all trial court proceedings. 631 00:38:14,376 --> 00:38:16,351 [Mark] From what I understan 632 00:38:16,353 --> 00:38:20,505 they had only had it for about 15 minutes before they made a decision. 633 00:38:22,467 --> 00:38:27,429 The appellate court overrod Judge McDonald's decision and dismissed it. 634 00:38:28,682 --> 00:38:31,308 Told 'em, basically, leave this man alone. 635 00:38:32,936 --> 00:38:35,312 [Mark] Sara saved me from going to jail. 636 00:38:37,858 --> 00:38:42,444 It was just a sigh of relief, because all along, this is absolutely what he deserved. 637 00:38:42,487 --> 00:38:44,212 ...but I've gotta go to jail... 638 00:38:44,214 --> 00:38:46,239 [Mark] I was pretty emotiona just to get it over with. 639 00:38:46,241 --> 00:38:49,701 Actually, I, I did. I cried over it. 640 00:38:51,455 --> 00:38:53,830 [narrator] Three months after filing for divorce, 641 00:38:53,865 --> 00:38:56,249 and barely five months after their wedding, 642 00:38:56,326 --> 00:38:59,336 Mark's marriage to Charity is officially dissolved. 643 00:38:59,412 --> 00:39:01,421 The ordeal is over. 644 00:39:03,592 --> 00:39:06,176 Charity had scammed 645 00:39:06,252 --> 00:39:11,222 over $425,000 from me. 646 00:39:12,142 --> 00:39:14,309 I had lost funds 647 00:39:14,344 --> 00:39:19,522 in over $220,000 in legal fees. 648 00:39:19,599 --> 00:39:23,526 Everything that I had, all my retirement, was gone. 649 00:39:24,029 --> 00:39:26,404 I mean, I lost everything. 650 00:39:28,408 --> 00:39:30,658 [Culberson] The sentence for bigamy in Texas, 651 00:39:30,693 --> 00:39:32,243 because it's a third degree felony, 652 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:36,498 is anywhere from two years up to ten years in prison. 653 00:39:38,543 --> 00:39:42,128 [narrator] Charity gets four years, but not in priso 654 00:39:44,091 --> 00:39:46,299 [Mark] She walks away with probation. 655 00:39:46,968 --> 00:39:48,793 Not a day in jail. 656 00:39:48,870 --> 00:39:52,472 After all the people she's hurt, where's the justification in that? 657 00:39:52,549 --> 00:39:55,266 I don't know what's in Charity's future. 658 00:39:55,268 --> 00:39:59,354 I hope she doesn't hurt anybody else. 659 00:39:59,389 --> 00:40:04,025 But, not so sure I can trust that hope. 660 00:40:07,531 --> 00:40:09,948 [narrator] Some good has com from this ordeal. 661 00:40:10,024 --> 00:40:13,410 Dakota discovered he's got a valuable skill set. 662 00:40:13,870 --> 00:40:19,833 Dakota has a knack of sizing people up. 663 00:40:19,868 --> 00:40:22,836 A hell of a lot better than mine, [laughing] I can tell you that. 664 00:40:22,912 --> 00:40:28,007 So he's already got his license in process through the State of Texas 665 00:40:28,042 --> 00:40:29,509 to become a private detectiv 666 00:40:30,554 --> 00:40:32,095 [Dakota] I like to find out the truth. 667 00:40:32,130 --> 00:40:34,639 I'm like the truth seeker. 668 00:40:34,641 --> 00:40:37,851 I wanna be the best of the best when it comes to investigations. 669 00:40:39,729 --> 00:40:41,980 [narrator] In spite of all that Mark lost, 670 00:40:41,982 --> 00:40:47,444 there's one precious and irreplaceable thing he managed to win back. 671 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,406 James checks his phone, and he's like, Mark wants to talk to us. 672 00:40:53,869 --> 00:40:59,539 So James goes over there and Mark says, hey, I am really sorry. 673 00:40:59,616 --> 00:41:02,625 And he really was regretful 674 00:41:02,702 --> 00:41:06,963 [Mark] The things that I look for in a relationship, I've got 'em already. 675 00:41:08,049 --> 00:41:11,134 Because I've got a relationship with James and Gina 676 00:41:11,211 --> 00:41:13,928 that after all that happened... 677 00:41:13,972 --> 00:41:17,557 ...and me coming back tryin to eat crow and apologize.. 678 00:41:17,634 --> 00:41:19,517 They could have told me to [bleep] off. 679 00:41:20,604 --> 00:41:22,294 But they didn't. 680 00:41:23,565 --> 00:41:26,274 Gina and James, I know that something happens to me, 681 00:41:26,276 --> 00:41:29,527 or if Dakota needs help, [voice breaking] he's gonna have it. 682 00:41:31,072 --> 00:41:33,239 And I know that. 683 00:41:33,241 --> 00:41:37,118 [Gina] Now that Charity's gone, Mark is a different person. 684 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,621 He's not frustrated all the time. 685 00:41:39,664 --> 00:41:43,708 [laughing] It's back to life as normal. 686 00:41:45,670 --> 00:41:47,754 [Mark] I'm back on the dating scene. 687 00:41:47,830 --> 00:41:51,508 I'm just more thorough now about looking at people. 688 00:41:53,053 --> 00:41:57,222 I want to try to find somebo that will love my family, 689 00:41:57,224 --> 00:42:01,684 and give me the same amount of love and attention 690 00:42:01,686 --> 00:42:03,311 that I'm gonna give to her back. 691 00:42:04,231 --> 00:42:05,939 Because I learned that I deserve that.