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Previously on
"The Real Housewives
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of Beverly Hills"...
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What are you all doing
in the bed?
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All right, have fun.
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Not too much fun.
not too much fun.
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You don't eat food,
and then your reason
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for not eating food is
because you're like,
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"I have a narrow esophagus."
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Why am I having a doctor's
appointment right now?
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My very, very, very best
friend in my whole life,
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she took her life on May 1st.
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That's a huge loss.
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She was so together.
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I mean, literally, in my will,
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she was in charge of my
children, my money, everything.
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I don't know what happened.
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I'm so frustrated.
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You know, I wanted to talk
to you about homeschooling.
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I know how you feel about it.
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But I don't want those kids
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not to experience
going to school.
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When PK travels, I
feel like a single mom.
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He doesn't know their needs,
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and then just wants
to swoop in
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and tell me what's best
for the kids.
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What happened the other day
really triggered me.
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And it really bothered me.
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I'm very sorry that it
triggered you and it hurt you,
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and I mean that genuinely.
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I believe that.
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I may act for a living,
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but I never fall
for a bad performance.
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Who needs a knight
in shining armor
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when you have your own horse?
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The best part about
losing everything
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is getting it all back.
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Fashion is my language,
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and I speak it fluently.
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They say wisdom
comes with age,
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but I'm proving otherwise.
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I may put you to sleep
for a living,
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but I always
keep one eye open.
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It's hard to outrun rumors.
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But luckily, I'm in
better shape than ever.
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♪ Where all my queens be?
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♪ Yes, girl
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Oh, where is everybody,
damn it?
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Somebody's here.
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Is she TikToking in there?
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Hi.
- I was so bored
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then I was like--
look how cute you look.
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Oh, you too. Hi.
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Mwah.
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I brought some water
for the bus.
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Thank you so much.
- You look so cute.
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I thought it would be fun
to go to Ojai for the day
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for Annemarie's birthday
because I just feel like
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every time that Annemarie's
been around,
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there's been chaos.
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Now, everyone's say
what's going on with you.
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I can't afford to feel
depressed right now.
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Crystal,
why are you telling Sutton
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that I'm going around
to everybody--
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I'm not talking--
I said you said it to me.
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So I thought,
why not take a nice day trip,
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get to know each other better,
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and just enjoy a girls' day out
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without any arguing,
for once maybe?
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Are you wearing
heels all day?
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- No, I brought sneakers.
- Oh, OK, OK.
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Well, when you're 5'2,"
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you need all the help
you can get.
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For the love of God,
we're never gonna get there.
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The shopping trip is
gonna be like this.
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Oh, no, no, no.
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Is there good shopping there?
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I don't know.
I've never been to Ojai.
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I'll never do
Taco Tuesday again.
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I don't ever
want to see a taco.
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I never want--
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Let alone a Tuesday Taco.
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I hadn't seen anybody
from there since then,
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except I saw Dorit last night.
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Oh. And?
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And, uh, we hashed it out.
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Listen, we fight hard,
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but I think we also let it go
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and try to have a good time.
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So I think today, going up
to Ojai, hope everybody's good.
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We're gonna put it behind us
and just enjoy ourselves.
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Did she acknowledge,
like, the understanding?
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Uh, long story short,
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I'm moving past it.
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My good friend Amber Skye,
we're going to
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her family's...
- Estate?
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House, that has the wine
lunch tasting.
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Oh, OK, great.
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And then is Kyle--
well, she's not drinking.
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So what is she gonna taste?
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She's gonna taste water.
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- OK.
- Yeah, it's delicious.
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- Oh, goodness.
- Hello.
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- Hello.
- Hello. Pink memo.
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- Pink queen.
- Hi.
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Oh, my God, I have those
boots, I love them.
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Of course you do.
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Who goes there?
Oh, my gosh.
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- Hi.
- Hi, how are you?
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We are here.
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Oh, my God,
now you're matching.
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And we're--
Garcelle and I are matching.
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That is so good.
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- Mama.
- Ooh.
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How are you?
- I love you for doing this.
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I love you for doing this.
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Are we waiting on Erika?
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- No, because she has COVID.
- Oh, golly.
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Yeah.
You knew that right?
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- Yeah.
- I'm always the last to know.
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Let's call her and check in.
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- How you feeling?
- I'm OK.
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Feel better.
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I'm gonna get these ladies
on the road.
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- Feel better.
- Rest up!
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We'll shop for you.
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All right, bye.
all: Bye.
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So you guys, we're gonna
get the show on the road.
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Whoo!
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Ojai, here we come.
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OK, to our amazing trip.
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Thank you, Kyle,
for putting it together.
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Well done.
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I think it's so sweet
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that they planned this trip
for me.
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I think we're gonna go
and just, you know,
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have silly girl fun
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and get to know each other
a little bit better.
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- Yay!
- Yay!
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- You guys--
- Crystal or Sutton,
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did you guys want one
right now?
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No, we're doing
something else.
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OK.
Sutton and I have had a--
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a rocky start,
to put it mildly.
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But you know what?
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I'm gonna go
and have a good time.
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We'll just see how
the day goes.
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OK, would anyone like to hear
my very exciting news?
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- Yes.
- Yes.
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- Of course.
- Yes.
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I went on a date.
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- Yay!
- His name is Steve.
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- OK. I like that.
- And he has a job.
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Perfect.
Yes, Steve!
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Go Steve!
- We like that, we like that.
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And he likes karaoke.
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- Perfect.
- Is that her thing?
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- Guess what?
- What?
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He asked me out
for a second date.
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I'd like to talk to you more
after this somehow.
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- Oh, yeah, for sure.
- Yeah?
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So can I have your number?
- Yes.
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Success!
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I'm really excited for
my second date with Steve.
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He was really cute.
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And he's been texting me.
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You know, I think he likes me.
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You could sing to him.
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♪ When are we
going out again? ♪
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♪ I love this day
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OK, so you want to hear
what we're gonna do?
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- Yes.
- OK.
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Are we shopping?
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We're gonna go
to some stores.
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We're gonna split up
into two groups.
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When we get there,
we can decide who goes where
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or whatever.
- Oh.
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Yes.
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And we are going to have
a little wine tasting.
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We can also have--
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I'm gonna have tequila
and vodka there too.
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Um, and we're going
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to have lunch.
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Sutton's like,
oh, wine tasting--
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15-year-old boy.
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I brought my own vodka today,
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just in case.
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- Yeah, there you go.
- Thank you.
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Mind your step.
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- Did you say side step?
- Mind your step.
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- I love oil.
- Let's just stop here,
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because I do love olive oil.
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Oh, my God.
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Hello.
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Oh, my God, look at these.
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Look at these.
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I want to get something here.
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I just want to see--
OK.
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No, no. No, Kyle.
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Oh, we got to go
in there too.
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- We're going in here.
- Oh, lovely.
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Oh, my God, I'm freaking out.
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I want everything in here.
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- Hi, there.
- I can work with this.
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Ooh.
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Who is the biggest shopper
in the group?
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Uh, Kyle Richards, hello.
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OK, I don't know why
I asked that question.
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This is true.
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I don't know how
frequently I shop.
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How often do I buy something?
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For sure, every day.
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I can find something--
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Anywhere.
Oh, I've noticed.
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- Yes, she can.
- Sometimes big things.
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Sometimes little things.
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I'll go with the extra small.
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I can shop on my phone,
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at home in bed,
online shopping.
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Because I'm such a sucker
for any sunglasses.
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Gas station.
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Airport stores, love it.
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Mobile Mart, there's stuff
in there I actually like.
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- $495.
- Here's my credit card.
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Can someone, like, deliver
our stuff to the Sprinter
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while we walk around?
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I just like it so much.
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It's hard.
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I'm just gonna
get some fresh air.
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Oh, Kyle Richards.
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Thank you for carrying this.
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Can we find a spot to put
all of our shopping bags?
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If we have to leave one
of the women, it's fine.
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Just kidding, OK?
I'm totally kidding.
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Coming up...
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You're not supposed to be
communicating with other women
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on social media.
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I've had like,
a fight with Mo over that.
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I hate that.
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♪ I see your love
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♪ I can feel it in the air
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♪ Get ready for this
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♪ You know how we do it
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♪ Sing in love
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♪ I can feel it in the air
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♪ Get ready for a good time
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♪ Let's do this
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Let's do it!
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OK.
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We're not at Disneyland,
thank God.
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But we are here.
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Yay!
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- Thank you, Kyle.
- Wow!
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You're welcome.
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Welcome to Casa Loce.
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Thank you so much.
It's so pretty.
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We have a non-alcoholic
option as well.
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- Is that one?
- Yes.
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You guys, this is so pretty.
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- So pretty.
- I know.
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There's just, like--
it's almost, like, so much.
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00:09:23,258 --> 00:09:24,781
Yeah.
262
00:09:24,781 --> 00:09:28,132
So we'll get your wine
tasting started for today.
263
00:09:28,132 --> 00:09:31,614
Right now, you are sipping
on our 2021 Malvasia Bianca.
264
00:09:31,614 --> 00:09:32,833
It's very light.
265
00:09:32,833 --> 00:09:34,617
Reminds me of Hawaii
in a bottle.
266
00:09:34,617 --> 00:09:35,749
- Perfect.
- Wow.
267
00:09:35,749 --> 00:09:36,750
- Thank you so much.
- Yeah, enjoy.
268
00:09:36,750 --> 00:09:37,707
- Thank you.
- Cheers, guys.
269
00:09:37,707 --> 00:09:38,926
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
270
00:09:38,926 --> 00:09:39,840
Such great--
happy birthday again.
271
00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,798
Thank you guys so much.
272
00:09:41,798 --> 00:09:43,452
When I'm here in places
like this, I think,
273
00:09:43,452 --> 00:09:46,324
this is how I want to live,
just like this.
274
00:09:46,324 --> 00:09:48,631
I would like it a little bit,
and then I'd get bored.
275
00:09:48,631 --> 00:09:49,980
- Yeah, me too.
- I wouldn't.
276
00:09:49,980 --> 00:09:52,287
I will always have
a love for Los Angeles,
277
00:09:52,287 --> 00:09:57,640
but I just don't feel as
connected to it as I used to.
278
00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:58,946
I love this one.
279
00:09:58,946 --> 00:10:01,470
Again, with Italian food,
or especially pizza.
280
00:10:01,470 --> 00:10:02,645
I love it.
281
00:10:02,645 --> 00:10:03,864
It's delicious.
282
00:10:03,864 --> 00:10:05,387
I love pizza.
283
00:10:05,387 --> 00:10:06,867
And the things
that make me happy
284
00:10:06,867 --> 00:10:08,782
are being outside,
running by the river,
285
00:10:08,782 --> 00:10:10,218
or hiking with my dog.
286
00:10:10,218 --> 00:10:13,787
So one day,
when Portia's done with school,
287
00:10:13,787 --> 00:10:15,963
I'm going to choose
someplace to live
288
00:10:15,963 --> 00:10:20,620
that is more conducive
to what brings me happiness.
289
00:10:20,620 --> 00:10:22,273
So we have lunch ready
for you guys.
290
00:10:22,273 --> 00:10:24,101
The chef's going
to be out shortly.
291
00:10:24,101 --> 00:10:25,668
I'll lead you out this way.
292
00:10:25,668 --> 00:10:26,800
Oh, it's over there?
Oh, perfect.
293
00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,497
OK.
- Thank you so much.
294
00:10:28,497 --> 00:10:30,368
Of course.
295
00:10:30,368 --> 00:10:31,674
♪ Feeling good
296
00:10:31,674 --> 00:10:33,023
♪ Feeling fine
297
00:10:33,023 --> 00:10:34,764
♪ We pop bottles
every day and night ♪
298
00:10:34,764 --> 00:10:37,462
Wow, this looks amazing.
299
00:10:37,462 --> 00:10:40,465
We are going to start out
with an Ojai vineyard
300
00:10:40,465 --> 00:10:41,989
red wine marinated mushroom.
301
00:10:41,989 --> 00:10:43,991
- Yummy.
- With a cave-aged
302
00:10:43,991 --> 00:10:46,428
Gruyére spinach stuffing.
303
00:10:46,428 --> 00:10:47,777
Beautiful.
304
00:10:47,777 --> 00:10:49,692
Oh, my God, that's so yummy.
305
00:10:49,692 --> 00:10:52,695
It's good?
Good.
306
00:10:53,827 --> 00:10:55,219
Oh, look at Kyle.
307
00:10:55,219 --> 00:10:56,264
Kyle's like--
308
00:10:56,264 --> 00:10:57,482
OK, guys.
309
00:10:57,482 --> 00:10:58,962
So we're gonna play a game.
310
00:10:58,962 --> 00:11:01,399
This is girls' night out
table topics.
311
00:11:02,879 --> 00:11:04,707
- Moving on.
- Let me see.
312
00:11:04,707 --> 00:11:05,839
"Lick someone's toe."
313
00:11:05,839 --> 00:11:07,928
- Oh, hell no.
- I mean, Crystal.
314
00:11:09,364 --> 00:11:11,192
I'll do it, I'll do it.
315
00:11:11,192 --> 00:11:12,193
Red flag!
316
00:11:12,193 --> 00:11:14,064
Sutton wants to do it, Kyle.
317
00:11:14,064 --> 00:11:15,500
What are you doing?
318
00:11:15,500 --> 00:11:16,545
No, no.
319
00:11:16,545 --> 00:11:17,807
What are you doing?
320
00:11:21,028 --> 00:11:24,248
Easy.
This is the Kyle that I love.
321
00:11:24,248 --> 00:11:27,730
I feel like, oh, gosh, we're
finally getting there again.
322
00:11:27,730 --> 00:11:30,124
'Cause she's so funny
and she's so fun.
323
00:11:30,124 --> 00:11:32,343
And we're so goofy together.
324
00:11:32,343 --> 00:11:33,736
OK, you guys,
Sutton is a freak--
325
00:11:33,736 --> 00:11:35,738
- No, literally--
- In the sheets.
326
00:11:35,738 --> 00:11:37,871
It wasn't even a clean toe.
327
00:11:37,871 --> 00:11:40,351
I regret nothing.
328
00:11:40,351 --> 00:11:41,744
It says,
"give your best O face."
329
00:11:41,744 --> 00:11:43,050
Give your best orgasm.
330
00:11:43,050 --> 00:11:44,616
So should we all
go around doing our--
331
00:11:44,616 --> 00:11:48,577
Do it as if you just saw
the Birkin of your life.
332
00:11:50,710 --> 00:11:52,494
I'm dead.
333
00:11:54,539 --> 00:11:56,280
Oh, my God,
we're having a pleasant time.
334
00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:57,934
Everybody's having a good time.
335
00:11:57,934 --> 00:11:59,414
It's fun.
336
00:11:59,414 --> 00:12:01,633
Can we keep it like this?
337
00:12:01,633 --> 00:12:03,679
Let me see.
338
00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:05,463
Oh, Crystal!
339
00:12:05,463 --> 00:12:06,508
That scares me.
340
00:12:06,508 --> 00:12:07,944
That scares me!
341
00:12:07,944 --> 00:12:09,424
In a great way?
342
00:12:09,424 --> 00:12:11,426
No.
343
00:12:11,426 --> 00:12:13,428
"What is appropriate
for husbands
344
00:12:13,428 --> 00:12:15,909
"when it comes to communicating
with other women
345
00:12:15,909 --> 00:12:17,867
on social media?"
346
00:12:17,867 --> 00:12:20,261
You're not supposed to be
communicating with other women
347
00:12:20,261 --> 00:12:21,436
on social media.
348
00:12:21,436 --> 00:12:22,480
- I agree.
- I'm gonna agree with that.
349
00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:23,743
Come on.
350
00:12:23,743 --> 00:12:25,527
I've had, like,
a fight with Mo over that.
351
00:12:25,527 --> 00:12:28,225
I hate that stuff.
352
00:12:28,225 --> 00:12:29,270
Yeah,
I don't think that's cool.
353
00:12:29,270 --> 00:12:30,358
Like,
liking people's photos.
354
00:12:30,358 --> 00:12:31,533
Yeah, no.
355
00:12:31,533 --> 00:12:32,708
Following people,
you don't do that.
356
00:12:32,708 --> 00:12:33,927
Yeah.
357
00:12:33,927 --> 00:12:36,016
Mo gets a lot of DMs
from women.
358
00:12:36,016 --> 00:12:37,931
They don't care
that he's married.
359
00:12:37,931 --> 00:12:40,629
And they're always
the aggressor.
360
00:12:40,629 --> 00:12:42,979
And it just makes you realize
there's really a lot
361
00:12:42,979 --> 00:12:45,286
of----ing assholes out there.
362
00:12:45,286 --> 00:12:46,809
But what does
communicating mean?
363
00:12:46,809 --> 00:12:47,941
DMing.
364
00:12:47,941 --> 00:12:49,116
Well,
but it's not just DMing.
365
00:12:49,116 --> 00:12:50,639
That's like,
no, no, no, no, no, no.
366
00:12:50,639 --> 00:12:53,816
But also, you don't have to
follow every single person
367
00:12:53,816 --> 00:12:55,296
and like all the photos.
368
00:12:55,296 --> 00:12:57,951
But yeah, no, I don't
like that at all, at all.
369
00:12:57,951 --> 00:12:59,561
I heard there's a birthday
in the house.
370
00:12:59,561 --> 00:13:00,605
Here.
371
00:13:00,605 --> 00:13:01,824
You guys!
372
00:13:01,824 --> 00:13:03,521
Oh, yummy!
373
00:13:03,521 --> 00:13:06,786
Oh, my God,
you guys, the cutest.
374
00:13:06,786 --> 00:13:08,048
OK, ready?
- Fantastic.
375
00:13:08,048 --> 00:13:09,876
One, two, three. Go.
376
00:13:09,876 --> 00:13:11,399
Yay!
377
00:13:12,835 --> 00:13:15,925
This is so cute, you guys.
378
00:13:15,925 --> 00:13:17,666
Would you ever date a woman?
379
00:13:21,104 --> 00:13:23,890
Where the hell
did this come from?
380
00:13:23,890 --> 00:13:27,545
That's a weird question
to ask randomly.
381
00:13:27,545 --> 00:13:30,679
My cousin's a lesbian.
382
00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:31,941
No.
383
00:13:31,941 --> 00:13:33,595
- You wouldn't date a woman?
- No, no.
384
00:13:33,595 --> 00:13:35,031
Would you ever date a woman?
385
00:13:35,031 --> 00:13:36,772
You know, there are times
that I think about it,
386
00:13:36,772 --> 00:13:37,773
if I'm gonna be honest.
387
00:13:37,773 --> 00:13:39,296
Would you?
388
00:13:39,296 --> 00:13:41,646
Uh...
389
00:13:41,646 --> 00:13:45,172
Yeah, maybe.
390
00:13:45,172 --> 00:13:49,350
Kyle a few years ago
was like, shocked
391
00:13:49,350 --> 00:13:50,830
that we would have threesomes
392
00:13:50,830 --> 00:13:52,527
or talk about making out
with women.
393
00:13:52,527 --> 00:13:55,051
I had a threesome
long time ago.
394
00:13:55,051 --> 00:13:56,836
I've never done
the girl thing.
395
00:13:56,836 --> 00:14:00,404
And now she's open
396
00:14:00,404 --> 00:14:02,798
to a relationship
with a woman.
397
00:14:02,798 --> 00:14:05,540
I don't know much, but I
think there's a country song
398
00:14:05,540 --> 00:14:07,542
somewhere in there.
399
00:14:07,542 --> 00:14:09,239
When I was in Cabo
with my friends,
400
00:14:09,239 --> 00:14:10,850
a question came up
about scissoring.
401
00:14:10,850 --> 00:14:12,373
What's that?
402
00:14:12,373 --> 00:14:13,896
- Scissoring is like like--
- Like 69?
403
00:14:13,896 --> 00:14:15,028
Here, Dorit.
Should we show them?
404
00:14:15,028 --> 00:14:16,986
- Yeah.
- It's like this.
405
00:14:16,986 --> 00:14:18,422
Oh, no. Wow.
406
00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:21,425
So, yeah.
So--
407
00:14:21,425 --> 00:14:23,036
- OK, come here.
- Yeah, you--
408
00:14:23,036 --> 00:14:25,777
Dorit assumed the position.
409
00:14:29,912 --> 00:14:31,914
This is not impressive.
410
00:14:31,914 --> 00:14:33,611
Hello.
411
00:14:33,611 --> 00:14:34,917
Dun-da-da-da.
412
00:14:34,917 --> 00:14:37,354
That was just having sex,
I'm sorry.
413
00:14:37,354 --> 00:14:39,356
I'm not impressed
about those moves.
414
00:14:39,356 --> 00:14:41,532
Wait, where are the cards
from this wonderful game
415
00:14:41,532 --> 00:14:42,925
that I love so much?
416
00:14:42,925 --> 00:14:44,927
Kyle's like, last card,
417
00:14:44,927 --> 00:14:46,450
make sure you stick your tongue
418
00:14:46,450 --> 00:14:48,931
in the person
to the left's mouth.
419
00:14:48,931 --> 00:14:50,367
What--what do we have to do?
420
00:14:50,367 --> 00:14:52,065
I'll do it.
What do we do?
421
00:14:52,065 --> 00:14:53,196
What do we do?
- I'll do it!
422
00:14:53,196 --> 00:14:54,502
She--you're up. OK.
423
00:14:54,502 --> 00:14:55,677
I'll do it.
What do we do?
424
00:14:55,677 --> 00:14:57,592
- Put your tongue in her mouth.
- OK.
425
00:14:57,592 --> 00:14:59,289
No, seriously?
426
00:14:59,289 --> 00:15:02,292
No! For Dorit.
427
00:15:02,292 --> 00:15:03,337
No!
428
00:15:03,337 --> 00:15:05,730
Go.
429
00:15:05,730 --> 00:15:07,036
Aah!
430
00:15:07,036 --> 00:15:08,429
She touched me!
431
00:15:08,429 --> 00:15:09,604
I was scared
I was gonna drool.
432
00:15:09,604 --> 00:15:11,606
- You touched me!
- That is so gross.
433
00:15:11,606 --> 00:15:14,435
You know, the saying goes,
you work hard, you play hard.
434
00:15:14,435 --> 00:15:17,612
Well, we fight hard
and then we play hard.
435
00:15:17,612 --> 00:15:19,440
I thought I was gonna
drool on you.
436
00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,965
We always somehow
get to a point
437
00:15:22,965 --> 00:15:24,532
where we have so much fun
438
00:15:24,532 --> 00:15:26,795
that we remember how much
we really like each other
439
00:15:26,795 --> 00:15:28,275
and how close we are.
440
00:15:28,275 --> 00:15:30,233
And this is what I love
about this group.
441
00:15:30,233 --> 00:15:33,541
Anyway, so, you guys, Tuesday
442
00:15:33,541 --> 00:15:35,760
for my celebration of life event,
443
00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,763
you know, honoring my best
friend Lorene who passed.
444
00:15:38,763 --> 00:15:40,940
But I want it to be,
like, happy and nice.
445
00:15:40,940 --> 00:15:43,377
And you know, my friend Morgan
Wade is going to be playing.
446
00:15:43,377 --> 00:15:46,119
Well, thank you
for the invite.
447
00:15:46,119 --> 00:15:47,729
Yes, thank you for having us.
448
00:15:47,729 --> 00:15:49,818
Having this event for Lorene
449
00:15:49,818 --> 00:15:51,733
and being able to share
stories about her,
450
00:15:51,733 --> 00:15:55,911
it just feels like the
right way to honor her.
451
00:15:55,911 --> 00:15:58,653
You know, obviously,
sorry for your loss, yeah.
452
00:15:58,653 --> 00:16:00,089
Happy birthday to you.
453
00:16:00,089 --> 00:16:01,438
Thank you guys.
454
00:16:01,438 --> 00:16:03,614
I want to say too,
thank you to all of you.
455
00:16:03,614 --> 00:16:07,096
You guys have been so warm
and so welcoming.
456
00:16:07,096 --> 00:16:08,663
41, woo-woo!
- Woo-woo!
457
00:16:08,663 --> 00:16:09,707
Woo!
458
00:16:09,707 --> 00:16:11,057
Just a few steps
closer to 50.
459
00:16:11,057 --> 00:16:13,102
Yay!
460
00:16:13,102 --> 00:16:14,495
Coming up...
461
00:16:14,495 --> 00:16:17,933
There are elements
I don't consider are PTSD.
462
00:16:17,933 --> 00:16:19,152
I don't.
463
00:16:19,152 --> 00:16:22,329
I consider
they're more obnoxious.
464
00:16:25,593 --> 00:16:27,421
♪ Could this be it?
465
00:16:27,421 --> 00:16:28,683
♪ Can I get a we,
we friends? ♪
466
00:16:28,683 --> 00:16:30,511
♪ Baby come and take my hand
467
00:16:30,511 --> 00:16:33,601
♪ [singing in Spanish]
468
00:16:33,601 --> 00:16:35,124
♪ You ain't seen nothing yet
469
00:16:35,124 --> 00:16:37,083
- Mother.
- Hi.
470
00:16:37,083 --> 00:16:39,781
Hello.
471
00:16:39,781 --> 00:16:41,043
- How are you?
- I'm good, honey.
472
00:16:41,043 --> 00:16:42,218
How are you?
- Good.
473
00:16:42,218 --> 00:16:43,872
You get taller
every time I see you.
474
00:16:43,872 --> 00:16:45,091
Oh, my God.
- Hope so.
475
00:16:45,091 --> 00:16:46,222
Is Jaid here?
476
00:16:46,222 --> 00:16:47,702
Nope.
477
00:16:47,702 --> 00:16:48,877
Oh, I can't tell.
478
00:16:48,877 --> 00:16:50,487
How long until
the lasagna's done?
479
00:16:50,487 --> 00:16:52,837
Like, 10 minutes.
480
00:16:52,837 --> 00:16:55,797
All right,
I have a confession to make.
481
00:16:55,797 --> 00:16:56,972
A confession?
482
00:16:56,972 --> 00:16:58,930
Kinda. I mean, just--
483
00:16:58,930 --> 00:17:01,411
I've been already thinking
about when you guys--
484
00:17:01,411 --> 00:17:02,412
what are--no, no, no.
485
00:17:02,412 --> 00:17:03,413
What are you having cereal for?
486
00:17:03,413 --> 00:17:05,676
- I'm hungry.
- I just--
487
00:17:05,676 --> 00:17:07,678
I need a snack.
488
00:17:07,678 --> 00:17:09,071
There's no way.
489
00:17:09,071 --> 00:17:12,857
Hello, I've been slaving
for this lasagna.
490
00:17:12,857 --> 00:17:14,294
You're evil.
491
00:17:14,294 --> 00:17:16,122
So what were you saying?
492
00:17:16,122 --> 00:17:19,429
I'm already feeling
493
00:17:19,429 --> 00:17:23,129
that you guys are gonna be
going to college soon.
494
00:17:23,129 --> 00:17:24,608
We're 15.
495
00:17:24,608 --> 00:17:26,045
I know,
but I just feel like
496
00:17:26,045 --> 00:17:28,482
I'm already feeling like
you guys are gonna be gone,
497
00:17:28,482 --> 00:17:30,310
doing your own thing.
498
00:17:30,310 --> 00:17:33,182
I--choke on that.
499
00:17:33,182 --> 00:17:34,227
Why?
500
00:17:34,227 --> 00:17:35,967
Because I just cooked.
501
00:17:35,967 --> 00:17:37,534
And it just makes me sad.
502
00:17:37,534 --> 00:17:41,103
And it just makes me like, what
am I gonna do with myself?
503
00:17:41,103 --> 00:17:43,105
You don't seem to care.
504
00:17:43,105 --> 00:17:44,367
- No.
- You're dancing.
505
00:17:44,367 --> 00:17:45,629
I don't share the
same emotions as you.
506
00:17:45,629 --> 00:17:46,978
I want to leave.
507
00:17:46,978 --> 00:17:48,284
I know you want to leave.
508
00:17:48,284 --> 00:17:50,156
I feel like my window
with the boys
509
00:17:50,156 --> 00:17:51,983
is so small right now,
510
00:17:51,983 --> 00:17:53,420
that they're in the 10th grade,
511
00:17:53,420 --> 00:17:55,030
they're gonna be
looking at colleges.
512
00:17:55,030 --> 00:17:56,771
They're about to fly the coop.
513
00:17:56,771 --> 00:17:58,990
And it's gonna be
an adjustment.
514
00:17:58,990 --> 00:18:01,471
Like, I don't know how I'm
gonna handle it, really.
515
00:18:01,471 --> 00:18:03,473
So Jaid last night
comes in my room,
516
00:18:03,473 --> 00:18:05,910
and he goes, can I have
Ashland sleep over?
517
00:18:05,910 --> 00:18:06,955
Oh, yeah.
518
00:18:06,955 --> 00:18:08,087
She's hating, bro.
519
00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:09,479
She is hating. Crazy.
520
00:18:09,479 --> 00:18:11,133
She's hating, bro.
521
00:18:11,133 --> 00:18:12,830
- Of course, I'm gonna hate.
- What's gonna happen?
522
00:18:12,830 --> 00:18:14,180
I'm not gonna lie, mom.
523
00:18:14,180 --> 00:18:15,224
You think you're gonna have
another grandkid?
524
00:18:15,224 --> 00:18:16,530
This sounds like--
525
00:18:16,530 --> 00:18:18,532
- Mom.
- Oh, don't even start.
526
00:18:18,532 --> 00:18:20,447
This sounds like
hater mentality.
527
00:18:20,447 --> 00:18:23,145
Uh, hello, sex.
528
00:18:23,145 --> 00:18:25,016
I don't want them having sex.
529
00:18:25,016 --> 00:18:26,888
It's too soon. It's too early.
They're too young.
530
00:18:26,888 --> 00:18:28,368
They don't know
what they're doing.
531
00:18:28,368 --> 00:18:29,543
What are you gonna do
when you sleep over?
532
00:18:29,543 --> 00:18:31,197
We're gonna watch a movie.
533
00:18:31,197 --> 00:18:32,285
We're gonna make food.
- Have sex.
534
00:18:32,285 --> 00:18:35,549
OK.
535
00:18:35,549 --> 00:18:36,854
See, that's what
I'm not taking.
536
00:18:36,854 --> 00:18:38,073
Hey, hey, hey, hey.
537
00:18:38,073 --> 00:18:39,292
Talk to him.
538
00:18:39,292 --> 00:18:40,467
I'm not the one doing it,
it's him.
539
00:18:40,467 --> 00:18:42,251
OK, OK, OK.
540
00:18:42,251 --> 00:18:43,905
You brought it up,
let's talk about sex.
541
00:18:43,905 --> 00:18:46,168
Oh, my God!
542
00:18:46,168 --> 00:18:48,170
Even though
they're 6'2", 6'3"
543
00:18:48,170 --> 00:18:51,521
and they're massive, they're
still little boys, you know?
544
00:18:51,521 --> 00:18:53,175
And sometimes I forget that.
545
00:18:53,175 --> 00:18:54,916
So seeing them
giggle and squirm
546
00:18:54,916 --> 00:18:58,224
and not want to talk about sex
is really age-appropriate.
547
00:18:58,224 --> 00:18:59,573
Can we talk about sex?
548
00:18:59,573 --> 00:19:00,574
- No.
- No.
549
00:19:00,574 --> 00:19:01,966
What do you know about sex?
550
00:19:01,966 --> 00:19:05,405
I'm not gonna sit here
and tell my mother
551
00:19:05,405 --> 00:19:07,929
what I know about sex.
552
00:19:07,929 --> 00:19:09,931
You really think we're about
to have this conversation?
553
00:19:09,931 --> 00:19:11,193
Because you got me--
554
00:19:11,193 --> 00:19:12,325
It sounds like
a health class.
555
00:19:12,325 --> 00:19:13,717
I want you to be responsible.
556
00:19:13,717 --> 00:19:15,328
- OK.
- No means no.
557
00:19:15,328 --> 00:19:17,591
Consent means everybody
has to agree.
558
00:19:17,591 --> 00:19:19,114
I don't want to be
a grandmother anytime
559
00:19:19,114 --> 00:19:20,681
any soon, anytime soon.
560
00:19:21,682 --> 00:19:24,641
I'm so sorry.
- Yeah! Yeah!
561
00:19:24,641 --> 00:19:25,903
Yeah!
562
00:19:25,903 --> 00:19:27,818
All right, I'm done.
I'm so over all you.
563
00:19:27,818 --> 00:19:30,343
You guys just got here, and
I have you for a whole week?
564
00:19:30,343 --> 00:19:31,474
I'm good.
565
00:19:31,474 --> 00:19:32,954
I'm so good.
566
00:19:32,954 --> 00:19:35,348
♪ You know
I'm worth the hype ♪
567
00:19:35,348 --> 00:19:38,177
♪ Oh, oh
568
00:19:38,177 --> 00:19:40,266
♪ Come spend it all again
- Honey.
569
00:19:40,266 --> 00:19:41,397
What's going on, honey?
570
00:19:41,397 --> 00:19:43,269
We've got Sarah
coming any minute.
571
00:19:43,269 --> 00:19:45,140
Have you heard from her?
Is she gonna be here?
572
00:19:45,140 --> 00:19:46,359
Yeah, she's gonna be here
any minute, bub.
573
00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:47,795
OK.
574
00:19:47,795 --> 00:19:49,623
Honey, we're gonna
have to sit outside
575
00:19:49,623 --> 00:19:51,015
and even with the bugs.
576
00:19:51,015 --> 00:19:52,800
Because I just put
the kids to sleep,
577
00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,846
and I just don't want to
take any chances with them
578
00:19:55,846 --> 00:19:57,805
coming down, you know?
- OK.
579
00:19:57,805 --> 00:20:00,851
Are you feeling
open and focused?
580
00:20:00,851 --> 00:20:02,462
- Yeah.
- You know, 'cause
581
00:20:02,462 --> 00:20:04,986
I'm really happy
that you were agreeable.
582
00:20:05,987 --> 00:20:07,510
Oh, that's her.
583
00:20:07,510 --> 00:20:09,338
- OK, go get it, Bubba.
- OK.
584
00:20:15,823 --> 00:20:17,738
Are you freaking
kidding me, PK?
585
00:20:17,738 --> 00:20:19,348
Shush, baby. I've got to eat.
586
00:20:19,348 --> 00:20:21,481
- You said "That's her."
- It is.
587
00:20:21,481 --> 00:20:23,265
And you stopped off
to have a piece of pizza?
588
00:20:23,265 --> 00:20:24,310
Oh, my God.
589
00:20:24,310 --> 00:20:26,399
PK, you are one of a kind.
590
00:20:26,399 --> 00:20:27,748
I just want you to know
that this man
591
00:20:27,748 --> 00:20:30,620
left you waiting at the door
592
00:20:30,620 --> 00:20:32,753
so he can have more pizza.
593
00:20:32,753 --> 00:20:33,971
Oh.
594
00:20:33,971 --> 00:20:35,712
- It was en route.
- Hi, love.
595
00:20:35,712 --> 00:20:37,627
- How are you?
- Well. How are you?
596
00:20:37,627 --> 00:20:39,020
- Good.
- Hi, sweetie pie.
597
00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:42,676
My biggest issue was that
after the home invasion,
598
00:20:42,676 --> 00:20:44,199
I really needed PK around.
599
00:20:44,199 --> 00:20:46,332
And he was traveling
all the time.
600
00:20:46,332 --> 00:20:48,595
He wasn't here for me,
not physically
601
00:20:48,595 --> 00:20:50,423
and not emotionally, really.
602
00:20:50,423 --> 00:20:52,207
I'm off to Aspen.
You're off to London.
603
00:20:52,207 --> 00:20:53,861
Yeah.
But don't call me
604
00:20:53,861 --> 00:20:55,384
in the middle of the night
in London...
605
00:20:55,384 --> 00:20:57,168
- I can't promise that.
- Saying, "Come and get me"--
606
00:20:57,168 --> 00:20:58,605
I can't promise that.
607
00:20:58,605 --> 00:20:59,519
You know,
everything's terrible.
608
00:20:59,519 --> 00:21:00,737
I cannot promise that.
609
00:21:00,737 --> 00:21:02,348
Well, you did that in Mexico.
610
00:21:02,348 --> 00:21:04,393
I know,
and you didn't come get me.
611
00:21:04,393 --> 00:21:07,744
I wasn't myself
because of the PTSD.
612
00:21:07,744 --> 00:21:11,835
And my husband was spending
a lot of time in London.
613
00:21:11,835 --> 00:21:15,056
I started to feel like PK
and I weren't connected.
614
00:21:15,056 --> 00:21:18,755
The passes, the patience,
those are now used up.
615
00:21:18,755 --> 00:21:20,583
It's time for him to show up.
616
00:21:20,583 --> 00:21:23,412
The reason why I really
wanted to have a session,
617
00:21:23,412 --> 00:21:24,848
the three of us, was because
618
00:21:24,848 --> 00:21:29,723
I feel like you don't quite
619
00:21:29,723 --> 00:21:33,770
understand the severity
of the PTSD
620
00:21:33,770 --> 00:21:35,032
for me,
621
00:21:35,032 --> 00:21:37,339
and largely, in part,
622
00:21:37,339 --> 00:21:39,385
the surprise element.
623
00:21:39,385 --> 00:21:41,300
Who's taking care of the kids?
624
00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:42,301
Like, does anybody know
anything?
625
00:21:42,301 --> 00:21:43,693
We'll get to that point.
626
00:21:43,693 --> 00:21:45,652
I know, but I need to know
because I get anxiety.
627
00:21:45,652 --> 00:21:49,699
I tried to tell you, um,
628
00:21:49,699 --> 00:21:51,179
and you just had a reaction
629
00:21:51,179 --> 00:21:52,963
that was very defensive.
630
00:21:52,963 --> 00:21:56,750
You think that
this just happens.
631
00:21:56,750 --> 00:21:58,708
There's a lot of effort
that goes into
632
00:21:58,708 --> 00:22:01,929
dressing a certain way,
looking a certain way.
633
00:22:01,929 --> 00:22:03,583
To be honest with you,
I think maybe
634
00:22:03,583 --> 00:22:07,108
I'm not gonna bother
with surprises anymore.
635
00:22:07,108 --> 00:22:10,633
Does PTSD require you to
discuss it there and then?
636
00:22:10,633 --> 00:22:12,374
Is that PTSD?
637
00:22:12,374 --> 00:22:13,419
Or is--
638
00:22:13,419 --> 00:22:14,898
That's a really
sh---y thing--
639
00:22:14,898 --> 00:22:16,335
- No, I'm interested.
- That you're saying.
640
00:22:16,335 --> 00:22:17,336
- I'm asking, is it--
- I don't think it's sh---y.
641
00:22:17,336 --> 00:22:20,600
He's saying her timing was off.
642
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,688
That's exactly
what he's saying. -
643
00:22:21,688 --> 00:22:22,689
Hear me out, though.
644
00:22:22,689 --> 00:22:23,777
Her timing was off.
645
00:22:23,777 --> 00:22:25,605
Couldn't she table that?
646
00:22:25,605 --> 00:22:27,737
There isn't a freaking
husband in the world
647
00:22:27,737 --> 00:22:29,609
that would have taken
kindly to what she said
648
00:22:29,609 --> 00:22:32,742
when she said it
after what I'd just done,
649
00:22:32,742 --> 00:22:34,396
do you understand?
650
00:22:34,396 --> 00:22:37,094
It felt a little bit
of a you.
651
00:22:44,972 --> 00:22:47,278
There isn't a freaking
husband in the world
652
00:22:47,278 --> 00:22:49,455
that would have taken kindly
to what she said
653
00:22:49,455 --> 00:22:52,283
when she said it
after what I'd just done,
654
00:22:52,283 --> 00:22:53,850
do you understand?
655
00:22:53,850 --> 00:22:55,765
It felt a little bit
of a you.
656
00:22:58,246 --> 00:23:01,075
PTSD is born in anxiety, right?
657
00:23:01,075 --> 00:23:02,903
There's nothing to do,
good surprise, bad surprise,
658
00:23:02,903 --> 00:23:04,339
or anything in between.
659
00:23:04,339 --> 00:23:08,256
It's just something
that catches you off guard.
660
00:23:08,256 --> 00:23:11,825
And so your instinct
is to walk around
661
00:23:11,825 --> 00:23:15,698
ready for something horrible
to happen all the time.
662
00:23:15,698 --> 00:23:19,572
Does that feel--
663
00:23:19,572 --> 00:23:21,225
Perfection, Sarah.
664
00:23:21,225 --> 00:23:22,792
OK.
665
00:23:22,792 --> 00:23:24,228
Did that make sense?
666
00:23:24,228 --> 00:23:25,839
There are elements
I understand.
667
00:23:25,839 --> 00:23:29,799
There are also elements that
I don't consider are PTSD.
668
00:23:31,888 --> 00:23:32,976
I don't.
669
00:23:32,976 --> 00:23:35,065
I consider
they're more obnoxious.
670
00:23:35,065 --> 00:23:37,981
Honey, I want to know
why you couldn't have gotten,
671
00:23:37,981 --> 00:23:39,418
like, the presidential suite.
672
00:23:39,418 --> 00:23:42,072
Karina, do you have
the Beverly Beach bronzer?
673
00:23:42,072 --> 00:23:44,335
- No, I don't have it with me.
- That I need.
674
00:23:44,335 --> 00:23:46,250
It will look a lot better
if I'm bronzed.
675
00:23:46,250 --> 00:23:48,470
The reality is,
is when does high maintenance
676
00:23:48,470 --> 00:23:50,951
blend with PTSD?
677
00:23:50,951 --> 00:23:53,606
One of the things that
I fell in love with PK
678
00:23:53,606 --> 00:23:55,608
when I first met him
was he could
679
00:23:55,608 --> 00:23:57,174
let go of things so easily.
680
00:23:57,174 --> 00:23:59,525
And I feel like
in the last few years,
681
00:23:59,525 --> 00:24:02,397
he's definitely gotten
more harsh with me,
682
00:24:02,397 --> 00:24:05,487
a little mean sometimes,
like, go low.
683
00:24:05,487 --> 00:24:07,097
And I don't like that aspect.
684
00:24:07,097 --> 00:24:09,317
When I first met Dorit,
685
00:24:09,317 --> 00:24:10,753
she was this bubbly,
686
00:24:10,753 --> 00:24:12,929
enthusiastic beautiful girl.
687
00:24:12,929 --> 00:24:15,584
And she was not quite
688
00:24:15,584 --> 00:24:17,586
as high maintenance
as she is now.
689
00:24:17,586 --> 00:24:19,501
PK, you are--
690
00:24:19,501 --> 00:24:21,285
it's like you're reaching.
- You're suggesting--
691
00:24:21,285 --> 00:24:22,983
no, I'm not reaching.
- And you're trying to--
692
00:24:22,983 --> 00:24:24,811
no, genuinely.
- I'm trying to understand.
693
00:24:24,811 --> 00:24:27,117
We're talking about, specifically,
694
00:24:27,117 --> 00:24:28,597
certain triggers.
695
00:24:28,597 --> 00:24:30,773
It's like,
I'm a totally new person
696
00:24:30,773 --> 00:24:33,428
and I can't do
anything about it.
697
00:24:33,428 --> 00:24:35,386
Do you have any idea
how difficult that is
698
00:24:35,386 --> 00:24:38,259
and what it's like
to live with that?
699
00:24:38,259 --> 00:24:40,957
What do you want him to do
in the future?
700
00:24:40,957 --> 00:24:43,786
If I tell him,
PK, I'm not good,
701
00:24:43,786 --> 00:24:45,658
I'm really not good right now,
702
00:24:45,658 --> 00:24:47,660
I need him to understand, like,
703
00:24:47,660 --> 00:24:49,052
uh-oh, she's having an episode.
704
00:24:49,052 --> 00:24:51,664
I need to go comfort my wife.
705
00:24:51,664 --> 00:24:55,668
In a marriage,
these are the times
706
00:24:55,668 --> 00:24:58,627
that truly test
your relationship.
707
00:24:58,627 --> 00:25:00,760
This particular bad time
708
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,718
where I need PK
709
00:25:02,718 --> 00:25:04,938
and it's not
the other way around,
710
00:25:04,938 --> 00:25:07,680
he's coming up really short.
711
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,160
Dealing with the
pressures of having
712
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,511
to manage your career,
and your job,
713
00:25:12,511 --> 00:25:17,254
and travel, and keep the missus
happy is always a challenge.
714
00:25:17,254 --> 00:25:18,995
You know,
something has to give.
715
00:25:18,995 --> 00:25:20,867
I try and balance it,
716
00:25:20,867 --> 00:25:22,608
but maybe I don't always
balance it
717
00:25:22,608 --> 00:25:24,914
as well as I should or could.
718
00:25:24,914 --> 00:25:26,655
And this isn't
a one-sided thing.
719
00:25:26,655 --> 00:25:29,005
We need to keep
each other happy.
720
00:25:29,005 --> 00:25:32,879
And we need to sometimes
be wrong,
721
00:25:32,879 --> 00:25:35,969
which has always
been a challenge for Dorit.
722
00:25:35,969 --> 00:25:37,057
I don't know why you think
723
00:25:37,057 --> 00:25:38,449
I wouldn't want to
understand it.
724
00:25:38,449 --> 00:25:41,278
It's helpful to me,
as well as you.
725
00:25:41,278 --> 00:25:43,106
So of course,
I want to understand it,
726
00:25:43,106 --> 00:25:44,804
but you've got to give me
a chance to understand it.
727
00:25:44,804 --> 00:25:48,068
And you've also got
to try and articulate it
728
00:25:48,068 --> 00:25:50,984
just a little bit calmer
and a little bit less irritated
729
00:25:50,984 --> 00:25:52,376
by it, do you understand?
730
00:25:52,376 --> 00:25:55,205
Because I'm not seeking
to irritate you.
731
00:25:55,205 --> 00:25:56,990
I'm seeking to understand you.
732
00:25:56,990 --> 00:25:59,732
It makes me emotional because
you know I'm OK with it.
733
00:25:59,732 --> 00:26:02,343
Bubba.
734
00:26:02,343 --> 00:26:04,432
Baby, but why?
735
00:26:04,432 --> 00:26:05,738
I don't understand, baby.
736
00:26:05,738 --> 00:26:06,956
Why?
737
00:26:06,956 --> 00:26:08,479
Because it's very difficult...
738
00:26:08,479 --> 00:26:09,916
- I know, but...
- When you love someone...
739
00:26:09,916 --> 00:26:11,221
That's all I've
wanted to hear.
740
00:26:11,221 --> 00:26:13,180
To listen to how
much pain you're in.
741
00:26:13,180 --> 00:26:16,226
What I need is
for PK not only
742
00:26:16,226 --> 00:26:19,534
to get a better grasp
of what I'm going through,
743
00:26:19,534 --> 00:26:22,232
to want to be there for me.
744
00:26:22,232 --> 00:26:26,323
If we can do that together,
him and I will succeed.
745
00:26:26,323 --> 00:26:28,325
If he can't,
746
00:26:28,325 --> 00:26:30,632
I don't know
what the future holds.
747
00:26:30,632 --> 00:26:35,419
Before PTSD, you take
a long time to say something.
748
00:26:35,419 --> 00:26:37,552
I'm always gonna get a little
bit frustrated with that.
749
00:26:37,552 --> 00:26:39,467
It's not all the time,
my love, right?
750
00:26:39,467 --> 00:26:41,556
Just to let you know,
it really isn't.
751
00:26:41,556 --> 00:26:44,037
I mean, you are super sweet
when you're asleep.
752
00:26:44,037 --> 00:26:45,734
off, PK.
753
00:26:46,866 --> 00:26:48,650
ing idiot.
754
00:26:51,566 --> 00:26:52,741
♪ Heaven, heaven
755
00:26:52,741 --> 00:26:56,615
♪ I'm already here, babe
756
00:26:56,615 --> 00:26:59,574
I sent Portia a voice text of
what I wanted to say tonight,
757
00:26:59,574 --> 00:27:01,097
and then she sent them back.
758
00:27:01,097 --> 00:27:02,533
She's like, mom, I can barely
understand any of this.
759
00:27:02,533 --> 00:27:04,100
I just want to honor her.
760
00:27:04,100 --> 00:27:05,449
I speak to who she is.
761
00:27:05,449 --> 00:27:07,016
I'm just trying to pull
this up again, Scott.
762
00:27:07,016 --> 00:27:09,149
Don't be offended.
763
00:27:11,151 --> 00:27:14,110
This is a very special night.
764
00:27:14,110 --> 00:27:16,504
Hopefully,
my lashes will stay on.
765
00:27:16,504 --> 00:27:18,462
Hopefully.
766
00:27:18,462 --> 00:27:21,248
♪ Life couldn't be better
767
00:27:21,248 --> 00:27:22,510
♪ I'm with my girls
768
00:27:22,510 --> 00:27:24,468
♪ Doing rock blue
crystal water ♪
769
00:27:24,468 --> 00:27:26,296
For tonight,
I think, you know,
770
00:27:26,296 --> 00:27:28,385
it's Kyle's night
to celebrate her friend
771
00:27:28,385 --> 00:27:30,257
and raise some funds.
- Well, that's nice.
772
00:27:30,257 --> 00:27:32,172
So great you can
all be there for her.
773
00:27:32,172 --> 00:27:34,740
When you guys are in need, you
guys rally around each other.
774
00:27:34,740 --> 00:27:35,958
- We do do that.
- And I love that.
775
00:27:35,958 --> 00:27:38,004
We absolutely do that.
776
00:27:43,662 --> 00:27:46,360
Hey, Siri.
777
00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:47,840
Call Morgan Wade.
778
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:49,450
- Oh, there she is.
- Yeah.
779
00:27:49,450 --> 00:27:52,671
There are people that I
speak to every single day
780
00:27:52,671 --> 00:27:54,324
no matter what. Sorry.
781
00:27:54,324 --> 00:27:56,196
- You look nice.
- You look pretty.
782
00:27:56,196 --> 00:27:58,894
Teddi and Morgan
are two of those people.
783
00:27:58,894 --> 00:28:00,243
You know,
don't tell her too much.
784
00:28:00,243 --> 00:28:01,462
She's gonna
get a big ego over here.
785
00:28:01,462 --> 00:28:02,855
Oh, hell.
786
00:28:02,855 --> 00:28:04,552
Yeah, that's--
I love that color.
787
00:28:04,552 --> 00:28:07,511
Everything in our life
is discussed.
788
00:28:07,511 --> 00:28:09,905
Friends, husbands,
789
00:28:09,905 --> 00:28:12,560
siblings, work, complaints,
790
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,910
celebrations, everything.
791
00:28:14,910 --> 00:28:16,433
Well--
792
00:28:16,433 --> 00:28:19,175
Where did you get
that pinky ring?
793
00:28:19,175 --> 00:28:21,787
I'll take you there.
794
00:28:21,787 --> 00:28:23,092
Are you gonna
give it back to me?
795
00:28:23,092 --> 00:28:24,746
Yeah, I'm not ke--
I don't want yours.
796
00:28:24,746 --> 00:28:25,878
It's nasty.
797
00:28:30,883 --> 00:28:32,362
Well, let me get it back.
798
00:28:32,362 --> 00:28:33,929
It probably won't even
fit over my knuckle.
799
00:28:41,763 --> 00:28:44,374
Oh, it looks so great.
800
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,726
Oh, it looks gorgeous.
801
00:28:47,726 --> 00:28:49,466
It looks really beautiful.
802
00:28:49,466 --> 00:28:50,641
It looks great.
803
00:28:50,641 --> 00:28:51,991
Try to give you one
that we both do
804
00:28:51,991 --> 00:28:53,644
a little singing on you.
You wanna take me away?
805
00:28:53,644 --> 00:28:54,689
Here's how it's gonna go.
806
00:28:54,689 --> 00:28:56,038
People are gonna come in.
807
00:28:56,038 --> 00:28:58,562
We're gonna have passed,
um, drinks.
808
00:28:58,562 --> 00:29:00,086
You're gonna speak.
809
00:29:00,086 --> 00:29:01,043
The girl from NAMI is gonna--
810
00:29:01,043 --> 00:29:03,219
Oh, my goodness,
just one second.
811
00:29:03,219 --> 00:29:05,831
♪ You take out
those clothes you in ♪
812
00:29:05,831 --> 00:29:07,789
Second--let me head up.
813
00:29:07,789 --> 00:29:10,792
♪ Baby, take me away
814
00:29:10,792 --> 00:29:12,315
Let's just do the water.
815
00:29:12,315 --> 00:29:14,840
♪ Hand in my hair
816
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,929
♪ And you said I look pretty
817
00:29:16,929 --> 00:29:18,757
♪ You're so devious
818
00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:22,412
♪ Rode in from the Windy City,
yeah ♪
819
00:29:22,412 --> 00:29:25,415
Initially, I was drawn
to Morgan by her music.
820
00:29:25,415 --> 00:29:27,287
Morgan's lyrics
really spoke to me
821
00:29:27,287 --> 00:29:31,073
because she was just so raw,
and open, and honest,
822
00:29:31,073 --> 00:29:33,423
and just putting
it all out there.
823
00:29:43,172 --> 00:29:44,652
And I admire that in someone.
824
00:29:44,652 --> 00:29:47,916
Especially someone who has
struggled with that myself,
825
00:29:47,916 --> 00:29:50,049
I appreciate that quality
in someone.
826
00:29:56,142 --> 00:29:58,057
I feel too nervous.
827
00:29:58,057 --> 00:29:59,667
I'm too nervous
to even read it to you.
828
00:29:59,667 --> 00:30:00,799
How can I read it
in front of people?
829
00:30:00,799 --> 00:30:02,017
Well, let me read it.
830
00:30:02,017 --> 00:30:03,236
No, because there's
too many typos.
831
00:30:03,236 --> 00:30:04,803
I can't let you see the typos.
832
00:30:04,803 --> 00:30:06,108
Too awkward.
833
00:30:06,108 --> 00:30:07,153
I wouldn't make fun of you.
834
00:30:07,153 --> 00:30:09,242
I wouldn't make--
835
00:30:11,722 --> 00:30:13,899
What?
836
00:30:13,899 --> 00:30:17,424
I'm so... anxious.
837
00:30:17,424 --> 00:30:19,861
I don't--I really don't know
if I can do it.
838
00:30:19,861 --> 00:30:21,645
I'm not kidding you.
839
00:30:21,645 --> 00:30:23,125
OK.
840
00:30:23,125 --> 00:30:25,040
You got it.
841
00:30:26,302 --> 00:30:27,782
Coming up...
842
00:30:27,782 --> 00:30:29,131
You guys, not to change
the subject, but--
843
00:30:29,131 --> 00:30:30,872
- Yep.
- Sutton,
844
00:30:30,872 --> 00:30:32,743
you guys know her
the best, right?
845
00:30:32,743 --> 00:30:34,658
I feel like you guys
are the closest with her.
846
00:30:34,658 --> 00:30:36,051
Her small esophagus.
847
00:30:48,847 --> 00:30:50,457
Hi.
848
00:30:50,457 --> 00:30:52,198
Hello.
849
00:30:54,113 --> 00:30:55,549
Thank you.
850
00:31:00,032 --> 00:31:02,469
- Thank you.
- Thank you.
851
00:31:02,469 --> 00:31:03,470
Wait, Morgan, can you
get one with Kim and me?
852
00:31:03,470 --> 00:31:04,906
Yes.
853
00:31:04,906 --> 00:31:06,342
You want to stand with you?
854
00:31:09,824 --> 00:31:11,173
Hi.
855
00:31:11,173 --> 00:31:13,088
Hi, how are you?
- Good. How are you?
856
00:31:13,088 --> 00:31:14,568
Good.
857
00:31:14,568 --> 00:31:16,135
Oh, sorry.
858
00:31:16,135 --> 00:31:17,788
It's just the Gnat.
859
00:31:17,788 --> 00:31:18,920
- Hi.
- Hi.
860
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,269
How are you?
861
00:31:22,663 --> 00:31:26,580
Not only is she annoying, she
refers to herself as the Gnat.
862
00:31:26,580 --> 00:31:28,103
What's your deal with Teddi?
863
00:31:28,103 --> 00:31:30,105
I don't know.
She's kind of annoying
864
00:31:30,105 --> 00:31:33,543
for no reason,
like a little gnat.
865
00:31:34,631 --> 00:31:37,286
I mean,
I rest my case, Your Honor.
866
00:31:37,286 --> 00:31:38,853
- Hi.
- Gorgeous, how are you?
867
00:31:38,853 --> 00:31:39,941
You look stunning.
868
00:31:39,941 --> 00:31:40,942
Thank you.
869
00:31:40,942 --> 00:31:42,248
Stunning.
870
00:31:42,248 --> 00:31:43,945
I'm excited.
How do you feel?
871
00:31:43,945 --> 00:31:45,512
- Anxious.
- Yeah.
872
00:31:45,512 --> 00:31:46,556
Yeah.
873
00:31:46,556 --> 00:31:48,167
It's gonna be
a good night.
874
00:31:53,259 --> 00:31:55,957
Hi. You look amazing.
875
00:31:55,957 --> 00:31:57,132
Hi.
876
00:31:58,003 --> 00:31:59,613
Ready?
877
00:31:59,613 --> 00:32:01,658
How are you?
- Baby, hi.
878
00:32:01,658 --> 00:32:03,530
Gonna take a quick picture
with my daughter.
879
00:32:03,530 --> 00:32:04,661
- Of course.
- You look beautiful.
880
00:32:04,661 --> 00:32:05,706
Oh, my God.
881
00:32:05,706 --> 00:32:07,142
You look so beautiful.
OK, girls.
882
00:32:08,361 --> 00:32:09,362
You don't like that side?
883
00:32:09,362 --> 00:32:11,494
We all like this side.
884
00:32:11,494 --> 00:32:14,802
My daughters are my
best friends in the world.
885
00:32:14,802 --> 00:32:16,412
They always give me
the best advice.
886
00:32:16,412 --> 00:32:17,413
They're there for me.
887
00:32:17,413 --> 00:32:19,415
They listen to me.
888
00:32:19,415 --> 00:32:21,330
I don't know what
I would do without them.
889
00:32:21,330 --> 00:32:22,549
What are we?
890
00:32:22,549 --> 00:32:23,680
Like, the--you know,
like--there.
891
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,726
- Mom.
- Sorry.
892
00:32:25,726 --> 00:32:28,468
It feels good to be able
to lean on them sometimes
893
00:32:28,468 --> 00:32:30,644
after raising them
all these years.
894
00:32:30,644 --> 00:32:31,906
Like, guess what?
895
00:32:31,906 --> 00:32:33,299
Now I need you a little bit.
896
00:32:36,476 --> 00:32:38,695
You look beautiful.
897
00:32:38,695 --> 00:32:40,001
So do you.
898
00:32:40,001 --> 00:32:41,307
Oh, my gosh.
899
00:32:41,307 --> 00:32:42,786
Thank you, honey.
I love you.
900
00:32:42,786 --> 00:32:43,874
I love you.
901
00:32:43,874 --> 00:32:45,876
Thank you so much.
902
00:32:45,876 --> 00:32:47,052
This is hard.
903
00:32:47,052 --> 00:32:48,140
I know.
904
00:32:48,140 --> 00:32:49,184
Thank you.
905
00:32:49,184 --> 00:32:50,403
Is Mauricio gonna be here?
906
00:32:50,403 --> 00:32:52,361
- He's out of town.
- Oh, he is?
907
00:32:52,361 --> 00:32:54,015
Yeah. I mean, I'm so sorry.
908
00:32:54,015 --> 00:32:55,364
I love you so much.
909
00:32:55,364 --> 00:32:57,279
Mo can't be here
910
00:32:57,279 --> 00:33:00,413
because he had to go
out of town for business.
911
00:33:00,413 --> 00:33:03,764
You know, had this been
a few years ago,
912
00:33:03,764 --> 00:33:07,855
I would have really relied on
him on a night like tonight.
913
00:33:09,465 --> 00:33:11,032
How are you?
914
00:33:11,032 --> 00:33:12,816
You--how are you?
You OK?
915
00:33:12,816 --> 00:33:15,645
That's Maureen's mom
and her daughters.
916
00:33:15,645 --> 00:33:18,692
Yeah, she's just having
a hard day obviously, yeah.
917
00:33:18,692 --> 00:33:22,391
Kyle coming alone to
this event without Mo
918
00:33:22,391 --> 00:33:25,655
says a lot about
where her relationship is.
919
00:33:25,655 --> 00:33:28,789
And maybe he's not trying
to hide it after all.
920
00:33:28,789 --> 00:33:30,530
All right, hang in there.
- Thank you.
921
00:33:30,530 --> 00:33:31,618
Anything you need--
922
00:33:31,618 --> 00:33:34,534
Hope I can get
through my speech.
923
00:33:34,534 --> 00:33:36,231
- How are you?
- I'm good. How are you?
924
00:33:36,231 --> 00:33:37,580
- Good.
- You look so cute. Goodness.
925
00:33:37,580 --> 00:33:38,799
- How are the boys?
- The boys are good.
926
00:33:38,799 --> 00:33:40,714
Jax has a game tomorrow.
And you know--
927
00:33:40,714 --> 00:33:42,585
- OK.
- Jax forgets something.
928
00:33:42,585 --> 00:33:45,588
You guys, not to change the
subject, but Sutton,
929
00:33:45,588 --> 00:33:47,503
you guys know her the best, right?
930
00:33:47,503 --> 00:33:49,288
I feel like you guys
are the closest with her.
931
00:33:49,288 --> 00:33:51,072
Her small esophagus.
932
00:33:51,899 --> 00:33:53,770
I feel like I'm beating
a dead horse.
933
00:33:53,770 --> 00:33:54,728
OK, I have a question
for you.
934
00:33:54,728 --> 00:33:55,903
But it's driving me bananas.
935
00:33:55,903 --> 00:33:57,296
Why do you care?
936
00:33:57,296 --> 00:34:00,429
I don't think
it's very Beverly Hills
937
00:34:00,429 --> 00:34:03,737
to be talking about
someone's esophagus.
938
00:34:03,737 --> 00:34:06,218
I care because
I'm in health care.
939
00:34:06,218 --> 00:34:08,350
You talk about
their jewelry.
940
00:34:08,350 --> 00:34:09,830
You talk about their bags.
941
00:34:09,830 --> 00:34:12,006
You talk about their
ex-husbands,
942
00:34:12,006 --> 00:34:13,921
not their esophagus.
943
00:34:13,921 --> 00:34:16,097
You can even talk about
their plastic surgery.
944
00:34:16,097 --> 00:34:18,752
That's OK.
945
00:34:18,752 --> 00:34:20,623
I scoured
all of my medical books.
946
00:34:20,623 --> 00:34:22,103
- And?
- I went to work. I asked--
947
00:34:22,103 --> 00:34:23,409
She asked questions.
948
00:34:23,409 --> 00:34:25,759
I asked anesthesiologists,
I asked EMTs.
949
00:34:25,759 --> 00:34:27,935
They said, you can say
that to a lay person.
950
00:34:27,935 --> 00:34:30,242
But if you say that to someone
in medicine, you look stupid.
951
00:34:30,242 --> 00:34:31,852
A small esophagus
is not the reason.
952
00:34:31,852 --> 00:34:35,334
Did you have
an eating disorder?
953
00:34:35,334 --> 00:34:37,423
Because a lot of acid reflux--
954
00:34:38,728 --> 00:34:40,295
Let me explain,
let me explain.
955
00:34:40,295 --> 00:34:42,602
A lot of acid reflux
or regurgitation
956
00:34:42,602 --> 00:34:44,386
can cause scar tissue
in your throat.
957
00:34:44,386 --> 00:34:46,084
You're implying
that she has a disorder.
958
00:34:46,084 --> 00:34:48,042
I'm not.
959
00:34:48,042 --> 00:34:49,957
For the record, those are
Crystal's words, not mine.
960
00:34:49,957 --> 00:34:52,002
I never said that.
- You said eating disorder.
961
00:34:52,002 --> 00:34:53,787
No, I didn't.
962
00:34:53,787 --> 00:34:57,921
Did you have
an eating disorder?
963
00:34:57,921 --> 00:35:00,402
Annemarie, you are
the one that said it.
964
00:35:00,402 --> 00:35:01,621
You need to own up to it.
965
00:35:01,621 --> 00:35:03,579
You are the biggest gaslighter.
966
00:35:03,579 --> 00:35:06,669
And I don't need to look up
in my medical encyclopedia
967
00:35:06,669 --> 00:35:07,931
what a gaslighter is.
968
00:35:07,931 --> 00:35:09,281
This is a tricky conversation.
969
00:35:09,281 --> 00:35:10,760
All I said is that
narrow esophagus
970
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,458
is not a medical diagnosis, period.
971
00:35:12,458 --> 00:35:14,024
That's all I said.
972
00:35:14,024 --> 00:35:15,330
I'm gonna get something else
to drink.
973
00:35:15,330 --> 00:35:16,636
Do you want anything?
974
00:35:16,636 --> 00:35:19,073
Yeah, a bottle of tequila.
Thank you, bye.
975
00:35:19,073 --> 00:35:20,466
Thank you and bye.
976
00:35:20,466 --> 00:35:22,250
Woo, woo, woo.
977
00:35:24,905 --> 00:35:26,428
I'm so not used to being
that much taller than you.
978
00:35:26,428 --> 00:35:27,386
I got to take my shoe off.
979
00:35:27,386 --> 00:35:29,605
Look at me.
980
00:35:29,605 --> 00:35:32,478
Yeah, you like
that better, right?
981
00:35:32,478 --> 00:35:34,306
You have both of
your parents, right?
982
00:35:34,306 --> 00:35:35,655
I do.
983
00:35:35,655 --> 00:35:37,135
Of course,
my dad's been dead 20 years.
984
00:35:37,135 --> 00:35:39,441
Suicide is really tough.
985
00:35:39,441 --> 00:35:42,879
- Yeah.
- And it can splinter a family.
986
00:35:42,879 --> 00:35:47,188
You know, I think it really
affected me as a daddy's girl.
987
00:35:47,188 --> 00:35:48,494
Sure.
988
00:35:48,494 --> 00:35:51,627
And we never addressed it
989
00:35:51,627 --> 00:35:53,412
as a family, ever.
990
00:35:53,412 --> 00:35:55,805
Wow, wow.
991
00:35:55,805 --> 00:36:00,680
My father was 62 years old
when he committed suicide.
992
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,682
I lived with that guilt
for a long time,
993
00:36:02,682 --> 00:36:05,946
then I tried to figure out
why he did this.
994
00:36:05,946 --> 00:36:08,601
We put him
in the hospital twice.
995
00:36:08,601 --> 00:36:12,344
You have to learn
to let that go.
996
00:36:12,344 --> 00:36:14,433
Girl.
997
00:36:14,433 --> 00:36:16,478
What?
998
00:36:16,478 --> 00:36:18,524
What now?
No.
999
00:36:18,524 --> 00:36:19,699
What? What happened?
1000
00:36:19,699 --> 00:36:21,788
Annemarie is coming for you.
1001
00:36:21,788 --> 00:36:23,224
Why?
1002
00:36:23,224 --> 00:36:25,879
Your small esophagus.
1003
00:36:25,879 --> 00:36:27,446
Not tonight.
1004
00:36:27,446 --> 00:36:30,057
Garcelle loves to strike a
match, throw it on the flames,
1005
00:36:30,057 --> 00:36:31,798
and then walk away.
1006
00:36:31,798 --> 00:36:35,454
And that's exactly what she's
doing with Sutton right now.
1007
00:36:35,454 --> 00:36:37,804
Does she know that
my dad committed suicide?
1008
00:36:37,804 --> 00:36:39,719
I'm an ambassador for NAMI.
1009
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,374
She better----ing stay
the away from me.
1010
00:36:42,374 --> 00:36:43,940
Not tonight.
1011
00:36:51,557 --> 00:36:53,254
Mom, I'm so proud of you.
1012
00:36:53,254 --> 00:36:55,125
I'm so proud of you.
1013
00:36:59,086 --> 00:37:00,609
Hey, how are you?
1014
00:37:00,609 --> 00:37:01,741
Your hair looks great
that color.
1015
00:37:01,741 --> 00:37:03,960
I met Morgan
about two years ago.
1016
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,268
It was before Kyle and Morgan
really got super close.
1017
00:37:07,268 --> 00:37:08,878
We were all in London,
1018
00:37:08,878 --> 00:37:11,794
and we had dinner
for Mauricio's birthday.
1019
00:37:11,794 --> 00:37:15,102
Morgan stuck out
like a sore thumb.
1020
00:37:15,102 --> 00:37:18,975
You didn't really understand
the connection, but
1021
00:37:18,975 --> 00:37:19,933
very nice.
1022
00:37:21,891 --> 00:37:24,677
I mean, I changed it
six months ago.
1023
00:37:24,677 --> 00:37:26,461
I needed it.
1024
00:37:26,461 --> 00:37:28,811
Come to think of it, the
dinner that we had in London
1025
00:37:28,811 --> 00:37:32,989
with Kyle and Mo was really
one of the last times
1026
00:37:32,989 --> 00:37:36,297
that we were together
with Kyle and Mo as a couple.
1027
00:37:36,297 --> 00:37:39,300
There's got to be a better
way to eat this to not like--
1028
00:37:42,347 --> 00:37:43,435
I don't like this one.
1029
00:37:43,435 --> 00:37:44,566
You can eat this one.
1030
00:37:44,566 --> 00:37:46,394
You have to work--oh, yeah.
1031
00:37:51,181 --> 00:37:54,707
Here you go.
I don't want that kind either.
1032
00:37:56,143 --> 00:37:58,493
This is exactly
how rumors start.
1033
00:38:01,627 --> 00:38:04,456
Is this working? Oh, it is.
1034
00:38:04,456 --> 00:38:11,289
We're here tonight to honor
my best friend, Lorene Shay.
1035
00:38:11,289 --> 00:38:15,118
It is the one-year anniversary
of her passing.
1036
00:38:15,118 --> 00:38:18,774
Suicide,
it's such a difficult topic
1037
00:38:18,774 --> 00:38:21,821
because nobody wants to talk
about it, you know?
1038
00:38:21,821 --> 00:38:24,519
And I want people to know
that are struggling
1039
00:38:24,519 --> 00:38:25,999
that there are resources
1040
00:38:25,999 --> 00:38:27,914
that they can reach out to.
1041
00:38:27,914 --> 00:38:30,569
And I can guarantee you, every
single person in this room
1042
00:38:30,569 --> 00:38:33,920
has struggled themself,
or known someone
1043
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,097
that has struggled,
or lost a loved one.
1044
00:38:37,097 --> 00:38:40,361
I was supposed to be
at my family's house
1045
00:38:40,361 --> 00:38:43,103
at the exact time
that my father shot himself.
1046
00:38:43,103 --> 00:38:45,279
And I lived for a long time thinking,
1047
00:38:45,279 --> 00:38:48,413
if only I had been there on
time, 'cause I'm always late,
1048
00:38:48,413 --> 00:38:49,544
we know this.
1049
00:38:49,544 --> 00:38:51,938
But now, I just miss him.
1050
00:38:51,938 --> 00:38:56,203
I miss that he's not
seeing my children.
1051
00:38:58,814 --> 00:39:01,730
He'd be really--
no, I also learned this,
1052
00:39:01,730 --> 00:39:05,255
he is really proud
of my children.
1053
00:39:05,255 --> 00:39:08,302
He is really proud of me,
1054
00:39:08,302 --> 00:39:11,305
because he's still with us.
1055
00:39:15,962 --> 00:39:18,007
Lorene and I met
in second grade.
1056
00:39:18,007 --> 00:39:19,357
We were both seven years old,
1057
00:39:19,357 --> 00:39:22,185
and we did not like
each other at all.
1058
00:39:22,185 --> 00:39:24,100
We would come out
to the play yard
1059
00:39:24,100 --> 00:39:26,102
and, like,
look each other up and down.
1060
00:39:26,102 --> 00:39:28,496
And we were hurling insults
at each other.
1061
00:39:28,496 --> 00:39:31,369
I think I blocked out
what Lorene said about me,
1062
00:39:31,369 --> 00:39:32,718
making fun of me.
1063
00:39:32,718 --> 00:39:34,763
But it was probably about
being short or something
1064
00:39:34,763 --> 00:39:36,635
because she was very tall.
1065
00:39:36,635 --> 00:39:38,288
And I would make fun
of her pointy ears.
1066
00:39:38,288 --> 00:39:40,421
And, yeah.
1067
00:39:40,421 --> 00:39:42,205
We were both really stubborn.
1068
00:39:42,205 --> 00:39:43,772
So if we had an argument,
we both could not
1069
00:39:43,772 --> 00:39:44,947
get ourselves to say sorry.
1070
00:39:44,947 --> 00:39:46,427
So we had to come up
with a word
1071
00:39:46,427 --> 00:39:49,561
because saying "I'm sorry"
was just too difficult.
1072
00:39:49,561 --> 00:39:51,345
So we would say "babalu."
1073
00:39:51,345 --> 00:39:53,216
I do not know why
we would say "babalu."
1074
00:39:53,216 --> 00:39:55,436
And then we could move on
and go about our day.
1075
00:39:55,436 --> 00:39:57,786
But God forbid one of
us could say sorry.
1076
00:39:57,786 --> 00:40:00,920
But we went from that to
being the best of friends.
1077
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,792
I am so grateful to have
had Lorene in my life
1078
00:40:03,792 --> 00:40:06,142
and to have been
her other half.
1079
00:40:06,142 --> 00:40:09,450
Two days before,
I was talking to Lorene.
1080
00:40:09,450 --> 00:40:11,757
She said to me, um--
1081
00:40:14,281 --> 00:40:17,850
She said, "Always
appreciate your marriage."
1082
00:40:23,464 --> 00:40:25,510
I said, "I will."
1083
00:40:30,340 --> 00:40:32,038
So now we're having
a hard time,
1084
00:40:32,038 --> 00:40:34,997
I think I'm letting her down.
1085
00:40:34,997 --> 00:40:36,608
I hope everyone
remembers Lorene
1086
00:40:36,608 --> 00:40:39,872
as a beautiful, energetic,
positive, funny, smart,
1087
00:40:39,872 --> 00:40:41,830
loving, devoted mom,
1088
00:40:41,830 --> 00:40:44,616
wife, daughter, sister,
and friend that she was.
1089
00:40:44,616 --> 00:40:48,010
I'm overcome
with so much emotion
1090
00:40:48,010 --> 00:40:51,710
because I know what Kyle's
gone through this past year.
1091
00:40:51,710 --> 00:40:53,842
I know how much
it's devastated her.
1092
00:40:53,842 --> 00:40:55,844
And it's really important
for me
1093
00:40:55,844 --> 00:40:58,151
that she knows
I'm here for her.
1094
00:40:58,151 --> 00:41:00,893
And tonight,
as you guys know,
1095
00:41:00,893 --> 00:41:04,418
we have a musical performance.
1096
00:41:04,418 --> 00:41:06,594
Everybody, Morgan Wade.
1097
00:41:07,769 --> 00:41:09,379
Clint Wells.
1098
00:41:24,873 --> 00:41:32,577
♪ If I could go
let down my hair ♪
1099
00:41:32,577 --> 00:41:37,190
♪ Would you take off
those clothes you wear? ♪
1100
00:41:37,190 --> 00:41:39,975
♪ Baby, hold me here tonight
1101
00:41:39,975 --> 00:41:42,325
I think since Lorene died,
1102
00:41:42,325 --> 00:41:46,678
I just think
life was too short.
1103
00:41:46,678 --> 00:41:50,551
I'm really just trying
to be happy
1104
00:41:50,551 --> 00:41:52,248
and live my life.
1105
00:41:52,248 --> 00:41:54,250
I don't want to have a wasted
day of not feeling good
1106
00:41:54,250 --> 00:41:55,904
or spending time with people
that I don't want
1107
00:41:55,904 --> 00:41:57,602
to spend my time with.
1108
00:41:57,602 --> 00:41:59,734
♪ Afford some peace of mind
1109
00:41:59,734 --> 00:42:04,565
Or people
that don't appreciate me.
1110
00:42:04,565 --> 00:42:07,655
♪ So lay me down on the
floor in your kitchen ♪
1111
00:42:07,655 --> 00:42:12,007
♪ Show my angry heart
what I've been missing ♪
1112
00:42:12,007 --> 00:42:15,315
♪ Baby, take me away
1113
00:42:15,315 --> 00:42:18,623
The thing with losing someone
is the finality of it.
1114
00:42:18,623 --> 00:42:19,798
You're not gonna
get a phone call.
1115
00:42:19,798 --> 00:42:21,364
You're not gonna get a text.
1116
00:42:21,364 --> 00:42:23,279
You're not gonna
hear their voice.
1117
00:42:23,279 --> 00:42:26,108
I mean, I know for me,
with my mom, when she passed,
1118
00:42:26,108 --> 00:42:30,460
it was like, as time went on,
it was like,
1119
00:42:30,460 --> 00:42:34,900
I'm really never going to see
her or hear her or hug her,
1120
00:42:34,900 --> 00:42:37,946
you know?
1121
00:42:37,946 --> 00:42:39,600
That's the hardest part.
1122
00:42:42,168 --> 00:42:43,648
Woo!
1123
00:42:46,346 --> 00:42:47,565
Thank y'all.
1124
00:42:51,307 --> 00:42:56,138
As hard as this was,
people wanted to be together
1125
00:42:56,138 --> 00:42:59,359
to celebrate her,
to hear these stories,
1126
00:42:59,359 --> 00:43:03,232
and be able to
lean on each other.
1127
00:43:03,232 --> 00:43:06,671
You know,
1128
00:43:06,671 --> 00:43:09,238
that's all we can do.
1129
00:43:10,675 --> 00:43:13,460
Kyle.
1130
00:43:13,460 --> 00:43:14,940
Give me the strength.
1131
00:43:14,940 --> 00:43:17,812
I love you so much.
1132
00:43:19,509 --> 00:43:21,511
Lorene should be here.
1133
00:43:21,511 --> 00:43:22,817
She's here.
1134
00:43:22,817 --> 00:43:24,166
She's with us.
- Oh.
1135
00:43:31,260 --> 00:43:32,740
Next time on
"The Real Housewives
1136
00:43:32,740 --> 00:43:34,046
of Beverly Hills"...
1137
00:43:34,046 --> 00:43:36,570
So we're gonna
dip into our legs.
1138
00:43:38,703 --> 00:43:39,704
Titties out.
1139
00:43:39,704 --> 00:43:41,053
Ooh, I'm a princess.
1140
00:43:41,053 --> 00:43:43,621
Oh, God, what have I
signed myself up for?
1141
00:43:43,621 --> 00:43:46,362
When I met Annemarie
around Christmas,
1142
00:43:46,362 --> 00:43:50,018
she told me she was a doctor.
1143
00:43:50,018 --> 00:43:51,498
Are you a board
certified doctor?
1144
00:43:51,498 --> 00:43:54,022
I am a board certified
nurse anesthetist.
1145
00:43:54,022 --> 00:43:55,676
You said that I made up.
1146
00:43:55,676 --> 00:43:57,983
- I didn't say you made it up.
- You said she lied.
1147
00:43:57,983 --> 00:43:59,201
Crystal,
now is not about you.
1148
00:43:59,201 --> 00:44:00,594
You're such a bitch.
1149
00:44:00,594 --> 00:44:01,813
What is wrong with you?