1 00:00:00,391 --> 00:00:02,045 Previously on "The Real Housewives 2 00:00:02,045 --> 00:00:03,133 of Beverly Hills"... 3 00:00:03,133 --> 00:00:04,526 What are you all doing in the bed? 4 00:00:06,310 --> 00:00:08,878 All right, have fun. 5 00:00:08,878 --> 00:00:11,620 Not too much fun. not too much fun. 6 00:00:11,620 --> 00:00:13,622 You don't eat food, and then your reason 7 00:00:13,622 --> 00:00:15,406 for not eating food is because you're like, 8 00:00:15,406 --> 00:00:16,929 "I have a narrow esophagus." 9 00:00:16,929 --> 00:00:19,628 Why am I having a doctor's appointment right now? 10 00:00:19,628 --> 00:00:24,720 My very, very, very best friend in my whole life, 11 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:26,635 she took her life on May 1st. 12 00:00:26,635 --> 00:00:27,810 That's a huge loss. 13 00:00:27,810 --> 00:00:28,985 She was so together. 14 00:00:28,985 --> 00:00:30,552 I mean, literally, in my will, 15 00:00:30,552 --> 00:00:32,771 she was in charge of my children, my money, everything. 16 00:00:32,771 --> 00:00:33,859 I don't know what happened. 17 00:00:33,859 --> 00:00:35,687 I'm so frustrated. 18 00:00:35,687 --> 00:00:38,038 You know, I wanted to talk to you about homeschooling. 19 00:00:38,038 --> 00:00:39,822 I know how you feel about it. 20 00:00:39,822 --> 00:00:41,432 But I don't want those kids 21 00:00:41,432 --> 00:00:42,868 not to experience going to school. 22 00:00:42,868 --> 00:00:45,784 When PK travels, I feel like a single mom. 23 00:00:45,784 --> 00:00:47,090 He doesn't know their needs, 24 00:00:47,090 --> 00:00:49,049 and then just wants to swoop in 25 00:00:49,049 --> 00:00:50,833 and tell me what's best for the kids. 26 00:00:50,833 --> 00:00:53,140 What happened the other day really triggered me. 27 00:00:53,140 --> 00:00:55,272 And it really bothered me. 28 00:00:55,272 --> 00:00:59,146 I'm very sorry that it triggered you and it hurt you, 29 00:00:59,146 --> 00:01:01,017 and I mean that genuinely. 30 00:01:01,017 --> 00:01:02,192 I believe that. 31 00:01:02,192 --> 00:01:05,761 [dramatic music] 32 00:01:05,761 --> 00:01:07,415 I may act for a living, 33 00:01:07,415 --> 00:01:10,505 but I never fall for a bad performance. 34 00:01:10,505 --> 00:01:13,160 Who needs a knight in shining armor 35 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,206 when you have your own horse? 36 00:01:16,206 --> 00:01:18,382 The best part about losing everything 37 00:01:18,382 --> 00:01:20,863 is getting it all back. 38 00:01:20,863 --> 00:01:22,734 Fashion is my language, 39 00:01:22,734 --> 00:01:25,607 and I speak it fluently. 40 00:01:25,607 --> 00:01:28,088 They say wisdom comes with age, 41 00:01:28,088 --> 00:01:30,481 but I'm proving otherwise. 42 00:01:30,481 --> 00:01:32,657 I may put you to sleep for a living, 43 00:01:32,657 --> 00:01:35,573 but I always keep one eye open. 44 00:01:35,573 --> 00:01:37,706 It's hard to outrun rumors. 45 00:01:37,706 --> 00:01:40,535 But luckily, I'm in better shape than ever. 46 00:01:40,535 --> 00:01:42,102 ♪ 47 00:01:43,103 --> 00:01:44,365 [upbeat music] 48 00:01:44,365 --> 00:01:46,802 ♪ Where all my queens be? 49 00:01:46,802 --> 00:01:48,195 ♪ Yes, girl 50 00:01:48,195 --> 00:01:51,502 Oh, where is everybody, damn it? 51 00:01:51,502 --> 00:01:54,723 [dog barks] 52 00:01:54,723 --> 00:01:58,205 Somebody's here. 53 00:01:58,205 --> 00:02:00,381 Is she TikToking in there? 54 00:02:00,381 --> 00:02:02,426 Hi. - I was so bored 55 00:02:02,426 --> 00:02:04,036 then I was like-- look how cute you look. 56 00:02:04,036 --> 00:02:05,212 Oh, you too. Hi. 57 00:02:05,212 --> 00:02:06,387 Mwah. 58 00:02:06,387 --> 00:02:07,692 I brought some water for the bus. 59 00:02:07,692 --> 00:02:09,825 Thank you so much. - You look so cute. 60 00:02:09,825 --> 00:02:11,740 I thought it would be fun to go to Ojai for the day 61 00:02:11,740 --> 00:02:14,134 for Annemarie's birthday because I just feel like 62 00:02:14,134 --> 00:02:15,352 every time that Annemarie's been around, 63 00:02:15,352 --> 00:02:16,701 there's been chaos. 64 00:02:16,701 --> 00:02:18,790 Now, everyone's say what's going on with you. 65 00:02:18,790 --> 00:02:21,053 I can't afford to feel depressed right now. 66 00:02:21,053 --> 00:02:23,708 Crystal, why are you telling Sutton 67 00:02:23,708 --> 00:02:26,624 that I'm going around to everybody-- 68 00:02:26,624 --> 00:02:29,627 I'm not talking-- I said you said it to me. 69 00:02:29,627 --> 00:02:32,239 So I thought, why not take a nice day trip, 70 00:02:32,239 --> 00:02:33,457 get to know each other better, 71 00:02:33,457 --> 00:02:35,111 and just enjoy a girls' day out 72 00:02:35,111 --> 00:02:38,984 without any arguing, for once maybe? 73 00:02:38,984 --> 00:02:40,551 Are you wearing heels all day? 74 00:02:40,551 --> 00:02:42,074 - No, I brought sneakers. - Oh, OK, OK. 75 00:02:42,074 --> 00:02:43,337 Well, when you're 5'2," 76 00:02:43,337 --> 00:02:45,948 you need all the help you can get. 77 00:02:45,948 --> 00:02:47,732 For the love of God, we're never gonna get there. 78 00:02:47,732 --> 00:02:49,212 The shopping trip is gonna be like this. 79 00:02:49,212 --> 00:02:51,127 Oh, no, no, no. 80 00:02:51,127 --> 00:02:52,259 Is there good shopping there? 81 00:02:52,259 --> 00:02:54,522 I don't know. I've never been to Ojai. 82 00:02:54,522 --> 00:02:56,132 I'll never do Taco Tuesday again. 83 00:02:56,132 --> 00:02:57,742 I don't ever want to see a taco. 84 00:02:57,742 --> 00:02:58,874 I never want-- 85 00:02:58,874 --> 00:03:00,615 Let alone a Tuesday Taco. 86 00:03:00,615 --> 00:03:03,183 I hadn't seen anybody from there since then, 87 00:03:03,183 --> 00:03:05,620 except I saw Dorit last night. 88 00:03:05,620 --> 00:03:08,231 Oh. And? 89 00:03:08,231 --> 00:03:11,278 And, uh, we hashed it out. 90 00:03:11,278 --> 00:03:14,150 Listen, we fight hard, 91 00:03:14,150 --> 00:03:16,065 but I think we also let it go 92 00:03:16,065 --> 00:03:17,806 and try to have a good time. 93 00:03:17,806 --> 00:03:21,418 So I think today, going up to Ojai, hope everybody's good. 94 00:03:21,418 --> 00:03:24,639 We're gonna put it behind us and just enjoy ourselves. 95 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,511 Did she acknowledge, like, the understanding? 96 00:03:27,511 --> 00:03:30,079 Uh, long story short, 97 00:03:30,079 --> 00:03:31,472 I'm moving past it. 98 00:03:31,472 --> 00:03:33,256 My good friend Amber Skye, we're going to 99 00:03:33,256 --> 00:03:35,476 her family's... - Estate? 100 00:03:35,476 --> 00:03:38,696 House, that has the wine lunch tasting. 101 00:03:38,696 --> 00:03:39,958 Oh, OK, great. 102 00:03:39,958 --> 00:03:41,177 And then is Kyle-- well, she's not drinking. 103 00:03:41,177 --> 00:03:42,265 So what is she gonna taste? 104 00:03:42,265 --> 00:03:43,310 She's gonna taste water. 105 00:03:43,310 --> 00:03:45,312 - OK. - Yeah, it's delicious. 106 00:03:45,312 --> 00:03:48,315 [upbeat music] 107 00:03:48,315 --> 00:03:51,318 ♪ 108 00:03:51,318 --> 00:03:54,190 - Oh, goodness. - Hello. 109 00:03:54,190 --> 00:03:55,452 - Hello. - Hello. Pink memo. 110 00:03:55,452 --> 00:03:56,932 - Pink queen. - Hi. 111 00:03:56,932 --> 00:03:58,238 Oh, my God, I have those boots, I love them. 112 00:03:58,238 --> 00:03:59,195 Of course you do. 113 00:03:59,195 --> 00:04:01,632 ♪ 114 00:04:01,632 --> 00:04:02,677 Who goes there? Oh, my gosh. 115 00:04:02,677 --> 00:04:04,853 - Hi. - Hi, how are you? 116 00:04:04,853 --> 00:04:06,202 We are here. 117 00:04:06,202 --> 00:04:07,943 Oh, my God, now you're matching. 118 00:04:07,943 --> 00:04:10,859 And we're-- Garcelle and I are matching. 119 00:04:10,859 --> 00:04:11,947 That is so good. 120 00:04:11,947 --> 00:04:13,862 - Mama. - Ooh. 121 00:04:13,862 --> 00:04:16,212 How are you? - I love you for doing this. 122 00:04:16,212 --> 00:04:17,909 I love you for doing this. 123 00:04:17,909 --> 00:04:19,520 Are we waiting on Erika? 124 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,130 - No, because she has COVID. - Oh, golly. 125 00:04:21,130 --> 00:04:22,392 Yeah. You knew that right? 126 00:04:22,392 --> 00:04:23,698 - Yeah. - I'm always the last to know. 127 00:04:23,698 --> 00:04:25,265 Let's call her and check in. 128 00:04:28,398 --> 00:04:30,574 - How you feeling? - I'm OK. 129 00:04:38,930 --> 00:04:40,062 Feel better. 130 00:04:40,062 --> 00:04:41,324 I'm gonna get these ladies on the road. 131 00:04:41,324 --> 00:04:43,021 - Feel better. - Rest up! 132 00:04:43,021 --> 00:04:44,196 We'll shop for you. 133 00:04:44,719 --> 00:04:46,590 All right, bye. all: Bye. 134 00:04:46,590 --> 00:04:49,332 So you guys, we're gonna get the show on the road. 135 00:04:49,332 --> 00:04:50,507 Whoo! 136 00:04:50,507 --> 00:04:53,380 Ojai, here we come. 137 00:04:53,380 --> 00:04:56,557 [upbeat music] 138 00:04:56,557 --> 00:04:58,559 OK, to our amazing trip. 139 00:04:58,559 --> 00:05:01,083 Thank you, Kyle, for putting it together. 140 00:05:01,083 --> 00:05:02,780 [cheering] 141 00:05:02,780 --> 00:05:03,999 Well done. 142 00:05:03,999 --> 00:05:05,392 I think it's so sweet 143 00:05:05,392 --> 00:05:07,089 that they planned this trip for me. 144 00:05:07,089 --> 00:05:09,265 I think we're gonna go and just, you know, 145 00:05:09,265 --> 00:05:10,658 have silly girl fun 146 00:05:10,658 --> 00:05:11,963 and get to know each other a little bit better. 147 00:05:11,963 --> 00:05:13,704 - Yay! - Yay! 148 00:05:13,704 --> 00:05:15,445 - You guys-- - Crystal or Sutton, 149 00:05:15,445 --> 00:05:16,490 did you guys want one right now? 150 00:05:16,490 --> 00:05:17,708 No, we're doing something else. 151 00:05:17,708 --> 00:05:20,581 OK. Sutton and I have had a-- 152 00:05:20,581 --> 00:05:23,540 a rocky start, to put it mildly. 153 00:05:23,540 --> 00:05:24,933 But you know what? 154 00:05:24,933 --> 00:05:26,413 I'm gonna go and have a good time. 155 00:05:26,413 --> 00:05:28,066 We'll just see how the day goes. 156 00:05:28,066 --> 00:05:31,200 OK, would anyone like to hear my very exciting news? 157 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:32,201 - Yes. - Yes. 158 00:05:32,201 --> 00:05:33,158 - Of course. - Yes. 159 00:05:33,158 --> 00:05:34,421 I went on a date. 160 00:05:34,421 --> 00:05:36,336 - Yay! - His name is Steve. 161 00:05:36,336 --> 00:05:39,382 - OK. I like that. - And he has a job. 162 00:05:39,382 --> 00:05:40,731 Perfect. Yes, Steve! 163 00:05:40,731 --> 00:05:43,343 Go Steve! - We like that, we like that. 164 00:05:43,343 --> 00:05:46,258 And he likes karaoke. 165 00:05:46,258 --> 00:05:47,390 - Perfect. - Is that her thing? 166 00:05:47,390 --> 00:05:49,392 - Guess what? - What? 167 00:05:49,392 --> 00:05:50,785 He asked me out for a second date. 168 00:05:50,785 --> 00:05:53,918 I'd like to talk to you more after this somehow. 169 00:05:53,918 --> 00:05:55,572 - Oh, yeah, for sure. - Yeah? 170 00:05:55,572 --> 00:05:57,313 So can I have your number? - Yes. 171 00:05:57,313 --> 00:06:00,055 [cheering] 172 00:06:00,055 --> 00:06:01,535 Success! 173 00:06:01,535 --> 00:06:03,885 I'm really excited for my second date with Steve. 174 00:06:03,885 --> 00:06:05,190 He was really cute. 175 00:06:05,190 --> 00:06:06,801 And he's been texting me. 176 00:06:06,801 --> 00:06:10,152 You know, I think he likes me. 177 00:06:10,152 --> 00:06:11,545 You could sing to him. 178 00:06:11,545 --> 00:06:13,416 ♪ When are we going out again? ♪ 179 00:06:13,416 --> 00:06:17,115 ♪ I love this day 180 00:06:17,115 --> 00:06:19,030 OK, so you want to hear what we're gonna do? 181 00:06:19,030 --> 00:06:20,162 - Yes. - OK. 182 00:06:20,162 --> 00:06:21,293 Are we shopping? 183 00:06:21,293 --> 00:06:22,686 We're gonna go to some stores. 184 00:06:22,686 --> 00:06:24,471 We're gonna split up into two groups. 185 00:06:24,471 --> 00:06:26,081 When we get there, we can decide who goes where 186 00:06:26,081 --> 00:06:27,430 or whatever. - Oh. 187 00:06:27,430 --> 00:06:28,779 Yes. 188 00:06:28,779 --> 00:06:31,869 And we are going to have a little wine tasting. 189 00:06:31,869 --> 00:06:33,131 We can also have-- 190 00:06:33,131 --> 00:06:34,655 I'm gonna have tequila and vodka there too. 191 00:06:34,655 --> 00:06:35,525 - [burps] - Um, and we're going 192 00:06:35,525 --> 00:06:36,744 to have lunch. 193 00:06:36,744 --> 00:06:37,832 Sutton's like, oh, wine tasting-- 194 00:06:37,832 --> 00:06:40,356 [grunts] - 15-year-old boy. 195 00:06:40,356 --> 00:06:43,446 I brought my own vodka today, 196 00:06:43,446 --> 00:06:46,884 just in case. 197 00:06:46,884 --> 00:06:49,887 [upbeat music] 198 00:06:49,887 --> 00:06:54,414 ♪ 199 00:06:54,414 --> 00:06:56,067 - Yeah, there you go. - Thank you. 200 00:06:56,067 --> 00:06:57,678 Mind your step. 201 00:06:57,678 --> 00:07:00,637 - Did you say side step? - Mind your step. 202 00:07:00,637 --> 00:07:02,422 - I love oil. - Let's just stop here, 203 00:07:02,422 --> 00:07:04,032 because I do love olive oil. 204 00:07:04,032 --> 00:07:06,295 Oh, my God. 205 00:07:06,295 --> 00:07:07,644 Hello. 206 00:07:07,644 --> 00:07:13,128 [speaking Italian] 207 00:07:25,357 --> 00:07:26,924 Oh, my God, look at these. 208 00:07:26,924 --> 00:07:28,143 Look at these. 209 00:07:28,143 --> 00:07:29,492 I want to get something here. 210 00:07:29,492 --> 00:07:31,059 I just want to see-- OK. 211 00:07:31,059 --> 00:07:33,365 No, no. No, Kyle. 212 00:07:33,365 --> 00:07:34,715 Oh, we got to go in there too. 213 00:07:34,715 --> 00:07:36,717 - We're going in here. - Oh, lovely. 214 00:07:36,717 --> 00:07:38,327 Oh, my God, I'm freaking out. 215 00:07:38,327 --> 00:07:39,284 I want everything in here. 216 00:07:39,284 --> 00:07:40,721 [laughter] 217 00:07:40,721 --> 00:07:42,505 - Hi, there. - I can work with this. 218 00:07:42,505 --> 00:07:43,898 Ooh. 219 00:07:43,898 --> 00:07:45,552 Who is the biggest shopper in the group? 220 00:07:45,552 --> 00:07:47,075 Uh, Kyle Richards, hello. 221 00:07:47,075 --> 00:07:48,424 OK, I don't know why I asked that question. 222 00:07:48,424 --> 00:07:49,730 This is true. 223 00:07:49,730 --> 00:07:50,861 I don't know how frequently I shop. 224 00:07:50,861 --> 00:07:52,559 How often do I buy something? 225 00:07:52,559 --> 00:07:54,256 For sure, every day. 226 00:07:54,256 --> 00:07:56,258 I can find something-- 227 00:07:56,258 --> 00:07:57,912 Anywhere. Oh, I've noticed. 228 00:07:57,912 --> 00:07:59,479 - Yes, she can. - Sometimes big things. 229 00:07:59,479 --> 00:08:00,610 Sometimes little things. 230 00:08:00,610 --> 00:08:02,177 I'll go with the extra small. 231 00:08:02,177 --> 00:08:04,484 I can shop on my phone, 232 00:08:04,484 --> 00:08:06,224 at home in bed, online shopping. 233 00:08:06,224 --> 00:08:08,400 Because I'm such a sucker for any sunglasses. 234 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:09,445 Gas station. 235 00:08:09,445 --> 00:08:10,838 Airport stores, love it. 236 00:08:10,838 --> 00:08:13,580 Mobile Mart, there's stuff in there I actually like. 237 00:08:13,580 --> 00:08:16,365 - $495. - Here's my credit card. 238 00:08:16,365 --> 00:08:18,323 Can someone, like, deliver our stuff to the Sprinter 239 00:08:18,323 --> 00:08:19,368 while we walk around? 240 00:08:19,368 --> 00:08:21,457 I just like it so much. 241 00:08:21,457 --> 00:08:22,806 It's hard. [laughs] 242 00:08:22,806 --> 00:08:25,113 I'm just gonna get some fresh air. 243 00:08:25,113 --> 00:08:27,463 Oh, Kyle Richards. 244 00:08:27,463 --> 00:08:29,291 Thank you for carrying this. 245 00:08:29,291 --> 00:08:31,859 Can we find a spot to put all of our shopping bags? 246 00:08:31,859 --> 00:08:33,991 If we have to leave one of the women, it's fine. 247 00:08:33,991 --> 00:08:36,559 Just kidding, OK? I'm totally kidding. 248 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:38,126 Coming up... 249 00:08:38,126 --> 00:08:40,302 You're not supposed to be communicating with other women 250 00:08:40,302 --> 00:08:41,651 on social media. 251 00:08:41,651 --> 00:08:43,479 I've had like, a fight with Mo over that. 252 00:08:43,479 --> 00:08:44,698 I hate that. 253 00:08:48,397 --> 00:08:50,094 ♪ I see your love 254 00:08:50,094 --> 00:08:51,052 ♪ I can feel it in the air 255 00:08:51,052 --> 00:08:52,096 ♪ Get ready for this 256 00:08:52,096 --> 00:08:53,533 ♪ You know how we do it 257 00:08:53,533 --> 00:08:54,621 ♪ Sing in love 258 00:08:54,621 --> 00:08:56,057 ♪ I can feel it in the air 259 00:08:56,057 --> 00:08:57,841 ♪ Get ready for a good time 260 00:08:57,841 --> 00:08:58,842 ♪ Let's do this 261 00:08:58,842 --> 00:09:00,714 [cheering] - Let's do it! 262 00:09:00,714 --> 00:09:02,063 OK. 263 00:09:02,063 --> 00:09:03,194 [laughter] 264 00:09:03,194 --> 00:09:05,545 We're not at Disneyland, thank God. 265 00:09:05,545 --> 00:09:06,633 But we are here. 266 00:09:06,633 --> 00:09:07,677 Yay! 267 00:09:07,677 --> 00:09:09,026 [cheering] 268 00:09:09,026 --> 00:09:10,332 - Thank you, Kyle. - Wow! 269 00:09:10,332 --> 00:09:11,899 You're welcome. 270 00:09:11,899 --> 00:09:13,727 Welcome to Casa Loce. 271 00:09:13,727 --> 00:09:15,903 Thank you so much. It's so pretty. 272 00:09:15,903 --> 00:09:17,034 We have a non-alcoholic option as well. 273 00:09:17,034 --> 00:09:18,470 - Is that one? - Yes. 274 00:09:18,470 --> 00:09:19,733 You guys, this is so pretty. 275 00:09:19,733 --> 00:09:21,125 - So pretty. - I know. 276 00:09:21,125 --> 00:09:23,258 There's just, like-- it's almost, like, so much. 277 00:09:23,258 --> 00:09:24,781 Yeah. 278 00:09:24,781 --> 00:09:28,132 So we'll get your wine tasting started for today. 279 00:09:28,132 --> 00:09:31,614 Right now, you are sipping on our 2021 Malvasia Bianca. 280 00:09:31,614 --> 00:09:32,833 It's very light. 281 00:09:32,833 --> 00:09:34,617 Reminds me of Hawaii in a bottle. 282 00:09:34,617 --> 00:09:35,749 - Perfect. - Wow. 283 00:09:35,749 --> 00:09:36,750 - Thank you so much. - Yeah, enjoy. 284 00:09:36,750 --> 00:09:37,707 - Thank you. - Cheers, guys. 285 00:09:37,707 --> 00:09:38,926 - Cheers. - Cheers. 286 00:09:38,926 --> 00:09:39,840 Such great-- happy birthday again. 287 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,798 Thank you guys so much. 288 00:09:41,798 --> 00:09:43,452 When I'm here in places like this, I think, 289 00:09:43,452 --> 00:09:46,324 this is how I want to live, just like this. 290 00:09:46,324 --> 00:09:48,631 I would like it a little bit, and then I'd get bored. 291 00:09:48,631 --> 00:09:49,980 - Yeah, me too. - I wouldn't. 292 00:09:49,980 --> 00:09:52,287 I will always have a love for Los Angeles, 293 00:09:52,287 --> 00:09:57,640 but I just don't feel as connected to it as I used to. 294 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:58,946 I love this one. 295 00:09:58,946 --> 00:10:01,470 Again, with Italian food, or especially pizza. 296 00:10:01,470 --> 00:10:02,645 I love it. 297 00:10:02,645 --> 00:10:03,864 It's delicious. 298 00:10:03,864 --> 00:10:05,387 I love pizza. 299 00:10:05,387 --> 00:10:06,867 And the things that make me happy 300 00:10:06,867 --> 00:10:08,782 are being outside, running by the river, 301 00:10:08,782 --> 00:10:10,218 or hiking with my dog. 302 00:10:10,218 --> 00:10:13,787 So one day, when Portia's done with school, 303 00:10:13,787 --> 00:10:15,963 I'm going to choose someplace to live 304 00:10:15,963 --> 00:10:20,620 that is more conducive to what brings me happiness. 305 00:10:20,620 --> 00:10:22,273 So we have lunch ready for you guys. 306 00:10:22,273 --> 00:10:24,101 The chef's going to be out shortly. 307 00:10:24,101 --> 00:10:25,668 I'll lead you out this way. 308 00:10:25,668 --> 00:10:26,800 Oh, it's over there? Oh, perfect. 309 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,497 OK. - Thank you so much. 310 00:10:28,497 --> 00:10:30,368 Of course. 311 00:10:30,368 --> 00:10:31,674 ♪ Feeling good 312 00:10:31,674 --> 00:10:33,023 ♪ Feeling fine 313 00:10:33,023 --> 00:10:34,764 ♪ We pop bottles every day and night ♪ 314 00:10:34,764 --> 00:10:37,462 Wow, this looks amazing. 315 00:10:37,462 --> 00:10:40,465 We are going to start out with an Ojai vineyard 316 00:10:40,465 --> 00:10:41,989 red wine marinated mushroom. 317 00:10:41,989 --> 00:10:43,991 - Yummy. - With a cave-aged 318 00:10:43,991 --> 00:10:46,428 Gruyére spinach stuffing. 319 00:10:46,428 --> 00:10:47,777 Beautiful. 320 00:10:47,777 --> 00:10:49,692 Oh, my God, that's so yummy. 321 00:10:49,692 --> 00:10:52,695 It's good? Good. 322 00:10:52,695 --> 00:10:53,827 [indistinct chatter] 323 00:10:53,827 --> 00:10:55,219 Oh, look at Kyle. 324 00:10:55,219 --> 00:10:56,264 Kyle's like-- 325 00:10:56,264 --> 00:10:57,482 OK, guys. 326 00:10:57,482 --> 00:10:58,962 So we're gonna play a game. 327 00:10:58,962 --> 00:11:01,399 This is girls' night out table topics. 328 00:11:02,879 --> 00:11:04,707 - Moving on. - Let me see. 329 00:11:04,707 --> 00:11:05,839 "Lick someone's toe." 330 00:11:05,839 --> 00:11:07,928 - Oh, hell no. - I mean, Crystal. 331 00:11:07,928 --> 00:11:09,364 [women clamoring] 332 00:11:09,364 --> 00:11:11,192 - I'll do it, I'll do it. - [squeals] 333 00:11:11,192 --> 00:11:12,193 Red flag! 334 00:11:12,193 --> 00:11:14,064 Sutton wants to do it, Kyle. 335 00:11:14,064 --> 00:11:15,500 What are you doing? 336 00:11:15,500 --> 00:11:16,545 No, no. 337 00:11:16,545 --> 00:11:17,807 What are you doing? 338 00:11:17,807 --> 00:11:21,028 [women clamoring] 339 00:11:21,028 --> 00:11:24,248 Easy. This is the Kyle that I love. 340 00:11:24,248 --> 00:11:27,730 I feel like, oh, gosh, we're finally getting there again. 341 00:11:27,730 --> 00:11:30,124 'Cause she's so funny and she's so fun. 342 00:11:30,124 --> 00:11:32,343 And we're so goofy together. 343 00:11:32,343 --> 00:11:33,736 OK, you guys, Sutton is a freak-- 344 00:11:33,736 --> 00:11:35,738 - No, literally-- - In the sheets. 345 00:11:35,738 --> 00:11:37,871 It wasn't even a clean toe. 346 00:11:37,871 --> 00:11:40,351 I regret nothing. 347 00:11:40,351 --> 00:11:41,744 It says, "give your best O face." 348 00:11:41,744 --> 00:11:43,050 Give your best orgasm. 349 00:11:43,050 --> 00:11:44,616 So should we all go around doing our-- 350 00:11:44,616 --> 00:11:48,577 Do it as if you just saw the Birkin of your life. 351 00:11:48,577 --> 00:11:49,665 [moans] 352 00:11:49,665 --> 00:11:50,710 [laughter] 353 00:11:50,710 --> 00:11:52,494 I'm dead. 354 00:11:52,494 --> 00:11:54,539 [exhales sharply] 355 00:11:54,539 --> 00:11:56,280 Oh, my God, we're having a pleasant time. 356 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:57,934 Everybody's having a good time. 357 00:11:57,934 --> 00:11:59,414 It's fun. 358 00:11:59,414 --> 00:12:01,633 Can we keep it like this? 359 00:12:01,633 --> 00:12:03,679 Let me see. 360 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:05,463 Oh, Crystal! 361 00:12:05,463 --> 00:12:06,508 That scares me. 362 00:12:06,508 --> 00:12:07,944 That scares me! 363 00:12:07,944 --> 00:12:09,424 In a great way? 364 00:12:09,424 --> 00:12:11,426 No. 365 00:12:11,426 --> 00:12:13,428 "What is appropriate for husbands 366 00:12:13,428 --> 00:12:15,909 "when it comes to communicating with other women 367 00:12:15,909 --> 00:12:17,867 on social media?" 368 00:12:17,867 --> 00:12:20,261 You're not supposed to be communicating with other women 369 00:12:20,261 --> 00:12:21,436 on social media. 370 00:12:21,436 --> 00:12:22,480 - I agree. - I'm gonna agree with that. 371 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:23,743 Come on. 372 00:12:23,743 --> 00:12:25,527 I've had, like, a fight with Mo over that. 373 00:12:25,527 --> 00:12:28,225 I hate that stuff. 374 00:12:28,225 --> 00:12:29,270 Yeah, I don't think that's cool. 375 00:12:29,270 --> 00:12:30,358 Like, liking people's photos. 376 00:12:30,358 --> 00:12:31,533 Yeah, no. 377 00:12:31,533 --> 00:12:32,708 Following people, you don't do that. 378 00:12:32,708 --> 00:12:33,927 Yeah. 379 00:12:33,927 --> 00:12:36,016 Mo gets a lot of DMs from women. 380 00:12:36,016 --> 00:12:37,931 They don't care that he's married. 381 00:12:37,931 --> 00:12:40,629 And they're always the aggressor. 382 00:12:40,629 --> 00:12:42,979 And it just makes you realize there's really a lot 383 00:12:42,979 --> 00:12:45,286 of----ing assholes out there. 384 00:12:45,286 --> 00:12:46,809 But what does communicating mean? 385 00:12:46,809 --> 00:12:47,941 DMing. 386 00:12:47,941 --> 00:12:49,116 Well, but it's not just DMing. 387 00:12:49,116 --> 00:12:50,639 That's like, no, no, no, no, no, no. 388 00:12:50,639 --> 00:12:53,816 But also, you don't have to follow every single person 389 00:12:53,816 --> 00:12:55,296 and like all the photos. 390 00:12:55,296 --> 00:12:57,951 But yeah, no, I don't like that at all, at all. 391 00:12:57,951 --> 00:12:59,561 I heard there's a birthday in the house. 392 00:12:59,561 --> 00:13:00,605 [cheering] - Here. 393 00:13:00,605 --> 00:13:01,824 You guys! 394 00:13:01,824 --> 00:13:03,521 Oh, yummy! 395 00:13:03,521 --> 00:13:06,786 Oh, my God, you guys, the cutest. 396 00:13:06,786 --> 00:13:08,048 OK, ready? - Fantastic. 397 00:13:08,048 --> 00:13:09,876 One, two, three. Go. 398 00:13:09,876 --> 00:13:11,399 Yay! 399 00:13:11,399 --> 00:13:12,835 [cheering] 400 00:13:12,835 --> 00:13:15,925 This is so cute, you guys. 401 00:13:15,925 --> 00:13:17,666 Would you ever date a woman? 402 00:13:17,666 --> 00:13:21,104 [awkward music] 403 00:13:21,104 --> 00:13:23,890 Where the hell did this come from? 404 00:13:23,890 --> 00:13:27,545 That's a weird question to ask randomly. 405 00:13:27,545 --> 00:13:30,679 My cousin's a lesbian. 406 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:31,941 No. 407 00:13:31,941 --> 00:13:33,595 - You wouldn't date a woman? - No, no. 408 00:13:33,595 --> 00:13:35,031 Would you ever date a woman? 409 00:13:35,031 --> 00:13:36,772 You know, there are times that I think about it, 410 00:13:36,772 --> 00:13:37,773 if I'm gonna be honest. 411 00:13:37,773 --> 00:13:39,296 Would you? 412 00:13:39,296 --> 00:13:41,646 Uh... 413 00:13:41,646 --> 00:13:45,172 Yeah, maybe. 414 00:13:45,172 --> 00:13:49,350 Kyle a few years ago was like, shocked 415 00:13:49,350 --> 00:13:50,830 that we would have threesomes 416 00:13:50,830 --> 00:13:52,527 or talk about making out with women. 417 00:13:52,527 --> 00:13:55,051 I had a threesome long time ago. 418 00:13:55,051 --> 00:13:56,836 I've never done the girl thing. 419 00:13:56,836 --> 00:14:00,404 And now she's open 420 00:14:00,404 --> 00:14:02,798 to a relationship with a woman. 421 00:14:02,798 --> 00:14:05,540 I don't know much, but I think there's a country song 422 00:14:05,540 --> 00:14:07,542 somewhere in there. 423 00:14:07,542 --> 00:14:09,239 When I was in Cabo with my friends, 424 00:14:09,239 --> 00:14:10,850 a question came up about scissoring. 425 00:14:10,850 --> 00:14:12,373 What's that? 426 00:14:12,373 --> 00:14:13,896 - Scissoring is like like-- - Like 69? 427 00:14:13,896 --> 00:14:15,028 Here, Dorit. Should we show them? 428 00:14:15,028 --> 00:14:16,986 - Yeah. - It's like this. 429 00:14:16,986 --> 00:14:18,422 Oh, no. Wow. 430 00:14:18,422 --> 00:14:20,120 [group chattering] 431 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:21,425 So, yeah. So-- 432 00:14:21,425 --> 00:14:23,036 - OK, come here. - Yeah, you--[laughs] 433 00:14:23,036 --> 00:14:25,777 Dorit assumed the position. 434 00:14:25,777 --> 00:14:29,912 [group chattering] 435 00:14:29,912 --> 00:14:31,914 This is not impressive. 436 00:14:31,914 --> 00:14:33,611 Hello. [laughs] 437 00:14:33,611 --> 00:14:34,917 Dun-da-da-da. 438 00:14:34,917 --> 00:14:37,354 That was just having sex, I'm sorry. 439 00:14:37,354 --> 00:14:39,356 I'm not impressed about those moves. 440 00:14:39,356 --> 00:14:41,532 Wait, where are the cards from this wonderful game 441 00:14:41,532 --> 00:14:42,925 that I love so much? 442 00:14:42,925 --> 00:14:44,927 Kyle's like, last card, 443 00:14:44,927 --> 00:14:46,450 make sure you stick your tongue 444 00:14:46,450 --> 00:14:48,931 in the person to the left's mouth. 445 00:14:48,931 --> 00:14:50,367 What--what do we have to do? 446 00:14:50,367 --> 00:14:52,065 I'll do it. What do we do? 447 00:14:52,065 --> 00:14:53,196 What do we do? - I'll do it! 448 00:14:53,196 --> 00:14:54,502 She--you're up. OK. 449 00:14:54,502 --> 00:14:55,677 I'll do it. What do we do? 450 00:14:55,677 --> 00:14:57,592 - Put your tongue in her mouth. - OK. 451 00:14:57,592 --> 00:14:59,289 No, seriously? 452 00:14:59,289 --> 00:15:02,292 No! For Dorit. 453 00:15:02,292 --> 00:15:03,337 No! 454 00:15:03,337 --> 00:15:05,730 Go. 455 00:15:05,730 --> 00:15:07,036 Aah! 456 00:15:07,036 --> 00:15:08,429 She touched me! 457 00:15:08,429 --> 00:15:09,604 I was scared I was gonna drool. 458 00:15:09,604 --> 00:15:11,606 - You touched me! - That is so gross. 459 00:15:11,606 --> 00:15:14,435 You know, the saying goes, you work hard, you play hard. 460 00:15:14,435 --> 00:15:17,612 Well, we fight hard and then we play hard. 461 00:15:17,612 --> 00:15:19,440 I thought I was gonna drool on you. 462 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,965 We always somehow get to a point 463 00:15:22,965 --> 00:15:24,532 where we have so much fun 464 00:15:24,532 --> 00:15:26,795 that we remember how much we really like each other 465 00:15:26,795 --> 00:15:28,275 and how close we are. 466 00:15:28,275 --> 00:15:30,233 And this is what I love about this group. 467 00:15:30,233 --> 00:15:33,541 Anyway, so, you guys, Tuesday 468 00:15:33,541 --> 00:15:35,760 for my celebration of life event, 469 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,763 you know, honoring my best friend Lorene who passed. 470 00:15:38,763 --> 00:15:40,940 But I want it to be, like, happy and nice. 471 00:15:40,940 --> 00:15:43,377 And you know, my friend Morgan Wade is going to be playing. 472 00:15:43,377 --> 00:15:46,119 Well, thank you for the invite. 473 00:15:46,119 --> 00:15:47,729 Yes, thank you for having us. 474 00:15:47,729 --> 00:15:49,818 Having this event for Lorene 475 00:15:49,818 --> 00:15:51,733 and being able to share stories about her, 476 00:15:51,733 --> 00:15:55,911 it just feels like the right way to honor her. 477 00:15:55,911 --> 00:15:58,653 You know, obviously, sorry for your loss, yeah. 478 00:15:58,653 --> 00:16:00,089 Happy birthday to you. 479 00:16:00,089 --> 00:16:01,438 Thank you guys. 480 00:16:01,438 --> 00:16:03,614 I want to say too, thank you to all of you. 481 00:16:03,614 --> 00:16:07,096 You guys have been so warm and so welcoming. 482 00:16:07,096 --> 00:16:08,663 41, woo-woo! - Woo-woo! 483 00:16:08,663 --> 00:16:09,707 Woo! 484 00:16:09,707 --> 00:16:11,057 Just a few steps closer to 50. 485 00:16:11,057 --> 00:16:13,102 Yay! 486 00:16:13,102 --> 00:16:14,495 Coming up... 487 00:16:14,495 --> 00:16:17,933 There are elements I don't consider are PTSD. 488 00:16:17,933 --> 00:16:19,152 I don't. 489 00:16:19,152 --> 00:16:22,329 I consider they're more obnoxious. 490 00:16:25,593 --> 00:16:27,421 ♪ Could this be it? 491 00:16:27,421 --> 00:16:28,683 ♪ Can I get a we, we friends? ♪ 492 00:16:28,683 --> 00:16:30,511 ♪ Baby come and take my hand 493 00:16:30,511 --> 00:16:33,601 ♪ [singing in Spanish] 494 00:16:33,601 --> 00:16:35,124 ♪ You ain't seen nothing yet 495 00:16:35,124 --> 00:16:37,083 - Mother. - Hi. 496 00:16:37,083 --> 00:16:39,781 Hello. 497 00:16:39,781 --> 00:16:41,043 - How are you? - I'm good, honey. 498 00:16:41,043 --> 00:16:42,218 How are you? - Good. 499 00:16:42,218 --> 00:16:43,872 You get taller every time I see you. 500 00:16:43,872 --> 00:16:45,091 Oh, my God. - Hope so. 501 00:16:45,091 --> 00:16:46,222 Is Jaid here? 502 00:16:46,222 --> 00:16:47,702 Nope. 503 00:16:47,702 --> 00:16:48,877 Oh, I can't tell. 504 00:16:48,877 --> 00:16:50,487 How long until the lasagna's done? 505 00:16:50,487 --> 00:16:52,837 Like, 10 minutes. 506 00:16:52,837 --> 00:16:55,797 All right, I have a confession to make. 507 00:16:55,797 --> 00:16:56,972 A confession? 508 00:16:56,972 --> 00:16:58,930 Kinda. I mean, just-- 509 00:16:58,930 --> 00:17:01,411 I've been already thinking about when you guys-- 510 00:17:01,411 --> 00:17:02,412 what are--no, no, no. 511 00:17:02,412 --> 00:17:03,413 What are you having cereal for? 512 00:17:03,413 --> 00:17:05,676 - I'm hungry. - I just-- 513 00:17:05,676 --> 00:17:07,678 I need a snack. 514 00:17:07,678 --> 00:17:09,071 There's no way. 515 00:17:09,071 --> 00:17:12,857 Hello, I've been slaving for this lasagna. 516 00:17:12,857 --> 00:17:14,294 You're evil. 517 00:17:14,294 --> 00:17:16,122 So what were you saying? 518 00:17:16,122 --> 00:17:19,429 I'm already feeling 519 00:17:19,429 --> 00:17:23,129 that you guys are gonna be going to college soon. 520 00:17:23,129 --> 00:17:24,608 We're 15. 521 00:17:24,608 --> 00:17:26,045 I know, but I just feel like 522 00:17:26,045 --> 00:17:28,482 I'm already feeling like you guys are gonna be gone, 523 00:17:28,482 --> 00:17:30,310 doing your own thing. 524 00:17:30,310 --> 00:17:33,182 I--choke on that. 525 00:17:33,182 --> 00:17:34,227 Why? 526 00:17:34,227 --> 00:17:35,967 Because I just cooked. 527 00:17:35,967 --> 00:17:37,534 And it just makes me sad. 528 00:17:37,534 --> 00:17:41,103 And it just makes me like, what am I gonna do with myself? 529 00:17:41,103 --> 00:17:43,105 [chuckles] You don't seem to care. 530 00:17:43,105 --> 00:17:44,367 - No. - You're dancing. 531 00:17:44,367 --> 00:17:45,629 I don't share the same emotions as you. 532 00:17:45,629 --> 00:17:46,978 I want to leave. 533 00:17:46,978 --> 00:17:48,284 I know you want to leave. 534 00:17:48,284 --> 00:17:50,156 I feel like my window with the boys 535 00:17:50,156 --> 00:17:51,983 is so small right now, 536 00:17:51,983 --> 00:17:53,420 that they're in the 10th grade, 537 00:17:53,420 --> 00:17:55,030 they're gonna be looking at colleges. 538 00:17:55,030 --> 00:17:56,771 They're about to fly the coop. 539 00:17:56,771 --> 00:17:58,990 And it's gonna be an adjustment. 540 00:17:58,990 --> 00:18:01,471 Like, I don't know how I'm gonna handle it, really. 541 00:18:01,471 --> 00:18:03,473 So Jaid last night comes in my room, 542 00:18:03,473 --> 00:18:05,910 and he goes, can I have Ashland sleep over? 543 00:18:05,910 --> 00:18:06,955 Oh, yeah. 544 00:18:06,955 --> 00:18:08,087 She's hating, bro. 545 00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:09,479 She is hating. Crazy. 546 00:18:09,479 --> 00:18:11,133 She's hating, bro. 547 00:18:11,133 --> 00:18:12,830 - Of course, I'm gonna hate. - What's gonna happen? 548 00:18:12,830 --> 00:18:14,180 I'm not gonna lie, mom. 549 00:18:14,180 --> 00:18:15,224 You think you're gonna have another grandkid? 550 00:18:15,224 --> 00:18:16,530 This sounds like-- - [gasps, laughs] 551 00:18:16,530 --> 00:18:18,532 - Mom. - Oh, don't even start. 552 00:18:18,532 --> 00:18:20,447 This sounds like hater mentality. 553 00:18:20,447 --> 00:18:23,145 Uh, hello, sex. 554 00:18:23,145 --> 00:18:25,016 I don't want them having sex. 555 00:18:25,016 --> 00:18:26,888 It's too soon. It's too early. They're too young. 556 00:18:26,888 --> 00:18:28,368 They don't know what they're doing. 557 00:18:28,368 --> 00:18:29,543 What are you gonna do when you sleep over? 558 00:18:29,543 --> 00:18:31,197 We're gonna watch a movie. 559 00:18:31,197 --> 00:18:32,285 We're gonna make food. - Have sex. 560 00:18:32,285 --> 00:18:35,549 OK. 561 00:18:35,549 --> 00:18:36,854 See, that's what I'm not taking. 562 00:18:36,854 --> 00:18:38,073 Hey, hey, hey, hey. 563 00:18:38,073 --> 00:18:39,292 Talk to him. 564 00:18:39,292 --> 00:18:40,467 I'm not the one doing it, it's him. 565 00:18:40,467 --> 00:18:42,251 OK, OK, OK. 566 00:18:42,251 --> 00:18:43,905 You brought it up, let's talk about sex. 567 00:18:43,905 --> 00:18:46,168 Oh, my God! 568 00:18:46,168 --> 00:18:48,170 Even though they're 6'2", 6'3" 569 00:18:48,170 --> 00:18:51,521 and they're massive, they're still little boys, you know? 570 00:18:51,521 --> 00:18:53,175 And sometimes I forget that. 571 00:18:53,175 --> 00:18:54,916 So seeing them giggle and squirm 572 00:18:54,916 --> 00:18:58,224 and not want to talk about sex is really age-appropriate. 573 00:18:58,224 --> 00:18:59,573 Can we talk about sex? 574 00:18:59,573 --> 00:19:00,574 - No. - No. 575 00:19:00,574 --> 00:19:01,966 What do you know about sex? 576 00:19:01,966 --> 00:19:05,405 I'm not gonna sit here and tell my mother 577 00:19:05,405 --> 00:19:07,929 what I know about sex. 578 00:19:07,929 --> 00:19:09,931 You really think we're about to have this conversation? 579 00:19:09,931 --> 00:19:11,193 Because you got me-- 580 00:19:11,193 --> 00:19:12,325 It sounds like a health class. 581 00:19:12,325 --> 00:19:13,717 I want you to be responsible. 582 00:19:13,717 --> 00:19:15,328 - OK. - No means no. 583 00:19:15,328 --> 00:19:17,591 Consent means everybody has to agree. 584 00:19:17,591 --> 00:19:19,114 I don't want to be a grandmother anytime 585 00:19:19,114 --> 00:19:20,681 any soon, anytime soon. 586 00:19:20,681 --> 00:19:21,682 [burps] 587 00:19:21,682 --> 00:19:24,641 I'm so sorry. - Yeah! Yeah! 588 00:19:24,641 --> 00:19:25,903 Yeah! 589 00:19:25,903 --> 00:19:27,818 All right, I'm done. I'm so over all you. 590 00:19:27,818 --> 00:19:30,343 You guys just got here, and I have you for a whole week? 591 00:19:30,343 --> 00:19:31,474 I'm good. 592 00:19:31,474 --> 00:19:32,954 I'm so good. 593 00:19:32,954 --> 00:19:35,348 ♪ You know I'm worth the hype ♪ 594 00:19:35,348 --> 00:19:38,177 ♪ Oh, oh 595 00:19:38,177 --> 00:19:40,266 ♪ Come spend it all again - Honey. 596 00:19:40,266 --> 00:19:41,397 What's going on, honey? 597 00:19:41,397 --> 00:19:43,269 We've got Sarah coming any minute. 598 00:19:43,269 --> 00:19:45,140 Have you heard from her? Is she gonna be here? 599 00:19:45,140 --> 00:19:46,359 Yeah, she's gonna be here any minute, bub. 600 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:47,795 OK. 601 00:19:47,795 --> 00:19:49,623 Honey, we're gonna have to sit outside 602 00:19:49,623 --> 00:19:51,015 and even with the bugs. 603 00:19:51,015 --> 00:19:52,800 Because I just put the kids to sleep, 604 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,846 and I just don't want to take any chances with them 605 00:19:55,846 --> 00:19:57,805 coming down, you know? - OK. 606 00:19:57,805 --> 00:20:00,851 Are you feeling open and focused? 607 00:20:00,851 --> 00:20:02,462 - Yeah. - You know, 'cause 608 00:20:02,462 --> 00:20:04,986 I'm really happy that you were agreeable. 609 00:20:04,986 --> 00:20:05,987 [doorbell rings] 610 00:20:05,987 --> 00:20:07,510 Oh, that's her. 611 00:20:07,510 --> 00:20:09,338 - OK, go get it, Bubba. - OK. 612 00:20:10,992 --> 00:20:13,951 [awkward music] 613 00:20:13,951 --> 00:20:15,823 ♪ 614 00:20:15,823 --> 00:20:17,738 Are you freaking kidding me, PK? 615 00:20:17,738 --> 00:20:19,348 Shush, baby. I've got to eat. 616 00:20:19,348 --> 00:20:21,481 - You said "That's her." - It is. 617 00:20:21,481 --> 00:20:23,265 And you stopped off to have a piece of pizza? 618 00:20:23,265 --> 00:20:24,310 Oh, my God. 619 00:20:24,310 --> 00:20:26,399 PK, you are one of a kind. 620 00:20:26,399 --> 00:20:27,748 I just want you to know that this man 621 00:20:27,748 --> 00:20:30,620 left you waiting at the door 622 00:20:30,620 --> 00:20:32,753 so he can have more pizza. 623 00:20:32,753 --> 00:20:33,971 Oh. 624 00:20:33,971 --> 00:20:35,712 - It was en route. - Hi, love. 625 00:20:35,712 --> 00:20:37,627 - How are you? - Well. How are you? 626 00:20:37,627 --> 00:20:39,020 - Good. - Hi, sweetie pie. 627 00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:42,676 My biggest issue was that after the home invasion, 628 00:20:42,676 --> 00:20:44,199 I really needed PK around. 629 00:20:44,199 --> 00:20:46,332 And he was traveling all the time. 630 00:20:46,332 --> 00:20:48,595 He wasn't here for me, not physically 631 00:20:48,595 --> 00:20:50,423 and not emotionally, really. 632 00:20:50,423 --> 00:20:52,207 I'm off to Aspen. You're off to London. 633 00:20:52,207 --> 00:20:53,861 Yeah. But don't call me 634 00:20:53,861 --> 00:20:55,384 in the middle of the night in London... 635 00:20:55,384 --> 00:20:57,168 - I can't promise that. - Saying, "Come and get me"-- 636 00:20:57,168 --> 00:20:58,605 I can't promise that. 637 00:20:58,605 --> 00:20:59,519 You know, everything's terrible. 638 00:20:59,519 --> 00:21:00,737 I cannot promise that. 639 00:21:00,737 --> 00:21:02,348 Well, you did that in Mexico. 640 00:21:02,348 --> 00:21:04,393 I know, and you didn't come get me. 641 00:21:04,393 --> 00:21:07,744 I wasn't myself because of the PTSD. 642 00:21:07,744 --> 00:21:11,835 And my husband was spending a lot of time in London. 643 00:21:11,835 --> 00:21:15,056 I started to feel like PK and I weren't connected. 644 00:21:15,056 --> 00:21:18,755 The passes, the patience, those are now used up. 645 00:21:18,755 --> 00:21:20,583 It's time for him to show up. 646 00:21:20,583 --> 00:21:23,412 The reason why I really wanted to have a session, 647 00:21:23,412 --> 00:21:24,848 the three of us, was because 648 00:21:24,848 --> 00:21:29,723 I feel like you don't quite 649 00:21:29,723 --> 00:21:33,770 understand the severity of the PTSD 650 00:21:33,770 --> 00:21:35,032 for me, 651 00:21:35,032 --> 00:21:37,339 and largely, in part, 652 00:21:37,339 --> 00:21:39,385 the surprise element. 653 00:21:39,385 --> 00:21:41,300 Who's taking care of the kids? 654 00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:42,301 Like, does anybody know anything? 655 00:21:42,301 --> 00:21:43,693 We'll get to that point. 656 00:21:43,693 --> 00:21:45,652 I know, but I need to know because I get anxiety. 657 00:21:45,652 --> 00:21:49,699 I tried to tell you, um, 658 00:21:49,699 --> 00:21:51,179 and you just had a reaction 659 00:21:51,179 --> 00:21:52,963 that was very defensive. 660 00:21:52,963 --> 00:21:56,750 You think that this just happens. 661 00:21:56,750 --> 00:21:58,708 There's a lot of effort that goes into 662 00:21:58,708 --> 00:22:01,929 dressing a certain way, looking a certain way. 663 00:22:01,929 --> 00:22:03,583 To be honest with you, I think maybe 664 00:22:03,583 --> 00:22:07,108 I'm not gonna bother with surprises anymore. 665 00:22:07,108 --> 00:22:10,633 Does PTSD require you to discuss it there and then? 666 00:22:10,633 --> 00:22:12,374 Is that PTSD? 667 00:22:12,374 --> 00:22:13,419 Or is-- 668 00:22:13,419 --> 00:22:14,898 That's a really sh---y thing-- 669 00:22:14,898 --> 00:22:16,335 - No, I'm interested. - That you're saying. 670 00:22:16,335 --> 00:22:17,336 - I'm asking, is it-- - I don't think it's sh---y. 671 00:22:17,336 --> 00:22:20,600 He's saying her timing was off. 672 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,688 That's exactly what he's saying. - 673 00:22:21,688 --> 00:22:22,689 Hear me out, though. 674 00:22:22,689 --> 00:22:23,777 Her timing was off. 675 00:22:23,777 --> 00:22:25,605 Couldn't she table that? 676 00:22:25,605 --> 00:22:27,737 There isn't a freaking husband in the world 677 00:22:27,737 --> 00:22:29,609 that would have taken kindly to what she said 678 00:22:29,609 --> 00:22:32,742 when she said it after what I'd just done, 679 00:22:32,742 --> 00:22:34,396 do you understand? 680 00:22:34,396 --> 00:22:37,094 It felt a little bit of a [BLEEP] you. 681 00:22:37,094 --> 00:22:40,054 [dramatic music] 682 00:22:44,972 --> 00:22:47,278 There isn't a freaking husband in the world 683 00:22:47,278 --> 00:22:49,455 that would have taken kindly to what she said 684 00:22:49,455 --> 00:22:52,283 when she said it after what I'd just done, 685 00:22:52,283 --> 00:22:53,850 do you understand? 686 00:22:53,850 --> 00:22:55,765 It felt a little bit of a [BLEEP] you. 687 00:22:58,246 --> 00:23:01,075 PTSD is born in anxiety, right? 688 00:23:01,075 --> 00:23:02,903 There's nothing to do, good surprise, bad surprise, 689 00:23:02,903 --> 00:23:04,339 or anything in between. 690 00:23:04,339 --> 00:23:08,256 It's just something that catches you off guard. 691 00:23:08,256 --> 00:23:11,825 And so your instinct is to walk around 692 00:23:11,825 --> 00:23:15,698 ready for something horrible to happen all the time. 693 00:23:15,698 --> 00:23:19,572 Does that feel-- 694 00:23:19,572 --> 00:23:21,225 Perfection, Sarah. 695 00:23:21,225 --> 00:23:22,792 OK. 696 00:23:22,792 --> 00:23:24,228 Did that make sense? 697 00:23:24,228 --> 00:23:25,839 There are elements I understand. 698 00:23:25,839 --> 00:23:29,799 There are also elements that I don't consider are PTSD. 699 00:23:29,799 --> 00:23:31,888 [dramatic music] 700 00:23:31,888 --> 00:23:32,976 I don't. 701 00:23:32,976 --> 00:23:35,065 I consider they're more obnoxious. 702 00:23:35,065 --> 00:23:37,981 Honey, I want to know why you couldn't have gotten, 703 00:23:37,981 --> 00:23:39,418 like, the presidential suite. 704 00:23:39,418 --> 00:23:42,072 Karina, do you have the Beverly Beach bronzer? 705 00:23:42,072 --> 00:23:44,335 - No, I don't have it with me. - That I need. 706 00:23:44,335 --> 00:23:46,250 It will look a lot better if I'm bronzed. 707 00:23:46,250 --> 00:23:48,470 The reality is, is when does high maintenance 708 00:23:48,470 --> 00:23:50,951 blend with PTSD? 709 00:23:50,951 --> 00:23:53,606 One of the things that I fell in love with PK 710 00:23:53,606 --> 00:23:55,608 when I first met him was he could 711 00:23:55,608 --> 00:23:57,174 let go of things so easily. 712 00:23:57,174 --> 00:23:59,525 And I feel like in the last few years, 713 00:23:59,525 --> 00:24:02,397 he's definitely gotten more harsh with me, 714 00:24:02,397 --> 00:24:05,487 a little mean sometimes, like, go low. 715 00:24:05,487 --> 00:24:07,097 And I don't like that aspect. 716 00:24:07,097 --> 00:24:09,317 When I first met Dorit, 717 00:24:09,317 --> 00:24:10,753 she was this bubbly, 718 00:24:10,753 --> 00:24:12,929 enthusiastic beautiful girl. 719 00:24:12,929 --> 00:24:15,584 And she was not quite 720 00:24:15,584 --> 00:24:17,586 as high maintenance as she is now. 721 00:24:17,586 --> 00:24:19,501 PK, you are-- 722 00:24:19,501 --> 00:24:21,285 it's like you're reaching. - You're suggesting-- 723 00:24:21,285 --> 00:24:22,983 no, I'm not reaching. - And you're trying to-- 724 00:24:22,983 --> 00:24:24,811 no, genuinely. - I'm trying to understand. 725 00:24:24,811 --> 00:24:27,117 We're talking about, specifically, 726 00:24:27,117 --> 00:24:28,597 certain triggers. 727 00:24:28,597 --> 00:24:30,773 It's like, I'm a totally new person 728 00:24:30,773 --> 00:24:33,428 and I can't do anything about it. 729 00:24:33,428 --> 00:24:35,386 Do you have any idea how difficult that is 730 00:24:35,386 --> 00:24:38,259 and what it's like to live with that? 731 00:24:38,259 --> 00:24:40,957 What do you want him to do in the future? 732 00:24:40,957 --> 00:24:43,786 If I tell him, PK, I'm not good, 733 00:24:43,786 --> 00:24:45,658 I'm really not good right now, 734 00:24:45,658 --> 00:24:47,660 I need him to understand, like, 735 00:24:47,660 --> 00:24:49,052 uh-oh, she's having an episode. 736 00:24:49,052 --> 00:24:51,664 I need to go comfort my wife. 737 00:24:51,664 --> 00:24:55,668 In a marriage, these are the times 738 00:24:55,668 --> 00:24:58,627 that truly test your relationship. 739 00:24:58,627 --> 00:25:00,760 This particular bad time 740 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,718 where I need PK 741 00:25:02,718 --> 00:25:04,938 and it's not the other way around, 742 00:25:04,938 --> 00:25:07,680 he's coming up really short. 743 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,160 Dealing with the pressures of having 744 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,511 to manage your career, and your job, 745 00:25:12,511 --> 00:25:17,254 and travel, and keep the missus happy is always a challenge. 746 00:25:17,254 --> 00:25:18,995 You know, something has to give. 747 00:25:18,995 --> 00:25:20,867 I try and balance it, 748 00:25:20,867 --> 00:25:22,608 but maybe I don't always balance it 749 00:25:22,608 --> 00:25:24,914 as well as I should or could. 750 00:25:24,914 --> 00:25:26,655 And this isn't a one-sided thing. 751 00:25:26,655 --> 00:25:29,005 We need to keep each other happy. 752 00:25:29,005 --> 00:25:32,879 And we need to sometimes be wrong, 753 00:25:32,879 --> 00:25:35,969 which has always been a challenge for Dorit. 754 00:25:35,969 --> 00:25:37,057 I don't know why you think 755 00:25:37,057 --> 00:25:38,449 I wouldn't want to understand it. 756 00:25:38,449 --> 00:25:41,278 It's helpful to me, as well as you. 757 00:25:41,278 --> 00:25:43,106 So of course, I want to understand it, 758 00:25:43,106 --> 00:25:44,804 but you've got to give me a chance to understand it. 759 00:25:44,804 --> 00:25:48,068 And you've also got to try and articulate it 760 00:25:48,068 --> 00:25:50,984 just a little bit calmer and a little bit less irritated 761 00:25:50,984 --> 00:25:52,376 by it, do you understand? 762 00:25:52,376 --> 00:25:55,205 Because I'm not seeking to irritate you. 763 00:25:55,205 --> 00:25:56,990 I'm seeking to understand you. 764 00:25:56,990 --> 00:25:59,732 It makes me emotional because you know I'm OK with it. 765 00:25:59,732 --> 00:26:02,343 Bubba. 766 00:26:02,343 --> 00:26:04,432 Baby, but why? 767 00:26:04,432 --> 00:26:05,738 I don't understand, baby. 768 00:26:05,738 --> 00:26:06,956 Why? 769 00:26:06,956 --> 00:26:08,479 Because it's very difficult... 770 00:26:08,479 --> 00:26:09,916 - I know, but... - When you love someone... 771 00:26:09,916 --> 00:26:11,221 That's all I've wanted to hear. 772 00:26:11,221 --> 00:26:13,180 To listen to how much pain you're in. 773 00:26:13,180 --> 00:26:16,226 What I need is for PK not only 774 00:26:16,226 --> 00:26:19,534 to get a better grasp of what I'm going through, 775 00:26:19,534 --> 00:26:22,232 to want to be there for me. 776 00:26:22,232 --> 00:26:26,323 If we can do that together, him and I will succeed. 777 00:26:26,323 --> 00:26:28,325 If he can't, 778 00:26:28,325 --> 00:26:30,632 I don't know what the future holds. 779 00:26:30,632 --> 00:26:35,419 Before PTSD, you take a long time to say something. 780 00:26:35,419 --> 00:26:37,552 I'm always gonna get a little bit frustrated with that. 781 00:26:37,552 --> 00:26:39,467 It's not all the time, my love, right? 782 00:26:39,467 --> 00:26:41,556 Just to let you know, it really isn't. 783 00:26:41,556 --> 00:26:44,037 I mean, you are super sweet when you're asleep. 784 00:26:44,037 --> 00:26:45,734 [BLEEP] off, PK. 785 00:26:45,734 --> 00:26:46,866 [laughs] 786 00:26:46,866 --> 00:26:48,650 ing idiot. 787 00:26:48,650 --> 00:26:51,566 [laughter] 788 00:26:51,566 --> 00:26:52,741 ♪ Heaven, heaven 789 00:26:52,741 --> 00:26:56,615 ♪ I'm already here, babe 790 00:26:56,615 --> 00:26:59,574 I sent Portia a voice text of what I wanted to say tonight, 791 00:26:59,574 --> 00:27:01,097 and then she sent them back. 792 00:27:01,097 --> 00:27:02,533 She's like, mom, I can barely understand any of this. 793 00:27:02,533 --> 00:27:04,100 I just want to honor her. 794 00:27:04,100 --> 00:27:05,449 I speak to who she is. 795 00:27:05,449 --> 00:27:07,016 I'm just trying to pull this up again, Scott. 796 00:27:07,016 --> 00:27:09,149 Don't be offended. 797 00:27:11,151 --> 00:27:14,110 This is a very special night. 798 00:27:14,110 --> 00:27:16,504 Hopefully, my lashes will stay on. 799 00:27:16,504 --> 00:27:18,462 Hopefully. 800 00:27:18,462 --> 00:27:21,248 ♪ Life couldn't be better 801 00:27:21,248 --> 00:27:22,510 ♪ I'm with my girls 802 00:27:22,510 --> 00:27:24,468 ♪ Doing rock blue crystal water ♪ 803 00:27:24,468 --> 00:27:26,296 For tonight, I think, you know, 804 00:27:26,296 --> 00:27:28,385 it's Kyle's night to celebrate her friend 805 00:27:28,385 --> 00:27:30,257 and raise some funds. - Well, that's nice. 806 00:27:30,257 --> 00:27:32,172 So great you can all be there for her. 807 00:27:32,172 --> 00:27:34,740 When you guys are in need, you guys rally around each other. 808 00:27:34,740 --> 00:27:35,958 - We do do that. - And I love that. 809 00:27:35,958 --> 00:27:38,004 We absolutely do that. 810 00:27:38,004 --> 00:27:40,920 [upbeat music] 811 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,662 ♪ 812 00:27:43,662 --> 00:27:46,360 Hey, Siri. 813 00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:47,840 Call Morgan Wade. 814 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:49,450 - Oh, there she is. - Yeah. 815 00:27:49,450 --> 00:27:52,671 There are people that I speak to every single day 816 00:27:52,671 --> 00:27:54,324 no matter what. Sorry. 817 00:27:54,324 --> 00:27:56,196 - You look nice. - You look pretty. 818 00:27:56,196 --> 00:27:58,894 Teddi and Morgan are two of those people. 819 00:27:58,894 --> 00:28:00,243 You know, don't tell her too much. 820 00:28:00,243 --> 00:28:01,462 She's gonna get a big ego over here. 821 00:28:01,462 --> 00:28:02,855 Oh, hell. 822 00:28:02,855 --> 00:28:04,552 Yeah, that's-- I love that color. 823 00:28:04,552 --> 00:28:07,511 Everything in our life is discussed. 824 00:28:07,511 --> 00:28:09,905 Friends, husbands, 825 00:28:09,905 --> 00:28:12,560 siblings, work, complaints, 826 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,910 celebrations, everything. 827 00:28:14,910 --> 00:28:16,433 Well-- 828 00:28:16,433 --> 00:28:19,175 Where did you get that pinky ring? 829 00:28:19,175 --> 00:28:21,787 I'll take you there. 830 00:28:21,787 --> 00:28:23,092 Are you gonna give it back to me? 831 00:28:23,092 --> 00:28:24,746 Yeah, I'm not ke-- I don't want yours. 832 00:28:24,746 --> 00:28:25,878 It's nasty. 833 00:28:25,878 --> 00:28:27,096 [laughter] 834 00:28:30,883 --> 00:28:32,362 Well, let me get it back. 835 00:28:32,362 --> 00:28:33,929 It probably won't even fit over my knuckle. 836 00:28:33,929 --> 00:28:36,932 [upbeat music] 837 00:28:36,932 --> 00:28:41,763 ♪ 838 00:28:41,763 --> 00:28:44,374 Oh, it looks so great. 839 00:28:44,374 --> 00:28:45,680 ♪ 840 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,726 Oh, it looks gorgeous. 841 00:28:47,726 --> 00:28:49,466 It looks really beautiful. 842 00:28:49,466 --> 00:28:50,641 It looks great. 843 00:28:50,641 --> 00:28:51,991 Try to give you one that we both do 844 00:28:51,991 --> 00:28:53,644 a little singing on you. You wanna take me away? 845 00:28:53,644 --> 00:28:54,689 Here's how it's gonna go. 846 00:28:54,689 --> 00:28:56,038 People are gonna come in. 847 00:28:56,038 --> 00:28:58,562 We're gonna have passed, um, drinks. 848 00:28:58,562 --> 00:29:00,086 You're gonna speak. 849 00:29:00,086 --> 00:29:01,043 - [indistinct singing] - The girl from NAMI is gonna-- 850 00:29:01,043 --> 00:29:03,219 Oh, my goodness, just one second. 851 00:29:03,219 --> 00:29:05,831 ♪ You take out those clothes you in ♪ 852 00:29:05,831 --> 00:29:07,789 Second--let me head up. 853 00:29:07,789 --> 00:29:10,792 ♪ Baby, take me away 854 00:29:10,792 --> 00:29:12,315 Let's just do the water. 855 00:29:12,315 --> 00:29:14,840 ♪ Hand in my hair 856 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,929 ♪ And you said I look pretty 857 00:29:16,929 --> 00:29:18,757 ♪ You're so devious 858 00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:22,412 ♪ Rode in from the Windy City, yeah ♪ 859 00:29:22,412 --> 00:29:25,415 Initially, I was drawn to Morgan by her music. 860 00:29:25,415 --> 00:29:27,287 Morgan's lyrics really spoke to me 861 00:29:27,287 --> 00:29:31,073 because she was just so raw, and open, and honest, 862 00:29:31,073 --> 00:29:33,423 and just putting it all out there. 863 00:29:33,423 --> 00:29:34,381 ♪ 864 00:29:43,172 --> 00:29:44,652 And I admire that in someone. 865 00:29:44,652 --> 00:29:47,916 Especially someone who has struggled with that myself, 866 00:29:47,916 --> 00:29:50,049 I appreciate that quality in someone. 867 00:29:56,142 --> 00:29:58,057 I feel too nervous. 868 00:29:58,057 --> 00:29:59,667 I'm too nervous to even read it to you. 869 00:29:59,667 --> 00:30:00,799 How can I read it in front of people? 870 00:30:00,799 --> 00:30:02,017 Well, let me read it. 871 00:30:02,017 --> 00:30:03,236 No, because there's too many typos. 872 00:30:03,236 --> 00:30:04,803 I can't let you see the typos. 873 00:30:04,803 --> 00:30:06,108 Too awkward. 874 00:30:06,108 --> 00:30:07,153 I wouldn't make fun of you. 875 00:30:07,153 --> 00:30:09,242 - [sighs] - I wouldn't make-- 876 00:30:11,722 --> 00:30:13,899 What? 877 00:30:13,899 --> 00:30:17,424 I'm so... anxious. 878 00:30:17,424 --> 00:30:19,861 I don't--I really don't know if I can do it. 879 00:30:19,861 --> 00:30:21,645 I'm not kidding you. 880 00:30:21,645 --> 00:30:23,125 OK. 881 00:30:23,125 --> 00:30:25,040 You got it. 882 00:30:26,302 --> 00:30:27,782 Coming up... 883 00:30:27,782 --> 00:30:29,131 You guys, not to change the subject, but-- 884 00:30:29,131 --> 00:30:30,872 - Yep. - Sutton, 885 00:30:30,872 --> 00:30:32,743 you guys know her the best, right? 886 00:30:32,743 --> 00:30:34,658 I feel like you guys are the closest with her. 887 00:30:34,658 --> 00:30:36,051 Her small esophagus. 888 00:30:36,051 --> 00:30:37,661 [dramatic music] 889 00:30:39,838 --> 00:30:42,797 [upbeat music] 890 00:30:42,797 --> 00:30:48,847 ♪ 891 00:30:48,847 --> 00:30:50,457 Hi. 892 00:30:50,457 --> 00:30:52,198 Hello. 893 00:30:54,113 --> 00:30:55,549 Thank you. 894 00:30:55,549 --> 00:31:00,032 ♪ 895 00:31:00,032 --> 00:31:02,469 - Thank you. - Thank you. 896 00:31:02,469 --> 00:31:03,470 Wait, Morgan, can you get one with Kim and me? 897 00:31:03,470 --> 00:31:04,906 Yes. 898 00:31:04,906 --> 00:31:06,342 You want to stand with you? 899 00:31:09,824 --> 00:31:11,173 Hi. 900 00:31:11,173 --> 00:31:13,088 Hi, how are you? - Good. How are you? 901 00:31:13,088 --> 00:31:14,568 Good. 902 00:31:14,568 --> 00:31:16,135 Oh, sorry. 903 00:31:16,135 --> 00:31:17,788 It's just the Gnat. 904 00:31:17,788 --> 00:31:18,920 - Hi. - Hi. 905 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,269 How are you? 906 00:31:22,663 --> 00:31:26,580 Not only is she annoying, she refers to herself as the Gnat. 907 00:31:26,580 --> 00:31:28,103 What's your deal with Teddi? 908 00:31:28,103 --> 00:31:30,105 I don't know. She's kind of annoying 909 00:31:30,105 --> 00:31:33,543 for no reason, like a little gnat. 910 00:31:34,631 --> 00:31:37,286 I mean, I rest my case, Your Honor. 911 00:31:37,286 --> 00:31:38,853 - Hi. - Gorgeous, how are you? 912 00:31:38,853 --> 00:31:39,941 You look stunning. 913 00:31:39,941 --> 00:31:40,942 Thank you. 914 00:31:40,942 --> 00:31:42,248 Stunning. 915 00:31:42,248 --> 00:31:43,945 I'm excited. How do you feel? 916 00:31:43,945 --> 00:31:45,512 - Anxious. - Yeah. 917 00:31:45,512 --> 00:31:46,556 Yeah. 918 00:31:46,556 --> 00:31:48,167 It's gonna be a good night. 919 00:31:48,167 --> 00:31:51,170 [upbeat music] 920 00:31:51,170 --> 00:31:53,259 ♪ 921 00:31:53,259 --> 00:31:55,957 Hi. You look amazing. 922 00:31:55,957 --> 00:31:57,132 Hi. 923 00:31:58,003 --> 00:31:59,613 Ready? 924 00:31:59,613 --> 00:32:01,658 How are you? - Baby, hi. 925 00:32:01,658 --> 00:32:03,530 Gonna take a quick picture with my daughter. 926 00:32:03,530 --> 00:32:04,661 - Of course. - You look beautiful. 927 00:32:04,661 --> 00:32:05,706 Oh, my God. 928 00:32:05,706 --> 00:32:07,142 You look so beautiful. OK, girls. 929 00:32:08,361 --> 00:32:09,362 You don't like that side? 930 00:32:09,362 --> 00:32:11,494 We all like this side. 931 00:32:11,494 --> 00:32:14,802 My daughters are my best friends in the world. 932 00:32:14,802 --> 00:32:16,412 They always give me the best advice. 933 00:32:16,412 --> 00:32:17,413 They're there for me. 934 00:32:17,413 --> 00:32:19,415 They listen to me. 935 00:32:19,415 --> 00:32:21,330 I don't know what I would do without them. 936 00:32:21,330 --> 00:32:22,549 What are we? 937 00:32:22,549 --> 00:32:23,680 Like, the--you know, like--there. 938 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,726 - Mom. - Sorry. 939 00:32:25,726 --> 00:32:28,468 It feels good to be able to lean on them sometimes 940 00:32:28,468 --> 00:32:30,644 after raising them all these years. 941 00:32:30,644 --> 00:32:31,906 Like, guess what? 942 00:32:31,906 --> 00:32:33,299 Now I need you a little bit. 943 00:32:33,299 --> 00:32:36,476 [upbeat music] 944 00:32:36,476 --> 00:32:38,695 You look beautiful. 945 00:32:38,695 --> 00:32:40,001 So do you. 946 00:32:40,001 --> 00:32:41,307 Oh, my gosh. 947 00:32:41,307 --> 00:32:42,786 Thank you, honey. I love you. 948 00:32:42,786 --> 00:32:43,874 I love you. 949 00:32:43,874 --> 00:32:45,876 Thank you so much. 950 00:32:45,876 --> 00:32:47,052 This is hard. 951 00:32:47,052 --> 00:32:48,140 I know. 952 00:32:48,140 --> 00:32:49,184 Thank you. 953 00:32:49,184 --> 00:32:50,403 Is Mauricio gonna be here? 954 00:32:50,403 --> 00:32:52,361 - He's out of town. - Oh, he is? 955 00:32:52,361 --> 00:32:54,015 Yeah. I mean, I'm so sorry. 956 00:32:54,015 --> 00:32:55,364 I love you so much. 957 00:32:55,364 --> 00:32:57,279 Mo can't be here 958 00:32:57,279 --> 00:33:00,413 because he had to go out of town for business. 959 00:33:00,413 --> 00:33:03,764 You know, had this been a few years ago, 960 00:33:03,764 --> 00:33:07,855 I would have really relied on him on a night like tonight. 961 00:33:09,465 --> 00:33:11,032 How are you? 962 00:33:11,032 --> 00:33:12,816 You--how are you? You OK? 963 00:33:12,816 --> 00:33:15,645 That's Maureen's mom and her daughters. 964 00:33:15,645 --> 00:33:18,692 Yeah, she's just having a hard day obviously, yeah. 965 00:33:18,692 --> 00:33:22,391 Kyle coming alone to this event without Mo 966 00:33:22,391 --> 00:33:25,655 says a lot about where her relationship is. 967 00:33:25,655 --> 00:33:28,789 And maybe he's not trying to hide it after all. 968 00:33:28,789 --> 00:33:30,530 All right, hang in there. - Thank you. 969 00:33:30,530 --> 00:33:31,618 Anything you need-- 970 00:33:31,618 --> 00:33:34,534 Hope I can get through my speech. 971 00:33:34,534 --> 00:33:36,231 - How are you? - I'm good. How are you? 972 00:33:36,231 --> 00:33:37,580 - Good. - You look so cute. Goodness. 973 00:33:37,580 --> 00:33:38,799 - How are the boys? - The boys are good. 974 00:33:38,799 --> 00:33:40,714 Jax has a game tomorrow. And you know-- 975 00:33:40,714 --> 00:33:42,585 - OK. - Jax forgets something. 976 00:33:42,585 --> 00:33:45,588 You guys, not to change the subject, but Sutton, 977 00:33:45,588 --> 00:33:47,503 you guys know her the best, right? 978 00:33:47,503 --> 00:33:49,288 I feel like you guys are the closest with her. 979 00:33:49,288 --> 00:33:51,072 Her small esophagus. 980 00:33:51,899 --> 00:33:53,770 I feel like I'm beating a dead horse. 981 00:33:53,770 --> 00:33:54,728 OK, I have a question for you. 982 00:33:54,728 --> 00:33:55,903 But it's driving me bananas. 983 00:33:55,903 --> 00:33:57,296 Why do you care? 984 00:33:57,296 --> 00:34:00,429 I don't think it's very Beverly Hills 985 00:34:00,429 --> 00:34:03,737 to be talking about someone's esophagus. 986 00:34:03,737 --> 00:34:06,218 I care because I'm in health care. 987 00:34:06,218 --> 00:34:08,350 You talk about their jewelry. 988 00:34:08,350 --> 00:34:09,830 You talk about their bags. 989 00:34:09,830 --> 00:34:12,006 You talk about their ex-husbands, 990 00:34:12,006 --> 00:34:13,921 not their esophagus. 991 00:34:13,921 --> 00:34:16,097 You can even talk about their plastic surgery. 992 00:34:16,097 --> 00:34:18,752 That's OK. 993 00:34:18,752 --> 00:34:20,623 I scoured all of my medical books. 994 00:34:20,623 --> 00:34:22,103 - And? - I went to work. I asked-- 995 00:34:22,103 --> 00:34:23,409 She asked questions. 996 00:34:23,409 --> 00:34:25,759 I asked anesthesiologists, I asked EMTs. 997 00:34:25,759 --> 00:34:27,935 They said, you can say that to a lay person. 998 00:34:27,935 --> 00:34:30,242 But if you say that to someone in medicine, you look stupid. 999 00:34:30,242 --> 00:34:31,852 A small esophagus is not the reason. 1000 00:34:31,852 --> 00:34:35,334 Did you have an eating disorder? 1001 00:34:35,334 --> 00:34:37,423 Because a lot of acid reflux-- 1002 00:34:37,423 --> 00:34:38,728 [group chattering] 1003 00:34:38,728 --> 00:34:40,295 Let me explain, let me explain. 1004 00:34:40,295 --> 00:34:42,602 A lot of acid reflux or regurgitation 1005 00:34:42,602 --> 00:34:44,386 can cause scar tissue in your throat. 1006 00:34:44,386 --> 00:34:46,084 You're implying that she has a disorder. 1007 00:34:46,084 --> 00:34:48,042 I'm not. 1008 00:34:48,042 --> 00:34:49,957 For the record, those are Crystal's words, not mine. 1009 00:34:49,957 --> 00:34:52,002 I never said that. - You said eating disorder. 1010 00:34:52,002 --> 00:34:53,787 No, I didn't. 1011 00:34:53,787 --> 00:34:57,921 Did you have an eating disorder? 1012 00:34:57,921 --> 00:35:00,402 Annemarie, you are the one that said it. 1013 00:35:00,402 --> 00:35:01,621 You need to own up to it. 1014 00:35:01,621 --> 00:35:03,579 You are the biggest gaslighter. 1015 00:35:03,579 --> 00:35:06,669 And I don't need to look up in my medical encyclopedia 1016 00:35:06,669 --> 00:35:07,931 what a gaslighter is. 1017 00:35:07,931 --> 00:35:09,281 This is a tricky conversation. 1018 00:35:09,281 --> 00:35:10,760 All I said is that narrow esophagus 1019 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,458 is not a medical diagnosis, period. 1020 00:35:12,458 --> 00:35:14,024 That's all I said. 1021 00:35:14,024 --> 00:35:15,330 I'm gonna get something else to drink. 1022 00:35:15,330 --> 00:35:16,636 Do you want anything? 1023 00:35:16,636 --> 00:35:19,073 Yeah, a bottle of tequila. Thank you, bye. 1024 00:35:19,073 --> 00:35:20,466 Thank you and bye. 1025 00:35:20,466 --> 00:35:22,250 Woo, woo, woo. 1026 00:35:22,250 --> 00:35:24,905 [upbeat music] 1027 00:35:24,905 --> 00:35:26,428 I'm so not used to being that much taller than you. 1028 00:35:26,428 --> 00:35:27,386 I got to take my shoe off. 1029 00:35:27,386 --> 00:35:29,605 Look at me. [laughs] 1030 00:35:29,605 --> 00:35:32,478 Yeah, you like that better, right? 1031 00:35:32,478 --> 00:35:34,306 You have both of your parents, right? 1032 00:35:34,306 --> 00:35:35,655 I do. 1033 00:35:35,655 --> 00:35:37,135 Of course, my dad's been dead 20 years. 1034 00:35:37,135 --> 00:35:39,441 Suicide is really tough. 1035 00:35:39,441 --> 00:35:42,879 - Yeah. - And it can splinter a family. 1036 00:35:42,879 --> 00:35:47,188 You know, I think it really affected me as a daddy's girl. 1037 00:35:47,188 --> 00:35:48,494 [clears throat] Sure. 1038 00:35:48,494 --> 00:35:51,627 And we never addressed it 1039 00:35:51,627 --> 00:35:53,412 as a family, ever. 1040 00:35:53,412 --> 00:35:55,805 Wow, wow. 1041 00:35:55,805 --> 00:36:00,680 My father was 62 years old when he committed suicide. 1042 00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,682 I lived with that guilt for a long time, 1043 00:36:02,682 --> 00:36:05,946 then I tried to figure out why he did this. 1044 00:36:05,946 --> 00:36:08,601 We put him in the hospital twice. 1045 00:36:08,601 --> 00:36:12,344 You have to learn to let that go. 1046 00:36:12,344 --> 00:36:14,433 Girl. 1047 00:36:14,433 --> 00:36:16,478 What? 1048 00:36:16,478 --> 00:36:18,524 What now? No. 1049 00:36:18,524 --> 00:36:19,699 What? What happened? 1050 00:36:19,699 --> 00:36:21,788 Annemarie is coming for you. 1051 00:36:21,788 --> 00:36:23,224 Why? 1052 00:36:23,224 --> 00:36:25,879 Your small esophagus. 1053 00:36:25,879 --> 00:36:27,446 Not tonight. 1054 00:36:27,446 --> 00:36:30,057 Garcelle loves to strike a match, throw it on the flames, 1055 00:36:30,057 --> 00:36:31,798 and then walk away. 1056 00:36:31,798 --> 00:36:35,454 And that's exactly what she's doing with Sutton right now. 1057 00:36:35,454 --> 00:36:37,804 Does she know that my dad committed suicide? 1058 00:36:37,804 --> 00:36:39,719 I'm an ambassador for NAMI. 1059 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,374 She better----ing stay the [BLEEP] away from me. 1060 00:36:42,374 --> 00:36:43,940 Not tonight. 1061 00:36:49,729 --> 00:36:51,557 [upbeat music] 1062 00:36:51,557 --> 00:36:53,254 Mom, I'm so proud of you. 1063 00:36:53,254 --> 00:36:55,125 I'm so proud of you. 1064 00:36:55,125 --> 00:36:59,086 ♪ 1065 00:36:59,086 --> 00:37:00,609 Hey, how are you? 1066 00:37:00,609 --> 00:37:01,741 Your hair looks great that color. 1067 00:37:01,741 --> 00:37:03,960 I met Morgan about two years ago. 1068 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,268 It was before Kyle and Morgan really got super close. 1069 00:37:07,268 --> 00:37:08,878 We were all in London, 1070 00:37:08,878 --> 00:37:11,794 and we had dinner for Mauricio's birthday. 1071 00:37:11,794 --> 00:37:15,102 Morgan stuck out like a sore thumb. 1072 00:37:15,102 --> 00:37:18,975 You didn't really understand the connection, but 1073 00:37:18,975 --> 00:37:19,933 very nice. 1074 00:37:21,891 --> 00:37:24,677 I mean, I changed it six months ago. 1075 00:37:24,677 --> 00:37:26,461 I needed it. 1076 00:37:26,461 --> 00:37:28,811 Come to think of it, the dinner that we had in London 1077 00:37:28,811 --> 00:37:32,989 with Kyle and Mo was really one of the last times 1078 00:37:32,989 --> 00:37:36,297 that we were together with Kyle and Mo as a couple. 1079 00:37:36,297 --> 00:37:39,300 There's got to be a better way to eat this to not like-- 1080 00:37:39,300 --> 00:37:42,347 ♪ 1081 00:37:42,347 --> 00:37:43,435 I don't like this one. 1082 00:37:43,435 --> 00:37:44,566 You can eat this one. 1083 00:37:44,566 --> 00:37:46,394 You have to work--oh, yeah. 1084 00:37:46,394 --> 00:37:47,743 [laughs] 1085 00:37:51,181 --> 00:37:54,707 Here you go. I don't want that kind either. 1086 00:37:56,143 --> 00:37:58,493 This is exactly how rumors start. 1087 00:37:58,493 --> 00:37:59,886 ♪ 1088 00:38:01,627 --> 00:38:04,456 Is this working? Oh, it is. 1089 00:38:04,456 --> 00:38:11,289 We're here tonight to honor my best friend, Lorene Shay. 1090 00:38:11,289 --> 00:38:15,118 It is the one-year anniversary of her passing. 1091 00:38:15,118 --> 00:38:18,774 Suicide, it's such a difficult topic 1092 00:38:18,774 --> 00:38:21,821 because nobody wants to talk about it, you know? 1093 00:38:21,821 --> 00:38:24,519 And I want people to know that are struggling 1094 00:38:24,519 --> 00:38:25,999 that there are resources 1095 00:38:25,999 --> 00:38:27,914 that they can reach out to. 1096 00:38:27,914 --> 00:38:30,569 And I can guarantee you, every single person in this room 1097 00:38:30,569 --> 00:38:33,920 has struggled themself, or known someone 1098 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,097 that has struggled, or lost a loved one. 1099 00:38:37,097 --> 00:38:40,361 I was supposed to be at my family's house 1100 00:38:40,361 --> 00:38:43,103 at the exact time that my father shot himself. 1101 00:38:43,103 --> 00:38:45,279 And I lived for a long time thinking, 1102 00:38:45,279 --> 00:38:48,413 if only I had been there on time, 'cause I'm always late, 1103 00:38:48,413 --> 00:38:49,544 we know this. 1104 00:38:49,544 --> 00:38:51,938 But now, I just miss him. 1105 00:38:51,938 --> 00:38:56,203 I miss that he's not seeing my children. 1106 00:38:56,203 --> 00:38:58,814 ♪ 1107 00:38:58,814 --> 00:39:01,730 He'd be really-- no, I also learned this, 1108 00:39:01,730 --> 00:39:05,255 he is really proud of my children. 1109 00:39:05,255 --> 00:39:08,302 He is really proud of me, 1110 00:39:08,302 --> 00:39:11,305 because he's still with us. 1111 00:39:15,962 --> 00:39:18,007 Lorene and I met in second grade. 1112 00:39:18,007 --> 00:39:19,357 We were both seven years old, 1113 00:39:19,357 --> 00:39:22,185 and we did not like each other at all. 1114 00:39:22,185 --> 00:39:24,100 We would come out to the play yard 1115 00:39:24,100 --> 00:39:26,102 and, like, look each other up and down. 1116 00:39:26,102 --> 00:39:28,496 And we were hurling insults at each other. 1117 00:39:28,496 --> 00:39:31,369 I think I blocked out what Lorene said about me, 1118 00:39:31,369 --> 00:39:32,718 making fun of me. 1119 00:39:32,718 --> 00:39:34,763 But it was probably about being short or something 1120 00:39:34,763 --> 00:39:36,635 because she was very tall. 1121 00:39:36,635 --> 00:39:38,288 And I would make fun of her pointy ears. 1122 00:39:38,288 --> 00:39:40,421 And, yeah. 1123 00:39:40,421 --> 00:39:42,205 We were both really stubborn. 1124 00:39:42,205 --> 00:39:43,772 So if we had an argument, we both could not 1125 00:39:43,772 --> 00:39:44,947 get ourselves to say sorry. 1126 00:39:44,947 --> 00:39:46,427 So we had to come up with a word 1127 00:39:46,427 --> 00:39:49,561 because saying "I'm sorry" was just too difficult. 1128 00:39:49,561 --> 00:39:51,345 So we would say "babalu." 1129 00:39:51,345 --> 00:39:53,216 I do not know why we would say "babalu." 1130 00:39:53,216 --> 00:39:55,436 And then we could move on and go about our day. 1131 00:39:55,436 --> 00:39:57,786 But God forbid one of us could say sorry. 1132 00:39:57,786 --> 00:40:00,920 But we went from that to being the best of friends. 1133 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,792 I am so grateful to have had Lorene in my life 1134 00:40:03,792 --> 00:40:06,142 and to have been her other half. 1135 00:40:06,142 --> 00:40:09,450 Two days before, I was talking to Lorene. 1136 00:40:09,450 --> 00:40:11,757 She said to me, um-- 1137 00:40:11,757 --> 00:40:14,281 [sniffles] 1138 00:40:14,281 --> 00:40:17,850 She said, "Always appreciate your marriage." 1139 00:40:23,464 --> 00:40:25,510 I said, "I will." 1140 00:40:25,510 --> 00:40:28,513 [stirring music] 1141 00:40:28,513 --> 00:40:30,340 ♪ 1142 00:40:30,340 --> 00:40:32,038 So now we're having a hard time, 1143 00:40:32,038 --> 00:40:34,997 I think I'm letting her down. 1144 00:40:34,997 --> 00:40:36,608 I hope everyone remembers Lorene 1145 00:40:36,608 --> 00:40:39,872 as a beautiful, energetic, positive, funny, smart, 1146 00:40:39,872 --> 00:40:41,830 loving, devoted mom, 1147 00:40:41,830 --> 00:40:44,616 wife, daughter, sister, and friend that she was. 1148 00:40:44,616 --> 00:40:48,010 I'm overcome with so much emotion 1149 00:40:48,010 --> 00:40:51,710 because I know what Kyle's gone through this past year. 1150 00:40:51,710 --> 00:40:53,842 I know how much it's devastated her. 1151 00:40:53,842 --> 00:40:55,844 And it's really important for me 1152 00:40:55,844 --> 00:40:58,151 that she knows I'm here for her. 1153 00:40:58,151 --> 00:41:00,893 And tonight, as you guys know, 1154 00:41:00,893 --> 00:41:04,418 we have a musical performance. 1155 00:41:04,418 --> 00:41:06,594 Everybody, Morgan Wade. 1156 00:41:06,594 --> 00:41:07,769 [applause] 1157 00:41:07,769 --> 00:41:09,379 Clint Wells. 1158 00:41:09,379 --> 00:41:11,425 [applause] 1159 00:41:11,425 --> 00:41:14,428 [muffled speech] 1160 00:41:21,609 --> 00:41:24,873 [strumming guitar] 1161 00:41:24,873 --> 00:41:32,577 ♪ If I could go let down my hair ♪ 1162 00:41:32,577 --> 00:41:37,190 ♪ Would you take off those clothes you wear? ♪ 1163 00:41:37,190 --> 00:41:39,975 ♪ Baby, hold me here tonight 1164 00:41:39,975 --> 00:41:42,325 I think since Lorene died, 1165 00:41:42,325 --> 00:41:46,678 I just think life was too short. 1166 00:41:46,678 --> 00:41:50,551 I'm really just trying to be happy 1167 00:41:50,551 --> 00:41:52,248 and live my life. 1168 00:41:52,248 --> 00:41:54,250 I don't want to have a wasted day of not feeling good 1169 00:41:54,250 --> 00:41:55,904 or spending time with people that I don't want 1170 00:41:55,904 --> 00:41:57,602 to spend my time with. 1171 00:41:57,602 --> 00:41:59,734 ♪ Afford some peace of mind 1172 00:41:59,734 --> 00:42:04,565 Or people that don't appreciate me. 1173 00:42:04,565 --> 00:42:07,655 ♪ So lay me down on the floor in your kitchen ♪ 1174 00:42:07,655 --> 00:42:12,007 ♪ Show my angry heart what I've been missing ♪ 1175 00:42:12,007 --> 00:42:15,315 ♪ Baby, take me away 1176 00:42:15,315 --> 00:42:18,623 The thing with losing someone is the finality of it. 1177 00:42:18,623 --> 00:42:19,798 You're not gonna get a phone call. 1178 00:42:19,798 --> 00:42:21,364 You're not gonna get a text. 1179 00:42:21,364 --> 00:42:23,279 You're not gonna hear their voice. 1180 00:42:23,279 --> 00:42:26,108 I mean, I know for me, with my mom, when she passed, 1181 00:42:26,108 --> 00:42:30,460 it was like, as time went on, it was like, 1182 00:42:30,460 --> 00:42:34,900 I'm really never going to see her or hear her or hug her, 1183 00:42:34,900 --> 00:42:37,946 you know? 1184 00:42:37,946 --> 00:42:39,600 That's the hardest part. 1185 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,168 ♪ 1186 00:42:42,168 --> 00:42:43,648 Woo! 1187 00:42:43,648 --> 00:42:46,346 [applause] 1188 00:42:46,346 --> 00:42:47,565 Thank y'all. 1189 00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:51,307 [applause] 1190 00:42:51,307 --> 00:42:56,138 As hard as this was, people wanted to be together 1191 00:42:56,138 --> 00:42:59,359 to celebrate her, to hear these stories, 1192 00:42:59,359 --> 00:43:03,232 and be able to lean on each other. 1193 00:43:03,232 --> 00:43:06,671 You know, 1194 00:43:06,671 --> 00:43:09,238 that's all we can do. 1195 00:43:10,675 --> 00:43:13,460 Kyle. 1196 00:43:13,460 --> 00:43:14,940 Give me the strength. 1197 00:43:14,940 --> 00:43:17,812 I love you so much. 1198 00:43:17,812 --> 00:43:19,509 ♪ 1199 00:43:19,509 --> 00:43:21,511 Lorene should be here. 1200 00:43:21,511 --> 00:43:22,817 She's here. 1201 00:43:22,817 --> 00:43:24,166 She's with us. - Oh. 1202 00:43:31,260 --> 00:43:32,740 Next time on "The Real Housewives 1203 00:43:32,740 --> 00:43:34,046 of Beverly Hills"... 1204 00:43:34,046 --> 00:43:36,570 So we're gonna dip into our legs. 1205 00:43:38,703 --> 00:43:39,704 Titties out. 1206 00:43:39,704 --> 00:43:41,053 Ooh, I'm a princess. 1207 00:43:41,053 --> 00:43:43,621 Oh, God, what have I signed myself up for? 1208 00:43:43,621 --> 00:43:46,362 When I met Annemarie around Christmas, 1209 00:43:46,362 --> 00:43:50,018 she told me she was a doctor. 1210 00:43:50,018 --> 00:43:51,498 Are you a board certified doctor? 1211 00:43:51,498 --> 00:43:54,022 I am a board certified nurse anesthetist. 1212 00:43:54,022 --> 00:43:55,676 You said that I made up. 1213 00:43:55,676 --> 00:43:57,983 - I didn't say you made it up. - You said she lied. 1214 00:43:57,983 --> 00:43:59,201 Crystal, now is not about you. 1215 00:43:59,201 --> 00:44:00,594 You're such a bitch. 1216 00:44:00,594 --> 00:44:01,813 What is wrong with you? 1217 00:44:01,813 --> 00:44:04,076 [dramatic music]