1 00:00:00,934 --> 00:00:02,867 [narrator] Previously on Sister Wives. 2 00:00:02,867 --> 00:00:04,867 So, you told us, originally, 3 00:00:04,867 --> 00:00:07,266 that you were going to keep a place here. 4 00:00:07,266 --> 00:00:08,467 Oh, I'll be up in Parowan. 5 00:00:08,467 --> 00:00:11,667 We had that discussion about where our relationship is at. 6 00:00:11,667 --> 00:00:14,166 Yeah, I'm not interested in faking a relationship. 7 00:00:14,166 --> 00:00:15,967 No, that's not me saying I can't work on it. 8 00:00:15,967 --> 00:00:17,767 Well, don't blame me for not loving you. 9 00:00:17,767 --> 00:00:18,667 I was doing my duty. 10 00:00:18,667 --> 00:00:21,367 Blame yourself if I don't love you, okay? 11 00:00:21,367 --> 00:00:23,166 [woman] Are you gonna make mud pies? 12 00:00:23,166 --> 00:00:24,233 [Janelle] I love this property. 13 00:00:24,233 --> 00:00:27,066 It's like everything that we had wanted in a piece. 14 00:00:27,066 --> 00:00:29,867 Maddie, look how big this property is. It goes clear back. 15 00:00:29,867 --> 00:00:32,467 [Robyn] If Janelle were to move, it would devastate me. 16 00:00:32,467 --> 00:00:34,500 I don't know how to let this all go, 17 00:00:34,500 --> 00:00:36,667 and I have not let go of Janelle. 18 00:00:36,667 --> 00:00:39,800 So, I'm excited to where this is going to be going to. 19 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:41,700 I'm really excited. 20 00:00:41,700 --> 00:00:45,600 I'm going to move forward and find happiness and joy 21 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,667 outside of my club. 22 00:00:47,667 --> 00:00:50,133 Because it was my club, and I got kicked out of it. 23 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,800 [theme music playing] 24 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:10,166 [light clinking] 25 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,800 Meri's decided to move to Utah, to Parowan. 26 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:22,667 She's just doing those kind of things 27 00:01:22,667 --> 00:01:25,500 that you do when your life changes. 28 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,967 She's giving a bunch of her living room furniture 29 00:01:28,967 --> 00:01:32,667 to her brother-in-law, Nathan, and her sister, Rebecca. 30 00:01:32,667 --> 00:01:34,967 Nathan happens to be my best friend. 31 00:01:34,967 --> 00:01:37,166 And I'm gonna take the trailer over, we're gonna load that up, 32 00:01:37,166 --> 00:01:39,567 and then, Nathan's gonna take it to their place. 33 00:01:39,567 --> 00:01:43,300 Yeah, they definitely are in the loop of what's going on with us. [chuckles] 34 00:01:44,166 --> 00:01:46,767 -Hey! -Hi! 35 00:01:46,767 --> 00:01:49,000 -[Kody] It's like... [laughs] -[indistinct chatter] 36 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,000 ...I helped Christine move out. 37 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,166 I helped her load the trailer, 38 00:01:53,166 --> 00:01:55,166 it was our last fight, I think. 39 00:01:55,166 --> 00:01:58,467 More than anything, those are going with me this trip. 40 00:01:58,467 --> 00:02:00,600 -They are. -Well, I wouldn't-- 41 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:01,767 -I would wait, and then-- -No, I know you wouldn't. 42 00:02:01,767 --> 00:02:03,600 -Everything-- -Kody, I know. Thank you. 43 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,867 I'm going to be in charge of this. 44 00:02:05,867 --> 00:02:08,100 This... this whole thing, this whole divorce thing, 45 00:02:08,100 --> 00:02:10,166 I don't know the rules, [scoffs] 46 00:02:10,166 --> 00:02:12,000 I don't know what it's supposed to be like. 47 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,567 I can't tell you, 48 00:02:13,567 --> 00:02:15,800 other than, well, I'm gonna help Meri 49 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:17,367 do whatever she needs to do. 50 00:02:17,367 --> 00:02:19,000 I told her to call me anytime. 51 00:02:19,567 --> 00:02:20,834 [Meri] Have a seat. 52 00:02:20,834 --> 00:02:23,400 -Would you like this furniture? -[Rebecca] I really like... 53 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:24,734 -I would. -Do you love it? 54 00:02:24,734 --> 00:02:27,166 -Do you want to take it home with you? -[Rebecca] I would love it. 55 00:02:27,166 --> 00:02:30,767 -[Meri] Yes, for sure. -So, are you like... sure? 56 00:02:30,767 --> 00:02:32,867 I feel like this has been such... 57 00:02:32,867 --> 00:02:34,767 -a part of your house forever. [chuckling] -[Meri] No. 58 00:02:34,767 --> 00:02:37,000 -It's a little weird. -[Meri] Yeah, Kody and I got this 59 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,166 when we first moved to Vegas. 60 00:02:38,166 --> 00:02:39,900 So, why do you need to let it go? 61 00:02:39,900 --> 00:02:41,667 So... [sighs] 62 00:02:41,667 --> 00:02:44,767 Um, I'm going to be moving out to the bed and breakfast. 63 00:02:44,767 --> 00:02:45,900 -You are? -Yeah. 64 00:02:45,900 --> 00:02:48,500 So, Kody and I, I mean, I know that you guys know that, 65 00:02:48,500 --> 00:02:50,467 obviously, there's been issues, 66 00:02:50,467 --> 00:02:53,667 but we have finalized the separation. 67 00:02:53,667 --> 00:02:56,567 -[Rebecca] Like, official? -Done, done, done. 68 00:02:56,567 --> 00:02:58,300 Like, it's done. Yeah. 69 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:01,667 -[exhales] -[Nathan] How do you mean? 70 00:03:01,667 --> 00:03:05,567 After 32 years, I'm a single woman. 71 00:03:05,567 --> 00:03:07,000 [chuckles] 72 00:03:08,867 --> 00:03:11,400 When-- How old were you when you got married? 73 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:12,600 Nineteen. 74 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,834 So, 32 years, so... 75 00:03:16,900 --> 00:03:20,600 You know, it is actually really... 76 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,767 strange [chuckles] to be single 77 00:03:23,767 --> 00:03:26,734 after over three decades. 78 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,767 You know, the last time I was single 79 00:03:29,767 --> 00:03:32,300 was when I was 19, you know? 80 00:03:32,300 --> 00:03:35,100 So, this is definitely different. 81 00:03:35,100 --> 00:03:37,900 I'm still trying to get used to it, 82 00:03:37,900 --> 00:03:40,266 and get my head wrapped around it. 83 00:03:40,266 --> 00:03:42,500 [laughs] Like, it's kind of weird. 84 00:03:43,467 --> 00:03:45,100 How are you feeling about it? 85 00:03:45,100 --> 00:03:47,600 I've had a lot of varying emotions. 86 00:03:48,066 --> 00:03:49,934 I cried a lot the week after. 87 00:03:53,500 --> 00:03:56,800 I went through the church process, 88 00:03:57,266 --> 00:03:58,800 and got it, like, terminated. 89 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:00,300 Did they handle that well? 90 00:04:00,300 --> 00:04:02,000 Like, do you feel like they were fair, 91 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,000 and, like, listened to you, or how was the process? 92 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,233 It was a good process for me. 93 00:04:08,967 --> 00:04:11,767 Kody might say otherwise. [laughs] 94 00:04:11,767 --> 00:04:15,000 -[Rebecca laughing] -We had already had the divorce. 95 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,300 Divorce and divorce, so, basically, I'm a double D now. 96 00:04:18,300 --> 00:04:19,934 [laughing] 97 00:04:21,166 --> 00:04:22,867 [Rebecca] Double D Meri. 98 00:04:22,867 --> 00:04:25,000 [women laughing] 99 00:04:25,300 --> 00:04:26,767 Yeah, I mean, 100 00:04:26,767 --> 00:04:30,266 it's kind of interesting, because I did go through that, 101 00:04:30,266 --> 00:04:32,967 a legal divorce, you know, years ago, 102 00:04:32,967 --> 00:04:37,400 for the benefit of Robyn and her kids. 103 00:04:38,166 --> 00:04:42,700 Okay, Meri, if you could just sign right here? 104 00:04:42,700 --> 00:04:44,000 [softly] Okay. 105 00:04:45,567 --> 00:04:47,567 [Meri] That was very hard, emotionally. 106 00:04:47,567 --> 00:04:50,200 I believe that Kody 107 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,567 really misunderstands my emotion. 108 00:04:52,567 --> 00:04:54,767 He has said that he thinks it is 109 00:04:54,767 --> 00:04:56,767 because I lost some sort of power, 110 00:04:56,767 --> 00:04:58,967 and part of me is like, 111 00:04:58,967 --> 00:05:01,400 "Oh, I didn't know you gave me power." [scoffing] 112 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:05,300 It's like, I didn't know that I had any power of being the first wife. 113 00:05:05,300 --> 00:05:06,767 You know? Like, that... 114 00:05:06,767 --> 00:05:08,900 That was really kind of weird and insulting, 115 00:05:08,900 --> 00:05:10,667 because it had nothing to do with that. 116 00:05:10,667 --> 00:05:13,700 The legal terminology is really weird. 117 00:05:13,700 --> 00:05:16,400 "It is hereby ordered, adjudged and decreed 118 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,467 that all parties are granted a final decree of divorce... 119 00:05:19,467 --> 00:05:23,300 ...between Meri and Kody are dissolved, set aside, 120 00:05:23,300 --> 00:05:25,567 and forever held for naught." 121 00:05:25,567 --> 00:05:28,100 It was really just kind of a mind game on me. 122 00:05:28,100 --> 00:05:30,100 At the same time, 123 00:05:30,100 --> 00:05:33,367 I knew that mine and Kody's relationship 124 00:05:33,367 --> 00:05:36,867 was not in a solid place. 125 00:05:36,867 --> 00:05:40,967 And so, it was a very scary moment for me, too, 126 00:05:40,967 --> 00:05:44,400 because I didn't know what was going to change. 127 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:48,800 You know, I knew it was scary for some of my sister wives, too, you know? 128 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,600 I remember, he had a conversation with Janelle, 129 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,667 and she was concerned about things changing. 130 00:05:53,667 --> 00:05:54,800 And... 131 00:05:55,467 --> 00:05:56,700 [sighs] 132 00:05:57,767 --> 00:05:59,333 they did. [scoffs] 133 00:06:00,100 --> 00:06:01,433 You know? 134 00:06:02,700 --> 00:06:04,900 So, you're obviously getting rid of a lot of things. 135 00:06:04,900 --> 00:06:09,166 What are you going to do with the stuff that's died in the 32 years of memory? 136 00:06:09,166 --> 00:06:12,000 [chuckling] So, Kody was here the other day, 137 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,600 and he's like, "You're not keeping this? Isn't it sentimental?" 138 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,100 -Sentimental for a... -[Rebecca] Sentimental to you. 139 00:06:21,100 --> 00:06:23,300 -Divorce? -...broken marriage? 140 00:06:24,166 --> 00:06:25,367 Is that how you see it? 141 00:06:25,367 --> 00:06:27,300 It didn't-- Well, it is. 142 00:06:29,066 --> 00:06:32,467 [Robyn] Mary moving to Parowan is really painful and hard, 143 00:06:32,467 --> 00:06:35,800 but, like, my heart has gone out to her so much, 144 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:40,266 as about how long she's kind of been hanging on. 145 00:06:40,266 --> 00:06:43,133 Like, I just really want her to find happiness, too. 146 00:06:44,100 --> 00:06:47,000 Was it, like, amiable or awkward? 147 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,867 Yeah. So, he and I were on a conversation, 148 00:06:49,867 --> 00:06:51,367 you know, on a phone call the other day, 149 00:06:51,367 --> 00:06:53,600 and we were disagreeing about something. 150 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:57,166 And he was trying to say this is the point 151 00:06:57,166 --> 00:07:00,467 where our relationship started failing, 152 00:07:00,467 --> 00:07:04,000 and I was like, "No, it was a lot different for me." 153 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,867 And he was, like, very much disagreeing. 154 00:07:06,867 --> 00:07:11,667 And I said, "That's not how it was for me," and, "Goodbye." 155 00:07:11,667 --> 00:07:16,066 I'm not going to engage in when he's getting all riled up like that. 156 00:07:16,066 --> 00:07:19,100 -[Rebecca] Yeah. -It just does me no purpose. 157 00:07:19,100 --> 00:07:21,367 And it does us no purpose. 158 00:07:21,367 --> 00:07:23,967 Can you even really pinpoint a time, though? 159 00:07:23,967 --> 00:07:25,467 I don't think there is one defining moment 160 00:07:25,467 --> 00:07:26,367 -to be honest with you. -[Rebecca] Agreed. 161 00:07:26,367 --> 00:07:28,066 -Yeah. Yeah. -I don't think that you can. 162 00:07:28,066 --> 00:07:32,100 Kody has said different times 163 00:07:32,100 --> 00:07:34,367 for his defining moment... 164 00:07:34,367 --> 00:07:37,100 -[Rebecca] Yeah. -I mean, let's just talk about catfishing, right? 165 00:07:37,100 --> 00:07:41,100 -[Rebecca laughs] -It's like, "Mm, but what led up to that?" 166 00:07:41,100 --> 00:07:43,767 What about comments that Kody has said 167 00:07:43,767 --> 00:07:47,667 that... [scoffs] the problem, the storm that was Meri 168 00:07:47,667 --> 00:07:50,400 started, you know, a year or two 169 00:07:50,867 --> 00:07:52,166 after the marriage started. 170 00:07:52,166 --> 00:07:54,066 -How's it going? -Pretty good. 171 00:07:54,066 --> 00:07:55,467 -How was your day? -Good. 172 00:07:55,467 --> 00:07:57,600 You know, my... my day was really, 173 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:59,767 -really quite nice. -Good. 174 00:07:59,767 --> 00:08:02,433 [Kody] We were dysfunctional from the beginning. 175 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:05,567 I don't know what happened. 176 00:08:05,567 --> 00:08:07,200 Meri, yeah, talks about... 177 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:08,667 we were great when we were together. 178 00:08:08,667 --> 00:08:11,433 If this is great, then maybe I don't want it. 179 00:08:12,100 --> 00:08:14,166 It's a little bit confusing to me 180 00:08:14,166 --> 00:08:17,100 that Kody has this narrative now 181 00:08:17,100 --> 00:08:20,166 that there was never any good times. 182 00:08:20,166 --> 00:08:22,300 We have lots of video. 183 00:08:22,300 --> 00:08:24,066 We have lots of photos. 184 00:08:24,066 --> 00:08:26,867 There was good in our relationship. 185 00:08:26,867 --> 00:08:29,166 There was a lot of it. 186 00:08:29,166 --> 00:08:32,600 Have you had a chance to talk with, like, Christine and Janelle, or... 187 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:33,634 No. 188 00:08:34,967 --> 00:08:36,333 No. 189 00:08:40,066 --> 00:08:42,900 Yeah, we're not... we're not sister wives anymore. 190 00:08:42,900 --> 00:08:45,100 I just don't know. There's a lot of things 191 00:08:45,100 --> 00:08:48,800 that I have to wrap my head around and figure out, 192 00:08:49,367 --> 00:08:52,300 like what to do with, you know? 193 00:08:53,166 --> 00:08:54,800 He doesn't seem like 194 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:56,467 the same happy-go-lucky person... 195 00:08:56,467 --> 00:08:59,266 -No, he doesn't. -...that I am super-familiar with. 196 00:08:59,266 --> 00:09:02,567 -He's looking sad. -Well, the person you marry is not the person you divorce. 197 00:09:02,567 --> 00:09:05,700 That's true, and also... 198 00:09:05,700 --> 00:09:09,533 He really doesn't seem like the happy person that he used to be. 199 00:09:09,867 --> 00:09:11,000 [splutters] 200 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,500 I'm angry. 201 00:09:12,867 --> 00:09:14,367 You know, it's like... 202 00:09:14,367 --> 00:09:18,367 It's not that I'm grumpy or yelling or doing something, 203 00:09:18,367 --> 00:09:21,634 it's that I have resting [bleep] face. 204 00:09:23,266 --> 00:09:25,100 [Janelle] Kody's always been kind of intense, 205 00:09:25,100 --> 00:09:27,700 even when he's just talking seriously, 206 00:09:27,700 --> 00:09:29,500 you know, he tends to have this face. 207 00:09:29,500 --> 00:09:32,300 [exclaims] I call it his murder face. I hate it. 208 00:09:32,300 --> 00:09:34,367 I'm like, "You can't use the murder face on the kids." 209 00:09:34,367 --> 00:09:35,667 He's like, "Get in your pajamas!" 210 00:09:35,667 --> 00:09:38,600 I'm like, "That's too scary. Take it back a notch." 211 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:39,767 Lift the eyebrows. 212 00:09:39,767 --> 00:09:41,100 "Okay, get in your pajamas." 213 00:09:41,100 --> 00:09:42,667 [laughs] 214 00:09:42,667 --> 00:09:44,800 So, it looks like he's here. 215 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,333 "We're about to pull up," but he says he needs your help. 216 00:09:47,867 --> 00:09:49,700 It's gonna be awkward. 217 00:09:49,700 --> 00:09:51,300 I mean, it's gonna be awkward. 218 00:09:52,567 --> 00:09:55,367 [Kody] Meri and I, we've been awkward for a long time. 219 00:09:55,367 --> 00:09:57,867 I don't know if it'll be awkward forever, 220 00:09:57,867 --> 00:09:59,800 or if it's even going to be awkward today. 221 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,600 Avoid the ice. 222 00:10:02,166 --> 00:10:03,634 How's it going? 223 00:10:03,634 --> 00:10:04,800 - [speaking other language] -[in English] Hey, man, good to see you. 224 00:10:05,367 --> 00:10:06,433 Kody? 225 00:10:07,700 --> 00:10:09,100 [Nathan chuckles] 226 00:10:09,100 --> 00:10:11,166 -Kody? -[distant indistinct chatter] 227 00:10:11,166 --> 00:10:13,166 -[Kody clears throat] -How's it going for you, bro? 228 00:10:13,166 --> 00:10:15,100 -Mm, it's going all right. -[Meri] Yoo-hoo! 229 00:10:15,767 --> 00:10:18,867 -Yoo-hoo! I know, right? -[both laughing] 230 00:10:18,867 --> 00:10:21,967 Kody, this is all ice. You might want to back up more. 231 00:10:21,967 --> 00:10:23,467 I'm coming to look at it. 232 00:10:23,467 --> 00:10:25,200 [Meri] As I'm getting rid of things, 233 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,066 it's actually getting rid of something in me 234 00:10:28,066 --> 00:10:30,100 that I feel like I need to get rid of 235 00:10:30,100 --> 00:10:34,700 so that I can move on to whatever I'm moving on to. 236 00:10:34,700 --> 00:10:36,667 -Hi, Rebecca. How are you? Nice to see you. -Hey. Good. How are you? 237 00:10:36,667 --> 00:10:38,100 -You, too. -[Kody] I'm good. 238 00:10:38,100 --> 00:10:39,900 -Hey, Meri, don't fall and hurt yourself. -[Meri] Hi. 239 00:10:39,900 --> 00:10:42,200 -I'm having a go of it. -[Kody] Good. 240 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,300 So, um, you know what we ought to do, 241 00:10:44,300 --> 00:10:46,400 is just get a shovel and just move this real quick, 242 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:47,867 or I'll drive over it. 243 00:10:47,867 --> 00:10:50,500 But we should drop the ramp just right here. 244 00:10:50,500 --> 00:10:53,200 He and I are divorced now, and I'm moving away. 245 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:57,133 Like, what... I don't know what it's going to look like. 246 00:11:02,100 --> 00:11:03,667 I love that you picked Moab. 247 00:11:03,667 --> 00:11:05,867 I'm from Moab. I love rock climbing. 248 00:11:05,867 --> 00:11:08,900 What I like about Moab, it's that you're going, like, 249 00:11:08,900 --> 00:11:11,767 200 million years ago when the dinosaurs roamed. 250 00:11:11,767 --> 00:11:12,967 That's like... that's our kind of people. 251 00:11:12,967 --> 00:11:14,767 -Yeah, we like adventurous couples. -[indistinct chatter] 252 00:11:14,767 --> 00:11:17,900 I've gone down there and taken a few ladies with me, 253 00:11:17,900 --> 00:11:19,367 and they never want to go back. 254 00:11:19,367 --> 00:11:22,667 And so, I said, "The one that will love Moab like I do, 255 00:11:22,667 --> 00:11:24,100 that's the one I'll marry." 256 00:11:25,567 --> 00:11:27,734 [upbeat country music playing] 257 00:11:32,567 --> 00:11:34,166 [Christine] Let's get out. 258 00:11:34,166 --> 00:11:35,700 How was that drive? 259 00:11:35,700 --> 00:11:37,100 -[David] It was wonderful. -[Christine] It was long. 260 00:11:37,900 --> 00:11:39,467 Today, David and I are going to Moab. 261 00:11:39,467 --> 00:11:41,400 We're going to look at wedding venues! 262 00:11:42,066 --> 00:11:43,967 It's the end of January. 263 00:11:43,967 --> 00:11:45,467 We met the beginning of December, 264 00:11:45,467 --> 00:11:47,500 but, no, we're looking at wedding venues today. 265 00:11:47,500 --> 00:11:48,867 [indistinct chatter] 266 00:11:48,867 --> 00:11:51,266 It's David, me, his son, Max, 267 00:11:51,266 --> 00:11:52,700 Ysabel, and Truely. 268 00:11:53,467 --> 00:11:55,500 -Hey, guys. -[Christine] Hi! 269 00:11:56,066 --> 00:11:57,567 Welcome to the Red Earth venue. 270 00:11:57,567 --> 00:11:59,767 Thank you. It's lovely to be here. 271 00:11:59,767 --> 00:12:01,700 -Hi. Hi. Christine. -Angela. Good to meet you, Christine. 272 00:12:01,700 --> 00:12:02,867 -Nice to meet you. -David. 273 00:12:02,867 --> 00:12:05,333 -David. Okay, and we got kids. -Kids. 274 00:12:06,367 --> 00:12:10,066 I'm really happy for her. She's sparkling and glowing. 275 00:12:10,066 --> 00:12:13,867 And he is absolutely smitten with her, and he should be. 276 00:12:13,867 --> 00:12:15,700 And he's incredible with Truely, 277 00:12:15,700 --> 00:12:17,767 and his children are phenomenal. 278 00:12:17,767 --> 00:12:21,867 But... it is moving extremely fast. 279 00:12:21,867 --> 00:12:24,900 Faster than I think I would like it. 280 00:12:24,900 --> 00:12:27,867 Okay. Well, great. I hear you guys are engaged. 281 00:12:27,867 --> 00:12:28,934 Not engaged yet. 282 00:12:28,934 --> 00:12:30,867 -Okay, but close-ish? -But we've got to get the-- 283 00:12:30,867 --> 00:12:33,266 -We gotta get the venue down, you know? -[chuckles] Yeah. 284 00:12:33,266 --> 00:12:34,967 We're not engaged yet. 285 00:12:34,967 --> 00:12:36,367 But you've got to get your, like... 286 00:12:36,367 --> 00:12:38,266 the wedding venue locked down, you know? 287 00:12:38,266 --> 00:12:39,567 He's already locked me down. 288 00:12:39,567 --> 00:12:42,567 But the wedding venue, he's really got to get that locked down. 289 00:12:42,567 --> 00:12:44,567 -You know, you have-- -We don't know when to do when stuff. 290 00:12:44,567 --> 00:12:46,000 -Yes. -We know that we need to get the venue, 291 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,867 so we know when to tell people 292 00:12:47,867 --> 00:12:49,567 -to mark it on their calendar, right? -Yes. 293 00:12:49,567 --> 00:12:51,000 -No, totally. That makes sense for sure. -[Christine] Yeah. Yeah. 294 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,000 -Well, congratulations, regardless. -Thank you. 295 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:54,300 -Planning a wedding is exciting. -Yes. 296 00:12:54,300 --> 00:12:58,367 Okay, so Christine came out, and she was telling us about David. 297 00:12:58,367 --> 00:13:01,667 It seems kind of soon, but It's just one of those things, I guess. 298 00:13:01,667 --> 00:13:03,300 "If you know, you know, " they say. 299 00:13:03,300 --> 00:13:06,000 Hey, we've been dating for a good... 300 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:10,000 like, six weeks to two months already. 301 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,200 Oh, yeah, we're on top of it. 302 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,867 We are not taking it slow. I'm 50. 303 00:13:14,867 --> 00:13:17,100 I mean, I'm like, you must be somewhat adventurous 304 00:13:17,100 --> 00:13:19,467 -if you're kind of going for Moab, then-- -I... I'm from Moab. 305 00:13:19,467 --> 00:13:20,700 I love rock climbing. 306 00:13:20,700 --> 00:13:22,400 Generally, the people that are drawn here, 307 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:24,300 are the adventurous types. 308 00:13:25,367 --> 00:13:27,967 [David] What I like about Moab, besides the Red Cliffs, 309 00:13:27,967 --> 00:13:29,700 it's that you're going, like, 310 00:13:29,700 --> 00:13:33,000 200 million years ago when the dinosaurs roamed. 311 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:33,800 [Angela] So, yeah, we'll go on in, 312 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:35,567 we can come check out the space... 313 00:13:35,567 --> 00:13:38,667 [David] And I wanted to share it with somebody. 314 00:13:38,667 --> 00:13:41,567 Um, in fact, I've gone down there 315 00:13:41,567 --> 00:13:43,367 and taken a few ladies with me, 316 00:13:43,367 --> 00:13:44,800 and they never want to go back. 317 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:48,600 And so I said, "The one that will love Moab like I do, 318 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,266 that's the one I'll marry." 319 00:13:50,266 --> 00:13:52,266 [Christine] Ah, nice. 320 00:13:52,266 --> 00:13:54,166 -[grunts] Oh, my God, again? -I'm sorry, Mom. 321 00:13:54,166 --> 00:13:55,867 -I didn't mean to push you. -Oh, my gosh! 322 00:13:55,867 --> 00:13:57,800 -[Truely] I didn't mean to push you again. -She keeps coming in between-- 323 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,867 -I didn't mean to push you. -You know, Truely, 324 00:13:59,867 --> 00:14:01,767 we're gonna be together, I don't know what to tell you. 325 00:14:01,767 --> 00:14:06,567 I don't know if Kody knows anything about David and I. I have no idea. 326 00:14:06,567 --> 00:14:08,667 No, he stopped telling me about things that were happening 327 00:14:08,667 --> 00:14:10,967 in his life a long time ago. 328 00:14:10,967 --> 00:14:13,400 You know, I don't update him on anything. 329 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,166 So, the whole thing is not to decorate. 330 00:14:15,166 --> 00:14:17,867 -You let everything decorate. -Oh, you can absolutely decorate. 331 00:14:17,867 --> 00:14:20,367 But we wanted this space to be kind of a neutral palette. 332 00:14:20,367 --> 00:14:22,066 -[Christine] Yes. -These are all, like, clay tiles, 333 00:14:22,066 --> 00:14:24,233 handmade clay tiles, each individually placed 334 00:14:24,700 --> 00:14:25,967 kind of to reflect the... 335 00:14:25,967 --> 00:14:28,100 You know, they have, like, a desert look, but they're neutral, 336 00:14:28,100 --> 00:14:31,467 so you can bring in colorful florals, you can be vibrant, 337 00:14:31,467 --> 00:14:33,667 you can be... you can be very neutral. 338 00:14:33,667 --> 00:14:37,767 We just kind of wanted it to be an open canvas. 339 00:14:37,767 --> 00:14:42,667 [Kody] In our religion, marriages are supposed to be eternal. [scoffs] Okay? 340 00:14:42,667 --> 00:14:46,400 Why do you have people who don't know each other get married 341 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:49,100 if you think you're stuck forever? 342 00:14:49,100 --> 00:14:51,166 Not just for life, but for eternity? 343 00:14:51,166 --> 00:14:54,100 I've heard rumors about Christine dating, 344 00:14:54,100 --> 00:14:58,867 I've heard rumors, um, that he's Christine's soulmate. 345 00:14:58,867 --> 00:15:01,166 She's very excited about the relationship. 346 00:15:01,166 --> 00:15:03,700 I'm offended for her on the idea that 347 00:15:03,700 --> 00:15:05,867 she would be stuck with me for eternity 348 00:15:05,867 --> 00:15:08,266 when her soulmate was out there to be found. 349 00:15:08,266 --> 00:15:11,266 -So, these are just giant pivot doors. -[David] Oh, that's cool. 350 00:15:11,266 --> 00:15:13,200 -Just kind of rotate it just like that. -[Christine] Whoa! 351 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:14,100 [daughters] What? 352 00:15:14,100 --> 00:15:17,100 [David] My kids, a few of them had doubts 353 00:15:17,100 --> 00:15:18,867 because I dated so long, 354 00:15:18,867 --> 00:15:22,266 they thought I was just another... number. 355 00:15:22,266 --> 00:15:25,600 But the way that you take care of me, the way you do things, 356 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,700 I never got treated like that before. 357 00:15:27,700 --> 00:15:30,667 So I knew then, it was like, "What, we're going to wait for 358 00:15:30,667 --> 00:15:32,166 another month, two months?" 359 00:15:32,166 --> 00:15:33,867 We have a lot of vacations to go on. 360 00:15:33,867 --> 00:15:35,367 [both chuckle] 361 00:15:35,367 --> 00:15:38,767 [Angela] So, yeah, essentially, you guys can open up this whole back wall. 362 00:15:38,767 --> 00:15:41,467 So, the pivot doors, the accordion style doors 363 00:15:41,467 --> 00:15:42,967 and then, that pivot door right there. 364 00:15:42,967 --> 00:15:45,100 That's 1,800 square feet inside, 365 00:15:45,100 --> 00:15:47,567 -and then 2,300 square feet outside. -Oh, my gosh. 366 00:15:47,567 --> 00:15:48,767 So, it just kind of makes it 367 00:15:48,767 --> 00:15:52,100 -this nice indoor-outdoor space. -Perfect. 368 00:15:52,100 --> 00:15:54,266 When Kody and I got married, I was the third wife 369 00:15:54,266 --> 00:15:55,667 in a plural family. 370 00:15:55,667 --> 00:15:57,767 So, to me, it was really inappropriate 371 00:15:57,767 --> 00:16:00,066 for us to have anything really, really big. 372 00:16:00,066 --> 00:16:02,600 Like, our church really taught 373 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,400 that the first marriage could have anything that it wanted. 374 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,900 But the second, third couldn't. 375 00:16:08,900 --> 00:16:10,467 They were, like, hush-hush. 376 00:16:10,467 --> 00:16:11,900 Isn't that ridiculous? 377 00:16:11,900 --> 00:16:15,000 In a church that supports polygamous marriages, 378 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:19,767 you would think that every marriage deserved recognition. 379 00:16:19,767 --> 00:16:22,700 And a big, huge party. It is still a wedding, you know? 380 00:16:22,700 --> 00:16:24,600 Anyway, they don't. 381 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:26,166 A lot of the pressure to marry Christine, 382 00:16:26,166 --> 00:16:28,667 I feel like came from-- I had known her for a long time. 383 00:16:28,667 --> 00:16:30,500 And I knew she wanted to be in my family. 384 00:16:30,500 --> 00:16:31,900 I really liked her family. 385 00:16:31,900 --> 00:16:34,000 She was... she was... 386 00:16:34,767 --> 00:16:36,300 mm, polygamy royalty. 387 00:16:36,300 --> 00:16:38,600 The whole "polygamous royalty" thing, 388 00:16:39,100 --> 00:16:40,166 that came from Kody. 389 00:16:40,166 --> 00:16:41,767 I never cared about that. 390 00:16:41,767 --> 00:16:44,300 How many people does it, like... can you put here? 391 00:16:44,300 --> 00:16:46,500 Yeah, so, venue capacity is 120. 392 00:16:46,500 --> 00:16:49,166 -That's what we have tables and chairs for. -Okay. 393 00:16:49,166 --> 00:16:50,667 We don't necessarily cap it. 394 00:16:50,667 --> 00:16:53,467 Um, like if you did want to increase, you can. 395 00:16:53,467 --> 00:16:55,600 We just recommend opening that back wall. 396 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,767 -We have a massive situation. Like, we have a lot of kids... -Okay. 397 00:16:58,767 --> 00:17:01,100 -Yes. -...and a huge family. 398 00:17:01,100 --> 00:17:03,000 We have a lot of people coming to our wedding. 399 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:04,367 We don't know exactly how many. 400 00:17:04,367 --> 00:17:06,800 I don't know how big it's going to get. No idea. 401 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:10,467 You can even expand out here, if you want a larger dining space... 402 00:17:10,467 --> 00:17:12,400 -Sure. -...and, kind of, increase it up to, 403 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,367 I don't know, 200 people or whatever. 404 00:17:14,367 --> 00:17:16,000 So, as beautiful as Red Earth is, 405 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:17,900 and Angela's been wonderful, 406 00:17:17,900 --> 00:17:20,300 it's just... we just need bigger. 407 00:17:20,300 --> 00:17:22,367 -You don't want to trip again. -[chuckles] Oh, my gosh. 408 00:17:22,367 --> 00:17:24,367 -[Angela] So good to meet you guys! -Good to meet you, too! 409 00:17:24,367 --> 00:17:26,500 -[Angela] Congratulations. -Thank you. 410 00:17:26,500 --> 00:17:27,600 This won't work for us. We're going to have to 411 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:28,867 just keep looking for another place. 412 00:17:28,867 --> 00:17:31,133 But we have somewhere else we're going to be going to today. 413 00:17:36,700 --> 00:17:39,567 When Sonny and Cher got divorced, I was six, 414 00:17:39,567 --> 00:17:41,900 and it broke my heart, it freaked me out. 415 00:17:41,900 --> 00:17:43,667 It's like, divorce, it saddened me. 416 00:17:43,667 --> 00:17:46,467 This isn't supposed to be part of the story 417 00:17:46,467 --> 00:17:47,767 that I'm writing about myself. 418 00:17:47,767 --> 00:17:49,900 We crashed the ship... 419 00:17:51,367 --> 00:17:52,800 and that does... 420 00:17:54,767 --> 00:17:56,533 make me terribly sad. 421 00:18:03,166 --> 00:18:04,300 [Kody] So have you got a shovel, 422 00:18:04,300 --> 00:18:05,000 -or is it just your-- -[Christine] Yep. 423 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:06,967 [Kody] Oh, wait, I got shovels. 424 00:18:06,967 --> 00:18:08,800 -You know, I have a shovel. -I had to... I had to dig that out. 425 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:10,600 -Oh, gosh, it's been a morning. -[Rebecca] Oh. What's that? 426 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:12,600 -[laughs] -Everybody notices. 427 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:14,100 -Well, it's because... -Well, it's because 428 00:18:14,100 --> 00:18:15,300 -it's a new thing. -...you wore a necklace. 429 00:18:15,300 --> 00:18:16,867 -Yeah, I haven't seen it before. -You don't wear necklaces. 430 00:18:16,867 --> 00:18:18,033 -This is a new thing. -Yeah, it just... 431 00:18:18,033 --> 00:18:19,867 -Well, listen, I... -I just want to know what it means. 432 00:18:19,867 --> 00:18:21,667 -I'm curious. -A person gets a divorce, what are they going to do? 433 00:18:21,667 --> 00:18:23,200 They're gonna start changing. 434 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,600 It feels like I'm moving my ex-wife out of her house. 435 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:27,467 It's not necessarily awkward, 436 00:18:27,467 --> 00:18:29,266 but it's just what it is. 437 00:18:29,266 --> 00:18:30,433 Do I keep turning? 438 00:18:30,433 --> 00:18:32,066 -[Christine] Dude, please. -[Nathan] I'll shuffle quick. 439 00:18:32,066 --> 00:18:33,967 [Christine] Holy freaking freak. 440 00:18:33,967 --> 00:18:36,100 -Freak, freak, freak. -We're okay, dear. 441 00:18:36,100 --> 00:18:37,467 [Christine] A little bit more. 442 00:18:37,467 --> 00:18:38,700 [Christine and Nathan] And stop. 443 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:40,233 [Nathan] Perfect. 444 00:18:40,233 --> 00:18:43,000 He said what he wanted to do, and he's done it. 445 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:44,467 [Christine] Well, he's so amazing. 446 00:18:44,467 --> 00:18:46,867 -Damn! I wish I was married to him. -[Rebecca chuckles] 447 00:18:46,867 --> 00:18:48,900 I got to thank you on behalf of my wife. 448 00:18:48,900 --> 00:18:50,467 You've made her a very happy woman. 449 00:18:50,467 --> 00:18:51,767 [splutters] Ah, it's just... 450 00:18:51,767 --> 00:18:54,100 I'm just glad Rebecca's happy with the furniture. 451 00:18:54,100 --> 00:18:55,400 She's excited. 452 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,100 -Yeah, there's one woman happy in my life now. -[both chuckle] 453 00:18:58,967 --> 00:18:59,967 [Christine] I'm happy. 454 00:18:59,967 --> 00:19:01,667 [Kody laughing] Rebecca... 455 00:19:01,667 --> 00:19:03,700 -Hallelujah! -[Nathan] True! True! 456 00:19:03,700 --> 00:19:06,266 Uh, thanks, Kody, for all of this, 457 00:19:06,266 --> 00:19:07,567 that I can get new furniture. 458 00:19:07,567 --> 00:19:10,200 He was talking about Robyn. 459 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,266 I... I don't know what to say. I mean, 460 00:19:12,266 --> 00:19:14,066 I... it was a little self-deprecating, 461 00:19:14,066 --> 00:19:16,100 but Robyn and I are having our own struggle. 462 00:19:16,100 --> 00:19:19,667 We're both mourning this experience that we're having, 463 00:19:19,667 --> 00:19:21,667 and we're struggling in different ways, 464 00:19:21,667 --> 00:19:23,500 we're mourning in different ways. 465 00:19:25,166 --> 00:19:27,567 Hmm, here's an irony. 466 00:19:27,567 --> 00:19:29,967 I'm pretty much sure I sold that dream to you. 467 00:19:29,967 --> 00:19:32,600 The whole family dream, the big family dream. 468 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,533 I'm not sure I... 469 00:19:35,667 --> 00:19:38,400 I'm still embracing that dream in any way. 470 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:39,967 Well, I am. 471 00:19:39,967 --> 00:19:41,734 [Kody] Robyn doesn't seem happy. 472 00:19:43,100 --> 00:19:47,634 I don't believe that's an indicator about our relationship... 473 00:19:48,467 --> 00:19:49,233 specifically. 474 00:19:49,233 --> 00:19:51,000 I think it's about a big picture. 475 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,467 Okay. 476 00:19:52,467 --> 00:19:54,667 -Okay. -All right, what do we got going on? 477 00:19:54,667 --> 00:19:57,467 -[Rebecca] Will you show him? -All right, well, we've got this furniture. 478 00:19:57,467 --> 00:19:59,367 Can I get a drink of water first, Meri? 479 00:19:59,367 --> 00:20:01,166 -I've been... -Can you ask, "please"? 480 00:20:01,166 --> 00:20:02,066 -...running that thing... -[Rebecca laughs] 481 00:20:02,066 --> 00:20:03,667 -...all over. -[Christine] Just kidding. 482 00:20:03,667 --> 00:20:04,967 Of course. 483 00:20:04,967 --> 00:20:05,734 [Kody laughing] 484 00:20:05,734 --> 00:20:07,800 -What? -Nothing, it's just funny. 485 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:09,400 [laughing] Thank you. 486 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,600 -It's funny? You asked. -[Kody] No, it's just-- 487 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,200 -Thank you. -I deliver. 488 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:15,767 [Meri chuckling] 489 00:20:15,767 --> 00:20:18,100 [Kody] Meri seems a little lighter. 490 00:20:18,100 --> 00:20:20,233 You know, the pressure's off of Meri. 491 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:22,500 By all indications, 492 00:20:22,500 --> 00:20:26,000 I think Meri might start to feel better. 493 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,000 I'm glad one woman's happy. 494 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,567 It feels like he's projecting a little bit 495 00:20:30,567 --> 00:20:32,400 because maybe he feels like 496 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,667 the pressure is off of him. [chuckles] 497 00:20:34,667 --> 00:20:37,100 Because, let's be real, 498 00:20:37,100 --> 00:20:39,233 Kody doesn't know me. 499 00:20:39,767 --> 00:20:40,867 [Rebekah] We were kind of... 500 00:20:40,867 --> 00:20:43,133 We had a conversation earlier about how to, like... 501 00:20:44,367 --> 00:20:46,367 split our loyalties. 502 00:20:46,367 --> 00:20:47,667 [Meri] I basically... I basically... 503 00:20:47,667 --> 00:20:48,700 You don't have to split 504 00:20:48,700 --> 00:20:50,100 -loyalties with me, Meri. -Mary can [indistinct] 505 00:20:50,100 --> 00:20:51,867 ...Nathan can stay with you. [laughs] 506 00:20:51,867 --> 00:20:53,300 [Kody] Oh, okay. 507 00:20:53,300 --> 00:20:55,667 -I told Nathan-- -Oh, that's actually a great idea. 508 00:20:55,667 --> 00:20:58,867 I told Nathan, "You're going to have to choose." 509 00:20:58,867 --> 00:21:02,166 I chose the blonde with the long hair. 510 00:21:02,166 --> 00:21:03,467 [Kody] Wow! 511 00:21:03,467 --> 00:21:04,767 Oh, my goodness. 512 00:21:04,767 --> 00:21:06,867 Well, everybody's got a good sense of humor about it. 513 00:21:06,867 --> 00:21:08,066 It's just final. 514 00:21:08,066 --> 00:21:10,934 It's been what it is for so many years. 515 00:21:11,567 --> 00:21:14,700 -It's sad. -Why is it sad to you? 516 00:21:14,700 --> 00:21:16,900 Just the end of an era, you know, just... 517 00:21:17,467 --> 00:21:18,300 Whether it works or not, 518 00:21:18,300 --> 00:21:22,367 it's still sad when it doesn't work. 519 00:21:22,367 --> 00:21:25,000 You know, I literally have good days and bad days. 520 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:25,767 And for a couple of years, 521 00:21:25,767 --> 00:21:27,300 I think they were all bad days. 522 00:21:27,300 --> 00:21:28,433 Okay, fine, 523 00:21:29,100 --> 00:21:31,266 we're going to grow up now. 524 00:21:31,266 --> 00:21:33,467 We're going to say, "Divorce happens. 525 00:21:33,467 --> 00:21:36,000 Yeah, you're pissed off about it, 526 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,767 but we're going to grow up now 527 00:21:37,767 --> 00:21:40,066 and put on a smiley face." 528 00:21:40,066 --> 00:21:43,867 I think his realization after I took the steps 529 00:21:43,867 --> 00:21:46,000 for the separation through the church, 530 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,867 I think that realization kind of hit him 531 00:21:49,867 --> 00:21:52,467 a little bit different than maybe he expected. 532 00:21:52,467 --> 00:21:54,533 Different than I expected it to hit him. 533 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,000 Like, I think he was just shocked. 534 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,166 Like he was like, "Wait, like--" 535 00:21:59,166 --> 00:22:00,266 [Rebekah] That you actually went and did 536 00:22:00,266 --> 00:22:01,266 that part of it? Or... 537 00:22:01,266 --> 00:22:03,000 Yeah, he was like, "Why did it happen so fast?" 538 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,667 -[chuckles] You know what I mean? -[Kody] Mmm... Maybe. 539 00:22:04,667 --> 00:22:07,400 Maybe it's like, you know, I sort of understand. 540 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:08,567 I sort of get it. 541 00:22:08,567 --> 00:22:10,900 I was surprised. 542 00:22:10,900 --> 00:22:14,300 [Rebekah] Well, I mean, from looking in... 543 00:22:14,300 --> 00:22:15,500 And honestly... 544 00:22:15,500 --> 00:22:18,767 Well, I don't know where you and Janelle stand. 545 00:22:18,767 --> 00:22:20,300 As far as I've heard, you're separated. 546 00:22:20,300 --> 00:22:21,333 I don't know if there's any... 547 00:22:21,333 --> 00:22:22,967 No, she's just not interested in a relationship. 548 00:22:22,967 --> 00:22:26,066 She's just, plumb, not interested in a relationship. 549 00:22:26,066 --> 00:22:29,400 They were... It was more like they left. 550 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:30,800 What do you mean "in this situation"? 551 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,500 I mean, so you're saying it's my own darn fault? 552 00:22:32,500 --> 00:22:33,900 I was like, "Well, yeah, because you're the one 553 00:22:33,900 --> 00:22:36,100 that said you didn't want to be married to her." [laughs] 554 00:22:36,100 --> 00:22:37,867 -[Kody] I know, but-- -[Rebekah] You know? I mean... 555 00:22:37,867 --> 00:22:39,667 -[Kody] I mean, there's a reason-- -With this situation, it's-- 556 00:22:39,667 --> 00:22:42,000 It's like, you can keep going down that road, 557 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,567 and nothing's going to change. 558 00:22:43,567 --> 00:22:45,166 And I'm not blaming. 559 00:22:45,166 --> 00:22:46,367 It's just like we... 560 00:22:46,367 --> 00:22:48,700 That's not a road for us any longer. 561 00:22:49,567 --> 00:22:51,667 And that is sad. 562 00:22:51,667 --> 00:22:55,166 I'm guilty of marrying people I wasn't in love with. 563 00:22:55,166 --> 00:22:58,000 I just think that he has amnesia 564 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,600 [chuckles] when it comes to the past 565 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,400 because he... 566 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,700 You know, you just can't keep up 567 00:23:03,700 --> 00:23:06,300 that kind of pretense for 20 years. 568 00:23:06,300 --> 00:23:07,767 I know what happened. 569 00:23:07,767 --> 00:23:09,600 He can say whatever he wants. 570 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:10,600 It's fine. 571 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,900 Because I just don't care anymore. [chuckles] 572 00:23:12,900 --> 00:23:14,767 This is Kody's current theme, 573 00:23:14,767 --> 00:23:16,500 and that is that he never loved 574 00:23:16,500 --> 00:23:18,266 me or Janelle or Christine. 575 00:23:18,266 --> 00:23:20,500 It's getting to the point that it's annoying. 576 00:23:20,500 --> 00:23:22,467 Gosh, Kody, just man up 577 00:23:22,467 --> 00:23:25,266 and be honest. 578 00:23:25,266 --> 00:23:28,266 I know that I put everything that I could into it 579 00:23:28,266 --> 00:23:30,600 and I would still put into it. 580 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,266 But I also know that it's not something 581 00:23:33,266 --> 00:23:35,000 that is comfortable for him 582 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,467 or right for him or good for him, 583 00:23:36,467 --> 00:23:40,066 and that's not fair to either of us. 584 00:23:40,066 --> 00:23:43,166 I don't always know what to believe. 585 00:23:43,166 --> 00:23:44,667 The eternal marriage. 586 00:23:44,667 --> 00:23:46,567 I think the, "Don't get divorced. 587 00:23:46,567 --> 00:23:48,000 Jesus said not to get divorced." 588 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,367 But it's a big concept. 589 00:23:50,367 --> 00:23:52,266 I don't know what to think about it. 590 00:23:52,266 --> 00:23:54,700 Other than it offends me to think 591 00:23:54,700 --> 00:23:56,900 that I would be stuck with those three women. 592 00:23:58,967 --> 00:24:00,100 It literally does. 593 00:24:00,100 --> 00:24:01,767 It's like, it offends me 594 00:24:01,767 --> 00:24:05,100 to think that God would cause me 595 00:24:05,100 --> 00:24:07,367 or them to suffer. 596 00:24:07,367 --> 00:24:10,667 Let's let's hang on that and stop making people 597 00:24:10,667 --> 00:24:13,100 stay in these terrible relationships. 598 00:24:13,100 --> 00:24:16,467 When Sonny and Cher got divorced, I was six. 599 00:24:16,467 --> 00:24:18,266 Five. I was five. 600 00:24:18,266 --> 00:24:19,367 And it broke my heart. 601 00:24:19,367 --> 00:24:20,467 It freaked me out. I was, like, 602 00:24:20,467 --> 00:24:22,266 "Divorce is the biggest evil of..." 603 00:24:22,266 --> 00:24:25,266 You know, it was just something that saddened me. 604 00:24:25,266 --> 00:24:26,900 At six and seven years old, 605 00:24:26,900 --> 00:24:29,800 I had no awareness that the idea, 606 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,133 the concept of divorce 607 00:24:31,667 --> 00:24:32,467 was real. 608 00:24:32,467 --> 00:24:34,066 Sonny and Cher getting a divorce... 609 00:24:34,066 --> 00:24:35,266 Devastating. 610 00:24:35,266 --> 00:24:37,767 Like, "Does that really happen?" 611 00:24:37,767 --> 00:24:40,000 This isn't supposed to be part of the story 612 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,300 that I'm writing about myself. 613 00:24:42,300 --> 00:24:43,567 You know what I mean? 614 00:24:43,567 --> 00:24:45,000 You know, everybody's... Their story... 615 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,734 You're the author of your story. 616 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,300 My story has taken a turn. 617 00:24:51,567 --> 00:24:52,934 We've ridden the wave. 618 00:24:53,367 --> 00:24:55,600 We've crashed the ship. 619 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,900 We've survived, we're on the shore, 620 00:24:58,667 --> 00:25:00,233 but we crashed the ship. 621 00:25:02,166 --> 00:25:03,767 That's the realization. 622 00:25:03,767 --> 00:25:06,233 We crashed the ship. 623 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:08,800 And that does... 624 00:25:10,767 --> 00:25:12,600 make me terribly sad. 625 00:25:15,066 --> 00:25:17,233 [indistinct conversation] 626 00:25:17,667 --> 00:25:18,967 [Ysabel] Oh, my gosh. 627 00:25:18,967 --> 00:25:21,000 It makes me just a little bit uncomfortable... 628 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,700 Oh, what the heck? 629 00:25:23,066 --> 00:25:24,567 -Trueley! -Aargh! 630 00:25:24,567 --> 00:25:27,200 They always look away or harass us when we kiss, 631 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,834 but it's not going to stop us. 632 00:25:45,667 --> 00:25:47,266 No, we're not engaged. 633 00:25:47,266 --> 00:25:49,133 And here we are, looking at wedding venues. 634 00:25:51,100 --> 00:25:52,200 [David] I love going to Moab. 635 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,867 That's my favorite place to go. 636 00:25:53,867 --> 00:25:56,166 Because we started talking about wedding places 637 00:25:56,166 --> 00:25:57,266 and venues. 638 00:25:57,266 --> 00:25:59,467 And so you said, "Yeah, I'd like to go check it out." 639 00:25:59,467 --> 00:26:00,500 I'm like, "Yes!" 640 00:26:00,500 --> 00:26:01,867 I don't care where we go. 641 00:26:01,867 --> 00:26:03,700 I just care about my dress. 642 00:26:03,700 --> 00:26:05,367 I'm walking down the aisle to you. 643 00:26:05,367 --> 00:26:07,867 Well, if that's the case, so why didn't we go to Vegas, then? 644 00:26:07,867 --> 00:26:10,233 -I don't want a Vegas wedding. -[laughs] 645 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,700 Oh, my gosh. 646 00:26:12,700 --> 00:26:13,867 [woman] Hello. Good morning. 647 00:26:13,867 --> 00:26:15,166 -Hi. Good morning. -Hello, how are you? 648 00:26:15,166 --> 00:26:17,166 -Hi. -Are you David and Christine? 649 00:26:17,166 --> 00:26:18,800 -[David and Christine] Yes, we are. -I'm Shelley. 650 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,166 -Oh, hi! Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 651 00:26:20,166 --> 00:26:21,100 -Nice to meet you. -Hi. 652 00:26:21,100 --> 00:26:22,300 -Good to meet you. -How was your drive in? 653 00:26:22,300 --> 00:26:23,867 -Lovely. It's beautiful. -Wonderful. 654 00:26:23,867 --> 00:26:26,166 I think you guys are looking at fall dates, kind of. 655 00:26:26,166 --> 00:26:27,767 -[Christine] We are. Yeah. -[David] Yeah. Yeah. 656 00:26:27,767 --> 00:26:30,300 All right. So I'm going to show you some venue options. 657 00:26:30,300 --> 00:26:32,000 I do know your party is quite large... 658 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,400 -Yes. -[Shelley] ...so we'll have to find 659 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,266 -some different solutions with that. -Okay. 660 00:26:35,266 --> 00:26:36,967 But I'll show you all the areas 661 00:26:36,967 --> 00:26:38,967 -and show you a few rooms. -[Christine] Wonderful. 662 00:26:38,967 --> 00:26:40,000 And then kind of go from there. 663 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,500 I think I was more in on the plan than you were, 664 00:26:42,500 --> 00:26:44,800 because I just said, "You ready to look at rings?" 665 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,000 And you went, "What?" 666 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,100 It's like, I was aggressive at first, 667 00:26:47,100 --> 00:26:48,000 but then you were like, 668 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,567 "We need to get rings, we need to look-- 669 00:26:49,567 --> 00:26:51,000 Let's go look at wedding venues." 670 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,767 And it was like, "Okay. Okay." 671 00:26:52,767 --> 00:26:55,066 Oh, yes! 672 00:26:55,066 --> 00:26:55,967 [David] This is cool. 673 00:26:55,967 --> 00:26:58,400 So this is what we call the Colorado Room. 674 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,567 [Christine] Okay, so how many people in this room? 675 00:27:00,567 --> 00:27:02,300 [Shelley] We can do rectangle tables. 676 00:27:02,300 --> 00:27:03,467 We had a wedding in December 677 00:27:03,467 --> 00:27:05,367 that we fit 190 people in here. 678 00:27:05,367 --> 00:27:07,867 -Okay. -That was utilizing the stage 679 00:27:07,867 --> 00:27:09,667 as kind of like your head table. 680 00:27:09,667 --> 00:27:12,767 Okay, so we're thinking a minimum of 350. 681 00:27:12,767 --> 00:27:13,834 We were-- [chuckles] 682 00:27:13,834 --> 00:27:16,867 My daughter was just saying yesterday, they had... 683 00:27:16,867 --> 00:27:19,367 450 invitations were sent out for her wedding. 684 00:27:19,367 --> 00:27:22,166 And she's like, "Considering how big your family is 685 00:27:22,166 --> 00:27:23,133 and David's family, 686 00:27:23,133 --> 00:27:26,467 you're looking at, like, 700 people, probably." 687 00:27:26,467 --> 00:27:27,467 I mean, that's ridiculous. 688 00:27:27,467 --> 00:27:29,000 We don't want... That's insane. 689 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,567 -[Shelley laughs] -So we will need-- 690 00:27:30,567 --> 00:27:31,467 That's a lot of people. 691 00:27:31,467 --> 00:27:33,000 [Christine] We have really big families. 692 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:34,367 I have six kids, but then I have... 693 00:27:34,367 --> 00:27:36,867 We have 18 kids all together in my family. 694 00:27:36,867 --> 00:27:39,200 -And then David has... -I have eight kids. 695 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:40,367 Their spouses. 696 00:27:40,367 --> 00:27:41,400 -Yes. -Grandkids. 697 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:45,266 When you're part of David's life, you're family. 698 00:27:45,266 --> 00:27:47,166 If you want to limit it to 300, 699 00:27:47,166 --> 00:27:49,166 you only get to pick 150 people. 700 00:27:49,166 --> 00:27:50,700 [chuckles] 701 00:27:50,700 --> 00:27:52,867 If we did it here or out there... 702 00:27:52,867 --> 00:27:55,667 Have the wedding, and have, like, a tent, 703 00:27:55,667 --> 00:27:58,166 can you fit more people outside? 704 00:27:58,166 --> 00:27:59,166 Definitely, yes. 705 00:27:59,166 --> 00:28:02,200 Christine deserves to have a nice, big wedding 706 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:03,467 that she never had, 707 00:28:03,467 --> 00:28:06,166 and that's the thing that I want to give to her. 708 00:28:06,166 --> 00:28:08,133 Even though it would be cheaper to go to Vegas. 709 00:28:08,667 --> 00:28:10,100 Just saying. 710 00:28:10,100 --> 00:28:12,266 -Oh, this is cool out here. -[Christine laughs] 711 00:28:12,266 --> 00:28:13,533 This is beautiful. 712 00:28:13,533 --> 00:28:15,867 [Shelley] This is where the bride would come out, typically. 713 00:28:15,867 --> 00:28:19,100 -[Christine] Yeah. -[Shelley] And do her grand entrance here. 714 00:28:19,100 --> 00:28:20,000 [Christine chuckles] 715 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,367 [Shelley] So we've got the wedding deck. 716 00:28:21,367 --> 00:28:22,567 You can't beat this view. 717 00:28:22,567 --> 00:28:24,400 -It's beautiful. -No, you can't. 718 00:28:26,300 --> 00:28:29,300 [Kody] My wedding day with Christine was... [sighs] 719 00:28:29,300 --> 00:28:30,767 I'll be honest with you, I was very sad. 720 00:28:30,767 --> 00:28:32,900 I struggled to get work off for it. 721 00:28:33,567 --> 00:28:35,200 I had two wives in total. 722 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,867 One of them was pregnant. 723 00:28:37,867 --> 00:28:40,767 And when I arrived, I had a 1,000-yard stare 724 00:28:40,767 --> 00:28:42,634 with a bride that I... 725 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,834 was marrying in some form of obligation. 726 00:28:51,467 --> 00:28:52,567 I realize now that 727 00:28:52,567 --> 00:28:55,066 that was not fair to Christine. 728 00:28:55,066 --> 00:28:57,100 I'm wearing sneakers to your wedding. 729 00:28:57,100 --> 00:28:58,967 You can wear whatever you want to our wedding, baby. 730 00:28:58,967 --> 00:29:01,400 It probably would be advisable in the grass. 731 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,266 If you wear heels, you'll sink in it. 732 00:29:03,266 --> 00:29:04,967 Yeah. No, I want you comfortable. 733 00:29:04,967 --> 00:29:07,100 [David] She's gone. 734 00:29:07,100 --> 00:29:08,567 So this is our wedding deck area. 735 00:29:08,567 --> 00:29:10,467 This is where the chairs and everything... 736 00:29:10,467 --> 00:29:11,767 You would come out here. 737 00:29:11,767 --> 00:29:13,500 And then, I was thinking, 738 00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:15,567 if you are going to have that many people, 739 00:29:15,567 --> 00:29:18,000 we would want to utilize this grass area... 740 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,300 -[Christine] Yes -[Shelley] ...and possibly... 741 00:29:19,300 --> 00:29:21,100 What we call our River Deck down below. 742 00:29:21,100 --> 00:29:22,200 So we can go... 743 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,266 I'll take you guys down there to show you all that. 744 00:29:24,266 --> 00:29:25,800 -We can walk down here? -If we want to walk down here-- 745 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,367 Yeah. I'll take you guys to the stage 746 00:29:27,367 --> 00:29:29,266 -and you can check it out. -So this is where I would be to walk. 747 00:29:29,266 --> 00:29:32,000 -[Shelley] Yes. -Oh, what the heck? 748 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,367 -Trueley! -Aargh! 749 00:29:33,367 --> 00:29:34,200 [all laughing] 750 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,100 [Christine] Ha-ha! What's up, sucker? 751 00:29:36,100 --> 00:29:39,567 [chuckles] We've got Ysabel and Max and Trueley with us. 752 00:29:39,567 --> 00:29:41,066 -Yeah. -They always look away 753 00:29:41,066 --> 00:29:42,467 or harass us when we kiss. 754 00:29:42,467 --> 00:29:43,967 But it's not going to stop us. 755 00:29:43,967 --> 00:29:46,266 No, Trueley likes to break us up 756 00:29:46,266 --> 00:29:47,333 -from that. -She does. 757 00:29:47,333 --> 00:29:48,700 But it just means she wants to be hugged tighter. 758 00:29:48,700 --> 00:29:50,567 [David] See how big this place is right here. 759 00:29:50,567 --> 00:29:51,867 Can have a lot of people out here. 760 00:29:51,867 --> 00:29:53,066 Beautiful. Oh, God, not again. 761 00:29:53,066 --> 00:29:55,700 Yes, we would need to utilize probably most of this area. 762 00:29:55,700 --> 00:29:56,700 [David chuckles] 763 00:29:56,700 --> 00:29:58,900 Especially if you're to have almost 700 people. 764 00:29:58,900 --> 00:29:59,867 -[laughs] -Yeah. 765 00:29:59,867 --> 00:30:01,200 They don't like it necessarily, 766 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,900 but they don't not like it either. 767 00:30:02,900 --> 00:30:05,700 I think they like it, but it's just awkward to them 768 00:30:05,700 --> 00:30:08,467 that they see you being affectionate... 769 00:30:08,467 --> 00:30:10,467 -Yeah. Have your kids, like... -...with somebody. 770 00:30:10,467 --> 00:30:12,367 Did Max see be affectionate with somebody? 771 00:30:12,367 --> 00:30:13,400 Yeah, they did. 772 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,900 We won't go down that road. 773 00:30:14,900 --> 00:30:16,000 [laughs] 774 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,767 We won't go there. [chuckles] 775 00:30:17,767 --> 00:30:19,567 You guys are looking at a Sunday, right? 776 00:30:19,567 --> 00:30:20,333 Is that when you're wanting it? 777 00:30:20,333 --> 00:30:22,100 -Sunday, Saturday is fine. -Okay. 778 00:30:22,100 --> 00:30:23,867 The first available, this fall, 779 00:30:23,867 --> 00:30:25,133 that I have would be... 780 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,166 would be October 8th. 781 00:30:27,166 --> 00:30:29,400 During that time, in October, 782 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,367 just everything is green, blooming. 783 00:30:31,367 --> 00:30:33,000 -In October it's green here? -Yes, yes. 784 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,667 I can show you some pictures of mine. 785 00:30:34,667 --> 00:30:35,700 -So you can-- [laughs] -[Christine] Okay. 786 00:30:35,700 --> 00:30:37,300 -So you can see how green it is? -That'd be cool. 787 00:30:37,300 --> 00:30:38,967 Well, he saw a wedding here one time, 788 00:30:38,967 --> 00:30:40,300 and that's where he thought, like-- 789 00:30:40,300 --> 00:30:42,300 Oh, yeah. Like I said, I seen a wedding here, 790 00:30:42,300 --> 00:30:45,000 and I thought it'd be so cool to have a wedding here. 791 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,066 Little did I know that it could be me. 792 00:30:47,066 --> 00:30:48,400 [Shelley laughs] That it could be you. 793 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:49,500 [David] Mmm-hmm. 794 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,467 [Ysabel] Oh, my gosh. 795 00:30:51,467 --> 00:30:53,000 I think I'm still not used to my mom 796 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:54,700 being so affectionate with somebody else. 797 00:30:54,700 --> 00:30:55,967 Like, my dad and her... 798 00:30:55,967 --> 00:30:57,567 Not to, like, compare their relationship. 799 00:30:57,567 --> 00:30:59,800 But to me, this is what I'm familiar with. 800 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,367 So my dad and her weren't... 801 00:31:01,367 --> 00:31:02,767 They didn't hold hands in public. 802 00:31:02,767 --> 00:31:04,700 It makes me just a little bit uncomfortable, 803 00:31:04,700 --> 00:31:06,300 but, like, not in, like, a bad way. 804 00:31:06,300 --> 00:31:09,900 Yeah, it feels fast, but I've moved on, 805 00:31:09,900 --> 00:31:11,467 kind of. [chuckles] 806 00:31:11,467 --> 00:31:13,200 I'm really excited to walk down the aisle. 807 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:14,467 I've never had that experience before. 808 00:31:14,467 --> 00:31:16,100 Like, when I got married before, 809 00:31:16,100 --> 00:31:17,400 it's just a religious ceremony, 810 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,367 it's all indoors. 811 00:31:19,367 --> 00:31:21,900 Nope, I've never walked down the aisle. Never. 812 00:31:22,266 --> 00:31:23,166 Never had the walk-down. 813 00:31:23,166 --> 00:31:24,767 So when Maddie got married, 814 00:31:24,767 --> 00:31:28,133 and we were all there at her wedding... 815 00:31:31,667 --> 00:31:33,800 I was like, "Gosh, 816 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,367 this would have been great to get, actually," 817 00:31:36,367 --> 00:31:38,000 I even told Kody, I'm like, 818 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,767 "If we ever get married again..." 819 00:31:40,767 --> 00:31:42,300 Because I assumed I would just marry him again. 820 00:31:42,300 --> 00:31:45,066 You know, like a recommitment, whatever. 821 00:31:45,066 --> 00:31:47,000 "...I really want to walk down the aisle." 822 00:31:47,467 --> 00:31:50,166 And he's like, "Okay," so... 823 00:31:50,166 --> 00:31:52,900 Anyway, it didn't happen. It's fine. 824 00:31:52,900 --> 00:31:54,467 This would just be awesome to have, like, 825 00:31:54,467 --> 00:31:55,567 a walking down the aisle thing. 826 00:31:55,567 --> 00:31:57,100 So I'm super excited. 827 00:31:57,100 --> 00:31:58,533 Because I've never done that before. 828 00:31:59,300 --> 00:32:01,767 [Janelle] So when we married before in our church, 829 00:32:01,767 --> 00:32:02,767 it's not a big deal, 830 00:32:02,767 --> 00:32:06,000 like, there's not a big walk down the aisle. 831 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,600 It's a religious ceremony, and then afterwards, 832 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,266 you have kind of little bit of a party. 833 00:32:09,266 --> 00:32:11,667 We had a small, very, very small get-together 834 00:32:11,667 --> 00:32:13,266 at his mother's house. 835 00:32:13,266 --> 00:32:14,800 I didn't even have a dress. 836 00:32:15,867 --> 00:32:17,467 I thought I'd get you a ring. 837 00:32:17,467 --> 00:32:19,767 -Yeah, and you want to do that? -[chuckles] 838 00:32:19,767 --> 00:32:22,066 You won't like this at all. It's a string. 839 00:32:22,066 --> 00:32:23,266 It's a...[gasps] 840 00:32:23,266 --> 00:32:26,567 Kody, at the time that I was getting to know him and stuff, 841 00:32:26,567 --> 00:32:29,200 he had talked about how Christine and Janelle 842 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,567 didn't get what they deserved. 843 00:32:31,567 --> 00:32:34,900 And he said, "Marriage should be celebrated, 844 00:32:34,900 --> 00:32:37,066 and I've learned my lesson. 845 00:32:37,066 --> 00:32:40,533 And I'm not going to do that again." 846 00:32:42,567 --> 00:32:45,066 And I did it for the sake of him 847 00:32:45,066 --> 00:32:46,667 and what he wanted 848 00:32:46,667 --> 00:32:48,200 and what he believed and thought. 849 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,667 My wedding day and my reception 850 00:32:51,667 --> 00:32:53,100 was not about me. 851 00:32:53,100 --> 00:32:54,867 It wasn't about Kody and me. 852 00:32:54,867 --> 00:32:57,266 It was about celebrating a marriage, 853 00:32:57,266 --> 00:32:59,900 and it was about the family, and I made sure of that. 854 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,600 Trueley, stand up there under that arch right there. 855 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,133 [David] Pretend you're doing nothing. 856 00:33:10,266 --> 00:33:11,900 [David chuckles] 857 00:33:11,900 --> 00:33:13,133 [Christine chuckles] 858 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,500 See how cool this is up here. 859 00:33:15,500 --> 00:33:16,867 This is really cool, baby. 860 00:33:16,867 --> 00:33:18,700 Great place to have a wedding. 861 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,100 I'd marry you here. 862 00:33:23,367 --> 00:33:24,567 I'd marry you, too. 863 00:33:24,567 --> 00:33:27,767 [chuckles] Mmm. 864 00:33:27,767 --> 00:33:30,367 You know what? I've got a lot of vibes and feelings 865 00:33:30,367 --> 00:33:32,700 and thoughts about this experience 866 00:33:32,700 --> 00:33:35,200 that tend to make me feel bitter, 867 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,266 and so it's hard for me to even talk about 868 00:33:38,266 --> 00:33:39,867 my wedding day with Christine. 869 00:33:39,867 --> 00:33:42,400 [chuckles] God. I'm going to keep you. 870 00:33:44,667 --> 00:33:47,266 What I remember about the experience 871 00:33:47,266 --> 00:33:49,967 was that it was a very sad day. 872 00:33:49,967 --> 00:33:52,400 And when we broke up at the end, 873 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:57,667 it really made me question my life a lot. 874 00:33:57,667 --> 00:33:58,767 [Christine chuckles] 875 00:33:58,767 --> 00:33:59,600 [David] Really, really pretty. 876 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:01,166 [Christine] Oh baby, it's beautiful. 877 00:34:01,166 --> 00:34:03,133 -[David] So are you. -[Christine laughs] 878 00:34:11,467 --> 00:34:12,367 [David] I love you. 879 00:34:12,367 --> 00:34:13,233 [Christine] I love you. 880 00:34:14,100 --> 00:34:15,934 -[David] I love you. -[Christine sighs] 881 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,467 It's interesting to me 882 00:34:21,467 --> 00:34:22,900 that Meri and I are safe enough 883 00:34:22,900 --> 00:34:25,467 with each other right now to joke around. 884 00:34:25,467 --> 00:34:27,100 Yeah, you literally only have to use 885 00:34:27,100 --> 00:34:29,300 your leg and butt muscles. 886 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,333 [all laughing] 887 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,867 Why is our relationship now easier 888 00:34:34,867 --> 00:34:37,467 than it was three months ago? 889 00:34:37,467 --> 00:34:39,400 Or six years ago? 890 00:34:51,700 --> 00:34:54,100 [Shelley] This is what we call our Deluxe King Cabins. 891 00:34:54,100 --> 00:34:55,133 [Christine] Oh! 892 00:34:55,133 --> 00:34:58,600 These have been completely gutted and remodeled. 893 00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,900 [Christine] I don't care where we get married. 894 00:34:59,900 --> 00:35:01,166 It doesn't matter to me. 895 00:35:01,166 --> 00:35:03,400 But now that I've seen Red Cliffs Lodge... 896 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,066 Oh, the outside, walking down the hill, 897 00:35:06,066 --> 00:35:07,266 now it's very important. 898 00:35:07,266 --> 00:35:09,166 Now I'm like, "Oh, this is what I want now." 899 00:35:09,166 --> 00:35:11,867 But let's go ahead and go in, and I can show you this room. 900 00:35:11,867 --> 00:35:14,233 Yes, so this is our Deluxe King Cabin. 901 00:35:14,700 --> 00:35:15,634 One of the biggest reasons 902 00:35:15,634 --> 00:35:17,800 we want to have our wedding here, though, 903 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,600 not just the view or the hill or anything like that, 904 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:21,767 because it's a lodge. 905 00:35:21,767 --> 00:35:23,800 So our guests can stay here. 906 00:35:24,467 --> 00:35:26,066 So this is what I would recommend 907 00:35:26,066 --> 00:35:27,567 for the bride and groom. 908 00:35:27,567 --> 00:35:28,200 Nice. 909 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,367 -It's cozy. -It is cozy. 910 00:35:30,367 --> 00:35:32,467 It's warm and cozy in here. 911 00:35:32,467 --> 00:35:34,166 This is my first big wedding. 912 00:35:34,166 --> 00:35:35,867 My kids have had great weddings. 913 00:35:35,867 --> 00:35:38,100 Oh, my gosh, they were gorgeous. 914 00:35:38,100 --> 00:35:40,300 Just being around them was amazing, 915 00:35:40,300 --> 00:35:42,800 and planning them was fun. 916 00:35:45,367 --> 00:35:47,100 [crowd cheering] 917 00:35:48,367 --> 00:35:53,100 Ladies and gentlemen, Mr. and Mrs. Caleb Brush. 918 00:35:53,100 --> 00:35:55,100 [Christine] It was so great. So Maddie was first. 919 00:35:55,100 --> 00:35:56,467 It was a beautiful day. 920 00:35:56,467 --> 00:35:59,300 It was bohemian and outdoor, 921 00:35:59,300 --> 00:36:01,066 and lace everywhere, 922 00:36:01,066 --> 00:36:04,166 and it was just ethereal. 923 00:36:04,166 --> 00:36:06,567 It is now my pleasure to present to you 924 00:36:06,567 --> 00:36:08,767 Mr. and Mrs. Padron. 925 00:36:08,767 --> 00:36:11,133 Yes! We are married. 926 00:36:11,900 --> 00:36:13,700 [Christine] And then Mykelti's was a party. 927 00:36:13,700 --> 00:36:14,967 Big, huge party. 928 00:36:14,967 --> 00:36:16,133 It was amazing. 929 00:36:19,100 --> 00:36:20,900 And then Aspyn's was magical. 930 00:36:20,900 --> 00:36:22,500 It was very romantic. 931 00:36:23,367 --> 00:36:26,000 So being in those was when I realized... 932 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,700 "Kind of cool to have a soulmate. 933 00:36:27,700 --> 00:36:30,367 It'd be even cooler to have a really big wedding. 934 00:36:30,367 --> 00:36:32,900 But back then, it wasn't in my mind 935 00:36:32,900 --> 00:36:35,266 that I would leave Kody to get the wedding. 936 00:36:35,266 --> 00:36:38,100 I was more like, "Eh, it would have been nice, 937 00:36:38,100 --> 00:36:40,667 but it's just not going to happen." 938 00:36:40,667 --> 00:36:42,000 But now it's going to happen. 939 00:36:42,667 --> 00:36:44,800 I'm gonna get a big wedding. 940 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:51,767 [indistinct conversation] 941 00:36:51,767 --> 00:36:54,667 Have a seat fully and deeply on this couch. 942 00:36:54,667 --> 00:36:55,467 Okay. 943 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,533 -[Meri] Wow. -Did you see the pump? 944 00:36:59,367 --> 00:37:01,400 Oh! I did have to pump. Okay. 945 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:02,533 Okay. 946 00:37:03,867 --> 00:37:06,367 I sprang from the couch. Whoa! 947 00:37:06,367 --> 00:37:08,200 -[laughs] -I sprung! 948 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:09,567 You did not... [indistinct] 949 00:37:09,567 --> 00:37:11,567 [Meri chuckles] You guys are so dumb. 950 00:37:11,567 --> 00:37:12,667 It's interesting to me 951 00:37:12,667 --> 00:37:14,200 that Meri and I are safe enough 952 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,367 with each other right now to joke around. 953 00:37:16,367 --> 00:37:18,000 There's a burden that's been lifted 954 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,000 somehow or another, at least in this moment. 955 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,667 Yeah, you literally only have to use 956 00:37:21,667 --> 00:37:23,900 your leg and butt muscles. 957 00:37:24,266 --> 00:37:26,033 [all laughing] 958 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,467 Why is our relationship now easier 959 00:37:29,467 --> 00:37:32,066 than it was three months ago? 960 00:37:32,066 --> 00:37:34,100 Or six years ago? 961 00:37:34,100 --> 00:37:35,767 -Hey, Meri. -[Meri] Yeah? 962 00:37:35,767 --> 00:37:37,200 [Kody] We want to put the coffee table in next. 963 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,967 You want to grab a tape for me? 964 00:37:38,967 --> 00:37:40,367 Yes. 965 00:37:40,367 --> 00:37:42,900 It's weird. I have no idea. 966 00:37:45,567 --> 00:37:46,667 [Christine] It is gorgeous. 967 00:37:46,667 --> 00:37:47,800 We'll go in there in just a second. 968 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:48,700 Is that a mini hot tub? 969 00:37:48,700 --> 00:37:49,900 -It is a mini hot tub. -[Christine] What? 970 00:37:49,900 --> 00:37:51,467 -Yes! -Yay! 971 00:37:51,467 --> 00:37:53,100 -[David] We're not getting in it, okay? -[Christine] What? 972 00:37:53,100 --> 00:37:54,467 -[David] Too cold. -Yes! 973 00:37:54,467 --> 00:37:56,567 Oh, come on, baby, this will be perfect. 974 00:37:56,567 --> 00:37:57,900 -[chuckles] -That's it. We have to stay in this one. 975 00:37:57,900 --> 00:37:59,367 I know you have your RV and everything, 976 00:37:59,367 --> 00:38:01,066 but I think this might be happening. 977 00:38:01,066 --> 00:38:02,967 -Oh, yeah? It's cold. -Well... 978 00:38:02,967 --> 00:38:04,333 I ain't going in there right now. 979 00:38:04,333 --> 00:38:06,367 -Well, no, babe. We're not [indistinct]. -This is not Polar Express. 980 00:38:06,367 --> 00:38:07,767 In plural marriages, 981 00:38:07,767 --> 00:38:09,500 some of the people try to make them 982 00:38:09,500 --> 00:38:11,000 as traditional as they can. 983 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,600 When Robin and I got married, 984 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,867 she did not want to do the whole traditional thing. 985 00:38:14,867 --> 00:38:17,600 She wanted, basically, a private elopement. 986 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:22,000 And I was like, "No, I'm tired of hiding plural marriage. 987 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,500 I want a celebration." 988 00:38:23,967 --> 00:38:25,600 [inaudible] 989 00:38:26,500 --> 00:38:27,767 When Kody and Robyn got married, 990 00:38:27,767 --> 00:38:28,800 oh, it was awesome. 991 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:29,600 It was a great day. 992 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,200 Robyn was an incredible plural wife. 993 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,900 Like, she, like, said, you know, 994 00:38:33,900 --> 00:38:35,467 "I want everybody to have a special day. 995 00:38:35,467 --> 00:38:37,800 I want it to be a family day, a family celebration." 996 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,300 I've been to many plural weddings 997 00:38:40,300 --> 00:38:41,867 where they weren't... 998 00:38:41,867 --> 00:38:42,667 Where they looked like they were 999 00:38:42,667 --> 00:38:44,667 really difficult for the other wives. 1000 00:38:44,667 --> 00:38:46,100 Maybe that's why plural weddings 1001 00:38:46,100 --> 00:38:47,500 are more hush-hush. 1002 00:38:47,500 --> 00:38:51,000 Because the wives really have a hard day that day. 1003 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:54,200 We got you a little welcome-to-the-club gift. 1004 00:38:59,266 --> 00:39:03,166 My main goal was to make sure that... 1005 00:39:03,166 --> 00:39:05,500 that I was not that 1006 00:39:05,500 --> 00:39:07,567 sister wife that was insensitive. 1007 00:39:07,567 --> 00:39:09,467 They were involved in every single piece of it, 1008 00:39:09,467 --> 00:39:12,066 and I wanted them to feel safe and comfortable. 1009 00:39:12,066 --> 00:39:15,900 And I have had them say that it was, to my face. 1010 00:39:17,500 --> 00:39:20,800 Yeah, like they're all moving on. [chuckles] 1011 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,700 [scoffs] I feel like the idiot that got left behind. 1012 00:39:25,667 --> 00:39:28,300 And then we've got your king bedroom 1013 00:39:28,300 --> 00:39:30,500 -with a full walk-in closet. -Oh! 1014 00:39:30,500 --> 00:39:33,166 Yes. Yes. 1015 00:39:33,166 --> 00:39:34,300 I like this. 1016 00:39:34,300 --> 00:39:36,500 -[Christine] This is nice. -[David] I like this a lot. 1017 00:39:37,500 --> 00:39:40,266 -Just checking the bed. That's all. -[chuckles] God. 1018 00:39:40,266 --> 00:39:42,500 [Shelley chuckles] It's got to be comfortable, right? 1019 00:39:42,500 --> 00:39:44,500 -That's right. -It has to be comfortable. 1020 00:39:44,500 --> 00:39:46,767 This is really cool. This is beautiful. 1021 00:39:46,767 --> 00:39:48,700 You definitely did a good job 1022 00:39:48,700 --> 00:39:50,467 of redoing it, it's really nice. 1023 00:39:50,467 --> 00:39:52,133 -[Christine] Thanks. -You're welcome. 1024 00:39:53,367 --> 00:39:54,500 [softly] I really like it a lot. 1025 00:39:54,500 --> 00:39:55,867 I like it a lot, too. 1026 00:39:55,867 --> 00:39:58,066 -[softly] Yeah. -[chuckles] 1027 00:39:58,066 --> 00:40:00,667 [Christine] So we'll invite Janelle to our wedding. 1028 00:40:00,667 --> 00:40:02,467 And then Janelle's kids. 1029 00:40:02,467 --> 00:40:03,800 Leon, for sure. 1030 00:40:04,166 --> 00:40:05,333 Meri's child. 1031 00:40:05,333 --> 00:40:09,367 I am not ready to be around Meri and Robyn and Kody yet. 1032 00:40:09,367 --> 00:40:10,867 Perfect. Thank you. 1033 00:40:10,867 --> 00:40:12,133 Thank you. I think I... 1034 00:40:12,133 --> 00:40:14,266 After all this, I think we at least deserve a hug now, right? 1035 00:40:14,266 --> 00:40:15,400 -Yes! -[indistinct] a handshake. 1036 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:16,967 -Okay. -[Christine laughs] 1037 00:40:16,967 --> 00:40:18,300 I gave that a hug. 1038 00:40:18,300 --> 00:40:19,367 [David] No problem. 1039 00:40:19,367 --> 00:40:20,567 Oh, it was great meeting you guys. 1040 00:40:20,567 --> 00:40:21,600 Great to meet you, too. 1041 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,000 And I hope that you choose Red Cliffs for your... 1042 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,567 for your venue and your beautiful wedding. 1043 00:40:26,567 --> 00:40:27,500 -Yes, we will. -Thank you. 1044 00:40:27,500 --> 00:40:28,367 Thank you very much. 1045 00:40:28,367 --> 00:40:29,500 -Thank you. -Thank you. 1046 00:40:29,500 --> 00:40:32,166 For our wedding, the biggest hope... 1047 00:40:32,166 --> 00:40:34,900 [exhales] to have everybody there. 1048 00:40:35,867 --> 00:40:39,367 Really having all of our kids there to support us 1049 00:40:39,367 --> 00:40:40,767 and just being surrounded by family, 1050 00:40:40,767 --> 00:40:42,133 that's the vision. 1051 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,400 All right, see you. 1052 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,166 -She'll see you at home, Nathan. -I don't even know-- 1053 00:40:46,166 --> 00:40:47,800 Do we have time for lunch on the way? 1054 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:48,700 [Nathan] Absolutely. 1055 00:40:48,700 --> 00:40:49,867 Awesome. 1056 00:40:51,266 --> 00:40:53,467 I've been wearing my pain on my sleeve 1057 00:40:53,467 --> 00:40:55,266 for two, three years. 1058 00:40:55,266 --> 00:40:58,367 I really am tired of the pain. 1059 00:40:58,367 --> 00:41:00,900 Maybe it's a really good idea just to lighten up. 1060 00:41:01,266 --> 00:41:02,066 And that's what it is. 1061 00:41:02,066 --> 00:41:03,867 It's like, when your heart's dark, 1062 00:41:03,867 --> 00:41:05,166 you just got to lighten up. 1063 00:41:05,166 --> 00:41:06,767 And I know this will pass. 1064 00:41:06,767 --> 00:41:07,767 I know it will. 1065 00:41:07,767 --> 00:41:10,166 But I've already gone through, 1066 00:41:10,166 --> 00:41:12,166 like, the destruction of my family. 1067 00:41:12,166 --> 00:41:13,200 But who cares? 1068 00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,266 That's happened. It's been dark. 1069 00:41:15,266 --> 00:41:17,500 And I will move through this. 1070 00:41:18,266 --> 00:41:20,300 [laughs] And then I fell. 1071 00:41:20,300 --> 00:41:21,266 [David chuckles] 1072 00:41:21,266 --> 00:41:22,667 Okay, pictures. 1073 00:41:22,667 --> 00:41:25,100 One, two, three. Say cheese! 1074 00:41:25,100 --> 00:41:26,700 -Cheese! -Cheese. 1075 00:41:26,700 --> 00:41:29,467 [Christine] I've never felt this special before. 1076 00:41:29,467 --> 00:41:31,400 It's incredible to feel loved. 1077 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,967 And to feel special. 1078 00:41:33,967 --> 00:41:37,667 And to plan a beautiful day, 1079 00:41:37,667 --> 00:41:39,400 knowing that you're marrying the love of your life. 1080 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:40,467 Oh, gosh. 1081 00:41:40,467 --> 00:41:43,000 I had no idea. It's amazing. 1082 00:41:43,367 --> 00:41:45,500 I wish this for everybody. 1083 00:41:45,500 --> 00:41:47,567 [Kody] Next time, on Sister Wives. 1084 00:41:47,567 --> 00:41:48,900 So today is my birthday, 1085 00:41:48,900 --> 00:41:52,467 and I get to finally see my carriage house. 1086 00:41:52,467 --> 00:41:53,867 And we can do my... 1087 00:41:53,867 --> 00:41:55,667 -[man] TRX. -...pole dancing. 1088 00:41:55,667 --> 00:41:57,867 -I mean, TRX. -[woman laughs] 1089 00:41:57,867 --> 00:41:59,266 I'm officially a single woman, 1090 00:41:59,266 --> 00:42:03,000 and that's weird to wrap my head around. 1091 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:04,567 [Christine] David's going to come over for dinner. 1092 00:42:04,567 --> 00:42:06,300 Some of my kids are great with David, 1093 00:42:06,300 --> 00:42:09,000 some of my kids are like, "Hmm..." 1094 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:13,166 It does seem really, really, really fast. 1095 00:42:13,166 --> 00:42:14,900 I always felt like your life centered 1096 00:42:14,900 --> 00:42:17,133 so much about Robyn's house. 1097 00:42:17,467 --> 00:42:18,433 That's his sacred cow. 1098 00:42:18,433 --> 00:42:21,166 "She's perfect. Don't dare talk about her." 1099 00:42:21,166 --> 00:42:22,400 I'm like, "Well, dude, how do you expect 1100 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:23,867 to be in a plural marriage with me, 1101 00:42:23,867 --> 00:42:26,266 if you have this person that you worship?" 1102 00:42:26,266 --> 00:42:28,767 Janelle has a card that says "victim" on it. 1103 00:42:28,767 --> 00:42:29,900 She likes to play it.