1 00:00:01,034 --> 00:00:02,551 [Kody] Previously on Sister Wives... 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,689 - Dang! - [Christine] It's nice, huh? 3 00:00:06,689 --> 00:00:08,482 - Yeah, it's really nice. - [Christine] We love it. 4 00:00:08,482 --> 00:00:10,586 David and I are moving in together. 5 00:00:10,586 --> 00:00:12,655 We're moving in together. Oh, my gosh. 6 00:00:12,655 --> 00:00:13,758 We only met a couple of... 7 00:00:13,758 --> 00:00:16,517 We only met a couple of months ago. [laughs] 8 00:00:22,896 --> 00:00:23,793 - Right. - No one. 9 00:00:23,793 --> 00:00:24,896 Argh. 10 00:00:24,896 --> 00:00:27,448 There's not anything, really. I'm free. 11 00:00:27,448 --> 00:00:28,482 What do you mean by free? 12 00:00:28,482 --> 00:00:30,103 Well, I mean, Kody and I 13 00:00:30,103 --> 00:00:32,448 have officially said it's not working. 14 00:00:32,448 --> 00:00:34,689 - Really? - I guess we had to officially say it. 15 00:00:34,689 --> 00:00:37,379 I mean, I wish things in the family 16 00:00:37,379 --> 00:00:39,137 could have gone a different way. 17 00:00:39,137 --> 00:00:41,000 Yeah, me too. [sighs] 18 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:42,172 [woman] Hello. 19 00:00:42,172 --> 00:00:44,275 - You can set the gifts... - Hey. 20 00:00:44,275 --> 00:00:47,482 Yeah, Robyn and I are going over to Gwendlyn's bridal shower. 21 00:00:47,482 --> 00:00:50,000 [Meri] Hi, David. It's good to meet you. 22 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,689 We found out that Christine was bringing her boyfriend. 23 00:00:53,689 --> 00:00:55,379 It was a little shocking. 24 00:00:55,379 --> 00:00:56,793 They'll stay on their side, 25 00:00:56,793 --> 00:00:59,068 and we'll just try to not bother them. 26 00:00:59,068 --> 00:01:02,586 [Christine] And so I'm posing with David, and then David goes, 27 00:01:02,586 --> 00:01:03,862 "This is my favorite place, 28 00:01:03,862 --> 00:01:06,103 and you're my favorite person to be with." 29 00:01:09,310 --> 00:01:11,551 [theme music playing] 30 00:01:29,896 --> 00:01:32,034 [upbeat music playing] 31 00:01:35,517 --> 00:01:38,482 Who put marshmallows on their pizza? 32 00:01:38,482 --> 00:01:41,758 - [all laughing] - Guess. 33 00:01:41,758 --> 00:01:42,862 Oh. 34 00:01:42,862 --> 00:01:44,379 Tonight a bunch of our kids are coming over. 35 00:01:44,379 --> 00:01:45,586 We have something very exciting 36 00:01:45,586 --> 00:01:46,931 that we're gonna share with them. 37 00:01:47,620 --> 00:01:49,482 That we're engaged. 38 00:01:49,482 --> 00:01:51,068 So you guys... Oh, the pizza stuff. 39 00:01:51,068 --> 00:01:52,758 There's red sauce, 40 00:01:52,758 --> 00:01:54,793 or there's Alfredo sauce behind you. 41 00:01:54,793 --> 00:01:57,344 [Aspyn] Raegan will be an adult and help you. 42 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,137 I have never been an adult in my life. 43 00:02:01,137 --> 00:02:02,379 I don't know how. 44 00:02:02,379 --> 00:02:07,517 So David's kids and my kids are synching up so well. 45 00:02:08,620 --> 00:02:10,379 I can tell like the kids felt like 46 00:02:10,379 --> 00:02:12,689 it's happening way too fast. 47 00:02:12,689 --> 00:02:14,241 And we know it. But we don't care. 48 00:02:14,241 --> 00:02:15,482 It's our lives, not theirs. 49 00:02:15,482 --> 00:02:17,448 Come on, let's twirl it. Ready? 50 00:02:17,448 --> 00:02:19,000 - [laughs] - Go, go, go. 51 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,379 I can't do it. 52 00:02:20,379 --> 00:02:22,482 [Christine] Ysabel is doing better and better and better. 53 00:02:22,482 --> 00:02:26,000 I already told her that David and I are engaged. 54 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:30,034 What if you did the red sauce and Alfredo sauce? 55 00:02:30,034 --> 00:02:31,206 Oh. 56 00:02:31,206 --> 00:02:33,137 [Christine] I felt like she deserved to know 57 00:02:33,137 --> 00:02:35,896 'cause she's gonna struggle with it most with my kids. 58 00:02:35,896 --> 00:02:38,689 She was like, "Wait, what? You're getting married?" 59 00:02:38,689 --> 00:02:40,379 And I said, "You knew we were getting married. 60 00:02:40,379 --> 00:02:41,793 It's not too soon. 61 00:02:41,793 --> 00:02:43,172 We just move fast now. 62 00:02:43,172 --> 00:02:45,448 But now nothing else is happening. 63 00:02:45,448 --> 00:02:47,896 We moved in with each other, we're engaged. 64 00:02:47,896 --> 00:02:48,931 Nothing else. 65 00:02:48,931 --> 00:02:51,103 Until, like, have, like, wedding planning stuff. 66 00:02:51,103 --> 00:02:52,275 This is it." 67 00:02:52,275 --> 00:02:55,379 We took some videos in Moab. I wanna show you guys. 68 00:02:55,379 --> 00:02:58,000 So I told everybody that I have a video to show them of the wedding venue 69 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,172 so they could all kind of get a preview. 70 00:03:00,172 --> 00:03:03,275 We took some photos when we were in Moab. 71 00:03:03,275 --> 00:03:05,172 So Mom is a very theatrical person, 72 00:03:05,172 --> 00:03:07,344 and she likes to make big surprises. 73 00:03:07,344 --> 00:03:11,448 But she's also a very open person that doesn't hide anything. 74 00:03:12,482 --> 00:03:14,931 [Raegan] Pretty sure that's another woman. 75 00:03:15,689 --> 00:03:17,793 - [Paedon] Who is that? - [laughs] 76 00:03:17,793 --> 00:03:19,103 [Paedon] Oh, crap. 77 00:03:19,103 --> 00:03:20,482 Oh, my gosh. 78 00:03:20,482 --> 00:03:22,241 - [Raegan] Wait, what? - [Aspyn] Wow. 79 00:03:22,241 --> 00:03:25,275 - [Christine laughs] - Wait, what? You two are engaged? 80 00:03:25,275 --> 00:03:26,758 - [laughs] - Can we see the ring? 81 00:03:26,758 --> 00:03:28,896 - What is going on here? - Ring! Ring! Ring! 82 00:03:28,896 --> 00:03:32,241 She also wanted us to react to it properly. 83 00:03:32,241 --> 00:03:35,689 [gasps] Oh, my gosh! You guys are engaged? What? 84 00:03:35,689 --> 00:03:38,482 I think people just put it together really fast. 85 00:03:38,482 --> 00:03:42,068 But, no, he could have been quiet and let us reveal it. 86 00:03:42,068 --> 00:03:43,793 Ah, rubbish. 87 00:03:43,793 --> 00:03:45,275 Wow. 88 00:03:45,275 --> 00:03:48,862 - What? Oh, my gosh! - Oh, hot damn. 89 00:03:48,862 --> 00:03:51,586 Engaged, really? Really, it's... 90 00:03:51,586 --> 00:03:54,034 been, like, what, two days? Three days maybe? 91 00:03:54,034 --> 00:03:55,689 I just met the guy. What's going on here? 92 00:03:55,689 --> 00:03:57,172 I just know it went quick. 93 00:03:57,172 --> 00:03:59,586 - It's nice. We had designed it. - Is it real? 94 00:03:59,586 --> 00:04:02,482 - Is it real? - [David] Wow. Wow. 95 00:04:02,482 --> 00:04:04,000 Yeah, it's real. Just like David's real. 96 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,793 Until seeing Mom as happy as she is with David, 97 00:04:06,793 --> 00:04:10,896 I don't think I realized how unhappy she was with Dad. 98 00:04:10,896 --> 00:04:13,551 - So guess what. We're engaged. - That's a real... 99 00:04:13,551 --> 00:04:15,275 - [laughs] - [all cheering] 100 00:04:15,275 --> 00:04:17,482 No. What? 101 00:04:17,482 --> 00:04:18,793 [Aspyn] It's nice to see this. 102 00:04:18,793 --> 00:04:21,241 I'm happy she has this experience 103 00:04:21,241 --> 00:04:23,586 and that she's happy with David and can be herself. 104 00:04:23,586 --> 00:04:25,379 - Congratulations, guys. We're happy. - [Christine] Thank you. 105 00:04:25,379 --> 00:04:28,000 - So when's the wedding? - October 7. 106 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:29,482 Okay, I like it. 107 00:04:29,482 --> 00:04:32,965 [laughs] We're getting married in seven months. 108 00:04:32,965 --> 00:04:34,241 [sighs] 109 00:04:34,241 --> 00:04:35,793 I guess, you know, it takes a while to plan a wedding. 110 00:04:35,793 --> 00:04:38,413 So, yeah, the work is now beginning. 111 00:04:49,689 --> 00:04:51,172 [Meri] Today is moving day. 112 00:04:51,172 --> 00:04:53,068 I'm super excited. It's gonna be a big day. 113 00:04:53,068 --> 00:04:56,000 There's a lot that we still need to pack up and get moved. 114 00:04:59,724 --> 00:05:01,482 Kody and Nathan will both be here, 115 00:05:01,482 --> 00:05:03,965 and they will be the muscle and be able to help me 116 00:05:03,965 --> 00:05:05,758 move everything in and get it all packed up. 117 00:05:05,758 --> 00:05:08,758 And then Kody will be driving the truck up to Parowan for me. 118 00:05:09,689 --> 00:05:11,482 - Hey, Meri. - Hi. 119 00:05:11,482 --> 00:05:13,068 Hail Mary. 120 00:05:13,068 --> 00:05:14,310 - [Meri] Hey, oh. - Full of grace. 121 00:05:14,310 --> 00:05:16,655 My feelings on this issue are probably a little mixed, 122 00:05:16,655 --> 00:05:18,275 but I'm very glad I'm able to help her move. 123 00:05:18,275 --> 00:05:20,758 I'm very good with her moving on. 124 00:05:20,758 --> 00:05:23,103 - Hello. How are you? - Hi. 125 00:05:23,103 --> 00:05:25,241 I hope this is a goodwill gesture 126 00:05:25,241 --> 00:05:27,379 that will keep us in a good place with each other. 127 00:05:27,379 --> 00:05:28,965 Hey, I got a bomb to drop. 128 00:05:28,965 --> 00:05:30,793 There are no bombs anymore, Meri. 129 00:05:30,793 --> 00:05:33,172 - Do you know what today is? - [Kody] I do know what today is. 130 00:05:33,172 --> 00:05:34,931 [laughs] 131 00:05:36,068 --> 00:05:38,034 Do I know what today is? 132 00:05:38,034 --> 00:05:39,793 - Well-- - It's our anniversary. 133 00:05:39,793 --> 00:05:41,862 It would-- It's not anymore. 134 00:05:41,862 --> 00:05:44,137 - Well-- - It would have been. 135 00:05:44,137 --> 00:05:46,379 I wonder if she picked this day on purpose. 136 00:05:46,379 --> 00:05:50,586 This was not planned. This was not intentional. 137 00:05:50,586 --> 00:05:53,896 Today would have been mine and Kody's 33rd anniversary. 138 00:05:53,896 --> 00:05:57,275 It's almost like it's God, the universe, whatever, 139 00:05:57,275 --> 00:06:01,655 like, "You have done your time. Move on." 140 00:06:01,655 --> 00:06:03,896 [Nathan] Is that why you wore the karma shirt? 141 00:06:03,896 --> 00:06:07,965 I mean, [laughs] karma's a bitch. 142 00:06:07,965 --> 00:06:10,448 - [laughs] - [Kody] Oh, my goodness. 143 00:06:10,448 --> 00:06:12,862 I'm just laying the cards out on the table. 144 00:06:12,862 --> 00:06:15,586 This is who I am. It doesn't matter anymore. 145 00:06:15,586 --> 00:06:16,689 We're not married. 146 00:06:16,689 --> 00:06:18,068 Meri, those are really nice. 147 00:06:18,068 --> 00:06:20,413 - Should we run to town and get bags for them? - Kody... No. 148 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:22,551 - Kody. - Okay. All right. 149 00:06:22,551 --> 00:06:25,379 - These are not really nice. - Oh, they're not. 150 00:06:25,379 --> 00:06:27,275 This is the bed that you and I bought 151 00:06:27,275 --> 00:06:29,413 when we first moved to Vegas. It's time for a new one. 152 00:06:31,206 --> 00:06:33,655 I love this bed. I love this bedroom set. 153 00:06:34,482 --> 00:06:36,965 When we moved to Las Vegas, 154 00:06:36,965 --> 00:06:40,241 Kody and I went out and we bought this bedroom set together. 155 00:06:40,241 --> 00:06:44,379 It was like the first brand-new bed, 156 00:06:44,379 --> 00:06:47,413 bedroom set, mattress, that we had ever had. 157 00:06:49,206 --> 00:06:52,689 Kody hasn't slept in this bed with me 158 00:06:52,689 --> 00:06:54,655 for, like, many, many years. 159 00:06:56,068 --> 00:06:59,034 I'm not gonna take it into the next phase of my life. 160 00:06:59,034 --> 00:07:01,793 I don't intend to be single the rest of my life. 161 00:07:01,793 --> 00:07:03,793 And I'm not gonna be like, "Hmm, here, look, 162 00:07:03,793 --> 00:07:06,275 this is my bed that I had with my ex." 163 00:07:06,275 --> 00:07:08,275 Like, that would just be weird. 164 00:07:08,275 --> 00:07:11,758 [Kody] Is that stationary bike coming here? 165 00:07:11,758 --> 00:07:14,172 [Nathan] This is why you kept the Saran wrap on the wheels. 166 00:07:14,172 --> 00:07:17,000 [Meri] Yes, for two years. 167 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,275 Hey, hey, don't pretend you're gonna help me now. 168 00:07:19,275 --> 00:07:20,793 - I got you. - Wow, Chicken Little. 169 00:07:20,793 --> 00:07:22,103 I got you. 170 00:07:22,103 --> 00:07:26,689 After all the baking is done, show up and be the hero now. 171 00:07:26,689 --> 00:07:28,965 [Meri] Someone's gotta do it. 172 00:07:30,103 --> 00:07:32,482 - Whoa, stop... - [laughs] 173 00:07:32,482 --> 00:07:35,482 - [Nathan] This is... This is awkward. - Stop. 174 00:07:35,482 --> 00:07:37,172 Is this awkward? I'm so sorry. 175 00:07:37,172 --> 00:07:38,379 I should punch you in the mouth. 176 00:07:38,379 --> 00:07:41,344 [all laughing] 177 00:07:41,344 --> 00:07:42,793 Meri backs right into me, 178 00:07:42,793 --> 00:07:45,137 and then Nathan pushes the bike into her. 179 00:07:45,137 --> 00:07:48,172 - [all laughing] - [Kody] All right. 180 00:07:48,172 --> 00:07:52,000 What is happening? What are you doing? 181 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,241 - [all laughing] - You okay, Meri? 182 00:07:55,241 --> 00:07:59,103 That's sexual harassment from your brother-in-law. 183 00:07:59,103 --> 00:08:01,793 Meri's bent over in front of me, 184 00:08:01,793 --> 00:08:03,241 right against me. 185 00:08:03,241 --> 00:08:05,793 Closer than I have been to him in years. 186 00:08:05,793 --> 00:08:09,103 - [Kody] Who is my ex? - [Meri] Oh, my gosh. 187 00:08:09,413 --> 00:08:11,896 Oh, my gosh. 188 00:08:11,896 --> 00:08:14,379 We're divorced. I have one wife. 189 00:08:14,379 --> 00:08:18,586 And it's funny, but it's not funny. 190 00:08:18,586 --> 00:08:20,586 Robyn didn't choose to be monogamous, 191 00:08:20,586 --> 00:08:22,103 but she is one now. 192 00:08:22,103 --> 00:08:25,793 I mean, Meri and I have not been in this situation 193 00:08:25,793 --> 00:08:28,034 for eight or nine years. 194 00:08:28,034 --> 00:08:30,896 - [exhales] - [Nathan] Oh, karma saw that. 195 00:08:30,896 --> 00:08:33,793 You're gonna make me pee my pants. 196 00:08:33,793 --> 00:08:35,517 When I'm working... 197 00:08:36,517 --> 00:08:40,275 [laughs] and I'm busy, I'm like a toddler. 198 00:08:40,275 --> 00:08:43,793 I don't want to be distracted when I have a full bladder. 199 00:08:43,793 --> 00:08:47,758 - [Nathan] Stop. - Next time it's gonna be you, and I'm gonna be behind. 200 00:08:47,758 --> 00:08:50,965 And so when Nathan pushes the bike up against me, 201 00:08:50,965 --> 00:08:53,793 not only is it awkward and uncomfortable for that, 202 00:08:53,793 --> 00:08:56,275 it was also awkward and very uncomfortable 203 00:08:56,275 --> 00:08:57,827 because I had a full bladder. 204 00:08:57,827 --> 00:09:01,586 If he didn't let it go, I was gonna pee my pants, and I was not lying. 205 00:09:01,586 --> 00:09:04,896 - All right, here listen, I wanna keep working here. - Ooh-hoo. 206 00:09:04,896 --> 00:09:06,758 - [Kody] I really wanna work. - [Meri] I need a break. 207 00:09:06,758 --> 00:09:08,689 All right, here, you move out of the way, Meri. 208 00:09:08,689 --> 00:09:10,862 - Okay. - Ah, we'll make this fit. 209 00:09:10,862 --> 00:09:12,896 Oh, Lordy, Lord Almighty. 210 00:09:12,896 --> 00:09:16,379 Like, it was funny for us. Like, it was uncomfortable. 211 00:09:16,379 --> 00:09:20,137 It was like, "Knock it off, Nathan. Back off, man." 212 00:09:20,137 --> 00:09:22,482 But also, in any other situation, 213 00:09:22,482 --> 00:09:24,482 it may not have been funny. 214 00:09:24,482 --> 00:09:26,551 I think that's the first time I've ever threatened you. 215 00:09:26,551 --> 00:09:29,137 Like, I'm gonna punch you in the mouth. 216 00:09:29,137 --> 00:09:31,344 Yes, I agree, it was hilariously funny. 217 00:09:31,344 --> 00:09:33,793 But on a matter of principle, it's not okay. 218 00:09:33,793 --> 00:09:34,896 [laughs] 219 00:09:34,896 --> 00:09:36,896 We're joking about something 220 00:09:36,896 --> 00:09:40,034 that I certainly consider to be sacred with me and Robyn 221 00:09:40,034 --> 00:09:42,068 'cause it was sexual in nature. 222 00:09:42,068 --> 00:09:44,000 You know what I'm saying? It just... 223 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,551 Like, it was so funny and yet so... 224 00:09:49,379 --> 00:09:50,620 wrong. 225 00:09:53,724 --> 00:09:54,586 I went and talked to... 226 00:09:54,586 --> 00:09:56,344 I even went and talked to Meri. 227 00:09:56,344 --> 00:09:58,103 It's the first time I've seen her in, like, a year and a half. 228 00:09:58,103 --> 00:10:00,379 - Oh. - And it was a weird conversation. 229 00:10:00,379 --> 00:10:04,379 - Oh, it was? - She basically implied that she was so surprised. 230 00:10:04,379 --> 00:10:07,000 Like, somehow she thought I'd been controlling the money. 231 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:10,000 It was Kody who really had the control of the money. 232 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,172 If you controlled the money, I think things would look a lot different. 233 00:10:12,172 --> 00:10:13,862 Dude, man, if I controlled the money, 234 00:10:13,862 --> 00:10:16,413 we would have paid off, built a house, like... 235 00:10:19,482 --> 00:10:21,137 [pleasant music playing] 236 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,965 Janelle's coming into town for several reasons. 237 00:10:30,965 --> 00:10:32,827 First, to meet David. She's never met David. 238 00:10:32,827 --> 00:10:35,172 Her kids have met David, but not her. She wasn't there. 239 00:10:35,172 --> 00:10:37,172 And I wanna tell her I'm engaged. 240 00:10:37,172 --> 00:10:38,758 So it's all good things. 241 00:10:38,758 --> 00:10:40,172 I'm so excited. I'm really glad she's coming. 242 00:10:40,172 --> 00:10:42,758 It's been a long time since I've seen her. 243 00:10:42,758 --> 00:10:45,137 I mean, I told David that Janelle has to come with me 244 00:10:45,137 --> 00:10:46,689 in, you know, my life and everything that I do. 245 00:10:46,689 --> 00:10:50,551 So, you know, it's about time that they meet since we're engaged. 246 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,482 Janelle. Welcome. 247 00:10:53,482 --> 00:10:56,379 Oh, my gosh. Hello. How was your drive? 248 00:10:56,379 --> 00:10:57,655 - Flight. - Flight. 249 00:10:57,655 --> 00:11:00,379 So I know Christine has been dating this guy named David. 250 00:11:00,379 --> 00:11:02,896 I really need to meet him 'cause it's obviously very serious. 251 00:11:02,896 --> 00:11:04,758 It looks bigger than it does on the outside. 252 00:11:04,758 --> 00:11:06,379 - 'Cause of the paint. - Yes, it's nice. 253 00:11:06,379 --> 00:11:07,931 - It's deep. - We love it. 254 00:11:07,931 --> 00:11:10,137 - It's deep. Our office. - Yeah. 255 00:11:10,137 --> 00:11:12,241 Everybody's talking about him. 256 00:11:12,241 --> 00:11:13,758 That's all she talks about. 257 00:11:13,758 --> 00:11:14,689 They bought a house together. 258 00:11:14,689 --> 00:11:17,000 I'm like, "I gotta meet this guy." 259 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:18,310 And then we needed this space big enough 260 00:11:18,310 --> 00:11:21,172 'cause he's got eight kids, and seven of them live close. 261 00:11:21,172 --> 00:11:23,000 - Okay. - And then I have all our kids. 262 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,000 I like pretty much everybody 263 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,379 unless they're really pompous and full of themselves. 264 00:11:27,379 --> 00:11:30,000 I do not imagine David is that person. 265 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,379 I don't think Christine would put up with that. 266 00:11:31,379 --> 00:11:33,000 So I don't think I'm not gonna like him. 267 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:34,827 But what if we don't like each other? 268 00:11:34,827 --> 00:11:36,379 What if we have clashes? 269 00:11:36,379 --> 00:11:38,689 - I have to make a lasagna. - [Janelle] I'll help. You tell me. 270 00:11:38,689 --> 00:11:40,793 - [Christine] You can watch. - I'll be your sous-chef. 271 00:11:40,793 --> 00:11:43,137 That would be bad. It would be really bad. 272 00:11:44,275 --> 00:11:45,482 I still don't know where everything is. 273 00:11:45,482 --> 00:11:47,241 We've only lived here for... 274 00:11:47,241 --> 00:11:48,758 It will be three weeks tomorrow. 275 00:11:48,758 --> 00:11:50,275 - Wow. - I know. 276 00:11:50,275 --> 00:11:51,172 - It's fast. - Wow. 277 00:11:51,172 --> 00:11:53,103 I remember Christine talking to me 278 00:11:53,103 --> 00:11:54,758 when she first met David. 279 00:11:54,758 --> 00:11:58,379 I think it was, like, their third or fourth date when she just knew. 280 00:11:58,379 --> 00:11:59,862 So it does seem very fast, 281 00:11:59,862 --> 00:12:03,241 but it doesn't feel wrong. 282 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,758 - So, yeah, so... - Perfect. 283 00:12:05,758 --> 00:12:07,758 ...Maddie and Caleb and I have been looking in Montana. 284 00:12:07,758 --> 00:12:09,482 - [gasps] Yes. - You knew, but... 285 00:12:09,482 --> 00:12:11,896 - Okay, so wait for it. - Okay. 286 00:12:11,896 --> 00:12:14,241 We actually found a place in North Carolina. 287 00:12:14,241 --> 00:12:17,379 - It's a farm. Like, it's a farm and it's-- - Are you serious? 288 00:12:17,379 --> 00:12:19,275 Well, I mean, we'll see. We're still... 289 00:12:19,275 --> 00:12:21,275 And if Caleb can still keep his same job. 290 00:12:21,275 --> 00:12:24,448 - Which is great. It works. - It's only about an hour from where they live now. 291 00:12:24,448 --> 00:12:25,620 They found land. 292 00:12:25,620 --> 00:12:28,275 This isn't a "Found a house. I can resell it." 293 00:12:28,275 --> 00:12:31,310 This is Janelle finding land. 294 00:12:32,482 --> 00:12:33,862 [Janelle] So as Maddie and Caleb and I 295 00:12:33,862 --> 00:12:36,482 really kind of dug into the Montana property, 296 00:12:36,482 --> 00:12:39,620 we just decided that it was really, really expensive. 297 00:12:40,517 --> 00:12:41,586 So we started looking, 298 00:12:41,586 --> 00:12:42,931 and there's actually some properties 299 00:12:42,931 --> 00:12:45,586 not very far from where Maddie is now in North Carolina, 300 00:12:45,586 --> 00:12:48,137 and they're really surprisingly affordable. 301 00:12:48,137 --> 00:12:50,241 Now what about the properties? 302 00:12:50,241 --> 00:12:52,000 - You have to sell that first? What-- - I have no... 303 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,241 I have... I don't know. 304 00:12:54,241 --> 00:12:56,758 [Christine] When we first signed the paperwork for Coyote Pass, 305 00:12:56,758 --> 00:12:59,827 I read on there there'd be a big, huge balloon payment at the end. 306 00:12:59,827 --> 00:13:02,172 They have to pay it off in the next couple of months. 307 00:13:02,172 --> 00:13:04,068 And if they don't do that, they lose it all. 308 00:13:04,068 --> 00:13:06,137 Can you imagine? That's stressful. 309 00:13:06,137 --> 00:13:07,689 Kody says he's gonna have the money. 310 00:13:07,689 --> 00:13:10,172 It's due in two months. Two months. 311 00:13:10,172 --> 00:13:13,068 - Okay. And he says he'll have the money? - That's what he says. 312 00:13:13,068 --> 00:13:15,241 And I told him I want him to buy me out, 313 00:13:15,241 --> 00:13:17,068 and he's like, "I don't have the money," 314 00:13:17,068 --> 00:13:18,275 and I'm like, "Okay." 315 00:13:18,275 --> 00:13:20,551 I haven't said anything to him about North Carolina. 316 00:13:20,551 --> 00:13:22,448 I don't really feel like I need to share that with him. 317 00:13:22,448 --> 00:13:24,000 He's not gonna be part of that life. 318 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,103 I think he's not gonna be that stupid. 319 00:13:26,103 --> 00:13:28,000 But you know him. He gets to the place 320 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,000 where all of a sudden it's due, 321 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:31,551 and then it's somebody else's fault. 322 00:13:31,551 --> 00:13:33,448 - It's never his fault. - I know. 323 00:13:33,448 --> 00:13:35,000 It's always somebody else's fault. 324 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:36,551 But I mean, it's a real possibility. 325 00:13:36,551 --> 00:13:37,482 I went and talked to... 326 00:13:37,482 --> 00:13:38,931 I even went and talked to Meri. 327 00:13:38,931 --> 00:13:41,000 It's the first time I've seen her in, like, a year and a half. 328 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,413 - Oh. - I went and talked to Meri, and I said, "Look. 329 00:13:44,275 --> 00:13:47,379 Here's what's happening. It's due. Due, like, soon." 330 00:13:47,379 --> 00:13:51,689 And I said, "You know, you might wanna really be proactive 331 00:13:51,689 --> 00:13:53,586 and make sure you get your part." 332 00:13:53,586 --> 00:13:55,275 And it was a weird conversation. 333 00:13:55,275 --> 00:13:56,413 Oh, it was? 334 00:13:56,413 --> 00:13:59,275 She basically implied that she was so surprised. 335 00:13:59,275 --> 00:14:01,620 Like, somehow she thought I had been controlling the money. 336 00:14:02,586 --> 00:14:04,000 All these years. 337 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,000 I'm like, "Dude, man, if I controlled the money, 338 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,586 we would have paid off, built a house." Like... 339 00:14:08,586 --> 00:14:11,482 It's funny. My other wives remember Janelle controlling the money. 340 00:14:11,482 --> 00:14:12,413 I... 341 00:14:13,206 --> 00:14:15,655 I sort of guided where the money went. 342 00:14:15,655 --> 00:14:17,793 We all had access to the account. 343 00:14:17,793 --> 00:14:19,931 Listen, we were a family working together, 344 00:14:19,931 --> 00:14:23,137 and we did this best we could. 345 00:14:23,137 --> 00:14:25,000 I don't know what Kody's been saying about, 346 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,827 like, somehow I'm controlling the money. 347 00:14:26,827 --> 00:14:29,000 If you controlled the money, I think things would look a lot different. I just... 348 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:32,000 I'm like, "All I've ever done is just record what was spent 349 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,344 and sent it to the accountant." 350 00:14:33,344 --> 00:14:34,827 Yeah, because some of the texts, you were like, 351 00:14:34,827 --> 00:14:37,103 "Does anybody know what was spent on this and this and this?" 352 00:14:37,103 --> 00:14:39,931 That's right, 'cause I'm like, people were just spending, 353 00:14:39,931 --> 00:14:41,793 and I'm like, "I don't know who this belongs to." 354 00:14:41,793 --> 00:14:44,965 You know, it's wild. So this is Kody's MO. 355 00:14:44,965 --> 00:14:48,482 He tends to attack somebody in an area that's important to them. 356 00:14:48,482 --> 00:14:51,344 So he would say to Christine, "I'm not physically attracted to you." 357 00:14:51,344 --> 00:14:52,482 That's what he said. "The whole marriage, 358 00:14:52,482 --> 00:14:53,758 I was not physically attracted to you." 359 00:14:53,758 --> 00:14:55,655 And that devastated her. 360 00:14:55,655 --> 00:14:58,862 [Kody] I told Janelle that I wasn't attracted to Christine 361 00:14:58,862 --> 00:15:03,586 when I was moving my stuff out of Christine's house into Janelle's house. 362 00:15:03,586 --> 00:15:05,172 That was a private conversation. 363 00:15:05,172 --> 00:15:06,344 I was in pain. 364 00:15:06,344 --> 00:15:09,655 I never intended for Janelle to go telling Christine 365 00:15:09,655 --> 00:15:12,448 what I thought about her during our breakup. 366 00:15:12,448 --> 00:15:14,655 It was just totally rude of her. 367 00:15:14,655 --> 00:15:17,896 [Janelle] For me, financial security and being smart financially 368 00:15:17,896 --> 00:15:19,551 is really, really important. 369 00:15:19,551 --> 00:15:22,103 So he's trying to pin everything on me. 370 00:15:22,103 --> 00:15:23,862 And it makes me so mad. 371 00:15:23,862 --> 00:15:24,758 'Cause I didn't know it. 372 00:15:24,758 --> 00:15:25,896 He was doing it behind my back. 373 00:15:25,896 --> 00:15:27,586 He kept telling everybody these stories. 374 00:15:27,586 --> 00:15:29,758 And I'm like, "[bleep] hell. Excuse me." 375 00:15:29,758 --> 00:15:31,896 But it's like I didn't do anything, 376 00:15:31,896 --> 00:15:34,482 except I have to drink a whole freaking bottle of wine 377 00:15:34,482 --> 00:15:36,379 when I sat and recorded the transactions 378 00:15:36,379 --> 00:15:38,827 and sent them to the accountant. 379 00:15:39,793 --> 00:15:41,000 [Meri] Janelle says one thing, 380 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:43,137 and Kody and Robyn say another thing. 381 00:15:43,137 --> 00:15:44,862 I don't think either one of them 382 00:15:44,862 --> 00:15:47,103 are being 100% truthful. 383 00:15:47,103 --> 00:15:48,931 I'm trying to protect everybody here. 384 00:15:48,931 --> 00:15:50,448 Trying to make sure everybody gets their... 385 00:15:50,448 --> 00:15:53,000 And all I went to do to tell her was, 386 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,551 "You should maybe be aware of what's..." 387 00:15:55,551 --> 00:15:57,689 She told me she's moving to Parowan. 388 00:15:57,689 --> 00:15:59,586 - Wait a minute. - Yeah, she told me she's moving-- 389 00:15:59,586 --> 00:16:01,482 - Moving-moving to Parowan? - Yeah. 390 00:16:01,482 --> 00:16:03,689 - Really? - I'm actually glad for her. 391 00:16:03,689 --> 00:16:06,000 So she's done in Flagstaff? Then she doesn't live there anymore? 392 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:07,068 I don't know why she'd stay. 393 00:16:07,068 --> 00:16:09,793 I'm excited that Meri is moving. 394 00:16:09,793 --> 00:16:12,620 That's great. She needs to move on. That's... 395 00:16:13,172 --> 00:16:14,172 Good for her. 396 00:16:14,172 --> 00:16:16,448 When it comes down to controlling money, 397 00:16:16,448 --> 00:16:18,931 I just feel like we each knew 398 00:16:18,931 --> 00:16:21,103 what we were going to get out of the family money. 399 00:16:21,103 --> 00:16:23,103 And then if there was anything extra, 400 00:16:23,103 --> 00:16:24,482 we would just have to talk to Kody. 401 00:16:24,482 --> 00:16:26,172 But then he could spend whatever the hell he wanted. 402 00:16:26,172 --> 00:16:27,931 [Janelle] Um, there was a lot of that. 403 00:16:29,275 --> 00:16:33,103 [Christine] All of our money got put into a big, huge fund, 404 00:16:33,103 --> 00:16:35,000 and we got paid out of that fund. 405 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,758 And I always talked to Kody about getting paid. 406 00:16:36,758 --> 00:16:38,000 He's the one who always wrote the check. 407 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,655 If I needed anything, I told Kody. 408 00:16:40,655 --> 00:16:43,275 It was Kody who really had the control of the money. 409 00:16:43,275 --> 00:16:44,620 He really did. 410 00:16:46,896 --> 00:16:48,827 [Meri] Oh, hi. How's it going? 411 00:16:48,827 --> 00:16:50,379 [Kody] Robyn's coming over. She told me she was gonna 412 00:16:50,379 --> 00:16:52,172 drop off something and say goodbye to Meri. 413 00:16:52,172 --> 00:16:54,482 And I know she's not well. 414 00:16:54,482 --> 00:16:55,862 [sobs] 415 00:16:55,862 --> 00:16:58,689 [Meri] I know that Robyn is brokenhearted about this, 416 00:16:58,689 --> 00:17:02,103 and that's something she's gonna have to process through herself. 417 00:17:10,448 --> 00:17:12,103 [upbeat music playing] 418 00:17:14,689 --> 00:17:16,758 - I got a tattoo. - [Janelle] Ah. 419 00:17:16,758 --> 00:17:21,379 Okay. I had to be out east for the baby, 420 00:17:21,379 --> 00:17:25,379 but I heard about the engagement party. 421 00:17:25,379 --> 00:17:28,310 - Wow. - So David and I have matching ones. 422 00:17:28,310 --> 00:17:30,827 It means new beginnings in Celtic. 423 00:17:30,827 --> 00:17:34,689 - So we all got tattoos. - At Gwendlyn's engagement party? 424 00:17:34,689 --> 00:17:37,482 I've known Janelle for 30 years, 425 00:17:37,482 --> 00:17:40,000 and most of those 30 years, 426 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:43,862 it was like a very... more of a straitlaced lifestyle. 427 00:17:43,862 --> 00:17:45,034 And here I am living a life 428 00:17:45,034 --> 00:17:46,172 that I previously would have thought, 429 00:17:46,172 --> 00:17:49,137 I was just being "rebellious" and living in sin. 430 00:17:50,137 --> 00:17:51,379 That is the statement. 431 00:17:51,379 --> 00:17:54,793 I am now living in sin. Wow. 432 00:17:54,793 --> 00:17:55,965 Kody came. 433 00:17:55,965 --> 00:17:58,862 He was there for a brief hot second, 434 00:17:58,862 --> 00:18:02,068 and it was right when Gwendlyn was getting her tattoo. 435 00:18:02,068 --> 00:18:03,724 And he was there. And I'm like, 436 00:18:03,724 --> 00:18:06,241 "All right, there we go." 437 00:18:06,241 --> 00:18:07,413 - Wow. -"It's happening." 438 00:18:07,413 --> 00:18:08,551 Wow. Ten years ago, 439 00:18:08,551 --> 00:18:10,344 I don't know if we ever could have imagined-- 440 00:18:10,344 --> 00:18:12,620 What, three years ago? I don't think... 441 00:18:12,620 --> 00:18:14,241 Not three years ago. 442 00:18:14,241 --> 00:18:16,931 It's so funny. My kids, like, they all have tattoos. 443 00:18:16,931 --> 00:18:19,482 They think it's fine. But they were kind of weirded out, 444 00:18:19,482 --> 00:18:21,689 because Christine was always this, like, 445 00:18:21,689 --> 00:18:24,103 super black and white, super pious, 446 00:18:24,103 --> 00:18:27,000 super religious person growing up. 447 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:28,310 [Christine] So I knew Janelle 448 00:18:28,310 --> 00:18:32,103 through all of that more conservative kind of a life. 449 00:18:32,103 --> 00:18:35,793 And now she's still one of my best friends. 450 00:18:35,793 --> 00:18:38,310 You know, people change, and everything changes, 451 00:18:38,310 --> 00:18:40,758 and she's gonna support me with all these decisions. 452 00:18:40,758 --> 00:18:43,172 And she's not gonna think I'm gonna burn in hell so it's great. 453 00:18:43,172 --> 00:18:46,000 - Well, it's worked out really well. [laughs] - Yes. 454 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,241 - A whole new life, like, really fast. - Yes. 455 00:18:48,241 --> 00:18:49,344 Really fast. Yes. 456 00:18:49,344 --> 00:18:51,310 So something else is fast. 457 00:18:53,172 --> 00:18:55,103 [chuckles] 458 00:18:56,482 --> 00:19:00,620 - I am engaged. - Oh. [laughs] 459 00:19:00,620 --> 00:19:02,965 Oh, my word, it's gorgeous. 460 00:19:02,965 --> 00:19:04,931 When we went to Flagstaff, he surprised me. 461 00:19:04,931 --> 00:19:06,103 - We were-- - Oh, when you went out... 462 00:19:06,103 --> 00:19:08,241 - When you were just there? - Yeah, just there. Yeah. 463 00:19:08,241 --> 00:19:09,862 So we stand there, and he's like, 464 00:19:09,862 --> 00:19:12,310 "I wanna be with you. You're the most beautiful person I know." 465 00:19:12,310 --> 00:19:14,586 And I'm like, "Oh. Oh." 466 00:19:14,586 --> 00:19:16,586 And then he pulls out the ring... 467 00:19:16,586 --> 00:19:17,896 - Wow. - ...and goes down on one knee. 468 00:19:17,896 --> 00:19:20,586 I dropped everything, and I'm like, I need to answer. 469 00:19:20,586 --> 00:19:23,241 "Yes, yes, yes." It was great. 470 00:19:23,241 --> 00:19:26,689 - I love it. It's been so much fun. - Yeah. Wow. 471 00:19:26,689 --> 00:19:28,000 So I am engaged. 472 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,448 So at this point, Christine's met David. 473 00:19:29,448 --> 00:19:31,724 They've dated enough to know 474 00:19:31,724 --> 00:19:34,620 that they wanted to buy a house together. 475 00:19:34,620 --> 00:19:35,689 And now they're engaged. 476 00:19:35,689 --> 00:19:37,310 Okay. And I haven't met David. 477 00:19:37,310 --> 00:19:38,862 I sure hope as hell I like him. 478 00:19:38,862 --> 00:19:41,000 I hope. I hope. It's gonna be bad. 479 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,448 'Cause they are already committed. 480 00:19:42,448 --> 00:19:45,896 Like, they put some dollars into this ring. You know what I mean? 481 00:19:54,172 --> 00:19:55,413 It's moving day. 482 00:19:55,793 --> 00:19:56,862 I'm leaving. 483 00:19:56,862 --> 00:19:58,689 I'm leaving this house. I'm leaving Flagstaff. 484 00:19:58,689 --> 00:20:01,517 I've already left Kody, and I'm moving on. 485 00:20:02,379 --> 00:20:04,103 [Kody sighs] Okay, I'm lifting... 486 00:20:04,103 --> 00:20:05,965 and you're moving it towards me. 487 00:20:05,965 --> 00:20:08,275 - [grunts] - My hand on your back, I know, 488 00:20:08,275 --> 00:20:10,448 - is doing so much-- - No, keep it. 489 00:20:10,448 --> 00:20:12,068 Keep it. 'Cause I need something to lean into 490 00:20:12,068 --> 00:20:13,275 if I start to fall. 491 00:20:13,275 --> 00:20:16,000 Meri's just on point today. 492 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,103 She's just the wonderful woman 493 00:20:18,103 --> 00:20:19,896 that I would have liked to have been married to. 494 00:20:19,896 --> 00:20:21,379 [laughs] 495 00:20:21,379 --> 00:20:24,482 - Hey, listen-- - Listen, we're, like, the best divorced couple ever. 496 00:20:24,482 --> 00:20:26,000 - What... - [laughs] 497 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,413 - [laughs] - Yeah. 498 00:20:27,413 --> 00:20:29,034 Wow. There you go. 499 00:20:29,034 --> 00:20:30,965 Yeah, she's the favorite divorced wife. 500 00:20:30,965 --> 00:20:32,758 I knew I was gonna have a chance 501 00:20:32,758 --> 00:20:34,172 of being favorite at one point. 502 00:20:34,172 --> 00:20:36,482 - [both laugh] - Yeah. And, uh... 503 00:20:36,482 --> 00:20:38,551 You're the favorite ex-wife, Meri. 504 00:20:38,551 --> 00:20:40,068 That's easy as can be. 505 00:20:40,068 --> 00:20:42,827 That's... That's actually great. 506 00:20:42,827 --> 00:20:44,689 I'm not saying... Are you saying anything? 507 00:20:44,689 --> 00:20:46,310 I'm not saying anything. 508 00:20:46,310 --> 00:20:48,413 Both of you are laughing your heads off. 509 00:20:48,413 --> 00:20:51,310 [Meri laughing] You keep saying... 510 00:20:52,344 --> 00:20:55,275 [Robyn] So today is Meri's moving day. 511 00:20:56,034 --> 00:20:58,413 Kody's over there with her helping pack up. 512 00:20:58,413 --> 00:21:00,448 Meri, I do want you to hold that strap. 513 00:21:00,448 --> 00:21:03,172 I was hoping to be able to be a part of it 514 00:21:03,172 --> 00:21:05,034 and help her and go there. 515 00:21:05,034 --> 00:21:07,620 But every single cell in my body 516 00:21:07,620 --> 00:21:10,620 would be screaming at me to stop helping her, 517 00:21:10,620 --> 00:21:13,275 'cause I just don't want her to leave. 518 00:21:13,275 --> 00:21:14,172 [Kody] We're gonna give it a little pressure. 519 00:21:14,172 --> 00:21:17,000 [Meri] On the bottom or just here? 520 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,310 Bottom too. 521 00:21:18,793 --> 00:21:21,137 That's plenty. I think that's nice and tight. 522 00:21:21,137 --> 00:21:22,586 [Meri] I think... 523 00:21:22,586 --> 00:21:24,517 - Hey. - ...that we need to... 524 00:21:24,517 --> 00:21:25,620 Oh, hi. 525 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:27,103 How's it going? 526 00:21:28,689 --> 00:21:29,689 Good. 527 00:21:30,862 --> 00:21:32,517 - We're packing. - Yeah. 528 00:21:32,517 --> 00:21:33,758 [Kody] So Robyn's coming over. 529 00:21:33,758 --> 00:21:35,310 She told me that she was gonna drop off something 530 00:21:35,310 --> 00:21:36,310 and say goodbye to Meri, 531 00:21:36,310 --> 00:21:40,103 and I know she's not well about this. 532 00:21:42,137 --> 00:21:44,413 It's a heartbreak 533 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:46,931 of extreme proportions 534 00:21:48,689 --> 00:21:50,482 that I don't understand. 535 00:21:51,172 --> 00:21:54,103 - Hey. I need to talk to you. - Okay. 536 00:21:55,379 --> 00:21:57,206 [Kody] You and I are just gonna keep working. 537 00:22:08,172 --> 00:22:10,310 [sobs, sniffles] 538 00:22:13,068 --> 00:22:16,413 I know this isn't goodbye, but... [sobs] 539 00:22:22,068 --> 00:22:23,724 I know I'll still see you and stuff. 540 00:22:23,724 --> 00:22:24,931 - Yeah. - It's just... 541 00:22:25,482 --> 00:22:28,379 - I had to come over... - Thanks. 542 00:22:28,379 --> 00:22:30,310 ...and wish you 543 00:22:31,655 --> 00:22:32,827 good wishes. 544 00:22:32,827 --> 00:22:33,620 I appreciate that. 545 00:22:33,620 --> 00:22:35,620 And tell you that I love you. 546 00:22:35,620 --> 00:22:37,482 I love you too. 547 00:22:37,482 --> 00:22:40,241 Robyn and Meri's relationship has frustrated me for years. 548 00:22:40,241 --> 00:22:43,310 I've seen Robyn just manipulate Meri. 549 00:22:43,310 --> 00:22:44,827 A real friend would be like, 550 00:22:44,827 --> 00:22:47,000 "Yeah, you have a sucky marriage. You should leave." 551 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,103 Christine actually doesn't know much 552 00:22:49,103 --> 00:22:51,172 about mine and Meri's relationship. 553 00:22:51,172 --> 00:22:54,241 The idea of manipulating Meri into doing something 554 00:22:54,241 --> 00:22:57,724 she doesn't wanna do is sort of laughable. 555 00:22:57,724 --> 00:23:00,068 I'm just sorry that this worked out this way. 556 00:23:00,068 --> 00:23:02,034 Yeah, it's kind of sucky. 557 00:23:02,034 --> 00:23:05,206 I wish it would've worked out very differently. 558 00:23:05,586 --> 00:23:07,310 Yep. Me too. 559 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,068 Knowing Meri, she's just sort of taking it in. 560 00:23:12,068 --> 00:23:16,482 She's trying not to let this, 561 00:23:16,482 --> 00:23:19,413 like, this whole experience of her moving 562 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,275 put her into a place of sadness. 563 00:23:23,275 --> 00:23:26,517 - I just wanted to bring you a little... - Thank you. 564 00:23:27,689 --> 00:23:28,931 ...present. 565 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,724 [sobs] 566 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,413 Now we just write a new one. 567 00:23:40,241 --> 00:23:42,000 [sighs] Um... 568 00:23:47,896 --> 00:23:49,758 Aww, that's pretty. 569 00:23:49,758 --> 00:23:52,517 "May there always be an angel by your side." 570 00:23:52,517 --> 00:23:53,965 It's a junk journal. 571 00:23:53,965 --> 00:23:57,137 It's basically a journal with a whole bunch of, like, pictures 572 00:23:57,137 --> 00:24:00,137 and cute little papers and stuff like that. 573 00:24:00,137 --> 00:24:02,034 I just want everything to go okay for you. 574 00:24:02,034 --> 00:24:03,206 Thank you. 575 00:24:03,551 --> 00:24:05,000 I think it will. 576 00:24:05,689 --> 00:24:08,931 I'm really big on writing down your dreams and your goals. 577 00:24:08,931 --> 00:24:11,862 And the whole point of bringing a journal to her 578 00:24:11,862 --> 00:24:14,000 was to say, kind of say, 579 00:24:14,689 --> 00:24:17,000 "I wish you happiness 580 00:24:18,137 --> 00:24:20,310 in your next chapter. 581 00:24:21,034 --> 00:24:23,482 And here is something to write down 582 00:24:23,482 --> 00:24:26,241 all those beautiful dreams that you... 583 00:24:27,103 --> 00:24:29,517 are gonna come up with," kind of a thing. 584 00:24:31,655 --> 00:24:33,172 [chuckles] I love you. 585 00:24:33,379 --> 00:24:34,620 [sobs] 586 00:24:39,758 --> 00:24:42,793 - It's not what we chose, so. - Nope, it's not. 587 00:24:43,896 --> 00:24:46,896 Um, she's very emotional, 588 00:24:47,482 --> 00:24:49,310 and, um, 589 00:24:50,172 --> 00:24:51,793 I don't wanna be emotional. 590 00:24:55,482 --> 00:24:57,862 I don't mean to make you blue. I'm not trying to do that. 591 00:24:57,862 --> 00:24:59,931 - No, it's fine. - Just want you to know I love you and... 592 00:24:59,931 --> 00:25:01,689 It's fine. Thank you. 593 00:25:01,689 --> 00:25:04,379 It's gonna be sad that you're not here, so. 594 00:25:04,379 --> 00:25:06,000 - Permanently, you know. - Yeah. 595 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,241 - So... [clears throat] - Yep. 596 00:25:08,241 --> 00:25:12,206 Like, I've had a lot of emotions through this. 597 00:25:12,655 --> 00:25:15,068 Through the past decade, 598 00:25:15,068 --> 00:25:16,137 through the past four years 599 00:25:16,137 --> 00:25:18,379 while we've been living in Flagstaff, 600 00:25:18,379 --> 00:25:19,793 through the past year. 601 00:25:19,793 --> 00:25:21,551 I've had a lot of emotions, 602 00:25:21,551 --> 00:25:25,241 and I keep my emotions guarded, 603 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,896 and I only share them with the people 604 00:25:30,482 --> 00:25:32,206 that I'm comfortable sharing them with. 605 00:25:33,068 --> 00:25:35,517 I really want you to find happiness. 606 00:25:35,793 --> 00:25:37,517 - I'm happy. - Okay. 607 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,586 I'm happy. 608 00:25:39,586 --> 00:25:41,137 I mean, I'm not happy with this, 609 00:25:41,137 --> 00:25:42,827 but I have a good life. 610 00:25:43,241 --> 00:25:44,827 - Okay. - So... 611 00:25:44,827 --> 00:25:46,931 - All right. - Thank you. 612 00:25:46,931 --> 00:25:48,482 - Good luck. - All right. 613 00:25:48,482 --> 00:25:49,862 Thank you. I guess we'll just... 614 00:25:49,862 --> 00:25:52,551 Yeah, we've got phones. 615 00:25:52,551 --> 00:25:55,344 I know that Robyn is brokenhearted about this. 616 00:25:55,344 --> 00:25:58,517 And that's something she's gonna have to process through herself. 617 00:26:01,965 --> 00:26:05,241 - [Kody] Bye. - [Meri laughs] 618 00:26:05,965 --> 00:26:08,413 - Dude, this is about me today. - Yeah. 619 00:26:08,413 --> 00:26:10,344 - Yeah, whatever. - You get her all the time. 620 00:26:10,344 --> 00:26:11,793 - Yeah, whatever. - Relax. 621 00:26:11,793 --> 00:26:14,448 - Yeah, I'm gonna... Fine. - [laughs] 622 00:26:14,448 --> 00:26:16,586 I am at peace with where I am. 623 00:26:17,586 --> 00:26:18,620 I'm... 624 00:26:19,379 --> 00:26:21,482 I have an internal happiness 625 00:26:21,482 --> 00:26:24,344 that I haven't had for a really long time, 626 00:26:24,344 --> 00:26:27,482 and I'm not gonna let that be brought down. 627 00:26:36,758 --> 00:26:40,310 It's just one heartbreak after another. 628 00:26:42,896 --> 00:26:45,931 [sighs] It's just too much. 629 00:26:48,275 --> 00:26:49,586 [sniffles] 630 00:26:51,482 --> 00:26:53,310 It's just too much. [exhales] 631 00:26:56,965 --> 00:27:00,000 It's just different. It's just different now. 632 00:27:06,379 --> 00:27:07,482 [sobs] 633 00:27:18,758 --> 00:27:20,586 They're looking for somebody to blame. 634 00:27:20,586 --> 00:27:23,931 - I guess it's me. - I'm not blaming. Relax. 635 00:27:23,931 --> 00:27:26,103 This plural marriage was a big picture for us. 636 00:27:26,103 --> 00:27:29,000 It was sacred. It was religious to us. 637 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,758 It crumbled, and it failed, 638 00:27:30,758 --> 00:27:33,689 and I'm bitter, and I'm hurt, 639 00:27:33,689 --> 00:27:36,586 as I am sure the other members of this family 640 00:27:36,586 --> 00:27:38,620 are bitter and hurt, including Meri. 641 00:27:46,241 --> 00:27:48,620 [Meri] Everything goes. Okay, Kody? 642 00:27:48,620 --> 00:27:51,620 - [Kody] Yeah. - Biggest, most important. 643 00:27:51,896 --> 00:27:52,724 That's my mirror 644 00:27:52,724 --> 00:27:54,068 and our family mission statement. 645 00:27:54,068 --> 00:27:55,413 Not sure what I'm gonna do with it. 646 00:27:55,413 --> 00:27:56,827 Maybe burn it. 647 00:27:56,827 --> 00:27:59,413 - 'Cause, obviously, it didn't work. [laughs] - [Nathan] Whoa. 648 00:27:59,413 --> 00:28:01,172 You know, the mission statement, 649 00:28:01,172 --> 00:28:03,034 I don't know what to do with. 650 00:28:03,034 --> 00:28:05,827 We had all worked together 651 00:28:05,827 --> 00:28:07,862 to write this mission statement. 652 00:28:07,862 --> 00:28:09,586 "The Kody Brown family." 653 00:28:09,586 --> 00:28:12,137 "We teach, allow and promote the value of making 654 00:28:12,137 --> 00:28:14,000 conscious and responsible choices." 655 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,000 [Robyn] "We embrace one another with the covenant 656 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,586 of eternal nature." 657 00:28:17,586 --> 00:28:20,137 "Our bodies being the temples for our spirits..." 658 00:28:20,137 --> 00:28:22,137 And then we had this celebration. 659 00:28:22,137 --> 00:28:23,241 You know, just celebrating us 660 00:28:23,241 --> 00:28:25,827 and committing, recommitting to each other. 661 00:28:27,034 --> 00:28:30,482 Well, that didn't work, 'cause look at us now. 662 00:28:30,482 --> 00:28:32,413 They're looking for somebody to blame. 663 00:28:32,413 --> 00:28:35,931 - I guess it's me. - I'm not blaming. Relax. 664 00:28:35,931 --> 00:28:38,275 It was really important to know that I felt 665 00:28:38,275 --> 00:28:39,862 like that family mission statement 666 00:28:39,862 --> 00:28:42,000 was very, very inspired. 667 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:46,034 It was the pinnacle of joy for me. 668 00:28:46,034 --> 00:28:49,310 In plural marriage, I just never really knew how to do it. 669 00:28:49,310 --> 00:28:51,758 I don't know what to say about plural marriage 670 00:28:51,758 --> 00:28:55,275 that made our lives so difficult with each other. 671 00:28:55,275 --> 00:28:58,586 There was no map necessarily 672 00:28:58,586 --> 00:29:01,000 or particularly a rule book 673 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,965 that really made it functionally workable. 674 00:29:03,965 --> 00:29:06,724 - [Meri laughs] Take it off. - Here, big boy. 675 00:29:06,724 --> 00:29:08,448 - [Meri] Listen. - Wow. 676 00:29:08,448 --> 00:29:11,517 We... [laughs] Let's get on the road. 677 00:29:11,517 --> 00:29:13,862 This plural marriage was a big picture for us. 678 00:29:13,862 --> 00:29:16,586 It was sacred. It was religious to us. 679 00:29:16,586 --> 00:29:18,517 It crumbled, and it failed, 680 00:29:18,517 --> 00:29:20,724 and I'm bitter, and I'm hurt, 681 00:29:22,344 --> 00:29:25,344 as I am sure the other members of this family 682 00:29:25,344 --> 00:29:27,379 are bitter and hurt, including Meri. 683 00:29:27,379 --> 00:29:29,000 - Thanks. - Let's hit the road. 684 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,551 You're gonna shut the garage door. Oh, yeah, you... 685 00:29:30,551 --> 00:29:33,275 I gotta lock it and come around that way. 686 00:29:33,275 --> 00:29:37,000 Meri changed after we got married. 687 00:29:37,793 --> 00:29:41,620 And it was a hard relationship till today. 688 00:29:42,275 --> 00:29:43,862 And that's ironic. 689 00:29:43,862 --> 00:29:45,655 [Meri] Today has been good. 690 00:29:45,655 --> 00:29:49,517 It's like we're seeing these parts of ourselves that 691 00:29:50,068 --> 00:29:51,827 we loved back in the day. 692 00:29:53,482 --> 00:29:54,793 I also 693 00:29:55,896 --> 00:29:58,275 don't feel any regret of where I am right now. 694 00:30:01,551 --> 00:30:04,482 - [David] Hello, I'm home. - [Christine] Hey, baby. 695 00:30:05,965 --> 00:30:07,241 Okay. [chuckles] 696 00:30:07,241 --> 00:30:09,034 - This is Janelle who's my sister wife. - [Janelle] Hello. 697 00:30:09,034 --> 00:30:11,310 - It's like meeting the family. - [Christine] I know. 698 00:30:11,310 --> 00:30:12,724 Janelle, David. 699 00:30:12,724 --> 00:30:14,517 David, my... I told her. 700 00:30:14,517 --> 00:30:16,448 - Oh, you did? Okay. - Here's David, my fiance. 701 00:30:16,448 --> 00:30:17,448 [all laugh] 702 00:30:17,448 --> 00:30:19,000 - Hi. Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you. 703 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,310 I loved it. I loved... 704 00:30:20,310 --> 00:30:22,448 I actually thought I'm gonna introduce Janelle 705 00:30:22,448 --> 00:30:25,000 to David as my sister wife, and I got to. 706 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,379 Like, "Here's my sister wife." 707 00:30:26,379 --> 00:30:28,931 But, usually, you're sister wife with someone, you know, 708 00:30:28,931 --> 00:30:31,448 when you marry the same man. 709 00:30:31,448 --> 00:30:33,241 And that's not happening, of course, 710 00:30:33,241 --> 00:30:35,517 but I still do consider Janelle my sister wife. 711 00:30:36,482 --> 00:30:38,758 [David] Christine explained to me how Janelle will be 712 00:30:38,758 --> 00:30:40,965 a part of her sister wife forever. 713 00:30:40,965 --> 00:30:42,896 Um, I got a little nervous about it. 714 00:30:42,896 --> 00:30:44,344 I'm like, "Okay, what does that mean?" 715 00:30:44,344 --> 00:30:46,655 'Cause I don't have anything to do with that stuff. 716 00:30:46,655 --> 00:30:49,034 One man, one woman. That's it. [laughs] 717 00:30:49,034 --> 00:30:50,448 - Okay. - What are you guys doing? 718 00:30:50,448 --> 00:30:51,655 We're making lasagna. 719 00:30:51,655 --> 00:30:55,068 This is exactly the guy that Christine's looking for. 720 00:30:55,068 --> 00:30:57,655 I showed her my tattoo. Show her yours. 721 00:30:57,655 --> 00:30:59,413 - Your tattoo. - Which one? 722 00:30:59,413 --> 00:31:00,758 Well, just the one. Whatever. 723 00:31:00,758 --> 00:31:02,241 - You can show everything. Yeah. - [Janelle] Oh, yeah. 724 00:31:02,241 --> 00:31:03,689 [Christine] See, isn't it cute? 725 00:31:03,689 --> 00:31:06,068 - [Janelle] Same place. - [Christine] Yeah, yeah, yeah. 726 00:31:06,068 --> 00:31:07,931 No, I have the bigger one. 727 00:31:07,931 --> 00:31:09,482 - [Janelle] Oh, yeah. - Yeah, he's got a ship and... 728 00:31:09,482 --> 00:31:10,586 I told him I wanted... 729 00:31:10,586 --> 00:31:11,827 I was looking for someone... 730 00:31:11,827 --> 00:31:13,379 Specifically on my dating profile, 731 00:31:13,379 --> 00:31:16,586 I wanted someone bald, with tattoos, 732 00:31:16,586 --> 00:31:18,689 and who drove a motorcycle, 733 00:31:18,689 --> 00:31:21,344 was who I was looking for on my profile. 734 00:31:21,344 --> 00:31:24,620 Just a wee bit different from Kody. 735 00:31:24,620 --> 00:31:26,000 Well... Oh, I see. 736 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,586 Well, it's just like you've got what you were looking for. 737 00:31:27,586 --> 00:31:29,103 - I got exactly what I was looking for. - Yeah. 738 00:31:29,103 --> 00:31:30,586 Yeah, he had a motorcycle too. 739 00:31:30,586 --> 00:31:34,793 So she was always really attracted to that kind of bad... 740 00:31:35,379 --> 00:31:37,000 Badass. I'm gonna just say it. 741 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,965 I was nervous about moving in with a guy full-time. 742 00:31:39,965 --> 00:31:42,068 - I was just really, really nervous. - [Janelle] Oh, really? 743 00:31:42,655 --> 00:31:43,758 It's the first time in my life 744 00:31:43,758 --> 00:31:45,793 that I've had a guy full-time, right? 745 00:31:45,793 --> 00:31:50,689 So I always thought that living with a guy full-time would be super boring. 746 00:31:50,689 --> 00:31:54,000 And guys were like a ball and chain, and so difficult. 747 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,103 And I always wanted to live polygamy 748 00:31:56,103 --> 00:31:57,931 because I just I thought... 749 00:31:57,931 --> 00:31:59,758 Monogamy just sounded so boring. 750 00:31:59,758 --> 00:32:02,413 [laughs] It's not boring. 751 00:32:02,413 --> 00:32:05,379 There's literally nothing boring about David at all. 752 00:32:05,379 --> 00:32:06,448 David's chill. 753 00:32:06,448 --> 00:32:08,137 He's super, super, super chill. 754 00:32:08,137 --> 00:32:10,034 He's totally easygoing. 755 00:32:10,034 --> 00:32:11,793 Doesn't expect anything. 756 00:32:11,793 --> 00:32:14,758 - Uh-huh. - No expecta... Okay. Right? Right? 757 00:32:14,758 --> 00:32:17,724 Everything you're not saying is what I agree with. 758 00:32:17,724 --> 00:32:19,793 No expectations whatsoever. 759 00:32:19,793 --> 00:32:21,310 - He just comes in and... - It's awesome. 760 00:32:21,310 --> 00:32:23,655 - I'm really actually glad for you guys. - It's fantastic. 761 00:32:23,655 --> 00:32:27,068 [Janelle] Christine actually seems happy. 762 00:32:27,068 --> 00:32:28,758 I can tell that she feels loved. 763 00:32:28,758 --> 00:32:30,517 I can tell that she's confident. 764 00:32:30,517 --> 00:32:32,482 I can tell she knows she's loved, 765 00:32:32,482 --> 00:32:34,448 and she's secure in that. 766 00:32:34,448 --> 00:32:36,310 It's so amazing for her. 767 00:32:39,137 --> 00:32:41,413 [sobs] Meri, it's the end of an era. 768 00:32:41,689 --> 00:32:43,103 Well... 769 00:32:43,103 --> 00:32:45,965 This is like the final. 770 00:32:45,965 --> 00:32:47,413 Like, the final-final. 771 00:32:47,413 --> 00:32:49,896 Always blows me away that you get emotional like this. 772 00:32:49,896 --> 00:32:51,482 I just don't understand. 773 00:32:51,482 --> 00:32:53,000 We had something. 774 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:54,241 [Meri] He's sobbing. 775 00:32:54,241 --> 00:32:56,034 He's saying it's the end of an era, 776 00:32:56,034 --> 00:32:59,206 and I'm thinking it didn't have to be this way. 777 00:33:08,862 --> 00:33:11,068 [truck beeping] 778 00:33:11,068 --> 00:33:13,000 [Meri] Today we are unpacking. 779 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,965 Getting it all loaded into either the house 780 00:33:15,965 --> 00:33:17,586 or into the storage unit. 781 00:33:19,551 --> 00:33:21,620 [grunts] Hey, Jenn, how's it going? 782 00:33:21,620 --> 00:33:22,862 It's going. How are you? 783 00:33:22,862 --> 00:33:25,000 Kody and Nathan are here to help me unpack. 784 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,172 And then Jenn, my best friend, she's here too. 785 00:33:27,172 --> 00:33:29,137 Did you park this by yourself? 786 00:33:29,137 --> 00:33:30,482 [Kody] I could have parked it by myself, 787 00:33:30,482 --> 00:33:32,482 but I had two people trying to boss me around on how to do it. 788 00:33:32,482 --> 00:33:34,620 I know nothing about that at all. 789 00:33:34,620 --> 00:33:36,068 - Wait, you're the pro bosser. - Hi. How are you? 790 00:33:36,068 --> 00:33:37,551 I learned from you, Jenn. 791 00:33:37,551 --> 00:33:40,482 No, no, no. Meri's been bossy from day one. 792 00:33:40,482 --> 00:33:42,551 I have no idea what you're talking about. 793 00:33:42,551 --> 00:33:44,586 - [laughs] - She's never been bossy. 794 00:33:44,586 --> 00:33:46,482 [Meri] Kody's always gonna say that I'm bossy. 795 00:33:46,482 --> 00:33:49,586 When I say that something should be done a certain way, 796 00:33:50,344 --> 00:33:51,517 I'm usually right. 797 00:33:51,517 --> 00:33:55,310 So if he wants to take that as bossy, fine. [laughs] 798 00:33:55,310 --> 00:33:56,379 Here we go. 799 00:33:56,379 --> 00:33:58,517 - Yep. I'm doing it. - You got it? 800 00:33:58,517 --> 00:34:00,448 Are you getting paid? Am I getting paid? 801 00:34:00,448 --> 00:34:02,275 Listen, he's my brother-in-law. 802 00:34:02,275 --> 00:34:04,172 - Yeah. - This is my severance package. 803 00:34:04,172 --> 00:34:05,586 [both] Oh! 804 00:34:05,586 --> 00:34:07,758 Little bit this way. Okay, there you go. 805 00:34:07,758 --> 00:34:09,034 - Do you wanna see the-- - [Jenn] Wait. 806 00:34:09,034 --> 00:34:10,862 - I wanna see the upstairs. - [Jenn] Upstairs first. 807 00:34:10,862 --> 00:34:12,310 Listen, Linda, one space at a time. 808 00:34:12,310 --> 00:34:14,172 Is it not weird to show my ex-husband my bedroom? 809 00:34:14,172 --> 00:34:16,310 Let me take you into your ex-wife's bedroom. 810 00:34:16,310 --> 00:34:17,517 That's even more weird. 811 00:34:17,517 --> 00:34:19,137 - [laughs] - Hi, I'm the best friend. 812 00:34:19,137 --> 00:34:21,000 Let me take you into your ex-wife's bedroom. 813 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,241 You know, if you have an amiable relationship with your ex, 814 00:34:24,241 --> 00:34:25,689 it's like brother and sister. 815 00:34:25,689 --> 00:34:29,448 I am the favorite ex-wife. [laughs] 816 00:34:29,448 --> 00:34:32,310 She's finally made it. She heard angels sing. 817 00:34:32,310 --> 00:34:33,551 All right, let's go check this out. 818 00:34:33,551 --> 00:34:36,482 I'm like, "Finally, I can be the favorite." 819 00:34:36,482 --> 00:34:38,034 - I'm sorry. I'm just teasing you. - It's true. 820 00:34:38,034 --> 00:34:39,586 She's the favorite ex-wife. 821 00:34:39,586 --> 00:34:42,965 - All right, let's go. - Oh, y'all, with your polygamy humor. 822 00:34:42,965 --> 00:34:46,793 Meri and Christine loved polygamy humor 823 00:34:46,793 --> 00:34:48,482 with each other and with me. 824 00:34:48,482 --> 00:34:52,586 And Janelle didn't like it, and Robyn didn't like it. 825 00:34:52,586 --> 00:34:54,724 Like, I made a joke once, and Robyn said, 826 00:34:54,724 --> 00:34:57,103 "I've been terrorized 827 00:34:57,103 --> 00:35:00,344 by criticism of coming into this family. 828 00:35:00,344 --> 00:35:03,413 Let's respect this." 829 00:35:03,413 --> 00:35:05,862 To be fair, I think the struggle that Janelle had in it 830 00:35:05,862 --> 00:35:07,620 and I think the struggle Robyn had in it 831 00:35:07,620 --> 00:35:09,517 is kind of being a new wife coming in, 832 00:35:09,517 --> 00:35:12,000 feeling like there wasn't full acceptance. 833 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,379 I mean, 'cause I guarantee you, 834 00:35:13,379 --> 00:35:15,413 that happened to Janelle. 835 00:35:15,413 --> 00:35:18,620 And, frankly, that's one of my big regrets. 836 00:35:18,620 --> 00:35:22,620 [Meri] Whenever you bring a new wife into the family, it shakes things up. 837 00:35:23,482 --> 00:35:25,827 I did have a hard time. I've admitted that. 838 00:35:25,827 --> 00:35:26,896 I've never lied about that. 839 00:35:26,896 --> 00:35:29,931 I don't know what to say about it other than 840 00:35:31,275 --> 00:35:34,172 I'm sorry that I wasn't perfect. 841 00:35:34,172 --> 00:35:37,000 All right. Okay. We're ready to go, ladies, I think. 842 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,344 - Thank you for your help. - So... 843 00:35:38,344 --> 00:35:40,103 Oh, you are more than welcome. 844 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:46,827 You know, this is, like... the final. 845 00:35:46,827 --> 00:35:48,068 Like, the final-final. 846 00:35:48,068 --> 00:35:50,379 I'm done in Flagstaff. 847 00:35:50,379 --> 00:35:52,586 My marriage with him is done. 848 00:35:52,586 --> 00:35:55,379 I'm starting this new life. 849 00:35:55,965 --> 00:35:57,275 Okay. All right. 850 00:35:57,758 --> 00:35:58,620 Um... 851 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:00,620 Uh, it's kind of the... 852 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,172 [sighs] 853 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,517 Thank you. It was fun hanging out. 854 00:36:04,517 --> 00:36:07,000 [sobs] Meri, it's the end of an era. 855 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:08,413 Well... 856 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,620 Yeah, it is. 857 00:36:16,137 --> 00:36:19,586 It was a great run, but I'm not gonna let it get me down. [laughs] 858 00:36:20,241 --> 00:36:21,655 [clears throat] 859 00:36:21,655 --> 00:36:24,482 It always blows me away that you get emotional like this. 860 00:36:24,482 --> 00:36:26,068 I just don't understand. 861 00:36:26,068 --> 00:36:28,172 It's just I'm looking at my life, 862 00:36:28,172 --> 00:36:31,000 and it feels not turned upside down. 863 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,620 It feels like everything just... 864 00:36:33,655 --> 00:36:35,172 We had something... 865 00:36:36,793 --> 00:36:39,413 - [sighs] - We had something really good. 866 00:36:41,344 --> 00:36:44,034 [sobs] 867 00:36:44,034 --> 00:36:45,896 We had something special. 868 00:36:49,689 --> 00:36:53,448 And it feels like it just all went to [bleep], sort of, you know. 869 00:36:53,448 --> 00:36:57,137 And, uh, it was just one thing and then another and then another thing, 870 00:36:57,137 --> 00:36:58,344 and it's all okay. 871 00:36:58,344 --> 00:37:01,931 I... I don't... I don't feel like... 872 00:37:01,931 --> 00:37:03,896 I'm not bitter anymore. I'm not angry. 873 00:37:03,896 --> 00:37:06,241 I'm glad you and I got that figured out. 874 00:37:06,241 --> 00:37:07,344 [Meri] Yeah. 875 00:37:07,344 --> 00:37:08,965 [Kody] I'm glad that we're able to be friends. 876 00:37:08,965 --> 00:37:11,068 I'm glad that you're my favorite ex-wife. 877 00:37:11,068 --> 00:37:13,517 But it's the weirdest thing to be in that place. 878 00:37:13,517 --> 00:37:17,413 - Yeah. - It is just heartbreaking in a way. 879 00:37:17,413 --> 00:37:20,103 And I love the life I have, but it's a very different life 880 00:37:20,103 --> 00:37:23,689 than what I had three years ago. 881 00:37:23,689 --> 00:37:26,655 You know, and it just seemed like everybody else just went, 882 00:37:26,655 --> 00:37:28,448 "This isn't important." 883 00:37:29,793 --> 00:37:33,689 You know, Robyn and I have been in different spaces of mourning about this. 884 00:37:34,689 --> 00:37:37,206 Christine's gone for sure and for good. 885 00:37:37,689 --> 00:37:40,793 Janelle is... most likely 886 00:37:40,793 --> 00:37:44,724 because I just can't find the optimism there anymore. 887 00:37:44,724 --> 00:37:45,517 And... 888 00:37:47,482 --> 00:37:48,689 I lose it. 889 00:37:52,275 --> 00:37:53,379 [sighs] 890 00:37:54,896 --> 00:37:57,689 And it's like this is the final nail 891 00:37:57,689 --> 00:38:00,310 in the coffin of our dream. 892 00:38:00,310 --> 00:38:02,482 It was like we had something special. 893 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,793 We did something special. 894 00:38:05,586 --> 00:38:08,793 And, you know, it's like just an end of an era. 895 00:38:08,793 --> 00:38:11,379 Yeah, it really surprised me. 896 00:38:11,379 --> 00:38:13,137 Like, I don't unders... 897 00:38:13,586 --> 00:38:15,379 I don't understand it. 898 00:38:15,379 --> 00:38:18,310 I've been... I've been going through 899 00:38:18,310 --> 00:38:20,689 an anger phase of divorce all this time, 900 00:38:20,689 --> 00:38:23,034 and just that realization just was like, 901 00:38:23,034 --> 00:38:24,517 I'm not angry anymore. 902 00:38:25,068 --> 00:38:26,137 I'm sad. 903 00:38:26,137 --> 00:38:28,413 I'm sad not about, uh... 904 00:38:28,896 --> 00:38:29,793 [sighs] 905 00:38:30,551 --> 00:38:32,413 Um... 906 00:38:33,034 --> 00:38:35,448 [sighs, sobs] 907 00:38:35,448 --> 00:38:37,275 I'm mourning a loss... 908 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,000 you know? 909 00:38:44,758 --> 00:38:45,655 [Meri] He's sobbing. 910 00:38:45,655 --> 00:38:47,344 He's saying it's the end of an era, 911 00:38:47,344 --> 00:38:51,000 and I'm thinking, "It didn't have to be this way." 912 00:38:53,793 --> 00:38:56,896 [sniffles] I've been so angry with Christine and Janelle 913 00:38:58,275 --> 00:39:01,448 that I haven't been able to really address the mourning. 914 00:39:01,448 --> 00:39:02,862 I've just been angry. 915 00:39:02,862 --> 00:39:06,448 And now with you, I'm through that anger phase. 916 00:39:06,448 --> 00:39:08,586 I'm sorry about the seven years, 917 00:39:09,448 --> 00:39:11,586 but I'm glad we did it. 918 00:39:11,586 --> 00:39:14,586 'Cause now I can mourn a loss instead of being angry. 919 00:39:15,275 --> 00:39:16,620 Does that make sense? 920 00:39:17,448 --> 00:39:18,517 [sighs] 921 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,931 Kind of. [laughs] 922 00:39:20,931 --> 00:39:22,689 And I appreciate what you're saying. 923 00:39:24,034 --> 00:39:27,551 I do not understand. I don't get it. 924 00:39:27,551 --> 00:39:29,586 I don't know where this is coming from. 925 00:39:29,586 --> 00:39:31,137 I do not understand it. 926 00:39:31,137 --> 00:39:33,620 I don't understand it. 927 00:39:33,620 --> 00:39:38,413 He has made it clear that he did not want me in his life 928 00:39:38,413 --> 00:39:41,586 so why this emotion? 929 00:39:41,586 --> 00:39:43,862 You know, until the next guy, you know, your... 930 00:39:43,862 --> 00:39:45,862 When you... If you marry again and everything like that, 931 00:39:45,862 --> 00:39:47,310 I just... It's gotta... 932 00:39:48,034 --> 00:39:50,620 I mean, I won't be weird about it. 933 00:39:50,620 --> 00:39:52,241 Even though that got weird. I'm sorry. 934 00:39:52,241 --> 00:39:53,931 [both laugh] 935 00:39:53,931 --> 00:39:55,275 [Jenn] Would you be the flower girl? 936 00:39:55,896 --> 00:39:57,896 No, I get to walk her down the aisle. 937 00:39:59,551 --> 00:40:02,137 The fact that he's saying he wants to walk me 938 00:40:02,137 --> 00:40:04,103 down the aisle when I get married again, 939 00:40:04,103 --> 00:40:07,000 I'm like, "Uh, huh." 940 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:08,689 Like, why would he say that? 941 00:40:08,689 --> 00:40:11,931 He's saying so... I don't... I'm... I don't know. 942 00:40:12,793 --> 00:40:13,931 I don't... 943 00:40:13,931 --> 00:40:16,724 Like, is he serious? Is he trying to make a joke? 944 00:40:17,172 --> 00:40:18,379 Like, I can't tell. 945 00:40:18,379 --> 00:40:22,137 I don't know what's going on. 946 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,137 It's like, you know, this is the end of an era, 947 00:40:26,137 --> 00:40:28,827 and now we have permission to move on. 948 00:40:37,758 --> 00:40:39,172 [sobs] 949 00:40:43,965 --> 00:40:46,310 I am floored. 950 00:40:46,310 --> 00:40:48,862 Like, I don't know what to do with this. 951 00:40:48,862 --> 00:40:51,517 I'm... I don't know what to do with this. 952 00:40:53,379 --> 00:40:55,413 Still to come on Sister Wives... 953 00:40:57,034 --> 00:41:02,275 It's just heart breaking when the reality finally hits. 954 00:41:02,275 --> 00:41:05,413 Oh [{bleep] What have I done? 955 00:41:06,241 --> 00:41:08,689 [chainsaw revs] 956 00:41:08,689 --> 00:41:09,827 Kody! 957 00:41:09,827 --> 00:41:11,275 Move! Move! Move! Move. 958 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:13,896 What the hell. 959 00:41:13,896 --> 00:41:15,000 It was dangerous when we started. 960 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:16,620 It's more dangerous now. 961 00:41:18,586 --> 00:41:20,379 Wha??? [laughter] 962 00:41:20,379 --> 00:41:23,000 Every since he has married Robyn 963 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:26,482 he has wanted nobody else or you. 964 00:41:27,586 --> 00:41:29,931 Maybe I did the wrong thing. 965 00:41:29,931 --> 00:41:33,413 [all cheering] 966 00:41:33,413 --> 00:41:35,517 Your vagina looks really nice. 967 00:41:35,517 --> 00:41:37,172 Ohhh. That needs to go. 968 00:41:37,172 --> 00:41:38,862 We weren't sure where it was but now we are. 969 00:41:38,862 --> 00:41:40,931 Oh, my gosh! 970 00:41:40,931 --> 00:41:44,310 It's a start over. It's a do over in the very biggest way. 971 00:41:44,310 --> 00:41:48,724 You sure you're okay, this Valentine's, just you and me? 972 00:41:49,482 --> 00:41:51,517 I feel like I've been slapped by polygamy. 973 00:41:51,517 --> 00:41:55,758 He is very angry, and I'm getting the brunt of it. 974 00:41:55,758 --> 00:41:57,000 All right, guys... people. 975 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,172 Roll out. 976 00:41:58,172 --> 00:42:02,000 I love Flagstaff. It's time to do something different. 977 00:42:03,793 --> 00:42:05,379 I don't know how to explain this. 978 00:42:05,379 --> 00:42:08,827 It was never intended for me to know that Janelle was moving. 979 00:42:09,586 --> 00:42:11,517 I think we ought to try the slippery nipple. 980 00:42:11,517 --> 00:42:13,103 Woo! 981 00:42:13,103 --> 00:42:14,068 That's not bad. 982 00:42:14,068 --> 00:42:15,551 [laughter] 983 00:42:15,551 --> 00:42:17,482 Change and growth are scary, right? 984 00:42:17,482 --> 00:42:19,517 And we don't always want to get out of our comfort zone. 985 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,034 I'm going to move to North Carolina. 986 00:42:23,034 --> 00:42:25,827 If for some reason this goes south, 987 00:42:25,827 --> 00:42:28,137 this is going to be a lot of work. 988 00:42:29,793 --> 00:42:31,137 Listen, dating is fun. 989 00:42:31,137 --> 00:42:32,827 I've dated a little bit. 990 00:42:33,965 --> 00:42:36,275 Definitely not interested in polygamy again. 991 00:42:38,172 --> 00:42:40,034 You definitely have got some special land out here. 992 00:42:40,034 --> 00:42:42,000 I think they're worried about 993 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,034 whether I'm going to be fair or not. 994 00:42:43,034 --> 00:42:45,241 Divorce just takes away all the trust. 995 00:42:45,241 --> 00:42:46,827 I probably will get a lawyer 996 00:42:46,827 --> 00:42:49,965 because I think he will just drag his feet if he wanted to. 997 00:42:49,965 --> 00:42:51,620 I put money into it. 998 00:42:51,620 --> 00:42:54,103 I'm going to get my part out of it. 999 00:42:55,034 --> 00:42:56,551 It's so wrong that we have to do this. 1000 00:42:56,551 --> 00:42:58,413 I'm so mad. 1001 00:43:00,758 --> 00:43:02,931 It's a special place that was meant to be more special. 1002 00:43:03,793 --> 00:43:04,793 I don't want to sell. 1003 00:43:04,793 --> 00:43:06,413 Just give us what's ours and we'll move on. 1004 00:43:06,413 --> 00:43:10,000 What else is he going to do? Like, he can't really hurt me. 1005 00:43:12,068 --> 00:43:15,137 Will you accept me as monogamous? 1006 00:43:15,137 --> 00:43:17,034 It's not what I wanted. 1007 00:43:17,034 --> 00:43:20,379 This is the end of this family right here, right now. 1008 00:43:21,862 --> 00:43:22,758 [Robyn] Whoa! 1009 00:43:22,758 --> 00:43:27,655 ♪ 1010 00:43:27,655 --> 00:43:29,793 [rings clank]