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{\an8}[narrator]
Previously on Sister Wives...
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We're throwing Ysabel
a graduation party.
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[Ysabel] Ah!
You're so pretty!
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[Robyn] It's strange, because
like
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we're in this moment, and
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we're having a nice time.
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Why isn't this
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something worth fighting for?
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Why isn't this something worth
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staying for?
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These are the rules for us to
be able to actually associate
as a family.
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We are doing most of these
things, but we don't wipe our
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mail, we don't wipe our
groceries.
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mail, we don't wipe our
groceries.
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I'm sorry, I think this
is overkill.
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[Christine] I'm telling
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my sister wives that I'm
leaving Kody.
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If you move to Utah,
what about Truely?
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I think Truely's gonna
be fine.
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She's never gonna come back?
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Well, you can't take
her from me.
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It'll have to be 50-50.
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He could've had 50-50 time
with us the whole [bleep] time
we lived here.
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I guess I'm just sorry
we failed.
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[Kody] So I am
in Texas right now.
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{\an8}I am driving to my buddy's
wedding.
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{\an8}Brian Coalwell is
getting married.
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{\an8}I'm driving to
Tulsa, Oklahoma.
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{\an8}My buddy Brian is getting
married to his sweetheart,
Judith.
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{\an8}Right now, I'm driving
through Texas, and I'm
just enjoying
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the peace and quiet.
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And solitude is almost
a meditative state for me
when I'm driving.
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I get deep in thought. I think
about and I sort out a lot
of my problems.
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I get deep in thought. I think
about and I sort out a lot
of my problems.
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I'm afraid to say that I'm
mostly thinking about, uh,
my divorce.
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I decided to cop a check
in COVID numbers.
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There's only like, uh,
11,000 or less cases in
the entire United States.
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So it seems like it's safe
to poke my head out.
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{\an8}Yeah, the travel choice is
interesting to me, and
I realize it's important.
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But Kody and Robyn
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still observe the very strict
rules about COVID.
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And yeah,
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here's Kody travelling.
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I'm feeling like it's
time to sort of emerge
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I'm feeling like it's
time to sort of emerge
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from all this quarantining,
the sequestering we've had
with COVID.
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It's strange that Janelle's
in this headspace, because
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I sequestered and stayed home
for 15 months.
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Janelle and Christine didn't.
But the family wasn't getting
together before that,
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the family isn't getting
together now, not
because of COVID.
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That's a gaslighting fallacy.
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That's Janelle just trying
to put hot coals on my head.
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We're not getting together
because the family doesn't
want to.
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Just last week, we went
to her niece's wedding.
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Just last week, we went
to her niece's wedding.
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So these little things about
me aren't really jiving.
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I've travelled with her a lot.
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So I'm excited about
this trip.
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Sad that I'm making it alone
and I miss the idea of having
a wife with me.
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Robyn was supposed to come,
and didn't, because we've got,
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uh, got to make sure the kids
were taken care of.
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Did I say I'm gonna be
performing their wedding?
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I got a ministerial license
in Oklahoma.
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And I got approval
from the county.
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And I will be performing
their marriage.
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And I will be performing
their marriage.
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Kody told me that he was going
to officiate another wedding.
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{\an8}At first, I was like, "That's
great. He did a great job
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{\an8}officiating, so he'll do a
wonderful job."
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But then, I was like
"What about COVID?"
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I haven't made any plan.
I don't know what I'm going
to say yet.
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So, I'll try to say something
eloquent. We'll see.
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Are you gonna mask up
while you're officiating?
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Are they going to have
to follow Kody's ru--
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No, that's ridiculous. They're
not gonna have to follow
Kody's rules.
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No, that's ridiculous. They're
not gonna have to follow
Kody's rules.
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Anyway, headed out to Brian
and Judith's wedding.
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So, I'll check in
with you soon.
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Maybe he'll do some
healing up,
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{\an8}you know? Maybe he'll find
some answers or something
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{\an8}'cause he's been a very
angry guy lately.
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Really, telling Truely that I
was leaving Kody and
we were moving,
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will always be one of the top
ten worst experiences of
my life.
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will always be one of the top
ten worst experiences of
my life.
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So I sat Truely down.
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I told her we're moving,
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and she started to cry.
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I said, "It's just you and I,
that are moving. It's just
the two of us."
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And she goes, "Are you and
Dad getting divorced?"
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And her little face
was so heartbroken.
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Oh, God.
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After I told Truely that we
were moving, I started
boxing up stuff.
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And visibly, so she could see
I was boxing up stuff.
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And visibly, so she could see
I was boxing up stuff.
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And later that day, I went
into her room,
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and she was boxing
up her stuff.
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I never asked her to, I never
told her it was time.
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I just wanna find out what's
going on inside her head now.
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So it seems like you are
feeling
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different about dad and I
getting divorced, and then
about moving possibly.
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So how do you feel?
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So the first day when I
found out,
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I was extremely upset,
but like,
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I was extremely upset,
but like,
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I'm fine now. I just had
to realize
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for a day that not everything
was going to change.
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Of course, I would have
to move to Flagstaff
if you guys
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got divorced and were
divorced for a while.
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But the only thing that was
kinda really changing is that
you two won't be together.
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And I kind of noticed
the signs
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earlier then that you guys
weren't as happy,
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but you didn't really show it
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that much so, of course,
I didn't actually know.
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that much so, of course,
I didn't actually know.
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It was a bit of a heartbreak
at first, but I'm fine now.
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[Christine] Even though
Truely's saying she's okay,
she's just an 11-year-old kid.
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Is she 100 per cent okay? No.
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Gosh, no. How can she
process
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the heartache, and the
frustration, and the anger,
and the sadness?
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She can't process it all like
that. That's gonna take time.
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I look at this conversation
as a beginning.
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Did you... Do you remember
the day I told you, and you
were devastated?
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I told you that you could
reach out to Grandma
because she knew,
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I told you that you could
reach out to Grandma
because she knew,
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and Aspyn.
Did you reach out to anybody?
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I reached out to Aspyn
and Grandma.
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You did.
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{\an8}When I talked to Aspyn and
my grandma about the divorce,
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it was more of me, like,
trying to tell them, like...
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because I didn't really know
what else to do.
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Although what they did say is
reassuring because they both
already knew.
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Although what they did say is
reassuring because they both
already knew.
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But, also the realization that
everybody knew before me
was kind of...
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It did kind of feel
like a betrayal.
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Do you think it made it easier
knowing that we were divorced,
rather than
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we will be getting divorced?
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-Um--
-Was it easier that
it's been done?
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Uh, yeah. But I kind of wished
that you didn't
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keep it a secret from me
for so long.
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And that I had to know that
we were moving
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only three months before
we actually wanted to move.
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only three months before
we actually wanted to move.
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[Truely] They knew before me.
I wasn't told
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we were going to be moving
in September,
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which is only a few
months away.
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That realization that
she told me last,
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after everybody else,
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that I didn't get to know
and we were about to leave,
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it was kind of hurtful.
Like, it did feel like
a betrayal
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that she wouldn't bother
to tell me about it, and I was
going to be affected the most.
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that she wouldn't bother
to tell me about it, and I was
going to be affected the most.
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So you're okay with
the divorce?
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I'm fine now. I'm okay.
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Yeah, okay is fine.
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I think part of this is Truely
also just
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listening to everything that
people have told her,
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and supported her. And I think
she's just trying to be okay.
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But her voice catches a little
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and there is a little bit
of a spark that's not
in her eye yet, you know?
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She is still... Of course,
she's still sad.
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She is still... Of course,
she's still sad.
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Telling you was the hardest
part of all of this.
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I could see why. Because
I'm the youngest.
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And it would be the hardest
break for me. But it wasn't
that hard.
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[Christine] At this point
though, I'm very grateful
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that I decided to end
it with Kody
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before any fighting, or before
any, real, like,
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arguments that Truely would've
noticed and Truely would've
seen.
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But still, it's hard for her
to look back and see that
I was sad.
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I... That's hard.
'Cause she's just a kid.
It's a lot of burden on her.
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I... That's hard.
'Cause she's just a kid.
It's a lot of burden on her.
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I don't want to say anything
bad here, because we're going
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to share our children
for the rest of our lives,
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but I do believe she's being
very unfair with me,
and to me.
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Especially in this
conversation with Truely,
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where she's marginalized me
so much, and our marriage
so much,
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that she's kinda leading
Truely into blowing it off.
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They're blowing me off.
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Yeah, I didn't know
how to tell you.
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I had no idea how to tell you.
That's why it took so long
for me to tell you.
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Well, you just found out
anyway, but,
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Well, you just found out
anyway, but,
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it took me so... I just didn't
know what to say, you know?
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I knew it would change
your world.
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-You're fine.
-Is it okay?
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Yeah, I'm okay. You're fine.
Everything is fine. I'm okay.
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Okay.
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I'm good. I like your nails.
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-Thanks.
-You're welcome.
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They look kinda messy.
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Christine told me this...
whatever happened, she
had to tell Truely.
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And so, I came over the next
day, and I just sat down with
Truely just to talk with her.
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I'm talking with Truely and I
said, "How are you doing?" and
she seemed to have dealt
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with it either very well,
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with it either very well,
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or, I'm not a psychologist,
I'm just a [bleep] parent,
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but maybe she just
buried it emotionally...
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because to deal with it.
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But she seemed very okay.
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[Truely] I haven't really
talked to Dad a lot about
the divorce.
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He just basically told me,
"You found out about
the divorce?"
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And I was like, "Yeah,
I'm fine with it."
And he was like, "Okay."
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So it never really went
beyond that.
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So it never really went
beyond that.
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[Kody] I'm sitting here with
Truely,
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kinda glad that she's not
broken-hearted about
the divorce.
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And even somewhat shocked,
in a way,
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in spite of how much she loves
this house and everything, I'm
sort of shocked, in a way,
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that she's not more devastated
about the divorce than moving.
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I wish I could get 'em
to stay.
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I don't understand, really.
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I mean, Christine may have
told me ten times.
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I don't understand why
she needs to move.
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We're gonna be back from
taking Ysabel.
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We're gonna be back from
taking Ysabel.
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In a couple of weeks,
we'll be back home again.
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When we get back home,
Gwen's moving out a few days
after that.
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So do you want us to move
your stuff into the master
bedroom?
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So you have it, at least, for
like, until we move?
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You can have the master
bedroom here,
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until we move, after Gwen
move out. It might be a
couple weeks.
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I'll be fine.
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You don't want to?
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Yeah, I'm fine with not having
the master.
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Okay.
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And also, since I'm making
ramen, I gotta go.
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Oh, gosh! Okay. Sounds good.
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Oh, gosh! Okay. Sounds good.
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Now I gotta get her excited
about moving.
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And that's what we're
looking forward to too.
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Starting to make plans on what
we're going to do once we move
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and we get to shift
to that now.
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Start talking about
getting excited
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for moving. It's a bittersweet
relief. But, it's a relief.
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{\an8}You know, I've got
my journal,
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{\an8}you know, here. And I'm trying
to write down stuff for Brian
and Judith.
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{\an8}Boy, I'm at a loss.
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{\an8}I don't know what
to write down.
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{\an8}I drove here,
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{\an8}I drove here,
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{\an8}you know, like, decrying
marriage and the foolishness
of it.
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{\an8}If I stutter through this
thing, and do the worst
job ever,
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{\an8}I'm only partly to blame.
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[Kody] I'm in Tulsa,
Oklahoma.
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My dear friend Brian is
getting married and I'm
performing the wedding.
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And I currently haven't got
the wedding vows written,
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and I'm struggling to not
go blank.
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{\an8}I'm in a panic, because,
as I was driving here,
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I knew that I would be able
to... I'd have time to think
about wedding, about the bliss
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and the beauty of marriage,
and all that stuff.
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and the beauty of marriage,
and all that stuff.
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So I knew that I'd be able
to come up with some
great stuff,
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but I didn't.
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I made that whole trip,
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stewing about my own marriage
falling apart.
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I mean, I'm still in this
pretty bad place about it.
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Brian and Judith haven't
really given me much
to work with.
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I am sort of lost on what
I should say,
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and what I should do
for their sake.
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At the same time, it's been
years since I preached from
the pulpit, so to speak,
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At the same time, it's been
years since I preached from
the pulpit, so to speak,
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and they did ask me to say
something, to do something,
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and so, I am literally
drawing a blank.
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{\an8}So when we moved to Vegas
from Utah,
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{\an8}we were kinda forced to start
doing church services in our
home.
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{\an8}[Kody] We're talking about how
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{\an8}we've been apart and not been
in the same homes,
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{\an8}and the moms and I have
talked a lot about how we've
struggled
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to maintain our family
culture.
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Then he was asked to officiate
for Maddie and Caleb
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and I think he really liked
that.
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and I think he really liked
that.
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I know that was a very special
experience for him.
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[Kody] By the power
vested in me
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as a steward of the almighty
God, in the name of
the eternal Messiah,
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I pronounce you,
husband and wife.
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Now kiss each other
as a token,
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sealing this covenant.
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[guests cheer and clap]
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Ladies and gentlemen,
Mr. and Mrs. Caleb Brush.
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[Janelle] And I'm not really
sure 100 percent where Kody
is spiritually, but he still
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[Janelle] And I'm not really
sure 100 percent where Kody
is spiritually, but he still
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really enjoys this role of
officiating at a wedding.
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Boy, I'm at a loss.
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I'm drawing a blank right now,
and just trying to...
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I'm literally praying for
inspiration, trying to make
this work.
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{\an8}How interesting. I'm sure
he's told Brian that I'm
leaving him.
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So, how interesting that he's
officiating a wedding
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when his own marriage
has failed.
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I mean his and Meri's marriage
wasn't great.
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And mine and his is over.
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And I don't know how his
and Janelle's is. I know
it's been rocky.
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And I don't know how his
and Janelle's is. I know
it's been rocky.
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Well maybe that'll have him
give great, you know, wedding
advice. I don't know.
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I'm actually getting
a little bit nervous.
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And it's not like me to be
nervous when I have
to perform.
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Maybe sometimes I get nervous,
I don't know. But I've gotta
write something down
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'cause I've gotta make it
concise. I've gotta get to the
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point. 'Cause they don't
want it long.
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Anyway, here's praying
for inspiration.
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So I am pulling up
to Brian's ranch,
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and the wedding is actually
in Tulsa at a venue.
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And I am about, what I'd call,
two-thirds prepared
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with the vows.
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I'm telling ya. I'm kind of
all nerves.
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I don't know what to write
down.
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I asked Brian when I got here,
he says, "I don't know."
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These two want me to make
it special.
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I drove here,
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I drove here,
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you know, like, decrying
marriage and the foolishness
of it.
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We're gonna go find Brian.
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Hey, guys. How's it going?
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Where's Brian?
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All right. I'll go find him.
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If I stutter through this
thing, and do the worst
job ever,
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I'm only partly to blame.
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Yo, are we gonna be
comfortable smelling like
barbeque at the wedding?
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{\an8}[Brian] No, I'm gonna
be changing.
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{\an8}[Kody] Well, you gotta change.
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{\an8}[Kody] Well, you gotta change.
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[Brian] We can do the marriage
license right now.
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[Kody] Yeah, oh, that's
a good idea. Get me that
marriage license.
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[Brian] I was just thinking
that.
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-That would be a marriage
license.
-Oh, there we go.
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Okay, excellent, all right.
Cool.
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I am now in possession of
the marriage license.
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I met Kody about 26 years ago
at a sporting event.
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He introduced his wife to me.
And his little boy, which was
Logan.
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Then a month or so later,
at another event,
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his wife shows up. And it was
Christine, a different wife.
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his wife shows up. And it was
Christine, a different wife.
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I remember them a couple
months later at another event,
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he said, "Oh yeah, my wife's
gonna swing by." You know,
in comes Meri.
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So at that point, I'm, like,
really suspicious.
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This guy's changing wives like
people change shirts.
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You know, something's
going on.
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I said, "Hey, you've
introduced me to three
different women as your wife.
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He kinda sat there for
a minute, and he goes, "Well,
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I have three wives."
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And I said, "As long as I
don't have to have three
wives, I can live with that."
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[laughs] Okay, I admit the day
I married Janelle,
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she was my first plural wife,
okay. And uh, I was asked
how I felt.
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And I said, "Well, I feel as
nervous as a three-legged cat
on a hot tin roof." [laughs]
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I'm about to officiate his
marriage.
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There's something gnawing on
me. Am I supposed to stop you
from doing this? [laughs]
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[Janelle] He was questioning
whether he was the best guy
to talk at a wedding
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[Janelle] He was questioning
whether he was the best guy
to talk at a wedding
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when he was struggling so much
in his relationship.
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He would bring that up often
with me in conversation.
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'Cause he feels like it's a
little bit of a failure
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that this marriage is falling
apart.
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[Robyn] I know that he's been
in a dark place.
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You know, he was like,
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{\an8}maybe Brian's just making
a mistake getting married.
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{\an8}And I was like, "What?"
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[Kody laughing] He looks at me
kinda sideways and he's like,
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I cannot believe that I asked
him. But he looks at me
sideways, and he says,
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"Kody, this is about
to happen."
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I'm like, okay. I mean, you're
like, "You're sure, right?
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You're sure you're supposed
to marry her?"
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He's like, "I'm sure, man.
It's okay."
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{\an8}Does he not know I needed him
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{\an8}more than Brian needs him
to officiate a wedding?
365
00:18:38,667 --> 00:18:40,667
{\an8}-Are you nervous?
-A little bit.
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{\an8}You should be. I am.
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00:18:43,467 --> 00:18:44,967
{\an8}And now I'm mad.
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{\an8}[Kody] I'm about to officiate
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my good friend
Brian's marriage.
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I don't know what to say,
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I haven't put it together yet.
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And my thoughts, so far, about
marriage, ironically, have
been mixed.
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And it's crazy that I am here
performing this wedding.
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Basically, a wedding is
a beginning
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and it's supposed to be
a poetic invocation.
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00:19:15,824 --> 00:19:16,000
and it's supposed to be
a poetic invocation.
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And in my own view, my
invitation is to have
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a couple that's in love bring
God into their relationship,
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so that their relationship is
stable, eternal,
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and um...
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uhh...
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And I... You know, I'm...
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I'm hoping I can pull
this off.
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Dearly beloved, welcome.
385
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Brian and I have known
each other for about 25
or so years.
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And we've been dear friends
for 10, 15?
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00:19:55,266 --> 00:19:56,467
Um...
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-Are you nervous?
-A little bit.
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You should be. I am.
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00:20:02,900 --> 00:20:04,867
[Brian] He's very nervous
about doing the wedding.
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You know, he's always had
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{\an8}issues in his marriage, where,
like any marriage, there would
be times when there's problems
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but I don't think he saw it
coming to an end.
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You know, thinking about
someone telling you that
they're leaving,
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00:20:15,824 --> 00:20:16,000
You know, thinking about
someone telling you that
they're leaving,
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put a lot of concerns,
you know,
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about his family. What was
gonna happen with his kids.
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How is this gonna work out
and how do we deal with
all this.
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Dearly beloved, we uh...
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If Brian and Judith would have
ever heard me do a sermon,
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they would not have asked
me to do this. [chuckles]
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00:20:36,266 --> 00:20:38,367
I get extremely creative,
403
00:20:38,367 --> 00:20:42,000
so I've scripted myself, okay?
404
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,500
This is something I know I can
pull off. I am still shocked
405
00:20:45,567 --> 00:20:45,824
that Brian and Judith wanted
me to do it.
406
00:20:45,824 --> 00:20:46,000
that Brian and Judith wanted
me to do it.
407
00:20:47,867 --> 00:20:51,000
You know, yes, it is something
I'm used to doing. I used
to be a minister.
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00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,367
I am the high priest
of my family.
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00:20:54,367 --> 00:20:59,467
But I'm also a failed priest.
I've been defrocked. I've got
a wife leaving me.
410
00:21:00,567 --> 00:21:04,100
Marriage is a contract,
a bargain.
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00:21:04,100 --> 00:21:08,467
If you include God, it becomes
a covenant, as God
is constant.
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00:21:08,467 --> 00:21:09,667
[baby fussing in the audience]
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00:21:09,667 --> 00:21:12,600
Humans are imperfect,
we're not constant.
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00:21:13,100 --> 00:21:14,567
So let's start...
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with this.
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You can't change each other.
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When you marry somebody,
you can't
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ask them to change, you can't
push them to change. You can't
need them to change.
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00:21:30,767 --> 00:21:35,166
You have to accept them
as who they are.
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Too many times, people marry
with a hope
421
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that this marriage, this
person becomes what
you need.
422
00:22:03,567 --> 00:22:07,467
A couple gets married, and
they have different goals even
after they get married.
423
00:22:07,467 --> 00:22:09,367
And so, what they have
to do is like,
424
00:22:09,367 --> 00:22:13,166
"Here, baby. Let me help you
get your goals. Would you help
me get mine?"
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-[Kody] I, Brian...
-[Brian] I, Brian...
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00:22:15,667 --> 00:22:15,824
[Kody] Coalwell, will listen
and negotiate for a win/win...
427
00:22:15,824 --> 00:22:16,000
[Kody] Coalwell, will listen
and negotiate for a win/win...
428
00:22:19,867 --> 00:22:21,867
[Brian] will listen and
negotiate for a win/win...
429
00:22:21,867 --> 00:22:24,200
[Kody] ...with my lover and
wife, Judith.
430
00:22:24,266 --> 00:22:26,567
[Brian] ...with my lover and
wife, Judith.
431
00:22:26,567 --> 00:22:28,266
{\an8}This is Kody.
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{\an8}Kody has a tendency sometimes
to kinda wait till the
last minute,
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or when inspiration strikes,
434
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and it stresses me out a lot.
[chuckles nervously]
435
00:22:42,867 --> 00:22:44,166
He does a pretty good job.
436
00:22:44,166 --> 00:22:45,824
And he does and
says things that
437
00:22:45,824 --> 00:22:46,000
And he does and
says things that
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00:22:47,567 --> 00:22:49,300
other people only wish
they could.
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[audience cheering]
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[Kody] Dearly beloved, let me
introduce to you,
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Mr. and Mrs. Brian Coalwell.
442
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I hope they had a special
moment.
443
00:23:11,166 --> 00:23:14,700
And what was fun, of all the
fun part of it,
444
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it was fun introducing them.
445
00:23:15,824 --> 00:23:16,000
it was fun introducing them.
446
00:23:16,767 --> 00:23:18,667
They're very traditional.
447
00:23:18,667 --> 00:23:21,300
She wanted Brian's name.
448
00:23:21,367 --> 00:23:23,967
That was one of the things
that helped me affirm
449
00:23:23,967 --> 00:23:25,667
get that crazy demon
out of my head.
450
00:23:25,667 --> 00:23:28,166
You know, I got followed here
by a demon, you know?
451
00:23:28,166 --> 00:23:32,700
And she is very much this
perfectly supporting wife.
452
00:23:32,767 --> 00:23:34,266
And I think she was
453
00:23:34,266 --> 00:23:38,767
very excited about me
introducing Mr. and Mrs. Brian
Coalwell, so...
454
00:23:41,967 --> 00:23:44,266
[guitar music playing]
455
00:23:53,367 --> 00:23:56,300
[Christine]
Janelle's kids knew that Kody
was officiating the wedding,
456
00:23:56,367 --> 00:23:58,100
and they told Gwen and
Ysabel.
457
00:23:58,100 --> 00:24:00,066
{\an8}So Gwendolyn's mad.
458
00:24:00,066 --> 00:24:01,900
{\an8}Ysabel's heartbroken.
459
00:24:02,667 --> 00:24:04,367
Oh my gosh.
460
00:24:05,266 --> 00:24:06,667
{\an8}She went exactly there.
461
00:24:07,567 --> 00:24:10,867
{\an8}She goes, "How can he justify
462
00:24:10,867 --> 00:24:14,567
officiating Brian's wedding
463
00:24:14,567 --> 00:24:15,824
when he wouldn't even come
to my surgery."
464
00:24:15,824 --> 00:24:16,000
when he wouldn't even come
to my surgery."
465
00:24:19,100 --> 00:24:22,467
[Kody] So there's this
overlying thing from Christine
466
00:24:22,467 --> 00:24:27,000
with why I can go to a
friend's wedding, but I can't
go to Ysabel's surgery.
467
00:24:27,066 --> 00:24:29,967
Ysabel's surgery was at a time
and a situation where it
468
00:24:29,967 --> 00:24:33,867
would've required that I'm six
or eight weeks away from home.
469
00:24:33,867 --> 00:24:39,000
No man can be away from work
and from home and from family
that long.
470
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,367
I was gone for four days for
Brian's wedding.
471
00:24:41,767 --> 00:24:42,667
That's it.
472
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,967
And now I'm mad.
473
00:24:48,467 --> 00:24:50,000
What the hell?
474
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,600
You think you could go
officiate your friend's
wedding
475
00:24:53,667 --> 00:24:56,266
and not take care of
your own family?
476
00:24:56,266 --> 00:24:59,166
I think she protesteth
too much.
477
00:24:59,166 --> 00:25:03,266
She is trying to excuse
herself by making me some
kind of villain.
478
00:25:05,100 --> 00:25:07,066
[Christine] I don't have
to deal with him anymore.
479
00:25:07,066 --> 00:25:08,867
I'm not married to him.
480
00:25:08,867 --> 00:25:13,266
The lack of love between us
was for a reason.
481
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,667
So glad I'm not.
482
00:25:15,667 --> 00:25:15,824
Because I cannot respect
this person anymore.
483
00:25:15,824 --> 00:25:16,000
Because I cannot respect
this person anymore.
484
00:25:18,266 --> 00:25:21,467
Who he is, and the choices
that he's making,
485
00:25:21,467 --> 00:25:23,266
I cannot respect this man.
486
00:25:23,266 --> 00:25:25,667
This comment that
she's making,
487
00:25:25,667 --> 00:25:27,900
needs a mirror up in her face.
488
00:25:28,667 --> 00:25:29,934
Gosh.
489
00:25:34,467 --> 00:25:36,166
{\an8}[Janelle] Yeah, so I have this
trailer, it's sitting
490
00:25:36,166 --> 00:25:38,166
{\an8}here. I'm a little bit
overwhelmed
491
00:25:38,166 --> 00:25:39,867
{\an8}'cause I don't know how
to set it up.
492
00:25:39,867 --> 00:25:41,900
{\an8}Don't hit auto-level again.
493
00:25:41,967 --> 00:25:45,767
{\an8}[Gabe] Me and my dad, we don't
talk as much as we used to.
494
00:25:45,767 --> 00:25:45,824
{\an8}I don't really understand what
I did wrong.
495
00:25:45,824 --> 00:25:46,000
{\an8}I don't really understand what
I did wrong.
496
00:25:54,867 --> 00:25:58,100
[Kody] So I've come back from
Oklahoma. I tested negative
for COVID,
497
00:25:58,166 --> 00:26:01,767
{\an8}so I can be around the rest
of the family. And Janelle
and I are getting together to
498
00:26:01,767 --> 00:26:04,166
{\an8}level the RV again.
499
00:26:06,900 --> 00:26:09,767
[Janelle] I'm a little bit
overwhelmed by this part.
500
00:26:09,767 --> 00:26:11,700
{\an8}'Cause I don't know how
to set it up to make sure
501
00:26:11,767 --> 00:26:14,700
it's gonna be livable for
a longer term.
502
00:26:18,700 --> 00:26:18,813
This ought to just take
us ten minutes.
503
00:26:18,813 --> 00:26:19,000
This ought to just take
us ten minutes.
504
00:26:21,300 --> 00:26:23,400
So, let me, uh...
505
00:26:23,467 --> 00:26:26,200
Have you figured out if you
can manually move each
one of these?
506
00:26:26,967 --> 00:26:28,266
[Janelle] I think we need--
507
00:26:28,266 --> 00:26:30,000
[Gabe] Yes, but it's a very
weird system.
508
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,467
I'm really worried about
messing up the electronics
on it if we do that.
509
00:26:33,467 --> 00:26:36,400
Can we manipulate each leg
independently?
510
00:26:36,467 --> 00:26:38,600
[Janelle] Well, why don't we
check the level? Should we
check the level?
511
00:26:39,700 --> 00:26:41,166
[Kody] Okay.
512
00:26:41,166 --> 00:26:44,266
[Janelle] I couldn't have
anticipated what this
experience
513
00:26:44,266 --> 00:26:46,200
was gonna be exactly like.
I think
514
00:26:46,266 --> 00:26:48,813
it's the best of both worlds
and the worst of both worlds.
515
00:26:48,813 --> 00:26:49,000
it's the best of both worlds
and the worst of both worlds.
516
00:26:49,367 --> 00:26:52,467
There's a huge learning curve,
a huge adjustment
517
00:26:52,467 --> 00:26:55,367
to having to get all my
electricity from a generator.
518
00:26:55,367 --> 00:26:57,900
I'm hauling my water by
hand right now.
519
00:26:57,967 --> 00:27:02,600
Wow. Wow, it's a lot of work
to do the adjustment.
520
00:27:02,667 --> 00:27:04,600
Here Gabe, I wanna put
this on the floor there.
521
00:27:05,867 --> 00:27:07,467
So...
522
00:27:09,867 --> 00:27:13,066
[Janelle] Well, I think you're
gonna need to auto-level it
really quickly.
523
00:27:13,066 --> 00:27:14,367
[Kody] We tried levelling
524
00:27:14,367 --> 00:27:17,000
the trailer once before, and
525
00:27:17,066 --> 00:27:18,813
it wasn't actually levelling.
So the self-level wasn't
actually...
526
00:27:18,813 --> 00:27:19,000
it wasn't actually levelling.
So the self-level wasn't
actually...
527
00:27:20,100 --> 00:27:21,667
it wasn't... it didn't
seem level to me.
528
00:27:23,166 --> 00:27:24,867
No, no. We don't wanna do
the auto-level.
529
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,367
[Gabe] That's all this is.
530
00:27:27,367 --> 00:27:29,900
[Kody] We've done the
auto-level. Stop doing
the auto-level.
531
00:27:29,967 --> 00:27:31,900
The auto-level is not
doing anything.
532
00:27:31,967 --> 00:27:35,166
We did the auto-level after
the sides were out.
I think it was the problem.
533
00:27:35,166 --> 00:27:37,166
I really... We really don't
know what we're doing here.
534
00:27:37,166 --> 00:27:39,367
We sort of know, but we
have no real idea.
535
00:27:39,367 --> 00:27:41,400
Don't hit auto-level again.
536
00:27:41,467 --> 00:27:42,767
We wanna manually level it.
537
00:27:42,767 --> 00:27:44,367
Start manual--
538
00:27:44,367 --> 00:27:46,367
[Janelle] I want a board
under that tire. It makes me
really uncomfortable.
539
00:27:46,367 --> 00:27:48,813
Janelle, we can lower each one
of these so that the tire's
on the ground.
540
00:27:48,813 --> 00:27:49,000
Janelle, we can lower each one
of these so that the tire's
on the ground.
541
00:27:50,467 --> 00:27:51,700
[Christine]
Janelle's a trooper.
542
00:27:51,767 --> 00:27:53,500
She's amazing. Okay.
543
00:27:53,567 --> 00:27:58,300
{\an8}So she's only a mile away
from me now. She lives out on
the property.
544
00:27:58,367 --> 00:28:01,467
Oh, my gosh. So I see her
all the time.
545
00:28:01,467 --> 00:28:04,467
She'll come over for coffee,
she's come over for breakfast,
546
00:28:04,467 --> 00:28:06,767
she's been doing her laundry,
okay?
547
00:28:06,767 --> 00:28:09,166
She's been doing her laundry
at my house, which is,
of course, great.
548
00:28:09,166 --> 00:28:10,900
[Robyn] I always go out to the
property,
549
00:28:10,967 --> 00:28:13,367
and I sit there on what
was gonna be my lot,
550
00:28:13,367 --> 00:28:15,867
and imagine us out there.
551
00:28:15,867 --> 00:28:18,813
Every time I was out there,
Janelle was gone.
552
00:28:18,813 --> 00:28:19,000
Every time I was out there,
Janelle was gone.
553
00:28:19,166 --> 00:28:23,600
{\an8}If I would've ran into her,
I would've said hi, talked to
her, but yeah, it was weird.
554
00:28:23,667 --> 00:28:26,100
All auto's gonna do is shift
it by a tenth of a degree that
555
00:28:26,100 --> 00:28:28,266
we just shifted by
pulling everything.
556
00:28:28,266 --> 00:28:29,767
[Kody] Did you auto-level it
yesterday or today?
557
00:28:29,767 --> 00:28:31,300
Okay, hit the auto-level.
558
00:28:31,367 --> 00:28:34,600
-Oh, it's all over here.
-I just gotta lift this up.
559
00:28:34,667 --> 00:28:38,900
If she is able to somehow
get something going on
the property,
560
00:28:38,967 --> 00:28:42,400
then yeah, she'll be my
favorite person forever.
'Cause, like,
561
00:28:42,467 --> 00:28:45,467
that's all I want is to get
on that property.
562
00:28:45,467 --> 00:28:48,813
[Christine]
When we moved to Flagstaff, I
fell in love with Coyote Pass.
563
00:28:48,813 --> 00:28:49,000
[Christine]
When we moved to Flagstaff, I
fell in love with Coyote Pass.
564
00:28:49,166 --> 00:28:51,567
And I saw, like, all four
of us wives
565
00:28:51,567 --> 00:28:56,367
and Kody. All living there and
raising our kids there and
probably settling there.
566
00:28:56,367 --> 00:29:01,500
And then, we did nothing.
And nothing, and nothing.
567
00:29:01,567 --> 00:29:05,600
And then things between Kody
and I got worse and worse
and worse.
568
00:29:05,667 --> 00:29:08,367
[Janelle] Kody, I'm... Oh now
the centers aren't even down
at all.
569
00:29:08,367 --> 00:29:10,367
-[Gabe] Both of them are out.
-[Kody] Well, that's all
right.
570
00:29:10,367 --> 00:29:12,767
No, it's not. Kody, not to
live long-term in it.
571
00:29:12,767 --> 00:29:14,467
[Kody] Well, for now.
572
00:29:14,467 --> 00:29:18,066
{\an8}I think there's a reason why
we haven't done anything
with the property yet.
573
00:29:18,066 --> 00:29:18,813
And it really just comes down
to, in order to do anything
with it it has to be paid off.
574
00:29:18,813 --> 00:29:19,000
And it really just comes down
to, in order to do anything
with it it has to be paid off.
575
00:29:22,967 --> 00:29:24,800
I don't even know. Like...
576
00:29:24,867 --> 00:29:28,367
I don't even know. Honestly,
the property is the furthest
thing from my mind.
577
00:29:28,367 --> 00:29:31,700
Like, there's a lot of family
stuff that needs to be worked
out.
578
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:33,600
[Kody] Stop, Gabe.
579
00:29:41,467 --> 00:29:44,600
[Kody] You didn't...
Everybody... We have to know
how to fix it.
580
00:29:46,767 --> 00:29:48,813
Gabriel doesn't know anything
about this RV.
581
00:29:48,813 --> 00:29:48,967
Gabriel doesn't know anything
about this RV.
582
00:29:48,967 --> 00:29:49,000
He hasn't read the manual.
583
00:29:50,467 --> 00:29:53,767
He hasn't driven it. He hasn't
levelled it before.
584
00:29:53,767 --> 00:29:57,000
He doesn't know what he's
talking about. He doesn't even
know what he's doing.
585
00:29:58,367 --> 00:30:03,000
[Gabe] Me and my dad, we don't
talk as much as we used to.
586
00:30:03,066 --> 00:30:06,700
{\an8}Ever since we like talked
about COVID and stuff,
587
00:30:06,767 --> 00:30:10,567
and I voiced how I was not
appreciating how he was
handling it,
588
00:30:11,700 --> 00:30:13,300
tension has been really high.
589
00:30:13,367 --> 00:30:15,667
[Kody] You got rules and
regulations for work.
590
00:30:15,667 --> 00:30:17,900
Why can't we have that for
our family staying healthy?
591
00:30:17,967 --> 00:30:18,813
'Cause we're a family.
Why don't we verbalize it and
trust each other?
592
00:30:18,813 --> 00:30:19,000
'Cause we're a family.
Why don't we verbalize it and
trust each other?
593
00:30:21,567 --> 00:30:24,400
Therein lies the problem.
Right there.
594
00:30:24,467 --> 00:30:26,667
We had been just trying
to operate as a family here.
595
00:30:28,767 --> 00:30:31,266
It just seems like he's tired
of putting effort
596
00:30:31,266 --> 00:30:34,000
into maintaining something
with me.
597
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,166
I don't really understand what
I did wrong.
598
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,667
[Kody] The whole issue with me
and Gabriel isn't that
599
00:30:40,667 --> 00:30:43,300
Gabriel doesn't know what's
going on.
600
00:30:43,367 --> 00:30:48,467
But Gabriel knew what the
rules were. He was gaslighting
me, I feel like.
601
00:30:48,467 --> 00:30:48,813
[Janelle] This is the low
side. To balance that side
over there, you need boards
602
00:30:48,813 --> 00:30:49,000
[Janelle] This is the low
side. To balance that side
over there, you need boards
603
00:30:51,767 --> 00:30:53,467
-under these tires.
-No, no. That's the low side.
604
00:30:53,467 --> 00:30:55,166
'Cause they were dangling
down like this.
605
00:30:55,166 --> 00:30:56,867
The driveway has some natural
606
00:30:56,867 --> 00:30:59,700
uneven-ness because it's rock.
So I sort of figured
607
00:30:59,767 --> 00:31:02,467
we could put boards under
the low tire.
608
00:31:03,867 --> 00:31:06,166
Kody, we need to put some
boards under the tires.
609
00:31:08,567 --> 00:31:10,467
[Christine] So even before I
decided to leave Kody,
610
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,000
when things were really bad
between us,
611
00:31:15,066 --> 00:31:17,567
I thought, okay, give him
my best intention,
612
00:31:18,166 --> 00:31:18,813
and maybe build on it,
613
00:31:18,813 --> 00:31:19,000
and maybe build on it,
614
00:31:19,767 --> 00:31:21,100
bet the last thing I wanna
do is live
615
00:31:21,867 --> 00:31:23,300
on a property where
616
00:31:23,367 --> 00:31:25,667
he has full functioning
marriages with other wives and
617
00:31:25,667 --> 00:31:28,467
yay, I get to see it all
the time? That doesn't sound
fun.
618
00:31:30,367 --> 00:31:34,667
Oh, Kody. See, look, come
check this out. It's not level
at all.
619
00:31:37,700 --> 00:31:39,166
It's gonna bend.
620
00:31:43,767 --> 00:31:47,967
Your dad's getting overwhelmed
I think.
621
00:31:47,967 --> 00:31:48,813
I haven't talked to Kody yet
about this,
622
00:31:48,813 --> 00:31:49,000
I haven't talked to Kody yet
about this,
623
00:31:50,767 --> 00:31:54,300
but what makes most sense to
me, because it seems easiest,
624
00:31:54,367 --> 00:31:57,000
is I keep everything from
the house,
625
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,867
the proceeds, if I rent it,
sell it, whatever.
626
00:31:59,867 --> 00:32:02,800
And then he can have
the property.
627
00:32:02,867 --> 00:32:05,300
They can have the property.
I want nothing to do with
the property.
628
00:32:07,567 --> 00:32:09,166
[Kody] I'm getting tired and I
just, like,
629
00:32:09,166 --> 00:32:11,767
I need a break. I mean, we sit
here and play with this
forever.
630
00:32:11,767 --> 00:32:13,767
It's not levelling. I don't
get it.
631
00:32:14,567 --> 00:32:16,367
But I'm tired, and I'm done.
632
00:32:16,367 --> 00:32:18,767
Let's just move in.
633
00:32:18,767 --> 00:32:18,813
[Janelle] I guess I thought,
I would pull the trailer out
there,
634
00:32:18,813 --> 00:32:19,000
[Janelle] I guess I thought,
I would pull the trailer out
there,
635
00:32:21,467 --> 00:32:24,100
I'd hook up some sort of power
and everything would be great.
636
00:32:24,100 --> 00:32:27,567
This has turned out to be so
much more difficult than I
thought it was going to be.
637
00:32:27,567 --> 00:32:29,467
I hope I survive this.
638
00:32:31,567 --> 00:32:35,567
{\an8}You know, you and I have
to actually have a child
custody agreement.
639
00:32:36,266 --> 00:32:38,367
{\an8}Or the state essentially
640
00:32:38,367 --> 00:32:39,700
{\an8}becomes the owner of her.
641
00:32:39,767 --> 00:32:41,867
{\an8}Christine is taking Truely
to Utah.
642
00:32:41,867 --> 00:32:44,567
{\an8}Utah is not favorable
to polygamists.
643
00:32:44,567 --> 00:32:47,567
{\an8}I don't think we need to get
a lawyer involved in things.
644
00:32:47,567 --> 00:32:48,813
{\an8}She could end up with full
custody with Truely and keep
me from ever seeing her.
645
00:32:48,813 --> 00:32:49,000
{\an8}She could end up with full
custody with Truely and keep
me from ever seeing her.
646
00:32:59,867 --> 00:33:03,700
{\an8}With Christine wanting to move
to Utah, there's this big
question
647
00:33:03,767 --> 00:33:06,200
of what do we with her
house?
648
00:33:06,266 --> 00:33:09,867
And so Christine wanted me
to come over to sit down with
her and talk about it.
649
00:33:11,567 --> 00:33:12,600
-Hey.
-[Christine] Hey!
650
00:33:12,667 --> 00:33:15,667
-You wanted to talk?
-Yes. Have a seat.
651
00:33:15,667 --> 00:33:16,467
[Kody] What about?
652
00:33:16,467 --> 00:33:18,300
[Christine] Okay, about, um...
653
00:33:18,367 --> 00:33:19,166
[Kody groans]
654
00:33:20,300 --> 00:33:21,767
{\an8}About specifically,
655
00:33:22,700 --> 00:33:23,071
{\an8}we're moving and, um,
keeping this house.
656
00:33:23,071 --> 00:33:24,000
{\an8}we're moving and, um,
keeping this house.
657
00:33:27,700 --> 00:33:29,500
I'm definitely moving to Utah.
658
00:33:29,567 --> 00:33:31,367
Not yet.
659
00:33:31,367 --> 00:33:35,300
It'll be after, well,
the girls move out.
But anyway,
660
00:33:35,367 --> 00:33:38,700
I don't know what to do
about my house.
661
00:33:38,767 --> 00:33:43,700
I just wanna get Kody's
opinion on what to do
about it.
662
00:33:43,767 --> 00:33:46,266
So what I'm thinking about is,
663
00:33:46,266 --> 00:33:49,567
well, the last thing I wanna
do is displace Gwendolyn.
664
00:33:49,567 --> 00:33:51,467
She wants to finish college
here.
665
00:33:51,467 --> 00:33:53,071
But with COVID, she hasn't
been able to go on campus.
666
00:33:53,071 --> 00:33:54,000
But with COVID, she hasn't
been able to go on campus.
667
00:33:54,967 --> 00:33:59,100
So she hasn't been able
to find roommates and find
a place to stay.
668
00:33:59,100 --> 00:34:01,166
-She's vaccinated?
-Yeah, she is.
669
00:34:01,166 --> 00:34:04,266
-Well, it's new. It's all new.
You know what?
-Oh, okay.
670
00:34:04,266 --> 00:34:10,567
What I'm thinking about doing
is renting the place out to
two more people, besides her,
671
00:34:10,567 --> 00:34:15,166
and then just locking the door
just to up here, so they can't
come up here.
672
00:34:15,166 --> 00:34:20,100
And so when I come to town
with Truely, I just want her
to have a place to stay.
673
00:34:20,100 --> 00:34:23,071
Just to make it a little bit
easier, you know, to come
into town and stuff.
674
00:34:23,071 --> 00:34:24,000
Just to make it a little bit
easier, you know, to come
into town and stuff.
675
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:25,600
What do you think?
676
00:34:35,166 --> 00:34:38,266
I don't know what to think.
Um...
677
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,300
I gotta admit, this entire
experience of this breakup,
678
00:34:44,367 --> 00:34:48,000
has spun my head off my neck.
679
00:34:48,066 --> 00:34:51,767
I need some time to actually
digest this and know the right
thing to do.
680
00:34:59,667 --> 00:35:03,467
Well, it sort of deals with
the unknown. I mean, like,
you don't know
681
00:35:04,767 --> 00:35:06,367
what else you'll be able
to do.
682
00:35:07,567 --> 00:35:08,900
Selling it now,
683
00:35:10,567 --> 00:35:13,000
would make it so we could pay
off Coyote Pass.
684
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,367
And Janelle could actually
build on it.
685
00:35:15,367 --> 00:35:17,266
We can't build on it till
we pay it off.
686
00:35:20,667 --> 00:35:21,600
I think...
687
00:35:22,767 --> 00:35:23,071
if I'm going to sell my house,
688
00:35:23,071 --> 00:35:24,000
if I'm going to sell my house,
689
00:35:25,967 --> 00:35:29,200
I'm gonna keep the proceeds
from selling my house.
690
00:35:29,266 --> 00:35:31,567
And put it towards the next
house that I purchase.
691
00:35:32,567 --> 00:35:34,600
So if I sell,
692
00:35:34,667 --> 00:35:37,567
I'm not gonna put that money
into Coyote Pass.
693
00:35:37,567 --> 00:35:41,400
That ship's sailed for me.
I'm not putting any more money
into Coyote Pass.
694
00:35:41,467 --> 00:35:43,367
The problem here, Christine,
695
00:35:43,367 --> 00:35:45,600
is that it's our house.
696
00:35:45,667 --> 00:35:48,667
The family actually bought
this house.
697
00:35:48,667 --> 00:35:51,800
It's not your house,
it's our house.
698
00:35:53,100 --> 00:35:54,000
[Christine] So if I did sell,
699
00:35:55,166 --> 00:35:59,467
the family needs the money
right now for the property.
700
00:35:59,467 --> 00:36:02,200
But then I would get some
of the money too.
701
00:36:02,266 --> 00:36:03,767
So how does that work out?
702
00:36:05,467 --> 00:36:08,100
It'd be, just... It'd be a...
703
00:36:08,100 --> 00:36:11,367
a place if... What we'd do is
pay off the property,
704
00:36:11,367 --> 00:36:12,867
then we divide the lots.
705
00:36:12,867 --> 00:36:14,567
And then rather than
quick-claiming
706
00:36:14,567 --> 00:36:17,100
your lot, you would sell
707
00:36:17,100 --> 00:36:18,467
your lot to us.
708
00:36:18,467 --> 00:36:19,600
[Christine] Oh, okay.
709
00:36:20,700 --> 00:36:23,071
I've been making every payment
on this house.
710
00:36:23,071 --> 00:36:23,300
I've been making every payment
on this house.
711
00:36:23,767 --> 00:36:24,000
Every one.
712
00:36:25,166 --> 00:36:27,800
So, no. I...
713
00:36:27,867 --> 00:36:31,967
I won't be giving him any
of the money from the sale
of my house.
714
00:36:31,967 --> 00:36:34,100
Here's the thing with
Christine and that house.
715
00:36:34,166 --> 00:36:37,367
Robyn and I gave her
her down payment
for that house.
716
00:36:37,367 --> 00:36:41,000
Christine couldn't qualify
for financing.
717
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,000
So I bought that house with
her and it was my money that
718
00:36:44,066 --> 00:36:46,467
went into that house
to buy the house.
719
00:36:46,467 --> 00:36:49,367
Yeah, she's been making
a mortgage payment.
720
00:36:49,367 --> 00:36:51,800
And we all have been having
to do that.
721
00:36:51,867 --> 00:36:53,071
But we had to come up with
that money for
the down payment.
722
00:36:53,071 --> 00:36:54,000
But we had to come up with
that money for
the down payment.
723
00:36:55,100 --> 00:36:58,567
That money should come back
and go into Coyote Pass.
724
00:37:03,667 --> 00:37:06,266
So you would be basically
the fourth roommate
just coming up here.
725
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:07,800
Mm-hmm.
726
00:37:09,100 --> 00:37:12,166
That's actually probably
a really good idea.
727
00:37:12,166 --> 00:37:15,767
I would make Truely a little
area over there, so she would
be able to--
728
00:37:15,767 --> 00:37:18,767
Well, I might get Truely a
room at one of the houses,
or no.
729
00:37:18,767 --> 00:37:21,367
There's only one house.
I might get Truely a room,
730
00:37:21,367 --> 00:37:23,071
and then um...
Truely stays there.
731
00:37:23,071 --> 00:37:24,000
and then um...
Truely stays there.
732
00:37:27,567 --> 00:37:30,667
You know, you and I have
to actually have a child
733
00:37:30,667 --> 00:37:36,166
custody agreement in place, or
the state takes her.
734
00:37:36,166 --> 00:37:37,900
Essentially becomes the owner
of her.
735
00:37:38,667 --> 00:37:39,567
Oh, seriously?
736
00:37:39,567 --> 00:37:41,300
Yeah, it's stupid.
737
00:37:41,367 --> 00:37:45,166
So I got to this child custody
thing, and I just started
getting creative about it.
738
00:37:45,166 --> 00:37:49,567
Because, it's like, what do I,
I just don't know what to do.
739
00:37:49,567 --> 00:37:52,100
Christine's like why do we
need to do this? And I'm like,
740
00:37:52,166 --> 00:37:53,071
because the rulebook says...
I don't know why we need to
do this.
741
00:37:53,071 --> 00:37:54,000
because the rulebook says...
I don't know why we need to
do this.
742
00:37:55,567 --> 00:37:58,500
And there is this thing in
the Manosphere
743
00:37:58,567 --> 00:38:02,667
where it says, if you're
getting divorced, you're gonna
get screwed, bro.
744
00:38:02,667 --> 00:38:04,000
We're not legally
married though.
745
00:38:05,266 --> 00:38:07,967
It doesn't matter. In this
case, we've got an issue
746
00:38:07,967 --> 00:38:11,200
where we have to have a child
custody agreement in place.
747
00:38:11,266 --> 00:38:14,900
Basically just saying 50-50
agreement, then we just
748
00:38:14,967 --> 00:38:19,166
work out the details
over time.
749
00:38:19,166 --> 00:38:21,767
Otherwise you're gonna get
a lawyer and the government
involved.
750
00:38:21,767 --> 00:38:23,071
Federal... Uh, state
government.
751
00:38:23,071 --> 00:38:23,567
Federal... Uh, state
government.
752
00:38:23,567 --> 00:38:24,000
And the lawyer's gonna take
all the money you have.
753
00:38:27,767 --> 00:38:30,567
[Christine] Does he not
understand I want
him to be around his kids?
754
00:38:30,567 --> 00:38:32,200
I'm not gonna fight him
on that.
755
00:38:32,266 --> 00:38:34,166
I've always wanted him to be
around his kids.
756
00:38:34,166 --> 00:38:37,000
So why would I say I don't
want you being around Truely?
757
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,000
That doesn't make any
sense, whatsoever.
758
00:38:39,066 --> 00:38:41,500
He just doesn't trust me,
that's what this comes
down to.
759
00:38:41,567 --> 00:38:44,266
No, I don't trust her. How am
I supposed to trust her?
760
00:38:44,266 --> 00:38:48,000
You know? Like, what's the
next move she's gonna make
against me?
761
00:38:48,066 --> 00:38:50,266
I don't need to get a lawyer
involved. I mean I don't think
762
00:38:50,266 --> 00:38:52,500
that we need to get a
lawyer involved in things.
763
00:38:52,567 --> 00:38:53,071
We might need a lawyer
to write that.
764
00:38:53,071 --> 00:38:54,000
We might need a lawyer
to write that.
765
00:38:54,767 --> 00:38:55,667
[Christine] Do you think so?
766
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:57,767
I'm gonna ask around.
767
00:38:58,100 --> 00:38:59,500
Okay.
768
00:38:59,567 --> 00:39:00,700
[Kody] Usually divorces
769
00:39:00,767 --> 00:39:02,700
just aren't that nice.
770
00:39:02,767 --> 00:39:06,500
She's going back to a state
that will come after me if she
decides to.
771
00:39:07,567 --> 00:39:09,066
Okay?
772
00:39:09,066 --> 00:39:13,066
So, like, yeah, maybe I should
have a child custody agreement
in place.
773
00:39:13,066 --> 00:39:16,166
And Christine's going,
"Maybe we don't."
774
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,000
The weirdest thing
just happened.
775
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,300
I came out to the garage.
776
00:39:22,367 --> 00:39:23,071
"Kody's nightstand," "Kody's
clothes and dresser," "Kody's
bathroom stuff."
777
00:39:23,071 --> 00:39:24,000
"Kody's nightstand," "Kody's
clothes and dresser," "Kody's
bathroom stuff."
778
00:39:27,066 --> 00:39:28,667
I guess I've been moved
out of the house.
779
00:39:29,166 --> 00:39:30,300
She told me,
780
00:39:30,300 --> 00:39:33,000
that she was trying to be
benevolent in packing up my
781
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,767
stuff and getting it
out of the house.
782
00:39:34,767 --> 00:39:37,066
'Cause she knew I didn't have
the time to do it, and frankly
I wouldn't have done it.
783
00:39:37,066 --> 00:39:40,200
I would've been obstinate
about it, because, I wanted
to... That was my house.
784
00:39:40,266 --> 00:39:41,300
I wanna live there still.
785
00:39:41,367 --> 00:39:43,266
She says that she was
being benevolent.
786
00:39:44,100 --> 00:39:46,567
If she was truly
being benevolent,
787
00:39:46,567 --> 00:39:48,667
maybe she can be trusted
through all of this.
788
00:39:48,667 --> 00:39:51,200
But I don't know.
789
00:39:51,266 --> 00:39:53,071
Um, you have to have a child
custody agreement in place.
790
00:39:53,071 --> 00:39:54,000
Um, you have to have a child
custody agreement in place.
791
00:39:54,967 --> 00:39:55,800
Yeah.
792
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,667
Otherwise the state
gets involved.
793
00:39:58,767 --> 00:40:01,100
And that's with me
moving to Utah.
794
00:40:01,100 --> 00:40:03,000
Do we need to make that
part of the agreement?
795
00:40:03,066 --> 00:40:06,200
No, no. We're not doing
anything ever in Utah.
796
00:40:06,266 --> 00:40:08,367
Even though I'm moving
to Utah?
797
00:40:08,367 --> 00:40:11,467
Don't ever involve Utah. Even
if she's living there,
798
00:40:11,467 --> 00:40:13,800
we get a child custody
agreement here.
799
00:40:13,867 --> 00:40:14,567
Okay.
800
00:40:17,500 --> 00:40:18,867
{\an8}[Kody] My wives and I
801
00:40:19,667 --> 00:40:22,166
left Utah under duress.
802
00:40:22,166 --> 00:40:23,071
Utah's like this enemy.
I just...
803
00:40:23,071 --> 00:40:24,000
Utah's like this enemy.
I just...
804
00:40:24,166 --> 00:40:26,100
I put egg on their face.
805
00:40:26,100 --> 00:40:29,200
Maybe that's a little lofty
of me to think, you know.
806
00:40:29,266 --> 00:40:31,500
But we had a lawsuit and
we kicked their ass.
807
00:40:31,567 --> 00:40:33,467
And Christine says, "I'm
going back."
808
00:40:33,467 --> 00:40:35,567
Well, she's going back
to a state that hates me.
809
00:40:35,567 --> 00:40:36,667
And so,
810
00:40:36,667 --> 00:40:39,400
she's taking Truely,
she's gonna go to that state.
811
00:40:39,467 --> 00:40:42,967
What's gonna stop them from
teaming up with her?
812
00:40:42,967 --> 00:40:45,000
'Cause remember, I don't
trust her.
813
00:40:45,066 --> 00:40:49,100
Whether she's gonna be good
to me or not is unknown.
814
00:40:49,166 --> 00:40:51,600
So you're gonna get a bedroom
for her when she comes?
815
00:40:52,266 --> 00:40:53,071
-Yeah.
-Okay.
816
00:40:53,071 --> 00:40:53,567
-Yeah.
-Okay.
817
00:40:53,867 --> 00:40:54,000
So...
818
00:40:54,767 --> 00:40:56,000
She's gonna love that.
819
00:40:56,900 --> 00:41:00,467
She may or may not.
I don't know.
820
00:41:00,467 --> 00:41:04,200
I think it's great that he
wants to get a room for her
in his house.
821
00:41:04,266 --> 00:41:06,567
In Robyn's house.
That's great.
822
00:41:06,567 --> 00:41:09,100
Then he'll spend more
time with her. 'Cause he's
not really
823
00:41:09,100 --> 00:41:11,000
spending time with her
here that much.
824
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:12,767
-I'll... Let me think
about it.
-Think about it.
825
00:41:12,767 --> 00:41:14,567
-[Christine] Just think
about it, okay?
-Okay. All right.
826
00:41:14,567 --> 00:41:15,934
Okay, thanks.
827
00:41:21,667 --> 00:41:23,071
[Christine] I would love it
not getting a lawyer involved.
828
00:41:23,071 --> 00:41:24,000
[Christine] I would love it
not getting a lawyer involved.
829
00:41:24,467 --> 00:41:26,166
But if he's already
going there,
830
00:41:26,166 --> 00:41:29,467
and lawyering up, then I'm
going to as well.
831
00:41:29,467 --> 00:41:31,700
Ugh, I don't want to though.
832
00:41:31,767 --> 00:41:33,867
I would rather it just
work out amiably, you know?
833
00:41:33,867 --> 00:41:36,667
We've got kids. Can't we just
figure this out on our own?
834
00:41:36,667 --> 00:41:39,567
We're not legally married, so
we don't have to go down
that road.
835
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,266
We'll see.
836
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,667
{\an8}[narrator] Next time on
Sister Wives.
837
00:41:47,667 --> 00:41:49,567
{\an8}[Janelle] The trailer was
838
00:41:49,567 --> 00:41:51,000
a rude awakening.
839
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:53,071
[Kody] Oh, living in a trailer
is an absolute inconvenience.
840
00:41:53,071 --> 00:41:54,000
[Kody] Oh, living in a trailer
is an absolute inconvenience.
841
00:41:54,867 --> 00:41:58,066
Everyday she's dealing with
one new problem.
842
00:42:00,567 --> 00:42:02,166
{\an8}Hang on with me, okay?
843
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:04,467
{\an8}I am.
844
00:42:04,467 --> 00:42:05,900
{\an8}We have to rebuild.
845
00:42:07,166 --> 00:42:09,166
{\an8}The only people who got my
side of the story?
846
00:42:10,066 --> 00:42:11,300
{\an8}Robyn and Meri.
847
00:42:14,300 --> 00:42:15,667
{\an8}[Christine] My name's the only
name on this house.
848
00:42:16,867 --> 00:42:17,767
{\an8}So, legally,
849
00:42:17,767 --> 00:42:19,567
{\an8}I get to make all
the decisions.
850
00:42:20,567 --> 00:42:21,667
{\an8}[Kody] I have an
emotional attachment
851
00:42:21,667 --> 00:42:23,071
{\an8}to this house.
Yes, I do.
852
00:42:23,071 --> 00:42:23,100
{\an8}to this house.
Yes, I do.
853
00:42:25,066 --> 00:42:27,367
{\an8}Listen, I have an emotional
attachment to Christine!