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[Kody]
Previously on Sister Wives..
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I am driving
to my buddy's wedding.
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[Janelle]
Kody and Robyn still observe
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the very strict rules
about COVID.
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We're still not gathering
as a family.
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And yet here's Kody traveling.
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And now I'm mad.
What the hell?
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Truth be told, Meri,
she was talking about
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leaving Kody before they moved
to Flagstaff.
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There's so much
investment here
in this family.
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Hang on with me, okay?
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Yeah.
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She belongs with us.
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We've been 12 years public
trying to convince the world
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that we have
something legitimate.
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Congratulations.
You're leaving the family.
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She's treated you like dirt
from the very beginning.
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That's the relationship
you have with her.
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And that's the reason
I'm angry.
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That's the reason
I'm pissed off.
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Now that she's leaving,
I just felt like
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giving her a piece of my mind
with that leaving.
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But accountability
is what I've been
asking for here.
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And you are running away
rather than being accountable.
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[sobbing]
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[Janelle] So I'm going over
to talk to Christine,
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'cause after the last
conversation
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we had when we were
all together was pretty rough.
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-[Christine] Hey.
-[Janelle] Hey.
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-[Christine] How's it going
-[Janelle] Good.
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Hi. Your shirt is super cute.
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I know.
I'm trying to decide
if it's fall.
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I was a little shocked
at Kody's behavior.
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He was just angry.
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When we were talking
all together Thursday,
you know, that was a mess.
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That was a terrible
conversation.
It was terrible.
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I really thought it would go
so much better kind of--
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I was surprised.
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And I thought, you know what?
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Maybe it's okay
'cause everybody
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needs to express
their emotions.
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And then he lost it.
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She's treated you like dirt
from the very beginning.
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That's the relationship
you have with her.
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And that's the reason
I'm angry.
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That's the reason
I'm pissed off is because...
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you never tried to have
really good relationship
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with these other people.
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That's not true.
Yes, I did.
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It is just vomiting out of me
because I've sat here with it,
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just like, "Christine,
try and do this."
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You wanted to renegotiate
a relationship with me,
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but you wouldn't even have
a decent one with them.
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I'm surprised
'cause I didn't realize
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I wasn't giving Robyn
a chance,
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but I certainly never thought
that I was being mean
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or mistreating her in any way.
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So I was so shocked
at his aggression.
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And I was expecting
people to be hurt.
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I was expecting it.
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I didn't know that
he'd be volatile
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and I didn't--
but I didn't know
what to say to him.
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I'm like...
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He has been like,
it's been deep.
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Like I've been watching him.
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And he's just really,
it's like he's been sort of
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agitated and angry,
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and I think he hasn't known
how to express it.
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And unfortunately,
I think it
all sort of came out like...
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It surprised me
'cause he was so loud
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and he was so angry.
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The sacrifices that I made
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to love you, wasted.
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The timing seemed weird,
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but I think it's just
he reached his point.
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It sounded the other day
like you
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just didn't even wanna see
Robyn or Meri again.
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And I think
that's how Robyn felt,
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like she walked away
and was like,
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"Okay, I guess see you."
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And she was quite emotional.
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No, I didn't mean it like
a cut and dried, it's over.
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That's not what I was trying
to convey at all.
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[Janelle] I am actually
glad to know that
because I think--
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That's how it came across?
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I don't know.
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It was really hard
telling Robyn,
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"I didn't think
that I could do more."
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And, you know,
after the conversation,
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I realized she was talking
about her kids, too.
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You know,
it sounds like feels continue
to have the relationships
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with the people
you're close with and,
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um, those that you weren't
close with and,
you know, just--
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you just wanted
to stay distant.
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When I was questioning
Christine
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about whether or not
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she wanted to have
relationships
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with those that she doesn't
have relationships with,
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I meant me and my kids.
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That's devastating.
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That was the hardest part
of the conversation for me.
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It was when I realized
when it was over
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what I had said.
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And I don't know
how to fix that.
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Yeah, I'm trying to figure out
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how we navigate
all of this now.
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I think you and I
will just take it as it comes
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and we'll just
figure things out.
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'Cause, I mean, like now
the relationships changed,
right?
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'Cause I know, like, look,
you and I have done
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plenty of complaining
about each other.
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Right. But--
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Like we've said some
very harsh things to Kody.
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We've said harsh things
about each other.
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And so now it--
it's different?
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I think
it's totally different.
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Now, it just seems like
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we focus
on the common experience
and the kids.
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I think that
it's even more than that.
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I think it's deeper than that
for you and I.
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I would consider you
one of my best friends.
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I don't know
what label to put on mine
and Janelle's relationship.
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I don't know.
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I-- I don't know.
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It's just a right thing.
I just don't know.
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[Kody]
I have always wanted my wive
to have close relationships
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and it's a tragedy to me now
after all these years
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and Christine
trash-talking Janelle
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for four years about
the one house thing,
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now Janelle and Christine
have a better relationship?
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I'm begging Janelle
for a closer relationship.
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It feels like
she's rejecting that
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and just choosing to have
one with Christine.
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[Christine]
I think a heartache is hard
and me leaving is hard.
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And what does that mean
for her?
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And what does that mean
for our relationship
in the future?
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And it's this whole sister
wives word.
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You know, if I'm not a wife
am I still a sister wife?
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And are we still sister wive
when I'm not a wife?
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You know, it's--
it's such a weird relationship
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to navigate sometimes.
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[Meri] You know, some days
I'm really mad at Christine
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for giving up on me, on us.
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I don't think that
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she's a sister wife.
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You know, I think that
you have to be married
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to the same guy
to be considered
a sister wife.
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I have-- I don't know
how to not be on a side
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or be perceived
as being on a side.
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Christine, like all my kids,
remember all the history,
that was...
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All our holiday traditions,
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a lot of 'em
were you driving it.
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And so they're struggling
too to figure out
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how to-- to be in both worlds.
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They're not trying
to choose sides.
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And I imagine
your kids aren't either.
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-You know what I mean?
-No.
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No one should be
picking sides.
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I think it's sometimes
it's like this,
sometimes it's like that.
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But that's not sides.
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I am pulled
in both directions,
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so, I mean, equally strong.
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I have my duty to my family.
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You know, Robyn, Kody, Meri,
I have a duty there,
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but then I really wanna be
with Christine and her kids
at the holidays.
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I'm damned if I do
and damned if I don't.
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I can't choose a side
without them saying,
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"You chose a side."
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Ever since Truely found out
that we were divorced,
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Kody has been always,
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"Well, let's get her
COVID tested every week.
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Then I can take her
every weekend
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and she can just hang out
and sleep over at Robyn's."
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But she never has.
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Like, she'll go over
for a couple of hours
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and that's all that
she wants to do.
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It's just a couple hours here
and there.
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So what would that look like?
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-I mean, like, could
she come back for the summer?
-Yeah.
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I don't think she would
last the whole summer.
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I don't even know
if she last a weekend
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'cause she's never spent
the night away from me.
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[Kody]
When it comes to Truely,
there's no doubt
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I'm gonna have to travel
to see her.
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All the time we come
when Christine won't even come
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to Flagstaff anymore,
I'm sure.
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I don't know when that'll be,
but I don't even know.
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There are questions
to be answered
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that I don't have the answe
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for right now regarding
kind of my time with Truely.
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Do you think you'll remarry?
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Somebody else. Not Kody.
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Kody, I'm like...
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[Janelle] No, like,
I mean, are you--
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I'm open.
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Well, what do you do
when you're 50
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and healthy?
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You just can't be alone
for the rest of your life.
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So to me,
that's like the logical thing.
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Like what's next?
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And I'm just gonna be nosey
and I'm just gonna ask.
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It's a whole new life.
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-[Janelle] Look, it's a whole
new life, Christine.
-Yes.
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I hope she remarries.
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It's a very long time
to be alone.
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And I hope
that I like the guy.
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Like you're no longer married?
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No.
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-You're gonna live in
a completely different place--
-[Christine] Yes.
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...that we were lived
in like a decade or more ago?
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I know.
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Everything is...
like I'm starting over again.
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It's so hard moving on, um,
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and feeling okay all the time
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'cause I know I'm not.
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I know I'm changing so much
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and I know I'm breaking
so many hearts,
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but I still know that
it's the right decision.
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[Kody] My heart is broken.
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And that might be
why I'm so angry
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is because I'm not actually
dealing with the emotion.
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I'm-- I'm fighting it.
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Look, I was planning
to stay here all winter,
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but what if I just go
for six months into town
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and just come back out
here in April?
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Why are we in this now?
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Because, Kody,
for four months,
I've accomplished a lot.
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So she's talking about
going to an apartment.
She's gonna pick a place.
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She's gonna do
without me.
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She's gonna figure
something out like that.
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Like she's already got a place
that she knows about.
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Okay.
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So even though
I'm going through
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all this divorce trauma
with Christine
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and I'm losing my head,
I've still gotta actually
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maintain the other
relationships.
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But I've gotta
compartmentalize
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because right now
I've gotta go take care
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of my relationship
with Janelle and,
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you know,
make a place for us.
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I gotta go help her
do some RV stuff,
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but I'm still in this
fog of divorce.
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It's a-- and it's messing
with me a lot.
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I don't even--
I can put it a jack under that
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without even moving anything.
246
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Does that help?
247
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You know
what I really wanna do?
248
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I wanna level the axles.
249
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-[Janelle] Okay.
-And go off of that.
250
00:10:19,257 --> 00:10:22,525
I've been really struggling
the last few weeks
251
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to keep the trailer level.
252
00:10:23,695 --> 00:10:25,562
And what happens
when the trailer is not level,
253
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if they start having problem
with my sewage tanks,
254
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like, it's crazy.
255
00:10:29,735 --> 00:10:31,935
If I had somebody here
helping you, I would go away.
256
00:10:31,937 --> 00:10:34,804
So I don't backseat drive
you too badly.
257
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[Kody]
There's a lot of pressure
with living in this RV.
258
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A lot of new things
have come up.
259
00:10:39,311 --> 00:10:41,511
It's been almost daily
for Janelle.
260
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She's been rolling
with it really good.
261
00:10:43,115 --> 00:10:45,315
I think she's kept it
pretty good attitude about i
262
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But when we were working on
together,
263
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it's not like
we're just being sweet
with each other.
264
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It's a little antagonistic.
265
00:10:52,124 --> 00:10:53,657
Well, Janelle, would you wanna
come and help me?
266
00:10:55,260 --> 00:10:56,793
Would you hand me this rod?
267
00:10:56,795 --> 00:10:57,927
Yeah.
268
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[Janelle] Yeah.
I don't think it's...
269
00:11:00,332 --> 00:11:02,332
-The angle is wrong, right?
-Well, it is.
270
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I'm gonna have to get it up.
271
00:11:04,970 --> 00:11:08,238
Damn thing has to be
jacked up to get that in it.
272
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And I can't see.
273
00:11:10,241 --> 00:11:12,409
-So drive forward, maybe.
-All right.
274
00:11:12,411 --> 00:11:14,611
You and your eye insist
on driving forward.
275
00:11:14,613 --> 00:11:16,813
The stubbornness
is fighting against me.
276
00:11:16,815 --> 00:11:19,049
Okay.
Because this isn't working,
Kody.
277
00:11:19,117 --> 00:11:24,020
It's so strange to me that
we're arguing point,
point with this.
278
00:11:24,022 --> 00:11:26,523
It's like just this
antagonistic relationship.
279
00:11:26,525 --> 00:11:28,224
It is not cooperative.
280
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I don't know why.
281
00:11:30,128 --> 00:11:32,128
Well, I don't know
if we manually level it.
282
00:11:32,130 --> 00:11:34,230
I think it's just
a piece of [bleep]
283
00:11:34,232 --> 00:11:36,232
And they've--
they've sold us a lemon here
284
00:11:36,234 --> 00:11:37,734
and we can't get
the damn thing to level
285
00:11:37,736 --> 00:11:40,837
'cause it's supposed
to self-level
and it never has.
286
00:11:40,939 --> 00:11:42,038
Here's the thing.
287
00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:43,907
I'm in a very
vulnerable place,
288
00:11:43,909 --> 00:11:47,010
and if I cross a line,
will she cross another line
289
00:11:47,012 --> 00:11:48,745
And that sort
of cynicism comes,
290
00:11:48,847 --> 00:11:53,950
I think, from unwinding
20 years in plural marriage
291
00:11:53,952 --> 00:11:56,519
and then Christine leaving.
292
00:11:56,521 --> 00:12:00,523
And then we've had
so many more
realistic conversations
293
00:12:00,525 --> 00:12:01,925
that happened last year
294
00:12:01,927 --> 00:12:03,326
between Kody and I on really
295
00:12:03,328 --> 00:12:05,729
what our relationship
really looks like
296
00:12:05,731 --> 00:12:08,131
and the kind of marriage
that we both want.
297
00:12:08,133 --> 00:12:09,733
-And--
-And you guys don't talk,
though.
298
00:12:09,735 --> 00:12:11,735
You guys don't communicate,
so I don't really see
299
00:12:11,737 --> 00:12:13,069
how that could be even...
300
00:12:14,706 --> 00:12:15,805
legitimate.
301
00:12:15,807 --> 00:12:19,109
I don't think Janelle or I
are being honest
302
00:12:19,111 --> 00:12:21,111
or realistic
in this relationship
303
00:12:21,113 --> 00:12:23,279
as we communicate
with each other
about this stuff.
304
00:12:23,815 --> 00:12:26,049
What a goat rodeo, right?
305
00:12:26,051 --> 00:12:30,620
The whole RV thing,
it's like we never had
306
00:12:30,622 --> 00:12:31,921
a really deep discussion,
307
00:12:31,923 --> 00:12:34,124
not the kind of discussion
you have about
308
00:12:34,126 --> 00:12:37,961
spending that vast amount
of money.
309
00:12:38,062 --> 00:12:40,764
She never even took any tim
to look for something to ren
310
00:12:40,865 --> 00:12:44,033
I know for a fact
there were rentals out there.
311
00:12:44,035 --> 00:12:46,703
[Janelle]
I know I had told him
I was thinking
312
00:12:46,705 --> 00:12:48,538
about the possibility
of an RV.
313
00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,707
Maybe he just
wasn't paying attention.
314
00:12:50,709 --> 00:12:54,344
I mean, he really only sort of
really tunes
in once in a while.
315
00:12:54,412 --> 00:12:56,346
It's not like
he's here all the time.
316
00:12:56,414 --> 00:12:58,948
And when he's here,
he's not always
really tuned in.
317
00:12:59,050 --> 00:13:00,316
Here, like, look, look,
look, look,
318
00:13:00,318 --> 00:13:02,252
let me have this conversation
with you now.
319
00:13:02,353 --> 00:13:06,222
Okay, so I have about
six weeks left on this permit
320
00:13:06,224 --> 00:13:07,757
and I would have
to move again.
321
00:13:07,826 --> 00:13:09,926
And we talked
to the house designer.
322
00:13:09,928 --> 00:13:11,027
And she said that we're--
323
00:13:11,029 --> 00:13:13,963
we're basically months
for a permit.
324
00:13:13,965 --> 00:13:16,299
Look, I was planning
to stay here all winter,
325
00:13:16,301 --> 00:13:17,967
A, when I thought
we could have electricity
326
00:13:17,969 --> 00:13:19,369
and B, when I thought
the house would be
327
00:13:19,470 --> 00:13:20,536
a little quicker along.
328
00:13:21,506 --> 00:13:23,940
But what if I just go
for six months into town
329
00:13:25,510 --> 00:13:27,610
and just come back out here
in April?
330
00:13:27,612 --> 00:13:29,846
'Cause by then we will
probably be breaking ground,
331
00:13:29,915 --> 00:13:31,247
I would think.
332
00:13:31,349 --> 00:13:33,716
So I think I've been looking
and there is a place
333
00:13:33,718 --> 00:13:35,952
in town that will do
a six month lease.
334
00:13:35,954 --> 00:13:37,420
So she's talking about
going to an apartment.
335
00:13:37,422 --> 00:13:39,322
She's gonna pick a place.
She's gonna do
without me.
336
00:13:39,324 --> 00:13:40,757
She's gonna figure
something out like that,
337
00:13:40,825 --> 00:13:42,926
like she's already got a place
that she knows about.
338
00:13:42,928 --> 00:13:43,960
Okay.
339
00:13:43,962 --> 00:13:45,728
Why are we in this now?
340
00:13:45,730 --> 00:13:48,064
Because, Kody, for four months
I have accomplished a lot.
341
00:13:48,166 --> 00:13:49,732
We could have focused
on the property
342
00:13:49,734 --> 00:13:52,535
without having an RV
and living in an RV.
343
00:13:52,537 --> 00:13:55,104
Kody, I wanna come back
out here in April.
344
00:13:55,106 --> 00:13:57,207
I'm just rolling
with the punches.
345
00:13:57,209 --> 00:13:58,608
[chuckles]
He's been very vocal.
346
00:13:58,610 --> 00:13:59,909
He wanted me to buy
Christine's house
347
00:13:59,911 --> 00:14:01,644
'cause he thinks living
in the trailer is terrible.
348
00:14:01,746 --> 00:14:03,513
Like he's been like,
all this--
349
00:14:03,515 --> 00:14:04,814
like, all this stuff about,
like,
350
00:14:04,816 --> 00:14:06,349
this is a terrible, like,
hate living here.
351
00:14:06,451 --> 00:14:08,117
I don't wanna be here.
I don't want blah, blah, blah.
352
00:14:08,119 --> 00:14:09,519
And now all of a sudden,
I'm like,
353
00:14:09,521 --> 00:14:11,554
"Okay, well, how about
if we can move into town
for six months?"
354
00:14:11,656 --> 00:14:12,522
And he's like, "No".
355
00:14:15,427 --> 00:14:17,260
[Kody] Ooh. Yeah, baby!
356
00:14:19,464 --> 00:14:21,698
Ooh.
Told you that storm's
coming right for us.
357
00:14:21,700 --> 00:14:23,933
It's right there.
It's right above us.
358
00:14:23,935 --> 00:14:25,401
Well, I mean,
I basically decided
359
00:14:25,403 --> 00:14:28,705
what I needed to do for me,
and I just sort of decided
360
00:14:28,707 --> 00:14:31,908
and I did it, and he sort of
had to be along for the ride.
361
00:14:31,910 --> 00:14:34,277
But if I would have waited
for him to solve the problem,
362
00:14:34,279 --> 00:14:36,512
it never would have
gotten solved.
363
00:14:36,514 --> 00:14:37,747
It was all this work worth it?
364
00:14:37,816 --> 00:14:39,315
I actually think
it will be better.
365
00:14:41,753 --> 00:14:43,353
Whoa. There's the rain.
366
00:14:55,533 --> 00:14:57,333
[Christine] Hey, Truely,
can you come here
for a minute?
367
00:14:57,335 --> 00:14:58,401
[Truely] Okay.
368
00:14:58,403 --> 00:14:59,936
[Christine]
Perfect. Thank you.
369
00:15:01,239 --> 00:15:02,538
You know how the house is.
370
00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,407
Our house is in contract
right now.
371
00:15:04,409 --> 00:15:07,744
-Mm-hmm.
-Um, the owners
are going to close on it.
372
00:15:07,845 --> 00:15:09,445
They're gonna close on it,
like, next month.
373
00:15:10,749 --> 00:15:13,116
So we've been looking like
crazy for a house in Utah.
374
00:15:13,118 --> 00:15:15,318
Mykelti's been helping me
and everything.
375
00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,220
And we have the house.
376
00:15:17,222 --> 00:15:18,554
But guess when we're moving.
377
00:15:19,724 --> 00:15:20,823
Um, when?
378
00:15:20,825 --> 00:15:21,925
In a week.
379
00:15:22,294 --> 00:15:23,526
Oh.
380
00:15:23,528 --> 00:15:27,463
I was going to wait to move
until the closing date,
381
00:15:27,532 --> 00:15:29,632
but Mykelti found a place.
382
00:15:29,634 --> 00:15:34,203
Why wait to start
the next chapter?
Why wait?
383
00:15:34,205 --> 00:15:35,939
And Mykelti and Tony
are going gonna come
384
00:15:36,007 --> 00:15:38,107
help us move, like in a week.
385
00:15:38,109 --> 00:15:39,609
A week from today.
386
00:15:41,713 --> 00:15:45,515
I mean, the hardest
part of leaving
387
00:15:45,517 --> 00:15:48,818
and moving is that
I'm taking Truely with me.
388
00:15:48,820 --> 00:15:50,420
I'm taking her
from what she knows,
389
00:15:50,422 --> 00:15:53,256
everything she knows
from her dad,
390
00:15:53,358 --> 00:15:54,724
you know,
from the siblings that
391
00:15:54,726 --> 00:15:57,427
she has here in Flagstaff,
392
00:15:57,429 --> 00:15:59,262
I like moving her
to Utah.
393
00:15:59,364 --> 00:16:01,164
So what do you think
about that?
394
00:16:04,836 --> 00:16:06,502
Are you okay?
395
00:16:06,504 --> 00:16:07,603
I'm fine.
396
00:16:07,605 --> 00:16:09,605
I just didn't expect it
to go this fast.
397
00:16:11,209 --> 00:16:15,945
She's not excited about
moving yet, but I just...
398
00:16:16,047 --> 00:16:18,548
I know that moving with her
is the best decision.
399
00:16:18,616 --> 00:16:20,416
So how are you, really?
400
00:16:20,418 --> 00:16:22,051
Are you sad to be
leaving this soon?
401
00:16:22,053 --> 00:16:23,319
And was it hard?
402
00:16:23,321 --> 00:16:26,055
I just didn't expect it to be
this soon, but I'm fine.
403
00:16:26,157 --> 00:16:28,124
I mean, I thought we'd have
another couple of weeks.
404
00:16:28,126 --> 00:16:29,559
So did I.
405
00:16:31,363 --> 00:16:33,262
I am relieved that Truely
is taking it so well.
406
00:16:33,364 --> 00:16:34,831
But it's just not about me.
407
00:16:34,833 --> 00:16:36,132
It's about her.
408
00:16:36,134 --> 00:16:39,702
I'm grateful for her
because it's her life
409
00:16:39,704 --> 00:16:41,337
that I didn't want to alter
too much.
410
00:16:41,339 --> 00:16:43,906
I didn't wanna traumatize
too much, you know
it's her life.
411
00:16:43,908 --> 00:16:48,544
And so for her, her handling
is so well, I'm thrilled with.
412
00:16:48,613 --> 00:16:49,812
The work has begun.
413
00:16:49,814 --> 00:16:51,647
I mean, we're gonna
start packing a lot.
414
00:16:54,953 --> 00:16:56,052
[Christine] You all right?
415
00:16:56,121 --> 00:16:57,120
[Truely] Yeah. I'm fine.
416
00:16:57,122 --> 00:16:58,721
You have anything else to say?
417
00:16:58,723 --> 00:17:00,023
[Truely] Nope.
418
00:17:03,128 --> 00:17:04,927
-So are you doing okay?
-[Mykelti] Yeah.
419
00:17:04,929 --> 00:17:06,629
As far as your mom
and everything?
420
00:17:06,631 --> 00:17:09,866
Like, it's sad anytime
any kind of family
breaks up or separates.
421
00:17:09,934 --> 00:17:11,834
How long have you guys known?
422
00:17:11,836 --> 00:17:13,035
She was talking about it.
423
00:17:13,038 --> 00:17:15,438
I know that I can't [bleep]
talk Christine to my kids.
424
00:17:15,540 --> 00:17:17,140
I don't want
to [bleep] talk her at all.
425
00:17:17,208 --> 00:17:20,043
And that's a blame game
that I'm playing.
426
00:17:20,111 --> 00:17:23,046
And I feel ashamed
that I'm doing that.
427
00:17:23,048 --> 00:17:25,715
But in my brokenhearted state,
428
00:17:25,717 --> 00:17:28,518
the anger
is just flowing here.
429
00:17:37,529 --> 00:17:39,562
[Robyn] Hi, sweet girl.
430
00:17:39,631 --> 00:17:40,763
Hey, sweety.
431
00:17:40,799 --> 00:17:43,232
We decided to come
in town to help mom move
432
00:17:43,234 --> 00:17:45,334
to northern Utah,
but we wanted to be
able to spend a day
433
00:17:45,336 --> 00:17:46,802
with Robyn and the kids.
434
00:17:46,805 --> 00:17:49,939
So we're here
at Robyn's house,
spending some time with them.
435
00:17:49,941 --> 00:17:51,107
-[mumbles]
-Go for it.
436
00:17:51,109 --> 00:17:52,408
Yes, I do.
437
00:17:52,410 --> 00:17:54,110
Yes, I do.
438
00:17:54,112 --> 00:17:55,211
Yes, I do.
439
00:17:55,213 --> 00:17:57,713
We'll see Robyn here
and then we'll see Christine
440
00:17:57,715 --> 00:18:00,316
and probably
Janelle's family--
441
00:18:00,318 --> 00:18:02,351
-Yeah, Janelle's boys
are gonna--
-...when we start moving.
442
00:18:02,420 --> 00:18:05,288
Janelle's boys are gonna come
help us move tomorrow, um,
443
00:18:05,290 --> 00:18:07,824
and then so we'll be able
to see some more people.
444
00:18:07,826 --> 00:18:10,626
Tony and I are really,
really close to Robyn.
445
00:18:10,628 --> 00:18:12,228
She was the first one
to really, really
446
00:18:12,230 --> 00:18:13,496
accept our relationship and--
447
00:18:13,498 --> 00:18:15,665
If not the only
at the beginning.
448
00:18:15,766 --> 00:18:17,500
-Yeah, at the beginning
she was the only one.
-I know.
449
00:18:17,502 --> 00:18:20,470
"Oh, you're not a polygamist."
I said, "I still love you.
450
00:18:20,538 --> 00:18:22,305
It's all right."
That is not what it was.
451
00:18:24,909 --> 00:18:29,045
Huh-uh!
Solomon, man. Hello, man.
452
00:18:29,114 --> 00:18:30,346
Hello, guys.
453
00:18:30,448 --> 00:18:32,515
Put your jacket back on.
454
00:18:32,517 --> 00:18:34,617
Mom said your jacket
has to be on.
455
00:18:34,619 --> 00:18:35,818
You have to wash your hands
456
00:18:35,820 --> 00:18:37,587
before you can touch her,
okay?
457
00:18:37,589 --> 00:18:39,222
Because that's what we do
with babies.
458
00:18:39,224 --> 00:18:42,091
[Robyn]
I'm so happy that Tony
and Mykelti came to visit.
459
00:18:42,093 --> 00:18:43,860
And there's a lot going on
right now
460
00:18:43,928 --> 00:18:46,162
with Christine leaving
and then moving.
461
00:18:46,197 --> 00:18:47,663
I just wanna do a check in.
462
00:18:47,765 --> 00:18:50,766
Sol, Why don't you and,
and just go in
and change clothes?
463
00:18:50,835 --> 00:18:55,138
Even though I know
that I have 100% support
from Mykelti,
464
00:18:55,239 --> 00:18:58,307
I know that
she also supports Robyn 100%.
465
00:18:58,309 --> 00:19:01,711
She can balance
like nobody I-- I know.
466
00:19:02,614 --> 00:19:04,213
I'm so glad
you came to see us.
467
00:19:04,215 --> 00:19:06,415
-I'm glad we came too.
-[Kody] Right back.
468
00:19:06,417 --> 00:19:08,017
[Mykelti] It's nice.
469
00:19:08,019 --> 00:19:10,153
With-- with, like, everything
going on with your mom
and stuff like that,
470
00:19:10,221 --> 00:19:11,487
I just appreciate
you coming and stuff.
471
00:19:11,489 --> 00:19:12,888
[Mykelti] Yeah, of course.
472
00:19:12,890 --> 00:19:16,559
I just wanna make sure
that no matter
what's happening...
473
00:19:16,628 --> 00:19:18,828
there, we're good.
474
00:19:18,830 --> 00:19:20,363
You're still mom, Robyn.
475
00:19:20,464 --> 00:19:21,531
And Grandma.
476
00:19:21,533 --> 00:19:23,099
So, like,
that's my biggest thing
477
00:19:23,101 --> 00:19:27,003
I just making sure that,
like, we're all good.
478
00:19:27,005 --> 00:19:29,605
We...
Our relationship continues
479
00:19:29,607 --> 00:19:31,807
and it's based on what goes on
in our relationship.
480
00:19:31,809 --> 00:19:34,010
It's not based on
outside sources.
481
00:19:34,012 --> 00:19:36,546
It feels like everything's,
uh, affected my relationship
482
00:19:36,647 --> 00:19:37,947
with everybody, though.
483
00:19:40,818 --> 00:19:42,952
When it comes to, you know,
like raising kids
484
00:19:42,954 --> 00:19:44,220
and dealing
with things like this,
485
00:19:44,222 --> 00:19:45,922
I'm almost always bad cop.
486
00:19:45,924 --> 00:19:47,323
And so my relationship,
I feel like,
487
00:19:47,325 --> 00:19:49,425
is somewhat strained
with a lot of my kids.
488
00:19:50,061 --> 00:19:51,527
Hey.
489
00:19:51,529 --> 00:19:53,262
-So are you doing okay?
-[Mykelti] Yeah.
490
00:19:53,331 --> 00:19:55,031
As far as your mom
and everything.
491
00:19:55,033 --> 00:20:00,269
I mean, I think,
the, the situation around it
is, it's, it's sad.
492
00:20:00,371 --> 00:20:03,039
Like it's sad any time
any kind of family
breaks up or separates.
493
00:20:03,041 --> 00:20:04,140
[Robyn] Yeah.
494
00:20:04,142 --> 00:20:07,109
But if it's what she wants,
I think it's important
495
00:20:07,111 --> 00:20:09,145
to support what she wants.
496
00:20:09,214 --> 00:20:11,814
How long have you guys known?
497
00:20:11,816 --> 00:20:17,420
Um, I think that,
we as like known actually,
it's been...
498
00:20:19,324 --> 00:20:22,225
I mean, like,
was she talking
about it before?
499
00:20:22,227 --> 00:20:23,526
She was talking about it.
500
00:20:23,528 --> 00:20:25,094
She's been talking about it
for a while.
501
00:20:25,096 --> 00:20:27,063
But I think most of what
she's been talking about
502
00:20:27,065 --> 00:20:29,865
is what anybody talks about
in a relationship,
503
00:20:29,934 --> 00:20:31,734
the ups and the downs,
the highs and the lows.
504
00:20:33,938 --> 00:20:37,039
I know that I can't [bleep]
talk Christine to my kids.
505
00:20:37,108 --> 00:20:38,708
I don't want to [bleep] talk
to her at all.
506
00:20:38,710 --> 00:20:41,911
Even though that's my natural,
my natural urge is to do that.
507
00:20:41,913 --> 00:20:43,946
I have to control that
because that's not fair.
508
00:20:45,216 --> 00:20:47,416
I'm catching myself
in this moment here,
509
00:20:47,418 --> 00:20:49,018
when I'm saying,
"How long have you
guys known?"
510
00:20:49,020 --> 00:20:51,954
And that's a blame game
that I'm playing,
511
00:20:52,056 --> 00:20:54,957
and I feel ashamed that
I'm doing that.
512
00:20:54,959 --> 00:20:57,593
But in my brokenhearted state,
513
00:20:57,595 --> 00:21:02,331
the anger is just flowing here
and nobody likes me.
514
00:21:02,333 --> 00:21:05,801
She was in the most hardest
of places a while ago.
515
00:21:05,803 --> 00:21:08,704
And so she just,
just through venting.
516
00:21:08,706 --> 00:21:10,506
So we've known
for a while now,
517
00:21:10,508 --> 00:21:12,408
but we haven't known that
it was like,
518
00:21:12,410 --> 00:21:14,510
"Oh, okay, it's, it's,
you know, it's happening.
519
00:21:14,512 --> 00:21:15,677
You are separating.
520
00:21:15,679 --> 00:21:17,413
-We haven't known
for too long."
-[Tony] Yeah.
521
00:21:17,415 --> 00:21:18,914
Just that
she wasn't the happiest.
522
00:21:18,916 --> 00:21:21,017
-[Mykelti] Yeah.
-I just don't think, okay.
523
00:21:21,019 --> 00:21:22,618
I'm going through that,
oh, oh, oh.
524
00:21:22,620 --> 00:21:25,421
I just want to blame so,
I'm angry,
525
00:21:25,423 --> 00:21:27,623
I want to break something.
526
00:21:27,625 --> 00:21:29,892
I just sort of was,
I've always wondered
527
00:21:29,894 --> 00:21:31,861
if I was like,
the last to know.
528
00:21:31,962 --> 00:21:33,729
Dad, you are, you're always,
you're gonna be
529
00:21:33,731 --> 00:21:35,364
the last to know.
And in our any relationship.
530
00:21:35,433 --> 00:21:36,632
No, but it's not that.
531
00:21:36,634 --> 00:21:38,668
It's in a relationship
with two people.
532
00:21:38,736 --> 00:21:41,304
You're the last to know
if somebody interests you
533
00:21:41,306 --> 00:21:43,205
or if you or if somebody
likes you.
534
00:21:43,207 --> 00:21:44,340
You're the last to know.
535
00:21:44,342 --> 00:21:46,042
If somebody dislikes you,
you're the last to know.
536
00:21:46,044 --> 00:21:48,110
-That's how all it...
-I don't know,
what you're talking about.
537
00:21:48,112 --> 00:21:49,445
Tony would
probably be the last to know
538
00:21:49,547 --> 00:21:51,247
if I was, you know,
leaving him.
539
00:21:51,349 --> 00:21:52,515
-[Kody] No, I--
-Would I?
540
00:21:52,517 --> 00:21:54,450
Probably.
I mean,
I probably tell my mom,
541
00:21:54,519 --> 00:21:55,851
I talk about it
with my family.
542
00:21:55,953 --> 00:21:57,420
I talk about it with people
who I want support.
543
00:21:57,422 --> 00:21:58,521
[Kody] Then Tony--
544
00:21:58,523 --> 00:22:01,624
I guess, I guess I would say
you're probably not
545
00:22:01,626 --> 00:22:03,859
first to know,
but you're not last.
546
00:22:03,961 --> 00:22:06,262
He's gotta know that
their relationship is rocky.
547
00:22:06,364 --> 00:22:09,465
They weren't in an okay place
for years, honestly.
548
00:22:09,567 --> 00:22:11,500
You know,
sometimes you're just,
you just don't see it.
549
00:22:11,502 --> 00:22:13,502
-You said, now.
-Babe, it's okay.
550
00:22:13,504 --> 00:22:14,804
We're not gonna
get divorced.
551
00:22:14,806 --> 00:22:16,505
-You don't need to start
denying it.
-Ha!
552
00:22:16,507 --> 00:22:18,941
I'm angry,
but we don't need to deal
with that.
553
00:22:18,943 --> 00:22:21,744
But I don't want people
picking sides.
554
00:22:21,846 --> 00:22:23,145
I don't want to push you
to pick sides
555
00:22:23,214 --> 00:22:24,347
or anything like that.
556
00:22:24,415 --> 00:22:26,415
-That's my point.
-We feel safe.
557
00:22:26,417 --> 00:22:28,851
I don't think
there are any sides
specifically to pick.
558
00:22:30,054 --> 00:22:32,421
I don't feel like my dad
asked me to pick sides at al
559
00:22:33,558 --> 00:22:35,324
I feel exactly the same way
about my mom.
560
00:22:35,326 --> 00:22:37,727
She would want to make sure
that no matter
561
00:22:37,729 --> 00:22:39,862
what happens with her
and my dad,
562
00:22:39,897 --> 00:22:42,431
that I still have
a strong relationship
with both of them.
563
00:22:42,433 --> 00:22:44,533
That's very important
to both my parents.
564
00:22:44,635 --> 00:22:47,803
I mean, again, it's not gonna
make it our relationship,
565
00:22:47,805 --> 00:22:49,739
yours, mine's,
Tony's and yours
566
00:22:49,807 --> 00:22:51,607
are three together
relationship
567
00:22:51,609 --> 00:22:55,611
doesn't change just
because my mom's
decided to leave dad.
568
00:22:55,613 --> 00:22:57,313
It doesn't change it.
569
00:22:57,315 --> 00:22:58,848
And you're still a mom.
570
00:22:58,949 --> 00:23:01,250
You're my, you're my kids.
I love you guys to pieces.
571
00:23:01,352 --> 00:23:02,718
Ah, we love you too.
572
00:23:04,822 --> 00:23:05,988
My girl and my boy.
573
00:23:07,325 --> 00:23:10,025
In my head, my relationship
with Christine is separate
574
00:23:10,027 --> 00:23:14,063
from my relationship
with her kids
or any of the other kids.
575
00:23:15,433 --> 00:23:18,567
I've asked her
if she wants to have
576
00:23:18,636 --> 00:23:19,935
a relationship with me,
577
00:23:19,937 --> 00:23:21,704
if there's something
we could figure out.
578
00:23:21,706 --> 00:23:25,174
And she said that
she doesn't want
579
00:23:25,176 --> 00:23:27,309
to have a relationship.
580
00:23:27,311 --> 00:23:31,647
And I have had to, you know,
I'm coming to terms with that.
581
00:23:33,951 --> 00:23:37,153
Do we just need to, like,
give you your space?
582
00:23:37,254 --> 00:23:39,221
Are you interested
in some sort of a,
583
00:23:41,325 --> 00:23:44,760
like trying to work stuff out
maybe from the past
how many years?
584
00:23:47,165 --> 00:23:50,232
I think for right now
I need space.
585
00:23:50,234 --> 00:23:52,134
But right now.
586
00:23:52,136 --> 00:23:54,603
I am open and interested
in a relationship
587
00:23:54,605 --> 00:23:58,040
with any of the kids or wives
that want one.
588
00:23:58,108 --> 00:24:00,042
It's what I've always wanted.
589
00:24:03,214 --> 00:24:05,214
Is any of the family,
are you guys
going to like say,
590
00:24:05,216 --> 00:24:07,416
anything like a goodbye?
591
00:24:07,418 --> 00:24:10,152
Are they gonna drive by
and wave?
592
00:24:10,254 --> 00:24:13,322
Are we gonna go
to dump toilets on their lawn?
593
00:24:13,324 --> 00:24:15,057
Like, what are we doing?
What's the plan?
594
00:24:15,059 --> 00:24:16,659
No, I don't think we're doing
anything like that.
595
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,462
My mom's honestly upset
that I'm pushing her so much.
596
00:24:19,563 --> 00:24:21,230
If you want to say something,
that's, that's fine.
597
00:24:21,232 --> 00:24:23,666
We'll just, I don't want
to pressure anybody at all.
598
00:24:23,734 --> 00:24:25,267
Um, I want to.
599
00:24:37,048 --> 00:24:39,315
[Christine]
We're going to just start
moving and loading.
600
00:24:39,317 --> 00:24:43,953
My crew is right now,
Mykelti, Tony and Garrison
601
00:24:44,021 --> 00:24:45,721
to help get everything loaded.
602
00:24:47,358 --> 00:24:49,692
It's a manual open, huh?
603
00:24:49,694 --> 00:24:50,826
It's a manual open.
604
00:24:50,828 --> 00:24:52,127
Yeah, 'cause it's broken.
605
00:24:54,265 --> 00:24:55,631
[Mykelti] Ms. Noel.
606
00:24:55,633 --> 00:24:57,366
Hi, baby.
607
00:24:57,468 --> 00:24:58,634
[Mykelti] Hi, Ms. Noel.
608
00:24:58,636 --> 00:24:59,768
Are you peeing--
609
00:24:59,870 --> 00:25:01,403
[Christine] Oh, peeing,
good job, seeing out there?
610
00:25:01,405 --> 00:25:03,739
-So nice. Thank you.
-[Mykelti] Oh, watch out.
611
00:25:03,808 --> 00:25:05,708
[Christine] Oh, wow.
That was rude.
612
00:25:05,710 --> 00:25:06,809
So when my mom told me.
613
00:25:06,811 --> 00:25:08,310
That she and Dad
were divorcing,
614
00:25:10,214 --> 00:25:11,847
I was a little bit relieved
615
00:25:11,916 --> 00:25:13,849
You know, to find out that
she was finally getting out
616
00:25:13,918 --> 00:25:15,618
because it wasn't a good
relationship for her.
617
00:25:15,620 --> 00:25:17,119
Not to be like
a terrible child or anything.
618
00:25:17,121 --> 00:25:19,321
But I've kind of felt like
619
00:25:19,323 --> 00:25:21,257
they should separate
for a while.
620
00:25:21,358 --> 00:25:24,760
Like even before, um,
like we moved to Las Vegas.
621
00:25:26,063 --> 00:25:29,131
-Wow.
-...just to say bit you.
622
00:25:29,133 --> 00:25:30,699
Hi, baby girl.
623
00:25:30,701 --> 00:25:33,068
Tomorrow we'll load up
the last few things,
624
00:25:33,137 --> 00:25:35,604
shut the truck and move away.
625
00:25:47,018 --> 00:25:48,918
My mom has a lot of crap.
626
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,387
She has so much stuff.
627
00:25:51,389 --> 00:25:52,821
[sighs]
628
00:25:52,889 --> 00:25:54,790
-Mom, do you want to know
something exciting?
-[Christine] Yes.
629
00:25:54,792 --> 00:25:56,559
We're gonna live
20 minutes away
from each other.
630
00:25:58,462 --> 00:26:00,229
Thank you for helping me
find the house, by the way.
631
00:26:00,231 --> 00:26:02,031
-You're welcome.
-It was really fun
driving around,
632
00:26:02,033 --> 00:26:04,133
you know,
all of Salt Lake area.
633
00:26:04,135 --> 00:26:06,235
And it's new.
We're the first people
to live in it.
634
00:26:06,237 --> 00:26:07,603
Yeah,
Mykelti's just in charge.
635
00:26:07,605 --> 00:26:09,939
Soon as Mykelti got here
she just took over.
636
00:26:09,941 --> 00:26:11,040
She took charge.
637
00:26:11,141 --> 00:26:13,042
She's very good at reading me.
638
00:26:13,044 --> 00:26:14,410
She knows I'm overwhelmed.
639
00:26:14,412 --> 00:26:16,745
She knows, I'm like,
all I need, I just need to go.
640
00:26:16,814 --> 00:26:18,614
Okay.
Based upon what we still have,
641
00:26:18,616 --> 00:26:20,215
how much furniture do
we still have upstairs?
642
00:26:20,217 --> 00:26:21,350
[Christine] It's all boxes.
643
00:26:21,452 --> 00:26:23,919
-It's all boxes and bins.
-Oh my gosh, it's awesome.
644
00:26:23,921 --> 00:26:26,922
[Mykelti] Do you guys want
to walk the house real fast
and see what's left?
645
00:26:26,924 --> 00:26:28,390
I'm gonna have
my mom walk through
646
00:26:28,392 --> 00:26:29,925
the house one last time
647
00:26:29,927 --> 00:26:32,394
because I think it'll be good
for her to see
648
00:26:32,396 --> 00:26:34,129
how much stuff we still have
to load on the truck.
649
00:26:34,131 --> 00:26:37,232
But also it's in a way,
her leaving this house
is just,
650
00:26:37,234 --> 00:26:38,834
it's a really big door
651
00:26:38,836 --> 00:26:41,036
closing on a massive chapter
of her life.
652
00:26:42,139 --> 00:26:44,840
[Christine] So,
isn't it crazy up here?
653
00:26:44,942 --> 00:26:46,041
[Mykelti] So empty?
654
00:26:46,143 --> 00:26:47,409
I remember
when we first moved in.
655
00:26:47,411 --> 00:26:49,612
Well, when you guys first
moved in here and how,
656
00:26:49,614 --> 00:26:52,147
-like, this was just
such a cool, hot room.
-[Christine] Right.
657
00:26:52,249 --> 00:26:55,818
This is where my bedroom was.
658
00:26:57,221 --> 00:27:00,923
And when we first decided
to get this house,
659
00:27:00,925 --> 00:27:03,959
Kody and I came upstairs
and we saw this view,
660
00:27:04,028 --> 00:27:06,328
and he said,
"I really want this house
661
00:27:06,330 --> 00:27:08,030
and this needs to be
our bedroom."
662
00:27:08,032 --> 00:27:10,766
[Mykelti] Okay,
So how does it feel?
663
00:27:10,835 --> 00:27:12,935
Um, it's bittersweet
'cause I don't know.
664
00:27:12,937 --> 00:27:15,104
The whole future is unknown.
665
00:27:15,106 --> 00:27:18,707
So sometimes
when I [exhales]
it's bittersweet.
666
00:27:18,709 --> 00:27:20,509
It's hard to say goodbye
to our house.
667
00:27:20,511 --> 00:27:23,012
I love this house
and it's hard to say goodbye.
668
00:27:23,014 --> 00:27:25,214
Um...
669
00:27:25,216 --> 00:27:27,149
I don't know.
It's a little scary,
to be honest.
670
00:27:27,251 --> 00:27:29,118
[Mykelti]
But you're super excited
for your new adventure?
671
00:27:29,120 --> 00:27:30,953
Yes, very excited
for my new adventure.
672
00:27:31,022 --> 00:27:32,454
Sorry.
It's hard to be up here.
673
00:27:32,456 --> 00:27:35,124
It's hard to be in this room
and in this space
a little bit for me.
674
00:27:36,460 --> 00:27:38,027
This was my room.
675
00:27:40,031 --> 00:27:43,966
Kody and I have just had
a lot of hard times
in this room,
676
00:27:44,068 --> 00:27:46,969
and I don't like to be
in this space anymore.
677
00:27:48,606 --> 00:27:50,639
[Mykelti] Yeah, you,
Aspen and I
will all be neighbors.
678
00:27:50,741 --> 00:27:51,907
I know.
679
00:27:51,909 --> 00:27:53,609
And I'll be like 45 minutes
from my dad,
680
00:27:53,611 --> 00:27:57,513
45 minutes from my mom,
sisters, brothers.
681
00:27:57,515 --> 00:27:59,214
-I'm so excited.
-[Mykelti] Hmm-mm.
682
00:27:59,216 --> 00:28:01,316
My dad, I talked to him
on the phone yesterday
and he goes,
683
00:28:01,318 --> 00:28:03,752
"Hey, welcome home." I know.
684
00:28:03,821 --> 00:28:05,120
[Mykelti] Oh, my God,
that's so sweet.
685
00:28:05,122 --> 00:28:06,422
I cried a little. I did.
686
00:28:07,758 --> 00:28:09,625
I remember.
687
00:28:09,627 --> 00:28:13,028
Like, when I first told my dad
that I was leaving Kody,
688
00:28:13,030 --> 00:28:16,031
he was really, really sad
and really just--
689
00:28:16,033 --> 00:28:18,067
it was hard for him
because he loves Kody.
690
00:28:19,170 --> 00:28:21,070
And so we just kind of table
the conversation.
691
00:28:22,106 --> 00:28:23,205
Yeah.
692
00:28:23,207 --> 00:28:26,308
When my house had an offer
and I found a rental.
693
00:28:26,310 --> 00:28:28,711
My dad was
one of the first people
that I called
694
00:28:28,713 --> 00:28:30,646
and he just said,
"Welcome home."
695
00:28:30,748 --> 00:28:32,114
I sold my entire
bedroom furniture.
696
00:28:32,116 --> 00:28:33,248
So the whole set.
697
00:28:33,317 --> 00:28:35,117
[Mykelti] You end a marriage
and you move on
698
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,151
and get new furniture.
699
00:28:36,253 --> 00:28:37,252
Yeah.
700
00:28:37,321 --> 00:28:38,454
You don't want to carry
701
00:28:38,522 --> 00:28:40,155
the whole the bedroom
set with you.
702
00:28:40,257 --> 00:28:41,857
[Mykelti] I know.
So I got rid of it.
703
00:28:41,959 --> 00:28:45,828
I think that it's really safe
and healthy,
704
00:28:45,830 --> 00:28:48,564
when you end a marriage
or when you end anything
705
00:28:48,665 --> 00:28:53,469
to get rid of everything that
you have emotional
connections to.
706
00:28:53,570 --> 00:28:56,605
Because when it's over,
if you still have pieces left
707
00:28:56,607 --> 00:28:59,041
from it, you can never
truly move on.
708
00:29:00,411 --> 00:29:02,411
-Oh, sorry.
You want to... want to get.
-[Christine] All right.
709
00:29:02,413 --> 00:29:06,315
I think that let's just
call it a day for now.
710
00:29:06,317 --> 00:29:08,250
We have just a few,
let's just finish--
711
00:29:08,319 --> 00:29:09,618
We've scratched
more than the surface.
712
00:29:09,620 --> 00:29:10,886
[Christine] Yeah.
713
00:29:10,888 --> 00:29:13,155
So the morning we'll like
just finish doing everything.
714
00:29:13,224 --> 00:29:15,991
Get the mattresses
out in the morning
715
00:29:15,993 --> 00:29:17,659
and let's just call it a day.
716
00:29:17,761 --> 00:29:19,695
[Mykelti] So, ah,
is any of the family...
717
00:29:19,697 --> 00:29:23,132
Are you guys gonna do
anything, anything
like a goodbye,
718
00:29:23,134 --> 00:29:24,299
or is the family gonna
come over
719
00:29:24,301 --> 00:29:29,204
for socially distanced
breakfast outside tomorrow?
720
00:29:29,206 --> 00:29:32,007
Are they gonna drive by
and wave?
721
00:29:32,009 --> 00:29:35,110
Are we gonna go
to dump toilets on their lawn?
722
00:29:35,112 --> 00:29:36,912
Like, what are we doing?
What's the plan?
723
00:29:36,914 --> 00:29:38,614
No, I don't think we're doing
anything like that.
724
00:29:38,616 --> 00:29:40,315
Nobody's gonna come over
and say bye?
725
00:29:40,317 --> 00:29:41,717
I don't think so.
726
00:29:41,719 --> 00:29:44,153
-No one said anything.
-I think that's stupid.
727
00:29:44,221 --> 00:29:47,322
I told all the adults
that I was packing up
and leaving tomorrow,
728
00:29:47,324 --> 00:29:49,558
and I don't know what to do.
729
00:29:49,660 --> 00:29:51,160
What do you want me to do?
730
00:29:51,261 --> 00:29:54,229
This is your last night here.
731
00:29:54,231 --> 00:29:55,964
If they wanted to come over,
it would be great.
732
00:29:56,066 --> 00:30:00,068
I want my mom to have to have
everybody say goodbye to her,
733
00:30:00,070 --> 00:30:01,503
because it's not like she's
734
00:30:01,505 --> 00:30:03,038
Yes, she's divorcing my dad,
735
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,707
but she's not saying,
okay, peace out.
736
00:30:05,709 --> 00:30:07,442
I'm done
with every single one of you.
737
00:30:07,544 --> 00:30:09,111
[Christine]
I think, if you want to
say something, that's fine.
738
00:30:09,113 --> 00:30:10,412
But keep it
to the Flagstaff family.
739
00:30:10,414 --> 00:30:12,414
-Then you don't have a--
-[Mykelti]
...flagstaff family.
740
00:30:12,416 --> 00:30:14,116
If you want to say something,
that's, that's fine.
741
00:30:14,118 --> 00:30:16,952
We'll just--
I don't want to pressure
anybody at all.
742
00:30:17,021 --> 00:30:18,220
I want to.
743
00:30:19,156 --> 00:30:21,957
My mom's honestly upset
that I'm pushing her
744
00:30:21,959 --> 00:30:25,127
so much to have people
come over and say goodbye
745
00:30:25,129 --> 00:30:27,062
because my mom
wants to be done.
746
00:30:27,164 --> 00:30:30,432
But I think that
she'll regret it,
747
00:30:30,434 --> 00:30:32,267
if she doesn't get a goodbye.
748
00:30:32,369 --> 00:30:33,969
And I think so will they,
749
00:30:34,037 --> 00:30:37,105
though, regret
not saying goodbye
just as much as she will.
750
00:30:37,107 --> 00:30:40,642
And it'll make us both,
everybody can't look back
751
00:30:40,744 --> 00:30:44,646
on this moment
and be happy for my mom.
752
00:30:45,716 --> 00:30:47,049
-Hey. Yep.
-Okay. We're done.
753
00:30:47,150 --> 00:30:48,617
-Yeah, we're--
-Let's call it quits
for the...
754
00:30:48,619 --> 00:30:49,651
-Let's do it.
-I'm tired.
755
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,119
Okay, that sounds great.
756
00:30:54,658 --> 00:30:56,425
I'm leaving in five minutes.
757
00:30:56,427 --> 00:30:58,961
This is such an
awkward moment.
758
00:30:59,062 --> 00:31:00,062
Bye Christine, good luck.
759
00:31:00,130 --> 00:31:01,363
[Christine] Bye, thank you.
760
00:31:01,465 --> 00:31:03,832
So it's very apparent
how awkward we all are.
761
00:31:03,834 --> 00:31:06,568
But Janelle and her kids
are on one side
762
00:31:06,637 --> 00:31:08,103
and Robyn and Kody
are on the other,
763
00:31:08,105 --> 00:31:11,106
and none of us
wanted to be here.
764
00:31:11,108 --> 00:31:12,140
You guys,
thank you for coming.
765
00:31:12,242 --> 00:31:13,842
Hey, it means a lot to me
that you came.
766
00:31:13,911 --> 00:31:15,510
[sobbing]
767
00:31:30,761 --> 00:31:34,129
Um, one of my big things
with my mom
leaving the family is,
768
00:31:34,131 --> 00:31:35,964
I didn't want it
to create this
769
00:31:37,167 --> 00:31:39,835
massive divide in my family
that would make it
770
00:31:39,837 --> 00:31:42,204
so the siblings
wouldn't talk to each other
771
00:31:42,206 --> 00:31:43,939
or the parents wouldn't
talk to each other.
772
00:31:46,310 --> 00:31:48,610
So it was really
important to me
773
00:31:48,612 --> 00:31:51,213
for everybody to come say
goodbye to my mom.
774
00:31:51,215 --> 00:31:52,948
Hold my hand.
775
00:31:53,017 --> 00:31:54,149
Okay.
Hold my hand, sweetie.
776
00:31:54,218 --> 00:31:55,517
All right.
777
00:31:58,022 --> 00:32:01,423
[Robyn] Today, um, I know th
Christine is leaving...
778
00:32:02,626 --> 00:32:03,992
Uh...
779
00:32:05,729 --> 00:32:10,666
Kind of based on
what she told me
when she talked to us
780
00:32:10,734 --> 00:32:14,803
about how she was going
to move.
781
00:32:14,805 --> 00:32:17,239
I felt it best for us
782
00:32:17,308 --> 00:32:20,509
not to get in the way,
say anything,
783
00:32:20,511 --> 00:32:21,944
say goodbye
or anything like that.
784
00:32:21,946 --> 00:32:24,813
I was just gonna
just stay out of the way.
785
00:32:25,916 --> 00:32:27,149
[Kody whistling]
786
00:32:27,250 --> 00:32:29,051
[Kody] I thought
there was a party.
787
00:32:29,053 --> 00:32:30,419
I guess not.
788
00:32:31,755 --> 00:32:33,255
[Ariella speaking]
789
00:32:33,324 --> 00:32:34,356
[Kody] You want to.
790
00:32:34,458 --> 00:32:36,058
-We can't go in the house.
-[Ariella speaking]
791
00:32:36,126 --> 00:32:39,061
[Kody]
We're 'cause we got to be
COVID Social distanced.
792
00:32:40,331 --> 00:32:43,632
And then Mykelti called me
and she was like, Robyn,
793
00:32:43,634 --> 00:32:45,734
I think it would be best
if you came
794
00:32:45,736 --> 00:32:47,035
and you guys came
and say goodbye.
795
00:32:48,105 --> 00:32:49,204
Yeah.
796
00:32:49,206 --> 00:32:50,806
It's raining.
797
00:32:50,808 --> 00:32:52,240
I'm leaving in five minutes.
798
00:32:55,713 --> 00:32:56,812
Hi, everybody.
799
00:32:56,814 --> 00:32:58,313
[Christine] Oh, gosh.
That was terrifying.
800
00:32:58,315 --> 00:33:00,015
We're outside right now.
801
00:33:00,017 --> 00:33:01,450
[Christine] Oh, nice.
In the backyard.
802
00:33:01,551 --> 00:33:02,751
Yes. Let's go.
803
00:33:03,954 --> 00:33:06,722
I'm not
in a good place here, I...
804
00:33:06,724 --> 00:33:10,359
Christine's leaving.
I didn't want to... Oh, gosh.
805
00:33:11,328 --> 00:33:13,562
This is such
an awkward moment.
806
00:33:15,132 --> 00:33:16,965
There is such a strike
807
00:33:18,969 --> 00:33:20,769
to all my feelings
808
00:33:20,804 --> 00:33:25,307
and all the work that
I've done for our family
to come here
809
00:33:25,309 --> 00:33:28,944
to sort of have this
family gathering
and say goodbye,
810
00:33:28,946 --> 00:33:31,947
that is way off course for me,
way off the charts.
811
00:33:32,016 --> 00:33:34,516
It's not, it's not even right.
812
00:33:34,518 --> 00:33:35,751
It feels so,
813
00:33:37,654 --> 00:33:39,054
demeaning.
814
00:33:40,924 --> 00:33:42,323
And bless Mykelti's heart.
815
00:33:42,325 --> 00:33:44,860
She wants to affirm that
the family is still a family
816
00:33:46,230 --> 00:33:49,364
And I'm in this sort of
weird place where, you know,
817
00:33:49,466 --> 00:33:54,202
I'm like, thinking,
I don't want to see
Christine ever again.
818
00:33:54,204 --> 00:33:56,104
I don't want to think
about her.
819
00:33:56,106 --> 00:33:58,206
I don't want to drive
past this house ever again
820
00:33:58,208 --> 00:33:59,841
and mourn this.
821
00:33:59,910 --> 00:34:02,811
I don't want to sit
and be in this place again.
822
00:34:02,813 --> 00:34:05,113
I don't want to deal
with this at all.
823
00:34:07,718 --> 00:34:08,817
[Janelle] Hi, honey.
824
00:34:10,521 --> 00:34:11,720
[Gabriel] What's up, guys.
825
00:34:11,722 --> 00:34:12,821
[indistinct chatter]
826
00:34:14,124 --> 00:34:15,590
[Janelle] We love you.
827
00:34:15,592 --> 00:34:20,062
I'm not really sad about
Dad and Christine breaking up.
828
00:34:20,163 --> 00:34:23,065
I'm really sad that
Christine is moving.
829
00:34:24,535 --> 00:34:26,535
I'm not gonna,
like, sit here
830
00:34:26,537 --> 00:34:27,969
and blame her
for doing it like.
831
00:34:29,139 --> 00:34:30,939
If I was in her shoes,
I would do the same.
832
00:34:33,710 --> 00:34:36,711
[Meri] The real reason
why I was not there.
833
00:34:36,713 --> 00:34:39,948
The actual reason
was because I was out of tow
834
00:34:39,950 --> 00:34:42,150
I was up at my B&B,
and also,
835
00:34:43,253 --> 00:34:45,353
I don't know how weird
it would have been,
836
00:34:45,422 --> 00:34:46,755
if I was knowing that
837
00:34:46,857 --> 00:34:48,623
she really wasn't
interested in
838
00:34:49,827 --> 00:34:51,359
having a relationship with me.
839
00:34:51,428 --> 00:34:54,729
So why be there
and do some big goodbye?
840
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,933
[Kody] Oh, there we go.
841
00:34:57,935 --> 00:34:59,067
[Truely] Oh, ta-ta.
842
00:34:59,069 --> 00:35:00,802
[Kody] Yep. Turned on.
843
00:35:00,804 --> 00:35:02,037
[Christine] Okay.
844
00:35:04,108 --> 00:35:06,007
[Mykelti] Oh, it's about to...
Oh, it's about to rain.
845
00:35:06,009 --> 00:35:07,709
-[Christine] Okay.
-[Kody]
Hope it's about to rain.
846
00:35:07,711 --> 00:35:09,711
[Christine] Tut, tut.
847
00:35:09,713 --> 00:35:10,946
Hey Truely.
Truely, come here honey.
848
00:35:11,047 --> 00:35:12,647
-[Kody] Hey, Truely.
-You got to keep
the distance.
849
00:35:12,749 --> 00:35:13,748
Hi, everyone.
850
00:35:13,850 --> 00:35:15,317
[Mykelti]
It's awkward outside.
851
00:35:15,319 --> 00:35:16,852
It's weird.
It's intense.
852
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:18,520
Nobody really
wants to be here.
853
00:35:18,522 --> 00:35:20,489
Dad doesn't want to be here.
Robyn doesn't want to be here.
854
00:35:20,491 --> 00:35:23,125
Mom doesn't want to be here.
It's weird.
855
00:35:23,127 --> 00:35:27,229
It's definitely, it's intense
and it's uncomfortable.
856
00:35:28,132 --> 00:35:29,731
And sick.
857
00:35:31,335 --> 00:35:32,901
[Kody] Truely. Hey.
858
00:35:32,903 --> 00:35:34,703
Are you okay that
you're moving tomorrow?
859
00:35:34,705 --> 00:35:36,104
Yeah.
Are you excited?
860
00:35:37,407 --> 00:35:39,407
-Yeah.
-Okay.
861
00:35:39,409 --> 00:35:41,042
All right.
862
00:35:41,044 --> 00:35:43,111
You know,
once again, I'm...
863
00:35:43,113 --> 00:35:44,846
I, in my my state
of bitterness.
864
00:35:44,948 --> 00:35:46,648
I'm trying to box
Christine in.
865
00:35:46,717 --> 00:35:48,850
I think, I think
she's doing something wrong.
866
00:35:49,953 --> 00:35:51,319
-You sure?
-Mm-hmm.
867
00:35:51,321 --> 00:35:52,621
Where's your smile?
868
00:35:55,726 --> 00:35:57,526
No smiles about it, huh?
869
00:35:57,528 --> 00:35:58,827
Sorry.
870
00:35:58,829 --> 00:36:00,862
All right, well.
871
00:36:05,402 --> 00:36:06,868
I don't know.
She could have stayed here.
872
00:36:06,970 --> 00:36:08,103
She could have stayed
in this house.
873
00:36:08,105 --> 00:36:09,337
And very likely
874
00:36:09,406 --> 00:36:11,206
Gwendlyn and Isabel might have
stayed here as well.
875
00:36:11,208 --> 00:36:12,307
I don't know.
876
00:36:12,309 --> 00:36:16,411
It just feels like and I'm,
877
00:36:16,413 --> 00:36:18,713
I'm in a really
bad state of mind.
878
00:36:18,715 --> 00:36:21,416
I feel like my life
is being unravelled for me.
879
00:36:21,418 --> 00:36:22,851
This isn't something I want.
880
00:36:22,953 --> 00:36:24,352
I feel out of control.
881
00:36:26,156 --> 00:36:27,222
Thanks for coming, guys.
882
00:36:27,224 --> 00:36:28,323
I appreciate it.
883
00:36:28,325 --> 00:36:29,457
-It means a lot.
-This is fun.
884
00:36:29,525 --> 00:36:31,927
It's bittersweet, but it's,
it's nice that, like,
885
00:36:31,929 --> 00:36:33,728
we're all here
and we can all, um,
886
00:36:34,398 --> 00:36:35,530
be here together,
887
00:36:35,532 --> 00:36:39,167
like, the last night that
Mom's here in Flagstaff.
888
00:36:39,269 --> 00:36:40,435
So I'm really glad.
889
00:36:40,437 --> 00:36:42,404
Like, I think
this is probably something
890
00:36:42,406 --> 00:36:44,039
that's one of the hardest
things that this family
891
00:36:44,107 --> 00:36:45,540
is gonna have
to go through.
892
00:36:45,642 --> 00:36:48,743
But I think that it's awesome
that we can all be here
893
00:36:48,845 --> 00:36:50,946
to show that
at the end of this all,
894
00:36:50,948 --> 00:36:52,247
we are still a family.
895
00:36:58,055 --> 00:37:00,622
So there's no one
to blame for any of this.
896
00:37:00,624 --> 00:37:03,491
It's all just,
it is what it is.
897
00:37:03,493 --> 00:37:06,628
And we should just all
be grateful
898
00:37:06,630 --> 00:37:08,530
that even through this,
899
00:37:08,532 --> 00:37:11,166
we can remain,
we can remain a family
900
00:37:11,234 --> 00:37:14,202
and we can remain together
and that we can support
901
00:37:14,204 --> 00:37:16,504
each other still through
all of it.
902
00:37:20,744 --> 00:37:22,911
And I just what I think,
I'm glad you guys
are all here,
903
00:37:22,913 --> 00:37:24,746
because I think it's good
to say goodbye to the...
904
00:37:24,815 --> 00:37:26,648
[Janelle] This chapter.
905
00:37:26,750 --> 00:37:28,416
[Mykelti] ...this chapter.
It's good to say good bye.
906
00:37:28,418 --> 00:37:29,818
You said exactly
what was in my heart
907
00:37:29,820 --> 00:37:31,219
without I didn't know
how to say it.
908
00:37:31,221 --> 00:37:32,287
So thank you.
909
00:37:32,355 --> 00:37:34,656
So it's very apparent
how awkward we all are.
910
00:37:34,758 --> 00:37:37,359
But Janelle and her kids
are on one side
911
00:37:37,460 --> 00:37:38,960
and Robyn and Kody
are on the other.
912
00:37:39,062 --> 00:37:40,562
And...
913
00:37:44,034 --> 00:37:46,434
none of us wanted to be here.
914
00:37:46,436 --> 00:37:48,570
-Bye, Christine. Goodluck.
-[Christine] Bye. Thank you.
915
00:37:48,638 --> 00:37:50,438
-Bye.
-[Christine] Bye. Thank you.
916
00:37:50,540 --> 00:37:53,408
[Ariella speaking]
917
00:37:53,410 --> 00:37:55,043
We just weren't
in love anymore.
918
00:37:55,045 --> 00:37:56,711
You know,
that happens sometimes.
919
00:37:58,215 --> 00:38:00,315
But we'll still hang
out sometimes.
920
00:38:00,317 --> 00:38:02,317
-We just weren't in love.
-[Ariella speaking]
921
00:38:02,319 --> 00:38:03,718
Oh, well, it doesn't
always fix everything,
922
00:38:03,720 --> 00:38:04,919
my love, but thank you.
923
00:38:04,921 --> 00:38:06,221
What a good idea.
924
00:38:06,223 --> 00:38:07,355
[Ariella speaking]
925
00:38:07,457 --> 00:38:08,957
Not unlike all my children
926
00:38:09,025 --> 00:38:11,359
imposing your view
on the rest of us.
927
00:38:11,461 --> 00:38:12,660
That's okay. It's good.
928
00:38:12,662 --> 00:38:15,230
They have strong opinions
because this world beats them
929
00:38:15,232 --> 00:38:16,398
down fast enough.
930
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,734
It's awkward, you know,
when Ari's asking
931
00:38:19,736 --> 00:38:23,038
why I'm leaving, I know
everybody wonders, you know,
932
00:38:23,106 --> 00:38:27,208
she's just a kid,
so she's brave enough to ask.
933
00:38:27,210 --> 00:38:28,610
[Mykelti] All right,
You guys are awesome.
934
00:38:28,612 --> 00:38:30,111
-[Christine] Thank you.
-[Kody] All right.
935
00:38:30,113 --> 00:38:31,913
[Mykelti]
I really appreciate it.
Thank you.
936
00:38:31,915 --> 00:38:34,249
Okay.
Safe travels, will see you.
937
00:38:34,318 --> 00:38:36,051
-[Robyn] Thanks.
-[Kody] I just only me.
938
00:38:36,152 --> 00:38:38,420
Only me. Only me. Okay.
939
00:38:38,422 --> 00:38:39,921
All right.
We'll see you, sweetheart.
940
00:38:39,923 --> 00:38:40,955
I love you.
941
00:38:42,125 --> 00:38:44,626
I love you.
Have a good trip. Okay.
942
00:38:44,628 --> 00:38:45,794
All right.
943
00:38:45,796 --> 00:38:49,331
Your phone has video chat,
and you and I can video chat.
944
00:38:49,333 --> 00:38:50,432
-Okay.
-Okay.
945
00:38:50,434 --> 00:38:51,466
-Okay.
-All right.
946
00:38:51,535 --> 00:38:52,634
-Got it.
-Love you.
947
00:38:52,636 --> 00:38:54,336
[Robyn] Truely, we love you.
948
00:38:54,338 --> 00:38:55,470
I'm gonna miss you.
949
00:38:55,538 --> 00:38:56,705
And I hope to see you soon,
sweetie.
950
00:38:58,608 --> 00:39:00,007
There everybody's
really angry.
951
00:39:02,813 --> 00:39:05,613
And, um, it just seemed lik
Robyn's kids were angry, too
952
00:39:05,615 --> 00:39:09,951
That was the hardest part,
is that her kids are angry,
too.
953
00:39:11,355 --> 00:39:13,722
No, my kids
weren't angry with her.
954
00:39:13,724 --> 00:39:15,824
Um...
955
00:39:15,826 --> 00:39:19,427
They're sort of the innocen
parties in all of this.
956
00:39:19,429 --> 00:39:20,628
All of the kids are.
957
00:39:22,699 --> 00:39:24,132
It's just devastating.
958
00:39:26,203 --> 00:39:27,669
Just devastating.
959
00:39:31,508 --> 00:39:33,241
All right. Thanks to...
you guys,
thank you for coming.
960
00:39:33,310 --> 00:39:34,909
Hey, it means a lot to me
that you came.
961
00:39:34,911 --> 00:39:36,611
[sobbing]
962
00:39:36,613 --> 00:39:38,847
[Kody] All right,
you guys needed that.
963
00:39:41,918 --> 00:39:43,218
I wouldn't have
asked for this.
964
00:39:43,220 --> 00:39:45,954
I didn't ask for, like,
having them all come over.
965
00:39:45,956 --> 00:39:49,457
It was important for Mykelti
and for her
966
00:39:49,559 --> 00:39:52,127
and for everybody to see
Truely probably was.
967
00:39:53,463 --> 00:39:56,431
But I certainly
didn't need it.
968
00:39:59,035 --> 00:40:00,535
It's worse than I thought
it would have been.
969
00:40:02,339 --> 00:40:03,438
[Christine] Thank you.
970
00:40:03,507 --> 00:40:04,606
[Christine sobbing]
971
00:40:08,412 --> 00:40:09,511
[Christine] Thank you.
972
00:40:09,513 --> 00:40:10,745
[Janelle] New chapters.
973
00:40:10,814 --> 00:40:12,247
[Christine] Okay. Gosh.
974
00:40:19,623 --> 00:40:22,957
I think
this was the worst goodbye
975
00:40:23,059 --> 00:40:24,225
that I've ever witnessed.
976
00:40:26,229 --> 00:40:27,195
-[woman 1] Love you guys.
-[woman 2] Thanks.
977
00:40:27,197 --> 00:40:28,563
-We're out of here.
-[Ariella] Bye!
978
00:40:28,565 --> 00:40:30,865
-[Christine] Bye. Thanks.
-[woman 3]
That was a nice hat.
979
00:40:30,967 --> 00:40:32,400
[Christine] Bye. Love you.
980
00:40:32,402 --> 00:40:34,035
[indistinct chatter]
981
00:40:45,816 --> 00:40:47,749
[narrator]
Next time on Sister Wives..
982
00:40:47,818 --> 00:40:50,118
So, I am moving today.
It's, yeah!
983
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,219
To new beginnings,
right?
984
00:40:51,221 --> 00:40:52,320
New beginnings.
985
00:40:52,322 --> 00:40:54,923
All of a sudden my whole world
looks different.
986
00:40:54,925 --> 00:40:56,558
She's called me
a lot of things.
987
00:40:56,626 --> 00:40:58,226
I think she called me
a coward once.
988
00:40:58,228 --> 00:41:00,395
But what I didn't do was,
I didn't quit.
989
00:41:00,397 --> 00:41:01,830
You ready to go see
our new house?
990
00:41:01,832 --> 00:41:04,799
I have a lot of emotions
about Christine leaving.
991
00:41:04,801 --> 00:41:07,535
Sadness, anger, even.
992
00:41:07,537 --> 00:41:09,737
I don't think any of us kno
what goes on now.
993
00:41:09,806 --> 00:41:11,406
We're just gonna
have to make it up.
994
00:41:11,408 --> 00:41:13,608
Her offer didn't go through
on the house.
995
00:41:13,610 --> 00:41:15,543
-Yeah.
-Why don't we buy it?
996
00:41:15,645 --> 00:41:18,313
We buy the house,
build on Coyote Pass.
997
00:41:18,315 --> 00:41:19,747
We rent this house.
998
00:41:19,816 --> 00:41:21,549
I want my own house.
999
00:41:21,684 --> 00:41:23,418
I don't want to live
in an RV.
1000
00:41:23,420 --> 00:41:26,621
Men, don't love people
who don't respect them.
1001
00:41:26,623 --> 00:41:29,724
I'm not gonna break my back
when you don't respect me.