1 00:00:01,006 --> 00:00:02,806 [Kody] Previously on Sister Wives.. 2 00:00:02,808 --> 00:00:06,543 I am driving to my buddy's wedding. 3 00:00:06,645 --> 00:00:08,112 [Janelle] Kody and Robyn still observe 4 00:00:08,114 --> 00:00:10,314 the very strict rules about COVID. 5 00:00:10,316 --> 00:00:12,049 We're still not gathering as a family. 6 00:00:12,151 --> 00:00:13,951 And yet here's Kody traveling. 7 00:00:16,522 --> 00:00:19,056 And now I'm mad. What the hell? 8 00:00:20,026 --> 00:00:22,526 Truth be told, Meri, she was talking about 9 00:00:22,528 --> 00:00:24,661 leaving Kody before they moved to Flagstaff. 10 00:00:24,730 --> 00:00:28,766 There's so much investment here in this family. 11 00:00:28,834 --> 00:00:30,234 Hang on with me, okay? 12 00:00:30,669 --> 00:00:31,869 Yeah. 13 00:00:31,904 --> 00:00:34,038 She belongs with us. 14 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:38,842 We've been 12 years public trying to convince the world 15 00:00:38,944 --> 00:00:40,544 that we have something legitimate. 16 00:00:41,747 --> 00:00:43,714 Congratulations. You're leaving the family. 17 00:00:43,716 --> 00:00:46,717 She's treated you like dirt from the very beginning. 18 00:00:46,719 --> 00:00:49,253 That's the relationship you have with her. 19 00:00:49,354 --> 00:00:50,921 And that's the reason I'm angry. 20 00:00:50,923 --> 00:00:52,689 That's the reason I'm pissed off. 21 00:00:52,691 --> 00:00:54,525 Now that she's leaving, I just felt like 22 00:00:54,527 --> 00:00:56,593 giving her a piece of my mind with that leaving. 23 00:00:56,595 --> 00:01:00,164 But accountability is what I've been asking for here. 24 00:01:00,232 --> 00:01:03,867 And you are running away rather than being accountable. 25 00:01:05,137 --> 00:01:06,937 [sobbing] 26 00:01:38,471 --> 00:01:40,504 [Janelle] So I'm going over to talk to Christine, 27 00:01:40,506 --> 00:01:42,806 'cause after the last conversation 28 00:01:42,808 --> 00:01:44,508 we had when we were all together was pretty rough. 29 00:01:46,512 --> 00:01:47,711 -[Christine] Hey. -[Janelle] Hey. 30 00:01:47,713 --> 00:01:49,113 -[Christine] How's it going -[Janelle] Good. 31 00:01:49,115 --> 00:01:50,447 Hi. Your shirt is super cute. 32 00:01:50,516 --> 00:01:52,416 I know. I'm trying to decide if it's fall. 33 00:01:52,418 --> 00:01:54,618 I was a little shocked at Kody's behavior. 34 00:01:54,620 --> 00:01:57,321 He was just angry. 35 00:01:57,323 --> 00:02:00,257 When we were talking all together Thursday, you know, that was a mess. 36 00:02:00,359 --> 00:02:02,326 That was a terrible conversation. It was terrible. 37 00:02:02,328 --> 00:02:04,128 I really thought it would go so much better kind of-- 38 00:02:04,130 --> 00:02:05,362 I was surprised. 39 00:02:05,464 --> 00:02:06,530 And I thought, you know what? 40 00:02:07,566 --> 00:02:08,966 Maybe it's okay 'cause everybody 41 00:02:08,968 --> 00:02:10,501 needs to express their emotions. 42 00:02:10,503 --> 00:02:12,369 And then he lost it. 43 00:02:12,404 --> 00:02:15,205 She's treated you like dirt from the very beginning. 44 00:02:15,207 --> 00:02:17,307 That's the relationship you have with her. 45 00:02:18,711 --> 00:02:20,210 And that's the reason I'm angry. 46 00:02:20,212 --> 00:02:23,213 That's the reason I'm pissed off is because... 47 00:02:27,553 --> 00:02:30,120 you never tried to have really good relationship 48 00:02:30,122 --> 00:02:31,722 with these other people. 49 00:02:31,724 --> 00:02:33,457 That's not true. Yes, I did. 50 00:02:33,526 --> 00:02:36,226 It is just vomiting out of me because I've sat here with it, 51 00:02:36,228 --> 00:02:38,862 just like, "Christine, try and do this." 52 00:02:38,931 --> 00:02:42,032 You wanted to renegotiate a relationship with me, 53 00:02:42,034 --> 00:02:44,168 but you wouldn't even have a decent one with them. 54 00:02:45,471 --> 00:02:47,504 I'm surprised 'cause I didn't realize 55 00:02:48,541 --> 00:02:50,407 I wasn't giving Robyn a chance, 56 00:02:50,409 --> 00:02:53,610 but I certainly never thought that I was being mean 57 00:02:53,612 --> 00:02:56,847 or mistreating her in any way. 58 00:02:56,949 --> 00:03:00,851 So I was so shocked at his aggression. 59 00:03:02,054 --> 00:03:03,620 And I was expecting people to be hurt. 60 00:03:04,623 --> 00:03:05,656 I was expecting it. 61 00:03:05,757 --> 00:03:06,990 I didn't know that he'd be volatile 62 00:03:06,992 --> 00:03:09,159 and I didn't-- but I didn't know what to say to him. 63 00:03:09,261 --> 00:03:10,260 I'm like... 64 00:03:10,329 --> 00:03:13,063 He has been like, it's been deep. 65 00:03:13,132 --> 00:03:14,297 Like I've been watching him. 66 00:03:14,333 --> 00:03:16,867 And he's just really, it's like he's been sort of 67 00:03:16,969 --> 00:03:18,268 agitated and angry, 68 00:03:18,337 --> 00:03:21,038 and I think he hasn't known how to express it. 69 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:24,107 And unfortunately, I think it all sort of came out like... 70 00:03:24,109 --> 00:03:26,843 It surprised me 'cause he was so loud 71 00:03:26,912 --> 00:03:28,512 and he was so angry. 72 00:03:28,514 --> 00:03:31,348 The sacrifices that I made 73 00:03:31,417 --> 00:03:34,818 to love you, wasted. 74 00:03:35,521 --> 00:03:37,020 The timing seemed weird, 75 00:03:37,022 --> 00:03:39,256 but I think it's just he reached his point. 76 00:03:39,325 --> 00:03:40,490 It sounded the other day like you 77 00:03:40,492 --> 00:03:42,125 just didn't even wanna see Robyn or Meri again. 78 00:03:42,127 --> 00:03:43,927 And I think that's how Robyn felt, 79 00:03:43,929 --> 00:03:45,062 like she walked away and was like, 80 00:03:45,130 --> 00:03:46,163 "Okay, I guess see you." 81 00:03:46,232 --> 00:03:47,430 And she was quite emotional. 82 00:03:47,433 --> 00:03:50,434 No, I didn't mean it like a cut and dried, it's over. 83 00:03:50,436 --> 00:03:52,236 That's not what I was trying to convey at all. 84 00:03:52,238 --> 00:03:54,137 [Janelle] I am actually glad to know that because I think-- 85 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:56,240 That's how it came across? 86 00:03:56,341 --> 00:03:57,441 I don't know. 87 00:03:57,509 --> 00:03:59,743 It was really hard telling Robyn, 88 00:03:59,845 --> 00:04:02,646 "I didn't think that I could do more." 89 00:04:02,748 --> 00:04:04,514 And, you know, after the conversation, 90 00:04:05,951 --> 00:04:09,119 I realized she was talking about her kids, too. 91 00:04:09,121 --> 00:04:12,589 You know, it sounds like feels continue to have the relationships 92 00:04:12,591 --> 00:04:14,958 with the people you're close with and, 93 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,662 um, those that you weren't close with and, you know, just-- 94 00:04:18,764 --> 00:04:22,466 you just wanted to stay distant. 95 00:04:26,138 --> 00:04:28,505 When I was questioning Christine 96 00:04:28,507 --> 00:04:29,640 about whether or not 97 00:04:29,708 --> 00:04:31,041 she wanted to have relationships 98 00:04:31,043 --> 00:04:33,510 with those that she doesn't have relationships with, 99 00:04:33,512 --> 00:04:34,945 I meant me and my kids. 100 00:04:37,116 --> 00:04:38,315 That's devastating. 101 00:04:38,317 --> 00:04:40,050 That was the hardest part of the conversation for me. 102 00:04:40,052 --> 00:04:41,718 It was when I realized when it was over 103 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:42,819 what I had said. 104 00:04:42,821 --> 00:04:44,454 And I don't know how to fix that. 105 00:04:44,556 --> 00:04:46,323 Yeah, I'm trying to figure out 106 00:04:46,325 --> 00:04:48,625 how we navigate all of this now. 107 00:04:48,627 --> 00:04:50,394 I think you and I will just take it as it comes 108 00:04:50,396 --> 00:04:51,828 and we'll just figure things out. 109 00:04:51,830 --> 00:04:54,298 'Cause, I mean, like now the relationships changed, right? 110 00:04:54,300 --> 00:04:56,133 'Cause I know, like, look, you and I have done 111 00:04:56,135 --> 00:04:57,534 plenty of complaining about each other. 112 00:04:57,536 --> 00:04:58,602 Right. But-- 113 00:04:58,604 --> 00:05:01,305 Like we've said some very harsh things to Kody. 114 00:05:01,307 --> 00:05:03,206 We've said harsh things about each other. 115 00:05:03,208 --> 00:05:06,043 And so now it-- it's different? 116 00:05:06,045 --> 00:05:07,611 I think it's totally different. 117 00:05:07,613 --> 00:05:08,778 Now, it just seems like 118 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:12,215 we focus on the common experience and the kids. 119 00:05:12,217 --> 00:05:13,917 I think that it's even more than that. 120 00:05:13,919 --> 00:05:15,719 I think it's deeper than that for you and I. 121 00:05:15,721 --> 00:05:17,821 I would consider you one of my best friends. 122 00:05:17,823 --> 00:05:21,725 I don't know what label to put on mine and Janelle's relationship. 123 00:05:21,727 --> 00:05:22,959 I don't know. 124 00:05:22,995 --> 00:05:24,061 I-- I don't know. 125 00:05:24,162 --> 00:05:27,030 It's just a right thing. I just don't know. 126 00:05:27,032 --> 00:05:30,067 [Kody] I have always wanted my wive to have close relationships 127 00:05:30,168 --> 00:05:32,903 and it's a tragedy to me now after all these years 128 00:05:32,905 --> 00:05:35,005 and Christine trash-talking Janelle 129 00:05:35,007 --> 00:05:37,307 for four years about the one house thing, 130 00:05:37,309 --> 00:05:40,344 now Janelle and Christine have a better relationship? 131 00:05:40,445 --> 00:05:43,013 I'm begging Janelle for a closer relationship. 132 00:05:43,015 --> 00:05:44,514 It feels like she's rejecting that 133 00:05:44,516 --> 00:05:46,416 and just choosing to have one with Christine. 134 00:05:48,020 --> 00:05:50,654 [Christine] I think a heartache is hard and me leaving is hard. 135 00:05:50,756 --> 00:05:52,122 And what does that mean for her? 136 00:05:52,124 --> 00:05:54,124 And what does that mean for our relationship in the future? 137 00:05:54,126 --> 00:05:56,093 And it's this whole sister wives word. 138 00:05:56,095 --> 00:05:58,128 You know, if I'm not a wife am I still a sister wife? 139 00:05:58,130 --> 00:06:00,630 And are we still sister wive when I'm not a wife? 140 00:06:00,632 --> 00:06:04,735 You know, it's-- it's such a weird relationship 141 00:06:04,737 --> 00:06:06,436 to navigate sometimes. 142 00:06:07,940 --> 00:06:10,941 [Meri] You know, some days I'm really mad at Christine 143 00:06:11,042 --> 00:06:13,744 for giving up on me, on us. 144 00:06:13,845 --> 00:06:18,448 I don't think that 145 00:06:18,517 --> 00:06:19,816 she's a sister wife. 146 00:06:19,818 --> 00:06:24,221 You know, I think that you have to be married 147 00:06:24,223 --> 00:06:27,257 to the same guy to be considered a sister wife. 148 00:06:28,927 --> 00:06:32,396 I have-- I don't know how to not be on a side 149 00:06:32,398 --> 00:06:35,432 or be perceived as being on a side. 150 00:06:35,434 --> 00:06:40,203 Christine, like all my kids, remember all the history, that was... 151 00:06:40,205 --> 00:06:41,538 All our holiday traditions, 152 00:06:41,607 --> 00:06:44,307 a lot of 'em were you driving it. 153 00:06:44,309 --> 00:06:46,209 And so they're struggling too to figure out 154 00:06:46,211 --> 00:06:48,712 how to-- to be in both worlds. 155 00:06:48,714 --> 00:06:50,313 They're not trying to choose sides. 156 00:06:50,315 --> 00:06:51,548 And I imagine your kids aren't either. 157 00:06:51,617 --> 00:06:52,716 -You know what I mean? -No. 158 00:06:52,718 --> 00:06:54,217 No one should be picking sides. 159 00:06:54,219 --> 00:06:56,520 I think it's sometimes it's like this, sometimes it's like that. 160 00:06:56,522 --> 00:06:57,921 But that's not sides. 161 00:06:59,425 --> 00:07:01,691 I am pulled in both directions, 162 00:07:01,693 --> 00:07:03,827 so, I mean, equally strong. 163 00:07:03,829 --> 00:07:05,462 I have my duty to my family. 164 00:07:06,632 --> 00:07:09,966 You know, Robyn, Kody, Meri, I have a duty there, 165 00:07:10,035 --> 00:07:15,605 but then I really wanna be with Christine and her kids at the holidays. 166 00:07:15,607 --> 00:07:17,941 I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. 167 00:07:18,043 --> 00:07:19,543 I can't choose a side without them saying, 168 00:07:19,644 --> 00:07:20,944 "You chose a side." 169 00:07:21,013 --> 00:07:24,548 Ever since Truely found out that we were divorced, 170 00:07:24,616 --> 00:07:25,715 Kody has been always, 171 00:07:25,717 --> 00:07:27,217 "Well, let's get her COVID tested every week. 172 00:07:27,219 --> 00:07:28,819 Then I can take her every weekend 173 00:07:28,821 --> 00:07:30,720 and she can just hang out and sleep over at Robyn's." 174 00:07:30,722 --> 00:07:31,788 But she never has. 175 00:07:31,824 --> 00:07:33,223 Like, she'll go over for a couple of hours 176 00:07:33,225 --> 00:07:34,458 and that's all that she wants to do. 177 00:07:34,559 --> 00:07:35,959 It's just a couple hours here and there. 178 00:07:36,061 --> 00:07:37,393 So what would that look like? 179 00:07:37,395 --> 00:07:39,129 -I mean, like, could she come back for the summer? -Yeah. 180 00:07:39,131 --> 00:07:41,731 I don't think she would last the whole summer. 181 00:07:41,733 --> 00:07:43,733 I don't even know if she last a weekend 182 00:07:43,735 --> 00:07:45,635 'cause she's never spent the night away from me. 183 00:07:47,906 --> 00:07:49,439 [Kody] When it comes to Truely, there's no doubt 184 00:07:49,541 --> 00:07:51,241 I'm gonna have to travel to see her. 185 00:07:51,310 --> 00:07:53,143 All the time we come when Christine won't even come 186 00:07:53,245 --> 00:07:54,678 to Flagstaff anymore, I'm sure. 187 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,113 I don't know when that'll be, but I don't even know. 188 00:07:57,115 --> 00:07:59,316 There are questions to be answered 189 00:07:59,318 --> 00:08:00,550 that I don't have the answe 190 00:08:00,552 --> 00:08:04,621 for right now regarding kind of my time with Truely. 191 00:08:04,623 --> 00:08:07,057 Do you think you'll remarry? 192 00:08:07,059 --> 00:08:08,725 Somebody else. Not Kody. 193 00:08:08,727 --> 00:08:10,026 Kody, I'm like... 194 00:08:10,028 --> 00:08:11,428 [Janelle] No, like, I mean, are you-- 195 00:08:11,563 --> 00:08:12,629 I'm open. 196 00:08:12,631 --> 00:08:16,066 Well, what do you do when you're 50 197 00:08:16,134 --> 00:08:18,735 and healthy? 198 00:08:18,737 --> 00:08:21,304 You just can't be alone for the rest of your life. 199 00:08:21,306 --> 00:08:23,006 So to me, that's like the logical thing. 200 00:08:23,008 --> 00:08:24,173 Like what's next? 201 00:08:24,275 --> 00:08:26,776 And I'm just gonna be nosey and I'm just gonna ask. 202 00:08:26,778 --> 00:08:28,111 It's a whole new life. 203 00:08:28,113 --> 00:08:30,213 -[Janelle] Look, it's a whole new life, Christine. -Yes. 204 00:08:30,215 --> 00:08:31,414 I hope she remarries. 205 00:08:31,416 --> 00:08:33,049 It's a very long time to be alone. 206 00:08:33,151 --> 00:08:34,851 And I hope that I like the guy. 207 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:35,952 Like you're no longer married? 208 00:08:35,954 --> 00:08:37,454 No. 209 00:08:37,456 --> 00:08:39,322 -You're gonna live in a completely different place-- -[Christine] Yes. 210 00:08:39,324 --> 00:08:41,424 ...that we were lived in like a decade or more ago? 211 00:08:41,426 --> 00:08:42,559 I know. 212 00:08:42,661 --> 00:08:45,228 Everything is... like I'm starting over again. 213 00:08:45,230 --> 00:08:49,065 It's so hard moving on, um, 214 00:08:51,670 --> 00:08:54,037 and feeling okay all the time 215 00:08:54,039 --> 00:08:56,406 'cause I know I'm not. 216 00:08:56,408 --> 00:08:58,408 I know I'm changing so much 217 00:08:58,410 --> 00:09:00,477 and I know I'm breaking so many hearts, 218 00:09:00,479 --> 00:09:02,445 but I still know that it's the right decision. 219 00:09:03,515 --> 00:09:05,815 [Kody] My heart is broken. 220 00:09:05,817 --> 00:09:08,618 And that might be why I'm so angry 221 00:09:08,620 --> 00:09:10,554 is because I'm not actually dealing with the emotion. 222 00:09:10,655 --> 00:09:12,556 I'm-- I'm fighting it. 223 00:09:15,827 --> 00:09:18,128 Look, I was planning to stay here all winter, 224 00:09:18,130 --> 00:09:20,797 but what if I just go for six months into town 225 00:09:20,799 --> 00:09:23,033 and just come back out here in April? 226 00:09:23,035 --> 00:09:24,768 Why are we in this now? 227 00:09:24,836 --> 00:09:26,937 Because, Kody, for four months, I've accomplished a lot. 228 00:09:26,939 --> 00:09:29,205 So she's talking about going to an apartment. She's gonna pick a place. 229 00:09:29,207 --> 00:09:30,307 She's gonna do without me. 230 00:09:30,309 --> 00:09:31,808 She's gonna figure something out like that. 231 00:09:31,810 --> 00:09:34,110 Like she's already got a place that she knows about. 232 00:09:34,112 --> 00:09:35,111 Okay. 233 00:09:44,423 --> 00:09:45,622 So even though I'm going through 234 00:09:45,624 --> 00:09:47,357 all this divorce trauma with Christine 235 00:09:47,392 --> 00:09:49,926 and I'm losing my head, I've still gotta actually 236 00:09:49,928 --> 00:09:51,394 maintain the other relationships. 237 00:09:51,396 --> 00:09:52,963 But I've gotta compartmentalize 238 00:09:53,031 --> 00:09:54,931 because right now I've gotta go take care 239 00:09:54,933 --> 00:09:56,433 of my relationship with Janelle and, 240 00:09:56,435 --> 00:09:58,635 you know, make a place for us. 241 00:09:58,637 --> 00:10:01,237 I gotta go help her do some RV stuff, 242 00:10:01,306 --> 00:10:03,206 but I'm still in this fog of divorce. 243 00:10:03,208 --> 00:10:04,908 It's a-- and it's messing with me a lot. 244 00:10:06,945 --> 00:10:10,013 I don't even-- I can put it a jack under that 245 00:10:11,516 --> 00:10:13,149 without even moving anything. 246 00:10:13,251 --> 00:10:14,250 Does that help? 247 00:10:14,352 --> 00:10:15,552 You know what I really wanna do? 248 00:10:15,654 --> 00:10:17,420 I wanna level the axles. 249 00:10:17,422 --> 00:10:19,155 -[Janelle] Okay. -And go off of that. 250 00:10:19,257 --> 00:10:22,525 I've been really struggling the last few weeks 251 00:10:22,527 --> 00:10:23,693 to keep the trailer level. 252 00:10:23,695 --> 00:10:25,562 And what happens when the trailer is not level, 253 00:10:25,664 --> 00:10:28,198 if they start having problem with my sewage tanks, 254 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:29,733 like, it's crazy. 255 00:10:29,735 --> 00:10:31,935 If I had somebody here helping you, I would go away. 256 00:10:31,937 --> 00:10:34,804 So I don't backseat drive you too badly. 257 00:10:34,806 --> 00:10:37,707 [Kody] There's a lot of pressure with living in this RV. 258 00:10:37,709 --> 00:10:39,309 A lot of new things have come up. 259 00:10:39,311 --> 00:10:41,511 It's been almost daily for Janelle. 260 00:10:41,513 --> 00:10:43,113 She's been rolling with it really good. 261 00:10:43,115 --> 00:10:45,315 I think she's kept it pretty good attitude about i 262 00:10:45,317 --> 00:10:47,150 But when we were working on together, 263 00:10:47,219 --> 00:10:49,519 it's not like we're just being sweet with each other. 264 00:10:49,521 --> 00:10:50,920 It's a little antagonistic. 265 00:10:52,124 --> 00:10:53,657 Well, Janelle, would you wanna come and help me? 266 00:10:55,260 --> 00:10:56,793 Would you hand me this rod? 267 00:10:56,795 --> 00:10:57,927 Yeah. 268 00:10:58,964 --> 00:11:00,330 [Janelle] Yeah. I don't think it's... 269 00:11:00,332 --> 00:11:02,332 -The angle is wrong, right? -Well, it is. 270 00:11:02,334 --> 00:11:04,968 I'm gonna have to get it up. 271 00:11:04,970 --> 00:11:08,238 Damn thing has to be jacked up to get that in it. 272 00:11:08,306 --> 00:11:10,140 And I can't see. 273 00:11:10,241 --> 00:11:12,409 -So drive forward, maybe. -All right. 274 00:11:12,411 --> 00:11:14,611 You and your eye insist on driving forward. 275 00:11:14,613 --> 00:11:16,813 The stubbornness is fighting against me. 276 00:11:16,815 --> 00:11:19,049 Okay. Because this isn't working, Kody. 277 00:11:19,117 --> 00:11:24,020 It's so strange to me that we're arguing point, point with this. 278 00:11:24,022 --> 00:11:26,523 It's like just this antagonistic relationship. 279 00:11:26,525 --> 00:11:28,224 It is not cooperative. 280 00:11:28,226 --> 00:11:30,126 I don't know why. 281 00:11:30,128 --> 00:11:32,128 Well, I don't know if we manually level it. 282 00:11:32,130 --> 00:11:34,230 I think it's just a piece of [bleep] 283 00:11:34,232 --> 00:11:36,232 And they've-- they've sold us a lemon here 284 00:11:36,234 --> 00:11:37,734 and we can't get the damn thing to level 285 00:11:37,736 --> 00:11:40,837 'cause it's supposed to self-level and it never has. 286 00:11:40,939 --> 00:11:42,038 Here's the thing. 287 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:43,907 I'm in a very vulnerable place, 288 00:11:43,909 --> 00:11:47,010 and if I cross a line, will she cross another line 289 00:11:47,012 --> 00:11:48,745 And that sort of cynicism comes, 290 00:11:48,847 --> 00:11:53,950 I think, from unwinding 20 years in plural marriage 291 00:11:53,952 --> 00:11:56,519 and then Christine leaving. 292 00:11:56,521 --> 00:12:00,523 And then we've had so many more realistic conversations 293 00:12:00,525 --> 00:12:01,925 that happened last year 294 00:12:01,927 --> 00:12:03,326 between Kody and I on really 295 00:12:03,328 --> 00:12:05,729 what our relationship really looks like 296 00:12:05,731 --> 00:12:08,131 and the kind of marriage that we both want. 297 00:12:08,133 --> 00:12:09,733 -And-- -And you guys don't talk, though. 298 00:12:09,735 --> 00:12:11,735 You guys don't communicate, so I don't really see 299 00:12:11,737 --> 00:12:13,069 how that could be even... 300 00:12:14,706 --> 00:12:15,805 legitimate. 301 00:12:15,807 --> 00:12:19,109 I don't think Janelle or I are being honest 302 00:12:19,111 --> 00:12:21,111 or realistic in this relationship 303 00:12:21,113 --> 00:12:23,279 as we communicate with each other about this stuff. 304 00:12:23,815 --> 00:12:26,049 What a goat rodeo, right? 305 00:12:26,051 --> 00:12:30,620 The whole RV thing, it's like we never had 306 00:12:30,622 --> 00:12:31,921 a really deep discussion, 307 00:12:31,923 --> 00:12:34,124 not the kind of discussion you have about 308 00:12:34,126 --> 00:12:37,961 spending that vast amount of money. 309 00:12:38,062 --> 00:12:40,764 She never even took any tim to look for something to ren 310 00:12:40,865 --> 00:12:44,033 I know for a fact there were rentals out there. 311 00:12:44,035 --> 00:12:46,703 [Janelle] I know I had told him I was thinking 312 00:12:46,705 --> 00:12:48,538 about the possibility of an RV. 313 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,707 Maybe he just wasn't paying attention. 314 00:12:50,709 --> 00:12:54,344 I mean, he really only sort of really tunes in once in a while. 315 00:12:54,412 --> 00:12:56,346 It's not like he's here all the time. 316 00:12:56,414 --> 00:12:58,948 And when he's here, he's not always really tuned in. 317 00:12:59,050 --> 00:13:00,316 Here, like, look, look, look, look, 318 00:13:00,318 --> 00:13:02,252 let me have this conversation with you now. 319 00:13:02,353 --> 00:13:06,222 Okay, so I have about six weeks left on this permit 320 00:13:06,224 --> 00:13:07,757 and I would have to move again. 321 00:13:07,826 --> 00:13:09,926 And we talked to the house designer. 322 00:13:09,928 --> 00:13:11,027 And she said that we're-- 323 00:13:11,029 --> 00:13:13,963 we're basically months for a permit. 324 00:13:13,965 --> 00:13:16,299 Look, I was planning to stay here all winter, 325 00:13:16,301 --> 00:13:17,967 A, when I thought we could have electricity 326 00:13:17,969 --> 00:13:19,369 and B, when I thought the house would be 327 00:13:19,470 --> 00:13:20,536 a little quicker along. 328 00:13:21,506 --> 00:13:23,940 But what if I just go for six months into town 329 00:13:25,510 --> 00:13:27,610 and just come back out here in April? 330 00:13:27,612 --> 00:13:29,846 'Cause by then we will probably be breaking ground, 331 00:13:29,915 --> 00:13:31,247 I would think. 332 00:13:31,349 --> 00:13:33,716 So I think I've been looking and there is a place 333 00:13:33,718 --> 00:13:35,952 in town that will do a six month lease. 334 00:13:35,954 --> 00:13:37,420 So she's talking about going to an apartment. 335 00:13:37,422 --> 00:13:39,322 She's gonna pick a place. She's gonna do without me. 336 00:13:39,324 --> 00:13:40,757 She's gonna figure something out like that, 337 00:13:40,825 --> 00:13:42,926 like she's already got a place that she knows about. 338 00:13:42,928 --> 00:13:43,960 Okay. 339 00:13:43,962 --> 00:13:45,728 Why are we in this now? 340 00:13:45,730 --> 00:13:48,064 Because, Kody, for four months I have accomplished a lot. 341 00:13:48,166 --> 00:13:49,732 We could have focused on the property 342 00:13:49,734 --> 00:13:52,535 without having an RV and living in an RV. 343 00:13:52,537 --> 00:13:55,104 Kody, I wanna come back out here in April. 344 00:13:55,106 --> 00:13:57,207 I'm just rolling with the punches. 345 00:13:57,209 --> 00:13:58,608 [chuckles] He's been very vocal. 346 00:13:58,610 --> 00:13:59,909 He wanted me to buy Christine's house 347 00:13:59,911 --> 00:14:01,644 'cause he thinks living in the trailer is terrible. 348 00:14:01,746 --> 00:14:03,513 Like he's been like, all this-- 349 00:14:03,515 --> 00:14:04,814 like, all this stuff about, like, 350 00:14:04,816 --> 00:14:06,349 this is a terrible, like, hate living here. 351 00:14:06,451 --> 00:14:08,117 I don't wanna be here. I don't want blah, blah, blah. 352 00:14:08,119 --> 00:14:09,519 And now all of a sudden, I'm like, 353 00:14:09,521 --> 00:14:11,554 "Okay, well, how about if we can move into town for six months?" 354 00:14:11,656 --> 00:14:12,522 And he's like, "No". 355 00:14:15,427 --> 00:14:17,260 [Kody] Ooh. Yeah, baby! 356 00:14:19,464 --> 00:14:21,698 Ooh. Told you that storm's coming right for us. 357 00:14:21,700 --> 00:14:23,933 It's right there. It's right above us. 358 00:14:23,935 --> 00:14:25,401 Well, I mean, I basically decided 359 00:14:25,403 --> 00:14:28,705 what I needed to do for me, and I just sort of decided 360 00:14:28,707 --> 00:14:31,908 and I did it, and he sort of had to be along for the ride. 361 00:14:31,910 --> 00:14:34,277 But if I would have waited for him to solve the problem, 362 00:14:34,279 --> 00:14:36,512 it never would have gotten solved. 363 00:14:36,514 --> 00:14:37,747 It was all this work worth it? 364 00:14:37,816 --> 00:14:39,315 I actually think it will be better. 365 00:14:41,753 --> 00:14:43,353 Whoa. There's the rain. 366 00:14:55,533 --> 00:14:57,333 [Christine] Hey, Truely, can you come here for a minute? 367 00:14:57,335 --> 00:14:58,401 [Truely] Okay. 368 00:14:58,403 --> 00:14:59,936 [Christine] Perfect. Thank you. 369 00:15:01,239 --> 00:15:02,538 You know how the house is. 370 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,407 Our house is in contract right now. 371 00:15:04,409 --> 00:15:07,744 -Mm-hmm. -Um, the owners are going to close on it. 372 00:15:07,845 --> 00:15:09,445 They're gonna close on it, like, next month. 373 00:15:10,749 --> 00:15:13,116 So we've been looking like crazy for a house in Utah. 374 00:15:13,118 --> 00:15:15,318 Mykelti's been helping me and everything. 375 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,220 And we have the house. 376 00:15:17,222 --> 00:15:18,554 But guess when we're moving. 377 00:15:19,724 --> 00:15:20,823 Um, when? 378 00:15:20,825 --> 00:15:21,925 In a week. 379 00:15:22,294 --> 00:15:23,526 Oh. 380 00:15:23,528 --> 00:15:27,463 I was going to wait to move until the closing date, 381 00:15:27,532 --> 00:15:29,632 but Mykelti found a place. 382 00:15:29,634 --> 00:15:34,203 Why wait to start the next chapter? Why wait? 383 00:15:34,205 --> 00:15:35,939 And Mykelti and Tony are going gonna come 384 00:15:36,007 --> 00:15:38,107 help us move, like in a week. 385 00:15:38,109 --> 00:15:39,609 A week from today. 386 00:15:41,713 --> 00:15:45,515 I mean, the hardest part of leaving 387 00:15:45,517 --> 00:15:48,818 and moving is that I'm taking Truely with me. 388 00:15:48,820 --> 00:15:50,420 I'm taking her from what she knows, 389 00:15:50,422 --> 00:15:53,256 everything she knows from her dad, 390 00:15:53,358 --> 00:15:54,724 you know, from the siblings that 391 00:15:54,726 --> 00:15:57,427 she has here in Flagstaff, 392 00:15:57,429 --> 00:15:59,262 I like moving her to Utah. 393 00:15:59,364 --> 00:16:01,164 So what do you think about that? 394 00:16:04,836 --> 00:16:06,502 Are you okay? 395 00:16:06,504 --> 00:16:07,603 I'm fine. 396 00:16:07,605 --> 00:16:09,605 I just didn't expect it to go this fast. 397 00:16:11,209 --> 00:16:15,945 She's not excited about moving yet, but I just... 398 00:16:16,047 --> 00:16:18,548 I know that moving with her is the best decision. 399 00:16:18,616 --> 00:16:20,416 So how are you, really? 400 00:16:20,418 --> 00:16:22,051 Are you sad to be leaving this soon? 401 00:16:22,053 --> 00:16:23,319 And was it hard? 402 00:16:23,321 --> 00:16:26,055 I just didn't expect it to be this soon, but I'm fine. 403 00:16:26,157 --> 00:16:28,124 I mean, I thought we'd have another couple of weeks. 404 00:16:28,126 --> 00:16:29,559 So did I. 405 00:16:31,363 --> 00:16:33,262 I am relieved that Truely is taking it so well. 406 00:16:33,364 --> 00:16:34,831 But it's just not about me. 407 00:16:34,833 --> 00:16:36,132 It's about her. 408 00:16:36,134 --> 00:16:39,702 I'm grateful for her because it's her life 409 00:16:39,704 --> 00:16:41,337 that I didn't want to alter too much. 410 00:16:41,339 --> 00:16:43,906 I didn't wanna traumatize too much, you know it's her life. 411 00:16:43,908 --> 00:16:48,544 And so for her, her handling is so well, I'm thrilled with. 412 00:16:48,613 --> 00:16:49,812 The work has begun. 413 00:16:49,814 --> 00:16:51,647 I mean, we're gonna start packing a lot. 414 00:16:54,953 --> 00:16:56,052 [Christine] You all right? 415 00:16:56,121 --> 00:16:57,120 [Truely] Yeah. I'm fine. 416 00:16:57,122 --> 00:16:58,721 You have anything else to say? 417 00:16:58,723 --> 00:17:00,023 [Truely] Nope. 418 00:17:03,128 --> 00:17:04,927 -So are you doing okay? -[Mykelti] Yeah. 419 00:17:04,929 --> 00:17:06,629 As far as your mom and everything? 420 00:17:06,631 --> 00:17:09,866 Like, it's sad anytime any kind of family breaks up or separates. 421 00:17:09,934 --> 00:17:11,834 How long have you guys known? 422 00:17:11,836 --> 00:17:13,035 She was talking about it. 423 00:17:13,038 --> 00:17:15,438 I know that I can't [bleep] talk Christine to my kids. 424 00:17:15,540 --> 00:17:17,140 I don't want to [bleep] talk her at all. 425 00:17:17,208 --> 00:17:20,043 And that's a blame game that I'm playing. 426 00:17:20,111 --> 00:17:23,046 And I feel ashamed that I'm doing that. 427 00:17:23,048 --> 00:17:25,715 But in my brokenhearted state, 428 00:17:25,717 --> 00:17:28,518 the anger is just flowing here. 429 00:17:37,529 --> 00:17:39,562 [Robyn] Hi, sweet girl. 430 00:17:39,631 --> 00:17:40,763 Hey, sweety. 431 00:17:40,799 --> 00:17:43,232 We decided to come in town to help mom move 432 00:17:43,234 --> 00:17:45,334 to northern Utah, but we wanted to be able to spend a day 433 00:17:45,336 --> 00:17:46,802 with Robyn and the kids. 434 00:17:46,805 --> 00:17:49,939 So we're here at Robyn's house, spending some time with them. 435 00:17:49,941 --> 00:17:51,107 -[mumbles] -Go for it. 436 00:17:51,109 --> 00:17:52,408 Yes, I do. 437 00:17:52,410 --> 00:17:54,110 Yes, I do. 438 00:17:54,112 --> 00:17:55,211 Yes, I do. 439 00:17:55,213 --> 00:17:57,713 We'll see Robyn here and then we'll see Christine 440 00:17:57,715 --> 00:18:00,316 and probably Janelle's family-- 441 00:18:00,318 --> 00:18:02,351 -Yeah, Janelle's boys are gonna-- -...when we start moving. 442 00:18:02,420 --> 00:18:05,288 Janelle's boys are gonna come help us move tomorrow, um, 443 00:18:05,290 --> 00:18:07,824 and then so we'll be able to see some more people. 444 00:18:07,826 --> 00:18:10,626 Tony and I are really, really close to Robyn. 445 00:18:10,628 --> 00:18:12,228 She was the first one to really, really 446 00:18:12,230 --> 00:18:13,496 accept our relationship and-- 447 00:18:13,498 --> 00:18:15,665 If not the only at the beginning. 448 00:18:15,766 --> 00:18:17,500 -Yeah, at the beginning she was the only one. -I know. 449 00:18:17,502 --> 00:18:20,470 "Oh, you're not a polygamist." I said, "I still love you. 450 00:18:20,538 --> 00:18:22,305 It's all right." That is not what it was. 451 00:18:24,909 --> 00:18:29,045 Huh-uh! Solomon, man. Hello, man. 452 00:18:29,114 --> 00:18:30,346 Hello, guys. 453 00:18:30,448 --> 00:18:32,515 Put your jacket back on. 454 00:18:32,517 --> 00:18:34,617 Mom said your jacket has to be on. 455 00:18:34,619 --> 00:18:35,818 You have to wash your hands 456 00:18:35,820 --> 00:18:37,587 before you can touch her, okay? 457 00:18:37,589 --> 00:18:39,222 Because that's what we do with babies. 458 00:18:39,224 --> 00:18:42,091 [Robyn] I'm so happy that Tony and Mykelti came to visit. 459 00:18:42,093 --> 00:18:43,860 And there's a lot going on right now 460 00:18:43,928 --> 00:18:46,162 with Christine leaving and then moving. 461 00:18:46,197 --> 00:18:47,663 I just wanna do a check in. 462 00:18:47,765 --> 00:18:50,766 Sol, Why don't you and, and just go in and change clothes? 463 00:18:50,835 --> 00:18:55,138 Even though I know that I have 100% support from Mykelti, 464 00:18:55,239 --> 00:18:58,307 I know that she also supports Robyn 100%. 465 00:18:58,309 --> 00:19:01,711 She can balance like nobody I-- I know. 466 00:19:02,614 --> 00:19:04,213 I'm so glad you came to see us. 467 00:19:04,215 --> 00:19:06,415 -I'm glad we came too. -[Kody] Right back. 468 00:19:06,417 --> 00:19:08,017 [Mykelti] It's nice. 469 00:19:08,019 --> 00:19:10,153 With-- with, like, everything going on with your mom and stuff like that, 470 00:19:10,221 --> 00:19:11,487 I just appreciate you coming and stuff. 471 00:19:11,489 --> 00:19:12,888 [Mykelti] Yeah, of course. 472 00:19:12,890 --> 00:19:16,559 I just wanna make sure that no matter what's happening... 473 00:19:16,628 --> 00:19:18,828 there, we're good. 474 00:19:18,830 --> 00:19:20,363 You're still mom, Robyn. 475 00:19:20,464 --> 00:19:21,531 And Grandma. 476 00:19:21,533 --> 00:19:23,099 So, like, that's my biggest thing 477 00:19:23,101 --> 00:19:27,003 I just making sure that, like, we're all good. 478 00:19:27,005 --> 00:19:29,605 We... Our relationship continues 479 00:19:29,607 --> 00:19:31,807 and it's based on what goes on in our relationship. 480 00:19:31,809 --> 00:19:34,010 It's not based on outside sources. 481 00:19:34,012 --> 00:19:36,546 It feels like everything's, uh, affected my relationship 482 00:19:36,647 --> 00:19:37,947 with everybody, though. 483 00:19:40,818 --> 00:19:42,952 When it comes to, you know, like raising kids 484 00:19:42,954 --> 00:19:44,220 and dealing with things like this, 485 00:19:44,222 --> 00:19:45,922 I'm almost always bad cop. 486 00:19:45,924 --> 00:19:47,323 And so my relationship, I feel like, 487 00:19:47,325 --> 00:19:49,425 is somewhat strained with a lot of my kids. 488 00:19:50,061 --> 00:19:51,527 Hey. 489 00:19:51,529 --> 00:19:53,262 -So are you doing okay? -[Mykelti] Yeah. 490 00:19:53,331 --> 00:19:55,031 As far as your mom and everything. 491 00:19:55,033 --> 00:20:00,269 I mean, I think, the, the situation around it is, it's, it's sad. 492 00:20:00,371 --> 00:20:03,039 Like it's sad any time any kind of family breaks up or separates. 493 00:20:03,041 --> 00:20:04,140 [Robyn] Yeah. 494 00:20:04,142 --> 00:20:07,109 But if it's what she wants, I think it's important 495 00:20:07,111 --> 00:20:09,145 to support what she wants. 496 00:20:09,214 --> 00:20:11,814 How long have you guys known? 497 00:20:11,816 --> 00:20:17,420 Um, I think that, we as like known actually, it's been... 498 00:20:19,324 --> 00:20:22,225 I mean, like, was she talking about it before? 499 00:20:22,227 --> 00:20:23,526 She was talking about it. 500 00:20:23,528 --> 00:20:25,094 She's been talking about it for a while. 501 00:20:25,096 --> 00:20:27,063 But I think most of what she's been talking about 502 00:20:27,065 --> 00:20:29,865 is what anybody talks about in a relationship, 503 00:20:29,934 --> 00:20:31,734 the ups and the downs, the highs and the lows. 504 00:20:33,938 --> 00:20:37,039 I know that I can't [bleep] talk Christine to my kids. 505 00:20:37,108 --> 00:20:38,708 I don't want to [bleep] talk to her at all. 506 00:20:38,710 --> 00:20:41,911 Even though that's my natural, my natural urge is to do that. 507 00:20:41,913 --> 00:20:43,946 I have to control that because that's not fair. 508 00:20:45,216 --> 00:20:47,416 I'm catching myself in this moment here, 509 00:20:47,418 --> 00:20:49,018 when I'm saying, "How long have you guys known?" 510 00:20:49,020 --> 00:20:51,954 And that's a blame game that I'm playing, 511 00:20:52,056 --> 00:20:54,957 and I feel ashamed that I'm doing that. 512 00:20:54,959 --> 00:20:57,593 But in my brokenhearted state, 513 00:20:57,595 --> 00:21:02,331 the anger is just flowing here and nobody likes me. 514 00:21:02,333 --> 00:21:05,801 She was in the most hardest of places a while ago. 515 00:21:05,803 --> 00:21:08,704 And so she just, just through venting. 516 00:21:08,706 --> 00:21:10,506 So we've known for a while now, 517 00:21:10,508 --> 00:21:12,408 but we haven't known that it was like, 518 00:21:12,410 --> 00:21:14,510 "Oh, okay, it's, it's, you know, it's happening. 519 00:21:14,512 --> 00:21:15,677 You are separating. 520 00:21:15,679 --> 00:21:17,413 -We haven't known for too long." -[Tony] Yeah. 521 00:21:17,415 --> 00:21:18,914 Just that she wasn't the happiest. 522 00:21:18,916 --> 00:21:21,017 -[Mykelti] Yeah. -I just don't think, okay. 523 00:21:21,019 --> 00:21:22,618 I'm going through that, oh, oh, oh. 524 00:21:22,620 --> 00:21:25,421 I just want to blame so, I'm angry, 525 00:21:25,423 --> 00:21:27,623 I want to break something. 526 00:21:27,625 --> 00:21:29,892 I just sort of was, I've always wondered 527 00:21:29,894 --> 00:21:31,861 if I was like, the last to know. 528 00:21:31,962 --> 00:21:33,729 Dad, you are, you're always, you're gonna be 529 00:21:33,731 --> 00:21:35,364 the last to know. And in our any relationship. 530 00:21:35,433 --> 00:21:36,632 No, but it's not that. 531 00:21:36,634 --> 00:21:38,668 It's in a relationship with two people. 532 00:21:38,736 --> 00:21:41,304 You're the last to know if somebody interests you 533 00:21:41,306 --> 00:21:43,205 or if you or if somebody likes you. 534 00:21:43,207 --> 00:21:44,340 You're the last to know. 535 00:21:44,342 --> 00:21:46,042 If somebody dislikes you, you're the last to know. 536 00:21:46,044 --> 00:21:48,110 -That's how all it... -I don't know, what you're talking about. 537 00:21:48,112 --> 00:21:49,445 Tony would probably be the last to know 538 00:21:49,547 --> 00:21:51,247 if I was, you know, leaving him. 539 00:21:51,349 --> 00:21:52,515 -[Kody] No, I-- -Would I? 540 00:21:52,517 --> 00:21:54,450 Probably. I mean, I probably tell my mom, 541 00:21:54,519 --> 00:21:55,851 I talk about it with my family. 542 00:21:55,953 --> 00:21:57,420 I talk about it with people who I want support. 543 00:21:57,422 --> 00:21:58,521 [Kody] Then Tony-- 544 00:21:58,523 --> 00:22:01,624 I guess, I guess I would say you're probably not 545 00:22:01,626 --> 00:22:03,859 first to know, but you're not last. 546 00:22:03,961 --> 00:22:06,262 He's gotta know that their relationship is rocky. 547 00:22:06,364 --> 00:22:09,465 They weren't in an okay place for years, honestly. 548 00:22:09,567 --> 00:22:11,500 You know, sometimes you're just, you just don't see it. 549 00:22:11,502 --> 00:22:13,502 -You said, now. -Babe, it's okay. 550 00:22:13,504 --> 00:22:14,804 We're not gonna get divorced. 551 00:22:14,806 --> 00:22:16,505 -You don't need to start denying it. -Ha! 552 00:22:16,507 --> 00:22:18,941 I'm angry, but we don't need to deal with that. 553 00:22:18,943 --> 00:22:21,744 But I don't want people picking sides. 554 00:22:21,846 --> 00:22:23,145 I don't want to push you to pick sides 555 00:22:23,214 --> 00:22:24,347 or anything like that. 556 00:22:24,415 --> 00:22:26,415 -That's my point. -We feel safe. 557 00:22:26,417 --> 00:22:28,851 I don't think there are any sides specifically to pick. 558 00:22:30,054 --> 00:22:32,421 I don't feel like my dad asked me to pick sides at al 559 00:22:33,558 --> 00:22:35,324 I feel exactly the same way about my mom. 560 00:22:35,326 --> 00:22:37,727 She would want to make sure that no matter 561 00:22:37,729 --> 00:22:39,862 what happens with her and my dad, 562 00:22:39,897 --> 00:22:42,431 that I still have a strong relationship with both of them. 563 00:22:42,433 --> 00:22:44,533 That's very important to both my parents. 564 00:22:44,635 --> 00:22:47,803 I mean, again, it's not gonna make it our relationship, 565 00:22:47,805 --> 00:22:49,739 yours, mine's, Tony's and yours 566 00:22:49,807 --> 00:22:51,607 are three together relationship 567 00:22:51,609 --> 00:22:55,611 doesn't change just because my mom's decided to leave dad. 568 00:22:55,613 --> 00:22:57,313 It doesn't change it. 569 00:22:57,315 --> 00:22:58,848 And you're still a mom. 570 00:22:58,949 --> 00:23:01,250 You're my, you're my kids. I love you guys to pieces. 571 00:23:01,352 --> 00:23:02,718 Ah, we love you too. 572 00:23:04,822 --> 00:23:05,988 My girl and my boy. 573 00:23:07,325 --> 00:23:10,025 In my head, my relationship with Christine is separate 574 00:23:10,027 --> 00:23:14,063 from my relationship with her kids or any of the other kids. 575 00:23:15,433 --> 00:23:18,567 I've asked her if she wants to have 576 00:23:18,636 --> 00:23:19,935 a relationship with me, 577 00:23:19,937 --> 00:23:21,704 if there's something we could figure out. 578 00:23:21,706 --> 00:23:25,174 And she said that she doesn't want 579 00:23:25,176 --> 00:23:27,309 to have a relationship. 580 00:23:27,311 --> 00:23:31,647 And I have had to, you know, I'm coming to terms with that. 581 00:23:33,951 --> 00:23:37,153 Do we just need to, like, give you your space? 582 00:23:37,254 --> 00:23:39,221 Are you interested in some sort of a, 583 00:23:41,325 --> 00:23:44,760 like trying to work stuff out maybe from the past how many years? 584 00:23:47,165 --> 00:23:50,232 I think for right now I need space. 585 00:23:50,234 --> 00:23:52,134 But right now. 586 00:23:52,136 --> 00:23:54,603 I am open and interested in a relationship 587 00:23:54,605 --> 00:23:58,040 with any of the kids or wives that want one. 588 00:23:58,108 --> 00:24:00,042 It's what I've always wanted. 589 00:24:03,214 --> 00:24:05,214 Is any of the family, are you guys going to like say, 590 00:24:05,216 --> 00:24:07,416 anything like a goodbye? 591 00:24:07,418 --> 00:24:10,152 Are they gonna drive by and wave? 592 00:24:10,254 --> 00:24:13,322 Are we gonna go to dump toilets on their lawn? 593 00:24:13,324 --> 00:24:15,057 Like, what are we doing? What's the plan? 594 00:24:15,059 --> 00:24:16,659 No, I don't think we're doing anything like that. 595 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,462 My mom's honestly upset that I'm pushing her so much. 596 00:24:19,563 --> 00:24:21,230 If you want to say something, that's, that's fine. 597 00:24:21,232 --> 00:24:23,666 We'll just, I don't want to pressure anybody at all. 598 00:24:23,734 --> 00:24:25,267 Um, I want to. 599 00:24:37,048 --> 00:24:39,315 [Christine] We're going to just start moving and loading. 600 00:24:39,317 --> 00:24:43,953 My crew is right now, Mykelti, Tony and Garrison 601 00:24:44,021 --> 00:24:45,721 to help get everything loaded. 602 00:24:47,358 --> 00:24:49,692 It's a manual open, huh? 603 00:24:49,694 --> 00:24:50,826 It's a manual open. 604 00:24:50,828 --> 00:24:52,127 Yeah, 'cause it's broken. 605 00:24:54,265 --> 00:24:55,631 [Mykelti] Ms. Noel. 606 00:24:55,633 --> 00:24:57,366 Hi, baby. 607 00:24:57,468 --> 00:24:58,634 [Mykelti] Hi, Ms. Noel. 608 00:24:58,636 --> 00:24:59,768 Are you peeing-- 609 00:24:59,870 --> 00:25:01,403 [Christine] Oh, peeing, good job, seeing out there? 610 00:25:01,405 --> 00:25:03,739 -So nice. Thank you. -[Mykelti] Oh, watch out. 611 00:25:03,808 --> 00:25:05,708 [Christine] Oh, wow. That was rude. 612 00:25:05,710 --> 00:25:06,809 So when my mom told me. 613 00:25:06,811 --> 00:25:08,310 That she and Dad were divorcing, 614 00:25:10,214 --> 00:25:11,847 I was a little bit relieved 615 00:25:11,916 --> 00:25:13,849 You know, to find out that she was finally getting out 616 00:25:13,918 --> 00:25:15,618 because it wasn't a good relationship for her. 617 00:25:15,620 --> 00:25:17,119 Not to be like a terrible child or anything. 618 00:25:17,121 --> 00:25:19,321 But I've kind of felt like 619 00:25:19,323 --> 00:25:21,257 they should separate for a while. 620 00:25:21,358 --> 00:25:24,760 Like even before, um, like we moved to Las Vegas. 621 00:25:26,063 --> 00:25:29,131 -Wow. -...just to say bit you. 622 00:25:29,133 --> 00:25:30,699 Hi, baby girl. 623 00:25:30,701 --> 00:25:33,068 Tomorrow we'll load up the last few things, 624 00:25:33,137 --> 00:25:35,604 shut the truck and move away. 625 00:25:47,018 --> 00:25:48,918 My mom has a lot of crap. 626 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,387 She has so much stuff. 627 00:25:51,389 --> 00:25:52,821 [sighs] 628 00:25:52,889 --> 00:25:54,790 -Mom, do you want to know something exciting? -[Christine] Yes. 629 00:25:54,792 --> 00:25:56,559 We're gonna live 20 minutes away from each other. 630 00:25:58,462 --> 00:26:00,229 Thank you for helping me find the house, by the way. 631 00:26:00,231 --> 00:26:02,031 -You're welcome. -It was really fun driving around, 632 00:26:02,033 --> 00:26:04,133 you know, all of Salt Lake area. 633 00:26:04,135 --> 00:26:06,235 And it's new. We're the first people to live in it. 634 00:26:06,237 --> 00:26:07,603 Yeah, Mykelti's just in charge. 635 00:26:07,605 --> 00:26:09,939 Soon as Mykelti got here she just took over. 636 00:26:09,941 --> 00:26:11,040 She took charge. 637 00:26:11,141 --> 00:26:13,042 She's very good at reading me. 638 00:26:13,044 --> 00:26:14,410 She knows I'm overwhelmed. 639 00:26:14,412 --> 00:26:16,745 She knows, I'm like, all I need, I just need to go. 640 00:26:16,814 --> 00:26:18,614 Okay. Based upon what we still have, 641 00:26:18,616 --> 00:26:20,215 how much furniture do we still have upstairs? 642 00:26:20,217 --> 00:26:21,350 [Christine] It's all boxes. 643 00:26:21,452 --> 00:26:23,919 -It's all boxes and bins. -Oh my gosh, it's awesome. 644 00:26:23,921 --> 00:26:26,922 [Mykelti] Do you guys want to walk the house real fast and see what's left? 645 00:26:26,924 --> 00:26:28,390 I'm gonna have my mom walk through 646 00:26:28,392 --> 00:26:29,925 the house one last time 647 00:26:29,927 --> 00:26:32,394 because I think it'll be good for her to see 648 00:26:32,396 --> 00:26:34,129 how much stuff we still have to load on the truck. 649 00:26:34,131 --> 00:26:37,232 But also it's in a way, her leaving this house is just, 650 00:26:37,234 --> 00:26:38,834 it's a really big door 651 00:26:38,836 --> 00:26:41,036 closing on a massive chapter of her life. 652 00:26:42,139 --> 00:26:44,840 [Christine] So, isn't it crazy up here? 653 00:26:44,942 --> 00:26:46,041 [Mykelti] So empty? 654 00:26:46,143 --> 00:26:47,409 I remember when we first moved in. 655 00:26:47,411 --> 00:26:49,612 Well, when you guys first moved in here and how, 656 00:26:49,614 --> 00:26:52,147 -like, this was just such a cool, hot room. -[Christine] Right. 657 00:26:52,249 --> 00:26:55,818 This is where my bedroom was. 658 00:26:57,221 --> 00:27:00,923 And when we first decided to get this house, 659 00:27:00,925 --> 00:27:03,959 Kody and I came upstairs and we saw this view, 660 00:27:04,028 --> 00:27:06,328 and he said, "I really want this house 661 00:27:06,330 --> 00:27:08,030 and this needs to be our bedroom." 662 00:27:08,032 --> 00:27:10,766 [Mykelti] Okay, So how does it feel? 663 00:27:10,835 --> 00:27:12,935 Um, it's bittersweet 'cause I don't know. 664 00:27:12,937 --> 00:27:15,104 The whole future is unknown. 665 00:27:15,106 --> 00:27:18,707 So sometimes when I [exhales] it's bittersweet. 666 00:27:18,709 --> 00:27:20,509 It's hard to say goodbye to our house. 667 00:27:20,511 --> 00:27:23,012 I love this house and it's hard to say goodbye. 668 00:27:23,014 --> 00:27:25,214 Um... 669 00:27:25,216 --> 00:27:27,149 I don't know. It's a little scary, to be honest. 670 00:27:27,251 --> 00:27:29,118 [Mykelti] But you're super excited for your new adventure? 671 00:27:29,120 --> 00:27:30,953 Yes, very excited for my new adventure. 672 00:27:31,022 --> 00:27:32,454 Sorry. It's hard to be up here. 673 00:27:32,456 --> 00:27:35,124 It's hard to be in this room and in this space a little bit for me. 674 00:27:36,460 --> 00:27:38,027 This was my room. 675 00:27:40,031 --> 00:27:43,966 Kody and I have just had a lot of hard times in this room, 676 00:27:44,068 --> 00:27:46,969 and I don't like to be in this space anymore. 677 00:27:48,606 --> 00:27:50,639 [Mykelti] Yeah, you, Aspen and I will all be neighbors. 678 00:27:50,741 --> 00:27:51,907 I know. 679 00:27:51,909 --> 00:27:53,609 And I'll be like 45 minutes from my dad, 680 00:27:53,611 --> 00:27:57,513 45 minutes from my mom, sisters, brothers. 681 00:27:57,515 --> 00:27:59,214 -I'm so excited. -[Mykelti] Hmm-mm. 682 00:27:59,216 --> 00:28:01,316 My dad, I talked to him on the phone yesterday and he goes, 683 00:28:01,318 --> 00:28:03,752 "Hey, welcome home." I know. 684 00:28:03,821 --> 00:28:05,120 [Mykelti] Oh, my God, that's so sweet. 685 00:28:05,122 --> 00:28:06,422 I cried a little. I did. 686 00:28:07,758 --> 00:28:09,625 I remember. 687 00:28:09,627 --> 00:28:13,028 Like, when I first told my dad that I was leaving Kody, 688 00:28:13,030 --> 00:28:16,031 he was really, really sad and really just-- 689 00:28:16,033 --> 00:28:18,067 it was hard for him because he loves Kody. 690 00:28:19,170 --> 00:28:21,070 And so we just kind of table the conversation. 691 00:28:22,106 --> 00:28:23,205 Yeah. 692 00:28:23,207 --> 00:28:26,308 When my house had an offer and I found a rental. 693 00:28:26,310 --> 00:28:28,711 My dad was one of the first people that I called 694 00:28:28,713 --> 00:28:30,646 and he just said, "Welcome home." 695 00:28:30,748 --> 00:28:32,114 I sold my entire bedroom furniture. 696 00:28:32,116 --> 00:28:33,248 So the whole set. 697 00:28:33,317 --> 00:28:35,117 [Mykelti] You end a marriage and you move on 698 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,151 and get new furniture. 699 00:28:36,253 --> 00:28:37,252 Yeah. 700 00:28:37,321 --> 00:28:38,454 You don't want to carry 701 00:28:38,522 --> 00:28:40,155 the whole the bedroom set with you. 702 00:28:40,257 --> 00:28:41,857 [Mykelti] I know. So I got rid of it. 703 00:28:41,959 --> 00:28:45,828 I think that it's really safe and healthy, 704 00:28:45,830 --> 00:28:48,564 when you end a marriage or when you end anything 705 00:28:48,665 --> 00:28:53,469 to get rid of everything that you have emotional connections to. 706 00:28:53,570 --> 00:28:56,605 Because when it's over, if you still have pieces left 707 00:28:56,607 --> 00:28:59,041 from it, you can never truly move on. 708 00:29:00,411 --> 00:29:02,411 -Oh, sorry. You want to... want to get. -[Christine] All right. 709 00:29:02,413 --> 00:29:06,315 I think that let's just call it a day for now. 710 00:29:06,317 --> 00:29:08,250 We have just a few, let's just finish-- 711 00:29:08,319 --> 00:29:09,618 We've scratched more than the surface. 712 00:29:09,620 --> 00:29:10,886 [Christine] Yeah. 713 00:29:10,888 --> 00:29:13,155 So the morning we'll like just finish doing everything. 714 00:29:13,224 --> 00:29:15,991 Get the mattresses out in the morning 715 00:29:15,993 --> 00:29:17,659 and let's just call it a day. 716 00:29:17,761 --> 00:29:19,695 [Mykelti] So, ah, is any of the family... 717 00:29:19,697 --> 00:29:23,132 Are you guys gonna do anything, anything like a goodbye, 718 00:29:23,134 --> 00:29:24,299 or is the family gonna come over 719 00:29:24,301 --> 00:29:29,204 for socially distanced breakfast outside tomorrow? 720 00:29:29,206 --> 00:29:32,007 Are they gonna drive by and wave? 721 00:29:32,009 --> 00:29:35,110 Are we gonna go to dump toilets on their lawn? 722 00:29:35,112 --> 00:29:36,912 Like, what are we doing? What's the plan? 723 00:29:36,914 --> 00:29:38,614 No, I don't think we're doing anything like that. 724 00:29:38,616 --> 00:29:40,315 Nobody's gonna come over and say bye? 725 00:29:40,317 --> 00:29:41,717 I don't think so. 726 00:29:41,719 --> 00:29:44,153 -No one said anything. -I think that's stupid. 727 00:29:44,221 --> 00:29:47,322 I told all the adults that I was packing up and leaving tomorrow, 728 00:29:47,324 --> 00:29:49,558 and I don't know what to do. 729 00:29:49,660 --> 00:29:51,160 What do you want me to do? 730 00:29:51,261 --> 00:29:54,229 This is your last night here. 731 00:29:54,231 --> 00:29:55,964 If they wanted to come over, it would be great. 732 00:29:56,066 --> 00:30:00,068 I want my mom to have to have everybody say goodbye to her, 733 00:30:00,070 --> 00:30:01,503 because it's not like she's 734 00:30:01,505 --> 00:30:03,038 Yes, she's divorcing my dad, 735 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,707 but she's not saying, okay, peace out. 736 00:30:05,709 --> 00:30:07,442 I'm done with every single one of you. 737 00:30:07,544 --> 00:30:09,111 [Christine] I think, if you want to say something, that's fine. 738 00:30:09,113 --> 00:30:10,412 But keep it to the Flagstaff family. 739 00:30:10,414 --> 00:30:12,414 -Then you don't have a-- -[Mykelti] ...flagstaff family. 740 00:30:12,416 --> 00:30:14,116 If you want to say something, that's, that's fine. 741 00:30:14,118 --> 00:30:16,952 We'll just-- I don't want to pressure anybody at all. 742 00:30:17,021 --> 00:30:18,220 I want to. 743 00:30:19,156 --> 00:30:21,957 My mom's honestly upset that I'm pushing her 744 00:30:21,959 --> 00:30:25,127 so much to have people come over and say goodbye 745 00:30:25,129 --> 00:30:27,062 because my mom wants to be done. 746 00:30:27,164 --> 00:30:30,432 But I think that she'll regret it, 747 00:30:30,434 --> 00:30:32,267 if she doesn't get a goodbye. 748 00:30:32,369 --> 00:30:33,969 And I think so will they, 749 00:30:34,037 --> 00:30:37,105 though, regret not saying goodbye just as much as she will. 750 00:30:37,107 --> 00:30:40,642 And it'll make us both, everybody can't look back 751 00:30:40,744 --> 00:30:44,646 on this moment and be happy for my mom. 752 00:30:45,716 --> 00:30:47,049 -Hey. Yep. -Okay. We're done. 753 00:30:47,150 --> 00:30:48,617 -Yeah, we're-- -Let's call it quits for the... 754 00:30:48,619 --> 00:30:49,651 -Let's do it. -I'm tired. 755 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,119 Okay, that sounds great. 756 00:30:54,658 --> 00:30:56,425 I'm leaving in five minutes. 757 00:30:56,427 --> 00:30:58,961 This is such an awkward moment. 758 00:30:59,062 --> 00:31:00,062 Bye Christine, good luck. 759 00:31:00,130 --> 00:31:01,363 [Christine] Bye, thank you. 760 00:31:01,465 --> 00:31:03,832 So it's very apparent how awkward we all are. 761 00:31:03,834 --> 00:31:06,568 But Janelle and her kids are on one side 762 00:31:06,637 --> 00:31:08,103 and Robyn and Kody are on the other, 763 00:31:08,105 --> 00:31:11,106 and none of us wanted to be here. 764 00:31:11,108 --> 00:31:12,140 You guys, thank you for coming. 765 00:31:12,242 --> 00:31:13,842 Hey, it means a lot to me that you came. 766 00:31:13,911 --> 00:31:15,510 [sobbing] 767 00:31:30,761 --> 00:31:34,129 Um, one of my big things with my mom leaving the family is, 768 00:31:34,131 --> 00:31:35,964 I didn't want it to create this 769 00:31:37,167 --> 00:31:39,835 massive divide in my family that would make it 770 00:31:39,837 --> 00:31:42,204 so the siblings wouldn't talk to each other 771 00:31:42,206 --> 00:31:43,939 or the parents wouldn't talk to each other. 772 00:31:46,310 --> 00:31:48,610 So it was really important to me 773 00:31:48,612 --> 00:31:51,213 for everybody to come say goodbye to my mom. 774 00:31:51,215 --> 00:31:52,948 Hold my hand. 775 00:31:53,017 --> 00:31:54,149 Okay. Hold my hand, sweetie. 776 00:31:54,218 --> 00:31:55,517 All right. 777 00:31:58,022 --> 00:32:01,423 [Robyn] Today, um, I know th Christine is leaving... 778 00:32:02,626 --> 00:32:03,992 Uh... 779 00:32:05,729 --> 00:32:10,666 Kind of based on what she told me when she talked to us 780 00:32:10,734 --> 00:32:14,803 about how she was going to move. 781 00:32:14,805 --> 00:32:17,239 I felt it best for us 782 00:32:17,308 --> 00:32:20,509 not to get in the way, say anything, 783 00:32:20,511 --> 00:32:21,944 say goodbye or anything like that. 784 00:32:21,946 --> 00:32:24,813 I was just gonna just stay out of the way. 785 00:32:25,916 --> 00:32:27,149 [Kody whistling] 786 00:32:27,250 --> 00:32:29,051 [Kody] I thought there was a party. 787 00:32:29,053 --> 00:32:30,419 I guess not. 788 00:32:31,755 --> 00:32:33,255 [Ariella speaking] 789 00:32:33,324 --> 00:32:34,356 [Kody] You want to. 790 00:32:34,458 --> 00:32:36,058 -We can't go in the house. -[Ariella speaking] 791 00:32:36,126 --> 00:32:39,061 [Kody] We're 'cause we got to be COVID Social distanced. 792 00:32:40,331 --> 00:32:43,632 And then Mykelti called me and she was like, Robyn, 793 00:32:43,634 --> 00:32:45,734 I think it would be best if you came 794 00:32:45,736 --> 00:32:47,035 and you guys came and say goodbye. 795 00:32:48,105 --> 00:32:49,204 Yeah. 796 00:32:49,206 --> 00:32:50,806 It's raining. 797 00:32:50,808 --> 00:32:52,240 I'm leaving in five minutes. 798 00:32:55,713 --> 00:32:56,812 Hi, everybody. 799 00:32:56,814 --> 00:32:58,313 [Christine] Oh, gosh. That was terrifying. 800 00:32:58,315 --> 00:33:00,015 We're outside right now. 801 00:33:00,017 --> 00:33:01,450 [Christine] Oh, nice. In the backyard. 802 00:33:01,551 --> 00:33:02,751 Yes. Let's go. 803 00:33:03,954 --> 00:33:06,722 I'm not in a good place here, I... 804 00:33:06,724 --> 00:33:10,359 Christine's leaving. I didn't want to... Oh, gosh. 805 00:33:11,328 --> 00:33:13,562 This is such an awkward moment. 806 00:33:15,132 --> 00:33:16,965 There is such a strike 807 00:33:18,969 --> 00:33:20,769 to all my feelings 808 00:33:20,804 --> 00:33:25,307 and all the work that I've done for our family to come here 809 00:33:25,309 --> 00:33:28,944 to sort of have this family gathering and say goodbye, 810 00:33:28,946 --> 00:33:31,947 that is way off course for me, way off the charts. 811 00:33:32,016 --> 00:33:34,516 It's not, it's not even right. 812 00:33:34,518 --> 00:33:35,751 It feels so, 813 00:33:37,654 --> 00:33:39,054 demeaning. 814 00:33:40,924 --> 00:33:42,323 And bless Mykelti's heart. 815 00:33:42,325 --> 00:33:44,860 She wants to affirm that the family is still a family 816 00:33:46,230 --> 00:33:49,364 And I'm in this sort of weird place where, you know, 817 00:33:49,466 --> 00:33:54,202 I'm like, thinking, I don't want to see Christine ever again. 818 00:33:54,204 --> 00:33:56,104 I don't want to think about her. 819 00:33:56,106 --> 00:33:58,206 I don't want to drive past this house ever again 820 00:33:58,208 --> 00:33:59,841 and mourn this. 821 00:33:59,910 --> 00:34:02,811 I don't want to sit and be in this place again. 822 00:34:02,813 --> 00:34:05,113 I don't want to deal with this at all. 823 00:34:07,718 --> 00:34:08,817 [Janelle] Hi, honey. 824 00:34:10,521 --> 00:34:11,720 [Gabriel] What's up, guys. 825 00:34:11,722 --> 00:34:12,821 [indistinct chatter] 826 00:34:14,124 --> 00:34:15,590 [Janelle] We love you. 827 00:34:15,592 --> 00:34:20,062 I'm not really sad about Dad and Christine breaking up. 828 00:34:20,163 --> 00:34:23,065 I'm really sad that Christine is moving. 829 00:34:24,535 --> 00:34:26,535 I'm not gonna, like, sit here 830 00:34:26,537 --> 00:34:27,969 and blame her for doing it like. 831 00:34:29,139 --> 00:34:30,939 If I was in her shoes, I would do the same. 832 00:34:33,710 --> 00:34:36,711 [Meri] The real reason why I was not there. 833 00:34:36,713 --> 00:34:39,948 The actual reason was because I was out of tow 834 00:34:39,950 --> 00:34:42,150 I was up at my B&B, and also, 835 00:34:43,253 --> 00:34:45,353 I don't know how weird it would have been, 836 00:34:45,422 --> 00:34:46,755 if I was knowing that 837 00:34:46,857 --> 00:34:48,623 she really wasn't interested in 838 00:34:49,827 --> 00:34:51,359 having a relationship with me. 839 00:34:51,428 --> 00:34:54,729 So why be there and do some big goodbye? 840 00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,933 [Kody] Oh, there we go. 841 00:34:57,935 --> 00:34:59,067 [Truely] Oh, ta-ta. 842 00:34:59,069 --> 00:35:00,802 [Kody] Yep. Turned on. 843 00:35:00,804 --> 00:35:02,037 [Christine] Okay. 844 00:35:04,108 --> 00:35:06,007 [Mykelti] Oh, it's about to... Oh, it's about to rain. 845 00:35:06,009 --> 00:35:07,709 -[Christine] Okay. -[Kody] Hope it's about to rain. 846 00:35:07,711 --> 00:35:09,711 [Christine] Tut, tut. 847 00:35:09,713 --> 00:35:10,946 Hey Truely. Truely, come here honey. 848 00:35:11,047 --> 00:35:12,647 -[Kody] Hey, Truely. -You got to keep the distance. 849 00:35:12,749 --> 00:35:13,748 Hi, everyone. 850 00:35:13,850 --> 00:35:15,317 [Mykelti] It's awkward outside. 851 00:35:15,319 --> 00:35:16,852 It's weird. It's intense. 852 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:18,520 Nobody really wants to be here. 853 00:35:18,522 --> 00:35:20,489 Dad doesn't want to be here. Robyn doesn't want to be here. 854 00:35:20,491 --> 00:35:23,125 Mom doesn't want to be here. It's weird. 855 00:35:23,127 --> 00:35:27,229 It's definitely, it's intense and it's uncomfortable. 856 00:35:28,132 --> 00:35:29,731 And sick. 857 00:35:31,335 --> 00:35:32,901 [Kody] Truely. Hey. 858 00:35:32,903 --> 00:35:34,703 Are you okay that you're moving tomorrow? 859 00:35:34,705 --> 00:35:36,104 Yeah. Are you excited? 860 00:35:37,407 --> 00:35:39,407 -Yeah. -Okay. 861 00:35:39,409 --> 00:35:41,042 All right. 862 00:35:41,044 --> 00:35:43,111 You know, once again, I'm... 863 00:35:43,113 --> 00:35:44,846 I, in my my state of bitterness. 864 00:35:44,948 --> 00:35:46,648 I'm trying to box Christine in. 865 00:35:46,717 --> 00:35:48,850 I think, I think she's doing something wrong. 866 00:35:49,953 --> 00:35:51,319 -You sure? -Mm-hmm. 867 00:35:51,321 --> 00:35:52,621 Where's your smile? 868 00:35:55,726 --> 00:35:57,526 No smiles about it, huh? 869 00:35:57,528 --> 00:35:58,827 Sorry. 870 00:35:58,829 --> 00:36:00,862 All right, well. 871 00:36:05,402 --> 00:36:06,868 I don't know. She could have stayed here. 872 00:36:06,970 --> 00:36:08,103 She could have stayed in this house. 873 00:36:08,105 --> 00:36:09,337 And very likely 874 00:36:09,406 --> 00:36:11,206 Gwendlyn and Isabel might have stayed here as well. 875 00:36:11,208 --> 00:36:12,307 I don't know. 876 00:36:12,309 --> 00:36:16,411 It just feels like and I'm, 877 00:36:16,413 --> 00:36:18,713 I'm in a really bad state of mind. 878 00:36:18,715 --> 00:36:21,416 I feel like my life is being unravelled for me. 879 00:36:21,418 --> 00:36:22,851 This isn't something I want. 880 00:36:22,953 --> 00:36:24,352 I feel out of control. 881 00:36:26,156 --> 00:36:27,222 Thanks for coming, guys. 882 00:36:27,224 --> 00:36:28,323 I appreciate it. 883 00:36:28,325 --> 00:36:29,457 -It means a lot. -This is fun. 884 00:36:29,525 --> 00:36:31,927 It's bittersweet, but it's, it's nice that, like, 885 00:36:31,929 --> 00:36:33,728 we're all here and we can all, um, 886 00:36:34,398 --> 00:36:35,530 be here together, 887 00:36:35,532 --> 00:36:39,167 like, the last night that Mom's here in Flagstaff. 888 00:36:39,269 --> 00:36:40,435 So I'm really glad. 889 00:36:40,437 --> 00:36:42,404 Like, I think this is probably something 890 00:36:42,406 --> 00:36:44,039 that's one of the hardest things that this family 891 00:36:44,107 --> 00:36:45,540 is gonna have to go through. 892 00:36:45,642 --> 00:36:48,743 But I think that it's awesome that we can all be here 893 00:36:48,845 --> 00:36:50,946 to show that at the end of this all, 894 00:36:50,948 --> 00:36:52,247 we are still a family. 895 00:36:58,055 --> 00:37:00,622 So there's no one to blame for any of this. 896 00:37:00,624 --> 00:37:03,491 It's all just, it is what it is. 897 00:37:03,493 --> 00:37:06,628 And we should just all be grateful 898 00:37:06,630 --> 00:37:08,530 that even through this, 899 00:37:08,532 --> 00:37:11,166 we can remain, we can remain a family 900 00:37:11,234 --> 00:37:14,202 and we can remain together and that we can support 901 00:37:14,204 --> 00:37:16,504 each other still through all of it. 902 00:37:20,744 --> 00:37:22,911 And I just what I think, I'm glad you guys are all here, 903 00:37:22,913 --> 00:37:24,746 because I think it's good to say goodbye to the... 904 00:37:24,815 --> 00:37:26,648 [Janelle] This chapter. 905 00:37:26,750 --> 00:37:28,416 [Mykelti] ...this chapter. It's good to say good bye. 906 00:37:28,418 --> 00:37:29,818 You said exactly what was in my heart 907 00:37:29,820 --> 00:37:31,219 without I didn't know how to say it. 908 00:37:31,221 --> 00:37:32,287 So thank you. 909 00:37:32,355 --> 00:37:34,656 So it's very apparent how awkward we all are. 910 00:37:34,758 --> 00:37:37,359 But Janelle and her kids are on one side 911 00:37:37,460 --> 00:37:38,960 and Robyn and Kody are on the other. 912 00:37:39,062 --> 00:37:40,562 And... 913 00:37:44,034 --> 00:37:46,434 none of us wanted to be here. 914 00:37:46,436 --> 00:37:48,570 -Bye, Christine. Goodluck. -[Christine] Bye. Thank you. 915 00:37:48,638 --> 00:37:50,438 -Bye. -[Christine] Bye. Thank you. 916 00:37:50,540 --> 00:37:53,408 [Ariella speaking] 917 00:37:53,410 --> 00:37:55,043 We just weren't in love anymore. 918 00:37:55,045 --> 00:37:56,711 You know, that happens sometimes. 919 00:37:58,215 --> 00:38:00,315 But we'll still hang out sometimes. 920 00:38:00,317 --> 00:38:02,317 -We just weren't in love. -[Ariella speaking] 921 00:38:02,319 --> 00:38:03,718 Oh, well, it doesn't always fix everything, 922 00:38:03,720 --> 00:38:04,919 my love, but thank you. 923 00:38:04,921 --> 00:38:06,221 What a good idea. 924 00:38:06,223 --> 00:38:07,355 [Ariella speaking] 925 00:38:07,457 --> 00:38:08,957 Not unlike all my children 926 00:38:09,025 --> 00:38:11,359 imposing your view on the rest of us. 927 00:38:11,461 --> 00:38:12,660 That's okay. It's good. 928 00:38:12,662 --> 00:38:15,230 They have strong opinions because this world beats them 929 00:38:15,232 --> 00:38:16,398 down fast enough. 930 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,734 It's awkward, you know, when Ari's asking 931 00:38:19,736 --> 00:38:23,038 why I'm leaving, I know everybody wonders, you know, 932 00:38:23,106 --> 00:38:27,208 she's just a kid, so she's brave enough to ask. 933 00:38:27,210 --> 00:38:28,610 [Mykelti] All right, You guys are awesome. 934 00:38:28,612 --> 00:38:30,111 -[Christine] Thank you. -[Kody] All right. 935 00:38:30,113 --> 00:38:31,913 [Mykelti] I really appreciate it. Thank you. 936 00:38:31,915 --> 00:38:34,249 Okay. Safe travels, will see you. 937 00:38:34,318 --> 00:38:36,051 -[Robyn] Thanks. -[Kody] I just only me. 938 00:38:36,152 --> 00:38:38,420 Only me. Only me. Okay. 939 00:38:38,422 --> 00:38:39,921 All right. We'll see you, sweetheart. 940 00:38:39,923 --> 00:38:40,955 I love you. 941 00:38:42,125 --> 00:38:44,626 I love you. Have a good trip. Okay. 942 00:38:44,628 --> 00:38:45,794 All right. 943 00:38:45,796 --> 00:38:49,331 Your phone has video chat, and you and I can video chat. 944 00:38:49,333 --> 00:38:50,432 -Okay. -Okay. 945 00:38:50,434 --> 00:38:51,466 -Okay. -All right. 946 00:38:51,535 --> 00:38:52,634 -Got it. -Love you. 947 00:38:52,636 --> 00:38:54,336 [Robyn] Truely, we love you. 948 00:38:54,338 --> 00:38:55,470 I'm gonna miss you. 949 00:38:55,538 --> 00:38:56,705 And I hope to see you soon, sweetie. 950 00:38:58,608 --> 00:39:00,007 There everybody's really angry. 951 00:39:02,813 --> 00:39:05,613 And, um, it just seemed lik Robyn's kids were angry, too 952 00:39:05,615 --> 00:39:09,951 That was the hardest part, is that her kids are angry, too. 953 00:39:11,355 --> 00:39:13,722 No, my kids weren't angry with her. 954 00:39:13,724 --> 00:39:15,824 Um... 955 00:39:15,826 --> 00:39:19,427 They're sort of the innocen parties in all of this. 956 00:39:19,429 --> 00:39:20,628 All of the kids are. 957 00:39:22,699 --> 00:39:24,132 It's just devastating. 958 00:39:26,203 --> 00:39:27,669 Just devastating. 959 00:39:31,508 --> 00:39:33,241 All right. Thanks to... you guys, thank you for coming. 960 00:39:33,310 --> 00:39:34,909 Hey, it means a lot to me that you came. 961 00:39:34,911 --> 00:39:36,611 [sobbing] 962 00:39:36,613 --> 00:39:38,847 [Kody] All right, you guys needed that. 963 00:39:41,918 --> 00:39:43,218 I wouldn't have asked for this. 964 00:39:43,220 --> 00:39:45,954 I didn't ask for, like, having them all come over. 965 00:39:45,956 --> 00:39:49,457 It was important for Mykelti and for her 966 00:39:49,559 --> 00:39:52,127 and for everybody to see Truely probably was. 967 00:39:53,463 --> 00:39:56,431 But I certainly didn't need it. 968 00:39:59,035 --> 00:40:00,535 It's worse than I thought it would have been. 969 00:40:02,339 --> 00:40:03,438 [Christine] Thank you. 970 00:40:03,507 --> 00:40:04,606 [Christine sobbing] 971 00:40:08,412 --> 00:40:09,511 [Christine] Thank you. 972 00:40:09,513 --> 00:40:10,745 [Janelle] New chapters. 973 00:40:10,814 --> 00:40:12,247 [Christine] Okay. Gosh. 974 00:40:19,623 --> 00:40:22,957 I think this was the worst goodbye 975 00:40:23,059 --> 00:40:24,225 that I've ever witnessed. 976 00:40:26,229 --> 00:40:27,195 -[woman 1] Love you guys. -[woman 2] Thanks. 977 00:40:27,197 --> 00:40:28,563 -We're out of here. -[Ariella] Bye! 978 00:40:28,565 --> 00:40:30,865 -[Christine] Bye. Thanks. -[woman 3] That was a nice hat. 979 00:40:30,967 --> 00:40:32,400 [Christine] Bye. Love you. 980 00:40:32,402 --> 00:40:34,035 [indistinct chatter] 981 00:40:45,816 --> 00:40:47,749 [narrator] Next time on Sister Wives.. 982 00:40:47,818 --> 00:40:50,118 So, I am moving today. It's, yeah! 983 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,219 To new beginnings, right? 984 00:40:51,221 --> 00:40:52,320 New beginnings. 985 00:40:52,322 --> 00:40:54,923 All of a sudden my whole world looks different. 986 00:40:54,925 --> 00:40:56,558 She's called me a lot of things. 987 00:40:56,626 --> 00:40:58,226 I think she called me a coward once. 988 00:40:58,228 --> 00:41:00,395 But what I didn't do was, I didn't quit. 989 00:41:00,397 --> 00:41:01,830 You ready to go see our new house? 990 00:41:01,832 --> 00:41:04,799 I have a lot of emotions about Christine leaving. 991 00:41:04,801 --> 00:41:07,535 Sadness, anger, even. 992 00:41:07,537 --> 00:41:09,737 I don't think any of us kno what goes on now. 993 00:41:09,806 --> 00:41:11,406 We're just gonna have to make it up. 994 00:41:11,408 --> 00:41:13,608 Her offer didn't go through on the house. 995 00:41:13,610 --> 00:41:15,543 -Yeah. -Why don't we buy it? 996 00:41:15,645 --> 00:41:18,313 We buy the house, build on Coyote Pass. 997 00:41:18,315 --> 00:41:19,747 We rent this house. 998 00:41:19,816 --> 00:41:21,549 I want my own house. 999 00:41:21,684 --> 00:41:23,418 I don't want to live in an RV. 1000 00:41:23,420 --> 00:41:26,621 Men, don't love people who don't respect them. 1001 00:41:26,623 --> 00:41:29,724 I'm not gonna break my back when you don't respect me.