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- Previously
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
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- What the hell was that?
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My mom got into
a car accident.
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When I said,
"You gonna be okay?"
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She shook her head no.
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Mama ain't never said
that she wasn't gonna be okay.
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- Uh-uh!
How you gonna pour my wine out?
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- We concerned about you.
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- I decided
to check myself into detox.
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[tense music]
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[loud crash]
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- Three guys came in here
with guns.
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I don't want to be there.
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- So you want to sell
the house
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and go back to an apartment?
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- I gotta be somewhere
I feel safe,
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and I just wish
you would understand that.
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- I don't want to go backward.
You just like wasting money.
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- I sent Joc his invitation
and I sent him his outfit,
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but he said that
they couldn't make it.
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- Dearly beloved.
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- 15 minutes after I post her
walking down the aisle,
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a friend of a friend
of this friend named Meda
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hit me up and was like,
"He [bleep] with Meda."
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- What's going on
with you and Joc?
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- I have been [bleep] with Joc
for almost 14 years.
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2008, 2009, 2010,
2012, 2014, 2015.
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- What?
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- Until death do us part.
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- The [bleep] that I heard
is beyond him
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just having a [bleep] mistress.
It's--
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- You're talking
about the baby?
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- That.
- Ugh.
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- You may kiss your bride.
[cheers and applause]
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- Some woman said that her
step-sister has a baby by Joc.
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- Jasiel, I need some answers
is what I need.
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Why did you marry me?
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You lied to my daddy,
you lied to my mama.
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The rumors about the baby
aren't rumors.
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How do we move forward?
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'Cause now, it's not just
a Kendra and Jasiel thing.
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- My vagina does not need
a timeline for anybody.
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What my vagina does
is nobody's [bleep] business.
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- In 2019...
- No, right.
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- We didn't have physical sex,
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but he did that thing
that he does with his mouth.
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- He [bleep] your [bleep].
- Yes. Exactly.
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that I'm living ♪
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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- ♪ It's the life
that I chose ♪
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- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
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- ♪ To the top, we go ♪
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- ♪ You either can get down
or lay down ♪
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♪ It's our town
wherever we go ♪
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- ♪ Wherever we go ♪
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- Can I see the toner
over there please?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- So Yelle's located at the
infamous Underground Atlanta.
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But we want to own the block,
so I got the space next door.
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Let's get a restaurant
right there.
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- Hey, man. How's it going?
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- So I don't know how many of
you have ever been
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to a bodega in New York.
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I wanted to bring
that bodega vibe
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to the Underground Atlanta.
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- How long you think
before we able to turn the key?
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- This is a good three months.
- That's good.
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If you could do this
in three months,
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especially
before the summertime?
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- For sure.
- Hey, hey, hey.
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- Well, wait till--
wait till you see--
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- Okay.
- What's happening?
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- Oh, my God.
- Hey, hey.
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- What's up, Yandy?
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- Are we ready?
- Yes.
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- Gonna be ready in a week?
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- He said 90 days.
- If you took a long nap, yes.
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- 90 days?
90 days is not gonna work.
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When it comes to my business,
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I'm not afraid to say
how I want things to be.
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We could sell juices in this
and make money.
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I wanted this
to be a quick turnover.
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I did not get this
for it to be a money pit.
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- All right.
- Thank you so much.
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I appreciate you.
- Good to see you.
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- Thank you, thank you,
thank you.
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- All right. Thank you.
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- If I tell you I got 90 days,
you gonna take 120 days.
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So let me tell you
I got three weeks,
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'cause then maybe
I'll get it done in six weeks.
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- On another note, I've been
talking to Lil Mendeecees,
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and his mom,
you know, she live here now.
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- Yeah.
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- So he want to do something
where he bring, you know,
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his mom and us together,
you know, a blended family.
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From what I understand,
she's engaged.
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She's in a happy place.
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- Samantha's Lil Mendeecees'
mother.
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She's actually been living
in Atlanta for a year now.
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And one day,
Mendeecees told me
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that Samantha felt like
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Lil Mendeecees
should be with his father.
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Me and Samantha, we've had
a pretty contentious history,
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but when Mendeecees went away,
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things just got really,
really bad.
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- You're gonna have to stop
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acting like
you're my son's mother,
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especially when you don't pay
no bills in my house.
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I have the financial burden
of my son,
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while you get
to sit around here
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and act like
you're raising him.
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- Samantha--
- I don't want to hear my name.
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I don't want to hear my name.
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All I wanna hear you do
is say sorry.
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- Mendeecees' relationship
with Samantha was not great,
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but now, Mendeecees
can coparent with Samantha.
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There's never really a need
for me and her to communicate.
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I'm okay with that.
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I think y'all should
build a relationship first.
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And definitely, I'll come--
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- But we have been cool
this whole transition.
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Whatever you and Samantha
went through in the past,
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that should be the past, right?
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- Yeah.
- It was many, many years ago.
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- You prayed, we prayed
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for Lil Mendeecees
to be back at home.
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You're happy.
We're all happy.
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- Yeah, but--
but Lil Mendeecees--
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- I don't like [bleep].
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- But you got--
but you gotta understand
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this is not about you,
all right?
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- It's not.
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- Lil Mendeecees want us
both there with Samantha
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and her boyfriend.
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This will make him happy.
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- The thought of sitting down
with Samantha
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is just not something
I think about.
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But if this is really coming
from Lil Mendeecees,
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I would literally do anything
to make him happy.
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- Lil Mendeecees
want you there.
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- You want me there.
- I want you there, too.
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- He ain't had no conversation
with you.
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- Yeah.
Nah, I want--no, he did so.
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- You don't want to go
by yourself.
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- We both want you there.
We both want you there.
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- [laughs]
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If you do some wining
and dining, feet rubbing.
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- I'll try to carry you.
How about that?
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Come on. [grunts]
Oh, my God.
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Come on.
- Giddy up.
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- Holy [bleep].
These legs gonna buck.
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[laughter]
Wait!
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[laughter]
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- Ahh! Ahh!
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Oh, my God.
- [laughing]
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- ♪ I can't find my way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ Out of the shadows,
out of the shadows ♪
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[FaceTime chiming]
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- Renni.
- Hey.
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- Hey, girl. What you doing?
I'm on my way.
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I am in Columbia, baby.
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- Okay. I'm here.
- All right. See you soon.
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- ♪ I'm barely holding on ♪
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- Renni and I are
both going through it
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with our moms
and my heart breaks for her,
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and I want
to just be there for her.
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And plus, after dealing
with the whole rumor
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with Joc and Meda,
my house getting robbed,
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even me and Erica's
getting into it bad,
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it's just too much,
so I need this little getaway.
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both: Hey!
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- It's been weeks, and my mom
is still in the hospital.
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Her condition
hasn't improved any.
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And the longer my mom
is in the hospital,
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the harder it gets for me,
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because every day I realize
how much more I need her.
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- I'm about to cook,
and we about to relax.
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- I'm really happy
to have Sierra in my life.
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I love her, and she shows
how much of a friend
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she is to me
by--by just being here.
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- I've been super overwhelmed.
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And the robbery
just made everything worse.
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- I'm so glad
y'all wasn't home.
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- Yeah, I know.
- Like, that's crazy.
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- Yeah. And they came
in there with guns.
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Like, I can't go back.
- That's it for that.
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- Yeah, I gotta sell it, so.
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- Everything happen
for a reason.
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It's gonna be all right.
- [sighs]
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- Come here.
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[soft dramatic music]
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- Renni is a real friend
that's gonna support me,
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even though she's going through
her own deep [bleep],
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which is more than I can say
about Erica and Bambi lately.
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They put me on blast
with Kendra
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before I could
even explain myself.
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- People saying that you knew
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what time it was with her
before the wedding.
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- No the [bleep] I didn't.
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- You're assuming
we're trying to set you up.
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We just want an answer.
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- No, it's not set me up.
It's bigger than set me up.
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So right now, I'm feeling like
I really don't have
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much of a support system
except for Renni.
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I genuinely love her.
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So how is your mom doing,
Renni?
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- She having
another surgery today.
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- Really?
- Yeah.
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So I guess we'll see
what happen today.
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You know me and my mama
ain't really have, like,
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the best relationship
all the time.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- But I love my mama
to death regardless.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- I'm just sitting back,
looking at all the messages
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that she done sent
that I didn't respond to,
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and all the times, like,
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I might have just been
in one of my moods
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and dealing
with my own bull[bleep].
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- One of my--bull[bleep].
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- And I was a bitch to her.
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Then, it's like I don't never
want to do that again,
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'cause I don't know
what's gonna happen tomorrow.
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Like, I want to lay in the bed
and cuddle with her.
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- Our mamas get on our nerves,
but when they not feeling well,
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we want them to be well,
because--
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you know what I'm saying?
- We only got one.
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- We only got one mama.
- We only got one.
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It's been very helpful
having a friend like Sierra.
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For her to put her situation
and everything
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she's dealing with at home
to decide to come here
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and be here for me,
I love her for life.
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- In the Bible, it says,
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"God give his toughest battles
to his strongest soldiers."
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We gonna get through it,
because we strong enough.
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♪ ♪
245
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We got it.
246
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♪ ♪
247
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- ♪ You ain't bad, baby ♪
248
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♪ You ain't bad, baby ♪
249
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♪ ♪
250
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♪ But you got to know,
you got to know ♪
251
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♪ That the shock
ain't no thing to me ♪
252
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- Hey, Pastor.
253
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- ♪ Oh, what's the problem? ♪
254
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♪ What's the matter? ♪
255
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♪ Too much drama ♪
256
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♪ Too much happening
every moment ♪
257
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♪ Like a bomb ♪
258
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- That was
an interesting wedding.
259
00:08:56,904 --> 00:08:58,537
- [chuckles]
260
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- So what's up?
261
00:08:59,973 --> 00:09:03,775
- Well, the big, main issue
that we were addressing
262
00:09:03,844 --> 00:09:07,546
in our premarital counseling
was this child.
263
00:09:07,614 --> 00:09:11,283
But it's come
to the surface now--
264
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- The night you were
proclaimed husband and wife,
265
00:09:14,021 --> 00:09:15,987
someone showed me
social media--
266
00:09:16,056 --> 00:09:18,857
40,000, 50,000,
75,000, 100,000,
267
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150,000--about this baby.
268
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I didn't have to worry
about it. You know why?
269
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Because we had--
270
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- 'Cause you knew, yeah.
271
00:09:25,866 --> 00:09:27,799
- We had already covered that,
and we ain't let anybody know.
272
00:09:27,868 --> 00:09:29,534
- We've been working on that.
Quietly.
273
00:09:29,603 --> 00:09:31,236
Now, people know,
you know how it go.
274
00:09:31,305 --> 00:09:32,437
Somebody gonna talk.
275
00:09:32,506 --> 00:09:34,072
Somebody gotta look like
they got the best tea.
276
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Well, the good thing about it,
277
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you ain't gonna be able to
throw it in my wife face,
278
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'cause we established this way
before her and I got married.
279
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- Now that the word is out
there about this baby,
280
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I feel embarrassed,
I feel angry.
281
00:09:48,555 --> 00:09:50,355
That's really the real reason
I didn't go
282
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to Spice's fashion show.
283
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It's just hard, you know,
like, to have a wound heal,
284
00:09:55,929 --> 00:09:57,395
and then to pick it back open
285
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just leaves
a open sore again, you know?
286
00:10:00,133 --> 00:10:01,733
- I knew the position
I had put myself in,
287
00:10:01,802 --> 00:10:05,270
and I knew what was at stake
when I told her.
288
00:10:05,339 --> 00:10:07,606
We sat right here,
and you witnessed that happen.
289
00:10:07,674 --> 00:10:09,441
She cried, I cried, we cried.
290
00:10:09,509 --> 00:10:10,675
And I told her
291
00:10:10,744 --> 00:10:13,445
I'ma be the best version
of myself that I can be.
292
00:10:13,513 --> 00:10:14,813
And I've been working on that.
293
00:10:14,881 --> 00:10:16,681
- So you made progress.
- A lot of progress.
294
00:10:16,750 --> 00:10:18,116
We both have.
295
00:10:18,185 --> 00:10:20,719
But it's like, right now,
this is a new situation.
296
00:10:20,787 --> 00:10:23,521
A young lady has come out
right here
297
00:10:23,590 --> 00:10:25,290
around the time of the wedding.
And--
298
00:10:25,359 --> 00:10:28,259
- Yeah.
It's a lady from his past.
299
00:10:28,328 --> 00:10:29,828
Allow Jasiel to tell you.
300
00:10:29,896 --> 00:10:34,232
It was not during his dealings
with me before he met me.
301
00:10:34,301 --> 00:10:35,433
- It wasn't, it wasn't.
302
00:10:35,502 --> 00:10:36,801
- And again,
that's why I said...
303
00:10:36,870 --> 00:10:38,136
- It wasn't.
- That's what you said.
304
00:10:38,205 --> 00:10:39,237
- But she's--
she coming out like--
305
00:10:39,306 --> 00:10:40,605
- But it's
contradicting stories.
306
00:10:40,674 --> 00:10:42,107
- What did she say?
307
00:10:42,175 --> 00:10:43,775
- She saying that
she told my wife--
308
00:10:43,844 --> 00:10:48,079
- She told me that she's been
dealing with him since 2008,
309
00:10:48,148 --> 00:10:52,017
so since he was deep
into his first marriage.
310
00:10:52,085 --> 00:10:53,785
She told me that
she had dealings with him
311
00:10:53,854 --> 00:10:58,289
in 2016, 2017, and 2019.
312
00:10:58,358 --> 00:10:59,891
- But ain't no truth in it,
though, like, for real.
313
00:10:59,960 --> 00:11:02,560
- So you having been involved.
- No. Look at what year it is.
314
00:11:02,629 --> 00:11:03,795
- She threw out--
315
00:11:03,864 --> 00:11:05,063
- That would still be
a violation, but--
316
00:11:05,132 --> 00:11:06,064
- She threw out at least
three or four date ranges.
317
00:11:06,133 --> 00:11:07,298
You know what I mean?
318
00:11:07,367 --> 00:11:08,333
And I fell within...
- Nothing past 2019.
319
00:11:08,402 --> 00:11:09,567
- At least two or three.
320
00:11:09,636 --> 00:11:10,669
- Nothing.
- So--
321
00:11:10,737 --> 00:11:11,636
- And when you ask her
about that--
322
00:11:11,705 --> 00:11:12,904
- No, are you saying that--?
323
00:11:12,973 --> 00:11:14,305
- You mentioned the 2019--
of her being--
324
00:11:14,374 --> 00:11:16,074
- Nothing past--
325
00:11:16,143 --> 00:11:18,143
- Past when?
Tell me the year.
326
00:11:18,211 --> 00:11:21,446
- '12, '13.
'12. '10.
327
00:11:21,515 --> 00:11:22,814
- Okay.
- Nothing past that.
328
00:11:22,883 --> 00:11:24,282
- You sure?
- Yeah.
329
00:11:24,351 --> 00:11:25,450
- She stood up and said it.
330
00:11:25,519 --> 00:11:26,451
Like, what are you
talking about?
331
00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:27,686
- Look, I didn't say she's--
332
00:11:27,754 --> 00:11:29,220
I didn't say she's lying
about that happening.
333
00:11:29,289 --> 00:11:30,321
- I don't know why she would,
you know what I mean?
334
00:11:30,390 --> 00:11:31,890
Like, I don't know,
but it was said.
335
00:11:31,958 --> 00:11:33,258
And it's just, like,
336
00:11:33,326 --> 00:11:37,595
I don't want to be
in our marriage now with that.
337
00:11:37,664 --> 00:11:38,763
[dramatic music]
338
00:11:38,832 --> 00:11:40,498
Make no mistake:
when I was crying
339
00:11:40,567 --> 00:11:42,500
with Bambi and Erica,
those were real tears
340
00:11:42,569 --> 00:11:45,136
simply because it's, like,
I want my marriage to work,
341
00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:48,807
but I do not want to stay
and remain in a marriage
342
00:11:48,875 --> 00:11:50,375
that's built off
of bull[bleep].
343
00:11:50,444 --> 00:11:51,843
We need help.
344
00:11:51,912 --> 00:11:53,511
- It sting a little bit
when your wife say,
345
00:11:53,580 --> 00:11:55,847
"I don't want to be in this
marriage no more," you know.
346
00:11:55,916 --> 00:11:57,649
This whole [bleep] with Meda,
it just, like,
347
00:11:57,718 --> 00:11:59,250
poured gas on the fire.
348
00:11:59,319 --> 00:12:01,386
But I gotta do everything
in my power to get past that,
349
00:12:01,455 --> 00:12:02,687
keep my lady happy.
350
00:12:02,756 --> 00:12:04,089
- And so, that's where we are,
Pastor.
351
00:12:04,157 --> 00:12:07,258
Like, I know that we dealt
with the baby--
352
00:12:07,327 --> 00:12:09,828
- And you knew nothing
about this.
353
00:12:09,896 --> 00:12:12,764
- Well, it--okay,
so it's a little bit.
354
00:12:12,833 --> 00:12:15,433
A while back,
Jasiel let me know
355
00:12:15,502 --> 00:12:17,535
that there was a lady
he used to deal with.
356
00:12:17,604 --> 00:12:18,837
- Her name is Meda.
357
00:12:18,905 --> 00:12:20,739
- However, when I went to,
you know,
358
00:12:20,807 --> 00:12:23,074
speak with my friends,
her name came back up.
359
00:12:23,143 --> 00:12:25,176
- When this news came up to me,
I was like, "What?"
360
00:12:25,245 --> 00:12:27,712
Then, she FaceTimed her
361
00:12:27,781 --> 00:12:30,515
and said she been dealing
with me up until 2019.
362
00:12:30,584 --> 00:12:31,750
- When was your last time...
363
00:12:31,818 --> 00:12:33,084
- 'Cause that's what
I--that's--
364
00:12:33,153 --> 00:12:34,486
- Engaged with this Meda?
365
00:12:34,554 --> 00:12:36,054
- I'm sorry, Pastor,
but that's what I want to know.
366
00:12:36,123 --> 00:12:39,791
- When was your last time
with Meda?
367
00:12:39,860 --> 00:12:41,092
- "With."
- Okay.
368
00:12:41,161 --> 00:12:42,594
- Got an attorney
sitting right here, Pastor.
369
00:12:42,662 --> 00:12:44,496
- Now, how many years have
you been single and married?
370
00:12:44,564 --> 00:12:45,663
Like, come on.
371
00:12:45,732 --> 00:12:47,065
When did you and Alex
get a divorce?
372
00:12:47,134 --> 00:12:48,199
- Baby--baby, listen.
Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.
373
00:12:48,268 --> 00:12:49,334
- Y'all got divorced
in '13 or '14.
374
00:12:49,402 --> 00:12:50,602
- Listen, listen--
375
00:12:50,670 --> 00:12:52,403
- And I met you
in doggone almost '15. So--
376
00:12:52,472 --> 00:12:53,905
- Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Kendra, hold on.
377
00:12:53,974 --> 00:12:56,941
I'm being cross-examined by
my pastor and my attorney wife.
378
00:12:57,010 --> 00:12:58,977
And even though I know
the last time I was with Meda,
379
00:12:59,045 --> 00:13:01,179
stuff like this
could--could trip anyone up.
380
00:13:01,248 --> 00:13:02,747
- So when was the last time
381
00:13:02,816 --> 00:13:05,617
you were physically together
intimately?
382
00:13:05,685 --> 00:13:08,419
- Intimate? Years ago.
Way before I ever met Kendra.
383
00:13:08,488 --> 00:13:09,954
- That's too vague.
- Wait, but I can't--
384
00:13:10,023 --> 00:13:11,356
- Okay, way before you met me?
Okay.
385
00:13:11,424 --> 00:13:13,124
All I'm saying, Pastor,
is this:
386
00:13:13,193 --> 00:13:15,627
like, we already been
through enough stuff.
387
00:13:15,695 --> 00:13:17,128
And we ain't even done.
388
00:13:17,197 --> 00:13:18,863
I'm not even done
telling you all the crap.
389
00:13:18,932 --> 00:13:22,534
His ex, he had
at his bachelor party.
390
00:13:22,602 --> 00:13:24,202
She was in a box.
She came out.
391
00:13:24,271 --> 00:13:25,770
You feel me?
- [chuckling]
392
00:13:25,839 --> 00:13:27,138
- I got my friends telling me,
"Yeah, he was rubbing on her.
393
00:13:27,207 --> 00:13:29,440
They was making contact."
- Nah, nah.
394
00:13:29,509 --> 00:13:30,742
- Like, that's what is out here
floating around.
395
00:13:30,811 --> 00:13:32,110
- No.
396
00:13:32,179 --> 00:13:34,946
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
397
00:13:35,015 --> 00:13:36,281
- My mom's marrying the guy.
398
00:13:36,349 --> 00:13:37,682
I'm not marrying the guy.
I don't know what he like.
399
00:13:37,751 --> 00:13:40,418
- Yeah, but if she marry him,
that's your step-dad.
400
00:13:40,487 --> 00:13:42,053
- Relax.
- Relax?
401
00:13:42,122 --> 00:13:43,788
- Yo, your father
the other night?
402
00:13:43,857 --> 00:13:45,256
"You ready for a new step-dad?"
403
00:13:45,325 --> 00:13:47,559
- Yeah, like, it's probably him
being a little jealous.
404
00:13:47,627 --> 00:13:49,260
I think that's what it is.
- [laughs]
405
00:13:49,329 --> 00:13:50,361
- You honestly think
Joc can sit down
406
00:13:50,430 --> 00:13:51,496
and tell you
everything he's done?
407
00:13:51,565 --> 00:13:52,897
My brother got about
408
00:13:52,966 --> 00:13:54,432
four of these little bowls
of [bleep]ups to go.
409
00:13:54,501 --> 00:13:55,767
- I know.
410
00:13:55,836 --> 00:13:57,335
- So you either gonna have
to decide to deal with it
411
00:13:57,404 --> 00:13:59,137
or not to deal with it.
412
00:13:59,206 --> 00:14:01,105
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
413
00:14:03,910 --> 00:14:05,076
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
414
00:14:05,145 --> 00:14:07,412
[dramatic music]
415
00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,380
- I got my friends telling me,
"Yeah, he was rubbing on her.
416
00:14:09,449 --> 00:14:11,516
They was making contact."
- Nah, nah.
417
00:14:11,585 --> 00:14:13,084
- Like, that's what is
out here floating around.
418
00:14:13,153 --> 00:14:14,619
- No.
419
00:14:14,688 --> 00:14:16,054
- Karlie was
at the bachelor party.
420
00:14:16,122 --> 00:14:17,622
- Doing what?
421
00:14:17,691 --> 00:14:19,991
- Apparently,
she jumped out of a box.
422
00:14:20,060 --> 00:14:24,028
He's, like, rubbing and groping
and doing all that [bleep].
423
00:14:24,097 --> 00:14:25,430
- Jasiel's position is,
424
00:14:25,498 --> 00:14:27,065
"Oh, all these rumors,
all these rumors."
425
00:14:27,133 --> 00:14:28,166
But it's, like, come on, playa,
426
00:14:28,235 --> 00:14:29,601
'cause one of them
ain't a rumor.
427
00:14:29,669 --> 00:14:31,236
So that's the stuff.
That's what I'm talking about.
428
00:14:31,304 --> 00:14:32,637
- Can't even tell you.
- That's why--
429
00:14:32,706 --> 00:14:34,038
- But that wasn't me.
I don't recall all that.
430
00:14:34,107 --> 00:14:36,207
- That's kind of--
- Bold.
431
00:14:36,276 --> 00:14:37,609
Say it, Pastor.
It's bold.
432
00:14:37,677 --> 00:14:39,510
That's--that's what I'm saying.
Why would you even play?
433
00:14:39,579 --> 00:14:41,012
Why would you even go close
to the ledge?
434
00:14:41,081 --> 00:14:42,647
- The ledge came close to me.
435
00:14:42,716 --> 00:14:45,049
- But one of the things I want
you both to understand is this.
436
00:14:45,118 --> 00:14:48,086
Listen.
You cannot entertain spirits.
437
00:14:48,154 --> 00:14:50,421
That should have been
a immediate, "Oh. No.
438
00:14:50,490 --> 00:14:52,590
"Let me call my fiancée
439
00:14:52,659 --> 00:14:54,859
and let her know
exactly what just happened."
440
00:14:54,928 --> 00:14:56,327
- So I didn't tell her.
Okay.
441
00:14:56,396 --> 00:14:57,428
I had a lot going on.
442
00:14:57,497 --> 00:14:59,163
You know the tension
we was having,
443
00:14:59,232 --> 00:15:00,765
having to talk to you about it.
- Right.
444
00:15:00,834 --> 00:15:03,167
- I just wanted to make
this one with my wife
445
00:15:03,236 --> 00:15:05,136
and to continue to grow
and move on.
446
00:15:05,205 --> 00:15:08,640
- I plan for this
to be my only marriage.
447
00:15:08,708 --> 00:15:10,875
Like, I don't want
to get a divorce.
448
00:15:10,944 --> 00:15:13,611
I don't want to have to go find
somebody new to love.
449
00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,914
Lord forbid,
I'm forced to, I will.
450
00:15:15,982 --> 00:15:17,548
You know? I don't know.
I don't want to feel that way.
451
00:15:17,617 --> 00:15:19,083
- I just don't want you to--
I just don't want you
452
00:15:19,152 --> 00:15:21,019
to jump every time somebody
brings something, because--
453
00:15:21,087 --> 00:15:23,254
- I'm not jumping.
But these are real people.
454
00:15:23,323 --> 00:15:24,555
- I get it.
- These are real events.
455
00:15:24,624 --> 00:15:26,190
- Well--
- These are real happenings.
456
00:15:26,259 --> 00:15:27,525
- Well, where are the receipts?
457
00:15:27,594 --> 00:15:31,296
Hey, Kendra, I am your husband.
458
00:15:31,364 --> 00:15:32,764
Just listen to me.
You know what I'm saying?
459
00:15:32,832 --> 00:15:33,865
Like, we just got married.
460
00:15:33,934 --> 00:15:35,400
Can't be going on
what somebody said I did
461
00:15:35,468 --> 00:15:37,769
three, four years ago,
'cause that ain't even--
462
00:15:37,837 --> 00:15:40,505
♪ ♪
463
00:15:40,573 --> 00:15:41,973
- He is okay because
464
00:15:42,042 --> 00:15:43,942
we were able to get through
that first major hurdle.
465
00:15:44,010 --> 00:15:47,111
I feel like Jasiel feels like
he can do, say,
466
00:15:47,180 --> 00:15:50,181
and act any kind of way,
and that's not what it is.
467
00:15:50,250 --> 00:15:52,150
Like, I want you
to appreciate me.
468
00:15:52,218 --> 00:15:53,651
- Like, what make you think--
- When we wasn't together,
469
00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:55,887
you ain't even have enough
couth to not, like, wrap it up.
470
00:15:55,956 --> 00:15:57,355
- Okay, do we--I did.
471
00:15:57,424 --> 00:16:00,325
- Nah. I mean,
DNA says differently, sir.
472
00:16:00,393 --> 00:16:01,926
- How do you fix
this situation?
473
00:16:01,995 --> 00:16:03,528
- I mean, honestly, man,
474
00:16:03,596 --> 00:16:04,929
I'm just trying
to love my wife.
475
00:16:04,998 --> 00:16:05,964
I'm just trying to grow.
476
00:16:06,032 --> 00:16:07,098
- And I'm trying
to love you, too.
477
00:16:07,167 --> 00:16:08,399
I just want us to get past--
478
00:16:08,468 --> 00:16:09,534
- But if a rumor come out,
I don't--
479
00:16:09,602 --> 00:16:10,835
- Right.
- I go on punishment again?
480
00:16:10,904 --> 00:16:12,503
What?
481
00:16:12,572 --> 00:16:14,839
- Nah, it's not that simple.
Like, these ain't just rumors.
482
00:16:14,908 --> 00:16:17,041
You can't just be
dismissive of...
483
00:16:17,110 --> 00:16:19,277
- I'm not.
- What's circulating around.
484
00:16:19,346 --> 00:16:20,311
Like, you know what I mean?
485
00:16:20,380 --> 00:16:21,980
I just want you to hold up
486
00:16:22,048 --> 00:16:24,482
to what you told my daddy
you was gonna do,
487
00:16:24,551 --> 00:16:26,617
and how you told him
that you was gonna love me
488
00:16:26,686 --> 00:16:28,319
and my brother
and my whole family.
489
00:16:28,388 --> 00:16:30,121
Like, that's serious to me,
you know?
490
00:16:30,190 --> 00:16:32,090
And I trust that your heart's
in the right place.
491
00:16:32,158 --> 00:16:34,859
Like, I know that you love me.
But I just want peace.
492
00:16:34,928 --> 00:16:37,862
- You have to work extra.
- I--
493
00:16:37,931 --> 00:16:41,866
- It just is--you know?
"I gotta work extra."
494
00:16:41,935 --> 00:16:44,068
- So many people said,
"Don't mess this up, Joc.
495
00:16:44,137 --> 00:16:45,636
Don't--you got a good one."
496
00:16:45,705 --> 00:16:47,105
That's all it take sometimes.
497
00:16:47,173 --> 00:16:48,406
[snaps fingers]
A second.
498
00:16:48,475 --> 00:16:50,141
A second
for something to go wrong,
499
00:16:50,210 --> 00:16:53,044
and everything crashes
or burns, you know?
500
00:16:53,113 --> 00:16:55,346
- As far as the baby,
what I'm prepared for
501
00:16:55,415 --> 00:16:58,282
is for Jasiel to be
the spokesperson on the matter.
502
00:16:58,351 --> 00:16:59,817
- And I'ma
hold you accountable.
503
00:16:59,886 --> 00:17:01,586
- I'ma hold me accountable.
504
00:17:01,654 --> 00:17:04,822
I mean, at the end of the day,
I mean, I--you know--
505
00:17:04,891 --> 00:17:09,193
- So the plan is
let him hash it out, whatever.
506
00:17:09,262 --> 00:17:11,696
- I feel like Jasiel
should be the one
507
00:17:11,765 --> 00:17:14,432
to tell my family
about this baby.
508
00:17:14,501 --> 00:17:17,468
And the fact that he's not
jumping through a hoop
509
00:17:17,537 --> 00:17:19,437
to run and beat down they door
to tell them,
510
00:17:19,506 --> 00:17:21,172
like,
that's kind of an issue to me.
511
00:17:21,241 --> 00:17:23,408
- As long as
we're communicating,
512
00:17:23,476 --> 00:17:25,443
we can't be broken.
- Yeah.
513
00:17:25,512 --> 00:17:27,678
♪ ♪
514
00:17:27,747 --> 00:17:30,214
[upbeat music]
515
00:17:30,283 --> 00:17:32,784
♪ ♪
516
00:17:32,852 --> 00:17:36,821
- ♪ I got your back
no matter what ♪
517
00:17:36,890 --> 00:17:38,689
- Close the 'frigerator.
518
00:17:38,758 --> 00:17:40,491
- ♪ Our family, our family ♪
519
00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,060
- What's this right here?
520
00:17:42,128 --> 00:17:44,362
- Four.
- Ah.
521
00:17:44,431 --> 00:17:47,365
- So this is a typical night
in the Smith-Harris home.
522
00:17:47,434 --> 00:17:49,867
As crazy as all
of our schedules are,
523
00:17:49,936 --> 00:17:52,770
it's important for us
just to take a moment
524
00:17:52,839 --> 00:17:54,205
to catch up with each other.
525
00:17:54,274 --> 00:17:59,811
Our cousin Shasha is here.
I am surrounded by Harrises.
526
00:17:59,879 --> 00:18:01,579
I think we're blended enough.
527
00:18:01,648 --> 00:18:03,381
My family, y'all ready to eat?
528
00:18:03,450 --> 00:18:04,415
- Please.
- Yeah.
529
00:18:04,484 --> 00:18:05,650
- Yandy, how was your day?
530
00:18:05,718 --> 00:18:07,785
- It was good,
Mr. Student of the Month.
531
00:18:07,854 --> 00:18:08,920
- Hey.
532
00:18:08,988 --> 00:18:10,354
- Student of the Week,
but, you know.
533
00:18:10,423 --> 00:18:12,156
- We speaking Student of
the Month into existence, okay?
534
00:18:12,225 --> 00:18:13,991
- Lil Mendeecees only
been here a few months,
535
00:18:14,060 --> 00:18:15,293
and he's thriving.
536
00:18:15,361 --> 00:18:17,695
But my biggest dream
is to have the whole family
537
00:18:17,764 --> 00:18:19,897
just getting along
without drama,
538
00:18:19,966 --> 00:18:23,267
and people enjoying each other
and having a great time.
539
00:18:23,336 --> 00:18:27,839
- Lil Mendeecees, how do you
feel about your mom and Mario?
540
00:18:27,907 --> 00:18:29,440
- How am I supposed to feel
about that?
541
00:18:29,509 --> 00:18:31,109
- I mean, you like him?
542
00:18:31,177 --> 00:18:32,210
- That's my mom.
543
00:18:32,278 --> 00:18:33,177
As long as she happy,
I'm happy.
544
00:18:33,246 --> 00:18:35,012
- A'ight.
- I'm happy she happy.
545
00:18:35,081 --> 00:18:36,914
- Why would you bring that up
right now
546
00:18:36,983 --> 00:18:39,484
while we're having
a family dinner?
547
00:18:39,552 --> 00:18:42,086
- What do you think
about her moving down here?
548
00:18:42,155 --> 00:18:43,754
- I don't know, man.
That was God.
549
00:18:43,823 --> 00:18:45,857
'Cause when
I was living in New York,
550
00:18:45,925 --> 00:18:49,060
I was begging her
to come down here.
551
00:18:49,129 --> 00:18:51,629
And then she found out
she had family down here.
552
00:18:51,698 --> 00:18:53,464
It all worked, you know?
553
00:18:53,533 --> 00:18:54,665
- Oh, thank you.
554
00:18:54,734 --> 00:18:56,033
- So what do you think
we need to do
555
00:18:56,102 --> 00:18:59,003
to bring the family together?
556
00:18:59,072 --> 00:19:00,938
- I mean, how closer
do we need to get?
557
00:19:01,007 --> 00:19:02,440
I feel like everything's fine.
558
00:19:02,509 --> 00:19:04,375
- This is a blended family.
559
00:19:04,444 --> 00:19:05,610
- We shouldn't rush things,
you know?
560
00:19:05,678 --> 00:19:07,078
- Rush?
The hell you mean rush?
561
00:19:07,147 --> 00:19:08,713
- We fine. We--we--
562
00:19:08,781 --> 00:19:10,848
- Why you--why you making
that face, Yandy, over there?
563
00:19:10,917 --> 00:19:15,153
- I knew it. You lied.
This is you, what you want.
564
00:19:15,221 --> 00:19:16,354
It's not Lil Mendeecees.
565
00:19:16,422 --> 00:19:17,822
He's just getting
used to the fact
566
00:19:17,891 --> 00:19:20,625
that his mom has a new fiancé.
567
00:19:20,693 --> 00:19:23,661
Please listen to the boy.
568
00:19:23,730 --> 00:19:25,930
- What do you think should
happen that could bring,
569
00:19:25,999 --> 00:19:27,999
you know,
our blended family together?
570
00:19:28,067 --> 00:19:29,567
You know, they about
to get married.
571
00:19:29,636 --> 00:19:30,735
That's a huge step.
572
00:19:30,803 --> 00:19:32,203
- My mom's marrying the guy.
573
00:19:32,272 --> 00:19:33,704
I'm not marrying the guy.
I don't know what he like.
574
00:19:33,773 --> 00:19:36,574
- Yeah, but if she marry him,
that's your step-dad.
575
00:19:36,643 --> 00:19:38,709
- Nah, relax.
- Relax?
576
00:19:38,778 --> 00:19:40,811
- Relax.
577
00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,048
I think I should get to know
him first before y'all.
578
00:19:44,117 --> 00:19:45,216
- That's fair, Mendeecees.
- Yeah.
579
00:19:45,285 --> 00:19:46,450
I mean, listen.
I respect--
580
00:19:46,519 --> 00:19:47,919
- You gotta listen.
- Nah, I respect that.
581
00:19:47,987 --> 00:19:49,420
- You know, he's with my mom,
582
00:19:49,489 --> 00:19:52,657
so I'm gonna make sure
she in the right hands.
583
00:19:52,725 --> 00:19:54,425
- You sounding real grown man
right now.
584
00:19:54,494 --> 00:19:55,526
- I'm a grown man.
585
00:19:55,595 --> 00:19:56,961
- I like that.
- I've been a grown man.
586
00:19:57,030 --> 00:19:59,197
- He's a smart boy.
He's gonna tell you what it is.
587
00:19:59,265 --> 00:20:00,531
- Thank you, Yandy.
588
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,066
- I see what you're doing,
Mendeecees.
589
00:20:02,135 --> 00:20:04,302
You're trying to prove to me
that you wasn't lying, right?
590
00:20:04,370 --> 00:20:07,104
So you trying to make your son
get on your side
591
00:20:07,173 --> 00:20:09,640
when he's just an honest kid,
so he's gonna be honest.
592
00:20:09,709 --> 00:20:11,742
Stop.
You lose this one.
593
00:20:11,811 --> 00:20:13,744
Mendeecees, you know me
and you always.
594
00:20:13,813 --> 00:20:15,580
- Yeah, I know.
- We always.
595
00:20:15,648 --> 00:20:17,515
- Yeah. We always.
[Lil Mendeecees laughs]
596
00:20:17,584 --> 00:20:19,116
- I think, now that I'm back,
597
00:20:19,185 --> 00:20:20,918
it's starting
to feel like the old times.
598
00:20:20,987 --> 00:20:22,186
- Mm-hmm.
599
00:20:22,255 --> 00:20:23,788
- And it's starting to feel
like it's normal.
600
00:20:23,856 --> 00:20:25,122
- Mm-hmm.
601
00:20:25,191 --> 00:20:26,190
- So when I was gone,
a lot of things happening.
602
00:20:26,259 --> 00:20:27,558
- You right.
603
00:20:27,627 --> 00:20:28,659
- You know, we able to put
the past in the past,
604
00:20:28,728 --> 00:20:30,895
and we all moving forward
like adults.
605
00:20:30,964 --> 00:20:36,067
Let's bring the blended family
together, and make it work.
606
00:20:36,135 --> 00:20:38,536
♪ ♪
607
00:20:38,605 --> 00:20:40,638
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
608
00:20:40,707 --> 00:20:41,939
- The Meda situation.
- Yes.
609
00:20:42,008 --> 00:20:43,307
- I don't even know
where that came from, bro.
610
00:20:43,376 --> 00:20:44,609
- You don't know
where that came?
611
00:20:44,677 --> 00:20:45,776
So it's not true?
- No. What?
612
00:20:45,845 --> 00:20:47,044
- I don't--
- Bro.
613
00:20:47,113 --> 00:20:48,145
- I'm asking.
- Stop playing.
614
00:20:48,214 --> 00:20:50,014
- What had happened
at that reunion,
615
00:20:50,083 --> 00:20:52,817
where my mom was,
you know, physically touched,
616
00:20:52,885 --> 00:20:54,118
I was young.
- Yeah.
617
00:20:54,187 --> 00:20:56,487
- Having to see that on TV.
- It was horrible.
618
00:20:56,556 --> 00:20:58,689
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
619
00:21:01,494 --> 00:21:02,693
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
620
00:21:02,762 --> 00:21:04,395
- ♪ Man, it's up ♪
621
00:21:04,464 --> 00:21:06,530
♪ Then it be for real 'cause
you know I ain't a bluff ♪
622
00:21:06,599 --> 00:21:09,934
♪ Money comin' in,
I had to get it on the month ♪
623
00:21:10,003 --> 00:21:11,369
♪ All up in my lane ♪
624
00:21:11,437 --> 00:21:13,371
♪ I left them haters
in the dust, yeah ♪
625
00:21:13,439 --> 00:21:15,106
♪ 'Cause it's up, yeah ♪
626
00:21:15,174 --> 00:21:16,807
- And what if
I just swept my ball
627
00:21:16,876 --> 00:21:18,109
in the direction
I want it to go?
628
00:21:18,177 --> 00:21:20,011
Would that count?
- That tennis.
629
00:21:20,079 --> 00:21:22,747
[both chuckle]
That ain't pool.
630
00:21:22,815 --> 00:21:24,982
- I'm up with my brodie oldie,
Chino Dolla.
631
00:21:25,051 --> 00:21:26,384
And this really, like,
the first time I seen him
632
00:21:26,452 --> 00:21:27,551
since the wedding, man,
633
00:21:27,620 --> 00:21:29,353
so we got a lot
of catching up to do.
634
00:21:29,422 --> 00:21:31,022
♪ ♪
635
00:21:31,090 --> 00:21:32,456
Yeah.
636
00:21:32,525 --> 00:21:33,624
- Well, that the best shot
you done made in your life.
637
00:21:33,693 --> 00:21:35,926
- It don't even matter.
I made it, baby.
638
00:21:35,995 --> 00:21:37,561
Listen.
639
00:21:37,630 --> 00:21:40,231
You already know everything
going on with this baby.
640
00:21:40,300 --> 00:21:41,565
- Yeah.
641
00:21:41,634 --> 00:21:43,467
- Ever since the news
went public,
642
00:21:43,536 --> 00:21:46,537
we--you know,
we in a different space,
643
00:21:46,606 --> 00:21:48,139
'cause every day
is a makeup session.
644
00:21:48,207 --> 00:21:49,573
- I'm sure it is.
645
00:21:49,642 --> 00:21:50,908
- It's only a small circle
of people
646
00:21:50,977 --> 00:21:52,276
that know about this baby.
647
00:21:52,345 --> 00:21:55,413
I let my mama know,
told my dad, I told my pastor,
648
00:21:55,481 --> 00:21:58,182
I told my sister,
and I told Chino.
649
00:21:58,251 --> 00:22:01,285
But you gotta understand,
we was on--we was on a break...
650
00:22:01,354 --> 00:22:02,787
- But do you really think...
- With the situation.
651
00:22:02,855 --> 00:22:04,121
- Then, on a break...
652
00:22:04,190 --> 00:22:05,323
- It wasn't even a break.
653
00:22:05,391 --> 00:22:07,958
We was--it was kind of,
like, you know--
654
00:22:08,027 --> 00:22:10,695
- So you thought it was
over with-over with?
655
00:22:10,763 --> 00:22:13,164
- You know, I conceived
this child back in 2019.
656
00:22:13,232 --> 00:22:14,231
Kendra and I were still,
657
00:22:14,300 --> 00:22:17,401
you know what I'm saying,
engaged.
658
00:22:17,470 --> 00:22:22,173
I think we were dealing
with some very difficult issues
659
00:22:22,241 --> 00:22:24,775
while on this little break.
I--
660
00:22:24,844 --> 00:22:27,178
one-night stand turned
into a lifetime of commitment
661
00:22:27,246 --> 00:22:28,279
to a whole nother child.
662
00:22:28,348 --> 00:22:29,980
- I mean,
be honest to yourself.
663
00:22:30,049 --> 00:22:31,549
- You know what I'm saying?
I didn't want it to be over,
664
00:22:31,617 --> 00:22:34,518
but I got caught up
in the situation.
665
00:22:34,587 --> 00:22:35,953
I thought that was done,
666
00:22:36,022 --> 00:22:40,157
and shorty came back like,
boom.
667
00:22:40,226 --> 00:22:41,459
- Okay.
- "You know, I'm preggo."
668
00:22:41,527 --> 00:22:42,827
Somedays, you just be like,
669
00:22:42,895 --> 00:22:44,829
"Man, like,
how this even happen?"
670
00:22:44,897 --> 00:22:46,130
You know what I'm saying?
671
00:22:46,199 --> 00:22:48,599
Somebody gonna say,
"No rubbers."
672
00:22:48,668 --> 00:22:51,535
Actually, there was
a condom involved.
673
00:22:51,604 --> 00:22:54,338
But instead of me
just coming on out,
674
00:22:54,407 --> 00:22:56,374
maybe came out the sides
of the condom, man.
675
00:22:56,442 --> 00:22:58,242
And...
676
00:22:58,311 --> 00:23:02,646
and yeah, the DNA was like,
"Yeah, boy. That's yours."
677
00:23:02,715 --> 00:23:06,016
- You dropped a bomb
on her that--boy.
678
00:23:06,085 --> 00:23:07,718
- It was the hardest thing
in the world to do, bro.
679
00:23:07,787 --> 00:23:09,286
- I commend you
for telling her.
680
00:23:09,355 --> 00:23:12,056
- So now, my question is
the whole Meda thing.
681
00:23:12,125 --> 00:23:14,458
Do I just ignore it
or just step to the situation?
682
00:23:14,527 --> 00:23:15,860
- You can't ignore it.
683
00:23:15,928 --> 00:23:16,927
- I'm really--I'm at the point
where I'm like, hey, man,
684
00:23:16,996 --> 00:23:18,095
I don't know
what you doing, but--
685
00:23:18,164 --> 00:23:19,530
- You can't ignore it.
686
00:23:19,599 --> 00:23:21,532
You gotta take responsibility
for your own stuff.
687
00:23:21,601 --> 00:23:23,667
- What do you mean?
The Meda situation--
688
00:23:23,736 --> 00:23:25,002
- Yes.
689
00:23:25,071 --> 00:23:26,337
- I don't even know
where that came from, bro.
690
00:23:26,406 --> 00:23:27,405
- You don't know where that
came--so, it's not true?
691
00:23:27,473 --> 00:23:28,806
- No, it's not.
What? Bro.
692
00:23:28,875 --> 00:23:30,674
- I don't--I'm asking.
- Stop playing with me, bro.
693
00:23:30,743 --> 00:23:32,576
If it was receipts,
it'd be there,
694
00:23:32,645 --> 00:23:34,412
because you--on one hand,
you get up and say,
695
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,847
"Oh, I ain't messed
with him since 2019."
696
00:23:36,916 --> 00:23:39,383
So if that's the case,
then why even bring it up?
697
00:23:39,452 --> 00:23:40,684
And that's not even factual.
698
00:23:40,753 --> 00:23:42,219
That's not even
no truth in that.
699
00:23:42,288 --> 00:23:44,588
I think Meda still loves me.
700
00:23:44,657 --> 00:23:46,023
And it's deeper
than just loving me.
701
00:23:46,092 --> 00:23:48,058
I think she doesn't want
to see me with Kendra.
702
00:23:48,127 --> 00:23:51,562
- So you got issues like--
- Ooh!
703
00:23:51,631 --> 00:23:54,565
- You want me to tell you
the best ammunition for that?
704
00:23:54,634 --> 00:23:58,202
Sit down with her and Kendra.
705
00:23:58,271 --> 00:24:00,337
- Man, you don't threw
my shot off with that [bleep].
706
00:24:00,406 --> 00:24:01,405
- Nah.
- Kendra--
707
00:24:01,474 --> 00:24:02,740
- But what I'm--
what I'm saying--
708
00:24:02,809 --> 00:24:04,875
- Listen, here's the thing.
Protect the nest.
709
00:24:04,944 --> 00:24:06,043
So saying,
I don't even want to--
710
00:24:06,112 --> 00:24:07,244
- What can she do?
711
00:24:07,313 --> 00:24:08,579
- It ain't about
what she could do.
712
00:24:08,648 --> 00:24:10,247
It's almost like,
why am I gonna even
713
00:24:10,316 --> 00:24:13,984
allow you enough power
to damn near summon me
714
00:24:14,053 --> 00:24:18,088
and my lady to meet with you
to clear the air?
715
00:24:18,157 --> 00:24:19,790
I almost don't even
want to see her,
716
00:24:19,859 --> 00:24:21,192
'cause I'm like,
717
00:24:21,260 --> 00:24:22,626
I don't want to see this side
of this person
718
00:24:22,695 --> 00:24:24,061
that I never seen before.
It's like, if I'm gonna say so,
719
00:24:24,130 --> 00:24:27,131
Meda was one of my good friends
in real life.
720
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,434
So for this to be happening,
I'm like, for what?
721
00:24:30,503 --> 00:24:33,571
- All I can say is...
722
00:24:33,639 --> 00:24:36,373
everything done in the dark
723
00:24:36,442 --> 00:24:37,808
come to the light.
724
00:24:37,877 --> 00:24:44,915
♪ ♪
725
00:24:48,321 --> 00:24:51,222
- ♪ Yeah, I'm stompin'
with the big dogs ♪
726
00:24:51,290 --> 00:24:55,059
♪ ♪
727
00:24:55,127 --> 00:24:56,760
- Hi! [indistinct]
Hi!
728
00:24:56,829 --> 00:24:58,629
- She stinks!
- [squeals]
729
00:24:58,698 --> 00:24:59,930
When I grew up
in Grant Projects,
730
00:24:59,999 --> 00:25:01,298
I had responsibility.
731
00:25:01,367 --> 00:25:03,968
These kids don't know
nothing about that.
732
00:25:04,036 --> 00:25:07,938
So today,
we are going to wash the dog.
733
00:25:08,007 --> 00:25:10,174
Did you get warm water?
That water's freezing cold!
734
00:25:10,243 --> 00:25:12,776
- And?
- [laughing] He said, "and?"
735
00:25:12,845 --> 00:25:14,311
- Don't say "and"
to your mother.
736
00:25:14,380 --> 00:25:15,579
Now, hurry up, Omare.
737
00:25:15,648 --> 00:25:16,981
Get some warm water.
She's freezing.
738
00:25:17,049 --> 00:25:18,849
- [indistinct]
- Go!
739
00:25:18,918 --> 00:25:21,418
Now that I know the truth
about who really wants
740
00:25:21,487 --> 00:25:23,621
this blended family thing
to happen,
741
00:25:23,689 --> 00:25:25,489
I need to speak
to Lil Mendeecees,
742
00:25:25,558 --> 00:25:27,858
'cause this has been
a really big year for him.
743
00:25:27,927 --> 00:25:30,661
He's living with us
in a whole new city.
744
00:25:30,730 --> 00:25:34,031
His mom just moved here,
and she's newly engaged.
745
00:25:34,100 --> 00:25:35,966
There's so much
happening in his world,
746
00:25:36,035 --> 00:25:37,601
and I just want
to take a moment
747
00:25:37,670 --> 00:25:39,203
to just get in his headspace.
748
00:25:39,272 --> 00:25:41,705
Yo, your father
the other night?
749
00:25:41,774 --> 00:25:43,007
What was that about?
750
00:25:43,075 --> 00:25:45,009
- I don't know, man.
He just kept going crazy.
751
00:25:45,077 --> 00:25:48,946
- [laughing] He's so weird.
You looked so uncomfortable.
752
00:25:49,015 --> 00:25:50,314
- I felt he was
going too far with it.
753
00:25:50,383 --> 00:25:52,016
Like, he was just--
he was just doing the most.
754
00:25:52,084 --> 00:25:53,617
- "Are you ready
for a new step-dad?"
755
00:25:53,686 --> 00:25:55,152
- Yeah. Like, come on, now.
- [laughing]
756
00:25:55,221 --> 00:25:56,320
- Like, he was just--
757
00:25:56,389 --> 00:25:57,988
it's probably him
being a little jealous.
758
00:25:58,057 --> 00:26:00,357
I think that's what it is.
He--
759
00:26:00,426 --> 00:26:02,560
- Jealous that you might
have another man in your life?
760
00:26:02,628 --> 00:26:03,827
- Don't make it sound
like that.
761
00:26:03,896 --> 00:26:06,163
That just sound weird.
But it's different.
762
00:26:06,232 --> 00:26:07,898
It's unsettling for me
right now.
763
00:26:07,967 --> 00:26:09,300
I'm not used to it.
764
00:26:09,368 --> 00:26:11,869
So the last thing my dad
said to me before he left is,
765
00:26:11,938 --> 00:26:14,171
"Son,
keep this family together."
766
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,806
That's what he told
the eight-year-old me.
767
00:26:15,875 --> 00:26:17,975
- You have two brothers
and a sister.
768
00:26:18,044 --> 00:26:20,210
You'll become
a father figure to them,
769
00:26:20,279 --> 00:26:22,112
so you have to lead
by an example.
770
00:26:22,181 --> 00:26:23,480
- All right.
771
00:26:23,549 --> 00:26:25,015
He wants all of us
to feel love,
772
00:26:25,084 --> 00:26:26,850
and he just wants to bring in
the whole family,
773
00:26:26,919 --> 00:26:30,054
so I can't really blame him,
and I do understand him.
774
00:26:30,122 --> 00:26:32,356
But I just think
everything has its time.
775
00:26:32,425 --> 00:26:34,158
I feel like things is just so
perfect right now, how it is.
776
00:26:34,226 --> 00:26:35,392
- Yeah.
It's true.
777
00:26:35,461 --> 00:26:37,361
- And I just feel like
there's no need to rush.
778
00:26:37,430 --> 00:26:39,363
- I said the same, exact thing.
779
00:26:39,432 --> 00:26:41,899
- He wants everything
to go back to how it was...
780
00:26:41,968 --> 00:26:43,367
- Yeah.
- When he was home.
781
00:26:43,436 --> 00:26:45,569
I don't know if he realizes,
like,
782
00:26:45,638 --> 00:26:47,538
how bad it was
from being inside.
783
00:26:47,607 --> 00:26:48,706
- Yeah.
784
00:26:48,774 --> 00:26:49,807
- When he went away,
785
00:26:49,875 --> 00:26:50,808
everything just completely,
like--
786
00:26:50,876 --> 00:26:52,309
- It went crazy.
787
00:26:52,378 --> 00:26:53,711
All these years,
788
00:26:53,779 --> 00:26:56,213
I've never had a conversation
with Lil Mendeecees
789
00:26:56,282 --> 00:26:58,749
about what happened
at the reunion show.
790
00:26:58,818 --> 00:27:00,918
- Shut your [bleep] mouth!
- Bitch!
791
00:27:00,987 --> 00:27:03,520
[overlapping angry chatter]
792
00:27:03,589 --> 00:27:04,722
- Bitch!
You disrespect me?
793
00:27:04,790 --> 00:27:06,690
[cheers and applause]
794
00:27:06,759 --> 00:27:09,627
- Mendeecees has no idea
of the magnitude
795
00:27:09,695 --> 00:27:12,196
of hurt I had to deal with
while he was gone.
796
00:27:12,264 --> 00:27:13,697
- What had happened
at that reunion...
797
00:27:13,766 --> 00:27:15,699
- Mm-hmm.
- Where my mom was, you know,
798
00:27:15,768 --> 00:27:17,768
physically touched,
I was young.
799
00:27:17,837 --> 00:27:20,738
Having to see that on TV,
having my friends see that.
800
00:27:20,806 --> 00:27:23,040
- It was horrible.
You know, I'm sorry for that.
801
00:27:23,109 --> 00:27:24,808
- I appreciate your apology.
802
00:27:24,877 --> 00:27:26,210
And this is--this is hard,
803
00:27:26,278 --> 00:27:28,812
because this is our first time
ever speaking about this.
804
00:27:28,881 --> 00:27:31,982
- I'm just grateful that,
you know, we're past it.
805
00:27:32,051 --> 00:27:33,250
Like--
- Yeah, me too.
806
00:27:33,319 --> 00:27:38,122
- In the midst of going through
all the attacks,
807
00:27:38,190 --> 00:27:39,657
I did not think about
808
00:27:39,725 --> 00:27:43,594
what effect it would have
on Lil Mendeecees.
809
00:27:43,663 --> 00:27:45,562
So hearing that
he knew what happened,
810
00:27:45,631 --> 00:27:47,731
hearing that they were
talking about it in school--
811
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,466
he was in elementary school.
812
00:27:49,535 --> 00:27:52,536
That breaks my heart, and it
really does make me feel bad.
813
00:27:52,605 --> 00:27:54,238
- I didn't really know
how to treat you
814
00:27:54,306 --> 00:27:56,373
when you and my mom--
when y'all were at odds.
815
00:27:56,442 --> 00:27:57,474
So...
- Yeah.
816
00:27:57,543 --> 00:27:58,676
- That's my fault for that.
817
00:27:58,744 --> 00:28:00,310
- You were a kid.
818
00:28:00,379 --> 00:28:02,680
You owe no one an apology
in this.
819
00:28:02,748 --> 00:28:04,348
You definitely
don't owe me one.
820
00:28:04,417 --> 00:28:06,750
- I feel like it's too soon
to have a dinner.
821
00:28:06,819 --> 00:28:08,018
- Yeah.
822
00:28:08,087 --> 00:28:09,687
Are you going
to break the news to your dad
823
00:28:09,755 --> 00:28:11,989
that a dinner is not your thing
right now?
824
00:28:12,058 --> 00:28:13,524
- Yeah, I'll be sure
to tell him.
825
00:28:13,592 --> 00:28:15,125
- I don't know that I'm, like,
826
00:28:15,194 --> 00:28:19,530
super excited to just sit down
and, you know, all of that.
827
00:28:19,598 --> 00:28:21,965
- Not everything needs to
be said or addressed right now.
828
00:28:22,034 --> 00:28:24,368
- I definitely don't want
to address anything more.
829
00:28:24,437 --> 00:28:25,636
I just want to move on.
830
00:28:25,705 --> 00:28:26,804
- That's what I'm saying.
831
00:28:26,872 --> 00:28:28,005
- Not even right now.
- Yeah.
832
00:28:28,074 --> 00:28:29,640
- That's it.
Let bygones be bygones.
833
00:28:29,709 --> 00:28:32,176
Time should have healed
whatever is broken.
834
00:28:32,244 --> 00:28:33,644
And that's it.
835
00:28:33,713 --> 00:28:36,513
- This talk was well-needed.
- It was. It was good.
836
00:28:36,582 --> 00:28:38,015
- 'Cause my dad was
bugging out.
837
00:28:38,084 --> 00:28:39,383
- I don't know what happened
to Omare
838
00:28:39,452 --> 00:28:41,051
with that bucket of water,
but the doggie--
839
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,519
- He probably got lost
on his way.
840
00:28:42,588 --> 00:28:45,222
- Can you go find him?
- Yeah.
841
00:28:45,291 --> 00:28:46,690
♪ ♪
842
00:28:46,759 --> 00:28:49,059
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
843
00:28:49,128 --> 00:28:50,294
- I gave it all up.
844
00:28:50,362 --> 00:28:53,363
- Ma, you look so good.
- Thank you, girl.
845
00:28:53,432 --> 00:28:55,566
- If you find out
the dates overlap,
846
00:28:55,634 --> 00:28:56,567
I mean, what--
847
00:28:56,635 --> 00:28:58,235
- Girl,
I'ma leave your brother,
848
00:28:58,304 --> 00:29:00,738
because he lied to me.
849
00:29:00,806 --> 00:29:02,673
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
850
00:29:05,444 --> 00:29:07,044
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
851
00:29:07,113 --> 00:29:09,213
- ♪ Open your eyes, we are
headed to another place ♪
852
00:29:09,281 --> 00:29:10,714
♪ Go no fear,
I'm never scared ♪
853
00:29:10,783 --> 00:29:12,449
♪ I got a lot to say ♪
854
00:29:12,518 --> 00:29:14,218
♪ Love a challenge when they
push me to a higher level ♪
855
00:29:14,286 --> 00:29:16,720
♪ Came for all I deserve,
I ain't come for trouble ♪
856
00:29:16,789 --> 00:29:18,889
♪ ♪
857
00:29:18,958 --> 00:29:20,924
- Hey, sis.
- Hey, boo.
858
00:29:20,993 --> 00:29:23,227
- I am visiting
with my sister-in-law, Ebony.
859
00:29:23,295 --> 00:29:25,496
She's Jasiel's second-oldest
sister,
860
00:29:25,564 --> 00:29:27,231
so she's a lot older than me.
861
00:29:27,299 --> 00:29:29,133
She's just a big,
genuine sweetheart.
862
00:29:29,201 --> 00:29:31,235
And ever since
the first day I met Ebony,
863
00:29:31,303 --> 00:29:32,503
like, we just clicked.
864
00:29:32,571 --> 00:29:33,904
It's just been a lot, Eb.
865
00:29:33,973 --> 00:29:35,272
Like, that's why I came
over here, girl, 'cause--
866
00:29:35,341 --> 00:29:36,707
- I knew it was something.
867
00:29:36,776 --> 00:29:39,610
- Ebony is that one person
in Jasiel's family
868
00:29:39,678 --> 00:29:41,945
who knows everything
about our relationship.
869
00:29:42,014 --> 00:29:43,714
You know the stuff
at the wedding.
870
00:29:43,783 --> 00:29:45,616
You already know that
before the wedding, like,
871
00:29:45,684 --> 00:29:46,950
we was dealing with the whole--
872
00:29:47,019 --> 00:29:48,552
- I know.
- The thing with the kid.
873
00:29:48,621 --> 00:29:52,456
- I didn't know how you
would respond to the baby.
874
00:29:52,525 --> 00:29:53,557
- Mm-hmm.
875
00:29:53,626 --> 00:29:54,825
- I thought you
would have walked.
876
00:29:54,894 --> 00:29:56,393
- After having time to reflect,
it's like,
877
00:29:56,462 --> 00:30:00,464
Jasiel told me about it knowing
that it was a higher chance
878
00:30:00,533 --> 00:30:01,932
than not that
I was gonna leave you.
879
00:30:02,001 --> 00:30:03,333
But I didn't.
880
00:30:03,402 --> 00:30:06,837
I was able to accept the fact
that Jasiel could man up
881
00:30:06,906 --> 00:30:09,239
and tell me about the child.
882
00:30:09,308 --> 00:30:12,709
He could have lied, basically,
and he told me the truth, so.
883
00:30:12,778 --> 00:30:16,079
I spoke with Bambi,
and she also had tea.
884
00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,782
You know, remember Meda?
885
00:30:18,851 --> 00:30:21,084
- Is she older?
- Yeah.
886
00:30:21,153 --> 00:30:24,988
So this mother[bleep]
got up at a dinner--
887
00:30:25,057 --> 00:30:26,723
and this came from people,
888
00:30:26,792 --> 00:30:28,992
my friends who was there
who told me about this,
889
00:30:29,061 --> 00:30:32,029
she say,
"Yeah, I been messing with Joc
890
00:30:32,097 --> 00:30:37,134
since 2008 and 2016
and 2017, 2019."
891
00:30:37,203 --> 00:30:39,203
Just, like, rambling off dates,
you know.
892
00:30:39,271 --> 00:30:40,971
So we FaceTimed her.
893
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,873
So I'm like,
"Hey, what's going on?"
894
00:30:42,942 --> 00:30:46,276
like, "Hey. How you doing?"
like, "I'm Kendra. Yeah."
895
00:30:46,345 --> 00:30:48,312
And of course,
your brother like, "What?"
896
00:30:48,380 --> 00:30:50,147
Like, "I've not messed with her
in years."
897
00:30:50,216 --> 00:30:52,783
Now, granted, here--
stay in your seat, now.
898
00:30:52,852 --> 00:30:55,018
He did used to mess
with the lady.
899
00:30:55,087 --> 00:30:56,787
- The question is when?
- Is when?
900
00:30:56,856 --> 00:30:59,356
And some of the dates that
she giving overlaps with me.
901
00:30:59,425 --> 00:31:01,024
And so, it's just like,
902
00:31:01,093 --> 00:31:02,860
why is it so many stories,
you know what I mean?
903
00:31:02,928 --> 00:31:04,561
Especially when
he over here like,
904
00:31:04,630 --> 00:31:06,363
"I have not dealt
with this lady
905
00:31:06,432 --> 00:31:08,098
since I've been with you."
He was like, "I haven't."
906
00:31:08,167 --> 00:31:10,634
- But Kendra, you know
he does things impulsive.
907
00:31:10,703 --> 00:31:11,802
You honestly Joc can sit down
908
00:31:11,871 --> 00:31:13,270
and tell you everything
he's done?
909
00:31:13,339 --> 00:31:14,371
'Cause we know he done--
he's done a lot.
910
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:15,706
My brother got about
911
00:31:15,774 --> 00:31:17,341
four of these little bowls
of [bleep]ups to go.
912
00:31:17,409 --> 00:31:18,742
- I know.
913
00:31:18,811 --> 00:31:20,077
- So you either gonna
have to decide to deal with it
914
00:31:20,145 --> 00:31:22,412
or not to deal with it.
I mean, he does.
915
00:31:22,481 --> 00:31:25,849
- Can Jasiel change?
Is he capable of change?
916
00:31:25,918 --> 00:31:27,484
Yes, he is.
917
00:31:27,553 --> 00:31:32,756
So either he's gonna love and
honor me and be faithful to me,
918
00:31:32,825 --> 00:31:35,726
or he will be single,
and that's just what it is.
919
00:31:35,794 --> 00:31:39,029
Treat me right, do right,
or get the [bleep] on.
920
00:31:39,098 --> 00:31:42,633
- If you find out
that the dates overlap
921
00:31:42,701 --> 00:31:45,002
your relationship with him,
I mean, what--?
922
00:31:45,070 --> 00:31:46,904
- Girl, I'm leaving--
I'ma leave your brother,
923
00:31:46,972 --> 00:31:50,274
because if that's the truth,
that means he sat up
924
00:31:50,342 --> 00:31:52,342
and lied to me in my face
after--
925
00:31:52,411 --> 00:31:54,111
after we were husband and wife.
926
00:31:54,179 --> 00:31:55,779
Like, that's stupid.
927
00:31:55,848 --> 00:31:57,314
I ain't worried about it
one way or another,
928
00:31:57,383 --> 00:31:59,850
'cause one thing,
kids gonna be fine,
929
00:31:59,919 --> 00:32:02,419
whether it's with your brother
or with somebody else, honey.
930
00:32:02,488 --> 00:32:03,921
Okay?
931
00:32:03,989 --> 00:32:05,789
I'm not finna be staying with
somebody who doing me wrong.
932
00:32:05,858 --> 00:32:07,057
I'm not.
933
00:32:07,126 --> 00:32:08,492
♪ ♪
934
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,461
♪ Roll it out slowly,
never lost focus ♪
935
00:32:11,530 --> 00:32:13,130
♪ She was once broken ♪
936
00:32:13,198 --> 00:32:16,300
♪ Hanging on for her life ♪
937
00:32:16,368 --> 00:32:19,102
♪ Now look at her shine ♪
938
00:32:19,171 --> 00:32:21,772
♪ She's on fire,
oh, oh, oh ♪
939
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,975
- Madre.
- Hey.
940
00:32:25,044 --> 00:32:27,144
- Mama.
- What's up?
941
00:32:27,212 --> 00:32:28,445
- Look at you.
942
00:32:28,514 --> 00:32:29,780
- I know.
943
00:32:29,848 --> 00:32:32,749
- You look so good.
Ma!
944
00:32:32,818 --> 00:32:35,252
- Yes, girl.
- Look at you!
945
00:32:35,321 --> 00:32:36,787
- Let me do a little walk
for you.
946
00:32:36,855 --> 00:32:39,823
You ain't seen me in a while.
- Girl, you look so healthy.
947
00:32:39,892 --> 00:32:41,258
- I feel amazing.
- Mama!
948
00:32:41,327 --> 00:32:42,526
- I think it's like--
949
00:32:42,594 --> 00:32:45,429
I didn't count the days,
but I gave it all up.
950
00:32:45,497 --> 00:32:47,331
- Ma, you look so good.
951
00:32:47,399 --> 00:32:48,665
- Thank you, girl.
952
00:32:48,734 --> 00:32:50,033
- You know--I know.
Hell, I was up there.
953
00:32:50,102 --> 00:32:52,436
- I'm back at the shop.
You see the lights on.
954
00:32:52,504 --> 00:32:54,104
I'm working.
- You working.
955
00:32:54,173 --> 00:32:57,941
It feels so good to see my
mama healthy and happy again.
956
00:32:58,010 --> 00:33:01,178
I feel like the conversation
with Eric and his mom
957
00:33:01,246 --> 00:33:02,779
really was a eye-opener.
958
00:33:02,848 --> 00:33:04,982
I really feel like
she's on a great track,
959
00:33:05,050 --> 00:33:06,650
and I really hope
that she just stick to it,
960
00:33:06,719 --> 00:33:08,618
because she got girls
that love her to death
961
00:33:08,687 --> 00:33:10,988
and cannot live life
without her.
962
00:33:11,056 --> 00:33:12,622
I've been so stressed, Ma.
963
00:33:12,691 --> 00:33:14,791
Like, after my house
got broken into,
964
00:33:14,860 --> 00:33:16,326
I'm like--Ma, you already know,
965
00:33:16,395 --> 00:33:19,329
I done been robbed at gunpoint
one time in my life.
966
00:33:19,398 --> 00:33:20,697
And now that this happened,
967
00:33:20,766 --> 00:33:22,299
I don't want to be
in that house.
968
00:33:22,368 --> 00:33:24,468
Trying to get it through
Eric head's like--
969
00:33:24,536 --> 00:33:27,404
we been bumping heads so bad.
970
00:33:27,473 --> 00:33:29,539
I just feel like
he need to understand me
971
00:33:29,608 --> 00:33:30,807
a little bit more.
972
00:33:30,876 --> 00:33:34,444
South Carolina allowed me
to really think about
973
00:33:34,513 --> 00:33:36,980
what I really want
out of a relationship.
974
00:33:37,049 --> 00:33:39,616
And Eric and I
still haven't spoken,
975
00:33:39,685 --> 00:33:42,452
and if we cannot agree
to move forward,
976
00:33:42,521 --> 00:33:45,088
I don't know how our future
is gonna look.
977
00:33:45,157 --> 00:33:46,556
I know I've been MIA.
I'm sorry.
978
00:33:46,625 --> 00:33:48,725
I been having a lot going on.
- I know. Where you been at?
979
00:33:48,794 --> 00:33:53,630
- I just left down from
South Carolina with Renni.
980
00:33:53,699 --> 00:33:57,200
Her mom is in the hospital,
in a coma, Ma.
981
00:33:57,269 --> 00:34:00,103
And I just feel so bad,
because I'm like, damn.
982
00:34:00,172 --> 00:34:01,938
Nobody knows what's
going on with me,
983
00:34:02,007 --> 00:34:03,907
but I'm making sure
that I'm there for her.
984
00:34:03,976 --> 00:34:05,308
- Yeah.
- But I'm not gonna lie.
985
00:34:05,377 --> 00:34:06,476
Being down there with them,
986
00:34:06,545 --> 00:34:07,978
you know what I'm saying,
made me be like,
987
00:34:08,047 --> 00:34:09,713
"I need to get back home
to my mama."
988
00:34:09,782 --> 00:34:11,348
But I just need to come
see you, feel you, touch you...
989
00:34:11,417 --> 00:34:12,582
- Mm-hmm.
990
00:34:12,651 --> 00:34:14,051
- And just tell you
how much I love you.
991
00:34:14,119 --> 00:34:16,920
And, you know--
'cause life is short.
992
00:34:16,989 --> 00:34:19,589
- It's crazy out here.
- Yes.
993
00:34:19,658 --> 00:34:26,596
♪ ♪
994
00:34:26,665 --> 00:34:28,765
- What's up? What's up?
Hey, Ma.
995
00:34:28,834 --> 00:34:30,167
- Ooh!
- How are you?
996
00:34:30,235 --> 00:34:33,270
- What's up, Eric?
- What's up, Si?
997
00:34:33,338 --> 00:34:35,772
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
998
00:34:35,841 --> 00:34:36,840
- These are for you.
999
00:34:36,909 --> 00:34:38,008
You don't look excited
to see me.
1000
00:34:38,077 --> 00:34:39,810
- You went
and bought me dead roses.
1001
00:34:39,878 --> 00:34:41,545
- These are not dead.
1002
00:34:41,613 --> 00:34:43,346
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1003
00:34:46,118 --> 00:34:47,317
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1004
00:34:47,386 --> 00:34:49,519
[dramatic music]
1005
00:34:49,588 --> 00:34:50,654
- Eric.
- What's up, Si?
1006
00:34:50,722 --> 00:34:51,955
- Mom.
- These are for you.
1007
00:34:52,024 --> 00:34:53,723
You don't excited to see me.
1008
00:34:53,792 --> 00:34:55,492
- Hey, Eric.
- Hey, baby. I love you.
1009
00:34:55,561 --> 00:34:58,061
- No, I'm mad.
- Don't be mad.
1010
00:34:58,130 --> 00:34:59,496
- Because it's a lot.
1011
00:34:59,565 --> 00:35:00,730
- Can I get a kiss?
- No.
1012
00:35:00,799 --> 00:35:03,500
Eric, I'm really mad at you.
- Why?
1013
00:35:03,569 --> 00:35:06,069
- We haven't spoken,
and I don't feel good
1014
00:35:06,138 --> 00:35:08,705
about everything
that's going on with us.
1015
00:35:08,774 --> 00:35:10,040
- Life--life is short.
1016
00:35:10,109 --> 00:35:11,208
- And this is your first time
trying to reach out,
1017
00:35:11,276 --> 00:35:12,476
and you know what
I've been going through.
1018
00:35:12,544 --> 00:35:13,910
- I got a fresh haircut
in Atlanta.
1019
00:35:13,979 --> 00:35:14,878
You shouldn't be mad.
1020
00:35:14,947 --> 00:35:16,313
- Yeah,
you got a fresh haircut.
1021
00:35:16,381 --> 00:35:17,481
- I got some flowers.
1022
00:35:17,549 --> 00:35:18,648
- And you went
and bought me dead roses.
1023
00:35:18,717 --> 00:35:20,383
- These are not dead.
- Oh, my God.
1024
00:35:20,452 --> 00:35:21,651
- These look nice.
1025
00:35:21,720 --> 00:35:23,353
And that's your favorite color
in here, too.
1026
00:35:23,422 --> 00:35:26,690
Also, I have a surprise.
- What kind of surprise?
1027
00:35:26,758 --> 00:35:28,992
- Can you stop being mad
and I'll show you?
1028
00:35:29,061 --> 00:35:30,360
Look how you smiling.
You love this.
1029
00:35:30,429 --> 00:35:31,728
- I love a gift.
- Oh, my goodness.
1030
00:35:31,797 --> 00:35:33,697
- She talking about,
"What kind of surprise?"
1031
00:35:33,765 --> 00:35:36,299
- Look how her attitude
just changed.
1032
00:35:36,368 --> 00:35:40,203
- Eric is always trying to do
a grand gesture to get me back.
1033
00:35:40,272 --> 00:35:43,006
But at this point, I'm tired
of breaking up and making up.
1034
00:35:43,075 --> 00:35:44,808
How about
you just don't [bleep] up
1035
00:35:44,877 --> 00:35:46,877
and we don't break up
in the first place?
1036
00:35:46,945 --> 00:35:48,578
Don't be cracking no jokes,
1037
00:35:48,647 --> 00:35:50,714
'cause
I'm still mad at your ass.
1038
00:35:50,782 --> 00:35:51,982
- Honestly, though,
1039
00:35:52,050 --> 00:35:54,451
I really do feel where
you were coming from,
1040
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:55,852
as far as the house
being robbed.
1041
00:35:55,921 --> 00:35:57,854
You know, you can't put a price
on peace of mind.
1042
00:35:57,923 --> 00:36:00,857
When you saying--when you were
saying that you couldn't sleep,
1043
00:36:00,926 --> 00:36:02,192
and you were just having, like,
1044
00:36:02,261 --> 00:36:03,927
thoughts about somebody
breaking in the crib,
1045
00:36:03,996 --> 00:36:05,729
I didn't really think about it
like that, being a man.
1046
00:36:05,797 --> 00:36:07,764
But I do sincerely apologize.
1047
00:36:07,833 --> 00:36:11,368
So please, please, please,
accept my apology
1048
00:36:11,436 --> 00:36:13,303
so we can move forward
and be great.
1049
00:36:13,372 --> 00:36:15,639
- I want to see this--
what you got for me.
1050
00:36:15,707 --> 00:36:18,041
But I can't lie, I do miss you.
1051
00:36:18,110 --> 00:36:21,044
[upbeat music]
1052
00:36:21,113 --> 00:36:22,312
♪ ♪
1053
00:36:22,381 --> 00:36:24,614
Ooh.
1054
00:36:24,683 --> 00:36:25,715
Hey.
- Von.
1055
00:36:25,784 --> 00:36:27,551
- Von!
What you doing here?
1056
00:36:27,619 --> 00:36:29,786
- This is the surprise.
- Is this the surprise?
1057
00:36:29,855 --> 00:36:30,754
- Hey, Von.
1058
00:36:30,822 --> 00:36:32,122
So being away from Sierra,
1059
00:36:32,191 --> 00:36:33,657
I kind of had a little time
to gather my thoughts.
1060
00:36:33,725 --> 00:36:35,659
You said you wanted a condo,
so I went ahead
1061
00:36:35,727 --> 00:36:39,262
and took the initiative
to find us a condo.
1062
00:36:39,331 --> 00:36:41,565
And I'm really and truly
hoping that she likes this,
1063
00:36:41,633 --> 00:36:44,568
because if not,
I'ma be upset again.
1064
00:36:44,636 --> 00:36:45,902
Hey, look around.
1065
00:36:45,971 --> 00:36:47,771
- Are you serious?
- I'm dead serious.
1066
00:36:47,839 --> 00:36:50,907
Even though a condo in Atlanta
wasn't my ideal way of living,
1067
00:36:50,976 --> 00:36:53,610
I still wanted to show how
I'm able to adjust and adapt
1068
00:36:53,679 --> 00:36:56,413
to do whatever I need to do
to make sure that she's happy.
1069
00:36:56,481 --> 00:36:59,216
- How many bedrooms is this?
- Three.
1070
00:36:59,284 --> 00:37:01,818
- As far as gestures go,
this one isn't too bad.
1071
00:37:01,887 --> 00:37:04,588
But I didn't get no say
in this place.
1072
00:37:04,656 --> 00:37:08,358
I get that he's trying,
but he's not really listening.
1073
00:37:08,427 --> 00:37:10,994
We should be making
these decisions together.
1074
00:37:11,063 --> 00:37:15,298
It's not enough room for me
and the kids and you.
1075
00:37:15,367 --> 00:37:16,533
- This?
1076
00:37:16,602 --> 00:37:18,702
- So--no, it's not, Eric.
The rooms are tiny.
1077
00:37:18,770 --> 00:37:20,103
- Now, I don't know
1078
00:37:20,172 --> 00:37:21,638
if this is really about
the condo being small,
1079
00:37:21,707 --> 00:37:22,973
but I don't like
1080
00:37:23,041 --> 00:37:24,474
how she's starting
to make me feel again,
1081
00:37:24,543 --> 00:37:25,875
because I really tried
my hardest
1082
00:37:25,944 --> 00:37:27,877
to make sure that she's good
and that I'm also good.
1083
00:37:27,946 --> 00:37:29,980
You have other options
that we could see, right?
1084
00:37:30,048 --> 00:37:31,581
- Mm-hmm.
1085
00:37:31,650 --> 00:37:33,950
- It's like, I'm damned
if I do, damned if I don't.
1086
00:37:34,019 --> 00:37:35,552
She doesn't know what
she wants
1087
00:37:35,621 --> 00:37:37,187
or how to communicate
what she wants.
1088
00:37:37,256 --> 00:37:38,989
And I hope she's not
playing around with me.
1089
00:37:39,057 --> 00:37:40,090
- Thank you.
- So now we know, like,
1090
00:37:40,158 --> 00:37:41,424
the pros and cons
of what she likes.
1091
00:37:41,493 --> 00:37:42,959
We need something bigger.
1092
00:37:43,028 --> 00:37:44,661
- We are trying to so hard
in this relationship,
1093
00:37:44,730 --> 00:37:46,229
but it's just
something missing.
1094
00:37:46,298 --> 00:37:48,331
And you can't just
be selling me on stuff.
1095
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,334
I'm starting to wonder
will we ever see eye-to-eye?
1096
00:37:51,403 --> 00:37:53,703
You still in the doghouse,
mother[bleep].
1097
00:37:53,772 --> 00:37:56,373
Don't get too cute.
[chuckles]
1098
00:37:56,441 --> 00:37:58,708
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1099
00:38:01,513 --> 00:38:02,879
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1100
00:38:02,948 --> 00:38:04,881
[crickets chirping]
1101
00:38:04,950 --> 00:38:07,917
[soft dramatic music]
1102
00:38:07,986 --> 00:38:11,421
♪ ♪
1103
00:38:11,490 --> 00:38:14,624
- That's my mama.
- I's the mama.
1104
00:38:14,693 --> 00:38:21,731
♪ ♪
1105
00:38:26,071 --> 00:38:31,474
- So after a month
in the hospital,
1106
00:38:31,543 --> 00:38:35,111
too many surgeries to count,
um...
1107
00:38:35,180 --> 00:38:37,947
today,
my mom took her last breath.
1108
00:38:38,016 --> 00:38:41,084
And that's kind of
1109
00:38:41,153 --> 00:38:43,753
something we were
preparing for.
1110
00:38:43,822 --> 00:38:45,522
Um...
1111
00:38:45,590 --> 00:38:48,825
it's just hard.
1112
00:38:48,894 --> 00:38:50,994
I mean, I'm happy
that me and my mom
1113
00:38:51,063 --> 00:38:53,363
got to patch
our relationship up
1114
00:38:53,432 --> 00:38:55,165
and say the things we needed
to say to each other
1115
00:38:55,233 --> 00:38:58,201
and actually, like, spend
our last couple months together
1116
00:38:58,270 --> 00:39:02,305
just loving one another
and being nice to one another.
1117
00:39:02,374 --> 00:39:04,474
You know, my mom loved
seeing me on that stage.
1118
00:39:04,543 --> 00:39:06,209
My mom was my number one fan.
1119
00:39:06,278 --> 00:39:09,346
Like, no matter what,
we could be at our worst,
1120
00:39:09,414 --> 00:39:11,147
and she was
not gonna miss a show.
1121
00:39:11,216 --> 00:39:12,615
So like,
1122
00:39:12,684 --> 00:39:15,652
I feel like I owe this to her
to continue to do that.
1123
00:39:15,721 --> 00:39:17,153
♪ ♪
1124
00:39:17,222 --> 00:39:20,190
I started working on this song
about a year ago.
1125
00:39:20,258 --> 00:39:22,058
She was always like,
"You gonna finish my song?
1126
00:39:22,127 --> 00:39:24,861
You gonna finish my song?"
So now, I'm finishing it.
1127
00:39:24,930 --> 00:39:29,366
And it's just everything
that I would say to her,
1128
00:39:29,434 --> 00:39:33,903
everything that she's--
means to me, taught me.
1129
00:39:33,972 --> 00:39:36,306
You know,
it's just my ode to her.
1130
00:39:36,375 --> 00:39:37,941
You know this a priority.
1131
00:39:38,009 --> 00:39:39,876
The definition of a mother
in the dictionary
1132
00:39:39,945 --> 00:39:43,413
is a woman in relation
to her child or children.
1133
00:39:43,482 --> 00:39:45,014
And that's just not enough,
1134
00:39:45,083 --> 00:39:47,384
'cause you so much more
than that. Yeah.
1135
00:39:47,452 --> 00:39:49,419
♪ Listen, mama,
Hope I'm making you proud ♪
1136
00:39:49,488 --> 00:39:50,920
♪ I came a long way
from fighting ♪
1137
00:39:50,989 --> 00:39:52,389
♪ And you kicking me out ♪
1138
00:39:52,457 --> 00:39:54,391
♪ I know you still
be trying to figure me out ♪
1139
00:39:54,459 --> 00:39:56,025
♪ Been through some [bleep]
and called it quits ♪
1140
00:39:56,094 --> 00:39:57,527
♪ And threw fits ♪
1141
00:39:57,596 --> 00:39:58,895
♪ Thought you lost your baby,
but look at me now ♪
1142
00:39:58,964 --> 00:40:00,363
♪ I was lost for a while ♪
1143
00:40:00,432 --> 00:40:01,731
♪ I found my way back home ♪
1144
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,032
♪ Owning all my mistakes ♪
1145
00:40:03,101 --> 00:40:04,601
♪ 'Cause you ain't
did [bleep] wrong ♪
1146
00:40:04,669 --> 00:40:06,169
♪ Should have been had
this talk ♪
1147
00:40:06,238 --> 00:40:07,570
♪ 'Cause it been too long ♪
1148
00:40:07,639 --> 00:40:09,205
♪ Just want to give you
all your flowers ♪
1149
00:40:09,274 --> 00:40:10,740
♪ 'fore my chance be gone ♪
1150
00:40:10,809 --> 00:40:12,675
♪ ♪
1151
00:40:21,553 --> 00:40:22,585
- Next time
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
1152
00:40:22,654 --> 00:40:26,356
- Congratulations
on your engagement!
1153
00:40:26,425 --> 00:40:28,291
Let me see, let me see!
1154
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,260
- I don't know how to adjust
to the change.
1155
00:40:30,328 --> 00:40:33,296
I'm not Money Monster Sierra
no more.
1156
00:40:33,365 --> 00:40:36,332
- Sierra,
you can't beat him down,
1157
00:40:36,401 --> 00:40:39,302
drag him, and then use him
for what you want,
1158
00:40:39,371 --> 00:40:43,006
and then say, "Okay, Eric,
you're the problem.
1159
00:40:43,074 --> 00:40:44,774
- A DNA test is
on your horizon.
1160
00:40:44,843 --> 00:40:46,476
- This is why I have
to get out of this.
1161
00:40:46,545 --> 00:40:48,211
- When I was young,
I wanted to see my mama
1162
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,380
and daddy together,
so once we break that up,
1163
00:40:50,449 --> 00:40:52,282
other dudes come in,
want to feel like,
1164
00:40:52,350 --> 00:40:54,951
"Oh, this Safaree, baby,"
you know what I'm saying?
1165
00:40:55,020 --> 00:40:58,154
[dramatic music]
1166
00:40:58,223 --> 00:41:00,290
- Oh, what the [bleep]?
1167
00:41:00,358 --> 00:41:01,558
- We dropped bombs,
1168
00:41:01,626 --> 00:41:02,592
but you already knew
the bomb was coming.
1169
00:41:02,661 --> 00:41:03,827
- Well, I knew--
1170
00:41:03,895 --> 00:41:05,061
- And you gave us a reaction
that was, like,
1171
00:41:05,130 --> 00:41:07,497
from somebody
who's just finding out.
1172
00:41:07,566 --> 00:41:09,833
- Come up here
and give your dad a hug.
1173
00:41:09,901 --> 00:41:11,668
- He's never been in my life.
1174
00:41:11,736 --> 00:41:13,470
- [bleep] off!
- You can kiss my ass.
1175
00:41:13,538 --> 00:41:14,671
- You know,
as a matter of fact...
1176
00:41:14,739 --> 00:41:16,506
- No!
- You can get the [bleep] out.
1177
00:41:16,575 --> 00:41:17,807
- No!