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- Previously on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta."
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- You gotta learn
how to compromise.
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- I walked away from everything
in New York,
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so you can't say compromise.
I've compromised so much.
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- We haven't spoken,
and I don't feel good
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about everything
that's going on with us.
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And you went
and bought me dead roses.
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- Hello, Richard!
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- You gotta hold me.
Welcome back.
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- What the [bleep]
is Erica Mena and you doing?
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- Y'all just [bleep] trying
to put me in the corner.
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- Okay--
- So you know what?
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- No, no, no.
- I'm out of here.
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[laughter]
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- After a month
in the hospital,
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today, my mom
took her last breath.
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It's just hard.
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- Some woman said
that her stepsister
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has a baby by Joc.
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- I'm having to pretend
I didn't know about the baby.
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I look like a fool right now.
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- We need to really have a talk
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and try to mend you
and your daddy's relationship.
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- Every time I say, "Come,"
you never show up.
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It's been like that
all my life.
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- You know what?
I'ma tell you what's up--
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- No, don't tell me [bleep].
[bleep] you!
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Stay out of my life!
I don't give a [bleep]!
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[upbeat hip-hop music]
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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- ♪ It's the life
I'm living in ♪
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♪ It's the life that I chose ♪
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♪ It's the life
I'm living in ♪
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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♪ It's the life that I chose ♪
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- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
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[upbeat hip-hop music]
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- ♪ Know what I mean ♪
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♪ Know what I mean ♪
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♪ You gotta know what I mean,
know what I mean ♪
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♪ Know what I mean,
you gotta know what I mean ♪
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♪ Know what I mean ♪
- ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
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Crip!
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♪ Lean back
when I leave, [bleep] ♪
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♪ When we looking
this clean, [bleep] ♪
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♪ How you smiling
no cheese, [bleep] ♪
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♪ This baccarat
make you cease, [bleep] ♪
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♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
Straight!
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You know, there's been
a lot of things that's done
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to try to make the divorce hell
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and make me feel like
I'ma lose my mind,
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but when I'm in the booth
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and I got that music
going through,
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it's like--it's my escape.
Whoo!
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- That was [bleep] fire.
- Whoo!
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That's a hit.
Yo!
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- What up?
- Oh, uh-oh, uh-oh.
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- Nice to see you.
- Hey, bruh.
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- You must be underneath,
I'm saying, right?
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[laughter]
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- What's up?
What's up?
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- What's good?
- See you dripped up.
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- I see you dripped up--
- I'ma let y'all chop it up.
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- All right.
Cool, cool, cool, we here.
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- All right, I'll see y'all.
- What's up, bro?
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You paying for the session?
- Oh, man.
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Yeah, I got my son here.
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He came here so he could lay
down something too, you know?
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- I wanna hit some.
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- Oh, what?
You a rapper now?
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- Yeah, just beginning,
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but you never know
where it could take you.
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You could really
go far with it.
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- You got like a star quality.
That's dope.
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- Thanks.
- How old are you now?
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- 16.
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- Everything with the music,
it comes from within,
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so go in the b-room.
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There's another studio
right there.
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- All right, I got y'all.
- Go write a 16.
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- Appreciate you.
- Write a 16, bring it back.
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I wanna chop it up
with your pops.
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- All right, I got you.
I appreciate you.
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- Stay focused.
- All right, I got y'all.
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- Stay off your phone.
- No promises.
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- So what's up?
What's up with you?
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What's new, bro?
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I ain't see you
in a minute, [bleep].
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- I've been working, man.
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I've been busy
with the restaurant
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and my baby mother, Samantha,
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Mendeecees' mother,
she moved down here.
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- Damn!
How is that?
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- It's cool because she allowed
Mendeecees to live with us,
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and he's doing great.
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- And her and Yandy, they cool?
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- They okay.
They cordial.
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You know, a lot of things
happened in the past.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Wait, wait, wait,
did you call me a bitch?
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- I called you
a [bleep] bitch 'cause--
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- Are you out
of your [bleep] mind?
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- What the [bleep]
you gonna do?
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- Is she crazy?
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- I still feel like, you know,
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time heals everything,
and we can move past this.
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So I know Little Mendeecees
don't want this to happen.
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What do you think we need to do
to bring the family together?
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- We shouldn't rush things,
you know?
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- Rushing?
What do mean rush?
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- I just think everything
has its time.
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- But I'ma do my best
to work on this.
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So how's it feel to be,
you know, a father?
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- Now, I'm starting to see,
like, when the personality
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comes through,
you know what I'm saying?
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I wanna be with them
all the time.
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And then, with Legend,
it's like--it's like
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he's so beautiful
when I look at him,
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but I'm like, "Yo, why
he don't look nothing like me?"
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Do you see it in my pictures?
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- Yeah, he looks
just like your daughter.
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They look--your kids
look alike, bro.
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- You think so?
- Yeah.
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- When I see my daughter,
I see me when I was younger.
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I see that all day.
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- But you still got to give him
time to develop.
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- I feel like--
- I see like you questioning.
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You in doubt right now.
Did you get a test?
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- No, I never did that.
You know, it's crossed my mind.
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[dramatic orchestral music]
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I'm not just pulling this out
of my six-pack for no reason.
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Like, when Erica got pregnant,
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me and her were
not on good terms.
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So what?
You're pregnant?
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- We're pregnant.
Say something.
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♪ ♪
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- I don't trust nobody.
- Yeah, man.
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Listen, see, Rich Dollaz--
we was talking--
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me, him, and Kirk.
It was at Joc's wedding.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- And, you know, he made
a reference to your wife, Mena.
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- Like, I look
at Erica and Safaree,
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ain't no rhyme or reason.
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Sometimes, [bleep] don't work.
'Cause, I mean, [bleep].
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When we be speaking, she be
saying something different.
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- Y'all still be speaking?
- Oh, yeah, we talk.
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- Then I saw on Instagram
a clip of the reunion show
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where Rich was rubbing her leg
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and telling her he still
love her and stuff like that.
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- You love me, you [bleep].
- No, you love me.
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- Yo, I'm out.
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- You know, me and Rich,
we always been cool,
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but, I ain't going to lie,
like, you know,
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that definitely is--
comes across as disrespectful.
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When it comes to Rich,
I'm not surprised,
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but there's just a man code
that we just don't do,
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like, no matter what.
So, Rich, you tripping.
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I appreciate you
letting me know.
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I definitely need
to talk to him
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about that and see what's up.
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- ♪ Do you like
what you see? ♪
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♪ 'Cause you know
I ride high ♪
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♪ Eyes up here
'cause you know I stay fly ♪
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♪ Boy, I know you like it ♪
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♪ Tell me how you like it ♪
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♪ All about me and you know
that's how I like it ♪
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[hip-hop music]
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- Hey, babe.
- Hey.
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- My best friend Jodi
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has been with me
every step of my way.
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Me having my daughter
at a young age with BK,
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breaking up with him,
the situation with my sisters.
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Like, she has never
left my side.
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So her opinion
really matters to me.
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Oh my God, Best,
we need to have a conversation.
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- I want all the details.
- Where do I start?
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- With the engagement.
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I wish I could've
been there, Best.
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- I wish you were there.
Yes, I am engaged.
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Can you see the ring?
It's beautiful.
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It's 11 carats.
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So let me tell you guys
how Eric proposed.
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He did it so smooth.
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We were at
a big family gathering,
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and I looked down.
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He was on one knee
with a beautiful ring.
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It's so nice.
Wow.
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- You crying?
- Shut up, Eric.
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I'm just like, "I don't know."
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You know, you my best friend.
I talk to you about everything.
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I feel like we connected
by the hip.
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- Okay, so what?
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- Me and Eric
be power tripping.
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In my past relationships,
I was always the boss.
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I was always calling the shots,
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and with Eric, sometimes,
it comes off, like, daddy-ish
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'cause he kind of bossy
a little bit,
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you know what I'm saying?
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- When a real,
true man comes in,
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there's gotta be some
type of compromise, I think.
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- But sometimes,
it just be overbearing.
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I said yes to Eric's proposal
because it let me know
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what type of man I have
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and what he's trying
to promise me for our future,
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but the fact that both of us
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is used to being the alpha
of our relationships,
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is making it so hard
for us to get along.
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- You wanna be married.
You wanna feel secure.
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That's always been a dream
of yours just like--
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- But, Best,
how many rings I gave back?
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- No, Eric is different,
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but I just feel like
that's the good man for you.
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- And I know every relationship
has its problems,
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but I don't wanna rush down
the aisle
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and then rush to a divorce.
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- If you feel all these ways,
why you take the ring?
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- Because I know
that he means great,
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and I know that
he loves me to death,
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and I know that
he's actually good for me.
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I just feel like
I'm so used to...
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- Doing whatever you wanna do.
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- Doing what the [bleep]
I wanna do.
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He coming in for the better,
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but it's like
I've just been so sad.
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I honestly feel like
I'm losing myself.
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[dramatic music]
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Being a teen mom,
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I always had to work hard
for everything I got,
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and the thought
of having a husband
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was always one
of my biggest dreams,
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but after I've grown up
and become so very independent,
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I realized you don't need
a man to feel secure,
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so I just feel like me
and Eric just really got to get
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on one accord and figure out
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if this is really what we
wanna do with one another.
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I gotta go see me a counselor
or somebody
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'cause I gotta
pull myself together.
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- Maybe y'all should
do therapy together.
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- Maybe we should.
I thought about that.
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You always was the one
that could bring me back
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to who I need to be,
so I need you in this time.
242
00:08:45,211 --> 00:08:47,046
- I will give you
my heart right now.
243
00:08:47,046 --> 00:08:49,248
I love you so much, Best.
Like--
244
00:08:49,248 --> 00:08:52,451
- I love you too.
Love you, Best.
245
00:08:52,451 --> 00:08:54,954
- Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
246
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- This is the first time I done
seen you in about seven years.
247
00:08:58,391 --> 00:09:00,793
You've been absentee.
- [bleep] off!
248
00:09:00,793 --> 00:09:03,095
- You can kiss my ass.
- No!
249
00:09:03,095 --> 00:09:04,430
- You can get the [bleep] out!
250
00:09:04,430 --> 00:09:05,731
- After the engagement,
251
00:09:05,731 --> 00:09:07,033
you know, we took a break,
and he
252
00:09:07,033 --> 00:09:08,367
got somebody else pregnant.
253
00:09:08,367 --> 00:09:09,602
- So you knew about it?
- Yeah, yeah.
254
00:09:09,602 --> 00:09:10,770
So the thing is,
I knew about it.
255
00:09:10,770 --> 00:09:12,505
- But why did you act
like you didn't?
256
00:09:12,505 --> 00:09:16,008
- I'm just not ready right now.
I feel like I need some time.
257
00:09:16,008 --> 00:09:17,577
- That's going backwards.
I don't agree.
258
00:09:17,577 --> 00:09:19,078
It don't make sense.
- Are we just breaking up?
259
00:09:19,078 --> 00:09:20,813
- You said it.
Not me.
260
00:09:20,813 --> 00:09:22,782
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
261
00:09:24,835 --> 00:09:26,136
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
262
00:09:26,136 --> 00:09:28,538
- ♪ I would take back ♪
263
00:09:28,538 --> 00:09:31,274
♪ All the things I said ♪
264
00:09:31,274 --> 00:09:33,377
♪ Wish that we
could fake that ♪
265
00:09:33,377 --> 00:09:35,979
♪ But it is what it is ♪
266
00:09:35,979 --> 00:09:38,548
♪ But I can never have it ♪
267
00:09:38,548 --> 00:09:41,118
- Your dad, he should be
pulling up real soon.
268
00:09:41,118 --> 00:09:42,386
- Yeah.
269
00:09:42,386 --> 00:09:43,787
- I've been longing
for this day.
270
00:09:43,787 --> 00:09:47,924
I want y'all to try to resolve
this relationship
271
00:09:47,924 --> 00:09:50,994
to the point
where we can move forward.
272
00:09:50,994 --> 00:09:54,231
- Yeah, all right, well,
273
00:09:54,231 --> 00:09:57,067
get his ass on up in here then.
Where he at?
274
00:09:57,067 --> 00:10:01,071
Since our last conversation
was way left, me and my dad
275
00:10:01,071 --> 00:10:03,306
are in this strange place,
and I'm just like,
276
00:10:03,306 --> 00:10:04,608
"You know what?
277
00:10:04,608 --> 00:10:07,310
Let's keep the space
where it's at, spacious."
278
00:10:07,310 --> 00:10:10,547
But, unfortunately, this is not
what Ms. Shirleen has in mind.
279
00:10:10,547 --> 00:10:11,882
- Your daddy--
280
00:10:11,882 --> 00:10:14,151
- Here we go again
with this [bleep].
281
00:10:14,151 --> 00:10:15,552
- He's here in Atlanta.
282
00:10:15,552 --> 00:10:16,953
- He just popped his ass up
283
00:10:16,953 --> 00:10:19,556
and drove down here
from Decatur, Illinois?
284
00:10:19,556 --> 00:10:21,291
- Mm-hmm.
- Wow.
285
00:10:21,291 --> 00:10:25,796
- Maybe you guys can sit down
and have a decent conversation.
286
00:10:25,796 --> 00:10:27,264
That's what you need to do.
- I mean--
287
00:10:27,264 --> 00:10:29,065
- It needs to be resolved
'cause I'm sick of it myself.
288
00:10:29,065 --> 00:10:32,969
I'm sick and tired of it.
I'm sick of it.
289
00:10:32,969 --> 00:10:37,274
- I can't--I can't even recall
when is the last time
290
00:10:37,274 --> 00:10:39,109
I've seen my dad.
It's been years.
291
00:10:39,109 --> 00:10:40,744
Because we have
always had, like,
292
00:10:40,744 --> 00:10:42,512
a complicated relationship,
but I don't think
293
00:10:42,512 --> 00:10:44,915
this meeting
is gonna change anything.
294
00:10:44,915 --> 00:10:48,452
Honestly, I'm just going along
with it to make my mama happy.
295
00:10:48,452 --> 00:10:49,820
[knocking]
- Oh.
296
00:10:49,820 --> 00:10:51,054
- I ain't seen him in so long.
297
00:10:51,054 --> 00:10:52,789
I'm curious to see
what he look like.
298
00:10:52,789 --> 00:10:54,925
- Let me go ahead
and open this door.
299
00:10:54,925 --> 00:10:57,461
Hey.
- Hey, what's going on.
300
00:10:57,461 --> 00:10:59,896
- Nothing.
How you doing?
301
00:10:59,896 --> 00:11:01,064
- Pretty good.
- Good.
302
00:11:01,064 --> 00:11:02,833
- How about yourself?
- I'm good.
303
00:11:02,833 --> 00:11:04,968
I do have love for Harold.
304
00:11:04,968 --> 00:11:08,371
He's not only my ex-husband,
but he is Rasheeda's dad.
305
00:11:08,371 --> 00:11:11,208
- Hello, sweetheart.
- Hello.
306
00:11:11,208 --> 00:11:13,143
- Come up here
and give your dad a hug.
307
00:11:13,143 --> 00:11:16,246
- I think a meeting
in person is important.
308
00:11:16,246 --> 00:11:18,949
Nobody can hang up,
you can't walk out,
309
00:11:18,949 --> 00:11:21,518
and they can get
everything out.
310
00:11:22,519 --> 00:11:23,720
- What's up?
311
00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:25,322
- Same old thing,
same old thing.
312
00:11:25,322 --> 00:11:26,523
- You can sit down.
313
00:11:26,523 --> 00:11:28,758
- Okay, thank you.
Appreciate it.
314
00:11:30,727 --> 00:11:32,162
What's up, y'all?
315
00:11:32,162 --> 00:11:33,930
- I just been really feeling
some type of way
316
00:11:33,930 --> 00:11:35,632
about you
and Rasheeda's relationship.
317
00:11:35,632 --> 00:11:37,133
- Okay.
318
00:11:37,133 --> 00:11:39,569
- And I just wanted to bring
you and her together.
319
00:11:39,569 --> 00:11:41,571
- Well, you know, we've had
320
00:11:41,571 --> 00:11:43,240
a tenuous relationship
for years.
321
00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:44,508
- Yes.
322
00:11:44,508 --> 00:11:47,110
- But we don't want it
to end that way.
323
00:11:47,110 --> 00:11:49,346
- Mm-hmm.
- That's what I'm hoping for.
324
00:11:49,346 --> 00:11:50,714
- So that's what I'm here for.
- Oh, that's great.
325
00:11:50,714 --> 00:11:52,115
- And that's what I wanna do.
326
00:11:52,115 --> 00:11:55,185
- What made you just get up
and come this time?
327
00:11:55,185 --> 00:11:57,888
- Well, I didn't feel like
you wanted me to--
328
00:11:57,888 --> 00:11:59,422
- Well, that's not true.
- But--
329
00:11:59,422 --> 00:12:00,957
- Because--
- Hold on--
330
00:12:00,957 --> 00:12:02,492
- No.
- Hold on--
331
00:12:02,492 --> 00:12:04,361
- Because it's always been
an open door for you to come.
332
00:12:04,361 --> 00:12:06,363
- No, it ain't been always--
- I don't have to invite you.
333
00:12:06,363 --> 00:12:07,631
You're my dad.
334
00:12:07,631 --> 00:12:08,899
- I didn't
come-- look, you know,
335
00:12:08,899 --> 00:12:10,734
I had a bunch
of medical conditions,
336
00:12:10,734 --> 00:12:13,603
the timing wasn't right,
and so on and so forth.
337
00:12:13,603 --> 00:12:15,138
- This is one thing
I did wanna say.
338
00:12:15,138 --> 00:12:17,374
That last phone conversation
that we had had--
339
00:12:17,374 --> 00:12:20,677
- Oh, the one where you told me
to go [bleep] myself?
340
00:12:20,677 --> 00:12:22,412
- [bleep] you!
Stay out of my life!
341
00:12:22,412 --> 00:12:23,947
I don't give a [bleep]!
342
00:12:23,947 --> 00:12:27,951
- Was I mad? Yes.
But I apologize for that
343
00:12:27,951 --> 00:12:30,353
because that was
the wrong way to handle it.
344
00:12:30,353 --> 00:12:33,123
But I think that there comes
a time in your life
345
00:12:33,123 --> 00:12:35,992
where you can be man enough
to admit your wrongs too.
346
00:12:35,992 --> 00:12:39,329
- Hell, I am man enough.
- Oh, well--
347
00:12:39,329 --> 00:12:40,830
- I say it when I'm wrong.
348
00:12:42,866 --> 00:12:45,201
But I'm not wrong
about anything.
349
00:12:46,736 --> 00:12:48,438
- Not wrong about nothing?
- Yeah.
350
00:12:48,438 --> 00:12:51,875
- Well, our relationship is
the way it is because of you.
351
00:12:51,875 --> 00:12:53,610
[soft dramatic music]
352
00:12:53,610 --> 00:12:55,312
- You gonna put it on me?
353
00:12:55,312 --> 00:12:58,648
- This is the first time I done
seen you in about seven years.
354
00:12:58,648 --> 00:13:00,116
You've been absentee.
- You know what?
355
00:13:00,116 --> 00:13:02,652
- Damn, dad, I'm just trying
to get you to own it.
356
00:13:02,652 --> 00:13:04,621
- Well, I did the best
I could in life.
357
00:13:04,621 --> 00:13:06,089
- You know, you--
358
00:13:06,089 --> 00:13:07,991
- Look how successful
you turned out.
359
00:13:07,991 --> 00:13:09,593
We laid the foundation for you.
360
00:13:09,593 --> 00:13:11,962
- You ain't lay--
we ain't gonna say that.
361
00:13:11,962 --> 00:13:14,097
- Okay, don't say I do.
- I just gotta be 100.
362
00:13:14,097 --> 00:13:17,634
My dad is, like,
one of the most stubborn people
363
00:13:17,634 --> 00:13:20,670
in the world.
He doesn't own up to [bleep].
364
00:13:20,670 --> 00:13:22,505
He has the answer
to every question,
365
00:13:22,505 --> 00:13:24,274
and the words be long as hell.
366
00:13:24,274 --> 00:13:26,176
But, yeah, our [bleep]
is dysfunctional.
367
00:13:26,176 --> 00:13:29,512
- There's a way and a means
that we could come together
368
00:13:29,512 --> 00:13:32,949
and make things more pleasant
for each other
369
00:13:32,949 --> 00:13:35,251
before time runs out.
370
00:13:35,251 --> 00:13:37,120
- But I feel like
there's a lot of things
371
00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,155
that we do need to talk about.
- What?
372
00:13:39,155 --> 00:13:42,125
- You gotta understand,
the way you feel about Kirk,
373
00:13:42,125 --> 00:13:44,728
and the things that you say
about him, that's my life.
374
00:13:44,728 --> 00:13:46,796
That's my husband.
375
00:13:46,796 --> 00:13:48,231
- He had
a previous relationship
376
00:13:48,231 --> 00:13:50,767
where he fathered kids,
ain't that right?
377
00:13:50,767 --> 00:13:52,002
- A few.
A few kids.
378
00:13:52,002 --> 00:13:53,436
- Right, that means
379
00:13:53,436 --> 00:13:55,839
he ducked out
on his responsibility--
380
00:13:55,839 --> 00:13:57,841
- He ain't duck out on nothing.
381
00:13:57,841 --> 00:13:59,476
The crazy part
about my dad and Kirk
382
00:13:59,476 --> 00:14:02,779
is they haven't even
really spent a lot of time
383
00:14:02,779 --> 00:14:04,681
together for him
to even not like Kirk,
384
00:14:04,681 --> 00:14:07,517
and he wanna sit here
and point the finger at a man
385
00:14:07,517 --> 00:14:10,453
when you don't even do what you
supposed to do as a man.
386
00:14:10,453 --> 00:14:12,689
You [bleep] throwing rocks
from a shattered glass house?
387
00:14:12,689 --> 00:14:14,290
You tripping.
Guess what?
388
00:14:14,290 --> 00:14:16,993
He always been a father
to his kids
389
00:14:16,993 --> 00:14:19,829
way more than I can say
for you.
390
00:14:19,829 --> 00:14:21,197
- How do you know what you--
- No!
391
00:14:21,197 --> 00:14:22,298
- Guess what,
he never ducked out--
392
00:14:22,298 --> 00:14:23,967
- Listen,
why did he take your--?
393
00:14:23,967 --> 00:14:25,602
- The same reason why you ain't
394
00:14:25,602 --> 00:14:28,271
with the last several women
your [bleep] been with.
395
00:14:28,271 --> 00:14:31,841
- Well, guess what, that don't
involve you, so [bleep] off!
396
00:14:31,841 --> 00:14:33,943
- You know what?
You can kiss my ass.
397
00:14:33,943 --> 00:14:35,712
- You too.
- No!
398
00:14:35,712 --> 00:14:37,047
- As a matter of fact...
- No!
399
00:14:37,047 --> 00:14:39,449
- You can get the [bleep] out!
- No!
400
00:14:39,449 --> 00:14:40,784
- Get his ass the [bleep] out!
- No, no, no, no, no, no!
401
00:14:40,784 --> 00:14:42,252
No!
402
00:14:42,252 --> 00:14:44,954
- Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
403
00:14:44,954 --> 00:14:47,257
- When I was little,
you was a [bleep] superhero!
404
00:14:47,257 --> 00:14:50,760
As I got older,
I realized what it really was.
405
00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,562
- We need
a goddamn psychiatrist
406
00:14:52,562 --> 00:14:54,164
up in this mother [bleep]!
407
00:14:54,164 --> 00:14:56,599
- Mendeecees told me that Rich
and Erica, they texting again.
408
00:14:56,599 --> 00:14:58,401
- What's your point?
409
00:14:58,401 --> 00:15:00,303
[chips clatter]
410
00:15:00,303 --> 00:15:02,272
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
411
00:15:04,835 --> 00:15:06,303
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
412
00:15:06,303 --> 00:15:09,606
- You can get the [bleep] out!
- No, no, no, no, no!
413
00:15:09,606 --> 00:15:11,274
- Get his ass the [bleep] out!
414
00:15:11,274 --> 00:15:13,210
- No!
Come on now!
415
00:15:13,210 --> 00:15:14,478
- You could've spoke up
416
00:15:14,478 --> 00:15:15,479
a little bit more
at different points.
417
00:15:15,479 --> 00:15:16,947
- She don't have to!
418
00:15:16,947 --> 00:15:18,548
- What she think
she talking about?
419
00:15:18,548 --> 00:15:20,016
- Speak for your [bleep] self!
She ain't gotta speak [bleep]!
420
00:15:20,016 --> 00:15:21,585
The best things she did
was never talked
421
00:15:21,585 --> 00:15:23,553
about your ass to me.
- That's right.
422
00:15:23,553 --> 00:15:25,055
Oh, hell no, Harold.
423
00:15:25,055 --> 00:15:28,125
That's a bunch of [bleep].
I have done everything
424
00:15:28,125 --> 00:15:30,327
I could to get him
and Rasheeda together.
425
00:15:30,327 --> 00:15:32,929
- When I was little,
you was a [bleep] superhero!
426
00:15:32,929 --> 00:15:36,566
As I got older,
I realized what it really was.
427
00:15:36,566 --> 00:15:37,934
- You could have said,
"Rasheeda,
428
00:15:37,934 --> 00:15:39,736
"your dad wasn't
the best of dads,
429
00:15:39,736 --> 00:15:43,340
but he wasn't the worst.
He did care for you."
430
00:15:43,340 --> 00:15:44,641
- Did.
431
00:15:44,641 --> 00:15:46,710
- I don't wanna
rehash this [bleep].
432
00:15:46,710 --> 00:15:48,178
- Sit down.
It's gonna call--
433
00:15:48,178 --> 00:15:49,413
it calls for all that.
434
00:15:49,413 --> 00:15:50,881
Have a sit
'cause I wanna say to you--
435
00:15:50,881 --> 00:15:52,249
- We need
a goddamn psychiatrist
436
00:15:52,249 --> 00:15:53,984
up in this mother [bleep]!
That's what we need.
437
00:15:53,984 --> 00:15:55,619
- Well, that might be
what the [bleep] we need
438
00:15:55,619 --> 00:15:57,587
'cause your ass needs
to talk to somebody.
439
00:15:57,587 --> 00:16:00,791
- You need to also implement
her husband.
440
00:16:00,791 --> 00:16:03,326
- Do you want me to come
and talk to Kirk?
441
00:16:03,326 --> 00:16:05,061
- Of course,
she's been waiting on this
442
00:16:05,061 --> 00:16:06,563
probably all her freaking life.
443
00:16:06,563 --> 00:16:08,331
- Okay, let me--
let me ask you something.
444
00:16:08,331 --> 00:16:11,501
What does Kirk think about me?
445
00:16:11,501 --> 00:16:14,738
I hope he don't think of me
in the same light that you do
446
00:16:14,738 --> 00:16:17,674
because I'ma [bleep] creep.
447
00:16:17,674 --> 00:16:19,376
- You wanna know what Kirk
thinks of you?
448
00:16:19,376 --> 00:16:20,877
Y'all talk about it.
449
00:16:20,877 --> 00:16:22,245
- I really don't give a [bleep]
what he thinks about me.
450
00:16:22,245 --> 00:16:23,447
How you like that?
451
00:16:23,447 --> 00:16:25,115
- Why?
But why?
452
00:16:25,115 --> 00:16:26,783
- He doesn't [bleep]
to hurt you.
453
00:16:26,783 --> 00:16:29,619
- Yes, he did.
- More so than I could ever do.
454
00:16:29,619 --> 00:16:30,854
- Yes,
we have had our problems.
455
00:16:30,854 --> 00:16:32,656
- Okay.
- And you wanna talk about it?
456
00:16:32,656 --> 00:16:34,958
Yeah, we can talk about it.
We went through some [bleep].
457
00:16:34,958 --> 00:16:36,326
He had a [bleep] baby
458
00:16:36,326 --> 00:16:38,228
with a [bleep] another person.
Yes, he did.
459
00:16:38,228 --> 00:16:39,863
- Okay, yeah.
- We went through a lot.
460
00:16:39,863 --> 00:16:42,799
But I've been married
to this man for 22 years now.
461
00:16:42,799 --> 00:16:44,601
You think [bleep]
ain't gonna be [bleep] up?
462
00:16:44,601 --> 00:16:46,403
You and her
didn't last one year.
463
00:16:46,403 --> 00:16:47,671
Come on, dawg.
464
00:16:47,671 --> 00:16:49,606
Like, the reason
why you drove here
465
00:16:49,606 --> 00:16:51,675
is because you know you wrong.
466
00:16:51,675 --> 00:16:54,377
It's like talking
to a brick wall
467
00:16:54,377 --> 00:16:55,879
that talks back to your ass.
468
00:16:55,879 --> 00:16:59,282
- Will you please
come to dinner tomorrow?
469
00:16:59,282 --> 00:17:01,084
- With who?
- Why does it matter?
470
00:17:01,084 --> 00:17:03,987
- I might not wanna be
in their [bleep] company.
471
00:17:03,987 --> 00:17:07,257
- Somebody's gotta give in.
Somebody gotta compromise.
472
00:17:08,458 --> 00:17:10,293
- Okay,
I'll meet with the [bleep].
473
00:17:10,293 --> 00:17:14,798
- Okay, that means a lot.
I'ma come pick you up.
474
00:17:14,798 --> 00:17:17,033
- Cool.
So you can go see him out too.
475
00:17:17,033 --> 00:17:18,802
- All right.
- Thank you.
476
00:17:18,802 --> 00:17:20,370
- All right.
Now come on.
477
00:17:20,370 --> 00:17:21,505
- See you, Rasheeda.
478
00:17:21,505 --> 00:17:24,541
[quirky music]
479
00:17:24,541 --> 00:17:26,943
- ♪ Man, you know
this ain't a thing ♪
480
00:17:26,943 --> 00:17:28,445
♪ Keep that heat up on me ♪
481
00:17:28,445 --> 00:17:30,347
♪ Put that on the gang ♪
482
00:17:30,347 --> 00:17:33,149
♪ Everybody that I'm with,
they lost they brains ♪
483
00:17:33,149 --> 00:17:34,651
♪ I been up all night ♪
484
00:17:34,651 --> 00:17:36,553
♪ I'm trying to hit her back ♪
485
00:17:36,553 --> 00:17:38,822
♪ But it ain't a thing ♪
486
00:17:38,822 --> 00:17:41,591
- My boy Eric
just got engaged to Sierra,
487
00:17:41,591 --> 00:17:42,926
so I felt like it's time
488
00:17:42,926 --> 00:17:45,028
for all the guys
to get together and celebrate,
489
00:17:45,028 --> 00:17:46,730
and we need to gamble
'cause, you know,
490
00:17:46,730 --> 00:17:48,932
Eric just dropped a bag
on that ring,
491
00:17:48,932 --> 00:17:50,834
and he need to get
some of his money back.
492
00:17:50,834 --> 00:17:53,236
Sierra seem to be
draining them pockets.
493
00:17:53,236 --> 00:17:55,171
- My birthday on the 20th.
- 19.
494
00:17:55,171 --> 00:17:58,542
- My birthday is on 4th.
- Mine is the 19th too.
495
00:17:58,542 --> 00:18:00,210
- Mm.
- Whoa, whoa, two!
496
00:18:00,210 --> 00:18:02,245
- Two black.
- Two, two, and I'm on black.
497
00:18:02,245 --> 00:18:03,380
Bow.
- Boom
498
00:18:03,380 --> 00:18:06,082
- Bow.
- Rich, yo!
499
00:18:06,082 --> 00:18:08,151
- What's happening?
- Yo.
500
00:18:08,151 --> 00:18:09,619
- What up, Rich?
- What's good, my [bleep]?
501
00:18:09,619 --> 00:18:10,654
- I'm good.
I'm chilling.
502
00:18:10,654 --> 00:18:11,955
- What's happening?
503
00:18:11,955 --> 00:18:13,223
- It's just time
to find out like,
504
00:18:13,223 --> 00:18:14,891
"Rich, are you gonna
keep it real?
505
00:18:14,891 --> 00:18:16,059
Are you gonna tell me
what's really going on?"
506
00:18:16,059 --> 00:18:17,694
Because that's just slimy.
507
00:18:17,694 --> 00:18:19,529
- Where the money at?
508
00:18:19,529 --> 00:18:21,831
- I don't got no money.
I put my money back.
509
00:18:21,831 --> 00:18:24,301
- Yeah! Yeah!
- Oh, [bleep].
510
00:18:24,301 --> 00:18:26,736
- Congratulations.
- What's up, my guy?
511
00:18:26,736 --> 00:18:28,071
Congratulations.
- Thank you. Thank you.
512
00:18:28,071 --> 00:18:29,506
- The man of the hour.
513
00:18:29,506 --> 00:18:31,174
- Who's sliding me
some chips over here, cuz?
514
00:18:31,174 --> 00:18:32,842
- Here, bro. Boom, boom, boom.
- Oh, wow.
515
00:18:32,842 --> 00:18:35,011
- All that down just 'cause.
- Just like that?
516
00:18:35,011 --> 00:18:37,147
- Gonna go buy me something.
- [chuckles]
517
00:18:37,147 --> 00:18:38,882
- That's that good energy
right there.
518
00:18:38,882 --> 00:18:40,550
- So what's up, Eric?
You guys set a date yet?
519
00:18:40,550 --> 00:18:42,085
- No, we ain't set a date yet.
520
00:18:42,085 --> 00:18:44,187
There's been so much, the house
and everything going on.
521
00:18:44,187 --> 00:18:45,655
We gonna definitely
do it this year,
522
00:18:45,655 --> 00:18:47,490
but we don't have
an official date.
523
00:18:47,490 --> 00:18:49,926
- I say, just take y'all time
doing everything.
524
00:18:49,926 --> 00:18:51,328
Because planning a wedding--
- Right.
525
00:18:51,328 --> 00:18:53,029
- Yeah. Yeah.
- Don't rush into it.
526
00:18:53,029 --> 00:18:54,364
- But she definitely gonna
make you rush into it though.
527
00:18:54,364 --> 00:18:56,132
- Too late!
- You know what I'm saying?
528
00:18:56,132 --> 00:19:00,303
- Yo, hold on a second though.
Joc, Spice had a fashion show.
529
00:19:00,303 --> 00:19:01,838
I heard there was
some drama though.
530
00:19:01,838 --> 00:19:02,806
- He wasn't there.
- I don't know.
531
00:19:02,806 --> 00:19:04,040
I wasn't there.
532
00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:05,308
- I was there,
and Joc wasn't there.
533
00:19:05,308 --> 00:19:07,110
- So what happened?
- My neighbor was there.
534
00:19:07,110 --> 00:19:09,179
- So Meda was at the
fashion show, I'm taking it.
535
00:19:09,179 --> 00:19:10,614
- That's her name?
- Meda.
536
00:19:10,614 --> 00:19:12,616
- You know, me and Kendra,
537
00:19:12,616 --> 00:19:14,351
you know, those getting
married and [bleep],
538
00:19:14,351 --> 00:19:16,052
it's done ruffled
some feathers, I guess,
539
00:19:16,052 --> 00:19:18,989
and she even, you know,
saying little [bleep] like,
540
00:19:18,989 --> 00:19:21,691
"We been kicking it
all the way up to 2019."
541
00:19:21,691 --> 00:19:24,728
- But, Joc, is there any truth?
Is there any truth to this?
542
00:19:24,728 --> 00:19:27,030
- Nah.
No truth, bro.
543
00:19:27,030 --> 00:19:31,001
At this point, I'm really not
trying to give no gas,
544
00:19:31,001 --> 00:19:33,403
no energy,
no attention to Meda.
545
00:19:33,403 --> 00:19:36,640
Like,
for the sake of my marriage,
546
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,308
I gotta shut this [bleep] down.
547
00:19:38,308 --> 00:19:40,977
I don't know what this means
in poker, but what is this?
548
00:19:40,977 --> 00:19:42,579
- Oh, he got a straight.
- Wow.
549
00:19:42,579 --> 00:19:46,249
- Straight!
- What's up with you, Safaree?
550
00:19:46,249 --> 00:19:49,986
Did you talk to Erica
about the paternity test?
551
00:19:51,354 --> 00:19:53,289
- Nah, well, just like
you said, I gotta wait.
552
00:19:53,289 --> 00:19:54,591
- Right.
553
00:19:54,591 --> 00:19:55,625
- You were like,
"Bro, the baby not gonna look
554
00:19:55,625 --> 00:19:57,060
like you right away."
555
00:19:57,060 --> 00:19:58,695
'Cause I'm like, "Why the baby
don't got my goatee yet?
556
00:19:58,695 --> 00:20:00,630
Where his muscles at,
you know what I'm saying?"
557
00:20:00,630 --> 00:20:02,165
- Rich don't got a goatee.
558
00:20:02,165 --> 00:20:04,401
- You want a baby with a beard?
- Oh, man.
559
00:20:04,401 --> 00:20:07,704
- Oh, my God.
- Oh, that real [bleep].
560
00:20:07,704 --> 00:20:10,640
Y'all is tripping, man.
- Listen.
561
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:12,509
- Look, listen, though,
you just reminded me, though,
562
00:20:12,509 --> 00:20:15,045
'cause, you know, Mendeecees,
he told me that Rich and Erica,
563
00:20:15,045 --> 00:20:17,747
they texting again.
I didn't know that.
564
00:20:17,747 --> 00:20:19,315
- What's your point?
565
00:20:19,315 --> 00:20:21,017
- I seen on the blogs, well,
you know, him rubbing her leg.
566
00:20:21,017 --> 00:20:22,285
- Man, I seen that
on the thing too.
567
00:20:22,285 --> 00:20:23,853
- You seen that?
- Rubbing her leg?
568
00:20:23,853 --> 00:20:27,924
- You know, at the end
of the day, we know each other.
569
00:20:27,924 --> 00:20:29,492
I came there,
like, the next day,
570
00:20:29,492 --> 00:20:31,127
and Rich was one of the first
people I hugged and greeted,
571
00:20:31,127 --> 00:20:32,762
"Yo, what's up?"
You know what I'm saying?
572
00:20:32,762 --> 00:20:35,065
And then it's like, "Damn,
you was on her like that."
573
00:20:35,065 --> 00:20:37,067
I kind of took that
as a slap in the face.
574
00:20:37,067 --> 00:20:38,768
[dramatic music]
575
00:20:38,768 --> 00:20:41,805
- Hmm, since you bring that up,
576
00:20:41,805 --> 00:20:43,339
let me see...
577
00:20:45,642 --> 00:20:50,046
It's almost like the kettle--
what's that saying?
578
00:20:50,046 --> 00:20:51,381
- Kettle calling the pot black
or something.
579
00:20:51,381 --> 00:20:52,816
- Yeah.
- Or some [bleep].
580
00:20:52,816 --> 00:20:54,451
- The reality is I dated Erica
581
00:20:54,451 --> 00:20:55,518
for two and a half
something years,
582
00:20:55,518 --> 00:20:56,886
like two and some change,
right?
583
00:20:56,886 --> 00:20:59,189
And me and Safaree
were friends.
584
00:20:59,189 --> 00:21:02,358
Never once said,
"Yo, I'm dating your ex."
585
00:21:02,358 --> 00:21:05,762
And now you have a problem
with me when I'm pretty much
586
00:21:05,762 --> 00:21:08,765
doing everything that I've done
broad daylight?
587
00:21:08,765 --> 00:21:10,967
Come on, my dude, listen,
at the end of the day,
588
00:21:10,967 --> 00:21:12,469
I don't give a [bleep].
589
00:21:12,469 --> 00:21:15,238
Richie D is going to do
Richie D the way Richie D
590
00:21:15,238 --> 00:21:18,041
wants to do Richie D, the end.
591
00:21:18,041 --> 00:21:19,542
So it's kind of funny to me
592
00:21:19,542 --> 00:21:21,644
that you feel a way
about me in San Diego,
593
00:21:21,644 --> 00:21:24,714
which was honestly
just some drunk flirt.
594
00:21:24,714 --> 00:21:26,850
It was nothing.
595
00:21:26,850 --> 00:21:28,218
I ain't even really think
of it like that.
596
00:21:28,218 --> 00:21:30,053
Honestly, I ain't think
of it like that.
597
00:21:30,053 --> 00:21:31,654
- Nah, nah, nah,
ain't no drunk flirting.
598
00:21:31,654 --> 00:21:35,058
You in love, Rich.
I see it all in your eyes.
599
00:21:35,058 --> 00:21:36,793
You in love.
600
00:21:36,793 --> 00:21:38,361
So good luck, buddy.
Good luck.
601
00:21:38,361 --> 00:21:40,296
I ain't bailing you out
though.
602
00:21:40,296 --> 00:21:41,531
- Besides, the fact that y'all
603
00:21:41,531 --> 00:21:43,199
was already going through
y'all divorce.
604
00:21:43,199 --> 00:21:44,667
Like, y'all came
to the island--
605
00:21:44,667 --> 00:21:46,136
- But they were married though.
606
00:21:46,136 --> 00:21:47,403
You know,
their thing different, though.
607
00:21:47,403 --> 00:21:48,872
- Y'all feel y'all
could get back together?
608
00:21:48,872 --> 00:21:51,141
[soft dramatic music]
609
00:21:51,141 --> 00:21:57,080
- It would need a lot of--
you know what I'm saying?
610
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:58,448
- 'Cause y'all kids' are young.
611
00:21:58,448 --> 00:22:01,151
- That's the [bleep]
that Kirk hit me with
612
00:22:01,151 --> 00:22:03,119
when me and Ben
were talking about divorce.
613
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,420
I think
about that with my kids.
614
00:22:04,420 --> 00:22:06,556
Now, I look at them,
and I be like, "Cuz."
615
00:22:06,556 --> 00:22:08,091
Once we break that up,
616
00:22:08,091 --> 00:22:10,760
other dudes come in
and wanna feel like
617
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,463
they owed, get so fired, baby,
you know what I'm saying?
618
00:22:13,463 --> 00:22:14,931
- Well, he don't like you.
And--
619
00:22:14,931 --> 00:22:16,166
- Oh, yeah.
620
00:22:16,166 --> 00:22:17,700
- He'll do some [bleep]
to your kids.
621
00:22:17,700 --> 00:22:20,270
- I think about that every time
I wanna pick up my bags
622
00:22:20,270 --> 00:22:22,138
and walk up
out that house, cuz.
623
00:22:22,138 --> 00:22:23,907
♪ ♪
624
00:22:23,907 --> 00:22:26,176
[chips clatter]
625
00:22:26,176 --> 00:22:27,477
- Oh!
- Damn.
626
00:22:27,477 --> 00:22:28,611
- Oh, [bleep]!
627
00:22:28,611 --> 00:22:31,181
- He almost knocked
himself out.
628
00:22:31,181 --> 00:22:32,816
- That [bleep] what I'm saying.
629
00:22:32,816 --> 00:22:36,052
- I actually think that divorce
ain't really hit Safaree.
630
00:22:36,052 --> 00:22:37,921
Another man raising your kids.
631
00:22:37,921 --> 00:22:39,889
Another man,
you know, with your wife.
632
00:22:39,889 --> 00:22:42,792
Those things can take time
to figure out,
633
00:22:42,792 --> 00:22:44,494
and you threw a chair,
634
00:22:44,494 --> 00:22:46,329
and the chair looked like it
hit your ass back in the head,
635
00:22:46,329 --> 00:22:50,900
so that was really God saying,
"Knock, knock, wake up."
636
00:22:50,900 --> 00:22:53,036
- Yo, he had to think
637
00:22:53,036 --> 00:22:54,938
about Rich being
a step-daddy or something.
638
00:22:54,938 --> 00:22:56,139
- Whoa!
639
00:22:56,139 --> 00:22:57,607
- Rich, man,
what you doing, bro?
640
00:22:57,607 --> 00:22:59,042
- What, bro?
641
00:22:59,042 --> 00:23:01,277
- You had a man hit himself
in the head with a chair.
642
00:23:01,277 --> 00:23:03,279
- It's not funny, gentlemen.
- It's not.
643
00:23:03,279 --> 00:23:05,615
- He can be on the outside
looking in like,
644
00:23:05,615 --> 00:23:07,350
"That's my family, cuz."
645
00:23:07,350 --> 00:23:10,954
The streets cold, bro.
Ain't nothing out there, bro.
646
00:23:10,954 --> 00:23:14,724
♪ ♪
647
00:23:14,724 --> 00:23:17,427
- Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
648
00:23:17,427 --> 00:23:19,462
- Is there anything else
you have to tell me?
649
00:23:19,462 --> 00:23:23,333
- I'm not gonna say
that this is for sure coming,
650
00:23:23,333 --> 00:23:26,936
but I feel like a DNA test
is on your horizon.
651
00:23:26,936 --> 00:23:29,439
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
652
00:23:31,835 --> 00:23:33,436
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
653
00:23:33,436 --> 00:23:36,539
[soft dramatic music]
654
00:23:36,539 --> 00:23:38,775
♪ ♪
655
00:23:38,775 --> 00:23:40,910
- Yo, what's up?
Where you at?
656
00:23:40,910 --> 00:23:43,113
Nah, I gotta talk to you.
It ain't nothing crazy.
657
00:23:43,113 --> 00:23:44,748
I just wanna have
a little conversation with you.
658
00:23:44,748 --> 00:23:47,450
I just bumped into your man,
so I'ma pull up on you.
659
00:23:47,450 --> 00:23:48,618
All right.
660
00:23:48,618 --> 00:23:51,020
So, tonight,
right after poker night,
661
00:23:51,020 --> 00:23:53,890
"E, we need to meet up.
Right now."
662
00:23:53,890 --> 00:23:57,227
Because there's no way
that I could hear what I heard
663
00:23:57,227 --> 00:23:59,496
and not immediately go to her.
664
00:23:59,496 --> 00:24:00,964
- So what's going on?
665
00:24:00,964 --> 00:24:02,665
- I pulled up at this--
you know the guy E?
666
00:24:02,665 --> 00:24:04,601
He's--
- Oh, Sierra's fiancé.
667
00:24:04,601 --> 00:24:06,136
- Correct.
- Yeah.
668
00:24:06,136 --> 00:24:07,570
- So they had a little
poker thing for him tonight.
669
00:24:07,570 --> 00:24:09,339
So I go, we crack jokes,
everybody was laughing,
670
00:24:09,339 --> 00:24:10,840
whatever.
Safaree got serious.
671
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,375
- Mm-hmm.
672
00:24:12,375 --> 00:24:15,812
- And was like, "Yo, I feel
a way about you, basically,
673
00:24:15,812 --> 00:24:17,480
with Erica in San Diego."
674
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:18,715
- Well, why would he feel a way
675
00:24:18,715 --> 00:24:21,651
when he's mister
you filed for divorce?
676
00:24:21,651 --> 00:24:23,253
- Well, that's what I said.
677
00:24:23,253 --> 00:24:25,422
You feel a way about me
putting my hand on her leg
678
00:24:25,422 --> 00:24:27,624
because I probably couldn't
[bleep] stand up straight
679
00:24:27,624 --> 00:24:29,893
because I was twisted.
- No, you know why--
680
00:24:29,893 --> 00:24:31,995
you were
a little dirty dog too.
681
00:24:31,995 --> 00:24:33,663
Just take accountability
if you're gonna [bleep]--
682
00:24:33,663 --> 00:24:35,298
- All right, [bleep] it.
I own it.
683
00:24:35,298 --> 00:24:36,933
- I know you did it on purpose.
- I was grabbing them thighs.
684
00:24:36,933 --> 00:24:38,301
- Richard, please.
Okay.
685
00:24:38,301 --> 00:24:39,869
- But know I feel like [bleep]
is coming at me
686
00:24:39,869 --> 00:24:43,740
like I'm trying to interfere
with y'all marriage.
687
00:24:43,740 --> 00:24:45,575
Is this divorce happening?
688
00:24:45,575 --> 00:24:46,810
- Oh, absolutely,
it's happening.
689
00:24:46,810 --> 00:24:48,111
Why?
690
00:24:48,111 --> 00:24:49,979
Is there anything else
you have to tell me?
691
00:24:49,979 --> 00:24:51,414
♪ ♪
692
00:24:51,414 --> 00:24:53,049
- I just felt like,
693
00:24:53,049 --> 00:24:56,920
in the spirit of our
new, rekindled friendship,
694
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,822
I'ma be honest and transparent.
695
00:24:58,822 --> 00:25:00,557
- I really appreciate that.
696
00:25:00,557 --> 00:25:04,794
- I feel like a DNA test
is on your horizons.
697
00:25:04,794 --> 00:25:07,163
- For who?
- I don't know.
698
00:25:07,163 --> 00:25:08,565
One or the two of them.
699
00:25:08,565 --> 00:25:11,301
- So you're telling me this man
700
00:25:11,301 --> 00:25:14,404
is not embarrassed enough?
701
00:25:14,404 --> 00:25:16,306
Now you wanna do
a paternity test?
702
00:25:16,306 --> 00:25:18,708
I want him to take
that paternity test.
703
00:25:18,708 --> 00:25:19,909
Because,
at the end of the day,
704
00:25:19,909 --> 00:25:21,311
the world needs to know
705
00:25:21,311 --> 00:25:23,546
the lengths
that this man will really go
706
00:25:23,546 --> 00:25:24,981
to not only embarrass me,
707
00:25:24,981 --> 00:25:27,450
but now he's embarrassing
his children.
708
00:25:27,450 --> 00:25:29,085
That right there
speaks volumes.
709
00:25:29,085 --> 00:25:30,687
So when is this paternity
test thing supposed to happen?
710
00:25:30,687 --> 00:25:32,055
- I don't know.
711
00:25:32,055 --> 00:25:34,224
- Is it the one Sunday
of the every other month
712
00:25:34,224 --> 00:25:36,426
that he wants to come grab them
that he's doing this test?
713
00:25:36,426 --> 00:25:37,861
- He may not even say nothing,
714
00:25:37,861 --> 00:25:38,962
so I don't even want you
to overreact to it.
715
00:25:38,962 --> 00:25:40,196
- I'm not.
- Like I said--
716
00:25:40,196 --> 00:25:41,698
- You know what?
717
00:25:41,698 --> 00:25:43,366
Honestly, I'm just gonna
really ignore this one.
718
00:25:43,366 --> 00:25:46,836
I just wanna focus on
just keeping the energy
719
00:25:46,836 --> 00:25:49,472
that I need to, like,
finalize this divorce.
720
00:25:49,472 --> 00:25:50,974
- I will ride it out with you.
721
00:25:50,974 --> 00:25:52,675
This is what you wanna do,
then I'm with you on that.
722
00:25:52,675 --> 00:25:53,776
- Okay.
723
00:25:53,776 --> 00:25:55,278
- No ifs, ands,
or buts about it.
724
00:25:55,278 --> 00:25:56,412
- Okay.
725
00:25:56,412 --> 00:25:58,615
- ♪ Work hard all day ♪
726
00:25:58,615 --> 00:26:00,950
♪ Putting in work
like two weeks straight ♪
727
00:26:00,950 --> 00:26:03,152
♪ 10:00, God,
I could really use a break ♪
728
00:26:03,152 --> 00:26:05,488
♪ Use a break, use a break ♪
729
00:26:05,488 --> 00:26:07,657
♪ The weekend's here,
and I just got paid ♪
730
00:26:07,657 --> 00:26:10,326
♪ Call up my girl,
tell her let's get faded ♪
731
00:26:10,326 --> 00:26:12,428
- Tonight,
I'm doing my girl Renni
732
00:26:12,428 --> 00:26:13,796
a big slumber party
733
00:26:13,796 --> 00:26:15,765
because she's been
going through a lot.
734
00:26:15,765 --> 00:26:18,101
Unfortunately,
her mom did not make it.
735
00:26:18,101 --> 00:26:21,404
She passed away,
and I really wanna dedicate
736
00:26:21,404 --> 00:26:24,240
this night to her
so she could let her hair down,
737
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,042
and, me and my girls,
we could just fill her
738
00:26:26,042 --> 00:26:27,877
with a bunch of joy
and good times.
739
00:26:29,412 --> 00:26:32,815
- I have not really had
a sit down with all the girls
740
00:26:32,815 --> 00:26:34,751
at one time
since everybody who I know
741
00:26:34,751 --> 00:26:37,420
found out about
my husband's indiscretions.
742
00:26:37,420 --> 00:26:38,788
- Oh, hey!
- This is--girl.
743
00:26:38,788 --> 00:26:40,557
- Hey!
- Look, look, look, look.
744
00:26:40,557 --> 00:26:41,724
- Hey, boo.
745
00:26:41,724 --> 00:26:42,926
- I know how
to shake my shorts.
746
00:26:42,926 --> 00:26:44,193
- At the end of the day,
747
00:26:44,193 --> 00:26:45,895
I can't just keep
hiding from it.
748
00:26:45,895 --> 00:26:47,196
You know, what's done is done,
749
00:26:47,196 --> 00:26:49,866
and I kind of would like
to clear the air,
750
00:26:49,866 --> 00:26:51,834
like, if an opportunity
presents itself.
751
00:26:51,834 --> 00:26:53,202
- So y'all know Renni,
my friend,
752
00:26:53,202 --> 00:26:55,038
she's going through
a lot right now.
753
00:26:55,038 --> 00:26:57,040
Her mom actually just passed,
754
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,208
so it's been really
weighing on me lately,
755
00:26:59,208 --> 00:27:01,711
and I feel like,
you know, I just wanna--
756
00:27:01,711 --> 00:27:03,212
- So where she at?
757
00:27:03,212 --> 00:27:05,214
- Yeah.
- She on her way, bitch.
758
00:27:05,214 --> 00:27:06,716
- Oh.
- I know the last time me,
759
00:27:06,716 --> 00:27:09,085
Bambi and Erica saw each other,
I was mad as [bleep],
760
00:27:09,085 --> 00:27:11,955
but we got real situations
going on in life.
761
00:27:11,955 --> 00:27:14,424
Renni literally
just lost her mom.
762
00:27:14,424 --> 00:27:17,627
So that whole thing in itself
just made me be like,
763
00:27:17,627 --> 00:27:18,895
"Life is too short."
764
00:27:18,895 --> 00:27:20,763
They said they were sorry,
and I believe it.
765
00:27:20,763 --> 00:27:22,832
So we best friends.
We best sisters.
766
00:27:22,832 --> 00:27:24,968
- Every time I see you again...
767
00:27:24,968 --> 00:27:26,869
- Come on with it, Bamb.
Come on with it.
768
00:27:26,869 --> 00:27:29,238
- You come back with
more [bleep] diamonds, bitch.
769
00:27:29,238 --> 00:27:31,741
- Congratulations
on your engagement!
770
00:27:31,741 --> 00:27:34,811
[all cheering]
771
00:27:36,679 --> 00:27:39,215
- Let me see! Let me see!
Oh, my God!
772
00:27:39,215 --> 00:27:41,651
- How many of y'all bitches
been proposed
773
00:27:41,651 --> 00:27:43,686
to twice in one year?
774
00:27:43,686 --> 00:27:45,588
- It's twice in one year?
- Twice!
775
00:27:45,588 --> 00:27:47,757
- The ring Big Burger King
gave me ain't [bleep]
776
00:27:47,757 --> 00:27:49,726
compared to the ring...
- No, it's not.
777
00:27:49,726 --> 00:27:51,794
- Mother [bleep]
Eric Whitehead gave me.
778
00:27:51,794 --> 00:27:52,929
This [bleep] hits.
779
00:27:52,929 --> 00:27:54,397
Now, don't get me wrong.
780
00:27:54,397 --> 00:27:56,599
I still got cold feet
about the engagement
781
00:27:56,599 --> 00:27:58,167
and our whole relationship,
782
00:27:58,167 --> 00:28:01,337
but it feels good to be all
extra happy about my new ring.
783
00:28:01,337 --> 00:28:04,507
I literally got two rings
in a [bleep] year.
784
00:28:04,507 --> 00:28:06,309
Ain't feel good to say,
but it kind of did.
785
00:28:06,309 --> 00:28:08,478
- So did y'all husbands
tell you?
786
00:28:08,478 --> 00:28:09,846
Apparently, there was, like,
787
00:28:09,846 --> 00:28:10,947
a poker night with Joc
and Mendeecees and--
788
00:28:10,947 --> 00:28:12,315
- Yes, there was.
789
00:28:12,315 --> 00:28:13,683
- Oh, I heard about that,
and my man too.
790
00:28:13,683 --> 00:28:14,951
- Yeah, I heard about this too.
791
00:28:14,951 --> 00:28:18,955
- So, apparently, Safaree
fixes his mouth
792
00:28:18,955 --> 00:28:22,325
to say he wants
793
00:28:22,325 --> 00:28:25,128
to paternity test my kids.
- What the [bleep]?
794
00:28:25,128 --> 00:28:27,797
- But why would he
say that about--?
795
00:28:27,797 --> 00:28:29,766
- Like, this is just too much.
796
00:28:29,766 --> 00:28:32,268
Like, we're on our way
to divorce.
797
00:28:32,268 --> 00:28:37,106
I have to now, every day,
no matter whether you decide
798
00:28:37,106 --> 00:28:40,309
you wanna be there or not,
they are my every day,
799
00:28:40,309 --> 00:28:42,045
morning, noon, and night,
seven days a week.
800
00:28:42,045 --> 00:28:43,179
It don't--
there's nothing that--
801
00:28:43,179 --> 00:28:45,982
- It never stops.
- It never stops.
802
00:28:45,982 --> 00:28:47,550
I just wanna break down
803
00:28:47,550 --> 00:28:51,621
because I feel like a failure
because of my marriage.
804
00:28:51,621 --> 00:28:54,323
- No.
- Girl, [bleep] him.
805
00:28:54,323 --> 00:28:55,625
- I don't know.
806
00:28:55,625 --> 00:28:57,026
I think it's typical of men
to try to hurt
807
00:28:57,026 --> 00:28:59,262
their partner
when they're hurt.
808
00:28:59,262 --> 00:29:01,464
And, even though, you know,
Erica kids are young,
809
00:29:01,464 --> 00:29:02,965
they're gonna get older.
810
00:29:02,965 --> 00:29:04,200
They're gonna see
all this thing on the internet
811
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:05,902
that their father
never believed
812
00:29:05,902 --> 00:29:07,170
that he was the father.
813
00:29:07,170 --> 00:29:09,706
Like, it's just
a whole situation
814
00:29:09,706 --> 00:29:11,174
that these men
need to think about
815
00:29:11,174 --> 00:29:13,843
before they try to say things
just to hurt the mother.
816
00:29:13,843 --> 00:29:15,344
- Oh!
817
00:29:16,913 --> 00:29:20,049
- Renni!
- Hi!
818
00:29:20,049 --> 00:29:22,251
- How you doing?
- How are you?
819
00:29:22,251 --> 00:29:23,753
- Good.
- We got you some pajamas.
820
00:29:23,753 --> 00:29:25,121
- Okay.
821
00:29:25,121 --> 00:29:27,056
- So you can go upstairs
and get comfortable.
822
00:29:27,056 --> 00:29:28,991
Did you bring some plates?
823
00:29:28,991 --> 00:29:29,992
- No, I didn't bring
no plates.
824
00:29:29,992 --> 00:29:31,327
- You can be--
825
00:29:31,327 --> 00:29:33,596
girl, you can be barefoot
like me.
826
00:29:33,596 --> 00:29:36,099
- I really appreciate how much
everybody is here
827
00:29:36,099 --> 00:29:39,936
just being supportive
because it's been so hard
828
00:29:39,936 --> 00:29:42,438
just trying to keep
my family strong,
829
00:29:42,438 --> 00:29:46,242
trying to be a mom
and be a fiancé
830
00:29:46,242 --> 00:29:49,178
on top of, like, trying
to grieve and cope with,
831
00:29:49,178 --> 00:29:53,216
like, losing my mom,
so I needed this bad.
832
00:29:53,216 --> 00:29:56,119
- Hey, beautiful!
- Hey, guys.
833
00:29:56,119 --> 00:29:58,454
- Y'all so, for real,
we just want to dedicate
834
00:29:58,454 --> 00:29:59,889
this night to you, Renni.
835
00:29:59,889 --> 00:30:01,924
We are genuinely here for you.
We love you. I love you.
836
00:30:01,924 --> 00:30:03,092
- I love you too.
837
00:30:03,092 --> 00:30:05,161
- And I want you
to just be happy.
838
00:30:05,161 --> 00:30:06,996
You know,
you're not by yourself.
839
00:30:06,996 --> 00:30:08,264
- You definitely not
the only one
840
00:30:08,264 --> 00:30:10,767
that feels like life
is just like--
841
00:30:10,767 --> 00:30:11,968
- Ooh!
842
00:30:11,968 --> 00:30:14,537
- Pulled right
from underneath you.
843
00:30:14,537 --> 00:30:15,705
- You have kids too, right?
844
00:30:15,705 --> 00:30:17,006
- I got two kids.
- Two.
845
00:30:17,006 --> 00:30:18,241
- And my fiancé
got, like, six kids.
846
00:30:18,241 --> 00:30:19,509
It's--yeah.
- Really?
847
00:30:19,509 --> 00:30:20,910
- Really?
- Two?
848
00:30:20,910 --> 00:30:22,178
- Mm-hmm.
849
00:30:22,178 --> 00:30:23,312
- As a mom,
I've not birthed any kids,
850
00:30:23,312 --> 00:30:24,680
but I have stepchildren.
- Mm-hmm.
851
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,382
- And it's just like--
852
00:30:26,382 --> 00:30:28,985
- Oh, my God, tell her
how many step kids you got.
853
00:30:28,985 --> 00:30:32,221
- Girl, I got eight.
I probably--
854
00:30:32,221 --> 00:30:36,993
I might have nine.
No, I've been--I got eight--
855
00:30:36,993 --> 00:30:39,395
- Eight and a possibility.
856
00:30:39,395 --> 00:30:41,364
- Eight and a piece.
- So what?
857
00:30:41,364 --> 00:30:44,066
- Eight and a piece.
- Oh, you're pregnant?
858
00:30:44,066 --> 00:30:46,335
- No, a while back,
maybe a little while
859
00:30:46,335 --> 00:30:49,138
after the engagement,
you know, we took a break.
860
00:30:49,138 --> 00:30:52,341
During that time,
he got somebody else pregnant.
861
00:30:52,341 --> 00:30:53,409
- So you knew about it?
- Yeah, yeah.
862
00:30:53,409 --> 00:30:54,877
So the thing is
I knew about it.
863
00:30:54,877 --> 00:30:55,912
- But why did you act
like you didn't?
864
00:30:55,912 --> 00:30:58,848
[dramatic orchestral music]
865
00:30:58,848 --> 00:31:00,283
♪ ♪
866
00:31:00,283 --> 00:31:02,585
- Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
867
00:31:02,585 --> 00:31:04,120
You say you want clarity?
868
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,155
I can introduce you to Meda,
and you can ask her
869
00:31:06,155 --> 00:31:07,590
whatever it is
you want to ask her.
870
00:31:07,590 --> 00:31:08,724
- That's right.
871
00:31:08,724 --> 00:31:11,093
I'm going to get
to the bottom of it.
872
00:31:11,093 --> 00:31:13,229
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
873
00:31:15,835 --> 00:31:17,436
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
874
00:31:17,436 --> 00:31:18,938
[upbeat hip-hop music]
875
00:31:18,938 --> 00:31:20,306
- So you knew about it?
- Yeah, yeah.
876
00:31:20,306 --> 00:31:21,841
So the thing is
I knew about it.
877
00:31:21,841 --> 00:31:22,808
- But why did you act
like you didn't?
878
00:31:22,808 --> 00:31:24,877
♪ ♪
879
00:31:24,877 --> 00:31:26,712
- Well, because that wasn't
880
00:31:26,712 --> 00:31:28,948
the only thing
y'all presented to me.
881
00:31:28,948 --> 00:31:30,783
- We dropped a lot
of [bleep] on her.
882
00:31:30,783 --> 00:31:33,119
- Y'all did.
- We dropped bombs,
883
00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:34,854
but you already knew
the bomb was coming.
884
00:31:34,854 --> 00:31:35,921
- Well, I knew--
885
00:31:35,921 --> 00:31:37,390
- And you gave us a reaction
886
00:31:37,390 --> 00:31:38,958
that was like from somebody
who's just finding out.
887
00:31:38,958 --> 00:31:42,228
I don't know how to feel
about this just because--ooh,
888
00:31:42,228 --> 00:31:45,664
the fact that she was able
to fool me, that's scary.
889
00:31:45,664 --> 00:31:47,633
'Cause it takes
a lot to fool me.
890
00:31:47,633 --> 00:31:50,169
Well, not really.
I got fooled by an old clown,
891
00:31:50,169 --> 00:31:53,806
but that's--
I mean--next question.
892
00:31:53,806 --> 00:31:55,775
- Meda was
new information though.
893
00:31:55,775 --> 00:31:57,977
So I want to know
like what--like,
894
00:31:57,977 --> 00:31:59,512
where was they messing around
in 2019.
895
00:31:59,512 --> 00:32:01,280
- Because she did say it
at the table, 2019.
896
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,115
- Because when we talked
to Meda on the phone,
897
00:32:03,115 --> 00:32:05,484
when we talked to Meda,
it was me, Erica, Bambi.
898
00:32:05,484 --> 00:32:06,886
- Yeah.
899
00:32:06,886 --> 00:32:08,754
- She says that they were
not messing around in '19.
900
00:32:08,754 --> 00:32:11,390
- But then--oh, oh, no, no, no,
okay, so this is the thing,
901
00:32:11,390 --> 00:32:14,627
I haven't talked to Kendra
since the fashion show.
902
00:32:14,627 --> 00:32:15,728
I know that's your homegirl,
903
00:32:15,728 --> 00:32:17,296
but I feel like
she kind of cap.
904
00:32:17,296 --> 00:32:19,298
'Cause when we called her
on the phone,
905
00:32:19,298 --> 00:32:21,333
she said,
"No, I wasn't messing with him.
906
00:32:21,333 --> 00:32:23,002
I haven't been
messing with him."
907
00:32:23,002 --> 00:32:24,837
When I saw her
at the fashion show,
908
00:32:24,837 --> 00:32:26,872
her whole [bleep]
energy changed.
909
00:32:26,872 --> 00:32:28,274
She was hype--
910
00:32:28,274 --> 00:32:30,509
- No, no, let me say--
- She wanted to fight me.
911
00:32:30,509 --> 00:32:32,445
- [bleep]
- She never wanna fight you!
912
00:32:32,445 --> 00:32:33,946
- What?
- What are you talking about?
913
00:32:33,946 --> 00:32:35,281
- She said, "Bitch--"
914
00:32:35,281 --> 00:32:38,117
- Is Meda lying or what, Spice?
- She lying.
915
00:32:38,117 --> 00:32:40,719
- I'll talk to you
one-on-one by yourself.
916
00:32:40,719 --> 00:32:44,190
There's too much opinions.
917
00:32:44,190 --> 00:32:46,325
We'll just go to the side
and have a conversation.
918
00:32:46,325 --> 00:32:49,028
Call me--care to listen.
I'm not about that.
919
00:32:49,028 --> 00:32:51,096
- I'm a little perturbed
that Spice did not say
920
00:32:51,096 --> 00:32:53,098
something about this
prior to the wedding.
921
00:32:53,098 --> 00:32:54,533
At least Sierra made it clear
922
00:32:54,533 --> 00:32:56,936
she didn't know of it
to be a fact.
923
00:32:56,936 --> 00:32:58,604
This was just something
that hit her ear,
924
00:32:58,604 --> 00:33:01,674
but it's like, Spice, you had
potential information that,
925
00:33:01,674 --> 00:33:05,311
you know, could change my life,
and you just sit on it.
926
00:33:05,311 --> 00:33:07,580
That's some week ass [bleep].
We'll be back y'all.
927
00:33:07,580 --> 00:33:08,948
- Where are y'all going?
928
00:33:08,948 --> 00:33:10,983
- Where are y'all going?
- We going to talk.
929
00:33:10,983 --> 00:33:12,485
- And now y'all gonna go
930
00:33:12,485 --> 00:33:14,420
and have
a little private conversation.
931
00:33:14,420 --> 00:33:15,754
- Wow, we talk too much.
932
00:33:15,754 --> 00:33:18,190
- The reason why I want
to talk to Kendra is
933
00:33:18,190 --> 00:33:20,159
because I know that my name
is gonna be in the mix
934
00:33:20,159 --> 00:33:21,794
because Meda is my friend.
935
00:33:21,794 --> 00:33:25,030
So we just need to get to
the bottom of this and move on.
936
00:33:25,030 --> 00:33:26,465
You and Joc married.
- Yeah.
937
00:33:26,465 --> 00:33:27,900
- Like, this shouldn't even
be an issue right now.
938
00:33:27,900 --> 00:33:29,969
- I know, Spice.
- You just got married.
939
00:33:29,969 --> 00:33:31,871
- I know, Spice.
- Meda is in the past.
940
00:33:31,871 --> 00:33:33,305
She don't want Joc no more.
941
00:33:33,305 --> 00:33:34,740
She's not trying
to be with him.
942
00:33:34,740 --> 00:33:36,075
- Spice--
- It's not no issue.
943
00:33:36,075 --> 00:33:37,910
So why dig up back all...
- Because guess what?
944
00:33:37,910 --> 00:33:39,411
- "Oh, what date
did you have sex?"
945
00:33:39,411 --> 00:33:40,946
Like, it's just
too much for me.
946
00:33:40,946 --> 00:33:42,648
- I don't--because I don't want
a man--let me tell you.
947
00:33:42,648 --> 00:33:44,216
I don't want a man in marriage
948
00:33:44,216 --> 00:33:47,419
who has been dirty to me
before marriage.
949
00:33:47,419 --> 00:33:50,756
Right now, Jasiel and I are
in counseling with the pastor
950
00:33:50,756 --> 00:33:54,293
just trying to sort through
everything because Meda
951
00:33:54,293 --> 00:33:57,263
has told so many
different sides of the story.
952
00:33:57,263 --> 00:34:00,266
Jasiel has just
vehemently denied.
953
00:34:00,266 --> 00:34:04,036
Anything going on still doesn't
offer me any clear answer.
954
00:34:04,036 --> 00:34:05,404
- I don't wanna be
955
00:34:05,404 --> 00:34:06,939
in the middle
of this situation anymore.
956
00:34:06,939 --> 00:34:08,107
- I know.
957
00:34:08,107 --> 00:34:09,942
- But if you say
you want clarity,
958
00:34:09,942 --> 00:34:11,343
I can introduce you
to my friend,
959
00:34:11,343 --> 00:34:12,545
and you can get to ask her
960
00:34:12,545 --> 00:34:13,913
whatever it
is you want to ask her.
961
00:34:13,913 --> 00:34:15,447
- That's right.
962
00:34:15,447 --> 00:34:17,650
- And then I think
that's how it should just end.
963
00:34:17,650 --> 00:34:18,851
- I appreciate it.
964
00:34:18,851 --> 00:34:20,352
- And you can have
that conversation.
965
00:34:20,352 --> 00:34:21,554
- Thank you.
That's all.
966
00:34:21,554 --> 00:34:23,222
- Give me a hug.
- Thank you, Spice.
967
00:34:23,222 --> 00:34:25,291
That's all I wanted.
That's what I told him.
968
00:34:25,291 --> 00:34:27,793
From speaking with Spice,
I do feel better.
969
00:34:27,793 --> 00:34:29,528
I feel, you know,
970
00:34:29,528 --> 00:34:33,666
less animosity than I felt
towards her coming in.
971
00:34:33,666 --> 00:34:35,034
So now, it's just like,
972
00:34:35,034 --> 00:34:36,602
"I'm going to get
to the bottom of it.
973
00:34:36,602 --> 00:34:38,003
I'm going to."
974
00:34:38,003 --> 00:34:39,405
- I'm so glad we made
this happen tonight.
975
00:34:39,405 --> 00:34:40,706
- I really just be
in my own world.
976
00:34:40,706 --> 00:34:43,375
- She be in her own word.
She do, she do.
977
00:34:43,375 --> 00:34:45,177
- Okay.
Well, come in ours.
978
00:34:45,177 --> 00:34:46,679
- She be with her man,
979
00:34:46,679 --> 00:34:49,114
and I be picking up calls
in prison all day.
980
00:34:49,114 --> 00:34:51,584
all: Aww!
- Trust me, I get it.
981
00:34:51,584 --> 00:34:53,252
My brother was locked up
for so many years, so--
982
00:34:53,252 --> 00:34:54,853
- How's that been for you?
Is it hard?
983
00:34:54,853 --> 00:34:56,288
- I think like right now,
984
00:34:56,288 --> 00:34:57,656
with going through
like what I'm going through,
985
00:34:57,656 --> 00:34:59,758
he don't really understand
like calling
986
00:34:59,758 --> 00:35:02,027
all the time ain't really,
like, being there for me
987
00:35:02,027 --> 00:35:04,129
how I need you
to be there for me.
988
00:35:04,129 --> 00:35:05,431
She like--
she know, like,
989
00:35:05,431 --> 00:35:09,635
I had to take--this was--
I wasn't happy here.
990
00:35:09,635 --> 00:35:11,937
So I went back home.
I went back to South Carolina.
991
00:35:11,937 --> 00:35:14,206
And when I went there,
me and my mom
992
00:35:14,206 --> 00:35:16,475
worked on our relationship,
and we got better,
993
00:35:16,475 --> 00:35:19,244
and now it makes sense
why it happened, you know?
994
00:35:19,244 --> 00:35:23,248
'Cause if I didn't do that,
we wouldn't have done it.
995
00:35:23,248 --> 00:35:26,251
- Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
996
00:35:26,251 --> 00:35:30,055
- Boo, okay.
- Yeah.
997
00:35:30,055 --> 00:35:31,590
- I know 'cause I've had
998
00:35:31,590 --> 00:35:34,760
my issues
with my own mother, so...
999
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,830
- I'm just happy
1000
00:35:37,830 --> 00:35:39,865
when she did leave here, like,
1001
00:35:39,865 --> 00:35:41,634
we were in a better place.
1002
00:35:41,634 --> 00:35:44,770
And, like,
she knew I loved her.
1003
00:35:44,770 --> 00:35:49,341
She didn't--we weren't at odds.
We weren't not speaking.
1004
00:35:49,341 --> 00:35:52,645
Like, I saw her every day.
She was at my house.
1005
00:35:52,645 --> 00:35:54,279
She was with my kids.
1006
00:35:54,279 --> 00:35:57,616
I was with her in the hospital
until she took her last breath.
1007
00:35:57,616 --> 00:35:59,518
[tender music]
1008
00:35:59,518 --> 00:36:01,954
- Renni is not a person
that shows her emotions
1009
00:36:01,954 --> 00:36:03,455
in front of other people,
1010
00:36:03,455 --> 00:36:05,524
so seeing her in tears
and her being emotional,
1011
00:36:05,524 --> 00:36:08,060
I love that because
we got to live in our truth
1012
00:36:08,060 --> 00:36:09,561
so that we can be healed.
1013
00:36:09,561 --> 00:36:11,296
Where the [bleep]
y'all bitches was?
1014
00:36:11,296 --> 00:36:12,464
- We were talking.
1015
00:36:12,464 --> 00:36:13,966
- Y'all good?
- Yeah, we good.
1016
00:36:13,966 --> 00:36:15,434
- Did y'all get to
the bottom of it?
1017
00:36:15,434 --> 00:36:16,769
- Well, we didn't get
to the bottom of it,
1018
00:36:16,769 --> 00:36:17,970
but I'm going to talk to Meda.
1019
00:36:17,970 --> 00:36:19,138
- Exactly.
- We gonna talk.
1020
00:36:19,138 --> 00:36:21,607
- I just told her
to stop listen to y'all.
1021
00:36:21,607 --> 00:36:24,276
[laughter]
1022
00:36:27,668 --> 00:36:29,470
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
there ain't no stopping ♪
1023
00:36:29,470 --> 00:36:30,904
- ♪ Leave me low ♪
1024
00:36:30,904 --> 00:36:32,606
♪ Leave me low ♪
1025
00:36:32,606 --> 00:36:34,775
♪ Unless you talk of money,
you can leave me low ♪
1026
00:36:34,775 --> 00:36:36,310
♪ Leave me low ♪
1027
00:36:36,310 --> 00:36:37,411
♪ ♪
1028
00:36:37,411 --> 00:36:39,613
♪ Leave me low ♪
1029
00:36:39,613 --> 00:36:40,748
♪ Hey ♪
1030
00:36:40,748 --> 00:36:43,550
[upbeat music]
1031
00:36:43,550 --> 00:36:44,952
♪ ♪
1032
00:36:44,952 --> 00:36:49,123
- Pastor Bentley.
- Oh, my Lord.
1033
00:36:49,123 --> 00:36:51,258
- Hey.
- Hey, Sierra.
1034
00:36:51,258 --> 00:36:54,261
- We need you.
- Hey, Pastor Bentley.
1035
00:36:54,261 --> 00:36:56,397
- Well, there's still
a ring there.
1036
00:36:56,397 --> 00:36:57,965
- I feel like
we truly need counseling,
1037
00:36:57,965 --> 00:37:00,033
and it can't just be
any type of counseling.
1038
00:37:00,033 --> 00:37:01,568
We need God.
1039
00:37:01,568 --> 00:37:03,737
So my pastor is somebody
that's been around me
1040
00:37:03,737 --> 00:37:06,407
since I was 16 years old.
I'm hoping and praying
1041
00:37:06,407 --> 00:37:10,177
that she will just tell us
what God is saying, honestly.
1042
00:37:10,177 --> 00:37:12,513
Is this a good relationship,
or it's not?
1043
00:37:12,513 --> 00:37:14,848
- Always something with y'all.
What you want?
1044
00:37:14,848 --> 00:37:16,950
- I feel like me and Eric
moved really fast
1045
00:37:16,950 --> 00:37:19,453
in this relationship.
We didn't really allow
1046
00:37:19,453 --> 00:37:21,789
each other to learn
who each other was.
1047
00:37:21,789 --> 00:37:25,325
So I feel like
that's where we at right now.
1048
00:37:25,325 --> 00:37:26,860
- But that's not the case.
I want to get married,
1049
00:37:26,860 --> 00:37:30,097
but it's just--
I feel like it's been a lot.
1050
00:37:30,097 --> 00:37:33,333
I don't know if Sierra
is just used to being spoiled
1051
00:37:33,333 --> 00:37:35,068
or she's not used
to a guy like me,
1052
00:37:35,068 --> 00:37:37,738
but we are clashing too much,
and it's like to the point
1053
00:37:37,738 --> 00:37:40,374
I can't take it no more.
Like, I'm done arguing.
1054
00:37:40,374 --> 00:37:41,909
There's a part of me
that actually made me feel like
1055
00:37:41,909 --> 00:37:44,077
an engagement
would fix our problems.
1056
00:37:44,077 --> 00:37:45,879
And I don't know
if Sierra is scared
1057
00:37:45,879 --> 00:37:47,815
or what's going on in her mind,
but she's not being
1058
00:37:47,815 --> 00:37:50,551
the same woman that she was
when I first met her.
1059
00:37:50,551 --> 00:37:52,753
- What do you think, Sierra--
what the problem is?
1060
00:37:52,753 --> 00:37:54,188
- I just feel like
1061
00:37:54,188 --> 00:37:56,590
in the beginning
of our relationship,
1062
00:37:56,590 --> 00:37:58,659
the person that I fell
in love with
1063
00:37:58,659 --> 00:38:02,496
was somebody that loved Sierra,
and you knew how I was.
1064
00:38:02,496 --> 00:38:05,466
But it's like now,
I'm that same person,
1065
00:38:05,466 --> 00:38:07,668
we living together,
and it's like a problem.
1066
00:38:07,668 --> 00:38:09,570
- In the beginning, you hid
a lot of things from me,
1067
00:38:09,570 --> 00:38:11,138
you showed me
what you wanted to show,
1068
00:38:11,138 --> 00:38:12,473
and then it's like
1069
00:38:12,473 --> 00:38:14,208
you just unleashed
a bunch of other stuff,
1070
00:38:14,208 --> 00:38:15,509
and I didn't know
what to expect,
1071
00:38:15,509 --> 00:38:16,910
and now it's just like
I can't handle it.
1072
00:38:16,910 --> 00:38:19,279
You make me feel
like everything I do is wrong
1073
00:38:19,279 --> 00:38:20,914
because I'm not
doing it your way.
1074
00:38:20,914 --> 00:38:23,584
- Sierra, I love you.
1075
00:38:23,584 --> 00:38:26,854
And, out of love,
I gotta tell you the truth.
1076
00:38:26,854 --> 00:38:28,922
You have never
1077
00:38:28,922 --> 00:38:31,859
got over your marriage.
1078
00:38:31,859 --> 00:38:34,928
You ain't got over BK.
1079
00:38:34,928 --> 00:38:36,430
You haven't got over stuff
1080
00:38:36,430 --> 00:38:38,632
that happened
when you was a kid.
1081
00:38:38,632 --> 00:38:40,634
- And I can admit
that I am a woman
1082
00:38:40,634 --> 00:38:43,370
that came into
this relationship unhealed.
1083
00:38:43,370 --> 00:38:45,172
Maybe I should have
healed first
1084
00:38:45,172 --> 00:38:46,807
and then got into
this relationship,
1085
00:38:46,807 --> 00:38:48,775
but I didn't.
So we're here now.
1086
00:38:48,775 --> 00:38:52,880
- But you can't beat him down,
drag him,
1087
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,582
and then when you wanna
take him out the drawer,
1088
00:38:55,582 --> 00:38:57,484
use him for what you want,
1089
00:38:57,484 --> 00:39:00,587
and then say, "Okay, Eric,
you're the problem."
1090
00:39:00,587 --> 00:39:04,391
This man gotta catch up.
Eric needs his own address.
1091
00:39:05,893 --> 00:39:07,194
He needs to date you,
1092
00:39:07,194 --> 00:39:09,830
and y'all need to get
the excitement back.
1093
00:39:09,830 --> 00:39:13,700
- I just don't want to go back
into the same black hole.
1094
00:39:13,700 --> 00:39:15,335
It's just--it's--
1095
00:39:15,335 --> 00:39:17,004
- Then, basically, you're just
saying you're gonna walk out.
1096
00:39:17,004 --> 00:39:18,405
- Are you just saying
you gonna be a ho?
1097
00:39:18,405 --> 00:39:20,007
- No, that's not
what I'm saying.
1098
00:39:20,007 --> 00:39:22,409
I'm saying that I don't
want to go backwards.
1099
00:39:22,409 --> 00:39:25,479
- I am in love with you.
I love you.
1100
00:39:25,479 --> 00:39:26,947
I love everything about you.
1101
00:39:26,947 --> 00:39:30,551
You are totally different
from the others.
1102
00:39:30,551 --> 00:39:31,985
Like, I wanna be with you.
1103
00:39:31,985 --> 00:39:34,755
I wanna grow with you,
but Pastor Bentley is right.
1104
00:39:34,755 --> 00:39:36,189
You need to get your own place,
1105
00:39:36,189 --> 00:39:37,925
and I need to regain
my strength.
1106
00:39:37,925 --> 00:39:40,427
I need to find myself.
- You want me to move out?
1107
00:39:40,427 --> 00:39:41,528
You want me to get a spot
and move out?
1108
00:39:41,528 --> 00:39:42,896
- I do.
- All right, cool.
1109
00:39:42,896 --> 00:39:44,298
Then it is what it is.
Nothing to talk about.
1110
00:39:44,298 --> 00:39:45,899
- I feel like this
is gonna show me
1111
00:39:45,899 --> 00:39:47,434
if you're ready for this.
Like, I'm not--I'm not--
1112
00:39:47,434 --> 00:39:49,870
- This is a test?
- I'm not chancing it.
1113
00:39:49,870 --> 00:39:51,805
- To be honest, I'm trying
my hardest to hold on
1114
00:39:51,805 --> 00:39:54,675
because I see how amazing
we can be as a union,
1115
00:39:54,675 --> 00:39:56,076
but now you want me
to move out?
1116
00:39:56,076 --> 00:39:57,778
I just proposed to you.
Look at that ring.
1117
00:39:57,778 --> 00:40:00,347
I put time and creativity
and thought because I felt,
1118
00:40:00,347 --> 00:40:01,815
in my spirit,
1119
00:40:01,815 --> 00:40:03,584
to take it to the next level
because I love you.
1120
00:40:03,584 --> 00:40:06,320
And you're just
making it about what?
1121
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,422
Sierra and Sierra's way.
That's not fair.
1122
00:40:08,422 --> 00:40:11,124
- I'm just not ready right now.
I feel like I need some time.
1123
00:40:11,124 --> 00:40:12,426
- That's going backwards.
1124
00:40:12,426 --> 00:40:13,894
I don't agree.
It don't make sense.
1125
00:40:13,894 --> 00:40:15,195
- Are we just breaking up
right now?
1126
00:40:15,195 --> 00:40:16,697
- I'm not--I didn't even--I
1127
00:40:16,697 --> 00:40:18,799
didn't even wanna do this.
You said it, not me.
1128
00:40:18,799 --> 00:40:22,369
- So we're still engaged.
We're just taking a break.
1129
00:40:22,369 --> 00:40:24,905
- All right.
It's, like, a lot.
1130
00:40:24,905 --> 00:40:27,608
♪ ♪
1131
00:40:31,568 --> 00:40:32,802
- Next time on
"Love & Hip hop Atlanta"...
1132
00:40:32,802 --> 00:40:34,938
- Ain't no damn worker.
- Hey, it's okay.
1133
00:40:34,938 --> 00:40:37,140
- That's all in your--
that's a meal ticket.
1134
00:40:37,140 --> 00:40:38,742
God damn it,
you found a meal ticket.
1135
00:40:38,742 --> 00:40:40,744
- While I'm on tour,
Mom can come
1136
00:40:40,744 --> 00:40:42,979
and just help you out a little.
1137
00:40:42,979 --> 00:40:45,048
- She keep violating
and violating.
1138
00:40:45,048 --> 00:40:46,983
- I wanna see my grandkids.
1139
00:40:46,983 --> 00:40:49,919
I just need her
to step her game up
1140
00:40:49,919 --> 00:40:51,187
to being my daughter-in-law.
1141
00:40:51,187 --> 00:40:53,790
Send out the kids.
Send out the kids.
1142
00:40:53,790 --> 00:40:55,859
- Kendra like, "We need to go
talk to Meda face to face."
1143
00:40:55,859 --> 00:40:57,127
I'm like--
- Meda, this is Kendra.
1144
00:40:57,127 --> 00:40:58,361
- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
1145
00:40:58,361 --> 00:40:59,629
Everybody's
around here talking,
1146
00:40:59,629 --> 00:41:00,930
making it seem like
I'm making up stuff.
1147
00:41:00,930 --> 00:41:02,799
The truth is, I messed with Joc
1148
00:41:02,799 --> 00:41:07,170
since 2008 till about 2019.
- Meda!
1149
00:41:07,170 --> 00:41:10,006
- You don't want none of this.
You do not want none of this.
1150
00:41:10,006 --> 00:41:12,208
- I'll break your face open!