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- Previously
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
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- What the hell was that?
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My mom got into
a car accident.
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When I said,
"You gonna be okay?"
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She shook her head no.
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Mama ain't never said
that she wasn't gonna be okay.
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- Uh-uh!
How you gonna pour my wine out?
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- We concerned about you.
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- I decided
to check myself into detox.
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[tense music]
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[loud crash]
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- Three guys came in here
with guns.
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I don't want to be there.
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- So you want to sell
the house
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and go back to an apartment?
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- I gotta be somewhere
I feel safe,
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and I just wish
you would understand that.
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- I don't want to go backward.
You just like wasting money.
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- I sent Joc his invitation
and I sent him his outfit,
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but he said that
they couldn't make it.
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- Dearly beloved.
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- 15 minutes after I post her
walking down the aisle,
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a friend of a friend
of this friend named Meda
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hit me up and was like,
"He [bleep] with Meda."
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- What's going on
with you and Joc?
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- I have been [bleep] with Joc
for almost 14 years.
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2008, 2009, 2010,
2012, 2014, 2015.
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- What?
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- Until death do us part.
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- The [bleep] that I heard
is beyond him
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just having a [bleep] mistress.
It's--
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- You're talking
about the baby?
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- That.
- Ugh.
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- You may kiss your bride.
[cheers and applause]
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- Some woman said that her
step-sister has a baby by Joc.
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- Jasiel, I need some answers
is what I need.
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Why did you marry me?
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You lied to my daddy,
you lied to my mama.
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The rumors about the baby
aren't rumors.
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How do we move forward?
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'Cause now, it's not just
a Kendra and Jasiel thing.
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- My vagina does not need
a timeline for anybody.
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What my vagina does
is nobody's [bleep] business.
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- In 2019...
- No, right.
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- We didn't have physical sex,
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but he did that thing
that he does with his mouth.
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- He [bleep] your [bleep].
- Yes. Exactly.
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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that I'm living ♪
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that I chose ♪
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that I'm living ♪
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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- ♪ It's the life
that I chose ♪
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- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
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- ♪ To the top, we go ♪
- ♪ To the top as we go ♪
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- ♪ You either can get down
or lay down ♪
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♪ It's our town
wherever we go ♪
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- ♪ Wherever we go ♪
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- Can I see the toner
over there please?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- So Yelle's located at the
infamous Underground Atlanta.
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But we want to own the block,
so I got the space next door.
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Let's get a restaurant
right there.
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- Hey, man. How's it going?
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- So I don't know how many of
you have ever been
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to a bodega in New York.
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I wanted to bring
that bodega vibe
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to the Underground Atlanta.
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- How long you think
before we able to turn the key?
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- This is a good three months.
- That's good.
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If you could do this
in three months,
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especially
before the summertime?
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- For sure.
- Hey, hey, hey.
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- Well, wait till--
wait till you see--
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- Okay.
- What's happening?
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- Oh, my God.
- Hey, hey.
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- What's up, Yandy?
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- Are we ready?
- Yes.
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- Gonna be ready in a week?
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- He said 90 days.
- If you took a long nap, yes.
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- 90 days?
90 days is not gonna work.
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When it comes to my business,
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I'm not afraid to say
how I want things to be.
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We could sell juices in this
and make money.
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I wanted this
to be a quick turnover.
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I did not get this
for it to be a money pit.
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- All right.
- Thank you so much.
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I appreciate you.
- Good to see you.
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- Thank you, thank you,
thank you.
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- All right. Thank you.
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- If I tell you I got 90 days,
you gonna take 120 days.
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So let me tell you
I got three weeks,
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'cause then maybe
I'll get it done in six weeks.
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- On another note, I've been
talking to Lil Mendeecees,
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and his mom,
you know, she live here now.
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- Yeah.
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- So he want to do something
where he bring, you know,
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his mom and us together,
you know, a blended family.
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From what I understand,
she's engaged.
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She's in a happy place.
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- Samantha's Lil Mendeecees'
mother.
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She's actually been living
in Atlanta for a year now.
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And one day,
Mendeecees told me
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that Samantha felt like
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Lil Mendeecees
should be with his father.
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Me and Samantha, we've had
a pretty contentious history,
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but when Mendeecees went away,
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things just got really,
really bad.
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- You're gonna have to stop
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acting like
you're my son's mother,
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especially when you don't pay
no bills in my house.
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I have the financial burden
of my son,
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while you get
to sit around here
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and act like
you're raising him.
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- Samantha--
- I don't want to hear my name.
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I don't want to hear my name.
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All I wanna hear you do
is say sorry.
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- Mendeecees' relationship
with Samantha was not great,
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but now, Mendeecees
can coparent with Samantha.
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There's never really a need
for me and her to communicate.
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I'm okay with that.
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I think y'all should
build a relationship first.
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And definitely, I'll come--
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- But we have been cool
this whole transition.
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Whatever you and Samantha
went through in the past,
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that should be the past, right?
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- Yeah.
- It was many, many years ago.
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- You prayed, we prayed
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for Lil Mendeecees
to be back at home.
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You're happy.
We're all happy.
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- Yeah, but--
but Lil Mendeecees--
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- I don't like [bleep].
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- But you got--
but you gotta understand
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this is not about you,
all right?
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- It's not.
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- Lil Mendeecees want us
both there with Samantha
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and her boyfriend.
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This will make him happy.
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- The thought of sitting down
with Samantha
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is just not something
I think about.
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But if this is really coming
from Lil Mendeecees,
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I would literally do anything
to make him happy.
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- Lil Mendeecees
want you there.
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- You want me there.
- I want you there, too.
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- He ain't had no conversation
with you.
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- Yeah.
Nah, I want--no, he did so.
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- You don't want to go
by yourself.
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- We both want you there.
We both want you there.
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- [laughs]
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If you do some wining
and dining, feet rubbing.
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- I'll try to carry you.
How about that?
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Come on. [grunts]
Oh, my God.
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Come on.
- Giddy up.
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- Holy [bleep].
These legs gonna buck.
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[laughter]
Wait!
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[laughter]
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- Ahh! Ahh!
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Oh, my God.
- [laughing]
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- ♪ I can't find my way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ Out of the shadows,
out of the shadows ♪
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[FaceTime chiming]
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- Renni.
- Hey.
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- Hey, girl. What you doing?
I'm on my way.
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I am in Columbia, baby.
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- Okay. I'm here.
- All right. See you soon.
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- ♪ I'm barely holding on ♪
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- Renni and I are
both going through it
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with our moms
and my heart breaks for her,
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and I want
to just be there for her.
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And plus, after dealing
with the whole rumor
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with Joc and Meda,
my house getting robbed,
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even me and Erica's
getting into it bad,
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it's just too much,
so I need this little getaway.
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both: Hey!
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- It's been weeks, and my mom
is still in the hospital.
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Her condition
hasn't improved any.
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And the longer my mom
is in the hospital,
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the harder it gets for me,
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because every day I realize
how much more I need her.
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- I'm about to cook,
and we about to relax.
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- I'm really happy
to have Sierra in my life.
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I love her, and she shows
how much of a friend
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she is to me
by--by just being here.
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- I've been super overwhelmed.
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And the robbery
just made everything worse.
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- I'm so glad
y'all wasn't home.
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- Yeah, I know.
- Like, that's crazy.
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- Yeah. And they came
in there with guns.
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Like, I can't go back.
- That's it for that.
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- Yeah, I gotta sell it, so.
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- Everything happen
for a reason.
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It's gonna be all right.
- [sighs]
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- Come here.
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[soft dramatic music]
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- Renni is a real friend
that's gonna support me,
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even though she's going through
her own deep [bleep],
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which is more than I can say
about Erica and Bambi lately.
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They put me on blast
with Kendra
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before I could
even explain myself.
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- People saying that you knew
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what time it was with her
before the wedding.
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- No the [bleep] I didn't.
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- You're assuming
we're trying to set you up.
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We just want an answer.
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- No, it's not set me up.
It's bigger than set me up.
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So right now, I'm feeling like
I really don't have
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much of a support system
except for Renni.
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I genuinely love her.
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So how is your mom doing,
Renni?
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- She having
another surgery today.
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- Really?
- Yeah.
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So I guess we'll see
what happen today.
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You know me and my mama
ain't really have, like,
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the best relationship
all the time.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- But I love my mama
to death regardless.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- I'm just sitting back,
looking at all the messages
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that she done sent
that I didn't respond to,
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and all the times, like,
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I might have just been
in one of my moods
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and dealing
with my own bull[bleep].
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- One of my--bull[bleep].
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- And I was a bitch to her.
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Then, it's like I don't never
want to do that again,
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'cause I don't know
what's gonna happen tomorrow.
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Like, I want to lay in the bed
and cuddle with her.
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- Our mamas get on our nerves,
but when they not feeling well,
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we want them to be well,
because--
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you know what I'm saying?
- We only got one.
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- We only got one mama.
- We only got one.
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It's been very helpful
having a friend like Sierra.
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For her to put her situation
and everything
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she's dealing with at home
to decide to come here
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and be here for me,
I love her for life.
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- In the Bible, it says,
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"God give his toughest battles
to his strongest soldiers."
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We gonna get through it,
because we strong enough.
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♪ ♪
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We got it.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ You ain't bad, baby ♪
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♪ You ain't bad, baby ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ But you got to know,
you got to know ♪
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♪ That the shock
ain't no thing to me ♪
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- Hey, Pastor.
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- ♪ Oh, what's the problem? ♪
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♪ What's the matter? ♪
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♪ Too much drama ♪
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♪ Too much happening
every moment ♪
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♪ Like a bomb ♪
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- That was
an interesting wedding.
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- [chuckles]
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- So what's up?
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- Well, the big, main issue
that we were addressing
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in our premarital counseling
was this child.
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But it's come
to the surface now--
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- The night you were
proclaimed husband and wife,
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someone showed me
social media--
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40,000, 50,000,
75,000, 100,000,
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150,000--about this baby.
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I didn't have to worry
about it. You know why?
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Because we had--
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- 'Cause you knew, yeah.
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- We had already covered that,
and we ain't let anybody know.
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- We've been working on that.
Quietly.
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Now, people know,
you know how it go.
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Somebody gonna talk.
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Somebody gotta look like
they got the best tea.
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Well, the good thing about it,
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you ain't gonna be able to
throw it in my wife face,
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'cause we established this way
before her and I got married.
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- Now that the word is out
there about this baby,
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I feel embarrassed,
I feel angry.
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That's really the real reason
I didn't go
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to Spice's fashion show.
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It's just hard, you know,
like, to have a wound heal,
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and then to pick it back open
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just leaves
a open sore again, you know?
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- I knew the position
I had put myself in,
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and I knew what was at stake
when I told her.
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We sat right here,
and you witnessed that happen.
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She cried, I cried, we cried.
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And I told her
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I'ma be the best version
of myself that I can be.
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And I've been working on that.
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- So you made progress.
- A lot of progress.
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We both have.
295
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But it's like, right now,
this is a new situation.
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A young lady has come out
right here
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around the time of the wedding.
And--
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- Yeah.
It's a lady from his past.
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Allow Jasiel to tell you.
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It was not during his dealings
with me before he met me.
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- It wasn't, it wasn't.
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- And again,
that's why I said...
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- It wasn't.
- That's what you said.
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- But she's--
she coming out like--
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- But it's
contradicting stories.
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- What did she say?
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- She saying that
she told my wife--
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- She told me that she's been
dealing with him since 2008,
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so since he was deep
into his first marriage.
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She told me that
she had dealings with him
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in 2016, 2017, and 2019.
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- But ain't no truth in it,
though, like, for real.
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- So you having been involved.
- No. Look at what year it is.
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- She threw out--
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- That would still be
a violation, but--
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- She threw out at least
three or four date ranges.
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You know what I mean?
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And I fell within...
- Nothing past 2019.
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- At least two or three.
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- Nothing.
- So--
321
00:11:09,110 --> 00:11:10,044
- And when you ask her
about that--
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- No, are you saying that--?
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- You mentioned the 2019--
of her being--
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- Nothing past--
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- Past when?
Tell me the year.
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- '12, '13.
'12. '10.
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00:11:19,687 --> 00:11:21,155
- Okay.
- Nothing past that.
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- You sure?
- Yeah.
329
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- She stood up and said it.
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Like, what are you
talking about?
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00:11:24,659 --> 00:11:25,960
- Look, I didn't say she's--
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I didn't say she's lying
about that happening.
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- I don't know why she would,
you know what I mean?
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Like, I don't know,
but it was said.
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And it's just, like,
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I don't want to be
in our marriage now with that.
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[dramatic music]
338
00:11:37,171 --> 00:11:38,773
Make no mistake:
when I was crying
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with Bambi and Erica,
those were real tears
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00:11:40,808 --> 00:11:43,477
simply because it's, like,
I want my marriage to work,
341
00:11:43,477 --> 00:11:47,181
but I do not want to stay
and remain in a marriage
342
00:11:47,181 --> 00:11:48,749
that's built off
of bull[bleep].
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00:11:48,749 --> 00:11:50,151
We need help.
344
00:11:50,151 --> 00:11:51,819
- It sting a little bit
when your wife say,
345
00:11:51,819 --> 00:11:54,088
"I don't want to be in this
marriage no more," you know.
346
00:11:54,088 --> 00:11:56,023
This whole [bleep] with Meda,
it just, like,
347
00:11:56,023 --> 00:11:57,625
poured gas on the fire.
348
00:11:57,625 --> 00:11:59,593
But I gotta do everything
in my power to get past that,
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keep my lady happy.
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00:12:00,928 --> 00:12:02,463
- And so, that's where we are,
Pastor.
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00:12:02,463 --> 00:12:05,566
Like, I know that we dealt
with the baby--
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00:12:05,566 --> 00:12:08,035
- And you knew nothing
about this.
353
00:12:08,035 --> 00:12:10,972
- Well, it--okay,
so it's a little bit.
354
00:12:10,972 --> 00:12:13,741
A while back,
Jasiel let me know
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that there was a lady
he used to deal with.
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- Her name is Meda.
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00:12:17,211 --> 00:12:18,980
- However, when I went to,
you know,
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speak with my friends,
her name came back up.
359
00:12:21,282 --> 00:12:23,451
- When this news came up to me,
I was like, "What?"
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Then, she FaceTimed her
361
00:12:25,953 --> 00:12:28,723
and said she been dealing
with me up until 2019.
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00:12:28,723 --> 00:12:29,957
- When was your last time...
363
00:12:29,957 --> 00:12:31,359
- 'Cause that's what
I--that's--
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00:12:31,359 --> 00:12:32,827
- Engaged with this Meda?
365
00:12:32,827 --> 00:12:34,395
- I'm sorry, Pastor,
but that's what I want to know.
366
00:12:34,395 --> 00:12:38,132
- When was your last time
with Meda?
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00:12:38,132 --> 00:12:39,467
- "With."
- Okay.
368
00:12:39,467 --> 00:12:40,968
- Got an attorney
sitting right here, Pastor.
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00:12:40,968 --> 00:12:42,870
- Now, how many years have
you been single and married?
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00:12:42,870 --> 00:12:44,071
Like, come on.
371
00:12:44,071 --> 00:12:45,539
When did you and Alex
get a divorce?
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00:12:45,539 --> 00:12:46,707
- Baby--baby, listen.
Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.
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00:12:46,707 --> 00:12:47,541
- Y'all got divorced
in '13 or '14.
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00:12:47,541 --> 00:12:48,876
- Listen, listen--
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00:12:48,876 --> 00:12:50,711
- And I met you
in doggone almost '15. So--
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00:12:50,711 --> 00:12:52,313
- Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Kendra, hold on.
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00:12:52,313 --> 00:12:55,182
I'm being cross-examined by
my pastor and my attorney wife.
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00:12:55,182 --> 00:12:57,184
And even though I know
the last time I was with Meda,
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00:12:57,184 --> 00:12:59,453
stuff like this
could--could trip anyone up.
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00:12:59,453 --> 00:13:00,988
- So when was the last time
381
00:13:00,988 --> 00:13:03,924
you were physically together
intimately?
382
00:13:03,924 --> 00:13:06,727
- Intimate? Years ago.
Way before I ever met Kendra.
383
00:13:06,727 --> 00:13:08,329
- That's too vague.
- Wait, but I can't--
384
00:13:08,329 --> 00:13:09,630
- Okay, way before you met me?
Okay.
385
00:13:09,630 --> 00:13:11,499
All I'm saying, Pastor,
is this:
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00:13:11,499 --> 00:13:14,001
like, we already been
through enough stuff.
387
00:13:14,001 --> 00:13:15,469
And we ain't even done.
388
00:13:15,469 --> 00:13:17,071
I'm not even done
telling you all the crap.
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00:13:17,071 --> 00:13:20,775
His ex, he had
at his bachelor party.
390
00:13:20,775 --> 00:13:22,510
She was in a box.
She came out.
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00:13:22,510 --> 00:13:24,111
You feel me?
- [chuckling]
392
00:13:24,111 --> 00:13:25,479
- I got my friends telling me,
"Yeah, he was rubbing on her.
393
00:13:25,479 --> 00:13:27,748
They was making contact."
- Nah, nah.
394
00:13:27,748 --> 00:13:29,050
- Like, that's what is out here
floating around.
395
00:13:29,050 --> 00:13:30,484
- No.
396
00:13:30,484 --> 00:13:33,287
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
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00:13:33,287 --> 00:13:34,688
- My mom's marrying the guy.
398
00:13:34,688 --> 00:13:36,157
I'm not marrying the guy.
I don't know what he like.
399
00:13:36,157 --> 00:13:38,626
- Yeah, but if she marry him,
that's your step-dad.
400
00:13:38,626 --> 00:13:40,394
- Relax.
- Relax?
401
00:13:40,394 --> 00:13:42,163
- Yo, your father
the other night?
402
00:13:42,163 --> 00:13:43,697
"You ready for a new step-dad?"
403
00:13:43,697 --> 00:13:45,833
- Yeah, like, it's probably him
being a little jealous.
404
00:13:45,833 --> 00:13:47,568
I think that's what it is.
- [laughs]
405
00:13:47,568 --> 00:13:48,736
- You honestly think
Joc can sit down
406
00:13:48,736 --> 00:13:49,703
and tell you
everything he's done?
407
00:13:49,703 --> 00:13:51,138
My brother got about
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00:13:51,138 --> 00:13:52,807
four of these little bowls
of [bleep]ups to go.
409
00:13:52,807 --> 00:13:54,208
- I know.
410
00:13:54,208 --> 00:13:55,576
- So you either gonna have
to decide to deal with it
411
00:13:55,576 --> 00:13:57,411
or not to deal with it.
412
00:13:57,411 --> 00:13:59,413
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
413
00:14:01,668 --> 00:14:02,869
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
414
00:14:02,869 --> 00:14:05,105
[dramatic music]
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00:14:05,105 --> 00:14:07,207
- I got my friends telling me,
"Yeah, he was rubbing on her.
416
00:14:07,207 --> 00:14:09,342
They was making contact."
- Nah, nah.
417
00:14:09,342 --> 00:14:10,844
- Like, that's what is
out here floating around.
418
00:14:10,844 --> 00:14:12,379
- No.
419
00:14:12,379 --> 00:14:13,847
- Karlie was
at the bachelor party.
420
00:14:13,847 --> 00:14:15,415
- Doing what?
421
00:14:15,415 --> 00:14:17,784
- Apparently,
she jumped out of a box.
422
00:14:17,784 --> 00:14:21,855
He's, like, rubbing and groping
and doing all that [bleep].
423
00:14:21,855 --> 00:14:23,256
- Jasiel's position is,
424
00:14:23,256 --> 00:14:24,924
"Oh, all these rumors,
all these rumors."
425
00:14:24,924 --> 00:14:26,059
But it's, like, come on, playa,
426
00:14:26,059 --> 00:14:27,494
'cause one of them
ain't a rumor.
427
00:14:27,494 --> 00:14:29,095
So that's the stuff.
That's what I'm talking about.
428
00:14:29,095 --> 00:14:30,430
- Can't even tell you.
- That's why--
429
00:14:30,430 --> 00:14:31,898
- But that wasn't me.
I don't recall all that.
430
00:14:31,898 --> 00:14:34,033
- That's kind of--
- Bold.
431
00:14:34,033 --> 00:14:35,502
Say it, Pastor.
It's bold.
432
00:14:35,502 --> 00:14:37,337
That's--that's what I'm saying.
Why would you even play?
433
00:14:37,337 --> 00:14:38,872
Why would you even go close
to the ledge?
434
00:14:38,872 --> 00:14:40,507
- The ledge came close to me.
435
00:14:40,507 --> 00:14:42,742
- But one of the things I want
you both to understand is this.
436
00:14:42,742 --> 00:14:45,812
Listen.
You cannot entertain spirits.
437
00:14:45,812 --> 00:14:48,181
That should have been
a immediate, "Oh. No.
438
00:14:48,181 --> 00:14:50,383
"Let me call my fiancée
439
00:14:50,383 --> 00:14:52,585
and let her know
exactly what just happened."
440
00:14:52,585 --> 00:14:54,087
- So I didn't tell her.
Okay.
441
00:14:54,087 --> 00:14:55,255
I had a lot going on.
442
00:14:55,255 --> 00:14:57,023
You know the tension
we was having,
443
00:14:57,023 --> 00:14:58,558
having to talk to you about it.
- Right.
444
00:14:58,558 --> 00:15:01,027
- I just wanted to make
this one with my wife
445
00:15:01,027 --> 00:15:02,829
and to continue to grow
and move on.
446
00:15:02,829 --> 00:15:06,399
- I plan for this
to be my only marriage.
447
00:15:06,399 --> 00:15:08,668
Like, I don't want
to get a divorce.
448
00:15:08,668 --> 00:15:11,404
I don't want to have to go find
somebody new to love.
449
00:15:11,404 --> 00:15:13,706
Lord forbid,
I'm forced to, I will.
450
00:15:13,706 --> 00:15:15,408
You know? I don't know.
I don't want to feel that way.
451
00:15:15,408 --> 00:15:16,943
- I just don't want you to--
I just don't want you
452
00:15:16,943 --> 00:15:18,745
to jump every time somebody
brings something, because--
453
00:15:18,745 --> 00:15:21,114
- I'm not jumping.
But these are real people.
454
00:15:21,114 --> 00:15:22,348
- I get it.
- These are real events.
455
00:15:22,348 --> 00:15:24,017
- Well--
- These are real happenings.
456
00:15:24,017 --> 00:15:25,285
- Well, where are the receipts?
457
00:15:25,285 --> 00:15:29,155
Hey, Kendra, I am your husband.
458
00:15:29,155 --> 00:15:30,457
Just listen to me.
You know what I'm saying?
459
00:15:30,457 --> 00:15:31,624
Like, we just got married.
460
00:15:31,624 --> 00:15:33,259
Can't be going on
what somebody said I did
461
00:15:33,259 --> 00:15:35,628
three, four years ago,
'cause that ain't even--
462
00:15:35,628 --> 00:15:38,231
♪ ♪
463
00:15:38,231 --> 00:15:39,732
- He is okay because
464
00:15:39,732 --> 00:15:41,701
we were able to get through
that first major hurdle.
465
00:15:41,701 --> 00:15:44,838
I feel like Jasiel feels like
he can do, say,
466
00:15:44,838 --> 00:15:48,041
and act any kind of way,
and that's not what it is.
467
00:15:48,041 --> 00:15:49,909
Like, I want you
to appreciate me.
468
00:15:49,909 --> 00:15:51,511
- Like, what make you think--
- When we wasn't together,
469
00:15:51,511 --> 00:15:53,746
you ain't even have enough
couth to not, like, wrap it up.
470
00:15:53,746 --> 00:15:55,215
- Okay, do we--I did.
471
00:15:55,215 --> 00:15:58,151
- Nah. I mean,
DNA says differently, sir.
472
00:15:58,151 --> 00:15:59,786
- How do you fix
this situation?
473
00:15:59,786 --> 00:16:01,321
- I mean, honestly, man,
474
00:16:01,321 --> 00:16:02,789
I'm just trying
to love my wife.
475
00:16:02,789 --> 00:16:03,823
I'm just trying to grow.
476
00:16:03,823 --> 00:16:04,958
- And I'm trying
to love you, too.
477
00:16:04,958 --> 00:16:06,226
I just want us to get past--
478
00:16:06,226 --> 00:16:07,360
- But if a rumor come out,
I don't--
479
00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:08,661
- Right.
- I go on punishment again?
480
00:16:08,661 --> 00:16:10,230
What?
481
00:16:10,230 --> 00:16:12,565
- Nah, it's not that simple.
Like, these ain't just rumors.
482
00:16:12,565 --> 00:16:14,767
You can't just be
dismissive of...
483
00:16:14,767 --> 00:16:17,103
- I'm not.
- What's circulating around.
484
00:16:17,103 --> 00:16:18,104
Like, you know what I mean?
485
00:16:18,104 --> 00:16:19,706
I just want you to hold up
486
00:16:19,706 --> 00:16:22,342
to what you told my daddy
you was gonna do,
487
00:16:22,342 --> 00:16:24,410
and how you told him
that you was gonna love me
488
00:16:24,410 --> 00:16:26,179
and my brother
and my whole family.
489
00:16:26,179 --> 00:16:27,881
Like, that's serious to me,
you know?
490
00:16:27,881 --> 00:16:29,849
And I trust that your heart's
in the right place.
491
00:16:29,849 --> 00:16:32,585
Like, I know that you love me.
But I just want peace.
492
00:16:32,585 --> 00:16:35,655
- You have to work extra.
- I--
493
00:16:35,655 --> 00:16:39,659
- It just is--you know?
"I gotta work extra."
494
00:16:39,659 --> 00:16:41,928
- So many people said,
"Don't mess this up, Joc.
495
00:16:41,928 --> 00:16:43,396
Don't--you got a good one."
496
00:16:43,396 --> 00:16:44,964
That's all it take sometimes.
497
00:16:44,964 --> 00:16:46,232
[snaps fingers]
A second.
498
00:16:46,232 --> 00:16:47,867
A second
for something to go wrong,
499
00:16:47,867 --> 00:16:50,803
and everything crashes
or burns, you know?
500
00:16:50,803 --> 00:16:53,072
- As far as the baby,
what I'm prepared for
501
00:16:53,072 --> 00:16:56,142
is for Jasiel to be
the spokesperson on the matter.
502
00:16:56,142 --> 00:16:57,544
- And I'ma
hold you accountable.
503
00:16:57,544 --> 00:16:59,445
- I'ma hold me accountable.
504
00:16:59,445 --> 00:17:02,615
I mean, at the end of the day,
I mean, I--you know--
505
00:17:02,615 --> 00:17:06,920
- So the plan is
let him hash it out, whatever.
506
00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,489
- I feel like Jasiel
should be the one
507
00:17:09,489 --> 00:17:12,125
to tell my family
about this baby.
508
00:17:12,125 --> 00:17:15,328
And the fact that he's not
jumping through a hoop
509
00:17:15,328 --> 00:17:17,297
to run and beat down they door
to tell them,
510
00:17:17,297 --> 00:17:18,865
like,
that's kind of an issue to me.
511
00:17:18,865 --> 00:17:21,234
- As long as
we're communicating,
512
00:17:21,234 --> 00:17:23,202
we can't be broken.
- Yeah.
513
00:17:23,202 --> 00:17:25,405
♪ ♪
514
00:17:25,405 --> 00:17:28,007
[upbeat music]
515
00:17:28,007 --> 00:17:30,610
♪ ♪
516
00:17:30,610 --> 00:17:34,514
- ♪ I got your back
no matter what ♪
517
00:17:34,514 --> 00:17:36,482
- Close the 'frigerator.
518
00:17:36,482 --> 00:17:38,251
- ♪ Our family, our family ♪
519
00:17:38,251 --> 00:17:39,919
- What's this right here?
520
00:17:39,919 --> 00:17:42,088
- Four.
- Ah.
521
00:17:42,088 --> 00:17:45,058
- So this is a typical night
in the Smith-Harris home.
522
00:17:45,058 --> 00:17:47,694
As crazy as all
of our schedules are,
523
00:17:47,694 --> 00:17:50,496
it's important for us
just to take a moment
524
00:17:50,496 --> 00:17:51,998
to catch up with each other.
525
00:17:51,998 --> 00:17:57,537
Our cousin Shasha is here.
I am surrounded by Harrises.
526
00:17:57,537 --> 00:17:59,372
I think we're blended enough.
527
00:17:59,372 --> 00:18:01,174
My family, y'all ready to eat?
528
00:18:01,174 --> 00:18:02,208
- Please.
- Yeah.
529
00:18:02,208 --> 00:18:03,476
- Yandy, how was your day?
530
00:18:03,476 --> 00:18:05,645
- It was good,
Mr. Student of the Month.
531
00:18:05,645 --> 00:18:06,846
- Hey.
532
00:18:06,846 --> 00:18:08,314
- Student of the Week,
but, you know.
533
00:18:08,314 --> 00:18:09,916
- We speaking Student of
the Month into existence, okay?
534
00:18:09,916 --> 00:18:11,851
- Lil Mendeecees only
been here a few months,
535
00:18:11,851 --> 00:18:13,252
and he's thriving.
536
00:18:13,252 --> 00:18:15,488
But my biggest dream
is to have the whole family
537
00:18:15,488 --> 00:18:17,724
just getting along
without drama,
538
00:18:17,724 --> 00:18:21,027
and people enjoying each other
and having a great time.
539
00:18:21,027 --> 00:18:25,632
- Lil Mendeecees, how do you
feel about your mom and Mario?
540
00:18:25,632 --> 00:18:27,233
- How am I supposed to feel
about that?
541
00:18:27,233 --> 00:18:28,935
- I mean, you like him?
542
00:18:28,935 --> 00:18:30,069
- That's my mom.
543
00:18:30,069 --> 00:18:31,137
As long as she happy,
I'm happy.
544
00:18:31,137 --> 00:18:32,805
- A'ight.
- I'm happy she happy.
545
00:18:32,805 --> 00:18:34,674
- Why would you bring that up
right now
546
00:18:34,674 --> 00:18:37,176
while we're having
a family dinner?
547
00:18:37,176 --> 00:18:39,812
- What do you think
about her moving down here?
548
00:18:39,812 --> 00:18:41,547
- I don't know, man.
That was God.
549
00:18:41,547 --> 00:18:43,616
'Cause when
I was living in New York,
550
00:18:43,616 --> 00:18:46,819
I was begging her
to come down here.
551
00:18:46,819 --> 00:18:49,389
And then she found out
she had family down here.
552
00:18:49,389 --> 00:18:51,224
It all worked, you know?
553
00:18:51,224 --> 00:18:52,492
- Oh, thank you.
554
00:18:52,492 --> 00:18:53,726
- So what do you think
we need to do
555
00:18:53,726 --> 00:18:56,763
to bring the family together?
556
00:18:56,763 --> 00:18:58,665
- I mean, how closer
do we need to get?
557
00:18:58,665 --> 00:19:00,266
I feel like everything's fine.
558
00:19:00,266 --> 00:19:02,235
- This is a blended family.
559
00:19:02,235 --> 00:19:03,436
- We shouldn't rush things,
you know?
560
00:19:03,436 --> 00:19:04,937
- Rush?
The hell you mean rush?
561
00:19:04,937 --> 00:19:06,572
- We fine. We--we--
562
00:19:06,572 --> 00:19:08,675
- Why you--why you making
that face, Yandy, over there?
563
00:19:08,675 --> 00:19:13,012
- I knew it. You lied.
This is you, what you want.
564
00:19:13,012 --> 00:19:14,247
It's not Lil Mendeecees.
565
00:19:14,247 --> 00:19:15,581
He's just getting
used to the fact
566
00:19:15,581 --> 00:19:18,384
that his mom has a new fiancé.
567
00:19:18,384 --> 00:19:21,521
Please listen to the boy.
568
00:19:21,521 --> 00:19:23,690
- What do you think should
happen that could bring,
569
00:19:23,690 --> 00:19:25,758
you know,
our blended family together?
570
00:19:25,758 --> 00:19:27,326
You know, they about
to get married.
571
00:19:27,326 --> 00:19:28,494
That's a huge step.
572
00:19:28,494 --> 00:19:29,962
- My mom's marrying the guy.
573
00:19:29,962 --> 00:19:31,564
I'm not marrying the guy.
I don't know what he like.
574
00:19:31,564 --> 00:19:34,367
- Yeah, but if she marry him,
that's your step-dad.
575
00:19:34,367 --> 00:19:36,402
- Nah, relax.
- Relax?
576
00:19:36,402 --> 00:19:38,671
- Relax.
577
00:19:38,671 --> 00:19:41,808
I think I should get to know
him first before y'all.
578
00:19:41,808 --> 00:19:42,909
- That's fair, Mendeecees.
- Yeah.
579
00:19:42,909 --> 00:19:44,210
I mean, listen.
I respect--
580
00:19:44,210 --> 00:19:45,645
- You gotta listen.
- Nah, I respect that.
581
00:19:45,645 --> 00:19:47,146
- You know, he's with my mom,
582
00:19:47,146 --> 00:19:50,516
so I'm gonna make sure
she in the right hands.
583
00:19:50,516 --> 00:19:52,218
- You sounding real grown man
right now.
584
00:19:52,218 --> 00:19:53,386
- I'm a grown man.
585
00:19:53,386 --> 00:19:54,854
- I like that.
- I've been a grown man.
586
00:19:54,854 --> 00:19:57,056
- He's a smart boy.
He's gonna tell you what it is.
587
00:19:57,056 --> 00:19:58,424
- Thank you, Yandy.
588
00:19:58,424 --> 00:19:59,992
- I see what you're doing,
Mendeecees.
589
00:19:59,992 --> 00:20:02,028
You're trying to prove to me
that you wasn't lying, right?
590
00:20:02,028 --> 00:20:04,897
So you trying to make your son
get on your side
591
00:20:04,897 --> 00:20:07,433
when he's just an honest kid,
so he's gonna be honest.
592
00:20:07,433 --> 00:20:09,569
Stop.
You lose this one.
593
00:20:09,569 --> 00:20:11,537
Mendeecees, you know me
and you always.
594
00:20:11,537 --> 00:20:13,439
- Yeah, I know.
- We always.
595
00:20:13,439 --> 00:20:15,341
- Yeah. We always.
[Lil Mendeecees laughs]
596
00:20:15,341 --> 00:20:16,876
- I think, now that I'm back,
597
00:20:16,876 --> 00:20:18,778
it's starting
to feel like the old times.
598
00:20:18,778 --> 00:20:20,079
- Mm-hmm.
599
00:20:20,079 --> 00:20:21,481
- And it's starting to feel
like it's normal.
600
00:20:21,481 --> 00:20:22,915
- Mm-hmm.
601
00:20:22,915 --> 00:20:24,016
- So when I was gone,
a lot of things happening.
602
00:20:24,016 --> 00:20:25,418
- You right.
603
00:20:25,418 --> 00:20:26,586
- You know, we able to put
the past in the past,
604
00:20:26,586 --> 00:20:28,755
and we all moving forward
like adults.
605
00:20:28,755 --> 00:20:33,926
Let's bring the blended family
together, and make it work.
606
00:20:33,926 --> 00:20:36,262
♪ ♪
607
00:20:36,262 --> 00:20:38,464
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
608
00:20:38,464 --> 00:20:39,832
- The Meda situation.
- Yes.
609
00:20:39,832 --> 00:20:41,167
- I don't even know
where that came from, bro.
610
00:20:41,167 --> 00:20:42,435
- You don't know
where that came?
611
00:20:42,435 --> 00:20:43,536
So it's not true?
- No. What?
612
00:20:43,536 --> 00:20:44,804
- I don't--
- Bro.
613
00:20:44,804 --> 00:20:45,938
- I'm asking.
- Stop playing.
614
00:20:45,938 --> 00:20:47,807
- What had happened
at that reunion,
615
00:20:47,807 --> 00:20:50,576
where my mom was,
you know, physically touched,
616
00:20:50,576 --> 00:20:51,944
I was young.
- Yeah.
617
00:20:51,944 --> 00:20:54,280
- Having to see that on TV.
- It was horrible.
618
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,482
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
619
00:20:58,634 --> 00:20:59,902
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
620
00:20:59,902 --> 00:21:01,671
- ♪ Man, it's up ♪
621
00:21:01,671 --> 00:21:03,706
♪ Then it be for real 'cause
you know I ain't a bluff ♪
622
00:21:03,706 --> 00:21:07,110
♪ Money comin' in,
I had to get it on the month ♪
623
00:21:07,110 --> 00:21:08,611
♪ All up in my lane ♪
624
00:21:08,611 --> 00:21:10,646
♪ I left them haters
in the dust, yeah ♪
625
00:21:10,646 --> 00:21:12,281
♪ 'Cause it's up, yeah ♪
626
00:21:12,281 --> 00:21:14,016
- And what if
I just swept my ball
627
00:21:14,016 --> 00:21:15,251
in the direction
I want it to go?
628
00:21:15,251 --> 00:21:17,186
Would that count?
- That tennis.
629
00:21:17,186 --> 00:21:19,856
[both chuckle]
That ain't pool.
630
00:21:19,856 --> 00:21:22,225
- I'm up with my brodie oldie,
Chino Dolla.
631
00:21:22,225 --> 00:21:23,626
And this really, like,
the first time I seen him
632
00:21:23,626 --> 00:21:24,861
since the wedding, man,
633
00:21:24,861 --> 00:21:26,596
so we got a lot
of catching up to do.
634
00:21:26,596 --> 00:21:28,297
♪ ♪
635
00:21:28,297 --> 00:21:29,799
Yeah.
636
00:21:29,799 --> 00:21:31,000
- Well, that the best shot
you done made in your life.
637
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,035
- It don't even matter.
I made it, baby.
638
00:21:33,035 --> 00:21:34,704
Listen.
639
00:21:34,704 --> 00:21:37,473
You already know everything
going on with this baby.
640
00:21:37,473 --> 00:21:38,641
- Yeah.
641
00:21:38,641 --> 00:21:40,576
- Ever since the news
went public,
642
00:21:40,576 --> 00:21:43,613
we--you know,
we in a different space,
643
00:21:43,613 --> 00:21:45,415
'cause every day
is a makeup session.
644
00:21:45,415 --> 00:21:46,849
- I'm sure it is.
645
00:21:46,849 --> 00:21:48,084
- It's only a small circle
of people
646
00:21:48,084 --> 00:21:49,519
that know about this baby.
647
00:21:49,519 --> 00:21:52,522
I let my mama know,
told my dad, I told my pastor,
648
00:21:52,522 --> 00:21:55,425
I told my sister,
and I told Chino.
649
00:21:55,425 --> 00:21:58,494
But you gotta understand,
we was on--we was on a break...
650
00:21:58,494 --> 00:21:59,962
- But do you really think...
- With the situation.
651
00:21:59,962 --> 00:22:01,230
- Then, on a break...
652
00:22:01,230 --> 00:22:02,465
- It wasn't even a break.
653
00:22:02,465 --> 00:22:05,201
We was--it was kind of,
like, you know--
654
00:22:05,201 --> 00:22:07,804
- So you thought it was
over with-over with?
655
00:22:07,804 --> 00:22:10,273
- You know, I conceived
this child back in 2019.
656
00:22:10,273 --> 00:22:11,374
Kendra and I were still,
657
00:22:11,374 --> 00:22:14,610
you know what I'm saying,
engaged.
658
00:22:14,610 --> 00:22:19,348
I think we were dealing
with some very difficult issues
659
00:22:19,348 --> 00:22:21,884
while on this little break.
I--
660
00:22:21,884 --> 00:22:24,287
one-night stand turned
into a lifetime of commitment
661
00:22:24,287 --> 00:22:25,421
to a whole nother child.
662
00:22:25,421 --> 00:22:27,056
- I mean,
be honest to yourself.
663
00:22:27,056 --> 00:22:28,658
- You know what I'm saying?
I didn't want it to be over,
664
00:22:28,658 --> 00:22:31,761
but I got caught up
in the situation.
665
00:22:31,761 --> 00:22:33,162
I thought that was done,
666
00:22:33,162 --> 00:22:37,333
and shorty came back like,
boom.
667
00:22:37,333 --> 00:22:38,534
- Okay.
- "You know, I'm preggo."
668
00:22:38,534 --> 00:22:40,069
Somedays, you just be like,
669
00:22:40,069 --> 00:22:42,004
"Man, like,
how this even happen?"
670
00:22:42,004 --> 00:22:43,306
You know what I'm saying?
671
00:22:43,306 --> 00:22:45,708
Somebody gonna say,
"No rubbers."
672
00:22:45,708 --> 00:22:48,644
Actually, there was
a condom involved.
673
00:22:48,644 --> 00:22:51,514
But instead of me
just coming on out,
674
00:22:51,514 --> 00:22:53,583
maybe came out the sides
of the condom, man.
675
00:22:53,583 --> 00:22:55,485
And...
676
00:22:55,485 --> 00:22:59,722
and yeah, the DNA was like,
"Yeah, boy. That's yours."
677
00:22:59,722 --> 00:23:03,259
- You dropped a bomb
on her that--boy.
678
00:23:03,259 --> 00:23:04,961
- It was the hardest thing
in the world to do, bro.
679
00:23:04,961 --> 00:23:06,462
- I commend you
for telling her.
680
00:23:06,462 --> 00:23:09,298
- So now, my question is
the whole Meda thing.
681
00:23:09,298 --> 00:23:11,701
Do I just ignore it
or just step to the situation?
682
00:23:11,701 --> 00:23:13,169
- You can't ignore it.
683
00:23:13,169 --> 00:23:14,337
- I'm really--I'm at the point
where I'm like, hey, man,
684
00:23:14,337 --> 00:23:15,238
I don't know
what you doing, but--
685
00:23:15,238 --> 00:23:16,706
- You can't ignore it.
686
00:23:16,706 --> 00:23:18,674
You gotta take responsibility
for your own stuff.
687
00:23:18,674 --> 00:23:20,843
- What do you mean?
The Meda situation--
688
00:23:20,843 --> 00:23:22,245
- Yes.
689
00:23:22,245 --> 00:23:23,646
- I don't even know
where that came from, bro.
690
00:23:23,646 --> 00:23:24,680
- You don't know where that
came--so, it's not true?
691
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,115
- No, it's not.
What? Bro.
692
00:23:26,115 --> 00:23:27,750
- I don't--I'm asking.
- Stop playing with me, bro.
693
00:23:27,750 --> 00:23:29,719
If it was receipts,
it'd be there,
694
00:23:29,719 --> 00:23:31,587
because you--on one hand,
you get up and say,
695
00:23:31,587 --> 00:23:33,956
"Oh, I ain't messed
with him since 2019."
696
00:23:33,956 --> 00:23:36,492
So if that's the case,
then why even bring it up?
697
00:23:36,492 --> 00:23:37,960
And that's not even factual.
698
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,362
That's not even
no truth in that.
699
00:23:39,362 --> 00:23:41,697
I think Meda still loves me.
700
00:23:41,697 --> 00:23:43,266
And it's deeper
than just loving me.
701
00:23:43,266 --> 00:23:45,268
I think she doesn't want
to see me with Kendra.
702
00:23:45,268 --> 00:23:48,738
- So you got issues like--
- Ooh!
703
00:23:48,738 --> 00:23:51,674
- You want me to tell you
the best ammunition for that?
704
00:23:51,674 --> 00:23:55,444
Sit down with her and Kendra.
705
00:23:55,444 --> 00:23:57,446
- Man, you don't threw
my shot off with that [bleep].
706
00:23:57,446 --> 00:23:58,514
- Nah.
- Kendra--
707
00:23:58,514 --> 00:23:59,849
- But what I'm--
what I'm saying--
708
00:23:59,849 --> 00:24:02,118
- Listen, here's the thing.
Protect the nest.
709
00:24:02,118 --> 00:24:03,185
So saying,
I don't even want to--
710
00:24:03,185 --> 00:24:04,420
- What can she do?
711
00:24:04,420 --> 00:24:05,688
- It ain't about
what she could do.
712
00:24:05,688 --> 00:24:07,456
It's almost like,
why am I gonna even
713
00:24:07,456 --> 00:24:11,227
allow you enough power
to damn near summon me
714
00:24:11,227 --> 00:24:15,331
and my lady to meet with you
to clear the air?
715
00:24:15,331 --> 00:24:16,966
I almost don't even
want to see her,
716
00:24:16,966 --> 00:24:18,434
'cause I'm like,
717
00:24:18,434 --> 00:24:19,936
I don't want to see this side
of this person
718
00:24:19,936 --> 00:24:21,304
that I never seen before.
It's like, if I'm gonna say so,
719
00:24:21,304 --> 00:24:24,373
Meda was one of my good friends
in real life.
720
00:24:24,373 --> 00:24:27,710
So for this to be happening,
I'm like, for what?
721
00:24:27,710 --> 00:24:30,846
- All I can say is...
722
00:24:30,846 --> 00:24:33,649
everything done in the dark
723
00:24:33,649 --> 00:24:34,984
come to the light.
724
00:24:34,984 --> 00:24:42,124
♪ ♪
725
00:24:45,494 --> 00:24:48,331
- ♪ Yeah, I'm stompin'
with the big dogs ♪
726
00:24:48,331 --> 00:24:52,234
♪ ♪
727
00:24:52,234 --> 00:24:54,003
- Hi! [indistinct]
Hi!
728
00:24:54,003 --> 00:24:55,738
- She stinks!
- [squeals]
729
00:24:55,738 --> 00:24:57,106
When I grew up
in Grant Projects,
730
00:24:57,106 --> 00:24:58,541
I had responsibility.
731
00:24:58,541 --> 00:25:01,210
These kids don't know
nothing about that.
732
00:25:01,210 --> 00:25:05,047
So today,
we are going to wash the dog.
733
00:25:05,047 --> 00:25:07,383
Did you get warm water?
That water's freezing cold!
734
00:25:07,383 --> 00:25:10,052
- And?
- [laughing] He said, "and?"
735
00:25:10,052 --> 00:25:11,420
- Don't say "and"
to your mother.
736
00:25:11,420 --> 00:25:12,722
Now, hurry up, Omare.
737
00:25:12,722 --> 00:25:14,190
Get some warm water.
She's freezing.
738
00:25:14,190 --> 00:25:15,958
- [indistinct]
- Go!
739
00:25:15,958 --> 00:25:18,561
Now that I know the truth
about who really wants
740
00:25:18,561 --> 00:25:20,763
this blended family thing
to happen,
741
00:25:20,763 --> 00:25:22,698
I need to speak
to Lil Mendeecees,
742
00:25:22,698 --> 00:25:24,967
'cause this has been
a really big year for him.
743
00:25:24,967 --> 00:25:27,803
He's living with us
in a whole new city.
744
00:25:27,803 --> 00:25:31,273
His mom just moved here,
and she's newly engaged.
745
00:25:31,273 --> 00:25:33,209
There's so much
happening in his world,
746
00:25:33,209 --> 00:25:34,677
and I just want
to take a moment
747
00:25:34,677 --> 00:25:36,379
to just get in his headspace.
748
00:25:36,379 --> 00:25:38,948
Yo, your father
the other night?
749
00:25:38,948 --> 00:25:40,282
What was that about?
750
00:25:40,282 --> 00:25:42,118
- I don't know, man.
He just kept going crazy.
751
00:25:42,118 --> 00:25:46,222
- [laughing] He's so weird.
You looked so uncomfortable.
752
00:25:46,222 --> 00:25:47,623
- I felt he was
going too far with it.
753
00:25:47,623 --> 00:25:49,258
Like, he was just--
he was just doing the most.
754
00:25:49,258 --> 00:25:50,760
- "Are you ready
for a new step-dad?"
755
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,294
- Yeah. Like, come on, now.
- [laughing]
756
00:25:52,294 --> 00:25:53,529
- Like, he was just--
757
00:25:53,529 --> 00:25:55,231
it's probably him
being a little jealous.
758
00:25:55,231 --> 00:25:57,600
I think that's what it is.
He--
759
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,702
- Jealous that you might
have another man in your life?
760
00:25:59,702 --> 00:26:01,003
- Don't make it sound
like that.
761
00:26:01,003 --> 00:26:03,372
That just sound weird.
But it's different.
762
00:26:03,372 --> 00:26:05,107
It's unsettling for me
right now.
763
00:26:05,107 --> 00:26:06,542
I'm not used to it.
764
00:26:06,542 --> 00:26:09,145
So the last thing my dad
said to me before he left is,
765
00:26:09,145 --> 00:26:11,414
"Son,
keep this family together."
766
00:26:11,414 --> 00:26:12,915
That's what he told
the eight-year-old me.
767
00:26:12,915 --> 00:26:15,217
- You have two brothers
and a sister.
768
00:26:15,217 --> 00:26:17,420
You'll become
a father figure to them,
769
00:26:17,420 --> 00:26:19,255
so you have to lead
by an example.
770
00:26:19,255 --> 00:26:20,623
- All right.
771
00:26:20,623 --> 00:26:22,091
He wants all of us
to feel love,
772
00:26:22,091 --> 00:26:23,993
and he just wants to bring in
the whole family,
773
00:26:23,993 --> 00:26:27,296
so I can't really blame him,
and I do understand him.
774
00:26:27,296 --> 00:26:29,632
But I just think
everything has its time.
775
00:26:29,632 --> 00:26:31,333
I feel like things is just so
perfect right now, how it is.
776
00:26:31,333 --> 00:26:32,635
- Yeah.
It's true.
777
00:26:32,635 --> 00:26:34,503
- And I just feel like
there's no need to rush.
778
00:26:34,503 --> 00:26:36,605
- I said the same, exact thing.
779
00:26:36,605 --> 00:26:39,141
- He wants everything
to go back to how it was...
780
00:26:39,141 --> 00:26:40,543
- Yeah.
- When he was home.
781
00:26:40,543 --> 00:26:42,712
I don't know if he realizes,
like,
782
00:26:42,712 --> 00:26:44,780
how bad it was
from being inside.
783
00:26:44,780 --> 00:26:45,948
- Yeah.
784
00:26:45,948 --> 00:26:47,116
- When he went away,
785
00:26:47,116 --> 00:26:48,017
everything just completely,
like--
786
00:26:48,017 --> 00:26:49,418
- It went crazy.
787
00:26:49,418 --> 00:26:50,886
All these years,
788
00:26:50,886 --> 00:26:53,456
I've never had a conversation
with Lil Mendeecees
789
00:26:53,456 --> 00:26:55,858
about what happened
at the reunion show.
790
00:26:55,858 --> 00:26:58,160
- Shut your [bleep] mouth!
- Bitch!
791
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,629
[overlapping angry chatter]
792
00:27:00,629 --> 00:27:01,964
- Bitch!
You disrespect me?
793
00:27:01,964 --> 00:27:03,833
[cheers and applause]
794
00:27:03,833 --> 00:27:06,802
- Mendeecees has no idea
of the magnitude
795
00:27:06,802 --> 00:27:09,438
of hurt I had to deal with
while he was gone.
796
00:27:09,438 --> 00:27:10,840
- What had happened
at that reunion...
797
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,808
- Mm-hmm.
- Where my mom was, you know,
798
00:27:12,808 --> 00:27:14,944
physically touched,
I was young.
799
00:27:14,944 --> 00:27:17,913
Having to see that on TV,
having my friends see that.
800
00:27:17,913 --> 00:27:20,249
- It was horrible.
You know, I'm sorry for that.
801
00:27:20,249 --> 00:27:22,051
- I appreciate your apology.
802
00:27:22,051 --> 00:27:23,519
And this is--this is hard,
803
00:27:23,519 --> 00:27:25,955
because this is our first time
ever speaking about this.
804
00:27:25,955 --> 00:27:29,225
- I'm just grateful that,
you know, we're past it.
805
00:27:29,225 --> 00:27:30,559
Like--
- Yeah, me too.
806
00:27:30,559 --> 00:27:35,297
- In the midst of going through
all the attacks,
807
00:27:35,297 --> 00:27:36,866
I did not think about
808
00:27:36,866 --> 00:27:40,770
what effect it would have
on Lil Mendeecees.
809
00:27:40,770 --> 00:27:42,772
So hearing that
he knew what happened,
810
00:27:42,772 --> 00:27:45,007
hearing that they were
talking about it in school--
811
00:27:45,007 --> 00:27:46,709
he was in elementary school.
812
00:27:46,709 --> 00:27:49,712
That breaks my heart, and it
really does make me feel bad.
813
00:27:49,712 --> 00:27:51,480
- I didn't really know
how to treat you
814
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,516
when you and my mom--
when y'all were at odds.
815
00:27:53,516 --> 00:27:54,617
So...
- Yeah.
816
00:27:54,617 --> 00:27:55,918
- That's my fault for that.
817
00:27:55,918 --> 00:27:57,486
- You were a kid.
818
00:27:57,486 --> 00:27:59,789
You owe no one an apology
in this.
819
00:27:59,789 --> 00:28:01,590
You definitely
don't owe me one.
820
00:28:01,590 --> 00:28:03,959
- I feel like it's too soon
to have a dinner.
821
00:28:03,959 --> 00:28:05,294
- Yeah.
822
00:28:05,294 --> 00:28:06,862
Are you going
to break the news to your dad
823
00:28:06,862 --> 00:28:09,265
that a dinner is not your thing
right now?
824
00:28:09,265 --> 00:28:10,666
- Yeah, I'll be sure
to tell him.
825
00:28:10,666 --> 00:28:12,268
- I don't know that I'm, like,
826
00:28:12,268 --> 00:28:16,772
super excited to just sit down
and, you know, all of that.
827
00:28:16,772 --> 00:28:19,074
- Not everything needs to
be said or addressed right now.
828
00:28:19,074 --> 00:28:21,510
- I definitely don't want
to address anything more.
829
00:28:21,510 --> 00:28:22,711
I just want to move on.
830
00:28:22,711 --> 00:28:23,913
- That's what I'm saying.
831
00:28:23,913 --> 00:28:25,114
- Not even right now.
- Yeah.
832
00:28:25,114 --> 00:28:26,816
- That's it.
Let bygones be bygones.
833
00:28:26,816 --> 00:28:29,318
Time should have healed
whatever is broken.
834
00:28:29,318 --> 00:28:30,853
And that's it.
835
00:28:30,853 --> 00:28:33,689
- This talk was well-needed.
- It was. It was good.
836
00:28:33,689 --> 00:28:35,291
- 'Cause my dad was
bugging out.
837
00:28:35,291 --> 00:28:36,592
- I don't know what happened
to Omare
838
00:28:36,592 --> 00:28:38,327
with that bucket of water,
but the doggie--
839
00:28:38,327 --> 00:28:39,695
- He probably got lost
on his way.
840
00:28:39,695 --> 00:28:42,364
- Can you go find him?
- Yeah.
841
00:28:42,364 --> 00:28:43,899
♪ ♪
842
00:28:43,899 --> 00:28:46,268
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
843
00:28:46,268 --> 00:28:47,570
- I gave it all up.
844
00:28:47,570 --> 00:28:50,573
- Ma, you look so good.
- Thank you, girl.
845
00:28:50,573 --> 00:28:52,842
- If you find out
the dates overlap,
846
00:28:52,842 --> 00:28:53,909
I mean, what--
847
00:28:53,909 --> 00:28:55,411
- Girl,
I'ma leave your brother,
848
00:28:55,411 --> 00:28:57,980
because he lied to me.
849
00:28:57,980 --> 00:28:59,782
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
850
00:29:01,901 --> 00:29:03,603
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
851
00:29:03,603 --> 00:29:05,372
- ♪ Open your eyes, we are
headed to another place ♪
852
00:29:05,372 --> 00:29:06,906
♪ Go no fear,
I'm never scared ♪
853
00:29:06,906 --> 00:29:08,675
♪ I got a lot to say ♪
854
00:29:08,675 --> 00:29:10,443
♪ Love a challenge when they
push me to a higher level ♪
855
00:29:10,443 --> 00:29:13,046
♪ Came for all I deserve,
I ain't come for trouble ♪
856
00:29:13,046 --> 00:29:15,048
♪ ♪
857
00:29:15,048 --> 00:29:17,150
- Hey, sis.
- Hey, boo.
858
00:29:17,150 --> 00:29:19,552
- I am visiting
with my sister-in-law, Ebony.
859
00:29:19,552 --> 00:29:21,721
She's Jasiel's second-oldest
sister,
860
00:29:21,721 --> 00:29:23,390
so she's a lot older than me.
861
00:29:23,390 --> 00:29:25,291
She's just a big,
genuine sweetheart.
862
00:29:25,291 --> 00:29:27,494
And ever since
the first day I met Ebony,
863
00:29:27,494 --> 00:29:28,695
like, we just clicked.
864
00:29:28,695 --> 00:29:30,130
It's just been a lot, Eb.
865
00:29:30,130 --> 00:29:31,531
Like, that's why I came
over here, girl, 'cause--
866
00:29:31,531 --> 00:29:32,966
- I knew it was something.
867
00:29:32,966 --> 00:29:35,902
- Ebony is that one person
in Jasiel's family
868
00:29:35,902 --> 00:29:38,138
who knows everything
about our relationship.
869
00:29:38,138 --> 00:29:39,973
You know the stuff
at the wedding.
870
00:29:39,973 --> 00:29:41,841
You already know that
before the wedding, like,
871
00:29:41,841 --> 00:29:43,109
we was dealing with the whole--
872
00:29:43,109 --> 00:29:44,878
- I know.
- The thing with the kid.
873
00:29:44,878 --> 00:29:48,615
- I didn't know how you
would respond to the baby.
874
00:29:48,615 --> 00:29:49,816
- Mm-hmm.
875
00:29:49,816 --> 00:29:51,117
- I thought you
would have walked.
876
00:29:51,117 --> 00:29:52,719
- After having time to reflect,
it's like,
877
00:29:52,719 --> 00:29:56,756
Jasiel told me about it knowing
that it was a higher chance
878
00:29:56,756 --> 00:29:58,224
than not that
I was gonna leave you.
879
00:29:58,224 --> 00:29:59,659
But I didn't.
880
00:29:59,659 --> 00:30:02,996
I was able to accept the fact
that Jasiel could man up
881
00:30:02,996 --> 00:30:05,465
and tell me about the child.
882
00:30:05,465 --> 00:30:08,968
He could have lied, basically,
and he told me the truth, so.
883
00:30:08,968 --> 00:30:12,372
I spoke with Bambi,
and she also had tea.
884
00:30:12,372 --> 00:30:14,974
You know, remember Meda?
885
00:30:14,974 --> 00:30:17,277
- Is she older?
- Yeah.
886
00:30:17,277 --> 00:30:21,314
So this mother[bleep]
got up at a dinner--
887
00:30:21,314 --> 00:30:22,982
and this came from people,
888
00:30:22,982 --> 00:30:25,185
my friends who was there
who told me about this,
889
00:30:25,185 --> 00:30:28,188
she say,
"Yeah, I been messing with Joc
890
00:30:28,188 --> 00:30:33,293
since 2008 and 2016
and 2017, 2019."
891
00:30:33,293 --> 00:30:35,462
Just, like, rambling off dates,
you know.
892
00:30:35,462 --> 00:30:37,163
So we FaceTimed her.
893
00:30:37,163 --> 00:30:39,132
So I'm like,
"Hey, what's going on?"
894
00:30:39,132 --> 00:30:42,635
like, "Hey. How you doing?"
like, "I'm Kendra. Yeah."
895
00:30:42,635 --> 00:30:44,671
And of course,
your brother like, "What?"
896
00:30:44,671 --> 00:30:46,339
Like, "I've not messed with her
in years."
897
00:30:46,339 --> 00:30:49,008
Now, granted, here--
stay in your seat, now.
898
00:30:49,008 --> 00:30:51,211
He did used to mess
with the lady.
899
00:30:51,211 --> 00:30:53,079
- The question is when?
- Is when?
900
00:30:53,079 --> 00:30:55,615
And some of the dates that
she giving overlaps with me.
901
00:30:55,615 --> 00:30:57,250
And so, it's just like,
902
00:30:57,250 --> 00:30:59,085
why is it so many stories,
you know what I mean?
903
00:30:59,085 --> 00:31:00,820
Especially when
he over here like,
904
00:31:00,820 --> 00:31:02,522
"I have not dealt
with this lady
905
00:31:02,522 --> 00:31:04,290
since I've been with you."
He was like, "I haven't."
906
00:31:04,290 --> 00:31:06,860
- But Kendra, you know
he does things impulsive.
907
00:31:06,860 --> 00:31:08,027
You honestly Joc can sit down
908
00:31:08,027 --> 00:31:09,596
and tell you everything
he's done?
909
00:31:09,596 --> 00:31:10,597
'Cause we know he done--
he's done a lot.
910
00:31:10,597 --> 00:31:11,998
My brother got about
911
00:31:11,998 --> 00:31:13,533
four of these little bowls
of [bleep]ups to go.
912
00:31:13,533 --> 00:31:15,034
- I know.
913
00:31:15,034 --> 00:31:16,269
- So you either gonna
have to decide to deal with it
914
00:31:16,269 --> 00:31:18,738
or not to deal with it.
I mean, he does.
915
00:31:18,738 --> 00:31:22,175
- Can Jasiel change?
Is he capable of change?
916
00:31:22,175 --> 00:31:23,810
Yes, he is.
917
00:31:23,810 --> 00:31:29,048
So either he's gonna love and
honor me and be faithful to me,
918
00:31:29,048 --> 00:31:32,018
or he will be single,
and that's just what it is.
919
00:31:32,018 --> 00:31:35,221
Treat me right, do right,
or get the [bleep] on.
920
00:31:35,221 --> 00:31:38,925
- If you find out
that the dates overlap
921
00:31:38,925 --> 00:31:41,227
your relationship with him,
I mean, what--?
922
00:31:41,227 --> 00:31:43,162
- Girl, I'm leaving--
I'ma leave your brother,
923
00:31:43,162 --> 00:31:46,599
because if that's the truth,
that means he sat up
924
00:31:46,599 --> 00:31:48,635
and lied to me in my face
after--
925
00:31:48,635 --> 00:31:50,403
after we were husband and wife.
926
00:31:50,403 --> 00:31:52,038
Like, that's stupid.
927
00:31:52,038 --> 00:31:53,640
I ain't worried about it
one way or another,
928
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,175
'cause one thing,
kids gonna be fine,
929
00:31:56,175 --> 00:31:58,611
whether it's with your brother
or with somebody else, honey.
930
00:31:58,611 --> 00:32:00,213
Okay?
931
00:32:00,213 --> 00:32:02,115
I'm not finna be staying with
somebody who doing me wrong.
932
00:32:02,115 --> 00:32:03,349
I'm not.
933
00:32:03,349 --> 00:32:04,851
♪ ♪
934
00:32:04,851 --> 00:32:07,720
♪ Roll it out slowly,
never lost focus ♪
935
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,289
♪ She was once broken ♪
936
00:32:09,289 --> 00:32:12,625
♪ Hanging on for her life ♪
937
00:32:12,625 --> 00:32:15,295
♪ Now look at her shine ♪
938
00:32:15,295 --> 00:32:17,931
♪ She's on fire,
oh, oh, oh ♪
939
00:32:17,931 --> 00:32:21,134
- Madre.
- Hey.
940
00:32:21,134 --> 00:32:23,436
- Mama.
- What's up?
941
00:32:23,436 --> 00:32:24,637
- Look at you.
942
00:32:24,637 --> 00:32:26,005
- I know.
943
00:32:26,005 --> 00:32:28,975
- You look so good.
Ma!
944
00:32:28,975 --> 00:32:31,578
- Yes, girl.
- Look at you!
945
00:32:31,578 --> 00:32:33,146
- Let me do a little walk
for you.
946
00:32:33,146 --> 00:32:36,015
You ain't seen me in a while.
- Girl, you look so healthy.
947
00:32:36,015 --> 00:32:37,550
- I feel amazing.
- Mama!
948
00:32:37,550 --> 00:32:38,851
- I think it's like--
949
00:32:38,851 --> 00:32:41,688
I didn't count the days,
but I gave it all up.
950
00:32:41,688 --> 00:32:43,590
- Ma, you look so good.
951
00:32:43,590 --> 00:32:44,958
- Thank you, girl.
952
00:32:44,958 --> 00:32:46,326
- You know--I know.
Hell, I was up there.
953
00:32:46,326 --> 00:32:48,728
- I'm back at the shop.
You see the lights on.
954
00:32:48,728 --> 00:32:50,363
I'm working.
- You working.
955
00:32:50,363 --> 00:32:54,233
It feels so good to see my
mama healthy and happy again.
956
00:32:54,233 --> 00:32:57,503
I feel like the conversation
with Eric and his mom
957
00:32:57,503 --> 00:32:59,072
really was a eye-opener.
958
00:32:59,072 --> 00:33:01,207
I really feel like
she's on a great track,
959
00:33:01,207 --> 00:33:02,976
and I really hope
that she just stick to it,
960
00:33:02,976 --> 00:33:04,911
because she got girls
that love her to death
961
00:33:04,911 --> 00:33:07,146
and cannot live life
without her.
962
00:33:07,146 --> 00:33:08,915
I've been so stressed, Ma.
963
00:33:08,915 --> 00:33:11,017
Like, after my house
got broken into,
964
00:33:11,017 --> 00:33:12,518
I'm like--Ma, you already know,
965
00:33:12,518 --> 00:33:15,622
I done been robbed at gunpoint
one time in my life.
966
00:33:15,622 --> 00:33:16,956
And now that this happened,
967
00:33:16,956 --> 00:33:18,458
I don't want to be
in that house.
968
00:33:18,458 --> 00:33:20,760
Trying to get it through
Eric head's like--
969
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,730
we been bumping heads so bad.
970
00:33:23,730 --> 00:33:25,765
I just feel like
he need to understand me
971
00:33:25,765 --> 00:33:27,100
a little bit more.
972
00:33:27,100 --> 00:33:30,803
South Carolina allowed me
to really think about
973
00:33:30,803 --> 00:33:33,239
what I really want
out of a relationship.
974
00:33:33,239 --> 00:33:35,908
And Eric and I
still haven't spoken,
975
00:33:35,908 --> 00:33:38,611
and if we cannot agree
to move forward,
976
00:33:38,611 --> 00:33:41,280
I don't know how our future
is gonna look.
977
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:42,849
I know I've been MIA.
I'm sorry.
978
00:33:42,849 --> 00:33:45,051
I been having a lot going on.
- I know. Where you been at?
979
00:33:45,051 --> 00:33:49,956
- I just left down from
South Carolina with Renni.
980
00:33:49,956 --> 00:33:53,426
Her mom is in the hospital,
in a coma, Ma.
981
00:33:53,426 --> 00:33:56,295
And I just feel so bad,
because I'm like, damn.
982
00:33:56,295 --> 00:33:58,197
Nobody knows what's
going on with me,
983
00:33:58,197 --> 00:34:00,133
but I'm making sure
that I'm there for her.
984
00:34:00,133 --> 00:34:01,634
- Yeah.
- But I'm not gonna lie.
985
00:34:01,634 --> 00:34:02,802
Being down there with them,
986
00:34:02,802 --> 00:34:04,203
you know what I'm saying,
made me be like,
987
00:34:04,203 --> 00:34:05,872
"I need to get back home
to my mama."
988
00:34:05,872 --> 00:34:07,573
But I just need to come
see you, feel you, touch you...
989
00:34:07,573 --> 00:34:08,908
- Mm-hmm.
990
00:34:08,908 --> 00:34:10,276
- And just tell you
how much I love you.
991
00:34:10,276 --> 00:34:13,146
And, you know--
'cause life is short.
992
00:34:13,146 --> 00:34:15,815
- It's crazy out here.
- Yes.
993
00:34:15,815 --> 00:34:22,889
♪ ♪
994
00:34:22,889 --> 00:34:24,991
- What's up? What's up?
Hey, Ma.
995
00:34:24,991 --> 00:34:26,359
- Ooh!
- How are you?
996
00:34:26,359 --> 00:34:29,495
- What's up, Eric?
- What's up, Si?
997
00:34:29,495 --> 00:34:31,964
- Coming up
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
998
00:34:31,964 --> 00:34:33,099
- These are for you.
999
00:34:33,099 --> 00:34:34,233
You don't look excited
to see me.
1000
00:34:34,233 --> 00:34:36,002
- You went
and bought me dead roses.
1001
00:34:36,002 --> 00:34:37,770
- These are not dead.
1002
00:34:37,770 --> 00:34:39,472
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1003
00:34:41,601 --> 00:34:42,902
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1004
00:34:42,902 --> 00:34:45,105
[dramatic music]
1005
00:34:45,105 --> 00:34:46,239
- Eric.
- What's up, Si?
1006
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:47,440
- Mom.
- These are for you.
1007
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,309
You don't excited to see me.
1008
00:34:49,309 --> 00:34:51,111
- Hey, Eric.
- Hey, baby. I love you.
1009
00:34:51,111 --> 00:34:53,513
- No, I'm mad.
- Don't be mad.
1010
00:34:53,513 --> 00:34:55,115
- Because it's a lot.
1011
00:34:55,115 --> 00:34:56,316
- Can I get a kiss?
- No.
1012
00:34:56,316 --> 00:34:58,952
Eric, I'm really mad at you.
- Why?
1013
00:34:58,952 --> 00:35:01,588
- We haven't spoken,
and I don't feel good
1014
00:35:01,588 --> 00:35:04,224
about everything
that's going on with us.
1015
00:35:04,224 --> 00:35:05,658
- Life--life is short.
1016
00:35:05,658 --> 00:35:06,826
- And this is your first time
trying to reach out,
1017
00:35:06,826 --> 00:35:08,027
and you know what
I've been going through.
1018
00:35:08,027 --> 00:35:09,396
- I got a fresh haircut
in Atlanta.
1019
00:35:09,396 --> 00:35:10,463
You shouldn't be mad.
1020
00:35:10,463 --> 00:35:11,931
- Yeah,
you got a fresh haircut.
1021
00:35:11,931 --> 00:35:13,133
- I got some flowers.
1022
00:35:13,133 --> 00:35:14,334
- And you went
and bought me dead roses.
1023
00:35:14,334 --> 00:35:15,969
- These are not dead.
- Oh, my God.
1024
00:35:15,969 --> 00:35:17,303
- These look nice.
1025
00:35:17,303 --> 00:35:18,838
And that's your favorite color
in here, too.
1026
00:35:18,838 --> 00:35:22,308
Also, I have a surprise.
- What kind of surprise?
1027
00:35:22,308 --> 00:35:24,544
- Can you stop being mad
and I'll show you?
1028
00:35:24,544 --> 00:35:25,812
Look how you smiling.
You love this.
1029
00:35:25,812 --> 00:35:27,347
- I love a gift.
- Oh, my goodness.
1030
00:35:27,347 --> 00:35:29,315
- She talking about,
"What kind of surprise?"
1031
00:35:29,315 --> 00:35:31,885
- Look how her attitude
just changed.
1032
00:35:31,885 --> 00:35:35,822
- Eric is always trying to do
a grand gesture to get me back.
1033
00:35:35,822 --> 00:35:38,525
But at this point, I'm tired
of breaking up and making up.
1034
00:35:38,525 --> 00:35:40,427
How about
you just don't [bleep] up
1035
00:35:40,427 --> 00:35:42,395
and we don't break up
in the first place?
1036
00:35:42,395 --> 00:35:44,197
Don't be cracking no jokes,
1037
00:35:44,197 --> 00:35:46,232
'cause
I'm still mad at your ass.
1038
00:35:46,232 --> 00:35:47,567
- Honestly, though,
1039
00:35:47,567 --> 00:35:49,903
I really do feel where
you were coming from,
1040
00:35:49,903 --> 00:35:51,471
as far as the house
being robbed.
1041
00:35:51,471 --> 00:35:53,306
You know, you can't put a price
on peace of mind.
1042
00:35:53,306 --> 00:35:56,409
When you saying--when you were
saying that you couldn't sleep,
1043
00:35:56,409 --> 00:35:57,777
and you were just having, like,
1044
00:35:57,777 --> 00:35:59,546
thoughts about somebody
breaking in the crib,
1045
00:35:59,546 --> 00:36:01,281
I didn't really think about it
like that, being a man.
1046
00:36:01,281 --> 00:36:03,383
But I do sincerely apologize.
1047
00:36:03,383 --> 00:36:06,853
So please, please, please,
accept my apology
1048
00:36:06,853 --> 00:36:08,822
so we can move forward
and be great.
1049
00:36:08,822 --> 00:36:11,224
- I want to see this--
what you got for me.
1050
00:36:11,224 --> 00:36:13,493
But I can't lie, I do miss you.
1051
00:36:13,493 --> 00:36:16,496
[upbeat music]
1052
00:36:16,496 --> 00:36:17,864
♪ ♪
1053
00:36:17,864 --> 00:36:20,166
Ooh.
1054
00:36:20,166 --> 00:36:21,301
Hey.
- Von.
1055
00:36:21,301 --> 00:36:23,036
- Von!
What you doing here?
1056
00:36:23,036 --> 00:36:25,271
- This is the surprise.
- Is this the surprise?
1057
00:36:25,271 --> 00:36:26,306
- Hey, Von.
1058
00:36:26,306 --> 00:36:27,740
So being away from Sierra,
1059
00:36:27,740 --> 00:36:29,108
I kind of had a little time
to gather my thoughts.
1060
00:36:29,108 --> 00:36:31,110
You said you wanted a condo,
so I went ahead
1061
00:36:31,110 --> 00:36:34,814
and took the initiative
to find us a condo.
1062
00:36:34,814 --> 00:36:37,016
And I'm really and truly
hoping that she likes this,
1063
00:36:37,016 --> 00:36:40,119
because if not,
I'ma be upset again.
1064
00:36:40,119 --> 00:36:41,488
Hey, look around.
1065
00:36:41,488 --> 00:36:43,256
- Are you serious?
- I'm dead serious.
1066
00:36:43,256 --> 00:36:46,359
Even though a condo in Atlanta
wasn't my ideal way of living,
1067
00:36:46,359 --> 00:36:49,128
I still wanted to show how
I'm able to adjust and adapt
1068
00:36:49,128 --> 00:36:51,865
to do whatever I need to do
to make sure that she's happy.
1069
00:36:51,865 --> 00:36:54,767
- How many bedrooms is this?
- Three.
1070
00:36:54,767 --> 00:36:57,437
- As far as gestures go,
this one isn't too bad.
1071
00:36:57,437 --> 00:37:00,106
But I didn't get no say
in this place.
1072
00:37:00,106 --> 00:37:03,877
I get that he's trying,
but he's not really listening.
1073
00:37:03,877 --> 00:37:06,613
We should be making
these decisions together.
1074
00:37:06,613 --> 00:37:10,884
It's not enough room for me
and the kids and you.
1075
00:37:10,884 --> 00:37:12,185
- This?
1076
00:37:12,185 --> 00:37:14,254
- So--no, it's not, Eric.
The rooms are tiny.
1077
00:37:14,254 --> 00:37:15,688
- Now, I don't know
1078
00:37:15,688 --> 00:37:17,190
if this is really about
the condo being small,
1079
00:37:17,190 --> 00:37:18,591
but I don't like
1080
00:37:18,591 --> 00:37:19,926
how she's starting
to make me feel again,
1081
00:37:19,926 --> 00:37:21,394
because I really tried
my hardest
1082
00:37:21,394 --> 00:37:23,496
to make sure that she's good
and that I'm also good.
1083
00:37:23,496 --> 00:37:25,431
You have other options
that we could see, right?
1084
00:37:25,431 --> 00:37:27,100
- Mm-hmm.
1085
00:37:27,100 --> 00:37:29,536
- It's like, I'm damned
if I do, damned if I don't.
1086
00:37:29,536 --> 00:37:31,037
She doesn't know what
she wants
1087
00:37:31,037 --> 00:37:32,739
or how to communicate
what she wants.
1088
00:37:32,739 --> 00:37:34,574
And I hope she's not
playing around with me.
1089
00:37:34,574 --> 00:37:35,708
- Thank you.
- So now we know, like,
1090
00:37:35,708 --> 00:37:37,043
the pros and cons
of what she likes.
1091
00:37:37,043 --> 00:37:38,578
We need something bigger.
1092
00:37:38,578 --> 00:37:40,280
- We are trying to so hard
in this relationship,
1093
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:41,781
but it's just
something missing.
1094
00:37:41,781 --> 00:37:43,883
And you can't just
be selling me on stuff.
1095
00:37:43,883 --> 00:37:46,853
I'm starting to wonder
will we ever see eye-to-eye?
1096
00:37:46,853 --> 00:37:49,322
You still in the doghouse,
mother[bleep].
1097
00:37:49,322 --> 00:37:51,991
Don't get too cute.
[chuckles]
1098
00:37:51,991 --> 00:37:54,093
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1099
00:37:56,668 --> 00:37:58,036
- ♪ Make my way to the top,
and there ain't no stoppin' ♪
1100
00:37:58,036 --> 00:38:00,071
[crickets chirping]
1101
00:38:00,071 --> 00:38:03,041
[soft dramatic music]
1102
00:38:03,041 --> 00:38:06,544
♪ ♪
1103
00:38:06,544 --> 00:38:09,814
- That's my mama.
- I's the mama.
1104
00:38:09,814 --> 00:38:16,755
♪ ♪
1105
00:38:21,192 --> 00:38:26,598
- So after a month
in the hospital,
1106
00:38:26,598 --> 00:38:30,301
too many surgeries to count,
um...
1107
00:38:30,301 --> 00:38:33,104
today,
my mom took her last breath.
1108
00:38:33,104 --> 00:38:36,274
And that's kind of
1109
00:38:36,274 --> 00:38:38,910
something we were
preparing for.
1110
00:38:38,910 --> 00:38:40,745
Um...
1111
00:38:40,745 --> 00:38:44,082
it's just hard.
1112
00:38:44,082 --> 00:38:46,217
I mean, I'm happy
that me and my mom
1113
00:38:46,217 --> 00:38:48,553
got to patch
our relationship up
1114
00:38:48,553 --> 00:38:50,422
and say the things we needed
to say to each other
1115
00:38:50,422 --> 00:38:53,258
and actually, like, spend
our last couple months together
1116
00:38:53,258 --> 00:38:57,529
just loving one another
and being nice to one another.
1117
00:38:57,529 --> 00:38:59,564
You know, my mom loved
seeing me on that stage.
1118
00:38:59,564 --> 00:39:01,433
My mom was my number one fan.
1119
00:39:01,433 --> 00:39:04,502
Like, no matter what,
we could be at our worst,
1120
00:39:04,502 --> 00:39:06,204
and she was
not gonna miss a show.
1121
00:39:06,204 --> 00:39:07,772
So like,
1122
00:39:07,772 --> 00:39:10,842
I feel like I owe this to her
to continue to do that.
1123
00:39:10,842 --> 00:39:12,377
♪ ♪
1124
00:39:12,377 --> 00:39:15,413
I started working on this song
about a year ago.
1125
00:39:15,413 --> 00:39:17,115
She was always like,
"You gonna finish my song?
1126
00:39:17,115 --> 00:39:19,918
You gonna finish my song?"
So now, I'm finishing it.
1127
00:39:19,918 --> 00:39:24,556
And it's just everything
that I would say to her,
1128
00:39:24,556 --> 00:39:29,127
everything that she's--
means to me, taught me.
1129
00:39:29,127 --> 00:39:31,429
You know,
it's just my ode to her.
1130
00:39:31,429 --> 00:39:33,031
You know this a priority.
1131
00:39:33,031 --> 00:39:34,999
The definition of a mother
in the dictionary
1132
00:39:34,999 --> 00:39:38,536
is a woman in relation
to her child or children.
1133
00:39:38,536 --> 00:39:40,271
And that's just not enough,
1134
00:39:40,271 --> 00:39:42,574
'cause you so much more
than that. Yeah.
1135
00:39:42,574 --> 00:39:44,576
♪ Listen, mama,
Hope I'm making you proud ♪
1136
00:39:44,576 --> 00:39:46,144
♪ I came a long way
from fighting ♪
1137
00:39:46,144 --> 00:39:47,645
♪ And you kicking me out ♪
1138
00:39:47,645 --> 00:39:49,614
♪ I know you still
be trying to figure me out ♪
1139
00:39:49,614 --> 00:39:51,182
♪ Been through some [bleep]
and called it quits ♪
1140
00:39:51,182 --> 00:39:52,717
♪ And threw fits ♪
1141
00:39:52,717 --> 00:39:54,118
♪ Thought you lost your baby,
but look at me now ♪
1142
00:39:54,118 --> 00:39:55,487
♪ I was lost for a while ♪
1143
00:39:55,487 --> 00:39:56,788
♪ I found my way back home ♪
1144
00:39:56,788 --> 00:39:58,122
♪ Owning all my mistakes ♪
1145
00:39:58,122 --> 00:39:59,757
♪ 'Cause you ain't
did [bleep] wrong ♪
1146
00:39:59,757 --> 00:40:01,359
♪ Should have been had
this talk ♪
1147
00:40:01,359 --> 00:40:02,827
♪ 'Cause it been too long ♪
1148
00:40:02,827 --> 00:40:04,395
♪ Just want to give you
all your flowers ♪
1149
00:40:04,395 --> 00:40:05,930
♪ 'fore my chance be gone ♪
1150
00:40:05,930 --> 00:40:07,732
♪ ♪
1151
00:40:16,301 --> 00:40:17,469
- Next time
on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta."
1152
00:40:17,469 --> 00:40:21,106
- Congratulations
on your engagement!
1153
00:40:21,106 --> 00:40:23,141
Let me see, let me see!
1154
00:40:23,141 --> 00:40:25,076
- I don't know how to adjust
to the change.
1155
00:40:25,076 --> 00:40:28,079
I'm not Money Monster Sierra
no more.
1156
00:40:28,079 --> 00:40:31,182
- Sierra,
you can't beat him down,
1157
00:40:31,182 --> 00:40:34,152
drag him, and then use him
for what you want,
1158
00:40:34,152 --> 00:40:37,856
and then say, "Okay, Eric,
you're the problem.
1159
00:40:37,856 --> 00:40:39,524
- A DNA test is
on your horizon.
1160
00:40:39,524 --> 00:40:41,292
- This is why I have
to get out of this.
1161
00:40:41,292 --> 00:40:43,061
- When I was young,
I wanted to see my mama
1162
00:40:43,061 --> 00:40:45,196
and daddy together,
so once we break that up,
1163
00:40:45,196 --> 00:40:47,132
other dudes come in,
want to feel like,
1164
00:40:47,132 --> 00:40:49,768
"Oh, this Safaree, baby,"
you know what I'm saying?
1165
00:40:49,768 --> 00:40:52,937
[dramatic music]
1166
00:40:52,937 --> 00:40:55,039
- Oh, what the [bleep]?
1167
00:40:55,039 --> 00:40:56,341
- We dropped bombs,
1168
00:40:56,341 --> 00:40:57,442
but you already knew
the bomb was coming.
1169
00:40:57,442 --> 00:40:58,777
- Well, I knew--
1170
00:40:58,777 --> 00:41:00,011
- And you gave us a reaction
that was, like,
1171
00:41:00,011 --> 00:41:02,280
from somebody
who's just finding out.
1172
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,516
- Come up here
and give your dad a hug.
1173
00:41:04,516 --> 00:41:06,418
- He's never been in my life.
1174
00:41:06,418 --> 00:41:08,253
- [bleep] off!
- You can kiss my ass.
1175
00:41:08,253 --> 00:41:09,454
- You know,
as a matter of fact...
1176
00:41:09,454 --> 00:41:11,356
- No!
- You can get the [bleep] out.
1177
00:41:11,356 --> 00:41:12,490
- No!
1178
00:41:19,867 --> 00:41:22,770
[hip-hop music]
1179
00:41:22,770 --> 00:41:29,910
♪ ♪
1180
00:41:45,826 --> 00:41:47,928
- ♪ MTV ♪