- Previously on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- Dearly beloved...
The night you were proclaimed husband and wife,
someone showed me social media.
40,000, 50,000, 75,000, 150,000
about this baby.
- We established this way before her and I got married,
but it's like, right now, this is a new situation.
- This is Joc's ex-girlfriend Meda!
- Hey, Meda, this Kendra. I'm Joc's wife.
Somebody just told me y'all been [bleep] around since 2016
to right before our wedding.
Is that true?
- The last time that I [bleep] with Joc was 2019.
- I don't want a man in marriage
who has been dirty to me before marriage.
- What my vagina does is nobody's [bleep] business.
- Hey, son.
I hadn't seen my grandkids.
- You can come see them. You can come over.
You can pull up. - But you can bring them.
Do you hear me?
I think Bam don't want the kids to come around.
- No, she cool.
- I don't feel welcome.
- Come up here and give your dad a hug.
- He's never been in my life.
The way you feel about Kirk and the things
that you say about him, that's my husband.
- He had a previous relationship
where he fathered kids.
Ain't that right? - Guess what?
He always been a father to his kids.
Way more than I can say for you.
- [bleep] off. - You can kiss my ass.
- No!
[Lofey's "Life that We Livin'"]
- ♪ It's the life that we're livin' ♪
♪ It's the life that we chose ♪
♪ It's the life that we're livin' ♪
♪ It's the life that we chose ♪
♪ Made my way to the top and there ain't no stopping ♪
[soft upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Oh.
So this us right here?
I'm right here? - Oh, boy.
Am I right here?
- This table's short. - It sure is.
We need some more distance. No, I'm just playing.
[laughs] - Shh.
- Ah, stop it.
- Oh, boy. - Stop the madness.
I can't even lie.
I don't know what to expect.
- I do not want to talk to your daddy.
- Let's make one thing clear.
The last couple of times me and my dad have talked
or been around each other, it has been ugly.
You want to know what Kirk thinks of you?
Y'all talk about it.
- I really don't give a [bleep] what he thinks about me.
How you like that? - Okay, but why?
- He did some [bleep] to hurt you!
- Yes, he did. - More so than I could ever do!
- I don't even care no more.
- But see, y'all-- - You be bringing all this--
- Cool. - Stress into my life.
- Sometimes you got to bite the bullet.
The only reason why I agreed to do this is
because I don't think the four of us have sat down
and had dinner together.
I can't remember the last time.
And although my dad gets on my [bleep] nerves,
and my mama over here trying to put
a Band-Aid on this situation,
who's to say what's gonna happen?
I ain't had nothing to do tonight,
so I said [bleep] it, I'ma go eat with them.
Here they come now finally.
- Hey, hey, hey. - What's up, trader?
- [laughs]
- You always giving somebody a damn name.
I'm a trader now.
- I just was talking about you.
- Oh, my goodness. - Give me some love.
- Hey, what's up? - Hey.
- Me and Rasheeda's dad relationship
is him talking crap about me and haven't seen me in years.
And I feel like, you know what?
As much [bleep] as Harold said about me,
I'd rather see him and Rasheeda get along.
And I'd rather see Rasheeda in a better place.
- What we need to do is get to a resolution, okay?
- Right. - Thank you.
- He owes me an apology.
Him telling me to [bleep] off and all this and that--
- You told me to [bleep] off.
- He's just so stuck in his ways.
- I usually just say it like it is.
I think you're [bleep] still lying about working.
[laughs] - Uh-uh.
[laughs]
Now, I will say this.
My dad is the king of deflection,
because the way he just transitioned
me and his conversation over to just targeting Kirk,
that's some real political bull[bleep]
for you right there.
[laughs]
- We built the bistro literally from scratch.
We gutted it out. Every day I worked.
- You don't really have to prove that to me
because I already know you're lying.
- Oh! - Yeah.
That's protecting and being driven
by your own self-interest.
Don't you think Rasheeda could have accomplished
a hell of a lot of things on her own without you?
- Of course. - Of course!
How big a part are you playing in it?
- Producer, I make the music.
- People actually come to see your talent and ask for hers.
- Well, I built her to be-- - [laughs]
- But, see, let me tell you something
you don't know about me.
- She could have done that without you.
You ain't did [bleep].
Just like that damn phone
in your--whatever you call it--a meal ticket.
Godammit, you found a meal ticket, and that's it.
- You want to talk about this man's work ethic
when you don't even really know what he does.
You don't know the hard work and sacrifices
that he's made for his family.
You know why you don't know? Because you're not around.
- Since you don't think I do hard labor,
do you know about us purchasing 20 acres of land?
- No, I didn't know anything.
- Well, we got that. - Well, that's good.
- So maybe you should come see it.
- I will. - Before I build on it--
- Hey-- - And before anything happens--
- You know what? I really would like--
- So you can see how much hard labor I do.
- I would be beside myself to come out there
and see you in action.
- When Harold say something that just don't even fit me,
man, I just try to let that [bleep] bounce
in one ear and out the other
because that is Rasheeda's dad.
She's already having issues with him.
If I flip and become another [bleep] problem with him,
he really ain't gon' be around.
People may be on the outside looking in,
thinking that we got it made, and this [bleep] is easy.
- I think baby steps were accomplished
tonight with this dinner, and I'm proud of Kirk.
It's good to know that he's like,
"You know what? Come on.
"Just come see what we have going on.
"You know, let's go for it. You're here.
Come check it out. Come see the family."
- We'll see y'all later.
- ♪ Hell yeah, I ain't got no time to waste ♪
♪ When I'm trying to [bleep], boy, quick through the race ♪
♪ C'mon and do the race, make him do the chase ♪
♪ Neighborhood Bambi with them hitters like the Braves ♪
Being back in the studio for me,
it just feels like, as an artist,
I'm just back to my authentic self.
You know, it's just a good time and a good vibe.
- Atlanta with Southside, come on.
- Hey, you out there being down.
I like that. - Hey, boo.
- Yeah, I like that.
Man, it's good to see Bam back in the studio.
You know, I will come,
let her know I'm supporting and all that.
- What you come in here for, though, for real, for real?
- I just gotta talk to you.
- See, I knew it. I know.
- I already know what time that is.
- That song sound very lit,
but at the same time, I got some little things
I need to holler at her about.
That was hard. That was hard.
You went [indistinct]. You know what I'm saying?
Finna do y'all thing, man.
- It feels real cathartic.
Like, for real, to come in here,
and just to do that, and just don't gotta worry about home.
- I'm glad you're back in here though.
- I'm glad we're in this space.
That's what I'm happy about.
- We are good.
We are both thriving and can go anywhere we want to,
but...
- Oh, [bleep]. There always a "but."
- You know, Momma Dukes, you know what I'm saying?
She want to be, you know, all in the mix so--
- Yeah, yeah, tour? - Uh-uh, the babies.
- Just tell me for real. Like, what you trying to say?
- What I'm trying to say is while I'm on tour,
you know, Momma Dukes can come and just help you out a little.
This is real life.
- Like, what you're not understanding
is that she keep violating, and violating, and violating.
- Well, you just gotta love her from afar.
- Her coming over while you on tour
is not loving her from afar.
- Yeah-- - That's loving her in my home.
Momma Dee has always meddled in our business.
And I'm like, "I've given you the opportunity.
I said, hey, you can come see my kids whenever you want to."
Just help us if you can.
- I promise after today that I will make more of an effort.
- And she didn't come because she didn't want to.
And now she's on the internet.
She wants to befriend everybody who Scrapp has had
a previous relationship with, like,
spreading rumors about me and all kinds of crazy stuff.
So at this point, like, the door is closed.
You can't come over.
You gon' have to see them when you can see them.
- If I knew that we was gonna do a split thing,
that we was not--we was just going to be like,
"I don't like the way your parents are acting.
I just think they should just stay over there."
And if I knew that, I would've never did it,
just to be honest.
- Okay, well, listen.
We always can rethink it.
because at the end of the day, you know what I'm saying,
like, I don't be forcing nobody on you.
I don't understand why right now he's like,
"Oh, had I known this, like, we wouldn't have got married."
But you knew I was never gonna let nobody play with me.
You knew your mama was always gonna be shady.
From the very moment that I met Momma Dee,
she always came with some drama.
She tried to bring people into our relationship like Shay.
She's made obituaries about my mom.
- I'm done. - Who does that?
- I want the spirit to die out of you.
- So when she tried to approach me at Yandy's Yelle event,
while I was pregnant, telling me I'm trying
to divorce Scrapp and take all his money...
- Don't put the blame on me.
- You should be grown enough and smart enough to know--
- No, you should be woman enough--
- That--no, no, no.
- To discuss your business to people that run their mouth.
- At the end of the day, you run your mouth.
And now she's, like, on to the next.
It's just, like, nonstop with her.
- You're saying we can rethink it.
- Yes, absolutely. - I never said that.
- But I'm glad you the first one to say that.
- Absolutely, because now you coming at me
on some other [bleep].
- No, I never--all I said-- - You did.
You said you would have never did it.
- Before. - Before.
- If I would have knew you were saying--
- So before, you thought that I was gonna be living
in the house and being like, "Oh, my God, Momma Dee."
- No, that's cool.
- Like, what the [bleep] you thought?
- I'm with you. No, I'm with you.
I'm with you. We're a team.
- So what do you think I'm supposed to do?
Honestly, like, in your honest opinion--
- I mean-- - Because you said--
- If you were to--if it was just you and my mama--
- Just listen to me, though. - No, no, no, no, no.
I'm gonna tell you-- - You can't--I'm asking--
- Ask me a question.
- I am asking, but I'm not finished.
- No, but you finna say everything you just said.
- You just keep talking all the time.
- You gonna say everything you just said, right?
You finna say everything you just said, right?
- Go ahead.
- Okay, so what I think you should do is--
- I don't even want to hear no more, for real,
because I was--like, that ain't even cool.
Like, you be doing some bull[bleep] for real.
- Okay, so talk.
- No, I'm not going ahead, [bleep],
because I can never [bleep] talk with nobody.
- Yeah, I am serious 'cause I never get to [bleep] talk.
Like, you--like, I'm--for real.
♪ ♪
I'm at my breaking point.
I'm tired of being kept quiet, and talked over by Scrappy,
and looking like the bad guy.
- Like, I don't give a [bleep], bro.
- I'm not gonna just be sitting in a parking lot.
- Don't keep talking to me like that.
I ain't that [bleep].
You ain't gonna talk to me like that, dog.
- Ain't nobody gonna have me sitting
in a [bleep] parking lot!
- I don't got you sitting in the parking lot.
- Yes, you do--
I got the power to make you sit in the parking lot?
- Yes, you do.
- No, you started that extra [bleep].
You got up and walked offstage right there for 15 minutes.
- Look, how the [bleep] is someone--
- I stayed right there to wait on you to come back,
and you never come back.
I'm really sick of being, like,
between these two alpha female [bleep].
You know what I'm saying?
Like, this is my wife.
This is my mom, like, the person that birthed me
and the person that worthed me.
You feel what I'm saying?
Like, this is real to me.
Marriage is supposed to make the family bigger,
not make the family smaller.
That separation [bleep] is bull[bleep],
and I didn't get married for that.
It's always something, cuz.
[dramatic music]
- Coming up on "Love & Hop Hop: Atlanta"...
- I see blood. - [groaning]
- Send out the kids. Send out the kids.
- Kendra, this is Meda.
- The truth gon' come out. - I'm not a liar.
- Okay, so what's the truth?
- The truth is...
- What's that? - Yeah, what's that?
- Meda!
- ♪ My way to the top, and there ain't no stopping ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
[line trilling]
- Hey, I'm here.
- Harold.
Rasheeda's father.
[laughs]
- Open the damn gate.
- You know what, after last night...
- Thank you.
- I had a little bit of a mental drain,
but it's actually good to invite Harold
to the compound, and let him get to see his grandkids,
and just let him get to see the property.
You need to see and learn a little bit of things.
- Hey, what's going on, Karter?
- Who are you?
- The one and only. The grandmaster is here.
- Do you know who that is, Karter?
- Who is this? - You ought to know.
- I think the best thing that can happen
out of this situation today is for him to kind of open up
his eyes and see, "Okay, look at them.
I'm so very proud of, 'my family.'"
- Do you own all this? - They own this.
- Do you know the dimensions on this?
- So yeah, we're working on that now.
He think we probably can put somewhere near 100
to 120 houses on it--
- God.
- From here all the way down to the front.
- I just want to know one damn thing.
What you gonna hire me for?
- What you want to do? - [laughing]
- What you saying? You gon' be in Atlanta?
- Yeah, I'll stay here. - You'll stay?
- Yeah.
- Oh, now you want to stay, huh?
You hear that?
- We need someone to do brick laying.
- Look, we bought this one.
I ain't been in not one time since we...
- Oh, well, you know what?
If you let me up in that mug, I might not come out.
- I just don't have to keep up with it.
- If you don't want to keep up with it, give it to me.
I'll keep up with it. They got a bed up in this mug?
- My dad's saying he wants to move into one of the places.
Hm.
If he's open to it and willing to do it,
I would still extend a hand
because if he wants to make a change,
I wouldn't want to stop him from wanting to make a change.
This is it, right? [bleep].
It's amazing.
- Almost at a loss for words.
- Gonna grow my own [bleep]. - That's a lot to do.
- Well, I'm glad to hear that. I feel good about that.
- I want a handshake.
- See, I'm not so bad.
- See? - See?
[laughter]
- I feel good about seeing Harold like,
"Wow, okay, so you guys are really doing something.
Oh, so you do work."
You know, I don't want to be enemies with Rasheeda's dad.
And it's like, good, man. Let's just be a family.
Let's work together.
I just want [bleep] to be peaceful.
Rasheeda calls it entrepreneurship.
You know, she's your entrepreneur babe.
You know how to do this--
- Well, we, you know, creating generational wealth,
just trying to do different from how things are
for us as Black people.
- I'm gonna be honest. I think I learned more.
- I see that it involves a lot of hard work and dedication.
- It does.
- I understand that now.
- See, yesterday, you thought Kirk ain't do no work.
Now you see the vision.
- Yeah, you're doing a tremendous job.
- I really appreciate that. - And I commend you on that.
- I don't know exactly where this is gonna go,
but, you know, me and Kirk aren't opposed
to him being around,
but he can't come with all that bull[bleep].
He got to come and be the nice cool Harold that he is today.
- There's a good damn chance you probably would--
[laughs]
- That technology right there, I just hit that right there.
The gate open. Put automatic gate in.
- I mean, ain't nothing you got to go back to.
- Actually, I ain't got nothing to go back to.
- Then you might as well just bring your stuff,
and go on right in the little house,
and stay on in there.
Ain't that right, Kirk? - Yeah.
[soft music]
- [snoring]
♪ ♪
- Scrapp. - Hm?
- You good? - Yeah.
Everybody always say, oh, man, you got good-looking teeth,
but my gums and everything always been sensitive.
So he put me on the nitrogen,
And I definitely feel like I'm an astronaut.
♪ ♪
Yo, dog. - What's up?
- Is my lip still there?
- It's still there. It's still there.
- My lip there. - You feel like it's gone?
- I feel deformed. - All right.
- [laughs]
♪ ♪
- Hi.
- Hey, how you doing?
- What's going on?
- He's good. He's good.
- I see blood.
Is he under?
- Yeah, we got him--
- Are you sure he's under? - Yeah, yeah, he's good.
He's good.
- My daughter-in-law, the Bam, where are you, girl?
Girl?
I know it.
I'm here with my son. I'm a mom.
I'm a good mom. I've been there for Scrappy.
But, Bambi, you can use the excuse
that you're there with the babies,
but, girl, you get around.
We saw you in the hot tub. You get around.
A mom is a boy's best friend.
Me and Scrappy, you know, we're stuck together,
you know, by the hip.
Okay, don't walk too fast.
And, you know, I'm just happy
with the opportunity to see my son.
What's really going on with you?
- I was talking to Bam last night
'cause I'm finna to be going on tour, so--
- Wow.
- I was telling her, like, Momma Duke's
always saying she want to be a part.
I want to make her a part.
Basically, y'all can bond while she,
you know what I'm saying, while she'd be
around the baby and stuff.
She was like, no, like-- - No?
- Yeah.
It's, like, a little trust situation.
Like, it just be awkward.
After the fight at the studio,
I kind of cooled off for a little bit,
and I understand Bam, where she's coming from.
Momma Dukes really do be putting, like,
messed up negative stuff on social media.
Like, whatever you gon' do, like, do your thing,
but just don't add Bam into it
because there's a reaction to every action,
and we all have to accept that.
- You know, I just need her to step her game up
to being my daughter-in-law.
I went to Miami to support Shay,
who is my son Scrappy's ex-girlfriend.
She cares about me.
And the Bam is just jealous of that relationship,
but what I want to tell my daughter-in-law,
we can have that same relationship.
But when I'm sick, or my birthday,
Mother's Day, you never call, never send me roses,
never say anything.
But you don't want me to be around somebody else
that loves me.
- Consequences come with everything.
The stuff that she do, that her mama do,
come with consequences.
- She ain't faced consequences like she should have.
- Oh, yeah. No, no, she have, [bleep].
- No! [bleep] that [bleep].
Ain't nobody finna come across and do that [bleep] to me,
and they did--I got my own child.
Going to take her for that [bleep].
- My whole thing is I feel a certain kind of way,
and I'ma act the way I feel.
- I'd die for you.
- And don't get mad at how people--
the people's reactions of how you handle yourself.
Now, I know everybody will be looking at me thinking, like,
"Oh, man, he's taking Bam's side.
Oh, man, he's taking Momma Dee's side."
But I'm just giving the other person two sides of the story.
Like, it's never just you.
My mama can hang with who she want to hang with,
but if Bam don't want to rock with you after that,
you can't be mad at that.
- All I just want to do at this point
is see my grandkids.
Can I see my grandkids?
- I got a family,
so if my family ain't allow it, you ain't cool, I'm like--
- Make me feel like you gon' try to punish me.
- No, it ain't no punishment.
People--just because people don't [bleep] with you
because you [bleep] with other people
don't mean it's punishment.
They just want to stay away from people that don't--
ain't on the same frequency.
I don't want that in my life.
- Bam has kept them kids through the COVID,
through the third world war,
but I'm gonna see my damn grandkids.
That's the war we're fighting.
- Yeah.
- Like, I don't know how she's going to react to me.
- Oh, no, you're not gonna get out.
You gonna go home.
I'm finna go in there with my babies.
- I knew there was gonna be some conflict with the Bam.
You know, I'm not welcome there.
So I may as well stay in the driveway
and call them all out by one.
Bambi, Bambi.
Send out the kids. Send out the kids.
- Where she get the bullhorn from?
I was just right there with her.
Like, where--I ain't seen no bullhorn.
- Send the kids.
- Don't do that.
[dramatic music]
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- Kids are like, we need to go talk to her face to face.
I'm like-- - Who face to face?
- Meda.
- That ain't what a man do. - Enough for me.
- I didn't make no allegation. - Yes, you did.
You just told me that you was dealing with him in 2019.
- Okay, that's not an allegation.
It is the fact.
- ♪ My way to the top, and there ain't no stopping ♪
- ♪ Higher, higher, higher that I go, that I go ♪
♪ They want to come and snipe me, man, I know ♪
♪ Doo, doo, doo, you missed ♪
♪ They wish they was just like me on the low ♪
♪ On the low-low ♪
♪ They hate me 'cause they ain't got no control ♪
♪ No control ♪
- Well, let me tell you something.
After two years of lockdown, your boy has gained 50 pounds.
You see my face? Yeah.
I needed to exercise.
- What the hell?
♪ Booty, booty ♪
♪ All we see is booty ♪
- Don't do that.
Scrapp wanted to meet up with me.
I know there's a lot going on. The talk is all over town.
I already know it. So cuz came out.
What up, boy? - What's happening, boy?
You climbing like that, Joc?
Old cuz, drop down like that.
I done pushed up on my cousin today, man,
'cause I done start hearing rumors.
And they still keep going around, man,
about the Joc and Meda thing.
I'm trying to see what really happened there.
And besides, you know what I'm saying?
Joc done been married before.
So hopefully, he can get me some love doc Joc advice
'cause I'm going crazy over here with this Momma Dee
and Bam stuff.
You got to know how to do this [bleep].
- Sir, you might not want to do that, sir.
- You know what I'm saying. - Sir.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- [indistinct]
Man, what the-- - Man, we're gonna...
- You know I ain't get a chance to chop it up
with you at the little engagement party,
you know what I'm saying, for Eric.
All that [bleep] going on.
So I want to chop it up with you.
- Oh, you talking about the casino night.
- Yeah, casino night, man, [bleep].
- What's up? What the hell you got going on?
- You know, I'm finna go on tour and [bleep].
You know what I'm saying? - Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Congrats on that [bleep]. - Thank you.
So I told Bam, since I'm gonna be gone on tour,
Momma Dukes is out there and come over there.
You can get her some little trial periods with the babies.
You know what I'm saying? Bam's just like, "Hell n-no."
You feel what I'm saying? Hell nah.
- I am shocked and appalled that Bambi don't want
to spend her days with Momma Dee.
I was just having a long clock with Momma Dee
talking 'bout some, yes, yes, kingdom.
I could see Momma Dee getting on your last nerve.
I really could. Bambi, I'm just playing.
I feel you.
At the end of the day,
somebody got to come to a resolve,
'cause guess what, the minute she gets tired,
she hit you and say,
why don't you call your mama or something,
tell her to come help with the kids?
- On the other tip, what you got going on
with the baby and-- what's her name, Amina?
- Meda? - Yeah.
I don't know her name, cuz.
I just keep hearing about this [bleep].
I'm like, cuz ain't told me nothing.
Like, I'm hearing it from wifey.
Man, I really don't talk to cuz one time.
But, Bam, like, with a solid face looking at me,
like, "No, like, he got a baby,
and he is [bleep] with that girl."
I'm like, "Why you keep saying that?"
- I'ma say it like this.
Me and Kendra, we was on the outs.
I kind of got involved.
I got caught in the moment, you know what I'm saying, so...
- I can't believe that, though, man.
That's crazy. - Yeah--
- Like does-- - For real.
- Kendra accept the baby? Like, everything good?
- I mean, she understands.
She knows what it is. - Oh, okay.
- You know, it was the hardest problem,
the hardest thing in my life to have to do.
The night of our wedding,
people were trying to destroy that moment.
- I heard.
- So out the blue start coming rumors about me and Meda,
me and her messing around.
And then, you know, Bam and Erika, then...
- I know for a fact Joc's been around Meda for some time.
- Meda was telling people that she'd been [bleep] with Joc.
- He is such a piece of [bleep]!
- And I ain't want that to happen, bro.
I kept telling them, like,
I don't think y'all should do that.
Like, that's--I mean, but at the same time,
it's, like, her friend.
They want her to do the same thing if it were them.
And I'm like, why would you want to know something like--
- I'm gonna tell you something.
I'm gonna tell you somethingm crazy.
So Kendra like, "We need to go talk to her face to face."
I'm like-- - Who face to face?
- Meda. She want me to go and meet her.
And I'm like, I ain't trying to do none of that.
- Wow. - You know what I'm saying?
I don't want to do none of that.
I ain't doing none of that. - That ain't what a man do.
- That don't need to happen at all.
And if it happened, you don't need to be there.
Like, [bleep].
Boy, that gon' be a hurricane. You know what I'm saying?
Something is bound to happen.
What kind of--what are they going to say to each other?
They gonna hug?
- Harness. - Yeah, harness.
I don't know about the gurney. Gurney is being dead.
- Yeah. - Yeah, it's over with.
[soft music]
- Pray for me.
- Yeah, but you living.
You good. You living.
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- I want you to be more a part of us.
- I want to sit down and talk with Kirk
and you about my next move.
- You call him and tell him to come here.
- Hey, Kirk! - Come on.
- ♪ My way to the top, and there ain't no stopping ♪
- ♪ Can't stop now, won't stop now ♪
♪ I'm making moves here, this is my house ♪
♪ You in my house ♪
[cell phone ringing]
- That's my daddy at the gate.
- All right.
Oh! [grunts]
- Be careful, please.
- My back.
I need you to rub it.
- Okay, that'll be later, baby.
This little time with my dad has been
like going to Six Flags, okay?
You go up. You go down.
You feel sick. You be scared.
You be nervous.
It's a whole bunch of [bleep] all in one.
But now I'm kind of curious because he's like,
"Hey, I want to talk to y'all."
What does he want to say?
[upbeat music]
- You know, I--
I probably have showed my ass.
And I'm sorry for that.
- Aw.
- But I want you to understand I was myopic.
I was narrow-minded, tunnel-minded, tunnel vision.
I was only, like you said, seeing things my way.
- Right.
- Which is the wrong direction for me to take.
So looking at all the success
that you and Kirk have made
for yourselves and your family, and you speak family,
and that is what it is all about.
- It is.
- I'm here to tell you that I am sorry
for anything that was inflammatory directed to you
and--or Kirk.
- This man, my dad, has apologized.
All I wanted was you to, you know,
hold yourself accountable, and I appreciate it.
You know what, I accept your apology.
And thank you, okay?
Freaking thank you.
- What's in my subconscious mind,
I don't want it to resurface.
It's over with.
- Right.
- I have solved the problem--
- Gotcha.
- In my head.
- Well, that's good.
- And we gonna move forward starting tonight.
- Okay, I think it's kind of, like,
therapeutic in a sense
that, you know, we let it all out,
and now you're here, and you see things,
and you kind of get a better vision of what it is.
You understand how he and I relationship is a little more.
- Yes, of course. - You know what I mean?
I want you to be more a part of us.
- I want to sit down and talk with Kirk
and you about my move, my next move.
- You want me to tell him to come here?
- Sure.
- You tell him to come in here.
- Hey, Kirk!
- Yo.
- I mean, I know your back--
- Oh, here I come. I gotta move slow.
- Okay. - I'm moving slower.
♪ ♪
Howard calling me into the room,
so I'm like, what am I walking into now?
Is he gonna flip? Is it a booby trap?
What's about to happen next?
- You know, let me just say one thing.
My life is [bleep] up. [laughs]
No, I mean, I end up in some [bleep] up situations.
But here's what I'm saying.
If you are serious,
and I think you are about the opportunity
to be in that house...
[soft music]
I'll take you up on that.
- You cool with that?
- I mean, I'm cool with it. I'm cool with it.
- Does that sound feasible? - I'm cool with that.
I'm not mad at that. - Is it feasible or plausible?
It's feasible. - Oh, my gosh.
[laughter]
- Ky, what you gonna-- - Ky.
- Do with your grandfather?
- Come here, Ky.
- I totally feel like we should forgive,
and forget, and just move on.
We cannot go back and change the past.
So if we forget, and forgive, and move forward,
that would be a blessing.
As long as Rasheeda's happy,
and she feels she wants to do it
I'm gonna support her.
I mean, I think it's the right thing to do.
A parent is a parent.
- You know how you always be like,
"Let me lay in the middle of y'all
like I used to when I was little."
- Yeah, you just want to scoot me over.
- Okay, so my dad, your grandpa,
has decided that he wants to stay in Atlanta.
And he wants to live in one of them houses up the street.
What do you think?
- Maybe we can go to the club, look at some booty.
- We gotta take him to the strip club.
- You wanna go to the club? - [laughs]
- Hell yeah.
- I'll be down there chasing lot lizards all night.
[laughter]
- Lizards. - Lot lizards.
- You better come and rescue my ass.
- Oh, my gosh, I'm done.
To be honest with you,
his change just might be too good to be true.
He might just flip out and just be like, [bleep] everybody.
But I want him to understand,
like, it ain't always got to be a fence up.
Like, it's not about that with us.
We're family. We're here for each other.
We all want to enjoy life and create some memories.
That's funny.
[laughing]
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- So what happened? So y'all had sex?
- I'm leaving.
- I honestly didn't want to come in between y'all
'cause what am I doing talking about something--
- Don't go so close.
- I don't even want to be with him.
- ♪ My way to the top, and there ain't no stopping ♪
[upbeat music]
- ♪ Uh, started from the bottom ♪
♪ Headed to the tip top ♪
- Who is that? Meda?
I mean, Meda?
- Sista! - Whagwan.
- Thank you. I'm so happy.
It's finally ready. Oh, my God.
You don't even understand. I'm so tired.
- No, m'feel good. - Oh, good.
It was nice. We did the ribbon cutting.
And--oh, my goodness.
It was, like, a hundred people here.
- Oh, my gosh. That's so good.
- And I'm just happy that it's over.
- Even though Meda has opened up her new business,
and I'm here to support her,
I had a conversation with Kendra.
I can introduce you to my friend,
and you can get to ask her whatever
it is you want to ask her.
I set up this whole thing.
I let Meda know that Kendra is coming
to have a conversation with her.
You know, two grown women,
so we can just dead this thing and move on.
I invited someone.
- Who's the someone?
- I told you that--
- Oh, you're talking about Kendra Robinson Robinson.
- Yes, stop saying. [both laugh]
But anyway, so Joc is coming.
You know, she expressed to me that she has
a lot of unanswered questions,
and she wants to ask them for herself.
- So I'm put in a-- - I know you feel--
- I'm put in a corner right now.
- Do you tell her the truth and make she feel a way,
and then she and her marriage in a problem.
- Telling her the truth feels like I'm telling something,
and I don't want to end her marriage.
- Are you gonna tell her the truth?
- But I'm not finna be no liar.
I didn't agree to meet up with Kendra and Jasiel,
but I heard from Spice that they're coming,
and so I'm ready for whatever they bringing.
- You're late too.
I came late, and you come late. - Hey, bro.
- Hey, how are you doing? Congratulations.
- Thank you, thank you. - I see you, I see you.
- Y'all gotta come taste the food.
- All right, so I'm faced with the task
of accompanying my wife to meet Meda.
The only reason I'm coming is 'cause I'm not about to let
my wife walk into nobody else's territory solo,
but I just don't even know what
I'm about to be confronted with today.
Like, come on, man.
- Hi, Kendra and Joc. - Hey, Spice.
How are you?
Ain't nobody getting ready to play me.
Like, I'm going to ask my questions
and get the air cleared
because I do want to know if I don't
already know who I'm married to.
- Um...
Kendra, this is Meda. Meda, this is Kendra.
- Nice to meet you. - Hi.
- So Spice invited me here.
I'm sure she told you that we were going to come by.
- Mm-hmm.
- And I thought it would be best to just,
like, clear the air
because it's like-- come on, Jasiel.
- I'm right here. - Yeah, come on.
You told me that you was in a relationship with him
in 2019, 2016.
And, you know, I've been with him during these times,
so the truth gon' come out.
- I mean, you're married to him,
so does it really matter?
- Yeah, it matters because I care about the truth.
It's a big deal to me if I've been lied to,
even after my wedding, you know?
- But bigger than that, I mean, with the words
that she just said, I'ma just use it back on her.
Like, now that we married, what would be the reason
for you to come out and say anything?
- Because you had, like, a party, a Grammy party,
before our wedding.
And that's where people came back to tell me
that you stood up in the middle of the dinner and was like,
"Yeah, I've been dating Jasiel."
- Okay-- - And all of these things.
- Everybody's around here talking,
making it seem like I'm some sort of liar,
like I'm making up stuff.
One thing I'm sorry about this,
I'm sorry because I kept my mouth shut,
and I've been sitting here,
and I've been trying to protect you,
but everybody going around making me feel
like I'm some sort of liar or whatever.
I'm not a liar. - Okay, so what's the truth?
- The truth is I messed with Joc
since 2008 till about 2019.
- Meda!
- Hearing Meda say that she's messed with Jasiel
from 2008 to 2019, you know,
we've had moments where we've been apart,
but the dates that she alleged
don't fall on that timeline.
2019, really? - Whoa, what?
We had--what?
- Spice, you remember when you asked me, like, why do I care?
- We didn't get up in 2019?
- When did we get up at?
- First of all, we met at your club.
- Which club? - Venue.
- Okay. - Don't say it.
- I'm just saying.
- You came through the spot.
That don't mean we-- - Don't say it.
- So what happened? So y'all had sex?
- You don't have to be with somebody to have sex.
- Did I do something to hurt you?
- You didn't do nothing to hurt me.
And I'm not trying to hurt-- - So why are you doing this?
- I'm not trying to hurt you.
Everybody is going around making it seem like
my story is all messed up, Joc.
- Because your story got four or five different takes on it.
- Because my story got takes because everybody's
adding their two cents in,
and I honestly didn't want to come in between y'all
'cause what am I doing talking about something--
- Don't go so close.
- I don't even want to be to him.
- You brought this stuff up.
- I didn't bring anything up.
- Let's compare dates that you was dating Joc.
- 2017, 2019. - What?
- Guess what?
You made allegations, so--
- I didn't make no allegations.
- Yes, you did. - No, I--
- You just told me that you was dealing with him in 2019.
- That's not an allegation. It is the fact.
- I'm leaving. - Okay--no.
- I'm leaving. - Whatever.
So this is why we here.
So what was going on in 2019? - I'm leaving.
- You said it wasn't sexual.
What the [bleep] was it?
It's either y'all [bleep] around
or y'all didn't [bleep] around.
Period.
- What's that?
- Yeah, what's that?
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- I ought to punch your ass.
- She came to find out information.
So when you come find out information,
you gonna get information.
- ♪ My way to the top, and there ain't no stopping ♪
[upbeat music]
- You don't have to be with somebody to have sex.
First of all.
- No.
Don't riddle me. Don't throw me riddles.
Like, tell me what happened.
Like, what interaction did you have with him in 2019?
It's either y'all [bleep] around
or y'all didn't [bleep] around.
Period.
- What's that?
- Yeah, what's that?
What is that?
- This is the JR Receipt Book.
- What's the JR?
- Jasiel Robinson.
- Who pulls out a stash of papers?
Like, what the [bleep]--
did somebody fax these to your titties?
- Let's see.
- Show it to the lawyer. - Thank you.
Let me see.
- September 13, 2019.
"You could just come down here."
"Where are you at? Come make love to me."
all: Oh!
- And then let's just go to the next page.
It's the same. - Meda, no!
- It's the same day.
- Meda, no! - I'm not going to be--
I'm not going to be a liar.
- That's your number.
- I see what the number is. I'm looking.
- And just right here--
- Meda, I told you no.
- That's it.
I'm gonna punch your ass.
- Oh, my God.
No, Meda, I told you not to do that.
- Spice, I'm not gonna be no liar.
- Man, at the end of the day, it ain't saying nothing.
- Because everybody's going to go around calling me,
making me seem like I'm some kind of liar.
You're not going to make me a liar.
I didn't know about her.
So I don't have no problem with that.
- I don't even know nothing about that.
That [bleep] could be--that [bleep] could be whatever.
Photoshopped, whatever.
- As Jasiel and Kendra Robinson Robinson
and I were talking,
and I saw that the talk was not getting anywhere,
I decided to pull this little paperwork
that showed actual proof and a timeline of Jasiel and I.
Bam!
- Joc, I'm sorry.
- The truth is, she's not leaving him.
- Meda, I told you not to show her.
And I told you not to say nothing.
- She came to find out information.
So when you come find out information,
you're going to get information.
- So I spoke to Meda, you know,
before this conversation.
And I tell her, I said, keep it cute.
Don't do anything.
Just speak your truth and done.
But when she got down and had to pull some love
like when my Granny used to keep her money
right in her breast garter,
and whop!
And pop out the paper, I was like...
[laughs]
Here we go. - Come on.
Let's go back and ask her to see your phone.
- No, I'm done with it.
You can have the moment. - No, no.
- You should have did that before you put your hands
on me and walked on. - No, whatever.
I don't care. Let's go back there.
- No, no, no. - Let's go back.
- Stop pushing me. - Let's go back.
- Stop [bleep] pushing me, man. - Let's go back.
- You want to go? You go.
- Let's go back. - You go.
- No, you go back so you can be right there.
I want to see your [bleep] reaction.
- You saw my reaction. - Nah.
Come on. Go back.
- No, you go. - No, go back.
- Kendra-- - [bleep].
I'll break your goddamn face open.
- I am concerned with my wife's behavior right now.
Because [bleep] don't get like this.
You screaming at the top of your lungs,
slamming car doors, pushing me in this [bleep]
about some pieces of paper?
- Let me see your phone.
Can I see her phone?
Go back in the messages in your phone to--to the 2019.
- For what? - Jasiel got messages.
So I can see it on your phone.
- Your problem is with your man, not me.
- I don't have a problem with you.
- Okay.
- But you showing me some pieces of paper.
- I understand. But I don't--
- Just go back in your phone and show it to me.
- It's 2022. We can't--
- It don't matter.
- Hold on.
- But the messages still transfer.
- No, it's not. This is a Samsung.
And this is a iPhone. - Kendra, calm down.
- This is the final straw for me ready to throw hands
when I seen the messages.
Because I'm like, one or two of y'all
are [bleep] playing with me.
Like, I'm ready for whatever will go down.
Like, I got bail money.
I got people on standby.
Folks know where I'm at.
Like, I get down to business.
I will [bleep] your life up.
And I mean that [bleep], okay?
- So you still don't believe
after me showing you the paper?
- No.
- Because I made it up with the paper.
- You could have. - Okay--
- You could have.
[overlapping arguing] Like, at this point--
- I was mother[bleep] there first, bitch.
[overlapping arguing]
- You don't want none of this.
[overlapping arguing]
You don't want none of this.
This is a act, bitch.
- Girl, please.
Whatever. - You know about that--
[both arguing]
- You knew what you was doing when
the [bleep] you got married.
- You know where to find me.
- This is what the [bleep] y'all do.
This [bleep] y'all do.
- [bleep].
- Hey, guess what?
- Come on, we go.
Time to go.
- Spice, you know where to find me.
[both arguing]
- Now the bitch want to think I fabricated--
- You know where to find me.
- Kendra.
- You don't want none of this, bitch.
You're talking hot.
- You know where to find me.
- No, I don't care.
I don't care.
- You should never have showed her this.
- It's the truth.
- I never knew you're gonna show her this.
- It's my truth.
That's what she wanted to see.
- I feel bad for Joc 'cause he's my friend.
But in this situation,
you just need to be getting the truth out.
The truth will set you free.
At the end of the day, I'm just glad it's over with
and it's done.
Let's just move on.
♪ ♪
- Next time on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
- Winding up.
- Oh, this is Spice.
- Yes, and some may like it.
- If you want to come to a Spice rehearsal,
you have to come like Spice.
- Whoa. [laughter]
- [bleep] While you're creating babies
all over the globe, dropping them
off household to household. - All over the globe?
What are you talking about?
- Are you indignant enough to not actually be able to tell
my mama, tell my brother?
- I will talk to whoever when I'm ready.
- The conversation was supposed to make
Kendra now say there's nothing going on between you and her.
I was trying to clear this [bleep] up for you.
- I don't even know where I am with Scrapp.
Because I know, like, that conversation we had
in the studio was crazy.
He really, like, flipped the [bleep] out.
And so I haven't even really been able to talk to him
since then.
- Ladies and gentlemen, Spice is in the building.
[cheers and applause]
- Safaree. Safaree.
- Oh, she caught us talking again.
- Safaree.
No, no, no, no.
Safaree, you've got to sign the paperwork.
Erica wants to be a free woman.
You gotta sign the paperwork.
♪ ♪
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