- Previously, on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- [shouting]
- Freakin' it!
- So Karlie asked you to be in a video.
- Yes.
- You don't do that to your friend.
- Damn, bitch, she's not your [bleep] friend.
- I saw Safaree walking down the street
with his girl holding hands.
- I don't give a [bleep] about Safaree.
- And then what you wanna-- Shut the [bleep] up.
- I'm not one of them! - I'm not one of them, neither!
- Okay? [both shouting]
- You just make me very happy.
And look, I respect you, and I respect your situation.
- The night you were proclaimed husband and wife,
someone showed me on social media about this baby.
- Prepare to have a conversation with my family,
because what we handled in private
is now a public matter.
- Scrappy called me.
He was like, "Ma, I can't do it no more."
And he's filing for divorce. - No!
- OK.
- But I don't know how real it is.
You know this, Momma Dee.
I don't know if that's true.
- I ain't finna argue with you, battle with you.
We done did that.
That [bleep] is over with.
You want me to look bad? It's all cool.
You want me to look bad? I know she turn y'all on--
[all shouting]
- She don't say that. She don't say that.
- I'm a real [bleep], dog. - Calm down, calm down.
- Close the door. - Please, stop.
Y'all, don't do this.
[upbeat music]
- ♪ It's the life that we livin' ♪
♪ It's the life that we chose ♪
♪ It's the life that we livin' ♪
♪ It's the life that we chose ♪
♪ Make my way to the top and it ain't no stopping ♪
- ♪ If I should die before I wake ♪
♪ Pray the Lord my soul to take ♪
♪ If I should die before I wake ♪
♪ Tell me that you gon' be waitin' on me ♪
- Things have definitely been interesting
between Kendra and myself.
Ever since the whole blow-up with Mila
and just everything going on,
it's all been like a whirlwind.
But you know, we've still agreed to see our pastor
for marital counseling, and just trying to keep everything
together one day at a time.
- Y'all sitting here looking like y'all at
the damn bus stop or something.
- How you doing, darling? - Good.
You look so pretty.
- Thank you.
- Me and my mama always had a very
interesting relationship.
I could talk to my mom about anything.
And I'm very thankful to God for that.
- So what's going on, 'cause we all like--
you don't come out to no park.
- But to get a call out of the blue from my mom talking
about meeting her somewhere, it's not--
it's not typical of her.
And I want to think positively, you know what I'm saying?
But then again, I don't really feel comfortable
with the tone in her voice.
- Listen, guys, it's not gonna be easy telling you
what I got to tell you, but--
- So what's going on?
- I just recently been diagnosed
with stage III small cell carcinoma lung cancer.
[somber music]
Only thing they can do is treat it.
They can't cure it, so-- [clears throat]
- Wait a minute. Wait a minute. What's--
- It's in my pelvic and my rib area.
- Did they give you like outcomes, likelihoods?
- There's no cure, so they can't.
Only thing they can do is treat it.
- Well, Mama, how you know? I mean,
this is some serious stuff.
- I just found out.
♪ ♪
- [exhales]
Mm.
- What--so did they say what was the cause?
Is it smoking cigarettes? - Cigarette smoking.
Of course, lung cancer.
Cigarette smoking.
But there's no need of having a pity party.
You know, I'ma to live to-- - Well, not a pity party.
But, you know-- - I'ma live till
I can't live no more.
- We're just gon'--we gon' be there, whatever it is
you need for the--for the chemo, through the chemo,
you know what I mean?
- I know for a fact chemo's going to make my hair come out.
But-- - We'll get you a wig.
- I don't know, I get my head bedazzled.
Like a bald head bedazzled. - Bedazzled? No.
- That's the last thing you gotta worry about.
- Please, do not put no rhinestones on your--
on no bald head, please.
- I just don't want y'all to get all worked up and--
- I'm not--I'm not prepared for this.
I ain't never dealt with this before.
What we do from here?
- Live life.
- I don't want to accept the fact that my mom has
been diagnosed with cancer.
And I think sometimes we as people,
we don't understand how severe something is until it
hits so close to home.
Until it's you having to make arrangements,
or until it's you having to
really take on the frustration and the emotion
from news like this or, you know,
devastation, it hit different.
♪ ♪
- We gon' be all right, though.
We gon' be all right.
♪ ♪
- I'll still be with you even if I'm not here.
- I know. - It's a long, long time
to even be talking like that. - Ah, exactly.
- It's a long time. Ain't nobody doing no dying.
I love you.
♪ ♪
- ♪ I got that magic ♪
♪ Can't nobody do it like this ♪
♪ I make it happen ♪
♪ Work hard, play hard, then we do it all again ♪
♪ I'm fly, I'm good ♪
♪ I style on 'em ♪
- So we here for a Crying Tour.
But it's really not a Crying Tour.
It's a healing tour. [laughter]
The Crying Tour is about letting go
and releasing and healing yourself.
I have done the Crying Tour before.
The first was Dallas.
And then this is my second-- Las Vegas.
I just wanna a force to go out here and let people know
that they will get through.
You can get through.
I went through some [bleep] in my life,
and I'm always crying, 'cause I have to release.
After all this drama earlier, the bad girl crew
don't wanna show up, that's cool.
I'm just happy for the people that is gonna show up.
Stuff bother me in life. Does stuff bother y'all?
all: Yes.
- People don't know how to get along.
It bothered me that we crabs in a bucket
and don't know how to bring each other up.
It bothers me that people use their money
to make y'all like them.
But I'm a person who worked hard all my life.
I knew a long time ago I didn't want to sell [bleep].
That wasn't for me.
[laughter]
I had to do a lot to get where I am today.
You have to work at life.
Nothing is easy.
But you don't really know what people
really be going through.
You see what I'm saying?
Momma Dee. - Hi.
[laughter] - Y'all just popping up
out of nowhere, Mamma Dee. - Yes!
- It's all blessed Hey, Momma Dee.
- Bless God. - How you doing, girl?
- All right, hey. - Here, now,
you--[indistinct].
I am so thankful that Momma Dee decided to pull up
on me because her telling me all this [bleep] about Scrappy
getting divorced and this and that,
has caused all this [bleep] drama.
And it's no-- I mean, no better place
to clean it up than right here at the Crying Tour.
Let it out, Momma Dee. Let it out!
- Momma Dee? - Yeah.
- Tell me how is it dealing with
a son that have you wrapped up in all his love affairs.
- It's crazy.
I love my son. - Mm-hmm.
- But he lies.
He lies about a lot of stuff.
- Scrappy? - Yeah.
My son called me last night and talked to me like I was
a bitch in the street.
- No.
- Based upon what his wife came back and told him.
My son Scrappy cursed me out because I told Shekinah
about him filing for divorce.
But again, if you said it, Scrappy, just own it.
And let's be clear,
the word divorce, he needs to stop saying it.
The Bam needs to stop saying it.
If you're not going to do it, then shut the [bleep] up.
Women and men can come in our lives.
But when your mama--
'cause, baby, when my head get cold,
the world gon' to show him just
how much a bitch can love him. - Momma Dee, don't say that.
- Mm-mm. - [stamping foot]
- I'm 58.
I've earned my [bleep] respect.
Don't you ever!
Don't he ever do what he did last night.
And I know he ain't got no [bleep] body.
I'm--Momma Dee gon' be there. - Right.
- And it hurts. I'm a mother.
- I don't think you should hold
Bambi accountable for Scrappy's actions,
'cause Scrappy's a grown man.
If they could all just talk to each other like grown adults
so that everybody can get on the same page,
things would probably be a lot better.
- I don't even wanna see him.
I don't wanna see him till he apologize to me.
- That's right. But what you think about it?
'Cause we all in this together. - [shouting]
- Never disrespect your mama.
She just tell her mama she disagree with her.
But you don't ever go there.
- You gotta respect the marriage, though, Momma Dee.
- Really? - Yeah, and then I don't
understand it very well.
- No, but I know why they do it.
'Cause [bleep] is power. [bleep] power.
- This is what the Crying Tour is all about,
people coming together, loving on each other,
understanding each other.
This is what it's about.
- I step out the way--
But all he had to do is say, "I've been it, baby.
I told my mother something, and she repeated it."
Don't act like I'm at fault.
- I got somebody that probably can help you.
My pastor, Dr. C.H. Braddy.
Can you please come up? Can you help Momma Dee?
- She wants a certain thing out of me.
I want something from her.
- But y'all won't talk, and... - She won't come to me.
- Come to a understanding.
- So, Momma Dee, the Fifth Commandment
simply says, you know, to honor your father and your mother.
You know, and we know that our days, you know,
will be longer if we do.
- And parents, don't provoke
your children to wrath.
- And parents, don't provoke your children's wrath.
- But [indistinct] can't tell me nothing.
So I don't want to hear nothing about [indistinct].
- Mimi! [cheers and applause]
- Oh, girl, what's up, Mimi? - Oh, Mimi!
- I just showed up in Vegas.
Shekinah Jo invited me down.
And I had to come.
And also, I gotta support my girl, Spice.
She's nominated for a Grammy award.
And so I'm here for my girls.
- Now sit right here for you. Don't go nowhere.
[crosstalk]
- You come over and sit here.
Look, it's a lot going on here, y'all.
Now, we got Kirk and Rasheeda. They stand together.
They're married still, even though the devil
tried to pull 'em apart.
God said, no. - Yep.
- Huh, and where they at? Look, here.
- Period, yeah. - Period.
[applause]
- How many years we celebrating?
- 22. - 22?
- 22 years ago in December. - We got married here.
- It's going to be 23 years.
- Can you just tell me some of the things
that kept you all together?
- Friendship. - Yeah.
- First, we was friends. It took years to get there.
But you gotta have a friendship.
- You know what was important to me
I had to learn early is to keep people out
your business, number one. - Yeah.
- Scrappy's gonna have to
be the one to set some [bleep] boundaries,
because Momma Dee is extra.
Gonna be honest with you,
she just need to stay out they business.
There's a lot of people who I've met and talked to who've
been in relationships and are no longer in relationships
because of outside people.
[applause]
[tense music]
- Is that Safaree? [indistinct chatter]
- That's not Erica. What the [bleep]?
- [breathing heavily]
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- That phony [bleep] work with me.
- Girl. - Period.
- You came over there [bleep] with me.
I was sitting over there looking cute.
- Ooh. Bitch.
- He in here with his new girl. - No, no, no. Hold on.
- His ex-wife is different. - OK.
- Why would he do this to me? - I'm here for you, Shekinah!
I cry enough. I wanna be happy.
Can I be happy?
- ♪ My way the top, and it ain't no stoppin' ♪
♪ ♪
- What? That's not Erica.
- It looks like her, right?
- What the [bleep]?
- I just feel like it's a disrespect for him to just
pounce up with this girl.
What if Erica was here? You don't just
walk in with this girl like--
Men!
These men!
- You ain't have no business doing this to me, my brother.
Hey, girl, I got nothing against you.
I don't know you.
But you done showed your ass today.
You, Safaree, why would you come to my event
with this new girl?
I cannot believe this mother[bleep] just
brought this bitch up in here.
At my Crying Tour, he brings drama my way.
He in here with his new girl.
- No, no, no, no, hold on.
- His ex-wife is different.
And I'm supposed to be that girl friend.
- But listen-- - Take over for five seconds.
You know that girl--
- I came here to support you!
I don't wanna cry, but I'm here for you.
I cry enough.
I wanna be happy. Can I be happy?
- [shouting] - Can I be happy, Shekinah?
That's what this is about, right?
- Let me say this.
At some point, we all fall.
But we have to pick each other up.
Embrace this brother who has just had a separation
that's life changing.
Don't kick a person when they're down. No.
- For Shekinah to be making this a big spectacle because
I'm here with somebody else.
Like, me and Erica are not together anymore.
The divorce is almost final.
But Erica just keeps on adding things, and child support,
and all this other stuff.
And I'm over it. I'm back outside.
If I wanna take somebody out, I'ma take them out.
- I'd like to thank Pastor Braddy and everyone else
for coming out tonight.
OK. - Yes! Yes!
- So Shekinah's whole point is releasing emotions
and feeling good about doing it.
And I think it's a really good thing that she's doing.
And I commend her and support her 1,000%.
However, Safaree Samuels walks in with a complete Erica Mena
look-alike.
What the [bleep] are you doing?
- What's up, beautiful? - How you doing?
- How are you? I'ma give you another hug.
- How you doing, girl? - This is cute.
- Thank you. - Yes.
- I really appreciate, y'all.
It mean a lot y'all showed up.
- Well, what the hell? Where you been?
You done flew in-- - Yes.
I had to come support, and Shekinah--
But I just wanted to surprise y'all.
- This is Kirk. - Hi. Nice to meet you.
- Kirk, this is Kimbella. - Nice to meet you.
- Yeah, he got balls, though. That [bleep] got balls.
- Ballsy. - He got balls like--
- He got big balls. [chuckles]
- Shekinah, thank you for having me.
- Hi, nice to meet you. - This is Kimbella.
How are you? - This is wrong.
Erica would kill me.
- OK, that's fine. - Even though
me and Erica fought earlier,
she's still a friend of mine.
And I still have her back.
I can't be shaking this girl Kimbella's hand.
Mm-mm. Mm-mm.
Who do Kimbella resemble?
- Oh, I ain't in it. - Oh, you didn't wanna
be in it, Gemini?
- Hey, guess what? - Now, Mimi.
- [clicking tongue] - I'm staying in my lane.
- You beautiful, though, but you look like Erica.
- I've never gotten that before. That's crazy.
- Y'all have a lot of similarities.
- Maybe because we're the same nationality.
- All Black people don't look the same.
[laughter] - OK, see you.
- Did you see the ass on that [bleep]?
- No, that's Erica's twin sister.
[laughter]
- I ain't crying!
I ain't crying no more!
This is happy tears. - Yeah.
- All right? - All right.
- I'm out.
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- All right, so now you want me to just jump out here
and just go to telling people our business.
- It ain't people.
It's my mama and my brother. - I understand.
- They're just as important as your damn parents.
- I understand that. - But you got people
in your corner, and I don't have nobody.
- ♪ My way the top, and it ain't no stoppin' ♪
♪ ♪
- ♪ Feel all right ♪
♪ I can make you feel all right ♪
♪ ♪
♪ Feel all right ♪
♪ I can make you feel all right ♪
♪ Feel all right ♪
♪ I can make you feel all right ♪
- When I say bitch, I am so stressed out.
- Girl, do you see like how this trip started?
- I don't wanna come back to Vegas.
This my first time and my last time.
- This is crazy. - It is a lot.
We planned for this to be a bad girls' trip.
But me and Bambi decided not
to go to Shekinah's Crying Tour
because it's just been so much going on.
And even though Eric have been getting on my last damn nerve,
he's coming to Vegas today today to support Spice.
And I kinda just want to get with him,
relax, and just fall in his arms, like, baby,
I can't take these bitches.
It's too much.
- With the Scrap, it's like every time
I try to confront him about something,
he goes into straight, like, attack mode.
He didn't even give me a chance to say anything.
I don't really even know, like, where to go
from there, because that [bleep] was embarrassing.
- Yeah. - And it was just too much.
It was too much. [knock at door]
- Yeah. - Did you order something?
- Who the [bleep] is that?
Who is this?
Hi. - Hi.
How are you? - Good.
How are you? - I'm good.
I'm here from Karlie Redd for an event I'm setting up.
- Oh, Karlie's not staying here.
- Who is that, Bam? - I know she told me
to come here and set up for an event.
- Somebody said, um-- there's--
here, you can come on inside.
I'm sorry. - What's going on?
- She said Karlie sent her here to set up
something for an event. - For what?
Uh-uh. - To set up for an event.
- Karlie? - Hey, love.
- Hey, what are you doing? - You look pretty.
- Thank you. You too. There's a lady here
with some food and stuff that said you sent her here.
- Yes. I wanted--
with everything that's been going on,
I wanted to see if it was OK for us to do,
like, a pool party at the house.
- Now, typical Karlie,
when she do something, she'll just act
like nothing even happened.
The whole situation went down at the video shoot.
Now look at her with a whole [bleep] chef at our house.
- Wait, Karlie, who's gonna come over here?
- Everybody. - What do you mean everybody?
Because you know it's been a lot going on,
a lot of people ain't peopling together
and all kind of stuff like that.
So I don't know if that's a good idea.
- Erica's there, right? - Mm-mm, no.
- Why not? - I don't know.
I don't know if she left.
- Erica was so mad at the brunch.
We can't even find this bitch.
She's not answering her phone.
We don't know where she is.
It's just, it's-- it's a hot-ass mess.
- I always want everybody to get along and kumbaya.
- I'ma just let this nice lady in and cook.
- Right. I got a chef.
I got a party planner.
- This is just like Karlie,
to feel entitled enough to throw a party at our house
where we're sleeping.
And she's probably gonna even invite people
that we're not even messing with right now.
- You know, I really can't be taking all this.
I get--my anxiety will be high.
- Yeah. [knock at door]
- What the [bleep]? Wait! - Oh, it's Mimi.
- Is that-- - Hold on.
- That is not Mimi.
Oh, my gosh. Mimi!
- Mimi! - What are you doing here?
- I didn't see the girls at the Crying Tour,
so I'm like I wanna see you guys.
So I decided to just show up.
Shekinah did tell me that some stuff went down at the brunch
before I got there.
And I just wanna get to the bottom of everything.
- So you just in-- coming to Las Vegas?
- Yes. - You pop up on us like this.
- Yes. - Oh, my God.
- Y'all got to fill me in. - It's been a lot going on.
- Just this trip-- - What?
- Or just, like, period?
- This trip. - First of all,
you know it's always bull[bleep].
- Karlie, like, sent this lady over here to set up...
- Set up what? - Without telling us--
an event without telling us.
- Hoo! Sounds about right. - Only Karlie.
- Yeah, that sounds about right.
- So what you been up to in Vegas?
- So I got here.
I just--I went to Shekinah's Crying Tour.
- How was that? - It was good.
And then, you know, of course it went left.
Safaree comes in. - Wow.
- Safaree went to the Crying Tour?
- With a--with a guest, looked damn near identical to Erica.
- You are lying. - Wow.
- And so he brought her there?
- And like, you know, just toting her around.
- He's a [bleep] scum bag. - He really is.
- And what she said is [bleep]. And I feel Erica.
She's overwhelmed like a mother[bleep].
You wanna bring a bitch?
You need to go pick up your mother[bleep] children
and buy some Pampers.
- We gotta, like, release some of this stress.
If we gotta whoosah, or whatever it is we
need to do, 'cause it seem like everybody
is just a little tense.
- The dysfunctional family is very dysfunctional right now.
- You showing up was like the real highlight of this trip
so far, for real. - I love you guys.
- Yeah. - Let's go get ready
for Karlie's party. - Yeah.
- At your house. - At our house.
- This bitch doing a whole party at our house.
- Yes.
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Slow, quick, quick. Slow, quick, quick.
And slow, and move your upper body, right?
Slow, quick, quick.
- Jasiel and I were speaking with the pastor.
He suggested that, you know, we do more bonding activities.
So I'm hoping and praying that, you know,
we learn something new and have fun and hopefully connect.
- Oh, [bleep]. - That was pretty good.
- Yeah? - That was pretty hype.
- I'm gonna leave you to practice.
- OK. - And I'll be back
in ten minutes. - OK.
- All right? - OK, awesome.
- All right. - Kendra has been
very patient with me
since finding out the diagnosis on my mom's health.
I'm doing this because I wanna be intentional.
I want my wife and my friend to know how much I love her
and how much I care and how much I need her.
- In all seriousness, like--
[sighs] I think this is a good, I guess,
healing place or a good fun place for us to be at in spite
of all the stuff that-- I mean--
- It's effort. It's effort. - Yeah.
Now let's move on to the real stuff, OK, the real stuff
that really affects you and affects me
and affects your family.
You know what I mean? - Mm-hmm.
- This situation with this baby, like, my mama
and my brother are both coming down
here in two and a half days.
And I want you to be there with me to explain this.
I shouldn't even have to explain it, Jasiel.
Like, it wasn't my doing.
I didn't wanna do it that way, but I had to.
I felt like you was dragging your feet on, like,
just the whole situation.
- It's not about me dragging my feet about this.
My number one priority right now is my mom's health.
- I understand that. We all dealing with that
with your mama--everybody.
- No, you-- - My mama--I know it
ain't my mama, Jasiel. - Dealing with it
from my level of-- - I understand that.
I understand that.
What I'm telling you is that this is something
that's important to me.
This is something that's important to us being
able to be together, you know what I'm saying,
you taking accountability like we've talked about so many--
I'm tired of talking about accountability.
Like, man up, dog.
Take accountability. That's all I want.
- I've manned up.
I told the person who I needed to let know
first and foremost, OK? - OK.
- And right now in the process of what you want me to do--
just do this right now.
Well, in the process right now, I'm asking you--
- Jasiel, we've been talking about this.
- I understand that. - Why are you acting like
I just want-- come talk to my people?
- I'm asking you to just help me with this situation
with my mom, let me get past that.
- I am helping you with the situation with your mama.
I'm there for your mama.
We just found out your mama's cancer diagnosis.
Boy, this [bleep] been going on way before that,
so that's not an excuse.
And you're not going to use that as no excuse for me.
- It's not that I don't want to speak
to Kendra's family about this.
It's just right now what I'm dealing with everything
with my mom, I just don't wanna keep going, putting myself
through more and more turmoil.
All right, so now you want me to just jump out here and just
go to telling people our business.
- It ain't "people." It's my mama and my brother.
- I understand, I understand. - What are you talking
about, "people"? - I'm just saying, even if
your mama and your brother-- - Your mama know.
Your daddy know. What make you think
my brother and mama ain't gotta know?
- I'm just saying they don't gotta know.
- They're just as important as your damn parents.
- I didn't say they-- - But you got people
in your corner, and I don't have nobody.
The way that I support Jasiel, I support him
wholeheartedly, no matter what.
I go hard for this man, OK?
And I feel like support me in this because this is
a part of my healing as well.
You gotta pay the piper.
He here, and he knocking at the door, and he ready.
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- We don't have to be best friends.
- You don't love me, though. - I love everybody, baby.
- Well, you definitely don't love me.
- What the [bleep] is going on?
- Somebody don't wanna [bleep] with you...
- Yeah. - It's OK.
- But I'm not gonna do-- - Exactly
[crosstalk]
- Hey, how you doing? - And that's what
I been doing.
- ♪ My way the top, and it ain't no stoppin' ♪
- ♪ Don't force it don't force it ♪
♪ Just flow with it just flow with it ♪
♪ Gotta love this vibe ♪ gotta love this vibe ♪
♪ Gotta go with it, yo, we not gonna force this ♪
♪ We could go somewhere real deep ♪
♪ And lay low, and smoke something potent ♪
♪ Yeah, and smoke something potent ♪
♪ We ain't gotta force it ♪ - Hey!
The video shoot was a great success, so just to celebrate,
the label suggested that we should do a big party.
And I already planned a surprise party at their house
before we even got into it.
And I figured it would be a cool olive branch.
Spice, I just wanna tell you thank you for the video shoot.
And thank you, Meda, thank you, Spice
for like being on the song, and everything you've done.
I really appreciate you from the bottom of my heart.
I will never forget this ever in life.
all: Aww! - Ever.
But how's it feel the day before the Grammys?
- Oh, my God! [laughter]
I'm excited.
- You anxious yet? - I'm not nervous yet.
- You're gonna get nervous a couple of hours before.
It's gonna hit you like a ton of bricks.
- No, but she's been getting award after award.
- I know! - I got an award
for Black woman in music.
It really meant a lot to me. - Then I saw another award
on your social media.
- Yeah, so I got an award for female DJ of the year
from the ARIA fam as well.
They also gave me collaboration of the year
for the "Go Down Deh" song with Shaggy and Sean Paul.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah. - And then you got the award
from the Jamaican International--
- And then I got another award from Jamaica
International Music.
- That's so dope.
- I just feel so blessed and honored
that I'm even here just celebrating
being nominated for a Grammy.
I'm getting so many other awards.
But it also makes me feel good to be among great legends
in the reggae category.
Sean Paul is there.
Gramps Morgan, Etana, two times nominated.
So if I don't win, I'm already a winner.
- Hi. - Ooh, hi.
- Oh, my gosh. - I'm square!
- They be square.
both: Hi! - Damn.
- So even though Karlie set up this pool party
and I'm annoyed by it, I'm just trying
to have a good time here.
I'm just trying to chill and eat some barbecue.
- What's up with you, Bam?
- I had a rough day yesterday.
Like, we came out here thinking this
was going to be like a relaxing girls' little trip.
- Yeah, celebrate, you know. - Celebrating.
And it just started kinda, like, unraveling
the moment we got here.
Yesterday at the brunch, me and Scrap
ended up getting into it.
The night before, Shekinah had came over.
And she told me, you know, Momma Dee
told her all these things.
He just, like, flipped out and started, like, going off
on me as if I did something.
He--oh. Well, hold on.
♪ ♪
Hello? - Hey, what's up?
- Hey. - I need to come holla at you
I wanted to come push up on real, real quick.
- OK, I'm here. - All right.
- Ooh, speak of the devil.
- You spoke him up. - Period.
No, that always happens. Always.
- Y'all are in sync. - Every time you talk
about him-- - You in sync.
- I don't know if we in sync.
- Hey, girls! - Hey!
- Hello!
[upbeat music]
- Hey, Spice! - Hi, sis!
- You finna win a mother[bleep] award?
- Yes, bitch! - Perfect.
Hi, Karlie Redd.
You missed my event last night, but--
- Girl. - It was really a place
to heal, though, like, people got--
- But why did Safaree bring that girl there?
- Wait a minute. I told Safaree about it weeks ago
that I'm having a Crying Tour.
But I didn't know he really was going to come.
- Yeah, that's what happened to me.
- Lies!
[sprinklers hissing] all: Ohh!
[all screaming]
[laughter]
- My purse! My phone! - Get my purse!
- Take me back!
- You guys got invited to a [bleep] pool party,
and y'all are running from the water.
- Bambi's ready for the pool.
- God sure know how to stop Karlie
bull[bleep] before it starts.
Vegas really don't like me.
First it was too much goddamn heat on my wig.
And now it's got water all over it.
- We was in the house.
Scrap FaceTimed.
And he said he was finna come over here.
- Oh, my God.
- I'm not finna be arguing with him...
both: Mm-mm. - At the party.
- I'ma find you some snacks. - Please.
I can say something to him in the softest way.
And he'd be like, "Nah, 'cause you
getting at me aggressively."
And I'll be like-- - No, the [bleep] I'm not.
- No, like, you just hella defensive.
- Scrappy be Scrappy.
[laughter] - Cheers to Scrappy.
- Cheers to who? [laughter]
Cheers to Scrappy and who? - Scrappy and--
cheers to Scrappy.
We talked you up. - Oh.
[laughter] What's really going on?
♪ ♪
- Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- I understand he don't support his daughter.
But you ain't seen her in a minute.
- This [bleep] right here is triggering as [bleep].
I'm a mother[bleep] single mama!
- ♪ My way the top, and it ain't no stoppin' ♪
- Ohh. [laughter]
What's really going on?
- Oh, my God.
- We said cheers to Scrappy.
- Yeah? - And here you come.
- They says-- - Just wanna come talk to you.
Apologize.
[dramatic music]
- I'll be back, guys. - Oh, thank you.
- Look at that body!
- Yeah. - Goodbye.
- Damn! - Damn, Bam!
- Oh, God.
I can't shut down my husband.
I can't tell him we can't talk, so, hey,
we'll just see what happens.
- So yeah, boo, I just wanted to conversate
about what happened.
I really feel like I--
I was out of line, out of bounds.
It didn't even cross my mind how you felt,
you know what I'm saying? All I seen
was you sitting there like, with a unpleasant face
and everybody snatching from you,
I'm like, man, what's going on?
Like, I was just--
just trying to see what's happening.
Like, but then it made me feel bad, 'cause I ain't even say
damn, boo, what's wrong? You know what I'm saying?
I didn't even say that. I just was like,
Man, [bleep] that, like-- - Mm-hmm.
- I was out of bounds. You feel me?
- Well, I appreciate that.
I just hate, like, being blindsided.
You know what I'm saying?
When I call you and be like, hey, like, this is what's
going on, like, you, like, attack me.
Like, you know I'm a safe place for you.
And I just wanna feel that same way.
You know what I'm saying? Like, 'cause you're
the first person I call.
- I'm apologizing to my wife, first of all,
'cause she's my wife, second of all because I
told my mama something that I knew
I shouldn't have told her.
I ain't saying the divorce part.
But I just said, like, man, I'm--
I'm tired of this [bleep].
And then I try to be positive.
But the other night on the phone with Mama Dukes,
telling me calm down, it's cool, it's OK.
That's your wife. And so I cussed my mom out.
And you saying all that, and turn around and say that,
that's definitely troubling to me.
I don't want you to feel like you're not protected at all.
You dig? I love you.
You know what I'm saying?
Whatever I can do better, I'ma do.
- I appreciate it. I do.
- I love my wife. You feel me?
Your sexy self.
- So Scrap took accountability for all
of the [bleep] he been on.
And hey, you know, now I can't really ask
for anything more than that.
- Oh, you know what? - What?
- Mimi is a great mediator. - I am.
- And while you're here, it's time for a mediation session.
- With who? - Me and her.
- We're mediated. We done mediated 25 times.
- Something else happened? - A million times.
- What happened now?
Something new that I don't know about?
- It's nothing new.
It's just that I hold a lot of stuff in.
- Oh, no. - And I just never
talked to you about it.
First of all, I hardly see you anymore.
That's number one.
I used to be at her house almost every day.
Like, I'm not needed anymore. - No, the reason
why we don't talk,
it's because it's very awkward.
What happened took place years ago.
I got one case.
I don't want to catch another one.
[crosstalk]
- No, now what? - Karlie--
- No, now what? - Karlie, get the [bleep]--
[shouting]
- And it just--it left us in a very weird situation.
We both just kinda grew apart.
I love you. You love me.
Like, we don't have to be best friends.
- You don't love me, though.
We don't have to be best friends.
- Well, I love everybody, baby.
- Well, you definitely don't love me,
so let's keep that real.
- Karlie is always stirring the pot.
And it's like, I tried to make peace with you,
but you just never let that shit go.
We could be cordial. - But don't lie and say
you love me when you don't. - We can be cordial.
The [bleep] is we are arguing about?
Playin' with me.
When she do something, she want everybody to just throw it
in the back of their head, but if somebody else
do something, it's a whole big thing.
She loves dragging [bleep] forever.
That whole conversation was not needed.
I'm gonna chill with my man.
I don't have to hang with no women, honey.
Y'all, it'll be too much.
Come over here. Come on. Come on.
- If somebody don't wanna [bleep] with you...
- Yeah. - It's OK.
- Totally, totally. - How you gonna learn how to--
and see this for reason. - Totally.
You're absolutely right. - How you gonna know
how to be grown? - Period.
- Say hey, how you doing? And that's it.
- And that's what I've been doing.
Keep it moving. - I don't like
that phony [bleep]. - It ain't about phony.
- Don't be phony. - Don't nobody--
- Don't you [bleep]-- - Karlie simply needs to relax
if Sierra don't [bleep] with her like that,
and let it go.
- And I know everything that your mom
drop on other people.
It ain't necessarily, like, your fault.
But you just gotta keep her out of...
- My business. - Stuff because
that's the only way she have something to say to somebody.
- Yeah, she gets other stuff out of what I'm telling her.
She come up with her own stuff. - Mm-hmm.
- You know what I'm saying?
And I'm going to get on top of that.
- I don't talk to you! - You know what I'm saying?
That ain't going to happen no more.
- I'ma call phony for what it is.
- What the [bleep]? Like, should we go out there?
- Stop fuckin' it up. - Everything you're saying.
- When you see out in public, "Hey, how you doing?"
- That's what I do. That's exactly what I do.
- That's not what you do. - I don't like
that phony [bleep]. - It don't matter
about being phony.
Everybody's phony!
- Sierra's phony,
because in my face, she'll do all this,
"I love you, and I love you, and I love you."
But behind my back, she's talking about me to everybody.
And I know this for a fact.
I'm letting you know that phony shit don't work with me.
- Girl-- - If you don't like me,
don't come to my event.
- You came over there [bleep] with me.
I was sitting over there looking cute.
I'm not doing all that.
I'ma enjoy myself because you at our house.
- Ooh.
Bitch. The [bleep]?
- Imagine coming in somebody else's house,
and you telling them what to do.
You're out of your [bleep] mind, Karlie.
Your ass need to be grateful that you was even able to step
a foot in this mother[bleep] house, let alone
have a pool party. - Ooh, Bambi? Bambi?
- Let me call you back in a few seconds. OK, boo.
[laughter]
- We have something to say about last night.
- What happened? - I did not know Safaree
was gonna bring her here. - OK.
- And I didn't know Momma Dee was gonna pull up.
- All right. - I appreciate them
for them to support my tour and everything.
- Absolutely, yeah. - I didn't say [bleep]
about you, and with Erica's stuff,
I took up for Erica, too.
- But did you tell that girl to get the [bleep] out?
- No, she didn't. - Wait a minute,
because I'm actually doing an event that's
supposed to be positive.
- But you-- - But I--wait a minute.
But I did not-- - But it could be, like,
"Excuse yourself, ma'am. You're not--"
- This is what I did. When he walked around the room
to introduce her to people, I told her I cannot
shake your hand because Erica's my friend.
- Mm-hmm. - And I asked him
why would you go get a girl who looked just like Erica?
- Yes. Yes, she did.
- I ate his ass up and then spit him out and put
him back in my mouth again. - OK, good.
That's all I care about then. - She ate his ass up.
- Oh. What's happening? all: Ohh!
- Party! Party!
Where's Karlie at? - Right here.
- Speak of the devil. - Karlie!
♪ ♪
- ♪ My way the top, and it ain't no stoppin' ♪
[tense music]
- Oh, what's happening?
Party! Party!
- I got-- - What's up, everybody?
- Safaree, you got me in a lot of [bleep]
for coming to the Crying Tour with that woman last night.
All these women and people looking at me.
[bleep] no.
- Why did you take her to Shekinah event
when you know Erica and Shekinah are friends?
- Why are y'all mad at a man for moving on, though?
- Nobody's mad at him for moving on.
He can move on. But this is Erica's friend.
- Everybody make some noise for Spice,
Grammy-awarded-winning Spice!
[laughter]
- At this point, nothing Safaree does
surprises me at all.
Safaree stays, trying to get under Erica's skin.
And then we know Karlie has always been messy.
But I've never seen her do anything this disloyal.
And having Safaree here right now
is some bull[bleep].
- What happened, brother? You tell me.
- All right.
I came to Shekinah's event because I'm all about
uplifting and supporting our beautiful strong
Black women, right? - Safaree, you got
a strong Black daughter, period.
- But what are they upset about?
- I know. What's that got to do with anything, though?
- I ain't saying he don't support his daughter.
But I'm just saying you ain't seen her in a minute.
- Y'all don't know nothing. - They ain't even seen him
in about two months now. - She can say whatever
she wanna say, but they ain't gonna
say what happened when I went to go try to get them.
I wanna do it by myself.
I don't wanna do it under nobody's watching,
somebody acting like I got to have somebody supervising me
when I'm with my kids.
You musta bomboclaat, man.
I don't need no [bleep] nanny, like some super--
Come on, son.
♪ ♪
So Karlie invites me to the group house
to come talk, see what's going on,
and then off rip, I'm being attacked.
I don't think it's fair.
Erica trying to make it seem like I'm an absentee father.
That's her being hurt.
I don't feel like I necessarily need to promote and show,
hey, look, I'm with my kids.
So I know everyone is not hearing the full total truth,
because I'm not saying anything.
I'm keeping everything to myself.
- You know, I'm triggered by this whole [bleep].
I went through this whole situation.
The same things that you are saying he was saying.
And the world does not know.
I'm a mother[bleep] single mom still.
My daughter's 12 years old.
And the burden, that everything that I pay for,
I paid for for this little girl.
- Hold it down, Mimi. - When I say triggered,
this [bleep] hit me like a sucker punch in my stomach.
It brought me back to a time and place
where I went through a similar situation
with my daughter's father.
The only time that I got some regular [bleep] child support
is when he married Faith Evans.
And the child support came from her.
- Oh, no.
- Let's keep it [bleep] real.
- Hey. What's up, everybody?
- So Kirk and I finally made it to Karlie's little pool party.
And I was like, what the hell?
I don't even know what transpired
before we got there.
- This [bleep] right here is triggering
the [bleep] out of me.
I don't know what you're doing.
I don't know you, sir.
- Y'all need to start squaring up with these [bleep]
if y'all need y'all [bleep], you know what I'm saying?
That's what y'all need to start doing.
- I'm with it! - Squaring up.
- I'm just saying I understand that.
But that don't--that's not my situation.
- All we saying is look, this is what it is for real.
Mimi, we know you carry the majority of the load.
As mothers, that's what we do.
We need a [bleep] break sometimes.
- Yeah. - Erica can't
get up sometimes, like, she's not feeling good.
She's going through a divorce. She's hurting.
She's suffering.
She gotta get up and take care of them babies every day.
As their father, just say, listen,
I'm finna come get them. - Listen.
Bam, I--Bam. - I'll come and get them.
- I want them half of the time.
And I don't want nobody telling me when I can have them
and you have to have them with a nanny.
- I told you last night you're not a woman,
so you don't understand what women go through,
feelings we deal with.
That girl is over there mentally going
through [bleep] back. - Yeah.
- In her mind, she battling. - I can't understand.
- I hate him, but I love him. I hate him, but I love him.
I got married to him. I had two kids by him.
I didn't have to do this. I'm stuck.
I'm not stuck. I can make it.
I can't make it. - Mm-hmm.
- [bleep] her. He ain't [bleep] her.
Do he love them? Is she the only one?
That is so mentally fucked up. - It is.
- Stop [bleep] with her mentally,
'cause she losing her mind.
[somber music]
- Peace out. - I really think them girls
should stay out of this one.
Let the lovely couple or divorcees--
you know what I'm saying-- have at it they self.
They need to talk amongst they selves.
We don't need to be a part of this [bleep].
He gone. - Damn.
- That is coward behavior. He ran.
This man is a certified coward.
Like, you put yourself in this hot seat knowing
that this girl is going through all this stuff
that you've caused.
But when it gets hot, you wanna run away.
And this is exactly what Erica's been
talking about the whole time.
- Get your ugly ass back over here.
♪ ♪
- Next time, on the season finale of
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- It's been a lot. - I know it has.
- And there's a lot of stuff behind the scenes.
I have to sit there and watch that man
cry to the judge about how much more money I make than him.
- That's some sick ass [bleep]. - Crazy.
- Jasiel stepped out on me, and, you know,
he had a--a baby with somebody else.
- I would have to say run.
- I want to respect you.
But you hurt my daughter.
I can't respect you.
- I think you was very mistreating of me.
- My mother hurt me every day. - I don't.
- You know what I'm saying? - Oh!
- Momma Dee, go hug your child.
He hurt! - I'm hurt!
- You hurt? Hold on. You hurt?
Go blame that on your mama! Go blame that on your daddy!
'Cause I ain't never-- - You're gonna sit
and disrespect me!
- [screaming] [stamping feet]
I'm officially primary custodian of the kids
What about the child support?
Are you [bleep] kidding me?
♪ ♪
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