1 00:00:01,301 --> 00:00:03,336 - Previously on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 2 00:00:03,336 --> 00:00:06,106 - He is such a piece of [bleep]. 3 00:00:06,106 --> 00:00:07,841 [tense music] 4 00:00:07,841 --> 00:00:10,143 - Momma Dee, she said he already filed for divorce. 5 00:00:10,143 --> 00:00:13,146 - Okay. - She's so messy. 6 00:00:13,146 --> 00:00:14,881 - Hello? 7 00:00:14,881 --> 00:00:16,649 - Your mama is really on some bull[bleep] out here, Scrappy. 8 00:00:16,649 --> 00:00:17,951 - If you were gonna invite Safaree, 9 00:00:17,951 --> 00:00:19,252 why wouldn't you tell me? 10 00:00:19,252 --> 00:00:21,087 - I didn't know it was that bad for y'all. 11 00:00:21,087 --> 00:00:23,990 - You done helped me and gave me advice on my divorce 12 00:00:23,990 --> 00:00:25,825 because you just went through one. 13 00:00:25,825 --> 00:00:27,460 How do you not know? 14 00:00:27,460 --> 00:00:30,764 - Listen, guys, it's not gonna be easy telling you 15 00:00:30,764 --> 00:00:34,801 I just recently been diagnosed with stage three lung cancer. 16 00:00:34,801 --> 00:00:36,169 There's no cure. 17 00:00:36,169 --> 00:00:37,904 The only thing they can do is treat it. 18 00:00:37,904 --> 00:00:39,639 - We have our Crying Tour. 19 00:00:39,639 --> 00:00:41,541 A lot of stuff bothers me a lot. 20 00:00:41,541 --> 00:00:43,009 People don't know how to get along. 21 00:00:43,009 --> 00:00:47,313 - My son called me last night and talked to me like 22 00:00:47,313 --> 00:00:49,048 I was a bitch in the street. 23 00:00:49,048 --> 00:00:50,984 - Karlie, there's a lady here with some food and stuff. 24 00:00:50,984 --> 00:00:54,320 - I wanted to do, like, a pool party. 25 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,489 - How's it feel? 26 00:00:56,489 --> 00:00:58,158 The day before the Grammys. 27 00:00:58,158 --> 00:01:00,627 - Oh, my God! 28 00:01:00,627 --> 00:01:02,429 - We'll never be best friends. - Well, we can be cordial. 29 00:01:02,429 --> 00:01:03,596 - But don't lie and say you love me-- 30 00:01:03,596 --> 00:01:04,931 - We can be cordial. - When you don't. 31 00:01:04,931 --> 00:01:06,399 - Y'all playing with me. 32 00:01:06,399 --> 00:01:08,201 - I don't like that phony [bleep]. 33 00:01:08,201 --> 00:01:09,569 - It don't matter about being phony. 34 00:01:09,569 --> 00:01:10,503 Everybody phony. 35 00:01:12,577 --> 00:01:13,845 [funky music] 36 00:01:13,845 --> 00:01:15,246 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 37 00:01:15,246 --> 00:01:16,247 - ♪ It's the life that I'm living ♪ 38 00:01:16,247 --> 00:01:17,615 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 39 00:01:17,615 --> 00:01:18,650 - ♪ It's the life that I chose ♪ 40 00:01:18,650 --> 00:01:19,951 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 41 00:01:19,951 --> 00:01:21,019 ♪ It's the life that I'm living ♪ 42 00:01:21,019 --> 00:01:22,387 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 43 00:01:22,387 --> 00:01:24,155 - ♪ It's the life that I chose ♪ 44 00:01:24,155 --> 00:01:26,091 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 45 00:01:27,500 --> 00:01:29,936 - ♪ Yeah ♪ 46 00:01:29,936 --> 00:01:35,241 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 47 00:01:35,241 --> 00:01:37,811 - When it comes to this baby situation, 48 00:01:37,811 --> 00:01:39,779 Jasiel has been dragging his damn feet 49 00:01:39,779 --> 00:01:41,314 about telling my family. 50 00:01:41,314 --> 00:01:44,384 But at this point, the news is spreading like wildfire, 51 00:01:44,384 --> 00:01:46,319 and I don't want them finding out from anybody else. 52 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,288 So I asked my mom and my brother to come 53 00:01:48,288 --> 00:01:50,724 down here from Kentucky for the weekend. 54 00:01:50,724 --> 00:01:52,926 - Let's have a seat. Let's sit down. 55 00:01:52,926 --> 00:01:55,195 - But they have no idea why they're down here. 56 00:01:55,195 --> 00:01:57,063 They just know it's important that they come. 57 00:01:57,063 --> 00:01:58,465 They heard it in my voice. 58 00:01:58,465 --> 00:02:03,103 So the plan was for Jasiel to be--for us 59 00:02:03,103 --> 00:02:05,438 to do this together a while ago. 60 00:02:05,438 --> 00:02:06,673 - Where is he? 61 00:02:06,673 --> 00:02:08,475 - He's using the fact that his mom-- 62 00:02:08,475 --> 00:02:11,144 I mean, she started chemo two days ago, as a scapegoat, 63 00:02:11,144 --> 00:02:13,913 but it's not stopping him from doing anything else. 64 00:02:13,913 --> 00:02:15,615 Like, he'd been on the radio... - No. 65 00:02:15,615 --> 00:02:17,784 - So with all due respect, he should have been here. 66 00:02:17,784 --> 00:02:19,052 Let's be clear. 67 00:02:19,052 --> 00:02:21,054 Jasiel knew exactly how important it was 68 00:02:21,054 --> 00:02:22,989 to me that he had a conversation with my family 69 00:02:22,989 --> 00:02:25,325 about this baby situation. 70 00:02:25,325 --> 00:02:27,594 I'm prepared for Jasiel to be the spokesperson 71 00:02:27,594 --> 00:02:28,795 on the matter. 72 00:02:28,795 --> 00:02:30,130 - I'm gonna hold you accountable. 73 00:02:30,130 --> 00:02:31,731 - I'ma hold me accountable. 74 00:02:31,731 --> 00:02:33,800 - And he knew my family was gonna be in town today. 75 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,301 We talked about it. We planned it. 76 00:02:35,301 --> 00:02:37,537 My mama and my brother both coming down here, 77 00:02:37,537 --> 00:02:39,639 and I want you to be there with me to explain this. 78 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:43,143 But this morning rolls around, and my cowardly husband 79 00:02:43,143 --> 00:02:46,413 is not here by my side, so I don't know at what point 80 00:02:46,413 --> 00:02:49,082 he's literally gonna take his balls out of his pocket 81 00:02:49,082 --> 00:02:50,984 and, like, put it back in the pants. 82 00:02:50,984 --> 00:02:55,321 So basically, Jasiel stepped out on me. 83 00:02:55,321 --> 00:02:59,626 He had a baby with somebody else. 84 00:02:59,626 --> 00:03:03,430 [tense music] 85 00:03:03,430 --> 00:03:05,899 - I mean, I thought I was coming down here 86 00:03:05,899 --> 00:03:07,867 to get some Nana news. 87 00:03:07,867 --> 00:03:09,135 - Yeah. 88 00:03:09,135 --> 00:03:10,670 - But when did you find out about it? 89 00:03:10,670 --> 00:03:13,773 - It was after he proposed to me and in a time 90 00:03:13,773 --> 00:03:15,842 where we were really rocky. 91 00:03:15,842 --> 00:03:19,446 Barely hardly together, you know. 92 00:03:19,446 --> 00:03:23,817 He chose to do that. 93 00:03:23,817 --> 00:03:27,253 - Kendra, I'm concerned about you. 94 00:03:27,253 --> 00:03:31,391 The issue you had with him before marriage, 95 00:03:31,391 --> 00:03:33,793 his infidelities. 96 00:03:33,793 --> 00:03:36,262 I mean, if it came up this time, 97 00:03:36,262 --> 00:03:39,032 how do you feel about it not happening again? 98 00:03:39,032 --> 00:03:41,000 - Well, I didn't just find out about it 99 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,602 and just, oh, keep going. 100 00:03:42,602 --> 00:03:48,074 Like, I had time to digest it, but I don't know the future. 101 00:03:48,074 --> 00:03:50,743 - You accepted it. You married him. 102 00:03:50,743 --> 00:03:55,648 So you must have said that you could live with it. 103 00:03:55,648 --> 00:03:57,083 - Well... 104 00:03:57,083 --> 00:03:58,485 - And you're trying to live with it. 105 00:03:58,485 --> 00:04:00,053 - Yeah, I'm trying to. 106 00:04:00,053 --> 00:04:03,656 - Speaking from your brother, like, I would have said run. 107 00:04:03,656 --> 00:04:05,024 Like, run. 108 00:04:05,024 --> 00:04:07,560 No justification. 109 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,563 The likelihood of people changing--people do change, 110 00:04:10,563 --> 00:04:13,900 but the likelihood of people changing is slim. 111 00:04:13,900 --> 00:04:15,568 Most people are who they are. 112 00:04:15,568 --> 00:04:17,570 - Ever since I first met Jasiel, 113 00:04:17,570 --> 00:04:19,906 my family has been warming up to him. 114 00:04:19,906 --> 00:04:21,274 Because at the end of the day, 115 00:04:21,274 --> 00:04:23,643 he has the reputation of a player, 116 00:04:23,643 --> 00:04:26,346 and this baby situation makes it no easier. 117 00:04:26,346 --> 00:04:30,216 So I'm in no rush to also tell them about the Amina drama 118 00:04:30,216 --> 00:04:32,619 simply because I don't want some fake rumors 119 00:04:32,619 --> 00:04:36,256 to spoil his relationship with my family even worse 120 00:04:36,256 --> 00:04:37,524 than what's about to happen. 121 00:04:37,524 --> 00:04:39,626 - You know, Kendra, what did I tell you? 122 00:04:39,626 --> 00:04:44,531 When a person tell you who they are, to believe it. 123 00:04:44,531 --> 00:04:48,902 And that's not a good feeling for the person 124 00:04:48,902 --> 00:04:53,106 who's going to be in my daughter's life. 125 00:04:53,106 --> 00:04:55,475 You know. - Don't cry, Ma. 126 00:04:55,475 --> 00:04:57,644 - Because I mean-- - It's okay. 127 00:04:57,644 --> 00:05:00,079 - Kendra, I want so much-- 128 00:05:00,079 --> 00:05:03,049 I wanted so much more for you. - Yeah. 129 00:05:03,049 --> 00:05:06,186 I mean, how can I look at him and think 130 00:05:06,186 --> 00:05:09,322 that this man loves my daughter. 131 00:05:09,322 --> 00:05:13,092 That hurts me to see you hurting-- 132 00:05:13,092 --> 00:05:14,160 - I'm sorry, Mama. 133 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,728 - And I know you you are hurting. 134 00:05:15,728 --> 00:05:16,930 - Yeah. 135 00:05:16,930 --> 00:05:19,432 - I know you are, and that hurts me. 136 00:05:19,432 --> 00:05:22,869 ♪ ♪ 137 00:05:22,869 --> 00:05:24,971 - Ha-ha. - Whoo! 138 00:05:24,971 --> 00:05:26,539 - We're in Las Vegas now, baby. 139 00:05:26,539 --> 00:05:28,241 Do you feel lucky? 140 00:05:28,241 --> 00:05:31,744 - ♪ Las Vegas is Las Vegas, everything is tasteless ♪ 141 00:05:31,744 --> 00:05:34,047 ♪ ♪ 142 00:05:34,047 --> 00:05:36,816 - Girl, that pool party was a hot-ass mess. 143 00:05:36,816 --> 00:05:38,351 - It was so ghetto, 144 00:05:38,351 --> 00:05:41,221 and I can't believe I let Karlie punk us. 145 00:05:41,221 --> 00:05:42,922 - At our [bleep] house, bitch. 146 00:05:42,922 --> 00:05:44,357 - And it turned out like that. 147 00:05:44,357 --> 00:05:46,059 - And then the bitch tried to put me out. 148 00:05:46,059 --> 00:05:48,695 - When we see each other, we could be cordial, 149 00:05:48,695 --> 00:05:51,631 but it's not like a buddy best friend thing anymore, 150 00:05:51,631 --> 00:05:53,099 and I'm fine with that. 151 00:05:53,099 --> 00:05:55,935 She always nit picking and trying to start some shit, 152 00:05:55,935 --> 00:05:58,371 and I just always got to shut it down. 153 00:05:58,371 --> 00:05:59,906 - Hey, girl. 154 00:05:59,906 --> 00:06:02,141 - You're back. - You back, bitch. 155 00:06:02,141 --> 00:06:04,410 - Girl. - You left our ass. 156 00:06:04,410 --> 00:06:07,647 - You left us. - At that crazy-ass pool party. 157 00:06:07,647 --> 00:06:08,982 - Yeah. 158 00:06:08,982 --> 00:06:10,717 Yesterday, I took some time out 159 00:06:10,717 --> 00:06:12,018 to just cut out all the noise. 160 00:06:12,018 --> 00:06:13,419 Let's face it. 161 00:06:13,419 --> 00:06:16,556 I've been going through a lot, so I just decided, 162 00:06:16,556 --> 00:06:19,525 let me book a suite and treat myself nice for once. 163 00:06:19,525 --> 00:06:21,394 - The pool party from hell, bitch. 164 00:06:21,394 --> 00:06:22,729 - What happened? Fill me in. 165 00:06:22,729 --> 00:06:24,264 - I just believe Karlie just be doing 166 00:06:24,264 --> 00:06:25,632 [bleep] to [bleep] with me. 167 00:06:25,632 --> 00:06:27,533 You got this bitch Shekinah here. 168 00:06:27,533 --> 00:06:30,370 You got this bitch Spice here. And then Meda was here. 169 00:06:30,370 --> 00:06:32,939 So you telling me you got all these bitches here to [bleep], 170 00:06:32,939 --> 00:06:34,774 and you want to [bleep] me, ho? 171 00:06:34,774 --> 00:06:36,009 - What the hell? 172 00:06:36,009 --> 00:06:37,944 All I did was go for like a day. 173 00:06:37,944 --> 00:06:40,313 - A day late and a dollar short. 174 00:06:40,313 --> 00:06:42,715 Did anybody tell you anything about Shekinah's, 175 00:06:42,715 --> 00:06:43,750 like, Crying Tour? 176 00:06:43,750 --> 00:06:44,951 - No. 177 00:06:44,951 --> 00:06:48,554 - Safaree went and brung his bitch. 178 00:06:48,554 --> 00:06:50,723 - Which one? - Little mini you. 179 00:06:50,723 --> 00:06:52,625 - Mini me? 180 00:06:52,625 --> 00:06:55,862 Is that the one that he sent the roses to when we was-- 181 00:06:55,862 --> 00:06:59,065 - Yes, that one, that same girl. 182 00:06:59,065 --> 00:07:00,566 - It's crazy because I'm on a reality show, 183 00:07:00,566 --> 00:07:02,902 and it's like, this is some reality show bull[bleep]. 184 00:07:02,902 --> 00:07:05,371 But the [bleep] that this man has put me through, 185 00:07:05,371 --> 00:07:07,640 I can't make that [bleep] up. 186 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,742 - You know, I've been wanting to fight this man... 187 00:07:09,742 --> 00:07:12,078 - Well, you know-- - Since I was pregnant. 188 00:07:12,078 --> 00:07:14,247 - It's been a lot. - I know it has. 189 00:07:14,247 --> 00:07:15,748 - And there's a lot of stuff behind the scenes. 190 00:07:15,748 --> 00:07:17,283 He did a lot of ugly [bleep]. 191 00:07:17,283 --> 00:07:21,621 I had to sit there and watch that man cry to the judge 192 00:07:21,621 --> 00:07:24,324 about how much more money I make than him 193 00:07:24,324 --> 00:07:26,993 and why he shouldn't have to pay child support. 194 00:07:26,993 --> 00:07:29,195 - That's crazy. - That's [bleep] up. 195 00:07:29,195 --> 00:07:31,497 - Then he wants 50% custody 196 00:07:31,497 --> 00:07:33,900 so that this way, I could pay him child support. 197 00:07:33,900 --> 00:07:36,069 No matter how much money I do make, 198 00:07:36,069 --> 00:07:39,372 I did not make these kids by myself. 199 00:07:39,372 --> 00:07:41,507 From the time I filed for divorce, 200 00:07:41,507 --> 00:07:43,676 he has been doing [bleep] out of spite... 201 00:07:43,676 --> 00:07:45,978 - To get that [bleep]. - Just to hurt me. 202 00:07:45,978 --> 00:07:47,513 You know what I'm saying? - That's what it look like. 203 00:07:47,513 --> 00:07:50,683 - I don't know how much more I got to deal with 204 00:07:50,683 --> 00:07:51,884 when it comes to him. 205 00:07:51,884 --> 00:07:53,386 Safaree just picked up, 206 00:07:53,386 --> 00:07:56,089 started a whole new life 207 00:07:56,089 --> 00:07:58,391 because you claimed it was too much for you, 208 00:07:58,391 --> 00:08:00,626 left me with two kids, 209 00:08:00,626 --> 00:08:05,765 and here I am in court fighting for not only for you 210 00:08:05,765 --> 00:08:08,735 to step up financially to help me with these kids, 211 00:08:08,735 --> 00:08:11,237 but I had to fight so that my kids 212 00:08:11,237 --> 00:08:13,606 actually have a proper upbringing. 213 00:08:13,606 --> 00:08:17,810 - Well, this trip has been draining for all of us. 214 00:08:17,810 --> 00:08:18,945 Like, I'm done. 215 00:08:18,945 --> 00:08:20,146 I'm dealing with your [bleep], 216 00:08:20,146 --> 00:08:22,315 everybody's [bleep], my [bleep]. 217 00:08:22,315 --> 00:08:24,283 - Let's just get ready for Spice's event. 218 00:08:24,283 --> 00:08:25,785 - Let's just get ready for this party, girl. 219 00:08:25,785 --> 00:08:27,687 - Promise it's only positivity. - Oh, it's a promise. 220 00:08:27,687 --> 00:08:32,358 - It's all mother boss moves, money, greatness. 221 00:08:32,358 --> 00:08:34,827 And just know that God don't play about us. 222 00:08:34,827 --> 00:08:35,962 - Yeah. - Absolutely not. 223 00:08:35,962 --> 00:08:37,430 [soft music] 224 00:08:37,430 --> 00:08:40,600 - ♪ Woke up feeling low, then remembered ♪ 225 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,835 ♪ This could be a day to remember ♪ 226 00:08:42,835 --> 00:08:45,438 ♪ Swipe left till I find something better ♪ 227 00:08:45,438 --> 00:08:48,574 ♪ Till it happens ♪ 228 00:08:48,574 --> 00:08:51,144 - Baby, where's the excitement at? 229 00:08:51,144 --> 00:08:52,979 It's Grammy day. Today is your day. 230 00:08:52,979 --> 00:08:55,014 ♪ ♪ 231 00:08:55,014 --> 00:08:56,849 - [sighs] I just want it to be over. 232 00:08:56,849 --> 00:08:59,285 This is my first time being Grammy nominated, 233 00:08:59,285 --> 00:09:00,887 so I feel nervous. 234 00:09:00,887 --> 00:09:02,588 I told my friends, I said, "Come over to my suite 235 00:09:02,588 --> 00:09:04,524 and get ready with me," because I was so nervous. 236 00:09:04,524 --> 00:09:08,027 So I have Meda here, Karlie, always so supportive. 237 00:09:08,027 --> 00:09:10,196 I mean, what more could I want? 238 00:09:10,196 --> 00:09:12,598 The only thing that's missing is my children and my mom, 239 00:09:12,598 --> 00:09:14,834 but they're in Jamaica about to be watching me 240 00:09:14,834 --> 00:09:17,837 on the big screen, so that feel good. 241 00:09:17,837 --> 00:09:20,540 One way or another, I'm definitely gonna cry today. 242 00:09:20,540 --> 00:09:22,475 [laughs] That's for sure. 243 00:09:22,475 --> 00:09:23,743 - But, again, like I keep telling you, 244 00:09:23,743 --> 00:09:25,378 baby, in my heart, you already won. 245 00:09:25,378 --> 00:09:26,879 - Thank you, baby. 246 00:09:26,879 --> 00:09:28,681 I'm still just humbled to even be in the category 247 00:09:28,681 --> 00:09:32,585 of Reggae Album of the Year with people like Sean Paul, 248 00:09:32,585 --> 00:09:34,520 Gramps Morgan, Etana. 249 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,489 These are, like, legends in the business. 250 00:09:36,489 --> 00:09:39,025 It's a big thing. It's not a small thing. 251 00:09:39,025 --> 00:09:40,793 It's a very big thing for me. 252 00:09:40,793 --> 00:09:43,329 - That is gorgeous. - You like the color? 253 00:09:43,329 --> 00:09:44,730 - Yes. - Thanks. 254 00:09:44,730 --> 00:09:46,399 I want to go with my image that I struggle with. 255 00:09:46,399 --> 00:09:47,834 - So which dress are you wearing, the white one? 256 00:09:47,834 --> 00:09:49,101 - First. 257 00:09:49,101 --> 00:09:50,269 - That's gonna look so pretty with that. 258 00:09:50,269 --> 00:09:51,537 - Then come up with the red roses. 259 00:09:51,537 --> 00:09:52,872 - Over the white dress. - Yeah. 260 00:09:52,872 --> 00:09:54,507 Because I told you what the roses represents. 261 00:09:54,507 --> 00:09:56,709 It's like, I'm in a garden because I'm the seed, 262 00:09:56,709 --> 00:09:58,244 and they covered me up, but they didn't know 263 00:09:58,244 --> 00:09:59,612 I was gonna grow. 264 00:09:59,612 --> 00:10:03,382 - I am Spice's biggest fan, and I'm so happy 265 00:10:03,382 --> 00:10:06,486 that she asked me to be there by her side 266 00:10:06,486 --> 00:10:08,354 for this big, big, big moment. 267 00:10:08,354 --> 00:10:11,157 It just makes me so inspired. 268 00:10:11,157 --> 00:10:12,892 Dreams do come true. 269 00:10:12,892 --> 00:10:15,194 I'm so happy to be going to the Grammys 270 00:10:15,194 --> 00:10:16,629 just to support you and just-- 271 00:10:16,629 --> 00:10:19,298 even though this weekend was so [bleep] crazy. 272 00:10:19,298 --> 00:10:20,800 - Really crazy. - Crazy. 273 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,969 - Even though you've been so crazy. 274 00:10:22,969 --> 00:10:24,737 - I know I've been so crazy. 275 00:10:24,737 --> 00:10:27,740 - You went through a lot of emotions before we got here. 276 00:10:27,740 --> 00:10:29,242 - Yes. 277 00:10:29,242 --> 00:10:31,177 - You took the time out to actually do the video shoot 278 00:10:31,177 --> 00:10:32,945 on top of everything you had going on, 279 00:10:32,945 --> 00:10:33,913 so I appreciate that. 280 00:10:33,913 --> 00:10:35,181 - Thank you. 281 00:10:35,181 --> 00:10:36,315 - I just want to see you get to the top, 282 00:10:36,315 --> 00:10:37,550 top, top, top, top, top, top. 283 00:10:37,550 --> 00:10:40,019 [together] Top, top, top, top, top. 284 00:10:40,019 --> 00:10:41,354 [upbeat music] 285 00:10:41,354 --> 00:10:45,157 - ♪ Be ready, be ready ♪ 286 00:10:45,157 --> 00:10:46,759 ♪ Ready ♪ 287 00:10:46,759 --> 00:10:49,962 ♪ You're ready, you're ready ♪ 288 00:10:49,962 --> 00:10:51,330 - Yeah, baby. 289 00:10:51,330 --> 00:10:53,833 Just to have that title in front of my name, 290 00:10:53,833 --> 00:10:55,468 Grammy nominated, 291 00:10:55,468 --> 00:10:57,270 that will forever be in Google. 292 00:10:57,270 --> 00:11:00,072 Let's talk about it, bitch. [laughs] 293 00:11:00,072 --> 00:11:02,842 - ♪ We ready ♪ 294 00:11:02,842 --> 00:11:05,811 - Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 295 00:11:05,811 --> 00:11:07,480 - I wasn't looking forward to today. 296 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:11,484 - I just want to know just why? 297 00:11:11,484 --> 00:11:13,386 [tense music] 298 00:11:13,386 --> 00:11:16,522 - [singing indistinctly] 299 00:11:16,522 --> 00:11:19,725 - And the Grammy goes to... 300 00:11:19,725 --> 00:11:21,561 - I did not--to do the best I could! 301 00:11:21,561 --> 00:11:23,129 - I'm your mother[bleep] child. 302 00:11:23,129 --> 00:11:25,197 I'm your child. - Act like that! 303 00:11:25,197 --> 00:11:26,966 ♪ ♪ 304 00:11:26,966 --> 00:11:29,368 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 305 00:11:31,687 --> 00:11:32,822 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 306 00:11:32,822 --> 00:11:35,791 [upbeat music] 307 00:11:35,791 --> 00:11:42,732 ♪ ♪ 308 00:11:43,833 --> 00:11:45,968 [doorbell rings] 309 00:11:46,669 --> 00:11:50,139 - Well, I think Jasiel should be here. 310 00:11:50,139 --> 00:11:51,941 Y'all can make yourself at home. 311 00:11:51,941 --> 00:11:54,076 Give me just a second. 312 00:11:54,076 --> 00:11:55,878 [tense music] 313 00:11:55,878 --> 00:11:59,515 Jasiel already ghosted me and my family one time today. 314 00:11:59,515 --> 00:12:02,218 He did not show up, so that's why we popped up on him. 315 00:12:02,218 --> 00:12:03,519 Jasiel? 316 00:12:03,519 --> 00:12:04,921 It's like, this is it, Jasiel. 317 00:12:04,921 --> 00:12:06,455 You can run, but you can't hide. 318 00:12:06,455 --> 00:12:09,025 They're here now. 319 00:12:09,025 --> 00:12:11,460 - What's up? - Bro. 320 00:12:11,460 --> 00:12:14,830 ♪ ♪ 321 00:12:14,830 --> 00:12:16,566 - Hello. 322 00:12:16,566 --> 00:12:17,633 I mean, let's be for real. 323 00:12:17,633 --> 00:12:19,001 You know what I'm saying? 324 00:12:19,001 --> 00:12:20,469 It does appear that I've been stalling 325 00:12:20,469 --> 00:12:22,004 because sometimes you just don't want 326 00:12:22,004 --> 00:12:23,005 to face the fire, man. 327 00:12:23,005 --> 00:12:25,441 But Kendra has just, boop! 328 00:12:25,441 --> 00:12:27,443 Popped up with her mother and brother on me 329 00:12:27,443 --> 00:12:28,978 like, hey, you gonna talk to them today. 330 00:12:28,978 --> 00:12:30,947 It's kind of backed me in the corner. 331 00:12:30,947 --> 00:12:32,481 How was y'all trip here? 332 00:12:32,481 --> 00:12:35,184 - It was good. - Yeah. 333 00:12:35,184 --> 00:12:37,253 - I wasn't looking forward to today, 334 00:12:37,253 --> 00:12:38,754 to be honest with you. 335 00:12:38,754 --> 00:12:40,056 I never even thought in a million years 336 00:12:40,056 --> 00:12:41,457 I would be in this situation, 337 00:12:41,457 --> 00:12:46,495 and I didn't know how to really face the music 338 00:12:46,495 --> 00:12:48,197 because I knew that everybody would be looking 339 00:12:48,197 --> 00:12:51,367 like y'all looking right now. 340 00:12:51,367 --> 00:12:53,903 You know, here we are. 341 00:12:53,903 --> 00:12:56,639 For me to even play with it like that, 342 00:12:56,639 --> 00:12:58,341 and I don't want to say play with it 343 00:12:58,341 --> 00:12:59,675 like I intentionally played-- 344 00:12:59,675 --> 00:13:01,477 - Yeah, you played with it. 345 00:13:01,477 --> 00:13:03,446 - This is not to my defense 346 00:13:03,446 --> 00:13:07,883 of the matter at hand. 347 00:13:07,883 --> 00:13:12,388 This child is new, but those transgressions, 348 00:13:12,388 --> 00:13:14,724 that was old. 349 00:13:14,724 --> 00:13:21,030 - I just want to know just, why? 350 00:13:21,030 --> 00:13:22,932 Why? 351 00:13:22,932 --> 00:13:25,101 - I was going through some things with Kendra, 352 00:13:25,101 --> 00:13:28,571 and we didn't want anybody to know there was trouble 353 00:13:28,571 --> 00:13:30,840 in paradise, but it still wouldn't 354 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:32,975 justify my actions in a sense. 355 00:13:32,975 --> 00:13:36,545 - Nothing will. And you all are married now. 356 00:13:36,545 --> 00:13:37,880 - Yes, ma'am. 357 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:43,152 - If you have an argument now, a big blowout, 358 00:13:43,152 --> 00:13:46,789 is that going to push you into the arms of another woman? 359 00:13:46,789 --> 00:13:48,924 Because it's going to be more. 360 00:13:48,924 --> 00:13:52,295 - And then I'm sure Joc knows that one offense, okay, 361 00:13:52,295 --> 00:13:54,797 I can stand with my sister, stand with you guys, 362 00:13:54,797 --> 00:13:57,700 and support you guys, but a repeat offender, 363 00:13:57,700 --> 00:13:59,502 like, I'm coming to get my sister. 364 00:13:59,502 --> 00:14:00,970 You know what I mean? - I know. 365 00:14:00,970 --> 00:14:04,607 - So in the end, she chose to forgive you. 366 00:14:04,607 --> 00:14:06,409 And you all are working on it, 367 00:14:06,409 --> 00:14:12,114 but I'm not happy with this whatsoever. 368 00:14:12,114 --> 00:14:13,382 Not at all. 369 00:14:13,382 --> 00:14:16,819 You know, I want to respect you. 370 00:14:16,819 --> 00:14:22,291 I do, but you hurt my daughter in this way, 371 00:14:22,291 --> 00:14:24,760 I can't respect you. 372 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:26,362 - I know. 373 00:14:26,362 --> 00:14:28,864 I'm in the hot seat, man, and she is letting me have it. 374 00:14:28,864 --> 00:14:30,333 You know, you have mishaps like this, 375 00:14:30,333 --> 00:14:32,468 man, it totally stains your character, man. 376 00:14:32,468 --> 00:14:35,037 And that's the challenge that I have ahead of me. 377 00:14:35,037 --> 00:14:38,074 We're here though. We're here now. 378 00:14:38,074 --> 00:14:41,010 We agreed to move forward, and we did say I do each other. 379 00:14:41,010 --> 00:14:46,382 I want to continue to grow, and build, and work on us. 380 00:14:46,382 --> 00:14:49,585 - Jasiel, words are cheap, 381 00:14:49,585 --> 00:14:55,358 but actions, actions speak volumes. 382 00:14:55,358 --> 00:14:56,325 ♪ ♪ 383 00:14:56,325 --> 00:14:57,660 - I know. 384 00:14:57,660 --> 00:15:00,496 - You showed her who you were. 385 00:15:00,496 --> 00:15:05,568 Now it's up to you to show who you can be. 386 00:15:05,568 --> 00:15:09,004 ♪ ♪ 387 00:15:09,004 --> 00:15:12,375 [upbeat music] 388 00:15:12,375 --> 00:15:17,146 - ♪ Limit, I ain't got no limit ♪ 389 00:15:17,146 --> 00:15:20,049 - [singing indistinctly] 390 00:15:23,953 --> 00:15:28,157 - ♪ No limit, I can't break my limit ♪ 391 00:15:28,157 --> 00:15:30,826 - People said this moment would never be possible, 392 00:15:30,826 --> 00:15:32,962 and I did it, I made it. 393 00:15:32,962 --> 00:15:35,297 - ♪ Test to the journey even when it gets blurry ♪ 394 00:15:35,297 --> 00:15:38,501 ♪ If I miss a hole in one, still get the thirty ♪ 395 00:15:38,501 --> 00:15:40,269 - I came from humble beginnings, 396 00:15:40,269 --> 00:15:43,105 and I keep repping my slogan, "From homeless to greatness," 397 00:15:43,105 --> 00:15:44,507 so it feels good. 398 00:15:44,507 --> 00:15:46,375 I know I'm a huge inspiration to a lot of women. 399 00:15:46,375 --> 00:15:48,944 - ♪ You can say we're full of ourselves ♪ 400 00:15:48,944 --> 00:15:51,680 ♪ But I don't know nobody else ♪ 401 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,083 ♪ With our wonder, ain't no wonder ♪ 402 00:15:54,083 --> 00:15:56,919 ♪ Why so many people like us ♪ 403 00:15:56,919 --> 00:15:58,587 - Everything now feels surreal. 404 00:15:58,587 --> 00:16:01,090 I mean, I'm walking on the carpet, the paparazzi, 405 00:16:01,090 --> 00:16:03,259 everyone is trying to get my attention. 406 00:16:03,259 --> 00:16:06,061 "Spice, Spice, Spice! Over here, Spice, Spice!" 407 00:16:06,061 --> 00:16:09,598 I'm living my dream, and, baby, you can't deny it. 408 00:16:09,598 --> 00:16:11,333 I came up in best dressed. 409 00:16:11,333 --> 00:16:15,137 - ♪ People like us ♪ 410 00:16:17,606 --> 00:16:20,209 - Los Lobos. 411 00:16:26,615 --> 00:16:29,285 [upbeat music] 412 00:16:29,285 --> 00:16:32,154 - ♪ I'm the lyrical queen of the underground ♪ 413 00:16:32,154 --> 00:16:34,557 ♪ Arrived in my stretch in my diamond studded crown ♪ 414 00:16:34,557 --> 00:16:37,326 ♪ My red velvet throne, gold scepter, and gown ♪ 415 00:16:37,326 --> 00:16:38,861 ♪ My feet don't make a sound because they ♪ 416 00:16:38,861 --> 00:16:40,796 ♪ Never touch the ground ♪ 417 00:16:40,796 --> 00:16:43,098 - Hey, Momma Dee. - Hey, baby. 418 00:16:43,098 --> 00:16:44,133 - How you doing? 419 00:16:44,133 --> 00:16:45,334 - Girl, you know I made-- 420 00:16:45,334 --> 00:16:48,070 - That is so cute here. Okay, Spice. 421 00:16:48,070 --> 00:16:51,874 You know I had to throw my girl Spice a watch party. 422 00:16:51,874 --> 00:16:55,611 Spice about to win this Grammy, y'all bitches! 423 00:16:55,611 --> 00:16:57,146 It's up, and it's stuck. Let's go. 424 00:16:57,146 --> 00:16:59,248 Hey, let's go, let's go, let's go, yeah. 425 00:16:59,248 --> 00:17:00,449 Hey, Momma Dee. 426 00:17:00,449 --> 00:17:01,584 - You know from the other night, 427 00:17:01,584 --> 00:17:03,319 I just want to congratulate you. 428 00:17:03,319 --> 00:17:05,154 - Thank you. - I needed that. 429 00:17:05,154 --> 00:17:06,322 - I appreciate it. 430 00:17:06,322 --> 00:17:08,257 I want to help everybody in the world. 431 00:17:08,257 --> 00:17:10,726 I got to get you, Bam, and Scrappy together. 432 00:17:10,726 --> 00:17:12,294 - I'm hurting, Shekinah. I'm hurting. 433 00:17:12,294 --> 00:17:13,462 That's my son. 434 00:17:13,462 --> 00:17:14,797 - I don't know why you hurting. 435 00:17:14,797 --> 00:17:15,931 Just learn how to forgive. 436 00:17:15,931 --> 00:17:18,467 - My son Scrappy did an insurrection 437 00:17:18,467 --> 00:17:20,202 on the [bleep] palace. 438 00:17:20,202 --> 00:17:23,272 He has never, never treated me like this. 439 00:17:23,272 --> 00:17:24,507 I only told the truth. 440 00:17:24,507 --> 00:17:26,408 You see these? 441 00:17:26,408 --> 00:17:28,444 They used to have gloves on them, 442 00:17:28,444 --> 00:17:30,279 but now they off. 443 00:17:30,279 --> 00:17:32,348 [dramatic music] 444 00:17:32,348 --> 00:17:33,482 - Hey, Mimi! 445 00:17:33,482 --> 00:17:35,017 She was there. What's up, Mimi? 446 00:17:35,017 --> 00:17:38,020 - I know, whoa! Look at my girl. 447 00:17:38,020 --> 00:17:40,523 - Hi, Momma Dee. - Oh, I love you. 448 00:17:40,523 --> 00:17:42,958 - Hey, Peter. 449 00:17:42,958 --> 00:17:45,995 - Hey, good to see you. 450 00:17:45,995 --> 00:17:49,632 - What kind of party is this? Why y'all not twerking? 451 00:17:49,632 --> 00:17:51,734 - We was waiting for you. 452 00:17:51,734 --> 00:17:53,502 - Hey! - Hey! 453 00:17:53,502 --> 00:17:54,670 - What's up? 454 00:17:54,670 --> 00:17:57,439 - Oh, God, I can't even do this. 455 00:17:57,439 --> 00:17:59,909 - I don't have no keys. 456 00:17:59,909 --> 00:18:01,477 - I'm not doing this. 457 00:18:01,477 --> 00:18:04,079 - I ain't trying to, like, bring no bad energy, 458 00:18:04,079 --> 00:18:07,149 but this is one too many times that Momma Dee 459 00:18:07,149 --> 00:18:09,919 got out of character and made me get out of character. 460 00:18:09,919 --> 00:18:11,287 You know what I'm saying? And embarrass me. 461 00:18:11,287 --> 00:18:14,590 And we actually stopped talking because my Momma 462 00:18:14,590 --> 00:18:17,059 blocked me on her phone. 463 00:18:17,059 --> 00:18:20,029 - From the front, I'm your sister. 464 00:18:20,029 --> 00:18:21,430 - Right. 465 00:18:21,430 --> 00:18:23,966 - Do something that I didn't do before I got married. 466 00:18:23,966 --> 00:18:28,671 Get some premarital counseling. 467 00:18:28,671 --> 00:18:30,139 - You got the premarital counseling. 468 00:18:30,139 --> 00:18:32,007 - We didn't do--I was telling him, I didn't do that. 469 00:18:32,007 --> 00:18:34,710 You guys have weird issues, but counseling helps. 470 00:18:34,710 --> 00:18:37,780 - At the end of the day, I'm annoyed, I'm hurt, 471 00:18:37,780 --> 00:18:39,748 but it takes two to make it get better. 472 00:18:39,748 --> 00:18:41,951 Can I talk to you though? 473 00:18:41,951 --> 00:18:43,953 So I decided to pull him aside because it's 474 00:18:43,953 --> 00:18:47,790 about our relationship as mother and son. 475 00:18:47,790 --> 00:18:49,291 I wanted to talk to you 476 00:18:49,291 --> 00:18:53,829 because I feel like you're my son. 477 00:18:53,829 --> 00:18:58,200 I think you was very mistreating of me. 478 00:18:58,200 --> 00:18:59,768 - Oh, my mama hurt me every day. 479 00:18:59,768 --> 00:19:00,970 - I don't. - You know what I'm saying? 480 00:19:00,970 --> 00:19:03,439 When you speak lies, 481 00:19:03,439 --> 00:19:05,774 or you speak stuff that's not coming from my mouth-- 482 00:19:05,774 --> 00:19:09,044 - You do things, and you don't apologize. 483 00:19:09,044 --> 00:19:10,746 Because you cussed me out in my face-- 484 00:19:10,746 --> 00:19:12,348 - I never did you like you did me and my sister 485 00:19:12,348 --> 00:19:13,616 when we was kids. 486 00:19:13,616 --> 00:19:15,084 Hey, yeah, yeah, I cussed my mom out, man. 487 00:19:15,084 --> 00:19:16,385 You know what I'm talking about? 488 00:19:16,385 --> 00:19:17,686 Man, you deserve it. You know what I'm saying? 489 00:19:17,686 --> 00:19:19,154 I feel like Momma Dee deserve it. 490 00:19:19,154 --> 00:19:20,823 I mean, she always messing with me and Bam, 491 00:19:20,823 --> 00:19:22,858 but at some point, enough is enough. 492 00:19:22,858 --> 00:19:24,326 You know, this is not normal. 493 00:19:24,326 --> 00:19:26,095 Like, regular moms don't do this [bleep]. 494 00:19:26,095 --> 00:19:28,330 And after this, there's gonna be a real big boundary 495 00:19:28,330 --> 00:19:30,332 because I came from a broken home, 496 00:19:30,332 --> 00:19:32,334 and I'm trying to break the generational curse. 497 00:19:32,334 --> 00:19:33,602 You know what I'm saying? 498 00:19:33,602 --> 00:19:34,603 I'm trying to have something new happen, 499 00:19:34,603 --> 00:19:35,971 something real happen. 500 00:19:35,971 --> 00:19:37,439 Who's always been the gratefulest kid 501 00:19:37,439 --> 00:19:38,641 and told you I appreciate you? 502 00:19:38,641 --> 00:19:39,775 - You were grateful until a year ago. 503 00:19:39,775 --> 00:19:41,276 - Exactly--no. 504 00:19:41,276 --> 00:19:42,778 I just don't take disrespect from my mama because she-- 505 00:19:42,778 --> 00:19:44,713 - I don't disrespect. - You always disrespect. 506 00:19:44,713 --> 00:19:46,148 - Am I perfect--are you kidding? 507 00:19:46,148 --> 00:19:48,117 - Listen, I grew up-- - I'm not perfect. 508 00:19:48,117 --> 00:19:50,886 - And they total-- [groans] 509 00:19:50,886 --> 00:19:52,021 You feel what I'm saying? 510 00:19:52,021 --> 00:19:53,589 Like, I grew up, for real, hard. 511 00:19:53,589 --> 00:19:54,823 You know what I'm saying? 512 00:19:54,823 --> 00:19:57,326 Momma was a pimp, so me and my sister 513 00:19:57,326 --> 00:20:00,696 was raised around whores and crack pipes, 514 00:20:00,696 --> 00:20:03,132 and this is what you're seeing, this is what you finding. 515 00:20:03,132 --> 00:20:04,867 There's gunshots going on. 516 00:20:04,867 --> 00:20:06,268 I thought it was normal. 517 00:20:06,268 --> 00:20:07,936 You see, I'm not going to ever try 518 00:20:07,936 --> 00:20:11,607 to manipulate no situations that [bleep] my kids up. 519 00:20:11,607 --> 00:20:13,175 - I don't. - You do. 520 00:20:13,175 --> 00:20:14,576 - No, I don't. I tell your truth-- 521 00:20:14,576 --> 00:20:15,944 - But you're not. 522 00:20:15,944 --> 00:20:17,146 It's not on you to tell my truth. 523 00:20:17,146 --> 00:20:18,380 You tell your own damn truth. 524 00:20:18,380 --> 00:20:20,082 You don't even know-- - I don't care. 525 00:20:20,082 --> 00:20:21,784 Don't you ever talk to me like that. 526 00:20:21,784 --> 00:20:22,985 - You don't even know all my truths. 527 00:20:22,985 --> 00:20:24,153 - But you don't talk to me like that. 528 00:20:24,153 --> 00:20:25,387 - I talk with respect. - No, you don't. 529 00:20:25,387 --> 00:20:26,455 - I talk with respect. 530 00:20:26,455 --> 00:20:28,757 Let me ask you something. - Mm-hmm. 531 00:20:28,757 --> 00:20:30,125 I'm gonna sit right here. 532 00:20:30,125 --> 00:20:32,394 - I'm talking with someone the way I'm being a man. 533 00:20:32,394 --> 00:20:34,496 She's not respecting me as a man because she's tell me-- 534 00:20:34,496 --> 00:20:35,864 - Yes, I am. 535 00:20:35,864 --> 00:20:37,199 - You can't talk like-- you can't say that. 536 00:20:37,199 --> 00:20:38,534 - You can't. - No. 537 00:20:38,534 --> 00:20:39,968 If you don't give respect, you don't get it. 538 00:20:39,968 --> 00:20:41,537 I don't care who you are. - I give you respect. 539 00:20:41,537 --> 00:20:43,439 - All the stuff she tells me, she said, [bleep] you, man. 540 00:20:43,439 --> 00:20:45,708 She done told me, [bleep] you. That's disrespectful. 541 00:20:45,708 --> 00:20:47,042 I never told my mama, [bleep] you. 542 00:20:47,042 --> 00:20:48,644 I hang up on you. - Yeah, and I hang up on you. 543 00:20:48,644 --> 00:20:49,778 - But you know your mama crazy. 544 00:20:49,778 --> 00:20:51,280 - No, no, no, but--okay. 545 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,482 - Momma Dee, you know you crazy. 546 00:20:53,482 --> 00:20:54,750 But I love you. 547 00:20:54,750 --> 00:20:55,951 - Sit down now. 548 00:20:55,951 --> 00:20:57,319 - You talk about hiding-- 549 00:20:57,319 --> 00:20:59,588 - Hiding--no, you bring all my skeletons out. 550 00:20:59,588 --> 00:21:01,390 You can bring all of them out 'cause I don't lie. 551 00:21:01,390 --> 00:21:02,725 I don't pretend. 552 00:21:02,725 --> 00:21:04,493 I don't live beyond my means. - Yes, you do. 553 00:21:04,493 --> 00:21:06,195 - None of that, [bleep], no! 554 00:21:06,195 --> 00:21:08,030 - First of all, [bleep]-- - Hey, cuh! 555 00:21:08,030 --> 00:21:09,431 Don't talk to your mother-- - [bleep] 556 00:21:09,431 --> 00:21:10,799 - Okay, see that's what I'm talking about. 557 00:21:10,799 --> 00:21:12,101 You disrespectful. 558 00:21:12,101 --> 00:21:13,736 - You a weird woman. - You disrespectful. 559 00:21:13,736 --> 00:21:15,003 - You a weird woman. You a weird mama. 560 00:21:15,003 --> 00:21:17,306 - You're disrespectful, and you're weird. 561 00:21:17,306 --> 00:21:19,441 - I know I'm weird. I know I'm weird. 562 00:21:19,441 --> 00:21:21,343 - But you just disrespected me. - I got it from you. 563 00:21:21,343 --> 00:21:23,846 - Hey, what happened, Scrappy? - What happened with what? 564 00:21:23,846 --> 00:21:25,013 - Really, she really hurt though. 565 00:21:25,013 --> 00:21:26,181 She really-- - I'm hurting. 566 00:21:26,181 --> 00:21:29,051 - Me and my sister hurt too. - Wow. 567 00:21:29,051 --> 00:21:30,319 - I don't do that [bleep] to you. 568 00:21:30,319 --> 00:21:31,653 I don't tell your mother[bleep] business. 569 00:21:31,653 --> 00:21:33,622 I don't go out in the street and tell people 570 00:21:33,622 --> 00:21:34,923 who you really are. 571 00:21:34,923 --> 00:21:36,692 - Momma Dee, you hear how he feel though? 572 00:21:36,692 --> 00:21:38,127 He should be able to talk to you. 573 00:21:38,127 --> 00:21:39,828 You shouldn't be able to tell nobody what he's saying. 574 00:21:39,828 --> 00:21:42,064 - Yo, yo, hey, man. - Oh, [bleep]. 575 00:21:42,064 --> 00:21:43,766 Momma Dee, your son hurting. 576 00:21:43,766 --> 00:21:45,167 - Cuh! 577 00:21:45,167 --> 00:21:46,301 - Momma Dee, go on your child, he hurt. 578 00:21:46,301 --> 00:21:48,103 - I'm hurt. - You hurt? 579 00:21:48,103 --> 00:21:49,605 Hold on, you hurt? 580 00:21:49,605 --> 00:21:51,140 Go blame that on your mama. 581 00:21:51,140 --> 00:21:52,608 Go blame that on your daddy. 582 00:21:52,608 --> 00:21:54,143 Go blame it on your mama and your daddy. 583 00:21:54,143 --> 00:21:55,477 I ain't done nothing to you. 584 00:21:55,477 --> 00:21:56,779 I'm-- 585 00:21:56,779 --> 00:21:58,480 - I did nothing to you but do the best I could. 586 00:21:58,480 --> 00:21:59,882 - I'm your mother[bleep] child, [bleep]. 587 00:21:59,882 --> 00:22:02,017 I'm your child. - Act like that! 588 00:22:02,017 --> 00:22:03,552 - [bleep] 'cause I never [indistinct]. 589 00:22:03,552 --> 00:22:06,021 - Sit and disrespect me! - Your son is hurt. 590 00:22:06,021 --> 00:22:07,289 - He needs accountability. - That's your son! 591 00:22:07,289 --> 00:22:09,825 - Hey, Bam, Bam, Bam, for real! - Bambi! 592 00:22:09,825 --> 00:22:11,560 - For real, I don't [bleep] [bleep]. 593 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,362 - I been living my whole life like this. 594 00:22:13,362 --> 00:22:14,897 - Look how your son is hurt. - But look how I'm feeling! 595 00:22:14,897 --> 00:22:16,331 - [bleep that [bleep]. - That's your son. 596 00:22:16,331 --> 00:22:18,467 - I don't have nobody. You understand this [bleep]? 597 00:22:18,467 --> 00:22:20,636 - Bro, bro, bro. 598 00:22:20,636 --> 00:22:21,937 [table clattering] Bro. 599 00:22:21,937 --> 00:22:23,939 - Damn, Momma Dee. 600 00:22:23,939 --> 00:22:27,743 [tense music] 601 00:22:27,743 --> 00:22:30,712 - Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 602 00:22:30,712 --> 00:22:32,748 - That boy hurt for real, and he tired of that [bleep]. 603 00:22:32,748 --> 00:22:35,083 - Guess what he said to me. 604 00:22:35,083 --> 00:22:36,318 - It don't matter what he said! 605 00:22:36,318 --> 00:22:38,887 What are you gonna take accountability for? 606 00:22:38,887 --> 00:22:43,091 - And the Grammy goes to... 607 00:22:43,091 --> 00:22:45,427 - Oh, my God. 608 00:22:45,427 --> 00:22:46,428 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 609 00:22:49,948 --> 00:22:51,450 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 610 00:22:51,450 --> 00:22:54,052 - I'm your child. - Act like that! 611 00:22:54,052 --> 00:22:56,088 - [bleep], 'cause I never [indistinct]. 612 00:22:56,088 --> 00:22:57,389 - Sit and disrespect me! 613 00:22:57,389 --> 00:22:59,291 - I'm just sitting there listening to her, 614 00:22:59,291 --> 00:23:01,627 and I hear she only worried about herself. 615 00:23:01,627 --> 00:23:02,761 [table clatters] - Bro. 616 00:23:02,761 --> 00:23:04,530 - Damn, Momma Dee. 617 00:23:04,530 --> 00:23:07,533 - I look at her differently, and I ain't got nothing else 618 00:23:07,533 --> 00:23:09,234 to say about that or her. 619 00:23:09,234 --> 00:23:11,170 I don't even want to talk about her no more. 620 00:23:11,170 --> 00:23:14,740 [tense music] 621 00:23:14,740 --> 00:23:17,042 - Momma Dee, that's [bleep] up, Momma Dee. 622 00:23:17,042 --> 00:23:18,343 - Y'all ain't finna come to me 623 00:23:18,343 --> 00:23:19,645 'cause y'all don't know what I know. 624 00:23:19,645 --> 00:23:21,079 - Ain't nobody coming for you. 625 00:23:21,079 --> 00:23:22,748 That boy hurt for real, and he's tired as [bleep]. 626 00:23:22,748 --> 00:23:24,516 - Your family's business, 627 00:23:24,516 --> 00:23:26,385 it should be your family's business. 628 00:23:26,385 --> 00:23:28,987 - But guess what he said to me. 629 00:23:28,987 --> 00:23:30,222 - It don't matter what he said! 630 00:23:30,222 --> 00:23:32,124 What are you gonna take accountability for? 631 00:23:32,124 --> 00:23:34,226 - Everybody in the group feels like it's my fault 632 00:23:34,226 --> 00:23:35,794 for telling Scrappy business. 633 00:23:35,794 --> 00:23:38,130 But when it comes down to my son, 634 00:23:38,130 --> 00:23:40,265 I say what the [bleep] I want. 635 00:23:40,265 --> 00:23:41,834 And if it's a lie, guess what? 636 00:23:41,834 --> 00:23:44,036 It came out Scrappy mouth. 637 00:23:44,036 --> 00:23:46,672 I'm just saying. I'm not being messy. 638 00:23:47,806 --> 00:23:49,708 - You need to talk to your son. 639 00:23:49,708 --> 00:23:52,611 Like, do you see how he's acting and doing all that? 640 00:23:52,611 --> 00:23:53,745 - Yes. 641 00:23:53,745 --> 00:23:55,581 - He got some [bleep] trauma. 642 00:23:55,581 --> 00:23:57,783 I have always tried to be respectful of his mom, 643 00:23:57,783 --> 00:23:59,718 no matter what she has done. 644 00:23:59,718 --> 00:24:02,855 At this point, I mean, I think we're just 645 00:24:02,855 --> 00:24:04,923 beyond all of her BS. 646 00:24:04,923 --> 00:24:06,124 - I'm 58. 647 00:24:06,124 --> 00:24:07,526 I talk to who I want to talk to. 648 00:24:07,526 --> 00:24:09,394 I pay my own bills. - Yeah, because you selfish. 649 00:24:09,394 --> 00:24:11,930 You not trying to be a mama. You trying to be a socialite. 650 00:24:11,930 --> 00:24:14,166 ♪ ♪ 651 00:24:14,166 --> 00:24:17,169 [upbeat music] 652 00:24:17,169 --> 00:24:24,276 ♪ ♪ 653 00:24:27,312 --> 00:24:31,884 - For Best Reggae Album, the nominees are 654 00:24:31,884 --> 00:24:36,455 Etana... 655 00:24:36,455 --> 00:24:40,459 Gramps Morgan, Sean Paul... 656 00:24:40,459 --> 00:24:42,427 - My kids are on the phone, 657 00:24:42,427 --> 00:24:43,862 and I'm just taking deep breaths 658 00:24:43,862 --> 00:24:48,500 like this moment could really change my life. 659 00:24:48,500 --> 00:24:51,937 - SOJA, 660 00:24:51,937 --> 00:24:53,539 Spice. 661 00:24:53,539 --> 00:24:56,174 - When you see my album come up on the screen, 662 00:24:56,174 --> 00:24:59,044 come like some drummer beat in the belly. 663 00:24:59,044 --> 00:25:01,046 It's like, oh, my God. 664 00:25:01,046 --> 00:25:04,116 - And the Grammy goes to... 665 00:25:04,116 --> 00:25:06,718 [suspenseful music] 666 00:25:06,718 --> 00:25:08,120 SOJA. 667 00:25:08,120 --> 00:25:11,557 - Oh, my God. 668 00:25:11,557 --> 00:25:12,691 SOJA? 669 00:25:12,691 --> 00:25:16,662 When they said SOJA, I was like, wow. 670 00:25:16,662 --> 00:25:20,332 To be honest, I really thought that I would have lost 671 00:25:20,332 --> 00:25:22,501 to someone from Jamaica. 672 00:25:22,501 --> 00:25:26,471 I was kind of taken aback a little bit. 673 00:25:26,471 --> 00:25:28,807 - You know what, you was still nominated, 674 00:25:28,807 --> 00:25:31,510 and that's a big frickin' deal. 675 00:25:31,510 --> 00:25:35,714 But, on social media, them fans was going crazy. 676 00:25:35,714 --> 00:25:39,551 [somber music] 677 00:25:39,551 --> 00:25:42,354 Hello. Why Spice didn't win? 678 00:25:42,354 --> 00:25:44,122 And who are these people that won? 679 00:25:44,122 --> 00:25:45,724 No one knew. 680 00:25:45,724 --> 00:25:48,794 It's just--I just wish my girl would have won. 681 00:25:48,794 --> 00:25:53,365 ♪ ♪ 682 00:25:53,365 --> 00:25:55,534 - Oh, my God, I'm so tired. 683 00:25:55,534 --> 00:25:57,002 - Well, we're gonna win it next year. 684 00:25:57,002 --> 00:25:58,370 - Yes. - So... 685 00:25:58,370 --> 00:25:59,705 - Two, two. - Good. 686 00:25:59,705 --> 00:26:02,240 - Come back again, right? - Now everybody knows. 687 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,676 - Now let's get dressed, so we can roll. 688 00:26:04,676 --> 00:26:10,015 ♪ ♪ 689 00:26:10,015 --> 00:26:12,017 - [gasps] 690 00:26:12,017 --> 00:26:15,687 ♪ ♪ 691 00:26:15,687 --> 00:26:18,523 - Listen, tonight could not be more of a dud. 692 00:26:18,523 --> 00:26:21,093 Spice did not win a Grammy, 693 00:26:21,093 --> 00:26:23,462 to some people from Vermont. 694 00:26:23,462 --> 00:26:25,764 They ain't even from Jamaica. 695 00:26:25,764 --> 00:26:29,768 - This is one weird-ass situation. 696 00:26:29,768 --> 00:26:33,438 ♪ ♪ 697 00:26:36,341 --> 00:26:38,877 - Oh, it's a theater. 698 00:26:38,877 --> 00:26:40,779 - You said what? - Okay. 699 00:26:40,779 --> 00:26:44,483 [cheering] 700 00:26:44,483 --> 00:26:46,652 - Hey, walking Grammy! 701 00:26:46,652 --> 00:26:49,655 - Hi, baby, mwah. 702 00:26:49,655 --> 00:26:50,789 Oh, my-- 703 00:26:50,789 --> 00:26:53,291 - [indistinct] 704 00:26:53,291 --> 00:26:55,127 - Thank you. 705 00:26:55,127 --> 00:26:56,528 - You looked so beautiful. 706 00:26:56,528 --> 00:26:58,530 - Aww. - Everything was perfect. 707 00:26:58,530 --> 00:27:00,465 - I won the Grammy. They just didn't give it to me. 708 00:27:00,465 --> 00:27:03,669 - That part! [laughter] 709 00:27:03,669 --> 00:27:07,606 - The pum pum! [indistinct] 710 00:27:07,606 --> 00:27:09,708 There's a big [bleep] thing on the internet right now. 711 00:27:09,708 --> 00:27:12,110 People cussing. - Oh, they're mad. 712 00:27:12,110 --> 00:27:13,812 - The shade room is everywhere. 713 00:27:13,812 --> 00:27:16,515 - I didn't even know white men made Jamaican music. 714 00:27:16,515 --> 00:27:19,351 - What the [bleep]? - Babe, you still the winner. 715 00:27:19,351 --> 00:27:21,153 - Yeah, you still won. - Yeah! 716 00:27:21,153 --> 00:27:22,921 - Pum, pum, pum! 717 00:27:22,921 --> 00:27:24,856 - There's been a lot going on this trip. 718 00:27:24,856 --> 00:27:29,728 Okay, but the main reason why we came was to celebrate you. 719 00:27:29,728 --> 00:27:31,563 So let's get some [bleep] champagne, 720 00:27:31,563 --> 00:27:33,398 and [bleep] all the bull[bleep]. 721 00:27:33,398 --> 00:27:35,734 Let's get it popping. 722 00:27:35,734 --> 00:27:40,505 [dramatic music] 723 00:27:40,505 --> 00:27:43,408 - Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 724 00:27:43,408 --> 00:27:45,510 - You never had to sleep with your mama 24/7 725 00:27:45,510 --> 00:27:46,945 because you couldn't go in your room. 726 00:27:46,945 --> 00:27:49,614 You never had to walk in on mama [bleep] doing dope. 727 00:27:49,614 --> 00:27:52,284 It's in my head, in my head. 728 00:27:52,284 --> 00:27:54,052 My whole life in my head. 729 00:27:54,052 --> 00:27:57,355 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 730 00:27:59,675 --> 00:28:00,810 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 731 00:28:00,810 --> 00:28:03,746 [laughter] 732 00:28:03,746 --> 00:28:06,449 - Come on, let's pop the champagne. 733 00:28:06,449 --> 00:28:09,585 - Yeah, we need you to do it. 734 00:28:09,585 --> 00:28:10,820 - Oh, God. 735 00:28:10,820 --> 00:28:12,622 It's giving [indistinct]. 736 00:28:12,622 --> 00:28:14,290 - Safaree, I'm so sick of you. 737 00:28:14,290 --> 00:28:16,692 [cheering] 738 00:28:16,692 --> 00:28:18,394 - I know everybody could see the tension in the room 739 00:28:18,394 --> 00:28:20,830 between me and Erica, but at the end of the day, 740 00:28:20,830 --> 00:28:23,399 this is not about anybody's problems going on. 741 00:28:23,399 --> 00:28:24,934 This is all about Spice. 742 00:28:24,934 --> 00:28:28,037 I'm not about to sit here and argue with anybody 743 00:28:28,037 --> 00:28:30,072 about anything that has nothing to do 744 00:28:30,072 --> 00:28:32,375 with Spice and this Grammy nomination right now. 745 00:28:32,375 --> 00:28:34,277 - To Spice. 746 00:28:34,277 --> 00:28:36,179 - Yes. - Spice. 747 00:28:36,179 --> 00:28:37,513 - To the queen. - Spice. 748 00:28:37,513 --> 00:28:39,448 - To the queen, baby. - Yes. 749 00:28:39,448 --> 00:28:41,150 - Yes. - To love, friendship. 750 00:28:41,150 --> 00:28:43,252 - To more success. - More success. 751 00:28:43,252 --> 00:28:45,154 A vote don't make us who we are. 752 00:28:45,154 --> 00:28:47,723 all: Yes! 753 00:28:47,723 --> 00:28:50,059 - I just had to cool off, right? 754 00:28:50,059 --> 00:28:52,461 Just get my mind right, man. 755 00:28:52,461 --> 00:28:55,364 But I really got to get this off my chest, man. 756 00:28:59,235 --> 00:29:01,204 I just want to say this. I just want to say this. 757 00:29:01,204 --> 00:29:03,039 You my mama. 758 00:29:03,039 --> 00:29:05,541 This is my wife. - Mm-hmm. 759 00:29:05,541 --> 00:29:07,610 I don't have nobody if y'all ain't with me. 760 00:29:07,610 --> 00:29:09,912 I don't have nobody. - Okay. 761 00:29:09,912 --> 00:29:11,714 - [bleep] all that talking [bleep], 762 00:29:11,714 --> 00:29:14,150 cuh, I need y'all to show me, cuh, for real. 763 00:29:14,150 --> 00:29:15,484 - Okay. 764 00:29:15,484 --> 00:29:19,355 [tense music] 765 00:29:19,355 --> 00:29:21,657 - You got to stop because you don't have nobody. 766 00:29:21,657 --> 00:29:24,227 That should make you support this even more 767 00:29:24,227 --> 00:29:27,029 because you know I want somebody. 768 00:29:27,029 --> 00:29:28,831 You know what I'm saying? 769 00:29:28,831 --> 00:29:31,067 Like, I'm in love with this, all this. 770 00:29:31,067 --> 00:29:32,835 You know what I'm saying? - No one's arguing that. 771 00:29:32,835 --> 00:29:35,738 - You know why I'm like I am with her? 772 00:29:35,738 --> 00:29:38,040 - Because of what you saw me go through. 773 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:39,408 - No. 774 00:29:39,408 --> 00:29:42,979 I saw your lifestyle. 775 00:29:42,979 --> 00:29:45,514 I grew up in a whorehouse. 776 00:29:45,514 --> 00:29:47,516 I grew up in a trap house. - Yeah. 777 00:29:47,516 --> 00:29:49,452 - So all I knew was that. You know what I'm saying? 778 00:29:49,452 --> 00:29:51,053 And I love you 'cause you held it down 779 00:29:51,053 --> 00:29:54,056 and you did what you had to do, but imagine you never-- 780 00:29:54,056 --> 00:29:55,558 - A child point of view. 781 00:29:55,558 --> 00:29:57,493 - You never had to sleep with your mama 24/7 782 00:29:57,493 --> 00:29:59,195 because you couldn't go in your room. 783 00:29:59,195 --> 00:30:00,730 - Okay. 784 00:30:00,730 --> 00:30:03,232 - You never had to walk in on mother[bleep] doing dope. 785 00:30:03,232 --> 00:30:04,600 - Yeah. 786 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,235 - You never had to walk in on mother[bleep]-- 787 00:30:06,235 --> 00:30:08,204 You now what I'm saying? 788 00:30:08,204 --> 00:30:11,374 The way I was raised, I had to deal with that [bleep], cuz. 789 00:30:11,374 --> 00:30:13,743 Everything that happened, I had to deal with that, 790 00:30:13,743 --> 00:30:15,745 and I'm still dealing with it because ain't nobody 791 00:30:15,745 --> 00:30:17,446 come and take me to give me no help. 792 00:30:17,446 --> 00:30:19,482 Ain't nobody got me no help. 793 00:30:19,482 --> 00:30:22,451 I learned about that when I got older. 794 00:30:22,451 --> 00:30:23,986 - So do you understand-- 795 00:30:23,986 --> 00:30:25,721 - This [bleep] real, cuh, like, this is what-- 796 00:30:25,721 --> 00:30:27,023 this in my head. 797 00:30:27,023 --> 00:30:28,291 In my head, my whole life. 798 00:30:28,291 --> 00:30:29,759 In my head. 799 00:30:29,759 --> 00:30:32,862 The [bleep] I go through, I can't even go to her, 800 00:30:32,862 --> 00:30:35,531 She hard. I can't go to you, you hard. 801 00:30:35,531 --> 00:30:38,401 So I'm on the concrete, my [bleep]. 802 00:30:38,401 --> 00:30:40,803 My granddaddy ain't that hard. - Wow, wow. 803 00:30:40,803 --> 00:30:42,571 - But guess what, and I ain't taking nothing 804 00:30:42,571 --> 00:30:44,440 from you because you put me there. 805 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,709 You put money in my [bleep]. 806 00:30:46,709 --> 00:30:49,478 You gave me [bleep] to help my rap career 807 00:30:49,478 --> 00:30:50,713 and all that [bleep]. 808 00:30:50,713 --> 00:30:53,316 Ain't nobody do that but you. 809 00:30:53,316 --> 00:30:55,551 So I love my mama. 810 00:30:55,551 --> 00:30:57,753 - It's okay. - And I love my wife. 811 00:30:57,753 --> 00:31:00,923 - I love you. - You feel me? 812 00:31:00,923 --> 00:31:02,558 - But this is my baby. 813 00:31:02,558 --> 00:31:04,393 I just can't change his diaper no more. 814 00:31:04,393 --> 00:31:07,396 [somber music] 815 00:31:07,396 --> 00:31:12,134 ♪ ♪ 816 00:31:12,134 --> 00:31:14,603 - Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 817 00:31:14,603 --> 00:31:17,106 - You need to step up and be a [bleep] daddy, [bleep]. 818 00:31:17,106 --> 00:31:19,208 - You need to be a nanny! 819 00:31:19,208 --> 00:31:22,278 - We created them out of love. 820 00:31:22,278 --> 00:31:25,581 You may not have a connection, but that's your son. 821 00:31:25,581 --> 00:31:28,084 [dramatic music] 822 00:31:28,084 --> 00:31:30,586 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 823 00:31:32,630 --> 00:31:33,931 - ♪ Make my way to the top, and there ain't no stoppin' ♪ 824 00:31:35,099 --> 00:31:36,501 - I love my mama. 825 00:31:36,501 --> 00:31:38,002 - That's my baby. 826 00:31:38,002 --> 00:31:39,871 I just can't change his diapers no more. 827 00:31:39,871 --> 00:31:41,539 I was the best mother I could be. 828 00:31:41,539 --> 00:31:44,108 I'm not a perfect person, nor am I a perfect mother. 829 00:31:44,108 --> 00:31:45,410 No one is. 830 00:31:45,410 --> 00:31:48,913 But I want to turn a new cheek myself 831 00:31:48,913 --> 00:31:51,983 and get this family back to where it needs to be. 832 00:31:51,983 --> 00:31:56,487 I'm willing and ready to forgive him and his wife 833 00:31:56,487 --> 00:31:58,723 because we're supposed to be family, 834 00:31:58,723 --> 00:32:00,658 and we should act like family. 835 00:32:00,658 --> 00:32:04,395 And we should pray together and stay together. 836 00:32:08,633 --> 00:32:10,067 - We all have our own upbringings. 837 00:32:10,067 --> 00:32:12,236 Like, there's just-- 838 00:32:12,236 --> 00:32:14,005 we all need this moment. 839 00:32:14,005 --> 00:32:14,972 - He meant that [bleep]. 840 00:32:14,972 --> 00:32:16,774 We never seen Scrap like this. 841 00:32:16,774 --> 00:32:19,610 - Everybody is coming together, loving on each other, 842 00:32:19,610 --> 00:32:21,279 overcoming their obstacles, 843 00:32:21,279 --> 00:32:24,515 and we have all been going through a love affair 844 00:32:24,515 --> 00:32:26,717 that we're not a part of. 845 00:32:26,717 --> 00:32:28,586 - She kind of wants a voice 846 00:32:28,586 --> 00:32:32,490 and sometimes, it's just at the wrong time. 847 00:32:32,490 --> 00:32:34,659 Girl, you really need to just be-- 848 00:32:34,659 --> 00:32:37,428 no, I wouldn't say a politician. 849 00:32:37,428 --> 00:32:39,297 Go get your own podcast. 850 00:32:39,297 --> 00:32:41,165 - Being put in awkward situations 851 00:32:41,165 --> 00:32:43,401 and feeling bad because certain people are 852 00:32:43,401 --> 00:32:44,836 not taking care their kids-- 853 00:32:44,836 --> 00:32:46,204 - Stop. - Or not holding it down. 854 00:32:46,204 --> 00:32:47,205 Now, wait a minute. 855 00:32:47,205 --> 00:32:49,173 Don't tell me to stop. 856 00:32:49,173 --> 00:32:51,209 In relationships-- - Boo. 857 00:32:51,209 --> 00:32:52,610 - Here come the Jamaican fool. 858 00:32:52,610 --> 00:32:54,445 Look, what I'm trying to say is this right here. 859 00:32:54,445 --> 00:32:55,813 - Boo! - No, ain't no boo. 860 00:32:55,813 --> 00:32:58,583 You need to step up and be [bleep].. 861 00:32:58,583 --> 00:33:00,251 You need to be a daddy. - Boo. 862 00:33:00,251 --> 00:33:01,652 You need to be a nanny. 863 00:33:01,652 --> 00:33:04,055 Once again, people not minding their business. 864 00:33:04,055 --> 00:33:05,690 You trying to act like you some damn, 865 00:33:05,690 --> 00:33:08,125 I don't know, Mama Theresa Chicano. 866 00:33:08,125 --> 00:33:09,560 Have a seat. 867 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:10,761 - Y'all cannot go back... 868 00:33:14,298 --> 00:33:15,433 - No, I'm not talking about you. 869 00:33:15,433 --> 00:33:16,834 I'm just saying in general. 870 00:33:16,834 --> 00:33:19,704 Whatever y'all doing, can it back [bleep] stop. 871 00:33:19,704 --> 00:33:22,006 Y'all got two little children, bruh. 872 00:33:22,006 --> 00:33:23,441 - It's children. 873 00:33:23,441 --> 00:33:29,180 - I play Safaree's videos for Maje in my [bleep] room. 874 00:33:29,180 --> 00:33:30,381 You don't think that [bleep]. 875 00:33:30,381 --> 00:33:31,516 I got to literally-- 876 00:33:31,516 --> 00:33:36,187 I feed this man into our kids. 877 00:33:36,187 --> 00:33:39,257 We created them out of love. 878 00:33:39,257 --> 00:33:41,092 How could I ever block you? 879 00:33:42,693 --> 00:33:45,029 Stop hurting me. - Please? 880 00:33:45,029 --> 00:33:46,497 - Especially because you know I really, 881 00:33:46,497 --> 00:33:48,132 really, really loved you. 882 00:33:50,601 --> 00:33:53,504 I'm taking care of our kids. 883 00:33:53,504 --> 00:33:55,106 Stop. 884 00:33:55,106 --> 00:33:56,140 This [bleep] hurts me. 885 00:33:56,140 --> 00:33:57,174 It drains me. 886 00:33:57,174 --> 00:33:58,409 I'm losing weight. 887 00:34:02,547 --> 00:34:04,549 But that little boy is so much like you, 888 00:34:04,549 --> 00:34:07,218 even though he looks like me. 889 00:34:07,218 --> 00:34:09,120 - He got his eyes, Erica. 890 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,756 - I'm always going to love you. We got kids together. 891 00:34:11,756 --> 00:34:13,858 But I really deserve a break. 892 00:34:13,858 --> 00:34:18,296 My sisters, you guys have held me down through all of this. 893 00:34:18,296 --> 00:34:20,698 For real. 894 00:34:20,698 --> 00:34:23,167 It is what it is. 895 00:34:23,167 --> 00:34:24,802 Maje misses you. 896 00:34:26,571 --> 00:34:32,009 Legend dances every time we play your songs. 897 00:34:32,009 --> 00:34:34,812 You may not have a connection, but that's your son. 898 00:34:36,614 --> 00:34:38,449 - At the end of the day, talking right now, 899 00:34:38,449 --> 00:34:39,850 it's just a waste of breath. 900 00:34:39,850 --> 00:34:42,353 Too much damage has been done. 901 00:34:42,353 --> 00:34:43,487 I don't look at her the same. 902 00:34:43,487 --> 00:34:45,056 She doesn't look at me the same, 903 00:34:45,056 --> 00:34:48,025 and we just got to find a way to just move on healthy. 904 00:34:48,025 --> 00:34:49,994 There's a couple of things now we're just waiting for when it 905 00:34:49,994 --> 00:34:51,762 comes to the child support and custody, 906 00:34:51,762 --> 00:34:55,232 but for the most part, we're done. 907 00:34:56,467 --> 00:34:58,536 - Can I go? 908 00:34:58,536 --> 00:35:00,504 Please? 909 00:35:00,504 --> 00:35:03,507 [dramatic music] 910 00:35:03,507 --> 00:35:10,648 ♪ ♪ 911 00:35:13,059 --> 00:35:14,694 - ♪ There ain't no stopping ♪ 912 00:35:14,694 --> 00:35:18,031 - ♪ I won't die, won't bury, won't sink ♪ 913 00:35:18,031 --> 00:35:21,535 ♪ 'Cause love is the spirit I drink ♪ 914 00:35:21,535 --> 00:35:23,570 - I came to America to chase my dreams, 915 00:35:23,570 --> 00:35:25,305 and it's all happening for me right now. 916 00:35:25,305 --> 00:35:26,873 Me can't see clearly. 917 00:35:26,873 --> 00:35:29,843 It doesn't matter for me if I won or lost the Grammy. 918 00:35:29,843 --> 00:35:31,845 It's a historical moment either way. 919 00:35:31,845 --> 00:35:33,980 At the end of the day, I'm at the top of my game, 920 00:35:33,980 --> 00:35:36,449 and I'm not coming down no time soon. 921 00:35:36,449 --> 00:35:40,387 - ♪ Take my hand, let it set you free ♪ 922 00:35:40,387 --> 00:35:41,621 - I just know I fumbled. 923 00:35:41,621 --> 00:35:43,089 I fumbled, and I'm thankful to God 924 00:35:43,089 --> 00:35:44,624 for His mercy and His grace 925 00:35:44,624 --> 00:35:46,893 that I was able to recover the ball and run it on 926 00:35:46,893 --> 00:35:47,928 into the end zone. 927 00:35:47,928 --> 00:35:49,663 But nonetheless, I got to continue 928 00:35:49,663 --> 00:35:50,997 to be strong for my mom 929 00:35:50,997 --> 00:35:54,234 and prove to Kendra that she didn't go wrong 930 00:35:54,234 --> 00:35:56,603 by marrying me. 931 00:35:56,603 --> 00:35:58,605 - I'm hopeful for the future, 932 00:35:58,605 --> 00:36:00,040 and I want everything to work out. 933 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,009 But if anything like infidelity ever arises, 934 00:36:03,009 --> 00:36:06,446 Lord forbid the man has another child, 935 00:36:06,446 --> 00:36:08,882 like I'm done and I'm gone. 936 00:36:08,882 --> 00:36:11,851 - ♪ 'Cause these dry, dry bones ♪ 937 00:36:11,851 --> 00:36:16,623 ♪ Gonna rise up, gonna rise up ♪ 938 00:36:16,623 --> 00:36:18,024 - Now I am a Gemini woman. 939 00:36:18,024 --> 00:36:20,594 I love a surprise, but I'm sick of Eric 940 00:36:20,594 --> 00:36:23,830 just doing little [bleep] to just make back up with me. 941 00:36:23,830 --> 00:36:25,599 I need it to be genuine. 942 00:36:25,599 --> 00:36:28,635 But don't get me wrong, I do know 943 00:36:28,635 --> 00:36:30,237 that Eric is the one for me. 944 00:36:30,237 --> 00:36:32,439 We just got to make it through these trials and tribulations. 945 00:36:32,439 --> 00:36:35,442 So it's like, either we're gonna meet halfway or no way. 946 00:36:35,442 --> 00:36:38,778 - ♪ Gonna rise up, gonna rise ♪ 947 00:36:38,778 --> 00:36:42,382 - This past year has been 948 00:36:42,382 --> 00:36:45,185 probably one of the worst years of my life, 949 00:36:45,185 --> 00:36:49,222 from my fiancée going to jail, losing my mom. 950 00:36:49,222 --> 00:36:52,892 So to be here right now as a artist, 951 00:36:52,892 --> 00:36:54,761 this is a full circle moment for me. 952 00:36:54,761 --> 00:36:56,363 I'm ready to make my mom proud. 953 00:36:56,363 --> 00:36:57,897 She's always with me, 954 00:36:57,897 --> 00:37:00,267 and this is what she wanted for me. 955 00:37:00,267 --> 00:37:02,369 - ♪ 'Cause these dry, dry bones ♪ 956 00:37:02,369 --> 00:37:06,139 ♪ Gonna rise up, gonna rise up ♪ 957 00:37:06,139 --> 00:37:08,708 - It's really a great thing to be able to sit here 958 00:37:08,708 --> 00:37:10,243 and see all of our family together. 959 00:37:10,243 --> 00:37:12,545 And I hope Kirk and my dad can continue 960 00:37:12,545 --> 00:37:13,947 to have a great relationship, 961 00:37:13,947 --> 00:37:15,815 but I'm going to tell y'all in Atlanta. 962 00:37:15,815 --> 00:37:18,051 Y'all ain't ready for Harold Buckner 963 00:37:18,051 --> 00:37:19,552 because that's a different kind of dude. 964 00:37:19,552 --> 00:37:21,888 [laughs] So be ready. 965 00:37:21,888 --> 00:37:24,257 When you see him in the streets, holler at him. 966 00:37:24,257 --> 00:37:27,394 - ♪ Them bones, them bones, them dry bones ♪ 967 00:37:27,394 --> 00:37:29,296 - The unthinkable happened in Vegas. 968 00:37:29,296 --> 00:37:31,531 Me, Scrappy, and the Bam hugged it out 969 00:37:31,531 --> 00:37:33,433 and agreed to work things out. 970 00:37:33,433 --> 00:37:36,036 So what I can do on my end 971 00:37:36,036 --> 00:37:38,605 is try to stand down, mind my business, 972 00:37:38,605 --> 00:37:40,006 and just stay far away. 973 00:37:40,006 --> 00:37:42,609 And that's a big emphasis on the word "try" 974 00:37:42,609 --> 00:37:44,811 because you think this 58-year-old queen 975 00:37:44,811 --> 00:37:46,846 could change overnight? [tsks] 976 00:37:46,846 --> 00:37:48,315 I don't think so. 977 00:37:52,652 --> 00:37:56,489 - I'm going to do my music, keep being a good husband, 978 00:37:56,489 --> 00:37:57,991 keep being a great dad, 979 00:37:57,991 --> 00:38:00,360 and try to stay being a great son 980 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:04,331 because my mom won't let me really do that, but I try. 981 00:38:04,331 --> 00:38:06,099 But as for me and Bam, we married. 982 00:38:06,099 --> 00:38:09,436 The way we're going, I think it could really go up, man. 983 00:38:09,436 --> 00:38:11,471 I'm praying that it go up. 984 00:38:11,471 --> 00:38:16,176 - ♪ Gonna rise up, gonna rise up, gonna rise up ♪ 985 00:38:16,176 --> 00:38:18,745 - As of today, the divorce is final. 986 00:38:18,745 --> 00:38:20,780 I don't know if Erica is gonna be happy 987 00:38:20,780 --> 00:38:22,182 with the final settlement, 988 00:38:22,182 --> 00:38:24,784 but it is what it is, and I'm ecstatic. 989 00:38:24,784 --> 00:38:26,553 Thank you, God Almighty. 990 00:38:26,553 --> 00:38:28,154 I couldn't be any happier. 991 00:38:28,154 --> 00:38:30,156 Now, I'm gonna do what I got to do, 992 00:38:30,156 --> 00:38:31,991 I'm going to make my money, 993 00:38:31,991 --> 00:38:34,160 and I'm gonna stay Black and die. 994 00:38:36,463 --> 00:38:38,531 - ♪ Hey! ♪ 995 00:38:38,531 --> 00:38:41,334 - Oh, my God, yes. 996 00:38:41,334 --> 00:38:44,771 Oh, my God. I'm officially divorced. 997 00:38:44,771 --> 00:38:46,106 Yes! 998 00:38:49,509 --> 00:38:51,244 Oh, my God. 999 00:38:52,879 --> 00:38:55,248 - Hug your brother. 1000 00:38:55,248 --> 00:38:56,783 - You was just talking about that. 1001 00:38:56,783 --> 00:39:00,553 - We was just talking about it. 1002 00:39:00,553 --> 00:39:03,823 I'm officially primary custodian of the kids? 1003 00:39:03,823 --> 00:39:06,526 What about the child support? 1004 00:39:06,526 --> 00:39:08,161 That's it? 1005 00:39:10,697 --> 00:39:12,198 Tony, that's crazy. 1006 00:39:14,033 --> 00:39:15,769 Why? 1007 00:39:15,769 --> 00:39:18,805 Are you [bleep] kidding me? 1008 00:39:18,805 --> 00:39:21,007 Now all of this financial burden 1009 00:39:21,007 --> 00:39:23,910 with my children is on me? 1010 00:39:23,910 --> 00:39:27,380 That's not fair. 1011 00:39:27,380 --> 00:39:30,917 When a man shows you who he is, you have to believe him. 1012 00:39:30,917 --> 00:39:32,919 When anybody shows you who they are, 1013 00:39:32,919 --> 00:39:34,320 you have to believe them. 1014 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,457 Like, he doesn't have to pay nothing of it? 1015 00:39:37,457 --> 00:39:39,125 Nothing? 1016 00:39:39,125 --> 00:39:45,064 That's the [bleep] up [bleep] that comes with being a woman 1017 00:39:45,064 --> 00:39:48,802 that is so ride or die about love. 1018 00:39:48,802 --> 00:39:51,137 Scrap, this is [bleep] up. 1019 00:39:53,339 --> 00:39:54,741 [crying] 1020 00:39:54,741 --> 00:39:57,977 Ladies and gentlemen, learn your partner 1021 00:39:57,977 --> 00:40:01,948 before you jump ahead and fall in love 1022 00:40:01,948 --> 00:40:04,317 with the words and all of that stuff 1023 00:40:04,317 --> 00:40:06,653 that make up this fairy tale. 1024 00:40:06,653 --> 00:40:08,988 Because when no one's looking, 1025 00:40:08,988 --> 00:40:12,158 that's when everything just goes left. 1026 00:40:12,158 --> 00:40:14,661 Financially, the kids are my responsibility. 1027 00:40:14,661 --> 00:40:16,696 I have primarily custody of them. 1028 00:40:16,696 --> 00:40:18,064 - Damn. 1029 00:40:18,064 --> 00:40:22,402 - But, I'm [bleep] strong, 1030 00:40:22,402 --> 00:40:23,970 and I'm here. 1031 00:40:23,970 --> 00:40:25,905 I'm officially divorced. 1032 00:40:25,905 --> 00:40:27,340 - Okay. 1033 00:40:27,340 --> 00:40:30,009 - But Safaree doesn't have to pay anything. 1034 00:40:30,009 --> 00:40:33,246 - Oh, my God. 1035 00:40:33,246 --> 00:40:35,548 - I will always believe in love. 1036 00:40:35,548 --> 00:40:37,383 Love is real, 1037 00:40:37,383 --> 00:40:40,353 but I'm going to take time to love on me 1038 00:40:40,353 --> 00:40:41,654 and pour on me. 1039 00:40:41,654 --> 00:40:45,191 And I want to learn this new woman that I am, 1040 00:40:45,191 --> 00:40:46,960 this woman that has learned 1041 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,763 to emotionally be in control. 1042 00:40:50,763 --> 00:40:52,699 Hi, baby girl. 1043 00:40:52,699 --> 00:40:58,371 This new woman I've become deserves time with me only, 1044 00:40:58,371 --> 00:41:01,875 and I'm going to be selfish with her for a while. 1045 00:41:01,875 --> 00:41:03,810 I love you. 1046 00:41:05,345 --> 00:41:06,513 I love you. 1047 00:41:19,793 --> 00:41:26,934 ♪ ♪ 1048 00:41:44,084 --> 00:41:46,720 - ♪ MTV ♪