- Previously, on part one of the reunion.
- That's the time to just shut up and have my back.
- I been having your mother[bleep] back.
I been had to go see a psychiatrist
about you and this mother[bleep].
- I thought I was deserving of a thank you.
- Don't I thank you every night?
- Oh. - Ooh.
- So this is the first time y'all have seen each other...
- Four months. - In four months.
- [crying]
I love you.
[crying]
- We can settle that once and for all.
- I don't want [bleep] from you.
- Here's the phone.
- And tonight, on the conclusion
Of the "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta Reunion."
Spice, would you ever consider doing another song with Karlie?
[dramatic music]
- What the [bleep] she say?
- I divorced your mother, not you.
- No, she divorced you, not me.
- I was in the hospital bed.
That man didn't care if I made it through that labor.
- Safaree, do you want to say anything at this point?
♪♪ ♪♪
- Is that your telephone number?
- Um--
- ♪♪ I made it to the top, ain't no stopping ♪♪
- All right, Meda, you met up with Joc and Kendra
with printed receipts. - Mm-hmm.
- Did you think that would settle things
once and for all? - Yeah.
You know, I thought a piece of paper
saying that he said, "come make love to me" was enough.
But you know, Jasiel is a rapper,
so he knows how to choose his words.
And he basically types something out,
claps his hand,
and she forgets everything that happens.
Basically, that's how it goes. - Girl, please.
You don't [bleep] know me. Don't speak on what I do.
You do not know me, OK?
- But I really don't owe her anything.
- I don't want [bleep] from you.
- But here's the phone.
- That's the phone. - And we can read.
- Meda, you bring the phone? - Yes, I bring the phone.
- It--it says, "I still love you."
This is July 7th.
Is that 20... - 19.
- Oh, wow.
- Goddamn, Joc. - At this point...
- OK.
- He's saying that whatever she's saying is not true.
- Joc, is this your-- - So explain this, Jasiel.
- Is this your number?
- [bleep].
- Is that your telephone number?
- Yeah.
- So how do you explain the "come make love to me"?
- There's a "come make love to me" there?
- "Where you at? Come make love to me."
- How do you explain that, Jasiel?
- Even with that text message,
there was no involvement.
- So you did send her those text messages?
- We can keep going to the Uber that was sent.
- It said, "hey"--
- Oh, there was a Uber sent? - Yeah, really.
- A Uber was sent? - A Uber?
- Listen-- - My heart is beating--
- Kendra... - No, it's OK.
- Let's clear up the timeline. September 2019.
Was that during the break or not during the break?
- It was, but--OK, it was
but you have told me that this didn't take place
and that you didn't send her messages,
so you lied to me. - It didn't--
it did not take place. - And all I've been
trying to say is that I wasn't lying.
That's all I've been saying, is that I'm not lying.
- But was we [bleep] around though?
- Joc, are you acknowledging that these texts are real?
- I said, these texts may be real,
but did we [bleep] around?
- He wants facts. So after these texts...
- I'm asking for details. - Did y'all hook up or not?
- We hooked up the day that he asked me
to come make love to him.
He sent an Uber for me, and I came to him.
- And when and where?
- That shows enough information.
Like, this is getting-- that's too crazy,
- Kendra, Meda has proven that there was something happening.
- How do you feel?
- I feel like you should be worried.
You should be concerned,
concerned about my willingness to
continue to be married to him. - I ask for details.
- My willingness... - You're an attorney.
- To want to, like, you know,
trust him for the rest of my life.
- You need details! Give me the details.
- I mean, we got the details. - Come on, Joc.
Don't do her like that. - You ain't got no details.
You got a text message.
- But it's OK.
- That's all the details you need, honey.
- That's it? - I don't--yeah.
- That's it? - Yeah, don't do that, Joc.
- "Come make love to me"?
- These people on this stage
might not know you lied to me about
whatever she just showed in that phone.
But you know you lied to me,
and I know you lied to me.
- If you want to go off of the text and that alone--
- No, you just told Claudia that they were real.
- But what-- - You know what I'm saying?
So it's like-- and then you had me--
you literally had me sitting up here
calling this woman a liar. I'm not, you know--
I apologize for calling you a liar
about those text messages. - Where did we mess around?
- That's about it.
But it's, like, that [bleep] is lame, Jasiel.
- But where did we mess around? - You're a grown ass man.
- But where we mess around? - You're 42 years old.
- 'Cause she not even tripping off that.
It's the fact that you had her thinking
those messages was fake, and it's, like, that's true.
So what else did you lie about?
- Why did you lie? Why did you lie though?
- When he's asking like, where and when,
I mean, that's a point. Like when--
- So as a lady, I should sit on this stage
and tell when he was in my vagina and what time?
- Damn. - Talk about being a lady,
why you even put that business out there?
If that ain't happening no more, if that's--
even if that's been--if that's been three years ago...
- I can tell my friend anything I want to tell my friend.
I'm allowed to tell my friend. - Why you bringing that up?
Me and my wife in a good place.
We where the [bleep] we at.
Why you bringing that out?
- Meda wasn't the only surprise.
Kendra appeared to be shocked
to hear about Joc's secret baby too.
Take a look.
- Some woman has been going around on social media
saying that her stepsister has a baby by Joc,
and running it like he--he know.
- Girl, y'all, I was-- - This is not no--
- Y'all seen when my daddy died,
he was in a hospital room with me.
- Kendra, oh, my gosh.
Oh, my gosh. Please, please.
- He was with me when my daddy took his last breath!
He went on meeting my mom and my brother.
Like, he is such a piece of [bleep]!
Like, why waste my time? Like, I'm good to his ass.
You don't understand what I've been through,
like the humiliation that I've been through, Jasiel.
- I already know where this going.
- Some of the stuff is rumors, Jasiel,
and some of the stuff is not rumors.
I'm having to pretend
I didn't know about the baby.
I look like a fool right now.
- It became clear that you knew about the baby.
- Mm-hmm. - So why did you cry that night
in front of the girls? Like, it seemed like--
like you didn't know.
- It's just embarrassing.
And then, like, the baby stuff we've been dealing with
for a very long time, like Jasiel and I.
It literally became a public thing,
and so that in--like, that panic and that frustration,
and it just like made me mad all over again.
Like, it's straight bull[bleep].
Like, I expected you, Jasiel, to be better.
I expected you to make better decisions, dog.
- Joc, do you feel guilty,
you know, seeing the woman that you love
have to deal with these uncomfortable conversations
with her friends because of your mess?
- I do. And I--and I've apologized
to her over and over several times,
a million times more. - How? You just--
I just found out that these text messages was real.
And the nerve that you did not stop this production...
- I'm not talking about that.
- To apologize just says it in itself.
Like that [bleep]--you should've stopped this [bleep].
I mean, tell--somebody tell me if I'm tripping.
- Yes. - You not tripping.
But I thought it out even more
'cause I don't know what else the [bleep]
they gonna come with. So I'll wait till it's all done--
- And that's why this little talk you had with me
right here, you trying to calm me down
'cause you knew your ass was lying.
That's just embarrassing. - No, that's not.
- Joc, would you like to take this moment
to say something to you wife? - Time out.
I'm trying to let all this [bleep] be done
'cause ain't no sense apologizing to you now--
- Really?
- Listen to me, please. - OK.
- And somebody spark something else,
and then I gotta apologize three more times.
- Why the [bleep] has somebody had to say apologize
more than one time? That sound crazy.
- Kirk, what does Joc need to do
to kind of be accountable for this?
- I don't know what to say
because they married, and it's like,
the future is in front of them, not behind them.
- The lies gotta stop though. - You--you feel--
- And you gotta understand where Kendra coming from.
- You feel real justified.
- She embarrassed. - High and [bleep] migh--
I'm [bleep] utterly embarrassed.
- She's embarrassed.
- Your ass, you can't even [bleep] control
your penis, your semen.
You can't control your damn fingers with texts--
You're embarrassing.
I feel embarrassed for our kids.
They gon' see this! - Mm.
- About a [bleep] text message?
- And you still ain't apologized.
- About a text message?
- So now, you're finna try and gaslight me?
- Nah, nah, nah, nah. - You're gaslighting, honey.
- No, I'm not gaslighting. - You just admitted that.
- Let me tell you what I'm about to do.
- You're not gonna take accountability.
- I apologize... - But it's OK.
- For anything that I put you through,
any embarrassment.
- You gon' reap what you sow.
- Hold on. I came to you, and I told you--
- You got some good harvest coming out the ground, partner.
- You gon' let me finish?
I don't like the threats. I don't.
- It's not. It's a promise.
- OK, well-- - It's a promise.
- Well, we can be done... - We can.
- If that's what it's gon' be. - We can.
- But we not gon' do this. - I got--I got a form.
I can sign that divorce decree
tomorrow when I go in the office.
- About a text message? - I'll go in.
- About a text message? - He can sign it!
- Kendra! - I can go file it!
The hell you talking about?
I got e-file in every county in Georgia.
- Wait, wait, wait. Y'all don't want that.
Y'all don't want this.
- Look, y'all, don't do this.
- I hope y'all happy.
Did we text?
Yeah, we had an exchange of text one day.
- Wow. - You know what?
I wasn't finna sit there no longer.
- Safaree, do you want to say anything at this point?
♪♪ ♪♪
- Speak, bro,
'cause there's somebody out there like you.
- Spice, would you ever consider
doing another song with Karlie?
♪♪ ♪♪
- What the [bleep] she say?
♪♪ ♪♪
- ♪♪ I made it to the top, ain't no stopping ♪♪
- You gon' reap what you sow.
- I don't like the threats.
- It's not. It's a promise.
It's a promise. - Well we can be done.
- We can. - If that's what it's gon' be.
- We can. I can sign that divorce decree tomorrow.
- Kendra! - I can go file it!
The hell you talking about?
I got e-file in every county in Georgia.
[bleep] you talking 'bout? - Wait, wait, wait.
Y'all don't want that. Y'all don't this.
- Crazy ass [bleep]. - Don't walk away, Joc.
- Hey, you cannot take accountability.
- I hope y'all happy. Nah, I'm good.
- Take accountability! - I'm cool.
- Why you running?
- Good night. - Why you running?
- All this stuff from a-- - Good night.
- I'm not leaving. I'm not leaving.
- You ain't got to. - I'ma stay.
- Good night.
- He never wants to apologize until--
- [bleep] you, Karlie. - He's clearly embarrassed.
- That's not my problem, Claudia.
- I know. - I didn't do [bleep], OK?
- You didn't. - So shame the [bleep] on him.
He needs to be a better man.
- It got heated, and y'all talked about
separating and ending this?
Is it that serious right now? - You know what, Claudia?
I don't want to be with a liar.
I don't want to be with somebody
who gon' make my life significantly harder
than it already has to be being a Black, successful,
beautiful woman in America. You understand what I mean?
[applause] I work really hard for my name.
I work really hard for my brand.
And nobody, not even Jasiel, can destroy that.
I thought he had more respect for me.
If it comes down to me being a better person
by divorcing him, then that shall happen.
- So where do we go from here?
- Him and I need to have a talk.
It's a lot to have him storm off in a rage of
inability to take accountability.
That's embarrassing in itself.
- Well, obviously, there's a lot for you
and Joc to talk about.
We really hope you two can come together
and have a conversation.
- Meda opening her mouth,
trying to give out a timeline when we [bleep] around.
That ain't overlapped this relationship.
- Yeah. - It didn't.
Did we text?
Yeah, we had an exchange of text one day.
Right there. One day. That was it.
- They don't never wanna believe that though.
- So I'm just saying here, everything compiled on me.
And I'm just the super bad guy.
- Tomorrow, bruh. Like, just try to do it tomorrow.
You know, try to talk to her tomorrow and see--
- I--I--you know what?
I wasn't finna sit there no longer.
- Y'all beautiful too, bruh. - It'll be OK.
- Yeah. - If it's meant, guess what?
We'll sit down like adults, and we'll talk about it.
- The air is cooler on the other side.
You know what I'm saying?
- Standby.
Five, four, three.
- Let's switch gears.
Now Eric has joined us on the mainstage.
Sierra and Eric were ready to start a new chapter,
but it felt like they were reading two different books.
Now as it got more serious, so did their issues.
And Sierra's second engagement ring this year
gave her second thoughts. - Damn.
Don't do my girl like that.
- That's an amazing feat.
[laughter] Let's take a look.
- At this point, me and Eric, we planning our future.
But, baby, things are far from perfect.
You are so used to making the rules,
and every bitch that you with abiding by them,
and I'm not doing that.
My beautiful home that we just purchased
was just robbed at gunpoint.
Bottom line, I want to move.
- So you want to sell the house
and go back to an apartment?
- I want to go to a condo, to a high-rise
where I feel safe at for me right now.
- I don't want to go backwards.
You've been paying for apartments forever.
I've been buying homes.
It don't make sense to waste money.
You just like wasting money.
- I've been so stressed, Ma, like--
after my house got broken into, I'm like--
Ma, you already know.
I done been robbed at gunpoint
one time in my life,
and now that this happened,
I don't want to be in that house.
- I really do feel where you were coming from,
as far as the house being robbed.
When you were saying that you couldn't sleep
and you were just having, like, thoughts about
somebody breaking in the crib,
I didn't really think about it like that, being a man.
But I do sincerely apologize.
- I can't lie. I do miss you.
- Congratulations on your engagement!
[all cheering]
- How many of y'all bitches
been proposed to twice in one year?
- The ring Burger King gave me ain't [bleep]
compared to the ring... - No, it's not.
- Mother[bleep] Eric Whitehead gave me.
This [bleep] hit.
Me and Eric be power tripping.
In my past relationships,
I was always the boss.
I was always calling the shots.
And with Eric, sometimes it come off, like, daddy-ish.
- Maybe y'all should do therapy together.
- Maybe we should. I thought about that.
- You have never got over your marriage.
You ain't got over BK.
You haven't got over stuff that happened when you was a kid.
- Maybe I should have healed first
and then got into this relationship, but I didn't.
- Eric need his own address.
- Pastor Bentley is right.
You need to get your own place,
and I need to regain my strength.
I need to find myself.
- Want me to move out?
You want me to get a spot and move out?
- I do. - To be honest,
I'm trying my hardest to hold on
because I see how amazing we can be as a union.
But now, you want me to move out?
I just proposed to you.
- Oh, we're still engaged.
We just taking a break.
- It's like--it's a lot.
♪♪ ♪♪
- All right. Sierra and Eric,
congratulations on the engagement.
Is there a date yet?
- It's 1/23/23. - Congratulations.
It seems like no matter what Eric did,
you had a problem with it. You two fought a lot.
- Mm-hmm.
- Why did you say yes to the engagement?
- 'Cause I love Eric.
I know I be acting like a brat,
but I just-- sometimes, I ain't gon' lie,
I do that just to see how far he gonna go with me
and how far it's going to go.
Because y'all got to understand,
my previous relationships,
I never had nobody to actually love me for real,
and make me feel secure and so confident,
and just allow me to let my guards down.
Somebody that will accept my kids, my family,
my bald head edges, everything.
Like, he literally just love
all my flaws, you know what I'm saying?
- Last time we saw y'all, y'all weren't liv--
you decided not to live together.
So where do you stand now with that?
- So now, we back together. We living.
We buying more properties.
And everything has been great, thank God.
- But you did call her spoiled. - She is spoiled.
She is a Gemini.
- If you know Sierra, you know she's spoiled.
- If you know Sierra, it's her way or the highway.
And I'm like, "I'll take the highway. I'm good.
Which car I'ma drive? What we doing?"
- Some of the things that I do and have said in arguments
is because of my past hurt.
And I throw this thing up, it's like,
OK, money can't cover up everything.
You know what I'm saying?
You got to deal with those issues,
so that's what I've been doing.
And I just-- I'm proud of myself for that.
You know what I'm saying? - Good for you.
You were terrified after your home was robbed.
What did y'all do with that house?
- We sold the house.
And, thank God. It was a blessing.
I was able to sell my house for 300,
almost 400,000 more than what I paid for
in a matter of five months.
So it's, like, I was a blessing to them.
We weren't hurt.
- That's a good way to look at it.
- It worked out the way it worked out,
and that just is what it is.
- Sierra, last year you and Eric were talking about
having kids, and it seemed like
you were actively trying to go there.
Where are you with that decision now?
- We still want babies.
So when it happens, we'll be so happy.
And I'm just ready to just be a new Sierra
and just be great for my husband, like--
- She's definitely a different woman.
- I be on that ass.
- I wouldn't give him all the credit,
but I will say, like, being loved properly
has definitely helped her, like,
even call out her own faults.
Like, that's what happens when you're loved properly.
- Thank you.
- Where we going?
- Aww.
- Where you guys going?
- Stick beside your man, Kendra.
- That's what you do in a marriage.
You fight until the very [bleep] end.
- No, you don't walk off the stage and go have a fit,
and then come get your wife to go home.
- Well, but at least he did it and didn't just walk away
and just act like the [bleep] don't matter.
- Well, it looks like Joc and Kendra are done for the night,
so we hope that they can work things out.
So we're looking forward to this wedding in 2023.
- Whoo! I can't wait.
- OK, more "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta" reunion
when we come back.
- I didn't put us in this situation.
You lied to me,
but I'm not even here to talk about that.
You lied to me. I didn't do none of it.
- You're right, you didn't. - I didn't have no baby.
I didn't send Meda no text message.
You did though.
She said that you sent her a Uber.
Yo ass probably did that too.
You probably [bleep] her too... - I did not [bleep] her though.
- During the times that she said.
I don't deserve for you to lie to me.
So if it's true, you got something to worry about.
- Can we leave?
I apologize, OK?
- No, it's just not that simple
'cause I know I'm not doing--
- You going this way or this way?
- I want to go that way. - All right, cool.
- Don't play with me, not when it come to that.
- Michael Jackson, calm down.
- Who wants to get married,
have kids, and then end up here?
- That man didn't care
if I made it through that pregnancy.
That man didn't care if I made it through that labor.
- Yikes.
- ♪♪ I made it to the top, ain't no stopping ♪♪
- All right, y'all. Welcome back
to "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta" the reunion.
Erica and Safaree's marriage didn't end happily ever after.
Erica was racing to end the marriage,
but Safaree was in no rush.
- After San Diego,
I kind of thought I would come back home
and things would fall in line, but that wasn't the case.
What you doing here?
- I'm here to spend time with my family.
- Erica and Safaree, we're not together anymore.
Let me know when you want to be officially divorced.
- Listen, we have time.
- No, there is no time.
- How does it feel to be, you know, a father?
- It's like, he's so beautiful when I look at him,
but I'm like, yo,
why he don't look nothing like me?
- You get a test?
- No, I never did that.
You know, it's crossed my mind.
- Is there anything else you have to tell me?
- A DNA test is on your horizon.
- I want him to take that paternity test
because at the end of the day, the world needs to know
the lengths that this man will really go
to not only embarrass me,
but now he's embarrassing his children.
Stop hurting me. - Please.
- Especially 'cause you know I really, really,
really loved you.
[dramatic music]
This [bleep] hurts me.
It drains me. I'm losing weight.
- Oh, my God.
[indistinct chatter]
♪♪ ♪♪
- Oh, my God, yes! [crying]
Oh, my God! I'm officially divorced!
Yes!
What about the child support?
That's it?
Are you [bleep] kidding me?
Now all of this financial burden
with my children is on me?
Stop, this is [bleep] up.
♪♪ ♪♪
[crying]
- Oh, yikes.
- Erica, we saw you get really emotional on that phone call.
Can you talk to us about that moment,
what you were feeling?
- I was really, like, breaking
in, like, pieces day-by-day.
I've done a lot of therapy since,
and I found so many lessons
that I needed to learn.
I take accountability that, obviously,
I attracted this energy into my life.
Yeah, I've had some faults in my marriage,
but at the same time,
I've also swept so much under the rug.
And I think that's why I got taken advantage of,
because for the first time, I thought I was safe.
- Safaree, I got to ask you,
how does it feel to listen to what Erica is saying,
to see and hear the pain?
And are you in pain?
- Um, you know, I always
purposely just try to numb myself from everything
so that I don't feel pain.
And I tell myself I don't care
so that I could really believe it.
But, um...
there's pain.
- It's obvious me and Safaree will never be.
I was in the hospital bed with this man's son.
That man didn't care if I made it through that pregnancy.
That man didn't care if I made it through that labor.
I really have fought through some dark times.
Like literally, I couldn't get out of bed, guys.
There was days I could not eat.
But at the same time, I have to face my kids,
and I got to act like everything's OK
'cause I'm the only one that feeds them
on a day-to-day basis.
Like, I had to drag myself out of that dark place.
With my first son,
because I had to hustle so much,
I sacrificed so much time away from my first born,
that I'm still trying to make it up to this day.
And this is stuff that I've confessed, you know,
and been vulnerable with to him about.
That's why it's weird that he knows traumatic experience
I've had of being a single mother once,
and then he turns around and makes me a single mother twice.
I've already come to terms
that Safaree will never really take accountability,
and that's fine. He don't owe me nothing.
All he owes now is his kids, and that's--
that's all I care about.
- Safaree,
do you want to say anything at this point?
- Come on.
Come on. Say that [bleep].
- Grow up.
- Shut the [bleep] up.
- You can cuss me out. I'm cool with it.
- Safaree, speak, bro.
'Cause there's somebody out there like you.
So you got to speak, bro.
- I want you to be able to speak
and not us speak for you.
So if there's anything,
I mean, this is the time.
- I don't even know how to start.
- We want to hear. Start.
- He said, he has pain.
Sometimes to get your pain out, you got to release it.
And you got pain, dog.
You got to get it out too. Y'all both--
- Who wants to get married,
have kids, and then end up here?
Like, I wouldn't have thought two years later,
this is where we would have been.
We were-- we were just at a place
where it was just who could hurt who the most,
and we were there for a long time.
It sucks.
Definitely sorry for the time
when our son was born.
And I left a week later.
- It wasn't a week later. - OK, OK.
Just let him finish, Erica.
- It was days. - OK.
- But go ahead.
- Erica talked about how the divorce has affected her.
How has it affected you?
- It hasn't. He's been having fun.
- OK. It looks like it,
but he probably hasn't really.
- He's been living his best damn life.
- Well, it appears--
- He is not living his best life.
- No, good for him though.
- That boy went and got a girl look like you.
That ain't your best life. - When you ain't gotta
wake up to take care of two babies, you better be.
- I think he has some things he may want to say,
but he's just not in a space
where he feels safe to be able to say
whatever he wants to say.
- He telling you he hurt.
He telling you he's sorry.
And we cut him off... - Sorry for what?
- And we talking for him. He's right here.
- Agreed. - Let him get it out himself.
- OK. The night you were playing cards with the fellas,
you were very upset,
and you threw a chair.
- Other dudes come in,
wanting to feel like they--they owed.
This Safaree baby. You know what I'm saying?
Oh, he don't like you and... - Oh, yeah.
- Do some [bleep] to your kid.
[dramatic music]
♪♪ ♪♪
- Oh, [bleep]-- - Oh, [bleep].
- What--what triggered you at that moment?
- I had a flight to catch.
And I had to leave, so that's how I left.
- This man don't care.
- First of all, it's not that I don't care.
I don't-- - Y'all got to stop thinking
this man is gon' give you substance.
There's no substance there.
- That's why I don't talk though.
- But he do care, girl.
He's been hurt.
I really do, deep down in my heart,
believe he love Erica.
- Before we go, what's your hope
for your relationship with her as a co-parent?
- Just to be better than where it's at now.
- That's a start.
- Well, that is a start. I wish you two the best.
I hope you get to a place where you can both
be in a comfortable space.
- Thank you. - I know that was not easy.
All right, we're gonna take a quick break.
Has Rasheeda's father, Harold, moved in with her and Kirk?
We find out next.
♪♪ ♪♪
- We all want our kids to be nice looking.
[laughter]
- Don't bring no ugly babies home.
- If it don't happen, you just got to work harder.
[laughter] - Harold--Harold--
- I'ma make you feel real stupid.
- I didn't say nothing.
- Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall. Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.
♪♪ ♪♪
- ♪♪ I made it to the top, ain't no stopping ♪♪
- We're back, and we've got some new faces.
Please welcome Harold to the stage.
All right. F-bomb this, f-bomb that.
Rasheeda and Harold put the "diss" in dysfunctional,
but meaningful progress was actually made,
thanks to mediators Kirk and Shirleen.
Could they really forgive and forget?
Let's take a look.
- My actual real biological father's name
is Harold Buckner.
- I want to talk about you and your daddy's relationship
because it's really, really rough.
- And it has nothing to do with me.
Out of my whole life, he's probably come maybe like
five or six times to visit.
- You hold this [bleep] against me all your life.
- Well, obviously, you're holding something against me
because you won't-- - [bleep]--
- First of all, no, you hold this [bleep] against me
because you ignore my [bleep] calls.
And then you call me by accident
because you didn't want to talk to me.
- You know what? I'ma tell you one thing.
- No, don't tell me [bleep].
[bleep] you. Stay out of my life.
I don't give a [bleep].
[bleep] him.
I think that there comes a time in your life
where you can be man enough to admit your wrongs, too.
- But I'm not wrong about anything.
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- The way you feel about Kirk
and the things that you say about him,
that's my life.
That's my husband.
Guess what?
He always been a father to his kids,
way more than I can say for you.
- So [bleep] off. - No!
- You can get the [bleep] out.
- I usually just say it like it is,
which I think this [bleep] still lying about working.
[laughter]
Things like that damn song in your--one of your albums
called a meal ticket, goddamn it.
You found a meal ticket, and that's it.
- Since you don't think I do hard labor,
do you know about us purchasing 20 acres of land?
- No, I didn't know anything.
- Maybe you should come see it...
- I will. - Before I build on it.
- Look, we bought this one.
Ain't been in it not one time since.
- If you let me up in that mug, I might not come out.
I am sorry for anything that was inflammatory,
directed to you and/or Kirk. - Mm-hmm.
- If you were serious
about the opportunity to be in that house,
I'll take you up on that.
- I'm cool with that.
- As long as Rasheeda's happy,
and she feels she wanna do it, I'm gonna support her.
I mean, I think it's the right thing to do.
A parent is a parent.
- Rasheeda, you made a lot of progress
with your daddy on this season.
Where do things stand right now
with you and your dad?
- Right now, we continuing to build.
You know, just being real and more open with each other.
So we trying.
- My relationship with Rasheeda and coming down here
is a lot better. I even like Kirk better too.
[laughter]
But going and rehashing this is still--
is upsetting to me, even to watch this.
You know, because I just want to move beyond all of that,
and there's not much you can do
in terms of being a dad long-distance.
But we could build and work at making things better.
- I mean, I hear what he's saying,
but I do think that
a lot more effort could have been put into play,
as far as just, like,
making sure, like, as a parent,
you have to go above and beyond for your children
at any and all costs.
- I sent her clothes. I sent money.
I did all I can do as a long-distance dad.
You can't say that I'm a deadbeat dad.
- That was in the '80s.
I mean, you have grandchildren
who are 21 and 9 years old
and, you know, all those years that were missed.
- I told you, I divorced your mother, not you.
- Harold, do you-- - No, she divorced you, not me.
- I don't give a damn however it went.
- However you want to put it. - We weren't together.
She went one direction, I went another,
and that was it. - Harold, I gotta ask you.
Do you resent Rasheeda's relationship with her mom?
- The men that her mother messed with,
I think that she could look back and say,
"Well, your dad may not have been the best,
but, goddamn it, he sure wasn't the worst."
- It sounds like you think you was the best thing
her mother ever had.
- I was more productive than they was.
- In your eyes. - He miss that cat.
- You know what she told me?
She said, "Listen, Rasheeda,
"you're gonna understand who your father is on your own
"as you continue to grow up.
"All I'm gonna tell you is,
try to have the best relationship with him you can."
She never [bleep] on you.
She never talked down on you about any of that stuff.
- Kirk, Harold said that Rasheeda was your meal ticket.
I always wanted to know, like, how'd that make you feel?
- I actually laughed and was tickled about it.
Like, I took time out of my life
and invested into Rasheeda to start her career.
A girl could never do nothing for me
to make me feel like I'm gonna live off of you.
That's lame and that's wack.
- So, Harold... - It's crazy.
- I want to ask you real quick--
- Sure.
- Did you ever move into Rasheeda and Kirk's property?
- Uh, no, I haven't. - Why not?
- You know, there were some medical issues that I had
that had to get resolved. - So where does that stand now?
And do you have any plans to pick it back up?
- All my health issues have been resolved.
I'm good to go.
- I've always told him,
"Come down to Atlanta, move to Atlanta.
"Your family's here, your grandkids are here.
Make the move."
And that's the gist of how the relationship is
from back in the day 'til now.
I extend the olive branch, like I said,
and then it ends up being something,
some type of excuse,
the reason why things don't manifest.
- I don't hear the approval from Kirk.
It's not just your property.
I want to find out and have an approval from both of you.
- Whatever Rasheeda want, like, I don't--
he knows I don't care about none of that.
- Will you do it? - I would do it.
Yes, I would do it. - When?
- Within six months.
- Just come on. Just come on.
You should be proud to have a beautiful,
beautiful daughter. - Hey, I am extremely proud.
- Mm-hmm. - You don't even know
how proud I am. - Aww.
- She's something to be proud of.
- Thank you.
Of course. Look at her!
We all want our kids to, number one,
be healthy, be intelligent,
and be nice looking.
[laughter]
- Rasheeda, ain't that the reality of it?
- I mean, don't bring no ugly babies home.
- If it don't happen, you just got to work harder.
- Harold-- Harold, you are a trip.
Rasheeda, what kind of relationship
do you hope to have with your father?
- You know, just in each other's life a little bit more,
especially for the grandkids.
'Cause when him and Carter get around each other,
now they just have a ball and just kick it and have fun.
And that's what it's supposed to be about.
- You know, I want to be in her life.
I mean, you know, I love my grandsons.
And, you know, I would like to, you know, make things work.
- Well, we'll expect a move-in date within
the next six months, Harold.
- OK. - All right.
- We gon' have a barbecue
when you get your ass up here. We all coming.
- Momma Dee, you coming? - Oh, yes.
- Do I need to bring a woman or I don't need?
- I mean, I don't--
- You know I know what time it is with you.
- All right, y'all.
Karlie said she was serious about her craft,
but her music video was filled with body oil and drama.
Was Spice right all along?
We'll be right back.
♪♪ ♪♪
Spice, would you ever consider
doing another song with Karlie?
♪♪ ♪♪
- What the [bleep] she say?
♪♪ ♪♪
- ♪♪ I made it to the top, ain't no stopping ♪♪
- We're back with more reunion.
This season, we saw Karlie's music career pop off.
But even when things are going well,
Karlie can't help but to get in her own way,
like inviting her friend's ex-husband
to be her oiled-up video vixen.
Take a look. - [sucks teeth]
- Let's go.
And music.
[music playing]
♪♪ ♪♪
- My sperm donor. - I see him.
both: Why is he here? - Why?
- Yeah, and go down.
- Go down there? - Yeah.
- We about to get out y'all's hair.
We were just saying hi to our friend.
- What the [bleep] is going on? Is this a prank?
I feel like I'm being punk'd.
Why you was rubbing him?
- 'Cse he needed oil or lotion on him
'cause he's about to be in the scene.
- Y'all don't have nobody else for that?
- I don't understand why you always questioning me.
- So Karlie asked you to be in a video?
- Yes. - That's weird as [bleep].
We all don't like you right now.
- So y'all should talk to Karlie about that.
♪♪ ♪♪
- I almost thought for a second I was in the wrong place.
- I don't know, babe.
- What do you know? - I'm just working.
I'm not dealing-- - Oh, you're working?
You working my nerves. - Yeah, I'm not doing that.
- What? What the [bleep] happened?
- We're clearly not at the right shoot.
- I don't feel like I did anything wrong.
I didn't invite Safaree to--
to be mean to you.
I know he wants to be with you. And I figured,
"OK, you know what? Me inviting him to Vegas--"
- Do you understand this--
what this man has put me through?
First of all-- [grunts]
Her reasoning is stupid and it's trash.
You know damn well you can't pay me enough money
to get back with this man.
- All right, Karlie, of all of the men in Las Vegas,
why pick Safaree, of all people, to be in the video?
- First of all, there's a lot of gorgeous men in the video.
- But that was--come on. - Hold on one second.
Me and Meda had a conversation.
Safaree just so happened to be there.
I was like, "Yo, everybody's going to Vegas.
You going to Vegas?"
And he was like, "Yeah, I'll go to Vegas."
I was like, "Ah-ha! You gon' be in the video."
It was just a clown moment.
- Erica, how did it make you feel
to see Meda oiling up Safaree?
- Oh, I didn't--
I didn't even see all of that.
I don't even care about all of that.
It's the principle of my friend inviting me
to what she told me was her video,
but not giving me the heads up on, like,
you were gonna have my newly found ex-husband on set.
And I literally was there just supporting her,
and she just kind of blindsided me.
- So, Erica, I apologize to you
about having Safaree at the video, but--
- It wasn't about him being there.
- Safaree wasn't in the video. - But you got to understand,
I do know that me and Safaree have mutual friends.
It wasn't about him being there.
I just felt like I should've had the heads up,
so I could've had the option
if I wanted to be in the presence of or deal with it.
Because, obviously, walking in not knowing,
it made it so awkward for me 'cause I didn't even know
what I was walking into. - Makes sense.
Safaree, do you think Karlie was being messy
by having you there? - Nah, she ain't--
she didn't have no malicious intent.
We were genuinely rehearsing for Spice's thing,
and then she said, "We going to Vegas,
we going to shoot the video." And that was it.
- I did want to say, we had a bit of a argument
at that party over this whole thing.
As far as I'm concerned-- - I don't care what you do.
- He's got his chick
that he was walking down the street with.
I don't got nothing with him,
and that's all I wanted to say. - Good for him.
- That's all I wanted to say.
- He has three of them he rotates.
- OK, well, I'm not one of them.
And I really felt bad about that afterwards
because I recognized your pain
from when I was in your place.
And I'm mad at myself that we even went there
over all of this stuff. - Oh, I appreciate that.
- And so I apologize for that. - I appreciate that.
- 'Cause it really weighed on my heart for that.
- I appreciate that.
- Karlie, you played the demo version publicly,
even though Spice said it was not ready.
♪♪ ♪♪
- But it's not ready yet, Karlie.
- I just always wanted to do a song with you!
- But you're not ready yet! You not ready--
- How do you know? - I'm telling you!
♪♪ ♪♪
- Why were you so surprised by her reaction
since she already told you she didn't want that to happen?
- I was just excited.
- She was too excited. - I was too excited.
But she's right.
She was right at the end of the day.
- You can admit you were wrong?
- I'm definitely wrong.
- Spice, would you ever consider
doing another song with Karlie?
- Sure. Absolutely.
- I love it!
- Only because, despite it all, she was--
- It's the only way her ass gon' go to number three.
- What? - [laughs]
- What the [bleep] she say? What you say?
- I ain't say nothing. - Damn, Shekinah.
- I didn't say nothing.
- Bitch, how much you want to make a mother[bleep] bet
that my next single go number three again?
How much you want to make a bet? I promise you!
- Your first song you did by yourself went number one.
- How much you want to make a [bleep] bet?
Even Spice said, when she heard other singles,
she was like, "Karlie, you got some hits."
Did you not say that, sister? - I did.
You have nice songs on the album.
I love a lot of the songs. - Thank you.
Don't play with me, not when it come to that.
Play with all this other [bleep],
but not when it come to that.
And I'ma make you feel real stupid.
- Michael Jackson, calm down. - Bitch.
Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall-- - It don't matter.
I'd rather be Humpty than Michael.
Michael done transferred his whole goddamn face.
- Karlie, you know what? Let's focus on the positive.
- You go play with that-- all that other [bleep],
but what I'm not gonna play with is my music.
- Spice helped you get to number three.
- I learned my lesson.
I take that [bleep] very [bleep] seriously.
- Coming up, we say goodbye to season 10
and find out if Shekinah found out
what a sapiosexual is.
First of all, let's get something understood.
I really wasn't being messy. I was being real.
This whole show is messy.
- Erica, if Mr. Right came along,
would you walk down that aisle one more time?
- Damn, that's a good question.
[dramatic music]
- ♪♪ I made it to the top, ain't no stopping ♪♪
- Welcome back to the conclusion of
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta" the reunion.
All right, y'all.
Joc and Kendra aren't here with us right now.
We hope they can continue to work on their relationship
and fix their issues.
Final questions for the crew.
Erika, your new motto is "don't get married."
But if Mr. Right came along,
would you walk down that aisle one more time?
- Damn, that's a good question.
- Absolutely. I believe in love.
I'm such a, like, faithful woman when it comes to love.
And I have so much of it, so absolutely.
- Scrappy, you were able to make amends
with your mom tonight.
Big deal, big moment. How'd that feel?
- It felt good.
Just got to see, man.
In life, you know what I'm saying,
when that real life hit, man,
we got to see what's going on.
- Well, we wish y'all the best. - I appreciate it.
- We know y'all love each other.
- Thank you.
- Safaree, earlier we had you in the hot seat.
Is there anything you want to say before we go?
All right.
All right, Shekinah,
we want to end this show on a funny note.
What words of wisdom do you got for us tonight?
- Do you really want to hear from me?
- I mean--
- I done been messy the whole show.
- Why stop now?
- First of all, let's get something understood.
I really wasn't being messy. I was being real.
This whole show is messy.
But, um, what can I say?
Continue to trust God.
- [laughs]
All right, y'all, that is our show.
Thank you to the cast of "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"
for being here, and thank you to everyone at home
for watching tonight's reunion.
That's it for us. Time to go lay down somewhere.
We're gonna leave you with the funniest moments
from our season.
I'm Claudia Jordan. Good night.
♪♪ ♪♪
- [indistinct mumbling]
[goofy music]
- ♪♪ Take it low to the floor ♪♪
Yeah, yeah!
- I feel like I made him the sapiosexual.
[record scratch] - Siri, what is sapiosexual?
"Finding intelligence sexual, attractive, arousing."
- ♪♪ Booty, booty ♪♪
♪♪ All we see is booty ♪♪
[laughter] - Bro!
- OK, come on. [grunts]
Oh, my God. Oh, [bleep].
These legs gon' buckle.
- This is how a bad bitch pull up in Vegas, OK?
- Oh.
Oh, [bleep]. I don't know what I'm doing, y'all.
♪♪ ♪♪
- Oh, [bleep].
- He almost knocked himself out.
♪♪ ♪♪
[all screaming]
- Send out the kids. Send out the kids.
- Can I ask you a question, Karlie?
- Mm-mm.
- Would you [bleep] me?
- Hell no.
♪♪ ♪♪
[resonant music]
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