1 00:00:07,659 --> 00:00:09,574 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:09,661 --> 00:00:11,228 - Shi meets Mira. 3 00:00:11,315 --> 00:00:13,143 They've now been talking about six months. 4 00:00:13,230 --> 00:00:14,927 - The way we've been talking and texting, 5 00:00:15,015 --> 00:00:16,320 I love the person. 6 00:00:16,407 --> 00:00:17,843 They're someone that I see a future with. 7 00:00:17,930 --> 00:00:19,062 - There are a million red flags. 8 00:00:19,149 --> 00:00:21,195 Oh, my God. - Wait. What? 9 00:00:21,282 --> 00:00:24,328 - So she lives in the exact same neighborhood. 10 00:00:24,415 --> 00:00:26,374 [doorbell rings] 11 00:00:26,461 --> 00:00:29,159 [dramatic music] 12 00:00:29,246 --> 00:00:33,076 ♪ ♪ 13 00:00:35,992 --> 00:00:37,733 - Action. - What's going on? 14 00:00:37,820 --> 00:00:44,261 ♪ ♪ 15 00:00:44,348 --> 00:00:46,176 - That's too hard. - Does it hurt? 16 00:00:46,263 --> 00:00:48,222 Oh, shit. I blocked it. 17 00:00:48,309 --> 00:00:49,179 - Uh-oh, your hair's getting frizzy. 18 00:00:49,266 --> 00:00:51,181 - [gasps] No. [laughter] 19 00:00:51,268 --> 00:00:53,401 That's enough. All right. 20 00:00:53,488 --> 00:00:56,012 ♪ Let's get to it, let's get to it ♪ 21 00:00:56,099 --> 00:00:58,101 [chuckles] - Here we go. 22 00:00:58,188 --> 00:01:01,104 "Who exactly is my girlfriend?" 23 00:01:01,191 --> 00:01:02,975 - If you have to ask... 24 00:01:03,063 --> 00:01:05,500 - "Hey, Nev and Kamie. 25 00:01:05,587 --> 00:01:08,851 "My name is Anthony, but everyone calls me Shi. 26 00:01:08,938 --> 00:01:12,028 "I'm 25, live in Philadelphia, 27 00:01:12,115 --> 00:01:14,248 and I'm a homebody and an introvert." 28 00:01:14,335 --> 00:01:15,510 - Mm. 29 00:01:15,597 --> 00:01:17,338 - "I use dating apps to meet girls. 30 00:01:17,425 --> 00:01:22,169 "And last October, I matched with Tatiana on Tinder. 31 00:01:22,256 --> 00:01:26,564 She lived in my area, was 19 and gorgeous." 32 00:01:26,651 --> 00:01:29,698 - ♪ Higher, higher, higher, higher ♪ 33 00:01:29,785 --> 00:01:32,570 - "Eventually we moved our conversation to Instagram. 34 00:01:32,657 --> 00:01:35,530 But that's when things went a little sideways." 35 00:01:35,617 --> 00:01:37,619 - Hmm. 36 00:01:37,706 --> 00:01:40,839 - "The Instagram said her name was Mira, that she was 21, 37 00:01:40,926 --> 00:01:43,886 "and the photo was of a totally different girl. 38 00:01:43,973 --> 00:01:46,193 "'Mira' explained that she just didn't 39 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:47,716 "want everyone in the neighborhood 40 00:01:47,803 --> 00:01:49,326 to know she was on Tinder." 41 00:01:49,413 --> 00:01:50,719 I guess that's something that people do. 42 00:01:50,806 --> 00:01:51,807 - No. - No? 43 00:01:51,894 --> 00:01:53,504 - No. - All right. 44 00:01:53,591 --> 00:01:55,071 "We kept talking, and she became my girlfriend." 45 00:01:55,158 --> 00:01:57,595 - ♪ Take me higher ♪ 46 00:01:57,682 --> 00:02:00,859 - "Mira lives close to me, but I can't get her to meet." 47 00:02:00,946 --> 00:02:02,905 ♪ ♪ 48 00:02:02,992 --> 00:02:05,125 "When I told my sister what was going on, 49 00:02:05,212 --> 00:02:07,431 "she played me an episode of 'Catfish.' 50 00:02:07,518 --> 00:02:10,652 "So I'm writing to see if you'll help me. 51 00:02:10,739 --> 00:02:13,394 Thank you for your consideration, Shi." 52 00:02:13,481 --> 00:02:16,353 - ♪ Higher, higher, higher, higher, higher ♪ 53 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,834 - I could understand if Tatiana had a profile on Tinder 54 00:02:18,921 --> 00:02:21,445 and had a different name but it was the same girl, everything, 55 00:02:21,532 --> 00:02:23,491 on Instagram, because maybe she doesn't 56 00:02:23,578 --> 00:02:25,275 want everyone in her neighborhood 57 00:02:25,362 --> 00:02:26,624 to know that she's on Tinder. 58 00:02:26,711 --> 00:02:28,626 But for it to be a completely different girl, 59 00:02:28,713 --> 00:02:31,325 different pictures, different age, different names-- 60 00:02:31,412 --> 00:02:32,804 - That shouldn't even be an option. 61 00:02:32,891 --> 00:02:33,979 - It makes no sense. 62 00:02:34,066 --> 00:02:35,981 - Let's call him. 63 00:02:36,068 --> 00:02:38,680 [dialing] [whistles] 64 00:02:38,767 --> 00:02:41,161 [line trilling] 65 00:02:41,248 --> 00:02:44,076 - Hello. - Is this Shi? 66 00:02:44,164 --> 00:02:45,991 - Hey! - Oh, hey, bud. 67 00:02:46,078 --> 00:02:47,950 This is Nev and Kamie. 68 00:02:48,037 --> 00:02:52,172 We just read your email, and we have a lot of questions. 69 00:02:52,259 --> 00:02:54,522 - [laughs] Question number one... 70 00:02:54,609 --> 00:02:56,741 - What do you call your girlfriend? 71 00:02:56,828 --> 00:02:58,265 - Mira. - Mira. 72 00:02:58,352 --> 00:03:00,789 - Okay, because Tatiana was her name on Tinder. 73 00:03:00,876 --> 00:03:02,443 Got it. 74 00:03:02,530 --> 00:03:04,314 And even though you call yourself an introvert, 75 00:03:04,401 --> 00:03:06,621 I imagine you'd still be happy to go 76 00:03:06,708 --> 00:03:08,318 outside to meet up with her. 77 00:03:13,018 --> 00:03:16,196 Well, great. Let's go down to the City of Brotherly Love. 78 00:03:21,592 --> 00:03:23,681 Yeah, we can figure out something. 79 00:03:23,768 --> 00:03:27,250 We'll take care of everything, and we'll see you soon. 80 00:03:27,337 --> 00:03:29,209 All right, see ya. - See ya. 81 00:03:29,296 --> 00:03:32,342 - We got to help this guy. - Let's go. 82 00:03:32,429 --> 00:03:36,433 - ♪ You got me curious ♪ 83 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,914 ♪ Curious ♪ 84 00:03:39,001 --> 00:03:40,568 - East Coast, baby. 85 00:03:40,655 --> 00:03:42,004 Springtime. 86 00:03:42,091 --> 00:03:44,093 The sun is shining. 87 00:03:44,180 --> 00:03:47,009 - [voice vibrating] The cobblestone streets. 88 00:03:47,096 --> 00:03:48,402 - Can you feel the history? 89 00:03:48,489 --> 00:03:49,838 You can feel it right in your butt. 90 00:03:49,925 --> 00:03:52,797 - I feel it. - [laughs] 91 00:03:52,884 --> 00:03:53,972 All right, so what are we talking about here? 92 00:03:54,059 --> 00:03:56,888 Shi and Mira. 93 00:03:56,975 --> 00:03:58,368 - Yes. 94 00:03:58,455 --> 00:04:00,414 - Different name and picture on Tinder. 95 00:04:00,501 --> 00:04:02,198 What is that? - I don't know. 96 00:04:02,285 --> 00:04:03,808 - This bait-and-switch vibes. 97 00:04:03,895 --> 00:04:05,419 We're gonna meet him at this little house 98 00:04:05,506 --> 00:04:07,377 we rented for him. - Let's do it. 99 00:04:07,464 --> 00:04:09,945 - Whoo! 100 00:04:10,032 --> 00:04:12,426 [doorbell chiming] 101 00:04:12,513 --> 00:04:13,818 - Oh. Hey! 102 00:04:13,905 --> 00:04:15,733 - Hey. - What's up? 103 00:04:15,820 --> 00:04:18,258 - How are you? - I've never been to an Airbnb. 104 00:04:18,345 --> 00:04:20,085 This house is dope. I wasn't expecting this. 105 00:04:20,172 --> 00:04:22,000 - Oh, this is really cute. - This is great. 106 00:04:22,087 --> 00:04:23,959 We should sit on down. 107 00:04:24,046 --> 00:04:26,048 - [laughs] - Ah. 108 00:04:26,135 --> 00:04:28,877 - You guys are having beautiful weather right now. 109 00:04:28,964 --> 00:04:30,922 - I wouldn't know 'cause I'm usually inside the house. 110 00:04:31,009 --> 00:04:33,185 I mean, I literally go to work, home, that's it. 111 00:04:33,273 --> 00:04:35,275 I don't come outside 'cause I don't like going outside. 112 00:04:35,362 --> 00:04:37,668 I'm a very, very shy person. 113 00:04:37,755 --> 00:04:39,757 Once you meet me, okay, he's a cool person. 114 00:04:39,844 --> 00:04:41,846 You know, I like him, but-- - You don't seem shy, yeah. 115 00:04:41,933 --> 00:04:42,978 - Oh, I don't seem shy now, 116 00:04:43,065 --> 00:04:44,371 but, like, I can't walk up to girls 117 00:04:44,458 --> 00:04:45,807 and, like, ask them for their phone number. 118 00:04:45,894 --> 00:04:47,461 I can't do it. - Right. 119 00:04:47,548 --> 00:04:49,245 - So have you dated before? - Mm-hmm. 120 00:04:49,332 --> 00:04:50,638 - Any long-term relationship? 121 00:04:50,725 --> 00:04:51,900 - Longest relationship was six years. 122 00:04:51,987 --> 00:04:53,467 - Six years? That's-- 123 00:04:53,554 --> 00:04:55,251 - I started dating her in high school. 124 00:04:55,338 --> 00:04:58,167 - Right. - And I dated her till 22-ish. 125 00:04:58,254 --> 00:04:59,429 Like, it was, like-- 126 00:04:59,516 --> 00:05:01,170 - So just last year? - Yeah. 127 00:05:01,257 --> 00:05:02,780 - So after you broke up with your high-school sweetheart... 128 00:05:02,867 --> 00:05:04,608 - Mm-hmm. 129 00:05:04,695 --> 00:05:05,783 - You got on the dating apps. - Mm-hmm. 130 00:05:05,870 --> 00:05:07,263 - Then... - Mm-hmm. 131 00:05:07,350 --> 00:05:09,396 - You matched with... all: Tatiana. 132 00:05:09,483 --> 00:05:11,093 - Mm-hmm. 133 00:05:11,180 --> 00:05:13,008 Looking at the photo, I said, Tatiana, gorgeous. 134 00:05:13,095 --> 00:05:14,575 I messaged her first and was like, hey. 135 00:05:14,662 --> 00:05:16,881 We had a short, little conversation. 136 00:05:16,968 --> 00:05:19,754 She gave me her Instagram, but the name is different. 137 00:05:19,841 --> 00:05:22,626 The age is different. The photo is different. 138 00:05:22,713 --> 00:05:24,367 And she's like, well, I don't want people 139 00:05:24,454 --> 00:05:27,370 in the area knowing that I'm on Tinder, so I'm like, 140 00:05:27,457 --> 00:05:28,676 well, okay, I can respect that. 141 00:05:28,763 --> 00:05:30,417 - So it didn't seem that strange to you? 142 00:05:30,504 --> 00:05:32,244 - Nope, it didn't seem strange at all. 143 00:05:32,332 --> 00:05:34,595 - It is... [laughter] 144 00:05:34,682 --> 00:05:36,074 For both of you. 145 00:05:36,161 --> 00:05:39,382 - It didn't seem strange, so everything was cool. 146 00:05:39,469 --> 00:05:41,515 We was just having regular conversations. 147 00:05:41,602 --> 00:05:45,083 It got to a point where it was like, my heart was fluttering. 148 00:05:45,170 --> 00:05:46,955 This girl was already, you know, like, showing me things 149 00:05:47,042 --> 00:05:48,652 that are, like, different. - Mm. 150 00:05:48,739 --> 00:05:51,133 - She didn't ask about money. She didn't ask about cars. 151 00:05:51,220 --> 00:05:52,482 She didn't ask about nothing like that. 152 00:05:52,569 --> 00:05:54,528 Most girls now in this generation, 153 00:05:54,615 --> 00:05:55,703 oh, if he don't drive, he not for me. 154 00:05:55,790 --> 00:05:57,487 If he don't got money, he's not for me. 155 00:05:57,574 --> 00:05:59,141 - Mm-hmm. 156 00:05:59,228 --> 00:06:00,969 - So, to hear of a female that's not worrying about that, 157 00:06:01,056 --> 00:06:03,275 it was like, mm, you know, this is somebody that you 158 00:06:03,363 --> 00:06:04,407 definitely want to pursue. 159 00:06:04,494 --> 00:06:06,627 Maybe this is the right person. 160 00:06:06,714 --> 00:06:09,543 So me and her were texting on Instagram for a little bit. 161 00:06:09,630 --> 00:06:11,327 I asked her, hey, let's FaceTime. 162 00:06:11,414 --> 00:06:13,547 We FaceTimed. I was looking at the ceiling. 163 00:06:13,634 --> 00:06:14,983 I was like, this is not FaceTime. 164 00:06:15,070 --> 00:06:17,115 She was sitting, like, with the phone right here. 165 00:06:17,202 --> 00:06:18,421 I'm like, you're talking, I can hear you, 166 00:06:18,508 --> 00:06:20,075 so I know you're near the phone. 167 00:06:20,162 --> 00:06:21,729 Your ceiling is beautiful, but I don't want to see it. 168 00:06:21,816 --> 00:06:23,208 I would rather see you. 169 00:06:23,295 --> 00:06:24,384 Would you put your face in the camera? 170 00:06:24,471 --> 00:06:25,907 - Right. - She pushed it off. 171 00:06:25,994 --> 00:06:26,951 So I'm like, well, I hung up the phone. 172 00:06:27,038 --> 00:06:28,823 - But you have talked to her... - Yeah. 173 00:06:28,910 --> 00:06:30,912 - Via at least FaceTime sort of audio? 174 00:06:30,999 --> 00:06:33,349 - Mm-hmm. Our conversations are never long. 175 00:06:33,436 --> 00:06:35,525 It's usually, like, three, four minutes, five minutes, max 176 00:06:35,612 --> 00:06:36,831 and immediately off the phone. 177 00:06:36,918 --> 00:06:38,223 - You have her phone number. 178 00:06:38,310 --> 00:06:39,747 - Yeah, I have her phone number. 179 00:06:39,834 --> 00:06:40,791 - Do you guys ever text on your phone? 180 00:06:40,878 --> 00:06:43,228 - Nope. - Where does she say she lives? 181 00:06:43,315 --> 00:06:44,795 - Based off the information she gives me, 182 00:06:44,882 --> 00:06:46,580 I know she lives somewhere in the vicinity. 183 00:06:46,667 --> 00:06:48,364 - What information are you referencing? 184 00:06:48,451 --> 00:06:49,757 - So she asked me to come meet her. 185 00:06:49,844 --> 00:06:51,367 - Oh. 186 00:06:51,454 --> 00:06:53,413 - And I was so excited because, you know, 187 00:06:53,500 --> 00:06:55,632 I asked multiple times, and she always, like, pushed it off. 188 00:06:55,719 --> 00:06:58,766 And she happened to name a local food market. 189 00:06:58,853 --> 00:06:59,854 I can walk there in, like, five minutes. 190 00:06:59,941 --> 00:07:01,203 - Wow. 191 00:07:01,290 --> 00:07:02,726 - It's called J & C's Food Market. 192 00:07:02,813 --> 00:07:04,641 I go there every single day, every single day. 193 00:07:04,728 --> 00:07:06,469 - So she said, we should meet at this market 194 00:07:06,556 --> 00:07:08,819 that you go to almost every day? 195 00:07:08,906 --> 00:07:11,082 - Every single day. I threw my clothes on, hopped in the car. 196 00:07:11,169 --> 00:07:13,258 I'm like, I'll be there in a couple minutes. 197 00:07:13,345 --> 00:07:14,869 So I get there. I have two photos. 198 00:07:14,956 --> 00:07:16,523 So I'm looking to see if there's anyone outside 199 00:07:16,610 --> 00:07:18,263 that fits the description. 200 00:07:18,350 --> 00:07:20,701 - And she had said come here as if she were already there? 201 00:07:20,788 --> 00:07:22,572 - Yes, I ordered me a cheesesteak. 202 00:07:22,659 --> 00:07:25,270 Best cheesesteak ever. You got to get one. 203 00:07:25,357 --> 00:07:27,838 Order one, waited for the food, sat there and ate my food. 204 00:07:27,925 --> 00:07:29,971 So now I've been at the store for about a hour. 205 00:07:30,058 --> 00:07:31,407 It got to the point where it was like, you know what? 206 00:07:31,494 --> 00:07:32,234 I'm out, and I'm leaving. 207 00:07:32,321 --> 00:07:34,192 Started driving home. 208 00:07:34,279 --> 00:07:36,586 Got a text message that said, I was at work. 209 00:07:36,673 --> 00:07:38,501 - What? - You're not there? 210 00:07:38,588 --> 00:07:40,024 You were still at work? 211 00:07:40,111 --> 00:07:41,417 You could have told me, listen, I get off work, 212 00:07:41,504 --> 00:07:42,897 you know, in, like, 15, 20 minutes. 213 00:07:42,984 --> 00:07:44,115 - Yeah, while you were getting ready, 214 00:07:44,202 --> 00:07:46,117 she could have been like, oh, hold your horses. 215 00:07:46,204 --> 00:07:47,336 I'm still at work. 216 00:07:47,423 --> 00:07:48,729 - Why have me come there and sit there 217 00:07:48,816 --> 00:07:50,774 expecting you to show up and you're not there? 218 00:07:50,861 --> 00:07:53,037 - Or was she there? - Or was she there? 219 00:07:53,124 --> 00:07:55,300 - 'Cause if you go to the same market every day, 220 00:07:55,387 --> 00:07:56,867 is there a possibility that you have, 221 00:07:56,954 --> 00:07:58,869 like, a secret admirer at this market? 222 00:07:58,956 --> 00:08:00,262 - I doubt it. 223 00:08:00,349 --> 00:08:02,046 - I'm trying to make sense of this. 224 00:08:02,133 --> 00:08:03,700 - So did I hear you say earlier you have two photos of her? 225 00:08:03,787 --> 00:08:05,223 - Yes. - Total? 226 00:08:05,310 --> 00:08:06,398 - Two different photos. 227 00:08:06,486 --> 00:08:07,835 - Wait. - Two different photos? 228 00:08:07,922 --> 00:08:09,184 - But she has an Instagram. 229 00:08:09,271 --> 00:08:10,577 - Yeah, and on Instagram, there's one photo. 230 00:08:10,664 --> 00:08:12,013 Besides the one off the Tinder and the one 231 00:08:12,100 --> 00:08:13,318 on Instagram, no photos, no-- 232 00:08:13,405 --> 00:08:15,407 - Oh, so she's never actually just sent 233 00:08:15,495 --> 00:08:17,932 you a picture that she took? - None. And I've asked. None. 234 00:08:18,019 --> 00:08:22,023 - So you see that this is all adding up to it very 235 00:08:22,110 --> 00:08:24,504 possibly not being her, right? 236 00:08:24,591 --> 00:08:26,244 - I'm hoping that she's one of the girls inside the pictures, 237 00:08:26,331 --> 00:08:28,116 because, like-- 238 00:08:28,203 --> 00:08:29,552 I'm hoping it's just one, because they both look good. 239 00:08:29,639 --> 00:08:31,423 - Yeah, but what if she's not one 240 00:08:31,511 --> 00:08:32,947 of the girls in the pictures? 241 00:08:33,034 --> 00:08:34,862 - The way we've been talking and texting, it's like-- 242 00:08:34,949 --> 00:08:36,907 like, it's-- ugh, like, oh, my Lord. 243 00:08:36,994 --> 00:08:39,475 Like, I love the personality. It's amazing. 244 00:08:39,562 --> 00:08:40,911 They're someone that I see a future with. 245 00:08:40,998 --> 00:08:43,261 I'm willing to talk about if the person is not 246 00:08:43,348 --> 00:08:45,263 in either one of the photos. - Mm-hmm. 247 00:08:45,350 --> 00:08:47,048 - I just want to know who I've been dating for five months. 248 00:08:47,135 --> 00:08:49,572 - All right, well, I am very curious to see the photos. 249 00:08:49,659 --> 00:08:51,487 - Do you want to see? - Yes. 250 00:08:51,574 --> 00:08:52,575 - Okay, so here we go. 251 00:08:52,662 --> 00:08:54,272 - Ooh, gorge. - Whoa. 252 00:08:54,359 --> 00:08:55,665 - Stunning. 253 00:08:55,752 --> 00:08:57,188 - So this is what was on her Tinder profile? 254 00:08:57,275 --> 00:08:58,538 - That's the Instagram. - Oh. 255 00:08:58,625 --> 00:09:00,017 - Like, that's the Instagram photo. 256 00:09:00,104 --> 00:09:01,628 - So this is Mira? - Yes. 257 00:09:01,715 --> 00:09:02,890 - And this is the one that she said was actually her? 258 00:09:02,977 --> 00:09:04,239 - That's the one she said was actually her. 259 00:09:04,326 --> 00:09:05,457 - Interesting. Okay. 260 00:09:05,545 --> 00:09:07,285 - And this was on Tinder. - Okay, so-- 261 00:09:07,372 --> 00:09:08,939 - Not the same girl. - No. 262 00:09:09,026 --> 00:09:10,680 - Not the same girl. - Both gorgeous. 263 00:09:10,767 --> 00:09:12,726 - I was like, both of them look good, 264 00:09:12,813 --> 00:09:14,466 so if either one is the girl, we can get married. 265 00:09:14,554 --> 00:09:16,164 - [laughs] - Wow. 266 00:09:16,251 --> 00:09:19,254 I mean, look, there's a lot of reasons to suspect 267 00:09:19,341 --> 00:09:22,300 that Mira is not exactly 268 00:09:22,387 --> 00:09:24,955 as she's described herself to be. 269 00:09:25,042 --> 00:09:28,742 It could be her pictures or even her gender or whatever. 270 00:09:28,829 --> 00:09:31,005 I mean, there's certainly a possibility 271 00:09:31,092 --> 00:09:33,137 that she's not exactly who she says she is. 272 00:09:33,224 --> 00:09:34,922 - Okay. 273 00:09:35,009 --> 00:09:37,315 - You seem scared. - No, I'm terrified. 274 00:09:37,402 --> 00:09:40,492 My insides is, like... 275 00:09:40,580 --> 00:09:42,930 It's like, I just want to know which one it is. 276 00:09:43,017 --> 00:09:44,584 - I still don't understand why you think 277 00:09:44,671 --> 00:09:46,934 it could be one of the two. 278 00:09:47,021 --> 00:09:48,544 - Just let me believe, okay? 279 00:09:48,631 --> 00:09:50,328 Let me have my hopes and dreams. 280 00:09:50,415 --> 00:09:51,982 [laughter] 281 00:09:52,069 --> 00:09:54,158 - All right, well, we'll do what we can. 282 00:09:54,245 --> 00:09:56,639 - Ignorance is bliss sometimes. - Yeah. 283 00:09:56,726 --> 00:09:58,423 - I'm gonna need your help. [laughter] 284 00:09:58,510 --> 00:10:00,077 - We'll see you tomorrow. 285 00:10:00,164 --> 00:10:02,384 Oh, boy. 286 00:10:02,471 --> 00:10:04,516 - She's obviously not the girl in either of those pictures 287 00:10:04,604 --> 00:10:06,301 and doesn't know how to tell him the truth. 288 00:10:06,388 --> 00:10:08,782 - The fact that she suggested going to the same market 289 00:10:08,869 --> 00:10:12,046 that he goes to every day, she has to know him. 290 00:10:12,133 --> 00:10:16,180 - Yeah, something tells me Shi is in for a big surprise. 291 00:10:19,575 --> 00:10:20,794 - It's a new day. - It's a new dawn. 292 00:10:20,881 --> 00:10:24,449 - We are here to serve... - Mm. 293 00:10:24,536 --> 00:10:26,495 - The greater purpose, guiding people 294 00:10:26,582 --> 00:10:30,281 back to the path of virtue. 295 00:10:30,368 --> 00:10:31,718 - Amen, pastor. 296 00:10:31,805 --> 00:10:34,938 - Shi has lost his way. - Mm. 297 00:10:35,025 --> 00:10:37,375 - He's been tempted by the devil. 298 00:10:37,462 --> 00:10:39,203 - Preach on, Nev. 299 00:10:39,290 --> 00:10:43,773 - Shi has lived a arguably sheltered life, 300 00:10:43,860 --> 00:10:47,995 but he does meet Tatiana, aka Mira. 301 00:10:48,082 --> 00:10:49,692 - Mm-hmm. 302 00:10:49,779 --> 00:10:51,085 - They've now been talking about six months. 303 00:10:51,172 --> 00:10:52,695 - Mm-hmm. 304 00:10:52,782 --> 00:10:54,044 - He feels a very strong connection and bond with her. 305 00:10:54,131 --> 00:10:56,481 - Yes. 306 00:10:56,568 --> 00:10:58,092 - Now, what's messed up is that there are a million red flags. 307 00:10:58,179 --> 00:10:59,920 - Yeah. - Flag, flag, flag, flag, flag. 308 00:11:00,007 --> 00:11:01,835 - Everywhere, everywhere, all over Philly. 309 00:11:01,922 --> 00:11:03,793 - Right. - Just lining the streets. 310 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,534 - She used a different picture on her Tinder profile 311 00:11:05,621 --> 00:11:06,970 and a different name and a different age. 312 00:11:07,057 --> 00:11:08,319 - Yes. - When they FaceTime, 313 00:11:08,406 --> 00:11:09,538 he doesn't see her. - Mm. 314 00:11:09,625 --> 00:11:11,583 - She's invited him to come meet her. 315 00:11:11,671 --> 00:11:13,629 He went--Oh, I wasn't there. I was at work. 316 00:11:13,716 --> 00:11:16,501 - And she lives, presumably, in his town. 317 00:11:16,588 --> 00:11:19,766 Like, that's not a coincidence. She's seen him before. 318 00:11:19,853 --> 00:11:21,332 - All right, let's see if we got an email here. 319 00:11:21,419 --> 00:11:23,117 We do. 320 00:11:23,204 --> 00:11:25,162 "Nev and Kamie, here's the information I've got for Mira. 321 00:11:25,249 --> 00:11:27,425 "The Tinder profile I met her on said her name was Tatiana, 322 00:11:27,512 --> 00:11:29,079 "and she was 19. 323 00:11:29,166 --> 00:11:30,907 "When we moved the conversation to Instagram, 324 00:11:30,994 --> 00:11:32,779 "the page said her name was Mira and that she was 21. 325 00:11:32,866 --> 00:11:34,606 "The phone number is here. 326 00:11:34,694 --> 00:11:36,521 "The corner store she wanted me to meet her at 327 00:11:36,608 --> 00:11:39,524 "is the J & C Food Market on 70th Street-- 328 00:11:39,611 --> 00:11:41,352 "It's in my neighborhood, and only people 329 00:11:41,439 --> 00:11:43,093 "there would know it. 330 00:11:43,180 --> 00:11:44,268 "I'll see you later today. I appreciate your help. 331 00:11:44,355 --> 00:11:46,009 Shi." 332 00:11:46,096 --> 00:11:47,184 So this was the Tinder profile pic. 333 00:11:47,271 --> 00:11:48,882 - Right. 334 00:11:48,969 --> 00:11:51,232 - And here's the other photo. - Mm-hmm. 335 00:11:51,319 --> 00:11:53,669 - Let's just start with a little image search. 336 00:11:53,756 --> 00:11:55,323 Let's see if we get any hits. 337 00:11:55,410 --> 00:11:57,238 - The girl with the braids is coming back immediately. 338 00:11:57,325 --> 00:11:58,761 - You think so? - 1,000%. 339 00:11:58,848 --> 00:12:00,371 - All right, well, let's start there, then. 340 00:12:00,458 --> 00:12:04,245 - She's probably got a TikTok with a bunch of followers. 341 00:12:04,332 --> 00:12:07,117 Boom. What did I say? 342 00:12:07,204 --> 00:12:10,381 No girl that looks like that is not all over the Internet. 343 00:12:10,468 --> 00:12:13,210 Who is she? - Who is she? 344 00:12:13,297 --> 00:12:15,865 - Links to a Twitter. This is her Twitter? 345 00:12:15,952 --> 00:12:18,694 - Why can't we find the source? 346 00:12:18,781 --> 00:12:20,522 Let's try a different one. 347 00:12:20,609 --> 00:12:22,916 Maybe it'll just take us to the source. 348 00:12:23,003 --> 00:12:24,395 Oh, okay, wait. 349 00:12:24,482 --> 00:12:26,484 - Pinterest, Pinterest, Pinterest. 350 00:12:26,571 --> 00:12:28,530 - Yeah, but that's not her Pinterest. 351 00:12:28,617 --> 00:12:30,097 Wow, this girl is all over the Internet. 352 00:12:30,184 --> 00:12:31,533 - Mm-hmm. 353 00:12:31,620 --> 00:12:33,100 - So why isn't she easier to find? 354 00:12:33,187 --> 00:12:35,058 - It's a bunch of people using her pictures. 355 00:12:35,145 --> 00:12:36,233 - Here's another picture of her. 356 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:38,888 - Look, someone else said, IG name, her "at"? 357 00:12:38,975 --> 00:12:40,324 Like, nobody can find this girl. 358 00:12:40,411 --> 00:12:42,196 Who is the woman? 359 00:12:42,283 --> 00:12:43,675 I wonder if I posted her on my Instagram, 360 00:12:43,763 --> 00:12:45,112 if somebody would know. 361 00:12:45,199 --> 00:12:48,463 - You could make an IG story. - "Stunner." 362 00:12:48,550 --> 00:12:49,899 - All right. 363 00:12:49,986 --> 00:12:52,772 Anyone know this queen's IG? 364 00:12:52,859 --> 00:12:54,817 - Okay. - All right, you posting? 365 00:12:54,904 --> 00:12:57,080 - Posting. Let us pray. 366 00:12:57,167 --> 00:12:58,952 Somebody knows her. 367 00:12:59,039 --> 00:13:00,954 Come on, come on. 368 00:13:01,041 --> 00:13:02,956 270 views so far. 369 00:13:03,043 --> 00:13:04,305 - And nothing? No responses? 370 00:13:04,392 --> 00:13:06,089 - Not yet. 371 00:13:06,176 --> 00:13:07,569 - All right, well, let's keep going. 372 00:13:07,656 --> 00:13:09,745 So we do have another photo-- we might as well look at that 373 00:13:09,832 --> 00:13:11,138 just so we can show him 374 00:13:11,225 --> 00:13:12,835 that it's definitely not that girl either. 375 00:13:12,922 --> 00:13:13,836 [cell phone beeps] - Oh. 376 00:13:13,923 --> 00:13:15,707 - Oh, oh, what? - Ah! 377 00:13:15,795 --> 00:13:17,753 "Nope, but, girl, is this for a 'Catfish' episode?" 378 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,234 - Is that someone you know? 379 00:13:20,321 --> 00:13:21,975 - No. 380 00:13:22,062 --> 00:13:24,107 - All right, let me just search this other girl. 381 00:13:24,194 --> 00:13:26,675 Tatiana, the Tinder profile pic. 382 00:13:26,762 --> 00:13:27,850 Okay, wait a second. 383 00:13:27,937 --> 00:13:29,634 Is this her? Does this-- 384 00:13:29,721 --> 00:13:31,941 - That doesn't look like her. - Are any of these this girl? 385 00:13:32,028 --> 00:13:34,378 both: No. [cell phone beeps] 386 00:13:34,465 --> 00:13:36,467 - Somebody said, "Girl, if you don't do a reverse image 387 00:13:36,554 --> 00:13:37,860 search and see what comes up." 388 00:13:37,947 --> 00:13:39,383 We've tried that. 389 00:13:39,470 --> 00:13:41,298 - I can't believe we're striking out on your IG. 390 00:13:41,385 --> 00:13:43,083 - No. 391 00:13:43,170 --> 00:13:45,346 - All right, let's take her phone number and search this. 392 00:13:45,433 --> 00:13:46,651 Search it now. 393 00:13:46,738 --> 00:13:49,524 - Ooh, [bleep]. Francesca [bleep]. 394 00:13:49,611 --> 00:13:52,744 - Francesca. That is an unusual name. 395 00:13:52,832 --> 00:13:54,311 It has them in their mid 40s. 396 00:13:54,398 --> 00:13:56,183 There's a current address... - Okay. 397 00:13:56,270 --> 00:13:57,880 - In Philadelphia. 398 00:13:57,967 --> 00:14:01,797 Let's search this now that we have the full name. 399 00:14:01,884 --> 00:14:04,234 All right, searching people. 400 00:14:04,321 --> 00:14:06,976 So we do city... 401 00:14:07,063 --> 00:14:10,501 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. 402 00:14:10,588 --> 00:14:12,634 - Nope, nothing. 403 00:14:12,721 --> 00:14:14,462 - You still don't have any answers, huh? 404 00:14:14,549 --> 00:14:16,377 - Someone said, "Tough times on 'Catfish'?" 405 00:14:16,464 --> 00:14:17,857 Yes. 406 00:14:17,944 --> 00:14:19,423 - All right, well, we have an address 407 00:14:19,510 --> 00:14:21,425 that came back associated with the phone number. 408 00:14:21,512 --> 00:14:23,471 - Mm-hmm. 409 00:14:23,558 --> 00:14:25,603 - Let's see if the address to the phone number 410 00:14:25,690 --> 00:14:27,040 is near that deli. 411 00:14:27,127 --> 00:14:29,738 - J & C Food Market on 70th Street. 412 00:14:29,825 --> 00:14:33,568 - J & C Food Market. 413 00:14:33,655 --> 00:14:35,439 Okay, South 70th. 414 00:14:35,526 --> 00:14:38,051 All right, great. 415 00:14:38,138 --> 00:14:41,532 Okay, so this is near where he lives. 416 00:14:41,619 --> 00:14:44,709 - Mm-hmm. - So where is that address? 417 00:14:44,796 --> 00:14:47,887 [dramatic music] 418 00:14:47,974 --> 00:14:50,454 Oh, my God. - Wait, what? 419 00:14:50,541 --> 00:14:52,282 That's, like, six blocks. 420 00:14:52,369 --> 00:14:54,632 - Near where Shi lives. - Yeah, that's nuts. 421 00:14:54,719 --> 00:14:56,286 Three-minute drive. 422 00:14:56,373 --> 00:15:00,464 - So she lives in the exact same neighborhood 423 00:15:00,551 --> 00:15:03,250 that Shi does. - If that's her. 424 00:15:03,337 --> 00:15:05,208 - I mean, the phone number he has for her comes back 425 00:15:05,295 --> 00:15:08,037 to an address that's blocks from the deli 426 00:15:08,124 --> 00:15:09,560 that she suggested they go to that he 427 00:15:09,647 --> 00:15:10,735 goes to almost every day. 428 00:15:10,822 --> 00:15:12,520 I think it could be someone he knows. 429 00:15:12,607 --> 00:15:14,174 We should go check out this deli... 430 00:15:14,261 --> 00:15:15,697 - Yeah. 431 00:15:15,784 --> 00:15:17,786 - And see if they know someone named Mira. 432 00:15:17,873 --> 00:15:20,832 Super low profile and just, you know, like, customers. 433 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,225 Hey, what's up? Oh. 434 00:15:22,312 --> 00:15:25,228 - Let me get a Philly cheesesteak. 435 00:15:25,315 --> 00:15:27,100 - We got a lot of questions. - Yeah. 436 00:15:27,187 --> 00:15:28,492 - Let's hit the streets. 437 00:15:31,234 --> 00:15:33,019 - All right, so what's our strategy? 438 00:15:33,106 --> 00:15:34,803 We're gonna scope out this market. 439 00:15:34,890 --> 00:15:36,457 I think we go in there super low key. 440 00:15:36,544 --> 00:15:38,154 - Mm-hmm. 441 00:15:38,241 --> 00:15:40,374 - You know, I'll start a conversation, I'll be friendly. 442 00:15:40,461 --> 00:15:42,202 Meanwhile, you be looking at the reactions 443 00:15:42,289 --> 00:15:44,639 from any of the staff... - Mm-hmm. 444 00:15:44,726 --> 00:15:47,294 - In case one of them gives us a tell to indicate 445 00:15:47,381 --> 00:15:48,599 that perhaps they might know more 446 00:15:48,686 --> 00:15:49,949 than they're willing to admit. 447 00:15:50,036 --> 00:15:52,603 - Casual. - Yeah, super casual. 448 00:15:52,690 --> 00:15:55,519 I think it's right... Is that it right there? 449 00:15:55,606 --> 00:15:58,218 All right, ready? - Yeah. 450 00:15:58,305 --> 00:15:59,697 Undercover. 451 00:15:59,784 --> 00:16:01,308 - Just walking into this deli for a sandwich. 452 00:16:01,395 --> 00:16:02,874 - Just two friends getting a sandwich. 453 00:16:02,962 --> 00:16:05,573 - Yeah. 454 00:16:05,660 --> 00:16:07,749 Hi. 455 00:16:07,836 --> 00:16:09,925 Can I get a sandwich? 456 00:16:10,012 --> 00:16:12,145 I want the beef cheesesteak. 457 00:16:12,232 --> 00:16:13,929 You know who we are? 458 00:16:14,016 --> 00:16:15,583 Have you seen our show? 459 00:16:15,670 --> 00:16:16,366 Okay, yeah. Okay. 460 00:16:16,453 --> 00:16:18,368 - Hey! 461 00:16:18,455 --> 00:16:20,109 - Well, because we didn't know, so... 462 00:16:20,196 --> 00:16:21,719 - We were trying to be undercover. 463 00:16:21,806 --> 00:16:23,634 It doesn't work anymore. 464 00:16:23,721 --> 00:16:24,853 - Because I've got my little camera, if you don't mind. 465 00:16:24,940 --> 00:16:26,637 I'm... - Yeah, yeah. 466 00:16:26,724 --> 00:16:28,639 - Yeah, okay. So we're filming an episode in town right now. 467 00:16:28,726 --> 00:16:30,119 - Okay. 468 00:16:30,206 --> 00:16:31,512 - And we're trying to help this guy... 469 00:16:31,599 --> 00:16:33,035 - Mm-hmm. 470 00:16:33,122 --> 00:16:35,037 - Who lives in the neighborhood, 471 00:16:35,124 --> 00:16:37,692 comes here a lot. - Okay. 472 00:16:37,779 --> 00:16:40,869 - And we think the girl he's talking to also lives 473 00:16:40,956 --> 00:16:43,698 in the neighborhood because she said to him, 474 00:16:43,785 --> 00:16:45,569 we should meet here one day for, like, a sandwich. 475 00:16:45,656 --> 00:16:47,789 - Mm-hmm. 476 00:16:47,876 --> 00:16:49,182 - So we were wondering if we could-- 477 00:16:49,269 --> 00:16:50,661 Do you have the phone? - Yeah. 478 00:16:50,748 --> 00:16:52,489 - If you've happened to have ever seen any of these girls 479 00:16:52,576 --> 00:16:53,751 just by any chance? 480 00:16:53,838 --> 00:16:55,492 We don't think it's this girl, 481 00:16:55,579 --> 00:16:58,669 but we're just curious if you've ever seen her. 482 00:16:58,756 --> 00:16:59,714 Okay. 483 00:16:59,801 --> 00:17:01,281 This--Oh, wait. 484 00:17:01,368 --> 00:17:03,457 This girl? 485 00:17:03,544 --> 00:17:05,981 No. She says her name is Mira. - Mira. 486 00:17:06,068 --> 00:17:08,592 - You don't know a girl named Mira? 487 00:17:08,679 --> 00:17:10,290 - Could her name be anything else? 488 00:17:10,377 --> 00:17:11,508 Tatiana. 489 00:17:11,595 --> 00:17:15,077 Oh, oh, oh, Francesca [bleep]. 490 00:17:15,164 --> 00:17:17,166 - Francesca? 491 00:17:17,253 --> 00:17:19,342 - Okay, so do you know this guy, though? 492 00:17:19,429 --> 00:17:21,214 His name is Shi. He goes by Shi. 493 00:17:21,301 --> 00:17:22,998 Here he is. 494 00:17:23,085 --> 00:17:24,434 - Oh, yeah. - Yeah? 495 00:17:24,521 --> 00:17:26,436 - You know him? - Yes, I do know him. 496 00:17:26,523 --> 00:17:27,829 - You recognize him? - Yes, he comes here a lot. 497 00:17:27,916 --> 00:17:29,004 He buys a lot of sandwiches and stuff. 498 00:17:29,091 --> 00:17:29,961 - Right. - All the time. 499 00:17:30,049 --> 00:17:31,398 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 500 00:17:31,485 --> 00:17:33,008 - And what, you like him? Is he a good guy? 501 00:17:33,095 --> 00:17:34,575 - Yeah. - Okay. 502 00:17:34,662 --> 00:17:35,532 - He's a great guy. - Do you have a crush on Shi? 503 00:17:35,619 --> 00:17:37,447 No. 504 00:17:37,534 --> 00:17:39,884 - Are you in a relationship? Okay, good for you. 505 00:17:39,971 --> 00:17:42,017 All right, well, thank you for your help. 506 00:17:42,104 --> 00:17:44,237 - Yeah. 507 00:17:44,324 --> 00:17:46,021 - Thank you. - [laughs] Thank you so much. 508 00:17:46,108 --> 00:17:48,023 Good to meet you. - Gracias. 509 00:17:48,110 --> 00:17:49,155 - Damn. 510 00:17:49,242 --> 00:17:50,939 Well... 511 00:17:51,026 --> 00:17:52,636 - All right, at least we got a Philly cheesesteak out of it. 512 00:17:52,723 --> 00:17:54,421 - Yes. - Oh, my goodness. 513 00:17:54,508 --> 00:17:58,077 Well, we didn't get a lot of info. 514 00:17:58,164 --> 00:17:59,469 - I feel like we're not getting any closer. 515 00:17:59,556 --> 00:18:01,384 - All right, well, either way, we should just 516 00:18:01,471 --> 00:18:03,865 let him know we're en route. - Yeah. 517 00:18:03,952 --> 00:18:07,216 [line trilling] 518 00:18:07,303 --> 00:18:11,002 Shi, we've got some updates. 519 00:18:11,090 --> 00:18:14,049 All right, we'll see you soon. 520 00:18:14,136 --> 00:18:15,398 - Bye. 521 00:18:15,485 --> 00:18:17,313 - All right, shall we? 522 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,141 [dramatic music] 523 00:18:22,318 --> 00:18:23,450 - Hey. 524 00:18:23,537 --> 00:18:24,842 - We brought a little extra something. 525 00:18:24,929 --> 00:18:28,237 I got to try this sandwich. 526 00:18:28,324 --> 00:18:29,586 Oh, my God, wow. 527 00:18:29,673 --> 00:18:31,849 I mean, that is-- - [laughs] 528 00:18:31,936 --> 00:18:34,330 - They said it was the best, and you said it was the best. 529 00:18:34,417 --> 00:18:36,202 - All right, well, let's head in, sit down, 530 00:18:36,289 --> 00:18:38,726 and talk about what we found. 531 00:18:38,813 --> 00:18:40,641 All right. 532 00:18:40,728 --> 00:18:42,425 What's up? How you feeling? 533 00:18:42,512 --> 00:18:43,818 - Nervous. 534 00:18:43,905 --> 00:18:46,037 Emotions are all over the place right now. 535 00:18:46,125 --> 00:18:47,952 - Well, why don't we show you what we found 536 00:18:48,039 --> 00:18:51,130 and figure out what to do? 537 00:18:51,217 --> 00:18:52,870 All right, so we took what we had, 538 00:18:52,957 --> 00:18:54,481 and we started first with pictures. 539 00:18:54,568 --> 00:18:56,570 And... - Mm-hmm. 540 00:18:56,657 --> 00:19:01,096 - The photo came back with a bunch of hits. 541 00:19:01,183 --> 00:19:04,447 Now, the weird thing is that we went through, I think, all 542 00:19:04,534 --> 00:19:06,188 of these, and she shows up in a lot, 543 00:19:06,275 --> 00:19:10,018 but we could not find any post that says, 544 00:19:10,105 --> 00:19:11,976 oh, this is so-and-so. 545 00:19:12,063 --> 00:19:13,935 - As you see, there's people commenting, "Instagram name?" 546 00:19:14,022 --> 00:19:15,545 "What's her 'at'?" 547 00:19:15,632 --> 00:19:17,504 Like, nobody knows. - Nobody knows. 548 00:19:17,591 --> 00:19:19,419 It's kind of wild. 549 00:19:19,506 --> 00:19:22,291 So it doesn't necessarily rule out that she could be Mira. 550 00:19:22,378 --> 00:19:25,338 But what it does tell us is that this girl 551 00:19:25,425 --> 00:19:27,644 has posted a lot of photos on the Internet. 552 00:19:27,731 --> 00:19:30,299 So why Mira would have only posted 553 00:19:30,386 --> 00:19:32,562 that one picture on her Instagram 554 00:19:32,649 --> 00:19:34,564 and/or not sent you other photos 555 00:19:34,651 --> 00:19:36,914 when there clearly are lots of them 556 00:19:37,001 --> 00:19:39,917 suggests that maybe you're not talking to this girl. 557 00:19:40,004 --> 00:19:42,746 ♪ ♪ 558 00:19:46,097 --> 00:19:48,099 [somber music] 559 00:19:48,187 --> 00:19:49,666 So then we thought, okay, let's go back to the other girl, 560 00:19:49,753 --> 00:19:51,059 then, the first girl. 561 00:19:51,146 --> 00:19:52,843 And that actually came back with no hits. 562 00:19:52,930 --> 00:19:54,671 Okay, fine. 563 00:19:54,758 --> 00:19:56,586 So then we moved on to the phone number. 564 00:19:56,673 --> 00:20:00,851 It came back to a Philadelphia cell phone, and age is 47. 565 00:20:00,938 --> 00:20:03,550 Now, I don't know if this address looks familiar, but-- 566 00:20:03,637 --> 00:20:06,727 - Or the name-- [bleep] Francesca. 567 00:20:06,814 --> 00:20:08,032 - Nothing? - No. 568 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:09,338 - Check this out. 569 00:20:09,425 --> 00:20:11,514 When we search that address to see 570 00:20:11,601 --> 00:20:13,951 how close it was to your favorite deli, 571 00:20:14,038 --> 00:20:17,477 it's, like, five blocks. 572 00:20:17,564 --> 00:20:20,523 So your suspicion that whoever she is, 573 00:20:20,610 --> 00:20:22,482 she probably lives in the neighborhood 574 00:20:22,569 --> 00:20:25,049 seems to be right, because you live close to the deli, right? 575 00:20:25,136 --> 00:20:27,095 You're blocks from each other. - Yeah. 576 00:20:27,182 --> 00:20:29,010 - You live that close, 577 00:20:29,097 --> 00:20:31,621 and you've been pushing off seeing me for this long? 578 00:20:31,708 --> 00:20:33,971 Like, come on. Like, now it's just, like-- 579 00:20:34,058 --> 00:20:36,409 - But this makes us feel even more 580 00:20:36,496 --> 00:20:38,933 that it could be someone that you do know. 581 00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:42,284 ♪ ♪ 582 00:20:42,371 --> 00:20:45,635 I mean, at this point, you have to kind of accept that you... 583 00:20:45,722 --> 00:20:48,029 maybe know nothing about this girl 584 00:20:48,116 --> 00:20:50,292 and that everything she's told you is a total lie. 585 00:20:50,379 --> 00:20:52,773 - ♪ When will I know ♪ 586 00:20:52,860 --> 00:20:55,602 ♪ When enough time has passed? ♪ 587 00:20:55,689 --> 00:20:57,647 - Shi, you look so sad. 588 00:20:57,734 --> 00:21:00,476 - "Sad" is... [scoffs] 589 00:21:00,563 --> 00:21:02,739 "Sad" is not even the word after finding out the person 590 00:21:02,826 --> 00:21:04,741 that I've been talking to for the last couple of months 591 00:21:04,828 --> 00:21:06,830 may not be the person I've been talking to. 592 00:21:06,917 --> 00:21:10,486 - ♪ When I'm lonely and bored ♪ 593 00:21:10,573 --> 00:21:13,054 ♪ And I won't shed a tear ♪ 594 00:21:13,141 --> 00:21:14,621 Like, it makes me feel 595 00:21:14,708 --> 00:21:17,232 like I kind of set myself up for this. 596 00:21:17,319 --> 00:21:20,931 I've been, like, bullshitted the last... 597 00:21:21,018 --> 00:21:23,325 I've been bullshitted the last couple of months. 598 00:21:23,412 --> 00:21:26,459 Now it's like, everything that we talked about-- 599 00:21:26,546 --> 00:21:28,025 bullshit. 600 00:21:28,112 --> 00:21:31,507 - ♪ I'm not sorry for making a mess ♪ 601 00:21:31,594 --> 00:21:35,076 ♪ And I hope you find love in the end ♪ 602 00:21:38,949 --> 00:21:41,169 - The person you've been talking to lives potentially 603 00:21:41,256 --> 00:21:43,302 very close to you but clearly has been 604 00:21:43,389 --> 00:21:45,391 avoiding meeting up with you. 605 00:21:45,478 --> 00:21:49,177 So they've obviously been avoiding you for a reason. 606 00:21:49,264 --> 00:21:52,659 So our only option now is just to reach out to Mira 607 00:21:52,746 --> 00:21:54,922 and see what she says. 608 00:21:55,009 --> 00:21:56,706 - Yeah. 609 00:21:56,793 --> 00:21:58,665 - How are you feeling? 610 00:21:58,752 --> 00:22:00,754 - A bit pissed, a bit upset. 611 00:22:00,841 --> 00:22:03,278 Like, emotions are... 612 00:22:03,365 --> 00:22:06,716 So it's like, I'm now-- it's like, 613 00:22:06,803 --> 00:22:09,502 now I'm kind of preparing for the worst now. 614 00:22:09,589 --> 00:22:11,634 - All right, well, let's text her. 615 00:22:11,721 --> 00:22:13,462 "Hey, Mira. 616 00:22:13,549 --> 00:22:17,292 "This is Nev from 'Catfish.' 617 00:22:17,379 --> 00:22:22,210 "I'm here in Philly with Shi 618 00:22:22,297 --> 00:22:24,125 "and would love 619 00:22:24,212 --> 00:22:28,738 "to speak with you. 620 00:22:28,825 --> 00:22:29,870 [cell phone bloops] 621 00:22:29,957 --> 00:22:31,480 All right, let's see what she says. 622 00:22:31,567 --> 00:22:32,481 - [sighs] 623 00:22:32,568 --> 00:22:34,483 - We've done everything we can. 624 00:22:34,570 --> 00:22:36,703 She might reach out to you and be like, what is this? 625 00:22:36,790 --> 00:22:39,488 Or if she gets back to us, I'll let you know. 626 00:22:39,575 --> 00:22:42,578 We do have the address from the phone number. 627 00:22:42,665 --> 00:22:45,842 But fingers crossed, one of us hears back from her. 628 00:22:45,929 --> 00:22:48,018 And I think we should just hope that tomorrow at some point, 629 00:22:48,105 --> 00:22:51,718 we'll just head over and meet her somewhere nearby. 630 00:22:51,805 --> 00:22:55,025 You all right? - [scoffs] I will be. 631 00:22:55,112 --> 00:22:57,941 [crying] It's gonna take a minute, but I will be. 632 00:22:58,028 --> 00:23:00,901 - [sighing] All right. 633 00:23:00,988 --> 00:23:03,860 [dramatic music] 634 00:23:03,947 --> 00:23:05,514 - It's gonna be okay. 635 00:23:05,601 --> 00:23:07,168 - All right, let me know if you hear anything. 636 00:23:07,255 --> 00:23:08,691 - Okay. - Bye. 637 00:23:08,778 --> 00:23:11,520 ♪ ♪ 638 00:23:11,607 --> 00:23:13,392 - [sighs] - I feel sad face emoji. 639 00:23:13,479 --> 00:23:14,654 - I know. 640 00:23:14,741 --> 00:23:17,396 The only reason they haven't met up 641 00:23:17,483 --> 00:23:20,181 is because she's clearly been lying to him. 642 00:23:20,268 --> 00:23:22,792 - Yeah. I think it's someone he knows. 643 00:23:22,879 --> 00:23:25,012 - I don't know what's going on here, 644 00:23:25,099 --> 00:23:28,145 but something tells me it is not gonna end well. 645 00:23:28,232 --> 00:23:33,150 ♪ ♪ 646 00:23:33,237 --> 00:23:36,284 [chuckles] Oh, I didn't even know you had a camera in here. 647 00:23:36,371 --> 00:23:37,720 - What do you want? Bothering me. 648 00:23:37,807 --> 00:23:39,113 - Okay, so wait a second. So look at this. 649 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,290 So I thought... 650 00:23:42,377 --> 00:23:44,205 that Mira texted me back. 651 00:23:44,292 --> 00:23:45,989 Mira has not responded. 652 00:23:46,076 --> 00:23:47,382 It's from a new number that says, 653 00:23:47,469 --> 00:23:50,559 "Hello, this is about Mira." 654 00:23:50,646 --> 00:23:52,605 - Okay. [laughs] - Okay? 655 00:23:52,692 --> 00:23:54,302 "Can you talk?" So I guess-- 656 00:23:54,389 --> 00:23:55,912 - What number is that? 657 00:23:55,999 --> 00:23:57,610 - I don't know. It's just a new number. 658 00:23:57,697 --> 00:23:59,307 [cell phone ringing] Oh, here we go, here we go. 659 00:23:59,394 --> 00:24:03,093 Levittown, Pennsylvania. 660 00:24:03,180 --> 00:24:04,965 Hello. 661 00:24:05,052 --> 00:24:06,096 I'm great. 662 00:24:06,183 --> 00:24:07,533 Who is this? 663 00:24:10,492 --> 00:24:12,625 Oh, great. Hi, how you doing? 664 00:24:16,716 --> 00:24:17,456 Sure. 665 00:24:23,026 --> 00:24:25,464 [echoing oddly] I mean, look, we've already prepared Shi 666 00:24:25,551 --> 00:24:27,596 for the very real possibility 667 00:24:27,683 --> 00:24:30,164 that Mira is not who he thinks she is. 668 00:24:30,251 --> 00:24:32,732 He's disappointed, but I don't think he's angry. 669 00:24:32,819 --> 00:24:35,430 And I think as long as, you know, she agrees to meet us, 670 00:24:35,517 --> 00:24:39,086 he'll be as understanding as he can be. 671 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,183 Sure. 672 00:24:49,270 --> 00:24:52,099 Okay, good night. 673 00:24:52,186 --> 00:24:54,971 - I don't think Emoni is Mira. - I don't think so either. 674 00:24:55,058 --> 00:24:58,497 - I think she had "Mira" on speaker, like, was listening. 675 00:24:58,584 --> 00:25:00,020 - Oh. 676 00:25:00,107 --> 00:25:01,500 - Like, I think that's why we were hearing that-- 677 00:25:01,587 --> 00:25:02,413 - That was a little echo. - Yeah. 678 00:25:02,501 --> 00:25:05,242 Basically, they want to know, 679 00:25:05,329 --> 00:25:07,375 is Shi gonna be fucking pissed... 680 00:25:07,462 --> 00:25:08,811 - Right, right. 681 00:25:08,898 --> 00:25:10,509 - When this girl shows up 682 00:25:10,596 --> 00:25:13,033 and she's not at all who she claims to be? 683 00:25:13,120 --> 00:25:14,904 - Let's call Shi really fast and just let him know. 684 00:25:14,991 --> 00:25:18,038 [line trilling] 685 00:25:18,125 --> 00:25:19,648 Shi-Shi? 686 00:25:19,735 --> 00:25:21,171 Kamie and I just had a conversation 687 00:25:21,258 --> 00:25:23,739 with some girl named-- - Emoni. 688 00:25:23,826 --> 00:25:28,483 - Emoni, who I guess is a friend of Mira's. 689 00:25:28,570 --> 00:25:30,311 Emoni is going to talk to her friend, Mira, 690 00:25:30,398 --> 00:25:33,444 and tell her hopefully that we come in peace and that, 691 00:25:33,532 --> 00:25:35,838 like, she should meet with us. 692 00:25:35,925 --> 00:25:38,014 Why don't you just plan on meeting us here 693 00:25:38,101 --> 00:25:41,931 at the hotel in the morning so that we can all be together 694 00:25:42,018 --> 00:25:45,892 and roll out together? 695 00:25:45,979 --> 00:25:48,024 All right. All right, good night. 696 00:25:48,111 --> 00:25:50,070 - Good night. - Tomorrow is the day. 697 00:25:50,157 --> 00:25:51,462 - For what? 698 00:25:51,550 --> 00:25:54,161 - Something. - Mayhem. 699 00:25:54,248 --> 00:25:55,554 [cell phone chimes] 700 00:25:55,641 --> 00:25:57,686 - Oh, wait a second. Here's Emoni. 701 00:25:57,773 --> 00:25:59,340 She said, "Hello, good morning. 702 00:25:59,427 --> 00:26:02,299 I've talked to Mira. She's nervous." 703 00:26:02,386 --> 00:26:04,345 - That was your job, Emoni, was to massage the nerves. 704 00:26:04,432 --> 00:26:06,129 [cell phone chimes] 705 00:26:06,216 --> 00:26:08,436 - Oh, she sent an address in Blackwood, New Jersey. 706 00:26:08,523 --> 00:26:10,177 Okay, so it's across the river. 707 00:26:10,264 --> 00:26:13,310 And she said, "We'll be there any time after noon." 708 00:26:13,397 --> 00:26:14,921 - "We'll be there"? 709 00:26:15,008 --> 00:26:16,313 - "We will be there." 710 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,186 So I guess she's coming with Mira. 711 00:26:19,273 --> 00:26:21,971 - I don't want any more duo Catfish meetups. 712 00:26:22,058 --> 00:26:24,408 [cell phone chimes] - Shi just texted. 713 00:26:24,495 --> 00:26:25,584 He's pulling up now. 714 00:26:25,671 --> 00:26:27,934 You ready? 715 00:26:28,021 --> 00:26:29,326 - Yella. 716 00:26:29,413 --> 00:26:32,199 ♪ ♪ 717 00:26:32,286 --> 00:26:35,724 Holler! [laughter] 718 00:26:35,811 --> 00:26:38,161 Hey, Shi. 719 00:26:38,248 --> 00:26:39,859 Hello. - Let's get in the car. 720 00:26:39,946 --> 00:26:41,121 You sit in the front. 721 00:26:41,208 --> 00:26:44,124 ♪ ♪ 722 00:26:44,211 --> 00:26:46,822 All right, remember last night when I called you 723 00:26:46,909 --> 00:26:49,216 and we talked about how this girl had called, 724 00:26:49,303 --> 00:26:51,522 friends with Mira? - Yeah. 725 00:26:51,610 --> 00:26:53,263 - She's the one who was like, 726 00:26:53,350 --> 00:26:55,135 "I talked to Mira about some of what you guys discussed. 727 00:26:55,222 --> 00:26:56,789 "She's nervous. 728 00:26:56,876 --> 00:26:58,747 But I have a location you can come to." 729 00:26:58,834 --> 00:27:00,967 And it's in New Jersey. It's in Blackwood. 730 00:27:01,054 --> 00:27:04,100 You know anyone in Blackwood? - No. 731 00:27:04,187 --> 00:27:07,016 - And she wrote, "We will be there any time after--" 732 00:27:07,103 --> 00:27:12,152 So it sounds like Emoni and Mira are gonna be together. 733 00:27:12,239 --> 00:27:13,632 - Okay. - All right? 734 00:27:13,719 --> 00:27:15,242 You good to go? - Yes. 735 00:27:15,329 --> 00:27:16,983 - Okay. - There's a chance that Emoni 736 00:27:17,070 --> 00:27:18,419 could just be a supportive friend, 737 00:27:18,506 --> 00:27:20,247 and there's also a chance 738 00:27:20,334 --> 00:27:22,597 that there could be two people that you've been 739 00:27:22,684 --> 00:27:24,468 talking to this whole time. 740 00:27:24,555 --> 00:27:26,122 - That would be weird. 741 00:27:26,209 --> 00:27:28,908 Why am I talking to two different people? 742 00:27:28,995 --> 00:27:30,910 - Well, I mean, we've seen it before, where people are like, 743 00:27:30,997 --> 00:27:32,607 oh, it was just a joke, 744 00:27:32,694 --> 00:27:34,696 and then it spun out of control and-- 745 00:27:34,783 --> 00:27:36,567 - It is not a joke playing with someone's feelings. 746 00:27:36,655 --> 00:27:38,134 - Right. 747 00:27:38,221 --> 00:27:39,266 - We won't know until we get there. 748 00:27:39,353 --> 00:27:40,920 - Yeah. 749 00:27:42,573 --> 00:27:44,358 - All right, welcome to New Jersey. 750 00:27:44,445 --> 00:27:46,882 ♪ ♪ 751 00:27:46,969 --> 00:27:49,711 Wow. These are nice houses. 752 00:27:49,798 --> 00:27:54,542 Okay, well, I guess this is it. 753 00:27:54,629 --> 00:27:56,805 How you feeling? - Nervous is an understatement. 754 00:27:56,892 --> 00:27:59,721 - Yeah. All right, shall we? 755 00:27:59,808 --> 00:28:01,331 - Yes, we shall. 756 00:28:01,418 --> 00:28:03,899 ♪ ♪ 757 00:28:03,986 --> 00:28:05,248 - Check it out. 758 00:28:05,335 --> 00:28:07,903 ♪ ♪ 759 00:28:07,990 --> 00:28:11,167 [doorbell chiming] 760 00:28:11,254 --> 00:28:12,995 [speaks indistinctly] 761 00:28:13,082 --> 00:28:15,215 I feel like I hear something. - You hear something? 762 00:28:15,302 --> 00:28:17,391 [door opens] Oh. 763 00:28:19,828 --> 00:28:22,701 - Oh, sure. 764 00:28:22,788 --> 00:28:23,832 - What? 765 00:28:23,919 --> 00:28:26,008 - A pretty young woman, nice smile. 766 00:28:26,095 --> 00:28:27,836 Sounds like the girl from the phone call. 767 00:28:27,923 --> 00:28:29,925 I think this might be Emoni. 768 00:28:30,012 --> 00:28:31,666 She said, one moment. 769 00:28:31,753 --> 00:28:33,407 - What are we waiting for? 770 00:28:33,494 --> 00:28:39,326 ♪ ♪ 771 00:28:39,413 --> 00:28:40,936 - Hi. 772 00:28:44,461 --> 00:28:47,334 - She said, one moment. - What are we waiting for? 773 00:28:47,421 --> 00:28:50,250 [dramatic music] 774 00:28:50,337 --> 00:28:52,643 - Hi. - Hi. 775 00:28:52,731 --> 00:28:54,689 - And you must be Mira? - Yeah. 776 00:28:54,776 --> 00:28:57,126 - You know her? - No. 777 00:28:57,213 --> 00:28:58,693 - Nice to meet you. 778 00:28:58,780 --> 00:29:01,087 A moment ago, was that your friend Emoni? 779 00:29:01,174 --> 00:29:03,567 - That's Emoni, yeah. 780 00:29:03,654 --> 00:29:06,483 - Come on down. 781 00:29:06,570 --> 00:29:08,747 - Hi. I'm Kamie. 782 00:29:08,834 --> 00:29:10,923 - Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you, too. 783 00:29:11,010 --> 00:29:13,708 - And this, as you know, is Shi. 784 00:29:13,795 --> 00:29:16,015 Do you guys know each other? 785 00:29:16,102 --> 00:29:17,320 - No. 786 00:29:17,407 --> 00:29:19,061 - Okay. 787 00:29:19,148 --> 00:29:22,021 - I'm not the person in the picture, obviously. 788 00:29:22,108 --> 00:29:23,544 - Okay. 789 00:29:23,631 --> 00:29:25,894 Just to be clear, you've been the one talking to Shi? 790 00:29:25,981 --> 00:29:29,942 - Yeah, but my name is not Mira. 791 00:29:30,029 --> 00:29:32,161 - Okay, what is your name? - My name's Shiona. 792 00:29:32,248 --> 00:29:34,294 - Shiona? 793 00:29:34,381 --> 00:29:35,686 - I'm from Philly. 794 00:29:35,774 --> 00:29:37,340 - Okay. 795 00:29:37,427 --> 00:29:40,517 So is this Emoni's house, then? - Yeah. 796 00:29:40,604 --> 00:29:42,041 - We live in the same city. 797 00:29:42,128 --> 00:29:43,869 Meeting you in person, you still look good. 798 00:29:43,956 --> 00:29:45,305 - Right. - You could have just sent me 799 00:29:45,392 --> 00:29:47,176 a regular photo of you, and I'd have said-- 800 00:29:47,263 --> 00:29:49,222 - It was like, I didn't want to give my real identity 801 00:29:49,309 --> 00:29:51,137 because I just was scared 802 00:29:51,224 --> 00:29:53,313 of how it would be, like, in person. 803 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,795 I wanted somebody, you know, tall enough for me, 804 00:29:56,882 --> 00:30:00,886 and I didn't know how it was gonna be in person. 805 00:30:00,973 --> 00:30:03,453 But I don't think you're tall enough for me. 806 00:30:03,540 --> 00:30:04,933 - What? 807 00:30:05,020 --> 00:30:07,022 - I mean, you could have asked my height. 808 00:30:07,109 --> 00:30:09,155 If I wasn't-- you could have asked my height, something-- 809 00:30:09,242 --> 00:30:10,504 - If you're looking for tall guys-- 810 00:30:10,591 --> 00:30:12,027 - You could have just told me that. 811 00:30:12,114 --> 00:30:13,333 Like, this shit all could have been avoided 812 00:30:13,420 --> 00:30:15,161 if you would have just-- listen, I want a tall guy. 813 00:30:15,248 --> 00:30:17,032 Hey, I'm 6 foot. 814 00:30:17,119 --> 00:30:19,600 Instead of, you know, pursuing and me building feelings 815 00:30:19,687 --> 00:30:21,384 and, you know, growing an attachment 816 00:30:21,471 --> 00:30:23,256 to somebody who doesn't like me because I'm not tall. 817 00:30:23,343 --> 00:30:26,172 Like, I didn't choose to come out not tall. 818 00:30:26,259 --> 00:30:30,393 - You seem annoyed with him because he's not as tall 819 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,787 as you'd like him to be. - Right. 820 00:30:32,874 --> 00:30:34,702 - But that was never part of your discussion, 821 00:30:34,789 --> 00:30:36,878 and you knew what he looked like. 822 00:30:36,965 --> 00:30:39,446 You're also not the person you showed pictures of, 823 00:30:39,533 --> 00:30:42,623 so it makes sense that he's confused right now. 824 00:30:42,710 --> 00:30:45,234 He's just trying to figure out if the last six months 825 00:30:45,321 --> 00:30:49,804 meant anything to you or if it was all just some joke. 826 00:30:49,891 --> 00:30:52,502 - First off, I wasn't the one that matched you. 827 00:30:52,589 --> 00:30:54,504 ♪ ♪ 828 00:30:54,591 --> 00:30:56,245 It was Emoni. 829 00:30:56,332 --> 00:31:00,032 - So tell Emoni to come on outside, please. 830 00:31:00,119 --> 00:31:01,816 ♪ ♪ 831 00:31:01,903 --> 00:31:03,992 - Emoni? 832 00:31:04,079 --> 00:31:06,342 - So I've been texting the wrong girl. 833 00:31:06,429 --> 00:31:13,306 ♪ ♪ 834 00:31:14,873 --> 00:31:16,831 - Hi. 835 00:31:16,918 --> 00:31:19,051 - Help us understand what happened. 836 00:31:19,138 --> 00:31:21,749 - Okay, well, I was the one who started the Tinder page... 837 00:31:21,836 --> 00:31:23,664 - Okay. - Initially. 838 00:31:23,751 --> 00:31:25,535 - But why make a fake Tinder profile? 839 00:31:25,622 --> 00:31:27,059 - I wasn't. 840 00:31:27,146 --> 00:31:29,539 It was just for entertainment, really. 841 00:31:29,626 --> 00:31:31,672 And then when I stopped texting him, she started. 842 00:31:31,759 --> 00:31:34,109 And it was like, she kind of felt like-- 843 00:31:34,196 --> 00:31:35,850 had interest in him. - I liked texting you. 844 00:31:35,937 --> 00:31:37,199 - She's seeing what he was saying and yeah. 845 00:31:37,286 --> 00:31:39,245 - You wanted to keep talking to him 846 00:31:39,332 --> 00:31:40,811 and then made the fake Instagram? 847 00:31:40,899 --> 00:31:42,335 Or you already had a fake Instagram? 848 00:31:42,422 --> 00:31:43,727 - I already had a Insta. 849 00:31:43,814 --> 00:31:45,555 Like, I already had a Finsta page. 850 00:31:45,642 --> 00:31:48,080 And she was like, he's cool and stuff like that. 851 00:31:48,167 --> 00:31:50,517 - But after she established the connection 852 00:31:50,604 --> 00:31:51,866 with the fake profile, 853 00:31:51,953 --> 00:31:53,215 if you wanted to keep talking to him, 854 00:31:53,302 --> 00:31:55,435 why didn't you just say, hey, you know, 855 00:31:55,522 --> 00:31:57,524 that was my friend, she was doing some dumb shit, 856 00:31:57,611 --> 00:31:59,047 but this is really me? 857 00:31:59,134 --> 00:32:00,962 Because, like, you're beautiful. 858 00:32:01,049 --> 00:32:03,008 - I didn't want him to go around saying that I'm 859 00:32:03,095 --> 00:32:05,227 on Tinder and I'm on-- - What? Who cares? 860 00:32:05,314 --> 00:32:07,926 - I mean, like, we live in the same city, 861 00:32:08,013 --> 00:32:10,885 but it's like, I was insecure. 862 00:32:10,972 --> 00:32:12,060 - Okay. 863 00:32:12,147 --> 00:32:14,062 - So, like, what do you have to say? 864 00:32:14,149 --> 00:32:15,846 Like, why are you just standing here? 865 00:32:15,934 --> 00:32:17,805 - I just want to know if the last, what, 866 00:32:17,892 --> 00:32:19,894 five months, six months we been texting has been fake or real? 867 00:32:19,981 --> 00:32:21,504 Because for me, it's been real. 868 00:32:21,591 --> 00:32:22,592 Five months of my time, you know, for nothing. 869 00:32:22,679 --> 00:32:24,203 - [laughs] - Right. 870 00:32:24,290 --> 00:32:25,595 - So, like, that's-- - How is that funny? 871 00:32:25,682 --> 00:32:28,207 - That's the issue is like-- - I can't do this no more. 872 00:32:28,294 --> 00:32:29,556 - Do what? 873 00:32:29,643 --> 00:32:31,819 Tell the truth? What? 874 00:32:31,906 --> 00:32:34,343 - Well-- - Emoni, go get your friend. 875 00:32:34,430 --> 00:32:36,519 Go ahead. 876 00:32:36,606 --> 00:32:38,913 - This is fucking ridiculous. [exhales sharply] 877 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:40,262 I want to punch the fucking wall right now. 878 00:32:40,349 --> 00:32:42,569 - She's annoyed with you. - I'm confused. 879 00:32:42,656 --> 00:32:44,527 Did you lie and say you were taller? 880 00:32:44,614 --> 00:32:45,920 - No. - It doesn't matter. 881 00:32:46,007 --> 00:32:48,444 - It doesn't even matter. - It doesn't matter. 882 00:32:48,531 --> 00:32:50,577 I think she's being offensive and just, like, trying 883 00:32:50,664 --> 00:32:53,493 to make it your problem instead of acknowledging 884 00:32:53,580 --> 00:32:54,624 what she's done. 885 00:32:54,711 --> 00:32:58,237 ♪ ♪ 886 00:32:58,324 --> 00:32:59,542 Welcome back. 887 00:32:59,629 --> 00:33:01,544 - I'm sorry. I'm just a little nervous. 888 00:33:01,631 --> 00:33:06,332 But it was really me talking to you and texting you every day. 889 00:33:06,419 --> 00:33:08,769 And I really appreciate how you was texting me. 890 00:33:08,856 --> 00:33:10,989 You're a nice person, you are, 891 00:33:11,076 --> 00:33:13,948 but I don't know you like that. 892 00:33:14,035 --> 00:33:17,865 So, I mean, I don't know what else to say. 893 00:33:17,952 --> 00:33:19,867 - You don't think that the connection that you guys had 894 00:33:19,954 --> 00:33:21,608 meant anything? - No. 895 00:33:21,695 --> 00:33:23,218 I don't think it meant anything to me. 896 00:33:23,305 --> 00:33:24,698 It just went too far. 897 00:33:24,785 --> 00:33:27,744 Like, I'm sorry 898 00:33:27,831 --> 00:33:32,314 But... [laughing] 899 00:33:32,401 --> 00:33:35,361 - This isn't fucking funny. 900 00:33:35,448 --> 00:33:38,538 - [laughing] I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 901 00:33:38,625 --> 00:33:42,150 I did try to stop texting him, but he blowed my phone up. 902 00:33:42,237 --> 00:33:44,239 What can I say? 903 00:33:44,326 --> 00:33:46,328 - Because he thought you were his girlfriend, that's why. 904 00:33:46,415 --> 00:33:48,200 He thought you were his girlfriend. 905 00:33:48,287 --> 00:33:50,854 And you were calling him your boyfriend. 906 00:33:50,941 --> 00:33:52,769 Like, if you weren't into him, 907 00:33:52,856 --> 00:33:55,250 then you could have stopped doing that, but you didn't. 908 00:33:55,337 --> 00:33:57,557 And I don't know what's so fucking funny. 909 00:33:57,644 --> 00:34:00,342 ♪ ♪ 910 00:34:00,429 --> 00:34:02,040 - [sobbing] 911 00:34:02,127 --> 00:34:04,433 - You just admitted that you liked talking to him. 912 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,001 - I do, like, enjoy texting him, 913 00:34:07,088 --> 00:34:09,525 but I don't think the feelings are real. 914 00:34:09,612 --> 00:34:12,746 I don't know what to say. Like, I apologize to him. 915 00:34:12,833 --> 00:34:14,965 - [sobbing] 916 00:34:15,053 --> 00:34:18,665 - But at the end of the day, we was in a fake relationship. 917 00:34:18,752 --> 00:34:19,796 It wasn't real. 918 00:34:22,495 --> 00:34:24,497 - Hang in there, buddy. 919 00:34:24,584 --> 00:34:31,721 ♪ ♪ 920 00:34:31,808 --> 00:34:34,985 - I wasted six months with somebody that it was a joke. 921 00:34:35,073 --> 00:34:37,945 [crying] 922 00:34:41,905 --> 00:34:44,169 - I wasted six months with somebody that it was a joke. 923 00:34:44,256 --> 00:34:47,128 [crying] 924 00:34:47,215 --> 00:34:51,176 Those six months was real to me. 925 00:34:51,263 --> 00:34:54,222 - I don't know what to say. Like, I apologize to him. 926 00:34:54,309 --> 00:34:57,573 But at the end of the day, we was in a fake relationship. 927 00:34:57,660 --> 00:34:59,575 It wasn't real. 928 00:34:59,662 --> 00:35:02,404 I'm not attracted to him like how I thought I was gonna be. 929 00:35:02,491 --> 00:35:04,450 - That's fine. - Right. 930 00:35:04,537 --> 00:35:06,016 So... - That's fine. 931 00:35:06,104 --> 00:35:08,584 - Yeah, I'm keeping it real. 932 00:35:08,671 --> 00:35:11,805 - That's fine, but it's the way that you do it. 933 00:35:11,892 --> 00:35:14,460 You don't have to be fucking rude. 934 00:35:14,547 --> 00:35:16,723 - I think it should have been more obvious to you... 935 00:35:16,810 --> 00:35:18,246 - Yeah. 936 00:35:18,333 --> 00:35:20,030 - That she probably wasn't the girl in the pictures. 937 00:35:20,118 --> 00:35:21,597 - Yeah. - But it's not crazy 938 00:35:21,684 --> 00:35:24,296 for you to feel like there was a real connection. 939 00:35:24,383 --> 00:35:25,384 - Yeah. 940 00:35:25,471 --> 00:35:27,429 - What's messed up is, like, now 941 00:35:27,516 --> 00:35:30,650 she's trying to weirdly play it off like it was nothing. 942 00:35:30,737 --> 00:35:32,434 It doesn't make any sense. 943 00:35:32,521 --> 00:35:34,697 - I should have just stopped it instead of just kept going, 944 00:35:34,784 --> 00:35:37,178 because, obviously, now he's hurt and-- 945 00:35:37,265 --> 00:35:38,440 - Well, of course he's hurt, 946 00:35:38,527 --> 00:35:39,963 'cause you're laughing in his face. 947 00:35:40,050 --> 00:35:41,530 That's not nice. - [chuckles] 948 00:35:41,617 --> 00:35:42,966 I'm laughing because I'm nervous. 949 00:35:43,053 --> 00:35:44,446 - I get if you're nervous. 950 00:35:44,533 --> 00:35:46,013 That's totally understandable, 951 00:35:46,100 --> 00:35:47,710 but, like, you have to say that, 952 00:35:47,797 --> 00:35:50,887 because, obviously, his feelings are hurt. 953 00:35:50,974 --> 00:35:54,152 - I think you should tell her, as clearly as you can, 954 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,589 what it meant to you and why this is fucked up. 955 00:35:56,676 --> 00:35:58,156 - Yeah. 956 00:35:58,243 --> 00:35:59,374 - Let me just check in with Kamie. 957 00:35:59,461 --> 00:36:00,767 - All right. 958 00:36:00,854 --> 00:36:03,944 - So you can just chill here for a second. 959 00:36:04,031 --> 00:36:07,252 - I guess you guys can come in and talk if you want to. 960 00:36:07,339 --> 00:36:08,905 - I would love for us to be able to sit down 961 00:36:08,992 --> 00:36:11,299 and talk with you, but I don't know if he's gonna want that. 962 00:36:11,386 --> 00:36:12,909 Why don't you go on inside and I'll figure 963 00:36:12,996 --> 00:36:14,824 out what we're gonna do? - Okay. 964 00:36:14,911 --> 00:36:18,393 ♪ ♪ 965 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,134 - I think 966 00:36:20,221 --> 00:36:24,791 we should just have one calm conversation to complete this. 967 00:36:24,878 --> 00:36:26,793 - Yeah. 968 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,404 She said she's been laughing so much because she's so nervous. 969 00:36:29,491 --> 00:36:30,753 I'm like, girl. - I mean... 970 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:32,146 - It might be true, 971 00:36:32,233 --> 00:36:34,235 but, like, you don't have to be fucking rude. 972 00:36:34,322 --> 00:36:36,803 ♪ ♪ 973 00:36:36,890 --> 00:36:39,327 - All right. Come on. 974 00:36:39,414 --> 00:36:42,591 - I think that she needs a bit of a reality check. 975 00:36:42,678 --> 00:36:45,507 Tell her exactly how it has made you feel 976 00:36:45,594 --> 00:36:47,117 and why it's not right. 977 00:36:47,205 --> 00:36:48,858 - Yeah. Let's just go in there. 978 00:36:48,945 --> 00:36:50,991 We'll get it over with, and we can move on with our lives. 979 00:36:51,078 --> 00:36:53,298 - It is what it is. 980 00:36:53,385 --> 00:36:55,604 Hey. - You guys can come in. 981 00:36:55,691 --> 00:36:57,780 ♪ ♪ 982 00:36:57,867 --> 00:36:59,521 - All right. 983 00:36:59,608 --> 00:37:01,131 We wanted to come back in here just to kind 984 00:37:01,219 --> 00:37:04,918 of make sure everyone's clear with what 985 00:37:05,005 --> 00:37:07,877 this was and what it wasn't. 986 00:37:07,964 --> 00:37:11,490 - Honestly, like, the conversations were real for me. 987 00:37:11,577 --> 00:37:13,448 To text somebody for, you know, a long period of time, 988 00:37:13,535 --> 00:37:15,276 four months, five months, six months, 989 00:37:15,363 --> 00:37:16,973 you develop feelings for them. 990 00:37:17,060 --> 00:37:19,193 Whether it was real for you or not, it was real for me. 991 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,804 I just-- [scoffs, sniffles] 992 00:37:21,891 --> 00:37:24,459 I'm just upset at the fact that, you know-- 993 00:37:24,546 --> 00:37:26,592 yeah, you know, I thought it was real, 994 00:37:26,679 --> 00:37:28,550 and it's like, it was a joke. 995 00:37:28,637 --> 00:37:30,117 It's not a joke to me. 996 00:37:30,204 --> 00:37:32,032 - I don't want to come off rude, 997 00:37:32,119 --> 00:37:34,861 and I ain't mean to laugh in your face about how you feel. 998 00:37:34,948 --> 00:37:36,471 I wasn't laughing about, you know, how you feel. 999 00:37:36,558 --> 00:37:38,560 I was laughing because I was nervous, obviously, 1000 00:37:38,647 --> 00:37:40,475 and you guys were asking me questions. 1001 00:37:40,562 --> 00:37:42,869 And I'm sorry that you caught feelings, 1002 00:37:42,956 --> 00:37:45,828 but it was just... 1003 00:37:45,915 --> 00:37:47,743 entertainment for me. 1004 00:37:49,789 --> 00:37:51,921 - Right. 1005 00:37:52,008 --> 00:37:54,446 - I think what's important to realize is you were having 1006 00:37:54,533 --> 00:37:57,492 your own experience, which was very different than his, 1007 00:37:57,579 --> 00:38:00,278 but he had assigned a lot of value to you. 1008 00:38:00,365 --> 00:38:02,062 If you're gonna talk to a guy, 1009 00:38:02,149 --> 00:38:04,804 don't assume that it doesn't mean anything to him. 1010 00:38:04,891 --> 00:38:06,762 - I didn't mean to hurt you. 1011 00:38:06,849 --> 00:38:09,939 I just want to start over and be friends. 1012 00:38:10,026 --> 00:38:11,898 I want a hug. 1013 00:38:11,985 --> 00:38:14,901 Like, I just want to accept an apology or not. 1014 00:38:14,988 --> 00:38:16,598 We could be really good friends, 1015 00:38:16,685 --> 00:38:18,644 and we could have fun with each other. 1016 00:38:18,731 --> 00:38:20,559 - Look, you might be frustrated that you're not getting, like, 1017 00:38:20,646 --> 00:38:22,474 an answer from him right now 1018 00:38:22,561 --> 00:38:24,171 or he's not accepting your apology 1019 00:38:24,258 --> 00:38:26,652 because he just fucking-- just found all this out. 1020 00:38:26,739 --> 00:38:28,218 You know what I mean? It's a lot for him. 1021 00:38:28,306 --> 00:38:29,872 - Mm-hmm. 1022 00:38:29,959 --> 00:38:32,919 - Being friends, it's not it for me 1023 00:38:33,006 --> 00:38:34,486 because I don't look at this like a friendship. 1024 00:38:34,573 --> 00:38:36,662 For me, it was never a friendship. 1025 00:38:36,749 --> 00:38:38,054 If it's somebody I'm interested in, 1026 00:38:38,141 --> 00:38:39,882 I'm gonna pursue that person and only talk to that person 1027 00:38:39,969 --> 00:38:41,493 and be interested in that person. 1028 00:38:41,580 --> 00:38:43,799 - Mm-hmm. 1029 00:38:43,886 --> 00:38:46,236 - ♪ Lately ♪ 1030 00:38:46,324 --> 00:38:48,761 - Okay, I guess that's that. 1031 00:38:48,848 --> 00:38:51,851 - ♪ All right ♪ 1032 00:38:51,938 --> 00:38:55,594 ♪ I'm moving on ♪ 1033 00:38:55,681 --> 00:38:59,293 - Good to meet you. - Uh-huh. 1034 00:38:59,380 --> 00:39:01,904 - ♪ Moving on ♪ 1035 00:39:01,991 --> 00:39:04,907 - That was a roller coaster. 1036 00:39:04,994 --> 00:39:06,518 - What if she tries to get in touch with you 1037 00:39:06,605 --> 00:39:08,041 and wants to be friends? 1038 00:39:08,128 --> 00:39:10,304 - We're still gonna not being friends--I'm good. 1039 00:39:10,391 --> 00:39:11,784 - You're just gonna walk away? - Yep, completely. 1040 00:39:11,871 --> 00:39:14,090 - I don't say that I blame you. 1041 00:39:14,177 --> 00:39:15,962 - You're a good guy. 1042 00:39:16,049 --> 00:39:17,485 And hopefully people will see the episode, 1043 00:39:17,572 --> 00:39:21,576 and the girls that are into you will reach out. 1044 00:39:21,663 --> 00:39:22,969 - Hopefully. 1045 00:39:23,056 --> 00:39:24,405 - ♪ Starting again ♪ 1046 00:39:24,492 --> 00:39:30,411 ♪ ♪ 1047 00:39:30,498 --> 00:39:31,412 [computer chimes] - Hey! 1048 00:39:31,499 --> 00:39:33,283 - Shi. - What's up, buddy? 1049 00:39:33,371 --> 00:39:34,807 - I'm just chilling. - How is everything? 1050 00:39:34,894 --> 00:39:36,330 - Things are very good. 1051 00:39:36,417 --> 00:39:37,766 Like, after, like, this whole experience, 1052 00:39:37,853 --> 00:39:39,551 I've actually, like, gone outside, 1053 00:39:39,638 --> 00:39:41,117 you know, and try and talk to people. 1054 00:39:41,204 --> 00:39:42,467 I'm not, you know, hiding behind the app. 1055 00:39:42,554 --> 00:39:44,860 Like, I deleted all dating apps. 1056 00:39:44,947 --> 00:39:46,688 Surprisingly, I went to ask someone for their number 1057 00:39:46,775 --> 00:39:48,124 and got told yes. 1058 00:39:48,211 --> 00:39:50,257 Like, my heart dropped when I asked. 1059 00:39:50,344 --> 00:39:53,565 But when she said yes, it was like, yes! 1060 00:39:53,652 --> 00:39:55,088 - Nice. - Aw. 1061 00:39:55,175 --> 00:39:57,046 - Like, this is how you do it. - You look great. 1062 00:39:57,133 --> 00:39:58,961 You look like a grown man. - What about Shiona? 1063 00:39:59,048 --> 00:40:00,702 - Your homegirl. 1064 00:40:00,789 --> 00:40:02,704 - After this scenario, I was angry. 1065 00:40:02,791 --> 00:40:04,489 Like, I was really upset and pissed off, 1066 00:40:04,576 --> 00:40:06,142 and I did block her. 1067 00:40:06,229 --> 00:40:08,101 But it was, like, the easy thing to do in any situation 1068 00:40:08,188 --> 00:40:09,755 is just to walk away from, but the harder thing to do 1069 00:40:09,842 --> 00:40:11,887 is to, you know, try to adjust from it. 1070 00:40:11,974 --> 00:40:13,323 So I unblocked her, 1071 00:40:13,411 --> 00:40:15,587 and then she sent me a message off her page. 1072 00:40:15,674 --> 00:40:17,066 - And she's apologized? 1073 00:40:17,153 --> 00:40:18,590 - Yes, actually, she's being nice. 1074 00:40:18,677 --> 00:40:20,200 - She's being nice to you? - Yes, it's very good. 1075 00:40:20,287 --> 00:40:21,462 - Okay. - Nice. 1076 00:40:21,549 --> 00:40:22,637 Nice to see you. 1077 00:40:22,724 --> 00:40:24,160 I'm glad to hear everything's going well. 1078 00:40:24,247 --> 00:40:26,075 - Thank you. 1079 00:40:26,162 --> 00:40:27,468 - If I'm in Philly, we'll meet up for some cheesesteaks. 1080 00:40:27,555 --> 00:40:28,730 - You don't got to tell me twice. 1081 00:40:28,817 --> 00:40:30,210 Later. - Bye. 1082 00:40:30,297 --> 00:40:31,341 [computer chimes] - Hey. 1083 00:40:31,429 --> 00:40:32,778 - Hey. - What's good? 1084 00:40:32,865 --> 00:40:35,041 - We just chatted with Shi. 1085 00:40:35,128 --> 00:40:37,130 I was happy to hear that you've sort of stayed in touch. 1086 00:40:37,217 --> 00:40:39,132 - Actually text me on my main page now. 1087 00:40:39,219 --> 00:40:42,135 - Do you feel any differently about how things went down? 1088 00:40:42,222 --> 00:40:44,398 Like, do you wish that you did things differently? 1089 00:40:44,485 --> 00:40:47,880 - I do feel bad for him, but I told him the truth. 1090 00:40:47,967 --> 00:40:49,795 That's all I could have done. 1091 00:40:49,882 --> 00:40:50,926 - Do you have any regrets about what happened? 1092 00:40:51,013 --> 00:40:52,928 - Yeah. 1093 00:40:53,015 --> 00:40:56,454 - I hope you're working on your approach, kindness, 1094 00:40:56,541 --> 00:40:59,195 and respect towards others. 1095 00:40:59,282 --> 00:41:00,762 - Right. - Well, good luck with that. 1096 00:41:00,849 --> 00:41:02,938 When we're down in Philly, we'll hit you up. 1097 00:41:03,025 --> 00:41:04,070 - All right. Thank you. 1098 00:41:04,157 --> 00:41:05,375 Have a nice day. Both: Bye. 1099 00:41:38,104 --> 00:41:39,409 - The first time I met Brittany, she came 1100 00:41:39,497 --> 00:41:40,585 through a drive-through I was working at. 1101 00:41:40,672 --> 00:41:42,151 - You saw her? - Yeah. 1102 00:41:42,238 --> 00:41:43,631 Then she hits me up on Snapchat. 1103 00:41:43,718 --> 00:41:45,981 - Wait, what? - He is way too trusting. 1104 00:41:46,068 --> 00:41:48,375 He's missing the gene that makes you suspicious. 1105 00:41:48,462 --> 00:41:49,724 - Mm. 1106 00:41:49,811 --> 00:41:51,117 - How much money did you send her? 1107 00:41:51,204 --> 00:41:52,553 - About 10,000. 1108 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:53,554 - He's literally hemorrhaging money. 1109 00:41:53,641 --> 00:41:55,643 - This is some diabolical shit.