1 00:00:02,536 --> 00:00:05,671 - This girl seems so dope, independent, ambitious. 2 00:00:05,740 --> 00:00:07,072 I'm like, "Okay." 3 00:00:07,141 --> 00:00:08,440 - Do you know who I'm talking about 4 00:00:08,509 --> 00:00:09,541 when I say, "Jesica Foxx"? 5 00:00:17,418 --> 00:00:18,550 - This could be her. 6 00:00:18,619 --> 00:00:20,019 This is the weirdest [bleep] in the world. 7 00:00:20,087 --> 00:00:21,520 - This is, like, a deeper thing 8 00:00:21,589 --> 00:00:23,489 than just somebody talking to you, 9 00:00:23,557 --> 00:00:25,290 because they have a crush on you. 10 00:00:25,359 --> 00:00:26,859 Hello. 11 00:00:26,927 --> 00:00:28,227 - Oh, [bleep]. 12 00:00:31,365 --> 00:00:33,265 - Hey. Look at this red room. 13 00:00:33,334 --> 00:00:35,467 - This is nice. Some color in our world. 14 00:00:35,536 --> 00:00:36,835 - Oh. 15 00:00:36,904 --> 00:00:38,937 - What the [bleep] is this? - A little awkward. 16 00:00:39,006 --> 00:00:41,807 - Guess that's--they didn't have two of these. 17 00:00:41,876 --> 00:00:43,642 [laughter] 18 00:00:43,711 --> 00:00:45,144 - You know what? I'm not sitting in that. 19 00:00:45,212 --> 00:00:46,178 That's not even a chair. 20 00:00:46,247 --> 00:00:47,613 - Well, that's your spot, Kamie. 21 00:00:47,681 --> 00:00:48,981 - That's not even a chair. I'll sit back here. 22 00:00:49,050 --> 00:00:50,482 - It is a chair. - No, it's not. 23 00:00:50,551 --> 00:00:52,084 If I get down, I'm not gonna be able to get back up. 24 00:00:52,153 --> 00:00:53,719 - I'll help you. 25 00:00:53,788 --> 00:00:54,987 - This is not a chair. 26 00:00:55,056 --> 00:00:56,889 - It's a camping chair. It's a-- 27 00:00:56,957 --> 00:00:58,857 - You think I've been camping ever in my life? 28 00:00:58,926 --> 00:01:01,293 - This is good. - Oof. 29 00:01:01,362 --> 00:01:03,729 - This is good. I think this works. 30 00:01:03,798 --> 00:01:06,231 - This is not cute. 31 00:01:06,300 --> 00:01:07,833 There better be a real chair. - Bring in the chair. 32 00:01:07,902 --> 00:01:09,201 Bring in the chair. 33 00:01:09,270 --> 00:01:10,636 - [laughs] 34 00:01:10,704 --> 00:01:12,337 Yeah. 35 00:01:12,406 --> 00:01:14,706 Well, now that I have a legitimate chair, 36 00:01:14,775 --> 00:01:16,308 maybe I could get a legitimate cohost? 37 00:01:16,377 --> 00:01:17,876 [both laugh] 38 00:01:17,945 --> 00:01:19,845 - All right. Let's get into this. 39 00:01:19,914 --> 00:01:21,613 We got an email here from Reese. 40 00:01:21,682 --> 00:01:23,849 "Great day, Nev and Kamie." 41 00:01:23,918 --> 00:01:26,485 Never have I ever heard that greeting. 42 00:01:26,554 --> 00:01:27,586 Why have a good day... 43 00:01:27,655 --> 00:01:28,854 - When you can have a great one. 44 00:01:28,923 --> 00:01:30,722 - "My name is Reese. 45 00:01:30,791 --> 00:01:32,157 "I'm 30 years old, 46 00:01:32,226 --> 00:01:34,660 "and I live in Asbury Park, New Jersey 47 00:01:34,728 --> 00:01:37,896 where I work as a fitness transformation coach." 48 00:01:37,965 --> 00:01:41,400 - ♪ Makes it hard, real hard, for yourself ♪ 49 00:01:41,469 --> 00:01:42,568 - Ooh. - Cool. 50 00:01:42,636 --> 00:01:43,635 "Five months ago, 51 00:01:43,704 --> 00:01:45,037 "I got a message on social media 52 00:01:45,106 --> 00:01:47,172 from a girl named Jesica Foxx." 53 00:01:47,241 --> 00:01:50,175 - ♪ You can be somebody to love ♪ 54 00:01:50,244 --> 00:01:52,111 - "Jesica is more than a snack. 55 00:01:52,179 --> 00:01:54,713 She's a 20-course meal." 56 00:01:54,782 --> 00:01:55,714 - Damn. 57 00:01:55,783 --> 00:01:57,416 - "This girl is beautiful, 58 00:01:57,485 --> 00:02:00,185 "ambitious, and intelligent. 59 00:02:00,254 --> 00:02:02,087 "We've been talking for five months, 60 00:02:02,156 --> 00:02:05,757 "but haven't met even though we live 25 minutes apart. 61 00:02:05,826 --> 00:02:07,526 "I'm not trying to pat myself on the back, 62 00:02:07,595 --> 00:02:10,195 "but I'm good-looking guy on the Shore, 63 00:02:10,264 --> 00:02:12,064 and I usually get what I want fairly quickly." 64 00:02:12,133 --> 00:02:13,499 - Mm. 65 00:02:13,567 --> 00:02:15,267 - "I've never had a woman who wasn't willing 66 00:02:15,336 --> 00:02:17,536 to make some time to get to know me." 67 00:02:17,605 --> 00:02:20,372 - ♪ You can be somebody to love ♪ 68 00:02:20,441 --> 00:02:21,940 - "It's driving me a little crazy." 69 00:02:22,009 --> 00:02:23,342 This is it. We talked about this. 70 00:02:23,410 --> 00:02:25,110 - This is what you gotta do. - You want to get a guy... 71 00:02:25,179 --> 00:02:26,745 - Give them nothing. - Give them nothing. 72 00:02:26,814 --> 00:02:28,981 "I'm not in love with her, but I'm in lust. 73 00:02:29,049 --> 00:02:31,083 And I can't get this girl outta my mind." 74 00:02:31,152 --> 00:02:33,952 - ♪ Don't go and chase all the stars ♪ 75 00:02:34,021 --> 00:02:35,454 - "I need answers now 76 00:02:35,523 --> 00:02:38,190 "because this week, there was also some weird stuff 77 00:02:38,259 --> 00:02:41,393 "going on with her phone number that had me concerned. 78 00:02:41,462 --> 00:02:42,895 "Maybe she's telling me the truth, 79 00:02:42,963 --> 00:02:45,230 "and her job is incredibly time-consuming, 80 00:02:45,299 --> 00:02:49,168 "but it's also possible that she's a catfish. 81 00:02:49,236 --> 00:02:51,003 "I hope you'll consider helping me out 82 00:02:51,071 --> 00:02:53,272 "because I've gotta know where I stand. 83 00:02:53,340 --> 00:02:55,574 With gratitude, Reese." 84 00:02:55,643 --> 00:02:57,276 - ♪ Somebody to love ♪ 85 00:02:57,344 --> 00:02:59,011 - Reese sounds lovely. - He does. 86 00:02:59,079 --> 00:03:00,712 - But I get wanting something 87 00:03:00,781 --> 00:03:03,282 that's so close, just can't have it. 88 00:03:03,350 --> 00:03:04,950 That's the--that's the best. That's the key. 89 00:03:05,019 --> 00:03:06,718 That's the vibe I'm on right now. 90 00:03:06,787 --> 00:03:08,787 It's called the sweet and sour. It's what I've been coining it. 91 00:03:08,856 --> 00:03:10,255 It's like you give him a little bit, 92 00:03:10,324 --> 00:03:11,423 and then you take it away. 93 00:03:11,492 --> 00:03:12,624 Bare minimum. 94 00:03:12,693 --> 00:03:14,293 - Yeah. - Works every time. 95 00:03:14,361 --> 00:03:17,729 - Well, let's call him. - Mm. 96 00:03:17,798 --> 00:03:20,866 [line trills] Hello? 97 00:03:21,402 --> 00:03:23,936 - Reese, it's your boy, Nev. 98 00:03:24,004 --> 00:03:26,305 - And your girl, Kamie. 99 00:03:27,041 --> 00:03:28,073 - Hey. 100 00:03:29,243 --> 00:03:30,542 - I mean-- 101 00:03:31,178 --> 00:03:34,379 - Yeah, we read your email, and we have lots of questions. 102 00:03:35,015 --> 00:03:37,849 - But it'd be easier probably if we just head to Jersey, 103 00:03:37,918 --> 00:03:40,018 and you can tell us all about Jesica. 104 00:03:40,087 --> 00:03:42,154 Hopefully--I mean, look, if she's close, 105 00:03:42,223 --> 00:03:43,555 if she lives half an hour away from you, 106 00:03:43,624 --> 00:03:47,159 it should be easy to make some plans. 107 00:03:49,863 --> 00:03:51,897 - Well, we'll see you I guess tomorrow. 108 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:54,933 - All right, Reese. See you later, bud. 109 00:03:55,803 --> 00:03:57,069 - Bye. - Bye. 110 00:03:57,137 --> 00:03:59,304 Lolie're taking our asses to Asbury. 111 00:03:59,373 --> 00:04:00,505 - I made it. 112 00:04:00,574 --> 00:04:01,940 I think Kamie's already on the flight. 113 00:04:02,009 --> 00:04:04,176 So here goes nothing. 114 00:04:04,245 --> 00:04:06,478 - ♪ I'm always ready to go ♪ 115 00:04:06,547 --> 00:04:08,680 ♪ I'm always out of control ♪ 116 00:04:08,749 --> 00:04:11,149 ♪ Like I'm on top of the world ♪ 117 00:04:11,218 --> 00:04:13,518 ♪ I'm always ready, I'm always ready ♪ 118 00:04:13,587 --> 00:04:15,721 ♪ Come on, get ready to go ♪ 119 00:04:15,789 --> 00:04:18,123 ♪ Come on, get ready to go ♪ 120 00:04:18,192 --> 00:04:20,425 ♪ I'm always ready, I'm always ready ♪ 121 00:04:20,494 --> 00:04:22,694 ♪ Come on, get ready to go ♪ 122 00:04:22,763 --> 00:04:24,396 ♪ Yeah ♪ 123 00:04:24,465 --> 00:04:26,398 - All right, let's do this. 124 00:04:26,467 --> 00:04:27,899 - Oh, I want you and Reese to do, 125 00:04:27,968 --> 00:04:29,735 like, a pushup competition to see who wins. 126 00:04:29,803 --> 00:04:31,403 - He's a professional fitness coach. 127 00:04:31,472 --> 00:04:33,438 - Well, don't make excuses. 128 00:04:33,507 --> 00:04:35,140 - There they are. - Oh! 129 00:04:35,209 --> 00:04:37,409 - Hello, hello. You actually made it. 130 00:04:37,478 --> 00:04:38,877 - Wow. - We made it. 131 00:04:38,946 --> 00:04:40,379 - You do hugs? - Yes. 132 00:04:40,447 --> 00:04:42,581 - Yes? Awesome. Awesome. both: Good to meet you. 133 00:04:42,650 --> 00:04:43,915 - For sure. For sure. You do hugs, Nev? 134 00:04:43,984 --> 00:04:45,751 - Sure. - All right. [indistinct] 135 00:04:45,819 --> 00:04:47,552 - At least an arm wrestling competition. 136 00:04:47,621 --> 00:04:48,887 - I'm not gonna arm wrestle this guy. 137 00:04:48,956 --> 00:04:50,055 - Well, we're gonna find something. 138 00:04:50,124 --> 00:04:51,456 - Come on in. - Come up with something. 139 00:04:51,525 --> 00:04:52,724 - I mean, I do some fitness, 140 00:04:52,793 --> 00:04:54,493 but I'm not gonna challenge Reese. 141 00:04:54,561 --> 00:04:57,129 - Don't be a little punk. [laughter] 142 00:04:57,197 --> 00:04:58,964 Wow. - Welcome to my humble abode. 143 00:04:59,033 --> 00:05:00,632 - Let's go have a seat and get into it. 144 00:05:00,701 --> 00:05:01,667 - Okay. 145 00:05:01,735 --> 00:05:03,802 Well, what drew you 146 00:05:03,871 --> 00:05:05,804 to this person hitting you up on Instagram? 147 00:05:05,873 --> 00:05:07,272 - Yeah, how did it-- how did it start? 148 00:05:07,341 --> 00:05:08,340 - How did it start? 149 00:05:08,409 --> 00:05:09,741 So Jesica hit me up on the Gram, 150 00:05:09,810 --> 00:05:11,243 and I saw her name, I'm like, "Jesica Foxx." 151 00:05:11,312 --> 00:05:13,211 I saw her pictures, was like, "Oh, wow. 152 00:05:13,280 --> 00:05:14,746 She's bad too." - Okay. 153 00:05:14,815 --> 00:05:17,082 - So now I'm interested. So we start talking. 154 00:05:17,151 --> 00:05:20,018 She's from New York City. Find out what she does. 155 00:05:20,087 --> 00:05:23,155 She is 25, but she's also a live-in nurse at 25. 156 00:05:23,223 --> 00:05:24,956 So I was like, that was ambitious to me. 157 00:05:25,025 --> 00:05:26,425 You know, not a lot of people at that age 158 00:05:26,493 --> 00:05:27,726 are pursuing their career. 159 00:05:27,795 --> 00:05:29,194 So I was like, "Okay, that's cool." 160 00:05:29,263 --> 00:05:30,862 - Yeah. - And then she lives in Howe. 161 00:05:30,931 --> 00:05:32,698 So Howe's only, like, 30 minutes from here. 162 00:05:32,766 --> 00:05:34,633 So we was hitting it off. I saw the ambition. 163 00:05:34,702 --> 00:05:35,967 Trying to hang out and do things, 164 00:05:36,036 --> 00:05:37,536 but always busy. 165 00:05:37,604 --> 00:05:38,603 So, you know, eventually I'm like, 166 00:05:38,672 --> 00:05:40,038 "All right, I wanna see this girl. 167 00:05:40,107 --> 00:05:41,540 Like, I really wanna see you. I wanna hear your voice." 168 00:05:41,608 --> 00:05:44,142 So tried to video call. Didn't even answer. 169 00:05:44,211 --> 00:05:46,144 But then she actually called back, 170 00:05:46,213 --> 00:05:47,212 and I didn't answer. 171 00:05:47,281 --> 00:05:48,246 So now we're kind of playing-- 172 00:05:48,315 --> 00:05:49,414 - Why didn't you answer? 173 00:05:49,483 --> 00:05:50,716 - I'm a busy person. You know, I was-- 174 00:05:50,784 --> 00:05:51,817 - Did you discuss that? 175 00:05:51,885 --> 00:05:53,085 Did you say like, "Oh, I missed your"-- 176 00:05:53,153 --> 00:05:54,453 - Yeah, yeah, like, "Oh, missed your call." 177 00:05:54,521 --> 00:05:56,021 And I'm like, "You know, gimme a call back." 178 00:05:56,090 --> 00:05:57,723 And then it's going back to, "All right, I'll try, 179 00:05:57,791 --> 00:05:59,725 but I'm busy." You know, "I'm busy again." 180 00:05:59,793 --> 00:06:01,093 Okay. Cool. 181 00:06:01,161 --> 00:06:03,328 It seem like you only get one hour a [bleep] week, 182 00:06:03,397 --> 00:06:04,596 one hour a month. 183 00:06:04,665 --> 00:06:06,131 I don't know what that is, right? 184 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:07,899 - Give him just enough. 185 00:06:07,968 --> 00:06:09,468 Just enough. Give him a little bit. 186 00:06:09,536 --> 00:06:11,103 - What's that mean? - Just a taste. 187 00:06:11,171 --> 00:06:12,504 - We were just--we were talking about how... 188 00:06:12,573 --> 00:06:13,705 - And then you take it away. 189 00:06:13,774 --> 00:06:15,741 - The best way to get a guy 190 00:06:15,809 --> 00:06:18,677 interested in you is to give less. 191 00:06:18,746 --> 00:06:20,045 - They give nothing. - You know what I mean? Like-- 192 00:06:20,114 --> 00:06:21,646 - Nothing. - Nothing. 193 00:06:21,715 --> 00:06:23,148 - All right, so she's right. So let me tell you something 194 00:06:23,217 --> 00:06:25,517 about, like-- the more a chick gives me 195 00:06:25,586 --> 00:06:27,018 it's like a-- [grunts] 196 00:06:27,087 --> 00:06:28,320 - Mm-hmm. 197 00:06:28,389 --> 00:06:30,222 - Like, so that's what's so cool about Jesica. 198 00:06:30,290 --> 00:06:33,191 Like, she wasn't sweating me. She wasn't needy. 199 00:06:33,260 --> 00:06:36,228 I love somebody who's so into what they doing 200 00:06:36,296 --> 00:06:38,530 that they don't--they might-- I don't wanna talk every day. 201 00:06:38,599 --> 00:06:40,232 I wanna actually have something to talk about. 202 00:06:40,300 --> 00:06:42,267 This girl seems so dope, 203 00:06:42,336 --> 00:06:44,136 independent, you know, ambitious, 204 00:06:44,204 --> 00:06:45,370 and she's a bad chick. 205 00:06:45,439 --> 00:06:47,038 Like, okay. - Mm-hmm. 206 00:06:47,107 --> 00:06:49,975 - Does the relationship ever leave Instagram and go to cell? 207 00:06:50,043 --> 00:06:51,777 - So--yeah. So gave her my number. 208 00:06:51,845 --> 00:06:53,011 I was like, "Hit me up. 209 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,379 Let's get a little more personal here." 210 00:06:54,448 --> 00:06:56,948 So then she does give me a call. 211 00:06:57,017 --> 00:06:58,049 - Your phone rings? 212 00:06:58,118 --> 00:07:00,152 - Once again, my phone is on silent. 213 00:07:00,220 --> 00:07:01,920 - You missed it? 214 00:07:01,989 --> 00:07:04,222 - Missed it. But she left a voicemail. 215 00:07:04,291 --> 00:07:06,458 - Oh. - So now I'm like, "All right." 216 00:07:06,527 --> 00:07:08,193 You know, "Okay. I get to hear the voice." 217 00:07:08,262 --> 00:07:11,530 So I like the voice, and then I called her back, 218 00:07:11,598 --> 00:07:13,131 but she didn't answer. 219 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,400 But something else alarmed me. 220 00:07:15,469 --> 00:07:17,803 It was a Google Voice. - Mm... 221 00:07:17,871 --> 00:07:20,205 - So then I'm like, "You know, what's up? 222 00:07:20,274 --> 00:07:21,807 Why do you have a Google Voice?" 223 00:07:21,875 --> 00:07:23,909 And she's like, "Well, you can reach me at this number." 224 00:07:23,977 --> 00:07:26,111 So I'm lik "You got two numbers?" 225 00:07:26,180 --> 00:07:27,145 - Do you still have the voicemail? 226 00:07:27,214 --> 00:07:28,380 - I can check. 227 00:07:28,449 --> 00:07:30,115 - I kind of wanna hear what she sounds like. 228 00:07:30,184 --> 00:07:31,116 - It's right here. - [gasps] 229 00:07:31,185 --> 00:07:33,685 - Oh. 230 00:07:33,754 --> 00:07:35,153 - Hey, Reese. It's Jesica. 231 00:07:35,222 --> 00:07:36,888 I just wanted to call and say hey. 232 00:07:36,957 --> 00:07:39,758 I'm having a super busy day, and I hope to see you soon. 233 00:07:39,827 --> 00:07:40,926 Bye. 234 00:07:40,994 --> 00:07:42,294 - She sounds normal. - Yeah. 235 00:07:42,362 --> 00:07:43,862 - The number definitely comes back to Washington, D.C. 236 00:07:43,931 --> 00:07:44,930 - Weird, though, it was a D.C. number. 237 00:07:44,998 --> 00:07:46,031 - Mm-hmm. 238 00:07:46,099 --> 00:07:47,098 - So that was the Google Voice number? 239 00:07:47,167 --> 00:07:48,300 - That's the Google Voice number. 240 00:07:48,368 --> 00:07:49,468 But this was all within, like, the last week. 241 00:07:49,536 --> 00:07:50,902 You know, ever since then, 242 00:07:50,971 --> 00:07:52,637 no answer on the phone, no call on the phone. 243 00:07:52,706 --> 00:07:54,606 - But then it's interesting that she sent a voicemail, 244 00:07:54,675 --> 00:07:55,941 but you haven't talked to her on the phone. 245 00:07:56,009 --> 00:07:56,975 - That's right. 246 00:07:57,044 --> 00:07:58,276 - Maybe whoever you're talking to 247 00:07:58,345 --> 00:07:59,911 if it's not the girl in the pictures, 248 00:07:59,980 --> 00:08:01,913 put somebody else up to being like, 249 00:08:01,982 --> 00:08:03,248 "Talk on the phone for me," 250 00:08:03,317 --> 00:08:05,250 which suggests that the gender of the person 251 00:08:05,319 --> 00:08:07,319 that you're talking to does not match 252 00:08:07,387 --> 00:08:09,588 the gender of the person in the pictures. 253 00:08:09,656 --> 00:08:10,755 - Oftentimes. 254 00:08:10,824 --> 00:08:12,224 - Or it's a voice that you would recognize 255 00:08:12,292 --> 00:08:13,525 if you heard it. 256 00:08:13,594 --> 00:08:15,994 So what about anybody that you, like, dated 257 00:08:16,063 --> 00:08:18,663 or wanted your attention that you didn't give it to? 258 00:08:18,732 --> 00:08:20,298 - So I meet a lot of different people, 259 00:08:20,367 --> 00:08:23,401 and I can't say that somebody maybe wanted 260 00:08:23,470 --> 00:08:25,003 a second night that didn't get one. 261 00:08:25,072 --> 00:08:26,771 - Is it fair to say that there are some ladies out there 262 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,139 who might say you're a heartbreaker? 263 00:08:28,208 --> 00:08:29,774 - They can call me that if they want, 264 00:08:29,843 --> 00:08:31,343 but I'm not sitting here putting candy in their ear 265 00:08:31,411 --> 00:08:32,644 or telling them what they want to hear. 266 00:08:32,713 --> 00:08:33,979 - So you're not, like, love bombing them? 267 00:08:34,047 --> 00:08:35,013 - No. - You're upfront? 268 00:08:35,082 --> 00:08:36,348 - You're sure? - Yes. 269 00:08:36,416 --> 00:08:37,749 - Because we brought the ladies from the Shore-- 270 00:08:37,818 --> 00:08:38,884 ladies, come in. 271 00:08:38,952 --> 00:08:40,485 - We have two of your exes here. 272 00:08:40,554 --> 00:08:42,821 - No. [laughter] 273 00:08:42,890 --> 00:08:44,189 No, no. 274 00:08:44,258 --> 00:08:46,458 I feel like she's more like a Casanova than I am. 275 00:08:46,527 --> 00:08:48,193 She knows the right things to say. 276 00:08:48,262 --> 00:08:50,295 She's very, like, flirtatious, 277 00:08:50,364 --> 00:08:51,963 and she'll tell you everything you want to hear, 278 00:08:52,032 --> 00:08:53,798 make you really feel good about yourself. 279 00:08:53,867 --> 00:08:55,300 Say things like, "Oh, my God, 280 00:08:55,369 --> 00:08:56,635 I'm in love," and [bleep] like that. 281 00:08:56,703 --> 00:08:57,736 And I'm like, "Hold on." Like, you know? 282 00:08:57,804 --> 00:08:58,703 - Wow. - Like, for me, 283 00:08:58,772 --> 00:09:00,038 there's a lot of lust. - Mm-hmm. 284 00:09:00,107 --> 00:09:01,873 - Sure. - A lot of lust. 285 00:09:01,942 --> 00:09:03,508 Love is nowhere near this equation. 286 00:09:03,577 --> 00:09:04,709 I'm not saying that it can't be. 287 00:09:04,778 --> 00:09:06,311 - Yeah, you haven't gotten-- 288 00:09:06,380 --> 00:09:07,579 you haven't had the opportunity yet. 289 00:09:07,648 --> 00:09:09,014 - Yeah, exactly. But I wanna meet her. 290 00:09:09,082 --> 00:09:10,315 Like, I want to see. 291 00:09:10,384 --> 00:09:11,883 Like, if Jesica's who she says she is, 292 00:09:11,952 --> 00:09:15,053 she could be a dope candidate for a partner. 293 00:09:15,122 --> 00:09:17,088 - I gotta see this girl. What about pictures? 294 00:09:17,157 --> 00:09:18,356 - Oh, yeah. All right. Let's see. 295 00:09:18,425 --> 00:09:19,658 - There you go. - All right, here we go. 296 00:09:19,726 --> 00:09:21,993 All right. Jesica Foxx in New York City. 297 00:09:22,062 --> 00:09:24,829 Interesting. - Mm-hmm. Body-ody-ody. 298 00:09:24,898 --> 00:09:26,331 - Yeah, right? - All right. 299 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,033 So you've got two numbers that she sent you. 300 00:09:28,101 --> 00:09:30,335 The Google Voice one that she called you and you missed. 301 00:09:30,404 --> 00:09:31,670 - Yes. - And then another one 302 00:09:31,738 --> 00:09:33,505 she said to try that you tried and got nothing? 303 00:09:33,574 --> 00:09:35,173 - Yes. - You got her Instagram. 304 00:09:35,242 --> 00:09:36,374 - Yes. 305 00:09:36,443 --> 00:09:37,809 - And then there's no other social media 306 00:09:37,878 --> 00:09:39,244 or anything that you found or that she shared with you? 307 00:09:39,313 --> 00:09:40,579 - No. - Okay. 308 00:09:40,647 --> 00:09:42,714 Let us see if we can figure out if Jesica is real, 309 00:09:42,783 --> 00:09:44,683 which would be the first step. - Mm-hmm. 310 00:09:44,751 --> 00:09:46,685 - And if she's not real, then what's the next step? 311 00:09:46,753 --> 00:09:48,553 - Well, then we have to decide what you want to do. 312 00:09:48,622 --> 00:09:50,388 - Okay. - We're gonna figure this out. 313 00:09:50,457 --> 00:09:52,057 So let's see where this takes us. 314 00:09:52,125 --> 00:09:54,426 - Awesome. Thank you. Thank you both. 315 00:09:54,494 --> 00:09:56,561 - Of course. Good to meet you. 316 00:09:56,630 --> 00:09:57,796 - Great to meet you as well. 317 00:09:57,864 --> 00:09:59,864 - We gotta get to the bottom. 318 00:09:59,933 --> 00:10:01,433 - I do get the sense that Reese 319 00:10:01,501 --> 00:10:04,202 is looking for something different than what he's had. 320 00:10:04,271 --> 00:10:05,236 - Mm-hmm. 321 00:10:05,305 --> 00:10:06,738 - If all he wanted was to get laid, 322 00:10:06,807 --> 00:10:08,206 he would've stopped talking to this girl a long time ago. 323 00:10:08,275 --> 00:10:09,474 - Right. 324 00:10:09,543 --> 00:10:10,742 - So clearly there's some feelings, 325 00:10:10,811 --> 00:10:12,410 though he may not fully be aware of them, 326 00:10:12,479 --> 00:10:13,745 are pretty strong for her. 327 00:10:13,814 --> 00:10:15,780 - I wouldn't be surprised if this is somebody 328 00:10:15,849 --> 00:10:18,516 that's seen him and they've wanted his attention. 329 00:10:18,585 --> 00:10:21,953 But why haven't you met up? There has to be a reason. 330 00:10:23,590 --> 00:10:25,857 [upbeat music] 331 00:10:25,926 --> 00:10:27,792 - Thank you, kind sir. 332 00:10:27,861 --> 00:10:30,795 - Oh, wow. This place is big. 333 00:10:30,864 --> 00:10:33,965 All right. What do we got? Reese, handsome guy, 30. 334 00:10:34,034 --> 00:10:36,801 He's found himself in a relationship with Jesica, 335 00:10:36,870 --> 00:10:38,470 who he met through Instagram, 336 00:10:38,538 --> 00:10:40,805 who is one, if not the only, girl 337 00:10:40,874 --> 00:10:44,976 he's ever met that won't let him get what he wants, 338 00:10:45,045 --> 00:10:46,311 and it's driving him crazy. 339 00:10:46,380 --> 00:10:47,479 - He's enamored. 340 00:10:47,547 --> 00:10:48,647 - All he's got from this girl 341 00:10:48,715 --> 00:10:50,315 is really her Instagram account, 342 00:10:50,384 --> 00:10:53,652 one voicemail, and a hell of a lot of mystery. 343 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:54,853 - Yeah. - All right. 344 00:10:54,921 --> 00:10:56,087 I got a new email from Reese. 345 00:10:56,156 --> 00:10:58,423 "Here's what I've got for you about Jesica." 346 00:10:58,492 --> 00:10:59,824 Her name, Jesica Foxx. 347 00:10:59,893 --> 00:11:03,161 Her Instagram, which is also Jesica Foxx [bleep]. 348 00:11:03,230 --> 00:11:04,829 - It feels like a made-up name. - It does. 349 00:11:04,898 --> 00:11:06,631 "Jesica's Google Voice number 350 00:11:06,700 --> 00:11:08,199 and the second number she gave me." 351 00:11:08,268 --> 00:11:09,434 He sent some pictures too. 352 00:11:09,503 --> 00:11:11,036 I wonder if these are just off her Instagrams. 353 00:11:11,104 --> 00:11:12,370 - We might as well start with the pictures. 354 00:11:12,439 --> 00:11:13,471 - All right. 355 00:11:13,540 --> 00:11:15,807 Let's just try a quick image search. 356 00:11:15,876 --> 00:11:17,409 No. All right. 357 00:11:17,477 --> 00:11:20,845 Here's another picture of her standing kind of outside. 358 00:11:20,914 --> 00:11:23,348 Oh. Ooh! 359 00:11:23,417 --> 00:11:24,582 - Okay. - We got something. 360 00:11:24,651 --> 00:11:28,153 @dedeonthebeach. What is this? 361 00:11:28,221 --> 00:11:30,755 [gasps] Yeah! 362 00:11:30,824 --> 00:11:33,191 Got her. Her name's Dede. 363 00:11:33,260 --> 00:11:35,093 - Mm-hmm. - There she is. 364 00:11:35,162 --> 00:11:36,895 - Wow. - This is definitely the girl. 365 00:11:36,963 --> 00:11:37,962 - Yeah. 366 00:11:38,031 --> 00:11:39,297 - And is she tagged and stuff? 367 00:11:39,366 --> 00:11:41,800 - Yeah. And 360,000 followers. 368 00:11:41,868 --> 00:11:43,301 - Noom New Jersey. 369 00:11:43,370 --> 00:11:46,504 Whoever Reese is talking to, it's not this girl. 370 00:11:46,573 --> 00:11:48,339 And if she's lying about the pictures, 371 00:11:48,408 --> 00:11:50,508 she could be lying about everything else. 372 00:11:50,577 --> 00:11:52,143 So let's reach out to Dede, 373 00:11:52,212 --> 00:11:55,080 see if we can get her to just give us the confirmation 374 00:11:55,148 --> 00:11:57,782 that we already basically have. 375 00:11:57,851 --> 00:11:59,951 All right, here we go. Please... 376 00:12:00,020 --> 00:12:01,853 - Help us. - Thanks. 377 00:12:01,922 --> 00:12:03,388 All right. What do we do next? 378 00:12:03,457 --> 00:12:04,823 - We search the numbers. 379 00:12:04,891 --> 00:12:07,792 - Ooh, let's put those numbers into Cash App. 380 00:12:07,861 --> 00:12:10,161 - I'll do the second. - The second one? You think so? 381 00:12:10,230 --> 00:12:13,164 - No, but the first one-- - Oh. Oh. Oh, yeah. 382 00:12:15,435 --> 00:12:17,702 [humming] - Oh, wow. 383 00:12:17,771 --> 00:12:19,971 - Raven [bleep]. 384 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,841 Could this actually be the girl that Reese has been talking to? 385 00:12:22,909 --> 00:12:25,810 Raven [bleep]. Hold on. Let's search that name. 386 00:12:25,879 --> 00:12:28,847 Oh, here. Yeah. Okay. Interesting. Real estate agent. 387 00:12:28,915 --> 00:12:30,415 - Washington D.C., Maryland. 388 00:12:30,484 --> 00:12:32,751 - Instagram account definitely looks real. 389 00:12:32,819 --> 00:12:35,220 Good engagement. Nice comp and pics. 390 00:12:35,288 --> 00:12:38,590 So wait, why would Raven be catfishing Reese? 391 00:12:38,658 --> 00:12:40,191 - This girl's not catfishing. 392 00:12:40,260 --> 00:12:43,461 - But if she's not, why would Jesica give Reese 393 00:12:43,530 --> 00:12:44,829 the real phone number 394 00:12:44,898 --> 00:12:47,966 of some other beautiful girl who lives in D.C.? 395 00:12:48,034 --> 00:12:49,300 Let's run the number. 396 00:12:49,369 --> 00:12:52,337 - What the [bleep] is going on? 397 00:12:52,405 --> 00:12:56,241 - Yeah, Raven [bleep]. Let's see, social profiles. 398 00:12:56,309 --> 00:12:57,842 Oh, Allaboutraven. 399 00:12:57,911 --> 00:13:00,612 Okay. Okay. Where's this taking us? 400 00:13:00,680 --> 00:13:02,881 Wait a second. Interesting. - Mm... 401 00:13:02,949 --> 00:13:04,449 - This is a different page. 402 00:13:04,518 --> 00:13:07,051 - This one says she's a singer, and she has a single on Apple. 403 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:08,987 This looks nothing like the life 404 00:13:09,055 --> 00:13:10,855 of Raven from the realty page. 405 00:13:10,924 --> 00:13:12,490 - Could this be a fake page? 406 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:13,925 Let's just go through these pics. 407 00:13:13,994 --> 00:13:16,227 Smiley heart. A lot of heart eyes. 408 00:13:16,296 --> 00:13:17,796 But wait, someone here says, "Cute pic. 409 00:13:17,864 --> 00:13:19,831 Let's do brunch this weekend." Who is this? 410 00:13:19,900 --> 00:13:21,232 - Veronica. 411 00:13:21,301 --> 00:13:22,967 - Veronica [bleep]. 412 00:13:23,036 --> 00:13:25,103 All right, let's send this girl a message. 413 00:13:25,172 --> 00:13:27,071 - Hmm. - "Hey, Veronica. 414 00:13:27,140 --> 00:13:28,206 "Nev from the show 'Catfish.' 415 00:13:28,275 --> 00:13:29,541 "We could use your help on a case. 416 00:13:29,609 --> 00:13:30,942 Please give me a call." 417 00:13:31,011 --> 00:13:32,177 All right, so what-- 418 00:13:32,245 --> 00:13:34,078 so can we just clear up what just happened? 419 00:13:34,147 --> 00:13:35,346 I'm so--I'm kind of confused. 420 00:13:35,415 --> 00:13:36,948 The first time we saw Raven's name 421 00:13:37,017 --> 00:13:38,683 was because the second number that she gave Reese 422 00:13:38,752 --> 00:13:40,485 came back on Cash App to a girl named Raven [bleep]. 423 00:13:40,554 --> 00:13:42,153 Then when we searched the number, 424 00:13:42,222 --> 00:13:44,422 it also comes up registered to Raven [bleep]. 425 00:13:44,491 --> 00:13:45,924 - Mm-hmm. 426 00:13:45,992 --> 00:13:47,926 - And it led us to an Instagram account for Raven [bleep]. 427 00:13:47,994 --> 00:13:50,328 - There's two. There's a realty page 428 00:13:50,397 --> 00:13:52,063 that we found by Googling her name. 429 00:13:52,132 --> 00:13:54,465 Then there's what looks like a page for a singer... 430 00:13:54,534 --> 00:13:55,834 - Right. - Which is connected 431 00:13:55,902 --> 00:13:58,236 to one of the phone numbers Jesica gave Reese. 432 00:13:58,305 --> 00:13:59,737 - So could this @allaboutraven page 433 00:13:59,806 --> 00:14:01,239 just be another fake page 434 00:14:01,308 --> 00:14:03,741 set up by whoever's behind the Jesica page? 435 00:14:03,810 --> 00:14:05,443 [phone ringing] Oh. 436 00:14:05,512 --> 00:14:06,678 Veronica [bleep]. 437 00:14:06,746 --> 00:14:08,146 Hello, Veronica. 438 00:14:10,383 --> 00:14:12,517 - Hi, it's Nev and Kamie... - Hi. 439 00:14:12,586 --> 00:14:14,519 - From "Catfish." Are you on an iPhone? 440 00:14:14,588 --> 00:14:16,187 Are you comfortable switching over to FaceTime 441 00:14:16,256 --> 00:14:18,323 just so we can be a little bit more personal? 442 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:23,094 - Let's see if that works. Hey. 443 00:14:23,163 --> 00:14:24,896 - Hi. - Hi. 444 00:14:24,965 --> 00:14:26,231 - What's up? 445 00:14:26,299 --> 00:14:27,465 We're doing an episode of the show. 446 00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:29,133 Have you seen the show? - I have. 447 00:14:29,202 --> 00:14:31,536 - We are helping this guy who's been talking 448 00:14:31,605 --> 00:14:34,105 to this girl, and we found 449 00:14:34,174 --> 00:14:37,141 a profile on Instagram, 450 00:14:37,210 --> 00:14:40,278 and you had commented on one of the pictures. 451 00:14:40,347 --> 00:14:41,512 @allaboutraven. 452 00:14:41,581 --> 00:14:43,481 Do you know who that is, this girl, Raven [bleep]? 453 00:14:43,550 --> 00:14:44,983 - I do. Yeah. 454 00:14:45,051 --> 00:14:46,317 - How do you know Raven? 455 00:14:46,386 --> 00:14:49,120 - We've been friends for years, 456 00:14:49,189 --> 00:14:50,722 colleagues, 457 00:14:50,790 --> 00:14:52,657 and then we became really good friends 458 00:14:52,726 --> 00:14:54,025 over the years. 459 00:14:54,094 --> 00:14:56,461 - So you've met Raven in person, in real life? 460 00:14:56,529 --> 00:14:58,796 - Yeah, we are friends. 461 00:14:58,865 --> 00:15:01,666 We hang out. We talk. 462 00:15:01,735 --> 00:15:03,568 - Got it. Okay. 463 00:15:03,637 --> 00:15:05,303 - I know her. We're good friends. 464 00:15:05,372 --> 00:15:06,471 - Cool. 465 00:15:06,539 --> 00:15:08,139 Can we--is there any chance you can sort of 466 00:15:08,208 --> 00:15:10,208 introduce us to her, so that we could just chat 467 00:15:10,277 --> 00:15:12,343 with her and ask her a couple questions? 468 00:15:12,412 --> 00:15:14,512 - I mean, sure, I can have her call you back later. 469 00:15:14,581 --> 00:15:15,914 - We'd just love to chat with her. 470 00:15:15,982 --> 00:15:18,082 - Okay. I can do that. - All right. Great. 471 00:15:18,151 --> 00:15:19,884 Thank you so much, Veronica. I really appreciate it. 472 00:15:19,953 --> 00:15:21,052 - All right, guys. 473 00:15:21,121 --> 00:15:23,254 - All right. Take care. - Okay. Bye. 474 00:15:26,092 --> 00:15:28,893 - Come on. I think that's her. I think that's Jesica. 475 00:15:28,962 --> 00:15:30,795 - You think so? - Yes. 476 00:15:30,864 --> 00:15:33,197 Even her voice sort of sounded, I think--I was like, 477 00:15:33,266 --> 00:15:34,666 "Is that the voice from the voicemail?" 478 00:15:34,734 --> 00:15:36,668 - This could be her. This could be her. 479 00:15:36,736 --> 00:15:38,069 - This could be Jesica. 480 00:15:38,138 --> 00:15:41,205 - But my question is, if I'm catfishing Reese, 481 00:15:41,274 --> 00:15:43,408 why am I catfishing Reese as Jesica Foxx? 482 00:15:43,476 --> 00:15:44,509 Why not use Raven? 483 00:15:44,577 --> 00:15:45,877 - Well, because she's got a few. 484 00:15:45,946 --> 00:15:47,712 Whatever strikes her fancy. She's got the Raven. 485 00:15:47,781 --> 00:15:49,047 She's got the Jesica. [phone ringing] 486 00:15:49,115 --> 00:15:50,615 Uh-oh. 487 00:15:50,684 --> 00:15:52,717 Well, now we're getting a call from Raven. 488 00:15:52,786 --> 00:15:53,885 Hello? 489 00:15:55,555 --> 00:15:57,555 - Hi. What's up? Is this Raven? 490 00:15:59,859 --> 00:16:02,727 - Hey, it's Nev from "Catfish." 491 00:16:03,129 --> 00:16:04,562 - How are you doing? 492 00:16:06,700 --> 00:16:08,433 - I guess you spoke to Veronica. 493 00:16:10,704 --> 00:16:12,937 - We stumbled across some profiles, 494 00:16:13,006 --> 00:16:14,872 and maybe you can help us. 495 00:16:15,342 --> 00:16:16,774 - Can you FaceTime? 496 00:16:19,779 --> 00:16:21,279 - Uh-huh. Okay. 497 00:16:21,348 --> 00:16:23,748 I don't know what to say. 498 00:16:23,817 --> 00:16:26,818 I'm gonna be honest with you. 499 00:16:26,886 --> 00:16:28,386 I think you are Veronica. 500 00:16:28,455 --> 00:16:30,655 I didn't--I think we just spoke to you. 501 00:16:35,528 --> 00:16:38,029 - I don't wanna be presumptuous. 502 00:16:38,098 --> 00:16:40,231 - But we're trying to track down this girl, Jesica, 503 00:16:40,300 --> 00:16:44,402 and we've now found you and Veronica, 504 00:16:44,471 --> 00:16:46,304 and there's, like, a weird connection to Jesica 505 00:16:46,373 --> 00:16:47,805 that we know is fake. 506 00:16:47,874 --> 00:16:49,007 Do you know who I'm talking about 507 00:16:49,075 --> 00:16:50,541 when I say Jesica Foxx? 508 00:17:01,521 --> 00:17:02,720 [line beeps] 509 00:17:02,789 --> 00:17:03,988 - I knew it was gonna happen. - Right, so wait. 510 00:17:04,057 --> 00:17:05,256 That was totally Veronica 511 00:17:05,325 --> 00:17:06,958 just changing her voice a little bit. 512 00:17:07,027 --> 00:17:09,093 - It's giving Veronica. - Right. 513 00:17:09,162 --> 00:17:10,428 - And the voice cadence was the same. 514 00:17:10,497 --> 00:17:11,863 - Sounded pretty similar. - Yeah. 515 00:17:11,931 --> 00:17:14,832 - And of course she couldn't FaceTime as Raven. 516 00:17:14,901 --> 00:17:15,933 - She said she was gonna tell her 517 00:17:16,002 --> 00:17:17,268 and then call back later tonight. 518 00:17:17,337 --> 00:17:18,669 It feels like she was panicked. - Right. 519 00:17:18,738 --> 00:17:20,338 - And she was like, "Let me just do it right now." 520 00:17:20,407 --> 00:17:23,341 - I mean, that has to be her. Things are moving fast. 521 00:17:23,410 --> 00:17:25,643 We got a lot that we need to tell Reese. 522 00:17:27,547 --> 00:17:29,347 - Reese, we got a lot to talk about. 523 00:17:29,416 --> 00:17:30,748 Where are you? 524 00:17:33,953 --> 00:17:35,653 - Can you text us the address? 525 00:17:35,722 --> 00:17:37,188 - See you soon. - All right. See you soon. 526 00:17:37,257 --> 00:17:39,791 - That one has a for sale sign. Probably that one. 527 00:17:39,859 --> 00:17:41,793 All right. You ready? 528 00:17:41,861 --> 00:17:43,828 - Ready! 529 00:17:43,897 --> 00:17:45,363 That's-- - Oh. 530 00:17:45,432 --> 00:17:47,498 - Hello. - What's up? What's up? 531 00:17:47,567 --> 00:17:49,133 - Hello, hello. - There he is. 532 00:17:49,202 --> 00:17:50,735 - How are you? - Great morning. Great morning. 533 00:17:50,804 --> 00:17:52,303 - Solid. - Good to see you. 534 00:17:52,372 --> 00:17:53,638 - Welcome. Welcome. 535 00:17:53,706 --> 00:17:57,241 - All right. - Suspenseful. 536 00:17:57,310 --> 00:17:59,677 I've never felt a range of emotion like this. 537 00:17:59,746 --> 00:18:01,646 I'm, like, very anxious right now. 538 00:18:01,714 --> 00:18:04,282 - All right, look, this morning, we found a lot. 539 00:18:04,350 --> 00:18:05,917 So I want to go through with you, 540 00:18:05,985 --> 00:18:08,219 explain what we found, get your take on things, 541 00:18:08,288 --> 00:18:09,387 and go from there. 542 00:18:09,456 --> 00:18:11,055 All right, so the first thing we did, 543 00:18:11,124 --> 00:18:12,690 we took the pictures you sent us. 544 00:18:12,759 --> 00:18:13,791 - Yes. 545 00:18:13,860 --> 00:18:15,059 - And we did a Google Image search, 546 00:18:15,128 --> 00:18:16,561 and we got a hit. 547 00:18:16,629 --> 00:18:19,997 And it took us here to an Instagram page 548 00:18:20,066 --> 00:18:21,666 for a girl named Dede. 549 00:18:21,734 --> 00:18:23,634 So it looks like there's another account 550 00:18:23,703 --> 00:18:25,036 for pictures with Jesica, 551 00:18:25,105 --> 00:18:28,206 but this one goes by @dedeonthebeach. 552 00:18:28,274 --> 00:18:30,908 So we messaged her but have not heard back. 553 00:18:30,977 --> 00:18:33,544 Has she ever mentioned anything about the name Dede before? 554 00:18:33,613 --> 00:18:34,879 - No. 555 00:18:34,948 --> 00:18:39,016 - So as you can see, she's got 360,000 followers, 556 00:18:39,085 --> 00:18:41,219 and she doesn't live in New Jersey. 557 00:18:41,287 --> 00:18:43,154 - It feels like this is the real girl. 558 00:18:43,223 --> 00:18:44,355 - Right. - Okay. 559 00:18:44,424 --> 00:18:46,991 - This is probably the real profile. 560 00:18:48,194 --> 00:18:50,862 - So Jesica's not Jesica. 561 00:18:50,930 --> 00:18:53,364 - Certainly starting to look that way. 562 00:18:53,433 --> 00:18:55,399 [dramatic music] 563 00:18:55,468 --> 00:18:57,201 - Now, y'all, who the [bleep] is Jesica? 564 00:18:57,270 --> 00:18:58,669 - So thought, "Okay. 565 00:18:58,738 --> 00:19:00,037 "We know who the girl in the pictures is. 566 00:19:00,106 --> 00:19:01,672 Now let's figure out who Jesica is." 567 00:19:01,741 --> 00:19:03,141 - Okay. - So then we thought, 568 00:19:03,209 --> 00:19:04,876 "Okay, let's run the number in Cash App." 569 00:19:04,944 --> 00:19:06,144 - Okay. - Okay? 570 00:19:06,212 --> 00:19:08,045 So we did that, and look. 571 00:19:08,114 --> 00:19:09,580 - There's a person. 572 00:19:09,649 --> 00:19:12,550 - There's a person with that phone number on Cash App. 573 00:19:12,619 --> 00:19:15,353 - She kind of pretty. - Mm-hmm. Very pretty. 574 00:19:15,421 --> 00:19:17,288 - Yeah. - Yes. So that was weird to us. 575 00:19:17,357 --> 00:19:21,459 Like, why would "Jesica" have a number on Cash App 576 00:19:21,528 --> 00:19:23,461 under the name Raven [bleep]? 577 00:19:23,530 --> 00:19:26,264 We searched Raven [bleep] and found this. 578 00:19:26,332 --> 00:19:28,099 And so here's Raven's page. 579 00:19:28,168 --> 00:19:29,534 She's following a lot of people. 580 00:19:29,602 --> 00:19:31,035 This page seems legit, 581 00:19:31,104 --> 00:19:33,304 but this girl seems to be into real estate. 582 00:19:33,373 --> 00:19:35,907 Has Jesica ever mentioned doing real estate? 583 00:19:35,975 --> 00:19:37,909 - No. - Open one of the pictures. 584 00:19:37,977 --> 00:19:40,678 Do you recognize this girl at all? 585 00:19:40,747 --> 00:19:42,180 Have you ever seen this girl? 586 00:19:42,248 --> 00:19:44,382 - No, but... [chuckles] 587 00:19:44,450 --> 00:19:46,450 Is this who I'm talking to? 588 00:19:46,519 --> 00:19:48,085 But I wouldn't be mad if it's Raven. 589 00:19:48,154 --> 00:19:49,987 - Well, that's what I'm saying. Like, if it's Raven, 590 00:19:50,056 --> 00:19:53,291 why on Earth would she create a second profile 591 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:56,327 for a similarly attractive girl? 592 00:19:56,396 --> 00:19:58,696 - Yeah. That don't make sense. 593 00:19:58,765 --> 00:19:59,864 - Okay, let's go back now 594 00:19:59,933 --> 00:20:02,266 and let's look up the number online. 595 00:20:02,335 --> 00:20:03,968 And sure enough, when we do that, 596 00:20:04,037 --> 00:20:05,836 we get Raven [bleep]. 597 00:20:05,905 --> 00:20:07,805 And it also has an affiliated account. 598 00:20:07,874 --> 00:20:09,173 - Okay. 599 00:20:09,242 --> 00:20:12,643 - So it takes us to a different Instagram. 600 00:20:12,712 --> 00:20:15,813 - But this one says that she's an artist, a musical artist. 601 00:20:15,882 --> 00:20:17,114 - Yeah. - And she has an Apple-- 602 00:20:17,183 --> 00:20:18,950 - A single or an album or something. 603 00:20:19,018 --> 00:20:21,352 When we looked through her pictures, 604 00:20:21,421 --> 00:20:24,255 well, we found a comment from this person, Veronica. 605 00:20:24,324 --> 00:20:26,490 It said, "Cute pic. Let's do brunch this weekend." 606 00:20:26,559 --> 00:20:27,658 - Okay. - All right. 607 00:20:27,727 --> 00:20:29,927 And she even replied, "For sure, boo." 608 00:20:29,996 --> 00:20:34,265 So we messaged Veronica, and Veronica called us. 609 00:20:34,334 --> 00:20:38,369 And she confirmed that Raven is real and her friend. 610 00:20:38,438 --> 00:20:39,770 - We were like, "You know her in person?" 611 00:20:39,839 --> 00:20:41,072 She's like, "Yeah." 612 00:20:41,140 --> 00:20:42,873 - And we said, "We'd love to talk to Raven. 613 00:20:42,942 --> 00:20:44,976 Can you let her know we'd like to speak to her?" 614 00:20:45,044 --> 00:20:46,711 She said, "Yeah, absolutely. I'll call. 615 00:20:46,779 --> 00:20:49,247 As soon as we hang up, I'll have her call you." 616 00:20:49,315 --> 00:20:51,515 We hang up, we're talking about how weird that was, 617 00:20:51,584 --> 00:20:54,185 because Veronica sounded really similar 618 00:20:54,254 --> 00:20:56,120 to the voicemail you got-- yeah-- 619 00:20:56,189 --> 00:20:58,889 and then not a minute or two later, my phone rings. 620 00:20:58,958 --> 00:21:01,392 The screen says... - Raven [bleep]. 621 00:21:01,461 --> 00:21:02,693 - Raven [bleep]. - Okay. 622 00:21:02,762 --> 00:21:04,662 - It sounded exactly like Veronica, 623 00:21:04,731 --> 00:21:07,265 just with a little higher pitch in her voice. 624 00:21:07,333 --> 00:21:08,899 - Is Veronica Raven? 625 00:21:08,968 --> 00:21:10,534 - And so I'm like, "This is ridiculous." 626 00:21:10,603 --> 00:21:12,103 - He couldn't do it. - So I said--I was like, 627 00:21:12,171 --> 00:21:13,537 "Look, I gotta be honest with you. 628 00:21:13,606 --> 00:21:15,539 "I'm pretty sure you're full of [bleep], 629 00:21:15,608 --> 00:21:18,175 and that you are actually just Veronica and we just spoke." 630 00:21:18,244 --> 00:21:20,544 - And she was like, "What?" - And then... 631 00:21:20,613 --> 00:21:21,846 - She was like, 632 00:21:21,914 --> 00:21:24,348 "I didn't want it to come out like this. 633 00:21:24,417 --> 00:21:27,018 I have to go." Hung up the phone. 634 00:21:27,086 --> 00:21:30,021 - So she kind of admitted that I was right. 635 00:21:30,089 --> 00:21:33,724 So it looks like Veronica, the woman that we FaceTimed 636 00:21:33,793 --> 00:21:35,726 and saw, is Raven. 637 00:21:35,795 --> 00:21:38,062 And that second page we found for Raven, 638 00:21:38,131 --> 00:21:40,431 which is connected to Jesica's phone number, 639 00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:43,701 is actually a fake page created by Veronica. 640 00:21:43,770 --> 00:21:45,936 So if she's Raven... 641 00:21:46,005 --> 00:21:47,405 - Then she has to be Jesica. 642 00:21:47,473 --> 00:21:48,906 - Then she also has to be Jesica, 643 00:21:48,975 --> 00:21:50,741 because Jesica's numbers come back to Raven. 644 00:21:50,810 --> 00:21:52,543 - [bleep] that. - Which is crazy 645 00:21:52,612 --> 00:21:54,478 'cause that means that she's got a lot of fake profiles, 646 00:21:54,547 --> 00:21:56,514 possibly more than even what we found. 647 00:21:56,582 --> 00:21:57,948 - Yeah. - But, like, 648 00:21:58,017 --> 00:21:59,917 not only does she have the fake profiles for Raven, 649 00:21:59,986 --> 00:22:02,320 she's also got her phone numbers registered to Raven. 650 00:22:02,388 --> 00:22:04,021 Like, she's really-- - How is that possible? 651 00:22:04,090 --> 00:22:05,389 I was thinking that. Like, you can do that? 652 00:22:05,458 --> 00:22:07,725 - Raven's, like, her main account. 653 00:22:07,794 --> 00:22:10,294 Jesica's, like, one of her side hustles. 654 00:22:10,363 --> 00:22:11,595 - How many other people she catfishing? 655 00:22:11,664 --> 00:22:13,331 - I mean, yeah, there might be a bunch of people 656 00:22:13,399 --> 00:22:16,133 who think they're talking to Jesica or Raven. 657 00:22:16,202 --> 00:22:17,368 - Yeah. 658 00:22:17,437 --> 00:22:18,936 This is the weirdest [bleep] in the world. 659 00:22:19,005 --> 00:22:21,472 - This is, like, a deeper thing 660 00:22:21,541 --> 00:22:23,274 than just somebody talking to you 661 00:22:23,343 --> 00:22:24,675 because they have a crush on you. 662 00:22:24,744 --> 00:22:27,712 Like, who knows how deep this really goes? 663 00:22:29,482 --> 00:22:30,514 - All right, so at this point, we know for sure 664 00:22:30,583 --> 00:22:31,849 the girl in the pictures that you think 665 00:22:31,918 --> 00:22:32,983 is Jesica is someone else. 666 00:22:33,052 --> 00:22:35,219 - Yes. - It also looks like the person 667 00:22:35,288 --> 00:22:37,955 you're talking to might be Veronica, 668 00:22:38,024 --> 00:22:41,292 and that she might even have other fake profiles. 669 00:22:41,361 --> 00:22:43,494 The key to this is probably Veronica. 670 00:22:43,563 --> 00:22:44,962 So that's where we're at. 671 00:22:45,031 --> 00:22:48,766 - But how do we do this now? - Let me text Raven now. 672 00:22:48,835 --> 00:22:52,002 "Veronica/Raven, hey. Just following up. 673 00:22:52,071 --> 00:22:53,804 "I know yesterday when we talked, 674 00:22:53,873 --> 00:22:56,040 "you were hesitant to say what was going on, 675 00:22:56,109 --> 00:23:01,078 but I want to see if you're ready to talk." 676 00:23:01,147 --> 00:23:02,313 - Mm-hmm. [text whooshes] 677 00:23:02,382 --> 00:23:04,215 [tense music] 678 00:23:04,283 --> 00:23:06,951 - Ooh, that's a lot. 679 00:23:07,019 --> 00:23:09,520 - We've sent our message. So sit tight. 680 00:23:09,589 --> 00:23:11,188 Hopefully we'll hear something, 681 00:23:11,257 --> 00:23:13,324 at the very latest, by tomorrow morning. 682 00:23:13,393 --> 00:23:15,626 - Okay. Cool. 683 00:23:15,695 --> 00:23:17,828 - Cool. - Thank you. Appreciate you. 684 00:23:17,897 --> 00:23:19,730 - Alrighty. - Thank you so much. 685 00:23:19,799 --> 00:23:21,532 Appreciate you. Thank you. 686 00:23:21,601 --> 00:23:22,967 - Yeah, man. - See you soon. 687 00:23:23,035 --> 00:23:25,770 - Yes. Thank you. 688 00:23:26,606 --> 00:23:29,807 - Do you think we're gonna hear back from Veronica or Raven 689 00:23:29,876 --> 00:23:32,676 at all, today, soon, when? 690 00:23:32,745 --> 00:23:34,145 - I mean-- - Is it gonna happen? 691 00:23:34,213 --> 00:23:36,680 - I would hope so, but I think whoever this is, 692 00:23:36,749 --> 00:23:38,249 they just need a little bit more time. 693 00:23:38,317 --> 00:23:40,251 I'm willing to give them a little bit more time, 694 00:23:40,319 --> 00:23:43,921 but it feels like they are ready to come clean. 695 00:23:43,990 --> 00:23:46,924 - Well, I think they realize, like, the time is up. 696 00:23:48,094 --> 00:23:49,126 Okay. 697 00:23:49,195 --> 00:23:53,164 Sitting here, chilling in my room. 698 00:23:53,232 --> 00:23:56,634 It's, like, 10:15 p.m., 699 00:23:56,702 --> 00:24:00,571 and I just finally got a text. 700 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,674 "Hey, it's Raven. Can you talk?" 701 00:24:03,743 --> 00:24:06,343 Oh, boy. Calling Kamie. 702 00:24:06,412 --> 00:24:07,545 [clears throat] 703 00:24:07,613 --> 00:24:09,647 [line trills] 704 00:24:11,083 --> 00:24:12,650 - Hey. You in bed? 705 00:24:14,954 --> 00:24:16,620 - Well, I just got a text. 706 00:24:17,023 --> 00:24:18,422 - I'm just gonna come down there. 707 00:24:19,492 --> 00:24:20,991 - All right. I'll see you in a second. 708 00:24:24,697 --> 00:24:25,729 - All right. Let's go. 709 00:24:25,798 --> 00:24:28,699 [tense music] 710 00:24:28,768 --> 00:24:30,067 ♪ ♪ 711 00:24:30,136 --> 00:24:32,636 I'm on, like, the complete opposite end. 712 00:24:32,705 --> 00:24:35,506 - Good. Get your workout. Reese will be proud. 713 00:24:35,575 --> 00:24:37,308 - All right. So let's text Raven back. 714 00:24:37,376 --> 00:24:38,442 "Hey, Raven." 715 00:24:38,511 --> 00:24:39,543 - Did you come over with no shoes? 716 00:24:39,612 --> 00:24:41,245 - Yeah. What am I wearing shoes for? 717 00:24:41,314 --> 00:24:43,981 - Oh, my God. - "Yes, I can talk." 718 00:24:45,751 --> 00:24:48,486 [phone ringing] Oh. Oh. Oh, Washington, D.C. 719 00:24:48,554 --> 00:24:50,087 But it says spam risk, which is kind of weird. 720 00:24:50,156 --> 00:24:51,755 - 'Cause she is a spam risk. - Oh, 'cause it's Google. 721 00:24:51,824 --> 00:24:52,857 Hello? 722 00:24:53,759 --> 00:24:55,526 - Hi. Raven, right? Hey. 723 00:24:56,629 --> 00:24:57,661 - How you doing? 724 00:25:02,368 --> 00:25:05,769 - Okay. So you know Reese? 725 00:25:05,838 --> 00:25:09,306 Reese has been talking to Jesica, and that is you? 726 00:25:09,375 --> 00:25:11,208 You've been Jesica? 727 00:25:15,648 --> 00:25:17,314 - Is that the gist of it? 728 00:25:18,150 --> 00:25:19,383 - I'm happy you called. 729 00:25:19,452 --> 00:25:22,586 We'd love to get you and Reese in the same room, 730 00:25:22,655 --> 00:25:23,888 clear the air, 731 00:25:23,956 --> 00:25:26,490 and hopefully find some sort of path forward. 732 00:25:35,735 --> 00:25:37,668 - Okay. 733 00:25:37,737 --> 00:25:39,870 - I just want him to be... 734 00:25:52,218 --> 00:25:54,218 - What the hell does she mean by kinky? 735 00:25:54,287 --> 00:25:57,555 - Yeah, I mean, look, I haven't known Reese very long, 736 00:25:57,623 --> 00:26:01,025 but he's very open-minded and, like, open-hearted. 737 00:26:01,093 --> 00:26:03,727 And he wants to speak to you. 738 00:26:03,796 --> 00:26:06,163 So what's the reality 739 00:26:06,232 --> 00:26:09,934 of trying to get you to meet up with us tomorrow? 740 00:26:14,774 --> 00:26:17,007 - Okay, we'll talk to you in the morning, 741 00:26:17,076 --> 00:26:20,444 then you can tell us where and when is convenient to meet. 742 00:26:22,048 --> 00:26:23,948 - Okay. Thanks, Raven. Bye. 743 00:26:26,085 --> 00:26:27,217 - What kind of show you got me on, Nev? 744 00:26:28,921 --> 00:26:30,654 - What kind of show you got me on, Nev? 745 00:26:30,723 --> 00:26:32,356 - Kinky? - What does she mean? 746 00:26:32,425 --> 00:26:33,791 - I don't know. 747 00:26:33,859 --> 00:26:35,492 - But also, like--okay. Judgment-free zone. 748 00:26:35,561 --> 00:26:36,727 - Sure. - Sure. 749 00:26:36,796 --> 00:26:38,329 She trying to walk him like a dog? 750 00:26:38,397 --> 00:26:40,130 'Cause I can't promise that he's gonna be into that. 751 00:26:40,199 --> 00:26:41,665 - Yeah, I don't think she felt comfortable saying 752 00:26:41,734 --> 00:26:42,967 whatever she wanted to say to us. 753 00:26:43,035 --> 00:26:44,568 - I don't know what she wanted to say, 754 00:26:44,637 --> 00:26:46,203 but I don't know if it's appropriate for MTV. 755 00:26:46,272 --> 00:26:47,471 - You kidding me? 756 00:26:47,540 --> 00:26:49,206 Have you seen any other shows on this channel? 757 00:26:49,275 --> 00:26:51,675 - True. - All right. Let's call Reese. 758 00:26:51,744 --> 00:26:53,043 [line trills] 759 00:26:53,613 --> 00:26:56,347 - We just got off the phone with Raven. 760 00:26:58,818 --> 00:27:00,985 - Well, it's hard to say. 761 00:27:01,053 --> 00:27:04,755 But she admitted that she is Jesica. 762 00:27:04,824 --> 00:27:07,024 I said, "Well, can you meet us in Jersey tomorrow? 763 00:27:07,093 --> 00:27:08,559 'Cause I know Reese would like to meet you." 764 00:27:08,628 --> 00:27:10,227 And she's like, "Yeah, I think I can do that, 765 00:27:10,296 --> 00:27:14,765 but I want you to tell him to keep an open-mind." 766 00:27:14,834 --> 00:27:16,934 And then it got really weird, 'cause she was like, 767 00:27:17,003 --> 00:27:20,170 "Well, I'm into some kinky stuff." 768 00:27:23,509 --> 00:27:26,076 - She definitely has more to share, 769 00:27:26,145 --> 00:27:27,711 but she wouldn't do it over the phone. 770 00:27:27,780 --> 00:27:29,213 - She said-- 771 00:27:30,583 --> 00:27:34,118 - She said she could meet us tomorrow. 772 00:27:34,186 --> 00:27:36,420 So in the morning, she said, "Text me." 773 00:27:36,489 --> 00:27:39,523 And that she'll meet us somewhere around Asbury Park. 774 00:27:39,592 --> 00:27:42,393 So look, we'll just come over to your place in the morning, 775 00:27:42,461 --> 00:27:45,963 and hopefully she's given us somewhere to meet by then. 776 00:27:46,465 --> 00:27:47,865 - All right. Good night. - Bye. 777 00:27:49,502 --> 00:27:51,035 - Kinky [bleep]. 778 00:27:51,103 --> 00:27:52,436 - Let's spend the rest of our evening 779 00:27:52,505 --> 00:27:55,973 trying to imagine what "kinky" could mean 780 00:27:56,042 --> 00:27:57,241 for Raven, all right? 781 00:27:57,309 --> 00:27:58,742 - I don't want to. - Just think about it. 782 00:27:58,811 --> 00:28:00,277 - She's gonna bring a dog collar. 783 00:28:00,346 --> 00:28:02,079 - Let me just-- - [bleep] creep. 784 00:28:02,148 --> 00:28:03,947 She's going to walk him like a dog. 785 00:28:04,016 --> 00:28:05,616 - Take your socks off. - Get the [bleep]-- 786 00:28:05,685 --> 00:28:06,917 no free feet. 787 00:28:06,986 --> 00:28:09,887 - Show me your feet. - No free feet. 788 00:28:11,390 --> 00:28:14,825 [tense music] 789 00:28:14,894 --> 00:28:16,960 - All right, Raven says she'll meet us today. 790 00:28:17,029 --> 00:28:17,995 - Mm-hmm. 791 00:28:18,064 --> 00:28:19,997 - Is she calling a kink this idea 792 00:28:20,066 --> 00:28:21,398 that she likes to, like, you know-- 793 00:28:21,467 --> 00:28:23,634 essentially is cat-- can catfishing be a kink? 794 00:28:23,703 --> 00:28:26,136 - There probably is a whole Reddit forum about this. 795 00:28:26,205 --> 00:28:28,138 - Right, people who just love... 796 00:28:28,207 --> 00:28:29,673 - Catfishing for kinks. 797 00:28:29,742 --> 00:28:32,309 - Getting off talking to people as, like, hot other people. 798 00:28:32,378 --> 00:28:33,577 All right. 799 00:28:33,646 --> 00:28:36,146 Well, let's find out what's really going on. 800 00:28:36,215 --> 00:28:37,381 - Mm-hmm. - All right. 801 00:28:37,450 --> 00:28:39,450 So let's check in with Raven. 802 00:28:39,518 --> 00:28:42,486 - That's not her name. - "Good morning, Raven. 803 00:28:42,555 --> 00:28:46,857 "Excited to meet up today. 804 00:28:46,926 --> 00:28:52,062 Let me know when and where is good for you." 805 00:28:53,899 --> 00:28:57,034 - Everybody has kinks. You're lying if you don't. 806 00:28:57,103 --> 00:28:58,602 And the people who say that they don't, 807 00:28:58,671 --> 00:29:00,537 they're just too afraid to admit. 808 00:29:00,606 --> 00:29:02,106 [phone dings] [gasps] 809 00:29:02,174 --> 00:29:03,273 - Ooh. It's Raven. 810 00:29:03,342 --> 00:29:05,375 - Uh-huh. - "Good morning. 811 00:29:05,444 --> 00:29:07,377 "If Reese is cool with what we talked about, 812 00:29:07,446 --> 00:29:09,947 we can meet at Turkey Swamp Park." 813 00:29:11,250 --> 00:29:14,017 I said, "That's great news. I'll see you then." 814 00:29:14,086 --> 00:29:15,586 - All right. - [sighs] 815 00:29:15,654 --> 00:29:17,421 - Let us go. 816 00:29:17,490 --> 00:29:20,891 - I mean, you know what? I'm gonna put it in S. 817 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,392 - Why? - Feeling sporty. 818 00:29:22,461 --> 00:29:24,294 - Oh, wow. - I got the sport jacket. 819 00:29:24,363 --> 00:29:25,562 Putting it in S today. 820 00:29:25,631 --> 00:29:28,165 I wish there was a K for kinky. 821 00:29:28,234 --> 00:29:29,833 Just throw it to kink mode. 822 00:29:29,902 --> 00:29:32,836 [upbeat music] 823 00:29:32,905 --> 00:29:35,272 ♪ ♪ 824 00:29:35,341 --> 00:29:36,974 [doorbell chimes] 825 00:29:37,042 --> 00:29:38,442 - Okay. Good morning. 826 00:29:38,511 --> 00:29:40,344 - Great morning. - Great, great morning. 827 00:29:40,412 --> 00:29:42,146 - Yes. - Great morning. 828 00:29:42,214 --> 00:29:43,447 - Yes. Yes. 829 00:29:43,516 --> 00:29:44,815 - A front seat for you. 830 00:29:44,884 --> 00:29:47,684 - Oh, you too. Okay. Awesome. Awesome. Thank you. 831 00:29:47,753 --> 00:29:50,087 - This whole kinky thing has me totally thrown. 832 00:29:50,156 --> 00:29:53,257 Has Jesica ever alluded to or tried 833 00:29:53,325 --> 00:29:55,659 to get kinky with you via DMs? 834 00:29:55,728 --> 00:29:57,694 Has she ever, like-- - Oh, like some nasty talk? 835 00:29:57,763 --> 00:29:58,996 - Yeah. Or anything. - Oh, yeah, yeah. 836 00:29:59,064 --> 00:30:00,564 - Oh, she has? - Yes, nasty talk. Yes. 837 00:30:00,633 --> 00:30:02,166 - Alluding to sex for sure. - Yes. 838 00:30:02,234 --> 00:30:03,867 - But nothing like, "I'm gonna"... 839 00:30:03,936 --> 00:30:05,335 - Walk you like a dog. 840 00:30:05,404 --> 00:30:07,638 - "Wrap your feet in bacon and, like, put whipped cream 841 00:30:07,706 --> 00:30:09,640 up in your butt [bleep]." Nothing like that, right? 842 00:30:09,708 --> 00:30:10,908 - Nah, no whipped cream in my butt [bleep]. 843 00:30:10,976 --> 00:30:12,176 - Okay. Well, I don't know. 844 00:30:12,244 --> 00:30:13,510 - Nah, nah. - Not yet. 845 00:30:13,579 --> 00:30:14,611 - The point is, we don't know 846 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:15,779 what the hell we're going to find. 847 00:30:15,848 --> 00:30:17,014 - No, no. 848 00:30:17,082 --> 00:30:18,582 - But I think it is good to keep an open mind. 849 00:30:18,651 --> 00:30:19,783 - I have been. 850 00:30:19,852 --> 00:30:21,885 My whole night, I've been preparing myself 851 00:30:21,954 --> 00:30:25,823 with every possibility and being okay. 852 00:30:25,891 --> 00:30:28,125 [dramatic music] 853 00:30:28,194 --> 00:30:30,994 - All right. Here we are. 854 00:30:31,063 --> 00:30:35,065 - I don't think I've ever felt this much suspense in my life. 855 00:30:35,134 --> 00:30:37,034 - I don't like the vibes here. 856 00:30:38,304 --> 00:30:40,270 - Why do I feel like I'm in a horror movie? 857 00:30:41,540 --> 00:30:43,874 - Well, there's other parked cars. 858 00:30:43,943 --> 00:30:45,075 Do you see anything? 859 00:30:45,144 --> 00:30:46,443 - No. Where do we go? 860 00:30:46,512 --> 00:30:48,145 - And I guess we could just poke around, right? 861 00:30:48,214 --> 00:30:50,280 I think we should just check it out. 862 00:30:53,118 --> 00:30:55,819 - I see somebody over there. - Where? 863 00:30:55,888 --> 00:30:57,187 - Straight ahead. Over there. 864 00:30:57,256 --> 00:30:59,389 Right behind these poles. - Oh. 865 00:30:59,458 --> 00:31:01,792 You see it? - Oh, oh. Oh, yeah. 866 00:31:01,861 --> 00:31:02,793 - See? How do we go to the-- 867 00:31:02,862 --> 00:31:03,861 - Okay. - Is that her? 868 00:31:03,929 --> 00:31:05,429 - I guess we have to go this way. 869 00:31:05,464 --> 00:31:06,463 - [gas 870 00:31:06,532 --> 00:31:08,031 This is freaking me th[blee ] out. 871 00:31:08,100 --> 00:31:10,033 - Oh, I think--that looks like a girl, right? 872 00:31:10,102 --> 00:31:12,302 - Yeah. - It kind of looks like-- 873 00:31:12,371 --> 00:31:14,037 it's shaped like Jesica. 874 00:31:14,106 --> 00:31:16,373 They hiding? 875 00:31:16,442 --> 00:31:20,644 - This is probably our Raven. - Uh-huh. 876 00:31:20,713 --> 00:31:24,147 - All right. My heart is pounding right now. 877 00:31:24,216 --> 00:31:27,651 [suspenseful music] 878 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:28,852 - Hello. 879 00:31:28,921 --> 00:31:32,356 ♪ ♪ 880 00:31:32,424 --> 00:31:33,991 Raven? 881 00:31:34,059 --> 00:31:35,359 - Oh, [bleep]. 882 00:31:37,129 --> 00:31:38,262 - Raven? 883 00:31:38,330 --> 00:31:42,132 [dramatic music] 884 00:31:42,201 --> 00:31:44,368 - Oh, [bleep]. I've seen that person before. 885 00:31:44,436 --> 00:31:45,836 - How are you? - How you doing? Nev. 886 00:31:45,905 --> 00:31:46,937 - Good. Nice to meet you. 887 00:31:47,006 --> 00:31:48,138 - Nice to meet you too. 888 00:31:48,207 --> 00:31:49,373 - You know them? - Yeah. 889 00:31:49,441 --> 00:31:51,375 I think I seen that person. - Really? 890 00:31:51,443 --> 00:31:53,243 - Real familiar. - Really? 891 00:31:53,312 --> 00:31:55,512 - Real familiar. Yes. 892 00:31:55,581 --> 00:31:57,447 - Let's go talk to them. 893 00:31:57,516 --> 00:32:00,784 ♪ ♪ 894 00:32:00,853 --> 00:32:02,386 - Hello. 895 00:32:02,454 --> 00:32:04,788 - Hello. - Hi. How are you? 896 00:32:04,857 --> 00:32:05,923 - Good. How are you? 897 00:32:05,991 --> 00:32:07,057 - I'm Kamie. 898 00:32:07,126 --> 00:32:08,258 - I'm Remy. - Nice to meet you. 899 00:32:08,327 --> 00:32:09,293 - What'd you say your name was? 900 00:32:09,361 --> 00:32:10,661 - Remy. both: Remy? 901 00:32:10,729 --> 00:32:12,896 - Okay. And obviously, this is Reese. 902 00:32:12,965 --> 00:32:14,164 - Hello. - What's up? 903 00:32:14,233 --> 00:32:15,632 - Hello, Reese. 904 00:32:15,701 --> 00:32:18,869 - Are you from--where you from? - I'm from Jersey. 905 00:32:18,938 --> 00:32:20,437 - You from Jersey? - Do you know Remy? 906 00:32:20,506 --> 00:32:22,673 - He's real familiar? Do you--have you seen me? 907 00:32:22,741 --> 00:32:23,840 Do you know me? 908 00:32:23,909 --> 00:32:25,175 How do you know me? - Yeah. 909 00:32:26,812 --> 00:32:28,545 - At the club. 910 00:32:28,614 --> 00:32:30,113 - Me, you, and my girl. 911 00:32:30,182 --> 00:32:31,915 - Oh. - Okay. 912 00:32:31,984 --> 00:32:34,651 - So before you started talking to him? 913 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,354 - Correct. He just came to us. Well, we walked to the bar. 914 00:32:37,423 --> 00:32:39,823 He came, walked up to us, and he introduced himself. 915 00:32:39,892 --> 00:32:43,727 Very nice. Offered us drinks. So we just all had a good time. 916 00:32:43,796 --> 00:32:45,062 - Mm-hmm. - Okay. 917 00:32:45,130 --> 00:32:46,430 - Just because we have such a good time, 918 00:32:46,498 --> 00:32:48,198 I just wanted to get to know him more. 919 00:32:48,267 --> 00:32:50,600 And also because I just think he's very attractive. 920 00:32:50,669 --> 00:32:53,036 - I mean, I do have a lot of gay friends, 921 00:32:53,105 --> 00:32:54,504 but I'm not bisexual. 922 00:32:54,573 --> 00:32:56,573 I am straight. 923 00:32:56,642 --> 00:33:00,210 - So did you then immediately create a Jesica profile, 924 00:33:00,279 --> 00:33:01,845 or did you already have the Jesica profile? 925 00:33:01,914 --> 00:33:03,747 - No, I already had the Jesica profile. 926 00:33:03,816 --> 00:33:05,449 - So do you do this to other people? 927 00:33:05,517 --> 00:33:06,850 - Well, I only do this to people 928 00:33:06,919 --> 00:33:09,186 that I'm attracted to, and it's not catfishing. 929 00:33:09,254 --> 00:33:10,954 It's more like just getting to know them 930 00:33:11,023 --> 00:33:13,523 to protect myself and my identity. 931 00:33:13,592 --> 00:33:15,258 And once I get to know them, 932 00:33:15,327 --> 00:33:18,462 if they're down to be with another guy, 933 00:33:18,530 --> 00:33:21,198 then I speak to the person as me. 934 00:33:21,266 --> 00:33:23,433 But Jesica is just more to get to know the person. 935 00:33:23,502 --> 00:33:25,469 - Sure. Okay. 936 00:33:25,537 --> 00:33:26,937 - Just for that. 937 00:33:27,006 --> 00:33:28,905 - I wanna--there's more to talk about there, 938 00:33:28,974 --> 00:33:31,541 but before we get too far into that, 939 00:33:31,610 --> 00:33:32,909 what's up with Raven? 940 00:33:32,978 --> 00:33:35,545 Is that also a profile of yours? 941 00:33:35,614 --> 00:33:37,280 - No, that's actually a friend of mine. 942 00:33:37,349 --> 00:33:39,449 - But Raven called us last night. 943 00:33:39,518 --> 00:33:40,584 That wasn't you? 944 00:33:40,652 --> 00:33:41,651 - No, but you said you were Raven. 945 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:43,086 - No, that was Raven, my friend. 946 00:33:43,155 --> 00:33:45,288 - Wait, but when you texted me this morning, 947 00:33:45,357 --> 00:33:46,723 you said, "Hey, it's Raven." 948 00:33:46,792 --> 00:33:49,126 - That was Raven. - That was actually Raven? 949 00:33:49,194 --> 00:33:50,560 - Yes, Raven is real. She's my friend. 950 00:33:50,629 --> 00:33:52,429 - So Raven--I was texting with Raven 951 00:33:52,498 --> 00:33:53,897 and made plans to meet you here, 952 00:33:53,966 --> 00:33:55,399 and then she told you that? 953 00:33:55,467 --> 00:33:56,566 - Correct. 954 00:33:56,635 --> 00:33:58,568 - So we haven't actually texted? 955 00:33:58,637 --> 00:34:01,471 Why were you giving Raven's number to Reese? 956 00:34:01,540 --> 00:34:02,806 - So that he can speak to my friend. 957 00:34:02,875 --> 00:34:04,174 - So I could talk to a girl? 958 00:34:04,243 --> 00:34:06,176 - So Raven called him? - Yes. 959 00:34:06,245 --> 00:34:09,146 - And left him that voicemail? - That's--this [bleep] is wild. 960 00:34:09,214 --> 00:34:11,348 - But then at some point in talking to Reese, 961 00:34:11,417 --> 00:34:14,151 you knew that he was heterosexual 962 00:34:14,219 --> 00:34:16,319 and only interested in talking to women. 963 00:34:16,388 --> 00:34:19,423 And you were then trying to catfish him 964 00:34:19,491 --> 00:34:21,658 and fool him into thinking that he was talking to a girl 965 00:34:21,727 --> 00:34:25,162 by enlisting your girl friend to call him on the phone. 966 00:34:25,230 --> 00:34:29,199 - No, that was actually just to keep the role going. 967 00:34:29,268 --> 00:34:32,536 So untilotthe question, which I never got , 968 00:34:32,604 --> 00:34:33,870 I was taking it slow. 969 00:34:33,939 --> 00:34:35,305 - Okay. - I never got to that question. 970 00:34:35,374 --> 00:34:36,807 - But you have in the past 971 00:34:36,875 --> 00:34:38,108 with other guys that you've talked to... 972 00:34:38,177 --> 00:34:39,509 - Yes. - And asked, 973 00:34:39,578 --> 00:34:42,446 "Hey, would you ever think about seeing a guy?" 974 00:34:42,514 --> 00:34:44,114 And in some cases, they said, "Yes"? 975 00:34:44,183 --> 00:34:45,449 - Yes. 976 00:34:45,517 --> 00:34:47,684 - In which case you'd say, "Oh, this is really me," 977 00:34:47,753 --> 00:34:49,653 or, "Oh, you should meet my friend"? 978 00:34:49,721 --> 00:34:51,855 - No, then I'll be like, "Okay, well I have a friend," 979 00:34:51,924 --> 00:34:53,223 and then I send the picture. 980 00:34:53,292 --> 00:34:54,891 - So you never admitted that you were Jesica. 981 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,493 You just sort of shuffled them into-- 982 00:34:56,562 --> 00:34:57,961 - Correct. Correct. 983 00:34:58,030 --> 00:35:00,564 - Okay. Interesting. Okay. So, I mean, it is catfishing. 984 00:35:00,632 --> 00:35:01,898 - It is. - Right. 985 00:35:01,967 --> 00:35:03,800 And you know that's not okay. - Yeah. 986 00:35:03,869 --> 00:35:06,536 But in a way of, like, just to find out 987 00:35:06,605 --> 00:35:07,838 what type of person they are. 988 00:35:07,906 --> 00:35:10,240 - But wouldn't it be faster just to message them 989 00:35:10,309 --> 00:35:11,575 as you and say, like, 990 00:35:11,643 --> 00:35:13,043 "Hey, it was so nice meeting you. 991 00:35:13,112 --> 00:35:14,978 Thanks for the drinks. I had a nice time. 992 00:35:15,047 --> 00:35:16,847 Would love to do it again." - I never said I didn't-- 993 00:35:16,915 --> 00:35:18,315 I didn't never say I didn't do that. 994 00:35:18,383 --> 00:35:20,050 I do do that. - Oh, okay. 995 00:35:20,119 --> 00:35:21,551 - But the ones that I don't add 996 00:35:21,620 --> 00:35:23,053 is the one that I'm sketchy about. 997 00:35:23,122 --> 00:35:24,354 The ones I'm sketchy about, 998 00:35:24,423 --> 00:35:26,823 then I find out through Jesica first. 999 00:35:26,892 --> 00:35:29,192 I don't wanna put myself on the spot where I'm afraid 1000 00:35:29,261 --> 00:35:32,329 because of the fact that these people 1001 00:35:32,397 --> 00:35:34,464 are hanging out in the spots that I go to. 1002 00:35:34,533 --> 00:35:37,868 So I'm protecting myself, my identity. 1003 00:35:37,936 --> 00:35:40,537 - Have you had any experiences with guys 1004 00:35:40,606 --> 00:35:42,439 that you were interested in that were negative? 1005 00:35:42,508 --> 00:35:43,773 Were you-- 1006 00:35:43,842 --> 00:35:45,542 - That's why I use Jesica, because I have. 1007 00:35:45,611 --> 00:35:46,910 They started getting nasty. 1008 00:35:46,979 --> 00:35:48,512 Like, "I will [bleep] you up." 1009 00:35:48,580 --> 00:35:51,148 That's when I started using her to protect myself. 1010 00:35:51,216 --> 00:35:53,250 - Mm-hmm. - But why not make 1011 00:35:53,318 --> 00:35:56,887 a fake Instagram of a guy and DM them 1012 00:35:56,955 --> 00:35:58,922 and see if they'll talk to a guy? 1013 00:36:00,993 --> 00:36:02,259 - Okay. - Yeah. 1014 00:36:02,327 --> 00:36:04,561 - A guy that's on the DL is not gonna tell another man, 1015 00:36:04,630 --> 00:36:06,263 especially on Instagram, that they're gay. 1016 00:36:06,331 --> 00:36:09,232 - Interesting. I mean, look, it's come up 1017 00:36:09,301 --> 00:36:11,701 on the show once or twice before. 1018 00:36:11,770 --> 00:36:14,771 - Mm-hmm. - The delicate dance... 1019 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,072 - 'Cause it's definitely delicate. 1020 00:36:16,141 --> 00:36:19,509 - Of a gay man who's interested in men 1021 00:36:19,578 --> 00:36:21,144 who you think present as straight 1022 00:36:21,213 --> 00:36:23,113 who are also into guys. 1023 00:36:23,182 --> 00:36:26,883 And trying to find those guys is tricky. 1024 00:36:27,686 --> 00:36:31,154 - Is this the kink that Raven was referring to? 1025 00:36:31,223 --> 00:36:32,556 - Yes. 1026 00:36:32,624 --> 00:36:34,791 - Any kink is fine as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, 1027 00:36:34,860 --> 00:36:36,259 and it's consensual, 1028 00:36:36,328 --> 00:36:38,261 but the kink that you seem to have 1029 00:36:38,330 --> 00:36:39,930 does not seem to be consensual. 1030 00:36:39,998 --> 00:36:41,498 - How? - It's not consensual 1031 00:36:41,567 --> 00:36:44,067 if you're trying to lure men in with a picture of a girl, 1032 00:36:44,136 --> 00:36:46,136 and then coercing them to hook up with you. 1033 00:36:46,205 --> 00:36:47,571 - The thing is, once I know 1034 00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:49,005 that they're straight, it's over. 1035 00:36:49,074 --> 00:36:50,807 I'm not forcing anyone. I'm not trying to turn anyone. 1036 00:36:50,876 --> 00:36:52,142 I'm not saying like, "Oh, let's hang out 1037 00:36:52,211 --> 00:36:53,410 "with my girlfriend. Let's get drunk 1038 00:36:53,478 --> 00:36:55,145 and see if I can turn him." No. It's over. 1039 00:36:55,214 --> 00:36:56,680 - But Reese isn't bi. 1040 00:36:56,748 --> 00:36:58,315 So your read on him was way off. 1041 00:36:58,383 --> 00:37:00,784 - Right. - I guess the question is, 1042 00:37:00,852 --> 00:37:03,620 how long were you planning on doing this with Reese? 1043 00:37:03,689 --> 00:37:06,022 Like, how long does it usually take you to gauge 1044 00:37:06,091 --> 00:37:09,025 where the guys are at that you're talking to? 1045 00:37:09,094 --> 00:37:11,328 - Usually within, like, a week. Depending on the person, 1046 00:37:11,396 --> 00:37:12,462 within, like, a week or two. - So quick. 1047 00:37:12,531 --> 00:37:13,964 - Very quick. - So it did-- 1048 00:37:14,032 --> 00:37:15,332 - With Reese, I couldn't be that quick, 1049 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,000 because I just don't want him to think she was fake. 1050 00:37:17,069 --> 00:37:18,468 I want him to think that she was real, 1051 00:37:18,537 --> 00:37:20,136 so that when I got to that question, 1052 00:37:20,205 --> 00:37:22,505 his answer will be honest. 1053 00:37:22,574 --> 00:37:24,174 - That's the problem, though. 1054 00:37:24,243 --> 00:37:27,310 You let this go on for months, leading him on the whole time. 1055 00:37:27,379 --> 00:37:28,511 That's not okay. 1056 00:37:28,580 --> 00:37:30,313 You have got to stop doing this. 1057 00:37:30,382 --> 00:37:32,482 - I know. I'm sorry. 1058 00:37:32,551 --> 00:37:34,884 - You deserve to be with somebody who is not afraid 1059 00:37:34,953 --> 00:37:37,053 to be with you from your own page. 1060 00:37:37,122 --> 00:37:39,623 You deserve to be with somebody who is just as proud 1061 00:37:39,691 --> 00:37:42,025 to be with you as you are to be with them. 1062 00:37:42,094 --> 00:37:45,195 And you shouldn't have to cower behind any kind of fake page 1063 00:37:45,264 --> 00:37:49,332 to get interest from someone. 1064 00:37:49,401 --> 00:37:51,234 But I think that through a little bit more, 1065 00:37:51,303 --> 00:37:53,203 we c finanbetter ways for you to protect yourself. 1066 00:37:53,272 --> 00:37:54,638 - Yes. 1067 00:37:54,706 --> 00:37:57,140 - I mean, honestly, the way you're explaining it, 1068 00:37:57,209 --> 00:37:59,976 at first when I saw you, I was really upset. 1069 00:38:00,045 --> 00:38:03,146 Like, [bleep], like, "This is what I didn't want." 1070 00:38:03,215 --> 00:38:04,681 - And I'm sorry. I understand. 1071 00:38:04,750 --> 00:38:06,916 - You know, but I get it. 1072 00:38:06,985 --> 00:38:08,318 And I'm sorry 1073 00:38:08,387 --> 00:38:10,220 that that's what you have to, you know, deal with. 1074 00:38:10,289 --> 00:38:12,055 I don't agree... - Of course. 1075 00:38:12,124 --> 00:38:14,190 - But I understand, and, you know, 1076 00:38:14,259 --> 00:38:17,093 I just hope that you go about it differently next time. 1077 00:38:17,162 --> 00:38:19,729 And I think you will find-- if you go about it that way, 1078 00:38:19,798 --> 00:38:22,899 I think you'll find what you deserve a lot faster. 1079 00:38:22,968 --> 00:38:25,035 You know, you seem like a cool person, you feel me? 1080 00:38:25,103 --> 00:38:27,504 So, you know, we could go out. We can hang out. 1081 00:38:27,572 --> 00:38:28,838 - Cool. - I want a drink next time. 1082 00:38:28,907 --> 00:38:30,440 - Okay. That's true. - You owe me a drink. 1083 00:38:30,509 --> 00:38:31,708 - You definitely owe him a drink. 1084 00:38:31,777 --> 00:38:33,510 - You owe me a whole night of [bleep] drinks. 1085 00:38:33,578 --> 00:38:35,178 - Yes. I do. For this, I do. - Cool? Shots. 1086 00:38:35,247 --> 00:38:36,413 - I'm sorry. - Shots. 1087 00:38:36,481 --> 00:38:38,081 - I'm so sorry. Shots. - For sure. 1088 00:38:38,150 --> 00:38:39,716 - Thanks for putting yourself out there. 1089 00:38:39,785 --> 00:38:41,051 Thanks for being so understanding 1090 00:38:41,119 --> 00:38:42,218 and nonjudgmental. 1091 00:38:42,287 --> 00:38:44,421 - No, thank you guys for coming in. 1092 00:38:44,489 --> 00:38:46,556 Once again, sorry for wasting your time. 1093 00:38:46,625 --> 00:38:48,291 - Let me--[bleep], I do hugs, man. 1094 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:49,759 If you need some good energy for yourself. 1095 00:38:49,828 --> 00:38:51,394 - Please. Oh, my God. Thank you so much. 1096 00:38:51,463 --> 00:38:53,229 I'm so sorry. 1097 00:38:53,298 --> 00:38:55,532 - You know, just shoot your shots. 1098 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,534 [laughter] - You are beautiful. 1099 00:38:57,602 --> 00:39:00,637 - So are you. And just be safe. - No, I will. 1100 00:39:00,706 --> 00:39:01,905 - 'Cause I know these streets are scary. 1101 00:39:01,973 --> 00:39:03,273 - Yeah. 1102 00:39:03,342 --> 00:39:04,774 - But there's a lot of people who aren't. 1103 00:39:04,843 --> 00:39:06,810 - Nice meeting you. Nice meeting you. 1104 00:39:06,878 --> 00:39:08,778 - All right, well, should we all get outta here? 1105 00:39:08,847 --> 00:39:10,980 - ♪ If you fall ♪ 1106 00:39:11,049 --> 00:39:12,215 - You know, I gotta say, 1107 00:39:12,284 --> 00:39:13,650 to put yourself out there, it was brave. 1108 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:14,984 It took a lot of courage to do this. 1109 00:39:15,053 --> 00:39:16,419 - Thank you. You're so sweet. 1110 00:39:16,488 --> 00:39:17,921 - I think it's gonna help a lot of people. 1111 00:39:17,989 --> 00:39:20,190 - ♪ You are not alone ♪ 1112 00:39:20,258 --> 00:39:23,226 ♪ You are not alone ♪ 1113 00:39:23,295 --> 00:39:26,029 [bell dings] all: Hey. 1114 00:39:26,098 --> 00:39:28,264 - Great morning. - Great morning. 1115 00:39:28,333 --> 00:39:29,999 - Great morning. 1116 00:39:30,068 --> 00:39:32,035 - What is there to know about you and Remy? 1117 00:39:32,104 --> 00:39:33,403 Have you guys talked? 1118 00:39:33,472 --> 00:39:35,438 - Yo, listen. We did go out. We hung out. 1119 00:39:35,507 --> 00:39:36,906 All night, he bought my drinks. 1120 00:39:36,975 --> 00:39:38,575 He stuck true to his promise. 1121 00:39:38,643 --> 00:39:40,643 Remy's actually a very, very dope person. 1122 00:39:40,712 --> 00:39:41,778 - Oh, my God. 1123 00:39:41,847 --> 00:39:43,847 So are you dating anybody or what? 1124 00:39:43,915 --> 00:39:45,515 - I actually am. - What? What? 1125 00:39:45,584 --> 00:39:47,317 - Are you in a relationship? - Yeah. 1126 00:39:47,386 --> 00:39:49,686 I took a leap of faith, and I'm still falling. 1127 00:39:49,755 --> 00:39:51,254 - That's great. 1128 00:39:51,323 --> 00:39:53,623 - Maybe Remy catfishing you was exactly what you needed... 1129 00:39:53,692 --> 00:39:54,824 - Mm. 1130 00:39:54,893 --> 00:39:57,026 - To prep you for the real thing. 1131 00:39:57,095 --> 00:39:59,162 - Wow, Nev. I never looked at it like that. 1132 00:39:59,231 --> 00:40:00,864 Damn, I might have to buy you drinks next time. 1133 00:40:00,932 --> 00:40:02,232 - Exactly. - And us obviously. 1134 00:40:02,300 --> 00:40:03,600 - Yeah. - 100,000%. 1135 00:40:03,668 --> 00:40:05,335 - To growth. - Yep. Good luck. 1136 00:40:05,404 --> 00:40:06,636 - Thank you. - Later, bud. 1137 00:40:06,705 --> 00:40:08,304 - Have a good one. Or a great one. 1138 00:40:09,574 --> 00:40:11,307 [bell dings] - How you guys doing? 1139 00:40:11,376 --> 00:40:12,876 - Hey. - Hey. 1140 00:40:12,944 --> 00:40:14,844 - Remy. - We talked to Reese. 1141 00:40:14,913 --> 00:40:16,546 He said that you guys hung out. - Yes. 1142 00:40:16,615 --> 00:40:19,249 I'm so happy that he was open enough li, 1143 00:40:19,317 --> 00:40:20,717 be able to hang out with me again. 1144 00:40:20,786 --> 00:40:22,051 And he gets chill. 1145 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,353 There is guys out there that are straight 1146 00:40:23,422 --> 00:40:24,921 and don't mind hanging out with a gay boy. 1147 00:40:24,990 --> 00:40:26,723 - Love that. 1148 00:40:26,792 --> 00:40:28,725 - Do you worry in the event that you meet some guy 1149 00:40:28,794 --> 00:40:31,227 that you suspect might be DL, you might still use 1150 00:40:31,296 --> 00:40:33,263 that approach of trying to talk to him as a woman? 1151 00:40:33,331 --> 00:40:35,064 - No. If I'm trying to get someone, 1152 00:40:35,133 --> 00:40:37,300 I will use my profile which is me. 1153 00:40:37,369 --> 00:40:39,002 - That's much better than where we started. 1154 00:40:39,070 --> 00:40:40,236 - Yes, of course. 1155 00:40:40,305 --> 00:40:41,971 - Remy, happy this all worked out. 1156 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:43,406 You guys are now actually friends, 1157 00:40:43,475 --> 00:40:45,008 which is such a--such a win. 1158 00:40:45,076 --> 00:40:47,877 - Yes. But thank you so much, you guys, for everything. 1159 00:40:47,946 --> 00:40:49,779 - And we can't wait to see what's next for Remy. 1160 00:40:49,848 --> 00:40:51,047 - Yeah. - Thank you. 1161 00:40:51,116 --> 00:40:52,315 - Bye. - Bye. 1162 00:40:55,220 --> 00:40:57,520 He claims to be a famous singer. 1163 00:40:57,589 --> 00:40:59,355 - He's really kind and loving. 1164 00:40:59,424 --> 00:41:02,125 - And you FaceTimed, - You are 100% sure... 1165 00:41:02,194 --> 00:41:03,159 - His face? - It was that guy? 1166 00:41:03,228 --> 00:41:04,794 - Yes. - Hi. Can you hear us? 1167 00:41:08,500 --> 00:41:10,500 - This is your last chance. Come on with Zoom. 1168 00:41:10,569 --> 00:41:12,001 Show us who you are.