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Hey, Christy, what's up?
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Hey, Mom, I'm going
to the smoothie place
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because I've had a day
that requires a smoothie.
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Want one?
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Yeah. But I bet my day was worse.
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Not possible. My boss
gave me a contract to proof
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and... I dropped it in a toilet.
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Post-flush, but... still.
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Well, I had a three-hour
fight with my husband
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with no angry silences, so it's
really like a six-hour fight.
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Is this a new fight or an extension
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of the one you were having last night?
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New one, but with subtle
echoes of the last one.
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Same theme: he doesn't listen to me.
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I literally feel like a ghost.
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Oh, my God. What if you are a ghost?
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What if you and I had
this difficult relationship
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and I thought we had worked it all out,
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but it was just your ghost?
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Bam. Nobody sees that coming.
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I asked him to meet me for
lunch and he said "okay,"
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but then he went to the gym.
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I spent a half an hour
sitting on a hard bench
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reading the Sonoma Acorn.
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By the way, Barbara Feldman Real Estate
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is going out of business. End of an era.
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Hey, Mom, can we have this
conversation over a couple
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of smoothies that are really
just fruity milkshakes?
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Yeah, but put a vitamin boost in mine
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so I think it's healthy.
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Okay, you got...
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Oh, no. Oh, no.
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Oh, no, oh, no, oh, no.
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- What's wrong?
- Smoothies are canceled.
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- Synced and corrected by ChrisKe -
-- for www.addic7ed.com --
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- Hi, babe.
- Hey, where are you?
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I thought we'd take Gus to the park.
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Honey, it's Tuesday at 10:00.
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Oh, yeah, meeting.
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- Hi, alcoholics!
- Nope.
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Not a meeting. What am I thinking?
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Uh, you're at coffee
with the ladies. Uh...
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- Hi, ladies!
- I'm at therapy,
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which you knew because
an hour ago when you said,
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"What you got going on today?" I said...
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You said therapy. I listen.
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Hi, Trevor. It's not
true. I'm a great guy.
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We'll discuss this later,
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once Trevor tells me how I feel.
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I don't tell you how you feel.
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Which is another way
you're letting me down.
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Anyway, I got so irritated
the other night, and...
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I'm not proud of this...
I threw a potato at him.
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A fingerling. I'm not an animal.
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Would you say the level of
conflict in your marriage
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has escalated recently?
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Well, Adam and I are newlyweds.
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You know what they say.
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What do they say?
"It's been three months,
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let loose the tiny potatoes"?
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You seem edgy. Everything all right?
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We're not here to talk about me.
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That is the dumbest rule.
You and I are friends.
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We are not friends.
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We have been hanging out
every Tuesday for eight months.
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We are not hanging out.
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I am helping you navigate your life.
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Exactly. That's what friends do, Trev.
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Oh, come on, tell me one
random thing about yourself.
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Like, that's not your real nose, right?
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I will not share anything
about my personal life with you.
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- What if I...
- No.
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You may not guess things and then try
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and read my facial expressions.
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Sure, 'cause your new
nose is unreadable.
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Well, our time's almost up
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and there's something I'd
like to talk to you about.
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Is it the health issues you're having?
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I've been seeing you pro Bono,
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and I think it's time we
discuss you paying a modest fee.
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Aha. Financial problems.
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Yes, Bonnie, I'm broke.
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That's why I'm asking
you for $35 a week.
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$25, and you can't spend it on lattes.
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$35, and I can spend
it on whatever I want.
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Fine, but you have to
tell me how you spend it.
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I will not.
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Deal.
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Sorry. I had to play hardball.
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Hypothetical question.
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If you hit a parked car
and there's no damage,
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would you leave a note?
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You wouldn't, right? You wouldn't.
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Well, what would it say...
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"Sorry for doing nothing to your car"?
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Agreed.
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Completely unrelated
hypothetical question.
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Does this look like damage to you?
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I don't think you know
what "hypothetical" means.
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Yeah, or "damage," because this bumper
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has a scuff, a dent and a scrape.
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She couldn't have done it,
she was with me the whole time.
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Tammy, I don't need an alibi.
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Trust me, you do.
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We were watching Dirty Dancing.
It's your favorite movie.
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I'd never seen it before,
but I was utterly charmed.
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We ordered medium cheese
pizzas and then talked about
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how amazing it must have
been to be Jewish in the '60s.
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I'll more be more convincing tomorrow
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'cause almost all of that
happened to me yesterday.
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So you didn't leave a note?
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I did leave a note.
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Oh, good.
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Then I drove back and took it.
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Classic Plunkett move. We
almost do the right thing.
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I just panicked.
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But now I feel awful.
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I've been having nightmares.
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Last night I dreamt
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I backed into the car and it exploded.
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Then it turned out
George Clooney was inside
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and we ended up making out.
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And I felt bad, because I
respect his wife so much.
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Did you leave her a note?
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Sweetie, I think you need to
make amends to these people.
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Oh, I really wish I could,
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but there's just no way
to track them down, so... .
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move on, live my life.
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Well, there was a license plate
in that little picture you took.
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I mean, I could ask
Andy to abuse his access,
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run the numbers and get you an address.
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It's against the rules, but he likes
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showing off policey stuff for me.
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Thanks Jill. Super helpful.
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- Okay. Should we get the check?
- I'm having marital problems.
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I guess not.
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Do you guys think Adam
and I fight too much?
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- Oh, yeah, way too much.
- Yeah. It's out of control.
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Hey. I'm sorry. Only
interested in hearing
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from people who've been married.
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- I've been married.
- What?
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I was 22. A guy promised me $3,000
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to marry him for a green card, so I did.
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Next morning I found out
he was broke and from Iowa.
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But how often did you fight?
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Just the once.
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Hello.
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Hi. Are you George Huang?
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No, that's my dad.
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Is he here?
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I accidentally hit
his car a few days ago
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and wanted to apologize.
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He probably didn't even notice.
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Oh, he definitely noticed.
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It's all he's talked about
for the last two days.
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If I were you, I'd run.
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Who is it?
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Don't buy anything.
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Hi. Uh, I'm the one who hit your car.
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Betty, it's the
criminal who hit our car.
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What kind of person
doesn't leave a note?
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Betty, I did leave a note.
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Then I went back and took it.
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Why do I keep telling people that?
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Are you gonna translate for me?
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I don't think you want me to.
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Like, every little
problem Adam and I have
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turns into a fight.
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Maybe it's me.
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Maybe I'm too broken to be
in a partnership with someone.
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Hey, for 35 bucks, I expect words.
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Shrink it up.
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What if I were to give you some tools
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to communicate with Adam better?
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Well, now we're talking.
That sounds like value.
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- Lay 'em on me.
- What I would suggest
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is when things get heated,
uh, try some physical contact.
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You want me to hit him?
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I mean, you know, granted,
he won't see it coming.
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I want you to give him a gentle
touch in order to maintain
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a loving connection during conflict.
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In our case, gentle touch
frequently leads to sex.
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But maybe that's what you're going for.
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Sex is not a resolution for conflict.
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Then you're not doing it right.
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Also, we've noticed you have
some impulse control issues.
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What if you and Adam try to count to two
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before saying anything
during an argument?
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That's stupid.
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Now, if you had counted
to two just then,
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you might've said
something more constructive.
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One, two.
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Nope, still stupid.
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Okay. Sadly, we're out of time.
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See you next week.
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Okay. Great.
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Ooh.
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Almost forgot.
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Ooh.
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- That's a Life Saver.
- You're a Life Saver.
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Hey!
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Hey! I'm in here.
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I hope you're hungry,
'cause I've been ma...
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What's that?
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Fried chicken.
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I was starving on the way home.
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I saved you the legs.
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Adam, I specifically
told you this morning
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that I was making dinner.
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Why can't you ev...
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One, two.
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You see, my love,
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I made salmon for us.
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Why are you counting?
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It's a tool Trevor gave me.
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You count to two so you
don't say things in anger.
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I'm paying now, so
this is the elite stuff.
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You're paying now? You
didn't tell me that.
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Yes, I did!
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One, two. Yes, I did.
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Okay, what's this?
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The other tool he gave me.
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It's supposed to make us feel connected.
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Your hand smells like
fish. And by the way,
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I've told you a dozen
times I hate salmon.
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I hate the way you say "ma-ture,"
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but you got to hit
the hard "T," don'tcha?
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And touch me back. One, two.
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One, two. The point is,
you don't listen to me.
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One, two, three. You
don't listen to me, either.
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I never said "three"!
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You don't even listen to
how many numbers to use!
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Kind of pulling my hair a little bit.
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I kind of know!
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Let me guess.
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You watched Flashdance last night?
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What.
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A.
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Feeling.
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I spent two hours on the movie
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and two hours cutting the necklines
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out of all my sweatshirts.
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And some of mine before
I took the scissors away.
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Why are you suddenly
watching all the movies
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I loved in the third grade?
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'Cause I never saw 'em.
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'Cause you were poor?
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'Cause I was drunk.
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It's amazing how much pop
culture you miss out on
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when you're loaded all the time.
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I know. For years I
thought Ellen DeGeneres
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and David Spade were the same person.
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Oh, my God.
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I just got asked out.
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Say yes. Say yes.
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Even if it's a wrong number.
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It's the son of the
couple whose car I hit.
258
00:13:10,922 --> 00:13:13,673
I paid for their bumper, and now
he wants to have coffee with me.
259
00:13:13,703 --> 00:13:15,631
Look at that... The
universe is rewarding you
260
00:13:15,656 --> 00:13:17,189
for doing the right thing.
261
00:13:18,095 --> 00:13:19,837
Well, be careful... you
don't even know this guy.
262
00:13:19,862 --> 00:13:21,165
He could be a serial killer.
263
00:13:21,190 --> 00:13:23,924
Or just want to kill you and be done.
264
00:13:26,060 --> 00:13:28,560
I say pack your Mace, roll the dice.
265
00:13:28,585 --> 00:13:30,051
Thanks, Mom.
266
00:13:36,967 --> 00:13:39,380
Yeah, go ahead,
Sandra, pack your bag!
267
00:13:39,405 --> 00:13:41,131
It didn't scare me last time you did it,
268
00:13:41,156 --> 00:13:42,834
and it doesn't scare me now!
269
00:13:42,859 --> 00:13:44,692
I am not trying to scare you!
270
00:13:44,725 --> 00:13:47,921
I am trying to get away
from your toxic narcissism!
271
00:13:47,946 --> 00:13:50,842
We have been having
the same fight for 16 years!
272
00:13:50,867 --> 00:13:52,634
Nothing is ever good enough for you!
273
00:13:52,659 --> 00:13:54,248
I am so done with you!
274
00:14:02,793 --> 00:14:03,892
Bonnie?
275
00:14:07,754 --> 00:14:09,081
Hello.
276
00:14:17,963 --> 00:14:20,755
- Hi! Kevin!
- Hey!
277
00:14:20,780 --> 00:14:22,547
I-I'll be right there.
278
00:14:22,572 --> 00:14:24,906
Great. I'll get us a table.
279
00:14:31,318 --> 00:14:33,252
Oh, no, no, no!
280
00:14:36,506 --> 00:14:37,539
Damn it.
281
00:14:37,607 --> 00:14:39,662
I'm gonna be alone forever!
282
00:14:50,821 --> 00:14:52,654
Sorry about that.
283
00:14:53,690 --> 00:14:55,323
No worries.
284
00:14:56,205 --> 00:14:57,836
I lost track of the time.
285
00:14:58,939 --> 00:15:00,072
Are you okay?
286
00:15:00,097 --> 00:15:02,397
As always, we're not
here to talk about me.
287
00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,296
So, were you able to
utilize the tools with Adam?
288
00:15:07,321 --> 00:15:08,547
We tried.
289
00:15:09,095 --> 00:15:11,028
If anything, they made the fight bigger.
290
00:15:11,053 --> 00:15:12,986
Maybe that's why you don't use them
291
00:15:13,011 --> 00:15:14,687
when you fight with your wife.
292
00:15:17,805 --> 00:15:20,211
I know this is asking a lot,
but I'd really like you to try
293
00:15:20,236 --> 00:15:21,969
and forget what you witnessed earlier.
294
00:15:21,994 --> 00:15:23,426
Sure. Forgotten.
295
00:15:23,868 --> 00:15:27,022
Anyway, we tried physical
touch, we tried counting.
296
00:15:27,047 --> 00:15:28,813
It just led to me
throwing more potatoes,
297
00:15:28,838 --> 00:15:30,771
and this time it wasn't
the little ones...
298
00:15:30,796 --> 00:15:32,562
They were mashed and
covered in hot butter.
299
00:15:33,676 --> 00:15:34,980
Well...
300
00:15:35,060 --> 00:15:37,160
some fights are too big for the tools.
301
00:15:37,644 --> 00:15:39,699
Sometimes the rupture
between the two of you
302
00:15:39,724 --> 00:15:43,136
is so deep and so wide you
can't even hear each other.
303
00:15:43,257 --> 00:15:45,257
You try and you try, and you...
304
00:15:45,282 --> 00:15:47,956
you want to put everything back
in the box, but you just can't.
305
00:15:48,699 --> 00:15:50,398
That sounds very painful.
306
00:15:51,655 --> 00:15:54,428
Sometimes I wake up, I don't
even know how to breathe.
307
00:15:55,896 --> 00:15:58,730
Wait. What did you just do?
308
00:15:59,476 --> 00:16:01,850
I created a safe space without judgment.
309
00:16:03,359 --> 00:16:05,526
I'm not sure I like this.
310
00:16:05,551 --> 00:16:08,785
That's okay. Just live with
the feeling for a moment.
311
00:16:09,374 --> 00:16:10,640
I don't know.
312
00:16:10,990 --> 00:16:12,957
I feel like I've worked my ass off.
313
00:16:12,982 --> 00:16:14,648
I've given her a great life, but...
314
00:16:14,673 --> 00:16:16,273
yet nothing is ever good enough.
315
00:16:16,298 --> 00:16:18,165
Why are you making
this all about yourself?
316
00:16:19,199 --> 00:16:20,520
I don't think I am.
317
00:16:20,545 --> 00:16:22,345
You have to remember, her inner life
318
00:16:22,370 --> 00:16:24,003
is totally separate from you.
319
00:16:24,028 --> 00:16:26,729
Isn't it possible she has
needs that aren't being met
320
00:16:26,754 --> 00:16:28,988
that have nothing to do with you?
321
00:16:30,206 --> 00:16:31,272
Huh.
322
00:16:31,544 --> 00:16:33,311
That's something to think about.
323
00:16:33,504 --> 00:16:35,064
It is, isn't it?
324
00:16:39,095 --> 00:16:41,028
Well, obviously, today
went off the rails.
325
00:16:41,053 --> 00:16:42,798
I'm not gonna charge you for this week.
326
00:16:42,823 --> 00:16:45,358
Of course not. But I
am gonna charge you.
327
00:16:47,963 --> 00:16:49,362
Thirty-five dollars.
328
00:16:51,102 --> 00:16:52,334
I'm not kidding.
329
00:16:59,262 --> 00:17:00,718
You.
330
00:17:00,743 --> 00:17:03,010
Hi. I'm not sure why I keep
choosing to do it this way,
331
00:17:03,035 --> 00:17:04,524
but here's a note and a check.
332
00:17:06,735 --> 00:17:09,136
Razing or totally damaging
333
00:17:09,161 --> 00:17:11,751
- 30 homes, triggering...
- Hey.
334
00:17:11,776 --> 00:17:13,305
Hey.
335
00:17:14,759 --> 00:17:16,280
I know you were just in therapy.
336
00:17:16,305 --> 00:17:17,938
I know you're in charge of dinner.
337
00:17:17,963 --> 00:17:20,852
I'm just sitting here being mature.
338
00:17:25,003 --> 00:17:26,536
How are you?
339
00:17:27,164 --> 00:17:28,371
I'm fine.
340
00:17:28,664 --> 00:17:31,618
Don't just say fine. I'm
really asking how you are.
341
00:17:32,305 --> 00:17:34,544
Oh, God, is this another therapy tool?
342
00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,581
What's next? Are we gonna talk
to each other with puppets?
343
00:17:38,738 --> 00:17:41,995
His puppets are for kids,
and I'm not allowed to play with them
344
00:17:42,020 --> 00:17:44,020
since I left them in funny positions.
345
00:17:45,390 --> 00:17:48,891
This is just me realizing
I want you to listen to me,
346
00:17:48,916 --> 00:17:51,571
but I don't always
stop to listen to you.
347
00:17:51,999 --> 00:17:53,085
So...
348
00:17:53,110 --> 00:17:55,310
do you have stuff on your mind?
349
00:17:56,158 --> 00:17:58,324
Yeah, I got tons of stuff on my mind.
350
00:17:58,546 --> 00:17:59,879
Like what?
351
00:17:59,904 --> 00:18:02,546
Well, the big topic in
here these days is death.
352
00:18:03,303 --> 00:18:04,374
Oh.
353
00:18:04,613 --> 00:18:06,280
Mine or yours?
354
00:18:07,758 --> 00:18:09,624
Definitely mine.
355
00:18:10,998 --> 00:18:12,232
You know...
356
00:18:13,959 --> 00:18:16,863
getting married kind
of gave me a future...
357
00:18:17,178 --> 00:18:20,133
and people that I need
to... take care of,
358
00:18:20,158 --> 00:18:21,858
and my last birthday,
359
00:18:21,970 --> 00:18:24,971
I-I turned the same age
as my dad was when he died,
360
00:18:24,996 --> 00:18:27,123
so yeah, I'm thinking about dying.
361
00:18:27,509 --> 00:18:28,675
How often?
362
00:18:28,809 --> 00:18:31,810
Oh, you know, three,
four hundred times a day.
363
00:18:33,751 --> 00:18:35,114
Honey, that's pretty often.
364
00:18:35,139 --> 00:18:38,406
I take breaks and...
worry about earthquakes.
365
00:18:40,852 --> 00:18:42,686
Okay, I'm gonna touch you now,
366
00:18:42,747 --> 00:18:44,480
and it's not a therapy thing.
367
00:18:45,352 --> 00:18:47,883
It's an "I love you" thing.
368
00:18:53,098 --> 00:18:54,997
You know you don't
have to worry about me.
369
00:18:55,337 --> 00:18:56,770
I can take care of myself.
370
00:18:56,795 --> 00:18:58,173
I know that.
371
00:18:59,270 --> 00:19:01,134
It still doesn't help.
372
00:19:03,968 --> 00:19:05,579
Did you feel that?
373
00:19:09,322 --> 00:19:11,025
Jill, thanks so much for hosting.
374
00:19:11,050 --> 00:19:13,017
Oh, this is gonna be so fun.
375
00:19:13,326 --> 00:19:16,093
Footloose Kevin Bacon is
my favorite Kevin Bacon.
376
00:19:16,436 --> 00:19:18,139
This is way nicer than Marjorie's.
377
00:19:18,164 --> 00:19:20,152
The screen's bigger
than a postage stamp,
378
00:19:20,177 --> 00:19:21,569
and we don't have to fight the cats
379
00:19:21,594 --> 00:19:23,360
for couch space or popcorn.
380
00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,053
Yes, it's wonderful.
381
00:19:25,078 --> 00:19:26,678
- Mm.
- Thank you, Jill.
382
00:19:26,703 --> 00:19:28,803
- And it smells so clean.
- Okay.
383
00:19:28,828 --> 00:19:30,366
Okay.
384
00:19:30,709 --> 00:19:32,642
I got Milk Duds...
385
00:19:32,667 --> 00:19:33,932
and Whoppers.
386
00:19:33,957 --> 00:19:35,557
I had Reese's Pieces, but...
387
00:19:35,582 --> 00:19:38,182
it's a long walk from the kitchen.
388
00:19:38,207 --> 00:19:39,757
It's just nicer in every way.
389
00:19:39,781 --> 00:19:41,062
Clap it!
390
00:19:41,968 --> 00:19:44,257
Alright, starting the movie
391
00:19:46,490 --> 00:19:48,132
Since when do
you wear glasses?
392
00:19:49,015 --> 00:19:52,460
I just found out I need them.
You know, for movies.
393
00:19:53,030 --> 00:19:55,130
Maybe a little bit
for driving.
394
00:19:55,199 --> 00:19:56,998
What'd you do,
hit another car?
395
00:19:57,023 --> 00:19:58,756
Hope so. That's
how she meets men.
396
00:20:01,551 --> 00:20:03,571
Movie's starting.
397
00:20:07,605 --> 00:20:08,877
What are you doing?
398
00:20:08,902 --> 00:20:10,868
Oh, I'm gonna dance
for the entire movie,
399
00:20:10,893 --> 00:20:13,394
'cause the people in this town can't.
400
00:20:13,419 --> 00:20:18,419
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