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What maniac brought
vegetables without ranch?

2
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I don't want to know what
celery actually tastes like.

3
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It was me. I swear,

4
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I hadn't eaten something green
in a month.

5
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Ever since I started
dating Andy,

6
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all I eat is meat, meat, meat
and banana pudding.

7
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But your man cooks for you.
That's my dream.

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That and a pickup truck
with a tailgate

9
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that turns into a ladder.

10
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It is nice, but he brought over

11
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a ton of cookbooks
and rubs and sauces.

12
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He's got my kitchen
looking like a... kitchen.

13
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Hey, you're a builder person.

14
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Can you build me a shelf
to make that stuff go away?

15
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In my sleep.Well, how much do you charge?

16
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Stop. I'll do it for free.

17
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No, no. You got to know
your value.

18
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How else are you gonna get that
pickup if you work for free?

19
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Well, I do want that truck.

20
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Let's see, one shelf: $42,000.

21
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Fine. 75 bucks.

22
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Deal.

23
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Hello, everyone.

24
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What's new?

25
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[laughs] You went
to my bra lady.

26
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Oh, she is not a bra lady,
she's a boob architect.

27
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I mean, I got lifted, separated
and groped, but in a good way.

28
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I had no idea I was wearing
the wrong size this whole time.

29
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Oh, I did. Merry Christmas.

30
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I keep catching them
in my peripheral vision.

31
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I'm just sitting there and
it's like "Ooh! Hello, ladies."

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[phone chimes]

33
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Oh, my God.

34
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WENDY:
What?

35
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I just got a text
from my son.

36
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Are you serious?

37
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He hasn't spoken
to me in years.

38
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Well, what'd it say?

39
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Just to call him
when I get a chance.

40
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Well, you got a chance. Do it.

41
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No. No, I'm not ready.

42
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I need a meeting first.
Wendy, let's get started.

43
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Welcome to the Thursday
women's meeting.

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My name is Wendy and
I'm an alcoholic.

45
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Eh, screw it, I can't wait.

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Hi, Wendy.

47
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♪

48
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Marjorie's still on the phone?I can barely see.

49
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Looks like somebody cleaned
this window with ham.

50
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I think her lips are moving.

51
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Oh, that doesn't mean anything.

52
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She talks to herself
all the time at home.

53
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What are you guys
looking at?

54
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Oh. I don't know.

55
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So who have we been spying on?

56
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Oh, my God,
it's Dwayne the custodian.

57
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[laughs]

58
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Well, that's on him.

59
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He shouldn't wear
his hair like that.

60
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So, what happened?

61
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Call me Grandma.

62
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[cheering]

63
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Congratulations.

64
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Oh...

65
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That's great.

66
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It was so wonderful
to hear his voice.

67
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Aw.

68
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He told me I have a
granddaughter named Sophia

69
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and he wants me to meet her.

70
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That's great, Marjorie.
I am so happy-- Whoa!

71
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Oh.Sorry, my boobs scared me again.

72
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Whew.

73
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How much further?

74
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1.7 miles.

75
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Uh, make that 1.6 miles.

76
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Ooh, T.J. Maxx coming up
on the left.

77
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1.5.

78
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Okay, Siri, settle down.

79
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Thanks again for driving.

80
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I felt fine this morning, but
then I fed the cats granola

81
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and poured myself
a bowl of Meow Mix

82
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and I thought,
"Maybe don't drive."

83
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You'll be great.

84
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1.2.

85
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I can't believe
this is happening.

86
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1.1.

87
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You know the best part?

88
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Jerry wanted nothing
to do with you,

89
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but you sent birthday cards
every year.

90
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You didn't get anything back,
but you didn't give up.

91
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And now look.

92
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I thought you were crazy.

93
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I might have said so
when you weren't around.

94
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You said it to my face.

95
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Did I?
[chuckles]

96
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That's what I like about me.

97
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And what the rest of
us hope you work on.

98
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What am I supposed to say to him
after all this time?

99
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When he was little,

100
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my goal was just to stay sober
until he got on the school bus,

101
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and most days,
I couldn't make it.

102
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Well, I blame vodka
for being so damn delicious

103
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with orange juice.

104
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Or with any juice.

105
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Or with nothing.

106
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0.3.

107
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Finally, my husband told me

108
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I had to stop drinking
or move out.

109
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So...

110
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You moved out.

111
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That day.

112
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I chose booze over my own son.

113
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But you're an incredible woman
now and he's gonna see it.

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AUTOMATED VOICE: You have
arrived at your destination.

115
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Oh, sure, I do all the work
and you bring us home.

116
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Text us if you need us.

117
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We're gonna go
get our nails done.

118
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And maybe hit that T.J. Maxx.

119
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[exhales]
I am so nervous.

120
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Relax. There's a baby there.

121
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They're great icebreakers.

122
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Yeah. Any time you're
at a loss for words,

123
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you just say,
"Look at the baby."

124
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Maybe don't do a voice

125
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that sounds like you're gonna
eat the baby.

126
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Would you look at all
these stupid cookbooks?

127
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Grill Master, Grill Monster,
All Up in My Grill.

128
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I guess I should be happy
he's reading.

129
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Although this one's
mostly pictures.

130
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How high do you want this?

131
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Where I can't see
it and Andy can.

132
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Well, how tall is he?

133
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Mm...

134
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Little bit taller than you.

135
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Oh, Belinda,
did you vacuum the carpet

136
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in the master bedroom today?

137
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I did it first thing.

138
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Did you, though?

139
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'Cause it's not as fluffed up
as it should be.

140
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I'll give it another go.

141
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And this time,
I'll really put my back into it.

142
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Thank you, thank you.

143
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All righty,
I'm gonna go get a massage,

144
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take a steam and then relax
for a little while.

145
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That's a pretty busy day.
Leave time for a nap.

146
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I always do.

147
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What would you like for lunch?

148
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Oh, I'll be done
way before then.

149
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Have you worked
for Miss Jill before?

150
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No.I'll make you tuna.

151
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Got to say, I'm surprised
you said yes to the paraffin.

152
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I didn't know what it was.

153
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I thought she was
offering me a snack.

154
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Well, whatever's happening
inside this mitt

155
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feels soft and warm.

156
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And kind of sexy.

157
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Man, I need a boyfriend.

158
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That is the word
on the street.

159
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Maybe this bra is gonna change
my whole dating life.

160
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You've been wearing it
for a couple of days.

161
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Gotten any feelers?

162
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Just me for right now.

163
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But you know what? It ain't bad.

164
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[phone chimes]

165
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[grunts]

166
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It's Marjorie.So soon?

167
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Hang on.

168
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She says, "Come get me ASAP."

169
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That's not good.I know, we got to go

170
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right after we're done here.
No T.J. Maxx.

171
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Mom, we got to go now.

172
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What? She said,
"as soon as possible."

173
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The only thing
that's possible right now

174
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is me taking a chicken
out of the oven.

175
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11:22. Told you I'd be
out of here by lunch.

176
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Well done.

177
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[sighs]
Well, I took my steam,

178
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but there was
no eucalyptus spray,

179
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and I'm not gonna point
any fingers, but Natalie?

180
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I'll take care of it.

181
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Thank you, thank you.

182
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I finished your shelf.
What do you think?

183
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Oh. Okay.

184
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Don't you like it?

185
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No, I like it.

186
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But?

187
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It's just not
what I pictured.

188
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Well, what did you picture?

189
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I don't know.

190
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I mean, I-I guess I sort of saw
the shelf with sides and a top

191
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and maybe some doors.

192
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So a cabinet.

193
00:08:05,702 --> 00:08:09,576
A cabinet, yes. That's
the kind of shelf I want.

194
00:08:09,619 --> 00:08:12,100
All right. Well, I need
to get more supplies,

195
00:08:12,143 --> 00:08:13,449
but okay.
[chuckles]

196
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Oh. You're the best.
Ah...

197
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Thank you, thank you.

198
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Would you like your tuna
sandwich toasted or not toasted?

199
00:08:22,937 --> 00:08:24,939
Toasted.

200
00:08:26,941 --> 00:08:28,899
Oh, God, she's
sitting on the curb.

201
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Looks like a depressed
garden gnome.

202
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Are you okay?No.

203
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What happened?

204
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I thought it was going well.

205
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And then I said the
baby looked cold

206
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and maybe she
needed a blanket.

207
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Then all of a sudden my son
starts screaming at me

208
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that I have no right to
tell him how to parent.

209
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That's crazy.

210
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You didn't mean anything by it.

211
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You know what? I'm gonna go in
and say something.

212
00:08:56,100 --> 00:08:58,668
No. Stay out of it.

213
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But it's not fair.

214
00:09:00,061 --> 00:09:02,063
Please just take me home.

215
00:09:11,551 --> 00:09:14,597
So? What do you think?

216
00:09:14,641 --> 00:09:16,599
Hmm.

217
00:09:20,516 --> 00:09:22,083
So I build her a cabinet,
which everyone knows

218
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is different than a shelf,

219
00:09:23,563 --> 00:09:25,521
and she says
it's "too closed-off."

220
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So we try glass doors that she
picked out, and then guess what?

221
00:09:28,698 --> 00:09:30,439
She says
it's "too see-through."

222
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Why are you smiling?

223
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No one ever vents to me.

224
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Oh, good. She came.

225
00:09:37,881 --> 00:09:39,666
Mm. Hope she's doing
better today.

226
00:09:39,709 --> 00:09:42,320
You know, Bonnie, they paint
lines in the parking lot

227
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for a reason.

228
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Nope.

229
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I'm sorry, I'll park
better in the future.

230
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Damn, this is terrible.

231
00:09:52,026 --> 00:09:54,245
It's always terrible.

232
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Do you want to vent to me?

233
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It's a thing now.

234
00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,040
We have time for one more share.

235
00:10:07,911 --> 00:10:09,913
[imitates Marjorie]:
I'll go.

236
00:10:12,046 --> 00:10:13,003
Marjorie?

237
00:10:13,047 --> 00:10:15,353
[sighs]
Fine.

238
00:10:15,397 --> 00:10:16,790
Marjorie, alcoholic.

239
00:10:16,833 --> 00:10:18,052
ALL:
Hi, Marjorie.

240
00:10:18,095 --> 00:10:22,796
I know that I've been sober
for a long time

241
00:10:22,839 --> 00:10:27,801
and I sponsor women and I try
to do all the right things,

242
00:10:27,844 --> 00:10:32,327
but... in my son's eyes,

243
00:10:32,370 --> 00:10:36,331
I'll-I'll always be the mom he
saw passed out on the sidewalk

244
00:10:36,374 --> 00:10:37,941
on his way to school.

245
00:10:39,595 --> 00:10:44,208
And I had accepted that he and I
might never have a relationship.

246
00:10:45,209 --> 00:10:47,037
But then I saw him.

247
00:10:47,081 --> 00:10:50,606
And I met my beautiful
new granddaughter.

248
00:10:52,608 --> 00:10:57,047
And now I wish he'd never
reached out to me at all.

249
00:11:02,313 --> 00:11:04,707
If her son knew her
the way we do,

250
00:11:04,751 --> 00:11:06,578
he'd be excited
to have her in his life.

251
00:11:06,622 --> 00:11:08,319
He'd be lucky to
have her in his life.

252
00:11:08,363 --> 00:11:09,799
He needs to know
how incredible she is.

253
00:11:09,843 --> 00:11:11,845
Someone needs to tell him.

254
00:11:14,151 --> 00:11:15,283
[tires screeching]

255
00:11:15,326 --> 00:11:17,024
Ooh, are we telling him?

256
00:11:17,067 --> 00:11:18,547
Hell yeah, we are.

257
00:11:18,590 --> 00:11:21,158
I was literally about to say
we should go there and meddle.

258
00:11:21,202 --> 00:11:22,507
We're so in sync.

259
00:11:22,551 --> 00:11:23,857
Were you also thinking
we should stop

260
00:11:23,900 --> 00:11:25,032
at the drive-through and get...

261
00:11:25,075 --> 00:11:26,163
Crunchwrap gorditas?

262
00:11:26,207 --> 00:11:28,165
I was gonna say salads.

263
00:11:28,209 --> 00:11:31,168
Okay, but same page
about the son.

264
00:11:31,212 --> 00:11:33,170
What the hell was that?

265
00:11:33,214 --> 00:11:34,519
A high five.

266
00:11:34,563 --> 00:11:37,914
How about an "up top" first?

267
00:11:37,958 --> 00:11:41,222
I followed your suggestions,
made it "more streamlined,"

268
00:11:41,265 --> 00:11:42,571
got rid of the "silly frills."

269
00:11:42,614 --> 00:11:44,094
I hope you like it.

270
00:11:46,096 --> 00:11:48,316
[gasps]
Oh, Tammy!

271
00:11:48,359 --> 00:11:50,187
It's perfect!Ah...

272
00:11:50,231 --> 00:11:52,712
Belinda, Natalie,
did you see it?

273
00:11:52,755 --> 00:11:55,062
Beautiful.
Yes.

274
00:11:56,106 --> 00:11:58,065
Oh, I'm so happy.

275
00:11:58,108 --> 00:12:00,981
Job well done.
And here you go.

276
00:12:01,024 --> 00:12:03,157
$75, just like we agreed.

277
00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,159
Yeah, just like we agreed.

278
00:12:05,202 --> 00:12:06,334
[clears throat]

279
00:12:06,377 --> 00:12:09,903
Belinda, put all
of Andy's grill stuff

280
00:12:09,946 --> 00:12:12,601
up on my new shelf when you're
done vacuuming my bedroom.

281
00:12:12,644 --> 00:12:15,125
I already vacuumed it twice.

282
00:12:15,169 --> 00:12:17,040
Perhaps the third time
will be the charm.

283
00:12:17,084 --> 00:12:18,433
Thank you, thank you.

284
00:12:20,696 --> 00:12:23,481
That's the same shelf
you started with, isn't it?

285
00:12:23,525 --> 00:12:25,483
Yep, but now it's her idea.

286
00:12:25,527 --> 00:12:27,268
You caught on fast.

287
00:12:27,311 --> 00:12:29,792
You know, it's funny, I've never
seen this side of Jill.

288
00:12:29,836 --> 00:12:31,663
Is there another side?

289
00:12:31,707 --> 00:12:33,448
How could she not get
that with all the extra time

290
00:12:33,491 --> 00:12:36,059
and materials,
she should pay me more money?

291
00:12:36,103 --> 00:12:37,582
It's Jill math.

292
00:12:37,626 --> 00:12:40,629
She pays us to work till 5:00,
but keeps us till 6:30.

293
00:12:40,672 --> 00:12:43,284
And she hasn't given us
a raise in three years.

294
00:12:43,327 --> 00:12:45,503
But she does give us lots
of "thank you, thank yous."

295
00:12:47,157 --> 00:12:50,770
I tried to buy groceries
with them, but it didn't work.

296
00:12:50,813 --> 00:12:51,945
That's not right.

297
00:12:51,988 --> 00:12:53,250
Uh-huh.

298
00:12:53,294 --> 00:12:54,817
No, I'm serious. It's not right.

299
00:12:54,861 --> 00:12:57,472
We agree.I mean, it's wrong!

300
00:12:57,515 --> 00:13:00,605
[chuckles]
Remember when we were like that?

301
00:13:01,650 --> 00:13:02,956
I'd stay and reminisce,

302
00:13:02,999 --> 00:13:05,480
but I have to go and
vacuum a clean carpet.

303
00:13:09,745 --> 00:13:11,573
Thanks for seeing us.

304
00:13:11,616 --> 00:13:13,140
We know this is
a little weird.

305
00:13:13,183 --> 00:13:15,490
That's fine. I just want
everyone to get along.

306
00:13:15,533 --> 00:13:16,665
JERRY:
Babe,

307
00:13:16,708 --> 00:13:18,275
who's at the door?

308
00:13:18,319 --> 00:13:21,583
Uh, this is, uh,
Bonnie and Christy.

309
00:13:21,626 --> 00:13:23,498
Friends of your mother's.

310
00:13:23,541 --> 00:13:24,586
Oh.

311
00:13:24,629 --> 00:13:25,935
Hi.

312
00:13:25,979 --> 00:13:28,285
You and I actually met.

313
00:13:28,329 --> 00:13:32,115
It was a few years ago,
when your mom had cancer.

314
00:13:32,159 --> 00:13:34,117
Right.

315
00:13:34,161 --> 00:13:36,119
You stuck your nose in then.

316
00:13:36,163 --> 00:13:38,730
I'm assuming you're here
to stick it in again now?

317
00:13:42,647 --> 00:13:44,127
Look at the baby!

318
00:13:48,436 --> 00:13:51,874
I have nothing to say
about that woman.

319
00:13:51,918 --> 00:13:55,617
It was a mistake to reach out.
It wasn't even my idea.

320
00:13:55,660 --> 00:13:57,184
It was mine.

321
00:13:57,227 --> 00:14:00,622
I thought it would be nice
for Sophia to have a grandmother

322
00:14:00,665 --> 00:14:03,233
who might like to babysit
every once in a while.

323
00:14:03,277 --> 00:14:05,279
I'm so frickin' tired.

324
00:14:08,543 --> 00:14:11,198
Marjorie would love to babysit.

325
00:14:11,241 --> 00:14:12,547
Well, that's too bad.

326
00:14:12,590 --> 00:14:14,723
She's made her choices
and I've made mine.

327
00:14:14,766 --> 00:14:16,681
I know this is
difficult to believe,

328
00:14:16,725 --> 00:14:19,380
but the person you're angry
at doesn't exist anymore.

329
00:14:19,423 --> 00:14:22,122
And if you gave her another
chance, you'd see that.

330
00:14:22,165 --> 00:14:23,906
Yeah, she is a remarkable woman.

331
00:14:23,950 --> 00:14:26,648
She has done so much good
for so many people.

332
00:14:26,691 --> 00:14:30,217
Great. She can help total
strangers but not her own son.

333
00:14:30,260 --> 00:14:32,523
Okay, buddy, you're not
ten years old anymore.

334
00:14:32,567 --> 00:14:34,569
Your mother screwed
up a long time ago.

335
00:14:34,612 --> 00:14:36,310
You need to let her
off the hook already.

336
00:14:36,353 --> 00:14:38,703
I mean, this one put me
through the wringer forever,

337
00:14:38,747 --> 00:14:41,271
but she came around,
and now we're good.

338
00:14:43,883 --> 00:14:45,841
I wasn't putting her
through the wringer,

339
00:14:45,885 --> 00:14:48,235
I was taking care of myself.

340
00:14:48,278 --> 00:14:51,586
Exactly.
And-and that's what I'm doing.

341
00:14:51,629 --> 00:14:54,415
But the point is, my
daughter forgave me.

342
00:14:54,458 --> 00:14:56,765
But that took time.

343
00:14:56,808 --> 00:14:58,767
And you need to do
what's best for you.

344
00:14:58,810 --> 00:14:59,942
What are you doing?

345
00:15:01,596 --> 00:15:06,775
Well, I just, I have been in his
position, so I can empathize.

346
00:15:06,818 --> 00:15:09,473
When you've had
a traumatizing childhood,

347
00:15:09,517 --> 00:15:12,302
it's hard to just let that go.

348
00:15:12,346 --> 00:15:13,477
It's really hard.

349
00:15:13,521 --> 00:15:16,002
But it's possible.

350
00:15:16,045 --> 00:15:19,092
That's what we're here to
tell him, that it's possible.

351
00:15:19,135 --> 00:15:20,615
[chuckles]
Of course it is.

352
00:15:20,658 --> 00:15:22,269
We're good now.

353
00:15:22,312 --> 00:15:24,967
And that's because I took
the space I needed.

354
00:15:25,011 --> 00:15:26,838
He's had 28 years of space.

355
00:15:26,882 --> 00:15:28,840
And for the record, I don't
think much healing went on

356
00:15:28,884 --> 00:15:30,233
when you shut me
out of your life.

357
00:15:30,277 --> 00:15:32,235
But we are good now.So good.

358
00:15:32,279 --> 00:15:34,977
And I think the reason we're
so good now is that we deal

359
00:15:35,021 --> 00:15:37,153
with each other instead of
letting our resentments fester

360
00:15:37,197 --> 00:15:39,677
and bubble up at
inappropriate times.

361
00:15:39,721 --> 00:15:41,375
You can't schedule
feelings, Mom.

362
00:15:41,418 --> 00:15:43,290
They just get here
when they get here!

363
00:15:43,333 --> 00:15:45,683
But you can choose to
keep them to yourself!

364
00:15:49,731 --> 00:15:52,386
Sorry, she's just
so activating.

365
00:15:57,304 --> 00:15:58,435
I'm heading out.

366
00:15:58,479 --> 00:16:00,307
Okay. Thank you, thank you.

367
00:16:02,526 --> 00:16:04,311
Look, I need
to tell you something,

368
00:16:04,354 --> 00:16:06,008
because if I don't,
it'll build up

369
00:16:06,052 --> 00:16:08,315
and pretty soon when I do
my birthday thing at Benihana,

370
00:16:08,358 --> 00:16:10,143
you won't be invited
and you'll be devastated

371
00:16:10,186 --> 00:16:11,971
'cause you won't know why.

372
00:16:13,189 --> 00:16:15,800
That was a lot to follow.
Are you mad at me?

373
00:16:17,454 --> 00:16:20,762
You and I agreed on $75
for one shelf.

374
00:16:20,805 --> 00:16:22,111
And I love it.

375
00:16:22,155 --> 00:16:23,460
Yeah, but in order
to get to that shelf,

376
00:16:23,504 --> 00:16:25,027
you made me build
two other shelves.

377
00:16:25,071 --> 00:16:27,595
And a series of cabinets.

378
00:16:27,638 --> 00:16:29,075
So...?

379
00:16:29,118 --> 00:16:30,946
So I want more money.

380
00:16:30,990 --> 00:16:32,730
Oh.

381
00:16:32,774 --> 00:16:34,602
I spent more than that
on materials alone,

382
00:16:34,645 --> 00:16:36,343
not to mention my time.

383
00:16:36,386 --> 00:16:38,649
So I think $250 sounds fair.

384
00:16:38,693 --> 00:16:40,477
Let me get my checkbook.

385
00:16:40,521 --> 00:16:42,523
Thanks.
[chuckles]
You're welcome.

386
00:16:45,091 --> 00:16:48,007
You get why I'd asked, right?Mm-hmm.

387
00:16:48,050 --> 00:16:49,878
Because it seems like
you're writing me the check

388
00:16:49,921 --> 00:16:51,053
to shut me up.
[chuckles]

389
00:16:51,097 --> 00:16:53,751
Isn't that what checks are for?

390
00:16:55,231 --> 00:16:58,495
No, they're for paying people
who work very hard for you.

391
00:16:58,539 --> 00:17:01,020
I heard you, I heard you.
Calm down.

392
00:17:01,063 --> 00:17:02,586
No, because it's not
just about me.

393
00:17:02,630 --> 00:17:04,414
You-you know, you haven't given
your housekeepers a raise

394
00:17:04,458 --> 00:17:05,763
in three years?

395
00:17:05,807 --> 00:17:07,548
Of course I have.

396
00:17:07,591 --> 00:17:09,898
Nope. Not in three years.

397
00:17:09,941 --> 00:17:11,900
Well, how would
you even know that?

398
00:17:11,943 --> 00:17:13,423
Because for the last few days,
I've been in the kitchen

399
00:17:13,467 --> 00:17:14,772
of Downton Abbey.

400
00:17:14,816 --> 00:17:17,906
I love that show.

401
00:17:17,949 --> 00:17:20,082
Now that's a staff.

402
00:17:20,126 --> 00:17:22,215
Belinda and Natalie
are fantastic.

403
00:17:22,258 --> 00:17:24,347
And I say thank you
all the time.

404
00:17:24,391 --> 00:17:26,697
Well, maybe you should
start doing it with money.

405
00:17:26,741 --> 00:17:28,090
I mean, aren't you
the one that says

406
00:17:28,134 --> 00:17:29,918
you need to pay people
their value?

407
00:17:29,961 --> 00:17:31,354
Yes.

408
00:17:31,398 --> 00:17:33,226
So why aren't you?

409
00:17:36,577 --> 00:17:38,057
I don't know.

410
00:17:39,275 --> 00:17:40,929
It just never occurred to me.

411
00:17:40,972 --> 00:17:43,062
[laughs softly]

412
00:17:43,105 --> 00:17:45,064
Oh, my God,
I am an awful person.

413
00:17:45,107 --> 00:17:47,457
No, no, you're
a terrific person,

414
00:17:47,501 --> 00:17:49,285
it's just a little bit
of a blind spot for you.

415
00:17:49,329 --> 00:17:51,592
And when I say "little bit,"
I mean huge.

416
00:17:51,635 --> 00:17:53,115
And when I say
"blind spot,"

417
00:17:53,159 --> 00:17:56,075
I mean gigantic character flaw.

418
00:17:56,118 --> 00:17:58,077
I mean, this is so humiliating.

419
00:17:58,120 --> 00:18:00,688
I don't think
I can even face them now.

420
00:18:00,731 --> 00:18:03,125
I mean, should I just get
rid of them and get new ones?

421
00:18:03,169 --> 00:18:05,127
No. No.

422
00:18:05,171 --> 00:18:07,042
Look at me. No.

423
00:18:13,657 --> 00:18:16,834
Oh. I was gonna watch a movie.

424
00:18:17,835 --> 00:18:20,882
Fine, I'll study in my room.

425
00:18:20,925 --> 00:18:23,189
Oh, I don't want
to inconvenience you.

426
00:18:23,232 --> 00:18:25,234
You're not.

427
00:18:25,278 --> 00:18:27,976
Thank you.

428
00:18:28,019 --> 00:18:29,325
[sighs]

429
00:18:30,326 --> 00:18:31,545
What does that mean?

430
00:18:32,589 --> 00:18:35,679
It's called breathing.

431
00:18:35,723 --> 00:18:39,292
Is that okay or is it
too "activating" for you?

432
00:18:39,335 --> 00:18:41,511
[knocking on door]

433
00:18:41,555 --> 00:18:43,731
Keep breathing, I'll get it.

434
00:18:48,518 --> 00:18:51,173
I just got off the phone
with my son.

435
00:18:51,217 --> 00:18:52,522
It was Christy's idea.

436
00:18:52,566 --> 00:18:55,177
You're the one who turned
the car around.

437
00:18:55,221 --> 00:18:57,527
I came to say thank you.

438
00:18:57,571 --> 00:19:00,443
It was my idea.

439
00:19:00,487 --> 00:19:02,576
Jerry decided
that he wants his daughter

440
00:19:02,619 --> 00:19:04,578
to have a relationship
with her grandma.Oh...

441
00:19:05,622 --> 00:19:07,102
That's amazing.

442
00:19:07,146 --> 00:19:09,365
What about, what about
you and Jerry?

443
00:19:09,409 --> 00:19:11,802
H-He said we're
a work in progress.

444
00:19:11,846 --> 00:19:15,632
I don't know what you said
to him, but I'm so grateful.

445
00:19:16,851 --> 00:19:19,288
To be honest, it was really
more Christy than me.

446
00:19:19,332 --> 00:19:21,812
[scoffs]
That's not true.

447
00:19:21,856 --> 00:19:23,814
You're the one
who turned the car around.Yeah,

448
00:19:23,858 --> 00:19:25,729
but you did that whole thing
where you empathized with him.

449
00:19:25,773 --> 00:19:27,296
I think that made
the difference.

450
00:19:27,340 --> 00:19:30,038
I don't know.
That tough love stuff

451
00:19:30,081 --> 00:19:32,171
you were dishing out
was pretty compelling.

452
00:19:32,214 --> 00:19:34,085
And that
festering resentment part?

453
00:19:34,129 --> 00:19:35,565
[scoffs]
It was a home run.

454
00:19:35,609 --> 00:19:38,089
Was it? I was afraid
it was too much.

455
00:19:38,133 --> 00:19:39,656
In the moment,
I was concerned...
Yeah.

456
00:19:39,700 --> 00:19:41,354
...but it turns out,
you're a genius.

457
00:19:42,790 --> 00:19:45,662
Wow. You two are so good now.

458
00:19:45,706 --> 00:19:48,796
BOTH:
We know.

459
00:19:48,839 --> 00:19:50,363
Hey, we did it.Ah!

460
00:19:50,406 --> 00:19:52,103
What?

461
00:19:56,891 --> 00:19:58,762
Here you go.

462
00:19:58,806 --> 00:20:00,808
Oh, you didn't have
to make me lunch.

463
00:20:00,851 --> 00:20:03,767
Oh, no, no, no. I have to learn
how to do things for myself.

464
00:20:03,811 --> 00:20:06,117
Settle down. You just sent
your housekeepers on vacation.

465
00:20:06,161 --> 00:20:07,815
You're not Helen Keller.

466
00:20:07,858 --> 00:20:09,512
That's right.
Because I'm a good person

467
00:20:09,556 --> 00:20:11,210
who also makes
a good tuna sandwich.

468
00:20:11,253 --> 00:20:14,691
How about you're a great person
who makes a sandwich?

469
00:20:15,388 --> 00:20:18,434
Would you mind getting me
a refill of my iced tea?

470
00:20:18,478 --> 00:20:20,393
Oh, sure.

471
00:20:20,436 --> 00:20:22,438
Thank you, thank you.

472
00:20:31,882 --> 00:20:33,841
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