1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:04,360 This programme contains strong language. 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:04,680 This programme contains strong language. 3 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:06,520 Do you feel a bit rusty roman...? Yes! Very rusty. 4 00:00:06,560 --> 00:00:08,560 Definitely need WD-40. 5 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:09,440 Definitely need WD-40. 6 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:10,960 I need some help. 7 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:12,440 It's hard out there! 8 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:14,480 I am very single at the moment. 9 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:15,120 I am very single at the moment. 10 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:16,880 I've ran out of swipes. 11 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:18,920 I've completed Tinder. SHE LAUGHS 12 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:19,480 I've completed Tinder. SHE LAUGHS 13 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,520 In the heart of Britain's most romantic city... 14 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:22,840 In the heart of Britain's most romantic city... 15 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:24,240 Aloha! 16 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:25,560 ..Fred and his team... 17 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,600 This is Captain Fur Potato. 18 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:27,840 This is Captain Fur Potato. 19 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:29,880 ..are matching hopeful singletons... 20 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:30,160 ..are matching hopeful singletons... 21 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,040 We're getting married, Merlin. HE SPLUTTERS 22 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,080 ..in a place where love is always on the menu. 23 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:35,520 ..in a place where love is always on the menu. 24 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:36,640 Have I bitten your finger? 25 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,080 You didn't go that far down the stick. 26 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,120 SHE LAUGHS 27 00:00:40,160 --> 00:00:40,360 SHE LAUGHS 28 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,040 These daters... 29 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,080 He probably thinks I'm having a poo or something. 30 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:44,360 He probably thinks I'm having a poo or something. 31 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,120 ..are searching... 32 00:00:46,160 --> 00:00:48,160 SINGS OPERA ..for the one. 33 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:48,400 SINGS OPERA ..for the one. 34 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:51,560 Would you chase me around the bedroom? Absolutely. 35 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:53,600 Get your coat. I'm in. SHE LAUGHS 36 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:54,040 Get your coat. I'm in. SHE LAUGHS 37 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,080 For some, stepping into the unknown... 38 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:56,440 For some, stepping into the unknown... 39 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,320 MAKES OINKING NOISE 40 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,360 ..can lead to surprising sparks. 41 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:00,760 ..can lead to surprising sparks. 42 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,680 I work in the adult industry. 43 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:03,960 Do you have an office for that? 44 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,000 I have a dungeon. LAUGHTER 45 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:06,280 I have a dungeon. LAUGHTER 46 00:01:06,320 --> 00:01:07,960 But finding a connection... 47 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,000 A love story is about to begin. 48 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:10,280 A love story is about to begin. 49 00:01:10,320 --> 00:01:11,480 Shut up! 50 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,520 ..isn't always easy. 51 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:13,800 ..isn't always easy. 52 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:15,840 Please tell me you actually last longer than three minutes. 53 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:16,160 Please tell me you actually last longer than three minutes. 54 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,320 Help me! 55 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:22,400 In the end... 56 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:23,520 Hi. 57 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,440 ..it comes down to one... 58 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,720 Fancy seeing you here. 59 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,760 ..big question. 60 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:29,480 ..big question. 61 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,400 Would you guys like to see each other again? 62 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,000 This isn't at all awkward, is it? 63 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,040 This is the First Dates restaurant. 64 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:36,280 This is the First Dates restaurant. 65 00:01:45,320 --> 00:01:47,320 Do you believe in fate? Oh, my God, yeah. 66 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:47,680 Do you believe in fate? Oh, my God, yeah. 67 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,720 SCREECHING 68 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,240 I do believe in destiny. 69 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,400 Let's get married. 70 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,440 It's a really nice way to stay hopeful. 71 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:57,760 It's a really nice way to stay hopeful. 72 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,800 I'm a vicar. All my friends said, "You're gonna meet a vicar." 73 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:00,360 I'm a vicar. All my friends said, "You're gonna meet a vicar." 74 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:03,800 I guess it's can you find your soulmate? 75 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:05,240 I think there's someone out there for everyone. 76 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,280 He's the guy I saw at the train station. 77 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:07,560 He's the guy I saw at the train station. 78 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,240 OVER PHONE:Shut the front door! 79 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,280 It's like a dance. It's like that push and pull. 80 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:11,680 It's like a dance. It's like that push and pull. 81 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:13,720 Do you like this song? Yes. I love the rain. 82 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:14,880 Do you like this song? Yes. I love the rain. 83 00:02:14,920 --> 00:02:16,920 Things don't always go right. But you know that at the end of it, 84 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,400 Things don't always go right. But you know that at the end of it, 85 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,000 there's gonna be something really special. 86 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,400 That was the one good thing that I got from my divorce - 87 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,440 a pair of Louboutins, boobs and a Mini. 88 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:26,160 a pair of Louboutins, boobs and a Mini. 89 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:27,760 So... LAUGHTER 90 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,000 50, flirty and looking for someone to fall head over heels for 91 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,040 50, flirty and looking for someone to fall head over heels for 92 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:34,600 50, flirty and looking for someone to fall head over heels for 93 00:02:34,640 --> 00:02:36,640 is hairstylist, Vicki. 94 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:37,720 is hairstylist, Vicki. 95 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,760 So, you know who you remind me of a little bit? Go on. 96 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:40,240 So, you know who you remind me of a little bit? Go on. 97 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,280 A bit of a Bond girl. A Bond girl? 98 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:43,200 A bit of a Bond girl. A Bond girl? 99 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:44,560 Seriously? 100 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,360 I take that as a massive compliment. 101 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,840 For 50, anyway, I think this is... This is a good look. 102 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:50,120 For 50, anyway, I think this is... This is a good look. 103 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:51,320 I'm rocking this look. 104 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,160 Hello. You're walking like a rock star. 105 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:56,880 Hello. You're walking like a rock star. 106 00:02:56,920 --> 00:02:58,920 Oh, fabulous. I love that walk and the hair. 107 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,440 Oh, fabulous. I love that walk and the hair. 108 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,480 You can't find a date? No. No, darling, I can't. 109 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:03,240 You can't find a date? No. No, darling, I can't. 110 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,280 They've got to be on my energy level and not think I'm too much. 111 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:06,120 They've got to be on my energy level and not think I'm too much. 112 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,160 It's gonna take somebody quite big to be able to maintain me. 113 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:09,320 It's gonna take somebody quite big to be able to maintain me. 114 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,320 THEY LAUGH 115 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:12,760 Come with me. 116 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,800 Finding a woman of my age, that's super sexy, that's got that swag, 117 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:16,800 Finding a woman of my age, that's super sexy, that's got that swag, 118 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:18,840 it's really hard. I can't find anyone. 119 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:19,240 it's really hard. I can't find anyone. 120 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,280 Could I get you a drink? I would love something with gin. 121 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:21,640 Could I get you a drink? I would love something with gin. 122 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:23,400 Something with gin. 123 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,440 So what are your thoughts on today? I'm really excited. 124 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:26,880 So what are your thoughts on today? I'm really excited. 125 00:03:26,920 --> 00:03:28,920 I was in a marriage for, like, 20 years, married to a guy. 126 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:29,880 I was in a marriage for, like, 20 years, married to a guy. 127 00:03:29,920 --> 00:03:31,920 Sadly, that didn't work out. 128 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,960 I then found women and I was like, 129 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:34,240 I then found women and I was like, 130 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,280 # I'm coming out I want the world to know... # 131 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:37,200 # I'm coming out I want the world to know... # 132 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,240 I can see it makes you happy, this is great. 133 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:39,840 I can see it makes you happy, this is great. 134 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:41,560 And what sort of women do you like then? 135 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,600 What's my type of woman? 136 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:43,840 What's my type of woman? 137 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,240 OK, here I go. 138 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,280 I love short hair and cheekbones. 139 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:48,360 I love short hair and cheekbones. 140 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,400 I'm describing a model. Give me a model. 141 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:51,520 I'm describing a model. Give me a model. 142 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,360 Somebody that makes you walk like Bambi. 143 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,400 All dangly legs! Help! 144 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:55,720 All dangly legs! Help! 145 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,760 I walk like that in these boots as well, so... 146 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:58,960 I walk like that in these boots as well, so... 147 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,960 Striding confidently into the First Dates Restaurant 148 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,160 Striding confidently into the First Dates Restaurant 149 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,200 is 38-year-old globetrotter Rosie. 150 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:10,320 is 38-year-old globetrotter Rosie. 151 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:13,520 I ended up going around the world at 18 and then 152 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,320 I ended up going around the world at 18 and then 153 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,360 I think I just spent my 20s the way people should spend their 20s. 154 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:18,600 I think I just spent my 20s the way people should spend their 20s. 155 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,640 A couple of near misses for marriage and things like that, but it just... 156 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:21,280 A couple of near misses for marriage and things like that, but it just... 157 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,320 I was quite focused on my career, and now I'm suddenly like, 158 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:23,840 I was quite focused on my career, and now I'm suddenly like, 159 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,880 "Oh, I'm close to 40 now, and uh, I'm ready. 160 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:27,400 "Oh, I'm close to 40 now, and uh, I'm ready. 161 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,200 "I'm ready to do it." 162 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,240 I know where I've seen you before. 163 00:04:31,280 --> 00:04:31,840 I know where I've seen you before. 164 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:33,880 Basic Instinct, Sharon Stone. Shazza. 165 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:34,520 Basic Instinct, Sharon Stone. Shazza. 166 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,560 It's not the first time. Yeah, I'm sure. 167 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:36,880 It's not the first time. Yeah, I'm sure. 168 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,920 I mean, surely you don't have a problem finding a date? 169 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:39,240 I mean, surely you don't have a problem finding a date? 170 00:04:39,280 --> 00:04:40,320 Well, it seems I do. 171 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:43,560 You know, I've got a cat who's got a lovely little heartbeat, 172 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,600 but I miss that, you know, another human heartbeat in the house. 173 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:46,200 but I miss that, you know, another human heartbeat in the house. 174 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,240 Laughing together and making plans and cute dates. 175 00:04:48,280 --> 00:04:50,080 Laughing together and making plans and cute dates. 176 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,120 So, yeah, I miss it a lot, and I'm definitely ready. 177 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:53,280 So, yeah, I miss it a lot, and I'm definitely ready. 178 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,320 So what are you looking for today? 179 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,360 I just want someone who's a bit glamorous or a bit of a hyper-femme. 180 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:58,920 I just want someone who's a bit glamorous or a bit of a hyper-femme. 181 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:00,440 That's what I'm after. You like somebody with energy? 182 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:01,600 I love a good energy. 183 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,640 I think you're gonna match. She's at the bar. 184 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,240 No way! Can you see the redhead about at the bar? 185 00:05:05,280 --> 00:05:07,120 Oh, I can, I can. 186 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,160 There you go. Thank you so much. Cheers. Enjoy. Thank you. 187 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:09,440 There you go. Thank you so much. Cheers. Enjoy. Thank you. 188 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:12,880 Hello. Hi. BOTH: How are you doing? You all right? 189 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,200 Hello. Hi. BOTH: How are you doing? You all right? 190 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,000 Lovely to meet you. Lovely to meet you. 191 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,040 Oh, my God, you are so hot. LAUGHTER 192 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:18,400 Oh, my God, you are so hot. LAUGHTER 193 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,440 As are you, you look gorgeous. Take a seat. Thank you. What's your name? 194 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:21,640 As are you, you look gorgeous. Take a seat. Thank you. What's your name? 195 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,680 Rosie. Rosie. I'm Vicki. Lovely to meet you, Vicki. 196 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:24,520 Rosie. Rosie. I'm Vicki. Lovely to meet you, Vicki. 197 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,000 Lovely to meet you. 198 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,040 I've been chilling out here and having a nice, like, gin, 199 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:29,040 I've been chilling out here and having a nice, like, gin, 200 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,120 like cocktail. Lovely. OK. 201 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:33,160 I think I'm gonna have a little Campari soda, I think. Thank you. 202 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:34,480 I think I'm gonna have a little Campari soda, I think. Thank you. 203 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,520 How old are you then? 38. 204 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:36,800 How old are you then? 38. 205 00:05:36,840 --> 00:05:38,840 So you haven't really hit menopause then yet, have you? 206 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,120 So you haven't really hit menopause then yet, have you? 207 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:40,160 Not yet. Wait for it. Yeah. 208 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,000 When you hit 50, things happen to you 209 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,040 that, like, it never happened to you before. 210 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:44,360 that, like, it never happened to you before. 211 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,400 {\an8}Are you OK with somebody a bit younger? 212 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:47,000 {\an8}Are you OK with somebody a bit younger? 213 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,040 {\an8}Yeah, hell yeah! OK. LAUGHTER 214 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:49,880 {\an8}Yeah, hell yeah! OK. LAUGHTER 215 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:51,920 {\an8}Are you OK with somebody older? Absolutely, 100%. 216 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:52,520 {\an8}Are you OK with somebody older? Absolutely, 100%. 217 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,560 You've got a really chiselled jaw bone, which is what I asked. 218 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:55,800 You've got a really chiselled jaw bone, which is what I asked. 219 00:05:55,840 --> 00:05:57,840 Do you like that? I asked for that. 220 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:58,280 Do you like that? I asked for that. 221 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,040 THEY LAUGH 222 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:01,800 And I notice you've got a little tattoo there, as well. 223 00:06:01,840 --> 00:06:03,840 I love tattoos. I've got quite a few little hidden ones. 224 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:04,160 I love tattoos. I've got quite a few little hidden ones. 225 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:05,880 I'm covered in tattoos. Are you? 226 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:07,920 I've got, like, a big tiger up the side of my body. Oh, wow. 227 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:08,880 I've got, like, a big tiger up the side of my body. Oh, wow. 228 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:10,920 It's really funny. So I carry a gold tiger, like, 229 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:11,280 It's really funny. So I carry a gold tiger, like, 230 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,320 in my pocket. No! Which is my strength animal. 231 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,360 in my pocket. No! Which is my strength animal. 232 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:15,680 in my pocket. No! Which is my strength animal. 233 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:17,720 My family call me Tiger, like, so it's, like, a little 234 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:18,160 My family call me Tiger, like, so it's, like, a little 235 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,200 kind of talisman that I carry around. I love that. 236 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:21,040 kind of talisman that I carry around. I love that. 237 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,080 And I've got a tiger tattoo because it gives me strength. 238 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:23,400 And I've got a tiger tattoo because it gives me strength. 239 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,440 Play your cards right, darling, you might get to see them. 240 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:25,720 Play your cards right, darling, you might get to see them. 241 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:27,240 You never know. 242 00:06:27,280 --> 00:06:28,840 LAUGHTER OK. 243 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,120 Do you believe in destiny or fate? 244 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,160 I'm one of them people that think everything is for a reason. 245 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,240 I'm one of them people that think everything is for a reason. 246 00:06:35,280 --> 00:06:37,280 That is bizarre. Yeah. It's really weird. 247 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:38,000 That is bizarre. Yeah. It's really weird. 248 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,040 When there's... Things are meant to be, you know they're meant to be. 249 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:40,440 When there's... Things are meant to be, you know they're meant to be. 250 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:42,160 Yeah, 100%. 251 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,200 Putting her faith in destiny is 30-year-old Sophie. 252 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,240 Putting her faith in destiny is 30-year-old Sophie. 253 00:06:46,280 --> 00:06:47,600 Putting her faith in destiny is 30-year-old Sophie. 254 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,680 I think everyone's got a twin flame, 255 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:51,720 one soul that's been split into two people, 256 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:52,760 one soul that's been split into two people, 257 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,640 and you're supposed to find each other. 258 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,800 I would like to find mine. 259 00:06:57,840 --> 00:06:58,720 I would like to find mine. 260 00:06:58,760 --> 00:06:59,960 How are you? 261 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,000 Terrified. What a smile in the morning. 262 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:03,000 Terrified. What a smile in the morning. 263 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,040 I know, I'm scared. Nice to meet you, Sophie, 264 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:05,320 I know, I'm scared. Nice to meet you, Sophie, 265 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:06,560 don't be scared. Nice to meet you. 266 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,600 Your hair, this is incredible. It's large. 267 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:09,640 Your hair, this is incredible. It's large. 268 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,680 Yeah, no, it's beautiful. Really beautiful. Thank you. 269 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,040 Yeah, no, it's beautiful. Really beautiful. Thank you. 270 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,080 Come with me. I'll take you to your table. Thank you. 271 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:15,440 Come with me. I'll take you to your table. Thank you. 272 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,480 The big blonde hair makes people think 273 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:17,760 The big blonde hair makes people think 274 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:18,880 that she must be really confident, 275 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:20,920 but I'm quite shy when it comes to dating. 276 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:21,240 but I'm quite shy when it comes to dating. 277 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,280 You look amazing. Thank you. Love the tattoos, by the way. 278 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:23,680 You look amazing. Thank you. Love the tattoos, by the way. 279 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,720 Thank you. Gorgeous. I've got loads. Is that a tarot card there? 280 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:26,240 Thank you. Gorgeous. I've got loads. Is that a tarot card there? 281 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,280 Yeah. That's a La Luna, like a moon moth. 282 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:28,760 Yeah. That's a La Luna, like a moon moth. 283 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,440 Gorgeous. 284 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,120 He's got to be someone that's 285 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,160 into the same sort of weird things that I'm into, 286 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,040 into the same sort of weird things that I'm into, 287 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,080 like astrology, astronomy, things like that. 288 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:37,840 like astrology, astronomy, things like that. 289 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,880 Yeah, it's quite hard to find, isn't it? Obviously. 290 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:41,920 Yeah, it's quite hard to find, isn't it? Obviously. 291 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:42,240 Yeah, it's quite hard to find, isn't it? Obviously. 292 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,280 Someone with, like, a quite a dark, dry sense of humour. OK. 293 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:45,800 Someone with, like, a quite a dark, dry sense of humour. OK. 294 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:47,840 Quite a man's man. OK. 295 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:48,120 Quite a man's man. OK. 296 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,160 I do like them to look a bit like they might have been to prison, 297 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:51,600 I do like them to look a bit like they might have been to prison, 298 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,640 but they haven't been to prison. LAUGHTER 299 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:54,480 but they haven't been to prison. LAUGHTER 300 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:59,400 Hi, mate. How are you? 301 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,440 This is Reece. Science teacher by day, 302 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:02,960 This is Reece. Science teacher by day, 303 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,040 Greek god by night. 304 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,080 My professional wrestling name is The Golden Greek God. 305 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:07,640 My professional wrestling name is The Golden Greek God. 306 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:10,680 OVER PHONE:Oh, good heavens! 307 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:10,960 OVER PHONE:Oh, good heavens! 308 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,000 So, professional wrestling, you've got the good guys and the bad guys. 309 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:13,280 So, professional wrestling, you've got the good guys and the bad guys. 310 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:16,920 I can be seen as a villain 311 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:18,960 having a go at some old lady in the front row 312 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:19,360 having a go at some old lady in the front row 313 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:20,960 and her throwing her handbag at you. 314 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,200 The perception is it's a bit of a meathead kind of world, 315 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:24,520 The perception is it's a bit of a meathead kind of world, 316 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,040 but, yeah, I've got my degree in chemistry. 317 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,000 I've always been interested in learning. 318 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:30,320 I've always been interested in learning. 319 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,360 Also a massive fan of history, classical history, late-medieval. 320 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,400 Also a massive fan of history, classical history, late-medieval. 321 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:35,080 Also a massive fan of history, classical history, late-medieval. 322 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,120 So I'm trying to work on a bit of ancient Greek as well, 323 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:37,720 So I'm trying to work on a bit of ancient Greek as well, 324 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,040 as you do, but... 325 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,400 I think nowadays a lot of people aren't really interested in 326 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:43,160 I think nowadays a lot of people aren't really interested in 327 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,520 why the world is as it is. 328 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:47,800 From the date I'm looking to find someone 329 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:49,840 who has the similar interests in life as me 330 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:50,360 who has the similar interests in life as me 331 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:51,960 and a similar outlook on life. 332 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,280 There is something about you. It's just the way you're walking. 333 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:56,360 There is something about you. It's just the way you're walking. 334 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,400 There is that confidence that I don't see very often in a man. 335 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,040 There is that confidence that I don't see very often in a man. 336 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,720 Just dance around. It's almost like a fighting confidence. 337 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:02,800 It is man, yeah. 338 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:04,840 Are you ready for your date? Yeah, man. Go for it. Come with me. 339 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:05,880 Are you ready for your date? Yeah, man. Go for it. Come with me. 340 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:07,920 The dream girl that I would pick would have blonde hair, blue eyes. 341 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,960 The dream girl that I would pick would have blonde hair, blue eyes. 342 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,440 The dream girl that I would pick would have blonde hair, blue eyes. 343 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,480 But also just being unique and being themself 344 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:14,440 But also just being unique and being themself 345 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,480 and not being the same as everyone else. 346 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:17,320 and not being the same as everyone else. 347 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,360 As long as you have passion and you've got drive in life, 348 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:20,000 As long as you have passion and you've got drive in life, 349 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,040 I can work with it. 350 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:22,280 I can work with it. 351 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:23,800 Hello. 352 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,760 Here you are. Hi. Awesome, mate. Enjoy. Thank you. 353 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,800 Hello. Hi, how are you? I'm good, thank you. 354 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:28,120 Hello. Hi, how are you? I'm good, thank you. 355 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,160 Nice to meet you, I'll give you a hug. Nice to meet you. 356 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:30,480 Nice to meet you, I'll give you a hug. Nice to meet you. 357 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,520 I'm Sophie. Sophie, nice to meet you. Hi. Yeah, Reese. 358 00:09:32,560 --> 00:09:32,760 I'm Sophie. Sophie, nice to meet you. Hi. Yeah, Reese. 359 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,120 How are you feeling? Uh, yeah. All right, to be honest. 360 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:37,280 How are you feeling? Uh, yeah. All right, to be honest. 361 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,240 I'm scared. Blind dates are bizarre. 362 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,280 I didn't have fancy stuff to wear, so I had to go this morning and, 363 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:42,200 I didn't have fancy stuff to wear, so I had to go this morning and, 364 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:44,240 like, go to the shops and try and find, like, a shirt to wear. 365 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:44,520 like, go to the shops and try and find, like, a shirt to wear. 366 00:09:44,560 --> 00:09:46,360 That's nice. That's all right, yeah. 367 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,120 Didn't wanna wear a bow tie? 368 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:49,600 Imagine that. Would have been impressed. 369 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,920 Where are you from? So my family's from Hemel Hempstead, 370 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:53,240 Where are you from? So my family's from Hemel Hempstead, 371 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,280 but I moved down to Bristol five, six months ago. 372 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:56,360 but I moved down to Bristol five, six months ago. 373 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,120 Oh, OK. Yeah. Why? 374 00:09:58,160 --> 00:09:59,920 Just for wrestling. 375 00:09:59,960 --> 00:10:01,960 OK. Wrestling? Yeah, yeah, yeah. OK. 376 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:02,240 OK. Wrestling? Yeah, yeah, yeah. OK. 377 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,280 Is that what you do then? You're... Yeah, so pro wrestling. Yeah. 378 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:05,680 Is that what you do then? You're... Yeah, so pro wrestling. Yeah. 379 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:07,720 Cos I'm in Reading later on for a show. Are you? 380 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:08,280 Cos I'm in Reading later on for a show. Are you? 381 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,200 So I've got to literally leave and go straight to the show. 382 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:11,920 Like, honestly, I would have gone a bit later at night, but... 383 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:13,960 Yeah. Whatever. 384 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:14,200 Yeah. Whatever. 385 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:15,440 That's all right, though. 386 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:16,880 Can you drink if you're fighting later? 387 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:19,880 Probably shouldn't do, actually. No. 388 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,640 Worst first date ever. Another time, eh? 389 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:27,240 Right, so what are you gonna eat? Right. OK. 390 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,280 I need my glasses. I don't know where to start. 391 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,120 I need my glasses. I don't know where to start. 392 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,160 I'm on the first round of the eye deterioration. 393 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:32,720 I'm on the first round of the eye deterioration. 394 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,760 I bet you look really sexy in specs, actually. 395 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:35,080 I bet you look really sexy in specs, actually. 396 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,120 Try them on. Let me see what you look like in these specs. 397 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:37,760 Try them on. Let me see what you look like in these specs. 398 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,760 What do you think? Oh, get your coat. 399 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:41,640 You've pulled. Yeah? Definitely. 400 00:10:41,680 --> 00:10:43,680 LAUGHTER 401 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:43,960 LAUGHTER 402 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,000 Right. Um... Oh, God, like, I'm double glasses. Like... 403 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:47,760 Right. Um... Oh, God, like, I'm double glasses. Like... 404 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,040 How are you guys? Very well. How is the deciding going? 405 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:51,760 How are you guys? Very well. How is the deciding going? 406 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:53,200 I'd like you to choose, 407 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:55,240 because I find that super sexy when my partner chooses my food. 408 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:56,440 because I find that super sexy when my partner chooses my food. 409 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:58,240 OK. 410 00:10:58,280 --> 00:10:59,760 Should we both do nourish bowls? 411 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:01,800 Well played. Thank you very much. Thank you. 412 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:02,080 Well played. Thank you very much. Thank you. 413 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,240 I feel like it's all me, me, me, I need to talk about you. 414 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,280 No, no, please keep going. Please keep going. 415 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:08,040 No, no, please keep going. Please keep going. 416 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:09,640 I've had a lot of shit happen to me. 417 00:11:09,680 --> 00:11:11,680 So this is my story. Are you ready for this? Oh, yeah. 418 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:12,760 So this is my story. Are you ready for this? Oh, yeah. 419 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,640 I knew I was gay at a very young age. 420 00:11:14,680 --> 00:11:16,680 I didn't know what feeling that was I was having, 421 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,040 I didn't know what feeling that was I was having, 422 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:20,080 but I was very mesmerised by women. 423 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:20,840 but I was very mesmerised by women. 424 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,880 I would just be like, "Oh, my God, they're so beautiful." 425 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:23,600 I would just be like, "Oh, my God, they're so beautiful." 426 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,640 And then I was thinking, "Is this wrong of me to feel this way?" 427 00:11:25,680 --> 00:11:27,560 And then I was thinking, "Is this wrong of me to feel this way?" 428 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:29,600 I was in my 20s and I was on holiday. 429 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:30,560 I was in my 20s and I was on holiday. 430 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,600 My friends didn't know that I was attracted to women as well, 431 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:33,000 My friends didn't know that I was attracted to women as well, 432 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,040 so I kept it a secret. 433 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:37,080 On the holiday I had my first female intimate encounter, 434 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,120 On the holiday I had my first female intimate encounter, 435 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:40,600 On the holiday I had my first female intimate encounter, 436 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,640 but I was not able to tell my friends 437 00:11:42,680 --> 00:11:42,960 but I was not able to tell my friends 438 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,000 that I'd had this amazing moment with a woman. 439 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:45,480 that I'd had this amazing moment with a woman. 440 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,520 When I got to my friends I just shut down. 441 00:11:47,560 --> 00:11:48,000 When I got to my friends I just shut down. 442 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,040 I felt ashamed, it was just awful. 443 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:50,760 I felt ashamed, it was just awful. 444 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:52,800 The guilt that I felt about liking women was something I couldn't bear, 445 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:54,840 The guilt that I felt about liking women was something I couldn't bear, 446 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:56,240 The guilt that I felt about liking women was something I couldn't bear, 447 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,280 you know, I couldn't cope with. 448 00:11:58,320 --> 00:11:58,520 you know, I couldn't cope with. 449 00:11:58,560 --> 00:12:00,560 Then I met my husband. Mm-hm. 450 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,000 Then I met my husband. Mm-hm. 451 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,080 So I was with him for 20 years. 452 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,120 I wouldn't say it was a marriage of convenience, it just felt safe. 453 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:06,640 I wouldn't say it was a marriage of convenience, it just felt safe. 454 00:12:06,680 --> 00:12:08,680 For those 20 years, I lived a lie 455 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:08,960 For those 20 years, I lived a lie 456 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,000 because I didn't have the courage to stand up 457 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:11,280 because I didn't have the courage to stand up 458 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,320 and be who I actually am. 459 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:13,560 and be who I actually am. 460 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,600 I wasn't happy in my relationship, 461 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:15,840 I wasn't happy in my relationship, 462 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,880 so I threw myself into work. 463 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:18,280 so I threw myself into work. 464 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:19,920 Sadly, our marriage broke down, 465 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:21,960 which was absolutely devastating because, um, 466 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:23,160 which was absolutely devastating because, um, 467 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,560 he was my best friend. 468 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,600 And he was the only person that knew that I was really... 469 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:28,200 And he was the only person that knew that I was really... 470 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,240 Like, that I was gay. Mm. 471 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:30,480 Like, that I was gay. Mm. 472 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,040 Um, I had to rebuild myself. 473 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,080 And for the last six years, that's what I've been doing, 474 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:34,920 And for the last six years, that's what I've been doing, 475 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,960 and I'm so proud of what I've become. 476 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:37,880 and I'm so proud of what I've become. 477 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,920 You're looking for, like, the marriage, the whole thing? Yes. 478 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:40,280 You're looking for, like, the marriage, the whole thing? Yes. 479 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:42,320 I want to get married for the real reasons now. Yeah. 480 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:43,760 I want to get married for the real reasons now. Yeah. 481 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:45,560 Because we deserve to be happy, right? 482 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:48,640 Say we were together 483 00:12:48,680 --> 00:12:50,680 and I spent hours getting dressed up in some sexy underwear, 484 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,160 and I spent hours getting dressed up in some sexy underwear, 485 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,200 put loads of oil on me and walked in, what would you say and do? 486 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:55,640 put loads of oil on me and walked in, what would you say and do? 487 00:12:55,680 --> 00:12:57,680 {\an8}Well, one, I'd be like, "You look stunning." Oh, my God, yes! 488 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,040 {\an8}Well, one, I'd be like, "You look stunning." Oh, my God, yes! 489 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,080 {\an8}Would you chase me round the bedroom? Absolutely. Get your coat. 490 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:01,960 {\an8}Would you chase me round the bedroom? Absolutely. Get your coat. 491 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,000 {\an8}I've got my coat a few times already. 492 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:04,320 {\an8}I've got my coat a few times already. 493 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:05,560 {\an8}I'm in. LAUGHTER 494 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,600 Two of these Korean fried chicken. Thank you. Thank you. 495 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,160 Two of these Korean fried chicken. Thank you. Thank you. 496 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:22,800 We have two of the nourish bowls. 497 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:24,200 Oh, my goodness, thank you. 498 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:25,920 They are both gluten free, so you can share. 499 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,960 But it's the same dish so I don't know. 500 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:28,840 But it's the same dish so I don't know. 501 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,400 It looks quite spicy. 502 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,320 No, it isn't spicy at all. It's not? OK. 503 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:39,040 You sure? 504 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:40,160 You finding it spicy, are you? 505 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,200 You be like, "It's not spicy," and then you, like, grab the water. 506 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:42,600 You be like, "It's not spicy," and then you, like, grab the water. 507 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,000 Oh, is it? "It's not, I promise." 508 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,040 So I've gone back to yoga 509 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,080 just to try and get my muscles stretched again. 510 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:52,240 just to try and get my muscles stretched again. 511 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,280 It's not just for the body, is it? It's for the head as well. 512 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:54,600 It's not just for the body, is it? It's for the head as well. 513 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:56,640 So I'm ADHD. So like... So am I. 514 00:13:56,680 --> 00:13:57,960 So I'm ADHD. So like... So am I. 515 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,000 Yeah, there was an air of it. We can tell each other. 516 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:00,960 Yeah, there was an air of it. We can tell each other. 517 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,000 Yeah. Mine's very internal. 518 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:03,280 Yeah. Mine's very internal. 519 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,320 So I think I can come across quite calm. 520 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:05,760 So I think I can come across quite calm. 521 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,800 Sometimes it can be a little curse 522 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:08,080 Sometimes it can be a little curse 523 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,120 because some people just think you're too much. 524 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:10,600 because some people just think you're too much. 525 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,640 Like, I'm literally I'm like... Bursting. 526 00:14:12,680 --> 00:14:13,320 Like, I'm literally I'm like... Bursting. 527 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,080 Yeah. Yeah, but how joyous is that? 528 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,120 {\an8}We're little... We're actually just little sunshines running around. 529 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:17,600 {\an8}We're little... We're actually just little sunshines running around. 530 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:19,040 {\an8}We are, we are. 531 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,080 It's like, I've got so much more to ask of you. Like, so Cornwall... 532 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:22,800 It's like, I've got so much more to ask of you. Like, so Cornwall... 533 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:24,840 {\an8}Yeah, so I was born in Cornwall and then... Obviously, little baby gay. 534 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:26,400 {\an8}Yeah, so I was born in Cornwall and then... Obviously, little baby gay. 535 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:27,600 {\an8}Right. Realise I'm gay at eight. 536 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:29,640 Did not meet another gay person till I think I was probably about 17. 537 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,680 Did not meet another gay person till I think I was probably about 17. 538 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:32,000 Did not meet another gay person till I think I was probably about 17. 539 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,040 So when I grew up in Cornwall there was a lot of shame there. 540 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:35,920 So when I grew up in Cornwall there was a lot of shame there. 541 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:37,960 What you don't talk about and you keep secret 542 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:38,280 What you don't talk about and you keep secret 543 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,320 does end up, kind of, you know, manifesting as illness, 544 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:40,600 does end up, kind of, you know, manifesting as illness, 545 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:41,960 and that's what happened for me. 546 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,680 So I felt really broken, 547 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:45,720 and then I went, at 18, to Sydney 548 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:46,160 and then I went, at 18, to Sydney 549 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,120 and stumbled upon the Sydney Mardi Gras. 550 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:50,160 And I was like... 551 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:50,440 And I was like... 552 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,480 This is what I'm supposed to be. Yeah? 553 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:52,840 This is what I'm supposed to be. Yeah? 554 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:54,880 Sydney, I think, is one of the most liberating queer places on Earth. 555 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:56,800 Sydney, I think, is one of the most liberating queer places on Earth. 556 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,840 So, you know, with every person I told I was gay, 557 00:14:58,880 --> 00:14:59,120 So, you know, with every person I told I was gay, 558 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:00,800 I started getting better 559 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,840 and I my heart knew that Sydney was gonna raise me. 560 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:03,400 and I my heart knew that Sydney was gonna raise me. 561 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,320 So, yeah, I went there and it really grew me up. 562 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,360 {\an8}So I properly emigrated at 21 and had my whole 20s there. 563 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,400 {\an8}So I properly emigrated at 21 and had my whole 20s there. 564 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:09,640 {\an8}So I properly emigrated at 21 and had my whole 20s there. 565 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,920 You know, like, I have actually have a rose tattooed over my heart 566 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,120 You know, like, I have actually have a rose tattooed over my heart 567 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,160 to remind myself self love, to look after myself, 568 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:16,480 to remind myself self love, to look after myself, 569 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:18,520 but actually have an empty heart right behind it 570 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:19,000 but actually have an empty heart right behind it 571 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:20,760 that I want my wife's initials in 572 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:22,560 just to be like she's got my back. 573 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:24,600 So I think that's really what it is, you know. 574 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:25,400 So I think that's really what it is, you know. 575 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,440 {\an8}I'm gonna ask you some more questions now. OK. 576 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:27,760 {\an8}I'm gonna ask you some more questions now. OK. 577 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:29,800 Like, so what are your hobbies? My hobbies? Mm-hm. 578 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:30,880 Like, so what are your hobbies? My hobbies? Mm-hm. 579 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:32,920 So, I'm a cyclist. So road cyclist. I'm in the Lycra. 580 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:33,760 So, I'm a cyclist. So road cyclist. I'm in the Lycra. 581 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:35,800 Can we just stop, pause? 582 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:36,400 Can we just stop, pause? 583 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,440 Probably gonna be super sexy in the cycling gear. 584 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:39,240 Probably gonna be super sexy in the cycling gear. 585 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,520 The sex is pretty important to you. Very, very important. 586 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:43,040 The sex is pretty important to you. Very, very important. 587 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,080 Yeah, I'm getting those vibes. Mm. Yeah. 588 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:45,520 Yeah, I'm getting those vibes. Mm. Yeah. 589 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,560 I love it. Absolutely obsessed with sex. 590 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:48,640 I love it. Absolutely obsessed with sex. 591 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:50,680 Amazing. That's so great. Women like to open up to me. 592 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,160 Amazing. That's so great. Women like to open up to me. 593 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,200 That does tend to happen with the hairdresser, doesn't it? 594 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:54,520 That does tend to happen with the hairdresser, doesn't it? 595 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,560 Women come into my chair and say they've never had an orgasm before. 596 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,600 Women come into my chair and say they've never had an orgasm before. 597 00:15:58,640 --> 00:15:59,000 Women come into my chair and say they've never had an orgasm before. 598 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,040 I've been known to send my clients away with sunflowers, 599 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:01,760 I've been known to send my clients away with sunflowers, 600 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:03,800 lemon drizzle cake, and a vibrator. 601 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:04,160 lemon drizzle cake, and a vibrator. 602 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:06,200 OK. Wow, that sounds like a fun day. 603 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,040 OK. Wow, that sounds like a fun day. 604 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:08,280 I love vagina. 605 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:11,640 I think it's the most beautiful thing in the world. Mm. 606 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:12,000 I think it's the most beautiful thing in the world. Mm. 607 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:15,240 My cauliflower got stuck in my... LAUGHTER 608 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:16,320 My cauliflower got stuck in my... LAUGHTER 609 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,480 Screaming orgasm is the one I remember. 610 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,520 Well, that's right, which is based off the regular orgasm. 611 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:22,840 Well, that's right, which is based off the regular orgasm. 612 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:24,880 What about a pink screaming orgasm? Right, OK. 613 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:25,200 What about a pink screaming orgasm? Right, OK. 614 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,240 One-track mind going in the wrong direction. 615 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:27,520 One-track mind going in the wrong direction. 616 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:28,760 OK. Noted. Noted. 617 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:32,560 SINGING OPERA 618 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:33,440 SINGING OPERA 619 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,960 Opera singer Mark's got perfect pitch onstage. 620 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,000 Opera singer Mark's got perfect pitch onstage. 621 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:44,320 Opera singer Mark's got perfect pitch onstage. 622 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,360 Now he's just looking for his perfect match. 623 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:47,480 Now he's just looking for his perfect match. 624 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:49,080 As an operatic singer 625 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,120 I'm always singing about love, but I've had no success. 626 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,000 I'm always singing about love, but I've had no success. 627 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,520 I've got a fantastic Italian friend and he says, 628 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:57,800 I've got a fantastic Italian friend and he says, 629 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:58,920 "Mark, what is wrong with you? 630 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,960 "You can sing. Why you not have a lady?" 631 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:01,560 "You can sing. Why you not have a lady?" 632 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:02,720 It's a good point. 633 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,760 Bonjour. Bonjour. Ca va? Ca va bien. 634 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:05,400 Bonjour. Bonjour. Ca va? Ca va bien. 635 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,000 Shall I take your coat? Yeah, fantastic. 636 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,160 My daughter said to me, "I feel really nervous." 637 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:10,880 My daughter said to me, "I feel really nervous." 638 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:12,920 And I'm thinking, "You feel nervous? 639 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:13,120 And I'm thinking, "You feel nervous? 640 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:15,640 "I've got diarrhoea." 641 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:18,920 Hello, sir. What are you having? 642 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:20,960 Do you know what? I'm gonna have a Negroni. Great choice. 643 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:21,520 Do you know what? I'm gonna have a Negroni. Great choice. 644 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,120 And so where have you come from? Cardiff. 645 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:24,680 I am Welsh 100%. 646 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:26,720 Who are you looking for and why? 647 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:27,000 Who are you looking for and why? 648 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,040 My daughter's got a boyfriend, she wants to get rid of Dad. Ah. 649 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:30,360 My daughter's got a boyfriend, she wants to get rid of Dad. Ah. 650 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,400 I kind of done my parenting. 651 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:32,680 I kind of done my parenting. 652 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,720 My daughter is 22 now, so she's got her own life, 653 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:35,760 My daughter is 22 now, so she's got her own life, 654 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:37,800 so maybe it's time for me to have mine. 655 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,360 so maybe it's time for me to have mine. 656 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,200 Currently quite nervous, yeah. 657 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:43,080 About five, ten minutes, you won't be nervous at all. 658 00:17:43,120 --> 00:17:45,120 Once that kicks in. Exactly. 659 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:45,640 Once that kicks in. Exactly. 660 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:47,680 I love a blonde, pretty smile. 661 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:47,960 I love a blonde, pretty smile. 662 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,000 Someone who can hold a conversation. 663 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:50,520 Someone who can hold a conversation. 664 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,560 Somebody who actually likes having fun, having a bit of a laugh. 665 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:54,520 Somebody who actually likes having fun, having a bit of a laugh. 666 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,160 That's gonna anaesthetise me. 667 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,760 WELSH ACCENT:My best Welsh, that's my best one 668 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:58,840 cos that's my favourite. 669 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:00,880 I love doing that because it's not very far away. 670 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:01,160 I love doing that because it's not very far away. 671 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:02,240 Me and my cousin, when we go there, 672 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,280 we pretend we are Welsh and everyone believes us. 673 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:04,560 we pretend we are Welsh and everyone believes us. 674 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:08,280 West Country native Lucy enjoys being in character, 675 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,240 West Country native Lucy enjoys being in character, 676 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,280 but she can't find her leading man. 677 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:12,920 but she can't find her leading man. 678 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,960 I can do pretty much any accent. That is what I'm known for. 679 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:16,120 I can do pretty much any accent. That is what I'm known for. 680 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,160 SCOTTISH ACCENT:The pressure is on now for me to do the Scottish, 681 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:18,640 SCOTTISH ACCENT:The pressure is on now for me to do the Scottish, 682 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:20,240 but I can do it when I think about it. 683 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,320 BRISTOLIAN ACCENT:Bristolian, come on, mate. What you tryna say? 684 00:18:23,360 --> 00:18:24,320 BRISTOLIAN ACCENT:Bristolian, come on, mate. What you tryna say? 685 00:18:24,360 --> 00:18:26,320 Cheers, my babber. 686 00:18:26,360 --> 00:18:28,360 Modern dating has not been kind to me. 687 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:28,640 Modern dating has not been kind to me. 688 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:30,600 I've never approached anyone. 689 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,640 I don't think anyone's ever approached me either. 690 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:32,880 I don't think anyone's ever approached me either. 691 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,720 Aloha. How are you? I'm good, thank you. How are you? 692 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:37,840 Aloha. How are you? I'm good, thank you. How are you? 693 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:39,880 You're looking good. Thank you so much. So are you. 694 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:40,560 You're looking good. Thank you so much. So are you. 695 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:42,600 {\an8}Shall I take your jacket? Yes, that'll be lovely, thank you. 696 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:42,920 {\an8}Shall I take your jacket? Yes, that'll be lovely, thank you. 697 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,400 {\an8}Beautiful dress like that would be a shame not to show it off. 698 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:45,520 {\an8}Aw, thank you. 699 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,040 I do like a silver fox. 700 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:50,080 I definitely find, like, a strong voice attractive. 701 00:18:50,120 --> 00:18:50,360 I definitely find, like, a strong voice attractive. 702 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,400 Someone quite, kind of, loud. 703 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:53,160 Someone quite, kind of, loud. 704 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,200 Your date is at the bar already. OK. 705 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:55,640 Your date is at the bar already. OK. 706 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,680 Biggest tick of all - if you can make me laugh, 707 00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,720 Biggest tick of all - if you can make me laugh, 708 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:00,000 Biggest tick of all - if you can make me laugh, 709 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,040 I wouldn't care what you look like. 710 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:04,080 Let's go. Thank you. 711 00:19:04,120 --> 00:19:04,360 Let's go. Thank you. 712 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,400 Hi. Have fun. Hello. Thank you so much. 713 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:06,720 Hi. Have fun. Hello. Thank you so much. 714 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:08,760 Hello. Lovely to meet you. Hello. Lovely to meet you too. 715 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:09,080 Hello. Lovely to meet you. Hello. Lovely to meet you too. 716 00:19:09,120 --> 00:19:10,960 Do you do kisses or cuddles or what? Yeah. 717 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,000 I'm Lucy. Hello, Lucy. I'm Mark. 718 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,040 Nice to meet you. You too. Nice to meet you. 719 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:15,440 Nice to meet you. You too. Nice to meet you. 720 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,480 What are you drinking? I was having a Negroni. 721 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:17,880 What are you drinking? I was having a Negroni. 722 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,920 Oh, I'm not a keen on that one. What shall I go for? 723 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:21,480 Oh, I'm not a keen on that one. What shall I go for? 724 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,520 What do you feel like? Oh, Porn Star, that kind of thing. 725 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:24,640 What do you feel like? Oh, Porn Star, that kind of thing. 726 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,680 Let's go with that. I was gonna try and go for the classy, but no. 727 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,720 Let's go with that. I was gonna try and go for the classy, but no. 728 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:29,120 Let's go with that. I was gonna try and go for the classy, but no. 729 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,160 So what do you do? I've been an opera singer for 730 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:31,640 So what do you do? I've been an opera singer for 731 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,680 20 whatever years. Wow! 732 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:33,880 20 whatever years. Wow! 733 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,200 Wow! What do you do? I'm a dental practice manager. 734 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:38,280 Wow! What do you do? I'm a dental practice manager. 735 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,240 I'm into teeth. THEY LAUGH 736 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:41,880 Got you checking them out. You're doing OK so far, 737 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,920 it's that... The first thing I look at, so, yeah. 738 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:44,160 it's that... The first thing I look at, so, yeah. 739 00:19:45,360 --> 00:19:47,360 Look at that. That's amazing. Thank you. 740 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:47,680 Look at that. That's amazing. Thank you. 741 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:49,280 Well, cheers. It's lovely to meet you. 742 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,320 Iechyd da, as they say. Oh, as they say. 743 00:19:51,360 --> 00:19:52,040 Iechyd da, as they say. Oh, as they say. 744 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,080 Here he comes. I love the way he looks at you. 745 00:19:54,120 --> 00:19:55,240 Here he comes. I love the way he looks at you. 746 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:56,880 Have you noticed? No. 747 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,920 Ping! Check everything out, innit? 748 00:19:58,960 --> 00:19:59,160 Ping! Check everything out, innit? 749 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:00,520 Yes, you are. Yeah, yeah. 750 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,280 Best thing I ever did is I did a tantra course, 751 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,040 Best thing I ever did is I did a tantra course, 752 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,080 like, with a beautiful ex-partner. 753 00:20:08,120 --> 00:20:08,360 like, with a beautiful ex-partner. 754 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:09,880 I couldn't look at sex in the same way again. 755 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,920 Can we do it? Let's say we have dessert first. 756 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:12,200 Can we do it? Let's say we have dessert first. 757 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,240 LAUGHTER 758 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:14,840 LAUGHTER 759 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,880 I love travelling. Done the States, as well. So, America. 760 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:17,200 I love travelling. Done the States, as well. So, America. 761 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,080 Which bit of the States? The East Coast. 762 00:20:19,120 --> 00:20:21,120 I've done, like, San Francisco and LA. Oh, damn. 763 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:21,480 I've done, like, San Francisco and LA. Oh, damn. 764 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,520 And then went to, like, Area 51 on the way to Vegas. Oh, yeah? 765 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:24,760 And then went to, like, Area 51 on the way to Vegas. Oh, yeah? 766 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,560 It was really good, there. How far could you get in? 767 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,600 You can't. Because I've seen people, like, 768 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,640 go up to, like, the barricade. Yeah. 769 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:31,920 go up to, like, the barricade. Yeah. 770 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:33,640 It must be like a sensor that stops you. Yeah. 771 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:35,680 People just come out with, like, guns. Really? 772 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:36,000 People just come out with, like, guns. Really? 773 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,040 They don't want you knowing what's in there. 774 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:38,360 They don't want you knowing what's in there. 775 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,760 Do you believe in some aliens, yeah? 776 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,160 Definitely, yeah. Yeah. 777 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:42,640 Definitely believe in aliens. 778 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,680 I've got a tattoo of, like, pyramids and a spaceship on my leg. 779 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,720 I've got a tattoo of, like, pyramids and a spaceship on my leg. 780 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:47,040 I've got a tattoo of, like, pyramids and a spaceship on my leg. 781 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:48,160 OFF CAMERA: Oh, wow. 782 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:49,800 What's your best conspiracy theory? 783 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,840 About the Egyptians. Oh, what about them? 784 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:52,200 About the Egyptians. Oh, what about them? 785 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,240 They didn't build the pyramids. Oh. 786 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:54,960 They didn't build the pyramids. Oh. 787 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,920 One of the conspiracy theories is that 788 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,960 the pyramids weren't built by humans, 789 00:20:59,000 --> 00:20:59,240 the pyramids weren't built by humans, 790 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,280 and maybe some aliens involved. 791 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:01,880 and maybe some aliens involved. 792 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:03,840 Have you been to Stonehenge? No. 793 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,880 It's the fact that they don't know how or why they were there. Yeah. 794 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:06,480 It's the fact that they don't know how or why they were there. Yeah. 795 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,520 They think they used animal fat to, like, move it from Wales. 796 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:09,000 They think they used animal fat to, like, move it from Wales. 797 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,040 Animal fat? No way. No. Aliens. 798 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:11,800 Animal fat? No way. No. Aliens. 799 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,240 THEY LAUGH 800 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,280 OFF CAMERA: Did we land on the moon? No. 801 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:15,600 OFF CAMERA: Did we land on the moon? No. 802 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,640 The flag was waving all over the place. No chance. 803 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:18,760 The flag was waving all over the place. No chance. 804 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:20,800 Into a lot of the same weird and wonderful stuff, aren't you? Yeah. 805 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,200 Into a lot of the same weird and wonderful stuff, aren't you? Yeah. 806 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:23,720 I've got my degree in chemistry. OK. 807 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:25,200 So I've got a background, like science, and 808 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,400 I love my science as well. 809 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,160 Yeah, it's pretty sick. Really interesting. 810 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:29,480 How about date-wise and stuff like that? 811 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,400 I've, like, seen people on and off... Yeah. 812 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,440 ..but not anything, sort of, long, long term. 813 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:34,440 ..but not anything, sort of, long, long term. 814 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,480 I was with someone from school till I was, like, 27. Oh, really? 815 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,400 I was with someone from school till I was, like, 27. Oh, really? 816 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,520 I was engaged, had a house, a dog. 817 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:42,240 I was engaged, had a house, a dog. 818 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,280 I've sort of lost myself for quite a long time, I think. 819 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:45,400 I've sort of lost myself for quite a long time, I think. 820 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,440 I didn't push myself into what I wanted to do with my life. 821 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,480 I didn't push myself into what I wanted to do with my life. 822 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:50,000 I didn't push myself into what I wanted to do with my life. 823 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,040 So, yeah, I think I sort of thought that was it. 824 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:52,360 So, yeah, I think I sort of thought that was it. 825 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,320 I say the best thing that you've probably found out now 826 00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:55,720 you can do your own thing. You understand, like 827 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,280 what you like doing. Mm. 828 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,320 Instead of just being stuck with someone. Yeah. 829 00:21:59,360 --> 00:21:59,600 Instead of just being stuck with someone. Yeah. 830 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,640 Turning 30 was a big deal for me. 831 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:01,880 Turning 30 was a big deal for me. 832 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,520 I had a bit of a health scare. 833 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,560 I was a bit concerned about a mole on my arm. 834 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:06,840 I was a bit concerned about a mole on my arm. 835 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,880 It'd gone black and a lot larger, and they removed it. 836 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,920 It'd gone black and a lot larger, and they removed it. 837 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:11,200 It'd gone black and a lot larger, and they removed it. 838 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,000 And then it came back as cancer, 839 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,040 and it had gone quite deep in my arm. 840 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:15,360 and it had gone quite deep in my arm. 841 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,240 So I had to have lymph nodes removed. 842 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,120 I've got the all-clear now, and I think since then 843 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,160 that really scared me and I thought 844 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:21,520 that really scared me and I thought 845 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,560 I would like to...to meet somebody now and be happy and 846 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,200 I would like to...to meet somebody now and be happy and 847 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:26,560 do all those things with somebody. 848 00:22:28,120 --> 00:22:30,120 Dating and sort of being single is new. 849 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,560 Dating and sort of being single is new. 850 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,080 But if you, like, tried having conversations, 851 00:22:33,120 --> 00:22:35,120 like, about like conspiracy theories and stuff with people... 852 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,080 like, about like conspiracy theories and stuff with people... 853 00:22:36,120 --> 00:22:38,040 Oh, yeah. ..and it just puts people off 854 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,040 because they just think you're a weirdo. 855 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,800 That's what happens with me. It's entertaining. 856 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,840 I think, like, people who are into, like, crazy or weirder stuff, 857 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:44,920 I think, like, people who are into, like, crazy or weirder stuff, 858 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,240 more engaging, like... Yeah. 859 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,720 I love all the space and the planets 860 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:49,200 and just how the world works, really. Yeah. 861 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,320 I love anything like that. 862 00:22:50,360 --> 00:22:52,360 About a week or two ago, do you know all the planets were aligned? 863 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:52,760 About a week or two ago, do you know all the planets were aligned? 864 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,800 Yeah, yeah. I was like... I've got, like, the app on my phone. 865 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:55,640 Yeah, yeah. I was like... I've got, like, the app on my phone. 866 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,680 Have you got it? Oh, the Star Gazer, or whatever? Yeah, yeah. 867 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,000 Have you got it? Oh, the Star Gazer, or whatever? Yeah, yeah. 868 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,880 You go outside and it shows you where they are. Oh, yeah. 869 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:00,880 Yeah, it's cool, innit? 870 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,480 I'm just gonna pop to the bathroom. 871 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,960 Yes, and then I will have to go after you, as well. 872 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,960 OK. Yeah, no worries. 873 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,000 This is wonderful. Absolutely wonderful. 874 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:14,280 This is wonderful. Absolutely wonderful. 875 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,480 So we see the date's going really well. 876 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,520 Yeah, yeah. She's great. She's absolutely superb. 877 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,000 Yeah, yeah. She's great. She's absolutely superb. 878 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,040 {\an8}This has been the best date I have ever been on in my life. Wow! 879 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,080 {\an8}This has been the best date I have ever been on in my life. Wow! 880 00:23:26,120 --> 00:23:26,480 {\an8}This has been the best date I have ever been on in my life. Wow! 881 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,320 {\an8}Where did you find her? That's what we do. 882 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,400 It's wild! Probably not what I expected. 883 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:32,080 It's wild! Probably not what I expected. 884 00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:34,120 But, like, a beautiful surprise. Yeah. 885 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:34,640 But, like, a beautiful surprise. Yeah. 886 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:35,840 If you were my partner, 887 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,880 I'd just walk back with a different hairstyle, a different colour. 888 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:38,160 I'd just walk back with a different hairstyle, a different colour. 889 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,160 It'll always be a bob, 890 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,200 but it'll either be black, black and red, red. Yeah. 891 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:42,920 but it'll either be black, black and red, red. Yeah. 892 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,480 {\an8}Get to sleep with a different woman quite a lot. 893 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,280 THEY LAUGH 894 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,320 Yeah, I actually did blush. Did I make you blush? Yeah. 895 00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:49,480 Yeah, I actually did blush. Did I make you blush? Yeah. 896 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,280 I actually think I just blushed. 897 00:23:56,360 --> 00:23:57,520 Can I look? 898 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,200 You're kind of, like, doing that with me. Some sort of... No! 899 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:00,480 I'm like, "She don't like me. 900 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,040 "Does she like me? Does she not like me?" 901 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:07,640 OFF CAMERA: Would you like to see each other again? 902 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,760 Do you wanna go first? 903 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,200 You can go first. 904 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,240 I would love to see Rosie again. 905 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:14,520 I would love to see Rosie again. 906 00:24:17,360 --> 00:24:18,640 And you? 907 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,680 I would love to see you again, 908 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:20,920 I would love to see you again, 909 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,360 but it would be platonic, I think. 910 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,400 Oh! OK. Yeah. 911 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:24,640 Oh! OK. Yeah. 912 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,680 Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 913 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:26,960 Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 914 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,000 It's a shame, because I fancy the pants off you. 915 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:29,240 It's a shame, because I fancy the pants off you. 916 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,560 Very dangerous, you are. No, you're dangerous. 917 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:33,840 Very dangerous, you are. No, you're dangerous. 918 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,880 You're dangerous. You're dangerous. 919 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:36,120 You're dangerous. You're dangerous. 920 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,160 We're both dangerous. 921 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,640 We're hugging it out, darling. Mwah. 922 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,680 We 100% are. Yeah. Thank you. 923 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:41,840 We 100% are. Yeah. Thank you. 924 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,840 My ple... And you might get to see my tiger later, 925 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:46,480 you never know. Well... 926 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:47,800 Are you still gonna take me out? 927 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,840 Of course I am, 100%. I said I would. 928 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:51,880 Yeah. I said I definitely would. Absolutely. 929 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:52,200 Yeah. I said I definitely would. Absolutely. 930 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,240 Because I think that I can woo you a little bit more. 931 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:54,560 Because I think that I can woo you a little bit more. 932 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,600 You're not giving up easy, are you? THEY LAUGH 933 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:56,880 You're not giving up easy, are you? THEY LAUGH 934 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,720 I know I'm a special person, 935 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,320 and there's gonna be somebody out there 936 00:25:00,360 --> 00:25:02,360 that's gonna love every single part of me. 937 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:02,640 that's gonna love every single part of me. 938 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,800 You know, just give in. 939 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,960 How long have you been single, then? Three years, I wanna say. Mm-hm. 940 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,160 How long have you been single, then? Three years, I wanna say. Mm-hm. 941 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,200 Do you think cos of your job, like, travelling around a lot? 942 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:13,600 Do you think cos of your job, like, travelling around a lot? 943 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,440 Yeah, I'm, like, all over the place, to be honest. 944 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,480 But, like, I did Japan, uh, last summer. 945 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,120 But, like, I did Japan, uh, last summer. 946 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,160 I was in France the other week. Spain, Germany, Poland. 947 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,200 I was in France the other week. Spain, Germany, Poland. 948 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:22,520 I was in France the other week. Spain, Germany, Poland. 949 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,560 I'm going to Mexico in two weeks. How long are you there for? 950 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:25,840 I'm going to Mexico in two weeks. How long are you there for? 951 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,880 So only about a month. Only a month? 952 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:28,080 So only about a month. Only a month? 953 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:29,920 Only a month. 954 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,440 OFF CAMERA: Have you ever been in love?No. 955 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:33,760 OFF CAMERA: Have you ever been in love?No. 956 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,800 I think when you know, you know. Um... 957 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:36,360 I think when you know, you know. Um... 958 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:38,800 But no, I wouldn't say I have. 959 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,320 Always been travelling around, with different places. 960 00:25:42,360 --> 00:25:43,480 Do you think that makes it hard to, like, 961 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:44,800 have a relationship with someone, then? 962 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,720 It does, yeah. Cos you're never in one place, right? 963 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:47,800 I don't think I found love 964 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,840 because I just haven't found the right person yet. 965 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:50,240 because I just haven't found the right person yet. 966 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,120 I've not been looking in the right place. 967 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,760 It's time now to find love. 968 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:55,800 Not necessarily settle down, but to share my life with. 969 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:56,440 Not necessarily settle down, but to share my life with. 970 00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:59,480 So when was your last date? 971 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,520 Um, literally probably about a year and a half, maybe 972 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,800 Um, literally probably about a year and a half, maybe 973 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,560 two years, something like that. That was your last date? Yeah. 974 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:05,920 It was back in Australia, yeah. 975 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,960 So when was your last relationship? 976 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:08,960 So when was your last relationship? 977 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,600 Three years ago, maybe. 978 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,520 How long's your longest relationship been? 979 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,560 About a year, I'd say. A year? 980 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:14,760 About a year, I'd say. A year? 981 00:26:31,360 --> 00:26:32,880 I don't think he's feeling it. 982 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,440 As soon as he sat down, he was like, "Yeah, 983 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,480 "I've got, like, a wrestling thing, like, straight from here." 984 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:36,760 "I've got, like, a wrestling thing, like, straight from here." 985 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:37,920 And I thought, "Is that a lie?" 986 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:39,960 Like, his longest relationship was a year. OK. 987 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:40,920 Like, his longest relationship was a year. OK. 988 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,000 Are we like at, like, 989 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,480 different points of our life, basically? I get that. 990 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,520 Lisa. Lucy. Lucy. I've got the L here to help you. 991 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,240 Lisa. Lucy. Lucy. I've got the L here to help you. 992 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,120 I thought that was just Learner. 993 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:53,960 You can make of that what you want. 994 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,000 Hello. I'm sorry to interrupt. Hello. 995 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,000 Hello. I'm sorry to interrupt. Hello. 996 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,040 I'm loving this. The pocket square, I love it. Looking good. 997 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,080 I'm loving this. The pocket square, I love it. Looking good. 998 00:27:01,120 --> 00:27:01,400 I'm loving this. The pocket square, I love it. Looking good. 999 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,400 I hear you're a singer. Yeah, I'm an opera singer. 1000 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,440 Are you really? Oh, this is my favourite table. 1001 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:05,800 Are you really? Oh, this is my favourite table. 1002 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,840 Well, he's sensational. Oh! We've done well. 1003 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:08,480 Well, he's sensational. Oh! We've done well. 1004 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,520 Thank you. I'll be back. Cheers, mate. 1005 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:11,080 Thank you. I'll be back. Cheers, mate. 1006 00:27:12,120 --> 00:27:13,160 Cheers. 1007 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,200 So you've actually recorded, then, albums and stuff? 1008 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:16,160 So you've actually recorded, then, albums and stuff? 1009 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,200 Means nothing. Does it not? Not really. 1010 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:19,080 Means nothing. Does it not? Not really. 1011 00:27:19,120 --> 00:27:20,880 What's your biggest claim to fame? 1012 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:22,920 I love singing at Welsh National Opera for the rugby matches. 1013 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:24,800 I love singing at Welsh National Opera for the rugby matches. 1014 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,840 Albert Hall. Oh, wow! 1015 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:27,120 Albert Hall. Oh, wow! 1016 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,160 How old were you when you discovered you could sing? 1017 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:29,440 How old were you when you discovered you could sing? 1018 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:30,480 17. 18. 1019 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,520 My brother always sang, but... He was older than you? 1020 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:32,800 My brother always sang, but... He was older than you? 1021 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,840 No, younger. Oh, OK. 1022 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:35,120 No, younger. Oh, OK. 1023 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,160 My younger brother, Wynne, also an operatic singer. 1024 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:37,560 My younger brother, Wynne, also an operatic singer. 1025 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,600 We did a lot of stuff very similar, then Wynne kind of flew. 1026 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,360 We did a lot of stuff very similar, then Wynne kind of flew. 1027 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,400 He had the Go Compare advert and it kind of propelled him. 1028 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:44,360 He had the Go Compare advert and it kind of propelled him. 1029 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,000 As his fame rose, 1030 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,920 it was hard because I suddenly had no work. 1031 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,800 Even going to an opera audition, they'd go, 1032 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,840 "Oh, you're the Go Compare man's brother," 1033 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:53,120 "Oh, you're the Go Compare man's brother," 1034 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,160 and that's a real mind thing. Yeah. 1035 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,400 and that's a real mind thing. Yeah. 1036 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,440 Thinking, "Well, I'm not good enough." 1037 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,160 Thinking, "Well, I'm not good enough." 1038 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,200 From having similar careers to me, then being left behind 1039 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,240 From having similar careers to me, then being left behind 1040 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:04,840 From having similar careers to me, then being left behind 1041 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,880 or feeling in the shadows had a lasting impact on lots of things. 1042 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,920 or feeling in the shadows had a lasting impact on lots of things. 1043 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,000 or feeling in the shadows had a lasting impact on lots of things. 1044 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,040 How do you go forward when you still feel 1045 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:12,600 How do you go forward when you still feel 1046 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,440 that you're scrambling financially? 1047 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,480 You know, you're still going. Right, yeah. Yeah. 1048 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:16,760 You know, you're still going. Right, yeah. Yeah. 1049 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,120 I get that. 1050 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,160 It feels sometimes that you're going, "I'm just about holding on." 1051 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,200 It feels sometimes that you're going, "I'm just about holding on." 1052 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:22,520 It feels sometimes that you're going, "I'm just about holding on." 1053 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:23,960 Now, as you get older, 1054 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,000 it is being nostalgic, it's not being depressing, 1055 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:26,320 it is being nostalgic, it's not being depressing, 1056 00:28:26,360 --> 00:28:28,360 a friend of my parents will put in their will 1057 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:28,680 a friend of my parents will put in their will 1058 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,440 that they'd like me to sing in their funeral. 1059 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,480 That's actually really powerful, 1060 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:32,760 That's actually really powerful, 1061 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,800 that they actually chose that before they died. 1062 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,560 that they actually chose that before they died. 1063 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,440 What's the go-to funeral song then? 1064 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,280 Have I Told You Lately, Van Morrison, people love. 1065 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:40,800 Oh, I love that song. 1066 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,080 I started thinking recently 1067 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,800 about what I'm gonna have played at my funeral, 1068 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,840 which is a bit... Christ! You're not ill, are you? No! 1069 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:46,360 which is a bit... Christ! You're not ill, are you? No! 1070 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,400 I mean, that could change the date hugely if you said, 1071 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:49,400 I mean, that could change the date hugely if you said, 1072 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,440 "I'm not 100%, but could you sing at my funeral?" 1073 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:51,800 "I'm not 100%, but could you sing at my funeral?" 1074 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,960 When I went to Stonehenge for the winter solstice, 1075 00:28:59,000 --> 00:28:59,280 When I went to Stonehenge for the winter solstice, 1076 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,320 me and my sister, like, we licked the stones. Eugh! 1077 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:02,840 me and my sister, like, we licked the stones. Eugh! 1078 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:04,880 But we were, like, trying to, like, manifest, like, good things. Yeah. 1079 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:05,280 But we were, like, trying to, like, manifest, like, good things. Yeah. 1080 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,560 He was really nice. 1081 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,600 He was very nice to appreciate. 1082 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:10,960 He was very nice to appreciate. 1083 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,000 You enjoy yourself? Yeah. Have you? Yeah, I have, yeah. Good. 1084 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:14,080 You enjoy yourself? Yeah. Have you? Yeah, I have, yeah. Good. 1085 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,680 So, he's really interesting, 1086 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,720 but his longest relationship was a year. 1087 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:18,040 but his longest relationship was a year. 1088 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,560 So that made me think, "Hmm." 1089 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,880 I think I just thought if that's how his lifestyle is, 1090 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,040 I think I just thought if that's how his lifestyle is, 1091 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,080 are we at the same point in life or very different? 1092 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,280 are we at the same point in life or very different? 1093 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,040 So are you feeling pumped for later? 1094 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,760 Yeah, I'm ready to go. Nice. 1095 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,600 OFF CAMERA: Would you like to see each other again? 1096 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,640 Er, would I like to see you again? Yeah, I would like to see you again. 1097 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:37,960 Er, would I like to see you again? Yeah, I would like to see you again. 1098 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,000 We can plan some cool stuff to do. Yeah. OK. 1099 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:40,320 We can plan some cool stuff to do. Yeah. OK. 1100 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,360 I'm gonna take you to Glastonbury. Yeah? 1101 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:42,680 I'm gonna take you to Glastonbury. Yeah? 1102 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,720 Glastonbury... Stonehenge. Go see the Pyramids. OK. How they're built. 1103 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:45,400 Glastonbury... Stonehenge. Go see the Pyramids. OK. How they're built. 1104 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:46,800 In Glastonbury? Yeah, you never know. 1105 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,960 Really lovely to meet you. You too, have a lovely rest of the day. 1106 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:50,240 Really lovely to meet you. You too, have a lovely rest of the day. 1107 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,240 Thank you. 1108 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,280 We can go to Glastonbury. It's a deal. 1109 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:53,600 We can go to Glastonbury. It's a deal. 1110 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:54,960 Not to see the Pyramids, though. Not the Pyramids, no? 1111 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,520 You'll be disappointed. Oh, what a shame. 1112 00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,800 It's like you're in Mexico already. 1113 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,840 Do you think you'd be ready for a relationship, though? 1114 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:02,160 Do you think you'd be ready for a relationship, though? 1115 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,200 Take it in steps and if it goes well, of course. OK. Yeah. 1116 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:05,160 Take it in steps and if it goes well, of course. OK. Yeah. 1117 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,200 Oh, you gotta push it. I'll let you do it with your muscles. Go on. 1118 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:07,520 Oh, you gotta push it. I'll let you do it with your muscles. Go on. 1119 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,560 I think you've got to push it, maybe. It was push! 1120 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:10,440 I think you've got to push it, maybe. It was push! 1121 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:11,880 I thought that you weren't interested, 1122 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,680 so you were pretending that you had to go. 1123 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,360 Oh, no. Look... Oh, shoot, like... No, it's fine. 1124 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,400 You haven't gotta show me. THEY LAUGH 1125 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:17,640 You haven't gotta show me. THEY LAUGH 1126 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,520 You haven't got to... I'll show you. No, you haven't gotta show me. 1127 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:21,280 You haven't got to... I'll show you. No, you haven't gotta show me. 1128 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,320 Oh, my God. That's today, look. 1129 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:23,640 Oh, my God. That's today, look. 1130 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,680 Is that your actual body? I mean, yeah, I'd hope so, yeah. 1131 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:26,480 Is that your actual body? I mean, yeah, I'd hope so, yeah. 1132 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,520 Oh, my God. You can take me, I wanna watch. 1133 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:29,880 Oh, my God. You can take me, I wanna watch. 1134 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:31,920 Yeah. I wanna smell the blood. THEY LAUGH 1135 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,200 Yeah. I wanna smell the blood. THEY LAUGH 1136 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:34,200 Thank you. 1137 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,360 Sorry. Shall I walk on again? 1138 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:46,560 Sorry. Shall I walk on again? 1139 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,960 Spin instructor Rae is no stranger to working up a sweat, 1140 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,000 Spin instructor Rae is no stranger to working up a sweat, 1141 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:52,320 Spin instructor Rae is no stranger to working up a sweat, 1142 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,360 and she's hoping tonight's date gets her pulse racing. 1143 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,120 and she's hoping tonight's date gets her pulse racing. 1144 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,160 I have been single since 2015. 1145 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,160 I have been single since 2015. 1146 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,920 A decade! 1147 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,200 That is... Oh! 1148 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,640 OFF CAMERA: How would your friends and family describe you? 1149 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:07,480 OFF CAMERA: How would your friends and family describe you? 1150 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,520 They'd probably say that I'm like a cheerleader. 1151 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:10,480 They'd probably say that I'm like a cheerleader. 1152 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,520 I go hard for my people. I believe in them. 1153 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,560 I go hard for my people. I believe in them. 1154 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:14,800 I go hard for my people. I believe in them. 1155 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:18,920 How are you? I'm good. Hello, Fred. 1156 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:19,400 How are you? I'm good. Hello, Fred. 1157 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,440 Have you been doing much dating or... 1158 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:21,720 Have you been doing much dating or... 1159 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,160 I've been trying. 1160 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,200 Did not work? It's not fun. No. Yeah. 1161 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:25,480 Did not work? It's not fun. No. Yeah. 1162 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,520 In June I will turn 38. 1163 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:28,920 In June I will turn 38. 1164 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,000 Shall I take your coat, maybe? Yeah. 1165 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,040 It would be nice if I could be in a relationship before I turn 40. 1166 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,080 It would be nice if I could be in a relationship before I turn 40. 1167 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,120 It would be nice if I could be in a relationship before I turn 40. 1168 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:37,400 It would be nice if I could be in a relationship before I turn 40. 1169 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,440 I've been dating for long enough. 1170 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:39,680 I've been dating for long enough. 1171 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,720 Clearly, I'm doing something wrong. 1172 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:42,160 Clearly, I'm doing something wrong. 1173 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,200 Jump up, jump up. I literally have to jump up. I know. 1174 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,160 Jump up, jump up. I literally have to jump up. I know. 1175 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,200 What can I get you? I want your sweetest, most ridiculous cocktail. 1176 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,240 What can I get you? I want your sweetest, most ridiculous cocktail. 1177 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:51,200 What can I get you? I want your sweetest, most ridiculous cocktail. 1178 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,240 Oh, yeah, we've got one on the menu that fits that. Yeah. 1179 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:53,600 Oh, yeah, we've got one on the menu that fits that. Yeah. 1180 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,640 I can't wait. Lovely. And what do you do? 1181 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:55,920 I can't wait. Lovely. And what do you do? 1182 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,480 I teach spin. Oh, wow! 1183 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,480 So you're super fit yourself, then? No. 1184 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,880 Oh. THEY LAUGH 1185 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,920 You're not supposed to say that. No, not at all. 1186 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:03,160 You're not supposed to say that. No, not at all. 1187 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,360 Oh! There you go. She's beautiful. 1188 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:07,320 Oh! There you go. She's beautiful. 1189 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:08,680 What do you want from a man? 1190 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,720 A really big man that makes me feel dainty and safe. Oh, nice. 1191 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,760 A really big man that makes me feel dainty and safe. Oh, nice. 1192 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:13,240 A really big man that makes me feel dainty and safe. Oh, nice. 1193 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,280 My ideal man, he'll just be a really gentle soul. 1194 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,320 My ideal man, he'll just be a really gentle soul. 1195 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:18,000 My ideal man, he'll just be a really gentle soul. 1196 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:19,200 Oh, yeah. 1197 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,240 Who looks after me like a big bear. 1198 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:22,200 Who looks after me like a big bear. 1199 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:25,040 Hello. 1200 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,840 On the hunt for his perfect match is PE teacher Matt. 1201 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,880 On the hunt for his perfect match is PE teacher Matt. 1202 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,360 On the hunt for his perfect match is PE teacher Matt. 1203 00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,400 From the outside, women would think, "Oh, he's just a really nice guy," 1204 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:35,960 From the outside, women would think, "Oh, he's just a really nice guy," 1205 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,000 and then immediately friendzone me. 1206 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:38,240 and then immediately friendzone me. 1207 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:39,720 Hello. 1208 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,720 I'm attracted to women that are out of my league. 1209 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,760 And then I became aware of the phenomenon of the big gay bear. 1210 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:45,560 And then I became aware of the phenomenon of the big gay bear. 1211 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,600 It's really lovely to be told you're someone's type. 1212 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:48,560 It's really lovely to be told you're someone's type. 1213 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,600 That's helping me kind of realise, "Oh, I do have stuff to offer." 1214 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,320 That's helping me kind of realise, "Oh, I do have stuff to offer." 1215 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,480 Hello. How are you, Matt? 1216 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,240 Yeah, I'm good. How are you, mate? Are you all right? You OK? 1217 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,840 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Nice to meet you. Good to see you. 1218 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,880 Lovely flowers. Well, thought I'd make a tiny bit of an effort. 1219 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,040 Lovely flowers. Well, thought I'd make a tiny bit of an effort. 1220 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,200 What do you want from this date? 1221 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,200 I have no, like, pre-ideas. 1222 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,240 I'm just happy to go with whatever happens. With the flow. Yeah. 1223 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:06,080 I'm just happy to go with whatever happens. With the flow. Yeah. 1224 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,120 It's just one person that I'm actually looking for. 1225 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:08,640 It's just one person that I'm actually looking for. 1226 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,680 When I find her, I'm open enough now to recognise her and go, 1227 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:11,240 When I find her, I'm open enough now to recognise her and go, 1228 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:12,600 "There you are. I've been looking for you." 1229 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,680 Hello. I've brought you flowers. 1230 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:17,160 Hello. I've brought you flowers. 1231 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,200 Oh, my God, thank you. 1232 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:19,880 Oh, my God, thank you. 1233 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,520 I'm Matt, by the way. Hello, oh... 1234 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:24,880 Hello, Matt. Need a hand? 1235 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:25,160 Hello, Matt. Need a hand? 1236 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,200 How lovely to meet you. Lovely to meet you. 1237 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:27,520 How lovely to meet you. Lovely to meet you. 1238 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,560 Sorry, my hand's freezing cold as well from outside. 1239 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:30,240 Sorry, my hand's freezing cold as well from outside. 1240 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,280 That's no good. That is fine. 1241 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:32,800 That's no good. That is fine. 1242 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,480 Maybe there's a need. Hello, sir. Thank you. 1243 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,520 Can I get you a drink? Yeah, please. What do you feel like? 1244 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:36,880 Can I get you a drink? Yeah, please. What do you feel like? 1245 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:38,920 I mean, I don't want to put your impressive skills to waste, 1246 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,200 I mean, I don't want to put your impressive skills to waste, 1247 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,240 but I do just fancy a pint. That's all right. I'll get you a pint. 1248 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:42,760 but I do just fancy a pint. That's all right. I'll get you a pint. 1249 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:43,840 Yeah, thanks. 1250 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,880 These are lovely, thank you. Sorry, remind me of your name. 1251 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:46,160 These are lovely, thank you. Sorry, remind me of your name. 1252 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,000 Rae. Rae. Remind me of yours? 1253 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,040 Matt. Is Matt short for anything, or is it straight Matt? Matthew. 1254 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,680 Matt. Is Matt short for anything, or is it straight Matt? Matthew. 1255 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,720 Oh, it's Matthew. It's not Mattifer or anything like... 1256 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:54,000 Oh, it's Matthew. It's not Mattifer or anything like... 1257 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,600 Thank you ever so much. 1258 00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,640 Oh, it makes my hands look big because it's a tiny little glass. 1259 00:33:58,680 --> 00:33:58,960 Oh, it makes my hands look big because it's a tiny little glass. 1260 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,960 It does make your hands look big. 1261 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,000 And... What do you do? I'm the head of PE 1262 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:03,840 And... What do you do? I'm the head of PE 1263 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:05,880 at a school for children with additional learning needs, 1264 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:06,720 at a school for children with additional learning needs, 1265 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,040 and my job on the side 1266 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,080 is I deliver mental health first-aid courses. 1267 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:10,680 is I deliver mental health first-aid courses. 1268 00:34:10,720 --> 00:34:12,720 Oh, really? Yeah. 1269 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:13,320 Oh, really? Yeah. 1270 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,320 You wanna try to avoid a catastrophe. 1271 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,360 Yeah. Then it's not about putting people back together. 1272 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:17,840 Yeah. Then it's not about putting people back together. 1273 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,600 You all right? Sorry, Fred. Yeah, good. We're chatting away. 1274 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,640 He's nice, isn't he? He's lovely. Ha-ha, you're too kind. 1275 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:22,200 He's nice, isn't he? He's lovely. Ha-ha, you're too kind. 1276 00:34:22,240 --> 00:34:24,160 I'm happy to keep it there, like, that's a win. 1277 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,440 All right, all right. Oh, wow. Oh, that looks incredible. 1278 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,480 All right, all right. Oh, wow. Oh, that looks incredible. 1279 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:31,800 All right, all right. Oh, wow. Oh, that looks incredible. 1280 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,840 Thank you. Oh, that does look good, in fairness. Mm. 1281 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:34,800 Thank you. Oh, that does look good, in fairness. Mm. 1282 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:35,800 Cheers, mate. 1283 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,840 So how is your dating history, then? 1284 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:39,280 So how is your dating history, then? 1285 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,320 So I was married for 13 years, 1286 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,280 So I was married for 13 years, 1287 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,320 and then she fell in love with somebody else, 1288 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:44,600 and then she fell in love with somebody else, 1289 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:45,920 which I completely get. 1290 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,960 On my own for a long time. Not gone out, not looked. 1291 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,720 On my own for a long time. Not gone out, not looked. 1292 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,400 And your story? Well, 1293 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:53,440 I've just come back from Australia with my ex-husband, 1294 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:54,120 I've just come back from Australia with my ex-husband, 1295 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:56,080 which might make some people go, "What?" 1296 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:57,840 But we're the best of friends, 1297 00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:59,840 and I understand that could be a red flag for people. 1298 00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:01,880 I mean, don't get me wrong, I've got a lot of friends 1299 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:02,360 I mean, don't get me wrong, I've got a lot of friends 1300 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,400 and people kind of say, you know, like, people say, 1301 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:04,720 and people kind of say, you know, like, people say, 1302 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:05,960 "Oh, you light up the room," and all that, 1303 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,000 but a lot of it's a bit of a mask. 1304 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:08,240 but a lot of it's a bit of a mask. 1305 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:09,520 So when the kids left home, 1306 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,560 I did not appreciate how that was gonna make me feel. 1307 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,160 I did not appreciate how that was gonna make me feel. 1308 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,200 That first Christmas of going to bed on Christmas Eve 1309 00:35:15,240 --> 00:35:16,160 That first Christmas of going to bed on Christmas Eve 1310 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,200 and it was just me was hideous. 1311 00:35:18,240 --> 00:35:19,240 and it was just me was hideous. 1312 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,280 They weren't running into my bedroom with their stockings. 1313 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:21,560 They weren't running into my bedroom with their stockings. 1314 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,600 So, yeah, that was a lot. 1315 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:24,320 So, yeah, that was a lot. 1316 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,600 At the end of the day when you've had a bit of a rubbish day 1317 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,240 and you go home and you turn the key 1318 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,280 and it's like there's no-one to tell. 1319 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:32,600 and it's like there's no-one to tell. 1320 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,400 That's what I miss. Yeah. 1321 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,440 Just that someone to say, "I've got you." 1322 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:37,080 Just that someone to say, "I've got you." 1323 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,560 You know? 1324 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,600 I just lost my identity. 1325 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:40,880 I just lost my identity. 1326 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,920 It was really, really hard to kind of think, 1327 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:44,040 It was really, really hard to kind of think, 1328 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:45,920 "Well, I go to work and I come home 1329 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,960 "and I'm not too sure what else I do." 1330 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:48,960 "and I'm not too sure what else I do." 1331 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:50,720 Yeah. 55, you get to the point you think, 1332 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,760 "Actually, I don't wanna be on my own." Mm. Yeah. 1333 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:53,280 "Actually, I don't wanna be on my own." Mm. Yeah. 1334 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,240 It's quite hard. Yeah, it is, isn't it? 1335 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,840 I'm boring and tiring. It's like the wedding invites 1336 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,880 and you're, like, you haven't got a plus one or... Yeah. 1337 00:35:58,920 --> 00:35:59,680 and you're, like, you haven't got a plus one or... Yeah. 1338 00:35:59,720 --> 00:36:01,720 That was just a really low point in my life. 1339 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:02,240 That was just a really low point in my life. 1340 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,280 It made me just realise, "OK, now it's for me. 1341 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:04,760 It made me just realise, "OK, now it's for me. 1342 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,480 "Now life is for me." 1343 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,320 I still believe in love. 1344 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,360 I'll still keep hanging on in there. 1345 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:10,680 I'll still keep hanging on in there. 1346 00:36:10,720 --> 00:36:12,640 I'll be 90 still going through, 1347 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,480 "There's gotta be someone here somewhere." 1348 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,960 And I'm gonna be a granny, I am. Yeah. Thank you very much. 1349 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:18,920 And I'm gonna be a granny, I am. Yeah. Thank you very much. 1350 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,640 No problem. Very nice Welsh accent there. 1351 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,680 I'm quite good at accents, actually. Tidy. 1352 00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:23,480 I'm quite good at accents, actually. Tidy. 1353 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,520 Oh, I won't lie. I'm quite good at it. 1354 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:25,960 Oh, I won't lie. I'm quite good at it. 1355 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,400 That's very good. See? 1356 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,360 And I'd have to go, obviously, Uncle Bryn. 1357 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:30,560 Oh, love him. 1358 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,600 I'll be honest with you. I'm having such a lovely time. 1359 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:33,680 I'll be honest with you. I'm having such a lovely time. 1360 00:36:33,720 --> 00:36:35,720 I mean, that steak, it's as tender as the day 1361 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:36,760 I mean, that steak, it's as tender as the day 1362 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,800 and the red wine, oh, I could drink another glass. 1363 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:40,840 and the red wine, oh, I could drink another glass. 1364 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:41,120 and the red wine, oh, I could drink another glass. 1365 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,200 You sound like him. 1366 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,480 What's your favourite accent? I do love a Welsh accent. 1367 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:45,920 What's your favourite accent? I do love a Welsh accent. 1368 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,960 My dad sounds like a farmer. Come 'ere love? Come on. 1369 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:48,600 My dad sounds like a farmer. Come 'ere love? Come on. 1370 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,520 I think a rugged accent's quite sexy. 1371 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:51,520 Do you? Yeah. 1372 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,560 There's stuff I would definitely have, 1373 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,480 but not on a first date. Right? 1374 00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,520 Who's having mac and cheese on a first date? I mean... 1375 00:36:58,560 --> 00:36:58,840 Who's having mac and cheese on a first date? I mean... 1376 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,760 But don't let me put you off. You can have a mac and cheese. 1377 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,520 No, I don't want a mac and cheese. If you want a mac and cheese... 1378 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,320 Shut up about the mac and cheese. ..you can have the mac and cheese. 1379 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:05,960 I'm not having the mac and cheese. You definitely want it, 1380 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,000 that mac and cheese. Like, if I was in my pyjamas on the sofa. 1381 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:08,640 that mac and cheese. Like, if I was in my pyjamas on the sofa. 1382 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:09,640 Mac and cheese, fine. Yeah. 1383 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,000 I get along with most people. 1384 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:13,760 I get along with most people. 1385 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,800 But I don't want to get along with someone. 1386 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:16,280 But I don't want to get along with someone. 1387 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,320 I want to be the most special person in one person's life, 1388 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,240 I want to be the most special person in one person's life, 1389 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,280 and for them to be the most special person in my life. 1390 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:22,160 and for them to be the most special person in my life. 1391 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:23,800 {\an8}I feel like you want the mac and cheese. 1392 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,840 {\an8}We're gonna have to move beyond it, Rae. 1393 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:26,400 {\an8}We're gonna have to move beyond it, Rae. 1394 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,160 Connection is really important to me. 1395 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,200 I still just haven't quite found that one that makes me feel like, 1396 00:37:30,240 --> 00:37:31,000 I still just haven't quite found that one that makes me feel like, 1397 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,040 "Yes, that's the one I need to invest in." 1398 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,960 "Yes, that's the one I need to invest in." 1399 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,000 I did the mental health first-aid training. No way! 1400 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,960 I did the mental health first-aid training. No way! 1401 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,000 Cos I've got lived experience of mental health and wellbeing. OK. 1402 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:41,840 Cos I've got lived experience of mental health and wellbeing. OK. 1403 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,880 When I was trying to develop in my career, 1404 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,640 When I was trying to develop in my career, 1405 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,680 I was really pushing and pushing and the whole time I'd not been OK. 1406 00:37:47,720 --> 00:37:49,720 I was really pushing and pushing and the whole time I'd not been OK. 1407 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:50,120 I was really pushing and pushing and the whole time I'd not been OK. 1408 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,160 I think when I started pushing at work just tipped me over the edge 1409 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:53,800 I think when I started pushing at work just tipped me over the edge 1410 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:55,840 and I ended up getting signed off. 1411 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:56,080 and I ended up getting signed off. 1412 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,760 Yeah. And it was in that moment 1413 00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,800 where I had nothing left. 1414 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:00,200 where I had nothing left. 1415 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,320 On the outside, I would look like everything's fine, 1416 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:04,800 On the outside, I would look like everything's fine, 1417 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,840 and so I understand the dangers of that. 1418 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:07,960 and so I understand the dangers of that. 1419 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,000 Cos I had high-functioning depression. OK. 1420 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:10,560 Cos I had high-functioning depression. OK. 1421 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,600 But I couldn't understand what was wrong. Yeah. 1422 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:13,160 But I couldn't understand what was wrong. Yeah. 1423 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:14,600 So I couldn't deal with it. 1424 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,840 My dad had mental health issues also, 1425 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,440 My dad had mental health issues also, 1426 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,480 and we didn't talk about it. 1427 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:22,000 and we didn't talk about it. 1428 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,040 And I feel like having gone through it myself, 1429 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:24,680 And I feel like having gone through it myself, 1430 00:38:24,720 --> 00:38:26,720 how lonely that must have been. 1431 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:27,360 how lonely that must have been. 1432 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,400 I kind of just thought that I need to fix me. 1433 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:30,160 I kind of just thought that I need to fix me. 1434 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,200 And then it just wasn't working, so I had to go to therapy. 1435 00:38:32,240 --> 00:38:33,920 And then it just wasn't working, so I had to go to therapy. 1436 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,960 And then I just started talking. 1437 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:36,320 And then I just started talking. 1438 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,360 I do need someone that is willing to talk to me, 1439 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:39,000 I do need someone that is willing to talk to me, 1440 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,040 and I want them to know that I understand 1441 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,080 and I want them to know that I understand 1442 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:43,360 and I want them to know that I understand 1443 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,400 that it's not always gonna be OK. 1444 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:45,720 that it's not always gonna be OK. 1445 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,600 You're saying all the stuff that I think and feel, 1446 00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:49,640 but you say it in a way more composed, like... 1447 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:49,960 but you say it in a way more composed, like... 1448 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,000 I feel like I'm waffling on at you. No! 1449 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:52,600 I feel like I'm waffling on at you. No! 1450 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:54,360 Keep it going. It's all good. 1451 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,400 It's refreshing to speak to someone that is into communicating, 1452 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,440 It's refreshing to speak to someone that is into communicating, 1453 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,200 It's refreshing to speak to someone that is into communicating, 1454 00:39:00,240 --> 00:39:02,240 because it's hard to find people that want to be connected now. Yeah. 1455 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,280 because it's hard to find people that want to be connected now. Yeah. 1456 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:05,920 because it's hard to find people that want to be connected now. Yeah. 1457 00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:07,280 That's what I'm finding. 1458 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,280 It's all about connection. 1459 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,200 You look stunning, by the way, I haven't men... 1460 00:39:11,240 --> 00:39:12,840 I don't know if I mentioned it at the bar. 1461 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:14,880 Oh, thanks. SHE LAUGHS 1462 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,120 Oh, thanks. SHE LAUGHS 1463 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,160 All right, what's occurring? All right. 1464 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:18,480 All right, what's occurring? All right. 1465 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,520 {\an8}You took the words out of my mouth. Tell me everything. 1466 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:21,720 {\an8}You took the words out of my mouth. Tell me everything. 1467 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,760 {\an8}In an emoji. Copy the emoji in a face. 1468 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,000 {\an8}In an emoji. Copy the emoji in a face. 1469 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:27,960 He doesn't ask me enough questions. 1470 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:28,440 He doesn't ask me enough questions. 1471 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,480 Did he say how beautiful you look? Nope. 1472 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:30,760 Did he say how beautiful you look? Nope. 1473 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,160 Hasn't complimented me. 1474 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,200 So, how long have you been in the UK? Eight years. 1475 00:39:34,240 --> 00:39:34,480 So, how long have you been in the UK? Eight years. 1476 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,280 You've got such a wonderful accent. 1477 00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,320 I think you should sing for her. I'd like to hear it, actually. 1478 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:38,600 I think you should sing for her. I'd like to hear it, actually. 1479 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:39,520 He's an opera singer. 1480 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:41,760 Your face! 1481 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,880 Toilet I'm looking for. 1482 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,640 Is he singing through your dinner? 1483 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,680 He has. SINGING: Steak medium rare. 1484 00:39:48,720 --> 00:39:49,840 He has. SINGING: Steak medium rare. 1485 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,880 He did have steak medium rare! 1486 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:52,080 He did have steak medium rare! 1487 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,800 Hell of a way for the toilet. 1488 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,800 If you were slightly incontinent, you'd be... 1489 00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,680 You'd be in trouble, wouldn't you? Through there. 1490 00:40:01,240 --> 00:40:02,960 {\an8}I've got a feeling that he's gonna sing. 1491 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,640 But I better go. Got ya. 1492 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:07,720 Bye! 1493 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,040 Would you rather have Pringles for fingers or Wotsits for toes? 1494 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,080 Would you rather have Pringles for fingers or Wotsits for toes? 1495 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,040 Would you rather have Pringles for fingers or Wotsits for toes? 1496 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,080 Wotsits for toes. Why on earth Wotsits for toes? 1497 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:26,640 Wotsits for toes. Why on earth Wotsits for toes? 1498 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,680 Cos you can put them in shoes. 1499 00:40:28,720 --> 00:40:30,720 What am I gonna do with my Pringle hands? 1500 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:31,200 What am I gonna do with my Pringle hands? 1501 00:40:31,240 --> 00:40:33,240 I think if I always had gloves on, you'd be like... 1502 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:33,560 I think if I always had gloves on, you'd be like... 1503 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:35,600 I'd be trying to drink like that. Do you know what I mean? 1504 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:36,200 I'd be trying to drink like that. Do you know what I mean? 1505 00:40:36,240 --> 00:40:38,240 You could scoop up this food with your big Pringle fingers. 1506 00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:39,240 You could scoop up this food with your big Pringle fingers. 1507 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,280 Then I'd be eating like that, and then you'd be like... 1508 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:41,880 Then I'd be eating like that, and then you'd be like... 1509 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,920 I don't think that would be the worst thing about you. 1510 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:44,800 I don't think that would be the worst thing about you. 1511 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:47,800 Yes. Well have you had a lovely time? 1512 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:49,840 I have. Have you. I have. Yeah. 1513 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:50,120 I have. Have you. I have. Yeah. 1514 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,160 And I love the fact that we both stepped out. 1515 00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:52,800 And I love the fact that we both stepped out. 1516 00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,840 You've got to, haven't you? I think. Yeah. 1517 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:55,120 You've got to, haven't you? I think. Yeah. 1518 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:56,840 Here he comes. Oh, here he is. 1519 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:58,920 I'm gonna clear. OK. 1520 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,960 So I'm guessing you're gonna sing at some point, then? 1521 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:01,320 So I'm guessing you're gonna sing at some point, then? 1522 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,360 Should we go for something romantic? I think that would be great. 1523 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:03,840 Should we go for something romantic? I think that would be great. 1524 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,800 Get him up there. You gonna come with me? Yeah. 1525 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,040 Come on. 1526 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,600 It was good fun, and he sang. 1527 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,120 # Have I told you lately that I love you? # 1528 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,160 # Have I told you lately that I love you? # 1529 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,200 # Have I told you lately that I love you? # 1530 00:41:16,240 --> 00:41:16,880 # Have I told you lately that I love you? # 1531 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,920 I thought she was really pretty. She was bubbly. 1532 00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:19,840 I thought she was really pretty. She was bubbly. 1533 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,880 It, almost instantly, tick, tick, tick in many, many ways. 1534 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,800 It, almost instantly, tick, tick, tick in many, many ways. 1535 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,840 # Have I told you there's no-one above you? # 1536 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,880 # Have I told you there's no-one above you? # 1537 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,920 # Have I told you there's no-one above you? # 1538 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:30,880 # Have I told you there's no-one above you? # 1539 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:32,560 Hello. 1540 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:33,560 Hello. 1541 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,440 This isn't at all awkward, is it? Very. 1542 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:38,880 This isn't at all awkward, is it? Very. 1543 00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,920 # You ease my troubles, that's what you do. # 1544 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,960 # You ease my troubles, that's what you do. # 1545 00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:43,280 # You ease my troubles, that's what you do. # 1546 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,360 Thank you. Enjoy. CHEERING, APPLAUSE 1547 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:46,760 Thank you. Enjoy. CHEERING, APPLAUSE 1548 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,440 OFF CAMERA: Would you like to see each other again? 1549 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:51,720 OFF CAMERA: Would you like to see each other again? 1550 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,360 Would I like to see you again? 1551 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,400 I... I'm... God, this is the hardest part. 1552 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,320 I... I'm... God, this is the hardest part. 1553 00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,360 This is the hardest part. I would say yes, 1554 00:41:58,400 --> 00:41:59,360 This is the hardest part. I would say yes, 1555 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,400 but I don't think it's romantic. Yeah. Thank God. 1556 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:01,960 but I don't think it's romantic. Yeah. Thank God. 1557 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,800 Yeah. Yeah. Neither. 1558 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:05,840 Yeah. What? Bloody hell. Hang on a minute, love. 1559 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,400 Yeah. What? Bloody hell. Hang on a minute, love. 1560 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,440 I'm gonna go round with a hat now to pay for my food. 1561 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:09,680 I'm gonna go round with a hat now to pay for my food. 1562 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,160 Absolutely zero romantic spark. But we had... Zero? 1563 00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:14,520 Absolutely zero romantic spark. But we had... Zero? 1564 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,560 Well, for me. I didn't think zero. Well, I thought... 1565 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:17,080 Well, for me. I didn't think zero. Well, I thought... 1566 00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,120 You can sing at the wedding. Oh! Deal. 1567 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:20,200 You can sing at the wedding. Oh! Deal. 1568 00:42:20,240 --> 00:42:22,240 I felt like you should have been on a date with Gerald, not me. 1569 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:23,640 I felt like you should have been on a date with Gerald, not me. 1570 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,680 You loved him. He's sensational, isn't he? 1571 00:42:25,720 --> 00:42:26,640 You loved him. He's sensational, isn't he? 1572 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,400 I actually think I need to get a bit camper. 1573 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:29,960 You need to get camper? 1574 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,000 What you think I'm quite camp anyway. Yeah, very. 1575 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:32,280 What you think I'm quite camp anyway. Yeah, very. 1576 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,240 {\an8}Do you think? Yeah. 1577 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,280 {\an8}You're in touch with your feminine side, definitely. 1578 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:35,560 {\an8}You're in touch with your feminine side, definitely. 1579 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:38,640 Come here, you. Thank you. 1580 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,680 Aw. Thank you. You're a bobby-dazzler. 1581 00:42:40,720 --> 00:42:41,680 Aw. Thank you. You're a bobby-dazzler. 1582 00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:43,720 You're a right bobby-dazzler, you are. 1583 00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:43,960 You're a right bobby-dazzler, you are. 1584 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,960 LAUGHTER 1585 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:47,160 LAUGHTER 1586 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,400 Because I didn't know that they were gonna match me 1587 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,440 with someone that is as cool as you. 1588 00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:55,680 with someone that is as cool as you. 1589 00:42:55,720 --> 00:42:57,720 And so I got these, 1590 00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:58,000 And so I got these, 1591 00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,040 just in case you were a bit dry, but you're not dry. 1592 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:00,360 just in case you were a bit dry, but you're not dry. 1593 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,400 Let's get into it. Give me the conversation starters, 1594 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:02,720 Let's get into it. Give me the conversation starters, 1595 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:04,360 because we're clearly struggling. We're definitely doing it. 1596 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,280 We'll go with whatever this one is. OK. 1597 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,440 How are you able to love someone you don't agree with? 1598 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,480 How are you able to love someone you don't agree with? 1599 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:11,760 How are you able to love someone you don't agree with? 1600 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:13,120 My answer to that is respect. 1601 00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,160 You can disagree with the person that you love 1602 00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:15,440 You can disagree with the person that you love 1603 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,240 as long as you respect them. 1604 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,160 I actually think that's healthier 1605 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,200 than just agreeing with people all the time. 1606 00:43:21,240 --> 00:43:22,320 than just agreeing with people all the time. 1607 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,360 And that's how you can love someone you don't agree with. 1608 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:25,120 And that's how you can love someone you don't agree with. 1609 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,320 Oh, I liked that he could hold a conversation 1610 00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:29,520 Oh, I liked that he could hold a conversation 1611 00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,560 and there weren't the awkward silences. 1612 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:32,040 and there weren't the awkward silences. 1613 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,040 Thank you so much. Thank you. Thanks. 1614 00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:35,400 Are you all right to get that? 1615 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:39,560 Thank you. 1616 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,600 He was interested in me as a human being. 1617 00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,640 He was interested in me as a human being. 1618 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:43,920 He was interested in me as a human being. 1619 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:45,600 It's a fortune cookie. 1620 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:47,640 This is incredible. 1621 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:47,920 This is incredible. 1622 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:49,960 What's it say? Rae is gonna give you her number. 1623 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:50,280 What's it say? Rae is gonna give you her number. 1624 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,080 I don't often feel the level of connection 1625 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:55,360 I don't often feel the level of connection 1626 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,280 that I felt with Rae today. 1627 00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,320 And mine says 079... 1628 00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:00,800 And mine says 079... 1629 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:04,000 I don't know if Rae fancies me, 1630 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,040 I'm really bad at picking up on the signals. 1631 00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:06,360 I'm really bad at picking up on the signals. 1632 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,400 I wouldn't be surprised if she's, like, too cool for me, 1633 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:08,760 I wouldn't be surprised if she's, like, too cool for me, 1634 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,840 but I really liked her, yeah. 1635 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:12,880 Er, mine actually says a love story is about to begin. 1636 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:13,960 Er, mine actually says a love story is about to begin. 1637 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:15,640 Does it? 1638 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,680 Hello. Hello. How are you doing? 1639 00:44:17,720 --> 00:44:18,120 Hello. Hello. How are you doing? 1640 00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,160 I'm good. How are you? Yeah, good. 1641 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:20,560 I'm good. How are you? Yeah, good. 1642 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,600 We covered that bit already. 1643 00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:22,880 We covered that bit already. 1644 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,800 Gonna have to... I need space to hop. 1645 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,840 Oh, thank you. I got you. I appreciate you. 1646 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:27,520 Oh, thank you. I got you. I appreciate you. 1647 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,960 OFF CAMERA: Would you like to see each other again? 1648 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:31,240 OFF CAMERA: Would you like to see each other again? 1649 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:32,000 Oh. 1650 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,320 Go on, I feel like you need to go first. 1651 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:35,640 Go on, I feel like you need to go first. 1652 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,680 Why me? I mean, I'll go if you want me to? I think you go first. 1653 00:44:37,720 --> 00:44:38,800 Why me? I mean, I'll go if you want me to? I think you go first. 1654 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,840 OK. Yeah, I would. Um... 1655 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:41,120 OK. Yeah, I would. Um... 1656 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,160 I don't know how it works with the reality of...of...of that, 1657 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:44,960 I don't know how it works with the reality of...of...of that, 1658 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,360 but, uh, yeah, I would. 1659 00:44:47,720 --> 00:44:49,720 I would too. 1660 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:49,960 I would too. 1661 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,200 Thank you so much, guys. My pleasure. Thank you. 1662 00:44:53,240 --> 00:44:53,640 Thank you so much, guys. My pleasure. Thank you. 1663 00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:55,680 Maybe everyone finds it easy to connect with you, 1664 00:44:55,720 --> 00:44:56,000 Maybe everyone finds it easy to connect with you, 1665 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,040 but I found it easy to connect with you and easy to talk to you, 1666 00:44:58,080 --> 00:44:58,320 but I found it easy to connect with you and easy to talk to you, 1667 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,200 which is very important for me. 1668 00:45:00,240 --> 00:45:02,240 I'm on the wrong side of you. He's a gentleman. 1669 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:03,680 I'm on the wrong side of you. He's a gentleman. 1670 00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:05,720 You're going first on the where's the second date gonna be? 1671 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,200 You're going first on the where's the second date gonna be? 1672 00:45:07,240 --> 00:45:08,720 That's up to you. Yeah. 1673 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,760 I think it should be here. That is a good shout. 1674 00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:11,600 I think it should be here. That is a good shout. 1675 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,640 Then you could show me round. You said you liked gin. 1676 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:13,960 Then you could show me round. You said you liked gin. 1677 00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,000 Yeah. There's a gin bar. With colourful cocktails? 1678 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:18,040 Yeah. There's a gin bar. With colourful cocktails? 1679 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,920 We can probably find a colourful cocktail. 1680 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,560 Oh, then we can go there then. OK. 1681 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:25,040 I could still win her over. 1682 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,120 I don't doubt it, actually. 1683 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:28,760 I don't doubt it, actually. 1684 00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,480 Have to rain check for another day. Yeah. Yeah. 1685 00:45:43,720 --> 00:45:45,720 Are you gonna pretend a train to get? 1686 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:46,280 Are you gonna pretend a train to get? 1687 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:47,760 OFF CAMERA: She doesn't believe you. 1688 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,400 The conversation was so lovely, 1689 00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:58,440 The conversation was so lovely, 1690 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,480 I didn't eat any of the food. 1691 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:01,040 I didn't eat any of the food. 1692 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,760 Subtitles by Red Bee Media