Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
What about me that I'm leaving my whole [bleep] life
just to be with you?
I'm always gonna be the bad guy
when it comes to me and his family.
Tell me why I saw Sophie on Bumble?
She said she was just trying to find friends
in America while she was here.
She's on dating apps,
she's doing a lot of things that make me feel like she's not really here for Rob.
Um, there is something, like, he doesn't know about me.
Basically, um, I'm bisexual.
I've always known that I was attracted to women.
But, we only have a short time to get married,
so I have to figure out what I wanna do with that fact.
Fifteen years ago, our first K-1 visa was approved.
But, we had some issues.
What happened the first time?
It was like...
And he freaked.
Fifteen years forward,
he did tell me that I'm the love of his life
and he proposed to me.
But, I've noticed that he will not pleasure me.
Lovemaking was, in two-and-a-half weeks maybe four times.
No it's not. No, it's not.
If you can accept me, then you accept me.
If you can't, c'est la vie.
I sent him a message two hours ago and he still hasn't gotten it.
Manuel's never been outside of Ecuador
and he doesn't speak English.
His visa expires tomorrow.
If he's not on the plane, what happens then?
Oh my God, I'm freaking out.
Oh my God.
Hold it in.
Oh my God, I'm freaking out. I'm freaking out.
Oh my God.
Okay, breathe in.
Oh my God, I'm ugly crying.
Oh my God, I cannot-- my makeup.
My makeup, my makeup, my makeup, my makeup, my makeup.
Ugh, give me the [bleep] ticket.
Okay.
Oh my God.
Okay.
You got this, you got this.
- Just breathe, don't even think about it. - I'm a strong as bitch.
Okay.
- You got this. - Okay.
Manuel is supposed to be arriving to Rochester.
But, Manuel and I have no contact for like, six or seven hours.
Is he on the plane? Is he gonna get here? Did he miss his flight?
Did he get stuck in immigration? Did they not let him through?
Did they give him a hard time because literally, his--
his visa expires the next day?
I am tweaking,
because I don't have any control over this situation.
Okay.
I am like, overcome with emotion right now
and I cannot even handle life.
- Okay-- - Breathe, just breathe, just breathe.
- Oh my God. - That's a lot.
Am I legit having a panic attack?
I'm feeling, like, tingly right now.
Okay.
Bring the tissues.
- I'm bringing the medicine first. - Okay.
Okay.
Oh my God.
I'm freaking the out right now.
Oh, there you are, oh my God.
I can't keep it together, I'm freaking out.
Stop crying, stop.
You gotta hold it together--
- You-- you have to hold it together. - Oh, I can't breathe.
- I gotta breathe, I gotta breathe. - You gotta breathe.
In through your nose, out through your mouth, hold it in.
In through your nose,
out through your mouth, control it, in through your nose.
I should've worn a grounding crystal today.
It just hit her finally, 'cause I feel like before,
she was definitely in a state of, "Oh, but it's fine,
everything's gonna be great."
And then now, it's actually here and happening
and she's like, "[bleep] it's here, it's real
and it's all-- it's all happening."
All right.
Okay.
Where do we even find him?
- Uh... - I don't know.
Just breathe, just breathe.
You're moving a mile a minute.
He was supposed to land--
Wait, okay, that's baggage claim four.
Okay, okay, okay, I think that's his flight.
- Okay, Ashley, hold on. Breathe. - Breathe. Breathe.
If they have a baggage claim number, that means they landed.
Okay.
- Oh my God, you're squeezing me. - Okay.
Okay.
He's gonna come out of-- out through here,
- he's gonna come out through here. - I know.
So, I'm waiting in front of the baggage claim,
'cause I know when his flight's supposed to land.
But, I literally have no clue if he made his connections,
what's going on, I don't know where he is.
I'm just gonna hope for the best.
I hope he's on this flight, what if he's not on this flight?
He's gonna be on this flight, what are you doing?
I need to see him get-- come down that escalator.
It takes a minute, you know that, it takes a minute.
He's on that flight.
He's on that plane.
Ohh!
For him to come down those stairs,
through those gates in my city,
oh my God.
Words can't express the level of relief I felt in that moment.
Oh my God.
I made it.
Bienvenido...
a America.
America.
♪ Don't feel ♪
♪ Don't feel, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪
♪ Don't feel ♪
♪ Don't feel, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪
I'm hoping that I could bring some fabulosity to Moldova.
Because the last time I was there, it seemed kinda boring.
Mom.
It's been nine long months
since I've seen my fiancé Justin.
I am going to Moldova tomorrow
and my mom's on her way
to help me pack up before I go.
- Hi. - Hi, honey.
- How are you? - Hello, how are you?
- How're you doing? - I'm good.
- Haven't seen you since-- - How was the traffic?
Oh, bad.
- Yeah? - Especially by the Lincoln Tunnel.
Hi, Vicious.
My mother is supportive in my relationship with Justin.
I think it's a little bit funny and ironic
because 15 years ago, when Justin came to the United States
under the K-1 visa,
she was like, "Kick his ass to the curb and send his ass back."
So, it's funny--
it's funny how the tables turn
and I'm more careful of what's gonna happen with the relationship
and she's more hopeful.
Here, give me a hug.
- Hah, packing. - How are you, mama?
- How you been? - Love you.
- What're you doing? - I'm packing.
Oh, do you want-- do you need some help?
Probably, but I don't even know what to pack.
My connection with my mother
took a very, very, very long time
to get to where it's today.
Initially, when I told my mother
that I wanted to transition,
she said she would not accept it.
She gave birth to a boy,
and she thought I was gonna be a freak.
Imagine being 17-years-old,
and...
hearing from your parent that they won't accept you.
For the life that you felt
you should've been born from the very beginning.
So, from the time of 17-years-old to 19-years-old,
my mother and I didn't speak.
Of course, she accepted me years ago,
and now we're like this, you know.
My mom loves me
and accepts me as her daughter,
and sometimes, it takes time.
- You're taking this? - Yes.
- Why? - Okay.
This too?
- Yeah. - Wow.
- It's very exotica, but-- - Very sexy.
I mean, listen, I'm all about fashion
- and this is how I am and he knows that. - Well--
He knows that, but does he want you to be toned down
- or do-- I mean, are you gonna compromise or-- - It's--
I'm gonna compromise with him
you know, like, I'm gonna meet his mother,
- I gotta show you what I'm gonna wear. - Okay.
I always worry wherever she goes.
I'm worried that, uh, they're not very accepting
of trans women,
and so, I'm concerned about her safety.
And also her feelings.
How do you feel about this whole thing?
Going there and meeting--
- Not meeting, but seeing... - Second time.
...his parents for the second time.
How do you feel? Are you feeling nervous, anxious?
I'm feeling nervous, anxious,
all of it.
When I see his mother for the first time in like, forever...
- Right. Right. - ...it's just such a big shock for them to hear
uh, that their son loves,
or is in love with a trans woman.
Uh, it's not the easiest thing.
They didn't know the first time.
Now, they'll know the second time.
Is she accepted, um,
- meeting you-- - She accepted it to him,
but I don't know how they're gonna be
- in person. - React to you.
People are very different, you know--
it's a whole different ballgame when you actually meet the person.
Right.
So, I don't know how they're gonna react.
- I know it's not an easy thing, I mean- - Mmm-hm.
- It wasn't easy for you. - No, it wasn't.
When Nicole was younger,
and she was going through her changes, um,
I was not there.
I'm gonna-- I'm gonna admit that.
And it's not that I didn't love her.
I didn't understand.
- Do you want a coffee? - I do, I do. Thank you.
I regret and I will regret it for the rest of my life.
And, um, I hope that Justin's parents
and Justin, will love her and accept her.
When you get there, I think that you will get a better perspective
of what's surrounding him and what's happening there.
I just hope he's ready because right now I see how he's reacting
of me coming there to his country for three weeks.
And I see how his friends is closing,
and they're retracting and walking away from him, and it's upsetting.
Justin told me himself
that he's getting a lot of rejection
and pushback from his friends.
It makes me feel sad.
It makes me feel like sometimes like a disease.
Like, why are they treating him like this for his choice to be with me?
Since I was little, I always battled depression.
- And I just think this is part of the moment. - I know.
But the good part is he is telling his parents
that you're trans, that he loves you,
and he's also telling his friends that you're trans.
So he wouldn't have gone that far if he didn't love you.
I just feel like he's being apprehensive
because this is a small country.
Maybe he's afraid for himself, he's afraid for you. I don't know.
Do you know what I mean?
So we don't know what kind of hate is out there.
And I know that you're going through a lot of stress.
I'm just, it's a lot.
You just have to understand that it's okay, Mama.
It's okay.
I think you're gonna get married,
and you're gonna have a good life,
and he's gonna love you,
and you're gonna love him.
There's a lot of changes coming.
He made the first step.
And that's telling his parents.
They're gonna accept you. They want to see you.
Think positive. Everything's gonna be fine. Everything's gonna be okay.
The K-1 visa is about to be approved.
And this trip for me is so important
because there's just so many things we need to discuss.
Everything that I need in a man and a husband,
I need that reassurance because I'm not moving forward again
and have the same nightmare happen all over again,
coming all the way to the United States and getting sent back again.
But the way that it's going, I don't know.
Like, I don't know.
And I need to know, like, if it's gonna work
before he comes.
Jasmine's picture is normally here,
and you can see that she blocked me
because her picture is gone.
I don't know if she made the flight.
We're getting closer by the minute to Sophie being right there.
You don't know what my next move is. You don't even know.
Hey!
I just got to the airport.
Now I'm just trying to find my gate.
But, yeah, I'm excited.
♪ Could it be like ♪
♪ We're just fragments of light shining bright ♪
That's clean.
Clean as it's gonna get.
Hopefully there's enough space for all of her stuff.
♪ I don't know what I don't know ♪
♪ But I know that it's better off just letting it go ♪
Today is the day.
I'm running around in circles trying to get everything ready.
Can't forget the stereo.
I got big plans on how to greet her and welcome her.
It's a bit stressful, but I think I'm gonna be ready.
Man, oh, man, oh, man.
You know, when we decided to actually be engaged,
there wasn't a ring and there wasn't a proposal.
But I do have a plan on how to make it a lot more, um,
Disney princessy.
Which I know is important to her.
Man, I'm nervous about this little dance, man.
My plans are to do the dance with the roses at the airport,
propose leaving the airport,
romantic candle-lit dinner
outside the house.
Oh, man, I gotta have the flowers.
It's seems like a lot.
If feels like a lot.
But it's like the proposal that she deserves.
Oh, my God.
My flight to America was absolutely horrible.
I had a layover in New York
where I literally only had seconds to spare
until I got my flight.
This is not how I wanted to look
after not seeing Rob in six months.
I kind of wanted to look cute, put some makeup on,
put a cute outfit on,
but I'm sweaty and I smell bad.
Great.
Gate 30.
That's the only one it can be.
So, 8:30 out of Kennedy is claim number 8.
So that's the one we're gonna go to, I guess.
We're getting closer by the minute
to Sophie being right there with me...
for this 90-day adventure.
It's getting so real right now that I'm losin'--
I'm losin' it a bit. I'm [bleep] freaking out.
Uh, but, yeah.
She's about to be here.
And I need to not forget this dance
'cause that's the thing that's scaring the hell out of me
is that I'ma forget this dance
because I'm so nervous.
Oh, okay.
Hey!
Oh, God.
I don't know.
Yeah!
Aah, sexy!
Oh, I missed you so much.
- Give me a kiss. Mmm-hmm! - I missed you.
Oh, my goodness.
Oh, my God.
You made it.
- I made it. I'm here. - You made it.
And I embarrassed myself, all for you.
No, it was good. It was cute.
Rob is so corny sometimes.
It's so funny.
Like, if any other guy did it, I would be like, "Ew."
Like I would get the "ew."
Like, if a British guy did the stuff Rob did,
I would be disgusted.
I would never speak to him ever again.
But, Rob, he's American,
so he can like get away with it.
But, yeah. If guys from my hometown did it,
I'd be like, "Ew."
We made it. We made it.
- I made it. - You made it.
Once the dance was done, I think that...
that she thought that was the moment.
And I liked it, 'cause it was like,
"You don't know what my next move is.
Just wait.
Let's take it 100 steps that way."
So, here.
Here, grab-- you grab-- You-- Here.
Hey, what?
What are you doing?
Uh, I just wanted to actually propose to you, though.
- Shut up. - Will you marry me?
Oh, my gosh.
Will you marry me?
Yeah.
Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
Well, you better come up with an answer.
Yes, yes, yes!
- Yes. Thank you. Yes. - All right, then!
I don't know where you put it on.
- Is it this finger? - Oh, my God, I'm shaking.
Don't shake. There you go.
I can't even breathe.
Oh, my God. What the hell?
Oh, my God.
I was very surprised. And I'm like jetlagged.
I tried to make it-- I tried to make it--
I tried to make it special.
And I wanted to do it the right way.
As a kid, marriage never even crossed my mind.
I don't know, I just never...
I just never really thought about it.
I don't know why, to be honest.
But when I met Rob,
like, this before we even considered the K-1.
He was like, "Oh, one day,
I'm gonna put a ring on your finger."
And at the time, I was just like,
"Actually, like, that would be kind of cute."
Like, I was like, "Maybe I would like to marry this guy."
So, yeah, I mean, I was very happy
when he finally did it, yeah.
Now we can go home, all right?
Yeah.
But I don't know why you chose the airport, but.
Well, I mean, I had already, technically, you know...
we were already engaged,
- but the actual proposal... - Mmm-hmm.
...uh, I felt like that needed to happen
and it needed to happen as soon as she got to LA.
Like, "I come with this."
You gotta say yes to me
before you get to be a US citizen
and go enjoy LA.
Aw, that's cute.
All right, baby. Follow me to the rest of your life.
Saying goodbye to my family
is not easy.
And I just pray to God
that--
that I'm doing the right thing.
I have a new look!
And, well, I love it.
I'm honestly so sick and tired of having arguments
after arguments with Gino.
So I really wanted to feel like
I have control over something.
And, well, I did!
My last visit here in Panama to the beauty salon,
I decided to do something super-radical.
So I cut my hair.
No hair extensions, no weaves
that I've been wearing for 15 years.
And, as expensive as it is in Panama,
it's even more expensive in the United States.
And I'm gonna be completely reliant financially on Gino.
And Gino's Gino.
it's time just to embrace my natural hair.
I really like it. It's...
It's cute.
Panama is home.
This is my identity. This is who I am.
And leaving everything behind
and all the people that I love and that love me
is very hard.
It's not easy.
I'm ready to take, uh, my flight to Atlanta
and then to Detroit. So.
I'm sad. But at the same time, I'm excited.
I just hope that Gino is ready for me.
This is the bravest thing I've ever done in my life.
Just...
uh... taking a plane
after saying goodbye to my family,
my kids,
everything.
Oh, my gosh.
Yeah.
But at the same time, I'm like-- but I'm doing this
And I just pray to God that...
that I'm doing the right thing.
Today is the day that Jasmine arrives in Detroit.
But, unfortunately, last night,
we kind of got in an argument
and she blocked me on WhatsApp.
♪ We're feeling fine We're feeling fine ♪
♪ We're feeling fine ♪
Jasmine's picture is normally here.
And you can see that she blocked me
because her picture is gone.
No, I am not in communication with her.
I don't know if she made the flight.
I'm worried about this.
I quit my job because I wanted to...
make sure she's very comfortable in Michigan.
And I don't know if she's even gonna make it
to the USA.
But I'm really hoping I make the right choice.
I mean, we've been waiting... 18 months. 18 months
to get through the whole K-1 process.
That's a long time.
We're supposed to be excited about this.
This is supposed to be an exciting day.
That's-- that's been so hard.
It looks like her flight landed.
My feelings are all over the place.
I don't know how to feel right now.
I don't know if she's here.
Uh, I don't know if she went back to Panama.
Um, will I see her today?
How will she react to me?
She's my soulmate. Like.
We have such a strong bond
and, like, I love her.
I just wish there was a way
that we could stop having these arguments
'cause we have 90 days together to figure out,
you know...
...you know, is this, you know, gonna be good?
Or, you know,
is there something, you know, not so good about it?
Stay open.
What are you doing?
- Oh, my God. - I was trying to keep it open.
I've just got here. We're stuck in an elevator.
Who's gonna answer at this time?
Somebody who works for the elevator company
- or LAX-- - At what time?
Rico Suave has been with me through a ton of partners.
And like they leave, and guess who stays.
Rico mother-[bleep] Suave.
Are you ready?
Rochester!
- Have fun. - We will.
You can keep the sign.
- Awesome. Love you. - Love you.
- See you later.
Oh, my God.
- Rico Suave! - Rico Suave!
No jump, bubba.
- Yeah. - Oh.
My apartment vibe is witchy.
It's very spiritual. There's crystals everywhere.
There's like deities everywhere.
I am beginning to introduce Manuel to my witchy practice
in baby steps so that I don't overwhelm him
and because it's important for him to know all of me
before he says, "I do."
Okay.
No.
Manuel.
Manuel!
Rico Suave has been with me through a ton of partners.
And like they leave, and guess who stays.
Rico mother-[bleep] Suave.
So, as far as I'm concerned,
Rico Suave can sleep where he wants, whether it's in the
or whether it's in the bedroom.
Culturally, Manuel is used to telling people what to do
and how to do it.
And I come from a family of strong independent women of color.
We dictate in our family line.
And, um...
he's gonna have to figure that out.
- Yup. - That's crazy.
Sophie just arrived at LAX and I knew she wasn't ready for that ring.
I knew she wasn't ready for me to actually do that proposal,
that actual romantic proposal that I know she wanted,
and I hadn't done that.
I feel like I pulled this off, like,
good [bleep] Rob. I did pretty good.
I think so.
- Stay open. - What are you doing?
I was trying to keep it open.
The light is on though. So, we'll just give it a second.
How the hell did I break it?
Does it usually do this?
How the hell should I know what the LAX elevator--
Well, I think it's broke, Rob.
It's not-- Well, you gotta wait.
How long? You're not supposed to wait this long.
I'mma let you figure it out.
And when it finally goes up...
- I think it's broke. - ...you fixed it.
It's actually broke. It's not even opening.
Rob.
- It's not funny. - It is funny.
Rob, you've actually broken it.
How the hell did I break it? All I did was--
'Cause you... You might slam them together.
Come on... I pushed this button which means open.
This says door open.
- We're actually stuck in the lift. - I didn't touch this.
We're actually stuck in the lift.
No, we're genuinely stuck in the lift.
- And it's my fault? - We're actually stuck in the lift.
I'm like, panicking.
This is the type of you gotta be ready for, mentally just, whatever.
As long as this reaches on the first floor
or not on the first floor, we're not dropping.
Why would say that while we're still in the lift?
'Cause we're on the first floor, not on the fourth floor.
Why would you say that?
- Hmm. - I'm literally, like, claustrophobic, Rob.
No, but I need to get out of the lift.
I can't help that. There's nothing I can do about it.
Oh, my God.
I need to get out of the lift.
I can't help that. There's nothing I can do about it.
Oh, my God.
So, obviously, I've just got here
and everything is great, but like, we're stuck
in an elevator, which is not really the best sign.
Probably.
Probably? That's your fault, not mine.
You were the one that clicked the button
a billion times when no one was even coming in.
I literally clicked it one time.
You were like, oh, I'm keeping it open. We're supposed to do this.
It didn't even work. I clicked it once.
For me, it's like four in the morning in England.
So I'm already very tired and I've had a stressful
airport situation and two flights,
and immigration and I just wanna go to bed.
Um, so for me, it's just like, I'm just so tired.
So it's like Rob should just understand that and be like,
it's okay, you know, don't worry, we'll open it.
Instead, he's getting angry at me.
This is ridiculous.
How many people go up and down these things a day?
How does it not work?
It's crazy.
You pushed the button six times.
Who's gonna answer it this time?
Somebody who works for the elevator company
- or the LAX? - At what time?
- Yes, we're on the first floor... - We're stuck.
...and we're trying to get to the fourth floor
and it's stuck or something, but the doors are locked
and nothing's happening.
Um, not sure which elevator. It's the one on the left
when you're looking at it from the outside.
- Now. Open it now. - Opening.
Oh. Oh, my gosh.
You did it.
Oh, [bleep].
Oh. Oh, [bleep].
Hold on, baby. I got it. I got it.
Uh-uh.
Got out of that elevator.
Yeah, we're out.
Oh, my God. It's been a long day.
I just wanna go home.
I'm not even going home. I'm going to, like, new home.
But I guess, home.
Oh, it is going up.
See? Rob broke it. I just clicked one button.
Rob was like this.
Now it's like, chill.
Um, is he here?
Where are you?
I'm on floor four. I used the elevator properly
like a normal person and it worked.
Wha...
Why are you angry with me?
Why are you angry at me?
I'm just wondering. You don't think you broke it?
All right, chill. I'll go with you.
I'm not [bleep] the whole day.
I just proposed. I just did a dance in front of everyone.
I just waited and paced around for her to get here.
I'm so excited and it took all of 15 minutes
for her to be pissed off at me about something that I cannot control.
In my defense, you did control it
'cause you did break it, but yeah.
And that's a ridiculous response.
That's just the stupidest response.
My reason is I'm very, you know,
I'm extremely tired. It's four in the morning--
So you're not helping.
You're not helping the moment.
You're ruining the moment.
He knows that when I block him,
he did so wrong.
If I haven't blocked him, we're still, you know,
I'm mad, but not that mad.
But it was a good thing that it was a long flight
because I had a lot of time to think about
my relationship with Gino and I, kind of,
previewed in my mind all our happy moments
and the love that we have for each other.
It made me calm down.
And I'm still a little bit mad,
but not as much as I was before taking the flight.
The longer I'm pacing back and forth with
waiting for Jasmine and she still hasn't walked through the door yet,
and I'm waiting for her, and I'm waiting for her.
I'm thinking in my head, you know, is she coming?
Why isn't she here yet?
We've been waiting forever for this day
and this is not the way it's supposed to be.
- Baby! - Mi amor!
- Oh, my God! - Baby!
- Oh! - Oh, my God!
I missed you so much.
I can't believe you're here.
I can't believe you're here!
Okay.
Oh, my God. Welcome to Michigan.
Oh, my God, it's okay.
Coco. Oh, my God.
- Coco, where are you going? - Coco.
Oh, my God.
- Coco, are you okay? - Daddy is here.
I'm so excited to see Jasmine in Michigan.
It's an awesome feeling.
It's a dream come true.
Finally, after three years.
Look at you.
Coco, you remember me?
It's finally happening, baby. Can't believe it.
No more goodbye.
Let me see ya.
The tongue, the tongue.
Stick it out. Mm.
Mm.
I can suck Gino's tongue every night
for the rest of my life.
And on other things, but I'm not gonna say it.
Oh, you got a new haircut.
Yes.
Did you change your hair?
- You noticed. - You got a haircut.
- I love it. - Ah!
- Oh, my God. - Coco is desperate, baby.
You look wonderful like that.
You like it like this, right?
Yeah, it's very natural.
Baby. Baby, listen.
I have never loved anyone the way I love you.
This is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life.
Just moving and leaving everything behind.
I have never done it and I never pictured
myself doing it for anyone.
But you changed that
- because you're my soul mate. - You're so beautiful.
You're my soul mate.
And I cannot live without you.
Even though sometimes I wanna strangle him a little bit.
Okay, let's make a promise right now.
We're starting fresh and new. Let's forget about yesterday.
Yesterday is in the past.
Pinky promise no more fights, ever.
All right.
- Okay? - I'm game for that.
- Promise? - Yeah, I promise.
- No more fights. - No more crazy fights.
I'm so happy that you're here, Jasmine.
I'm gonna annoy you. I mean, love you
for the rest of your life.
I love to hear that.
- Mm. - Mm.
We have 90 days now.
As of today, 90 days to get married.
And I think it's gonna be so exciting and fun.
You know, my family's there and, you know, it's just gonna be awesome.
I'm dying to see our house.
More than stay in our house, I wanna smell it.
Smell it?
I wanna smell it.
What kind of smell are you hoping for?
Like flowers, like cleanliness.
I can spray a little Lysol to it.
You should've done it before.
You knew that I was coming.
There's no turning back.
I feel nervous because
she's trans and the people in our country
are narrow minded.
I'm from Chisinau, Moldova.
My friends and family call me Igor.
But my fiance from United States call me Justin.
Nikki says she calls me Justin because when I was younger,
I'm looking like Justin Timberlake.
It's her version.
I work as a personal trainer.
I work out like, five or six times a week.
Fitness is important.
In my life, for me...
To clear my mind and take away all the stress.
I'm ready for everything.
Tomorrow, is coming, my fiance, Nikki, from United States.
And I feel nervous because she's trans
and the people in our country,
they're watching, like, narrow minded.
And for me, it means a lot of attention from people.
And the first thing, I'm worried about her safety.
I'm meeting with my friend Sergei.
My friendship with Sergei is
stronger because he accepted this.
And now, he's understanding me much better.
Nikki had a lot of surgeries from
the last time I saw her in Moldova.
And that makes me feel more calm.
Here's our home!
Everything looks so old and dusty.
Let's have a look at the bathroom. I want you to see...
Well, don't look at that.
Unbelievable.
Baby, is this air conditioner
or... or the weather?
This is air conditioner. We're in the building still.
- Okay. - But it is not gonna be warm like Panama.
- Ooh. - All right.
- It's cold in here. - Let's see where we are. Yeah. Yeah.
- Huh? - Is this air conditioner still?
No, this is...
- Michigan cold weather, baby. - You're [bleep].
Is that our car?
This is my car. Our car now.
Baby, you have smoke coming out of your mouth.
What the [bleep]?
This is Michigan.
I [bleep] hate it.
I was not born
to be in this kind of weather.
I-- I'm scared of stepping out and-- and dying,
immediately, instantly from hypothermia.
I-- I mean, how can people live in a place like this?
Oh, it feels warmer.
I feel it in my ass. Thank you. My ass was frozen.
Aren't you happy to be together?
Yeah, baby. But focus on driving.
- Yeah. - I am.
I always dream about this day.
And I should be happy but this place...
It's, like, so gloomy,
so dark.
Here's our home!
I think that God didn't want people to live here.
But people insisted on living in Michigan.
Come on, Coco.
Come on in.
My ass is freezing.
Why are we entering through the laundry?
I'm gonna let Coco see his home.
This is the laundry room.
- Okay? - Yeah.
Where we do the laundry.
Got the laundry tub and the laundry... etcetera.
Oh, this is the decorations you made for the interview.
Whoa, yeah! Look at the decoration. What do you think?
Does it look like Panama?
- Um... - Huh?
Baby, you cannot place the Panama flag like that.
It's not in the right position.
It's upside down.
What?
Help me fix it.
What do you mean not in the right position?
It's a sign of disrespect in our country to put the flag upside down.
Disrespect?
- Oh, yeah, I didn't mean any disrespect. - Yes.
The first thing that I notice, as soon as I enter the house,
is the ugly colors of the walls.
That was the first impression
and after that, it doesn't smell like...
something is rotten in here but it smells like,
kind of garbage, like, dusty.
This is the kitchen. Come on in.
And what is this trash can?
No, that's for recycling bin.
That's where I put all my frozen food dinners.
This good stuff. Good food.
Oh, there's nothing much up there.
Um...
- Yeah. - Oh, my gosh!
You think it needs some reorganizing?
- No, it's just, like, why so many cans? - I mean...
- Yeah. You think it needs some reorganizing but... - Just noodles
and more noodles and...
This is literally trash. Why-- Why do you save the plastic bags?
Oh, I save those for travelling and stuff.
If the health minister comes to this house,
and see that kitchen,
we are gonna all be in quarantine, something like that.
Because I do believe that there are living organisms
that haven't even been discovered yet in the world.
Chocolate milk.
- That's why you have farting problems... - I love that stuff!
...and this is how your farts smell.
I don't know how you have made it to 54 so far.
You're very lucky. You should be dead.
- This is my favorite. This-- - No, you have to say goodbye to this. Um...
You're not eating from a box.
- That's-- - This should be full of veggies.
- Broccoli... - That's-- That's, like, just a backup plan
if-- if we don't cook.
Okay. So, if it is a backup, what is the main,
- like, plan A? - Yeah--
I didn't have high expectations about this house.
But it is worse than I thought.
I'm not used to live like this.
And if he doesn't start making changes,
I will never gonna feel, like, at home
and I don't know if I'm gonna be able to stay here.
Oh, my God.
Is it safe to be arriving at your house this late?
- I mean-- - I mean, I think I've only heard a gunshot...
once or twice in the three years that I've lived in that-- on that street.
- And-- - Still too many.
And there's only-- And there's one bullet hole in the window.
So, a lot of shootings happen in that area.
It does.
I've looked it up.
You watch too much TV.
I looked it up.
Oh, they've blocked off the whole area.
Bam, bam, bam.
I want a new bed, like this structure,
the bed, the mattress, the blankets, the pillow, everything.
I haven't told Jasmine yet but I quit my job.
I can't afford all these changes right now.
Your future wife left everything behind
just to be with you,
is not sleeping comfortable because of the bed,
and you're okay with that?
Well, that tells me a lot about you.
Call it home, baby.
- You wanted to be in LA, right? - Yeah.
- It's my home now. - Now you're here.
Oh, my God. LA based.
Is it safe to be arriving at your house this late?
- Is it safe? - Yeah.
- For who? - For us.
I mean, I've done it every day for, like, three years.
Like, it's not that bad.
Like, there's some nonsense that happens but...
You know, a gun shot every now and again,
- but not that-- - Oh, 'cause that's so normal.
Not that-- It's not very-- Not very often.
Well, we don't have guns in England.
- ... - That's not a normal thing
to just hear gunshots, oh, occasionally there.
I mean, I think I've only heard a gunshot
once or twice in the three years I've lived in that-- on that street.
- And... - Still too many.
And there's only-- And there's one bullet hole in the window.
I wonder what happened over here.
Oh, my God.
What is going on over here?
Look like a standoff or something.
We get into Rob's neighborhood,
I have been here before but I don't feel, like, safe.
Obviously there's bad places in England.
I'm not saying whole of England is great.
I'm just saying where I lived in London, um,
the streets are, like, cleaned up after,
like, homeless people have places to go so they're not just on the street.
It's, like, completely different to where I was living.
She don't know anything about what the hood is.
She-- She's seen too many movies and
- she doesn't know what the hood is. - He's a-- He--
He watches hood movies with me all the time, right?
- They're movies! - I-- I know but they're all based, literally, in Inglewood
- and they're all people dying... - From the early 90s.
...and getting shot, and he's like, "Oh, I live just around the corner from there."
And it's like, stop showing me that then.
Oh, they've blocked off the whole area.
Bam, bam, bam, it's three, four...
Three or four cop cars.
But that's not our street. See, we're still like...
- That's one minute away from your house. - We're still like--
We're still like a mile away from the house.
- We're almost a mile away. - Two minutes away.
We're point-- We're 0.9 miles away from the house.
I don't know miles. We're two minutes away. In England we do kilometers.
A lot of shootings happen in that area. It does.
I've lived in way worse neighborhoods.
This is not that bad. It's really not.
Well, for someone from England
where we don't have any gun crime or anything that scary--
- Y'all don't have any guns. - Yeah, exactly.
We don't have guns so I'm not used to that.
Home sweet home, baby. Home sweet home.
Man, that bag is heavy as little as it is.
Ohhh!
So, yeah, uh...
That's very nice.
How cute.
Oh, my God.
- See, it looks better than it did before. - Yeah.
Oh, my gosh.
You notice anything different about this spot?
- Anything at all? - Uh... um...
You know, I gave you a little desk area,
you even got a little TV on there so we can game together and stuff like that.
- And then, uh... - Yeah.
Got you your own dresser in the corner.
Tried to make it a little bit, um, more of a...
viable with me and you can be more comfortable.
Um, I thought you painted the walls though.
I did paint them, as in they don't have smudges and stuff all over them anymore.
Well, yeah. It does look better to be honest than last time.
I know it's not like...
- The best. - ...luxurious.
But it's still-- I think it's, you know, definitely comfy.
Yeah.
My apartment in London is very different from Rob's place in Inglewood.
It's like, I live in an apartment.
It has, like, a little rooftop area which is super cute
and you can, like, see a lot of London.
Um, it's, like very bright and airy.
Mine is very clean.
Rome! Hello.
He's like, is this really you?
He's like, is it you?
Hello! Rome, it's me.
I don't want this to be where I live.
I kind of, I'm just hoping that, like,
this is where we're at right now
and then we'll move to somewhere, you know, nicer
and that I could feel like this is my home
and I can, you know, take pride in doing it up,
and I'm safe and all that stuff 'cause right now it just feels like...
I'm thinking of it as like just,
I'm there temporarily while we figure something out.
Where am I gonna put my stuff?
That blue dresser's yours.
Okay.
Yeah. There's not so many-- Definitely looks like a guy's home.
It is.
- It's been a guy's home. Like, I mean, the-- - Doesn't look like
that a woman lives here.
The framework is a dude's home.
Can we get pillows, cushions?
- That would look pretty. - You and pink. Why you keep trying to put pink--
- I don't know. - Why you keep trying to get pink into my life?
What happened to, like-- Don't you have...
like, tables and chairs that we can sit?
I used to have a couch in here.
And it was like, the whole room was so packed.
Like, why even add stuff to it if we don't-- if we're not--
Okay, no, it's fine. I mean, we'll find something soon.
So, for today it's all right.
Keep saying "for today."
It's gonna be here tomorrow too, trust me.
I know it's not the perfect spot.
And I wish I could give her more.
I wish I was-- I had that already right now.
But I don't. So...
I'm gonna move forward and just stay positive
and let that, kind of that negativity and judgement,
um, kinda like, you know, off the shoulders.
I'm not gonna let that get to me.
What is it?
- Oh. - Um, just like a little bit of Mexican food
to take us back to Mexico.
Yeah.
You're just talking
and I'm just looking at your face. Sorry.
- You made it. Was it worth it? - Mmm-hmm.
Yeah.
You got the ring on the right finger?
This one.
- Yeah, got it. - You the one stuck out the wrong hand.
I don't know anything--
When I told you I don't know anything about weddings, I know nothing.
I don't know what finger it's supposed to go on...
- Me neither. I-- I'm-- - ...I don't know any of the rules.
I can't even lie. I don't know either.
We're getting married so we should probably look into...
- What married people should know? - What--
- Yeah. - Yeah, probably.
Tomorrow, it's like I'm gonna have my bearings.
Right now, I'm running on, like, two hours sleep,
so, it's like, feels like I'm just, like, in some random dream.
But, um, yeah. Tomorrow, it's like I can wake up
the first day, like, next to him in LA, like...
It's gonna really hit that this is my new life.
But I'm sure I'll still feel like it's great, I'm happy.
Oh, let's hope. Let's hope in the morning she still feels all that.
You want a churro?
I'll try a bit, you know.
Yeah, you eat that churro.
Um...
Let's go upstairs. Coco, upstairs.
Is that pee?
- No, that was here before we entered. - No, that's--
- That's pee. - No. I promise.
Yeah, I'm telling you.
- Okay. - Touch it.
Or put your finger in it.
Go ahead.
Dog.
I'm so sorry.
- I'm gonna clean it. I'm gonna clean it. I promise. - Oh!
Come, Coco.
Look at him.
- There you go. Now he's faster than me. - Yeah!
- Look at you. - Go ahead. Yeah!
Come on, this is our bedroom!
Not bad, right?
Look at that view out the windows.
Dead now but they'll be alive and kicking come summer.
Let's have a look at the bathroom. I want you to see...
Well, don't look at that.
What do you think?
Unbelievable.
Gino, you knew that I was coming.
You're saying there was poo?
- Yes. - No.
Poo in the toilet?
Like, what's wrong with Gino?
The log, because it was very, very big,
it was like, just like...
there, floating.
This is very promising. I like it.
I have so much of space here and-- and, you know,
I have so much light from the environment,
like, we could change in this for something better,
a very good, you know, toilet.
This is completely, you know, out of style.
- Yeah, that's older. I'll agree to that. - Yeah, or like--
- I'm thinking, like, you know... - You--
...about renovating everything.
Even this tiles, what is this material?
I have no idea.
I think it's great ideas and stuff but don't forget we need to
budget our money.
So, this is the bed?
Yeah, you wanna try it?
How long have you had this bed?
It's not that old actually.
How old is this bed?
Uh, I would say...
I got this bed after...
my divorce.
- Actually. Yeah. - After.
Were you sleeping with-- with her on this bed?
No.
What are all these things?
I don't know but, like--
Oh! I put, like, lotion on, all over all the time.
The lotion I use. And I always sit on the bed and do it and it gets all over.
Am I gonna get pregnant with that?
Just tell me and I don't sit there without...
- These sheets-- - ...underwear.
These sheets here probably need to be washed soon.
I would say that.
- They're satin sheets though. - Listen.
I want a new bed, like this structure, the bed,
the mattress, the blankets, the pillow, everything.
This--
Yeah. Super comfortable for me.
What I'm saying is we have to have money for all these things you wanna buy.
We have to, like, prioritize what's most important.
All I know is that I won't feel comfortable sleeping on this bed.
So, if you're okay with that, knowing that
your future wife that just travelled 2,300 miles,
and left everything behind in her country, you know, just to be with you,
is not sleeping comfortable because of the bed,
and you're okay with that? Well, that tells me a lot about you.
It's kinda stressing me out, you know,
listening to all the changes that Jasmine wants to do
because I haven't told Jasmine yet
but I quit my job
so I don't have my income from my job anymore.
So, I can't afford all these changes right now, today or...
within the next 90 days or the next... year.
That's...
That's a big concern for me.
This witch thing is gonna be hard to-- to navigate through.
I'm a mother witch, hoe.
Like, how are you not getting that?
Thank you.
We had a crazy-ass first day.
And Manuel tried about three or four times to say,
"Okay, Rico, floor,"
and Rico jumped back up because that's what Rico knows.
So, I'm hoping, over time, Manuel will realize
that's a battle that he's not gonna win.
My dog does what he wants.
He's a god.
No.
Okay.
I'm still happy that this is happening.
I'm still happy he's in my apartment.
And I'm still happy that I'm not arguing with him over the phone.
At least he's in person.
But I want my partner
to love and respect
every single part of me.
Even maybe the parts that he doesn't understand.
I got a lot of work ahead of me.
Can I just, like, vent?
This witch thing is gonna be hard to navigate through.
Because he's not understanding.
He's looking at these old-school
witch from, like, Snow White definitions.
I'm a mother witch, 'ho.
Like, how are you not getting that?
I'm not okay being judged that way by my partner.
My partner shouldn't judge me, period.
And I would be going against everything that I believe in
by marrying somebody who doesn't understand
or respect what I do.
He's gonna get there if he truly loves me
and is in this relationship for the right reasons.
Um...
We have some work to do.
Next time on 90 Day Fiancé...
Whoa!
Look at you! My nurse.
It's our first night together after... months.
You have no idea how horny I am.
I'm a little hesitant because of how he left his family.
Without saying goodbye.
He said, "It's fine. I do what I do."
He doesn't want to argue about this, but fine.
I do a lot smiling and nodding with Manuel.
My mom is gonna be doing a lot of,
"What are you saying? No, sir."
I know he says he's in for the long haul,
but can we, can I trust that?
Aw, I missed you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Fifteen years ago, when our first K-1 visa was approved,
I don't feel like our love
was ready at that time.
You're not shelving me in the dark.
Okay, we will see.
That's bull
'cause I haven't ever cheated on you.
I made a bad choice. I apologize.
We only have, you know, 90 days,
to decide if we're gonna be together. This is, like, it.
When are you gonna let it go?
Baby, you spent $10,000 on butt implants?
She lied to me about it.
Do you remember that you were giving me money
for the wedding dress?
Yeah, I gave you money for a wedding dress.
I took that money.
This is exactly the kind of that I'm worried about.