1
00:00:01,635 --> 00:00:02,670
Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
2
00:00:06,374 --> 00:00:10,311
Being intimate
is a very big part
3
00:00:10,311 --> 00:00:12,180
of making
our relationship work,
4
00:00:12,180 --> 00:00:14,448
and he doesn't even try.
5
00:00:14,448 --> 00:00:16,450
I haven't seen you
in nine months.
6
00:00:16,450 --> 00:00:18,018
Like you act like
you have another woman.
7
00:00:18,018 --> 00:00:20,188
- Hey, let's... Wait. Let's--
- No. You act like
you have another woman though.
8
00:00:23,991 --> 00:00:26,594
If something doesn't change
in 48 hours,
9
00:00:26,594 --> 00:00:27,995
I'm literally leaving.
10
00:00:41,742 --> 00:00:45,379
The main reason we came
to Korea was for me to meet
11
00:00:45,379 --> 00:00:48,216
Nick's parents
for the first time.
12
00:00:48,216 --> 00:00:49,617
Let's get out of here.
13
00:00:49,617 --> 00:00:51,885
If Devin blows this up,
14
00:00:51,885 --> 00:00:55,789
my family won't let me go
to US to be with her
15
00:00:55,789 --> 00:00:59,160
and it's gonna destroy
my whole life.
16
00:01:09,803 --> 00:01:12,306
I wanna be honest
but I'm not stupid.
17
00:01:12,306 --> 00:01:15,143
I will eventually tell Gino,
18
00:01:15,143 --> 00:01:16,677
but not now.
19
00:01:20,148 --> 00:01:21,882
Like, to be honest,
I don't think
20
00:01:21,882 --> 00:01:24,252
I actually
want to be pregnant.
21
00:01:25,486 --> 00:01:29,223
Sophie just rocked
my entire belief in her
22
00:01:29,223 --> 00:01:30,391
and what we can have.
23
00:01:30,391 --> 00:01:32,726
I don't know what the
I'mma do with my life
24
00:01:32,726 --> 00:01:34,495
if I don't ever have kids.
25
00:01:52,813 --> 00:01:54,548
You want
some coffee, babe?
26
00:01:56,184 --> 00:01:57,885
Babe?
27
00:02:15,369 --> 00:02:16,904
Here you go.
28
00:02:22,075 --> 00:02:24,044
How you feeling today?
29
00:02:24,044 --> 00:02:27,915
I feel, I guess, a bit better
now that I've slept.
30
00:02:27,915 --> 00:02:29,850
What about you?
31
00:02:29,850 --> 00:02:31,685
I mean, I've been thinking
all night,
32
00:02:31,685 --> 00:02:35,956
and I just feel like we do
actually really need
33
00:02:35,956 --> 00:02:39,327
to kind of figure out
what's what.
34
00:02:41,562 --> 00:02:43,597
I did not get much sleep.
35
00:02:43,597 --> 00:02:47,235
To be hit with the unsurety
that we might not work out,
36
00:02:47,235 --> 00:02:48,736
it is earth-shattering.
37
00:02:49,637 --> 00:02:51,639
Do you wanna go outside?
38
00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:52,873
Yeah, we can.
39
00:02:52,873 --> 00:02:53,941
All right.
Let's go out there.
40
00:02:54,942 --> 00:02:56,244
There's no version
of my future
41
00:02:56,244 --> 00:02:57,911
where I don't have a family,
42
00:02:57,911 --> 00:03:00,047
and so Sophie
should be with someone
43
00:03:00,047 --> 00:03:02,250
who doesn't wanna have children.
44
00:03:02,250 --> 00:03:03,884
If that's what she wants,
45
00:03:03,884 --> 00:03:06,086
she should find someone
who wants the same thing.
46
00:03:19,066 --> 00:03:22,670
So a big thing...
47
00:03:22,670 --> 00:03:25,939
A big reality for me
is that this isn't up to me.
48
00:03:27,074 --> 00:03:28,876
So it really does come down
to what I...
49
00:03:28,876 --> 00:03:31,845
what exactly are you thinking?
50
00:03:33,281 --> 00:03:35,549
It's just... For me,
it's a big deal, you know?
51
00:03:35,549 --> 00:03:37,518
I've always seen myself
being a parent.
52
00:03:37,518 --> 00:03:39,353
Mmm-hmm.
53
00:03:39,353 --> 00:03:41,289
Would you wanna be a parent?
54
00:03:42,890 --> 00:03:45,293
It's not
that I don't want kids.
55
00:03:46,727 --> 00:03:49,096
I just wanna make sure
I have my life together first.
56
00:03:49,096 --> 00:03:50,531
I don't want kids, you know,
57
00:03:50,531 --> 00:03:51,932
while I'm still trying
to figure stuff out.
58
00:03:51,932 --> 00:03:54,201
I mean, I just got to America,
so I have a whole life
59
00:03:54,302 --> 00:03:56,370
to kind of sort out right now.
60
00:03:56,370 --> 00:03:58,839
So like taking care
of someone else
61
00:03:58,839 --> 00:04:00,808
is like the last thing
on my mind.
62
00:04:00,808 --> 00:04:03,444
I need to make sure, you know,
I start my life here.
63
00:04:03,444 --> 00:04:05,513
- I mean, like--
- I just don't know
64
00:04:05,513 --> 00:04:08,148
what I would do
with my future if there...
65
00:04:08,148 --> 00:04:10,684
if I never have a family.
66
00:04:10,684 --> 00:04:12,653
Like I don't know what I...
What would we...
67
00:04:12,653 --> 00:04:13,854
It'd just be me
and you in the mountains?
68
00:04:13,854 --> 00:04:15,456
But, again, I never said that.
69
00:04:15,456 --> 00:04:18,091
You didn't ask me anything.
You walked away.
70
00:04:18,091 --> 00:04:19,760
The problem is pregnancy.
71
00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,029
It's not I'm against family.
It's pregnancy.
72
00:04:22,029 --> 00:04:23,431
And you have not asked me...
73
00:04:23,431 --> 00:04:25,098
You still haven't even asked
me one question about that.
74
00:04:25,098 --> 00:04:28,168
Well, I'm trying to figure out
what you're trying to say.
75
00:04:28,168 --> 00:04:29,970
If someone you love
have health problems,
76
00:04:29,970 --> 00:04:31,505
you'd ask them, "Is it okay?
77
00:04:31,505 --> 00:04:33,841
What's wrong? What happened?"
78
00:04:33,841 --> 00:04:35,343
You won't just be like,
"Okay. Whatever.
79
00:04:35,343 --> 00:04:36,610
I don't really care
about that.
80
00:04:36,610 --> 00:04:39,012
Let's get to what I want,
which is kids."
81
00:04:39,012 --> 00:04:40,948
Just tell me
what you're afraid of
82
00:04:40,948 --> 00:04:43,050
about being pregnant.
83
00:04:43,050 --> 00:04:45,353
Obviously, for me,
it's like...
84
00:04:45,353 --> 00:04:46,887
I told you obviously
when I was 15,
85
00:04:46,887 --> 00:04:49,823
I had the cyst,
and that was on my ovary.
86
00:04:49,823 --> 00:04:51,625
So I had surgery to remove it.
87
00:04:51,625 --> 00:04:53,160
I kind of just accepted
the fact
88
00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:54,962
that like
I don't wanna be pregnant
89
00:04:54,962 --> 00:04:56,730
after that health scare,
'cause like I could have died
90
00:04:56,730 --> 00:04:58,366
if they didn't remove that,
you know?
91
00:04:58,366 --> 00:04:59,367
And it was like...
92
00:04:59,367 --> 00:05:01,435
Or if I would have not
had it taken out,
93
00:05:01,435 --> 00:05:03,036
then I wouldn't have
been able to have kids.
94
00:05:03,036 --> 00:05:04,104
So it's kind of...
95
00:05:04,104 --> 00:05:05,706
That scare was enough
for me to be like,
96
00:05:05,706 --> 00:05:07,708
"Okay, like
I can't carry a child,
97
00:05:07,708 --> 00:05:10,143
so I guess
I'm not gonna be a mom."
98
00:05:11,612 --> 00:05:14,382
It's not something
that's been an easy journey
99
00:05:14,382 --> 00:05:15,649
for me and it kind of still...
100
00:05:15,649 --> 00:05:17,284
Even now,
it causes me problems.
101
00:05:17,385 --> 00:05:18,386
So it's like...
102
00:05:18,386 --> 00:05:20,287
I think with pregnancy,
I just...
103
00:05:20,388 --> 00:05:23,457
I just know that I wouldn't
be okay if I had that.
104
00:05:23,457 --> 00:05:25,225
That's the reason
I don't wanna get pregnant,
105
00:05:25,225 --> 00:05:27,060
not just because,
"Oh, I just don't care
106
00:05:27,060 --> 00:05:27,995
to be a mom."
107
00:05:30,263 --> 00:05:31,264
On a certain level,
it's like
108
00:05:31,264 --> 00:05:33,401
I don't wanna walk you
all the way into a life
109
00:05:33,401 --> 00:05:35,068
that you don't really...
110
00:05:35,068 --> 00:05:37,605
you never saw for yourself
and then, you know,
111
00:05:37,605 --> 00:05:40,307
you end up not enjoying
112
00:05:40,408 --> 00:05:42,410
or wanting or resenting me
for it.
113
00:05:42,410 --> 00:05:44,678
And I don't...
You know, I don't want it
114
00:05:44,678 --> 00:05:48,015
to all just feel like it's
all me making you do things
115
00:05:48,015 --> 00:05:48,982
you don't wanna do.
116
00:05:48,982 --> 00:05:51,485
It's like I also care
about what you want.
117
00:05:51,485 --> 00:05:52,686
It's not necessarily kids.
118
00:05:52,686 --> 00:05:54,254
It's like...
You know, I like kids.
119
00:05:54,254 --> 00:05:56,123
That's not...
That's not the problem.
120
00:05:56,123 --> 00:05:59,192
The concern is the actual
like pregnancy.
121
00:05:59,192 --> 00:06:03,330
I'm willing to obviously work
with you on a solution for it,
122
00:06:03,431 --> 00:06:05,999
but there's two options,
123
00:06:05,999 --> 00:06:07,735
adoption or surrogacy.
124
00:06:07,735 --> 00:06:10,804
So would you consider
either of them or--
125
00:06:13,140 --> 00:06:17,845
I mean, I would like to raise
little mes,
126
00:06:17,845 --> 00:06:21,449
so surrogacy sounds like
the route
127
00:06:21,449 --> 00:06:23,451
that I'm more partial to.
128
00:06:26,454 --> 00:06:29,590
I think the surrogacy thing,
like I'd be okay with it.
129
00:06:30,891 --> 00:06:34,462
I just need you
to really search your soul
130
00:06:34,462 --> 00:06:37,465
to understand what you really,
really, really want.
131
00:06:37,465 --> 00:06:38,466
- Regardless...
- I wanna be with you.
132
00:06:38,466 --> 00:06:40,968
...of what I want.
Regardless of what I want.
133
00:06:40,968 --> 00:06:42,470
I wanna be with you.
134
00:06:44,638 --> 00:06:47,608
Now that we've talked
about it, it sounds like,
135
00:06:47,608 --> 00:06:49,877
at the end of the day,
she would wanna be a mom.
136
00:06:49,877 --> 00:06:51,612
She just doesn't
wanna have children,
137
00:06:51,612 --> 00:06:53,481
which I understand that.
138
00:06:53,481 --> 00:06:56,216
So if we could explore
the other options,
139
00:06:56,216 --> 00:06:59,119
then I feel like me
and Sophie could move forward
140
00:06:59,119 --> 00:07:00,788
with having a family.
141
00:07:00,788 --> 00:07:02,490
So I think we...
142
00:07:02,490 --> 00:07:06,159
I think we'll be okay as long
as that's really what she's...
143
00:07:06,159 --> 00:07:08,061
really what she wants.
144
00:07:21,509 --> 00:07:25,045
You have 48 hours
to change my mind
145
00:07:25,045 --> 00:07:27,047
or I'm literally leaving.
146
00:07:35,789 --> 00:07:37,525
That's the last time
you're ever gonna see me.
147
00:07:38,358 --> 00:07:40,528
I'm so done with your...
148
00:07:40,528 --> 00:07:41,695
Like making everything a joke
and stuff like that. I'm--
149
00:07:44,264 --> 00:07:46,033
Yes. I'm very serious.
150
00:07:49,570 --> 00:07:50,704
Let's go.
151
00:08:01,649 --> 00:08:05,753
And sometimes
she's pushing too much.
152
00:08:05,753 --> 00:08:07,555
Like, "I want sex.
153
00:08:07,555 --> 00:08:10,290
I want sex." Like sex machine.
154
00:08:10,290 --> 00:08:13,460
And my body still
155
00:08:13,561 --> 00:08:16,129
trying to opening for Nikki.
156
00:08:16,129 --> 00:08:19,132
It's... And I needed time
for that.
157
00:08:19,132 --> 00:08:20,568
It's not easy.
158
00:08:23,470 --> 00:08:26,774
We never had these problems
years ago.
159
00:08:26,774 --> 00:08:29,577
We used to have
like a great sex life.
160
00:08:29,577 --> 00:08:31,278
We used to do
fun things together.
161
00:08:31,278 --> 00:08:33,681
We used to do
a lot of stuff together.
162
00:08:33,681 --> 00:08:35,382
And ever since
I've been back with you,
163
00:08:35,382 --> 00:08:38,185
- it's like totally different.
- Just... Please.
164
00:08:38,185 --> 00:08:40,053
I want--
165
00:08:47,728 --> 00:08:49,597
You're supposed
to be my future husband
166
00:08:49,597 --> 00:08:51,599
and you're not putting in
the rest of the effort.
167
00:08:51,599 --> 00:08:53,834
- Baby.
- You like wonder
why I'm so crazy
168
00:08:53,834 --> 00:08:54,902
and why I'm such a bitch...
169
00:08:58,238 --> 00:09:00,774
You need to do more
than roses and this.
170
00:09:00,774 --> 00:09:01,809
I need more.
171
00:09:01,809 --> 00:09:03,711
It's gotta be a whole
lot more.
172
00:09:03,711 --> 00:09:05,613
What more?
I don't understand.
173
00:09:05,613 --> 00:09:07,080
What point...
I don't understand.
What is so--
174
00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:08,782
Well, what do you feel
special? What is it...
What is special about me?
175
00:09:08,782 --> 00:09:11,051
That I support
you financially?
176
00:09:11,051 --> 00:09:12,620
What is it?
177
00:09:34,975 --> 00:09:37,645
Baby, you sent...
178
00:09:38,946 --> 00:09:41,649
- so little money...
- Oh, wow. Really?
179
00:09:41,649 --> 00:09:43,784
Really? Really? Really?
180
00:09:43,784 --> 00:09:46,486
- Try to survive on that money.
- Okay.
181
00:09:46,486 --> 00:09:48,255
- Wow.
- I have money
for my life, okay?
182
00:09:48,255 --> 00:09:49,923
Honey, I have all...
Let me... Listen.
183
00:09:49,923 --> 00:09:51,458
Sometimes, I need some things.
184
00:09:51,458 --> 00:09:52,793
- Honey, I know you do.
- Little things.
185
00:09:52,793 --> 00:09:54,828
- I know you do.
- And you help me
with little things.
186
00:09:54,828 --> 00:09:56,797
Really?
187
00:09:56,797 --> 00:09:59,933
I sent so little money?
Really? Really?
188
00:09:59,933 --> 00:10:01,434
- Yes.
- Really?
189
00:10:01,434 --> 00:10:03,436
- Yes.
- Are you serious?
190
00:10:03,436 --> 00:10:07,374
Your nose alone was $7,000.
Come on. Like don't say you...
191
00:10:07,374 --> 00:10:10,477
That I helped you very little.
That's messed up, for real.
192
00:10:12,545 --> 00:10:14,481
That's aside
from the Western Unions.
193
00:10:14,481 --> 00:10:15,883
And I'm not gonna get into it
'cause you already know
194
00:10:15,883 --> 00:10:17,117
the numbers.
195
00:10:17,117 --> 00:10:19,152
I don't know why you're saying
I helped you very little.
196
00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,856
He knows damn well
what I've done for him.
197
00:10:22,856 --> 00:10:24,624
And I hate
that he downplays it and says,
198
00:10:24,624 --> 00:10:26,626
"You have sent me such
little money," and like...
199
00:10:26,626 --> 00:10:29,997
Things like that.
Those comments...
200
00:10:29,997 --> 00:10:32,299
I don't have to say exactly
what I've done,
201
00:10:32,299 --> 00:10:34,735
but if I posted
all the receipts,
202
00:10:34,735 --> 00:10:37,304
people would be like wow.
203
00:10:37,304 --> 00:10:39,339
And I don't want
to be that person,
204
00:10:39,339 --> 00:10:41,208
'cause I did it
because I love him.
205
00:10:41,208 --> 00:10:43,376
But when he says
those little things,
206
00:10:43,376 --> 00:10:44,745
that starts
to hurt my feelings.
207
00:10:45,578 --> 00:10:47,647
You feeling mad on me?
208
00:10:47,647 --> 00:10:50,918
I give you back all the money
when I start work.
209
00:10:50,918 --> 00:10:53,320
Paying me back,
that is like...
210
00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:54,922
That's not even the issue.
211
00:10:54,922 --> 00:10:56,323
Why are you talking
about the money? Okay.
212
00:10:56,323 --> 00:10:57,925
- Why you talk--
- That's not even the issue.
213
00:10:57,925 --> 00:10:59,092
You're not get...
You're still not getting it.
214
00:10:59,092 --> 00:11:00,327
I give you first month
and second month, okay?
215
00:11:00,327 --> 00:11:01,895
- You cannot work...
- Extra.
216
00:11:01,895 --> 00:11:03,764
...for a while, okay?
217
00:11:03,764 --> 00:11:05,498
I don't know if you understand
how the K-1 visa works.
218
00:11:05,498 --> 00:11:07,267
So you're just not gonna be
able to make money
219
00:11:07,267 --> 00:11:08,501
- for a while.
- I don't think about that.
220
00:11:08,501 --> 00:11:10,437
So I have to take...
I have to take...
221
00:11:10,437 --> 00:11:11,839
You know how this works.
222
00:11:11,839 --> 00:11:13,573
So stop. Don't do that.
223
00:11:13,573 --> 00:11:16,977
Say, "Baby, you help me
so much," okay?
224
00:11:16,977 --> 00:11:18,311
That's disrespectful to me.
225
00:11:18,311 --> 00:11:21,448
That's... Okay.
That's what you want to hear?
226
00:11:21,448 --> 00:11:24,151
Because that's the truth!
227
00:11:27,755 --> 00:11:29,857
You don't
put me first ever, okay?
228
00:11:29,857 --> 00:11:31,191
- Yeah. Yeah.
- I always put you first.
229
00:11:31,191 --> 00:11:32,960
I always helped you
when you needed the help.
230
00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:35,128
- I always was there for you
when you need it, right?
- Yeah. Yeah.
231
00:11:35,128 --> 00:11:37,364
Who the
do you think you are?
232
00:11:38,398 --> 00:11:40,000
Bye, little child.
233
00:11:52,045 --> 00:11:53,981
Oh, little French pig.
234
00:11:53,981 --> 00:11:55,783
Charming little pig.
235
00:11:55,783 --> 00:11:57,384
I love my guinea pigs a lot,
236
00:11:57,384 --> 00:11:59,019
but they're not
my only roommates.
237
00:11:59,019 --> 00:12:00,888
I also have two Chihuahuas.
238
00:12:00,888 --> 00:12:04,091
My mom lives
in a walk-in closet.
239
00:12:04,091 --> 00:12:05,592
And it's only gonna get
more difficult
240
00:12:05,592 --> 00:12:08,595
because the love of my life
is gonna be moving in
with us.
241
00:12:14,802 --> 00:12:17,237
Today, I look
at myself in the mirror,
242
00:12:17,237 --> 00:12:18,571
I was super red.
243
00:12:18,571 --> 00:12:21,008
And I got scared,
like, "What is this?"
244
00:12:24,945 --> 00:12:26,579
You were living in a dirty...
245
00:12:26,579 --> 00:12:29,082
- Just--
- ...apartment with mice in it.
246
00:12:29,082 --> 00:12:32,820
What mice, you [bleep] idiot?
What mice?
247
00:12:47,700 --> 00:12:50,503
My little baby pig.
You're a good boy.
248
00:12:50,503 --> 00:12:52,405
Oh, you're so cute, Baby Pig.
249
00:12:54,007 --> 00:12:55,943
You're pretty.
250
00:12:57,310 --> 00:12:59,246
You're a pretty pig.
251
00:12:59,246 --> 00:13:01,314
A little fire truck.
252
00:13:01,314 --> 00:13:03,650
You're so cute.
253
00:13:06,286 --> 00:13:08,288
My name is Clayton.
I'm 30 years old.
254
00:13:08,288 --> 00:13:09,857
I'm a cyber-security analyst.
255
00:13:09,857 --> 00:13:11,624
And I live
in Lexington, Kentucky.
256
00:13:12,192 --> 00:13:14,761
Oh, little French pig.
257
00:13:14,862 --> 00:13:17,497
You're so mad.
Look at those teeth chatter.
258
00:13:17,497 --> 00:13:19,967
He doesn't wanna be
in the pretty pig contest.
259
00:13:19,967 --> 00:13:21,969
I have two guinea pigs,
260
00:13:21,969 --> 00:13:24,604
Baby Pig and Chocolate.
261
00:13:24,604 --> 00:13:26,506
And a pet like a guinea pig,
they have a noise,
262
00:13:26,506 --> 00:13:31,178
a specific noise for
every emotion that they have.
263
00:13:31,178 --> 00:13:33,280
You're okay, baby.
264
00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,949
Don't squeak at me.
You're okay.
265
00:13:35,949 --> 00:13:38,185
When they're hungry,
they'll make a noise.
266
00:13:38,185 --> 00:13:39,319
It's called wheeking.
267
00:13:39,319 --> 00:13:41,254
It's like wheek,
wheek, wheek, wheek.
268
00:13:42,422 --> 00:13:44,958
When they're trying
to dominate the other one,
269
00:13:44,958 --> 00:13:48,661
it's like a...
270
00:13:48,661 --> 00:13:50,330
They do it a lot better
than I do.
271
00:13:50,330 --> 00:13:53,733
You're a cute little boy.
You're my cute little buddy.
272
00:13:53,733 --> 00:13:55,202
I love my guinea pigs a lot,
273
00:13:55,202 --> 00:13:57,004
but they're not
my only roommates.
274
00:13:57,004 --> 00:13:59,306
You're gonna get lots of bones
and lots of treats.
275
00:13:59,306 --> 00:14:03,476
I also have two Chihuahuas,
Coco and Buster.
276
00:14:05,979 --> 00:14:09,049
Your breath stinks.
It's Coco's birthday.
277
00:14:09,049 --> 00:14:11,318
You don't growl
at Coco's birthday.
278
00:14:12,285 --> 00:14:15,989
I have one last roommate
and that is my mother.
279
00:14:15,989 --> 00:14:17,157
Where's mama?
You wanna see mama?
280
00:14:20,393 --> 00:14:21,428
Mamas.
281
00:14:21,428 --> 00:14:22,795
- Come on.
- You don't bark at mamas.
282
00:14:22,795 --> 00:14:24,831
Come here. Come on.
283
00:14:26,333 --> 00:14:27,968
My current living situation,
284
00:14:27,968 --> 00:14:30,003
I'm living in
a one-bedroom apartment.
285
00:14:30,003 --> 00:14:32,940
My mom lives
in like a walk-in closet,
286
00:14:32,940 --> 00:14:34,241
attached to the living room,
287
00:14:34,241 --> 00:14:36,409
so she can save up money
to get her own place.
288
00:14:36,409 --> 00:14:39,279
Good boys. They love mamas.
289
00:14:39,279 --> 00:14:41,181
We lived in this
apartment about three years.
290
00:14:41,181 --> 00:14:43,250
When we went to come
and look,
291
00:14:43,250 --> 00:14:44,751
I opened the door and I said,
292
00:14:44,751 --> 00:14:47,454
"Oh, this is my place
right here."
293
00:14:47,454 --> 00:14:49,656
The perfect
mom-sized bedroom.
294
00:14:49,656 --> 00:14:51,158
And he said,
"Are you serious?"
295
00:14:51,158 --> 00:14:53,961
I said, "Yup, this is me."
296
00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:57,297
Dogs always like
being in your room.
297
00:14:57,297 --> 00:14:58,365
I know.
298
00:14:58,365 --> 00:15:00,100
This is just a temporary.
299
00:15:00,100 --> 00:15:01,969
A little bit longer
than temporary,
300
00:15:01,969 --> 00:15:04,537
but it's working out.
301
00:15:04,537 --> 00:15:06,306
It's gonna be okay.
302
00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:08,708
Come here, good boy.
303
00:15:08,708 --> 00:15:10,710
You're a good boy.
He needs a bath, seriously.
304
00:15:10,710 --> 00:15:12,512
I'm gonna give him
one tonight.
305
00:15:12,512 --> 00:15:14,447
Gonna be honest,
it's not easy
306
00:15:14,447 --> 00:15:15,848
living with my mom.
307
00:15:15,848 --> 00:15:17,584
There's not a lot of space,
308
00:15:17,584 --> 00:15:19,086
and it's only gonna
get more difficult,
309
00:15:19,086 --> 00:15:20,720
because in a few days,
310
00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,255
the love of my life, Anali,
311
00:15:22,255 --> 00:15:24,424
is gonna be moving in with us.
312
00:15:36,503 --> 00:15:39,139
Anali and I met
on a language-learning app.
313
00:15:39,139 --> 00:15:40,873
She was learning English.
314
00:15:40,873 --> 00:15:42,242
I was learning Spanish.
315
00:15:42,242 --> 00:15:44,911
She visited my profile.
Didn't say anything.
316
00:15:45,012 --> 00:15:46,379
I just decided to be like,
317
00:15:46,379 --> 00:15:48,715
"Hey, you visited my profile
and you didn't say anything.
318
00:15:48,715 --> 00:15:50,150
Hello."
319
00:15:50,150 --> 00:15:52,819
So that's kind of how
it started.
320
00:15:54,787 --> 00:15:56,389
Anali is super pretty.
321
00:15:56,389 --> 00:15:58,491
That was the first thing
I noticed about her.
322
00:15:58,491 --> 00:16:01,028
She's really talkative,
super sweet.
323
00:16:01,028 --> 00:16:03,563
We started messaging
in Spanish.
324
00:16:03,563 --> 00:16:06,033
After a few weeks,
we developed some feelings
325
00:16:06,033 --> 00:16:07,334
for each other.
326
00:16:07,334 --> 00:16:09,669
And eight months after
we first started talking,
327
00:16:09,669 --> 00:16:13,073
I decided to book a trip
to meet her in Peru.
328
00:16:13,073 --> 00:16:15,942
- I love you.
- I love you.
329
00:16:20,247 --> 00:16:22,315
Ah.
330
00:16:22,315 --> 00:16:25,585
What I love most about Anali
is that she is thoughtful.
331
00:16:25,585 --> 00:16:27,587
She's super affectionate.
332
00:16:27,587 --> 00:16:30,057
And I think it was on day
four of us being together
333
00:16:30,057 --> 00:16:33,060
when I realized
I've never loved someone
334
00:16:33,060 --> 00:16:34,594
as much as I do Anali,
335
00:16:34,594 --> 00:16:36,963
so I decided
to propose to her.
336
00:16:37,397 --> 00:16:38,431
She said, "Aw,"
337
00:16:38,431 --> 00:16:40,733
and then didn't say
anything else.
338
00:16:40,733 --> 00:16:43,070
I was like, "Uh, so yes?"
339
00:16:43,070 --> 00:16:44,904
And she said, "Yeah."
340
00:16:46,706 --> 00:16:48,108
It was kind
of like a delayed yes,
341
00:16:48,108 --> 00:16:52,279
so I'm hoping it wasn't
like by coercion or force.
342
00:16:52,279 --> 00:16:55,882
But I did get the yes
in the end,
343
00:16:55,882 --> 00:16:57,817
so I guess that's a win.
344
00:17:04,324 --> 00:17:06,459
So I want this cleared out
345
00:17:06,459 --> 00:17:07,760
so we can get a table.
346
00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,530
Maybe we can have dinner
with Anali here
347
00:17:10,530 --> 00:17:12,699
instead of me eating
in my room.
348
00:17:14,834 --> 00:17:18,371
Anali got issued her K-1 visa
about six or seven weeks ago
349
00:17:18,371 --> 00:17:21,308
and she's gonna be arriving
to the US very soon.
350
00:17:21,308 --> 00:17:23,610
But I'm worried
about how Anali would react
351
00:17:23,610 --> 00:17:25,312
if she were to arrive today.
352
00:17:26,179 --> 00:17:28,148
My mom has a lot of stuff.
353
00:17:28,148 --> 00:17:30,783
Tell me about
this cork collection.
354
00:17:30,783 --> 00:17:32,485
Oh, look
at all them pretty corks.
355
00:17:32,485 --> 00:17:34,121
Come on.
356
00:17:34,121 --> 00:17:36,489
I know that my mom's
not a severe hoarder
357
00:17:36,489 --> 00:17:38,625
but she does have
hoarding tendencies.
358
00:17:38,625 --> 00:17:40,560
So we got a rug.
359
00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,695
What is that?
360
00:17:42,695 --> 00:17:44,030
It's flower seeds.
361
00:17:44,131 --> 00:17:46,733
She has a lifelong habit
362
00:17:46,733 --> 00:17:49,369
of hanging on to things
too long,
363
00:17:49,369 --> 00:17:51,171
like plastic cups,
364
00:17:51,171 --> 00:17:53,840
empty movie cases, bracelets,
365
00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:55,842
earrings, necklaces,
366
00:17:55,842 --> 00:17:58,010
and she doesn't open
most of them.
367
00:17:58,010 --> 00:18:00,913
She'll just buy it
because it looks cute.
368
00:18:00,913 --> 00:18:03,916
It's just too much.
369
00:18:03,916 --> 00:18:05,818
All right.
So I'm not gonna look yet.
370
00:18:05,818 --> 00:18:07,954
How many years expired
do you think
371
00:18:07,954 --> 00:18:09,055
this cereal bar is?
372
00:18:09,156 --> 00:18:11,158
I haven't had it that long.
Probably four months.
373
00:18:11,158 --> 00:18:12,825
This
is two years expired.
374
00:18:12,825 --> 00:18:15,462
I don't want junk.
Like I will throw some away.
375
00:18:15,462 --> 00:18:16,796
But, to me, it's not junk.
376
00:18:16,796 --> 00:18:17,964
I know it's not junk to you.
377
00:18:17,964 --> 00:18:19,166
Any other weird collections?
378
00:18:19,166 --> 00:18:20,833
Let's just make a box
of your weird collections
379
00:18:20,833 --> 00:18:22,635
and then put them out...
Put it all in the same box.
380
00:18:24,171 --> 00:18:26,173
I do feel for my mom
and understand
381
00:18:26,173 --> 00:18:28,975
that she wants to hang on
to what she does have,
382
00:18:28,975 --> 00:18:30,810
but, at the same time,
383
00:18:30,810 --> 00:18:32,912
I want enough space for me
and my fiancee
384
00:18:32,912 --> 00:18:34,414
to live comfortably.
385
00:18:34,414 --> 00:18:37,984
I wanna take some
of this stuff to storage.
386
00:18:38,951 --> 00:18:40,187
All right.
387
00:18:43,190 --> 00:18:44,724
Surprise!
388
00:18:45,958 --> 00:18:47,960
- Whoa.
- I told you.
389
00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:49,596
Yeah, there's
less room than I thought.
390
00:18:49,596 --> 00:18:51,998
There's enough space
for what we have now,
391
00:18:51,998 --> 00:18:53,800
but the stuff
out of the living room,
392
00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,369
I don't know
if we're gonna have room.
393
00:18:56,369 --> 00:18:58,971
Let's take...
Well, let me see if...
394
00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,574
Hmm, cheeky.
395
00:19:01,574 --> 00:19:02,909
Anali is calling me.
396
00:19:02,909 --> 00:19:04,611
Aw.
397
00:19:04,611 --> 00:19:06,078
Hello.
398
00:19:06,078 --> 00:19:07,680
Hi.
399
00:19:13,253 --> 00:19:14,687
- Okay. I'll be back.
- Okay.
400
00:19:14,687 --> 00:19:16,223
Maybe put those pictures
in or something.
401
00:19:16,223 --> 00:19:17,490
Okay.
402
00:19:22,629 --> 00:19:24,231
Hi, Cheeky.
403
00:19:24,231 --> 00:19:26,566
I miss you, Cheeky.
404
00:19:33,072 --> 00:19:36,108
Uh-huh.
405
00:19:45,017 --> 00:19:47,254
- Yeah.
- Okay.
406
00:20:08,341 --> 00:20:10,443
I'm worried that Anali
is gonna get here
407
00:20:10,443 --> 00:20:12,412
and see how disorganized it is
408
00:20:12,412 --> 00:20:15,982
and think that maybe she made
a mistake coming here.
409
00:20:15,982 --> 00:20:19,185
She tends to have like
no tolerance whatsoever.
410
00:20:19,185 --> 00:20:21,921
If something
is annoying to her,
411
00:20:21,921 --> 00:20:24,457
she'll instantly just be like,
you know, "I hate that,"
412
00:20:24,457 --> 00:20:26,158
or, "I don't wanna do it,"
and, you know,
413
00:20:26,158 --> 00:20:27,860
"What if I don't want to?"
414
00:20:27,860 --> 00:20:29,929
Like... And it scares me
when she does that
415
00:20:29,929 --> 00:20:31,197
type of thing, honestly.
416
00:20:31,197 --> 00:20:34,301
But, right now, you know,
I don't really know what to do
417
00:20:34,301 --> 00:20:37,704
other than try to clear out
some space.
418
00:21:06,333 --> 00:21:07,967
Babe.
419
00:21:07,967 --> 00:21:09,936
Yeah?
420
00:21:09,936 --> 00:21:11,471
Can you please come?
421
00:21:11,471 --> 00:21:14,474
Okay! Yay!
422
00:21:18,945 --> 00:21:20,380
What's going on?
423
00:21:20,380 --> 00:21:24,083
I think this is getting worse.
424
00:21:24,083 --> 00:21:25,685
What
are you talking about?
425
00:21:26,753 --> 00:21:28,388
My skin.
426
00:21:28,388 --> 00:21:30,056
What do you mean your skin?
427
00:21:30,056 --> 00:21:33,192
Baby, it's so itchy.
I cannot stop.
428
00:21:34,861 --> 00:21:37,964
Today, I started
to get a rash.
429
00:21:37,964 --> 00:21:40,266
It started on my face.
430
00:21:40,367 --> 00:21:43,135
It started to spread
all over my body,
431
00:21:43,135 --> 00:21:45,938
my arms, my belly,
my glutes, my legs.
432
00:21:45,938 --> 00:21:47,574
Like everywhere.
433
00:21:47,574 --> 00:21:48,841
I look at myself
in the mirror.
434
00:21:48,841 --> 00:21:49,976
It was super red.
435
00:21:49,976 --> 00:21:52,712
And I got scared,
like what is this?
436
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,583
Like, look,
it's getting worse.
437
00:21:56,583 --> 00:21:58,651
Didn't you get
this in Panama?
438
00:21:58,651 --> 00:22:01,187
Even in Panama,
it wasn't this itchy.
439
00:22:01,187 --> 00:22:03,490
Do you have some
kind of allergy or what?
440
00:22:03,490 --> 00:22:06,526
What did you eat
most recently?
441
00:22:06,526 --> 00:22:08,828
The same food
that I always eat, baby.
442
00:22:08,828 --> 00:22:11,197
It's not that I have
so many options in here.
443
00:22:11,197 --> 00:22:12,932
I had bread.
444
00:22:12,932 --> 00:22:16,503
I had peanut butter, oatmeal.
445
00:22:16,503 --> 00:22:18,037
Are you allergic
to peanut butter?
446
00:22:18,037 --> 00:22:19,772
I'm not allergic
to peanut butter,
447
00:22:19,772 --> 00:22:22,742
because that's what I eat
the most.
448
00:22:22,742 --> 00:22:25,478
I also have the almonds
that you gave me.
449
00:22:27,079 --> 00:22:28,114
Okay.
450
00:22:28,114 --> 00:22:30,450
But I'm
not allergic to nuts.
451
00:22:30,450 --> 00:22:32,752
Yeah. Well how much
almonds did you eat?
452
00:22:32,752 --> 00:22:34,421
That's maybe
why it's worse this time.
453
00:22:34,421 --> 00:22:35,422
It's not the almond.
454
00:22:35,422 --> 00:22:37,189
You want me to tell you
that it's the almonds,
455
00:22:37,189 --> 00:22:40,427
but it is
not the almonds, baby.
456
00:22:40,427 --> 00:22:44,263
I'm telling you, I explained
to you about my sensitive...
457
00:22:44,263 --> 00:22:47,934
High sensitive skin
and my dermatitis,
458
00:22:47,934 --> 00:22:50,269
and I do believe
that it has more to do
459
00:22:50,269 --> 00:22:52,071
with not eating something
460
00:22:52,071 --> 00:22:54,441
but touching something
461
00:22:54,441 --> 00:22:57,076
or being exposed to something.
462
00:23:01,881 --> 00:23:04,717
No.
463
00:23:06,018 --> 00:23:07,319
No. Not the dust.
464
00:23:07,319 --> 00:23:10,457
If it was the dust,
you'd have been sick
every day.
465
00:23:10,457 --> 00:23:13,460
I'm gonna go see the almonds
that you've eaten.
466
00:23:18,731 --> 00:23:20,600
idiot.
467
00:23:22,902 --> 00:23:26,138
I would describe
a dirty house as like
468
00:23:26,138 --> 00:23:29,208
one of those homes
like you have a hoarder in it
469
00:23:29,208 --> 00:23:31,911
and they got piles of garbage
all over the place.
470
00:23:31,911 --> 00:23:34,380
That's dirty in my eyes.
471
00:23:34,481 --> 00:23:36,983
My house is...
Does not look like that.
472
00:23:36,983 --> 00:23:37,984
I don't hoard anything.
473
00:23:37,984 --> 00:23:40,853
I don't have piles
of garbage in my house.
474
00:23:40,853 --> 00:23:44,691
I definitely don't live
like a slob or anything.
475
00:23:46,025 --> 00:23:48,394
Gino,
I even told my doctor
476
00:23:48,495 --> 00:23:50,597
back in Panama
and I show it to him.
477
00:23:50,597 --> 00:23:53,365
And he said,
"Hey, this is your dermatitis.
478
00:23:53,365 --> 00:23:54,734
This is not food.
479
00:23:54,734 --> 00:23:56,102
This is your skin.
480
00:23:56,102 --> 00:23:57,537
This is what you're touching."
481
00:23:57,537 --> 00:23:59,405
It is not the almonds.
482
00:23:59,506 --> 00:24:00,873
- I don't think--
- Well, it happened back
483
00:24:00,873 --> 00:24:03,810
in Panama
but I was on vacation.
484
00:24:03,810 --> 00:24:07,914
It was because that place
I was at, it was very dusty.
485
00:24:07,914 --> 00:24:10,116
It was very dirty.
486
00:24:10,116 --> 00:24:13,019
And I do believe that what
is causing this is that I...
487
00:24:13,019 --> 00:24:15,154
The house is very dirty.
488
00:24:16,388 --> 00:24:19,926
- This house is clean, okay?
- Babe, this is not. Listen--
489
00:24:19,926 --> 00:24:21,594
This makes sense to me.
490
00:24:21,594 --> 00:24:23,663
You ate almost a whole
bag of almonds.
491
00:24:23,663 --> 00:24:26,365
This... You could be possibly
allergic to this.
492
00:24:26,365 --> 00:24:27,667
- If I die, I die.
- Look at how many you ate.
493
00:24:27,667 --> 00:24:29,201
I want... You want me
to finish eating them?
494
00:24:29,201 --> 00:24:31,370
I'm not allergic to almonds.
495
00:24:31,370 --> 00:24:33,640
This is not the almonds, Gino.
496
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,307
You were living in a dirty...
497
00:24:35,307 --> 00:24:37,877
- Just--
- ...apartment with mice in it.
498
00:24:37,877 --> 00:24:41,380
What mice, you [bleep] idiot?
What mice?
499
00:24:41,380 --> 00:24:42,348
- That apartment--
- You said...
500
00:24:42,348 --> 00:24:44,183
You said mice
in my [bleep] apartment.
501
00:24:44,183 --> 00:24:46,285
- Your apartment--
- You're very disrespectful.
502
00:24:46,285 --> 00:24:48,721
- Your apartment--
- You're
very disrespectful.
503
00:24:48,721 --> 00:24:50,723
When in all the places I live,
504
00:24:50,723 --> 00:24:52,324
you have seen a bathroom
like this.
505
00:24:56,228 --> 00:24:58,330
Oh, no, no.
506
00:24:58,330 --> 00:24:59,365
Look, it's totally--
507
00:25:19,619 --> 00:25:21,287
Baby, there are certain things
508
00:25:21,287 --> 00:25:23,489
that we need to take
more care of.
509
00:25:23,590 --> 00:25:25,157
Like take me
to buy a new pillow.
510
00:25:25,157 --> 00:25:26,425
It isn't that expensive.
511
00:25:26,425 --> 00:25:27,694
I'm not asking you
to throw the whole bed.
512
00:25:27,694 --> 00:25:29,662
- No. Pillow... No.
Pillow is okay.
- Just the pillow.
513
00:25:29,662 --> 00:25:31,230
- My pillow is fine.
I've never had--
- Okay.
514
00:25:31,230 --> 00:25:33,733
Baby, new blankets.
That's all I'm asking for.
515
00:25:33,733 --> 00:25:38,304
If we get a new set
of blankets, of sheets...
516
00:25:38,304 --> 00:25:39,972
- It would be helpful...
- This--
517
00:25:39,972 --> 00:25:44,143
if we change
the pillows for new ones.
518
00:25:44,143 --> 00:25:45,645
There's nothing
wrong with the pillow.
519
00:25:45,645 --> 00:25:48,147
I'll buy you a pillow, but
nothing wrong with my pillow.
520
00:25:54,120 --> 00:25:58,090
It's very upsetting
that Gino cannot see
521
00:25:58,090 --> 00:26:01,027
how nasty the house is
522
00:26:01,027 --> 00:26:03,863
and that it is causing me
to be sick.
523
00:26:07,867 --> 00:26:11,370
I've been giving up
my whole life to be here
524
00:26:11,370 --> 00:26:13,439
with him in Michigan.
525
00:26:13,439 --> 00:26:16,743
And we're supposed to
be building a life together.
526
00:26:16,743 --> 00:26:19,445
One in which
I can bring my kids into,
527
00:26:19,445 --> 00:26:21,480
so this is serious.
528
00:26:23,215 --> 00:26:25,184
idiot.
529
00:26:43,302 --> 00:26:46,438
It would ruin everything
if his parents didn't like me.
530
00:26:46,438 --> 00:26:48,975
Do you think she'd choose
for you to marry
531
00:26:48,975 --> 00:26:51,177
a Korean woman over me?
532
00:26:53,279 --> 00:26:55,447
Why is it everything
is always for you,
533
00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:57,083
you, you, you?
534
00:26:57,083 --> 00:26:58,550
"Babe, I need money to eat.
535
00:26:58,550 --> 00:27:00,687
Babe, I need money
to go work out.
536
00:27:00,687 --> 00:27:02,822
Babe, my car broke."
537
00:27:02,822 --> 00:27:05,557
When Nicole wants something,
it's a big no.
538
00:27:05,557 --> 00:27:08,560
Only for him,
whatever he needs, right?
539
00:27:18,570 --> 00:27:21,741
♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
540
00:27:21,741 --> 00:27:22,608
You know the way?
541
00:27:23,242 --> 00:27:25,344
Yeah. That's... That way.
542
00:27:27,113 --> 00:27:30,616
♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
543
00:27:48,034 --> 00:27:51,437
I remember
why I fell in love with her.
544
00:27:56,242 --> 00:27:58,510
I don't even know
what they're for.
545
00:28:02,281 --> 00:28:05,251
Seoul is a lot different
than Arkansas.
546
00:28:10,022 --> 00:28:11,157
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
547
00:28:11,157 --> 00:28:13,192
Open 24 hours.
548
00:28:17,797 --> 00:28:19,766
I am a bit nervous.
549
00:28:19,766 --> 00:28:24,070
If this is what Nick
is kind of used to,
550
00:28:24,070 --> 00:28:28,074
then like having that
180 change in Searcy
551
00:28:28,074 --> 00:28:30,542
might be a bit depressing
for him.
552
00:28:35,447 --> 00:28:37,083
I'm joking.
553
00:28:38,317 --> 00:28:39,618
I'm joking. Chill out.
554
00:28:42,922 --> 00:28:45,591
- You wanna try that?
- Chicken?
555
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,568
Ah. You want spicy
or just--
556
00:28:56,568 --> 00:28:57,970
- Spicy.
- Spicy?
557
00:29:03,542 --> 00:29:05,644
Nick has shown me
quite a lot
558
00:29:05,644 --> 00:29:08,414
of Korean food
when we were in Australia.
559
00:29:11,918 --> 00:29:13,552
- Huh.
- Sun--
560
00:29:14,987 --> 00:29:18,124
It's like intestine.
561
00:29:18,124 --> 00:29:20,692
That one I didn't like...
I didn't like.
562
00:29:20,692 --> 00:29:22,628
It's very different,
563
00:29:22,628 --> 00:29:24,997
very foreign
to what I'm used to.
564
00:29:27,499 --> 00:29:29,568
Yeah,
you can try first.
565
00:29:34,206 --> 00:29:35,274
Mmm.
566
00:29:37,209 --> 00:29:38,310
It's good.
567
00:29:38,310 --> 00:29:39,545
- It's good?
- Mmm-hmm.
568
00:29:39,545 --> 00:29:40,847
- Spicy?
- Mmm-hmm.
569
00:29:42,348 --> 00:29:43,549
Okay.
570
00:29:43,549 --> 00:29:45,217
- So good.
- You wanna go sit?
571
00:29:45,217 --> 00:29:46,185
Yeah.
572
00:29:46,185 --> 00:29:47,386
Let's go that way.
573
00:29:48,955 --> 00:29:50,222
Yeah.
574
00:29:56,362 --> 00:29:58,230
Oh, yeah. Actually...
575
00:30:00,199 --> 00:30:01,033
Hmm.
576
00:30:11,577 --> 00:30:14,413
And bring him
back home to US with me.
577
00:30:14,413 --> 00:30:17,016
But I'm still a little
nervous about that.
578
00:30:17,016 --> 00:30:19,085
I don't really speak
much Korean
579
00:30:19,085 --> 00:30:21,253
and they don't speak
any English.
580
00:30:21,253 --> 00:30:23,890
So it would...
It's gonna be hard for us
581
00:30:23,890 --> 00:30:27,759
to like actually
like bond one-on-one.
582
00:30:30,062 --> 00:30:32,131
But, you know,
the Korean culture...
583
00:30:35,334 --> 00:30:38,871
You have to grab
the glass like this.
584
00:30:38,871 --> 00:30:40,572
- With two hands?
- With two hands.
585
00:30:41,807 --> 00:30:44,243
Like...
586
00:30:44,243 --> 00:30:45,644
So, I will be bowing?
587
00:30:45,644 --> 00:30:48,580
Kind... A bit of bow, yeah.
588
00:30:48,580 --> 00:30:51,083
And also don't look at them
when you drink.
589
00:30:51,083 --> 00:30:53,652
You have to turn your face
a little bit and then drink.
590
00:30:53,652 --> 00:30:54,753
So don't look at them?
591
00:30:59,658 --> 00:31:03,029
I am really nervous,
now more so.
592
00:31:03,029 --> 00:31:05,331
I'm worried, you know,
when I go in and meet them
593
00:31:05,331 --> 00:31:08,834
and have to remember
all like the table rules
594
00:31:08,935 --> 00:31:11,070
and the drinking, you know,
595
00:31:11,070 --> 00:31:13,472
to the side,
all of that together.
596
00:31:13,472 --> 00:31:16,208
I'm just worried that,
you know, if I forget one,
597
00:31:16,208 --> 00:31:17,944
then I might mess
something up.
598
00:31:17,944 --> 00:31:19,411
It's new to me
599
00:31:19,411 --> 00:31:21,747
because I'm not Korean.
600
00:31:21,747 --> 00:31:23,649
So for someone like me,
601
00:31:23,649 --> 00:31:25,985
it's a little bit overwhelming.
602
00:31:25,985 --> 00:31:29,821
Are you nervous
about meeting my parents?
603
00:31:29,821 --> 00:31:30,957
Yeah.
604
00:31:33,225 --> 00:31:34,726
Hmm.
605
00:31:34,726 --> 00:31:37,229
My mother wasn't happy
with that, yeah.
606
00:31:42,301 --> 00:31:45,071
So do you think...
You know, if your mom
had a choice...
607
00:31:45,071 --> 00:31:47,039
- Yeah?
- ...do you think
she'd choose for you
608
00:31:47,039 --> 00:31:50,442
to marry a Korean woman
over me?
609
00:31:56,315 --> 00:31:57,316
What'd she say?
610
00:31:58,550 --> 00:31:59,385
She said...
611
00:32:08,995 --> 00:32:11,163
You never have told me
that before.
612
00:32:11,163 --> 00:32:13,232
I know. I know.
613
00:32:15,567 --> 00:32:18,770
I mean, I guess
nobody wants to hear
614
00:32:18,770 --> 00:32:21,307
that your future mother-in-law
615
00:32:21,307 --> 00:32:23,609
wanted her son
to marry someone else.
616
00:32:23,609 --> 00:32:27,413
We've already gone through
a lot to get to this point.
617
00:32:38,790 --> 00:32:40,926
Who the
do you think you are?
618
00:32:42,228 --> 00:32:44,663
Bye, little child.
619
00:32:47,366 --> 00:32:49,568
Why is it everything
is always for you,
620
00:32:49,568 --> 00:32:51,337
you, you, you, you?
621
00:32:51,337 --> 00:32:52,804
"Babe, I need money to eat.
622
00:32:52,804 --> 00:32:54,873
Babe, I need money
to go work out.
623
00:32:54,873 --> 00:32:57,043
Babe, my car broke."
624
00:32:57,043 --> 00:32:59,878
Nicole wants something,
it's a big no.
625
00:32:59,878 --> 00:33:03,049
Only for him,
whatever he needs, right?
626
00:33:14,826 --> 00:33:16,462
I think it's best
I just fly back home.
627
00:33:16,462 --> 00:33:18,064
I'm not... I'm not doing
this with you.
628
00:33:19,765 --> 00:33:21,900
I can't. Not for three weeks.
629
00:33:21,900 --> 00:33:24,236
I'm just like so over
the [bleep] I thought
630
00:33:24,236 --> 00:33:26,472
this was gonna change
with us and it's just not.
631
00:33:29,508 --> 00:33:31,310
And I'm not gonna spend
632
00:33:31,310 --> 00:33:33,145
the rest of my life
and be in a situation
633
00:33:33,145 --> 00:33:34,980
I'm not gonna be
a hundred percent happy
634
00:33:35,081 --> 00:33:36,948
and you're not getting it.
635
00:33:39,151 --> 00:33:42,321
- Try to put
this energy for us.
- No, I don't.
636
00:33:42,321 --> 00:33:43,822
- For us, babe.
- I don't.
637
00:33:43,822 --> 00:33:45,257
I expect a little bit
more from you.
638
00:33:45,257 --> 00:33:46,658
And you just don't see it.
639
00:33:46,658 --> 00:33:48,127
You don't understand
what to do.
640
00:33:48,127 --> 00:33:50,529
You're just like... Again,
641
00:33:50,529 --> 00:33:52,598
- Nicole puts in 90%--
- Sometimes I think
642
00:33:52,598 --> 00:33:54,933
- I'm too much nice for you.
Sometimes I think--
- Really?
643
00:33:54,933 --> 00:33:56,768
Yes. I'm too much
nice for you.
644
00:33:56,768 --> 00:33:58,170
- You're too nice for me?
- Yes.
645
00:34:00,172 --> 00:34:01,673
Try to be nice for me.
646
00:34:03,542 --> 00:34:06,745
I tried to make some stuffs
and things.
647
00:34:06,745 --> 00:34:08,414
And it's sweet.
And it was sweet
and I told you that.
648
00:34:09,248 --> 00:34:10,616
But it's not enough.
649
00:34:10,616 --> 00:34:13,219
It's not enough. I need more.
650
00:34:13,219 --> 00:34:16,188
- I'm trying to learn you.
- Yes.
651
00:34:16,188 --> 00:34:18,357
Stop make fighting every day.
652
00:34:18,357 --> 00:34:19,291
Every day.
653
00:34:20,492 --> 00:34:21,660
It's too much.
654
00:34:22,394 --> 00:34:23,962
It's only second day.
655
00:34:30,001 --> 00:34:31,403
Mmm-hmm.
656
00:34:48,620 --> 00:34:52,824
The thing with me,
in a argument with Justin,
657
00:34:52,824 --> 00:34:54,393
is that I do blow up
658
00:34:54,393 --> 00:34:57,062
and I do go
from zero to a hundred.
659
00:34:57,163 --> 00:34:58,764
I can go to a thousand
660
00:34:58,764 --> 00:35:00,299
if he pushes
my buttons enough.
661
00:35:00,299 --> 00:35:03,835
Honestly,
hormones play a role
662
00:35:03,835 --> 00:35:05,837
about being super emotional.
663
00:35:05,837 --> 00:35:09,375
I think that any trans
can attest to that.
664
00:35:10,342 --> 00:35:13,512
But this has been bottling up
for a while.
665
00:35:13,512 --> 00:35:17,516
I don't just get sad
or get upset or cry.
666
00:35:17,516 --> 00:35:20,252
This has been going on
for quite some time.
667
00:35:21,086 --> 00:35:22,188
Okay.
668
00:35:22,188 --> 00:35:23,589
I love you.
669
00:35:23,589 --> 00:35:25,591
- I love you too.
- I don't wanna fight.
670
00:35:28,194 --> 00:35:29,595
I think he acts like a child
671
00:35:29,595 --> 00:35:31,062
when it comes to anything
that has to do
672
00:35:31,062 --> 00:35:32,831
with the intimacy conversation.
673
00:35:32,831 --> 00:35:34,933
That's... Honestly.
And he can't handle it.
674
00:35:34,933 --> 00:35:36,868
He can't talk about it. He...
675
00:35:36,868 --> 00:35:38,437
He's very private about it.
676
00:35:38,437 --> 00:35:39,771
But it's not gonna
get anywhere
677
00:35:39,771 --> 00:35:41,072
if he doesn't face it.
678
00:35:41,072 --> 00:35:43,842
- We have to go, Sweetie.
- Okay.
679
00:35:43,842 --> 00:35:46,011
We have to come down
to some type of resolution
680
00:35:46,011 --> 00:35:48,847
because, you know,
like time is of the essence.
681
00:35:48,847 --> 00:35:52,083
We only have a short period
for us to be together.
682
00:35:52,083 --> 00:35:54,953
But I'm hopeful,
and, hopefully,
683
00:35:54,953 --> 00:35:56,622
we can work things out.
684
00:35:59,458 --> 00:36:01,793
He obviously really wants
to be a dad.
685
00:36:01,793 --> 00:36:03,762
So we're thinking about
either doing like
686
00:36:03,762 --> 00:36:05,497
maybe surrogacy or adoption.
687
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,795
- Hi.
- Hey, Sophie.
688
00:36:36,795 --> 00:36:39,064
- How are you?
- I'm good. You?
689
00:36:39,064 --> 00:36:39,931
Yeah, I'm good.
690
00:36:41,467 --> 00:36:44,470
What?
691
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,035
I mean, I appreciate
you obviously like apologizing
692
00:37:17,035 --> 00:37:19,338
for like sometimes saying rude
comments to him.
693
00:37:19,338 --> 00:37:21,507
But like literally
you've said that in like
694
00:37:21,507 --> 00:37:23,542
a really weird time
because we've just had
695
00:37:23,542 --> 00:37:25,944
like a massive
kind of fallout.
696
00:37:28,314 --> 00:37:29,881
You know how obviously
I've told you
697
00:37:29,881 --> 00:37:31,317
that like I don't wanna
get pregnant
698
00:37:31,317 --> 00:37:32,651
and you know that, right?
699
00:37:33,652 --> 00:37:35,954
Somehow he doesn't know that.
700
00:37:41,327 --> 00:37:43,128
This is really sad.
701
00:37:43,128 --> 00:37:46,064
Right now, as of this moment,
we've kind of come to like
702
00:37:46,064 --> 00:37:48,934
some kind of resolution, but,
at the same time, obviously
703
00:37:48,934 --> 00:37:50,902
it's very new and it's like
704
00:37:50,902 --> 00:37:52,871
we're still kind of...
705
00:37:52,871 --> 00:37:54,873
You know, we have
our differences
to certain things.
706
00:37:54,873 --> 00:37:57,643
But it's like he obviously
really wants to be a dad.
707
00:37:57,643 --> 00:37:59,545
So we're thinking
about either doing
708
00:37:59,545 --> 00:38:01,347
like maybe surrogacy
or adoption.
709
00:38:01,347 --> 00:38:02,981
So that's kind of
where we're at right now.
710
00:38:02,981 --> 00:38:04,550
But it's still just like...
711
00:38:04,550 --> 00:38:05,984
You know, it's like
I don't really know
712
00:38:05,984 --> 00:38:07,553
what to do at this point.
713
00:38:15,193 --> 00:38:17,963
Because of the fact that
I don't wanna get pregnant,
714
00:38:17,963 --> 00:38:21,066
it's "I've never really
thought about kids"
kind of type thing.
715
00:38:21,066 --> 00:38:23,669
But obviously, as you know,
I am like a massive
716
00:38:23,669 --> 00:38:26,838
people pleaser,
but like obviously
this is my life as well.
717
00:38:26,838 --> 00:38:28,874
So, it's like I'm not
gonna people-please
718
00:38:28,874 --> 00:38:31,410
for like my future, you know?
719
00:38:31,410 --> 00:38:34,245
I don't wanna have children
if I'm gonna resent the kids.
720
00:38:34,245 --> 00:38:38,049
Yeah. I mean, listen,
I'm not the best
relationship advice person.
721
00:38:38,917 --> 00:38:41,019
Right.
722
00:38:41,019 --> 00:38:42,921
But you need to have
a really deep conversation.
723
00:38:42,921 --> 00:38:43,789
Yeah.
724
00:38:47,559 --> 00:38:49,160
Yeah.
The surrogacy thing
725
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,929
is a whole new
kind of concept for me.
726
00:38:50,929 --> 00:38:53,198
So for me to be honest
with him and myself,
727
00:38:53,198 --> 00:38:56,067
I need to think about it.
I don't want to have kids
728
00:38:56,067 --> 00:38:57,603
just because he wants me to
729
00:38:57,603 --> 00:38:59,037
and I don't wanna tell him no
730
00:38:59,037 --> 00:39:00,706
because he's gonna leave,
731
00:39:00,706 --> 00:39:02,974
and then it's like
what does that mean for me
732
00:39:02,974 --> 00:39:05,276
and my life and everything
I've given up for him?
733
00:39:12,017 --> 00:39:13,819
Do you want me to wear
something like super classy
734
00:39:13,819 --> 00:39:16,321
- or medium or--
- Super classy
735
00:39:16,422 --> 00:39:17,689
or medium classy?
What are you wearing?
736
00:39:17,689 --> 00:39:19,124
Probably like khakis
737
00:39:19,124 --> 00:39:20,459
and a blue shirt.
738
00:39:20,459 --> 00:39:22,027
Mmm-hmm.
739
00:39:22,027 --> 00:39:23,529
In England, I do go
to the club
740
00:39:23,529 --> 00:39:24,863
a lot more regularly,
741
00:39:24,863 --> 00:39:27,165
'cause he never wants to go
to the club ever.
742
00:39:27,165 --> 00:39:29,000
- He hates the club.
- When you're single,
743
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:30,702
you wanna go out more
and party more,
744
00:39:30,702 --> 00:39:32,538
but, you know, now that
I have got a woman,
745
00:39:32,538 --> 00:39:35,541
I'm not really thinking
about going out to the club.
746
00:39:35,541 --> 00:39:37,809
And, plus, I feel like
there's potential
for more problems.
747
00:39:37,809 --> 00:39:40,011
You know, like
if I go to the club
and some girl's hitting on me,
748
00:39:40,011 --> 00:39:42,514
then I'm... I might
end up in trouble,
749
00:39:42,514 --> 00:39:44,349
whereas if I would have
just stayed at home
750
00:39:44,450 --> 00:39:46,885
and hung out with you,
then that's not gonna happen.
751
00:39:47,919 --> 00:39:49,287
I mean, you could stay
out of trouble
752
00:39:49,287 --> 00:39:50,489
just having fun with me.
753
00:39:54,159 --> 00:39:56,294
I don't think I've been
to like an actual club
754
00:39:56,294 --> 00:39:58,664
in LA even, so it'd be cool
to like see.
755
00:39:58,664 --> 00:40:00,966
I've only been to like
one or two clubs in LA.
756
00:40:00,966 --> 00:40:03,635
- Really?
- Yeah. 'Cause
they mad expensive.
757
00:40:03,635 --> 00:40:05,504
It's like a hundred dollars
to get in some places.
758
00:40:05,504 --> 00:40:07,706
When was the last time
you've been to a club?
759
00:40:07,706 --> 00:40:10,041
- A few years ago with Tor'i.
- Yeah? He's coming isn't he?
760
00:40:10,041 --> 00:40:11,477
Mmm-hmm.
761
00:40:11,477 --> 00:40:13,512
Why are you making faces?
762
00:40:13,512 --> 00:40:15,346
I don't know.
I just feel like...
763
00:40:16,414 --> 00:40:18,884
it's a bit awkward.
764
00:40:18,884 --> 00:40:21,219
I'm definitely not looking
forward to seeing
Rob's friend, Tor'i,
765
00:40:21,219 --> 00:40:25,356
just because he has been
in Rob's ear a bit about me.
766
00:40:25,356 --> 00:40:28,026
She popped up
on Tor'i's phone
on a dating app,
767
00:40:28,026 --> 00:40:30,428
and since then he's been
768
00:40:30,428 --> 00:40:32,764
on the fence about what...
769
00:40:32,764 --> 00:40:35,400
Is this person someone
he wants his friend
to be with?
770
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,037
It was never a dating app.
I was on the girl side
of a friend's app.
771
00:40:42,207 --> 00:40:43,775
I invited Soraya,
772
00:40:43,775 --> 00:40:46,778
- if that's cool, to the club.
- Hmm.
773
00:40:46,778 --> 00:40:48,780
It's like you're
gonna be with Tor'i.
Tor'i's coming.
774
00:40:48,780 --> 00:40:50,882
So it's like
I don't want it to be you,
775
00:40:50,882 --> 00:40:52,618
Tor'i, and me.
That's super awkward.
776
00:40:52,618 --> 00:40:54,052
I met Soraya
777
00:40:54,052 --> 00:40:55,587
at the exact same timeframe
778
00:40:55,587 --> 00:40:57,623
when Tor'i saw me on the app.
779
00:40:57,623 --> 00:40:59,190
But for me to have met Soraya,
780
00:40:59,190 --> 00:41:01,226
she was on the friend side.
She wouldn't have shown up
781
00:41:01,226 --> 00:41:03,294
if I was on the date side.
782
00:41:03,294 --> 00:41:05,296
So, I feel like that's proof
of I made a whole friend
783
00:41:05,296 --> 00:41:07,265
on the same app
at the same time.
784
00:41:07,265 --> 00:41:09,434
So I feel like I don't really
need to prove anything else.
785
00:41:09,535 --> 00:41:12,871
That's as much proof
as I can give, really.
786
00:41:12,871 --> 00:41:14,706
That's too much?
787
00:41:16,407 --> 00:41:18,610
I mean, that's kind of like
788
00:41:18,610 --> 00:41:20,812
going like salsa dancing
or something.
789
00:41:20,812 --> 00:41:23,381
- Yeah.
- It'll take you an hour
to get ready, right?
790
00:41:23,381 --> 00:41:24,983
- You as well.
Don't wait for me.
- What you mean?
791
00:41:24,983 --> 00:41:26,852
- You got like hour
and a half of work.
- You've got a yellow shirt on.
792
00:41:26,852 --> 00:41:29,555
Man, it's gonna take me
10 minutes to get ready.
793
00:41:29,555 --> 00:41:33,058
Sophie 100% takes longer
to get ready to go out.
794
00:41:33,058 --> 00:41:35,994
It's kind of like
I should do something else
795
00:41:35,994 --> 00:41:38,463
to not suffer while I wait.
796
00:41:38,564 --> 00:41:40,131
Like watch a movie
797
00:41:40,131 --> 00:41:42,701
and then the last 30 minutes
of the movie,
798
00:41:42,701 --> 00:41:46,171
30 minutes before we leave,
then I'll get ready to go out.
799
00:41:49,007 --> 00:41:51,376
You look amazing all the time,
800
00:41:51,376 --> 00:41:53,244
so I don't need
to wait two hours.
801
00:41:53,244 --> 00:41:54,813
- Do I look good?
- Yeah.
802
00:41:54,813 --> 00:41:56,447
Takes me 30 minutes.
803
00:42:03,989 --> 00:42:06,091
LA nightlife, here we go.
804
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,128
Here we are.
805
00:42:10,128 --> 00:42:11,429
Go on, girl.
806
00:42:11,429 --> 00:42:12,998
I'm going.
807
00:42:12,998 --> 00:42:14,733
Finally.
808
00:42:14,733 --> 00:42:16,434
- Hi.
- We know you gonna talk
809
00:42:16,434 --> 00:42:18,269
about us being late.
810
00:42:18,269 --> 00:42:19,638
Come on, man.
811
00:42:19,638 --> 00:42:21,072
What's up?
812
00:42:21,072 --> 00:42:22,273
- How you doing?
- Hi.
813
00:42:22,273 --> 00:42:23,241
Hey. What's up, Sophie?
814
00:42:23,241 --> 00:42:24,910
- Nice to see you.
- Good to see you, finally.
815
00:42:24,910 --> 00:42:27,278
- It's been forever.
- Yeah. Eventually
she will have to see you.
816
00:42:27,278 --> 00:42:28,313
Why you been hiding?
817
00:42:28,313 --> 00:42:30,148
What you scared of?
818
00:42:30,148 --> 00:42:32,283
I'm super protective
over Rob.
819
00:42:32,283 --> 00:42:33,652
So I just wanna make sure
that the people
820
00:42:33,652 --> 00:42:35,120
that are coming into his life
821
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,855
are doing it
for the right reasons.
822
00:42:36,855 --> 00:42:39,825
I think she realizes Rob
has a soft spot for her,
823
00:42:39,825 --> 00:42:42,260
so she might be playing
that to her advantage
824
00:42:42,260 --> 00:42:44,162
or might be, you know,
playing Rob a little bit.
825
00:42:44,162 --> 00:42:46,264
I don't know. Who knows?
826
00:42:46,264 --> 00:42:48,266
But I'm gonna definitely
pick her brain.
827
00:42:48,266 --> 00:42:50,769
You meet any new friends,
Sophie, while you're out her?
828
00:42:50,769 --> 00:42:52,037
Uh, not really.
829
00:42:52,037 --> 00:42:53,705
- Oh, no. Not yet?
- No.
830
00:42:55,306 --> 00:42:56,507
- You got one friend
coming though, right?
- Yeah.
831
00:42:56,507 --> 00:42:58,543
- One friend?
- Yeah, my friend
Soraya is coming.
832
00:42:58,644 --> 00:42:59,845
Oh, where'd you meet
that friend?
833
00:43:02,413 --> 00:43:03,448
Okay.
834
00:43:05,383 --> 00:43:07,853
- Oh, a friends dating app?
- Yeah, that's where
I meet all my friends.
835
00:43:07,853 --> 00:43:10,188
That's what we call them now?
Friends dating app?
836
00:43:10,188 --> 00:43:11,690
- I didn't know
they made those.
- Yeah.
837
00:43:11,690 --> 00:43:13,659
I thought they were
just dating apps.
838
00:43:21,667 --> 00:43:24,135
I got a strange scenario
I wanna run by you.
839
00:43:24,135 --> 00:43:25,804
It's such a weird thing
840
00:43:25,804 --> 00:43:28,039
I don't even, like,
wanna tell people.
841
00:43:28,039 --> 00:43:30,475
- Okay.
- This whole entire time,
842
00:43:30,475 --> 00:43:33,478
her dad doesn't
even know I exist.
843
00:43:33,478 --> 00:43:36,782
- Oh.
- She has been pretty much
lying the whole time.
844
00:43:36,782 --> 00:43:39,017
What would her incentive be
to hide you?
845
00:43:56,968 --> 00:43:58,569
You're okay, baby.
846
00:43:58,569 --> 00:44:00,171
Morning.
847
00:44:00,171 --> 00:44:02,373
Good morning. I'm here with...
848
00:44:02,373 --> 00:44:05,076
- Yeah, I'm Clayton.
- Oh, is that Baby Pig
and Chocolate?
849
00:44:05,076 --> 00:44:07,112
Yeah, I'm here
with Baby Pig and Chocolate.
850
00:44:15,854 --> 00:44:17,522
- Hi.
- Hello, good morning.
851
00:44:17,522 --> 00:44:19,024
- Good morning.
- I've got Baby Pig
852
00:44:19,024 --> 00:44:21,126
- and Chocolate for you.
- All right.
853
00:44:21,126 --> 00:44:22,761
They're still kinda chunky,
854
00:44:22,761 --> 00:44:24,529
so I wanted to get
their weight checked out.
855
00:44:24,529 --> 00:44:26,497
And they look
so terrified right now.
856
00:44:26,497 --> 00:44:27,933
They don't like
car rides at all.
857
00:44:27,933 --> 00:44:28,900
That's all right.
I don't blame 'em.
858
00:44:30,068 --> 00:44:32,603
I think guinea pigs
get overlooked as pets
859
00:44:32,603 --> 00:44:36,107
because they're a rodent
and rodents kinda have like
860
00:44:36,107 --> 00:44:38,476
a negative connotation
of being like pests.
861
00:44:38,476 --> 00:44:40,178
But I take my guinea pigs
862
00:44:40,178 --> 00:44:42,347
for a checkup
about every six months
863
00:44:42,347 --> 00:44:45,751
because I know that my mom
will overfeed them.
864
00:44:45,751 --> 00:44:47,886
She feeds my guinea pigs a lot
865
00:44:47,886 --> 00:44:51,022
and I just wish
that she would not, like,
866
00:44:51,022 --> 00:44:52,623
give them so many treats.
867
00:44:52,623 --> 00:44:54,392
All right, Baby Pig.
868
00:44:54,392 --> 00:44:55,894
Look how chunky he is.
869
00:44:59,264 --> 00:45:01,566
- So...
- He's a little chunkier
than he was before.
870
00:45:01,566 --> 00:45:04,069
162. Yeah. Come here, big guy.
871
00:45:04,069 --> 00:45:05,636
- All right. He's--
- Eating well
and everything though?
872
00:45:05,636 --> 00:45:07,272
Well, he's clearly
eating well.
873
00:45:07,272 --> 00:45:09,274
He probably need
to eat a little bit less.
874
00:45:10,308 --> 00:45:12,210
Yeah.
875
00:45:12,210 --> 00:45:14,445
Did you know that they eat
guinea pigs in South America?
876
00:45:14,445 --> 00:45:15,981
Yes.
877
00:45:15,981 --> 00:45:18,216
Uh, my fiancee
has eaten a guinea pig
878
00:45:18,216 --> 00:45:20,218
and she says it's delicious.
879
00:45:20,218 --> 00:45:23,121
I'm trying to get my fiancee
closer to my guinea pigs
880
00:45:23,121 --> 00:45:25,656
- but not too close,
you know what I mean?
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
881
00:45:25,656 --> 00:45:29,160
Guinea pigs in Peru
are often a delicacy.
882
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,898
And they're not a common food
in America at all,
883
00:45:32,898 --> 00:45:36,001
so, I think Anali's
starting to realize
884
00:45:36,001 --> 00:45:37,903
that she might never eat
guinea pig again.
885
00:45:37,903 --> 00:45:39,637
I know she thinks
they're delicious
886
00:45:39,637 --> 00:45:41,840
because she's told me that
a million times,
887
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,674
but I also want her
to think that they're like,
888
00:45:43,674 --> 00:45:45,410
you know, part of the family,
889
00:45:45,410 --> 00:45:48,646
not part of like
breakfast with coffee.
890
00:45:48,646 --> 00:45:50,248
You know, something like that.
891
00:45:50,248 --> 00:45:52,517
You're a good boy.
892
00:45:59,457 --> 00:46:00,658
You ready, pig?
893
00:46:01,659 --> 00:46:02,660
Come on, pig.
894
00:46:05,196 --> 00:46:08,433
Such a good boy.
895
00:46:11,436 --> 00:46:13,004
It's kind of second nature
896
00:46:13,004 --> 00:46:15,340
at this point of having
all this clutter.
897
00:46:15,340 --> 00:46:17,208
I've just become
accustomed to it
898
00:46:17,208 --> 00:46:19,377
and complacent,
but it's still just
899
00:46:19,377 --> 00:46:20,879
kind of mentally exhausting
900
00:46:20,879 --> 00:46:22,347
to have so much stuff
in your house.
901
00:46:22,347 --> 00:46:23,414
I'm pretty much just like
902
00:46:23,414 --> 00:46:25,716
a hermit in my room.
903
00:46:25,716 --> 00:46:28,887
Because I'm working from home
and gaming all the time,
904
00:46:28,887 --> 00:46:30,856
I've spent a lot of time
on the computer.
905
00:46:32,958 --> 00:46:34,759
What's up,
Mr. Clayton? How you doing?
906
00:46:34,860 --> 00:46:36,227
Trying to play
the game or what?
907
00:46:36,227 --> 00:46:37,462
I was thinking about killing
908
00:46:37,462 --> 00:46:38,729
some giant mole.
909
00:46:38,729 --> 00:46:40,398
Oh, that's like really
high-level stuff, bro.
910
00:46:40,398 --> 00:46:41,566
But that's
why I'm calling you, man.
911
00:46:41,566 --> 00:46:43,568
I need some help.
912
00:46:43,568 --> 00:46:46,037
Videogames have always been
a part of my life.
913
00:46:46,037 --> 00:46:48,373
The game that I played
I've been like addicted to
914
00:46:48,373 --> 00:46:50,775
since I was like
an early teenager,
915
00:46:50,876 --> 00:46:54,612
I have like over 20,000 hours
on that game, if not more.
916
00:46:54,612 --> 00:46:56,882
I quit counting
like a long time ago.
917
00:46:56,882 --> 00:47:00,886
About half my life,
I've spent so much time on it.
918
00:47:00,886 --> 00:47:02,954
Let me see if I got
the proper gear.
919
00:47:02,954 --> 00:47:05,056
Yeah, you do.
You're the highest level,
brother. Come on.
920
00:47:06,892 --> 00:47:09,127
Kameron is my best friend
of 13 years.
921
00:47:09,127 --> 00:47:11,362
We met on an online game,
922
00:47:11,362 --> 00:47:13,731
but we haven't met yet.
923
00:47:13,731 --> 00:47:15,066
I don't actually know why.
924
00:47:15,066 --> 00:47:16,902
You know,
when we were younger,
925
00:47:16,902 --> 00:47:19,170
I kind of understand
because it's been so long ago,
926
00:47:19,170 --> 00:47:20,906
but now
we're both grown adults
927
00:47:20,906 --> 00:47:22,974
and able to travel,
928
00:47:22,974 --> 00:47:25,143
I think it's just
the fact that
929
00:47:25,143 --> 00:47:27,913
given my work schedule
and, you know, general habits,
930
00:47:27,913 --> 00:47:30,648
I don't really have
too much of a social life.
931
00:47:30,648 --> 00:47:31,782
Oof.
932
00:47:32,583 --> 00:47:34,385
Oh, you got the loot? What?
933
00:47:34,385 --> 00:47:35,553
I must be stronger
than you, dude.
934
00:47:35,553 --> 00:47:37,355
You've been taking
too much time off.
935
00:47:37,355 --> 00:47:39,657
Hanging around
with that girl too much.
936
00:47:40,926 --> 00:47:42,060
Doesn't Anali get here
937
00:47:42,060 --> 00:47:43,161
in a couple of days?
938
00:47:43,161 --> 00:47:44,262
Yup.
939
00:47:44,262 --> 00:47:45,396
Time flies.
940
00:47:45,396 --> 00:47:46,531
Dude, I know.
941
00:47:46,531 --> 00:47:48,433
It's honestly crazy.
942
00:47:49,534 --> 00:47:51,769
I've got a... I've got
a strange scenario
943
00:47:51,769 --> 00:47:54,405
- I wanna run by you.
- Okay.
944
00:47:54,405 --> 00:47:57,175
I feel like I haven't told you
because it's such like a...
945
00:47:57,175 --> 00:47:59,044
It's such a weird that I...
946
00:47:59,044 --> 00:48:01,379
Whenever I think about it,
I don't even, like,
947
00:48:01,379 --> 00:48:03,814
wanna tell people. So...
948
00:48:03,814 --> 00:48:05,850
you know how me and Anali have
been together for, like,
949
00:48:05,951 --> 00:48:08,186
two-and-a-half years,
give or take?
950
00:48:08,186 --> 00:48:09,820
Right.
951
00:48:09,820 --> 00:48:12,257
So this whole entire time,
952
00:48:12,257 --> 00:48:15,426
her dad doesn't
even know I exist.
953
00:48:15,426 --> 00:48:17,662
- Like, who am I?
- Oh.
954
00:48:18,463 --> 00:48:21,799
Um, that's kind of alarming.
955
00:48:21,799 --> 00:48:25,536
Does she have a relationship
with her dad?
Does she talk to him?
956
00:48:25,536 --> 00:48:27,638
Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
She talks to him.
957
00:48:27,638 --> 00:48:29,640
Uh, he calls her, like,
958
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,043
an abnormal amount
of times per day,
959
00:48:32,043 --> 00:48:33,711
like, he will call her
literally, like,
960
00:48:33,711 --> 00:48:36,847
20 times per day.
So, they're like, you know,
961
00:48:36,847 --> 00:48:39,717
really, really close.
962
00:48:40,986 --> 00:48:43,821
I've kind of been holding off
on talking to Kameron
963
00:48:43,821 --> 00:48:46,624
about Anali
not telling her dad
964
00:48:46,624 --> 00:48:48,326
because it really sucks
feeling like
965
00:48:48,326 --> 00:48:50,361
you're being hidden, you know,
966
00:48:50,361 --> 00:48:52,863
I've had past relationships
dealing with that.
967
00:48:52,863 --> 00:48:54,399
And, you know,
I don't wanna relive that
968
00:48:54,399 --> 00:48:57,368
and I don't want
to work up insecurities
969
00:48:57,368 --> 00:48:59,070
that I may have overcome
970
00:48:59,070 --> 00:49:01,206
and now that I'm talking
about it so much,
971
00:49:01,206 --> 00:49:03,774
here they are coming back
and here I am thinking that,
972
00:49:03,774 --> 00:49:06,877
"Oh, maybe Anali's not proud
of our relationship,"
973
00:49:06,877 --> 00:49:09,147
you know, maybe she's not
proud to show me off,
974
00:49:09,147 --> 00:49:10,681
you know, I don't know
what's going on.
975
00:49:12,017 --> 00:49:15,020
You know, she has been pretty
much lying the whole time.
976
00:49:15,020 --> 00:49:17,622
Like, anytime me
and her have been together
977
00:49:17,622 --> 00:49:19,824
in, like, not her hometown,
like, say we're
978
00:49:19,824 --> 00:49:22,627
in the capital Lima in Peru,
979
00:49:22,627 --> 00:49:24,829
she was down there
for like work.
980
00:49:24,829 --> 00:49:27,465
And then she's coming
to the US in a few days.
981
00:49:27,465 --> 00:49:30,268
Oh, surprise, she's got
a job waiting for her,
982
00:49:30,268 --> 00:49:32,937
except not actually.
983
00:49:33,038 --> 00:49:36,241
Honestly, bro,
you're supposed to be
the person
984
00:49:36,241 --> 00:49:39,744
that is going to spending
the rest of your life
with her, you know?
985
00:49:39,744 --> 00:49:42,647
So what would her incentive
be to hide you?
986
00:49:42,647 --> 00:49:44,649
Um...
987
00:49:44,649 --> 00:49:46,817
her dad is just
really protective
988
00:49:46,817 --> 00:49:49,954
and he can be intense.
989
00:49:50,055 --> 00:49:51,622
That's pretty much
what she's told me
990
00:49:51,622 --> 00:49:53,458
is the reasoning.
991
00:49:53,458 --> 00:49:55,860
Dude, I think you gotta
jump on it, man.
992
00:49:55,860 --> 00:49:58,163
Get it... Get it resolved
as soon as possible.
993
00:49:58,163 --> 00:50:00,265
Because this is your
life partner, man.
994
00:50:00,265 --> 00:50:02,467
You gotta think
of every dimension,
995
00:50:02,467 --> 00:50:05,002
like, this is gonna be
your family as well.
996
00:50:06,471 --> 00:50:09,940
If Anali told her dad
about our relationship,
997
00:50:09,940 --> 00:50:13,778
I'm not 100% certain that
he would try to convince her
998
00:50:13,778 --> 00:50:16,447
not to come here,
but I'm certain enough
999
00:50:16,447 --> 00:50:19,217
that I would not wanna risk
that whatsoever.
1000
00:50:19,217 --> 00:50:22,120
It's been such a long process
to get her here
1001
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,021
dealing with this
long immigration,
1002
00:50:24,021 --> 00:50:25,623
you know, high cost,
1003
00:50:25,623 --> 00:50:28,126
language barriers,
all kinds of stuff.
1004
00:50:28,126 --> 00:50:30,361
I just don't wanna risk that.
1005
00:50:30,361 --> 00:50:33,298
I think it's going
to be essential
1006
00:50:33,298 --> 00:50:36,201
that this happens
before the marriage.
1007
00:50:36,201 --> 00:50:38,236
So just keep
that in mind, bro.
1008
00:50:38,236 --> 00:50:39,670
But at the same time,
1009
00:50:39,670 --> 00:50:41,372
sometimes the thought of her,
1010
00:50:41,372 --> 00:50:44,075
like, so easily lying
to her family for years
1011
00:50:44,075 --> 00:50:45,543
kinda makes me wonder
1012
00:50:45,543 --> 00:50:47,512
would she lie
to me for years,
1013
00:50:47,512 --> 00:50:49,380
what would she lie about?
1014
00:50:49,380 --> 00:50:50,981
I don't really wanna
fill my mind
1015
00:50:50,981 --> 00:50:52,750
with these negative thoughts.
1016
00:50:52,750 --> 00:50:54,852
I kinda wanna
just take her word
1017
00:50:54,852 --> 00:50:57,522
at face value and just,
you know, give it time.
1018
00:50:57,522 --> 00:51:01,292
But that kind of is my nature,
I do overthink sometimes.
1019
00:51:10,868 --> 00:51:13,738
My plan is to bring
my kids here
1020
00:51:13,738 --> 00:51:17,208
once I'm sure that Gino
and I are gonna make it.
1021
00:51:17,808 --> 00:51:18,643
What's wrong?
1022
00:51:40,598 --> 00:51:41,932
Thank you.
1023
00:51:41,932 --> 00:51:43,168
- Hi.
- Hi.
1024
00:51:43,168 --> 00:51:45,236
Can I help you guys
find anything today?
1025
00:51:45,236 --> 00:51:47,805
Actually we're looking for...
1026
00:51:47,805 --> 00:51:49,940
The sheets, like, in bedding.
1027
00:51:49,940 --> 00:51:51,876
Sheets, pillows,
or anything like this.
1028
00:51:51,876 --> 00:51:53,578
It'll be in the back
of the store,
1029
00:51:53,578 --> 00:51:55,079
- back over here to the right.
- Okay. Awesome.
1030
00:52:01,186 --> 00:52:02,720
Thank you.
1031
00:52:02,720 --> 00:52:03,821
Oh.
1032
00:52:04,589 --> 00:52:06,191
I'm doing my best
1033
00:52:06,191 --> 00:52:08,659
to turn things around
from last night.
1034
00:52:08,659 --> 00:52:10,561
She has this
allergic reaction.
1035
00:52:10,561 --> 00:52:13,364
But she's feeling
much better today
1036
00:52:13,364 --> 00:52:15,300
now that I've taken her
to urgent care
1037
00:52:15,300 --> 00:52:18,469
and she's gotten a couple
of really potent shots
1038
00:52:18,469 --> 00:52:20,805
that helped with her hives.
1039
00:52:20,805 --> 00:52:24,008
Thank goodness they did
because otherwise
1040
00:52:24,008 --> 00:52:26,844
she's gonna kill me.
1041
00:52:26,844 --> 00:52:28,746
You know,
I would like to ask you
1042
00:52:28,746 --> 00:52:30,748
since you might be
familiar with it.
1043
00:52:37,422 --> 00:52:40,024
I replace mine
about every six months.
1044
00:52:40,024 --> 00:52:41,526
- Every six months, right?
- Yeah.
1045
00:52:41,526 --> 00:52:44,229
- They... It's like they get...
- Twice a year is...
1046
00:52:44,229 --> 00:52:46,531
Yeah, for me, personally,
that's what I do.
1047
00:52:46,531 --> 00:52:48,533
Yeah,
that's my preference.
1048
00:52:48,533 --> 00:52:50,235
- Yeah. So I just wanted
to make sure...
- Absolutely.
1049
00:52:50,235 --> 00:52:52,603
...you, as an American person,
1050
00:52:52,603 --> 00:52:55,773
to give me an outlook
because my fiancee
1051
00:52:55,773 --> 00:52:58,243
differs from that way,
you know?
1052
00:52:58,243 --> 00:52:59,844
- Absolutely.
- They think that pillows
1053
00:52:59,844 --> 00:53:01,712
are everlasting.
1054
00:53:01,712 --> 00:53:04,415
For me, it's more like
once every six years.
1055
00:53:04,415 --> 00:53:06,351
Instead of six.
1056
00:53:06,351 --> 00:53:08,319
So six months
versus six years.
1057
00:53:09,987 --> 00:53:12,523
Thank you so much.
I appreciate it.
1058
00:53:12,523 --> 00:53:14,425
Please let me know
if I can help you.
1059
00:53:14,425 --> 00:53:15,926
- Thank you so, so much.
- Thanks.
1060
00:53:15,926 --> 00:53:17,161
Excuse me
if I can help.
1061
00:53:17,262 --> 00:53:18,263
Yeah.
1062
00:53:20,030 --> 00:53:23,634
Baby, look at this. So cute.
1063
00:53:25,636 --> 00:53:26,637
- These are...
- Soccer.
1064
00:53:26,637 --> 00:53:28,639
Soccer. You know who?
1065
00:53:28,639 --> 00:53:30,641
- For Juance, baby.
- That's nice.
1066
00:53:30,641 --> 00:53:32,377
You know, that--
that's his dream,
1067
00:53:32,377 --> 00:53:34,479
he wants to be
a soccer player.
1068
00:53:34,479 --> 00:53:37,848
He's taken classes
and all that. He's good at it.
1069
00:53:37,848 --> 00:53:40,785
His birthday is coming
and it's the first birthday
1070
00:53:40,785 --> 00:53:43,488
- I won't be with him ever.
- Yeah.
1071
00:53:43,488 --> 00:53:46,724
- That's a tough one
for both of us.
- Yeah. We can show him that.
1072
00:53:46,724 --> 00:53:47,725
Right?
1073
00:53:49,394 --> 00:53:51,396
My K-1 visa was just for me,
1074
00:53:51,396 --> 00:53:53,898
so I had to leave my sons,
1075
00:53:53,898 --> 00:53:57,067
JC and Juance,
with my family in Panama.
1076
00:53:57,067 --> 00:54:00,471
But my plan is to bring
my kids here
1077
00:54:00,471 --> 00:54:02,307
once I'm settled and sure
1078
00:54:02,307 --> 00:54:04,609
that Gino and I
are gonna make it.
1079
00:54:06,411 --> 00:54:09,046
And I know that
no material things
1080
00:54:09,046 --> 00:54:10,615
will ever replace...
1081
00:54:12,583 --> 00:54:14,151
- me.
- True.
1082
00:54:14,151 --> 00:54:16,954
Or the fact that I'm not
gonna be with him, but...
1083
00:54:18,589 --> 00:54:20,791
I want him to feel like
1084
00:54:20,791 --> 00:54:23,794
I'm with him even though
I'm not physically there.
1085
00:54:23,794 --> 00:54:27,031
I mean, I know you can't
be there this time, but...
1086
00:54:31,569 --> 00:54:33,338
The good news is eventually
1087
00:54:33,338 --> 00:54:35,406
we should be able
to bring him here, right?
1088
00:54:35,406 --> 00:54:36,607
Right.
1089
00:54:36,607 --> 00:54:38,809
So that's positive.
1090
00:54:45,215 --> 00:54:46,884
What's wrong?
1091
00:54:51,121 --> 00:54:53,424
I feel bad because...
1092
00:54:53,424 --> 00:54:56,461
you never...
You can never take time back.
1093
00:54:58,363 --> 00:55:00,665
And I'm scared, I don't know
if this visa thing
1094
00:55:00,665 --> 00:55:03,133
is gonna take,
I don't know how long
1095
00:55:03,133 --> 00:55:05,403
and if Juance gets impatient
1096
00:55:05,403 --> 00:55:08,272
or starts to believe that...
1097
00:55:08,373 --> 00:55:10,408
that I abandoned him.
1098
00:55:10,408 --> 00:55:12,910
I don't wanna cause
any trauma on him.
1099
00:55:22,787 --> 00:55:25,890
Don't...
You don't have to cry.
1100
00:55:25,890 --> 00:55:26,957
It's okay.
1101
00:55:32,597 --> 00:55:34,264
No, you're a good mom.
1102
00:55:35,132 --> 00:55:36,467
You've always been. Everything...
1103
00:55:36,467 --> 00:55:39,136
I... I've seen in Panama.
1104
00:55:41,806 --> 00:55:43,908
It's a huge sacrifice
for Jasmine
1105
00:55:43,908 --> 00:55:47,044
to come to United States and,
1106
00:55:47,044 --> 00:55:50,481
you know, give up
being around her kids
1107
00:55:50,481 --> 00:55:52,883
and separated from her family,
1108
00:55:52,883 --> 00:55:55,420
her children, her friends.
1109
00:55:55,420 --> 00:55:58,088
Um, all of that.
1110
00:55:58,088 --> 00:56:02,292
You know, she did all of that
to come here for me.
1111
00:56:02,292 --> 00:56:05,162
Um, that's true love.
1112
00:56:05,162 --> 00:56:07,331
Things will get better soon,
you know?
1113
00:56:07,432 --> 00:56:08,433
I promise.
1114
00:56:10,501 --> 00:56:12,336
Thank you, baby.
1115
00:56:12,437 --> 00:56:14,439
Baby, let's video chat Juance
1116
00:56:14,439 --> 00:56:17,875
and we can show him
some of the toys and stuff.
1117
00:56:17,875 --> 00:56:20,210
Absolutely.
Yeah. Let's call Juance.
1118
00:56:25,516 --> 00:56:27,251
Juance.
1119
00:56:28,252 --> 00:56:31,255
Juance.
1120
00:56:32,256 --> 00:56:33,357
Hey.
1121
00:56:41,599 --> 00:56:43,868
Mmm-hmm.
1122
00:56:47,204 --> 00:56:49,106
That's Portuguese.
1123
00:56:49,106 --> 00:56:51,542
- Oh. Sorry.
- Muy bien. Spanish.
1124
00:56:53,611 --> 00:56:56,080
Freaking gringo.
1125
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:57,482
I love it.
1126
00:57:10,027 --> 00:57:11,161
Yes, yes.
1127
00:57:21,138 --> 00:57:22,106
Okay.
1128
00:57:43,060 --> 00:57:45,830
- Woo!
- Woo!
1129
00:58:02,346 --> 00:58:03,981
I think he was happy.
1130
00:58:04,615 --> 00:58:05,883
I think so, yeah.
1131
00:58:05,883 --> 00:58:07,552
So sweet.
1132
00:58:07,552 --> 00:58:09,319
I feel super happy,
1133
00:58:09,319 --> 00:58:11,556
super excited
about the K-2 visa
1134
00:58:11,556 --> 00:58:12,823
for my children.
1135
00:58:12,823 --> 00:58:14,091
But at the same time,
1136
00:58:14,091 --> 00:58:15,793
I cannot stop being worried
1137
00:58:15,793 --> 00:58:18,896
because I'm scared
of something happening
1138
00:58:18,896 --> 00:58:21,098
and it delaying the process.
1139
00:58:21,098 --> 00:58:22,567
Okay, Papa Gino.
1140
00:58:22,567 --> 00:58:24,569
Let's go to pay.
1141
00:58:24,569 --> 00:58:27,605
I'm trying to fight again
negative thoughts,
1142
00:58:27,605 --> 00:58:30,575
but, you know,
it's a fear that is tangible
1143
00:58:30,575 --> 00:58:34,078
and I cannot avoid feeling it.
1144
00:58:34,078 --> 00:58:37,314
Would you mind checking
the price on this pillow?
1145
00:58:37,314 --> 00:58:39,149
I couldn't find anything
on here except the bar code.
1146
00:58:39,149 --> 00:58:41,118
Wait a minute.
Let me say a little prayer.
1147
00:58:41,118 --> 00:58:42,787
12.99.
1148
00:58:42,787 --> 00:58:44,421
- 12.99?
- 12--
1149
00:58:44,421 --> 00:58:47,191
I bought these pillows
for $100 in Panama.
1150
00:58:47,858 --> 00:58:48,959
So we'll take both.
1151
00:58:48,959 --> 00:58:51,261
Oh, my gosh.
1152
00:58:51,261 --> 00:58:54,765
This is an historical event.
1153
00:58:54,765 --> 00:58:56,734
One time every six years.
1154
00:59:00,170 --> 00:59:02,306
You met her
on the friend side of the app?
1155
00:59:02,306 --> 00:59:03,774
Yeah.
1156
00:59:03,774 --> 00:59:06,243
I do know that, like,
I probably should tell Rob
1157
00:59:06,243 --> 00:59:07,244
that I'm bisexual.
1158
00:59:07,244 --> 00:59:09,179
I've just been
putting it off for a bit.
1159
00:59:09,179 --> 00:59:11,081
So you're not into girls?
1160
00:59:15,052 --> 00:59:17,454
Today is kind of big day.
1161
00:59:19,657 --> 00:59:22,627
I think that this is
gonna be a train wreck.
1162
00:59:22,627 --> 00:59:24,528
I don't know what we'll do
1163
00:59:24,629 --> 00:59:26,063
if Nick's
parents don't accept
1164
00:59:26,063 --> 00:59:27,632
the differences between us.
1165
00:59:43,313 --> 00:59:44,949
♪ Show me ♪
1166
00:59:44,949 --> 00:59:47,017
♪ Where we'll be tomorrow ♪
1167
00:59:47,017 --> 00:59:51,221
♪ And I'll be there
In a heartbeat ♪
1168
00:59:51,221 --> 00:59:52,456
My friend Soraya is coming.
1169
00:59:52,456 --> 00:59:53,724
Oh, where'd you meet
that friend?
1170
00:59:57,261 --> 00:59:58,829
If you're on
a dating app
1171
00:59:58,829 --> 01:00:00,330
and you're
meeting other girls,
1172
01:00:00,330 --> 01:00:01,398
I would think
that you're into girls
1173
01:00:01,398 --> 01:00:02,399
or something like that.
1174
01:00:02,399 --> 01:00:03,834
Uh, I think
she's been avoiding
1175
01:00:03,834 --> 01:00:05,035
all the tough questions,
1176
01:00:05,035 --> 01:00:06,403
she doesn't wanna answer
any other questions
1177
01:00:06,403 --> 01:00:07,905
that I have for her.
1178
01:00:07,905 --> 01:00:09,807
In my experience
with dating apps,
1179
01:00:09,807 --> 01:00:11,308
is you're on there to date,
1180
01:00:11,308 --> 01:00:12,576
uh, you know,
I don't know too much
1181
01:00:12,576 --> 01:00:13,577
about making friends,
1182
01:00:13,577 --> 01:00:14,578
I don't know
if that's a good vibe.
1183
01:00:14,578 --> 01:00:15,880
I mean, there's like
a best friend mode.
1184
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,347
- Oh, really?
- Yeah.
1185
01:00:17,347 --> 01:00:18,382
You met Soraya
on that same app, right?
1186
01:00:18,382 --> 01:00:19,383
I met her on the app.
And she was...
1187
01:00:19,383 --> 01:00:20,484
- Okay.
- ...on the friend side...
1188
01:00:20,484 --> 01:00:21,418
- Okay. So she's--
- ...as well.
1189
01:00:21,418 --> 01:00:22,753
So when I meet her,
she's gonna say,
1190
01:00:22,753 --> 01:00:23,888
"Hey, I met her
on this dating app, right?"
1191
01:00:23,888 --> 01:00:25,756
- Yes, yes, yes.
- Okay. Okay, okay, all right.
1192
01:00:25,756 --> 01:00:27,224
My fault, my fault.
I'm just saying.
1193
01:00:28,926 --> 01:00:31,028
I feel like
I'm getting the truth,
but you never know.
1194
01:00:31,028 --> 01:00:34,665
I mean, women are capable
of anything, you know.
1195
01:00:34,665 --> 01:00:36,834
Take it from me, I know
from personal experience.
1196
01:00:39,236 --> 01:00:41,205
but I really don't know,
I can't tell,
1197
01:00:41,205 --> 01:00:42,406
I can't call it right now.
1198
01:00:42,406 --> 01:00:43,640
I don't know what's going on.
1199
01:00:44,408 --> 01:00:45,275
Ain't that your girl
over there?
1200
01:00:45,275 --> 01:00:46,276
Oh.
1201
01:00:47,277 --> 01:00:48,412
- Hey!
- Hey.
1202
01:00:48,412 --> 01:00:49,446
- Oh, my gosh. How are you?
- Oh, my gosh.
1203
01:00:49,446 --> 01:00:50,881
- It's so good to see you.
- Oh, my God. You, too.
1204
01:00:50,881 --> 01:00:52,049
- You look nice.
- You're so blonde.
1205
01:00:52,049 --> 01:00:53,583
So are you!
1206
01:00:53,583 --> 01:00:54,719
My name is Soraya.
1207
01:00:54,719 --> 01:00:56,420
I've known Sophie
for about two years.
1208
01:00:56,420 --> 01:00:58,723
Um, she's great, love her.
1209
01:00:58,723 --> 01:00:59,957
Whenever she comes into town,
1210
01:00:59,957 --> 01:01:01,759
of course we like to go
have a good time,
1211
01:01:01,759 --> 01:01:03,027
so I'm excited.
1212
01:01:03,027 --> 01:01:04,194
- Tor'i.
- Nice to meet you.
1213
01:01:04,194 --> 01:01:05,362
Good to meet you, too.
- Tor'i.
1214
01:01:05,362 --> 01:01:06,363
Hi.
1215
01:01:06,363 --> 01:01:07,998
- Good to see you.
- Hi.
1216
01:01:09,233 --> 01:01:10,134
Hey!
1217
01:01:10,134 --> 01:01:11,635
Oh, my God.
1218
01:01:11,736 --> 01:01:13,037
I know. What can I say?
1219
01:01:13,037 --> 01:01:14,739
I'm so ready for a drink.
Let's go inside.
1220
01:01:14,739 --> 01:01:15,740
Okay.
Let's get in line, then.
1221
01:01:15,740 --> 01:01:16,874
- Come on.
- Okay.
1222
01:01:16,874 --> 01:01:18,508
Excuse us, excuse us.
1223
01:01:27,417 --> 01:01:29,153
That's the shot?
1224
01:01:29,153 --> 01:01:30,654
- Yeah.
- Why is it so big?
1225
01:01:30,755 --> 01:01:32,356
To love, to friends,
1226
01:01:32,356 --> 01:01:33,758
to a great night,
1227
01:01:33,758 --> 01:01:35,292
and let's just
enjoy ourselves.
1228
01:01:35,292 --> 01:01:36,593
Cheers to that.
1229
01:01:37,194 --> 01:01:38,395
Oh, my God.
1230
01:01:39,163 --> 01:01:40,664
We got this, ma'am. Perfect.
1231
01:01:40,765 --> 01:01:41,799
Confirm something for me.
1232
01:01:41,799 --> 01:01:44,134
You met her on
the friend side of the app?
1233
01:01:44,134 --> 01:01:45,169
Yeah.
1234
01:01:45,169 --> 01:01:47,071
Like, there's a friends
and then there's a...
1235
01:01:47,071 --> 01:01:48,005
- I met her...
- ...dating side?
1236
01:01:48,005 --> 01:01:48,906
...on the friends side
of the app.
1237
01:01:48,906 --> 01:01:50,140
You met her on the dating...
1238
01:01:50,140 --> 01:01:51,541
- On the friend side?
- On the friend side.
1239
01:01:51,541 --> 01:01:52,676
So you're not into girls?
1240
01:01:53,878 --> 01:01:55,045
No. I wouldn't even look...
1241
01:01:55,045 --> 01:01:56,380
Okay. I just wanna make sure.
1242
01:02:00,250 --> 01:02:02,186
That was
a super awkward
moment because
1243
01:02:02,186 --> 01:02:03,788
Soraya doesn't know,
Tor'i doesn't know,
1244
01:02:03,788 --> 01:02:05,956
Rob doesn't know that I'm bi.
1245
01:02:07,424 --> 01:02:08,625
- No, I'm...
- Okay. I just wanna make sure.
1246
01:02:08,625 --> 01:02:09,927
...we were looking
for friends...
1247
01:02:09,927 --> 01:02:12,296
- Right. Genuine friendship.
- ...in LA.
1248
01:02:12,296 --> 01:02:15,132
- We made a great friendship.
- We have a great friendship.
1249
01:02:15,132 --> 01:02:16,133
It's like,
I'm gonna lie
1250
01:02:16,133 --> 01:02:17,634
because I'm not gonna
come out right now
1251
01:02:17,634 --> 01:02:20,237
in front of three people,
um, but yeah, no.
1252
01:02:20,237 --> 01:02:21,171
I was on the friend...
1253
01:02:21,171 --> 01:02:22,506
I was on the app
for friends, though.
1254
01:02:22,506 --> 01:02:24,508
I wasn't on it for women also
1255
01:02:24,508 --> 01:02:25,943
at that time, you know.
1256
01:02:29,579 --> 01:02:32,182
I guess the whole friend
dating app thing was real.
1257
01:02:32,182 --> 01:02:34,819
Uh, she is the proof,
she is the proof.
1258
01:02:36,821 --> 01:02:37,822
I was wrong.
1259
01:02:37,822 --> 01:02:38,823
See, I told you!
1260
01:02:38,823 --> 01:02:40,024
I told you.
1261
01:02:41,058 --> 01:02:43,493
That same app
that I met Soraya on,
1262
01:02:43,493 --> 01:02:45,095
I'm still on that app
to make friends
1263
01:02:45,095 --> 01:02:46,263
because I don't know
anyone out here.
1264
01:02:46,263 --> 01:02:48,165
And there's bi women
on the friend side,
1265
01:02:48,165 --> 01:02:49,633
like, you can be bi
and still...
1266
01:02:49,633 --> 01:02:51,135
Or gay even
and look for friends.
1267
01:02:51,135 --> 01:02:52,870
So it's, like,
I do have the option,
1268
01:02:52,870 --> 01:02:54,939
I guess, of asking them.
1269
01:02:54,939 --> 01:02:56,841
Well, as long as I don't do
anything to disrespect him,
1270
01:02:56,841 --> 01:02:58,909
it's like, I feel like I
should be allowed to do that.
1271
01:03:01,245 --> 01:03:03,147
We met what, what year was it?
1272
01:03:03,147 --> 01:03:05,015
- 2019.
- 2019?
1273
01:03:05,015 --> 01:03:06,183
Yeah.
1274
01:03:06,183 --> 01:03:07,852
Oh, my God, we've been
dating for two years!
1275
01:03:07,852 --> 01:03:09,586
I know!
1276
01:03:12,222 --> 01:03:13,723
See? I told you!
1277
01:03:13,723 --> 01:03:17,294
You gotta watch out.
1278
01:03:17,294 --> 01:03:18,963
But I do know that,
like, I probably
1279
01:03:18,963 --> 01:03:22,599
should tell Rob soon
that I'm bisexual.
1280
01:03:22,599 --> 01:03:24,401
I've just been
putting it off for a bit
1281
01:03:24,401 --> 01:03:26,736
because, lately,
we've been arguing so much.
1282
01:03:26,736 --> 01:03:29,573
But I think I should
probably tell him soon.
1283
01:03:59,036 --> 01:03:59,970
Hey.
1284
01:04:02,372 --> 01:04:03,307
Mmm-hmm.
1285
01:04:04,641 --> 01:04:06,343
How are you doing
with your jet lag?
1286
01:04:07,044 --> 01:04:08,345
I'm just tired.
1287
01:04:08,345 --> 01:04:09,980
- Oh, yeah?
- Mmm-hmm.
1288
01:04:09,980 --> 01:04:11,248
Sorry about this.
1289
01:04:15,986 --> 01:04:17,221
The first day in Korea
1290
01:04:17,221 --> 01:04:19,990
was good, really good.
1291
01:04:19,990 --> 01:04:22,359
Seeing Nick for,
like, the first time,
1292
01:04:22,359 --> 01:04:25,229
it's almost, like,
the two years
1293
01:04:25,229 --> 01:04:27,531
that we have been apart
kind of didn't exist.
1294
01:04:31,435 --> 01:04:32,702
Uh...
1295
01:04:35,205 --> 01:04:37,574
She was too tired, jetlagged...
1296
01:04:38,142 --> 01:04:39,309
so.
1297
01:04:52,389 --> 01:04:54,959
Today is kind of big day.
1298
01:04:56,293 --> 01:04:57,461
Are you excited?
1299
01:04:57,995 --> 01:04:59,596
I'm excited.
1300
01:04:59,596 --> 01:05:02,566
But I just packed
a bunch of clothes.
1301
01:05:02,566 --> 01:05:03,533
Mmm-hmm.
1302
01:05:03,533 --> 01:05:05,269
I was gonna have you
help me out.
1303
01:05:05,269 --> 01:05:06,736
Okay. I will help you out.
1304
01:05:21,551 --> 01:05:22,987
Show me what you got.
1305
01:05:22,987 --> 01:05:25,722
- I have this one.
- Yeah.
1306
01:05:25,722 --> 01:05:29,526
That one,
that one, and this one.
1307
01:05:30,060 --> 01:05:32,196
It's all jacket, yeah?
1308
01:05:32,196 --> 01:05:33,330
Yeah.
1309
01:05:33,330 --> 01:05:34,864
What about this?
1310
01:05:34,864 --> 01:05:36,500
- This one?
- And this?
1311
01:05:40,070 --> 01:05:41,871
Okay.
1312
01:05:41,871 --> 01:05:44,508
My parents don't know much
about Devin,
1313
01:05:44,508 --> 01:05:47,811
but when they think
of American women,
1314
01:05:47,811 --> 01:05:51,015
like, have a bunch
of one-night stands,
1315
01:05:51,015 --> 01:05:53,683
do drugs at the party,
blah, blah, blah.
1316
01:05:53,683 --> 01:05:57,021
But she doesn't do that,
so finger crossed.
1317
01:05:57,754 --> 01:05:59,923
This is gonna be
a train wreck.
1318
01:06:03,393 --> 01:06:04,461
Oh.
1319
01:06:06,030 --> 01:06:07,097
Is this enough?
1320
01:06:07,097 --> 01:06:08,365
Yeah. I like this.
1321
01:06:09,199 --> 01:06:10,934
It's good enough.
1322
01:06:11,035 --> 01:06:12,469
- Good enough or good?
- Yeah. Good enough.
1323
01:06:12,469 --> 01:06:14,171
Yeah. I think it's good, good.
1324
01:06:14,171 --> 01:06:15,272
I like this.
1325
01:06:15,272 --> 01:06:17,207
Let me get my coat, then.
1326
01:06:21,811 --> 01:06:22,712
Okay.
1327
01:06:25,449 --> 01:06:27,051
Mmm-hmm.
1328
01:06:27,051 --> 01:06:28,652
- Are you excited?
- Yeah.
1329
01:06:28,652 --> 01:06:30,287
- Okay. Let's go.
- Okay.
1330
01:06:32,222 --> 01:06:34,058
I just arrived yesterday,
1331
01:06:34,058 --> 01:06:37,194
and now I have to meet
Nick's parents.
1332
01:06:37,194 --> 01:06:39,163
I don't speak any Korean,
1333
01:06:39,163 --> 01:06:42,766
and I'm also very quiet
1334
01:06:42,766 --> 01:06:45,102
and shy and introverted,
1335
01:06:45,102 --> 01:06:48,138
so it's hard
walking into this situation,
1336
01:06:48,138 --> 01:06:50,074
knowing that I'm so different.
1337
01:06:57,281 --> 01:06:58,182
Yeah.
1338
01:06:58,182 --> 01:07:00,784
In Korea, in a big city,
1339
01:07:00,784 --> 01:07:03,553
you get huge
apartment complex.
1340
01:07:03,553 --> 01:07:05,289
Because there's
so many people.
1341
01:07:05,289 --> 01:07:06,323
Yeah.
1342
01:07:10,994 --> 01:07:11,828
No.
1343
01:07:19,002 --> 01:07:22,739
]
1344
01:07:25,242 --> 01:07:28,212
Devin meeting
my family and parents,
1345
01:07:28,212 --> 01:07:29,679
uh, makes me so nervous.
1346
01:07:55,972 --> 01:07:58,308
And without
my parents' blessing,
1347
01:07:58,308 --> 01:07:59,976
I can't go to US.
1348
01:08:01,211 --> 01:08:03,147
Is that them over there?
1349
01:08:15,459 --> 01:08:18,295
The people in our country
is narrow-minded.
1350
01:08:19,763 --> 01:08:21,064
I'm nervous.
1351
01:08:24,601 --> 01:08:26,270
Right. At the end of the day,
1352
01:08:26,270 --> 01:08:29,273
you gotta be proud
and confident of who you are
1353
01:08:29,273 --> 01:08:30,307
or who you're in love with.
1354
01:09:03,907 --> 01:09:05,742
Hello, Mommy.
1355
01:09:05,742 --> 01:09:07,110
Hi, Nicole.
1356
01:09:07,211 --> 01:09:08,044
That's so cute
on you, Nicole.
1357
01:09:08,044 --> 01:09:09,579
I like that. It's beautiful.
1358
01:09:09,579 --> 01:09:11,381
- Thank you.
- I love that color.
1359
01:09:11,381 --> 01:09:13,082
I've been thinking about you.
1360
01:09:13,617 --> 01:09:14,951
Is everything okay?
1361
01:09:16,420 --> 01:09:18,455
Yeah. Everything is good.
1362
01:09:18,455 --> 01:09:20,089
You know, Justin and I
1363
01:09:20,089 --> 01:09:22,426
are working
through some things.
1364
01:09:23,627 --> 01:09:26,830
We're still having
a little couple few issues.
1365
01:09:26,830 --> 01:09:28,298
What's been going on?
1366
01:09:30,467 --> 01:09:32,101
Honestly, Mom, like,
1367
01:09:32,101 --> 01:09:34,070
we had a conversation
1368
01:09:34,070 --> 01:09:36,240
about the lack of intimacy.
1369
01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:38,642
Because this is not
normal to me.
1370
01:09:38,642 --> 01:09:40,444
Um, Nicole...
1371
01:09:40,444 --> 01:09:43,146
did you have a civil
conversation with him?
1372
01:09:43,247 --> 01:09:45,482
Did you yell at him,
did you start screaming,
1373
01:09:45,482 --> 01:09:47,751
did you go from zero
to a hundred? What happened?
1374
01:09:47,751 --> 01:09:49,085
- Honestly, Mom...
- How was it?
1375
01:09:49,085 --> 01:09:52,689
I probably did go
from zero to a thousand.
1376
01:09:52,689 --> 01:09:55,925
I took a hormone shot
before I went on this trip
1377
01:09:55,925 --> 01:09:59,429
and I think that's what's just
making me very emotional,
1378
01:09:59,429 --> 01:10:03,166
that's what it does
to male to female trans
1379
01:10:03,267 --> 01:10:05,469
out there in this world,
and I'm trying...
1380
01:10:05,469 --> 01:10:06,536
It is.
1381
01:10:06,536 --> 01:10:07,937
...to, um, maneuver,
1382
01:10:07,937 --> 01:10:09,606
uh, through the obstacles
1383
01:10:09,606 --> 01:10:11,107
but it's very hard
1384
01:10:11,107 --> 01:10:14,110
with a very cold Russian.
1385
01:10:14,110 --> 01:10:16,446
All right. Now, I'm gonna
ask you an honest question.
1386
01:10:16,446 --> 01:10:17,447
I'm gonna ask you something.
1387
01:10:17,447 --> 01:10:18,348
Mmm-hmm.
1388
01:10:18,348 --> 01:10:20,250
And answer it
honestly, Nicole.
1389
01:10:20,984 --> 01:10:22,719
How about if you change
1390
01:10:22,719 --> 01:10:25,255
the way you behave
toward him?
1391
01:10:26,055 --> 01:10:28,625
Like, maybe be softer,
1392
01:10:28,625 --> 01:10:32,228
um, be a little bit
more patient.
1393
01:10:32,228 --> 01:10:33,997
Find another way
to speak to him,
1394
01:10:33,997 --> 01:10:37,701
not yelling and screaming,
and exploding.
1395
01:10:37,701 --> 01:10:39,436
You've even done that to me.
1396
01:10:41,871 --> 01:10:43,006
He loves you.
1397
01:10:43,006 --> 01:10:44,808
I could see it.
1398
01:10:44,808 --> 01:10:48,044
You have to understand
his side of it.
1399
01:10:48,845 --> 01:10:50,747
How he was thinking,
1400
01:10:50,747 --> 01:10:52,081
how they're gonna accept you,
1401
01:10:52,081 --> 01:10:53,417
is his mother
gonna accept you,
1402
01:10:53,417 --> 01:10:54,851
is his stepfather
gonna accept you?
1403
01:10:54,851 --> 01:10:56,853
My friends,
I gotta tell my friends.
1404
01:10:56,853 --> 01:10:59,022
Let him... Let him adjust.
1405
01:10:59,022 --> 01:11:00,657
This is big for him.
1406
01:11:00,657 --> 01:11:04,394
He's still adjusting, I think.
1407
01:11:07,797 --> 01:11:10,334
My mother gives me this advice
1408
01:11:10,334 --> 01:11:14,504
to calm my temper,
so I'm going to take it.
1409
01:11:15,372 --> 01:11:17,341
I wanna enjoy
my time with Justin,
1410
01:11:17,341 --> 01:11:19,943
I don't wanna be
fighting and arguing.
1411
01:11:19,943 --> 01:11:22,346
I wanna actually
just enjoy my time with him
1412
01:11:22,346 --> 01:11:24,180
because I do love him so much.
1413
01:11:25,181 --> 01:11:26,916
I think
that he really wants
1414
01:11:26,916 --> 01:11:27,917
to make it work, Nicole.
1415
01:11:27,917 --> 01:11:29,085
I know.
1416
01:11:29,085 --> 01:11:30,454
Be careful, okay?
1417
01:11:30,454 --> 01:11:31,355
- Love you.
- I love you, too.
1418
01:11:31,355 --> 01:11:32,356
- Okay. Bye-bye.
- Bye, Mom.
1419
01:11:32,356 --> 01:11:33,357
Love you. Bye.
1420
01:11:46,903 --> 01:11:48,204
Where are we going?
1421
01:11:48,204 --> 01:11:50,607
One place that's simple,
1422
01:11:50,607 --> 01:11:52,208
but I think you'll love it.
1423
01:11:53,677 --> 01:11:55,679
Even though Justin knows
how to push my buttons
1424
01:11:55,679 --> 01:11:57,514
and get on my last nerve,
1425
01:11:57,514 --> 01:12:01,017
I do know how to calm down
and forgive him.
1426
01:12:01,017 --> 01:12:02,652
It might take five minutes,
1427
01:12:02,652 --> 01:12:04,921
ten minutes, a half hour.
1428
01:12:04,921 --> 01:12:07,557
He's charismatic,
he's charming.
1429
01:12:07,557 --> 01:12:10,727
Um, and I know him
1430
01:12:10,727 --> 01:12:12,929
for such a long time,
you know.
1431
01:12:12,929 --> 01:12:17,066
So I feel like a level
of comfortability with him
1432
01:12:17,066 --> 01:12:20,437
that I have never felt
with anyone else.
1433
01:12:20,437 --> 01:12:21,805
Yes, sir.
1434
01:12:26,643 --> 01:12:29,613
So are we going
to have a drink?
1435
01:12:30,847 --> 01:12:33,717
'Cause today's
been a very long day.
1436
01:12:33,717 --> 01:12:36,720
I don't like us
getting to that level
1437
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:37,987
of what happened at the park.
1438
01:12:37,987 --> 01:12:41,124
So let's try to work
1439
01:12:41,124 --> 01:12:44,327
like harder
on our relationship.
1440
01:12:44,428 --> 01:12:45,962
I'm gonna try
to be more patient.
1441
01:12:45,962 --> 01:12:47,831
Not go from zero
to a thousand.
1442
01:12:47,831 --> 01:12:50,166
And you're gonna try to be
a little bit more serious
1443
01:12:50,166 --> 01:12:51,535
when I'm upset.
1444
01:12:52,469 --> 01:12:53,870
Yeah, I'm working.
1445
01:12:55,872 --> 01:12:56,940
Okay.
1446
01:13:04,213 --> 01:13:05,949
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
1447
01:13:06,916 --> 01:13:07,917
Let's go.
1448
01:13:12,756 --> 01:13:14,458
Okay.
Now I understand you better.
1449
01:13:21,030 --> 01:13:23,633
What are our plans tomorrow?
1450
01:13:26,803 --> 01:13:28,271
- Yes.
- Yeah.
1451
01:13:28,271 --> 01:13:29,639
So tomorrow you wanna
go to the gym?
1452
01:13:30,474 --> 01:13:32,175
Yeah. In the morning time,
1453
01:13:32,175 --> 01:13:35,111
I think, maybe
when you were asleep.
1454
01:13:35,812 --> 01:13:37,046
No, I'll wake up.
1455
01:13:37,046 --> 01:13:38,247
We can go to the gym together
1456
01:13:38,247 --> 01:13:40,316
and we can work out together.
1457
01:13:40,984 --> 01:13:42,486
I will think about it.
1458
01:13:47,891 --> 01:13:50,226
Better for people
1459
01:13:50,226 --> 01:13:52,361
who comes
from another country.
1460
01:13:52,361 --> 01:13:53,797
Why would it be better for me
1461
01:13:53,797 --> 01:13:55,364
than the gym
that you've been going to
1462
01:13:55,364 --> 01:13:56,933
that you don't want me
going to?
1463
01:13:58,001 --> 01:14:01,505
Some of the gym
have the ceiling down.
1464
01:14:02,105 --> 01:14:02,972
Low?
1465
01:14:02,972 --> 01:14:04,107
- Low.
- Low ceiling? Okay.
1466
01:14:04,107 --> 01:14:05,709
- Low, yeah.
- Okay.
1467
01:14:05,709 --> 01:14:06,943
- So the gym...
- Some of them--
1468
01:14:06,943 --> 01:14:08,211
...the other gym that you're
going usually goes--
1469
01:14:08,211 --> 01:14:09,913
Bigger. Bigger, yes.
1470
01:14:11,981 --> 01:14:13,517
I'm going to the...
1471
01:14:13,517 --> 01:14:14,918
- Smaller gym.
- ...small.
1472
01:14:17,887 --> 01:14:19,889
So I know your gym
is smaller, low ceilings.
1473
01:14:19,889 --> 01:14:21,057
Okay. Great.
1474
01:14:21,057 --> 01:14:22,526
But I think the real reason
1475
01:14:22,526 --> 01:14:24,694
is more that...
1476
01:14:25,929 --> 01:14:27,396
I think you know
a lot of people there
1477
01:14:28,364 --> 01:14:32,536
and you don't want them
to talk.
1478
01:14:32,536 --> 01:14:34,904
Uh, this is not the reason.
1479
01:14:36,039 --> 01:14:40,343
And the reason is
I found the best gym
1480
01:14:40,343 --> 01:14:43,680
for people who come
from another countries.
1481
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:47,617
And there,
you feel more comfortable.
1482
01:14:48,618 --> 01:14:51,054
What is this, the LGBTXYZ gym?
1483
01:14:52,421 --> 01:14:56,560
Baby, I changed my sex.
1484
01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:58,027
I changed who I was.
1485
01:14:58,027 --> 01:14:59,829
I didn't care
what anybody thought.
1486
01:14:59,829 --> 01:15:01,565
I, still to this day,
1487
01:15:01,565 --> 01:15:02,966
walk with my head held high.
1488
01:15:04,100 --> 01:15:05,201
At the end of the day,
1489
01:15:05,201 --> 01:15:06,670
people are gonna say
whatever they're gonna say.
1490
01:15:06,670 --> 01:15:08,572
They're gonna think
whatever they're gonna think.
1491
01:15:08,572 --> 01:15:10,874
You can't change
people's minds in this world,
1492
01:15:12,008 --> 01:15:14,010
but you gotta be proud
and confident
1493
01:15:14,010 --> 01:15:16,145
of who you are
or who you're in love with
1494
01:15:16,145 --> 01:15:17,180
or who you're dating.
1495
01:15:17,180 --> 01:15:19,115
Let's drink for this.
1496
01:15:25,188 --> 01:15:26,489
- Hmm.
- But listen...
1497
01:15:30,226 --> 01:15:31,661
Oh, my God.
1498
01:15:33,730 --> 01:15:37,166
The people over there,
literally, I just got clocked.
1499
01:15:37,734 --> 01:15:40,704
I said how I was born
1500
01:15:40,704 --> 01:15:42,338
and the people over there
at the table...
1501
01:15:43,807 --> 01:15:45,141
Really?
1502
01:15:46,309 --> 01:15:48,211
Do you think, uh,
they hear us?
1503
01:15:48,211 --> 01:15:50,346
Of course they hear us.
1504
01:15:50,346 --> 01:15:51,380
And understand the language?
1505
01:15:51,380 --> 01:15:53,717
They understand clearly.
1506
01:15:57,153 --> 01:15:58,187
Right.
1507
01:15:58,187 --> 01:16:00,223
Listen, I know how
this close-minded country is.
1508
01:16:00,223 --> 01:16:01,424
Okay. I get it.
1509
01:16:05,695 --> 01:16:07,130
Oh, that looks amazing.
1510
01:16:09,198 --> 01:16:10,934
The people in our country
1511
01:16:10,934 --> 01:16:12,135
is different culture,
1512
01:16:12,135 --> 01:16:14,638
and on some things like that,
1513
01:16:14,638 --> 01:16:18,041
trans, gay, and lesbian,
1514
01:16:18,041 --> 01:16:21,410
think like narrow-minded.
1515
01:16:21,410 --> 01:16:23,279
And this is very sad for me.
1516
01:16:30,920 --> 01:16:34,257
But I'm nervous.
1517
01:16:38,527 --> 01:16:40,730
What you're doing
is standing up
1518
01:16:40,730 --> 01:16:42,666
and showing the world
that you love me,
1519
01:16:42,666 --> 01:16:44,834
regardless of what
anybody thinks.
1520
01:16:44,834 --> 01:16:46,235
That's what matters
the most to me.
1521
01:16:46,235 --> 01:16:47,503
Okay, stop.
1522
01:16:50,339 --> 01:16:51,340
What?
1523
01:16:52,341 --> 01:16:53,276
Aw.
1524
01:16:55,979 --> 01:17:00,183
I hope that Nikki,
1525
01:17:00,183 --> 01:17:02,185
with my choice,
1526
01:17:03,152 --> 01:17:05,221
we open more doors
1527
01:17:05,221 --> 01:17:07,891
and more friends
in the future,
1528
01:17:07,891 --> 01:17:10,126
people more open-minded.
1529
01:17:11,728 --> 01:17:16,165
Let's drink for our
new steps in our life.
1530
01:17:16,165 --> 01:17:20,003
And some of those new steps
is having more sex, so cheers.
1531
01:17:20,003 --> 01:17:22,405
Yeah.
1532
01:17:22,405 --> 01:17:25,709
I see Justin's getting
a little bit more
comfortable with me
1533
01:17:25,709 --> 01:17:27,243
being with him in public,
1534
01:17:27,243 --> 01:17:29,545
and that's all cool,
fine and dandy,
1535
01:17:29,545 --> 01:17:32,916
but we need to get
a little bit more,
1536
01:17:32,916 --> 01:17:35,284
like, you know, sexy.
1537
01:17:35,284 --> 01:17:38,888
So I wanna work on that.
1538
01:17:38,888 --> 01:17:42,458
Let's finish our wine
and let's get out of here
1539
01:17:42,458 --> 01:17:45,461
because my
is neglected
1540
01:17:45,461 --> 01:17:46,629
and she needs to eat.
1541
01:17:51,735 --> 01:17:53,636
I just checked his phone.
I never check his phone,
1542
01:17:53,737 --> 01:17:55,104
but I was, like,
"Let me just check."
1543
01:17:55,104 --> 01:17:56,740
And then I went
on this one app
1544
01:17:56,740 --> 01:17:58,241
and, like,
the videos are disgusting...
1545
01:18:00,309 --> 01:18:01,544
I'm not perfect,
1546
01:18:01,544 --> 01:18:03,312
but I'm definitely not trying
1547
01:18:03,312 --> 01:18:05,214
to [bleep] be with nobody else
but you.
1548
01:18:05,214 --> 01:18:07,450
I just want you.
I want you in my life.
1549
01:18:07,450 --> 01:18:09,786
It's just a lot. And I just...
He's disgusting right now
1550
01:18:09,786 --> 01:18:12,055
and I just don't wanna be,
like, anywhere near him.
1551
01:18:51,060 --> 01:18:54,030
Um, I just wanted to
get away from, like, Rob
1552
01:18:54,030 --> 01:18:55,799
and his house, and his dog,
1553
01:18:55,799 --> 01:18:57,934
and his whole life basically.
1554
01:18:57,934 --> 01:18:59,635
So I've just
come here to, like,
1555
01:18:59,635 --> 01:19:01,670
get away from him
and have some space.
1556
01:19:06,910 --> 01:19:09,145
Basically...
1557
01:19:10,646 --> 01:19:12,816
Um, so basically
what happened was,
1558
01:19:12,816 --> 01:19:14,818
I had a dream
the night before, right,
1559
01:19:14,818 --> 01:19:17,253
that Rob online cheated on me.
1560
01:19:17,253 --> 01:19:19,555
So the next day,
I just checked his phone.
1561
01:19:19,555 --> 01:19:21,057
I never check his phone,
but I was like,
1562
01:19:21,057 --> 01:19:23,592
"Let me just check, because I
had a dream about it."
1563
01:19:23,592 --> 01:19:25,428
I went on his Instagram,
didn't find anything,
1564
01:19:25,428 --> 01:19:28,197
and then I went on this
one app and, like, basically
1565
01:19:28,197 --> 01:19:29,532
he's been getting, like,
1566
01:19:29,532 --> 01:19:32,401
disgusting videos
from other women
1567
01:19:32,401 --> 01:19:34,570
and, like, asking
for just, like, news
1568
01:19:34,570 --> 01:19:36,906
and, like,
the videos are disgusting
1569
01:19:36,906 --> 01:19:38,574
and he's, like,
entertaining it.
1570
01:19:38,574 --> 01:19:40,276
And I was just like,
"I found the videos,"
1571
01:19:40,276 --> 01:19:41,444
and then I was just like,
"You need to drop me off.
1572
01:19:41,444 --> 01:19:42,545
I didn't even
wanna talk to you."
1573
01:19:42,545 --> 01:19:44,848
Like, I just left.
1574
01:19:44,848 --> 01:19:46,582
I just had to leave.
I was packing my stuff.
1575
01:19:46,582 --> 01:19:48,284
He was trying to stop me.
1576
01:19:48,284 --> 01:19:49,886
Like, I just took
what I could
1577
01:19:49,886 --> 01:19:51,654
and I [bleep] left.
I threw the ring.
1578
01:19:51,654 --> 01:19:52,588
I don't even have
the ring anymore.
1579
01:19:52,588 --> 01:19:53,589
I threw the ring.
1580
01:19:53,589 --> 01:19:55,358
So yeah,
right now [bleep] him.
1581
01:20:03,132 --> 01:20:04,333
I've been trying
to be perfect,
1582
01:20:04,333 --> 01:20:05,969
but I'm not perfect, man.
1583
01:20:05,969 --> 01:20:07,270
I'm not like...
1584
01:20:08,337 --> 01:20:09,572
I'm not perfect,
1585
01:20:09,572 --> 01:20:11,307
but I'm definitely not trying
1586
01:20:11,307 --> 01:20:13,242
to [bleep] be with nobody else
but you.
1587
01:20:13,242 --> 01:20:15,444
I just want you.
I want you in my life.
1588
01:20:15,444 --> 01:20:17,313
I don't want
nobody else, baby.
1589
01:20:17,313 --> 01:20:19,348
Explain all the messages.
I saw the messages.
1590
01:20:19,348 --> 01:20:20,616
Even the ones
that you didn't save,
1591
01:20:20,616 --> 01:20:22,151
I've seen them, Rob.
1592
01:20:22,151 --> 01:20:23,652
So I don't care
what you keep saying.
1593
01:20:23,652 --> 01:20:24,653
It doesn't mean
anything to me.
1594
01:20:24,653 --> 01:20:26,055
You're such a liar.
1595
01:20:28,391 --> 01:20:30,493
No wonder he never asked me
for sexual videos.
1596
01:20:30,493 --> 01:20:32,528
He's getting them from, like,
I don't know how many girls.
1597
01:20:34,030 --> 01:20:36,265
It's just a lot. And I just...
He's disgusting right now
1598
01:20:36,265 --> 01:20:38,067
and I just don't wanna be,
like, anywhere near him.
1599
01:20:41,804 --> 01:20:44,440
No one wants to see
their partner, you know,
1600
01:20:44,440 --> 01:20:46,642
get turned on for anyone
other than them.
1601
01:20:46,642 --> 01:20:49,045
If you're getting pictures
from another person
1602
01:20:49,045 --> 01:20:51,380
that's not your partner
and jacking off to them,
1603
01:20:51,380 --> 01:20:52,715
and watching
all this disgusting stuff,
1604
01:20:52,715 --> 01:20:54,884
and requesting videos,
and having a fun time
1605
01:20:54,884 --> 01:20:56,685
with someone other
than your partner,
that's cheating.
1606
01:20:56,685 --> 01:20:57,954
Some people
might look at it as not,
1607
01:20:57,954 --> 01:21:00,356
but to me,
that's disrespectful
and it's hurtful.
1608
01:21:00,356 --> 01:21:02,525
So for me,
I consider it cheating.
1609
01:21:05,428 --> 01:21:07,430
He did this before
and I nearly broke up with him
1610
01:21:07,430 --> 01:21:09,098
because it was like...
1611
01:21:29,152 --> 01:21:30,586
And my face is
getting really hot.
1612
01:21:32,956 --> 01:21:35,224
If I was back in England,
I would've left this guy.
1613
01:21:35,224 --> 01:21:36,392
He would've been history, goodbye.
1614
01:21:36,392 --> 01:21:37,826
I would've gone to my mom's
or my friends.
1615
01:21:37,826 --> 01:21:38,995
See you never.
1616
01:21:38,995 --> 01:21:39,996
Where am I supposed to go?
1617
01:21:39,996 --> 01:21:41,064
I'm in this house.
1618
01:21:41,064 --> 01:21:42,165
I've rented by myself
1619
01:21:42,165 --> 01:21:43,399
because I have
no friends to go.
1620
01:21:43,399 --> 01:21:44,667
I have no family member to go.
1621
01:21:44,667 --> 01:21:47,003
I have no at least a job,
staff, friends,
1622
01:21:47,003 --> 01:21:48,972
I don't have anything,
don't even have a car.
1623
01:21:48,972 --> 01:21:51,007
So it's like I don't have
anywhere to go.
1624
01:21:51,007 --> 01:21:52,241
I don't know
what I'm supposed to do now.
1625
01:21:52,241 --> 01:21:53,609
And obviously,
if I don't marry him,
1626
01:21:53,609 --> 01:21:54,777
I have to go home.
1627
01:21:54,777 --> 01:21:56,612
So I've given up everything
1628
01:21:56,612 --> 01:21:57,846
for nothing.
1629
01:22:00,516 --> 01:22:02,418
I don't wanna
throw away my whole life
1630
01:22:02,418 --> 01:22:03,686
that I've been trying to build
1631
01:22:03,686 --> 01:22:05,388
to be in LA with Rob.
1632
01:22:05,388 --> 01:22:06,489
It's like I've got...
1633
01:22:06,489 --> 01:22:07,991
I have to give up that.
1634
01:22:07,991 --> 01:22:09,225
I have to give up that dream.
1635
01:22:09,225 --> 01:22:11,194
And he just gets to live
this same [bleep] life
1636
01:22:11,194 --> 01:22:12,228
with no consequences.
1637
01:22:12,228 --> 01:22:13,329
He doesn't have to leave,
1638
01:22:13,329 --> 01:22:15,064
he just gets to do
what he's doing.
1639
01:22:26,875 --> 01:22:28,611
It's definitely very hard.
1640
01:22:31,714 --> 01:22:32,881
Sorry, one second.
1641
01:22:35,118 --> 01:22:37,720
When I don't have
anyone out here obviously,
1642
01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:39,322
and it's just me
and it's like,
1643
01:22:40,256 --> 01:22:42,258
I just feel very trapped,
and very alone,
1644
01:22:42,258 --> 01:22:44,360
and what he's done to me,
it's like I'm hurt,
1645
01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:46,029
but at the same time,
it's like...
1646
01:22:46,595 --> 01:22:48,231
I don't have anywhere to go,
1647
01:22:48,231 --> 01:22:50,099
and I don't really know
what I'm supposed to do.
1648
01:22:50,099 --> 01:22:51,700
And I just feel very...
1649
01:22:51,700 --> 01:22:53,036
It's a very lonely feeling
1650
01:22:53,036 --> 01:22:54,370
and it's very difficult
to process.
1651
01:22:54,370 --> 01:22:57,206
And my mind's just trying to,
like, block the pain.
1652
01:22:57,206 --> 01:22:58,607
But it's something...
1653
01:22:58,607 --> 01:23:00,243
It is a bit difficult.
1654
01:23:03,046 --> 01:23:05,181
I'm just really trying
not to think about it,
1655
01:23:05,914 --> 01:23:07,150
but it is hard.
1656
01:23:14,490 --> 01:23:15,424
That's the thing.
1657
01:23:15,424 --> 01:23:17,226
It's, like, it's not even
that he's hurt me,
1658
01:23:17,226 --> 01:23:18,527
it's that I don't...
1659
01:23:18,527 --> 01:23:20,563
What am I supposed to do now?
1660
01:23:34,610 --> 01:23:37,080
Next time
on 90 Day Fiance...
1661
01:23:37,846 --> 01:23:39,248
Aw, thank you...
1662
01:23:42,951 --> 01:23:44,553
I'm feeling
a lot of pressure
1663
01:23:44,553 --> 01:23:47,190
because Anali is
completely uprooting her life
1664
01:23:47,190 --> 01:23:49,225
to come here
and live with my mom.
1665
01:23:52,395 --> 01:23:54,863
If Anali and my mom
don't get along,
1666
01:23:54,863 --> 01:23:56,899
I honestly have no idea
what I'm gonna do.
1667
01:23:56,899 --> 01:23:58,367
Yeah.
1668
01:24:07,776 --> 01:24:09,645
We are going
to a couple's therapy
1669
01:24:09,645 --> 01:24:12,248
so I can assess
what we're dealing with.
1670
01:24:12,248 --> 01:24:14,683
But Manuel
wants no parts of it.
1671
01:24:18,887 --> 01:24:20,189
I just feel like...
1672
01:24:20,189 --> 01:24:22,125
It's, like,
he's leading a double life.
1673
01:24:28,631 --> 01:24:31,167
I can't marry someone
my family doesn't like,
1674
01:24:31,167 --> 01:24:32,868
so this can go bad.
1675
01:24:44,980 --> 01:24:48,551
This is not how I wanted
to meet my future in-laws.
1676
01:24:51,754 --> 01:24:53,156
Hi.
1677
01:24:55,358 --> 01:24:57,326
I'm very nervous tonight
1678
01:24:57,326 --> 01:24:59,662
'cause Nikki
meeting my friends.
1679
01:25:02,698 --> 01:25:04,233
It was kind of shock for me
1680
01:25:04,233 --> 01:25:08,404
that he choose to engage
with a trans woman.
1681
01:25:08,404 --> 01:25:09,872
When I changed my life,
1682
01:25:09,872 --> 01:25:11,039
I had to do a lot of things
1683
01:25:11,039 --> 01:25:12,475
that I wasn't happy with.
1684
01:25:12,475 --> 01:25:14,943
I was hooked on drugs.
I had to prostitute myself.
1685
01:25:21,450 --> 01:25:22,318
What is this?
1686
01:25:23,419 --> 01:25:25,388
I have no idea
how that got there
1687
01:25:25,388 --> 01:25:26,789
or how long it's been.
1688
01:25:34,330 --> 01:25:35,398
No, I'm not!
1689
01:25:35,398 --> 01:25:36,399
- Yes, you are.
- I never--
1690
01:25:36,399 --> 01:25:37,966
You [bleep] her!
1691
01:25:37,966 --> 01:25:39,001
That's not cheating.